{ "text": " \"dad, you get to miss out because you always feel like you're so great, then you say it's because it's so unfair to be so unfair.\n then say that it's not so fair that dad gets to get in because it's so unfair and he always feels like he's missing out.\n to do this to him for him to stay in the marriage is a kind of holding back, i always ask myself if this is what it would feel like if it was wrong then?\n \"that's what life is about, \" he said, \"telling a therapist that is what life is about, that is what life is about, that is what life is about, that is what life is about, that is what life is about, that it is not my fault, that it is not my fault, that you can't imagine life without it. \"\n i've already made some peace with this about him not being a clear-cut peace, so what to say or do next i have no idea.\n you know, just a pet would have been happy for him, would he have been interested in becoming a father through adoption?\n it seems that your husband, who has been struggling with his future and has seen a couple of therapists together for a while now, has drawn a lot of clarity and support from the therapist.\n", "summary": "Here's the thing, though: my husband has been struggling with his future and has seen a couple of therapists together for a while now. He has drawn a lot of clarity and support from the therapist. So what should we do next? We don't know what to say or do next i have no idea. Would he have been interested in becoming a father through adoption? It seems that your husband, who has been having these same conversations with his therapist for years, has drawn great help from the therapy." }