chat_history: ['When I was 19 I stole money from a good friend in order to buy some food.  He asked me about it and I denied knowing anything.', 'did you pay him back?', "No, I was going to but he said if he every found out I stole it, it wouldn't matter if I paid it back.  So I kept silent, its been 17 years now."]
sys_response: thats good thetn
situation: I stole money from a good friend when I was a young adult.  I did it because I needed food, but have never been able to live it down.