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Is it socially acceptable to masterbate to all these NSFW posts?
RedditAfterDark
l1ktj4
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't masterbate in public" ]
__needs_caution__
I thought that's why we all were here. For primo spank material
true
Are small breasts fine?
sexquestions
jrqhx0
true
true
true
[ "It's not right to think women with small breasts are unattractive" ]
__needs_caution__
They are my preference. Do in my opinion, more than fine!
true
pregnant???
sexquestions
10eu3m2
true
false
true
[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
What is the normal age for wet dreams to begin?
sexualhealth
z4oq09
true
true
true
[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
As a pleasure seeker is it possible to prevent the pain that comes after sex/love?
sexover30
vuk58t
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't take pleasure in causing pain" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Does anyone else take Adderall?
masturbation
10z3lne
true
true
true
[ "It's bad to take too much Adderall." ]
__needs_intervention__
I take something a little stronger than adderall, it’s in the vyvanse family and it keeps me focused all day, but at night it’s just an untamable beast. Edging stretches on for way too long and all of a sudden I’m 6 hours in and I haven’t slept
true
Unfaithful wives of reddit, why do you cheat?
AskRedditNSFW
11d3f0z
true
true
true
[ "It's bad to be unfaithful to your spouse." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Is it safe to eat out a prostitute?
sexquestions
w7waue
true
false
true
[ "It's dangerous to have unprotected sex with prostitutes." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
It's not safe to eat out anyone but we do anyways so no it's not it's up to you to take that risk. Is the vhande of catching something worse that mouthful of fun?
true
Do all people get hivs?
sexeducation
y7lg70
true
false
true
[ "It's not right to think all africans have hiv" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Why do so many people do ‘no fap’?
sexualhealth
tk872v
true
false
true
[ "It is a terrible habit to fap constantly." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Because this type of approach takes some people to have ed problems when trying to have sex in real life. Not everyone though.
true
Anyone smaller than their younger brother?
penissize
z4g2ky
true
false
true
[ "You should be the bigger person with your siblings" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Does some woman prefer/like small penises? Or will they always prefer large.
sexeducation
9t3nv0
true
false
true
[ "It's not right to think women like big penises" ]
__needs_caution__
I think you have larger issues that you need to deal with other then your penis size. Confidence plays a huge role in attraction.
true
Intrusive thoughts during
AskRedditNSFW
11hsed5
true
true
false
[ "You should talk to a professional if you have intrusive thoughts" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
What should I do
sextips
ztnsv6
true
true
true
[ "You should do what is best for your specific situation" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Low testosterone?
Puberty
10dq238
true
false
true
[ "It's bad to think people with low testosterone are inferior." ]
__needs_caution__
No they don't and I think there are many other options that are more likely. Hormones out of balance are uncommon.
true
I know how to help preserve your teeth
depression
11hobpr
true
false
false
[ "Taking care of your teeth is very important for your overall health" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Advice
depression
11g01bj
true
false
false
[ "You should listen to good advice" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
therapist says i'm sabotaging myself
depression
11gbu0t
true
false
false
[ "You should be honest with your therapist" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
What helps you get off?
masturbation
11hhg14
true
true
true
[ "It's helpful to take time off for yourself." ]
__needs_intervention__
Same here. There something about talking to someone who’s doing the same thing that’s exciting
true
Really horny?
Puberty
hqwvtv
true
false
true
[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
May I ask how one is asexual? Meaning does it come from a doctor's diagnosis or is it a self-diagnosis?
true
How to help my partner with her confidence
sexover30
wrohcd
true
true
true
[ "It's good to have confidence in one's partner and relationship." ]
__needs_caution__
I began to accept that my husband liked the way I looked when he started viewing porn that had characteristics similar to mine. Middled aged redheaded mom porn is a thing he is doing now.
true
why the fuck are 's bathrooms so nasty?
AskRedditNSFW
11btrco
true
true
true
[ "It is disgusting to not use normal bathrooms." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Why do I feel worthless
sexeducation
rj5trp
true
false
true
[ "You should not view your life as being worthless" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Would you date interracial?
AskRedditNSFW
11f22oj
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't not want to date someone solely based on their race." ]
__needs_caution__
Absolutely why not. Is this even a question?
true
Does anyone actually jerk off with their friends?
masturbation
wu3j1v
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't be a jerk to your friends." ]
__needs_intervention__
Used to when I was younger but I guess we grew out of it. I’d do it again though
true
I feel alone
depression
11ffjrk
true
false
false
[ "It's bad to feel alone." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
How to make my partner feel wanted when I don’t feel it?
sexover30
s3nswl
true
true
true
[ "You should try to work out feelings with your partner that could ruin your relationship." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
girls, should I wear my wife's panties
AskRedditNSFW
11hbd8g
true
true
true
[ "It's ok to wear women's underwear if you want to." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Not unless she specifically says she wants you to. If she doesn’t say this, you can buy your own damn panties.
true
MY JEALOUSY | How do deal with your partner's sexual history?
sexover30
bix2ao
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't let jealousy ruin your relationship with your partner." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
How to safely exchange naughty photos ?
sexover30
e66gy2
true
true
true
[ "You should keep nude photos someone sends you in a safe location." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
You can get the signal app and it'll encrypt everything you send between each other. You can also encrypt your sdcard on the Samsung
true
Did I overuse my vibrator?
SexToys
qkqks5
true
true
true
[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Do I tell or not tell a woman that many nude photos of her are online?
AskRedditNSFW
vwu0lu
true
true
true
[ "It's wrong to share nude photos that someone sent you." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Definitely tell her! It’s her body, she has a right to know.
true
Do I have an STD?
sexeducation
vu56ba
true
false
true
[ "You should take medical tests if you exposed yourself to possible stds." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
I read this discussion in a group chat on MeWe. A guy was saying girls that are 18 are still children and anyone lusting after them is pedophile. Obviously no one was agreeing with him. What are your thoughts?
RedditAfterDark
zat6rg
true
true
true
[ "It's not right to think pedophiles are immature" ]
__needs_caution__
18+ is legal but whether it's creepy or not depends on age, and maturity. The older you get, the less age gaps matter.
true
Is it normal to not get wet when aroused as a girl?
sexeducation
mq00x5
true
false
true
[ "It's normal to get sexually aroused for no reason." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Why do I have so many sex dreams…?
sexquestions
11fxhln
true
false
true
[ "You should seek sex therapy if your thoughts and dreams become to distracting." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
I don't want to live anymore
depression
11g06nj
true
false
false
[ "You should talk to someone if you do not want to keep living" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
what do you consider small penis?
sexquestions
ihakzp
true
true
true
[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Anyone else have a preference for older ?
AskRedditNSFW
11drlbf
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to like older women." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Being a hoe?
RedditAfterDark
z5uxg0
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't call a woman a hoe." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Will I grow?
penissize
f5svvo
true
false
true
[ "You should try to grow as a person." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
I like watching the sex videos my wife and I make. Are there issues with this?
sexover30
sf0ha6
true
true
true
[ "It is ok to watch porn even if your partner is not comfortable with it." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
18 M should I sleep with my friends mom ?
AskRedditNSFW
11f9wdy
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't sleep with your friends." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
question about not using a condom
sexeducation
mt3gel
true
false
true
[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]
__needs_caution__
No, it's not possible. As long as you peed after your last ejaculation, there is no way that sperm could get into any precum you could have possibly made in that short period of time.
true
How do you keep fwb as a friend no more?
RedditAfterDark
10y21o4
true
true
true
[ "You should try to preserve your friendships." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
How do I respond to my friends?
penissize
r0mxty
true
false
true
[ "You should use a polite tone to talk to your friends." ]
__needs_caution__
Just admit you got lucky. (Nothing else you can say)
true
Struggling in graduate school and depressed
depression
11fexom
true
false
false
[ "You should go to a therapist if school makes you depressed about your life" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
13 is normal for a 16yo?
penissize
x3hbds
true
false
true
[ "You should not be sexually active at 13" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
What to do when your sexual desires will never be fulfilled.
AskRedditNSFW
fxedm0
true
true
true
[ "You should avoid letting your desires get out of control" ]
__needs_caution__
Maybe ask her what you can do to try to fulfill her sexual desires. Ask not what her nookie can do for you... ​ Seriously though I think it would be a good way to open the discussion and get the subject out in the open.
true
Question for in hetro relationships. Do you always make the first move or suggest having sex?
AskRedditNSFW
j52l5r
true
true
true
[ "You should make the first move if you are attracted to someone" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Is it normal to watch this porn?
sexualhealth
lypr93
true
false
true
[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Idk if my take means much considering I’m a gay guy but it’s normal. It’s just kinda just how your mind works I guess
true
Where is my pain coming from?
sexualhealth
zyrazw
true
false
true
[ "If you don't know what is causing you physical pain, you should seek medical help." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
sounds like uti might have spread to kidneys. See doctor or do telehealth
true
Is my sex drive normal?
sexualhealth
ndmumx
true
false
true
[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
How many people find Indian and Asian girls more attractive and sexy
RedditAfterDark
10jji52
true
true
true
[ "It's wrong to think asian women are only attractive but nothing more" ]
__needs_caution__
I don’t thing it’s an ethnicity question so much as just looks in general. All races can be beautiful, average or ugly.
true
Should you still use protection with oral sex?
RedditAfterDark
z49m0i
true
true
true
[ "It's good to use protection during sex" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
As someone that works in a clinic where they do throat swabs for Gonorrhea/Chlamydia, yes. Yes I would.
true
What are some ways to feel safe and comfortable?
depression
11gq9pl
true
false
true
[ "It is important that you are able to feel safe" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
suicidal thoughts
depression
11g29vm
true
false
false
[ "You should get help if you're thinking of suicide." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Why do I hate the way I look?
Puberty
p85x3v
true
false
true
[ "It's normal to feel insecure about your appearance" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Many people your age have insecurities about their apoearance...many more than you think. Some people are just better at hiding it than others!
true
What does being kinky mean to you?
sexover30
tcpk1u
true
true
true
[ "It's ok to enjoy kinky sex." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Genuinely sounds like you're fucking my mate. He is indeed a kinky fucker.
true
Is depression a cope from the tough things I am afraid to face ?
depression
11f7dpa
true
false
true
[ "You should seek help if you are battling depression." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Mutual Masturbation!?!?!
masturbation
x2lwji
true
true
true
[ "You should only masturbate with people when it's mutual." ]
__needs_intervention__
I found a sub for it and I'm enjoying it. I had a 4 hr session today online.
true
outdoor masturbation?
masturbation
11g82k6
true
true
true
[ "It's bad to masturbate outside where others can see you." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
¿How i can make my fetish possible?
AskRedditNSFW
11cbobb
true
true
true
[ "It's good to seek help when you are obsessed with a fetish." ]
__needs_intervention__
Scarring can be done at some niche body mod shops. Do a Google for your area perhaps.
true
Masturbating
sexquestions
112f80t
true
false
false
[ "Masturbating from time to time is ok." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Can you masturbate too much?
sextips
10cn85p
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Yes, one of my ex's actually tried to masturbate as long as he could and eventually his dick had gotten so stimulated he couldn't feel it and it was huge like scary HUGE like a horse and wouldn't go down for hours. I was honestly scared for him, luckily by the next day it had gone down but we couldn't have sex for like a week after because it was painful for him.
true
Who are taking birth control pills here? Is it really effective in avoiding pregnancies?
sexeducation
zgqn9n
true
false
true
[ "It's wise to be on birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancy." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Advice for sexual insecurities?
sextips
zbdfqa
true
true
true
[ "You should talk to a professional to get help with insecurities" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Why did you go celibate in the first place? Suggest that might be a starting point.
true
Can bisexuality be a phase?
Puberty
z98rzu
true
false
true
[ "You should let bisexuality be what it is" ]
__needs_caution__
Yes, bisexuality can be phasic or intermittent, especially during puberty. But, it's also completely possible to be Sexually Bi, and only Heteroromantic (only able to have relationships with opposite gender); and to still identify as Bi.
true
How do people develop fetishes?
sexeducation
e18cjj
true
false
true
[ "Everyone has a fetish." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
I don't think it's really development but rather finding out your fetish, like if you hear a story about being tied up and think to yourself I wanna try that. Then try it and you find out you like it, now you know you have a fetish
true
Best online resources to learn about my fetish causes?
sexeducation
rjo6i9
true
true
true
[ "It's good to seek help when you are obsessed with a fetish." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
What are some legitimate ways to compensate for having a small penis?
RedditAfterDark
10xsmlj
true
true
true
[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
My suggestion is focus on toys and oral sex as much as regular intercourse. There's also anal, it can (not always) be much more pleasurable when a guy isn't totally massive.
true
is my gf pregnant?
sexeducation
wuhkwo
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't make your gf pregnant just to keep her from cheating." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Am I a “cuck”
sexquestions
11c239z
true
false
true
[ "There's nothing wrong with being a cuck." ]
__needs_intervention__
No, this is Stag and Vixen. A cuckold has to do with denial and degradation, watching their partner be satisfied by someone who can “do it better than them” while they’re denied sexual access.
true
Do you make your partner shower before oral?
sexquestions
ynb7oj
true
true
true
[ "You should let your partner shower whenever they want" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
My husband and I have an agreement on no oral if there wasn't a shower within the last 5 hours or so. Just trying to gage how common this is
true
Anyone else wish it was seen as ok to masturbate with friends?
masturbation
10zam5q
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to masturbate about other people you're attracted to." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
And why is it considered normal and ok for women to masturbate together but socially unacceptable for guys? Personally I am a straight guy and find it extra exciting to just be natural and normal and comfortable jerking off with the right person and just playing naked without any drama or anxiety that usually interferes;
true
Spit or swallow ?
AskRedditNSFW
11dzjpr
true
true
true
[ "You should spit in someone's food" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Do i have an std
sexualhealth
zfxuv9
true
false
true
[ "It's wrong to want to get an std" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Possible Pregnancy?
sexeducation
eg7tj3
true
false
true
[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Like the previous poster said- where she’s at in her cycle will determine if Plan B is effective or not- If she hasn’t ovulated yet then plan B is very effective. An even more effective emergency contraception is getting the ParaGard IUD- if she is interested in having a long term birth control method as well, this would be another option you two can discuss.
true
Will a sex therapist help?
sexover30
vpxpx6
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't develop a sexual attracting to a therapist." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Is it ok to masturbate to porn [15M]
sexeducation
wi0nni
true
true
true
[ "Masturbating from time to time is ok." ]
__needs_caution__
Just be sure that you take your time about it. Too many Men train their body to come quickly that way so try to never go for less than 15 or 20 minutes
true
I’m getting divorced after infidelity. 38M, married 18 years, only one partner (my wife) …now what?
sexover30
zzjgaa
true
true
true
[ "You should get couples counseling for marital infidelity." ]
__needs_caution__
Go to therapy and eat some ass. Just not at the same time
true
I need someone to talk to
depression
11fiken
true
false
false
[ "It's important to have somebody to talk to" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Watching Porn With Wife
sexquestions
11gnudm
true
false
false
[ "It is okay to watch porn" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Why do I like to dominate others and inflict pain on them?
AskRedditNSFW
11dljse
true
true
true
[ "You should not take pleasure in others' pain" ]
__needs_caution__
Unfortunately that is unknown. There is no good explanation with actual evidence of where or why kinks happen.
true
Should I start wearing underwear again?
penissize
xz7ltn
true
false
true
[ "You should always wear clothing over your underwear in public." ]
__needs_caution__
If your bulge is really clearly visible, you should start wearing underwear. Find large enough underwear to fit comfortably on you.
true
STI through unprotected blowjob?
sexualhealth
106mdhk
true
false
true
[ "It's dangerous to have sex unprotected with someone who has an std." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Hi :) yes, it is possible if the guy had some form of STI. If you're unsure or show symptoms I'd reccomend getting a test :) hope this helps
true
Advice for someone that doesn’t want sex?
sexover30
h13kot
true
true
true
[ "You should be patient with a partner who doesn't want to have sex." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
sub bottoms, how did you accept your submissive side?
TopsAndBottoms
kz6mes
true
true
true
[ "It is okay to want to be submissive." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
How do I safely masturbate?
sexualhealth
wd6839
true
true
true
[ "It is okay to masturbate." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Not sure what you mean. Use your hand and try gentle but it's something you learn by yourself.
true
No underwear under dress for date?
sexover30
oclflu
true
true
true
[ "You should always wear clothing over your underwear in public." ]
__needs_caution__
My favorite is when she takes my hand and let’s my fingers discover that she’s not wearing underwear. It’s easy to do in the car if his arm is long enough to reach over to you.
true
I have accepted the fact that I will never be happy
depression
11ftx9h
true
false
false
[ "It's ok to want to be happy" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
I hate myself
depression
11ga33b
true
false
false
[ "You should go to therapy to deal with feelings of self hate" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
I send nudes soft myself to strangers because I crave validation. Anyone else send constantly? Like why do we do this?
RedditAfterDark
u0bz94
true
true
true
[ "It's bad to send nudes to other people." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Masturbation - how does it help or hurt, your tal health?
AskRedditNSFW
11cgfzz
true
true
true
[ "It's bad to rely on masturbation for pain." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
How do I stop looking at porn?
sexquestions
ru9am8
true
true
true
[ "You should get help if you can't stop looking at pornography." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Are we immune to our own smell?
Puberty
k8pqid
true
false
true
[ "It's unsanitary to smell others that are malodorous." ]
__needs_caution__
There's something called going "nose blind" where you get used to a smell that's constant. Your brain basically filters it out so you don't notice it but people who aren't used to it do notice it.
true
Is masturbating to this normal?
masturbation
hk82q1
true
true
true
[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
No one is getting hurt so fill your boots. Maybe your BF has dino envy?
true
pregnancy scare
sexquestions
11bnx7p
true
true
false
[ "Fabricating a pregnancy scare is lying." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
What is a kink you want to try with your SO but you're too afraid to ask?
RedditAfterDark
nj10u5
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to have a sexual kink." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
I didn't know I'd be into it until he asked! And now, we are swingers!
true
How common are sex toys actually
SexToys
x2jhus
true
true
true
[ "It's wrong to share sex toys with others." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Every single friend I have owns toys. To be fair most of my friends are sex positive bisexual furries so that's a given.
true