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today we've got a crazy nuclear Revenge story involving federal agents we'll get to that in a bit but first choosing my path I very recently did something that I'm really proud of and I would like to share it with the entire world before I begin I just want to tell everyone that the things I did are very questionable and downright toxic do not repeat them at any point in time because the consequences might not turn out the same I grew up in a fairly normal family a little too normal if you ask me my father worked at a blue collar job and we barely saw him except on weekends and my mother was a housewife that smoked a little too many cigarettes until we were all born and then she got into substitute teaching as they got older I have three siblings and all four of us were pretty close in age with about a year apart so nobody felt that much older than the other as the first child it was my responsibility to take care of my siblings when my parents weren't around and it felt less like a chore and more like hanging out with my friends when we started school cool we were always just close with each other Inseparable if you will so making friends came difficult for us all it was just hard because all four of us had the personalities needed to make any friend group the most fun one so we didn't need any extra and not having friends or a social life sometimes made it hard to interact in group settings that didn't involve us because I was the oldest I left high school first and let me tell you College was so scary for me because I didn't bother to have any other friends but my siblings and when I moved so far away from them I found it very hard to adjust however I found a way to adapt which was smoking weed it helps me get over some of my social anxiety enough to attend class and ask questions and all of that but I never really did anything else but hang out by myself my roommate and I didn't speak to each other at the time because she didn't seem like the kind of person I would find interesting until she found out that I smoked after that we became Inseparable and Xiao offered to take me out to socialize I refused for a couple of weeks but she convinced me soon enough and I went with her her scene was mostly hanging out with other Stoners so it was pretty chill with low music and a lot of food I'm now a 27 year old woman but at the time I had just turned 18. it was at this hangout that I met my ex Mark I had smoked something exotic and it sent me spiraling into a panic attack Mark was a total stranger at the time but he walked over to me and helped me through it we talked through the night and my first impression of him was really good he was Charming funny and seemed like the most perfectly decent guy I didn't have a lot of experience with dating but I felt safe with him before long we became close friends studying together and doing a lot of things together I didn't notice this early on but Mark liked me secluded he tried to distance me from new friends I would make and even when my little sister joined me at the same college and I was trying to show her oops he tried to pull us apart I interpreted it as a positive thing and quite honestly I liked how it felt Mark graduated a year before me and even though we weren't dating at the time after he got his first adult job he would shower me with gifts his graduation gift to me was a hundred roses a promise ring and an elaborate dinner where he asked me to be his girlfriend and move in with him this was the most romantic thing that ever happened to me so of course I said yes most of my friends said not to because it was too soon but I was convinced that I'd known him for so long that nothing could go wrong he was basically my best friend Mark was convinced that my friends were jealous and he showed it a lot buying me things and being so perfect while I tried to settle into a job life with Mark was great hooking up was even better I felt lucky until one day I didn't want to hook up because I was too tired from work and drained from fighting with my siblings about never visiting he claimed to understand but things were never the same after we went to bed things rapidly started to change Mark became possessive and jealous going through my phone and accusing me of cheating on him with everyone he came across it was like a light went off in his head I thought it was an elaborate prank and I tried to make it up to him but he just rejected all of my advances and the day I got mad enough to speak up he slapped me so hard I got dizzy and my ears rang before I knew it I was trapped in an abusive relationship mark would hit me insult me and belittle me in front of our friends who were basically his friends and up until he started being abusive I didn't realize how much of a jerk they were he tried his hardest to control every aspect of my life from what I wore to who I spoke to which included my family I don't know how he did it but whenever I called or texted anyone that wasn't among his approved list of people that he said were okay to speak to I got beaten up so bad that I would miss work for a couple of days eventually I missed enough days to get laid off off and I started getting locked at home in all of this I was still in a daze feeling confused trapped and alone I didn't know how my life switched from perfect to this and I'd never really experienced any of this firsthand so I didn't even know how to deal with it but one day I Found the courage and I carelessly kept key so I packed my bags and left taking a bus to the farthest part of town without telling anyone where I was going I was so scared but I knew that I couldn't stay with Mark any longer and neither could I stay in the city I did a few things that I'm not proud of but I was able to get enough money in a short amount of time and move to a city just three hours away after I left I started to rebuild my life I got a job made new friends and kept my family in the loop it took almost three years of therapy for me to just sleep well at night but I managed to do it even though I'd been out of the relationship for almost four years and had been active in therapy for nearly the same time I couldn't shake the anger and resentment I felt towards Mark I wanted Revenge I wanted him to suffer the way he had made me suffer and so I started to plan now therapy had made me a little less gullible than I was and although I was able to forgive myself for being so stupid I was never able to forgive Mark in all this time I'd grown my hair out and was consistently dying it red swapped out my glasses for laser eye surgery and added some weight while the difference wasn't staggering I knew that I looked much better than I did when I was with Mark I knew that Mark had a weakness in alcohol so I decided to use that to my advantage I started going to the same bars that he frequented and would buy him drinks pretending to be a stranger who was interested in him I don't know how he didn't figure out who I was but he didn't I gave him a fake name listened to everything he said and made him believe that I was there for him timing truly is everything because it didn't take long for Mark to fall for my trap he had been going through a very tough time and I was there for him to depend on we started dating again and soon enough we were back in a relationship but this time I was in control I allowed a brief honeymoon phase before gaslighting the living daylight out of him I started to manipulate Mark just like he had manipulated me I would insult him belittle him and make him feel like he was worthless the only thing I didn't do was hit him the way he hit me but I didn't stop there I wanted Mark to suffer the way he had made me suffer and so I took some of his money that he was entrusted with from work while knowing that he had just had issues of a similar nature but cleared up his name at first Mark didn't understand what was happening he was confused and scared but when things started to get intense I would calm down and reassure him that I only cared and wanted the very best for him I still don't know how he was so gullible but he always believed me the few times he tried to fight with me and break free from my grasp I cried until my voice was horse and I told him I was pregnant I was always one step ahead and even though I wasn't I always found a way to keep him under my control the very toxic relationship lasted for exactly three months and one day I just decided to let him go but before I did I would further make sure he didn't have a lot of hope I cut the buttons and collars off of all his shirts the crotch area off of all of his work pants and cut random holes in his random clothes I then took away all his money that I saw lying around deluded all his milk orange juice and alcohol and poured bleach on his bed in black furniture I left his door open and left in the middle of the day feeling very satisfied I had gotten my revenge I was content with myself I had ruined Mark both physically and mentally and he would never be the same again ruining his house was just extra cheese on top of the pizza of chaos that I'd been making the whole thing was so funny because I know that when he came back to see his house trashed he would look for me but he would never find me because the name I'd given him was not my real name I still had no idea if he really had no idea who I was or if he was just faking but I didn't care to know it made no difference because I'd paid him back for the way he did me looking back I know what I did was wrong I shouldn't have resorted to violence and abuse as a means of Revenge I should have sought help and support to deal with the trauma that I'd experienced but at the time I was consumed by anger and a desire to make sure my feelings were Justified I feel like I needed to take matters into my own hands and make Mark pay for what he had done to me when I told my siblings and best friend former college roommate everything that had happened I expected them to scold me for not taking the high road but there was none of that instead I got a hug so considering everything that happened to op including the guy laying their hands physically on op was what op did back to them justifiable or was it like way too far because it kind of feels that way also hi I'm Steven and if you enjoy crazy stories of Revenge like this why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is I helped federal agents prosecute my dad and he's in jail now the most terrible thing that has ever happened to me is having a father like my dad any child would have felt unlucky to have ever even met or known him as a child but having him as a father made me feel extremely unfortunate I once read a book about how we pay for the evil we had done in our past life by meeting horrible people I immediately believe that I must have done something very horrible in my past life to have a father like him even my step-brother hated him and he wasn't as mean to my stepbrother as he was to me all my life my father treated me like crap I was his punching bag and the one he regularly transferred aggression on my dad was my first bully I lived in fear of him all my life when I got the chance to put him away for a very long time I took it without even thinking about it that was my way of getting back at him for all the vile things he had done to me to get more insight into my revenge I'm going to tell a background story my dad was raised by his father his mom simply woke up one day and ghosted his dad from what my mom told me his dad was severely abusive and would hit her and him too one day when he was younger his dad woke him up to ask where his mom was he didn't know what was going on so he drowsily replied that he didn't his dad hit him so much that he injured him on the neck with a cable wire my dad has that scar on his neck to this day his dad thought my dad knew where his mom went and was trying to torture him into spilling it turned out that his mom ran to protect herself and left her son behind the neighbors invited the police when they saw that my dad had been badly injured by his dad but somehow his dad caught wind of it he immediately packed a bag and left that part of town with my dad and didn't return to the down until he was a teenager my dad hated his mom for leaving him behind he never wanted to talk about her and the few times my mom brought her up he hit her the only times he talked about her was to curse her out for not taking him along with her a woman ought to stay with her children he would say I guess his dad used to say that to him years after she left his mom lawyered up and tried to take him away from his dad but he refused to go with her his dad had managed to paint his mom as the bad one despite his abusive Behavior toward my dad his mom kept trying to have a relationship with him but my dad would refuse to speak to her she finally gave up and decided that he was a lost cause she had children with her new man and the children turned out quite okay and successful that made my dad even more bitter at his mom she tried again to have a relationship with him when he was a full adult but he tried to strangle her she cut him off totally after that happened my dad eventually became the one who regularly beat up his dad he would chase him out of the house and blatantly refused to move out of his dad's house even when he was a full-blown adult and his dad no longer wanted him around my dad and my mom were neighbors they started to date and my mom got pregnant with me when she got pregnant her mom was pissed she knew my dad and had heard about his abusive Behavior she was disappointed in my mom for having that kind of relationship with him my mom was however too blindly in love with my dad she packed her bag and left her mom's house to live with my dad as my maternal Grandma had promised my mom my dad began hitting her even when she was heavily pregnant with me he would hit her many times the other neighbors and my maternal Aunt would call the police but when they came around my mom would lie about what had happened and insist that my dad had not been hitting her soon after my grandma passed away and that was a wake-up call for my mom she and her sister sold their mother's house and moved to a new place I grew up with my mom and aunt two sisters and single mothers I grew up with my mom and aunt two sisters and single mothers who decided to move in together to manage resources and watch over each other's children when I was about six my mom had twin boys from her new man while my mom also had a turbulent relationship with their father he loved his boys very much he would pick them up on weekends and have them go camping and on road trips I felt horrible watching my half Brothers have so much fun with their dad because my dad was simply horrible I hated being around him he hardly came around anyway even though he lived some streets away from where I lived in my aunt mom half brothers and cousins when I was 13 my mom died after she was diagnosed with a terminal illness we didn't see it coming at all the doctor had promised us that she would be all right and we believed that month my half-brother's dad came for them they went to live with their dad and his wife who had just had a baby at the time I stayed with my aunt and cousins but my dad soon came for me my Aunt knowing all about his abusive Behavior resisted at first but she had to let me go my dad was threatening to get her arrested and she didn't want any trouble at her job I was hopeful that my dad's house would be fun but I knew the minute I walked in that my life was about to become very miserable I had secretly wanted my dad to take me because I'd wondered about him for a while I wondered why he didn't like me why he hardly ever visited me and why when he did visit he looked at me like I was the most irritating thing to have ever walked the earth I had hoped that by moving in with him he and I would have a better relationship first of all the way things were done in my dad's was totally different from how we did things at my moms and aunts at my dad's the house was always silent as silent as a graveyard my dad has a stepson who was about just my age and a daughter with his wife everyone in the house was terrified of him including his wife and my stepmother he hit all of us but my stepmom and I got the largest share of his aggression he would hit us over the smallest things and apologized later in the night sometimes he didn't even apologize at some point I got so frustrated with my situation when I lived with my aunt and Mom they never hit us except when we were much younger and would get a spanking for being naughty my stepbrother and stepmother tolerated my dad's Behavior they hated him but they tolerated his behavior it surprised me because even though my mom had told me stories of how abusive my dad was I don't have any Vivid memories of that happening my mom and aunt didn't even tolerate my cousins and me hitting each other during a fight one day I didn't go home after school I went to my aunt's while they were happy to see me my Aunt kept asking when I would leave Thief she knew if my dad noticed that I wasn't home her house would be the first place he would come to when she asked me how I liked living with my dad I couldn't hold back the tears she understood what was going on because she hugged me immediately she used to be my Dad's neighbor anyway so she knew the kind of person he was can I please move back in with you I asked still in tears my aunt hugged me and shook her head I'm afraid you can't honey she led me to the small garden behind the house and said your dad knows some powerful bad people people who could hurt us real bad we don't want to mess with him I left her house that day feeling horrible I wish my mom were alive she would have never have let me live with my dad I still remember the feeling of sadness that engulfed me when I returned to my dad's my stepmother tried to crack a joke because she noticed my foul mood but that didn't help I tried to think about why my aunt was so terrified of my dad my stepmother was scared of him too even the kids in the the neighborhood avoided me because of my dad they never outrightly showed that they didn't want to be friends with me but I could tell that they didn't want trouble even the grown-ups like my Aunt were terrified of him I used to think it was because they knew my dad was abusive and would hit me but as I grew I figured out why everyone was so terrified of my dad he was a drug dealer and worked for a dangerous drug dealing Syndicate my dad didn't go around telling people what he did it was certainly a secret but it was an open one I only started understanding what my dad does when I was about 14. I'd always wondered about what he did people in school would describe their dads as plumbers teachers and all that but I could never explain what my dad did as time went by my dad's abusive Behavior did not stop one day he hit my stepmother so much that she had a miscarriage we were all surprised because we didn't even know she was pregnant my dad was arrested at the hospital because the doctor called the cops on him unlike before my stepmother admitted to the doctor that my dad had hit her she used to lie and pretend that my dad didn't in the past just like my mom lied to protect my dad my stepmother lied too she would tell stories of how she fell while climbing up or down the stairs how she hit her head on a wall and many other lies to explain the bruises away at some point the other teachers in the school where she worked were very concerned about her well-being and started asking her questions my dad made her quit and cut off her friends from school my dad was arrested but my stepmom refused to press charges the state was willing to prosecute on her behalf but she told them she would not testify and my dad was released for two months my stepmother moved out to live with her mother it was just my dad and me in the house he was very busy during that period so I hardly saw him anyway surprisingly my stepmother walked in one day with my stepbrother and half-sister I had thought and hoped that she'd finally left him for a few months there was no violence for my dad he still barked at us but he never hit us he has truly changed my stepmother said to me and my stepbrother one day I knew he had not changed he still yelled at her and us kids at the slightest provocation the hitting reduced As Time passed because my dad started to travel a lot he barely had time to hit us anymore but when he came around he would slap and shove us I was out on my bike one day when a woman stopped to talk to me she looked like someone I should not be talking to I just suspected that she was a cop or something of the sort she wanted to talk to me about my dad but I refused to make any comment she handed me her card and asked me to call her if I changed my mind my dad may have been a terrible person but I wasn't going to snitch on him well not until he returned that weekend my stepmother had gone to the the salon and he was mad that he didn't meet her in the house he kept fuming and yelling when she returned the fear was invisible in her eyes he asked her where she had been and she told him she went to get her hair done he started to hit her and accuse her of cheating on him even though it was obvious that she had gone to fix her hair her hair was new and shiny from all the processing he was hitting and pulling at her hair I couldn't take it anymore so I pushed him off her he turned to me and punched me in my left eye before I could gain composure he picked up a small wooden table and hit me with it the next time I opened my eyes I was in a bed at the clinic close to our house the doctor said I was fine and had not sustained any internal injuries my stepmother was seated beside me rubbing my arms soothingly I wanted to tell her that it hurts but I fell asleep again when I returned home the first thing I did was call the woman who gave me her card I had had enough of my dad and his abuse I just wanted to get get back at him at that time my stepbrother had run away from the house to live by himself even though he was just 16. for a month I met this woman regularly giving her information about my dad my dad was working for a bigger fish who was their actual Target and they wanted to get to him through my dad not long after they had collected enough evidence they got a warrant and arrested my dad he refused to rat out the person he was working for and I knew that was what would happen my dad would never snitch he had no choice anyway his life would be in danger if he did and accepted a deal from the federal agents they prosecuted him and he went to jail my stepmother took that as her cue to leave she took her daughter and fled down while I went back to live with my aunt I lived with my aunt for a year before leaving to be on my own I just would have liked to see op do this even sooner to be honest I mean I know you don't want to be a snitch but that guy had been an awful person and I would hardly even call that a father he deserved to be locked up and removed from that situation a long time ago but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy Revenge story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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hey everybody hope you're all doing well my name is steven and this is the story time channel we've got some entitled parents to hear about so let's jump right into our first story of the day by commotionable entitled parent is triggered by my gayness i came out in june announcing i'm full lesbian simultaneously i also worked up the courage to ask out this girl i've been crushing on we've been friends for about four years now so my girlfriend lives in philly but she was overdue for a vacay even though i'm afraid of what is currently going on in the world she was able to get on a plane and fly to spend time with me in vegas she is actually resting on my lap as i'm typing this in previous stories i have mentioned how my cousin has 7 kids and i usually do what i can to spend time with them well last weekend i decided not to do deliveries and instead pick the kids up so they can meet and spend time with my girlfriend she was down as she always wanted to meet them so after indulging ourselves and one another for pretty much a week straight we were pretty satisfied and ready to interact with other humankind besides my roommate i let my roommate in on the details and she is okay as long as her room remains untouched as she is going out of town to visit some family i understood and gave the scout's honor that's it for the backstory onto the show the day of i call my cousin and let her know that i want to kidnap her kids she agrees as she loves them but any free time she can have is a treat i go to my mom and harass her to borrow her truck she agrees mom lives in the same apartment complex as my roommate and i she has a hard time letting go so my girlfriend and i go up to pick the seven hooligans immediately they ask questions and my cousin helps explain now the kids aren't stupid they are fully woke but i guess to them it's interesting to see gay up close and personal we load them into the car and make our way to a mom and pop shop since we are in north vegas they usually have those shops everywhere and pretty much all of them have the hispanic candy my cousins love so we get out of the car i give each child ten dollars to go wild the three eldest decline as they have their own money from helping in the neighborhood they take out their neighbors trash the kids divide and conquer and i grab a cart my girlfriend follows me as we follow the three little ones as kids do they pick up candy and chips and explain how much they love it and how their friends had the same at their house so at this point all the kids have met up and the card is half full we stand in line which is long and with the six foot thing it's even longer so we are pretty much chilling in the drink aisle on a taped x on the ground so i'm holding the car my girlfriend is behind me with her arms wrapped around me she is a foot taller than me and the kids are surrounding the car like they are top flight security guards as we wait this kid comes up to us the kid says excuse me are you in the line i say yes we are he nods and goes behind us to the next spot of tape on the ground not even four or five minutes later we hear from across the store a lady yelling name and the kid behind us heals back to answer from the end of the aisle a lady round the corner with her mile high card full of groceries i move to the side so that she can pass but she stops in front of us kid says i'm over here mom i'm waiting like he told me to entitled mother looks me dead in the face come up here kid i say excuse me ma'am we are in line you will need to get behind us no it's fine i'm just gonna go in front the eldest now aware end looking up from his phone excuse me you can't cut the line kid says mom just come back here you need to control your child you need to get to the back of the line entitled mother looks me up and down trying to find some ammo and then she spots my girlfriend's arms wrapped around me she scoffs you two need to stop that there are children around and they will copy what you do if they see you being gay that will make them gay as well you should stop forcing your gayness on others around you excuse me my girlfriend isn't really confrontational so she goes to take her arms from around me but i use my arms to hold her in place my sexuality has nothing to do with who these kids are they don't care about stuff like this because they are kids now get to the back of the line entitled mother realizes that she isn't getting anywhere and that all eyes are on her shuffles her ignorance and intolerant butt to the back of the line now my girlfriend and i reserve most of our love to the bedroom so we aren't really heavy on pda but knowing how much it made entitled mother either uncomfortable or pissed off was enough to fill my petty meter my girlfriend was mostly shy but i was bold and had not one freak to give every time that entitled mother shot daggers in my back i made it a point to tell my girlfriend how much i love her i kissed her hand or even gave her gently a pack massage the kids were giggling as they were well aware of what was going on entitled mother's kid was unfazed the whole time entitled mother was talking under her breath saying things like they are all going to heck or that's so nasty women are not meant to be together like that or my favorite they are probably using food stamps to pay for all that they should give those kids back to their fathers now this last one i feel had to do more with the race as my cousins are all mixed i'm hispanic and my girlfriend is black but it's whatever the kids weren't paying attention and neither was girlfriend as she was too busy thinking about my hand on her butt i waited till we got closer to the register before tricking my girlfriend to lean down so that i could pull her into a kiss i heard entitled mother gag at this my petty meter reached levels of petty some could only dream of we bought our stuff i made it a point to flash my credit card while i paid then off to the car we went after loading the kids and stuff into the car i couldn't help but notice that the car next to us beeped i looked up to see the entitled mother making her way to her car i figured one last show for my adoring audience couldn't hurt i pulled my girlfriend down into a deep passionate kiss we literally made out until the entitled mother got into her car and drove off the whole time she was gagging and dry heaving girlfriend says you really are a behold you know that i say but you love me for it now i may have went too far with the last kiss but we trigger people in public just by holding hands screw homophobes do you think that last display was a little overly petty or do you think it was just what untitled mother deserved in the situation let me know in the comments down below our next story is by eden flicka entitled mother auntie masker and the extra nintendo switch this happened about five minutes ago on the bus going into the city there's a mom with four kids one of them a toddler the rest under 10. none of them are wearing masks because of course they aren't it's way too warm 35 degrees celsius so clearly they're except i was sat a few seats further down in the bus with my switch playing animal crossing new horizons because it's an hour long ride and i needed a distraction worth noting is that i have a second switch in my bag because i'm on my way to get my partner one of the kids around 7 comes over and looks at my screen he asks very politely if he can play and i explain that unfortunately i can't let him play due to kovid as he can't sit next to me to do so he doesn't seem to mind and goes back to his mom then i hear this sweet kid says mommy she has a switch i'd like a switch entitled mom says i'll ask if you can play entire mother comes over to me and i explain again that he can't sit next to me to play because of kovid so he can't have a go she clearly doesn't like this and starts berating me about how i'm too old 25 year old female and how i shouldn't be playing in public transport if i'm not willing to let kids have a go what she then spots the second switch in my bag and offers to buy it off me for 50 pounds i politely explain that it's my partners and that it isn't for sale even if it was it wouldn't be for 50 british pounds she goes completely silent then attempts to reach into my bag to grab it i have somewhat quick reflexes so i push her hand away and she's now assuming that i hit her while this was going on the nice kid and his devil's siblings are all watching the exchange some with delight him with horror the toddler during this interaction has been playing loud music but clearly attempting to take my switch is more important i asked her to leave me alone and attend to her kids instead she told me she would tell the bus driver i stole her switch if i didn't give her one and i just shrugged and went back to my game she's now glaring at me from her seat and i've pulled up the receipts just in case i've befriended with a grandma across the aisle and we're communicating with eyebrow and shoulder expressions this lady is crazy this bus ride can't end sooner that would just completely ruin any experience you were having i wouldn't be able to play on my switch because i would have to feel that paranoia of needing to constantly look around so this lady doesn't try and grab one of my own 500 dollar consoles we didn't hear about the end of the ride so hopefully op was able to just stay safe stay away and get off the bus when they needed to this next story is by i like icing 454 let me live in your house even if it's the height of covid19 backstory my wonderful uncle mom's brother was perfectly fine when he was a kid but when he finished high school oh boy it was pretty much gifted child burnout the second he got out of school he was surrounded by yes men his entire high school career and was average but thought he was the very incarnation of god when he realized he couldn't go to harvard or mit he threw a hissy fit and decided it was my mom's fault by bringing him down and we barely ever saw him until last week cast mom is m eu is entitled uncle opie is me y s is younger sister y b is younger brother that is d grandma staying at our house is g the plot it was the height of covid and we were pretty weary of unnecessary human contact everything was fine younger sister and younger brother were watching tv mom and dad were outside and op was trying to deal with the crappy wifi we heard a knock knock on the door and was confused none of us ordered anything and we weren't expecting anyone i opened the door masked on and saw entitled uncle looking crummy as usual hey kiddo he never called me kiddo mostly just ignored me entitled uncle what are you doing here in the height of covet cases well your aunt kicked me out for being a nuisance and narcissistic the witch will regret it mom says oh entitled uncle so in the meantime i want to live here op says i'm sorry man but grandma is staying here in the spare bedroom and we really don't feel comfortable letting someone in let alone letting them stay here for who knows how long just kick the [ __ ] out younger sister and younger brother say what we can't kick her out dad says don't talk about my mom like that entitled uncle entitled uncle was having none of that and walked in like he owned the place he walked up to grandma's room and we heard some stuff grandma said entitled uncle get away from me help come on doll now you're just being selfish younger sister said you bleep younger sister is a sports captain and she did not hold back younger brother was also ready to give a sucker punch to entitled uncle everything went pretty fast younger sister kicked entitled uncle out of the house with younger brother tossing his suitcase in a conveniently placed bush and we shut the door on him he stayed there for a bit before probably going to a motel or whatever's open so not only is he narcissistic and annoying and a nuisance but he's also pretty creepy and pretty scary the way he just kind of forced himself inside and up to the grandma's room no thank you i'm glad younger's sister was there to just yeet him out of the building and our next story is by shadowcat652 entitled parent tries to call cops over me using a handicapped spot for context i am a 25 year old disabled female i have a handicapped placard i can walk but it's very difficult too i realized i was out of stuff for my bearded dragon salad because the collard greens went bad i decided to go to the store real quick but it wasn't until i got halfway there that i realized that i left my cane at home it was a good day and i wasn't in too much pain so i decided that turning around would be foolish and if they had an electric car to the store i'd just use that i get to the store and i'm happy to see that there's one handicapped spot left and i snagged it i grabbed my mask and started walking to the front doors when i'm blocked by entitled mother who is livid she points her finger at my car and got right in my face like nose to nose neither of us have masks on as i have only taken about 10 steps and i'm still getting my mask to my face i'm horrified and i take many steps back and throw my mask up as fast as i can excuse me you're in a handicapped spot and people like you are why my kid had to walk far to the door you need to move your car now ma'am i have a right to be in the spot i have a plaque card i am disabled you're not disabled you don't have a wheelchair you don't look disabled at all well ma'am i'm disabled and my doctor agrees so i'm going shopping what about my kid he has problems walking because of some medical issues shocked kid says mom it's not a big deal i walked around the store fine i'm getting better i'm gonna go shop now you look like you're done shopping sorry there were no open spots when you got here they look really busy i then walked around them and went into the store they didn't have electric carts and so i just grabbed a regular cart and leaned on it while getting my dragon's fruits and veggies i was only in the store about 20 minutes as i like to pick a bunch of different things to give kyoshi some variety no one likes to eat the same thing every day i'm walking out of my car and see multiple people standing around including a police officer i see entitled mother looking very smug and shocked kid like he wants to die i approach my car nervously because i have no idea what to do i've never been in this situation before this is the woman who was using the handicap spot without being disabled she points at me and looks like she's aided in catching a dangerous criminal police officer says ma'am is this your car is that your placard in the windshield i say yes sir and i can give you the info i got with the black card and my id to prove it police officers said that would be great so i get my stuff out of the glove box and also pull up my disability papers on my phone because i'm literally terrified of what's gonna happen entitled mother is talking about how i am so in the wrong and i'm gonna have to pee a fine and i'm shaking police officer says well everything seems an order here i'm sorry about this hassle feel free to leave at any time and have a great day entitled mother looks livid she starts saying how i can't be disabled i just can't police officer asks her to follow him over to her car i started loading my groceries and i'm trying to get out of there as fast as possible shocked kid says i'm really sorry about her i don't know what is wrong with her i have braces on my legs to help me walk better you can't see them with my pants on and they really help but she gets so crazy when she can't park up front shocked kid goes back to his mom who looks like she is getting a reaming from the officer i leave quickly because i'm still so freaked out about what happened after hearing this story i actually kind of hope entitled mother did get a good reaming about using emergency services for something that isn't an emergency and especially when you're blatantly wrong about it this person had the card for it how much more blunt can you be you have the documentation that says you're handicapped entitled mother doesn't understand the concept of airsoft or orange tips on guns so this is kind of weird for me because i only had one experience with an entitled mother but this was pretty funny on mobile so i'm not sorry some context me and my dad both go shooting and we are both proud gun owners he owns all the firearms in our house except one shotgun being a gift to me and some pellet and bb guns i own one pilot gun and a couple airsoft guns now all the airsoft guns have orange tips on them but the pellet gun doesn't and now to the ball so i was out of my backyard shooting at a target that i got for my birthday those splattering targets that have zombies on them and i just had my airsoft guns on me but i did have my pellet gun out there too as i was shooting there was an entitled mother that decided to come up to the fence to question me excuse me what do you think you're doing playing with a gun you're gonna kill someone i'm sorry what this is an airsoft rifle what kind of jinzy lingo is that that's clearly a real gun are you serious it's not a real gun look at the orange tip that doesn't mean shoot it's a gun and i'm calling the cops now i'm pissed now she's gotta bring the cops out for such a stupid waste of time the police show up two guys in one car and talk to both of us i had the gun on me which clearly resembled a toy gun orange tip and ridiculous looking magazine and they both knew exactly what was going on he has a gun he's gonna kill us all he's gonna start shooting up schools police officer one says ma'am he's not gonna kill anyone it's an airsoft gun air what that's stupid it's a gun what do you guys not get it's a gun police officer 2 says ma'am it's not a real gun it shoots plastic balls i take the magazine out and empty some rounds into my hand look it's not real bullets it's fake he's tricking you to arrest him now he's gonna kill us the cops got pissed off and we had to talk with her for around an hour trying to convince her what airsoft was i was home alone at the time but my parents came back and joined in my dad asked if he could bring out a real gun to show the difference we then had a very real metal rifle being compared to a plastic gun that had a very bright orange tip on the end the mom became frustrated and still had no clue it was very very infuriating trying to teach her she just leaves and everyone goes back to their day the next week i'm outside with my pellet gun no orange tip and i'm shooting the compressed air sometimes breaks the sound barrier so it sounds like a real gunshot guess who comes back police officer 1 ma'am it's not a real gun yes it is you're all being brainwashed about a half hour of arguing later the mom leaves the cops said i was doing everything right and it was the mom who was delusional they just put her under some sort of watch and i kept on with my day i haven't seen her again but if i do i'll update you on it so i don't blame her for being concerned if she genuinely didn't understand it at first there's really nothing wrong for being concerned about safety that said they should be able to learn from the police officers that it's a not real gun it's a plastic gun it's an airsoft gun or for the pelted gun that's also not real and nobody's in danger they're not going to shoot you or kill anybody or anything like that but besides that if you enjoyed the video please consider giving it a like and subscribe and turn notifications on if you haven't all of those things help the channel out so incredibly much so no matter what you did whether it was commenting liking subscribing thank you all so very much for supporting me right here on the story time channel that said i hope you all have a wonderful day and i'll see you all next time right here

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aita for not wanting to attend my brother's wedding after he made fun of my newborn so my brother 32m has always been rude to me 34m when I first met my wife 33 5 years ago he started to be rude to her as well and made fun of her because she's not as educated as him his finy came into the scene around a year ago and she was no different and made fun of my wife for not being as educated as them it was a big issue lot of fights in my family because of the things they said about my wife and my parents told us to forgive them fine we did last week my brother was again making fun of me while we were at a friend's place I let it slide and just laughed it off because I'm just used to it at the point after a while I had enough and made a comment about his appearance he immediately became angry and started making fun of our newborn 2 months old in front of everyone including his fiance I lost it I swore at him and yelled at him one of our friends told him to apologize and of course he didn't his fiance didn't tell him to apologize or stop I told our parents that I have no interest in talking to him or his fiance and that my wife our baby and I are not attending the wedding now my parents are telling us to attend what will people think if we aren't there Etc he still hasn't said sorry and instead is saying I'm at fault because I made fun of him so would I be the

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welcome friends to another r slash pro revenge video today we've got some great stories and our first stories from max and cheese neighbors were being petty about property lines we bought a new house about nine months ago and we've been fixing it up with the warmer weather outside work is gradually started to take place we have a nice driveway that wraps around our in-town house and gives us parking in the back as nice as it is it leaves almost no space for my one-year-old to run around and play in the grass we live in town and the front yard is a hill the side yards are about four to five feet away from the neighbors where he can run is about a ten by ten square that's openly connected to our back neighbors who have just under half an acre so we bought some cheap fencing and thought we could fence that line in right inside the property line so i wasn't constantly chasing him out of the neighbor's yard last month i knocked on their door and asked if it was okay that he run in the backyard it was unused and typically overgrown i also offered if they let us we would mow it once a week for them and thanks he's one year old and just likes to run in circles sometimes we bring out bubbles but we wouldn't be putting any toys or anything into their yard they told me to keep my son away from their yard or they would have me trespassed off okay no worries not my property right i thought it wouldn't hurt to ask permission to give him some more room to run during the day so we used some line and marked where we would put our fence three inches inside the property line they watched us from the windows while we were out there of course while we were finding the stakes for the property we stepped into their yard for a couple of minutes the next morning i was going to take my son out to burn some energy they had put a whole bunch of very very old children's toys and rusty playground equipment right next to where we were going to put the fence i couldn't keep my son away from them so i had to take him inside they still watched from the window i let my husband know that if we wanted to take him out we would have to take him to the park he's still a little young for the park's equipment so we don't take him often so my husband looked up who owned the property and turns out it's a rental so he called the landlord and let him know that his tenants who had no children were storing dilapidated playground equipment in the backyard and they only mowed it once a month the landlord said he would come out and inspect since the backyard was supposed to be well maintained as per their contract a week later my husband called again telling the landlord that the neighbors hadn't even begun to clean up he also made an offer to buy the land minus some backyard of the neighbors the landlord accepted tired of paying the property taxes on land that wasn't even taken care of now i watch as the neighbors are forced to remove all the rusty playground equipment from our yard i think we're gonna need some more fencing i'm just out here wondering how well off op was that they could afford to just buy the land i'm also kind of curious more about these neighbors because where did they get all this like dilapidated kids playground toys and whatnot in the event op couldn't just outright buy that land and the neighbors put all those kids toys out there like clearly trying to lure their kid over do you guys think that'd be worth confronting the neighbors about like straight up calling them out about it maybe having a little bit of an argument over it let me know in the comments down below our next stories from gsxing close my bank account i'm going somewhere else so many many years ago my primary bank was key i didn't have too many issues with them but that all changed after i sold my car i went to deposit a cashier's check at location number one of two in the city all good no issues i come back in about two days to pull those funds because it was time to buy a car i meet this lady and of course she's not all that friendly i tell her i'm here to pull funds to buy a car etc etc she tells me she can't pull them and she's also putting that money on a two-week hold well i was not happy about that why are we putting hold on funds from a deposited cashier check so i end up driving over to keybank location number two tell them i'm trying to pull funds they see the block and we talk it out they're asking me what i intend to use the money for i told them it's to buy a car i'm kind of annoyed that i have to explain myself but they were way more reasonable and let me pull my funds pretty much without further issue so i'm obviously happy by this point and go buy my car with haste then i go back to keybank number one i see everyone there that i originally saw including our not so friendly cashier i let them all know i'm closing all of my accounts immediately and to cash out all funds the look of disappointment on everyone's face was enough satisfaction for me one of them tried to reason with me but i was ready to move to a credit union anyways we're done here small petty revenge story but i'll take it and i'm doing much better with credit unions today if i was an op shoes i'd want to do the exact same thing personally i think if a bank is giving you a hard time that's the kind of thing you need to do don't let the company that's handling and using your money to just bully you into accepting things that are just unreasonable for you doing service with them especially if you're paying them any service fees of any kind our next story is from c broccoli 8386 thank you petty doctor i'm at the doctor right now a patient thinks he's waiting for too long and starts to yell at the ladies in the front the doctor comes and calls for the patient's name then he starts acting like he can't see the patient and continues to call for him after like a minute or so he says to the patient if you ever yell like that at my colleagues again i'll really never see you again nobody clapped because that really happened but i really needed to laugh cause my doctor is always kind of jerk funny and always makes my day with that personally i'm willing to bet that nobody enjoys that stay in the waiting room especially when it feels like you've been there for half an hour 45 minutes maybe even longer and while personally i'd probably be inwardly fuming having waited that long i would never react like that personally i just can't imagine making a fool of yourself like this and acting out in a waiting room is there a certain point where it's acceptable to ever react like that i kinda doubt it by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos every video has awesome stories like our next story from http mommy i tattled to his mom when i was a youngin i used to sell wii i had this one client who liked to flex constantly on social media posting his rent money and one time asking to take a picture with a pound of weed i had which he then posted to instagram one day he picked up an ounce that was about a one dollar to 200 value and promised to pay me in a couple of days he had done this before and always paid eventually so i thought whatever and gave it to him he then moved to a different state and when asked for payment he blocked me he must have thought he was really smart i'm good at finding people online so i calmly found his whole family on facebook his mother was a devoutly christian southern woman so i messaged her the picture of him holding a pound of weed he unblocked me later that day and sent me a bunch of messages like why would you tell my mom who does that he never did end up paying but honestly it was worth the laugh moral of the story is pay your weed man i think this kind of thing extends to even beyond your dealers whoever it is if you're taking something from them you should pay them back it just turns out that some people you try to basically steal from are a little bit more dangerous than others not saying that what opie did hear was very dangerous but our next story is from quartanium1342 car seat argument i don't know if this counts but it felt petty to me i got into an argument with my husband this morning regarding car seat safety blew up into a big argument about properly strapping in etc he blew up and said what are you a cpst certified in car seat safety you just know everything now where's your degree or certification to be spouting all this i immediately went and registered for a cpst certification course and paid the ninety five dollars doing the online training right now and i have to do a three-day in-person course this time next month i will have my certification and then i'm happily gonna bring this argument up again just to prove a point i have a lot of respect for the lengths that ops willing to go to to be correct about something if i found myself in an argument like this where somebody kept quoting all these certifications or bars that i had to reach to be able to prove them wrong i think i would just kind of decide you know what it's not even worth it reality is you're probably not going to change that guy's opinion anyways this next story is from puke falassi blame me for your incompetence good luck two weeks ago another employee visits me while we're working overnight he proceeds to stand around and talk to me for nearly an hour while i carry on with my tasks he's a bit of a sad sack so i simply listen his shift ends and he leaves as it turns out without completing his assigned tasks tasks that would have required just a small portion of his time he stood talking to me during his shift passed down he tells others this failure was due to me being in his way which was patently untrue my sights are set no more sympathy for this guy earlier this week i discover him hard asleep in the control room some tasks still unfinished as before i proceed to let him sleep even as the next shift is arriving next shift discovering the incomplete tasks and his state of rest informs the supervisor this was his last day in the job just bought a new car too if you want to catch a nap after completing your duties what do i care not a bit if you want to act incompetent and offer me as the excuse i'm gonna weaponize my passive aggressiveness against you then watch the carnage all i know is if i was the scapegoat like op was somehow made out to be here i'd be livid it's kind of incredible the way they try to explain how it was op's fault here take a step back and think about trying to talk somebody's ear off for the whole day and then blaming the person you blabbed to for being the reason you didn't do anything dude deserve to get fired our next story is from puppum petty with mother-in-law over kids clothes my mother-in-law is a very difficult lady and likes to create issues out of nothing ben likes to play the victim if i show any sort of reaction today i just quietly reacted with the support of my husband i have a two and a half year old daughter my in-laws love having her visit and i truly don't mind my mother-in-law is great with the grandbabies i try to keep their house stocked with everything they may need including pull-ups wipes clothes etc recently mother-in-law has been complaining that she has no clothes for my daughter i was a little confused because i brought a diaper box filled with her latest size only a month or two ago but i assumed maybe it's just slowly made its way to my house and i didn't notice last week my daughter shows up in 18-month santa pajamas i didn't say anything but mother-in-law states she's wearing those because she has nothing else again confused but i let it go today we dropped off my daughter for a weekend camping trip with the in-laws and i packed another diaper box filled with clothes and decided i'd pop in and take a look at what all was in the dresser they have for thinking i'll go through and take home whatever's too small now so many clothes like you can't even close the drawers confusion amplifies i calmly walk out with a dozen or more pairs of pants and ask just out of curiosity why do you keep saying you have no clothes is there something wrong with these they're her size and they definitely fit so is it you just find them ugly or something she immediately gets super snippy and defensive and says that yes some of them aren't the nicest they're also stained up and i keep taking home all the nice ones keep in mind i supply and buy all the clothes so to me they're all nice and all haven't seen the light of day so definitely no stains so i ask what she wants me to do with them does she want to keep them or should i bring them home my husband doesn't even wait for a response and told me to pack them up since they aren't good enough for mother-in-law so i did just that i packed up two bags worth of clothes and brought them home she now has just enough further camping trip i'm done playing whatever game she's playing she can get her own clothes if the vast amount i provided isn't good enough for her i'll definitely pay for this petty act later but 10 out of 10 worth it i think the bottom line for op here is if the grandma's gonna refuse to put any of the clothes you buy and supply them with on your kids at some point you just leave it up to them to buy the clothes themselves that they think are cute then just push that cost on to them until they realize maybe they should put the clothes on our next story is from statementnervis5407 i ditched her this woman in my class who comes by bus i've literally never met her before pretty much decided one-sidedly that i can drive her halfway through to her hometown cause it's on my way and i come to class with my car and it's cheaper for her yadda yadda offer to pay me and stuff for the ride not a bad person but not very pleasant and can be a handful she has the mentality of but you can so why not and thinks she can just order me around and decide crap for me just cause i don't argue back cause why waste words on a person i don't even know just because i can drive you doesn't mean i want to be stuck with you for an hour's drive my car is my private space with my music it's where i can breathe i don't want to drive her just because i can and i don't have to do any detours i realize she pretty much played me to commit to picking her up and driving her back every class which is twice a week so i tell her listen i decided that while i'm here in this big city i'm gonna make use of it i'm not gonna drive back home early so just take the bus home she says no i'll go with you i also wanna see the city like excuse me did you just decide we're gonna be friends or some crap i don't want you to stick to me like a leech i don't want you to sit next to me she sat next to me in class like no seat or table space but right next to me i don't need you to order me around and she does like she thinks i'm her puppy i don't give a flying freak how nice you supposedly are and want to help people yadda yadda you pick the wrong person to leech off from i don't want my time to be dependent on you and your stinky cigarettes and shuffling slowly to my car i walk fast i park far away because there's no parking spots nearby i don't care you walk slow and have walking problems i don't wait for slow people i'm tired of waiting for people your issues and problems in minimum wage and not being able to afford a car and your stupid kids and whatnot are not my problems i chose to come by car so i could manage my own time i don't need people catching a ride on my back you can shove your money up your butt i have my own emotional problems and i barely can stand people and this woman just decided to shove herself into my life like i owe her stuff i have to suffer her in class doesn't mean i have to suffer her in my own private time and space having to drive her gives me anxiety but see i realized i don't have to do anything for her or with her so today i just picked up my bag told her she's returning home by a bus and left she was pissed why'd you tell me this in the last minute i just turned around and left no answer i walk fast she shuffles slowly like everyone has to wait for her it's the first time i did something bad to someone on purpose the look on her face was worth it i feel bad for op because i know if i was in this situation there's something deep inside of me that's kind of wrong and i would just feel bad for them like telling them point blank no i want to drive a home alone and walking off fast knowing they would be kind of shuffling slowly after me something within me would make me feel bad about that i don't know what it is but it's definitely one of my worst traits even though honestly it's a totally reasonable thing to do our next story stories from irrelevant stats petty revenge on drunk inconsiderate house guests had a group of friends over for a typical booze and schmooze party and several asked to sleep over given they'd had too much absolutely i have a spare room and of course there's the couch late into the evening party winds down other guests start to leave one by one start doing a little pickup and notice that both beds are taken with a collection of intoxicated inconsiderates only one not in a bed me no room on either finish my cleaning one to my bedroom slide the pillows out from under their heads pull all the covers off leaving some uncovered drunks snoozing away and i crank the ac down to 58 i take all the pillows and covers over to the couch and have a nice cozy sleep man i'm just listening to this story and thinking about where i'm at in the southern us with the heat going on i wish my air conditioner could cool down to 58. this is definitely petty but i don't think i'd feel too different either our next story is from statistician some 1141 grandmother's petty revenge after an insult this is a story passed down on my family for more than 80 years my grandmother and grandfather came to the united states in 1910 my grandfather was a peasant from vilnius and my grandmother was from an upper class family i never understood their marriage i believe it was a cultural imperative for women to get married and i guess my grandfather was in the right place at the right time in the late 1920s my grandparents got into a terrible argument my grandfather hid under the belt by saying i support you let's just say that didn't go too well for him the next day my grandmother got a job at a textile factory in the garment district of new york city for two years he came home to a cold dinner and two annoying teenage children when it came to domestic chores a man of his culture and the age he lived he was helpless my grandfather was famous for enjoying his dinner after a hard day's work in addition my grandmother cut off her braid in her hair which my grandfather loved so much it was done for safety reasons but i could picture the subtle grin on my grandmother's face when he first saw her return home on the first day of work when my grandmother quit her job and returned to being a housewife my grandfather never again showed any sign of disrespect towards her i wouldn't say he was an old world gentleman but he bent over backwards to please her my dad says he discovered certain vocabulary words such as thank you and please you gotta have some respect for this grandma she was not taking any crap sometimes i think it's tough when you get disrespected like that to pull yourself up by your bootstraps as the older people would say and just prove them wrong this next story is from clotterrains99 giving back context i was in college living with five roommates in a house one of them was an open thief call him tuser he was a big guy and pretty much got away with a bunch of crap to keep peace in the house another roommate had gotten a hasp and padlock on his door to prevent the thefts tuser ripped the hasp off and stole a bunch of food i was poor but one day broke out and bought a bottle of jack daniels when i came home from work twozer had drank more than half the bottle that i had hidden in my room that pissed me off enough to decide to stop it i bought a bottle of wine drank about half of it and put it in the shared refrigerator with my name on it and the note saying don't touch the next day when i got back from classes our female roommate told me that tuser had drank my wine i said good she asked why i told her that i'd drink half the wine then went in the bathroom and put some back then i went off to work when i got home from work there was a party going on everyone was having fun but twoser he was on a chair with his arms folded face looking like a storm when he saw me he got up and came over to me and said you tell me right now did i drink piss i said no but then in the future there would be piss involved he never stole from me again i actually did pee in it a little he was really pissed and way bigger than me i've never told anyone that until now hey tuser if you're reading this good i think gopis was really walking a good tight rope there let me tell you it'd be nice to get back at your bullies but when your bullies are twice the size of you and threatening sometimes it's a little hard to actually confidently do that i can only imagine that oh crap moment when tuser comes up to op and they're like am i going to get pummeled into the ground our next story is from queen bumblebee want me to buy another hoodie alright so my dad and i have had a bit of a rocky relationship the last few years because i've started to be more myself this isn't about my sexuality or anything like that but about nerdiness for one thing there's other things that have made our relationship not great including ocd i am a huge nerd after some therapy i decided to let myself be that nerd again why i needed therapy is not my dad's fault fyi totally different story my dad doesn't like all the weirdness as he puts it when we're just going about normal life like one time it got really cold and i said where's the dementor as a joke and he didn't like that and said why can't you just be normal that's the phrase i hear like every day but this particular story starts when he told me i couldn't say crap shoot fudge or swear words i decided to be creative and started saying quiznak if you know you know he doesn't like that either stop saying made up words technically all words are made up i got my ipad taken away but anywho one day he told me to do something normal with my time instead of drawing fan art or watching that weird cartoon crap and go buy a hoodie or a shirt or something and i did i bought a hoodie in big black letters that says quiznak so on days i'm particularly mad at him i put it on and it puts him in a foul mood every time one of the best 30 dollar purchases i've ever made i don't know how op puts up with this to me the dad sounds like an intolerable person who just can't stand that other people are not exactly the way they are who cares if it's cold outside and somebody says where's the dementor if anything op should've replied to their dad saying go watch a movie for once cause he's probably not gonna go read the harry potter books as far as i'm concerned op sounds totally normal to me this next story is from filigree's daddy petty paint job in the navy some jobs are fun some are less so some jobs it depends on context painting the side is one of those jobs when you're under the pump and the crew are lazy it's crap but when you have a good team and it's a nice day and there's no rush it can almost be fun so after almost two years in a ship with a mediocre crew we were preparing for a three-month trip to southeast asia with just over a week to go the executive officer xo second in command and my department head who had only been on board two weeks decided that i should be posted off and replaced as i would be over the two-year mark in the first few weeks of our trip most c postings are two years in my branch on the monday before the deployment my replacement posted in this was unusual usually your replacement came on after you posted off and proceeded to learn his way around while i worked as normal and took my gear home one backpack full at a time over the course of the week friday rolls around my post dot paperwork is as complete as it can be and i'm over the side on a pontoon with a few other guys painting when i came back from lunch i found out i was alone i thought nothing of it as the other guys hadn't done much there wasn't a lot left to do and i figured they were given other jobs less than an hour left in the workday i'm almost finished and i see most of my department in civilian clothes heading off i found and asked someone from another apartment that i saw where they were going the reply was they got knocked off early and they're going for a few beers time to get petty hand-painting a ship is very simple standard sized roller 380 millimeters and long extendable poles a firm even pressure and an up and down motion this late in the day paint was starting to thicken two pack paint with a two to three hour pot life so i stopped using my up and down motion i was right up the bow front end of the ship so just under the pennant numbers the ship's identification numbers they're about seven feet high on these ships i proceed to start painting horizontally with an overloaded roller and as much pressure as i can without bending the pole or the roller a few curving motions a finishing touch or two and a voila a complete 12 foot long franken beans being the same color as the rest of the ship i didn't expect it to be visible after the paint dried i could see it while it was wet and that's all i cared about i cleaned up and went home come monday as i walked into my new posting i saw my old ship the painted dried and overall she looked good just as i got to a certain angle there it was i felt proud that this ship would sail out that morning with my handiwork for all the sea i thought that was that fast forward two years i post into a new crew in a different ship most of this ship's company had transferred across from my old ship a few months before the only one from the old crew that had been there longer than a year was the guy who replaced me talking while we worked the discussion of the old xo came up the one who sent me ashore he'd only been off a few months at this stage and was not beloved of the department apparently he'd been fuming about having a giant you-know-what painted on his ship in every chance he got he was sending people to paint over it to try and cover it up but it still showed through it didn't get removed until they went into the dry dock and sand blasted the hole back to bare steel i just sat there and grinned quietly so i didn't just get my petty act of rebellion i made those jerks do extra work for the rest of their time in that ship to this day nobody knows it was me i don't know if i'd have the courage in me to actually go and paint that on the side of a big ship like that but i'd be feeling the same type of way if those guys basically bailed on me and left me out to dry like that and our final story of the days from obi-wan jinobi high school bully revenge in high school i was really shy and quiet which often made me the target for bullies there was this one particular girl i'll refer to her as miss popularity who made my life a living heck she was a varsity cheerleader and there was a group of girls that hung around her that basically did everything she said i guess so they could leech popularity off of her by association she valued her status a great deal i remember her inviting a girl a grade below us another super shy quiet type to a sleepover at her house only for the other girls there to basically make fun of her when she arrived people were talking about it the following week at school and the poor girl even missed a few days of attendance because i assume she was too embarrassed to show her face at school miss popularity and her clique thought it was so funny they also loved to play phone pranks and pranked a quiet bookworm boy and had one girl profess she had a huge crush on him worked up his confidence and made him believe her and invited him to sit with her at lunchtime only to embarrass him at lunch they were honestly the real life version of the mean girls i had spanish class with miss popularity and at christmas time our teacher let us have a party on the last day before winter break everyone brought something for it chips dip drinks candy etc on this particular day miss popularity was really being full of herself and making snide remarks to people i finally decided i'd had enough i wasn't the confrontational type because i was so introverted but because i grew up the middle kid with two older brothers and a bratty younger sister i'd learned how to be sneaky miss popularity was wearing a pair of white jeans the whitest of white jeans when she wasn't looking and most of the other kids around me were up getting their food i tossed a crumbled up piece of hershey candy bar on her assigned seat the seat was dark-colored wood so it kind of blended in when she came back to her desk she sat down on her seat right flat down on it as she proceeded to eat and when she stood up to go get something else a boy behind her said ooh girl you pooped herself really loudly she said what no i didn't and he pointed to her pants which made others look who also started to laugh she wiped at her pants which smeared it as she tried turning to look at it and she said i swear i did not i sat in something it must be chocolate but it honestly did melt and looked exactly like poo and a group of kids got a hold of it and the entire day people were talking about how she pooped her pants and charted in 5th period she ended up tying a sweater around her waist to cover it but everyone at that point knew and were whispering about it she got a good dose of being bullied and made fun of for the rest of that day and even after that day until it started to blow over but she seemed to have been humbled by it somewhat because i don't remember the bullying by her being as bad after that i know it wasn't nice of me and made me know better than the bully but honestly at that point i thought she deserved it and because i'd been the brunt of so much of her bullying i just didn't care the teachers let her slide with everything but the students sure didn't i think this just goes to show the nasty side of school potentially i don't think you could really get a story that sounds more like stereotypical high school experience where you have a mean girl type story and then everybody just totally rips into somebody because it looks like they might have pooped their pants because it got dirty let me tell you somehow those kids in high school they think that's just the funniest thing ever and just love to make people feel bad it's not 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AIT for telling my mom's best friend that not everyone is like her hello everyone I desperately need advice I 27f went out to dinner with my daughter 6f my mother 50F and her best friend 51f it was a treat of my mom's best friend let's call her Yolanda they have been friends for 20 plus years so basically I've known her my whole life therefore she has also met my daughter plenty of time my daughter is a very cheerful child and besides the normal child but throwing in the wind moments she listens really well ever since she was small I'd practice public outings with her we have a cat whom is usually very uninterested in anything except for loud noises Etc so I came up with a little game in which I would dress up the table nicely put our food on our fancy plates we'd dress up ourselves too and then we'd eat without startling our cat which basically meant no screaming or overly loud talking no running and when we spill food we'd have to clean it up quickly so the cat wouldn't get to it this technique has worked really well for taking my daughter out in public and she has rarely ever made a scene as we are sitting in the restaurant eating my daughter is talking to my mom Yolanda bends over

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my fiance's parents won't call our daughter by her name so I'm going into my seventh month of pregnancy and we're having a girl we've chosen a name that I think is absolutely beautiful however my finances parents are refusing to call her by her by her first name as they deemed it too fancy and keep calling her by her middle name I've expressed multiple times that I want them to call her by her first name and they won't I was talking with my f today and he referred to her by her middle name to which I corrected him and the convo went like this fil calls her by her middle name me it's first name f repeats middle name me repeats first name f repeats middle name me repeats first name Fel and know it's middle name I can call her whatever I want me just smiles and stops talking my milil and S have also referred to her by her middle name but only once while speaking to me my fil is the most outspoken about it the first time he argued with me was in front of M and but neither of them argued for or against me however they haven't referred to her by her middle name to me directly since and I don't know if they are when I'm not there though I suspect they do since they haven't told fil to stop I'm very frustrated at this point because he's absolutely refusing to use her first name like I've asked and it's only my fiance's side of the family that won't call her by her first name cuz it's too fancy so now I'm honestly debating on only teaching my daughter to call them by their first names rather than teaching her to call them by the grandparent names they've decided they want her to use for them I'm hoping that they'll change their minds before I give birth to her but I honestly don't see that happening and I'm getting flustered it probably seems like such a dumb thing to be upset about but it's really bothering me that they won't use the name we've chosen when that's the name we the parents are calling her as well as literally everyone else and they it's too fancy reason they have is also upsetting because what does that even mean it's not like we gave her some crazy name or something like celebrities do it's a cute name it would be different if they had a special nickname for her or something like my mom calls her Jelly Bean and my fil used to call her peanut but he has stopped using it I wouldn't mind as that's something special my grandparents have nicknames for me and all my siblings that they use sometimes but in general we're called by her actual name if my daughter were to decide later on that she prefers to go by her middle name I would be fine with that I did that for a few years too but until then I want her first name to be used also her middle name is my middle name as well I want her to be able to choose to use it rather than someone else choosing for her I feel like it'd be more meaningful and special if she were to choose for herself to go by her middle name as it is a name we share my fiance is no help either he said he feels like it's such a dumb thing to argue about so he won't correct them even though he himself also refers to our daughter by her first name and maybe it is a dumb thing to argue about but I just don't understand the absolute refusal to call her by the name we've chosen would it be wrong of me to teach my daughter to call her grandparents by their first names if they continue to refuse to use her first name is this a battle worth fighting or is it something I should just let go I've spoken to my mom about it and she agrees with me but I'm not sure if it's just because she's my mom and she may be biased ETA many members of his family have very erotic unique and fantasy type names and no one has an issue calling them by their names just my kid apparently

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my brother-in-law lost his job and now wants to live at my house rentree he has been lazy he is a dirty slob and my wife is taking his side I 34m was married to my wife Sarah 32f for 8 years we had been living in my house that I had purchased before we got married it was a decent three-bedroom home in a nice neighborhood about 6 months ago Sarah's brother Tom 28m had been kicked out of his apartment due to not being able to pay rent after losing his job during the pandemic his funds had been completely drained and he had nowhere to go Sarah had insisted that he come stay with us temporarily until he could get back on his feet financially I had been reluctant at first as I valued my privacy and personal space however after Sarah had pleaded with me stating that Tom was family and had no other options I had agreed to let him stay in our spare bedroom for a few months Tom had moved in with just a few suitcases of belongings for the first couple of weeks everything had been fine he had kept to himself cleaned up after him himself in the common areas and had been actively applying for jobs however after about a month Tom's Behavior had started changing he had begun spending more time lounging around the house playing video games instead of job hunting his bathroom habits had become incredibly disgusting leaving pubic hairs everywhere pea stains on the toilet and the bathroom constantly rre of his horrible body odor he had also begun eating all of our food without contributing anything I addressed these issues with Tom multip mple times in a polite manner but he always responded dismissively saying he would try to do better but never followed through Sarah had initially taken my side on these matters agreeing that Tom needed to respect our home and hunt for a job seriously however after a couple of months she had started making excuses for his laziness and messiness saying he was just going through a rough time and I should cut him some slack by fourth month of Tom's stay I had reached my boiling point not only had his disgusting beh Behavior continued but he had started bringing random friends over without asking blasting loud music in video games all night and even vaping indoors leaving the house smelling like a nightclub I had to put my foot down and insisted Tom either straighten up and start job hunting seriously or he would need to find another place to stay this led to a massive blowout argument between Sarah and I Sarah had shockingly taken Tom's side and stated what the big deal heun's just having some fun after going through a rough patch why are you being so uptight and cruel to my own brother I had been dumbfounded that she was justifying and enabling Tom's complete lack of responsibility or respect as a guest in my house when I had refused to back down on giving Tom an ultimatum Sarah had given me an ultimatum of her own if you kick Tom out I'm leaving with him you'll have to choose between us in that moment I had realized my marriage was already over the fact that Sarah was so willing to ditch her marriage vows and home over letting her bum loser brother walk all over me had shown where her prior prorities truly were her family would always come before me no matter how disrespectful or out of line their behavior was so I had made the difficult decision to tell Sarah that if that was her choice so be it Tom would be the one staying and she would be the one leaving not the other way around it was my house that I had owned before the marriage and I was not going to let them kick me out of my own home needless to say this led to World War III between Sarah and I she had called me every insult in the book selfish heartless controlling abusive and more she had accused me of choosing some brick walls over your wife and had stated that I would live to regret ruining our marriage over this she had quickly packed up some belongings and stormed out going to stay with her parents for the time being however in her rage she had forgotten some important documents and sentimental items that held significance to her a couple days later she had sent Tom over to collect those remaining belongings of hers I have to admit a part of had been tempted in that moment to use her things as a bargaining chip to get Tom out of my house however I had taken the high road no items had been kept from Tom and he had been able to collect everything of Sarah's that she wanted as he had left with her things he had also stated that I would regret this decision and that she was the best thing that ever happened to me in the two months since I had started the legal process for divorce from Sarah she had continued trying to pressure me into allowing Tom to remain in my home stating that he had nowhere else to go and I would be ruining his life by kicking him out however I had refused Tom had brought this situation upon himself through his lack of ambition and disrespect of boundaries I owed him nothing my soon to be exwife could choose to let her bum brother mooch off her if she wanted but there was no way he would be staying in my house anymore ultimately Tom had finally found a new place to move into after I had stuck to my guns however the damage had been done to my marriage over this situation Sarah had made it clear her brother would always be her priority over me so Reddit a for not allowing my lazy disrespectful brother-in-law to keep living in my house rentree even though it led to the end of my marriage I basically had to choose between enabling Tom's loser Behavior or losing my wife I do not think I was the here at all but I would be interested to hear some outside perspectives update one I know it's been several months since I last updated this situation but a lot has happened that I need to get off my chest what I'm about to explain may seem crazy and unbelievable but I swear on my life every word is the truth after the events of my last post where my marriage to Sarah had self-destructed over her enabling her lazy bum of a brother Tom life had been difficult but I was trying to move forward the divorce proceedings with Sarah had been underway though she had continued insisting that I allow Tom back into my home before she would agree to any settlement of course I had refused having been pushed way too far by Tom's disgusting behavior and lack of respect towards my home and rules Tom had eventually found a new place after I had kicked him out though I had still been on the hook for paying rent at that place per Sarah's demands if I wanted the divorce settled somewhat easily I had been focusing on work trying to bury myself in my career to take my mind off the pain of my marriage crumbling over such an idiotic reason Sarah's blind Devotion to her loser brother over her husband I had kept replaying all the fights and insults in my mind her calling me selfish and abusive for simply wanting basic respect and responsibility in my own home part of me had wondered if I was the bad guy after all for letting my pride and stubbornness ruin and 8-year marriage maybe I should have just continued putting up with Tom's crap to keep the peace with Sarah but Another Part Of Me knew that her priorities were completely off and enabling Tom's loser lifestyle would have only continued the problem long term in any case for several months I had tried to Simply move on and accept that my marriage was over I had gotten accustomed to having the house to myself again not having to walk on eggshells around Tom's mess and odors I had started making some Home Improvements and redecorating to my own taste something I couldn't have done with Sarah's input however about a month ago something strange had happened that reopened this can of worms I had been out doing some grocery shopping when I had bumped into an an old friend from college named Jake Jake and I had been pretty close buddies back in our University days though we had drifted apart once we entered our careers and he got married with kids after exchanging some basic catch-up chitchat Jake had cautiously asked me hey man I have to ask are the rumors true that you and Sarah split up because you kicked out her brother for being lazy I had been a bit taken aback that mine and Sarah's private marital issues had seemingly become public gossip but I had figured it was a small town and these things tend to spread like wildfire when people get divorced so I had confirmed to Jake that yes that was essentially the situation that led to our separation to my surprise Jake had reacted with an expression of disbelief he had then said something shocking that had never even crossed my mind dude what if I told you the story you think you know is only scratching the surface that things are way more messed up than you could ever imagine I had pressed Jake for more details but he had been initially hesitant to reveal anything saying he didn't want to spread unverified rumors however after I had insisted and reminded him of our old Bond of trust Jake eventually agreed and began explaining something that if true made me question everything I thought I knew according to Jake he had a close friend named Brian who had known Tom for years going back to their high school days though Jake didn't personally know Tom well he had heard plenty of stories about what a deadbeat loser Tom was from Brian over the years constantly borrowing money from friends to fuel his lazy lifestyle mooching off girlfriends you name it well according to what Brian had told Jake Tom's sponging off me and Sarah had apparently been no accident or coincidence it had been a calculated long-term plan by not just Tom but also his friend Brian as the story went about a year prior when things were still going well in my marriage Brian had attended a party where he locked eyes with Sarah according to Jake Brian had immediately been mesmerized by Sarah's Beauty and had been determined to pursue her even though he knew she was married to me Tom owed a huge sum of money to Brian thousands of dollars from some past debts and Misadventures Brian had been constantly hounding Tom to pay up threatening trouble if he didn't get his money that's when Brian had hatched a plan he would convince Tom to pursue essentially breaking up my marriage to Sarah if Tom could insert himself into our household and slowly turn Sarah against me me eventually driving a wedge that would lead to our divorce well then Brian would have a chance to Slither his way in and pursue the newly single Sarah for himself in return for tomk efforts in breaking up my marriage Brian would wave the huge debt that hung over tomk head finally relieving him of that burden a win-win for those two Jackal I had listened to Jake's story in utter disbelief and disgust there was no way Tom could be that big of a scumbag was there to actively work on sabot aging his own sister's marriage just so his SLE ball friend could have a chance with her but Jake had insisted everything he was telling me came directly from Brian's mouth and the timeline seemed to line up perfectly Tom had started mooching off Sarah and Miss soon after Brian first saw her and became infatuated Tom's Behavior had suddenly shifted to being a repulsive lazy slob not long after that as well according to Jake Brian had been giving Tom constant advice and instructions on how to slow slowly turned Sarah against me over time little by little making me out to be the bad guy who was too uptight and cruel for simply wanting Baseline responsibilities and respect in my own home pitting Sarah Against Me by constantly saying I was being unreasonable in my expectations of Tom it had all originated from Brian's obsession with my wife and desire to snake his way into a relationship with her by destroying my marriage in the process with Tom's help as the Inside Man chipping away at Sarah's love for me they had achieved their goal hearing all of this had felt like being punched in the gut repeatedly for months I had been torturing myself wondering if I was the who had cruy prioritized my house over my wife's own flesh and blood brother but if the revelations from Jake were true then it had all been one long planned con by Tom and Brian even beyond the pain of the Betrayal it hurt hugely to think about the inevitable toll this truth would have taken on Sarah herself to realize she had been nothing more than a pawn used by her own brother to sabotage her marriage all in the service of setting her up for Brian to eventually sleep with the depraved betrayal of trust and deceit from Tom in this Brian's scumbag was staggering I had spent the next few days in an emotional spin unable to concentrate at work as these horrific Revelations consumed my mind I had pressed Jake for any other details he could provide including how trustworthy of a source his friend Brian was for this while Jake admitted Brian was a bit Shady at times he insisted there was no way Brian could have fabricated a story this elaborate and perfectly timed finally I had made the decision that I needed to get to the bottom of this no matter how painful the truth might be I had resolved to go directly to the source Tom and confront him face to face if I got him away from the potential manipulation of Brian maybe I could get Tom to finally come clean about everything I had texted Tom asking if we could meet up for a conversation and to my surprise he had agreed relatively quickly we had decided on a quiet diner near his new place for the meeting when I had arrived Tom had been waiting with the same smug look and dismissive Body Language he always had all right man you said you wanted to talk Tom had said as I took a seat across from him what's on your mind I had taken a deep breath deciding in that moment to be blunt rather than dance around the subject I know everything Tom I know about the plan you and your buddy Brian hatched to sabotage my marriage the smirk had immediately disappeared from Tom's face upon hearing my words his eyes had gone wide with a look of shock and panic giving me all the confirmation I needed that what I had Learned was true I I don't know what you're talking about man Tom had stuttered out unconvincingly unable to maintain eye contact with me don't even try to deny it I stated firmly I know all about how your scumbag friend Brian got obsessed with my wife Sarah after seeing her at a party and I know all about the Twisted deal you two made Tom had stayed silent shifting uncomfortably in his seat as I had laid out the details I knew of their scheme Brian agreed to wave all the money you owed him if you could successfully insert yourself into our home and slowly turn Sarah against me over time driving a rift between us until our marriage crumbled also Brian could have a chance to pursue a newly single Sarah for himself the lack of protest or denial from Tom had told me everything eventually his gaze had dropped to the table unable to even look me in the eye anymore I had felt such a consuming combination of Rage disgust and heartbreak in that moment you're a real piece of work Tom I spat out struggling to keep my voice down in the diner betraying your own sister sabotaging her marriage just so your loser buddy could have a shot at getting with her do you have any idea how messed up and cruel that is Tom had finally started muttering some garbled responses about owing Brian money needing a place to stay getting in over his head with manipulation from Brian but it had all sounded like pitiful excuses and justifications to me save it I had cut him off this was one of the most depraved disgusting betrayals I could ever imagine and the worst part is how you involved and used Sarah as a pawn in your Twisted little game I had wondered if I should tell Sarah the full truth of what her brother had done part of me wanted to protect her from the devastation of learning her own sibling had played such an active role in sabotaging her marriage for his own selfish interests but another part knew she deserved to know the full extent of Tom's reprehensible actions and betrayal in that moment at the diner with the truth finally out in the open between us I had made the decision to completely cut Tom out of my life regardless of what came next with Sarah you're done Tom I had stated standing up from the table I don't ever want to see or hear from you again if you so much as come near me or try contacting me I'll make sure the full truth about what you pulled gets plastered all over this town Tom had sat there finally deflated without his trademark smirk and casual attitude to hide behind as I had turned to leave the diner he had finally found some words Youk regret this and when Brian I had cut him off immediately feeling a surge of Fury and disgust if you or your degenerate buddy Brian ever comes near me or Sarah again you'll wish you had never been born with that I had stormed out of the diner still feeling a swarm of emotions hatred towards Tom disgust at Brian's depravity torment at the manipulation Sarah had been subjected to by her own blood without even realizing I had decided Sarah needed to know everything no matter how painful maybe learning the circumstances would finally open her eyes to the manipulation she had been subjected to I had asked Sarah if we could meet up in a public place saying I had something incredibly important to discuss regarding the ending of our marriage to her credit she had agreed without protest we had met at a quiet Cafe and I could sense her anxiety and discomfort in the air immediately as calmly as I could I had begun walking her through everything Jake had told me about the plan between Tom and his friend Brian At first she had reacted with disbelief unable to believe that her own brother being capable of such cruelty and deceit but as I had laid out all the pieces of the puzzle the timeline the specific details her expression had slowly started to change by the end I could see it all clicking into place for Sarah the consistent encouragement from Tom to take his side against me his apparent obsession with inserting himself into our marriage and living situation his advice that I was being unreasonable for my attitude on his lack of responsibility it had all been a accurately calculated effort to drive Sarah and I apart all in service of Brian's messed up Obsession and deal with Tom tears had started streaming down Sarah's face face as the full harsh reality settled in to her credit she had not tried to make excuses or rationalize Tom's actions at all I think she realized just like I did that this was a new low of depravity that could not be explained away or Justified whatsoever she had immediately attempted to contact Tom to confront him but he had pointedly dodged all of her calls and messages eventually she had told me she just felt completely sick to her stomach sick about the lengths Tom had gone to sabotage her own marriage in such a cruel selfish way and sick about the realization of how badly she had been manipulated and used as a pawn in that moment I saw the woman I fell in love with all those years ago the sweet kind-hearted person who would never intentionally hurt anyone Sarah had been an innocent victim of Tom's deception just as much as I had despite the anguish of our marriage ending I didn't have it in me to stay angry or resentful toward Sarah after that conversation if anything I felt a strange sense of relief that she now saw Tom for the depraved snake that he was just like I did we had spent a long time talking through everything that day reexamining her interactions with Tom during his stay at our house through a new lens of realization so many of his comments and behaviors that had once seemed innocent or ambiguous suddenly took on a new sinister meaning when viewed through the context of the truth we now knew Sarah had made it clear she now recognized how terribly misguided she had been in enabling Tom's terrible Behavior towards me no more excuses no more justifications she got it we had both resolved that day to do whatever it took to permanently cut the cancer of Tom out of our Lives Sarah had been every bit as disgusted by Brian's depraved Obsession and role in all of this as I was on some level we had bonded again over our mutual hatred for those two Rascals who had exploited our marriage in the weeks and months that followed Sarah and I had an open line of communication during our divorce proceedings while we both still felt our marriage was too damaged to piece back together there were no longer any lingering resentments or bad blood between us which helped immensely we had made a paact to immediately cut off all contact and communication with Tom indefinitely refusing to let him worm his way back into our lives or make any more excuses he had made his depraved choices and he could live with those consequences as for his scumbag friend Brian we had agreed that if he ever tried to contact or pursue Sarah in any way we would not hesitate to get police involvement and file restraining orders his Twisted Obsession and entitlement over Sarah had gone way too far already in any case for as nightmarish as this whole experience was I'm just grateful Sarah and I have both emerged on the other side with an odd sense of clarity boundaries reestablished while our marriage may be over an incredible weight and burden has been lifted off both of our shoulders we don't have to dwell in the anger confusion and self-doubt of being gaslit and exploited by those two depraved sociopaths any longer the truth has allowed us to regain our self-respect and self-trust as we go our separate ways and start new chapters I think we're both determined to pay forward the hard lessons we learned here to spot the red flags of toxic personalities

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a it for going NC with my mom 42f after finding out my younger sister 14f is dating my ex 21 M with my mom's approval my 20f younger sister 14f contacted me saying she wanted me to meet her new boyfriend because of how much I love my sister I agreed and told her that her and her boyfriend could come to my house for lunch and that I'd meet him my sister and mom 42f live 15 minutes away from me minutes passed since my sister called and I get a knock on my door I get up at onz are my door and see my ex 21m holding hands and telling my sister who is 14 that he loves her I stood there Frozen for a couple of seconds staring at my sister and my ex my sister proceeds to ask me if they can come in and sit down like plan while my ex is smiling at me like we are friends due to my level of shock I responded by closing my front door and calling my mom my mom osers the phone saying sweetie what's up and in pure rage I yelled at my mom if she knew my ex who cheated on me with my cousin who was 16 was dating my sister she said yes he even lives with us I asked her how she could let a pedophile date her younger daughter and what my stepdad 33 M thought about it she said your dad is fine with it too I will admit I lost my cool and called my mom and stepdad pedophile supporters and that as long as my sister was dating that pedophile I no longer wanted anything to do with her or anyone else involved my mom got mad and said I needed to apologize for being rude I told her that I didn't want a pedophile in my home or around my family my mom said my family would be fine but I told her as a mom she has to understand that I don't want my ex around my daughter 3F and soon to be born son my mom hung up when she realized I wasn't going to apologize I called my stepdad and told him I'd be going no contact with him my mom and sister and let him know the situation status would change once they decided to grow up and address the issue my stepdad said it would be hard to do since they had already been together for 3 months behind my back without me knowing knowing and that they signed parental consent for them to get married I currently no longer talk to them but from time to time will get messages and voicemail on how I'm childish and disrespectful and need to apologize for ruining my family personally I don't think I did anything wrong aita update I've gotten a lot of advice and I've decided to update on the situation my aunt and stepmom arrived at my house late last night they pulled up and when they came in my aunt hugged my daughter my stepmother hugged me and we sat down my aunt called CPS my mom called the police department and I messaged my lawyer saying he needed to call me right away when he could my mom called my husband asking him to talk to me saying that I didn't support my sister and that I was being mean towards the family and that you needed to apologize keep in mind my husband works from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 a.m. in a factory in town and the only time he is free when at work is his lunch break he calls me on his lunch break asking why I won't apologize and what I did because my mom didn't tell him what had happened I told him what was going on and he was pissed my husband took the rest of the night off to to make sure our daughter was okay and I was okay I told him CPS cops and our lawyer has been notified he grabbed his phone and keys and I asked him what he was doing my husband said to to stay with my stepmom and aunt and that he was going to get mine and then go over to my mom's what I didn't know was that my brother who works at the same Factory was listening to to our call he proceeded to let me know that the cops will be lucky if they get to my mom's before them I asked my husband to just talk and don't do anything irrational my mom calls me screaming asking why the cops and CPS are at her door talking to my sister without her knowing about it I told her the cops and CPS will come over to her house and that they'll talk to her privately away from you so you can't twist any statement they'll want to know if this was forest or if it was willingly either way it's wrong after a couple hours they took my ex and cuffs along with my parents and my sister will have a hearing oh if she is going to foster care or if I will be her caretaker soon it was a rough night and my husband is still raging to those who want to call this fake go-ahead but this is very much real and happening and I'm disappointed that the percent of you that think this is fake is small-minded and unmature enough to be commenting about my situation and it makes me wonder if you also think my parents are right

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cheter ruins his life by cheating on his ex-wife and gets cheated by his new wife Karma Strikes Back hard original post ex-wife 38f married my 37 male best friend 35 male it's killing me and destroyed my marriage I 37 male have been with my wife 26f for 5 years and married four years we have three kids from her previous relationships two boys and one girl between the ages of 5 and eight I really love her and her kids things were perfect until three or four months ago I've had three big promotions in 5 years we bought a house last year she stays home with the kids and is trying to make a social media career happen I've always been on the fence about having kids but she really wanted us to have one together so I agreed to try to have my vasectomy reversed she's a 7 months pregnant now we were so happy my ex-wife 38f divorced me in 2019 and moved about 2 hours away a few months into the pandemic our divorce was amicable but once it was finalized I never heard from her again even when I would wish her well on birthdays and holidays I even sent her a graduation gift when I heard that she finished her PhD program other people in our Social Circle including my parents and sister-in-law who sent her a gift received handwritten thank you cards I didn't get so much as a text my ex-wife is a really kind and thoughtful person and the woman I knew would have at least sent a thank you text if her worst enemy sent her a gift even though

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a ITA for wanting to choose where my bridal shower is for context my 27f future mother-in-law had asked me a week ago if I was having a bridal shower I told her no I didn't think so that no one had told me they were going to plan one so just figured it wouldn't happen she said she would plan me one with her sister and we found the perfect place a super cute and girly venue downtown my future mother-in-law reached out to my mother to ask if it was fine that she was planning it then I get a text from my mother saying that my bridal shower is going to be at some random Clubhouse she picked I called her and asked if she had spoken with my future mother-in-law because she had already planned something for me my mom said yes that she was talking with her but that she my mom decided to change the location I said how excited I was about the downtown venue and how it's more my style than the clubhouse and how I'd be happy to pay for it if necessary she then said how ungrateful and rude I was she said it was entitled to try to choose the location of a party other people were throwing for me I said that my Mill and I found it that I was sorry and that I didn't want her to be upset then she called me a and hung up one me about an hour later she sent me a long text message about how entitled and ungrateful I am and how everything is going to fall about and fail and it's all my fault AIT

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first story stepbrother framed op of perving on his stepsister an entitled family abandoned him at 16 30 years later they reached out to make up for the lost time okay as a mild lurker on Reddit I thought I would share my story and the newest development in my life after 30 years it might be a bit long but I will do my very best to give you context without too much fluff I hope this is the right sub so I lost my mom when I was 12 to breast cancer so that just left me and my dad it was a tough time but we got through it together when I was 14 my dad met and married my stepmother Ashley who brought with her my stepbrother Mark 14 and stepsister Emily 12 I got along with Ashley and Emily really well but with Mark not so much so he and I were away getting into arguments and fights I was always told by my dad to give Mark a break because he's been the man of his house for a while so this is all new like somehow it wasn't new to me anyway when I was 15 I met a girl at school named Lisa and we started dating as much as one can date at 15 however Mark apparently had a crush on her and was so mad that I asked her out he started a fight over it in which my dad had to intervene once again and somehow I was again made to be the bad guy one day after my 16th birthday my stepmom was putting away my laundry and started yelling which was awkward because my girlfriend Lisa was there we all ran thinking the worst when we got to my room my stepmom was holding several pairs of my sisters underwear and yelling at me why they were in my drawer I had no answer as I'd never seen them before of course no one believed me no matter how much protesting I did Mark piped up saying he always caught me staring at his sister thinking it was creepy and caught me once saying I wish I could marry her obviously lying but that was all it took Lisa slapped me called me a perv told me we were done and we walked out my dad grabbed me by the arm and threw me out of the house he was yelling at me that he wasn't going to put his daughter at risk from a perv not the word he used but you get it I banged on the door to be let in crying and telling them it was all lies told by Mark my dad apparently had enough I heard the locks and he opened the door shoved me to the ground and told me to get lost I told him I had nowhere to go and he said that wasn't his problem then closed the door I found myself on the streets with nothing to my name there is no place to go I tried calling my dad's parents but he had already called them and they told me they wouldn't help a purve my mom's parents passed away before I was born well I lived on the streets for 2 years doing what I had to in order to survive no kid should have had to do what I had to do in order to just live there were some really dark days lots of therapy later in life helped me with this shortly after I turned 18 I found a job working at a boxing gym I stayed away from where I began this horrible journey I worked there for years I learned the sport I'm never going to beat Mike Tyson but I was good at it which helped me with my hate and anger then one day I met a new girl a 20 at the cafe down the street from the gym at this point I was 35 I know a huge age Gap but we just clicked I don't believe in fate soulmates or anything like that but if there is such a thing we have it I don't know how else to put it we dated for 2 years and then got married her dad was an electrician and hired me on afterwards I think mostly to know I would be able to support his daughter and know I was doing right by her but also in case he needed to keep me in check he never said this but as a dad I get it now well 15 years later we are still together with four beautiful daughters I just passed my master's license as an electrician thanks to my wife for pushing me to get my jet she has been my rock my cheerleader and my allaround support through this all and I can't tell her enough how much she changed my life and how much I love her anyway sorry for the tangent so just this past weekend I received email from my stepsister I'm not sure how she got my email address but I know it isn't hard via the Internet not like I've been hiding mind you I'm now pushing 53 so it's been 30 plus years since I've heard from any of them it was a long long email I'm not going to give you all of it but the meat of it is that they now know what really happened Mark I guess was busy drinking with his buddies on Friday and somehow my name was mentioned Mark I guess started bragging about how he set me up and took my girl yup Mark and Le I got married all those years ago they were all laughing hoping I died on the streets a bunch of rude and vile stuff I guess he forgot Lisa was there and she heard it all so she called my steps sister to let her know and so Emily spent all weekend trying to find me like I said the email was long short of it they want to apologize face to face although it was already said in the email multiple times and make up for lost time I'm however indifferent to the idea I have no ill feelings towards her she was obvious ly young and had no real say in the matter but with lots and lots of therapy I learned to let go of that hate and anger as well with all the love I receive from my wife kids and in-laws it's all I really need I'm into the idea of just deleting the email and moving on like nothing happened my wife thinks I should at least respond back even if to say something snarky like thanks for finally believing me it only took over 30 years did I mention my wife has a mean or Petty streak toward her she's awesome I'm not asking for advice I just wanted to share my story there is a boxing quote that I have up in my house that reminds me every day to see a man beaten not by a better man but by himself is a tragedy edited pushing 50 to 53 because apparently people are getting hung up on my age because you know if it's not perfect I guess that's Reddit for you comments primary philho it's up to you what you should do personally I'd either delete the email or respond telling her thanks for letting you know and that while you bear her no hard feelings you have no interest in reconnecting with any of the rest of them mat religious now interesting I'm with your wife on this because I'm Petty like that too I have a question for you what happened to your dad and stepmom is there any mention of them in that email perhaps for final closure simply respond that you appreciate them reaching out after 30 plus years but you have a great life without any of the people who would throw out a 16-year-old child on the streets then ask not to be bothered again or say you're willing to meet if and when Mark Lisa your dad and stepmom beg for your forgiveness on their knees to make up for the hell you endured ocean 2731 I delete the email and go on living your best life without them do you really want to spend more time and emotional energy with them op that truly is my thought but my wife's Petty answer would be good as well update two days later first I want to thank everyone for their kind words and advice I wasn't looking for advice I just wanted a place to share my story to those who gave me credit for overcoming everything thank you however the wife thinks she deserves most of it and in all honesty she does to those who think this is fake it's Reddit I get it it is what it is most things have to be taken with a grain of salt I shared my story and I can't make you believe me but that's okay if my story resonates and helps others know they can survive then I'm happy with that and that's all that matters okay for the update I'm going to post most of the original email as as a lot of you have requested I kept out some deep personal information but the majority of it is there I might have to break it up due to the character limit plus a response with the help of my wife and also the help of others who made suggestions which is good because I'm not that great at putting down in words how I feel without coming off looking dumb she was able to make me sound less dumb L I took the family to the lake for the weekend to recharge and leave this all behind me thanks again to everyone Emily's letter dear op this is your sister Emily and as I sit down to finally reach out to you after what feels like an eternity I would like to explain why I understand if you choose not to read this but I truly hope you will take the time to at least hear me out first of all I want to apologize for never taking the time to contact you before I was misled by Mark and dad who constantly painted a negative picture of you in my mind they filled my head and heart with lies and made me believe that you were someone you were not for a while I held on to hope that you would come back home but as time passed and their words continued to poison my thoughts I let go of that hope and allowed myself to believe the worst about you it pains me to admit that I even started to hate you despite the fact that deep down I always considered you a brother to me I felt betrayed by the Twisted Image that was presented to me and I regret not reaching out to hear your side of the story sooner a lot has changed in our family since you left I got married and now you're an uncle mom and dad are still together and are preparing for retirement ment Mark and Lisa eventually got married and they have no children however the truth that has recently come to light has shaken the very Foundation of everything I thought I knew on Friday Lisa overheard Mark boasting about how he orchestrated the setup against you how he manipulated the situation to make you look bad and how he convinced us to turn against you to his friends as they all got drunk they laughed about the pain he caused you and the lies he spread all while belittling you in the crest and meanest ways possible saying things like hope you died in the streets Lisa couldn't keep this bombshell to herself and when she confided in me my world came crashing down to think that I could have been so wrong about you for all these years is a heavy burden to bear I can't begin to express how deeply sorry I am as is Lisa we both realize now the extent of the manipulation and deceit that was carried out against you and we are devastated by this fact after sharing this Revelation with Mom and Dad dad started crying like really crying I've never seen him cry before I believe it because he has been carrying around a lot of guilt all these years obviously now knowing the truth he is now having to deal with the consequences of his actions however after several hours of talking we all came to the conclusion that we needed to find you and make amends I have spent hours trying to locate you in the hopes that I could reach out and extend a heartfelt apology for the years of misunderstanding mistreatment and hurt I know that words can never undo the damage that has been done to you but I sincerely hope that you can find it in your heart to forgive us we long to to make amends to start a new and to maybe even make up for lost time please know that I am truly sorry for the pain and hurt that you have endured because of our ignorance and blindness I hope that someday we can meet in person so that I can look you in the eye and express my remorse face to face I can only hope that you will consider giving us a chance to write the wrongs of the past and to heal the wounds that have been inflicted On You by us with all my love and sincerest apologies your sister Emily op's response dear Emily I appreciate you taking the time to reach out to me but I must be honest with you the years of pain and hurt caused by the lies and manipulation by Mark and the Betrayal by dad have left deep scars that will never be truly healed while I understand that you are now aware of the truth and are genuinely sorry for what has transpired I find it difficult to Simply forgive and forget the Betrayal and abandonment I experienced at the hands of my own family have left me with a sense of distrust and resentment that can never be overcome the damage that has been done has impacted me in ways that you may never fully and truly understand and the idea of trying to reconcile now feels like an insurmountable task I have spent years in therapy trying to come to terms with the pain and deep trauma I endured and I have worked hard to build a wonderful life for myself that does not rely on the presence or approval of those who turn their backs on me while I am grateful for the apology and the Newfound awareness of the truth I do not feel compelled to rekindle a relationship that was built on lies deception and betrayal especially after all these years I have found found peace and closure in distancing myself from those who caused me harm and I do not see the need to reopen Old Wounds in the name of reconciliation while I believe in the power of forgiveness that isn't something I can give I wish you all the best in your life I really do but I must prioritize my emotional health and self-preservation above all else I hope you can respect my decision and understand that the wounds of the past will take a lifetime to heal I would appreciate it if you passed this fact on to the others and please don't reach out again I must look to my future and not my past sincerely op comments Jinx amagi Emily writes about the changes in the family after you left you didn't leave you were kicked out of your house with absolutely nothing even your grandparents wouldn't listen to you you were a 16-year-old a child they feel guilty let them leave them in your rear view mirror to throw away a child like that to not even talk to you your sperm donor is a horrible thing I hope the guilt eats him up you could have died and Mark wishes you death and misery for what because his mom married a guy with a son I wish you and your family all the best I am happy you realize that letting them back in will not serve you itchy bookkeeper 158 your dad is such a POS I still cannot believe what he did good riddance susha bentobox he is the absolute worst in all of this he believed the words of another male over his own son and the step brother vile despicable sociopath there's a special place in hell for him Second Story my wife betrayed me and our daughter by cheating on her girl's night and begging me for a second chance which I can't but mom is on my wife's side me 39m and my wife 33f have been together for 13 years she recently went away on a girl's trip I was not worried at all I have never had a reason to distrust her she has never done anything to give me cause for concern and it's not like she was even going abroad she was going to a butland half an hour away for God's sake she went with her sister and a few other girls she called me up this morning and I didn't expect anything other than her checking in she's only been away for one night of a three night trip when I answered she was crying and incoherent when I finally calmed her down she told me she had slept with someone else the night before supposedly she met a guy whom she approached they flirted a little and danced together and she thought that was as far as it would go but he supposedly just Charmed her into a kiss which turned to making out which turned to her asking him to walk her back to her hotel which turned into them having SX she says nothing was a Miss he wasn't pushy or weird and they actually had SX multiple times because she would say they needed to stop and he would stop immediately and then after a few minutes she'd want him to carry on and he would and he supposedly never even finished because of the stop starting this supposedly went on for 3 hours and she eventually said stop for good and asked him to leave and he did the guy is supposedly 10 years younger than her and she said she lied and told him she was going through a divorce she says she doesn't know what came over her and she just wanted to see if she still had it but got carried away 14 years married for 10 years and we have a seven-year-old daughter I want to leave her she's begging me not to offering marriage counseling never going out again never drinking again Etc I've always been a one chance sort of guy I just told her to go f herself and I have been ignoring her since about a.m. now her friends and sister are calling me too they apparently had no idea she'd even gone home with him they saw them talking but thought nothing of it I just want them all to leave me alone I told my mom about it and she said I should think of my family and that my wife seems genuinely remorseful didn't try to hide anything and came clean straight away it's not like she had an affair and that is bad as it is this is the best case scenario after that conversation I feel like I'm insane am I wrong for not even considering forgiving her top comments beneficial syrup 869 you're not wrong at all she broke your trust now every time she goes anywhere will she do this again and she didn't have SX with him once she told you it was multiple times turn your phone off and take your daughter out for a meal spend time with her before your wife gets home and starts love bombing you both and strong arming you see boot 74 to 13 you can forgive and forget but understand that you do not have to accept and stay edit please understand that I didn't say he had to forget what she'd done and stay with her I said forgive her for what she's done but that doesn't mean you have to stay because at the end of the day a very important boundary was broken by choice so he also deserves that same choice of being able to say I choose to walk away from this because of your actions to disrespect my boundaries when I say forget I mean forget the person from before the transgression that person is no longer there so that person is gone the person you loved didn't cheat on you that person is now in the past so forget that person and understand that the person before you now is something entirely new and move accordingly to who they are now and not who they once were no association 9968 trust is broken you are not wrong some will do marriage counseling but I personally couldn't forgive this 3 hours of deception is a long time and she knew it was wrong I'm so sorry op I get the one and done usual ostrich 8 and 597 dude leave all those times she was stopping the other guy from continuing she was probably questioning if she should continue and guess what she did it multiple times update so my wife came home tonight after giving me the day to cool off I asked to see the guy I don't know why maybe I'm a sucker for punishment and of course he looks like a superhero so that's great the guy looks like Anthony Joshua or something for the record my wife is beautiful like having Perfect Teeth working out regularly Etc I am not ugly but I am just just a typical English guy not overweight but could probably lose a few pounds a bit of a dad bod Etc I still have a full head of hair which is nice I always felt so lucky to be with her she was an amazing partner an amazing mother funny intelligent Etc I asked her to lay out what happened to me in more detail I wanted to catch any lies or changes in the story and test her consistency she basically says she was at the bar and the guy was standing next to her they glanced at each other and she said where did you come from to him he asked what she meant and she says she said he was the first handsome man she'd seen and that's how the conversation got started as for her telling him she was divorcing that happened when he glanced down noticed her ring and asked her about it apparently once she said that he went on to say not like I give an f either way what a gentleman I asked if she thinks he could have slipped her anything and she says it's impossible because they only did shots together I asked if she took any drugs and she admitted to doing coke with her friends which isn't all that surprising if you're from the UK and you're into drinking culture it's pretty standard a few of you seem to be Americans so let me explain what exactly a butland is it's basically a holiday Resort usually for families but they sometimes host adult exclusive weekends where it's a pretty big party place it's cheap grimy and can be a lot of fun people dress up there's DJs live music multiple venues late night entertainment Etc as for people saying she got caught by her friends she actually didn't she disappeared with the guy and went home with him she texted her friends she was tired and wanted to go to sleep and as they are on the resort and the hotel is like a 3-minute walk they all just said to text when she was safe in her room she was sharing a room with her sister but she was in their other friend's room drinking and doing coke because they thought she was sleeping she told the guy to leave at around 6:00 a.m. because she thought her sister might be coming back soon as that's when the party usually windes down I asked her how many time she had SX with the guy and she said four or five lasting between 5 and 10 minutes each time apparently even after cheating she never thought she'd sleep with a guy she says she just wanted to give him oral so she did that but the guy said he could only finish through SX she didn't believe him until 20 minutes later he still wasn't done so she gave up and climbed on top of him but then after about 5 minutes she thought what the f am I doing and got off him then she laid there and cuddled him and drank more and then 10 minutes later they would be touching each other again this was repeated four or five times she says that she kept thinking it was wrong but then would think it's too late now anyway so I might as well Carry On And basically go through a loop of that I asked her why she felt the need to see if she still had it and she says since she hit 30 she's been self-conscious of her aging when she spots a new wrinkle or something it drives her to tears she said that chatting with the guy made her feel young again and she latched on to that also so apparently the guy was there with a girl who my wife said looked like a younger version of herself and the guy pointed her out to my wife and said that girl over there watching us has a crush on me and laughed about it after he had been talking to my wife for like 30 minutes the girl had enough walked over and kicked the table spilling the guy's drink and then stormed off she says that the guy picking her over a younger woman drove her ego crazy and that was when she decided to kiss him I asked her why she even told me and she said that when she woke up she saw I'd sent a selfie of me and our daughter eating pizza together and it sent her into a nervous breakdown she was wailing and sobbing so loudly that it woke up her sister and that's when she confessed her sister told her she was insane for what she did and wasn't very comforting and then she left the room mad at her which made it worse and that's when she called me I have asked her to leave the house for a few days and she is staying at her mother's house while I decide what I want to do she begged me not to make her leave but she did when I said it was the least could do after blowing up our entire lives over wrinkles making her sad as for my mother she still thinks I should forgive her for context my dad died about a year ago and my wife has really been a rock for my mom I cannot see her as much as I would like due to my work but my wife is a self-employed lash and Nail Tech and has a lot of free time which she uses to spend with my mom to keep her company do her hair and have girly days to try and make sure she doesn't get lonely like I said she was such a perfect partner no I don't think my mom is is a cheater or whatever and she is very angry at my wife but she loves her and she just wants everything to be okay my daughter has no idea what is happening she was already asleep when my wife came and went again she will just think mommy is still on holiday I still have no idea what I'm going to do honestly I'm still reeling but that's basically everything top comments forever broke 12 what happens when she turns 40 or 50 when will she get her first gray hair menopause she cheated because she was scared of getting older but she was still going to keep getting older and not to mention from the story while the guy seems like a dck she seems like not a great role model either if she was totally okay with helping him hurt that other girls feelings fers her sister told her she was insane for what she did your wife's sister is absolutely on point this was rough to read through as an outsider I can't imagine how shtt it is to experience it firsthand international box 8009 if she knows she can get away with it she will do it again thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it 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author's names and original post links are provided in the description let's get into the video should I tell my GF I'm dying before I break up with her basically as title says I found out I have an illness that will end me it'll take over my body and there's no cure all the doctors can really do is prescribe sht to make you comfortable I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and she's the absolute love of my life always loyal and there for me I've been in and out of Hospital many times over the course of our relationship mostly due to me racing dirt bikes the most serious incident was a stab wound and I remember how scared and screamy she got even though I just needed stitches and got to go home the next day this is not something where I can just go home the next day I'm breaking up with her because she deserves to be happy with someone healthy who can give her the life she wants and children I'm scared she'll want to stay if I tell her what's going on part of me wants to lie and say I cheated so she hates me and leaves we have lots of mutual friends she'll find out eventually it was a lie and connect the dots on why I did it but thinking about her crying from that lie breaks my heart I don't even know if this is the right sub to post it on I just don't know what to do break up with her and tell her it's for her own good lie guess I also needed to vent because it just hit me this morning I found out last week but it just hit I won't see 30 edit for people asking me what my diagnosis and prognosis is it's pancreatic cancer something like 95% of people diagnosed with it pass away in about 3 years I wasn't even paying attention for not putting that in the post the beginning that's my bad but as you can tell I'm a little overwhelmed these days reading this replies there's no way I can reply to them all so I will do my best to do it here first off thank you to those saying kind things second I realize how dumb I was being for wanting to lie to her I made reservations at her favorite restaurant and I'll tell her afterwards Heart Of Me hopes she doesn't stay but we'll see what she chooses relevant comments O's thoughts I'm more scared of her staying rather than leaving I stayed by my friends side even having to make the decision to unplug him it's not a pretty sight watching someone you love deteriorate I'd prefer her to leave but we'll see what happens after dinner do you regret your decision to stay by his side I don't regret it but I'm not like her she's similar to my friend's mom cried every day and couldn't even visit him after the third month it sucks but it's true some people can't handle hospitals and there's nothing wrong with that do you have someone to make medical decisions for you I have a healthcare directive in place already I don't want anyone to be burdened with those decisions I know how stressful it can be proposing I've thought about marrying her ever since I saw her it's cliche and cheesy but I immediately fell in love with her eyes however after getting this diagnosis I don't want to marry her I can't let her be a widow this young I'm already on the hunt for a ring which she'll receive with a note and a gift from me after I'm done I don't want to marry her anymore but she'll know she's my one and only forever sorry for being cheesy or corny but at this point I don't Koo about any of that I'm dying L symptoms for those of you who might want to get tested went to the the doctors for a checkup because I was losing a weight despite my history of gaining maintaining my weight I work out 6 days a week and while I'm no pro athlete I'm by no means out of shape doctor blamed it on stress from work and said I can follow up with a specialist if I want medication for the stress went on with my life best I could but kept losing weight and everyone got worried went back to the doctors and they ordered blood work got the results which obviously were not good and got sent to a specialist while everyone thought the stressful job was the true reason I was getting tested and scanned at the hospital where they realized I have slight jaice they then asked what my crap was like and I thought AB it and told them apparently your poop tells you a lot more than just General Health tests and scans showed I have a growth blah blah blah you're now caught up to where I was told I have cancer and now we're here update post I told my girlfriend I'm dying took her to dinner at our favorite date spot had some amazing food and some drinks like always the date continued like normal we drove down to the beach and started walking till we got to our spot she spoke first and said that she could tell there's something I want to say because I have that look on my face she then made a joke about how it's too soon for us to get engaged so if there's a ring in my pocket it better say there this made it so much harder she thought there was a ring in my pocket when I'm about to tell her there never will be absolutely broke my heart I told her she's right there's something I want to say and I told her everything from how I found out to what the diagnosis means to the prognosis I made sure to not sugarcoated or leave anything out she deserved know everything for the next hour it was a mixture of asking me if I'm sure and how could this be possible and cry she immediately said she's going to stay by me and I don't need to worry about anything I told her she needs to take a few days to think about it I had already arranged for her best friend to be waiting in the other parking lot to take her to her house I went home alone before anyone calls me names for not driving her home I didn't want her to be alone after finding out but I also didn't want her to see my cry if she saw me tonight she'd get more scared it would hit her that un ter terrified and she'd lose her sht I got an update that she fell asleep because she cried so much I sent and Newber eats of her favorite dessert to her friend's house so it'll be there when she wakes up as soon as I'm done typing this I'm meeting up with my three closest friends to hang out I've known two of them for 20 years and the other one for 18 we're very close and share too many TMI details if anyone has suggestions on how to break the news of this to them I greatly appreciate it in the meantime I'll be drinking for two me and this Bast cancer edit sing post next day thank you for the kind words couple things to add one I'm in Canada so I have free healthcare I'm not worried about the cost of fighting this two I still haven't seen my girl as she's still at her friend's house she'll text me to ask how I'm feeling and gets mad when I say I'm fine or make a joke three telling others couple things you need to know about my friends two of them are in medical school and the other in law school they're still idiots though I started off by asking one of them to make a cancer joke ending it quickly with too soon man too soon and that's how my best friends found out I have cancer medical school friends started telling me about new drugs and treatments while my law school buddy demanded to see my medical directives form and that's also how they found out I've been an organ donor for years parents still don't know sister can't even pretend to have a clue on how to tell her I still see her as my baby sister so it's tough law boss asked for a one-on-one this morning and told him my diagnosis he said he'll help me use the company's benefits as much as I want I told told him all I really want is to show up to work like nothing's wrong and no one find out until I pass out at work he agreed my daily is a 2022 R1 blue Crotch Rocket for you non-motorcycle folks I love that bike and have been asked if I'll stop riding due to this short answer is hell no I've known I had something bad inside of me way before getting cancer life goes on and so will I I'll do my absolute best to keep youall updated if you'd like thanks relevant comments about the Stab Wound he had in the first post motorcycle accidents happened on track or Trails getting stabbed was a Tuesday night in the UK law the ones he's told so far I've told four people and given them all the choice to walk away with the good memories we've had three friends told me to f off and that I can't get rid of them waiting on my girl now LOL new update post she made her decision but went back on it for those who don't know me I'm 25m diagnosed with terminal illness I gave my girl an out if she wanted it you can read my posts for a better understanding sorry for being me it's been kind of crazy my girlfriend made the decision to not stay she said she doesn't think she can handle it and doesn't want me to have to take care of her when it should be the other way around I said I understand and will always love her paraphrasing here but that's the gist of it yesterday she called me and said she's thought about it and wants to stay she brought up all the other crap we've gotten over and how we always end up stronger she wants to talk about getting married and kids while I still can when I asked what made her change her mind she said she'll tell me after I answer no matter what I answer this made me me uncomfortable because she changed her mind I told her I need time to think but once again I'm back to you lovely people to ask what the heck do I do am I overthinking this while I'm here I'll tell y'all what happened with others Family told them while I was at my parents for dinner I brought my scans and test results and just explained it using facts not feelings I did this because my parents both hold PhD and are University professors I thought they'd accept it easier with evidence rather than feelings seeing my sister cry shattered my heart into a million pieces I just hugged her and said it'll be okay because now she knows she'll get my car soon she laughed a little and for some messed up reason that made everything okay to me friends the three Dum Dums I 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aita for refusing to let my estranged sister and her husband stay in mine and my husband's vacation home before we got married my husband used to live in a nice little house that he kept and added my name to the deed and we use as a vacation home now we only use it two or three times a year and so we do sometimes let friends or family stay there for a few days or a week if they want to get away this has never been a problem for us but now we were asked to let my aranged sister and her husband stay and I said no my husband is in 100% agreement with me on that my sister and her husband are at this present time homeless they were renting for several years and in the same place a long time but got Key asteris C out due to issues with their landlord and they're in desperate need of a place to stay until they can find a more permanent place BG my sister and I were very close growing up my best friend for my entire childhood was a guy the guy who is now married to my sister for those who can probably guess I always had a huge crush on him and honestly I was in love with him by the time we were 20 my sister also had a guy she lik but not super well when I was 20 we were all at a party and the guy my sister liked flirted with me my sister was pissed even though I didn't flirt back and told him I wasn't interested she told me we don't do anything with guys the other liked I agreed I never would have done that to her anyway a year or two later my relationship with my best friend changed he was flirting with me and I was flirting back he was more physically affectionate and he started kissing me and it felt like we were slowly becoming more than best friends things were progressing like that and then suddenly I discovered that him and my sister were a couple and had started sleeping together he told me he wanted to keep his options open and my sister told me she really liked him and she wanted me to understand I called her a hypocrite for doing that when she turned on me for the guy she had liked flirting with me after I turned him down and then promising and making me promise we'd never do this to each other she told me it was different I told her I would never trust her or look at her the same way again they told me I didn't own him I told him he was Foo asteris C up for leading me on when he wanted my sister our family took my side afterward especially my other two siblings I haven't seen or spoken to my sister or her husband since it's our parents who helped set up the request for a place to stay and they were disappointed when I said no my other sister and brother are firmly on my side and they were disgusted my sister and her husband would even dare ask me my sister said at least I get to live out my dream because I'm married with kids and she can't have any and the least I can do is put aside Petty childhood drama to help them not be homeless my sister and her husband called me a for refusing and even my parents said I was going too far with the estrangement by refusing to help Ita

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today we have a crazy story of Revenge involving pepper spray in ey drops we'll get into that in a bit but first The Strangers in the neighborhood I grew up in the beautiful city of Los Angeles and I must confess that my childhood through my teenage years were such a roller coaster one of the spectacular memories I hold fondly is the experience I had with two boys I would tag strangers when I was about 16 at that time I assisted my mother in our local grocery store which was a One-Stop shop in the neighborhood we lived in a neighborhood where everyone knew one another so it was easy for me to identify most of the faces that patronized us daily but this was not the case during festive Seasons most families received their loved ones in their homes and it was not unusual to see our store flooded with people who were mostly in a hurry to pick up their groceries one time during Christmas a lot of people flooded the neighborhood and I was surprised at how many sales we made daily in the rush of those moments I wondered if it was possible for anyone to pick up what they didn't pay for more than once we recorded the loss of items that weren't accounted for during that period when it happened the third time we knew we had to brace ourselves to catch the culprit before our entire store got stolen it was so painful to accept that someone was trying to rip us off our sweat or should I say my mother's sweat my mother was a single mother who toiled hard to put our store together Against All Odds she wanted to have something else to fall back on aside from the part-time job she did for so many years so the store had been our major source of livelihood and a huge part of our Lives I knew my mother was worried about the safety of the store and I hated to see the pensive look written all over her face to show how worried she was I hated any situation that would make things look uncertain for us I remember when I was a child I always dreamed of the time I would be rich enough to transform the store into big stuff it was a dream I've held dear for so many years so I knew much more than anyone that I had to make sure to put an end to that Menace that was threatening our peace first my mother suggested that we install cctvs around the store which obviously was a good idea but I knew it was going to to cost us a lot which we couldn't afford at that time so I suggested that we should keep a closer eye on the store because I believed it was possible to apprehend the culprit when I made that suggestion I had made a resolution to keep a close eye on every customer that came to the store thankfully we had come to the end of the festive period so it was easy to notice the people who came to the store daily but there had been a particular boy who was about 13 years old I had noticed how frequently he paraded the neighborhood like a lost sheep I wasn't sure I'd seen him before and the way he paraded the neighborhood Ood was something that baffled me there were times he had company a small boy who looked 1 to 2 years younger than him and was equally as weird as the older boy one evening I heard an elderly woman who lived close to the store let's call her Mrs D say that she didn't want to see those boys around her home it was strange to hear her say that because everyone knew Mrs D to be someone who kept to herself I knew there must be something about these boys that triggered people especially me but despite the reservations I had about the situation I knew there was there was nothing I could do day later when they came to the store to get some groceries I was a bit startled I was startled because nothing in the world would have prepared me for the plot twist that accompanied their visit to the store for the first time I realized that these boys who had brought all manner of thoughts to my head were the grandchildren of someone all call Mrs L A woman who was about 65 years old at the time there was something spectacular about Mrs L that made her a sinosure of All Eyes around the neighborhood history had it that she spent her gay years modeling for a huge fashion line in California and across the United States together with her Poise elegance and Beauty she also made some wealth for herself she retired to that neighborhood with her husband who died about 5 years after they built their mansion it took me a while before I could regain my composure at the sight of Mrs L with the children after their grocery shopping I decided to indulge Mrs L by asking about her health and well-being being a good friend of mine she couldn't keep the pleasure of introducing me to the boys whom she called her grandsons immediately I regretted all the wrong insinuations I'd garnered towards those children I could imagine what Mrs L would feel if she got to find out the wrong perception I'd had about her grandchildren immediately I repented all of my UNH wholesome thoughts and I felt sorry for the old lady whom I admire very much thankfully for some time we didn't record any losses and there were no items that couldn't be accounted for of course it was easy to let my guards down and be more relaxed because as far as I was concerned anyone who was terrorizing our store was no longer in the community so as expected I began to loosen up each time I saw the boys around the neighborhood at least I was sure that they came from a known face they visited the store regularly and it was almost impossible for me not to expect them every week either to pick some Essentials for their grandmother or to treat themselves to their favorite snacks however I couldn't seem to overlook how much money they spent on snacks every other day I knew it was out of my business but there was something that wasn't just all right with the way Mrs L's boys lavished money on snacks so many times I found myself warding off the possibilities that played on in my mind but after a particular scenario at the store I knew I had to unravel whatever air of mystery hung around those boys one day they shredded into the store as usual with their hands in their pockets and a shy smile on their lips that day they didn't get their favorite snacks but they got Essentials for Mrs L other customers also came in while I was attending to them so it was a bit difficult to allege the theft that happened at the store that day in a long time quite a number of items were missing and I was beyond myself with worries I was angry and sad because I knew I'd let my guards down yet again I knew that my mother would become very tense again and I didn't want that at that point I finally agreed to have cameras around our store even if I knew it was something that would cost us a bit of money at the time while I waited for the installation I decided to devise a stronger strategy that I believed would help us keep our Goods safe I had been gifted a compact camera when I turned 16 so I decided to put it to good use I kept the camera in a strategic position that could capture the shelves around the store so I got a good chance to capture each day's events unfortunately I was disappointed to see that there was no suspicious movement nor did we record any losses at the store after 3 days I remember how I carefully replayed the video clips before deleting them each day just to be sure I wasn't missing anything yet no one took anything on the days I kept the camera at that detective spot after about 4 days of not coming to the store to either buy Mrs L's Essentials or their favorite snacks these boys showed up at the store looking radiant and more confident than usual after attending to them warmly I made it clear that I was in no mood for chitchat even though we had become friends they paid for their Essentials and they left the store however I realized that the boys had left the store one after the other it then dawned on me that that had been the norm one of them would leave the store earlier than the other after engaging in a short chat with me leaving the other to pay for whatever they purchased it was so funny to me that I hadn't taken note of that Trend that day I discovered that we had recorded some lost items yet again and for the first time I almost choked in my breath I was so eager to get home so as to watch the video clips on my camera I didn't know why but I shook heavily as I settled down to watch watch the video I was stunned and I lacked the ability to drop my camera after I realized that my suspicions had been right all along the other boy that went out first had taken some items which I obviously didn't take stock of and of course which they didn't pay for either for a few seconds I couldn't think how could Mrs L's grandsons be caught in such an UNH wholesome act I wondered what she would do if I told her so many thoughts crossed my mind at the same time suddenly I became very angry I shuttered at the audacity the boys had in order to make our shop their den of theft I wondered if they had been the ones terrorizing our store all the while incurring loss upon loss on our small business I was determined to punish them I contemplated telling my mother about the boys and what they've done to her business but I knew that would only blow the situation out of proportion I felt for Mrs L I knew she was a good woman I wanted to protect her image at least as far as I could again the boys came to the store and I must confessed that they looked Regal on that occasion I wasn't surprised to see them look that way they obviously have been making money from their sales looking at how good they looked infuriated me even more it became clearer to me how much money they make by picking things that do not belong to them just when I was thinking if I should change my mind about reporting them to the authorities I realized that I couldn't and in fact I could no longer protect Mrs L it was Mrs D the other elderly woman who made me realize that those boys were Big Time klepto Maniacs who needed help she came to the store to get a couple of items and I could see how bitter she was given the way she ranted to me she asked me if I'd seen the two unique boys that paraded the street like young princes I answered her in the affirmative they uprooted some of my ornamental plants oh poor me I don't know how much money that would earn them Mrs D lamented with a voice stricken with age the boys didn't know that she could see them through her window so they thought they got lucky once again every detail was adding up as it became glaring to me why they were able to indulge themselves with expensive snacks they obviously got used to stealing from different places I gave my evidence to the police after my conversation with Mrs D and I was glad to see that the police did the right thing by coming over to pick them up from afar I could see Mrs L panting and agitating but I knew the children would be better off in a reform home for the next 3 months honestly it was probably for the best I don't really see any more constructive way of dealing with this and very obviously this isn't some like lowlevel Petty thing where they're just innocent kids getting in trouble I mean they're out there flaunting wearing nice stuff buying tons of snacks from the place that they're stealing from this is like well understood what we're doing kind of behavior also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy crazy stories of Revenge it would be amazing if you left a like or left a review if you're listening to my podcast that said our next story is like mother like daughter I female 39 never realized that I could ever be this Petty as a parent not until I had to experience a few things with my child female 19 and after coming to the realization that she wasn't ever going to listen to me or rather change her ways I just decided to leave her to her vices and watch how things play out following some certain events she eventually realized her mistake in life and surely enough she was eagerly awaiting or in a much clearer sense anticipating her return back home almost akin to the prodigal child but I wasn't having that I really wanted her to learn her lesson after everything she had said to me and I didn't feel like she had really done so when she got back so I made her realize it myself some might view this as strict parenting but it was nothing of the sort on my end this was just me simply not being the bigger person and basically treating my daughter the exact same way she did me when all I was trying to do was just be a good mother Andor parent I was really irresponsible back when I was still in my teenage years in fact I was even more promiscuous than anyone could ever have imagined thinking back now I guess it was just all my hormones at the time seriously raging as I was quite literally a problem child for my family I was always getting into trouble and more often than not I always needed my parents to come to my rescue they never failed to be there for me but there comes a point in one's life where the consequences for certain mistakes cannot be covered up anymore and little did I know that slowly but surely my parents Andor family were getting quite tired and stressed out by my irresponsible behavior and as a means to really make me understand reason and responsibility the very last time that I got into trouble I was left to cater for myself and this time I think the trouble I might have gotten myself in was a serious one so serious that I was looking at spending some jail time because I was already legally recognized by the law to be a legal adult I was meant to provide a legal guardian to represent me but seeing as the only people I had in my life that were always there for me had already decided that this time there was nothing they could have some form in that situation and that they really wanted me to dance to the tune of my music I was left on my own for the entirety of that night and for the following nights after that for the entirety of the week and almost for the next few weeks if not for the thoughtful intervention of My caring mother who didn't want to see her child really suffer and not be able to come home as this was the decision of my father alone she quite literally came to my rescue and I guess truly at the time that was truly what I wanted or rather needed anyways ultimately I was able to come back home and when I finally did I honestly wasn't expecting any form or show of love for my father and any other member of my family as my mother had already informed me of how disappointed every single person in my family wasn't me and surely they didn't disappoint most especially my father and right after that incident I made absolute certainty to have a complete change of my Manner and attitude towards things it really was something I didn't realize or think I would have to come to the conclusion of doing but I did it because I had already resolved myself and I was definitely going to be a better person and I was going to make sure that my children when I did have them weren't ever going to follow my footsteps and even if they were on the verge of doing so and it seemed like there was nothing I could do I could always just resort to the same method used by my parents now let's fast forward a little bit right after this time I became quite the model student and the ideal child obviously this didn't all happen immediately as it was something that took quite a while to achieve but I ultimately did it and right when I got into college I'd met this guy who would later turn out to be my soulmate the one I would get married to and the one who would make me attain the level of mother of three beautiful girls we weren't really invested in the relationship for quite a while as we both had other things we had said in our minds at the time things like actually graduating with a good enough grade at the time because school was already tough enough as it was but then right after graduation we then both realized that surely we both had deep feelings for each other and these feelings were more than just one amongst friends and definitely more than a common likeness after quite a while of being friends we finally decided to become Partners in a relationship as this happened right after graduating college we were both quite literally in sync with each other we both knew what the other person wanted and it was something that both of us did for one another effortlessly at some point in my life I was definitely sure that he was the one for me and when I realized he truly was the one for me it didn't even take as long as I knew I wanted him at this point in time anyways it honestly didn't take us long while in the relationship as we both really were in love with each other and right after he secured a stable job he ultimately proposed within the first 3 years of us dating it just felt right and within the first few months of getting married we immediately got to experience the joy that most parents had been longing for for quite a while which is the joy of making a new life we unlike most other parents were quite ready for this but I guess no parent is ever truly ready to have a child or make new life love and care completely for the new child and all because For the First Time no one is a perfect parent we had our first daughter right before even celebrating our oneyear anniversary and our other two daughters came 5 years after the first as they were both Twins and they had an elder sister to look up to now you might be thinking we have quote the perfect family my partner was making a stable enough income to cater and provide for for the needs and wants of his family all while maintaining the households and to add to it I was also undergoing a paid internship at one of the hospitals in the vcinity as recommended by a friend of mine and right after the internship I was informed that it was one of the best they'd ever had in quite a while when I was done with my internship period I was most definitely going to be retained by the institution well to start off my daughter had always been some set of a troublemaker and this was quite the habit I didn't find myself in because she really reminded me of myself and this was when she was still a baby I couldn't have what happened to me happened to my baby girl and so I decided to go for a more strict approach as I'd felt like this was the only way I could control her actions to a certain extent where I would be able to make sure that she doesn't fall into the same ditch I did when she grows up ultimately I must admit this was one of the mistakes I'd made when raising her I didn't realize that I was making quite the mistake when raising my daughter until she'd grown up to become quite the lady just in her late teens she was already getting involved with the wrong friend group and it seemed like my warnings and strict means of parenting weren't even having the slightest effect at all I tried my best as a parent and as a mother and on some occasions I would even try to make it known to her that we had two younger siblings who were quite literally looking up to her while they were growing up but it always seemed like the talks I had with her were falling on deaf ears and then a similar event like what happened to me when I was right about her age had happened yet again right before my eyes and after I tried my best to offer the best possible advice to my daughter just as you would guess she completely ignored my warnings and words of advice as she felt they didn't know what I was talking about little did she know that I was the only and quite literally the best person to offer her some words of advice but after realizing that she couldn't change her mind I just went along with whatever it was that she was going to do and just as you would obviously expect she got to experience the world for what it truly was and also how cruel it could be as when she ultimately returned she or rather I was expecting her to have a change of heart and mind and basically reflect on her actions and how they've affected her and all but instead I got some of the most gut-wrenching insults I could have ever received from none other than my own daughter she was apparently blaming me for her terrible decision-making calling me a bad mother and all this was really tough for a mother to hear words like this coming from her very own daughter's mouth it's not something I would want most or even any mother to experience it was a really intense argument but I can say for a fact that I wasn't going to take all that she said laying down I decided right then and there to make her accountable for her actions and words by tbling the issue before her father my partner who ultimately decided to send her to a whole different country where we had a distant relative who lived with our grandparents as a means for her to learn manners and mannerisms by force she seriously thought it was was a joke up until the moment when I presented her with her passport and her traveling ticket this was the moment she was already beginning to feel some semblance of remorse but my mind was already made I was going to make sure that she bore the consequences of her actions this was when she began pleading and quite literally weeping as she didn't want to leave behind everything and everyone she knew things got so intense to the point where I was already beginning to feel bad but the only thing that was keeping me firm on my decision was the fact that her words hurt me down to my core I had to do what needed to be done regardless of whether or not she would eventually gate me in the future and that was how the day came for her to leave and I just couldn't bear to see her when she was leaving I guess no matter what she does she is still my baby girl and I am still her mother I mean I can't imagine how it would feel in a position where you try to do everything you could to turn your kid on the right path and nothing worked and they kind of had a history repeating itself moment but it is kind of funny that Opie was like all right I'm finally putting my foot down as a parent and shipping her off to somebody else so they can instill some stuff in her our next story is my college roommate got her eye drops pepper sprayed my best friend from high school and I planned to rent an apartment together in our first year of college why we didn't want to stay in the school dorm and get paired with just anybody we had read and watched enough movies with roommate horror stories that we'd rather just stay together when we both got into college however my mom changed her mind about letting me stay in an apartment away from campus she claimed her reason for insisting was my safety and that students who live on school campuses tend to do better than students who live in town but I knew that was a lie the apartments outside campus were very expensive and my mom could not afford it but my mom would never say that we didn't have enough money never anyway my roommate went on to rent an apartment with one of the other girls from high school and I was assigned to a dorm room on campus I was the first person to move into the room and I really liked it there it had huge Windows the room was just the right temperature and the hallway always were quiet compared to other Halls my first roommate didn't last more than a week she was pleasant and I liked her we eventually became friends but she wasn't comfortable with having a roommate she admitted that she enjoyed my company but she wanted her privacy she left the room after a week and she was immediately replaced by the new roommate who was a complete weirdo I decided that I hated her on the first day I met her when she came into the room I wasn't around I was visiting my best friend the new roommate moved in arranged all her stuff in her corner of the room and marked the boundary of our spaces with chalk it was too ridiculous she drew a vertical line in the middle of the rooms as if from the room decor it wasn't obvious which space belonged to whom I hated her that minute I didn't ask her about the chalk but I didn't even speak to her either I just ignored her all the time that worked perfectly for us even though you could cut the animosity in the room with a knife it worked until one day I had just hosted my former roommate and my best friend from high school in my room room and when they left my roommate warned me never to invite them into the room anymore I asked why and she said they made a lot of noise while my friends were not exactly quiet people they were far from being loud too I told her this and told her she was just jealous because I had friends and she didn't that upset her and she threatened to report me to the office of the dean of student affairs if I ever brought them into the room again I was not affected by her threats I told her to go on and report me the week after my friends were back back in the room but I made them keep it down because of my roommate still my roommate was uncomfortable she kept telling us to keep it down at some point she started groaning and rolling on her bed as though our voices put her through pain my friends were so irritated by her behavior that they said they were never coming over to mine again I managed to change their minds though and they started to visit again to the annoyance of my roommate one day I returned to my room and met my ex- roommate in the room she said my roommate had just left and that she told her that she'd heard me and my friend from high school gossip about her my former roommate admitted that she was surprised at first and interested in the story my roommate had for her until she realized that my roommate didn't say anything she kept telling her that we discussed her but she couldn't say exactly what we discussed even though my ex- roommate asked her many times I was angry that my roommate was trying to stir up trouble between my friend and me I didn't understand why the only reason I didn't like her in the first place was because she was never friendly I'd never done anything to offend her and even when she complained about my friends being too loud I begged them to keep their voices down I was going to confront her but my friends advised against it one of them said she's just not worth it thankfully I told the guy I was seeing at the time too I told him what she said to my friend and he also advised me to ignore her now imagine my shock when one day my boyfriend called me and asked me to come see him outside he'd apparently seen my roommate at the library and said hello to her she called him aside and told him I was seeing some other guy I don't even think she wanted him to believe her or cared if any of them believed her she just wanted to make it clear that she hated me and was trying to do something to sabotage my relationships at the time my boyfriend was quite insecure I was already dealing with that in my relationship so I worried that he'd believe her or at least want to ask me about it but he didn't believe her he said he told her that she was being a weirdo and she laughed and said he was an idiot I knew my roommate was reserved I knew she was socially awkward and maybe didn't even desire any kind of interaction with other human beings but I didn't expect her to be a sneaky evil person still my boyfriend asked me not to confront her but I didn't listen I went up to my dorm room and confronted her about it she laughed and insisted that I've been cheating on my boyfriend she even made up something about walking on me making out with a guy I was taken aback by her lies and withdrew immediately that night I could not sleep I just didn't believe that she or even anyone could do something like that for no reason that night I swore I was going to get my revenge against her I wanted her to leave the room I needed her to leave I could no longer stand being in the same room as her my roommate didn't stop telling lies about me she probably enjoyed the confusion on my face when I confronted her she went on to tell the girls in the room next two hours that I'd said different stuff about them those girls confronted me and even though I tried to defend myself and even added that she' told the same thing to my friend and boyfriend they were was still skeptical our relationship went downhill after that I'd only lived with my roommate for 2 months at the time and she'd already become a pain in my butt the last draw happened when she saw my boyfriend on campus with one of his friends she walked up to him and told him again that I was cheating my boyfriend was embarrassed because his friend was there and even though he did not believe her and told her so his friend didn't understand why my roommate would just lie about stuff without any provocation on my part he was convinced that my roommate was telling the truth and the more my boyfriend defended me the more he looked stupid to his friend later that day my boyfriend told me what had happened again this time he didn't sound completely convinced that my roommate was lying I tried to tell him that she was lying and that she was sick and he said he' believed me but it just didn't seem like it that evening I went to my friend from high school to ask for her opinion on what was going on I needed suggestions on how to not just get back at my roommate but also get her out of the room my friend's only suggestion was that I report her formally I didn't want to do that my roommate was a good orator I knew she had represented her school in different oratory competitions she also looked innocent and was smaller than me nobody would believe that she wasn't telling the truth I decided to get back at her in another way my roommate uses glasses and eye drops every morning she uses her eye drops before leaving for her classes the only option I had for Revenge was either to damage her glasses or do something to the eye drops she didn't have any friends that I knew of so that was the only way I saw her when she went out one Thursday evening I sneaked to her corner of the room picked up one of her two eye drops and sprayed a bit of my pepper spray in it the next morning I was in the bathroom when my roommate used her eye drops I just entered the room and found her and one of the girls in the Next Room holding her while she screamed I'm not going to lie I felt some sort of excitement watching her in agony her face has always been devoid of emotions so seeing her show that much emotion pleased me the campus ambulance was called and she was taken away that evening I was invited to the student affairs unit and I saw her there with her father I learned that day that her dad was a professor in the school she had told the dean that I must have been the one who put pepper spray in her eye drops I vehemently denied it and even shed a few tears telling them what she did to me and how despite what she did I've always tried to be on her good side I was taken back to my dorm room with campus security to search my stuff I guess they wanted to see if I owned pepper spray they'd ask me at the office and I said I didn't luckily I'd watched enough crime series to know that you never ever kept the weapon immediately I squeezed out the pepper spray left the room and threw it in the dormitory's incinerator it was a dome filled with stuff women who regularly threw stuff in it it was a dome filled with stuff from women who regularly threw stuff in it from cosmetic bottles and Plastics to Old makeup to pads and tampons I knew it would get filled up and a little time the school LED no proof that I did it I kept denying it and my story was consistent so they let me be her dad refused to let her go back to the room though he insisted that his daughter couldn't live with someone like me I was glad when she left and luckily she wasn't replaced so for the rest of my freshman year I was alone in my room a privilege that many people wanted but did not enjoy this does seem pretty messed up I'm not going to lie I've heard time and time again from people who have experienced pepper spray that it's just about the worst feeling they've ever experienced I remember hearing a story from Johnny Knoxville who tested Dart tasers and also getting pepper sprayed and he said the pepper spray was the worst thing of all basically if you want mobile protection don't worry about those little handheld tasers if you can legally carry it where you live pepper spray but also make sure you practice with it every now and then to make sure it's still working and you know how to use it but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy Revenge story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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my mother-in-law started stealing from our house during our stay with us and when I told my wife about it my wife stopped talking to me I 34m grew up in a modest middleclass family in a small town my parents were hardworking people who always focused on my education and future my father worked as a mechanic often taking on extra shifts to make ends meet my mother was a part-time receptionist at a local clinic and also did some freelance tailoring work from home they weren't Wealthy by any means but they made sure I never lacked anything essential from a young age my parents filled in me the value of hard work and dedication they taught me that success doesn't come easy and that I'd have to put in effort to achieve my goals I remember my father always saying son there's no substitute for hard work if you want something you've got to earn it despite not having much my parents always found a way to support my education they bought me books paid for extra tuition when I needed it and even saved up to buy me a secondhand computer when I started High School their dedication to my future was untiring and it motivated me to study hard and make them proud their sacrifices paid off I managed to get good grades throughout school and secured a scholarship to a reputable University I studied business management and graduated with honors soon after I landed a well-paying job at a multinational corporation as soon as I could afford it I bought my parents a modest but comfortable house in a nice neighborhood it was my way of showing gratitude for everything they done for me the look of pride and happiness on their faces when I handed them the keys is something I'll never forget about 5 years ago my life took an interesting turn when I met Samantha 32f at an office seminar she was from a different branch of our company and we were both attending a training session on new management techniques I was immediately drawn to her intelligence and wit we started chatting during the coffee breaks and found we had a lot in common after the seminar we exchanged numbers and started meeting regularly as we got to know each other better I learned about her family background unlike my family Samantha's family used to be quite wealthy her father had owned a successful real estate business and they had lived in a large house in an upscale neighborhood Samantha had attended private schools and had been used to a luxurious lifestyle however things had changed significantly for her family in recent years due to a series of poor financial decisions and some risky Investments her father's business had collapsed they lost most of their fortune and were now drowning in debt they had to sell their big house and move to a small apartment it was a huge adjustment for the family especially for Samantha's parents who were used to a certain standard of living Samantha being a good student had managed to secure a decent job in our company she was hardworking and ambitious much like me however I soon noticed a troubling pattern in her relationship with her parents especially her mother her parents unable to accept their reduced circumstances constantly pressured Samantha for money they used emotional manipulation to get what they wanted I remember one incident clearly we had been dating for about 6 months when Samantha received a call from her mother while we were having dinner her mother was crying saying they couldn't pay the rent and would be evicted if Samantha didn't help Samantha immediately transferred money to them canceling our plans for a weekend getaway we had been saving for this wasn't a one-time occurrence her parents especially her mother would guilt trip her by saying things like if you really loved us you'd help us out or we gave you everything when you were growing up and this is how you repay us they seem to have no regard for Samantha's own Financial stability or future I tried to make Samantha see that her parents were taking advantage of her but she always defended them they're going through a tough time she'd say or they've always been there for me I can't abandon them now it was frustrating to watch but I tried to be supportive there were countless instances that showed how her parents were exploiting her kindness once when Samantha's car broke down she asked her parents for help since she had just given them a large sum of money to pay off some urgent debts they told her they couldn't afford to help and that she should be more responsible with her finances I was Furious but Samantha just seemed resigned despite this she still sent them money the next month when they asked for help with medical bills when I first met Samantha's parents about a year into our relationship I was taken aback by their behavior her mother's first question to me after barely a hello was are you rich it made me incredibly uncomfortable but I brushed it off for Samantha's sake throughout the dinner they kept making subtle and sometimes not so subtle inquiries about my job my salary and my family's background it felt more like an interview than a casual Meet the Parents dinner as time went on I noticed how often they would call Samantha asking for money they always had an excuse a broken appliance an unexpected bill or a can't miss investment opportunity that would surely turn their fortunes around Samantha would always give in even if it meant dipping into her savings or maxing out her credit cards 3 years after we started dating Samantha and I got married it was a beautiful ceremony though I couldn't help but notice how Samantha's parents complained about every little detail that wasn't up to their standards I had hoped that her parents would back off after our wedding realizing that Samantha now had her own family to think about but if anything they became more persistent Samantha 's mother would call almost weekly always with a new financial crisis that only we could solve it started to put a strain on our relationship we'd argue about budgets and spending with Samantha always defending her decision to help her parents one particularly frustrating incident happened on our first wedding anniversary we had planned a nice dinner at an upscale restaurant something we'd been saving for months just as we were leaving Samantha's mother called claiming she needed money for an emergency dental procedure Samantha without hesitation transferred the money cancelling our dinner plans because we couldn't afford both I was upset but tried to be understanding however a week later we found out through Samantha's cousin that their mother had used the money for a spa day with her friends when confronted her mother brushed it off saying she needed some stress relief another time Samantha's parents asked for a loan to start a small business they promised to pay us back with interest within 6 months against my better judgment we gave them a substantial amount nearly depleting our savings 6 months came and went and there was no business and no repayment when Samantha gently asked about it they acted offended and said she was being greedy and unsupportive the situation was taking a toll on our marriage we couldn't plan for our future or save for big purchases because there was always some crisis with her parents that needed funding vacations were postponed home improvements were put on hold and our dream of starting a family seemed to be slipping away I tried to be patient and supportive but it was becoming increasingly difficult I suggested that Samantha seek therapy to help her set boundaries with her parents but she refused saying I was overreacting I proposed setting a monthly limit on how much we could give her parents but she said that was too transactional for a family relationship the situation came to a head last week Samantha was upset because her parents had asked for money again this time for a cousin's wedding gift they promised to pay back previous loans swearing things would be different this time despite my objections Samantha gave them the money but was complaining to me about how they never keep their promises I'd had enough at this point years of frustration and resentment came pouring out I told Samantha look I understand they're your parents but this has to stop they're taking advantage of you and it's affecting our financial stability and our relationship you have two choices either you stop giving them money and set clear boundaries or you keep doing what you're doing but stop complaining to me about it I can't keep watching you get hurt and stressed over this I went on to explain how their constant demands were affecting our lives we couldn't save for our future we were postponing our plans to start a family and we were constantly stressed about money despite both having good jobs I pointed out how her parents never seemed to appreciate her sacrifices or make any effort to improve their own situation Samantha got very upset she accused me of being cold and not understanding her relationship with her parents she said I was trying to come between her and her family and that I was being selfish she brought up how I had bought a house for my parents conveniently ignoring the fact that it was a one-time gift not a constant drain on our resources I tried to explain that I wasn't asking her to cut off her parents completely just to set some healthy boundaries I suggested we could help them find Financial counseling or look into government assistance programs but Samantha wasn't having any of it she stormed off saying I could never understand because I didn't come from a respectable family like hers it's been a few days and things are still tense between us Samantha's barely speaking to me giving me the cold shoulder and making passive aggressive comments yesterday I overheard her on the phone with her mother promising to send more money next week it feels like we're back to square one I love my wife and I want to support her but I'm at my wit's end with this situation I feel like I'm watching her be manipulated and taken advantage of and there's nothing I can do about it it's affecting our marriage our future plans and our day-to-day happiness I've tried talking to my own parents about this seeking their advice they're sympathetic but admit they don't know how to handle such a situation my father suggested I try to talk to Samantha's parents directly but I fear that would only make things worse I'm starting to wonder if I'm the problem am I being too harsh should I just accept that this is how things are going to be and learn to live with it but then I think about our future about the family we wanted to start and I feel angry and frustrated all over again so rdit and am I wrong for wanting to put our financial stability and our future first or am I being insensitive to my wife's family ties I'm lost and could really use some outside perspective on this update it's been two weeks since my last post and I wanted to update you all on the situation with my wife and her parents things have taken a dramatic turn and I'm still processing everything that's happened after our argument about her parents constant Financial demands my wife and I weren't on speaking speak in terms the tension in our house was intense we slept in separate rooms and only communicated when absolutely necessary I was hoping we'd eventually cool down and be able to have a rational discussion but things took an unexpected turn one evening I came home from work to find my mother-in-law in our living room my wife informed me that her mother would be staying with us for a week to help settle things between us I was shocked and angry that my wife had made this decision without consulting me especially given our current disagreement however I bit my tongue not wanting to escalate the fight with my wife the first few days of my mother-in-law's stay were uncomfortable to say the least she acted as if nothing was wrong making herself at home in our space I tried to be polite for the sake of Peace but I couldn't shake the feeling that her presence was making things worse not better as the days passed I started noticing some strange occurrences around the house small items began to go missing a watch I rarely wore some cash I had in my desk drawer even some of my wife's costume jewelry at first I thought I was just misplacing things due to stress but then I noticed a pattern every time something went missing my mother-in-law would return from her outings with new shopping bags I tried to talk to my wife about this but she brushed off my concerns she said things like Mom's been through a lot she probably just wanted to treat herself a little it's not a big deal her dismissive attitude frustrated me but I didn't want to push the issue without concrete proof the situation came to a head about 5 days into my mother-in-law's stay I was at work when I received a frantic call from my wife she was in tears barely able to get the words out when she finally calmed down enough to speak what she told me sent a chill down my spine my wife had discovered that her mother had stolen her credit card and a significant amount of her jewelry including some family heirlooms now my mother-in-law wasn't answering her phone and my wife didn't know what to do I left work immediately and rushed home when I arrived I found my wife in a state of panic she had torn apart the guest room looking for her missing items but to no avail I tried to calm her down and suggested we call her father to see if he knew anything when we reached my father-in-law he seemed genuinely surprised by the news he said he hadn't heard from his wife all day which was unusual however what bothered me was his immediate defense of her he told us not to jump to conclusions or accuse her of anything it was clear he was either in denial or compl licit in her behavior we spent the next few hours trying to reach my mother-in-law but all our calls went straight to voicemail we were about to call the police when my wife's phone rang it was her mother my wife put the call on speaker her mother's voice came through sounding distressed but with a flow of manipulation that I had come to recognize she claimed she was at home and needed money urgently to pay off a lone shark she swore she had borrowed money to invest in a sure thing but it had fallen through and now the lender was threatening her my wife was angry she demanded to know about the credit card and the missing jewelry her mother feigned ignorance at first then quickly changed tactics saying she had only borrowed them and intended to return everything once this crisis was over she begged my wife to help her one last time I had heard enough years of frustration hatred and anger boiled over I took the phone from My Wife and told her mother no uncertain terms that if she didn't return everything she had stolen within 24 hours we would be going to the police I then hung up my hands shaking with anger my wife stood there Shell Shocked the reality of her mother's actions seemed to finally sink in she broke down sobbing uncontrollably despite my anger my heart broke for her I held her as she cried feeling sad when she had calmed down we sat down to talk it was the first real conversation we'd had in weeks I told her that I couldn't continue living like this the constant stress the financial drain and now direct theft it was too much I laid out an ultimatum either we cut ties with her parents and seek therapy to work on our issues or I would file for divorce I hated having to resort to such drastic measures but I felt I had no choice our marriage had been suffering for years because of her parents influence and this latest incident was the last straw I loved my wife but I couldn't stand by by and watch her be manipulated and abused any longer to my relief my wife didn't argue the theft seemed to have finally opened her eyes to the toxic nature of her relationship with her parents she agreed that we needed to set firm boundaries and seek help to work through our issues the next day my mother-in-law showed up at our door with a bag containing my wife's jewelry and credit card she tried to explain herself spinning a tale of desperation and good intentions but my wife wasn't having it for the first time I saw my wife stand up to her mother she told her that she needed help but we wouldn't be the ones to provide it anymore she said they needed time apart to reevaluate their relationship and until her mother sought professional help for her issues they wouldn't be in contact it was a difficult conversation filled with tears and recriminations from my mother-in-law but my wife stood firm when her mother left I felt a weight lift off both our shoulders in the days that followed we took several steps to protect ourselves we changed our locks canceled and replaced all our credit cards and set up fraud alerts on our accounts we also reached out to a therapist who specializes in family issues and codependency it's been a week since then and things are still raw my wife has moments of doubt and guilt but she's committed to working on herself and our marriage we've had long honest conversations about our future and what we want from our relationship for the first time in years I feel hopeful about our future together we've also started to reconnect with friends we had drifted away from from due to the constant family drama it's been refreshing to spend time with people who respect our boundaries and don't have ulterior motives my wife's father has called a few times alternating between guilt tripping and pleading for us to reconsider we've stayed firm in our decision reiterating that until her mother seeks help we won't be in contact it's been hard for my wife but she understands it's necessary for our well-being looking back I realize I should have pushed harder for boundaries earlier in our relationship I was so afraid of coming between my wife and her family that I allowed the situation to spiral out of control it's a mistake I won't make again I'm grateful for the advice and support I received from my previous post it gave me the courage to Stand My Ground and fight for our marriage we have a long road ahead of us but for the first time in a long time I feel like we're on the same page to those who might be in a similar situation don't wait until things reach a Breaking Point set boundaries early communicate openly and don't be afraid to seek help your peace of mind and the health of your relationship are worth it thank you all for listening and I'll update again if there are any significant developments

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AI for not removing my inappropriate bathroom mat for when my mother came over I 24m recently got married in one of the home Waring gifts I received from my dad 45m is a bath mat that says get naked on it it's hilarious and it's proudly displayed in the bathroom my wife finds it hilarious too because she appreciates the close relationship I have with my father as you can tell my dad had me pretty young and we have a very close relationship he bought me the house I share with my wife beia 24f and he is the coolest parent ever we get each other silly gifts all the time and it's the way our relationship Works he raised me by himself until he met my stepmother I call her mom but for the purpose of the post I'll call her stepmother when I was sick he was technically with my biological mother until I was four but she was neglectful and abusive hence why he did all the child care himself I've been trying to rekindle the relationship with her since I was 14 but it's gone bust multiple times we've been consistently in contact for the past 3 years and we are slowly making improvements although there is a long way to go at my wedding we had a motherson dance alongside the fatherdaughter dance and I danced with my stepmother instead of my biological mother no one was shocked by this besides my biological mother she was really hurt by this so I've begun to put a bit more effort into our relationship I'm not going to hold her actions from 20 odd years ago against her anymore when she's being apologetic and has done the work to improve herself my stepmother is fiercely protective over me and even she admits my biom mother is making a lot of progress my biom mother is also very religious and conservative she came over to my house for the first time and saw the mat I knew it may have been an issue with her but thought that she wouldn't comment on it she tried to tell me it was sinful and that I should remove it and when I told her it was from my dad she said it was childish of him to give me something like that her main thing against my dad is to call him childish because he's younger than her by 3 years I think not even sure how old she is tbh and apparently the mat was another iteration of his inability to grow up FYI he is a successful doctor with five more children that are being raised perfectly I can't even call them demon younger siblings because they are angel I told her that I was not going to remove the mat just because she was at my house she said it was inconsiderate we argued and she left my wife thinks that she was overreacting although my friends said I should have removed it because most older people aren't as chill as my parents dad and stepmom so I should have anticipated her reaction she is mad at me now and thinks that I don't care about rekindling our relationship AIT

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today we have a great story where somebody finally has enough and gets some Pro Revenge we'll get into that in a bit but first don't do your job so I have to work loads of unplanned overtime then you refuse my day off have fun filling my shoes full story I worked for the fastest growing home security and automation company in Canada slusa a few years ago it starts with v and ends with int it was a job I loved and I regret quitting to this day after spending a summer as an install Tech in which I had half the service tickets of the next best person in the office and 90% of my tickets were the result of one incompetent cooworker who frequently helped me I got a permanent position as a service tech this was a job I loved was great at and was reasonably fast despite providing exceptional firsttime fixed rates customer service and upsales service was almost identical to being an install Tech except 90% of my work was fixing or removing systems instead of installing them enter my manager I'll call him Vinnie not his real name Vinnie had been with the company 3 or four years longer than me he hired me for the permanent position after a recommendation from my summer manager the only problem the new manager was a classic fulfillment of the Peter principal he had been promoted Beyond his level of competence my first three weeks were training and Vinnie put me with my team lead who happened to be a guy I grew up with by day two I'd already learned all the service tech software tools that install Tech didn't have access to and was ready to be on my own I literally didn't learn anything new for the rest of the 3 weeks the problem was that Vinnie had not set up my employee profile yet fair enough I'll wait on day three my team lead and I went to a customer's home to remove their system team lead just wanted to rip it out and go home I listened to the customer and it sounded like she didn't feel the system protected her the way she wanted so I upsold her $1,800 worth of equipment which we installed immediately that's a $600 commission the problem this ticket tiet which should have been mine was not mine because my profile was not set up yet team lead took the credit and got the $600 commission and treated me to McDonald's as a reward 3 weeks pass and Vinnie still hasn't set up my employee profile so I start hounding him finally on Friday he says he'll get it set up by the next Monday 4 weeks from hire he calls me 2 hours later to say that it's done and I'll be on my own taking my own tickets on Monday great news so Monday comes and I'm on my own finally new problem none of the software tools are working for me I end up having to call into the software support center on almost every freaking ticket this of course makes me take more time to complete everything from then on so for 4 to 5 days each week I end up working 1 to 4 hours of overtime when I should have been getting home early 90% of the time based on my workload 5 months into this crap show my church which was the same Faith as Vinnie and team leads holds a major regional activity for singles in my age group with about a 2 weeks notice on a Friday for the first week after the announcement I'm so busy with work that I completely forget to ask the day of the event off so at lunch on Friday a week before the event I email Vinnie to make the request so that I wouldn't forget again Vinnie calls me at the end of the day on Monday saying that I need to reassign or reschedule all of my tickets for that day which is actually Vinnie's job and then I can have the day off but there's a catch one ticket cannot be rescheduled I had visited that customer the week before the last ticket of the day she had had a huge cluster freak of problems with her system for 3 months and with my software tools still not working it would take me around two full days of work to resolve all of those issues even after the 4 hours I'd already spent there despite it not being my job to do so I managed to reschedule most of my tickets for the following week but I call called everyone in my office including my team lead and nobody would take that one ticket I called Vinnie twice that week to tell him that nobody would take the ticket I even offered to pay my co-workers $50 out of my own pocket on top of their regular pay I found out that one of my co-workers had rescheduled that ticket which is why it ended up on my plate with each phone call Vinnie kept saying it's your responsibility to find someone to take that ticket and you cannot reschedule it so Thursday night at 8: PM having been unsuccessful in finding anyone to take the ticket I left a voicemail on Vinnie's phone that I would not be coming into work the next morning and would in fact not be coming in at all Vinnie called 20 minutes later saying he rescheduled the ticket I could have the day off and begged me to at least finish out the two weeks I told him that I'd only finish out the two weeks if I could resend my notice he refused so I said then we have nothing else to discuss click 6 weeks later he got fired freak Kim I heard from former co-workers that he had basically been quiet quitting he'd been building a house in another city an hour away and was basically just collecting paychecks as long as he could and as for my team lead that got my $600 commission he refused to give me a reference despite me being a phenomenal employee in spite of Vinnie's bull freak him too I heard he quit and moved to England to go to Oxford it didn't pan out and he got divorced and is working some crap entrylevel job now back here in Canada to this day I regret quitting I have a friend who worked the same role in another office he eventually got stationed in Hawaii for 5 years and loved every minute of it that job would have been a great career option for me had Vinnie not been such a selfish incompetent butt hat I feel so bad for op because this should have been a dream job and they got totally sandbagged by this guy I mean they were even excelling at it too and they just completely dragged them right down I mean they had their revenge and they walked out of there but man it sucks when you regret it also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy awesome stories of Revenge why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is try to give me Revenge cookies jokes on you I'm into that crap the reason this person wanted to get revenge on me was super dumb and would take too much time to fully explain so I'll try to summarize it as quickly as possible to make a really convoluted story short my friends and I were all in our young 20s my ADHD SL possibly autistic butt was way worse at picking up on social cues than I am now and these two friends of mine had an unrequited love thing going on the object of affection was a good friend of mine knew about the other person's feelings but was too much of a people pleaser to ask her to stop hitting on her the person who liked her was just unbelievably Petty and dumb in that way that only over dramatic 20s somethings can be and was jealous of my friendship with her Crush even though I'm very openly gay and clearly had no interest in her that didn't stop her from wanting to get revenge so she baked chocolate chili cookies and gave them to me as a present saying that she just felt like doing something nice me loving spicy food which she didn't know was super happy with this and gladly ate them all it wasn't until a day or so later that my friend told me that they were actually supposed to be Revenge cookies and the creepy stalker was silently fuming the entire time I was obliviously scarfing down her delicious and spicy Revenge I still have a taste for spicy cookies to this day now to be fair if it were me that would definitely be some kind of Revenge unless it's like hot wings I'm not really looking for like anything to be spicy but it is extremely satisfying when you know that somebody's trying to get revenge on you and it unironically ends up being something that you actually adore our next story is getting a creepy man fired after his first day this guy was a Craton a disgusting creepy man he dug his own grave by saying the things that he said but I was the one that pushed him into it not for the crappy things he said though but for what he did to me at the time I was working as a door-to-door Salesman the day would start with everyone going to the office then everyone getting into a car to drive to a different suburb this was his first day and he was assigned to my car his Vibe was off-putting from the start every word out of his mouth was about women and sex he started commenting on all of the female employees that he literally only just met how hot they are which ones he'd bang just grow stuff like that I was glad none of them were in the car to hear it but at the same time I wished one of them was perhaps with a girl in the car he would have behaved himself he then asked me about the women that work in our other branch in another city since I used to work there I was not comfortable objectifying them in that way so I said I'm not going to answer that question his reaction was disgraceful I saw it in the review mirror he whispered something to another guy then did a hand gesture I confirmed with the guy afterwards what the creep had said and he said he asked me if you were gay if you're wondering the hand gesture was the stereotypical hand flip thing that people do to mock gay people in case you're thinking that being called Gay is what I got revenge for don't being called Gay isn't an issue for me but on that topic what was so freaked up about that accusation was that in this creeps mind not wanting to objectify women means you're gay to him objectifying women was a requirement for heterosexuality no what I wanted revenge for was a bit more Petty at this point we took a quick pit stop so we could get one last bite to eat before we reached the destination he went to get his bag which he left in my car boot he went to the boot and tried to open the door he met resistance now for most people what I call smart people if they try to open a door but can't they reached the conclusion that it's locked this however was not a smart person in his mind the reason why the boot wasn't opening is because he wasn't pushing the button hard enough so what did he do he pushed the button harder he pushed the button so hard that he pushed it up into the door he broke my car boot I was so freaking ticked for the rest of the day if any one of us needed to get stuff from the boot we had to go through the rear seats he denied doing it but I saw him do it I was in the driver's seat watching him in the rearview mirror trying to open the boot I saw the moment it happened I saw the panic in his eyes whatever though we had a job to do so I decided to sort it out later I dropped everyone off at their individual streets and we got to work after stewing on it I decided I was going to get him fired I just needed to figure out how luckily he would dig his own grave at the end of the day I drove around town to collect everyone I picked up the creep last he got in the car and he said I just met the sexiest Hottie with the biggest chest you've ever seen freak what I would do to her I started flirting with her then her mom came to the door turns out the girl was 14 though so I couldn't sell to her and the mom wasn't interested but dang I wish I could go back there what in the absolute freak the whole car went silent when he said that I get that some people look older than they are however if you're a 30-year-old man and you're flirting with someone the minute you find out they're 14 you shut the freak up you've made a mistake now pretend like it never happened don't double down on it and repeat the story to people as if you've done nothing wrong however this is all I needed it was like a gift from creepy Heaven this guy loaded the gun all I had to do was pull the trigger I told the boss the next morning I told him everything he said I'll have a chat with him this was not the reaction I was hoping for so I said no you're going to fire him or I walk I really didn't want to play that card but I was one of the top salesmen and I knew he wouldn't want to risk losing me I was bluffing but luckily he didn't call me on it he did fire him that morning the moment he walked into the office the boss pulled them aside shortly after that the creep left and never came back people asked what happened so I let them know the other guys in the car backed up my stories and everyone agreed it was the right decision the only guilt I felt was that it took him breaking my car to make me want to get him fired he should have been fired for any one of the things he did a better man would have reported him regardless of the car incident yeah as soon as you had a shift and this guy was just being so gross and sexual and objectifying you should have just straight up reported that instantly even if it's like some kind of anonymous thing especially if they have an HR is that not like a textbook HR thing to report this next story is soap stealer well this is is super Petty I 56-year-old female love going for a walk SL jog in the evenings I sit at a desk for a good part of my day so I exercise in the morning and walk and Jog at night after I get home I love to relax in my jetted tub after I relax for a bit I wash and get out here comes the issue my husband 62-year-old male takes the soap for my tub to use at his sink this wouldn't be an issue if his sink wasn't 15 ft away from the tub and he would put it back we keep a soap dispenser beside our sinks but I guess he likes the bar kind I've asked him not to do this at least 10 times as we keep the extra soap under his sink and he could easily just grab a new one so I noticed that he did it again but this time I noticed before I got in the top I have now gone around and collected all the bar soap 11 brand new and two used and hid them stupid yes but I'm going to have a great giggle tonight when he starts looking for soap he's going to come back and say honey we need to get some extra soap we ran out or he's definitely going to go straight to op and say listen I know we had a whole bar of soap just earlier today or yesterday what did you do with it our next story is steal my money and Gaslight me have fun explaining your DVD collection to your girlfriend this one was a few years before Mack got into hard drugs so he was still a bit more reasonable of a person but still treated everyone like crap I believe this instance happened 5 years before my last post but that's not important of the story for the sake of keeping the story flowing let's just say I was 13 years old I'm getting to the age where I'm picking up lawn mowing to earn a few bucks but without much success lo and behold I finally made my first $50 bill in my life that wasn't given to me for Christmas or my birthday I earned it heck I would have been lucky to get that much for a Christmas or a birthday my great aunt one of the few people in my life that I felt actually listened and cared about what I had to say said I could mow herlon for 30 $ she gave me a $20 tip because she didn't have change at least that's what she told me I didn't care it was $50 whole dollars I go about my day feeling just like Bart Simpson in the episode with the same storyline I was ready to find my Quicky Mart by the most pot and Squishy money could get me all the candy I could eat and then wander on over to my local strip mall to buy a GameCube game to play alas this all had to wait 13-year-old me had to wait until I could go to the strip mall the father following morning my mom broke the news that I had to stay at Max's place for the weekend as no one else would be around due to a family emergency great I'm stuck with my jerk brother what kind of nightmare would I have to endure and what was going to likely be a toxic was stump zoned as an apartment to my pleasant surprise it wasn't all that bad his girlfriend kept the place tidy and things organized he let me play his Xbox 360 to keep me occupied I was having a decent time with Mac he wasn't being a jerk to me as he always was I thought maybe he was finally going to be decent to me that evening he saw the $50 bill hanging out of my pocket and managed to talk me into loaning it to him said he would be able to give it back to me by Sunday morning my naive 13-year-old self- believed him he buttered me up with video games random snacks and a bit of soda then off to fill his gas tank with my 50 I now know he most likely used it to buy weed Sunday morning rolled around and before I went home I asked for the Money Max said I need a bit longer but I promise I'll pay you back this week the same excuse was meaninglessly said that week and the next week and then the next almost a month later he said to me I already paid you I have no idea why you're still asking me and then hung up the phone it was clear I was never getting the money of course believing the best in my dad at the time I said to him he's stealing my money he never paid me and he's telling everyone he already did he calls Mac who then tells my dad that I was already already paid spent the money on McDonald's or a video game and forgot I spent it the realization I was never getting my money back sunk even deeper into my gut I decided to move on with my life not that I have a choice there's nothing I can do to get it back I'm 13 he's twice my size and has a car I have a bike and he lives 10 Mi away more time passes I forget how long before Mom says we're going away again and you're staying at your brother's apartment for the night op will pick you up before church tomorrow great I'm stuck with him still angry that I even had to see him again and now I'm trapped in his apartment for the next 12 to 24 hours this time Mac is much less accommodating no video games nothing fun The Jerk even makes me cook his dinner for him by promising me Xbox time if I did to which he immediately goes back on he tells me instead just pick a good movie to watch I start rifling through the DVDs while Mac and girlfriend sit down on the couch behind me to eat the food they just tricked me into making for them I am furious I decided to make the best of it and picked out an R-rated action movie I wouldn't be able to watch at home I open one case and I don't know what it is it's a movie I had never heard of I wish I could remember what I saw on that DVD oh well I know Mac doesn't ever put movies back in their original cases I'll check another so I reached to open another I might like same thing another strange DVD with a weird name and I can't find the proper case how annoying I pick up one more DVD case and find one labeled Mommy wants hard salami I finally think gross I've been rifling through his entertainment then I search through a couple more DVD cases that have the wrong DVDs but they are movies I've heard of then it hid me like a ton of bricks Mac had strategically formed a in all of the movie cases that girlfriend would never watch you never counted on me going through it I go back a few cases and grab the spicy DVD I put it in the tray then with a deep breath and a here we go I hit play I look up at the TV and say mac I think something's wrong with your movie this doesn't look like the normal men Loud Entertainment music starts to play along with all of the accompanying images his girlfriend screams oh P what the freak did you seriously bring adult entertainment and expect us to watch it with you I reply I thought this was movie title Mac has all of the cases mixed up and I didn't look at the DVD before I put it in the looks on their faces and the following silence between the two was worth every cent of that $50 he stole from me they disappeared outside to one of their cars for a bit when they came back inside they told me that something had come up and they were bringing me to my cousins instead the whole car ride was more silenc between the two I sat in the back staring out the window heart racing hoping you wouldn't realize what I just did to him ma drove and his girlfriend stared out the window with a look of frustration and sheer rage buried beneath it the entire time she was the insecure jealous attention seeking type and I knew this was going to blow up between them the moment I got out of the car I'd like to say I learned more about what happened after that but we never spoke of that day again I did everything I could to avoid ever going back to Max to this day he doesn't know I did it on purpose I mean I feel like considering the circumstances this was a very reasonable mistake for a 13-year-old to make so really Max set himself up for failure with such a dumb strategy I mean if it even was a strategy it might just be a situation where they had their Mommy wants a salami DVD and they just stuck it in whatever case didn't have something in it knowing how MA is described here it wouldn't surprise me if that was the situation and not some secret strategy of hiding this stuff this next story is yes I know I'm the jerk but still still at karmic the time I showed a GW employee a mispriced item I'm having such good luck this week a few days ago I stopped by my local GW while shopping I found a dress nwt that was selling for $30 out of pure curiosity I looked up the exact dress direct from the brand and it was on clearance selling for $10 I pointed this out to an employee hoping she would consider repricing it but she just Shrugged me off and said flippantly this is what they sell for so I moved on I was was supposed to meet a guy for brunch in an hour so I decided to try and find a cute pair of earrings to match the $9.99 dress I found instead what I found was a solid 14 karat gold Levon ring with a 2 karat natural Sapphire and 18 genuine diamonds for $2.99 I went through every piece of jewelry hanging on the wall and when I saw that one the lizard part of my brain immediately went that looks like real gold I'm sure they checked the cameras after I left and I must have looked like a crazy person to them walking back and forth for 5 minutes with this ring an inch from my face as soon as I calmed enough to form real thoughts again I made a beline to the checkout where I plated cucumber cool with shaking hands as I paid for it then I saw the employ that I talked to about the dress I couldn't help but beam as I showed her my f with a gleeful see there are still Treasures hidden here she immediately tried to accuse me of switching the tags I looked at her incredulously and said solidly nope nice try then she switched tactics and said an employee must have mistagged it and she needed to reprice it for me when I produced my receipt proving I'd already purchased it she deflated in front of me like a balloon this is one of those situations where like you take it and you run you don't want to like linger around any longer than you can I mean I guess you already purchased it you already got the receipt you're practically out the door but I don't know I just wouldn't want to even give them the chance if they become desperate enough to try to reclaim that property that got sold for $3 our next story is I finally had enough a while back before I moved I worked downtown in a major city as a pargal at a defense firm every day when it was time to go home everyone would have to go to the end of the street and merge left to get on an up ramp that leads to the interstate it was a two-lane street that turned into a one lane a block before going up the ramp every day there were people who didn't want to get in the one lane and would drive to the beginning of the line and cut people off to get on into the interstate instead of waiting their turn in line it would make my blood boil so one day my car was in the shop and I was driving a rental car and had opted for rental insurance well I was the car in front and I saw this large shiny new black pickup truck coming up on my right trying to cut me off all of a sudden it hit me that I was in the rental car and just drove the car straight and didn't let the truck over my car just crunched into the truck's driver and passenger doors it was a a really big dent so A man jumped out of the truck and started yelling at me saying that he was an attorney and was going to sue me for everything I had I recognized his name and remember that he was a plaintiff attorney in a Twan law office and represented a couple of plaintiffs in a huge class action case that the attorney a partner in a 200 Attorney Law Firm I worked for defended so I started laughing which ticked him off even more he asked what was so funny and I told him the attorney that I was a pargal for and you should have seen his face drop he kind of laughed and said he would file it with his own insurance and then left I guess he thought he could intimidate me with the yelling and saying he was a lawyer even though he was in the wrong there were cars behind me that witnessed the accident and were laughing so hard because the same thing happened to them and said that they would testify in my defense the feeling of driving into his truck felt so good though this guy forget that he was a lawyer he was driving the pickup truck and felt him powered just by the pickup truck like as if him being in that big old pickup truck means everybody's going to yield when he starts putting a little bit of pressure on somebody our next story is hecka no fury this happened to my best friend a while back but seeing as he's not a redditor it's mine to share so my friend we'll call him Bob has been in a relationship with a girl we'll call her Belle for about 2 years at this point when he moved away to start University seeing as the journey to see each other is only roughly an hour or so they decided to stay together and make things work Q Temptation one of his classmates takes a romantic interest in Bob and Begins the courting rituals of suggestive snaps and late night studying I'm sure you know the rest but in Bob's defense he did manage to resist that Temptation for a good few months anyway it turns out Bob didn't have the stomach for adultery and upon completion of these scandalous act he almost immediately started sobbing and with guilt racing through his constricting veins he promptly called Bell and Unleashed a brutally honest full confession the next day Bell arrived at his university Halls ready for the inevitable groeling after hours of being bered Bob announced his dire need of a cigarette and took 5 minutes outside after sucking all possible nicotine from his cigarette he had a sudden realization that he had just left an enraged and scorned woman unattended in his flat racing back up the stairs with the expect of ripped clothes and condiments on the walls he was pleasantly surprised to find Belle simply pacing back and forth in an untouched flat after breaking up Belle left and Bob was alone with his guilts and regrets now the important context here is that these stereotypes are true us Brits love our tea it is the fuel that sustains us a hug in a mug liquid love we especially use tea in times of distress specifically an extra sweet cup of tea for something really harrowing this is why Bob's next involuntary action was to flick the kettle on grab a tea bag and Chuck it in his favorite mug already the anticipation of his Brew started to soothe his angst as the boiling water engulfed the tea bag and Hues of orange and brown swelled to fill the mug Bob noticed something deeply unsettling his teabag had ripped black spots of tea floating menacingly on the surface with anger Rising Bob threw the mockery of a brew down the sink and restarted the process again black spots of inedible tea permeates the golden nectar after trying to make a third Cupa Bob finally decided to check his box of tea bags it was then he made the shocking discovery that Belle had cut holes in every single teabag anyway Belle and Bob got back together like a month later and have been happily together for nearly 8 years now they live together and have had no more teabag related incidents well Bob doesn't get any brownie points any point in the story doesn't matter the graveling doesn't matter the immediate self-reporting to his partner guy still let himself get LED on for a long time and ultimately cheated but still it's kind of nice to hear that there was a happy ending even after all of that but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely awesome Revenge story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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:00.160 --> :06.240 I binge watched a guy making  Videos about this reddit for   :10.800 --> :15.948 the very first time today, so i  guess i will give my 5 cents ^^' :15.948 --> :16.000 So underlaying context first, (skip if you like) :16.000 --> :21.040 So all this happens a good 10 years ago now,  when i had my very first job, right after school.   :21.040 --> :27.040 I was 17 years old then, had no clue about labour  laws and was working as a metallworker for a small   :27.040 --> :32.800 5 man buissness. The Boss was from Sicily  and though himself an better Don Corleone... :32.800 --> :39.280 The Other workers were 1 actual Worker, an 50+  Old school Chief that forgot more other ever knew   :39.280 --> :44.000 (and kept the entire shop running), one  apprentice in his 4th and last year,   :44.000 --> :49.120 Robin, an arrogant prick but pretty competent.  Then there was the apprentice of the first year,   :49.120 --> :55.200 who was always so stoned, weed kept growing  out of his ears and then there was me, a more   :55.200 --> :00.800 theoretically oriented guy who wanted to work in  the IT sector. But since my dad considered me too   :00.800 --> :06.000 dumb for it (Second best grades in every subject  in my finishing year, but thats another topic),   :06.000 --> :12.000 and he paid for my applications (back then on  paper) he had me do some "proper work". The   :12.000 --> :16.160 Boss himself was working in the office doing  the designing of the stuff we would cut up,   :16.160 --> :20.560 build, weld and install. I was had two  left hands, coming fresh from school,   :20.560 --> :25.920 but if the Boss grabbed a screwdriver...well jump  in a ditch put a helmet on and start praying...   :25.920 --> :31.760 he was a walking catastrophy on two legs. He  always hired himself people with either no   :31.760 --> :36.720 clue about labour laws or no other choice  so he could rpetty much do as he pleased,   :36.720 --> :42.240 the one year i worked there according to my  contract (minimum wage of course) i accumulated a   :42.240 --> :48.480 good 200 overtimes hours which....i didn't had any  prove about, so i could smear them up my rear... :48.480 --> :48.880 The actual story: :48.880 --> :53.760 So we were on a construction side a good 1 and  a half hour driving from our shop, where we were   :53.760 --> :04.000 supposed to install 14 3.10 meters tall (122  inch) and 1.50m (59 inch) broad panes of glass.   :04.000 --> :09.440 Those were made out of double layered safety  glass, a good 4 cm (1.6 inch) thick with a   :09.440 --> :16.640 layer of tough, clear foil in between, so really  heavy Bast***ds, a good 200 KG (440 pound) or so. :16.640 --> :20.480 Those Pans of Glass were supposed to  go into rail in the ceiling and floor,   :20.480 --> :23.680 creating solid, secure glass walls for an office.   :23.680 --> :28.960 The normal ceiling was around 2.60 m tall  so we had to use cuption-suckers and bring   :28.960 --> :34.400 the heavy F***ers in angled...which  was really a pain, like literally... :34.400 --> :41.280 **The Problem:**So, we ran into a problem pretty  quickly, that while the ceiling was 2.60 above   :41.280 --> :47.360 the floor and the Glasses were 3.10...there  is a good lack of space of around a half meter   :47.360 --> :53.360 (20 inch). The Rails in the ceiling and the  floor added another 5 cm each... so we ended   :53.360 --> :00.720 up with the glasses being 40 cm too long...turns  out Boss had been ordering them wrong...oh crap. :00.720 --> :04.160 So we called the Boss (he still  being back at "home" in the shop,   :04.160 --> :10.160 telling him the problem, which he was infuriated  about (as if we extended the glasses somehow...).   :10.160 --> :15.120 We then tried to call mutiple companies in the  area who work with glass, if they could come in   :15.120 --> :21.120 and cut the glasses on the construction site. As  soon as they heard "double layered safety Glass"   :21.120 --> :26.480 each and every one of them outright refused, said  that the glass was more likely to break than to be   :26.480 --> :32.480 cut with anything short than an industriel sized  laser cuter (or water cutter for that matter). :32.480 --> :35.440 The "Solution" and Malicious content: :35.440 --> :40.000 So, after calling every glass company within  30 minutes travel of the construction site,   :40.000 --> :45.680 which then refused the request, Our boss had the  glorious idea, that if the professionals chicken   :45.680 --> :51.040 out, we, 4 metalworkers, of which only 1  actually had a finished apprenticeship,   :51.040 --> :55.840 should do the job with our diamond  cutter (something you use to cut normal,   :55.840 --> :01.360 thin glass). We 3 looked at ourselves  (Stoner was just giggling mad as usual),   :01.360 --> :07.520 Speechless for a moment before our Chief asked the  Boss, if he (the boss) was really sure about this.   :07.520 --> :12.080 because there was simple no way in h*** all the  glasses would survive when the Professionals   :12.080 --> :18.400 gave us a 50/50 chance. Chief gave us a  10/90 change of any glass surviving... :18.400 --> :22.960 Boss said he was absolutly sure, after  all our chief could do everything . and   :22.960 --> :27.440 if one or two glasses break, it would be better  than nothing, cause we (the workers) couldn't   :27.440 --> :32.640 just drive home and have no progress on the  construction side whatssoever to show for,   :32.640 --> :37.920 when customer would do inspection. Our  Chief asked once more, if the Boss was sure,   :37.920 --> :41.760 that he was okay with the risk that  a good number of glasses would break,   :41.760 --> :47.040 and knowing our boss, we had him on speaker and  recorded what he said. Well he said a second time,   :47.040 --> :51.280 that he was all sure and that he would take  this one on him (as if ordering the stuff   :51.280 --> :56.160 wrong had not been on him...). He then spend  10 minutes arguing with the chief, who insisted   :56.160 --> :02.000 to go and quickly buy a new, sharp diamond  cutter, as ours was dull as a troll's club. :02.000 --> :07.440 Boss didn't like the exspense of like 200 Dollar  (converted), but he eventually "allowed it". :07.440 --> :13.040 Problem with cutting glass is, you cut one  side, turn it around and then bend it careful   :13.040 --> :18.880 against the cut, but when you have double  layered glass...yeah jokes on your basicly... :18.880 --> :24.240 Well we then unloaded all the glasses carefully,  until we only had one on our truck, carefully cut   :24.240 --> :28.640 one side with the new diamond cutter,  poured some flameable liquid in the cut   :28.640 --> :33.520 and ignited it to melt the foil layer,  then we turned the whole thing around,   :33.520 --> :38.080 cut the other side and started to  carefully move the top part back and   :38.080 --> :42.640 forth to widen the cut until it  would crack all the way through. :42.640 --> :48.080 from the 14 Glasses, 11 were killed,  with a crack suddendly going down   :48.080 --> :53.040 splitting the entire lenght in half.  So 3 Glasses survived the massacre   :53.040 --> :58.800 and the rest had to be reordered completly by  our Boss, instead of just being sent in for a   :58.800 --> :03.280 professional cut with a proper machine. He  later complained about why we did this s***   :03.280 --> :08.160 and we simple played him the recording of  him twice saying he was all fine with it. :08.160 --> :13.520 He kept grumbling and marking snarky remarks,  but in all honesty, this was just one of many   :13.520 --> :18.560 instances, so we simple nodded and ignored  him. He could have only gone after the Chief   :18.560 --> :23.680 if he pressed the issue, but without the Chief  nothing would run in this shop and the boss   :23.680 --> :28.400 really knew it. I was like on my second  last month and already had the contract   :28.400 --> :33.040 for my proper apprenticeship (somewhere  else of course!) already signed and sealed,   :33.040 --> :36.960 so it was not like i cared one  iota anymore anyway at that point. :36.960 --> :42.160 Hope this memory of mine made your smile, just  like it does make me smile even a decade later   :48.080 --> :24.480 At my job, every day I have  to travel between two offices.   :24.480 --> :29.200 I start at my main office, then have to travel  to the second office, then back to my main   :29.200 --> :34.800 office. Because I'm using my personal vehicle  for this travel, the company pays me mileage. :34.800 --> :39.280 Well, there are basically two routes  you can take between the two offices.   :39.280 --> :42.880 One is about a mile round  trip shorter, but has tolls.   :42.880 --> :48.320 So I always took the 1 mile longer route and  avoid the tolls. I did it this way for a year. :48.320 --> :52.880 Well in comes the new bookkeeper and  she is hellbent on saving the company   :52.880 --> :57.200 money. And where does she think all this  wasteful money is going? Expense reports,   :57.200 --> :02.240 obviously. So she starts knit picking every  report. Like if someone is out and has to buy   :02.240 --> :07.680 some pens for work. She goes online and finds  the cheapest price possible for those pens,   :07.680 --> :13.680 and only reimburses for that cheaper price.  It, obviously, has p***** several people off. :13.680 --> :18.720 Well, she eventually decided to target me.  I submit my report for 2 weeks, and a few   :18.720 --> :25.280 days later get the reimbursement payment.  Well, it's $5.85 short. I ask her about it,   :25.280 --> :29.120 and she says I've been ripping off the  company for the past year by taking the   :29.120 --> :34.720 longer route between the offices. She will only  pay mileage for the shorter route from now on.   :34.720 --> :39.840 "And I'm lucky she doesn't go back and take  back all the extra from the past year." :39.840 --> :46.080 I say Ok, but to please send me that per her  I must take the shorter route and that this   :46.080 --> :52.240 is company policy and leave her office. Before I  even made it to my desk I had the email from her   :52.240 --> :58.160 confirming what she said. 2 weeks later I submit  my expense report. I reported the shorter route,   :58.160 --> :07.600 so the company saved $5.85. But tolls added up  to $136. A net loss for the company of $130.15.   :10.560 --> :16.000 It's been 6 months and I'm still "taking the  shorter route" costing the company an extra   :16.000 --> :49.040 $130.15 every 2 weeks. I was in the military  underway on a ship, and we had to periodically   :49.040 --> :55.200 do drills (think fire alarm, man overboard,  abandon ship, etc), and as we geared up for   :55.200 --> :00.000 an outside inspection team to visit, we'd be run  and grade them ourselves to see what we'd need to   :00.000 --> :04.880 improve upon to pass inspection. We were in the  middle of a long patrol, and we were running a   :04.880 --> :09.760 man overboard drill. Part of this drill is  that, when the man overboard alarm sounds,   :09.760 --> :14.320 you are supposed to throw a life ring over the  side of the ship towards the person in the water   :14.320 --> :19.360 to give them something to hang on to, and to help  mark the position where they were in the water   :19.360 --> :23.280 so that the ship could more easily find  them to pick them up. Simple enough. :23.280 --> :28.000 As a side note, when running drills, there are  various ways to mark what things are "off limits"   :28.000 --> :34.000 or should be simulated. We would use blue tape -  so blue tape would go over the real international   :34.000 --> :39.600 distress signals for a drill, the long-range  radio, etc., so we knew we had to just simulate   :39.600 --> :44.160 those things. If we were doing a part of the  response and saw something with blue tape,   :44.160 --> :49.600 we'd kinda narrate "and now I'd use the  radio to alert our parent command" etc. :49.600 --> :54.400 So we run the man overboard drill. The ship  maneuvers to pick up the fake man overboard   :54.400 --> :00.080 (a dummy named "Oscar," named for the name of the  flag you hoist when you have a man overboard) in   :00.080 --> :06.160 pretty quick time; however, during the debrief,  the ship's Executive Officer (2nd in command and   :06.160 --> :11.360 also head of the training team) berates the  crew because no one threw life rings over   :11.360 --> :17.520 the side as per policy! We would've failed the  drill if we were at a real inspection he says!   :17.520 --> :21.280 He said that a bunch of crewmembers  went up to life rings and then stated   :21.280 --> :25.360 "and now I'd throw over a life ring"  to the training team member watching,   :25.360 --> :30.240 rather than actually doing it. If there isn't  blue tape on it, then you can't self-simulate,   :30.240 --> :35.520 the XO says. And we're going to run  the drill again until we get it right. :35.520 --> :40.080 What happened next was a brilliant moment  of a group, without consulting each other,   :40.080 --> :46.000 executing some malicious compliance. We run  the drill again, Oscar goes over the side,   :46.000 --> :53.760 and the man overboard alarm is sounded. The ship  had, I believe, 9 liferings on the outside decks.   :53.760 --> :58.880 They started going over the side one  after the other. I think we got eight   :58.880 --> :04.080 of them over the side before the XO got on  the loudspeaker and said "STOP THROWING LIFE   :04.080 --> :10.080 RINGS." But the damage had been done. I do wish  we could've gotten the last one over, but alas. :10.080 --> :15.680 At the end of the drill, the ship spent the next  2-3 hours tracking down life rings with flashing   :15.680 --> :21.280 strobes, each floating different directions away  from the ship, on the open ocean. It was lots of   :21.280 --> :26.320 fun since we got to maneuver the ship around a  ton and just enjoy driving it rather than having   :26.320 --> :32.560 to do anything worthwhile, but the XO was none  too pleased since it delayed our patrol schedule   :32.560 --> :37.920 a little bit. But the good news was we passed the  drill, and certainly didn't simulate anything, so   :37.920 --> :07.680 he couldn't say anything about it! This is a minor  MC from when I was about 8 years old. I had a   :07.680 --> :12.800 satellite dish receiver in my room and was looking  for something to watch, when I saw they had   :12.800 --> :18.640 Rugrats in Paris on pay-per-view. I loved Rugrats,  but knew I wasn't supposed to watch anything on   :18.640 --> :24.080 those channels because it would cost money. So  I asked my parents, and they didn't like it but   :24.080 --> :30.080 relented, so they put it on when it started over  next, this was probably about right after lunch. :30.080 --> :35.520 I watch the movie and really like it, the  credits come on and I'm not sure if I can   :35.520 --> :41.120 just change the channel without it continuing to  charge or something, so I go to the living room to   :41.120 --> :45.840 tell my parents the movie ended so they could  take it off. Before I'm able to say anything,   :45.840 --> :51.440 my dad tells me I wanted to watch the movie so  bad, I need to be in my room watching it because   :51.440 --> :57.440 it's costing money. I try to say what I was going  to say again, but get interrupted once more.   :57.440 --> :01.120 I don't want to get in trouble, so I  go back into my room and stay in there. :01.120 --> :06.000 The movie probably played through an extra  2 or 3 times before my mom comes in to   :06.000 --> :10.720 call me out for dinner, and I'm finally  able to tell her the movie ended a long   :10.720 --> :15.680 time ago. She switches the channel over,  and asks why I didn't say something before.   :15.680 --> :21.520 I say I did, but I got told that I needed to  stay in here and watch the movie, so I did. :21.520 --> :27.120 There was a sigh, and I bet she probably told my  dad something later when I wasn't in the room.   :27.120 --> :31.520 I didn't watch anything on PPV after  that, but I didn't get in trouble and   :31.520 --> :36.560 it cost at least 3-4x as much because  they wouldn't listen the first time.

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adaa for wanting to ignore my wife after she said she doesn't want to be with me anymore I 32 male have been with my wife 32f for 12 years married for nearly six she is the first and only girl I've ever been with back in early December of last year she sprung it on me that she no longer wants to be with me and just wants to live by herself she described the feeling as just complete apathy she mentioned she had been feeling this way for a long time and hoped the feeling would go away but since it hadn't she finally let me know some background info we initially dated long distance and she moved halfway across the country to be with me pretty early on in our relationship after college neither of us are particularly social and we have a pretty small group of friends and family most of which she left back home on her end we've both also struggled some with varying levels of depression back in 2020 she ended up quitting her job as she had a pretty toxic work environment I was fine with this and even encouraged her to do so as I make a decent living and can afford to pay for both of us I told her at the time though that if she was going to be staying at home I expected her to help more with miscellaneous things around the house such as cooking cleaning Etc I felt like she didn't really keep her end of the bargain on that but I did my best not to say anything as I knew she wasn't in a great state of mind at the time and pretty depressed in retrospect I probably should have as I think this caused me to bottle up some resentment fast forward again to 2022 and she got in some fights with her mom and brother

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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've got a story of perfectly complying to the wishes of a new manager but first the story from legion 1117 invitation loophole i was just reminded of this by another thread on another sub but it happened about 10 years ago when my child was in kindergarten in a school in a really small town in a rural area we were new to the area and i'd met very few people and even fewer other parents as i hadn't had the time to mix with parents at the one or two events the school had during the few weeks we'd been in the district with my kids birthday coming up i knew this would create a problem when it came to having her first big birthday party that consisted of more friends than relatives the school had a policy that stated that if a child wanted to invite their classmates to a party via invitations handed out in the class they had to bring an invitation for every child in the class dumb yes enforced with gusto absolutely parents were having parties for 20 to 30 kids every birthday i'd already seen this with the one party we'd attended and through conversations with the two other parents there i learned of the school's adamant enforcement of this policy and that the parents hated it i hadn't even experienced it yet and was already twitching at the thought of 20 to 30 children my child may or may not like and possibly at least one parent for each arriving at my small home i could also already hear my husband protesting the invasion of his home by strangers to say that we were a very private couple would be an understatement it was not going to work so i hatched a plan when my own child's birthday party planning came around i called the school and arranged a meeting with her teacher at the meeting i presented her with a small stack of invitations made out to selected friends of my child i explained the situation of me not having contact information for their parents because while social media is great most people don't sign up as abby's mom or zack's grandpa and i was having a hard time getting the invitations out to them could she please put the invitations into these children's take home folder that afternoon so that the parents could find them as she was trained to do she told me she couldn't only put them in the folders for a handful of students because it violated class policy on invitations being ready for this i pulled out the school handbook and opened it to the page i'd marked containing the policy and used it to show her that while it says students may not pass out invitations to only a handful of their peers it says nothing about a teacher placing the invitations into a folder to be sent home at the end of the day without the students knowing about it during the day after a moment of thought she took the invitations chuckled while shaking her head and told me she'd never had a parent actually schedule a meeting to try and get out of a school rule and win on a well-thought-out technicality and that she was going to remember it for a long time then she asked me if i was an attorney or paralegal perhaps i laughed and told her no but i did play one in my divorce a couple years prior she said i missed my calling i still talk with her when we run into each other now and then great lady the kids had a great party i finally got contact information for parents when they called the rsvp and we only had to deal with a handful of people in a space wins all around does anybody else think it's really dumb that the school had this rule and was trying to involve itself in affairs that in no way has any relation to the school short of the kids all go there should a school be able to dictate who you can and can't invite to your kid's birthday party let me know if you guys see any merit in this or not in the comments down below our next story is from allison literally another find the non-existent bug story the story i just read here reminds me of when we were being touted a secure banking system that would throw tantrums if anyone changed anything after a payment had been signed off of course the demo didn't entail sending real instructions to a real bank so there was no risk of money leaving the account all roles in the demo were played by our senior people the demo dually created a payment by a clerk one manager signed off a second manager counter-signed off and then to prove security we broke for lunch leaving the machine on with the payment ready to go the software was programmed to invalidate signatures if anything was changed even a word or a comma which was the secure bit being touted while the bigwigs were at a posh restaurant little old me had my sandwich then with time to kill dug into the machine and found the secure data was in an access database the security came from locking the user interface when they came back from lunch the payment amount had two extra zeros tacked on signatures were still valid and i was at my desk head down trying to hide my grin while the seller tried to figure out what the heck happened after the software was rejected i fessed up to doing the dirty but refused to tell them how the seller tried their best to bribe me and or recruit me but i refused and stayed a lowly accountant for some years honestly i'm surprised that opie was holding out on this like the amount they must have been trying to bribe op with must not have been that much because to be honest if i was in that situation i feel like there would be a price for me to give you the information on what you did wrong i guess it was more important to op to make sure that these people who are honestly trying to push something rather reckless can't get past the initial hurdle to keep selling it by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos our next story is from individual penalty 599 okay mother another post reminded me of this story from when i was a kid i grew up in a different country than my parents and the one i was born in when i was 12 years old we moved back there for two years this is a country where there's many murders by poisoning food or drinks my mother had warned my siblings and i not to accept food or water from anyone other than my grandma who lived nearby one day my brother and i were walking around the neighborhood and this neighbor and his wife invited us to eat with them not unusual we knew who he was but we said no because of what mother had said needless to say he wasn't happy he went home with us to complain to mother about how rude we were it is indeed considered rude in that part of the world especially when the invitation's from someone of your parents generation and people show their love and appreciation by feeding you he complained about how he had known us since we were four me and three brother always kept tabs on us we were friends with his kids and now we had the audacity to refuse his and his wife's food mother had to apologize and let him know that we were just following her instructions and not to blame us he demanded that she gives us a specific list of people we could eat at and she did she later told us that she was counting on our good judgment and meant people she and father weren't close to i understand telling them this expecting them to just kind of do it based off of their own judgment but i mean when you tell a 12 year old something you should be prepared to accept that they take it very literally it's like making a joke about a kid using sarcasm a lot of times they'll just take it literally and be upset you gotta be careful the way you word things because they'll take things very literally our next story is from an anonymous poster new mangler you're just a driver stop complaining and just do it as it's written i started working as an hgv driver working in multi-temp delivery a few months ago we deliver food drinks and consumables to commercial kitchens such as pubs hotels schools etc each day we get given a loaded lorry and a route of between 15 and 20 drops to deliver to most days we get back to the depot about 9 to 10 hours after we set out in the morning the route is very important as the lorry will be loaded with that route in mind delivering to school a first then school a's cages will be loaded last blocking access to the next drops cages the years the peculiarities of each drop location and the routes have been fine-tuned by the drivers to make delivering the whole route easier and faster we're salaried not hourly so the sooner we get back the better a few examples you don't want to be turning up at a school to try and deliver during the school run time the roads are blocked with parents dropping their kids off it's a pure nightmare get there early or skip it until after 9 a.m pub a and hotel b may be only a quarter of a mile from each other but there's a low bridge and a railway line in between so to get an 18 ton lorry from a to b you need to do a six mile detour pub see's kitchen crew don't start work until 10 a.m and there will be no one on site to accept the delivery if you go there before then garden center d and farm shop e are on opposite sides of a very busy dual carriageway so if you try to deliver d and then e you'll be stuck waiting for a gap in traffic to get across for a long time far better to deliver to d on the way out of the route and e on the way back home the routes do change a bit with load limits and order quantities but on the whole they've been pretty good with minimal having to rearrange on the fly and unload cages to get to the cages you need for the drop enter new manager bob has never driven a lorry or worked as a delivery driver bob likes computers and is all about efficiency saving fuel and routes need to be as distant efficient as possible bob decides that the routes need to be changed he uses a lovely program on his pc and plugs in all the addresses of drops and lets the program work things out for him bob forgets to tell the program that the delivery vehicles weigh 18 tons and are 12 feet 6 inches high first day the new routes are released the drivers are going what the freak that makes no sense and go to see bob to find out what the freak is going on and tell him how it's just not going to work bob's answer is rather dismissive calling us just drivers and to do it as written he's the manager and knows best a lot of work has gone into these new routes and they start as written the next day and must be complied with there's lots of swearing and complaining in the crew room until someone points out that bob is afternoon duty manager the next day the duty manager has to stay until the last lorry gets back to the depot and then sort out any issues with the day's deliveries so it's not only us that it will have a crap day since we have to do them as written let's all just do that and show him just how much he screwed up the fallout i was lucky my route only took 13 hours instead of the usual 10 i got back to base at 6 pm my refueling was about 20 liters of diesel more than usual who would have thought sitting in traffic with the engine and refrigeration units running burnt so much fuel but i completed my route i was one of the first drivers back at base as hgv drivers we have strict duty time and drive time rules we legally have to comply with so as drivers got towards their 15 hour duty time limit or 10 hour drive time limit they turned back to base even if they hadn't completed their run apparently by 9 pm there was a queue of lorries parked up on the road trying to get into the depot and drivers were walking up to bob and handing him their keys as illegally they weren't allowed to work anymore the mandatory one-hour total breaks in a 12-hour shift don't count towards duty time there's also a mandatory 11-hour break between shifts that as a driver you can get into serious trouble for breaching so all the drivers who would normally have been turning up for work at 5 00 am couldn't start until 8 am at the earliest i turned up at 5 am and bob had only left when the morning duty manager turned up at 3am i spent the day shunting unloading and refueling as the loaders and pickers try to get lorries ready to get some of the routes out the old routes the rest of the drivers turned up 11 hours after they finished and sat in the crew room drinking tea waiting for their lorries everyone who could agreed to do saturday morning overtime usually paid at 1.5 but as double time sunday raid instead so that the drivers would say yes to get the deliveries missed out to the customers the office crew spent all day on the phones apologizing and rearranging deliveries bob never showed up for a shift i can't wait until monday anyone want to place bets on if it's old routes or bob's routes i think i'm going to make a very safe bet here and i assume it's going to be the old routes all i know is if people have been at a certain thing for a while they're well experienced well seasoned i'm going to at least hear them out on why they think what i'm doing is a bad idea but i guess that's what separates me and bob the mingler and our final story of the day is from past fly 1003 prove it love to a while back my agency was about to deploy a new financial management system which had been developed in-house to dovetail with some of our pre-existing systems i was part of a combo tech slash management group tasked with reviewing the new software after a short hands-on demo we were on the receiving end of a presentation by the developer let's call him tim with whom i had a bit of a not great history and the more we got into the technical nuts and bolts of the fms the more apparent it was tim was leaning heavily on security through obscurity oddball data structures deeply recursive api calls etc mid presentation tim and i got into it a little bit tim saying his structures are so arcane nobody would be able to trace the course of his calls me calling bs saying for a sufficiently skilled programmer the question wouldn't be if but when tim calling that bs etc etc you get the idea after a few exchanges an irritated tim said you think it would be so easy to crack prove it at that point i backed off to let tim finish his presentation but while tim did that i cracked open my notebook and went back into the demo system about 20 to 30 minutes later when tim was in the final q a phase of his presentation i re-raised my concerns tim reasserted his confidence in his system security at which point i asked so you're saying you would have no qualms trusting the system to protect your personal data and slid a piece of paper across the conference table to tim tim looked at the paper then back at me then back to the paper again as his face turned beat red this of course did not go unnoticed by the other attendees who looked curiously and those who actually knew me smirkingly at me and not wanting to disappoint i asked him if he wanted to share the contents of the note with everyone a negative headshake was his only response one of the other attendees who knew me said okay what's the freaking deal we were a pretty informal punch but all i said was it's tim's call either he can read out loud what's on that piece of paper or he can explain what it is and why he doesn't want to painted into a corner tim had no choice he mumbled it's me you see while tim was continuing his presentation i had gone back into the demo cracked my way down to programmer mode and sussed through the data structures enough to get to the fms's personnel file i figured tim was the sort to use himself as a test entry in the file and i was right his security through obscurity held out for less than half an hour and on that piece of paper nothing much just tim's social security number afterwards the group decided some redesign was necessary before the system went into testing for production employment unanimously including tim he moved on shortly after by the way i can't start to pretend to act like i understand any of the program or talk that went on here but one thing i do understand is when somebody is so uber confident of themselves and their abilities and that no concerns brought up were ever going to be legitimate against this masterpiece they did is that it's just one satisfying thing to humble them and end up making them want to leave the room with their tail tucked between their legs but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy compliance story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out the video on the right that said i'll see you all next time with some more stories

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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video we've got a lot of awesome stories today and our first one's from a stack house let me cut those hours for you i was working as a manager for a small general store when i started i had another manager working nights with me the general manager fired him for tying his shoe one night claiming he was attempting to steal cash yes this actually happened i observed the audit on the store finances and saw the camera footage all money was accounted for the work then fell on me to operate the entire store by myself i often ran the entire store alone i ran the register put out nearly a thousand crates of freight per week and maintained the floor which contained hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of merchandise at a single time crime and drugs in the area were rampant shoplifting happened on a nearly hourly basis i was getting to the end of my rope after a tweaker broke into my office and stole my backpack it had nearly a thousand dollars of stuff in it it had deteriorated so bad that tweakers were running into the store loading up carts and running out soon after she fired the other manager the general manager started getting really petty finding really minor things to discipline me about if a customer put a box of skittles back in the wrong place if i didn't find it i would be disciplined then one day i was called into the back office to be disciplined she was upset that i couldn't maintain the floor perfectly while simultaneously working the warehouse the register and doing the accounting turns out they had finally found a potential second manager after failing to hire anyone for a significant amount of time this gave her and the district manager a power trip i was no longer their last manager so they threatened to cut my hours as punishment if i was unable to do hundreds of boxes worth of freight run the register rep the warehouse for tomorrow's delivery fix the entire store and do the accounting within the eight hours i was scheduled no overtime permitted i went back to the warehouse to think over my options and realize this new manager that they hired wasn't even trained yet and had yet to demonstrate that he was even capable of performing the tasks so i walked back into the office and the general manager my keys said which let me get those hours for you and walked out i called the guy i used to close with and he told me he now works for a pharmacy he got me a job there in the accounting within a week and i nearly tripled my income the general managers were on salary so with me leaving the general manager would have had to have worked non-stop 14 hours seven days a week for no overtime this was a common thing the company would do because staffing was such an issue especially these days i haven't been back but my suspicion is this new manager they'd found probably didn't last more than a few weeks these people really did not realize like how ridiculous they were being or something like how much do you think a person can take before they're just finally like fine i'm just i'm out i'm gone do you think you'd be able to last more than a few shifts doing that amount of work for eight hours let me know in the comments down below i don't do anything right fine i'll do it your way i used to work for a private company which was owned by a wealthy woman who could afford to have her dim-witted stubborn and mean daughter run one of the departments it didn't go well but it was a small department and the mother was more interested in keeping her daughter happy than it making profit thankfully the daughter m usually only worked a few hours each morning to help me out and then she would leave i'm all for inclusion and encouraging people to learn new things but m was not fit for management and definitely didn't have the faculties for accounting she would help me and i would wait for her to leave so i could fix it writing legible notes sending notices giving customers change and receipts posting past due notices etc this went on for three years until i found a better job and gave two weeks notice m was livid she felt like it was a betrayal m started staying all day to do any bookkeeping she started talking to co-workers and customers alike telling them i don't know how to do my job i do everything wrong and it's all my fault we were in a better department she would do this in front of my face too pulling someone aside to talk in stage whispers i can't do anything right if you say so i'll stop doing things my way and only do what you explicitly ask i won't take the fullest usage from a payment but instead give change like they're buying one unit i won't transcribe her atrocious handwriting i won't give past due notices i won't maintain the customer balance spreadsheets by the end of my last two weeks they had switched from using excel to using a spiral notebook to log customer payments gave away the laptop with the old notes and customer contact sheet and forgave any outstanding balances because m insisted my notes were wrong meaning they lost a couple thousand dollars and the clients would have no way to contact them unless they came in person since our department didn't have a designated phone number but remember i never do anything right i'm gonna say they started saying op did nothing right so that when op actually did leave and it's revealed that m doesn't know how to do anything they can blame all the poor practices on the person that left and can't defend themselves anymore either that or maybe it was just overall pure projection by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos each one has awesome stories like our next one from chaotic whisper 1918. i'm only here to clean okay a few weeks ago i made a post about my boss having what i can only describe as a meltdown she had been berating us unfairly punishing us and favoring employees that deserve to be fired since making that post there's only been as far as i'm aware one instance of her making false accusatory statements to one of my co-workers something about my co-worker verbally berating our manager and spreading gossip my coworker to their credit called my boss out for her bald-faced lies and my boss seemed to calm down a bit the issue though is that my boss is super paranoid about everything this is new behavior for her as she's usually a very level-headed and rational person she's highly educated with a doctorate degree she has a memory as sharp as attack and has always been extremely calm even in the most serious situations as i said in the last post in the comments she's very ill she has a plethora of illnesses i'm not sure what they are but i know they're serious and requires a lot of medication steroids we believe she's either recently changed her meds or up the dosage which is causing your paranoia and bouts of anger corticosteroids can cause the following problems with mood swings memory behavior and other psychological effects such as confusion or delirium this would definitely explain why she's acting this way she's not herself on these medications and probably doesn't even realize it it helps a lot for me to know that her behavior is just a side effect of the harsh yet necessary meds she's on but it's still hurtful that she's treating us like that regardless another update my coworker's dedicated helper finally got fired she was deemed unfit for the job and let go a couple weeks back it took them way too long to do that but better late than never i guess they have yet to find a replacement for her and so i've been put in her place temporarily another one of my co-workers quit last week without notice she was fed up with the environment and favoritism so after months of deciding whether or not she should she finally just walked i'm honestly very proud of her for leaving as for me i had a working interview a week or two ago but i didn't get a call back which i'm fine with i wasn't thrilled about the place anyway but i'm still applying for anything and everything i can i have about 40 job applications that i've submitted since the original blow up we're down three people and management can't seem to fill the spots gee i wonder why honestly like ops pretty understanding all things considered that said even though it's like a side effect of medication that they're taking really it's still like no real excuse in the workplace like if they can't be professional and do their job professionally there's probably a real problem here and it doesn't excuse the favoritism that's going on here that opie pointed out as well our next story is from hebersha i have to choose my own topic to speak about at a conference i don't really want to go to no problem this is quite an old story and i'm going to keep it deliberately vague when i was still fairly new to the job i was asked to speak at a conference this conference was actually a promotional event being organized by a manufacturer of a chemical used in my industry i was employed by a government department to be an independent advisor not beholden to any particular manufacturer or supplier i felt that speaking at this event was a major conflict of interest as it would appear that i was openly promoting this particular chemical however senior people in my organization were not so ethical the department was a boys club and the manufacturer of the chemical was one of these boys and told me i had to accept the invitation even worse the initial agenda looked like this john topic a tom topic b harry topic c someone from x department topic tba the role of someone from x department fell to me by default because the other more preferred candidates were unavailable i didn't even have an actual place or role on the agenda i was just an extra to fill a gap i asked the conference organizer what they wanted me to speak about how about topic a they said i told them that was being covered by john already a similar discussion was had about topics b and c and eventually the conference organizer said well why don't you call the other speakers see what they're talking about and see where you can fit in hang on a minute it's not my role to do all my own leg work to find a topic that's your role as an organizer my role as a speaker is to take the topic you give me do my research write my talk and deliver it and quite frankly if the organizers couldn't think of a topic did i really need to be a presenter at all i thought fine if you want me to choose my own topic then i'm going to present another point of view there had been some recent research into other chemicals and the results were promising so i thought i'd talk about this research and to be quite honest i simply couldn't think of another topic as i felt every base had been covered by people much more experienced than me so i informed the conference organizers that i'd chosen my topic and i would speak about the recent work on these other products i then got hold of the results of the research and wrote what i think was a pretty good speech well a few days later the conference organizers rang me and said they didn't need me after all no apology for wasting my time was given you gotta love when people who are in the role of organizer have no freaking idea what they're actually doing you can rest assured that these people know how to really lead and organize things when it ends up being a whole jumbled process and at the very end they spit you out wasting your time and our final story of the days by shot sprinkles 6930 i humiliated my supervisor i 55 year old female have been working for the same place for over 20 years here comes a new supervisor we'll call him ah boss my previous boss temp supervisor hated me because heck he just hated women period so when ah boss took over he gave him an earful about me a little background on me i do my job very well but i don't take crap off no one which resulted in me and temporary supervisor to bump heads so when the new supervisor took over i was the problem child jerk boss hated me from day one no matter what he hated me one day at work i was feeling horrible and told new jerk boss i needed to leave to go to the hospital if looks could kill i would have dropped dead right in front of him he didn't want me to leave i left anyway and thank god i did because i was truly sick i had emergency surgery that night and was out of work for two months while i was out of work this man harassed me every week as to when i was coming back he was lucky because i was on heavy drugs at the time and i didn't feed into his bs two months later i'm back at work and realized none of my work was done by my backup person i had over 509 reports that needed to go on our website i asked him what happened and he told me don't worry about it i thought that was weird because these reports needed to go up within a 60-day period and it was well past the 60 days a few days later i asked again he said no don't post it because he had other people to do my job i said okay i then wait and send him an email confirming he didn't want me to post it he came back saying yes i don't want you to touch it i said okay and saved my email here's the malicious compliance part a few months later people started inquiring about the reports and why the new ones were not posted it got to the big bosses and they questioned the both of us he didn't know that they'd already questioned me about it and he started yelling at me about not doing my job i sat there at my desk just smiling when he went in about getting me fired i simply said oh are you talking about the reports you told me to not post he said i never said that i turn to my computer and printed out an email stating that i was not to touch the reports the look on his face was priceless i then told him i sent a copy of this email to upper management and they know it wasn't my fault by this time his supervisor was yelling for him to get in his office i smiled and said good luck with that he ended up leaving a few months later i got the biggest satisfaction in knowing i got him in trouble and i kept my job i think this goes to show that if a manager has a personal vendetta for an employee underneath them but said employee isn't actually doing anything wrong and it's just like this personal petty thing that trying to gun for them to lose their job might just make them the wily coyote getting smashed with an anvil while trying to chase the road runner but with that being said that's all the time we have for today so of all these stories i've read today which is your favorite and why let me know in the comments down below and if you haven't yet if you could like and subscribe that would mean a lot to me whatever you do whether it's liking subscribing turning notifications on all of it helps grow this channel and i appreciate the heck out of it so until next time i'll see you all 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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is steven and this is the story time channel we've got some entitled parents to hear about so let's jump into our first story of the day by broada66 entitled mother thinks i should pay for her kid for work he didn't do it's been a while since i posted this happened about a couple of months ago first off i am disabled i'm a one-legged amputee and had a stroke a couple years ago i've recovered mostly from the stroke some paralysis of my left arm still but i can still do most things i did before i also live alone and am pretty independent one thing i can't do is mow my yard i live on a very big lot and the backyard is big enough for a couple more houses to be there and the front and side are almost as big i do have a riding mower but i have a tendency to fall off when i use it one leg in a poor sense of balance not a great combination a neighbor's teenage son would mow it for me once every week for 50 bucks he graduated and went into the military so i had to find someone new this year i have a friend who will mow for me for free but i don't like to impose on him and i figure most teenagers could use an extra 50 bucks last year some new neighbors moved in consisting of a mother in her early 40s and her two teenage sons i didn't know about the boy's father but she apparently had a number of boyfriends who were always coming over and staying overnight the older son about 17 was always outside working on an old car he had i got to talking to him and he said he was trying to get it running but couldn't afford all the parts he needs so i offered him the same deal i had with the other kid i'd pay 50 bucks a week for the kid to use my riding mower to mow the yard once a week he jumped at it the first couple of weeks went pretty good i'd go ahead and pay him in advance and then he'd mow the yard that way if i had to leave or was napping he didn't have to wait for his money the third week he came he asked if he could use my mower on his yard his yard is tiny compared to mine my backyard alone is almost twice the size of his front and back together i told him to go ahead i was going to a friend's house and would be back later and paid him i came back that evening but it was too dark to really see the yard the next day i saw that my yards had not been mowed i rolled over to his house with its newly trimmed yard and knocked his mother answered now i have never seen his mother wearing anything but an old terrycloth robe in house shoes she apparently doesn't work or really do much of anything i asked for the kid and she said he had gone somewhere with his friends i thought that was strange with everything going on not surprising though i've never seen anyone at that house wearing a mask i wear one any time i leave the house anyway i didn't see him that day so my yard didn't get mowed a couple days later it rained for a bit so it was getting pretty tall a few days later he came over wanting to mow he asked about the pay and i told him he had never mowed it last week so i'm not paying him this week he made some comment about reign and then about it being so high this time i told him if he had mowed when he was supposed to it wouldn't be so tall he had already been paid for work he didn't do and i wasn't going to pay him again as he walked away i heard him say a-hole shortly after that his mom came over in her bathrobe and house shoes i answered the door and this was the conversation you need to pay my son i paid him last week for something he didn't do i'm not paying him again but it rained last week he couldn't mow you can't blame him for weather it didn't rain until two days after he was supposed to mow he didn't have any trouble mowing your yard my ears not that big yours is huge which is why i have a riding mower well just pay him and he'll mow it he still hasn't mowed it after the last time i paid him well i won't let him mow it unless you pay him then what will you do i have a friend who will mowed for free i was really just helping your son out entitled mother sneering at me you're just a [ __ ] you don't have friends yeah i'm a [ __ ] but i guarantee i have more friends than some lazy bloated who who spreads her legs for any guy she sees yeah that really got her pissed you'll be sorry i know people who will kick your sorry butt you'll be sorry you spoke to me like that thank you that definitely was loud enough for the microphone to pick up now turn and smile for the camera i pointed to the security camera mounted on the eve of my house pointed at the front door i'm sure the police will enjoy hearing that you just threatened me you know it's a felony to threaten a vulnerable person probably not but it sounded good she stuck her hand up in front of her face and took off back to her own house i heard the door slam didn't see her for the rest of the day my friend came in mode the next day i saw the kid out by his car watching that night he came over and apologized we had a long talk and honestly he's not a bad kid he's had a tough life his father left when he was little and his half brother who's 14 lives with his own father only comes to stay occasionally his mother doesn't even try to do anything but sleep and go to bars at night and bring home whatever guy is desperate enough to be with her she takes any money she gets that's why he wanted to get paid she insisted that he give her money he's been trying to get money for the car parts but she always takes his money so i offered instead of paying him in cash i could just buy him the parts he needs he loved the idea and by mowing before noon when she was still asleep she wouldn't even know he was mowing for me he wants to move out but has nowhere to go i found out he turns 18 in a couple months and i've told him he could stay with me then as long as he obeyed the rules of my house he's worried about what his mom might do but i told him she can't do anything once he's 18. besides she tends to hide her face and go inside whenever she sees me he told me she's scared i might take the video to the police and she's already been in trouble with the law besides i happen to know the owners of that house are selling it and she'll have to move soon anyway funniest part of this is that the camera doesn't even work the previous owner put it up and didn't take it with them i just never took it down and have never even messed with it so i think it's pretty apparent just by reading the story that op is a pretty good person it's a difficult situation for the kid to be in where their mother is basically taking all their money and just kind of wasting away if you were an op situation would you make some of the same offers that op did with allowing them to move in when they're 18 let me know your thoughts in the comments down below our next story is by xxx immortal xx but a new nintendo switch to reward myself entitled mother wanted me to give it to her since she doesn't buy stuff for entitled kid this happened about a month ago and i finally decided to write about it on reddit i work in a starbucks coffee shop located in a mall where karen's are known to swarm i've heard a few stories about them arguing about their coffee not being done properly but i didn't think that i would experience an encounter with one myself unfortunately i did after getting paid minimum wage brewing coffee for three months i finally saved enough money to buy myself a nintendo switch which the gaming store in the mall sold for about 500 my first mistake was buying it on a saturday which was the day entitled parents usually bring their kids to the mall at that time i didn't really think much about it as the chances of actually having an episode was low so on that day after i was done with my shift i went to the store and paid for a switch along with a few games like smash bros and breath of the wild while the store employee was scanning my card i glanced to my surroundings in order to avoid having awkward eye contact with the employee and outside i saw entitled mother 40ish and entitled kid tennis they looked pretty normal so i didn't think too much about them when i took the paper bag and carried it out of the store entitled kid somehow noticed that i was carrying a nintendo switch maybe he already knew while i was in the store and began to beg entitled mother for one i knew that it was a normal reaction for a child so i ignored him and continued walking to the exit of the mall suddenly entitled mother shrieked loud as freak and scared the poop out of me i recognize you you're the guy at starbucks since i obviously didn't know who entitled mother is i just replied with a yeah i worked there listen my son really wants the nintendo switch it's his birthday tomorrow and since you're not going to play with it anyway you should just give it to me from entitled kid's reaction i could obviously tell that she was lying and so i said well it's only 500 you could buy one yourself obviously replying was a mistake i should have just walked away now entitled mother was mad she shouted you wouldn't have time to play it anyways you have a job my son doesn't have any toys at home to play with so you better give him the switch i was just shocked at how she demanded me to just give away a 500 console it was her fault that she didn't buy entitled kid toys so she shouldn't go around asking for free stuff i had a feeling that this wasn't the first time that entitled mother had done this entitled kid was practically begging entitled mother to stop with the stuff luckily before the situation escalated the store employee that helped me with the purchase earlier saw the whole thing and offered entitled kid a second hand psp probably to not only calm and titled mother down but also maybe because he felt sorry that entitled kid had to deal with this stuff every day and gave him some form of entertainment i thanked the store employee for helping me with the situation and even gave him a 10 tip as a way of showing my appreciation even though entitled kid was happy as freak about his new psp entitled mother was giving me a stone cold glance as i walked away from her until now i'm still afraid that i'll have another episode with her because she knows that i work at starbucks but i can only hope for the best you definitely feel bad for the kid in stories like this where the whole thing is really just perpetuated by the entitled parent and you can actually see more maturity coming out of the kid than you can the parent how did she ever expect that someone was just going to give up 500 worth of games and consoles that's just so unrealistic all around the next story is written by it's me spring karen at a roller skating rink this is written from my friend's point of view sorry for the story being so short about 10 months ago i was at a roller skating rink because friend invited me this was my first time roller skating so as you would expect i was constantly falling over at one point i fell in accidentally tripped and titled mother's kid over kid didn't seem injured and wasn't whining like the other kids on this sub all of a sudden entitled mother rushed over and the following conversation ensued this is a bit paraphrased as i don't remember the exact conversation how dare you attack my angel leave now friend's mom walks over hearing all the commotion entitled mother to friend's mum how dare you kid attack my little angel friend's mom says first he isn't my kid second he would never do such a thing entitled mother and friend's mom then leave the premises to continue their argument i don't know what happened during the argument the next thing i saw was entitled mother being escorted out of the building by a security guard she then proceeded to fall and break her phone karma sometimes some bad things happen to you and you kind of don't believe karma's a thing because why is it happening to you but then she gets escorted out falls over herself and breaks her phone and it feels a bit more like karmic justice is a thing the next story is written by beardedalien013 why aren't you wearing a mask hear me out my fellow people i'm working from home but my wife still has to go to her office to attend her patience whenever she needs to go i drive her there same happens when she's done there i'll pick her up and drive her home we are social distancing and are not going out whatsoever and once a week i'll clean my car inside and out today i left her there and was driving back to my house when i'm driving and won't get out of the car i don't wear my mask even though i carry it with me let me emphasize this when i'm driving my car nobody but my wife gets in my car okay i'm at a red light all is good all of a sudden i hear a tap on my windows i roll it down just a few millimeters so i can hear her and our star karen starts her rant i want to point out when she came to talk to me her mask wasn't covering her mouth and nose why aren't you wearing a mask what why aren't you wearing a freaking mask you're setting a bad example to kids i'm in my car at a red light with my windows closed and air conditioner on i don't care a-hole i see your mask put it on now you're setting a bad example toy child that's when she points to her child on the sidewalk yes she left a child unattended just to scream at me the light turns green and i start to drive away she kept screaming and threw a water bottle on my car i decided to ignore and move on i don't think i'm wrong about this not wearing a mask inside of a car that i clean at least once a week and i'm the only one with access to it so i think op is completely fine here if you're inside your car driving around i don't think you have to wear a mask the only time you need to wear a mask is when you're going into public around other people you're not getting remotely near any other people while you're inside your car driving around it's honestly a waste of your mask adding unnecessary contamination and exposure time to your mouth and nose when you're not even being around anybody and our final story of the day is by him a bee entitled mother lets kids steal food from me okay so it's been a while since anything entitled has happened to me and although this story is rather small it has angered me beyond anything else i had just finished work and was on my way home and decided i was going to go to greg's uk people know what this is to get myself a donut for after my dinner later that night i bought one put it in my bag and headed over to the bus stop put the bag on the ground and started playing on my phone around five minutes later i see a kid in their mother em for short come and stand next to me but i didn't pay them much attention that is until i look down from my phone and see the kid inside my bag holding my donut and before i can say a word he takes a huge bite out of it instantly i look at entitled mother expecting her to shout or scold the kid for what he did but she opens her arms and lets the kid run over to her excuse me but your kid just ate my donut that i bought i said to her through gritted teeth she responded with i know my baby was hungry and i said he could have your donut as long as he asked you first all the while she was giving me a fake smile well he didn't ask me for anything all they did was walk over and take my stuff the entitled mother then shrugged grabbed her kid and walked away i wanted to freak out and rant at her but i was in my work uniform and all it takes is for her to complain that i was rude or violent towards her outside of work and i would be screwed this made me angrier than it should have so regarding that final line where opie said this made me angrier than it should have that would have made me pretty darn angry i would have had some choice words i think there is a very very justifiable level of anger involved with some kid walking up grabbing your donut and taking it and then the entitled mother being so nonchalant about it and not giving a care about your stuff but besides that if you enjoyed the video please consider giving it a like and subscribe and turn notifications on if you haven't all of those things help the channel out so incredibly much so no matter what you did whether it was commenting liking subscribing thank you all so very much for supporting me right here on the story time channel that said i hope you all have a wonderful day and i'll see you all next time right here

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wibta for disobeying my parents and not getting an arranged marriage my parents are very religious and my entire life they have been wanting me to marry a distant cousin we are originally from Eastern Europe but ever since I I 18f moved to America it's opened my eyes to what I really want in life I'm not interested in my love life being planned by my parents I want to meet a guy naturally and see where things go American men are also far more attractive I told them to let me date who I want and live my life but that's caused a lot of drama they're calling me a bad daughter for betraying My Religion but it's not like that I just don't want to marry someone in the family uh they also know I'm not a virgin anymore but thankfully they don't my other job I feel guilty for this but I really want to live life on my terms and not get this arranged marriage the dating scene in New York is great I've gotten to meet so many new guys but I know that no matter who I start dating my parents won't like him which sucks to think about but I guess that's the consequence if I don't agree to this arranged marriage something tells me I should just run off with an American man then move in together and have a big family God i' do anything for that if you know anyone single and willing to take a risk with me please let me know

give me a good story on WIBTAH for disobeying my parents and not getting an arranged marriage

what's a random piece of trivia that never fails to impress people the Agatha Christie novel The Pale Horse has frequently saved the lives of real people due to the in novel murder method being a particularly strange and not so well-known poison called thallium with the only real symptom being sudden and extreme hair loss both via accidental contamination from environmental contaminations and deliberate attempts on people's lives either medical practitioners or lay persons were able to recognize the symptoms from the book due to Agatha Christie having an encyclopedic knowledge of drugs and poisons from her time as a pharmaceutical nurse during the first world war which she frequently included within her books consequently this is also the book that is most spoiled in mainstream media

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Story 1 my 35m so 37f is a Reddit Troll and I absolutely dumbfounded on what to do I came home from work today and noticed my partner just sitting at the desk laughing to herself with her headphones on so I assumed she was watching a movie or something and left it at that not long after I poked my head round as I was going to ask her what she wanted for dinner and to my surprise she was on Reddit which was odd to me because she is antisocial media Etc but I thought it was nice she was trying something as she suffers from agoraphobia and doesn't get out much without me I briefly got a glimpse at her name and thought it would be interesting to see what she had posted yes I know this was an invasion of privacy and to my shock the account was 8 years old this means it's predated our relationship by a couple of years what's even more shocking was the stuff she had said on there so much ha eat towards random people for seemingly no reason at all this was not just one comment here and there either literally just an account dedicated to hating on people and she seemed proud of it in her comments one recent example was she spent an entire day just hassling someone it doesn't even stop there because she will make up stories

give me a good story on My (35M) SO (37F) is a Reddit troll and I absolutely dumbfounded on what to do -orig

:00.040 --> :05.240 today we have a great malicious compliance story  all about work trying to punish a worker and it   :05.240 --> :10.520 backfiring we'll get into that in a bit but  first want to log everything I do sure I can   :10.520 --> :17.480 do that this was almost 10 years ago Contracting  for a very large financial services provider for   :17.480 --> :22.720 some context team manager was promoted to a new  Division and the team eight of us working across   :22.720 --> :28.560 two shifts to cover International as well we're  left with two team leaders we'll call them [ __ ]   :28.560 --> :34.200 boy and passive gal to run the crap show until  the new manager was hired new manager joined 6   :34.200 --> :40.400 months later or early depending on perspective  and probably because of me my job in a nutshell   :40.400 --> :45.800 was to onboard new employees into all the required  systems for their daily functions as well as set   :45.800 --> :51.680 up their email and AD accounts for Server access  which was dumped on my lap a month into my job   :51.680 --> :58.440 because I had prior experience so said [ __ ]  boy I didn't mind the email and ad because it's   :58.440 --> :03.800 literally 2 minutes per account and didn't affect  my central function by more than 20 minutes a day   :03.800 --> :09.360 it'll make sense soon and audits were 30 minutes  a week this all happened from a centrally shared   :09.360 --> :15.640 mailbox it's requests so you can't determine  how busy you are on to the fun almost before   :15.640 --> :21.080 the door hit the manager on the way out [ __ ]  boy and passive gal call us into a meeting room   :21.080 --> :27.040 and states that we must do no less than 10  requests a day all to be logged on their call   :27.040 --> :33.520 logging system and here's the contract amendments  we must sign or be fired being a contractor you'd   :33.520 --> :39.360 think I would shut the heck up but nope I just  can't do being kicked in the balls so I piped   :39.360 --> :44.880 up I don't see how it's possible to guarantee 80  requests a day minimum for every team member why   :44.880 --> :49.600 not scaler the ticket count and see who did what  his face turned a deeper color and he shouts at   :49.600 --> :54.640 me to mind my own business I don't know what  I'm talking about CU my malicious compliance   :54.640 --> :00.280 which included calling my contract house manager  sassy and fun gal explained what was happening   :00.280 --> :05.840 and after she could breathe again from laughing  so hard she told me not to get her fired I head   :05.840 --> :10.760 back to my desk knowing full well audits are  about to start in a week and I get multiple   :10.760 --> :17.880 requests to make amendments on accounts to test  active directory security and L here it begins I   :17.880 --> :24.120 got an email 2 days later to prep for a massive  test I'm tasked to amend nearly 6,000 accounts   :24.120 --> :29.840 with new settings and then change them back on  request with minimal impact to the users during   :29.840 --> :35.800 working hours so I needed to do this quickly now  any Tech worth his measure out there will know   :35.800 --> :42.080 almost anything is scriptable I set it all up  called my mate at service desk and here's the   :42.080 --> :49.560 funny thing he also has a script to log multiple  tickets I roll on D-Day I take the auditor's call   :49.560 --> :54.640 at 8:00 a.m. to make the change I send the  email to my sesk mate and he logs the ticket   :54.640 --> :03.440 in a record 30 seconds my mailbox booms with  six th000 Open tickets I run my script and 90   :03.440 --> :10.080 seconds later bam job done I carried on with my  core function 3 hours later auditor called me to   :10.080 --> :15.320 revert I ran my second script everything back  to normal called my mate to close the tickets   :15.320 --> :22.240 and a minute later my mailbox frazzled for a bit  getting 6,000 closure tickets it's at this point   :22.240 --> :29.720 I smile sit back and start browsing all my meme  sites yes joys of AD control I gave myself un   :29.720 --> :35.800 restricted internet access a nice perk anywho in  less than an hour passive gal comes to me to ask   :35.800 --> :40.560 what's happening I simply state that the contract  Amendment they forced on us clearly means I don't   :40.560 --> :46.240 have to work for 200 days so I'll be sitting  here enjoying my time off or I can do it from   :46.240 --> :52.840 home either way I'm ahead of the curve she walks  away and [ __ ] boy storms over demanding a get   :52.840 --> :59.360 back to work I repeat what I said to passive gal  he spluttered for a while and he Huffs off true   :59.360 --> :05.400 to my my word I sat at my desk doing nothing but  sadly it didn't last 2 days before the head of   :05.400 --> :10.960 the department called me in after an initially  aggressive start to the meeting on his part I   :10.960 --> :16.080 got to explain the sitch I wasn't even to the  good part and he drops his head into his palm   :16.080 --> :22.400 calmly listens to the story asks me for a copy of  the amendment and thanks me for the time 2 hours   :22.400 --> :27.720 later he calls me back and asks me with sassy and  funny gal in the room what it would take to get me   :27.720 --> :33.560 back to work I decide to keep it simple formally  retract the stupid Amendment and pay me out for   :33.560 --> :40.160 the time spent on the audit which is 600 days as  per the contract Amendment he blow fished for a   :40.160 --> :46.760 few seconds agreed and I left for the day wake  up the next morning to a huge jump in my bank   :46.760 --> :54.400 account with an email confirming I'll be back in  the office please I am a man of my word I was back   :54.400 --> :01.080 in my desk working as usual and for some reason  [ __ ] boy and past mive gal never came near me   :01.080 --> :07.840 again even when I shifted to another department  at that point op is so toxic to [ __ ] boy and   :07.840 --> :12.520 passive gal they don't want to risk their jobs  any further they already got burnt and learned   :12.520 --> :19.160 their lessons so badly even in another department  stay away op is out here being Mega mine playing   :19.160 --> :25.600 40 chess also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy  awesome stories of malicious compliance why don't   :25.600 --> :31.200 hit those like And subscribe buttons down below  that said our next story is you want lesson plans   :31.200 --> :37.080 you asked for it once upon a time in the quain  town of Academia a new Middle School assistant   :37.080 --> :42.800 principal was placed at our school one day trying  to impress the school principal our assistant Mr   :42.800 --> :49.040 Sterns worth as we'll call him decided to crack  down on the teachers lesson planning process Mr :49.040 --> :03.440 sternorrhyncha that took way longer due  to formatting and other demands and wanted   :03.440 --> :08.760 them promptly every Monday at 8:00 a.m. for  the upcoming week the teachers grumbled and   :08.760 --> :13.320 complained as this takes a lot of time we could  be prepping for the lesson but we had little   :13.320 --> :19.680 choice but to comply with the stern Worth's wishes  I however saw an opportunity for a little Mischief   :19.680 --> :25.520 determined to make a point I not only submitted  the lesson plans diligently every Monday at the   :25.520 --> :32.520 specified time but took it a step further along  with each lesson plan I attached a friendly email   :32.520 --> :52.160 politely requesting feedback on the plans and any  suggestions for improvement Dear Mr sternorrhyncha :59.360 --> :59.400 [Music] :59.400 --> :06.280 to overflow with my meticulously detailed lesson  plans and polite follow-up emails it seemed that   :06.280 --> :13.120 every lesson plan submission was accompanied by  a prompt for feedback at first Mr sternorrhyncha :29.360 --> :34.520 responding to me than actually performing  his administrative duties frustrated and   :34.520 --> :53.000 desperate to put an end to the constant  barrage of emails Mr sternorrhyncha :59.280 --> :59.400 [Music] :59.400 --> :59.520 [Music] :59.520 --> :04.240 lesson plans that are really engaging I really  need the feedback I'd hate to get docked on my   :04.240 --> :19.220 endof year evaluation for being anything  but the best after a heavy sigh Mr [Music] :19.220 --> :34.520 sternorrhyncha replying to the letter and there's  nothing they can do about it because op was just   :34.520 --> :40.440 being a star worker for them was just doing  everything beautifully by the book you can't   :40.440 --> :45.320 complain when somebody wants to just get better  and better working for you this next story is   :45.320 --> :50.480 Christmas SL Employee Appreciation party this  happened a few years ago but being this time   :50.480 --> :55.560 of year it always makes me laugh to think about  it I worked at this place for close to 14 years   :55.560 --> :00.080 and I've always been the type of person to put  up with a lot we always had our our Christmas   :00.080 --> :06.440 SL Employee Appreciation party in January as  December was crazy busy I'd only been there a   :06.440 --> :11.000 few months when we were told about when and  where the party would be a few weeks before   :11.000 --> :17.400 there was a memo posted in the staff room titled  the rules of going out I kid you not basically it   :17.400 --> :22.680 was the owner's rules of how things were going to  go down for our party it went like this she liked   :22.680 --> :29.360 to use a lot of capital letters and exclamation  marks the party is for employees only no spouse   :29.360 --> :37.520 say I will pay for one drink only you can have  an appetizer or dessert not both attendance is   :37.520 --> :43.440 mandatory I thought it was funny and laughed about  it to one of my colleagues they didn't laugh and   :43.440 --> :49.000 told me that the owner wasn't joking she was dead  serious keep in mind that at the most there would   :49.000 --> :54.160 have been 12 people attending and that she would  completely write this off as a business expense   :54.160 --> :00.080 so why be so cheap I didn't want to rock the boat  so the first year I just towed the line the next   :00.080 --> :04.560 year the same memo appeared a few weeks before  the party pretty sure she just saved it to the   :04.560 --> :09.640 computer and printed it off every year the second  year and the few years after that we still went   :09.640 --> :15.960 out to a restaurant I thought fine you're going  to be that cheap in appreciating all the hard work   :15.960 --> :22.280 we do all year plus not treating us very nicely  fine C malicious compliance everyone orders their   :22.280 --> :27.680 drinks before their meal I get water she looks  at me and asks aren't you going to order a drink   :27.680 --> :33.280 I tell her yes but I'll have it with desserts as  I can't drink without eating anything first true   :33.280 --> :39.840 everyone orders a glass of wine a cocktail what  have you we eat our Entre then the dessert menu   :39.840 --> :45.880 comes I ask if they have a scotch menu they  do and she asks to look at it when I'm done   :45.880 --> :51.040 with it they also had those fancy coffees on  there as well I order my dessert and look at   :51.040 --> :57.720 the scotch menu and order the most expensive per  ounce Scotch they have about 26 bucks an ounce   :57.720 --> :04.000 at the time I'm not going to waste my one drink  only on a $7 glass of wine I'm getting the most   :04.000 --> :10.680 expensive Scotch there is and make a point of  savoring it m so good I've never had this one   :10.680 --> :18.840 before I get the death glare but hey I'm enjoying  my one drink only still makes me laugh yeah I get   :18.840 --> :25.640 the whole like one drink only is probably going to  put pressure on you to not spend as much or to get   :25.640 --> :30.760 a drink that isn't as expensive but some people  when they're giv opportunity are definitely going   :30.760 --> :37.000 to go all right what's the most expensive one you  got our next story is work tried to punish me it   :37.000 --> :43.800 backfired back in maybe 2006 to 2008 is I was a  tax associate at the most well-known Tax Service   :43.800 --> :48.480 in North America I did very well in the class  you take which determines your eligibility to   :48.480 --> :54.320 be hired as well as teaching you how to do taxes  and was hired I bounced from office to office as   :54.320 --> :00.040 newbies do and I was doing well enough that I was  always the first to be called if a shift needed   :00.040 --> :05.520 covered after my first season with them went so  well I was invited back for the next year and the   :05.520 --> :10.880 class was free because of the invitation back  in case you wonder why the class is every year   :10.880 --> :15.920 it's because tax rules change every year and we  have to keep up shortly after the class is over   :15.920 --> :21.360 which I aced I was approached by the lady who ran  the district she wanted to open a seasonal office   :21.360 --> :27.920 in a Walmart 50 km outside of the city I worked  in she wanted me as the primary associate there   :27.920 --> :33.520 in part because I done so well in the previous  year in part because I'd aced the class in part   :33.520 --> :39.960 because of my background insecurity and in part  because I lived 20 km closer to this Walmart than   :39.960 --> :46.320 anyone else on staff I wasn't to be a manager but  I was going to be the only fulltime associate I'd   :46.320 --> :52.480 open and close almost every day and often be the  only associate on site it was basically my baby   :52.480 --> :57.040 to take care of there were hints that might  lead to advancement in the company as well I   :57.040 --> :02.600 was pretty excited at the opportunity at first  everything went great the Walmart staff liked   :02.600 --> :09.360 me the customers liked me my boss liked me I  was blasting through customers only maybe five   :09.360 --> :14.600 people walked away due to having to wait out of  the few hundred who approached my little office   :14.600 --> :20.000 beside the produce section two months in right  before the tax season really heated up I had a   :20.000 --> :25.000 weekend I'd booked off the same day they'd hired  me I was going out of the province to see family   :25.000 --> :29.760 trip had been set long before they hired me so i'  made it quite clear I wasn't going to be around   :29.760 --> :35.840 the schedule accurately reflected that so weekend  arrives and I go had a good time came home Monday   :35.840 --> :40.800 evening so I could be back Tuesday morning when  I got home I checked my answering machine for   :40.800 --> :46.640 messages even if smartphones were starting to be  a thing I didn't have one and I'm pleased to say I   :46.640 --> :52.880 still don't there were three messages two from my  boss the district lady and one from the scheduler   :52.880 --> :58.000 I don't remember everything word for word so  I'll paraphrase message one Saturday morning   :58.000 --> :04.640 approximately 7:00 a.m. hi op sorry to do this  to you but we need you in today employee X who we   :04.640 --> :11.360 scheduled to replace you's car broke down message  to Saturday afternoon approximately 2: p.m. I'm   :11.360 --> :16.360 very disappointed in you for not responding  to me and not showing up I'll be making some   :16.360 --> :23.600 changes message 3 Monday morning approximately  9:00 a.m. hi op this is Schuler your hours have   :23.600 --> :28.480 changed this week call me when you get this now  at this point in my life I'm not a kid out of   :28.480 --> :33.520 high school and I've had enough experience with  screw jobs that I'm absolutely not going to crawl   :33.520 --> :39.080 on my hands and knees apologizing and begging for  my job if you're going to be Petty and mean just   :39.080 --> :45.200 because you freaked up then we're going to have  problems and so we did I called the scheduler and   :45.200 --> :50.920 was told I was suspended for a week and to call my  boss after a week to get back on the schedule she   :50.920 --> :56.360 said the boss was trying to put me in my place and  teach me how to be a good manager I'd get back on   :56.360 --> :02.360 the schedule after the week was over I I brought  up my pre-planned and scheduled time off and also   :02.360 --> :08.800 that I wasn't a manager I was a regular employee  the scheduler was very uncomfortable but she was   :08.800 --> :15.640 only doing what she was told they did need me she  said just call boss in a week I said sure and then   :15.640 --> :20.720 didn't I was furious and I wasn't the one who  was going to be put in her place I called a few   :20.720 --> :25.280 of the customers who i' had been working with and  explained I was no longer working there and they   :25.280 --> :30.840 chose to keep me as their tax gal regardless it  really wasn't intended as Revenge even though it   :30.840 --> :35.880 sounds that way the company wasn't going to make  more than it cost to have someone do their taxes   :35.880 --> :41.720 anyway this was purely a customer relationship  thing I like to finish what I start the real   :41.720 --> :47.360 revenge was accepting my suspension the entire  week I was suspended I made sure to stop in at   :47.360 --> :52.520 the Walmart to see if I knew who they scheduled  for my shift and if we were friendly then help   :52.520 --> :57.640 them out with the quirks of this location but  there was never anyone there I confirmed with the   :57.640 --> :03.600 Walmart staff all week they had no one working  there paying Walmart to rent space and getting   :03.600 --> :09.920 nothing but a bad reputation for it because the  heavily advertised new location had zero employees   :09.920 --> :15.320 it remained that way for the rest of the season 2  months the boss never called me and I never called   :15.320 --> :21.560 her Pride I have no idea how it impacted her  professionally I stayed far away from taxes ever   :21.560 --> :27.400 since I got another job before my suspension was  over and never looked back yeah you get bullied   :27.400 --> :32.680 working for a place like Walmart it's definitely  not the place where you stand down and just take   :32.680 --> :38.760 it you can and will do better in your life than  Walmart don't let them push you around like that   :38.760 --> :43.440 but with that being said that's all the time we  have for today now if you want to hear another   :43.440 --> :48.320 awesome malicious compliance story check out  that video on the left or if you missed my latest   :48.320 --> :54.240 video check out that video on the right that said  I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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today we've got a great story of Revenge humiliating somebody on live TV we'll get to that in a bit but first I promote my ex-friends Tick Tock posts so she keeps posting for my own entertainment hi I just decided I'd share but I don't care if it's deemed right or wrong I genuinely don't care don't give me advice please in high school I was considered unattractive and was also a late bloomer I tried everything under the sun to be attractive and look grown like them but I failed this one friend was the prettiest of them all she was extremely popular and was so perfect all the boys fell for her and they followed her around she was everything I couldn't be but I didn't hate her for it she was relatively nice to me till my last year we were all together talking and she asks me who I liked in our school I tell her I liked Josh for a year now and I wasn't pretty enough for him to even notice me she sounded so nice and reassured me she's close with Josh and will talk me up to him I started being a bit close with her over past weeks she'll come back and tell me Josh said this and Josh said that about me and he thinks I'm pretty and he liked me her talk-up was working I'd send messages through her to him for weeks but when I'd run into him it was like We Were Strangers we were talking for weeks but he acted like he didn't know we've been talking for weeks and when I tell her she says he's just shy and I'd believe her and this went on for more weeks till one of my friends told me it wasn't true she was doing it as a joke and that they're dating they've been dating for months everyone knew and they kept it an inside joke I was hurt and sad and miserable she played it off obviously time down she'd use that to taunt me and laugh at me with everyone that I wanted her boyfriend that's only one of the things she did to me she created heck for me I was miserable now I'm in my last year of college and I eventually bloomed and I'm doing better than everyone who saw me as a joke they're still stuck in the same place making tick tocks and they're all the same they constantly message me but I'm so far beyond that I look like a completely different person and that girl stayed the same she makes tick tocks and I watch them and laugh at how she's the same and still doing the same thing in Trends high schoolers are doing she didn't bloom after her High School Bloom it felt good I might sound terrible but it felt so good I pay for tick tock views and promotion on her posts fake obviously just to get her excited so she'd post more and think people are actually watching the more I promote the more she posts like six times a day and each post is cringier and funnier she does more Trends and it looks worse each day and it entertains me definitely not advice but I feel like it would have to get old at some point like at what point do you have enough fun with leading this person on thinking oh they're so popular and famous I feel feel like at some point it very quickly goes from Maybe funny to you to maybe you should just be kind of sad also hi I'm Steven and if you enjoy crazy stories of Revenge why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is a small but Petty Revenge this is from years ago but I ran into it and thought the pettiness would fit right in I female was a very insecure growing up I had a small group of friends all the way through High School especially my bestie Liza she was very beautiful and all the guys liked her I on the other hand was too tall too skinny shy and very insecure she always dated the guys that I could only dream of dating one day a mutual friend told me that when Liza knew that I was interested in a guy she would go all out to get him interested in her I didn't believe the mutual friend Liza was my bestie she wouldn't do that to me it had to be a coincidence but I was talked into testing it out I thought there was no harm arm because I had faith in her the next night I told her that I had a crush on Brad he was the Soccer Star at our school and had a reputation as a love him and leave him guy that I most definitely didn't have a crush on sure enough the next week Liza and Brad were a couple I thought back and realized that our mutual friend was right and every time I told her that I liked someone she ended up with him it pissed me off but I decided to get some Revenge before I cut the Friendship off completely I started liking Bad Boys you know the guys that smoked and did drugs and barely got by in school sure enough she started hanging out with the bad boys drinking and smoking and skipping school she ended up pregnant and quitting school and honestly I felt bad about that but she made her own choice to be a skanky friend I ran into her last week while I was home visiting my parents she never left the small town we lived in had been divorced three times I told her that I'd always had a crush on her brother wonder what she's going to do with that in a way I can understand why you would feel bad for what happened here but it very much was her own choices that she was making all along the way it sucks to see anybody go down that road and basically ruin their own lives but just because you said you liked somebody doesn't mean that you're responsible for any of the decisions beyond that point our next story is you want to be a narcissist have fun with that I had a friend let's call her a she was very manipulative and emotionally abusive she'd threatened to humiliate me with things I trusted her with if I didn't help her work well when I left that friendship I saw that her phone number in her emails so of course any sign ups I signed her up for I put her number and address in for those if you have religious questions I know it's not big considering everything she did to me but it makes me happy knowing at least once a day she has to deal with something mildly crappy yeah if you want to get back at somebody in some small way that hopefully only makes you feel at least a little bit satisfied take their information and sign up for Scientology stuff apparently I've heard they don't quit apparently they are Relentless this next story is let's see if you like a taste of your own medicine I'm still getting a lot of heat for this but only because of the escalation that occurred today see there's a faculty member let's call her Lola who is beyond annoying what makes her so annoying well she tended to make everybody wait for her it didn't help that she was the one responsible for supplying us with what we need for our classroom for example when you try to get her to do anything or answer a question she would always say oh give me a moment I'm so busy and never gets back to us sounds like nothing right well when you approach her again Lola responded with the same response eventually you would get so fed up of waiting for her that you would just figure out the solution on your own only for her to complain that you should have waited for her and when you tell her that we got tired of chasing her Lola would always counter with I'm just so busy you must be patient with me this had been going on for about a few weeks now but I mostly ignored her I'm self-efficient and I usually buy my own things that was until she got involved in our Starbucks run every time we planned a Starbucks run the process was always the same we posted in the group everybody put down their order and our boss collects and pays but every time Lola would say wait I'm so busy only not to order anything an hour later she did this a few more times until they announced that I had enough my colleagues wanted to know what I was going to do and I told them that I got an idea so on Monday I started taking orders she did her usual Antics and I told her that she got 10 minutes she tried to object saying that she was so busy but I stood my ground 10 minutes later I ordered 30 minutes later we got our order and she was fuming she tried the protest but I told her that I meant what I said then she said that I should have waited for her I just tilted my head and said hmm African Americans will understand that gesture for the whole week every time she tried to talk to me I would just give her usual response I'm busy oh give me a moment and things like that and I do mean every time soon it got to the point where she refused to talk to me which was fine because again I'm self-reliant now here's where the real fun begins my colleagues on both sides foreigners and Chinese started to join in on it which started to piss her off even more nobody wanted to let up even after being spoken to about it we all just informed him that we're just doing what she's done to us then today the students mostly high school students got involved I don't know if they saw what we did or heard about it all I know is that they started to do it too and being teenagers they were Relentless even when she said hi to them they gave Lola her usual responses after dealing with this for a week she finally broke down and cried I got called into a meeting with my boss after Lola singled me out he told me that what I did was on the side of cruel and requested that I tried to make amends with her I refused to encounter that she needs to grow up and stop acting like she was more important than she actually is right now we're at an impasse but I have this feeling that I got my point across to Lola I mean with all this time that she's so busy does she actually get anything done if the boss is gonna be upset with anybody maybe they should be upset with Lola who seems to be leaving everybody else hung out to dry our next story is my employer tried to steal 38 dollars from me so I made them pay five thousand dollars back in 1998 I moved from Michigan to Virginia and took a job as an irrigation tech for a large Regional landscape company within six months I learned my mistake as working as an irrigation attack for landscapers suck you're treated as a necessary evil and always get the crappy end of the stick I'd heard through the grapevine that some area managers had screwed up a couple big maintenance contracts and that somehow they were going to try and make me the scapegoat so I promptly went to the second contract red interviewed for originally and got a job there and put in a one week notice my manager was really pressuring me to give them more notice until I told him that if he asked me one more time for more notice that he would notice the following morning that I didn't work there anymore so at the end of the week I turned in my Uniforms Plus my reimbursement slip for 38 dollars petty cash I was told that I was getting nothing back on my uniforms and that they weren't going to pay my 38 dollars I was pissed but just moved on the following week I contacted my local labor board and filed a complaint saying that the entire time I'd worked for them I was being paid salary while I was was a non-exempt employee I asked to be paid all of my overtime a few weeks go by and it works its way through the system and I get a call from the corporation's controller we have a meeting and go over everything with a bunch of back and forth and he was trying to justify that I really was exempt and they didn't know me anything until I really had enough of his crap I told him straight up that we might disagree on how much they owe me but I'll guarantee they owe me something on top of that I would make a point on every payday going from Branch to branch of the company with a sign standing outside the gate telling every single non-exempt employee that they were screwing out of overtime how they could sue the company I ended up signing an NDA and got a check for 5 000 the following day within two months that company and several others in the area began paying what they call Chinese overtime they take your weekly salary and divide it by 40 for an hourly rate and for every hour of overtime you work you got half your rate if you work your way through the math and whatnot and how the labor board determines your overtime in this case it pretty much worked out correctly so in summary my employer tried to screw me out of 38 dollars and I made them pay me 5 000. I just love the phrase op said if he asked me one more time for more notice he would notice the following morning that I didn't work there anymore overall this just sounded like a terrible place to work in general definitely putting profits over the people our next story is Bluetooth speaker Revenge one of my neighbors loves to blast loud music and watch soccer every darn night with his friends I've had enough and wanted to do something original just to annoy him and give him a good scare while I was on my phone I noticed a bunch of devices in the Bluetooth settings I saw an unsecured Bluetooth speaker so naturally I waited until they were all asleep and then I paired my phone with it I then played a super loud window breaking sound effect and since there's absolutely no sound proofing here I could hear it through the wall along with their screams I had to laugh in a pillow not to get caught I hope that I'll be able to sleep because I can't stop thinking about it it was really entertaining I'll tell you what this would certainly scare me I don't think there would be anything more terrifying than laying in bed and all of a sudden hearing what sounds to be a glass window breaking this next story is jerk and Biz Clash treats me like dirt I work for his competitor and photograph his sales Prezzo I used to be a trade show director in the high-tech field and often when problems arose things ran late and I boarded flights wearing my show floor clothes jeans and a t-shirt such was the case from DC to San Francisco and I took my seat in business class you rack up Malto travel points when you do shows see needed in the middle was this towering Armani pustule all ostentatious gold jewelry obligatory Rolex Montblanc pen with his name on it monogrammed Cuffs in case he actually forgot who he was he took one look at me as he would a dog turd on his shoe and made a visible play of him moving away from his middle seat to the window ignoring my cheerful hello no problem Adam like conversing with fellow passengers it always gets awkward knowing when to go back to your book all went fine until I suddenly heard you move postul wanted to pee no excuse me just move I went full sycophant parody mode immediately yes sir Mr big shot with a ridiculous tie right away sir a couple of people who heard his demands caught on and started grinning and off he went to the crapper I sat down and glanced over to his Table and there was a binder with a presentation in it with vinyl covers hmm hmm took a closer look and it was the annual sales forecast and plan for my company's biggest competitor did I mention dear reader that I was an avid 35 millimeter photographer back in those pre-digital days I blew two rolls of film while he was taking a poo the best part though was when I gave the picks to my VP of sale saying you need to take a look at these the stricken look on his face made me wonder what Secrets he was keeping but I did get a cool bonus for capturing our competition's evil plans and got one over on a sneering Pratt who spent too long on the toilet well I certainly wouldn't assume what op did is necessarily legal but sorry to feel bad for a guy who was just a total jerk right this next story is petty responds to a death threat once upon a time I worked with banks that foreclosed on houses I wasn't a lawyer I wasn't an employee of the bank I just kept track of houses and made sure they were clean secure here had no title or boundary issues no Hazmat no septic leaks mold and whatnot one aspect of this was to take possession of houses from the former owners make sure they hadn't been stripped get power gas and water transferred to the banks and sometimes giving the former owners a check there were a couple of programs I handled one of which was a deed in lieu of foreclosure in which the banks through their lawyers would give the people who couldn't afford their mortgage often a second or third mortgage involved a check if they simply walked away and didn't go through the formality of foreclosure I had nothing to do with the legal aspects I simply made sure the house hadn't been burned down fairly common or abandoned and at the end I would inspect to make sure the house hadn't been stripped or vandalized and hand over the check while waiting for the handoff I would drive by once a week to make sure the house was still there wasn't being rented out on Craigslist common scam make sure it wasn't a ban abandoned not being used as a Dumping Ground and the like but I only cared about the house itself not involved with the people inside during the process I would introduce myself explain why I was taking photos once a week what to expect and let them know that when I eventually showed up with cash I wasn't pulling a scam it tended to make everything run more smoothly and avoided calls to 9-1-1 from occupants saying some guy keeps taking pictures of my house and driving away the house in question was a four bed three bath three-car garage about 3 500 square feet in a good part of town they had probably skipped about twenty thousand dollars of mortgage payments taxes insurance and water bills by the time I got involved and the bank was offering them a check for fifteen thousand to walk away without going through foreclosure and eviction on the condition that they leave the house room clean with no stolen fixtures or vandalism one day they came by my office to argue about the situation I had nothing to do with the actual process but I was a convenient face so this mid-40s couple with designer handbags hold up in their Range Rover and proceeded to waste 20 minutes of my time telling me it was unfair and they deserved more money they didn't like being told to take it up with the bank and the attorney or if they didn't want to go through with it then I had even less involvement that I already did I was used to a fair bit of abuse but I didn't take it personally just chalked it up to the bad situation and Let It Go but this lady wearing too much filler and drawn eyebrows that were so arched they could support a bridge and lots of gold bobbles and a faux fur coat crossed the line when she shot it as she was leaving you had better start looking under your car before you started was I scared not even a little I got much more credible threats every now and then but was I annoyed absolutely a couple of weeks later I was sent to trade the check for the keys smug lady was there copying an attitude and being far more rude than anybody else I ran into on these deals so I do my inspection checking for broom clean condition and no damage Beyond normal wear and tear I was generally extremely lenient with my inspections but after the death threat I wasn't going to cut as much slack it was mostly okay but in one of the bathrooms the toilet paper roll holder legally a fixture had been ripped off the wall leaving two quarter-sized holes in the drywall that's a stolen fixture and intentional damage to boot sorry I have to report this to the bank slash their lawyer for approval to proceed I take several photos taking my time to get items for scale in the shot and leave with a check I already knew the bank would release the money far greater damages were allowed to slide in the past so it wasn't as if I was actually really affecting them Beyond delaying the check for a few days but they woke up that day expecting fifteen thousand dollars and weren't getting it three days later I was sent back to reinspect the holes were now covered with cheap drywall patch probably a five dollar kit from Home Depot so I handed over the check take the keys escort them to the front door close it behind them and start drafting my punch list which includes a standard allowance for drywall repair honestly I just think this line of work is never going to necessarily be glamorous or too fulfilling I mean when you work in a field that centers solely around foreclosures or kind of related to it most of the time it's not a good or happy scenario this next story is got my bully back there's this kid in my class Ebola is mainly girls stealing pencils breaking our stuff shoving hitting swearing ruining work even trying to cut our hair basically he won't leave us alone I've been trying to ignore him but it's just not working after he broke my ruler when I was out of class sick due to a medical condition I wanted Revenge small victory but it's enough for me me and a friend colored a Q-tip yellow and red adding some glue to it to make it look used then another classmate stuck it on the back of Bully's neck he was super freaked out his reaction was hilarious and all we could do was laugh we told him it was glue in the end but he kept on nervously glancing at us for the rest of the lesson which was a nice change I don't think you'll be messing with us anytime soon definitely very small revenge in comparison to other posts I needed somewhere to share though hey I think I'd much rather hear stories like this rather than something that gets you written up or in detention or maybe causes some kind of bodily harm or even like a public shaming thing like at least they didn't go and try to cut the bully's hair too arnac next story is rude grocery store manager I bought some groceries from Kroger's and the cashier forgot to give me two of my bags those bags had two rib eye steaks one pound of lean beef 12 ounces of center cut bacon and some smaller items didn't notice until they got home called the store's customer service it rang for about five minutes I was folding laundry so I don't care about letting it ring finally someone answered and was really annoyed based on the tone of voice I explained what happened and asked who the cashier was I told her she put me on hold music played for a bit and then it went to ringing for a few minutes and then it just hung up I was irritated thought about driving back to the store in person but didn't instead the next time I went to Kroger I got my usual items but I got double the steak and bacon went through the self checkout and didn't scan those items I scanned everything else and placed the bags with the scanned items on top of the meats that I hadn't scanned if they had noticed and said anything I would have just said I forgot but the workers didn't notice Petty yes but it felt great this is one of those weird things where it feels like morally wrong to do but also fair enough I don't know if I would have the kahunas to do that but can you really blame op I mean this store just totally let them down our next story is be a rude and insulting customer sweet dreams several years ago I was an assistant manager for a national chain auto parts store one that everybody knows two people were required to open the store each morning the store opened at 7am but we were to be inside at 6 30 a.m to perform the opening tasks one cold clear morning me and a co-worker arrive at 6 30 and head to the door before we even reached the door this raging lunatic comes stomping towards us holding a sack and yelling you clowns sold me their wrong part I said okay we'll get you the right one as I was unlocking the door I could tell he was planning to enter the store with us now here is the first of the petty Revenge I could easily have let him in and quickly resolved this issue but for obvious reasons that was not gonna happen I told him I'm sorry but customers are not allowed in except during store hours we open at 7. he replied I've got a plane to catch the airport he was headed for was Memphis International a solid 45 minutes away on a good day during rush hour it's anyone's guess how long it would take the co-worker and I entered and locked the door behind us the lunatic went back to his car we completed the opening procedures and I sat in the office waiting until precisely seven o'clock at seven I headed to the door expecting psycho to be standing there but he wasn't I looked out and saw him sitting in his car head tilted on the back seat asleep morning sun shining brightly I chuckled to myself and unlocked the door around 7 15 he still hadn't come in and when I looked out his car was gone having driven off with his incorrect part and hopefully missing his flight after a stressful rush to the airport I think it goes without saying but this was completely on this guy for just trying to exchange these parts before he's going to the airport I mean I don't know what urgent matters they had to attend to but they did things all kinds are wrong definitely pays off sometimes to be that person that goes to the airport an hour early even if you've got to like sit around for a while our next story is insult me I'll humiliate you on live TV this happened a long time ago at the beginning of my career I'm now retired I was working as a field service tech for a company that made electronic equipment for radio and TV stations one of our products Was A Primitive by today's standards on Screen Graphics generator we crammed as much functionality as we could into a box about the size of a dorm refrigerator so one day I got sent out to a Midwest TV station to fix a malfunctioning unit and this is where our Story begins I met at the airport by a station employee and we swing by my hotel to drop off my luggage and check in I grab my tools in test gear and head over to the TV station where I met by the chief engineer since the graphics generator was currently in use he played back a videotape of the newscast that showed the problem basically the weatherman had a scrolling Graphics of the current conditions and forecast occasionally the new line of text that entered the bottom of the screen would glitch and a line of corrupted text would scroll up the screen this would be accompanied by a snide remarked by the weatherman insulting the station engineers and techs or my employer's products and Personnel dang what a jerk I muttered under my breath yes he is agreed the CE he acts like this whole TV station is here just for him good to know I'll shorten this next part between the noon and evening newscast I managed to locate the problem with the graphics generator but as luck would have it I didn't have the right spare part it was an odd thing to fail so I told the CE I would have the replacement board fedexed and we can fix the graphics generator in the morning then the weatherman looked in and inquired about the graphics generator when we told them the bad news he proceeded to insult me the station for using our products the station technical staff and anyone else he could think of okay crap just got real and a plan hatched I looked at the CE and asked him you wouldn't happen to have a spare 74 LS I forget the actual part number laying around actually he said I believe we do so extract the malfunctioning board run down to the shop unsolder the bad chip drop in the new one back upstairs to the control room install the fixed board and test it works perfectly just in time to get the graphics generator set up for the evening newscast the Revenge as the evening newscast began I made myself comfortable at the back of the control booth just to you know be available in case of problems when the weather report came on the graphics operator had the scroll queued up I nudged her out of her chair and took over I turned off scrolling and sent the graphics live unscrolling the weatherman looked at the camera and made a snide comment about malfunctioning equipment I turned the scroll on as the weatherman turned back toward his monitor the text he needed to read was slowly disappearing off the top of the screen he got flustered lost it began stammering and tripping over his words to rub it in as he would start to catch up with the scroll I would tweak this scroll speed to make it slightly faster so he could never catch up hilarity was ensuing in the control booth and the studio everyone knew what was going on and they were happy to see this grade a flaming jerk finally getting his comeuppance live they had to go to commercial break to allow everyone to regain composure as the weatherman stormed out of the studio honestly I'm surprised that somebody that pompous in the weatherman position would be allowed to continue on for so long like I feel like you have to be like some beloved accredited news anchor to be able to be that much of a jerk and still hold down your job also and I don't know if this is too obscure of a reference nowadays but it kind of reminded me of a Drake and Josh episode just puts the picture in my head of a relentlessly sweaty stuttering buffoon up there trying to desperately find the words for the weather newscast but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another awesome Revenge story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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AIT ta for telling my mother-in-law that she isn't allowed at our wedding ceremony if she can't accept the fact my daughter will be the flower girl I 25f and marrying my high school sweetheart 26m we decided to finally tie the knot after nearly 7 years of dating I truly love him and thankfully get along with most of his family expect for his mom she is continuously nagging at me for not giving her a grandson I know this may be harmless however my fiance has repeatedly told her that she already has a grandchild my baby girl five she's my best friend's daughter they sadly passed away she was my godchild so it only felt right that I should take her in and bring her up in a way I knew her mother my best friend would want recently we have begun getting bridesmaid dresses Etc we both decided to make our newly found daughter a Flower Girl she loves flowers and this seemed like the perfect opportunity to help her feel like we take her as our own at a recent family gathering my fiance's mother has non-stop been horrible to my baby girl let's call her Ellie saying things like I simply don't understand why an adopted child should take the place of a True Blood which simply made my blood

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first story op's boyfriend had an affair with her therapist using my throwaway account for obvious reasons I 26f have been in therapy for about a year now because I was on the verge of burnout and still had trauma to work through from my previous relationship which has negatively impacted my current relationship with my boyfriend 28m while my current relationship has been an increasingly frequent topic in therapy sessions lately I was there mainly because of psychological pressure regarding my studies and work lately I've been feeling increasing worse and haven't been able to handle the pressure around me as well which has also put a strain on my relationship because I wasn't being completely honest with my therapist and her suggestions weren't working we agreed to include my boyfriend in some sessions these were to be one-on-one sessions so that she could get his perspective and create a plan that would take his needs into consideration as well my therapist 37f has been very helpful in helping me better reflect on my emotions and better articulate my needs the better I could deal with the pressure the better things went between me and my boyfriend after a while I noticed that my therapist was acting increasingly strange whereas before she was very neutral and asked more pointed questions that allowed me to reflect on my own behavior in relation to my relationship and patterns of behavior she increasingly began to badmouth my relationship and blame me for my relationship problems I found this very strange and I couldn't explain where the sudden change came from but I didn't think too much of it maybe I was just on the fence about how badly I treat my boyfriend fast forward to today yesterday I was at my boyfriend's house and we were having a nice day and decided to watch a movie together before bedtime out of nowhere he suddenly had tears in his eyes and then he confessed to me that he was having an affair with her he cried the whole time and reassured me that he regretted it and didn't want to lose me in his words my therapist put so much pressure on him that he didn't know what to do and couldn't say no I guess it started when she invited him to a one-on-one session that was months ago and since then they have been meeting secretly after he confessed to me I drove home and cried the entire car ride no matter how long I think about it what he says just doesn't make sense how could he do this to me ever since he told me about his cheating he has been constantly trying to call and text me I have 13 missed calls from him and a lot of messages assuring me that I am his world and he didn't want any of this to happen but she pushed him into doing it he has also been to my parents house and my mother has told me how miserable he is and that he mentions over and over again that my therap pressured him dear people of Reddit how do I deal with this situation part of me doesn't want to believe any of this and wants to believe him the other part knows that what he did is not excusable tldr my 26f boyfriend 28m had an affair with my therapist 37f because she pressured him and badmouthed me and I don't know what to do now update hello everybody sorry for not getting back to you with an update for so long and for not responding to the comments the last few days were pretty exhausting for me since I had to study for my finals and go to work besides being absolutely heartbroken but I have read through all the comments and I'm really overwhelmed by all the support after all this happened my ex-boyfriend tried to meet me at my place so I went to my parents first but then got in touch with him after a few days we talked for a long time because I really wanted to understand what exactly happened but the sad truth is I still don't know if she really pressured him that much into having SX with her or not he couldn't give me a proper answer even when I made it clear to him what the consequences would be for her career so I broke up with him I told him that he could talk to me anytime if he felt that what she did was exual coercion or assault but I can't forget what happened even though I don't know who actually initiated the affair or who is to blame I'm also not in the emotional state to continue seeing him if he is complicit in my trust being so exploited and broken regarding my therapist I have reported her and am in the process of suing for damages I absolutely do not care how much she manipulated my ex-boyfriend or if he willingly had SX with her I have been her patient and she has gone behind my back hopefully she won't have anything left after I'm done with her so that's it I am now trying to move forward and focus on the important things to be honest though all of this has broken my heart from one day to the next my entire life has been destroyed and I can start all over again in terms of my mental health right now I can't imagine trusting anyone like that ever again but I guess that's just life we live and we learn thank you for all the love and support and a big F you to all those effing disgusting pigs in my DMs that have been trying to get naked picss from me while I was absolutely devastated and in a horrible situation tldr I broke up with my boyfriend and reported my therapist Second Story op discovered her identity after she tried to mess with Bill to put it bluntly I look like a girl definitely a flatchested one but still I guess I'm just unlucky in the genetics department most people think I'm just a tomboy but still it gets a bit annoying when people think I'm a girl I'm pretty comfortable with myself now but I used to get bullied a lot for it and can be a bit sensitive about it my sister's 26-year-old husband 30-year-old is always making jokes about it I've told him to stop but he never does since it's all just jokes I've gotten sick of it and wanted to get him back instead of being my usual timid self and not saying anything I went out of my way to get some friends and my younger sister to give me a makeover a little before they were to come over basically make me look as girly as possible they did a pretty good job and it turns out that if I'm all made up I look a lot like a younger version of my older sister when they came over I made sure to act as girly as possible he was visibly very uncomfortable so I was definitely winning this one they left very early and I got a text from my sister calling me an Ary hole for making her husband uncomfortable she told a few family members but most are on my side and a few think what I did was childish and in our the whole territory a edit F off to anyone using Reddit care resources to be bigots no one likes you edit to I got a text from my sister saying that I was a giant piece of sht and ruining her marriage I don't think I will be seeing them anytime soon but just in case I'm going to try and have a proper conversation with my parents about everything and see if we canot have them in the house for a while since I only pay rent to live with them I don't really get to say but I hope my parents can support me relevant comment in response to someone saying he must have looked cute I thought I looked quite cute too L it was a lot more fun than I thought and yeah I was wearing a skirt for the makeover maybe next time I will try a dress in response to someone saying it must be empowering me and my sister are talking about it now we plan to go shopping and get me a few clothes then maybe get my nails hair and makeup done professionally so I can see how I look in a dress at my best I didn't know I would have this much fun my sister is probably the most most excited though she finally getss her way and gets to make me all pretty like she's been trying to for years update thank you everyone for all the feedback positivity acceptance and some laughs from some comments it's been a wild few days I had to sit down with my parents and had a big talk about my feelings they agreed that my sister's husband wouldn't be welcome in the house anymore the only reason they didn't do or say anything about it was because they thought it didn't bother me and knew I'm a tough cookie they apologized for that and said they would speak out more in the future if anything like this happened again my older sister had been texting me a lot calling me all sorts of names and saying I'm ruining her marriage she also visited yesterday and as soon as she came into the house she started screaming at me and things got heated so my parents also banned her from coming over until she could apologize for her behavior and let her husband continue to make me uncomfortable on a more positive note I've been exploring myself a lot these couple days with my twin sister she told me to not call her my younger sister but we are a day apart so I will always call her my younger sister it's all good fun she helped me a lot with clothes and makeup even experimenting with what pronouns I liked I think I may be trans but there's still a lot of exploring to do I hope this is a worthwhile update for some of you it's not exciting or drama filled but things are working out and it's at least an exciting time for me even with some of the negativity I do have to say thank you so much Bill I wouldn't have explored my identity without you edit some people are taking a little sister comment a little too seriously my sister is fine with it she read the post before it was posted and we had a giggle about it my relationship with my twin sister is a lot different than my relationship with my bill relevant comments what's up with your sister I'm not sure what's going on between them since ATM I want nothing to do with my sister and Bill yep I do hope it works out for my sister with or without her husband I still do love her and want her in my life but not the way she is now clarification on how the op and twin sister are a day apart and about the mom we were born four or 5 hours apart when we were younger we would celebrate birthdays but not normally on the birth date mostly on a weekend but we would have a smaller one on both birth dates for both of us with just family we got our favorite meals for dinner even from takeout places and our favorite cake each day it was always a great few days as we got older we would still do the family thing but have our own separate parties or things we did thank you as for my mother I know that I and my sister were born four or 5 hours apart different days I am not sure how long before that she was in labor but I know it was a very difficult one update everything has been quiet from my older sister and Bill me and my other sisters have been having a blast helping me explore my identity I even went out clubbing with them dressed up and it was so fun I've been going by sheer since my last update and by a different name to see how it feels and it feels right but who who knows maybe I like those pronouns and might not be trans either way exploring takes a while I'm learning and you can always discover more about yourself on a less positive note my bill and sister being quiet and not seeing them came to a quick end last night bill came to the house drunk mumbling things about how I ruined his marriage and calling me names and other BS he went to the side of the house and entered through the back door that we never lock it was very scary in the moment he came after me and tried to push my head into his crotch and when that didn't work he tried pulling my pants down and pushing me to the ground thankfully my sister was there to pull him off and threaten him with a kitchen knife he left right away and we called the police and my parents who were out at the time my parents came straight away but the police didn't show up till 2 hours later to basically just say they couldn't do anything and that if we wanted we could go to the courthouse for a restraining order my parents tried calling and texting my sister to tell her what happened and why he did what he did but all she texted back was F off I'm very shaken up right now but I'm not going to let it get to me my parents are going to get me a fist so that I can talk about this and other problems I feel and maybe also help me explore my identity a bit I'm sorry this wasn't a more positive update than my previous one but I always appreciate the support of everyone on Reddit even if there are a few ARA holes comments from op's Buu post police the country in which I'm from is pretty inconsistent you could get one set of officers doing everything in their power to give you the resources to do something if they can't then you have some that will ignore straight up crime happening in front of them because they don't give an sht where does OP live bingo I don't know what it's like in other places in Australia but the cops in my area are very inconsistent in the area where I live leaving the back door unlocked in my country it's normal not to lock the back door especially for my family so the dogs can go in and out yeah it quickly became a habit of mine now I check the back and front doors religiously now now security cameras my mother ordered some cameras we can use with an app so we can all have access as for a dog we do have three but only one big protective one the other two small dogs are more of an alarm system and they just didn't see him as a threat at the time since they knew him update I just wanted to give a little update to some of the people who would like one my bill came to my house again to apologize luckily I wasn't there and my dad chased him off while calling the police this time they actually came at an appropriate time about 20 minutes later there was nothing they could do except advise my parents and me to get a restraining order so that's what I did right now I only have an iro that lasts about 20 or something days or something like that and if he doesn't show up to court in those days I'll get a more permanent vro other than that everything has been quiet and we haven't heard from my older sister or Bill since we do know she's safe since she's been sht talking the family to friends and other extended family I've been mainly staying in depressed but but doing okay seeing a therapist and being diagnosed with depression and put on medication I honestly thought I was fine for those days after Bill tried that but it got to me more than I thought like a week or two after my other sisters have really been helping me not feel alone even if it's just us watching Netflix in silence on opposite ends of the couch it makes me feel more safe sad post my dad passed away from a heart attack the other day I just had to watch my dad suffer while I couldn't do anything but cry with my sisters while our mother called an ambulance I felt so useless and scared now I don't have my dad anymore the man who I could always rely on to protect me cuddle me when I was sad and teach me and my sisters how to fish even if we were ungrateful little shts and hated fishing I would fish forever if it meant I could see him again how do you even live with a big part of yourself just missing I keep going from numb to angry to uncontrollable ugly crying how can he just be gone I want my dad back I miss him I love him and I just want him back back please please please please give him back he still has so much to do see and enjoy he still has kids to love and I still have so much more love to give him I'm so lost now I always went to my dad when I was lost but heun not here anymore what do I do when I'm lost now do I just stay lost final update post 8 months later I just recently discovered that I still had these Account Details on a phone Note which reminded me to log in some people seem to want a bit of an update so I'll give one to those that care my dad passed away about 7 months ago I'm still grumbling but doing a bit better after seeing a therapist and psychiatrist as for my be older sister the last we heard from her was after dad passed away and she wanted inheritance then cursed our mother out when realizing that he left nothing to her and everything went to our mother since then we haven't heard from her or seen her what we know is that she and Bill moved across the country to live with his extended family good riddance on a more positive note therapy has been going well I transitioned now and despite what has happened the last year I am finally happy with my identity and who I am my therapist encouraged me to talk to my GP about all this and she was very supportive I'm now on a FASTT track referral to an endocrinologist after confiding in my GP she did some basic blood tests and hormone screening I don't know why but I'm glad she did aside from a bit of low iron she found that I have less than 1% ndl of testosterone she's thinking some kind of Androgen deficiency maybe that's why I always look feminine L but lucky for me that also fast tracks the referral so that's about it as far as what broadly happened over the months it is not 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:00.160 --> :05.640 would you be the jerk for telling your mom you  wished she died instead of your dad we'll get   :05.640 --> :11.920 into that in a bit but first am I the jerk for  opening a fake gift during a family Christmas   :11.920 --> :18.040 party every year my family does Christmas at my  mom's and she insists that we open all presents   :18.040 --> :24.360 together even gifts between spouses Etc it's  normally an okay tradition but sometimes it can   :24.360 --> :30.680 spark jealousy or comparisons between families  this year my husband saved up and bought me my   :30.680 --> :36.960 dream designer handbag for Christmas I know some  people aren't into that but it's something that I   :36.960 --> :43.160 truly love we're not well off but we're not doing  poorly either but I knew that the handbag would   :43.160 --> :48.720 cause a lot of discussion amongst my siblings  in parents I just didn't want their opinions   :48.720 --> :54.560 and criticisms to ruin a special gift my husband  worked hard to get for me so this year my husband   :54.560 --> :01.760 got me an extra gift that wasn't the real gift it  was a moderately priced skin care set Christmas   :01.760 --> :06.880 came and went without drama but I recently posted  a picture of my husband and our kids at dinner   :06.880 --> :11.840 and my handbag could be seen hanging off the  back of my chair one of my friends commented   :11.840 --> :18.120 underneath about how gorgeous my Christmas gift  was as well long story short word got back to my   :18.120 --> :24.520 family and they totally blew up some were annoyed  that I opened a private gift separately from the   :24.520 --> :30.600 family others were criticizing the price of the  gift my siblings are now calling me ingenuous   :30.600 --> :35.680 for harboring a secret gift and they said I  did it because I think I'm better than them   :35.680 --> :40.000 I didn't open it with them because I didn't want  their opinions but now I'm starting to feel like   :40.000 --> :45.480 a jerk for keeping it a secret I knew either way  they'd all criticize me though since it was much   :45.480 --> :51.120 more expensive than all the other gifts so I don't  know whether or not I'm wrong their reaction and   :51.120 --> :57.240 the utter outcry is more than enough to explain  why op is not the jerk and why they did what   :57.240 --> :03.240 they did could you not argue that op should just  just gather their Collective outrage from various   :03.240 --> :10.200 people assemble it make some big group chat and  explain this is why you harbored The Secret gift   :10.200 --> :15.880 because this is just the secondary outrage you  get over an Instagram photo not even what you   :15.880 --> :21.320 would have in person opening this gift in front  of all of them imagine how op feels from all this   :21.320 --> :28.080 digital hatred can you not understand why op  wouldn't want it in person also hi I'm Steven   :28.080 --> :33.040 and if you guys enjoy getting to decide whether  or not all of these people are jerks why not hit   :33.040 --> :38.400 those like And subscribe buttons down below that  said our next story is am I the jerk for expecting   :38.400 --> :44.840 my date to cover the cleaning cost of a dress  he ruined I 27-year-old female am in a bit of   :44.840 --> :50.000 a dilemma and could really use some advice I've  been seeing this guy for a couple months and we   :50.000 --> :55.000 decided to go to a nice high-end restaurant for  a date initially I was going to wear a nice dark   :55.000 --> :59.560 blue dress that I like to wear out but he asked me  to wear a different white dress that I'd shown him   :59.560 --> :05.680 once once as it had matched his outfit I've never  had a guy ask me this the white dress in question   :05.680 --> :12.720 was a gift from my late grandmother and was quite  expensive so I was reluctant but agreed and just   :12.720 --> :18.200 asked that we didn't go anywhere after where I  might spill something on it or otherwise mess   :18.200 --> :23.720 it up he mentioned clubbing after dinner which is  why I said that I didn't want to risk messing the   :23.720 --> :28.560 dress up and he said we could just go to dinner  and I could change out of it before doing anything   :28.560 --> :34.840 else great however the evening took a turn for  the worst when he accidentally spilled his red   :34.840 --> :41.920 wine all over my dress he had gotten an unexpected  call and when he tried to quickly mute his ringer   :41.920 --> :48.200 his elbow hit his glass and it spilled all in  the lap area of my dress before I could react   :48.200 --> :54.120 it was completely drenched and stained he was  apologetic at the time and I tried to be cool   :54.120 --> :00.520 about it but inside I was devastated especially  since I'd mentioned specific spefically how I   :00.520 --> :06.040 wanted to be careful wearing it later I mentioned  that the dress was very expensive and asked if   :06.040 --> :11.280 he'd be willing to help with the cost of cleaning  or replacing it to get it professionally cleaned   :11.280 --> :18.240 and the stain removed would cost $100 which I  asked him to pay half of to my surprise he got   :18.240 --> :23.880 quite defensive he argued that it was an accident  and that I was being unreasonable for expecting   :23.880 --> :28.560 him to pay for something like that and that it  was my fault for wearing it out knowing that it   :28.560 --> :33.880 could have happened I feel like it's a matter of  principle yes it was on accident but the dress is   :33.880 --> :40.720 ruined and it was extremely sentimental to me  not to mention a valuable dress he thinks I'm   :40.720 --> :45.880 being materialistic and making a big deal out  of nothing now I'm not sure how to feel about   :45.880 --> :52.040 his reaction am I the jerk for expecting him to  cover the cost I think op is definitely not the   :52.040 --> :58.200 jerk if they're an adult capable of taking another  adult out to a dinner they're more than capable of   :58.200 --> :03.720 paying a $50 oops I'm sorry for messing up the  prize dress you told me you didn't even want   :03.720 --> :10.760 to wear in the first place this guy is way in the  wrong on this one our next story is am I the jerk   :10.760 --> :17.040 for giving my child the same name as my friend's  stillborn baby I 26-year-old female am currently   :17.040 --> :22.000 7 months pregnant and a few weeks ago we found  out that we were having a little girl my husband   :22.000 --> :27.480 28-year-old male and I had already decided on what  to name our baby depending on the gender and upon   :27.480 --> :32.200 finding out that she was going to be a girl we  announced that we would name her Adelaide I first   :32.200 --> :36.320 heard of this name when I was a kid and thought  it was beautiful and decided that if I ever had   :36.320 --> :42.960 a daughter I would name her Adelaide after hearing  this one of my friends 27-year-old female who I've   :42.960 --> :49.080 been close with since we were at University began  acting distant towards us throughout my pregnancy   :49.080 --> :54.320 I've tried to be sensitive to her feelings as I  knew it was a sore point for her two years ago   :54.320 --> :00.200 she tragically lost her baby girl to a still birth  I can't even begin to imagine how heartbreaking   :00.200 --> :05.160 this must have been for her and I made sure  I supported her through this devastating loss   :05.160 --> :10.720 despite her trauma she has never been anything  less than kind and empathetic towards me up until   :10.720 --> :16.640 that day a couple of weeks later she confronted us  suggesting we change the name of our baby to which   :16.640 --> :22.560 we were buffed she kept on trying to convince us  suggesting different names or saying that Adelaide   :22.560 --> :28.960 was too old fashioned or that it wouldn't suit our  child we kept on denying to change her name until   :28.960 --> :34.000 eventually my friend started crying and revealed  that Adelaide was the name she'd chosen for her   :34.000 --> :40.520 stillborn baby when she was pregnant she refused  to tell anyone her baby's name as she wanted it   :40.520 --> :45.600 to be a surprise for when she was born after the  still birth she decided she would keep the name   :45.600 --> :51.440 to herself because it was personal to her to which  we understood until recently no one knew what her   :51.440 --> :57.320 baby was going to be called she claims that by  keeping our name we are disrespecting the memory   :57.320 --> :02.800 of her baby she said that if I I chose the same  name then my daughter would be a living reminder   :02.800 --> :08.320 of what could have been I completely understand  her grief but I believe I should have the right   :08.320 --> :13.960 to name my own child without being burdened by  someone else's trauma am I the jerk to be honest   :13.960 --> :20.000 I think op is not the jerk here and I think it's  a very unfortunate circumstance but it's one of   :20.000 --> :24.800 those situations where you both arrived at the  same point without ever having any knowledge   :24.800 --> :30.520 of either side going there especially with the  background history of op wanting to name their kid   :30.520 --> :36.120 this all their lives they shouldn't be restricted  because of what happened now the issue is you have   :36.120 --> :40.560 to decide whether or not you want this friendship  with this person because continuing to name your   :40.560 --> :46.880 kid that might fracture your relationship our  next story is am I the jerk for quitting because   :46.880 --> :53.080 I was called an employee my significant other and  I started a business and am doing decent not well   :53.080 --> :58.440 off but we've turned a profit a lot quicker than  I thought we would I am literally doing 100% of   :58.440 --> :03.840 the work I I've worked myself into exhaustion  and sickness getting this off the ground he is   :03.840 --> :09.120 working a regular job to keep paying the bills  anyways his mother and him have been no contact   :09.120 --> :15.760 for a while and they just started talking again  she offered him a hefty loan to help his business   :15.760 --> :24.280 I'm talking over $20,000 as long as I was just an  employee she has always hated me but I won't get   :24.280 --> :30.840 into that while yes he has gotten me a few orders  from his co-workers I am still creating and doing   :30.840 --> :36.440 100% of the job while also doing the social media  part he doesn't even know how to work the machine   :36.440 --> :41.440 or the programs to run it while it was his money  that got everything in the beginning I've earned   :41.440 --> :46.880 that back twice over my own when I heard him  say that I was just an employee I said as just   :46.880 --> :53.080 an employee I quit I seriously stopped in the  middle of a project not an order but a prototype   :53.080 --> :58.880 for a possible product and went to our room heck  I still have paint on my hands while typing this   :58.880 --> :04.960 am I The Jerk update we won't be getting the loan  he called her and told her that I am the co-owner   :04.960 --> :09.240 and that the business wouldn't even be close to  where it is without me in fact he couldn't have   :09.240 --> :14.600 done it without me at all good on op for sticking  up for themselves and saying it how it is they   :14.600 --> :20.080 are 100% right here and I'm glad they were able to  get their significant other on board with that and   :20.080 --> :25.200 acknowledge that to their mom our next story is  am I the jerk for moving out of my parents house   :25.200 --> :31.760 during their divorce my parents got married young  and had me in their teen I 15-year-old female grew   :31.760 --> :36.240 up as someone they blame their problems on and  honestly they act like I'm the cause of their   :36.240 --> :42.680 divorce my choice in the divorce was to live with  my mom and do weekly visits to Dad or vice versa   :42.680 --> :47.080 but they pulled me aside and said I could also  decide if I wanted to stay with my grandparents   :47.080 --> :52.560 because they requested custody there is nothing I  would want more than to live with them as they act   :52.560 --> :58.200 more like my parents than my real ones when my mom  heard this she got really upset at me and started   :58.200 --> :03.680 calling me a Ben and a jerk and complaining that  no one loves her she called my grandparents and   :03.680 --> :09.600 started at them too my dad is a drunkie and one  of the only times he's sober he tells me you're   :09.600 --> :14.800 a bench like your mom and you're going to hoe  around and get pregnant by the time you're 16   :14.800 --> :19.880 I of course got really upset and called the child  service person and my grandparents to see if they   :19.880 --> :25.240 could get custody well they are and my parents  are really upset over the whole thing especially   :25.240 --> :30.640 cuz they believe they haven't been abusive to me  I'm at my grandparents house officially now and   :30.640 --> :36.000 they keep calling me to scream and curse and I  feel really bad my grandma tells me that they're   :36.000 --> :42.280 insecure and bad people but I think I'm a jerk for  doing this to them so long story short I moved out   :42.280 --> :47.480 and my parents keep telling me to come back home  because they think I'm a bench for leaving them   :47.480 --> :52.040 I'm starting to think I was too harsh and some  of my friends told me that I was being dramatic   :52.040 --> :57.800 about it am I the jerk this is a very stressful  situation and honestly whatever you feel the   :57.800 --> :04.120 most comfortable with what you personally want I  think that is the right thing especially at 15 or   :04.120 --> :09.800 16 years old you can totally understand and make  that decision for yourself and you'll be able to   :09.800 --> :15.520 know what is and isn't right if your grandparents  provide this safe space for you where you feel the   :15.520 --> :20.400 most comfortable and you feel like they're the  most parent-like people in your life how could   :20.400 --> :26.080 you be wrong for that the other people just want  you to feel that way our next story is am I the   :26.080 --> :31.640 jerk for telling my parents to figure their own  crap out and booking my own flight in hotel my   :31.640 --> :37.440 19-year-old female family is going to Italy in  the spring due to conflicting schedules I'll be   :37.440 --> :43.640 leaving 5 days before them and coming home 4 days  after they arrive my sister 15 was supposed to   :43.640 --> :49.600 fly out with me and was going to go home with our  parents but they take forever to do anything I was   :49.600 --> :53.960 looking for flights and told my parents I needed  an exact date that they planned on leaving so I   :53.960 --> :59.160 could book the flights they said they'll get back  to me I asked again and they still didn't know I   :59.160 --> :03.960 told my mom that I was booking my flight and they  can do theirs later they figured out the dates   :03.960 --> :08.200 but after the website I booked my flight on won't  let me get the flight for my sister because she's   :08.200 --> :13.120 not an adult so somebody's going to have to call  and figure that out then I started talking about   :13.120 --> :19.720 hotels I found some that were a decent price so I  showed my mom and she said it's a lot of money so   :19.720 --> :24.400 we have to show my dad and have him approve the  problem with that is that he likes to wait until   :24.400 --> :29.800 the last minute to get a hotel he once booked  a hotel when we were in the car driving to that   :29.800 --> :35.560 vacation after waiting a few days I booked my own  hotel and told my parents that I got my own place   :35.560 --> :41.280 and they can figure their own crap out now they're  saying I'm being impatient controlling and trying   :41.280 --> :46.040 to ruin the trip am I the jerk for telling them  to figure their own crap out and taking care of   :46.040 --> :52.600 myself I wholeheartedly do not blame op in this  position it reminds me honestly of all the times   :52.600 --> :57.920 I try to schedule something with people in the  past and just getting so frustrated when almost   :57.920 --> :02.920 every time the answer was something like well  we'll see as it gets closer hey next Tuesday look   :02.920 --> :09.080 good oh you know we'll just have to see like you  and I both know come Tuesday you're not going to   :09.080 --> :14.320 be hitting me up saying oh yeah today is good  God forbid as an antisocial person I've got   :14.320 --> :20.680 to exert the energy to actually set up an invite  and then do the same thing the day of while still   :20.680 --> :26.000 being completely in the dark you get let down so  many times like that and I don't blame op this   :26.000 --> :31.320 next story is am I the jerk for not wanting to  pay for my stepdaughter's trip with her mom my   :31.320 --> :37.160 stepdaughter 11 who's with her mom most of the  time has one of those trips to DC coming up Mom   :37.160 --> :41.480 previously went with her older daughter and  signed stepdaughter and herself up to go in   :41.480 --> :48.840 2025 our custody order States any extra expense  over $200 has to be agreed upon before either   :48.840 --> :55.080 is obligated to pay we were not consulted just  told it was done and to start paying some history   :55.080 --> :01.240 here 2019 my husband and I took our son on a last  minute trip to visit my dad's side of the family   :01.240 --> :06.280 mom got upset step-daughter didn't get to go and  showed her our piics on social media to make her   :06.280 --> :14.440 mad at us 2021 we take both kids on a trip and ask  if Mom will send some spending cash like $100 so   :14.440 --> :19.120 stepdaughter can get souvenirs to bring home to  them and she said no and she shouldn't have to   :19.120 --> :25.960 pay for our vacation 2023 we took both kids to  Disney World for Christmas and while she said   :25.960 --> :31.960 she would she didn't send anything with her her  fine we had them doing chores and saving all year   :31.960 --> :38.920 for spending cash we said no to paying for half  of the $2600 trip and are legally not required   :38.920 --> :44.720 to this was an opportunity through the school  but is not a school sponsored trip mom already   :44.720 --> :51.400 thinks yes but am I the jerk I don't think op is  the jerk here because they were not consulted at   :51.400 --> :58.720 all about it there might be the slimmest argument  of well just suck it up for the kid but op was   :58.720 --> :03.280 n consulted and they're totally being taken  advantage of or expected to be taken advantage   :03.280 --> :09.160 of in a way that she's never shown any history  of willing to reciprocate experience for the kid   :09.160 --> :15.240 or not you can't just expect to get away with  spending $1,300 of someone else's money without   :15.240 --> :20.800 ever Consulting them our next story is am I the  jerk for wanting my stepdaughter's friend to go   :20.800 --> :28.000 home so my 16-year-old female stepdaughter has had  her friend over for 4 days I wasn't even consulted   :28.000 --> :33.480 about the length of of her stay in the first place  I asked my husband on the third day when is she   :33.480 --> :39.680 going home he said tomorrow maybe I don't know so  the fourth day comes around and I asked him again   :39.680 --> :44.440 he says I don't know I'll have to ask my daughter  I just simply stay to him that I would like her to   :44.440 --> :50.280 go now it's been 4 days I feel like it's been a  long enough stay and that she should go he said   :50.280 --> :56.000 that it's up to his daughter when she leaves I  said no it's up to us parents so he leaves to   :56.000 --> :02.040 the garage and I go about my day he comes back in  less than 5 minutes to argue with me about it I   :02.040 --> :07.680 just say I've had enough of the visit and that 4  days is enough we argue for like 5 minutes and he   :07.680 --> :13.400 leaves for at least 2 to 2 and 1/2 hours so I go  out for a walk in the conservation area near our   :13.400 --> :19.360 home and he comes to find me to tell me that the  girl overheard our conversation and left in a taxi   :19.360 --> :24.160 when his daughter got home from work both of my  stepdaughters have been going back and forth to   :24.160 --> :28.760 work for at least three of the days that the  friend has been here so now my husband won't   :28.760 --> :35.360 have anything to do with me so pretty clearly not  the jerk I don't understand why he's just so okay   :35.360 --> :41.040 with having somebody stay over for a week and not  having any control over the situation of their   :41.040 --> :45.360 household just leaving it up to their daughter I  bet you a million dollars they'd be a little bit   :45.360 --> :49.840 more particular about it if they knew that that  was their partner they were having over all that   :49.840 --> :55.960 time it's a shared household op absolutely has  a say in this and if she was going to stay over   :55.960 --> :02.400 for 3 4 5 days or whatnot or however long op  should have been consulted and factored into   :02.400 --> :09.280 that decision our next story is am I the jerk for  texting my wife your sister is welcome to stay my   :09.280 --> :15.120 sister-in-law 33-year-old female was visiting us  from out of town and staying with us 35-year-old   :15.120 --> :20.360 male and 35-year-old female for a week between  Christmas and New Year we were supposed to go   :20.360 --> :25.840 out last night but I got into a silly fight with  my wife so I stormed off and went home by myself   :25.840 --> :30.800 I won't get into the details of this argument  because I accept the bulk of the culpability for   :30.800 --> :36.200 it and it's not the point of this am I the jerk  question it's probably worth noting for context   :36.200 --> :41.080 that there has been simmering tension between me  and my wife lately to the point she brought up   :41.080 --> :46.400 if it would make sense for us to take time apart  when I arrived home I concluded it would be best   :46.400 --> :51.840 for me to leave the apartment for the rest of  sister-in-law's stay which had another 48 Hours   :51.840 --> :57.440 remaining as her flight could not be changed we  were in a one-bedroom New York City apartment   :57.440 --> :02.840 with sister-in-law staying in our living room so  it's impossible not to be in each other's face   :02.840 --> :08.600 all the time I believed sister-in-law would feel  uncomfortable due to the tension and my continued   :08.600 --> :14.520 presence would effectively force her out of our  place which I considered would be unfair to her   :14.520 --> :20.560 besides sister-in-law is currently a grad student  living off a student loan with a ridiculously high   :20.560 --> :25.480 interest rate and she would be paying exorbitant  hotel rates in New York City during New Year's   :25.480 --> :31.080 Eve weekend whereas I have enough credit card  points to make the out-of-pocket expenses a   :31.080 --> :38.040 minimal consideration therefore I texted my wife  as follows I'm leaving the house at 9:00 p.m. and   :38.040 --> :44.480 plan a return on January 1st let's talk in person  then your sister is welcome to stay until then at   :44.480 --> :51.960 8:45 p.m. I'd finished packing my overnight bag  when to my surprise my wife and sister-in-law   :51.960 --> :59.160 arrived at the apartment sister-in-law accused me  of being extremely rude taking particular umbrage   :59.160 --> :05.240 with the last sentence of my text well I said  that out of consideration for you I admit I'm   :05.240 --> :10.560 at fault for this fight with your sister so I was  merely offering to minimize the inconvenience to   :10.560 --> :18.200 you our guest by my leaving instead I responded  sister-in-law declared I'm an adult and you do   :18.200 --> :23.800 not tell me whether to stay or leave with that  sister-in-law grabbed her things and ventured   :23.800 --> :29.400 off into the December night a single woman with  no plans in a city she's UNAM familiar with which   :29.400 --> :35.560 is exactly what I feared and had tried to prevent  my wife is now mad at me for giving sister-in-law   :35.560 --> :40.960 no option but to leave by saying she's welcome  to stay I'm baffled because it was intended to   :40.960 --> :46.080 be anything but that am I the jerk for this  sentence I could have handled the situation   :46.080 --> :51.840 better overall but the sisters are convinced that  my saying sister-in-law is welcome to stay is the   :51.840 --> :58.000 chief offense of all a second related him by  the jerk question after sister-in-law exited   :58.000 --> :03.600 I wondered out aloud to my wife well should I at  least offer to book your sister a hotel room but   :03.600 --> :08.640 since sister-in-law had left to make the point  that she's an independent woman I did not pursue   :08.640 --> :14.640 this option further and now my wife is also angry  about this am I the jerk for not reaching out to   :14.640 --> :20.120 sister-in-law and offering to book her a hotel  room so I don't think op is the jerk here they   :20.120 --> :25.320 were doing a very healthy Thing by trying to  remove themselves from a tense situation and   :25.320 --> :30.600 this sister-in-law just went full victim comp  Lex trying to say well I'm an independent woman   :30.600 --> :36.640 and you can't make my decisions for me well in  that case okay good luck going out independent   :36.640 --> :42.520 woman in yourself in New York City with no plans  during New Year's Eve weekend at that point when   :42.520 --> :47.080 she storms off because she's an independent  woman and how dare you offer her a place to   :47.080 --> :53.080 stay I mean you're completely cut loose of any  responsibility there our next story is am I the   :53.080 --> :58.720 drer for insisting my sister buy my son a new  PlayStation my 10-year-old son got a PlayStation   :58.720 --> :03.920 for Christmas my four-year-old nephew stuck a  piece of ham in the disc part and tried to turn   :03.920 --> :09.800 it on you also dropped a controller on the hard  floor damaging it very slightly the PlayStation   :09.800 --> :16.080 is okay but I rather my sister buy my son a new  one and take this one my sister said I was being   :16.080 --> :21.680 ridiculous and that that one is still fine I told  my sister unless she buys it I'm not having them   :21.680 --> :27.520 over again I think it really does come down  to how functional the PlayStation is I mean   :27.520 --> :33.720 if everything still working and I mean the hammed  up disc reader is still totally working I mean I   :33.720 --> :42.160 feel like there's maybe some kind of compensation  that could be done but realistically no real harm   :42.160 --> :48.880 was done maybe the disc reader doesn't read discs  as well because it's all ham smudged up I mean if   :48.880 --> :54.040 it hasn't died yet I'm not too afraid of ham  juice that's still in the machine going to fry   :54.040 --> :00.040 it later but at the same time I can't really blame  op and say that op he's the jerk I mean there is a   :00.040 --> :04.600 lingering fear that this ham will come back to  hauna PlayStation and kill it right I mean to   :04.600 --> :10.600 be fair putting ham inside the disc slot of the  PlayStation probably does void the warranty so I   :10.600 --> :15.560 don't know our next story is am I the jerk for  complaining to my brother-in-law for making my   :15.560 --> :21.480 daughter a picky eater so my daughter is nine and  has been generally good with food she usually eats   :21.480 --> :26.840 everything a few weeks ago my wife was traveling  for work and I had a family emergency back in my   :26.840 --> :32.400 home country so suddenly we needed someone to look  after our daughter Khloe for about a week and my   :32.400 --> :38.880 wife's brother Owen 30-year-old male volunteered  and save the day Owen is a foodie and to be fair   :38.880 --> :45.400 makes delicious food but he's also quite picky  and maybe a bit judgmental of food that isn't done   :45.400 --> :51.880 properly or isn't fancy enough this isn't usually  an issue though looks like during this time Chloe   :51.880 --> :57.240 and Owen had the time of their lives because my  daughter was quite happy in the end and well we   :57.240 --> :02.760 learned about the surprises later on apparently  Owen fed her some really fancy food and kind of   :02.760 --> :07.440 changed her perspective about a lot of the food  we typically eat I learned this the hard way when   :07.440 --> :12.680 Chloe asked for a grilled cheese and then didn't  eat what I made her typical American style which   :12.680 --> :18.640 she always liked wanted it the way her uncle Owen  made it I called Owen for the recipe but goodness   :18.640 --> :24.920 me I had to buy like 10 new ingredients several  types of cheese a kind of bread that I don't have   :24.920 --> :31.720 or can't make make fresh bashal sauce or whatever  it's called Etc like I don't have time to do any   :31.720 --> :37.800 of these and they're expensive I did give this a  try and my daughter did say it was nice but not   :37.800 --> :43.640 as good as Uncle Owens this keeps on Happening Now  pretty much everything me or my wife makes or when   :43.640 --> :49.520 we order pizza she says this is not good and wants  it the way Owen does it we then call Owen for the   :49.520 --> :56.240 recipe and everything is complex expensive needs  equipment we don't have and time consuming Owen   :56.240 --> :01.640 hosted Christmas dinner and Chloe asked me to go  there early to help her uncle and well the day   :01.640 --> :07.000 after that said that's how we should make food in  my kind of frustration I called Owen and told him   :07.000 --> :12.280 he kind of made our lives a lot more difficult we  never had trouble with food before and now it's   :12.280 --> :17.480 the number one issue he suggested that maybe  we can expand our Horizons and it's good for   :17.480 --> :23.200 Chloe to experience a wider range of food choices  instead of complaining to her person who gives   :23.200 --> :28.360 food to Chloe my wife agrees that it's a lot more  difficult now but says it was kind kind of a jerk   :28.360 --> :33.400 thing to complain to Owen when he was doing us a  favor and he hasn't done anything except to give   :33.400 --> :39.000 Chloe good and healthy food from my perspective  it was just not necessary for a 9-year-old to   :39.000 --> :45.000 turn into Gordon Ramsay and make our lives a lot  more complicated it sounds to me like op is the   :45.000 --> :51.520 kind of person who thinks salt alone is all you  need for seasoning which is totally fine which to   :51.520 --> :58.280 be honest my pallet is garbage too salt is all I  need for most of my meals as well but clearly this   :58.280 --> :04.280 isn't Owen's fault he made some good food and she  enjoys the good food honestly I think this is more   :04.280 --> :09.920 just about parenting than it is Owen's fault our  next story is am I the jerk for letting my kids   :09.920 --> :18.440 say hi in Spanish Hi I white mid-30s female  have a 7-year-old son I don't speak Spanish   :18.440 --> :24.240 I don't remember exactly how but a while ago he  learned how to say hi in Spanish he also learned   :24.240 --> :30.960 to say aloha and found it fascinating because it  sounds so similar to Ola he is very proud of his   :30.960 --> :37.280 new bilingual greeting skills when out in public  shopping or at restaurants he frequently greets   :37.280 --> :43.160 people in Spanish instead of English to show off  last week we were out shopping I was distracted   :43.160 --> :48.160 searching the shelf for a particular item when  another mom and a boy about the same age walked   :48.160 --> :53.640 into the aisle I didn't realize it at the time  but the other family was speaking Spanish my son   :53.640 --> :59.080 however definitely noticed and said Ola to the  other boy the Boy looked at my son with disgust   :59.080 --> :04.480 and said that's not funny then quickly walked  away I understand how the other boy could have   :04.480 --> :09.360 perceived this as mocking but I honestly don't  believe that was my son's intention I don't   :09.360 --> :14.880 want to be rude or offensive or teach my son to  be unintentionally I have been feeling guilty   :14.880 --> :21.720 about it ever since I'm a bit Nero spicy and have  difficulty with social situations like this so   :21.720 --> :27.080 am I the jerk I really don't think op's the jerk  here I don't think their kids's The Jerk s years   :27.080 --> :33.560 old I mean it's not even a mistake in general I  think it's kind of victimizing themselves to have   :33.560 --> :39.240 somebody say Ola to you because you're speaking  Spanish and immediately go Oh yeah okay that's   :39.240 --> :44.440 racist how dare you I mean if anything they're the  ones that are acting like it's off limits for a   :44.440 --> :49.680 white person to speak Spanish which also doesn't  make much sense when you consider how many people   :49.680 --> :57.200 native to Spain identify as white this next story  is am I the jerk for telling my mom I wished she   :57.200 --> :03.760 died instead of my dad I 51-year-old female and  the second youngest child of eight growing up   :03.760 --> :09.320 there was a constant unfairness and favoritism  between my siblings from my parents my sister   :09.320 --> :14.480 Kathy who I'm 18 months apart from and I would  always get the short end of the stick when we were   :14.480 --> :19.240 younger Cathy and I got pulled out of private  school and put into public high school so my   :19.240 --> :24.960 parents could pay for my older sister's University  in high school I participated in many things like   :24.960 --> :30.680 ASB and swimming but my parents never showed up  for anything or give us rides to school so we had   :30.680 --> :37.040 to walk when it came time to applying for college  my parents only gave Kathy and I two options   :37.040 --> :44.280 Community College or a university that my two  older brothers went to in 2015 my dad 82-year-old   :44.280 --> :51.600 male was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer when his  condition got worse in 2016 I would visit daily he   :51.600 --> :58.640 passed away late in May of 2016 after he passed  the favoritism from my mom got even worse since   :58.640 --> :05.280 my dad would normally mitigate it fast forward  to 2021 my mom 83-year-old female began planning   :05.280 --> :10.800 on how her possessions would be dispersed after  she passes she called all of the siblings up to   :10.800 --> :16.920 her house so that we could make lists and plan on  who received what many people wrote lengthy lists   :16.920 --> :22.760 that she promised they would receive I wanted a  few sentimental items photos of my parents and   :22.760 --> :28.280 a specific ring that my mother owns called the  mother's ring that has the birth stones of all   :28.280 --> :33.880 of her children when I gave her my list she told  me that if I wanted the ring it would be the only   :33.880 --> :39.520 thing I would inherit and beforehand she would  remove its stones and give them to other siblings   :39.520 --> :45.400 this sparked an emotional argument as I asked for  much less than other people and she said I didn't   :45.400 --> :50.920 deserve more we started bringing up things from  the past with me mentioning how she mistreated me   :50.920 --> :56.280 and she completely blew me off I then tearfully  told her I wished she had died instead of our   :56.280 --> :02.200 father because he would have treated his children  much more fairly in this situation this hurt her   :02.200 --> :07.800 greatly because she has never recovered from the  loss of her husband and despite her behavior she   :07.800 --> :14.080 does love all of her children after this happened  our relationship was never the same we didn't   :14.080 --> :19.920 speak for many months and every time I would see  her I would only say hello and goodbye she hasn't   :19.920 --> :25.000 apologized for what she's done in the past or  about the mother's ring I do feel like what I   :25.000 --> :30.160 said was harsh but I won't apologize for it since  I think someone needed to give her a reality check   :30.160 --> :35.400 for how bad she's treated some of the siblings  and it was a moment of pent up resentment I held   :35.400 --> :41.400 down for many years even now my mom's plan is to  only give me the mother's ring with no stones in   :41.400 --> :47.920 it and nothing else so am I the jerk I mean I'm  a bit conflicted here because was it the right   :47.920 --> :53.800 place to say such a thing in front of all of your  other siblings was it only said just to hurt her   :53.800 --> :00.200 just to try to get some kind of Revenge at the  same time this is a lifetime of experiences and   :00.200 --> :06.480 continued experiences I mean was it trying to  hurt her if it was just a true statement maybe   :06.480 --> :12.240 it's a situation where if you take a step back  and you just look at it op would be the jerk but   :12.240 --> :17.600 at the same time you just can't fault them or  feel negatively towards them about it but with   :17.600 --> :23.000 that being said that's all the time we have for  today now if you want to hear another absolutely   :23.000 --> :28.160 crazy am I the jerk here story check out that  video on the left or if you missed my latest   :28.160 --> :33.760 video check out that 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wibta if I tell a trans man that he can't come to my gym because it's only for women first of all I won't tolerate any bigoted comment I will block and Report any comment like that instantly I 37f opened a small gym for women it's a small place in my neighborhood nothing fancy I opened it 2 years ago because talking to my mother and my aunts who wanted to lose weight they said they didn't feel comfortable going to a gym full of mans I had the same experience so I opened a women only gym the harassment in my country is huge and I want everyone to feel comfortable and safe because I think training helps a lot emotionally the people who come are mostly old ladies who feels embarrassed when they go to a normal gyms most of them are grandmas and a lot of them need my help to do certain exercises so that's what I mainly do the rule is that no man can enter except for the small children of some of the women's when they have nowhere to leave them there's a guy who started his transition 2 months ago he had been coming for 3 months before transitioning the problem is that now obviously we call him by male pronouns and he's a man but the gym is for women I never really thought about asking him to stop coming but a few days ago one of the ladies at the gym came up to me to tell me that if I don't make an exception for her husband she had once complained that her husband couldn't get into the gym with her I qu she wanted her husband to enter with her there's literally three other gyms around

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wibta if I bought a car without my partner's blessing I 34f have always wanted a SUV Porsche since I was a girl my husband 36m and I do very well for ourselves we earn a little over 150k each so a combined household income of over 300K unlike my partner I grew up poor from absent uneducated migrant parents I worked hard with little support put myself through school and climbed the career ladder when I was younger my best friend had the life I was so envious of loving parents a warm home security I aspired to be like her mom a gorgeous woman who openly loved her kids and was active in their lives she also drove a Porsche as well as a lot of the other Rich soccer mom it became the thing I wanted to have since the mated item I am not a materialistic person I do not own or care for luxury Brands I don't gamble my dad continuously lost the Family Savings do drugs or have money pit hobby I currently drive a 1999 Toyota that refuses to die while my husband drives a sports car he bought for around 70k before we met when we married I brought about 60k more into the relationship

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roommate says she will call cops for stealing cat my name is on adoption papers in Florida hello all I hope this is relevant to this subreddit the gist is as follows 3 years ago my roommates and I decided to adopt a cat at my suggestion I was unsure of actually following through with this at the time but we did it anyway splitting the initial adoption fee and with my name signing paperwork as you can guess we haven't regretted that decision and still have the cat the other roommate involved very quickly bowed out of any responsibility for the cat but the last one we'll call her Harriet and I have continued to share equal responsibility at least for the first year we did in the last year or so Harriet has straight up not been holding up her end I have been the sole one clipping the cat's nails vacuuming the cat tree rinsing the water bowl scooping the litter boxes buying her new toys scratchers and such and even playing with her and taking her on walks due to personal conflicts between myself and Harriet and the end of our lease we will no longer be living together quite soon and I in

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wibta if I say my steps sister cannot be my bridesmaid again after she begged me to reconsider I 27f asked my sister 26f to be my only bridesmaid slma of Honor we're so close that she's the only person I want to have as a bridesmaid but we have a steps sister Leah 24f and Leah wants to be a bridesmaid too my Mom married Leah's Dad when I was 10 and Leah was seven my parents were divorced and Leah's parents were not together either but she didn't have any contact with her mom while my sister and I primarily lived with our dad when we were at Mom's neither my sister or I were close to Leah I found Leah really annoying and she never grew on me I know she was younger and being an only child with no Mom in her life she might have wanted a bigger family and she probably looked up to my sister and me but I found her very clingy and whiny and my mom and Leah's dad did not help because she could whine and we had to include her or if she annoyed them generally she would be dumped on us and we were told we needed to spend time together Leah used to say she had two sisters but we never called her our sister Leah used to want to come to Dad's house with us but we always said no we never asked Dad to invite Leah to our house and he threw most of our birthday parties and we didn't invite Leah to them I really didn't see or speak to Leah more than twice a year by the time I was 17 because I chose to live with my dad and cut way back on time with my mom I was always civil to Leah when I did see her and I wouldn't ignore her if we were in the same place but do I call or make plans with her nope my relationship with my mom did get a little closer in the last couple of years so we talk more and see each other more I think this is what led to such a big Fallout and pressure for the bridesmaid thing I got engaged several months ago I called and told my mom I have seen her since getting engaged as well I went to my mom's house last week for coffee and Leah came in with her dad she told me she heard I got engaged and she asked if she could be a bridesmaid and I said no she went into pleading mode and told me she knows I don't really want her there but she would still love to be a bridesmaid and how she always wanted to be part of mine and my sister's lives in a bigger way and she always wanted to be a sister to us she said that might not happen but it would make her whole year if she could be my bridesmaid she emphasized again how much this mattered to her I was going to say my answer had not changed but she told me to really think about it and give it some time and then my mom interrupted before I got the chance to say I was not changing my mind and she told me it would be kind for me to include Leah because Leah has always made an effort to have a relationship which is true though she went about it in the wrong way most of the time Leah's dad then decided to add that my sister and I were unfair to Leah for 17 years and the least I could do is let her in now that I'm old enough to get married wibta if I say no again

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husband suddenly wanted an open relationship after 9 years of marriage I filed for divorce after he refused to back down my husband 28m and I 29f have been together for 9 years married for seven we got a not so classic shotgun wedding to give ourselves better chances of receiving custody of his half-sister 10f when their mom suddenly passed away despite only being 20 and 21 years old we did receive full legal custody over her absent father this information isn't super relevant to the current situation but it really sets the tone of our relationship with the sacrifices we made together and the things we each had to give up personally to raise this beautiful little girl we don't have any children together but his sister is now 17 and moved in with an older more financially privileged ant last year over the past year of this new found alone time I feel like we have flourished each personally and as a couple we never fight arguments are rare and we are pretty good at coming to understandings and apologizing when necessary basically I feel we had a pretty healthy relationship we each do little things for each other I receive flowers no less than 10 times a a year we go on little vacations together and are generally really good I guess a bit of the spark was sputtering out for a while but I feel like that's normal for a relationship as long as ours fast forward to this past October my husband seems like he has been depressed which is normal for this time of year because of the timing of losing both his mom and dad in different years around the same time the holidays are tough for him so I get it and try to be there for him he had previously planned a suicide attempt because of family issues before we met so I take his mental health very seriously he sits me down to have a serious conversation and starts it by saying he wants to open up our relationship I felt my heart drop to my stomach but stayed silent and let him talk he doesn't go into why just jumps right into rules and explains how he wants me to find someone first before he starts looking for someone himself when I ask him why he couldn't explain it and fumbled his words I asked him if he already had someone in mind for himself and of course he denies it I couldn't help it I definitely blew up I was totally blindsided by this proposal I slept on the couch after my outburst and he didn't even try to come after me to explain anything which kind of made me feel worse I had never felt so unwanted in my life than in that moment I have never given the impression that I was the kind of girl to be open to that kind of relationship I will never judge anyone for wanting to live that kind of life but it's just not for me he went to work the next day but I had the day off and really thought about my situation after crying for hours I came to the realization that this was the end for our marriage even suggesting an open marriage was a deal breaker for me I realized while he was still at work I moved all his stuff out of our bedroom into his sister's old room technically a spare room now he comes home from work ready to talk it out after talking through more of why he wants this I've come to realize several things one he is way kinkier than he lets on and is disappointed with our bedroom life he knows I'm not on the same level and doesn't want to push me past my boundaries to try things he knows I won't like when I asked how he knows I won't like to try these new things he explains they are an escalation of things he already knows I'm not down for but won't go into specifics he also is unhappy with how infrequently we have sex but has never really put in the effort to change anything regarding it just complained over and over and expected me to just be ready to do the deed any minute of the day two he feels we have nothing in common now that his sister is gone for context he is more of the outdoorsy type whereas I like to stay inside and read or play video games I do venture out once in a while to do things he likes together and do genuinely enjoy them myself when I go like kayaking and skiing I do understand that it isn't as often as he would like though three because we got married so young there are a lot of things neither of us really got to experience or TR mostly sexually he is mourning the loss of his young 20s and never getting to sleep around and explore his Kinks four part of the rules he explained was that we wouldn't technically be sleeping around with whoever we wanted he called it an open marriage but described it more as polyamory where we would each have a boyfriend or girlfriend of our own that we went on dates and did things together someone we were each allowed to love and be with sexually an emotional connection was pivotal for him which broke my heart to Pieces during our talk I told him I would never be able to look at him the same I would never be enough for him and he was basically trying to get a pass for guilt-free Cheating in my eyes I told him it sounded like he wanted to be with someone else without ever leaving the comfort of his marriage knowing he could date around and not worrying if those relationships would fail because he could just come home to me he tried denying these things saying he wanted to explore himself sexually but didn't want to lose me in the process he tried getting me to agree to marriage counseling to talk about the open marriage concept I told him just proposing an open marriage was grounds for divorce for me and I wasn't willing to go to a counselor for them to gang up on me to try to bully me into trying it I know in reality that never would have happened but emotions were high in the moment because I told him I could never see him the same and how badly this crushed any self-confidence I may have had he doubled down he said if we go back into a relationship and pretend this never happened then he would end up cheating on me for him it was open marriage or nothing I chose nothing divorce papers were filed exactly one week later he was very hurt angry that I could jump right to divorce and kick him out of our bedroom so fast but I refused to be a second choice or have to fight for his attention I can't believe he is okay with the idea of another person being inside of me he is willing to just give me up to explore his options I can't believe I wasted so much of my time with him helping him heal his family and raise his sister I feel completely used advice did I overreact should I have waited longer before filing for divorce should I have just gone to marriage counseling or was my gut instinct correct about the marriage being over I still love and care about him but my brain is screaming to be logical we still live together while we are trying to figure out how to split everything but now he is being super toxic and Petty saying hurtful things and then begging for personal details about my life I need to get out of this house how do I cope with these complicated feelings comments where op has replied Ali or Swift so much this if I want to open our marriage hadn't been a deal breaker his subsequent Behavior should be he's not sorry he's not willing to move the slightest bit from his position and I wonder why his sister wanted to move out is she just greedy or is there something else distribution perfect five oh I didn't meant the sister Being Greedy but the ant not offering support before but you definitely bring another Point blazing sunflower land for whatever reason the aunt may not have been able to offer support earlier maybe she was in a bad marriage or worked abroad Etc oop up here their aunt actually normally resides several states away she set up a temporary residence here to have a place to stay when she visits without having to stay in a hotel or bring her RV her husband is rich rich apparently but I've never met him myself she did help us with funds for their mother funeral but other than that there was no real financial help from her nor any other family member we were all alone of course the little sister has her own trauma and issues husband and I work a lot and didn't feel we were able to give her the time and attention she needed and this aunt is retired and had all the time and money in the world for her little sister actually asked if she could move in with her aunt and we didn't feel it was a bad idea so we let her electronic Chef 5,487 I think the discovered I was poly thing can be a bit of a copout it's not an immutable trait like being gay or straight it's a relationship style and many people can enjoy different ones depending on circumstances there's lots of social expectations and emotional stuff that goes into it Etc I know people often knee-jerk against poly in this sub and on Reddit in general I have seen it work in real life but never when it's sprung on someone partway through a relationship which doesn't mean a relationship can't go naturally between the two I think there's more of a spectrum than some people acknowledge as well oop up here in actuality my husband is not a polyamorous person or at least he claims he isn't he told me he doesn't want that for future relationships at all just with me so he can explore his Kinks without losing me or making me uncomfortable in the bedroom I think that sentiment was nice maybe ik regardless proposing an open marriage is still a deal breaker for me so it doesn't really matter in the end anyway susia Sunshine 17 it happened to me just like this dude was already cheating and one of them threatened to tell me so he said the same BS about opening the marriage Kinks and so on broke my heart after 12 years then the trickle truth happened when he realized I was done based on the suggestion alone up get STD tested immediately don't wait some STDs are symptomless but can cause permanent damage oop up here I never once thought that he had already slept with someone we have both been cheated on in the past really in our teens but still and have agreed that we are better than that and would never subject someone else to being cheated on however the more comments I get on this subject it's making me really paranoid you can bet your ass I'm scheduling getting tested ASAP to make sure I'm clean our split has been pretty amicable in regards to evenly splitting assets and Furniture if I come back with an STD that's proof he cheated before the open marriage talk that would change everything for me powerful uncore piore 7,924 itd record any and every interaction with him for your lawyer especially since he is now abusing you cuz he didn't get his way oop I was starting to feel crazy every time we talked he made it seem like I was a villain and making [ __ ] up I started recording convos and playing them back man is he gaslighting the hell out of me I played one video for my best friend and she flipped out commenter asked if oops husband wants her to tell him everything including telling her family their reasons about his needs oop he wants go know where I go when I leave the house on my days off when and where my family's Thanksgiving dinner was if I told my family yet and what they said who am I hanging out with does work know yet etc etc some of it I felt is fine to be curious about but other stuff there is literally no reason he should know also thank you for reading and commenting I feel so validated after all this support Miss mck I am asking this seriously is he gay I do not think you were overreacting oop close friends who know are also wondering the same he has been spending a lot of time with his gay best friend since the split I don't think he is gay if he is anything he is by but he would never admit it update one February 5th 2024 hello all I wanted to say thank you all for the support as for the update where do I even start it has been over the required 90 days since initially filing for divorce before it can be deemed official I am going to the courthouse tomorrow to file the the remaining paperwork we had an easy uncontested divorce we agreed on how to split things with pretty much everything and he didn't even give me a hard time about taking our two cats that are quite attached to me he was always the spare human I bought a small home for myself and said two cats and moved a few days ago I won't lie this whole process was very tough for me emotionally it was especially hard considering he was constantly hot and then cold he would jump from name calling and trying to control who came over to our house to finding reasons to call me on the phone all day and joking around with me like nothing was wrong I feel like I have emotional Whiplash from the last 3 months of living with him while looking for a new place to live at one point he came home to see me eating a meal I just cooked during a break from packing it was pretty disorganized but I was in the middle of doing multiple things at the same time he saw the mess and started yelling at me for it and throwing my things around the kitchen another day he texted me asking me why I wasn't interested in where he had been spending his days off and later sheepishly asking if he would drop the open marriage demand would I ever consider trying again of course I told him we were way past that considering the multiple times he promised he would cheat on me if we didn't open the marriage also I did get STD tested and came back clean as a whistle I don't think he was already cheating but he is damned embarrassed about this whole thing he wants me to tell people he cheated on me when they ask why we are getting divorced instead of telling the truth of the matter I'm still not sure what the correct course of action is for that he was made aware in advance that after I moved and the divorce was finalized I would be going no contact I did all the leg work to make this happen including getting all divorce paperwork and 2023 taxes filed separating all bills and bank accounts hiding the address to my new home blocked him on all social media and I will even be changing my phone number once everything is finalized he feels that me going no contact is vindictive no matter what he has said and done to hurt me I still have a lot of love for this man he doesn't deserve it I know but that is exactly why I need to go no contact it's for my own peace and to maintain some semblance of self-respect I can't tell him that because I don't want to give him or myself TBH any false hope that we could work things out I have no plans to be with anyone else in the near or distant future I just want to work on building my confidence and get in a healthier mindset I haven't gotten to counseling yet like many have suggested I was in survival mode for the last 3 months so I could get out of that hella situation now that I'm in my new house and getting unpacked I'm sure I will be able to relax enough to start feeling better soon and if I don't I have every intention of seeking professional help I have a huge support network between friends and family our shared friends were all on my side as well not that there is a true right or wrong in a situation like this but one of his best friends telling him this was the biggest mistake of his life was incredibly validating the only thing I regret for my relationship with him is staying as long as I did despite all the red flags I ignored throughout the years I went into detail on some of them in the comments of the original post all I know is that I'm feeling a mix of relief and grief I just need some time to allow myself to heal out of our many conversations he told me that 99% of open marriages fail because they were open for failing marriages and that since we had a great relationship we would have been fine I tried explaining to him that I learned from some of you guys that what he suggested was not an open marriage but his was parallel polyamory and it was the most difficult form of polyamory to achieve he didn't care and was only focused on convincing me to work it out with him for me there is nothing to work out he wants to be with someone else and to fall in love again so I am giving him the freedom to do that but gracefully stepping back as many have said you don't get to have your cake and eat it too there isn't much more to say on the matter I said I was leaving and I did it here's to hoping 2024 is my year comments where op has replied lied copertino house I'm confused why you say he doesn't deserve no contact he torpedoed your marriage because he wants to [ __ ] other women he's lucky you didn't go nuclear on him actions have consequences oop oh no he totally deserves no contact I meant he doesn't deserve the love I still have for him demon Peach regardless she does not need to negotiate with emotional terrorists if she is really concerned she can always call the police for a wellness check and if deemed necessary he can get admitted for psych help oop I agree that his emotional well-being isn't my problem anymore like I said though I still care about him and love him that's not going to go away anytime soon unfortunately we have mutual friends and I am still in contact with his family they are all keeping their eyes and ears open for anything unusual I don't feel like he is in any danger of Suicidal Tendencies anymore even with this major life change it doesn't hurt to extend a little bit of kindness even if he doesn't know it's me behind the scenes just because he was shitty to me at the end of our marriage doesn't mean I want his life to end now on to the next story story two ending my friendship because my best friend wants to sleep with my boyfriend after he supported her during her breakup me and Kylie have been friends since our childhood one month ago her boyfriend cheated on her which absolutely devastated her me and my boyfriend was there for her support she was very friendly with my boyfriend since our relationship started Kylie was hurted and broken me and my boyfriend did everything so that she can feel better recently we took her out to spend time with us we took her in dinner with us took her with us and our holidays Etc eventually Kylie started to get better and better she started to smile again and was looking very happy but she kept herself away from dating cause she told us that she can't believe in a guy very soon we respected her decision and was fully supportive to her yesterday Kylie came to our house my BF was going outside to bring some food so greeted Kylie and told her to stay here and have lunch with us Kylie smiled and agreed when he left Kylie came to me and told me she wanted to tell me something I asked her what and she told me if I could do a favor for her she wasn't looking to me while saying this so I felt little awkward then out of nowhere she asked me if she wanted to sleep with my boyfriend for one night I couldn't believe my ears what I just heard from her it took some time to get my sense back and I told her what the [ __ ] she's talking about that she started to tell me that how bad and miserable she was because of her breakup but then my boyfriend treated her best made her feel happy how my boyfriend took us to dinner trips which her ex never did she told me that she started to feel wondered while spending time with him she also told me that how her self-esteem got badly damaged and now she can't trust anyone except my boyfriend how she wants to feel herself once again by sleeping with my boyfriend she told me it will help her to gain her self-esteem once again and she will do better in future by trusting others and told me it will be a great favor on her if I agree on this I was listening her standing like a dumb after she finished her lecture I shouted on her and told her to get out from my house at first she told me to think about it calmly but I was in no mood to negotiate about this so after some time she became aggressive towards me and told me I'm ungrateful person cause she helped me in my past many times and not helping her for once she told me I'm a selfish person and my boyfriend deserves way better than me she told me she will snatch my boyfriend from me and that she doesn't give a [ __ ] about our relationship after saying all this she went away now I'm confused thinking what just happened I went to my chat list to talk with other friends about this but when I opened I saw almost everyone blocked me after saying some horrible things I was sure she told our friend something I didn't tell my boyfriend anything about it but now I'm feeling paranoid what she said lately I'm getting bad thoughts that she will do something something which will cause damage in my wonderful relationship I always knew that Kylie was supportive in my relationship but never thought that she would do something like this now I want to kick her out totally from my life but my BF doesn't know anything about it cause you consider Kylie like his sister so am I the [ __ ] here for wanting to break things off with her update 12 hours later February 2nd 2024 recovered with Wayback machine hello everyone at first I'd like to thank you for all of your suggestions yes all of you were right I should have told my BF immediately but I didn't I admit my stupidity and I take responsibility for that sorry for late update cause we were tired after all this drama and went to sleep together here's something I want to make clear before update one many of you commented it's a fake post it seems like but it's not even I couldn't believe that I'd face this kind of Unthinkable situation maybe I wasn't able to write the whole situation properly cause English is not my first language it was a worse and long period for Me Maybe I couldn't fully describe the whole story or how everything happened which makes my story suspicious but it's not the only proof I have is the screenshot of my friends who blocked me so if you think it's a fake post you can assume it caused different person different views if any one of you want to see those screenshots you can DM me two many of you asked why my friends blocked me without even knowing my situation I exactly don't know what she told them but I'm actually grateful to Kylie cause because of this I understood that who are the actual friends I didn't even triy to contact with them after they blocked me not even tried to know what's the reason I was sure that they are no longer my friends and I have cuted them totally here's the update around p.m. my boyfriend came home I was sitting downstairs he came and asked me what happened and why I called him so urgently I told him to sit down he did and I told him everything Kylie said to me didn't spare a single word and also told him that she fabricated something to my friends for that some of them blocked me I showed him the blocked contacts he was hearing all this silently for a second he didn't move his eyes from my eyes from his look I understood that he was in total disbelief what he was hearing but he composed Ed himself and hugged me tight I hugged him too and spent some time like that after that he said he can't believe Kylie would think something like that he also told me he never gave Kylie an opportunity for thinking like that and can't even imagine that Kylie could say something like that to my face he told me he feels emotionally drained cause he thought he was getting a sister's affection from Kylie but now it seems like his efforts were in drain I comforted him by talking him on my chest and told him it's okay and it's not his fault at that moment he was sobbing a little bit but he gained himself and took his phone out he checked is there any mess Mees that Kylie sended him or not luckily she didn't then he wrote a long text describing how disappointing Kylie's actions are and also told her that he never ever wants to see her again and he will find a restraining order if she ever came near to our home after sending that he blocked her in every social media he also texted two of my friends who blocked me from his chat box saying that they are [ __ ] and thanking them for taking the garbage out from my life then he blocked them too I was happy seeing that how he stranded up along with me in this situation after all this we took dinner together and went to sleep so that's the update none of us heard anything from Kylie after she left our house and we don't wanted to now I hope everything will get just getting better between me and my boyfriend we are planning our engagement very soon thanks again to everyone who suggested me the right advice in my situation and helped me to cover up this I'm truly grateful to all of you life is beautiful when you have an amazing partner heart

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wibta for exposing the truth about my stepmom to my dad's family I 25f live independently in several states away from both parents and my dad's wife stepmom and I've done so since I was 21 few thanksgivings ago I went to visit my dad stepmom and sisters for the holiday and my Golden Child cousin who my stepmom thinks 110% hung the moon was invited by them to stay with us she attends nursing school 40 minutes away the whole time I was there dad was at work and stepmom kept kissing my cousin's ass about how she's going to make so much money once she finishes school she then turns to me and says too bad you will never amount to what she makes to which I responded once I finish my PhD in math I can easily make six figures as do most faculty in my department she began to contradict me a bunch and nobody bothered to stick up for me that hurt like hell the rest of my visit I had to isolate myself BC of feeling like such an island dad and stepmom came 2 years later to watch me walk for my master the night before step

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:16.780 --> :20.880 Coworker Stalks Me for  Years so I Got Him ARRESTED! :20.880 --> :24.960 I constantly think back on this  story and how it may make me look.   :24.960 --> :29.200 I’m interested in how different people  might have reacted to such a situation. :29.200 --> :35.760 Ok, so basically I went off to college around 12  years ago. (Currently 30y/o) I studied computer   :35.760 --> :41.200 science. It was a great time. I remember I first  got an internship in the summer after sophomore   :41.200 --> :47.360 year at a small startup in Mountain View. I  was understandably so, very excited for the   :47.360 --> :53.600 whole work experience. I know how important early  fieldwork is, especially for computer science,   :53.600 --> :59.280 so I had very high hopes for the whole jig. I  had an intern position but it still paid really   :59.280 --> :04.800 well which was great. At said company, I had the  opportunity of meeting many other interns doing   :04.800 --> :12.320 basically the same as I was. Most of them were a  little older than me, around 24-26, and had just   :12.320 --> :18.640 passed their junior year. Not surprisingly, I was  one of the only female interns. It was in total   :18.640 --> :24.880 like 8 people I believe, but just two females, me  and this other girl. It was a pretty chill group   :24.880 --> :29.760 and the overall experience was great. There  were two guys in particular that were very   :29.760 --> :34.800 flirty with me. I obviously enjoyed  the attention because who wouldn’t,   :34.800 --> :41.040 but I was just too busy to even fantasize about  the idea of getting into a relationship. I did   :41.040 --> :46.320 in fact let it be known to them that I was  not interested because…. moral code I guess? :46.320 --> :52.800 Despite these attempts at setting limits, one of  the guys was very insistent and continued to flirt   :52.800 --> :58.720 with me. At one point it does get uncomfortable to  have to deal with such a thing, especially when I   :58.720 --> :04.800 wanted to get the most out of my internship, and  having this guy all over my business wasn’t ideal. :04.800 --> :10.560 The internship was around 10 weeks in total, so  like 2 months and a little more. After I was done   :10.560 --> :15.840 with that I proceeded to live my life normally  again. Going back to college and not having a job   :15.840 --> :21.680 was a big pain but it is what it is. Fast forward  to the next summer, I was once again looking for   :21.680 --> :28.320 an internship. I was a decently good student,  with a 3.9 GPA, so getting job offers at that   :28.320 --> :34.320 point for a cs student isn’t the hardest thing  in the world. What did surprise me a little bit,   :34.320 --> :40.080 is that I actually got an offer from the same  place I had done my previous internship at.   :40.080 --> :45.520 They even offered considerably better pay  and it was an extended 16-week contract.   :45.520 --> :50.960 I knew about the company and I obviously held  a soft spot for it in my heart so I ended up   :50.960 --> :55.600 choosing it without giving the idea a second  thought. There were some familiar faces when   :55.600 --> :01.600 I came back which was nice to see, however, what  did surprise me a lot was that the guy I mentioned   :01.600 --> :07.600 earlier was also there. At first, I did not  know how to feel about it. It’s not like he ever   :07.600 --> :14.240 caused any major inconveniences for me, he just  didn’t make me feel very comfortable. But hey,   :14.240 --> :19.840 a whole year had gone by so maybe he had moved  on… Maybe he had a girlfriend now or something? :19.840 --> :25.760 I remember him coming up to me on the first day  and immediately starting a conversation. I was   :25.760 --> :31.520 very nervous about how he would act. We’ll call  him Parker from now on. He actually apologized   :31.520 --> :37.760 for his behavior during the previous summer, which  was a big sigh of relief for me, as that on its   :37.760 --> :44.080 own shows a sense of maturity and self-awareness  of his actions. This allowed me to not view Parker   :44.080 --> :50.080 as a creep, but just as someone who had a crush  on me or something and had understandably so moved   :50.080 --> :56.800 on from it. No offense taken, no bad blood, we  shall move on. We talked for a bit that day,   :56.800 --> :02.240 as we never reaaaally got the chance to know  each other. He had actually graduated already   :02.240 --> :07.200 and apparently was actually working for  the company now, not just as an intern. :07.200 --> :12.400 Two of my friends were also doing the internship  here so it was great to have people you know   :12.400 --> :17.520 around. We would hang out during breaks and  after work most of the time. And as time passed,   :17.520 --> :22.960 I actually started to get along with Parker  rather well, so he slowly started showing up in   :22.960 --> :29.120 said plans along with my other friends. My friends  found the whole last summer situation with Parker,   :29.120 --> :34.160 and then finding him again in the same company,  pretty funny but they didn’t have any problems   :34.160 --> :39.520 with him being around. I remember one day as I  was talking with him that he casually mentioned   :39.520 --> :44.400 something about his girlfriend. I KNEW  IT!! Not like I was jealous or anything,   :44.400 --> :50.000 but it’s not like you treat someone the way he  did for a whole summer and then just act like it   :50.000 --> :55.360 was nothing out of nowhere. I obviously asked more  questions about Parker’s girlfriend, as it was the   :55.360 --> :01.120 first time the topic had even come up after like a  whole month of already working together. He didn’t   :01.120 --> :07.600 go into too much detail which is fine, although I  do love me some gossip so that was disappointing. :07.600 --> :10.960 I would always tell him to take  his girlfriend to one of our plans,   :10.960 --> :15.520 after all, it doesn’t bother me to have some  more girls around. Spending so much time with   :15.520 --> :21.920 just guys can get into your head pretty easily, or  maybe that’s just me. But that’s beside the point.   :21.920 --> :27.120 To this, he would always say that she was more  of an introvert and the stuff we usually did   :27.120 --> :32.800 (partying, clubs, drinks after work, etc) was  not her kind of deal. He always mentioned that   :32.800 --> :39.440 I reminded him of her though. Which was….  odd, especially considering our background. :39.440 --> :42.960 Time flew by and once again, my  time at the company had come to an   :42.960 --> :48.640 end. I enjoyed this experience a lot more as I  already had an idea of what I was doing there,   :48.640 --> :53.120 plus the work environment felt a lot more  comfortable. And well, I made a pretty good   :53.120 --> :58.400 friend in Parker which was a massive improvement  from last time. We had each other's socials and   :58.400 --> :03.760 everything so after all we managed to keep  in touch as I moved back on to college. :03.760 --> :09.360 I graduated a year later and was finally set  free from boring old college. I had garnered   :09.360 --> :14.800 enough work experience to land a job at a pretty  big tech company with its headquarters in NYC.   :14.800 --> :20.480 I had lived my entire life on the west coast,  so moving to the east was kinda nerve-wracking.   :20.480 --> :25.280 I got a whole bunch of sign-in bonuses  though, and my initial wage was very good,   :25.280 --> :30.080 so I managed to live a pretty comfortable  life. After a long time being single,   :30.080 --> :36.080 I finally met someone I connected with deeply and  had a pretty good relationship with said person.   :36.080 --> :44.080 This was all happening around 2015-2016 so keep in  mind, Instagram was already a pretty being thing.   :44.080 --> :47.920 I OBVIOUSLY bragged my boyfriend  around on social media. :47.920 --> :51.040 Now, you might be a little confused  as to why I’m bringing this up.   :51.040 --> :55.440 Like I said earlier, me and Parker had each  other's socials. We followed each other. We   :55.440 --> :00.240 would have short conversations from now and then.  You know, casual small talk with someone you were   :00.240 --> :05.360 once acquaintances with. As I started to  brag my boyfriend around more regularly,   :05.360 --> :10.960 Parker started to become more and  more present in my dm’s…. ODD. :10.960 --> :16.480 Time went by, and this trend continued. And it  now makes me sound paranoid or something, but   :16.480 --> :22.320 you have to understand Parker was really something  back in his “flirty” days. I don’t want to go into   :22.320 --> :28.480 too much detail, but he really never took my no’s  for an answer. I respect the effort and all but   :28.480 --> :33.520 there’s a big difference between “Oh yeah, I like  this girl and although she doesn’t seem interested   :33.520 --> :38.480 in me at the moment, I’ll try to show her what I  can offer with my great personality and overall   :38.480 --> :45.120 likeability and see if that changes her mind”  and “HOW DO YOU NOT LIKE ME? PLEASE LIKE ME?!!   :45.120 --> :50.320 I’M BEING SO NICE TO YOU, WHY DON’T YOU SEE THAT  I’M BEING NICE TO YOU! YOU SHOULD BE ATTRACTED   :50.320 --> :55.600 TO ME JUST AS I AM TO YOU AND MY ACTIONS SHOULD  HAVE CHANGED YOUR MIND BY NOW”. You might think   :55.600 --> :01.360 I’m overreacting, but Parker seriously creeped  me out at times. He followed me around a lot,   :01.360 --> :06.080 was casually just in the right place at the  right time to be able to spend time with me,   :06.080 --> :10.720 would be waiting outside the building as I came  into work even though he had a different schedule   :10.720 --> :16.560 than I did, and constantly stopped me from doing  my work just so I could give him some attention.   :16.560 --> :22.080 Once again, you might think I’m crazy but  there’s no way that it’s all just a coincidence.   :22.080 --> :28.000 I saw a pretty clear trend, and although I stated  my intentions and had said no to multiple date   :28.000 --> :33.600 invitations, he kept insisting. Some people  really just don’t know what “No” means haha. :33.600 --> :39.360 I was with said boyfriend for around 4 years. At  one point in the relationship, I even decided to   :39.360 --> :45.680 block Parker as he once again seemed like he was  coming back to his weirdo stage and I was way   :45.680 --> :51.600 too happy to even be bothered by his behavior. I  was glad that thanks to the distance between us,   :51.600 --> :56.160 with the simple click of a button, I would no  longer have to worry about him and what his   :56.160 --> :04.400 opinion on MY relationship was… or so I thought.  But yeah, it was a mutual breakup in 2019.   :04.400 --> :09.600 We were both very busy with work (he was starting  a business at the time) and didn’t give each other   :09.600 --> :14.800 the time or attention we believed we deserved.  It was fine. I wasn’t too stressed about it as it   :14.800 --> :21.040 definitely wasn’t a “messy breakup”. I proceeded  to delete all pictures I had of him on my IG feed,   :21.040 --> :26.800 although we remained friends. This was a really  weird stage of my life. I didn’t feel great about   :26.800 --> :32.960 my job anymore and the NYC life eventually got  pretty annoying compared to what it was like in   :32.960 --> :39.600 Cali. The weather was cold, the traffic was the  worst most of the time and I just felt stuck in   :39.600 --> :45.360 general. I was ready for a change in my lifestyle,  so I did what any responsible adult would do,   :45.360 --> :49.680 I quit my job and proceeded to go on a  well-deserved vacation through Europe. :49.680 --> :55.760 You should have seen my face, as I received  an email from THE SAME COMPANY I worked at   :55.760 --> :03.360 in my college days. My jaw dropped. And as  intimidating as the whole idea of going back was,   :03.360 --> :08.720 it would have been childish for me to not give it  some thought at least. They were offering move-in   :08.720 --> :15.760 bonuses, a slightly better salary and plus it  just made sooo much sense for me to go back.   :15.760 --> :21.680 But I got a bad vibe from it. Probably just a gut  feeling. I asked some friends what they thought   :21.680 --> :28.160 and they obviously said yes. I wanted some change  and right there was my ticket to it. Don’t get me   :28.160 --> :34.640 wrong. New York was great. $1 pizza, the subway,  people being overly rude but honest compared   :34.640 --> :40.720 to the yes men in Cali. Ignoring my intuition, I  accepted the offer and started the moving process   :40.720 --> :45.600 immediately. Being single after such a long  time was starting to take a toll on me,   :45.600 --> :49.760 you get so used to having someone to  talk to about these sorts of decisions.   :49.760 --> :54.400 I pretended like it was nothing but I  knew deep inside I felt rather lonely. :54.400 --> :00.640 I settled in Mountain View after a long chaotic  moving process. Probably one of the biggest pains   :00.640 --> :05.360 in the a** I’ve ever had to deal with. Moving  from one side of the country to the other   :05.360 --> :11.760 is no joke. I had a meeting with the local HR rep  from the company. They had actually grown a decent   :11.760 --> :17.360 bit in the last 5 years since I had left. They had  expanded to multiple cities including Seattle and   :17.360 --> :22.000 Austin. It felt good to know that I was there  during their early stage 😎. We just met up at   :22.000 --> :27.360 a nearby coffee shop to discuss the terms for my  contract and what the job was going to be like and   :27.360 --> :33.520 blah, blah, blah. I got the position of a junior  full stack developer which was a pretty big deal.   :33.520 --> :38.320 I assumed they trusted me with such a job because  of the knowledge I already had of the company   :38.320 --> :43.440 and they were probably satisfied with what I  did for them as an intern. Plus, 5 years of   :43.440 --> :49.520 experience at another company is definitely  a valuable point for employers. However,   :49.520 --> :53.760 I was still a little surprised about  the fact that I got such a position,   :53.760 --> :59.600 considering these are usually given to people with  many more years of experience. And not to demerit   :59.600 --> :04.800 myself, but I’m not the type of software  engineer who is constantly working on side   :04.800 --> :10.400 projects and growing their portfolio by the day.  I’m good at what I do and that’s about it lol. :10.400 --> :16.080 To this day, I still remember the exact moment  when I went to my first day at work here. I parked   :16.080 --> :22.720 my car across the street in the company’s employee  parking lot and as I was walking across the road,   :22.720 --> :26.800 my eyes immediately targeted  what seemed to be a familiar   :26.800 --> :32.240 face. “It can’t be, no way, no way, no  way it’s him” - I thought to myself.   :32.240 --> :36.160 Can you try and guess who was standing  right outside the entrance of the building? :36.720 --> :39.520 None other than Parker himself. :39.520 --> :45.760 HO-LY. THIS GUY REALLY STILL WORKS HERE?  Like I said earlier. I had blocked him on   :45.760 --> :50.960 social media after all that happened during  my relationship with my previous boyfriend.   :50.960 --> :56.320 I didn’t go into detail on what Parker was dm’ing  me, but basically, it seemed as though he didn’t   :56.320 --> :01.680 think my boyfriend was treating me right or  something? Whenever we had our casual small talk,   :01.680 --> :07.440 he would always ask me about him. The things he  did, how he treated me, what our day-to-day life   :07.440 --> :13.360 was like. I remember the exact message he once  sent: “I would have never done such a thing to you   :13.360 --> :20.160 haha”. YEAH. Was this what my gut feeling was all  about? The bad vibe I was getting from this job   :20.160 --> :24.720 offer? I walked up to the entrance  and he obviously also recognized me.   :24.720 --> :29.200 It seemed as though he was very excited to  see me. And I would have been very excited   :29.200 --> :33.760 to see him as well if it wasn’t for our  awkward social media back and forths   :33.760 --> :40.160 a few years ago. He actually continued to work  for the same company after all these years which   :40.160 --> :45.600 doesn’t seem too crazy but it still seemed  insane that this was the third time where we   :45.600 --> :50.800 coincidentally bumped into each other at the  same company despite the years in between. :50.800 --> :55.440 I tried to put everything I knew aside, and  treat him like the good friends we once were.   :55.440 --> :59.840 He walked me into the building and gave me a  quick tour of the place as a lot of things had   :59.840 --> :05.760 been changed. It looked like time didn’t treat  him too well as he was only 31y/o at the time   :05.760 --> :11.040 but he looked pretty beat up. That wasn’t any  of my business though so I didn’t try and find   :11.040 --> :16.080 out what was the reason for it. As if I wasn’t  already surprised with all that was going on,   :16.080 --> :22.400 PARKER was going to be my “boss”. He was the  senior full stack developer and I was going to   :22.400 --> :28.160 be working by his side for most of the time. I  felt chills running through my body as soon as   :28.160 --> :34.000 he told me that he actually already knew that I  was hired by the company to work along his side   :34.000 --> :38.400 and that’s the reason why he was waiting  for me at the entrance of the building.   :38.400 --> :44.400 That may mean that our initial encounter was no  coincidence, but I went from not having any idea   :44.400 --> :50.880 of what Parker had been up to for the last 3 years  to now knowing that I will be working with him.   :50.880 --> :54.400 It’s a lot of information to process  in such a short amount of time. :54.400 --> :59.200 I put in the effort to have a good conversation  with him, because being paranoid of him all the   :59.200 --> :05.680 time while I worked there was just not going to be  a good idea. He asked me out to dinner that day…   :05.680 --> :11.440 “It’s fine, it’s fine, you two are going to spend  so much time together now, it’s probably best to   :11.440 --> :16.240 have a good relationship with him. Plus, he still  hasn’t asked about my previous relationship or   :16.240 --> :22.080 anything so maybe he is once again a mature man”  - I was thinking to myself as I accepted his   :22.080 --> :27.840 proposal. I never actually lived in Mountain View  as when I was working as an intern I still had to   :27.840 --> :33.520 travel 45 minutes from the town where I lived.  I still had very vague memories of the place so   :33.520 --> :38.560 I didn’t mind having someone show me around the  place, and plus I had no friends at the time,   :38.560 --> :43.120 which meant some company wasn’t the worst thing  in the world. I initially thought that our dinner   :43.120 --> :48.720 plan would have been something casual as to get  to talk and catch up with each other's lives.   :48.720 --> :53.360 This wasn’t the case. Or at least it  sure as heck did not seem like it. :53.360 --> :59.920 We went to a pretty fancy lake-side restaurant. I  dressed nicely by Parker’s request, but I didn’t   :59.920 --> :05.360 expect us to be going to such a nice place.  Especially for our first time going out in a   :05.360 --> :11.280 while. It felt more like a romantic dinner rather  than just two friends going out. I mentioned my   :11.280 --> :16.000 discomfort to him as we talked over dinner, to  which he seemed a little annoyed by. “Oh but   :16.000 --> :21.120 you’re single right now, why would it be an issue  for us to go out for dinner”. Ummmmm because this   :21.120 --> :28.000 isn’t just going out for dinner? It was still too  early for me to try and judge his true intentions,   :28.000 --> :33.760 as he had shown he was capable of changing in the  past. I told him that as I was just settling in,   :33.760 --> :39.120 dating was something I was not interested  in. I said this without any context,   :39.120 --> :44.560 just so that he wouldn’t take any offense to it.  I didn’t say “NO PARKER I DON’T WANT TO BE IN A   :44.560 --> :50.720 RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU”. And technically it’s not  like I was lying. After all, I was just settling   :50.720 --> :56.080 into this new lifestyle and a relationship can  just end up being way too chaotic with so many   :56.080 --> :01.680 things going on at the same time. He laughed and  said, “You’ll be looking for someone eventually”. :01.680 --> :04.800 I’m not the kind of person who  thinks they pick who they love,   :04.800 --> :10.080 but rather it comes naturally to them, and  clearly, after so many years of knowing him,   :10.080 --> :15.920 that idea had yet to cross my mind. He paid for  the whole thing, even though I insisted on paying   :15.920 --> :21.600 for my food as I didn’t want him to feel like  I owed him one. We walked by the lake which was   :21.600 --> :26.800 pretty nice at least. I tried talking about what  work was going to be like for the two of us, but   :26.800 --> :32.240 he kept asking questions that were clearly looking  for a specific response from me. Eventually,   :32.240 --> :37.760 he ended up asking about my ex-boyfriend. I knew  it was going to happen but I really wanted to   :37.760 --> :43.440 avoid the subject at all costs. Not because it  was a sensitive subject to me or anything, but   :43.440 --> :49.040 rather because I knew the intentions behind such  a question. I told him a very brief summary of why   :49.040 --> :55.600 we broke up and that was it. Like I said, AVOID  THE SUBJECT AT ALL COSTS. He even asked me why   :55.600 --> :00.880 I blocked him on Instagram, to which I responded  by saying that my boyfriend was getting jealous   :00.880 --> :07.120 because of me texting him so frequently. That  was probably a massive mistake on my behalf,   :07.120 --> :13.040 as it somehow gave him high hopes that I was  constantly talking about “the great parker” to   :13.040 --> :18.160 my boyfriend or something. It got pretty late and  he drove me home. I was pleasantly surprised when   :18.160 --> :22.960 he played lots of songs that I really liked in  the car. I found it funny that we at least had   :22.960 --> :29.280 a similar taste in music. It made the ride back  home a lot less awkward as we jammed the heck out. :29.280 --> :33.520 I was the one skipping through the songs on  his phone and what happened next was about to   :33.520 --> :40.240 make everything a lot worse. Out of nowhere, an  Instagram notification popped up. I'm not sure if   :40.240 --> :44.880 you guys know about this, but when you have more  than one account logged in on your Instagram app,   :44.880 --> :49.680 the first part of the notification will show  the username for who the notification is meant.   :49.680 --> :56.720 I didn’t remember what his ig handle was, but it  sure wasn’t that one. It was some random generic   :56.720 --> :02.880 name. I took note of it to check out once I was  alone, and deleted the notification just in case   :02.880 --> :08.080 he’d realize I had seen it once he got his phone  back. We eventually arrived at my house, he told   :08.080 --> :13.520 me some really sweet words about how nice it was  to see me after all these years and how excited he   :13.520 --> :19.040 is to work with me. I said something around the  same lines so as to not sound rude or anything,   :19.040 --> :23.040 after all, he did just drive me like  25 minutes straight to my house.   :23.040 --> :28.080 I feel bad for Parker as he really did seem like  a gentleman at heart, but I know enough about him   :28.080 --> :34.800 now to say with confidence that that’s not who he  truly is. As soon as I closed my apartment door,   :34.800 --> :42.320 I opened Instagram and looked for said username.  Drumroll, please. HE ACTUALLY FOLLOWED ME ON THAT   :42.320 --> :48.560 ACCOUNT. I had honestly never realized said  account followed me, so I also had no clue on   :48.560 --> :54.160 how long he had been following me for. He also  clearly kept this a secret as I mentioned, the   :54.160 --> :59.840 handle was a really generic name. Him trying to  see what I’m up to after blocking him perhaps?   :59.840 --> :04.960 The week after, as I was about to leave my house  to work, Parker was right outside my building in   :04.960 --> :09.680 his car. He evidently didn’t live here, neither  did he tell me that he would pick me up to go to   :09.680 --> :17.120 work so I was VERY confused. He honked his car as  I walked outside just so I had no excuse to “miss   :17.120 --> :22.640 him”, or at least that’s what I assumed. I walked  up to him, as he jokingly said that carpooling is   :22.640 --> :28.800 a great way to combat pollution. Funny, Parker.  I still had a few doubts about this mysterious   :28.800 --> :34.960 Instagram account so having this one-to-one time  with him was rather useful. We once again jammed   :34.960 --> :40.560 out on our way to work. I actually told him that  I was sorry for blocking him on IG in the past   :40.560 --> :46.720 and started following him once again. He was very  excited to hear that lol. While on the subject,   :46.720 --> :52.480 I also directly asked him if he knew “generic  Instagram account name” as this profile had   :52.480 --> :57.040 “shown up in those recommendations you get when  you follow someone and it said they already   :57.040 --> :02.960 followed me. You could clearly tell his face  changed for a quick second. He made up a story   :02.960 --> :07.760 saying that it was just a friend of his who had  worked at the same company a few years ago. Now,   :07.760 --> :13.760 I know my memory isn’t the greatest but that name  really didn’t even ring a bell. Not only that,   :13.760 --> :18.400 but why would he be signed in to said  friend's account despite the fact that he   :18.400 --> :24.560 was at the company a few years ago. AND WHY  WOULD SAID FRIEND FOLLOW ME OF ALL PEOPLE?   :24.560 --> :29.920 This man was clearly hiding something. I didn’t  make a big deal about it as he would realize that   :29.920 --> :35.280 I knew he was up to something. We got to work and  continued with our day as if nothing happened.   :35.280 --> :39.920 Since he picked me up in the morning, despite the  fact that I didn’t need the ride, I told him it   :39.920 --> :44.880 was only fair for him to drop me off again. I’m  not sure if this guy is some sort of genius but   :44.880 --> :50.160 he managed to get back to my apartment building  without even using google maps or anything.   :50.160 --> :56.800 Maybe that’s just a millennial thing to say but I  ALWAYS need my trusty navigator to get me around. :56.800 --> :01.360 I continued to dig into this account when I  got home. I checked some of my older photos   :01.360 --> :06.800 on Instagram and who had liked them. The  surprises really just don’t stop coming.   :06.800 --> :11.520 I was able to track down the first picture that he  had liked with this account. I posted said picture   :11.520 --> :17.760 a whole 3 years ago…. So he has followed me in  this secret account for at least 3 years now.   :17.760 --> :22.960 This man is so dedicated, I’m not  surprised why he does so good at work now. :22.960 --> :27.200 Time went by and it seemed as though that  question in our morning car ride might have   :27.200 --> :33.200 scared him a bit, as he now kept his stalking  strictly to work now. That was until one night   :33.200 --> :38.800 as I was just chilling at my apartment, I received  a notification from my ring doorbell about some   :38.800 --> :43.760 movement outside. I checked to see the live  feed on the app, but there was no one. I kept   :43.760 --> :49.040 watching just because it's not common for me to  get these sorts of notifications unless someone is   :49.040 --> :56.880 actually outside my door. And much to my surprise,  I realized that a very familiar person walked by.   :56.880 --> :03.040 I didn’t want to overreact as you couldn’t  really tell who this person was. But then,   :03.040 --> :08.800 said person walked by again and again and  again. It was clear to me who this was.   :08.800 --> :12.960 I don’t even need to say it at this point.  Everything until this point was pretty harmless,   :12.960 --> :18.880 but at no point did I tell him what my  floor, let alone my apartment number was.   :18.880 --> :25.280 I had become so used to this behavior from  Parker, but this actually left me scared s**tless.   :25.280 --> :29.920 I saved this footage just in case  because this really was getting too far. :29.920 --> :34.240 Once it seemed like he had stopped walking  around. I decided to go downstairs and ask   :34.240 --> :39.200 the doorman about it. He said he recognized him,  but apparently, he never stated what he was doing   :39.200 --> :43.920 as he just walked right by. He also mentioned  that he remembered seeing this person walk   :43.920 --> :49.600 into the building before. WHAAAAAAAAAT? That  makes it TWO times in which Parker comes into   :49.600 --> :55.600 my apartment building without me even knowing  it. God knows what the purpose of it even was.   :55.600 --> :01.040 He didn’t even try and knock or anything. He  was just walking around. Perhaps waiting to   :01.040 --> :07.440 “casually bump into me” as it has happened before  in different places. This shook me to the core. :07.440 --> :12.800 The next day I asked to speak to the HR team as  this was really getting out of hand and I was   :12.800 --> :18.880 legitimately scared at this point. When I spoke  to them I told them about the whole situation.   :18.880 --> :22.640 All our encounters and his strange  behaviors when I was working as an   :22.640 --> :26.640 Intern and now too. The lady was  shocked to know about all of this. :26.640 --> :30.880 The two details that make everything  leading up to this point make sense,   :30.880 --> :36.000 but also lead to the situation reaching  its breaking point, came as follows. :36.000 --> :41.440 First of all, the lady was pretty scared to know  about Parker's behaviors, as before he got hired   :41.440 --> :46.800 for the job they obviously had to do a background  check on him. With that, they found out that he   :46.800 --> :52.000 already had a restraining order from an incident  that had happened way back when he was still in   :52.000 --> :57.600 college. They obviously didn’t give me all of the  details but yeah, he had basically already been   :57.600 --> :03.280 reported to the police for being a “stalker”. And  the second detail which was the main reason why   :03.280 --> :08.960 the lady was confused at all of this, is that  apparently, Parker was the one who tipped the   :08.960 --> :15.280 hiring team to contact me. They needed someone  for the position and as the senior developer, he   :15.280 --> :22.640 had some say in who they could hire. So the whole  reason why I’m even here is all because of him.   :22.640 --> :28.080 She assumed that we had a good relationship, and  given my previous work experience at the company,   :28.080 --> :32.000 they considered it would allow for  better productivity to have us as a team. :32.000 --> :38.080 I was basically shaking at this point. Call  me crazy, but here’s my theory. Parker never   :38.080 --> :42.640 really got over me. I doubted if he even had  a girlfriend back in the day at this point   :42.640 --> :49.120 since I never actually got to see her. Either she  really was very introverted, Parker didn’t make   :49.120 --> :54.720 their relationship public, or he just straight  up lied to me so he could get closer to me,   :54.720 --> :00.720 as that clearly made me trust him more. That’s  not all. After I went to New York, he continued   :00.720 --> :06.480 his strange stalker behavior especially knowing  that I had a boyfriend and couldn’t be “his”.   :06.480 --> :11.520 After getting blocked, he created the other  Instagram account which he followed me on for   :11.520 --> :17.760 years. As my relationship was so public, after  we ended it Parker saw an opportunity to get me   :17.760 --> :22.880 back. Now that I was single and without some  sort of attachment to the city, he tipped the   :22.880 --> :29.120 team to send me an offer. And his master plan was  successful after all. I still don’t know how he   :29.120 --> :34.960 got my apartment number, but clearly, he has a way  to find out what I’m doing and when I’m doing it.   :34.960 --> :40.800 Are you not satisfied yet? I would qualify my  taste in music as underground. I know, I know.   :40.800 --> :47.120 I’m cool like that. But the idea that he even  tried to use this music taste to his advantage   :47.120 --> :52.800 by playing these songs whenever I would go in the  car with him didn’t seem too far out of reach. :52.800 --> :59.680 I almost had a nervous breakdown at that moment.  I couldn’t believe he had gone to such an extent   :59.680 --> :06.480 just to be with me. I freaked out and ran off. As  I went out, Parker got a hold of me. I yelled at   :06.480 --> :13.040 him, I was terrified. I tried to walk away but he  insisted on talking to me. I kept yelling at him,   :13.040 --> :18.320 I didn’t want anything to do with him. He pulled  me towards him, grabbed the back of my shirt,   :18.320 --> :24.960 and held my arm very tightly. He had gone full  sicko mode. I still remember his exact words   :24.960 --> :29.920 to this day. “I know you better than anyone  else in the world, I will take care of you,   :29.920 --> :34.080 we are meant to be together. You need to  realize that no one else will love you as I do”.   :34.640 --> :41.440 My head was about to explode at that moment and I  passed out. When I woke up, I was sitting next to   :41.440 --> :47.600 him in his car. He tried explaining his motives,  as it was obvious that me speaking to the HR team   :47.600 --> :52.960 had something to do with him. He’s not stupid.  I knew he still wasn’t going to take a “no” for   :52.960 --> :59.360 an answer, so I tried to cooperate with him until  I could safely get out of his car and seek help. :59.360 --> :06.080 As soon as I had the chance, I ran back inside and  screamed for anyone to just keep him away from me.   :06.080 --> :11.040 I was done with his bs. I called the  police. This had to stop already. :11.040 --> :16.880 That’s basically the dramatic part of the  story. It really was a terrifying experience   :16.880 --> :22.320 and although many may think I was just crazy,  you gotta understand that there are way too   :22.320 --> :28.080 many coincidences for me to be making this stuff  up. I explained my side of the story to the cops.   :28.080 --> :32.960 All from the beginning. They eventually spoke  to the HR team as well since I told them about   :32.960 --> :38.800 the information that was given to me by the lady  earlier that day. They filed a report and arrested   :38.800 --> :44.480 Parker for investigation. I finally felt at  peace knowing that he wouldn’t be able to follow   :44.480 --> :46.240 me around. I had also garnered enough evidence to  build a pretty strong case against him. Turns out   :46.240 --> :51.680 he didn’t have just one, but two previous  incidents where he was either abusive   :51.680 --> :57.920 or stalked other women, and although those events  happened years and years ago they still got the   :57.920 --> :03.520 girls to testify against him once again. They had  previously only set restraining orders against   :03.520 --> :09.920 him, but since this was now a recurring crime  (because yeah stalking is considered a federal   :09.920 --> :15.440 crime) he eventually ended up getting jail  time for his actions. There’s a law in the   :15.440 --> :21.360 California Penal Code that states that after three  strikes, your prison time could be of at least   :21.360 --> :27.360 25 years. So that was Parker. I think it  sucks that great people like him have to   :27.360 --> :33.680 destroy their entire lives just for the approval  of a female partner. But he got what he deserved. :33.680 --> :38.080 A few months after I requested to be  transferred to a different location   :38.080 --> :41.120 as my experience in Mountain View was not great   :41.120 --> :46.240 after all. I currently am still working for  this company and am getting better with time   :46.240 --> :52.000 as this was a pretty traumatic experience  for me. Parker is still serving jail time.

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what's the best case of Instant Karma that you've ever seen while working for the fire department on a call for a multi-vehicle rollover accident on the interstate we got on the interstate one exit away running into traffic so we moved over to the emergency Lane with lights and siren we were about halfway there and a BMW pulls in front of us trying to cut through the traffic he didn't even look I laid into the air horn and he came to a complete stop with his middle finger out the window I'd had a lot of people do stupid things when seeing lights coming at them but this guy was being an ass for the sake of being an ass he got out of his car and started screaming at us meanwhile he was blocking the only fire engine and two ambulances available people were really hurt half a mile away and he was making a stand because we honked our air horn at him for blocking us I looked out at my mirror to see a highway patrolman running between lanes towards us he was pissed BMW boy was immediately arrested his pretty car got pushed out of the way into a ditch and he went to jail the people in the accident were hurt bad and two cars had to be cut open to get people extricated from bent metal it was frustrating

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flight attendance what are the worst aspects of your job we don't get paid during the boarding process delays or sit time in between flights this is generally the case with all Airlines you also don't get paid for training except for maybe a few Airlines if you're flying and you see a crew member sitting in a passenger seat they're most likely commuting into work or going home please don't bother them as a commuter myself it's like having a second job and it's very exhausting speaking of exhaustion we're all most likely overworked and completely drained from working on fumes can be a very tiring job and hard on your body flight attendants generally just meet when we start a trip and we usually have new pilots on every leg we have a very seniority based career seniority is everything on a more serious note if someone starts acting up or suspicious we all know and we will watch over you the entire flight to make sure things don't escalate we usually see everything going on the negative side of this job is that it can be a very lonely one most of my friends are flight attendance or either based elsewhere we just always end up on different trips or my 9 to-5 friends whom I hardly see because I work weekends a lot of times it's not uncommon to go months or even a year without seeing some of my friends plus being away from home so much doesn't help loneliness it's very hard in your body sometimes after finishing a trip I'll still be dehydrated or bloated a day or two later it also causes a lot of skin problems because the air is so dry in the plane being on reserve is the hardest part of the job it's basically on call sitting around not knowing where you're going to go or when being a commuter I'm sitting in a hotel waiting for a Crew Scheduling to call me with something but there's a chance I'll waste my time and money money by staying at a base and getting a hotel and end up not flying at all there's a lot of gossip and drama that comes with this job I've worked on some trips where the fa working up front can't stand the fa working in the back days are long and can turn longer and that messes with your sleep and eating habits for example day three of my 3 days I woke up at a.m. worked on a 2 and 1/ half hour flight scheduled for 1: p.m. had a 3-hour Sit time at the connecting airport got delayed by 2 hours because of weather delays boarding the plane takes minutes was pushed back and the ram closed sat on the tarmac for an hour and finally got to our destination 2 and 1/2 hours after takeoff but 3 hours behind schedule I was too tired to drive home 2 hours away so I got a hotel and now I just woke up at 1:30 depending on whether we're domestic or International our duty days can legally push to 16 and5 hours that's 16 and 1 12 hours on a plane and an airports it can drive you to your breaking point and it's not uncommon to have 10 to 15 hour Duty days every day of a trip actually my total Duty time for my last 3-day trip was 35 hours we got paid for 6 16 hours also a huge thing is that we legally have to tell you the seat belt sign is on if you don't and the FAA is on board we personally get fined for not informing a passenger the seat belt sign is on that's not the only thing we can be fine for another example is that yesterday a man asked me for headphones while taxiing I told him I wouldn't be able to get them to him until after takeoff that's because if I did bring him headphones while taxiing I could be personally fine for doing something non-safety related while taxiing once that door closes and we're on the ground we cannot do anything unless it's for safety we also can't serve drinks in the ground once the door is closed unless there's a long tarmac delay another thing we can be fine for is if our manuals are not up to date and now most Airlines have tablets for manuals and they have to be charged at least 90% at the beginning of the day we're also required to carry certain items with us and if we don't have them we can get fined so if you ask for something while taxiing and we say no it's because we can get into big and expensive trouble and the only reason we are up before takeoff is to do safety checks AKA seat belts seatbacks and tray tables after we land we have already checked prior to Landing so we need to stay in our jump seats until the seat belt sign is off unless there's an emergency story two USA flight attendant here we are not paid our hourly rate during boarding or deing an aircraft even when we sign to work usually an airline will pay both their pilots and flight attendance their hourly raid when the brake releases from the gate until the aircraft reaches the next gate this is due to the 1926 Railway Labor Act which overlooks both Railways and Airlines to this day it was last amended in 1936 they circumvent this by paying their employees a perdm which is usually .50 to $3 per hour you're away from your starting airport or home which we call Base asking us to put up your bag is kind of a customer service taboo due to policies and procedures many customers with injuries older customers or some women will assume flight attendance usually males can put bags in the bin for them but we are not allowed to do it by ourselves and ourselves alone if we're hurting our shoulder or back due to the weight of the bag by putting it in the overhead bin many airlines would not compensate the flight attendance for an oji on the job injury so if you need to put up your bag but cannot do it yourself as much as it may stink unfortunately you need to check it or you just look in consider it bathroom doors are usually accessible by pushing them where it reads push right there at the signage I know the airplane looks very foreign from everyday places but do take heed of the signs to help you along your way speaking of using the bathroom if the seat belt sign is on and you need to go the flight attendant cannot legally tell you yes no or a variant of just be careful if the seat belt sign is on all we can say is the seat belt sign is on it may seem confusing or unhelpful but this is due to legal reasons at the end of the day when a flight attendant is standing at the boarding door and greeting people we aren't just greeting people but also looking at and monitoring them for potential threatening behavior toward other passengers or able-bodied people in an emergency situation all flight attendants are trained in self-defense they relearn techniques each year too negative aspects of the job we are constantly away from our home life for a living usually 3 to n days at a time in some cases so the job can be lonely especially if the crew you're flying with doesn't mesh well together and because I'm away from home I cannot own a dog radiation from flying is real for both flight attendants and Pilots the potential to develop skin cancer is very real for us so I hope to not fly as much when I become more senior to reduce the possibility of radiation exposure but besides all the weird tabos and negatives we love our job so much in my 20s I've seen some of the world on my Airlines dime have a very flexible schedule and make a decent paycheck to live alone in a big US city I do not think I want to solely fly for the rest of my life however I do want to always keep keep the job for the benefits and do something on the side to help support a great home life story three the lack of stability in my schedule is a huge thing that people don't really know about I find out where I'm going for the month on the 21st of the month before unless I have booked leave there I have no idea what my days off will be January I turned up to work for a Nairobi trip and got reassigned to Chicago 20 minutes before I was due for my briefing I arrived in O dressed for the African summer as for things you don't know almost always we pick our bff or boyfriend for the flight who's simply the most attractive guy in theight just for a bit of fun we also discuss amongst us how nice outside is on widebody aircraft there's two aisles and we work each side once we've done the initial drinks round we often have a casual chat over what they're like my side is pretty nice drinking a lot of alcohol though 34 days jerk there's a family of four at the front who are lovely if you drink too much and we cut you off when you ask for your fourth double VOD katonic in an hour don't try to pull the wool over our eyes and ask someone else we know about you the onboard manager will know about you and the captain will know about you as soon as I cut someone off I let the crew working with me know that I'd stopped giving 28b Boos when the manager calls us every half an hour at my Airline we'll let them know that 28b has been cut off and in turn they'll let the captain know it's nothing major but I don't think a lot of people realize how much we keep the flight deck in the loop on everything that's going on people in business and first class don't realize they're cracking off their warm smelling bed farts all the time when they're trying to sleep and it's disgusting and yes we know when you're getting handsy with each other story four my wife is a former flight attack attendant so I'll offer a few things she's told me when everyone stands near the gate waiting for their boarding group to call you prevent other passengers from getting on board gate agents and flight attendants affectionately refer to This Cloud as gate lice flight attendants have the level of authority in the flight that's below the captain but they can and do make the call about whether you will fly or not if you're too intoxicated if you're belligerent and if you give them the impression you will not follow their instructions in a flight the FAS can kick you off if you refuse to go they can have you arrested likewise in a flight they can have you detained and arrested at the destination flight attendant's primary purpose is safety not serving you food and drinks that's just something extra to help justify the presence on board and add some comfort to the flight so please don't mistake them for Mall security they have zero Authority and are just a sky weiter waitress if you knew how little money they made you'd rethink how you treated FAS and if you'd like to do that as a career the hourly wage may seem nice but they only get paid when the boarding door is closed otherwise sitting at the airport waiting for a delayed flight riding a shuttle to the hotel or riding back for the next flight doesn't pay the hourly rate when you add up all the time you're essentially away from home or not in a hotel room the hourly wage drops to below the minimum wage some Airlines give better pay based on seniority but most Airlines do not only real perks are flight benefits fa plus spouse or significant other gets flight benefits meaning they can fly anywhere for just the government fee as a glorified standby Story five huh that's quite the can of worms you open there drink plenty of water a plane's atmosphere is very dehydrating we're issued a 3 lit water bottle to drink per day it may sound weird but I started to not like the taste of plain water we typically aren't paid during boarding and deplaning we are obviously working but are on the clock time for our hourly pay doesn't start until the big door closes so get your stuff together and sit down in a timely manner please unexpected turbulence is a real thing so wear your seat belt when seated as you can hurt yourself if you hit the ceiling don't let your kids run wild 8 Hour layovers for us means about 4 hours of sleep if you're lucky lay overtime starts when the big door opens for deep planning and stops at the time you're supposed to be checked in to start boarding you have to account for shuttle time in both directions getting ready Etc not all a overs are that short but there's at least one to three times it happens for trip it's seniority based so if you're at the bottom of the totem pole you're going to be on call for at least a few years being on call means a minimum of a 2-hour deadline to get the call to get yourself to the airport through TSA and into the crew room for check-in you can leave on a day trip and then have to call Crew Scheduling we call them screw scheduling to be released from Duty they can then send you on another trip so long as it doesn't exceed 6 days flying in a row your work life is completely unpredictable during that time you're looked down upon as a flight attendant if you data pilot a lot of them but not all are arrogant deags I've been chased by a few to find out they're married some with newborn kids I get that it's a lonely life but come on don't be like that before anyone tries to say otherwise the fight crew knows this is true we've all been on trips with those guys more than we can count I've seen a lot of Pilots spank Banks of their wives girlfriends and side girls I've been hit on more times than I can count on flights I'm not arrogant by any means but guys will hit on you because of the fantasy if you hit on an fa they will see you as that guy and will likely never call you it's like hitting on a bartender a lot of us we are fake wedding rings because of this I've had guys try to see up my skirt which wasn't short tried to do a low goodbye wave only to graze my chest and the way out it's funny when guys hit on you early in the flight and then realize I'm stuck with you for the duration of it that's plenty for now story six I went through something with American Airlines in a transcontinental flight to Honolulu it was a living hell soon as the crew realized how sick I was they avoided me and wouldn't answer any questions or even make eye contact I was never rude but I and my colleagues were basically begging for things like water or a blanket but couldn't get them or even a response they shunned the whole row for the entire flight no exaggeration by the time I got off the people I was traveling with had to carry me arms over their shoulders and my fever was 104 I couldn't walk a tiny bit of kindness some water and maybe if somebody had found me in Advil I would not have been that sick my friend later told me that they thought I would pass away obviously not and they were also worried they would catch it from being so close 48 hours later I was right as rain although one other person then got sick the hotel and with a doctor checking in there was just some horrible bug I picked up and of course it decided to kick in after we took off I don't like American Airlines much at all anymore largely because of that incident and while we're on the topic of flight attendance if you enjoy hearing about their experiences make sure to hit that like button and subscribe to our channel for more Insider insights like these story seven hairspray can set off lavatory smoke alarms also yes your Vape whenever I take a flight as a passenger out of uniform I always greet the flight attendants in the front and usually the pilots and let them know I'm a flight attendant it's not industry standard but the idea is to let them know where my seat is in case there's an emergency and I'm an extra set of helpful hands Junior flight attendants are exhausted like zombies walking around facing minor hypoxia sleep deprivation negative bank accounts and general anxiety that was me during our Airlines required Reserve period it's comparable to new RNs and doctors who are on call you can be on call for 24 hours which means at any point you have two hours to be at the airport in uniform ready to fly any flight they assign you once you finish that assignment which can be anywhere from 2 hours to 4 days you have 9 hours of rest before you go back on call every flight attendant has a base but not every airport is a base many flight attendants are therefore for commuters for example you can live in Ohio but you're a new hire who was assigned SFO as your base you can move to the most expensive city in the country or commute before your assignments from the Midwest to every time many flight attendants and Pilots mitigate this logistic by staying in Crash pads a few nights a month apartments under one name of the least but with bunk beds and shared spaces and dividend rent salary and Union representation are interesting topics as well most of us love our jobs story8 leave the bathroom the way you found it I kid you not when I say that a passenger left his giant Herd on the floor of the laboratory not sure how I'm not sure why but it was definitely my first Code Brown we can tell when your emotional support animal is real and when you just manipulated the system to avoid paying the cab and pet fee don't make small talk with us we hear the same questions every day what's your route and is this your first flight I'm here to give you food drinks and clear instructions on how to get out if the plane is on fire I'm not here to provide you with small talk get a book perhaps this is the most important one most airports right now are landing too many planes an hour so if we have to wait for a gate or if there's a traffic jam with a Tarmac do not I repeat do not ask us to call the flight deck and tell them to hold your connecting flight that's not how it works in America you're not special and your flight will never be held for you unless you have George Clooney status during the holiday season make sure your connection time is at least 90 minutes minimum weather maintenance and air traffic control delays are all factors that will stop you from having a seamless experience plan ahead story n the Chimes and dings you hear from the speaker all have a very specific meaning a single high chime is a passenger call Button going off a high then low chime is a call on the inter phone from another crew member and a double low chime indicates the plane is above or below 10,000 ft indicators for final descendants for Landings AKA strap in and clean up some negative aspect depending on the type of person you are loneliness it has never particularly bothered me I've always enjoyed the Solace and I don't mind going around the city on my own but right now for the first time in years it's getting to me I'm going through a breakup as of today while I'm in the middle of a trip and it's so hard to try to keep yourself composed and hours long flights while locking yourself in and out of the bathroom to wipe your tears up make yourself look presentable and keep a smile it's worse when you get to the hotel room at the end of the day and you're alone thousands of miles away from any friends or family and you cry into your pillow aching to hug the person who's leaving you I want to be at home story 10 safety security and lastly service those are the three things we're here for and they're prioritized in that very order I love my job as an fa I've been doing it for over 7 years and there's so much flexibility with the job that you can't compared to any other career I could work as little or as much as I'd like to and for the most part I could choose the routs that I fly passengers could sometimes be difficult but the best part about this job is that I'll probably never see that passenger again after that one flight and once I walk off the airplane and head home I've left my work behind me and don't have to think about it again till my next trip that being said the negative aspect of my job has to be the long hours and sometimes very early showtimes a lot of my friends think the job is glamorous and vacation all the time but you don't really wake up at 3:00 a.m. every day when you go on vacation oh yeah and the absolute worst thing is pouring Diet Coke in the airplane because it fizzes much longer than any other car needed drink for some weird reason thanks for tuning in to hear about the worst aspects of being an fa if you'd like to know more about what happens at 30,000 feet then watch what's the most what thing you've experienced during a flight story to is weirdly entertaining see you there

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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is steven and this is the story time channel today we have some malicious compliance stories and our first story of the day is by nf kappa b alpha you need to check all of our food fine so this happened like seven or eight years ago when i was jobbing at a driving service while i was a student the driving service was one for people with disabilities that could not drive or walk on their own our main office was in the building of a housing slash working facility for disabled people the two companies our driver service and the housing facility were loosely connected as they were both financed by the same organization however management wise they were clearly separated we were about 15 drivers at this location and we shared our lunch slash social room with about 10 caretakers since our schedules were horribly organized the drivers often had idle time so the social room was where everybody hung around waiting for work one day my boss column tom brought cake to work because he became 60. the cake was enormous like a wedding cake could hide behind it twice i can only imagine how expensive it must have been at nine every driver had eaten some pieces and there was still like eighty percent of it left so tom told the caretakers they should feel free to take some then karen happened she was something like the security inspector of the facility so she had authority over the caretakers but no dealings with the driving service her job was to watch for potential hazards organize the caretaker's schedule and generally having an eye on everything happening when she heard there was cake she was furious she and tom couldn't stand each other so she was always trying to ruin his day in this particular instance she claimed the cake was a health hazard as it contained cream and she could not verify whether the cooling chain was never broken during transport so she threw it all away roughly 400 euros worth of food just thrown away needless to say tom was less than amused he went extremely mad he was usually a very calm and gentle man and this was the only time ever that i heard him shouting at someone still there was nothing he could do karen could basically declare anything a hazard and take action how she saw fit and her higher up didn't really care to make matters worse she doubled down and demanded that every food that was brought into the social room had to be inspected by her first cue malicious compliance obviously all the drivers were mad at karen for upsetting tom and for throwing away a perfectly fine cake so the next day first thing in the morning 15 drivers went to her office everyone with his lunch demanding she inspected it took her roughly 10 minutes looking at sandwiches and answering questions whether mayonnaise was too hazardous to be brought in this went on for the whole week each day our questions about hazardous foods becoming more dumb and degenerate on friday it took her more than two hours to inspect our lunch as we would collectively steal her time afternoon she said she got the message and that sandwiches got a general okay and not to bother her with it anymore fine the following week we went out of our way to eat anything but sandwiches salads cake pretzels normal lunch stuff every day there was a line in front of her office having their lunch checked asking stupid questions whether this food was or was not too dangerous to enter the social room kieran was losing her patience becoming increasingly aggressive towards us but still refused to apologize to tom then at the end of week 2 of food checking tom brought a bucket for lunch when he entered kieran's office to have his lunch checked like he did every day and opened the lid of his lunch pot the smell hit everyone in the vicinity like a brick to the face apparently he made some unholy mix of garlic cream pickles and herring which he called fish soup it looked like what happens if you leave something dead in the sun for too long all brownish and sluggy with some green specks in it and it reeked twice as bad as it looked karen looked as if she would puke any moment commanding him to remove this monstrosity from her office tom asked if she didn't want to check it since he could imagine the cooling chain could have been broken during transport or sometime in the last two weeks a lot of us drivers laughed so hard i swear some nearly choked from laughter this was roughly the time that karen had to admit defeat food checking stopped immediately and the following week tom brought another cake to be honest i thought this kirin lasted longer than i would have expected several weeks taking hours to review everybody's lunch every single day i would have quit way earlier than that considering how massive this cake was and how much tom probably spent on it do you think in reality tom is owed some form of compensation either by karen or the company she represents let me know in the comments down below our next story is by swan medic oh sir this transaction can take as long as you need i'm paid by the hour i do feel kind of bad about this one now but it happened a few years ago and it's a funny story to tell so what the heck i used to be a shift manager at a collectible store where we sold a lot of used movies games figurines etc the kind of place that old school collectors drool over so we saw our fair share of enthusiasts coming and going a lot of them were really nice passionate people that were just jazzed as heck that they had a local place to look for rarities often chatty often not super aware of how much time they were taking from staff by striking up a conversation but it was both good for business and pretty fun to oblige these people when they came in so we often did we had a guy who for a period of a few months would come in about once a week to look at the cartridge games the thing to know about our cartridge games is that they were all on display in large glass cases which if you wanted to sift through them required an employee to wait with you to prevent theft some stuff in those cases was worth hundreds of dollars not typically a big problem but this guy often bought items in bulk and had very particular tastes i'm not sure if he was a reseller which we sometimes saw or an honest-to-goodness collector but he'd only ever buy bags of our cheapest stock every week he'd come in and request someone open each case one by one and he could spend 45 minutes to an hour just browsing through titles this wouldn't have been the biggest deal but we typically only had three or four people working and this store could get pretty busy on evenings and weekends going from two cashiers to one cashier made a big difference we would end up getting swallowed by the late day rush without one of our staff members so consistently that we started making a policy just for this guy where he could leave his id at the counter with us as collateral and browse through the games unattended however this didn't stop other people from nabbing stuff while he wasn't looking so it wasn't a sustainable option along with spending forever browsing this guy also took an eternity to check out he would group the games up by price type his estimated cost into a calculator add tax then when you rang it up he'd argue with you about how no no this isn't what i got look at this and show you the calculator and explain the math as if any of this was manually calculated by us which was basically always wrong to his credit sometimes discounts had to be manually added to certain items that i know at least one newbie forgot to do but a general most of the time the computer would generate the correct price and he'd argue it i didn't like him coming in and causing backups especially because he was rude to my staff when he did it so i decided to take matters into my own hands on a day when i was shift leader i saw him enter the store i pulled aside one of my cashiers and told him to just help the guy as usual then let me ring him up my employee got the idea and did as i asked walking our regular to the cabinets and babysitting him for nearly an hour luckily it was early afternoon and we weren't terribly busy when the customer finally got to the counter he had a basket full of items stacked them up and i hopped in front of the computer he started punching all of his values into the calculator and got right to work telling me about how much each thing should be and what the total should come out to i put on my best customer service smile and said of course sir i want to make sure that you're getting everything exactly as calculated so we can go down the items together and make sure everything rings up correctly our computers ran on a system that would automatically scan a price and generate the number but for things like specialty sales and discounts for items that didn't have their own product entry it was possible for a manager to key in a manual price for any item scanned even if it was the same price so that's exactly what i did for each item reading the price out slowly to him to make sure he heard it and he had 118 items i went down each old cartridge clearly stating and typing them 1.99 2.99 1.99 and he followed along with me by the time i got to the end of the list it must have been 15 to 20 minutes of just scanning items and i gave him his total of course he countered it he told me that that's not what he got on his calculator and showed me the math and explained how everything should have been applied my mistake sir let's go through it again to make sure we have everything right i cleared the transaction and started over one more time all 118 items reading each price as slowly and clearly as i could plunking the number keys loudly as i typed them in again another 15 to 20 minutes of just scanning and typing the customer was looking slightly agitated but followed along on his calculator and when i got to the end of the list the total was exactly the same as before he shook his head saying no that's not right there's something wrong with the computer i watched him go through the math again retyping everything in then after a moment he paused surprised oh i added one of these in wrong okay you had the right price i did my best to keep my face as calm and as apologetic as possible i'm sorry sir but after you said the math was wrong i cleared the transaction again no worries we can scan the items back in so there we went round three 118 items me typing in each price manually and reading it out loud nice and slow so he could be sure i was doing it right at this point he had definitely caught on to what i was doing he quietly said could we hurry it up a little and so i started reading and plunking a bit faster still took a nice 15 minutes to get through the list again and lo and behold same price as before he paid the total without another word and left with his items i never saw him back in the store again at least not while i was working stores like this are always a fun place to be at least for me but seeing some dude crouching in front of the cartridge case for over an hour just looking at stuff that would be a major turn off not just for the employees but for the customers if anybody wants to go look at that cartridge thing they have to go stand next to this dude that's just kind of hovering there obsessing over all these cartridge games for nearly an hour he's a well-paying customer but he's not great for business our next story is by sibmai you won't accept my card okay see you soon yesterday i had to go get my diploma at college yay 2020 class what's up on the way there i remembered my spoiled six-year-old brother demands sweets every time someone comes home so to avoid his tantrum and my mom yelling at me for not giving him anything i decide to stop on my way back and buy him some candy by the time i was back everywhere was closed except for a wall market and a little deli owned by an old neighborhood couple whom i'll call boomer and karen so i decided to support our local community and whatnot after standing on the socially distant line for a single chocolate bar i finally got to the cashier slash karen who refused to accept my card because the chocolate was like two dollars and they only accepted thirty dollars plus on debit both her and boomer within old farts thinking their smart smirk then suggested i buy more stuff to match the value i refused so she started yelling at me for wasting her time and messing the store remember i got a single chocolate bar while she yelled her fat guts out i saw a stand saying they were taking delivery orders through x app and little photos of different debit slash credit cards i had used it a few times already i just looked at her said okay and left when i was out of there i looked their store up no minimum value and no delivery fee so it was my time to smirk now i waited a few minutes ordered the darn chocolate put the delivery address at a house a few numbers away and waited there seeing boomer trotting down the street in full protection gear with a single chocolate in a bag look at me right under the delivery number he was looking for and stop on his tracks the visible parts of his face getting redder and redder lovely i extended my hand and said thanks he handed me the bag without a word i watched as he walked back to his darn deli taking mental notes to never go there again then walked back home with a smile under my mask this little game took almost 30 minutes but the feeling of owning greedy boomers was worth it so much for supporting the locals so for small mom and pop shops like this i totally understand having a minimum amount on a debit order or something like that because there's a transaction fee that they have to pay when they process your debit card thirty dollars minimum though is ridiculous i don't know if they're getting ripped off by whoever does their payment processing or if they're just trying to be greedy is all heck but that is ridiculous it should be like five dollars minimum and our final story of the day is by otf dude manager calls employees bluffed resignation i was working for a decent-sized family company that had internally promoted a manager from a different department to run a sizable branch for the company he was warned about a particular employee who was known to cause trouble and was generally very contentious i will call her karen karen worked in inside sales and was a notorious gossip who loved to spread rumors regardless of their validity she also made several younger male co-workers uncomfortable with her rather aggressive advances this was mostly mitigated to how particular clothing fit a guy but occasionally progressed to outright propositions for their mutual lunch breaks at best she was okay at her job but generally made the workplace less than stellar karen also had a reputation for annually seeking raises from the prior manager by resigning this was usually met with some form of concession just to placate her and keep her and her customer base on board the new manager heard this story and the passing of the info about karen just so happened to coincide with a drop in sales to a small degree the company's and to a larger hers so to karen's routine she walked into the new inexperienced manager with the news that she simply wasn't going to be able to work there anymore unfazed he immediately reacted with sincere regret that they wouldn't get to work with each other professionally karen's confident look immediately shifted to fear she floundered out a sentence about how she wasn't making what she needed to make to which the manager totally agreed with her and again reiterated his best wishes in her next opportunity he then stood and said that he would need something formal written up for hr but she could do it anytime that day wasting no time he immediately sent a glowing note to the staff about losing a true asset to the department and invited everyone to a going-away party in the kitchen that afternoon at the party karen was a woman walking and interacting with guests at her own funeral i imagine she was wondering how she would go home to her husband and explain that she had quit her job that morning fortunately for all she was far too prideful to admit that it was all a tactic and that was karen's last day with the company afterwards the branch ran fairly smoothly it turns out she was indeed mediocre and her customers were more than happy to have a fresh rep on their accounts a few years later the manager was again promoted and the pseudo-fired move was renamed gotta left to go pursue other opportunities as in kieran gott left to go pursue other opportunities vad kieran just dug their own grave you have to be very well prepared for it not to go the way you want the bluff to go it's a shame that karen was way too prideful or else they wouldn't have lost the job it would have been embarrassing and it would have been going back on their word but they wouldn't be out of a job either way it was good for the company but with that being said that's all the time we have for today so which of these stories was your favorite and why let me know in the comments down below but besides that if you enjoyed the video please consider liking and subscribing and turn notifications on if you haven't so you'll never miss an upcoming video any little thing that you do helps the channel grow so much more whether it's commenting subscribing or just watching the video thank you all so very much for supporting me right here on the story time channel i hope you all have a wonderful day and i'll see you all next time right here

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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've got a great drill instructor compliance story but first a story from todnax i can only make deposits withdrawals and buy money orders my previous mid-sized obscure bank merged with another slightly bigger but equally obscure bank several years ago all the familiar friendly faces were replaced by younger less than friendly staffers i walk in and ask one of the tellers to change my 20 paper bill to quarters i need a bunch of quarters because the building i worked in had quite a vending machine i'm talking cinnamon buns coffee cakes gourmet hot chocolate etc the building owner imported the machine from japan there's just one problem it's very temperamental when it comes to paper bills it eats bills constantly sometimes bills get mangled and shredded the teller let's call him cletus looked at me the same way that someone would look at a bunch of junk mail leta says we can't do that here the previous staff may have done so in the past but as you know we've absorbed this branch and we can't accommodate unusual request such as yours unless you have a merchant or business account he wasn't making eye contact now and was just fiddling about with his keyboard and monitor cables his next words were the ones that set me off he says i can help the next person in line it's on jerk i say wait a second i have a few questions about my account what am i allowed to do cletus sighs and says withdrawals deposits buy money orders i say any restrictions or limits on how many times i can do cletus now speaking very fast and being very animated said no restrictions any denomination you just can't walk up and ask us to make change for whatever cash you walk into the branch with okay i'm happy to comply here we go i say i'd like to make a withdrawal i'd like a hundred dollars and twenties another hundred dollars and tens another one hundred dollars and fives and another hundred dollars but this time i'd like 80 singles and 20 dollars in quarters cletus says fine like i said any kind of withdrawal or deposit is fine for your type of account he counts everything in front of me hands me the cash and asks anything else boss my pocket the 20 roll of quarters and say yes i'd like to deposit 380 to my account please chief i vividly remember his shoulders drooping and his eyes closing in disgust needless to say i closed my account the next time that i stopped by this is just a really crappy bank right this is not like a common thing right it should be a reasonable expectation that if you go into your bank branch that you could walk out of there with twenty dollars in quarters right if a bank straight up refuses to turn your 20 into quarters they're absolutely not even worth doing business with right let me know in the comments our next story is from wet butter drill instructor says to march straight okay the marine corps is huge on discipline especially in boot camp you can do everything perfectly but it still won't be good enough minor mistakes result in you getting screamed at and or corrected through disciplinary physical fitness in enlisted recruit training good times this was at officer candidate school where everyone was evaluated and screened on their leadership physical fitness and academic ability normally one-third don't graduate for a variety of reasons and don't become officers i was coming off a rather bad week of mistakes and felt like i was going to get dropped crushing my dream but this week i was chosen to be evaluated in a position known as candidate platoon guide all i do is help out with the other candidates i.e recruits in their evaluated leadership positions and carry around the company guidon a pointy stick with a red flag on the end i was going to give it my all and follow my drill instructor's instructions precisely at ocs they're called sergeant instructors for those that want to bust my balls about it we formed up outside the barracks and we were going to the chow hall to do so we had to follow a narrow path that curves to the right around the building but straight ahead is the pt field with hundreds of candidates doing their exercise right face forward march the drill instructor says hurry up just go straight we're running late i say okay i marched in a straight line off the asphalt and into the pt field while this was happening my drill instructor was chatting with his buddies he didn't notice the platoon led by me carrying a big red flag marching through exercise formations the other drill instructors on the pt field certainly noticed and they started swarming like sharks to chum i hear my drill instructor in the distance screaming something incoherent presumably at me well i was surrounded and given a rather epic butt chewing in front of everyone who were transfixed on the scene understandably so this is exciting because they aren't on the receiving end it's a form of entertainment eventually the drill instructor says what in the absolute holy freak were you thinking candidate i say this candidate was ordered to march straight by the sergeant instructor and was just following his instructions the drill instructor pauses for a good bit and then just says just get the heck on the parade deck i passed the evaluation graduated and pretty sure that even 10 plus years later i'm still digging saliva out of my ear there's something that i kind of really enjoy about malicious compliance stories like this the ones where the situation is so strict and you're expected to follow them so literally that when they give you something that clearly you're supposed to have some kind of your own interpretation on going around what they're saying you just ignore them and follow right on through right into a whole crowd of people what i especially love is at the very end when they're ready to just rip into you the other people are probably ready to rip into you too you can look them dead in the eye and say i'm not wrong i can only imagine it makes those people boil inside but hey you're not wrong by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos our next story is from improbable robot new dress code at a former employer all the admin assistants had been there for over a decade and were in their late 50s early 60s and all enjoyed the somewhat casual dress code nobody wore jeans but they always talked about the importance of comfortable shoes we also had unlimited sick leave one day the boss decides that it would be dress shoes only for everyone unless you had a doctor's note the new rule kicks into effect and every single admin took sick leave friday afternoon to get a doctor's note saying they needed comfortable shoes the net effect was a loss of a half a day's work and still 100 comfortable shoes the look on the boss's face monday morning was priceless i think one thing i definitely appreciate as we continue to move into the future is it seems like business casual and a more casual dress code is more and more becoming the norm and i'm all for comfortable clothing comfortable shoes especially if anybody spent eight hours working a shift in some uncomfortable dress shoes especially in jobs where you're mostly just at a desk it makes a world of difference being able to just wear shoes that are comfortable that don't make you miserable and cramp your toes and honestly make you just kick the shoes off while you're working and your feet are under the desk and our final story of the day is from squishy spark you need me more than i need you background i'm a teacher and i've been teaching fifth grade reading and social studies in texas for five years at this school i've been a teacher for seven for reference the standardized test in texas is currently known as the star and fifth and eighth grade is considered for all intents and purposes to be pass the test or get held back as far as my teaching record i've gotten to be very good at my job every year i've taught a star-tested subject reading aka elar i've gotten the highest average student scores in my tiny charter district i love my students my classroom is a welcoming place based on mutual respect and i refuse to drill and kill i teach reading in a way that integrates all subjects and makes it enjoyable for students and makes sure they know it's a silly test and not indicative of their actual skills or ability well our school had been in improvement required status the year i started teaching reading to meet tea requirements our district brought in instructional coaches and hired new personnel at the district level some did help others not so much one woman hired to be the elr facilitator for the district was the most vile of creatures i called her umbridge in private because not only did she look like the movie character she sounded like her and had the same mannerisms this woman picked out her favorite teachers and treated them like her pets she decided to do this to me umbrage was constantly in my classroom for observations would pick me out to demonstrate for professional development and it creeped me out somehow she managed to run off the most amazing director of teaching and learning for the district last year during our end-of-year pd she sent out an email to some of the elar teachers that due to them inputting lesson plans correctly they didn't have to attend this workshop to plan for the next year i knew about this because i have good friends that shared it with me when i asked her why and shared an example of my lesson plans that i've put in consistently and thoroughly throughout the year she said that i didn't use the correct template i used the ones my dean of instruction requested and approved that the district required it was bs and i went back to my campus looking like i was ready to murder someone my principal noticed right away that something was off and i explained what umbridge had said she told me that i didn't have to go to that pd and that she'd take care of it i spent the day cleaning out my classroom for the summer instead found out later she wasn't even at the pd fast forward to the beginning of this school year she was promoted to the position of the guy she ran off she lasted two months then suddenly mysteriously resigned we figure someone discovered how truly incompetent this woman was even though she resigned i was still stressed out because she was the reason the district decided we needed to use a newly purchased online reading program with fidelity and they wanted it done during our social studies time social studies was to be integrated into elar that might not have been a problem for me had it not been for the fact that my homeroom contained all the sped special education students and our grade three of those students didn't have me for reading they went to resource with miss ignorant the sped resource teacher during my reading block i asked the powers that be how i was supposed to give them social studies instruction and grades i was told that i was to provide lesson plans and assignments to miss ignorant and she'd give me the grades to put in the gradebook this is highly unethical so i asked for it in writing sure enough i get an email detailing this directive i warned them that this was a bad idea and it would bite them in the butt eventually no dice the malicious compliance i did exactly what i was told like i said before i write detailed lesson plans that anyone could follow provided the assignments all online through google classroom so i got a grades immediately from the student and suggestions for accommodations i included miss ignorant on my google drive folders for social studies and emailed her regularly to remind her of what each week's lessons were she didn't do a darn thing and those three students grades dropped from barely passing to in the teens i sent out a regular reminders for parents to check their child's grades and turn in their assignments we sent out report cards that i required parents to sign and send back it took until the last six weeks in april for them to realize just how messed up their child's social studies grades were and by that time those parents were pissed i was happy to share exactly why their kids had such low grades and how i can't do much of anything when i only saw the kids for 30 minutes a week during reading intervention time and was not allowed to teach the subject they're supposed to be in my classroom for the crap hit the fan the district special education department realized they then had to hold failure iep meetings to address how this happened miss ignorant tried to throw me under the bus and i was able to provide all of my documentation my ap told me that i should have just given them passing grades because their special education what the freak and had the inclusion teacher give them supplemental assignments and grades to replace the missing or low grades i made sure to make notes the parents could see on each of those grades that they were provided by the inclusion teacher there's no way they actually know the material you can't make up for seven months of instruction in two weeks the fallout my principal knows i was about to quit and honored my request to become the music teacher now i no longer have to teach a star-tested subject and will be doing something i truly enjoy miss ignorant will now be an inclusion teacher and will no longer have her own classroom or be a teacher of record my awesome principal is doing her best to clean house of bad teachers and the district realized the errors of their ways and will now have that reading program integrated into elar like it's supposed to be i just feel bad for the kids because this directly affects them and for the people's solution to be well their special education just give them 100 and give them supplement fluff to make it up like how ignorant and dismissive can you be about this group of 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I married the wrong person I'm 36 husband 37 over the pandemic my husband had nothing better to do than to scroll through the internet and somehow became indoctrinated into everything that I don't believe in what's worse is that he is constantly arguing with me gaslighting me that I am an idiot for believing in fake news Sandy Hook is fake coid was on purpose vaccines are for population control media is trying to make people worship Satan woke culture wants everyone to be transexuals and more as context both of us are or were liberal leaning we have many lgbtq plus friends we both barely cared Gore politics and saw things in the gray now he's turned hyper conservative and a conspiracy believer this is ripping out my soul every time he goes into a rant I want to vomit and my skin crawls I hate that he turned into a person I don't recognize anymore

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GF of seven years cheated on me with my best friend manipulated me into moving out of my own place when I refused to take her back she attempted to un alive herself hey everyone I really need some advice this is going to be a long post because there's a lot of history and backstory and I just really need to have an outside perspective on things that's not bias all of my friends are of course going to support me and hers are going to support her so I'm turning here because I want an honest Outlook I promise I will try to give as honest of a story as possible and I won't try to make myself look like a good guy in this situation because trust me I've definitely effed up over the years before I get to how this all got to this point let me give some insight on the relationship because it's definitely a lot so please bear with me for the sake of privacy I will refer to my girlfriend as Jane like I said please give me honest feedback and advice and call me out where I need to be called out because I need to hear it going back to 2017 this was the year we met I was a senior and she was a junior in high school we went to different high schools but we lived in a town of around 200k so everyone sort of knows everybody still I met Jane through a girl I would occasionally talk too it was nothing serious just seil without actual sex I saw Jane's friend post a picture of Jane and I immediately knew I wanted to talk to her I slid up on the picture and asked for her number I ended up getting it and we hit it off almost immediately during this period of time we became very good friends I had never met someone I had this close of a connection with right of the bat when I say I was in love with this girl after a month I mean it I fell so hard for her this period of time however was also complicated she was going through a breakup with a boyfriend of about 2 years I tried to be there for her as much as I could the breakup was very fresh though so she went back to him for a couple of months but we still remained friends she knew how I had felt about her and I knew how she had felt about me she knew that getting back with the guy hurt me a lot and since I was so young I didn't really understand how hard it was to leave those types of situations so now I get it as I have aged anyways they didn't work out again and their relationship ended me and Jane continued to talk over the course of five months until we started dating I eventually lost all of my friends because I only wanted to be with her she would start is with my friends and then basically would get mad at me for talking to them but I was stupid and in love so I cut off everyone for clarity we were best friends for 5 months and then we started our six-year relationship in the beginning of everything it was definitely amazing puppy love I would eventually sneak into a room every single night for years to be with her we were practically living with each other after only 5 months of knowing each other now I know this wasn't the best idea at the very beginning we got way to close way to fast I haven't lived on my own since this all began honestly even if it wasn't technically offici in the beginning of our relationship though she said I was the perfect guy for her I would listen to all her problems I would be there for her when she cried I just cared so much about this girl that I never wanted to be the reason she was sad she definitely had always struggled with depression and I wanted to change that for her fast forward about a year into our relationship things still aren't too bad but they're not the greatest anymore we started fighting pretty consistently she said mean immature things and I said mean things too I can't think of anything particular at this moment but all I can say is things started to take take a turn for the worse we still loved each other though I cared so much about this girl and I know she cared about me so I continued to stick it out and she did the same after about 2 years things started getting a lot worse in the beginning we were very seal with one another I actually lost my virginity to her and still to this day I have never had segs with anyone else there would be days while I was at work and she was at home and we would be digital flirting like we were really seal one day she was saying how she wanted to touch herself and I told her to send pictures videos whatever just corny people see she asked me if she could text some guy she knew to get her going if that makes sense for whatever reason I was okay with it it was something I had never experienced before and because it felt wrong it turned me on please don't judge me even if you don't understand I don't really understand it myself if I could go back and do this all over I would have definitely not go through with this again because I know things could have turned out so much different anyways we stopped doing the whole her talking to other people thing because we knew it was a huge source of our issues even though I had made such an effort to change for the better things were still not the same same we had sex sometimes but very rarely at first it started out as twice a month then it dwindled to once a month until over time we didn't even have sex on Valentine's Day our birthdays it was very rare if it happened I eventually asked her about it and she just kept saying it was the comments I had made and how she didn't feel safe having sex with me I understood because I know I said really awful things and I wanted to give her as much time as she needed I tried to remind her how beautiful I thought she was I have told her every single day since all of that happened how bad I feel how much I didn't mean mean it at this point I have probably apologized thousands of times no exaggeration just to remind you this all happened about 3 to 4 years into our relationship after about a year of not having sex it really started to take a toll on my self-esteem I deserved it because I know that's how I made her feel I just didn't feel attractive I didn't feel like she wanted me it really hurt actually it still does I had been doing my best to be a better person however and I really was of course we still got in arguments but mostly about things normal people would have fights about nothing so extreme anymore because I was trying so hard to change like I said though we would still have sex occasionally just not often we wouldn't send pictures we wouldn't flirt nothing it felt like we were just roommates but she was my best friend so I stuck around because I truly cared so much even if it was wrecking my self worth Jane eventually got on birth control year 4.5 into our relationship at that point our sex life really was nothing she said it made her not horny she had no desire to have sex I'm not a woman so I really don't know how these things work I took her word for it and just pretty much accepted we wouldn't have sex anymore because she was my best friend and I didn't want to make her feel any sort of pressure I tried really hard to be a safe space and let her know that I'm ready if she ever was we had officially moved out of our houses into our first apartment together as well we had pets she was going to college at our local University and so was I she didn't tell me but she had applied to a really good school about 8 hours from us in a big city she got accepted two weeks before classes started and wow was that hard for me my whole life started to turn upside down I had to make a decision if I wanted to stay here and finish college at the local University or if I wanted to risk it all and move with her to the big city to try and make things work of course I moved with her I had 2 weeks notice I transferred jobs and we got an apartment in the city all within the matter of weeks I didn't really have time to process anything or really think about it but I gave up everything I was doing to be with her year five when we moved it was hard I hadn't had friends for years because I cut all of them off for her I dropped out of college because I have to work full-time just to even be with her in this apartment I sacrificed so much to prove to her I love and care about her so deeply I was really sad initially because it was a huge City I knew nobody but her and I missed my family it was so hard for me to make friends but I knew that I needed to in order to feel okay eventually about 4 months into the move I met a girl at work she had also just moved across the country and we clicked almost instantly we were really good friends but I hid that from my girlfriend I actually went as far as changing her name in my phone because I know how jealous Jane can get and she wouldn't understand and I didn't want to cause any more problems looking back on this I know it was a huge mistake I should have just been honest and told her about my friend from work but I didn't I never ever ever ever cheated on her though I never have over these six years we were never flirty I never had feelings for her it was just truly nice to have a friend and have someone actually seem like they wanted to talk to me you know also around this time Jane still wasn't having sex with me but we were becoming more flirty with one another she finally started feeling more comfortable with showing her body around me I noticed it and told her how proud I was of her I really still do feel proud that she started started warming back up to me because she really is the most lovely beautiful person I have ever laid eyes on she's so perfect to me and I still [ __ ] regret ever making her feel as if I didn't think she was perfect I [ __ ] up and I continued to apologize to her every single day for 2 years anyways though me and my cooworker were secret friends for about 9 months I know this was wrong of me to keep a secret trust me I wasn't trying to hurt anybody but one day when I was asleep Jane went through my phone and saw me talking to her this caused a ton of problems she compared herself to my friend and that broke her heart it broke mine to see the affect I had on her and I immediately Cut Her Off no questions asked because like I said she was only a friend I've been really honest in this post making sure you guys know some of the things that I have done so there's really no point in me lying I mean it when I say we were only friends I've been really honest in this post making sure you guys know some of the things that I have done so there's really no point in me lying I mean it when I say we were only friends Jane said I had emotionally cheated on her and at first I didn't even know that was a thing but I listened to her I blocked my cooworker on everything I changed my work schedule to see her as little as possible and I made as much of an effort as I possibly could to prove I was sorry it was just nice having someone seem interested in me in having a friend and I didn't want that to end but at the end of the day my girlfriend's feelings come first and I have to be there for her it was really hard on Jane because we still work together trust me I know how hurt she was but I can't quit my job because I don't have a college degree and no other job pays nearly enough as what mine does right now I truly did stop talking to her I let her go through my phone when she wanted I sacrificed so much sleep because I now work 5:00 a.m. shifts just to prove I don't talk to her okay this is where things start to get worse my friend from our hometown moved to the city I currently live in around year 5.5 into our relationship he moved down here for me because we both make music we have performed shows together he would make me beats and we really wanted to chase our dreams and have more of an opportunity here me and this friend let's call him Tyler have known each other for probably 12 years we were always somewhat friends but never hung out a lot until he moved here Tyler moved here with his other friend let's call him Julian and we all started hanging out every single weekend for about a year me Tyler Julian and my girlfriend were all best friends we drank every weekend we all did everything together me Tyler and Julian became such good friends my girlfriend was included always and together we were a really good group of friends we had so much fun with one another I trusted Tyler with my life and we've never had any issues whatsoever he was the first person I opened up to about a lot of things and I was always trying to be a good friend and be there for him as well if he needed me Tyler and Julian were always welcome in our home and they would stay the night if they got too drunk we would all go to concerts together Etc I sort of noticed that when we would all get drunk that my girlfriend Jane was a little extra close with Tyler they would just be sort of touchy I eventually told Jane and Tyler that I don't really feel comfortable with this and it hurts me they both assured me nothing was going on and almost in a way made me feel a little crazy for thinking so we all hung out though even after this fast forward a bit to about a month ago my birthday actually Jane had texted me while I was at work saying I just had the hottest dream of having a threesome with you and Tyler I mean of course this made me feel really weird but at the same time we hadn't really been intimate or flirty in over 2 years so I went along with it I entertained the idea and eventually it happened we all three got very drunk on my birthday and had a threesome I agreed because my selfworth and esteem was basically zero and I just wanted to feel a connection and wanted by Jane we got drunk again and had another threesome this time after it all happened they stayed up for hours talking and I fell asleep on the couch I woke up to them still talking and I told my girlfriend hey this is supposed to be sexual and hurts my feelings that you just sort of left me out there and didn't check on me to see if I was okay she assured me they didn't talk for that long and just were finishing and I believed her this was supposed to be only sexual and I was very kind and honest about how I felt she kept wanting to do it though and just assured me it was just sexual and this helped her feel pretty and confident so I felt bad objecting because I just wanted her to feel good about herself again we had about one more threesome and then I just started getting very suspicious Julian and Tyler came over to hang out with us one night and I decided to look through her phone I noticed that her texts with him were deleted and I thought that was a little weird but I didn't mention it to her the following week they all came over again and the same thing happened they were being really close and touchy all night and it really started to get to me Tyler and Jane both went outside to talk because Tyler was emotional about something me and Julian were just sitting in the house a little awkward and he finally asked me if I was okay I was honest with him and I told him that it really bothers me how they're out there together alone because I had texted her asking her to please come back inside she didn't know when I went to bed because I was in my head Julian told me he knew about the threesoms but he felt like there was more stuff going on I did too but I had trusted her so much until this point but when someone else notices something it kind of makes me feel like hey maybe I'm not being so crazy she eventually came to bed about 10 minutes later and I finally said hey can I see your phone she kept saying she didn't know where it was at this point I started to freak out Julian and Tyler were drunk on my couch while me and Jane were in our room I kept asking hey let me see your phone still kept denying she knew where it was I got up and started looking for it because she said she had left it out in our living room but no matter where I looked eventually she gave it to me because she kept acting so suspicious I noticed all of their texts were deleted I started screaming because I knew she wasn't being honest with me I didn't find anything though and we finally just went to sleep the next day she acted like she was very upset with me and she left for 7 hours at this point they know they're caught they both know that I know what they've been doing Jane wasn't texting me back and neither was Tyler so I just knew that they were hiding things for me I facetimed Tyler to make sure she wasn't with him and they both denied they were together I finally decided that I was not going to be treated like that and I started driving back to my hometown I drove 6 hours until I started texting Tyler some really sad stuff things like how could you do this to me that's my girlfriend of 6 years you know how much she means to me and all the things I've done just to be here with her I hinted at suicide because I was in such a bad heads space he called the cops on me and they put a bolo on my car Jane at this point was at our house and texted Tyler and Julian to come over because she didn't want to be alone with the cops they [ __ ] came to my house asking about me and it just hurt me to know they were together in my house alone so I turned around and drove all the way back home another 6 hours I finally got there and finally Jane started being a little more honest with me she told me that after the first threesome they had both admitted to each other how many feelings they had for each other Tyler said it was worth it to lose me and our friend group to be with my girlfriend they had been sending each other songs that reminded them of each other talking behind my back even though Jane has assured me nothing was happening it turns out they were with each other the day I was driving home too for hours talking about how they had feelings for each other and they cried together a couple of hours after she had admitted this to me I got on her phone and texted Tyler acting like I was her I told him to come over because I her boyfriend wasn't there but I needed to know if he was in love with me and if this was worth it he said of course it's worth it and he was in love with her this snake came over 10 minutes after I texted him at 6:00 in the [ __ ] morning keep in mind he knows I know he just doesn't give a [ __ ] now because he's been caught and exposed for the terrible human being he is this dude shows up to come have sex with my girlfriend but little does he know it's me texting him he walks in and I confront him saying things like how the [ __ ] could you do this to me you're taking my house my life my pets my girlfriend everything from me I told him how I would never think about even doing that to someone I don't know let alone my best [ __ ] friend he tells me that he loves her and that he will do his best to not talk to her anymore I finally swing on him and I'm not a fighter but this just did not sit with me whatsoever we fight in my living room for a couple minutes until I tell him to get the [ __ ] out of my house and to never show his face to me or herever again the moment he leaves I drop to the floor crying I'm having a panic attack I can't breathe I throw up on the floor from all the adrenaline and emotions that were all coming in on me at once Jane tells me she won't talk to him that she'll tell me everything else she was hiding from me she tells me that they had admitted feelings after the first night we had a threesome that hurt because I cried to her saying I don't want this to be more than sexual and I just want her to want me the way I want her she assured me that that's all it was she let me go through her phone and I found videos of them naked together acting like they were a couple she told me she wants me to be the one to have to move out because of how much she loves this apartment and because of how close it is to her College I am on the lease and I'm the one who got betrayed in the worst way I have ever felt yet she's trying to make me feel like it is all my fault this happened how she didn't feel love for me which I know that's not true I've done so much to prove to her I changed over these years I dropped out went to therapy gave everything up for her worked my ass off to afford this house we live in I told her I would try to forgive her but she's acting like I'm the bad guy she's saying she won't forgive me if I make her be stuck with me our lease ends in August she says she won't ever talk to him again and she feels terrible but she said she used this as an outlet to get out of our relationship I told her there were so many ways she could have done that differently but her excuse was she felt like she couldn't talk to me about it now I feel like this is all of my fault I feel like I'm the bad person in this situation she wants me to move out so she can focus on herself and feel confident in the way she looks to make this relationship work I just don't know what to do I don't feel like it's right for me to have to be the one to move out of this apartment when I'm on the lease she's the one who cheated on me with my best friend I'm sorry this was so long I just felt like I need to give so much back story to be fair to the way she felt about me but also the way I feel about her I thought this last year with her was actually really good but she keeps telling me how this was one of the worst years of her life I don't understand and my judgment and this is so clouded and confusing please give me advice what should I do I want to make this work with her but she won't even be with me anymore yet she's also leading me on at the same time because we still sleep in the same bed she just keeps saying she wants me out of this house and she doesn't want to be around me I know I haven't always been the best person but I would never do that to her never in a million years would I be capable of hurting my girlfriend and my best friend in that way I'm just just hurting so bad I don't know what to do frown update one one month later and it still hurts it's been about a month since I discovered her cheating on me with my best friend I'm really hurting she convinced me to move out but not to move cities so we could work it out why do I let her walk over me like that she cheated and broke up with me and wants me to be the one to change to be with her how did this all get flipped around on me I decided I wanted to try and fix things but I just keep finding out more and more lies I flew home for a day and she unblocked the AP and apologized to him for the situation she caused she didn't admit this to me of course every single time I would ask her to please work on her honesty and if she was telling me absolutely everything she would say she was then she was over at my new place one night and fell asleep and I went through her phone she told a friend about how she unblocked him to apologize why didn't I get that apology she told me he told her something I said to my best friend in private and used it against me to try and Slither his way into her life again she said she told him it was in her best interest to not speak anymore she's so mean to me I'm in therapy trying to change I started volunteering at at an animal shelter I'm going to the gym hanging with new friends but I still feel such a hole I hate this feeling she has caused I hate how she made me believe it's my fault this happened update 1.5 I'm really having a hard time at the moment I've posted my whole story in a different sub so if you want more details look at that because it's a lot but basically my girlfriend of 7 years cheated on me with my best friend I am hurting so bad still even though this happened a month ago she broke up with me and basically made me the issue in the whole situation she said that I've been emotionally abusive for the past 6 years and this was her way out I moved 8 hours and dropped out of college just to live in this stupid [ __ ] City when she got accepted into a good University I worked so hard full-time and also was doing full-time online classes so that she wouldn't leave me behind someday once she becom successful my former best friend moved here for me because I pushed him to take the opportunity to work on his music we have played shows together I let him into my house every weekend I included my girlfriend in my friend group so she was not left out big [ __ ] mistake I just keep wondering why I put him to do music more serious I feel like this was all my fault and one choice ruined everything we had she broke up with me I begged and begged no remorse just cold she convinced me to move out but not move away so we could focus on ourselves and be together another mistake said she would only be honest now she made me look so [ __ ] stupid because I found out she unblocked him one night and apologized to him for this why the [ __ ] didn't I get that why am I allowing this why doesn't she feel bad I am hurting so bad update 2 2 months past D-Day update hey guys to make a long story short my girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me with my best friend check my post in here if you want the full story because it's a lot but I do not feel any better about my situation she made me move out of my own apartment and now I feel so alone in the studio originally I was going to move 8 hours back home to be with my family and move back in with my parents because I was a wreck but she convinced me to stay here so we could work things out I know that sounds stupid but when you're in love with someone like this it's so hard to act with a clear head I ended up signing a lease for a studio in 6 months because both our leases are up around the same time and we were going to originally move back in together now this was all supposed to be a break but she broke up with me and now won't tell me when she can come to a decision effed up that I've let her call the shots even though she's betrayed me no matter what I said she just says the things you've done aren't comparable in my head I know that's not true but I keep believing this is my fault I miss my house I miss my cat I told her she needs to be completely honest with me from now on she promised she would tell me everything and that she has told me everything but one night when she stayed over I checked her phone and saw her talk about how she unblocked him to apologize for the situation she did it when I went out of town for a day what the f I barely have an apology from her myself I can't stop having nightmares or get out of these Loops out of my head I am hurting so bad why am I still chasing her she told me now I know everything but she's obviously amazing at lying to me I wish my former friend would apologize to me too but I don't expect that to ever happen I'm so sad I've been in therapy and started Lexapro today so maybe that's why I'm spiraling so bad I feel like I will never feel better update three 3-month update GF of s years cheated with best friend now talking to a new girl well guys I just wanted to come in here and give you all an update with my situation you can check out my original stories and the trauma it caused but I'm here today to tell you I'm feeling a lot better we were trying to make things work after we broke up until I found out a couple weeks ago that she did it again the second time I found out I was upset but in a way I was expecting it so it didn't catch me as off guard as the first time did I started anti-depressants a few weeks ago and I think now they are actually helping me have a clear head I've cut off all contact and I was scared to do it for so long only to find out I felt better not knowing what she was doing not wondering if she was cheating again the day after I found out she did it a second time I hopped on Bumble and actually met someone I've been talking to for a couple of weeks now we've already been on two dates and I actually am into someone new granted I know it's not a lot of time in between but at the end of the day my ex just didn't give a f about me I want someone to care about me the way I care about them this new girl is so smart and I don't know man there's just something about her that I'm heavily attracted to I can tell she's actually into me too do you guys think that's a bad thing to see someone new it's pretty casual right now but I don't know if there's a timeline on these sorts of things update 3.5 is my M25 7-year relationship worth reconciling with my ex f23 all right to make a long story short my M25 girlfriend f23 of 7 years cheated on me with my best friend when I found out November she kicked me out out of our apartment broke up with me and did not show any remorse she did a lot of horrible things to me like threatened to go stay with him if I didn't move out and claim that space between us would heal our relationship I had to dip into my savings to move houses in a span of two weeks around the holidays she stopped talking to him though and we still saw each other after this all happened she would still stay the night with me but nothing was the same nothing sexual very small talk my partner of s years was someone I didn't even know anymore we have practically grown up together and it really hurt to see her do these things to me and not even feel bad well 2.5 weeks ago I found out she had met up with him again because she still had feelings for him keep in mind this was my best [ __ ] friend and so this is a double betrayal after I found that out she blocked him showed a little bit of remorse but we ended up going no contact after that I had been fed up and wanted to find someone who was going to treat me right I started talking to a beautiful smart girl and was feeling happy it's nothing serious but still anyways after a week of no contact my ex contacted me and showed up at my door at 2: a.m. balling her her eyes out saying how she was so sorry for hurting me and actually showed remorse she said she would do anything to win my trust back and she only sees a future with me I actually feel like she is honest about what she is saying now and she even revealed more details she didn't have to but it hurts that it's taken me this long to know the extent of things I was weak and we had the most passionate sex for the first time in so long I finally felt like I was wanted and desired something I've been craving for so long now even before the cheating she said she would go to therapy with me I am an iatm but initially she refused because because that's what old married couples do I know she only contacted me because she saw me moving on without her but she said she was miserable without me that week we didn't talk we hadn't not talked for more than a day in 7 years she said she couldn't process the extent of what she did while she was with me and couldn't feel the loss because I was the one begging her to stay I don't really know what to do she seems genuine now but she literally met up with my former friend only two weeks ago I want a life with this girl and I want to be with her but I don't know what that would look like we have been through a lot together and I know we have something there but at the same time the way she SW Ed up on me really hurt she has been someone I couldn't recognize for months now and literally made me almost kill myself threw me out made me question my own moral compass like I really wanted to hurt that MF for a minute and yeah I'm finally the one not begging and now I'm at a loss I really do want to believe her and like I said she does seem willing to go through the Hoops but I'm so scared to be crushed again and I don't know if my heart can handle it any advice and honest opinions would mean a lot she means the world to me and I am in love with her and I do want to marry her someday but I'm not sure if we can work through this success stories and steps moving forward Are Much appreciated update 4 xgf attempted selfs slaughtering last night so my ex and I dated for 7 years and she cheated with my best friend multiple times a few months after the breakup I started talking to a new girl and my ex found out about it and tried coming back into my life she came into my life saying all the right things love bombing the F out of me I tried it for 2 weeks until ultimately a couple days ago I told her that I can't continue to talk to her because I still can't stop thinking about what she did and that I wanted to continue talking to other people she tried begging me to not leave and I felt guilty but tried really hard not to give in yesterday morning I found out she was in the hospital for attempted selfs slaughtering she took a lot of pills with alcohol and threw them up throughout the night I texted her friend that was with her in the hospital and asked her if she was okay her friend then blamed it all on me saying I need to take the L and leave her alone she said this was all my fault and that my emotional abusive psycho self was worse than what she did I wasn't trying to start anything I simply wanted to know if she was okay because I still cared deeply for her and we lived together for the past 7 years I texted at her mom saying she should probably come fly down to see her because she's hurting a lot and her mom then said this was all my fault as well I don't know what to do I feel so guilty because I do blame myself for this I can't stop thinking about if her attempt was successful and the guilt I would have to live with she keeps saying I just replaced her and that she's unworthy and it's not because I don't love her it's because she Eed my best friend for months it hurts me that everyone says this is my fault because I personally have a sister that took her own life a few years ago and I was the one who had to answer the door to the cop I'm sure she feels traumatized from this but I can't help but feeling traumatized too I know what she did was evil but I still would never wish her any harm even though so much bad happened I still miss the person she was before all of this I know I should not get back with her but I feel so at fault and trapped in this cycle I do want to be with her still but obviously the relationship is so toxic and twisted now that I don't know if we could ever move past this cheating aside she still is the person who knows the most about me and I know the most about her I know she loves me and she does feel remorse now for the things she did but it took months for her to come to that conclusion and it really hurts I'm so confused and hurt and I don't want her to hurt even though she did what she did maybe I shouldn't care so much but I do I don't know if I've just been manipulated for so long or if she genuinely doesn't feel like life is worth living without me I don't know update five ex of seven years that tried to slaughter herself now with ap I'm sure some of you saw my last post of my ex that cheated on me with my former best friend after she tried slaughtering herself I was blamed by everyone she knew I decided that was the last straw and cut off contact not even 2 days later I saw from a mutual friend that I forgot to unfollow that she was with my former best friend it's just insane how she begged me to marry her that she was so sorry that she would never hurt me in those ways again and yet after I couldn't be with her she went right to him I'm hurt of course but I have a more positive perspective than I used to they're posting to hurt me won't work anymore because now I've removed anyone that is associated with her from all of my social media she's just crazy he's crazy all of them are I've been gas lit for so long into thinking I was the crazy one but I'm not she realized that after her attempt did not work she would s back to him if they can do it to me they're going to do it to each other maybe they'll last for a while but I promise it's going to be so toxic I have a new girl in my life that has been really genuine with me too being around her makes me feel happy she's actually a very healthy communicator and she seems to care about me a lot even though she knows I am a mess still one night for example I had a hard time finding motivation for a programming assignment and she sent cookies to my house with a note that said here is for motivation hope it helps I'm happy to talk to her because it makes me realize the behaviors I put up with for so long are not normal I'm I'm upset with myself for sticking through it for so long but I finally can say I have made it through and I will be better hopefully my next update will be even more positive again I'm hurting but I didn't cry it's stung for sure but I've realized throughout all of this people will do what they want to do the sooner you let it be the sooner you can start to let go and heal thank you to everyone who has stuck with me and listened and called me out for being an idiot the comments always stuck with me and this sub has been a huge support update six I want to slaughter myself I was with my ex for seven years and she cheated on me with my best friend I was kicked out of my house lied too gas lit Etc few months later she tried to get back with me and I tried it for a couple weeks until I decided it hurt too much told me that she would never go back to him even if we didn't work out because it wasn't okay to do to me and it wasn't good for her either she tried to slaughter herself because I left her her mom and her friends all texted me saying it was my fault 2 days after that her friend posted a picture of all of them with my former best friend I hate feeling this way they love to hurt me and I don't know how much more I can take it's like they have so much pleasure seeing my reactions and breaking my mental health more and more I want to just blow my effing brain out so bad I don't want to continue feeling these ways I gave so much to her I have so much to him I have developed a drinking problem after all of this and I just keep getting worse I'm in therapy and anti-depressants but F seeing them together again after all of this hurt me so much I don't want her I don't care if she moves on it's just why with him why wasn't I enough I just really want to isolate from everyone and just end it I can't do this anymore Update 7 going to buy a weapon tomorrow to end at F I don't know how I ended up here I'm 25 and alone I moved to this city for a girl just for her to cheat on me with my former best friend we were together for 7 years we grew up together me and ex-friend were friends since I was 15 every day I can't get away from the anxious thoughts I wasn't good enough for her I'm alone now in this apartment and I just can't find the motivation to go forward I've got friends that care my family cares but it's like no matter how much I talk about it I can't feel better this hurts so bad I don't think I can love anyone but her she is still with my friend and I stupidly looked at their socials and it's like they want to hurt me he said it was worth it to lose me for her I don't understand how I could mean so little to someone I have nightmares almost every single night everything effing triggers me I can't even drive down the street without seeing cars that look like theirs and I have a panic attack every single time I've tried anti-depressants I'm in therapy it's not helping I've been drinking every single day and I just hate myself I feel like something must have been wrong with me for them to treat me this way I'm I'm going to go buy a weapon tomorrow and hopefully muster up the courage to end it on Sunday where do I [ __ ] to ensure instant DEA I don't want to accidentally just make myself a effing vegetable and suffer even more I want to make sure it's quick and painless I want to see one of my friends one last time on Saturday because he's been here for me through everything I'm not telling anybody I know my plan because I don't want them to feel like they could have done something to prevent it they couldn't this is my choice update 8 everything is so effing hard ever since I saw them still together after her selfs slaughtering attempt when I wouldn't take her back I've been having the hardest time every single day has been harder and harder it's so hard to not look at their social media looking happy together while I sit here depressed as F I feel so stuck I feel like I will never feel better after this I've had really scary thoughts and I'm scared of myself at this point I hate effing living alone I hate that she took everything from me I hate my former best friend I don't even understand what the f they say to themselves to justify any of this I honestly have had such a hard time finding a will to live anymore I know they are both crappy people but godamn this hurts I know they just want to hurt me at this point but F it's working so well I'm so sad guys I don't understand how to keep going on the alcohol and meds only help temporarily I feel insane I feel like my whole life has been ruined I can't focus on school I've been failing my classes because I'm so unmotivated I haven't bought groceries in a month I haven't seen my family in months I haven't been happy in what feels like forever therapy doesn't seem to help anti-depressants haven't helped what's wrong with me why do I still blame this all on myself why do I have to have feelings I'm so sick of bothering my friends with my issues I feel so effing annoying I feel so annoying posting in here too I don't know what's wrong with me

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Welcome Friends to another r slash nuclear revenge video today we've got some crazy stories about some bad partners and the Revenge they got against them but first make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos that said our first story of the day is how I exposed my liar boyfriend and made him lose his job a guy I met just outside my office building had asked me out on a date he was someone I'd seen around for a while I knew he worked in the building but we never spoke Beyond exchanging hellos that day we bumped into each other again and that was when he asked if I wanted to get drinks together I don't know if it qualifies as a date but he did ask me to get drinks with him at that bar I showed up at the bar and waited but he didn't show up I felt horrible my friend was certainly going to make fun of me and say she told me so she did warn me but I didn't listen you have to understand I was young and desperate for love I had not been in a relationship in a very long time and I badly wanted a relationship when he asked to get drinks I did feel weird about it my senses did scream say no but somehow I opened my mouth and what came out was yes what time no man who respects you takes you out for drinks at a bar that's something you do with your guy friends my friend had said when I told her I didn't listen I wanted a date I was desperate and bored too that evening I wore a nice dress and very light makeup I think you're a little overdressed my friend commented I must dragged her hair stay out of my business I yelled at her the guy's taking you to a bar you would wear jeans and a very baggy t-shirt he doesn't deserve this much effort I ignored her and drove to the bar anyway what's the worst thing that could happen anyway we would have a few drinks and if it didn't go well I'll simply not go out with him again you can imagine how disappointed I was when he didn't show up it was an hour and a half late when I stood to leave but I was quickly blocked by another man from his looks I could tell that he was older by at least six years hey beautiful I rolled my eyes and thought how corny what a jerk he muttered under his breath I was puzzled what the guy who stood you up what a jerk oh I smiled weakly I was not in the mood to be hit on and why would you even meet up with him at a bar anyway I say listen I'd rather not talk about this they said let me take you on a real date I know a great restaurant just around the corner I say I'll pass I'm not in a good mood they say I know hence the good food to make you feel better I say I don't want to be hit on right now I understand he handed me a small blue card call me when you want to be hit on somehow we both burst out laughing I was tempted to go with him but I'd had enough let Downs for that day I also had to be at work very early the next morning so I said goodnight to him he insisted on walking me to my car and took my number when I got into my car my friend was thrilled when I told her about the stranger I met at the bar they said oh well at least something good came out of the weird guy who wanted to get drinks she was so happy that I scored another date one that she called a proper date that she forgot to say I told you so or reprimand me for agreeing to go to a bar for a first date I saw the guy the next morning he didn't speak to me and I didn't speak to him either I simply walked past him what a jerk I wasn't too bothered anyway since I'd scored a date with a total gentleman so I better not think too much about this idiot my date with the gentleman went very well first he came over to my apartment and drove us over to a nice and expensive restaurant he made me laugh all through the drive there and was very attentive to my feelings when we got to the restaurant too he ordered the finest food and wine it was nothing like any date I'd been on before he blew my mind we talked about virtually everything and he was so open and honest we went from career to love to our childhood he managed a popular female artist and was was earning well he got married when he was 23 but divorced two years later he said he and his ex-wife were young and stupid so they had a lot of fights and messed up their marriage according to him he doesn't have any children but his sister has three boys from her marriage and since he was widowed he became the boy's father ever since their father passed I in turn told him about my dream to own a fashion store someday where I can create my designs and bring them to life and have the designs carry my name he smiled and commended me for being so ambitious many ladies these days don't have any ambition they just want to look pretty they're not so concerned about what goes on in their brains or they just pretend to not even have brains he said I should have been worried about his comment but I said nothing he promised the support and help me bring my dream of being a designer to life and he did he got me my first sewing machine it was a really large one I didn't even have enough room for it in my room so I kept it in my living room I was skeptical after I'd received it though we had only known each other a short while my friend wasn't she was happy for me and rolled her eyes and my fears he likes you I don't see the problem and gave me a reassuring Pat on my back for months the gentleman and I hung out a lot we went on many dates and spent a lot of time together it was like a dream come true one day I asked him what we were I had to know if we were on the same page I was seeing just him and I wanted him to put some tag on it I don't know what do you want he asked me I know that I want you he replied I said well I want you too and I'm not seeing anyone or anything they said good because you're my girlfriend I beamed and we kissed it was the best relationship ever we didn't have any serious issues we just had fun and enjoyed each other's company more months into our relationship I asked him about marriage I don't believe in marriage he said with a shrug I said what he said I don't he went on to tell me about how his first marriage damaged him we were good before we got married you know I think marriage puts too much pressure on the couple so I decided I was never going to do it again I sighed I wanted to get married but I didn't particularly feel strongly about it he said you can move in with me if you want enjoying your partner without involving the government's a lot more fun I agreed with him and some months later I moved into his large apartment before I moved in I worried about his secrecy for instance he wouldn't let me meet the artist he managed he said he wanted to keep his professional life away from his personal life I had never met his sister nephews or any of his friends and it bothered me but I decided not to think too much of it he would do it in his own time he hadn't met my family either anyway I was estranged from my mom but my dad and I communicated regularly my half siblings knew about him but I never officially introduced them though I planned to when I moved into his house it was Bliss life became so much easier I had a private space in the house where I design and sew he traveled a lot though and that was a problem for me in our first year of living together he was away for nearly six months in total while I didn't like the arrangement I was supportive because he'd warned me anyway that he was a very busy man very often I organized parties for my friends and co-workers since I was bored I also had these parties to reveal my design prowess and showcase my designs to my guests I had a fun-filled year and I felt fulfilled since I didn't have to give up my dreams so I can make money to survive one day my friend stopped by my house looking very uneasy she didn't tell me she was coming so I thought she was probably in the neighborhood and had an emergency of sorts hey I was happy to see her but soon knocked the smile off my face when her frown deepened what's wrong she walked in looking around the living room where's your boyfriend she asked in a whisper I say oh he's out of state there's a concert and he has to be there she sighed and sat on the couch still looking worried okay what's going on you're scaring me and that's not good for the baby she looked alarmed what baby I smiled me I'm the baby she took a deep breath she says honey I just saw your boyfriend at the hospital with a pregnant lady I say what hospital he's not even in town girl you must have seen the wrong person they say no I'm sure it was him she was heavily pregnant and he was all over her as though he was the baby's father or something I shook my head no way my boyfriend's not even in the state my friend had no reason to lie to me we'd been friends for years and I trusted her very much she's never given me a reason to doubt her love for me and her Devotion to me also she never lied and hardly gossiped she just went on with her business and only talked about what she was certain of I was sure that she had seen someone who looked like my boyfriend she may have rushed over to tell me in good faith but it wasn't my boyfriend she saw I know you're worried and I'm grateful that you care but my boyfriend's been away for two weeks now we speak every day and night too I would know if there's a whole woman out there who was carrying his baby my friend reminded me about when I'd complain to her about not meeting his family or friends maybe this is what he's hiding maybe he has a girlfriend that everyone already knows I sighed nah there's no way my prince charming was this person my friend was describing he would never do that to me she says I know you want this to not be true but you've got to see this for what it is this man just may be a fraud I mean it all checks out now I was irritated what right did she have to call my man a fraud I think you should leave I told her flatly honey I'm sorry if I upset you I said it's fine I just need to be alone with my thoughts right now when she left I called my boyfriend and asked him where he was I'm back in my hotel room I've had such a hectic morning and I rushed back to take a quick nap I didn't ask him about what my friend had told him I figured there was no point asking if she did see him he was going to lie about it anyway and if it was a lie it may start to look like I didn't trust him so I decided instead to do my research I remembered him mentioning that his sister owned a pastry shop outside the city he'd even mentioned the name once I remember it well because she had named it after the wild animal and he thought it was funny I decided to visit her shop I got dressed and drove down hoping and praying that everyone was wrong but I had the strongest feel deep down in my mind that I was right the shop was just in the heart of the suburbs a beautiful colorful large shop I saw several parents leaving the shop with their kids holding plastic bags containing pastries I walked in and asked to see the Shop's owner I told the attendant I spoke to that I was her brother's girlfriend they say really did you come to pick anything for her I didn't understand I'm sorry she said oh you didn't know she's delivering her baby I was shocked but I managed to mask it and said oh my goodness I'm late I thought I'd still be able to catch up the attendant smiled that's okay her husband and Sons are with her it's a good thing they're having a girl this time she giggled I think Turin went back to my car it all made sense now my boyfriend had lied about having a sister she was his girlfriend I felt sick that explains the long trips that spanned months the phone conversations with his nephews I was beyond hurt the only reason I didn't lose it was because my friend and half sister rushed over and stayed with me for weeks I have waited my boyfriend's call I couldn't believe that he'd managed to string me along for that long the tea is that my boyfriend was a married man his and nephews were his sons and his sister was his wife the artist he worked for was his sister-in-law I made a photo collage of my boyfriend and me together with a short note explaining what had happened with the help of my sister and friend I mailed it to his wife's address I didn't hear from her or my boyfriend at the end of that year I was all ready to move out of the apartment my boyfriend and I lived in when I received a letter in the mail from his wife she had separated from him and her sister sacked him she admitted that it was not the first time he's cheated on her and wished me well I mean I can only imagine the shell shock it would feel to discover that you're in this position if you found yourself in a position like this would you be like wanting to drive right down to the hospital yourself would you be able to be restrained enough to just write a note and ship it off and let it go or would you be blowing up let me know in the comments down below and our final story of the day is how I got back at The X who tried to steal my friends before you say I'm mean or call me nasty names he started it I think what I did to him was nowhere close to what he did to me my ex-boyfriend and I worked together for almost two years on a contract job his company hired my company for the job and we were always at the Forefront of communicating with each other on behalf of the companies we worked for one day after we had a brief lunch meeting with two other colleagues one of his and one of mine he called me aside and asked if he could take me out for lunch sometime my boss was quite strict and would warn us about dating people from companies we worked with so I refused I never really saw him as a potential date he was cute granted but I was never attracted to him in that way the colleague I went to the meeting with who was also my best friend and roommate would gush about bottom all the time but I never saw him in that light I told my friend on the ride back to the office what he had asked me when he called me aside and she went Green With Envy girl I'm so jealous right now I said why do you like him or something I rolled my eyes at her you know you're getting married in three months right she said what no shut up I don't like him but he's such a cutie I always knew he liked you anyway his eyes light up when he sees you when's the big date date I told her I said no to him and she gassed you did what oh my goodness do you know what we're going to do we're going to call him and you're going to tell him that you were joking and that you'll go out with him I said heck no there's no way I'm eating where I crap I meant that dating someone I worked with was a huge no for me I just would not do it I feared it would affect the quality of my work and my boss finding out about it would put me in big trouble my best friend was annoyed that I would not date the cute dude we worked with the thing was my best friend was engaged at the time we'd been friends for a very long time and we would joke about getting married to our husbands on the same day while it was mostly a joke my best friend badly wanted that to happen for us but she was engaged and I hadn't even gone on a single date months before that since the cute dude asked me out I started to see him differently he was a cute dude and was very polite and carried himself so well I started to develop a crush on him but he was still someone I worked with and my job was still at risk so I didn't ask if the offer to go out together was still open when we were done with the job I contemplated asking him out since we no longer worked together but I was too shy and had never asked a guy so I didn't do it one day however my friend group and I were hanging out at a coffee shop and I saw him my friend group was my best friends group they all went to college together and hung out a lot so when I moved here my best friend who was my neighbor growing up introduced me to them there were six of us and now was the quietest reserved one to be honest I never really felt like they wanted me there I didn't think they would be friends with me if my best friend wasn't an important part of the group I wasn't cool like them I've always been a nerd of sorts and while my best friend worked in finance like me she had other fun interests I just wanted to manipulate numbers they were good friends to me though and we hung out very often and had a Facebook group where we sent funny stuff to one another and made plans anyway that day I saw my ex-fiance and walked over to say hello after much prodding from my friends there we made plans to go on a date and we went out together very often after for some reason he didn't like my friends he would complain about them and express that they were too much I liked him but I also liked my friends very much so I figure the best way to get him on board was to make him hang out with us often he agreed to get to know them better and soon enough he became one of us the group liked him and even added him to our Facebook Chat he was nice to them in their their faces but as soon as we were alone or conversing on the phone he would go on and on about how one of them was this and another is that it was annoying hearing him talking about my friends like that but I tolerated it in hindsight I realized I was just desperate for love I hadn't been in a relationship in a long while and before we started dating I hadn't been on a date in months my best friend was getting married and I felt I needed to make some changes to my love life too perhaps if I'd have been a little patient I would have never have been so eager to introduce him to my friend group and ruin everything for myself one big problem my ex-fiance and I had was that he was threatened by nearly everything about me even hanging out with my friends without him bothered him he was insecure and because I liked him I did all that I could to asaja's fears but it did nothing for him he only got more insecure each day things got a lot worse for him when I got a promotion at work and revealed how much my new pay was to him the promotion wasn't a huge deal to me because I'd worked my butt off for it but he was not excited about it at all he became quite passive aggressive he would be unnecessarily sarcastic while we were conversing he interrupted me more often and would blatantly refuse to chip in financially one day he insisted that I pay for pizzas we ordered for our friends group you earn the money and wear the pants anyway he retorted it was petty and unnecessary I confronted him later that night and he claimed that he was joking but I still wasn't satisfied it was not the first time he had made a weird retort centered on me earning more it was silly and I started to feel like he resented me for making more than he does you're being ridiculous you only make a couple of dollars more why would I resent you for that I say well your attitude says otherwise they say I don't care how much you make or any of that nonsense I'm not some weak Stone Age man who thinks he should make more than a woman just because he owns a you-know-what I told him you sound like you're trying to convince yourself about that they say why can't you just believe me I say I want to but you don't make it easy to do that I felt bad about his behavior and wanted to tell my best friend about it but I somehow just decided against it she had just gotten married and was gone away on her honeymoon I didn't want to disturb or bother her I was contemplating leaving him to be by myself for a while and went into the bedroom to tell him when I caught him putting something away what is that he just said something incoherent and changed the topic of course I checked the drawer when he left and found the ring he was going to propose to me I was happy but at the same time worried because I didn't know if I could deal with this constant insecurity that weekend he had a small party in the house and invited our friends there he proposed and our friends were glad as I applied my night cream that night it dawned on me that my ex-fiance did not have his friends it it was just my friends at the small party he organized I realized too that my friends had now become his friends we didn't break up until two months after we got engaged out of nowhere he started accusing me of secretly dating my co-worker I was offended because the co-worker and I weren't even close our relationship was purely professional and whenever he called it was about work I was shocked about his accusation because I wasn't even friendly with that co-worker if not for my best friend who's quite the extrovert and Carries me along in our conversations everyone at work would hate me because I was quite awkward and too serious at work after the first time he accused me I would put this co-worker on speakerphone just so we could listen to our conversation and see for himself that it was just working we spoke about he kept going on and on about it anyway we could be having a conversation and this co-worker would send an email and my ex-fiance would immediately leave I didn't like the fact that he didn't trust me and when I mentioned this to him he didn't even try to listen to me I ended our engagement immediately I expected that things may be quite awkward in our group since we'd broken up and my ex had become their best friend too but it was even worse my friend simply cut me off even my best friend stopped communicating with me I noticed that everyone in our friendship group started avoiding me they all went out without inviting me I only saw pictures of them on their Facebook it was weird because they never excluded me when making plans even though I was quite introverted and hardly wanted to go out my best friend would drag me along anyway also none of them called to check up on me I was the only one calling to see how everyone was doing only the guys received my calls the girls didn't return my phone calls and the guys were cold they also didn't directly reply to my messages on the group's Facebook group only my best friend ever replied to my questions I reached out to my best friend via phone called to see how she was doing but her response was so off she replied to me in mono's syllables and just got off the phone as soon as we were both quiet it was awkward and I was surprised that my best friend would respond to me like that since she was the person I was closest to in our group I drove to her house to talk I had had enough of the silence and I wanted us to talk about whatever was going on it was bad enough that my fiance and I had broken up I didn't want to lose my best friend too her husband answered the door he said I'm sorry but she would rather not talk to you right now I said well why what is going on he said maybe ask her sorry I have to go he slammed the door in my face I went home feeling extremely sad that night I kept wondering why my friends would treat me in that manner but it started to dawn on me that my ex probably bad-mouthed me to my friends when I realized they were still hanging out with him everything started to make sense to me I didn't know what he had told them exactly but I was determined to fix it my phone did this thing where it automatically recorded all my calls I was and still am not a tech savvy person so for a long time I didn't know how to make it stop doing that my phone recorded all my calls and saved them in my files I decided that I was going to send the recordings over to our Facebook group luckily for me the recordings weren't hard to find I hardly made any calls I didn't even like making calls and would rather someone texted and most of my friends and my mom knew this the only person I spoke with over the phone for long periods was my ex-fiance I found the recording of him telling me that my best friend was too loud and that he thinks she's the one who wears the pants in her marriage I also found the one where we called everyone in our group loud and asked why I was hanging out with a bunch of noisy people and said everyone needed therapy because we were all mutually dependent on each other as opposed to being interdependent funny how he thought of himself for some therapist but he couldn't diagnose himself of chronic insecurity issues when I went on the Facebook chat I saw that they had all gone to the beach together and spent the whole day there they were conversing about how it was a great idea and my ex was being all chummy with everyone I contemplated sending it because I wondered if it mattered these people who I'd been friends with for a while didn't even bother to ask for my side of whatever story my ex told them so they weren't my friend I chose to send it anyway I was not going to let my ex continue to enjoy being friends with them I had to get back at him for whatever he'd said to them I sent the voice recordings to the group and afterwards sent a message telling them they should all be ashamed for turning their backs on me without even bothering to hear what I had to say they were very embarrassed and apologized my best friend called hours later but I didn't answer the phone she left a voice message apologizing for not reaching out to me my exit told her that I said her husband was not good looking and that it's the only way he takes orders from her he also told the others a bunch of made-up stuff I never answered her call she left many voice messages but I was too pissed to listen to most of them I did the same for the other people in the group they started a new chat and excluded my ex but not after cursing him naturally my ex was too embarrassed to speak to them again last I heard of him he had left town so for this friend group that goes and just cuts you off like that is it possible to forgive them and go back to that friend group you had before or is that forever stained forever tainted I'd like to know what you guys think in the comments down below but with 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my 30f husband 32m won't stop calling me a poop monster because I had bowel issues postpartum advice hello all my husband 32m and I 30f have been married for 3 years I have a 6-month-old baby when I was newly postpartum I suffered from diarrhea constipation and other stomach issues on top of my IBS I always had also passing regular bowels was extremely painful to me after vaginal birth because I suffered from tears down there and I had to immerse my body body in warm salt water to do the deed in the tub I'm sorry this is gross but it was just as bad for me on top of the pain at first my husband was repulsed by it but he was supportive all round he didn't shower in that bath and used the second bathroom downstairs to do so at first it was hurtful because I used to sanitize the tub after every use even though bending down to clean it hurt like a but I understood my condition improved after a few weeks and I was able to use the toilet seat my husband hired some cleaners I did not know this the week I Stay at my mom's place with our baby and had the cleaners bleach and sanitize the entire bathroom I bit my tongue at the time although I wanted to have a hormonal meltdown over him for doing that he started using the bathroom again ta I was upset that he didn't tell me what exactly he wanted to feel more comfortable again I wouldn't have any issues if he wanted it cleaned more thoroughly However the fact is him not using the bathroom at all made me feel like I am some disgusting Pig the least I was expecting was a little consideration also he didn't need to get it professionally cleaned we have a lot of expenses already and the money could have been spent elsewhere I would have been more than happy to bleach it myself he spent like $300 for it from our joint account and didn't even bother telling me so now like any other baby one day a few months ago she pooped in her diaper that my husband recently put her in we both were laughing as I was fetching him one and he went she probably took that from you I was confused and asked him what he meant he laughing cried said that our baby is as bad of a poop monster as her mother is I was extremely embarrassed and mortified from his remark as he was referencing the time it was painful for me to pass bowels at first I ignored it but then he started using the term poop monster as a term of endearment for me which I don't think should be a term of endearment at all all it does is make me feel gross about it on top of my already momod which I want to get rid of naturally I do have body image issues however my husband's remarks makes me feel extremely unattractive and hurts my self-esteem when I brought it up to him he simply waved his hands and told me not to take it personally I've told him several times not to call me that but he doesn't understand that this hurts me a lot yet he continues calling me a poop monster tldr my husband used to be supportive during my postpartum struggles but now he calls me a poop monster as a term of endearment referring to a painful time when I had stomach issues and tears from childbirth it's hurtful and makes me feel unattractive when I brought it up he dismissed it

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:10.800 --> :13.440 A few years ago, on a different Reddit account,   :13.440 --> :17.040 I mentioned that I was in an  interracial relationship. A   :17.040 --> :21.660 Redditor reached out to me and told me I was  a race traitor and unfaithful to my race. :21.660 --> :24.840 I was like, "um...wtf, bro" :24.840 --> :29.220 I looked at his account; it was 6 years  old...which told me his username was   :29.220 --> :35.220 likely something he used a lot. So I started  googling his username@gmail, username@yahoo,   :36.300 --> :40.440 etc., etc., and I found a match  with Hotmail...a guy by the name of,   :40.440 --> :46.020 let's say, Jeff was selling some NFL  game tickets and had posted his email. :46.020 --> :49.920 Now, this doesn't necessarily  mean it's the same person. :49.920 --> :54.540 However, in the post, he mentioned a  city in America and that he was a fan   :54.540 --> :58.140 of a particular football team. I went  through the Reddit user post history :58.140 --> :04.020 He posted quite a bit in the respective city  subreddit; he mentioned going to NFL games,   :04.020 --> :07.800 and in another post, he also  said he was born in Canada. :07.800 --> :12.900 So through the ad for the NFL ticket, I  figured out his real name. I found his   :12.900 --> :18.120 biography on his employer's website; he was a  senior-level manager, so they had a bio for him. :18.120 --> :24.060 In that bio, they mentioned he was born  in Canada, was a fan of said NFL team,   :24.060 --> :30.540 and loved living in the city. I also found his  LinkedIn page during this time. So I sent him a   :30.540 --> :35.640 connect request on Linkedin, which he accepted. I  figured he would because he had 500+ connections. :35.640 --> :37.260 So here's what we know. :37.260 --> :39.660 His username matches his email handle :39.660 --> :41.400 He likes the NFL team :41.400 --> :46.080 He lives in a said city that he  posts in said cities subreddit :46.080 --> :47.220 He was born in Canada :47.220 --> :53.880 I then...found his Facebook page. His Facebook  page was public, and he posted what I would   :53.880 --> :59.820 describe as semi-racist material. Also, his  Reddit page was significantly more racist. :00.540 --> :05.280 Based on the numerous connecting  factors, I determined, so I create   :05.280 --> :11.520 a report. I included screenshots and links and  summarized my findings in that report. Now,   :11.520 --> :15.780 based on this person's position in his  company, he likely had a significant   :15.780 --> :21.240 role in deciding who this company employs.  Also, his company clearly stated they were   :21.240 --> :26.220 an equal opportunity employer. So I called  their HR department, I found the number,   :26.220 --> :31.080 and I called them, and I asked them, "Would you  be concerned if a senior level manager in your   :31.080 --> :37.440 organization was a proud racist and degraded  your equal opportunity employment policies" :37.440 --> :38.940 They where concerned :38.940 --> :41.700 So I told them I had done an investigation into   :41.700 --> :46.560 one of their senior level managers and  described he was racist and I had put   :46.560 --> :51.480 together all my evidence and findings in  a report and could email it over to them. :51.480 --> :53.040 I emailed them the report :53.040 --> :57.960 A few weeks later I called to get an update  and I was told they appreciated my report,   :57.960 --> :03.180 however they would have to comment on the status  of their decision and make public statements in   :03.180 --> :08.340 regard. Basically, "Thanks for letting us  know, but we aren't going tell you crap." :08.340 --> :09.120 That's fine :09.120 --> :15.960 So I waited another month, and I kept checking his  Linkedin page. Then one day, I saw a Linkedin post   :15.960 --> :21.480 from him in which he said he is looking for a new  opportunity and if anyone had any positions open. :21.480 --> :25.020 So I messaged him on Reddit  and I told him "Hey Bro,   :25.020 --> :28.740 heard you got fired. Just want  you to know I'm the reason why" :28.740 --> :35.940 He threatened to find out who I was hunt  me down rape my spouse and strangle me   :35.940 --> :40.860 to death. So I reported him to reddit  admins who promptly perma banned him. :40.860 --> :44.700 Now, he really should have learned his  lesson...because guess what...he didn't   :44.700 --> :51.060 connect the dots, he didn't know I could see ALL  HIS LINKEDIN activity, he didn't know who I was,   :51.060 --> :57.000 he simply acted in rage. So I put his  newest message in his "folder" and added   :57.000 --> :02.520 it the report...because you see I can be  an incredibly vindictive motherfreaker. :02.520 --> :04.980 I checked his Linkedin...once a week. :04.980 --> :05.820 Good news :05.820 --> :07.140 He got another job :07.140 --> :12.300 Bad news, their HR department was also  quite easy to get ahold of and discuss   :12.300 --> :16.380 their new hires online racist,  threatening behavior. However,   :16.380 --> :21.900 let's just say I had a lovely conversation  with this HR representative. She was a   :21.900 --> :26.940 woman and based on how she sounded and her  name I suspect she was a woman of color... :26.940 --> :28.380 So yea... :28.380 --> :32.220 I'm not sure what happened after this,  because a few weeks later his internet   :32.220 --> :37.920 history was cleaned up, and his LinkedIn page  was deleted. However, this company listed   :37.920 --> :43.410 their senior management which was what his  position was...I never saw his name listed :) :43.410 --> :46.560 What I suspect happened is  after his HR reviewed my   :46.560 --> :49.200 evidence they terminated his employment with them. :49.200 --> :35.640 I would have totally gone after him a third  time...but he got smart the 2nd time around. So,   :35.640 --> :39.960 I am a cancer researcher and a guest professor  at an university's school of medicine,   :39.960 --> :48.000 teaching my speciality: Imaging. Besides the usual  acquisitions of medical images using MRI, CT,   :48.000 --> :53.580 etc... Imaging as a lot to do with image  processing. Some days I am just a glorified   :53.580 --> :58.440 programmer/IT guy. And as anyone who has  ever programmed anything will tell you,   :58.440 --> :02.640 coding is a very personal  activity. With enough experience,   :02.640 --> :05.880 you can tell who wrote what  just by looking at the lines. :05.880 --> :11.040 I am also in my late 20's and I am not native  to this country and it's my first year has   :11.040 --> :17.100 guest professor. So, some students look at me  as this inexperienced, gullible, foreign guy. :17.100 --> :23.100 As part of my module's grading, the students  have to submit 2 reports that weight 10% each,   :23.100 --> :28.020 of their final grade. These reports are about  image processing and they have to code a fair bit. :28.020 --> :33.360 As usual there are students that make an  effort, some do mininal work and then some   :33.360 --> :37.920 cheat/copy. As I was grading the reports  I notice a small group of students who   :37.920 --> :43.440 found reports from previous years online  and literally copy+paste those reports,   :43.440 --> :49.380 changing only their name. It was a facepalm  moment, because those reports were not even good,   :49.380 --> :55.500 and had lot of errors. (You see, in order to  establish a baseline for my grading, I browsed   :55.500 --> :01.560 previous years reports so I knew what to expect  from the students of this module.) Naturally I   :01.560 --> :06.000 graded them all with 0 and kept working my  way through grading the reports I had left. :06.000 --> :11.520 Meanwhile, the students "casually" asked  me in the halls how were the reports. Off   :11.520 --> :15.960 course I can't comment on that until I  release the grades. One time, this dude,   :15.960 --> :22.380 who has copied from another report (98% match on  plagiarism checker) , asks me when will I release   :22.380 --> :28.920 the grades and comes with this story that he  worked really hard on his reports. That his exam   :28.920 --> :33.960 hasn't gone so well and he is hoping that the  grade on his reports are enough to get a pass. :33.960 --> :39.540 I mean, submitting another person's work as  your own is very wrong, but it was an online   :39.540 --> :46.320 submission and impersonal. Right now he was  just lying through his teeth and to my FACE.   :46.320 --> :51.900 I could feel my blood boiling, but I didn't lost  my composure and decide to come up with a plan: :51.900 --> :57.780 I knew that my exam was the last exam of the  semester and that after that the students   :57.780 --> :03.480 usually go home or family vacations while they  wait for their grades to be posted online. So   :03.480 --> :09.120 I graded the exams and input their grades into  my excel with their report grades. 4 students   :09.120 --> :14.400 had zero due to cheating on their reports and  if I graded their reports with 50% of the max   :14.400 --> :22.980 grade they would BARELY FAIL the module. But  they would fail nonetheless. So, It. Was. On! :22.980 --> :27.960 (In order to be fair I bumped everyone  else's grades, a bunch of people with   :27.960 --> :33.060 miserable reports ended up barely  passing because of my grade bump. But,   :33.060 --> :37.320 eventhough their reports were bad, it was  their own work and not copied from anywhere) :37.320 --> :41.820 You see, students are entitled to make  an appointment to review their grades   :41.820 --> :45.900 after publishing and before the grades  are locked for the year. Basically,   :45.900 --> :51.000 they sit with me, we go through their exam  and reports and their goal is to convince   :51.000 --> :55.740 me to "give" them extra points in  hope that they pass the module. :55.740 --> :59.700 I knew the cheaters would come, after all,  they think they fooled me once already,   :59.700 --> :05.880 and they still have half the report's points to  bargain for. So I just waited for their emails. :05.880 --> :11.760 Lo and behold, they write me the same day  the grades go online, saying how hard they   :11.760 --> :15.780 have worked on their reports and that they  don't understand how they only got 50%.   :15.780 --> :21.060 And that they wanted an appointment. I was  ecstatic! Sure, let's review your grades!! :21.060 --> :25.680 Do you remember that my exam was the  last one? Well, they were already on   :25.680 --> :30.720 vacations... some very far away... and  begged me for an online appointment. No   :30.720 --> :36.000 can do... university policy. Moreover you  have 3 days to show for you appointment,   :36.000 --> :40.020 otherwise the grades are  locked, also university policy. :40.020 --> :44.820 So here they come, cutting their  vacations short and catching planes,   :44.820 --> :48.720 some spent hours in buses and  trains to make it on time. :48.720 --> :54.240 I know what many of you are thinking: they come,  I show them the plagiarism checker results and   :54.240 --> :58.800 reveal that I know that is not their work and  send them on their way... well, I considered   :58.800 --> :04.620 it but I had something better in mind. Those  appointments usually take 10 min, I show them   :04.620 --> :09.480 their work with my notes on what's wrong/right  and they try to find some inconsistencies in   :09.480 --> :15.120 my grading and bargain for more points. I  ain't giving you the opportunity. Mhuahahah!! :15.120 --> :21.480 So, one by one they sit with me individually. And  I go through their exam and reports...remember   :21.480 --> :27.300 that they copied the reports? And copied bad  ones, with a lot of errors... I ask questions,   :27.300 --> :32.820 lots of them: "why did you do this?" , "what  is your reasoning for this?" - they don't   :32.820 --> :37.020 know... it's no their work... they mumble random  stuff, because they don't know what to answer... :37.020 --> :43.500 Point by point, mistake by mistake, I explain  why it was wrong, how it should be done,   :43.500 --> :49.620 lecturing the same material that they had already  been lectured on during class... I make it long,   :49.620 --> :56.460 I make it boring... I make it painfull... I  spent hours with each one of them throughout   :56.460 --> :02.880 those 3 days. They always came with the same,  "I worked sooooo hard on this"... and a little   :02.880 --> :06.600 smirk on their face because they thought  that it should be really easy to fool me,   :06.600 --> :13.020 the gullible foreign again... as the hours go by  and I am walking through the errors one by one   :13.020 --> :19.680 I could see their expression change... little  by little, their hopes of passing being slowly   :19.680 --> :25.860 crushed... and when they realized that I KNEW they  cheated and I wasant going to give up any extra   :25.860 --> :30.900 points. At this point they tried to cut short  their appointment and leave I wouldn't let them.   :30.900 --> :36.180 "We need to finish the review of your grades,  its university policy"... And I just kept going,   :36.180 --> :43.380 extending their misery for one more hour or  two... it was legal torture, plain and simple! :43.380 --> :45.540 IT WAS GLORIOUS!! :45.540 --> :50.280 At the end, every single one of  them left with a "crushed soul"   :50.280 --> :55.320 look in their eyes and a FAIL in my  class... they knew that I caught them,   :55.320 --> :00.120 that I baited them and they fell for it... they  ruined their vacation and their family vacations,   :00.780 --> :07.320 spent money to travel back and forth, wasted  precious summer time, got bored to death and   :07.320 --> :13.680 have nothing to show for it. And... next year  they will have to repeat the module...WITH ME!! :13.680 --> :37.560 "I hope you enjoy your summer!! See you  next year!!" For context: in my country,   :37.560 --> :43.020 if your package gets a sent through the national  post service, you’re basically screwed. It takes   :43.020 --> :47.520 200 years and they never actually deliver it.  I don’t know how it is in other countries,   :47.520 --> :52.740 but here they are supposed to ring the doorbell  if the package doesn’t fit the mailbox and if you   :52.740 --> :57.180 don’t answer they leave a notice and you have to  go and pick it up all the way at the post office.   :57.180 --> :03.600 The problem is that my mailman doesn’t even try  to deliver them, he just leaves the notice without   :03.600 --> :08.520 even ringing the doorbell and leaves. I’ve had to  pick up nearly every package I’ve ordered because   :08.520 --> :14.040 of that. Well, the last time was my last straw.  I was obviously home because of the pandemic,   :14.040 --> :19.740 suddenly I received a call that immediately hung  up, it was so fast that my phone didn’t even ring,   :19.740 --> :26.100 just showed up as a missed call. No doorbell,  nothing. I suspected it was the mailman and ran   :26.100 --> :32.880 to the door only to find him inside the truck,  looking straight at me before driving off. Well,   :32.880 --> :38.400 I was ticked and called the post office to file a  complaint. I explained the situation and the lady   :38.400 --> :43.320 told me that I couldn’t file a complaint because  they are only instructed to ring the doorbell   :43.320 --> :49.800 and calling is optional and I couldn’t prove that  he didn’t ring it. At first I just avoided using   :49.800 --> :54.960 them again at all costs, but the other day I  ordered something and chose a delivery company   :54.960 --> :01.380 from the ones listed on the website. Apparently  that company hires the national post service to   :01.380 --> :08.040 deliver for them here. When I found out, I  basically stalked the tracking info for days   :08.040 --> :14.040 (it was about 2 weeks late lol) until one day  late at night it said it had arrived my country,   :14.040 --> :20.280 which usually means that the next day it’s going  to be delivered. The next day, I woke up at 7 am   :20.280 --> :27.240 to check. My suspicions were correct, it said “out  for delivery”. I quickly grabbed something to eat,   :27.240 --> :36.540 got in my car and parked right outside my house.  Then I waited...and waited...and waited...6 hours   :36.540 --> :41.160 in total until I finally see the post  truck pulling over. I grabbed my phone   :41.160 --> :46.500 to record and watched as the mailman opened  the door already either the notice in hand,   :46.500 --> :52.500 slid it inside my mailbox and turned around.  I got out of the car and said “excuse me,   :52.500 --> :58.020 what are you doing?” He didn’t even look at me  and said “just delivering packages, miss”. Then   :58.020 --> :04.680 I stood there as that AHOLE grabbed his phone  to call me and quickly hung up. I smiled as I   :04.680 --> :10.680 took my phone out of my pocket and sarcastically  stated “oh bummer, you didn’t even give time to   :10.680 --> :17.040 reach for the phone!” He literally turned white  lol, couldn’t even speak, I continued “now can   :17.040 --> :22.560 you give me my package please?” He quickly opened  the truck, almost tripped and took out my package   :23.460 --> :29.940 “see, wasn’t that easier than your whole scheme?”  He finally manages to say “sorry miss”. I turned   :29.940 --> :35.100 around and left. He probably thought he got lucky  I didn’t say anything else, but little did he know   :35.100 --> :40.920 that I sent the video to the post office via  email attached to my complaint. Well...let’s   :40.920 --> :45.960 just say I have a new mailman, this one tries  to leave 1 second after ringing the doorbell,   :45.960 --> :01.980 but at least he rings. Not sure if this fits  this sub, but felt like posting my story.   :01.980 --> :06.180 I have no issue with removing it if  it doesn't quite meet the standard. :07.080 --> :13.860 So I have a really bad leg, (I've had 13  surgeries, long story) and had just started   :13.860 --> :19.020 at a new school. After the first 3 weeks, I had  to go in for another procedure on my leg. Not   :19.020 --> :24.780 that big a deal to me, I've been here before. Upon  my return I had documentation of my restrictions,   :24.780 --> :28.680 as well as special amenities that  were required. The big three were   :28.680 --> :33.240 that I needed extra time to get from class  to class, must have someone to escort me,   :33.240 --> :39.240 and needed unrestricted access to the elevator.  All of these got me recurring problems such as   :39.240 --> :45.060 constant harassment by teachers and security  about my being in the halls during class time,   :45.060 --> :50.880 and why was my cousin out too (he was filling  the role as my escort, as I have anxiety problems   :50.880 --> :55.380 and we had the same classes). These first two  were annoying, but easy enough to deal with. :55.380 --> :00.780 The real issue was the elevator, as I  was told multiple times that for security   :00.780 --> :05.700 issues I couldn't have a personal key due  to it sharing the same functionality with   :05.700 --> :10.560 the interior door keys. I would never have had  any issues with this, as I was told there would   :10.560 --> :16.200 always be someone on the same floor as my classes  to open the elevator for me. This of course, was   :16.200 --> :23.100 untrue about 75% of the time. The lack of elevator  access meant that I was always stuck in the halls   :23.100 --> :28.260 when other students were going class to class,  and was consistently late due to having to wait   :28.260 --> :33.660 for someone to come by and open the door for the  elevator. This also meant that I would sometimes   :33.660 --> :40.020 be stuck waiting through the entire lunch period,  and due to my absences couldn't afford to simply   :40.020 --> :46.320 go to lunch after the fact. After about 3 weeks  of this, I was tired of not getting to eat lunch.   :46.320 --> :52.680 So I did one of the stupidest things I could  have attempted and tried to use the stairs. :52.680 --> :59.040 For context, I was not on crutches, I was on  a full blown walker. About halfway down to   :59.040 --> :04.740 the landing, I fell. Hard. As lunch was  letting out one of my friends found me,   :04.740 --> :10.080 got someone to help pick me up, and carried me  to the office. Another of my friends went to   :10.080 --> :14.160 find my other cousin (the one who normally  escorted me wasn't there due to being sick,   :14.160 --> :20.880 so I was without escort because I couldn't bare  the though of, gasp a stranger escorting me), who   :20.880 --> :25.620 when getting to the office managed to get me to  calm down enough to give them my mother's number. :25.620 --> :31.680 Now, my mother is quite hot tempered, but can  keep a level head normally. When she heard I fell,   :31.680 --> :36.660 she was there in record time. When she got  there, she immediately asked what happened.   :36.660 --> :42.840 I told her I didn't want to miss lunch again,  so I tried to use the stairs. Big mistake,   :42.840 --> :50.280 as that set off a Tsar Bomba sized explosive.  She immediately turned around, and DEMANDED for   :50.280 --> :56.520 the Principal and VP to get their butts in here  ASAP. As soon as the principal and VP walked in,   :56.520 --> :01.620 she started berating them in a fashion  not suitable for most adults to hear,   :01.620 --> :08.400 let alone kids. When the VP made an off hand  remark about my condition, my mother was swarmed   :08.400 --> :14.820 by local sheriffs that provided security for the  school's entrances and office as she physically   :14.820 --> :19.980 went after the VP. We were escorted out,  and after looking at the file and realizing   :19.980 --> :24.360 my cousin and I had the same address they  figured out that I didn't actually live there. :24.360 --> :30.060 Now, my grandmother's address was listed as  she looked after me after I left school up   :30.060 --> :36.060 until around 8pm. She also was raising my cousin  after an issue between her and my aunt. They used   :36.060 --> :42.720 this as grounds to expel me, and told her "I can  be some other school's problem now." I was then   :42.720 --> :48.660 enrolled at the school near my house, and had to  have yet another surgery to repair the damage that   :48.660 --> :54.000 was done as a result of my fall, and redo the  work of the previous procedure. I had gotten   :54.000 --> :59.100 multiple statements from teachers as well as my  doctors, and my parents were moving forward with   :59.100 --> :05.580 a lawsuit naming the VP, Principal, and the county  school boar. We were contacted by a lawyer who had   :05.580 --> :11.040 won multiple cases against our school board,  some of which went to the State Supreme Court,   :11.040 --> :16.920 and he told us he would take our case Pro-bono.  He was getting tired of going against the Board,   :16.920 --> :22.260 and though a case like this would be what it took  to try and fix their crap. Fast forward 9 months,   :22.260 --> :28.020 and I was walking out of court with a settlement  to cover all my procedures, as well as a written   :28.020 --> :33.240 confirmation that the school would be going  through a complete administrative overhaul,   :33.240 --> :39.060 and that the Principal and VP would be let go, and  have their administrative credentials revoked in   :39.060 --> :44.940 our state. My new school was let know day  1 my medical requirements and my need for   :44.940 --> :50.880 a personal elevator key by the Superintendent  and the head of the State Board of education.   :05.700 --> :10.620 To start: This is about the company I work  for and a trip I took because I had to wire   :10.620 --> :14.160 a building for a computer network  because the building owner wouldn't. :14.160 --> :15.240 Backstory: :15.240 --> :20.400 Our company was moving a remote site to a  new building. As the IT guy for the company,   :20.400 --> :25.080 I was asked to look at the new building and  get network ports marked out. The landlord   :25.080 --> :30.960 refused to put in any low voltage lines, and  we got quotes, but they were thousands of   :30.960 --> :37.620 dollars. Enter me, my car, and 4 boxes of  cat 6 plenum. It's about an 8 hour drive,   :37.620 --> :43.500 and I was doing about 30 drops. Not a ton,  but still, a few days work in someplace   :43.500 --> :50.280 that's already built up. and its drop ceiling  with insulation on top. Messy, itchy work. :50.280 --> :50.610 Story: :50.610 --> :55.680 Day 1. We get there Monday morning at the start  of the month. It's actually a cool summer morning,   :55.680 --> :00.840 and we're from further south, so no one  notices the AC not working for about an hour.   :00.840 --> :07.440 Slowly, the building begins heating up.  It gets to 80 by noon, 85 at 3 PM. The   :07.440 --> :12.480 rooms with floor to ceiling windows are  greenhouses. It's absolutely miserable.   :12.480 --> :16.620 We've been told by the workers still on  site that the leasing company was told   :16.620 --> :22.980 there was no AC in our building 3 weeks ago.  The other thing is there are STILL WORKERS   :22.980 --> :28.380 ON SITE. The building isn't completed. So  much for being ready for a handover day 1. :28.380 --> :34.560 Day 2. We're getting agitated. Its 80  degrees in the AM when we first walk in.   :34.560 --> :40.080 Its sweltering. The other guy that came up with  me is the facilities manager. He's screaming at   :40.080 --> :45.720 people over the phone to fix the f**king AC.  We're all exhausted from the heat by 3 PM.   :45.720 --> :51.060 I found a 4 foot hole in the ducting when I  opened the ceiling tile. The AC was blowing,   :51.060 --> :54.420 but there was no cold air. We are  told the compressor is broken. :54.420 --> :00.780 Day 3. More of the same. Miserable in the  morning, I'm finally getting the last lines   :00.780 --> :07.500 punched in on the patch panel. The AC guys arrive  about 10 AM. They finally fix the unit at 2 PM.   :07.500 --> :13.500 We ask them what they did. They said "A lot  of things" We again said "what did you do"   :13.500 --> :19.920 the reply was "we can't tell the tenants".  RED FLAG ALERT! We contacted our realtor,   :19.920 --> :24.840 she said she would look into what was done. She  sends an email later that night that says "they   :24.840 --> :31.740 changed the refrigerant from r22 to r410a."  I tell the facilities guy "No way dude. Thats   :31.740 --> :37.380 like putting gas in a diesel motor, they'd have  to change out the entire system. They didn't do   :37.380 --> :43.320 that in 4 hours" They basically duct taped  and wd-40'd that thing back together and it   :43.320 --> :47.580 will run poorly for a month or so, then give  out, and we'd be stuck with a replacement. :47.580 --> :55.380 Day 4. Still no running water to some areas,  still workers on site, the AC can't keep up   :55.380 --> :01.680 with the noonday sun, and it still hits around  80 by the end of the day. AC runs continuously.   :01.680 --> :06.840 We're packing up all the stuff we moved in and  moving out. I notice all the fire sprinklers look   :06.840 --> :11.700 like they have moved, and the metal protection  around the drop tile has fallen to the floor.   :11.700 --> :17.820 The sprinklers are no longer protruding from the  tiles in places, in others, they are quite a bit   :17.820 --> :25.560 lower than they were. Yep, the AC fools STOOD ON  THE FIRE SPRINKLERS to fix their lousy duct work.   :25.560 --> :30.540 We are looking for a friendly way out. We contact  the landlord and say "You haven't delivered a   :30.540 --> :36.720 finished building, we're moving out, the lease  is broken" Landlord has a 36 page lease. Landlord   :36.720 --> :43.680 won't let us out of the lease, its 5 years. This  is NOT starting off well. We get in contact with   :43.680 --> :49.620 the corporate lawyer and the realtor, they both  agree we're kind of f**ked. We are desperate for   :49.620 --> :55.380 any way out. I start looking at the fire system  (I used to run all kinds of low voltage lines,   :55.380 --> :02.040 fire, security, etc). There is no fire panel in  our portion of the building. No smoke detectors   :02.040 --> :07.080 are hooked up to anything. More red flags.  One of our employees that was moving the heavy   :07.080 --> :11.880 gear says "Oh yeah, I meant to mention, I  never saw any building permits anywhere"   :11.880 --> :17.940 DING DING DING. They did this buildout, including  demolition, running new plumbing and power lines,   :17.940 --> :23.820 and destroying the fire system--- WITHOUT A CITY  PERMIT. Cue the call to city inspectors office. :23.820 --> :28.380 Day 5. I wasn't here for this part, but  the facilities manager told me this:   :28.380 --> :32.220 "The city inspector pulled the permits  for the building. There weren't any.   :32.220 --> :36.840 He finds multiple violations of  city code. Red tagged our area,   :36.840 --> :41.880 removed the certificate of occupancy. When I  told him to check the fire system like you said,   :41.880 --> :47.460 he just goes 'Oh no, no, no, I have to  make a call'. He calls the fire marshal." :47.460 --> :53.700 Day 8. Fire marshals arrive on scene. Find  no active alarm system in our portion of   :53.700 --> :57.360 the building. Red tag. Find the sprinker riser for   :57.360 --> :03.480 the ENTIRE building in our area. No water  pressure. Condemned the entire building. :03.480 --> :07.740 Basically, they wouldn't let us out of the  building because we signed a lease, even though   :07.740 --> :13.200 they never delivered a building in any semblance  of working order. Called the building inspector,   :13.200 --> :19.440 got them smoked, who then called the fire marshal,  who condemned the entire building. They are still   :19.440 --> :24.660 trying to fight us over it, but we're pushing for  them not only refunding our deposit and the rent,   :24.660 --> :29.100 which they have already done, but for all  the time spent moving gear in and out,   :29.100 --> :33.300 and all the wiring. Our lawyer says  they don't have a leg to stand on,   :33.300 --> :58.440 and he's happy for them to pay his fees as  well. Yes, I know there are a lot of mailbox   :58.440 --> :03.600 stories on here but I just learned this story  from my Dad involving my Uncle Dale (family   :03.600 --> :07.680 friend who passed away a few months ago) and  figured you guys would get a kick out of it. :07.680 --> :13.080 Years ago, back when Uncle Dale and Dad were  university students, their engineering professor   :13.080 --> :18.600 came to their class with a problem that needed  solving. His mailbox was getting broken by someone   :18.600 --> :26.100 driving by every night. He and his wife had put  up something like four or five mailboxes and   :26.100 --> :30.900 all four or five times, the mailbox had been  knocked over by someone driving a red truck. :30.900 --> :35.700 This professor offered extra credit to  any group of students who could come   :35.700 --> :39.720 up with a truck proof mailbox that  not only fit with city regulations   :39.720 --> :45.060 but within a budget of $20 (which back  then was a good size chunk of change). :45.060 --> :50.880 Well, if anyone here knows anything about  engineers (as Dad puts it), they love solving   :50.880 --> :55.560 problems. And if it's engineering students,  they'll make it an experience to remember. :55.560 --> :00.540 Dad and Uncle Dale got together and got  to work. They found a steel bar that fit   :00.540 --> :05.880 within mailbox regulations (posts have to  be a specific height, width and depth) and   :05.880 --> :10.620 filled the inside with a mixture of concrete  and steel rebars. Once the concrete had cured,   :10.620 --> :15.900 they welded 8 rebars to the sides of the  bar, bent them in half and stuck it inside   :15.900 --> :21.780 a bucket. To add extra weight, they filled the  bucket with the heaviest rocks they could find. :21.780 --> :28.260 As a finishing touch, they painted it brown  and black (to look like wood) and put "the   :28.260 --> :34.620 ugliest mailbox we could find on sale"  on top, welding it down for good measure. :34.620 --> :39.900 They brought this monstrosity into  class (more dragged it because it was   :39.900 --> :45.180 so heavy) and told the professor to bury the  bucket where the mailbox stood. Since they   :45.180 --> :48.720 were the first to turn in their project,  the professor agreed to give it a try. :48.720 --> :55.020 That night...the professor and his wife were  awoken by a metallic BANG!!!!! followed by a   :55.020 --> :00.360 lot of cursing. They went outside and wouldn't you  know it, there was that red truck speeding away,   :01.080 --> :06.540 the mailbox still standing. At the  base was a broken wooden baseball bat. :06.540 --> :11.580 Two days later, the professor gets a bill in  the mail for a hospital visit. Turns out when   :11.580 --> :17.040 the passenger hit the mailbox, he did some serious  damage to his arm and shoulder. They were planning   :17.040 --> :22.440 on suing the professor but the professor hired a  lawyer who basically told the plaintiffs "You're   :22.440 --> :27.600 just going to admit that you were vandalizing  the mailbox multiple times?" That shut them up. :27.600 --> :32.100 To the best of my Dad's knowledge,  the mailbox is still standing. The   :32.100 --> :35.580 other students who still brought  in mailboxes had theirs gifted to   :35.580 --> :40.020 different professors throughout the  town and are also still standing.

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wibta if I told my younger sister's fiance that she lied about my older sister when they met my older sister K F32 my younger sister JF 28 my younger sister's fiance Met m 32k and Matt met at work about 2 comma 5 to 3 years ago he was hired in as a consultant at her company on a few months assignment they became close but nothing happened because they probably didn't think it was professional I think both or I know that my sister at least was hoping that it would develop to something more when his assignment was completed Kay is a very shy and private person but even with that she couldn't stop talking about mat J and me when she turned 30 we encouraged her to invite him to with the rest of her close friends from work she was very hesitant and panicked at first but then she thought yeah why not his assignment was almost done anyway Matt and Jay met at that party 6 months later Jay told us that she and Matt are a couple this devastated Kay and I knew that even if she held herself together and pretended to be happy for them I almost made her confess her heartbreak to me because I couldn't just let her hurt alone without any support she said that she angry or disappointed that after her birthday he changes towards her and was even a bit angry then when he left he stopped talking to her Kay said that she probably misinterpreted his interest in her I know that she is still heartbroken about it Matt was assigned with her company some more times again and it was awkward at first but eventually they were friends again now he is a part of the family Kay never showed that she's hurt now I found out that Jay told Matt that Kay had a BF at that birthday party Matt is very handsome and lovely and Jay basically wanted him Matt was shocked at first because he was hoping for something more but he probably just thought that he too misinterpreted my K's interest in him he is very shy too after the party he probably decided to cut his losses and not pursue Kay Jay however kept contacting him as asking him out be supportive first he refused but then they started dating how do I know all that Jay's roommate spilled the beans to me thinking I knew everything I am closer to Jay than K Matt has now proposed to Jay I feel sick because I want to tell Matt what happened so he makes an informed decision marriage is not a game at the same time he and Jay seemed to be perfect for each other and the love is genuine maybe he was interested in K yes but obviously it wasn't that deep also K I want to tell her but she seems okay with the relationship too she made it clear that Matt and Jay obviously meant to be or it wouldn't have happened but I want to tell I be the ah if I told everyone what happened

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hello everyone and welcome to story time my name is Reid and today we are gonna be reading some malicious compliance stories so sit back relax and enjoy try and screw over my 70 year old in-laws I'll spam your company with documents a bit of a backstory my in-laws are 67 and 70 speak Spanish as a main language and English very little I handle most of their business situations if they need something faxed or any documents sent to most places or call companies on their behalf they frequently asked me for help and I love them and of course help them out whenever I've been helping them for about five years at this point many years ago they helped my sister-in-law with some student loans to get her started in school I'm unsure if they had to pay any amount back as this was before I joined the family they are on Social Security and don't work and they my sister-in-law found a program that allows them to submit documents to a branch of the Department of Education that shows they have no employable income which Social Security doesn't count as income so for three years as long as the documents and forms are submitted on time that shows they have no income they do not have to pay their portion of these loans and after the three years it's forgiven they approached me in October with all the documents to sin with the letter that shows where they go listed as an e mail P o box and fax number and a phone number for help cool I've done this before I can fax them after work I also digitized them and send them to the email because I like having my bases covered everything is good or so I thought they get a letter at the beginning of January that because they didn't receive the documents their account is no longer eligible for this program excuse me enter me being ticked I have my spouse verify the facts and the email that is correctly typed and it all got sent to the right places so I know I didn't mess up somehow and I now call the company only to reach a woman who must have been having a bad day woman and me woman how can I help you yeah I send in some documents back in October for my in-laws and we just got a letter that says the account wasn't renewed properly can you tell me what's going on woman asked for names and birthdates I give them to her yeah we didn't receive anything from you that's not possible I have confirmation for both the fax and email I never got any kind of fail to reply for email and the fax would have given me some kind of busy notice it's important to note also that there is an automatic reply when you send their email anything which I also have well I don't know what to tell you all I can do is give you our information and you can resubmit it that's it you aren't going to double-check the email or faxes to see if it just got misplaced this isn't the first year I've done this and I've never had a problem like I already said there isn't anything here all I can do is give you our information ok fine give me your fax an email which of course is what is printed on the letter they received I am the call not at all happy at this point I'm suspicious that they misplaced the documents because it's the final year of their program and after this they don't have to pay back the loan how convenient that even with the confirmation the documents are lost q malicious compliance I have a Pio box in email a fax and a day off I make a few copies and head to the post office I certify the mail so I have a tracking number and signature required pick up next I head to a fax machine I proceed to send the same fax every 10 minutes for an hour letting other people use it if they need to of course I'm not a monster then I digitized it again and send an email every 10 minutes I waited until I got a notification that the mail was delivered then I called again I am fully prepared to argue based on my phone call from last time unnecessary the guy this time was super nice I give him the info he needed it and explained what happened and asked him if he got it he said oh yeah I have about 10 emails looking at the physical mail right now and I have about 12 faxes we got it excellent I tell him I was not at all happy with the person I spoke to before who was not at all helpful but that he has made me much happier I also mentioned the stress my in-laws went through when they got a letter stating the account wasn't in the program anymore and they would have to pay back huge loan that they couldn't afford he said he was surprised the documents were lost as that doesn't usually happen especially since I had confirmation they went through in the end all is good but don't screw with old people when they have a daughter-in-law more than willing to waste an entire day to defend them it made me sad and angry because who knows how many elderly people are in similar situations who are taken advantage of because of some awful person it made me sad and angry because who knows how many elderly people are in similar situations who are taken advantage of because of some awful person there are lots of awful people out there in this world that's why we need opie to stand up for all the elderlies how a polar bear got the kernel arrested as you may know hunting and fishing is very big in Alaska I don't hunt and I'm a very occasional as in a few times only Fisher what's important to me and a very large portion of the hunting community is conservation efforts I've always believed in consume what you take and strictly adhere to conservation policies limits species etc Alaskan outdoorsmen are very knowledgeable of these rules and regulations and with good reason the Fish and Wildlife Service is always watching and it's very quick to levy huge fines and even imprisonment for outdoorsmen not following the strict policies outdoorsmen are also highly encouraged to report offending personnel in order to assist with compliance efforts this story takes place about 15 years ago so all people here have likely moved or retired we had built a new center in Alaska for the Army in the old center there was a very large and imposing taxidermy display polar bear swiping at a seal when I say large I mean a polar bear that was at least 12 feet long he was on all fours in a display that was about 16 feet by 8 feet by 6 feet it was a massive display of a polar bear that was taken prior to the ban in 1972 Marine Mammal Protection Act the army wanted this display in the new center but since it was so large we had to leave it in the old center until the very last day I did routine inspections of the new center at least twice a year where I would meet up with the head civilian left my trips to Alaska because it was such a beautiful place it should be noted that at the time my big big boss was at the Pentagon and his last name was very unique let's call him Colonel polar bear on one particular inspection about three years after the new center had been built I noted that some new policy was coming down from Colonel polar bears office that would affect all of our installations the civilian kind of grumbled in smert then said okay I could sense that he was irritated but I didn't know why I found out later why from one of the motor pool technicians the civilians here were guard / reservists who wore a uniform one weekend a month and also were Alaskan residents who had been in the state for many years the uniformed personnel in charge of the facility and units were active duty and consisted of personnel from all around the country the motorpool tech told me that prior to colonel polar bear getting his lofty position he was the active duty commander of the units here he was not from Alaska and he was not liked at all he was racist sexist and constantly berated all those lower ranking than him in one particular instance he yelled at a female noncommissioned officer who was having trouble doing push-ups he shouted you know why you can't do them it's because your chest is too freakin big in front of all the soldiers so colonel polar bear was actually the commander at the time when we were finished building and were transitioning to our new center the old center had been earmarked for demolition which could not proceed until the final piece was removed that's right the after mentioned polar bear display unfortunately we had no place to put it due to the size well thankfully Colonel polar bear offered up his big house close by where he could store it in the interim he had the civilian workers carefully move it to the Army's truck and then carefully roll it into his house well there was just one issue not only could you not hunt or shoot a polar bear in Alaska since the very early 70s you cannot display them in a private residence without a license Colonel polar bear not being from Alaska apparently did not know this rule after the truck in the workers left the house Fish and Wildlife officers arrived within hours to arrest Colonel polar bear they placed him in handcuffs and walked him out of his house and view of all this was all thanks to an anonymous call after all Alaskan outdoorsmen have to follow the rules after Colonel polar bear was released he promptly called a mandatory meeting for all active and guard / reserve personnel to attend in formation and in uniform as everyone stood at attention red-faced Colonel polar bear yelled that he wanted to know immediately who had reported him to Fish and Wildlife as the motorpool tech told me you could hear a pin drop this went on for about 10 minutes until everyone was excused eventually the polar bear display was placed in the large entrance to the NewsCenter unfortunately I can't find any pictures of it online I never did find out who was the one or ones that called Fish and Wildlife it would be absolute sweet justice if the one who reported the colonel was the one that the colonel was yelling at doing the push-ups mandatory military parade I was studying at a military school it was mandatory for the students with higher grades to participate in the Independence Day Parade for them it was some kind of reward / responsibility the students had I did not like anything to do with the military and was starting there only because of my father retired sergeant I did not know how to March and do all the other stuff they wanted in the parade and asked to be allowed to not participate they said I could train but the training would occur during class time I was not going to lose class to learn that stuff and just skipped it all the day before the parade I asked again if I would be allowed to not participate but they said it was important for the school in many ways the next day during the parade I participated as they required but made no effort to do anything correct it was mandatory to participate but not be in the correct formation synchronized or anything it was terrible and the top guys got really angry at the people responsible for making me participate next year the rule that made it mandatory was removed I love the icing on the cake at the end next year the rule that made it mandatory was removed sweet no promotion equals less work same pay I'll work for a passenger boat company we have three tasks while onboard secure the boats for embarking and disembarking keep an eye out for safety and order and check tickets and issue fines a few years ago the company asked some of the senior staff to temporarily switched to ticket inspector for high season with the promise to move permanently within a year inspectors get a higher pay and they only do one task which is checking tickets and issue fines a thing that we are already required to do so many of us say yes gladly at the end of the season our reps contact us and say that we have performed well so the company is having an examination for our promotion we say we were assured we would be promoted no matter what meanwhile there's a batch of recent hires who have personal ties with the Union and the higher-ups they aren't very happy with their working conditions it's a rather tough job especially in the winter or in bad weather when they often find ways to be dispensed from service or apply for a desk job and easily obtain them even if unnecessary or redundant now we don't have much choice so we agreed to the exam and surprise surprise pretty much nobody makes the cut they had to promote to because they knew they got perfect scores despite the exam being for a job that some of us have been doing for decades at this point the company has no choice but to look for qualified people among the more recent hires and what you know pretty much all of those who belong to that category immediately pass now the key detail after we were failed we were notified with a letter saying we were unfit for the duties of ticket inspector malicious compliance we took those words to the letter and we stopped performing the task of ticket inspectors which had been part of our job for years either we are fit for a job or we are unfit we brought our letter with us in the first few times supervisors tried to write us up for failing to check the tickets we promptly produced our very much official dispensation not only this decreased our workload immensely letting us breeze through even the toughest shifts with ease and generally turning our job into quite a pleasant one but it costs the company a pretty buck in terms of lost revenue the fines we don't issue the greater pay gap they had to fill by using juniors instead of seniors and the rehiring and Retraining of those who still drop out of that job because it's still outdoor work and some of the people who they hired just weren't suited for it now the supervisors don't even bother with us anymore and I have that rejection letter in a box with other dear memories like my old D&D character sheets Oh edit I forgot the cherry on top a couple of months later their timetable was modified having them take service at 5:00 a.m. twice a week there's no way I could have kept that up I worked late shifts for most of my career dodged that bullet oh man it's an absolute treasure to listen to management or some sort of company trying to be greedy and skimp out on something and it ends up costing them oh so much more well that's all the stories we have for today if you liked what you heard make sure to subscribe for more content like this daily in the meantime have the most amazing day

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my mom was arrested last night my mom and boyfriend got into a fight about Elise she wanted him to sign it but we had food in the oven and I don't know how to make it so he had to stay for about 20 more minutes and then he could sign it she freaked out and started yelling at us that we had to move out and find a new place to live it's a duplex and my name is on the house too they kept screaming at each other until my mom said she was calling the cops I told her to stop and that's when she went from my neck and tried to grab me our daughter was asleep on my mom's side of the duplex because we just had an exterminator come and hadn't cleaned her crib yet she refused to let us go get her and block the doorway she texted my aunt to call the cops and she was yelling at me when they showed up they talked to each of us alone and took a picture of my neck before they took her to jail none of this feels real still and I wish she never texted my aunt I didn't want her to be arrested and I wish I never told them about my neck I heard the cops bring her back late last night and then she left immediately after I never wanted it to go this far sorry if this is all over the place I just needed to let it out

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a ITA for telling my parents and my sisters that I don't need them to name my baby and I will never use one of the names they suggest I'm 18f and my boyfriend and I are expecting a baby his family are so kind and supportive but most of mine are not with the exception of my two brothers who are great the rest of my family say we are too young and have second guest all my choices from researching formula because I won't be breastfeeding to the names we have looked at I moved in with my boyfriend a couple of months ago which was a little earlier than we had planned but we both wanted to get away from the comment we have started buying stuff and we know we're having a little boy my parents and sisters originally told me when they heard I was having a boy that I should name him George after my great-grandfather I told them we weren't looking for name suggestions and asked them not to push the issue then they asked what the name we were thinking it was and I said we weren't going to share until he's here that wasn't taken well and they decided we must have an awful name lined up and they made a list of suggestions for us with names such as Simon Malcolm Edward Frederick James John and Desmond I told them again that we did not want our need name suggested because we had our own ideas I ignored them the next couple of times they mentioned name but then Christmas day they had a field day because my oldest sister grabbed my phone while I was in the bathroom and she searched for the list I had on there we were at my oldest brother's house BTW she showed mom and my other sisters and she tried to involve my brothers but my oldest brother told them they could leave if they started at his house in front of his family but they did start and asked me what the hell I was thinking and demanding that I choose one of their names the names that set them off were slown and Finly they were the two I had on a list on my phone my brother did have to kick them out in the end because they said I could not ruin my son with a name like that and then said my boyfriend was a bad influence because he wants another dumb name like Jackson I told him I was just as much a part of the naming of mine and my boyfriend's baby and just because the names aren't to their taste doesn't mean they have the right to insult it I had to block them on my phone since Christmas because they were going crazy blowing up my phone but then I got

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what is the worst thing that has happened at a high school reunion party that you attended my 10 year and my husband's 10e were both in the same weekend we decided to do his because it was well organized and looked like fun plus we hadn't been back there in quite some time they hired a little party boat to cruise around the lake for two hours prior to that they had a meet up across from the lake for lunch and happy hour bar hop the festivity started around noon boarding was at 10: and everything was supposed to be over at midnight except those that wanted to do an Afterparty problem one the lake they picked was 4 5 minutes away from the area they all lived people had to find their own rides which was a bit of an issue since many didn't have vehicles eventually most people that wanted to come were able to car pull however a couple cars were pulled over on the way because they had been pregaming and shouldn't have been driving or the passengers were throwing empties out in the highway yes this was in the middle of the afternoon problem too lunch and happy hour were the responsibility of the individuals not everyone believed they should pay so some people ran up tabs in the name of the school's class of 2005 reunion and then ghosted the restaurant and bar got super angry and started stopping any patrons that said they were there for reunion and held them until cops came even though some of those people didn't add to those tabs we thankfully had arrived late because we had dinner with some of his friends and only went to the last bar on the list we had already paid for the drinks we had so we dipped before they rounded us up too I heard eventually some of those places were trying to sue the school to get their money next the boat it wasn't huge it had a main enclosed area a small deck on both the front and back connected by a very narrow single file gangway on either side of the boat and even smaller standing only area on the roof maybe three people at a time and a small suev that was strictly off limits there was one bathroom for each gender everyone upon boarding was already pretty tipsy the cruise was split up so the first 30 minutes were like a where are they now and memorium pub quiz thing Etc then an hour was in limited drinks and snacks with dancing and mingling the snacks were baked goods that had been carried from venue to venue and were frosted in a vibrant bright blue the school color the drinks were bright pink I'm pretty sure it was like pink lemonade powder Sprite and cheap vodka anyway things started off a little awkwardly because the AMC was one of those that was stopped for drunk driving the second in command was held up at the bar and the third person was already hurling bright blue and pink over the side of the boat eventually someone kicked it off and only fumbled about the people who passed away bad jokes that no one laughed about so they got mad and quit people then found a boom box turned on music and started mingling and eating more baked goods we never touched them because I have celiac disease suddenly a ton of people started getting sick I'm talking like 30 of roughly 70 people it was coming out both ends for some remember there was only one bathroom for each gender yeah nightmare we were at the furthest point in the lake by then so it was going to take a while to get back it was a mess the captain only had one person on board trying to help but it was a losing battle since that was in the enclosed space the rest of us tried hanging out in the decks to try to get away from the smell and the noise so we're all scrunched together I'd gone separated from my husband but was chatting with people I'd met earlier through him when a guy came up and started being like I don't remember your name but i' never forget your beauti beautiful face kind of thing jokingly I was pretending to be shocked and said we'd been in the same class since kindergarten and we even dated in junior high Etc the people I talked to were playing along all saying they were surprised he doesn't remember me that I was even prom queen the guy says he's going to get us all apology drinks and then disappears but then my husband found us and brought us more drinks and is telling us about this guy that's bragging to anyone who will listen about how he's taking home this hot Shake we all just kind of left it off saying several other people said something similar about their spouses too drank the drinks and started dancing because someone brought the bo box outside well my husband was dancing with me out of nowhere the guy from before materializes and starts telling my husband to get off his woman he then grabs me and is saying something about finding a space of her own when we're yelling at him that it's my husband and he needs to back off the guy pops up like he's going to swing then gets weirdly quiet and apologizes says no hard feelings and passes out the drinks he was pretty awkward so he disappeared again I have a couple steps and go back to dancing for a bit when I start to feel funny I tell everyone I need to get some air and start walking down the side of the boat where there's less people then I started feeling really dizzy and nauseated I saw a girl pop out from the enclosure further down and I remember saying something was wrong but she didn't seem to hear before disappearing I was trying to use the railing to stay upright and walk back when a buzz creepy guy appeared he said something I don't really remember but his face was so scary we never forget that face I turned away from him and almost fell over the railing because my body was not cooperating he started pulling me by my arms down the boat to where the entrance to the suble Lev was and I was basically a ragd doll I could hardly move move the last thing I remember thinking was that I should grab something or yell something but nothing was working properly I believe I passed out right around then it's really lucky I did because they think that going full dead weight caused him to stumble and fall knocking him out when I came to I was inside a hospital the girl that I saw went to find someone who knew me and when they found me I was turning blue I was having seizures the hospital told me I was with GHB they wound up keeping me an entire day because I was all so covered in hives and they weren't sure why the creep also went to the hospital for some serious damage to him that occurred before police arrived and over half the people on the boat had contracted norovirus from suspected contaminated baked goods creep was eventually charged with a whole host of things pleaded down was sentenced to 18 months and only wound up serving about 9 weeks because of overcrowding if he hadn't been allowed to plead down a couple felony charges he would have been in prison for 50 years supposedly so that's the criminal justice system for you basically I'll never attend any kind of reunion again and I avoid going back there whenever possible wow that went from from 0 to 100 real quick story two in my 10-year High School reunion we had a decent turnout maybe 100 plus people we were at a pretty nice hotel back with Hall there was one guy I had known all throughout high school and he was a well-known I'll call him Chris for the story I see Chris walk into the backet Hall stop in his tracks turn around in a very slow 360° Circle surveying the entire room he just says Whoa and he looks visibly alarmed he stops and his eyes settle on me I say hey Chris long time no see man it kind of slides over to me and Whispers in my ear this is really weird I'm pretty sure I know every single person in this room that is when I realize he's wearing the same clothes as all the banquet hall workers oh my God Chris is working as a server at his own high school reunion and he has no clue what is happening I walk him out to the front lobby and explain it's our 10-year High School reunion is mortified Beyond embarrassed he was never contacted and didn't even realize it had been 10 years since we graduated he just knew he was working in another catering in a never- ending series of catering eggs I made him take me to his manager I explain what is happening and tell the manager there is no way this guy's working his own high school reunion awesomely the manager agrees we find a different suit jacket and tie for him and I take Chris back to the party he ended up having a good night wow you did him a solid that's pretty nice of you Story three the people who were supposed to play our high school reunion dropped the ball so I figured it wouldn't happen but then this other dude from her High School stepped up to plan it he was on a graduate program and also worked parttime at a banquet hall and he said that his boss would give us the banquet hall space for free it was a really nice gesture and he seemed really into it he had been miserable in high school grumpy Sullen unpleasant mean to other people he came out in college so maybe the weight of having to keep it a secret was part of why he was so unpleasant maybe he'd be more fun now I was working a crappy job and had no savings at the time so I was neither interested in having my former classmates pity me or was I gunning to Shell out a lot of money to attend plus my crappy a might be there in that didn't feel worth it the organizer made a Facebook event and asked people to venmo him the cost of admission prior to attending he wanted something like 15 to $20 ahead I can't remember anyway it didn't really feel worth paying for maybe if there would be some drinks included or something I would go for an hour they sent him a private message asking what the admissions ticket covered food drinks the space was free after all he posted publicly on the Facebook page that if the cost of admission was too steep message me and we can work out some financial aid uh what and then publicly posted asking what the admission cost covered no response other people asked too he said it would go towards having a bartender and server dedicated to the event space as well as towards food okay fair folks he was the server my friend showed up having not yet paid him and he Bor her entry the people who had paid the admission cost showed up to an empty Banquet Hall were given a menu by their former classmate and told to order their own food and drink from him he pocketed the admission ticket money as his fee after an hour he bought out one grocery store sheet cas for 75 people to share that was it sounds like he was out for some petty revenge for a crappy time in high school and profited from it enjoying the video so far make sure to hit that like button and subscribe to my channel so you wouldn't miss out on any of my future uploads Story 4 my 10-year reunion ended itself before it happened turns out our class president traditionally in charge of organizing took a hard turn into a foot loose character After High School highlights of her event planning include no alcohol allowed not even BYOB a few classmates in a reasonably successful band offered to play for free she was adamant there would be no music or dancing plus ones were spouses only two guys happily told they'd bring their husbands and she kicked them both from the Facebook page the venue was the high school soccer field in Iowa in August we were welcomed to bring our own chairs a few people offered to bring bean bags and Bot and similar games she said no because it would make the reunion too much like tailgating suggested entertainment was a guided tour of the school which had undergone zero change since we graduated catering was from I which is grocery store their food is actually okay but tickets were $60 it was ultimately cancelled because out of our class of 300 less than 10 people bought tickets a few things to clear up this was Eastern Iowa Cedar Rapids Iowa City region which makes the sudden Foot Loose morals all the weirder it's a pretty liberal area I cast no judgment in hiy catering put down the pitchforks their food is good just not $60 worth of gut I sadly couldn't come up with the name of the band short of messaging dudes I haven't talked to in 20 years looks like they haven't been active in quite a while a bunch of people who stayed local did indeed pick a bar in a Saturday night to meet up and had much imoral rumor has that there was even karaoke makes a good story but I'm ultimately sad for event planner they got the impression that she really needed everyone to see that she was the most good person who was doing everything right that she hadn't been in control of something in a long long time I hope she's doing better now Story five so far it was the only thing that happened in my high school reunion 10th reunion graduating class of 850 more or less well funded high school every class is a trust fund to fund reunions a good friend of mine was our Treasurer and organized it via Facebook we started big Ballroom setting for a thousand figured spouses Etc a year out lots of Interest definitely not a thousand people interest started to scale back 6 months out less interest lots of people reconnected bya Facebook and lost the drive to actually care scaled back more 3 months out was deadlines for attendance the schools alumni Association would dispense the funds based on class size and allotment for the Milestone we hadn't put a deposit down because the target kept moving on attendance two months out my friend finalizes and does a formal cut off she had kept taking anything for a month due to lack of Interest day of it's at a local bar not a small bar either good food rented the entire place for a Friday night at that 25ish alumni showed out of 150 RSVPs with spouses or whatever was around 40 people that was the worst part knowing so few people actually give a damn but the best par was the treasurer smirk the entire night the school had allotted $50 per person for this $50 per person plus guests $155,000 with instructions to pay everything fully we drank and ate our bums off to the point of almost being Roman the bill was $7,500 between food and Rental she paid the bill then handed everyone $100 from the envelope and then handed the rest of the envelope to the manager and was like here's the tip so roughly $3,000 for the weight staff and crew pretty memorable and honestly not that big of a bummer but holy crap people just don't care story six someone I knew from school tried to arrange an unofficial reunion as the school wasn't going to do one he was socially Ina so would say and do odd things which people picked up on a lot but his heart was always in the right place he put in a lot of effort but very few people responded at all those that did mostly made snide comments about the event behind their back like dissing the location Etc some made fun of him personally too as he was doing some admittedly odd over-the-top organizing then close to the event he cancels and blows up sending everyone a Justified message about how they can all go suck a fart and he was just trying to do something nice and wanted to catch up with people that was received with Mor snide remarks too it passed away unexpectedly just a few months later from a heart attack he was a very large person which seems to have contributed I'm not sure if many people from the reunion know or not I found out on Facebook as he was a friend on there this was a 15-year reunion so 30 or 31 year olds UK I'm from the ukuk so maybe our unions here are different to the US most of the people who didn't reply seem to be the more decent people and coincidentally the ones who have moved away or just moved on in their lives those who did were mostly the ones who still spent every week at the same bars with our same school friends when it was cancelled they all actually went out the same night for drinks but then invite the organizer story 7 10-year reunion invite came up and I thought yeah looks like it could be fun I noticed the venue is a fancy restaurant disappointed expecting some sort of party room is very limited for a class of over a 100 you would think they would have picked a venue with over 25 capacity I started reaching out to all the friends I've kept in touch with not one of them was even remotely interested in going my old high school best friend suggested we catch up at his and drank instead haven't seen him in years so I ball in the reunion turns out almost no one went one of the girls that organized the thing was begging my mate to go because she was so embarrassed how little people had rsvpd she ended up baing herself turns out for the 10 people that actually went half of which organized it they had to be split up since they booked a place that was not intended for large groups people and ironically the same group that organized it took it upon themselves to organize their and of school formal Aussie for prom they decided for themselves that we didn't want to go with the original plan and completely replanned it Without Really Consulting the general student body so many people bailed on it that they had to start inviting ex students dropped out changed schools expelled take some real stuff to get expelled from a Catholic School in Australia just to meet the minimum capacity the venue required to move forward with the date honestly I know they meant well but this group ruined the formal for a lot of people I don't know why I expected anything good from their reunion apparently the after party was wild though someone almost got thrown off the boat literally into the water at 2: in the morning to answer a few questions I'm sure that's on your mind the after party was of the formal and the after after party is called the kick on I'm sure the restaurant could have catered to 10 people I assume some rocked up unannounced if you get expelled from a Catholic school at least in Australia we cannot attend any other Catholic School my school at least was hesitant to expel as a result they took told us this but I can't remember if it was because they wanted to keep kids in Catholic schools or if it was because we were preparing for the HSC Aussie versin finals story8 went to my high school reunion I honestly don't know why I did the friends I kept in touch with well I kept in touch with but one friend managed to convince me otherwise and so I went the reunion wasn't bad it was mostly people trying their best to one up each other and their bid to look successful I sat down at the table next to my friend where I was actually enjoying my time catching up with long forgotten acquaintances during the reunion there were two people who stood out the most there was this chick that I barely recognized my friend and I kept asking each other if she was in her graduating class or spouse of one found out later that she spent close to $80,000 for cosmetic surgery hence being unidentifiable she was so proud of herself that nobody was able to recognize her seriously she could have been a candidate to un botched but who was I to pop her bubble the other guy was a guy who was so snoody back in high school we're talking the cliche if your address wasn't within a certain neighborhood you weren't good enough to acknowledge kind of snobbery well he arrived late for the dinner portion and all the seats at his old friend's table were already taken so he suddenly sat down with the likes of us yikes having to sit with people you look down on all your teenage life the poor man so I took pity on him because most of the people at the table probably remembered his attitude as well and ignored him I started asking him questions how he fared since graduation Etc this was our conversation while the DJ was blasting music and others were yelling over the den to be heard within their own chats so what are you doing now snob the name of guy was changed to protect the innocent snob I work at Smith a Smith and Smith attorney law firm not a real company but you got the gist me that's impressive are you a lawyer studying to be a lawyer snob no I'm working on it me oh articling at your Law Firm snob no me you work at Smith Smith and Smith so what exactly is it that you do movie moment I kid you not the DJ Cut the music said the damn he could make the announcement that dinner was to be served shortly but before that happened snob got frustrated with all my questions and stated loudly into the unexpected silence I'm a mail room clerk everyone stared and hated to say this accidental Justice was served snob was taken down a peg or two by his own hands well if you like these stories here's more YouTube thinks you're going to love this catch you in that video

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wibta if I tell my friend her son is not welcome to stay in my house unless he is responsible for himself for context my F31 best friend F31 is a single mom of a 14-year-old boy she has low contact with her parents because they kicked her out when she got pregnant in high school so she doesn't have a big support system we are really close and I've always done what I could to help her her son is my nephew not in blood but in every way that counts she does everything for her son I mean anything he doesn't even pick up his plate from the table after he finishes eating she does it for him while I personally don't think this is a good way to raise a child I never gave her my opinion she never asked for it it's not my business how she decided to raise her child and I'm not a mom so how can I give parenting advice last week my friend had to take a two business trip and had another one schedule for next week she asked me if her son could stay at my house the day she is out of town because she doesn't feel comfortable leaving him alone in their house I agreed and he stayed with me for 2 days

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:00.260 --> :02.560 (All names changed) :02.560 --> :05.300 Hello lovely people of Reddit! :05.300 --> :14.150 Some of you asked for more stories about my mom being a badass, so here is a rather recent :14.150 --> :15.150 one. :15.150 --> :16.289 Background: I (23F) have three siblings. :16.289 --> :18.220 My youngest sibling, Tommy, has autism. :18.220 --> :22.040 He’s a brilliant, funny kid and honestly one of my best friends. :22.040 --> :23.920 He’s currently in middle school. :23.920 --> :29.780 Tommy is socially behind by quite a few years and doesn’t always understand jokes or metaphors. :29.780 --> :32.520 Think Drax from Guardians of the Galaxy. :32.520 --> :33.520 Super literal. :33.520 --> :38.010 However because of this, he also can’t understand when people are making fun of him. :38.010 --> :42.670 So last Thanksgiving, my whole family packed up and went to my grandparents’ (my mom’s :42.670 --> :43.769 side) house. :43.769 --> :48.549 Before even getting there, my mom and dad ask us three older siblings (all adults) to :48.549 --> :50.159 watch out for Tommy this trip. :50.159 --> :55.209 My parents are very protective over him, but with 40 people at Thanksgiving, it gets hard :55.209 --> :56.399 to keep an eye on him. :56.399 --> :57.719 We all agreed. :57.719 --> :58.719 Thanksgiving day. :58.719 --> :02.649 Tommy is playing with his cousins who are a year to three years younger than him. :02.649 --> :06.750 He ADORES these cousins, and all he wants is to play games with them. :06.750 --> :10.620 So he suggests tag, because that boy is fast. :10.620 --> :13.990 They all go outside and start running around my grandparents’ house. :13.990 --> :18.010 At one point, my mom comes up to me and asks where Tommy is. :18.010 --> :23.150 Before I could say “outside with his cousins”, I turn to see all the kids inside, but no :23.150 --> :24.150 Tommy. :24.150 --> :28.790 Panicked, my mom and I run outside to see Tommy running in circles around the house :28.790 --> :30.600 calling my cousins names. :30.600 --> :33.450 He’s clearly upset because he can’t find them. :33.450 --> :38.280 Obviously my mom is pissed, so she went and told my cousins they can’t just go inside :38.280 --> :39.390 without telling him. :39.390 --> :42.600 They say they were just getting water but are headed back out. :42.600 --> :44.170 Ok no big deal. :44.170 --> :47.230 This happens again and my mom is getting angrier. :47.230 --> :48.990 The kids go back outside. :48.990 --> :53.000 My mom tells her sister, my aunt, about it and she kinda brushes it off. :53.000 --> :57.720 A little while later my mom goes outside to check on Tommy and she hears the kids yelling :57.720 --> :58.720 at him. :58.720 --> :59.720 “Over here idiot!” :59.720 --> :03.170 “You’re slow idiot” “Hey big stupid idiot” :03.170 --> :04.170 You get it. :04.170 --> :09.509 My mom flips out, angrily and loudly telling my cousins to get inside and how dare they :09.509 --> :10.929 call Tommy that. :10.929 --> :14.790 One of my cousins starts crying about how my mom yelled at him, claiming it was the :14.790 --> :17.470 other kids who were calling my brother names. :17.470 --> :21.970 He tells my aunt who confronts my mom while my dad tries to comfort Tommy. :21.970 --> :23.900 “How dare you yell at my kid. :23.900 --> :25.480 That is not your responsibility. :25.480 --> :27.549 Plus, he said he didn’t do it. :27.549 --> :29.480 So maybe it was someone else. :29.480 --> :32.540 And even if he did call him that, they’re just playing. :32.540 --> :34.250 Look you’re making my son cry. :34.250 --> :36.139 Just quit being so dramatic.” :36.139 --> :41.329 My entitled aunt was ACTUALLY mad because my mom disciplined my cousin. :41.329 --> :42.629 Few things. :42.629 --> :46.120 My aunt DID discipline and yell at us when we were kids. :46.120 --> :50.719 When she did, my mom told us to listen to her and apologize for what we did. :50.719 --> :53.349 Two, my cousins grew up with Tommy. :53.349 --> :56.520 They know he has autism and can’t understand bullying. :56.520 --> :58.120 Three, I know my cousins. :58.120 --> :00.700 They’ve always been horrible to my brother. :00.700 --> :02.439 And we’ve told my aunt about it. :02.439 --> :04.689 Every time it’s “My kids would never do that. :04.689 --> :06.000 They love Tommy” :06.000 --> :12.409 My mother, ever the angel and badass that she is, with tears in her eyes, tells my aunt: :12.409 --> :17.359 “Maybe I shouldn’t have yelled, but I will not put up with people who treat my children :17.359 --> :18.359 so horribly. :18.359 --> :22.750 I tried to talk to you about your kids’ behavior so many times over the years, and :22.750 --> :24.769 I am done trying to keep the peace. :24.769 --> :28.829 And I would NEVER defend my kids for bullying yours. :28.829 --> :30.809 That’s not what family does.” :30.809 --> :35.559 My grandparents ended up siding with my entitled aunt, calling my mom selfish and telling her :35.559 --> :37.029 she over reacted. :37.029 --> :41.459 They were furious that my mom wouldn’t be bullied into letting my cousins bully Tommy. :41.459 --> :46.659 We left early the next morning, not bothering to stay for any more of the celebrations. :46.659 --> :51.109 A few weeks ago, one of the cousins starting posting videos about how she won’t forgive :51.109 --> :54.959 my mom because she was horrible for yelling at her brother. :54.959 --> :59.859 My sister is someone who will call people out on their bullshit, so she texted my aunt :59.859 --> :01.909 a long paragraph. :01.909 --> :03.120 Basically it said: :03.120 --> :07.760 “Hey Aunt, I noticed that your daughter is posting some horrible videos about my mom. :07.760 --> :13.319 I understand that we will never agree on what happened, and everyone can have their opinions, :13.319 --> :19.010 but posting about our mother on an account that we (my sister and I) follow is cruel. :19.010 --> :21.790 I would really appreciate if you would take it down.” :21.790 --> :22.790 No answer. :22.790 --> :24.660 The video is still up weeks later. :24.660 --> :25.980 My mom’s response? :25.980 --> :27.460 “Middle school is hard. :27.460 --> :30.410 If she needs to take out her emotions on me, I understand. :30.410 --> :31.920 I’ve got thick skin. :31.920 --> :34.650 Tommy is ok now and that’s what matters.” :34.650 --> :48.340 I love :48.340 --> :50.600 my mom. :50.600 --> :51.600 I'm 20. :51.600 --> :55.640 Growing up, I never got to spend my summer mornings outside, playing with my friends. :55.640 --> :01.090 I had to study, stay up to date with extracurriculars and write pages to improve my handwriting, :01.090 --> :04.300 to be allowed an hour outside in the evening. :04.300 --> :09.900 While all my friends were having fun, I was inside, crying with a pencil in my hand. :09.900 --> :14.280 All my extracurriculars were picked by my father and they were all activities he found :14.280 --> :15.280 interesting... :15.280 --> :17.950 I was never once asked what I actually wanted to do. :17.950 --> :22.630 I never got to do sleepovers, except with my cousin, just because my parents didn't :22.630 --> :23.630 want me to. :23.630 --> :29.890 I was to constantly study and get good grades, and if I slacked off even just a bit, I was :29.890 --> :33.190 beaten with belts and shoes and household objects. :33.190 --> :38.400 My father even spit in my drink once and made me drink it, to humiliate me for disobeying :38.400 --> :39.400 him. :39.400 --> :43.500 Books were my only escape, and so I would often get engrossed in them, but my father :43.500 --> :45.770 didn't even let me have this one thing. :45.770 --> :51.220 He humiliated me for having this insignificant hobby, hid my books and at one point, threw :51.220 --> :52.510 some away. :52.510 --> :55.490 Then came teenage, and it only worsened things. :55.490 --> :58.900 The loneliness I was feeling in my childhood intensified. :58.900 --> :04.890 I was rarely allowed to go out with my friends, and on the occasion that I was, I'd be bombarded :04.890 --> :09.400 with a million calls and messages, so I couldn't enjoy that. :09.400 --> :12.780 Dating was off limits, because my parents didn't want me to date. :12.780 --> :18.630 My cell phone was occassionally checked, and I was slapped for using curse words like "fuck"... :18.630 --> :20.660 I was 16 when this happened. :20.660 --> :21.660 Not a child. :21.660 --> :25.420 I wasn't allowed to go to any parties and I never went to a prom. :25.420 --> :30.640 Hobbies that I actually wanted to cultivate I was insulted for and ridiculed to the point :30.640 --> :32.670 that I lost interest in them. :32.670 --> :37.750 I had always wanted to be a writer, but now I can barely motivate myself to type a single :37.750 --> :38.750 word. :38.750 --> :39.920 I've lost my passion. :39.920 --> :43.480 And now I'm 20, on the verge of moving out soon (in less than a year). :43.480 --> :45.640 I've lost 20 years of my life. :45.640 --> :47.950 That's 20 years I'll never get back. :47.950 --> :51.470 20 years I'll never get to experience and live again. :51.470 --> :55.550 My childhood and teenage is gone, and it's never coming back. :55.550 --> :59.600 And when I bring this up to my mother, she says that I'm holding the past against them :59.600 --> :01.470 and harbouring a grudge. :01.470 --> :06.080 The funny thing is, they are the same people now that they were when they did those awful :06.080 --> :07.190 things to me. :07.190 --> :08.990 They haven't changed in the least. :08.990 --> :14.300 My father to this day maintains that his beatings were justified because they were for my own :14.300 --> :18.550 good, my mother defends his actions by saying he meant no harm. :18.550 --> :22.030 But I see no good that came out of it, and I am still hurting from it. :22.030 --> :26.690 I lost 20 years of my life to my parents, who were essentially my jailors. :26.690 --> :28.980 A quarter of my life is gone. :28.980 --> :32.680 What did I gain from all this except a lifetime of baggage? :32.680 --> :38.030 And mom, if these were supposed to be "the best days of my life", I really don't wanna :38.030 --> :59.740 see what's in store for me ahead. :59.740 --> :04.620 To set everything up first when I was like 8 years old my mother set me up a joint account :04.620 --> :09.240 with hers so that I could put money in and she could too when I was younger and I never :09.240 --> :11.050 got around to separating them. :11.050 --> :16.980 So I started saving money for university in 2017 after I got my first real job and all :16.980 --> :19.330 my money just went into that account. :19.330 --> :23.590 Only she could see the balance which I liked because I didn’t want to know how much I :23.590 --> :25.960 had because then I would want to spend. :25.960 --> :30.610 I stayed back an extra year before I was supposed to go, to save money as well. :30.610 --> :36.000 Now my mother is the type of person who never wants to work again for the rest of her life. :36.000 --> :40.260 Come time for me to get an apartment weeks before I was supposed to go off to school, :40.260 --> :42.710 I check my account balance. :42.710 --> :45.370 Less than $1,000. :45.370 --> :47.590 After years of saving. :47.590 --> :52.650 So I ended up not being able to go to Uni because my money was gone right before I was :52.650 --> :54.090 supposed to start. :54.090 --> :58.250 My mother had told me the account had been hacked and she would call the bank and have :58.250 --> :59.250 it fixed. :59.250 --> :04.050 I sat down with the bank manager and we both confirmed that it was my mother who had taken :04.050 --> :06.230 all of the money out of the account. :06.230 --> :10.670 Not even all at once, but almost everyday since I had my first paper route when i was :10.670 --> :11.670 14. :11.670 --> :17.570 She stole a total of $32,000 and her excuse was that since my girlfriend lived with us :17.570 --> :20.670 for a while that she couldn’t afford the bills. :20.670 --> :25.460 Yet when I showed her the paper evidence that said she’d been stealing for way longer :25.460 --> :28.770 than the girlfriend had been there she had nothing to say. :28.770 --> :32.790 My stepdad didn’t care about the money either because at least her half of the bills were :32.790 --> :33.790 paid. :33.790 --> :37.140 I haven’t talked to them in 2 years and don’t think I ever will again. :37.140 --> :42.020 I wasted years of high school working full time to save money for school and then had :42.020 --> :29.520 it ripped out from under me. :29.520 --> :32.030 This is one thing that I can’t stand about my mom. :32.030 --> :35.360 I’m 25 and moved out but live in the same city. :35.360 --> :40.290 Somehow she always manages to volunteer me for errands or services for others. :40.290 --> :43.000 You need someone to pick up grandpa from the airport? :43.000 --> :44.690 Oh, hhhhhhd5 can do it! :44.690 --> :46.290 Someone to look over your resume? :46.290 --> :48.650 Hhhhhhd5 will, ask her! :48.650 --> :50.470 Want to go see hhhhhhd5’s apartment? :50.470 --> :52.920 She lives right down the street, lets go! :52.920 --> :57.910 No asking me, no giving me any warning beyond maybe 10 minutes, and if I can’t do what :57.910 --> :03.120 she’s volunteered me for because I have other plans or errands to run it makes me :03.120 --> :04.120 look like an asshole. :04.120 --> :08.410 I’ve started putting my foot down, but every time I tell her “No” she either calls :08.410 --> :13.750 me lazy or she pulls this pitiful look like I’m the worst daughter ever who has just :13.750 --> :15.400 punched her in the face. :15.400 --> :17.120 I tell her no regardless. :17.120 --> :22.710 Now, every time she volunteers me for something, my go-to response is to call her out. :22.710 --> :26.530 Instead of “Sorry, I cant do that”, I let everyone know “I’m sorry that (mom’s :26.530 --> :29.100 name) told you I could do this. :29.100 --> :32.160 She didn’t check with me first and I do not have the time.” :32.160 --> :37.760 It may seem subtle, but now people’s frustrations have been directed back on her instead of :37.760 --> :38.760 me. :38.760 --> :43.490 She hates it, but knows I’m right so any retaliation has been limited to the pitiful :43.490 --> :45.030 look from before. :45.030 --> :48.910 She still hasn’t stopped volunteering me though, I just wonder how long it will take :48.910 --> :09.470 for her :09.470 --> :10.470 to learn? :10.470 --> :12.920 Im (14F) Asian. :12.920 --> :28.420 My mother has always been abusive physicaly and verbally, she has terrible anger issues :28.420 --> :30.160 so Im used to getting beat. :30.160 --> :35.430 I try to not make her angry as much as possible cause she'll either beat me or scold me. :35.430 --> :38.920 Last night I was eating soup that was still hot, I was eating in the living room while :38.920 --> :41.220 watching TV with my grandfather. :41.220 --> :45.399 My mom finished eating and went to the living room, she stood beside me while I was sitting :45.399 --> :46.840 down on the couch. :46.840 --> :52.180 She suddenly slapped me causing me to spill the hot soup on the couch and myself, I looked :52.180 --> :54.570 over to her and said "What was that for?!" :54.570 --> :56.840 She said "Nothing I just felt like it." :56.840 --> :58.360 She hit me, for no reason. :58.360 --> :03.410 I have dealt with her BS so many times but that had my blood boiling. :03.410 --> :08.640 So I slapped her arm not too hard, she didn't get too mad but started lecturing me saying, :08.640 --> :10.830 Mom: "Do you think it's good to hit your parents?" :10.830 --> :13.950 Me: "Well, why did you hit me for no reason!?" :13.950 --> :18.089 Mom: "Yeah, but do you think it's still good to hit back your parents?! :18.089 --> :20.540 God said to respect your parents no matter what! :20.540 --> :22.779 So, do you think what you did was good?!" :22.779 --> :27.390 I fucking wanted to kill her at that moment, I quickly threw my food down the sink and :27.390 --> :29.980 cleaned up the mess she made me do. :29.980 --> :33.940 After that I just stayed in my room still hungry, I didn't want to see her, and took :33.940 --> :37.500 all my anger out by throwing my clothes at the wall. :37.500 --> :41.510 I later then ripped out all the pages in my Bible and burned it. :41.510 --> :01.450 I'm now a fucking Atheist. :01.450 --> :14.140 I (16M) was at the grocery store with my friends minding our business when a 4 year old kid :14.140 --> :18.740 comes up to us and starts following us, we didn’t think much of it and tried to help :18.740 --> :20.089 her look for her parents. :20.089 --> :24.370 We eventually find her mom (EM) and she takes her back. :24.370 --> :30.610 Until later we find her again and she starts following us until she grabs two tuna cans :30.610 --> :35.480 and my friend gets one to the stomach and forehead (she could throw pretty hard) at :35.480 --> :39.000 this point we find her mom and explain to her what had happened and asked her to pick :39.000 --> :43.970 up her child or put it in the trolley, then she scoffs at my friend almost crying out :43.970 --> :47.790 of shock and pain and walks away with her daughter. :47.790 --> :06.760 I didn’t know what happened next but I hope her daughter didn’t hurt anyone else. :06.760 --> :11.740 I have been debating on if I want to post this or not. :11.740 --> :15.250 This took place when I was 14 and it scared me pretty bad. :15.250 --> :20.160 Please bear with me as this is an emotional story of my past and will probably need to :20.160 --> :24.910 take breaks from writing it, so the flow of what happened may be a bit off. :24.910 --> :28.710 I have talked about my grandmother and her abuse towards me, if you want to read more :28.710 --> :30.990 about that, just check my posts. :30.990 --> :36.080 At this point my parents already think I have been lying about my grandmother, this being :36.080 --> :40.420 bc I have four siblings and my grandmother convinced them that if they tell my parents :40.420 --> :46.470 what she did to me they would, and rightfully so, never be able to see her again, so they :46.470 --> :49.690 would always call me a liar when I mentioned what she did. :49.690 --> :52.620 Now that I have covered the basics, lets get into the story. :52.620 --> :58.210 Like I said, I was a 14(m) and had been seeking my grandmother’s approval, like the dumbass :58.210 --> :00.910 I was (yes, I was a dumbass. :00.910 --> :04.410 At this point, my grandmother had already done a lot of things that should have made :04.410 --> :09.580 me realize it was impossible to win her over.), and stayed over at her place. :09.580 --> :14.420 I didn’t know this at the time, but my grandmother had been asking my mother for money and my :14.420 --> :16.080 mother refused. :16.080 --> :20.540 My grandmother wasn’t the type to take no for an answer and had came up with a way to :20.540 --> :21.600 make the money. :21.600 --> :27.630 I won’t go into details, but to put it simply, my grandmother was paid to allow a man and :27.630 --> :29.460 woman to have their way with me. :29.460 --> :30.460 The woman didn’t really touch me, or maybe I blocked that part out subconsciously, but :30.460 --> :31.460 I do remember being held down as the man had his way with me. :31.460 --> :35.070 After my grandmother received payment for this sick and depraved adventure, she came :35.070 --> :40.330 up to me, who was curled up in a ball and told me “if you say anything about this :40.330 --> :43.630 to anyone, I will let them take you with them next time.” :43.630 --> :49.250 Being 14, I believed my grandmother would do that and after that day, I refused to go :49.250 --> :52.800 to my grandmothers place without one of my siblings in tow. :52.800 --> :57.580 This effected me in many ways, and I am telling this story now at the age of 30 bc I feel :57.580 --> :00.060 like a lot of men are in similar positions. :00.060 --> :05.250 They are afraid to speak out about the atrocities that were committed against them for fear :05.250 --> :09.810 of others making fun of them, or worse, not believing them at all. :09.810 --> :13.959 My grandmother has been dead for a long time now, she passed when I was in my early to :13.959 --> :19.510 mid twenties, but it took until just a few years ago for me to finally accept who I am, :19.510 --> :20.510 a bi man. :20.510 --> :25.490 For the longest time, the thought of sharing the same space as another male, or being in :25.490 --> :29.130 the same room as one, caused me to have panic attacks. :29.130 --> :33.470 Please, if someone is touching you inappropriately and you do not like/care for that kind of :33.470 --> :37.650 contact or they let someone else do it, tell someone you know and trust and if they don’t :37.650 --> :40.360 do anything then let law enforcement know. :40.360 --> :43.970 This is not okay, no matter the gender. :43.970 --> :03.330 Especially if they are someone :03.330 --> :10.720 you are supposed to trust. :10.720 --> :31.290 So, I'm a child of abuse. :31.290 --> :34.990 My dad was extremely physically and mentally abusive. :34.990 --> :39.160 My mother never really tried to stop him and even had told me that she would sacrifice :39.160 --> :42.280 me to him to avoid him abusing her. :42.280 --> :45.910 They divorced when I was 12, and she immediately hooked up with a new guy. :45.910 --> :50.350 At the time I was struggling with gender identity and years of abuse. :50.350 --> :54.620 I didn't feel comfortable coming out to my mom especially with a new guy around. :54.620 --> :56.880 I started running away at 14. :56.880 --> :01.870 She told me recently that she was too messed up herself to realize I was disappearing for :01.870 --> :03.900 days and weeks at a time. :03.900 --> :06.450 I felt like she didn't really care. :06.450 --> :08.380 Finally I ran permanently. :08.380 --> :12.929 After a particularly cold winter and severe drug addiction I begged my mother to let me :12.929 --> :13.960 come home. :13.960 --> :15.640 I needed help etc. :15.640 --> :18.980 It was snowing that night that I begged for help the last time. :18.980 --> :23.870 She said no, but she said I could come shower once every couple of weeks if her husband :23.870 --> :25.830 want around when I came by. :25.830 --> :29.100 Some pretty awful things happened to me as a result. :29.100 --> :34.100 In 2013 I decided to come out as trans to my mom. :34.100 --> :36.590 Immediately she laughed and called me ridiculous. :36.590 --> :40.380 Her TERF bestie told me that if be ugly and no one would want me. :40.380 --> :45.590 I cried and ran to my car while my lovely wife (Her and I are still together) dressed :45.590 --> :46.590 her down. :46.590 --> :50.130 I eventually decided that I want ready and went back into the closet. :50.130 --> :55.650 5 years later I had an amazing career, we bought a house and I finally felt safe and :55.650 --> :56.920 let her back into my life. :56.920 --> :01.370 Then I came out for the 2nd and last (YAY!) time. :01.370 --> :04.720 At first it was okay, but she Immediately began to misgendered me. :04.720 --> :08.309 I get it, it does take time to pronouns and be names. :08.309 --> :09.419 But it seemed intentional. :09.419 --> :14.820 We had a falling out after I public shared my feelings and our history un-anonymously :14.820 --> :16.059 on FB. :16.059 --> :18.540 It was a year or so until we spoke again. :18.540 --> :21.800 After a while in therapy I felt I needed to try and forgive. :21.800 --> :24.049 We really started patching things up. :24.049 --> :26.290 She seemed like she was making an effort. :26.290 --> :31.300 Hell, even said she was looking for a group to help her (I suggested PFlag, but she has :31.300 --> :32.300 yet to go). :32.300 --> :36.570 When I started medical transition she became increasingly supportive. :36.570 --> :39.960 But as surgery dates got closer she started panicking. :39.960 --> :44.559 Even went as far to say I should have chosen a different name to make my transition easier :44.559 --> :45.600 for her. :45.600 --> :46.780 That TERF friend? :46.780 --> :48.460 Yeah, she stayed friends. :48.460 --> :51.640 I had my final surgery (YAY!) last week. :51.640 --> :53.650 And we talked every day. :53.650 --> :56.320 I gave her updates and it seemed beautiful. :56.320 --> :00.380 She told me she was proud of me and I finally felt that we turned a corner. :00.380 --> :05.000 So yesterday her best friend (who I've adored) misgendered me on the phone. :05.000 --> :10.519 Not once, not twice, but 4 separate times within 20 seconds. :10.519 --> :11.919 My mom said nothing. :11.919 --> :16.160 No correction, no valiant mama bear to protect her cub. :16.160 --> :17.160 Nothing. :17.160 --> :18.160 I'm hurt. :18.160 --> :19.800 She never had stood up for me. :19.800 --> :22.450 Her friend's feelings matter, not me. :22.450 --> :27.580 She said she initially chose her husband over me because he'd "probably be around longer". :27.580 --> :28.580 I'm so hurt. :28.580 --> :32.100 I feel like she'll never have the guts to stand for me. :32.100 --> :36.510 She has even told people that she has a daughter AND a trans daughter. :36.510 --> :37.510 Wtf? :37.510 --> :38.510 Don't out me. :38.510 --> :41.910 I can't imagine what she says behind my back when I'm not around. :41.910 --> :47.130 And now, especially after this last neglect of defense, I don't trust her anymore Anyway, :47.130 --> :51.049 AITA for considering cutting her out of my life? :51.049 --> :14.049 Kinda weird I'm posting this in the entitled parents Sub-Reddit, but it has a parent so :14.049 --> :17.720 ok I guess. :17.720 --> :21.780 This happened years ago, and I was there when it happened but my mom told me and my Dida :21.780 --> :25.910 (grandmother) the entire story when she came back from the event. :25.910 --> :29.260 I still remember her words as clear as Crystal Pepsi. :29.260 --> :30.260 The Story: :30.260 --> :34.690 I was interested in long tennis ever since one of my aunts took me to one of her granddaughter's :34.690 --> :37.059 lessons when she was babysitting me. :37.059 --> :41.800 My mother (We'll call her M) decided to go back to the tennis court lounge area to get :41.800 --> :43.830 a form to sign me up for the lessons. :43.830 --> :46.810 (The tennis courts were in Lincoln Park in JC) :46.810 --> :49.830 There are two important things to remember here: :49.830 --> :54.950 My mother works for the County of Hudson in JC, specifically in the finance department. :54.950 --> :00.690 Even with the lousy job with not that decent pay, she is technically part of the government. :00.690 --> :05.040 And the second thing is that my family is Indian and my mother has brown skin. :05.040 --> :09.620 She was heavily bullied by her grandmother and her cousins on her skin, so she has experience :09.620 --> :11.160 on this type of s***. :11.160 --> :14.169 So anyway, she drove to the lounge and went up to the counter where he ask the one and :14.169 --> :17.059 only worker there for an application for me. :17.059 --> :20.540 The man looked at M, gave a face of disgust, and said: :20.540 --> :21.929 "Ok one sec." :21.929 --> :24.370 He said it is a weird attitude. :24.370 --> :29.230 He immediately went to the next person that came in and answered her whatever she ask. :29.230 --> :34.330 My mom was a calm person so she waited, but knew what type of attitude he was pulling. :34.330 --> :35.700 She honestly didn't care. :35.700 --> :40.190 She soon realized that the worker is trying to ignore her by talking to the other people. :40.190 --> :44.200 She asks the worker "Excuse me sir, but I am still waiting for the applications that :44.200 --> :45.940 I ask for a few moments ago." :45.940 --> :50.690 (She's a formal person in public) The man looks at her and starts to talk to her very :50.690 --> :51.690 rudely. :51.690 --> :55.460 She doesn't remember what he specifically said (I just ask my mom about this and she :55.460 --> :59.460 doesn't remember what the worker said.) but he was starting to talk smack. :59.460 --> :04.990 My mom's temper has managed to run out, even for a calm lady like her, so she did the only :04.990 --> :06.860 thing I guess came to her mind. :06.860 --> :12.120 She pulled out her County Of Hudson ID card and told him "Sir, I am a County of Hudson :12.120 --> :13.120 worker." :13.120 --> :16.380 Bro this worker immediately change his emotion right there and then. :16.380 --> :20.590 You may not believe, and even I didn't, but that is the truth. :20.590 --> :24.760 She went on to say specifically: "As a part of the County Of Hudson, I ask if you can :24.760 --> :29.090 kindly provide me with an application to the long tennis lessons." :29.090 --> :33.020 This man immediately pulled out the form from under the desk and gave it to her, saying :33.020 --> :34.510 "Here you go, madam." :34.510 --> :38.540 My mom took the form, said "Thank you, sir.", and left the building. :38.540 --> :42.520 She immediately left the building in anger at why had just happened and went to the car :42.520 --> :46.429 where we were waiting for her where she told the entire story to us. :46.429 --> :51.480 Honestly, my mom dealt with 30x worse crap, like my abusive father that died when I was :51.480 --> :56.860 in kindergarten, or my evil father's side that ruined my mom's education and caused :56.860 --> :01.460 her and me to be homeless when I was a baby, but this was a funny story I remember. :01.460 --> :04.240 My mom still works in the same position, and life is normal. :04.240 --> :09.200 And no, I didn't do lessons because of how expensive it was. :09.200 --> :12.280 Oh well. :12.280 --> :18.700 ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Alright, so this takes place in a dutch train, a VIRM to be exact (a double :18.700 --> :20.460 decker train in The Netherlands) :20.460 --> :23.420 I was in my seat listening to some music as usually. :23.420 --> :24.850 Fast forward to the next station. :24.850 --> :30.070 We'll call the Karen "EM" and the kid of hers "NK" (he was a nice kid). :30.070 --> :35.720 The EM comes up to me and is talking to me, which I didn't hear as my music was loud. :35.720 --> :39.140 She taps me on the shoulder, so I take my earbuds out. :39.140 --> :44.110 Here's how the convo went: (note: it was in dutch so the translations may be a bit off) :44.110 --> :47.000 EM: Excuse me, could you move? :47.000 --> :48.000 Me: Huh? :48.000 --> :49.000 Why? :49.000 --> :50.810 EM: I want these 2 seats for me and my kid. :50.810 --> :56.010 Me: Im sorry, but you're gonna have to stand as the train is full and I dont wanna give :56.010 --> :57.010 up my seat :57.010 --> :58.420 EM: But you have to! :58.420 --> :00.000 (in a loud tone) :00.000 --> :02.850 This loud tone attracted the attention of some people close by. :02.850 --> :07.690 Me: No I don't, I really want this seat as I have had an exhausting day and just wanna :07.690 --> :08.700 rest. :08.700 --> :10.080 Please leave me alone now. :10.080 --> :14.200 The EM tries to literally pull me off my seat but gives in eventually. :14.200 --> :19.309 EM: yells at me FINE, THEN I'LL STAND BECAUSE OF YOUR FUCKING LAZY ASS! :19.309 --> :22.590 This was so loud, the conductor had to come to calm her down. :22.590 --> :23.590 Conductor: Woah! :23.590 --> :25.990 Calm down, what's the problem here? :25.990 --> :28.590 Before I get to speak, the EM begins to talk :28.590 --> :30.860 EM: He STOLE my seat! :30.860 --> :33.840 Me: I didn't, she came here demanding my seat. :33.840 --> :37.620 Conductor: (to me) Sir, you're gonna have to come with me real quick. :37.620 --> :42.340 The EM gives me this dirty smile visualizing "I win." :42.340 --> :45.120 The conductor then lets me have to walk down, waiting for him :45.120 --> :48.860 I dont know how exactly he said it, but he said somewhat like this: :48.860 --> :53.720 Conductor: Well, you can have those seats, i'll just re-seat him to First Class real :53.720 --> :54.720 quick. :54.720 --> :58.470 I could tell by just looking up that the EM was LIVID. :58.470 --> :02.290 NK was just sitting there in embarrassment the entire time. :02.290 --> :03.290 EM: NO! :03.290 --> :08.010 I NEED to be moved to first class, not that stupid lazy kid! :08.010 --> :12.250 Conductor: No, you wanted those seats, so you're keeping them now. :12.250 --> :16.960 He then seats me into a private first class part of the train (it has like closable doors :16.960 --> :18.659 to prevent people coming in) :18.659 --> :20.100 Conductor: Have a good day, sir. :20.100 --> :23.740 Once he left, I had no choice but to laugh my ass off. :23.740 --> :24.950 So, that's the end of it. :24.950 --> :29.200 Nothing too exciting but hey its something! :29.200 --> :43.260 Ok so :43.260 --> :45.990 this happened last week and I'm still shaken up from it. :45.990 --> :47.980 I dont get how tf people are actually this dumb. :47.980 --> :48.980 EM - Entitled B*tch :48.980 --> :49.980 Me - A human being :49.980 --> :50.980 EK - Entitled Kid :50.980 --> :51.980 NC - Nice Cop :51.980 --> :52.980 I was just hanging out at starbucks before work. :52.980 --> :56.500 I was playing some random games on my iPhone 13 Pro (I got it a month ago, its blue and :56.500 --> :58.170 actually super sick). :58.170 --> :00.370 Along comes this dumb kid. :00.370 --> :01.950 EK - What are you playing :01.950 --> :05.210 Me - Oh, its a game called Clash Royale, its rlly fun :05.210 --> :07.250 EK - Oh nice, I play that game too :07.250 --> :11.200 He watches me for some time and we just talk about the game for a bit. :11.200 --> :14.130 He was honestly being super chill until then. :14.130 --> :15.130 Then he does this :15.130 --> :16.830 EK - Can I play a game? :16.830 --> :22.340 I'm super protective of my phone it was ligit 1000 bucks, so ofc I respectfully say: :22.340 --> :23.860 Me - Sorry, but no. :23.860 --> :25.340 I don't trust others with my phone. :25.340 --> :27.630 EK - Please, can I have it? :27.630 --> :28.980 I won't break it. :28.980 --> :32.480 Me - No, I just said that I don't trust others with my phone. :32.480 --> :34.460 EK - Ok fine. :34.460 --> :38.270 After around 30 secs, EK proceeds to go back to his mom. :38.270 --> :41.630 His mom talks to him for a second, then walks over to me. :41.630 --> :44.309 EM - Can you please give my son your phone? :44.309 --> :47.690 He has been really nice today, and I want to reward him. :47.690 --> :52.309 Me (getting pretty annoyed by now): No lady, I just don't trust others with my phone. :52.309 --> :56.450 Plus, I have to leave for work in like 10 mins, so please stop. :56.450 --> :58.360 EM - GIVE ME THE PHONE NOW. :58.360 --> :01.170 My son deserves it more than you, just give it to him. :01.170 --> :05.450 (I make the mistake of putting my phone in my pocket instead of keeping it in my hand. :05.450 --> :10.550 The dumb asf kid walk behind me and snatches it out of my pocket, then runs to EM). :10.550 --> :16.020 Me (super pissed): Give me my fking phone right now, or I will calls the cops. :16.020 --> :19.890 I reach over to the kid and pull my phone out of his hand. :19.890 --> :23.120 EM - HOW DARE YOU TOUCH MY SON, THATS ASSAULT. :23.120 --> :27.110 Me - You were trying to steal my phone, I just took it back. :27.110 --> :31.030 EM - Ok, give it to me right now, or I will call the cops for assault. :31.030 --> :33.230 Me - No lady, stop it. :33.230 --> :38.590 (IDK WHAT was going inside EM's brain, but she randomly decides to call the cops for :38.590 --> :40.530 absolutely no reason). :40.530 --> :44.520 As I was about to leave, I see a police car pull up, and NC walks in. :44.520 --> :48.679 EM - OFFICER, this guy is stealing my sons phone. :48.679 --> :51.120 (Idk what happened to her talking about assault). :51.120 --> :54.860 Me - No, this b*tch is trying to steal my phone :54.860 --> :57.650 NC - Ok, give me the phone. :57.650 --> :58.710 I give him the phone. :58.710 --> :00.909 He gives the phone to EM and says: :00.909 --> :02.221 NC - can you unlock this :02.221 --> :06.610 EM tries to unlock it, and SPOILER ALERT she fails :06.610 --> :10.390 EM - I forgot the code, how does that matter. :10.390 --> :12.990 NC hands me the phone and says to unlock it. :12.990 --> :14.409 Ofc i unlock it. :14.409 --> :16.460 I even show him my name in settings. :16.460 --> :19.549 NC - I think I have enough evidence here. :19.549 --> :23.240 He handcuffs EM, as she is yelling super loud. :23.240 --> :26.530 NC asks me if I want to press charges and I say yes. :26.530 --> :31.380 She is gonna be charged with attempted theft, and lying to a police officer. :31.380 --> :48.490 I will update u :48.490 --> :50.200 guys soon. :50.200 --> :09.379 Srry for any spelling mistakes

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I was falsely accused of sa and assault a year ago last week I had my trial and walked out a free man I'm posting from my main account because I don't care I need to get this off my chest for at least somebody in 2021 I began seeing a girl we will call Stacy everything was fine in our relationship almost too good until an ex I had a bad breakup with because I was an alcoholic at the time got involved and told her things I allegedly did to her Stacy and I talked it out and everything seemed fine fast forward to the next week we just finished having SX and we began playing fighting it devolved into us just slapping each other in the legs but what I didn't know at the time was that elhers DLo SP would cause her to have a severe reaction days later in the form of bruises Stacy told a few people including my ex that I did that to her even though it was 200% consensual and no ill will was intended I even have a screen cap of her saying it's okay babe we were just playing fighting after she sent me photos of her legs and insisted I I like Al fighting with you obviously her spelling mistake was meant to say play fast forward a few more weeks she decides to go to bed early but says wake me up with your cork if you feel like it so after a few hours and a hell yeah brother had passed and I was ready to hit the hay I did exactly that she was into it I was into it once done we fell back asleep she commented that it was exactly how she wanted to be woken up she sent me several texts in the past saying similar things thank God I saved the allall a few more weeks later I picked her up from work and she straight up asked me if she could F her same sx-f friend I was appalled and disgusted and I felt like our relationship meant nothing to her anymore this is where our relationship became toxic and she turned me into an angry jealous monster and for some reason I wondered why I didn't like her friend very much now for the juice in early 2022 we were off and on again every other week it seemed and the thought of her with someone else drove me crazy I went off my meds Gaba Penton Clans pum Latuda mapine and viance and spent days Wide Awake got fired from my job and was at my Wit's End I then tried to end my own life after Stacy said in a text that she was going to spend the night with someone else while I was in the middle of an emotional meltdown someone else was her ex I woke up in the hospital the next day hooked up to several machines and one hell of a sore throat from getting my stomach pumped I spent a few days in the hospital and I'm sure she was having a great time with her ex we tried talking it out over the next few weeks but one morning I caught Stacy red-handed talking to my ex about me I immediately asked her what she was talking about and asked her to show me she said no and I told her to leave she initially refused until I threatened to start tossing her property off my one-story deck she didn't take me seriously until I grabbed her bag and tossed it into the snowbank below I then grabbed several items including a coffee cup clothing and everything else that is hers including unfortunately food I was completely manic at the time and I didn't have a single brain cell left one of the items I tossed down was a container of yogurt which didn't directly hit her however the weak little plastic container immediately burst open on impact like a baby yogurt bomb and she got some on her jacket allegedly fast forward a few days later and Stacy is still sending me mixed signals about our relationship and really playing with my love Stacy then filed a restraining order against me without notice she continued the conversation with me 5 days after she got the order it was Valentine's Day so I gave her the ultimatum finally be with me or I'll be with someone else tonight she called me briefly and she asked what I meant and I said exactly what I said she told me to work on myself more and maybe I wasn't having any of that so I went out with a girl I had matched with on Tinder earlier that day to begin the getting over it part two days later I hear a knock at my door I had eight cops knock on my door and place me under arrest for assault causing bodily harm the leg photos harassment calling and text ing repeatedly and violating the restraining order that was in place that I had no idea existed I was brought to the police station first I tried explaining my side of the story and even offered evidence in the form of the texts about the assault and gave full detail the police officer told me to shut the f up woman beater the cop and I then got into a childish back and forth before finally being brought to the station I maintained my right to remain silent once at the station called a lawyer from the telephone book and was then transported to another area as it was Winter I was wearing a winter jacket I took my jacket off and stuck the sleeve through the top of the door then around the corner of the door and tied both arms together to make as much noise as possible because I was tapping out I didn't belong there obviously this got caught on camera and my cell got rushed by officers who used what I believ to be excessive force by slamming my neck first into the bench behind me not only causing me to hit my head really hard but also obliterating my neck luckily for me I guess I've drunk my milk I get held overnight for my court appearance in the m and get a $1,000 no cash Bond meaning I don't pay it unless I screw up again I'm then under the impression that I'll be good to go home soon nope Apparently after I left the judge didn't realize I had violated a restraining order and sent me to jail for four of the longest days of my life in a self harm blanket locked up I did nothing wrong my four days in jail could be a whole other post but anyway I got out I go down the straight and narrow and keep my nose clean and that's When Stacy contacts me saying Patty's day she got drunk called me offered to Yuber to see me and she did it was a dumb call on my end but I just missed her and loved her so much at the time she comes over at like 5:00 a.m. and she immediately says let's just pretend it's like old times and we did for two days when she stayed with me she told me she told the police what she did because she just wanted a break and didn't think they would take it this seriously when it was time for her to go she said call me later I love you and I left back home a couple hours later I got a knock on my door from the police again apparently she ratted herself out to the police prompting a warning it was clear to me that she was as good for me as Flint water and that was the last time we spoke at my first court appearance a week or two later I was tapped on the shoulder by a detective and asked to speak with me outside he identified himself and told me he's working with Stacy and that I should be hearing from him soon he knows we've seen or spoken with each other and he expects more more charges he calls me a couple days later and schedules a day for an interview my lawyer told me he would likely be arresting me for something else but I had no effing clue what but he told me to keep my composure and most importantly shut up I went for the interview and you guessed it I'm immediately placed under arrest I wasn't handcuffed or anything but that's when he told me I was being placed under arrest for sa and another assault contrary to my lawyer advice I effing lose it on the cop and tell him the story and facts that then again offer to show him texts screenshots Etc he doesn't care when he alluded to the second assault charge I kept my mouth shut as I had no idea what he was talking about he kept trying to pry at me and finally he asked did you throw yogurt at her I laughed and said okay I think I'm done answering questions and I will wait for disclosure from my lawyer the cop got Kurt and ended the interview and I was free to go I then had to sit and wait for a year and a half for my court date in that time Stacy took to media to cancel me claiming I'm a violent person with violent tendencies or something to that effect posting photos of me along with my full name and leaving me a loner for the last eight months because everyone I know hates me over her social media post which garnered a lot of attention because I had a lot of friends especially in the local music scene and hospitality industry I became withdrawn from society but I thankfully acquired a girlfriend prior to the Grand cancellation whom I'm still with and who supported me through it all as best she could unfortunately the idea of hitting Stacy with the cease and desist didn't happen until the post was already screen captured and shared among other people she complied but it had gotten out of control by the time I got my lawyer on it I was being publicly shamed because someone got yogurt on their jacket in an unidol situation for both parties I almost died and she got to go f her ex over it seems fair about a month ago my lawyer gave me two options go to trial 20K including the fees I've already paid him or plead guilty to one count of assault the effing yogurt it took me a few days but I decided to opt for the ladder only because I know our justice system is effed and fighting all charges vs taking the hit on one and getting discharged from my record after 2 years would be a much safer bet so I did exactly that unfortunately I have to report to a probation officer once a month now but other than that I am finally free of her and the pain she has caused me this week I've decided I'm going to be happy I bought lots of music recording equipment some games I've been dying to play I don't know if I should publicly address my friends on my currently deactivated social media accounts explaining my side of the story I went to the grocery store without a face mask tattoos out and hatless and it felt liberating I felt like I was finally back in control of my life and this my friends is why 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wi IBT a fi 26f don't have my sister 21f be a bridesmaid my sister is getting married in may we always talked about having each other as Mo since we are each other's only sister we have an older brother when she got engaged she did not have me as her Mo instead having my sill I'm not going to lie it really hurt my feelings and I tried to accept it she changed her mind a month later due to my parents throwing a fit and now we are comos then I had to plan The Bachelorette I was planning it based off of what she was texting me she wanted however my sill and sister's future Sills fought me on every choice made claiming that she wanted the polar opposite and when we all tried talking to her about it she got mad we couldn't resolve it on our own then The Bachelorette I flew across the country to attend everyone completely ignored me at The Bachelorette none of the decor I purchased was used and the Sills took credit for the things I had done for the trip the first night I went to tell my sis and other girls in the hot tub to turn the volume down to avoid a $500 noise violation fine from the Airbnb and my sister says ignore her she's a b which hurt a lot because I put a lot of effort into the trip the next day I offered to do a coffee run while they were at the first bar

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aita for telling my brother and Si that I don't want to raise their kids 3 days ago I 39m was on a family Zoom call with my mother 66f sister 38f brother 42m and Si 33f when my 10 years old son came into frame and asked me a question call me a bad dad if you want but I curse around my son I don't generally encourage it from him but I don't mask it either and I dropped a casual F-bomb into my response to his question at this point my St looked at my brother and said see this is why he won't make a good Godfather and then gave me a dirty look my brother looked like he had been slapped but me with my smart mouth I just said no don't worry bro I definitely don't want to raise all five of your kids which elicited a laugh from my sister a stern look from my mother and a you op from my brother who then hung up it was just a joke but I've been Fielding calls for days from my family saying I'm an a holy so folks have read it a ITA edit I

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wife told her husband that if he ever comes home drunk she will leave him nonetheless he goes out he drinks a lot and throws up all over himself he turns to his friend and asks what should I do his friend is helpful go home he says tell your wife someone threw up on you and put a 20 lb note inside your jacket pocket show her the money and tell her the other man gave it to you for the dry cleaning bill so this he does his wife is at first angry but he explains he tells her about the drunk man who threw up on him he shows her the 20 lb she look BS but why have you got two 20 lb notes she asks oh he says the other one is from the man who shatten my pants

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this beautiful woman one day walks into a doctor's office and the doctor is bowled over by how stunningly awesome she is all his professionalism goes right out the window he tells her to take her pants she does and he starts rubbing her thighs do you know what I am doing asks the doctor yes checking for abnormalities she replies he tells her to take off her shirt and bra she takes them off the doctor begins rubbing her breasts and asks do you know what I am doing now she replies yes checking for something unusual finally he tells her to take off her panties lays her on the table gets on top of her and starts having sex with her he says to her do you know what I am doing now she replies yes getting her peas that's why I am here

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teachers of Reddit what was the trashiest thing you've seen a parent do work at a school where over 80% of our population lives under the poverty line I keep a cabinet full of hygiene products for kids to take deodorant lotion chapstick hair gel feminine hygiene products shampoo conditioner those kinds of things in travel sizes being a teen is hard enough without having to cope with hygiene problems due to lack of funds at home so one day the entire thing is empty odd I refill the cabinet and 2 days later all of it is gone again refill with the last of my supplies catch the kid in the of sweeping everything in his bag I stop him take him in the other room and talk to him he told his mother about the cabinet she ordered him to bring her everything he could get she was returning the items to Walmart for store credit to buy cigarettes and beer I told him to tell her the cabinet is locked now I bought a bike lock so it was not a lie it as sickening edit feminine for feline update the lock was only on until the student left it has been on the honor System for 15 years over 1,00 student and only one abuser of the system I call that a good record

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aita for kicking my wife's sister out for staying with her boyfriend a year ago my wife and I took in her younger sister 21 years old whom we will call Kate we took Kate in because she was living with her parents who in all these years didn't teach her the skills necessary to be an adult driving holding down a job cooking that doesn't involve a microwave Etc Kate wanted to move in with us because she saw how my wife overcame the same challenges from their parents Kate moved in last July and over the last year there were a lot of growing pains but she slowly made progress she got a job she got established with doctors and a therapist parents rarely took them to appointments she got into college for the upcoming fall sem we had to fight hard for her financial aid because she has been disowned by her parents since leaving she was doing relatively well with house chores and learning to cook we are legitimately proud Kate got a BF and we have had a lot of issues surrounding him if she could go over to his place whenever she wanted she would go over there all the time and not keep up on responsibilities the BF was allowed to come to our house until he mumbled under his breath about kicking my ass after I told him off for not taking Kate to the um the day before when she asked him to while she was staying the night at his dorm I kicked him out and banned him from the house after that Kate's BF is in college and goes back home a good ways away tomorrow Kate told us

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a ITA my wife wants me to reject a job offer because my ex works there I 36m have been having an argument with my wife regarding this issue for the past few days I wanted some neutral opinions especially for married women on what you would do in this scenario I work in the tech field and our research area is very Niche I had issues with my current company and started interviewing at different companies at one of the companies I ran into Amy who I dated 14 years ago we dated for 3 years and broke up amicably as I wanted to pursue further studies and she wanted me to settle down I met my wife a year after our breakup and I was still friends with occasional benefits with Amy till then I was upfront about the whole situation with my wife and she told me early on during our dating that my friendship with Amy bothers her I loved my wife and was serious about us and it was a no-brainer for me to stop hanging out with Amy Amy was confused but understood why I did it we have not spoken to each other since then my wife and I have been married for 11 years now and have one super cute toddler during the interview process Amy was one of the interviewers and we had a nice professional discussion I received a job offer from that company the very next week I would be in middle management and Amy would be directly reporting to me I have already informed the hiring manager regarding Amy and they seem to have no problems with it I also have two more job offers and I negotiated with all the companies and the first company where Amy works is willing to pay me almost 80k more than the other companies however my wife told me that I promised her that I would not be in touch with Amy many years ago and she is asking me to take offer from the company who is willing to offer the second most compensation her reasoning is it would be awkward for me to be Amy's manager and since we both work in the same field it is not like I can transfer her to another manager she insists that it's not insecurity but I made a promise she says that it's finally my choice but she does not feel comfortable with me managing Amy and working with her I see her side as I would have to travel with my team including Amy for a few days to an on-site location at least once a month I can see why it would make my wife nervous I personally want to join the first company as the compensation is higher and the experience in that company would be very valuable to me would I be the H if I decided to go with the first company it will offer my family a lot of Financial Security and would be good for my career I do not want that taken away because of Amy at the same time I want my wife to be comfortable and not be constantly worried about the situation I will be putting her in update I wanted to give a quick update I posted a week ago regarding being confused about a job offer that my wife wanted me to reject because my ex let's call her Abby would be directly reporting to me I know a lot of you pointed out why it is such a bad idea but I want to be honest here the reason why I wrote the post was to get ideas on how I can convince my wife that I should take the position I felt that I have never given my wife a reason to not trust me except one time long story and I should not be making important life decisions that benefit my family because of Abby who I have not spoken to in 14 years on Friday evening we had a long discussion as my kid was at my Sal's place for a play date as many of you guys pointed out my wife might be insecure with me hanging out with Abby specifically because we were FWB after breakup I asked her about it and told her to be honest as I would never make decision without her being 100% on board my wife said that out of all my ex-girlfriends she felt a bit insecure about her the reason was because I did not get a clean breakup with her and had lingering feelings even when I met my wife for context when I met my wife through mutual friends I was still FWB with Abby for a few months after however I cleared things with Abby and broke up for good before I asked my wife on our first date my wife had heard about how I was not able to get over Abby before that and only agreed to date me after I told her that I decided to go and see with Abby I asked my wife if she feels I will be less loyal to her if I am around Abby my wife and kid are everything to me and I assure that there are no circumstances where I would even think of stepping out of line to risk that I also assured her that I will maintain professional boundaries with each of my direct report as I have been doing over the last many years in Abby will be no different however if I miss out on this job opportunity because of Abby I would always feel like irrespective of what I do my wife does not 100% trust me my wife said that she trusts me 100% and does not want me to feel like I am doing something wrong she said she does not want some hypothetical scenario affect the important decisions I make in my career and is okay with me accepting the offer she asked me to make sure that we set up specific rules about Abby one of them being no communication outside work maintain only strictly professional communication and always overc communicate with my wife about everything about Abby Abby messaged me on Saturday about how it was great to see me during interview process and I immediately told my wife based on her idea I reply back to her on LinkedIn and we'll make sure any of our communication stays there I had until Monday to accept the offer yesterday when I went to my office I was planning to call the other company during lunchtime however my manager asked me to come to a meeting room to discuss something urgent my current company knew that I was entertaining other offers I had told them and decided to match the offer from aby's company it is not exactly the same compensation but it is only 20K less in their offer plus they also assured me that they would promote me as soon as a director level position opens up in one of the teams it was amazing and I called my wife she was very happy and of course I decided to stay at my current job overall I feel happy that I got a big raise at my current place and also know that my wife is not insecure and trusts me 100% edit since a lot of people as asking what the one thing was adding it here instead of replying it was stupid years ago my wife's friend told me we kissed while drunk and I did not tell my wife her friend thought I was her husband and apologized a lot I told my wife after a few days later out of guilt my wife had seen the whole incident and laughed because I drunkenly pushed her away after she tried to kiss me which I do not remember but that was about it she still teases me and her friend about it to this day

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a it ta for telling my sister her husband stink throw away because this is just embarrassing I'll get straight to the point my bill does not like showering my sister has casually mentioned in the past how he showers once every four to 5 days because he doesn't really get dirty he is extremely strong Bo and I don't think I've ever been in a place with him where he did not stink even fresh out a shower you can still smell very strong hints of sweat and other types of smells when you're standing near him people have brought this up with her in the past and every single time she just shuts them down and says that they're looking for excuses to hide that they do not like him one of our mutual friends is getting married in 3 weeks and it's about 9 hours away from where my sister's family and I currently live we do not live together but we're about 15 minutes away from one another my sisters informs me a few days ago that she will be riding with me to the wedding because their car is having some engine issue none of this was discussed she just informed me like she was relaying a message I cannot explain to any of you how much I shiver at the slight thought of being in the same car with her husband for nine whole hours he does not like sitting in the back and will most likely ride shotgun to avoid this I offered to lend my boyfriend's car to my sister

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:15.360 --> :18.600 My work involves analysing all kinds of data. :18.600 --> :22.450 This instance occurred around the time when our company was somewhat new (but still large :22.450 --> :26.109 enough to have 150 employees) and rapidly growing. :26.109 --> :32.489 So far our data analysis had been retail companies, travel agencies, or even the housing market. :32.489 --> :37.379 For the first time we received a request to analyse health data from five hospitals in :37.379 --> :38.379 our area. :38.379 --> :41.219 The health data is very sensitive. :41.219 --> :47.649 So the raw data itself and the analytical result could not be shared via email or Dropbox. :47.649 --> :51.900 For the first time my team gets to see that sensitive companies go through channels that :51.900 --> :56.270 have a lot of security to share the data between us and the client. :56.270 --> :00.809 These channels cost money - but nothing too expensive which our organisation couldn't :00.809 --> :04.160 afford (something like $40 per month). :04.160 --> :08.110 Four out of the five hospitals have this data sharing channel which meant that my team was :08.110 --> :13.690 able to receive the raw data and also be able to provide the analysis via the same channel. :13.690 --> :18.020 The fifth hospital was new and they did not have this channel. :18.020 --> :22.159 Either our company or the fifth hospital needed to have this channel. :22.159 --> :27.119 So I raise a request with the accounts team to purchase this channel and it is denied. :27.119 --> :31.549 Myself and my manager both raise it again and also discuss it with the accounts supervisor :31.549 --> :37.350 and it is approved verbally, but declined on the system once again after two weeks. :37.350 --> :42.770 We try again for the third time after discussing with the higher accounts manager and still :42.770 --> :45.400 no approval at the end to buy this channel. :45.400 --> :49.420 It is declined and we have been told it is the hospitals responsibility to share the :49.420 --> :50.420 data. :50.420 --> :54.729 And if we reach the hospital they ask us to reach the health ministry, which then asks :54.729 --> :00.159 us to get in touch with the local member of Parliament, etc. (so just a lot of bureaucracy :00.159 --> :01.780 that I shouldn't be managing). :01.780 --> :06.550 While this entire request of data sharing is being worked on, the time for us to receive :06.550 --> :08.830 and analyse this data is running out. :08.830 --> :13.660 We are waiting only on a single hospitals data which is ready to be sent to us (but :13.660 --> :15.910 only via an appropriate channel). :15.910 --> :17.810 So, I've had enough. :17.810 --> :22.440 I find out from the Health Ministry email response (while working on getting the hospital :22.440 --> :27.300 to buy the data sharing system) that the data can also be shared practically. :27.300 --> :33.379 Specifically, if I was to take a USB with me to get the data physically at the hospital :33.379 --> :36.890 and also return the output to the hospital the same way. :36.890 --> :41.340 This practical data sharing capability is deemed entirely safe. :41.340 --> :43.060 And that's what I started to do. :43.060 --> :48.400 Every Monday I drive 30mins to the hospital at 11am, go to their admin team to retrieve :48.400 --> :52.959 the data in my USB, and then drive back to my work reaching at 1pm. :52.959 --> :55.260 Then I go have lunch at 1pm. :55.260 --> :59.569 I repeat this same task again with our analytical output on Thursday. :59.569 --> :03.350 Our contract is to analyse the health data for the whole year. :03.350 --> :08.760 After doing this for three weeks, one of the upper management person, whose office is opposite :08.760 --> :14.430 my desk, starts to think that I have been taking a very long time for lunch (from 10am :14.430 --> :15.430 to 2pm). :15.430 --> :20.670 He comes to my desk and asks if everything is okay and why I was away from my desk for :20.670 --> :21.819 4hrs. :21.819 --> :23.450 I tell him the whole story. :23.450 --> :25.909 He is not happy at all. :25.909 --> :31.590 The cost of that data sharing system is nothing compared to the cost of paying my salary while :31.590 --> :35.260 I physically collect the data every single time. :35.260 --> :39.150 He puts the accounts team into their place by finding out that they approve of this system :39.150 --> :44.400 verbally each time and then deny it everytime after a few weeks. :44.400 --> :50.110 And literally that day we have this system all purchased, and then installed overnight. :50.110 --> :55.860 Although, I do miss the bi-weekly travel while listening to music to only do a copy-paste :55.860 --> :25.800 of files into and out of a USB drive. :25.800 --> :29.460 Reading a few stories here and I immediately think of how this year went for me. :29.460 --> :30.930 A bit of context. :30.930 --> :35.900 I worked for the same company for the last 20 years and recently started thinking about :35.900 --> :37.020 options. :37.020 --> :41.490 I had a second job which I really enjoyed and did really for fun and for a little bit :41.490 --> :46.300 of cash to spend on "boys toys"; it was never going to pay my mortgage. :46.300 --> :52.120 Over the COVID pandemic, we were all sent to work from home and you know what, it worked. :52.120 --> :56.790 Most folks in the team got more done and had a significantly better work life balance. :56.790 --> :01.800 Right at the start though, the company was taken over and that was the start of 2 years :01.800 --> :03.169 of changes. :03.169 --> :08.069 The first was an attempt to cut everyones pay by 10% "because COVID". :08.069 --> :13.550 The company is in online payments and COVID was a real money spinner for them. :13.550 --> :19.500 The CEO and CTO bragged that they gave up their salary for 6 months to sweeten the 10% :19.500 --> :25.090 pay cut, what they didn't do was give up theit bonuses or options and the dud really well :25.090 --> :26.090 out of that. :26.090 --> :33.160 (Top tip for CEO or CTOs in Fortune 500 companies, your salary packages are posted publicly, :33.160 --> :34.590 we knew what you got). :34.590 --> :40.880 Roll the clock forward to this summer, the CTO and CEO are awarded a huge pay rise to :40.880 --> :43.860 "compensate for the tme they gave up their salary". :43.860 --> :49.590 At the same time staff were told there was no pey rise forthcoming for them as there :49.590 --> :51.199 wasn't the money to do it. :51.199 --> :56.539 They also cut long service awards so my expected service bonus evaporated. :56.539 --> :01.419 Then they had a town hall meeting, there was a lot of heated discussions on pay and the :01.419 --> :03.690 cuts to the recognition scheme. :03.690 --> :08.890 Then came the sledgehammer, everyone had to switch back to working in the office, there :08.890 --> :13.960 was an option for continued home working but that would require a reduction in salary to :13.960 --> :17.810 reflect the savings made in commuting and time spent commuting. :17.810 --> :22.340 I asked what other options were on the table and was told I could always look for another :22.340 --> :23.340 job. :23.340 --> :24.389 The timing of that was perfect. :24.389 --> :30.289 I had been looking into options for increasing my work in my second job and was told I could :30.289 --> :32.970 have as many hours as I wanted. :32.970 --> :38.250 I made the call as soon as we left the Town Hall, asked to go on full time hours and got :38.250 --> :39.440 approval immediately. :39.440 --> :45.210 The following Monday we all had to go into the office full time again, I walked in, logged :45.210 --> :48.130 into the network and I then handed in my notice. :48.130 --> :50.340 Here's where the fun really kicked in. :50.340 --> :55.830 We were asked to give 3 months notice, but if you gave 1 month there was no legal recourse. :55.830 --> :01.380 I had also carried over quite a lot of vacation from the previous years and had 8 weeks to :01.380 --> :02.380 take. :02.380 --> :06.860 I gave the months notice and requested a month of my vacation immediately. :06.860 --> :11.870 There was a sharp intake of breath and a very shocked face from my manager and the sudden :11.870 --> :15.280 realisation I was out of the door that day. :15.280 --> :19.590 If you're going to tell someone to just look for another job, don't be surprised when they :19.590 --> :21.199 already have one. :21.199 --> :24.940 You should also have a plan B in place in case the person leaving was due to meet with :24.940 --> :53.940 a client later :53.940 --> :14.050 that week. :14.050 --> :18.460 In my old role (compliance for a financial institution) we used to be split into two :18.460 --> :21.560 groups - Investigations and Alerts. :21.560 --> :26.090 Alerts did the first level of processing of items that came in and then determined whether :26.090 --> :31.560 they should be escalated for further review (sent to Investigations) or closed out. :31.560 --> :37.519 Alerts was expected to get through 8-15ish items per day (depending on referral channel :37.519 --> :43.250 and other factors), while Investigations was lucky in some areas to get through 2 per day :43.250 --> :46.490 (some cases could take days or weeks to do). :46.490 --> :51.780 I worked in Investigations, specifically within Treasury, which was considered the most complex :51.780 --> :59.520 area, and I primarily dealt with the high-scrutiny/high-complexity items like law enforcement referrals. :59.520 --> :05.150 I was also the main trainer for Treasury, particularly complex cases, and had created :05.150 --> :08.000 all of the training materials and processes. :08.000 --> :15.019 Additionally, I worked as the point of contact/representative on the procedures management group, so I knew :15.019 --> :16.640 them inside and out. :16.640 --> :22.430 What it boils down to is that I made myself the keystone species of the department, albeit :22.430 --> :23.770 inadvertently. :23.770 --> :28.920 As happens with any organization, there was an ebb and flow of employees in our area, :28.920 --> :33.800 but for the most part we stuck around because we were treated fairly, enjoyed our work, :33.800 --> :38.540 and had senior leadership who actually tried to understand what we did and why we do it. :38.540 --> :42.470 We weren’t dealing with people who thought they knew better and who would make arbitrary :42.470 --> :47.769 decisions for the sake of implementing change and saying that they did something. :47.769 --> :51.320 Sure, it wasn’t perfect, but it worked pretty well. :51.320 --> :56.329 That all changed when they decided to merge Alerts and Investigations together and make :56.329 --> :58.630 everyone do everything. :58.630 --> :03.200 Things went downhill quite quickly, especially because the leadership that was given control :03.200 --> :04.829 was from Alerts. :04.829 --> :10.040 As far as they were concerned, a case is a case is a case (it’s not) and you should :10.040 --> :14.930 be able to get through all things quickly (you can’t) and they’re all created equally :14.930 --> :15.930 (they aren’t). :15.930 --> :21.720 They put undue pressure on folks to get through the caseload far faster than was feasible :21.720 --> :27.880 (if you do it right, anyway) and removed all specialization, which made it incredibly difficult :27.880 --> :32.430 to get into the groove of the work because different areas had different expectations :32.430 --> :33.880 and procedures. :33.880 --> :39.390 To add to that they promoted people who had no business being elevated (Peter Principle, :39.390 --> :43.589 anyone?) and ignored tenured investigators who should have been first up. :43.589 --> :48.370 All that did was pee off the good employees and create a whole bunch of Post Turtles in :48.370 --> :50.060 leadership roles. :50.060 --> :52.330 As one would expect, attrition skyrocketed. :52.330 --> :57.260 They weren’t paying us nearly enough to deal with the bullcrap, so people left for :57.260 --> :01.740 both internal and external roles at alarming rates. :01.740 --> :05.149 When the pandemic hit we were, for the most part, stuck. :05.149 --> :09.639 Hiring freezes galore, and there’s always a fear of leaving and then getting screwed :09.639 --> :13.620 and being jobless during the disaster that was (is) the world. :13.620 --> :19.130 A bit more background - at work I have always had a reputation for honesty and for speaking :19.130 --> :24.180 my mind, sometimes often to the chagrin of senior leadership. :24.180 --> :28.149 As far as I’m concerned you can’t complain about something if you don’t try to fix :28.149 --> :29.149 it. :29.149 --> :33.620 So when everything was at peak awfulness I said something on a call with the aforementioned :33.620 --> :38.500 senior leadership, knowing that it was unlikely anything was going to change but at least :38.500 --> :39.690 I would know I tried. :39.690 --> :44.480 I was later pinged by one of the managing directors in our overarching department (not :44.480 --> :49.410 up my direct reporting line but in the same organization); we’ll call him C. I worked :49.410 --> :51.930 with C a number of times over the years. :51.930 --> :56.610 He had a rocket strapped to his butt and was perfectly content to ride that puppy until :56.610 --> :58.620 he could go no further. :58.620 --> :03.430 He is definitely a bit of a Yes Man but that’s what generally happens when you’re in that :03.430 --> :04.430 type of role. :04.430 --> :10.139 I am unlikely to ever become a Yes (Wo)Man because it’s not my personality but it takes :10.139 --> :13.790 all kinds, and you never know what might happen in the future. :13.790 --> :18.910 When C pinged me he asked if I could chat and give him some more details about the situation. :18.910 --> :25.810 I knew I had nothing to lose (see: keystone species) so we got on a call and I explained :25.810 --> :29.510 the problems and my opinions on proposed solutions. :29.510 --> :35.339 More staffing, revert back to specialization in case types, pay industry standard, have :35.339 --> :40.760 leadership work on acquiring a better understanding of the job so as to be able to make more informed :40.760 --> :42.709 decisions, etc. :42.709 --> :47.850 Nothing unreasonable, though I knew that it was unlikely any of it would be done. :47.850 --> :49.300 C’s response? :49.300 --> :50.810 “Vote with your feet.” :50.810 --> :55.990 About what I expected but I was impressed that he went right out and said it, especially :55.990 --> :00.070 because we both knew the whole department would be screwed if I left. :00.070 --> :05.060 I’m sure he figured I would never leave (after all, I had stayed for almost 8 years :05.060 --> :10.020 already, even though the awfulness didn’t truly start until fairly late in the game). :10.020 --> :12.320 Fast forward a couple months to summer 2021. :12.320 --> :18.279 I had been focusing on finding another role (I had been even before talking with C but :18.279 --> :23.540 that gave me renewed incentive); I was being particular about what I applied for because :23.540 --> :28.100 I didn’t want to leave for the sake of leaving, especially knowing that any internal move :28.100 --> :32.579 would mean I was stuck for a year and I didn’t want to risk screwing myself out of something :32.579 --> :34.420 perfect by jumping the gun. :34.420 --> :40.260 My caution paid off and I was offered an amazing internal opportunity that pretty much fit :40.260 --> :41.709 me like a glove. :41.709 --> :47.050 I kept my move quiet for a variety of reasons, only telling my manager, but I knew it would :47.050 --> :48.920 eventually make it up the chain. :48.920 --> :53.050 I just wanted to keep it as quiet as possible for as long as possible. :53.050 --> :57.930 Well, a week or so before I was scheduled to start in my new role I got a ping from :57.930 --> :00.480 C asking me to hop on a call. :00.480 --> :04.829 He had seen the leave report and wanted to ask me why I was going and whether they could :04.829 --> :07.440 convince me to stay (they couldn’t). :07.440 --> :12.610 I got on the call, video, and when he asked me why I was leaving I looked at him and said :12.610 --> :15.839 “Well, C, I’m just doing what you told me to do!” :15.839 --> :21.430 He gave me a cocker spaniel look, complete with head tilt, and I just smiled and said :21.430 --> :23.339 “I’m voting with my feet!” :23.339 --> :27.910 The satisfaction I got from the look on his face when he ma This could also probably go :27.910 --> :28.910 in petty revenge, but I thought it fit better here. :28.910 --> :29.910 We only have three tables in the break room where I usually sit and eat. :29.910 --> :30.910 It isn’t a lot of space, but people are usually fine sitting next to strangers and :30.910 --> :31.910 there’s an unspoken first come first serve rule for space. :31.910 --> :32.910 Anyway, it was lunch time and I went to go sit at a table as per usual, and there was :32.910 --> :33.910 lots of space at the centre one. :33.910 --> :34.910 Bingo. :34.910 --> :38.240 But as I went to put my stuff down at the end, out of the way, three or four people :38.240 --> :42.540 standing around the middle of the table immediately shooed me away and told me I couldn’t sit :42.540 --> :44.630 there because they were saving it for their friends. :44.630 --> :49.600 So, I took two steps and plopped my bag down on their other side, near the wall and very :49.600 --> :50.680 much in the way. :50.680 --> :56.300 I got out my lunch and headphones and proceeded to enjoy my mini pizza bagels even as the :56.300 --> :58.940 table filled up around me with their friend group. :58.940 --> :03.250 I got some stares, but I really didn’t care and no one was brave enough to ask me to move :03.250 --> :07.130 again, even though I was splitting them up and they had to squish in really tight on :07.130 --> :08.130 either side of me. :08.130 --> :11.300 I didn’t get up until I was good and ready, and the entire hour went by. :11.300 --> :15.000 Petty, I know, but with the already limited space you just can’t do that, and the alternative :15.000 --> :18.650 would’ve been sitting outside in the snow on a nearby bench without a proper coat.

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first story op learns a hard lesson when he tries to get sympathy after stalking and harassing a woman hey guys I already posted on our relationships for the relationship side of all this but I need some advice on the legal side for context I am 21 and she is 19 I will give the short version of the story here I guess if you need more context see my other post I met this girl in January of this year at the start of the second semester at our University when we worked in one of the rec centers together she was a freshman and I was a junior she started college a semester late she said because of family issues and said she was nervous about it so I decided to show her around a bit we got lunch a few times during the first month on campus and I gave her tours of the campus we hit it off immediately and I knew I was in love instantly well long story short I asked her and she said no I was heartbroken but she agreed to still be friends unfortunately I don't have evidence of this since the conversation was in person I tried several times throughout the semester to show her what she meant to me but she ignored me and all the thought I put into the gifts I gave her we had a falling out that involved me drunkenly calling her and her telling me to leave her alone when I tried to explain I have spent the last month in absolute depression I think about her every day she blocked me on social media so I can't see her profile but I haven't texted her since school ended but it finally got to be too much for me I decided I would try one more time to show her how much I love her I knew the town she moved to school from its only like an hour away from me and I have family that lives nearby we have talked about it before so I texted her and told her I was coming to meet her I was going to meet her at X coffee shop and I wanted to talk about everything once again she couldn't even do me the respect of replying I checked her Instagram that night and saw that she was out partying that very night there were pictures of her with alcohol she is underage and wearing skanky clothes she told me she hated partying it's like she has become a totally different person so I did freak out a little I told her about how much I cared and about how awful it was for her to just ignore me like that I was going to come to the coffee shop on X day and if she should do me the respect of coming to see me she never replied but I got a piece of mail today it was a effing cease and desist letter she said she would seek legal Avenues if I didn't stop harassing her what the f rdit I need to know what I can do legally to talk to her and make sure she doesn't understand I don't want to live my life knowing she hates me from my research a cease and desist letter isn't legally binding like a restraining order or anything and I am not harassing her since I don't have an intent to intimidate or hurt her so she can't charge me with anything is all that true do I need a lawyer to respond to her letter thanks for all your help and for reading this edit wow everyone here is talking to me like I am a piece of sht just to be clear I have not contacted her since I got the letter I am trying to figure out my next Direction I can't believe a sub specifically dedicated to legal advice is getting so personal the op then proceeds to argue with the very reasonable comments you major facer you need to leave this person alone and seek some help your post reads like a best of collection for things emotionally unstable people say and do in the buildup to seriously dangerous activity seriously get help from a professional this kind of behavior is a one-way ticket to getting expelled from college and arrested frankly you're lucky she hasn't reported you to the school yet because you're already at serious risk run do not walk away from this situation and never contact this person again op's response I am not a perfect person no one is but I am certainly not dangerous and I wouldn't like to go to her house without her knowing or anything all I want is to hear it straight from her that she doesn't want to speak to me again ogris HOA one you can cease then you can desist seriously leave her the F alone she clearly wants nothing to do with you op wait so it is legally binding or not deleted stop trying to contact her and move the Fon with your life you don't own her and she owes you nothing she's not obligated to talk to you be friends with you or even acknowledge Your Existence op I came here for legal advice not this I don't understand why you are even commenting if it is not about the legality of the situation more Choice quotes from the op on the r legal advice and the cross poost to our relationships I deserve a legal remedy for caring W okay how can I end up in jail for trying to reconcile a great friendship I don't understand I don't think a reasonable person should feel threatened by this but hey that's just me maybe the law is weird how can it be harassment if there is no intent to harm or threaten the post was shared on our nice guys update oh boy I've been wondering for a while whether to post here again or not I wasn't going to but I know my last post ended up on a few other subreddits and I actually stumbled across it on my main account on our nice guys and I read all the comments there it was rough for me to read this original post but it was a reminder of what my own mindset and the mindset of so many men like me was I decided I needed to post again for some closure I would have posted this on our relationships but they don't let you update posts they have taken down yeah the moderators there actually took down the post not me for those who didn't see my original post on our relationships before it was removed it included more detail than my last one here so I'm going to link to a thread from nice guys from a few people who saved the text of my relationships Post in the comments I want to take full accountability for everything first I want to assure everyone that I didn't contact that girl ever again since I moved I no longer see her or go anywhere near where she used to live go to school or work I don't know if she still lives in the same area or goes to the same school I have avoided getting any information about her at all the way I acted and the way I hurt and scared her so much still haunt me part of me wants to track her down and apologize but I know from my classes that one that can revictimized by talking to me I'm sure she can find me somehow and three I don't want to make the mistake of using an apology to make her feel manipulated to talk to me again I learned in my classes that men do that a lot I don't want to hurt her anymore so I will work past the guilt while never talking to her again I was distraught after my last po here I admit I came here looking for validation not help I had a warped sense of entitlement that led me to believe that no one would possibly disagree with me but obviously hundreds of people told me that I was effed up a predator a stalker and that I needed help all of these people were right I don't know what happened but something clicked in me after seeing those comments despite how combative and abusive I was in response to the comments I checked myself into therapy in Michigan the week after I posted here I knew something was wrong but I was still in denial I thought I needed help with heartbreak I didn't recognize that I actually needed help identifying and combating my messed up belief systems that I used to justify stalking and victimizing that poor girl after a few sessions I started seeing a psychiatrist too I got on mood stabilizers and I started to realize that something was very wrong with the way I was acting something that couldn't be cured by medication after talking it over with my therapist I decided it would be best for me to move out of state and into my aunt's house within a month of me posting here I had moved into her house after moving I started the process of transferring to a new school next semester working full-time and continuing to take my medication I was also transferred to a new therapist I had a fresh idea of the issues I wanted to work on in therapy but after a few weeks of having two therapy sessions a week my therapist pointed out to me during a session that I was still exhibiting the same kind of obsessive behaviors over women that earned me a cease and desist letter in Michigan though I wasn't stalking anyone at this point I was just obsessing in my mind which is still bad but I wasn't actively victimizing anyone I realized that in addition to therapy I needed more help my therapist pointed me to a class run by a local agency that was designed for men who have committed violent crimes against women like domestic violence assault essay stalking Etc most of the men in the class are court ordered to go as a condition of their probation or parole but you didn't have to be court ordered to go so I signed up voluntarily I attend a 2-hour class session every week and have been attending for about a month now the goal of the class is to help us recognize and change abusive or violent behaviors I know most of you are thinking what kind of Monsters can't recognize violent Behavior people like me people liked me in the last post I look like a normal person I grew up in an upper middle class neighborhood monsters come in all shapes and sizes and I fooled Myself by saying that because I didn't look like an abuser or because I wasn't like the abusers I saw on TV I wasn't one but I am I can't take back what I've done but I can promise myself I will never victimize anyone else again in conclusion a lot had changed for me in three and a half months I want to say that I do not blame my behavior on my mental illness anger the media or whatever I made a conscious decision to stalk and terrorize another human being because I thought I had the right to dictate how others interact with me the class is a year-long one and I have only been in it for a month but I have already learned so much I have learned from my group that abuse is always a conscious choice and a learned behavior but I believe that since I've learned this behavior and it's voluntary it's totally within my control to change it I've also learned from my group about the importance of having a non-romantic support system so I made some male and female friends at work who invited me over to play video games with them don't worry Reddit these are actual friends and not just people I am stalking or believe I am in love with I talked about this extensively with my therapist and try to be cognizant of my obsessive Tendencies thank you to everyone who told it to me straight and I'm sorry for how I decided to treat everyone who was just trying to give me the advice I asked for I ceased I desisted and I got mental health help thanks to everyone edit wow just wow I didn't expect this response I guess this is the top post of all time I wanted to say some things for Anyone who reads this in the future one I read every single comment in our best of legal advice even though I didn't reply to many I cried a lot while reading them two I didn't post this to be gilded or to be patted on the back I'm not sure why I did it but I don't think congrats is quite the right thing to say to me I don't know if I deserve praise for being a normal human being with normal relationships but thank you all for being so supportive anyway three I've had at least 10 people ask me for the name of the program I am in the program I am in is specific to my area so I'd rather not disclose the name however I encourage anyone who is concerned that they are controlling or abusive in their relationships with partners family or friends to Google batter intervention programs in my area I did some research today about the class I am in and that is what these types of classes are called they all operate a little differently based on where you live and what program you do but we use stuff like the power and control wheel and there are steps in my program there is no official Federal program I don't think four I am not healed I have a lot of obsessive thoughts and I have to try really really hard to have appropriate boundaries my medication have helped with this but it is a behavior and thought process I need to change and that can't be done with pills I have a lot of mental health issues duh based on my first post but honestly what you saw was just the tip of the iceberg I have never had real friends until the ones I have now before Jame I definitely engaged in stalking behaviors with both women I had crushes on and Men I wanted to be friends with it was never as bad as it was with Jame but I am still sure I made people uncomfortable I also have some self harm behaviors I am working out so to the person who was worried that I would use all of the good praise to say oh I'm perfect now so I can do what I want trust me I know I am effed up and I want to change I want to have normal relationships and friendships I want to not be known as that creepy kid at my new College please get help if you need it take it from me all people are capable of changing for the better Second Story op proposed at her sister's wedding and her sister got mad op is asking if he is in a hole I know that I already sound like T from the title but please hear me out about a month ago my sister had an outdoor wedding at a gorgeous Hotel overlooking the coast the ceremony and reception themselves were in the long Garden that the hotel rented out specifically for such events but my fiance and I also had booked a room in the hotel for the night which itself was set a short distance apart from there my now fiance 25f and I 25m are both very uncomfortable with large crowds so sometime into the weddding I let my sister know that we were retreating to the hotel for a short breather we had discovered a small Terrace in the hotel the previous day that had an amazing view of the sunset and we wanted to go there to have 10 minutes to ourselves we are both huge Romantics seriously we will make you retch and love the ocean and the sunset for our first date I borrowed the keys from my friend's apartment buildings rooftop and set up a picnic and a playlist with a Sunset View literally every anniversary of ours has involved a private place to watch the sun set over the ocean The View From the Terrace was Absol absolutely spectacular and the moment was so perfect that I couldn't help myself it was completely spontaneous I didn't even have a ring I just got on one knee and asked her then and there to marry me and she said yes no one saw us the Terrace was empty and the Garden in which the reception was held wasn't in our field of view we were both buzzing with excitement but we both agreed to hold off telling anyone else because this was my sister's special day last night we had dinner with my family and my fiance and I broke the news to my family that we were engaged everyone was obviously delighted and asked us to narrate the story of how I or she proposed my sister was Furious to find out I had proposed during her wedding she pulled me aside after dinner and completely blew up at me she accused me of trying to steal attention from her wedding and I told her that we had intentionally kept the news to ourselves until now to avoid doing exactly that she said it didn't matter because now everyone would remember her wedding as the day I proposed anyway I honestly disagree because no one really witnessed my proposal so it wouldn't really be part of their wedding memories we didn't tell anyone we got engaged till now and I don't really feel that anyone will associate her wedding with our engagement at this point because by now it's been long enough that they should feel like two separate events my sister doesn't see it my way and has refused to speak to me since last night aah tldr I privately proposed to my fiance during my sister's wedding and kept the news to ourselves revealed our engagement a month later to our immediate family my sister is now Furious with me edit because people seem to be misunderstanding I am repeating this here I did not reveal our engagement to anyone until last night which was a month after the wedding at a private dinner with my parents sister Bill and fiance update one added in the original post I did not realize that my sister might be upset because she lost my attention on her wedding day even if she didn't lose anyone else's that day was supposed to be about her and I understand how she might feel abandoned in some way first thing tomorrow I will be calling her to apologize my fiance and I also discussed it and we agreed that we don't really want to share our proposal story with anyone else anyway we are both very private people and it feels like a very private moment to both of us the only other people we will be telling will be her parents and sister we are happy keeping the knowledge of what happened between our families and hopefully this makes my sister feel happier about this too as for those people judging me for not having a ring or a plan well the only person's approval I really care about is my fiance say and she told me she was delighted that I finally did something spontaneous because I'm usually too meticulous and cautious so I guess mind your own business update 2 added in the original post oh my God things are happening fast I was talking to my fiance about how neither of us realized that this was such a big deal to so many people no matter how private we kept it it's completely crazy to us I guess mostly because neither of us has really cared for any sort of attention from other people whatsoever the conversation turned and the more we talked the more we realized that neither of us wanted a big wedding with all the planning the headache and the guests like f we'd be running away from our own wedding so we decided to save all the money we would have spent on our wedding for our honeymoon and just go to the courthouse and get married next month I'm so exhilarated right now that I can't even be sure this is real the only reason we decided to wait until next month is because we want to wait until we can take time off work and have our honeymoon right after we get married we can have a small dinner right before we leave with both are immediate families but holy F I'm getting married next month update three added in the original post since it's apparently unclear to most people mind your own business is for those telling me I stink for not getting a ring it's not what I asked for and it's so subjective that pretty much the only person whose opinion matters is hers I would have thought this was obvious on a brighter note thank you for all the congratulations I don't think I've ever been this exhilarated in my life we're both going to try to sleep now since we both have work tomorrow and once we've spoken to my sister we're going to plan our honeymoon OMG update 4 added in the original post this is the last one I promise we just finished speaking to my sister and Bill my sister dodged the first two calls but persistence paid off I apologized to her and told her I understood why she felt like she hadn't been a priority on her wedding day and it was never my intention to make her feel that way she apologized immediately after blowing up and said that I did nothing wrong and she shouldn't have taken out her hurt feelings on me I think she's feeling a bit guilty now and I felt aair but guilty too but overall we've patched up pretty well and both my sister and Bill are very supportive of us getting married in a courthouse next month we're going to need their help when we pitch this to my mom elau we both have to scram to work now and this day is going to effing crawl until we're back and getting started on our honeymoon plans we both just want to say thanks so much for every congratulatory and well-wishing 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:00.190 --> :04.180 Posted by u/CarrotOk5539 :04.180 --> :08.180 5 hours ago :08.180 --> :13.349 AITA for insulting the food my wife made, despite not knowing she made it? :13.349 --> :14.860 I will try to keep it short. :14.860 --> :17.230 My wife and I are 46 and 47. :17.230 --> :21.570 We've been married 19 years now and not once in our marriage has she ever cooked. :21.570 --> :25.710 I honestly never minded, she's told me that she's terrible in the kitchen and I like to :25.710 --> :26.770 do it anyway. :26.770 --> :29.890 Yesterday, I had a long long day at work and told my wife this. :29.890 --> :32.880 She told me she would order food in so I didn't have to cook. :32.880 --> :37.560 I come home, and she sets the table, the food is neatly placed on two plates (which should :37.560 --> :41.629 have been my first clue that it was home-cooked) and I began to dig in. :41.629 --> :46.640 The food was bland, borderline gross and nothing to what I had tasted before. :46.640 --> :50.360 My head was already pounding, I was not in the mood for some crapy food. :50.360 --> :54.109 I just looked up from the food and told her, "This freaking sucks. :54.109 --> :56.079 Please don't order from this place again." :56.079 --> :58.450 She got really quiet, and then sad. :58.450 --> :01.399 I asked if everything was okay and she said yes. :01.399 --> :03.769 She still seemed off the whole dinner. :03.769 --> :06.240 After dinner, I wouldn't stop bothering her. :06.240 --> :08.170 Wouldn't stop asking her what's wrong. :08.170 --> :12.320 Until she finally snapped and told me she cooked the food, it wasn't ordered. :12.320 --> :16.350 She said she was sorry and she won't cook for me again, and I could see her tearing :16.350 --> :17.350 up. :17.350 --> :18.350 She went right to bed. :18.350 --> :22.120 I had to leave early the next day, so she was asleep. :22.120 --> :25.840 I asked a buddy of mine for advice and he said I shouldn't have talked about anybodys :25.840 --> :05.340 food :05.340 --> :06.340 that way. :06.340 --> :07.340 AITA? :07.340 --> :15.780 Or honest mistake? :15.780 --> :19.500 Posted by u/HopefulAd1737 :19.500 --> :23.220 3 hours ago :23.220 --> :28.489 AITA for telling my stepdaughters bio dad this is why I am her real dad :28.489 --> :33.180 I (m39) have known my wife for 10 years now, married for 7. :33.180 --> :38.270 When I met her she had a 3 year old daughter (now 13) . I always made it a point to treat :38.270 --> :43.110 her as I would my own kid and we became close pretty quickly, when she was around 4 she :43.110 --> :44.990 even started calling me daddy. :44.990 --> :49.330 Her biological dad comes in and out of my step-daughters life, she calls us both dad :49.330 --> :53.710 but she usually around home with my wife and I refers to him as his first name. :53.710 --> :57.970 Well, last night she was visiting with her bio dad when I got a text from my stepdaughter :57.970 --> :59.709 wondering if I could pick her up. :59.709 --> :04.330 Well, I got there she was sitting outside with her bio dad holding her arm she came :04.330 --> :09.019 over to my car and told me she was messing around with a skateboard and fell on her arm, :09.019 --> :12.080 her arm was bruised, swollen, and hard for her to move. :12.080 --> :16.690 I asked her bio dad why didn't he call my wife he said I don't think it's that bad she's :16.690 --> :18.590 just being dramatic. :18.590 --> :23.190 My stepdaughter just looked at me and said Dad can we just please go I'm in a lot of :23.190 --> :24.190 pain. :24.190 --> :29.801 As she was getting in the car I told her bio dad see this is why I'm her real dad, not :29.801 --> :30.801 you… :30.801 --> :33.120 I actually care for her and her well-being. :33.120 --> :37.911 Later that night my wife got an angry text from bio dad calling me an AH, and my wife :37.911 --> :40.720 kinda agrees that I was being an AH At that moment. :40.720 --> :45.220 daughter actually did break her arm but her bio dad wasn't going to do anything about :45.220 --> :46.220 it… :46.220 --> :48.950 I'm the one who was in the ER with her until 1 am. :48.950 --> :53.180 Also, I would like to add I don't call her my stepdaughter instead I call her my daughter :53.180 --> :18.380 just for the sake of the post I figured it would :18.380 --> :19.959 be easier. :19.959 --> :23.949 Posted by u/numberone_kalifan :23.949 --> :26.889 8 hours ago :26.889 --> :36.320 AITA for using “guilty woman tears” and ruining my fiancé’s relationship with his :36.320 --> :37.320 family? :37.320 --> :43.699 I (24F) am getting married to the love of my life Mark (27M + fake name). :43.699 --> :48.070 His brother James (23M + fake name) has had a crush on me since high school. :48.070 --> :52.479 I never liked him because he was really creepy but I put up with him during family dinners :52.479 --> :53.830 and things like that. :53.830 --> :57.889 James is a photographer and he carries around his camera all the time. :57.889 --> :01.350 Mark and his family and I to beach birthday party for his cousin. :01.350 --> :04.830 I just wanna point out that I’m kinda curvy in anything I wear. :04.830 --> :08.440 So Mark and I went in the water and James followed behind us. :08.440 --> :10.669 He also had his camera with him. :10.669 --> :13.740 I thought it was creepy because I’ve been harassed by him enough. :13.740 --> :16.900 I asked Mark if we could get out of the water and he said yeah. :16.900 --> :21.590 While I was walking to my beach chair, I heard the click of the camera going off. :21.590 --> :25.400 I turn around and James is giddy staring at the camera. :25.400 --> :28.350 I was really fed up so I just started crying. :28.350 --> :31.500 It was kinda embarrassing but I was high in emotions. :31.500 --> :35.590 I screamed at James for a while and grabbed my sun dress and put it on. :35.590 --> :40.000 I went to the car and sat there for a while before Mark came and sat in the car with me. :40.000 --> :44.780 We went back home and our phones were blowing up with a bunch on text messages from Mark’s :44.780 --> :45.780 family. :45.780 --> :48.100 We had to block some people and uninvite others. :48.100 --> :52.590 I feel like there were better ways to handle the situation rather than ruin Mark’s cousin’s :52.590 --> :12.699 party but :12.699 --> :17.360 I don’t know. :17.360 --> :19.539 AITA? :19.539 --> :26.090 Posted by u/Elegant-Solute :26.090 --> :32.630 6 hours ago :32.630 --> :39.099 AITA for not accepting and returning the birthday present my half-sister gave my son :39.099 --> :45.270 My [27F] parents got divorced when my brother and I were around 6 because he had a mistress :45.270 --> :48.310 and another child, our half sister [25F]. :48.310 --> :54.120 On the day my parents finalized their divorce and my dad received full custody, both she :54.120 --> :56.250 and her mom came to live with us. :56.250 --> :59.039 Suffice to say, we didn't like either of them. :59.039 --> :03.540 When she was a child, she didn't understand why we didn't want to spend time together, :03.540 --> :07.880 and she would complain to our dad about us, and then he would punish us. :07.880 --> :09.470 This added to our hatred. :09.470 --> :14.410 Growing up, she was his precious child, and he would celebrate her birthdays and her milestones :14.410 --> :15.980 while ignoring ours. :15.980 --> :20.199 He always catered to her wants and desires, but never bothered to learn about ours. :20.199 --> :25.539 Any of her wrongdoings would be easily forgiven, but if my brother and I made any mistakes, :25.539 --> :29.690 like dropping the TV remote, he'd severely berate us. :29.690 --> :33.990 Despite belonging to a wealthy family, my brother and I struggled financially, and we :33.990 --> :36.729 couldn't even apply for scholarships. :36.729 --> :41.389 After all these and more, when we became mature enough, we moved away and had no contact with :41.389 --> :42.389 any of them. :42.389 --> :45.520 I thought that we'd never meet again, or so I thought. :45.520 --> :50.460 Unfortunately, the universe played me a fool, and I met her at my in-laws' family dinner. :50.460 --> :54.190 She was currently dating my husband's brother, and he brought her over to introduce her to :54.190 --> :56.190 his family for the first time. :56.190 --> :01.639 I was in disbelief, and I wanted to ignore her, but she saw me and happily had a reunion :01.639 --> :02.639 with me. :02.639 --> :04.190 She told them that we were friends. :04.190 --> :09.629 Fast-forward to the present day: They're now engaged, I have a one-year-old son, and except :09.629 --> :14.129 for my husband and his brother, no one from their family knows that we are half-sisters. :14.129 --> :18.789 Recently, we celebrated our son's birthday, and we held a small party with just our friends :18.789 --> :19.800 and family. :19.800 --> :24.550 BIL came to the party, she didn't, but when we were going through the presents my son :24.550 --> :27.610 received, I saw a gift with her name on it. :27.610 --> :33.409 It was addressed as "Aunt (blank) to (my son's name)," and it made me feel uncomfortable. :33.409 --> :38.070 I told my husband that I'd return it, and I don't want anything from her in my son's :38.070 --> :39.070 life. :39.070 --> :41.229 He was reluctant but supported me. :41.229 --> :42.300 So I did. :42.300 --> :46.920 Later, when she received the returned package, she called me and asked me why, and I told :46.920 --> :48.220 her my reasons. :48.220 --> :52.910 She said that I was being immature by denying a gift meant for someone else. :52.910 --> :56.190 And she gave it to him as his uncle's fiancée. :56.190 --> :00.510 While my husband agrees that I shouldn't have returned a gift given in goodwill, I haven't :00.510 --> :02.040 done anything wrong. :02.040 --> :06.350 But according to my brother, I'm being an jerk to someone who has respected my wishes :06.350 --> :07.890 and remained distant. :07.890 --> :19.709 AITA for returning :19.709 --> :22.760 her present? :22.760 --> :31.270 Posted by u/Far_Kaleidoscope3040 :31.270 --> :39.790 6 hours ago :39.790 --> :46.220 AITA for telling my mom I will do what she and her husband wants if it's so important :46.220 --> :49.779 to her but she needs to understand this is in no way for me? :49.779 --> :52.600 I lost my dad when I was 6 to a heart attack. :52.600 --> :56.760 He was young but had a bad heart and died in his sleep when he was 29. :56.760 --> :59.100 My mom remarried a couple of years later. :59.100 --> :03.470 She and her husband, my stepdad, met 7 months after my dad's death. :03.470 --> :06.579 They started dating after knowing each other for a few months. :06.579 --> :07.760 Then they got married. :07.760 --> :10.460 I should mention that they met through a grief support group. :10.460 --> :14.860 My mom's husband lost a child to stillbirth and his relationship fell apart. :14.860 --> :18.920 My mom and her husband wanted me to look at him as another father in my life. :18.920 --> :24.200 I never saw him that way, not even when he and my mom had my half brother's together. :24.200 --> :26.329 I never hated my mom's husband. :26.329 --> :28.910 I go through a lot of mixed feelings about him. :28.910 --> :33.040 Sometimes I like him because I see he's a good husband to my mom and a good dad to my :33.040 --> :34.279 half brothers. :34.279 --> :38.600 Sometimes I dislike him for not respecting that I want to get along but do not want a :38.600 --> :40.779 fatherly relationship with him. :40.779 --> :42.170 I have never loved him. :42.170 --> :46.250 He has never gotten to be someone I consider actually important to me. :46.250 --> :50.760 I think because throughout the negative has always outweighed the positive. :50.760 --> :54.839 What doesn't help is he will often tell me he loves me but also goes into how he lost :54.839 --> :59.589 his bio daughter and that makes him love me more, and then he also brings up that losing :59.589 --> :04.110 my bio dad means I need someone else to fill that role. :04.110 --> :08.940 He told me a young child who loses a parent cannot decide they never get a new one. :08.940 --> :13.820 They need to do their best to make the relationship as close to the original one as passible. :13.820 --> :18.390 I have asked him if it isn't enough to just be friendly and on good terms. :18.390 --> :22.982 My mom asked me before why I need to show more loyalty to my dad than to her and and :22.982 --> :27.860 her husband and why I can't let him in enough to be that second dad so everyone else can :27.860 --> :28.899 be happy. :28.899 --> :33.079 She told me she knows I would be happier if I had another person filling the role dad :33.079 --> :34.440 left behind. :34.440 --> :39.139 She said it doesn't mean he replaces dad but it means I also have a dad here. :39.139 --> :42.010 Now that I'm in my 20s and I'm engaged to be married. :42.010 --> :46.650 I asked my mom if she would walk me down the aisle at my wedding and she freaked out and :46.650 --> :49.019 told me I needed to ask my stepdad. :49.019 --> :51.630 She told me that asking her would crush him. :51.630 --> :56.089 Of course he walks in as she's still being very loud and when he realized what was going :56.089 --> :01.370 on he told me it would mean the world to him to fill the father of the bride role, and :01.370 --> :06.130 do both parts of walking me down the aisle and performing a father/daughter dance at :06.130 --> :07.130 the wedding. :07.130 --> :10.910 My mom pestered me about it for days afterward. :10.910 --> :15.231 So I asked if we could meet up and I told her I will give her what she wants but I need :15.231 --> :20.449 her to understand this is not for me, it's not what I want, it's not making me happy :20.449 --> :25.959 and it will not change how I feel about her husband, no matter how much she wants it to. :25.959 --> :29.050 But I told her if it's that important I will do it. :29.050 --> :33.889 She called me manipulative for spewing all that before formally agreeing and told me :33.889 --> :41.019 I had managed to crap on my doing a good thing. :41.019 --> :45.639 AITA? :45.639 --> :59.510 Posted by u/Dangerous-Toe-3937 :59.510 --> :13.370 7 hours ago :13.370 --> :22.380 AITA for telling my sister she doesn't get to bully me into doing what she wants? :22.380 --> :24.820 My sister is 23 and I'm 20f. :24.820 --> :29.130 We're both adopted but we do share the same bio parents as well. :29.130 --> :31.940 My sister and I were both adopted as infants. :31.940 --> :34.829 She was placed at birth and our parents adopted her. :34.829 --> :39.170 When they learned our birth parents were expecting another kid they wanted to place for adoption :39.170 --> :41.300 they were willing to adopt me as well. :41.300 --> :47.110 My birth parents decided not to have any contact with us and to leave us no letter or anything. :47.110 --> :48.959 This is something I have always been fine with. :48.959 --> :54.980 I do not consider my birth parents my real parents or even people I need to have contact :54.980 --> :55.980 with. :55.980 --> :59.680 My sister has always longed to know more about our birth family, the reason we were both :59.680 --> :03.880 placed for adoption, especially when we're full siblings and our birth parents were still :03.880 --> :06.950 together three years after placing her. :06.950 --> :11.399 Over the years she has talked about them and asked our parents what they know about them. :11.399 --> :15.820 Our parents didn't know much but promised to help us find answers when we were old enough :15.820 --> :17.240 if we wanted that. :17.240 --> :22.130 My sister always had this dream that we'd do the birth family search together. :22.130 --> :24.510 However I never wanted to get involved in that. :24.510 --> :28.339 Now I'm expecting a baby and my sister has decided it's the time. :28.339 --> :31.930 She said my son could have two more grandparents if we do this. :31.930 --> :36.459 I told her I did not want to join her on the search and I would not get involved. :36.459 --> :41.060 She told me this is something we both need to do and I need to do it for my son and for :41.060 --> :44.900 all future kids so they can know where they come from and who their family is. :44.900 --> :47.540 I told her those people are not my family. :47.540 --> :50.470 I told her my family are the people we grew up with. :50.470 --> :52.149 Our parents intervened twice. :52.149 --> :56.420 They told my sister that this is a personal thing and it's important to respect each other's :56.420 --> :58.190 view points and wishes. :58.190 --> :01.970 The second time they told her they would help her search but she needs to leave me out of :01.970 --> :04.040 it unless I change my mind. :04.040 --> :08.040 My sister tried to get my husband on her side and he told her to drop the topic. :08.040 --> :12.750 So she went back to telling me we were doing it and as someone about to become a mom I :12.750 --> :16.630 should do it and she's freaking sick of me digging in my heels. :16.630 --> :19.000 She told me a good mom would do this. :19.000 --> :23.480 Hearing that is what made me say she can't bully me into doing what she wants. :23.480 --> :28.180 She was hurt I would accuse her of bullying and told me I didn't need to be so much about :28.180 --> :29.240 all of this. :29.240 --> :31.579 My husband and parents think what I said was fair. :31.579 --> :33.980 But I still feel so bad. :33.980 --> :38.730 My sister really took my words hard. :38.730 --> :41.550 AITA? :41.550 --> :50.000 Posted by u/Altruistic_Wave_5652 :50.000 --> :58.450 5 hours ago :58.450 --> :05.370 AITA For Refusing To Host Christmas Dinner And now for my holiday drama. :05.370 --> :09.149 My husband and I have hosted Christmas day for nearly 20 years. :09.149 --> :13.900 We have the space and the money to make it magical and we truly love hosting. :13.900 --> :15.699 The problem is last year. :15.699 --> :20.410 It's important to note that in 2022 I had a falling out with one of my sisters. :20.410 --> :25.930 She refuses to see me, speak to me, or come to any event I will be present for. :25.930 --> :30.220 Last year I assumed she just wasn't coming so I had gifts delivered to her home and thought :30.220 --> :31.350 that was that. :31.350 --> :35.560 We'd have Christmas day as usual, but just not with her and her family. :35.560 --> :37.870 Everyone else did come for Christmas day. :37.870 --> :43.230 But...they literally went to my sister's home the day before and did everything. :43.230 --> :44.649 Everything. :44.649 --> :49.560 They opened all gifts and did everything that we traditionally do for Christmas day. :49.560 --> :55.380 The rice pudding my SIL brings with a hidden almond and the one who finds it gets a prize...they :55.380 --> :56.380 did that. :56.380 --> :00.130 No rice pudding for our celebration because they had it the day before. :00.130 --> :02.319 My mother brings the Christmas crackers. :02.319 --> :05.850 She sticks them in the tree and the kids pull them after opening presents. :05.850 --> :10.420 She didn't bring them because they pulled them all the day before at my sister's. :10.420 --> :13.100 These are not the only 2 things that happened. :13.100 --> :15.270 Everyone brings and shares a tradition. :15.270 --> :20.470 Rice pudding, Christmas crackers, pin the nose on Rudolph...all of the things we do :20.470 --> :24.160 just were not done because they'd done them all the day before. :24.160 --> :28.669 I have 6 children and the youngest 4 were confused and unhappy because they missed out :28.669 --> :30.660 on so many things they value. :30.660 --> :32.420 The crackers were their favourite. :32.420 --> :35.820 My 2 oldest kids and my husband sort of saved the crackers. :35.820 --> :40.150 My daughter folded crackers out of paper, my son rummaged to little gifts to stick in :40.150 --> :44.150 them, and my husband wrote the jokes (bad dad jokes, lol). :44.150 --> :48.919 It helped, but the younger kids noticed the lack, asked their cousins about it, and felt :48.919 --> :49.919 left out. :49.919 --> :54.410 So this year we talked to all the kids and booked 2 weeks in Europe over the holidays. :54.410 --> :55.840 My family is ticked. :55.840 --> :56.840 What about the big dinner? :56.840 --> :57.840 I don't care. :57.840 --> :59.660 We're going anyways. :59.660 --> :01.400 But should I feel bad about it? :01.400 --> :02.400 AITA? :02.400 --> :03.659 We have always hosted. :03.659 --> :05.960 We're the big turkey dinner and ham place. :05.960 --> :14.710 5 courses and party all day and night, and now my niblings won't get that. :14.710 --> :27.220 Posted by u/throwaway_coffeepod :27.220 --> :39.730 13 hours ago :39.730 --> :46.630 AITA for withdrawing my sister's wedding fund because of her fiancé :46.630 --> :47.630 A throwaway. :47.630 --> :55.120 My (27F) cousin (26F) and her fiancé (26M) are supposed to get married around spring, :55.120 --> :57.540 they have been engaged for two years. :57.540 --> :01.210 Cousin has been living with us since she was three, after her parents passed away, and :01.210 --> :06.451 I love her dearly as my younger sister and I support her in many of her decisions, except :06.451 --> :07.610 for this marriage. :07.610 --> :12.020 I feel like my cousin is rushing into things and ignoring the fact that they're not financially :12.020 --> :13.020 stable. :13.020 --> :17.270 Neither of them has a job, and while she is in a PhD program, and they're living off some :17.270 --> :20.470 of her research funds, it is not enough to make a living. :20.470 --> :24.140 They are currently residing in an apartment that his parents are paying for. :24.140 --> :28.890 To be fair, I never approved of their relationship, even when they were dating, and I haven't :28.890 --> :30.250 softened up on him yet. :30.250 --> :35.230 I've been vocal with her about wanting them to break up their relationship, now engagement. :35.230 --> :39.910 I find him obnoxious and rude, and he has made some unnecessary comments that still :39.910 --> :41.010 boil me. :41.010 --> :45.460 For instance, whenever we invite them for dinner, he makes snarky remarks about my wife's :45.460 --> :50.370 traditional dishes, and no, we've never forced them to eat any of them; those were more for :50.370 --> :51.880 my wife than for them. :51.880 --> :55.980 But he compliments everything I make, even something as simple as coffee, and he keeps :55.980 --> :59.080 telling me that I'll make a good man happy one day. :59.080 --> :01.970 It's infuriating that my cousin just ignores this. :01.970 --> :05.970 His disrespect for my marriage is the reason for this whole situation. :05.970 --> :10.140 With the wedding on the way, he introduced me to the other funder, his relative. :10.140 --> :11.710 We hit it off right away. :11.710 --> :15.710 We're close in age and share similar interests, so we bonded well. :15.710 --> :21.500 But I started to notice that my BIL was behaving peculiarly, like he would try to give us "space" :21.500 --> :25.610 to be alone with each other or give us hints that we are a natural couple. :25.610 --> :29.990 I had to tell the other person that I have a wife, and what he told me in return really :29.990 --> :31.700 shocked me to the core. :31.700 --> :36.260 BIL has been going around telling his family that I'm getting a divorce because my wife :36.260 --> :37.260 cheated. :37.260 --> :39.720 The sheer audacity of this man baffled me. :39.720 --> :43.480 I left and, without saying a word to anyone, withdrew my fund. :43.480 --> :47.230 After cooling down, I informed the couple, my wife, and my parents of what I had done :47.230 --> :48.230 and why. :48.230 --> :51.960 My cousin called me crying and begging for the funds, but I told her no. :51.960 --> :54.500 If she can't afford a wedding, then don't have one. :54.500 --> :59.300 My BIL has resorted to calling me names and is getting his parents involved in it as well. :59.300 --> :01.970 My parents are okay with it, as it is my money. :01.970 --> :07.440 But my wife, although she is angry with what BIL did, doesn't support my action. :07.440 --> :11.940 Whether I withdrew the fund or not, they will get married and stay family with us, so this :11.940 --> :14.280 would only cause a rift with my sister. :14.280 --> :18.029 While I understand her point, I don't see why I should support the marriage of someone :18.029 --> :19.789 who doesn't respect mine. :19.789 --> :26.000 So, AITA for withdrawing funds because my FBIL slandered my marriage. :26.000 --> :31.210 Posted by u/Old_Ganache_2093 :31.210 --> :36.419 9 hours ago :36.419 --> :47.500 AITA for refusing to pay for wedding costs my ex-boyfriend :47.500 --> :53.270 incurred for his planned wedding I (27F) have been in a relationship with my :53.270 --> :58.289 boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend) (27M) for 5.5 years. :58.289 --> :03.150 We're originally from X country but moved to Y about three years ago. :03.150 --> :07.620 Despite my boyfriend having a bit of a nasty temper, he treated me well overall. :07.620 --> :12.200 We met in college, and during a challenging time, I supported him financially and tutored :12.200 --> :13.470 him for free. :13.470 --> :16.300 After college, I helped him land a great job. :16.300 --> :20.840 When I got a job in Y country three years ago, I assisted him in finding a job there :20.840 --> :22.760 and even covered his flight tickets. :22.760 --> :26.970 I've even met his parents a few times, and they seemed like nice people. :26.970 --> :33.420 Fast forward to six months ago, a random girl (27F) contacted me on Facebook, introducing :33.420 --> :36.270 herself as my boyfriend's girlfriend. :36.270 --> :40.830 She's in X country, planning a online surprise birthday party for him. :40.830 --> :45.919 Apparently, he told her I was his close friend, so she wanted to invite me too. :45.919 --> :48.790 Here's where the part that I might be the AH begins. :48.790 --> :53.150 I continued the conversation with her like everything was alright so that I would gather :53.150 --> :55.570 as much info from her as possible. :55.570 --> :02.460 She and my boyfriend had been dating for eight years (5.5 years overlapping with my relationship), :02.460 --> :05.730 and they had set the date for their wedding in six months. :05.730 --> :11.950 I felt blindsidedI, livid and was utterly depressed so I confronted my boyfriend about :11.950 --> :14.539 this, and he didn't even bother to hide the truth. :14.539 --> :18.980 He said he had no choice but to be loyal to her because she's the one he met first, and :18.980 --> :20.670 everything was planned for the wedding. :20.670 --> :24.860 I asked him what would become of me, and why he did this to me but all he said was that :24.860 --> :29.890 these things happen, he would continue his relationship with me even after his marriage :29.890 --> :34.300 and that I should suck it up since he was apparantly doing this as a favor to me. :34.300 --> :38.880 So I spent the next few days pretending like everything was okay (we didnt meet in person :38.880 --> :40.960 so it was easier to just pretend). :40.960 --> :46.360 Meanwhile, I documented pictures/screenshoted chats of everything we did durinh our 5.5 :46.360 --> :49.029 year relationship and made them into a folder. :49.029 --> :53.020 Then, I contacted his other girlfriend and sent her all the proof. :53.020 --> :57.419 She initially thought I was lying but after going through the evidence contacted me again :57.419 --> :58.960 to apologize. :58.960 --> :01.410 She also providied proof of their relationship. :01.410 --> :08.539 To our disgust, we discovered he had given us the exact same things for birthdays, anniversaries, :08.539 --> :14.140 etc., with identical pick up lines, identical messages on some days. :14.140 --> :17.980 Prior to moving to Y country there has even been days when he had spent the morning with :17.980 --> :21.770 her and the afternoon with me and vise versa. :21.770 --> :26.260 Anyway she broke of the wedding and my now ex-boyfriend is demanding that reimburse him :26.260 --> :31.990 for all of the money he had spent on the wedding planning (approximately USD 6000) because :31.990 --> :34.580 I ruined both his wedding and life. :34.580 --> :40.140 I have refused to pay him and also cut off all contact with him but he reaches out using :40.140 --> :45.460 new numbers sends messages demanding compensation :45.460 --> :53.030 Posted by u/Striking-Sir7168 :53.030 --> :04.010 19 hours ago :04.010 --> :12.260 AITA for allowing my child to bring in souvenir snacks for his class despite knowing this :12.260 --> :13.620 would exclude one of the kids? :13.620 --> :16.169 Not the A-hole I recently went on a holiday to Japan with :16.169 --> :20.720 my son (7) and whilst we were there he tried some delicious biscuits which he really wanted :20.720 --> :23.960 to buy and share with his classmates once he got back. :23.960 --> :28.380 Obviously I was happy to purchase some additional and found it really sweet he wanted to share :28.380 --> :29.390 with everyone. :29.390 --> :34.600 I didn’t think about it at the time of purchase since we were mid holiday in a different country, :34.600 --> :39.100 however when we were back and I was packing my sons bag for his first day back at school :39.100 --> :45.110 I suddenly remembered that he has one classmate, let’s call him Joe, who has a gluten allergy :45.110 --> :47.920 and wouldn’t be able to eat these biscuits. :47.920 --> :52.480 But it was too late for me to do anything about this, it was late and shops were closed :52.480 --> :57.270 so I wouldn’t be able to buy an alternative plus they wouldn’t be from Japan anyway :57.270 --> :59.480 and would be from the local supermarket. :59.480 --> :03.840 I also wouldn’t have had time to pick any up in the morning because i work full time. :03.840 --> :08.000 Son was happy bringing them to school and said everyone also enjoyed them. :08.000 --> :12.370 However I got an angry phone call from Joe’s mum saying that I shouldn’t have let my :12.370 --> :16.529 son bring in those biscuits knowing that her son would be excluded. :16.529 --> :20.970 She said that I should cater to allergies especially children’s allergies, which I :20.970 --> :26.240 would understand if it was say for example peanut allergy which is life threatening, :26.240 --> :30.600 but should gluten intolerance be treated with the same extreme caution? :30.600 --> :35.110 I’m not sure if I was the AH for still allowing my son to bring in the biscuits despite me :35.110 --> :53.179 knowing one kid wouldn’t be able :53.179 --> :54.770 to have any? :54.770 --> :56.890 Posted by u/Silver_Barracuda_432 :56.890 --> :59.010 6 hours ago :59.010 --> :03.990 AITA for suggesting that my sister-in-law is a hypocrite for ordering a highly caloric :03.990 --> :07.000 meal for my brother who's currently on a diet? :07.000 --> :12.190 I have three brothers and my oldest brother, Andrew, is currently dating this girl, Angelina. :12.190 --> :15.559 She is decent but quite antithetical in a lot of ways. :15.559 --> :19.880 Our family always get together at weekends for dinner and stuff and now my sister-in-law :19.880 --> :21.620 gets to tag along. :21.620 --> :25.490 Andrew had a health scare in the past and is trying a completely new diet. :25.490 --> :30.679 I had a friend over last Sunday who's a professional chef and he made Indian food, but Andrew didn't :30.679 --> :33.030 want to eat it as he thought it was too spicy. :33.030 --> :38.029 Angelina ordered a highly caloric meal for him then, which I thought was funny because, :38.029 --> :40.360 oh well, he's on a diet. :40.360 --> :44.480 I mentioned this and my brother replied that the doctor has given him carte blanche to :44.480 --> :46.539 eat what he wants at weekends. :46.539 --> :51.350 I said, oh well that's funny because that's not how it works, and I mentioned the expensive :51.350 --> :55.570 treadmill they just bought for exercise, asking what's the point. :55.570 --> :00.740 Angelina is also encoraging my brother to adopt a more active lifestyle, they run every :00.740 --> :02.399 morning and go on hikes together. :02.399 --> :07.049 I also mentioned this, and said that it's quite hypocritical of her to force him to :07.049 --> :11.010 exercise while ordering death on a plate for him. :11.010 --> :15.740 Andrew got mad and told me that it's none of my business, told me to respect Angelina, :15.740 --> :17.160 and they both left dinner. :17.160 --> :21.120 My youngest brother agreed and told me I was just being nasty because I didn't have someone :21.120 --> :22.120 to take care of me. :22.120 --> :23.120 AITA here? :23.120 --> :24.120 Posted by u/AccomplishedWar3373 :24.120 --> :25.120 17 hours ago :25.120 --> :26.120 AITA for forcing my mom to abide by the boundaries she set herself? :26.120 --> :27.120 More holiday drama for the drama gods. :27.120 --> :28.120 Family situation is not awesome to start with but they upped the ante and now want to backtrack. :28.120 --> :31.690 I’m ok with being the AH if that’s how it plays out, but I don’t really see this :31.690 --> :33.539 as being as bad as my mom is making it out to be. :33.539 --> :34.870 My (25F) dad died when I was 7. :34.870 --> :38.500 My mom remarried when I was 9 and had Jill (15F) and Janet (13F) with her new husband :38.500 --> :39.500 afterward. :39.500 --> :40.539 I have never liked her husband as he seemed dead set on replacing my dad and “winning :40.539 --> :41.539 me over” in the most obvious and obnoxious ways possible. :41.539 --> :42.539 I tolerated him as much as I could stand, but I have always refused to allow him to :42.539 --> :43.539 be called my dad or to act as if he is in any way and when I moved out I told him not :43.539 --> :44.539 to contact me unless something was wrong with mom. :44.539 --> :45.539 I don’t feel anything towards Jill and Janet and avoid them. :45.539 --> :46.539 I don’t see them as siblings even if they are by blood. :46.539 --> :47.539 This upset my mom and her husband and I guess the kids, but there’s nothing they can do :47.539 --> :48.539 about it. :48.539 --> :49.539 I can’t feel what I don’t feel and I won’t fake it. :49.539 --> :50.539 Since I left home, I usually spend the holidays with my dad’s parents, visit my mom without :50.539 --> :51.539 the others, and go to the reunion on her side where there are enough people that I don’t :51.539 --> :52.539 have to deal with the others. :52.539 --> :53.539 This arrangement has been fine until last year when my mom asked me to stay with them. :53.539 --> :54.539 I declined. :54.539 --> :55.539 She asked me if it was because of her husband and the girls. :55.539 --> :56.539 I said yes, I feel like keeping distance there is best. :56.539 --> :57.539 She told me if I’m not going to be part of her family to not come at all anymore. :57.539 --> :58.539 I said ok and still went to my grandparents and visited with members of the other side :58.539 --> :59.539 separately but didn’t see her or go to the big get together. :59.539 --> :00.539 She lit my phone up like crazy trying to get me to change my mind. :00.539 --> :01.539 It was embarrassing. :01.539 --> :02.539 This year she asked when I wanted to get together with her while I’m there as if nothing happened. :02.539 --> :03.539 I told her I would respect her boundaries by not seeing her since I’m not willing :03.539 --> :04.539 to play happy family with her husband and kids and she set that as a condition. :04.539 --> :05.539 She said that wasn’t what she meant and she wants to see me. :05.539 --> :06.539 I told her she doesn’t get to retract the ultimatum once laid out. :06.539 --> :07.539 If she wants to see me, she can travel to me without the others any time of year, but :07.539 --> :08.539 I’m going to see my family for Christmas and if she doesn’t want to be included in :08.539 --> :09.539 that she doesn’t have to be. :09.539 --> :10.539 Anyway, got a LONG screed from her husband essentially calling me an AH. :10.539 --> :11.539 Jill apparently stalks my social media and tried trolling me but I deleted her comments :11.539 --> :12.539 and blocked her without responding. :12.539 --> :13.539 I explained the situation to my grandparents on that side and they say that my mom’s :13.539 --> :14.539 husband gave her an ultimatum about me so she’s in a difficult place and doesn’t :14.539 --> :15.539 know how to fix it. :15.539 --> :16.539 They suggested that they, my mom, and I have lunch to talk it out, but finding out that :16.539 --> :16.556 her husband was behind last year’s issue makes me not want to deal with it even more.

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a it for telling a woman it's none of her business why I'm near her daughter at the park a ITA okay so this just happened and I'm still in a bit of shock after I got into a screaming match with a woman in a public park so I like to go to the park and feed a few nuts to the squirrels vids of this are in my profile today I walked into a group of trees and started throwing some nuts on the ground then all of a sudden some woman from like 20 M away starts screaming at me demanding to know who I am why I'm here and why I'm lurking around the bushes I'm taking a back and tell her calmly it's none of her business what I'm doing and it just sends her off apparently her daughter is playing there I had even seen her daughter and she keeps screaming at me and demands that I explain why I'm there I get a bit pissed about what she's accusing me of and the fact that she's screaming at me so I yell back at her that it's none of her business this is a public park and she should keep an eye on her daughter if she's so worried finally I show her a handful of nuts and tell her what I'm doing and then she keeps screaming at me saying I should have explained myself when she first asked yelled at me finally I get so pissed I just tell her to off and I walk away was I wrong in this I mean I can see it from her perspective her young daughter is playing in a group of trees and she sees a strange man walking in there I be

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first story my father abandoned me after my mom cheated physically assaulted and falsely got him arrested I got a heart attack at 13 so I contacted him to learn about my medical condition he showed remorse and gave me hope acting like he cared only to ghost me as his revenge and his new wife who sees me more as his affair than his daughter is bullying me okay this is going to be kind of long because the amount of drama leading up to this is ridiculous usually I just summarize but the context is important I'm going to change names and specific locations because I don't want to get Tracked Down found out Etc backstory it all started a few months before I was even conceived my biological mother let's call her Khloe was engaged to a man we will call Carl so Khloe was working at a Walmart while engaged to Carl and decided to cheat on him with her boss whom we'll call Harold so Harold had no idea Khloe was engaged until they had been dating for a while things are going well between them until one day Harold catches Chloe on a date with his best friend this leads to a big fight where Chloe hits Harold and he has to lock her out of the house to protect himself she calls the police on him and due to the crappy domestic dispute laws in their state they both spend the night in jail somehow Harold is blamed for the incident is ordered to take two years of anger management and decides to never speak to Khloe again a few weeks later Harold gets a text from one of his friends telling him that Khloe is pregnant and that Harold is the father he immediately calls at Bull because Chloe is not only engaged to another man who is probably the father but is also intimate with many other men so he brushes it off and forgets about it a couple months pass and Harold gets a call from an adoption agency saying that they need to talk to him Khloe has decided to give the baby hay that's me up for adoption and Harold needs to sign some papers since she put him down as the father he agrees to sit down with someone from the agency but only to talk to them about the claims so he meets with a representative and tells them that he doesn't think he's the Father the guy from the agency goes oh great just sign here then and hands Herold the documents to surrender his rights as a father Harold signs them and doesn't hear anything from them again meanwhile with Chloe she has the baby with her fiance in the room which gives me infinite respect for him and the baby is adopted 3 Days Later unfortunately the baby who is me was born with a slew of genetic illnesses and I ended up in the hospital only 20 days later because my kidney was collapsing in on itself to save time let's just say that growing up I spent a disgusting amount of time in the hospital my health was in a Perpetual downward spiral and every time we found a solution to one problem a new one would pop up and wreak havoc on my tiny body it all came to a head one day when I was 13 when I was in so much pain that my doctors thought I was having a heart attack I wasn't but I hadn't been diagnosed yet so they had no clue so after being told by my doctors in the hospital that that I had a heart attack my adopted dad who will call Marcus freaked out and finally reached out to Harold for the first time he asked for his medical records so that they could better assess the situation and decide what to do here is where the problem started the first incident so while I was busy being cripplingly ill Harold had forgotten all about me and started a new life with a woman he met a month after my birth letun call her Heather because she reminds me of Heather Duke they had two sons at the time and Harold hadn't told Heather anything about maybe having another kid to clarify I wasn't there for this part so I am only telling what I have been told happened so Heather finds the email that my dad sent to Harold and absolutely loses her mind she thinks he cheated on her or something and she blocks my dad on Facebook and starts messaging Chloe on Facebook now this is where the story gets a little tricky I have been told two different versions of this event and honestly I'm not 100% sure which one is true so I'll just tell both chlo's version Heather started sending a mass amount of hate and harassment to Khloe basically telling her to step off and get away from her man Heather insisted that Harold wasn't the father and Khloe was lying by this point in time Khloe was already married had two daughters that she kept one who belonged to her old fiance and one who belonged to her current husband and had also built a relationship with me she read me some of the messages that Heather sent during a weekend I was spending with her and my half-sister almost 4 years later she said I quote her grammar was atrocious but I didn't think correcting it was the right way to go Heather's version Heather reached out to Chloe to talk to her about the situation and what she wanted them to do Chloe snapped at her and said there was no way that my parents would put me through a paternity test because Chloe said that they decided not to pursue the test after these communications all contact was lost and my dad lost Harold's cell phone number the whole interaction ended with no paternity test and no medical records recent events okay now that that's out of the way here is what has happened in the last month so my health has progressively gotten worse and I now have to apply for disability if I want to pay for my ungodly amount of medications the lawyer I hired said that having a full family medical history might be helpful so I asked my super smart friend to track Harold down so I could contact him long story short I got his number and I left him a voicemail that was basically me just begging him to help me saying that I was sorry for intruding on his life and begging for him not to yell at me he called back after like 20 minutes and to my extreme surprise he was happy to hear from me he said that not contacting me was one of the biggest regrets of his life we cried together on the phone and I told him about the genetic disorders I have and how I was worried for his kids he assured me that they were healthy and I cried because I was relieved we talked throughout the week until eventually he had to fly home from his business trip and tell his wife what was going on not needless to say it did not go well Heather was pissed and demanded that we limit contact until the results of the paternity test came in unfortunately for her it came back positive and confirmed that I am his daughter here is where the story gets sticky again because I have been told two different versions of what happened during the last week Harold's version Harold and Heather got into a big fight and she made him tell her sons what he did maybe it was meant to humiliate him but if so it backfired because his son were so excited to have a sister one of them compared me to Shazam I think Harold left to go on another trip for work and he and Heather fought right before he left for the airport he called me while he drove there told me all of this and said that he didn't want to lose contact with me again I was so happy that he still wanted me around but I was sad that I screwed up his family he told me it wasn't my fault but I still felt bad I got Heather's version of events much later at p.m. when I was trying to eat my Ramen she messaged me on Facebook and claimed that this is what really happened Heather's version Harold was unhappy about the test and said that I was too much too fast but he wouldn't tell me that because he didn't want to hurt my feelings they told their sons and they weren't happy about it either she told me that Harold hardly has time for his kids and I was forcing your way in now I am a very sensitive person and have a habit of breaking down over the smallest things because of other stuff that's happened in my past but that's not relevant right now now which is why I'm very proud of how I handled this I texted Harold and told him that his wife had contacted me and within seconds he had called me and asked me to read what she had said I read it to him and also read the apology I sent to her he apologized on her behalf and asked if I was okay because I sounded like I was crying which I was but I didn't want him to feel bad so I just told him I was fine and I was just tired I asked him what I should do and he told me to just be myself so I apologized to her again again while she snapped at me and eventually she stopped and I got to go to bed things were quiet after that and I tried not to message them because I didn't want to get yelled at again this morning I got diagnosed with severe scoliosis and yesterday with epilepsy and since those are usually genetic I texted Harold and told him he might want to get his sons tested for them apparently this was a bad idea because Heather proceeded to message me and tell me to stop texting them and that I was not helping their marriage I tried to explain that I was just trying to help and asking her to please stop lashing out at me but she just texted back I'm not lashing out we just want you to leave us alone I haven't responded back because her message really hurt and I just shut down and fell asleep to cope I apologized to Harold but he hasn't replied to the text which is making me think that maybe they really do want me to leave them alone but I also know that Harold told me the exact opposite my anxiety is having a field day and I have absolutely no idea what to do my main goal in this situation is to preserve my relationship with Harold and try to get heather to like me what do I do tldr biological dad's wife doesn't want me around at all and keeps telling me things that I know aren't true because biological dad already told me the truth now she is claiming that they want me to leave them alone even though he told me he wanted to build a relationship help please update hello sorry this update has taken a while to come out but I promise there is a good reason for it my girlfriend drove down to visit me for a week and I was preoccupied spending time with her I was really hoping that the news I have to share with you would change so long story short I took the advice I was given and muted Heather's messages to me the stuff she was saying to me has really gotten to me and at this point I'm not quite sure if I'm the bad guy I called Harold and talked to him about the situation and I told him that I don't think it is in my best interest to be talking to his wife this is where things took a bit of a sad turn Harold agreed with his wife and said it would be best if I just left them alone for a while I was stunned for a few moments because this is the opposite of what he had told me less than 24 hours earlier that said even if he had said something else beforehand I know that I have to respect his decision I told him that I would stop all contact and when he is ready to talk again it will be on him to message me that's where the call ended and we haven't spoken since it sucks I'm kind of hurt I know I have no right to be hurt about it but I still am I've come to the decision that it's not my job to make them like me this was probably not going to end any other way it's painful but it's the world we live in I'm sorry I don't have a happier ending to share but I'd still like to thank you guys for the amount of support and loving messages I received on my first post I don't think I could have endured this without you guys and the validation you provided me thank you for taking the time out of your day to send such kind messages and helpful advice I appreciate each and every one of you and and I am sending virtual hugs tldr Harold's wife got to him and there is no more contact she won and I am leaving them alone edit uo I got on one of the Reddit YouTube videos apparently everyone on YouTube either thinks the story is fake or that Heather Sons don't belong to Harold also I still haven't heard anything from Harold I'm starting to think that something is either very wrong where they genuinely don't want me around I've stuck to my guns though and I'm not contacting them edit too in October two things have happened I needed to reach out to him because my cat got sick again and he works in pet insurance and care and I asked him for advice on what insurance carrier to use it was cordial and completely professional there are no emotions and there is nothing other than business it hurt to see him act so cold but thus is life his wife who my dad Marcus now refers to exclusively as Heather updated her Facebook so that it says stay in your lane B directly under her name when you click on her profile I feel grossed out that she's acting like I'm some jealous lover who wants to steal her man I'm his kid not his affair partner also I'm going down to see my girlfriend this December she's been the biggest help and support throughout this disaster if I ever get a more significant update I'll ask the moderators to let me post part three I doubt I'll get one though I think this is where this Saga ends I have an adopted dad who loves me and a biological mother who loves me I think I can be content with that update on r/ dad for a minute to my father I don't think I could call you my dad I don't see our relationship ever reaching a point where you are apparent to me you were hurt by my mother and I understand why you left her but I don't understand why you left me you didn't need to take any responsibility that's not what my dad wanted when he called you that day I was 13 and had what was essentially a heart attack all we wanted were your medical records so that we could make sure I didn't have some scary heart condition that was killing me and you knew that he told you that but you still ghosted my dad after your wife harassed my biological mother for a week and guess what I do have a heart condition and your records which I had to drag out of you years later would have proved that years earlier who knows how different my life would be if I had gotten treatment back then I can't say I don't hate you but I can't say that I do either when I called you after having to literally send my friend to stalk you online and find your number you cried on the phone you told me that not contacting me back then was the biggest regret of your life that's bullsh te if it really was you wouldn't have let your wife cyber bully me for a week and then forced you to cut contact with me out of effing nowhere I didn't even want a relationship with you when I called that day I just wanted medical records because I'm freaking dying but you just had to go and give me hope you told me that your sons were excited to know me you said you were excited to know me you're a liar I get that I'm a reminder of what my biological mom did to you but that doesn't mean I'm worthless your wife is effing insane I hate her she made me hate myself the amount of therapy I'm going to need because your family is playing with my emotions is absurd and yet I'd still kill for a relationship with you f you Second Story entitled parents refused to see their daughter one last time before her brain tumor surgery even after she begged them saying she needed to be independent now they think they have the right to see their daughter op lost it and lashed out revealing she and her sister had cut ties with them long before for which her father physically assaulted op and disowned her this is a very difficult time for our family although I'm not sure about my mom my sister was recently diagnosed with a primary malignant brain tumor and is going to have surgery this Wednesday I don't want to go through the medical stuff just that this is very serious doctors are optimistic that with surgery and radiotherapy she has a good chance of making a full recovery but this is a very risky and dangerous situation my parents have this twisted ideology that helping people in need only makes them less independent and for this reason they have decided not to be involved or show any support to my sister thinking that allowing her to go alone through the most difficult time of her life will make her a much stronger person they live by these values themselves as well if they have problems they will never accept any help from anyone going back to my sister she is really freaked out as the whole thing has happened very fast she now has this life-threatening condition and a surgery in a few days that even successful can leave her with many side effects that may take years to overcome and my parents act like she has a cold I truly think that having them around will be helpful to my sister but they haven't shown the slightest interest in being involved in any way they only live 1 hour away and my mom has all the time in the world as she doesn't work my sister called them last night asking to see them before the surgery but they refused saying that they couldn't make it there on time but they would be around for her birthday which is in 3 months I'm genuinely just pissed off at them and told them this and they again said it's a responsibility and Independence issue and that I also shouldn't get too involved in this and allow her to deal with her own problems their suggestion was that I should visit her a few days after the surgery I'm posting this as more of a rant than asking for advice to be honest I know what I need to do I should focus on helping my sister in any way possible but I can't help being angry at them my sister has a life-threatening condition and is going to have a major dangerous surgery next week and parents think supporting her discourages her independence update so my sister had the surgery on Wednesday it was a very difficult one it took longer than expected and there were multiple complications during the surgery but in the end she pulled through it took over two days for her to regain Consciousness she's not exactly doing great as she has great weakness in the left side of her body but the doctor say this was to some extent expected and she will make some recovery within 2 months and after that they will know what to expect in the long term soon we will know about the next stages of her treatment with radiotherapy about my parents I called them every day before the surgery and on the morning of the surgery and begged them to come as it would mean a lot to my sister but they still refused they only asked me to let them know how the surgery went I only texted them after the surgery when she was still unconscious and my mom replied she's a strong one how reassuring I haven't made any further contact with them and neither have they and I don't think I ever will they made us so independent that we don't even need to talk to them anymore luckily my sister has some good friends that have been around during this time offered all sorts of help and support and will be here with us during her recovery her High School best friend flew 3,000 mi from Ab Bron to be here with her and is going to stay here for 2 weeks she is her family our parents are not sister had her surgery with complications parents don't seem to care I won't talk to them again update it's been while since my last update but since you've all been so nice to me and my sister with your help and wonderful wishes I think I should give an update first about my sister's recovery it has been more difficult than we've expected she's had many side effects from the surgery and the speed at which things are getting better is not as fast as the doctors hoped she has problems with movement and sensation on her left side sleep problems and vision and hearing issues she also used to have some mood issues but those are mostly resolved doctors expect her to make a full recovery though but it may take some years of rehab and hard work she has great motivation these days so we're very optimistic about parents well I don't know where to start they didn't make any contact until 3 weeks after the surgery they were upset that my sister hadn't called them I told them to piss off and don't contact us again a week later they showed up at my sister's place they didn't even know that she had moved out of her place and moved in with me how could they have known when they didn't care they called me angrily asking where their daughter is I told them that maybe she died after the surgery and hung up I know this was cruel but I couldn't play nice with them anymore they called me again but I didn't answer they came to my door I opened the door but didn't let them in I took a very strong punch in the face from my dad but I still didn't let them in and told them to f off and go inside my dad threatened to break the door I told them that I'm calling the police and if they do anything crazy they will be in jail for breaking and entering they told me that I'm disowned and left my sister was sleeping during this I told her everything and she was happy with how I handled it which is all that matters to me we had talked about what to do if something like this happened I'm not sad that they disowned me we had disowned them long before that it's just the two of us now tldr my sister's recovery is going slowly but it is expected that she will make a full recovery parents showed up but I didn't let them in they disowned me third story op bumps into his ex and sits down to chat with her leaving his wife standing right there while his ex gives her dirty looks then he conveniently forgets to introduce his wife to his ex the very next day op gets a friend request from his ex now complains wife is lashing out on him I had a weird situation happen last weekend and was hoping to get perspectives on whether what I did was wrong my wife and I were near Seattle last weekend visiting my family we are both in our early 30s and have been happily married for 4 years together for six we went out to a bar on Saturday with a bunch of my friends to catch up when I was going to the restroom I felt a tap on my shoulder and to my surprise it was Jen my ex Jen and I dated for 4 years in our early 20s Jen left me because she wanted to explore herself and since I was her first boyfriend she felt like she was missing something in life I was very happy with her and I had a job in Tech that put us on a very stable Financial path I was probably a few months away from proposing to her I was heartbroken and it took me a few years before I could start dating again although Jen and I stayed friends for a year after our breakup I went andc with her so that I could move on and have never talked to her since then my wife knows about all this back to the incident Jen tapped on my shoulder and I was surprised to see her she hugged me and we exchanged pleasantries she was there with her friends and they were all sitting at the bar I knew most of them they also came to say hello we chatted for a few minutes before I felt like I needed to end the conversation we mostly talked about what I was doing back in my hometown and how we had been I abruptly told her it was nice to see her after years and that I needed to go back to our table as I was out with my friends she said okay and I quickly turned around to my surprise my wife was standing right behind me my friends identified Jen from our table and my wife came to stand next to me I told my wife what a weird coincidence took her hand and went back to the table when I sat at the table all my friends started talking about Jen my wife seemed clearly uncomfortable about the situation I tried to change the subject but I learned that Jen married someone a few years ago and they got divorced last year she moved back to our hometown so she could stay at her parents house until she figured things out my wife seemed really interested in Jen's life and was asking a lot of questions while I was just trying to avoid the whole topic when we were driving home my wife asked me why I didn't tell Jen that I was married and that she was my wife she feels I should have introduced her to Jen so that Jen could see I am happily married to my wife I told her I was just trying to end the conversation as I had no contact with her a long time ago and I preferred to keep it that way my wife asked me how I felt after seeing her after a long time I told her that I was surprised since I was not expecting to see her but to be honest I felt like she was a stranger I told my wife that I did feel sad that things didn't work out for her my wife was upset because she felt I should have introduced her to Jen she felt that Jen hugged me for too long and I should clearly have told Jen that I was married and have a lovely wife my wife feels she came all the way from the table to stand next to me and feels slightly insulted that I did not include her in the conversation from my perspective I was just trying to get out of the conversation and don't see how it would have helped anyone the issue became worse the next morning when Jen sent me a friend request on Instagram and also messaged me on my phone saying it was nice to meet me I feel that triggered my wife and for some reason my mom who went on a rant about Jen because she hated Jen when we were dating that made my wife very happy my wife feels that I did not communicate clearly to Jen that I was married and that was the reason why she messaged me the next day I rejected the follow request on Instagram and also did not respond to her message however a part of me feels my wife might be right and I did something wrong here am I the ow for not telling Jen that I was married and introducing her to my wife who was standing right next to me I just wanted to get out of the conversation and was in a hurry to end it comments plasticore concert 4916 I don't understand how you spent time catching up but didn't bring up your wife once even if it's just by insinuation by using we instead of I pronouns I'm married and it's natural to say we without even thinking about it we're visiting the family we just bought a new house it also seems more natural for you to have told your ex I have to get back to my wife instead of I have to get back to my friends you were with your wife first and foremost hopefully she's not an afterthought to your friends and if you truly wanted to end the conversation your wife was a built in excuse sorry I really have to go my wife's waiting for me I do find your behavior kind of odd is there a chance that at least subconsciously you didn't want Jen to know you were married to bionic his wife went and stood next to him with Jen right there and he decided not to introduce her this will 100% at best appear to op's wife like he wanted to get out of there before either the wife notices there is something between op and his ex or the ex finds out about his wife to her this situation is insane and shady as F and so those would be the reasons to try to get out of the conversation quickly without introducing her or letting her know he's married also instead of accepting her friend request in front of his wife and saying oh I was a little shocked to bump into you I forgot to introduce you to my beautiful wife who was standing next to me he just doesn't accept the request which again just looks like hiding sht rather than openly telling her about his wife it's weird any way you look at it imagine your wife standing right next to you and you can't take 3 seconds to introduce her if my partner did that I'd be mad as F at her because frankly it's just straight rude regardless of who they are talking to but in this situation it also comes across as trying to hide something minty Walker W 290 yta you told Jen that you were there with your friends you didn't mention your wife why is that neore sporin that's it I got rid of her slurk so fast how'd you do it Carla I just told her I was married Turk scrubs already did it numerous. 1,530 yta an X asks you how you've been over the past few years and one of the top things on your list of reasons why you're so good isn't that you married a wonderful woman H judgement yta update 2 days later I wrote a post a few days ago regarding bumping into my ex-girlfriend Jen when I was on a trip to my hometown my wife saw me talking to her and came up to me and like an idiot I forgot to introduce Jen to my wife my wife was a bit upset that I did not tell Jen I was married thanks to everyone who commented and let me know unanimously how stupid I was during the whole interaction we came back home yesterday although my wife seemed to have gotten over the incident I decided it would be best to to apologize to her and let her know that I did not have any wrong intentions it was just a dear in a headlight moment for me and I should have introduced her to Jen at night when my wife was scrolling her phone in bed I decided to bring up the topic I told her that I wanted to apologize for the incident on Saturday I know I messed up royally and I should have introduced her to Jen so she could see that we are happily married together I told her that I was just surprised to see her and I really wanted to get out of the conversation as soon as possible my wife said it was okay and she saw how flustered I was when I was talking to Jen she said that when Jen saw me and hugged me everyone at the table started staring at us one of my friends Rita made some scandalous comments regarding why Jen is shmooing with me my wife had never seen Jen's picture and it took her a while to realize that it was Jen she thought she would stand next to me and once I told Jen that I was here with my wife she would leave me alone however when she stood next to me for more than a minute I did not notice Jen noticed her and gave her a dirty look once I turned around to go to the table she was hoping I would introduce her to Jen so Jen knew she was my wife and not some random girl standing next to me however I just hurried back to the table with her I again apologized to her and told her that from my perspective I was just trying to finish the conversation and get back to the table in hindsight I should have done what she said but I froze in the moment and was not thinking straight she again asked me why I was acting so Weir weird around Jen I wish I had a better answer but talking to Jen just felt wrong and all I was thinking was that I needed to get back to my wife I asked her if she felt bad that I was talking to Jen or that she hugged me she told me that she has always been curious about Jen since I was so close to marrying her and when she saw me around her she felt I was still acting like someone acts around their Crush moreover she saw jeno realized how beautiful she was and felt insecure in that moment my friends making a big deal out of it did not help either she asked me if I ever wished Jen did not break up with me I told her that if I had a time machine I would wish 100 out of 100 times that Jen would break up with me so that I could meet my wife and build such a beautiful life together this made her smile and she gave me a big hug I asked her if I should message Jen and let her know I was married she said there is no need to do that since my profile picture on messages is a picture with my wife and Jen should have seen that already also my Instagram is public with a lot of pictures of my wife and me so she asked me to just ignore her message and get on with our lives again thanks to everyone for being so brutally honest as I would expect from Reddit comments assistance Yak 3669 your wife's reaction is nothing but classy and graceful especially in a situation like that it's good that you understood your faults and have reassured your wife Jen is in the past leave her there rnh 213 PDX I agree although some of the friends seem like potential sht storms who are running around with fuel looking for a fire K up four good on you for apologizing and making it right with your wife we've all had dear in headlights moments where logic flies out the window now you know how to approach that situation should it happen again and just make sure your wife feels secure with you it's Alo you only get one chance at a first shot his apology was fortunately sufficient but he really screwed the pooch with his every action to the point where if I were involved I'd wonder why he got so tongue tied around Jen thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friend

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wibta for deciding to not have a wedding I 29f met my now fiance 35 male a little over 4 years ago we've been together through thick and think and have become somewhat Inseparable and consider one another as best friends and partner last year we decided that we want to take our relationship a step further and get married I didn't tell my parents right away because of cultural differences and didn't know how they would react to me wanting marryed outside of our nationality plus wanted to enjoy the time being engaged and not have to deal with the drama initially for context I'm Arab and my fiance is white/ americ after a few months I felt like it was finally time to tell my parents so I did in low and behold there was a lot of backlash just as I expected my parents started crying and cursing and accusing me of leaving them for a stranger and asking if he even is financially stable and can buy me a house and asked him a lot of questions about finances and nothing else I never wanted to marry for money and me and my fiance say share everything 50/50 and both work hard to keep us afloat and we are not rich or anything like that just two people trying to survive in this economy I was embarrassed of all these questions about money and showing that they don't care about anything else so I asked for my Gaz since all they care about marriage is what I can gain from it for those of you who don't know jih has is things the bride's family will give to the Newlywed to start their life such as furniture kitchen supplies money Etc and it is separate from wedding gifts that was when my parents said that they will not be giving me any Jihad since I'm getting married in a foreign country to a foreign man I was caught off guard because I thought would at least get something from my parents since I'm the first child getting married and how worried they were about my security and my new life with my husband I have to say that I'm not expecting to just get things and act like a spoiled brat but because of tradition and there is no such thing as not getting gifts from my family because I'm marrying a foreign man I voiced my disappointment te because I felt like I was being punished and was told that I will not receive anything from them in the form of jihas but they'll give me a wedding gift at my wedding I am now thinking of not having a wedding at all because I don't want to spend the kind of money on something unnecessary especially now that I have to purchase my own jih has we recently leased a house and have to buy all the appliances and furniture plus I don't see a point in one anyway I know I'm going to get more backlash for this decision but I don't care anymore I'm not willing to live in an empty house just to please people that don't care about me I still felt weird about the whole thing so I need to know some unbiased opinion ibta if I didn't have a wedding

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today we've got a great malicious compliance story all about a ladder we'll get to that in a bit but first doesn't matter if the case is closed or not okay then I work in a call center that primarily deals with the public with issues or queries they have and whilst we can deal with a lot ourselves there are a lot of things that we must either log for another department to look into or transfer them across to that department for example if someone calls about a broken Street Lamp they get transferred across to the street lighting team but if someone calls about a pothole we have to log it for the highway team to fix it some departments don't have an internal number for the caller to get transferred across to or a number we can call to speak to that department and one of those departments is the enforcement department of all the systems and departments we use in liaise with the trickiest one we deal with is the enforcement system basically ranging from food safety to the environment there were multiple teams that enforce things and all these issues had to be logged on this system for example if someone called to report their neighbor for being too loud that had to get logged on the system for the noise enforcement team to investigate but we had to arrange for letters to be sent out about it if someone reported an abandoned car we logged it in the environment enforcement team went out to investigate if someone said they got food poisoning from a restaurant we logged it and the food safety team investigated it and so on the reason why it was so tricky was because if you missed a step it didn't get logged properly or it didn't go to the correct team which meant that someone would complain to your manager about it and crucially this was a legal system which meant that if the issue escalated to court whatever you wrote in your notes could be used in the court proceedings this wasn't a second nature eyes closed kind of system you needed to be concentrating because something you log can bite you in the butt a month later for example when someone calls to say they haven't received a letter and it turns out you didn't send it in the first place the way it worked was that a case was logged which meant that it was open and it got assigned to an officer like pulling a name out of a hat and throughout the time that it was open if someone called back to give you more information about the case you could update it and that update went directly to the investigating officer and then when the investigation had finished the case was closed by that officer basically once a case was assigned to an officer they had to see it through from start to finish whether it was deciding if a noise complaint was justified or going through black bags that were reported as fly tipping to see if they could find anything that tied someone to that rubbish and so on it wasn't as simple as that though because there were cases that had been opened for years with multiple updates there were multiple cases that had been opened and closed between the same properties for the same reasons or or someone had called about something and you weren't 100 sure if it should be logged or not Etc I'm not sure how my colleagues dealt with those situations but whenever I got a call like that I just emailed the investigating officer just to explain the situation and ask for advice and cc'd in their colleagues just in case the investigating officer was off or I just emailed the team to ask if they wanted me to log it as a new case or not since if it was ongoing situation with multiple cases for the same thing many officers may have dealt with it and they may not have wanted me to log it as a new case I didn't see an issue with it because they either emailed me back with an answer or they didn't reply but logged it themselves after they'd looked into it but one day I got a thorny email from a thornier senior environmental officer basically telling me off and telling me not to send them emails anymore because the system was there to be used I emailed them back explaining that it wasn't that simple because there were tricky cases that I needed help with and I didn't want to update an old case or log a case if I didn't need to to not unnecessarily add to the caseloads of the officers and he replied back reiterating that I shouldn't send any more emails and finished it off by telling me to either update the case whether it was open or closed or open a new case cue malicious compliance from that day forward I did not send another email if I got a call about an issue and the last time the issue was raised was in 2017 I updated the 2017 case if I was on the fence about logging something as a new case or not I just logged it anyway if I checked the last case and the investigating officer had left I updated it anyway I was unaware of this but when I told people that the investigating officer would call them back like they typically did after we asked them into in our update States they would call us a couple of weeks later to ask why they hadn't received a call and my colleagues would have to raise a new case for them because the one I updated was closed the officers also suddenly had an influx of new cases because every time I updated a closed case it reopened which added to their caseload the system they used worked on dates and case loads for example if I asked them to call someone or inspect a property in my update the system generated a time frame for them to complete that action by but if they were too busy to do something I'd ask them to do it when red which counted against them also for example if they had four open cases and then they closed three and they'd gone down to one they'd go back up to four again if I updated three of their old cases So based on the system they were not doing their jobs properly because they constantly had open cases this put their stats through the floor this one on for ages and one day I was hauled into an office by my manager and waiting for me was his manager the senior enforcement officer his manager a HR advisor for me and HR they told me that I was doing call avoidance gross misconduct purposely misadvising callers and not triaging calls correctly from what they were saying and the paperwork they had with them I knew it was a your fired meeting HR asked me if there was anything I wanted to say so I looked at the enforcement manager pointed at the senior enforcement officer and said he told me to do it the enforcement manager looked at me looked at the senior enforcement manager looked at me again and then asked me to clarify what I meant I explained it all from start to finish making it clear that when I was sending emails I always asked for advice and offered to log a case for the enforcement team if they wanted me to and that before the email from the senior enforcement officer my emails either were not replied to but someone logged it for me or someone replied to me to tell me to log a new case or to not log a new case the enforcement manager sighed and then asked me if I could send him that email so I quickly left went back to my desk sent the email thread to him and came back into the office he read the email sighed deeper than he did before and then asked us all to leave but as the senior enforcement officer to stay and I left with a massive pool beating grin on my face because I knew that I would keep my job The Fallout was pretty big because the IT team had to go in and manually close all the open cases so that the stats for the Enforcement Officers would go back to normal the payroll department had to back date all the months that the stats were messed up so that the performance bonus matched what would have happened at Annette put their stats down I didn't know they had a performance bonuses until afterwards and the senior enforcement officer got demoted to an enforcement officer based on their new email signature a couple of weeks later when the enforcement manager was less busy he emailed me to basically say that he gives me permission to go back to emailing the enforcement team about cases but I should use my own judgment if I think I could justifiably get away with not logging something on the system as in I could explain to my manager why I didn't think it should have been logged then I shouldn't log it and that logic would cut down the amount of emails I had to send to the enforcement teams no one got fired but someone did get demoted and a lot of work happened in the background to fix what I did you gotta love that year was op reaching out to everybody asking for clarification and assistance to essentially streamline this whole process they got very minimal feedback to make life way easier for those people and then just got told off for it you gotta love watching that senior enforcement officer get egg on his face after he gets reprimanded finally somebody high up enough at this company realizes yeah let's streamline this system and make it work well our next story is don't bite the hand that helps a few months ago I posted a few stories about experiences at a retirement home that got me remembering other good bad and amusing times from that job including this story I hadn't been with that company a year even and I was given a promotion to food handler and receiver the company was so new at this time that construction was still ongoing and we were far from the amount of busy we would be in later years due to that and that I was not yet trained to place orders in addition to receiving them I had the occasional weekday off on one of these days I woke up and realized there was literally nothing that needed to be done around the house no laundry three no dishes no yard stuff not even any away from home errands so I decided to crack a few drinks in the AM and watch some movies early 20s what can I say turned out one of the food items I'd put way earlier that week wasn't for the residents of the home but for a big executive dining slash meeting the head chef different from one in another story but still a ding dong in his own right couldn't find the item so he called me at home to ask about it annoying but not a big deal I'm not the best at describing where a thing is if I'm not physically there but I was trying to remember to this day I don't remember what the fancy food item was only that it needed to be refrigerated so while trying to describe to the chef exactly where the item was in the walk-in refrigerator I must have been slurring a bit because he asked me if I'd been drinking I told him yes he then proceeded to give this pompous lecture on how dare I it was 2 too early am I an alcoholic Etc to which my response was I'm over 21. it's my day off freak you and then I hung up I knew right away that this wasn't really professional and sure enough the next shift there was a summons for me to go to Human Resources I told them that I agreed me cussing out chef was unprofessional then I heard the narrative Chef was giving was that he called me to ask about item at which point I custom and hung up I put my phone on the HR desk and told them to feel free to check the length of the call since it lasted nearly five minutes way longer than a call cuss and hang up I also told them that I only cussed out chef when he felt it was his place to lecture me on how I legally spent my day off as an additional shot I told HR worker to feel free to check the company's own phone records to see who called who when and for how long in the end I had to sit through an mini lecture of common courtesy my final responses were that if Chef was a real professional he would have made his job to know where that item was as soon as it came in or at least tell me when X shows up let me know and then to let them know that to avoid this in the future I would not take any more calls from work on a day off I don't think op really drilled into HR how Over The Line This co-worker was like yeah it's not okay that op went and cussed them out while they were talking business or whatever but this dude outright insulted op and called them an alcoholic essentially to their face over the phone what is The Logical response they are HR in my opinion it's thanks for your concern get bent click guess I'm getting a mini lecture too though our next story is boss won't replace light bulbs many moons ago I worked for someone selling books online he bought high-end computers but was notoriously cheap in other areas friends instance all of the fire extinguishers were out of date and we had two portable heaters for the whole building no central heating one day he stopped replacing the light bulbs this included the book room which has one small blacked out window one by one the Lights Went until I literally couldn't see anymore his solution was to buy me a wind-up torch well this torch was loud and annoying when wound up every time when he came into work and I needed to go into that room I would spend a few minutes winding up that torch he tried to ask me to stop but I'd point out that all he had to do was buy some light bulbs eventually he gave in but not before I annoyed the heck out of him every time he set foot in the office because I'd always find myself a task that meant I needed to go in there how much do you want to bet that this guy's Ploy was actually that he was so cheap then they were going to make it so miserable for anybody else there that when it comes to something as menial as a new light bulb somebody working for them would just donate one I bet that's what they were banking on our next story is Ladder used to be a truck driver and had a ladder on the back of the cab mounted with bungee cords for easy removal for when I needed it had some days off someone else drove the truck and damaged the ladder I go into the office asking for a new ladder why well it's damaged it's bent and doesn't seem safe sorry you don't get a new one when would I get a new one if you don't have one I don't care if you throw it in a ditch but as long as you have one you don't get another one next day I go ask for a ladder you were just in here yesterday I told you you told me that if I didn't have one I would get a new one they say what where is it I see in a ditch remember you said so and so gotten myself a new ladder and never had problems again if I needed some kind of tool I mean yeah I don't know if that kind of company is resourceful enough to deal with stuff like that but I mean you could recycle the ladder and get maybe a buck or two for it I could have saved some money maybe especially if they just have like a wealth of tools to hand out in exchange but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another awesome malicious compliant story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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A4 stealing my ex's attention at his girlfriend's party when I was dancing with our daughter my ex M27 and I f24 broke up over a year ago but we have a 2.5 baby girl together so we're still close and have a good relationship well there's not much else to say he's dating someone new f27 it was her birthday yesterday and my ex invited our baby and me since it was in his backyard he invited his family as well so I was mostly chatting with him my daughter was playing with her cousins and some other kids from his girlfriend's side of the family it was quite okay really he was playing music and the kids were dancing and playing my daughter and one of her cousins came up to where we were sitting and asked us to dance Too I went to dance with them then my daughter called her father and we started dancing with her we weren't at it for too much we were dancing and so were the kids SL other adults but his girlfriend got pissed off and called the party off she then personally attacked me telling stuff like why I left him if I'm not over my ex and now I'm an attention seeker [ __ ] that she knew I'd act like that when her BF told her I was coming a lot of stuff and it caused a family fight too her and her family left so it was just us my ex and his family were quite upset after his family left my ex and I talked more calmly and he said he was disappointed in his girlfriend's reaction so well some people see it as I was looking for this kind of reaction when I went to the party but I was not I was invited and I went I think it's so important to have a close relationship with my daughter's father what would be the alternative her having to see us fight all the time but I don't

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wibta if I skip my BFS graduation pictures to see my sister's dance recital please help I genuinely don't know what to do and whatever I choose someone will still be hurt for context my BF M24 and I F20 have been together for 2.5 years my sister F14 is a freshman in high school and has followed my footsteps and joining the school dance team I'm saying this BC I know how hard these girls work all year attending football games pep rallies competitions and now the final recital to close out the school year which is this Friday at 7:00 p.m. I try my best to show up for her dance events BC was always at mine even if it was force LOL and we are just very very close and I hated when she couldn't come to my dance event so at the feeling of not having your besti be there for support I've been planning on going to the show since she joined the team last year but didn't know the exact date till about a month ago all this to say my boyfriend's graduation pictures are at 600 p.m. the same day on our college campus the thing is my sister show and my hometown is 3 hours away my BF has had to reschedule the pictures twice already and this is the only photographer that has good quality pictures for a decent price he wants me to be there not only to support him but to take care of his dog basically ours

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welcome friends to another r slash pro revenge video today we've got a laxative story but first a story from bad stage 8133 he cheated not the first time either after begging for chances after cheating after chasing off any guy i tried to date after him i stupidly gave him another chance well not surprisingly he did it again three years of this bs off and on i could have destroyed his reputation or messaged the women letting him know he's a scumbag nah i bought a highly concentrated fart spray that smells absolutely horrendous reviews say that you have to use gloves while spraying because if it gets on your hands the smell will take days to remove even after intense washing i sprayed the inside of his car with it he's been missing his passenger windows for years i saturated it good luck picking up many more women while smelling like a cesspool i hope it gets on his clothes too so he has to walk around these clubs and bars stinking too you see i see this as a less serious and modern day version of the scarlet letter yeah you know that boring book your teacher made you read in middle school where instead of having to go around wearing a red a cause they committed adultery they instead have to go around for an extended period of time just smelling like absolute death is that a fair punishment for cheaters do they deserve worse than that let me know what you guys think down in the comments our next story is from that one fallen angel wake me up because you're too lazy to learn to cook for yourself enjoy having the craps not my story but my friends her brother 26 year old male is a lazy entitled who never learned how to cook for himself he makes every excuse to avoid learning from oh it's too hard to i always burn the eggs my friend was trying to sleep one day and he barges in her room asking her to make him something to eat she's pissed off so rather than say no she takes some brownie mix some magnesium citrate and mixes it together to make a nice batch of very effective fast-acting laxative brownies 30 minutes later he's pooping his brains out and can't figure out why honestly i see this as like a fairly innocent prank considering it's not going to be something that actually you know would cause any long-term damage or put them in the hospital but apparently this post was brigaded in the comments about how opie was a jerk here and went over the line and committed a crime or well opie's friend did at least is it really that serious this next story is from amagra78 batteries included i'm the youngest of three sisters both of my sisters are 10 years plus older than me so when i had my kids at 30 they were the age of not getting any kids themselves they would and still do spoil my kids rotten which brings me to december when my kid was three every sunday in december kid would get a present from ant too it's sunday morning 6 a.m kids excited for the present and there's no way in heck i'll be able to keep kid in bed for another hour up we go and the kid opens the present it's a karaoke microphone with melodies volume enhancement the whole nine yards and batteries included crap it's horrible and the kid absolutely loves it it plays for about 30 seconds before i lose my will to live kid is ecstatic and is singing from the top of their lungs to the very horrible melodies full-on volume my life is heck at this point and it's probably been only five minutes so far i sit in my chair plotting the slow and very painful death of ant ii when the evilest and petty of plans forms in my head i only have to say a few words to the kid hey kid want to give antu a call and put on a concert kid is on board and begging me to call aunt too at 6 15 in the morning on a sunday and since antu is very outgoing she's most definitely hungover at this time so i stall my very best and totally give in at 6 18. i call up ant too and tell her that the kid is so happy for the gift hand the phone to the cute three-year-old and ant too is now forced to endure a full 25 minute concert while i was sitting in my chair with my coffee smiling at ant two's suffering somehow all the gift sins have not included batteries best and most petty revenge ever i'm not gonna lie though if i was three four five years old heck even now i'd probably take a karaoke thing and i would enjoy it i'm a big fan of singing horribly to songs although i prefer in the comfort of my own privacy i'd enjoy a karaoke machine but i wouldn't give a 25 minute concert to my aunt i'll tell you that much all i'm saying is i had fun plenty of nights with a guitar hero microphone though anybody that might have been listening probably didn't by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos our next story is from louis luther666 annoying and audy driver not a biggie but it certainly made me feel better i was just on my way home and an audi was driving right up my butt usually i give some sort of what the freak hand signal nothing obscene and people back off not this lady so i move over to the slower lane when i got the chance and she sped off i caught up and passed her at the traffic lights up ahead two lanes both going the same direction after the lights the lane merge i was now about five cars ahead in the lane next to her at the merge i let those five cars go through then i got back in front of her we're now on a road that's a 30. nobody does 30 down that road ever i certainly did does anybody else just hate how easy it is to get totally beside yourself totally enraged at somebody else because they drive like a jerk they make a mistake or in some cases they're kind of endangering you like this lady driving right up on op god forbid something happens right in front of op they're getting rear-ended that's just one of the downsides about driving for a lot of people it can be a really relaxing thing but then a jerk comes along like this and all of a sudden it's like you need some blood pressure medicine for the rest of the drive because you're fuming our next story is from garden goddess 83 passive aggressive neighborly revenge long story buckle in we have a big stretch of lawn that's adjacent to our neighbor's lawn their dog often runs around on our property and we've never minded we have a dog also but we keep our dog in our yard and out of theirs we're an avid organic gardener and we grow much of our own food and are very careful about what chemicals we use on our property after having our crop decimated by japanese beetles several years in a row we did a bunch of research and last spring decided to spread milky spore on the lawn as a preventative research stated that it wouldn't be harmful to the environment or animals and we decided to spread it while our neighbors were out of town so their dog wouldn't run around on it the next day our neighbor comes marching into our yard about how we tried to kill their dog and how we're inconsiderate idiots with no regards for our neighbors and terrible people etc apparently they came home early and their dog ran onto our lawn and the neighbor claims he watched his dog eat a clump of grass that had milky spore on it and the dog got sick he screamed for about 20 minutes before my husband had enough and told him to leave the next day we get a letter in the mail typed in all caps demanding that we give him 48 hours written notice before applying anything to our lawn and that we must have his permission prior to doing so we informed him that as the land and homeowners we are not obligated to inform him about anything we do to our lawn much less get his permission but that we would give him a heads up out of courtesy and that he should make an effort to keep his dog on their side to avoid further issues we didn't hear from him for a while and then early last fall i was up back planting a few trees on our property he came out and told me that he didn't like the trees i told him sorry to hear that but it's my yard and i do like the trees so they're staying all winter every time he let his dog outside we'd watch out the window as he directed his dog over to the trees i'd planted so he could pee on them by summer both trees were half dead where his dog had been peeing on them and he told me that he and his wife were going to purchase and plant different trees for us as a replacement and that they would be a better variety i told him no and instead i dug the trees out and replanted them a few feet off the property line on our side in a spot where they weren't visible to us but where he has to see them directly out of his living room and kitchen windows with the dead sides facing his property the sides facing our property are now lush and healthy and the sides facing his property the sides he encouraged his dog to pee on are still dead and brown it tickles me absolutely pink every time i walk past the trees and i've named them my spite trees i have no regrets and i'm not sorry gosh i do not envy anybody that has to get into a neighbor's war especially over things like keeping dogs in a certain area planting trees and general policing of what you do with your land this isn't an hoa at least i hope not if i want to sprinkle whatever legal substance i want on my land i can do so our next story is from ickle bunnykins take up people's parking spaces prepare for your car to be soaked so where we live parking is a nightmare two neighbors conspire to take up the three spaces ensuring that our 75 year old neighbor can rarely park outside our house they have parking outside their garage but they want both cars outside their house i worked nights and came home the other morning and it had started to rain and for once this car was parked outside the garage and anyone else i'd have gotten a black bin liner and masked it up so no rain could get in we had the thunderstorm from heck sheer bliss after the hot weather and all weekend his bmw got soaked as no one could really see it but us and our neighbors who were away i got home yesterday after a gruelling 15-hour shift i was shattered and he was back from his long weekend away and the inside of his car was sodden he got right up in my face i'm five feet 150 centimeters and asked if i knew it was open i smiled and said yes and he lost it called me every name he could think of when he finished i told him if he wasn't such a runt and took up two spaces so his girlfriend could park and stopping a 75 year old i'd have sealed his car on friday but you reap what you sow and walked into my house leaving him fuming four hours later police knocked on the door and he claimed i deliberately undid his window out of spite i am shattered groggy and explained i'd done three back to back night shifts on little sleep and would they like to see the cctv footage i showed the footage of him driving into the space with the window open and walking away he was arrested for making false allegations i think i was too tired to think straight but i gave them the footage on the flash drive and then slept for 12 hours i didn't work last night yay but he knocked on the door and my husband answered and he's sweetness and light but he also has the don't freak with me face and i let him deal with his whining where he claimed it was a misunderstanding and would i retract the charges hubz explained i never pressed charges i just proved my innocence and he needed to talk to the cps or police the guy called him a runt and walked away thank god they've sold and are moving soon i'm sorry but unless you're like really good friends with your neighbor is any neighbor really gonna be expected to rush out there with a bin liner or whatever and try to cover that car up if you have just totally average neighbors and you leave your wonderful bmw parked outside with the windows down would you expect a neighbor to come to your rescue and cover that window up i don't think so this next story is from sharp incident 6272 my mom's other wonderful neighbor as i was writing about my mom selling her home to a karen it made me remember her other awful neighbor the backstory so my parents log home and hobby farm was along the shore of a private lake one of only 16 left in our province i believe we were in canada and one of our neighbors was a nasty german fellow who owned property across the lake he didn't have a residence there just a shack for recreation his property also included the lake bottom so he believed that he owned the water above it as well years ago he had an argument with the previous owner and strung a chain-link fence across the lake to section off his property one called to a conservation officer and he was told he had five hours to remove it or it would be removed and he would be sent a bill he removed it the previous owner came to an understanding with him that allowed him to put a pump in the lake to collect water well he changed his mind and so the previous owner put the pump on some small float so it was a few inches off the lake bottom i don't know the construction side of that so this lovely neighbor would stare at our property with binoculars to make sure we weren't on his lake bottom and stealing his water we got really tired of him peeping as he would look directly in my bedroom window which didn't have curtains as it was high up in the loft on the side of the house i would go outside and yell at him to stop staring and he would reply that he was just checking to see if we were stealing his water i noticed my daughter and nephew were jumping on the trampoline in their bathing suits so i called the royal canadian mounted police and reported a strange man with binoculars staring at our kids in their bathing suits the female officer who arrived rather quickly was shown a picture of him with the binoculars she went across his property and told them if they ever got a call about him peeping again he would be charged he kept screaming he was watching the water but she cut him off and said no more peeping that folks was the last peep we heard out of him i mean water or not this dude really had no excuse to be using those binoculars looking across the lake at anything i hate to break it to them but this isn't nestle over there on the other side of that lake they're not gonna suck up all the water you don't have to worry our next story is from jenguin af a mortgage a bank account and the petty revenge that took place over a decade back when i was four or five my parents were living in a college town for four years while my dad finished his post-doc work at an ivy league the town was heavily college based being home to not only an ivy league but also a popular state school he was being paid a mere pittance of what he could get in the private sector but wanted to finish his research at a well-known university to help him get a better and higher level job when he was done my mom had a great job in healthcare so during the time they lived there they purchased a house my dad's research came to an end and he started applying to jobs in the private sector and secured one a few hours away my parents originally were planning on renting but were convinced and they both admit it was their mistake to follow this advice by a realtor that the market was hot and they would have no problem selling the house so instead of renting until it sold they decided to put in an offer on a house in the new area before selling the original house within a few weeks of them buying the house in the new area the governor of the state of the time froze all state assistants to universities details are decades old but something along the lines of whatever he did locked universities down and they weren't hiring or expanding in any way which immediately tanked the housing market in the original city and my parents were stuck with an unsellable house my parents now were stuck paying two mortgages and it wasn't easy nor really possible for them to do so they somehow scraped by for two to three years i don't remember these years as being lean because they did everything to hide it from us but in hindsight they were lean and both my parents went without a lot to shield us from it but eventually despite them both working full-time it wasn't working for months my parents tried to negotiate with the bank in any way possible to avoid foreclosure on the first house and the bank repeatedly brushed them off and were unwilling to work out anything with them just told them to deal with it wasn't the bank's problem finally they were at the end of any possible solution and contacted the bank to start the process of foreclosure on the first house at that immediately the bank was like what can we do to work with you to avoid this despite my parents trying for the better part of a year to work with them on a solution that year caused them so much mental stress both my parents are proud hard-working people so i can only imagine what it did to them mentally and now the bank was willing to work with them that pissed them off it was around this time a sort of miracle happened my dad's company was relocating to the opposite coast and wanted him to relocate and head a department he straight up told them his financial situation about to foreclose on a house and flat broke and they came back with an offer he couldn't refuse the company would take over the responsibility of both houses for my parents and pay full relocation expenses and i believe some amount of months rent to cover my mom finding a job as it was a relocation to a much higher cost of living area within a month or two of foreclosure negotiations this happened and is why my family moved to what i consider my hometown of socal from a small town in the middle of nowhere on the east coast the first time my dad brought up at dinner his company wanting to move him my mom and him laughed like it was the most ridiculous thing ever and next i know a few weeks later we were told after the school year ended we were moving he called it the offer he couldn't refuse obviously now onto the petty revenge he was still super pissed at the bank they used that also held the mortgage they had on the first house or how they treated them leading up to this so when they were leaving this date instead of closing out their last account with them he left five dollars in a savings account and promptly forgot about it the day he told me the story was about 10 years later when the account was finally turned over to the state as unclaimed money or something like that after not updating the bank on a new address and receiving and ignoring all statements and were going to close your account statements and letters the whole time he figured the bank spent way more than five dollars over the years sending statements and trying to get a hold of him and they freaking deserved it so petty and so freaking glorious i looked in the comments and the first comment said something like sounds like insert bank name here and i'm not gonna lie that bank name also popped up into my head i'm not gonna name names but i agree with that sentiment you gotta love when banks don't wanna help you until they wanna help you at the very last dying second and it's too late thanks for absolutely nothing enjoy all the money you made off me this next story is from polywallydoodle64. need me to bring my takeout food back for a refund not a problem i decided to order dinner from a local restaurant on my way home from work i have a 45 minute commute to work one way and the restaurant i stopped at is on the way home but it's still 35 minutes to my home i'm a vegetarian and i'm very careful when ordering takeout food to make sure there's no meat in it i ordered a dish that has bacon in it as a standard ingredient i asked the person taking my order over the phone three times to make sure there was no bacon which they've done for me before with no issue about an hour later i finally get to enjoy my food first bite there's bacon i call the restaurant back to let them know and ask for a refund they said i had to bring the food back in and a receipt to get a refund because they don't handle any credit card transactions over the phone i explained how far away i live and that i'd asked three times for no bacon and would just like a refund they're refusing but they're offering me a free entree the next time i come in i hung up and stewed for a few minutes when this idea popped in my head they never said i had to bring the food back tonight so sometime later in the week i'll stop back in my commute with the food and receipt but i won't leave it in the fridge to make it extra nice for them yes i realized i could have checked my food at the restaurant but they've never given me reason to stop and look before it was also extremely crowded and there was no counter space for me to use quite frankly they might have their hands tied as far as not being able to do any credit card chargebacks or refunds but i'm gonna guess they can they just don't want to because they're gonna pay a fee for it needless to say this is the kind of thing that on your way back you bring that old rotten food in your receipt in and you also ask to see a manager or leave a note for the manager and basically tell them how you used to like the place but that experience was so awful especially as a vegetarian you're not coming back again they might not lose any sleep over losing somebody but it also could be something that sticks in the back of that manager's mind where they told us three times we screwed up their order as a vegetarian and then we couldn't even refund them reasonably now we're out a returning customer and maybe we should do better i think people will very quickly say that it's op's fault and it's not justified to get that upset but when you order something over the phone and you make it very very clear three times at what point does it become the restaurant's fault and not op's fault for checking this next story is from solo 1961 machinist quits takes blueprints with him the upcoming machinist strike at boeing reminded me of a machinist john i worked with several years ago back before cnc machines and computers were a thing in manufacturing john was a master machinist fyi master machinists are unique individuals and are worth every penny they earn the company john worked at was a startup i was hired on about two years later it manufactured specific automotive products the two owners were educated in engineering and one of them knew his way around a machine shop but john was the go-to man for machining anything and he did it well during the first year john was tasked with building jigs for the punch presses he would receive a set of blueprints from these brilliant engineers and he'd do the rest his work was amazing john would also find design flaws in the original plans but he was skilled enough where he could fix the flaws and build functioning jigs he also kept meticulous notes on the back of the blueprints all paper back on those days and kept the blueprints locked up in one of his massive toolboxes he'd been working there for three years and during that time had not received any pay raise non-union john was not a social person in fact he had a shy introverted personality he never caused drama and preferred to work alone this might have worked to his detriment he went to the owners one day and said he'd like to buy a new house and needed a raise he could or should have tooted his own horn a little bit and remind the owners how much he'd done for the company and how he deserved to raise but alas john was not the type to talk about himself he was turned down on the spot you know how it goes you're being paid the industry standard the company can afford to give you a raise john took the rejection quietly walked out of the office to the plant floor and motioned me over john says hey get the forklift i need you to help me load up my toolboxes i say um okay i helped him load it all up on the back of his truck without knowing what the freak was going on once loaded up he gives a wave and drives away word traveled quick in the factory both owners walked out of the office looked around asked a few questions and that was it i'm sure they thought he can be easily replaced for those of you who are not familiar with this type of manufacturing the purpose of these jigs was to be bolted into a huge piece of machinery called a punch press whereupon they'd cut and form parts from rolls of steel the jigs were large they weighed a couple of hundred pounds each and consisted of several parts and were unique each one was made by hand during use these jig parts would wear out and had to be replaced on occasion when john worked there he'd pull out the appropriate blueprint and create the part it would only take him 30 minutes to an hour then he'd heat treat the part install it and have the jig up and running before the shift was over it did not take long before parts needed replacing the owners had hired a new machinist and he asked for the blueprints so he could make new parts it was at this point the owners had a dark epiphany john had all the blueprints with the notes data and modified specs they called and called john ignored them they went to his house they came back empty-handed i heard it was not a pleasant exchange john denied having the blueprints they made all kinds of threats to jon but nothing worked they threatened to sue jon was unmoved and was adamant he did not have the blueprints i have no doubt there were many long discussions held between the two owners on what they should do what they ultimately ended up doing was taking apart each jig measuring each individual part with gauges and micrometers and a reconstructing blueprints for each jig there were approximately 20 jigs i don't know how many hours they spent doing this but if their work was quantified i have no doubt the cost would have run into the tens of thousands or more and this doesn't count all the downtime and missed orders from the broken jigs john won oh and yeah he had no problem getting another job from the company side i kind of get why they did what they did you know you want to try to keep the cost down and the profits up but they have to be able to identify their all-star clientele they called the bluff on somebody who was basically carrying the show their superstar worker they deserved every bit of what they got our next story is from sir randy butternubs karen goes grocery shopping and demands new bread as a teenager i worked as a checker and bagger for a large local grocery store chain one busy sunday i was bagging at a register and a regular karen came through the line she had a large order and items started piling up quickly while i bagged as i'm working karen is carefully watching my every move with a scowl on her face her loaf of bread comes down followed by a small bunch of bananas the bananas barely touch the bread which activates full karen mode oh my god you smushed my bread i say oh i'm so sorry ma'am although i don't see any damage no right there it's ruined you need to go back and get me a new loaf of bread right now i happily reply okay sure thing and walk away with the bread leaving the rest of her order piling up i slowly circled the store a few times stopping to chit chat with some co-workers about 10 minutes later i walked back up to the front of the store without swapping out our bread for a new loaf when i get back to the front i see karen standing behind the register with her things bagged up and waiting for me here you go ma'am i said with a smile as i handed her the exact same loaf of bread that's much better she muttered as she took the bread and put it in her basket has she not been so rude or if the bread had actually been damaged i would have swapped it out in about 30 seconds the rest of my day was great although i felt bad for the checker who had to bag the remainder of her order because of course she couldn't touch it herself god i love the fact that opie walked around with the exact same loaf and dropped off the same one there is nothing more satisfying than exposing somebody even if it's only you that knows by giving them the exact same thing and watching them go oh yeah that's way better and our final story of the day is from daxie saving electricity the manager turned the light off on me whilst i was in the storeroom when i asked her why she said she was saving electricity next day when i was putting my stuff away in the staff room i noticed she turned on the convector heater in the corner of the room where she sits for lunch she's always complaining that she's cold and sets the heater up in the morning so it's already nice and warm for her i went over and turned it off come lunchtime she comes storming onto the shop floor who's turned off my heater i replied i did and when she asked me why i smiled at her and said i'm only saving electricity she went off in a huff and refused to eat her lunch for another half an hour until her spot was warmed up it made the rest of the staff 30 minutes late for their lunch but it was worth it this is a great story and i love that satisfaction of flicking off something they so desperately loved but i am sat here in the summer heat reading this story about getting warmed up and it's making me want to sweat i'm getting a placebo hot flash right now i need to save some of the electricity that's firing off in my brain right now making me trick myself into feeling hotter than i really am feel like the human torch right now but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another revenge story that was way crazier than any of the ones in this video click on that left video or if you missed my latest video check out the very hot video on the right that's it i'll see you all next time with some more stories

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what is the saddest thing you've ever seen happen in a bar I bartended for close to 10 years I've worked at the party bar I've worked at veterans clubs Etc I've seen numerous people cheating on their spouses usually with a new partner every weekend I've overheard a person say that their kids were out in the car so they had to leave after being in the bar for two hours I was shocked I had no words I've seen Old Men drink to numb themselves after losing their wife of many many years I've had to serve pregnant women alcohol because I'm not able to tell them no I served a 23 year old for hours one night when he left walking to the bar up the street only for him to leave that bar with a car load of friends they wrecked three died he was the only one to survive I've given people rides home after closing so that they wouldn't drive drunk small town I knew them I've watched a man slowly kill himself while drinking with liver failure I've seen his skin slowly turn yellow his stomach extend until one day he don't come in the bar anymore a week later they found him at his house passed away I've served others who I can tell are at the beginning stages of liver failure I left bartending years ago I can no longer watch people make the choices they do

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:00.040 --> :03.840 today we've got a great soccer malicious  compliance story we'll get into that in a   :03.840 --> :09.000 bit but first am I remote or not I live in a  four-season state and work in manufacturing   :09.000 --> :14.200 so the Story begins when I got this job a couple  years ago I felt bored at my old job as a machine   :14.200 --> :18.920 operator and wanted a challenge so I took a job  as a programmer for industrial manufacturing   :18.920 --> :24.400 machines at a prototype shop I had a bit of  experience doing fabrication and prototypes but   :24.400 --> :29.640 no experienc programming the company promised me  training self-management and the ability to work   :29.640 --> :34.040 remotely when needed I've been trained and have  some good experience under my belt but still a   :34.040 --> :38.440 lot to learn no one else at this company does  what I do therefore no one knows the amount of   :38.440 --> :43.960 computer work there is from designing parts  or fixtures quoting picking tools designing   :43.960 --> :50.000 the process programming research and development  Etc we wear a lot of hats so my job is a little   :50.000 --> :55.560 bit of everything technically I work in the  back Warehouse under two supervisors my direct   :55.560 --> :01.720 supervisor and then his supervisor slco CEO since  I'm back there parttime and in my office on the   :01.720 --> :07.640 computer part-time I have two supervisors I guess  it's kind of a weird dynamic and hard to explain   :07.640 --> :13.320 but just know it's poorly managed micromanaged  and my supervisor and I hate it fast forward   :13.320 --> :17.920 to a couple weeks ago there was a snowstorm in  the office had a half day I live about an hour   :17.920 --> :22.600 north from the office and usually get more snow  than they do I decided to work remotely for the   :22.600 --> :27.600 rest of the day instead of going into the office  I got a lot of work done and I was proud of my   :27.600 --> :32.720 accomplishments for the day I briefed my supervis  on what I did for the day and he said great work   :32.720 --> :38.280 the next few days my supervisor is trying to  implement a progress tracker since we have no way   :38.280 --> :43.600 of tracking projects other than me saying how far  I got just a simple spreadsheet no problem I get   :43.600 --> :48.880 it we are a small company and the CEO is a busy  guy he doesn't always know the status and since   :48.880 --> :54.280 we all wear many hats the rest of the team should  know the status also a few days ago I had to rush   :54.280 --> :59.280 home for an emergency something was going on at my  house not that important to the story I mentioned   :59.280 --> :03.560 to my super visor that I'll be working remotely  the rest of the day he said something along the   :03.560 --> :08.720 lines of well some people didn't like that you  worked remote last time your job isn't really   :08.720 --> :14.880 a remote job I was a little taken aback since  it's probably 75% computer work and I've been   :14.880 --> :19.800 slow in the shop while waiting on tools to ship I  defended myself it's not like I don't do anything   :19.800 --> :24.400 there's still plenty to do the office was closed  and everyone else in the back got a snow day while   :24.400 --> :30.040 I worked remotely and someone gotten mad at that  he agreed with me it's silly and we both know I   :30.040 --> :34.440 ended up rushing home getting there late because I  was talking about what I should do the rest of the   :34.440 --> :39.360 day and how to fill out the tracker spreadsheet  so I can prove to the micromanaging CEO that I   :39.360 --> :44.720 work I told him I've never had to prove to anyone  that I'm working before I went home and ended up   :44.720 --> :49.680 taking the rest of the day off anyway to deal with  the issues at home and not make anyone upset or   :49.680 --> :55.400 question if I worked or not so yesterday I got an  email that we are closed tomorrow due to weather   :55.400 --> :02.040 work remote if possible I asked my supervisor what  do I do he said well do this or that blah blah I   :02.040 --> :07.120 said no I mean my job's not really remote and  everyone else that isn't capable of remote work   :07.120 --> :12.920 gets the day off you expect me to work tomorrow he  gave me a look as if to say really I spoke to some   :12.920 --> :18.080 other co-workers and they aren't working why am  I the only one working well guess what I turned   :18.080 --> :22.640 my alarm off I'm not logging onto my computer  and I might monitor emails in case something   :22.640 --> :28.800 important pops up my supervisor jokingly said take  a machine home with you to work remote implying I   :28.800 --> :34.640 can't work remotely since I need to run machines  huh very funny I mean if you can do your job   :34.640 --> :39.640 working remote I don't understand why people are  so against that I mean I totally understand if it   :39.640 --> :46.000 in any way hampers the job or quality of anything  that's going on but just being anti- remote work   :46.000 --> :50.680 just to be anti- remote work or because you want  to physically cease people in the office or at   :50.680 --> :56.200 the work site I don't think it encourages you to  work the best work you can possibly do also hi   :56.200 --> :01.120 I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy awesome stories  of malicious compliance why to hit those like And   :01.120 --> :07.400 subscribe buttons down below that said our next  story is dishwashing slit malicious compliance 2   :07.400 --> :13.200 the sequel so ever since I got promoted to prep  cook SLG grab Ando position after my dishwashing   :13.200 --> :19.440 Misadventures a lot has gone on since my last post  after my malicious compliance in the dish pit it   :19.440 --> :24.440 continued on in the grab and goat department where  I was situated in it went something like this   :24.440 --> :30.120 I'd walk into work fresh as a daisy completely  unsuspecting of anything wrong and so suddenly I'd   :30.120 --> :36.040 get blamed for the mundan of things side note I  worked with a partner who for privacy reasons will   :36.040 --> :41.480 call her Abby Abby is someone who helps me with  the grab and go and likewise if I'm in a pickle   :41.480 --> :47.280 she'll help me we help each other okay enough said  my boss would blame me for putting insert food   :47.280 --> :52.240 item in the fridge and not using it and letting it  go to waste and I would tell her it wasn't me it   :52.240 --> :59.280 was Abby and then she said well it's your area all  righty that can be arranged Q sometime in December   :59.280 --> :04.240 Abby left the grab Ando Department this detail  will be important later leaving me to do grab   :04.240 --> :09.040 Ando by myself she did chip in when I needed it  but there's only so much she could do when we're   :09.040 --> :14.720 slammed meanwhile I made sure to keep my area tidy  and put everything in its spot so nobody could   :14.720 --> :21.440 blame me for Unnecessary ball I kept this up every  day except the days I was off and weekends duh   :21.440 --> :27.840 nobody complained not even a single soul if you  follow my posts you know my boss is narcissistic   :27.840 --> :32.920 this is important because she was no longer  abusing me mentally anymore which was strange but   :32.920 --> :39.080 I ignored it as long as I actually got to enjoy my  job I could give less of a freak which leads me to   :39.080 --> :46.120 today I woke up got a text 6 hours ago explaining  that boss won't be until 6 long story shorter R   :46.120 --> :50.200 apparently she isn't coming in because she got in  trouble due to the high turnover rate which has   :50.200 --> :57.320 been going on for years and other details I didn't  ask her pry as I feel it wasn't my business to ask   :57.320 --> :02.160 so many people were hired and barely lasted a  month before leaving I lost count after five   :02.160 --> :07.240 people a new boss arrived and she seems so much  better than the previous one fingers crossed   :07.240 --> :13.560 anyway so that's the end of my narcissistic boss  finally after years of dealing with her I can   :13.560 --> :19.600 breathe easy and unlearn some bad habits that I  was taught and let's pray we actually keep people   :19.600 --> :24.640 the end thanks for reading you must feel like  Dobby is free after finally getting away from   :24.640 --> :31.160 this boss who was just making work a terrible  experience all around our next story is not   :31.160 --> :36.760 allowed to wear coats with hoods all right I'll  put up with hypothermia I 34-year-old male work   :36.760 --> :43.160 for a company famous for being anti-union pro-  insurrectionist sympathizers having two registers   :43.160 --> :47.560 open with lines longer than the drive-through  lines at Chick-fil-A the part of the store I   :47.560 --> :53.040 work on is ogp as a dispenser and during the fall  when it's chilly out we were allowed to wear our   :53.040 --> :58.360 hoodies outside along with heavy coats in the  winter last week a rule was implemented saying   :58.360 --> :03.120 we are no longer allowed to wear hoodies all  right no problem so I started wearing my heavy   :03.120 --> :08.640 winter coat as a substitution which still had a  hood one of my immediate supervisors let's call   :08.640 --> :13.760 her Karen also not her real name because the name  I originally used to describe entitled customers   :13.760 --> :19.080 is Candice I had a bad experience with her but  that's a story for another time she tells me   :19.080 --> :24.080 that my heavy winter coat still violates the no  hood Rule and had to tuck it in I had a better   :24.080 --> :29.200 idea because it was malicious compliance time so I  hung my heavy winter coat up and put my beanie on   :29.200 --> :33.440 at as the only way to stay warm since no one was  allowed to wear any form of winter clothing unless   :33.440 --> :38.120 it was hoodless the first day I saw myself in the  two-way mirror I couldn't help but think about the   :38.120 --> :45.560 SpongeBob episode can you spare a dime pantomiming  myself shaking a tin can asking spare change most   :45.560 --> :49.360 parents in my generation will know what I'm  talking about with the joke anyway back to the   :49.360 --> :54.040 story I started going out in close to freezing  temperatures and some of the delivery driver   :54.040 --> :58.240 started asking me where's my coat I couldn't help  but be honest when they learned we weren't allowed   :58.240 --> :03.960 to wear either hoodie or coats with hoodies and  they wouldn't make exceptions for cart pushers and   :03.960 --> :09.440 dispensers this went on for about a week until as  of today we got an update on the no coat no hood   :09.440 --> :15.320 Rule now dispensers are allowed to wear hooded  coats outside again when dispensing as long as   :15.320 --> :20.360 a safety is visible I don't know what sparked the  sudden change but I want to think I had something   :20.360 --> :25.760 to do with it when telling our delivery drivers  and customers about the ridiculous rule change   :25.760 --> :30.400 knowing this company would rather donate to  keep insurrectionist sympathy thers in office   :30.400 --> :35.040 over having to pay out a possible class action  suit well if anybody wants to know what company   :35.040 --> :39.440 this is it's a place where they want you to save  money and live better it might be blue but you're   :39.440 --> :44.000 not supposed to when you walk in the sliding  doors and pass the 80-year-old greeter just the   :44.000 --> :49.080 fact that in freezing temperatures you can wear a  jacket just cuz it has a hood on it is pretty dumb   :49.080 --> :53.600 and if they really wanted to do something about  it issue some actual coats for your employees   :53.600 --> :59.080 our next story is procedure documentation I used  to work for a small company which was acquired   :59.080 --> :03.600 by by a group of investors did not do a good job  that they are planning to replace everyone with   :03.600 --> :09.400 low skill contractors and sell the company for  all of 20123 they've been pushing us non-stop   :09.400 --> :15.720 to update our procedure documentation our senior  senior manager announced in fiscal year 203 that   :15.720 --> :20.280 there will be a monthly quota for procedure  documentation when there was this push back   :20.280 --> :25.800 his response was that it doesn't always have to  be complicated procedures or a perfect procedure   :25.800 --> :30.920 he was always spouting something about not letting  Perfection get in the way of of progress Etc I was   :30.920 --> :36.240 already thinking about leaving to finish my degree  so I immediately began the application process but   :36.240 --> :43.000 in the meantime for most of 2023 I met my quota  by documenting the most unnecessary procedures   :43.000 --> :48.560 but I gave them corporate descriptions so it's  not immediately obvious some of my favorites   :48.560 --> :54.960 how to turn on my computer accessing Information  Technology resources how to log on to my computer   :54.960 --> :00.920 utilizing security practices for informational  technology resources how I delete and move files   :00.920 --> :07.120 out of Google Drive allocating digital assets for  collaborative processes how to block your outlook   :07.120 --> :12.600 Calendar automating availability information  across teams how to request new office supplies   :12.600 --> :18.720 from Staples physical asset procurement since  our team will be let go in any acquisition pretty   :18.720 --> :23.920 early in the process most of the lower level  managers left or were checked out as they job   :23.920 --> :29.840 search my manager had been so distracted that they  never reviewed any of my procedures I asked for   :29.840 --> :34.760 feedback on a few real procedures to make it seem  like I was doing what they asked and basically   :34.760 --> :39.280 they simply checked off that I've been meeting my  quota I left the job in December and I've started   :39.280 --> :44.400 school this spring but I just heard from an ex-  colleague who's still with the company they just   :44.400 --> :50.120 discovered my procedures he just texted me and  said that the senior senior manager is furious   :50.120 --> :55.480 because other people were basically doing the  same thing and now most of our team is left and   :55.480 --> :00.680 they barely have anything documented I mean if  you come in in and you make it pretty clear that   :00.680 --> :05.680 whoever is working there you're going to become  redundant at some point or let go but they still   :05.680 --> :10.560 kind of keep trying to Usher you along document  your processes you know give us the secret sauce   :10.560 --> :15.440 of what makes everything work here so we can pay  people way less to just follow the bullet points   :15.440 --> :19.720 unless you're like working in a place where  there's an a legal requirement for you to give   :19.720 --> :24.600 that information up or document it who's actually  going to give the all for this sinking ship who's   :24.600 --> :29.280 there still scooping water out to the desperate  end rather than already scouring the ship for the   :29.280 --> :35.680 next available Lifeboat our next story is okay you  win we will practice and play on the other field   :35.680 --> :40.680 several years ago I coached a kids soccer team it  was a Community Recreation League with volunteer   :40.680 --> :46.080 coaches with a focus on fun and equal playing time  there were two Fields next to a school the Third   :46.080 --> :51.640 Field is a two-minute walkway and hidden behind a  thick stand of trees invisible from the two Fields   :51.640 --> :55.960 one would never know it was there but it did  have a small parking lot next to it accessible   :55.960 --> :02.120 only by a rarely used poorly maintained Back Lane  most people would park in the school lot and walk   :02.120 --> :06.640 the 2 minutes along the path through the trees  the two Fields next to the school were typical   :06.640 --> :14.000 School Fields not particularly well-maintained  uneven and definitely not regulation sized typical   :14.000 --> :19.880 School Fields the Third Field was regulation  sized perfectly maintained had new bleachers   :19.880 --> :25.360 and was maintained like a professional field with  regular waterings cutting and seating it was the   :25.360 --> :31.520 groundkeeper pride and joy it was the first day  of the new season and my team of 10-year-olds the   :31.520 --> :37.160 brown pandas our t-shirts were brown with pandas  on them showed up for our first practice except   :37.160 --> :41.800 there was another team on our assigned field a  team of talented players with matching socks and   :41.800 --> :46.800 shorts were all wearing cleats and in their late  team I approached the coach and explained that he   :46.800 --> :52.240 was on our field and that his field was a 2-minute  walkway down the path he politely told me to take   :52.240 --> :58.160 a hike he was there first and that was that so  not looking for any confrontation I took my team   :58.160 --> :04.000 to the really nice field the parents had bleachers  to sit in and we had a great time on the big boy   :04.000 --> :09.440 field after the practice the groundskeeper SL  convenor asked me why we were practicing on this   :09.440 --> :13.720 field I told her what happened with the other  coach she told me she asked the other coach to   :13.720 --> :19.360 switch Fields also he told her to get stuffed  and that was his field two days later at our   :19.360 --> :24.200 second practice his team was on our field again  the convener called me over to talk to her and   :24.200 --> :29.280 the other coach she stated just to confirm for  the rest of the season you are switching Fields   :29.280 --> :34.680 with the brown pandas on the far field and your  team on this field here yeah this is our field   :34.680 --> :40.360 and the little kids will be on the far field he  looked at us arrogantly F by me I stated grabbed   :40.360 --> :46.200 my big net sack of balls and trudged over to the  professional field two glorious weeks passed when   :46.200 --> :51.280 during practice the other coach came over with  his team and saw our field he approached me and   :51.280 --> :56.320 told me that we needed to switch Fields I laughed  in his face go get the convener over so we can   :56.320 --> :00.960 discuss I turned my back on him and probably  probably did something like tie a kid's shoe   :00.960 --> :07.120 or dry some tears remember they were 10-year-olds  his team started trying to use our field one of   :07.120 --> :11.600 the brown pandas was scared of the bigger kids  and started crying a couple of parents stepped   :11.600 --> :16.560 in and started Sho them away before one of the  10-year-olds got hurt he returned with his entire   :16.560 --> :23.400 team and the covor she was beaming she asked him  if he remembered our conversation two weeks ago he   :23.400 --> :28.160 started to argue she told him that we were keeping  with the terms of that agreement and to go back to   :28.160 --> :34.800 his own field go on scoot I remember her saying  we had our first game the next week all the brown   :34.800 --> :40.160 panda parents were in attendance watching their  children playing soccer on a beautiful field with   :40.160 --> :45.480 semi-comfortable seating and a working scoreboard  as we left we walked by the other team playing on   :45.480 --> :50.640 a muddy undersized field they eventually changed  their game dates and times so that they could   :50.640 --> :56.160 use the big field but had to practice on the old  field the brown pandas never had to set foot on   :56.160 --> :02.760 the older field all season I can't lie hearing the  story every time I heard op say brown pandas I was   :02.760 --> :07.640 just thinking of like the Backyard Sports Games  if anybody's ever played those or alternatively   :07.640 --> :12.280 Legends of the Hidden Temple thinking about the  best team the silver snakes but with that being   :12.280 --> :17.040 said that's all the time we have for today now  if you want to hear another absolutely awesome   :17.040 --> :21.320 malicious compliance story check out that  video on the left or if you missed my latest   :21.320 --> :26.560 video check out that video on the right that said  I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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girlfriend insulted my looks and I told her to get out of my apartment I 25m got into an argument with my girlfriend 22f earlier today we'd been dating since September and we're 24 and 21 back then she was over at my place the argument was very stupid just about not being able to give each other a lot of time I work full-time and she's still in school she's upset that I apparently don't give her enough time while I brought up that she's always at her near campus and spends most nights at her in her roommate's house with that being said I make more of an effort to spend time with her than she does with me I text her more to hang out and call her over to my place more than she calls me to hers this led to a back and forth and eventually I just told her that I felt like I was doing most of the work in the relationship to which she tells me well you're not even that good-looking so you better ouch that hurt I'm clearly the less attractive one in the relationship one of my biggest insecurities my friends always made jokes about how I went above my league with her also saying there's no way it's genuine and that she must be a gold digger for my $65,000 a year job but turns out those weren't just jokes I got bullied hard as a kid for my appearance and although I look much better now than I did at 17 I'm still not someone you'd turn your neck around to get a second look at on the streets I'll likely never be when she saw me pause and stare blankly at her she started tearing up and apologizing telling me she didn't mean any of it it really did upset me and I needed time to process it I just wanted time to myself to reflect on everything about my life and what I wanted and if I could still improve I asked her to go back home to which she responded with I'm really sorry let's just start over listen I'm

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AIT ta for telling my friend I hadn't asked for her opinion about my hair I 22f recently decided to dye a pink streak into my hair it made a fun change from my usual look and honestly gave me a boost of confidence I got some compliments on it that were very sweet but I'm more focused on how good I feel Within Myself one of my friends Ella 23f is not a fan of my hair the first time I was out with her after I died it she laughed and said I look like a children's show host honestly I found that pretty funny and I don't take myself very seriously when I don't think there's any malice in what's being said so I laughed about it too however over time it's became clear she actually doesn't like it and seems to really want me to know every other conversation we have includes a weird passive aggressive comment about my hair many about whether my BF thinks it's weird or not the few times she's seen him with me the first thing she comments on is my hair and tries to laugh with him about it to which he just stands there beused now Ella comes from a conservative family so I do get that she might not know any other people with unnaturally colored

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boyfriend bought his ex-wife's daughter a car while I'm riding the bus my boyfriend my baby's dad bought his ex-wife's daughter not his child a brand new car while I haven't had one in 2 years while I'm riding the bus with my baby he doesn't have that much money he works a lot but has a lot of debt but he bought her a car she's 26 the thing that pisses me off is that she was complaining about how she needs another nose job because the one she got last year as well as breast augmentation last year is botched I'm riding the bus with my baby she can buy herself a car I don't expect my boyfriend to buy me one but at least don't buy another woman a car we don't even have any Furniture besides a box spring and a mattress everything we've ever gotten for our baby is secondhand as a matter of fact I did not have insurance while I W pregnant and I did not see a doctor for 8.5 months and I also found out he was selling her $1,000 every month all that while I was panicking every day because I didn't know if the baby I was carrying was okay he never told me what he was buying or spending I found out a few days ago while looking through his phone when I confronted him about it he said she had problems paying her rent so he was helping her out she also needed a car but I remember her having a new CRV last year he told me what he was doing with his money was none of my business when when I ask him for a ride somewhere he freaks out I needed tampons on Thanksgiving and he lashed out on me that it wasn't his job to take me to the store that I needed to figure out how to take myself to places and probably a big red flag I should not have ignored he bought a house a few years before we started dating and he put the title in his ex-wife's daughter name so she would inherit it because she has three children which you know what whatever it's not my house to begin with but he then said that if something were to happen to him he works a somewhat dangerous job I would need to figure something for me and my son because his ex-wife's daughter doesn't like me and wouldn't he want me to live in the house I currently live in at this point I'm just going to leave him and move far with my child but to work full-time I need to find a way to put my baby in daycare I don't know I feel kind of humiliated I'm his partner the mother of his baby and the woman who has been on his side for years I feel like me and my child should come first this is more of a rant than anything else I am just typing as I'm as thinking I think I'm an idiot who must love to date people who really don't care about me

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what is the most inoffensive thing you've seen someone get offended by I still remember in kindergarten when my friend and I were reading all the colors out loud on one of those Crayola a super packs I got straight up yelled at and sent to the principal's office for saying orange Pizzaz because the teacher said I called someone of his hat I would not listen despite having the crayon as evidence after a 30- minute scolding and waiting for my mom to leave work to pick me up for my suspension she she came in all apologetic when I explained to her the whole situation about the school side Ma I went crazy I'd heard her say one word once that's the only swear I ever heard from her and we had just been rear ended in traffic she just went off while I'm sitting there with my jaw dropped and the principal is just red as hell I got unsuspended on the spot but she pulled me out of school for the day anyway we had a lovely day she explained very well how I shouldn't swear like that unless absolutely necessary and I've exhausted all civility when being civil simply isn't working sometimes you might have to call someone that the next day at school I learned that I now had the stigma of being the kid who got the Crayola super pack taken away that is so unfair and ridiculous to punish such a young child so harshly even if you had actually said that kids say weird stuff have to take away the whole pack of crayons geez just take out the orange possess story two we were choosing a mascot for summer camp where I worked it was the first day of camp and we'd always let the campers vote on a mascot that we'd use for the rest of the summer as sort of a bonding thing this year the kids voted for wolves as the mascot it was almost unanimous but one kid probably about nine or 10 threw a fit because wolves are quote unquote bad guys and he doesn't want to be a wolf he wants to be a hero he refused to participate in any team activities because he didn't want to be on a team with the bad guys at one point we brought in a guy in a full mascot wolf costume for some anti-bullying program and the kid had a massive tantrum I almost felt like we were going to learn at some point that his brother was ended by Wolves or some tragic origin story I did feel bad for the boy because I was fairly certain he had some kind of unaddressed emotional difficulties or something but we weren't going to change the mascot name that almost everyone else voted for the really sad thing is that wolf populations have suffered a lot due to stereotypes that they're bad story three maybe 22 years ago I had a phone interview with a baking company I didn't care to have my peers know what I was up to so I took the call on my cell phone in my car the call was crystal clear and had no technical issues at one point they had mentioned the weather and asked how it was where I was I told him that I was sitting in my car car and I could see that it was actively snowing and whatnot the interviewer asked me are you taking this call on his cell phone I told him I was and he asked me if I thought that was appropriate I asked him what he meant by that he said he thought it was kind of rude to take a formal call on a cell phone I told him I would be more than happy to conclude the interview if talking on a cell phone was an issue if he was interested I'd be happy to continue with the next day when I'd be at a desk he again repeated how rude he thought it was that I had called him from a cell phone and that there was no need to continue the interview process I disagreed with the first point but did agree with the second to this day I wonder what the hell he was talking about and where he was coming from story four at my job we often move around from desk to desk one guy left his desk with a small fan and my neighbor would point the fan at his desk a new person came and sat at the desk with the fan and rearranged everything to her liking after she went home the first day my neighbor point pointed the fan back at his desk when she came in the following day she saw the fan was pointed away from her chair she loudly asked the room if someone had been interfering with her workspace my neighbor apologized and took responsibility for it but reminded her that it was not her fan it belonged to the former desk occupant she went ballistic my neighbor was disrespecting her and her space and creating a hostile environment and she went to the floor supervisor and demanded a new seating assignment when she packed up her desk she took the fan she eventually got a seat alone in a quiet private space so that worked out nicely for her she had gone into almost the same exact fight in her last seating area and had been moved into our area to soothe her oh my God does she really just keep taking stuff wherever she moves to a new place and asking them to be moved anyway in the first place I hope so because that's hilarious I mean awful story five my name and contact details went on the cover letter for a newsletter that had 19,000 tenants a side impaired lady who I'd met a few weeks before complained that the copy she was sent did not take her visual impairment into consideration and that I was breaking the law she had some special requirements specific font and size no italics Etc I offered her the choice of we send her the newsletter as it is pics and all but blown up to A3 size to make it easier or I could copy the text into her specific requirements but without the pictures I could not do both I specifically told her if she chose option A I could not guarantee that the text would meet her needs she chose the first option so I managed to get our print guys to do one copy at A3 size I delivered it by hand the same day she'd asked for the copy the very next day at 9:02 a.m. she made an official complaint against me because the text in the version i' post did not meet her needs and she was unable to read it story six I used to work at a bookstore one of my co-workers was helping a customer who wanted a book from the top shelf of a stupidly High section coworker is 4' 11 in customer is maybe 5'2 the nearest step stool is God knows where I'm 5' 10 in and was nearby so coworker waved me over and pointed out the book I plucked it off the shelf and handed it to the customer with a polite casual here you are ma'am type of smile no big deal right customer exploded a total Karen though we didn't call them that back then apparently it was simply completely unfair that I was so tall and could reach the book easily and clearly I was mocking her and blah blah blah blah blah she went to my manager to complain I didn't hear that conversation but she left quickly bonus the book was about weddings she told my cooworker her daughter was getting married I pity her soon to be in-laws story seven I was once at a Chinese restaurant having dinner when I noticed there was a white couple seated not too far from me as they were looking through the menu deciding what to order the guy leaned over and grabbed the attention of a guy one table over he was Chinese and asked him if he could recommend something good to eat the Chinese guy flipped out and started to yell at the white guy the Chinese guy called him racist and went on about how the white guy should just figure it out on his own just like how the Chinese guy was forced to do his entire life in America the white guy apologized said he didn't know he was being offensive and went back to look at his menu I walked over to the white guy and offered my help have no idea why the Chinese guy flipped out so much obviously there were major underlying issues there but I thought it was a genuine request for help and so I don't get it story I want to start this off by saying that when this story happened I was going blind so I had some Vision but requir the use of a wiped tit cane so I am on campus one day I'm leaving a building when I spot a man in a wheelchair coming up behind me he had a squeaky wheel so I noticed the noise and looked back this man had a backpack and some stuff in his lap so when I went through the door I held it open for him being a nice guy and helping out a random person that is where I screwed up this man in a wheelchair stopped he looked at me and started yelling that he didn't need help from me he didn't need my pity and I'm only holding the door because he's disabled I waggled my cane at him and said I'm disabled as well I was only trying to be nice and open the door for you like I would for anybody I was not opening the door for you because you were disabled I'm not going to slam the door in your face because you are disabled I'm going to do it because you are a jerk then I slam the door in his face and tap tap myself away I never thought someone would get so upset by me opening the door for them so this is kind of like when some supposedly would get mad at someone holding the door for them as if we don't do that for anyone ever if you found this story messed up please take your anger out on that like button and subscribe to my channel it really helps me out and you'll make one dude a pretty happy guy let's go ahead and get back to the stories story nine so here's mine I went to Walmart the other day and of course they have to clean the buggies off before you can get one me this 6'5 man and a few others arrived when there was none and we had to wait for some so someone comes out and the 6'5 tall man pushes past me and the woman to get a buggy although he came in after us he gets stopped by a short mail worker who politely ask him to hold on just a second so he can have a sanitized buggy the man just flat out starts cussing him out getting in his face and everything thing he snatches the buggy pushes past us and starts screaming you don't know who the hell you're talking to little man down the aisles the worker handled it very well but he was scared as hell just as much as we were never knew a couple extra seconds for your own benefit could piss someone off so much another story I have is an encounter while waiting for the train me hey I love your hair so cool a girl walked by with bright purple hair which looked amazing on her so I told her and she ranted at at me about how I shouldn't talk to girls and women in quote unquote this way that it was offensive to say such a thing for God knows why that I almost exploited her I did not make any weird movements or say anything else just told her I loved her hair and that's it the quote above is literally the only thing I said awkward train ride that was since there weren't any other available spots story 10 years ago playing TF2 on a paid server I had a spray of Doc Brown it was to the face he made after he set the trash can on fire and Back to the Future specifically girls started yelling saying my spray was obscene which is crude and against the rules and that I should be disgusted Etc she contacted the admins admins came over and started lecturing me and threatening to ban me because of the no indecent content rule I explained it was of Doc Brown from Back to the Future looked at the floor and posted the spray the admins brought the girl over to have her verify it she said it was and that me posting images of a disgusting old man should result in a permanent ban the admins told her it was the actor Christopher Lloyd and from a well-known movie She grumbled some more and the admins returned her to the game they told me that they won't do anything as I did nothing wrong they also told me to try to avoid using the spray until she left they doubted she would return as she wasn't a member of the server anyways this was my first experience with cancel culture story 11 I'll never forget sometime in the mid 90s I was walking with my friends in the park talking about Street Fighter 2o we started arguing about what Chun Le says when she does one of her moves one of our friends says she goes J tuck I'm old and haven't played in a while can't quite remember the sound at that moment a cop was running by pushing his baby in a stroller he suddenly turned letting the stroller roll away onto the grass and got in our faces like he was trying to fight us cuz he thought we were insulting him not just in the middle of a conversation now I was probably 14 but the kid whose face he was mainly getting in was 11 and like 4 foot tall this guy definitely was in his 30s he was like you wanton back up your words and we were like the words from Street Fighter 2 which we don't even know why you are reacting to and we aren't even sure what the words are by the way we knew he was a cop from the shirt he was wearing and because he told us we were lucky he wasn't on duty or we might have gotten harmed story 12 I had a coworker who got mad at me because I asked her not to tickle me a that's inappropriate at work B we're not children we're not in a relationship we're not family C I just don't like being tickled she flipped out and said Everyone likes being tickled and I was being mean to her happily my boss had my back this happened over a decade ago I don't work with that woman or for that company in fact even the company doesn't exist anymore I am also a woman the cooworker was very young and immature this was her first job her first time in a professional environment and she really had no clue about professional workplace Behavior I wasn't upset because she truly thought she was being friendly but I still don't like being tickled also some people start swinging punches when they get tickled it's not safe to do it to anyone randomly story 13 I work customer service by phone and have experienced a number of times people getting super offended for little reason I do a small variety roadside assistance service calls for equipment repair product Q&A placing orders minor tech support all for different brands One roadside assistant called this guy got a flat tire on the side of the expressway they had a spare tire but no Jack so no biggie I dispatched the call and told them help would be there as soon as possible he asked for the time they'll arrive which is a common question well I can't provide an exact time only an estimate less than an hour and most of the time when I tell people that I can't give an exact time frame that fires and accidents take priority you're in the queue they accept that information and thank me for the help not this guy he demanded an exact time as to when help would arrive insert story on how he's an important person with things to do followed with we're not real if we don't give him an exact time of arrival to change his tire I verbally slapped him out of his story I can do that per my job protocols and told him I've done this work for a decade and can't tell him anything like they'll be there in four minutes and 13 seconds because it will be wrong I reiterated help will be there as soon as possible then I released a call no sense in me entertaining this offended guy who's already got help on the way when I've got other people still waiting to call for help story 14 here's a few my 7-month-old was wearing a shirt that had a rocket ship and the NASA logal and some middle-aged woman in the shop said you shouldn't be wearing that because he's clearly not an asona I was dumbfounded second one time someone got offended when I put on my seat belt thinking I was commenting on her ability to drive third I spent 9 hours deep cleaning the house for an inspection I went above and beyond clearing my work schedule and going the extra mile and my roommate double checked my work he had a complete psychotic meltdown because I forgot to sweep underneath the couch I moved out the next day and never spoke to him again fourth I was at the vet with my cat and he sneezed this was apparent L very offensive to an older woman she was there with a corgi and she started screaming at me for about 30 minutes about pet hygiene fifth at school someone didn't have a calculator and asked if anyone had one they could borrow someone offered them a pink calculator and they refuse saying that they were offended they try and give them something girly sixth I once listened to my boss trying to lecture the Fire Marshall because he was talking about something being flame her reasoning was you should just call it fireproof because was an awful word it was one of those times where I really should have tried to stop her but instead I just stood off to the side probably making a surprise Pikachu face seventh I got in trouble in kindergarten for saying the word dead apparently it was too violent eth when I was a child my mom paid for something with a check the cashier remarked that my mom had nice handwriting my mom flew off the handle and we had a storm out of the shop at outrage to this day I still have no idea what happened ninth I worked at a restaurant and we put up some Halloween decorations we had to take them all down when someone found the glittery skull decoration offensive 10th I called someone fam and she blew up at me saying that I clearly meant the nword and 11th my Mexican friend born in a small town in Mexico wore a sombrero and Poncho for Halloween a white girl told him that's offensive the Mexicans story 15 this professor Greg Patton at the University of Southern California USC was telling students in a Communications lecture last month about filler or pause words such as um or you know in English footage of his lecture which has now gone viral shows Professor Patton saying in China the common posword is that that that so in China it might be Naga Naga Naga enunciated nugga sounds like the nword which led several of the professor students to complain to the university responding to the complaint that Dean of the University Joffrey Garrett told students that Professor Patton would no longer be teaching the course it is simply unacceptable for the faculty to use words in class that can marginalize hurt and harm the psychological safety of our students he said the university says that Professor Patton volunteered to step away from his role amid the investigation into complaints made against him this is the stupidest thing to get offended over that I've seen in quite a while and damaging to actual cases of terminology being used inappropriately I read a couple articles about this and fortunately he didn't lose his job he just voluntarily stopped teaching that particular course for the term and had someone replace him he still has other courses however the entire thing also sidestep the normal procedures that are usually involved when stuff like this is brought up so the school did the professor dirty and as a person who speaks multiple languages including Mandarin where there are words that sort of sound like offensive terms in English I can't believe this happened it's ridiculous and shows an ironic lack of cultural awareness story 16 I was a hospital janitor we have two different kinds of hats to wear and one of them looks like the Hat the surgeons on TV wear and one's a shower cap I wore the surgeon one because I'm bald and it didn't velcro to my head walking through surgery after cleaning my coworker asked why I like the hat that looks like a surgeon I said isn't it obvious I like to pretend I'm a surgeon this big beast of a woman rolled out on her office chair got all up and said if you want to be a surgeon you can go to school for 10 years and learn to be one she reported me I had a disciplinary hearing with my three supervisors over the incident I told the Union steward my three supervisors lost their job the surgeon horribly botched the surgery and lost her job as well I couldn't believe it I had only made a harmless sarcastic remark I hope you enjoyed the video and if you made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy what's the worst thing you've seen a professional do Story 2 is madly unbelievable it's insane I'll see you in that video then I'll be waiting for you and thank you for watching this one

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AIT for telling my parents friends that my dad is the reason we don't see my mom's oldest daughter quick BG to start my mom was married twice she had a daughter Neeve with her first husband he died when NE was six s years old my mom's first husband's death was already tragic and traumatic for Neeve but what was worse was he died after leaving her school in the middle of the day to get back to work her class had an activity hour for parents to join in with and Ne and her dad made some kind of frame for a photo of them he was dead 5 minutes after he left the school there was an accident NE treasured that photo in the fr my mom met my dad a year later and they got married 2 years after that so NE would have been 8 nth when NE was 14 she and my dad were arguing I was too young to remember but I heard this story from my grandparent Neeve and my dad would argue about my dad being ne's stepdad and my dad wanted her to accept him into the role of a real father figure but NE didn't want that my dad would get so frustrated over it and Ne would too she wanted my dad to leave her alone and then one day it became a bigger fight than normal because NE told someone she only lived with one parent and my dad was hurt or whatever it got crazy and

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aita for refusing to allow my brother to live with or rent from me in a housing crisis I 28f have been able to get into the housing market in a good area in a big apartment my brother 36m is still living with my parents and is getting kicked out in 3 months rent anywhere in my city is $400 plus SL week I feel sorry for my bro who has been in and out of a job for the last8 months and prior to that was jbless for two years due to moving to a new job for Burnout reasons but then left his new job within 2 weeks due to bullying and toxicity he had difficulty finding a job within that 2 years he also had his car taken away because he has a lot of debt but I don't want to live with him anymore and I cannot trust him as a tenant here's why in those two years he was getting government subsidy but my mom was shocked heartbroken and infuriated that she had found him to have stolen $1 370000 from her spending it on drugs expensive shoes and electronics not even using it to pay off his debt it took a while for us to trust him again but even so

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today we make the Bank of America pay but first angry director gets her comeuppance in four gradual actions several years ago I used to work at an agency that hired us out as short-term temporary workers and contractors these jobs pretty much consisted of stuff that company employees couldn't be bothered to do and so got someone in to sort it out it wasn't great but I had to make ends meet anyway one of those jobs was for 150 hours at five weeks of office administration there wasn't much more information to go on but a job's a job the office turned out to be quite a small stuffy little building at the back of an industrial estate I was told to report to Barrel when I turned up I was met by a rather grumpy looking old lady having a cigarette by the door this was barrel barrel didn't even say hello or ask me my name but showed me in pointed at an enormous pile of boxes full of paperwork saying this all needs to be scanned in there are two scanners connected to a computer there off you go let someone know if you need help so off I went forward kick butt that pile of boxes was to be my job for the next month in a bit Joy the office was predominantly young men with Barrel being the only other woman she was in her 50s and spent more time smoking than working and without being rude clearly didn't look after herself it was quite flattering to have a bunch of these guys pop by my workstation for a chat occasionally after a few days of scanning Barrel visited my cubicle she wasn't happy that I spent too much time talking and not enough time working I was confused while I didn't have any metrics or targets I was pretty consistently working through this mountain of paperwork I got the impression that Barrel didn't like the attention I was getting I pointed out to her that I haven't left my desk apart from to go to the toilet if someone's over here to talk to me then that's fine as I can talk and scan at the same time like I'm doing right now she wasn't happy and turned away calling out just do your job as she left some of the other guys had heard this and they popped by my desk later said not to worry they'd had agency staff before and Barrel always hated it if a young woman arrived because she was grumpy and jealous not my words in fact a few years ago one young woman had left the office in tears because Barrel had tore her a new one for going to lunch with some of the other guys naturally this annoyed me particularly because Barrel thought she could bully and disrespect agency staff and I certainly wasn't going to leave the job because of an angry witch malicious compliance number one for the rest of my time there I made sure to get dressed up makeup curls a midi office dress stiletto heels one barrel saw me clicking my way down the office the next day fully dressed up just to scan some paperwork she scowled at me but didn't say anything the next week bear girl took some time out of her busy smoking schedule to visit me in my cubicle the second time she'd done so since I'd started some of the paperwork I was scanning in had been stapled together so I'd asked someone on the office for a staple remover and a stapler I used to pull out the staple scan the document rename it on the computer then re-staple it and put it back in the box I was just pulling a staple out when Barrel walked by Barrel's first words to me were what are you doing I replied that this document was stapled and if I'd put it in the machine it would jam she raised her voice slightly and said nobody told you to do that just scan each page in separately leave the papers alone I could almost hear her eye roll as she walked away malicious compliance number two so I did scanned everything with staples just folded over and then created folders called document123 and each scan went in as one two three page one dot PDF one two three page two dot PDF you get the idea this slowed me down a lot but hey it's what I was asked to do at some point Barrel walked by and saw me flipping Pages like that I'd put my hair in a bun and had taken my heels off and she smirked she thought she had flustered me and that I didn't see her reaction don't worry Beryl you didn't and I did the paperwork I was scanning in was boxed up as newest first so I got to some of the older papers these had been moved around a couple of times and were slightly scrunched up or folded or similar a jam scammer wasn't an issue it had happened a handful of times before but as I got to the older papers the jams became more frequent it was easy to sort though just open the back door of the scanner roll the paper out cancel the job and redo it at this point I'd gone back to unstabling and re-stapling because Barrel had given me enough space thinking she'd broken me and I just wanted to get the job done so I could leave Barrel walked in one day this would have been my fourth week there she saw me unjamming the scanner and flipped her top she yelled op what are you doing at this point all the heads in the office turned to where we were I calmly told her the scanners jammed I'm just pulling the paper out so I can rescan it shouldn't take more than a few minutes she continued yelling at no point were you instructed to perform it repairs we have someone for that stop what you're doing and get someone to help you I asked you this when you started why can't you follow simple instructions it took a lot of patience not to argue back with her which I thought was what she wanted but I said okay fine can I speak to the IT guy to sort this out I couldn't have choreographed her response better I then knew that she did want me to argue so she could kick me out because she hesitated and said um well the IT guy is off for the rest of the week this was a Thursday um use the other scanner if you jam it let me know and stormed off malicious compliance number three I knew her diary and knew she was off the next day Friday I carried on with the one scanner making sure it didn't Jam that day and waited until the next morning coincidentally the scanner jammed on the first piece of paper I fed into it who'd have thought obviously I rang Barrel she didn't answer her phone and as she wasn't in the office I spent the day sat around without much to do whilst talking to the guys in the office I learned that the company had been bought by a much larger it firm and they just wanted the rides to the proprietary software that they had developed it also turned out that the CEO of the small company basically paid himself into retirement and appointed Barrel as the Director Barrel knew that her days were numbered so she was even more bitter to the staff the guys working there had been committed various levels of career within the new it firm which they were happy with as I was told a hundred twenty thousand employees 30 Dev rolls are easy to find one director role is not anyway when we returned on Monday you could almost see the vein in her neck throbbing she had wasted an entire day of whatever her company paid my agency because little old me wasn't trusted to fix a paper jam I used to get in a little later than the rest of the staff agency Burks woo but when I got in she'd had the It champion perform the skilled job of opening a scanner and pulling a piece of paper out she didn't even look at me when she said scanners are fixed get on with your job and don't mess around at this point you may be thinking op this is a lot of text for some pretty trivial malicious compliance well you'll like the final part my last week there coincided with a new contract that the company had been given by their new owners I assumed it was some sort of litmus test whilst I don't pretend to understand what it was the job involved a lot of scanning documents that had been handwritten hooray more boxes at the same time a few of the guys who worked there were going on a visit to the new parent company which were based in the USA I live in the UK the It champion was one of these guys who went When the boxes were delivered to my cubicle Barrel popped by and said these take priority all of what I said to you is more important than ever do not mess around otherwise you're out of the door am I clear I said yes ma'am the paperwork delivered was from the USA our paper sizes are different the first piece of paper I fed into the scanner jammed it a safety lock because it expected A4 and got us letter instead I jammed both scanners they're all not being one to turn down a free trip to America had gone with them I rang her at 11AM UK time which was 5 a.m their time she picked up and was not impressed I felt sorry for the folks adjacent to her hotel room when she screamed down the phone you've done what how why I tell her about the USA paperwork she says can you not fix it final malicious compliance I say no you've told me many times that I can't fix these machines what's the business continuity plan side note my brother told me that phrase and he still doesn't quite understand why I turned up to his house a bit later with a few pizzas and a box of Beer Barrel had no idea what to do she was clearly flustered can you just do what you can we need this done I say what would you want me to do she says can you fix the scanners because this is really important I say I'm sorry you told me I can't do that I need simple instructions to work with she says just fix it I say I'd be happy to show him an I.T specialist where the scanners are if you can get them here to fit hang up tone well that's that then I spent the rest of the week chatting to my colleagues updating my CV and applying for jobs nobody turned up to fix the scanners when my final week finished I said bye to the guys I'd worked with wished them luck and left with none of the critical paperwork scanned in when Beryl got back from her business trip I learned that she'd spent one day at the parent company and left it to the other guys when the crap hit the fan because nothing was being delivered they wondered where she was this was day two into the five-day business trip she was at a spa phone Switched Off she flew out early on day five without seeing any of her colleagues or the parent company I kept in touch with a few of the guys afterwards after this the dev guys were transferred contracts to the larger it firm they all got a very small salary increase but were also able to work from home this was pre-covered so it was a bit of a rarity back then Barrel meanwhile didn't fare so well she was initially offered redundancy paid including pension deals but when someone complained that she hadn't been present for them meetings which I think was their It champion they found out that she'd been sightseeing shopping tanning and getting her hair done on company time she ended up being fired no bonus no pension nothing I quit the agency not long afterwards and after one or two moves ended up in a job I'm very happy with the agency Were None the wiser about any of this they just wanted their money and aside from One initial checkup call left me to it can we all agree that Beryl deserved every little bit of this I mean if you're working in a job where you know your days there pretty much are guaranteed to be numbered would you just start slacking off too I'd like to know what you guys think in the comments that said our final story of the day is I cost Bank of America eight thousand dollars legally a bit of context I've been in the mortgage and related businesses for over 30 years I know it very well I've never liked Bank of America especially their servicing division this story happened a few years ago just found out about this group I refinanced my mortgage through a mortgage broker and to my aggravation they sold the servicing rights to Bank of America The Entity that owns your loan is usually different than the one you paid to service the loan I was miffed I estimated that a Bank of America paid around five thousand dollars to service my loan as most Folks at the time expect loans to stay on the books at least three years another little fact Mortgage Services are paid .25 percent fixed 2.375 percent adjustable of your outstanding loan balance per year it comes out of the interest you pay to the bank if you want to know how much your servicer got any particular month use the formula service pay equals current loan balance times 0.25 percent divided by 12. about two months after the servicing switched Bank of America announced they'd be charging a five dollar fee for the convey convenience to pay the mortgage online truly an unwarranted money grab I'm blessed that I can put a little extra towards my mortgage payment every month so the following month I took out my mortgage payment plus four hundred dollars in quarters from my local bank I then went to my local Bank of America branch and handed them my mortgage payment in quarters and a repayment stub I asked for a receipt of payment I overpaid my mortgage to reduce the current balance and thereby reducing Bank of America's fees the nice branch manager said you can write a check you don't have to pay in coins I said I could but I would charge a 9.5 dollar convenience fee for the stamp my check and the ink used the branch manager actually laughed and said okay they counted the money and I got my receipt the next month the charge was still there so I went to another local Bank of America branch which had gotten bad reviews on Yelp due to a hostile bank manager I did this same thing the branch manager said write a check we don't accept quarters I said shall I call the local State's banking commissioner the Consumer Financial Protection board and the office of the Comptroller of the currency U.S top bank regulator and say you won't accept legal tender I asked to talk to the district manager I was making a stink after about 20 minutes he grudgingly had the staff count the quarters and I got a receipt I told the manager that I would be bringing dimes next time the next month I brought dimes he accepted them but glared at me the whole time after that payment Bank of America rescinded their convenience fee the month after that I refinanced my mortgage at a lower rate Bank of America only got roughly six months of fees for servicing they expected to last three years at minimum five years to be profitable one of my proudest malicious compliance moments I love this story because I hate how many things have a convenience fee I had a relative that recently paid a decent sum for house tax and they had to pay like 50 dollars for an online convenience fee I had a friend who had gotten a speeding ticket and they had to do an online test and afterwards you have to print out the certificate you could get that certificate for free but it would take a week or you could check a button pay 15 or whatever and get it instantly literally an instantly auto-generated PDF document that they're pretending to process for a week just so they can try and milk another 15 convenience fee out of you but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely awesome story of compliance why not check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that's it I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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a it for telling my sister-in-law I won't dress modestly around her husband I 33f have been married to my husband 33m for 4 years one year ago I had my daughter when I was a teenager I had been sexually assaulted by a family friend multiple times this has left me with a lot of complex feeling about my body my abuser told my parents that the abuse was my fault because I dressed around him he was 40s and I was 14 for years I would only wear baggy clothes and not do my hair and makeup I've gotten some therapy and worked hard to overcome these feelings of self-blame but being pregnant and having a baby messed with my body image a bit I've been working out a lot and I'm really liking my body currently it feels very freeing my sill 29f knows all about my past abuse and my issues with blaming myself and my teenage clothes for my abuse she is married to my bill 30m and the four of us have always gotten along we are going on a trip with my husband's parents my bill and S and their two boys 8 and 6m my S texted me and asked me to not bring any bikinis because she had two young boys I thought this was weird but I told her that I wouldn't if that was important to her

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my five-year-old son maliciously complied when I told him to get in the bath I'm a father to a six-year-old boy and like many parents my wife and I have a system for his nightly routine one of us does the bath and pre-bed time tasks and the other reads the bedtime story and sits with him for a few minutes while he falls asleep this particular story unfolds on a night about a year ago when he was five it was my turn to handle the bath and pre-bedtime routine it was just another evening in our household we had finished our dinner and it was time for my son's bath the process was always the same he would pee undress and then hop into the bath my son being a typical five-year-old loved to stall any process that he could on this particular evening he was undressing at a pace that would make a sloth look Speedy all the while trying and failing to suppress his laughter I had a pile of work waiting for me and my patience was wearing thin I needed him to get in the bath so I could finish up my work for the day he had managed to take off everything but his socks when I finally lost my patience please just get in the bath I pleaded hoping to expedite the process he looked at me a mischievous glint in his eyes and said okay if you say so he then moved to step into the bath pause just long enough for me to notice that his socks were still on his feet he was standing there one foot on the bathroom floor hands gripping the edge of the tub and the other foot hovering just above the water the pose was oddly reminiscent of a dog peeing on a fire hydrant as I opened my mouth to point out his still socked feet he plunged his foot into the water quickly followed by the other he stood there both saw clad feet soaking in the bath water looking up at me with the biggest grin on his face I was dumbstruck for a moment before he said you told me to get in so I got in the absurdity of the situation hit us both at the same time and we burst into laughter

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my father abandoned me after my mom died and went to live with my aunt and her kid now after 16 years my aunt's kid has thrown him out and he wants to live with me I'm a 36-year-old woman living alone in my late mother's home I have a good job and a stable life my boyfriend lives in another state but he's very supportive everything was going smoothly until last night when I got an unexpected call from my Father Andrew I was relaxing after work when my phone rang I saw it was my dad and hesitated before answering we hadn't spoken in months when I picked up I heard sobbing on the other end it took a few moments before my father could speak I'm so sorry he said between sobs I know I have no right to ask this but I need your help I felt a knot form in my stomach what's going on Dad he explained that my aunt Claudia my mom's sister had kicked him out of her house he'd been living with her for the past 16 years ever since my mom died now he was staying in some rundown place and didn't know what to do

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AI for telling my brother he's single because he's pathetic and a walking red flag my 32f brother Carl 27m was spoiled for 8 years because he almost died the short version he was very sick and spent months at a time in the hospital as a kid and both my parents and extended family gave him everything he wanted because he wasn't expected to live past 9 years old Medical Science did save his life but it took a couple of years for everyone to stop spoiling it my father admitted it was just habit but once he realized the negative impact it had on me and the entitlement of Carl things changed immediately my mother is to this day the only hold out obviously Carl hated that he was being told no for anything everyone expected him to adjust over time but he never did he even told a therapist that he'd never cooperate because he was right and everyone else is wrong Carl is extremely intelligent but he's lazy and arrogant he had to repeat senior year of high school because he refused to do any work he refused to go to Community College because he believed that he knew more than the professor he refused to get a job until he was 24 because he felt that all jobs short of CEO were beneath him whenever my Dad tried to

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parents what do you not regret doing my son bet me that he could make a piece of paper fly farther than I could so he spent 10 minutes making the fanciest paper airplane I've ever seen the look on his face when I crumpled mine into a ball and launched it across the house was priceless sucks to be a loser

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welcome friends to another r slash nuclear revenge video if you're here to get a taste of revenge gone nuclear hit those like and subscribe buttons down below and strap in our story of the days by adorablejoke6324 want to promote friends and family instead of knowledgeable current employees okay then i'll shut the facility down i thought about this one for a while before posting it trying to decide if i wanted to and if so where it should go finally after looking how it all played out it clearly belongs here sit back is this is going to take a bit to lead into everything and why it happened just to set up some background i was working for a privately run correction facility pcf for short and anonymity and had been doing so for nearly 10 years names will be admitted for anonymity reasons even though the facility is now long since closed down the pay is nothing like what state or federal employees get paid and it was a constant show of being short-handed i worked my way up through the ranks from being a front line officer in the units to visitation sergeant to shift commander and finally security specialist bear with me as this does take a bit to explain why the upward steps came when i was a floor officer i worked with others assigned to the same unit to get a general code of conduct going i.e what we would expect of the offenders and what we would let slide within reason because of this the unit we worked on ran so well that most thought of the unit as the easiest unit in the facility to work but it was because all of us ran it nearly identical and were consistent and fair eventually this caused my shift commander to move me to other areas as a test and eventually in the visitation visitation ended up being one of the most demanding positions i worked at in the facility simply because prior officers had done so little and were so behind along with my partner which regularly changed because of the stress of the position we got the visitation department up to code and went from taking five visitors a weekend to over 80 visitors a weekend on the regular after doing this for roughly three years i moved up to sergeant of visitation which was less stressful as it was more supervisory and handling complaints as well as necessary policy revisions after nearly two years i moved into shift commander here i identified several issues with our overtime policy to include significant favoritism issues as well as corrected several reporting flaws that we were constantly being dinged on by ppmu private prison monitoring unit of the department of corrections in my state because of this ppmu personnel and i became very close as i worked with him on further clarifying and correcting some of the things we weren't doing quite right this led to creating several spreadsheets in excel that more or less made tracking overtime vacation assignments and various other little managerial things far easier to track with barely anyone having to do much other than add their employees and fill out assignments for each shift this allowed us to get away from favoritism and more easily spread the copious amount of overtime fairly so everyone was doing their fair share instead of just a handful constantly being taken advantage of while also making it easier to explain monthly shortages higher ups loved it ppmu loved it and many of the overworked frontline staff were delighted by it because it allowed them to finally get some rest after 16 hour shifts while others hated it because they couldn't skate by under the radar without doing their fair share of mandatory overtime part of the new hire agreement was signing you understood there was mandatory overtime and refusal could lead to disciplinary up-determination during this time we had some changes in administration and the creation of a couple positions that were required as part of our contract with the state which was renegotiated yearly this is important to know later on this included at least one captain per shift originally we had two lieutenants a captain of housing had none prior a security specialist also a lieutenant position and changing several positions from officer to sergeant level this is where the problem started and a number of the staff started filing complaints because while the state mandated these positions the private company didn't like it cutting into their profit margin and begrudgingly agreed however our administration saw this as a way to get their friends in cushy positions money policy says to promote from within but our administration found ways to make it seem like most internal candidates didn't meet qualifications while hiring old bodies in the newly created captain and administrative positions i was eventually moved to security specialist and backup shift commander my new role was creating facility specific amendments to administrative regulations to ensure we were following the purpose of administrative regulations this entailed how our equipment was managed key set permissions restrictive housing unit visitation perimeter security and making sure all guests visitors vendors and volunteer entry policies were followed to include mandatory background checks i also ended up taking over several other excel spreadsheets that were required to show each department in the facility was accordingly staffed the required hours per our state contract agreement it was quite the handful to say the least and by closer following the administrative regulations i was quickly making more enemies as a lot of the issues started showing how incompetent the administration was namely the major housing captain and one of the other captains that were buddies the major got hired on as security specialist i reported directly to the major deputy warden and warden as well as by extension ppmu we had regular meetings to discuss issues and how to remedy them then it was my job to author the adjustments so the major could review them and sign them along with the warden before they went into effect by this time i was the sole manager of no less than five major excel spreadsheets in the facility used in various departments all of which i trained each in those departments to include major and captains as it was to eventually become their responsibility to manage them this included giving them encrypted passwords if those spreadsheets ever broke or corrupted as excel is known to do on occasions however this didn't happen and i was constantly the go-to in order to get them fixed after a couple of years of this in comes the private corp to renegotiate the contract and suddenly my position responsibilities get reorganized into their respective captain or major responsibilities at this time a new captain position comes open and i put in for it along with several others with similar experience to me and one that has absolutely bare minimum experience but is close friends with the major and another administration sitting on the hiring board needless to say they get the position and i get bumped to their old position as housing lieutenant i ask my major why i can't be moved back to shift commander where i can still at least work on all the policies and cheats i've made up to this point to which my major says to me you aren't a captain and we needed a captain there not you just be happy you didn't get demoted and stop trying to be a captain i smile and reply okay but you do know if you move me to housing i no longer have responsibility over all the work i currently do as that's all security related responsibilities and housing has different responsibilities right it's important to note that at this pcf housing and security acted like two different entities from one another and security had the final say over housing but it was housing's responsibility to address housing issues before coming to security this meant moving me to housing lieutenant instead of back to shift commander would mean i no longer had any right to correct them when they weren't following the policies i had written prior and certainly meant i had no responsibility over any of the spreadsheets they managed well that is how it works here the major replied you just didn't get the captain position i'm sure we chose the best person and there will be no issues just do what your new position is because you aren't a captain you're a housing lieutenant and you'll do only what is part of that position's assignments at this point he gives me the biggest poop eating grin as he waited three years to put me in my place for making his job harder by actually having to do his job okay i say and leave the room without saying anything further cue the nuclear revenge now i had also submitted complaints of harassment and policy violations with updates as further incidents took place causing the complaint to stay perpetually open and this was added to the complaint with documentation this was only another notch to a long going issue one that various others i worked with had also joined in on as they'd equally been railroaded harassed discriminated against to include lost wages and saw the nepotism taking place it's important to know that the policy on nepotism for this company included language stating that family and close friends cannot have unfair advantages in promotion or job placement over qualified or current employees now it isn't immediate this change but after a couple months i'm now working as housing lieutenant and taking care of my new responsibilities i've shed all responsibilities of prior spreadsheets policy adjustments and anything that doesn't have to do with my immediate department it's about this time when things start to go noticeably wrong even though i took the time to train assign management rights and give password control of all workbooks to the responsible department heads most of which was the major it doesn't take long for it all to go to crap the new captain doesn't know a thing about excel let alone any of the reporting software a shift commander has to use sometimes multiple times a day they're very lacking in the knowledge of ar and they quickly get various offender and staff complaints the major isn't keeping track of the spreadsheets he's now supposed to manage contract compliance tracking and facility entry tracking because he is just as clueless when it comes to anything computer and visitation is slowly going down the drain because none of the other captains kept open communication with the sergeant and officers to help deal with issues and staffing concerns by this point ppmu is very unhappy and demanding that these areas be brought up to compliance within 30 days or they will start to pursue fines against the company cutting further into their monthly profit margin by nearly a thousand dollars per day out of compliance for each issue on top of other fines for failure to fill contractually obligated positions needless to say these are fines that add up very fast for those who don't know at this point my housing captain calls me into his office with another of the admin to give me the assignment of fixing these troubled areas after reviewing the assignment i smile back and tell them sorry the major told me i wasn't a captain and that i was to stop doing captain work now that i was a housing lieutenant this is beyond my assigned post to fix as it requires me to tell security what to do in order to fix it we should work as a team you don't want the team to suffer for this do you he says to me then the other admin pipes in lieutenant let me get this right you're refusing to do this because you didn't get the captain position i then give the same poop eating grin the major gave me when he told me months earlier well that is how it works here isn't it security manages security and housing takes care of housing unless it jeopardizes the security of the facility then it's securities problem right i then roll my shoulders into a shrug i just simply lack the authority to do that job and the major assured me that you and the other captains all had it under control i even showed it all to you before i was reassigned remember by this point i can see that the captain is getting visibly upset as they are now entirely responsible for all the work i used to do the other admin at this point looks at me again and asks so are you refusing to do this assignment it isn't that i'm refusing to do the assignment it's just that with all my new responsibilities as housing lieutenant i simply don't have the time to do them and the work of a captain which the major made very clear i'm not supposed to do the work of any longer as i'm not a captain i then stand with a smile so no i'm not refusing the assignment i'm following the orders of a higher superior that told me to no longer do anything outside of my assigned duties as a housing lieutenant last i checked the post orders i signed stated that i was only to do assignments that are of housing unit responsibility which also is signed by the major and the warden now if you don't mind i really have other responsibilities i need to get back to and then smile to both of them and walk out of the office as i was currently in the middle of getting vacation requests and working on offender housing assignments to ensure we were in compliance with stg security threat group and racial balance requirements for the nearly 1 000 offenders in the facility about 20 days later i received a phone call while on vacation at 8 00 am from the stand-in warden our warden had been put on administration leave pending investigation along with said housing captain as this lieutenant asks the standing warden to which i groggily answered yes it is who is this this is stand-in warden and i'm sitting in the room with housing captain who's brought something rather startling to my attention he is saying that you refuse to do an assigned duty that resulted in the inability to track various things in the facility is that correct at this point i sit up in my bed and answer yes that's correct but that's becau i don't even get to finish as the stand-in has clearly upsetted my admission and interrupts me you do realize that this is insubordinate behavior that is gross in nature don't you anger clearly in his voice but a controlled anger i can only imagine that the housing captain sitting in the room with a poop eating grin am i going to get to answer or are you going to interrupt me again it seems you already made your mind up on the matter given the tone of your voice sir i respond you're correct i've decided that your negligence in performing duties as assigned is gross in nature and believe this meets the required parameters for immediate termination effective now he pipes back obviously not happy with what i said you do realize i'll be adding this to my complaint of workplace harassment and retaliation if you do so without getting the full story don't you this means that i'll be adding your name to the complaint for failure to do your due diligence in getting the full story on top of the warden you're currently replacing the housing captain sitting with you the major and several others for violation of your own disciplinary policy i'm shaking at this point angry that this is happening and that i have to resort to this extent to get the point across and yes i do have access to all of the documents including all current policies of the company the current contract between the company and this state and will pursue this if you continue with this they say you do what you feel is necessary and i'm doing what i feel is necessary as of this date you're hereby terminated you'll receive in the mail the disciplinary form and decision to include a formal answer to your complaint by the week's end i say you see if you're part of that complaint you no longer can issue the formal answer according to policy it will now have to come from corporate hr who will have to agree with your decision and already has copies of the complaint as well my voice now shaking for my own anger they say well then you'll be hearing from them i suppose then the phone hangs up but not before i could hear the change in his tone of voice as well i wasted little time in updating my complaint and notifying the corporate hr person i'd been in contact with for about six months now the aftermath a week later a notice was sent to all employees that the facility would be closing their doors permanently in 90 days and i continued to receive my full 40 hour a week pay until the day those doors closed without ever having to return to work i was then later allowed to file for unemployment as well as the technical reason for loss of employment was through no fault of my own i later found out from the hr department that the facility was closed due to four major reasons one the company was no longer making any profit due to poor management decisions that led to ppmu issuing upwards of 75 000 in fines per month on top of out of control over time due to shift commanders not properly tracking their shift officers overtime vacation or days off two many of the administration and captains had received numerous complaints of company violations to include harassment and nepotism three ppmu investigated the qualifications of some of the recently hired and promoted administration and captains as they were too suspicious that they didn't meet proper qualifications for the position this means they were entitled to backfind all the days those positions were filled simply because they were unqualified candidates four the investigation found all complaints to be valid and would require termination of nearly all of the current administration two captains and one hr for failure to correct the issues meaning it was easier to just cut their losses rather than try to fix it why was this nuclear revenge well the state had to quickly move and relocate nearly a thousand offenders 250 people lost their jobs of which 15 of them ended up fired due to policy violations resulting from the investigation of nepotism and workplace harassment a few had workplace discrimination and resulted in one person who was not receiving fair wage of others of a similar position to receive back pay of upwards of 38 000 my start of complaints led to others filing complaints for similar reasons and the nearly two years leading up to this adding to documentation of the issue that resulted in the closure of the facility even knowing the impact this had if i were to live through it again i would have still have done the same thing would you guys agree that this is a clear-cut example of why private prisons are a horrible idea do you guys feel that it should or should not be capable for for-profit prisons to even exist let me know what you guys think in the comments down below but with that being said that's all the time we have for today if you haven't yet if you could like and subscribe that would mean a lot to me whatever you do 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aita for not letting extended family stay at my house aita for refusing to allow extended family stay with me because I felt I was unfairly treated by them in the past I am close with my family and we often vacation SLV visited extended family together even as grown adults of five siblings me and my younger sister were both married each time we traveled to visit family out of town my sister and her husband would be provided with a bedroom while my husband and I were given common areas to sleep this wasn't due to seniority of age or relationship length I was married one year prior to my sister as well as was in a relationship with my husband for several years longer than she was with her husband this happened approximately 10 times not all with the same family but with various vacations fast forward to today the extended family that put me in a common room every time I visited is coming into town and needs a place to stay I said since my younger sister was always so kindly accommodated by this family member she should return the favor and let the extended family stay with her all my sisters are saying I'm being an to not make a sacrifice to host and insane to care where I slept and that my little sister wasn't given special treatment and I need to get over it the only reason I've ever been given Beyond I don't remember is that no one liked my sister's husband and they wanted him to stay in a room where they didn't have to hang out with him to clarify my younger sister now has

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aita for telling my M why I have vaseline next to my bed hello sorry for the new account I don't want this associate with my other account okay so my mil or actually I will start with my wife Tara Tara is lovely and wonderful Tara also escaped from her little Midwestern Hometown and ran to the coast the absolute moment that she could and I am pretty sure her mom took that personally her mom was born and raised in and around that small town so my M she is emotionally immature Tara read that one book about immature adult parents and she finally understood her family dynamic in a way she never did before m is not a bad or evil person she usually means very well but she's kind of I don't know how to put it self-centered like her first thought process is always how do I feel about this new information Tara and I bought a little starter home last year interest rates but we're hoping they come down and we can refinance the place was too good to pass up and her milil invited herself over last week this is something that is extremely on brand for her

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wibta for calling my mom out about her wedding my husband and I live 3K miles away from my family for background so my daughter who is 4 months old was born with a very serious heart defect that we knew would require open heart surgery shortly after birth we are fortunately able to put it off until this April to give her more time to grow my mother has been very much in the loop of this timeline and known since Christmas time that her surgery would be in April in March she randomly called me up saying she was going to fly down and visit us in April with her longtime boyfriend I reminded her our daughter will be having surgery around then and that it's important she's not exposed to extra germs and Etc she casually tells me that she already bought tickets and tells me she'll hear here between X and Y date I was not asked I was told I should clarify that they are strictly coming to visit not help out with my other kids during my daughter's surgery she wants to visit the beach go to the aquarium Etc while they're here I'm expected to play host it I was annoyed AF at this point but let it roll off my shoulder if she happens to be here when her surgery is taking place and the one plus weeks she'll be impatient afterwards recovering

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aita for telling my mom her wedding anniversary was not the number one priority for me my children were my mom celebrated being 20 years married to her her husband John last weekend they were throwing a party for all their friends and family to celebrate my family and I were supposed to go but I had to tell them we wouldn't make it a few days beforehand because two of my children were sick we live in another state so had to travel to be there and there was no way that was happening when I had two sick kids my mom told me not to say I wouldn't be there and to wait and see how things work that Saturday because maybe everyone would be all better and we could still drive out and make it but the kids were still sick our youngest was actually a lot worse and was hospitalized later that night while the party was actually ongoing thankfully we got him home Sunday but it was a lot my mom called me yesterday and wanted to know why I hadn't found a way to make it work she told me she would have thought celebrating my parents 20-year wedding anniversary would have been the number one priority for me I told her it wasn't my number one priority my children were she told me of course but she would still imagine I would make it a priority to celebrate my parents marriage I told her not in those circumstances she said celebrating your parents parents is supposed to be a good thing I pointed out to her that it was not my parents anniversary because she has never told me her in my dad's wedding anniversary he died when I was only six and that while her husband is a great guy and I get along fine with him she can't keep acting like her marriage to my dad and my dad didn't exist for context I said this to my mom because after my dad died when I was six she stopped talking about him she never wanted me to ask about him and when she got remarried she wanted me to take her husband's last name and agree to being adopted she pushed the narrative that he was now my dad and that it was disrespectful to her husband and the life they were building to mention my dad again she would talk about her husband being her only love her true love how he gave her all her kids she erased my dad and she argued with her own family from time to time when they would mention Dad her family said she and my dad adored each other while he was alive and they couldn't understand it my mom's husband honestly didn't care about me talking about my dad or mom for that matter but Mom refused she was upset when I chose to use a female version of my dad's name for my daughter she was upset that my wife and I had a photo of dad at our wedding she really just wants everyone to forget about him and focus on her current marriage anyway during this disagreement with mom over her anniversary and after I said that to her she told me that she has been married for 20 years and I'm almost 30 so her husband deserves to be acknowledged as my dad and their marriage is deserving of being a priority for me she told me she was ashamed of my childish behavior AIT t a

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my boyfriend said his ex is more attractive than me and it messed me up I've been dating my boyfriend Mark for almost 2 years now we have an amazing relationship since we're compatible in so many ways sometimes he'll brag to his friends on Zoom about how wonderful he finds me and sometimes his friends say they are jealous these past two years have actually been the best ones of my life thing is Mark is way out of my leak physically he's like a real life Instagram model my friends say they are jealous of me sometimes strangers hitting on him in public is a bit of an issue and I can only imagine what his messages look like as for me I think I'm a 510 Mark says he thinks I'm attractive and I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but it's hard not to feel a little insecure when your partner is a total catch and you look like a mountain goat before Mark and I got together he dated a girl named Lindy she was physically appealing she looked like she came straight out of bayw watch or something I saw an old picture of her and Mark embracing on the beach in their swimwear and honestly they both look stunning however other than that I know very little about Lindy Mark never talked about her her other than to say that they dated for 8 months and she was a colossal a-hole that does bring me some comfort anyway Mark was in a zoom group with his buddies just chatting about stuff I was in our room upstairs but I silently slipped out of my room and started to make my way downstairs this brought me with an earshot of mark on his laptop I heard my name said by one of Mark's friends on Zoom I froze to listen in and heard one of them say what about Lindy does everyone remember her everyone instantly started raging about her markk said come on guys in a funny SL exas ated tone I did get a flutter of anxiety when I heard her name though then someone said in a playful voice why' you get rid of Lindy Mark she was r i candy there was some laughing then another friend said yeah now we have up it was in a complaining tone and honestly it hurt a real punch to the chest even if they tried to play it off as a joke at this point I'd expect Mark to defend me which he kind of did by saying come on I know op isn't I candy like Lindy but she's an amazing girl Lindy was an a-hole hearing that was more than a punch in the chest I felt my whole body just freeze and a lump immediately formed in my throat I really wish I could focus on the positive of him saying that I'm amazing but all I can think about is him saying that Lindy was I candy and I wasn't I eventually was able to compose myself and walked past him Mark greeted me and I said hi like nothing happened but I was shattered inside it's been a couple of days since I overheard him say the Lindy thing heun's been pretty wrapped up with work so thankfully I haven't had to put on much of a performance but I've had a lot of time to think I've turned that moment over and over again in my mind I know that Mark really loves me but the fact is that no matter how much he cares about me no matter how compatible we are in other areas Lindy is categorically Superior to me in one particular area Mark finds her objectively more aesthetically pleasing than me there's no way around it I want to be Mark's best everything I want to be his best emotionally mentally spiritually and physically but there's one area I can never be his best and that just hurts so bad not even to mention whichever friend insulted me in the first place that was so eeping rude and whenever I UNC myself I'm going to figure out who it is today Mark had time off from work and he noticed I was acting differently when he asked I told him I hadn't been feeling well I'm not sure that he bought it because he said that I could come to him with anything if I needed to talk I spent half of the day just kind of laying in the guest bedroom smoking and browsing Reddit we were supposed to go to the park but I was too down I don't know how to move on from this is there anyone here who has an ex that is more attractive than your current partner how do you deal with with that do you even think about it what are your thoughts on this I really am stuck

give me a good story on my boyfriend said his ex is more ATTRACTIVE than me, and it messed me up… -orig

AIT for leaving up a picture that angers my Mill I 25f married my husband Joe 27m 4 months ago we dated all through high school and college so we have been in each other's lives and in each other's families for quite some time Joe's father died when we were seniors in high school and his sister Jill died three years ago since then his mother Jean has been in my opinion unhinged I cannot imagine her sense of loss and I know everyone has their own grief process so I really try not to judge but she makes everything about her grief she didn't come to our college graduation because she would never get to see Jill graduate from college we try to be especially kind to her on Mother's day but she spends hours at the cemetery and gets very irate if we leave before she's ready too she insists we give our first child or husband's name as a first or middle name and gets angry when we say We'll name our future children as we see fit there have been other incidents two she's done so much to push Joe away while also relying on him for a most

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:00.000 --> :00.179 Posted by  :00.179 --> :00.920 u/LovelyFireCracker 1 day ago :08.360 --> :12.080 Am I petty or is this justified? My parents list their home in a   :12.080 --> :16.560 fire and they needed a place to stay. I took  them in and there was of course extra cars   :16.560 --> :20.520 that needed parking spaces. What cars did  not fit in the driveway was parked on the   :20.520 --> :24.720 public street. I had to park one car in front  if my neighbors house, but it was still on a   :24.720 --> :29.640 public street where everyone parks often. My  neighbor never used this space for himself. :29.640 --> :34.480 My neighbor got angry and told me to move the  car. I told him my parents lost everything   :34.480 --> :38.520 in the fire and they are staying with me  for a few months and need a place to park   :38.520 --> :44.200 their car. He said “I don’t care! Move  it or I call the cops!”. So I said “No,   :44.200 --> :48.320 it’s a public street, it doesn’t belong  to you. Go ahead and call the cops.” :48.320 --> :51.000 He walked in his house angry  but that was the end of it. :51.000 --> :56.480 But it got me pretty angry that he didn’t have  any compassion for my parents who lost everything. :56.480 --> :59.360 I don’t live across from him  anymore but my daughter does,   :59.360 --> :03.560 so every time I visit I make sure to park  in front of his house and I honk the horn   :03.560 --> :09.000 to let him know I’m there. Just so he knows  it’s me. It’s been five years. I still do it. :10.440 --> :11.440 Posted by  :11.440 --> :19.320 u/OldeEnglishD 1 day ago :35.320 --> :40.360 You don’t *have* to tip your bartender I’ve been a bartender for 7+ years and   :40.360 --> :45.680 I work at a fairly popular bar, where I’ve worked  for going on 2 years. When I started this job at   :45.680 --> :50.400 the same time I also started at a restaurant  on the next block over. I only lasted at the   :50.400 --> :55.280 restaurant for 2 and a half shifts before I  realized how problematic the place was and   :55.280 --> :00.360 quit mid shift. Being that we’re a fun bar  and open late, employees of aforementioned   :00.360 --> :05.560 restaurant frequent my bar on the regular and  they have a well earned reputation for just being   :05.560 --> :12.000 crapy in general. Some examples of crapy behavior  include but are not limited to puking in the sink,   :12.000 --> :17.920 puking on the bar, being generally loud and  obnoxious, punching my manager in the face when   :17.920 --> :22.920 a tab couldn’t be paid. One time their general  manager had a bottle of a pungent liqueur that   :22.920 --> :27.720 they were going to gift to somebody later (now,  it’s illegal to bring outside alcohol into a bar   :27.720 --> :32.080 and they know this but being that they weren’t  intending on drinking it and because they were   :32.080 --> :36.680 their restaurant’s general manager, I let it  slide). The liqueur ended up breaking on the   :36.680 --> :43.040 floor leaving the bar floor sticky until cleaned  and pungent smelling even after being cleaned. :43.040 --> :48.560 Now for the short story after that long intro.  Recently someone who I assume is a server at   :48.560 --> :53.600 the restaurant just started and has been coming  in. The last time this person came in, he didn’t   :53.600 --> :58.480 tip. Counted the money twice, checked to make  sure it wasn’t sitting next to him on the bar,   :58.480 --> :03.640 nothing, no tip. He even gave exact change  down to the penny to sort of rub it in that   :03.640 --> :08.720 he wasn’t tipping. There’s no way he doesn’t  have cash he was in uniform so he just got   :08.720 --> :13.880 off his shift. From anybody who works for  tips this is a huge slap in the face and   :13.880 --> :18.840 I’m not exactly sure what we did to pee  him off but I wasn’t going to ask. I do   :18.840 --> :24.240 have one coworker who will ask people why  folks didn’t tip but it’s not my style. :24.240 --> :29.080 I’ve done this before for various reasons  but it’s been a few years but I relish doing   :29.080 --> :34.880 it every chance I get. It’s after last call and  the server is sitting at the bar and has already   :34.880 --> :39.480 finished his vodka-lemonade and has 2 people  on either side of him so he’s in the middle   :39.480 --> :45.720 of 5 people. I very methodically pour up 4 shots  and give them to each person who’s sitting next   :45.720 --> :49.600 to him while deliberately skipping over him and  tell them thanks for being great customers, they   :49.600 --> :56.160 thank me all whilst he doesn’t make eye contact. I  say cheers and walk away with a crap eating grin. :56.160 --> :59.800 So you don’t have to tip your bartender  but you might have to watch all your   :59.800 --> :04.040 friends have fun after last call  without you if you don’t. Cheers! :05.000 --> :09.273 Posted by u/xboxgamer2122  :09.273 --> :26.784 2 days ago Heart Eyes  :26.784 --> :28.080 Masterpiece Take My Energy2  :29.360 --> :30.240 All-Seeing Upvote :35.640 --> :38.000 I'll Only Be A Minute I pulled in to the local   :38.000 --> :42.440 WaWa because I had a tire that needed  air. As I was driving up to the air pump,   :42.440 --> :46.560 a woman was backing into the bay. Figuring I  would have to wait until she finished putting   :46.560 --> :51.280 air into her tires, I put the car into  park. But instead of filling her tires,   :51.280 --> :55.920 she got out and walked toward the store I  politely pointed out that her parking spot   :55.920 --> :01.360 was for the air pump. In a very snotty  voice she said, "I'll only be a minute." :01.360 --> :06.080 So I backed my car up so that my rear bumper  was a few inches from the front of her car,   :06.080 --> :11.080 essentially making it impossible for her to  pull out until I moved my car away. Then I   :11.080 --> :15.440 got the air hose and moved to one of my  tires, but waiting until she was out of   :15.440 --> :20.920 the store and headed to her car before I  started putting air into my tire. "Excuse   :20.920 --> :26.800 me! You're blocking me in!" was shouted at me.  I smiled and said, "I'll only be a minute." :26.800 --> :31.560 It took me almost five minutes to check  the air pressure, give it a puff of air,   :31.560 --> :36.320 check the pressure again, etc. And all  four wheels needed attention. I could   :36.320 --> :41.200 see her in her car on her cell phone,  and hear her complaining the whole time. :41.200 --> :44.680 When I finished, she started up her  car as I was putting the air hose   :44.680 --> :48.440 back. Then I realized I needed  coffee. As I was walking away,   :48.440 --> :53.960 she screamed at me to move my car. I just  smiled and said, "I'll only be a minute." :53.960 --> :54.319 Posted by  :54.319 --> :00.080 u/SlyLadyFox 4 hours ago :15.000 --> :17.160 Ice Cream Man Stiffed My Kid.  :17.160 --> :20.240 My kid ran outside to get an ice  cream from the ice cream man. :20.240 --> :25.080 Kiddo returned a little ... sad. I asked what  was wrong. She said, "I asked the ice cream   :25.080 --> :29.400 man for my change. He gave me this lollipop  and drove off before I could say anything." :30.080 --> :33.040 My kid doesn't like lollipops. Even if she did,   :33.040 --> :36.520 it wouldn't have been a fair  trade (not by a longshot). :36.520 --> :42.400 ANYWAY. I drove over to Costco and bought a few  boxes of ice cream bars. For the next few weeks,   :42.400 --> :45.240 my kid shared ice cream with all of the kids on   :45.240 --> :48.560 our side of the neighborhood.  My kid made some new friends,   :48.560 --> :52.760 and no one on our side of the neighborhood  bought from the ice cream man during that time. :52.760 --> :56.480 Unintended side effect: When we  ran out, other parents started   :56.480 --> :59.560 chipping in and provided snacks  for the kids who played outside. :59.560 --> :03.240 Posted by  :03.240 --> :20.080 u/Similar-Bid6801 11 hours ago :33.520 --> :38.440 Don’t like my RV in an empty field? Fine,  I’ll park it outside your front yard.  :38.440 --> :43.560 This was months ago but I love thinking about  it. At the time I was doing the RV life thing,   :43.560 --> :47.560 and my parents bought a house with an acre  flower field next to it. The plan was for   :47.560 --> :51.800 me to live on the acre for the winters when I  visited. I parked it in the very back of the   :51.800 --> :57.240 property far-away from anyone and literally had  someone coming in that week to put in fencing. :57.240 --> :00.360 Cue Karen, the neighbor across  from us. She complained that it   :00.360 --> :03.280 was an eyesore and called the city to complain,   :03.280 --> :08.440 and unfortunately I was not allowed to be  living in an RV legally on that empty plot. :08.440 --> :13.680 For some reason however I could if it  was parked on developed land (some weird   :13.680 --> :18.040 bureaucratic city nonsense where the  field was not allowed to be developed),   :18.040 --> :24.440 and the only legal/practical place was  directly in front of her yard in our driveway. :24.440 --> :31.800 So Karen got to enjoy my big ugly RV for  6 months every time she came home or left. :31.800 --> :33.920 Posted by  :36.600 --> :46.920 u/throwawayimconcern 1 day ago :59.680 --> :03.600 Ex girlfriend told me to redownload  dating apps when we went on a “break”   :03.600 --> :07.680 and I found someone. She then accused me  of cheating. I’m still with the person I   :07.680 --> :10.840 matched with almost a year later and very happy.  :10.840 --> :14.680 This took place last year  when I was 25 (I’m 26 now). :14.680 --> :18.880 Shortly after sexually assaulting me,  my ex out of the blue said she wanted a   :18.880 --> :24.000 “break.” She said to redownload my dating  apps, so I did. I eventually matched with   :24.000 --> :28.080 someone and I broke it off for good.  Turns out her plan was malicious. :28.080 --> :32.800 She screamed, threatened to come to my  house, tried to get me to go over to hers,   :32.800 --> :37.440 and then proceeded to tell me that she did this  because she didn’t think anyone would want me,   :37.440 --> :41.080 and that I’d come crawling  back to her out of desperation. :41.080 --> :43.960 Turns out she initiated the break so she could see   :43.960 --> :47.160 another man and come back to  me when it didn’t work out. :47.160 --> :50.080 She told me that she hoped the  person I matched with would “break   :50.080 --> :54.480 my heart” but we’ve been together  almost a year and we are happy. :) :54.480 --> :55.120 Posted by u/NikkiMai  :55.120 --> :13.640 2 days ago Wholesome (Pro) :19.800 --> :24.960 Insist on buying me a drink after I've  said no a hundred times? Wear it then.  :24.960 --> :27.680 Y'all liked my last one, so how about this? :27.680 --> :34.120 I had a gf in college. I was a little older than  her, but not by much. When she finally turned 21,   :34.120 --> :37.800 I took her out to her first bar.  We dressed up and did make-up;   :37.800 --> :41.600 it was a whole affair. She was  super excited for our date. :41.600 --> :45.440 I gussied up more than I usually  would. Off the shoulder blouse.   :45.440 --> :49.840 Ankle length skirt with slits that  showed off most of my legs. Stockings   :49.840 --> :54.840 with stilettos. Whole 9 yards. The  design of everything matched hers. :54.840 --> :59.240 I can't stress enough how obvious  it was we were on a date. I know   :59.240 --> :03.640 some people can be lesbian-blind, so  I made sure to pour on the romance for   :03.640 --> :09.200 her so people would cut in as little as  possible. And it mostly worked... Mostly. :09.200 --> :15.120 Some really old guy, mostly bald and had a cane,  kept pestering me all night. "Let me buy you a   :15.120 --> :21.400 drink." "I insist, let me get you something."  "Whatever you'd like, I'll get it for you." He   :21.400 --> :27.640 was like a vulture, constantly circling where we'd  been seated. He'd always try to touch my hand,   :27.640 --> :32.680 arm, or shoulder. He even came up behind me when  I was getting a refill and touched the small of   :32.680 --> :37.080 my back while inappropriately commenting  on my outfit. I made a point that I was   :37.080 --> :44.480 there on a date with my gf, and his response  was "what's the harm in some fun". NASTY. :44.480 --> :50.360 SO! My gf was asking to leave, noticing  how irritated was getting. When suddenly,   :50.360 --> :56.720 I was calm. I had the perfect idea how to deal  with the old creep. The next time he came over,   :56.720 --> :01.760 I gave a heavy sigh and said "fine, you can  buy me a drink if it means you'll leave me   :01.760 --> :07.520 alone". I gave my gf some cash and asked her  to close our tab then be ready to go while the   :07.520 --> :12.280 old creep went and requested the drink he'd  been hounding for me all night. He came back,   :12.280 --> :18.640 proudly presenting a shot of who knows what.  Smelled minty, but was dark. Maybe Jager? :18.640 --> :23.600 My gf was waiting to the side, watching.  I took the shot from him and asked "so   :23.600 --> :28.200 its mine? You're giving this to me?"  He nodded excitedly. "I can do with   :28.200 --> :33.200 it what I wish since it's mine?" Idiot  nodded again and insisted it was mine. :33.200 --> :38.400 I poured that shot on his shoes. "Next  time someone, especially someone your   :38.400 --> :44.480 granddaughters age, tells you 'no' and to leave  them alone, you should do so - maybe you won't   :44.480 --> :50.760 be wearing your booze". I proceeded to grab my  gf and rush out, leaving him screaming about   :50.760 --> :57.000 "kids these days" while trying to follow us. He  couldn't hobble fast enough, so it got left at   :57.000 --> :03.191 that. The shock and anger on his face after  I got his shoes wet as satisfaction enough. :03.191 --> :03.346 Posted by u/CampfiresInConifers  :03.346 --> :03.600 2 days ago Got the   :03.600 --> :04.240 W Masterpiece :16.080 --> :24.000 An Attorney’s Dream Case: My Parents vs the Bank In 1973, my parents had enough money to build a   :24.000 --> :27.520 little ranch house in the country.  The small bank in town approved the   :27.520 --> :32.400 mortgage & the bank signed a contract to  give “Bob” the money to build the house. :32.400 --> :36.520 Bob, as it turns out, was  overbooking himself all over town,   :36.520 --> :41.840 leaving his clueless minions to do the actual  work. The build took longer and longer,   :41.840 --> :45.160 with more and more work having  to be ripped out and redone. :45.160 --> :50.680 We’re not talking about using the wrong  color paint or nailing up some wonky trim,   :50.680 --> :58.320 here. The architect forgot to fully erase a  line on the blueprints & the framers built a   :58.320 --> :03.440 wall through the bathtub. My mother was  told “Don’t put anything heavy in the   :03.440 --> :09.240 kitchen cabinets” bc they were attached  to the drywall – not the studs - using   :09.240 --> :14.240 a few roofing nails through the back of  each cabinet. The garage door opening was   :14.240 --> :18.760 framed into the living room instead  of towards the driveway. And so on. :18.760 --> :23.000 When the bank’s representative showed up for  the final inspection, my parents met him in   :23.000 --> :28.760 the front yard & refused to sign off on Bob’s  work. Then representative became angry, as the   :28.760 --> :35.120 bank had paid Bob a lot of money. He strode to the  front door & pulled on the doorknob, whereupon the   :35.120 --> :42.640 entire door – casing included – fell on him. It  had simply been wedged (not nailed) into place. :42.640 --> :45.840 The bank called Bob, who finally  showed up to supervise the work   :45.840 --> :49.200 himself. The only problem was that  Bob wasn’t any better at building a   :49.200 --> :53.560 house than his minions were. My parents  still refused to sign off on the house. :53.560 --> :58.720 My mother was a SAHM in a nasty rental  with two tiny children while my dad was   :58.720 --> :02.960 working two jobs while this was going  on. Throughout the entire process,   :02.960 --> :09.080 the bank & Bob treated them very poorly, bullying  my mom & lying to my dad. What should have been   :09.080 --> :14.920 an exciting time for my parents was ruined.  My mom cried a lot. My dad got depressed. :14.920 --> :18.840 Finally, the bank threatened my parents  with foreclosure & Bob threatened to sue   :18.840 --> :23.760 my parents for breach of contract bc the  bank refused to pay him any more money. :23.760 --> :29.080 So my exhausted parents went to an attorney  & gave him the rundown. Plumbing, electrical,   :29.080 --> :34.280 tiling issues – the whole sorry mess. My  parents were scared. All they had was their   :34.280 --> :39.960 small downpayment savings, so if this became a  lengthy court battle the bank & Bob would win. :39.960 --> :44.880 The attorney, “Tom”, was kind, but my dad said  he could tell that he and Mom were doomed from   :44.880 --> :50.120 Tom’s facial expressions as he sorted  through the paperwork. Then, abruptly,   :50.120 --> :55.760 Tom smiled. “Let’s get everyone together for  a meeting,” he told my parents. “Tomorrow.” :55.760 --> :59.840 So my parents, Tom, the bank’s  representative, the bank’s attorney,   :59.840 --> :02.920 Bob, & Bob’s attorney met at the bank. :02.920 --> :06.000 Tom didn’t give anyone else  time to begin. He said,   :06.000 --> :10.800 “Well, my clients have decided that they no  longer want this house. Please remove it.” :10.800 --> :15.400 Everyone else start to laugh.  “Remove it? Have you lost your mind?” :15.400 --> :20.680 Tom, in a sweeping, theatrical  gesture, placed a deed on the table. :20.680 --> :24.200 “My clients own the land the  house is sitting on outright.   :24.200 --> :28.160 They no longer want the house. Get  the house off my clients’ land.” :28.160 --> :32.680 Bob’s attorney stared at the deed,  & then turned & stared at Bob. “You   :32.680 --> :37.120 built a house on land YOU DON’T OWN?” Bob nodded. :37.120 --> :40.600 The bank’s attorney started yelling  at the bank’s representative. “YOU   :40.600 --> :47.160 DIDN’T FINANCE THE LAND THE HOUSE IS ON?”  The representative stammered, “Uh…no…?” :47.160 --> :53.760 Tom said firmly, “As I said, gentlemen,  you’re trespassing on my clients’ land. I   :53.760 --> :59.960 expect the house to be removed & the land  returned to its original state, AT ONCE.” :59.960 --> :03.760 My Dad said he’ll remember the blank  looks everyone on the other side of the   :03.760 --> :09.840 table passed to one another for his whole  life. Sure, the bank could foreclose…on a   :09.840 --> :15.320 house that wouldn’t exist by the end of the  week, with no way to recoup the money. They   :15.320 --> :20.760 didn’t even own the land it was on. Bob  was out the 50% he’d paid out of pocket,   :20.760 --> :25.840 plus he was on the hook for tearing down  the house & removing it. On top of that,   :25.840 --> :30.720 the bank would undoubtedly want him to  repay the initial 50% they’d given him. :30.720 --> :35.600 Could they have gone after my parents? Sure.  A foreclosure would have meant bad credit for   :35.600 --> :40.840 my parents moving forward. They might lose their  downpayment. But to sign off on the house in its   :40.840 --> :47.200 condition at that time would have meant thousands  and thousands of dollars in cash to replace/repair   :48.240 --> :53.960 everything from the roof to the basement before  the house could be safely lived in. The bank knew   :53.960 --> :57.960 my parents didn’t have that kind of money;  they’re the ones who approved the mortgage! :57.960 --> :03.600 Suddenly, my parents were good people,  it was all SUCH a misunderstanding, & the   :03.600 --> :09.160 bank & Bob couldn’t do enough for them! The  house was brought in line with the original   :09.160 --> :14.720 blueprints & specifications immediately,  at no extra cost to my parents (but at   :14.720 --> :19.000 considerable cost to Bob). My parents  signed the mortgage. Bob got the rest   :19.000 --> :24.360 of his money (& just about broke even on the  build). The bank’s representative was fired. :24.360 --> :27.000 And Tom, attorney extraordinaire,   :27.000 --> :32.960 got a stinging tale of triumph to recall to  fellow attorneys for the rest of his life! :32.960 --> :39.720 * Before you question this tale, please remember  that 1973 was 50 years ago. Banks did things   :39.720 --> :44.800 differently back then. Smaller rural banks, in  particular, were not run the same way the bigger,   :44.800 --> :50.480 city banks were. There were far fewer Federal  regulations, & in a smaller community people   :50.480 --> :54.820 didn’t always follow them, anyway. (I’m pretty  sure they don’t always follow them now.) :54.820 --> :00.520 * Yes, they built a wall through the bathtub.  No, I’m not making that up. I even left out how   :00.520 --> :05.520 a plumber left his lunch bag on a partially built  kitchen cabinet, but the cabinetmaker didn’t feel   :05.520 --> :10.760 it was his job to move the bag so he left it  there & built the rest of the cabinet around   :10.760 --> :28.240 it. I don’t know where Bob found these people,  but they were gems, every one of them! /s :28.240 --> :28.277 Posted by u/Calledinthe90s  :28.277 --> :29.960 8 days ago Gold  :29.960 --> :31.760 Heartwarming2 Take My Energy :35.520 --> :38.480 A lawyer's pro revenge on a wife beater  :38.480 --> :42.160 Let’s call him Joe. I have to call  him something, the man I ruined,   :42.160 --> :46.800 but I can’t call him by his real name, so  let’s call him Joe. Joe was a wife beater. :46.800 --> :48.760 I was hired by Joe’s brother-in-law,   :48.760 --> :53.600 the brother of the wife that Joe beat. My  client was also Joe’s ex-business partner.   :53.600 --> :59.080 Aside from the whole ‘you beat up my sister  thing,’ my client had another beef with Joe,   :59.080 --> :03.960 a serious business beef. My client took it  to court, and gave me the case to handle. :03.960 --> :09.120 Joe and his lawyers fought me long and  hard. Joe was confident that his bullcrap   :09.120 --> :14.120 and outright perjury would carry the day.  It had always worked before. His bullcrap,   :14.120 --> :19.240 and his fists, had won him a good settlement  with his ex-wife, free of child support,   :19.240 --> :24.040 so maybe he thought that threats and lies would  carry the day once more, but he was wrong,   :24.040 --> :30.280 and after the trial I had a judgment against him,  a big judgment, far bigger than he could pay. :30.280 --> :36.560 Joe twisted and he turned and he shimmied  and shaked, but after a while I’d located   :36.560 --> :43.000 and taken all his assets. It was easy, really;  Joe had no thought of consequences, and so he   :43.000 --> :48.760 didn’t lawyer up until it was too late. If one  of my clients ever sues you, you’re in trouble,   :48.760 --> :52.960 because my clients lawyer up before they  even know your name. But Joe didn’t lawyer   :52.960 --> :58.600 up until the process server threw the papers  at his feet, and by then, it was far too late. :58.600 --> :04.720 I went through Joe’s assets like a meat grinder,  and after a while Joe had but one property left,   :04.720 --> :08.720 a house, and he clung to that  house, for it was rented out,   :08.720 --> :13.880 and his sole source of income. Joe lived in the  unfinished basement, and he survived on what the   :13.880 --> :20.160 upstairs tenants paid him. He cashed their rent  cheques at payday loan places, paying hefty fees,   :20.160 --> :24.880 but it was worth it, because he knew that  I’d garnish any bank account that he opened. :24.880 --> :28.520 Joe managed to hide his rental place from  me for a while because he owned it through   :28.520 --> :32.920 a numbered company, but my investigator  found him one day, and followed him home. :32.920 --> :38.040 Joe self-repped his way through the next stage,  which took a couple of years, while I punctured   :38.040 --> :43.360 his corporate veils and his sad efforts at  a fraudulent conveyance, but in the end,   :43.360 --> :49.360 I had his last house, the house where he lived  in the unfinished basement. Joe stepped out one   :49.360 --> :54.640 day to get a pack of cigarettes, and when he  came back the sheriff had changed the locks. :54.640 --> :58.960 “Can my client at least live in the  basement?” Joe’s lawyer said to me,   :58.960 --> :03.160 pro bono, because by this point  Joe had nothing to pay lawyers.   :03.160 --> :07.760 I knew the pro bono guy; he practiced  law nearby. As I was talking to him,   :07.760 --> :13.240 I could see Pro Bono guy’s office window across  the parking lot from my office tower window. :13.240 --> :19.080 “Ask the purchaser,” I said, “it’s out of my  hands,” and it was. I told Joe’s lawyer that   :19.080 --> :24.120 the new owner (a nominee, one of my client’s  employees) wouldn’t let him back into his crapy   :24.120 --> :30.320 basement apartment. Joe, a man who had owned this  and that here and there and all over town had just   :30.320 --> :36.240 lost the last thing he owned on earth. Except  for his truck. He still had his truck left. :36.240 --> :42.080 Joes’ truck was this big butt gas guzzling  beast that he drove around in. It was too   :42.080 --> :47.400 old and too frail to be worth seizing, so I  let Joe keep it, and I was glad I did that,   :47.400 --> :53.040 because now the truck was where Joe slept. Until  he made a mistake, and lost his truck, too. He   :53.040 --> :57.680 lost his truck the day I got a phone call from  the tenants at the house that Joe used to own. :57.680 --> :01.640 “He came back, and parked his truck  across the driveway, " the tenant said,   :01.640 --> :06.520 adding that Joe had gone nuts. He’d parked  his truck there in a rage, out of spite,   :06.520 --> :10.600 and then walked into town, saying he’d be  back later that day to sleep in his truck. :10.600 --> :15.400 “Can you get around the truck?” I asked. The  tenant could not. The driveway was blocked. I   :15.400 --> :19.960 called one of the tow truck guys that I used  to defend back in my criminal lawyer days,   :19.960 --> :23.760 and in a couple of hours that truck  was gone, and parked somewhere else,   :23.760 --> :28.200 somewhere special, in accordance  with my specific instructions. :28.200 --> :33.520 “My guy wants his truck back,” the pro bono  lawyer said the next day when he called me. :33.520 --> :39.200 “Not happening,” I said. I stood in my office  fifteen floors above the parking lot, and looked   :39.200 --> :45.080 down where I imagined my pro bono counterpart  was standing in his office, facing the same lot. :45.080 --> :47.480 “But you have no right to the truck,” he said. :47.480 --> :51.600 “He has no right to block a man’s  driveway,” I replied. It was terrible,   :51.600 --> :56.480 really, standing up high, pronouncing  words that took away a man’s final asset,   :56.480 --> :00.240 the last thing he owned on earth. I  imagined that this must be what God   :00.240 --> :04.280 feels like, before he strips a man  of everything and sends him to heck. :04.280 --> :08.440 “Are you really gonna make me go to  court over this?” said Pro Bono guy. :08.440 --> :13.320 “Do what you gotta do,” I said, and Pro Bono guy  said his client was coming in the next day to sign   :13.320 --> :18.200 an affidavit, and then they were going to court  to get the truck back. But I was unconcerned. :18.200 --> :23.120 The next day was bright and the sun was shining  and it was nine a.m. as I looked out the window,   :23.120 --> :28.360 and sipped my coffee. My phone rang.  I picked up. It was Pro Bono man. :28.360 --> :33.040 “Why didn’t you tell me that Joe’s truck  was parked right outside my office?” His   :33.040 --> :37.280 voice was tight, and I could tell that  he must have been shaking with anger. :37.280 --> :43.000 “Is that so?” I said, staring out at  Joe’s truck parked fifteen stories   :43.000 --> :47.960 below me. “How careless of my bailiff to  leave the truck where your client could   :47.960 --> :51.840 easily take it back. I really must speak to him.” :51.840 --> :55.000 “Very funny. My client’s going to sue--” :55.000 --> :59.120 “No he isn’t. He’s going to get  in that truck and drive away,   :59.120 --> :04.280 right now. I told my tow guy to fill up  the tank, and he gave it an oil change too,   :04.280 --> :09.240 gratis. Tell your client to get in his truck  and drive off, and that if I ever see that   :09.240 --> :14.360 truck again, I’ll seize it, to satisfy  the rest of my client’s judgment.” Pro   :14.360 --> :19.680 Bono guy tried to argue, but I was firm. Then  I put the phone down, and picked up my coffee. :19.680 --> :25.280 A few minutes later Joe walked out of his lawyer’s  office and over to his truck. As he walked I saw   :25.280 --> :30.480 that there was no longer a bounce to his step.  The joy had gone out of him. Joe wasn’t the   :30.480 --> :36.360 first guy I ruined and he won’t be the last, but  he is the only one whose final ruin I witnessed   :36.360 --> :43.000 from on high, from my office, and it was one  of the most powerful experiences of my life,   :43.000 --> :48.840 watching a man walk to his truck, knowing that  I had stripped him of everything else he had,   :48.840 --> :54.280 and that he owed his possession of his  last asset, his truck, to my mercy. :54.280 --> :00.400 Joe drove away, his big butt ancient truck  spilling clouds of smoke from the exhaust.   :00.400 --> :04.040 I was pretty sure I’d never hear  from him again, and I never did. :08.000 --> :13.400 Posted by u/sin-the-cynister  :13.400 --> :20.160 3 days ago Narwhal Salute :22.840 --> :29.280 Literally going to dance on my ex's grave When I was 18, I met a guy. He was handsome,   :29.280 --> :35.800 smart, charming, and (so I thought) dynamite in  the sack. A few months latr, I was miserable. :35.800 --> :40.200 It started with basic gaslighting and  isolation, then he punchedme in the   :40.200 --> :45.800 bicep. After that incident, it cooled down for  about a month, but we were always fighting. He   :45.800 --> :51.640 ordered me to study the Stepford Wives movie  and be like them; when I failed, I was abused. :51.640 --> :54.640 He refused to work, instead he leached off of me,   :54.640 --> :58.720 and never having been part of a healthy  relationship I didn't know any better.   :58.720 --> :04.360 In the final three years of our "relationship"  he used to hurt me within an inch of my life. :04.360 --> :09.160 My final interaction with him is something  that I carry with pride, even to this day.   :09.160 --> :14.400 He tried to unalive me with his bare hands  and I fought back. Due to fighting back,   :14.400 --> :20.200 I had to have facial reconstructive surgery  and the local police nicknamed me 'tiger'. :20.200 --> :25.240 It was a long legal battle to get justice  and after six years of cooperation with   :25.240 --> :30.920 the DA they dropped charges because of  my PTSD. Let me tell you, that sucked. :30.920 --> :35.800 I'm now married with an amazing daughter  and sometimes emotionally-stupid husband.   :35.800 --> :40.600 I learned two years ago that he (my  ex) unalived himself while in police   :40.600 --> :45.760 custody after being arrested yet again  for domestic violence. My husband and I   :45.760 --> :49.560 are making a trip back to the area this  winter and my husband knows where the   :49.560 --> :55.000 ex's grave is located. Guess who just  promised me a full dance on that grave. :55.000 --> :59.680 My hubs might not be perfect in wanting  a magazine-cover model (see my previous   :59.680 --> :05.680 post in tht), but you can't BUY the kind of  closure he's offering. Definitely love that man. :05.680 --> :10.320 Sorry if any of this is confusing, it's late  and my daughter is driving me bat-crap crazy   :10.320 --> :15.600 during her bedtime routine. Still,  I feel like this is amazingly petty.

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first story op ditched the birthday date with his girlfriend in the middle and ran away after his stepfather told him his mother was having an emergency seizure only to realize his narcissistic mom faked it to ruin his date and keep him on a short leash now Mom is having a meltdown after op Cuts ties with her and goes and see Hello Reddit longtime dweller first time posting burning account for obvious reasons so I 22m have been dating my girlfriend Susan 21f not her real name for a year now things have been great between us as we maintain good communication I'm posting this 2 days after her birthday which is also the time when the incident happened I'd like to say that I'm very romantic and my girlfriend can vouch that for me as for her birthday I had planned a whole long day schedule of her favorite activities along with some extras I poked here and there like taking her to the movies going out to Red Lobster despite me not enjoying seafood at all and some more this is the part where my mother Claudia 42f again not a real name comes into play due to medical issues she's prone to having sudden epileptic attacks with no prior warning so me and my stepdad Robert 52m not a real name have always been on the lookout and wary of this hence we are in contact at least once a day now my girlfriend is very well aware of this and I've warned her since day one this never bothered her and she's always been supportive of me and my father I've grown close to him and call him dad sometimes although my mom's attacks have gotten in the way of our Hangouts once or twice before we were out at Red Lobster and we were Midway through our meal when I got a call I picked up the phone since it was my stepdad I might be the arole here because I just dropped everything and took off running as you all can expect my mother had an attack and my dad told me to come over though by the time I arrived my stepfather told me that things were under control and that it was just a scare because she suddenly felt dizzy and lightheaded and her head started to hurt I thought that' be the end of it but it turned out to be a true attack as she started to have a seizure in the living room and we had to rush her to the doctor it took a good 30 minutes for her to stabilize and I called my girlfriend to let her know that Mom was okay and that if she wanted we could resume our date she told me that she didn't want to anymore and that I was an arole for leaving her like that and ruining her special day which she's told her friends who've sent me messages telling me how much of an arole I am so Reddit am I the arle relevant comments top comment yta first of all does your mother have epileptic seizures without warning or does she get dizzy and lightheaded and get a headache and then have a seizure more out of curiosity than anything about the inconsistency second of all she's a grown woman with epilepsy she doesn't need you to drop what you're doing and rush to her location when she has a seizure she needs to get her seizures under control with the help of her doctor if her husband is present he can handle the aftermath and get her medical attention two people aren't required you can still be involved and helpful but surely when it's an important day and you're occupied her husband can handle things thirdly you rushed out of your girlfriend's birthday dinner without telling her why or making sure she had cash or a ride home to go tend to someone who did not really need your help that's not prioritizing your mom's medical needs that's blowing your girlfriend's needs out of the effing water op thank you for your input on this she does it without warning and very few times with warning I can count in the finger of one hand the number of times she's given us some kind of warning about her episodes this being the fourth time her husband cannot lift anything due to a work-related injury before meeting my mom and not being mean she leans a bit on the heavier side I didn't leave my girlfriend completely blank as I had given her money earlier as part of a birthday gift money that I intend to pay back of course thank you I appreciate that you let me know my faults and what I did wrong commenter definite Define I just dropped everything and took off running because there is a big difference between answering the phone not acknowledging GF and literally running away and answering the phone saying to GF mom's having an attack and running away op the earlier I kind of just booked it though it only dawned on me later it's kind of an instinct that kicks in to ensure she's okay commenter then yta it takes less than a second to inform a person you presumably love and respect that you have to leave even just saying sorry Mom would have been enough to stay out of arle territory but just running away was disrespectful op I see thank you for your input I do realize I lack a lot of communication commenter down voted no did you leave and not say anything to the point that she might have been unsure why you left is there a specific reason you need to be there for every attack like are you needed is it the case that she didn't make it through this attack you say your girlfriend said it was a special night was this a specific date for something special I read that it was her birthday can you set things up with your stepdad beforehand to not call unless it's really an emergency your girlfriend might just want to feel like a priority sometimes and not always feel like coming in second op I am needed in every case because my stepfather cannot carry my mother into his truck in case she does suffer one like this case yeah it was her birthday yeah I've talked to my stepfather before and told him not to call me unless there's a true emergency as such in his worried spouse judgment he assumed it to be a real case I hadn't seen it that way I'll need to talk to my girlfriend about that and if she really feels like that thank you for your comment commenter what about calling an ambulance or is this USA op I've asked my father about that before why not the ambulance he says he doesn't really know it's just his first instinct to call me USA indeed commenter adults don't run out of the restaurant in the middle of dinner with with no communication and leave their partner on their birthday with the bill he didn't even say anything he just ran out also there was no medical emergency at the time and this is a known medical condition which also makes it not a medical emergency at some point op is going to have to somewhat distance himself if he plans to have a family or a long-term relationship op just clarifying I didn't leave her with the bill and no way to pay it since I had given her some money beforehand as a birthday gift and I intend to pay it back but thank you for this input like another comment it makes me realize I lack a bit of communication regarding this matter but it's like a fight or flight response I just need to make sure that my mother is okay that last part of your comment about having to distance myself and decide between relationships and family really makes me think thank you op is voted yta update 12 Days Later hello again Reddit a lot of stuff has happened in the past few days and I don't even know where to start or where my head is right now it just feels surreal right now many of you will be disappointed to hear this but I and my girlfriend are still together apologies to those who commented but didn't get a reply I did read each and every comment and took it to heart even the ones that came out rougher on the edges it was ey opening to say the least it made me realize a lot of things the same day as the original post I messaged my girlfriend to talk with her she told me she was at her parents's house so I went over and we had a talk I apologized for leaving so abruptly without making sure she was okay but I didn't know any better since that's what I was raised like and what I was taught she said she understood and apologized for slandering me with her friends but she only wanted her opinion validated okay no biggie I asked her if she ever felt second in line whenever it came to my mother and she said yes this was making me open my eyes more and more to the situation at hand as the comments were pointing out I admit I cried a bit and my girlfriend held me and consoled me I went to sleep on it and the next morning I took my leave to go confront my parents my girlfriend insisted on tagging along but understood when I told her that this was something I had to do on my own I arrived at my parents's place and my mom greeted me like nothing had happened she felt something was off when I didn't reply and I told her to sit down and have a talk with me she looked really worried I was blunt and outright asked if she was really sick because the more I thought of it more like the more I recall the comments calling me out and her behavior the more odd it looked did she really have seizures if she has seizures why do she have her husband call me instead of an ambulance I pointed out how if those were real seizures like I've read online she'd be either aggressive towards us or have no idea who she is where she is or why as a few redditors suspected she doesn't have seizures it just turned out to be a controlling movement on her side to keep me around and short leashed it was one of the worst feelings I've ever experience experienced and it genuinely made me nauseous my whole life was built on a lie you can tell the turmoil anger sadness shock disappointment and everything else going down to me at once and then my stepfather walked in I only asked him once if he was a part of this and he couldn't look me in the eye right then and there I knew that I had no family anymore so I left on my way to work I started getting bombarded with calls and texts from her but I simply blocked her and ignored her so here's where I'm sitting right now comment commenter why would people be dissatisfied to know you're still with your girlfriend I'm lost op if you read part one you'd understand that some comments were saying it was down to my girlfriend to leave me du to what I did editors note people were indeed brutal in some of the comments Second Story my estranged cousin invited me to her wedding then accused me of stealing her jewelry and publicly humiliated me later they conveniently found them but my cousin and her family refused to apologize because it was too embarrassing for her so I humiliated them and sent a legal notice hey Reddit I'm in a tough spot and could really use some outside perspective on this situation so my cousin Emma and I have never been particularly close but we've always been civil when she got engaged in December 2022 I sent her a thoughtful present which she thanked me for repeatedly fast forward to February and Emma invited me to her wedding in April 2024 living abroad and starting a new job I made it clear that I needed advanced notice to attend and thankfully I managed to make it Emma asked me to be part of her wedding entry and despite our not being very close I agreed hoping it would help us build a better relationship however just a week before the wedding I found out she'd been talking negatively about me and my career as a project manager it stung but I didn't want to cause drama before her big day so I kept quiet during the wedding weekend I helped Emma get dressed for her Hindu ceremony and her mom told me to leave the jewelry as she would handle it later so I only packed away the Bangals the entry went smoothly and I attended the reception without any complaints however after the wedding I chose not to leave a gift intending to address the hurtful comments privately after the festivities Days Later Emma asked me about the missing jewelry and I told her I hadn't touched it beyond what her mom instructed later that day I saw I'm a posting on Facebook about missing jewelry and implying that someone in the family might have taken it I felt uneasy especially since her mom and I were the only family members helping her get dressed then things escalated when her sister made comments on the post saying we didn't like her anyway her mom reached out to me asking about the Bangals which made me feel like they were singling me out even my grandmother called further cementing that they may have discussed me as a suspect finally another cousin messaged me saying the jewelry was found boxed up in a car but Emma refuses to retract her accusations online because she's embarrassed feeling betrayed I chose to cut Emma and her mom out of my life I deleted them from my social media accounts and blocked their numbers now my grandma is upset saying I was unfair for not explaining myself so Reddit am I the jerk for cutting them off without explanation should I have handled the situation differently thanks for your insights additional information from the op op adding to my post I would like to add that Emma and I are first cousins Jessica who told me about the update is a second cousin who is distant from Emma so it sounds like this was being discussed with everyone but me I am thankful that Jessica heard it and decided to let me know immediately adaa has no consensus bot the op was NTA relevant comments op on if she has received an apology regarding the missing jewelry op no no apologies from their end all I've heard since was she's embarrassed to pull her posts and say she found them severe ad 7,761 NTA probably way off but this was probably a setup if she doesn't like you and y'all aren't that close then why ask you along with her mother to help her get ready why not her sister that last minute invite it was either a happy coincidence to be able to accuse you or she set you up but someone else discovered or found the jewelry where they weren't supposed to be looking a box in a car that you would think would have already been taken out by now op I did not think about it this this way her sister was popping in and out of the changing room I did not think anything of it at the time it's sick if they truly wanted to use that against me and not speak up even if they post a retraction I want nothing to do with them accusing me and finding it just recently in your car is unacceptable op on if her grandma has a favorite grandchild because of what happened op Emma is Grandma's favorite BTW if you couldn't tell update I read through the majority of messages received and I agree that I should have confronted it last night I called grandma and Emma on the phone asking about the jewelry that was conveniently found in a car Emma said that wasn't for me to find out as she only told her mother and Grandma obviously a lie because Jessica heard and passed it to me she also lives abroad and isn't close to Emma Grandma then said well it's material and it's found we don't have a long time here letun all get along I responded no thank you I needed a public ology because I blindly believed Emma and I had a good relationship I even heard she made comments about my job which I wanted to address after the wedding Emma confirmed the comments about talking sht my job and her sister's comment but is sticking to her guns about the jewelry I mentioned to her that I was posting on Facebook about the jewelry and would attach screenshots to it and I wanted nothing further to do with Emma since she was not remorseful and was proud of disliking me for whatever reason lesson learned thanks everyone one relevant comments flender sentrum sorry that so many people in your family are horrible op you deserve better I could see how much you cared by willing to travel for a cousin you weren't even close with whom you hoped to get closer to and how you reacted to their bullying you're better off without them do make sure to get your side of the story to others and the extended family because you can bet that everyone involved possibly with your grandmother seeing and not actively shutting down will be telling a story to them where you are the bad guy op that's what really hurt I was hoping she was sincere about inviting me and asking me to participate when she got engaged I even sent her a present incorporating her interests and she was so appreciative or so she seemed it stinks knowing I meant basically nothing I was hurt that they never really liked me anyway and made fun of my job as a project manager at an engineering firm I have never done anything to them to Warrant this it's just confusing and hurtful however the bandage is off and life will continue without them op on sharing her information with the extended family on social media about what really happened at the wedding op I'm posting it this evening regardless of whether she takes it down or not Jessica gave her blessings for me to use her messages as proof so I'm not playing around I am not a thief I don't care if you like me or not you're not going to get away with that op proceeding how she dealt with the family talking badly behind her back and Emma's background on saying bad things about her op that's my thing why are you embarrassed you were emboldened to post about it and clearly discuss it offline with my name in it which is how it got back to me Emma does not have very many friends she's one of those very religious and conservative girls who does not drink smoke party have multiple partners been with the same person for 10 years have good grade Etc according to other cousins she's very much about the Optics and very judgmental life will be perfectly fine without her and I am looking forward to responses to post clearing my name op responds to how her grandma was upset with her cutting off the family and accusing her of ruining Emma's day op correct grandma was one of the people questioning me even though I gave the same answers and she wants me to explain why I'm cutting off my cousin and to dismiss it because it was found how is that fair to me after I've been accused and had my name dragged through the mud final update after Consulting with an attorney friend and compiling all relevant evidence including screenshots and messages we took the step of sending a legal letter to my cousin additionally I made a post on Facebook tagging family members family friends who attended the event the priest who officiated and even her neighbors yep my Petty ARS went the extra mile to bring awareness to the situation important announcement regarding Emma's wedding hello everyone in the Brown family I hope this message finds you well I feel compelled to address a matter that has been weighing on my mind since Emma's wedding last April firstly I want want to express my gratitude to Emma for inviting me to be a part of her special day it was an honor to participate and I was genuinely touched by the opportunity however recent events have left me deeply disheartened it has come to my attention that there have been discussions both prior to and following the wedding where unkind remarks were made about me and my profession while this was hurtful I chose to handle the situation delicately and intended to discuss it with Emma after the wedding to gain Clarity despite the hurtful comments I remained committed to supporting Emma on her wedding day I assisted her with changing outfits and took care of her belongings as requested regrettably shortly after the wedding I was unfairly implicated in The Disappearance of some jewelry subsequent discussions with Emma revealed that there were private conversations insinuating my involvement which left me feeling unfairly targeted it was only through the disclosure from a third party that the truth about the jewelry's whereabouts emerged I confronted Emma about these Revelations hoping for resolution and understanding however her response was dismissive and she refused to acknowledge the hurtful nature of her actions instead she chose to maintain hurtful social media posts causing further distress in light of these events I have made the decision to distance myself from Emma and her immediate family my conscience is clear and I refuse to tolerate such unjust treatment furthermore I want to assure you all that I am taking the necessary steps to clear my name I am in contact with legal counsil to draft a letter and seek exoneration from these false accusations I share this message not out of spite or animosity but to set the record straight and reclaim my Integrity PS the missing jewelry was found by her mother in the car for those interested in the details I've compiled all relevant screenshots and supporting information in a Google Drive feel free to click the link to access it the end thank you to everyone who supported me gave advice and comforted me I look forward to going on vacation tomorrow while Emma spends the next few days dealing with this edit as of 8: a.m. EST Emma has still not rescinded those Facebook posts relevant comments op on the birth order with Emma and how her grandma planned to distribute her possessions op that's the funny part she's actually four years younger than I am I have never been a fan of fighting for land and jewelry I have always told my grandma I wanted one of her sarus and a pair of her earrings if she was okay with it even if if I didn't get the earrings the sorry would be enough just something to remember her by Third story after a decade of Silence op told her rist mom that her son is a pedio my 24th birthday was yesterday I've worked extremely hard on my mental health the last 2 years and I'm finally in a place where I feel strong and happy two weeks ago I discovered through another family member that my attacker and cousin are getting married next weekend I always dreaded this inevitability my family actively suppressed the fact that he abused myself and three other family members for over a decade and I was too scared to even speak his name until recently but seeing his wedding website and learning his fiance is a family doctor knocked me over the edge I found her email and told her I have no idea if she saw it or not since she hasn't replied but I had to tell her I was scared initially so I sent it anonymously cut to yesterday my birthday my aunt his mother texted me for the first time in over a decade she has never made any attempt to contact me and has barely spoken to me except to verbally abuse me and others she wished me a happy birthday which seems simple enough but I know that it's something more she knows he is an attacker and pedophile and she has used the fact she's Rich to silence and intimidate his victims so I told her Point Blank I didn't sugarcoat it I didn't cry nothing I simply said thank you I finally feel like a proper adult which is lucky for me since your son is a pedophile it felt so good to say it finally and extra lucky for me she replied she called me crazy and attention seeking and I asked her what she thought made me crazy maybe her son Sayang me is my first memory but what's better is that now she can never say she didn't know it's in writing that I told her and she acknowledged it even if she said I was insane now if it ever comes to a point where he is in court I can show those messages to show the judge that she knew and did nothing to protect other children from him I can take the witness stand with every therapy appointment I talked about this in with all the diary entries from when I was a child talking about it and with the other victims he has it feels so good her trying to intimidate me cemented my feelings that I should contact his fiance again with my name and say that if she has questions she can talk to me I felt bad afterwards because I didn't give her a chance to ask me anything if she wanted to I have been scared to speak up for so long and I am so proud and happy that I have now I told the truth I said his name I said what happened to me and I didn't back down and now no one can ever say I didn't tell them I'm loud and fussy and not the shy and scared perfect victim anymore I stopped giving an sht the one person I feel bad for is his fiance I can't imagine the pain of finding out that the person you love is that evil and I especially fear for her because she has very young little sisters who he could have done this to I hope she doesn't end up marrying him but now it's in her hands update small update but I think it's worth sharing I still haven't heard back from the fiance but I did text my aunt again with the following aunts name you can choose not to believe me but when it happens again to a different little girl you are not going to be able to feain ignorance now there is written evidence that you know and though they prefer to sweep it under the rug so does the rest of the family I told you point blank you may have denied it before but you were there the day my oldest Brazilian cousin screamed and you didn't even have to ask which one of your sons s me it's not a coincidence that he chose to marry someone who has access to children in a vulnerable state he's not going to stop and should he have a daughter you know what will happen I think based on her not responding she might actually have doubts about him especially if she goes to the other family members and asks I'm hoping that when confronted they'll be honest I know his brother at least will because he's largely cut him off due to this though to my knowledge he still doesn't talk about it just like the rest of the family also after reading the comments I've decided to go to the police and try to file an official report I know my case will likely not be taken seriously but if I can get it on paper then there's a trail one of my friends suggested reporting him to the FBI as well so I'm going to try that she said they're more likely to actually look into it so here's hoping I'll update if anything else comes up the wedding is actually this Saturday so I think there will be an update by then I'm hoping the fiance reads the email I sent I will say that I'm unsure if I should go to the wedding as some have suggested I think if anything I would go try and speak to the bride but I also feel terrible so that would mean ruining her day letting her know beforehand is one thing but saying it on the day while she is in front of friends and family is another I have an appointment with my therapist on Thursday so we'll see to those who say he shouldn't be held accountable for his actions because he was a child when it began I was a toddler and he was a teenager it continued through his early 20s I cannot disagree more just because someone is Young doesn't mean they can't do terrible things or that it's all his mom's fault he saw multiple people that's not something that's normal for a child to do it's not just bad behavior it's evil edit to it's been a few days since the wedding which was supposed to happen on Saturday no clue if it did I'm meeting with a family member from overseas who was invited on Saturday and from them I'll ask how things went down however since I haven't heard anything I think she went through with the wedding once I have a definite answer I'll update again thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friends

give me a good story on My Estranged Cousin Invited Me to Her Wedding, Then Accused Me of Stealing Her Jewelry and Public... -orig

hey everybody hope you're all doing well my name is steven and this is the story time channel today we have some entitled parent stories and our first story of the day is by ariasa gex mom telling everyone in our family that i'm a bridezilla when she's actually a momzilla help long story short i don't have the best relationship with my mom due to things that happened when i was much younger i moved far away from my family a few years ago and i've only seen them a handful of times since then when i got engaged last august my fiance and i knew we wanted to wait two years to get married we've been together eight years and he's in school and i just started my career we're not extravagant or showy people and told our families we'd be totally fine doing a small wedding in the mountains around 20 to 30 people and then taking everyone out to dinner after nothing super traditional we honestly felt like weddings were a huge waste of money and have been saving up to buy a house anyway this didn't fly with my mom from the get go i'm the oldest child and my parents have been waiting a long time for me to get engaged they also have a huge group of friends and go to multiple weddings every year all of which are the typical large hall type weddings with 100 to 150 people when i told my parents that we didn't want to pay for a wedding and that we'd rather just buy a house instead my mom flipped out and told us she was willing to pay for a large wedding for us because she wanted to have the traditional type of wedding she always pictured her daughter having i was really hesitant at first because i never pictured myself having a large wedding but i wanted to make her happy so i accepted the money and started planning fast forward a year now and she's been crazy every little thing has to be perfect because she's paying we booked a reception location finally after looking into 10 places none of which were good enough for her or all had something wrong with them in her eyes we wanted to do a buy out of a restaurant rather than have it at a hall because it felt less formal she hated this idea but eventually caved when she fought she hated this idea but eventually caved when she found out it would be less money but after signing the contract she found out that the bar setup wasn't what she thought people taking orders rather than just letting people go up to the bar and started freaking out saying it'll ruin the wedding my fiance and i couldn't care less about a dj or flowers all expensive and unnecessary but she signed contracts for both and then reamed me out for how expensive everything is and how just doing our wedding at a do-it-all hall would have been cheaper she also decided to pay for an open bar the night before as a welcome party for our guests since it's a destination wedding i've told her so many times that i'm only doing this for her and i'm trying everything i can to make her happy while still having a wedding that feels like me and my fiance but it feels so overwhelming and like i can't do anything right i finally broke when my grandma texted me saying she heard we finally picked a reception space she then said something about how difficult i've been when planning this wedding and that i can finally stop freaking out i just have no words anymore not only am i trying to stop momzilla from ruining the planning process for a wedding i didn't even want i now have to face my family and my parents friends who all think i've been some crazy monster has anyone had this happen with a parent who becomes overbearing during the process of planning i just need to know i'm not alone here i definitely feel for op here i mean let's reflect on it personally if you were going to have a wedding would you let your parents have a major say in hand in how it actually goes down or would you be able to stay firm and make sure it's you and your partners or would you be able to stay firm and make sure it's you and your partner's wedding only that you guys planned together not what your parents have interfered with let me know in the comments down below our next story is by cupcake commercial 666 entitled mother my sister threw a fit and made her kids cry because i didn't take them on vacation with me a little over two years ago i won a raffle at my job for an all expense paid family vacation it wasn't some super fancy prize to disneyland or anything crazy like that it was just a nice three-day stay at this little beach house in place it was for four people and i asked around and found out the package deal cost just under 400 pricey for me but not so much for the older and more experienced co-workers i have i of course asked my boyfriend at the time to go but he couldn't take off school i'd wanted to take my single friends and make it a girls trip type deal but they couldn't because of work or other irl responsibilities at the time which i was sad about but understood since that plan was a bust i decided to see if my sister and her two little kids wanted to come i figured they'd enjoy it and so would my sister and i didn't want to waste the tickets well i went down to visit my family that weekend intent on asking sis if they'd want to come but the longer i was there the more i hated the idea by the time i was packing up to go home i knew i wasn't inviting them i love my niece and nephew but they were super bratty back then they're doing better these days because my sister never disciplines them ever i love them but she lets them get into everything and never watches them unless someone either me or our mom yells at her to go get off her butt and watch them visiting is always a chore because i end up watching them to give our mom a break it's pathetic and like every time i visit my sis dumped them on me the entire time like usual and by that point i knew if they came it would turn into me babysitting them while she had a vacation so i didn't mention the trip slash vacation and just said goodbye before leaving next day i called my good friend megan because she has two kids older than sis kids and very well behaved and she's a single working mom who i figured could use the vacay i asked if she would be free for xyz days and she was like yeah so i offered to invite her along with me on this vacation if she would pay for the gas to get us all to and from there while i would pay for the food for us to and from there and she happily agreed we went and had a blast i got a pretty good tan we ate lots of buffet food swam at the beach and did fun family and kid friendly type activities all weekend before coming back her kids are super sweet and it didn't feel like i was babysitting at all even when i was helping megan with them after i got home i posted some pics i took nothing in your face just a couple cute ones of me slash us on the beach and before lunch even rolled around on my first day back at work sis was blowing up my phone i knew ignoring her calls would just prolong the inevitable so i answered i barely got past my hey before she was asking me how the heck i could afford a vacation i told her it was a raffle prize she asked who won me or my friend and i said me i don't enjoy lying it stresses me out she proceeded to flip her crap demanding to know why i hadn't invited her i was honest and said because i didn't want to end up babysitting her kids for my entire vacation she got mad and called me an a-hole then said i knew she needed a vacation and then hung up on me before i could reply i just sighed and continued working later while i was working our mom called me asking why i'd promised niece and nephew that i'd take them on vacation i said i never told them i would i hadn't even spoken to them since the last time i visited turns out sis told them we were all supposed to go on a beach vacation together but i ruined it and now they didn't get to go so niece and nephew sobbed all day it took our mom ages to get them to stop crying long enough to explain what was wrong i told mom my side and she said i was mean to not invite sis and niece and nephew but she dropped it after i said i told her i didn't invite them because i didn't feel like babysitting my whole vacation mom also tore and desist for lying to her and also hurting her kids feelings like that getting their hopes up about a vacation and then dashing them by saying i ruined it and they couldn't go i wasn't there but mom said sis threw a huge fit and basically trash-talked me all afternoon the only thing i really felt bad about was my sister getting niece and nephew's hopes up like that that's the exact reason i'd never said anything to them but to cheer them up i took them the next weekend to a kid's play place they're always on their best behavior with me because they know i don't play like their mom and i will turn my car around and take them home if they're bratty when they're with me so they got to eat pizza play games climb this huge indoor jungle gym thing and even ride a couple kitty rides i also sat down with them while they ate and explained that the trip i went on was for me and my friend and they wouldn't have liked it because it got so hot and sweaty they handled it very well no tears or anything it really sucks to be in the situation especially considering you can't even enjoy it in a sort of social media spotlight without worrying about getting needless drama and stress and why didn't you invite me to this and that but the fact of the matter is it really drains you to be around them you knew it wasn't going to be a good situation and you were honest that's really all you can do this next story is by luckyfarms living entitled mother pushes me in my wheelchair away from my family a few years ago i was living in vegas and an entitled mother literally wheeled me away from my family i have a number of health issues and after a few botched surgeries and neurological damage i was bedridden i never left my house bed except for doctor appointments i hadn't been out at all for two and a half years i had worked really hard on my daily physical therapy and my balance had greatly improved my family came out for a visit my husband was stationed at nellis afb and i was so excited to surprise them with my improvements i could stand and walk and was actually wearing pants to celebrate i wanted to go see the fountains at the bellagio for most people this is a nice outing but for me this was years in the making i was nervous i might get overtired and lost in the fast-moving crowds so we had to bring my wheelchair we knew the schedule for the fountains and arrived super early to secure a spot in front where i could see from my chair it was such an important moment for all of us we lined up by the fence and no sooner did the show start i felt this jerking on my wheelchair i thought maybe someone had tripped on me and i immediately looked up to apologize i was pretty self-conscious and ashamed of being out in a wheelchair in such a big crowd when i glanced up to apologize i see this woman with a small child on her hip using one hand to literally pull me away from the fence because she was only using one hand she spun me completely around to face the street i was stunned i could hear everyone reacting to the fountain show and here i was looking dumb awkwardly facing a bunch of strangers i yelled for my husband but he couldn't hear me over the noise i looked behind me and this woman had plopped her child up onto the guardrail never made eye contact with me never said one word to me and had treated me like a piece of luggage i tried to stand up but the people around me had crowded me so much i didn't have room to push my chair back enough i desperately looked around at the strangers in front of me hoping someone who had seen what happened would help it then dawned on me that this was a huge family and friend group they all began nudging me aside further and further away from my family it all happened so fast i found myself pushed into the walking area where people who weren't stopping to watch the fountain show were quickly trying to walk past people couldn't see me through the crowd and were stumbling over and past me i couldn't see my family anymore and was trying hard to push myself up out of my chair the way my physical therapist had taught me i feel someone grabbing my chair again and i panicked i started yelling no please no and then realized it was my husband he had glanced to check on me and to take a picture of me being out for the first time and i was gone he had to fight his way through the crowd the same family group to find me i burst into tears i don't know why but it was like all the trauma from the last few years hit me all at once i told them they had pushed me away and after putting it together my husband was pissed he turned to this group of people and demanded to know who had pushed me away by this time the fountain show was pretty much over the group initially just ignored my husband like they had me until i pointed out the woman with her child as the culprits my family confronted her nicely i might add and tried to explain why a wheelchair is an extension of a person etc she at first pretended like she didn't speak english but i had heard them talking amongst themselves in english while they pushed me into the walking area and i told my husband as much she then gave up the act and told my family about how i was in their way and probably couldn't see any way and the man with her claimed in a raised voice that in their country they don't take their shameful family members out in public to which my husband responded if that were true none of you would be here i was maybe even more shocked by his last sentence than being wheeled away i managed the courage to tell him that what he said was bs and that i'm sure people in your country are actually kind and would be proud if i was their daughter i remember the exact words i said because later i was very proud that i stood up to them the group sort of collectively scoffed spoke to one another quickly in what i think was hindi and slowly walked away as if nothing happened we didn't stay for the next show because i just wanted to go home i don't know which is worse pushing a disabled person in a wheelchair out of your way or wrongly painting your countrymen as prejudice i'm not sure which is worse either imagine being absolutely called out on doing such an abhorrent thing and then doubling down and trying to make it out as if everybody here does the exact same thing or would have done the exact same thing it was pretty disgusting behavior to say the least and our final story of the day is by core gems entitled mother takes up two handicapped parking spots this happened a few days ago in a farm boys think canadian whole foods parking lot this is my first ever entitled parent story because most of the people in my neighborhood are friendly and polite it was a sunday afternoon and the parking lot was packed i didn't feel like looking around too much so i started exiting the parking lot and was abruptly cut off by a giant silver suv at the stop sign when i say zooming i don't mean fast for a parking lot i mean entitled mother would have qualified for the indy 500. i'm not confrontational but her driving was reckless and i had to say something before she hid someone i turned back into the parking lot to see she has her suv parked across two parking spots she did not have a permit i got lucky and a guy backed out right across from where entitled mother park the cast is me ak annoying kid probably around 14 to 15 e m entitled mother tall bigger lady with a caron haircut and an improperly worn bejeweled mask the conversation was short i say excuse me you've parked in a handicapped spot do you have a permit entitled mother says nothing pretends to be looking in her bag for something hi i have a kid i need the space sure but this spot isn't for people with kids it's for people who need the extra space to get out of their wheelchair vans annoying kid says mom can you make this guy shut up yes he really said that look this is a mercedes g wagon and it is going to be my son someday so i can't have it getting scratched up by people with pieces of crap hondas like you nobody this is my honda i say your car is much more likely to get damaged because of your reckless driving than it is sitting in a parking lot properly parked son do you hear something i think the wind is blowing haha annoying kid forces a fake laugh i say just please fix your parking and take care when driving especially when there are lots of pedestrians entitled mother having given up on the wind joke whatever just get out of my face idiot i have better things to do than to fix my perfectly fine parking because of some jerk we were both a bit loud now and a manager had come out to see what was going on i went back to my car because i had forgotten my mask so i didn't hear the full conversation between her and the manager but she used the same dumb excuse about how her kid will be getting the suv so it can't have a scratch on it and that's why she needed the handicapped spots the manager made her fix her perfectly fine parking and apologized to me and said if they saw her suv parked in the spot again they will have it towed i will never forget the look on her face as she drove off i'd describe it as a mix between constipation having sucked on a lemon and being high after a dental procedure that is a very sour and very droopy face that opie just described there honestly i probably wouldn't even care if they were taking up two regular parking spots but taking up two handicapped parking spots that's like being a jerks jerk there's no excuse for that at all but with that being said that's all the time we have for today so if you have a favorite story of the day let me know which one and why in the comments down below if you enjoyed the video please consider giving it a like and subscribe if you haven't and turn on 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give me a good story on rentitledparents She thought I was the BRIDEZILLA but she was a MOMZILLA! (Entitled Mom) -orig

Story one aita for telling my parents to keep all the money they stole from me while I was in university and shove it up their a original post April 25th 2024 I got a job while I was in high school it was with a friend of my father I put away most of it and just bought myself some stuff I wanted but my parents wouldn't buy for me my parents aren't rich but they do well enough they wanted me to appreciate that material goods were paid for with my time I didn't mind I bought myself a PS4 and some games which they made me share with my younger brother and sister once again I didn't mind I mostly played while they did homework or slept when I graduated from high school they said I had to start paying rent that sucked because I was going to University in the fall and I was hoping to save up over the summer so I could work less during the school year so I worked my ass off in school and at work I ended up getting a job loading delivery trucks before school and that Sue Ed because I went to sleep at 7:00 p.m. most nights so I could get up early and go to work I am about to graduate and I found a job in another Province I have already started doing

give me a good story on AITAH for telling my parents to keep all the money they stole from me while I was in university... -orig

guys who gave the crazy girl a chance what happened my buddy let his crazy ex back in he refused to supply her with oxies so she went even crazier and bashed her own head against the wall got him arrested and absolutely trashed his place while he was in custody charges were eventually dropped against him but she caused thousands of dollars in damage plus months of legal fees because it was a domestic violence charge he wasn't even allowed back into his own apartment while fighting the charges due to the automatic restraining order so she got to live in his place for free while he had to rent a second apartment the landlord doesn't even live in Canada or speak English so he was no help in the end he prevailed and got his place back and she faced zero consequences other than a 3-day mental health checkup don't stick your dick in crazy

give me a good story on guys who gave the crazy girl a chance.. what happened -orig

:00.040 --> :05.920 today we have a malicious compliance story with  the government of China we'll get into that in a   :05.920 --> :11.080 bit but first I need to pay for the pastor's gift  when I can barely afford rent fine then get your   :11.080 --> :16.040 own computer this happened several years ago back  when I was part of a Christian cult church and in   :16.040 --> :21.440 leadership also I'm writing this on mobile so  sorry if it looks funky anyways on to the story   :21.440 --> :26.800 back when I was 22 when a young impressionable  young adult I was part of the media team for this   :26.800 --> :32.840 church we were responsible for creating videos  and liers as well as posting on social media and   :32.840 --> :39.000 taking pictures Etc this was volunteer work but  the pastor we'll call him Pastor corruption was   :39.000 --> :45.000 an anal cold-hearted dictator of the religious  institution who would often give us lastminute   :45.000 --> :49.600 projects that would keep us up all night in order  to make a video to play during service the next   :49.600 --> :55.520 day we averaged 3 to 5 hours of sleep per night  but this was while I was in school so during this   :55.520 --> :00.240 time in order to stay on top of my homework and  other projects I would average close closer to   :00.240 --> :05.200 2 to 3 hours per night and to be honest I'm not  sure how I survived with only having occasional   :05.200 --> :11.840 bouts of wanting to end things ideation and  paranoia or delusions Pastor corruption loved   :11.840 --> :18.120 money he had a giant six-bedroom house for himself  and his wife only complete with heated driveways   :18.120 --> :23.160 and the latest model Cadillac which sat a top  of said driveway the church building itself was   :23.160 --> :29.440 overinflated which sat close to a thousand but  maybe had a Congregation of only 400 or so more   :29.440 --> :35.480 than Master corruption loved money he loved other  people's money 70% of the sermons were regarding   :35.480 --> :40.360 how you need to give the shirt off your back to  the church or else you didn't love God and were   :40.360 --> :45.880 going to heck which is ironic considering that  their accountant had been caught embezzling funds   :45.880 --> :53.320 in the past this went beyond tithes which was 10%  of what you make and included pledges fundraisers   :53.320 --> :58.840 giving for Church events and going for Retreats  that made a profit from the attendees Pastor   :58.840 --> :04.960 corruption and his pack of goons AKA associate  pastors who also shamed you for not giving money   :04.960 --> :11.080 and being poor would openly brag about how God  blessed them after these rounds of extortion well   :11.080 --> :15.880 one day it's near Pastor corruption's birthday  and his pack of goons decided that the pastor's   :15.880 --> :21.680 car from last year's model was too old and he  needed a brand new car they took a pledge from   :21.680 --> :26.440 all the ministry departments to pay for said car  the minimum pledge you were allowed to make was   :26.440 --> :32.360 $300 and the media team was no exception me  being a broke college kid with a minimum wage   :32.360 --> :38.360 part-time job decided that was impossible and I  just wasn't going to pledge anything this led to   :38.360 --> :43.840 several hour-long lectures and shaming sessions  about how I was seen as a leader I wasn't seen at   :43.840 --> :49.920 all since I was always working behind the scenes  and I needed to set an example finally I got fed   :49.920 --> :53.840 up and worn down to the point that I confessed  that I couldn't pledge because that would be   :53.840 --> :59.760 taking all of my rent money I lived with some  other leaders from the church at the time and   :59.760 --> :04.880 shared a room with another girl $300 doesn't  seem like a lot now but at the time for not   :04.880 --> :10.920 even having my own space or a place for my bed  this was highway robbery especially for a broke   :10.920 --> :16.440 college kid a girl who lived with me who was also  lecturing me told me just pledge the money anyway   :16.440 --> :23.880 and I can pay rent later well I was coerced into  giving the $300 for pastor corruption's stupid car   :23.880 --> :29.800 and now he had two brand new Cadillacs sitting in  his heated driveway 3 days after rent was due the   :29.800 --> :34.600 girl who lectured me about pledging comes up and  asks me for rent money the conversation basically   :34.600 --> :39.280 goes like this I don't have it yet she says what  do you mean you don't have it I gave you three   :39.280 --> :44.800 extra days to figure out something I said what am  I supposed to do pull it out of thin air she said   :44.800 --> :51.800 maybe you should be more responsible with your  spending I reply I have spent $2.16 on myself in   :51.800 --> :57.440 the last 3 weeks and it was to get a coffee so I  don't crash my car while driving because of lack   :57.440 --> :02.600 of sleep she says I'll give you until the end of  this week but you can't expect us to cover you   :02.600 --> :09.240 any longer than that you are being extremely  selfish now on top of worrying about juggling   :09.240 --> :14.680 projects between school and the church I need  to worry about not getting evicted then I come   :14.680 --> :21.120 up with a plan I'll just pawn my laptop my laptop  was brand new since it had just come out recently   :21.120 --> :25.880 and I decided to splurge and buy the latest  model when my six-year-old laptop took a dump   :25.880 --> :30.800 on me a few months before I used it for school  workor but they had lab I could use on campus   :30.800 --> :36.440 that would help me get by however the other thing  I used it for was media projects for the church   :36.440 --> :41.440 you know how Pastor corruption likes money well  he didn't like spending money so the media team   :41.440 --> :48.520 had a 13-year-old desktop that was overloaded with  files which severely slowed down its already laggy   :48.520 --> :54.760 performance and caused it to take several hours to  render videos if they didn't fail or corrupt when   :54.760 --> :59.680 I had gotten my laptop it was fairly decent  at rendering large video files and under 10   :59.680 --> :05.400 minutes and had amazing Clarity in graphics so  they convinced me to switch to using my laptop   :05.400 --> :11.800 for all things media related rather than using the  decade old desktop I didn't mind because it didn't   :11.800 --> :16.600 interfere with my schoolwork that much but all  the templates for social media and other videos   :16.600 --> :22.960 and files were on my laptop now meaning every week  I was responsible for getting everything updated   :22.960 --> :27.640 and handing off the final version of the file to  the head of the media team the girls I lived with   :27.640 --> :32.600 would help me edit these files when we were home  and we're the leaders of the media team this means   :32.600 --> :38.040 that all of the recent files of projects they  needed were on my laptop and no backups were made   :38.040 --> :43.280 on the church-owned desktop I pawned my laptop  got the rent money and paid the leader without   :43.280 --> :48.320 saying anything about how I managed to get the  money in a single day Saturday night rolls around   :48.320 --> :52.760 which is usually when we worked on the video files  we needed for the next day and they ask me where   :52.760 --> :59.640 my laptop is so we can get started I say I don't  have it they say where is it I say I pwned it they   :59.640 --> :06.080 said what I pwned it they say why I needed to pay  you rent I had no other way to get you the money   :06.080 --> :11.280 I couldn't afford the pledge but you graciously  gave me an extra 3 days to pay it and make up for   :11.280 --> :16.520 my rent I used to pay for the pledge this is one  of the most valuable items I own so I figured it   :16.520 --> :21.320 was the quickest way to repay you at this point  they start freaking out they want to go get the   :21.320 --> :27.080 laptop out right then but the pawn shop was closed  so they rushed to the church and fire up the dino   :27.080 --> :32.560 desktop and desperately try to rec create the  videos we needed from scratch however they have   :32.560 --> :38.680 no backups since mine was being exclusively used  and the programs and versions that I was using   :38.680 --> :46.280 versus what the dino had was completely different  think Adobe CC versus Final Cut Pro in the end we   :46.280 --> :50.840 didn't have anything ready in time for service  that Sunday morning and the entire media team   :50.840 --> :56.000 got yelled at by Pastor corruption I got double  yelled at by the leaders on the media team but   :56.000 --> :00.360 it was worth it to see them Panic several months  later I ended up leaving leaving the church Al   :00.360 --> :05.400 together and was nice enough to give them all the  files of stuff I had on my laptop my only regret   :05.400 --> :11.960 is being so amicable when I left because freak  that place and freak Pastor corruption however   :11.960 --> :17.880 last I heard most of the people I knew there have  left and the churches downsized considerably and   :17.880 --> :23.200 moved buildings I assume they never got a new  desktop for the media team after I left this is   :23.200 --> :29.480 one of the many outrageous aspects of this church  but it made me never want to deal with this organ   :29.480 --> :35.200 ized religion again and now I'm mostly agnostic I  don't know if this is just like way too deep of a   :35.200 --> :40.560 cut on Christian denominations and whatnot but  it would be hilarious for op to say this was a   :40.560 --> :46.520 Lutheran Church as in a Christian denomination  that's directly inspired by Martin Luther who   :46.520 --> :52.520 wrote 95 thesis on why the church was wrong  mainly centering around how the church had a   :52.520 --> :57.280 system where the more you donated the more likely  you were that you were going to be saved and sent   :57.280 --> :03.720 to Heaven anyways history lesson over this next  story is when China decided to crack down on Hong   :03.720 --> :09.760 Kong's civil liberties and I as a citizen still  had to pay my taxes to its oppressive government   :09.760 --> :16.440 no problem I did it so that I actually made them  lose money legally disclaimer I have long since   :16.440 --> :21.520 moved out of Hong Kong so I guess I'm more or  less safe now to share the story from a few years   :21.520 --> :28.280 ago tldr when the CCP started cracking down on  civil liberties in Hong Kong as a form of passive   :28.280 --> :33.840 resistance I I took advantage of a loophole in  electronic payment service while paying my taxes   :33.840 --> :38.880 I took advantage of a loophole in an electronic  payment service while paying my taxes to make the   :38.880 --> :45.480 CCP controlled government actually lose money  prior to deciding to immigrate anyway much has   :45.480 --> :52.520 been said about the Hong Kong protests of 2019  2020 so I'll not elaborate further in 2020 when   :52.520 --> :58.040 the Chinese Communist Party unable to control  the public Anger from the protests and increasing   :58.040 --> :04.960 police brutality decided to use the nuclear option  of severely curtailing Hong Kong's autonomy and   :04.960 --> :09.240 basic civil rights that was promised to its  people when the city was handed over to China   :09.240 --> :16.080 in 1997 that's when I decided it was time to leave  but in the meantime a lot of preparation needed   :16.080 --> :22.040 to be made for my exit strategy I was still in a  job and still had to pay my taxes and there was Co   :22.040 --> :28.080 which further delayed my departure by a few years  before I finally immigrated sometime last year I   :28.080 --> :34.240 needed to maintain as low a profile as possible so  me and my family could escape from there safely so   :34.240 --> :39.720 tax evasion was a no no as much as I no longer  wanted to pay my taxes to pay for the salaries   :39.720 --> :46.720 of the intransigent officials that were upping the  ante and oppressing my fellow citizens instead I   :46.720 --> :51.920 discovered you could pay taxes electronically  using an electronic payment service to pay for   :51.920 --> :58.720 almost anything including taxes you could pay  for stuff via a mobile phone or on the Internet   :58.720 --> :04.320 for every transaction made the vendor will be  charged two2 Hong Kong dollars by the service   :04.320 --> :09.520 company if you're paying taxes the vendor would  be the government now notice here that they did   :09.520 --> :16.440 not state a minimum amount for every transaction  meaning that if I pay one Hong Kong dollar and   :16.440 --> :23.040 the payment service charges the government to Hong  Kong dollars per transaction the government ends   :23.040 --> :29.880 up making a net loss of one Hong Kong dollar if I  do it multiple times the CCP government will lose   :29.880 --> :35.920 a lot of money and the fun thing about that at  least when I did it it was perfectly legal though   :35.920 --> :40.880 the main catch was that the service only lets  you do up to 50 transactions a day amounting to   :40.880 --> :47.120 50 Hong Kong dollars the CCP government will still  lose 100 Hong Kong dollars but that was not going   :47.120 --> :54.160 to stop me from sticking the finger to the CCP  so I diligently paid my taxes Dollar by Dollar   :54.160 --> :00.720 Day by Day using that electronic payment system  I made sure to set set aside about half an hour   :00.720 --> :07.280 every day after coming home from work so I could  perform 50 transactions for that day I lost count   :07.280 --> :12.000 of how many months it took for me to completely  clear my taxes for that year using this passive   :12.000 --> :17.520 aggressive method and I fully realized this small  resistance would barely Dent the CCP government's   :17.520 --> :22.560 coffers at least I sleep in the knowledge that the  taxes they use to oppress my fellow Hong kongers   :22.560 --> :29.840 will not have come from me as I refused to pay  the CCP a single penny more so my assumption is   :29.840 --> :34.920 that this company is a Chinese company right  the one that operates and runs the electronic   :34.920 --> :40.240 transaction service I think the problem here is  assuming that the CCP government is actually going   :40.240 --> :46.440 to pay any charge sent to them by this electronic  service and for reference for anybody curious two   :46.440 --> :53.040 Hong Kong dollars translates to roughly 30 cents  American or 20 cents British pounds our next story   :53.040 --> :59.200 is if you don't like it you can just leave when  I was in junior high many years ago I was usually   :59.200 --> :04.280 a quiet person we had an older gentleman as our  science teacher about halfway through the school   :04.280 --> :09.360 year he broke his leg I think he had been doing  some work on his house and fell off a ladder we   :09.360 --> :14.720 got a substitute teacher a middle-aged woman who  told us initially she would only be subbing for   :14.720 --> :20.400 about a week or two the class was usually not too  bad but one day while she was trying to lecture   :20.400 --> :25.280 people weren't really listening and it was getting  a little bit louder she didn't really handle it   :25.280 --> :31.760 well and started screaming at the whole class  and ranting about our behavior and disrespect   :31.760 --> :37.960 she finally ended with and if you don't like  it you can just leave now I'd have been sitting   :37.960 --> :44.960 quietly the whole time but her yelling was quite  offsetting for me I listened to her whole rant   :44.960 --> :52.600 and kind of took it personally although I knew I  shouldn't it just kind of set me off so as soon as   :52.600 --> :00.000 she shrieked out that last part of you can just  leave I stood up forcefully it pushed my chair   :00.000 --> :08.200 back about 4 feet I was in the back of the room my  chair scraped loudly and made that metallic sound   :08.200 --> :14.720 when I stood up the whole class turned around and  everyone just stared at me the substitute and I   :14.720 --> :20.520 just stared at each other for a few seconds  her mouth was open and then I just walked out   :20.520 --> :26.800 slamming the door behind me I called her Bluff I  guess I have a bit of a rebellious streak in me   :26.800 --> :32.920 that doesn't come out all the time but something  about her yelling and losing it in front of the   :32.920 --> :39.560 class rubbed me the wrong way and brought it out  in me at that moment I took a minute walked over   :39.560 --> :45.080 and got a drink of water at the fountain then  casually walked back in the classroom she asked   :45.080 --> :51.720 where I went very quietly and I told her I was  thirsty and wanted a drink of water the whole   :51.720 --> :57.480 class was watching me when I came back in but  after I returned the rest of class went fine she   :57.480 --> :03.160 didn't send me to the principal 's office which I  fully expected she kept teaching the rest of the   :03.160 --> :08.240 semester because the injury to our teacher was  worse than they thought she never yelled at the   :08.240 --> :14.440 class again or made any more ultimatums she and  I never brought it up again all I can say is is   :14.440 --> :20.400 if this went down in any kind of junior high or  high school that I was in op would be like the   :20.400 --> :25.160 talk of the school but like The hushed Whispers  kind of thing that teachers wouldn't pick up on   :25.160 --> :29.520 unless they were like really trying to listen in  an EAS drop we did definitely had this kind of   :29.520 --> :34.960 thing going on in our Middle School too there was  this one teacher I can't remember what exactly the   :34.960 --> :39.560 class was but I remember it being way different  from everything else I don't know if it was like   :39.560 --> :44.760 a less involved like home economics type thing  it was just a really odd class that felt like it   :44.760 --> :49.560 didn't make sense to be there to begin with but  she was the kind of teacher where if you pushed   :49.560 --> :54.880 her buttons just the right way she would blow  up at you I heard some people claim that she   :54.880 --> :00.480 threw books at some kids in my class there was  a situation where one of the kids mentioned God   :00.480 --> :05.480 and she started getting so worked up over it  saying stuff like don't talk about God in this   :05.480 --> :09.840 class and getting really worked up about it at  some point she said go see the principal to the   :09.840 --> :14.720 kid that kept mentioning god without making any  eye contact the girl that was pushing her button   :14.720 --> :21.160 stood up walked right out of the classroom loudly  singing Jesus loves me this I know for the Bible   :21.160 --> :25.920 tells me so it was just all so bizarre but it was  really one of those things where you kind of like   :25.920 --> :30.120 nudge the person sitting next to you and you're  like do you see this can you believe this I mean   :30.120 --> :34.520 it was so rare to see a teacher so flustered  and worked up like that but with that being   :34.520 --> :39.560 said that's all the time we have for today now  if you want to hear another absolutely awesome   :39.560 --> :44.200 malicious compliance story check out that  video on the left or if you missed my latest   :44.200 --> :49.760 video check out that video on the right that said  I'll see you all next time with some more stories

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