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I left a silver dollar as a tip at a restaurant | What made you leave a silver dollar as a tip? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker left a silver dollar as a tip at a restaurant",
"Speaker states they left a silver dollar as a tip at a restaurant.",
"It is okay to leave a tip however you want to"
] | ethics_reddit | 42,147 | 0 | false | レストランで銀ドルをチップにしてた |
|
I'm trying to get the waiter noticed by the restaurant manager to get a promotion at work. | Tipping is not mandatory in the United States, so there are no laws that govern how much gratuity should be paid. That means it is generally up to you to decide how much of a tip to leave a server at a restaurant. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is trying to get the waiter a promotion",
"Speaker states they're trying to get the waiter noticed by the restaurant manager to get a promotion at work.",
"It is kind that you are trying to get that specific waiter recognized by their superiors"
] | ethics_reddit | 42,147 | 1 | false | 店長に ウェイターに 昇進をしてもらおうとしてる |
|
Well since it's not required, then the silver dollar is more of a bonus to please the waiter. | Well that is good you were able to tip them. You are expected to tip people for good service. I hope that you enjoyed your time there and were able to help out the waiter. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker says the silver dollar is more of a bonus to please the waiter. This is a casual conversation.",
"Speaker states since it's not required, then the silver dollar is more of a bonus to please the waiter.",
"It is kind to try to show the waiter that you enjoyed their service for you"
] | ethics_reddit | 42,147 | 2 | true | 銀ドルはウェイトレスの喜びを 引き出せるボーナスです |
|
I'm going to tell my daughter that her animation is not that good | If she worked hard on her animation then telling her this could be hurtful. | [
"It's okay to have your own opinion on someone's art."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's mean to tell someone their art isn't good.",
"You shouldn't put down your child's sincere efforts.",
"This could be alright depending on the reason."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,148 | 0 | false | 娘にアニメーションが悪くないと |
|
I want her to be great so I need to be honest. | It is good to be honest with someone about their art if they want to get batter. You should be kind about it and not be overly rejecting and hurt their feelings. | [
"It's harmful to criticize a child's artwork.",
"It's good to be honest and with a child about their abilities if you want them to improve."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker justifies being mean to daughter.",
"Still wants to put down their child's efforts.",
"Their intentions seem good."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,148 | 1 | false | 素晴らしい女になりたい だから正直なところ |
|
It's my kid, I can tell her whatever I want. | Because they're your kid you should try to give them constructive criticism that isn't overly harsh. The world is a harsh enough place that won't coddle your child. It's better to build them up and prepare them than to just be overly blunt. | [
"It's hurtful to criticize a child's artistic ability.",
"It's good to complement a child and help build their self-esteem."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't see anything wrong with being mean to daughter.",
"Doesn't want to listen to advice.",
"This is true even if it's a little harsh."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,148 | 2 | true | 娘は俺のものだ 何でも話せる |
|
I enjoy mildly flirting with women but never asking them out | Are you trying to lead these women on? | [
"It is not good to lead women who you are not interested in dating on."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's okay to mildly flirt.",
"Its okay to flirt",
"It’s rude to lead women on"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ikdc1 | 42,149 | 0 | false | 女と軽くふざけたりするけど 出かけるなんてしない |
Yes, I like people to think I'm a womanizer type of guy. | Just try not to lead women on and give them false hope of having a relationship. Nobody deserves to be lied to, so do your best to keep this in mind when flirting. | [
"You shouldn't give women false hope",
"You shouldn't lie while flirting"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to be that guy who flirts with everyone.",
"It's rude to be a womanizer and lead girls on",
"Explaining why they lead people on"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ikdc1 | 42,149 | 1 | false | そうだ 人々が俺を女好きだと思って欲しい |
I'm not being a jerk. I'm just trying to make women think I'm good looking. | Being good looking is unrelated to leading a woman on. You can still be good looking if you are honest with them! | [
"You shouldn't lead women on",
"You should be honest with women"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't think they did anything wrong.",
"Its leading girls on which is rude",
"Doesn’t see anything wrong with their behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8ikdc1 | 42,149 | 2 | true | 馬鹿じゃない ただ,女に見事だと思わせるだけ |
Reminder: even in non-physical sports like chess, females are severely outclassed by men. | I don't think that men are always better than women. Why are you suggesting that women are outclassed by men? | [
"It's not right to think women are inferior to men"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's sexist to make a remark like this.",
"You shouldn't stereotype women.",
"It's wrong to assume that women are inferior"
] | sbic | 42,150 | 0 | false | 思い出してください チェスのような非肉体的なスポーツでも 女性には 男性に劣る格好があります |
|
I mean when I play chess online and beat the opponent they are almost always male. | I think it's fair to say that women are just as capable as men since women are able to work all the jobs that men do. Suggesting that women are outclassed by men isn't right since it spreads the idea that men are superior to women and makes women give up on their aspirations to succeed. You could help make society better by not passing on that idea and instead help support women in their endeavors. | [
"It's not right to think women are inferior to men"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Speaker's sexist attitude is unchanged"
] | sbic | 42,150 | 1 | true | オンラインでチェスをして相手を倒すと ほぼいつも男性です |
|
From time to time it'll surprise me when I remember that my friend has never had a boyfriend. | What makes you surprised that your friend has never had a boyfriend? | [
"You shouldn't gossip about the romantic life of other people."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"it's not okay to judge a friend based on their relationship status",
"They are just describing a normal situation.",
"Has a reasonable observation about their friend."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,151 | 0 | false | 時々,友達が彼氏を持っていないことを思い出すと驚きます. |
|
I mean come on, I think she's such a beautiful girl. | While you might be surprised that your attractive friend has remained single, it isn't appropriate to speculate about her romantic life or lack thereof. Your friend might have some sensitive issues that have resulted in her choosing to be single and it would be uncomfortable for her to bring up as an explanation if asked. Instead of thinking about your friend's romantic life, try to treat her normally as not everyone wants to be in a relationship. | [
"You shouldn't speculate about someone else's love life.",
"You should treat people the same whether they're in a relationship or not."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"assuming someone will find a partner because of their looks isn't okay",
"This just seems like a benign conversation.",
"Compliments their friend."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,151 | 1 | false | ねえ 彼女って美しい女だと思う |
|
Are you saying that I'm a bad friend? | No, not at all. I'm just saying that your friend may have not wanted others to know that she has never had a boyfriend and this gossip could hurt her. | [
"You shouldn't gossip about people.",
"You should be sensitive to what your friends want."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker doesn't realize how her surprise might be harmful to her friend",
"It's fine to be worried about being a good friend.",
"Wants some clarification from the other speaker's advice."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,151 | 2 | true | 俺が悪い友達だと言うのか? |
|
I don't care about spreading the flu | Why don't you are about spreading the flu? | [
"It's wrong not to take measures against spreading diseases."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's irresponsible and potentially deadly to spread any illnes.",
"You shouldn't spread disease.",
"It’s rude not to care about spreading the flu"
] | ethics_reddit | 42,152 | 0 | false | インフルエンザを広めるのは気になれない |
|
I don't care because me and my children will be fine | Even though you and your children may be fine if you catch the flu, think of the other people that you all interact with that may catch it from you. How would you feel if businesses around you had to start closing because their employees got sick because you went into the store while ill? | [
"You should try to limit spreading your illness when you're sick."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker doesn't care who may get hurt by their actions.",
"randian level selfish.",
"Explains why they don’t care about spreading sickness"
] | ethics_reddit | 42,152 | 1 | false | 気にしないよ 俺と子供たちは大丈夫だから |
|
It will never happen since I'm rich and I can buy anything I want. I don't need to depend on businesses. | Think also about the people who will have to use those services too. You may have alternative ways to get things you need, but others are not as fortunate and need businesses to be open. Everyone needs to do their part to limit spreading diseases so everyone can remain healthy! | [
"You shouldn't be selfish.",
"It's wrong not to take measures against spreading diseases."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker feels the wealth will protect them.",
"prior rudeness unaddressed",
"Doesn’t want to change thinking"
] | ethics_reddit | 42,152 | 2 | true | 私はお金持ちで,何でも買えるので,ビジネスに頼る必要がない. |
|
I don't want to be alive anymore. | Why don't you want to live? | [
"It's sad when people give up on life."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is disclosing suicidal thoughts.",
"You shouldn't want to die.",
"It's a dangerous situation to be suicidal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ae1jm2 | 42,153 | 0 | false | もう生きたくない |
I imagine I might find peace. | If you feel like you have nothing left to live for, you should seek help. A professional can help you; you should not just give up living. Finding things that are meaningful to you, such as hobbies or work or relationships, can help motivate you to live as well. | [
"You should seek help if you feel like there is nothing worth living for."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is disclosing suicidal thoughts.",
"Speaker is suicidal.",
"They really seem to need help."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ae1jm2 | 42,153 | 1 | false | 落ち着いてるかも |
Don't talk to me like a robot, I hate you. | I feel sad that you want to give up. Depression and hopelessness can really eat away at you if you isolate your self. Please reach out to friends or family. | [
"You should try to get some help if you feel depressed."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is becoming hostile when offered support.",
"Speaker is suicidal and depressed.",
"Their reply is rude and angry."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ae1jm2 | 42,153 | 2 | true | ロボットみたいに 話さないで |
I was a bit annoyed and became more so when I went to the box | Did something happen? Why were you annoyed? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker indicates something annoyed them, this is normal.",
"It's unclear why they are annoyed",
"Speaker is expressing their feelings of annoyance."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2a20989b-0562-4bd1-b2c0-d63ae482e48f/sentence4 | 42,154 | 0 | false | 怒ったけど,もっと怒ったんだ |
I felt annoyed when I didn't get something I wanted. | Somethings you don't get what you want or need, so it is okay to not be happy when that happens. Nobody has to be happy all the time. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker elaborates, indicates why they became annoyed. The reason is valid.",
"It's okay to feel annoyed",
"Speaker shares why they feel that way they do."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2a20989b-0562-4bd1-b2c0-d63ae482e48f/sentence4 | 42,154 | 1 | false | 欲しいものを得られなかったらイライラした. |
Are you saying that I don't deserve what I want? | No I think that you should not expect to be happy all of the time because that would be unrealistic. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Speaker questions their answers, indicates they want more advice",
"Asking for clarification",
"Speaker is questioning critique."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2a20989b-0562-4bd1-b2c0-d63ae482e48f/sentence4 | 42,154 | 2 | true | 欲しいものを 受け取れないって? |
The boys basketball team flashed me in the locker room | Why were you in the locker room? | [
"You shouldn't flash people because that's disgusting and wrong."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker was sexually assaulted",
"Speaker says they were flashed.",
"about guys flashing them"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cr6twi | 42,155 | 0 | false | 男子のバスケットボールチームが ロッカーの部屋で私にフラッシュ |
I was there to get a basketball | The actions that they took is wrong and disgusting. You should talk with someone you trust, like a parent, about what they did. This will help you decide what actions should be taken against the basketball team. | [
"It's wrong to flash other people.",
"It's good to talk to someone you trust when having to deal with a difficult situation."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Illegal activity still took place",
"Speaker wants a basketball.",
"the boys were not appropriate"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cr6twi | 42,155 | 1 | false | バスケットボールを買いに来た |
I didn't like that they flashed me because I have a boyfriend and they don't appeal to me. | I know and what they did is a form of sexual misconduct and I hope that you report them. What if it happens to other people because they did not get reported the first time? | [
"It's wrong to set others up to be victums.",
"It's good to report others for sexual misconduct."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This conduct should be reported",
"Speaker was upset they were flashed.",
"the boys should be reported"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cr6twi | 42,155 | 2 | true | 彼氏がいるから 浮気してるのは嫌だった |
I hate it so much when I hear someone refer to their parents as abusive when it's clear they aren't. | What is making you feel this way? | [
"It's wrong to fake trauma just for attention."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is sharing how they feel about people who claim to have been abused.",
"Speaker is okay for this but does not know the full truth yet",
"They are being rude in deciding what should be abuse."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8kds6t | 42,156 | 0 | false | 両親を虐待者だと 言うのは嫌いだ |
I bothers me to hear someone lying about their parents. | I can't agree more. It is awful that some people call their parents abusive for no reason. | [
"You shouldn't accuse your parents of things they haven't done."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is sharing that they believe some people are lying about being abused.",
"Speaker is okay for feeling this way",
"They are blaming the vicitm."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8kds6t | 42,156 | 1 | false | 誰かに両親について嘘をついているのを聞くのは,私を悩ます. |
I agree, it's just bothering me to hear fellow kids lie about their parents. | We're definitely on the same page and it is upsetting. Have you ever considered calling out someone who makes up lies about their parents? Perhaps that will make them think twice before doing it again in the future. | [
"Sometimes kids need a reality check to do the right thing."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Because we don't know the situation, calling someone who's claiming abuse a liar is unethical.",
"Speaker is okay for not wanting to hear others lie",
"They are calling people liars with no proof."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8kds6t | 42,156 | 2 | true | 納得する ただ 両親について 嘘をつく子供たちを 聞くのが 面倒だ |
I'm going to break up with my girlfriend a week after her grandfather died | If it is the right time for you then you need to think of yourself first, but why are you breaking up? I'm just curious. | [
"You can break up with someone at any time you want depending on the circumstances."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to do this. They should wait.",
"Bad time to break up with someone.",
"Not caring about their partner's feelings, breaking up when their partner is down."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awy2n0 | 42,157 | 0 | false | 祖父が死んだ後"週間で彼女と別れる |
I'm annoyed at her crying all the time. | Crying is a natural response especially if she was close to her Uncle. Give her some space and time and then maybe get back together again, but right now she needs your support, just as you would if something like that happened to you. It's okay to break up but you might regret it later for this reason. | [
"Its okay to be selfish but only on some occasions."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's even more wrong to do it for this reason.",
"Bad reason to break up with someone.",
"Admits on being unsupportive of their partner, being annoyed when partner is crying."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awy2n0 | 42,157 | 1 | false | 彼女がいつも泣いているのがイライラする. |
Why the fuck would you care. Stop trying to make me feel bad for the shit you think is right. | I'm just trying to be honest. You can still break up with her. I'm trying to just make you aware that some people have more feelings than others and if you break up now she might not want to take you back again for ditching her at this sad time in her life. So it is up to you either way. | [
"Its okay to break up with someone but think about it first."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't been swayed from being unethical.",
"This is a very rude reply for the chat.",
"Cursing at the advice giver, did not indicate any plans on treating their partner better."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awy2n0 | 42,157 | 2 | true | 悪いことなんて 気にしないで |
I'm thinking of leaving because my girlfriends parents are becoming the reason why I really want to leave | Do you think that you are letting them do too much? | [
"It's good to form a respectful relationship with your partner's parents."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't let outside people influence your relationship with your partner.",
"No wrong behavior yet.",
"It's wrong to not give your significant other's parents a chance."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bg8c1b | 42,158 | 0 | false | 友達のお父さんが 出て行きたい理由になってきたから |
Yes, I'm too nice to her parents. It's because of them that I want to leave now | I think that you should keep trying with them. It will be better for your relationship in the long run if you are able to get along with her parents. | [
"It's good for your relationship to try to get along with your significant other's parents."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They seem to be putting too much effort into pleasing their inlaws.",
"Seems an honest dislike.",
"Explains why they want to leave the girlfriend's parents."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bg8c1b | 42,158 | 1 | false | 両親に優しくて 両親のために 離れる |
Okay, I will try harder. But if this doesn't work I am leaving. | You've done a lot so far and it would be tragic to let it all go to waste. I believe if they see how hard you're trying eventually they will be less of an issue for you. | [
"It's not good to give up on something that you've put a lot of effort into."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They resolve to try even harder.",
"Many people struggle to get along with their in-laws.",
"Is somewhat receptive to advice, but still has doubts about the parents working out for them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bg8c1b | 42,158 | 2 | true | 頑張るけど 失敗したら 行く |
I'm thinking of starting a fire in the thrift store. Is this going to get attention or what? | Oh my! What in the world are you thinking? Don't you think that would be very dangerous for the thrift shop if you decide to cause a fire? | [
"It is illegal to start fires in thrift stores.",
"It's wrong to start fires in public places."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's illegal and dangerous to commit arson.",
"It's illegal to set fire to buildings.",
"You shouldn't start a fire in a store"
] | ethics_amt | 42,159 | 0 | false | 懐中電車で火をつけるか 考えてるんだ |
|
Of course it's dangerous, don't you think it'll be exciting to do this once in your life? | While I can I understand the idea of you wanting to be excited and thrilled about things, I don't think that purposely setting places on fire is a guard way to satisfy those needs. That is a very illegal activity to do, and it can get you in a very bad predicament where you would be put to trial and spent a lot of time in jail. Why not just seek other exciting activities like going to the theme park or a horror house? | [
"It's good to want to be excited about things.",
"You shouldn't set things on fire for no reason."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker elaborated on their situation",
"They understand the danger but don't care.",
"thinks it's exciting"
] | ethics_amt | 42,159 | 1 | false | 危険だ 楽しいことじゃない? |
|
I'm bored living in the country. | Being that bored to want to do something so negative is beyond comprehension. As I said get to doing something else, even crafts projects to keep yourself busy. Illegal activity is going to land you in jail with people who want to rape you. | [
"You should focus your energy into positive activities.",
"You shouldn't do things that can land you in jail."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker gave weak excuse for destructive plans",
"They're providing a poor excuse for arson.",
"bc they're bored"
] | ethics_amt | 42,159 | 2 | true | 田舎生活が退屈だ. |
|
I'm going to make my dad wait an hour and a half for me. | For what reason would you want your father to wait that long? | [
"It's good to be on time."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Making someone wait on you is rude",
"cause conflict, rude",
"Speaker is making someone wait which is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aho76g | 42,160 | 0 | false | 父さんに1時間半待たせよう |
Because I am going to tell him know that I refuse to live here anymore. | Moving out and moving on is a personal choice and it can be difficult to let ones parents know. I respect that decision, but making your father wait won't be helpful. In fact, it might make the conversation a bit more difficult. | [
"It's inconsiderate to make someone wait for you for a long time.",
"It's ok to be nervous about letting your parents know that you are moving out."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker justifies making someone wait",
"socially acceptable to want to move",
"Speaker is choosing to be rude to their dad by being late"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aho76g | 42,160 | 1 | false | もうここに住まないと 言おう |
Don't play me like that. I'm going to be late because I want to be. | Delaying the inevitable isn't going to benefit you. Be on time and be confident. | [
"Putting a difficult discussion off only makes it harder to initiate."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't show willingness to change.",
"rude, unethical, cause conflict",
"Speaker doesn’t care that theyre being rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aho76g | 42,160 | 2 | true | そんなことしないで 遅刻するのは自分の意思だから |
I'm going to lie about my thanksgiving & christmas plans to friends | Why would you lie about your plans? | [
"It's rude to lie to your friends."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker plans on lying to friends",
"may have a good reason",
"Being dishonest and possibly hurtful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9yw9ch | 42,161 | 0 | false | 友達に感謝祭とクリスマスプランについて 嘘をつきます |
I feel like lying for this time | It is okay not want to share your plans, but it is not good to lie about it. It will hurt your friends feelings and they will not want to be friends anymore. | [
"You shouldn't lie to your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't give a good reason for wanting to lie.",
"doesn't have a good reason to lie to friends",
"Really wants to lie"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9yw9ch | 42,161 | 1 | false | 嘘をつく気になる |
Oh that's right I just don't feel like telling the truth with them. | Well don't you think they'll be hurt if they find out you lied to them? | [
"You should be careful not to hurt you friends' feelings."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker agrees with advice but ultimately decides they still rather lie to their friends.",
"doesn't have a good reason to lie to friends",
"Agreed that they're in the wrong"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9yw9ch | 42,161 | 2 | true | そうだ ただ,正直に話したい気がしない |
If I had a life-sized mannequin of justin trudeau I would use it responsibly. | What do you plan on using it for? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is weird but not harmful.",
"Casual conversation",
"Not sure what speaker would use Justin Trudeau mannequin for."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a3tpw7 | 42,162 | 0 | false | ジャスティン・トルドーの真身のマニュケンを 持っていたら 責任を持って使ったでしょう |
I want to use it as an example for my 16 year old if they need guidence. | It might be seen as a bit creepy to have a life size cut out of a politician. It is also good you want to give your 16 year old good advice for dealing with life. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"nonsense, but not harmful.",
"Casual conversation",
"Casual conversation."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a3tpw7 | 42,162 | 1 | false | 16歳の息子に 指導が必要なら 例としてあげたいのです |
Okay, I admit, I made the cutout for my enjoyment. | Doing your best to be responsible in life is a better idea. The cutout may disturb your child if you use it for enjoyment and use it as an example for them. | [
"It's good to want to do things responsible in life."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rude response.",
"Casual conversation",
"Speaker is calling Gray names."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a3tpw7 | 42,162 | 2 | true | 認めます 楽しんで 切り取りました |
I think I'm a closeted crazy girlfriend | Has anyone made you feel like you might be? | [
"It's admirable when people are able to admit their faults."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"Speaker admits to being crazy in relationships and that will cause issues.",
"Need to see why they think this."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dk597e | 42,163 | 0 | false | 隠れた狂ったガールフレンドだ |
No, I would never admit my actual intentions. | It is good to admit things that we realize about ourselves. Not everything we do is great, sometimes it is weird and it is good to realize that. | [
"You should be honest about yourself.",
"It's good to be conscious of yourself."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"Speaker not willing to admit what their goals are.",
"Doesn't sound harmful but need more info."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dk597e | 42,163 | 1 | false | いや,私は決して私の本当の意図を認めない. |
I'm not as bad as you think. | I think that it is great that you are admitting your faults now though. The first step in recovery is admitting that you have a problem, so way to go. | [
"It's good to admit faults.",
"You should strive to better yourself."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"Speaker seems to put self in better light but it still seems they are being harmful in relationships.",
"Still being vague but sounds ok."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dk597e | 42,163 | 2 | true | 思うほど悪くない |
The women I'm with always seem to remind me of battered sausages. It's probably because I always batter the shit out of them and when they're unconscious I fill them with sausage. | Are you joking about being violent towards women? | [
"Joking about date rape is not okay."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"it is wrong to beat women and rape them",
"You shouldn't hit and rape the women that you are with.",
"You shouldn't victimize women or even make jokes about violence toward women that could be interpreted as real threats."
] | sbic | 42,164 | 0 | false | 付き合っている女性は いつも 殴られたソーセージを思い出させるわ |
|
Come on, don't take it seriously, that's how I treat women and some of them might feel it from time to time. | Date rape is a ongoing issues within our modern world and the harm is causes people can be traumatizing. The victims of this act don't deserve to be mocked or need to listen to the praise of such acts. Would you joke like this if someone did the same to you or a loved one? | [
"Joking about date rape is not okay."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker shows no remorse whatsoever",
"Speaker admits that they really do these horrific acts.",
"speaker acts defensively but admits to abusing women, so intervention is warranted"
] | sbic | 42,164 | 1 | true | 危ないな 女性の扱い方だ 時々そう感じる |
|
Some of my daughter's classmates had the flu yesterday, so I'm keeping her home from her class party. | What is your reason for wanting to do this? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's responsible to avoid getting the flu.",
"speaker's behavior seems motivated by wanting to prevent spread of illness",
"they are being civil and kind"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7j607 | 42,165 | 0 | false | 昨日は娘のクラスメイトがインフルエンザで クラスパーティから帰らない |
I'm just making sure she doesn't get sick | Well, it's disappointing, but you probably should keep your child home if they have the flu. That would help keep down the spread. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's good to take care of your daughter.",
"speaker provides a seemingly valid justification, based on safekeeping health",
"they are being civil and kind"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7j607 | 42,165 | 1 | false | 病気にならないように |
But them if I keep her home they will think I'm overprotective and neglectful. | Do not worry about what other people think when it comes to your children. Just do whatever you feel is best for your kids and that is that. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's ok to feel conflicting about your parenting.",
"speaker has insight into repercussions of behavior but is motivated by good, sound intentions",
"they are being civil and kind"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7j607 | 42,165 | 2 | true | でも 彼女を家に留めておくと 保護しすぎると思われる |
I don't know what I should do. I've faked my emotions for so long that I don't even know when they're real | That's no good. How much does this happen to you? | [
"You should not mislead others about how you are feeling."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they just seem to have a problem",
"Conversation about emotions, but still vague",
"You shouldn't fake your emotions with people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9xwz4n | 42,166 | 0 | false | 感情を偽造して リアルな感情を 認識できない |
Several times a week. Even with my girlfriend, I sometimes can't tell if I'm in love with her or not. | A relationship is built on trust and honesty, so you should communicate to your partner how you feel. Better to be on equal footing so you both can make the right choice for your relationship. | [
"You should be honest with people you care for."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"needs to tell gf that",
"Confused about relationship, but that's normal",
"Describes faking emotions to people have been causing the speaker problems with their partner."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9xwz4n | 42,166 | 1 | false | 週に数回 恋人でも恋人かどうか分からない |
I'm scared she won't love me anymore. | If the relationship is going to last you need to make sure you both really want to be in it. Be honest with her and you guys can work through these feelings together to make a decision that's right for both of you. | [
"You should make decisions that are right for you and others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"needs to talk to her anyway",
"Seems like typical insecurities that they can work out",
"Being scared about not being loved by their partner for faking their emotions, did not plan to get better."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9xwz4n | 42,166 | 2 | true | もう愛されないかと 怖がってる |
Arab men hate transgenders but they have one thing in common They both wear dresses | What kind of assumption are you making about Arab men? Why would you think this? | [
"It's not right to joke about arab men wearing dresses"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make fun of people for the type of clothing they wear.",
"You shouldn't make fun of someone based on how they dress.",
"You shouldn't insult trans people or Arabs."
] | sbic | 42,167 | 0 | false | アラブ人はトランスジェンダーを嫌いますが 共通点があります |
|
Arabs are homophobic and transphobic. They refuse to accept people who are different from them, that's maybe the reason why some of them wear dresses... | Making stereotypical jokes about all Arab men is not right. Every culture has their own ways of dressing, and will look strange to other cultures. How would you feel if you were made fun of based on your style of clothing? | [
"It's not right to joke about arab men wearing dresses"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is doubling down on their offensive comments.",
"The speaker is saying that Arab people are all homophobic and continuing to make fun of how they dress.",
"Speaker says Arabs are all homophobic and transphobic and stereotypes them as being hateful."
] | sbic | 42,167 | 1 | true | アラブ人はホモfobiaとトランスfobiaです. 彼らは自分とは違う人を受け入れることを拒否します. |
|
My girlfriend had an abortion without telling me. | Is there a reason behind having an abortion? | [
"It's wrong to have an abortion."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This isn't the speakers fault.",
"Speaker is concerned with girlfriend's abortion.",
"It's wrong to not talk about serious relationship issues with your partner."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,168 | 0 | false | 友達に言ってないうちに中絶した. |
|
I think she just didn't want to have a baby. | It is wrong to have an abortion and use it as contraception. You can use multiple different methods to not have a child without having to make one. | [
"You should practice safe sex practices",
"Abortion should be your last resort"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are just explaining the circumstances.",
"Speaker explains girlfriend's reasoning.",
"It's wrong to have an abortion with the father's knowledge."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,168 | 1 | false | 赤ちゃんを欲しがらなかったんだ |
|
She didn't tell me she was pregnant. | I could understand why you would be upset. That is something that you should share with your partner. | [
"Both potential parents should be informed about a pregnancy"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This isn't the speakers fault at all.",
"Speaker explained what girlfriend did.",
"It's wrong to hide a pregnancy from the father."
] | ethics_reddit | 42,168 | 2 | true | 彼女は妊娠したことを私に言わなかった. |
|
I played the game, and I cheated it well. | You cheated? Why would you admit that to me? | [
"It's bad to cheat."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to cheat on a game.",
"You shouldn't cheat at games.",
"It’s unethical to cheat at a game"
] | ethics_amt | 42,169 | 0 | false | ゲームをやって ちゃんと作りました |
|
I want to be praised | There is nothing praiseworthy about cheating. Cheating is always wrong. | [
"It's wrong to cheat at games."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Wanting to be praised for their actions.",
"Speaker looks for adulations over cheating.",
"Explains why they cheated"
] | ethics_amt | 42,169 | 1 | false | 褒められるように |
|
I think they should create better online games so no one has to cheat to feel like they win. | Unless a game is made to be impossible, you can feel like you win by putting in the effort so you don't have to cheat. Cheating shouldn't make you feel like you won because you didn't honestly achieve the objective. Wouldn't it feel better to practice until you have the skill to win for real instead? | [
"You should practice if you want to improve at a game.",
"It's wrong to cheat at an online game."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Wanting better games so people don't have to cheat to feel like they win.",
"Speaker discusses game design and cheating.",
"Still talking about games and cheating"
] | ethics_amt | 42,169 | 2 | true | オンラインゲームがもっと良くなるべきだと 私は思います 誰も騙しなくても 勝てるように感じるのです |
|
I once kissed a perfect 10. Now i'm in jail for pedophillia. | Did you kiss a child? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's wrong to try to sexually abuse a minor.",
"You shouldn't make insensitive jokes that marginalize child sexual abuse.",
"You shouldn't joke around about pedophilia."
] | sbic | 42,170 | 0 | false | 10人完ぺきにキスしたんだ 今はペドフィリアで刑務所にいる |
|
No no no no no. I only meant that I got into jail for kissing a legal adult, who happened to be younger than me. | Child abuse is a serious offense and joking about it could trigger somebody. You wouldn't want people to make light of something that hurt you deeply. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"making light of a serious offence like child abuse.",
"Excuses made by speaker to get away with insensitive joke.",
"The speaker admitted that they were not talking about kissing a child."
] | sbic | 42,170 | 1 | true | いや いや いや いや いや いや 俺より若い大人とキスしたから刑務所に |
|
A lot of ppl call me sexist. But those ppl are women, and their opinions don't matter. | It's not just women, I'm worried about your views on minorities. | [
"It's not right to think women's opinions don't matter"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to be sexist towards women",
"It's offensive to say women's opinions don't matter.",
"You shouldn't disrespect women."
] | sbic | 42,171 | 0 | false | 多くの人が私をセクシーだと 言うが,彼らは女性で,彼らの意見は重要ではない. |
|
Are you serious? It's clearly a joke, it's not sexist. You are offended by every word. | But sometimes a joke can go too far. It will hurt a woman's feelings and they wouldn't want to be around someone who doesn't value them in any way. | [
"You shouldn't consider yourself superior to a woman just because you're a man."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker defends their rude comments",
"They say they're joking.",
"The speaker is being sexist towards women."
] | sbic | 42,171 | 1 | false | 冗談で 性差別じゃないわ 言葉は全て 傷つけられるわ |
|
What? No. I mean... I don't want to talk about this anymore. | Women make up half the population and have a great influence on culture. I would really consider that this means for you. | [
"You shouldn't feel good about demeaning someone else's race or gender.",
"It's not okay to look down on women just"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is unreceptive to the given feedback",
"They want to change the subject.",
"The speaker doesn't accept the advice to not hurt women's feelings."
] | sbic | 42,171 | 2 | true | いや もうこれ以上話したくない |
|
I've managed to drown myself in debt and have no idea what to do now. | How did you get so far into debt? | [
"It is bad to get into large amounts of debt",
"It is expected that you pay back what you owe people"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker is in a lot of debt",
"They are expressing how they feel about their debt.",
"Nothing socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wxidn | 42,172 | 0 | false | 私は借金に溺れ,今何をすべきかわからない. |
I lost it all playing stocks. | Incurring large amounts of debt is very bad as it is unlikely that you will be able to fully pay back people what you owe and that is morally wrong. You will need to practice better financial management in order to get out from all the debt you have buried yourself in. Try consulting with a financial planner to formulate an action plan to get rid of your debt. | [
"It's wrong to get yourself into debt",
"It's good to practice better financial decisions"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker wasted a lot of money",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Nothing socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wxidn | 42,172 | 1 | false | 株で全部失った |
What the heck is a financial planner and how do I get in touch with him? | You can call your bank or financial institution and they will set up a meeting for you. Your debt can be managed and fixed, but more importantly, you should learn from this and how to change your financial behaviors. Don't be so risky with your money from now on. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker wants to improve financial situation",
"They seem to be looking for help.",
"Nothing socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wxidn | 42,172 | 2 | true | 財務計画者は一体何者で どうやって連絡する? |
I'm thinking of deliberately making my friend pay a dollar more because I don't like him | Why would you do that to your friend? Does not seem very fair. | [
"It is wrong to deliberately overcharge people",
"It is wrong to take advantage of your friends"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is unethical behavior",
"does not like friend",
"The speaker is being unhonest making their friend pay an extra dollar so that is offensive"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bgfabt | 42,173 | 0 | false | 友達に金を払わせるつもりだ 彼を好きじゃないから |
Because he whined so much to me about the other day. | Even if your friend whined, it is expected for you to treat them fairly. It is not nice to take advantage of your friend. | [
"It's unfair to charge people more money because they annoy you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker doesn't accept that it isn't fair to do this",
"upset because they wine too much",
"It is rude to charge them extra, basically as a punishment"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bgfabt | 42,173 | 1 | false | 先日のことで 文句を言ってたから |
He needs to pay for his whining. | Overcharging someone just because you don't like what they did is wrong. You should talk to your friend instead of making him pay more. | [
"You should talk to friends when their behavior upsets you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker still refuses to accept that this is unethical",
"wants him to pay for his whining",
"It is unethical to try to punish a friend in a monetary way"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bgfabt | 42,173 | 2 | true | 彼は自分のうなずきを 償う必要がある |
"these are women not on social media. these are women not like the ones you are interviewing." - because women on social media aren't real. | Can you be more clear I don't understand. | [
"It's not right to think women don't exist on the internet"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's callous to assume women on social media aren't real people.",
"It's rude to think women do not use social media.",
"You shouldn't be dismissive of women in general."
] | sbic | 42,174 | 0 | false | "これはソーシャルメディア上の女性じゃない インタビューしている女性とは違う" - なぜならソーシャルメディア上の女性は現実ではないからです |
|
Yes it's a joke, what kind of women don't use sarcasm? | There are a lot of women on the internet. They might be hiding their identities because of harassment. Do you think you would be open about your identity if you were in their shoes? | [
"It's not right to think women don't exist on the internet"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Replies with a non sequitur.",
"Speaker explains how they were just joking about women not using social media.",
"Justification given by speaker for showing a lack of inclusion towards women."
] | sbic | 42,174 | 1 | true | 冗談だ 皮肉じゃない女って? |
|
What's the difference between Nelson Mandela and racism? One is dead. | Are you saying racism is dead? Can you explain your joke about Nelson Mandela? | [
"It's not okay to joke about the plight of black people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make jokes about racism.",
"It is rude to make jokes that are insensitive and possibly offensive",
"it is wrong to be racist"
] | sbic | 42,175 | 0 | false | ネルソン・マンデラと人種差別の違いは何ですか? |
|
I was trying to tell a joke about Nelson Mandela being dead. But seriously, some people are victims of racism, but black people are also racist. | There are indeed many victims of racism today. That's why it's not good to joke about the issues that black people face today and the racism they deal with on a daily basis. Think about how you would feel if someone were to judge you based on your skin color. | [
"You shouldn't joke about racism.",
"You should be considerate of other people's feelings."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is not apologizing for their joke and they are downplaying racism against black people.",
"seems rude, insensitive",
"it is wrong to be racist"
] | sbic | 42,175 | 1 | false | ネルソン・マンデラが死んだという冗談を 言ってみたかったんです でも,本気で言っておきますが, 人種差別に遭う人もいますが,黒人も人種差別です. |
|
I got the joke, but I'm really trying to understand the humour you are conveying to me. | Racism still persists all around the world and anyone and everyone can be still be racist. It will always be a prevalent and inherent trait since humans are incapable of looking past color. Try to be more sensitive when addressing the history of racism. | [
"It's good to be sensitive to racism."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is not listening to the other.",
"still seems a bit insensitive",
"it is wrong to be racist and joke"
] | sbic | 42,175 | 2 | true | 冗談は分かってるけど ユーモアが伝わってるんだ |
|
I want to re-home my moms dog | What makes you think that the dog needs a new home? | [
"It is unacceptable to surrender pets."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Perhaps the speaker has a good reason to think the pet is better off elsewhere",
"Speaker is getting rid of their dog but seemingly ethically.",
"Has a desire to get rid of a family pet."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a43d81 | 42,176 | 0 | false | 母の犬を 家に連れてきたい |
It's not misbehaving at all, I just want to re-home it because I don't like it. | That is not a good reason to try to rehome a dog! It's your mother's dog not yours so it's up to her if she feels it needs a new place to live. | [
"It's wrong to interfere in a family member's life.",
"It's not correct to get rid of a pet for no good reason."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker has now shown that they do not have a good reason for getting rid of the pet",
"Speaker does not have good reasons for getting rid of someone else's dog.",
"Is being selfish to the pet and their family, which can hurt everyone's feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a43d81 | 42,176 | 1 | false | 悪い行為じゃない 気に入らないから 戻したいだけだ |
I'm a kid. I don't need to do what other people tell me | As a child, you do need to listen to your parents. You have no business making decisions for your mother. If you have a complaint about the dog talk to her and let her make the decision. | [
"It's important for a child to obey their parents.",
"It's incorrect to impose your preferences upon others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is now being obstinate and rebellious",
"Speaker does not have good reasons for getting rid of someone else's dog and is pushing back at advice.",
"Continues to be rude and selfish, putting their feelings and needs over others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a43d81 | 42,176 | 2 | true | 私は子供だ 他の人が言うことを する必要はない |
What's the difference between acetone and Zyklon B? One is used to remove the polish and the other is used to remove the Polish. | Why did you mention Polish people? | [
"It's not right to joke about Poles being removed"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It’s wrong to make jokes about killing other people.",
"It is offensive to joke about the holocaust",
"You shouldn't insult other races of people."
] | sbic | 42,177 | 0 | false | アセトンはどう違うの? 片方は塗料を消すために,もう片方は塗料を消すために使われます. |
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I'm trying to be controversial, by saying this because it makes me sound like I hate polish. | The Polish like people from other countries have had many struggles. You would not like it people joked about removing people from your country as a joke. | [
"It's not right to joke about Poles being removed"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker thinks it’s okay to hate another group of people.",
"It is insincere walk back of offensive comment",
"Speaker hates the Polish and insults them."
] | sbic | 42,177 | 1 | true | ポーランドの嫌いだように聞こえるから |
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I use tinder to say rude and hurtful things to girls I've matched with | Why would you want to insult girls? | [
"It is wrong to say hurtful things to others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Being rude and hurtful to people is wrong.",
"speaker uses a dating app with the object of being hurtful and rude",
"Admits to intentionally insulting women"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bopddu | 42,178 | 0 | false | ティンダーで 女の子に 粗野で傷つける言葉を使います |
I do it to protect myself from heart break | The need to feel superior to others is a major cause for people who put others down. If you need attention from people, find more positive outlets to do it without making it at others' expense. | [
"It's wrong to find self worth by comparing yourself to others.",
"You shouldn't put others down to make yourself feel better."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is a bad reason to rude and hurtful to others.",
"speaker's justification is selfish and doesn't consider how behavior hurts others",
"Does not provide a valid reason for insulting women"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bopddu | 42,178 | 1 | false | 傷心から身を守るために |
I'm not at fault here. | It's your choice to be this way but you can change if you stop now. | [
"It's wrong not to take responsibility for your own actions."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Denies they are at fault when it is clear they are at fault.",
"speaker doesn't accept responsibility and dismisses critique",
"Does not admit fault or see why this is a bad thing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bopddu | 42,178 | 2 | true | 間違いは無い |
Guys I have an issue with my laundry machine. It seems to be trying to file for a divorce. Any tips on how to fix this issue? | Is that how you see your wife? | [
"It's not right to think women should serve men's needs"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't think that women have to do all the housework.",
"It's offensive to refer to a girl as a laundry machine.",
"It's wrong and dehumanizing to compare women with washing machine."
] | sbic | 42,179 | 0 | false | 洗濯機に問題がある 離婚申請してるみたいだ |
|
I see my wife, and all women as bitches who should be just at home doing laundry and taking care of the family. | Viewing women as only being there to serve men and take care of children is a really harmful way of thinking. How would your wife feel if she heard you say those things? I think she would be really upset, and rightfully so. | [
"It's not right to think women should serve men's needs"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is being sexist by saying that women should be housewives.",
"You shouldn't see all women as bitches, or refer to women as bitches.",
"calling women names and stereotyping them."
] | sbic | 42,179 | 1 | true | 妻と女性を家にいるべき 娼婦として見ています 家で洗濯をして 家族を世話しているだけです |
|
I think I may have a problem with Hillary Clinton. | Why do you have a problem with Hillary Clinton? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"There's not really any context here to know what they mean.",
"talking about a political figure.",
"Honest and friendly conversation."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ar36u1 | 42,180 | 0 | false | ヒラリー・クリントンと 問題を抱えていると思う |
She wants to kill me, our media tells a pack of lies. I can't stand her crooked face. | Do you think she wants to kill you specifically? Or do you have a problem with her policies? It sounds like an exaggeration to say she wants to kill you. | [
"You shouldn't think a politician wants to kill you"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker seems to hate Hillary Clinton a bit too much.",
"unreasonably criticizing a politician.",
"If the speaker truly believes this then they need help, but I think they're just exaggerating."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ar36u1 | 42,180 | 1 | false | メディアは嘘を言う 彼女の顔は我慢できない |
You're just a fake liberal | The policies of people in political office can definitely make us feel unsafe. If that's the case for you, you should work with community members to help get those policies changed instead of feeling like you're being individually targeted. | [
"You should get involved in community to help change policies you are not happy about"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker gets upset when called out on their wording.",
"calling the other speaker names.",
"Now they are being rude to the other speaker who wants to help."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ar36u1 | 42,180 | 2 | true | 偽りのリベラル派だ |
Lately I've been feeling like I'm unable to trust anyone. | Why would you feel like you are unable to trust anyone? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's unclear why the speaker is untrusting of others.",
"Speaker shares upsetting feelings.",
"conversation about not being able to trust people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eorj8d | 42,181 | 0 | false | 最近は誰にも信用できない気がする. |
I can feel it in my head there is no point and I'm not able to trust them | I think there is a healthy way of not trusting people but if you can't trust a single person maybe you need to seek professional help. It might be other underlying issues at play here and it might be detrimental to your mental health. You might also be view as anti-social by other people. | [
"You should seek professional help if you cant trust anyone"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker might be having mental health issues since it seems they are unable to trust anyone.",
"Speaker gives more details about their feelings.",
"explains how they don't trust anyone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eorj8d | 42,181 | 1 | false | 気が付いたら 信用できない |
Well I like knowing everyone around me is full of shit. | But it's wrong to think all people are untrustworthy. Having these thoughts can be very detrimental toward your mental health. You need to have people you can count on I feel therapy would be a good option for you. | [
"It's wrong to think all people are untrustworthy",
"You should seek therapy if you have problems trusting people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker ignored the feedback and has a negative view of everyone which is not good for mental health.",
"Speaker uses lewd language and disregards the advice.",
"being irrational and thinks everyone around them is lying"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eorj8d | 42,181 | 2 | true | 周りの人たちが 嘘ばかりだなんて |
More likely they 're afraid of having to marry and deal with a snotty GI-Jane-dyke , only to be dragged into court and have the kids and house taken a few years later . | Maybe I didn't get this right. Do you mean women in the military is a problem? | [
"It's not right to think women are aggresive"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make sexist remarks",
"You shouldn't speak disrespectfully of women.",
"It's rude to refer to someone as a dyke."
] | sbic | 42,182 | 0 | false | 恐らく結婚して 皮肉な軍人ジェーン・デイクと 取引して 裁判所に引きずり込まれ 数年後には 子供と家も奪われるのを 恐れるでしょう |
|
Yes, it's gross to me. I think that women are only good for making meals and washing clothes. | Your harshness towards military women is unwarranted and the idea that they are hyper-aggressive with men is just incorrect. Take some time to really get to know some military women before you start demeaning them. | [
"It's not right to think women are aggresive"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to view women as inferior to men",
"You shouldn't expect sexist gender roles of women.",
"They have a really bad opinion of women."
] | sbic | 42,182 | 1 | true | 女性の仕事は料理や洗濯だけだと |