chat_history: ['I was in an extremely dangerous abusive relationship at the time and I knew he was intending to put her in the middle of it all.   He intended to use her for leverage over me .', "It sounds like you're talking about two different people there instead of just one person.  I'm a little confused.", 'Oh my I am getting ahead of myself.  I was referring to when I had to put my daughter emerson up for adoption in 2011.']
sys_response: Ouch that sucks. I'm sorry to hear that.
situation: In 2011 I put my beautiful daughter emerson up for adoption.  THis was the hardest decision I have ever had to make.