chat_history: ["My wife has a big birthday coming up and I've got a great weekend all laid out for her.", 'Oh how exciting!  What do you have planned?', 'We are going to eat tonight. Then tomorrow we are having a big surprise party with her best friend. I even had a couple of her friends fly into town that she hasnt seen in years.']
sys_response: I bet she is going to be so surprised!  Is she hard to surpise?
situation: My wife's birthday is coming up. I got her a gift and the party planned out way ahead of time this year.