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think positively . embrace the nerves . chill out . figure out what you want to say . consider multiple outcomes . practice . get her number . choose the right time . find a good opening line . strike the right tone . find common ground . focus on mutual interests . everyone enjoys talking about their personal interests and hobbies . ask questions . respond to his cues .

how to text or call your crush without being scared

dont dwell on what might go wrong with the conversation . instead , try to adopt a positive attitude before talking to your crush . if youre feeling negative and discouraged , think of ways to put a positive spin on these negative thoughts . for example , if you find yourself thinking about reasons why your crush might not like you , think about reasons why she will like you instead . have a friend give you a pep talk to boost your confidence . the more optimistic you feel , the more positive your experience will be . everyone gets nervous . its your brains natural reaction to stimulating circumstances . the trick is to channel your anxiety into excitement . you can do this by repeating this positive mantra im so excited repeating this phrase will help you gather energy from your anxiety instead of losing your nerve . any variation of im so excited will work . for example , you could say , im so pumped about this if you find yourself losing your nerve , try to relax . practice a breathing exercise or meditate for a few minutes . closing your eyes and counting backwards from ten will also help calm your nerves . if youre still feeling frantic , go for a quick walk or jog to shake off the stress . having a plan will make you less nervous . decide what youll talk about . write down a few sample questions on a notepad . you can refer to these questions while youre on the phone if you get anxious . avoid topics that you know youll disagree on . try to focus on interests that you have in common instead . if youre worried that youll run out of conversation topics , read the newspaper or watch the news . if the conversation lags , you can bring up a current event and talk about it together . part of what makes reaching out to your crush so scary is that you have no control of the outcome . he may respond , or he may not , and theres little you can do to influence what he does , and that can be a little frightening . allow yourself to feel optimistic and excited , by also know how to handle rejection if things dont go so well . know how to deal with negative thoughts . if your crush is not responsive , you may start putting yourself down , wondering if theres something wrong with you , or feeling like you will never find love . these are natural thoughts to have in the face of rejection , but just having these thoughts doesnt make them true . know how to refute these negative thoughts ahead of time so you can put a stop to them right away . practice self - care . know what makes you feel better . if talking to your friends usually lifts you up , tell your friend youre going to be texting or calling your crush , and ask if you can hang out afterward . or , make enough time so you can go for a run , watch a favorite show , or do something else that you know improves your mood . practice makes perfect , even when learning how to talk to your crush . rehearse your conversations with a friend by sending some sample texts . alternatively , call your friend and pretend shes your crush . try out all your sample questions and see what works . after the phone call , ask your friend to give you her honest opinion about your performance . practicing with a friend will build your self - confidence and sharpen your conversation skills . if youre persistent with practicing , youll be much more relaxed in stressful situations . , if youre feeling bold , ask your crush in person if you can have her phone number . alternatively , if you have a mutual friend , ask him to start a group text with a few people . this will give you access to your crushs phone number . after a few days of talking to the group , accidentally text your crush a particularly funny joke outside of the group text . if you dont want to ask for a phone number in person , you can ask over a social media platform such as facebook or instagram . avoid calling during lunch or dinner hours as your crush will probably be busy eating . similarly , avoid calling or texting in the early hours of the morning or late at night . he may be sleeping . if you wake him up , he wont be very happy with you . if your crush doesnt answer the phone , leave a short message or send him a text and then go do something fun . dont sit around waiting for him to call or text back — go live your life if youre texting , start the conversation with a good knock - knock joke to get their attention . after you type knock knock , she will have no choice but to respond . if you decide to call your crush , start with an overly - cheesy pickup line to make her laugh . some other great opening lines includemy friends dont want to see the new avengers movie , but i dont want to go alone . interested you looked amazing today whats your secret how would you define yourself in three emojis or less avoid talking about controversial , weird , or unpleasant topics . these discussion topics bring negativity into your conversation . instead , focus on fun experiences and shared interests . you want your crush to have positive feelings about talking to you . otherwise , he may not want to talk to you again . for example have you ever been on any exciting vacations im totally addicted to this new phone game . have you played it what are you going to do after you graduate chances are good that you and your crush have a few things in common . if possible , skim her social media profiles to find some common ground . make sure you dont do too much research or youll come across as creepyhowever , you probably have more in common than you think . do you go to the same school play the same sports take the same classes know the same people hopefully , youll have an interest in common with your crush , giving you an easy conversation topic . for example , if you share a favorite class together , ask your crush what he thought about the homework assignment . if you focus on these mutual interests , the conversation will flow naturally . for example i also love playing video games do you have any favorites thats my favorite soccer team too do you have any game day traditions if you tell me whats on your bucket list , ill tell you whats on mine . i love that tv show whos your favorite character once your crush answers , ask follow up questions . this will give your crush an opportunity to talk about herself . ask questions that show you have a genuine interest in what she has to say . for example we just got back from france . wheres the coolest place youve ever been what are you passionate about i wish i could go to hawaii . whats your dream vacation whats your favorite class gauge when the conversation is over . if there are long stretches of silence or the conversation becomes awkward politely excuse yourself . if youre texting and your crush doesnt respond immediately , give him time to answer . if you bombard him with text messages hell start ignoring you and may even block your number . when in doubt , keep your conversation under thirty minutes . you want to intrigue your crush and leave him wanting more , not exhaust him with your company .

clean yourself . dress well . correct your posture . speak with confidence . start conversations . find common interests . be yourself . gently touch him . make eye contact . support him . build a deeper trust . monitor body language . compliment him . go out with your friends . give him his own space . offer privacy . drop hints about your intentions . reduce your expectations . make a move . move on if hes not interested .

how to turn a boy into a boyfriend

every morning , take a shower . wash your hair , brush it out , and keep it styled the way you like . put on deodorant . even if youre already friends with the boy you desire , poor hygiene will hurt your chances by showing him you dont care about yourself . a little makeup , perfume , or cologne can help . if you choose to use these , put on just enough to accentuate your features , such as a suitable lipstick and eyeliner . dont let makeup appear thick or perfume smell overwhelming . when you know youll be around him , dress to impress . pick out your best clothes or buy some that fit your figure . the clothes you wear should not be tight , but they should fit you well . good clothing also helps increase your confidence , which makes you appear more desirable to him . even after you start spending time with him , make yourself look presentable as much as possible . wearing stained sweatpants is easy but it shows you arent trying to look good for him . practice walking around your room . keep your head up and your back straight . take small steps , neither too fast nor too slow . when you sit , maintain your posture , never slouching or hunching . also , dont cross your arms , or else youll appear closed off . once you can do all of this in your room , go ahead and try to maintain good posture in public . practice speaking out loud at home and to a mirror . your voice should be loud and clear . eliminate unnecessary pauses , as these will make you sound timid or uncertain . know what you want to say and say it . if you speak too fast , slow down . add breaths between sentences and give time for others to listen and speak . once you feel comfortable at home , try speaking confidently to friends and strangers . add in humor to emphasize your confidence . dont overdo it , but every once in awhile its okay to joke with the boy or someone else around you . start out by speaking into a mirror , then move on to practicing this on friends , acquaintances , and strangers . approaching someone is difficult , but its even more intimidating when youre interested romantically . start out by asking for or offering help , commenting on a shared experience such as a school class , by complementing , or by making an observation , such as about what the persons eating for lunch . examples include i found that class really difficult . what did you think of it or i see you like the sandwiches here . im not much of a turkey type . as you get him to become more comfortable with you , progress the conversation . learn more about him , such as is interests . return the trust , but dont go overboard . if you already know him , youll have some familiarity with him , but youll still need to talk and build more of a connection . by talking to him , you should be able to find out what he likes . now connect the two of you by finding activities you can share . if you both like bowling , for instance , youll be able to talk about bowling and then go bowl . dont think of this as a date . instead , focus on having fun together . being willing to try the things he likes is a good idea , but pretending to share his interests makes you look false and like you have less individuality . go out as friends . you need to create moments that help you grow closer , which wont happen if you come on too strong or overanalyze your interactions . even if hiding your personality seems to be working , itll hurt you in the end . at some point youll have to show him who you are in order to work towards a relationship . now is the best time to reveal yourself and judge whether he will get along with you . if you like pop music , clothes , romantic comedies , and video games , for example , allow this to come out naturally . dont hide your true self . physical contact is a great way to make him associate the pleasant feeling of touch with you . choose opportune times , but let your contact appear unintentional . when talking to him , touch his hand or wrist . stand close to him in crowds . brush against his shoulders while passing . when youre first starting out with him , keep touch brief and not too intimate . you want to build his interest and coming on strong can make your affections seem less valuable in the long run . at opportune times , lock onto his eyes . eye contact is difficult since it will often make you feel vulnerable , but it is powerful . at a party , pick him out of the room and meet his eyes for at least a moment . when youre talking or doing something fun , meet his eyes and linger for a moment . the eye contact in these moments should feel intense . if it doesnt , thats a sign that you still have to work at getting closer to him . you want to be around him , so you have to treat him like you value his company . encourage him during difficult times . if he had a rough day , reassure him . wish him luck for tomorrow . support his goals . never turn against him when someones fighting with him . instead , show that you appreciate him by complimenting his positive qualities and actions . this includes focusing your attention on him . dont get distracted by the attention from other boys . a relationship cant operate without trust . over time , show him that he can open up to you about whatever he thinks or feels . listen to him without judgment and dont gossip with your friends . the gossip , even if it doesnt come back to you , will make him reluctant to tell you anything and will stop you from bonding . to build this trust , youll also have to share your own life when appropriate . confide your fears , hopes , and problems . look at the signs and adjust your approach . if hes interested in you , hell want to be around you and make excuses to be close . hell lean towards you , keep his legs and arms uncrossed , his hands unclenched , and have his toes pointed at you . he may also make extended eye contact or look down bashfully . these are only signs , so they dont guarantee he likes you enough to be your boyfriend . continue spending time with him to gauge his feelings . if he doesnt do many of these signs , he still may like you . he may be good at hiding his feelings or shy . if his body language is negative , stop what youre doing . readjust your behavior by repeating steps . he may simply not be into you . mirroring body language often helps . if hes tilting his head while looking at you , keep your head tilted too , for instance . eye contact and gentle touch are starts to more serious flirting . start making your intentions more concrete . come up with clever lines at opportune times that show you appreciate him and arent afraid to show it . for example , tell him , you should wear that shirt , it makes you look cute before you see him . add in appropriate touches , such as putting a hand on his shirt as you pick up the material between your fingers . dont go overboard on this . appear cool and controlled or else you run the risk of smothering him with attention . you want to spend time with him , but too much time means youre too close . you have to make him want to be with you and miss you while youre not around . dont tend to his needs all the time . put down the phone on occasion , after you let him know youre going out , and make yourself seem socially desirable . even in a relationship , you need to live your own life . tend to those other aspects , such as friends , school , or work . its important that you dont smother him either . being needy , demanding all his attention is a sure way to extinguish any feelings hes developing . keep your own distance from time to time . the absence can make him realize how much he needs you , even if the space you gave him came from something like sleeping in and missing his texts for a few hours . itll be tempting for you to stalk his social media or go through his phone when he leaves it near you . doing this makes you look controlling . it shows that you have no trust in him , so you feel justified to invade his personal space and spy on him . dont question him about every little detail that comes from him interacting with other people . invading his privacy this way also makes you look insecure , which will undermine his desire to be in a relationship with you . good hints start moving you beyond the friendship stage . these can be as simple as noticing what hes wearing or complimenting his personality . saying , you look cute today suggests you have enough interest to notice him while easing him towards an escalation in your relationship . avoid coming on too strong . allow him feel that youre a valuable catch he has earned . judge his reaction . a compliment can encourage him , especially if hes keeping his interest a secret . if he shows no reaction , go back to working on attracting him or move on . once your relationship starts to escalate , its easy to get wrapped up in the moment . you want him to be around you , so you demand more of him while exaggerating his qualities . keep calm and stick to the plan of spending some time tending to the other aspects of your life . accept him for who he is if you wish to make him into a boyfriend . many people think they can change their partner inside of a relationship . if you find yourself thinking this , its a sign that hes not right for you . keep his expectations of you in line , too . dont be high - maintenance . if he hasnt already made a move , you can push the issue a little . one option is to ease him into it by asking what he would do if you were his significant other . when youre ready to take the risk , be up front with him . choose a quiet , intimate moment . either come out and say it or ease him into it by starting off saying , so ive been thinking… explain to him you want a relationship and ask him what he thinks . if he doesnt come right out and commit , chances are his feelings arent strong enough . giving him a little space after you ask can help if hes shy or hesitant . sometimes hes not right for you . it can hurt to put in this effort and find out he doesnt share your feelings . walk away . dont maintain hope , or else youll hurt yourself by waiting for him . also , dont try to force him to be with you . this only makes it less likely hell have feelings for you . go on and live your life . there are plenty of boys , and maybe someday youll even run into this one at a better time . remember that a good relationship is one that works for both of you . he may not be a good fit .

ask a good question . be original . be engaging . be flirtatious . be interesting . know when to end the conversation . leave him with something to think about . dont be too needy . dont be too eager . dont embarrass yourself .

how to text a guy you like

starting your texting session with a question is a great way to show youre interested in your crush and to make it easy for him to respond . he will also appreciate that youre being direct , and that youre not wasting his time with a text that he doesnt even know how to answer . here are some ways to ask a good question ask him something specific about himself . this will show that youre interested in what hes been up to . ask him something he can easily answer . dont ask him about what he thinks is the meaning of life ask him how he did on his math test . be direct . he will appreciate a question that is clear and not too wordy . ask an open - ended question . if you ask him something that he can answer in just a few words , then it will be hard to continue the conversation . instead of saying , when did you get home last night ask , how was the party last night this will give him more to work with . he will be impressed by you if you dont just send him the kind of text anyone could send . instead of just saying hello , you can ask an interesting question , or tell him something that will make him want to respond to you and pursue the conversation further . make him laugh . being clever early on will make him want to make you laugh in return . make a witty observation . this is another great way to start , as long as he knows how to answer your statement . dont try too hard to craft the perfect opening . if you do , he will be able to tell . you should let him know that youre able to keep up a lively conversation , and keep things open so he feels like its easy to keep talking to you . being engaging means not only giving the right response to him , but making it easy for him to keep the conversation going . heres how to do it ask him about something hes done . hell love to tell you more about himself . this will also show that you pay attention to the things he tells you . be witty . dont just say hahaha if he says something funny . this will end the conversation . instead , fire back with something equally funny to show that you can play ball . tell him something hes never heard before . maybe you heard something really weird on the news , or you were impressed by a random fact . tell him what you know and hell ask some questions to follow up . be playful . hell appreciate seeing your silly side and will be silly back if you set the right tone . you can show that youre smart without taking yourself too seriously , and he will love that . if youre at the level where youre ready to flirt , then you should have fun with him without giving your feelings away too much . flirting will make him excited to talk to you , and hell be impressed by your boldness as long as you dont go overboard . heres what to do tease him . dont be afraid to tease him a little bit , and to be teased back . if youre at the right stage in your relationship , let him know what youre wearing , and hell be even more excited to see you . send him an occasional winky face , or make a cute innuendo that lets him know youre excited to see him on your next date . and that things may get hot and heavy when you do . if you want to keep him interested , you have to be interesting . you should show him that youre a well - rounded person with a variety of interests and friends and that youre always up to something new . he should think that you have a busy life and should feel lucky that you have time to talk to him through texting . if he feels like you spend all your time waiting around for a text from him , then hell quickly lose interest . show that you have a life . let him know when youre going out with friends , taking a karate class , or watching a new movie . hell know that your life doesnt revolve around talking to him , and will want to be a part of it even more . find a common interest . though you may not have time for a deep conversation when youre texting , hell be more excited to talk to you if he finds out you like the same band or have the same favorite tv show . mention something that youre passionate about . this will show him that you are a driven person with a variety of interests . its important to end things at the right time so your guy stays interested . if hes always the one to end the conversation , or if you just keep dragging the conversation on when hes busy or when theres nothing left to say , then he will leave the conversation without wanting more . heres how to know when to end the conversation if youre just struggling to find anything to talk about . if hes giving you one word responses , like yes , or no , then he may not want to keep talking . if hes not asking you any questions back , then he may only be responding to you out of politeness . if hes always the one to end the conversation . mix things up and make sure that youre the one who has to go at least half the time . you shouldnt just end the conversation by saying , see ya instead , you should leave the conversation open so it will be easy for you to chat again . this can be as simple as telling him youre looking forward to seeing him , or letting him know about something interesting that youre doing so he can ask about it later . heres how to do it if youve already started casually seeing each other , theres no harm in letting him know that youre excited to see him . if youve started hooking up , tell him that you cant wait to show him the new lingerie you bought for your date . leave him with a sexy image in his mind , so hell be anticipating your new panties . tell him where you have to go . if youre going to a concert of a band you both like , tell him so he can ask about it later . leave an opening for him to ask you out . casually mention that youre going out with a few friends and that it would be fun to hang out with him . if he wants to see you and isnt too shy , he may ask . the last thing a guy wants is a girl who is too needy . if youre already showing signs that youre needy over texts , then he will have no doubt that youre even needier in person . your texts should be fun and breezy , and should not make him feel like you want something from him . heres what not to do dont ever say , did you get my text unless his phone was stolen , then yes , he got your text , and he didnt feel like answering . dont make the situation more uncomfortable than it needs to be . you can ask about his weekend , but dont ask if he hooked up with another girl , or if he saw any cute girls out at the bar last night . this will just make you look jealous , and a little creepy . dont send him a question mark if he doesnt respond to your text . this will make him feel like youre breathing over his shoulder and that youre desperate to hear from him . your texts should let your guy know that youre into him , and that youre a cool chick to talk to . your texts should not make the guy feel like youre obsessing over talking to him and that youre at his back and call and are willing to put your life on hold to respond to him . here are some things you should not do to avoid looking too eager dont say , you there if he hasnt responded in five minutes . dont text him twice or three times in a row . wait for him to respond first . dont respond too quickly . you dont want it to look like youre just waiting around for a text from him . if hes taken four hours to respond to you , dont fire back an answer as soon as you hear from him . take six hours to respond to him — or even seven . dont keep the conversation going when he clearly wants to stop . if hes only giving you one word answers , or barely answering , lay off . dont use too many emoticons . the occasional winky face or smiley face will let him know youre flirting , but a million exclamation marks or smiley faces will scare him off . dont text him when youre supposed to be having fun . if youre out with your girlfriends or at a party , you can send him the occasional text to let him know youre thinking of him , but dont make him think that you dont know how to have fun because youre too busy being tied to your phone . the last thing you want to do when youre texting a guy you like is to completely embarrass yourself . once you embarrass yourself through your texts , it may be hard to strike up a conversation again , and even harder to build a relationship with the person you like . here are some things you should not do avoid revealing how you really feel about him . texting is the time to be cute and to further your relationship . its not the time to pour your heart out . this is something you can do in person , once the time is right . telling him how much you like him via text will make you look a bit desperate and afraid of having a real conversation in person . dont text him nine times in a row with your deep feelings . if he has stepped away from the phone for a while and returns to a filled inbox , he will just be freaked out . do not send him nude photos . even if your relationship has progressed and youve had some sexy time , this is the stupidest thing you can do . not only may he think youre too forward , but if you dont know him that well , he can end up being a creep and may hold it against you later .

make eye contact—and then break it . smile . turn your body toward your crush . move closer to him . break the touch barrier . look your best . become friends . dont show off . give him a small gift . ask him questions to show that you care . tease him . help him out . flirt with him . dont have your friends tell him . write him a note or a letter . call him . just tell him in person . react appropriately .

how to tell your crush you like him without words

one way to let your crush see that you like him without opening your mouth is to simply lock eyes with him . make eye contact for just one or two seconds—just enough time to show youre paying attention—and then look down at the floor or just avert your gaze . this will show your crush that you like him without being too obvious if you simply stare at him , that may be coming on too strong . you can try this trick just one or two times when youre in the same room together , whether youre at a party or in class . just try to be subtle about it you dont want him to catch you staring too many times you can even give him a small flirtatious smile to go along with the look . you dont need to give your crush an ear - to - ear grin to show him that youre interested . simply look at him , give him a small smile , and then look away or start a conversation with him . your smile shouldnt be too big or eager , or he may just think youre being friendly instead , try to be a little bit mysterious when you smile at him , so you play coy while letting him know youre interested . if you really want to up your flirtation factor , you can even learn to smile with your eyes . another way to let your crush know you like him is through some simple open body language . if your body is open , that means that youre standing tall , face your crush , turn your feet and shoulders toward him , and keep your arms out instead of crossed over your chest . this shows your crush that youre interested in him and that you like being around him . the next time youre standing next to him or sitting next to him , make sure youre turning your body in his direction so he sees that you like him . for example , if youre talking to him and cross your legs , make sure your crossed leg is crossed toward him , not away , so you have more of an open posture . another way to show your crush that you like him is to simply move a bit closer to him , whether youre talking to him or just hanging out at the same party . you dont need to be too forward or start close - talking or making him uncomfortable , but you should show him that you like him by simply gravitating toward him in social situations . without being clingy , you can show your crush that you like him simply by paying a bit more attention than you do to other guys by standing next to him , sitting by him , or making sure you get a chance to chat when youre in a small group . when you do talk to him , you can make an effort to stand a bit closer or to sit a bit closer to him as the conversation progresses . if he doesnt move away but moves toward you , then this may be a sign that he returns your feelings . if you want to tell your crush you like him without blurting it out completely , one thing you can do is to give him a light touch or two . if youre talking to him or pass by him , you can give him a light touch on the shoulder or upper arm , or even playfully swat his arm if hes teasing you . if youre standing or sitting next to him , you can casually let your feet or knees touch from time to time to show him that you want to get closer . just a bit of physical attention will let your crush know that you like him . you dont need to push it too far just touching him once or twice during a conversation will show him that you like him . now , this doesnt mean that you have to dress to the nines or put on a ton of makeup to get your crushs attention . however , it does mean that you should look and feel beautiful , fresh , and clean when you talk to your crush putting an effort into your appearance will give you a boost of confidence , and it will also show your crush that you want to make a good impression on him . make sure to wear clothes that make you feel comfortable and not to pretend to be someone youre not . if youre hanging out with your crush and just a small group of people , dressing up will show him that youve put some thought into how you look for him , which may indicate that you do have a crush on him . one way to show the guy you like him is to try to be his friend . as long as you dont get into the friend zone , this will show that youre taking a real interest in him . ask him questions about his life , share his interests , and just spend some time around him , whether youre working on a group project or hanging out with friends . just make sure he doesnt see you as a kid sister or one of the guys , and dont fall into the role of the person who hears about his romantic troubles . becoming his friend will show him that you want to get closer to him . this can be a great way to show him you like him , especially if you dont have many other guy friends . take it slow . if you dont know him very well , start with a simple conversation and work your way up to hanging out . if you want to tell your crush you like him , then you should show him that youre comfortable being yourself around him . if you find yourself bragging , talking about how great you are , telling exaggerated stories for laughs , or just doing something that doesnt feel like you , then this wont win your crush over . hell be more likely to think you have a real interest in him if youre being yourself , opening up , and talking about your interests or your friends . remember that , in the end , you want a guy who likes you for who you are . you dont want him to like you for being someone else , because that will make it hard to start a real relationship while staying true to who you are . a small gift can be a simple way to show your crush that you like him without coming on too strong . simply get him something hes mentioned or something you think he would like , such as a book or a cd . you can also be silly and get him something more practical , like a pack of pencils because you noticed that he never remembers to bring a pencil to class . you can write him a short note along with the gift and give it to him in person or leave it on his desk . of course , this works best if you know him and are already friends if youve never met , then giving him a gift may overwhelm him a little . one way to tell your crush you like him is to show a genuine interest in him . to do this , you should simply ask him questions about his life and make an effort to really listen to the answers instead of planning your next move . ask him about his weekend plans , his favorite sports teams , his school activities , his friends , or his favorite bands or movie stars to get a conversation going this will show that you care about him as a person , and that you may have a little crush on him as well . you can also ask him about his pets , his favorite movies , or his favorite things to do for fun . just make sure not to ask too many personal questions at first or he may get uncomfortable . make sure to share stuff about yourself too you dont want to sound like youre interrogating him . your crush will start to see that you like him if you start teasing him a bit . you dont need to lay it on too thick to get the message across just playfully tease him about his new haircut , his favorite sports team especially if the team keeps losing , his obsession with his favorite band , or other things you know he wont take too personally . this shows that you like him enough to engage him in a fun , lighthearted conversation . just make sure he knows youre teasing and that he takes it well . he may be too sensitive about his favorite sports team , for example , to think theres anything funny about the fact that they keep losing . let him see that you dont tease just anybody . if he thinks that you tease all of his friends , too , then he wont see that hes special to you . your crush will suspect that you like him if you start helping him out . you dont need to go too far out of your way to help him , but making just a few small gestures can show him that you really do have a special interest in him . this can mean picking up his homework for him when hes home sick , letting him borrow a textbook , or answering some questions that he may have . this can be a great way to show him you care as long as he doesnt take advantage of you . ideally , he should find a way to help you out , too . you dont want him to think that youll just be there at his beck and call . look for ways that you can help him he may be too shy to do something like ask for him with the math homework , but you can offer to do it and see what he says . flirting will definitely let your crush know that youre into him . to flirt with him , you just have to tease him a bit , be playful , and show a special interest in him over all of the other guys in the room . you can play a little bit hard to get while letting him see that you do like him by smiling at him , laughing at his jokes , and going out of your way to make him see that you want to spend more time with him . flirting can be a little tricky to master , but it basically means not taking yourself too seriously while you chat about lighthearted topics with your crush , letting him see that you want to know what he has to say while also teasing him a little bit . you can lick your lips or play with your hair a bit while you talk to your crush to be a bit more playful . if you do want your crush to know how much you like him , you should make sure to tell him yourself , even if you do it in a letter . while having your friends tell your crush how you feel may be easier , it will make you look like youre not ready for a mature relationship or like you dont feel comfortable talking to him yourself . even if he does say that he likes you back , this wont start your relationship off on the right foot . plus , you dont want him to feel annoyed by all of your friends surrounding him respect his privacy and tell him about your feelings yourself . if youre too afraid to tell your crush you like him in person , then one thing you can do is to write him a short note or a longer letter letting him know how you feel . you can slide it into his locker or hand it to him . tell him that you like him , give him a reason or two why if you want , and ask if he returns your feelings . this is a great way to directly tell him how you feel while taking off some of the pressure of having to do it in person . keep it short and sweet . you dont want to go into too much detail about how you like him without knowing whether or not he returns your feelings . you can tell him the best way to contact you , either by telling him where he can leave his response or by giving him your number . another way to tell him that you like him is to give him a call and simply to tell him how you feel . yeah , this technically means telling him how you feel with words , but if you find that telling him without words hasnt been working for you , then it may be time to come out with it . give him a call , take a deep breath , and quickly tell him how you feel and ask him if he returns your feelings . youll have your answer before you know it . just say something like , ive had a lot of fun hanging out with you for the past few weeks , and i want you to know that i like you . i wanted to know if you shared my feelings . if the idea of calling him to tell him your feelings doesnt feel quite right , then you may just have to pick the right time and place to have the conversation in person . just ask him if he can meet you in a place where you can be alone , make eye contact , and simply tell him how you feel . give him some time to react and respond and try not to put the pressure on him keep things lighthearted instead of sounding intense . you can make a bit of small talk to make him comfortable , but dont be afraid to jump in and share your feelings . you can give him a small compliment or two while you say that you like him . you can say something like , nobody can make me laugh like you can to show why you like him . once your crush knows you like him , hell either say he shares your feelings or will want to stay friends . if he says he likes you too , then you can celebrate and get excited to start a relationship with him . if he doesnt feel the same way , however , its important to stay mature and to keep things positive instead of getting emotional or making him feel bad for not feeling the same way . though you will be upset , you should make it seem like its not a big deal and then be sad about it once youre away from your crush . no matter what happens , you want to leave a good impression . if you start calling him names or being mean to him for not sharing your feelings , that will take you down a dark path . even if he doesnt share your feelings , hell respect you for being open and honest with him . you should be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there and making an effort .

pay attention to what he does . catch him if he takes frequent glances in your direction . check for smiles . consider whether he has tried to talk to you or followed you . notice if he laughs or talks about random things around you . watch for a constant need to butt in . consider whether he is always making an excuse to talk to your friends . notice where he sits . notice if you see him frequently all of the sudden . consider competitiveness as a possible sign of liking you . watch for him asking you to be his study buddy . watch how he responds when you are with another guy . give him the death glare .

how to tell if a guy in middle school likes you

does he try to touch you even just little touches relatively frequently could indicate he likes you . do you ever find him poking you or tickling you if so , this is called flirting 101 touch is a useful way to tell if a guy likes you , because guys flirt with girls they dont even like all the time , depending on who they are . so if he tickles or touches you , he is obviously flirting . looking sheepish or pretending to think every time you catch him looking at you is a sign of interest . do you ever glance over at him and catch him staring at you if you do , there is hope that he likes you . but it also depends on how often you catch him looking or how long you do . dont give up yet if you catch him looking at you every day in every class , multiple times for more than three seconds , youre in luck usually if he likes you he will stare a you for a bit and not lose eye contact after a few seconds and will continuously do it . if you catch him looking at you for a couple seconds but he looks away , this is still a good sign , as long as he does it more than once . if he only looks at you for a second but turns away during one class , he probably has no feelings for you . he is probably just looking around . if he looks away and smiles , this could mean he likes you . if he keeps looking and laughs after , this could also mean he likes you . if he is smiling at you a lot , this is a great sign of fondness . it is a positive sign if the guy you like tells a lot of jokes near you . usually this means that the guy wants to be near you . also , notice if he is near members of your group in science class for example , and he all of the sudden talks to them a lot . this means he wants to get an excuse to get closer to you . if a guy really likes you , he will usually try to find ways to talk to you , even goofy ways . remember that guys often have a hard time talking to girls because theyre nervous . if he stutters or gives awkward replies , it could be a sign that he likes you . do you ever find him butting into your conversations with a friend this could mean he is trying to spark a conversation with you and wants to talk . let him joke around a bit to let him know you accept him . is he coming up often and talking to your friends but not necessarily you he may be working his way around to you , and using your friends as the excuse to be near . if he sits beside you or somewhere close and then tries to talk to you , this is a good sign . if he starts showing up where ever you are , he may be following you to find a good time to talk to you . have you ever found him trying to race or compete with you in gym class this is also an obvious way to tell if guys like you . he will probably try to catch up with you and give you sarcastic comments that make you want to beat him . this competitiveness will be a great way to show him what you got and flirt at the same time . asking you to be his partner in class or to come over and study could mean he likes you or it could mean he is picking your brains for his assignment , so do be careful here . furthermore , if you decline and he later denies having anything to do with asking you , he may be interested . for example if there is a math problem that he couldnt do , or any other example , and he gets up and comes to you even if he could have gotten the answer from someone else , such as his best friend , this is an indication that he likes you . if he overreacts when you spend time with another guy , it might be a sign of his interest in you . beware though , if hes a controlling type , an overreaction is not a sign of affection but one of control . does he ever get angry or upset when you are talking to or are fooling around with other boys does he give you looks this could mean that he is jealous this is also another obvious way to tell if he likes you . by seeing another guy with you , he wishes it could be him talking and laughing to you . you can often find out if a guy likes you by looking him straight in the eyes and asking him if he likes you . if he blushes , smiles slightly , or says nothing , this could mean he likes you . try it

notice if he spends time messaging you . look for him to respond to your messages quickly . analyze the quality of messages he sends . look for signs of flirting . dont draw conclusions from one interaction .

how to tell if a boy likes you on the internet 1

a guy who likes you online will often make time to talk and message with you . for instance , he might message you frequently even when you are offline . you may also find that you spend hours messaging back and forth throughout the day and even into the night . this is a sign that he likes talking to you and is making time in his schedule to communicate . if you send a message to him and he takes over an hour to respond and you know that he is online , this likely means that he is just being polite . alternatively , if he messages back right away and then starts up a conversation he probably likes you . similarly , a guy who likes you will often message you as soon as you log onto facebook messenger or any other messaging app . some guys will respond to your messages just because they are polite . if this is the case , they will likely respond with short , one word answers and will rarely try and engage in a meaningful conversation . alternatively , if a boy likes you , he will try to get to know you , ask your advice or opinion , or share stories about his day . if he is interested he might say how was your day or what are you up to this weekend these types of questions reveal that he wants to be apart of your everyday life . boys will often flirt when they like someone . signs of online flirting include compliments , light hearted jokes , the use of exclamation points , emoticons , or bitmojis . he might say something like you look so cute in your profile picture . never pin all your hopes or fears on just one or two online conversations . lots of people run their instant messengers in the background whether they have the time to chat or not . his short responses may just signal that he is busy or preoccupied . if this becomes a regular pattern , it may be a sign that he is not interested in you .

give him some signs . find a good time . talk to him in private . be bold . say it - its simple . use his interests . use a song . make him a present . write him a letter . make a video . dont pressure him . dont be creepy . dont use social media or a phone . dont rush into things . dont sweat rejection . ask him out , if he returns your feelings . look for good guys .

how to tell your crush you like him

you should always give your guy the opportunity to realize for himself that you like him so that he can do something about it if he wants to . be a little flirty and be sure to spend time with him . try to introduce little touches and other hints . just dont drag this on too long try biting your lip every time he looks at you or smile nervously . look into his eyes and then turn away slowly . its important to choose a good time to talk . you dont want him to be distracted , upset about something else , or just downright busy that will kill your chances before you even get started . talk to him about setting aside some good time to talk , or try to catch him at a time when you know he wont be busy . talk to him in private . confessing your crush in front of other people will make him feel pressured and embarrassed , and you dont want that people that feel cornered can be unwilling to admit how they really feel . instead , get him on his own so that the two of you can have a real heart - to - heart . when confessing your feelings , you have to just get out there and say how you feel . be confident guys will think this is sexy . you also have to be bold because youre going to need to take the initiative in talking about how you feel and whether the two of you could have anything . the most basic way to confess your crush is to just come right out and say it . this can take courage , but generally people will appreciate your honesty and will be flattered by your bravery . this avoids gimmicks and shows how much you really think theyre worth . here are some examples of how to say it hey , brian . i thought you deserved to know that i have very strong feelings for you . you dont have to return my feelings , but i thought it was only right for you to know . michael youre special . youre kind , smart , and funny and i am so much happier when youre around . i want us to be more than friends . i hope you see , like i do , that we could be something really great . use his interests in order to confess your feelings . you can use this simply to give yourself an opening for example , by going rock climbing with him or you can use it to confess in a unique way for example , by inviting him over and having the han soloprincess leia flirt scene queued up on your tv . you probably dont remember what mixtapes are , but using songs to confess feelings is still a viable option . find a song you know hell love . ask to borrow a usb drive from him to transfer a file from a schoolwork computer to your personal computer . leave the mp3 of the song on the usb , specially named so hell know mike - tessa wants to hold your hand or some other reference to the song . good song options include i want to hold your hand by the beatles , frank sinatras lets fall in love , or daft punks digital love . you can make him a present to confess your feelings . try to tailor it to your crush , and if you two were already friends try to use it to remind him of the wonderful times youve had together . paint a small wooden box with both of your initials in a heart , and fill the box with pics of the two of you hanging out , stubs from movies you saw together , or other reminders of fun things youve done together . put together a relaxation care package , with two movie tickets , two bags of candy , and a message something like , i know you had a hard time with finals last week . id love the chance to wind down with you . if youre not interested , no worries take whoever you want . but id love the chance to make you laugh until you forget what quadratic polynomials are . theres nothing more romantic than some old - fashioned letter writing . write him a letter telling him how you feel and put it in his locker or if you know his address mail it to his house . you can also leave it in a place where you know hell find it , like in his books or his desk . spritz it with a bit of your perfume to make it extra exciting . make a youtube video confessing your crush you probably shouldnt mention him by name . tell him how you feel and why . then email or text him a qr code with the link to the video . you can also print out the code and put it in is locker or tape it inside his textbook . dont break right out into the i love yous and dont talk about the future you want the two of you to have . you want to avoid speaking in definite terms about the future because this creates a lot of pressure and expectations for him . which is stressful and can scare him away instead , speak in terms of what you want to try or what you hope might become real eventually . i hope we can try being more than friends , etc . dont be creepy when you tell him how you feel . this means no begging , no bargaining , and try not to touch him or get into his personal space until you know he feels the same way . you also shouldnt cling around him if he needs time to think about what you said . if you can , tell him how you feel in person . using social media or a text can come across as not being very serious or , worse , being a joke . this is not how you want to start things with him . you dont want to rush into telling him and if he returns your feelings , dont rush into a serious relationship . if youre going to go through the torture of confessing , you want to be sure that you really like him first , right this is can be a long process and one that will continue even if you start dating . just focus on getting to know him for who he really is , by spending time with him and talking about things that are important to you what you both want for the future , what your beliefs are , and what you like to do for fun . dont worry about being rejected . it can feel awful to be rejected , but in a few years you probably wont remember it at all . remember its his loss . you dont want to be with someone that doesnt like you as much as you like them anyway . you deserve better than that if he does return your feelings , make sure to actually ask him out if he doesnt ask you out you shouldnt feel bad about making your intentions clear or taking initiative like this sometimes its necessary to get what you want out of life with feelings confessed , asking him out is as simple as coming up with an idea for a date and taking things from there . just ask if you strike out with him or if hes a real jerk about rejecting you , you might want to take a look at the kinds of guys you find yourself interested in . stop pursuing guys who dont respect you or like you for who you really are . you might find you have better luck if you focus on whats important nice guys who have their priorities in the right place .

see if he interacts with your posts . reply to his comments . notice if he comments on old pictures or posts . check to see if he has added you on multiple social media platforms .

how to tell if a boy likes you on the internet 2

does this guy like every facebook status update and instagram picture you post better yet , does he frequently comment on your posts this is a sign that he wants to interact with you and may indicate that he likes you . look to see if he comments on other peoples posts as well . if he comments frequently , this may just reveal that he is an avid social media user . however , if he rarely likes or comments on other posts , this is a sign that he might have feelings for you . after he publicly comments on one of your photos or posts , respond to him . if he is eager to start up a conversation with you this way , it may reveal that he likes you or at the very least enjoys messaging with you . for example , he may say that is a great photo where are you you could respond by saying i was in vancouver last week . such a beautiful city have you been if a guy you just met starts liking or commenting on old photos of you , this is a sig that he is interested . it means that he has spent time looking back through your old photos probably because he wants to know you better or he just enjoys looking at pictures of you , when a guy likes you , he will want to connect with you and follow you on a variety of different social media platforms . for example , he may add you to facebook and snapchat , and start following you on twitter and instagram . adding you to a number of social media sites is likely a sign that he wants to look through your posts , photos , and selfies in an attempt to get to know you better .

notice if he wants to learn more about you . ask if he wants to meet you in person . be direct and ask if he likes you . see if he takes down his online dating profile .

how to tell if a boy likes you on the internet 3

if a boy you met online likes you , he will likely want to get to know you better . does he ask you questions about your life if he responds and engages with your answers , it may be a sign that he likes you . he might ask about your job , hobbies , and family in an attempt to get to know you better . showing an interest in your life is a sign that he likes you . that being said , if he asks you really personal but irrelevant questions , like what your address is or whether or not youre home alone , he might have other motives . if he asks you to meet up for coffee or go on a date , that is a tell - tale sign that he likes you and wants to get to know you better . some guys are shy or timid and may not ask to meet up . if you are interested in him , take the initiative and say do you want to grab a drink sometime if he responds quickly and enthusiastically , it may mean that he likes you too . alternatively , he may say sure , just let me check my schedule . if he never gets back to you with his availability he is probably not interested . after awhile it may become tedious trying to pick up on signals to see if he has feelings for you . you can always try and be direct and simply ask him how he feels about you . you could say i feel like we have a really good connection and i am starting to develop feelings for you . do you feel the same this way you will get straight to the point and you can stop guessing about his feelings and intentions . once you have met and gone on a couple dates , you may be wondering if this is actually going anywhere . one way to see if he likes you is to check if he has removed his online dating profile . this could be a sign that he has met someone he likes you and is no longer interested in online dating .

remind yourself how confident you should be . continue flirting with him . break the touch barrier , if you havent already . plan a special day together . while on your date or excursion , keep the conversation up and the flirting going . right before you ask him , go through your checklist . go out and tell him . wait for his response . plan the next date .

how to tell a guy you like him , when he likes you too

if you know for a fact that the guy you like likes you back , that should give you all the confidence in the world . most people arent sure at all , or maybe have a hunch . so act confident , because confidence is attractive . it will make a difference . before you ask him , tell yourself that you already have the hardest part under control youve gotten him to like you . now you just have to act on that attraction . this gets easier as time goes on . the hardest part is the first time you tell him everything after that is a downhill ride . giving him hints might even cause him to be more confident and act on his attraction and ask you out compliment him about something he does well , but teasingly . this will come off flirty and wont bother him because he wont be insecure about something hes really good at if i would have known that youd single - handedly destroy the other football team , i wouldnt have come . i like a little excitement , okay tell him how much you appreciate him . being a little sarcastic is good , but being sincere is even better hey , thanks for helping me out with that birthday celebration . you make a pretty great friend . always stay that way . pick him up when hes down . he might not show it the same way that other people show it , but try to recognize when hes not feeling his best dont worry about felix , okay hes a jerk and he knows it . dont let it hurt your confidence . youre way better than him anyway . chances are youre gotten close enough to him that youre experimented a little with touching him in safe places . if youve already done that , great . if you havent , try some of these little tricks to communicate your affection before you actually come out and say it . learn to touch his hand , arm , and shoulder . when youre making a point , reach over and casually touch his hand . when youre reminding him of something or trying to be really serious , touch his arm or the back of his shoulder . it should send shivers down his spine . hang or rest on his shoulder . pretend to be bored and rest your head on his shoulder . or simply rest your hands on his shoulder . give him a good look in his eyes if he looks back at you . this could be a date , or something that you guys regularly do , like walk to the corner store for a soda . he doesnt have to know that its a date , but if he asks whether its a date , tell him youd want it to be . that will tell a guy that you like him without actually going out and saying it . you can try something like hey , my dad got me these two tickets for a movie on saturday , but my best friend bailed , so i was wondering if you wanted to be an even - better friend and come with me ive been meaning to go on this hike past malibu for ages and i need a hiking partner . are you doing anything on sunday this is for building rapport , or chemistry . you dont want to just blurt out that you like him . you want to slowly build up to it , waiting for just the right moment . talk about things that he likes talking about , for example . build up chemistry by asking him questions about subjects that hes enthusiastic about . once he gets going , the conversation should really begin to flow , and you probably wont have to do all that much talking . talk about funny things . laughter is great for chemistry . tell inside jokes that you only share with him . gently tease him , remembering to touch him on the arm or shoulder . just be silly with him ask him to give you a piggyback ride , or get him to do an impression of one of your teachers . make sure you have a couple of crucial things under control right before you ask him . if youre in a public place , excuse yourself and go to the bathroom for a moment . while youre there , check that your breath smells nice . if he swoops in for a kiss , you want to be ready . pop a mint into your mouth . that your hair and makeup looks great . touch up your lips with a little balm not gloss and definitely not lipstick and make sure youre looking your best . that youre confident . if you have no confidence , its best to wait until you can ask him with confidence . dont worry though , you have no reason to worry wait for the right moment and just come out with it . maybe wait until the end of the date , so theres no awkwardness after you confess your feelings , and he does his . heres a couple different options . short and sweet maybe youve already noticed this , but i really like you . i was hoping you felt the same and we could do this again next weekend . long and heartfelt this is really hard to do but i need to do it . ever since weve become friends , i started liking you . it came slow at first . and then i noticed how funny you are , and it came a little more . when i really started having conversations with you , i felt it even more . and right now , right here , i feel it most of all . youve given him the perfect opportunity to open up to you , and he better take it . you should be getting a really nice , or even romantic response from him . remember to smile and look at his eyes . this should give him the confidence to kiss you , but if he doesnt , dont worry . maybe hell just plan the next date automatically after you tell him how you feel . if so , thats great . still , he might need a little nudging . in that case , say something like so i was thinking that we could do something like this again sometime . because i set this one up , will you set the next one up im really easy to please , i promise . im a sucker for movies , walks on the beach , or shopping . but i also like to be surprised

hang out around this boy more often . try to find ways to get together . consider taking up an after - school activity that you know he does . find out what possibilities exist outside of school time . use the time spent together to gauge both how you feel about him and whether you think he shows signs of interest in you . talk to your friends . consider talking to one of his friends . be sure that hes worth the effort . choose a time when other people arent around . rehearse telling him . allow your crush the space to reply in his own way and at his pace . realize that you may be rejected . if he says he likes you too , celebrate .

how to tell a middle school boy you like him

its important to get to know each other before deciding that this guy is worth shattering your nerves for and telling him you like him if youre in class , sit close to him or even next to him . try to get into his activity groups or other exercises . in sport , get on his team where possible or play in pairs or alongside of him . if youre not in the same class , catch him at his locker and say hello or spend time with him and his friends during lunch and recess . of course , only do this if the activity also interests you , otherwise its a waste of your time . this can provide a great way for him to get to know you better , and vice versa . can you ask a bunch of friends back to your place that will also include him can you go somewhere hes likely to be spending time , such as at the mall , a sports field or hanging downtown find out what is possible and wont put you in any difficult positions with your parents . this will help you to make the decision about telling him that you like him and to ask him on a date . ask them what they think about your prospects with this guy and how they interpret his reactions toward you at the moment . often people outside of a crush will have more objectivity and may be able to see the signs––or lack of them––that you cant quite put your finger on . always talk to trusted friends , who will keep your confidence . try to find out carefully whether your crush already has a love interest or might have any interest in you . do your best to avoid making your interest too obvious unless you want them to relay it straight back to him . if in doubt , skip his friends and only talk to yours . you are going to put yourself out on a limb without knowing how hell respond yet , so he had better be worth it this gives both of you wriggle room to back out and to say what you really feel without others overhearing and possibly spreading rumors . this might be at the end of lunch , after school or when youre alone at the lockers . scout out possible good times and places a few days before you decide to tell him . avoid the temptation to text , im or email him with this news . it is definitely something that should be passed on personally , face - to - face . while you need to be ready to go with the flow and react to his reactions when you actually tell him , it cant hurt to rehearse your opening lines with him . for example hey josh , have you got a moment theres something i wanted to talk to you about . josh says yes , so you proceed i wanted to tell you that im really enjoying spending time with you and that i like you a lot . i was hoping you might want to hang out with me this weekend . hey hank , weve been great friends for a while now and i have grown to really like you . would you be interested in coming to the movies with me this friday so zack , i just wanted to let you know something that matters to me a lot . its that i really like you . i was hoping you might feel the same way too . this is probably not news to him but it is out in the open now , instead of hanging in the air between you two . if there is a long silence , you could interject that you just wanted to get that out there and that he doesnt have to say anything straight away , that youre happy for him to think about it for a time . this is not necessarily the end of things but it may happen and isnt a reflection on you as a person . he can have many reasons for not wanting to reciprocate the feelings , such as already having a love interest , not wanting a relationship at this point in time or being more interested in friendship than anything more intimate . be gracious and say that its okay , youre happy to stay good friends and not speak about it again for now . youre now both open with one another and can go ahead and arrange a date

sort out your feelings for him . ask yourself how well you know each other . spend more time getting to know him before making up your mind . consider spending more time around him even if he has his girlfriend by his side . try to use social media in order to communicate with him whilst his girlfriend is not around . talk as much as possible . ask about his relationship––with care . reflect on your feelings again . pluck up the courage . decide how to tell him . be honest . start by talking to him in a normal way . see how he responds . be prepared . let go .

how to tell a guy who has a girlfriend that you like him

do you only like him because he is taken , or do you genuinely like him do you think it would change anything if you told him how you feel about him how well do you get along try to find reasons as to why you like him so much . you need to understand your feelings , to allow you to make the correct decision and to be able to express them in a confident way . follow the next section before deciding that its okay to tell him your true feelings . by spending more time with him , youll get to know him better , hell grow to trust you more and maybe , just maybe , he might see things differently too . show interest in his social life and hang around with friends he hangs around with . this shows a guy that you are confident enough to spend break times with his own friends at times in an outgoing manner . it is uncomfortable to speak to a guy you really like in front of his girlfriend who might easily realize your interest in her guy and become jealous . start a conversation on facebook to get around this . for instance , while he is online , ask him simple questions like how hes doing and how did he do in an exam . go for questions like , whats your favourite food or what movies do you like most . this helps you learn more about him and in doing so , you keep your conversation going while also showing him you care . if your conversations are a bit stuck in the same discourse , then try to find ways to make them interesting . dont always start the conversation with hey or hi there . instead , find out what his favorite subject is and try to find a picture , a joke or a quote which is related to that . then you can pass it on , with an excuse that you might like this or that this reminded me of you . this shows a guy that you remember what he tells you . if it seems appropriate , try to offer advice in case of some ups and downs that they may be having . even if you actually think of hitting her in the face often for having the guy you are crazy about , showing interest in their relationship gets him to trust you with his personal issues while it also acts as a key to discovering what he likes and what he doesnt like in his relationship . after doing all of this , some time should have passed by and by then you can figure out if what you feel towards him is a strong feeling or just something temporary . if you notice that these are recurring feelings which are only becoming stronger by time its time to face the music and let him know how you feel . the main question is how if youve decided that its worth telling him , then its time to give it a try . you must be confident with yourself and with what you feel in order to express yourself correctly and clearly . do not hesitate or fear that you will end up being rejected . on the bright side , if that happens you would have figured out what he truly feels towards you and can hence , move on without thinking what could have been . the best way to tell him is face to face however , with his girlfriend around , that might not always be ideal . so a text message or a message via facebook can help you get what you want to tell him across . when you are dealing with feelings , honesty really is the best policy . dont lie to him about it , just come right out and tell him . be considerate . your crush has a girlfriend . remember that she has feelings too . if youre friends with her , tell her too . you dont want to ruin your friendship with her . then include something like , i was wondering the other day and i have something to tell you . when he responds yeah go on , im listening , tell him the truth . dont talk in a very hyperbolic way because it might scare him . let him know that you are aware about his girlfriend but still you wanted to let him know even if nothing will change after this moment , at least you confronted him with confidence . say something like weve been speaking for the past few weeksmonths now and i have gotten to know more about you . honestly , the thing is , i like you , i really do . and i know that you have a girlfriend but still i wanted you to know . this will determine the type of response that you give to him . if its just an okay or thanks , say im relieved now that i told you . if he answers back in a long paragraph with the fact that he has a girlfriend and other excuses , just say its okay , i wanted to be honest and i understand that you have a girlfriend . im okay with that . if you get the answer youve been hoping for i like you too , just go ahead and carry on your conversation to see how things can unfold between you . if he already has a girlfriend , then youre likely to be rejected . dont take it personally and remember that if he said he would break up with his girlfriend for you , then consider whether hes the type of guy you would want to be with . if that happens , then get over him . letting him know how you feel sets peace to your mind because no matter what the answer might be , youll know you would have let him know whatever you wanted him to know . however , never force him into liking you or into leaving his girlfriend for you . after all , you definitely rather be his first choice rather than his second

get prepared in the morning . be yourself at school . get attention in class . impress at the dance . become friends . keep in touch . good luck

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brush your hair , teeth , shower and get dressed , taking a bit more time than usual to highlight your best qualities presenting yourself with flare , strength , and passion . never fake your personality just to impress someone . be gregarious , kind , and leave a great first impression , especially on your crush with a sweet smile and glistening eyes . although you may have trouble doing it , catch their attention in class by joking around with them , of course if you are not very shy . otherwise , you may want to accidentally drop your pencil forward so they can pick it up , or smile when they answer a question . although you may of not made a full impression on him , yet often cross paths , try not to be bluntly obvious in your advancements , rather smiling at them . this may or may not result in being asked to the dance . you may need to become friends with your crush . smile , talk , laugh at his jokes , no matter how boring . you just have to wait a while and hopefully by the last dance of the year youll dance and go steady . text and email your crush by getting his number . make sure to use a winking face winks occasionally . even if you think that is too much , you could always use a smiley . after getting closer , use xoxo to represent hugs and kisses .

remind yourself of a recent accomplishment . take a few deep breaths . repeat positive mantras to yourself . pay attention to body language . recognize the signs of your own fear and anxiety . remember your past moments of clumsiness and relax .

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think about something that youve done recently that makes you proud . try to conjure up the details of this accomplishment right before you know youre about to run into your crush . if you run into him unexpectedly , then take a few seconds to think of what you can do and compose yourself . for example , you might think of a time when you werent clumsy , such as when you won that marathon the other day . you could also recall how you improved your grades in a certain class . if you work hard enough at anything , you can improve it . if youve just tripped or if you start stuttering , calm your nerves by exhaling and inhaling a number of times before continuing . try inhaling slowly as you count to five , then exhale slowly as you count to five . this will allow you to collect your thoughts and refocus before proceeding . if your crush questions what you are doing , you might say , oh , ive just got a lot going on . i was trying to clear my mind so i could pay attention to you . there is a great deal of power in positive thinking . so , if youve had a bad day and something happened in front of your crush , then you might want to tell yourself , its just one day , or i can do this . eventually you will start to believe your own words . you might say to yourself , you have too much going on to worry about this . lets move on . or , lets make tomorrow a better day . if you find yourself closing your body off after an embarrassing moment , force yourself to adopt an open stance . uncross your arms and legs . lift your head and look around . make eye contact with those persons near you . you can also subtly flirt with your crush by touching your face or neck . you may notice that they start to mirror your movements as well . start paying close attention to your body and your emotions . if you notice that you start to feel jittery right before you get really clumsy , then use this as a sign that you probably need to go sit down somewhere . or , if your mind feels as if it racing before you begin to stutter , then try to calm down before speaking . take a moment to recall how youve survived all sorts of crazy incidents in the past . this will remind you that you are a survivor . in fact , many of the incidents that you remember cant even be recalled by your crush . when you feel as if you cant go on , just think about how youve had this emotion before and youve done just fine .

smile , make eye contact . be confident . talk to his friends . lose the cell phone . pay attention to your body language .

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believe it or not , boys get just as shy as girls do when it comes to making the first move . smiles are friendly and welcoming – a smile can make a guy feel instantly secure about walking over and introducing himself . on the other hand , a frown is sure to make him nervous and keep him away . this goes hand in hand with smiling . you can smile all day long , but unless you make eye contact when you do it , it wont signal to him that you want him to come talk to you . if you make eye contact and smile as you pass him he will notice , especially if it happens often . if he smiles back , all the better eye contact is great , but avoid outright staring at him . glance over occasionally , but dont stare too long . this is far more important than your hair or your clothes . having confidence is not only an attractive personality trait , but it also makes you a more dynamic , interesting person . someone with confidence will automatically attract people . radiate positivity , when a guy sees you talking to his friends , it makes him feel much more comfortable about approaching you himself . just make sure you arent flirting with his friends hell notice that too , but not in a good way . when youre around a guy that you want to talk to , being buried in your cell phone is definitely not a signal that you want to chat . keep your head up and look alert , ready to engage . communication is so much more than just using words – your body language also speaks volumes , even from across the room or hall . dont cross your arms . it definitely sends the signal that you are not approachable . watch your posture . when you slouch , you communicate to a guy without saying a word that you dont feel confident enough to have him approach you . keep your gestures smooth and firm . relaxed hands imply confidence , whereas clenched hands can make you seem anxious and unapproachable . try not to squirm in your outfit or fidget with anything . doing so can make you appear anxious .

get him to notice you . let him know you are there . become comfortable around him . try some style changes if he doesnt notice you . when he starts to let you get close to him , be his friend at first . find the value in his opinions and suggestions . try not to say anything bad about him around friends . get close with his friends , if possible . start doing things together . start dropping hints . dont get down if he doesnt respond . ask for his phone number . be patient . be aware of more obvious signs that he likes you . if he still doesnt get the hint , tell him . if hes not interested , try not to sweat it . dont take any major steps at the beginning of the relationship . dont talk about breakups or bad scenarios . give him some space and freedom sometimes . dont overdo facebook and twitter . make sure theres equality in the relationship . if you break up , try to be mature about it .

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if he looks at you a lot , it probably means hes interested , but if not yet , then just keep trying using the steps below . they will help you quite a bit in becoming his friend , but if youre shyer maybe you should try and make friends with his friends and work up from there . get close to him so that he starts noticing you right away . if you really like him than make sure he really notices you laugh a lot . this always gets a guys attention . just dont be crazy about it , laughing every ten seconds at anything he says could make you seem unreal . also , smile a lot , not so much that its cheesy , but show him you are confident with yourself . find out what he likes doing and be there doing the same thing . do you both like sports , or maybe science if you can , be in the same place with him doing the same activity . say hi and bye and be friendly . wave at him . when he replies back to you , you know hes noticed you . dont expect any guy to notice you just because you are there it doesnt always work that way . so dont be afraid to talk to him . ask him if he could help you with the homework , even if you dont need help . ask him how his weekend went , and what he did . tell him about parties , events , or get togethers that youre having . dont blurt out random things like what do you do after school he might think you are a stalker . just be yourself , dont be someone youre not . if you are in one of his classes , and he sits near you , score but if he doesnt , thats okay . you can sit near him . ask him to be your partner whenever you can . if you can see he has a problem , no matter how big or small , be there for him . find ways to let him know you want to talk with him about anything . notes , im , texting , etc . can work . most guys are attracted to confident and stylish girls . you dont have to be a supermodel just try to boost your confidence — you are beautiful , clever , popular , and sweet . treat yourself to some new clothes . you dont need to grab a whole new wardrobe to get noticed . a few stylish items seasonal , of course will help you stand out . get a new haircut . talk with your stylist or your moms stylist about maybe changing up your hair . how would it look short what if you layered it a bit consider these things in order to get noticed . do you need to drop a few pounds talk with your mom about whether you can join a gym or sports team . even if you dont need to lose weight , staying in shape or losing something as small as half a pound will make you feel great , but if he doesnt accept you the way you are , than he isnt right for you . his loss there is no such thing as a girlfriend who isnt first and foremost a friend . in fact , the best girlfriend is one who is not always romantic , but one that is a friend . this does not mean betraying or belittling your own beliefs . yours are every bit as important as his . discuss them when you can . listen to what he has to say . always hear him out . take the opportunity to learn new facts about him . respect what he says but form your own opinions about them . have conversations with him . attraction often starts when we have a great emotional connection with someone by really bonding with him . try to have interesting , funny , playful conversations with him to establish that bond . it doesnt matter what you talk about . the important thing is that you have meaningful interaction . ask him about his background — his parents , his childhood , his siblings . these things are personal , so be respectful . offer to share your own background to give him a better idea of who you are . ask him about his goals — what he always dreamed about being , what hes interested in , what makes him happy . you can learn a lot about a person from his goals . start thinking about your own goals so that you can share them with him . no matter how much you trust your friends , if they ever become mad at you they could go behind your back and tell him something you said about him . stick up for him if he gets teased or involved in a fight . dont let him wonder whether or not youre his friend — make it absolutely clear . dont gossip about him . gossip has a way of spreading like wildfire . you dont want juicy stuff getting back to him quite yet . shut down the gossip . small talk is fine in the beginning you dont want to rush into it , or else it will seem weird . but smile , be nice , and talk with his friends . hell want you to get along with them . you might have to be the one who asks him , but if he agrees , it wont matter that youre the one asking him . at first , hang out with a group of people . go to the beach or lake together hang out at the skate park go to a football game as a group . here are some other options of teen - friendly things you can do go to an amusement park roller - coasters , mini - golf , arcade games , etc . go to the movies . go to the state fair . hang out after school . sometimes , the best times are when youre not doing anything , just hanging out . when the two of you are comfortable , it might be okay to drop a few hints that you are interested in becoming more than an ordinary friend . notes work . texts , work , but a handwritten note is best . that way hell have a keepsake from you . ask him to hold your backpack or carry your books to the next class . see what he does . ask him to a dance . sadie - hawkins dance , if you have one , would be the perfect opportunity the girl is supposed to ask the guy . flirt with him . there are a bunch of ways to flirt with him flirt with your eyes . lock his eyes with yours and smile at him sweetly . hold his eyes a little longer than normal . flirt with touch . gently touch his shoulder with your hand when you talk with him . flirt with words . tell him that hes good at sports , or compliment him on his new haircut . hell be thrilled that you noticed . hold his hand . this should make it really clear to him you are interested . hug him more tightly than a friend hug , and maybe just a little more often . a small gift . one of those small valentines day hearts that reads i like you is perfect . some guys your own age might not get the hint . girls do usually reach puberty earlier than guys , so girls usually reach that level of emotional maturity earlier as well . be casual about it hey , i realized i didnt have your phone number . establishing a friendship outside of school or extracurriculars will be important . wait for him to call you . you dont want to come on too strong guys dont like talking on the phone as much as girls . text him kind of regularly , just for simple conversation . dont make it pointless , however , because guys dont like small - talk . flirt with him with texts facebook , im , and emails will also work . say something like i didnt know youd singlehandedly destroy the football team on friday . nice work guys will often let you know if hes interested in you or not without putting any words to it . there will be a part of you that will be able to tell by instinct . be on the lookout for signs that hes nervous around you . it could mean he likes you . does he sweat or blush when he talks to you it could be his body saying that hes into you . look at you and then look away when you catch him staring he cant get enough of your looks , and hes day - dreaming . constantly hang around you , but not with you it could be we wants to look at and be around you , but doesnt want you to know . if hes hugging or holding hands with you , then youre golden . he likes you . but here are some other signs in case youre not completely sure . do his pupils dilate when he looks at you sometimes his eyes will change color slightly . does he touch you , offer to give you piggybacks , or bump into you randomly he could want to get any excuse to touch you because he likes you . gulp loudly or stumble around with his words his heart is pumping hard and hes worried about messing up . dont trust too many other minute - by - minute changes to his anatomy . some of those changes , even the more obvious ones , are completely random in very young men for several years . remember , its better to have tried and failed than to never try in the first place . wait for the right moment . youll pretty much know when the time comes . if you are ready to ask him out dont say it in front of a group or something or he might say no . be calm , cool and collected while youre asking him . make eye contact with him and remember to smile . be confident . its really hard to ask him , but youre up for the challenge , arent you ask him if he wants to go to the movies or grab a bite to eat . you dont have to call it a date for it to be a date . yes , it will feel bad for a time . no , it wont last forever . remind yourself of all that you have to offer . there will be plenty of other guys . if he says no , just smile and walk away with your emotions covered up . try not to be awkward around him or mean to him . staying classy might cause him to reconsider . for instance , kiss him when he says yes to being your boyfriend , but then for the first week or so settle with hugging and holding hands . if he wants to kiss you , go ahead if he kisses you , dont make it a passionate kiss the first time . you want him to be interested in kissing you again , so only give him a little taste the first time . dont let him pressure you into anything . relationships are about mutual respect , not one person getting something the other isnt comfortable with . at the beginning of a relationship , some people think its a brilliant idea to make a pact that theyll still be friends when we break - up . dont do this . this gives the guy a sense of security , so generally he wont be heartbroken to lose you . plus , its weird to talk about breakups in the beginning . how do you know what youll be feeling when you break up you just dont know . talk about happier things . instead of talking about the relationship , just be in the relationship . this will help the guy out . sometimes , its better and easier to act instead of talk . guys need some space . just because hes hanging out with his friends doesnt mean he doesnt like you , or that he likes someone else . let him see his friends . dont become clingy . yes , spend a substantial time together in the afternoon or weekends , but let him see his friends at school . if he never makes time for you , however , thats a warning sign . make sure that he gives you enough time . he should want to be with you if hes in a relationship with you , you might just have to tell him that you need him to pay more attention to you . dont get upset every time he talks to another girl . guys are allowed to talk to other girls , just not flirt or go over the line with them . trust him until he gives you a reason not to . dont obsessively talk with him all night on social networks or msn . if you dont talk to him every second , it will make him want to talk to you even more spend most of your time talking in person or on the phone . its okay to call him every other or every third night . you dont want an awkward internet - relationship where you dont feel comfortable with one another in person . its okay to send him sweet messages every once in a while . make them surprises . if you do it irregularly , hell be even more excited . dont always expect a response . dont let him treat you like a doormat . youre a living , breathing human being , and you deserve respect . dont let him boss you around or tell you what to do . stand up for yourself when you need to . love yourself first . if you cant love yourself , its hard to love him . youll find a lot of things you like and dislike about yourself in a relationship . theyre like mirrors . change the things about yourself that you dislike , and guard the things about yourself that you like . relationships are about two people . if youre doing all the work and he just sits back and enjoys it , youre not doing yourself any favors . make sure he shows you affection , too . you deserve respect and consideration . make sure he knows this . breakups happen all the time theres still a chance that you could get back together , or if theres not , there are plenty of other guys out there . theres no need to unfriend him on facebook or msn . just unsubscribe from him and dont talk to him . be friendly but distant . you want to be nice to him , but you dont want him to get any ideas . you want him to feel stupid that you ever broke up in the first place . hold your head high . youre growing into a beautiful young lady . be confident about who you are and people will appreciate you .

take pride in your appearance . stay smiling . keep an eye on your posture . strike up a conversation with his friends . resist the urge to apologize .

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if you think you might run into your crush , take a few extra minutes to brush your hair an extra bit or maybe put on one of your favorite tops . dont go overboard but a little extra primping may give you that extra bit of poise to counteract any klutziness . for example , you could style your hair in a way that makes you feel the most confident , such as a sophisticated up - do . or , you could give yourself a home manicure or pedicure every other week . other people will also notice that you look put together and they will be less likely to pick on you or bother you as a result . your confidence will make them view any mishaps on your part as simply accidents and nothing more . keep a slight smile on your face , even if the going gets tough . this will show others that you are not that affected by any klutzy behavior and that youve moved on , so they should too . smiling also relaxes your body , reduces stress , and makes other people feel more comfortable with you . if you are not sure how your smile looks , you might want to practice a bit in front of a mirror . you will soon find that it comes naturally to you when you feel good . the best way to demonstrate that you do control your body is to carry yourself in the best possible way . keep your back straight and pay attention to holding your shoulders back as you walk . focus on taking clear , deep breaths as well . a benefit of maintaining proper posture is that it will also help to minimize any clumsiness in the future . as you walk over to meet your crush and other friends , imagine balancing a book on your head . each step that you take must be slow and chosen carefully . this will make you less likely to trip or fall . if you are unsure whether or not you can talk to your crush without stumbling , try to interact with his friends instead . ask them about their hobbies or interests . talk to them about the days events . just be casual and discuss anything that comes to mind . this can help you build up to interacting with your crush directly . you might say , did you all go to the football game on friday or , what do you guys have planned for spring break as soon as you fall , you may feel the need to stand up and say , im sorry , to everyone who witnessed it . unless you hurt or knocked someone else down , this isnt really necessary . stating an apology could make you feel better , but it will likely make you feel worse and even less worthy of being around your crush . so , just skip it entirely .

laugh off any accidents . swap embarrassing stories with others . talk about what you love . recognize if he is nervous , too . dont be put off by his silence . focus on minor details around you . feel out his interest level with casual questions . ask your friends for help .

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right after you do something clumsy , come up laughing . this takes a potentially negative moment and makes it into a positive one . it also makes it less likely that anyone will try to pick on you because of the incident . they are more likely to laugh right along . this is a good way to build community with others on the basis of what might have seemed like a negative event . they will likely agree with you and may even tell you a few stories of their own . you could say , i hate when i trip over my own feet . have you ever done that before if gracefulness isnt your strong suit , switch the subject to something that you are good at . when you start to talk about something that you are passionate about , others will instantly be interested and will forget any prior actions on your part . the dopamine that comes from relieving a hobby of yours will also help to calm your nerves down . for example , you might say , i just went to this amazing concert last week . let me tell you guys all about it . just after youve had a clumsy moment , take a second to look closely at your crush . you may seem that he is sweating a bit or perhaps wringing his hands too . these are signs that he is nervous as well . it means that you are not alone . you can also watch for erratic eye contact . if he cant look you directly in the face , he may be nervous . he may blush as well . your crush might be shy . or , he might feel bad for you after an embarrassing moment and not know what to say . give him the benefit of the doubt and dont expect too much conversation until you get to know him better . be patient and keep trying to reach out to him in friendship . you might start by simply saying , hi on a regular basis . if he responds , great . if not , then keeping moving on . if you are talking with your crush and his friends and find yourself growing more nervous , turn your attention to your surroundings . look at the people around you and pay attention to what they are wearing . try to pick out your favorite elements of the room that you are in . try to stay engaged but a bit distracted at the same time . if you want to gauge your crushs level of interest in you , without resorting to klutzy questioning , then try to talk with him about relationships and friendships in general . ask him about his closest friends . talk to him about his family relationships . pay attention to not only what he says , but how he answers the questions as well . does he give you his full attention or are you an afterthought you might say , tell me about your best friend . you said that he lives out of town , right tell your friends about your dilemma and ask them to walk around with you when you might run into your crush . they will hopefully distract everyone from anything embarrassing that you might do . they can also talk about your positive traits and give you a dose of needed confidence . make sure to return the favor when you can . you might tell your friends , i could really use your help when im around my crush . if you could start talking to everyone or distract them if i do something klutzy , that would be great .

put yourself in his line of sight . sit near him . create a situation that prompts him to approach you . share a common interest . join his friend group .

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if you see a natural opportunity to walk past him , take it if you notice that he walks down a certain hallway every day at a certain time , position yourself there . do this sparingly , otherwise you may come off as desperate . make sure when you are walking past him that you are doing so for a purpose . get a drink from a water fountain hes standing near or go into the library if hes standing out front chatting with his friends . when you do walk past him , makes sure to stand up straight , hold your head up high , walk with confidence and have a smile on your face . this doesnt mean sit right next to him – that would be too obvious but sitting near him in his line of vision , if possible can definitely get you noticed and create a scenario in which hell approach you to talk . if you share a class with him , sit nearby . at lunch , sit with your friends one table over . try walking past him with an armload of heavy books , or try to enter a door hes standing near with your hands full . perhaps even walk by him looking confused or lost , as though you are trying to find a classroom or a person and having no luck . while the damsel in distress act shouldnt be employed too often , it can definitely be effective in getting a conversation started , or at the very least , provide an opportunity to lock eyes with him and smile , if you know hes interested in something in particular , give it a try yourself . for instance , if you know he enjoys watching basketball games at school , go to one yourself every now and then . if he loves music , occasionally drop by your local record shop . bump into him at the gym . if you see one another while in the midst of a common interest , hes almost certain to come over and chat with you about it . dont go to extremes to make this happen . you dont need to force yourself to enjoy anything that you dont like keep it natural . plan carefully and dont try to pop up at every single event or hobby hes interested in . doing this will likely make you seem creepy , and the stalker vibe is not one you want to give off if you are already friendly with some of his close friends and it feels natural to do so , get closer to those people . it will provide him with plenty of opportunities to approach you . not only that , but his friends will have nothing but nice things to say about you in front of him , which is never a bad thing

take pride in your appearance . try doing something different with your hair . take care of yourself . dress to impress .

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the way you present yourself on the outside is a big indicator of how you feel about yourself on the inside . you want to show your guy that you are worth it and you want to catch his eye . looks arent everything , but they are the first thing a guy notices about you . no matter how awesome your personality is , a guy isnt going to see that from across the room groom yourself . keep your hair neatly combed and your nails clipped . practice good personal hygiene by brushing and flossing your teeth and taking daily showers . wash and moisturize your face on a regular basis . this helps give you a healthy glow . try lotions and perfumes that smell nice . just dont overdo it you want him to notice it when he passes by you , not from across the room . dont go crazy and dye your hair pink , but doing some little things can help . experiment with flat irons , curling irons , clips , bobby pins – anything that is different might get his attention . try out different styles the night before school or before the event where youll see the guy . straightening your hair with a flat iron can give you a more casual look . you can use a curling iron to give your hair some extra bounce . are you a ponytail person or a hair down kind of girl whatever you are , try changing it up try a different part in your hair , or consider bangs . have fun with it the ways to do this are many , and range from the simple to the complex . focus on the basics when you take care of yourself , it shines through without you needing to say a word . get enough sleep . exercise regularly . make healthy changes to your diet . some may say that clothes dont make the girl , but we all know they have some impact wear clothes that fit well and make you feel good about yourself . if you arent comfortable in the clothes youre wearing , your discomfort will show through in the way you carry yourself . try incorporating flattering colors to spruce up your wardrobe . accentuate your assets . this doesnt mean wear skimpy clothing if you have toned arms , try wearing a tank top , for example . make it work for your guy . if youre tall , try wearing flats around him more so that he feels comfortable . if you usually wear jeans , change it up and try a dress . try to develop your own sense of style . everyone notices this , not just guys experiment with jewelry or other accessories . sometimes its the little details that really catches someones attention .

dont be too serious , unless the event actually is serious . show off your natural beauty - this is incredibly important . wear the right clothes if you want to impress a guy , dont wear extremely baggy clothes , as they sometimes make certain girls look fatter than they actually are , participate in a sport to make a good topic for conversation . get into health and fitness . smile , make your hair look presentable . have something which makes you different from your friends .

how to make a guy like you without doing a lot

guys like you more if you are just laid back and cool about things . if someone spills something on your tori burch handbag , dont cry and whine , even though you may want to . if you fall in the hallway or slip , just laugh at yourself in public . you can hit yourself in the head as much as you want to when youre alone . most guys dont like the girls that have the huge black fake eyelashes , the thick eyeliner , or the blood red lipstick . embrace your natural beauty try going without make up , or just wearing minimal makeup . for everyday makeup , try wearing neutral colors like brown rather than black around your eyes . makeup should add glow , not color . try to find clothes that fit you , and enhance the good features of your figure . yes , this does mean that going to the store and trying on the clothes is better than ordering them online where youre not sure if they will fit or not , but its good to know what youre buying is perfect for you . also , dont feel like you should wear your lowest top or shortest skirt to impress him . itll do the opposite and make you look cheap , shallow , and desperate . guys love girls who have hobbies . its okay not to play a lot of sports , but some guys tend to like girls who can throw a ball or shoot a basket . when sport season starts , try encouraging your friends to join a sport team with you and maybe try to learn a few things about the sports your crush likes . having a good body will make you more confident , and guys find confidence in a girl very attractive . try small things like replacing your daily chocolate bar with an item of fruit , cutting down on the amount of tv you watch , and walking rather than using transport which is environmentally friendly too . if you want a drastic change with your figure then start a fitness regime and ask friends or family to do it with you for support . everyone yes , boys and girls love someone who can smile and laugh . try to be optimistic and look at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty . as long as you take care of your hair and dont walk around looking like youve been dragged through a hedge backwards then dont worry . also , dont worry about hair colour , some guys like blonds , some like brunettes , some like red heads , everyone has different taste . it could be anything , even a small thing . maybe a hobby , such as dance or art or a certain sport . or it could be a phrase or saying that you have , nothing annoying though , and dont say it too often . or perhaps something about the clothes you wear , try dressing slightly different to the people around you , as friends are often highly influenced by each others taste in fashion . dont buy loads of shocking clothes , but just dont copy too much .

go to any church services early . attend bible classes and church youth groups as much as possible . get involved in church activities . ensure you look approachable , but not too approachable . make sure you dont look so approachable . be mature . grab every possible opportunity to talk to the christian boy . compliment him whenever he has done anything positive . dress modestly to make a christian boy like you . dont forget the reason why you go to church . study the bible .

how to make a christian guy like you for teens

you have to show your christian guy that you are mature enough when it comes to spiritual matters by showing how keen you are to worship . as a christian , you may consider this deception as you havent arrived early to praise the lord , you are there early to try to get a boy to like you . this will be more successful if the christian boy you like goes to the bible classes or youth groups . if he does not , you might meet someone new . show the christian boy you are having fun at these events smile , laugh , be generous and warm . a christian guy should love a christian girl that serves the lord with joy and amusement . you need to look nice , appear to be a good listener and a fun person to be with . this will attract people with similar qualities to you . the christian boy will think everyone can talk to you during the hour of worship . if your church doesnt have an hour of worship , try paying attention to the service and praying in respectful silence . christian boys usually like girls who behave appropriately in church at all times . dont act in any way that could be interpreted as immature . it is suggested that you should behave yourself when inside the church in a way appropriate for your age . whenever you have the chance to talk to him , take the opportunity . if you are shy , and hes shy also , nothing will happen so if you want to make a boy like you , be brave and talk to him . for example , you could say hey you know what , you really did a great job handing out the hymn books . or , if the christian boy has done a good job explaining something in some church related activity you could say , i really did understand the - - - - - - - - topic and it has now become easier for me to explain it to others go on to say , hmm , i am thinking if maybe you could give me some bible studies over - - - - - - place . your christian boy may start to like you if you ask him to help you with your bible studies , especially if he can also help you with your english . try saying , hi , by doing this , you will look lovely this may not make him like you . this may just make him think you are friendly . look mature , look religious and respectable . you dont have to dress like youre going at a party or on a red carpet or go too far the other way a dress as a nun . appropriate church clothes may make a boy like you . look presentable and youll feel comfortable . if you want to put some makeup , keep it natural . face powder , blush on and lip gloss will do . remember some christian boys like teen girls who dont wear any makeup . youre inside the church so respect god . behave yourself and dont go like ah i saw him omg . these are suitable things to say in church . remember that youre inside a sacred place . however , since you have already been gazing around looking for a boy to try to make like you , this may not be of great concern to you . theoretically , you shouldnt be trying to make a boy from church like you in church . this can be a great help for starting conversations with him . talk about god and his disciples and the prophets to make him like you .

first , make sure he doesnt have a secret girlfriend that he hasnt told you about . when you see him , say hi and try to be friends . become confident in yourself . ask him if he wants to go to a movie with a friend of yours . if he takes the bus to work or school with you and gets on after you , try to see where he sits . if he already has a girlfriend remain friends , you never know whats going to happen because you showed you liked him , if he really likes you hell ask you out if he likes you then you will catch him looking in your direction , if you catch his eye he might keep looking at you .

how to know for sure if a boy likes you before you ask him out

just ask one of his friends if hes single . engage in a conversation . it doesnt matter whether if youre a teen or an adult , always become friends first . do things that make you feel good about yourself and wear things you like . confidence is always a good thing , and generally boys like independent , confident girls . this is like asking him out , except in a friendly way . remember to become friends before asking . if he sits in the closest seat to you for a few days , he likes you . when he comes on the next day , come invite him to sit with you and maybe listen to music . as he is close ask him if you want to do something later tonight . if he says yes , congrats if he says no say ok , maybe some other time . , but be careful he might be looking at another girl thats sitting near you .

find out whether or not he is just joking with you , or if he just likes to mess with people . pay attention when he is near to see if he sort of invades your personal space . determine whether he tries to make you laugh . observe carefully for signs that he is building himself up by showing off . check for him trying to get your attention by acting silly or brash . watch the way the guy moves when he sits or stands with you . ask him if he likes you . have a trusted friend get the information for you . determine whether he stares at you often . watch his eyes . check out his cheeks . notice when he touches you . be alert to attempts to try to help you . notice panic when you cry . be alert to his interest in things you like . watch for deliberate attempts to get near to you . watch for appearances of jealousy of your current boyfriend or other guy friends , use his friends as a gauge .

how to know if a guy likes you in school

if he jokes around with you then he , may like you , however , he just might like to mess with other people too . when you are sitting at lunch , pay attention to see if he is messing with you just to be funny , or if he is trying to be funny and friendly . if he is extremely nice to you , never puts you down . walks with you in the halls on your way to classes . acts shy . , for example , he might list all the sports he plays , how much he can do of something , or continually say how good he is at something . again , this may be a part of the way he is around everyone . try to figure out if he is taking extraordinary measures to build himself up in your eyes . he might kick your chair , talk loudly , or act clumsy . these are all signs that something is up and he has an interest in you . if he is making an effort to sit or stand up straight , then he may like you . if he may be pulling his shirt down , playing with his hat , you can assume it means he is shy and thinks youre pretty . if he stands up for you all the time and is overprotective , then he may like you . this is the simplest and most direct way to find out . this takes a confident person unless you already are perfectly confident . youll also have to be able to handle it if he doesnt like you especially if you like him . by asking himher just to ask them or observe them further . this is something that is very important to look for . if he does stare at you , try to see what kind of a stare it is . is it a stare like he is lost in his thoughts , or is it a stare meaning he thinks youre weird sometimes his eyes can say everything do his pupils dilate when he looks at you sometimes , if a boy likes you , his pupils will dilate . not many people pay attention to this , but sometimes it can be a sign that he is crushing on you . do his cheeks turn any shade of pink or red around you when you two are having a simple chat in the hall , try to see what color his cheeks are . do they turn an unusual pink or red around you , or do they stay their normal color if they are not their normal color , it could be a sign that he is nervous around you and is afraid of embarrassing himself . slightly look at him if he walks past you or are in lessons and see if he is looking at you . notice his reaction when he realizes hes been caught . if he blushes or turns away quickly , its a definite sign he is into you , but dont be upset if he doesnt react because some guys like to act cool and make it seem they werent looking at you at all . does he ever try to gently shove or touch you if he does this , he could just be friendly , or he could be trying to make an excuse to get closer to you . does he ever hug you for no reason making physical contact is a sign that he likes you . this usually means he is just being friendly , but if he does it often , it may mean that he wants to make an excuse for you two to get closer . if he panics more than your other guy friends would when you cry , its a sign . ever had those kind of days where nothing seems to be going right and you break into tears pay attention to his reaction does he ask whats wrong and whowhat caused it and tries hard to make you laugh or at least smile if he does any of this more often than your other guy friends , it means he cares about you and likes you . have you ever talked to him about a tv show or a video game and a week later he is hooked on it it means he is either really into the same things as you , or he wants you to like him more . does he ever try to sit by you in class if your class does not have certain seating arrangements , does he try his best every day to sit near you has he asked for your phone number yet and does he text you a lot if he hasnt got your number , no problem , it might mean he is shy or nervous . have you ever caught him glaringnarrowing his eyes at a boy you talk to he might be jealous of other guys around you . look at his expression when you are talking to other guys . does he look angry or act moody or even comes and interrupts you when you are talking do his friends laugh at him and look at you like they know something you should know this can be a dead giveaway . it is usually the friends that let the boys crush find out he likes them . try to look for that when you walk near . do they a giggle and nudge your crush and make lovey dovey noises or smirk at him does he hang around your friends a lot this may mean he wants to get closer to your friends to help him find out more about you .

be friends with him . always be there for your crush . give him a few cute little clues . flirt a little bit . talk to a guy as a guy . have him chase you . if youre not necessarily the prettiest of girls , try to ask him what he looks for in a girl . when the time is right lean in and kiss him on the cheek or lips and quickly pull away and walk away , leaving him wanting more

how to make a boy notice you even more

have your crush notice you and if he doesnt notice you , then try to make him notice you . give a good first impression , say hello in the hallways , maybe walk with him to class and talk a little . form a little bubble in his mind about you . sometimes boys can be confusing , and some times they can be sad . if you see your crush down , and by himself , or just on a wall looking sad go up to him and ask are you okay let him know that youre always there for him if he wants to talk , and that he can trust you . remember to give him some space once in a while or if he looks like he wants to be alone . this will make him miss your comfort and hell think about you . to make a boy notice you , you have to sometimes act in a way that hints you want to be noticed more . if you find him looking at you , make eye contact with him and give him a sweet innocent closed mouth smile . hold the eye contact for about five seconds , then break off . this will leave your crush wondering about your seductive smile . guys will be guys , and a little bit of flirting wont do you any harm . its okay to flirt a little bit , leave your crush with a memory of a beautiful girl that has shown some interest in him . he will come back to return the favor sometime and voila , conversations will start rolling . leave the girl talk to your friends usually , one way to get a guy to notice you more is to talk about him . ask him about his game if he plays a sport , or an art piece if hes into art , or whatever you find he has hobbies in . your crush will most certainly be flattered , responsive , and maybe even a tad bit embarrassed if hes shy when you ask about his day . he might ask about you a bit too . a friend is always there , but if you want your crush to notice you more , then youve got to be unavailable once in a while . break off a conversation nicely and excuse yourself off , or talk to another guy . have him wondering about the mysterious side of you . if he says looks , then ask him why and say its all about the personality not looks . also keep on giving him hints about you .

interact with him . notice his smile . notice his stance .

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strike up a conversation with him and pay attention to the way he interacts with you . if he is an outgoing person and likes you , hell playfully touch you while you talk . the occasional shoulder brush or hand - grab to show you something are tell - tale signs . if he is shy , he wont be as obvious . if this is the case , he may blush or stare at you while you talk . a true smile extends beyond the normal width of a mouth . if his smile is across his whole face , hes being affected by you in a good way . if his teeth arent showing , hes most likely forcing the smile . this means that hes humoring you and isnt interested . all of his muscles will be pulled to show off his body to his best advantage when hes talking to you if hes trying to impress you . hes often stand with his hands on his hips to suggest confidence . when a man is interested , hell stand directly in front of you to show full attention and make it possible to lean in to get closer with ease . if hes not interested , his shoulders will face away from you .

practice good hygiene . choose outfits that are mature and put together . develop a personal sense of style . develop a knowledge of current events and pop culture . discuss your skills and abilities in school or your career . focus on topics or interests you have in common . focus on being yourself around the older guy . practice active listening . share your feelings and emotions . demonstrate independence and self sufficiency .

how to impress an older guy

show him you are well - groomed and put together by ensuring you maintain good hygiene . shower every day , make sure you brush and floss at least twice a day , and present a clean appearance . you can let an older guy know that you can be mature and put together by choosing outfits and clothing that appear more adult . go for outfits that project maturity rather than a childish or teenager look . a big part of acting mature is being able to own your own sense of style , based on your tastes and preferences . dont expect to wake up one day and have personal sense of style . instead , let your sense of style evolve as you evolve . as you grow older , your taste in clothing will change over time . it may help to focus on a certain style of dressing , like surfer girl style or ladylike style , and then tailor it to fit your personality and your tastes . one way you can develop your own sense of style is to find an older style icon and emulate their style . this could be a classic film star like carey grant or grace kelly , or it could be your mother or fathers style in the 70s or 80s . look at how your style icon dresses and carries themselves . try to find clothing that has a similar cut or look and style yourself after an older style icon . if youre trying to create an outfit for a night out , you should think about dressing mature and still true to yourself . this could mean higher necklines and lower hemlines , but also an element that is true to your personality or sense of style , like a cool necklace or a vintage coat . the idea is to project confidence and maturity with how you wear your clothing , rather than what you are wearing . show the older guy that you have a strong intellect by reading up on current events and pop culture . you can then bring up current events in conversation when you are around the older guy or on a date with him . you should try to have a well - informed opinion about local and global issues and be willing to engage in conversation that is interesting and engaging . you can become well - versed in current events and pop culture by reading articles online and in print in magazines , newspapers , and journals . you can also watch videos online about pop culture and world issues so you are armed with lots of intelligent information you can discuss with the older guy . take pride in your skills and abilities at school or at work and dont be afraid to discuss them with the older guy . if you are a star student in a particular subject or an ace employee at the office , brag and let the older guy know that you are in control and in charge in a certain area of your life . this will show him you have skills and abilities that you excel in . your confidence and skills will surely impress him and make him more interested in you as a person . one way you can show off your skills or abilities is to invite him to an event or setting that will allow you to demonstrate them . this could be an art show displaying your artwork , a sporting event where he can watch you play , or an office event where you can show off how well - regarded you are among your co - workers . you can also share this information in conversation by asking the older guy what he is most proud of or asking him about his skills and abilities . he may then reciprocate by asking you about your skills and abilities , thereby allowing you to share them without appearing cocky or egotistical . for example , you could suggest lets talk about things we are proud of or ask him , what do you feel you are good at if you know you and the older guy share certain topics or interests in common , you should focus your conversation around these interests . this could be a shared interest in science fiction novels or a sports team , or perhaps a shared experience of backpacking through asia alone . think about topics that you can bring up that will encourage interesting conversation and a feeling of connection between you and the older guy . you can also plan dates or get togethers that focus on a topic or activity of interest , like going to see a favorite author read at a bookstore or going to watch a hockey game of a team you both love . this will show the older guy that you are trying to create experiences that you will both enjoy and that you are mature enough to consider his needs as well as yours . try not to put on an act or pretend to be someone you are not around the older guy . though you may try to impress the older guy by being someone you are not , it can be difficult to maintain the act and over time , you may slip up or not be able to keep pretending . avoid giving the guy a false sense of yourself and start the relationship on an honest , straightforward note . be forthcoming and yourself around the guy so you appear confident and self - aware to him . this will likely impress him more than a false representation of yourself . impress the older guy with your ability to be a good listener and practice active listening . active listening is the process of viewing every conversation as a learning opportunity , where you can get to know someone better or learn something new from someone else . when you actively listen to someone speak , they can tell you are interested in what they are saying and are skilled at sincere and engaging conversation . do active listening with the older guy by asking him about his day and then listening to him fully as he speaks . listen without interrupting but show you are engaged by nodding and maintaining eye contact with him . once he is finished speaking , repeat back what he said in your own words , such as , i think you mean… or what i hear you saying is… you can also offer advice or comment on what he tells you . be thoughtful and take your time when you respond to him , as this will show him you take his words seriously and can be a good active listener . avoid bottling up your feelings and emotions or being passive aggressive about your emotions . these are both signs of immaturity and an inability to be emotionally open . older guys can have more developed emotional maturity due to their age and experience , so meet him halfway by being willing to share your feelings if you are upset or bothered by something or someone . this means also being honest with him if he does something that annoys you or makes you uncomfortable , as this will show him you can be confident and straightforward . keeping your feelings and emotions to yourself may seem like an easy to avoid conflict and appear relaxed and easygoing , especially if you are trying to appear cool and collected to an older guy . but being dishonest about your feelings will only lead to conflict later on and less trust between you and the older guy . if the older guy is as mature as he seems , he will react to your honesty with compassion and gratitude . for example , if the older guy does something that upsets you , rather than get upset and start a screaming match or give him the silent treatment , you can respond by suggesting that you both discuss the issue and try to resolve it together . if he forgets your birthday , for example , you may tell him im sure you didnt mean to be hurtful , but when you forgot my birthday i felt really hurt . it felt like you didnt value a day thats important to me . can we talk about it another big turn on for older guys is a partner who is not overly needy or insecure . show him that you can be independent and self sufficient so that he comes to see you as his equal , rather than a younger , inexperienced partner . this means not calling or texting him all day , every day , or insisting that you spend every minute together . you should cultivate your own friend group and stay connected to your family and friends , even if you become involved with the older guy . this will illustrate your independence and likely lead to a healthier relationship . do things on your own occasionally , like going to a concert or seeing a movie . knowing that you can have fun by yourself will make you more confident , which is impressive to older guys .

check your personal style . dont try too hard , be yourself . make conversation . keep your conversations simple and short . keep the flirting to a tolerable minimum . get on with your schoolwork , sports and other activities . ask him out . ask if you can be friends if hes not interested in romance .

how to impress a guy in middle school

are you making the statement you wish to make or do you need to make some style adjustments this might be as simple as ironing out the wrinkles or as complicated as coming up with new , fun ways to wear your existing clothes . thats the easiest and most sensible way to land a guy who is going to relate to the real you . avoid going overboard to impress or act differently , itll just embarrass him and cause him to keep away . find the brave inside of you to strike up a conversation and have a good chat . talk about school , sports , teachers , whatever if you miss this vital part of trying to get to know him , no amount of hair flicking , flirting or dropping binders in the hallway when he passes will cause him to feel impressed by you . ask him questions about his interests and hobbies outside of school . share a little information about what youre interested in too . work onto the longer ones later , for now just enough to be interesting . theres no need to overdo it and embarrass him in front of the others . avoid flirting with other guys in his presence . hell just figure youre not the slightest bit interested . he wont be impressed by someone whose marks dip or sporting performance falls short because youre too obsessed with him . staying on track with the things that are important to your development and future is more impressive than flirting or making ga - ga eyes all day . itll also reassure him that youre not the clingy type . hell appreciate the space you leave him . however , dont pressure him or push him into going out with you he wont . dont keep asking until he says yes either––leave it be and let him think things over . if he says no to that , just shrug and say okay . hell come around sooner or later . he might see how you didnt really care and really want you .

look for eye contact . check out his eyebrows . notice if he looks past you .

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not only should you be looking for eye contact , but you should also notice his pupils . if he is looking at you while you talk—great . if his pupils are larger than normal—even better dilation is a brain response that occurs when someone is attracted to something . if his eye contact is shaky , it most likely means that he wants to get out of the situation that hes in . excessive blinking is another strong indication someone is attracted to you . for some people , blink rate spikes when theyre emotionally excited . if his eyebrows are raises slightly , this means that he finds you fascinating . this is a subconscious expression that happens when a man likes what he sees . he may not always have direct eye contact when hes speaking to you , but that doesnt mean he isnt interested . if his eyes wander , take note of where theyre going . if hes checking you out—hes obviously interested . if he seems to be looking past you , its not a good sign . that shows that he is in a rush to escape the conversation .

introduce yourself to his friends . talk on the phone . watch how he talks to you .

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once you do this , sit with the group for a bit to see how your guy acts . if he seems to be putting on a show for his friends , it is likely that he is trying to get your attention . this means that hes interested . if he seems quiet or awkward , he might be uncomfortable with the situation because hes not interested in you and doesnt feel comfortable with you hanging around his friends . take note of how often and the reasons he calls or texts you when you arent together . if he is only calling you to ask a favor , he probably just sees you as a friend . if he calls just to see how youre doing or to make small talk , hes interested . is he always on is phone does he appear scatter - brained and ready to get out of the conversation if either of these are true , hes not interested . if he is interested , he will give you his full attention for as long as he can get it for .

learn what he likes . ask him what he thinks about you . talk in private .

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ask him , straight forward , what he looks for in a girl . this will give you a better idea of the kind of things that he is or isnt attracted to . take note about if you have these qualities or not . not only should you ask what he likes , but also ask what he doesnt like . keep it casual , but pick at his brain for his biggest turn - ons and turn - offs . if he says that hes not sure how he feels , thats not a good sign . chances are , he knows , but he knows you wont respond well if he tells you . if he says that he thinks that you have a great personality , ask him if he finds you attractive . have a talk about what you mean to each other . make sure not to bring it up in front of a group . that might make him uncomfortable and he might not give very straight answers to avoid an awkward situation .

focus on your skin . add color to your lips . make your eyes bolder . keep your nails pretty .

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having a clear face is an important step in grabbing a popular boys attention . while you should mainly rely on your natural beauty , you should also remove flaws or acne that distract from your attractiveness . in order to do so , follow a light makeup routine in order to hide small blemishes and bring out a natural glow on your face first , use makeup sponge to apply a thin amount of liquid foundation on your face . ensure that it is the same shade of your skin otherwise , it may appear unnatural . be sure that you spread some down your neck in order to maintain the same color . second , use a large brush to lightly dust your face with powder . this will help the foundation to stay on your face , as well as create a proper base for additional makeup . third , apply concealer over remaining blemishes . if you have bags under your eyes , cover them as well . fourth , use a big brush to add a light dusting of pink blush or face color . a good example of an excellent brand is bare minerals clear radiance face color . take good care of them to prevent them from becoming dry or chapped . if you have kissable lips , they will most likely grab his attention . the image of your lovely mouth wont be able to escape his thoughts if you follow the below steps first , apply chap stick to your lips every night . forming this habit will prevent them from becoming chapped . moisturized lips are ideal for applying lipstick in the morning . another method is to brush your lips with a wet toothbrush , which exfoliates your mouth and removes dead skin . second , apply a light pink or red lipstick . be sure that it is not too bold otherwise , it may appear unnatural and unattractive . third , lightly apply a gloss to add shine to your lips . fourth , outline your mouth with a lip liner that is a shade darker than your lipstick and gloss . this step is optional . they are one of your most unique facial features . and can be used as means of seduction and flirtation . to further draw out their beauty , accentuate their appearance with eye makeup lengthen your eyelashes . by drawing attention to them with mascara , you can bat your eyelashes and have your guy swooning at your feet . first , decide on the type of eyelashes you would like to have . you have the options of either long , thick , or both . second , when using the wand , wipe excess mascara off of the sides by using toilet paper or the side of the container . there should be enough remaining to use on your eyelashes . third , apply mascara to your eyelashes with careful and light motions . fourth , carefully pick or wipe off excess clumps of mascara on your eyelashes . you can also use a q - tip to fix mistakes or remove stray bits of makeup from your face . outline your eyes . to place emphasis upon them and attract attention , you can use eyeliner to give them a larger or smaller appearance . when purchasing eyeliner , find a mixture between liquid and crayon eyeliner , as liquid is runny while crayon hurts during application and is difficult to use . first , pull down the bottom of your eyelid . choose the color of your eyeliner black , white , brown , or silver . apply it on or below your waterline in thick but moderate strokes . keeping it thick is important , as the waterline may cause it to be washed off . carefully apply eyeliner over your top eyelashes . keep your stroke light as a thick line will cause you to appear to have a black eye . add color to your eyes . for a unique appearance that complements your outfits , use eyeshadow to add a dramatic flair to your eyes . although optional , it is recommended if you want to place the focus on your eyes . first , choose the color of your eyeshadow . to be safe , you can stay with plain colors , such as pink , white , silver , brown , and grey . however , it is recommended that you stay away from black . second , use an eyeshadow brush to lightly apply the color over your eyelid . if you wish , you could blend two colors together . apply a light shade before blending it with a dark layer on top . a good example of an ideal combination is black , white , and grey . brown , pink , and white is another . purple , white , and silver is also ideal . although they may not be as noticeable , your hands should appear just as beautiful as the rest of your body . paint your fingernails and toenails , as weekly trips to the nail salon can be expensive . keep your nails trimmed short unless you plan on doing french tips . clean your nails on a daily basis . remove dirt and grit from underneath them . this will show that you take good care of your body .

write down a list your strengths and weaknesses . smile and make eye contact . wear clothes that make you feel comfortable . pursue your own interests . try not to compare yourself to others .

how to impress a boy in middle school 1

its difficult to put yourself out there without healthy self - esteem and a sense of confidence , and shyness is common in middle school . a big part of self - confidence is being more aware of yourself . writing down a list of your strengths and weaknesses can help you uncover your best attributes . play these up when interacting with a boy you like . for example , if you have a great smile , be sure to use it often around the boy . identifying your weaknesses can help you make improvements . along with confidence , one of the best ways to make yourself more noticeable to a boy is to look approachable . smiling gives the instant impression that you are friendly and approachable . making eye contact is also important , but be careful not to stare . , a big part of confidence is looking and feeling your best . it doesnt mean being overly fancy , just wear clothes that make you happy and it will be easy to project a confident image to the boy you like . for example , if you feel comfortable and attractive in certain outfits , wear them when you know you will see him . it can be easy to get wrapped up in having a crush on a boy in middle school , but spending some time on your own interests , such as sports , clubs , or other hobbies , can make you look more confident with yourself . pursuing your interests may even give you something to talk about with the boy youre trying to impress . nothing kills confidence faster than comparing yourself to your peers . its easy to feel inadequate when thinking about what you dont have , so its important to minimize these feelings if you want to get the attention of a boy you like . be cautious when it comes to social media . many teens spend a lot of time projecting a particular image through their social media profiles , but this is often an exaggeration . try not to dwell on what your peers are posting on social media because it can harm your self - esteem .

have a location in mind before you start . wear something sexy . go easy on the drinks . get him alone or close to it . make sure this is right for you . get in close . sit in his lap . conquer your make out session . let your hands do the talking . tell him what you want . say no . dont drive drunk . make sure someone knows where you are . keep an eye on your drinks . bring protection and insist on using it . bring your phone , wake up first . be cool . clean yourself up . leave before it gets awkward . dont apologize . kiss him goodbye .

how to hook up with a guy

its probably safest to go to a hotel although your place is the next safest alternative . make sure your place is clean or that you have a hotel or other option ready to go . wear something revealing and a little tight but avoid the hooker look forgo fishnets , leather , leopard print , etc . drinking is okay , you shouldnt feel guilty about wanting to drink , but if you do drink do so safely . if hes super hot , you at least want to remember it in the morning , right its safest not to drink alcohol at all . if you dont want to get harassed about it , just tell him that youre allergic sulfites are a common allergen and are in many types of alcohol . you need some quiet time to talk . if youre at a party , get him off to the side where you can actually hear each other . besides , getting all hands - on in front of other people just makes things awkward . studies have shown that theres a high correlation between hook - ups and depression , anxiety , and low - self esteem . this is not to say that they cause those feelings , but make sure that you arent looking for sex just to fill a hole . there are better ways to make your life happier and more fulfilling . when youre talking to him , stand or sit close . really close . he should be able to see down your shirt , smell your perfume , and look deep into your lustful eyes . get playful and move to sitting in his lap . youll be sending his hips a direct message about exactly where you want them to be . once youve moved on to kissing , own that kiss . show him whos boss . nibble a little . be passionate . give him a little taste of what he can expect . use touch to show him what you have in mind . a casual caress or even a firm grope can show him you mean business . if hes not taking the hint , tell him exactly what you have in mind . guys will find that taking that kind of initiative is really sexy . just say something like , im feeling pretty tense . i think i could use a workout . do you want to get out of here and help me get a little exercise if you change your mind , you can say no . if at any time you feel uncomfortable , you can say no . there is nothing wrong with that . do whats right for you and dont let someone guilt you into something you dont want to do . dont drive if youre drunk and dont let him drive if hes drunk . you dont want this hook up to be to an iv in an ambulance . you never know what could happen . for your own safety , make sure your bestie or someone else you trust knows where you are . never leave your drink unattended and make sure you watch it being opened or poured . even if your guy is super awesome , that doesnt mean the other guys at the bar are . everybody wants their junk to stay healthy , right even if youre a girl , have a condom for him to use . and dont let him talk you into going without , even if you are on birth control . make sure you know how to put it on him in case he doesnt know how or does it wrong . again , you never know , so just make sure you have a phone ready to go with numbers for things like taxi services . or a friend if you want someone to talk to later . you want to be the one to wake up first so that you can get out without making things too awkward . dont make a big deal out of hooking up . you dont have anything to be ashamed of . just be calm and let yourself enjoy it . put yourself together and make sure all panties are accounted for . wash off your makeup quickly if its all smudged and tie up or comb your hair into something that looks intentional . you should also clean up any mess you guys made the night before as best you can without making too much noise . leave if youre at a hotel or make an excuse about needing to get him out of your place . you want to clear out before things get too awkward , especially if either of you is new to the hook up . you dont need to apologize to anyone about hooking up with a guy unless you have a boyfriend , in which case , oops . dont apologize to him . youre just going to make both of you feel bad about something you dont need to feel bad about . a quick kiss goodbye will help make sure everyone leaves with good memories . leave him your phone number if you want to leave the option open for a round 2 .

stick to name brands . find unique clothing . dress according to the season . wear jewelry .

how to impress a popular boy 2

in order to attract attention from a popular boy , you should dress as though you were a part of the popular group . they often wear expensive brands , such as hollister , american eagle , or abercrombie and fitch . although you could purchase a few sets of clothing from those places , you should shop at different stores that sell similar clothing at a lower , more reasonable price , such as aeropostale . garage sales or goodwill are alternate options , although you should never let people know that you go there . although you should draw your inspiration from the popular peoples outfits , never lose your own style . dress fashionably , but add your own personal preferences in order to stand out . if you dress too similarly to the crowd , you wont easily catch a popular guys attention . you may also be accused of copying . gradually ease into your new clothes . if you make an abrupt change , it will cause suspicion within people . they may spread rumors about you copying the popular people or attempting to impress someone . your fashion and wardrobe should change as the year progresses . for example , when summer comes , find clothing in lighter shades , such as light pink , yellow , and purple . however , once autumn begins to hit , adapt to natural colors that inspire thoughts of earth and fall , including light brown or grey . include skinny jeans , yoga jeans , or sweatpants in your outfits . good winter colors are dark blue , purple , white and black . meanwhile , floral clothing is popular in the spring . it is a simple way to add flair to an outfit . have your ears pierced if you like , and start wearing necklaces with unique pendants . purchase bracelets , watches , or rings to attract attention to your hands . however , beware of adding too many accessories , as you will appear tacky and unfashionable . employ the method of removing one accessory before you leave the house . if you feel that you have too many on , stick to your gut , as you may be right .

stay on top of your personal hygiene . stick to a healthy diet . keep your body fit . wear perfume . keep your teeth healthy . do your laundry .

how to impress a popular boy 3

take good care of your body , and it will show . shower on a daily basis , and use deodorant to smell good . wash your hair every two or three days , using an excellent shampoo and conditioner . be sure to shave your legs and armpits to remove unwanted hairs . keep your face clear by washing it with a chemical - free cleanser , toner , and moisturizer . by keeping your meals balanced with good nutrients and healthy foods , you will be able to maintain your weight . include carbohydrates in your meals for high energy levels so that you will always appear alive and active . if you eat good foods , it will in your vibrant , glowing appearance . exercise on a daily basis for at least thirty minutes . if you have trouble finding time , you can separate your workout time into three separate sessions , each one lasting ten minutes . find exercises that appeal to you the most , such as running or lifting weights . understand that you should recognize and respect your limits when exercising , as you could potentially damage yourself if you push your boundaries . to attract him , use enticing perfume that does not smell overwhelming . floral and vanilla scents are natural smells that are the most attractive . to ensure that you leave a subtle but sweet scent on your body , release one spritz of perfume in the air before walking through it . brush them twice a day , and floss them to get rid of buildups in the gums . include mouthwash in your daily regime to fight bad - smelling bacteria . keep mints with you at all times for fresh breath in case you need to talk to him . be sure to have regular appointments at the dentists in order to maintain your teeths health . to ensure that your clothes appear fresh and smell nice , clean them during your free time . wear shirts only once before washing them . avoid wearing pants or shorts more than twice , as dirt and smells could build up on them . be sure that you plan your outfits ahead of time so that you know when to do your laundry .

be yourself . have conversations with the popular guy . make him feel helpful . flirt . be mysterious . show off your skills . build a social life on the internet . dont wait for him forever .

how to impress a popular boy 4

although you may be tweaking your appearance , never forget that your personality can be a powerful tool . although a popular guy may like you for your appearance , he should also like you for who you are . otherwise , it is not worth it . despite how people think you should behave , be yourself and do what you enjoy . becoming a fake , lifeless doll who relies on peoples opinions is a bad direction . without taking any steps forward , you will not be able to progress in a relationship with him . by initiating a conversation and showing that you are confident in yourself , you will catch his attention and show him that you exist . if you remain in the background and only stare at him , he will not be interested in you and may think of you as creepy . find the right times to talk to him use large group activities at school to your advantage . show your intelligence and skills on projects , as this will impress him . socialize with all the group members to prove that you are a social butterfly . this will also give you the excuse to talk to him . however , avoid placing your entire focus upon him , as this will cause you to appear desperate . allow him to hang out with his friends , but occasionally drop by for a short conversation with him . after the project is over , continue talking to him once in a while . if he is interested in you , hell eventually start initiating the conversations . attend after - school meetings . casual locations , such as the park or community swimming pool , are ideal as he may be alone or with a small group of friends . if you see him , wave and start a conversation about your plans and activities . however , avoid pulling him away for too long , as he may become annoyed . if he has a small sibling , show your kindness to him or her . this will show the popular guy that you are good with children . however , avoid being overly sweet and fake otherwise , he may dislike you and feel that you are using his sibling to win his favor . ask the popular guy about his interests . show him that you are genuinely interested in his life . for example , if he plays football , ask him about last nights game . however , if his hobbies bore you , avoid spending too long on the topics , as your boredom will show . instead , find common interests or activities that you both participate in . compliment him . if he has a talent in a certain area that you didnt expect , offer him a genuine compliment . this may open up the path to a new conversation . however , avoid gushing over him or being overly sweet otherwise , he may feel uncomfortable . accidentally drop your belongings , or ask him to reach an item on a shelf or locker for you . you could also ask for his help on a question or an assignment . however , avoid being needy and constantly asking for his help . you should also show him that you can be independent and strong without him . if you constantly cling to him , he may feel smothered and think of you as weak . boys are often attracted by a flirtatious girl who knows how to set the tone . use subtle methods to show your attraction to him , such as twirling your hair , lowering your voice , or wearing slightly suggestive clothing . wear semi - low , cute tops , as well as dresses or skirts that fall slightly above the knee . occasionally bat your eyelashes , and dont hesitate to smile or wave to him . have a confident walk as if you have places to be . although boys may be attracted by a flirtatious girl , they are often turned off by one who constantly throws herself at them . in order to set the mood and raise his interest in you , add an element of mysteriousness to your personality . be secretive about certain aspects of your life . if he questions you about them , use slightly flirtatious lines , such as , id tell you , but then id have to kill you . you could also drop hints about having a crush on a certain boy , but avoid revealing too much information . although you should avoid completely bragging about them , attract his attention by flaunting your intelligence and talents a little . jog past him to show him how fast you are . do your best in gym class , or show him your excellent skills on the computer . by proving to him that you are capable of different activities , you will be able to capture his interest . beware of pushing your limits in skills that you are not good with . if he finds out that you are not as good as you claim , he may dislike you for lying . make sure that you are also well - connected outside of school . add the popular guy on several social media websites , such as facebook and twitter . once in a while , send him friendly messages , which will let him know that you are thinking of him and that you care . upload good photos of yourself , and make sure you look your best in them , as he could see them . however , avoid following all of his accounts otherwise , youll appear to be a stalker . if a friend tags you in a bad picture , untag it . if he has a girlfriend or doesnt like you , find other nice boys . understand that it is not the end of the friendship if he shows no interest in you . continue to maintain your relationship with him by talking to him otherwise , he may feel as if you were using him , and you might have destroyed a potentially important bond . realize that there is still hope that he may like you in the future , but dont heavily rely on it .

get to know him . get a little closer to him , but dont overdo it . let him see your best self .

how to impress a boy in middle school 2

if you arent sure if he likes you or not , trying to become friends first may be the way you want to go . get to know him a bit , spend time with him , and find some common ground . ask him about his hobbies or how he likes to spend his time and open up a bit . keep it casual . find common interests . if there are activities you both enjoy , youll have more reasons to spend time with him . ask him what kind of music he likes to see if he has similar interests . you can even talk about classes you have together . spend time with his friends . this may help you learn more about him . if you have a crush on this boy and are trying to be friends first , be careful not to come on too strong . as you get to know him better , reveal some more personal information about yourself . however , if he isnt also telling you about himself , you may want to stay more remote instead of opening up . dont spill your soul . have inside jokes and secrets with him . this is a great way to open up to each other and can help you gauge his sense of humor . having inside jokes allows you to establish common ground and can strengthen your friendship . ask him if he has a crush after youve gotten to know each other and share a certain level of trust , you may feel comfortable enough to ask him if he has a crush . this can move the relationship forward if hes interested in you be sure to ask at a time when it flows naturally do not force it into an unrelated conversation . if he isnt interested , dont be visibly upset . put your best foot forward you can still be friends and his feelings about you may change over time . as you become friends and spend more time together , let your confidence show . if you try too hard to be someone youre not , he wont get to know the real you . dont be afraid to be yourself . hell be impressed by how cool , understanding , and fun you are .

identify why you like this boy . dont be nervous about talking to him . get to know his friends . find an excuse to get his number . dont be too forward .

how to impress a boy in middle school 3

be sure it isnt all about his looks . get to know him first so you can be sure he isnt a jerk . take opportunities to chat with him in class or in the hallways . without getting to know him , you may eventually realize you dont have anything in common . maybe you enjoy his positive attitude or sense of humor . after working on your confidence and identifying why you like the boy , its time to jump in and talk to him make sure you talk about things he likes , or the conversation may die quickly . for example , if hes on a sports team , tell him he played well . if youre still feeling shy , find ways to be around him in a group because he still might notice you if you smile and make eye contact . they can be sources of information , such as if he likes you or the kinds of things that interest him . ask them about activities they enjoy doing together . you can even talk about classes you have together or ask for help in a certain subject . then you can use this information to make conversation with the boy youre trying to impress . if his friends reveal anything personal about him , be careful not to mention this to him . he may think youre prying . after talking to him for a little while , an opportunity to ask for his number may come on its own . for example , if youre walking on a class project together , thats the perfect time to ask . connect with him on social media if he doesnt have a cell phone . if he doesnt have his own phone where you can call and text him , he might be active on social media . mention twitter , facebook , and instagram and add him on those sites . mention previous conversations or something he might find interesting if youre looking for a way to initiate a dialogue on social media . just a little bit of flirtation will get the message across . you dont want the guy to think that youd flirt with just anyone . make him feel special about getting some attention from you . dont talk about other guys . while you may not mean anything by it , this could send the wrong message to the boy youre trying to impress . he may think youre interested in someone else .

make eye contact . smile and laugh . have good posture . take the initiative . groom carefully . dress carefully . keep your teeth clean . listen attentively . get to know your crushs friends . talk even if its difficult . ask them to do things together . touch incidentally . be yourself .

how to get your crush to notice you for girls

eye contact shows that youre paying attention and care about what a person is saying . its also a silent form of communication . in general , try to maintain eye contact for about 30 - 60 of a conversation , particularly during the part of a conversation when youre listening , not speaking . dont stare , because this can make people feel uncomfortable and communicate hostility . too little eye contact makes you seem insincere or uninterested . a happy face makes you appear approachable , friendly , and fun . this is exactly what you want to look like if you want your crush to notice and approach you . not smiling can make you look disinterested or even hostile . in one study , 60 of men described images of unsmiling women as moody , and 66 of women described unsmiling women as disinterested . as an added bonus , smiling and laughter can actually make you feel happier . with all of this in mind , you should still feel free to tell people to go jump in a lake if they order you to smile , keep your back straight and chin up . put your shoulders back , but not too far . this shows confidence and energy . keep your legs and arms relaxed instead of crossing them . this conveys openness and friendliness . get in the habit of doing some simple exercises to improve your posture . do yoga , pilates , or other stretching . try to avoid slouching or leaning against the wall , because this implies insecurity or disinterest . dont be afraid to say hello girls are often taught to sit back and wait to be approached , but it can be very attractive , and you can stand out from the crowd , if you speak up instead of waiting around . studies have shown again and again that grooming is the most important element of attractiveness . shower often . you shouldnt necessarily style your hair like youre going to prom all the time , and dont feel like you need to spend hours with the curling iron and hairspray , but be sure your hair looks clean . sometimes the amount and type of grooming that you will do depends on the type of person you want to attract . some people are more attracted to a rugged , outdoors type , while others prefer a more put - together appearance . smell your best . wear deodorant , and bathe regularly , but dont overdo it on the perfume , body spray , or lotion . you dont want to make your crush sneeze or get a headache because you are wearing too much scent . in general , research shows that neat , well fitting , and more formal clothes are considered the most attractive . that is , clothes should be free of holes , well - laundered , flattering to your shape , and typically on the classier side . that said , it all depends on who youre trying to attract . some people find a more casual look appealing . no matter what style you choose , pick clothing that you feel good in , so that you will look and feel more confident . some researchers believe that wearing red makes you more attractive . , according to one study , teeth are the human equivalent of a peacocks tail . the study showed that people with whiter , brighter , more evenly spaced teeth were rated more attractive than others . be sure to brush and floss those pearly whites , and if youve had the privilege of orthodontia , wear your retainer , subtly let your crush know that you are interested in them simply by paying attention when they speak . you dont have to hang attentively on every word , but make it clear that you care about what they are saying by nodding , smiling , and responding when appropriate . ask questions about what they say . if your crush is telling you that hes sad about his grandma dying , ask about what he liked to do with his grandma . if your crush is excited about her basketball game tonight , ask what position she plays . youll be especially glad that you listened carefully the next time you see your crush , because youll have a basis for conversation already . you may have even developed an inside joke with them , which can be great for creating lasting relationships . this can help you learn more about your crush to help you determine whether you are truly compatible or not . it can also lead to increased interactions with your crush , which will make it more likely that they will notice you . of course , theres always the added bonus of making new friends too , even if your crush never notices you . if you are particularly nervous around your crush , it might be hard to make conversation . try to think of conversation topics before you see them . think about what you have in common , who your common friends are , what upcoming events you might both be excited about or dreading , and see if you can come up with a few different topics in your head . joking around is a great way to interact with your crush , but be careful not to make jokes at the expense of others . you dont want to seem like a bully or a mean person just to get someones attention . you might want to start by asking them to be part of a group youre organizing . this can be a group doing a school project or a group getting together to go to the movies . just make it clear that youre interested in having them around . after youve done some group activities together and feel comfortable , then ask them to do something with you one - on - one . oddly enough , one study with over 1 , 000 participants found that people who rode rollercoasters found their non - romantic friends more attractive after a ride on a roller coaster than before . so maybe a trip to a fair or an amusement park is in order , if you sit down next to your crush and your legs bump each other , pay attention to whether they jump away quickly or let their leg linger . if they let the touch continue , its possible that they are interested in you , so you might want to escalate the touch ever - so - slightly by casually letting your arm touch theirs the next time youre at your lockers together . dont escalate until your crush reciprocates or lingers . they might also be super shy and feel terrified when their arm touches yours , so be respectful of their comfort level and dont touch them if they seem uncomfortable . even if they jump away when you touch , that doesnt necessarily mean they dont like you , so try some other tactics if you suspect thats the case . this is the hardest part if you try to follow every piece of advice you have ever heard about getting someone to notice you , you may find that you feel fake or overwhelmed . when in doubt , just try to act as naturally as possible . treat your crush like you treat your friends , and odds are good theyll pay attention to you eventually .

say the casual hey to him to get his attention . if you go outside , play the games that he plays . make it your job to hang out with him . when youre working on projects together , get close to him when he needs help . lead yourself to like the things he does , but be yourself , otherwise he might think youre fake . laugh , look good around him . lead him naturally into giving him your number , or making him give you your numberhere are some examples hey , do you have a phone , become real friends with the guy . finally , ask him out if he already hasnt

how to get your crush to like you in fifth grade girls

if he says hi back to you , then great , youre already getting started if he doesnt , then dont worry - there are some tips for you at the end . you dont have to , especially if he just walks around school , but its a good way to lead him to second thoughts about you good thoughts . say hes sitting at a different table or hes sitting in front of you . pretend to drop something near him . if he looks at you - look back for a split second and then look away . if you dont want to do that , whenever you make eye contact , keep your eyes fixed on his but dont be creepy and scary , hell think youre crazy , and then youll probably both start bursting out laughing . note this might mean hes nervous , which may be a good thing , because anxietycuriosity is one of the key terms in having a crush . , dont be a giggle freak and laugh every time he talks , otherwise he might think youre a little crazy . remember , be yourself and if you wear makeup , some skin - tone matching eye liner would be good , along with some eyebrow pencil and a little mascara if your school has uniforms , wear your uniform in style . if your school doesnt have uniforms , spice it up not too clashing , not too chic to be honest . if you do , what type is it this will make him think you just want to see what type of phone he has . then , eventually , hell give you his number . start a nice , easy - going conversation with him and then ask , hey , can i have your phone number just ask this calmly . not frantically or excitedly . then , when you get home or when you have free time , pretend to accidentally call him . if he picks up , or even if its voice mail , say , hi , sorry , its . i accidentally called you , sorry i didnt hang up before you answered . didnt realize . give a cute laugh at the end of the sentence and then hang up . this will leave him mystified and wanting more . no point having a crush on him if youre not going to befriend him . dont do this too early or even too late , because he might say no if you hadnt done it sooner because he might think you dont like him . if he says yes or you say yes , dont blab it off . tell your parent guardian of course but dont run your mouth off about it or your friends might tease you or him and he wont want to go out with you anymore . here are some ways to ask him out or say yes to him hey my parents and i are going somewhere and they wanted me to invite a good friend , so i decided to invite you . wanna come hey so , weve been best friends for a long time , right i wanted to know if you wanted to . hey . my parents and i want us to have a little hangout , so . do you want to come or just ask him to hangout with you dont call it a date right away , say something like this , hey do you want to hangout in the park or do you want to come see this new movie with me work your way up to calling it a date , but for now just call it a hangout

flirt with him . find ways to make physical contact . smile , smile , smile . be in the same place as him . exchange looks in class . work in compliments . give him a gift . call him more regularly . mention to his friends that you like him . get a feel for where hes at .

how to hint to a boy that you like him

dropping hints is a great way to start getting the message across if you are sure you want more than a friendship try having one thing and sharing it . if you have something in common with him , use it . there is no doubt about it , flirting is the key to opening the door to a new relationship . of course , you need to make sure you are not overdoing it , but you also want to get the message across . when he says something funny to you , laugh only laugh if its funny to you because youd want him to know the real you . still , even if his jokes arent all hilarious , at least smile . boys love seeing your smile . just dont overdo it if you can help yourself . be yourself at all times tease him every now and then . dont make it too harsh though . just give him a smirk and tell him he totally failed whatever he was trying to do . if he usually does it well , thats an okay time to tease him . but if he is working hard on it and just cant get it right , its probably not the best idea to tell him he did poorly . send him notes or put messages in his backpack . write small things like i wish the day was done . or what are you doing for summer sending him notes will make him feel special and singled out by you . if you think it might work , give him a little wave with your hand . dont be discouraged if he doesnt wave back . if he smiles back at you , youll know it worked . if that doesnt get you noticed , try winking at him . winking is a universal sign of affection . make sure that you only close one eye when you wink , or else it might just look like youre blinking . we all like our personal space , but were eager to give it up when it comes to that special person . touching him gently in social situations will signal that you dont just want to stay friends . ask him for help on a math problem and brush your shoulder against his . stay close to him for a while if he doesnt move away . touch his forearm or his shoulder when youre talking to him . dont grab hold of him like youre going to shake him just tap him or rest a few fingers on him for a moment , and try to do it casually if he wears glasses and you see that they are slid down a little then slowly and gently walk up and push them up to the top of his nose . as you do that rub your hand on his cheek and smile . be gentle if he smiles that means he enjoyed it . if he backs you off then hes not interested or you pushed to rough . if you have a playful relationship with him , you can get away with more physical contact . ask him for a piggyback ride not when youre wearing a skirt or tickle him when he least expects it . be happy when you look at him , and try to project that happiness as much as possible . being happy is attractive , and smiling is the way you show the world youre happy . dont conceal your true smile . remember that time you laughed so hard you couldnt breathe remember the smile that was plastered on your face afterwards show him that smile your confidence will be infectious . you can tell hes interested if he smiles back at you and tries to hold your eyes a bit longer than regular friends would . this means he gets pleasure out of feasting his eyes on you . try smiling at him as you stroke your hair . this will bring his attention to both your great smile and your fantastic hair . this can be difficult to do , but it will give you more chances to talk to him . the more youre around him , the more hell take notice . in classes , if seating is optional , sit next to him every so often . sit next to him at lunch when theres an opportunity . join the clubs that hes in , unless theyre something like boys sports teams . try to find clubs that you both like , so that youll do fun activities together and enjoy yourself while youre at it . if he plays sports or does other activities , make it a priority to go to his games or see him perform . theres nothing like scoring that winning touchdown and seeing a cute girl in the stands . be careful about being around him all the time . you dont want to look like a stalker , so be selective and play things off like theyre random . plus , they say that absence makes the heart grow fonder . when the two of you are in the same class , look at him from wherever youre sitting and when he looks back , turn away and blush . this sends him non - verbal information that you enjoy looking at him . do not stare . you want him to think youre interested , not obsessed . occasionally look his way , and if he isnt biting , dont sweat it . send him a note or talk to him and see if he looks your way the next time . when he turns to you , look him in the eyes and smile . remember , if he catches you looking at him , that means that he was looking at you , which means he probably likes you . score always keep good eye contact when talking to him , even if hes shy . show him how pretty your eyes are , and how he makes your eyes smile with delight . keeping good eye contact shows him hes got your undivided attention , but also that youre one confident gal . be sincere about what you compliment , and dont make it seem cheesy . the best compliments say something sweet about a persons character . when he gets a haircut , for example , ask him where he got it . if you tell him you like it , youre saying that you like his style and paid attention enough to notice . try complimenting aspects of his personality . tell him he was loyal not to snitch on his friend , or sweet for giving up his lunch . going beyond surface - level compliments is important . try to work the compliment into a bigger conversation . if you just say , i love your shoes , he might not know how to react . find a way to talk about shoes in general , and gradually let him know that you like his shoes more than his friends , which are just ugly . give him something boyish and thoughtful . it might seem weird to give him a gift , but just pretend like youre giving it to your best friend . whatever it is , make him think it wasnt a big deal by saying something like i came across this and i thought about you . dont buy anything too extravagant or expensive . get something small enough so that he wont feel like he has to get you something in return . pick up an extra pack of gum , or that bottled juice that he always gets during recess . you might even get him a notebook or pens , especially if he always forgets them . if you dont mind asking him out , get him some tickets to a movie or sports event . tell him , i thought we could go together . whatever gift you give , find out his interests first . youll want to get him something that he actually likes — something that shows youre thinking about him and you like him for who he is . dont call him every day and talk to him for hours , but dont be afraid to take that next step and get to know him . calling him is a sign that youre serious about getting to know him better . when you call him , find excuses to talk to him . ask him what the homework was , what time the party is going to be , or what he knows about the latest cell phone . be creative . talk about something weird that happened in school , or something interesting about his life . listen well and be sure to pick up on the little details that he mentions . use them to build on old conversations and to bring up new ones . exchange information and perspectives . this is your chance to get to know him , and his chance to get to know you . talking on the phone can be enjoyable for boys if they feel funny and interesting doing it , so make sure to laugh at his jokes and sound excited . if hes not talkative , be sure to ask him lots of questions . ask him what his parents do where he grew up what he wants to be later on what his siblings are like or where he wants to go on vacation . asking question will help move along the conversation and tell him youre interested . dont keep him on the phone for a long time he might have other stuff to do . always maintain a little mystery about yourself . you want him to get to know you , but you also want to leave him curious about learning even more . this is risky , because his friends may distort information or tease him dont worry , theyre jealous , so you have to be careful about who you tell . but sooner or later , his friends will bring it up to him , and the ball will be in his court . use this as a kind of last resort . if all the above steps dont work , consider telling his friends . again , you will have littleno control over what his friends tell him . dont tell his friends that you want them to pass it along . just find a way to mention it to at least one of his friends — theyll most likely do the rest . if you really trust them , tell your friend to accidentally spill it to him . because this is tough to do , have someone who is really casual do this . if they dont do it casually , it can feel like youre demanding him to make a decision about you . you want him to feel flattered , not caught in a corner . you can try indirect flirting all you want , but it might not have an effect . sometimes guys need you to spell things out really clearly . ask him to walk with you after class is done . if he says he doesnt know , nudge a little more and say , youre going to leave me all by myself if he says he cant , hes not interested . if he says he can , try to flirt with him when you are walking together at the end of he day . if he says yes immediately , hes definitely interested . ask him if he wants to be your date to a dance , especially if its sadie hawkins . if he says yes , plan what you want to wear together so that you can be color - coordinated . ask him if hell carry your heavy backpack for a little while . it doesnt need to be all day , but tell him that its hurting your back and that he looks strong enough to carry it . if he says yes , hes definitely into you and likes that you think hes manly .

get your friends dream guy to notice her . be casual . try to ask him in private . yes or no , dont yell it out to everyone , if he says no , tell your friend . if he says yes then tell your friend .

how to hook your friend up with her dream date

even if its just for a few split seconds . itll put a guy in a little pickle if hes asked if he likes a girl he doesnt even know . try this when your friend isnt looking , knock one of her books off of her desk . right in front of the guy , then step away quickly . if he isnt a jerk , hell pick it up . now hell know who youre talking about when you ask if he likes your friend . if you stalk him , showering him with questions , hell probably be a little freaked out . this is a turn - off . at lunch go sit at his table if youre friends with one of his . then ask him , if he doesnt reply , give him time . and ask the next week . he might be a little embarrassed if hes asked in front of his friends , they might laugh at him or something . but when you ask to see him in private , make sure you sound casual . otherwise hell think that you like him . most guys will say , i dont know . maybe . i gotta think about it . dont press him to much just try to get a definite answer . if he says yes , then dont tell everyone at school . thats is a humongous turn - off . that is if she knows youre trying to set the two of them up . if she doesnt , dont say anything . even if she doesnt know you were setting them up . make sure she goes and talks to him , and they arrange the date . humbly take the million thank - yous she gives you .

enter his social circle . show interest in his likes and dislikes . praise him and dont compare him to other men . use the right body language . tell him how you feel . always be nice to him .

how to give signs to your crush you like him

by entering someones social circle , it becomes easier to spend more time with them . this will give you two a chance to grow comfortable together . give him a comparison . by spending more time with him , he can pick up on how you act differently around other people that you are not interested in . this will make it easier to see that you only act flirtatious with him . by becoming interested in his favorite things , you are signaling that you two are compatible . this creates a mutual feeling of like - mindedness that is associated relationships . compliment the qualities about him that you like and dont be shy to compare him to other men . show him that in your mind , he is different from other guys you know . flirting with other guys is a way to show that others find you desirable and that he should too , but dont this can also send mixed messages that you are flirtatious with everyone . so follow up flirting with other men by clarify why you would much rather be with someone more like him . this is a subconscious way to flirt with him and display interest without having to verbally express yourself , which can be hard . all of the following body gestures display interest but have subtle difference in what they are attempting to subconsciously provoke . direct eye contact shows that you are listening . this is a direct way to show that you are genuinely interested not only in the conversation but also in him . slowly nodding while you are listening says that you agree with what he is saying . this signals that you are compatible in the way you think , and that you two would likely be compatible in a relationship . moistening or parting lips draws attention to your lips . this subconsciously implies you are preparing to kiss the other person - - showing interest . looking sideways and upward creates an illusion of doe eyes . these signal vulnerability and interest in the conversation . feet pointed straight at the other person is a natural display of interest in him . this direct stance implies a lack of interests in everything else around the other person . legs crossed into him is showing a subtle interest in only him and that you are closing your legs self off from other things . sitting or standing closely 0 - 18inches sets an intimate space between the two people . this implies that it is more than just a casual conversation , but in fact you are sharing intimate details with him . mirroring implies compatibility . by mirroring his gestures you are encouraging a mutual feeling of trust in what both of you are saying . for every 10 gestures that he does , mimic one or two of them . preening or grooming yourself , shows a desire to look presentable to the other person . frequent touching evokes a sensory feelings between two people . this is a strong showing of interest in the other person . this is the hardest thing to do because people are often scared of rejection . being direct , however , is the best way to create a conversation about your feelings for each other . by saying i like you , he will be forced to confront how he feels about you . while you might not hear what you want , at least you will clear up any confusion that exists . boys like girls who are always nice to him . then , you would be able to naturally show how you like him . for example , text him on facebook , skype , or other social medias . if he answers you , he doesnt hate you at least . if he likes you , he would be the one who sends the message first .

smile . look out for him in the halls , and wave at him when you see him . try to sit near to him at lunch . ask him out on a group date . use friendly fun body language to show you like him . look decent .

how to get an 11 15 aged guy to like you

one of the most important things you can do is smile at the guy to make him feel comfortable and to give him the impression you are friendly . dont give him a big cheesy grin just a soft , sweet smile will do just the trick . dont swat as if youre trying to get a fly off the ceiling , just give a small , cute , fluttery - fingered wave that lets him know that youre glad to see him . if he smiles , youre making progress . if you cant sit at the same table , just sit at a table nearby and make lots of eye contact - - maybe wink once or twice if youre feeling like playfully showing him how cute you think he is . if youre going somewhere with friends , dont be afraid to invite him along just casually say oh , me and a bunch of friends are going insert activity here . wanna come hell probably say yes . if he says no , just give him a pretty , casual smile and say oh no problem . maybe another time . dont cross your arms around him , which makes you seem closed . always have your arms by your sides to show youre relaxed . playfully twirl your hair dont overdo it , or lightly bat your eyelashes . be careful with this one , because if you overdo it , hell think youve got something in your eye , or having an eyelid spasm . wear clothes you feel comfortable in . that is most important . the more comfortable you around him to more comfortable he will be with you . if you wear a school uniform , dont break the rules to try to impress him with your style . usually , it makes your uniform look tacky if you over - accessorize . just wear it properly and work it . light , natural makeup guys hate girls who wear tons of makeup and do your hair in a fun , girly style . make sure you shower and wash your hair often , and put on body spray , deodorant or perfume before you leave the house . use a perfume popular with teens , dont use your moms , it might remind him of his mom

think about the boy . talk to him and find things you both like . dont be shy , befriend one another , dont ignore him , acknowledge him . be tactful if hes bothering you . dont tolerate bullying .

how to get rid of boy troubles

do you like him do you think you might like to get to know him a little better do you enjoy his company answering yes to these questions suggests that he might be someone you would hit it off with . be yourself definitely dont pretend to be a big fan of , for example , his favourite band if you have never heard of them . instead ask questions like what kind of music do they play have you seen them play live whats your favourite song . take an interest in the band . smile and ask questions while he talks about them . tell him youd love to check out their music online when you get home ask for song suggestions or even a link to his favourite song on youtube . you then have a perfect opportunity to chat again in a few days time . if hes into sports and you arent , take an interest but dont be afraid to admit sports arent your thing . mention something else you do to keep in shape or mention a game you went to see . you dont have to become david beckham if soccer is his thing but learn a few things about his favourite team and engage with him when he talks about his favourite hobby . find a way your hobbies can align maybe you could join him on a run sometime or share recipes for high - protein snacks if cooking appeals to you . if he asks about your hobbies , carefully watch his response . if he acts bored or disinterested , move the conversation on . nail art or hockey drills are fascinating if thats your thing - but appreciate that its a bit like watching paint dry if youre not into it . if you can pop that question what kind of girl do you like then do it . do it with everything you have as well as becoming friends with each other in real life , send a friend request on social media like facebook or any other site like that . its often a more casual way to express an interest in keeping in touch than swapping numbers . play it casual - dont send a friend request right away but dont wait a week . perhaps wait until later that evening or the next day . if he sends a friend request , wait twelve to twenty four hours to reply . however , if he added you straight away , accept straight away . make sure your profile picture shows off your best side before sending or accepting a friend request . positive first impressions go a long way . it could go either way , from leaving you alone to getting worse . politely tell him to go away . you dont have to instigate a conversation but if he asks you a questions , nod or shake your head or give a polite , brief answer . if he asks what youre doing next weekend , you might say im meeting some friends for a chinese meal were having a girls night out . im looking forward to it . dont give a frosty response like none of your business or a one - word answer . dont lead him on either by saying im going to the disco on main street on saturday . are you or ive no plans but i was thinking of catching a movie . be gentle and polite but dont give the wrong impression or leave things ambiguous . boys hearts are just as sensitive as girls hearts , you know they get hurt easily . you dont have to put up with his persistent presence if it upsets you but dont blurt out that he is the most annoying person that ever lived and that he smells and that his new shirt is a weird mould colour . that wont help anyone . if you have to ask him to leave you alone , do it tactfully . im sorry kevin but i really cant talk right now , i have to look over these notes i have a test next class . your friends are helpful in this situation , perhaps asking if they could talk to you privately about something . be polite but firm . if hes bothering you online or endlessly sending messages , ask him to stop . if he wont , unfriend or block him . if he keeps ringing your mobile number you can block his number . if he tries to sit next to you constantly , talk to a good friend and ask them to sit beside you in class or at lunch so that he cant physically sit beside you . if there is a seating plan and he is harassing you , talk to your teacher and see if heshe can juggle things around . if hes always tagging along with you , ask your friends to join the group if they see you alone together . he is less likely to bother you when a big group of friends are around and chatting to you both . if he is hurting you physically or emotionally abusing you , tell someone you trust . this is not okay . dont hurt him and do not ever , ever allow him to hurt you .

do what you love , and let your passion show . dress to impress . consider where the guy spends his time . catch his eye . consider getting to know the guys friends . be respectful of a guys space .

how to get guys to notice you 1

whether youre an athlete , an artist , a singer , or a writer spend time doing what makes you happy . the first step to getting noticed is feeling or at least appearing confident and comfortable in your own shoes . if youre in your element , you wont feel so self - conscious . confidence is attractive , and guys can often tell when youre comfortable with yourself . focus on doing what you love , and the rest will follow . have a good time with your friends . laugh a lot . guys may find you more attractive if you seem like youre fun to be with . relationships often sprout from common ground . if you spend time doing what you love , youre more likely to find someone who shares your passions . when you know youre going to see the guy , wear your cutest outfit . he may notice your outfit , and he may not - - but you will likely feel more confident , and that can make all the difference . consider wearing clothes that the guy might relate to . if youre crushing on a guy whos into music , wear a band t - shirt . if youre crushing on a guy whos into sports , wear a shirt or jersey with the name of his favorite team . if the guy sees that you have interests in common , he may be more likely to think of you . you dont need to wear revealing clothing to impress a guy . in fact , many guys may be turned off by trashy clothing that reveals too much . respect yourself and consider the social consequences of what you wear . consider wearing makeup , but dont overdo it . a little makeup goes a long way . ask your mother , your older sister , or another female relative for advice if you havent applied makeup before . join clubs , teams , or groups that he has joined , and put yourself into a position to grow close to him . make it a natural process . if a guy is involved in the science club , consider joining the science club . only do this if you are genuinely interested in the science club this approach only works if you can impress him by being as passionate about his hobby as he is . if a guy runs for your schools track team , consider joining the team . again , only do this is you are genuinely interested in track . you dont want to be noticed for the wrong reasons . if a guy is in a band , consider going to his shows . get to know the scene and compliment him on his music . from time to time , gaze over in his direction . when he notices you , discreetly lock eyes with him for a moment , then look away . smile coyly , if youre feeling bold . research indicates that guys are more likely to approach girls when they are given clear signals that their interest is returned smiling will subtly tell him that youre interested . after you lock eyes , dont look over at him for a while . repeat occasionally . he may begin to glance over at you more often to see if you are looking at him . avoid looking at him too often . be flirtatious , but dont be creepy . if you have mutual friends , spending more time with them can be a great way to grow closer to your crush . if his friends like you and see that the two of you have chemistry together , they may help convince him to go for you . be careful sometimes , getting deep into a guys social circle can complicate matters . if you share too many of the same friends , your crush may be afraid that asking you out will disrupt the friend group . he may worry about the complications that could ensue if the two of you break up down the line . be aware that if you grow close to a guys friends , some of them may fall for you instead . if you arent open to this , be careful with your flirtation . it is one thing to move in the same circles as someone it is another thing to follow him around . stay true to yourself , your friends , and your interests , even as you make an effort to get close to him . be forward , but not forceful dont push yourself upon him . let him notice you for who you are .

figure out how you look when youre around your crush and you could even ask some friends how you are whenever youre around him . know and remember if your crush sees you like that , he may know you like him . whenever you approach your crush , whether you bump into him at a store , at school with friends or by yourself , or just anywhere , stay and remain calm and focus your attention on something else . if you think about your crush a lot and maybe even daydream about him , slowly start thinking of your crush less and less everyday , so that when you see him , it wont be as big of a deal . once youve gotten over your shyness or feel more comfortable around your crush , stay positive . have your friends make you feel better and help you with your crush especially the ones you trust . find something you have in common with him and if it is an activity , ask them how it is going . pretend that he is just a normal dude .

how to get over being shy in front of your crush girls

when you approach him , does your face all of a sudden turn red does your body shake does your heart skip a beat does your body all of a sudden feel sick or cold or warm you could ask your friends to give you a little update on that each time whether youre near him , close to him , or around him . you dont want that to happen because youre not ready for a move yet . and youre not ready because youre reading this article and because you dont know what to do when youre around him . you should even look at something else that will get your attention off that boy . like , say you had homework . think about it and see if you did it right . or , if youre at a store , you can just look through the aisles and think of what you want to buy . and if youre with friends , dont look in his direction just try to keep cool - - talk and pay real close attention to what your friends are saying . try to act as if he isnt even there . slowly , youll start to get over your shyness . do it slowly because it will not happen right away . it will probably take about 3 days or more , and maybe possibly even a week . but it will help you a lot look good , but be yourself and dont change yourself or who you are . it will make you feel better about yourself . your crush may notice you if you are very positive , confident , smart , and outgoing around him for example , when youre with them , ask them , do i look pretty and of course they will tell you the honest and real answer - - yes - - not a fake answer . if its music , ask him about new concerts or cds try to act like you do around your friends or family members .

get to know him better . do things for yourself . be flirty . hug . dont wear too much make - up . dont change yourself for a guy . kiss . be playful . flirt . dont try to make him jealous . hang out with his friends . keep eye contact . mirror him . be honest with him . tease him . break the touch barrier . get him to laugh . be nice .

how to get a shy guy to like you in middle school

become his friend , and gain his trust . if he can trust you , then thats great make sure you can do some things on your own , rather than being wimpy , but also dont try to act really tough . be a little flirty with him , but not to much , until you really get to know him better . once you get to know him better , you can open your arms and greet him with a hug . if he says no , but you happen to know he likes you , then its because hes too shy to give you a hug . but he will be wishing for a hug later on , even if he denies a hug . but still , give him some personal space if he really protests against it . or just give him surprise hugs . ever . if he likes make - up , you can put on a little extra , but if not , then try limiting the make - up you put on . if you dont wear any make - up , then thats fine too . lots of guys like natural beauty . pretty simple . if you change for every single guy , then youre not yourself . just be yourself . after you know him for quite a while , and youre great friends , you could give him a quick kiss if youre sure he likes you . just a quick one , not a big kiss or anything . playing different games , even if they may seem stupid or silly . poke him , hug him , wink at him , do whatever . if youre really , really brave , you could do bigger things , such as play footsies or tickling him or having him tickle you or both . do whatever . be creative . if you like him , dont expect him to like you back if you try to make him jealous . if he sees you with other guys , chances are that you honestly dont like him and that he wont or will stop liking you . but dont be around them more than with him , or he could feel that you like them more than him . also remember that if his friends dont like you , that they could influence him to dislike you . if you make eye contact with him , keep it for just a few extra seconds . too long and it can seem awkward . too short and it seems like nothing . but keeping eye contact for a few extra seconds , then smiling , is good . to be close to him on a certain level , mirror certain things he does , or copy them . not all the time , but just occasionally do things that would be normal for you both to do , to connect on a certain level . never be distrustful , and always stay honest with him - if he deserves it , which he probably does , then always be honest . always . make sure you both are always honest and open with each other . not in a mean way , but in a more playful way . make sure he can tease back , and that you both enjoy the teasing as a joke . touch him , poke him , just touch him in general . if you dont want to openly touch him , just lightly have your arms brush against each other , on accident . or , run your hand up his leg , whether by accident or on purpose . pretty much just touch him anywhere . this will develop a closer bond between you both , and could make him like you more than ever before . start with small accidental touches and then move up . an idea of up is having your legs touch during class . if you happen to sit next to him , you could sit close enough together to practically be on the same chair . if he likes you even a little bit , then hell love this . if hes not funny at his own jokes , laugh anyway , so he will feel appreciated . but also try being funny yourself . be nice in general . not just to him , but to everybody

introduce yourself . use social media to your advantage . develop a friendship first .

how to get guys to notice you 2

a guy will be more likely to notice you and remember you if he knows who you are . strike up a conversation that makes sense talk about a class that youre both in , a holiday thats coming up , or something that hes wearing . if youre members of the same class , club , team , or friend circle , you will probably see each other on a regular basis . take advantage of this proximity spend time with him and build a friendship . make a joke , or comment on an interest that the two of you share . if youre in the same class , ask him about the homework . if hes wearing a band t - shirt , ask him about the band . getting to know someone online can mitigate much of the initial awkwardness . if youve gotten to know each other a bit in person , consider adding him on facebook or any site that you frequent . once youre friends online , consider striking up a conversation over instant - messaging . lead in with something nonchalant ask him about the homework , or about a deadline for a club . hey , i forgot to write down the homework for mr . hoovers class . did you happen to get it once he answers your question , follow up with a more personal question . something like , so , any plans for spring break consider throwing in a compliment like , by the way , good job on your presentation in english today your song was hilarious . keep your first conversation brief , unless its going particularly well . you can build into longer conversations as you get to know each other . take the time to get to know this guy and make sure that you like whats beneath the surface . once youve gotten to know each other , you might decide to take the friendship further .

read the signs . invite him along on a group activity , ideally with a mixed group of guys and girls . dont be afraid to ask him out . be patient . know when to move on .

how to get guys to notice you 3

it can be hard to tell if someone is interested , but you should be able to tell if he makes an effort to spend time with you . if he initiates conversation and smiles a lot , then theres a good chance that he is interested . that said many guys get shy when they like someone , and you shouldnt write someone off just because he hasnt made a move . this can be anything from a trip to the beach to a house party . some guys like to make the first move , but most will respect a girl who goes for what she wants . make sure that you get to know him before you ask him out . it doesnt have to be a fancy proposal . ask him if he wants to hang out , and have a specific activity in mind for example , ask him out to a movie , or ask him to a school dance . some schools hold a sadie hawkins dance or sadies specifically designed to girls a chance to ask guys . consider hanging out with him in a group setting before you ask him onto a one - on - one date . this will set the stage and give you a better idea about whether he is interested . wait for the right moment . if you can get him alone , consider asking him one - on - one you may find that there is much less social pressure when you dont have an audience . get to know him before you ask him out . dont approach him out of the blue make friends , hang out with him in groups if he isnt interested , dont make him uncomfortable . if youve become friends , try to be satisfied with friendship . either way continue to be yourself , and good things will follow . you never know what will happen . maybe hell fall for you down the line maybe youll fall for one of his friends maybe youll meet someone new and wonder why you ever liked the other guy in the first place . you dont want someone who isnt interested you want someone who truly likes you for you . dont sell yourself short . be true to yourself .

say hi . find ways to be around him . make him look your way . acknowledge him . have deeper conversations . look over at him a couple times . be cool when he talks to you .

how to get a hot guy neighbor to notice you

this requires courage , but its a surefire way for him to at least know that you exist . if hes new to the neighborhood , go over and say a quick hello . introduce yourself and welcome him to the neighborhood . tell him where you live ie . hi , im miranda . i just live in the house across the street . i just thought id stop by and welcome you to the neighborhood . when he is outside , go outside at the same time . make sure that youre not just standing there staring at him youll need a reason to be outside , such as doing yard work , washing the car , playing , etc . so it seems like a coincidence that youre outside at the same time . the last thing you want is for him to think that youre a creepy stalker . give him a reason to - play with a friendsibling , play a very loud game , listen to your favorite song and sing along if youre confident enough , etc . doing this will make him start to notice you . if you walk by his house and see him , or vice versa , be sure to say something . you dont have to get into a huge conversation a simple hi , good morning , or good afternoon will do the trick . once he gets used to you greeting him , he will be the one saying hello first . after a while , begin to actually talk to him . saying things like how are you , whats up , hey , neighbor , etc . will give him the opportunity to talk to you more , so you can learn more about him . this will help you two get closer . once hes really started to notice you , feel free to look over at him . if he catches you , instead of looking away , smile and wave at him . hell most likely smile and wave back once hes noticed you , hell probably initiate a conversation or two . when this happens , be cool . talk to him like you would any normal person . you dont want to freak him out , right

make a funny or playful observation to break the ice . show him that you are enjoying yourself in conversation . be confident in who you are , and enjoy yourself in his company . hang out with other people who bring out the best version of you with him . follow him on social media . post things on your social media . comment on his posts . move on if he doesnt seem interested in you .

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one way to break the ice is to pay attention to what is going on around you . find something in your environment that you can make a funny comment about . for example , if it is lunch and the food hasnt arrived yet and you two are waiting outside in the heat , you can something silly like , do you think they going to get us water for this wait , or do they just want us to die guys find playfulness attractive in girls , and it will give you something to make a little bond over . even if you dont think of yourself as a funny person , you can still be playful . this playfulness can help make the conversation fun and low pressure . remember that getting the conversation started is most important thing . dont worry too much about how the ice breaker goes . focus instead on continuing your conversation . one way to get a guy to like talking to you is if you seem like you are having a good time talking with him . a few ways you can show you are having fun is if you make eye contact , smile often , laugh genuinely , and lean forward slightly when you are talking . when you are talking , tilt your head to one side , smile and touch your hair , neck or clothes . but dont over think it , just do what feels natural as well . your nonverbal signals should just show him that you are having a good time . let him know you like messaging with him if you are mostly messaging . for example , you can say something like , i think youre pretty fun to text with . write down the things that make you awesome . knowing why you are awesome and not being afraid to show it attracts others . do not be afraid to make mistakes around him . be authentic to the real you , quirks and all . relax and laugh when you make mistakes , everyone does . do not act like someone you think that he would like instead of being yourself . imagine if someone were acting in a certain way to please you , would you like that probably not . enjoy laughing and hanging out with other people in his company . showing him that you are fun , independent and have your own friends is important to establish . this will show him that friends are important to you and will help him see what you are in like with other people . it could make him a little jealous in a good way and maybe hell want to hang out with you more than before . if you dont have a social media account and he is active on social media , get an account . like or retweet something that he has posted . if you are both on your social media , this could be a good way to start talking . liking and retweeting things he posts on his social media can help build up your friendship and give you an idea of the things he likes . also , liking his posts will help you to know what is going on with him . after liking a couple of things that he has posted , you should write a comment on a post or send him a message . do not like everything he posts . choose one or two things that you genuinely like , and space out the time between your likes to every few days . if you send too much attention to him , it may come off like you are trying too hard or creepy . if you have been liking or commenting on his posts , post things that shows him what you are into . he should see your interests just as much as you should see his . for example , share beautiful or interesting pictures that you have taken , or find funny gifs , pictures or quotes from the internet which you can post along with a comment about why you like it . for example , if he writes a lot of posts about bands he likes and there is a band you both like , you can post one of the bands music videos or the lyrics from one of their songs with a comment about why you like it . stay true to yourself . only post things that you genuinely like and are a part of who you are . it can come off fake if you are posting about things you havent shown any interest in before . you should make a comment on a post that he writes early after it has been posted . if you write the comment early , he will be more likely to respond . consider praising the post , asking a question about it , or commenting about something you find interesting . for example , if he writes a post about going to a show of the band you like , you can respond by saying , i am so jealous you got to see them did you think they were good live . avoid commenting too often . make sure to space out your comments . if he seems distant or aloof and isnt responding to you much , he may not be interested . luckily , there will be other guys who will want to talk to you and who you can have a great connection with . instead of thinking about the interaction with this guy as a failure , think about the interactions you have had with him as good practice for having a conversation with another guy down the road .

ask him his opinions on things that you have in common . playfully disagree and banter with him . avoid asking him questions he already knows the answer to . boost his confidence . learn how and when to end a conversation . follow up with texts or messages regularly .

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after you have made your first connections , you want to continue messaging him and having conversations to keep the connection you have made with him strong . one way to make your connection stronger and keep your conversation interesting is to ask him his opinions on things . whatever you have in common , be it books , movies , food , etc , think about good questions to ask him that are open ended and will start interesting conversation . for example , if you both love harry potter , you can ask , so what do you think is the best harry potter book and feel free to completely agree or disagree with him . these kinds of disagreements can lead to banter and can be pretty fun to have . you can start by telling him something that you have an opinion of and then ask his opinion on it . this question can also be related to the context of where you are or what you are doing . for example , if you are eating an apple at lunch , you could say , i think that granny smith are the best apples period , but out of curiosity , what kind of apple is your favorite once again , being playful is a good way to make your conversation more fun , especially when you are talking about simple topics and just getting your conversation going . come up with a few different questions you can ask him before you talk to him because topics of conversation can go more quickly than you realize . he will want to keep talking to you if you have fun when you talk . an example of banter is if you raise an eyebrow when he tells you that his favorite apple is red delicious , and you say something silly like , you are saying you like red delicious apples best well i guess we cant all be perfect . guys like this kind of silly banter because it is low pressure and fun . banter is great because you two dont have to talk about anything in particular , but you are still making a connection . practice bantering with your friends and family . find silly things to disagree with them on . playfully disagreeing can be good for your other relationships too . try not to use small talk or getting to know you questions like whats going on or so where are you from . these questions are not very interesting and you wont learn much about him because he may give you an answer that he has already used many times before . you want him to come away from this conversation excited to talk to you again , so stay away from small talk . everyone wants to feel good about themselves , and if you can provide that for him , he will most likely want to keep talking to you . so get good at telling him why you like him with small , genuine compliments . you dont have to make it a big deal - you can casually tell him why he is great . in fact , avoid making a big show of it . for example , while you are walking somewhere and if you notice he is usually good with directions , you can say i like that you always seem to know how to get us where we are going . , one way to keep your guy wanting to talk to you more is if you leave the conversation at the right time . the best way to end a conversation is to first find a place after you have made good connections and before the conversation has started to wind all the way down . then think about why you need to get home , and after you have laughed or made a connection about something , let him know you need to get going . make sure you tell him you really enjoyed yourself and look forward to talking to him again . be casual and cool when you end the conversation . say something like hey , it was so fun talking to you . i think i need to get home and get on my homework , but i really look forward to hanging out with you soon . make good eye contact with him when you leave . let your eye contact linger a second longer and smile at him a little brighter or slyer when you do . depending on your conversation style and the guy you like , regularly can mean different things . start messaging him every couple of days , and if he is prompt or slow with his answers , you can message more often or less often . send him playful or funny comments or questions that engage him . for example , ask him for updates on how things are going . you can ask him something like , hey , how is that midterm paper coming . or tell him about something interesting that happened to you or that relates to him from your day . you can say something like , remember eating peanut butter sandwiches because the food trucks were late i can see b lunch is eating all of our food . try to vary the kinds of messages you send . dont only ask for updates or say funny things . try to do a combination of questions and funny comments .

do side by side activities with him . get to know about his interests and the important relationships in his life . find a quiet place for a conversation where you wont be interrupted . express yourself back to him . be there during hard times as a confidant . ask him for help .

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some guys bond with people by doing things instead of through talking . he might feel closer to you if you do side by side activities together . examples of side by side activities would be playing sports , playing a game , or working on a project together . pay attention to the kinds of activities that he likes to do , and do those activities with him . for example , if he likes to do outdoors activities like shooting , have him teach you how to shoot a gun . or if there is a game that he likes to play , learn how to play too . even if you dont know how to do the activities that he likes to do , it can mean a lot to him if you try to learn . enjoy yourself while you are out with him . laugh aloud at your mistakes , ask lots of questions , and talk to the other people who are doing the activity too . even if he is a guy who enjoys talking , it might build your relationship in a new way if you do side by side activities together . some guys do feel connected with girls based on their feelings and talking , and even guys who may not be always excited to talk about their feelings may want to talk to you about the things they care about once they are really comfortable with you . after you have spent quality time getting to know him , you should move on to getting to know him on a deeper level . he will feel closer to you and rely on you more if you know more about what he cares about and the history of his life . these kinds of conversations are great to have at night . you should ask him questions about important times in his past , the important relationships in his life , and the things he cares about . for example , you can ask him , which of your interests means the most to who you are , and why do you care so much about it or ask him , who in your family do you think you are the closest with and why . these questions can be really simple but listening well will help you have a really meaningful conversation with him . for your conversation , sit across from him or in a position where you can see his face and hear him well . ask him questions about him and use the following listening skills to have a great conversation with him . show him in your body posture that you are listening . make eye contact , nod your head and react to him with small noises or gestures while he is speaking . give him the right amount of distance . if you stand too close , you may come off as overly interested and stifling while standing too far away will make you seem distant . give him space to talk but position yourself so that you can hear and see him well . restate the main idea of what he is saying . this will let him know that you really understand the point what he is saying . if he is talking about his frustrating day , for example , you can summarize the most important parts of what he has said so far . for example , you could say , so you are saying that you didnt understand why your brother was acting up until you saw what was going on with him at school . be empathetic to his feelings . empathy means you can understand the feeling that he experienced even if you do not share a common feeling . for example , you can combine restating his main idea and being empathetic by saying something like , you must have felt so frustrated to have to retake that test after you studied so hard the first time . it is important to tell him that you understand the feelings he has and the reasons why he feels the way he does . dont forget to put yourself out there , too . if you really like him , you could feel shy talking about yourself , but he will build a better connection with you if you can talk to him about the things that you care about , too . tell him about the important relationships in your life , the big experiences that you are going through , and the good things that you love in your life . as before , make eye contact with him when you talk , use your gestures to express your feelings , and let your tone of voice express what you mean . he will be better able to connect and care for you when he is able to understand what important stuff that is going on with you . everyone needs someone to lean on during hard times . if you can be that person for him , you will build a really strong bond that will make him feel close to you . there are lots of things you can do to be there for him in hard times . for example , if you know he has been struggling with his grades and is going to have a difficult conversation with his teacher , send him a text encouraging him before he goes into talk . you can say something like , good luck - i know youll be able work it out because you always do . then after his talk with his teacher ask him how it went , and let him know you are there if he wants to talk . sometimes people would rather be distracted when they are going through something hard . in that case , send him funny texts that make him laugh . if he tells you that he is having a hard time with something , ask him if he wants to get together and talk about it . or you can let him know that you are there for him if he just wants to hang out and chill . if you can be there for him during hard times , this will make your connection deeper and make him more likely to go to you the next time something good or bad happens with him . guys like it when they feel needed . if something is going on with you that you need help with , let him know , and ask for his help in advance . for example , if you need help painting posters after school for a club , ask him if there is a day he is available to help you . when he gets there make sure that you have something for him to do . accomplishing tasks together is a great way to bond people together in new ways .

smile . be funny . be clean and healthy . try to be cool and popular . dress nicely . know your best features . be confident . forgive and forget , dont remind , when youre trying to get a guy to like you , you shouldnt act jealous , thats a major turn off . never feel that you need to change for a guy

how to get a boy to like you teens

relationship experts have proven that smiling is the easiest way to say im interested or that you are easy to approach . guys love a great smile . dont be a phony funny , be genuine . guys are attracted to girls that have a funny bone . being funny doesnt mean laughing at everything , or acting dumb , cause that is just a turn off to guys . instead , joke around , andor tell funny stories that happened to you or a friend . if you have blemishes or large pores help them go down by washing your face with warm water and soap , finishing with cold water to close pores . eat lots of fruits and veggies . get rid of all junk food , cause all it is doing is ruining your insides and outsides . make sure you drink 8 glasses of water every day this will flush outget rid of toxins inside your body . take showers everyday and brush your teeth . brushing your teeth will also let him be able to come up to you without holding his breath . have lots of friends . guys like when girls have friends , that way they know you are approachable and friendly . wearing something cute and flirty is what most guys are attracted to . maybe a skirt with a flouncy shirt and some cute flats with a headband that is sure to grab his attention . wearing makeup is something a lot of girls may choose to do . you dont have to , all it does is accentuates things . guys usually prefer girls to wear simple things like blush and lip gloss . if you have blemishes you can cover them with concealer or a powder . eyeliner is good for showing off the depth and angles of your eyes . blush is good for showing off and accentuating your cheek bones . lip gloss is just for some extra sparkle . sometimes its hard to feel confident on things like bad hair days , but every guy likes his girl to keep her head held high , and not worry about what others are saying , as long as you stay true to yourself . if you are having , say , a bad hair day , then just forget about hair and wear an extremely cute outfit , or makeup look , or vice versa . also , dont be afraid to speak your mind but dont be rude or snotty . most guys hate when they do something wrong , so if he happens to say something about you or do something wrong , but he apologizes , then you should forgive him . but if he constantly does it , you have the right to not forgive him . also , if a guy did something wrong awhile ago , dont bring it up again that makes guys cringe and its a huge turn off . if you are trying to make him jealous with another guy you need to be subtle and not to clingy . guys will chase after you , if they really want you . so , making him a little jealous cant hurt anyone . youre not going to marry him , youre only a teenager . so never change for a guy . make sure he is the right guy for you and if not move on .

feel good about how you look . take pride in your strengths . practice positive self - talk . write down daily affirmations . hold your head high .

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it is easier said than done , but often times the best way to get attention from a guy is to exude confidence and be yourself . you can start by making sure you feel good about how you look . there is no perfect weight or perfect style . all that matters is that you find a look that makes you feel confidentbrowse some magazines for outfit ideas and pick out some clothes you like . if you dont have a lot of money , check out local thrift stores or resale shops . decide on a hairstyle that feels good for you . wake up early enough to groom and get ready before school . dont feel like you need to act shy or meek to get attention . in fact , that usually fails to work . instead , let your strengths shine . you can show your confidence and embrace your talents without being boastful and arrogant , so dont be afraid of the spotlight . that is where hes most likely to notice you plus , when you own and embrace your talents , you come off as confident and attractive . maybe your strengths include your sense of humor . your athleticism . your good grades . the way you talk to yourself or about yourself has a huge impact on the way you feel about yourself . start boosting your confidence from the inside out by keeping track of the way you talk . as a general rule , dont say anything about yourself that you wouldnt say about your best friend . instead of thinking , i am terrible at soccer , think when i practice my soccer moves , i feel better . if something goes wrong , try to stop your thoughts from spiraling . you can think , i made a mistake , but i can decide how the rest of my day goes . make a deal with your friends to correct each other if you hear negative self talk . motivate yourself and boost your positivity by setting aside a few minutes each day to write down positive affirmations and read them back to yourself . for added benefit , post them places you often look , such as on your mirror , near your computer monitor , or inside your school locker . write down positive statements , such as you are worthy of love and support , everything will work out in the end , or you can do it you can find great quotes online if youre struggling to come up with affirmations . confident people are viewed as being more attractive and desirable . the way you hold your body and interact with other people communicates a lot about your confidence level . show your confidence by making eye contact and smiling at people . practice holding your body in confident ways , and in time you will begin to feel it on the inside , too . you might try keeping your shoulders back leading with your heart . avoid slouching or hunching . hold your head high you can practice balancing a book on your head . practice your social skills .

use inviting body language . smile . be confident in yourself . make eye contact . start a conversation with him .

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as you can imagine , it can be nerve - wracking for a guy to ask for your number or to ask you out , especially in middle school when girls are maturing faster than boys . if you want a guy to approach you , its important that you make him feel like he can . , not only does smiling make you approachable , it also shows that youre a happy and fun person , both of which are traits guys love to see in a girl . confidence is so important because it means that you know your value and a guy can never take that from you . so value who you are , and be dont be afraid to be yourself . direct eye contact is a great way to get a guys attention , because they cant misread it . you want to connect with him , and youre not afraid to show it . talking to a guy in person and getting to know him a little bit before asking for his number can make things a lot easier . youll already be comfortable with him and you can get a sense for how he feels about you . compliment him . whether its something hes wearing or his eyes , a compliment tells him youre taking notice in him . let him do most of the talking . ask him questions about himself . pay attention and be genuinely interested . if he turns the conversation to you , try to avoid going into detail and then change the subject . you can also tell him you have to go even if you dont . this makes you seem mysterious and leaves him wanting more like learning those details you refused to share . it also eliminates the chances of the conversation ending awkwardly .

embrace your feelings for him , then let them go . talk about your feelings with a friend , a relative , or a counselor . remind yourself that this crush is just another fish in the sea . learn from the experience . avoid him for a while . keep conversations to a minimum , for a while . stop checking his social media profiles for updates . get rid of things that remind you of him . focus on whats important in your life . take some time to center yourself before pursuing another guy . learn how to interact with the guy on a platonic level .

how to forget about the guy you like

accept the grief , sadness , loneliness , regret , anxiety , guilt , insecurity , or other negative emotions in the order they come to you . let yourself be sad , and let yourself heal . ultimately , the surest path to getting over someone is to be honest with yourself . dont bottle up your emotions . ask your support system for advice , and try to understand what went wrong . if you arent sure what to do next , these people may have the wisdom and insight to guide you . talk to parents , older siblings , aunts , uncles , grandparents – anyone that you feel comfortable asking for insight . you may even feel comfortable asking a favorite teacher or a leader in your community . be careful who you trust . if you are spilling your guts to someone for whom your crush is a mutual friend , make sure that this person wont pass along what you say . it may be harder to get over the guy if theres gossip floating around . consider that there are hundreds of thousands—even millions—of people with whom you can fall in love . he may seem like the one , but this doesnt mean that he is the only one . nor does it mean youll never find someone like him again . think about why this crush didnt work out . maybe you were into him , but he wasnt into you maybe he was in a relationship already , or he had eyes for someone else maybe you said something to turn him off , or he did something that made you decide that he was bad news . whatever the circumstances , you cannot take back what has happened . you can only absorb this , learn from it , and grow . think about what you would have done differently . you might be able to successfully navigate a crush situation in the future by analyzing what went wrong with this guy . think about the sort of person that you want to pursue . maybe this guy just wasnt right for you , even if you found yourself attracted to him . consider which qualities will guide your future crushes , and which personality traits you want to avoid . if you know where he hangs out at lunch , avoid that area altogether . find a new way . you may wind up thinking about him even more if you walk near him or you see him talking with someone else . if youre going to forget about him , you cant keep hanging around . if you have mutual friends , consider spending less time with that particular group until youre sure that youre over him . if you dont want to give up your social circle , try focusing your attention on other members of the group instead . it may be hard to avoid this guy if you have classes together , you work together , or you are frequently drawn together by other commitments clubs , teams , etc . again , try to focus your attention on other members of that group , or try to interact with the guy in a platonic way . if he tries to talk to you , dont let yourself fall under his spell . try not to fully engage in the conversation give him short answers , and slip away as soon as you can . you dont need to be rude – you just might have an easier time forgetting about him if you arent always talking to him . bear in mind that if you have mutual friends or mutual obligations , you may eventually need to learn to interact with him in a platonic way . its hard to forget about someone if theyre constantly popping up in your peripheral awareness . facebook stalking this guy will keep you emotionally attached to him , but it wont make him feel the same way – and it isnt healthy to fixate on something unattainable . this will take discipline , but it will keep you grounded in the long run . if youre friends with him on facebook , but you dont want to unfriend him , consider stopping notifications on his posts . this way , none of his photos or statuses will show up in your newsfeed . train yourself not to wonder about him . whenever you catch yourself reading one of his updates , stop yourself and keep scrolling . let go of him and focus on the next thing . eventually , you may be able to completely disengage your interest from him . this might include pictures of the two of you together , or a cd that he gave you , or a pen that you let him borrow – anything that keeps you thinking about him . if the things belong to him , give them back . if the things belong to you , give them away to a friend or a donation center . let these reminders slip from your life , and you may find it much easier not to think about your crush . if you are constantly fixating upon what your crush is doing , you will find it much harder to forget him . think about what demands your focus right now maybe you have a big test coming up , or an exciting trip , or a big game this weekend . try to divert your attention away from your crush so that you can move on . throw yourself into your hobbies , your passions , and your obligations , and try to keep your mind engaged in the present . if you cant think of anything big thats coming up , try to focus on things that you can look forward to each day . think about how lucky you are to be able to eat lunch with your friends on a daily basis . think about the satisfaction that you get from practicing music , or practicing a sport , and feeling yourself gradually improve . if you have an especially rough time getting over this guy , you might want to take at least a few weeks to bring your emotions back into balance . focus on school , on sports , friends , hobbies – focus on anything that you love . try to bring yourself back in line with your non - relationship goals . when you find yourself drawn to a new guy , ask yourself whether you are ready . it can be a wonderful experience to let yourself fall for someone , but make sure that you are prepared for the emotional ride . be careful not to simply replace your crush with another guy . ask yourself , and be honest are you shifting your feelings onto this new guy without giving yourself time to get over the first guy if so , consider taking it slow . some people advocate the rebound strategy find a guy for whom you have a purely physical attraction , and dont let it get too serious . you will need to decide whats best for you – but be careful not to play with someone elses feelings as a way to deflect your own pain . you will know that you have fully moved on when you can hold a normal , non - self - conscious conversation with this guy . try to change your emotional association with him from crush to friend . you may not work well as romantic partners , but you may find that you become great friends if you are already friends with the guy , and you dont want to throw that friendship away , you will need to learn how to be platonic .

walk by him in the hall . try to catch his eye . find a reason to talk to him . wear something fun .

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the simplest strategy for getting a guys attention is just to walk past him in the hall . it may take several tries so if possible , time it so that you walk by his locker once per day . but there are some tricks to it keep your body language confident head held high , shoulders back . try to feel good about the way that you look and have a smile on your face . you dont want to seem like you are trying to get his attention , so dont stare ask a friend to walk and talk with you so that you dont seem obvious . your conversation may also catch his attention . you may want to practice walking at home until you feel comfortable . after you have done a few walk - bys , the next phase in your plan should be to try and lock eyes with him for a few seconds . this might be his first clue that you are interested in him . dont stare at him longingly , or try look too eager . just lock eyes for three seconds and then look away . glance at him the next time you walk by . try to catch his eyes during class . smile if you see him at an assembly or in the lunchroom . once you have successfully made eye contact , you need to find reasons to talk to him . fortunately , school provides lots of opportunities for that . think about upcoming school events or shared activities to get ideas for things talk to him about . before you talk to him , rehearse what you will say so that you dont get flustered in the moment . you might say , i missed class last friday . do you have the english notes ask , do you know when our permission slips are due or do you know the date today plan what you will say after he answers . for example , you could introduce yourself and thank him for his help . a cute dress or funky sweater might be enough to get his attention . choose a fun outfit and save it for a day when youre feeling extra confident . be sure to walk by his locker on that day .

make strong eye contact . keep conversations light . use touch . just go for it .

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once you have been able to strike up a conversation with this guy , you can move on to actually flirting . an important element of flirtation is making strong eye contact . this is different from just catching his eye from across the hall . when you are flirting , you want to maintain his gaze while you are talking . keep your gaze soft . smile andor laugh . your early conversations should be simple , effortless , and brief . your goal is to keep him wanting more , so you should avoid giving him too much of you at once . avoid digging into heavy emotional , political , or stressful topics . avoid complaining or ranting . instead , talk about something funny or look for things you have in common like sports , fashion , spring break plans . keep early interactions short and sweet . you can say , i have that same notebook . you can brainstorm a short , funny story ahead of time . for example , try saying , that reminds me of this time i went to san jose . when in doubt , use compliments such as , wow , youre really good at math . if you are talking and feeling great , it might be time to break the touch barrier . in other words , you can really communicate that you like someone by using nonchalant touch you can try gently touching his arm while laughing brushing against him pretend to clean a leaf from their back make it seem like an accident and see how they respond . rather than waiting around for him to notice you , take the plunge and ask him out . if it seems like he is interested in you , go ahead and make the first move . pump yourself up with a motivational song or a confidence - building conversation with your friend before you talk to him . you might say hey , are you busy this saturday maybe we could catch a movie . would you want to grab a coffee sometime do you have a date for the dance next week

approach him with confidence . plan what youre going to say . give him your number . write him a note .

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its not cute to look at your feet and mutter um every few words . keep your head up , your voice strong and stay calm . a quiet confidence is key . it adds to your mystery . go in with no expectations . confidence is knowing youre fine even if he says no . his loss a who cares attitude puts you in control . some girls may be able to wing it , but youre less likely to fumble or lose track of your thoughts if you have a general idea of what youd like to say . you might try , hey ryan we should hang out outside of school sometime . can i get your number if you want to look really confident , when youre having a conversation and it starts to wind down say , this is usually the point when a guy asks for my number . you may even get the added bonus of making him laugh this can be a really effective method of getting his number , but its not guaranteed . it will go one of two ways he immediately texts or calls you so you also have his number too . score he takes your number , and youre left waiting for him to contact you . this can actually be good for you , because if he doesnt contact you its a sign to move on . youve then spared yourself the time and possible hurt feelings in the long run . in person communication is always preferred however , if hes either not in any of your classes or you really cant bring yourself to ask him in person , then writing him a note is a good alternative . get straight to the point and write something like , hey sam . we hardly ever get to talk between classes , so i wanted to give you my number so we can get in touch whenever .

use common cell phone issues to your advantage . use school as an excuse . invite him to a group event , and make a quick exit .

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the beautiful thing about technology making mistakes is that we can use this as a very believable excuse , even if its not true . try this common problem i lostdropped my phone and lost all of my contacts . text me your number so i have it for an excuse that works anywhere and anytime try , i cant find my phone will you call it for me so i know i didnt lose it if you have an opportunity to catch a cool photo together , you can even say , my phone is out of space , can i use yours and send it to myself this is also a good way to get his instagram handle . school is the easiest and most believable excuse to get a boys number if you have classes together . ask him if he can help you with your homework sometime . do not pretend youre bad in a subject in the style of cady heron from mean girls , just to have an excuse to talk to a guy . if hes the one who could use some help say , maybe we could study together sometime . if youre both working on a group project or other assignment , you can use this excuse to ask him for his number for a simple reason like , so i can text you if i have a question . this is going to put him on the spot , while also showing your care - free and independent side . a few of us are getting together this weekend to see a movie . text me if youre interested . gotta go this should prompt him to say , wait , i dont have your number if he doesnt think of that fast enough , hell find a way to get your number . if he doesnt find a way , youre better off without him .

casually approach him and strike up a small conversation . get in contact with him on a social network . attempt to talk to him a few times a week . gauge his feelings and drop hints that you like him . make physical contact after awhile , but be sure hes okay with it . ask him out . keep the date simple if he agrees . every person has an ego . let him feel competent by having him help you with something . be genuinely interested in him . be approachable and attractive , but not so stunning and loud as to draw him away . throw a small party and invite a few people you know hell be comfortable with .

how to get a shy guy

remember , shy people are just like everyone else except with a wall , like i said they wont run away if you make quick movements . small conversation is usually rather impersonal and can consist of the homework , weather , teachers , something on the news , or otherwise . if he really likes you , he wont be able to stop thinking about you . if you dont go to school with him , maybe ask what he likes to do other then homework , and school , or even maybe ask for his number . remember if he doesnt text you first dont sweat it . if hes shy in person with you , hell be shy everywhere with you it wont intimidate him as much , and will give him a chance to think about his answer . if you dont have social media , just try asking for a simple number . by talking to him a few times a week , you will begin establishing a bond and he may start to tear down his wall for you . after small talk , you should begin moving onto personal things like family , travel , summer vacation plans , his hobbies , and other casual but personal topics . after youve talked to him for awhile , transition conversations onto a more personal level . perhaps talk about what you both are looking for in a person , and drop hints that what youre looking for is him . dont ask him if hes okay with being touched , just do it once and see how he reacts . a touch or pat on the shoulder is fine . if he seems to dislike it , then refrain from touching him until you know he is more comfortable with you . however , if he seems fine with it , then you should continue to do it every once in a while . dont go too far hugs when needed , small touches on his arm , and pats on the shoulder are just fine . make sure to do this in private and one - on - one . dont even ask around close friends , or else he might feel uncomfortable as well as feel pressured to say yes . you want him to say yes because he wants to , not because he thinks he needs to . he might also be pressured to say no , so be careful . going out to public places is most likely not his thing . suggest a movie at your house though he might be afraid to meet your parents or something else thats away from people . you could also suggest getting drive - through dinner and parking some place quiet to eat and talk . if necessary , find a way to increase his self - esteem . make him feel confident around you . it could be a homework problem or where to buy the latest gadget . whatever works . because shy guys are guys too find out his hobbies or passions . or talk about a common interest . do not pretend to like something you dont but ask open - ended questions about it . it will make you a good listener , get to know him better , and you will have fewer chances to say something stupid . if you do anyway , as 99 of us do , forgive yourself . most guys actually approach cute girls over gorgeous girls because they find really pretty girls out of their league . this applies particularly to shy guys , who have little confidence to begin with . im not saying it isnt okay to be really , really , really , incredibly good - looking . but dont draw so much attention to it . now is not the time to try cutting - edge fashion or over - the - top makeup . make it fun by trying some ice - breaking games and whatnot .

stop trying to deny you like him . look at yourself and reflect on your personality . talk to him . create a friendship . mutual friendships with this step , make sure you dont ditch any of your current friends you have now . keep on working on it . accept or reject , yay or nay . results may vary so now you may or may not be in a relationship depending on if you learn if your crush does or does not return your feelings .

how to form a relationship with your crush for girls

its unhealthy youll find that you are constantly arguing with yourself to convince that you dont like him . accept and embrace it . itll make everything a lot easier for you . are you a mean , nasty , hateful person if you are , its important to change now . guys want a girl whos smart , funny , kind , caring , affectionate , thoughtful and knows how to enjoy herself . dont totally alter your personality just to make a boy like you . its important to be who you are but watch the way you treat those around you . make sure to be genuine and dont pretend to be someone youre not . embrace your natural beauty . you can use makeup , its your choice , but dont overdo it . keep up personal hygiene and do your best to look your best this is probably the most important step . learn how to connect to the guy you like . if you dont know how , follow some of the following suggestions find common ground . find something youre both interested in . it could be a book series , a movie , a tv show , a sport - anything . this will give you a base to work off of . you can talk to him about how awesome that new episode of that tv show was or how excited you are for that movie to come out . get involved with something he does . okay , dont go stalker - ish on this . if hes in a club or sport , only join it if you are honestly interested so not only can you spend time with him , you can have fun yourself . if you are busy and cant join something hes in , embrace those times you see him like in class , the halls , church , etc . contrary to popular belief , its important to become friends before you start a relationship with him . be careful to not fall into the friend - zone . in this stage , it is important to initiate conversation with him - dont be afraid to be the first to talk . at the same time , dont always be the first to talk or you may seem annoying . talk to him when you can in person , online , or through text if you dont want to fall into the friend - zone , make yourself seem different . dont act all buddy - buddy with him or like a bro . act like someone he would be interested in having a relationship with . be a good listener , make interesting conversation , be funny , likable , and flirt - but dont overdo it . as you talk to him , create inside jokes between the two of you . if you can , compliment him youll probably get one back be unique , cute , and overall a fun person to be around . try to be friends with different people and befriend some of his friends - both male and female . with these friendships , dont make them just because of the guy . make these friendships because you want to create new friendships with other people in addition to connecting more to your crush . you may be surprised at who you meet if you make friends who are friends with him , you can have a good time and may be invited to the same events as him , parties , and other activities in which you can spend time with your guy . you can then have more excuses to talk to him and make transitioning into conversations with him easier . you can talk to one of his friends and if youre lucky , he might just walk in and start talking to the both of you . his friends will probably hint to you if he has taken a liking to you . it is very important to be real with this . dont use people its a total turnoff . create new and genuine friendships with his friends . dont pretend to be friends with one of them just so you can talk to your crush . if you dont like his friends , you can choose to skip this step . a strong friendship and a relationship doesnt come easily or quickly . you have to continue to create a better friendship which may or may not lead to something more . having a relationship may take awhile but it may vary . it is important to be patient and dont be pushy . dont make him uncomfortable . by this point , its either time to admit your feelings or get over him . if you feel like youve been waiting too long for him to ask you out , just admit you like him directly to his face . if youre feeling hes not the one anymore , try to move on . remember that it can take a while for him to ask you out . admitting you like him to your crush can speed up the process though . you could just be really good friends with him or trying to handle rejection . whatever it is , be happy because it is what is meant to be . if youre with him , congratulations if youre not , its okay . youll find your prince charming soon enough

set long term goals for the school year . set short term goals . think about your top priorities and know whats important at this time in your life . think about how doing well in school will help you further on in finding a college and just living life and how life will be so much easier if you work hard now and finish what you have to finish . stay organized . keep yourself busy . set aside time to be social and hang out with the guys . you might have to try self restrictions by telling yourself that you are not going talk to the guys until you get your work done or unless you are on top of things in school . remember a girl who is able to keep on top of her work and manage her time well generally looks good to a guy and can be impressive . focus on the tasks at hand think about how other people like your family would want you to do well in school .

how to focus on school and not the boys

if you know what you need to get done in the long run than make sure you remind yourself of those and having a concrete knowledge of what they are can help motivate you . these can be monthly , weekly , or daily . if you know what you want to accomplish academically and extra curricular - wise you will have more motive to reach those goals . it might help to write a to do list so you can check off homework or other goals as you accomplish them . , get involved in your school or outside with volunteer work or community service . make sure you find something you enjoy because not only can it be fun but it can look good for colleges and keep your mind off any certain boys . there is a time to work and a time to play . if you keep them separate everything will work out better . ,

dont stop talking to him about everyday things . try not to fixate on the situation all the time . dont stress out about who hes talking to . remember that he , too , is probably nervous .

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when you find out that your crush knows you like him , dont let this turn your relationship into something awkward and unpleasant . try to continue talking about the things you normally would . for example , if you have classes together at school , dont hesitate to talk to him about your assignments . keeping a casual attitude will make your interactions much easier . keep in mind that he probably doesnt know that you know about him . if you keep your cool , you can buy a little extra time for yourself to come to grips with the situation . when youre worried about how your crush knows you like him , constantly thinking about the situation is one of the worst things you can do . try to keep your mind off of him by staying busy with your day - to - day activities . you can even avoid him for a day or two if it gives you time to calm down , although you wont want to do this for too long if you eventually plan on making a move . it can help if you dont think of the situation as a problem . its not necessarily a bad thing that he knows you like him . after all , would you be angry or upset if you knew someone liked you probably not . having a crush on someone can make even the most rational , level - headed people jealous . try not to get too invested in who your crush is talking to . the odds are that hes not playing hard - to - get or doing it to hurt your feelings — hes just having friendly conversations with the people around him like he usually does . hes also probably not talking about you , so dont fall prey to paranoid thoughts like , hes telling everyone about how i like him unless hes really immature , he probably wouldnt even consider doing that . your crush is just a normal , everyday human being like you . many of the same things that make you nervous probably make you nervous . since he knows you like him , he probably gets a few butterflies in his stomach when he talks to you . keeping this in mind can make it much easier to deal with him — how scary can talking to someone be when you know hes just as nervous as you

consider the positive qualities of each guy . consider how each guy makes you feel . consider the negative qualities of the guy . consider how each guy feels about you . ask your trusted friends for their opinions . weigh their similarities and differences in a list . trust your gut . dont rush it . commit to the guy youve chosen . be prepared for the aftermath . accept your decision .

how to choose between two guys

the next time youre around each guy , make an effort to really engage him and to think about what it is you like about him so much . though you cant always pin down the complicated feelings that make you like a person , its important to have as much information as possible when you make such an important decision . ask yourself the following questions when you talk to each guy does he make me laugh does he have a good sense of humor were all attracted to people who can make us laugh . guys with a good sense of humor make us excited and cause us to look at the world in a different way . if he tickles you , is it weird or do you like it no guy should touch you in the obvious places unless you are ready for that , but like a hug around the waist , holding hands , or even his arm around you is okay , but if youre at the stage where he is going to kiss you and you kiss him back , make sure that you are ready to be at that stage . when he kisses you , be sure you know how to kiss . you dont want it to be awkward . the guy you are going to choose needs to be able to restrain himself . does he seem curious about other people is he interested in things outside himself guys who are only interested in themselves can be pretty boring . youll want a guy who has hobbies , friends , and a good perspective on life . is he in touch with his emotional side is he sensitive about other people lots of guys have an emotional side the problem is they dont want other people to see it . a guy whos okay with other people seeing his emotions is a guy whos both confident and mature . does he flirt respectfully basically , the ask question boils down to this does it seem like he likes you for more than just your body or just your looks are the compliments he gives you more than just about your body does he take things slow guys who take things slow like to savor things . they care about getting every last drop of enjoyment out of being around you . guys who are moving at the speed of light are often onto the next girl faster than you can say letdown . this is just as important as thinking about what you like about each guy . one guy may look better on paper and may have all of the qualities that youre looking for , but the other guy may have the ability to make your heart pound just by sending you a text message . so , the next time youre around each guy , think not only about why you like him , but ask yourself if he makes you feel confident , happy , giddy , and like a better person . here are some things to consider how does he make you feel when youre around him does he make you feel like hes only interested in you , or does he seem like he flirts with other girls all the time , and youre just another girl on his long list does he bring out the best in you , or is he okay with you just being okay does he challenge you and make you want to be a better person does he compliment you in a way that is meaningful and not forced does he make you blush , giggle , and feel like a giddy little girl does he treat you like a lady and make you feel special though you may only be thinking about all of the great qualities of both guys and about how they both give you butterflies , you should also consider the negative aspects of their personality or lifestyle to get more clarification . if youre serious about making this choice , then you have to consider the pros and the cons of being with each guy . here are some things to consider as you make your decision does the guy have a lot of baggage does he have a complicated past and a slew of emotional issues to deal with sure , you may have fun with him , but is that something you want to be responsible for in the long run is he bossy and manipulative does he always try to get his way , or is he incapable of admitting hes wrong these are serious signs that hes probably a little selfish , and signs that you might get more than you bargained for in a relationship . has he lied to you you want a guy that you can trust , a guy whos not afraid to be honest with you , regardless of how much the truth hurts . guys who like gossiping and starting rumors probably dont care much about other people , meaning stay away from him . does he constantly get in trouble , either at school , with his parents , or with the authorities bad boys may have a certain sexiness about them , but chances are if theyre constantly distracted with shenanigans or hijinks , they wont have any time to be around you . does he still talk about his ex - girlfriend if hes still talking about his ex , dropping in little hints from time to time , or constantly talking about her , thats a bad sign . it doesnt mean that hes a bad guy it just means that he still loves her . if both guys are completely devoted to you , then you have a tough task on your hands . though you shouldnt go with the guy who likes you more just because its a safer choice , you should consider how important you are to each guy , and what it would mean to him if you stopped seeing him . if he would just shrug it off and then move on to the next girl , then hes not the guy for you . if you think one of the guys likes you much more than the other , then this should play a strong part in your decision . you dont have to ask outright . you can get a sense of how much guy feels about you just by the way he looks at you , by how often he wants to hang out , and by how much he talks about a future together . of course , if youre just looking to have fun with a summer fling or to get some dating experience for a few months , then you dont have to care so much about whether the guy sees you as long term potential . your friends are there for a reason they offer shoulders to lean on , provide examples of how to behave , and give you advice when you need it . take their advice , but with a grain of salt . youre making the decision at the end of the day . remember that youre not asking them to help you pick the better guy , or the guy that they would pick , but that you want them to help you decide whats right for you . dont ask , who do you like better ask , who do you think is better for me these questions will keep you from getting suggestions about who your friends would date , instead of who you should date . be open to their suggestions if you have your mind made up about who you want to date , theres no use in asking your friends about their opinion . if you ask them for their input , be ready to follow it . this will help you see what you really wanted in the first place . how does each one make you feel make a list of what you really want in a guy and dont . do a procons chart about each guys strengths and weaknesses . see how this procons chart lines up with the list of what you want out of a guy . here are some other questions you can ask which guy will treat me better which guy will be there for me through the tough times which guy do i have more in common with which guys face will i always want to see at the end of the day which guy will get along better with my friends and family which guy can i not live without we cant pick and choose who we like . were born a certain way , and we eventually develop likes and dislikes . dont overthink things . trust what your gut tells you about these guys and go for it . flip a coin in the air . tell yourself that if it lands on heads , you have to go with guy a , and if it lands on tails , you have to go with guy b . while the coin is in the air , where do you instinctively want it to land thats your answer . if you know one guy is bad for you but cant help feeling attracted to him and dont really like the other guy , take a break from both guys . not being in a relationship really isnt bad . in fact , its much better than being burned . learn from your mistakes . if youve dated a certain guy before and the relationship ended poorly , dont make the same mistake all over again with another guy . even if you feel attracted to him , whats the use in going through the same thing all over again if it caused you heartbreak and misery dont feel like you need to make a decision right away . your decision could take some time . during that time , hopefully , one of the guys will do something good or bad to make the decision much easier for you . as long as you havent committed to either guy and dont feel like youre being disloyal to one guy by hanging out with the other , then you should take some time to make the decision . just dont drag it on too long . if you pick one guy , but he finds out that youve been hanging out with another guy for the last few months , then he may feel hurt or slighted . once youve made your decision , stick to it . that doesnt mean you have to tell the guy , hey , i chose you over guy a that wont make the guy feel very special . the commitment is something you make through your actions and your heart . work on building a healthy , stable relationship with the guy youve chosen - - and only the guy youve chosen . get ready to start dating and hanging out with only the guy youve chosen . enjoy the benefits of being with one person without wondering what another guy is up to . if you feel empty or incomplete without the other guy , then it may either mean that you made the wrong decision or that you never liked the first guy that much in the first place - - you only liked the chase . be friendly to the other guy , but dont go out of your way to hang out with him or do stuff alone together . if youre overly friendly with him , he might think that he still has a chance . plus , it might get the guy you chose unnecessarily jealous . know that choosing between two guys will affect your relationship with both of them . this is the double - edged sword of relationships chances are good that youre going to break the other guys heart , and miss out on a relationship with him . if the guy you dont choose doesnt know about the first guy , you dont have to make it a big deal or give him the real reason why youre ending your relationship . though you should be happy once youve made your decision , know that the seas may still be a bit rocky . know that you may turn guys against each other . what if both guys are best friends what do you do then if you choose one and the other likes you , theyll probably stop being best friends . if you want to avoid this situation altogether , date someone else instead . be prepared to lose the guy that you didnt choose . he may not want to be just friends after you hung out romantically or flirted with each other . but that may be for the best . life is yours to live , and you deserve to live it the way you want - - while trying to hurt others as little as possible . though you may feel guilty for making the decision , you and the two guys are better off once youve come to terms with your feelings . be proud of yourself for making a mature choice instead of leading two guys on forever . dont be afraid of making mistakes as long as you learn from them . dont worry about having everyone like you when youre making a big decision like this , feelings will get hurt .

if hes reading a book or listening to a song that you dont know about , ask him about it . just be around him when he isnt around his friends . ask him to help you with something . accidentally bump into him . compliment him and then ask him for advice on something . drop your pencil and ask him politely to pick it up or if they wouldnt mind sharpening it for you .

how to find an excuse to talk to your crush for girls

tell him that it looks really interesting . after youve told him this , ask about the author or artistband of the songbook . this should get the conversation going if he really likes the particular authorsingerband . if he doesnt know much about them , say something like , hey , insert bandsingerauthor here sounds a lot like a different bandsingerauthor here . if he is really friendly and outgoing , hell probably say hello . if he doesnt , you say hi . this way you can pretend that you arent trying to talk to him because you like him , but just because youre just bored and have nothing to do but to talk to him or you can pretend that youre just being friendly . if you have trouble with math and hes a math whiz , ask him to help you with the math . if youre carrying something heavy , then ask him to help you carry it . this sets you up for a conversation in a non - awkward way . dont forget to thank him after . say , oops , sorry dont just walk into him , blush , and walk away . after youve apologized for bumping into him say , hi , my names . whats yours if you know his name already but hes new or youre new , say , hi , im . youre right if that wont really work , make a comment about something funny that happened in class , some bizarre rumour that obviously isnt real , the amount of homework that the teachers give you , the weather , how awesome they did on their school project or at their football game , etc . here are some examples if your crush did awesome at a sport event football , lets say , say to him , wow , you did awesome at the football game on friday . can you give me some tips on how to play football as well as you did if your crush did a great school presentation or speech , say to him , hey , i loved your speechpresentation on name school presentation here . i need some help in the public speaking area , and you seem like the best person to ask for advice about this stuff , so could you give me some tips if you know for some reason that your crush got a good grade on his math test , say , hi . i heard that you did great on your math test . great job i have a couple of tests coming up , maybe you could give me some tips about how i could do as well if you heard that they aced a job interview , say , hiya , i heard that you did great on your job interview . i have one coming up , so how did you do so awesome on it note that this isnt likely set up a real conversation unless you do this before class has started , but it might let him know that youre interested and this is good because he will most likely want to talk to you more if he thinks this

decide whether you will admit your crush . if you want to come clean to your crush , dont put it off . keep things casual . dont be put off by his shyness . accept his decision even if its no .

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sooner or later , you need to commit to either talking to your crush about the way you feel or staying silent . being undecided about a crush is a terrible feeling . making a decision can be scary , but it gives you closure . you get to either take things to the next level with your crush or start moving on , but either way you dont have to worry about it anymore . often , honesty is the best policy . being open about your crush can feel like taking a huge weight off your chest — no matter what happens , you were true to your heart . it also lets you avoid nagging feelings of regret . in other words , you wont be wondering , what would have happened if i had talked to my crush in a few weeks . try explaining to him that you dont want to ruin the friendship and you wouldnt like it to be awkward . usually he would accept that and try to keep things as normal as they were before whilst deciding his next move . on the other hand , if you really dont want to open up about your crush or you have good reason to think its a bad idea , you shouldnt ever feel like you need to . an example of a situation where it would be a bad idea to act on a crush is if your crush is already with someone else . if you decide that youre going to open up to your crush , dont waste time waiting for the perfect moment . it probably will never come . in the meantime , your crush may lose interest or even start to think that you dont like him anymore . pick a time and place where you can be alone with your crush and stick to this . your best chances for romance will come if you seize the opportunities you are given . for example , if your crush is someone you know from school , you might arrange to meet this person after school in a secluded spot . it doesnt have to be 100 deserted — just reasonably private . a park bench , for instance , will usually work fine . opening up to your crush doesnt have to be a huge , dramatic production . in fact , if you make a big deal about it , you may even scare your crush off . instead , keep the conversation low - pressure and casual . this will make it much easier for him to give you an honest answer . you dont even have to outright say that you have a crush . instead , you can simply invite him to spend one - on - one time together . for example , you might start the conversation by saying something like , hey , spanish class has been fun . do you want to get some lunch and go to the fair with me this weekend i hear the enchiladas they have out there are amazing . even if you keep things very low - pressure , your crush might get a little shy . dont worry about this . dont take silence or awkwardness as a sign that he doesnt like you . these things just show that he is having a hard time getting his words out . give him plenty of time to take in what youre saying and encourage him to come to a conclusion when hes ready . he shouldnt even feel like he needs to answer you right away . getting a date offer or having someone admit they like you can take a day or two to fully process . consider saying something like , take your time — you dont have to tell me today . respect your crushs ability to come to his own decisions , even if you dont like the one he makes . if he says no , just casually say , oh , ok and make your exit . dont pester him with repeated questions or try to get him to change his mind . on the other hand , if he does accept your offer , congratulations after a no , you may want to limit the amount of time you spend with this person for a couple days . you dont have to outright ignore him , but if your feelings are hurt or if its hard to stop thinking about it , give yourself some distance for a little while until your emotions die down .

see how he dresses . select a color . stay in your price range . choose a shirt . pick out a pair of pants . select a pair of shoes . add some accessories . wear makeup . be appropriate . but through all of this make sure to still be yourself and be comfortable , confident and positive about what you wear .

how to dress around your crush

if he seems to like girls with more of a girly style , then dress girly . watch what designs , colors , patterns , stores or styles he likes , and get some that you think he might be into . you dont want to look like a creep , but you also dont want to look like purple - girl . go to the store and ask a professional what colors would fit you , your body and your personality . avoid wearing all of one color , but do have the colors clash in a good way . even if you really think you love the boy , dont go spending three - thousand dollars on clothes to impress him . spend a decent amount , though , as you really like him . make sure to choose a shirt that flatters your body shape . see which kind of shirt you like best , whether its tank - tops , turtle - necks , v - necks , etc . for shirts , its important to feel comfortable in them but to also look good in them , something even he would know is a perfect match . try something that doesnt make you look too big or small . if he is more punk try getting skinny jeans . they look good on anyone . never try pants that are too , too tight . skinny jeans are okay , but be sure you can even walk in them shoes are a must with style . dont go outside wearing clogs . have shoes that a comfortable and look great too . make sure that your shoes are appropriate to your activity . accessories can be of any kind depending on who you are . if you are more preppy , then you might want to have a watch . but if you are scene , punk or emo you might want to try on some bangles or chokers . remember that accessories can make or break the outfit . do not wear too much makeup , as boys dont like it . wear some mild lip gloss , a little mascara , some blush , and any color eye - shadow you feel is nice . it is important to wear makeup , but just as important not to wear too much . sure , you want to look sexy and hot , but not out of your comfort zone when it comes to showing skin . for example , if you dont feel like coming to school wearing a shirt that shows your appendix or with bra sliding down your shirt , and you feel uncomfortable wearing those things you will appear a lot more relaxed and they will appreciate how comfortable you seem in your skin . you may think guys would like this , but they would really run away fast . be hot , but dont be inappropriate .

when you first met this boy , what was your initial vibe , dont be creepy nosy , but just think about his myspace or stuff laying around in his room . have you heard people talk about him , whether it be good or bad . how many ex - girlfriends has he had , how does he act around you opposed to his friends or family , ask yourself , could i stand this person being with someone else .

how to find out if he is for real

was it a little weird or maybe it was a secure feeling does he seem to have a lot of friends - who - are - girls does he have real bad language , maybe talk a little bad about women does he imply bad intentions if he hates his ex today , maybe hell be saying the same bad things about you tomorrow . what do his good friends say about him what do his ex - girlfriends say about him this may tell you how long the relationship may last which , in turn , will tell you if hes serious about a commitment to you . he should treat you differently , act a little more respectfully . i . e . he shouldnt curse as much around you , or make rude noises andor gestures . this should be left with his buddies .

make sure you have an outfit that you like ready the night before , or else you might end up wearing an outfit that you hate . wake up 1 12 to 2 hours before you normally wake up . get out your robe , clothes , and have a shower . after you are all clean and fresh , wash your face . brush your hair and then take out a magazine . eat breakfast . brush your teeth extremely well . put on your makeup . lastly , dont forget the deodorant .

how to catch your crushs eye for girls only

you may lack confidence if you dont like what you are wearing . confidence is key . if you cant love yourself why should he if you have trouble waking up , try to a form a sleeping routine such as reading or journaling before you go to bed every night . bgo to bed early on school nights . c get a loud alarm clock . d all of the above after your shower , put some lotion on your legs , hands , and arms . you never know when you two might brush hands . plus , guys like girls who look after themselves . it makes you feel better about yourself all day . pick a look you like , and try to do your hair that way . if you skip this step , you may be stuck with a stomachache all day floss as well . do something you like , but not too much . guys dont like girls with too much makeup . even spray your favourite perfume . guys love good smelling girls

watch for the following indicators he blurts out random , rapid words or phrases when you speak to him .

how to decipher the gestures and quirks of a guy who likes you

he cant seem to look at you directly . and when he does look at you , he looks straight into your eyes . he responds with short , tentative , quiet and incoherent sentences . he touches his hair . he speaks to you in a very quiet , gentle , and tentative voice . he instantly and voluntarily agrees to all your challenges , bets , wants , etc . for instance , you jokingly offer a box of candy to whomever will accept your dare , and he accepts without second thoughts . he jerks away from your touch as though you have a contagious disease . he comments on your new haircutclothesjewelry . he offers you reassurance when you put yourself down , even though hes not the type to usually console someone . he frequently makes comments on things you dislike e . g . bands , celebrities , sexism , then looks at you , smirks , and waits for you to react . he constantly challengesbets you to do things and waits patiently for you to do it . his feet are pointed towards you . its a very subtle sign but it means hes unconsciously reacting to you . he almost sits by you but jerks away quickly .

make a subtle change about yourself , not too much , or else he will probably think youre fake . make yourself smell good . be flirty . make sure to walk near him . get close to his friends . dont have too big of an ego . smile and sound happy . walk with style . be yourself .

how to catch a guys attention when passing him at school

put your hair up another way , wear or change makeup , get some new clothes , etc . wash yourself more often and wear perfume . if you see him , talk to him , flip your hair , giggle . not too much giggling or else it will make you seem dumb and strange if hes going to geometry next , take the long way so you end up passing him . dont pass him every day . dont take the long way if it will make you tardy they can say nice things about you to your crush . having self confidence is great , but dont make it seem that youre all that . it turns people off . boys dont like girls that seem sad . try to work with good posture and great walking skills . dont change because if he ends up liking you for who you are not , that would be bad .

have a look at the friends he keeps . get to know his friends better , or at least one of his close friends . try to make friends with his sister or brother . take a look at the way he dresses . take the same classes he does . offer to be his partner in a class group project . try to sit by him at lunch . check out whether he has facebook , twitter , instagram etc . check out the posts he makes and what he likes and comments on . check out the area where he writes a bit about himself . tell him about a party you are want to have and ask his advice on what he thinks would make a party the greatest . arrange a webcam conversation with him .

how to figure out a boys interests

does he hang around with physical sport junkies maybe its the emo group or computer game guys . it could even be the book - club group , whoever they are they all have the same thing in common and thats their interest . dont do it in a freakish way , where you just kind of pop up and want to make friends . this way you can talk about him every so often allowing you to find out more about him and what interest he shares with that friend . the siblings always know all the juicy gossip and will definitely know what hes interested in . is he always wearing football shirts maybe its overly baggy jeans and hip hop style clothing . it could simply be the new style icons . is he dressing geek and nerd or is he the relaxed cool guy in jeans , t and sneakerstrainers . this could tell if his interest is sports , urban lifestyle or fashion , as well as where he might get his clothes see his reactions to the things the teacher is talking about , does science spook his interest is he answering all the questions maybe hes chilled out in the back drawing on his desk or drumming pencils on the desk . this gives you the chance to get to talk to him . it doesnt have to be at the same table , and you really dont need him to know you are listening to his conversation , so keep it cute . use your hair to hide your facial expressions , or sit with your side turning to him with your hair hanging down on the side he is closest to . that way you can hear what he is saying but with your hair hiding your face . you can do this by asking him make sure its a convenient time or simply searching for his name . if you dont already have social networking accounts , you can open one too . this way you can chat and find out more about him . on his facebook , get added to his list and subscribe to his updates . also you can search for his family members if you know their names but be sure he doesnt know so you dont look like a stalker . this way you can find out more about both him and his family . you could apply some of your knowledge whilst in a conversation with him but be discreet and dont say too much as not to appear as a stalker . this will show the true him . have a look around his room . posters , books , and video games are all hints about what his interests are .

be positive , but do not fake it . look nice . take care of your hair . talk to his friends . make him laugh . dont be creepy . dont act fake . be cute . be confident . dont over think it . just be yourself . know your values and stick to them .

how to catch a guys attention

smile and be happy . dont be a downer all the time . get plenty of sleep and exercise . otherwise , hell think youre always upset and he doesnt want someone to bring him down . he wants someone to bring him up . however , if youre feeling down one day , dont feel like you have to fake happiness . otherwise youll seem fake . make sure your clothes fit properly and youre in your comfort zone when it comes to showing skin . you dont want him to think youre high maintenance . brush your teeth . spray some perfume on yourself , but not too much , as you dont want your scent to be over - bearing . just enough to where you pass him his face turns towards you . thats one trick to catch his attention . the most important thing in looking nice is that you like the way you look . usually we are our own worst critics if you even slightly like your appearance , you probably look great your hair doesnt always have to be down . if its knotty and gross looking , then throw it up with your bangs down . straighten your hair when the weather is nice out , or scrunch it when its rainy or a bit humid . experiment with what looks best with your hair again , remember you are your own worst critic . when youre around his friends , talk to them , especially if hes around . if he sees you talking to his friends he might come over and join in the conversation . thats when you talk to him and find out about him . if he doesnt seem interested in whatever you are talking about , then bring up a new topic . crack a joke or two . even if you know theyre not funny if he laughs thats a sign that hes into you . try not to be too serious guys of any age sometimes tease girls they like . dont find out where he works and go there everyday . hell think youre creepy and that youre stalking him . guys dont like that , and if he thinks youre creepy , your chances just went down the drain . dont find out where every one of his classes are and follow him there . dont stand at his locker if your locker is near his , then thats a different story . if he asks then you simply say my locker is right here . this is the most important step in catching his attention . dont have your shirt down to your navel if you feel terrible wearing it just to get attention or a really long shirt if you feel awful in them . hell mistake you for being insecure and think you are miserable and desperate , which you arent dont lie about how many guys youve been with , and dont wear something completely impractical like super shorts in the middle of winter , hell consider you outlandish . smile and flirt , but not too much . dont over think how you talk to him otherwise you might seem fake . give yourself a mental pep - talk before you talk to him . dont worry about how you look or anything . remember that he is just a person , and nothing to freak out about be yourself , and if it happens , it happens . this applies to almost all situations with guys . when it happens , youll know whats right . however . otherwise , you may feel bad about yourself isnt the point of a having this guy to make you happy

breathe , concentrate on him . calm yourself with music . if you have music handy and it seems natural to play it , great , make an okay sign with your fingers . move your feet .

how to calm your nerves around the guy you like 1

when you feel your heart thudding faster and faster , pay attention to how you are breathing . remember the quicker you breathe , the less air your lungs get . that means your heart is speeding up to pump the little oxygen you have to the rest of your body . so make a point of taking deep breaths to calm your body and mind . breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth . imagine that your lungs are down in your abs . think about filling your abs with air instead of your chest . this will help you draw longer breaths . keep your focus on what is happening outside of you , rather than inside . focus all of your attention entirely on him . empty your mind of everything else . ignore your own internal reactions , worries , and concerns . just pay attention to what he says and does and react to that . obviously , youre a human being hoping to have a conversation here , so you cant really empty your mind of everything . the goal is to quiet any thoughts that dont have anything to do with the immediate conversation . just think about what youre going to say in response to what he says , not how you feel inside . for example if he asks for your opinion on something like your taste in music , speak from the gut and tell the truth , regardless of what his opinion may be . keep the conversation going instead of stalling it by trying to second - guess yourself about what he will think of your answer . if he says something you disagree with , say so . dont start yourself worrying about how he might react . its better to deal with his reaction , whatever it may be , than worry over a hundred different scenarios that probably wont happen anyway . play something relaxing and keep an ear tuned to that . if not , just play a song that usually calms you down in the back of your head . the key is to play something calming . your breathing , heart rate , and other body rhythms will naturally fall in sync with the musics rhythm . this is also a great ice breaker to get the conversation rolling and find out his interests . depending on where you are , subtle ways to go about this could be fiddling with a car radio , switching between music channels on tv , starting your ipod or other device before you engage him , or asking him if he wants to check out that jukebox in the corner . with one hand , form an o by bringing the tip of your index finger and the tip of your thumb together . leave your other three fingers straight , but relaxed . sounds weird , but this is actually a yoga trick known as the gyan mudra . instead of focusing on all the thoughts and feelings building up inside you , just concentrate on keeping the tips of your thumb and index together together . if you think this will look weird , just hold your hands behind your back , or use whatever youre holding like a textbook to hide it from view . release your stress by moving around . get your blood flowing and get rid of the tension building up inside you . full - out dancing is a proven way to lower your anxiety , but even though it would probably be too weird if you broke out into a jig for no reason , moving around just a little bit will still help . a simple solution is to just get the conversation mobile by suggesting a walk - and - talk if youre already playing music , let yourself move to the rhythm . slowly stepping off and on a curb or stair step also be a way to burn off nervous energy without looking too odd .

just go for it . open with something casual . look at him . make him talk about himself at first . offer your own insights . keep the tone light .

how to calm your nerves around the guy you like 2

when you see him , walk right up and start a conversation . spark his interest by showing him yours demonstrate how confident you are by seeking him out right away , rather than forever waiting for that perfect moment that may or may not come . dont worry about declaring your undying love right away . simply get the ball rolling by showing him that you would like to get to know him better . dont feel super - confident just yet that is all the more reason to go straight up to him dawdling will just give you more time to overthink things and stress yourself out . also , you dont want to give someone else a chance to get in there first and hog his attention . dont stress yourself about flooring him with the most clever thing that you could possibly say . instead , start small and build from there . draw him into a conversation with you by posing an offhand question or asking for a quick favor . whichever you choose , be sure the topic is something that will lead to an actual back - and - forth conversation , instead of a one - word answer . open with something like is that the new iphone could i take a peek at it i need to replace my phone and im not sure what i want to get . you have ms . novak for first period , right what was her test like i have to take it eighth period . i like your smiths t - shirt . real quick whats your favorite album and why when you approach , make direct eye contact and maintain it . even though youre nervous , stop yourself from glancing away to stare at your feet or something in the distance . gain his attention and keep it by keeping yours on him from start to finishsmile , too put him at ease with a grin as you approach . remember you want him to like talking with you , so show him that this conversation is going to be a good thing by opening with a big friendly smile . once you draw him into a conversation , keep him engaged by sticking to a subject he knows about himself as you move from topic to topic , show him that your main interest isnt the topic itself , but what he thinks about it . flatter his ego so he feels eager to share . at the same time , avoid the stress of being in the spotlight by keeping it trained on himthink of yourself as an interviewer . ask lots of questions . for example , if he happens to have a book with him ask him what he thinks of it so far . then ask what other authors he enjoys . quiz him with which five books would you bring if you were stranded on a desert island then ask if he could only recommend one to read , which one would it be . dont overdo the questioning and make him feel like this is an interrogation start peppering the conversation with your own opinions and anecdotes . even though you feel nervous at first , share a small piece of yourself when he shares something with you . as you grow more comfortable , expand and offer him a wider view so the conversation grows to be equal parts give and take . for instance , if one of the books he picks to bring with him to a desert island is the same as one of your picks , say so then use that topic to direct more questions at him which character do you most identify with what was your favorite part what did you think of the movie when he shares his answer with you , return the favor by answering your own question . by asking lots of questions and sharing your own answers , you can control the course of the conversation and share exactly what you want to share . as the conversation builds , stick to topics that the both of you enjoy . even though you may want this guy to be your shoulder to cry on when you need one , save that for later . for now , show him that you are fun to be around by keeping the conversation carefree . if he brings up a topic that stresses you out , redirect the focus to something more positive . lets say he brings up a flood that recently hit the city where your favorite aunt lives . instead of focusing on the flood , use that as a segue to talk to about a happy memory of your aunt or that city . from there , shift the focus back onto him by asking about his favorite family member or city .

be confident in your looks . think positively . keep your mind open to all possibilities . stay open - minded afterward , too .

how to calm your nerves around the guy you like 3

dont fret about what he might think of your appearance . be comfortable in your body , even if his previous girlfriends belong to a totally different type . rest assured that guys respond more to your self - confidence than your looks . so instead of stressing out about mirroring his type , fix yourself up however you like to . then simply walk into every room like you own it byrefraining from slouching or sticking your hands in your pockets . keeping your chin up with your neck extended . throwing your shoulders back . allowing your arms to swing freely . give each interaction the chance to develop into something great . dont shoot yourself in the foot by assuming that everything will go wrongwhen youre with him , avoid over - analyzing the situation . just take pleasure in interacting with him by staying in the moment , rather than dwelling on the past or trying to predict the future . respond to what he and anyone else in your group says or does right here , right now , and nothing more . keep your mind clear of any preconceived notions about what he might mean with this comment or that look . focus on what goes right a joke that he finds funny his willingness to share his opinions and personal experiences his interest in your own opinions and stories . let the not - so - right parts slide . recover quickly by refusing to dwell on them for instance , if your joke falls flat , simply make a joke out of that by making cricket noises and then laughing it off . remember you dont know everything so if you feel like he isnt interested in being with you or even just chatting right now , dont take that as a personal slight . take a step back and think of every reason that might be , rather than just assume that he doesnt like you . other possibilities could behes shy in general or gasp nervous because hes attracted to you , too he may be distracted by something else in his life , like schoolwork , his job , or a family situation . he may just have little to say about the particular topic you bring up . dont think all is lost just because time spent with your dream guy didnt go exactly the way you dreamt it . remember what went right , and put everything else in its proper place . avoid placing too much significance on minor details . if he , say , fails to get one of your jokes or disagrees with one of your opinions , dont take that to mean that you arent funny or a good match . instead , just accept that he didnt find that one particular joke funny or agree with that one particular opinion . dont assume the whole conversation was a total disaster just because it wasnt 100 perfect . remember that he may have had a perfectly good time even if you think it could have gone better .

sit beside him and generally talk . become friends on facebook , you both have facebook , in all likelihood , so find him and send a friend request . plan your route so you unexpectedly bump into him can be a great opportunity to talk again , however make it look realistic and dont do it all the time or he will think youre stalking him smile , talk hobbies , get his mobilecell phone number . cinema trip

how to become friends with a guy you have a huge crush on

whether youre in the classroom or on the bus or at work , always find a way to sit beside him or get close , that way you can talk with him whether it be about the weather or a sports team . just get to know him better if youve chatted before he will recognize you and most likely accept the request a friend request is one of the most common and nonchalant things today , so dont dread or be afraid they have connected the figurative dots and know your crushing this fear is equivalent to worrying people thinking you odd for , say , breathing . if youre good friends already send him a message or give him a poke , guys love it when girls smile as its a sign of friendliness and makes you more approachable . more than likely hell think your smile is cute also after general chatting with him everyday on the bus for 3 months youre probably wondering , what next well , naturally , youll be friends by now and will talk about other things but if youre really stuck , why not talk hobbies find out what he likes and if you like the same . viola after youre past the general chatting stage and youve become good friends ask for his cell phone number or he might ask you for yours , but make sure you know him well enough if after all this you want to meet up with him after work or school for some relaxing time as friends why not go to the cinema , park , seaside or shopping mall if you get the feeling he wont go if its just the two of you then invite more friends , some of yours and some of his and everyone will get to know each other more

be yourself . look your best , but dont obsess over your looks . use confident body language . think of him as an ordinary person not an idol . dont over - think things .

how to be confident around your crush 1

if theres only one thing you do to boost your confidence , make it this . try not to fall for the trap of changing your normal behavior to impress your crush . this is a bad idea for a few reasons . first , it puts pressure on you to be someone youre not , which can add to your stresses because its not something youre used to . second , it gives your crush a false idea of who you are . this can lead to confusion and hurt feelings when you drop the act . on the other hand , if youre true to yourself , you dont have to worry about keeping any lies straight . this basic idea can extend to things as simple as casual conversations . for example , if your crush says that they love the movie fight club and you havent seen it , dont say me too to try to impress . this is setting yourself up for embarrassment if , for instance , your crush asks what your favorite part is . in the grand scheme of things , looks are only a single , fairly shallow part of what makes someone attracted to someone else . however , putting a little extra effort into your looks can be very useful if it helps you keep your confidence high . consider spending a little extra time each morning putting yourself together if you know your crush is going to be around . loving the way that you look in the mirror will help you feel positive about yourself later in the day . however , youll never want to spend too much time worrying about the way you look . remember that your crush is most likely to like you for your personality , not the way you look . stressing out about whether or not you look perfect will only lower your confidence and make it harder for you to act natural when youre around your crush . the way you carry yourself can have a big effect on how confident you look — and feel . while sitting or walking , keep your shoulders back , your head slightly raised , and your chest slightly stuck out . above all , wear a classy smile . people are generally much more likely to start conversation with people who appear friendly and open . on the other hand , nervous behaviors can make you look and feel less confident . try to avoid fiddling with your hair , biting your nails , and similar gestures . when youre absolutely infatuated with someone , its easy to forget that theyre an ordinary person . in addition to the things that make them amazing , crushes have flaws , fears , and insecurities just like you do . they are complex , imperfect people , so dont think of them like movie stars or royalty . instead , try to think of them the same way youd think of any casual acquaintance . this is especially important if you eventually start a relationship with this person . sooner or later , if you spend enough time together , you will find things about each other that you dont like . this can be a very unpleasant realization if you have the idea that your significant other is perfect . scrutinizing every single action that you make around your crush or that your crash makes around you is a sure fire way to turn yourself into a nervous wreck . odds are that you dont always choose the perfect thing to say or do when youre around your friends and family , so theres no reason to worry about this when youre with your crush . ironically , stressing out about every single thing that happens just makes it more likely that youll make a mistake , so stay cool if , during a conversation , you find yourself thinking , oh my gosh , why did i just say that , relax . most minor mistakes will go completely unnoticed . if they dont , your crush may even find them amusing . most people wont get offended or angry over a minor slip - up . besides , if they do , they arent good crush material .

flirt a little to test the waters . spend a little time with each other before you make any decisions . be direct with your intentions , but keep things casual . dont put too much weight in your crushs reply .

how to be confident around your crush 2

flirting is a great way to judge whether your crush is reciprocating your feelings . there are many different ways to flirt . for example , you can try gently teasing your crush about a mistake , as long as you keep things good - natured . you might also try delivering a suave compliment or making a subtle innuendo while youre talking with each other . touch is also a good idea — try reaching out and touching your crushs shoulder when she says something that makes you laugh , for instance . if your crush goes along with your flirting or returns it , this is a good sign . see our flirting article for many more tips . crushes arent always logical . if youre captivated by someones looks and confidence , you may get a crush for this person before you have a good idea of who this person is . you dont want to make a move on someone only to find out later that youre not actually attracted to this person , so try to spend at least a little time together alone or in groups before you take the plunge . if youre nervous about spending casual time with your crush , pick activities that you know youre good at . your natural confidence will make it easier to keep your cool while youre interacting . for example , if youre good at tennis , you might challenge your crush to a few friendly volleys . no matter how confident you are , asking a crush out can cause some major butterflies . a good way to defuse the situation is to make your request a casual one . this takes some of the pressure off — your crush isnt deciding whether to express his or her undying love for you , just deciding whether to spend a little time together . you dont even have to bring up the idea of romance yet . for instance , you might simply ask your crush , hey , do you want to go get some mexican food after school if you hit things off on your first hang - out session , then you can start hinting that youd like to be more than friends . crushes arent the end of the world . try not to let yourself get too invested in the outcome of asking your crush out . for one , a no may have nothing to do with you — there may simply be other commitments that make romance impossible . more important , though , is the fact that one persons opinion of you doesnt matter . crushes come and go , so dont let one determine how you feel about yourself .

find your strengths . spruce up your look . find what looks best for your hair guys love when a girls hair is flirtatious or pretty . invest in a scent that suits you , such as a flowery perfume or rugged - scented cologne . less is more . dress the way you feel , but to attract the male attention , try to stick on an outfit which extenuates your curves but not too revealing otherwise they will get the wrong idea keep a casual handbag to put with everyday outfits , if you see this guy daily dont drag around a rucksack , you want to look like a lady , keep a smile on . show the person your real beauty show what you are . remember , beauty is not everything . along with looks , you need to learn few more steps like dont give too much attention to him . talk intelligently with him . most important of all , love yourself and be confident in whatever you do . do some of the things he likes doing . find out what he likes . have a good attitude around him . dont try to sound like youre bragging or exaggerating when having a conversation . make sure that you keep in touch with all of your friends and have conversations with them when your crush is in the room . remember , the most important thing is not trying to impress him . show him one of your talents , like playing the guitar , singing or maybe dancing . read fashion magazines like teen vogue or cosmo girl , but be careful , because they may not always give good advice , so think before following them . dont be afraid to be yourself . for a sweet sexy pin up girl look , invest in black liquid eyeliner , matching skin foundation with a matte finish , red lipstick , and peachy blusher . prep the eye for the eyeliner with some nude eyeshadow , then glide your eyeliner from the inner corner of the eye outwards to the end , then a small upwardstraight flick . use peach blusher , or a liquid blusher to highlight the cheekbones and create good facial structure . then prep your lips with lip balm , following with a lip brush to use with a rouge lipstick . skin matching foundation , clear lip gloss with a non stick feel , peachpinkish blusher and mascara , preferably non clumpy mascara , recommended bourgeois elastic mascara for a very natural beauty apply moisturizer leaving it to set in for 5 minutes , then blend the foundation evenly over the face .

how to be interesting in front of your crush for girls

you are a unique individual and already blessed with positive differences from others . capitalize on your strengths . never try to fit in or change who you are as a person to have any sort of relationship , whether strictly platonic or in fact , romantic . if you feel the need , invest in a new shirt or bracelet for a confidence boost to add to that edge . however , remember that you shouldnt have to change who you are inside to get himher to like you . be true to yourself and what is in your heart , as that should be the ultimate attractive quality . obviously good personal hygiene is a must , but spritz on a great cologne or enhance your eyes with a great new shadow color . fun additions like these not only help with intensifying your look but also enhance your confidence level . soft and sleek , curly or smooth make hair look not only clean and healthy but add to the your overall physical presentation . maybe you could even be super - daring and go for a bold new haircut , try use little to no makeup . boys love when the girl is either natural and subtle , or a little bit sassy with the soft flick of black eyeliner glide your liquid eyeliner across the eye and end with a soft flick if you are allowed to . nude lips are also attractive , so try out a clear lip gloss . if lip gloss isnt quite your style , try a lip liner that highlights your natural pout . , invest in a average sized bag with a nude colour to match your outfits remember to carry around your pick me up beauty supplies i . e . deodorant and mini makeup bag for a quick spritz and fresh glow . smiling is known to make a person glow , so stick on your smile and show them teeth whether you have braces or not , people will appreciate and see the beauty of your smile . if he can accept you for the person that you are , then he is the best . this article talks about beauty tips , but a man will be captured by your presence , fun streak and mannerisms , so keep good posture , head high , smile and talk nicely . men will be all over you . be yourself and if you are a fun person , then beauty tips are not always essential . try to avoid him a little bit , but dont show him your real feelings so easily , because this will divert his attention towards you . most guys like intelligent girls so dont behave like a dumbo . , if he sees that you like doing his favorite things , then he might like you even more and think of you as a great match for him . if he is interested in sports , learn everything you can about it in general , then learn the specifics for the local teams so you can offer to take him to a game . if he likes skateboarding , find out if there is a local skate park he may not have gone to yet . if he is into debates , then learn the art of debating and if he gets engaged in a topic with you , keep pace . the point is , engage in what it is that he enjoys and find enjoyment in it yourself . there will come a time when this is more important than how you look . dont be bossy or rude or demanding but instead polite and girly . offer him drinks when you get your own but dont focus on just him and look obvious . also dont lie , since its not good to start a relationship with lies . youll only get found out later . this makes you more interesting , because he will see that you also have lots of friends who think you are interesting you can be more confident and alluring by being interested in him than trying to sound interesting . so listen , and participate in conversation . try not to start off every single sentence with i . this may seem difficult , but you will find yourself asking more questions and being more involved and fascinated by your crush . people are generally not too interested in other people and their accomplishments . so if you discover some of your crushs likes , then bring up a conversation about it . does he like hockey ask if he saw the big game last night . so if you become more interested in people , then you will stand out as a bright , friendly , confident girl . it should be something that makes you stand out from all the other girls . they may , however , help you keep up with the latest fashion trends . if you arent yourself , then how are you yourself supposed to impress him if he doesnt know the real you , then why did you try to impress him by not being yourself if he doesnt like the real you , then it is his loss good luck put on foundation first for the base . , grab a blusher brush , and glide evenly your blusher over the cheeks to create tone . then if you are an eyelash curler addict , grab your eyelash curlers , and follow up with a few strokes of mascara , starting from the bottom of the top lashes brushing outwards . most guys do not like it when a girl plasters her face with makeup . it looks unnatural to them , and they are never fooled by make - up . so a little make - up is fine , but as strange as it may seem , guys find you more attractive with less of it .

be friendly . find common ground . get to know him better . be playful .

how to attract the guy you have a crush on 1

if your crush has no idea you exist , its going to be difficult to attract him . try to get to know each other by becoming acquainted with his friends , joining a club hes in , or asking someone who knows him to introduce you . be careful because if you dont want him to know you like him , they might say something which could ruin your chances and make things uncomfortable . if your crush is in your class , talk to him a little before or after class talking during class could get you some unwanted , negative attention . you could comment on the teacher , the work you have to do or make a joke when hes listening . its scary but youll feel good once you make a move . say something like , the homework was hard last night . were you able to figure it out to start a conversation with him . its easier to start conversations when you both have found something to talk about . you might possibly consider taking up some of his interests but dont become a whole different person just for someone else . its definitely not worth it . if you have no common interests , dont freak out , just ask him about his hobbies or about something you already know he enjoys . for example , if youve never watched a tv show before that hes practically addicted to , just tell him , ask him about it to spark an instant conversation . you could say , have you ever seen to get him talking about something he is a fan of and will get excited about . you have to be friends before he will start to reciprocate the whole crush feeling in return . if you arent already friends , you could always start out by bringing up a general conversation topic i . e . weather , a crazy thing that happened that day , presidential elections , assignments . and if all else fails , you could always just ask for a pencil or some paper and go from there . maybe after youve gotten to know him a little better , you can joke around or tease him , maybe even flirt with him - but dont get too ahead of yourself . he might feel awkward if a girl he barely knows starts flirting hard - core with him . add him on facebook or follow him on twitter or instagram if you havent already done so . you can learn more about your crushs interests and hobbies by doing this as well . you can like his posts whenever you see them to indicate your interest in what he posts and talks about . guys are generally attracted to and notice people with a good sense of humor , especially those with playful personalities . try joking around with him or teasing him if you are comfortable doing so . being able to make him laugh could be attractive to him . for example , you could lightly joke around by saying something like , im short because i actually escaped from willy wonkas factory or something silly along those lines to show that you are confident in yourself but you enjoy a good laugh .

ask yourself why you want an older boyfriend . make sure you want a relationship for the right reasons . a relationship should be pursued because you feel a legitimate connection with the other person . consider how an age gap might affect a relationship . prepare yourself for criticism . if there is a significant age gap between you and the guy youre with , there are a number of problems you should prepare to deal with that you wouldnt normally have to think about . be his friend first . let him take the lead . treat him as an equal . hold his gaze . eye contact is a very powerful part of body language , and its especially important in terms of flirting . smile at him . smiling is a universal language for warm feelings and affection . offer compliments . make sure he respects your boundaries . start hanging out with older people . follow through with whatever you say youre going to do . reliability is a hallmark of any truly mature person . be proud of who you are . keep a journal . keeping track of your daily thoughts and feelings in a journal is a great path to self - discovery . get past jealousy . avoid social cliques and drama . try a new hairstyle . dress to suit his age ranges fashion sense . keep your makeup light . keep your posture confident . regardless of your gender or age , posture is an important way of expressing confidence and making yourself look attractive to anyone around you .

how to attract an older boy

there are many reasons why you might want a relationship with a boy thats older than you . most of the time , we see older people as more sophisticated and mature . this is most often the case , but not always . some older boys will be just as immature as they ever were . theres no point in dating an older boy because you think it will make you appear cooler . before committing to a relationship , you should make sure youre ready for a relationship . especially if youre looking to date someone older than you , theres that much less if two people are at different stages in their lives , it can bring up issues in communication . for instance , if you want to go out and party with your older boyfriend , he might be at a part of his life where hes had his fun and prefers a night indoors . in some cases , it can be hard to have a sense of equality in a relationship when one person has considerably more life experience than the other . keep these potential problems in mind before you commit . on the other hand , some maintain that age is just a number . theres no concrete reason why people of different ages cant connect on a deep , meaningful level . even if your relationship is perfect , other people are prone to make nasty assumptions about an age gap relationship . theres only so much you can do to fend off these nay - sayers . ultimately , its your relationship , not theirs , and you shouldnt put their feelings before your own . if youre under the age of 18 , you should consider the legal consequences of someone who is older than you . if the age gap is big enough to make a sexual relationship illegal , you should not go through with it . in virtually all cases of trying to make someone your boyfriend , you should be his friend first before anything romantic happens . go out of your way to spend time with him . ask him to hang out as you normally would with a regular friend . if there is chemistry and the two of you are emotionally available , theres a good likelihood that things will begin to take shape in time . for the meantime however , you should simply enjoy the experience of hanging out as friends . unless the older boy in question is incredibly shy , the fact that he has more life experience will probably mean that hell be the one to instigate something . some guys can be made to feel uncomfortable by a girl that is very forward , especially someone who is younger than them . if it doesnt look like hes going to make a move out of shyness , you should think about making a move yourself . this should occur if he has shown signs of interest but hasnt acted on it over the course of a few hangouts . this is where it can difficult for some girls who try to attract older guys . while your first instinct may be to be completely submissive towards the boy , this will only go to show your age . instead , you should take age out of the equation when it comes to talking to him . if it makes you feel more comfortable , pretend he is the same age as you . relationships usually need a sense of balance between the two people in order to succeed . if youre attracted to a guy , you can say a lot simply by making eye contact with him and holding his gaze . flirting covers a wide range of different behaviours , but most flirting begins with steady eye contact . this kind of gaze is best combined with a smile . that way , it will tell the boy that youre looking at him for good as opposed to negative reasons . if you smile at the boy youre interested in , youll be projecting positive vibes in his direction . if he notices your smile and smiles back at you , its a sign he is probably interested in you . saying something nice about someone can be interpreted as a form of flirting . complimenting a boy based on his looks or other traits you find attractive will let him know youre interested . make sure your compliments are genuine , however . people are usually able to tell when a compliment is sincere or not . because the boy you are interested in is older than you , its possible he has different ideas of what he wants in a relationship with a girl . although you may feel pressured to give in , you should only ever do what feels comfortable with you . relating emotionally to people older than you can be hard if youre not used to spending time with you . this is why its recommended that you try to surround yourself with people that are older than you . make friends with people in the boys age range and get comfortable with hanging out with people with more experience than you . this can be hard to do if you dont already have older friends . if you have older siblings , you might try tagging along with some of their hangouts . if you want to make older friends , you wont be able to depend on your classes . extracurricular clubs are a place where people of different ages will get together with a common interest . if you work a job , there will likely be older co - workers you can befriend as well . regardless of the age youre trying to attract , it will work to your benefit if people are able to see that youre a girl of your word . if you make a promise , do everything you possibly can to follow through with it . dont flake out on plans you make . when you follow through with the things you say , everything you say will have a greater sense of weight in the eyes of others . this includes any older guys you may fancy . self - esteem is a major sign of maturity . its natural for young boys and girls to feel a lot of insecurity as they grow up . if you want to catch the attention of an older boy , you re going to need to match the sort of self - assurance that is common with his age range . challenge any negative thoughts that enter your mind , and replace them with positive thoughts about yourself . even if you have to fake it until you make it at first , youll eventually start to believe it sincerely . remember that there is no right or wrong answer when it comes to self - esteem . theres no objectively wrong reason to have confidence in yourself . you might be surprised how much youll find out about yourself if you make a regular habit of keeping a diary . buy any book of lined paper , or keep a word file on your computer where you can add thoughts at the end of each day . if you become aware of the things youre thinking and feeling on a daily basis , youll get a stronger grasp of the way other people see you . much like a healthy sense of self - confidence , getting past feeling jealous of other people is an important indicator that someone has matured . most teenage girls tend to be very jealous at that stage in their lives . if you want to stand out from others your age , youll need to let go of your jealousies towards other people . this is easier said than done for many people , but it is possible . anytime you are beginning to feel jealous towards someone , remind yourself that there is no one who can do you better than you . comparing yourself to anyone else is a waste of time . even if youre trying to become mature beyond your years , your current circle of friends might make it difficult to break free . less mature groups of friends will often fall into spurts of drama or gossip . the best thing for you to do is to avoid this stuff entirely . it doesnt add anything constructive to your life , and you wont be made to look good if youre associated with that crowd . this does not mean abandoning your friends . rather , you should spend time with them , but take a step back if bickering starts . of course , if a friend of yours is hurt and wants to talk it through with you , you should do so . being mature can also mean being a reliable friend . nothing can make people look at your twice than a new hairstyle . getting your hair cut or permed will have a major effect on your appearance . you should use this opportunity to spruce up your look and turn some heads . if youre trying to appeal to older groups , you are going to want to steer away from fashion trends that are reserved for juveniles . aim to make your hair attractive but classy . its a good idea to pick a hairstyle that suits your face shape . ask your hairdresser if you have any confusion . depending on your age , there may be things you wear that might seem juvenile in the eyes of someone older . while you should always ultimately find your own sense of fashion , impressing an older guy can be easier if you look at the fashion expectations for his age group . if the age gap is big enough , dont wear the boys age ranges fashion if it will look weird on somebody your age . it helps to take a look at some current fashion outlets . this will give you some insight into the latest trends . if youre young girl , dont try to compensate for your age by using a lot of makeup . doing so only brings more attention to how young you are . in addition , it also gets the impression across that you are insecure with the way you look . youll have a much higher chance of getting a guy interested if you stay as true to your real sense as possible . some makeup to highlight your natural features should be more than enough . its a fact that younger girls arent often as skilled at makeup as they will be once theyre older . with that in mind , its good to start small and work your way up from there . whether youre standing up or sitting down , make an effort to keep your back straight and your shoulders even . if youre not used to having good posture , this will feel a bit strange to do at first , but it will eventually feel natural if you stick with it . maturity and confidence are the two major ways you can get across the age gap , and posture is a way of expressing both of them .

flirt with him . avoid always talking about yourself . laugh at his jokes . hang out at his favorite places .

how to attract the guy you have a crush on 2

nothing is more tragic than the oh - so - cliche friend - likes - friend - who - doesnt - like - her - that - way drama . be sure that you arent considered one of the guys or just his bud . of course , you have to get to know him first and you may possibly just gain an amazing friend in the process which is all right , some pursued crushes could turn out to be one of your best friends but be a little more flirty with him , in a way that youre sure one of his buds wouldnt be . for example , to set yourself apart from one of the guys , maybe give him a hug , a playful peck on the cheek , or play with his hair . your crush may be attracted to you if you let him share details about his life . this shows that youre really interested in him and what he has to say . try not to always talk about yourself he wants to know about you but give him a chance to share about himself . if he asks questions about you , answer them but dont focus on yourself for too long . you can steer the conversation toward him by asking questions like , how many siblings do you have or what is your favorite thing about your family ask about his interests or hobbies by saying something along the lines of have you read any good books recently or what videogames do you like to play one of the best ways to demonstrate to a guy that you like him and enjoy his company is to laugh at his jokes this boosts his confidence and signals to him that you have a similar sense of humor and find the same things funny . for many people , a sense of humor is one of the most important qualities they look for in a significant other . if he says something that you find funny , join in or add your own joke . for example , if youre talking about a celebrity , you could add something that you find to be amusing to the conversation . avoid being too mean , such as making fun of other peoples appearances or mocking individuals you both know . you dont want to come off as someone who will make fun of him behind his back or come off as cruel . if you know where your crush likes to spend his time , you can get yourself noticed by showing up there every so often . for example , if he has a favorite coffee shop in the area , you could go there with a friend or two on the off chance you might see him there . you could also study or do your homework there . if you know that hes going to a concert , see if you can get tickets to go as well . this can provide a chance for you to bump into him and say hello . this could even give you a reason to hang out together . try joining a club or activity that he is a part of . this could also give you a reason to talk and hang out . be careful not to show up where he is all the time or he may get annoyed or think you are stalking him . just be yourself and if he happens to enjoy the same activities as you , even better

keep your hair healthy . practice good hygiene . be yourself .

how to attract the guy you have a crush on 3

hair is one of the first thing guys notice and it has been shown that they are attracted to healthy - looking hair . if your hair is color - treated or damaged , try soaking it in coconut oil overnight and washing it out the next morning . its a great way to treat dry , damaged hair . if your hair is healthy , avoid over - processing it with too many dyes or chemicals , which can lead to damage and breakage . you may want to avoid smelling like body odor in front of your crush , which could give him a negative impression of you . you dont have to be flowery , clean , and fresh all the time , just try to shower daily , wear deodorant and possibly put on some nice perfume or cologne to try to impress him . smelling nice or at least presentable , is actually pretty attractive . dont feel pressured to dress just like everyone else and dont concern yourself with whether youre wearing the brand name thats popular . if you feel comfortable , you will protect your best self and people will feel comfortable around you . also , if a guy is truly into you , he wont care about the small flaws in your appearance that you might see every time you look in the mirror .

get to know a friend of the boy you like . smile and say hi whenever you see him . flirt often . get him to notice you . be honest . be a good friend . ask him out after at least a month of being friends .

how to be friends with the guy you like

if he has a friend whos a girl , get to know her . you will get to hang out with him when she is with him . try to be included in a group activity with them so that you can talk to the boy . after a while , strike up a conversation following the hello , preferably about something he likes sports teams , hobbies etc . if you have classes or lunch with this boy , that would be a good time to do so . if you are too scared to speak to him in person , then try social networking websites like facebook or myspace . using these can be easier than talking face to face and good ice - breaker , just remember its hard to have a proper friendship only online . be careful to not overdo it . you dont want to look desperate or pushy . just look at him and wait until he looks at you - - then look away . that signals that you are interested . laugh a lot you dont want him to think of you as a friend forever . give him compliments and find little ways to touch him . dont pretend to be somebody youre not . guys like an honest girl and not drama queens . before you can become his girlfriend , you have to be able to keep his secrets . dont betray him by telling someone the things he tells you in confidence . make him trust you so that he can talk to you about anything . this could lead to him believing that you are good girlfriend material . if he says no , you guys can still be buddies . if he says yes , then youve done it but only ask himher out when you are sure that heshe likes you or it might go wrong but , if youre satisfied with your new friendship , then you could suggest big groups get together instead and find ways to talk to your crush alone .

realize that being single is okay . quit making jokes about being single . improve other aspects of your life .

how to avoid being desperate girls 1

it is common to become depressed or lonely after a tough breakup or when you are having trouble meeting the right person . if you are feeling desperate it may be time to step back from dating . the longer your dry spell , the more desperate you might be feeling . take a break from dating . give yourself time to recover from the past and wait until you can be a good partner to someone again . even if these jokes are hilarious , they are a red flag that you are suffering from feelings of insecurity . your self - deprecating jokes definitely arent impressing anyone . while being a comedian is often a good trait to help you meet guys , it might not happen if you make yourself out to be the joke . this is one of the best ways to help shake that desperate feeling . try making a list of all the things you want to accomplish that have nothing to do with relationships and work on making them happen . living a more fulfilled life will make you more appealing to a potential mate .

be confident . limit your drinking . keep your emotional baggage in check . know when it is time to go .

how to avoid being desperate girls 2

even if you dont feel very confident , take a minute to build yourself up before approaching a a potential date . envision the conversation going well in your mind . if you are going into a conversation expecting to be rejected , it will show in your body language . make sure you make eye contact and stand up straight and speak clearly . sometimes a drink or two might be necessary to loosen up your inhibitions enough to talk to a good looking guy , but know when to stop . going over the line can lead to some embarrassing situations . drinking too much impairs your judgement , including your ability to decide if you have met your dream guy or not . nothing will make you seem more lonely and desperate than revealing everything about your past right away . you dont want to seem like youre on the rebound and desperate to feel validated . just because you met a good looking guy at a party and feel like you can talk to him all night does not mean you should . this is the time where you excuse yourself . spend some time talking with your friends or meet some other new people . just be patient and make your way back in bit . leaving them wanting more and let them see your whole life isnt going to crumble the second you stop talking together

avoid being a social media stalker . let the relationship progress naturally . spend time with your friends . do not be clingy .

how to avoid being desperate girls 3

a modest amount of social media stalking is pretty standard when you start dating someone , just keep it from getting creepy . you can secretly look at every photo of them for the last four years without scaring them off , but try to avoid making it obvious youre watching their every move . limit your comments and likes to one or two a week . you should have better things to do , even if you dont have better things to do . desperate people often look to push the relationship too fast . dont bring up topics like marriage or even make too many references to future dates early in the relationship . desperate daters are often asking for continual status updates on the relationship and trying to push for more commitment in various ways . just let things happen and if you are right for each other , it will work out in time . just because you start dating someone , dont put aside your friends to spend all your time with him . anyone that drops all their friends for a new date , will come off as very desperate . you cant make yourself too available and you dont want to come off as clingy . staying true to yourself and your friends will set up healthy boundaries and expectations for a happy relationship . by holding on too tightly , you can drive a love interest away . if the guy is right for you and the relationship is going well , he will stick around . if it isnt meant to be , no amount of clinging is going to make it happen . most of the time , it isnt even the guy youre clinging to , its the idea of needing a relationship .

talk to his friends . show interest in what he does . learn about skateboarding . hang out where he hangs out . introduce yourself . ask him questions . be an active listener . let your positivity shine . embrace your playfulness and be adventurous . wear functional clothes that make you feel confident . be yourself . try skateboarding .

how to attract a skater guy

no one will know what kind of person your crush is looking for better than his friends . get to know them and youll find out more about him , like where he tends to hang out . on top of that , if they get to know you and are impressed , theyre more likely to want to help you with your crush . if the two of you have mutual friends , they are the perfect people to talk to . think of the following examples when subtly trying to find out more about your crush if you want to know where he skates , ask about parks in town where do people usually skate around here who goes to that park if you want try and know whether your crush is single how come he doesnt have a girlfriendboyfriend ask about their friendship with him how did you guys become friends what do you do together if you want to understand your crush better , dont be afraid to learn about skater culture . like any other culture , skateboarding culture has a set of values , norms and ideals . the best way to find out more is to talk to skateboarders about why they skateboard , and what it brings to them . you can also find many interviews on youtube , where skateboarders talk about the culture . this can give you a great idea of how your crush thinks . beyond understanding the culture , youll want to learn a bit about skateboarding itself . you dont necessarily need to know all the tricks or professional skateboarders by name , but knowing a bit about your crushs passion will give the two of you something to talk about . simply knowing what an ollie is jumping with the skateboard , will show that you care about his passion and hell be impressed when its time to talk to him . skater guys tend to spend most of their free time at the skatepark of their choice with their friends . give yourself the opportunity to bump into him by hovering around his favorite hang out spot . first impressions matter it can take only three seconds for your crush to make up his mind about you the first time he meets you . there are two main ways you can introduce yourself , depending on how quickly you want to make your intentions known you can be extremely casual if you dont want him to know you like him just yet hey , whats going on , mind if i hang out with you you can be completely blunt and honest . this lets you know right away if hes interested in you , and you can put a comedic twist on it as well hey , i like you . want to hang out people love to talk about themselves and their passions . asking questions shows that you have more than just a passing interest in what he has to say . some questions you might want to ask him include how long have you been skateboarding this shows your interest in what he does and learning more about him . how often do you hang out here not only will this tell you how passionate he is about skateboarding , but gives you a chance to know when you can next bump into him . what do you do when youre not skateboarding this gives you a chance to find out about common interests the two of you might share . even if youre not interested in skateboarding , you should still pay very close attention to what your crush is saying . active listening means youre paying attention to what hes saying , asking important questions that show youre listening , and absorbing the information hes giving you . it might sound strange to do this at first , but people definitely appreciate someone who isnt on their phone while theyre trying to have a conversation . not only will being positive and supportive bring him up and let him enjoy spending time with you , but it actually makes you more attractive to him . try to see things in a positive light and avoid nagging about your insecurities . theres nothing wrong with having insecurities , but dont let them affect your actions . skaters , by nature , like to play around , goof off and take risks . get in touch with your playful side to reel him in it shows that you dont take yourself too seriously , and will make you irresistible . be willing to step out of your comfort zone and let your your rebellious side out . think of the following examples dont always play it safe . skateboarders like to take risks try doing the same , within reason . try an extreme sport or explore an abandoned building . experiment . leave your comfort zone and try things you were too scared to try . conquer your fears and be adventurous . go on spontaneous road trips or try a new hobby . playful teasing . theres a fine line between mocking someone that trick really sucked . and teasing them is that the best youve got to show me . style is all about making the clothes work for you , and skater guys respect confidence . dont feel that you have to dress up or dress down just to impress him , but keep in mind that if youre hanging out with him at the skatepark you may need more functional clothing . think jeans and sneakers , but you can wear jeans that flatter you and you find stylish . no one likes a poser , especially not a skateboarder . being yourself will give you an infectious confidence that will get him to pay attention . use these steps to guide you into bringing out qualities you already possess dont try to become someone else because you want to impress a guy . hell see right through you if you try to be something youre not . this is a great way to gain some shared experiences with your crush and get the opportunity to hang out with him . ask him if hell show you how to skateboard sometime . you might even like skateboarding , giving you something in common with him . if you already skateboard , even better take the opportunity to ride with him , showing off the tricks you can pull off in a friendly competition .

be ready . just do it . even a compliment is fine , guys like being complimented . pay attention to the conversation . ask him to hang out . in class , make sure to sit next to him .

how to befriend your crush for girls

you cant go home again , and scold yourself for not talking to him even though you said you would . or even though you passed up the perfect opportunity just because you thought you were ugly . or because you thought that he probably wouldnt want to talk to you . you cant be nervous . relax and trust your instincts . if someone came to talk to you , im sure you would probably just flirt back . the more you think about it , the less likely it will happen . close your eyes , and breathe . after people start to look at you weird because you just did that just go up to him and talk . just talk so do girls . see its not a girl vs . guy thing its simply a human thing . make it a point to talk to him everyday . you cant just talk to him one day , then skip the next . you need to make it gradual . so think of this conversation - thing as an engine when you start a car once its on . you keep it running . with small talk comes follow - up conversation . example in class you spoke about the crazy teacher . next day , or even later next class , you tell a story about the teacher . or you make reference to her . this is also a great way to create inside jokes - which are ideal . make sure that when youre talking to him you smile , and try to make it look like you really want to listen to him . oh and laugh . once you talk to him on a daily basis and are perfectly comfortable around him , ask him to go somewhere . it could be anywhere , just the fact that you asked him will make him feel good . again , this is not a girl vs . guy thing , this is simply human . whether its coffee , or mcdonalds , just ask . but make sure you ask very chill - y . very casual . i . e ha , speaking about obesity . im probably going to mcdonalds after school with michelle and amanda , wanna come if he agrees then excellent but if he doesnt , dont start hating , its just going to mcdonalds . right thats the whole point - casual . or when youre talking , make sure you use we . itll develop an automatic friend - thing in his subconscious , and will make all of this easier . tell jokes , dont hold back . say whatever is on your mind if its funny . its funny .

make eye contact — and then break it . stand out to him . dont be intimidated . do your own thing . ignore him a little bit . play hard to get . keep your friends out of it . wow him with your confidence . take charge . be tough . challenge him . dont try to be a bad girl if youre not . avoid showing off . dont try to change him . have fun while it lasts . make sure hes not abusive . dont let him boss you around . dont put pressure on him . dont be jealous or possessive . if it doesnt work , dont underestimate the nice guys .

how to attract a bad boy

if you want to get a bad boys attention , then you have to show him just a tiny bit of interest before letting him see that youve got better things to do . just look at him for two seconds — try looking down and looking up through your lashes for an extra sexy effect — and then turn away . stare at him long enough to make an impression but not for so long that you look like you really care whether or not he likes you . bad boys like girls who want to give them a run for their money . they dont want girls who fawn all over them or give them their heart right away . once he notices you , turn away . that should give him enough incentive to pursue you . of course , you can also take the initiative and pursue him first . bad boys dont go for the girls who blend in with the crowd . they go for the girls who dont quite fit in , who are worth a second look , and who dont try to look , act , or dress like everyone else . if you have a funky fashion sense , stick to it . if you have an unusual laugh , dont hide it . if you love sketching , playing the harmonica , or practicing karate , let him see what you love to do and dont be ashamed of it . bad boys want girls who know what theyre about . if you look like everyone else and have nothing special going for you , then he wont be impressed . if you stand out , even if it means youre not like most girls , hell be even more into you . a lot of girls are intimidated by bad boys because they think theyre too cool to give them a second of their time . if you want to attract one of them , the best thing you can do is to show them that youre not afraid of them at all . think of it like coming face - to - face with a bear or a lion the second you show fear , youll be destroyed . if he comes up to you , dont back away and stand even taller instead . if he tries to interrupt you , then let him know youre not finished speaking and say what you have to say . bad boys are used to girls who bend at their will . if you stand up to him and let him see you as an equal , then hell be truly impressed by you . bad boys dont like girls who do what everyone else is doing . just because all of your friends are taking art history , take the history of motorcycles , if thats what youre into . if all of your friends love taylor swift , have pride in your love for the stones or more indie bands like bottomless pit . if the crowd is lining up to see the latest will ferrell movie , go for the indie flick youve been meaning to catch instead . though you shouldnt be quirky or different just for the sake of being different , if theres something different that you would genuinely like to do , then you should go for it . bad boys dont want girls who fawn all over them . instead , theyre looking for chicks who can take them or leave him . if you start talking to him and are clearly having a great conversation , you dont have to run up to him and give him a big hug the next time you see each other . instead , give him a few minutes to come up to you and make him work for it . if he texts you or chats you , give it a few minutes before you get back to him . let him see that you have better things to do than to wait for him to talk to you , and hell want to talk to you even more . of course , you should be careful and make sure that you dont ignore him so much that he doesnt think youre interested . find a balance between looking interested and making him work for it a bit . you dont need to be rude to do this . if he comes up to you and says hello , you shouldnt ignore him , but if he walks by , you dont have to act like youve been waiting for him to come by and have been looking for him for hours . bad boys love it when girls play hard to get . if they feel like they can have you any time they want you , then they wont want to work for it . instead , let him know you like him by flirting a bit or giving him a compliment or two , but dont put it all on the line . let him reveal his feelings well before you do , and dont accept every invitation he gives you make sure he asks you out at least a week in advance so he doesnt think your schedule is wide open and knows he has to work for your time and attention . if he calls you , dont answer the phone on the first ring . in fact , give it an hour or two and call him back . if he texts you , wait at least half an hour to respond . you dont want him to feel like youre just sitting around waiting to hear from him . bad boys hate girls who cling to their friends and care too much about what they think . if you want to start a relationship with a bad boy , then you shouldnt let your friends hang around too much until you get to know each other better . you should also avoid saying , my friend thinks that… when you talk about your relationship , or youll make him feel that your friends are way too involved in your personal life . when it comes down to it , bad boys really want girls who think for themselves . you should also avoid having your friends talk to the bad boy for you . if you really want to win him over , then you have to do the work yourself . true bad boys dont want girls who they can boss around . they want girls who are confident enough to stand up to them and to believe in their relationship without questioning them every two seconds . if you want to keep your bad boy hooked , then you have to wow him with your confidence , showing him how happy you are with how you look , who you are , and what you do . work on projecting a positive energy that shows that youre content with being yourself and dont need anybody for validation . focus on the positive and talk about the things that make you happy instead of complaining about things that arent perfect . dont gossip about other girls or youll look insecure . instead , praise them and the bad boy will be impressed . avoid seeking validation . dont act like youre only beautiful or smart or interesting if he says so . to keep your bad boy interested , you should take charge of the relationship . dont let him make all the calls , tell you where and when youll be going on your date , or be the one who calls first all the time . show him that you know what you want and that you wont go on a date last - minute because youve made other plans dont let him take you to a bike show if youd rather be out to dinner , and dont make him think that he has total control over you or hell lose interest pretty fast . you dont have to take charge with every situation or that may get tiring , but you should try to take charge at least as much as he does . bad boys want girls with a thick skin and they dont want to worry about whether or not they hurt your feelings every two seconds . of course , if the bad boy is thoughtless or even verbally abusive , then you should ditch him asap , but if he treats you well , then you shouldnt second guess everything he says or does and be on the verge of tears if something doesnt go as planned . you can show him your softer side as you get to know each other , but its good to work on keeping that skin nice and thick so the bad boy knows he can roll with you . if you get upset every time he teases you or feel emotional if hes five minutes late , then youll come off as a bit weak and insecure . learn to roll with the punches and only get upset when you have a legitimate reason to get upset . of course , if he gets in the habit of being late all the time , then you should say something , but avoid getting prematurely upset or throwing a scene over something insignificant . real bad boys want girls who give them a run for their money . you should show him that youre skilled and savvy and that youre not looking for a man to teach you how to do everything . while no relationship is great if youre constantly questioning your partner , if you keep him on his toes , hell be even more interested in you . dont get too comfortable with him and let him know that you want him to be dynamic and interesting and that you wont settle for less . if he takes you to the pool hall , dont let him wrap his arms around you and show you how to play instead , beat him at his own game . if he cites a fact about metallica that you just know is false , dont be afraid of calling him out on it instead of taking everything he says at face value . you may think that all bad boys only want bad girls , but in fact , a lot of them like girls who are more innocent - seeming , or who just like to do their own thing . if youd already call yourself a bad girl , then keep doing what youre doing , but dont feel compelled to wear black leather or dark makeup , to smoke cigarettes , or to curse a lot if thats not really who you are . bad boys are much more attracted to girls who are true to who they are than those who try to be someone theyre not . most bad boys are just as attracted to good girls as they are to bad girls , so you shouldnt worry too much about changing your image . in fact , sometimes bad boys and bad girls can be too much alike to be compatible . bad boys have low tolerance for fakeness , and if you try to be someone other than who you are , then theyll be able to tell . if youre really cool and hip , then the bad boy will know it without you having to say so . avoid talking about how much your bike costs , how youre best friends with the lead drummer of your favorite death metal band , or how youre the best tattoo artists in east oakland . instead , let him figure out how awesome you are for himself . if you brag too much , thatll be a sign that youre just trying too hard to prove yourself . a true bad boy doesnt brag or show off , either . he doesnt like people who feel the need to talk themselves up too much . most girls who date bad boys are convinced that they can change them . though there are some exceptions to this rule , most of these girls end up disappointed when their favorite bad boy wont change his ways . if you want to really enjoy your relationship with your bad boy , then you shouldnt try to domesticate him and make him do things he doesnt want to do instead , you should appreciate him for who he is instead of making him take yoga or spend an afternoon with your aunt mildred if thats not what hes into . if youre dating a bad boy , then chances are that youre not looking for marriage with him . though some bad boys can change , if you want to enjoy your relationship with him , then you should work on being present in the moment and enjoying every moment you spend together in the now instead of worrying about what lies ahead . have a great time hanging out with him , dining with him , drinking with him , riding his motorcycle , and letting your hair blow in the wind . if you want the relationship to last , then the best thing you can do is to focus on fun . when you find yourself constantly worrying about where the relationship is going , you can have a talk with the bad boy about it , but you should know that this could discourage him . think of your relationship growing from week to week , instead of thinking about what youll be doing in a year . if you want a guy with a clear future plan , then you should try going for some of those nice guys who are always asking you out at work . theres a difference between being a bad boy and being abusive . if the guy youre with is either abusive to you verbally or physically , then its time to remove yourself from the situation asap . no guy is worth the pain and suffering youll have to face from abuse , even if he keeps promising that every time is the last and that hell change his ways . bad boys can be fun to date as long as they dont pose any harm to your well - being . if youre being abused , talk to a close friend or family member and create a plan for leaving the situation as quickly and as safely as possible . if you want to enjoy your time with the bad boy , then you cant let him dictate every little thing you should do together . though you may think he wants to be completely in control , you should give him a run for his money and show that you have ideas for where you should eat and where you should go over the weekend . make sure youre both equally in control and dont let him tell you how to act , dress , or look hell like you much more if you stand up for yourself and prove yourself to be independent . most bad boys , if theyre the harmless kind , like a girl with her own initiate and dont actually want to be in control all the time . if you want your relationship with the bad boy to last , then you cant put pressure on him to move in with you , meet all of your friends and family members , or marry you any time soon . bad boys like to run free and to do their own thing , and as soon as you put the pressure on , hell start to back off . though its natural to want the relationship to move forward , you should know that youre dealing with a bad boy and that he may be allergic to commitment . let him move at his own pace . if he wants to meet your friends or family members , then hell ask to do it . you can casually mention meeting up with them to see if he wants to come , but you should avoid telling him that your friends or family members are dying to meet him , or hell feel suffocated . dont compare the progression of your relationship to the progression of other relationships , either . just because your best friend and your neighbor both got engaged this month doesnt mean that you two should do the same . if you want to make it work with the bad boy , then you cant keep tabs on him 247 to make sure hes been loyal to you . youve got to trust him to do his own thing because he has an independent spirit . if you text him every half hour , pop in on him unannounced , or just act insecure when he talks to other women , then hell quickly get tired of your routine and will look for a woman who doesnt want to keep him on a tight leash . of course , if hes really flirtatious with other girls , then thats something you should have a talk about . if hes just having harmless interactions with girls and youre on his case , then his alarm bells will go off . you have to be able to trust a man in every relationship . if hes legitimately suspiciously gone for hours , then you can ask him where he went , but if you freak out every time it takes him fifteen minutes to return your call , youll be creating a fuss . though you may think that you only want a bad boy in your life , in the end , you should know that there is a wealth of nice guys at your work or near your home that would love to get to know you . if youre looking for a level of commitment a bad boy wont give you , then you may have to look elsewhere to really get what you want . instead of being skeptical of guys who actually want to get to know you without a chase , give the next guy a chance and see what happens . you may be pleasantly surprised . ask yourself what youre so afraid of when it comes to nice guys . do you think theyll all be too boring , too sincere , too serious give one of them a chance and you may see that your expectations will change .

communicate with your eyes . raise your eyebrows just the tiniest bit whenever he smiles , nods , winks , etc . look down and flutter your eyelashes a little . push your tongue against the skin below your bottom teeth . when your eyes meet with his , move your shoulder forward slightly and then let it drop . once youve glanced at him quickly , look away and continue on with whatever you were doing . get close . involve your hair . remember to be yourself .

how to use body language to keep a guy wanting more

your eyes are very powerful when it comes to body language . they can indicate interest , and indicate if hes interested as well . eye contact increases your heartbeat and helps to release the hormones associated with love or lust . fix your gaze on a guy youre interested in if youre not already acquainted with him or talking to him . show that youre sizing him up––locking eyes is a sure sign of continued interest . do a face scan . this is a tell - tale sign of interest . darting glances and second looks can help indicate your interest in him . avoid staring he might go into flight mode . keep it casual and always smile . do just enough to let him see the change in your expression , without it looking forced or overdone . its important to look amused , not disgusted . but remember not to overreact theyll think you are too interested . but not too much this makes you seem innocent yet still interested . as you do this glance down or at the other shoulder . open your mouth a little more , but not so much that your mouth looks overly wide too much and you look like a fish gasping for air . this makes you look flattered and also gives the impression that youre a good kisser , which guys are gonna want . only move your shoulder , and not your whole arm . as you bring your shoulder forward , move your head slightly closer to it . as you drop your shoulder , move your head back up . try looking over your shoulder this positioning accentuates your curves and invites more attention . this keeps him wanting more and wondering what you meant by flirting with him and then moving on . once hes started to show interest , make him keener by getting closer . move near him and touch his hand or the base of his arm or gently squeeze his arm , hand or shoulder while youre talking . nothing hard , just light , quick touches before withdrawing your hand again . lean in and whisper . speaking softly will reel him in . hes interested if he moves closer but beware if he moves back from your lean - in it means he lacks interest . if he flinches or tenses when touched , it probably means hes nervous around you , and that you might be moving in too fast try to act more relaxed around him . slowly run your fingers through your hair , stopping at the nape of your neck . once your fingers reach your neck , either trail your fingers back and forth across your collarbone , or move the pendant on your necklace back and forth . caressing your body in this way will cause an interested guy to watch intently . watch for his lips parting or touching his mouth with his fingers youre right in his interest zone once this happens . everyone else is already taken make yourself look appealing . acting or looking dumb in front of him when youre actually really smart will make him confused . he will start to wonder if youre all truth or just lies . its okay to do this in the beginning just to get him to notice or talk to you in a good way but once you strike up a conversation , be yourself and act natural where to look . when you two are in a conversation , stare at his lips and make sure you are listening to what he is saying too . an instant turn - off is when a guy thinks you are just taking advantage of him .

create a handmade card . write a simple message . sign your card . give the card to your crush .

how to ask your crush to be your valentine 1

you can go all out and make something elaborate , or you can keep it simple – its up to you its what you say in the card that matters . if you arent very artistic , get a piece of red construction paper , fold it in half and use that as your card . you can also draw , paint , or even make a collage on it . get creative if you know your crush likes a certain animal or activity , you can draw or make a collage based on that . your card doesnt have to be handmade , although your crush might find it particularly sweet if it is . you can write a long note anytime , but if you just want to ask your sweetie to be your valentine , write something simple in your card . you could say would you be… on the front of the card , then write …my valentine on the inside . for a little something extra , you could write a compliment like you look nice today . you could also write just wanted to know… on the outside and on the inside say , will you be my valentine if you want your crush to know its you right away , sign your name on the inside . to be a little more mysterious , sign the card as your secret admirer or your hopeful valentine . you dont have to write love or anything serious like that if you dont want to you could put xo which means hugs and kisses . for example , you could write dear helen , will you be my valentine if yes , please meet me at the park at 400 . xoxo , jane . if youre feeling brave , you can always walk right up to your crush and hand them the card . however , its pretty normal to feel shy about it , so you dont have to do it that way . you can always leave the note somewhere theyll be sure to find it . for example , you could put it in their locker , slip it in their backpack when they arent looking , or put it in one of their text books . for an extra special touch , you can leave a single flower with the note . roses are popular , but you dont have to be that traditional .

give your crush candy . make your crush a mix cd or special spotify playlist . bake them cookies . bring them a stuffed animal .

how to ask your crush to be your valentine 2

you can sweeten up your crushs day with a box of valentines candy , like a heart - shaped box of chocolates . if youre not comfortable asking your crush to be your valentine in person , you can tuck a short note in the box or packaging for them to read later . for something a little more creative , use candy conversation hearts to write your note . instead of sending your crush a traditional card , burn them a cd of sweet songs that make you think of them . if cds arent really your thing , curate a spotify playlist for them instead include the track list and make special art for it . if youre not comfortable explaining your gift in person , include a note with the cd or send them a message with a link to your playlist and ask them to be your valentine . if you are musically gifted , you could write and record a song for them , and include that as the last track . you could also use a voice recording app to record yourself asking them to be your valentine , and put that in the playlist . your crush will appreciate that you took the time to make them something , and if youre low on cash , this might be a good solution if you know their favorite kind of cookie , get a recipe for it and make those . if you dont , you usually cant go wrong with chocolate chip or sugar cookies . you could even make them heart - shapedadd a note with the cookies asking them to be your valentine . you could also use icing to write it out on the cookies . if you know your crush loves cats or monkeys , take advantage of that most stores will have a whole aisle dedicated to valentines day gifts , and there are usually plenty of plushies to choose from . what you choose doesnt necessarily have to be an animal . there are plush versions of everything for example , if your crush plays basketball , look for a plush basketball . to get the conversation started , hand them the plush toy and smile . say something simple like , i saw this and it made me think of you .

wait for a good opportunity . pull your crush aside . go for it . send a text or instant message .

how to ask your crush to be your valentine 3

try not to corner your crush or force them to talk with you if they are in a hurry or busy doing something . if your crush is chatting with a big group of friends or working on their homework , thats probably not a good time . wait for a good time to talk to them about it . since theyre your crush , you probably know when they have a little free time during the day . it will be a lot easier to talk to them in private , plus your crush might get embarrassed if you ask in front of everyone meet them at their locker in the morning before class , or walk with them to one of their classes . before or after lunch might also be a good time . start up a normal chat , and then bring it up . if you two share an inside joke or particular interest , start off the conversation with that . valentines day is all about sharing how you feel . you have nothing to lose and everything to gain . just go for it . you could open with so i was wondering… and then phrase it however you want . you could also start off with so today is valentines day… and give them a big smile . you dont have to make any grand gestures you can keep it simple . if youre too shy to ask in person , this is the next best thing . keep your message short and sweet . you could write i really like you . would you be my valentine add an emoji like a smiley face or heart after your message to keep everything feeling lighthearted . if youre friends on facebook or instagram , you could also send them a private message there .

make sure he knows who you are . look your best . introduce yourself . compliment him . make flirtatious eye contact . smile . say hi . this is another example of something that may be easier said than done . like or friend him on social media . make a statement . make sure hes available . do something nice for him . be direct . write him a note . send a text or online message . invite him to an event .

how to approach the guy you like

this is easy if you are already lab partners in science class or you work together in the same office . however , you may have a crush on a guy whom youve never actually talked to . if this is the case , there are several ways you can let him know who you are without seeming like youre stalking him . if you have mutual friends , have one of them introduce you . if he works at a store or café you frequent , make sure to go there regularly when he works . ask him questions about items on the menu or things that they sell . be friendly and thank him for helping you . like his photos or posts on social media if you are connected that way . if youre coworkers or classmates but dont normally interact , find a reason to . organize an office party and see if he wants to volunteer . sit near him in class and ask to borrow a pencil . you never know or maybe you do when youll run into this guy . just in case you do , you want to look good so that youll feel confident about the interaction . wear clothes that you feel show off your personality and make you look and feel special . if you have a favorite accessory , such as a special hat , wear it . it can become part of your trademark look and help boost your confidence and make you seem memorable . you want to look your best , but make sure you also dress appropriately . you dont want to show up to work in something too revealing just to impress him , or wear your fanciest outfit to a regular day at school . this can be an intimidating step if youre naturally shy . however , most people are happy to meet a new person and feel at ease when someone takes the time to introduce themselves politely . keep it simple . if you frequent his place of work and hes become familiar with your face , simply say , hi , im jane . i dont think ive gotten your name yet , next time you go in there . you can say , i see you around a lot , but i dont think weve actually met . im monique . people always remember when someone compliments them . its flattering and lets them know that you noticed something about them . find something you can tell him you appreciate about either his appearance or something hes done . hell associate you with the positive feelings of the compliment . tell him you like a piece of clothing , particularly if theres something you can identify about it . for example , you could say , nice t - shirt . i love that band , too . compliment him on his work . you can say , you always make the best lattes , or youre a really good lab partner . flirtatious eye contact can come in a few different forms . generally , you need to maintain eye contact for at least four seconds before coyly looking down or away . holding his gaze this long lets him know youre flirting . if youre feeling really bold and sexy , you can subtly lick your lips . this is considered rather forward , so make sure you know what youre doing . theres a difference between flirting and staring . make sure youre reading his signals and responding , not just staring at him . it may seem obvious , but if youre feeling very nervous or shy , you may forget to smile . however , smiling is important . it sends the signal that youre friendly and approachable . it also shows that you may be interested . smiling with your teeth showing and your eyes creasing around the edges conveys warmth and gives the appearance that youre genuinely excited to see him . if you feel very shy around this guy , thats perfectly normal . however , you want to feel comfortable enough to at least say , hello . you can wait until he looks at you or catches your eye . once he does , say , something casual , like , hi . hows it going if you generally say hi to him in the halls or at his or your place of work , bump it up a notch by adding something like , good morning , or nice to see you . this can be an easier step than saying hello in real life . if it wouldnt seem strange , become his friend on facebook or another social media platform . this works particularly well if you have mutual friends or run in similar circles . if hes someone youve been following on an online dating site or app , you can use the app to indicate through your profile that you like his profile . when you like his profile or request to be friends , it can be a natural time to send a brief message . even something like , hey i really like those pictures you just posted can be a conversation starter . this can make you look and sound very confident . say something to him about your surroundings . this invites conversation and lets him know youre interesting to talk to . you can say something like , wow , this weather is incredible , isnt it or the coffee at this place is incredible . you can also ask him for help or directions . say something like , ive never been here before . do you have a type of coffee youd recommend or can you help me figure out how to get to the library from here you can save yourself a lot of embarrassment by knowing if the guy you like is available before you do something about it . if you dont know him , you can try to find out a number a of ways . check for a wedding ring . online , check for photos of him with a significant other . listen when he talks . does he reveal a lot about himself and his life without mentioning a partner does he keep his eyes moving around the room , looking at people this can be a sign that hes single and looking for love . doing something nice for him is a great way to let him know you like him without having to actually say anything . it can be a small gesture , but make sure its something hell notice and appreciate . if you notice that he always shows up to class without a pen or pencil , bring one in special for him . give it to him and say something like , i noticed you usually could use one of these . if you work somewhere that he frequents , give him a small freebie or a discount if you wont get in trouble . if you frequent his place of work , leave a generous tip or bring him something . for example , you could say , you always make such great sandwiches . i thought id bring you some cookies that i made myself . if you cant tell if he likes you or is getting the signals youre sending , you can always be direct . this can be very exciting for guys , since they wont have to spend time guessing about your intentions . you can be direct without being demanding . say something like , id really like to get together sometime , if youre interested . in being direct , you can let him know what you like about him . say something like , you seem like a really interesting person . would you like to hang out sometime some people like to be super direct and simply say , i have to tell you that i have a really big crush on you . this can sometimes be seen as charming , but can sometimes put a guy off . he might not know what to do with that information or might feel put on the spot . this can be a cute way to let him know youre interested . it can also be a way to slip him your number so that the ball is in his court . keep it simple . you dont need to profess your undying love right this second . write your number on a piece of paper and hand it to him . you can say something flirty like , i believe you wanted this if youve never met before or you have no mutual friends , you may not want to give out your number for safety reasons . of course , you have to have his number or be connected to him on social media to do this . however , if its possible , this can be a fun and low key way to connect with him . say something more personal and interesting than simply , whats up ask him something based on his profile or ask him for advice about something . for example , you can say , hey , how was that new restaurant i saw you posted pictures of i was thinking i might try it this week . you may be afraid to ask this guy out , but hell likely be flattered . most guys dont get asked out very much , so it will probably be extra exciting for him . think ahead of a fun event you want to invite him to . choose something that happens on a specific day , such as a concert or a sporting event . dont just choose something like getting a drink . say something like , hey , ive got an extra ticket to . maybe youd like to come with me