chat_history: ['I found out my wife was having an affair, the worst part is i knew the guy and welcomed him in my home and was kind to him.', "Oh man, I'm really sorry you have to go through that. Betrayal like that is so painful. How are you doing?", "I'm learning to live my live without her, it's tough. Some honesty would have made the way it ended much better. Thanks for the kind words."]
sys_response: Of course, no one deserves to have their heartbroken like that. I hope you find someone who treats you with the respect and kindness you deserve.
situation: I found out my wife was having an affair with one of her co-workers, i had him over at our house and was kind to him.