chat_history: ["My oldest and my husband have always had a rough relationship. I've got to believe that as she gets older, it will get better!", "I'm sure it will! I didn't get along with my dad until i became an adult.", "That's always good to hear. But in the moment -- argh, my *heart*. How did your mom maneuver the differences between y'all? Did that wear on her?"]
sys_response: Yes it did. I believe she just waited it out and tried to neutralize the conversation when we were together.
situation: While their relationship is rough now, I have to believe that my oldest child and husband will end up with a wonderful relationship.