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my husband isn't invited to my sister's wedding I bolded relevant words of my
post to explain I apologize for not being more clear we have been together
for 23 and 1/2 years and married for 3 and a/2 years my sister tried using the
excuse of saving costs by having a small guest list however none of our siblings
are married or even in relationships and
they are allowed to bring someone and so
is everyone else who is invited I am the only brother adult who isn't allowed to
bring someone and my husband is not invited at all even though she's been
engaged for over a year we didn't find out my husband isn't invited until the
invitations were sent with the wedding being less than 2 months away it hurts
it always does but it especially hurts when the Discrimination or Prejudice
comes from my own family almost everyone in my family thinks I need to let this
go because it's her wedding and not mine I'm not going to wedding and I don't
care how angry my sister is at me I know
my husband is Hurt No matter how much he pretends otherwise also anyone sending
me Reddit carees messages need not bother I blocked them because I am tired
of getting them same for rude messages I appreciate everyone who is leaving
supportive comments | give me a good story on myhusbandisntinvitedtomysisterswedding |
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today we have a crazy entitled parent freaking out over a name change we'll
get into that in a bit but first I would like to share my story so I can feel
less empty and alone words of encouragement can help hello how are you
I'm writing here because honestly I don't know what else to do I feel like
writing my story will help me feel a little bit better and maybe you can give
me words of advice or encouragement my mother was always abusive when I was
little she once Hit me hard in the face because she didn't like something I said
she has this habit of belittling you humiliating you and controlling you she
is very controlling of what I do doesn't let me do some things but she doesn't
know she does it she thinks she's right and that you should just suck it up she
always tells me she loves me and wants the best for me but she isn't helpful
once she threatened to end things if I didn't call my dad they were broken up
at the time she would lock herself up in the bathroom to pretend she was
overdosing on pills and me and my sister were desperate calling 911 my mom had
various episodes like that throwing Tantrums on the street to prevent my dad
from leaving her and it was threatening to her life to be honest it was quite
scary very scary the kind of thing that traumatizes you my dad is an enabler he
never protects me from my mother's verbal abuse he is a victim of it
himself he now suffers from anxiety when I was little and in school my friends
weren't nice to me I had a best friend that once admitted to me that she was
jealous of me and my family and my house and then she cut her wrists to show me
she cared I had to stay away also the other classmates would bully me calling
me immature I never did anything wrong I
was always cool with people and nice but I think people take advantage of that I
suffered from bullying and when I changed School my old classmates posted
my phone number on a dating website on my town they posted my phone number and
also that I offered services like saying
I was a prostitute I had an appendectomy before changing school and nobody came
to visit me I was 13 at the time I think I changed School and I made new friends
there but sadly my new best friend disappointed me I discovered on her
Twitter account that she basically hated me she knows my house of course because
she visited me she was my best friend so I found the tweets repulsive she would
post that she thinks people with a pool in their house think they're better than
everybody else and also if you have an air conditioner in your house of course
you're going to like summertime because you have the air conditioner to provide
a cold temperature and that you think you're better than people I'm not from
the US but I'd love to be and knows I'm a USA fan she posted that people that
want to move there are idiots she was jealous of me when I went to UNI my only
sister moved away to another continent she moved a few years ago and I miss her
every day I felt like a part of me was gone I would always meet with her
friends when there were parties but when she was gone I never saw them again she
was the glue that kept me and her friends together and hanging out the bad
part about the fact that she left is that my mom was abusive towards her she
once told my sister that it would be a disgrace if she had children there and
anytime my sister would come to visit us my mom would start screaming that she
misses her but she would get violent and abusive she never hit her but she was
violent in the way she yelled and spoke my dad would join her and not defend my
sister but defend my mom once my dad ended up in the hospital due to blood
pressure and my mom ended up falling to the floor to add some drama she is
mentally ill my sister once told me she's afraid of being a mom because she
doesn't want to be like our mom mom every time my mother and sister do a
video call they end up fighting not because of anything my sister says or
does but because of my mother's harsh remarks and comments it's like she's
always looking for a fight I'm getting tired of this and it saddens me so much
that they don't get along 2 years after she my sister moved my uncles and
cousins moved to another continent too it was very hard for me because I had
such a strong connection to my little cousins I loved them so much and they
loved me too I felt like another part of me was gone they sold their house of a
lifetime to move away and I have plenty of memories in that house I basically
grew up there along with my little cousins a year after during covid I lost
my grandpa and then the next year I lost another one to cancer back in 2018 when
there was no pandemic I also lost my grandma it was like the starting point
to all the losses I only have one grandma left out of everyone I'm 25
years old and when I lost the one to cancer that was also the same time my ex
left me it was very hard dealing with two losses at the same time my ex was
going away to another continent for an exchange program see everyone was moving
away he was going to leave for 6 months and I couldn't stand another loss I left
crying from his farewell party and I got drunk because I'd seen my grandpa being
taken away and consumed by cancer just 7
days prior to that farewell party and my ex leaving also my ex didn't talk to me
during the party he was talking to his friends and I told him that he
understood but when I told him that my parents grounded me for being drunk he
hated me and told me I was a little kid he wanted me to go have dinner to his
house 3 days before he would leave and I couldn't go I wasn't allowed to he told
me my parents didn't actually care about me and that if I didn't Escape my house
and defy them then that meant I never really loved him or cared about him so
then he asked for a break during his time away he posted photos being
affectionate with with other women and I
had to see it this wasn't the first time he was mean to me I remember once he
wanted me to send him inappropriate photos or hot photos when I said no he
said that it meant going backwards in our relationship or taking one step back
because we did hook up and sending photos means much less than hooking up
he was manipulating me I remember the first times we started dating and
texting he would reply maybe a day later and I remember I had to remind him of
our dates because he's just so hands off
when it comes to communicating I was the one asking him specifically twice what
are we and he would be like I don't believe in labels but when I told him I
did believe in labels he compromised and we were boyfriend and girlfriend but at
lasted one month because he left and asked for the break he mentioned the
break before stating that his brother always takes breaks with his girlfriend
when he goes away on trips and that when he comes back they see where they're at
and maybe they get back together I remember the moment I found out about
his trip we were going to the same singing teacher when I came to my class
the teacher said to me did he tell you about his trip turns out he had told our
teacher before me there are a lot of things like this that I won't mention
here because the post would get infinitely long disrespects Shady
attitudes and not to mention his activities with drugs after him talking
crap about my family and dumping me because my problems were way too big for
him I wanted to disappear I was vulnerable to the wrong person I had
told him that my mom yes she maybe mistreats me and that my parents were
very mean to me at that time and that I wanted to leave I remember sending him
voice messages crying and being like of course I want to see you I'm grounded I
can't don't be mad at me don't think that I don't love you but he still
insisted that I didn't care and that he was going to dump me his best friend
unfollowed me on social media and he talked about my family to his family he
didn't want to reveal what his family thought daughter said about mine so I
felt humiliated to the core he told me he dumped me because my family problems
were too much for him and that I wasn't independent enough because my mom is
controlling of what I do and that's why he left as I'm writing this I can see
how strong I am to face my reality and to put it into words and to share it
with you if you've read this far I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart
even though I can share my story it doesn't mean it isn't heavy I try every
day to wake up with hopes I am happy I recognized that while dating my ex I
felt anxious I had social anxiety and maybe he could see that but I can't feel
ashamed of that it's part of my growth now thank God I'm better and don't have
the symptoms I used to have I guess I held on to my ex because I feel alone I
suffered from way too many losses and I also wanted to have a partner to be with
me because I can't comprehend why I would want to be with someone that has a
hands-off approach and style of communication why why settle for someone
that wasn't sure about what he wanted he
even once told me he felt like he wanted to slap me in the face while we were
hooking up right now I'm trying to put the pieces of my self-esteem back
together it's a struggle some days I even think that it would be amazing and
painfree to not be around sometimes I think about my ex being happy with some
other girl I should also add that my family doesn't talk to me my cousins are
too bothered making money and some of them are jealous of me they don't send a
message to see how I'm doing or anything I only see them at birthdays and
holidays or when my sister comes to visit that's when I see them otherwise
they don't even bother to send anything including uncles and aunts they don't
come to visit me honestly with an ex that terrible I'm sad to see op actually
still puts any stock into what they're doing these days I know it's not just
that easy to just forget about somebody but when they're that much of a just
total crap head it just hurts to see somebody so hung up over such a jerk
okay imagination 1107 wrote save up some money make a plan move out whether it's
to another town or another continent it is possible to survive awful parents and
bad things in your life like that but a fresh start is probably what you really
need leave behind anybody who's been cruel or abusive to you put them in your
rear view mirror and don't look back a fresh start in life a new place to live
a new job these are all things that are going to help you heal and have a happy
life I wish you well also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy crazy stories of
entitled parents why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that
said our next story is what mental disorders do you think my mother had
after posting about my mother's comment I started to remember concerning stuff I
posted about my mother saying no one wanted me at a birthday party because I
wasn't popular well after reading so many comments I started to realize and
remember a lot about my mother for a long time that memory was the main one I
could remember about her but I've started breaking down remembering ing
some of the worst stuff she's done and the idea that there could be worse I
don't remember or can't I made a list because I think it can help me to
remember for a long time I just thought I didn't have a good memory but I just
didn't want to I remember being a kid and she kept having me pee in cups I
asked my dad a few days ago if I had doctor issues or something and he said
he was always the one to take me to the doctor if I needed because his job gave
him better pay leave after I told my dad this memory he got a horrible sick look
apparently my mom had joke to him when I
was five that she could make extra money by selling my pee one memory that makes
me sick is when she used to fill up the bathtub and hold me for hours crying
saying I'm going to save you from this world I think she was planning on
drowning me when I was young she used to
say I was the reincarnated Jesus and she believed I could walk on water if I
tried hard enough she stole my Nintendo DS I managed to save up for and pwned it
I looked for that thing for years and every time I asked her about it she
would say maybe you should clean your room and you might find it one memory
that sickens me is when she drove me to a motel she and some stranger hooked up
in the room with me on the couch in the room after my mom fell asleep the man
came over and sat on the couch with me still fully in the buff I don't remember
anything other than when we left the motel my mom was crying I asked my dad
if he knew and he said he knew she was cheating but didn't know she always took
me with her I have Snippets of other memories pop up of other motels and men
but this one was the most Vivid the man's name was Doc he lived around North
Texas she used to have my sister and I physically fight each other for her
entertainment Just Like Gladiator combat my sister had my fingernails still in
her arms when we were at our mother's funeral I still feel so guilty for how I
treated her I was younger than her and I
saw her as the enemy for years my mother
used to have me ask her for water and if I annoyed her she would deny my request
I still have issues with remembering to drink water my teacher told her she
thought I had ADHD my mom responded by taking me home and locking me in a dark
closet for a few hours she leted me out before my dad came home my mom made it
clear I wasn't to tell anyone anything about her I wasn't taught to wash myself
or brush my hair I don't know how teachers didn't call CPS I smelled and
looked awful I also wore the same clothes to school almost daily the one
case where CPS was called was when the school nurse thought I wasn't being
brought to the doctor I told the casew worker I was scared of what my mom would
do to me because of her coming to my house she told my mom she knew this case
wasn't serious and she wasn't going to really investigate my house growing up
looked like one from the show hoarders I had to Wade through garbage laundry and
organic waste up to my waist to get out of the door after CPS was called she
pulled me out of school and into K12 or as I think of it the worst two years of
my life she had me take care of her cleaning and cooking she also had me
give her insulin and would smack me if it hurt her when I lost my first tooth
she made me she had grabbed me by the hair for the whole movie watch this
horror movie about some Demon Tooth Fairy who kills kids for their teeth but
can't go in the light I don't know the name of the movie I slept with the
lights on for 10 years when the light bulb burned out I sobbed and had to
figure out for myself how to change it or live in the dark was too short to
reach the bulb I realized after all this
she was a sadistic sociopathic woman yet I loved her more than life honestly
hearing all this it just makes me hope op is getting some Professional Therapy
some help especially when doing these Reddit posts is causing them to relive
all of the stuff that they seem to have compartmentalized realistic noise too
wrote I'm so sorry to say this but I think your mother Not only was
narcissistic but I also believe she had some sort of sociopathic or sadistic
Tendencies the way that you described and also what you've described in your
previous post about no one wanting you on your birthday seems that she just
wanted to inflict as much pain on you as possible and enjoy it I wish I knew the
psychology of why but it sounds like now that she's passed it seems like now's a
good time to try to talk to relatives and the other people that she might have
known to ask about what's going on when you mentioned also that your father
couldn't believe anything either he knew and didn't want to say anything or he's
in straight denial because of what you posted here in the last post nobody can
be that clueless so I would say that I hope you can get help or at least move
on because I'm sorry to say she just sounds pure evil our next story is my
mom sucks so I found out I was pregnant in mid January happy news I told my
parents at the end of January and I asked they not sure the news yet as I
was only 6 weeks pregnant at the time that same day she messaged a friend or
probably two and told them my news I asked her why she did that and she said
she friend won't tell anybody okay I get it she's excited for her first
grandchild I let it slide at this time I'm also packing a house for a move to a
new state fixing the house to sell looking for a new job interviewing
caring for pets and continuing my job two or 3 weeks later my mom posted on
Facebook the photo of my ultrasound on her stories I was so angry at her that
when I tried to call her I couldn't get the words out she knew about it right
when it happened and left it up for 2 hours until I called her only response
was I know I messed up so I'm sobbing in my closet and my husband is there to
comfort me but I am distraught and angry I can't bring myself to talk to my mom
well she just told me she knew she was wrong so I expected her to remove it she
didn't my husband messages her the YouTube video of how to remove it and
she doesn't respond the following morning it's been up almost 12 hours now
I got a friend to tell me I should just lock log into her account and take it
down myself my mom wasn't answering calls at that point anymore and not
reading messages so that's exactly what I did at least predictable in that
regard it took me one password attempt and three buttons to remove it from her
stories a whole 20 seconds to take it down now I'm fuming and I have nothing
to say for her for over 2 weeks fast forward to my 12 weeks and I have a
bleeding scare and have to head to the doctors to check the baby of course I
wanted to call my mom to let her know I was needing her support
the call was short I was anxious she was
happy to hear from me now remember I was able to log into her Facebook account
while I also had her messages notifications so it turns out she
messaged at least five people not family about my issue and asked them to pray
for me not something I asked her to do when surprised me she would think of
that considering she already knew I was mad at her for sharing my news publicly
my dad wanted to visit to help me pack my house and mom wanted to come with so
they VIs visited and it was awkward I tried to talk to her about her posting
but I couldn't find the right words because I was so upset and I confronted
her with the wrong things I asked her why she told so many people about my
bleeding and she said I only told family a lie I was so dumbfounded by her lie I
teared up and asked her why she said because I thought a prayer circle would
help but I said I didn't ask you for that I didn't want anyone knowing
anything her response was one I've heard
her say my whole life and it's the worst response she could have possibly given
me I'll never do that again it's her empty solution to everything every time
she's wronged me as a child teen young adult and now as a mother she's used
that phrase to Plate me shut me up move on from her mistakes no real solution I
just walked away from her I guess bottom line it's just going to have to take
this time and time again for op to really get it through their head they
can't rely on this person too keep anything in confidence you can still
have that relationship with them and you can still reach out to them for support
but just know that when you talk to her you're talking through her into a
megaphone to everybody else our next story is my girlfriend's entitled mom
freaks out over name change pretty new to Reddit but I felt someone might get a
laugh out of it this is shared with my girlfriend's permission my girlfriend
has a very rocky relationship with her mom this is due to a variety of reasons
but one of the major ones is that her mom cursed her with a horribly
misspelled name something like hazel Mahi mom's last name it's not those
exact names but the same type of vibe two classic beautiful names ruined by
her mother's pathological desire to be unique her parents weren't together at
the time of her birth and she ended up with her mom's last name this has caused
so many problems throughout her life since her dad ended up being her primary
parent and she's told me that she wanted to change it since she started going to
school and having to deal with the problem s the only reason she waited
until she was an adult is because her mom wouldn't consent to the name change
anyway the paperwork recently went through and my girlfriend is now Hazel
Marie dad's last name she's over the moon about it and I'm so happy for her
the only hiccup has been her mom we expected her to be more upset that her
baby girl is deviating from her mommy's wishes but we didn't expect she'd
explode like she did my girlfriend told her mom the news and she absolutely blew
up she actually stormed over to our apartment she lives in the same building
as us it sucks and banged on the door until my girlfriend reluctantly answered
I advised her not to but she did it anyway because and I quote it's my mom
let me talk to her oh well my girlfriend's mom barged her way into the
apartment and began loudly berating my girlfriend for changing her name she
basically said that my girlfriend threw away the beautiful gift I gave you and
said you're my daughter I have the right
to name you she wasn't really even upset
about her taking her dad's last name but she was really upset about her changing
the spellings of her first and middle name to the normal spellings my
girlfriend tried to explain about all the problems her name had caused her
over the years but her mom wouldn't let her speak and just kept yelling over her
eventually I much taller and stronger than my girlfriend's mom forcibly kicked
her out while calling her a bench and telling her to never come back my
girlfriend and I are now looking at breaking our lease to get away from her
message from my girlfriend that she wanted me to add please don't give your
kids crap happy names no one thinks it's quirky or cute you look like an idiot
and little Mick and lay probably resents you for it do everyone a favor and just
spell your kids names like they're supposed to be take it from someone with
a crappy name it sucks butt to deal with you're naming a human person not a doll
or puppy I mean I get innocent enough misspellings you know something that's
just like uncommon but when you go out of your way to try to add as many
substitutions oh this y can sound like an e or a can sound like something else
and all of a sudden you're spelling McKinley with 13 letters I mean if
anything just spare them the trouble of having to write that all out over and
over for the rest of their life over Mary and Barry 686 wrote sigh I don't
think parents realize how difficult it is for the kids to grow up with the
weird names were given I was named three very popular boys names starting with M
and a weird K name and last name is the third there was no first or second the
day I turned 18 I changed it I had been saving up just to make sure I had the
money thought I actually had to before a judge I also cut my parents out of my
life and didn't talk to them for almost 20 years before they passed our next
story is my father a few years ago I was in an accident which means I get money
from it once I'm 18 I'm now 18 as of a month ago and was expecting a letter
letting me know where the money was but nothing was sent I expected my mom to
help me out with it but didn't ask because I'm busy turns out my dad had
been calling up about it without informing me and only just told me
because they wanted to speak to me personally as it is my money my dad has
told me the exact amount I'll put into savings and the exact amount I'll give
to him and my mother and my siblings I'm upset about this as I feel this is
something I should make the choice to do my dad is terrible at saving money and
blows it off when he can for starters he
shouldn't be telling me about saving and
to top it off he should allow me to make the decision with that money he didn't
share any of his money from his one amongst his immediate family I was most
likely going to do the things he said anyway but on my free will not because
he said it just brings me back to how controlling he was over my uni choices a
levels my social life Etc if you've read my previous posts you know that it's
just an added thing to my dad's Behavior he's also got this thing where when he
gets angry with me he says I can't do it my way it's like he feels as though I
can't control my own life and I'm wrong if I don't do it his way it might seem
like a dumb thing to get upset about but I don't know it just irritates me every
time he says that to top it off he's been teaching me how to drive he's not
the best driver there is he makes me physically shake and I feel so nervous
around him I make a mistake and he gets so visibly angry I stress out and make
more mistakes I can't communicate with him either as he will never understand
my point and I cannot leave until uni which my grades aren't where I need to
be I don't even want to do the course I applied for but I need to leave somehow
as I cannot stay another year with him I feel embarrassed talking to my friends
about my personal life as none of their parents are similar to mine my dad is
the angriest person I know and unfortunately for me I'm a very anxious
and nervous person who hates conflict I just feel stuck and depressed in life I
have no relatives to talk to either I'm so tired at that point especially if
op's 18 I'm assuming it's their money to do with as they please and honestly I
don't know if Opie still wants to do what they're kind of suggesting that
Opie said they would have done of their own free will or if they want to fully
submit to the reverse psychology hey you told me to do this therefore I'm not
doing it anymore regardless it's their money sad flatworm 1436 said not the
jerk please make an appointment to see a reputable financial adviser do not tell
your parents please use this money to get yourself into a better life position
change uni course move out pay for driving lessons to gain your
Independence protect your future it was your accident the money is to repay you
not your parents or your siblings please independent Financial advice perhaps
available through your uni op replied if I was to speak to a financial adviser
would I just explain to them about my situation am I able to do so without
them telling my dad I was wondering if it's possible for the adviser to tell my
dad what you've just told me sad flatworm responded you are legally an
adult so the financial adviser isn't even allowed to tell tell your dad
anything without your permission the adviser is there to help you and guide
you and in some ways they'll protect you from the emotional blackmail your
father's putting on you op then posted father wants me to give him my
settlement money regarding my last post today when I'm back I need to call the
court regarding how I'll get money so I may be receiving it today I'm just
worried about how to tell my dad that I won't be giving any as it's my money my
mother thinks I should just give him 50b out of it or 100 to shut him up but I
don't even want to do that I'm 18 now and it's money from my accident I know
he expects even more than that but I hate the idea of giving him the
satisfaction of how controlling my money so considering they're saying give them
50 or1 I'm assuming it's not like a lot of money either way saying no is a
complete sentence in the situation and if op does not want to give up their
money that they got from their accident they just need to be able to tell their
father no and what are they going to do steal your debit card or something but
with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to
hear another absolutely crazy entitled parent story check out that video on the
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post that got deleted revolving something similar
and thought I might as well share my story. :13.260 --> :20.100
Back in 2015, I had an 2011 Dodge Caliber that was
beginning to give me issues. After some research,
:20.100 --> :24.540 I found out that the fuse box in the engine
compartment was slowly malfunctioning and
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causing my car to act weird after about an hour
of driving. I was on the market looking for a
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new car as I basically deemed it being time to
get something more suited for my everyday needs. :34.320 --> :40.380
Not long after, I found the car I was looking
for, which was a Kia Sorento. I rented it when the
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girlfriend and I went on a trip to Seattle, and
immediately I was thrown away at how much space
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was inside the Sorento and that it had a 4-cyl
turbocharged engine. I looked at my girlfriend
:51.360 --> :56.220 and said "first thing I am doing once we are
back home is go to Kia and get the Sorento." :56.220 --> :00.000
So once I get back home, I reach out
to a family friend who is the finance :00.000 --> :03.420
manager for several dealerships,
hoping he would have a contact :03.420 --> :06.480
at a Kia. Instead, I get told he would call me
back. My brother then calls me and says he wants
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to come with me to go check out Jeeps. I told him
I was not interested, but he insisted that "you
:11.616 --> :16.020 will be happier with a Jeep! I also wanna
go to see if I can consolidate my cars." :16.020 --> :21.420
To indulge my brother's request, I agree
and he meets me a Mancari Chysler Dodge Jeep
:21.420 --> :26.400 Ram (Now known as Berman, so maybe under new
management since this incident.) In any case,
:26.400 --> :31.380 the closest vehicle they had on the lot that
would even come close to the Kia Sorento was
:31.380 --> :36.300 a Jeep Grand Cherokee. As I am perusing the
lot, my brother shows up with my sister-in-law,
:36.300 --> :43.200 my brother driving in on a 2014 Jeep Grand
Cherokee and my sister in law in a 2012 Kia Forte.
:43.200 --> :48.780
Both of their cars appeared to be in immaculate
condition and both with less than 20,000 miles. :48.780 --> :53.940
We walk in and I get taken away by one of the
sales reps, while another sales rep talks to
:53.940 --> :58.080
my brother and sister in law. I begin to tell
the sales rep that I want to trade in my car
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for the Grand Cherokee and go on to say that I
am trying to keep my bill under $1000 a month.
:02.880 --> :08.280
That means that I want to even get a base model,
as long as it has towing capabilities. I found
:08.280 --> :14.460 the exact one I wanted for $45,000 , which
would later come up to about $53,000 after
:14.460 --> :19.500 taxes and fees. We go back to his office to
run numbers, and the sales rep comes back
:19.500 --> :24.900 to ask me if I am willing to put another
$5000 down. At this point I was confused. :24.900 --> :30.660
I have always prided myself in having great credit
and have had a very long history of always taking
:30.660 --> :36.000
care of my credit. I also had also explained that
I was already putting $5000 down, so why do they
:36.000 --> :42.420
need another $5000? After I say no, the guy walks
away and talks to what appears to be the sales
:42.420 --> :47.880
manager. After some back and forth, the sales guy
comes back with the manager in tow. The sales rep
:47.880 --> :53.820
sits down and the manager says "listen, these are
Jeeps you are looking into. I won't lie to you,
:53.820 --> :59.340 if you do not put another $5000 down, you
are looking at monthly bills of $1200." That
:59.340 --> :04.800 confused the h*** out of me, as I realized
that the bill I'd pay, after 60 months,
:04.800 --> :11.160
would be in the ball park of $72,000!!! So I said
"I need to see the numbers you are crunching,
:11.160 --> :16.380
because this definitely does not add up. How does
a bill, that after everything is said and done at
:17.340 --> :22.500 $53,000 . suddenly equate to $72,000!?"
The sales rep looks at the manager and the
:22.500 --> :26.100 manager just looks back at the
rep, just to then say "listen, :26.100 --> :31.440
they are Jeeps. They retain their value. If
you can't afford it, then we can't help you." :31.440 --> :36.000
So I cut my losses and start heading
out, when I remembered that my brother :36.000 --> :42.000
was there...with a Jeep...looking to trade
it in! So queue my malicious compliance! :42.000 --> :48.420
I quickly B-line straight to the office my brother
and sister in law are in just at the right time!
:48.420 --> :53.340
They had just received the appraisal reports for
both vehicles, but I was mostly interested in the
:53.340 --> :58.380
Jeep Grand Cherokee. As I walk in, the sales rep
working with them stops and asks what I am doing,
:58.380 --> :01.740 and I say "Don't worry, I'm with them.
That's my brother and that's my sister :01.740 --> :06.600
in law." So the guy doesn't mind, and just as
he is about to give the discuss the report,
:06.600 --> :12.780
the sales manager walks in and says "If you guys
aren't going to buy a car today, please leave." I
:12.780 --> :17.400
look at him and say "What's wrong? I just came
over here to wait for my brother to hopefully
:17.400 --> :22.620
trade in his vehicles to consolidate his vehicles.
I believe your sales rep just needs to discuss the
:22.620 --> :27.240 appraisal report." The manager then says "He
doesn't have to discuss that in front of you."
:27.240 --> :31.980 I then looked at my brother and said "Do you
give me consent to be here while the report is
:31.980 --> :37.620
read?" and my brother immediately said "yes thats
fine!". At that point, the sales manager basically
:37.620 --> :43.680
grabbed the reports and tore them up and said "We
will not be doing business with you. Leave now!" :43.680 --> :48.300
Immediately after that, I called my buddy
again, asked him if he worked with a specific
:48.300 --> :54.180 Kia dealership I had in mind, and within 1
hour, had traded my Dodge Caliber for the Kia
:54.180 --> :59.820 Sorento I wanted. At that moment, my brother
and sister in law saw the Sorento and both
:59.820 --> :03.600 agreed that it was significantly more
spacious than the Grand Cherokee. :03.600 --> :07.440
Oh and to add insult to injury, my
family friend was actually able to :07.440 --> :13.920
pull the report of the appraisal. The 2014
Grand Cherokee was purchased at $37000,
:13.920 --> :22.800
and in 1 year, with 15,000 miles, had dropped
in value to $18,000. No accidents, no mechanical
:22.800 --> :28.920
problems, no issues with the body, just suddenly
depreciated. So much for "holding their value".
:33.720 --> :38.760 I see car dealership stories are all
the rage recently, so let me share mine. :38.760 --> :43.080
It was around 2009 when there was
a scrappage scheme in Scotland, :43.080 --> :49.200
you could get 2000 pounds if you scrap your old
banger towards a new car. I decided to go for it,
:49.200 --> :53.820 but being a student I could only afford
a small car, so was browsing the market. :53.820 --> :58.500
At that time new Twingo arrived so I
went to a Renault dealership near me :58.500 --> :03.120
to take a look and check if I could fit
into it (I am a big guy). The dealership
:03.120 --> :07.320 happened to be Arnold Clark, known
for their very pushy sales techniques. :07.320 --> :12.960
So here I am, trying to look at twingo, but there
was a small crowd of people around it (while first
:12.960 --> :19.620
generation twingo was popular in Europe, it was
not available in RHD, so the second generation was
:19.620 --> :24.240
brand new car for Britons). I decided to walk
around and look what else they have on offer. :24.240 --> :30.300
I was looking at renault clio, when a salesperson
approached me. He asked if I like the car - I gave
:30.300 --> :35.220 a polite non-committing answer as it was
the cheapest version possible - no radio,
:35.220 --> :41.700
wind up mirrors, black bumpers, white paint -
you know it. He said to me this car is worth 13
:42.240 --> :46.380 000 pounds, but today only I can
have it for 4000 less. More over, :46.380 --> :51.480
they will offer me special insurance, so if my
car is written off or stolen in the first year,
:51.480 --> :56.100 I will get its full value from the
moment of purchase back - in cash. :56.100 --> :01.440
He offered to discuss that with me over a coffee,
so since the crowd for the twingo was still big,
:01.440 --> :06.540 I said "why not". He sat me down at
the table, made me a really nice latte,
:06.540 --> :11.640
and went to bring some leaflets. Meanwhile one of
his collegues approached me to tell me in secret,
:11.640 --> :16.260 that he should not tell me that, as they
are on commission, but this is too great
:16.260 --> :21.360 of a deal to miss. (yes, they are that
predictable). Finally, the first guy came,
:21.360 --> :26.580 and it turned out that he not only brought
leaflets but also brought contracts and other
:26.580 --> :31.320
documents ready to sign. I took a sip of my coffee
and told him I need to give them a good read. :31.320 --> :36.360
I started from that insurance documents.
It said indeed that if I crash the car :36.360 --> :40.980
or if it gets stolen within a year of
purchase, I will get its full value at :40.980 --> :45.960
the moment of purchase in cash. Its full value - that is 9000 pounds.
:45.960 --> :49.260 So i stopped reading and
I asked the guy: you said, :49.260 --> :52.980
you can sell me this car for 4000 less than its worth today, right?
:52.980 --> :54.060 He said "yes". :54.060 --> :00.720
I said: "great, this insurance document values
the car at 9000. If i can have it for 5000,
:00.720 --> :05.280 I am paying cash now and I am happyh to
drive it off in 15 minutes. Where do I sign?" :05.280 --> :09.840
I started browsing the paperrwork for that
other document, but he snapped thewm out of
:09.840 --> :14.580
my hand and told me he need to check something
then dissapeared into the staff-ony doors. :14.580 --> :18.720
I sat there, the other guy came
to ask if he canbe of any help, :18.720 --> :22.800
I told him the other guy went somewhere
with my contract I wanted to sign and :22.800 --> :26.160
never came back. He told me he''ll
look for me, and that I am to wait :26.160 --> :30.360
and make sure I am comfortable, they will
be back right away. He disappeared as well. :30.360 --> :34.620
I finnished my coffee, tried the
Twingo (it was not comfortable), :34.620 --> :39.180
tried new Renault Master - because
I like vans - and left. The rest of :39.180 --> :44.280
the staff was giving me the wide berth,
so it was fun, but finally i got bored. :44.280 --> :47.640
(i ended up with Daihatsu purchased from independent dealer,
:47.640 --> :51.300 which I love and I drive it
all those years till today). :51.300 --> :57.060
(actually, there is a little side story with
Daihatsu as well. Arnold Clark didn't had Daihatsu
:57.060 --> :01.740 dealerships, so there were only independent
dealers in Glasgow. I went to the first one,
:01.740 --> :07.380
and while I was taking a look, I overheard sales
guys talking to each other about "bloody Polish
:07.380 --> :12.720 people wasting their time, while Poles don't
have money for brand new cars anyway" (this
:12.720 --> :17.400 was the time when Polish migration to the
UK was still a relatively new thing). On
:17.400 --> :22.260 hearing that i just got up and left, didn't
look back. Got my car from another dealer
:22.260 --> :25.680 on the opposite end of the city. When
I picked it up, I drove by this first :25.680 --> :31.440
dealer and drove slowly by while blasting
Polish music from my stereo :-) PEOPLE: :37.680 --> :38.040 Op=Me
:59.040 --> :05.520
BACKGROUND: I recently turned 15 & was able to
drive my Golfcart by myself. I have had Turner
:05.520 --> :10.020 syndrome since birth, which is a genetic
mutation of the X chromosome that affects
:10.020 --> :14.760
my hearing & height. I go to a good lottery
high school (I had to win a lottery to get
:14.760 --> :19.860 into the school.) in my state & is known
for being a highly academically inclined
:19.860 --> :25.140
school. An important piece of information for the
story is that my golf cart can't go over 25mph,
:26.100 --> :32.700
the speed limit is 20mph in my neighborhood, & I
can't tell what speed I am going at because a golf
:32.700 --> :36.300 cart doesn't need a speedometer (a device
that tells what speed you are going at). :36.300 --> :41.940
THE SETUP: It was during June & was a nice
day driving my golf cart. I turned the :41.940 --> :46.560
corner which led to a little straight before
another turn & that's when I first saw them,
:46.560 --> :51.180 Karen, they were with their black dog
& were talking to somebody when they
:51.180 --> :55.920 tried for some unknown reason to step with
their dog in front of my cart. Luckily,
:55.920 --> :00.300 I was paying attention & swerved out of
the way, I was unable to comprehend what
:00.300 --> :05.340 just happened. I later went home & told
my mom what happened & she got p*****. :05.340 --> :10.740
THE STORY: The full event happened in early
July. I was yet again driving my golf cart
:10.740 --> :15.840 in my neighborhood when I saw Karen again.
I waved respectfully to Karen though yelled
:15.840 --> :19.740 at me to slow down. Karen yelled that I
was too young to drive a golf cart & that
:19.740 --> :25.200 I should get my 'mommy' so she could talk
to her about me not being supervised. The
:25.200 --> :30.120 compliance was about to commence. I did
get my 'Mommy' who just happened to be a
:30.120 --> :37.260
Cath nurse that treats cardiovascular diseases
& does cardiac surgeries every day. My mom was
:37.260 --> :41.820 red with anger when I called her in front
of my house & yelled into the phone when I
:41.820 --> :46.980
mentioned that Karen even tried to talk to me.
My mom got out there fast & told me to move to
:46.980 --> :52.380 the passenger seat as she booked it to where
Karen was. This is how the conversation went: :52.380 --> :59.040
Karen: I had no idea it was you(me). I expected
you to be driving like a maniac as you do. :59.040 --> :01.440
Mom: Is she the one you mentioned? :01.440 --> :02.580 Op: Yes mom.
:02.580 --> :08.580
Karen: So, you are this maniac's mom, how dare
you allow your young daughter to drive a car! :08.580 --> :16.500
Mom: One she is 15 years old, second how dare you
yell at my daughter, & three it's a golf cart! :16.500 --> :19.800
Karen: She literally almost ran into my friend! :19.800 --> :21.420
Mom: Is this true? :21.420 --> :22.500 Op: No.
:22.500 --> :26.880 Karen: You are easily raising
a liar & a stupid daughter. :26.880 --> :33.600
Mom: My daughter goes to Important School & is
not at all stupid, also get your dog away from me. :33.600 --> :36.180
Karen: They are friendly & don't bite. :36.180 --> :39.960
Mom: I don't care, I see many instances in the
:39.960 --> :43.620 hospital where I see many people
bitten by dogs who 'don't bite.' :43.620 --> :45.480
Karen: What type of nurse? :45.480 --> :47.340
Mom: None of your business. :47.340 --> :53.640
Karen went on about how I was a brat & my
mom became somehow madder at her. My mom
:53.640 --> :58.680 kept calm though it was Karen mentioning
my height that set my mom off. My mom :58.680 --> :03.360
went into a loud tirade about how Karen
shouldn't mention my height since it is
:03.360 --> :07.920 indeed a thing I am uncomfortable about. The
entire neighborhood heard of what she did. :07.920 --> :08.700
FALLOUT: :08.700 --> :14.640
Karen is now shunned by the neighborhood that
she has lived in for 18 years. The lesson is to
:14.640 --> :19.920 not mess with a mom who wakes up at 4:30
am to work and who is an amazing parent. | give me a good story on rMaliciousComplianceCRAZYKARENBULLIESMEFORBEINGSHORTRedditStories |
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aita for telling my girlfriend it is not my job to calm her down I 34m am
currently on a trip with my GF 41f it is a job trip but I invited her to come
along me all paid for me in part because I thought it could be nice but mostly
because in the last five work trips I have taken she always gets angry and
starts fights her points included not taking her with me so the day of the
trip 20 minutes before taking the bus to the airport she tells me that she is
feeling bad I asked her what was wrong and if she felt fine for travel she said
I don't know what choice do I have we got to our room and it doesn't have a
private washroom I misread the booking I know that this is UN acceptable for her
and her OCD so I tried to take her to a new hotel losing my money on the first
one and she said no thankfully the staff was very understanding at hotel one and
for a fee let us switch rooms and gave us a washroom only for us for her I told
her this and she got even angrier she started berating me telling me she is
never going on a trip with me again why didn't I ask her to book the room with
me this one is a valid point I apologized back then why didn't I cancel
my trip when she was feeling bad before to ignore her and go to the conference
she told me that three times I asked her
what to do with food another three times and she said she could take care of
herself | give me a good story on AITAfortellingmygirlfrienditisnotmyjobtocalmherdownorig |
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today we've got a great malicious compliance
story all about Window Washers we'll get into
:06.280 --> :12.960
that in a bit but first you need to leave my car
alone if you say so this is not my story but my
:12.960 --> :18.600
friend Adams Adam is a retired police officer and
this takes place in the mid 90s back when Adam was
:18.600 --> :24.320
A Beat cop maybe a year or two into his service
at the time this story takes place a firebug had
:24.320 --> :29.120
targeted several businesses over the course of
a 3-month period the fires were put out but they
:29.120 --> :35.160
were getting bigger and bigger causing thousands
of dollars in damage everyone was on edge and the
:35.160 --> :41.240
police were patrolling the area every night to try
and catch Mr Firebug on this particular night in
:41.240 --> :46.920
the middle of February Adam and his partner Rick
drew the short stick and thus were assigned to
:46.920 --> :53.960
patrol part of the area while on patrol he notices
a classic Mercedes Benz pulling up to a house and
:53.960 --> :00.080
a familiar lady dressed in a thick fur coat steps
out he groans it's the wife of a local business
:00.080 --> :05.320
owner that every officer in this town have had
the displeasure to ticket for various parking
:05.320 --> :11.640
and traffic violations it would have been fine
if she were a nice lady or something but no her
:11.640 --> :18.760
three default sentences were don't you know who I
am where's your manager/ supervisor and I'll have
:18.760 --> :24.680
your job seriously she was a Karen before Karens
were even a thing Rick points out to Adam that
:24.680 --> :29.520
Karen had parked right by a fire hydrant par for
the course Adam gets ready and steps out of the
:29.520 --> :37.280
squad the car good evening Mrs entitled ma'am Adam
said what are you doing here Karen bellowed Adam
:37.280 --> :42.640
guessed that's the Karen version of the word hello
working the beat you do know you parked next to a
:42.640 --> :49.440
fire hydrant so Karen said I'm suggesting you move
it before I ride you a ticket I'm not in the mood
:49.440 --> :56.640
for extra paperwork tonight she said listen you
need to leave my car alone or I'll have your job
:56.640 --> :02.480
with that Kieran storms off to the house goes
inside and and slams the door Adam thought if
:02.480 --> :07.880
you say so and proceeded to check the outside
of the car for any more violations and wishing
:07.880 --> :14.000
that being a bench was a federal offense as he's
putting the ticket under the windshield wiper the
:14.000 --> :21.160
call everyone's been dreading comes on the radio
a fire alarm has been triggered the address right
:21.160 --> :26.360
across the street Adam looks over at the building
and can see a faint orange glow in the windows on
:26.360 --> :32.000 the second floor he reports the glow he and
Rick get ready in case Mr Firebug decides to
:32.000 --> :37.080
cross their path several officers arrive and set
a perimeter around the building as the glow gets
:37.080 --> :42.680
brighter and brighter unfortunately by the time
the fire department gets there flashover happens
:42.680 --> :48.320
and all the windows on the second floor get blown
out it was so hot that Adam felt sweat form on
:48.320 --> :54.360
his face the fire department need to get the hoses
set up but Karen's car is in the way using safety
:54.360 --> :59.800
hammers they break the windows and run the hoses
through getting everything set up in record time
:59.800 --> :04.800
during all of the chaos Karen comes out and she
sounds like a banshee that had swallowed an air
:04.800 --> :10.280 raid siren she runs over and tries unhooking
the hose from the hydrant what are you doing
:10.280 --> :16.440
my car is ruined it took two officers to restrain
her and bark at her to go inside and let everyone
:16.440 --> :21.440
do their jobs she actually listened and returned
inside Adam spent the rest of his shift helping
:21.440 --> :26.240
with the fire and investigation it was close to
Dawn when he returned to the station to finish
:26.240 --> :33.360
up all he wanted was to go home and crawl into bed
that's when his supervisor calls Rick and him over
:33.360 --> :40.000
and reports that Karen reported several thousand
worth of damage not only had her Windows Broken
:40.000 --> :46.680
But Water had gotten in and froze because it was
again the middle of February the supervisor asked
:46.680 --> :51.560
them what happened and they reported everything
fortunately the dash cam caught a recording of
:51.560 --> :56.680
the event the supervisor shook her head laughed
and said well you had nothing to do with the car
:56.680 --> :02.480
getting damaged so I consider this closed a a few
weeks later they caught the fire buug a different
:02.480 --> :07.080
business owner who was trying to commit insurance
fraud he figured that if several other buildings
:07.080 --> :12.800
caught fire nobody would think he was responsible
for burning down his own business unfortunately
:12.800 --> :17.960
Karen never did seem to learn her lessons so she
was back to racking up tickets and being a thorn
:17.960 --> :23.720
in the police's side she did have to pay for the
damages and the ticket Adam gave her I was about
:23.720 --> :28.680
to say didn't know P say this took place in the
mid90s and whatnot but then I realized it's the
:28.680 --> :34.720
cop car dash Cam and I realized I've seen plenty
of incredible moments caught on camera from the
:34.720 --> :41.720
mid 2000s that show these incredibly grainy blurry
police dash cams it all made sense in the end
:41.720 --> :47.680
also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy awesome
stories of malicious compliance why not hit those
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like And subscribe buttons down below that said
our next story is debit cards I work at Woodforest
:54.080 --> :59.360
National Bank for those who don't know it's a bank
based out of Texas located primarily on the East
:59.360 --> :04.880
Coast Coast inside of Walmart this story happened
about a month ago one of our usual entitled Karen
:04.880 --> :10.240
customers comes into the bank demanding we print
her a new debit card because she lost her old one
:10.240 --> :16.760
we issued debit cards same day so long as they pay
a debit card fee $10 for a reprint or 15 for a new
:16.760 --> :22.640
card waved for certain accounts a reprint was a
simple task so I print her card and send her on
:22.640 --> :28.120
her way she then walks back into the bank because
the last two numbers were slightly rubbed off this
:28.120 --> :33.200
is due to how the machine print the cards and is
pretty common she says I want you to print this
:33.200 --> :39.120
card again I say is it not working she says look
at the last two numbers other Banks don't give
:39.120 --> :44.800
me cards with rubbed off numbers I say I'm sorry
ma'am but sometimes that happens with the machine
:44.800 --> :50.240
it rubs part of the numbers off when activating
the chip she says I don't care it looks terrible
:50.240 --> :56.040
do it again I said ma'am I don't think this is a
good idea we really don't have control over how
:56.040 --> :01.480 the machine entitled Karen raising her voice
said I I don't care what you have to do just
:01.480 --> :07.440
print my card again so it looks nice she takes
a pair of scissors and cuts up the card into
:07.440 --> :12.440
tiny pieces in front of me print the freaking
card now or do I have to close my account and
:12.440 --> :17.920
contact Market manager's name the market manager
isn't someone you would know unless you've had a
:17.920 --> :22.400
conversation with him before it's obvious she
was trying to name drop him to get me to shut
:22.400 --> :28.840
up and comply Q malicious compliance I turn over
to my manager and he gives me a nod I then put on
:28.840 --> :34.840
a devious smile and say absolutely ma'am but to
ensure this won't happen again we will need to
:34.840 --> :40.880
change the numbers so I'm going to need you to
sign some things she said see was that so hard
:40.880 --> :44.720
we then spend the next 10 minutes printing out
new cards until we get one that doesn't have
:44.720 --> :49.920
the num slightly rubbed off each time the card
isn't to her liking she cuts it up and says to
:49.920 --> :56.320
do it again I just smile and say sorry about this
let's try again each time until about eight cards
:56.320 --> :02.560
later she finally gets a card number that isn't
rubbed off she says finally this card looks good
:02.560 --> :08.120
thanks she just leaves with a smug grin thinking
she won and leaving us with her massive pile of
:08.120 --> :14.800
cut up debit cards what we forgot to remind her
of is a completely new card generated outside
:14.800 --> :21.720
of fraud or expiration costs $15 to be deducted
from your account this is made clear at account
:21.720 --> :26.600
opening and since she signed off and having all
these new cards printed there was nothing she
:26.600 --> :32.520
could say normally I try and help people avoid
Bank fees but in this case freak this entitled
:32.520 --> :37.200
woman a couple days later she comes storming into
the bank looking ticked what the freak did you
:37.200 --> :42.240
do to my account I said I'm sorry ma'am but what
seems to be the problem she says there's a bunch
:42.240 --> :48.200
of debit card fees on my account what the freak
did you do I said oh every time you had me print
:48.200 --> :53.720
a new debit card for you the other day a $115 fee
was charged to your account the first one where
:53.720 --> :59.440
you only had me reprint the card number was only
$10 she says you need to freaking reverse these
:59.440 --> :05.240
fees right now before I call market manager name
and get you fired at this point my manager steps
:05.240 --> :10.600
in and says hello ma'am what's the issue your
dumb butt employee tricked me into paying over
:10.600 --> :16.520
$100 worth of fees because he kept freaking up
my debit card they said ma'am could you please
:16.520 --> :23.040
not yell also I was there you demanded we print
you a new debit card because you didn't like the
:23.040 --> :28.520
numbers being rubbed off we have your signature
on these forms stating that you wanted these cards
:28.520 --> :34.520
to be printed I will not be reversing these fees
for you she says then I want to close my account
:34.520 --> :39.240
they say okay but first you need to pay off your
negative account balance as well as your line of
:39.240 --> :45.240
credit she says just give me market manager nam's
number this instant they say sorry ma'am but we
:45.240 --> :50.080
aren't at Liberty to just give out his number like
that here's the number to customer service if you
:50.080 --> :55.680
would like this is true as he's instructed us not
to give his number out to any customer who asks
:55.680 --> :01.440
the only people who need his number already have
it she takes the number screams I'll have your
:01.440 --> :07.840
jobs for this flips us off kicks over a chair and
storms out we get a call from customer care later
:07.840 --> :13.480
about the incident where we explain everything and
scan over all the signed debit card applications
:13.480 --> :20.160 also she had us print eight brand new cards
and the one reprint that cost her about $130
:20.160 --> :25.280
in fees because she demanded a new debit card
the best part is my manager likely would have
:25.280 --> :31.240
just a wave the original $10 fee had she just
been nice and asked needless to say I don't
:31.240 --> :36.840
think it was too unreasonable of an ask for her
to say hey could you guys reprint this in a way
:36.840 --> :43.640
that it doesn't look damaged or scratched off or
well-worn already but you know constructively like
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an adult human being our next story is the legend
of the window washers this story was told to me
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by Bell a friend of mine who was a retired army
officer and takes place during the late '90s to
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this story is more unintentional malicious
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compliance than anything else a fresh batch of
second lieutenants had arrived when the story
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starts among this group is a young man who had The
Misfortune of Being nicknamed dum dum when he was
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a Cadet after the lollipop because he liked to eat
them the man was a skilled software engineer and
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became popular because he was friendly helpful and
personable unfortunately he wasn't the shrillest
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whistle on the football field not a lot of common
sense one time he punched himself in the face
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when told to beat his face AKA do push-ups when
the others realized this they made sure to make
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orders clear unfortunately this story is about
one of the times when someone forgot to do that
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one day word arrives that a general is coming to
the base because of this Colonel Stone the same
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one who reamed out a Major's wife for threatening
Belle's rank was in a parly foul mood wanting to
:55.360 --> :01.240
avoid getting chewed out Bell volunteers to run
several errands after finishing she's passing a
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building when she sees an odd sight there standing
on another second Lieutenant's shoulders was dumb
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Dum and he was holding a bucket and sponge Belle
sees that dum dum is washing the windows while
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the other second Lieutenant let's designate him
step stool was balancing him holding on to his
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ankles according to Belle it was like watching a
car wreck you know you should look away but you
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just can't she hears Stone stop next to her also
with a befuddled look on his face it's at this
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moment that step stool notices that they have an
audience and stumbles this causes dum dum to lose
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his balance and he falls to the ground causing a
bloody nose Bell and stone get splashed by soapy
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water from the bucket all three second lieutenants
stand to attention what are you two idiots doing
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Stone asked we were ordered to wash the windows on
the second floor for the General Sir dum dum said
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why didn't you get a ladder Stone asked we weren't
ordered to use a ladder sir we were just told to
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get it done Stone stared for 10 seconds Stern is
his namesake before walking around the building
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it's then they hear him laughing hysterically
everyone is staring at one another not sure how
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to react after a minute Stone comes back calm as
can be who gave you the order to wash the windows
:18.160 --> :23.520 first lieutenant lital sir go to medical and
get that bloody nose checked out help them get
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a ladder Smith when they're cleared and don't do
that again you two yes sir after getting cleared
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by medical dum dum was fine Belle helps them get
a ladder and returns to work by the end of the day
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word had spread and Belle got the full story it
turned out that lital who was also in a foul mood
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had snapped at dum dum and step stool to go wash
the windows on the second floor when they asked
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him how they could help when they asked how they
could reach the second floor LOL who really wanted
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to get them out of his hair told them I don't care
how just get it done and don't bother anyone until
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you two get it done he later apologized to dum
dum and step stool quietly of course dum dum and
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step stool finished their chore and the General's
arrival went well from that day forward dum dum
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and step stool were known as the window washers
why do I feel like hearing this story I feel like
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this was a deleted scene from the time in the
Army from Forest Gump just a deleted scene that
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happened with forest and Bubba being a little too
literal our next story is my son and his breakfast
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my son was about 4 years old and he gets hungry
first thing when he wakes up he kept getting up
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and yelling at his mom demanding breakfast I had a
conversation with him telling him that he couldn't
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talk to his mom that way and he couldn't yell
at her first thing in the morning to make him
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breakfast the next morning he wakes up comes into
the bedroom and says hey Mom I'm not going to yell
:45.840 --> :51.440 at you to make me breakfast then he went and
sat at the table and waited for his breakfast I
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couldn't stop laughing all morning well I mean hey
I mean that's better than actually yelling I would
:57.080 --> :01.680 say and considering it's your four-year-old
kid I would say that's pretty cute our next
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story is check my receipt I've recently CAU on to
something my father does anytime he goes somewhere
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I.E Walmart Target with self checkout he makes it
a point to use it then when walking out as soon
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as the associate pops off the normal may I see
your receipt my father always smiles his biggest
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smile excitedly chirps a quick yep hands them the
receipt and continues his brisk Pace past them and
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out the doors the bewildered look on their face
is the best part edit we're talking food items
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here guys and you know in my 30 plus years in this
planet I've never returned anything to a store and
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I'm 99% positive I've never seen my parents return
anything either see I can't tell if this makes you
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look incredibly not guilty or incredibly guilty
like does this show that you just have nothing to
:53.480 --> :57.800
hide or does it show that you have everything
to hide and you're just trying to get out of
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there it's like a more physical version of look
what's that and then you just start running but
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with that being said that's all the time we have
for today now if you want to hear another awesome
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today we have a crazy story of an entitled parent
throwing out their kids clothes that don't give
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off enough feminine energy we'll get into that in
a bit but first female 27 my dad is acting like
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a selfish teenager and I can't take it anymore
context my dad was probably raised by narcissists
:17.440 --> :23.520 himself his mom treated her kids like slaves
was SL is selfish and an attention seeker and
:23.520 --> :29.320
just plain evil she's always hated my mom and was
in any way trying to ruin her life still to this
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day even in her 880s after 25 years of marriage
my parents don't really love each other in fact
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I'd say after 15 or so my dad started to show his
true colors and his family traits started showing
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more the most prominent change was that he cared
more about his mom and siblings than his own wife
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and kids became more greedy about money abusive
to my mom in all ways emotionally abusive to me
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the eldest especially more so hated anything fun
most of the time and liked making fun of people
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including us his mom had a attack a couple weeks
ago I messaged him privately to ask if everything
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was okay if he was okay got a simple response
and found out from my mom that Grandma is fine
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and at home now actually This Woman's Health is
way better than my maternal grandparents rip I
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had a flight to catch the next day went on holiday
and then noticed how he didn't reply to any of my
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family group chat messages never reached out to me
like say flight but I think anything of it managed
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to get back home one day later after flight was
changed so a lot of stress as my crap manager was
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very rude about it ended up quitting my job after
a week of more bullying at work wasn't eating or
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sleeping properly I was a zombie only today I
get a message from my youngest sister saying my
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dad's been benching about me saying I don't care
about him or his mom even though I did message him
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the fact that he puts this on my little sister is
wrong he always tries to wedge between us it's not
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my job to Chase my dad especially when I'm going
through my own issues money quitting job Health
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eviction etc etc it's not selfish of me I simply
forgot to message him again a few days later to
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ask for an update because again I was dealing with
a lot which my dad knew about and never asked if I
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was okay it's always one-sided with him he only
seems to care about himself or his own family
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nowadays he's done this act before with his own
health issues just acted immature by gossiping
:24.160 --> :29.120 about me rather than actually confronting me
since this is like the 100th time he's not come
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to me with his ISS isues about me I'm sick of
it I'm done the worst part is when my maternal
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grandma was suffering from a stroke and then died
he never once asked me if I was okay even worse
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2 months after she died he told my mom she was
dramatic and overreacting about losing her mom
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what kind of a person would say that but when his
mom has a heart attack the whole world should stop
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what they're doing I don't care if she's old and
she's his mom she's a horrible disgusting person
:57.440 --> :04.800
who demands respect via fear and bullying to me
my siblings my mom and even my dad and if she dies
:04.800 --> :10.160
then good riddance more context he's always had a
problem with me because I have my own opinions and
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I'm the black sheep of the family annoyingly my
mom and siblings keep the peace by benching about
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him behind his back rather than do what I do and
confront my dad and who gets ostracized from their
:22.040 --> :27.560 family for being honest me because I'm being
honest and open like a normal freaking family
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should do in fact my mom should have left him
years ago but she kept using us kids as an excuse
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even though my youngest sister was 18 at the time
I just feel so unloved and unimportant right now a
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dad is supposed to be supportive loving and open
someone who you can rely on I could rely on him
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until I got to my teenage years he started picking
on me and treating me like I was his age since
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then nowadays he forgets to ask how's your day he
doesn't care honestly with the amount of animosity
:57.640 --> :04.360
going on here maybe it's for the best the sooner
both sides get used to the idea of just not being
:04.360 --> :10.040
so on top of communication with each other I mean
is it not normal enough to have a relationship
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even with family where you don't talk all that
often sweet interview 5620 wrote I am so sorry
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you're going through all this just know this was
not your doing that the truth is no matter what
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you or your siblings do he would still choose
to abuse you it took me a long time of mourning
:27.120 --> :33.120
the parents I should have had mourning that but I
finally had to accept it was never going to change
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I had Knights thinking why me why couldn't they
love or want me I then read why does he do that
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by Lundy boft it's free to download just Google
it although it's about domestic abusers it does
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fit all abusers it breaks them into types and
how each type abuses and more importantly how
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they think the truth that Set Me Free and took
that last remaining power he had over my mental
:55.880 --> :01.720
health was realizing it had never been about me it
had only ever been about who he is and he sees you
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and your family as his property he thinks he has
a right to abuse you and do what he wants in fact
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he thinks you're wronging him by not letting him
abuse You by not being a mindreader and knowing
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what he wanted without even saying he sees you as
having any say in your life as an affront to his
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authority and control he fully believes he should
have over all of you that he thinks when he abuses
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you it's because you've wronged him and pushed him
to it that his treatment is his Vic 's fault only
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not only that but he can't change the fact that
he would lose his wife and child and not even
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consider just treating you with respect to keep
you in his life yet he would still choose abuse
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and losing you if he won't change then nothing
will ever make him the truth is most abusers can't
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change as their whole brain and thought processes
need to be retrained as his mind no longer has a
:52.280 --> :57.960
conscience when it's his victims if asked would he
do it to his mother or a friend it would be heck
:57.960 --> :03.960
no that's wrong that's abuse yet with his victims
he crossed the line and his mind no longer Flags
:03.960 --> :10.600
any of his actions towards his victim as wrong
and is abusive that's a proven fact only 5% of
:10.600 --> :15.680
abusers can truly change as even if they have
nearly killed someone they admit that they were
:15.680 --> :20.840
the abuser for a week and then their mind reverts
back to they were Justified that it shouldn't have
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happened but she shouldn't have pushed him like
that that she shouldn't have disrespected him and
:25.080 --> :31.000
said no they need to work very hard to change and
reprogram their minds and that takes specialist
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abuse therapists as they know the tricks and they
talk to the victim secretly to get the truth of
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each event even the ones who wanted to change
as wasn't Court mandated to the course 95% all
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go back to believing they were pushed to it and
it was the victim's fault and 95% drop out or
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simply do not change a high number think because
they can say they're trying and are at the course
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it will convince their victims to think they can
change and they're working to do so they are there
:59.720 --> :04.680 as the court ordered and to manipulate their
way back into their victim's lives so as hard
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as it is Coming to Terms of your father has never
loved anyone but himself knowing there was never
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anything you could do that even if you weren't
born he would be just like this the same that
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helped me move on and I hope it does you too when
I realized I wasn't missing my parents or Mourning
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losing them but the dream the subconscious whole
that they could change and finally be good loving
:27.760 --> :32.840
parents that made it easier to to not go back
again as they weren't good for my life and I
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Knew by then that they would never change or be
anything but harmful to me it's easier to get
:37.840 --> :44.240
on with your life yes it's painful at first but
quickly you realize how much happier and easier
:44.240 --> :51.400
your life is no more mood watching no more walking
on eggshells no more having to constantly think
:51.400 --> :57.440
about him so you can do enough to appease him and
try to prevent him kicking off again but mostly no
:57.440 --> :04.160
more constant drama and no one's sucking at your
soul and mental health and energy every single
:04.160 --> :10.040
day you quickly find that life so much happier
peaceful and easy without a toxic person there
:10.040 --> :14.560
anymore you will have to make sure the rest of
your family don't keep trying to get you involved
:14.560 --> :20.520
and bringing them up they may just ignore him and
in fact enable his abuse of them but that's their
:20.520 --> :25.320
choice and they have no right to try to pull you
back in as they don't have the backbone to do the
:25.320 --> :30.160
same you love them but you shouldn't need to set
yourself on fire simply to keep keep them happy
:30.160 --> :36.520
by not rocking the boat and protecting yourself
that said our next story is emotionally immature
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parents as long as I can remember my mother has
been incredibly immature she has a variety of
:42.520 --> :48.240
mental health issues so I try to be understanding
but it's becoming exhausting me and my boyfriend
:48.240 --> :52.800
currently live at home with her and are not in a
position to move out for another year or so but
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we are saving yesterday I worked for 11: to 3:00
p.m. and 6:00 to 10 p.m. and didn't come home in
:59.080 --> :03.880
between I just met up with my boyfriend on his
work break grabbed lunch and went back when we
:03.880 --> :09.360
both came home she was a delight did the grocery
shopping I usually pay for got me a new plant for
:09.360 --> :14.880
my room weirdly nice but I appreciated it and
I went straight up to get ready for bed she had
:14.880 --> :21.600
entirely trashed my whole bedroom we had had no
argument prior to this I do not know her motives
:21.600 --> :26.760
and it really stressed me out she dumped all the
shoes from my shoe rack on my bed that I had just
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changed the sheets on she spilled my sour starter
all over my favorite vintage wool rug she got my
:33.600 --> :37.920
rubbish out of the recycling and threw it all
over the floor a bunch of stuff from my shelves
:37.920 --> :43.680
had just been strewn about on the floor so after
work I changed my sheets bined my rug because I
:43.680 --> :48.120
just cannot be bothered to deal with it tidied
up the rest of it and put the rubbish back in the
:48.120 --> :54.200
recycling and went for a shower now she's acting
like nothing happened I'm not a messy person I
:54.200 --> :59.520
do a large majority of the cooking and cleaning at
home I am very grateful she lets us live there and
:59.520 --> :04.840
try to be understanding but I physically can't
deal with her behavior anymore I don't understand
:04.840 --> :10.880
it and I don't know why she acts out like this she
has behaved poorly on many occasions but this is
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possibly my final straw and I am livid there is
no Rhyme or Reason to it and I'm tired of dealing
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with this once when I was younger she asked me
why I don't make much of an effort to get along
:21.640 --> :26.160
with her boyfriend at the time I was honest and
just let her know that he makes a lot of racist
:26.160 --> :31.240
jokes not just in private and it's embarrassing
when when we're out as a group and he goes up to
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immigrants and verbally harasses them when they're
just going about their business calling them names
:36.480 --> :43.800
or imitating their accents especially since we
are immigrants he is British he was also a heavy
:43.800 --> :49.560
drinker and got very loud and confrontational
and it made me uncomfortable we left it at that
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about a week later he was staying over and I came
downstairs to get my leftovers from the fridge
:54.520 --> :59.760
and go upstairs to eat as soon as I entered the
kitchen she said well why don't you tell them why
:59.760 --> :05.200
you don't like him go on I tried to get out of it
and leave because I didn't want to argue but they
:05.200 --> :09.760 both kept pushing me I just said sometimes
the comments he makes towards people make
:09.760 --> :14.760
me uncomfortable and I really don't want to hear
them even if he intended them to be jokes because
:14.760 --> :20.880
I felt they were offensive they both blew up at
me shouting and screaming he took both his kids
:20.880 --> :26.040 and drove home over an hour very intoxicated
because he didn't want to be disrespected by
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a child my mom later that night blocked me on
Instagram WhatsApp and my phone number because
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I came downstairs just looking to argue and I'm
too opinionated and he's just joking it's not
:39.480 --> :45.720
like he's beating them they all find it funny too
and told me I am also racist because I watch South
:45.720 --> :51.440
Park in The Simpsons I've never even watched an
episode of The Simpsons but I do enjoy South Park
:51.440 --> :57.120
so I'm just as bad as him they later broke up
because he made fun of her accent were polish
:57.120 --> :03.360
and insulted her weight as a funny joke she's been
like this ever since I was a child I'm honestly
:03.360 --> :09.520
just sick of it I am sick of her behavior if I
bring it up to her I am suddenly the immature one
:09.520 --> :15.000
I'm getting upset over nothing and I'm being too
sensitive or she'll just bombard me with insults
:15.000 --> :20.920
calling me lazy or stupid or try to get a reaction
out of me if I start crying because I mean that's
:20.920 --> :26.520
my mother and she's blatantly insulting me it
hurts she says I'm just seeking attention and
:26.520 --> :31.040 she doesn't feel bad for me and tells me her
mother was much worse and I'm lucky she doesn't
:31.040 --> :38.040
beat me I acknowledge she's been through a lot but
oh my God I am exhausted I cannot tolerate her any
:38.040 --> :43.240
longer the only other family member I have is my
aunt who's on my mom's side because she lies to
:43.240 --> :49.280
her and makes me out to be the horrible one that
I never clean up after myself I failed in school
:49.280 --> :55.640
I'm disobedient I'm lazy etc etc and she's the
best mother in the world but she's struggling to
:55.640 --> :01.120
manage my behavior I do majority of the cleaning
including cleaning up after her because I know she
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struggles I got nearly straight A I dropped out
of college to work by choice I am an incredibly
:07.400 --> :14.680
boring person disobedient is definitely a stretch
considering the only places I go are the gym work
:14.680 --> :20.120
and occasionally out on dates with my boyfriend
I wouldn't say I'm lazy either it's just all
:20.120 --> :25.280
exhausting because she makes herself out to be
incredible and she's never ever wrong and I'm
:25.280 --> :31.160
just a horrible daughter so nobody is ever on my
side I'm I'm just sick of it how do I tolerate one
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more year in this place I'm genuinely depressed
about coming home every day and it's exhausting
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I think that knowing you only have one more year
left to put up with this and then you're free is
:41.960 --> :46.800 honestly what op should cling to to get you
through it I know it's easier said than done
:46.800 --> :52.040
but you should just accept that she is a vile
person and she's only ever looking to make you
:52.040 --> :58.400
feel bad the sooner you just stop taking stock
or stop worrying about really anything they say
:58.400 --> :05.120
the better off hope he will be beneficial test
5917 wrote it's amazing that woman spawned you
:05.120 --> :09.600
maybe you were accidentally Switched at Birth
and somewhere a sane couple has raised a child
:09.600 --> :16.040
from a Stephen King novel one more year you can
do it our next story is I can't be with the one
:16.040 --> :21.080
I love because of my parents and to be with him
I would get kicked out I'm going to make this as
:21.080 --> :27.040
short and sweet as possible me and this guy have
a past relationship together as children bear in
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mind that my parents have not seen him or spoken
to him in person since we were around 9 years old
:32.520 --> :37.160
we're both 20 now and this is probably the fourth
time in all of these years that we've crossed
:37.160 --> :43.600
paths again back then as a child he used threats
towards everyone especially me but as I got older
:43.600 --> :48.680
I realized how meaningless they were and that
they were just his coping mechanism as a lot of
:48.680 --> :53.880
bad unexpected things ended up happening in his
childhood this is why my parents don't like him
:53.880 --> :59.200
they hate him because he caused me so much pain
we've been speaking and seeing each other secretly
:59.200 --> :04.840
for around 3 weeks and I wouldn't have continued
to do so if I truly didn't believe he had changed
:04.840 --> :10.240
and wasn't capable of that anymore we both have
fallen in love with each other I eventually told
:10.240 --> :15.120
my parents expecting them to be understanding
as I'm an adult now and should be able to talk
:15.120 --> :21.240
to and see who I want but it got so awful that
my parents almost split up and I almost had to
:21.240 --> :26.960
move out to be with him and have no contact with
my parents everything felt so right with him we
:26.960 --> :32.720
last saw each other yesterday and I had honestly
never felt so happy and in love something I've
:32.720 --> :37.520
never felt as much strong feelings for at the
moment he's blocked me on everything newe to
:37.520 --> :43.360
my mom messaging his mom and now his mom doesn't
like the idea of us being together either I just
:43.360 --> :47.400 don't think I can fully move on and I really
believe that we'll find our way back to each
:47.400 --> :53.160
other years down the line and that my parents are
still going to be as controlling and stubborn it's
:53.160 --> :59.200
my parents or him which in my opinion shouldn't
even be a choice everyone I've spoken to is a
:59.200 --> :04.560
that they're overreacting especially because they
say they can't trust him or that he hasn't changed
:04.560 --> :09.440
but then won't see it for themselves by letting
me harmlessly test the waters with him I wouldn't
:09.440 --> :14.080
even bring him back here if they didn't want me
to but I'm an adult and I'm paying my parents to
:14.080 --> :19.040
live at home as I'll soon be going into my third
year of University I really don't know what to do
:19.040 --> :24.440
to make them view him differently I truly believe
in true love and a huge part of me believes that
:24.440 --> :30.400
he could be just that if he was the same as he
was I wouldn't love him again again everything is
:30.400 --> :35.000
perfect when we're together and this isn't fair
on either of us that my parents somehow thought
:35.000 --> :40.880
they could get so involved despite me being 20 and
being told that once I'm 18 I could talk to and
:40.880 --> :47.160
see who I want a mutual friend of ours genuinely
couldn't believe what he did as a kid as he is
:47.160 --> :52.320
nothing like that now why isn't my judgment and
Judgment of other people of not when they can't
:52.320 --> :58.560
even fathom a chance I do feel for op but at the
same time op said that they've only been seeing
:58.560 --> :06.080
this person for 3 weeks and they have a reputation
of being a horrible person somebody that was years
:06.080 --> :11.880
ago just downright awful after 3 weeks of seeing
that person and seeming like they're a little
:11.880 --> :16.920 bit better I could still see why some people
would be hesitant to just outright believe that
:16.920 --> :23.120
IC reputation 180 wrote Playing devil's advocate
here you've been together only 3 weeks you really
:23.120 --> :28.960
haven't had time to truly evaluate his behavior
I have a hard time with the we've fallen in love
:28.960 --> :35.400 in 3 weeks you may have strong feelings for
each other but love not yet I suggest that
:35.400 --> :42.280 you slow down spend time together really see
if he has changed if so proceed with caution
:42.280 --> :49.920
if not then you're not meant to be together our
next story is insane dad tosses my puppy trust
:49.920 --> :56.080
me I would have posted this on r/ insane parents
but it doesn't allow text so freak it this just
:56.080 --> :02.640
happened I'm still seething from the encounter
so two months old puppy right just two months
:02.640 --> :08.280
my little brother his name is Vasco he's a baby
boxer just went to the vet for stupidly rubbing
:08.280 --> :13.240
some sus plants in his eyes and wears a cone to
fix it well we just went on a walk on our usual
:13.240 --> :18.120
Street it's a nice little Street where cars can't
go and so you'll see a lot of dogs going on walks
:18.120 --> :25.960
there and well you know how puppies are right
bouncy CU is well on this morning walk he saw
:25.960 --> :32.000
a kid not a toddler mind you like a 5-year-old
old old enough to walk to speak to go to school
:32.000 --> :37.480
and that's exactly where that little crap stain
was the door to her little school where she was
:37.480 --> :44.600
at with her younger sister and her insane dad
so puppy approaches not running not jumping
:44.600 --> :50.720 not barking just a little curious waddle to
them immediately that non- toddler starts
:50.720 --> :59.000
screeching like Cerberus was gassing towards her
to claim her soul yeah a 2-month-old 7 kg pupp
:59.000 --> :06.960
with irritated eyes held on a short butt leash
the bringer of death and cue the insane father
:06.960 --> :13.000
first thing he does I kid you not he didn't ask me
to drag my dog elsewhere he didn't go to comfort
:13.000 --> :19.760
his daughter first thing he freaking does is take
my two-month-old sick puppy by the collar and toss
:19.760 --> :25.640
it like a meter and a half in the air so hard I
saw him go belly up my puppy did a looping from
:25.640 --> :31.600
this loopy Papa I was too stunned to speak I I
just froze and that is when the jerk said can
:31.600 --> :38.400
you move your dog in this sarcastic butt tone
barely even looking at me yeah he asked for the
:38.400 --> :43.560
dog to move after he grabbed it by the throat and
threw it away like a trash bag I just grabbed my
:43.560 --> :49.160
pup and walked away as I walked I said loudly if
you ever do that again I'll break your freaking
:49.160 --> :56.040
face I told my family this my parents fittingly
angry and flabbergasted both froze just like I
:56.040 --> :03.800
did when I told them my sister though called me an
immature butt for insulting people bench please if
:03.800 --> :09.040
she had a puppy she lives in another city she
never met our dog you know she would jump the
:09.040 --> :14.360
man slit his throat and pee on his corpse that
idiot will always try to find a way to say the
:14.360 --> :19.320
opposite thing just to be a contrarian I don't
think she understands what it is to see your own
:19.320 --> :25.800
puppy a baby in both dog and human years a fragile
little creature who's still learning to not pee
:25.800 --> :31.880
on the carpet the closest thing I have to a little
brother do an actual backflip and slamming against
:31.880 --> :38.200
the ground next time I see this man it'll be a
bloodbath I think honestly I'd probably straight
:38.200 --> :43.520
up call the cops especially considering op said
this happened right outside of school in this day
:43.520 --> :48.760
and age they almost certainly have some kind of
camera right it probably was recorded I feel like
:48.760 --> :54.280
there was great potential here for this guy to get
some kind of animal abuse charge it's the least
:54.280 --> :01.560
that jerk deserves there is zero excuse when a it
is a puppy and B it was on a leash our next story
:01.560 --> :07.440
is parents at school pick up and drop off are the
worst my family and I live across the street from
:07.440 --> :12.320
an elementary school for quite some time over the
years we've had a number of interactions with the
:12.320 --> :19.080
parents they are the epitome of entitled their
kids are also slobs too I regularly find garbage
:19.080 --> :24.480
strewn about in my yard left by the kids and their
parents seem to not make them clean up parents let
:24.480 --> :29.480
their kids walk through our yard and trample our
flowers there is a sidewalk so there's no excuse
:29.480 --> :34.640
to let your kid wander through someone else's yard
the parents have yelled at us we've politely asked
:34.640 --> :40.120
them to not step on our flowers parents block and
use our driveway parents will park in front of the
:40.120 --> :46.120
driveway blocking access because God forbid they
have to walk a bit extra to find parking they'll
:46.120 --> :51.480
also use the driveway to turn around instead of
Drive 200 ft to a culdesac to turn around like
:51.480 --> :57.120
a civilized person my neighbor growing up almost
got hit in her own driveway by an entitled parent
:57.120 --> :01.920 rapidly pulling into their Drive driveway to
use it as a turnaround the car missed her by
:01.920 --> :08.680
a few inches her mom confronted the irresponsible
driver and the entitled parent yelled freak you at
:08.680 --> :14.560
my neighbor's mother along with other profanities
and excuses why she's entitled to the driveway my
:14.560 --> :20.040
parents have asked other parents very nicely to
not block the driveway or use it to turn around
:20.040 --> :25.720
since we kind of need the driveway to park our
own vehicles and it's not their property multiple
:25.720 --> :31.760
other entitled parents have yelled freak you to
to my parents with their kids present as well my
:31.760 --> :37.120
mom once said you really shouldn't talk like that
around your kid when your kids start swearing in
:37.120 --> :43.520
class the teachers will know where it came from
this set the entitled parent off even more with f
:43.520 --> :48.960
bombs and other swear words all because he was
asked not to block our driveway with SUVs and
:48.960 --> :54.600
trucks getting bigger these incidents of blocked
driveways or poor parking happened more frequently
:54.600 --> :00.080
most recently the entitled parents are moving our
trash can so they can take up the whole street our
:00.080 --> :05.200
trash pickup is on Thursday and every Thursday
for the past few weeks the trash can has been
:05.200 --> :11.480
moved and subsequently not collected either it's
tipped over on the street and the can is cracked
:11.480 --> :18.280
now so some idiotic parent probably hit it or it's
dragged back up the driveway and next to the house
:18.280 --> :23.840
what kind of entitled jerk grabs someone else's
full trash can huls it up someone's driveway
:23.840 --> :28.160
and then just feels like they're in the right in
their actions sadly this happens when everyone's
:28.160 --> :33.200
at work during school pickup at around 2: to 300
p.m. so there's no way to directly tell them not
:33.200 --> :38.120
to touch our stuff there is a note on the trash
can saying their parking convenience doesn't give
:38.120 --> :43.400
them a right to move our trash can and prevent
us from getting trash pickup we pay for I think
:43.400 --> :49.200
maybe my strategy in a situation like this would
maybe be just trying to document it getting some
:49.200 --> :54.120
cameras on your property ideally maybe even set
up in some way where you could get like a license
:54.120 --> :00.400
plate and just documenting and going to like a
non-emergency line and just creating this case
:00.400 --> :06.160
File of these people who keep using your property
and especially the ones who go and take that trash
:06.160 --> :11.800
can up summertime fine wrote I would complain to
the school I'm sure you're not the only house in
:11.800 --> :16.080
the block who's experiencing this so maybe get
a group of neighbors together to talk to the
:16.080 --> :22.120
principal or the school board our next story is
Mom didn't pay her electric bill and expects me
:22.120 --> :27.920
to pay her restoration fee 18-year-old female
I live with my mom and I have a part-time job
:27.920 --> :32.640 looking for a second job at the moment money
is tied for me in general because I have my own
:32.640 --> :38.480
expenses and I get two shifts a week and my mom
has a full-time job while also receiving alimony
:38.480 --> :43.680
from my dad her boyfriend pays for everything when
they're together she buys stupid crap she doesn't
:43.680 --> :50.920
need like random glass tables and stuff like that
and goes on vacations and weekend trips but yet
:50.920 --> :55.640
somehow she doesn't have the money to pay for
the electric she let it shut off today and told
:55.640 --> :03.920
me to call PS and G to pay the $50 restoration
fee mind you my paycheck was $390 and I have my
:03.920 --> :09.200
own expenses too that's just the financial side
of it I have a scar in my face still from the
:09.200 --> :14.840
last time she punched me so I guess I just need
some advice and if I sound entitled let me know
:14.840 --> :20.440
my phone's at four cuz I can't charge it cuz the
electric is literally off so I try to make it as
:20.440 --> :24.840
short as possible I feel like maybe you just have
to kind of look for some assistance if you can't
:24.840 --> :30.040 get another job and try to support yourself
if op capable of doing a bit of research they
:30.040 --> :35.480
might very well find some kind of organization in
their area that might be able to help especially
:35.480 --> :41.560
when you add in the fact that there's stuff like
scars as proof this next story is my mom threw
:41.560 --> :47.520
out all of my coziest clothes because she thinks
they're lowering my feminine energy she bought a
:47.520 --> :53.320
new wardrobe for my room and when I came back to
home I saw she already put my clothes in it so
:53.320 --> :59.560
I just thanked her and stuff but then I realized
none of my favorite clothes were there so I asked
:59.560 --> :05.400
her about it and she said I don't know anything
about it they're probably in the laundry box and I
:05.400 --> :11.360
didn't mind about it a week passed and my clothes
were still missing so I asked her again she said
:11.360 --> :16.960 those ugly clothes are lowering my feminine
energy and confidence and that I can't find
:16.960 --> :23.880
any guy to like me with those clothes girl I'm a
romantic even if I wasn't I don't want anyone who
:23.880 --> :30.120
cares just about my clothes she threw out almost
everything that now I have just like three to four
:30.120 --> :37.480
things to wear at home I can't stand it if I were
op I would be so livid I think just about anybody
:37.480 --> :44.120
can recognize how it feels to have your favorite
cozy clothes and imagine if somebody takes all of
:44.120 --> :51.320
your comfort clothes and just gets rid of them I
would be heated hands off my comfy clothes Mig c18
:51.320 --> :58.280
wrote what is feminine energy I've gone through
57 years without this concept ever reaching my
:58.280 --> :04.040
country at least in my friendship circles if it's
a thing wouldn't I have heard about it in my many
:04.040 --> :10.080
education history and psychology qualifications
you can tell her that people from my country
:10.080 --> :16.560
would pee themselves laughing if someone said
that to them even the woke ones # respect to
:16.560 --> :21.920
them but with that being said that's all the time
we have for today now if you want to hear another
:21.920 --> :27.680
absolutely crazy entitled parent story check out
that video on the left or if you missed my latest
:27.680 --> :33.360
video check out that video on the right that said
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:10.530 --> :15.620 I 21(f), made the decision to cut my stepfather
out of my life completely. :15.620 --> :18.710
I also made the choice that he will not be seeing my daughter.
:18.710 --> :19.710 Period. :19.710 --> :23.949
He was so abusive to me growing up and pretended the abuse didn’t happen.
:23.949 --> :25.830 He constantly gaslights me.
:25.830 --> :28.250 He mentally and emotionally abused me.
:28.250 --> :32.710 When I was having mental problems my stepdad
convinced my mother I was lying. :32.710 --> :36.450
He would call me names and make fun of me
for not knowing how to do things I wasn’t :36.450 --> :37.910
taught how to do. :37.910 --> :39.840
He would tell me how stupid I am. :39.840 --> :43.140
He would make fun of me for being autistic and bipolar.
:43.140 --> :46.000 He would do or say things to purposefully
provoke me. :46.000 --> :48.300
He would say, “I wish you would hit me. :48.300 --> :51.910
Fight me what’s up,” thing is I never challenged him to a fight.
:51.910 --> :56.510 I would defend myself from further injury
and he would tell everyone I hit him. :56.510 --> :58.090
That I started a fight with him. :58.090 --> :01.550
Keep in mine I was a 5’5 120 pound girl. :01.550 --> :03.050
He would physically abuse me. :03.050 --> :05.030
He would punch and slap me in the face. :05.030 --> :06.450
Shove me against walls. :06.450 --> :07.940 He thrown things at me.
:07.940 --> :10.480 He told me that he wishes my attempt succeeded.
:10.480 --> :14.140 He would always exclude me from family outings
and going out places. :14.140 --> :15.909
I was excluded from everything. :15.909 --> :20.211
I got awards from an art show and he claimed
I was showing off and was angry that I was :20.211 --> :24.840
trying to hang them up inside my bedroom and demand that I throw them away.
:24.840 --> :28.250 He was upset because I had awards and my sister
did it. :28.250 --> :32.500 He told me that it’s not fair that I’m
rubbing those words in her face because she :32.500 --> :38.270
didn’t win any, my sister was his favorite
anything she wanted she got I was stuck with :38.270 --> :43.549
old clothes that didn’t fit while my sister
got new books new make up new clothes, new :43.549 --> :44.939
shoes, you name it. :44.939 --> :46.369 She was the golden child.
:46.369 --> :48.280 I was forgotten about.
:48.280 --> :52.110 Every time I had plans with my mother he’d
force her to cancel them so she can go with :52.110 --> :53.110 him.
:53.110 --> :54.860 She chose men over me.
:54.860 --> :56.530 I had a daughter in February!
:56.530 --> :59.440 I love her so much and want to protect her.
:59.440 --> :02.090 My mother asked when I would let him see the baby.
:02.090 --> :04.240 I made it clear that wasn’t happening!
:04.240 --> :06.730 He is angry I won’t let him see her.
:06.730 --> :09.990 He said to my mom, “ if I can’t see her
then nobody else can.” :09.990 --> :14.379
“ it’s not fair that she’s excluding me when I provided food clothes, and a roof
:14.379 --> :18.570 over her head she owes me she was a difficult
child to raise.” :18.570 --> :24.320
I wasn’t difficult I had mental issues that
weren’t taken seriously or diagnosed. :24.320 --> :28.430
I went through a lot of trauma, that my family denied even happening.
:28.430 --> :33.220 My stepdad went on FB and talked about how
I’m excluding him and that I’m an ungrateful :33.220 --> :34.220 brat.
:34.220 --> :37.709 He had family reaching out to me to get over
the shitty things he’d done. :37.709 --> :39.930
He will never see my daughter. :39.930 --> :41.860
He will never see me again. :41.860 --> :13.830
He is cut out of my life forever. :13.830 --> :18.530
I'm not sure this post fits here because even
though I think my mom can be entitled she :18.530 --> :21.180
wasn't acting it here, my brother was. :21.180 --> :28.849
I, M17 just told my mom F44 that she raised
an entitled man-child, my brother M20. :28.849 --> :33.910
When my brother was in high-school he used
to get away with everything: he skipped school :33.910 --> :39.340
almost everyday for 3 years, he bullied multiple
kids when be did end up going to school and :39.340 --> :44.620
she didn't even punish him when he threw a
BRICK through the window of a public bus. :44.620 --> :50.190
I'm willing to excuse his past behaviour because
he was a kid but he's just gotten worse. :50.190 --> :54.409
There was a time period where he had gotten
better and even got a job for a few months :54.409 --> :59.541
(which he wasted his income on alcohol but
who am I to judge him it's his money) but :59.541 --> :03.470
eventually he quit his job because 'he didn't like the boss'.
:03.470 --> :07.189 I'm not even kidding he had no reason other
than he didn't like the boss. :07.189 --> :13.040
This previous year my other brother M23 moved
out and we all switched rooms because I used :13.040 --> :18.220
to share the room while M20 had his own room,
whatever, I don't care about that, my room :18.220 --> :22.461
is small in comparison to the room he's in,
but they made me move out of the room I was :22.461 --> :27.080
in for the small room because 'he hated that they were favouring me'.
:27.080 --> :31.260 I honestly dont care about the size of my
room and if he would've asked I would've given :31.260 --> :36.350
it to him, but he didn't, he threw a tantrum
about it until he got what he wanted. :36.350 --> :42.320
Now, he sits on the xbox all day screaming
at kids over fortnite and being so loud. :42.320 --> :46.940
This has been going on for years but it's
just gotten worse now he's in the bigger room. :46.940 --> :51.890
My mom has asked him to calm down or just
be quieter countless times but he just refuses :51.890 --> :52.890 to.
:52.890 --> :57.600 My mom has decided to combat this by making
me do everything he should. :57.600 --> :02.850
Last month she called me because she was shouting
me and I had headphones in because my brother :02.850 --> :07.170
had complained that I hadn't taken his socks down and put them in the washer.
:07.170 --> :10.720 SHE ACTUALLY SHOUTED AT ME FOR NOT DOING HIS
LAUNDRY. :10.720 --> :15.850
I told her that if he cares that much then
HE could do it, but she gave me an hour lecture :15.850 --> :20.729
about how I was being disrespectful and I
should do things I promised - eventhough I :20.729 --> :22.289
never said I would. :22.289 --> :26.479
About an hour ago she came upstairs and told
us that's she didn't want to cook tonight :26.479 --> :30.790
so we would have to get something ourselves, which I told her I was fine with.
:30.790 --> :35.569 When he found out he threw a tantrum and said
he didn't want to and yelled from my room :35.569 --> :41.510
that if he cares that much then he can cook
and he said 'he didn't know how to' and I :41.510 --> :44.950
said well tough you need to learn and stop complaining.
:44.950 --> :49.259 My mom told me that I could cook something
for the both of us which I said absolutely :49.259 --> :50.259 not.
:50.259 --> :52.790 I'm sick of cleaning up after him and that
he was an adult. :52.790 --> :56.069
He said that I don't do anything in the house and that I was lazy.
:56.069 --> :00.200 He hadn't left his room in 2 weeks and hasn't
done chores since he was 12. :00.200 --> :03.419
He attacked my mom with the same accusation. :03.419 --> :08.250
When I got downstairs my mom told me I was
out of line and I blew up at her and told :08.250 --> :13.669
her that it wasnt my fault she raised an entitled
man child that I have to clean up after because :13.669 --> :15.790
he refuses to clean his room. :15.790 --> :28.479
She gave me another lecture which turned into me making food
:28.479 --> :43.259 for him. :43.259 --> :46.700
I need advice. :46.700 --> :48.700 My mom’s birthday is today.
:48.700 --> :51.699 In terms of gifts, I got her dinner at a nice
restaurant. :51.699 --> :53.510 A nice candle and a card.
:53.510 --> :55.479 A gift card to her favorite store.
:55.479 --> :57.949 And $50 for spending money.
:57.949 --> :00.300 It wasn’t a lot but it’s all I had.
:00.300 --> :05.169 My mother is now asking me to put $500 on
my credit card to pay for a trip. :05.169 --> :08.919
She said she would pay me back but I don’t really trust that she will.
:08.919 --> :11.569 She doesn’t have any income besides social
security. :11.569 --> :15.830 Normally I would’ve just did it without
thinking but I have so many extra bills to :15.830 --> :20.569
pay now that I may occasionally need my credit card for breathing room.
:20.569 --> :22.289 My mom is just stressing me.
:22.289 --> :23.289 I love her. :23.289 --> :27.690
I really do but the older I get, the more I see how entitled she is.
:27.690 --> :29.750 She didn’t save anything for retirement.
:29.750 --> :31.139 Doesn’t work. :31.139 --> :35.250
And married horrible, horrible men that ended up in a divorce.
:35.250 --> :40.729 Now she’s in her 70s and it’s a problem
because she’s alone, has no money and puts :40.729 --> :44.360
a lot of responsibility on me that would typically go to a spouse.
:44.360 --> :46.110 Just to give you an example.
:46.110 --> :49.789 She happened to end up in the hospital for
a month for back issues. :49.789 --> :53.819
During one week of this month long hospital
visit, I had to get my wisdom teeth taken :53.819 --> :57.110
out because I had excruciating tooth pain. :57.110 --> :58.569
Had all four pulled out. :58.569 --> :02.169
She wouldn’t give me a day before she needed me to run errands for her.
:02.169 --> :08.009 I had blood dripping out my mouth like a vampire,
couldn’t talk and I could only eat soup :08.009 --> :11.479
but she expected me to go around town taking care of things for her.
:11.479 --> :17.229 I guess…she felt that my wisdom tooth surgery
paled in comparison to her back issue. :17.229 --> :19.750
But that’s just an example of how she can be. :19.750 --> :24.699
A part of me wants to just pay it but another
part of me is annoyed with her constantly :24.699 --> :27.720
asking for money when I’m struggling to stay afloat myself.
:27.720 --> :09.920 I feel like she thinks I’m her retirement plan.
:09.920 --> :14.811 So since it has finally started to warm up
me and some of my friends (all 19-22 year :14.811 --> :19.920
olds) decided to go on a road trip, we decide
the appropriate thing to do is go to a water :19.920 --> :23.980
park and theme park that were right next to
each other and spend a few days out there :23.980 --> :25.360
for spring break. :25.360 --> :29.740
So we get the theme park out of the way first
and have a good time then a few days later :29.740 --> :31.260
we head to the water park. :31.260 --> :36.380
So here's the thing, it's a water park so
obviously I'm gonna have my shirt off for :36.380 --> :38.000
a large amount of the time. :38.000 --> :42.700
I also happen to have a few tattoos, not to
the point where my whole body is essentially :42.700 --> :44.860
covered but a good amount. :44.860 --> :49.580
I have one on my wrist that is barely even
noticable which is some Japanese writing, :49.580 --> :54.660
the other one is on my other wrist and it's
kinda hard to explain but it basically wraps :54.660 --> :58.860
around my wrist and has some lines coming
out of it, it is way better than it sounds :58.860 --> :03.430
I swear lmao, third and final one is the most
noticable since it is a big back tattoo of :03.430 --> :04.760
a cross. :04.760 --> :09.860
Anyway we get there and the first day goes
well, it's a huge water park so we obviously :09.860 --> :11.779
wanna ride all of the slides. :11.779 --> :16.530
So I'm walking back to our table from the
bathroom and when I'm almost there this lady :16.530 --> :20.320
looking like she's in her mid 40s walks up and stops me.
:20.320 --> :25.339 I'm a bit confused so I just wait a minute
before just saying "yeah?" :25.339 --> :29.390
And she immediately says that she has kids here and she doesn't wanna see that.
:29.390 --> :34.709 So I don't know what she's referring to and
hoping nothing is sticking out of my shorts. :34.709 --> :37.360
She immediately points to one of my tattoos on my wrist :
:37.360 --> :38.360 "That!" :38.360 --> :40.170 "My tattoo?
:40.170 --> :42.100 Is there anything wrong with it"
:42.100 --> :47.120 "Yes, this is a place for kids and I don't
want you influencing them to get one of these :47.120 --> :48.120
things" :48.120 --> :53.540
So I'm not really annoyed, just confused since
this is a place where 90% of the people have :53.540 --> :58.430
their shirts off and at least a few of them will have a tattoo of some kind.
:58.430 --> :59.529 So I tell her that :59.529 --> :04.390
"This is a public place and everyone has their
shirt off, a good amount of them probably :04.390 --> :05.890
have tattoos" :05.890 --> :10.501
Of course everything I'm saying in this isn't
word for word since I can't remember every :10.501 --> :13.880
single word but this is basically how it went. :13.880 --> :18.500
She completely ignores what I say and tells
me to put my shirt on which I obviously say :18.500 --> :19.660 no to.
:19.660 --> :22.779 She tells me to put it on or she's gonna call
security. :22.779 --> :25.310 I tell her to do it and she walks off.
:25.310 --> :30.250 I go back to my table and sit down with my
friends and they were literally watching everything
:30.250 --> :35.960 go down and I am a bit nervous since even
tho I know I wasn't in the wrong I still didn't :35.960 --> :37.610
wanna get in trouble with security. :37.610 --> :42.800
About 5 minutes later when me and my friends
go to another slide she comes running up to :42.800 --> :45.250
us with a security guard behind her. :45.250 --> :50.970
She tells him that I wasn't supposed to have
them out and he was just as confused as I :50.970 --> :56.450
was since he didn't see anything wrong and
she didn't say specifically it was the tattoos. :56.450 --> :01.040
He asks her what she's talking about and she
gets even more mad and points to one of my :01.040 --> :02.250
tattoos. :02.250 --> :03.460 "Those!" :03.460 --> :08.540
He asks her what's wrong with it and she goes
off on both of us saying how I shouldn't have :08.540 --> :13.029
those in a kids place and she doesn't want her kids saying this.
:13.029 --> :16.339 He apologizes for her and tells her to stop
bothering me. :16.339 --> :21.350
She storms off and I continue with my trip
with my friends, I saw her a few times again :21.350 --> :51.310
throughout the trip but I don't think she saw me. :51.310 --> :52.389
This is an older story. :52.389 --> :55.490
Let me explain because I know your curiosity is running wild.
:55.490 --> :59.650 A while ago, there was a trend on tik tok
about kids going to people's Ranch and letting :59.650 --> :01.170
their animals free. :01.170 --> :04.870
As all other trends, this one is deadly because you might get shot.
:04.870 --> :09.410 I have a piece of property a little ways away
from my home, that holds cows that I am planning :09.410 --> :10.420
to keep. :10.420 --> :12.140 It's a good 50 acres.
:12.140 --> :14.110 I have quite a bit of head there.
:14.110 --> :19.260 Well one night, around 3:00am, I was asleep
in my warm cozy bed, when I get a call from :19.260 --> :20.910
the person neighboring that property. :20.910 --> :23.200
Neighbor: "Dude you better get over here right now."
:23.200 --> :24.230 Me: "Why? :24.230 --> :25.230
What's wrong?" :25.230 --> :29.500
Him: "I don't know, there is someone or something
in your pasture and your cattle are going :29.500 --> :30.500 wild."
:30.500 --> :31.500 Well shit. :31.500 --> :33.480
I got out of bed and threw my clothes on. :33.480 --> :35.440
I grab my gun, and my dog. :35.440 --> :38.760
I hop in the truck, and hall ass to the property. :38.760 --> :43.230
I get there, and sure enough there's some
fucking chevy equinox sitting at the edge :43.230 --> :44.389
of my property. :44.389 --> :49.120
I drive over to see some kids in my pasture,
with all the cattle running, and a male and :49.120 --> :51.600
a female in the car, recording them. :51.600 --> :54.190
I drive in there, grab my gun and shout to them :54.190 --> :56.740
"Just what in the hell do you think you're doing!?"
:56.740 --> :59.230 EK: "Nothing bro, relax!"
:59.230 --> :02.670 Me: "Don't tell me to relax what the fuck
are you doing!" :02.670 --> :03.670 EK: "CHILL!
:03.670 --> :06.250 We are just gaining some clout that's it."
:06.250 --> :09.990 EP (Dad): "Hey leave my boys alone!"
:09.990 --> :14.690 Me: "Hey city slicker, what the hell do you
think you're doing at 3:00am sneaking into :14.690 --> :15.690
my property?" :15.690 --> :19.060
EP (D): "We're gonna get a lot of likes on this man.
:19.060 --> :20.640 Please dude leave us alone!
:20.640 --> :21.700 You ruined it!" :21.700 --> :22.870
Me: "Fuck off! :22.870 --> :26.950
Leave, you're lucky I didn't shoot you or my dog didn't get a hold of you!"
:26.950 --> :28.970 EK: "Fuck your dog!" :28.970 --> :30.440
Me: "Excuse me? :30.440 --> :31.760 I don't believe I heard you."
:31.760 --> :34.779 EK: "I said fuck your shitty dog!"
:34.779 --> :39.250 This kid had the audacity to pick up a rock
and throw it at my dog. :39.250 --> :43.279
She was in the bed of the truck, and it missed her, but this plum pissed me off.
:43.279 --> :46.300 So I stick my head out the window and go "ssssss!"
:46.300 --> :51.529 Which is the sound I make to stick her on
something, or this case someone. :51.529 --> :56.709
She's a blue heeler, so she's a herding dog,
so she took off, and when to nibble on his :56.709 --> :00.870
ankles, which is how she gets cows to go the
way she wants them to go, but when she did :00.870 --> :03.530
it to these kids, it just scared the piss out of them.
:03.530 --> :06.829 EK: "Get your fucking dog off me it's biting me!"
:06.829 --> :10.040 Me: "Don't worry son it's a long ways from
your heart!" :10.040 --> :14.341
I was laughing my ass off while these kids
were practically pissing themselves (I was :14.341 --> :17.160
pissing myself also because if how hard I was laughing)
:17.160 --> :20.829 EP (Mom): "GET YOUR DOG OFF MY BABIES!!
:20.829 --> :23.399 WE JUST WANTED TO MAKE A VIDEO ASSHOLE!
:23.399 --> :25.589 NOBODY WOULD BE SAD IF YOU KILLED YOURSELF!!
:25.589 --> :26.589 FUCK YOU!!" :26.589 --> :29.690
Her kids made it back to her car and when they got in she told me
:29.690 --> :33.519 EP (M): "YOULL BE HEARING FROM MY LAWYERS
VERY SHORTLY!" :33.519 --> :36.329
Long story short, I never heard from her lawyers. :36.329 --> :41.120
I never saw her again, nor heard anyone do anything like that again in my area.
:41.120 --> :45.800 I love telling everyone this story because
of this bitch watching her kids get humbled. :45.800 --> :49.639
Big shout out to my dog Loretta, for scaring
the piss out of these kids and not letting :49.639 --> :51.620
any of my cattle get loose. :51.620 --> :55.360
Love ya girl, fly high among the Stars, miss you girlie.
:55.360 --> :10.470 Anyways hope you guys had a good laugh.
:10.470 --> :15.330 So my mom is the most entitled, self-absorbed,
selfish person I know. :15.330 --> :19.440
She grew up with a silver spoon in her mouth
and her daddy paid for everything, so she :19.440 --> :24.170
has no idea how to "adult" -- especially now at 72 years old.
:24.170 --> :27.790 I have strived every day to not be like this
woman. :27.790 --> :33.370 Truthfully, my mom didn't do much "raising"
of me until I was about 15 years old. :33.370 --> :35.910
Other family members did prior to that. :35.910 --> :40.550
That being said, I gave birth to my daughter ("Megan") in December of 2022.
:40.550 --> :44.720 And she is the love of my life and the apple
of my eye. :44.720 --> :50.500
My mom "loves" her for as much as she can
genuinely love anyone or anything and seems :50.500 --> :52.790
to think they're going to be best friends. :52.790 --> :56.600
Her behavior, however, has far from reflected that.
:56.600 --> :01.230 Every time my kiddo cries in the background
while we're on the phone, my mom's first reaction :01.230 --> :03.170
is "What's wrong with her?!" :03.170 --> :07.410
Each time, I calmly say that she's a baby and babies cry.
:07.410 --> :10.880 Then her next response is always, "Well, YOU
never cried." :10.880 --> :12.600 Which I highly doubt.
:12.600 --> :14.750 Over the phone, my mom has said things like:
:14.750 --> :18.120 "I'm surprised you haven't looked at her and
told her to STOP." :18.120 --> :19.490 "She needs to be quiet."
:19.490 --> :22.040 "I'm not in the mood to deal with her crying
today." :22.040 --> :25.089
"You're going to have to call me back, I can't listen to her."
:25.089 --> :26.089 Nice, right? :26.089 --> :29.800
I have called her out on these kind of statements
before, saying that it's unacceptable for :29.800 --> :33.090
her to say those things and to speak to my child that way.
:33.090 --> :36.090 But she's the queen so no one tells her what
to do. :36.090 --> :40.410
She moved to our area recently, and my daughter
started crying while we were driving down :40.410 --> :41.410
the road. :41.410 --> :46.910
Not even full-fledged, lung emptying screaming, just medium level crying.
:46.910 --> :53.350 After a couple minutes, my mom leans around
the passenger seat and shouts, "Megan, STOP!!!" :53.350 --> :55.260
And that's when I lost it. :55.260 --> :00.560
I tore into her and told her she will NOT
scream at my child because she is MY child :00.560 --> :02.299
and not HER child. :02.299 --> :07.000
And that she was going to sit there and listen
to her because that's what I have to do every :07.000 --> :08.000 day.
:08.000 --> :11.890 I also told her if she has a problem with
the noises my child makes then she won't be :11.890 --> :13.340
welcome at our home. :13.340 --> :17.159
I yelled at her so severely that she cowered in her seat.
:17.159 --> :22.740 Then I said very loudly and sarcastically,
"It's okay, Megan -- Grammy doesn't know what :22.740 --> :27.220
she's saying because she has no idea what it's like to raise a child."
:27.220 --> :32.200 The rest of the car ride was pretty quiet,
and it only solidified my decision to never :32.200 --> :33.930
leave my daughter alone with her. :33.930 --> :46.690
I’m so excited to finally have something to contribute to this sub!
:46.690 --> :52.260 Also, heads up, it’s a somewhat long story.
:52.260 --> :58.350 I decided to go to the mall today because
I haven’t been there in a while and needed :58.350 --> :59.350
some stuff. :59.350 --> :04.179
Due to the nature of my career, my back hurts only just all the damn time.
:04.179 --> :09.659 I came upon a section of those leg and back
massaging chairs and said hell yeah! :09.659 --> :13.850
Some things to know about these chairs: these
go through a series of 4-5 different types :13.850 --> :18.690
of massages whilst it also squeezes and massages your legs.
:18.690 --> :23.500 One of the types of massages it does in your
back, it just goes up and down your spine :23.500 --> :26.070
with hard and fast “chopping-like” motions. :26.070 --> :30.130
There’s also other sections of these grouped
together chairs placed all throughout the :30.130 --> :35.140
mall, so there were others that could be used
and in the area where where I was, there were :35.140 --> :39.909
five other chairs grouped around me, I was
in the upper left corner of that group of :39.909 --> :40.909 chairs.
:40.909 --> :43.920 There was not a single person using any of
the other five chairs. :43.920 --> :48.410
I wasn’t really paying attention to where
I was located, but right in front of me was :48.410 --> :50.380
a baby clothes store. :50.380 --> :56.370
Some things to know about me: I am on the
spectrum, I also am not a fan of kids or babies. :56.370 --> :00.799
Most importantly, if I’m getting my half
hour massage, I don’t want to have to interact :00.799 --> :03.679
with other people, I just want to be left the hell alone.
:03.679 --> :08.120 Here comes our entitled mother (em), entitled
kid (ek/ he looks like he’s 9-10-ish (I :08.120 --> :10.420
don’t know, not great guessing kids ages. :10.420 --> :16.030
He’s also pretty chunky, which is a detail
you’ll need for later) em also had a baby :16.030 --> :20.080
in a stroller, but it didn’t really do anything relevant to this incident
:20.080 --> :25.390 So they end up standing right in front of
me and the em told the ek that she wanted :25.390 --> :30.789
to look in this baby clothes store, but the
ek didn’t want to, so she tells him to go :30.789 --> :34.000
get a massage on one of the chairs while he waits for her.
:34.000 --> :39.720 And, of course, they head straight to the
chair next to me (Why?!?!WHY?!? :39.720 --> :43.380
there’s five whole other available chairs!!!) :43.380 --> :48.040
It’s literally printed how much money gets
you however many minutes you get in the chair. :48.040 --> :53.320
She asks me the price so I point to where it clearly tells you the prices.
:53.320 --> :58.190 Then she asks where to put the money in, so
yet again I point out exactly where it goes :58.190 --> :00.150
(it’s even lit up! :00.150 --> :01.150 Brightly)
:01.150 --> :05.480 But just before she’s about to put the money
in, the conversation between them happens: :05.480 --> :08.200
Ek: but what if I don’t like it?! :08.200 --> :09.289 Em: you will!
:09.289 --> :10.779 It’s really relaxing!
:10.779 --> :13.029 Ek: but what if it hurts?!
:13.029 --> :14.320 Em: it won’t! :14.320 --> :18.169
See, this lady’s been sitting here for a while and she’s enjoying it!
:18.169 --> :20.300 Ek: but what if I don’t enjoy it?
:20.300 --> :22.620 Can you go first and see if you like it?!
:22.620 --> :27.919 Em: no, mommy’s going right over to look
at the baby clothes, but maybe if you ask :27.919 --> :31.870
nicely, this nice lady will let you try her- Me: Nope.
:31.870 --> :32.870 Not getting up. :32.870 --> :36.049
It’s only a dollar for five minutes, if he doesn’t like it, he can get off
:36.049 --> :40.090 Em just gave me a pissy look and just said “Fine!
:40.090 --> :44.809 Ek, just sit there and try it and come join
me in the store if you don’t like it” :44.809 --> :49.990
So the ek (yes, I’m still salty at this
point that they put his ass in the seat next :49.990 --> :55.470
to me and not any of the five other completely
open and available chairs) starts off not :55.470 --> :01.490
doing except sitting there (Thank god) but
then an instant later, all hell breaks loose :01.490 --> :06.621
when the chair simultaneously grabs his legs
good and tight and the “chopping” setting :06.621 --> :07.621
gets going. :07.621 --> :13.320
The kid starts just making this really loud
crying/whining that starts off somewhat quietly :13.320 --> :18.789
but gets insanely loud when he realizes his
legs are too big to get out of the grip of :18.789 --> :19.789
the chair. :19.789 --> :23.510
I said “Dude, just calm down, the leg grip
will let go in a minute and then you can get :23.510 --> :29.370
out” but his cry-yelling “Ahhhhhhhh”
builds to a shrieking “MooooOOOOOOOOOmmmmmmmm!!!!” :29.370 --> :31.310
That kid has massive lungs. :31.310 --> :38.480
That yell was so incredibly loud and went
on for so long, until his mom comes flying :38.480 --> :42.309
out of the store and just parks her baby stroller right in front of me.
:42.309 --> :46.350 Where it starts crying and the mom starts
yelling over the kid in the chair yelling :46.350 --> :51.429
asking him what’s wrong and ek says “The chair’s punching my back and it’s got
:51.429 --> :53.670 my legs and I’m traaaaaaappped”
:53.670 --> :59.260 Em starts trying to pick ek up but the leg
part let’s go so they both kind of stumble :59.260 --> :03.529
back into the stroller, which makes the baby start crying even louder.
:03.529 --> :07.740 Then em says to me “Why didn’t you pull
him out when it started hurting him because :07.740 --> :08.940
it was set too high???” :08.940 --> :14.740
let me interject here, the settings are pre-adjusted,
you can’t change them, but most importantly :14.740 --> :18.890
*how is this my goddamn fault to begin with?!?) :18.890 --> :22.350
Then she says “Or you could’ve come into the store to get me?!?”
:22.350 --> :25.720 Again, how is this my fault or responsibility?!?
:25.720 --> :31.200 The ek was fake sniffling (because he wasn’t
even crying to begin, just doing an insanely :31.200 --> :36.289
loud whining/screech) so she told him they’ll
go to the food court to get ice cream. :36.289 --> :40.980
Not the most exciting story on here but incredibly
annoying to deal with when I just wanted to :40.980 --> :54.970
be left tf alone on my one day off and enjoy :54.970 --> :13.169
my damn chair massage. :13.169 --> :26.010
I'm a 20 year old female and I have a disorder
called Epilepsy (please search it up if you :26.010 --> :27.010
don't know what that is). :27.010 --> :30.050
I was diagnosed at the age of 12 and have had problems with it since.
:30.050 --> :35.440 Different kinds of seizures in weird places
like the shower, in the middle of class, during :35.440 --> :37.440
some of my streams etc. :37.440 --> :42.070
Backstory: I grew up in a small village that was very popular for tourists.
:42.070 --> :46.380 The nature was gorgeous and there were so
many things you could do at any time of the :46.380 --> :47.380 year.
:47.380 --> :49.409 During summers you could take different hikes
and stuff. :49.409 --> :54.059
When I was about 15-16 years old, I moved
to a different city away from my parents though :54.059 --> :56.549
(not because of bad parenting. :56.549 --> :58.220
Because of my college location.) :58.220 --> :04.510
Of course I did visit them sometimes like
during vacations, breaks like summer, winter, :04.510 --> :05.970
you get the point. :05.970 --> :10.340
During one of my summer break visits, I decided
to take on a job to see what it was actually :10.340 --> :11.429
like to work. :11.429 --> :15.970
My dad helped me get one by contacting one
of his former employees who now was the boss :15.970 --> :20.270
of a restaurant located on the top of a mountain with a beautiful view.
:20.270 --> :24.240 They sold pretty simple foods there that I
could make while working for them. :24.240 --> :28.490
The staff there were really nice to me and
we all did a little of everything because :28.490 --> :30.870
of the small amount of workers. :30.870 --> :35.770
Sometimes I was the chef and then a few hours
later I would be taking orders or be the bartender :35.770 --> :38.559
for those who wanted non alcoholic drinks. :38.559 --> :39.559
Little of everything. :39.559 --> :44.020
This restaurant was pretty packed during summer
and almost every table would be taken for :44.020 --> :46.399
at least 4-5 hours straight. :46.399 --> :49.750
So we had a lot to do when it came to the food and serving it.
:49.750 --> :54.490 It was pretty stressful for little me since
I don't do good with loud noises and packed :54.490 --> :57.010
locations (PTSD). :57.010 --> :01.740
Kind of a nightmare in my opinion but if I
was an employee there, then I was going to :01.740 --> :02.740 work.
:02.740 --> :06.950 My boss was very nice to me though since she
knew my dad and my diagnosis. :06.950 --> :11.210
We did have breaks but they weren't more than
5 minutes long because of everything that :11.210 --> :14.190
needed to be done in this restaurant while it was open.
:14.190 --> :15.190 Actual Story: :15.190 --> :19.960
One day, a family of 6 walked in while the
entire restaurant was packed with people. :19.960 --> :24.730
So much that some of our customers were sitting
on the balcony floor while eating. :24.730 --> :26.500
They seemed fine with it though lol. :26.500 --> :31.570
After about 7 minutes of me serving some foods
and taking orders, giving it to the chef, :31.570 --> :37.010
I heard a SUPER quiet clearing of a throat
and turned around to see where it came from. :37.010 --> :41.360
It was from the family whom were now standing
in front of the "EXIT" door, blocking it. :41.360 --> :44.909
I took a deep breath and walked up to them with a smile on my face.
:44.909 --> :45.909 "Hello ma'am. :45.909 --> :49.320
Ca-" She rudely interrupts me, saying "Oh my gosh. :49.320 --> :50.320
Finally! :50.320 --> :51.700 You are so slow!"
:51.700 --> :55.750 At first I was shocked but then asked her
if she needed help with anything. :55.750 --> :58.250
To which she responded with "Well DUH. :58.250 --> :02.940
Me and my family need a table PRONTO so that we can sit down and get some food.
:02.940 --> :05.779 We've had a very long walk and need to rest.
:05.779 --> :07.330 Especially my kids." :07.330 --> :12.200
She points to her kids who looked to be around
10 to 15 years old and just looking at their :12.200 --> :13.240
phones. :13.240 --> :14.700 Even the husband was.
:14.700 --> :17.730 Not giving a single shiz about what is happening.
:17.730 --> :18.730 "Well?!". :18.730 --> :22.399
At this point, Karen was right in my face,
beet red and looking like she is going to :22.399 --> :27.679
murder me through poison with the HUGE amount
of perfume radiating from her clothes. :27.679 --> :32.140
I backed away a few steps and said "I'm sorry
ma'am but we're packed at this moment. :32.140 --> :34.570
I can't give you a table right now. :34.570 --> :38.360
If you want to though you can wait outside the restaurant until I can."
:38.360 --> :44.289 If it was even possible Karen became even
more red and screamed at me "LET ME SEE YOUR :44.289 --> :45.289
MANAGER. :45.289 --> :46.549 YOU ARE BEING SO RUDE."
:46.549 --> :51.429 I started panicking but did as she said and
started looking for my boss who currently :51.429 --> :53.250
was washing some dishes in the back. :53.250 --> :56.279
I ran over to her and explained the situation. :56.279 --> :00.740
She told me to stay here and that she would
handle Karen while I took on the dishes. :00.740 --> :05.030
After a few minutes of washing, my head started
to hurt and I was feeling like I needed to :05.030 --> :07.740
sit down or I would collapse at any moment. :07.740 --> :12.649
I knew what was happening and as quickly as I could, took out my phone.
:12.649 --> :16.980 I messaged my dad that I was having a seizure
and that I needed help because it was getting :16.980 --> :17.980
worse. :17.980 --> :22.220 My dad sent a message that he'd informed my
boss and was on the way here to pick me up :22.220 --> :27.730
since I have no way of controlling my body
and needed to go home or to the nearest hospital. :27.730 --> :30.789
Which was about 5 hours away from where I was. :30.789 --> :31.789 -.-
:31.789 --> :34.669 My boss soon came back and told me that I
could go home and she would handle my work :34.669 --> :35.669 today.
:35.669 --> :40.059 When dad arrived he took my hand so that I
had support and we started walking towards :40.059 --> :45.970
the exit where Karen and her family were STILL
standing with Karen digging daggers towards :45.970 --> :47.560
my dad now. :47.560 --> :52.309
Then she decided to make the most stupid decision I have ever heard or seen.
:52.309 --> :56.781 Karen walked up to my dad and started yelling
at him "WHAT ARE YOU DOING DRAGGING HER OUT :56.781 --> :58.090
OF THE RESTAURANT?! :58.090 --> :00.500
SHE'S SUPPOSED TO BE WORKING TO GET MY FAMILY A TABLE!
:00.500 --> :05.971 HER BOSS WILL FIRE HER FOR DOING THIS" My
boss walked up to her and said "Ma'am, even :05.971 --> :08.140
though this is none of your business. :08.140 --> :12.470
I have allowed her to leave because my employee
is having a seizure and needs to go home for :12.470 --> :13.669
some rest." :13.669 --> :17.330
My dad ignored the argument and we kept walking towards the exit.
:17.330 --> :23.990 Then without any kind of notice Karen GRABBED
me and started shaking me to "prove" that :23.990 --> :25.810
I wasn't having a seizure. :25.810 --> :29.840
My dad became furious and pushed her back, hiding me behind him.
:29.840 --> :31.299 Out of Karen's reach.
:31.299 --> :33.910 "Don't you EVER touch my daughter again!
:33.910 --> :37.500 I will have you fucking arrested if you even
try to talk to her!" :37.500 --> :42.220
My dad shouted extremely loud at Karen so
that everyone in the restaurant could hear :42.220 --> :43.220 us.
:43.220 --> :47.929 It became completely quiet and Karen's face
was as white as a ghost because she'd just :47.929 --> :49.760
realized what she had done. :49.760 --> :54.090
My dad then walked out carrying me in his
arms to protect me since I was completely :54.090 --> :57.299
helpless now with how long my seizure had been going on for.
:57.299 --> :01.679 A few days later, my boss told me that Karen
and her family have now been banned from the :01.679 --> :06.260
place and if they try to come close, my boss will call the cops on them.
:06.260 --> :07.930 And I can understand why.
:07.930 --> :10.760 Because what Karen had done could actually
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She had attacked a minor who had :29.419 --> :36.090 a disability.
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I'm living and working in Germany for a fixed period on secondment while here I
became quite friendly with a colleague and she invited me to her daughter's
wedding I was excited as I've never been to a white wedding I asked if there was
a dress code color scheme to adhere to since it wasn't specified on the invite
I was told the code is dressed to impress that day of the wedding I
understand the assignment I wear my traditional wear which is really
beautiful and obviously not German the Garment is green so no problem there or
so I thought I get a lot of questions and compliments at the wedding which I
genuinely downplay because it's not my day my colleague seems colder than usual
but I pay it no mind since she's mother of Bride and could be preoccupied the
bride is downright rude to me but again I give her grace I congratulate her and
thank her for including me and I get a tight in response I keep to the edges of
the room as the music isn't really my vibe and I'm just observing how European
weddings work I leave around 8 after 5 hours and go home before the wedding
finishes Monday I walked into Whispers in the office people actually strangely
and more reserved than usual an office friend pulls me aside and fills me in
bride's mother is fuming my outfit was too extravagant and inappropriate I drew
attention from the bride and comeand deared the room I was rude and
disrespectful she's told people all about it apparently I approach Mobi and
ask to speak but she says she has nothing to say to me I ask her why she
talks to everyone else about me but not to me and she calls me an insolent child
I explain to anyone who scolds me that this was my first White People Wedding I
specifically asked what to do where and followed the guideline where I'm from
there's no such thing as outshines the bride weddings are a fashion show and a
chance to wear your best and brightest clothes they told me this isn't Africa
which was racially coded and people here have manners I laughed and told that
person to go herself so she's telling people I lack remorse for my behavior | give me a good story on TheWeddingDramaFULLSTORY |
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AIT for telling my wife to stop being a
brat about my mom getting married on her birthday my mom is getting married in
May and when I received my invitation I unfortunately realized it was on my
wife's birthday I doubt it was intentional as I can't imagine my mom
knows her birthday she has never been invited to celebrate never wished her a
happy birthday Etc my wife wasn't happy and I told her I understood 100% and
that if she didn't want to go it was no biggie she said she didn't want to go
but asked if I would still be going I said it was my mom's wedding of course I
was going she got upset and suggested my mom picked her birthday on purpose I
said I don't think she knows it in May is one of the most popular months to get
married I suggested she celebrate with a friend and I'd take her out Sunday but
she continued to say my mom might have done it on purpose honestly I felt she
was being ridiculous so I asked her when my mom's birthday was she had no idea
couldn't even get the month right just knew the season I pointed out if she
doesn't know my mom's birthday it is perfectly reasonable to assume my mom
doesn't know hers and to stop acting like a brat needless to say she is upset
she says I tricked her and made her look dumb | give me a good story on AITAHfortellingmywifetostopbeingabrataboutmymomgettingmarriedonherbirthday |
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wibta for telling my husband his bioch child was conceived to entrap him I 27f
married my now husband 32m last year this is the second marriage for both of
us and we are annoyingly happy together and have a blended family with three
amazing kids I and my bio kids temporarily moved into my husband's
house that he had bought with his ex-wife he wanted in the divorce as she
had no interest in it until we can find a bigger house to buy together my
husband is neurodivergent and just doesn't see backslash certain things and
has difficulty deep cleaning no problem I love organizing and cleaning so I got
this however while cleaning out closets and garage I discovered that his ex left
many of her personal belongings behind when she moved out one year before I met
my husband I am not the other woman this included old family pictures papers
family motos slair looms Etc at first we would send these things with her when
she picked up my stepdaughter for her custody weekend but she finally told us
she wasn't interested in receiving any more of her old things and ask that we
just donate SL throw out anything else no matter what okay fine after this I
found a full of old college books and notebook stashed in a crawl space yeah I
was feeling nosy and resentful for having to continue to clean up her mess
so I flipped through one of the notebooks I found inside was a journal
entry dated 7even most before the birth of my stepdaughter detailing that she
got pregnant when she purposefully went off her birth control without telling my
husband because their relationship was going down the drain and she loved him
and didn't want to lose it so in finally conclusion I have kept this knowledge
from him so far because I don't want to cause him pain because I decided to be
nosy however I am also on the fence because this feels huge she was very
emotionally abusive towards him and constantly cheated on him during their
entire marriage but would use him getting her pregnant as the reason why
she was with him and he needed to support her and take her back no matter
what my brain is so muddled right now so rdit wibta for telling him about what I
discovered and # x200b PS in case anyone is wondering my stepdaughter is an
adorable carbon copy of her dad in feminine form it's uncanny actually so
there isn't any doubt about paternity here and HH X200 B edit for more clarity
since people are mean my only motive for
telling him would be trying to alleviate some of his guilt around him being told
by his ex that he was at fault for the pregnancy which his ex used as an excuse
to abuse SL manipulate him I have a lot of folks commenting on here about my
stepdaughter somehow finding out if I told him and what damage that would do
but I can say with complete confidence that neither of us would ever tell her
she is absolutely innocent in all this and telling her would accomplish nothing
but harm I have no interest in hurting or harming anyone else involved here not
even his abusive ex we are not in competition this knowledge isn't
something I'm trying to weaponize against her because I am insecure I am not | give me a good story on WIBTAFortellingmyhusbandhisbiochildwasconceivedtoentraphimorig |
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my husband left me and my three children
because I called the police AIT a little backstory I 27f and my husband 26m have
been together for 4 years I have two daughters from a previous marriage and
we have a son together I work a full-time job during the day and
throughout most of our relationship he has been unemployed I made him get a job
as we started falling behind on bills and I was both physically and mentally
exhausted once he started working he would work overnight and take care of
the children during the day while I was at work the problem comes in when I
found out that he would take a nap around around a.m. and stay asleep
until I got home around 3:00 p.m. most of the time he would take the 3-year-old
which is his son to the bed with him and lock the 4-year-old in the kids's
bedroom he would usually give them a communal bowl of Dry Cereal before
deciding to take a nap since the four-year-old was locked in her bedroom
whenever she had to go bathroom she had to make the choice of peeing herself and
getting in trouble from him for having an accident or take her pants off and
pee the floor due to this the kids's room reeks of pee we recently had an ice
storm that pretty much shut down the city as the city we live in a city that
doesn't really get i/ snow snow often I was stuck at work because I was already
at work when the snow SL I started his work closed for the whole week and
schools also closed the whole week leaving him alone with all three of the
kids we have one working car and it is in his name that is important to the
story on Tuesday the Wei made me drive home on the icy roads in a car that I
have never driven on ice or snow I told him that I was not comfortable driving
home in his car but he said that the kids were driving him crazy and he
needed me home so I drove home on ice so
thick that you couldn't see the lines on
the road the car did not have four-wheel drive I made it home safe and told him
that since I made it home that I will still go into work on Wednesday his
response is that I wasn't allowed to drive his car for the rest of the week
because he did not want me to go back to work that caused me to call out for
Wednesday and find someone willing to drive me to work Thursday since I was
home all day Wednesday I know the kids did not get locked in the room and they
got fed three meals plus snacks it was the first time in a while that they did
not come to me saying that they are starving Thursday comes and he takes his
nap around 11: like usual the difference
is that his work was debating on opening the day depending on if they had enough
staff to make it in so he calls me and asks if my grandparents or Aunt could
take the kids for the night when I told him that they were going to have to talk
it over he said never mind and went back to sleep at that point he had told me
that he gave the kids some rice for breakfast and a neutr grain bar before
nap 3:00 p.m. came and I could not get a
hold of him we have a security camera in the living room that can be accessed by
phone so I opened the camera to see if I could see him or the kids in the living
room the apartment was dark but I could hear the kids the three-year-old had
opened the door to the kids' room so they were playing in the hallway I
called them over the camera and asked where my husband was they told me that
he was still asleep and that they are hungry at this point I called my mom and
asked if she was willing to go to my place to give the kids food she agreed
and got them McDonald I was hoping that she would get there before he woke up as
he hates my parents that was not the case he woke up and called me before my
mom had gotten the food when I told him that I called in a favor and someone was
bring the kids food he asked who I tried to just leave it it was just a favor
from someone because I knew that if he knew it was my mom that he wouldn't let
her in I was right as soon as he found out it was my mom he took the kids to
the very back of the apartment turned off all the lights and stayed there when
I called to let the kids know that food was there for them they would get
excited and start to get up but then they would look at my husband and stay
where they were my mom ended up calling the police after knocking three or four
times when the police got there he called me pissed off I told him that
this could have been avoided if he just answered the door or let the kids answer
the police knocked three or four times before he answered the door at that time
I had spoken to the police officer through my mom's phone and told her what
was going on my husband still had all the lights off and barley opened the
door he claimed that he did not know that anyone was bringing food and argued
with the officer for a minute before letting the kidss get the now cold
McDonald after the police and my mom left he video calleded me to show me
that the kids had the food my mom brought about a minute into that phone
call he says I guess I should come pick you up from work because apparently I'm
not a fit father and shouldn't be alone with the kids he knows that I cannot
just leave my job without losing it I called one of the people in charge and
asked if I could have my kids here I also called the police to be a neutral
ground between us as it was a very long and bad day when he got to my work I
took the kids out of the car and brought them in the building he parked behind
the building and came in I would bring his laptop to work for entertainment and
to do school work I am in college for a business degree he came in and took the
laptop to the car by that time the police had shown up when the officer got
there he said he got a call for domestic violence I told him that I was the one
who called and just needed a middle man in case things escalated I didn't think
things would but figured better safe than sorry I told him that the kids was
going to stay with me and before I could finish the sentence he left I did not
have a change of clothes for the kids or
pull-ups for the youngest so I called my mom and asked if she could watch them
for the night I spent the night at work as I did not have a way home Friday
afternoon I got a text from him saying don't worry about the apartment I'm not
there which led me to ask where he was he said that he drove to Texas and was
not planning on coming back when I asked why he left he said you who I should
have been able to trust Above All Else betrayed me how can I trust anyone who
distrusts me so much that they called the cops on me now this would be
different if it was the first time he had not properly fed the kids and every
time I suggested that we change schedules so he works during the day and
I work overnight he shut it down he also shut down sending the Young or to to
daycare so that way we know they are being taken care of and he can get the
rest he needed since he shut down every idea to make sure that everyone was
taken care of I felt backed into a corner and could not let my babies go
hungry through most of the day with that being said I did not want my husband to
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my bratty elder sister showed up at my house and begged me to let her stay
because her abusive husband kicked her out but I found out that it was she who
was abusive and guilty I 29f have been living separately
from my family for the past 6 years my family consists of my mother 55f and my
older sister Sarah 32f Sarah was always my mom's favorite child and this caused
a lot of tension between us growing up 6 years ago I was forced to leave our
family home due to a series of conflicts with Sarah she had always been
controlling and manipulative often using her position as the favorite to get her
way the final straw came when she accused me of stealing money from our
mother's purse I didn't do it but Sarah convinced our mom that I was lying the
atmosphere at home became unbearable with constant arguments and
distrust eventually Sarah gave me an ultimatum either I confessed to the
theft which I didn't commit or leave the house I chose to leave as I couldn't
bear the thought of admitting to something I didn't do for the past 6
years I've been living on my own | give me a good story on MyBrattyElderSisterShowedUpatMyHouseandBeggedMetoLetHerStayBecauseHerAbusive |
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welcome friends to another r slash nuclear revenge video today we've got
some great stories and our first story of the day is how i ruined my
girlfriend's sister's wordle streak this
has to be the pettiest thing i have ever done but i had a really good reason for
it and that's the point of writing this i guess so here goes my girlfriend and i
are super competitive it's one of the reasons why i was attracted to her the
first time we met i was new in town fresh out of college settling into a new
job and my friends from work had convinced me to try out this bar that
hosted trivia nights because they knew how much of a trivia head i am decided
to go with them one friday evening and i met the love of my life after battling
it out in trivia for an hour i was leading the team for my work and she was
with a couple of her girlfriends out to celebrate a promotion her sister had
been a part of the team but i didn't really notice any of them after my
girlfriend got the correct answer to how many pints of blood are in the average
human body after we started dating we called the story about how we met the
nine pint because the answer to that question was nine pints but she'd been
drinking we were all drinking way too much for 7pm on a wednesday anyway and
when she answered she said pins waited two seconds and then shouted i forgot
the t everyone laughed about it and i couldn't
take my eyes off her so long story short i used her outburst as an entry for an
equally wacky pickup line after her team won and she liked my face well enough
that she wanted to see what was in my head her words not mine so she agreed to
get some burgers with me that night now this revenge story isn't about my
girlfriend it's about her sister i just needed to explain how we met and a
little about our relationship dynamics so you can understand why things went
down the way they did i'm a competitive person and so is my girlfriend but her
sister takes it to new levels she is downright vicious and toxic on the night
we met my girlfriend and her sister had an ongoing bet that whoever was able to
land a date first would get to pick their social activities for the next
couple of months knowing how much my girlfriend loves trivia k had motivated
their friend group to come to the bar that night hoping that while my
girlfriend was busy with the game she could score a date for herself but she
hadn't factored in the fact that someone as interested in trivia as her sister
would find her attractive long story short she hates my guts even though it's
been three years at family dinners in their parents home she actually refuses
to pass anything to me and after she accidentally kicked my shin one time i
try not to sit anywhere within proximity
of her pointy shoes my girlfriend thinks kate doesn't really remember the reason
why she started hating me and she just hates me by default at this point but i
know that she does i'm a constant reminder of a challenge she lost to her
baby sister and considering the fact that kay hasn't had a relationship in
the past three years there's more than enough material for her to hate on me
for but my girlfriend still hangs out with her because their group of friends
have stayed together since they were kids and i'm not going to be the
disruption to that part of her life i honestly don't mind kay's animosity and
i did my best to stay out of her way over the years but in the rare events
that we share space and have to interact k will do anything and everything to
prove that she's better than i and my girlfriend my girlfriend who was fiery
to everyone but her big sister was quick to tell her it was all right and we
would just get something else to share so instead of risking another situation
like that we just try to avoid k and anything that has to do with her as much
as possible k however is relentless and uses every opportunity she sees to
create chaos one time my girlfriend and i went to vegas for the weekend we were
celebrating her promotion at work and although i suggested that we take our
dog to my friend's place for the weekend she had asked kate to watch the dog
while we were out as you can imagine i wasn't comfortable with this idea for
many reasons okay in our apartment alone with our dog it just gets worse but i
didn't want to upset my girlfriend and i told her it was cool but if our dog
developed any health issues i would call the cops and report k she left thinking
i was being dramatic but i was serious our weekend was fun but it was over
pretty quickly and as we were heading back home i remember thinking that i'd
not been worried about the dog or the apartment while we were away but as soon
as we entered town my nerves were on high ends my girlfriend thought it was
funny that i was so worried but i was so
confident that kay would have been up to no good and i was right she had been
bored and had taken all the frames that held pictures of me and my girlfriend
and moved them from the living room to our bedroom then replaced them with
pictures of my girlfriend and their family like that wasn't bad enough she
had taken our dog to get a trim and styling but according to her the
attendant at the pet shop was new and there was a bald patch on our dog's back
i was furious and i just left the apartment for a few minutes while she
got our things and left i spent the rest of that day reassuring my fiance that k
could never change anything about the way i felt about her or our relationship
but i made her promise to keep some distance between me and kay as much as
she could and she did just that if the girls wanted to go out she wouldn't
agree for them to meet up at our place and if their family had any plans that
would only be her parents she and i and kay we would make up an excuse for me to
be absent her mom knew what was going on and tried to apologize for kaye's
behavior but it seemed to me like they were all excusing what was outrightly
unacceptable behavior and nobody was actually talking to the person at the
center of it all k i know it's not up to me to correct anyone's behavior
especially someone that everyone knows we don't see eye to eye so i just stuck
with the status quo and there was no incident except the random oh i forgot
you were joining us i didn't get x y z for you then three months ago i proposed
to my girlfriend it was a month after our three year anniversary and it felt
right so i whisked her away for a trivia-themed treasure hunt around
downtown and at the end of the hunt we were at the bar where we met and her
family was waiting to surprise her it was emotional and beautiful and it was
perfect because kaye was absent she had been at the hospital she had an
emergency appendix surgery but i sincerely believe that it was the
influence of someone up above some higher power that was looking out for my
fiance and i the proposal went on without incident kay was recovering in
their parents home and there was such a calm in that period that i should have
been instantly suspicious about but i was enjoying the feeling of not having
to look behind my shoulder or holding my cup for hours so k wouldn't drop a
laxative in it she once did that to her younger sister so i wouldn't be
surprised a month after the proposal in case surgery my fiance and i had to help
kaye move back to her apartment their parents were away the girls in their
friend group were all occupied and they didn't want kate to strain herself and i
was definitely not going to let my fiance help her out alone because she
would end up doing all the work herself so i helped k-pack all the stuff she had
brought over to her parents place while recovering and we moved them to her
apartment when everything was sorted kaye was very insistent on treating us
to lunch which was odd but i didn't want to create a scene so i agreed she chose
a restaurant that was close to my fiance and i's apartment and after we ate she
said she needed a nap really quickly because her pain meds were wearing her
out it made sense and she'd been relatively normal all day so there was
no reason to question it not until two hours later when i asked myself why i
ever thought it would be a good idea to think of kay is a real person k slept in
the guest room where my fiance kept most of her collectibles from competitions
and stuff like that and when kay woke up she thought to play a prank on her
sister by taking a collection of coasters from all the places where my
fiance had won a trivia game and dumping them in the trash in the bathroom it
wasn't until two hours after she left that we figured out what she did my
fiance was talking about making a memory book for our wedding which is in eight
months and she wanted to include a picture of the bar coaster from the
night we met we searched every corner of the guest room for it and it was when
she checked the bathroom for the second time that we found the coasters in the
bin obviously she was furious at her sister but i knew it would fizzle out
and i knew i had had enough kay may be too old to learn a valuable life lesson
but she can never be too old to be heard through something that would have value
to her so i took my time i thought about everything i know about her and then i
remembered that she'd been keeping a streak on a wordle after she got into
playing it at the hospital and then during her recovery she and some people
she found online were in this chart contest
bet thing and whoever got to a day 100 streak first would get about a thousand
dollars or so kay being the competition monster that she is was eager about both
the money and the chance to prove that she was better than someone and she kept
the streak religiously every day at 8 pm when she wouldn't be distracted she
played the game my fiance told me that on more than one occasion k had combed
the internet in search of the word for the day when she couldn't crack the
answer it was the perfect plan as far as i'm concerned it was something she
worked hard at held value for her and it would be horrible if she lost at a time
when it would really hit her deep it was easy to bait her into a conversation
about wordle a few weeks after she trashed my fiance's coasters all i had
to do was tell her i'd heard about an ongoing bed about wordle in town and i
was thinking of taking it seriously ever dismissing she said i'm not sure you
have the brains for it there's only two of us on day 94. it's a lot of catching
up but the only thing i needed to play catch up was between her and the
consequences of her actions she needed to feel at least one percent of the
mental stress and pain she had put us through my fiance new case phone
password and most of her other passwords because k was crappy at remembering
stuff like that so i told her about the plan to ruin kay's streak and she was
fully on board she could get back at her sister and make her a loser so it was
perfect on day 98 my fiance called her sister and told her i had a friend
coming over who would really like to meet her k was quick to accept surely
thinking that it would be an opportunity
to say some unflattering things about me or my fiance i met with one of my
friends from the gym and told him i was trying to teach kay a lesson he was down
for it and his role was simple be as charming as humanly possible so she
would be distracted on day 99 of her streak kaye came to our apartment we had
dinner at 6 pm and at 7 my friend who'd been laying it on thick told kaye that
he would like for them to share a glass of wine on the balcony and watch the
sunset she was quick to agree and from where we'd been watching them in the
kitchen my and i exchanged a look as soon as he
slid the balcony door behind them my fiance unlocked kaye's phone we quickly
opened the wordle site and signed her out of the game so if she even
remembered to play it later on it wouldn't be recorded as a streak the
whole thing took us about a minute and by the time the sun had fully set and
kaye was back inside the apartment with my friend it was like nothing happened 8
pm came and went but kay was too absorbed to my friend to even notice and
by 10 pm my gym friend was ready to leave he later told me that although she
was obviously self-absorbed and insensitive he was still willing to date
her after the whole drama was over so he'd gotten her number but that's not
something i want to get into right now kay left our place about 30 minutes
later eager to get home and hear from her new man and she was pleased to
remind my fiance that he was taller than me and had more muscles than i could
carry but i couldn't be faced in less than an hour the whole thing would have
been worth it at about 11 50 that night kaye called my fiance and was having a
panic attack because she had forgotten to play wordle and she could lose her
streak oh yeah we'd cleared it out of her browsing history too so she couldn't
find it my wonderful ever calm fiance reassured her sister and sent her the
link urging her to open it with a different browser in case there was a
problem on her phone kay was super grateful and hung up 15 minutes later
kay was firing up their family group chat with it's gone my streak is gone
messages and calling my fiance repeatedly so what did we do my fiance
and i spent the evening cuddling with some wine and are now fully and evenly
furred dog the win was in two ways we'd made her lose an important game and if
things worked out with her and my gym friend even briefly we wouldn't have to
deal with her for a good while we ruined kay's wordle streak last week and i
haven't seen her since then life is good admittedly to somebody that's
competitive like this losing your streak especially at the very last day in a
major competition like that i can only imagine that this was completely
crushing to them if somebody had treated you bad for years would it make you
sleep easy at night knowing you costed them thousands of dollars or do you feel
like it would be hard to have a good conscience about doing something like
that let me know in the comments down below and by the way if you're enjoying
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you never miss any of my daily videos our next story is revenge against my
party pooper boyfriend this was how i got back at my boyfriend
for leaving me to myself at a party dominated by his colleagues and friends
my boyfriend is generally a sweet guy but everything changes as soon as we
have company he's very outgoing and likes to have fun and enjoy himself and
sadly sometimes this means him acting like i don't exist when we go out for
functions i complained twice but he never did anything about it until i got
back at him this happened two years ago almost a year after my boyfriend and i
started to live together we decided to live together after three months of
dating exclusively and while it may seem too early for some people we were
totally fine with it excited even well we were in love and it seemed like the
perfect time to do it so we went for it at the time we didn't have a lot of
issues save for the minor issues a couple has to deal with after moving in
together and one reoccurring issue my boyfriend is very extroverted and it was
very annoying don't get me wrong i always knew he was an extrovert and i
loved him for it we compliment each other but sometimes when we were in
public he would get so soaked in conversing with other people that he'd
forget about me the first time this happened was when we hung out with a
couple of his friends in their house they were all busy playing games and
having fun and i sort of felt left out because i didn't know them that well and
the group was sharing inside jokes and laughing their butts off my boyfriend
barely even spoke to me the whole time we were there he was busy entertaining
the guests and trying to be a host never mind the fact that he wasn't even the
host i felt so awkward it was like high school all over i was quite the nerd in
high school so i was hardly invited for anything it didn't help that my parents
were strict and very religious so i hardly had any friends either i was mad
at my boyfriend and i spoke to him about
it he said it wasn't deliberate and that he was just having his fun while he
apologized for his behavior i knew he didn't mean his apology or even
understand what i was talking about or why i was offended but i didn't push it
i assumed that since he had apologized we could simply just move on from there
the second time my boyfriend completely ignored me was when we went for his
parents marriage anniversary i'd only met his dad twice and his mom thrice so
we didn't have a very close relationship yet he has a large family so his aunts
cousins and uncles were present they all know each other and everyone was
laughing talking and catching up while i was just there feeling and looking like
the odd one my boyfriend ignored me all throughout that party many of his
childhood friends and co-workers were at
that party and he was more interested in chatting with them getting noticed and
just generally being his usual mr entertainment self
his mom must have noticed how lonely i was because she randomly checked up on
me asked if i was doing okay and encouraged me to mingle with other
people at the party it was hard to do that though i'm naturally introverted
and i'm not one to start conversations with people i don't know sometimes i
envied how my boyfriend would just get along with people i did not have that
going on for me and it took a lot of time and effort to get comfortable with
people i didn't enjoy myself at the party and i felt bad and even guilty
about it my not so good mood was obvious and many people present saw that i was
afraid they would simply think of me as a stuck-up person or just someone with a
nasty attitude which was really what many people thought of me in high school
i felt even sadder because my boyfriend knew how very shy i got in public yet he
left me to myself all through the party he didn't even bother to get me drinks
on our way home i confronted him and he apologized but i wasn't having it he had
done it before anyway and at this point i wasn't going to just settle for
another half-hearted apology we argued in the car and he blamed me for not
finding a way to enjoy myself and meet new people at the party he also
dismissed my feelings and said i was making a big deal out of the whole thing
i was angry at how insensitive he was since i barely knew his people it was
only fair that he stayed at my side introduced me to people and carried me
along in conversations we were both mad at each other and didn't speak to each
other until we decided to move on from that incident and he promised that he
was going to make sure i would never feel that way at an event again like the
previous one this apology sounded fake and was lacking in depth it was obvious
that my boyfriend didn't mean the apology and he still didn't get why i
thought his actions were insensitive later that year my boyfriend's co-worker
and friend at the law firm he works in was promoted and his wife organized the
party she invited his co-workers and friends of course my life of the party
boyfriend was invited and i had to be there with him when my boyfriend told me
about it i blatantly said i was not going to go i knew how lonely i got when
my boyfriend and i are out with people and i wasn't ready to deal with that
again so i refused my boyfriend however convinced me to go with him i brought up
his habit of ditching me and he promised that it was never going to happen on
this occasion i trusted him so i agree to go with him that was a big mistake on
my part i should have insisted and stayed home but he was so convincing and
i agreed i'd forgotten that convincing people was literally what my boyfriend
did for a living and he was very good at
it that evening my boyfriend drove us to the party's venue and just as we got
there he saw one of his friends from law school he almost jumped out of the car
happily it was like a puppy that just saw its owner it would have been cute to
me if i didn't immediately realize that i was going to get ignored all night
again my boyfriend gave me the car keys and left me to park the car properly for
30 minutes he was talking on and on with his friend from law school i just stood
by the car in my gorgeous dress and heels staring in a space they were so
engrossed in their conversation that my boyfriend didn't even bother to make a
proper introduction until this friend pointed at me and asked is that your
woman he then said yes and brought his friend close to the car where i was
still standing and introduced us i was already pissed because i knew how the
night was going to go he would see his friends they would all laugh and talk
and he would forget that he even came with someone the party had barely
started and he'd already abandoned me to chat with his old pal anyway as soon as
we got into the hall he turned to me and apologetically said sorry babe i see
someone i want to talk to and disappeared that was how our evening
went he would randomly walk up to me ask if i was doing okay and leave again i
knew he was just doing that so he could tell me that he at least checked up on
me if i bring up his disappearance later i felt he was manipulative and i spent
my evening at the party planning my revenge wondering what i could do to
make him feel just as i was feeling the celebrant's wife caught me watching my
boyfriend laughing and drinking from afar and tapped me lightly on the arm
he's such a funny guy you're lucky she said i rolled my eyes and said it would
be nice if he was more attentive she sighed and sat on the chair just before
me have you spoken to him about this the concern in my voice made it clear that
she very well understood what i was talking about yes i have he promises to
change each time but we go out again and he acts like i'm not even there she
chuckled lightly and stopped a waiter who was just passing she picked two
glasses and handed me one but i declined i'd already had three glasses and that
was more than enough for one evening too much alcohol was certainly not good for
my system especially when i'm in a foul mood i told her that and she giggled
about not wanting alcohol especially when i'm already upset she said honey
i've been married for 10 years and if there's one thing i've learned men don't
listen when you talk you have to let your actions speak for you she patted me
on the arm and walked away i had planned to get back at him but i became even
more gingered to do it i was determined to let my actions speak for me on our
way home i didn't say anything about what had happened i was quiet all
through the ride and my boyfriend asked if i was alright at intervals i said i
was okay at each time and we continued our journey back home in silence i was
in my boss's office some weeks after that night when i overheard my boss on
the phone he was telling his wife about some tickets she got and expressing
displeasure about not being able to go to the concert my boss and i have a good
relationship and we spoke quite often so i asked him what it was about my boss's
wife had gotten tickets to a john legend concert but he'd also planned a weekend
trip for them she didn't tell them because she wanted to surprise him and
he didn't tell her for the same reason do you want the tickets my boss asked me
i wouldn't want it to go to waste i excitedly said yes my boyfriend loves
concerts and he was a huge fan of john legend i was surprised that he didn't
already know about the concert and have tickets already when i got home my
boyfriend was upset he'd asked his assistant to get him tickets to john
legend's concert but his assistant wasn't able to i heard him telling this
to a friend in a voice message i was going to announce that i had tickets to
the concert but i decided against it it was my perfect chance to get back to my
boyfriend and i was going to take it that saturday i told my boyfriend i had
plans with a co-worker and he just nodded my boyfriend is not used to me
having a social life and he was probably
even happy i was going out without him i
knew he'd be more curious if he knew who i was going with because i was sure he
just assumed it was a lady at work i was going to the concert with one of my
co-workers whom my boyfriend heavily disliked when we first started dating my
boyfriend would say that the guy liked me and he felt we were too close i knew
it would crush him to find out i went to a john legend concert with this guy but
that didn't care my boyfriend was taking
a nap when the co-worker came to pick me up and we went to the concert together
just as we were going in i started to feel very bad about not taking my
boyfriend i knew he would have killed to be at the concert i'd planned to rub it
in his face that i had tickets to john legend's concert but chose not to take
him but chose not to take him before but i changed my mind i decided that i was
going to simply not mention the concert well it was too late one of his friends
saw me and he came over with his wife to
say hello i knew his friend was going to tell him so i had to tell him too my
co-worker and i had so much fun that evening and it was nice to see what he
was like outside the work environment when he took me back to our apartment my
boyfriend was just outside to this day i
don't know if he'd been going out to get something or if he was waiting for me
because his friend told him he saw me and a guy at the concert the two men
said a cold impersonal hello to each other and my coworker drove off my
boyfriend was silent all through the elevator ride up to our apartment
immediately we got in he exclaimed you went to a john legend concert i shrugged
like it didn't matter and walked to the room my boyfriend followed so it was
like a date you two went out together i frowned i said nope listen it's not a
big deal my boss gave me two tickets to the concert and i took him this riled up
my boyfriend even more and i wasn't surprised
i knew it would anger him he sat on the bed and spread his palms all over his
face i don't know why you're making a big deal of it i said casually removing
my earrings and placing them on the vanity table that was unfair you had
tickets to john legend's concert and you didn't take me you took him instead my
boyfriend's face wrinkled and disgust when he said him i knew it would greatly
offend him if he found out that i took that co-worker but i didn't expect this
level of anger and irritation i apologized just like he apologized to me
in the past a short impersonal apology my boyfriend was not having it though i
don't think you know what you've just done he said and left the room i left
him to himself and he didn't speak to me until the next day when he wanted to
know why i did it i told him why i did it and explained that i felt just as
hurt when he ignored how i felt at parties he apologized this time and i
did too he made me promise though that i would never deliberately hurt him like
that again we hugged it out and now we have better ways of expressing our
dissatisfaction do i regret what i did nope most times this kind of thing is
like a communication issue but it's pretty clear that op
multiple times expressed their dissatisfaction and were just flat out
temporarily placated and just ignored i just wonder if the boyfriend ever truly
will get over the fact that opie took that hated co-worker to one of their
favorite artists and our final story of the day is revenge against my awful new
boss i know for a fact that many of us can relate to working in crappy
environments sometimes our bosses and even colleagues can be complete jerks
and being stuck in the same workplace as them is not always the most fun
experience i went through something similar with my boss and after a little
while of taking all his crap in silence i finally snapped and i'm going to give
you the entire story i'm a 24 year old female and i graduated from community
college with a degree in literature like
a true nerd i worked at the library from
the moment i was old enough to get a job and it was actually the best thing in
the world it goes without saying that i'm an avid reader with an unhealthy
obsession for fictional men and situations and although it did earn me a
few snide remarks here and there i always had my nose buried too deep in a
book to actually notice anything or anyone once college was over i continued
to work at the library until an acquaintance from high school that i ran
into let me know about a job opening for editors in the publishing firm she
worked at i applied for the job and edited a few manuscripts as a little
test since i had no prior experience but
was recommended by a staff member before i was finally accepted working at a
publishing firm as an editor was a lot of fun in the beginning i got to do what
i loved for a living to read and make necessary corrections to stories taking
them from their raw form until they're all ready to be published i was a
natural at it and my turnover rate was also really incredible and fast while i
worked at the firm i made a few other friends and we ended up getting very
close one of them was also an editor but in a different sector of the firm while
others were staff writers we were soon inseparable and had lunch together all
the time and shared our lives with each other i also made other friends in my
workplace and it was nice because they didn't judge me for preferring the
fictional world to the real one because they were all the same i finally found
my own people and a job that i actually liked life was great things started to
shift from the normal that we all knew at the firm when the leadership of the
firm changed hands the former boss was a lovely woman in her 60s that acted like
a mother hen to everyone she was super kind compassionate and understanding and
she ran the firm really well not that i knew much about running a firm well but
she did a good job by my standards while
still managing to be firm enough that no one took her niceness for granted or
insulted her efforts she also gave smaller authors a chance for their works
to be published and hosted signing events for these authors as well
everyone loved her and we were all sad when she decided to retire the new head
of the firm was introduced during the send-off party that we hosted for our
retiring boss and the first thing we noticed was that he was much younger
than the old boss initially no one had any idea who he was or how he even came
to be the new head of the firm but we still respected him either way my first
observation was that he was mostly quiet
and kept to himself it wasn't like we at the office needed to be told what to do
but he barely left his office until closing hours it was obvious that he was
trying to figure out how the firm could generally run by itself before he would
add his input but we also did try to make him feel as included as possible we
ran things by him before taking the final decisions and he would just smile
and agree with whatever we said after a couple of weeks the new boss will call
him chad held a meeting with the entire firm and the first thing he let us know
was that he hated how our former boss ran the firm and that he was here to
make sure there was some kind of order it was a weird switch up from the
nice-ish quiet man that had been watching us for the last month he also
called us lousy and lazy and said that the younger women in the office dressed
like who are among many other things that i wouldn't
like to recall in essence he insulted basically everyone and made us feel like
whatever we'd been doing was utter rubbish it made most of us feel terrible
about ourselves but what could we do he was our boss after all it seemed like
the new order was basically to overwork us to death because he made everyone do
double the work that they'd been doing before in half the time i was suddenly
editing two times the number of books that i was doing before and had to skip
my lunch break and stay in later than usual just to be able to catch up
quickly i went from loving my job to absolutely detesting the very act of
waking up in the morning just because of my work i had manuscripts piled on my
desk every morning and they didn't reduce whether or not i finished the
day's work now i'm not a very extroverted person unless i'm around my
friends which means that i usually ignore things that i'm uncomfortable
with until it gets to the point that neither i nor the people around me can
ignore it anymore and then someone else speaks up about it i never confronted
situations myself but in this case i was livid at the inhumane amount of work
that we were being given a few older workers at work had been laid off
because they couldn't keep up with the new boss's work rate one of them had
even ended up in the hospital because of
a lack of rest and an increase in stress levels he basically fired her when she
called to take a sick leave this man was cruel and we couldn't do anything about
it that was until i decided to finally stand up to him if i'm being honest it
was more anger than anything else because i normally never would have even
had the courage to stand up to a waitress who got my order wrong and talk
less about my boss in the workplace it was a friday afternoon and i was just
finished with all the work i had during the week about two weeks prior i had
applied for a half day that day and was told that it would only be granted if i
finished all of my work by the time i had to leave i was done an hour before
the time i had to leave and was busy cleaning my desk when my boss walked in
with a pile of files lined up on his arm and dropped him on my table without
waiting to listen to anything i had to say he walked back to his office and
shut it behind him i got really mad and went in behind him to express just how
upset i was at the way he overworked us the entire head office heard my outburst
and everywhere was eerily silent as i gave my boss a piece of my mind i can't
recall everything i said to him but i did speak of the way things were run in
the office and how we all hated it in the way of a true narcissist he began to
let me know how hard it was to run a company full of incompetent people and
that he was trying his best to make sure
we earn more money than other publishing firms around i tried to ask whether our
health wasn't important to him but he didn't care much for what i had to say i
tried to bring up some other things but i was defeated as he only ended up
dismissing me for the day i was so anxious for the entire weekend that i
could barely even sleep it felt like the
end for me and my friends from work even may seem so with how often they called
to check up on me at work on monday chad called me to his office and let me know
that my job as an editor was now part part-time and i would be his new
personal assistant i hated the idea of it and tried to talk my way out but he
let me know that it was either i accepted the job or i would be fired
having just moved out of my parents home
into my own place i knew that i couldn't afford to lose my job working as chad's
personal assistant was basically me being his little errand girl and
part-time maid my work area was moved closer to his and when i wasn't editing
mountains of manuscripts i was getting his coffee buying him lunch or helping
to pick up his son from elementary school this was when i found out that he
was indeed married and his wife also worked somehow my job changed to being
his child's babysitter there was nothing said about it i just somehow fell into
the role and had to keep his kid busy during the weekends just like his father
mini chad was a spoiled brat that felt the happiest when he was making me a
slave for him he was just such a nasty little kid and i disliked being around
him it was worse because his parents believed everything he said over what
anyone else did so if i ever tried to let them know that they were raising a
monster i would get laid off from my job immediately being a personal assistant
to chad meant that i didn't have a personal life anymore because i had to
be at his beck and call every other day hanging out with friends was a luxury
that i could barely afford and dating was definitely out of the question
somehow through all of the stress that i
went through i barely even thought about quitting now that i think back to it
maybe that was the reason that chad thought he could be a jerk to us and get
away with it the people who worked at the firm had been there a while and
having to find new jobs was a hassle for them things changed for me when i asked
chad for a raise because i was still doing my regular editing job while
turning into his and his son's permanent babysitter he decided that i wasn't
doing enough work to be deserving of my salary and he cut me 20
off i was mad enough to quit and i'd started to apply for jobs in my spare
time but i also decided that maybe it was time to give chad a taste of his own
medicine as his personal assistant i had
access to his schedule and i also made a few of his appointments i wanted to let
him have an inkling of what it was like to be me so i started to set his
appointments too close together he barely had any time to rest as he
attended meeting after meeting he had something going on nearly every hour of
the day for about a week and he could barely even last two days it was
hilarious watching my boss barely have time to get himself ready and dressed
and the once very well put together man looked a mess when he stepped into work
one time he even wore a mismatched suit because of how much he needed to do he
lived just one week in my shoes and he was such a mess that he had to take a
month off work for a vacation with his family of course i still work during
that time but i was in charge of booking the hotels and organizing the events
that they would attend coincidentally there was a billy eilish concert in town
and his son really wanted to go i was asked to purchase three tickets for his
entire family and i did so apparently he
wanted tickets with backstage passes and i should have known that without him
having to have said it he insulted me so much that i decided to keep the tickets
for myself they were virtual tickets and
i forgot to send them to his email while he was turned back at the entrance of
the concert i was inside with three of my friends from work listening to the
talented billy eilish entertain us of course he tried to reach me but my phone
was turned off because i deserved the weekend off i turned my resignation
letter in not too long after that and went back to working at the library
until i got a better job because honestly anything was better than
working for an ungrateful man who didn't appreciate the work that people did for
him i still work at the library but i have an interview at a different
publishing firm next week so wish me luck with that honestly if anything i
think op put up with this a little too much i just can't imagine doing like a
dream job at a publishing firm and ending up being okay being like an
on-call babysitter by the end of it all i know is op must have really been
strapped for cash at that point to allow that to happen but i wish op the best
and i hope they get the new job the new publishing firm that said that's all the
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what do you do when your partner's ex tells you to stay away from their kids
we'll get into that in a bit but first I 32-year-old female lost my temper with
my out of work husband 34-year-old male who demands Perfection but doesn't get
dressed some important context I used to work full-time until the company I
worked for got bought when this happened I decided to use the opportunity to go
back to college to retrain my husband was employed and said he would be happy
to support me and I had some savings too my parents are self-made we grew up
doing hard outdoor work and wearing secondhand clothes when my parents
retired recently to our surprise and gratitude they gifted me and my siblings
a property this is very out of character
and very kind but comes with feelings of guilt as I've not earned the property
they also helped me with money for college anyway my husband works in his
dream job in a fairly unstable industry he has never had a 95 job and has only
worked in this industry due to various reasons most of this industry industry
has been on pause so him and about 70% of his colleagues are out of work he's
been out of work for 4 months he initially took the first 2 to 3 months
very easy as he deserved a holiday and expected things would pick up soon that
didn't happen and around month three he said he was low on savings and needed to
get a real job he was heartbroken by this because he said an office job would
be a nightmare I felt this was very entitled and not many people have the
luxury of a dream job he asked me to write a CV and also said he would start
working out and write a script meanwhile I'm a student so studying constantly at
home and living on depleting savings mine and relying on scholarships and a
loan for my parents as explained due to my parents we have no accommodation
costs only bills which he pays Before Christmas my husband and I argued
because he expects me to cook and clean and study whilst he does very little he
encourages me to work out and asked me to make my New Year's resolution to do
mouth stuff once a day I like that he's attracted to me but it feels very
entitled to ask for that he will occasionally do the washing but does the
bare minimum and often won't get dressed all day I find it weird and very lazy
and unattractive for someone to be on Playstation all day we fell into a
pattern where I'm nagging him and hate myself for it and hate him for being so
sloppy we patched it up and he confessed he felt like he was unable to provide
for me and I comforted him I came back from a workout today to him in his
dressing gown and a load of dirty plates and I lost my temper telling him I can
do better than this and that the only reason we're not on the street is
because of the house my parents paid for I apologize but he says the damage is
done he has since left to get drunk with
his friends I love him a lot but I can't stand his laziness and I don't
understand how he can't do the bare minimum to me it sounds like he has a
lot of things to work through and maybe figure out and I don't blame op if it's
just something that's a deal breaker for them honestly if you left them for
example because of these things they might be angry now but in time they
might understand why also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy tricky
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that said our next story is I'm 29-year-old male visiting my family with
my wife 28-year-old female married for a few weeks and my sister 13-year-old
female is acting jealous and distant to her I'm visiting my family for a little
over a week after our honeymoon my wife and I live abroad and my sister is being
weird as heck we've been staying at my parents for 3 days and my sister has
thrown these little childish Jabs at my wife the whole time example yesterday my
sister and I were cooking we were cutting vegetables and my wife asked if
we needed help my sister then said no we are fine in Spanish so my wife wouldn't
understand wife speaks English everyone in the house can speak English but my
sister said that particular thing in Spanish just for my wife to not
understand it I told my sister something like can you chill while laughing I
didn't scold her and told my wife how she could help us there have been other
little comments like that but you get the gist of it neither my sister nor my
parents had ever met my wife in person so this is literally my wife's first
impression of my sister last night I explained to my wife what happened and
she laughed and said she was also a jealous tween or teen once when her
sister was starting to date for the first time and my wife hated her
boyfriend just for dating the sister how to tell my sister to chill in the best
way what would be the best way to approach that talk I mean she's
literally a 13-year-old girl and she's kind of acting like a 13-year-old girl I
mean maybe try to do something with her one-on-one have a talk about it work
through it let her know that you're still there for her that nothing's
changed that there's no reason to feel the way she's feeling our next story is
my fiance 30-year-old male wants his immigrant sister to live on our property
and support her I 27-year-old female am considering breaking up me 27-year-old
female and my fiance 30-year-old male are in the midst of planning our wedding
we are usually very open with each other when discussing how the future is going
to look we openly talk about finances children Etc however when we were
talking about building our dream home he casually brought up how he wants his
sister age 33 to live on the same land like mother-in-law Suite or down the
street my fiance feels a responsibility for her because they come from a
developing country and their parents have passed away so it's just them she's
coming to the us so we will be taking care of her financially for a while he
mentioned in the past that she would live with us and he said she would take
care of our future children and she's quiet so we wouldn't even notice her
there however when I asked if that's permanent he said no and he and I would
move out when we outgrow the space fast forward to present day he casually
brings up how he wants to have her live on our property or somewhere very close
he says that she's introverted and it's highly possible she won't be getting
married if we move out of the city we will need to also bring her he's told me
she has a lot of savings but she doesn't like to use her own money she likes it
when others pay for her meals Etc so I expect her to depend on him 100% when
she gets here as he was telling me all of this I got quiet he then said I have
a responsibility for her you wouldn't understand you have your siblings and
two parents I tried explaining to him that this is a big thing to consider
because I barely know her and after we get married she's my responsibility too
I know he can sense that I feel like his
sister will put a strain in our marriage but he keeps getting defensive when I
tell him I need time to think about it he says that I'm making him feel like
his sister is a burden and that I don't even have to do anything I know it might
be silly but I keep thinking about the wh ifs of the future what if something
happens to my fiance I'll be the one to step in and support her I guess I just
feel weird about all of this because I barely know her they talk to each other
daily through text but I still haven't met her after after 3 years of dating my
fiance says she's shy so they don't even FaceTime for me to meet her he was born
in the developing country while I was born here so there must be a cultural
disconnect I feel heartless to have these emotions and selfish for even
considering leaving him am I a bad person for having these thoughts
marriage life seems hard edit thank you everyone for your responses I wrote this
post late at night when my emotions were high I apologize for that because I
missed some details because I didn't want him finding this post he's also on
redddit but those details are important here's an edit for clarification sorry
guys she is definitely his biological sister yes he is sponsoring her but it's
because their dad passed away during the immigration process immigration is slow
as freak due to co but they are reconsidering their case and they are at
the last step she is coming over here in 1 to two years my fiance has his
American citizenship I don't speak their language but I know the sisters speak
some English their parents are gone and so are the grandparents it is truly just
them which is why I feel like a bad person and a spoiled American to feel
this way I knew she was coming to the states when we first started dating I
also knew she was going to live with us until she gets up on her feet I just
didn't know he wanted her to live close to us like on our property close or down
the street close we are both Asian but from different countries So Family
Values are ingrained in both our cultures however I would never want to
live with my in-laws I was born here I know in Asian countries this is the norm
my fiance sends money home to help out the family because he's the bread winner
we both make a h 100,000 with no kids and he already has a house we're living
in that house and that house will be hers when we build our new home together
his sister works in health care but makes low income she does save all her
money though they had a complicated relationship with their dad basically he
would show love through money so I can see why that is her love language after
he past her mental health is really plummeted my fiance feels guilty he
wasn't able to be with her through this which is why he wants them to be close
when she gets here she is great with children which is why he said she'll
help us with child care again this Norm in our culture but I have an American
mentality and feel weird about this because I don't really know her I mean
in this situation I just can't blame op for not feeling fully on board with this
family or not sister or not it's a lot of responsibility to take in another
adult put them on your land let them live there sharing a living space with
another person that you never really signed up for and if your partner does
pass away I understand why you wouldn't want to feel obligated to have to take
care of them and look out for them for their future especially if they're not
in a situation as an adult where they're
capable of supporting themselves and you don't want to support another adult our
next story is wife 41 year-old female and I 42-year-old male agreed to allow
mother-in-law 70-year-old female and sister in-law 45-year-old female to put
their horses on our land but they won't agree to basic boarding agreements to be
polite I've been married to my wife for 10 years together for 14 during this
entire time her family hasn't been particularly warm to me but we've been
on good terms never had any issues that I'm aware of her sisters don't really
talk to me never have I realized pretty early on that they didn't like me so I
gave them their space my wife 41-year-old female mother-in-law
70-year-old female and sister-in inlaw 45-year-old female all love horses and I
hate them but I am accepting of my wife's Hobby and help out a lot because
it's an expensive and time intensive hobby four years ago my
grandmother-in-law passed and left a small inheritance to my mother-in-law my
wife and I have a smallish property and two years ago I was approached by my
wife to allow my mother-in-law to clear land and put a horse enclosure on my
property so she and my wife and sister-in-law could keep their horses
there I initially said no I I didn't think it was a good idea for many
reasons but every 3 months or so my wife would ask me again and eventually I
caved and said yes but with some conditions one I didn't want us to have
to foot the bill for this after it was installed they would all three share in
the responsibilities and costs two I didn't want this to substantially change
my life three it was a gift I didn't want to be indebted to her family for
this I.E if we chose to sell the house we wouldn't have to pay her back my wife
and mother-in-law agreed to my terms but mother-in-law wouldn't meet with me to
discuss the plans or specifics of the project I let them go and monitor the
project several times I had to step in and put my foot down that certain
aspects needed to be done correctly and not as cheaply as possible mother-in-law
clearly wanted this to be done as quickly and cheaply as possible but I
didn't want to fix or replace everything in 5 years because it breaks in October
we were nearly completed I had spent the last several months doing back breaking
labor putting in utility lines clearing land and digging out stumps but the
property was not ready mother-in-law was putting pressure on us to move the
horses to avoid paying board but the shed to store hay wasn't installed yet
and there was debris over the field the shed base was a point of contention
because they purchased an extremely cheap and flimsy shed that needed to be
on a concrete base mother-in-law and wife didn't want to put in the time or
money to pour a slab so they were fighting me a bit but eventually I had
to tell them to pour a lab or find another shed because the shed was so
flimsy it was a major safety hazard unless properly anchored by the end of
November the slab was poured the shed installed and the debris cleaned
mother-in-law again wanted to move horses I wanted to set forth the ground
rules and get them to agree to them prior to moving there were six rules one
30 minutes notice prior to dropping by two 24-hour notice for routine vet
visits emergencies don't require notice three the house is off limits unless
invited in I.E they can't come in when they want to use the bathroom four
helmets must be worn when riding five approval and liability forms required
for any guests six violation of these rules more than three times could result
in removal this causes a major crab storm it was communicated via group text
with my wife mother-in-law and sister-in-law mother-in-law agreed to
these terms sister-in-law lost her mind and started to call wife bossy saying
that texting before coming over was completely unreasonable that she
wouldn't send notice because she's never had to do that at a boarding place and
then said that all because I was a butt she then started calling me names
accusing me of swindling her mother out of the inheritance sister-in-law
suggests that father-in-law and mother-in-law should sue me to get the
money back I was respectful but hurt I said that if she didn't want to agree to
the rules then that's okay but no horse on the property mother-in-law says
they'll bring my wife's horse for now since they were already planning to move
horses however I'm not very wary because litigation has been brought up and
Pandora's Box can't be closed I decide I need to cover myself financially in all
this there were Communications between mother-in-law sister-in-law wife and a
couple hours later I got this text from sister-in-law saying sorry for calling
you a name I was still pretty heard and responded which name but liar swindler
she responded with but I felt the apology was backhanded and said as much
and that I needed some space from her since she didn't agree to the rules she
couldn't bring her horse a couple hours later mother-in-law drops off wife's
horse and leaves then an hour after that mother-in-law sends wife a text saying
we're here are you coming out I went outside and sure enough mother-in-law
and sister-in-law are unloading their horses in the the field I stormed out of
the house and yelled across the yard at them why are there three horses in my
field mother-in-law sister-in-law immediately responded get over yourself
dude I said get over myself why don't you get your horse off my property she
said no I said okay then how about I call the cops then this upset
sister-in-law and mother-in-law mother-in-law started going on about how
I should forgive family immediately after blood cools sister-in-law started
saying that I stole the money and why did I take the money
at this point we were talking on opposite sides of the fence and
sister-in-law moved about 60 ft away mid conversation so I raised my voice again
so she could hear me finally I realized we were at an impass and I said whatever
keep your horses here I don't give a crap and walked back into the house they
decided to take their horses and leave after that I decided we needed a
boarding agreement where rules and liabilities are clearly defined we
drafted a very standard boarding agreement and sent it to mother-in-law
and sister-in-law mother-in-law agreed when sister-in-law returned the document
there was a slew of untracked changes some of which would cause wife and I to
be liable for unreasonable things like her horse getting sick or injured
potentially putting us on the hook for thousands sister-in-law is a pargal for
an insurance company so she knew exactly what she was doing I confirmed with
sister-in-law via an email all her changes to the document but was
respectful to her we said there was no way we could accept this agreement as it
would void our insurance policy it seemed like we were at an impass again
we say that mother-in-law is allowed to bring her horse at any time
sister-in-law needs to agree to the original terms sister-in-law declines
mother-in-law doesn't bring her horse then father-in-law gets involved
father-in-law starts texting wife trying to resolve the situation saying
mother-in-law doesn't trust me anymore not sure why mother-in-law starts
sending text saying the barn value needed to go into the boarding agreement
so if she leaves the barn goes too I think um no he then asks to have a
sitdown with myself and wife as an information gathering session we agree
and he's very respectful and calm and just says that he's planning to pay
mother-in-law back the money she's put into the property and make her whole as
well as give sister-in-law the same amount he's trying to smooth things over
says mother-in-law and sister-in-law were joking about the suits and not
being a gift I am amazed that this is happening but hey it's his money I'd
prefer to be out of all of this but I also don't want to get sued for any of
it we depart on good terms with us saying we'll send over an updated
boarding agreement we leave on good smiling terms the next day I send
father-in-law a text and say that we need to sign a gift affidavit saying the
horse enclosure and barn are a gift as originally promised before drafting new
boarding agreement agreements he agrees and says that the funds will be
transferred to make mother-in-law whole by the end of the week we agree to meet
the following week to sign the forms at a notary when we meet mother-in-law is
in the car and father-in-law is inside father-in-law is not happy or friendly
but says hi mother-in-law enters and doesn't say a word I figure I guess
everyone is mad now so we don't say much sign the paperwork and as we exit
mother-in-law very loudly says oh now I'm ticked wife and I are like what the
freak we say thank you as they're walking away and leave it was a very
tense situation overall several days go by Christmas goes by we send over our
normal presents to mother-in-law and wife's family she thanks us for the
gifts and tells us that she's mad because I didn't apologize to her for
yelling and we both didn't thank them even though we did say thank you as we
left then there are a bunch of texts between wife and mother-in-law where
mother-in-law is trying to convince wife of a different series of events one
where sister-in-law and mother-in-law haven't done anything wrong one where I
was planning to do this all along and steal her money and where I'm a crazy
person that yelled at mother-in-law for no reason wife isn't buying it and
starts getting angry tells mother-in-law to review all the texts and emails
because they are very eye-opening at this point we decide sister-in-law is
out the invitation to put her horse on our property is rescinded wife and I
aren't going to play this game every time sister-in-law gets upset behaves
poorly and then mother-in-law jumps in to defend her blindly mother-in-law is
still permitted to put her horse here mother-in-law starts sending texts about
how ungrateful we are pointing out all the times she's been generous in the
past and how we should let sister-in-law
put her horse here the next day we get a
text from father-in-law saying that they dropped off presents at our mailbox for
our son they normally give our son a lot of Christmas presents as he's the only
grandchild in the family I I was confused but when I checked the mailbox
there was only a couple very small presents amounting to about $30 all
wrapped in addressed to my son from mother-in-law and father-in-law we give
them to my son but make up a story because mother-in-law and father-in-law
have made no effort to see my son on Christmas not that the amount of the
presents really matter I've always been uncomfortable with how much money they
spent on him and he was happy with the gifts regardless which brings us to the
present wife and I are upset that mother-in-law is apparently taking her
anger out on me and our son other than standing up to her family and not being
okay with threats of liability and Suits I can't figure out what I've done wrong
did I just uncover the toxicity that's always been present in her family wife's
not like this or should I apologize am I being treated like an outsider or am I
being unreasonable edit a lot of responses are saying the terms were
unreasonable particularly rules 1 and two but they won't pay boor won't won't
help pay for repairs and won't help with the increase in insurance premiums with
all these increased liability all I wanted was a little notice so I didn't
find people in my yard randomly it's my house not a business additionally since
they're not paying bored after a few years they would actually be making
money off of this because they'll have covered the costs of the horse enclosure
because they haven't been paying each month for board meanwhile we'll still be
stuck covering all the costs edit two mother-in-law has already been texting
beforehand neither had any issue with the no bath as they've never been in a
border that had one sister-in-law has issue with rule number two edit three
thanks all I can accept my portion of the responsibility here I should have
pushed for the meeting to get all on the same page after mother-in-law wouldn't
agree to it and if she refused I shouldn't have let it move forward edit
for the first two rules 30 minutes notice and no bathroom were communicated
prior it was only after they got it in writing and had to respond in writing
that they had issue but even if they were never communicated prior do you
feel their response was appropriate threatening lawsuits and calling names
and attempting to lie and cheat doesn't seem like a proportionate response final
edit thanks again all a lot of people have said that it was blindsiding them
with six rules that they hadn't heard prior and I agree that if that was the
case it was a little jarring and rude but just because it was a surprise it
doesn't make it unreasonable by default quite a few here have said that the
30-minute notice is not reasonable and I just don't understand that everyone has
their phone permanently stapled to their hand takes 10 seconds to send a text
like OMW honestly there's so much going on here there's a lot of money going on
there's a building I feel like all of this should have honestly been organized
through some kind of lawyer it just doesn't surprise me that when it comes
to somebody's property and somebody else spending a lot of money to establish
something on that property for them to use under certain circumstances that all
of a sudden there's a lot of drama going on about it honestly this whole thing
from a legal perspective should have been like so black and white scripted
out agreed to in some uncomfortable lawyers firm chair I think just allowing
this to be such on a personal level is where it all kind of started unraveling
our next story is I'm 35-year-old female on a holiday with my fiance's
41-year-old male family and friends and saw him holding his hand around the
waist of his female friend 36-year-old female me 35-year-old female and fiance
41-year-old male have been together for almost 4 years he proposed a couple of
months ago we were on vacation with his parents brother and his wife and a
friend couple of him we were first just with his family and that he had his
friend Couple come some days ago it's a huge place and lots of places to walk to
not far away and some hours ago my fiance thought I was doing something
else and I changed my mind and walked out everyone else had gone to the bakery
his female friend 36-year-old female who is also in a relationship with his best
friend was standing next to him by a fence with a view I saw them from behind
standing side by side quite close not totally shoulders touching but very
close and I noticed his hand was on her waist like you know reaching to the side
of her waist from behind further from himself holding it where the waist is
the smallest I'm feeling very scared and hurt thoughts spiraling right now one
part is trying to justify it maybe she told him something sad but the other
side of me is tearing apart but his whole family is here I can't act I feel
smothered by all of this I adore his family and don't want to cause drama to
add I've met her sometimes and for some reason never truly liked her due to
having a weird off feeling about her there was nothing in her behavior that
EXP explained it and I rarely have that feeling about people I'm hiding away
somewhere where no one can see me right now I just feel so sick and anxious
we're all hanging out here for two more weeks he's been friends with her
boyfriend for a couple of decades really
close nothing of this makes any sense he has proposed his family is here he's
friends with her boyfriend he kissed me this morning saying I'm great I don't
know what to do if I pretend like nothing for two more weeks if I should
tell him in private that I saw them and ask for an explanation it's hard to
pretend maybe I can fake being sick I think it's pretty important to have a
private discussion with them and bring it up now rather than put this off and
allow it to get too cold and removed you don't really know the circumstances you
don't know what reasons they're going to
possibly give until you just straight up call them out on it and talk to them I
mean maybe they just thought it was an innocent enough friendly gesture I don't
know I mean can friends not do what sounds like essentially a side hug while
looking at a view together without it being inherently romantic and cheating I
mean to be fair it definitely feels more
intimate to me than I would ever do with a female friend especially if I had a
partner but I think I could be convinced that it was done in an innocent way our
next story is boyfriend's ex-wife told me to stay away from their kids what do
I do now I 39-year-old female have been in a relationship with my boyfriend
Brian 42-year-old male for a year or so we were in love and talking about moving
in together when my le expires in 6 months from the beginning I knew he was
divorced for 5 years and had two school-aged kids named Alex 10-year-old
female and Dan 8-year-old male when things started getting serious between
us Brian told me the reason he and his ex Alyssa divorced Brian had an affair
with a cooworker Alyssa found out and filed for divorce Brian told me that he
regrets cheating on Alyssa and that he set a terrible example for Alex and Dan
you wouldn't blame me if I considered it a deal breaker despite my issues with
cheating my mom left my dad for another man when I was his kid's age I believe
that people can change and I believed Brian was remorseful maybe that's naive
of me I don't know I thanked him for telling me and told him that I accepted
him in spite of his past Alyssa has primary custody but Brian has them
during the weekends and some holidays because we were talking about moving in
together Brian proposed that I meet Alex
and Dan at dinner I agreed and asked him to tell Alyssa figuring she'd want to
know I sure would myself if I were in her shoes we met at a restaurant shortly
before Christmas and everything went great the kids and I were understandably
nervous at first but by the time dessert rolled around we were laughing and I
thought having a good time Alex and Dan are great kids and I said as much to
Brian as we were leaving last Friday Brian had Alex and Dan and we decided to
go to the mall together Alex wanted to go to ultra beauty and I went with her
while Brian and Dan went to the Apple Store she fell in in love with a small
bottle of purple nail polish and I decided to purchase it for her to be
fair to Dan I purchased an iTune gift card of the same amount so he can listen
to music on his iPad I told the kids it was a late Christmas present from me the
kids were very grateful and even made me a thank you card I was moved and thank
them now I'd never met Alyssa before any
of this I made it clear to Brian that if she wants to meet me or not it's her
choice and hers alone and whatever it is
is I would respect it last night I got a call from Alissa I wasn't surprised she
had my number because I figured the kids or Brian must have given it to her she
asked me why I bought the kids Christmas presents I explained the situation she
told me that she didn't want me hanging around Alex or Dan before hanging up I
don't know what to do Brian's at work and won't be off until tonight so I have
some time to come up with a plan as much as I love Brian I don't want to come
between him and his kids he made a terrible decision yet yes but I know he
loves Alex and Dan and has been doing his best to make it up to them I don't
know if Alissa thinks I'm the woman Brian cheated with or what if we're
going to be living together in the future the kids are going to be a part
of my life and I want to be a part of their lives if they want me to be as I
said they're great kids I can't take the place of their mother and I don't want
to I want us to have a good relationship
with each other so what do I do did I do the wrong thing in buying the nail
polish and gift card I don't think Go's The Jerk here considering there's a
custody agreement in place he has complete entitlement to having those
kids over I don't know if there's anything in their custody agreement
about Brian having a partner there but God forbid if it ever got to that point
op being there and saying yeah she didn't want me around their kids because
I bought them Christmas presents probably wouldn't move the court to say
oh yeah no Brian can't have custody anymore I think op's totally fair and
right that if she's with them and Brian's going to have his kids they're
going to be in their lives together I wouldn't try to talk to the mom again I
would definitely try to work everything through Brian I mean especially if Brian
blindsided their ex by never even mentioning about op you could maybe
start to understand why she would feel that way a bit more the ball is
definitely more in Brian's Court to solve but with that being said that's
all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another tricky
relationship topic check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest
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AIT for leaving my husband of 16 years because he can't adult background my
husband and I had a fun Carefree relationship one of our best friends
died and we moved out of state soon after moving SL the death my husband
started drinking more this ended up in full-blown alcoholism during the worst
of the alcoholism he was verbally physically emotionally financially
abusive he stopped paying our mortgage we almost were forclosed spent all our
savings racked up almost 100K on credit cards and stopped paying on them I had
to to physically take keys from him hide them hide weapons Etc to keep him and
myself safe I had to wake him for work daily so he wouldn't lose his job I was
the bread winner because he was barely getting a paycheck I took care of
everything in our home and out I should have left at this point but grew up a
good Christian girl and you don't leave your spouse at his worst right fast
forward to now spouse is sober and we had a Child 3 years ago he stepped up
for a short period but slid back to being a burden since our son was about 4
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what would you do if your kid brought home a homeless person tell him to call
me Mom my daughter did this an acquaintance of hers from school was
homeless she brought him home to get a good meal and make sure he had warm
clothes for the coming winter he came back several times more after that
finally I sat him down and had a talk with him I said that I understand that
his home life wasn't great but I also understand he'd been making some bad
decisions himself I told him that if he wanted to finish school and have a home
that I'd be willing to be his mom but that wasn't just the fun stuff like
having food to eat in a warm bed it was also the not fun stuff like I'd expect
him to finish high school and work on improving himself he said okay Mom that
was 3 years ago he's off drugs he finished high school and still calls me
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welcome friends to another r slash am i the jerkier video would you be the jerk
for looking your niece in the face and saying that you don't love them we'll
find out but first a story from lopsided yesterday241
am i the jerk for calling my boyfriend a creep and telling him that he's not my
dad i female23 was invited to an outing with a few of my friends from college
there were eight girls including me and four guys including my boyfriend only
one of them was our friend the other three were dating one of us i invited my
boyfriend male 23 fake name noah to come with us since everyone made it clear
that they were fine with him coming they liked him as we'd been dating for three
years and they all knew him he accepted and was happy the day of the outing i
was getting ready when my boyfriend walked in i was wearing my favorite
dress which had spaghetti straps it wasn't too short or anything and didn't
show any of my cleavage he said something along the lines of you looked
nice and left the room we got to the outing which was about an hour away we
went in and saw everyone and was happy for a while that's until my friend david
male 24 showed up he was the only male in the group that wasn't anyone's
boyfriend noah instantly got quiet and stayed around and close to me every time
david got close to me noah would huff and puff but not say anything else i
found this odd because he was so close to david in the past but didn't say
anything eventually noah pulled me aside he said why would you wear that if you
knew david was coming you need to go home and change i was taken aback since
he said it was fine earlier i'm not driving two hours total just to change
my dress i told him yes you are i don't like you wearing that dress around him
he called me a few rude names in which i returned with you're being a creep
honestly you're not my dad stop dictating what i wear and walked away
from the situation noah stormed out and took the car home and a friend who lived
nearby said she'd give me a ride home after hearing what happened alright cool
problem solved we enjoyed the rest of our outing and david never made any
weird remarks or looked at me weirdly when i got home noah gave me this silent
treatment he told his parents who were saying that i'm the jerk which is why
i'm making this post but most of my friends disagree i think it goes without
saying that ops not the jerk here especially this isn't like a revealing or
mini dress thing what the boyfriend did here was like
middle school principal dress coding no spaghetti scraps it might drive the boys
wild do you guys think this behavior this display is a huge red alert to just
leave the guy can this be salvaged let me know what you guys think down in the
comments our next story is from seidiowill977 am i the jerk for interrupting my
husband's live stream and going off on him after he forgot to feed and change
our daughter's diaper i'm female32 my husband male35 has a youtube channel
with over 14 000 followers he's been doing live streaming a lot lately even
though i told him that we have responsibilities to take care of before
our daughter she seven months old was born he'd stream randomly and spend a
lot of time with his followers answering questions and engaging in conversations
he keeps saying that his followers are good for his mental health and that
engaging with them weekly makes him become better at socializing and
communicating he's been complaining about wanting to do a live stream for
days i told him we'd look at our schedule and see if we could get him
some time to make it happen apparently this wasn't good enough
yesterday i had to go grocery shopping and asked him to keep an eye on our
daughter while she was asleep he said okay i was gone for four hours but kept
calling him to see if everything was okay he would tell me that she was all
right and that she was sleeping i started getting this weird feeling that
something was wrong because she must have been hungry or needed a diaper
change he argued that everything was fine i immediately went home and when i
entered the house i didn't find him i shouted his name but got nothing i went
into the bedroom and saw that my daughter was awake and her diaper wasn't
changed and worse was that her bottle wasn't even touched i was confused i got
out and noticed that his office's door was closed i figured he was doing a live
stream from the noise i heard i was beyond seething i barged into the office
and saw him sitting i blew up while he was trying to turn his mic off and
telling me to stop but i didn't stop i berated him for leaving our daughter
unattended and with no milk nor diaper change he freaked out on me saying i
just ended his entire channel and destroyed his fan base for interrupting
his live stream and embarrassing and scandalizing him like that i told him to
not say a word but he kept yelling calling me out of control and unhinged
he was almost crying so i had to leave the office he kept fighting with me till
i decided to go stay with my mom he started blaming me for ignoring his
needs after he already expressed them and that he forgot to do what i asked
him and i'd cost him so much now he's telling me to come back home because he
misses his daughter let me say firsthand that i totally understand the urge and
the excitement from live streaming but i gotta say unless that's your full-time
job that is such a tricky thing to balance while having really really
important responsibilities like having a baby to take care of i love the idea of
live streaming but every time i think about it i think about how much time it
seems like you have to be able to dedicate towards it and to me it just
feels unrealistic unless it's something that you can rely on to put food on the
table at the end of the day the bottom line here is op's not the jerk this guy
had a baby to take care of and they ignored them for hours in the other side
of the house because they wanted interactions with followers now that's
something that he's actually doing that puts the money in the bank account then
i think they would have a legitimate argument about prioritizing that or
finding time for it but as just a hobby it's a really time consuming one and
tricky to work in this next story is from remarkable words am i the jerk for
demanding my neighbors return my daughter's bike that she gave them
yesterday i noticed my daughter 12 came home without her bike looking a little
upset i asked her where her bike went and she said she gave them to her friend
who lives across from us now i'mma be honest i was a little upset to hear that
she gave away her bike as i'm a single mother of eight side note don't judge me
only four of the children are biologically mine the rest i adopted due
to my friend passing away and my sister's mental health problems i worked
extremely hard to get my daughter that bike it was literally over a thousand
dollars but my daughter really wanted and loves it so it was also a surprise
to me but i let it go because at the end of the day i brought my daughter the
bike it's not up to me to control what my daughter decides to do with it later
that day i hear my daughter crying in her room so i knock on her door to make
sure she's okay she broke down and admitted that her friend's mom pressured
her into giving away her bike even though she didn't want to now my
daughter has already given her friend her old bike after she upgraded so i
honestly don't understand how selfish this woman is the next day i went over
to the neighbor's house to speak to the mom without my daughter and demanding
she returns the bike telling her she better return the bike or i'll report it
stolen and that she had no right stealing my daughter's bike from her she
denied stealing it but in the end gave my daughter's bike back she told me i'm
a psycho witch who clearly has issues and that she doesn't want her daughter
involved with people like me so she'll no longer be allowing her daughter
around mine when i told my daughter that she became upset and blamed it on me my
daughter was really close to the neighbor's daughter and is now mourning
losing a friend i now feel like how i approached the whole situation was wrong
and that i could have been more sensitive about the whole issue in order
to salvage their friendship i think gop is definitely not the jerk i don't
really think there was any winning per se in this situation it's either allow
your daughter to be totally heartbroken having to give up their bike to somebody
that like op said pretty much stole it from them or going and getting that bike
back for your daughter and accepting that those parents are total well a
worse word than jerk and are going to use their kid as a weird form of
leverage i'm not gonna lie i feel for that kid because they're probably going
to grow up just as entitled and awful as their parents are i just hate the idea
that there's all these parents out there that can imprint these awful behaviors
onto their children by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit
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videos our next story is from primarypepper1532
am i the jerk for charging a 70 dollar fee to family members who last minute
cancelled their rsvps to my wedding to attend my mother's wedding i 26 year old
female just got married to my husband 30 year old male i have a rocky
relationship with most of my family on my mother's side i haven't seen my
mother in roughly seven or eight years we haven't spoken the typical strained
mother-daughter relationship regardless i chose to invite some of my family from
my mother's side to attend my wedding it was small and very intimate so i wanted
the important family to be there while i by no means have great relationships
with the people on that side of the family they did a lot for me when i was
younger and i wanted them to be a part of this special day my mother was not
invited for a number of reasons she's known to steal the spotlight and cause
problems plus she's openly shot down and berated my husband to family members
despite never meeting him on the basis that he's an artist and that's how he
makes a living he makes far more a year than she ever has to a little ironic so
inviting her was just not a smart choice anyways after sending invitations word
of course gets out on that side of the family that i'm getting married i get a
call from my cousin about three weeks before the wedding she wanted to warn me
that my mother had decided for whatever twisted reason in her mind to get
married to her fiance of now a couple of years on the exact same date keep in
mind that my wedding was planned eight months in advance a week before my
wedding i get a call from one of my aunts on that side explaining that
she'll be unable to attend due to a family matter that has arisen code word
for my mother's wedding of course as soon as i got that first call i sent out
a mass email to everyone explaining that anyone else who cancels last minute who
has already rsvp'd will be charged 70 due to the catering and venue fees that
would be wasted on them not being present i would be able to enforce this
given that all parties had to pay an additional 25
for each room that we booked for them at
the hotel so i had all their information and they were made aware of this charge
we paid for the rest of the room fees by the way logically i wasn't actually
planning on enforcing this it was more of a i know what you all are doing and
i'm really mad about it move so i spent about two days after that dealing with
non-stop phone calls from family on that side saying they had to cancel and it
was absolutely ridiculous that i was forcing them to pick a side i told them
that they'd rsvp to my wedding months before my mother's and coming to mind
was also just blatant common courtesy long story short that entire side did
not show up aside from my cousin who warned me of the whole thing i'm still
debating actually charging their card 70 dollars but i think it's too petty and
being honest writing and even thinking about this on my honeymoon isn't fun i
spent the second night in freaking france crying on my husband's shoulder
over this so am i the jerk i think ops not the jerk overall here i completely
understand where they're coming from but would you guys agree with me that it is
a terrible idea to try to enforce the 70
charge on one hand i think it's going to cause a crapload of drama and on the
other i think they can have definitely some kind of case about chargebacks or
fraudulent activity or a legal case potentially as painful as it is for op i
think the best thing to do is cut them all off and ride off into the sunset
this next story is from throwaway am i the jerk for ruining my
sister-in-law's honeymoon by exposing her racism my female27 sister-in-law
female30 got married last week she's my long-term boyfriends male 32 sister
they're white and i'm middle eastern and
a dark one with raven black hair she was looking for a photographer that didn't
bankrupt her so i suggested a friend of mine who's new in business and charged
less than half because these things cost over 5 000 euros these days she was
excited and i set a group chat up with her and my photographer friend we talked
a little and later they met and they started messaging directly to each other
the wedding was amazing and everything went smoothly i was one of the guests
and she seemed happy the next day they went off to their honeymoon i don't know
if it was by mistake but instead of texting the photographer directly like
she's done for the past few months she texted him to our old imessage chat she
thanked him but had a favor to ask him and wondered whether he could retouch
some asymmetry in the flowery archway i'm sorry i don't know the right terms
in english but also if he could take me off of some of the photos because i'm
too dark and ruined the color palette not all pictures just the one she's in i
texted back are you kidding me she didn't answer i took a screenshot and
posted it on my insta story tagging her in it she called my boyfriend crying her
eyes out calling me a jerk for embarrassing her and ruining her
honeymoon boyfriend thought it was a low blow i was blinded with a rage when i
did it but even now i'm calm and i still don't feel like i was a jerk but people
have been contacting her apparently asking if she really wrote this she's so
beautiful and successful so please don't blame it on jealousy or being scared of
being outshined i mean i think if they want to try asking their photographer
that they can do so but i think op is not the jerk for outing their racist
request remove them because they're too dark usually you can imagine what
exactly they're wanting or like envisioning but this is one of those
things that i can't even understand what they mean besides just they don't want
op to be in the picture because i don't know just some kind of racist reason our
next story is from queen bumblebree am i the jerk for calling my husband stupid
and ignorant about my uterus i'm having a very uncomfortable period irritation
fatigue and cramps i've been talking to friends about it in group chats about
menstruation issues and birth control and sterilization i don't talk to my
husband about it other than occasionally
complaining about cramps hurting because he doesn't have a uterus and has no
experience with menstruation issues my mother called and the subject came up
she told me she just had her tubes tied and since that we don't want kids i
should also have my tubes tied i told her that i was just discussing these
things with my friends i said i'm not interested in surgery but i might get on
a hormonal birth control pill that allows me to skip or stop periods since
they seem to be getting worse in my 30s hormones can change dramatically in
women in their 30s my husband butts into the conversation to say i 100 do not
need surgery or any hormonal treatment because you're fine only four days a
month you suffer and you always get through it just fine there's nothing
wrong with you you talk to your friends and think you have the same medical
issues and think you need to get the same procedures or pills to fix a
problem you don't have paraphrased i try to explain to him that he doesn't know
what the freak he's talking about he insists saying i never talk about period
issues and since i don't talk to him about it i don't have any issues or
don't need hormonal treatment i got angry and told him again he doesn't know
what the freak he's talking about and tried to educate him but he just cuts me
off and claims i only think i have issues with my period because i'm being
influenced by other women's stories like i'm some kind of menstruation
hypochondriac he said if i had any issues that require hormonal treatment
my gyno would have seen those issues in my uterus when she examined me or gave
me a pap smear i told him that is not how it works you can't see period
symptoms inside a uterus you freaking he gets all smug oh then how are
those medical issues diagnosed if it's not a doctor examination of the organ he
thinks that was a gotcha question i told him women self-report symptoms and a
doctor analyzes those symptoms then suggests treatment well you've never had
a doctor tell you to take hormones or birth control
wrong again jerk every time i go to the gyno i tell them i'm not on birth
control and they immediately suggest birth control options like pills or
injections or rings etc because treatment can do more than stop you from
getting pregnant it can also relieve menstruation discomfort like heavy flow
acne and cramps he was wrong on every point he made but insisted his opinion
was valid he accused me of wanting to take the pill out of spite i told him he
was a stupid ignorant man whose opinion on my uterus was completely worthless
told husband he's stupid for having an opinion on my birth control i think it
goes without saying that ops not the jerk especially a million times fold
after this guy revealed how just little they do know if i was in the husband's
shoes the only thing i would have an opinion on really is just having a
concern that a hormonal birth control could affect their mood or overall
mental health but also that's something you just don't really know unless you
try it anyways and it's also not the husbands say whether or not you do it
regardless also i don't even understand why the husband is so dismissive anyways
it only stands to make their wife's life better why are they dunking on it so
hard our next story is from obviouswrongdoer18 am i the jerk for
saying that i don't love my niece to her face i know the title makes it look bad
but hear me out i 26 year old female have a niece laura eight-year-old female
through my sister kim 33 year old female and another niece amy six through my
brother tom 35 i know my siblings love their kids wholeheartedly but when it
comes to parenting they each have different styles this comes from the way
that we were all brought up by our parents who use the because i'm the
parent and you're the child slash obeying me without question mindset that
we all resented kim's the type of mother who just can't seem to say and still to
the word no while tom will at least give an explanation as to why while amy is a
sweet energetic little girl she does listen and knows how to respect people's
rules and boundaries laura does not laura is entitled laura is impatient
laura is whiny laura will throw a massive tantrum if she is denied
anything and will get progressively worse the longer she's denied because
she knows her mom will cave eventually i haven't watched laura since she was six
and it was a nightmare she yelled screamed kicked me drew on the walls and
broke one of my framed pictures all because i made her dinner instead of
getting fast food kim did apologize for laura but shrugged off the idea of
giving out a punishment citing that kids will be kids never again would i be
responsible for my niece again amy on the other hand may need to be told
something more than once but ultimately is a respectful child i definitely
babysat for tom multiple times and did fun activities with amy when i can the
coming august before the start of school i was planning on going with some
friends to the mouse kingdom in florida due to life events they dropped out but
i still wanted to go and asked tom if he and his wife would be down to come with
me and i'd go 50 50 on everything with them they were delighted and we all
decided to go obviously kim found out and wanted to come too but we all knew
she couldn't afford it so i thought everything was settled well laura found
out at our family dinner and she was super upset about amy getting a surprise
trip but not her she looked at me and said auntie you have a nice job and no
kids you can pay everything i told her that while i may make more money than
her mom i can't pay for everyone by myself laura said yes you can you had
money to pay for that car she pointed to my new car in the driveway you can pay
for me and mommy to go i refused and cue the tantrum it was awful and she kept
screaming why and so that if i really loved her i'd make her happy by paying
for the trip over and over i kept refusing and she got worse before i
finally snapped and yelled back that i didn't love her that she was a mean
little girl and that i didn't like being around her that definitely shut her up
for a moment before she started to sob and cry kim's berating me for being so
heartless and that i'm evil for favoring one niece over the other am i the jerk
it might be tough to say that it might be tough for the kid to hear it but it's
the truth and i don't think op's the jerk frankly i agree with pretty much
everything op said the kid was not raised well and it's so beyond like a
babysitting or a family trip it's literally a big undertaking ordeal to be
around this kid so sorry but i don't want to go to the happiest place on
earth with that our next story is from bloodlike war am i the jerk for keeping
my food in my room where my roommate can't get it i'm from the midwest and
live in a major city with two roommates one of them is nice and has become a
really good friend the other one however is annoying but i spend most of my time
in my room with the door locked so i don't have an issue with him he isn't
annoying in a way where he's messy or doesn't pay rent on time he's just the
kind of guy you wouldn't want to hang out with well he likes to eat any food
he sees fit if you put ice cream in the fridge it's going to get eaten he
doesn't enjoy eating homemade food he has the taste of a 9 year old and only
wants microwave mac and cheese and chicken nuggets i eat healthy and
exercise so i cook and meal prep most of
my meals so it's not a problem for me my good roommate on the other hand his
frozen pizzas and frozen white castle burgers get eaten my tupperwares of
home-cooked foods aren't touched i keep my junk food in my room my bed has
drawers underneath that lock so i store my chips and cookies and stuff in there
when my roommate sees me on the couch with a bag of chips in hand he gets very
offended and looks in the cupboard like where did you get those chips do you
keep those in your room give me some while i was working he texted me and
asked where the key was to unlock my bed drawers and i just replied well lol
you're so lame i was telling my parents about this and they're kind of
midwestern folk and think i'm being a jerk when i'm home and i see him eating
my roommate's food i put a stop to it but i'm not home much a roommate works
from home am i the jerk i think op's definitely not the jerk isn't it one of
the most common accepted things that if you live with roommates don't eat their
food unless it's like agreed upon that you're sharing the food that you paid
for together or something if a roommate texted me and said hey bro where's the
keys to unlock your bed drawers i think i'd want to just about slap him i'd say
bro get your filthy hands and yourself out of my room i think it's time to get
a mini fridge with a lock our next story is from potential asparagus 4 am i the
jerk for walking out of my job with no warning when i'm one of the only
employees for context i female18 have been working at this
coffee shop for over two years now i close four days a week with only me and
one manager left to run the store from about 2pm to close the other three days
a kid male 16 closes with a different manager this is about the only staff we
have excluding the owner who will never close another kid male 19 who can only
work day shifts due to college another kid male 18 also works days and does
night classes and a grown man who works in the back baking all morning and has
another job in the afternoon making him only available in the mornings so they
very clearly need me working there with them i've been there for a while now and
i really don't mind the people they can be a bit rude sometimes but i'm super
shy and don't talk much anyway so i stay out of everyone's way and just get all
my work done anytime i've worked with my manager she tells me about how i'm the
best employee she's worked with and she likes how i just get stuff done fast
forward to a week ago i went inside of work on one of my days off to say hi
order a coffee and get a sandwich i'm a vegetarian i've struggled a lot with
food and being able to eat enough for my whole life and i always had a hard time
not getting grossed out when eating meat so i stopped and my relationship with
food got much better so i ordered a grilled cheese and got my coffee and
left i was driving away and i went to take a bite i take one swallow and it's
fine when i went to take another i felt a super gross texture and i instantly
spit out my food and pulled it apart they put chicken in my sandwich they
know my diet and what i normally order i was so upset but thought it was a
mistake so i took the loss on the three dollar sandwich felt a little gross and
moved on the next day when i went into work when i get there there's normally a
shift change so i get to see my other co-workers as they leave i was talking
to a guy in the break room while getting ready to work and he was about to leave
i casually made a little joke about how i'm never coming to this place after
they got my order wrong just trying to mock rude customers and i told him about
my grilled cheese i ordered and how it came with meat he laughed and told me
that it was actually our manager that made me that and it wasn't an accident
she wanted to pull a prank on me and make me try the chicken cause she said
it's delicious and she even gave it to me free of charge anyway after he told
me what she said i packed up all my stuff took my hat and apron off and told
the manager what i heard how i'm done and how disrespectful that was to do i'm
still getting calls and texts telling me how rude it was to leave with no two
weeks notice and how much this shows that i'm just petty and can't take a
joke they are so short staffed now they close early and i know it's affecting
business so am i the jerk messing with anybody's dietary choices willingly
intentionally just an absolutely horrid thing to do what if op was actually
wanting to avoid these things because they were deathly allergic i mean
imagine it would have been discussed and they would have avoided it in that
situation but even still i think people who think it's so funny to clown and
dunk on people because they choose to be vegetarian or vegan are just the
cringiest people alive especially the people who find out somebody's
vegetarian so they'll go like out of their way to like chomp a burger in
their face like as if somehow you insulting them by chomping down this
burger in front of them is somehow only going to motivate them to change their
mind even more and our final story of the days from long caramel3291
am i the jerk for pretending not to know
my sister and a class that we're both in
this happened at the start of summer but its effects are still ongoing i'm 17
year old male taking advanced placement physics 1 this summer so that i can take
ap physics 2 in my senior year my sister is also taking ap physics 2 and
therefore is also taking ap physics 1 this summer in the same middle college
as me the thing is is that she's going to be a junior it's embarrassing as heck
to have my younger sister in the same advanced class as me and i genuinely
hate it on one of the first days of class at the beginning of june my sister
came to my table to ask me a question and i responded with wait sorry who are
you she laughed but i repeated it in a serious tone she responded with i'm your
foot and then i cut her off and told her that i don't help absolute randos in
class my sister could tell i was being dead serious so she just laughed a bit
and shook her head and walked away i'm not lying when i say this we haven't
spoken a word to each other since that day at first it started with my sister
ignoring me but then i got kind of petty
and started to ignore her and well we're in the present time now our parents
don't notice because they're always busy at work and at the dinner table they're
the ones who initiate conversation am i the jerk in all this isn't it just sad
to see somebody that is so ashamed of being seen around their own sibling that
they're willing to treat their own sibling like a weird creepy stranger in
a class let alone the fact that imagine if this was any other classmate that
walked up to op to try to you know start conversation and say hi and would op
treat that person like sorry i don't help absolute randos in class just on
that sentence alone what kind of weird elitist behavior and line of thinking is
that sorry i don't help absolute randos in my class if i was in the sister's
shoes i wouldn't talk to op either clearly op doesn't want to talk to her
not some absolute rando like her if that were me and my sibling i think i'd be
thrilled but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if
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hello everyone my name is Steven and welcomed the storytime today we're going
to be reading some malicious compliance stories tiel's we're following the rules
can lead to some just desserts and let me just say if you're not already
subscribed to storytime please consider doing so but with that being said let
sit back relax and listen to some captivating reddit stories can we have a
pool table only if it's donated ok so we're back to
my days doing voluntary work we had a meeting with the chairman of the board
of trustees during which we were asked if we had any ideas or suggestions a
couple were made that actually made sense and were indeed implemented and we
get a typical anything else at the end can we have a dart board or snooker
table I asked jokingly you know for when we're quiet I'll tell you what the
Chairman laughed if a customer donates one you can have
it we all after the joke meeting ends and I forget about the conversation that
is for about a week or so when I'm out with my mother in see a half-sized pool
table complete with queues and balls sitting outside a local charity shop I
don't know what they call these outside the UK it's a volunteer run shop that
sells donated goods to help fund a local charity
it wasn't exactly completion great more something you might buy for kids to play
on but still perfectly serviceable I suddenly remembered the conversation
with the chairman and so my mom about what had been said pointing to the table
well she says I'm a customer of charity I was volunteering at go find out how
much it is I go look at the price it was something like 10 to 15 pound certainly
under 20 my mom takes the money out of her person hands it to me saying that
it's her donation to the charity for all the hard work we do not one to look a
gift horse in the mouth I think her for the money and quickly by the table
before anyone else can so next day I'm back doing my charity work and I walk in
with a massive poop eating grin on my face hey other volunteers remember what
chairman said about a dart board or snooker table everyone looks at me
confused as I produce the pool table from around the corner everyone breaks
out laughing even more so when I make it clear that
it's not a joke it actually has been donated by a customer perfectly within
keeping with the stipulations put down by the chairman our team leader who was
having trouble standing she was laughing so much relents and says we can keep it
so long as we finish any work that needs doing before we play with it and we
never use it when there's a customer around thus began two weeks of joy work
was getting done much faster as everyone
wanted to turn of the table everyone was happy and we made sure that we kept to
the rule set down by the team leader not wanting to lose our cool privileges
unfortunately all good things must end one day when I wasn't there the Chairman
paid a surprise visit and was shocked to see two of the volunteers enjoying a
quick game between customers all other work had been done and there was still
someone on the desk to answer the phone and greet visitors I don't know the
exact exchange that took place but the Chairman asked what the heck was going
on in the team leader reminded him of what he'd said at the meeting she also
confirmed that the table had been donated by a customer even digging out
the paperwork to prove that my mother had been registered with the charity for
almost a year at that point but the Chairman didn't see the funny side of it
and insisted that the table be gotten rid of so started my next shift I loaded
it into the back of my car it ended up being donated to a charity fair my
mother was helping out it and someone else got to enjoy it
oh what a bummer at least for the two weeks they got to enjoy it but it's a
bummer that the Chairman paid a surprise
visit and shut down the operation at the very sight of it despite saying he was
going to go along with it you have to call me every time you leave this
hallway sure thing boss my brother used to work in Environmental Services in a
rather large Hospital for those of you not fluent in corporate bull that means
he was a janitor he had a lot of cleaning duties that took him all over
the hospital each day however each person was assigned a hallway that they
had to maintain during the shift my brother did not have an issue with this
and did all of his work as assigned at this particular job he often bumped
heads with management but in fairness the way he describes it he was working
for a bunch of idiots I obviously cannot comment on this but in the time I have
known my brother he has always been an incredibly hard worker and does what he
can to provide for his children so I give him the benefit of the doubt and
assume management was just being stupid on one particular day the management
tried to implement a new rule all staff members were now supposed to call the
boss whenever they left their designated hallway the boss man
Joe just wanted a quick notification I'm
sure the reason for this rule made sense at the time
but it's one of those things that is just so stupid no one ever did it that
didn't prevent the boss from trying to enforce the stupid rule though he
harassed everyone my brother included all the time about
leaving their work space without notifying him one day he was really
going after my brother hard until finally my brother had enough he decided
that it was best to follow the rule the very next day he began at the start of
his shift he called his boss hey Joe I'm going to my hallway now a few minutes
later my brother realized he didn't have enough supplies on his cart and the
required supplies were in the closet 10 feet outside the area he had been
assigned so he called his boss again hey Joe and need to leave my hallway I
forgot some supplies he did so then once he got back to his hallway hey Joe I'm
back in my hallway now an hour goes by and wouldn't you know it he had to use
the bathroom Hey Joe I need to go use the bathroom it's a number two in case
you were wondering then he went to the bathroom upon completion of the sub desk
he went back to the hallway and called again hey Joe and back in the hallway I
had a good bowel movement no trouble to report there the color and size all
seemed healthy at this point Joe was getting annoyed but he couldn't go back
on his rule that he had gone through so much trouble to enforce meanwhile my
brother's calls in many reports became increasingly elaborate he was no longer
just calling to say when he left and came back but to explain why he was
leaving how long he would be gone where he was going etc Joe eventually
stopped picking up his phone so my brother would just keep calling until he
answered my brother said he thinks he must have called this boss over 150
times during his 8-hour shift each time leaving a very very detailed report with
each report his boss just replied something along the lines of okay okay
okay Chad okay clearly just wanted to get off the phone the next day he came
back to work and didn't make any calls and Joe never bothered him or anyone
else about calling to check in with him after that an absolutely beautiful
execution of malicious compliance adding all that extra detail absolutely just
wasting the boss's time beautiful mwah beautiful they schedule
okay I'll decide for myself some years ago I worked at a corporate restaurant
chain that was floundering massive turnover and only managers seemed to
last the new general manager disliked me cuz I had 10 write-ups in my file
several from an a-hole chef who was fired and she clearly wanted me gone
tried riding me up for being late despite being nine minutes early for my shift
called regional manager and got that taken care of and got the day off since
she already told me to go home also demanded my minimum two hours pay for
coming in and got it she hated me after that the only thing
keeping me employed there was that I could run fry station when I was busy
when other cooks needed a second cook I saved them money
my chef used his own schedule template cuz it's faster and clearer despite
missing a lot of details for a long time it just said Monday to Saturday and not
the dates on the page I mentioned that he didn't even write AM or PM next to
the start times I mean if it says four it's obviously not 4:00 a.m. but 4 p.m.
right while I was one of the only cooks who would accept the late start times
like 7:00 p.m. or early times like 7:00 a.m. so I got a second job that paid
well and I knew I wasn't gonna last long at the corporate place
my starting wage was two bucks more at this new gig on day one so I decided to
party my face off and wasn't worried about being late for my 11 o'clock start
I wake up to a phone call at noon Opie it's where are you you're
scheduled for I thought I start at
11 p.m. why would we schedule a fry cook for an hour after we closed yeah I
thought it was weird to get in here now well I gotta eat and shower still now so
I showed up an hour later with a burrito grab some sriracha and asked if it's
straight to the office or should I hop on the line office now now we sat down
and I said you go first and proceeded to eat that burrito while she barked at me
told me I'm fired and done here nothing but a problem and that I'm not gonna go
far I let her just be you while I ate even the chef at this point was kind of
amused at the scene and how calm I was as she finished her random was staring
at me I told her I understand and it's okay as I left the office I shook my
chef saying and thanked him for everything and then as I walked at the
door I reminded my general manager of one little thing I expect to be paid the
minimum two hours wage since you made me
come in I've never seen a manager looked
so ticked Opie getting a much better job opportunity and being able to just act
like they don't care and giving a little bit of that stress back to the general
manager that the general manager has been putting on Opie is great to hear
the absolute Power Move of just golfing down a burrito while listening to them
spew at you great job Opie guess what happens when you ask me to break something
so eons ago I was working my first real job as a retail slave at a certain
geriatric electronics store known for stocking shacks full of radios at the
time the chain was for the thousandth time dying a slow painful death wrought
by stockholders that can't understand big sales are pointless if there's no
profit in them but I digress one of the things that particular chain
was doing to slow its inevitable demise was offering what was quite honestly the
best warranties ever if you bought the warranty on any product in the store it
was a safe bet that you could bring in as much as a piece of that product and
you'd get a new one depending on the product if it was
easily repairable are still technically usable we generally break it further so
that employees wouldn't take items that weren't required to be sent back to
corporate generally cheaper products like wires or toys at this time I having
the attention span of a hyperactive gnat
was known for my love of breaking things both because of the same childish
fascination one has watching monster trucks crush things and because I like
seeing the insides of things and figuring out how they work as such I was
the designated breaker one evening I'm closing with my manager who will call
Chad a customer comes in she's bought a phone a couple months ago and has
decided that the leaf from iPhone to Android was not once she was partial -
turns out she's Chad's friend Chad knows the ins and outs of the extended
warranty and had made sure his friend bought it for just such an occasion he
chats with her a bit and turns to hand me the phone
this is not unusual practice for him his friends stuff breaks all the time when
new versions of things come out no phones at the time always had to go back
to corporate for the warranties they had
to be in enough disrepair that the store wouldn't get a charge back for giving
out an otherwise free phone and taking in something we shouldn't have
Chad the manager says hey o P go break this for me
are you sure Chad I don't think that's a good idea what are you talking about go
break it pretty sure we got an email that says when do you check your work
email note being a commonplace retail employee I never really felt the need to
check my work email because as the lowest rung on the totem pole I expected
that most of it was spam and anything important the manager was supposed to
let us know about I was really bored the
other day and checked it are you talking about the email that the warranty is
changing yeah I saw it just go break it all right
I go to the backroom and give the phone a gentle drop on to the ground and get a
decent hairline crack on the screen what's this
they'll call that normal wear and tear come on go ahead and break it I'd rather
not why don't you so Chad walks outside spikes it onto the concrete and comes
back inside victorious with an obliterated phone then he starts the
warranty and his face goes white you see the warranty update email that he read
was different from the one that I read the one he read the week prior was to
inform us that the price brackets were changing for the contract phone
insurance the one that I read said that we would no longer be accepting
accidental damage as a reason to replace prepaid and unlock phones like for like
Chad just spiked a 250 dollar prepaid phone on the ground that prepaid phone
was now completely and utterly worthless
Chad was embarrassed Chad had a dip into his coke savings to buy her a new phone
Chad was very upset that I didn't stop him I laughed so hard he threatened to
write me up it's pretty obvious that some shady stuff was going on and also
that he was doing a pretty bad job and didn't read all the emails himself
despite being in a manager position all in all I think Chad got what he had
coming to him callbacks by permission only I used to work for a company that
did POS point-of-sale and security for low-end markets
places with dollar in the name my job was to assist the field technicians with
getting the store back online the company hired field text by contract in
any given area so I had to be able to explain what he was looking at and how
we used it if I was lucky the call would
take about an hour our call center techs tried to take care of the field text as
best as we could you find a good one they can make your day so if we had to
call the ISP because we found no internet signal to the building we would
offer to call back once we had the ISP on the line
along with this they wanted us to turn over calls as quickly as possible well
they came out with a rule that we had to ask permission to make an outgoing call
so we could keep our tech on the phone for the hour it would take to get
through to an ISP or bug the supervisor for permission to call them back yes
what option we chose now for malicious compliance we told the field techs what
they needed to say for the recording so they didn't have to sit with her ear to
hold music for two hours then when it came time to call them back we would
buzz the supervisor there were about 50 of us doing this so the supervisor was
running all over not including normal issues sometimes
during the wait for the supervisor the ISP would hang up so we would have to
start again our stats dropped like crazy the policy lasted four days it's more
fun when you do malicious compliance as a group you can give each other ideas
there's so many of these policies that pop up for these companies that make no
sense why have to hand hold and ask a supervisor for permission to do
something that any capable person should just be able to do it kind of sounds
like a situation where one person made one mistake and they decided to correct
the entire company because of it when it doesn't need to happen and slows
everything down needlessly just overall bad management and rulemaking in a lack
of foresight but with that being said that's all the time we have for today so
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an excuse of a mother took the life of her own child and ruined my C's life
first of all it is a long and horrible story so apologies in advance second
English is not my first language so pardon any mistake I may make this
happened in August 2017 and involved two
lengthy lawsuits one of which lasted one and A2 years and another for almost 2
years I'm not directly involved in it as it happened to my sister-in-law back in
2017 my sister-in-law was in her final year of nursing school she was required
to intern as a training nurse for 6 months she chose to join a private
school for her internship it was one of those International private schools
where kids of ultr Rich parents go part one the incident a 15th of August is
India's Independence Day and there was a celebration in the school it was your
usual Flag Ceremony with a flag march by students and a student band some plays
by students depicting events of the Freedom Movement some cultural
exhibitions put together by each class food and game stalls by teach teachers
Etc at the end of the day the top three class performances plays and cultural
exhibitions were awarded and select students were given a certificate of
excellence for outstanding performances everything was going normal in the
beginning but a student collapsed during the parade so he was brought into the
doctor's office the doctor checked him and found that he was running a moderate
fever and was also slightly dehydrated so the doctor gave him some medicine and
asked my sill to give him a glass of glucose water he scolded the kid for
participating in the parade while in fever and wrote him a note excusing him
from any further activity he then asked the kid if his parents were present and
the kid said that his mother was there so the doctor told him he could go home
if he wanted or he could sit in the shade with his mother to watch the rest
of the ceremony the kid asked if he could just stay there and rest for a
while so the doctor said that he could use one of the beds to take a nap since
there was nothing else to do in the office the doctor excused himself to go
and have something to eat from the Stalls leaving my sister and a janitor
in the office hardly 5 minutes later the mother M marched into the office and
went directly to check on her child myel tried to tell her that the kid was
running a fever and taking a nap but em ignored her she shook the kid and asked
him how he was feeling the kid said fine M said good now get up you got to get
ready for your play sweetie everyone else is already dressed up myel again
tried to explain he is running a fever he wants to rest M replied oh it's fine
he is fine aren't you sweetie the kid just looked at my sister Sil said the
doctor has excused him from other activities it would be better if you
just took him home and let him rest m saidit is just a play I'm sure my
sweetie can handle it he is a tough man isn't that right sweetie s tried again
it would be better for him to just rest he is still under fever and with that em
lost her mind she screamed to my s's face oh you know what's better for him
I'm his mother I know what's best for him how dare you my son is the topper of
his class he is playing the most important part in the play he is the
best if he doesn't participate in the play he will not get the certificate of
excellence he needs to stay at the top of everything or else he'll become a
laughing stock so don't you dare tell me
what's better for him the kid seeing his
mother losing her mind stood up and said
to my sill with a smile it's okay sister I'm fine thanks for caring for me
shocked and stunned my sister only managed to say let me call the doctor em
retorted I come from a family of doctors my father is the director of a
well-known Private Hospital you people aren't even qualified enough to work in
a hospital she grabbed the arm of her child and marched away my sister called
the doctor who said well it's her child what can we do we did our part about an
hour later the same kid was rushed in again as he again collapsed during the
play the doctor checked on him gave him an injection and asked him to be
transferred to a hospital immediately as the kid was unconscious and not
responding an ambulance was called and kid was taken to the hospital the day
ended without any other incidents two days later the school learned that the
kid had passed away in the hospital my sister was distraught upon hearing the
news she kept crying for the rest of the
day she kept saying how it was her fault and how she could have prevented it if
she stood her ground the kid smiled at her and thanked her for caring for him
we told her that it wasn't her fault and consoled her to the best of our
abilities even her professor from nursing school came and tried to make
her Fe feel better about a week later she was informed that the school was
opening an inquiry that a board of inquiry would look into the matter and
that she would be called for an interview the doctor assured her that it
was just a formality for school to cover all the bases and she didn't need to
worry about it in her interview she stated everything that happened she was
then asked why she felt it was her fault as she said so to the class teacher of
the kid in her crying fit she explained that at the time she was overwhelmed by
emotions and thought she could have done things differently she was asked if
there was anyone who would corroborate her story and she named the janitor who
was present in the office at the time she was then informed that she was
placed under suspension until the inquiry concluded when she went back to
collect her things from the office the doctor once again assured her that there
was nothing to worry about and that he would make sure that no harm would come
to her a few days later she received a letter from the school saying that they
had concluded the investigation and found her guilty of negligence and thus
her contract was terminated she called the school supervisor who who informed
her that her story did not match the story told by the doctor and the janitor
thus there was nothing that could be done termination of contract meant that
she couldn't complete her final term on time so she submitted an application for
extension to the nursing school she thought it was over but boy were we in
for a bomb dropped on us part two the legal trouble a few days later two cops
knocked on the door of my father-in-law and asked to speak to my sill they
informed them that the family of the kid
filed an F first incident report against my
they accused her of causing the UN alive of the kid they asked if they could
question her but my father-in-law denied it and told them they could only
question her in the presence of a lawyer so the cop asked her to come to the
police station the next day for the questioning we got the lawyer
immediately who at first called the cops
and asked for a later date to be set for the question then he told us to get
anticipatory bail ASAP in case the police decide to arrest her so we did in
the questioning the lawyer talked for the most part and he provided them with
my written statement the police asked their questions and
directed my S not to leave the state without informing them first Etc a few
more days went by and she received a summons from the court as the state
decided to try her for the crime the lawyer suggested tracking down and
speaking to the janitor as he was the only witness in the otherwise she said
she said case and so we did the janitor was reluctant to talk at first but after
my sister begged him he told us that the doctor told him that if he told the
truth he would be admitting to the same mistake that Nur nurse did and would be
fired for sure and the only way to save himself was to tell the story that the
doctor was telling him the story the doctor told the school's Board of
inquiry was that he had the kid under observation with a strict instruction
that he would not be released under any circumstances and that myel released the
kid without asking or informing him we asked him to testify in court which he
initially refused but later agreed to with a bit of persuasion once we had
janitor on our side the lawyer also filed a case of wrongful termination
against the school accusing using the inquiry of being partial and biased once
the court hearing started we learned that the M told white lies to the father
of the kid she never told him that she forced the kid to perform in the play
instead she said the kid wanted to play his part she also hid the fact that the
nurse objected and showed her the doctor's note her story was that the kid
wanted to participate in the play and when she asked the nurse the nurse said
everything was fine and he could play his part the case went on for a year and
a half janitor provided his testimony which the the prosecution tried to
discredit by saying that he told a different story during the school
inquiry so he was not a reliable witness but the judge refused taking note that
the doctor tried to intimidate him and in turn asked the prosecution if they
investigated the doctor's part in the incident as to why he forced the janitor
to lie and why he was not present during his duty hours when prosecution replied
in negative the judge asked police to file a case against the school doctor
during her speech my sister got very emotional and started crying as she
recounted the events of that entire day the only witness the prosecution had was
the child's mother who couldn't keep her story straight during cross questioning
finally in the Judgment the Court ruled in my sister's favor noting that the
prosecution's witness had massive holes in her story while the defendant
provided a solid witness he also noted that even if prosecution was to be
believed the defendant being only a training nurse wasn't even qualified to
release the student and by taking the kid away without the doctor's expressed
opinion the responsibility for consequences fell on the mother of the
child child he also commented on the school's mismanagement by not having a
fully qualified nurse they were in violation of federal laws he scolded the
prosecution for having tunnel vision and going after the defendant who was
obviously innocent and a vulnerable young girl herself after the Court ruled
in our favor the school decided to settle the wrongful termination case it
was finalized last month and we can finally put it all behind us however due
to all the emotional distress and Trauma my sister-in-law decided to drop out of
nursing school thus ending her dreams of becoming a
nurse she will probably join an honors course next year but right now she is
still troubled with the nightmares of going to jail and needs therapy to get
over it the police have opened a fresh case against the Doctor Who was let go
from the school this year he is also being investigated by the state's
Medical Association for wrongdoing if found guilty he will be barred from
practice we have no information on M or her husband edit thank you kindly
generous redditor for my first gold although I'm not sure if I deserve it
after all this is the story of my sister-in-law thank you again edit 2 wow
this blew up I was not expecting it to get as much attention given the
horribleness of the story thank you for all the support and love you have given
kind redditors who gave me platinum gold
and silver thank you for your generosity and finally to all the people who are
looking for searching for or asking for news reports as I said in one of the
comments it did make it to local news but I will not provide any link or give
even a remotely identifying detail because the information in the news can
be used to track and dox my S she already had a lot of sht to deal with
many of her peers were just assuming her guilt she is having a lot of trouble
dealing with the Fallout of this entire episode she is afraid of even stepping
out of the house and she is having frequent nightmares of going to jail I
really do not care whether you believe this story or not but do not ask me
which state it took place or any other detail I purposefully kept the details
in the story as vague as possible possible I hope you understand thank you
once again update I don't know if this is the right way of doing this but since
so many people have dmed me asking for an update on the post I made here over a
year ago I'm posting here with all the new information I have the school doctor
the school doctor was arrested and later
released on bail police charged him with section 304 a causing un Alive by
negligence of the IPC among many others the case is ongoing and I'm not aware of
his current whereabouts the entitled mother the police did not charge her for
causing the UN alive of the child she threw her lawyer claimed that she only
allowed the child to participate in the play because the child said he was fine
and wanted to play his part she claimed she doesn't remember the nurse myel
objecting strongly against that rather she believed that the nurse was only
suggesting that the child should stay in bed she then blamed the school and the
doctor for neglecting the well-being of her child she also claimed that she was
blinded by the rage and grief when her child passed away and wrongfully accused
the nurse when the doctor was obviously at fault the io said that even if my
sister testified they didn't have enough to prove that she through her actions
caused the unive of her child the wealth of her family might also have played a
role in this the father of the child a couple of months after the case was over
the father of the child visited my father-in-law and expressed his regret
for how things turned out and apologized for putting my through everything he
wished to speak to my but she wasn't comfortable facing him so he left
my sister-in-law I read to her all the positive responses and support she got
in the thread she was overwhelmed and very grateful for all the kind words so
thank you Reddit but actually in the end all it took was a global pandemic to
reignite her passion for helping people as soon as the pandemic situation
started getting worse she started regretting her decision to drop out of
nursing school she said that she just couldn't sit at home and watch while her
friends and mentors were out there fighting the war against Co she wanted
to do her part and we encouraged her so she contacted her professor who spoke to
the school authorities and they agreed to let her rejoin the course given her
unique circumstances she has volunteered and is currently helping with
vaccination efforts and we couldn't be happier for her she still struggles with
anxiety but she is getting therapy for that and I honestly think that being
back in the medical field and helping people in need has done wonders for her
self-esteem and confidence keep in mind that she is not in a critical role in
the vaccination program she is only helping with m containing records and
paperwork but hey every hand counts right that's all the update I have
regarding the matter thanks again for the support you guys have shown in the
thread and in the DMS stay safe everyone edit one thing that I missed including
in the post is that as far as we know the parents of the child are no longer
living together the m is currently living in her daddy's home and finally a
couple of you dm' me and asked again for personal details and news article links
please stop as I said in the original post post I will not provide any even
remotely identifying detail about my C I don't care if you think I'm lying I
don't need to prove anything to you thank you additional comment from op on
the child's father my father-in-law said that he the father was very apologetic
and seemed like a sensible person he was
very distraught he said that he believed his wife's version of the events at
first but after learning the truth he just couldn't forgive her and that they
were no longer living together and the child's injuries no if he hadn't left
then he wouldn't have un alive because it was falling from the ladder and
hitting his head that was what un alive him yeah he was dehydrated and had a
fever exertion just further added to that leading him to pass out thank you
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AIT for telling my dad he deserves my sister's lack of concern and compassion
for him to start with this is about my dad 40s my sister 14 and me 17m 8 years
ago my parents divorced and our mom ended up leaving it the divorce was the
trigger for a lot of my sister's mental health struggles which she was diagnosed
with less than a year after the divorce she cried all the time hoarded photos of
our family in her bedroom and would cry over them and beg for them to become
reality again she was struggling in school she was withdrawn she would beg
dad to get Mom back and to make us family again she ended up needing meds
therapy and a psychiatrist who she still
sees every 3 months but it was bad for a significant amount of time and Dad
wasn't great he told her to grow up and stop blaming him and one day when she
asked why he didn't love us enough to put our family back together he really
lost it and started crying into her face that none of this was his choice and it
wasn't fair to him he did Apologize eventually but would still get
frustrated with how slow my sister was to make progress and with how much my
sister struggled with additional changes
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what is the best revenge against a cheating husband and his mistress a
friend suspected that her husband was cheating on her with a mutual friend she
didn't let on but she became Vigilant one morning he said that he would be
working late and she needn't wait up for him this was becoming a common
occurrence suspicious she drove past the other woman's house at midnight and saw
hubby's car parked outside on the street she parked her car at the curb
immediately behind using an extra key to his car that she carried in her purse
for emergencies she left her car drove his car home parked it in the driveway
and went to bed she slept soundly and didn't hear him arrive home the next
morning he was uncommonly silent at breakfast before leaving for work he did
the dishes for the first time ever he also volunteered to drop off the dry
cleaning she smiled and said no thanks she made no mention of the car switch
when leaving for work he leaned down to kiss her goodbye but she quietly turned
away that night when he arrived home his belongings were in the yard in the rain
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a it ta for taking my ex-husband's mistress side in their fight trow away
for obvious reason please don't put this on you or BuzzFeed or whatever this is
mine and my children's life and I would like them to not see this on a Minecraft
video anyway long story incoming I'm trying to describe this as objectively
as possible about a year back my husband Jack 39m and I 36f got separated with
plans to divorce long story short don't leave your phone on and open with the
nudes you just received while you go jerk off in the bathroom I confronted
him he basically admitted to cheating though it was a one-time thing in
hindsight I probably wanted to believe that we had a huge arugment and he
agreed to go to his parents place for a few days while I tried to figure out
what the hell to do with myself that sinking feeling that everything is going
down the drain or lives together all of those years memories our kids it was
without a doubt the worst time in my life and I was so angry Jack was super
apologetic and begged me to no go straight to divorce that it was a
misstep and we could work it out I really wanted that to be true so we went
to therapy to try to talk it out all the way he was saying that he would do
anything to make it right I just had to name it but in the end I just couldn't
see how I could trust him again so we agreed to separation Jack moved out and
all in all it was rather civil we thankfully had an apartment that I could
manage rent for on my own and he was agreeing to everything I wanted done in
a certain way the only issue was our kids I'm not going into details about
them but they are in the age range 10 to
13 years/ o two girls Jack was living on a friend's couch and couldn't have the
kids there for sleeping over so the first about 6 months he would pick them
up after breakfast on the weekend and drop them off after dinner the same day
I want to stress that I never held the kids from him he is a loving dad who
cares greatly for them and we were in agreement that it was more important for
him to save on rent and find something permanent even if it meant seeing the
kids Less in the beginning they missed him but understood that it was temporary
about a month after the divorce was Final Jack texted me we communicated
primarily about the kids that he had found a place to live and wanted the
kids to come over for the whole weekend part of that hurt a lot that we were
really not married anymore but my kids come first always so we arranged it for
the following weekend and they were over the moon frankly I was looking forward
to a weekend to myself as well the kids come home on Sunday and they want to
tell me everything about it Jack has found a nice place and is settled in and
there is a guest room where the kids can sleep and everything seems great we
decide over text that they can come over every other weekend so he can start
seeing them more after their third visit
kids come home and I just know something is up like I can feel it they are not
nearly as cheery I end up setting them down with a bowl of ice cream and start
trying to talk about their visit that's when the words dad's new girlfriend come
to light that ass hat has introduced them to his new girlfriend who is
actually the owner of the apartment he moved in with her and she made herself
invisible the first few times after bedtime I text Jack to ask what this is
about and why he didn't let me know beforehand basically he confirms that
his new girlfriend is the woman he cheated with that was like a knife in my
heart this whole time he had been telling me that he wanted to give me
space and I just had to say what would make it better for us to get back
together he was so thoughtful and attentive that I almost considered
giving him a second chance while he was moving in with his mistress ever since
then I have asked him to only contact me if it is about the kids I want nothing
to do with him besides that the girls are definitely feeling the tension but
they do tell me that the new woman Jane is nice to them and really justes try to
give them time to get used to things so I kind of settled into this being how
things is now okay now for the actual AIT apart about 2 weeks ago I get a text
from an unknown number it's Jane introducing herself and apologizing for
reaching out to me but she has a concern about one of the girls and Jack is
telling her it's nothing and not to worry about it this has me pretty
worried so I agreed to meet with her at a Starbucks in town because I couldn't
forgive myself if something horrible happened to my kid and I ignored the
warnings because they came from Jane we meet up and it is super awkward because
she Dives right in and starts apologizing for the affair I try to tell
her that I do not want to hear it she can tell me about my daughter or I am
leaving she blurts out that Jake told her that we were already divorced when
they met and only lived together while things were getting settled between us
that couch at a friend's house never existed he moved right in with her he
knew the kids would give it away so he made up that lie to hide it I basically
tell her that she had 10 seconds to get to the part about my daughter and she
tells me that she is going to break up with Jack and she wanted me to know
because she knew that this would mean another uprooting for my kids and she
felt genuinely upset at having to do that she told me she had found out
because she had been cleaning up her office that he uses when working from
home and had found some of the papers from the divorce and saw that the date
was way off from what he had told her I thanked her for the heads up about the
breakup because I know my kids are going to be upset and now I had a chance to
try and soften the blow we both leave and I was just readying myself for Jack
to share the news I was confident he would go back to trying to save our
marriage once the bomb fell little over a week goes by and I make up an excuse
to keep the kids that weekend just in case still nothing until Jane texts me
again she had confronted Jack about the papers but he had already hidden them
and has spent days trying to Gaslight her into believing that she must have
seen it wrong and convincing her to stay together she asks me straight up for a
copy of the final document which we both have of course I ended up sending her a
scan copy by email with a note that I do not want to be contacted Again by her
well Jack got himself kicked out he's living with his parents for real this
time and he is blowing up my phone and my email and work email calling me
a-hole and a vindictive for getting involved in their relationship
basically he blames the breakup on me for getting revenge and is telling
everyone in his family and Social Circle that I made up lies to posie and Jane
against him because of the divorce even some of my family says I should have
stayed out of it maybe I shouldn't have sent her those papers but on the other
hand he put himself in this situation with his lies she was going to find out
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I discovered that my boyfriend is cheating after buying him an expensive
Christmas gift I female 25 discovered that my ex-boyfriend male 26 had been
cheating on me for 5 months I was really
devastated and felt a lot of rage inside me especially after buying him a new
PlayStation 5 since he wanted one but couldn't afford it I was saving up a lot
of money to buy him the console with some games we've been dating for 3 years
and living together for a year and a half I immediately kicked him out after
his side girl messaged me apologizing not knowing that he had a girlfriend I
didn't believe her because I trusted my boyfriend a lot but she came with
receipts they were a lot of messages where he flirted with her and sent an
asterisk asterisk D's I was disgusted really disgusted the worst part is when
I confronted him he didn't even try to deny it and called me boring he insulted
me a lot saying I was no fun and he deserves better I was really enraged and
for the first time I slapped him he was shocked so was I because I was never
violent with him and always tried to solve things quietly but he made my
blood boil I started screaming at him that he doesn't do anything around here
and never paid rent because he's a lazy jobless piece of who can't even
bother looking for a decent job at one point I mentioned how he will never get
the PS5 that I bought and return it soon to the store he looked like a deer in
headlights that bastard he immediately changed his attitude and acted sorry
started apologizing and crying saying he never meant to cheat and promised he
would make it up to me he's a disgusting Pig he never cared for my feelings he
only cared when I mentioned something he wanted such
hypocrisy I wasted no time and kicked him out he's still sending me a lot of
texts filled with apologies and even an ugly photo of him crying I told him to
not waste his time because he won't get the PS5 we're done then I blocked him I
won't take the PS5 I already have one but I remembered that my parents were
planning on buying it for my little brother the plan was going to be them
buying the PS5 and I will buy the games for it with an extra PS Store gift card
but looks like I will give my parents a call and tell them there's a change in
our plans for my brother's gift update hello everyone I'm back with an update
first I wanted to thank all of the people who commented and shared some of
their experiences with me I really appreciate it today was amazing I
celebrated Christmas with my family my parents and little brother my parents
Cooks the best food food so I ate well after not having an appetite for a few
days it was wonderful as for my parents agreement about the gift we agreed on
something I'll gift the PS5 and games to my brother my parents bought an Oculus
for my brother's new PS5 and other accessories for the console when the
time came for the presents I was shocked to learn that my brother got me an
expensive gift he got me some makeup from Sephora and a gift card my parents
then informed me that my brother was safe saving for my gift since the
beginning of the year I cried I literally start balling my eyes out then
I gave him a big hug my baby I thanked him a lot for the gift and said that I
loved it when he opened my parents present he was really confused and
stated that he doesn't have a PS5 for this Oculus I told him to open my gift
when he opened it he started crying and immediately hugged me I don't know what
came over me and I started crying with him I really really love my brother
he's a sweet little boy and a good behaved kid he's 12 BTW that's why he
deserved every gift he got it was expensive yes but it was worth every
penny to see him happy after we all opened our gifts I helped him set up the
PS5 in his room and played some games together suddenly he tells me that he
loves me and I'm the best big sister in the world for the third time I started
crying probably because I'm on my period and my hormones are not making it any
better better so yeah there you have it I had the best Christmas with my family
and seeing my brother so happy was worth the Heartbreak I went through as for my
garbage X he's still making new accounts on Instagram to apologize I told him to
off and I know that's his only apologizing because he wants the PS5 not
because he's feeling guilty I mentioned that I gave it to someone who deserves
it way more than he does he started cursing at me and I said if he didn't
leave me alone I'll report him to the police for harassment he stopped after
that and I never heard from him ever since so that's all for the update happy
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I cheated on my wife and now she's cheating on me so yeah I know I messed
up I 32m cheated on my wife 29f 3 years ago we have been married for 5 years and
the second year of our marriage I cheated on her in a drunken fling she
forgave me and we went to marriage counseling but 3 days ago while my wife
was in the shower I went through her phone and found the texts confirming she
was cheating I felt so betrayed so I confronted her after she got out of the
shower she claims that it's okay because
I cheated on her and I set the Press for allowing infidelity I told her that my
cheating was a one-time drunken thing and that I haven't done anything since I
also told her that I don't know the girl
and that she now has a relationship with this guy I don't know she got mad and
stormed off she left for work Friday and I haven't seen her since I know she's
with him and it hurts I feel I deserve this but at the same time I want my wife
back what do I do update okay wow so a small portion of you were kind and
understanding and actually gave good advice but the rest of you are so rude
so I I finally managed to get a hold of her she basically told me it's over and
that she no longer loves me I managed to track her location and find out who the
person she's cheating on me with and
Dave if you read this [ __ ] you I
honestly can't wait to get divorced now update one my 32m wife 29f hasn't come
home since the day I confronted her so I went to her HR team today with proof
that she was cheating with Dave According to some close friends who work
with her when HR pulled her aside after I left she came out crying and when Dave
tried to talk to her she pushed him aside and left for the day this brings
me so much joy I have to have respect for myself because the guy who cheated 3
years ago doesn't exist anymore I've quit drinking got into great shape and
haven't felt better obviously the last week has been tough but knowing hers is
about to get so much worse brings a smile to my face also she's going to be
getting served some time this week I wish I could be there to see her face
also it's a bonus if Dave and her break it off update two so those who saw my
last last post know what's up and you can read it if you don't but since the
last update my soon to be ex-wife lost her job lost her boy toy and lost a lot
of friends she showed up yesterday asking to talk to which I laughed in her
face and shut the door I know a lot of you think me a monster and a terrible
guy but it what you think her world is collapsing and all I can do is laugh
she's earned and deserves all of it I know I cheated three years ago but she
forgave me and I had to learn to love myself again she had a full-blown Affair
for months on end and she flat out told me she doesn't love me I was willing to
forgive at first but now after everything no I can't forgive her I have
too much respect for myself update three
so I [ __ ] up I just got a call from my
lawyer and my wife found my Reddit posts with help from who I thought was a
friend my ex-friend recorded me while I was telling him about the Reddit posts
my lawyer told me she's wanting half of everything I don't understand how or why
my friend did this but here we are I feel like I've been stabbed in the back
twice first from My Wife and now him I don't know what will happen but now I
feel less confident about my divorce I still feel like I can win though and my
lawyer said we still stand a really good
chance edit I called my friend and asked him why he recorded me and he told me
that he respects women and was upset at how I was treating my wife he told me
until I go to therapy again and get some help he doesn't want to be friends with
me because I'm not the same person he became friends with I don't know what to
think anymore final update so the last few months have not gone well for me
ever since my friend betrayed me everything has gone downhill I basically
owe my wife half of everything because I got my wife fired and because I posted
everything on Reddit the judge ruled that I had essentially ruined her
reputation so she got the house because it's paid off and she has nowhere else
to live my lawyer tried to get the judge
to rule for us to sell the house but the
judge wouldn't budge my lawyer says that I should try to sue my friend for
defamation because my wife now has my posts and has been sending my Reddit
post to all my friends and family and basically everyone has distanced
themselves from me I don't know if I'd win that lawsuit because they have
proofed that I did post it I don't know what to do from here but I think have a
lot of self-reflecting to do oh also a lot of you were right that my friend has
started to hook up with my ex-wife so there's that I'll let you guys know if I
want to go through with suing my friend but as of right now that's all I got to
update you guys with I'm exposing my sister's lies and false essay
allegations I don't regret it I 28m found out about 3 weeks ago my sister
33f has had an affair with a colleague for about 8 months I found them kissing
in a coffee shop that morning and confronted her about it long story short
the colleague didn't know she was married and dumped her on the spot I
confronted her on the spot P I actually like her husband he is a great person
all around and has been taking great care of her I told her she had two days
to talk to her husband and confess where
I will do it I took a couple of pictures and had a video of them as well at the
coffee shop the video also included the altercation with the colleague stating
he didn't know she was married and that the affair went on for 8 months a lot
more things was said in the video but that is basically it before someone says
but she is family I don't care cheaters are scum in my eyes which is the exact
reason me and my sister had cut our father out of our Lives years ago and
she was doing the exact same thing I did hear a lot from my sister the following
two days begging to not tell her husband but I decided to go to her husband and
give him all the proof I had including the video but I got a call from my
mother that morning asking to meet at my sister's house she had something
important to tell us when I got to her house my mother grandparents cousin and
some of her husband family members was there I thought she did confess at first
and they all were there for support my sister made a vile accusations and told
everyone that she had been sa and raped by a colleague from work the exact
colleague I caught her with they wanted to inform us before they took legal
steps I honestly felt sick the exact moment the words left her mouth I asked
her husband to speak in private but she would not allow him to leave the living
room I shouted at my sister that she is a liar and asked her if this is true
truly the story she is going with and she burst out crying immediately the
whole family turned against me and I was
kicked out of her house I left the house
and as soon as I got to my apartment the messages started to come and calling me
all sorts of things and threatening for me to be disowned if I do not apologize
to my sister for my behavior and not believing her it took me a couple of
hours and a bunch of messages from family and friend before I hit my limit
but I hit my limit I created a group chat and added every single person that
messaged me and a couple of other people
that we knew and posted the pictures and video I took with a message it's
disgusting that she would make up lies rather than face the consequences of her
actions since then I'm being blamed for her marriage falling apart because her
husband wants a divorce I'm being called childish for not keeping my mouth shut
and rather them talk to each other in private I had to go and post it in a
chat for everyone to see nothing is being said about the fact that my sister
created lies of such deplorable thing which could have destroyed that man's
life in the end and she actually wanted to press charges against that man rather
than confess about her cheating and
being called a lot worse than an [ __ ]
my mother is refusing to take my calls and when I tried to visit her she
threatened to call the police on me every person in the family except for
her husband and his side of the family is still on my sister's side calling me
all sorts of things and blaming me for her getting a divorce and the struggles
she will have to go through they harassed me so much that I had to put
off my phone when that didn't work they came to my apartment they want me to
help sort out the mess between my sister and her husband and say I made
everything up and that all of this is a understanding don't know how that will
work as my sister and the guy is clearly visible in the video and pictures I ATL
e got them to stop when I threaten them that I will post everything video
pictures on social media if they didn't leave me alone am I the aole for
exposing her lies edit I been disowned by everyone in the family so far the
last message I got was from my mother says the following I am no longer
welcome in the family until I sort out the mess I created I am supposed to
protect my sister and not the cause of her Misery the fact the I exposed her in
the way that I did is proof I don't care about her or anyone in the family she
can't believe I did that to my sister and tarnish the family name among their
circles but QA people are cutting them off one by one according to my mother
they are the victims and am the heartless bastard that did this to them
I was also told that she wishes I was never born for some great effect in the
end as well before someone asks yes my sister Miss princess is the firstborn as
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as a young professional what's your worst funniest strangest client story I
worked in DSL tech support for a year one time I took a call from a nice guy
in California who worked during the day and was having some trouble using his
Wi-Fi I politely began troubleshooting didn't ask any idiotic questions Etc
finally he mentioned he was having issues using this while he was at work I
figured he had a home office or something so I asked him about how far
his work was from his Gateway he replied about 30 Mi right night another time I
was trying to help a woman get her DSL set up she had tried a few phone jacks
and her DSL light was always blinking red it looks like there's no DSL signal
I ran some line tests bounced the p and it looked like she wasn't getting any
signal since we were on the land line the same line the DSL uses it was pretty
clear she had a port miswiring I started to dispatch a BST technician for her
informed her that it would take until tomorrow evening until I could guarantee
the BST technician would be done and she started fli out we arrived at Jesus
watches everything you know and he going to come down and click she called back
again in an hour and got me again things began in a civil manner but quickly
degraded I got told if I were sitting at your computer I'd have already fixed
this I got a call from an irate customer six calls just that day most if not all
are marked as irate oh boy so I try to do my intro and get caught off by a
screaming dude okay time for the old rope a dop just Tire him out out it
takes about 15 minutes in the meantime I look up his account determine it's in
service check his port and he's got sync find the modem serial number and remote
in dude is screaming about Wi-Fi I headed over to his modem's wireless
settings and took a look around he has already changed a bunch of settings
stupidly broadcast power is down the wireless channel is on six and SSID
broadcast is disabled what so my CU is currently screaming at me because he
can't see his wireless network and he's the one who turned off SSID broadcast I
checked the previous case notes dude is still screaming and lo and behold this
is the same issue they've been having no one figured it out and I had that
feeling the moment I heard this guy screaming about his Verizon 3G Hotpot
working but not this so he's still screaming I crank the power up channel
to 10 SSID broadcast on and I try to cut him off sir could you check now I
enabled SSID broadcast uh well it appears to be
working it seems S ID broadcast was disabled Smith also isn't a standard
Wireless name I noticed that also when I checked oh yeah we changed the name so
it was easier to remember oh okay well that's fine seems like somehow that SSID
broadcast option got flipped over no big deal though I got that sorted out oh
yeah that's weird maybe one of the last texts did it I could keep going like the
guy who asked me if I get up to pee at night and when I replied no he told me
to enjoy it because one day I would but the lady who told me that she wished she
could be a call girl because it was so glorious and romantic and they got to
have relations all the time or the lady who told me I needed to get out and
sleep around a lot while I was young Sound Advice there actually story two as
a real estate agent I have three stories
that left me with a terrible taste in my mouth I had two clients both in their
early 20s a few years younger than me who were looking for an apartment in the
East Village they were dressed hip in their ripped clothes very hipster we got
in the elevator to head downstairs and start looking at apartments when one of
them looked at my brand new pair of Converse Allstars oh you don't really
wear Converse what they're not all dirty
and ratty you don't really wear Converse you're just a poser they're brand new
those Souls fell out of my last pair you should buy them already worn in later I
tried to have a conversation with them since we were going to spend the next 8
hours together I simply asked so what do you do why I'm just making conversation
we've got to spend the day together it's not really any of your business but I'm
a filmmaker oh so am I what kind of films do you make I make jewelry the
rest of the day was spent with them trying to show me around the East
Village despite the fact that I clearly knew it better than them finally I
simply walked in front of them as fast as I could making them run to catch up
and complain that it was too hot and we were going too fast even though they
were practically running to get ahead of me before they didn't rent but it was
obvious in the first 10 minutes they weren't going to they had a $2,000
budget with a $55,000 taste in the Second Story I was showing a
professional woman an international Banker living in an apartment on the
upper west side she started talking about all the places in the world she's
been to for work and how she makes 300 Grand a year and travels for free she
asked what my favorite country was and I had to admit that I'd never been out of
the country oh you must be one of those Republicans who hates everything but
America no I just grew up in a lower class home where there wasn't money for
travel well if you don't want to travel what are you even doing in NYC why don't
you go back to the South where you belong I came here to go to graduate
school at Columbia and instantly she was my best friend it was so openly
insulting and bigoted about how I grew up in my worth as a person the third
story I'll make this one short a mother and daughter from Florida looking for
apartments I show them a building on Central Park West across the street from
the Dakota we come out and the mother tells me I don't mean to brag but these
buildings look too poor for my daughter to live in our house in Florida only
costs $500,000 and looks a lot better than these I point to the Dakota and
point out that it is one of the most historic and expensive apartment
buildings in the city I've never heard of it so it can't be that famous and it
still looks old and poor I don't feel comfortable with my daughter living
across the street from something like that I couldn't do anything but shake my
head at that particularly with the throngs of tourists taking pictures of
the building since you know John lennin so to the first part of this story cuz
hold on wait a minute you can buy quote unquote brand new Converses that are
actually worn in and that's preferable I guess I'm just way too old nowadays
Story three this is a story from my time
as an EOD technician bomb squad we got a call once about a piece of ordinance
someone had in their house seeing as the location was quite a distance away we
try to get as much information over the phone as possible to determine what it
was before we left this information helps us decide what tools and equipment
are needed and how much time to take to dispose of said ordinance I asked all
the general questions and I was told it looked like a bomb so I asked for the
length and diameter and I was told it was about 18 in long and a few inches in
diameter a common item we get called for are practice bombs they are smaller so
this is what I start to think she has I ask if it is a sort of teardrop shaped
towards the front and they say yes then it ask if it has any blue paint on it to
which they reply Yes again now I'm pretty sure we have a regular practice
bomb and we finish up our questions head to the bunker to get our explosives and
get on our way now keep in mind that I am the low guy in a two-man team and I
am pretty much fresh out of school when we arrive on scene being the driver and
the taller of the two of us the homeowners decide to come running up to
me this is common because people never know what to expect when the military
comes to their house I can understand their concerns but what starts coming
out of their mouth is what blows me away after a brief round of greetings and
introductions the conversation goes something like this lady oh it's
probably nothing to worry about it's all
old and rusted me Well ma'am often times
age makes items more hazardous the metal slowly deteriorates and any safety
measures that were in place could be dramatically less effective or gone
altogether husband I assume he's trying to cover for his wife and show that
there is nothing to worry about well it has a propeller on the front and I spun
that around and nothing happened at this
point I'm not sure how long I stared and disbelief but I regained and tried to
remain professional me sir I need to ask that you never do anything like that
again you could have armed or functioned the device wounding yourself and others
husband he couldn't drop it just had to have some Redemption oh well it also has
some fins on the back and I unscrewed them halfway here's his statement of
redemption but I figured that wasn't smart so I screwed them back on after
that line I just walked away and went inside to see what we had up to this
point I was still thinking we had a practice bomb but when I walked into the
kitchen to see a complete World War II beehive bomb I just couldn't help but
think how lucky people can be at times FYI a beehive bomb is a 20 lb
fragmentation bomb with explosive filler incredibly dangerous story four my boss
gave a client a company car to drive and two days later he asked me to call her
and remind her to return it by the weekend so I called her up reminded her
and she said she'd have it back on Saturday Saturday rolls around and she
doesn't return it Sunday no show I called and left her a message that she
did not return long story short I called
and left eight or nine messages over the next three freaking weeks asking her to
return our car finally she calls me back hello this is Mrs doe you need to come
here right now and pick up your car I have workmen coming and the car is in
their way clearly we have inconvenienced her by allowing her to park our car in
An Inconvenient spot and she is upset I replied annoyed but professional Mrs doe
I'm afraid I can't make it there now can you please bring the car here since you
live 2 miles away she is now even more upset no I have things to do you need to
pick up your car now I told her I won't be able to pick it up until if
that's a problem then you can bring the car here she screams I have workmen
coming I'm paying them hourly and the car is in their way so it turns out the
reason she kept our car so long was she had decided that instead of returning it
to us she would go on vacation instead while on vacation she drained the
battery to the point where even a battery pack couldn't jump start the car
I called the tow truck and then she called again after running errands and
returning home this car is still on my driveway yes ma'am I replied we weren't
able to jump start it a tow truck is on the way unacceptable get this car now
seriously she was a very wealthy woman who was very much unaccustomed to not
getting away the fact that she had demanded this car be gone and it wasn't
magically made so not only upset her but offended her ma'am I called our tow
insurance and they called three local Toe Companies the earliest available tow
truck will be there by 5 her final demand was for me to call every every
local tow truck company in the area while she listened to make sure I did
and see if any could be there faster that was the point where I told her if
the job I'm doing isn't adequate she needs to contact my boss and I hung up
sometimes clients like these can be well that's just say terribly unique let's
take a quick breather from all the Madness by hitting that like button and
subscribing to my channel so you don't miss more relatable content just like
this as tiring as it may be because these people can be so tiring all right
done let's go ahead and get back to the stories Story five I was speaking with a
customer who had a rather significant cable bill going over his account I
found that the bill was largely the result of adult OnDemand orders
naturally because almost no one will admit to watching those the customer
claims he never purchased any of the on demand orders so I pulled a full report
on the on demand orders from his cable box the full report tells us what was
ordered when it was ordered how long it was watched how many fast forwards
rewinds pauses plays and stops were hit and when the order was removed from the
cable box I imagine this info was used for lots of metrics but when dealing
with customers it gives us an easy way to confirm or deny if a customer fat
fingered the order and accidentally ordered something the general rule was
that if something was watched for less than 5 minutes without a bunch of fast
forwards or rewinds they were probably telling the truth Anyway full details
show that the videos were watched for an average of 20 minutes with plenty of
fast for boards and rewinds still in denial the customer then asks when the
movies were ordered I gave him the approximately 1.5 month span that the
movies were ordered he then claims that it's impossible as he was at a town
during that time and the only other resident at the household was with him
since I'm such a nice fell I continued to give him the benefit of the doubt and
asked him to double check the serial number on his cable box it would have
required about four layers of screw-ups but it is possible that the cable box at
his house isn't the on his account and someone else managed to get the box
that's in his name at a different house naturally these layers didn't happen and
the serial numbers matched at this point I explained that the only way someone
would have ordered those movies was by being in the man's house the customer
pauses for a moment then says well when I got home I found the back door open
I've been speechless for a few seconds this man is suggesting that someone
broke into his house repeatedly for more than a month for the express purpose of
watching movies I then give the only advice I can think of sir you need to
burn everything someone broke into your house and watched over
$1300 worth of adult videos there is no surface in your house I would trust
story six part of me thinks I should at least land in the top 10 with this
incident worst ever man who came into the salon I worked at and threatened me
with a firearm in my face because of his wife's haircut seriously no joke the
shortest way I can tell it is so she comes in and wants her hair cut exactly
like it was in a picture of herself from her earlier life that she showed me I
execute the cup perfectly and all his Joy Puppy Bellies and rainbow kisses she
left me with a ped hip husband shows up about an hour later screeching truck
tires in the parking lot firearm in hand kicks open the door and demands who cut
his wife's hair since she was the only woman that had come into the place since
she left my traitorous boss pointed to me and ran out the back door at first I
was scared then I was pissed I proceeded to get into a shouting match with the
man who could have ended me over a haircut I pretty much figured out that
his wife wanted short hair he didn't want her to have short hair so she gets
it done anyway and throws me under the bus with her husband in order to make it
look like I butchered her hair and that she was devastated all the while getting
what she wanted and not getting into trouble with her husband I make him feel
sheepish with my screaming back at him he backs down after 15 minutes minutes
and then I tell him that as soon as he leaves I'm sending the police over to
his house to make sure he doesn't hurt his wife lucky for me I had several cops
as personal friends because they were also my clients and I had a check from
her with their addresses dude leaves shamed and embarrassed I lock up the
place call my boss and leave a very angry message on his phone and then go
home to ball my eyes out after that fact I went back to work when I finally felt
like it and was paid in full with a huge bonus for my time of absence I shortly
thereafter quit working there the only part of all this that still burns my bum
is that no one came in and helped they saw what was happening in the window and
they quickly drove away nor did my boss call the cops to help me out while all
this was going down story seven I'm a funeral director I was working with a
family where the next of kin was a woman with a slight Touch of dementia just
enough to make her not entirely Lucid the children completed the arrangements
and the contract through the entirety of the arrangement conference were aware
that she's not quite sure why she's there it hasn't sunk in yet that her
husband just passed away anyway we get around to the day of the service and
it's family only for the first hour he's
up at the front of the chapel dressed to the nines and the wife has hobbled her
walker up to look at him she's in some distress finally connecting that this
body is her husband haltingly she asks me to open the foot end of the casket so
she can see his feet and confirm that it's him of course I oblig important
fact I did not embalm dress or cosmetize this body so I lift open the foot and
and immediately the daughter gasps those aren't his shoes why are there stranger
shoes on Dad Q total panic mode for the next 5 minutes so I do my best to smooth
it over taking the shoes off and vowing to fire my embalmer later I figure I'm
done but no Mom wants to see his bare tootsies okay so I slip the sock down on
the left foot then tug it off she is delighted to see him and reaches out a
hand to tenderly caress his toes and I'm barely barely holding down the gag
reflex before myself and the daughter intervene I spent the next few minutes
trying to slip the sock back on let's just say that when the family walked out
of our front doors that was beyond relieved story eight about 3 years ago I
had a job at a small print shop as their graphic designer desktop publishing
mostly occasional business cards mostly just lame forms and such we got a job
for a towing company they were AAA All American Towing or something similar
something with a lot of a so they'd be listen first in the phone book they
wanted us to whip up something overthe toop patriotic American flags bald
eagles all of it I do a quick little mock up and send it off to them for a
sign off on the proof they love every single part of it except the bald eagle
stock photo I used they said the eagle looked angry and not friendly at all my
manager and I make a couple of jokes mostly about it being a bird of prey not
a bird of play Etc in a minute of downtime I opened the project up and
spent some time screwing around with the liquefy tool it basically made it look
like the eagle was grinning it was ridiculous I sent it over to the manager
and we had a couple of laughs about a week later I got the Revis proof back
from the customer somehow we sent them my joke Happy Eagle they love it run
with it business cards for everyone in the company envelopes letterhead invoice
sheets and vehicle wraps for the trucks I saw the trucks all over town for
months and laugh my bum off every time story n as a graphic designer I have to
deal with a lot of people who basically destroy all the hard work me and my
co-workers put into a project at first I couldn't handle it now I just find it
funny to see where a project goes but today I had a client yell at me for
telling me that the images we used were too low resolution for their Word
document me sorry but we cannot boost the quality of the images we receive
from you if you have a higher res photo we will have no problems placing it into
the document for you client but I gave you a vector photograph me photographs
do not come in Vector files client but it was a screen grab the resolution
should be larger than the image what if I scan my monitor would that produce a
higher quality screen grab me how did you send us the last screen grab client
I took a picture of my computer screen with my iPhone dang some of these
stories could pretty much fill a good chapter of a book or two but hey before
you rethink your career check out the next video what's the dumbest customer
complaint you've heard it might make you
feel a little more prepared for anything client might throw your way plus Story
one is guaranteed to entertain it got me
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I broke up with my boyfriend on his birthday for horrible actions he did
when he was a teenager I 26f at the time had just started dating Thomas 28m and
things seemed promising very sweet Man educated and quite smart good looks
after 7 weeks of dating he invited me in two of his childhood friends let's call
them Alex and Bart for a long 29th birthday celebration weekend at his
father's country house in a small French Town his father was going to be around
as well and I was very excited to meet everyone day one Friday is fun I happy
to get along well with Thomas father a smart and caring man day two Saturday
after a very nice day we enjoy a party in the garden with the neighbors
including some friends of Thomas after a few hours and lots of drinks a group of
people gather around a small campfire and start sharing childhood memories
this is where things go wrong at first of course innocent and dumb stories as
you would expect but then Thomas and His Friends started sharing really sick
stuff in particular they told a story about how when they were 14 or 15 years
old they found very amusing to bully for almost 6 months Arthur a boy of their
school who was very isolated and shy making jokes calling names you name it
as if this was not enough they created a fake girl profile on MSN Messenger a
computer platform to exchange Li messages that we used in years 2000s and
spent effing months exchanging messages with him under the false girl identity
flirting and developing a false relationship with a poor boy some people
were in the confidence at school and it became a big and cruel joke behind
Arthur's back they used pictures of Bart's real cousin and the boy truly
thought he had some of online girlfriend to whom he even sent confessions and
love messages at some point they got bored and scheduled the false rendevu
IRL asking the boy to take a bus for two or 3 hours wearing a t-shirt Elmer the
elephant based on a private joke obviously there was no one waiting for
him and they did not know how long he waited over there by himself if Arthur
had not already understood what was going on he found out the next day at
school after Thomas and Bart told the story to everyone and even shared the
love messages that Arthur had been writing the poor boy stopped coming to
class and apparently changed school and it is easy to imagine that this must
have been extremely trauma traumatizing to him do you think that Thomas Alex and
Bart had any bit of Shame about it not a bit of remorse in particular on Thomas
and bartk side they kept making jokes about it and even seemed to regret that
they were not good enough at being evil to convince the boy to send sp0 IC piics
I don't even want to imagine what would have happened if he had done so to say
that I felt uncomfortable would be a gross understatement I was absolutely
horrified and started to despise Thomas More Than Anything I was not the only
one shocked Thomas father who heard the end of the story had the most
disappointed look in the eyes his stupid son was so drunk that he did not even
notice it I escaped the party immediately after that and got back to
the house I could not sleep at all this night and I kept thinking about the
evening and how Thomas was still finding this funny I heard him coming to bed
around 4:00 a.m. but I pretended I was asleep day three Sunday was the actual
birthday and the initial plan was that I would take Thomas on a onetoone fancy
surprise date for lunch nearby and then we would meet the group for a late
afternoon party but instead I woke up very early on Sunday morning took all my
stuff in silence and went alone to the train station where I took took a direct
train heading back to Paris I decided to send a text to Thomas wishing him happy
birthday and telling him to meet me at a certain location 1 hour from the house
for a surprise and that I needed to go a little bit in advance to make sure that
everything would be perfect I had picked the location randomly using Google Maps
to gain time Thomas read the text around a.m. when he woke up he responded
with excitement that he would follow religiously the instructions when he
arrived there at I told him to wait further as there was little delay
on something then I asked him to meet me at a restaurant which was 30 minutes
drive from the initial when he arrived at I texted him
that I was on my way would arrive in 20 minutes and that he will understand when
he sees me why I made him wait I also asked him to order some food in the most
expensive bottle on the menu around he started calling me several
times and sent a lot of worried texts and after 45 minutes I responded in
French so how does it feel to have people play with your feelings then I
stopped responding I let him call and text the entire afternoon but never
responded at some point an unknown number called me it was his friend Alex
asking what was going on and that Thomas birthday was completely ruined because
of what I did I just responded this is an extremely small payback for what you
did to Arthur tell Thomas to stop calling me and hung up I blocked them I
still felt bad the entire evening as I had started to grow attached to Thomas
back then the following days a common friend called me to say that my reaction
was completely absurd and unfair that it was not my role to punish someone for
actions they did as a teenager that they were adult ways of saying things and
that I had been completely crazy only a few people supported what I did every
else seemed to think that I was a beach Thomas tried to fix things and win me
back for a few months afterwards I never
responded to any of his messages I don't regret it I simply hope that Arthur who
should be 35 or 36 years old now is well | give me a good story on ibrokeupwithmyboyfriendonhisbdayorig |
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a it for Banning my from visiting because of newborn I'm going to try and
stick to the facts and keep emotions out
of this one myself 24f and my husband 33
male have been together/ married about 1 year we recently had a Child 2 months
old together and we have great communication and a very healthy
relationship we moved about 8 months ago into a house with my Phil husband's
father who is crippled and needs help when I moved in 6 months pregnant at the
time there was urine and feces from Phil animals everywhere dirty dishes weeks
old laundry stacked to the ceiling and trash everywhere I am used to a very
clean environment and began deep cleaning everything by the time the baby
was here I had the entire house spotless and had become a full-time living maid
doing everyone's laundry daily dishes by
hand daily sweeping SL vacuuming once we mopping and dusting watering all plants
and grocery shopping and dealing with their mouth SL rat problem feeding and
walking the five dogs and six cats yes 11 animals three times a day my
husband's sister would frequently one 3x a week for 1 to8 days at a time would
come over and drop off her dog with no notice we would often wake up and find a
new dog in the house who had the energy of three dogs the dog would constantly
chase after the cats and even attack them several times her reason where she
had to work and didn't want her dog home alone or she was so worn out from work
and wanted the dog to have a place to get some energy out this quickly grinded
on me and my nerves as I already felt stressed and pulled in all Direction my
husband promised to talk with his family
and assured me that the dog would not be dropped off after our baby arrived our
baby arrives and after a grueling week in the hospital we returned home to find
the dog in our house BC his sister had to work late and was exhausted from a
long week and she wanted the dog taken care of I blew up the dog was picked up
no apology given our baby is now 2 months old and the dog has been dropped
off at 5:00 a.m. four times while we were sleeping leaving me to wake up and
find a a new addition in our living room I broke down this morning explaining to
my husband that I cannot take this anymore he said she's family and it
doesn't bother him I don't know why you let it affect you so badly I've
explained to him the lack of self-awareness and empathy to drop one
more thing in a new Mother's lap it's incredibly rude and selfish and I asked
how she would feel if she woke up in my shoes he thinks I should get over it
what do I do aah am I being selfish or insensitive I am beyond exhausted all
the time and still can't quite trust my emotions from becoming a new mom please
be honest tldr I have 11 animals and a newborn 2 months old Sil keeps dropping
off her dog BC she has too much on her plate and likes knowing her pup is taken
care of I can't take it and my husband says I need to calm down | give me a good story on AITAHforbanningmySILfromvisitingbecauseofnewborn |
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today we have a crazy nuclear Revenge story against someone's own parents
we'll get into that in a bit but first my tasty Revenge to my place of
employment in the story of our careers Richard was the self-proclaimed Puppet
Master pulling the strings with a toxic blend of power and manipulation as he
paraded around the office with an air of
superiority his double life as a married man engaging in Affairs was a poorly
kept secret but what set him apart was his pension for photographic evidence of
his escapades proof he couldn't resist showing off to his colleagues don't ask
me I found it hard to understand how it was possible for people like this to
exist and then there was me Mike I'm the guy who never wore a suit to work with
no formal education Beyond High School I turned my stripes in a world where
practical skills and adaptability were worth their weight in gold from
restaurant gigs in my teens to a stint in sales I'd seen it all my real talent
though was my knack for handling everything from forklifts to bulldozers
licenses I had them all it was my way of consolidating what I lacked in formal
education together we were an Odd Couple the manipulative boss and the blue
collar guy I know I should have known better since I was familiar with his
traits but you cannot really blame a guy seeking validation in a world where
people would constantly remind you of your lapses and what they considered the
right education Richard knew exactly which strings to pull to get me where he
wanted so he dangled a tantalizing character in front of me a new job
opportunity that sparkled with Promises of grandeur it was a chance to leave my
mundane routine behind and step into a role that seemed Tailor Made For Success
I couldn't help but be excited the prospect of something bigger something
greater had my hopes soaring I envisioned a future filled with
challenges that would push my skills to new heights a desk job where I'd finally
ditch the overalls and hard hats I could enter the white collar Lane over the
growing depressing blue it was was a good deal but as the days turned into
weeks and the initial excitement began to fade the truth slowly revealed itself
this golden opportunity wasn't all that was cracked up to be the promises
Richard had made were nothing more than empty words luring me into a trap of
false hope the main problem was that the once promised timeline had stretched
beyond recognition and the Grand Vision began to resemble a feeding Mirage in
the desert my suspicions grew like a Relentless storm on the horizon the
Whispers Among Us the employees painted a grim picture it seemed that the
company had been less than forthcoming about their intentions the grand move
we'd all been promised was slowly but surely unraveling revealing itself as
nothing more than a charade shock waves reverberated through the ranks of the
workforce uncertainty hung heavy in the air as we grappled with the realization
that the future we had envisioned was slipping through our fingers what had
appeared to be a golden opportunity had turned into a dubious proposition
leaving us all with a bitter taste of betrayal it wasn't really about not
getting the opportunity for many others like myself it was more like we
questioned why he had to lie to us we were just fine without the hopes of the
candy so why promise us a pack of them the company's true intentions remain
shrouded in mystery and the delays only fueled our growing suspicion that
something sinister was a foot little did we know that this Revelation would
become the Catalyst for a remarkable journey of Revenge
where we'd unite as a formidable Force against the company's web of deception
my career had taken a nose dive leaving me feeling like a pawn in Richard's
manipulative game disappointment washed over me as the realization hit home this
wasn't the path to success i' had envisioned it was a step backward a move
that would test my resolve and push me to my limits in the cool calm recesses
of my mind I knew that my journey was far from over I was determined to rise
above of this career setback it was evident that I needed to turn the tables
on Richard and the toxic workplace that had ens snared me yet our so-called boss
was determined to keep me on board he spun a web of soothing words painting a
picture of a brighter future don't worry Mike he'd say with this smirk we've got
your back he made those grandiose claims of my pivotal role in The Company
Success the kind of flattery that could lull anyone into a false sense of
security but behind this facade of his slick words I couldn't help but feel a
gnawing sense of frustration it was a feeling that clawed at my insides a
nagging doubt that promises were nothing more than smoke and mirrors his
reassurances did little to ease my growing skepticism I struggled to accept
the current situation a demotion for my previous role as a production technician
to a mere forklift supervisor it was a slap in the face a step backward in my
career trajectory his repetitive attempts to Plate me only fueled my
reluctance to play along with his charade deep inside I knew that
something had to change I couldn't continue to be a pawn in big boss's
manipulative game it was time to set the next course of action to make things
right and I knew just how to do that quietly like a chess player positioning
his pieces on the board I began to gather the eight colleagues who had
tasted the same bitter concoction of frustration and deceit dished out by our
boss discretion was key we couldn't risk tipping our hand too early in the game
each member of the team I collected had their unique motivation fed by their own
individual frustrations there was Sam the forklift operator who had seen his
hard work overshadowed by the ineptitude of others Rachel the administrator had
grown tired of the constant chaos caused by the company's questionable decisions
Mark the HR representative had witnessed
firsthand the unethical practices of the
higher ups and the list went on each one with their tale of disillusionment we
met in hushed conversations during lunch breaks or in the shadowy corners of the
workplace as we shared our stories and frustrations it was evident that the
need to set this right began to form without being told it would have been
hard to trust that each one of us was aboard with the plan and wasn't a snake
for our boss but we built it through shared experiences and common goals
apparently nothing United humans more than the need to shun evil that jointly
torments them it was then that we hatched a plan a daring scheme to escape
the clutches of the company that had betrayed us we decided to apply for new
jobs but there was a Twist we'd use each other as references ensuring that the
higher-ups remained blissfully unaware of our Collective Escape Plan the
decision was made with a sense of determination that bordered on Rebellion
we knew that our actions could have consequences but we were no longer
willing to be pawns and Richard's silly game our plan was set into motion like a
well-oiled machine each member of the team executing their part with utmost
Precision it began with the meticulous process of applying for new jobs and
creating references that would bolster our chances of escaping the clutches of
our current workplace we adopted a cautious approach leaving no room for
suspicion each member of the team applied for jobs in different companies
and industries carefully selecting positions that match the their skills
and Ambitions the process of crafting the perfect resumés and cover letters
became an art form as we highlighted our strengths and downplayed our current
roles references played a pivotal role in our strategy we used the mutual trust
we'd built within the team to vouch for each other's abilities Sam the forklift
operator would sing praises about Rachel's impeccable organizational
skills while Mark the HR representative would L Mike's leadership in
problemsolving abil abilities it was a web of interconnected references that we
hoped would go beautifully unnoticed by the boss and this in his good graces
emotionally the struggle was real leaving our current workplace despite
its toxic atmosphere was not without its share of Heartache we'd invested years
of Our Lives into this company and the decision to part ways was bittersweet
the familiarity of our daily routines and the faces of our colleagues tugged
at our heartstrings yet we knew that this was a necessary step in our quest
for Revenge the emotional turmoil served as a reminder of why we were doing this
to break free from a place that had betrayed our trust and stifled our
potential as we submitted our job applications and awaited responses the
tension in the workplace between all of us grew palpable rumors swirled and the
higher rep seemed increasingly uneasy of course we didn't know why or what made
them uneasy but we were aware of our actions and we feared that they had
gotten wind of what we had done finding a job wasn't as easy as I'd hoped it
would be despite my experience and skills it seemed like the job market was
playing hard to get I sent out countless applications tailored my resume a dozen
different ways and went to more interviews than I could count but the
offers were scarce and the competition was fierce it seemed like a harsh
reminder and justification for why Richard could do what he did I could
have thrown in the towel at that point given the frustration that often crept
in when yet another rejection email landed in my inbox but that's not who I
am I've always been the type to tackle challenges headon and this was no
different every rejection letter only fueled my determination to prove myself
once again my colleagues from the Revenge team were facing their own share
of difficulties in securing new employment Sam the forklift operator was
struggling to find a job that recognized his skills beyond what our previous
workplace had confined him too Rachel the administrator faced interviews where
she had to justify her decision to leave a steady job Mark the HR representative
had to navigate questions about the abrupt termination of his previous
contract yet we pressed on unwavering in our resolve we refused to let these
setbacks Define us or our future we knew
our worth and we were determined to find opportunities that would allow us to
thrive beyond the confines of our toxic former workplace it was a test of our
perseverance and each day brought new challenges to overcome doubt
occasionally crept in but we clung to the belief that our skills and
experiences were worth more than the hurdles we encountered we were a team
that had faced the storm of our previous
workplace together and we were confident that we would weather this storm too
emerging stronger and more resilient on the other side remember when I said
there was unease in the company well turned out that they had heard rumors
that people were about to leave the company but they didn't know who and the
unease was in their desperation to sniff out who they were as the clock ticked
down to our final days at the old workplace Richard's desperation became
palpable he knew those who were hurting from his actions and inactions there was
no way to deny that he had initially underestimated our resolve to leave
thinking that a few Stern words and empty promises would be enough to keep
us on board but he had sorely miscalculated he made a series of
frantic attempts to to retain not just me but the entire team he scheduled
multiple one-on-one meetings trying to sweet talk and cool us into staying he
promised promotions pay raises and a brighter future within the company it
was as if he had suddenly realized the value we hell and he was willing to
offer anything to keep us from walking out the door but we'd come too far to be
swayed by empty words and Hollow gestures we had seen through the facade
of the company's false promises and knew
that our worth went went beyond the last minute offers on the table each member
of the Revenge team had already secured new employment and we were ready to move
on in our final confrontation with Richard we were unyielding in our
decision we declined his offers with the same determination that had fueled our
escape from the toxic workplace we made it clear that we were not willing to be
manipulated any longer it was a moment of Reckoning a stand we took to assert
our independence and self-worth he was stunned
realizing that he had lost his grip on us he had underestimated the power of
unity and determination that our revenge team had harnessed it wasn't that we
knew for sure that where we were going would be better but we knew where we
were and it was evident that nothing was going to change regardless of the
promises been there done that as we had anticipated the repercussions of richer
decisions began to manifest swiftly with
our departure he was left with no choice
but to hire less skilled workers to fill the gaps in his Workforce these new
hires lacked the experience and expertise that we had brought to the
table it wasn't long before the warehouse started experiencing a series
of operational challenges mistakes began to pile up errors and inventory
management became a common occurrence and workplace accidents saw an alarming
increase it was as if the once smoothly functioning Warehouse had been thrown
into chaos the efficiency and precision that had defined our team's work work
were replaced by confusion and disarray customers who had once relied on the
company for their supply chain needs started to notice the decline in quality
orders were delayed shipments were Incorrect and complaints flooded in the
company's reputation once solid as a rock began to crumble but the
repercussions of our leaving the company extended beyond the warehouse's
operations internally employee morale hit rock bottom as frustration and
dissatisfaction spread like wildfire the new hires ill equipped to handle the
demands of the job grew increasingly demoralized externally clients and
partners seeking Alternatives unwilling to tolerate the subpar service they were
receiving contracts were terminated and the company's Financial standing began
to take a hit the decline in the company's reputation was a bitter pill
for Richard to swallow he had once belittled our skills and contributions
thinking that he could easily replace us now he was facing the harsh reality of
his choices the warehouse that had once thrived under our leadership struggled
to stay afloat for the team as we settled into our new jobs and watched
from a distance we couldn't help but feel a sense of vindication as I settled
into my new role as a machine operator a sense of satisfaction and contentment
washed over me like a gentle breeze on a warm summer day it might not have been
the career path I'd envisioned when I started my journey but it was a fresh
start and I was determined to make the most of it the hum of the machines and
the rhythmic movements became my daily companions there was an art to operating
them a Precision that I found oddly soothing it was a stark contrast to the
chaotic end of my previous job where promises were broken and Trust was
shattered I had once aspired to climb the corporate ladder to reach the upper
echelons of management but life had a different plan for me here on the fact
floor I discovered a sense of fulfillment I hadn't expected it wasn't
about the titles or the prestige it was about the work itself the satisfaction
of a job well done each day on the job I
was reminded of the resilience I'd built over the years I had faced career
setbacks deception and betrayal yet here I was still standing and moving forward
it was a testate to the strength of character and determination that had
carried me through the storm the friendship in one among my new
colleagues were unlike anything I'd experienced before we shared stories
laughed at the quirks of the machines and supported each other through the
long shifts it was a reminder that true fulfillment often came from the people
you surrounded yourself with rather than the job title on your business card
looking back on my journey and how it all played out I can't help but reflect
on the Lessons Learned I had discovered the power of unity and the importance of
standing up for what you believe in I had witnessed the consequences of of
underestimating the value of dedicated employees and the impact it could have
on an organization but most importantly I learned that sometimes the path we
envision for ourselves may not be the one we're meant to tread life has a way
of throwing curve balls and leading us down unexpected roads and it's our
ability to adapt to find contentment in the present moment that truly defines
our success my journey has taught me that sometimes the best revenge is
simply living well and embracing the opportunities that come your way however
it might require you to stand your ground and leave where you're being
disrespected with your head held high this is the tasty revenge against my
boss in my previous place of employment I agree a lot with what op is saying
here bottom line if you think a certain direction is your path forward in life
but you find yourself stuck in a position where you're not getting
treated with any respect you're kind of shredding water and kind of miserable
don't be afraid to Pivot to the next great thing for you our next story is
why I couldn't stand my parents it wasn't hard for me to discover the pain
that love always carried with it I'd known not to give my heart out to anyone
from a young age I just didn't think to apply the same principle with any of my
parents I grew up reading romance novels that made me believe that I could only
ever be the product of true love I can't recall a time when I saw my parents act
mushy and love around me but I never doubted their feelings for each other
they had to have been hopelessly in love
if they had a child together right wrong they were both business partners United
by the goal of raising their only child me my mom was an orphan she and her
sister grew up with a particularly nasty ant she was L starved in every way and
craved for the slightest attention she could get from anyone she'd had a
serious boyfriend she'd been with for a couple of years before she met my dad
but he continued to hurt her and she couldn't take it anymore then she met my
dad and decided to end things they got into what we now call a situationship
they caught feelings but they weren't anything concrete they knew they weren't
serious about each other so they never made the false promises that couples of
nowadays made to each other they knew exactly why they were holding on to each
other my mom wanted someone she could talk to and would make her feel
important my dad needed a babe so his friends would finally accept that he
wasn't hung up on his ex things worked out for them there were no hitches in
the relationship since there wasn't too much of a commitment for either of them
but they made a mistake a really costly one my mom was so heartbroken one night
and I guess she thought that she needed some comfort for some reason the only
person that she could think of was my father so she showed up unannounced at
his door as a gentleman he let her in things got spicy and I believe you
should already know the rest of the story at first my mom didn't believe
that she could be pregnant she was on birth control so she expected everything
to be fine but it wasn't her mind had been consumed with a worry about herself
her finances and her family so she'd missed some doses which resulted in a
zygote me the zygo developed into an embryo and the embryo into a fetus I
believe it was around this time that she began to get seriously worried a couple
of pregnancy tests later and a consultation with her gynecologist she
finally accepted Ed her fate then she spoke with my father as decent people
they never once considered not having me
I'm sure that they must have been scared as heck because the surprise of
responsibility but they took it in stride my Dad decided that he'd get
married to my mom to save her from the embarrassment and raised shoulders of
Hypocrites he also wanted to support his child my mom needed him around as much
as he said he would be around her ant who was a devout Catholic would have
killed her not literally if she had discovered that she had engaged in the
temptation of fornification and she didn't possibly have the funds or the
time to raise a child on her own they got married as soon as they could which
must have raised suspicions I believe would have been confirmed when she
started showing they did their best to make me feel loved and valued they cared
for me like they'd intended to have me all along and for my sake they stayed
together but now I can't help feeling that they looked strained and tired
around each other they managed to keep keep up the pretense till my early
teenage years when it became clear to me that I'd been living in a fantasy I'd
like to think that they couldn't keep up the fakeness any longer but maybe I was
the one who'd started to see clearer it wasn't that they started to fight openly
or make nasty remarks or anything extreme I began to notice the little
things like how they sometimes stayed in separate rooms and when they did stay
together they were strictly on opposite sides of the bed like a demarcation had
been put in place they rarely ever went anywhere together when I was younger we
used to have family dinners at nice restaurants but soon when I was taken
out on a treat I was either with one or the other my mom always referred to him
as your father when she was talking to me or your father when she was talking
to anyone other than me he referred to her as an all the time there were never
any pet names or actual show of affection initially I thought something
had gone wrong that I hadn't figured out
maybe my dad had cheated on my mom or my mom had said something to my dad that
she shouldn't have and I was lowkey worried about them that was until I
overheard them having a discussion when they didn't know I'd return from school
early I'd finally made it to the top of the honor roll and I was overjoyed I
rushed to let them know because they'd promised me a new school bag if I could
do it and I had we all carried spare keys to the apartment with us in case we
didn't meet anyone at home this time the door was unlocked so I let myself in I
was going to jump into their room to surprise anyone who was around and share
the good news but I was held back by the heaviness and the voices I could hear
from the bedroom it's okay an stop crying came my dad's voice I'm just
trying to let you know that I wasn't trying to entrap you with any of this my
mom responded she clearly sounded shattered like she'd been crying for a
while I never said that I know you didn't but your mom did she hates me and
she's not to blame I could have been smarter I shouldn't have come to you
that night I shouldn't have been comfortable missing those pills she
stopped to sniffle and blow her nose you don't have to pretend we could have had
better lives you wouldn't have been stuck with me I know you regret this too
note I had never met my grandparents from my father's side I have my moments
he said in a calm voice but we have to keep it together for her we're all she's
got my brain started to wor ing I couldn't even Eaves drop properly
anymore was I the her what was going on I slowly and quietly backed out of the
house once I was out of the door I started to run at first I was running to
the park to get a bit of Salvage but the more I stared at the grass the more I
wanted to get answers why hadn't I ever met my paternal grandparents why did my
parents seem so sad together what was up for real instead of torturing myself
with a million hypothetical answers that wouldn't be right I decided to get the
answers for myself from the only person I knew I could get answers from my aunt
so I called her and asked if we could see each other discreetly I guess I must
have sounded really distressed because she kept asking me if I was all right
and she immediately arranged for us to meet that evening at a local Diner I
didn't go home I texted my parents that I was going to be back late so they
wouldn't get worried then I waited for my aunt when it was almost the scheduled
time I headed for the diner and sat waiting for her the waiter had asked me
three times if I was going to get anything other than water I decided that
I was going to ignore him if he came the fourth time when my aunt arrived in a
flurry of scarves and jewelry and Nails I'd usually have been excited to see her
but I didn't even have the heart to compliment her new haird by the time she
sat down what's up sweetie she said extending her hand to brush mine
affectionately by the time I told her what I could remember from the
conversation I'd overheard her face had become stiff and solemn well I guess
you're old enough to Face Reality now sweetheart but we couldn't possibly
discuss that here she shut the menu she'd been holding take me to that Park
you said you were at we sat beside each other on the bench that evening as she
said words to me that changed my life forever I had gone through a roller
coaster of emotions by the time she'd come to the end you'll understand much
better when you're older she said pulling me in for a hug your parents did
everything they did because of the love they have for you that's why they didn't
let you know it was all too much for me I couldn't help bursting into tears
don't cry baby I only told you because you're older now and you need to know I
couldn't let you leave with thoughts in your head and no Clarity whatsoever
thank you I managed to whisper no problem love she took me to McDonald's
to get me some dinner then she drove me home I'd wanted to hide my newly found
knowledge but my aunt would have none of that Secrets won't do you lot any good
you've got to address it as a family she' said she didn't let anyone question
me as I dashed into my room and locked the door but I knew she'd stayed back
for a while because I could still see her car from my room window after she'd
finally driven off someone knocked on my door I lay still in my bed so they'd
think I was asleep after like 10 minutes the knock came again then I heard their
voices leave her alone and I just want to talk to her and we both know she's
not sleeping she probably needs to process this alone there was a bout of
Silence then I heard feet moving the next morning I found them asleep in the
living room and for the first time ever my dad's arms were wrapped around my mom
I walked too fast towards the door and one of the books piled on my arm hit the
ground with a loud thud they woke up Suddenly and it was clear they hadn't
planned to go to sleep like that because they plainly looked embarrassed and
uncomfortable I quietly picked up my book and rushed out the door as I turned
to close the door I saw something that gave me a million ideas and a glimmer of
hope my mom had wanted to get up to speak to me but my Dad held her hand to
stop her hm I thought as I walked to school there was enough chemistry
between them to make them realize that they could love each other if they tried
I made that my mission to make them fall in love with each other or at least be
happy in their relationship the truth was that I wasn't actually sad that they
hadn't said anything to me or angry that what happened had happened I felt bad
that they were entangled because of me and they clearly weren't happy I needed
that to change so I started to scheme when I got home that evening I had a
series of speeches from the both of them about how much they loved me and they
don't regret having me I was barely present throughout the talk my mind was
Far Away scheming it seemed like my mother's vulnerability was a great way
to make them closer I just had to get her to be more open with him and nature
would do its work work I didn't do anything drastic but I made them feel
like I was getting sad or depressed about the situation which led to my
mother being extremely distressed which led to her confiding in my Father which
led to him consoling her which led to sparks flying it wasn't immediate or
anything but they started to get close to each other it's funny how they'd been
living together all those years but their hearts were miles apart when they
really could have had something great soon I started to get obvious I asked
them both to meet me at a really nice restaurant and I never showed up I
really hoped that my plans weren't futile because they could have just
returned home without getting the message but they didn't they returned
late in the night with gigantic Smiles on their faces and they were actually
holding hands while they came up the stairs yes I was spying through my
window my dad turned to face me as I came out to greet them and make an
excuse for why I wasn't able to show up you think you're really Sleek don't you
he said chuckling I faint innocence I I have no idea what you're talking about
is that right my mom said smiling and together with no warning they actually
carried me onto the couch and started to tickle me at my weak spot the bottom of
my feet they'd clearly plann the sabotage before they came home then my
mom got out a gift they'd gotten me a necklace with the words daughter of the
Year engraved on it I broke into tears this time happy ones then we had an
actual talk about everything one where I was present and I told them how I felt
well a part of it and they told me how they felt after that everything was
pretty much Rosy I actually started to feel like I had a family that I was a
part of that is until I found out that they were still pretending for my sake I
didn't mean to Snoop around or anything my mom had left her phone on the kitchen
counter beside me when she received a WhatsApp chat from my aunt mom I called
out Aunt Maggie sent you a text it says I couldn't complete that sentence
because my heart broke into a thousand times tiny pieces and it said you can't
keep this up forever she's almost an adult she'll soon figure it out if you
and your husband cannot love yourselves let her know there's no point in raising
her hopes for nothing I quietly put my phone down and waited to see if she'd
heard me there was no response so I figured she hadn't heard anything I
walked down my room as if in a Daz and sat down on my bed I couldn't even
explain how I felt my heart was shattered and I felt terrible but I
couldn't do anything about it more lies that was all they were going to give me
if I confronted them it wasn't fair hadn't they learned anything from the
last time that night at the dinner table I couldn't pretend to be happy I tried
to eat but a single morsel of food couldn't travel down my throat I tried
to smile but it felt as fake as it was and all their lovey-dovey nonsense was
making me nauseous now that I knew it was pretense I made some silly excuse
about how I was exhausted did and went up to my room even there I couldn't rest
properly I cried repeatedly throughout the night and by the time I'd woken up
I'd made up my mind I couldn't stay with them any longer I needed to leave as
soon as possible for the sake of my mental health I couldn't stay around
them I couldn't stand them I knew it would hurt them if I left and that was
exactly what I wanted but where too my first thought was to go to my aunt but I
scrapped that she was way too reasonable she'd have let my parents know where I
was I didn't want that I wanted them to be left in confusion just as they had
done to me I wanted them to suffer at least for a little while then it hit me
I was going to stay with my best friend's older sister if she'd have me
my best friend's sister Priscilla had made enough to move out of their house
and now had her own apartment after a long time of pleading and explanations
she finally gave in but she said she'd only keep it a secret for a week so I
took some of my essential stuff and clothes for a week and snuck out of the
house early that weekend I was surprised that I didn't receive any calls in the
morning but towards the evening my mom texted to ask when I'd come in for
dinner I didn't reply to her much later I started to receive more and more calls
from them I took out my SIM card and turned off my location so that even if
they tried they wouldn't be able to reach me my best friend continually fed
me with information about how broken and desperate they felt and was totally
Overjoyed but when I'd heard they contacted the police I decided to show
up I didn't go back home because I felt sorry for them I returned because I
didn't want Priscilla to get into trouble they tried to fuss over me but I
wasn't having any of it after the whole chaos died down I told them that I was
tired of their lies and I now wanted to stay with my aunt I never forgave them
and they couldn't do anything to keep me with them I think it's unfortunate that
the whole relationship ship was totally blown up here but I can completely
understand where op's feeling utterly betrayed that they would rather give op
this false sense of hope and allow them to come crashing down yet again rather
than just facing the truth as this fractured family but with that being
said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another
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called the police on my neighbors after they took our daughter to their
Halloween party behind our back my husband 39 M and I 35f moved to this
country when we first got married due to his work we had our first child 6f here
he was then moved to Germany where our other two 4M and 3F were born his
company decided to move him here again but to the opposite side of the country
to where we lived the last time after we had our fourth F5 months so needless to
say we know the culture despite not being native our daughter started school
this August for the first time and a lot of her classmates live in the same area
we do one of the boys in her class lives
at the end of the road behind us when we first moved into the neighborhood back
in may we were welcomed by a few of our close neighbors and this boy's mother
let's call her ASD she took a shine to my baby but most people fuss over babies
so I didn't think much of it that same day she told me of how she had lost two
baby girls and how lucky I was to have so many girls and she only had three
boys the day after she came with her husband let's call him Morton and he too
wanted to pick up the baby and paid her a lot of compliments until he met our
oldest daughter and made a remark which I didn't think much of at the time he
said my daughter and his son could easily pass for twins as they are in the
same class and they look alike they don't my daughter is super blonde with
gray eyes and their son has dark blondish hair with hazel eyes so I
corrected him he faint offense and said what he meant was that she could pass
for his daughter the baby too again I corrected them that with his light brown
hair and Hazel Eyes neither of my girls could he once again insisted and said I
mean our features not the coloring then he laughed it off and said he was just
joking they then invited us to go out for drinks but we declined as neither
one of us drinks and we don't like to be
too friendly with neor during the summer when we bumped into them at the local
store a few times Morton and ASD would call her julus jurn and sing a song from
a famous movie here after a few times I told them to knock it off as it was no
longer funny since may end up until a week ago they have tried to invite us to
many get togethers which I found strange
as they hardly ever invite the neighbors that they have known for longer than us
Morton and astred would quite often talk
to my daughter on her way back to school as she passes their house on the way
home and she said that it bothers her as they have both tried to pick her up and
ASD has treat a few times to touch her hair when my husband confronted them
about it they said it's just the culture here it's not the picking up and
touching her hair stopped after that at the beginning of October they wanted us
to help them host a Halloween party at the end of October and wanted us to meet
them at their house so we could coordinate the children's costumes
especially the twins we declined again as we don't celebrate Halloween they
tried to convince us otherwise and were very pushy even had their son knock on
our door a few times to play with his twin after school knocking on doors to
play with other children is normal and most children roam out and about as it's
a safe neighborhood and Country so that part was never suspicious to me however
after the eenth time of calling my daughter one of his twins I put my foot
down and said he needed to stop joking about it as it's not funny anymore my
husband goes offshore at times due to his work and it's has been me and the
children since mid- October my daughter's teacher also lives in the
neighborhood and she is a childhood friend of ASD she was present in the
park by our house when Astrid came up to me and handed me three costumes one for
each of my girls she said as we don't celebrate Halloween her and her husband
had decided to host a Hellen party instead and one of my girls to wear
these I was shocked but told her no it would not happen the teacher tried to
convince me that this would be a nice way of meeting others families and it
would be fun for our children Astrid said she had spent a lot of money on
adjusting the costumes and had found the
right hairstyle for my daughter to go as gredle to her son's Hans I told her no
one made her spend the money as I had made it very clear that none of my
children would be going right in front of me she took the Hair Band off my
daughter's hair and tried to put one on that she had bought for the costume I
told her to stop and started walking of she tried to apologize and said relax we
are neighbors and friends her teacher followed me and said not to be uptight
and that astd meant no harm she just likes girls on Monday my daughter came
home with a different hairstyle and accessories to what I had sent her off
with I asked her how she got them and she said her teacher had done her hair
during lunch I asked her if she had played rough so her hair needed to be
fixed she said no yesterday morning I spoke to her teacher and she confirmed
that it was indeed her who had fixed her hair and that it was ASD who bought the
stuff I asked her why she would go against my wishes to which she said it
was only hair stuff and astd didn't want to throw it away as had spent money on
it she thought with three daughters I would appreciate help with some free
accessories she also said that I had not made it explicitly clear not to fix why
daughter's hair I left after telling her to never do it again and return the
stuff in the evening the neighborhood children went trick or treating those
participating were informed it would last from 6: to 8 I let my daughter go
off and play with one of the other girls who wasn't trick or treating at about
7:00 I couldn't hear them so I went outside to check and they were not there
I asked one of the other children if they had seen her and they said Morton
and ASD had collected her in their car and her friend had gone home I asked
next door to watch my other two while I ran with the baby to their place when I
arrived there they were having a party in the garden and my daughter was there
she had her hair done and she had a candy bag she was also wearing the
costume so in my anger I called the police before speaking to anyone and
once I got off the call I called both of them pedos and everything under the sun
in multiple languages when the police arrived and I spoke to them we left
today at school her teacher was very short with me and said there was no need
for that as Morton volunteers for the children's football club having a police
report filed on him was not the wisest of choices she explained that if I
wasn't happy I should have asked for a mediation appointment at the school
instead of embarrassing astd and Morton in front of everyone she also mentioned
that it was her who helped my daughter change into the costume and it's not
unusual for teachers to help their students change here that part is
partially true for this country she said astd has been grieving and her behavior
is normal for someone who lost so many children one after the other and not to
make it harder on her as people have gossiped quite a bit about it she said
they didn't know they had crossed a line and it wouldn't happen again so just
drop the complaint at the police on Friday I have to make a full statement
at the police station she wants me to cancel it as asid and Morton are not bad
people and she thinks I should be glad someone else thinks this highly of my
daughter she wasn't harmed and she sees no reason for me being angry as the
children all play in each other's Garden anyway she said not to blow things out
of proportion as at no point was my daughter alone with Morton update thank
you for all the reassurances it was helpful a lot of people asked about an
update and many them to see how it was going we filed a report at the police
station and basically we were dismissed we had two female officers on the first
day but a male police officer came in and offered us some water tried to do
small talk he is the ex of my daughter's
teacher and told us as much we had to do the report over 2 days as on the first
day my daughter was too tired to relay all the details on the second
appointment we had the two female police officers and her ex also joined us it
seemed like he had already talked to her
teacher about it but he denied it when I confronted him about it citing
confidentiality I was told they would have a word with astred and Morton but I
doubt they took it seriously as all three kind of defended their actions
wanting to know why wouldn't let my daughter go to a party when we got home
we had a knock on the door in the evening and it was astred and Morton I
didn't open the door on Saturday the 11th while my daughter was playing in
the garden with my next door neighbors children she said astred was taking
pictures of her from across the street on the Sunday they came by again and
kept knocking on the door they said they knew I was inside and that they wanted
to talk I didn't open the door I phoned the police and they said if they become
violent call back in the meantime just open the door and tell them you don't
want to talk to them I didn't and they left they left a message in my post box
it was a long message about how they felt connected to my daughter and how I
should take better care of her how they know how it feels like to lose a child
and that they only want what is best for her on the 15th I kept my daughter from
the school as she said that Astrid's son kept teasing her instead I spoke to the
principal about the matter and explained that I needed this absence validated I
took my daughter to the store and I think maybe I was followed because not 5
minutes had gone by when astd walked in and bumped into me by the dairy section
she apologized and blocked me in with her cart because I tried to get away she
started talking to my daughter and tried
to stroke my baby's hair so I I screamed that made her walk away from me the day
after I found another note in my post box telling me not to be so hysterical
and I have that saved I phoned my husband to come home or find a reason to
get home ASAP on the 18th both astred and Morton confronted me in the park and
wanted to know why I was keeping julus jern away from them due to a
misunderstanding I told them politely Morton is a big guy and I am not as
strong as him that my husband was home I lied they walked away I phoned the
police and gave them the latest evidence on the harassment but they said they
would have a word with the two on Monday I attended a meeting with the principal
and the teacher where she apologized but she made it out that it was a
misunderstanding the principal was very nice and told the teacher to back off
sternly and not to mix her professional life and private life astred and Morton
came by my house that evening and while I was attending to the laundry in the
basement they were talking to my girl in
the garden and she let slip that her dad wasn't home yet they gave her some
cookies but she threw them in the outside bin while they watched on on
Tuesday they confronted us on the way to school and asked me why I lied about my
husband luckily I wasn't alone and one of the Neighbors on my street told them
to back off on the way back from picking her up at the end of the day we took a
taxi home in the evening they were banging on my door again and they had
their sons with them I called the police but they only arrived after they had
left I discussed it with my husband on the phone and he managed to get 3 days
off but he won't be home before this weekend as his workplace didn't see it
as an emergency until yesterday's incident yesterday they came by again
while we were in the park I was preoccupied with my son and I noticed a
tap on my shoulder it was Morton holding my daughter and he said I should take
better care of her as she might walk into the road while my attention is
elsewhere he made it out as if she had run into the street but my daughter
denied it I grabbed her and the other children and left and packed some stuff
I asked my next door to collect my post and hold on to it while I booked a hotel
she informed me that the post office will do it for free for 14 days but that
she will look out for my house and not if they come by again words gone round
that they are being a bit weird about my daughter I have been staying in this
hotel since and my husband is arranging ticket for us to visit my parents before
the Christmas holidays at this point I don't want to stay here anymore and my
husband will have to ask for a transfer I spoke to the principal and she said
she would check in on my daughter in the morning and keep her at pickup time and
I can pick her up from the office I haven't told the principal about our
moving plans just in case she mentions it to another teacher and it gets back
to asid's friend I hate lying but feel that if I don't it may put us at risk
one of my neighbors on the other side of the street said both astred and Morton
have mentioned that they suspect that I neglect my child and that they tried to
insinuate that maybe I was too overwhelmed with four little ones while
my husband was offshore she told them I wasn't and they have now moved on to
another neighbor trying to badmouth me it seems like they are recruiting
Witnesses slh helpers so my neighbor said it's best best to keep
documentation in case they call CPS on us and to get a copy and confirmation
from the police that there is bad blood between us my husband can deal with the
paperwork in the aftermath and join us when he can arrange a transfer but I am
not staying here anymore final update a lot has happened in the last few days I
don't want to give too many details as this story has been leaked to other
social media without my approval I also don't want ASD and Morton to find this
now that it's on several platforms I am at my parents we are all safe now my
husband will be joining us in the new year once he sorts out his new
assignment I won't say what country we are in now as my husband said that ASD
came by the house under the guys of giving us Christmas cookies 2 days ago
wondering why my daughter hadn't been at school he told her politely to leave
before leaving I only told the pricipal and not her teacher her principal
understood and said it was her responsibility to relay that information
to the class and the teacher today she was at our place again asking him where
she was as the principal told the class that my daughter was sad to leave them
but we had moved no other details given she made her school friend drawings that
were given to them sad as it is I don't want her to contact her friends in case
they say something to the wrong person my daughter will make new friends and
hopefully won't miss her Norwegian friends too much I did tell two of my
closest Neighbors on the day I was leaving but they were always on friendly
terms with me and they were on my side all along to be honest I don't know
where my husband might get sent next for now we are all safe thank you for all
the support I know I didn't reply to all but I had a lot going on please don't
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open marriage drama can you guess the outcome 2 and 1/2 years ago my wife
Sarah 36f asked me to open our marriage she strongly impli the alternative was
divorce after thinking it through I said yes primarily because we do have two
children I worked long hours and divorce
sounded horrible so I set up some ground rules not bringing dates into our house
not dating mutual friends acquaintances family members or classmates keeping
things private for the next two years I focused on my job and on my kids I
worked long hours and the little free time I had I devoted to my kids I didn't
have the time for dating so I wasn't even trying I moved to another room
because the thought of Sarah having SX with another man and then sleeping in my
bed felt horrible our relationship became purely transactional and we
became Partners in raising kids I didn't want to know anything about her exual
life this summer I managed to fulfill my financial goals I do not have any debt
whatsoever both of my kids have enough money in their college fund and all I
have to do is keep adding some savings every month into the fund I made for
their first home deposits so I did some math and decided to cut my work from 74
hours to just 30 per week Sarah wanted to get in debt again to buy another
house and a new car but I said no I used my free time to finally have the
vacation I really needed and took my older son with me to tour the us
together we did some renovation work on our house turning the basement into a
man cave started working out and playing sports leading a healthier life
then I actually started trying to land a
date for me just having SX with somebody is not my thing I want to at least be a
friend before that to go out together watch movies have fun and have SX so I
dated a couple of women and found a Jane with whom I clicked with Jane I was
going out to concerts art galleries Comic Cons and movies and we would boink
too Sarah wanted to talk about my dates I said no then I caught Sarah snooping
through my phone and we had a very strongly worded argument now Sarah wants
to update the terms of our open marriage she wants us to repair our marriage by
going to the counselor she wants us to sleep in the same room to go outside and
to have fun together our outside of marriage relationships are to be
strictly asual and nothing else and we are to talk about our asual partners I
told her that I am content with a situation as it is and I don't mind if
she finds a partner to go out with I encouraged her to and I don't want to
talk about our partners she is holding her ground at this point
I'm split between trying to fix our marriage and handing her the divorce
papers I need advice guys tldr after opening our marriage and me starting to
date my wife wants to change the rules comments waiting for nothing just get a
divorce already lurky L they've been divorced without the paperwork or the
physical distance they've both been emotionally checked out for years gen
5872 you to didn't open your marriage you ended your marriage two five years
ago to become roommates and co-parents that's all the two of you are now but
neither of you seemed to care about that until you got a girlfriend you didn't
find a SX partner you have found a relationship that scares the hell out of
your wife because she's reading the writing on the wall waiting for nothing
that's exactly what happened his wife wanted SX partners and never thought he
would find a girlfriend I'm really glad I didn't divorce at that point I grew up
in a very poor family had the smarts but couldn't afford College I had to
struggle from the beginning to actually make it and I don't want my kids to have
to go through that by staying in the marriage I could keep working hard while
still seeing my kids and I could save enough to give them a chance in life
with free college and to save for their deposits as well so I actually do not
have any regrets about that decision I wasn't working that hard before she
decided to open our marriage I'd still find time to leave the kids with family
and spend a day with my wife after she decided to open our marriage I started
grinding my work once I completed financial goals and switched to working
30 hours it felt too humiliating to take
my wife out considering she was screwing around I was left with a bad choice and
a worse Choice it wasn't easy At first I felt disgusted by her if she touched a
plate I couldn't eat from it but then I started to think about her as a business
partner in the business of raising kids which made everything a lot easier
co-parents living in the same home naturally when I stopped working long
hours I looked for intimacy somewhere else she didn't seem to carry it until I
actually found it update me and my wife Sarah had two sessions with the couple
counselor the counselor was being very dedicated and professional however Sarah
kept making demands that felt very unreasonable and unfair she wants to
keep an open relationship that's only about SX she doesn't want to find a job
and keep working she wants us to buy a new house in every variation she
stubbornly wasn't to have two three of these things today during the counseling
she threatened divorce after counseling she said the counselor was taking my
side and wanted to change to another counselor although I think the counselor
was just trying to be fair and find a compromise I had a talk with the lawyer
and started divorce proceedings she will get the papers in a couple of days I
will give her two months to start earning on her own after that I'm not
giving her any money whatsoever P.S I just wanted to add that I only started
working 74 hours a week after she decided to open our marriage before that
I was working around 50 hours a week I wasn't spending my time at bars and
clubs either I helped with chores as much as I could and I was home and
available every weekend comments fishing 1980 divorce is definitely your best
option good luck Sammi is fine big time when I read his original post it was
very clear that op's wife was only concerned with her own wants and not
what was best for their family I'm glad he's putting his foot down on this
second story since we me and 35 have opened up our relationship younger men
have been throwing themselves at me husband 40m is displeased I am 35f
husband is 40 we agreed to open up our marriage I am LL and wasn't very
interested in SX and he is HL since we opened up our marriage mostly younger
men have been throwing themselves at me I have been very picky but there are a
lot of them my partner is a younger man who's unexpectedly attractive to me he
is the physical opposite of my husband my husband is very dissatisfied he feels
emasculated I don't want to close my side of the relationship but I don't
want him hounding me for SX is there a compromise we can reach why does he feel
this way when it was his idea and he is also taking action relevant comments
yellow Beast Jeep he doesn't want to open your relationship he wants to have
SX while you don't op that's why we opened it he said he couldn't stand not
having his needs met Maya burner if he opened things because of your LL it
could be hitting him hard emotionally if you're now far more exually active with
others than you were with him you're not doing anything wrong but I could
definitely see him having anxiety about your romantic and exual feelings towards
him update I 35f talked with my husband 4M and we have more clarity on where we
stand to clarify I am still LL I am happy with once a week or every two
weeks my husband is explorative and likes Partners who are ready to go
wherever they are he has a lot of Kinks they are exploring I need non exual
affection kissing and foreplay to be in the mood I prefer a delicate more
sensual touch I still find my husband incredibly attractive but I can't get
aroused instantly and be ready to go it's painful and it feels like a chore
half the time I know he doesn't find me as attractive he told me he needed his
needs met and I couldn't fulfill them we opened up the relationship my husband
and I have had SX once since it began he had learned things from his Partners we
both hated it I didn't like him yanking my hair hard or wrapping his hand around
my throat let alone the kinkier stuff he wanted he hated how frigid I was my
husband needs SX to be affectionate but we weren't having it so he told me to go
find affection somewhere else I tried dating apps but I wasn't interested in
hookups I really wanted affection romantic or platonic ironically men my
age or older men were looking for younger women or hookups younger men and
women were more likely to want affection I ended up meeting my partner in person
through a mutual hobby I also made some friends through friendship apps my
husband and I can do our own things separately but my partner needs a lot of
time affection and attention from me he gets a bit territorial I don't think he
feels threatened by my husband but my husband has remarked that my partner is
always over my husband has an apartment for his partners and lets me use the
house finally I talked with my husband about why he feels emasculated he says
he is overly jealous of me but he is jealous of his partners he says that my
partner and the men I attract are far more attractive than I should have been
able to get it made no sense as I have aged and don't look as attractive as I
did back when I was 20 meanwhile he should be at the peak of his
attractiveness he is very put together and he expected that as an attractive
older man with disposable cash women would flock to him they do but he
doesn't like them for various reasons attractive young women want him to spend
a lot of cash they're not interested in an equal relationship and expect him to
spoil them they're bratty and entitle attractive young women who don't want
money have mental health issues young women in the Kink Community or who are
Polly were ugly would be Mistresses would leave when they found out he was
in an open marriage I didn't know what to say I can't help him with his problem
edit my husband and I both thought that I would only get men interested in no
strings SX or one night dance which I would not be interested in rather than a
close affectionate frankly committed relationship that I desired and filtered
for surprisingly there were men who wanted the latter edit to there are a
lot of comments saying my husband has few Prospect ects or he isn't getting as
much action as he thought that is untrue he is a very handsome man and has been
with several women since we opened up a lot of women are attracted to him he has
SX with beautiful women kinky women and accomplished women he should be happy at
this point I think he's just looking for something to be unhappy about there is
no perfect partner that meets his requirements relevant comments spider
389 so basically he wants some beautiful woman in her prime who's had a
successful career to have disposable income and great mental health to settle
in as his mistress oh yeah I can't forget the fact he expects her to have
SX on his demand to be very kinky it looks like he has very high standards
Opie also someone who is kinky and exually open to a lot of things I told
him he should compromise but he's unwilling because he's found plenty of
women who fulfill some of his expectations so he thinks he can find
someone who will fulfill all of them I don't think he's looking for a person
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aita for explaining to my husband he's the reason we keep having daughters I
30f have two daughters and I'm currently pregnant with my third girl we just
found out this morning on the drive to my husband's mother's house he explained
how he was a bit disappointed about having a girl but then he said I should
have expected this because you have three sisters I explained that me having
three sisters have nothing to do with the gender of our child he said it's
genetics and that I'm the reason for our daughters I told him that's not how
biology Works he said it is he then went on the explain that his mom only has
brothers and his two oldest Brothers both have two sons because his mom's
side I told it doesn't make any sense because it should be the same for him
then he said no because both of their wives have more Brothers than sisters he
was getting frustrated but I was just laughing at him I explained that him and
his oldest two brothers have different dads but out of his dad's eight kids
three are boys and five are girls the men determines the gender he said that
not true because the kids his dad had with his mom are all boys he dropped it
and said he'll ask his mom who has a degree in biology so we get to his
parents house for brunch and he asks his mom if I'm the reason we kept having
girls she told him bluntly that the men determines the gender and it's actually
not a 50-50 chance she then went on to explain that the more of one gender you
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my negligence cost my partner her life and I'm about to lose everything P.S I
am not a cheating lying thieving abusive a-hole at all I 35 M have been married
to Lisa 28f for 3 years together seven a year ago I fell deeply in love with Amy
24f and had been planning to end my marriage for her I know it's terrible
and not what my wife deserves but we were The Real Thing 2 weeks ago she had
an allergic reaction when we were getting food after work but she used her
EpiPen and seemed mostly okay afterwards
she usually gets checked at the hospital after a reaction but I asked if I could
take her home and she could get her friend to drive her there because my
wife was expecting me back all I know is that she had a secondary reaction that
evening and died I didn't even find out about it until the following Monday
through a work email it has been eating me up ever since and I will never
forgive myself for not sacrificing an hour of my time to possibly save her I
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today we've got a crazy nuclear Revenge story
involving snakes we'll get to that in a bit
:05.880 --> :13.320 but first I ruined my ex-boss's marriage and
life I ruined my ex-boss's marriage today he's
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divorced jobless and miserable and I hear his
wife is currently engaged to a business Mogul
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you know now that I think about it I wouldn't say
I ruined it he did this happened two years ago at
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my current job so it's quite recent it started
some years back when I was accepted to intern
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at an advertising firm I'd always wanted to work
in advertising and when my friend sent a graphic
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flyer to my email I was very excited about it I
knew I would be selected I was doing very well in
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college and was almost done my grades were good I
had the needed qualifications and creativity and I
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knew just how to sell myself to the human resource
team because that was what any great Advertiser
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must know how to do to sell stuff when I went in
for the second stage of the interview the physical
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interview the person who I found out later was the
head of Human Resources was very impressed with my
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outfit something about your outfit is unique and
beautiful can you tell me why you chose to wear
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this she asked me I replied to his question and
as I'd been taught told a short story while at
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it he smiled and that was when I knew that he was
impressed with me after the interview one of the
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interviewers stood and clapped I was so excited
that is easily one of the highlights of my career
:28.800 --> :33.780
till this date I knew that they would like me but
I didn't expect them to be that impressed with me
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I thank them and they of course asked me to look
forward to their response for a full week I waited
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for an email from them I was very frustrated at
some point because it just wasn't not coming and
:45.720 --> :51.420
I wasn't sure about sending them a reminder on
a Friday afternoon I checked my computer and saw
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that I'd been offered a spot as an intern I was
happy not just because I was going to be learning
:56.580 --> :02.220
the ropes of my dream job but because it was a
paid intern friendship and it paid well my mom
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was very happy for me the morning of my first
day at work she sent flowers to the apartment I
:07.680 --> :13.560
shared with my friends some chocolate and homemade
cookies for my co-workers my mom believed it was
:13.560 --> :18.480
important to make a good strong first impression
and what was a better way to make a strong
:18.480 --> :25.140
impression than to have my new co-workers enjoy
my mom's nicely baked cookies I resumed work very
:25.140 --> :31.080
happily I was even happier to meet my co-workers
the team I was in was a team of seven including
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the team leader there were two interns myself
included three permanent staff the assistant
:36.540 --> :42.780
team leader and the team leader I offered them
my cookies and they took them and thanked me the
:42.780 --> :47.640
work environment looked good and they weren't
all dressed in conventional office clothing it
:47.640 --> :54.060
was just the right environment for me they also
seemed like nice people everything was going great
:54.060 --> :00.240
until it was not the assistant team leader took an
interest in me he would help me through my tasks
:00.240 --> :06.660
encouraged me to ask him questions always offered
to help and sometimes would even buy me lunch I
:06.660 --> :11.940
was grateful for his help I even told my friends
and roommates about it one of my friends was
:11.940 --> :16.860
skeptical though I think it's strange that he's
buying you lunch though I just don't trust that
:16.860 --> :22.920
he has no other motives I rolled my eyes at her it
wasn't unusual for my friend to be that skeptical
:22.920 --> :28.980
perhaps if my other friend had said that I'd have
considered it but this friend was too jaded with
:28.980 --> :36.300
life and uninterested in seeing the positive sides
to anything so I just dismissed her concerns he's
:36.300 --> :41.400
just being a kind person plus if he has other
motives then it's probably to make me give him
:41.400 --> :46.860
a good review so he can be the next team leader I
heard that the team leader may be leaving soon she
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Shrugged maybe just stop accepting gifts from
him you don't want him to wake up someday and
:52.020 --> :58.140
accuse you of leading you on she warned my other
friend was irritated by my pessimistic friend how
:58.140 --> :04.020
are we friends with this person she asked look
yes sometimes people do stuff with hopes that
:04.020 --> :08.640
they'd get something out of it but he may just
be trying to be nice how about we just appreciate
:08.640 --> :13.740
his good deeds and give him the benefit of the
doubt she said well we can't say that he has
:13.740 --> :19.800
bad intentions until he actually does something I
added my pessimistic friend Shrugged and ignored
:19.800 --> :24.960
us just the week after that conversation happened
the assistant team leader showed that he was being
:24.960 --> :31.260
nice for a reason it was after close and I decided
to stay back and finish a copywriting task my team
:31.260 --> :36.900
leader assigned to me I could have finished it at
home I wish I did but my friend who was studying
:36.900 --> :41.460
to be a clinical psychologist at the time had
told us that the best way to make your home
:41.460 --> :48.840
more relaxing was to keep work at work I was at my
desk working at the computer when I felt some hair
:48.840 --> :56.640
on my neck I had short hair at the time so my neck
was Bare I turned back in fear and saw my boss he
:56.640 --> :03.360
was standing so close to me that the hairs that
touched my neck were his beard I have a feeling
:03.360 --> :09.060
that he was getting a whiff of my perfume when
his beard touched me he stood so close that when
:09.060 --> :15.000
I turned around our face is almost touched I was
alarmed he smiled at me but it wasn't the usual
:15.000 --> :21.120
smile I'd seen him wearing it was a mischievous
grin why are you still here he asked me I had
:21.120 --> :26.820
a task to finish I replied hoping he would take
five steps back I was too shocked to do anything
:26.820 --> :32.580
to tell him to move back a bit and to this day
I feel bad about not telling him off before I
:32.580 --> :38.160
could turn back to continue working he pulled me
by the neck and pressed his lips on mine I was
:38.160 --> :45.120
terrified I quickly pushed him away and spat out
he smiled again the mischievous smile come on are
:45.120 --> :51.840
you teasing me what was that I asked angrily his
countenance changed he looked confused I thought
:51.840 --> :57.360
you were feeling it too I thought you liked me
he said in an accusatory tone in that short time
:57.360 --> :03.000
I combed my brain to know exactly what way I'd
behaved myself that would make him think that I
:03.000 --> :09.600
liked him I don't geez you're my boss and did you
not just get engaged I asked he looked embarrassed
:09.600 --> :15.480
and apologized profusely he swore that he thought
we had an understanding that I liked him just as
:15.480 --> :21.960
he liked me I'm sorry I misunderstood you this
will never happen again he assured me I was so
:21.960 --> :28.380
naive at the time that I apologized for leading
him on he made me promise not to tell anyone and
:28.380 --> :33.480
I agreed immediately why would I want to tell
anyone about that embarrassing incident anyway
:33.480 --> :39.360 I told my friends though but when I did both
my pessimistic friend and the other one were
:39.360 --> :44.580 convinced that he was up to no good even if
he did think that something was going on like
:44.580 --> :49.980
a spark of sorts he could have asked you if you
were feeling him too and not just tried to kiss
:49.980 --> :56.820
you that is strange the other one said why is he
even trying to have a spark of any kind he's your
:56.820 --> :03.780
boss and you're just an intern at work shouldn't
interns be be a sort of romantic no-go area I was
:03.780 --> :09.240
confused but since my boss had apologized and
promised that it would never repeat itself I
:09.240 --> :14.460
didn't bother too much about it nor did I try to
tell anyone not even my team leader at the time
:14.460 --> :20.280
who was a very understanding middle-aged woman I
wish I did though perhaps if I'd reported him to
:20.280 --> :25.140
someone he wouldn't have been able to cause me
a setback as he did when I resumed work after
:25.140 --> :31.680
that weekend I noticed that my boss was unusually
cold toward me he didn't greet me with a smile as
:31.680 --> :37.680
usual or speak to me at all I took it that he was
simply too embarrassed about what had happened and
:37.680 --> :43.980
simply went about my day that week I noticed that
he would try to pick on me at meetings he gave me
:43.980 --> :50.040
heavier tasks and Tighter deadlines too I had to
ask him what was going on when I did he looked at
:50.040 --> :55.620
me like I had a unicorn horns on my head what are
you talking about he asked me it just feels like
:55.620 --> :00.840
you're punishing me I told him he said listen
this is a workplace if you're not ready to work
:00.840 --> :05.460
you may as well quit you don't expect me to treat
you specially from the other intern because I had
:05.460 --> :12.120
feelings for you do you I opened my mouth but
nothing came out of it oh well I'm sorry I asked
:12.120 --> :17.880
you out and you declined and I respect that I
would rather not visit the topic again how cunning
:17.880 --> :24.540
my friend exclaimed when I told her honey you
have a manipulative terrible person on your hands
:24.540 --> :29.760
I sighed I knew I did at that point there was
just something cold and calculative about his
:29.760 --> :34.560 eyes when he spoke the next Monday my team
leader invited us to her office for a brief
:34.560 --> :39.120 meeting I'm worried about you she said to
me before bringing the meeting to a close
:39.120 --> :44.640
when you first resumed work here you were quite
productive but you slept in your tasks last week
:44.640 --> :50.460
and didn't even finish the one assigned to you on
Thursday she paused what's going on the assistant
:50.460 --> :55.740
team leader chuckled or have she's become too
comfortable here and doesn't think she has to
:55.740 --> :01.620
impress anyone he said it casually as though it
was a joke but a serious one the team leader was
:01.620 --> :07.260
not humored though I hope that's not what this
is my team leader said sternly I'm afraid you
:07.260 --> :12.720
have to impress us if you intend to keep a job
here or even get a good recommendation I was
:12.720 --> :17.820
hurt by what she said but I thanked her and she
dismissed the meeting as we went out of her office
:17.820 --> :24.600
I noticed a smirk on his face it was deliberate
he was out to sabotage me all through that week
:24.600 --> :32.280
my tasks were deeply scrutinized and he complained
about the littlest thing I was frustrated and it
:32.280 --> :37.740
started to affect my behavior at work I walked
around on eggshells and was not as productive at
:37.740 --> :42.660 work the other intern in the team and I were
talking one day when she admitted to me that
:42.660 --> :48.240
she and the assistant team leader had hooked up
in the office bathroom one evening that made me
:48.240 --> :54.240
realize that it was not that he liked me he was
just a sick pervert one day one of the staff was
:54.240 --> :00.000
carrying a file to HR but the team leader needed
her so she asked me to help on my way to Human
:00.000 --> :06.900
Resources I took a look at the file and saw that
intern review was boldly written on it I decided
:06.900 --> :12.600
to take a look at it I snuck into the bathroom and
read the reviews about me every member of the team
:12.600 --> :18.300
had to write something the assistant team leader
of course gave a terrible review it wasn't just
:18.300 --> :24.540
that he gave a terrible review he also worded it
in such a crafty way he was very selective with
:24.540 --> :30.840
words to use to ensure that I was not retained
at the firm I braced myself and went to HR to
:30.840 --> :37.740
drop the files a week later I was not retained by
The Firm but the other intern was the head of HR
:37.740 --> :43.020
invited me to his office and offered me another
internship spot and a different team he said he
:43.020 --> :48.720
believed that I could be useful to the firm but
maybe in a different team I was hurt the team I
:48.720 --> :54.480
was in was where I fitted in the most but it was
either that or I left the firm totally so I took
:54.480 --> :59.460 the another eight months of internship while
that was going on the assistant team leader got
:59.460 --> :06.000
married the team leader left and he became the
new team leader I was miserable but I planned
:06.000 --> :10.800
just how to get back at him I got his home phone
number from one of the ladies on the team I was
:10.800 --> :16.080
in she innocently gave it to me when I told her
that I was going to have a cake delivered to his
:16.080 --> :21.480
home for his wife's birthday party I called this
house that day and his wife picked up the phone I
:21.480 --> :27.660
said nothing and hung up I did this for some days
but one day when I called again she asked who are
:27.660 --> :33.300
you I answered and introduced myself to her as
her husband's co-worker I told her all that her
:33.300 --> :39.780
husband had done surprisingly she just said okay
thank you and hung up at the time the firm was on
:39.780 --> :46.080
fire for a controversial advert they'd made for a
brand the Press had a lot to say and many clients
:46.080 --> :50.700
were contemplating dropping the firm as their
advertising agency due to the negative pressure
:50.700 --> :55.980
from different quarters I sent an email to an
investigative journalist telling them about what
:55.980 --> :01.380
my former boss had done the journalist published
it alongside an article about the controversial
:01.380 --> :07.800
post keeping me Anonymous The Firm had to fire
him they couldn't help it even if they wanted
:07.800 --> :13.920
to they had to throw him out after their private
investigation showed that he had made a habit of
:13.920 --> :20.340
wooing naive junior staff and ghosting them later
on some other interns who were not retained in The
:20.340 --> :26.100
Firm sent emails to the journalists telling them
about their experience fences with him his wife
:26.100 --> :31.620
refused to comment on the matter and she replied
with divorce papers my former boss went from being
:31.620 --> :38.520
a team leader and a top advertising firm to being
jobless and separated from his wife who had caught
:38.520 --> :44.220
him cheating in the past and was tired of his
constant infidelity not only did I get revenge
:44.220 --> :50.280
but I also helped many other girls get Justice
too I've since requested HR to return to the
:50.280 --> :56.160
team I was in and it was approved I've also been
retained by the firm and I look forward to being
:56.160 --> :02.580
a team leader myself someday I definitely think
it's very brave what op did here for you to have
:02.580 --> :08.400
to experience that and still be working in that
company praying that you don't get fired so you
:08.400 --> :13.680
don't stunt your career growth for you to go and
share your story to a journalist for the intention
:13.680 --> :19.920
of publishing it whether you're anonymous or not
that's a big step but it proved helpful for a lot
:19.920 --> :27.360
of people our next story is Sister broke my new
Macbook so I put snakes in her bubble bath the
:27.360 --> :32.280
story I'm about to share happened a few weeks
ago until now I don't think a better Revenge
:32.280 --> :38.280
fantasy has ever been carried out I mean snakes in
a bathtub it's something I've always been thinking
:38.280 --> :43.080
about because I'm a writer and it's something
I've always been trying to implement into one of
:43.080 --> :49.260
my stories I know talking about it like this might
sound somewhat psychotic but it's not I assure you
:49.260 --> :55.500 all I'm saying is that I had a good plan and
I carried it out to Perfection and while I'm
:55.500 --> :01.440
still grounded because of it I'd say it brought
the desired result so a win is a win till today
:01.440 --> :07.500
I still don't know why my older sister Brie picks
on me seriously I have nothing that she would want
:07.500 --> :13.380
she's the more beautiful daughter she has tons of
friends she's the assistant captain of the Glee
:13.380 --> :18.060
Club and her boyfriend looks like the younger
version of Channing Tatum the only thing I have
:18.060 --> :24.360
going for me is my books and poems which everybody
else thinks are too dark anyways for some reason
:24.360 --> :30.120
breed doesn't like me and instead of leaving me
alone like most other people she decided that
:30.120 --> :37.380
it wasn't enough and she kicked her bullying up a
notch by breaking my new Macbook well I retaliated
:37.380 --> :43.260
and it was good but let's start with how I got
the new laptop a few months before Christmas I
:43.260 --> :48.360
decided to take my riding more seriously before
that time I'd only been writing poems and short
:48.360 --> :53.400
stories for my amusement but when I started my
freshman year of high school I started hanging
:53.400 --> :58.440
out with a new circle of friends we were talking
about a literature assignment one time during
:58.440 --> :03.540
lunch break and they were all complaining that it
was impossible to come up with a seven line poem
:03.540 --> :09.360
before the next class I told them that it was
pretty easy which they didn't believe after a
:09.360 --> :15.480
round of argument my friend Max decided to settle
it with a bet I was to make a poem with any topic
:15.480 --> :22.500
of their choice and if I could I won so I agreed
they gave me a title I really can't remember now
:22.500 --> :28.380
because it was so long ago but it sounded like
a 90s movie title and to their utmost surprise
:28.380 --> :34.740
I wrote them a poem and won the BET Max was really
surprised with how good I was with literature and
:34.740 --> :39.900
before the lunch break ended she made me write
another poem with a title love and all that's
:39.900 --> :45.840
lost during our walk back to class I explained
that fiction and literature creativity came
:45.840 --> :51.000
easy to me and I've written a bunch of stories
they had to beg till the end of the school day
:51.000 --> :56.940
before I agreed to bring my drafts the next day
when I did they were blown away by my work they
:56.940 --> :02.100
told me how amazing it was and how I was like a
younger Shakespeare I'm not the kind of person
:02.100 --> :06.780
that allows compliments and flattery to get to her
head but that was the first real compliment I've
:06.780 --> :12.420
ever gotten my friends in Middle School think
literature is dumb and I was dumb for liking
:12.420 --> :18.660
it my parents think I use vile words and that
I should tune it down a bit and my sister well
:18.660 --> :24.240
she didn't care much for literature but instead of
saying that or not saying anything at all she did
:24.240 --> :30.300
decided to tease me about it and call me a dumb
geek anyways I thanked my friends and while we
:30.300 --> :36.600
were having lunch Sophie asked me if I'd published
any books on Amazon or if I was working on any I
:36.600 --> :42.480
said no and explained that I only wrote when I was
bored and besides I didn't think people will get
:42.480 --> :48.540
in my writing style she told me to give it a try
and see how it was going to go after a moment I
:48.540 --> :54.240
said okay I wasn't really planning to do anything
at the time because the writing was hard and I was
:54.240 --> :59.700
just settling into high school and I had lots of
school work to do at least that was what I told
:59.700 --> :06.300
myself in truth I was only making excuses because
at the time I was sure that my friends were only
:06.300 --> :11.340
complimenting me to make me feel good about myself
I wasn't about to test that theory with a bunch of
:11.340 --> :18.120
strangers online a few weeks went by and then a
few more and one day Sophie asked me out of the
:18.120 --> :23.340
blue if I'd written anything new I told her that
I was still working on it I expected it to end
:23.340 --> :28.620
there but it didn't she asked me if she could see
the draft I was working on and had no choice but
:28.620 --> :34.680
to tell her that I hadn't started they both asked
me why and I wanted to blame it on school and how
:34.680 --> :40.440
much work I had to do but instead I told them the
truth I wasn't sure that I was that good a writer
:40.440 --> :46.560
and I didn't want to find out from internet trolls
they both nodded their understanding and after a
:46.560 --> :52.680
while they suggested that I try Wattpad with one
of my old drafts just to see what people thought I
:52.680 --> :58.680
said sure that same day I created an account and
uploaded my first story a few weeks went by and
:58.680 --> :03.960
I actually had a lot of reads and likes it was
very encouraging to see that other people aside
:03.960 --> :09.240
from my friends like my work that day I promised
my friends that I was going to start working on
:09.240 --> :15.300
something serious before that day I didn't have
a laptop all I had was my phone and I knew that
:15.300 --> :20.760 if I was going to be serious about riding I
needed to get one on my way home while Max and
:20.760 --> :27.780
Sophie were rambling on and on about who like to
which they thought was hot the only thing I had
:27.780 --> :33.660
in mind was how I was going to tell my parents to
get me a laptop Brie had a laptop but I was sure
:33.660 --> :38.520
that there was no way in heck that she was going
to let me borrow it so when I got home I waited
:38.520 --> :44.640
till dinner to tell them about my request before
I did I made sure to laugh at my dad's jokes and
:44.640 --> :50.700
compliment my mom's new hairstyle eventually I
popped the question and they instantly replied
:50.700 --> :56.100
with a question of their own what for I had to
explain how I love writing and why I thought it
:56.100 --> :01.740
was something worth exploring and I couldn't do
it without a laptop Bree snickered and laughed
:01.740 --> :08.280
all through as I explained but I paid her no heat
eventually they looked at themselves and probably
:08.280 --> :13.740
telepathically talked to themselves for a second
then they looked back at me and turned me down
:13.740 --> :18.840
they said that I was doing well in school and
riding was just going to be a distraction that
:18.840 --> :25.860
was absurd I wasn't just doing well in school I
was one of the top tier students in my class and
:25.860 --> :30.600
the writing was just going to help me get even
better I made my argument and they told me that
:30.600 --> :36.780
they didn't have enough money to buy me a laptop
at the time I got so pissed and I accused them of
:36.780 --> :42.840
not supporting my writing then stormed off to my
room I decided that night that I wasn't going to
:42.840 --> :48.900
rely on them if I wanted something I had to get
it myself so that next weekend I went around my
:48.900 --> :53.880
neighborhood and told people that I was starting
a new dog walking business I was going to help
:53.880 --> :59.580
them walk their dogs two times a week I got some
new customers immediately because I was charging
:59.580 --> :04.860
below the normal rate and I started the business
while it was kind of tough from the onset because
:04.860 --> :10.440
I didn't have a dog and I didn't know how to walk
them but I learned on the job another few weeks
:10.440 --> :15.720
went by and I calculated all the money I'd made
dog walking it wasn't enough for the MacBook I
:15.720 --> :22.080
wanted to buy my friends added some of their money
but still it wasn't enough it was December already
:22.080 --> :28.260
and because of the holidays I was in getting dog
walking gigs anymore I had totally given up on
:28.260 --> :34.380
the laptop when on Christmas morning my parents
woke me up to check out my presents I wasn't
:34.380 --> :39.780
really feeling like it but after a few minutes
of nudging I decided to go downstairs with them
:39.780 --> :47.100
they handed me my gift and I started to unwrap
it my sleepy eyes blinked open when I saw the
:47.100 --> :54.360
Apple logo and I could not contain my surprise my
mouth fell off its hinges and I looked at my gift
:54.360 --> :00.120
and then back to them they apologized for not
taking me seriously the first time and because
:00.120 --> :05.880
of how hard they saw me work they decided to get
me the laptop I thanked them and immediately went
:05.880 --> :12.000
to set it up a few moments after I'd uploaded
all my drafts to the laptop Brie barged into my
:12.000 --> :18.540
room eyeing my laptop with so much jealousy in
her eyes apparently she had asked our parents
:18.540 --> :25.320
to get her the new iPhone 14 but they told her to
get her grades up first but sir seriously I can't
:25.320 --> :31.020
see any reason why she would want the new iPhone
14 she got the 13 Pro maxed on more than a few
:31.020 --> :37.860
months ago after that day Brie who had always been
hostile to me decided to be even more hostile to
:37.860 --> :43.380
me she would bump into me on purpose and yell at
me for not watching where I was going she would
:43.380 --> :49.740
tease me for being a wannabe Nora Roberts it got
so bad to the extent that I started to doubt the
:49.740 --> :55.620
fact that she was truly my sister but all this
wasn't that bad compared to what she did next
:55.620 --> :01.080
it was a Saturday afternoon and I just finished
my first draft for the story I wanted to put up
:01.080 --> :07.020
on Amazon and I was planning to send it to Sophie
for review after I was done editing all the typos
:07.020 --> :13.800
out of the blue Breeze stormed into my room and
showed me her phone the screen was broken and she
:13.800 --> :19.500
accused me of breaking it before I could defend
myself she grabbed hold of my laptop and stormed
:19.500 --> :24.300
out of the room I told her to stop and that I had
nothing to do with her phone screen breaking she
:24.300 --> :29.700
said that she didn't believe me because in her
words I've had it out for her ever since I got
:29.700 --> :35.880
a new Macbook that didn't make sense at all and I
pointed it out to her what reason could I possibly
:35.880 --> :41.640 have to break her phone it just didn't sound
right but Bree wasn't listening she continued
:41.640 --> :48.600
to yell and gesticulate wildly when my laptop
slipped off of her hand over the balcony and
:48.600 --> :56.040
into the living room the floor was made with tile
and not carpet so it snapped into two on impact I
:56.040 --> :02.280
felt my heart break with the laptop as I watched
some of the keys fly off the board the only thing
:02.280 --> :08.340 I could think of at that moment was crap did
I save my work I turned debris and without a
:08.340 --> :14.700
thought I lunged for her trying to beat my anger
out of her the bout lasted for a few minutes till
:14.700 --> :19.980
Mom and Dad came out of their room to separate us
they grounded us both for fighting even though I
:19.980 --> :25.560
explained to them that she smashed my laptop they
couldn't take action because Brie he also accused
:25.560 --> :31.620
me of breaking her phone I knew in my heart that
Brie broke her phone by herself and she just used
:31.620 --> :37.620
it as an excuse to break my laptop but I couldn't
prove it the next Monday I got to school and
:37.620 --> :42.600
explained what happened to my friends they both
agreed that she was jealous about my new laptop
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and that was why she did what she did Sophie asked
me how I was planning to get back to writing and
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I told her that I was working on it I still had
some of the money I'd saved up for the laptop the
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year before and if I do a couple more dog walks
I was going to be fine after that was settled Max
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asked me how I was going to get my revenge till
that moment I wasn't really thinking about it
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but when she mentioned it the concept started to
get interesting I told her I didn't know because
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I wasn't planning anything but Max was the master
of all things pranks so she started to give me a
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list of options eventually she said something
about snakes that was one when I remembered a
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short story I wrote about someone finding snakes
in her bathtub Bree likes to take bubble baths on
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Saturday evenings and Max's brother ilian had a
pet snake it was perfect we all decided that we
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were going to have a sleepover that weekend at
my place and when she was distracted Sophie or
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Max will slip the snake into the bathtub giving
her the scare of her life that Saturday evening
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they arrived as planned Max was kind of pissed
off because she had to promise her brother her
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lunch money for the week just to take his snake
out for the night after dinner we headed up to
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the room pretending to do some normal slumber
party stuff we left the door open to see when
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Brie was gonna walk past to the toilet eventually
she did and we jumped into action we waited till
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she prepared the bath then Sophie barged into
the bathroom asking her if she had a makeup
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set we could use as expected Bree said no and
tried to send her away but Sophie was adamant
:24.480 --> :30.180 she begged and pleaded till it became really
annoying that Brie had no choice but to leave
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the bathroom to hand her a makeup set that bought
Max and me enough time to slip into the bathroom
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and dump the snake into the water Bree walked
back into the bathroom and we stood just outside
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the door to hear what was going to happen it took
close to three minutes before Brie realized that
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there was something in the water and when she did
she screamed at the top of her voice that it sent
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our parents running up the stairs and into the
bathroom their Brie was sitting in a corner of
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the bathroom knees curled to her stomach she was
shaking so violently that it became impossible
:07.380 --> :12.420 for me not to laugh we wanted to deny having
anything to do with the incident in the first
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place but the laughter gave us away I was grounded
for a month I have no regrets though seeing the
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look on Bree's face made it all worth it this was
definitely a crazy level of Revenge especially if
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op sister had like a severe phobia of snakes but
I couldn't help but feel concerned for the pet
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snake throughout this whole situation are they
even able to comfortably be in water they're
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in a bubble bath there's a bunch of chemicals
there too and also like what if Bree freaked
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out and was like thrashing around and smacked
and like crushed the snake or something was the
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snake Okay I need to know but with that being said
that's all the time we have for today now if you
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today we have a great Revenge story teaching somebody not to mess with the
poor kids we'll get into that in a bit but first final update to little sister
keeps calling me a parasitic leech enjoy the Amish lifestyle this is the final
update to the original and follow-up post background my sister and I live in
an anti-tech household I bought her a smartphone since our parents wouldn't I
moved out but had to move back in because of soaring rents my little
sister kept calling me a parasitic leech for doing so and in retaliation I took
back the smartphone which was under a payment plan in my name I was going to
give her back the phone a few weeks later but she yelled freaking what runt
right after I knocked on her door to give her back the smartphone I then
changed my mind and told her that I was going to give you back the smartphone
but it seems like you want to be left alone final update on Christmas morning
after my last standoff with my little sister where a smartphone had become a
pawn in our game of household politics I
noticed her demeanor had shifted she was less combative perhaps a sign of an
epiphany however I couldn't resist one final move for Christmas I bought my
sister a new Woolen beanie but I also dug up another old smartphone for my
drawer a phone with a shattered screen and very poor battery life I wrapped
them up in a parcel and left it underneath the Christmas tree her
initial excitement quickly fizzled as she seen the phone's condition later
that afternoon she confronted me not with anger but with a calm respect she
said she was grateful for the smartphone
despite its flaws and that she loved the beanie in light of all this I ordered
her a new battery for the smartphone old smartphones with replaceable batteries
for the win unfortunately for her though she'll have to deal with the cracked
screen until she saves up enough money for a new phone luckily she got a job at
her friend's pizza joint and can save up for it so I guess my question is what
happens of the original smartphone now because if op gave their sibling their
old cracked smartphone that means there's still the confiscated smartphone
right and now she has to work for a new one also hi I'm stevenh and if you guys
enjoy awesome stories of Revenge why not hit those like And subscribe buttons
down below that said our next story is Dad annoys me even after dead dad died
this Christmas me and my siblings cried a bunch had to deal with all the friends
and family that he helped while alive and at the end it was beautiful and
painful that said he had told us before that if if he died everything we would
need was on his safe quick flashback Circa of 7 years ago I lived with him
and contributed for a Kickstarter project to a male artistic nude magazine
I'm a gay boy I never got it even as they sent it to me twice and had the
documentation to show that I was sure my father picked it up and we fought a
bunch of times because of it while he said he never saw this package that
honestly I was sure he threw away back to the present that freaking jerk left
the magazine still wrapped up on the safe with all the other stuff that's
actually important I am so freaking ticked but at the same time can't help
but respect that move because that was petty as freak and honestly makes me
kind of proud just a bit still mostly ticked I really want to get my revenge
but he threw the punch and left we never had a really good relationship most of
the time we were on some personal War but I will miss this idiot a lot
thinking of going to pee on his grave later thanks for listening guys I don't
know if just never had a relationship similar to The One op had with their
father but the whole thing is striking me as unique I'll say our next story is
don't upset somebody who has a security camera Petty for me not Petty for the
idiot next door or the idiot wife although I live in a decent condo
Community every once in a while a bad apple Moves In in my case a decent
couple leased the condo next door then her sister the idiot wife and her
husband the idiot moved in which seemed tricky as it was a small two-bedroom
place eventually the original couple moves out leaving only the idiot and the
idiot's wife they had frequent discussions I would call them screaming
matches but once when I inquired if everything was okay I was told in no
uncertain terms that sometimes couples have discussions they are not arguments
fine good for them one morning I awoke to a discussion where the idiot's wife
screamed if you do ex I'll shoot you after reporting that to the landlord all
of this was reported to the landlord as it happened I stopped at Best Buy and
bought cameras to watch outside a while later their discussion started around
midnight Saturday night and continued until 4: to 4:30 a.m. the discussion
included a door being slammed or a fist slf foot going through a wall I couldn't
sleep so I went downstairs to watch TV the discussion made its way downstairs
to the kitchen where more car was heard on the video camera I saw the idiot
carry something to the dumpster looked like it could have been a microwave I
did manage to get a couple hours sleep before breakfast but then as I was
eating I heard a brewhaha outside checking the camera again I saw the
idiot and the idiot's wife yelling at a neighbor across the way at one point he
said it's not over you aren't safe your kids aren't safe threatening kids the
magic words the police showed up 5 minutes later the neighbor who the idiot
screamed at spoke to the police but when they knocked on the idiot and the idiot
wife's door the idiot's wife lied and said he wasn't there later that day I
was reviewing the footage from before the screaming match and saw that the
idiot had stormed out of his place went across the parking lot and pounded on
one door then went up to the neighbor he had screamed at she had been gardening
and had a l handled Spade in her hands when he approached her she was smart
rather than putting down the shovel she put it across her shoulder it looked
like some words were said and then he threw something at her she then chucked
the Spade at him fortunately it missed that's when he High tailed it back to
his side of the street and the screaming started now for Revenge after seeing he
did more than verbally threaten her I took a copy of the video and went to the
local police station the desk sergeant asked me what I saw and I described what
the video showed the sergeant stated that what I said matched with the victim
neighbor across the way said happened and after seeing the video said I think
the da can use this the police did indeed use the video to arrest and
prosecute the idiot for assault honestly I hope that this guy does get these
charges pressed against him I've heard about some horrible stories of neighbors
who fought and things going way too far our next story is take over my Pokémon
go gym I'll make sure you don't benefit from it I play Pokémon go when I go for
my morning walk now now for those of you who don't know about Pokémon go it's a
game where you walk around in real life catching Pokemon and battling in gyms in
the game each player belongs to a team blue red or yellow my main account is
blue but I have alt accounts in red and yellow once you defeat a gym you can put
your Pokemon in there to defend it and five other players from your team can
put Pokemon in there too for a maximum of six Pokémon defending the gym your
Pokemon earn coins while in the gym which you can spend in game your PO Pon
can only earn a maximum of 50 coins which you can get after 8 and 1/2 hours
one coin for every 10 minutes after that it doesn't matter 8 and 1/2 hours or 8
and 1/2 days you only get 50 coins and that is when your Pokemon is knocked out
of the gym I like to be nice so I generally only attack gyms where the
Pokemon have been there for more than 8 and 1/2 hours otherwise I leave it alone
so the other players can get the full amount of coins today I found a 10hour
old yellow gym I defeated it and put put my blue team Pokémon in there within a
minute it was being attacked I defended for a while but then gave up my Pokémon
was kicked out and a red team Pokemon was put in instead of attacking it I
waited other red team members came and put their Pokemon in I have nothing
against them once the gym was full I attacked and kicked out the jerks
Pokemon leaving the other five I switched to my ALT red account and
quickly put in my Pokemon filling the empty slot if the jerk wants this
Pokémon back back in there you'll have to kick out a red players Pokemon and
you cannot attack someone on your own team so basically this guy that they
were doing battle with got kicked out and replaced with somebody that they
literally cannot duke it out with I'll tell you what it's definitely Petty and
it's definitely a Revenge our next story
is don't want to be a decent father fine I'll be it I'm not sure if this is
totally Revenge but my sister has five kids in total one father isn't in the
picture for reasons I'm not willing to go into two the other two are Jack was
the one she was recently with and they have three kids together I like Jack at
first but as time went on I found him kind of obnoxious you know those guys
who act big and tough fake machismo BS if I was there I would have knocked him
out he'd be laid out flat words he's actually said to me I noticed he's kind
of a crap parent you've got to have patience and actually pay attention to
them the last year of their relationship was on the Rocks because of the
parenting my sister is the death definition of authoritative parenting
gentle but he just started doing less and less he let his anger get in control
of his emotions he's too harsh with the kids in particular his oldest who's on
the Spectrum he doesn't care how to learn to actually parent her to her
needs to make things worse he started calling my sister awful things during
fights and then during little spiffs or disagreements if it's coming out that
easily where is the love you claim to have my sister was worried she's
recreating the environment for her kids that we we grew up in I was of course
supportive of her leaving but I knew it was tough since she was pregnant with
their third well about a month and a half before she had her baby she uses
his phone to order food and a message pops up she finds out that he'd been
attempting to cheat on her with pretty much any woman he came across I think
the funniest thing she said out of all of this heartbreaking mess was the
embarrassment that he was actively trying to cheat and none of these women
or 18-year-old girls wanted him she kicked him out and good ridden I say the
other father of her older girl is also a mess Jon is a complicated person I've
given him a lot of Grace and I do hope he eventually becomes a better man dude
is extremely funny and I think there is a good person in there I know he's got
demons to deal with he's got to stop lying and step up to the dang plate I've
referred to the both of them as Disney dads they want the shiny good parts of
fatherhood without the hard work my sister bent over backwards to make this
Christmas happen honestly no thanks to either of them they were no shows for a
lot there were several days where Jack was supposed to watch his kids so my
sister could get shopping done and he just ghosted her I had to come over
after work to watch them for at least a year my sister's been telling them that
the kids need bunk beds badly they'll look and then nothing happens they'll
say they're buying them nothing shows up I'm over it and I'm ticked you say
you're buying a TV my sister has already told you the kids don't need oh you're
getting nce an iPad okay they want to buy the Big Shiny gifts that get those
big beautiful sweet Smiles so for a mochrum of a second you don't actually
feel the weight of how freaking terrible of a father you are hm okay the last
present those babies opened were new twin-sized blankets for me and my honey
soft comfy and had a nice decent weight to them they were excited for the new
blankets and wanted them opened immediately I told them I'm glad they
love the new blankets because they're going to go great with the bunk beds
uncle and I are buying you Q absolutely Mania and excitement the faces on Jack
and John were worth it just Frozen in a what the look I hope they felt like crap
because I know it's something my sister has talked about asked for repeatedly
and honestly the kids were and are so excited about the beds they could have
had this they could feel like The Men Who provide like they tell my sister
they want to be I feel blessed that I'm in a more stable environment and career
where I can do this now she still getting on her feet but my sister is
kicking butt and I love her Merry Christmas sweetie 100% it's sad that op
is stepping up and being more of a father figure to these kids than their
actual fathers are but I imagine it does feel pretty good and rewarding for op
and seeing the kids so darn excited I'm sure that's great our next story is it's
the little things bully neighbor I lived in the upstairs unit of a two condo
converted house nearly 20 years ago had a a great neighbor below me but then she
moved out and a horrible man moved in the first thing he did was leave a note
that the garbage can I just moved back from the street was his and claimed that
he had moved it I ignored it because what the freak but his anger increased
with another note saying I'd better not use his garbage can and to move the
other one back now he put the note on his trash can and moved it to the middle
of the walkway so I couldn't miss it I did what he wanted because I was pretty
unnerved by that point and thought it would end the bizarre exchange no such
luck it happened again but then he was yelling in my face instead of leaving
notes he was a big guy and scared me enough to give in after that I went to
stay with my boyfriend for a while before I left I decided on some petty
Revenge I set my alarm for 4:00 a.m. turned the volume all the way up and set
it on the floor of my bedroom it was an old radio alarm that stayed on for an
hour after the set time I wasn't sure if he'd be able to hear it since I'd never
heard either neighbor I wasn't even sure if his bedroom was below mine to be
honest I figured it probably wasn't going to work and forgot about it a few
months until my boyfriend and I decided to make the move permanent I went over
there to start packing and found his outraged voice messages he didn't know
my phone number so he had to contact the
owner there were no messages a few weeks prior so it took that long for him to
get my number he must have pounded on my door many many times before the owner
finally gave him my number she only had my landline so he had to wait until I
was there to get the messages although it would be nice to know in real time
that you were actually annoying this guy
and upsetting them it is kind of cool to like go back to this place and find out
you've been actually for a month or even multiple months been enacting this
revenge for quite some time without even you being truly aware if it working our
next story is don't let my fiance sleep then you don't get to sleep either so my
fiance 25-year-old male and his mom who will call Jolene 61-year-old female are
on different schedules for work my fiance Works 10-hour shifts 5 days a
week from 3:00 p.m. to 1:00 a.m. sometimes even later and Jolene works
part-time 2 days a week from 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. because she recently had a
knee replacement so my fiance always seems to get woken up by her at 7:00
a.m. in the morning because she wants to see him and let him know what's
happening that day and is just loud in general in the morning and completely
disregards the fact that he probably didn't get home until 2:00 a.m. so in
return whenever my fiance comes home at 2:00 a.m. he goes into her room to wake
her up and tell her all about his day and work and bother her and just be a
nuisance to her and interrupt her sleep like she does to him she still hasn't
caught on yet to what we're doing so there might be a part two of the result
of us stepping it up a notch and what happens the worst part is op finding out
that their attempted Revenge doesn't work at all that in some twist of fate
they actually enjoy getting their sleep interrupted and getting this drop in
from op's fiance are you prepared for that reality our next story is don't
like my rapping fine then no one gets Bose this year my 30-year-old female
husband 35 had four sisters three older and one younger though I don't know
exact ages we don't have children but we
do have nearly 10 nieces and nephews all ranging in ages from infant to high
schooler since we don't have kids we try and spoil our nieces and nephews and we
can for birthdays and Christmas while keeping things equal so no one feels
left out for instance this year we spent
a little over $50 a kid and they all got two presents except the high schooler
who we spoiled a little more since she's older I wrap all my presents in candy
cane wrapping paper if I can so that everyone knows who it's from at a glance
but the other things I use for wrapping like bows and labels are arbitrary the
kids are going to rip the presents open and barely look at the bows and labels
so why should I care which I use as long
as the wrapping looks presentable I also tend to buy bulk when I buy wrapping
supplies so that I don't have to buy more bows and paper every single year
yes this matters last year I was low on bows so I bought a couple of bags from
Costco when I got my paper the Costco bows were apparently better and prettier
than the ones I already had which were from Dollar Tree the only reason I know
this is because last year I overheard two of my sister-in-laws complaining
that I Ed the good bows on these other sisters kids and not theirs as if my bow
and label choices showed favoritism they
even gave me the cold shoulder the night
after presents were opened I was annoyed
at this because of how much we spoil our
nieces and nephews I would understand if
we spent more on one kid than another or if one kid got more presents than
another but that's not what happened we made sure everyone was equal and even
got them gifts too $50 gift cards even though they didn't get get us anything I
don't expect gifts from them or anything
but it just seemed incredibly ungrateful to me and a stupid thing to get upset
about even my husband agreed that they were being ridiculous so this year I'm
being petty I wrapped all the presents went out of my way to use the same size
labels for all the kids and no one got bows my husband thinks this is hilarious
I warned my mother-in-law of my pettiness and she promised to let me
know if she heard anyone complain she also thinks this is hilarious I'm
excited to see how things unfold or shall I say unwrap tomorrow evening
happy holidays everyone may all of your days be chill and your revenge be Petty
update presents have not been unwrapped yet but the aftermath is already there I
didn't expect to have an update at all so here we go so apparently one of my
younger nephews who might have some form
of autism was sad that he didn't get any
bows you knew they were my presents from the candy cane paper and asked me where
my my bows were apparently I usually give him two bows I've literally never
noticed that I do this like I said stuff is arbitrary to me and he asked why he
didn't get any bows this year I played it off and told him that I forgot to buy
bows till too late this year and assured him that next year he'll get five bows
to make up for it he was happy with this but I noticed my sister-in-law's
exchange looks my mother-in-law asked what we should tell them if they say
something and I told her to explain that I didn't want anyone feeling like I was
favoring anyone unsure if any other nieces and nephews will say anything as
not all of them have arrived so we'll see update two with presents opened and
dinner cooking I bring you all the Epic conclusion for one my mother-in-law told
my sister-in-laws why no one got bows and while they didn't say anything to me
they have had a look all day of children scolded by their mama however I have
found the cause of all of this well other than an old sibling rivalry
causing the sister-in-laws to live vicariously through their kids
essentially they took me not giving good bows to their kids personally but the
real cause of all of this is that apparently for the past few years among
all the kids they've had a little contest of who gets the most bows I
don't know what the winner got but they took this very seriously according to
the high schooler apparently last year the sister-in-laws heard the kids
talking about bows and that's how the whole good and Bad Bow drama started the
kids were having the contest not the adults it also turns out that my
arbitrary rapping practices were usually the tiebreaker among them I told the
kids that next year I will roll a dice to determine who gets how many bows and
that I won't forget again all's well that ends well and I hope you guys all
have a great day it's so sad to hear that this in thing that kids are doing
amongst themselves that's actually harmless and kind of wholesome turns
into this whole like greater thing where they take it as some kind of perceived
slight sorry the bows weren't pretty enough for you Karen our next story is
steal my parking spot okay I forgot how much I hate being back in the Philly
Mainline but yeah drove to an REI to get some final gifts for people parking lot
is a riot I drive around in circles for 5 minutes till I see a couple walking
out I follow them put on the blinkers and wait for them to pull out just as
they finish pulling out a woman driving a range Rover flies into the spot from
the other direction she saw me waiting when she slowed down at the end of the
aisle I'm facing towards that end she was surveying the situation and quickly
turned into snag it she sped in so fast that she wasn't able to swing wide and
make it into the spot on the first try she stops to put it in reverse and I
toot the horn she ignores me I lay on the horn she looks at me with a smirk
and then gives the what angry scowl shrug like the
meme fine now she's terrible at driving and fails to give herself room to exit
on this record attempt and I see this accelerate till I'm behind her she's
blocked and honks I wait a while for the next persons to get to their car she's
laying on the horn I can make eye contact with her in the rear view I
smirk after they pull out and I park she pulls out a last time corrects it and
finally parks and gets out while I'm walking past she yells something at me I
look at her smirk and give the what angry f shrug wished her happy holidays
and saluted I'm sorry ma'am I don't understand what you're being so
belligerent about honestly nothing can ruin my day I hope yours gets better our
next story is don't mess with the poor kids not my story but my brothers still
one of the reasons I look up to him to this day picture it the early 80s in a
less than small rural farming Community like a One-Stop light Town situation the
better well off ran everything from the businesses to the school schools we were
not exactly rich and were treated as such I had five siblings and the
teachers in the schools treated us like crap our parents were neither rich nor
popular my brother was the oldest and he had a particular High School teacher
that lived to give my brother crap to the point that every day in school my
brother was instructed to take the teacher's cup and go fetch him some cold
water the teacher always made a big show
about making my brother do it little did he know that my brother was more than
happy to get him his fresh cold water every every day from the bathroom toilet
that jerk drank toilet water all the way through my brother's Junior and Senior
year I still smile when I think about it well that's certainly pretty groy to
hear about the only thing that could make it any better though was like
letting them know at like graduation day or something at some point where it's
too far gone to ever even be an issue this next story is Big Brother learned
not to mess with me for a little while at least I grew up on a farm with my
brother and sister when I was about 5 years old my brother was 12 I had a doll
named Mimi and she was everything to me my brother decided it would be hilarious
to bury her somewhere on the farm while following me around looking at his watch
saying things like you better hurry she doesn't have much air left she's been
buried for 4 minutes she's going to die I finally found her in a hole under a
pile of rocks I was crying he was laughing I started planning he went to
visit my aunt and uncle with my dad for the rest of the afternoon I went outside
he had gotten an ATV four-wheeler that was his pride and joy I took a 5 gallon
bucket and load by load I took buckets of dirt over and I buried it I didn't
say a word to anyone we went to bed that night got up in the morning and we were
going into town that's when he saw it the mound of dirt next to the back porch
where his four-wheeler used to be he sucked a breath to start yelling at me
my dad who knew what he'd done to M me Whirled around in the driver's seat and
pointed at him saying don't you dare say one word I've been a mama bear since I
was a toddler I can't lie I mean even if they saw eye for an eye in this
situation considering it's an ATV that surely did not cost them an
insignificant amount of money I'm surprised they let op get away with it
to that degree our next story is if you won't eat the meal you don't deserve the
dessert background my roommate is a really good cook I grew up on a super
bland food so it really doesn't take much to impress me and they make fun of
me for it often I'm super lazy and before they moved in ate mostly stuff I
could microwave because I'm too lazy to cook and I have serious issues with
doing dishes they used to cook two to three times a week sometimes more
sometimes less they've been here about 9 months and I've actually cooked a meal
about five times they had some of my first meal and didn't even try any of
them after that even though each one was completely different from the last I've
made baked goods a handful of times and they usually eat a large portion of that
I like to make Cornish hens for Christmas dinner been doing it on and
off for about 10 years I've gotten pretty good before I even got the stuff
I asked if they would eat it they said maybe they might not even be here for
Christmas today I told them to tell me if they were heading to be hungry in the
afternoon so I could start earlier they said they are always hungry which is
kind of true jerk is almost always eating when they should be as big as a
house but aren't about halfway through cooking they came in for a snack and ate
some chips I said it's only about 20 more minutes are you going to eat it
they got an attitude and said yes and that they're definitely going to have
some of the cobbler I'd made earlier in the day literally 5 minutes before it's
ready they come in and start toasting bread and butter I'm like dude it's
going to be ready in 5 minutes do you plan on eating this because if not I can
invite another friend over they got an even bigger attitude all freak yes I'm
going to eat chill out M I'm like all right everything gets done I played up
my portion knock on their door to let them know it's finished I was already
out of the kitchen but heard them plating up and then go back to their
room when I get done I go back to the kitchen and this freaker had taken one
cornish hen leg not enough green beans for me to notice any difference and not
enough roasted red potatoes for there to really be any difference in what I left
either I was ticked they took just enough so that they didn't lie about
saying they were going to eat it but didn't actually eat it if they had just
said that they weren't going to eat from the beginning I could have had someone
else come and enjoy it with me because I know they have a history of not eating
my cooking only my baked goods so knowing they were going to come looking
for the cober I hide that crap we have a beverage fridge in the garage there
aren't and haven't been any drinks in it
a few weeks and they don't really go out there now that it's cold so I stuck the
whole dish in there sure enough about 30 to 4 5 minutes later they come out to
the kitchen I hear them clean their plate and then start opening stuff
looking for the cobbler they were all man is all the cobbler gone I said you
didn't eat the meal you don't deserve the dessert they were expectedly ticked
saying that was ridiculous I told them if they had just said they weren't going
to eat it so I could invite someone over it wouldn't have been an issue and
they've been in their room throwing a fit since I'll eat the cobbler and the
leftovers for the next few days while I fully expect them to be a vindictive
butt for at least 2 days but it felt amazing taking away that from them when
they couldn't be a decent human being for once I mean to be fair if they're
signing up and saying yes I'm going to eat this vood and you labor over it and
you try to make as best as you can and then they have like one very very small
section or a bite of it you're going to feel pretty slided right and then the
fact that they're going to just try to dive into the dessert you made like just
trying to ignore the fact that they tiptoed completely around the actual
food you labored the most over but with that being said that's all the time we
have for today now if you want to hear another awesome Revenge story check out
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AIT for telling my husband if I knew that before I wouldn't marry you me and
husband we've been together for 4 years now his family is great but after a year
dating we moved in together and I started noticing that his dad was always
calling him four or five times a day which I didn't mind but it was odd my
husband was getting frustrated all time his dad called husband explained that he
always felt bad saying no to them or not answering his calls BTW they have an
older son that never answered the phone when called because of the same reason I
told him that there is ways to say no or to tell him not call when he was busy
without being rude so he did and everything everything was fine for a
period I started noticing that on Mother's Day he would only take meal to
eat with his dad without me been included which I'd find odd cause I was
a mom to and where I come from PR we celebrate all the mothers in general but
I didn't think to much of it I really thought it was more cultural thing for
him EU so a year ago I got pregnant and after the baby was born his parents
started to showing up often which I didn't mind cause I thought they had
baby fever I was wrong the Phil just wanted to come by since they don't go
anywhere in his family don't invite them
much to places cause the sir talks a lot since the baby arrival husband had to
change schle to help me more since I work from home while I take care of the
baby and the household stuff now when my husband have his days off Phil what him
to work on his cars or to do other personal stuff with husband which for
some reason he doesn't understand that his son is married and have other
priority now which wife mil is always apologizing to me because of it but
husband dosen say no either so Phil doesn't care much a few weeks ago their
car broke down and he went to rescue them while I was working around
a.m. mind you it was one of his days off it was almost 9:00 p.m. and when I text
him and asked him if he was working on their car he said no that that they were
waiting for the tow truck which I asked why he was still there he replied back
saying cause I'm making sure my mom is safe which I get but she was not alone F
was there and there were no real reason for him to be there and not be with his
baby and wife yesterday we were laying down in bed and when I was watching a
video that he was listened to and it was saying that wife should comes first and
he said no it's the mother who comes first which I looked at him and told him
well if that is your mindset you shouldn't have married in the first
place and you should have stayed with your mom as I attempted to explain to
him why once you were married your new family should always come first which
reply saying that's the women perspective and not everyone think like
that which I reply back if I knew that was your perspective I wouldn't married
you he got upset and he stopped talking to me AIT t | give me a good story on AITAfortellingmyhusbandifiknewthatbeforeiwouldntmarryyouorig |
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who is your coworker from hell I have a coworker right now that is his own
special blend of hell for the record I work in sales at a warehouse here's a
list of some of his finer qualities when the phone rings he will literally put
his hand on the receiver stare at the caller ID then look around the room to
see if anyone else will answer it before he does doesn't matter how busy we are
he does this with every single call if a customer walks in the door he tries to
hide behind his monitor even though his desk is the first one you see as you
walk through the door so let's say he does engage the customer who walked in
okay so now he wants to answer all the phone calls that come in while he's
supposed to be helping the guy who is literally standing directly in front of
him if it's not a big order he doesn't care you ordered one thing that cost
what $15 he just forgets about it then when the customer calls back to complain
he just acts like he never talked to them oh and did I forget that he won't
even look the product up himself he makes the customer find the part number
they think they need because he's too freaking lazy to look it up on his own
also that other customer called and talked to you when you offered him
product X for $200 when that customer calls back if he gets the call he will
offer them the same product for $190 just so he can steal the sale from
you and he constantly eats candy chips Cupcakes Cookies tacos Pop-Tarts chili
you name it this wouldn't normally be too bad except when he eats he just
doesn't work this also has a separate side effect he's heavy but it's all
upper body weight which means when he walks he has to constantly hold his
pants up with his hand can't really help move stuff in the warehouse or put
things away when you're constantly holding your pants up can you he is
somehow completely computer illiterate even though he sits in front of the damn
thing for 10 hours a day he actively refuses to learn new things or
organization tactics for using the computer an example a customer calls up
and asks for a copy of an invoice in our program you can generate a PDF copy to
email directly to the customer without ever getting up nope he's old school he
prints the invoice walks across the room puts it in the scanner scans it saves
the scan copy as a PDF then emails it to the customer a process that should take
30 seconds now takes him 10 minutes especially because he's too freaking
lazy to get up and walk to the printer more than once an hour or so and don't
even get me started on email the last time I looked he had over 29,000 unread
emails you want to make sure he never sees something just email it to him
unless it's an incoming order then he Snipes that stuff right away he has
exactly one admin responsibility to enter in tracking numbers after products
have been shipped if you keep on it once a day it takes maybe 10 minutes but not
for him it takes him at least 30 to 45 minutes and God forbid he misses a day
or two then it takes at least 2 hours for him to get them done if no one has
got pissed off and done them for him at that point because they're just tired of
waiting he leaves handwritten notes for you to call customers back but his
handwriting is so bad you can't even read what he wrote he writes down
account numbers that end up looking like line noise for some reason when there's
just a two of us in the office he thinks that's the right time to make a long
personal call about a hospital bill or a
call to his bank or checking on Parts he
ordered online so I end up doing all the
work so he can haggle about getting a $2 late fee removed from an account and he
won't actually ask for people to do things hypothetical instead of turning
on a light switch or asking someone to turn on a light switch he would just sit
there and say man kind of dark in here wish someone could get that light then
he just stares at everyone else waiting for them to turn on the light if there's
a problem he won't do anything about it do you need a return or exchange sorry
he doesn't care something defective don't call him you'll never get an
answer much less a replacement part and I dread going to work every day just
because I don't want to clean up after his BS messes he leaves for customers
every day totally I get that this guy's coworker is easily easily the worst
coworker from Hell first story great but even with all of his flaws all I'm
thinking right now is hold on you expect
a guy to work while eating then again if he is just snacking on like a Pop-Tart
or something yeah I feel you he could at least keep one hand going on a keyboard
right popped hardart in the other story two I worked in restaurants for years
which came with a the whole slew of crazy interesting characters but one of
the worst and that actually affected me the most was a guy at an office job I
had a few years back the biggest thing was that he was a compulsive liar he
also made inappropriate comments to myself and other women on our team but I
could honestly deal with that it was the constant outright bold-faced bald-faced
lies he told literally every time he spoke he would call out all the time
with various ailments one time his earlobe was a little swollen so he
called out he also claimed that he didn't drink or do substances but he
would go out with his friends to bars every night and very clearly get
hammered he often called out because he was hung over but of course he wouldn't
admit that not even sure why he lied about not drinking in the first place he
made up random stuff like that all the time and called out sick and when our
boss finally called him on calling out sick so often he made up new reasons my
favorite was when he said that he couldn't come to work because his car
got stolen okay may be fair but this is the story he told he left work the night
before let's say it was Tuesday he left a little late so a lot of us were
already gone but not everyone and most of the bosses were still in the building
so he gets to the parking lot and his car is gone stolen that alone is Shady
AF because we were on a main road in a business district with cameras on most
of the buildings he could have been parked out of view of the cameras but
still there are Office Buildings coffee shops and roads all around and he's
claiming someone stole his random mid-range car in the middle of the day
during the winter in Alaska like really but okay let's say that did happen what
he claims he did next is the more insane
ridiculous part so then he claims he got
outside and was certain his car had been stolen right and if I were him I would
have gone back into the building and called the cops and then told our
manager what was going on to see if she could pull the security tapes if for
some godforsaken reason I absolutely could not or would not go back inside or
call the cops I would have called a cab an Uber oryt or even a friend to come
get me but this guy he did none of these things he says that when he got outside
and saw that his car was stolen he simply walked home in a blizzard in
Alaska in January meaning it was also completely dark outside by that time of
day in his work suit and shoes with no coat besides his Blazer he didn't call
the police he didn't go back into the building and tell someone or even call a
ride nope he just walked several miles back to his apartment anyway that's just
one example this dude did this kind of stuff like constantly I ended up
quitting before they finally Ed him but a couple of weeks after I left he
finally got fired because he called in sick when he had already been out more
than double the two weeks of sick leave he got and then someone showed the boss
a Snapchat story of him partying the night before not a private story or a
snap sent personally to the other employee just on his public snap forever
everyone else to see Story three worked in a metal shop at the time A guy got
hired because he grew up with our building manager and our manager was
this nice guy and gave an old buddy who fell into the substance life when they
were young a chance to turn his life around let's go ahead and call him Jimmy
Jimmy was the result of spending 10 years doing Petty crimes and hard
substances Jimmy had two forms lazy and baked as hell he was on Parole and had
to check in with his PO every two weeks the first day he worked there he was
baked Jimmy was for all of his faults a pretty funny guy he said a lot of funny
messed up stuff but it was also sad because you could always tell he was
freaking baked we did a lot of hand form on Parts including hammering them and
his first day I witnessed a baked as hell Jimmy hit his hand or fingers
thankfully because he was baked it didn't seem to hurt that bad or as Jimmy
said I can't feel pain much I'm an alpha male a few weeks later Jimmy went to
jail for four weeks because his PL went to check on him and he wasn't there he
also failed his UA which was what sent him to jail he came back as our building
manager gave him one last chance well Jimmy's Antics and lack of talent in
hand form pissed off our lead who got him transferred to the loading dock I
remember when Jimmy told us he was getting promoted I thought holy crap
they're putting him on a forklift Jimmy was clumsy baked or sober so this wasn't
a good idea but he wanted to do it and the building manager said if he passed a
SE test he could Jimmy did his forklift SE test and much to everyone's surprise
he passed I remember the first time seeing him on a forklift and thanking
God that I worked on the opposite side of the building a small crowd actually
watched him the first day I saw him almost drop his load multiple times and
almost take down an entire shelf of sheet metal Jimmy's new co-workers they
didn't like him mostly Russian dudes one of them went off on Jimmy and Russian
one time then walked off shaking his head and throwing his arms around Jimmy
asked me you think he's pissed I said don't know I don't speak Russian Jimmy
had a lot of strange work habits he was always complaining about joint pain
probably because he was actually trying to stay clean and he would grind up and
put them in his coffee he also drank about 6 to 10 cups of coffee per day as
far as I could tell Jimmy also had a three-year-old daughter and her mom and
him were very much on and off again at this point about 4 months of working
there Jimmy was pretty much hated by everyone he liked me a lot because I
never called him on his BS I was able to find entertainment in Jimmy because I
wasn't his boss so he wasn't my problem to his credit despite substances making
him a legitimate at this point Jimmy seemed to be working pretty hard
probably to distract himself from wanting substances and maybe wanting to
see his daughter again well eventually one day we all heard Jimmy had a UA from
his PO come up and he once again did not pass building manager let him go and he
went to jail he told me he felt bad for him because he saw him get into that
life young he said he want wanted to give him a chance to turn his life
around but felt like a dummy I told him what he did for Jimmy was actually
really cool and it's a shame that he squandered the opportunity given to him
and it's not his fault that he did all Jimmy had to do was not do substances
well wow yeah that's actually really sad I hope Jimmy is doing better now on a
lighter note if not for his daughter so please also remember to hit that like
button and subscribe to my channel so you don't miss out on any of my other
upcoming videos but let's go ahead and stick to this one here's Story 4 I teach
culinary arts aside from this year which
has been virtual and out of the ordinary I largely enjoy what I do I'm also
autistic and I'm able to function because my kitchen and the adjoining
classroom are highly structured a few years ago our building Administration
hired a special ed teacher who had a PhD she was supposed to be some sort of
autism specialist when she found out that I was on the Spectrum she insisted
upon meeting me when she found out that I'm a recluse when I'm not at work she
told me that this wasn't acceptable she then forced me to borrow a children's
book on social guidelines I.E how to start conversations how to make friends
Etc since she wouldn't take no for an answer I took the book and shoved it
into a desk drawer she then subsequently
began dropping by after school to loudly demand that I feed her snacks come on I
know you got to have something stashed away Chef's always have food stashed
away so what do you have I admitted to stocking some ice cream pastries and
cookies since I was raised to be hospitable I offered her a snack but one snack
wouldn't be enough her husband who was retired was on campus and he needed a
snack she also wanted a snack for her Aid she took half a dozen cookies and
three ice creams and left without so much of a thank you and this happened
day after day after day she took and she took and she took she never thanked me
and she never offered to reimburse me so one day she popped her head into my
kitchen I'm not getting a snack from you today she announced Ed my husband just
bought Burgers from Carl's junr and sure enough she had a burger fries and a
shake did she even think to give me anything for weeks of mooch snacks of
course not I decided then and there to cut her off on the following day when
she popped into the kitchen loudly saying okay what do you got I looked at
her and said for you nothing I'm having some homemade glazed Berry Tarts that I
drizzled with a white chocolate ganache her eyes lit up I love glazed Berry
tards with a chocolate ganache no I said holding the plate away from her these
are mine she stared at me but you have a
whole plate and I'm going to share these with some friends but I'm your friend I
shook my head she left in a huff and never talked to me again at the end of
the year she transferred to another school with the principal's blessing she
had apparently not been getting along with her special ed colleagues because
she was a hoyy toyy PhD and none of her peers had anything more than a master's
even though she wasn't the department chair she somehow thought that her
education credentials had made her the head of her Department which just wasn't
true story five she didn't actually work at my store's location she was supposed
to be at another location training to be a manager there but her predecessor was
still working at said location and the upper management and boss didn't want
too many people working there at once so she had to work at my store's location
instead and as soon as she started she had a problem with me I don't know why
I'll never understand why I suspect my RBF had something do with it she
essentially bullied me from the GetGo and when I told my manager about it she
claimed nothing could be done since the rule lady wasn't officially under my
manager so one day the witch started bumping into me and saying you have a
problem with me Let's Take It Outside Etc I was half her size I've never
fought in my life outside of sibling squabbles and I have terrible social
anxiety so I went to the bathroom called
myo to come pick me up grabbed my things and walked out on my shift I didn't say
a word to anyone and left her there alone during lunch rush I later learned
from my friend who was also working there that my manager didn't blame me
and officially like on the paper she said I left for personal reasons she was
a nice woman and I don't blame her for not being able to do anything upper
management at this chain was very irresponsible and didn't seem to care
about that store location whatsoever checks came in late almost every week we
weren't allowed to have more than two people working in the store at a time
and didn't always have enough budget to order food or supplies Etc I'm never
working for that man's chain again I may work for the same store but I'm not
going to work if it's one of the locations that jerk owns story six he
was in his 50s had often uncontrolled diabetes and was 6'4 in tall I was 24
and a foot shorter normally he was a teddy bear but when his blood sugar got
low he would get aggressive he tried throwing punches at me for suggesting he
get a Coke from the vending machine in the hall good thing he's slow and clumsy
in that state when we were in the truck together once and it started making a
weird sound I wanted to take it into the shop and he insisted we didn't need to
by yelling at me and pounding his fists on the dash but we were going to a
remote area and I didn't want to have to try and find help if the truck broke
down and the radio didn't work I had a call search and rescue on him once
because he didn't come back to the truck after doing a transact biology job and
you guessed it he had low blood sugar and was not able to find his way back to
the truck he had no education or experience in biology but he just
couldn't be fired from his job driving a plow with his propensity to let himself
get hypoglycemic he couldn't drive either so they shuffled him to the
wildlife department because he had an interest in Wildlife I was basically his
babysitter story seven I briefly had a cooworker at my current job at a local
grocery store let's just go ahead and call him Fred Fred is one of those
people who's always talking on his phone in the breakroom and that's my personal
pet peeve at work more often than not he's usually arguing with his girlfriend
and he does doesn't seem to care that anyone's listening he do other annoying
gross things like chewing with his mouth
wide open or wiping his boogers all over the place but then there was one day
when he tried to flush a Hot Pocket down the toilet needless to say that it
didn't play out so well and that temporarily put an end to our closest
employee restroom right by the break room he surprisingly didn't get fired
over that but he did get fired when one of his old high school teachers came in
shopping and he threw a whole sack of potatoes at her she was an elderly woman
who got seriously injured and both the ambulance and the cops had to get
involved I never did hear about what happened to his old teacher but Fred on
the other hand is currently in jail for not only charging his teacher but he
apparently also attacked his lawyers for reasons unknown that's Fred story eight
former supervisor a bully gossip and allaround horrible person that picked
one or two people to be her punching bag my introduction to her was when I was
sitting at lunch and she came barreling at one of my co-workers and proceeded to
literally scream and curse in his face in the break area she also had a habit
of gossiping in the warehouse office and full hearing of other people which made
me uncomfortable it's one thing when a coworker gossips to another but it's an
entirely different thing when a supervisor gossips about those under
them to others I actually casually mentioned to a different supervisor that
it made me uneasy to be in the office while all of this was going on and she
got wind of it she then decided to make me her Target so over the span of 6
months she bullied me and behaved in some really disrespectful ways she
gossiped about me how did I found out she started doing it in front of me she
also gave me a very unflattering nickname I found out when she blurted it
out one time when I came into the office after being paged she was passive
aggressive towards me in all respects growled at me in the lady's locker room
put papers to cover her face so I couldn't look at her side or scoffed
when I tried to engage and conversation with other people not her ignored me or
outright walked away when I needed a supervisor override she told me I needed
to quote unquote step it up with my work I was the second most productive with
the second lowest fault rate of my department to give you an idea on a
typical day first would do around 25 jobs I would do around 23 the other five
people averaged 15 jobs a piece I finally had a breakdown after she
started doing it in front of other supervisors and the manager this was a
week after I told the manager again about her behavior nothing was being
done about it I was ready to just walk off the job and had a breakdown someone
told the manager's boss that I was having a breakdown and she called me
directly to find out what was going on I
was walked through an official HR report that went to the front office she was
given one last chance I told them she wouldn't last a month 3 weeks later she
had a screaming match with another employee and was suspended and
subsequently fired I later found out she was directly responsible for three
people quitting and one person getting fired because they couldn't take it
anymore and threw gloves at her all right so well if you like these stories
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today we've got an entitled parent on an airplane we'll get into that in a bit
but first found my father after 20 years I end up regretting it not sure if this
goes here but how to get this off my chest somewhere I 27 year old female
haven't seen my father in 20 years thanks to my mother she left him and
took me with her to the other end of the country during the divorce she spread
lies about him hurting me and having Kitty stuff on his computer she lied to
everyone that would listen in the end she got full custody and you never saw
me again I believed your lies and my mind created false memories based off
those lies all the while she was spreading lies she was beating and
belittling me behind closed doors thanks to years of therapy I can more or less
separate the real from the fake once I learned that he never actually hurt me I
went looking for him today I found him on Facebook he's remarried and seemingly
happy I scrolled through his page learning about the man that taught me to
swim golf play soccer and take me out for root beer floats after school I
regretted almost immediately when his first post was about how anyone who
celebrates Juneteenth should be eradicated in order to keep America
racially pure another post was him praising those who were at the January
6th Insurrection and how he wished he'd been there the last post I looked at was
him holding a shotgun he labeled the effler killer with the caption I'm doing
God's will I didn't scroll any further than that I feel disgusted that I come
from not one but two nut jobs if I had grown up with both of them I might have
ended up believing in the same stuff as them I can't imagine being so full of
hate and disgust just because someone is different than you in the end I've
decided to not make contact I'm not going to risk bringing that kind of
toxicity into my family's lives besides if he had really cared about me he would
have sought me out long before I went looking for him I think most people can
agree that the level of stuff that they're putting out there is on a level
that you feel like you just cannot even begin to approach having a relationship
with them at least I wouldn't I mean I feel so far away from their views it's
crazy this next story is entitled parent tries to steal seat because you guys
aren't even talking and then she complains we're faking a disability
hello there ladies and gentlemen this wonderful story occurred last Sunday and
I've been ruminating on posting it so a bit of backstory I 14 year old male have
ADHD which causes me to have an awful stutter and my friend 14 year old male
has autism and normally wears noise canceling headphones slash earphones as
the noise and light can send them into a meltdown because of this we tend to
communicate in BSL as I don't stutter and he can be in perfect silence I also
was in a very dark space a few years ago
and I regularly go to the gym and go for runs as it gives me time to think
because of this I'm pretty Hench anyway news backstories out of the way my
friend and I were strolling Along on one of our usual paths that has some really
nice views and minimal cars about halfway into the walk there's a Pub bar
for you Yanks and because the British heat is ridiculous we decided that we
would go in and get a lemonade or a shandy depending on how lucky we were
the whole time communicating in Sign Language after we took our seats the
last seats under the covered area outside a woman who I think I'll call
Karen walked up to us with a little kid in tow she loudly boomed in her stuck up
voice um boys I think you'll find that those
are my seats see I know the pub owner so you best move besides you weren't even
talking anyway just take your drink to go now ladies and gentlemen let me tell
you something we also knew the owner because the owner is my friends the one
who's with me now dad I then managed to string together a comprehensible set of
words um we were talking we were just using
sign language then the Karen said oh so you're faking a disability God what is
wrong with your generation seemingly forgetting her brat behind her who's
tugging on her hand throwing a hissy fit now rather nervous I managed to stutter
out we're not though we just prefer to communicate this way at this point that
Karen is screaming a slurry of insults at us asking me to speak up and to just
freaking move she then tried to grab me and my friend and throw us off the bench
this set my friend off and he started having a meltdown this caused his father
to come outside as he realized that something was wrong the lady continues
to berate me punctuating her word by knocking a finger into her chest at the
end of every word at this point I'd had it so I punctuated back considerably
harder as the lady was stumbling backwards she somehow managed to stay
upwards despite her blubber however she had stepped on her child's finger as he
was on the floor in a hissy fit that sent the kid crying harder and his eyes
finally landed it on our hero of this story my friend's dad who was hugging my
friend trying to calm him down she somehow did not see that he was hugging
one of his patrons she assaulted seconds earlier and didn't seem to make the
connection so she screamed manager this person just assaulted me at this point
my friend's dad was such a shade of red that if I took my glasses off and
squinted I couldn't tell a strawberry and him apart he then proceeded to shut
a string of expletives at this woman that even I didn't know since that
didn't send the woman packing he then shouted I will call the cops if you
don't leave right now this seemed to Spur some action into the lady and she
promptly dragged her kid off the floor and scurried away like the Vermin she is
leaving one autistic child in a meltdown me pretty miffed a crack in the brand
new decking from where she stumbled back and dense from where the kid was
throwing a tantrum on the floor and stomping his feet plus one angry Pub
owner drinks by nice though got something considerably harder than a
shandy to calm the nerves as he said but had to cut our walk short as my friend
was still not in the best state this lady was horrendous and it's almost
disappointing that they got to Just Bounce out of there and leave after all
that I'd love to at least have seen them get the fear stricken into them by
having the cops show up this next story is entitled mom thinks my wedding is for
her and her guests I 24 year old female am getting married next year and my mom
thinks she can invite whoever she wants to invite to my wedding without asking
my fiance and I first my mom just found out about a family member that she's
never met before to be invited to my wedding I just recently sent out the
dates and I gave one to her and come to find out she sent hers to this family
member behind my back I tried explaining
to her that I understand it's family but we've never met them before and I'm not
trying to have my wedding be the place that we meet for the first time and
weddings aren't family reunion ends she thinks I'm being a bridezilla and I feel
bad but it's my wedding and I should have a say on who's invited and who's
not she also took it upon herself to invite my uncle's sister-in-law and
uncle's mother-in-law because she talks to them and they're nice she didn't even
ask me if she could invite them and she told them they could come so now I'm
feeling obligated to give them an invite
since they now know about my wedding she also has stated that since my dad and
her are paying for my venue that she should have a say on who's invited what
colors I'm choosing and what music is played because it's not my wedding but
it's my family's wedding as well she'll also say things about me to my brother's
girlfriend like oh I can't wait until you all get married because you'll let
me do whatever I want for y'all's wedding or God she's so difficult you
wouldn't be this difficult if y'all were getting married I'm just not sure what
to do anymore and I shouldn't feel this stressed about my big day honestly I
think op really has two choices here I either they let her roll her right over
and take over their wedding plans or they put their foot down and do what
they want to do for their wedding I mean you could even try and go as far as cut
down contact but sounds like a big step for Op with where things are right now
our next story is not enough counter space my mother my spouse and I got a
rental house last year doubled our square footage from our terrible
apartment and a safe neighborhood nice location
Etc my mom is so condescending about our house we're really proud because it's
been a few years of us rebuilding credit finances so to afford this and for our
kids we're happy it's not the same place my parents live and my spouse is in my
parents favorite person so comments get made that are rude and my parents don't
care until it comes between them and the grandkids also my spouse is a rude
personality too so often times I struggle to feel empathy but I totally
understand where spouse is coming from and most cases and also House was built
in freaking 2007 not old but today my mom asked if we used the air fryer and
said well you don't hardly have any counter space and made it like we have a
teeny area we have more counter space than most people in three bedroom and
two and a half homes and she has the audacity to say this I don't like things
on my countertop it's a preference I love her but my word she finds the
negativity for everything why bother with the Jabs as if that will make my
spouse want to move closer to you guess I'm just venting but if you've been in a
similar situation I would appreciate advice I mean I guess you guys are
renting two-thirds of it right so you have a little bit more say than she does
either way I think it's safe to say an air fryer is a perfectly acceptable
thing to have on the counter and you guys just gotta make it work it's a
shared space she can't commandeer everything our next story is another
water park entitled mother this is the last entitled mother story I've ever had
in my life entitled parents are kind of rare here this one happened around 2018
ish this lady is the type of mother who just leaves their kids to someone else
to babysit I will never understand that style of parenting I know it's hard to
parent someone but like why why would you leave your kids Behind for a random
stranger she did that I was just swimming around in a pool with my little
brother then her five spawns came into the pool and started splashing around
honestly I didn't have an issue with that they were nowhere near me then one
of them came over and splashed me and I told them that it's not nice to Splash
strangers then I looked for his mom and she was nowhere to be seen like come on
why would you leave your five kids in a pool what if one of them drowns the
spawn went on with his way and then he came back and started splashing again I
told him to stop and he didn't then the Lifeguard blew the whistle and he swam
off my brother was busy with his boat toys or something then the stupid mother
came back and she started lecturing the Lifeguard about how it's not his place
to parent her kids and he's not the parent then the Lifeguard said something
and went back to his chair then the stupid mom came to me and tried to
involve me in this whole dispute she told me that one of her spawns told her
that I yelled at him for splashing she started saying how it's not my place to
parent how I need to stop being so anti-fun and that I was intruding on her
parenting and I told her that maybe if she wants to not be intruded on maybe
she should parent her kids she got mad and told me I was a freaking jerk and I
told her that she shouldn't teach her kids swear words she took her kids and
left to probably another part of the water park that was the end of it I know
when people on the sub think that they're usually wrong but I was right in
this case stupid mom never came back to me at least I still go to that water
park every few weeks with my brother and I've seen zero stupid or entitled
parents since then except for that one line Karen that I posted about before
does anybody else agree that in this situation that lifeguard should have
considered just kicking them out and that honestly that lifeguard was letting
op and anybody else in that part of the water park down this next story is God
told I was being financially abused is it true okay I'm 21 year old female but
my mom still treats me as if I'm 12. basically I'm autistic and due to being
on disability benefits my mom is allowed
to have a bank account that she monitors that holds my benefits however the
benefits website states that she doesn't
have legal authority over the money just to help me manage budgeting and stuff
this isn't even a necessity she enforced to the benefits people that she needed
my money okay so whenever I try and ask my mom for some money she needs proof of
what I'm ordering I wanted to buy supplies for a craft business I started
but she said it was stupid and would only hand over the money if I screenshot
my cart I have no access to that money me or even know how much is in it so how
is it helping me at all to even learn how to budget I've managed to persuade
her to lend me half of my money only took two years to test out if I can
budget and I've already saved 500 British pounds she refuses to give me
the rest now she's constantly asking me to borrow money two weeks ago it was 200
pounds and then today it was a hundred this person thinks my mom was stealing
my money when she had full access to it and then sneaking it back in when she
could she'll put debts under my name so God knows if that's going to bite me in
the butt later on another thing she's always opening my letters and Parcels
even ones that are marked private and confidential luckily I'm in the process
of moving out because it's all getting too much is this financial abuse is
there anything I can do now I really don't know how it works in the UK but
considering you're 21 years old there should be some form of way that if that
is really your money you should be able to to get a hold of that now I don't
know if you have to go through legal means but this is definitely Financial
abuse this next story is entitled mother
threatens me with CPS over remnants of a two-year-old's mess so the inspectors
are coming tomorrow and my family and I have been deep cleaning now I had a plan
for today to finish half of what was left before my work and the rest after
my work which would have been the rest of my daughter's mess I'd have missed
well today at six in the morning one to two hours before the time I told my
friend to wake me up and make sure I clean I wake up to screaming three feet
from me I wake up disoriented to Define my mother screaming at the top of her
lungs about trash and cleaning to which I realized she had broken into my room
to scream at me yes people she came into my room while my daughter and I slept
soundly to scream at me she screamed for a good 30 minutes saying the garbage
truck is gonna be here in 30 minutes get
your butt up and clean now here's a good idea of the mess I am a mess on my bed
of mostly clothes and cords I was tidying because of me going through what
I wanted to keep and what I wanted to toss and on the floor yes it needed
vacuuming but it had a horse a little Santa straw bag my daughter plays with
and a box with maybe some trash from her not throwing away her snack packaging
the prior day she grabs my daughter as I
feel like I'm going Deaf from the sudden screaming and leaves refusing to let me
get my child she comes back continuing to yell at me as I rub the sleep for my
eyes trying to understand what's going on and begin yelling back at her I have
this Habit to stand still and wait for someone to be quiet and stop monitoring
me if I'm going to do anything I'm told to do as I did it to get a break from my
mother as a child when she did the same thing when she finally leaves I start
cleaning and she comes back entitled mother my mother I'm gonna call CPS and
surrender her because you're a pig this causes me to go into hysterics because
despite this not being your first threat it was the first time she said it this
way and I panicked I said I'm sure they'd love to know that you bully your
eldest child so much to consider ending things every time you enter a room
that's freaking abuse insert colorful language she says I'm the colorful
language look at yourself inserting colorful language talking about a type
of work to support my daughter I think to myself how do I do what's needed in
order to clothe my child and get her needed diapers and Necessities but know
if I say it she'll make it about her she's currently making waffles like
nothing happened and being buddy buddy with my daughter like she didn't just
call me a bunch of colorful names and make me have a mental crisis to the
point where I couldn't stop crying for a good two hours you know considering the
situation that Opie describes I honestly think a shelter might just downright be
better than this place I think there's a lot of places that would be willing to
help op and their daughter out you just gotta get out of this horrendous place
and look for them this next story is I'm just so tired of pretending to be
someone else let me preface this by saying that I currently deal with
depression anxiety and what presents itself as undiagnosed ADHD I also am
struggling with my identity right now I was born biologically female but do not
feel like that label fits me all the way anymore additionally I'm almost certain
that I'm bi as I've been interested in both males and females in the past this
would all be fine if I didn't live in an extremely out of date religious
household mental health is simply not something that is looked after or cared
about here and anything outside their tiny box of acceptable identities namely
straight cisgendered like-minded religious people are frowned upon and
shunned I personally don't care what people do or whom they give their love
to as long as it's all safe legal and consensual and they hate that about me
in terms of what little pieces of me that I'm okay showing off that's barely
scratching the surface of it almost on a daily basis I have to hear them talking
about how a couple that they saw in public disgusted them how a transgender
individual is confused and needs to go to church or how they would outright
refuse to call a non-binary person by their preferred pronouns because it's
not what God intended I get to internalize the frustration of them
saying that ADHD isn't a real condition and that if people as children or adults
can't focus or act their age that it's entirely their own fault I get to hear
them say cheer up or just calm down whenever I'm having an oppressive
episode or am on the verge of a panic attack because I was just yelled at or
confronted by a nasty customer at work I'm told at the ripe age of 14 or 15
that a close friend that just recently lost their battle with depression is
going to heck for their sin and that I will join them if the marks on my arms
are anything more than claw marks from our pets when I end up giving away two
of my dogs to someone else because I'm mentally not well enough to give them
the attention that they need and deserve they accuse me of Simply being lazy and
immature I've become a very good Pretender over the years I humor them
when they simply talk badly about mental health or the LGBT community even if it
hurts I blame every change in mood or mannerisms on simply being tired because
the truth wouldn't go over well if my actions are too big to be blamed on
fatigue I make up a reason to be upset a plant of mine dying being charged twice
for a bill an argument with a friend that doesn't exist I still allow them to
use my birth name and have begrudgingly agreed to wear a dress for the first
time in years at an upcoming wedding even though I would be way more
comfortable in a suit and tie and above all that I still pretend to be just as
religious as them even though I couldn't
care any less about religion or whatever was written in a book from eons ago I'm
just so tired of pretending though when I'm at work or when I attended classes
in person I felt so free in light as I didn't have to lie to co-workers or
classmates they all seemed to accept me no matter who or what I appear to be but
when I'm with family I feel constantly overwhelmed as if the lies that I've
been telling for years are all threatening to tangle themselves
together contradict each other or cause a chain reaction that brings the web
that I've been carefully weaving for years swiftly crashing down I feel all
headachy and end up telling lies where I don't really have to because I'm losing
track of what parts are meant to stay hidden and what parts that I'm safe to
show off it's difficult remembering what lies I've told to what people and how I
have to switch up my entire Persona around each of them even down in my
speech mannerisms and Body Language if possible I'm not sure how those toxic
friends or secret villains that we see in TV shows or books do this for so long
it's all so confusing and it occupies way too much of my already
anxiety-filled brain at this rate even if I did move out to get free of this
environmental I wouldn't know how to continue to connect with my family I
don't think that I want to go no contact at least not until something truly
terrible happens but it's already so difficult to speak to them I can just
imagine how difficult it would be to come back during family reunions with a
different body shape possibly going by a different name different mannerisms
because I'm finally on enough psychiatric medications to keep me
stable without alcohol and a partner at my side who may or may not be male it
would be as though I'm a totally different person to them and in a way I
kind of am I'm sorry if this was long and rambling this is unfortunately the
kind of stuff that I think about late at
night when I really should be sleeping I
leave the real me locked in this bedroom every day or I banish her to my
department at work as she isn't really safe here but maintaining the safe
version of me a straight cisgender mentally sound religious woman is so
exhausting even though I hate being outside most of the time I actually
enjoy going to work sometimes for this very reason I can be myself more with
strangers and co-workers who barely know my last name than with the family that
I've known for over two decades I feel terrible for op but I feel like at a
certain level some people are so entrenched in certain beliefs or views
that there's no saving them I mean some people when faced with the reality that
somebody that's that close to them that they care about is going through those
things sometimes they do change and sometimes they do flip but a lot of
these people will just remain to be terribly narrow-minded narrow viewed and
in some ways probably disrespectful people our next story is mom who is
furious over not going to my graduation the aftermath hi all I had another post
about how my mother went absolutely insane over for how I didn't go to my
college graduation it's too much to explain but that's the gist last weekend
when she was home from work and I was subjected to hours of interrogation
there was originally a lot of silent treatment but midday Saturday my dad
suggested I apologize to her since I didn't go to my own grad I know it's
dumb my apology was met with screaming about how I'm ungrateful I'm a bad slash
evil person I crapped on my whole family stuff about good Catholic Education is
and I've blocked out the rest one minute I was told to go to my room the next
minute I was screamed at to get out because I had to spend more time with
the family by Saturday evening I was made to sit on the living room couch and
stay put I sat through an AFL game the cricket that had been televised from
England TV shows my tween siblings were watching I was constantly questioned by
my mom what I was hiding and what I have
wrong with me why am I the way that I am because I've been scarring the kids I
had a eaten much for days because I was too scared to walk around the house
obviously I was weak and cold because my own mother is making me well aware that
I'm a bad person I deserve bad things to happen to me after Saturday night I
ended up with chill blains I took a shower on Sunday morning and pulled out
burnt strands of my hair probably from when I tried to hide next to an electric
heater over the next few days things gradually started to get a little better
I'm not sure why but Mom little by little started talking to me again even
if it was just you still haven't told us why you decided to throw away a chance
to go to your graduation there is no why I hated being at a Catholic college but
I can never tell her that I have faced numerous punishments since and I'm going
to continue to pay for what I did for a long time whatever chance I could I read
through my College's policy and procedures to see if I would be allowed
to attend another ceremony my universities had many throughout the
year for each semester Mom just wanted the smiling photos and to have a hole
look at what my kid did moment so I felt compelled to something to end this
nightmare on Monday morning I had to take the car to be serviced and I had a
few hours wait while I waited at this darn Kia Motors place I sat there
sending a few emails and making a few calls regarding my enrollment and finish
date so I could still be eligible for a ceremony on Wednesday morning I received
an email saying that I'm on the list for spring graduation I'm going to pay for
every ticket my last post said I think it's nearly a hundred Australian dollars
found out it's actually a 165 dollars per guest and will be officially
confirmed closer to the date this was all done without her knowing yet but she
was home from work for a few days since the screif has made her sick she just
didn't go to work for three days I still feel too scared to tell my mom that I
fixed it for her I told my brothers about the graduation ceremonies and how
afraid I was and they actually laughed at me being males they aren't treated
the same as me I ask them but don't you hate how angry she gets they both said
they were completely numb to it and didn't care I'm just full of fear and I
don't know what to do I do want to tell my dad who's far more reasonable than
Mom but I'm frozen female 21. I think if Opie's going forward with trying to fix
this situation wouldn't it be better for them to just tell them straight up like
wouldn't that calm her down quite a bit either way I think op needs to get way
out of there and leave them very far behind our next story is another
entitled airplane mom a few weeks ago I was flying back to Denver from Atlanta I
use a cheap airline and on the flight to Atlanta I was stuck in the middle seat
and got a little claustrophobic no problem I got exactly what I paid for to
avoid this I paid extra to choose my seat on the way back and chose the
window I get on the plane walk to my seat and notice a lady and her child in
my aisle the ladies in the middle and the child maybe three or four is in my
seat I didn't board late I was one of the early groups so she just
preemptively took the window you have to pay extra for that I walked up and very
politely tell her it's my seat I never not once raised my voice or lost my
temper I said that's my seat the entitled mother very incredulous can't
believe I have the nerve to make her move said are you serious I said yes
completely she said you don't have to be such a witch me thinking this escalated
quickly ma'am I haven't been a witch at all not yet she said I'm not sitting
next to you if you're a witch um okay I said then if there are empty
seats I suggest you move if you don't want to sit next to me that's my seat
she then stands up and yells for the flight attendant because she isn't
sitting next to a stupid witch the poor flight attendant comes over and gives me
an embarrassed look and tells her she needs to sit down in the correct seat
and wait to see if there are no shows entitled mother then proceeds to tell
everyone around what a witch I am Etc earning my more embarrassed looks from
other passengers at the end of the day I got my seat wasn't claustrophobic and
she looked like a jerk but what is the deal with parents like that I have three
boys and I would never ever expect people to give up seats for us certainly
not ones they paid extra for let's be real she was just hoping to earn a
better experience by paying for a lesser one I'm guessing however she grew up or
all throughout her life she found that her complaining and whining ended up
getting her what she wanted and that's how we ended up here but with that being
said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another
crazy entitled parent story check out that video on the left or if you missed
my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all
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first story my entitled Aunt demands I give up my baby because her daughter
lost hers saying I owe it to her since she raised me when my mom died she
claims her daughter deserves the baby more because I'm not married and can't
raise kids properly like them with their
High religious faith I cut ties and went and see still my cousin refers to my
baby as hers and my aunt continues harassing me I 24 a him currently 24
weeks pregnant with a girl although she was an unexpected surprise my partner 24
and I are ecstatic and look forward to Parenthood I lost my mama when I was
young so we are planning to name this baby after her most of my family and
friends have been really supportive of me and my pregnancy as I enter this new
stage of life however my cousin and my aunt who acted or at least tried to as a
mother figure and a female role model to me and my sister since my mother's
passing have been causing issues my cousin 31f has been struggling with
infertility for about 5 years now and has witnessed its ups and downs me my
sister and all of our family members have been trying our best to be
sensitive to her circumstances and have been supporting her through the process
she had a miscarriage 5 years ago and was diagnosed with having a diminished
ovarian reserve 2 years ago meaning that her egg quantity and quality are
considerably lower compared to other women her age she immediately started
the IVF process and after two rounds she miraculously got pregnant in late 2022
she had complications with the pregnancy including preclampsia and went into
labor at 30 plus 2 weeks in the summer unfortunately her baby girl was very
weak at Birth and died hours after she was born everything my cousin has
struggled with over the past 5 years hit her hard and she suffered from extreme
depression for months afterwards she has
refused to seek therapy which we believe would be beneficial to her State apart
from a couple of appointments initially because she says she feels misunderstood
and anger towards the professionals trying to make her feel better she still
desperately wants a baby but refuses to seek treatments again due to trauma and
a lack of hope I hope this context helps yall understand the situation I'm going
to talk about and if applicable provide any advice to help us guide our cousin
to some sense of recovery after finding out about my pregnancy I announced it to
my family and friends in February I made sure to text or tell my cousin
individually before she heard about my pregnancy elsewhere so she could
initially process the news herself privately according to my other cousins
and aunt she did not take the news well and went into a rage when I saw her
afterwards she was more reserved and rather cold a week later she said she
wanted to hang out and have a private one-o-one chat which I agreed to we
talked over ice cream and went back to her and her husband's home she showed me
her baby stuff which had been untouched for months since her loss she told me
she saw so much of the baby she lost last year in my own baby and how God
brought my baby into our lives for a special reason she asked me if I'd be
willing to allow her to adopt this baby into her home to be raised by her and
her husband I refused she asked why for a lack of a better and stronger response
in the moment I said that both me and my partner wanted to care for our child
that I was sorry for her loss and that I was sure a miracle would come her way
she blew up at me and called me a bunch of names I knew she was struggling and
very traumatized so I tried not to let her words of the moment get to me she
said how me and my partner didn't deserve our baby because we weren't
married yet we are engaged and planning the wedding for next year and how she
and her husband could provide our baby with a better and more stable life as
more deserving and respectable parents she then kicked me out my aunt later
texted and called me trying to reason with me for my refusal she said I should
give my baby to her daughter she emphasized that I would still get to see
her as she would be within the family and that I could have more kids later on
as I was still young she said that babies were more than fun little humans
and that based on her experience nurturing me I wasn't ready yet she
continued with this pressure and guilt trip she apparently gave out my number
to her other relatives and friends at church they have also been texting me
and urging that I be more sympathetic to
my cousin and her situation my relatives were more chill but her church friends
were saying terrible and demeaning things about me so I blocked them I try
to avoid my aunt and my cousin as much as I can I want to be there for my
cousin but it's becoming really difficult my aunt has been trying to
dictate my life and choices as my only motherly fig figure since I was a child
and she won't stop I found out that my cousin has been telling people that she
is soon getting a baby and that her life will be complete again they think I'll
come around and be overwhelmed once I face the realities of Parenthood this is
all just so crazy and frightening to me if you have any advice or just ways to
distress in general please let me know Update note thank you all for the advice
and New Perspectives you gave me in my last post I just wanted to update on the
situation now with my cousin as things have occurred in the last two months I
am now eight months pregnant and feeling
okay asterisk asterisk me and my partner have quietly moved and very few people
know our new address my cousin and Aunt both know we have moved but do not know
where we also recently got married in a small private ceremony we will likely do
a bigger ceremony next year I am not sure what the situation with my cousin
or Aunt will be like next year or whether they will be invited to or would
come to our bigger wedding especially with the baby so far my partner's family
has been very supportive and understanding of me and the
circumstances I feel less alone and more confident with their support we have
also taken other precautions related to birth and security the baby is doing all
right and we are both very excited for the birth and to meet our sweet baby
girl we already adore her and are ready to protect her unfortunately my cousin
is still baby crazy and desperately wants a baby to fix her life I found out
through gossip from Friends relatives and other sources that she has been
engaging in questionable and rather predatory social media Behavior she has
been joining pregnancy and baby related groups and reaching out to vulnerable
members who have shared their struggles offering to take or adopt their babies
she apparently harassed a young Widow for her baby in an effort to save the
child and has been banned from a considerable number of groups and
communities that way she has also been more active on social media with posts
and is publicly sharing her fertility struggles and considering IVF treatment
again Beyond her social media activities I found out that she is waiting for my
child to be born and wants to regain proper contact with me as before my
pregnancy I have her blocked on most sources of communication and I don't
believe she has tried to contact me so far my aunt is still upset with me and
badmouthing me to other family members and her church friends I am sometimes
getting hostile text messages voicemails and even phone calls from those she
poisoned against me but there have been no physical confrontations since I've
moved and don't attend church my aunt is also pressing my father for details
about me and to get in contact again I haven't told him much about our move and
he has promised to keep any sensitive information about me private especially
from my aunt or cousin and those in the family that are close to them out of the
two my aunt has definitely been the more aggressive one towards me in May right
before my move she came to my apartment and waited outside in the parking lot
until I got home from work I thought she was going to cuss me out but she said
she wanted to catch up with me at the cafe near the church and asked me which
car I wanted to take her friendliness felt very fake to me and I was
considerably uncomfortable with the whole situation so I made excuses and
refused to go she then started gaslighting and arguing with me about
everything that had happened she told me to just wait until the baby is born and
that I would succumb to the pressures of
parenting and stress in no time she said
some very hurtful things about me and my
partner and said how my baby deserved to
be raised and a Godly household with two believing parents I know she did not
like my partner beforehand because he is not Christian and for other reasons but
she spoke in a very anti-semitic way about my partner she said that she fears
that my baby will be misguided and confused with her parents religious
differences and that since I have a full-time job or career as well as my
partner my baby will not receive enough attention and Care from my parents she
believes that a child must be raised in a strong foundational religion with a
strong father and in attentive guiding mother to succeed and not go down an
immoral spiral once they get older apparently only my stay-at-home cousin
and her provider husband can provide these ideal conditions thankfully my
neighbor stopped by and her presence cooled the confrontation down I firmly
told my Aunt to leave and complain to the manager about my aunt and my
neighbor I walked down the street and hid in another complex with a friend
until my partner came and got me my Aunt apparently sat down at the edge of the
parking lot waiting for me as I talked to the manager in his office Office and
left after about 30 minutes we have this incident recorded and have taken more
precautions we have threatened my aunt with legal action for any escalations
but we also don't want to provoke her too much and be harassed further that
incident has been causing me stress and I will not be going anywhere where my
aunt or cousin will be I have skipped two family events because I know they
will be there although I feel more secure at the moment with a move in
marriage I am still very wary and wish for things to settle down after my
baby's birth and with time I am planning to post another update
sometime after the baby is born if nothing else major happens and when time
or safety permits once again thank you for your support and please take care
tldr my partner and I moved and got married privately my cousin is still
baby crazy and has taken to social media
postings and groups my aunt showed up to
my apartment to confront me and had been harassing and badmouthing me along with
her friends I will update again after the baby girl is born update on r SL
raised by narcissists this will be a small update we got in contact with the
local church leader and talked to them about the situation with my aunt and
cousin who are both active members we talked to him for a while he initially
dismissed my concerns as personal conflicts between family members and
tried to refer us over to counseling services we explained to him that my
cousin is dealing with trauma from her baby's death and that she is having
false hopes about adopting my baby which would be raised in a good home we also
told him that my my aunt is feeding into
those hopes and has been harassing me on
her behalf causing disturbance and a lot of stress he told me he understood my
side and that he knew what my cousin has
been going through with her inability to have kids he said he would contact my
aunt and cousin to see what they had to say about the situation I talked again
with him today he said that my aunt and cousin would like to speak with me and
that they were concerned that I stopped communicating with them especially since
I moved away I explained to him that their behavior regarding my baby in
infuenced me to do those things and pressed him on what they said he said
that my cousin had talked with a church therapist and was looking into adoption
to start a family because her IVF treatments were likely not going to
produce a child with her condition I emphasized to him that I was not giving
up my baby and that my cousin had been thinking so he said that he understood
that and started asking me for personal details on how I was doing now he was
again trying to set up a meeting between us and my aunt or cousin and referring
us to Services I told him I was not comfortable with that at the moment and
he told me to at least call my cousin once he said he would meet with my aunt
on Sunday since I was too scared to do it on my own our call ended after that
I'll comment on any updates on what he says in the coming days under this post
edit I am not satisfied with his response and do not like that he is
putting pressure on me to reconnect with my aunt and cousin he says he
understands my concerns but I think he is being rather dismissive of them and
trying to force us to resolve our issues
my my partner and I thought it was worth a shot to reach out to him because he
has influence and religious authority over my aunt or cousin I'll see what he
says on the next phone call and what I can do to make him care more Second
Story op's stepdad saw her and her delusional mom took her husband side
kicked op out and alienated her siblings from her I 17f used to have a great
relationship with my stepdad 36f out of all four of my parents mom dad stepmom
and stepdad we were the closest we hardly argued and he helped me a lot
with my depression and other family issues however at the beginning of this
year I woke up on the couch I had been sleeping there because my room was in
the basement and it was cold to him touching my private area with my pants
down and his thing in my hand at first he didn't notice I was awake because I
was frozen in shock and fear how could someone who I've known almost my whole
life and who has always been there for me do something like this when he
noticed I was awake I was finally able to speak and told him to go away which
he did I stayed frozen on the couch until about an hour after he left for
work I didn't say a word of this to anyone in my family I felt ashamed and
didn't fully understand what was happening I also didn't think they'd
believe me because he is always so kind and caring to everyone I have a habit of
being able to push trauma down and snap back into things quickly probably
because I was always forced to not be negative lest I be called sensitive or
dramatic among other things once I processed everything I came to the
conclusion that it probably happened because I looked like my mother and they
were no longer intimate due to my mother's wishes it does not excuse what
he did but it's what I think the reason is which is another reason I didn't
speak up to my family because I have two half sisters and I didn't want to hurt
them by breaking up the family I assumed that he wouldn't do it now that he'd
been caught lest I actually go forward with it and I don't think he would do
that to the girls I did however confide in two of my friends m19 F and a 17m
with the promise they wouldn't say anything to the police or anyone they
agreed but one of them I believe it was a though he won't admit it did and CPS
was called I at first told them it was false because of the reasons above but
they ended up getting Em's phone because I accidentally mentioned her when I was
talking to the worker and we had messaged about the incident I ended up
asking em and her fiance to pick me up and I ended up staying at a different
friend's house for the night and telling my mother what happened via text the
next day my dad came and picked me up and I told him the story and again to
him and my mother when I got to his house different houses my mother
couldn't even look at me and I was grilled with questions about whether I
was telling the truth and the consequences if I was lying I learned
growing up not to cry in front of my dad
which led to me apparently sounding like a robot when speaking of what happened
fast forward a while and nothing can be done because there is no proof and my
word is against his my mother refused to speak to me and gave me and my step
sister the stepmom's kid two hours to get as much out of my room as possible
where she'd throw it all away I bought a lot of things which totaled over $1,000
all the stress of this really took a toll on me but I had to keep a happy
smile because I didn't know what else to do as I feared showing emotions at home
an issue I may delve into another time my oldest of my two younger sisters 13f
was told of my allegations against her dad by my mom which made her upset
rightfully it's her dad and also made her won't speak to me which also hurts
me a lot as I love my sisters and my family so much my mother yesterday asked
me how school program was going and I responded that I really did miss her
despite how much she hurt me she's still
my mom after that it was back to silence only occasionally informing me of bills
insurance or appointments my mind is all jumbled and I don't know if I will ever
be able to truly forgive her since I feel so hurt and betrayed even though
this was a possibility I knew might happen I don't know if I can fix my
relationship with my 13-year-old sister as I believe she blocked me and I don't
know what to do about my other little sister my brother 19m has lived mostly
at my dad's house since before this and speaks to me but we weren't really that
close before this so he probably just doesn't know what to think but at least
he speaks to me I'm just tired hurt and stressed I've thought of ending it many
times over the course of a month and have tried once but chickened out as I
got a text from a close friend who figured out what I was planning and
talked me out of it I don't know if anyone will read this I really just
wanted to vent and maybe get some unfiltered and unbiased advice Andor opinion
my stepdad saw me when I was asleep my mother didn't believe me I told one of
my half sisters and I was kicked out and had little to no contact with them
update one less of an update and more of an add-on because I got a lot of
comments about CPS and stuff the police and CPS were already involved I gave my
statement and stuff but there's no evidence because the only cameras we
have in the house don't face that direction it's my word against his and
unfortunately my word is not enough for the law which is even more disappointing
for most of my family I'm on waiting lists for counseling right now and have
some support from my friends around the us one of whom I'll be moving in with in
a year or two third story my neglectful therapist mom and the whole family who
abused me and excluded me from all family events for being autistic ditched
my wedding so I cut ties with them and went and see now Mom contacted me
demanding why I don't include her and our family in my life so I just reminded
her of the abuse and how she reacted when I was self Haring I just want to
preface this by apologizing for the jumbled wall of text I don't have anyone
to talk to about this I was recently diagnosed with autism earlier this year
at 32 years old prior to my diagnosis I had always felt there was something off
about me but as a high masking woman I always assumed it was just a personality
deficit some of my symptoms include noise sensitivity over the last few
years my ability to mask has decreased and it has become harder and harder to
function appropriately in my immigrant household due to some administrative
issues with my medical school I had to move home for a year before returning
for clinical rotations during this time I was increasingly stressed and focused
on completing my research assignments and working my part-time job in order to
cope I used to wear my airpods around the house which my parents would call
blatantly rude I would sequester myself to my room and try to avoid upsetting
them in one way or another but this became an issue as well stating that I
was in my own world and that I was not actively participating with my family my
mother even asked what do you even contribute to this family when they
would yell at me and call me stupid I would shut down when they asked me to
explain my behavior I would get nervous and have issues verbally communicating I
would take too long to speak and they would just yell at me or make fun of the
30-second pauses I would take before responding during one conversation my
father would call me a dangerous person because I was getting confused with the
issue at hand and brought up an issue I thought was relevant during one of my
shutdowns I failed my board exam the same day my dog got attacked and was in
the hospital I had a really hard time functioning my mom kept asking me about
the exam and why I couldn't get it together as well as upcoming test dates
and I told her I didn't want to talk about it so my family collectively
decided to ignore me for 3 days my dad said if it were up to him they would
have ignored me for a whole week at the beginning of the summer my mom had
gotten a knee replacement during this time I was studying for my step exam med
school exam so I was always wearing my airpods and listening to study material
in between question blocks I would come to see if my mom needed anything my
parents wouldn't coordinate with me when I needed to take her to PT I was just
told that I should have known and been okay with dropping everything to take
her wherever and whenever she needed to go somewhere mind you my exam was within
a week when I told my mom I needed to study and didn't have time to go grocery
shopping stay out for a long lunch and stay for the full PT I was told I didn't
respect her or care for her she and my dad told me I was a poor excuse for a
daughter my parents said I was a bad sister because even though I drove three
oneway hours after work at 4M to her graduation prepped and decorated for her
graduation party I should have had a speech prepared I couldn't do it I was
surrounded by a bunch of people and I was grossly overstimulated I wanted to
be supportive and I thought that by planning and organizing her party that
would have been enough but it wasn't at the end of the summer my family
collectively decided that I was a shy person who deserved to be alone luckily
by that time I had moved out of state to start my clinical rotations and I had
been away from home for 3 months during that time I had spoken to them a few
times but I got overwhelmed with school and keeping up with the responsibilities
of living back on my own no one called me I had to call them during winter
break I came back to my hometown but stayed with my boyfriend so I could
study for my shelf exam the day after my exam my boyfriend
proposed and I called and texted my family to tell them the news they were
excited about the extended family group chat but didn't answer any of my calls
on Christmas Eve I texted to see when they would be home so we could hang out
and they said sorry they're busy Christmas busy then the day after
Christmas I texted my mom to see when I could bring their presents over and she
agreed to meet me she said the entire extended family Aunts Uncles and cousins
were all celebrating the the holidays at our new Vacation House in Mexico 20
minutes driveway she said that if I had been a better Communicator maybe I would
have been invited but I wasn't I wasn't invited to my family's holiday
celebration because I didn't specifically ask what the family was
doing for Christmas I didn't celebrate my engagement with anyone in my family I
cried the whole week I have always felt different I never knew what to say or do
I never knew how to behave or withstand my sensitivities I have a hard time
communicating verbally or even defending myself after all of this I sought out a
diagnosis and to No Surprise of my own I do in fact have autism but now that I
have this realization what do I do how can I fix myself I haven't spoken to
anyone in my family except my mom twice since then how can I explain to them
that I didn't do any of that to be mean to them I don't want to use autism as an
excuse but as context for my actions how
in this context do I get them to love or like me again I don't even want to plan
a wedding because I feel like an orphan asterisk asterisk it has been 6 months
since they have spoken to me but yesterday I received a text message
letting me know that they would be in my
city due to a long layover and that they I'm assuming just my mom wanted to come
by to see me I'm not sure if I can handle them I don't particularly want
them in my home I don't want to have them in my safe space if I say no are
they giving themselves ammo I don't know what they want or why they decided to
contact me I don't even know what to say if I do agree to see them I'm so angry
so confused and so hurt I have so many important things coming up and I don't
want to be a shell of myself because I have to deal with family stuff should I
see them how should I go about meeting or not meeting them tldr my parents
ignored me for almost a year and now they want to meet update asterisk I
first want to say thank you to everyone who commented and DMD me with advice and
support I definitely carried your support with me into the meeting I also
want to say sorry for the late update I was so emot Ally burned out that I
didn't even start to process what happened until yesterday anyway here is
what happened my parents arrived early in the morning in my area I took you
all's advice and decided to meet them in a neutral space a tea shop as I
suspected my father did not come my mother's excuse was that he had to stay
and watch the luggage apparently it wouldn't have fit in in Uber when my
mother arrived she seemed excited to see me and was trying to update me on their
vacation she asked why we didn't meet at
my house and I stated that I was too too busy at the hospital to stay at home
waiting for about 15 minutes she kept trying to get me to tell her updates
about my life and current School deadlines just more small talk that kept
going around in circles she commented on
my engagement ring and said she has only ever seen it in photograph I reminded
her that she did in fact see it when I came to visit in December 2 days after
proposing but she wasn't interested in it then she then tried to take my car
fill up my gas tank and order food so I would have groceries I declined both
since one of her favorite insults is that I only care about money and that I
wouldn't have gotten this far in my schooling without her I kept getting
more and more frustrated with the topics and finally just asked why she came she
acted surprised and said why wouldn't she come see me if she was in town I
lost it I said that after the way things were left in December my engagement and
being left out of Christmas New Year's I was shocked that she would come see me
and act like nothing happened my mother was Gob smacked like a surprised Pikachu
face she said she was shocked that I left the conversation in December
feeling badly and she didn't think that the meeting went poorly as a good
medical student does I inquired about her prospects to see how she perceived
Christmas to have gone she said she wished I was there but it was just a
missed opportunity I let her know that because of that conversation I had
decided I wasn't interested in being a part of a dysfunctional and abusive
family I brought up all of the scenarios I mentioned in the original post and
said that nothing that I did warranted that level of abuse I told her that I
already knew how this conversation would pan out her crying and expecting me to
comfort her and apologize for making her upset as well as telling my dad I was
disrespectful and for him to bang on my door at night just to yell at me and
call me names I told her that if she is going to continue to act surprised she
can just call her Yuber and leave I told her that all of the verbal abuse and
name calling I no longer wanted to participate in I gave her all the
examples of how she co-signed the abuse and she had nothing to say she then
tried to take all of the negative stat ments she has made and correct them
saying I'm not stupid and that I'm family oriented but she only applied it
to my cousins not my parents or sister I asked her if she had taken the time to
understand my diagnosis and she said well I looked a little into neur
Divergence but not autism specifically a
little background here my mother is also a counselor and therapist so she didn't
take the time to better understand me or
my struggles asterisk asterisk I brought
up how she said I was a bad daughter and
that I have missed so many opportunities to be a good daughter and just like I
missed opportunities so did you I let her know that when I was struggling with
my mental health and was dealing with self-harming ideation a few years ago I
had in fact attempted to Auto delete although she knew my whole family knew
that I was self-harming she never checked in on my mental health instead
asking me why I never inquired about her
new job and her recent move her response has actually messed with my brain my
heart my soul and my sense of importance
to anyone she said oh yeah I need a pass on that year there were a lot of things
going on I paused and said I'm going to say back to you what you just said I
tried to kill myself and you said you needed a pass in 2018 because you had a
lot going on she doubled down then said oops am I talking too much I realized in
that moment that I wasn't going to reach her ever I told her I tried to kill
myself and I needed her and she said she needed a pass for not being there she
was so delusional and ignorant of the entire Fallout I don't think she could
even process there was a serious cognitive dissonance that didn't allow
her to be honest about the situation she
then apologized for causing so much harm and suffering and said she was seeing a
therapist and was going to do the work I told her I'd opt out of contact until
she actually did the work I told her it wasn't my responsibility to teach her
about my disability or where she went wrong in our relationship she asked if I
would call more and I said she needed to do the work I sent her on her way and
then cried in the car the whole way home home I still haven't heard from her
since my feelings are all the way hurtful I feel just as bad as I did in
December I don't know what I was thinking but I was let down I think I
need to let the Hope die I'm going to go forward with wedding planning without
the hope of having my family present sorry for the jumbled mess I'm still a
bit shaken up tldr my mother was shocked
I wasn't excited to see her she reminded me why I went low contact she said she
was going to do the work to fix our relationship thank thank you for
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a it for refusing to go to my brother's
wedding because he didn't want to invite me in the first place so for context I
21f have an older brother 25m who is getting married later this year we used
to be somewhat close when we were growing up but drifted apart after he
met his now fiance 24f from the start as GF and I didn't really get along but
I've always kept it civil for the sake of him and my family so there are no bad
feelings between us or so I thought my grandmother called me up about four
weeks ago to ask if I wanted to go dress shopping with her for the wedding and I
was so confused because I didn't even know my brother was engaged I thought
nothing of it and assumed they didn't mention it because I don't live with my
parents anymore but did find it somewhat strange that no one posted anything
about the proposal until I found his gf's private Instagram account on my
bf's phone because she blocked me about a week ago my mom called me and told me
that the invitations were sent out that day and asked if I got mine because my
brother's GF was supposed to give them to my BF since they work at the same
company I said no and she was very irritated she called me back after
talking to my brother and told me that she's inviting us to the wedding and I
don't need an invitation so I said that I am not going to the wedding without an
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a it for not letting my daughter give money to her sister who is an affair
child I 42f have three teens 16 f6m Twins and 14f daughter my eldest
daughter came home yesterday and was upset because she received a text
message from my ex- partner 57m to send their half sister money for something my
daughter was so upset and asked me why her father asked her all the time for
money I was pissed for context I split for my ex several years ago because he
brought us to the brink of financial ruin I owned a property and he put our
family in a perilous situation where I sold my house last year to get out of
our common law relation I started over and lived somewhere else because I
realized he did things for the benefit of himself and not for our family he
also uses women to get what he wants it's a long Tale But we shall focus on
the fact at hand I instructed my daughter to not send the money I told
her if there was a problem to let me know an hour later my ex called our
children to speak with them about their school day I observed my daughter's body
language as she sat uncomfortably on our couch while she and her siblings spoke
to their father related to school events for the following week at this time I M
maintained my composure to wait for him to say anything else and of course he
did at the end of the conversation he requested my daughter to send his
request he said it cryptically but what he didn't count on was that I was
listening after my daughter hung up her phone she received a bridge of texts
from her father to send the money to him for his affair child who is 17f I asked
my daughter to find out why this child needed money she has three parents
including my ex why does she need this money from my daughter the response from
ex to pay for a manicure for the affair child and to bond with her sister folks
I lost it I think my children have only heard me curse a few times in their life
but I was pissed my children just met the affair child last summer whom they
never knew about they've met her four times so far and feel weird about her
witch it understandable because WTH my daughter was so stressed and I informed
her that I will send a message to her father regarding the money don't worry I
send the texts I went in on my ex and informed him understand no circumstances
will our children ever give money to the
affair child moving forward our children are children he's the parent of this
child he's responsible for her I called him a low life using our daughter to
fund this child who have been informed as spoiled by her other parents he
countered that I blew up our family because I was selfish no dear I left you
because you put us in 90,000 worth of debt that I didn't know of before the
bank almost came to repossess our former house his response was wanting the kids
to bond to the affair child as his goal here's where I feel AA for denying the
request for money because I am responsible for this affair child
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a ITA for taking my grandchildren to Disney for the first time without their
mother and refusing to apologize when confronted my son made this account and
asked me to post this story because he claims my normal meter is skewed and the
internet is going to tell me I an I recently babysat my
grandchildren five and four for a period of four nights and 5 days so my son and
his wife could attend a wedding in Mexico and spent a few days on vacation
they approached me since her mother would not be available and I initially
said I wasn't comfortable with that it seemed like a long time to watch the
kids and she as Point Blank told me that the woman's family is more important
than the man's so I was irritated I was being asked and not her mother I will
admit that I did give in when my son became very emotional but I felt feel
like they were being manipulated while I
had the kids I was invited to a birthday
at Epcot and wanted to go it didn't even occur to me to run it by my son or
daughter-in-law as I had the kids for an extended period of time and obviously
they knew they would be going where I went my daughter-in-law had previously
mentioned wanting to save up for Disney but she said that about a lot of things
and never made me aware it was something super special to her also it was Epcot
it's not like I took them to Magic Kingdom and they had some magical moment
of seeing their favorite character when they returned and found out my
daughter-in-law was Furious and burst into tears she said I stole one of her
kids first and called me entitled to be honest I didn't react well to being
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first story delusional op revealed a prank she and her twin pulled thinking
it would bring them closer to their mom however she slapped op and disowned both
twins because the prank involved their mom as abusive locking their other
triplet in the basement because she was ugly causing their mom getting disowned
and shunned if 28 Rachel seemed to have made a pretty big mistake my father is
sick and I have recently been trying to reconnect with my family for my father's
birthday I agreed to see my twin sister her for dinner for the first time in s
years I guess I was never special enough for her because the day she moved out
she cut all contact with me this really hurt and I haven't been interested in
seeing her until our father asked a week ago my mom and I have never been very
close but something in her opened up when we were at dinner and she was
laughing with me telling stories we had a few glasses of wine and I made the
wrong judgment by saying that enough time had passed to now tell her this
story in a light-hearted manner anyways we moved to a new school when we were
starting grade three my twin sister F28 Sandra had come up with this so funny
prank that we were going to pull on all of our classmates she told me that we
were no longer going to tell people that
we were twins we were going to tell them that we were triplets we were going to
pretend that we had another triplet at home that we were not supposed to talk
about she was always more liked than I was and I was trying to make some
friends this year so I obliged we started telling every kid that we were
triplets but our sister was so hideous that our parents had decided to keep her
locked in the basement and make us pretend like she wasn't there we got
creative with it we smudged muddy handprints on paper and claimed they
were hers we drew pictures of all three of us and showed them to our friends I
have no idea what possessed her to come up with this or what made me think it
was a good idea but about 2 weeks into grade three social workers showed up at
our house along with two officers they arrived when our grandparents were over
they did anti ire investigation but the details I don't fully remember I do
remember being questioned by a kind lady
in a really big blue jacket but not much else I remember my sister glaring
daggers at me we both refused to admit anything and it was chopped up to our
classmates making things up a lot is blurry there was an assembly at school
about the importance of lying and we never had our grandparents over again I
suppose our family became an embarrassment in our community and
church because of the scene we had made we must have convinced our mother that
the LIE had nothing to do with us because when I told her last night at
dinner I half expected her to laugh and admit that she knew all along instead
she stood up swung her hand back and slapped me hard she yelled at me about
how I had destroyed our family name and brought embarrassment to us she screamed
at me to get out of the house but she also screamed at my sister Sandra my
mother told us that we were not invited back especially at a time when our
father is so sick I feel terrible but it was my sister's childhood lie how
horrible could we really be should our mother really not let us come back to
see our father before he passes my sister I think will never look at me
again and now I'm wondering a or is my family overreacting tldr my sister and I
told kids in grade three that we had a third ugly sister our parents kept in
the basement it was a huge deal in our community I finally confess to our mom
and she has disowned us my sister hates me relevant comments abroad mamoth 48008
you are 28 years old and you don't see why your mother is hurt and angry wow
you thought a story about how you and your sister broke up the family caused
everyone immense stress and risked your parents losing their children was going
to be something to laugh about and you take no responsibility because it was
all your sister's fault you are very immature for your age you take no
accountability for the stupid prank That Could Have Ended really badly which
makes me think you are deflecting when you say you don't know why your sister
cut you off poor victim you of course yta op I was a
child and it was a stupid mistake local brilliant 5564 are you effing delusional
you'd be lucky if she ever spoke to you again you and your shtt sister made up a
lie that your parents were effing child abusers it was so bad that social
services got involved and your mother was cut off from her family I would
never speak to you sociopath again you're both horrible daughters op I was
a child our family is extremely religious to the
point of excommunication based on a child's lie and you think I am the
delusional one response adaa twins mumes posted by uok point4 534 sisters post
hello this is the sister Sandra a work friend showed me this post as it wildly
resembled a story I had told her here's the thing I Sandra F28 am not the twin
that started that line Rachel F28 used to constantly torment me as a child
there is a reason that we don't talk anymore she would pinch me and yell out
before I could saying that I had pinched her she would hide my favorite stuffed
cat and laugh at me when I cried she would scratch my name on things at
school so that I would be blamed once she cut off one of my pigtails when I
was sleeping and ran straight to our mom saying that I had done it my hair was
down to my waist I ended up with a bob cut I have a scar from her kicking me
off my bike she made my parents believe that I was a liar
as she got older it turned into stealing and got worse that's why I cut her off
she always played the perfect girl she had good grades and was the star of her
soccer team she was well-liked and popular I on the other hand was not
nothing was or is ever her fault something deep down in her despised me
from the start and she tormented me my whole life for it when we started third
grade it was at a new school my sister came to me with a smile that I look back
on now and see as evil she promised me that if I played along with her little
prank she would tell me where she put Tinker my stuffed cat when we got home
she had gotten into a fight with our mother that morning I wonder sometimes
if this is why she did this I wonder if she knew more than she pretended to
about the consequences then came the lie and everything that followed not only
did she keep Tinker hostage for over a week but she would constantly be
pinching me and glaring at me when no one was looking they are constantly
telling me not to tell I tried telling my mom that she stole tinker and I got
Tinker back with no tail and my sister left the scissors in my bed so that I
looked like I did it my mom thought that I was trying to get her in trouble
because she was just that convincing and maniacal she would often shove my back
when I was near stairs and then grab my arm like it was a funny joke we were
both in on I was scared of her my sister is pure evil and has never changed I
could go on and on recently we tried to get together for my father's birthday he
is dying from liver failure and is at home on hospice backstory our mom never
recovered from postpartum depression after having us she hardly ever showed
us affection and she would often look at us with distaste and tell us how we had
ruined her life my father was no hell he was a drunken empty shell of a man the
moment he stepped through the door from work these were our perfect family's
dirty little secrets as children our church was extremely strong and its
image meant everything to my family as a child our priest actually took a paddle
to me because I wasn't obeying my father I will not be mentioning my church name
or religion out of respect for those who
worship there and to not stain the image of our religion and God I hope you
understand this back to the dinner I was sitting with my dad when out of nowhere
my mom started screaming bloody murder and dragged me out of the house spitting
insults at me and my sister we were not welcomed back my sister had told her
about our childhood lie she told my mother what we had done as children she
told my mother that I had started the liee and that I had been tormenting her
and lying about it I did not even look at my sister I just left she Twisted at
all I am at a loss for what to do I moved out at 21 with limited contact
with my parents and no contact with my sister I see my parents about four times
a year and call every week I still worship God but at a lesser level and in
a different city I want to see my father before he passes but I don't want to
bring more stress into his final weeks how do I apologize to my mother my
sister had been convinced since we were kids that I was the bad egg how do I fix
this so I can see my dying father thank you good night X update weird response
to my Reddit post she's not my sister I'm not a psychopath hey about a week
ago I posted about how I told my mom a li My twin and I had told his kids and
it blew everything up in our family my account was banned for a week and I'm
just here to say that that weird response that person posted about me
being an evil twin sister is total BS I have no idea who that person is and they
have nothing to do with me or my post I think somehow their post got people to
Flag mine I don't know anyway I'm not a psychopath like everyone is saying my
mom overreacted to something that should have been funny to look back at the end
go to my Reddit for the story Second Story hash I saw my Golden Child sister
after 15 years who abandoned us and ran away now talking like nothing had
happened I'm really happy and confused and I really don't know if I can talk
about this with friends and family but I
need to share my experience with someone because I missed my sister I don't need
or want any advice since no one really knows the situation to be able to give
good advice without assuming things they
don't know and it's weird to read people talking about my sister as if they know
how she lived I just want to share this and I know a lot of people have had
experiences like this too so maybe someone can relate when I was 10 years
old my my older sister who was 22 at the
time disappeared after leaving a note to our parents saying that she's okay and
just wants to start over her life my sister was always a lonely but outgoing
person She always told me that she enjoyed Solitude from time to time and
noisy things took away from her quality of life because it was loud and Loud
where we lived and it was annoying even for me we lived in a dangerous
neighborhood so it wasn't too safe and she hated not being able to go for a
walk at night or do things at night alone she was depressed and I remember
seeing her suffer from severe anxiety attacks she used to hit herself to stop
them and she had a strong Tia that triggered those things she suffered from
other mental issues as well and talked freely about that she talked about those
things in front of me and these are things that leave a mark on you she was
the favorite of the whole family although my parents never put pressure
on her they always let us do our lives my brother who was 19 at the time knows
that my sister was The Golden Child and my grandfather always made made it clear
that she was his favorite granddaughter even now she was a calm but funny kind
of person she was the closest to my parents and uncles so when she
disappeared from one day to the next no one understood what was going on even my
sister had never traveled alone except to go to work and she always notified my
mother that she was okay for safety reasons she left a long note clarifying
that she doesn't want to be separated but she loves us it was a big blow for
the family I remember my mother wanting to report to the police but they said
that my sister was not a minor and the note said that she left on her own so
they couldn't do anything in a way my other brother knew that this would
happen at some point since our sister mentioned a lot that she wanted to leave
everything and go live in the countryside or become a nun and live in
a calm place without any worries but nobody took her seriously about that she
was always the kind of person who did things without telling anyone she liked
her Solitude sometimes even if she was always friendly the first months and
weeks were strange it wasn't that she had passed passed away but that she
disappeared because she wanted to I remember my mother missing her because
they always shared the afternoons together I also missed her a lot even
years later my family missed her and at Christmas or her birthday someone would
always say maybe she'll show up now or we would wonder how she's doing or if
she was alive back to the present I'm on
vacation in the south of my country this
part of my country is very expensive for a tourist and I am the only one in my
family who was able to come now that I am an adult
it's a place full of villages and while I was exploring I came to a place where
they sold typical handicrafts of the place while shopping I can swear that
the first thing I saw was my sister looking at some crafts on a shelf she
looked more adult but obviously I recognized her instantly we are really
similar after all I didn't really know how to react after so many years and I
didn't know how she would react but I went over and said her name what I
didn't expect was that she would smile instantly when she saw me and call me by
my Nick name I thought she had escaped because she didn't want anything to do
with the family even if in the note she said she loved us but she was greeting
me as if nothing had happened she told me that she didn't expect to see me
there and asked me if I was on vacation she said that the village used to be not
so touristy but now more people started to go and many villagers opened stores
for the tourists I was upset I was angry with her for leaving us and pretending
that nothing happened but I couldn't react so I just asked her if she lives
in that town and she said yes it's a place filled with old people we talked
for a few seconds she asked me what I'm studying and if everyone at home is okay
she told me I'm taller and thinner then she gave me a kiss on the cheek and told
me that if I have a few days off I can go visit her but she doesn't have a cell
phone so she told me that she's almost there every day my sister also told me
to send hugs to our parents I'm confused and full of questions about her she
doesn't even want to hide she didn't look at me or talk to me like someone
who wanted to run away from something and hide she was just happy to see me
and happy to know that we were all good but I also feel resentment for her when
I think about all that our parents and grandparents suffered when she
disappeared making my mother feel that she was a bad mother because she
couldn't protect her but I'm ambivalent as I'm also happy to know that she's
okay and that she doesn't hate me or the family but I'm also confused her
behavior wasn't that of someone who is hiding or who doesn't want to know
anything about her past she was just to hear about us edit I'm sorry but there
are people who clearly don't read the post there are literally people saying
that I didn't even know my sister and commenting as if they knew her and
taking things for granted about her life there are even people saying that they
don't understand why I'm angry it's just
a feeling a normal feeling it's not that I hate her and I will treat her badly
God nor will I talk to my family without talking to her first at what point in
the post did I say that I'm going to expose her I'm never going to treat her
badly either because I have no reason to do so it's crazy how half the comments
draw silly conclusions with my sister when I literally say it up there even if
my English is bad because it's not my first language just read the post before
you want to get a few likes for some unnecessary advice comments matomo you
were 10 when she left it could be that the story you've been told your whole
life is missing a few key details I think you should let your sister tell
her story if she is so inclined and withhold judgment or anger until that point
MLL it almost seems like the sister has been in contact with someone for a while
and thinks news is being passed back and forth matomo that is very possible too
it could be the brother who seemed to know the sister was leaving op I never
thought about that but I don't think so seeing how my parents miss her I think
the first thing the family would do would be to at least tell my father that
she is okay no mechanic 3048 I would reach out to your brother
first process the together total Independence 881 you were too young to
know if your parents missed her or missed the idea of her a family I know
had their adult daughter die suddenly a year ago the daughter had no contact
with the parents for a couple years because the parents were narcissistic
and weren't good at being her parents the parents still hoped she'd be the
daughter they wanted her to be instead of the daughter she actually was the
parents miss her but not the person her friends would say she was they missed
the person they wished she was my my sister in the note said that she loves
our parents my brother was 19 when our sister left and he himself knows how
much our parents loved and supported her when she was having a hard time with
herself but the outside always affected her badly I was 10 years old but I
wasn't a baby and I remember what the family Dynamic was like I remember the
feeling of my family my parents are not narcissists and my sister loved them and
they love who's my sister she just had her own problems how could a parent miss
the idea of their children there's not a day when my parents don't miss
everything about my sister they miss sharing the day with her my father even
missed when she was cranky my parents always let us go our own way and I can
assure you that they never pressured us to be what they wanted us to be I don't
even know what they want us to be comment from op on his account can
people just stop with the aggressive messages weirdos I understand that many
reflect their personal traumas on this site but I literally received passive
aggressive messages calling me an idiot or even telling me that I would hate my
sister if she were neurod divergent or claiming that my parents abused her
what's wrong with y'all go to a psychologist and stop reflecting your
unresolved traumas in the story of a person you don't even know go out and
touch grass and talk to a real person instead of literally sending private
messages like that I didn't ask for any advice and just wanted to share my story
because that's the point of that sub it but many took it the wrong way and
decided to turn something positive into a way to fight I don't even understand
why out of nowhere I started getting those kinds of messages or if someone
shared that post in a weird place update 11 days later on Sunday I finally found
my sister again she was selling things in the park with other stands and all of
her friends are like Rastafari My sister does not consider herself Ras aarian
hippie Punk Etc she shares part of their ideology not hippies or a sect although
some of them are punks too I walked over and she greeted me just as happily we
talked about a couple of things and my sister told me that she doesn't have a
cell phone so it was impossible for her to tell me that she wouldn't be there on
Saturday I spent the afternoon with her at her stand and after that we went to
her house she lives alone and sometimes with her friends we talked for a while
and at one point she broke down and hugged me saying she was trying to stay
calm all this time and didn't know how to react because she didn't want to make
me cry too because she remembered that I was really sensitive but she couldn't
hold it anymore we cried and talked a lot my sister was tired of people she
said that our house was her safe place but hated the idea of having to work
every day and I didn't want to study anything she was our parents Golden
Child So they let her do whatever she wanted but she knew that at some point
she had to make something of her life she was tired of how stupid and empty
everyone was of the politicians of the TV showing empty things of the noise
everywhere outside when she wanted peace even sleeping in our home was stressful
for everyone because of the noise outside during the weekends when she she
wanted to be alone to smoke and listen to music that added to the pressure that
Society put on her to be physically perfect made her want to leave
everything behind in my country weighing more than 53 kg is considered fat for a
woman and it used to be worse she didn't
want to die but realized that my parents were miserable when they saw her being
miserable this is something I didn't know but my sister said that our father
had two jobs to be able to pay for her psychologist and medication also my
father used to spoil her a lot with the only food she ate without guilt running
away was like dying symbolically my sister says that Although our parents
always supported her she felt like a failure for not being able to improve
and always relapsing she felt bad to see our father working so hard and also
wanted to live according to her spiritual philosophy free from all that
is toxic in society all of those things made her run away from everything she
felt like a burden and also didn't want to live a life working and miserable
like everyone around and I understand her living in a place where not even the
economy as stable as hard sis told me that she never contacted us because she
doesn't want to have a cell phone she wouldn't know how to contact us anyway
and a trip to our province is too expensive for her because it's basically
going from one end of the country to the
other she also says that a large part of her feels ashamed of the pain she knows
she inflicted on our parents and didn't know how to talk to everyone when she
came back but I assured her that our parents would just be happy to see her
and not angry she's really excited and wants to talk to them now but we're
thinking about whether to send them a text or make a video call with my cell
phone she wants to go home with me to see everyone but first we want them to
know that she is going with me so they don't feel so shocked they are senior
citizens and our dad is recovering from dangi she doesn't even have a TV after
everything he experienced at fodo she prefers to stay away from anything like
that I don't have one either my sister said that she is much better now that
she is away from the city I'm writing this with her beside me and she doesn't
understand what the point of this site is the last social network she used was
fotog in 27 but she said that she doesn't mind if I post this she wanted
to write something but said she doesn't like writing in English my sister was
reading the comments and wants me to clarify that she never suffered any kind
of abuse she has a lot of friends and has never had any problems with anyone
but she likes to be alone from time to time to meditate like everyone else and
she's not autistic she said her behavior was normal because of her TLP and her
psychologist and others have already told her that she doesn't have any other
condition than that suffers from ad and sees a psychologist twice a month so yes
she has psychological help from a professional during her adolescence the
blogs Anna and Mia were trendy her friends had that aesthetic and she was
really popular in fotog according to my sister at that time it was taken as an
aesthetic and even a book about that was really popular between teens maybe
someone from my country knows absera she hated going out when she felt fat she
couldn't have Perfections like cuts on her arms so she hurt herself with a
rubber band when she overate something she read in those blogs now she's in
good shape but it took her really long to not relapse again it's been a long
recovery for her and once you're anorexic you never stop being anorexic
she's always afraid of relapsing obviously my sister has to work but she
does What She Likes in a different Rhythm than the people we live with in
the city although that leaves her just enough to live she likes her lifestyle
although she is also a little tired of the cold and would like to move to the
north of the country in a few years she's still just as outgoing as she used
to be with everyone and she says she wants to see all the family so that's it
for now we don't know how we're going to talk with our parents without making
them freak out and also my sister after seeing the comments on the post saw
other Reddit posts and said that her life is definitely better without a cell
phone she says that things like fog were the beginning of all evil comments no
dragon fruit 9656 can she write your parents a letter
instead of a phone call then she can also get out all her thoughts at once
and say everything she wishes op she could write a letter although I don't
know how long it would take for the maale to arrive I'm planning to take my
sister with me to see the family but I'll be back home soon and we'd rather
let our parents know she's going with me maybe an email could work too humble
nobody 2884 oh man this is such a Bittersweet
story she loves you and the family and only stayed away out of guilt guilt in
pain what a blessing it's been for you two to find each other and to be able to
get some resolution to these open wounds I do hope you keep us updated as you
both progress forward best of luck and much love to you both culture gentlemen
921 can you arrange for your parents to visit her do you think she would want
that because as a parent myself I would really want that I would sell a effing
kidney to pay for the trip op my parents
don't have money to make the trip I plan to take my sister with me and take her
to my parents house but first we would rather send them a text or letter to not
surprise them too much H MLL please make sure your sister has a safe place to
escape to when you take her to see your parents her arrival will cause a big
hubub and everyone will want to interact with her all at once she may get
overwhelmed easily it also might be wise to set ground rules for how and when
your family interacts with her decide on a safe word or hand signal she can give
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hey everyone my name is Jake and today we aren't gonna be looking at some item
work here lady's stories so sit back relax and enjoy a wild Karen trying to
get me fired from a job I didn't even own for not speaking
Russian and this story actually contains some Russian so I'm sorry for the awful
pronunciation a little bit of backstory to understand this a little better in
Estonia there are usually a lot of Russians going around especially in
summer many often learn Estonian because well they are living in a foreign
country it's the normal thing to do then there are just people who choose not to
learn it despite living here because Estonia used to be occupied by Russians
so some believe that we should learn their language despite them literally
living in a foreign country which is quite an absurd expectation in my
opinion in summer my friend had a part-time job at the beach as a carousel
such bounce house / trampoline tickets salesmen plus having to help kids on the
carousels you get it it's something a teen can handle they didn't have any
uniforms and usually would just sit in the shade near the actual employee chair
/ table until someone asked to buy a ticket usually wearing summer clothes
and a fanny pack for money sometimes I and some others would hang out at her
workplace since it was allowed and we were teens so we were bored and had
nowhere to be at so basically my friend was packing as they were closing up in
the tent nearby and I just happened to sit near the employee jet to make sure
her backpack wasn't stolen that's when it happened
this Russian lady in her 40s with blue eyeshadow on her eyes and leopard print
leggings way too small for her stomach squishing her waist and creating more
rolls than there were dragging her blond
kid by the wrists and pushing her 1 to 2 year old in a trolley or whatever you
call it in English a baby trolley there must be a better word for it who is
waltzing towards me was absolutely terrified she was gonna
make me babysit her kids while she was going to jump on the trampoline or
something but I realized quickly that she would have destroyed the trampoline
so I have no idea why she was coming towards me then it hit me
oh no she thinks I work here the lady stated something in Russian and
throw two euros on the nearby table tapping her foot I was sitting there
absolutely confused trying to mimic something as I couldn't remember my
Russian from sixth grade sitting on the bench next to the workers
chair then I realized how to end this madness I was going to say the only
thing I can say in Russian Yanni pony my au pair o ski which means I don't
understand Russian grunted I've been taught Russian from sixth grade so I'm
more or less so understand some words in simple sentences and can guess the
meaning easily I just can't speak it she replied with something along the lines
of how can you say that without knowing Russian you're lying then she went on a
huge run of what I'm guessing judging by how many times she said words like
school teach Estonia rude to Russians how Estonians are rude to Russians and
should learn Russian instead of being douchebags and speaking
their own language in their own country she was yelling her guts out until I
understood a complete sentence yah-ha-ha gravid samanage rom tipo de
jour Valen air or something along those lines which means I want to speak to the
manager you'll be fired then I remembered how to say I don't work so I
said Yana rubato but her kid come me off with his crying and her other kid kept
demanding the bounce house then she was trying to comfort her kid and got quiet
this Beach had ruined my day so instead of telling her I don't work here during
the quiet I waited for her kid to calm down I
promised myself I wouldn't be such a pushover and stood up being taller than
her by surprise I was fifteen and five foot nine and said in the loudest voice
possible exactly after when her kid calm
down yeah Nair Roberta literally I don't work I know how hard taking care of a
kid can be so I purposely yelled so she'd have to console her kid again I
felt like a douche but I was tired of being a pushover kids started bawling
her other kid trying to run towards the bounce house and trying to make her mom
take him there she got so angry that she
was actually red screaming something and
literally dropped her baby into the sand mentioning manager and that I should
just do my job and not fool around just because they're Russian multiple times
and I was scared that this woman was going to kick my butt from the rage I
may be a jerk but I felt bad for the baby and rushed past that bench and
picked it up which infuriated the mother more then put it in the trolley no one
should have a mum like that I thought eventually my friend's boss who can
speak Russian asked what was going on I said that this Russian witch thinks I
work ere the lady started throwing a literal tantrum and crying about
something she was speaking fast and in Russian trying so hard to be dramatic
that her kid escaped into the bounce house which I wasn't even going to try
and stop because again I don't work there he then told her simply in Russian
she doesn't work here and we're closing up anyway also get your kid off there
this lady gets this look on her face that she's going to sue me
and no one listens to her but leaves with a few Russian curse words calling
her bratty seeming kid over who had been interrupting this entire time by
demanding to go to the bounce house and yelling
for her mom I was almost crying thanks the man as friends boss then he said oh
I don't work here either I was just bored and watched the show from the
bench near the swings you should probably learn Russian she said some
pretty nasty things about Estonians then proceeded to translate me what he said
to the manager apparently she said that I threw her
precious baby into the sand denied them of service because of where they're from
that she's a single mum and they should give my paycheck to her how I mocked her
and how Estonians should all speak Russian I thanked him again and he left
to go get some ice cream then my friend finally came back and we started rolling
up the carpets in deflating the bounce house etc after she was off duty I
couldn't wait to tell her the story but she was busy telling me some of her
issues so it wasn't the right time I thought I'd tell her some other day and
it's been half a year to this day and nobody knows this so I'm happy to share
it that's kind of crazy that I've never thought about that I always think like
British people and American people expect everyone in the world to speak
English when you go on holiday but I never thought Oh Russians do that too
Estonians etc in other countries so that's kind of whack do you work here
yes it is very warm here huh what I got done work early today and wanted to take
advantage of a warm day and some unexpected free time I work with a
German Shepherd I added a link to his picture at the bottom of this post which
I'll show on screen at the end and have had towels etc in the car to give him a
bath I pulled into the designated spot at our local car and dog wash Emporium
and go out to check and see if the dog wash was open today was unseasonally
warm in our area and in Saturday the car wash was packed this time of year
temperatures are usually below freezing and there is often snow on the ground
it was 55 and sunny today there were people mowing their lawns unheard of for
the end of December it's usually snow blower weather I mentioned the weather
because the carwash area of the facility
I was at was very busy there was no open carwash bays and one open vacuum and
shampoo station this story winds up being about the empty vacuum station
when I got out of my car to check the dog wash room a gentleman at the car
wash Bay got my attention and pointed to the dog wash I could not
hear him over all the noise but his facial expression and body language were
obvious he was asking me a question I thought he was asking if I was going to
use the dog wash so I yelled yes and gave him a thumbs up sign he then
hurried to the lone empty vacuum and motion to me I thought he was making a
joke in fact I thought it was funny he wanted me to vacuum my dog he seemed
confused about my reply and made more motions towards the vacuum and kept
trying to yell to me over the din of the 10 or 11 vacuums in pressure washers
working to rid our town of road salt yes
we have had ice storms recently so 55 is an extra Christmas present for us I
wasn't sure why he liked that vacuum so much but my wife was home sick and I
wanted to get home and help her out by getting dinner for her and our son
I had confirmed the dog wash was free and had walked back to my car I had my
hand on the handle ready to get the dog out when I realized this guy was behind
me actually the car was shaking so much it was the dog that let me know the guy
was behind me in a very heavy Eastern European accent the gentleman told me
the vacuum was broken and had taken his money then it hit me
he thinks the dog wash is the office and
he thinks I work there I asked him if he asked me if I worked there when he
motioned to the end or and he said yes I explained to him that
I did not work there and that I thought he was asking me if I was there to use
the dog wash some people like to wash dogs with the dejected woe-is-me
expressions as they get a bath people often look into the dog wash as
the pooches in the tub heck my wife and I often take pictures of the dogs after
they've been soaked down and lathered up they look so pathetic I managed to
convey to the gentleman that I didn't work there and I was there to wash the
dog it wasn't until I pointed out the dog in the car but he finally realized
there was a very large and angry dog focused on him it was too loud to hear
the dog but he had my SUV shaking quite a bit it took another couple minutes but
the man and I managed to get through the language barrier and I showed him where
the info was to call him report a problem and get a refund and then I got
to wash my partner we did wind up with an audience my glasses were getting
fogged so I took them off and went to put them on the shelf when I looked up
there was a guy with his young son and daughter outside and they were watching
my dog as he did his best drowned rat impersonation all three of them were
smiling the dog you know I should have charged them admission and given the
money to the other guy phase vacuum losses and here's the picture on screen
yeah my parents dog absolutely hates getting baths and when he gets a bath he
just looks like a complete rat it's a Bedlington Terrier so is his weird lady
demands to speak to my manager in a store right don't work in for hiding the
donuts this happened to me yesterday I live in Scotland and everyone is super
nice I thought I would never see the day when I would meet a Karen she didn't
have the haircut but she did have the chunky highlights
anyways on to the story so I was on my day off from work yesterday and I wanted
some junk food so I went to my local supermarket
I left my car and walked into the store and to the crazy lady she was right in
the entrance screaming at the security guard for blocking her entrance I hoped
I wouldn't have to deal with her BS but boy was I wrong I went to the bakery
section and I took the last box of doughnuts
thank God they still had doughnuts as I was going to the frozen food to get some
ice cream I was attacked by the Kraken itself
she said employees are not supposed to hide the foods they like in the back for
themselves note I was wearing a black tracksuit I have read this subreddit
long enough to know what was about to happen and I was pretty sure the back
room or whatever was on the other side at the back of the store
I replied sorry ma'am I don't work here now if you'll excuse me I need to go I
started to walk away she got mad the crazy lady said in the most high-pitched
voice I have ever heard I want to speak to your manager I continued walking
completely ignoring her she continued to shrink things like manager and thief I
got my ice cream and was walking to the tills check out for you Americans then
she came from an aisle out of nowhere with the manager and she said that's him
he was stealing with a huge grin on her face
I made a big ax to face the manager said mom he doesn't work here and empty your
pockets please so that's what I did I put my things on the shelf and emptied
my pockets all I had was my wallet and my car keys
no I Drive a Mercedes a 2017 c63 s to be precise her eyes are stuck on the car
keys she said those those are my car keys it's my Mercedes
yes she actually said it like that and he punched and even took my doughnuts
because he was jealous that I got the lust pack fire him immediately
now even the manager knows she is talking trash the manager said mom he
does not work here as for your claims let me check the security footage and if
it's true I will call the police now she
made the picket to face the manager went
and came back and he said mom leave this man alone or I will have to ask you to
leave long story short she was asked to leave and I got the donuts for free okay
she is just straight-up crazy like who approaches a person and then says oh
damn my cocky like she was trying to steal his car hey everyone I hope you're
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AIT for telling my mom that I won't postpone my wedding if she pays for my
nose job that I blame her for not the a-hole my fiance 34m and I 31f got
engaged in November 2023 we were planning a deck 2024 wedding but we've
learned that I need a nose job for medical and aesthetic reasons so we've
postponed the wedding until after due to finances my mom 65f is mad about the
whole thing and how it will be perceived by relative backstory when I was nine I
fell off my bike and broke my nose sadly
my mom didn't believe that it was broken she said I was over exaggerating the
pain she refused to take me to the doctor it hurts so much I cried daily
for weeks note she was a s and we live in Canada so taking me to a doctor
wouldn't have cost money or time off work since then I've had issues with
breathing and awful sinus pain occasionally to the point of vomiting
flying is torture random weather changes
are torture I spend 16 to 23 days a year in bed immobilized by pain/ pressure in
my left sinus also my nose never looked the same after in middle school kids
said L look like Gollum and I'm still | give me a good story on AITAfortellingmymomthatIwontpostponemyweddingifshepaysformynosejoborig |
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parents are Reddit who dislike hate or resent your children what happened I
dated a guy for 5 years and he was the sole parent of a kid he basically raised
her barely above neglect levels she had food clothes and a room but he would
basically not do anything to care for her and wouldn't even see her for days
on end she was six when we met I felt I had to step in and help out and he
basically dumped raising her on me I was
overwhelmed resented the fact that I had to change my life and my life lifestyle
for her but when I would withdraw she basically was left in her room
frequently grounded for minor infractions because it meant he had an
excuse not to interact I tried to make things special for her planned outings
and whatnot she never expressed gratitude and would blow temper tantrums
that things weren't enough I wasn't spending enough money or went to the
local amusement park when she wanted to go to Disney her father was manipulative
if I took time for myself he would tell her it was because I was being self is
she picked up on this and would threaten
to tattle on me if I didn't do something or told her to take time she told her
grandparents her grades were bad because I didn't do it for her when her father
and I split up it was hard because I knew her dad wasn't willing to parent at
all and I knew she would be neglected no one deserves that but I had to get out
of the bad relationship we kept in touch for a while but her dad started using
her as a weapon and I broke contact now she posts angry messages on Facebook
directed at me she's entering her teen years and blames her problems on me
adding to myself her grandparents hated me and would undermine me once a week I
had to go pick up medication and the pharmacy was in the mall she would freak
out the whole way through the mall pointing out what she wanted it ended up
in a huge tantrum every single time so I
started giving her $5 every Mall trip we talked about budgeting and how if she
waited a few weeks she could save up it also gave me something to hold if she
was naughty I had trouble convincing her to bathe for example after two months
she was doing well her grandmother found out and blew a fit that I was
restricting her she took her to the mall and took her on $1,000 shopping spree
and told her I was just too selfish to do the same after that the kid would
make snarky comments when we went in about how I would only buy myself things
and how selfish I was then one day she snuck off and ended up shoplifting
jewelry I had to call her father embarrassed to get her out of the mall
security he freaked out and blamed me just bad all around another story really
quick the last day of school before winter vacation there was a recital with
little plays and whatnot the previous year to this I went my ex didn't the
year in question I begged him to go it meant a lot to his daughter and she had
been upset her father had been busy the previous year it ended up with a fight
the day before as he had a wow raid he would miss the day of I figured he would
not show I bought the daughter and you dress for the recital and got her ready
in the morning and on the bus so I'm sitting there things are about to begin
and in walks my then bef he is a freshly Barber shaved and wearing a freshly
pressed shirt and tie when his daughter recites her little thing he whoops and
yells that's my girl there's a little reception afterwards with cookies and
punch and he brings in a dozen roses and presents them to the daughter a dawn
walks around basically showing off his actress the daughter's beaming he's
joking around charmingly to the teachers all good he loudly promises her we're
going to Olive Garden for dinner she loved Olive Garden and thought it was
fancy we order his Charming is crashing and he's starting to get snippy with us
and she's feeling the dro in mood and is getting suen we go to leave and she has
her drink in a Togo cup I had opened the back seat of my car and was leaning in
and for some reason she was running backwards in the parking lot she crashes
into the door and the drink spills down the front of her dress he blows up
screams at her and grounds her for a week for a horing around and ruining her
dress the grounding meant he didn't have to deal with her for a bit then her
grandmother showed up to take her for their annual getaway I was in the living
room when the grandmother confronted me asking why the kid was grounded turns
out the kid told her grandmother I had slammed a car door on her and blamed the
kid for the drink being spilled she said I wanted the kid grounded so that I
could go to my friend's bachelorette party she threatened that if I didn't
treat her granddaughter better she would throw me out of her son's house I spoke
about it with my BF over text he sent me back a picture of him with the daughter
at the recital both all smiles and said is this the face of a child who would
lie yeah that sounds like the face of a lying child to me but hey it's not op's
problem anymore good on her and good for her good reddits story two throw away
because my husband knows my Reddit name and I'm not sure how he would take this
I remarried a wonderful man my soulmate about two years ago and now I have two
kids of my own one son and one daughter one is 14 and the other's 21 he has a
daughter she's almost eight we met when his daughter was about three and a half
and I know it is bad to say but personality wise she hasn't changed very
much the last four or so years I don't necessarily dislike my stepdaughter all
the time I have just had to distance myself a bit she has no manners no
respect she's spoiled and will whine until she gets her way for example I
overheard her tell her great grandmother
to shut up I also heard her tell her mom you are the most disgusting person I
ever met when they scold her she always tries to say she was just J Jing and
then she'll start crying and saying nobody wants me around and stuff like
that I know this is turning into a long post and I apologize it's just been
building up for so long I tried my best with her and I had such high hopes for a
close relationship with my stepdaughter but I found that our personalities clash
and I'm just used to having respectful kids my husband tries his best to make
her act right but every time she goes back to her moms or her grandparents it
just gets worse they give her everything she wants no matter what and they allow
her to talk to them anyway because she is still little and we may not have any
more kids SL grandkids so I don't blame my husband I feel bad for him because
he's tired of having to be the bad guy all the time oh and she likes to torment
my cats I tell her all the time to be nice to them pet them gently or better
yet leave them alone but she likes to chase them pour water on them throw dirt
at them Etc she has plenty of toys in her room and also electronics and games
but she will cry and whine until my husband lets her use his laptop she
likes to watch toy commercials on Youtube and tells us what she wants for
Christmas or her birthday she makes these five Page Long lists of what she
wants all the time and then if she doesn't get it she whes that she never
gets anything she wants her mother told us she picked out a $50 Halloween
costume last week she said she told her that it was way too expensive to pay
when she's only going to wear it a few hours well step daughter proceeds to cry
and say she doesn't have anything and never gets anything and she needs new
parents one more thing that makes me mad
if adults are in the room trying to have a conversation she will interrupt
repeatedly until they stop talking and listen to her or watch her do some
little thing that could have waited this
child gets more attention than any child ever so I know it's not a lack of
attention that causes it I could go on and on but no one wants to read a TW
mile long post of me whining and complaining so I'll just end it here
thanks for letting me ventil little one more thing I thought of about a year ago
I had my little granddaughter over at our house she was about 9 months old at
the time stepdaughter got caught trying to give the baby rocks we all get on to
her and tell her how dangerous it is to give a baby rocks babies can choke and
get injured or even pass all that well a few minutes later I catch her putting
the rocks in my grandbaby's pocket and I go mental after telling her she could
choke and pass if she gets a hold of a rock she just put it in the baby's
pocket just one more example of something something not right with this
girl so this one reminds me of one video I made before about kids from Hell cow
wow anyway if you're enjoying these stories so far and you're getting riled
up and it feels good for you please do consider hitting that like button and
subscribe to the channel it helps keep me going Story three my eldest son is
severely autistic and 12 years old now imagine someone Bound by OCD that cannot
talk and cannot understand seemingly very simple Concepts he can understand
some things but the concept of abstract communication eludes him I.E I can tell
him to get dressed but he cannot understand that the tag on a shirt goes
behind his neck so there is a 25% chance his shirt is on correctly 25% chance it
is on backwards 25% chance it is on facing correctly but inside out and 25%
chance it is on backwards and inside out of course if it is cold outside there's
also a 50% chance he'll come out in shorts now that isn't really too big a
deal but the inability to grasp this portion of communication bleeds into
everything things 99.9% of people take completely for granted when he was three
he had an ear infection we didn't know that of course we just knew that he was
inconsolable and in pain from something he does not understand questions like
does it hurt here or show me where it hurts or does your stomach hurt
eventually his eard drum burst out and we said oh earic he has never been given
aspirin for a headache he's probably had a headache but I don't know he can't
tell tell us if he has a headache or any
other kind of ache he can use the toilet but doesn't really get using toilet
paper or maybe he does but saw us get upset once for throwing an entire roll
into the toilet So lately he has been going to the bathroom at 5:00 a.m. then
finding clothes sheets towels something whatever and wiping with those we've
pretty much run the washing machine on sanitized about 75 times a day the last
2 weeks he's got a reason for it somewhere in his head that makes sense
to him but he can't tell us what it is and we can't get him to figure out to
come and get us if he's taking a dump we've taken to hiding Foods he prefers
in the house given free rain to potato chips or hummus or Cranberries or
whatever he'll eat and eat and eat and then throw up later that night it's not
his fault he's been on antis psychotics for a few years now one side effect of
which is weight gain I hate giving him antis psychotics but not as much as how
he acts or acted when he wasn't on them as a family we cannot realistically
travel interruptions to his routine result in a constant moan and whine and
crying occasional Outburst of self-injury or rarely attacking others
the pain and fear he feels is very real to him and we're powerless to provide
him Comfort instead my wife will travel with my other sons while I stay home
with him he has never had a friend that was not direct family or a therapist I
don't see how he ever will he will never kiss a girl drive a car or have a job
and have no idea if he wants to do those things or not or if he even knows that
those things exist at all in the early days of his autism we threw therapies at
him by writing checks against a house and credit card companies to the tune of
30k plus per year for 5 years or so insurance has subsequently helped out
with some of this we're still digging our way out of that slowly but surely
ultimately however they haven't really done much in the context of turning him
into a person that can life his own life for example they're working on having
him keep a Band-Aid on they've had that as part of his program for about 6
months and he'll keep a Band-Aid on for 15 minutes or so great the reality is
that when he gets a cut or laceration as it's open for weeks he simply will
constantly tear away any bandages I'm sure that he has good reasons in his
mind for not wanting a bandage on but he just doesn't understand the concept of
medicine making you feel better in a few days none of those things seem to get
through he's never been to the dentist there are some that will work with
children like him when he is unconscious we just haven't felt like giving him
anesthesia to take him to the godamn dentist it's on the list for this year
though he goes through periods of self-injury when he was a toddler he
banged his head a lot he broke a few windows in our home he's very likely
concussed himself a few times lately he's been punching the table during
favorite scenes from Disney films he has a blood blister about 3 in Long on both
hands he understands when we tell him don't do that punch the pillow instead
so he'll punch the pillow for a few minutes and then start banging the walls
again he is simply a slave to the routine when my wife and I die I know
that people that make I don't know $10 an hour will take care of him or not for
the rest of his life there's more like so much more and the thing about autism
is that it does not take one second off nobody gets a day off ever he works
harder than anyone I know harder than anyone reading this thread will ever
work and gets to show for it he inhabits a world where everything is too loud or
too bright or too confusing and too unconforming to his patterns and is
trying as best as he can to navigate through it he didn't ask for any of this
sometimes he's got a father who gets mad at him who resents him for all of these
things and a million others that he cannot control me but he deserves better
than that so I'm trying every hour of the day to remember that he is the one
who got the Raw Deal not me not his brothers him I have had bad moments but
no longer bad weeks or days I'm working on it if only I could work as hard as he
does I'd be golden so the answer to your
question is autism happened to him to us story four my dad likes to ask me I bet
you to know having kids would be so hard huh but no I never in a million years
figured out how hard and by no means have it as bad as some in this thread
though basically it started at terrible twos normal okay but wait no threes were
terrible and fours and fives all terrible it's a bit of just a bad memory
at this point with a few highlights that stand out kindergarten started the
school called every day saying how his behavior was bad he wouldn't sit down on
the bus wouldn't sit still in class wouldn't stop talking during grade
school getting a simple page of homework done took two hours because he would
hide it rip it throw it away I couldn't read books to him at night he would slap
it out of my hands or bounce around on the bed to the point I couldn't finish
he would go into terrible rages as he got older but still in grade school
threatening to throw up on me smash a table turn chairs over had no concept of
behavior versus punishment or reward none we tried everything we could think
of I could say don't touch that thing and turn my back for a second and he was
touching it short-term goals long-term goals immediate punishment or atonement
in the form of making up for bad behavior with good works nothing matters
nothing was being learned he would steal food plenty of Health choices were
available want to eat five ham sandwiches extra dinner sure no I'm
eating an entire carton of ice cream a brick of cheese five popsicles and one
sitting Etc we tried teaching portion control teaching how it was unfair that
he got nine items out of a box of 10 when four of us were in the house we
tried telling him we needed for instance
a block of cheddar cheese for dinner the next night but he could have the sliced
cheese nope he ate up the block he's not allowed to eat food in his room but we
find empty cups and bowls and plates Etc everywhere Bowl under the couch check
old Pizza under the blankets check empty ice cream cart in the closet yep half
eaten frozen dinner in a pile of laundry yeah you guessed it this has been going
on from around 700 until now at 12 he was on meds for a while Focalin at first
his teachers at school called me in one day under the pretense of seeing him
read instead I got ambushed about how unhappy he was and how he really needed
more reading help the next day they said he was done with a special reading
program what he lies about homewor I don't have any great while the school
website says you do where is it show it to me oh I forgot it out of my locker I
did it already I turned it in already all lies when hiding around the house
didn't work out he turned to saying it was at school knowing I couldn't verify
until it turned up as late on the online grade sheet he steals just around the
house so far can't have soda that's okay I'll just take it anyway I want to
impress a girl I'll take my Mom's necklace my chain broke I'll take my
brothers even minutes after being told don't even think about it I want a game
mom said I could have it next week no problem I'll steal her credit card and
order it now or steal my brother's money
he's currently in detention after school on Wednesdays and Fridays to help him
get his work done he's also grounded he lied about not needing to go last
Wednesday and didn't show up he tried to do it this past Friday but I called his
teacher and marched him back to school he cried and screamed about that I
nearly had more than a few nervous breakdowns when the school called me and
let me know about terrible things he told other kids at school we got into
therapy I took hidden videos when he would f about because it was just so
nightmarish I sometimes couldn't even believe it even the next day he threaten
to end himself because some girl didn't want to date him we thought we had
talked about it with the therapist we talked it out nope another night when he
ran home early which was unusual and I got a bad feeling shortly after the
police and paramedics showed up because he threatened to end himself and smeared
my red lip gloss across his chest and took pictures and said he'd done it to
himself that was a very expensive Bill the therapist thought we had it sorted
out nope soon as he got his cell phone back he messaged the girl saying he was
dying from infection he asked repeatedly
why the rules are what they are and even if we lay down the law he'll pester and
pester and pester he'll tell me entirely unnecessary things while while working
even after being told I need to not be distracted we keep tabs on his web
activity Xbox TV viewing and cell phone usage we try to provide knowledge of the
bad things but not allow him to bask in it like many on the internet do too I'm
not religious but I roll with See No Evil Hear no evil speak no evil it's
hard evil is pretty cool in many young people's minds trolling is funny to them
being mean is funny we try to keep him occupied with sports and activities but
he needs an action and monitoring what feels 24/7 and I cannot do it we have
two kids and the youngest who is eight now is so much easier I want to cry I
would have never had kids if I knew how much work the first one was going to be
never where actually doing fairly well at this point and I believe he's hitting
a mature Zone finally it's just it's just been exhausting well if you like
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AIT for demanding back our apartment Keys even though my bf's parents didn't
overstep boundaries again last year I 24f moved in together with my boyfriend
Alex 27m I moved to his City because it was more convenient with work for the
both of us his parents live a few minutes away from him they and I don't
really get along they blame it on cultural differences but in short his
mom is overbearing and doesn't care about boundaries and his dad is a tyrant
my boyfriend does stand up for me and doesn't pressure me to spend more time
with them than politely necessary when we moved in he said he will give two
spare keys to his parents in case we forget ours I was really uncomfortable
with that but he promised that even though they are as they are they would
never just enter our apartment so I agreed not even 2 months later I'm woken
at 5:00 a.m. because I hear someone enter our flat I'm terrified and wake
Alex who only seems annoyed when he gets
out of bed I hear screaming and suddenly the door to our bedroom swings open and
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:00.120 --> :03.040 I have been tempted to write this story for
a while but was too afraid. But I figured :03.040 --> :07.560
if I am brave enough to post unpopular opinions
in fan subreddits, I can write a personal :07.560 --> :13.030
story. Plus, I'm bored at work, so I need to keep busy.
:13.030 --> :17.990 So let's go back to pre-COVID days of college.
I was in graduate school and started my first :17.990 --> :22.789
semester as a teaching assistant for a theories
class. Now the major associated with this :22.789 --> :27.429
class is more art/creative oriented. They
are the type of student base that couldn't :27.429 --> :32.750
care less about theories or other academic
discourse. So traditionally, our department :32.750 --> :38.071
usually had very engaging instructors to help
make the required class more palatable. Or :38.071 --> :43.270
at the very least, the class was easy enough to avoid being a weed out class.
:43.270 --> :49.480 Enter Mr. A. The short of it is that Mr. A
was a PhD student who had a dislike for our :49.480 --> :54.890
undergrads. I understood that graduate and
doctorate students treat undergrads like opportunistic
:54.890 --> :00.350 raccoons (usually for good reason), but Mr.
A took it to another level. He was outright :00.350 --> :06.060
antagonistic to a hostility I never seen from
a instructor. The first conversation I had :06.060 --> :08.220
with the guy involved him sitting me down. :08.220 --> :12.600
"The first thing you should know is to never
trust these students. You do not want to be :12.600 --> :14.230
their friends," he said. :14.230 --> :18.820
Now I recognize the sentiment, but the tone
was on the level of a character from a zombie :18.820 --> :24.310
apocalypse movie. The level of contempt in his voice was discomforting.
:24.310 --> :29.409 Cut to the first day of class. Mr. A had two
instructions for me that I had to follow throughout
:29.409 --> :33.860 the semester, and both reflect his sentiment
towards his students. :33.860 --> :39.180
First, he wanted everyone assigned to seats...in
alphabetical order...for a class of over a :39.180 --> :44.060
hundred students. So, on the first day, we
had to spend the first thirty minutes naming :44.060 --> :49.159
every person on the roster to get them seated.
And then, he expected me to take attendance :49.159 --> :54.621
every class putting the names to the alphabetical
order we sat the students in. He gave me no :54.621 --> :00.060
ID pictures and simply expected me to just
learn all the names. Now, it didn't occur :00.060 --> :05.000
to us to just map a seating chart. But in
my defense, I was TA for less than a week :05.000 --> :10.819
at this point and was relying on the wisdom
of Mr. A early on. I also have an anxiety :10.819 --> :15.440
disorder, so my panicked butt wasn't going
to think up a quick solution. I still wonder :15.440 --> :20.629
why Mr. A, who has taught for a number of
semesters at this point, didn't provide me :20.629 --> :24.520
with that idea since it seems so obvious in retrospect.
:24.520 --> :28.980 The second thing he wanted me to do was monitor
the class in the back to make sure students :28.980 --> :33.530
weren't using their phones and give them a
zero on their participation grade if they :33.530 --> :39.150
were. So I had to know which students were
not participating without a seating chart :39.150 --> :44.879
or not immediately knowing their name. This
showcased his deep lack of trust of his students. :44.879 --> :49.200
He wanted little room for the students to
cheat the system, which is hard to do with :49.200 --> :52.879
120 odd students and a TA with no experience. :52.879 --> :57.970
Suffice it to say, it was a crap show. My
accuracy was horrible and sitting through :57.970 --> :03.269
every class to monitor was terrible. Remember
when I said that the theories instructor was :03.269 --> :09.620
usually engaging to make the clinical material
more tolerable? Yeah, Mr. A wasn't that. To :09.620 --> :14.330
put it simply, if I had him as a teacher when
I was in undergrad, I would have consider :14.330 --> :21.049
him the worst instructor I ever had. He was
vague, didn't compel discussion, and generally :21.049 --> :26.209
felt more like an obstacle to the students
learning than a guide. He was so bad that :26.209 --> :31.510
when another PhD student subbed for him and
actually taught the class, you can feel the :31.510 --> :36.670
atmosphere of the room change. You would never
thought a Nigerian man could take a theories :36.670 --> :41.310
lesson and turn in into paradise, but it sure
felt like it to the students and I. :41.310 --> :47.130
So about a few weeks in, and I threw my hands
up and just did the ol' sign up sheet method. :47.130 --> :52.239
This lasted for most of the semester until
the last month where Mr. A sent a critical :52.239 --> :57.909
email telling me to revert back to the old
method. When I told him my concerns as well :57.909 --> :03.920
mannered as I could, he accused me of being
'hostile' and other inflaming adjectives. :03.920 --> :07.849
I suppose he wanted to seem I was the agitator for email evidence.
:07.849 --> :13.239 He also threatened my TA evaluation which
I did not take well which leads to the main :13.239 --> :14.239 event.
:14.239 --> :19.290 Part of the class was an essay. And in the
fine print of the assignment laid one sentence. :19.290 --> :24.669
"This assignment can be worked with another
person." The vagueness and lack of limitations :24.669 --> :29.370
could easily cause confusion (even be exploited in the right hands).
:29.370 --> :33.289 When I showed him my concern for this part
of the assignment, he waved it off and said :33.289 --> :38.390
this wouldn't be a problem. This sort of put
me over the edge. I'm not quick to anger, :38.390 --> :41.340
but that was close to what pulling the final straw felt like.
:41.340 --> :46.160 Cut to class, and he is explaining the assignment.
I know the moment a student asks about the :46.160 --> :51.070
group project line, it would easily cause
a ruckus. But no one was saying anything. :51.070 --> :56.100
So, I took matters into my own hands. I got
the attention of a student sitting next to :56.100 --> :57.100 me.
:57.100 --> :00.699 "Hey look to page three," I whispered. He
turned to the page in question right before :00.699 --> :05.330
I stabbed his paper with my finger. "Can you ask Mr. A about this line?"
:05.330 --> :10.450 Naturally, he was confused. I mean why the
heck would the TA be asking him to do such :10.450 --> :14.810
an odd thing? But I reassured him and told him to "humor me."
:14.810 --> :18.470 A few minutes later, he raised his hand and
asked the question. :18.470 --> :25.190
What followed was the most insane, chaotic,
and out of control college class I've seen. :25.190 --> :30.850
It was like a high school auditorium. People
were talking over each other and asking questions. :30.850 --> :35.470
Girls were already deciding who to work with.
People were just on their phones and couldn't :35.470 --> :41.259
care less. This was an over hour long class,
and about fifty minutes of it was dedicated :41.259 --> :47.000
to clearing up the confusion to this one freaking
line. "This assignment can be worked with :47.000 --> :48.539
another person." :48.539 --> :53.440
Mr. A looked overwhelmed as he tried to reign
control of his class while I stared at him :53.440 --> :58.199
like Griffith from Berserk. It was my most satisfying moment as a TA.
:58.199 --> :02.640 There is more to this story, but I will stop
here since that is where the pettiness ends. :02.640 --> :07.289
As I have matured, I look back and wish I
done things differently. I realize now that :07.289 --> :11.700
I made mistakes and learned lessons during
that time. I totally understand if this story :11.700 --> :15.370
rubs you the wrong way. I sometimes feel the same way.
:15.370 --> :21.150 That being said, while I don't remember the
names of any of my 120 odd students, I still :21.150 --> :54.650
remember Mr. A's face trying to tame them.
English is not my first per se, but since :54.650 --> :58.810
my mom used to live in the US I learned english as well as german.
:58.810 --> :03.319 Learning a language like that tends to make
you fluent, but gives you a serious disadvantage :03.319 --> :08.600
when it comes to grammar, and tends to make
you really unpopular with teachers. That, :08.600 --> :13.080
or the fact that I was a big mouthed little crap. No idea which one it was.
:13.080 --> :18.340 My english teacher in High School was a incredibly
stuck up bench, with a stick made of Mithril :18.340 --> :21.960
up her butt. As you can imagine we didn't get along well.
:21.960 --> :26.419 My comments earned me a lot of extra homework
along the year, so I decided to have a little :26.419 --> :27.480
fun of my own. :27.480 --> :32.420
I wrote the word "Penis" on the blackboard,
not too big, on the lower left corner. As :32.420 --> :38.280
soon as she saw "dirty word" she turned red,
grabbed the Ponge and rubbed the devils root :38.280 --> :40.020
out of existence. :40.020 --> :44.490
Next lesson, the penis was back. A little
larger, a little more in the middle. Again, :44.490 --> :45.699
she rubbed it away. :45.699 --> :50.680
This went on for nearly two weeks, incrementally
bigger and bolder, until the word Penis took :50.680 --> :55.840
up the whole blackboard. Any attemt to find the culprit were met with silence.
:55.840 --> :00.710 At the last day, I wrote it as large as the
blackboard would allow. Below, i wrote: :00.710 --> :12.169
"The more you rub it, the bigger it gets." I :12.169 --> :16.640
was working for a small logging business.
The owner's son was in charge of everything. :16.640 --> :21.610
He was a very careless kid with no restraint.
He knew his dad and mom would bail him out :21.610 --> :25.729
or fix what he damaged. I drove a new car
to work one day because I was going to my :25.729 --> :29.479
sister's after work. It was the opposite way from our commute.
:29.479 --> :33.779 A flatbed truck was coming to our site to
pick up a piece of equipment but couldn't :33.779 --> :39.261
find the site. Boss Jr. wanted to use my car
to chase down the truck. I told him no. He :39.261 --> :45.260
had a very bad habit of wrecking all the vehicles.
So, on Monday, I showed up for work but was :45.260 --> :51.330
fired on the spot for leaving early Friday.
I did not leave early, but this was his story. :51.330 --> :56.920
So, the revenge came a few years later. I
was at a bar one night. Live music, dancing, :56.920 --> :01.730
packed place. My sister was the bartender.
She approached my table and asked if I knew :01.730 --> :07.560
this guy over by the wall? He had no ID. It
was boss Jr. He had a date with him and had :07.560 --> :13.180
driven 40 miles to come to this particular
bar. I told my sister I did not know him and :13.180 --> :18.810
could not vouch for him in any way. She kicked
him out along with his girlfriend. Revenge :18.810 --> :22.750
is sweet. This is my first ever petty revenge,
so hopefully it's petty enough to be here. :22.750 --> :24.660
This story is FRESH off the petty press. :24.660 --> :25.660
Characters: :25.660 --> :26.660 Wife (My wife)
:26.660 --> :28.760 Stacy (Her friend, name changed)
:28.760 --> :30.580 Scum Inn (Scummy hotel)
:30.580 --> :32.400 Pleasant Place (Nice hotel)
:32.400 --> :35.600 Soldman Gachs (My annoying credit card issuer)
:35.600 --> :41.190 Backstory
In June 2021, Wife and Stacy took a girl's :41.190 --> :45.910
trip to a certain beach town in the southern
part of the USA. They were trying to keep :45.910 --> :52.820
costs low, so they rented a car instead of
flying & booked a 4 night stay at Scum Inn :52.820 --> :58.092
on Booking.com which required our payment
method. Once they got there, in order to check :58.092 --> :03.230
in they had to sign multiple documents, provide
their license plate, provide their driver's :03.230 --> :10.700
license, as well as pay a $100 damage deposit
and provide our credit card info again, I :10.700 --> :14.600
guess Booking doesn't send over the credit
card info for this property. They did all :14.600 --> :19.140
that and went to their room. Upon entering,
they did not like the condition of the room. :19.140 --> :25.210
Hair all over the blankets, rust and mold
on the fixtures, crayon on all the walls, :25.210 --> :33.940
etc. It was...really bad. The original price
of the stay was $378.60, but per the hotel's :33.940 --> :39.740
cancellation policy, we had to pay the first
night's stay due to cancelling within 2 days, :39.740 --> :44.780
so our refund amount should've been $283.95. :44.780 --> :50.040
They cancelled their stay with Booking.com
and went to the front desk to confirm cancellation.
:50.040 --> :55.500 The guy at the front desk stated that Booking.com
would issue them their refund (But we paid :55.500 --> :01.490
on the property??), then shooed them out and
locked the door since the "office is closed". :01.490 --> :07.970
At this point it's well past 9 PM and Wife
and Stacy are in an unfamiliar town that they :07.970 --> :14.070
just drove 12 hours to get to with no place
to sleep. I was able to book them last minute :14.070 --> :20.271
at Pleasant Place at 9:25 PM which they stayed
at for the remainder of their stay. It was :20.271 --> :30.790
over ~$200 more expensive, but worth it. All
in all, I had spent $863.85 in hotel accommodations.
:30.790 --> :35.019 Just needed the refund for the previous hotel.
Now for the revenge part :35.019 --> :38.610 The Revenge
Even though the transactions were still pending :38.610 --> :44.130
on my credit card, I went ahead and disputed
them anyway. I provided Soldman Gachs the :44.130 --> :49.560
original email and picture I took of the cancellation
screen, as well as the cancellation policy :49.560 --> :55.339
that the hotel provides on Booking.com. Around
3 months later I get a notification that the :55.339 --> :01.290
dispute was not resolved in my favor due to
having no evidence. "That's odd, I know I :01.290 --> :07.210
submitted it. Okay, I'll dispute again". This
time after I submitted my evidence, I called :07.210 --> :12.589
them to confirm they received it, which they
did. Another three months later they notified :12.589 --> :18.290
me that the dispute was not resolved in my
favor, but this time because Scum Inn had :18.290 --> :24.650
"ample evidence that we did, in fact, stay
there". Okay, it's game time now. I filed :24.650 --> :31.059
a third dispute, submitted even more evidence,
and called them and explained the situation :31.059 --> :38.040
-- That Scum Inn is providing documentation
that we willingly provided prior to cancellation, :38.040 --> :43.340
and they need to request more documentation
before issuing a judgement. Unfortunately, :43.340 --> :48.579
this didn't happen, and they still ruled this
third dispute in Scum Inn's favor due to them :48.579 --> :55.100
providing the same evidence a second time.
I tried one to submit one more dispute, with :55.100 --> :59.910
all the evidence I could gather, and called
Soldman Gachs multiple times to ensure they :59.910 --> :04.870
were following through. In the end, they still
refused to issue a favorable judgement. :04.870 --> :09.769
Next, I tried calling Booking.com to see if
they can assist with a refund. They told me :09.769 --> :14.730
that since the cancellation policy on the
website shows that I was allowed a refund, :14.730 --> :19.670
they would handle getting it to me and would
go after the hotel themselves. However, each :19.670 --> :24.820
time I called back I got a different story
until I karen'd up and asked to speak to a :24.820 --> :30.420
supervisor (first time I'd ever done that
in my life) who, in no specific words, told :30.420 --> :35.550
me I'm up 💩 creek without a paddle and there was nothing Booking.com could/would
:35.550 --> :40.910 do. However, the only shred of good news was
that I learned that hotels on their site are :40.910 --> :46.990
responsible for listing their cancellation
policies, so whatever a hotel lists is binding :46.990 --> :52.550
at the time of booking. Armed with my petty
AF attitude & the knowledge Booking.com gave :52.550 --> :55.570
me, I set out to file a small claims suit. :55.570 --> :01.300
Reader, don't be fooled. Small claims are
not as easy as they claim to be. Certain states :01.300 --> :07.040
bury information or require so much that you
have to dedicate time just to gather it all. :07.040 --> :11.820
Nonetheless, I managed to scrounge up all
the documentation needed and filed my suit :11.820 --> :19.529
in May 2022. It was officially go-time. I
gathered everything, screenshots of Scum Inn's :19.529 --> :26.390
cancellation policy, all the photos that Wife
and Stacy took I could be used as evidence, :26.390 --> :31.970
videos, receipts, credit card statements,
screenshots of texts and emails, I was even :31.970 --> :36.670
able to call Pleasant Place and get a copy
of my invoice from them (It had been well :36.670 --> :42.970
over a year at this point). All that alone
totaled 28MB of data, which I know isn't a :42.970 --> :49.310
lot, but remember, it was just PDFs and screenshots,
the largest file being a screenshot that was :49.310 --> :56.449
2.5MB, most files were less than 900KB. Being
that I live 10-12 hours away from the court :56.449 --> :01.911
based on traffic, I was able to upload all
my evidence to the court case file and they :01.911 --> :04.269
agreed to swear me in via phone. :04.269 --> :08.720
About an hour ago (From the time I'm typing
this), the court called me. I was sworn in :08.720 --> :14.510
and then explained everything -- the cancellation,
the conditions and treatment at Scum Inn, :14.510 --> :19.759
the credit card disputes, and how I wasn't
requesting a full refund, just the portion :19.759 --> :24.970
that we are owed (We had to pay that cancellation
fee, after all). It felt like a weight was :24.970 --> :30.889
finally lifted off my shoulders, someone is
finally listening to me who can actually do :30.889 --> :35.880
something. Then it came time for Scum Inn
to tell their side. They claimed that they :35.880 --> :41.569
had no documentation we actually checked out
because they don't have the paperwork so they :41.569 --> :46.649
can't prove anything other than what's on
paper. That was literally all they had to :46.649 --> :51.839
say (HOW did Soldman Gachs not just side eye
that?!). The judge then asked both of us a :51.839 --> :56.870
series of questions including how much the
stay per night was, who was the person working :56.870 --> :01.839
the front desk, do I have any other evidence
to enter besides what I've already submitted, :01.839 --> :02.839 etc.
:02.839 --> :07.390 After everything was said and done, the judge
sided with us. During this process, the guy :07.390 --> :11.880
representing Scum Inn decided it would be
smart to try and tell the judge that Soldman :11.880 --> :18.500
Gachs already denied our dispute 4 times,
to which the judge replied "The credit card :18.500 --> :23.660
company isn't the court, I am. I don't care
what the credit card company said, it's clear :23.660 --> :29.209
they did not stay at your hotel". Nice one, Scum Inn, add fuel to the flames.
:29.209 --> :33.440 Because this is a small claims suit, there
are extra fees that have to be paid by the :33.440 --> :38.579
defendant, including the fee to serve court
documents and the fee to file the petition :38.579 --> :45.279
to sue. Because I won, I'm owed all that back
plus post judgement interest. So now, I'm :45.279 --> :55.819
just waiting for Scum Inn to pay me my $283.95
+ $129 in court fees + 7.5% post judgement :55.819 --> :03.829
interest, for a grand total of $413.07. They
likely won't pay, and I'll have to file a :03.829 --> :08.451
judgement, but at least that gives me more
petty revenge to add to this story. Hopefully :08.451 --> :12.919
you enjoyed the read! I know it's not as good
as others, but I've been waiting for the day :12.919 --> :49.830
I could finally post this! My sister in law,
after a fifteen year marriage ended up with :49.830 --> :55.830
all our belongings. My husband had died and
I was in Mexico with our two children. I was :55.830 --> :00.300
trying to get back home before our rent was
due to keep our house. We were between selling :00.300 --> :05.789
our 40 acre ranch and buying a new place.
Anyway, I KNEW if I didn't get back and pay :05.789 --> :11.250
that it would be bad. So car breaks down in
Navajo Mexico. My kids and I stay there for :11.250 --> :17.730
three days until I can get a bus home. Too
late, on exact date I was supposed to be there :17.730 --> :23.230
my Mother and my sister in law go to my house
and take everything. I was keeping my Mother's :23.230 --> :29.390
cherished possessions for her, a lot of boxes,
rocking chair, etc. My sister in law tells :29.390 --> :33.710
my Mother that she will keep those things
in her barn until she can come get it all. :33.710 --> :39.080
So end result, my sister in law rips my Mom
off of her possession and gets everything :39.080 --> :43.971
we have owned. Since we had our own business
there were many things worth money. My sister :43.971 --> :49.809
in law will not even give my kids, her niece
and nephew their clothes and toys. She sells :49.809 --> :54.822
everything and starts her own business selling
Pet Supplies. That business still is going :54.822 --> :00.410
now 34 years later run by her son. My Father
in Law did make Bobbi send us some things :00.410 --> :06.400
back to California where we were. She sent
things like the bottom to a fondue pot. Box :06.400 --> :11.610
of Tupperware lids that didn't match up to
anything. Anyway here is my petty revenge. :11.610 --> :17.770
34 years later the 76 year old sister in law
has had a stroke. Her children will not help :17.770 --> :24.039
her at all in her large beautiful house on
13 acres. She asked my daughter to come down, :24.039 --> :29.280
100 miles away, to help her clean house and
clean out horse stalls. My daughter was deciding :29.280 --> :00.560
if she'd do that. I helped convince her not
to. Do you think I was being naughty there. :00.560 --> :05.130
So to make this short, I rented a apartment
with two other individuals. One person would :05.130 --> :09.840
pay rent and the other would not. The problem
person active like they own the place and :09.840 --> :14.450
would do nothing to contribute to the apartment.
They would give me tons of attitude and act :14.450 --> :19.290
like everything was my fault even though I
paid for pretty much everything for them. :19.290 --> :23.299
The only reason why I put up with this is
because I couldn't get them off the lease :23.299 --> :24.909
due to them being on it. :24.909 --> :26.220 Now for the good part.
:26.220 --> :31.100 I about had it one day when they kept on inviting
people we didn't know to the apartment and :31.100 --> :36.029
learned from a little birdie that they were
inviting five people over to watch a movie. :36.029 --> :41.520
Due to my job making me leave home for long
amounts of time I decided to do the only thing :41.520 --> :47.110
I could do. I went into my router admin panel
and disabled the internet access to all the :47.110 --> :53.380
registered devices, change the password, and
gave the new password to the trustworthy roommate. :53.380 --> :59.039
As soon as they realize what I did they're
a temperament went into temper tantrum territory. :59.039 --> :03.790
They were blowing up my phone screaming at
me and calling me deceitful and all these :03.790 --> :08.470
other words and throwing stuff around the
apartment like a toddler. They relocated all :08.470 --> :13.860
my game consoles and any other item including
security cameras I had set up in the living :13.860 --> :19.170
room. So after they did that sort of thing,
every other interaction I had with them compounded :19.170 --> :24.460
into this recent interaction and I flat out
made it so we all got evicted. Somehow this :24.460 --> :29.370
eviction wasn't put on my record and this
happened 4 months ago and they're still living :29.370 --> :31.910
in their car. Sweet sweet revenge. :31.910 --> :53.070
For anybody curious they were 21 at the time
going on 5 years old. I hope you enjoyed reading :53.070 --> :00.650
this and I apologize for any errors When I
was about 21 years old I worked at a dollar :00.650 --> :06.049
tree.. one day while I was checking people
out of an extremely long line a guy standing :06.049 --> :10.450
towards the back of the line asked me if I
could call someone else to the register.. :10.450 --> :15.970
I politely told him that the only other cashier
was my manager and she was on her 30 minute :15.970 --> :20.900
break and that I was sorry it was taking so
long but I was the only one available.. he :20.900 --> :25.970
then proceeded to make rude side comments
about how slow I was going.. and how a toddler :25.970 --> :31.850
could do my job..(the lady I was ringing out
had over $100 in stuff) and how the customers :31.850 --> :36.750
in front of him had so much stuff so they
must be poor.. I politely asked him to stop :36.750 --> :42.190
with his rude remarks as I found it offensive
and I was sure the other customers did too.. :42.190 --> :47.789
he then proceeded tell me to f*** off.. when
he didn't get a reaction from me he then proceeded :47.789 --> :53.200
to push the person in front of him out of
the way and get into my face calling me a :53.200 --> :57.840
b**** and telling me that he would have me
fired from my job.. I then asked him to please :57.840 --> :03.190
leave the store because his behavior was inappropriate..
he then told me to f*** off and called me :03.190 --> :09.659
a b**** again while throwing his merchandise
in my face.. he then stormed out.. when my :09.659 --> :14.210
boss came back from her break I told her what
happened and she reviewed the footage and :14.210 --> :15.740
told me he was banned.. :15.740 --> :21.419
Fast forward to about 4 hours later.. I'm
walking through Walmart and see the same guy :21.419 --> :26.870
that was in line at Dollar tree.. but this
time he is with his wife.. he gave me an extremely :26.870 --> :33.070
nasty look and flipped me off behind her back..
I considered letting it go but I was so irritated :33.070 --> :38.260
with his behavior that I couldn't.. so I proceeded
to turn around walk down the aisle looking :38.260 --> :43.029
him straight in his face.. right in front
of his wife say.. "due to your behavior and :43.029 --> :48.179
harassment of me and my customers today at
Dollar Tree you are now banned.. if you have :48.179 --> :53.190
any questions or concerns feel free to call
'XYZ' at Dollar tree".. and then I walked :53.190 --> :58.270
away.. I could hear his wife chewing him out
in the background asking him what he had done.. :58.270 --> :03.110
the next day I went to work and told my boss
what I had done.. so when he ended up calling :03.110 --> :08.600
to complain she confirmed that he was banned
and said that if anyone saw him in there again :08.600 --> :13.370
they would contact the police and show them
the video of his harassment and assault.. :13.370 --> :19.110
he never came in again.. and wherever I ran
into him he'd avoid eye contact.. a nice piece :19.110 --> :26.260
of simple petty revenge.. There is a lot to
cover here so I'll break her behavior into :26.260 --> :34.279
different brackets so it's easier to digest.
Besides that here's how it all started: :34.279 --> :39.470
This story started back in January of 2022.
I was dating a friend and we were looking :39.470 --> :44.381
at apartments to live together. We found one
but he brought up an important issue. Since :44.381 --> :48.970
my job takes me out of state across America
for a month at a time, he wanted to let his :48.970 --> :54.260
childhood friend move in with us so he wouldn't
be lonely. It was a 2 bedroom apartment after :54.260 --> :00.590
all so I agreed. I thought since he knew her,
she would've been A-OK to live with us. I :00.590 --> :04.910
mean, I won't be there most of the time and
I trusted him. I even knew her personally :04.910 --> :10.520
and she had a good job and was overall a sane
person. That all changed when she moved in :10.520 --> :11.640
with us. :11.640 --> :16.220 Behavioural: She would act like a mother,
basically scolding us if the dishes weren't :16.220 --> :21.400
done (which was a cycled responsibility and
it was always her turn to do them when she :21.400 --> :26.970
whined). She wouldn't respect house rules,
like not wearing shoes on the carpet or asking :26.970 --> :32.060
us before inviting strangers over. She would
act like she knew everything and if I brought :32.060 --> :38.200
up a topic of something I was interested in
she seemed to brush it off with "Okay". Verbally :38.200 --> :43.250
abuse my Ex when he would little freak-ups
like spill garbage or play videogames after :43.250 --> :48.159
a long workday. She would belittle him and
make him feel like a fat pig (which he had :48.159 --> :53.620
sensitivities about). She would attack me
personally when I set rules, an example being :53.620 --> :59.049
is that I wanted my own food in the common
area fridge and she threw a fit at me. Saying :59.049 --> :02.990
"you make all the money but you won't share
food? I don't think that's a good idea to :02.990 --> :06.279
split food like that. We need it!" :06.279 --> :13.399
Responsibilities: Never would clean, do dishes,
etc. Quit her $21/hr job because "it was too :13.399 --> :18.059
hard" and started working at the mall. This
was her putting in little effort instead of :18.059 --> :23.320
paying rent and when I'd ask her for this
months rent she would blame the economy or :23.320 --> :28.650
her made up disability which was not medically
verified. Any other thing you could possibly :28.650 --> :32.700
think of she wouldn't do it and she would make my ex do it
:32.700 --> :37.360 Really important: She would invite random
people over that we didn't know and this ended :37.360 --> :44.130
up in a SA case with my Ex. Someone came over
and abused him and it was the problem roommates :44.130 --> :49.149
fault. Some stuff ended up missing and she
continued to invite random people over without :49.149 --> :52.419
permission even after what happened to my Ex. :52.419 --> :57.350
After that happened I was done dealing with
a child. She sucked the life out of me and :57.350 --> :02.450
made me scared for my Ex's life and mine. So I enacted a revenge plot.
:02.450 --> :07.049 I tried evicting her but she refused to sign
the release form. I talked to many different :07.049 --> :11.480
lawyers and they said they couldn't do anything
and the Civil judge would laugh at me and :11.480 --> :16.640
make me pay a fine. So I said screw it, I
cut off her internet access since she didn't :16.640 --> :22.659
pay for it and that caused her to almost damage
my property and overall touch it without permission
:22.659 --> :28.650 while screaming at me over the phone and calling
me "dangerous". That was step one, making :28.650 --> :34.650
her miserable. Step two was relatively simple.
In November we got our second strike because :34.650 --> :39.381
this woman kept heavy walking and we would
always tell her to walk lighter and she would :39.381 --> :46.070
deflect any responsibility and blame the lady
downstairs. So I hatched a plan, I'd go downstairs :46.070 --> :50.690
and talk to the lady making the complaints.
I mean, if we got one more complaint we got :50.690 --> :56.220
evicted. So I went downstairs, talked to the
lovely lady and told her everything. We decided :56.220 --> :01.740
to make a plan regarding her making a falsified
noise complaint and that was that. The next :01.740 --> :07.960
day she made the complaint and within 24 hours
we had a eviction notice. To see that paper :07.960 --> :14.290
was bittersweet. I worked so hard to get my
first ever apartment and she ruined it but :14.290 --> :19.800
I knew this was my freedom. I knew that after
this eviction our awful roommate would never :19.800 --> :25.540
get back into her feet due to her reliance
on others. She had to move into her 2001 Jetta :25.540 --> :30.529
that had a bad heater and last I heard from
her, she is still in her Jetta. For some reason :30.529 --> :48.169
living with her new boyfriend in the car?
I don't understand it but I wouldn't be surprised.This
:48.169 --> :50.380 happened when I was 6 (I'm a guy).
:50.380 --> :55.130 I have an uncle, Dale, who is an all around
JERK. He'd bully my mom and when she fought :55.130 --> :58.220
back he started going after those who couldn't fight back.
:58.220 --> :03.730 His favorite was me because I was a crybaby.
One day, he gave a food and I stupidly ate :03.730 --> :08.941
it. I got diarrhea and my mom went ape on
him, but couldn't do any more as she had to :08.941 --> :10.120
look after me. :10.120 --> :15.640
I was having those thick porridge like poops
and my mom had to buy more medicine for me. :15.640 --> :19.649
So I had cousins look after me. The oldest, Michael, had a good idea.
:19.649 --> :22.019 Crap on Dale's belongings.
:22.019 --> :27.409 This was at night so we all went to his house,
which was a nice 2 bedroom place right next :27.409 --> :28.409 to us.
:28.409 --> :33.490 Don't know how Michael got the keys but I
shat on hi bed, favorite chair, and toilet :33.490 --> :34.490 cover.
:34.490 --> :39.150 The masterpiece was on his front porch, right
on his welcome mat. I let it all go and it :39.150 --> :40.769
flowed like stunk butter. :40.769 --> :44.770
When we finished we went home and they cleaned me up and we watched TV.
:44.770 --> :49.710 About 4 in the morning, we hear screaming
and cussing. We go see what it was and it's :49.710 --> :54.490
Dale rolling around in my crap on his porch, he was also drunk.
:54.490 --> :59.539 His mother (my grandma) yelling at him and
all the spectators were jeering at Dale. :59.539 --> :02.670
That was not the last time I shat on his porch. :02.670 --> :34.080
To this day Dale still insist it wasn't him
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what's an unexpectedly well-paid job boiler operator get paid $35 an hour to
play Skyrim on switch while watching Netflix just have to find one that's all
operator and no maintenance my dad was a boiler room operator for 25 years until
his plan closed dude made $90,000 in a down year in 95 it wasn't working over
time because my parents were getting a divorce and he didn't want them to think
he made 120 plusk a year like he normally did picking up overtime shifts
this was the job my grandfather had as well he worked had a radiator plant
making sure the boilers didn't explode only he was doing it well before Netflix
or even the internet he says he once stuck his head in one of the chambers
because he wanted to see what was in there handsome nasty acid dripped under
his goggles at least he was wearing them he says that it burned real bad and
damaged his eye he thought he was going to lose that eye but he didn't and was
fine just a few weeks later don't mess with the boilers anyway back to me I
also have another job part-time you know with today's economy I work at all my
computer as a closed captioner broadcaster for the news make my own
schedule and make between $35 to $65 per hour depending on the job large
investment to get started but significantly worth the payout you have
to go through a course the course is $800 per month and you work at your own
pace I worked well I did it at my main job so it took me about 7 months to
complete most people are between six and 9 months though between the course and
all the equipment it's about a $10,000 investment to start but very much worth
it and you make the investment back quickly people often ask is automation
affecting your job are you worried it will well initially this was my main
concern I've gone to several conferences
and I'm not really worried about it sure CC may be fully automatic one day but I
think that day is still far away and captioning is not my only source of
income also there are other facets of voice writing that just will not be
replaced with ASR card core reporting Etc keep in mind voice writing is mainly
for the deaf and heart of hearing you often need a human element to translate
to them machine still lik some nuances that a captioner does not at the end of
the day not many jobs are really safe from automation or anything I'm sure
there were people that worked at GM and Ford for 25 years and if you would have
asked them in 2007 they probably would have told you they thought their job was
safe story two Airline dispatcher a girl
I dated many years ago and I met because
she was living in my town training to be an airline dispatcher they're just a
handful of schools that teach it I had no idea what an airline dispatcher was
let alone how much money they get paid dispatchers at FedEx can make $150,000
per year or more it also gives you a lot
of options to advance at an airline like being station Chief at an airline the
girl dated had a dream to one day be Air France station Chief in Tahiti I don't
know if she made it or not I know that there is a wall of dispatchers at FedEx
that die before they have to chance to retire it's not easy work the schedules
and pressure wear a lot of people down if you're interested in the industry I
think corporate Aviation is a far better choice and probably as cushy as it gets
most of these schools only offer accelerated courses though I failed out
of a 5we course for dispatching currently working on becoming a pilot
instead but I think I've learned most of the dispatcher stuff at this point just
at a more feasible Pace dispatching is my backup plan in case something bad
happens or I lose an appendage or something it is not exactly an easy job
it's a good thing it's well compensated considering what's at stake an airline
dispatcher prepares flight planes he or she needs to know a lot including
specific knowledge of aircraft performance Aviation regulations
sometimes in several countries and weather and they need to apply this by
being aware of Airport conditions weather forecasts information about
loads and fueling for the specific flight they're assisting and then they
can be online monitoring all conditions and advising the flight crew of anything
that might affect flight safety some of them have the authority to delay divert
or cancel a flight in many cases they are co-responsible with a pilot in
command for the safety of aircraft crew and passengers it is a huge
responsibility sounds like a dream I never really knew there was a position
like that till I read this probably time to shift courses H Story three power
linen make Bank not a lot of people even know about it insanely dangerous job
though two linemen died in our small town because some person or family
didn't shut their breaker off and they hooked up their generator while they
were working on it electricity is hella terrifying and sometimes even the
smallest things missed can have major consequences just for clarity the
situation was during natural disaster and sleep depravity was almost
definitely the root causes of the deaths
linemen were working and barely sleeping for a week straight before backup could
come but the lack of sleep in itself is a major danger as is the weather they
sometimes work in or the electricity itself linemen take safety seriously but
one thing going wrong can and a disaster even something as simple as flipping a
wrong switch or forgetting a single piece of safety equipment but as far as
things go electricity is probably one of the last things on Earth you want any
accident with my uncle more like a friend he was actually young 5year
difference we would hang just like brothers worked and taking care of those
absurd high tension cable maintenance it
is so high up that you have to fix it in a helicopter they have to use special
clothes of course and it is genius instead of blocking the electricity let
it pass in a stable way you're now a living bird the body is isolated with
glass F if I remember and another of rare bonds that don't even have a name
only the molecule formula and inside metal to transfer the current to the
other side of the cable millions of vaults it was really made only for that
purpose that's actually more safe than it looks the risks are high the brain
will make you more careful it's full of protocols and safe programs to educate
and not too much degree at least here in my country my uncle did the classic car
versus airplane accidents to make me lose fear of airplanes but made me go
crazy about being inside a car he always said to me life is about using your
opportunities look for jobs with low competition with high payment even if
you don't like it and it's not your style focus on it every single day
you're working don't get a stable routine don't live paycheck after
paycheck giving up your dreams is actually the fastest way to reach them
life is not fair the faster you understand it the better you will be at
the game dreams are only good at being pursued when you reach it better get
another one to make day one last lastly they all make well over 100,000 storm
Seasons being in tons of overtime they're all in their mid to late 20s
buying houses I wouldn't call being a liman and expectedly well paid those
people are freaking Heroes after storms story four long shoreman if you're a
senior member of a union you make absolute cake
$180,000 plus a year I worked as a long shoreman during college it was one of
those jobs that was always open here during fishing season work was extremely
tough since we manually unloaded trollers all day and night but the pay
was phenomenal our company charged the boats per kilogram of fish unloaded then
that paw will split equally between long shoreman I think it was equal to 2 Us
cents or around that so when a huge Factory tler with 500 tons of frozen
fish was unloaded that would come out to roughly $10,000 and those $10,000 were
split among usually 15 guys and you'd have a nice $500 to $600 payday of
course the work was brutal hours long you'd probably get injured sooner or
later I know other long shoremen at the San Pedro Harbor mind you they get real
weird hours whether it be a graveyard shift that ends at 6:00 a.m. then work
at 400 p.m. again or no work for multiple days no matter what he was
working weird hours but was almost always there for a majority of the
morning he made so much money that they had the chance to buy a ranch out near
Tula by multiple horses they already had two but I think they had four last time
I visited have a chicken coup and five to seven dogs lost count the husband
also built a track around the house or second Arena and they have races on
four-wheelers the wife gets to ride or train all day the husband gets to hang
out with his wife and his dogs and they have virtually no money issues the only
hold back is it's a 2-hour drive to San Pedro for him but he has weird hours so
he's never stuck with California traffic Story five my parents are both
immigrants and my mom has been in house cleaner since I could remember my dad
was a dishwasher for a couple restaurants from time to time my mom
decided to start her own company a couple years back first it was
predominantly residential but when my dad saw how successful it was getting he
quit his job and helped my mom develop the commercial portion of her company
their company now has contracts with Tesla Pete's Coffee Barnes & Noble the
Apple Store and a couple other departments stores they have enough
employees now to really just lay back and relax considering they went from
cleaning Burger King bathrooms to being self-made they 100% deserve it and it
makes me so proud of them as a kid I was really poor and seeing a change in our
lifestyle is still pretty bizarre to me now my family has branched out to maid
services my sister and husband started a green cleaning service and catered
towards higher end homes where people didn't have the time or desire to clean
their homes and because it was green friendly it really was their chemicals
were sourced specifically to not contain certain things and really did leave a
non-chemical eye burning clean they charged per maid per hour and had
regular customers throughout the week most did a monthly or bi-weekly cleaning
to keep it under control and if it was a
new or deep clean they'd charge more but for the regulars it was a flat rate
which was fair on both sides it was fun helping out because they had some really
nice cleaning products like a meie vacuum that worked really well and some
sort of steam vacuum cleaners for the bed there was also usually a tip
involved in because everyone was family they do their best to do a good job the
clients were also very friendly made a lot of good contacts damn go to on this
family for making a great living I love a good turnaround story just imagine
when the cleaning lady has a nicer boat than you don't worry guys with enough
perseverance you could be on top of the world too who knows maybe the first step
is to hit the like button and subscribe to the Channel story six the year I got
out of high school I picked up a job at a private Country Club working the bag
room when I spotted a member I'd grabbed their reserved or private card from the
garage and load their clubs on it that they kept stored in the bag room couple
damn towels hung in the back pencils scorecards and everything waiting by the
time they stepped up place was primarily Executives and whatnot for like the
major Automotive companies here in Michigan made a couple hundred each day
in tips during a couple tournaments that took place I went home with around $500
in my pocket I took home so much each day that I kept forgetting to pick up my
paycheck which was something like another $400 each week late '90s minimum
wage only part of the job I hated was using the Picker to get the balls off
the range there was always some a-hole trying to use me for target practice
it's not like it startles the person inside you go out there fully expecting
people are going to try what sucks is that the Picker I used had a protective
metal cage around it a golf ball hitting those cages at high speed is loud as
hell it's like having someone bang metal Pants next to your head but not once
repeatedly over the course of the 30 minutes or so it took to collect the
balls I don't golf but I imagine if I did spend time at a driving range I'd
probably be attempted to see if I could hit it though so I get it a few friends
and I all got a job at the nicest golf course in the area and work the carts we
literally drove golf carts around all day someone pulls into a parking lot
pull up with a golf cart cart someone comes back take the golf cart around
back and spray it down the amount of NHL
hockey players and other big time people
that came through was insane and so were
the tips almost everyone who dropped off their carts would either give us 20
bucks or their leftover booze which basically funded our partying for the
weekends it rains a lot where we live though so it was dead a fair amount of
times but our boss was the most chill dude ever let us put a TV and Xbox in
our little cart building and we could just chill all day it was pretty unreal
definitely the most fun job I've worked there really wasn't anything to do a lot
of time Dunning carts around basic cleanup and a lot of chilling and
chatter the hardest part of the job was learning the names of all the members
that came through it wasn't required but it was how you made Bank soon as you
start recognizing me by name and picking up on the little details they dropped
during conversations the more cash you make story seven underwater welding pays
a tremendous amount I'm a welder myself and disability from an injury about a
year ago now when I was in school formerly learning to get some
qualifications one of the instructors told us a bit about a buddy he had that
retired in his late 20s from being an underwater welder in some rig off the
coast of Alaska or some crap was a while ago don't remember the small details
anyways he told me a story from the same dude who was repairing some strut deep
down underneath the rig and apparently a shark repeatedly came by and kept
messing with him nipping at his suit and attracted to the light of the welder
well he told us when you weld underwater you're constantly being shocked by the
current running through the machine not dangerously so but enough you notice
however it's apparently extremely dangerous to activate the gun in just
open water not in the steel weldment if you do so you could die from a huge
shock well apparently he had enough of the shark and when it next passed by he
jabbed the gun into its face and pulled the trigger apparently shocked the hell
out of him and blew a portion of the shark off good money but that ain't for
me Chief jobl listing underwater welder Pros good pay cons get constantly
shocked and occasional shark trying to punk you any takers story eight dog
groomer it's a weird industry though and a skill that really has to be learned
Hands-On grooming schools can be a good start but I know great groomers that
never went to school for it and terrible
groomers that spent thousands in classes just being good at handling dogs is the
best foundation for Success it's not the easiest job in the world it's largely
commission-based and you're lucky if you get any benefits out of it but if you
get enough practice in to be good at it and build up a loyal cliental base in a
decently affluent area it's a good money the haircuts I do range from 70 to $175
and I'm paid 50% which averages out to around $30 to $35 an hour most days not
everyone tips but those that do usually tip5 to $20 per dog and because I do
about 40 dogs in an average week that's an extra couple hundred in my pocket so
if you don't mind working on your feet all day sustaining repetitive motion
injuries not taking lunch breaks dealing with insane customers and picking stuff
off dogs butth holes it's a good living another pet related I'm also a pet
sitter and I made pretty good cash from it during the busy times summer and
holidays for very little effort in some cases I've been doing it for a few years
and after busting my butt for their Critters I built a great client base and
can relax a bit now of course I work a full-time job too pet sitting isn't
steady enough to rely on but I can make an extra $5 to $600 a month when it's
busy it gets hectic figuring out the timing between the two jobs sometimes
but it's so worth it I'm currently pet sitting for a week $245 to hang out with
two adorable dogs eat their food drink the wine they bought me and relax I love
what I do I have some standing appointments on Mondays and Fridays now
too most of my clients have been using me for years now and recommend me to
everyone I have three other pet sitters I use as backup for the Overflow or when
I really don't want to one lady pays me $35 a night and buys me
food to brush her cat for an hour when she's gone it's pretty great someday I
want to open my own Doggy Daycare I managed one for 3 years and I loved it
story nine CBP officer at least at the northern border in airports you sit in
the booth and ask the same questions over and over again now and then you may
end up referring someone to secondary based on suspicions but another officer
takes over at that point and you go back to your normal duties despite the job
being law enforcement it's incredibly safe especially in airports where you're
already shielded by multiple layers of security I've heard they can make
130,000 Plus benefits after just a few years in the job no college degree
needed story 10 I think a lot of this threat is really misleading first
everyone is saying I knew a guy or I made 100,000 and while I don't doubt
that these are true things people are sharing it isn't what someone else can
expect to make we should be talking about median salary or median wage
second especially since we aren't talking about median salaries almost
nobody included location a few people making $80,000 in New York City or San
Fran is like making 30,000 in a small Midwestern Town according to most cost
of living or salary comparison websites the real truth is a reasonably free
market is going to adjust wages based on supply and demand meaning that a job is
either difficult to do because it takes a lot of skill training or education and
pays well like a heart surgeon or a job is dirty dangerous or otherwise
unpleasant and has to pay well to attract candidates like certain
fishermen or a job whose wages are high due to external factors like a union or
lobbying body that sets wages which results in far more candidates than jobs
like my union painter uncle that makes $120,000 instead of the national median
of $40,000 top comment is garbage collector
in New York City first $100,000 in New York City is equivalent of $40,000 in a
small Midwestern town that wage is artificially High resulting in far more
applicants than jobs meaning odds are you can't get that job national median is
$25,000 Next Top is aircraft dispatcher national median salaries $32,000
according to glass door and salary.com but $40,000 if you believe the airline
dispatcher Federation finally a lot of people are talking about starting a
business doing X which is entirely different from doing X median salary of
a plumber is 45,000 in the US they don't get the hourly wage they bill you for
and if they start their own Plumbing business they need to pay for insurance
benefits additional taxes advertising and a million other things on top of
just being a plumber they also have to deal with all the hours when they don't
have work higher risk but higher potential reward a successful business
person running a plumbing company was 10 employees might make $200,000 or more
per year but they might also lose $100,000 and it doesn't really compare
to a salary especially today with all the salary information we have available
to us a job that pays a lot that doesn't suck that anyone can do isn't going to
keep paying a lot well this guy gets it I hope you enjoyed the video and if you
made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy what's your lazy people finds ways
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first story The entitled bridezilla lashed out at op accusing her of ruining
the shower that op had paid for and worked on tirelessly fed up op walked
out from the wedding now the bridezilla has called op's husband claiming that op
is mentally unstable ruining their 21-year relationship what the title says
I've been spending hours every day leading the planning on this shower
which myself and the other bridesmaids are paying for even though it's six
months away because the bride is hounding us to get everything done ASAP
the kind of hounding that makes you just
want to do something so the person shuts up today the bride told another
bridesmaid that me asking her for the guest list was asking her to do work for
the shower and she shouldn't have to do anything but show up and enjoy it she
does not speak to her future Mill and she's currently in an argument with her
own mother and doesn't want her involved
the guest list is the only thing we need
from her outside of when we asked her to confirm she was free for the date we
picked top comments birdie 172 bro Bale don't get stuck in the sunk cost fallacy
on this one k Pig 123 why does anyone put up with entitled nonsense like this
I'd say I think what you're telling me is that you don't want a bridal shower
because that's what's going to happen without you getting off your lazy ARs
and giving me a guest list so quit playing princess of the universe and get
busy update I quit my Bride zilla's wedding one and a half months later
everyone who said things would get worse was correct I'm not proud of how things
ended but I'm relieved things came to a head because one of the other
bridesmaids apparently decided to take on the role of informant and send
screenshots of everything we said in the shower planning group text to the bride
including what our shower budget was I did not give the bride a direct answer
when she asked about it I said it was a modest budget but enough for it to be a
nice day because one it was definitely a financial inconvenience for a few
bridesmaids and I was hopeful we could come in under budget and possibly save
everyone some money two the bride was flip-flopping a lot on wanting a shower
even when planning was underway saying how much she wanted one but that she
didn't want to put anyone out or cost us money because she couldn't take feeling
guilty I had to talk her down from calling it off several times and was
worried that she would object to us spending that much and say she wanted to
cancel again three the shower is a gift from the bridal party to the bride and I
don't think it's fair to ask how much a gift costs when we first started
planning we had $1,700 for everything everyone put in
what they could with zero expectations and the amounts ranged from 50 to $500
anonymously the bride wanted 40 guests to do an ice cream themed brunch with a
Sunday bar and to play a lot of games she was very clear about not wanting her
mom involved the shower was scheduled for August so we needed it to be indoors
air conditioned but no one has a house big enough for 40 so we needed a venue
rental the bride had given a short list of places she'd thought of such as Elks
clubs BFW Etc I was on venue Duty in addition to helping the mo with the
general organization and mobilization of
eight bridesmaids in four states and two countries who didn't really know each
other and it was challenging even a lot of VFW type places were $700 plus dollar
just for the space I thought of doing a restaurant event room but most places
were coming in around $40 per head and many of them said we could not bring in
ice cream others were not handicap accessible others were more expensive on
Saturdays and others had guessed minimums in the end I talked to several
dozen venues places don't respond immediately
there was followup and dead ends so it was a lot of work on top of talking
things through with the mo and engaging with the regular Bridal chat I was
getting a lot of pressure from the bride to get something booked so I ended up
booking one of the veterans Halls she had mentioned that recently had a total
renovation and looked really nice in photos it was $100 per hour so the mo
and I agreed to do a 4-Hour rental and I put the deposit on my credit card the
bride seemed happy when I told her the venue was booked and said thank you
after this the bride's mom offered to pay for the venue and the bride told me
to let her do so so her mom mailed me a check and I thought we were over the
hump on any drama around the shower the mole was working on the food estimate
and coordinating directly with the bride this time the informant texted us and
asked if the budget we had was the budget for both the shower and
bachelorette and I said it wasn't initially but we could pull the group
about if they wanted to leave any leftovers in the pot for The
Bachelorette and she said that sounded good this was a couple of weeks ago
since then things have been a little stressful the bride was unhappy that
people weren't texting her back and sent some pretty aggro texts last weekend
about how we're all causing her stress she doesn't need and that we rude and
don't respect her when pressed a few people said that they couldn't keep up
with all the texts there are 10 of us this group text for an October 2024
wedding started in June 2023 and I think people are burnt out already and
yesterday the bride passively put a real in her IG stories about how bridesmaids
need to help and wrote LOL over it we are 35 last night the mo had the
finalized food plan if we did grocery store catering platters we could feed
everyone apps a main a salad two sides and two desserts one being a Sunday bar
with several different non-alcoholic drink options for
$650 having that information I sent out a text to the other bridesmaids with an
overall budget update and some general guidance on how to spend what we had
left $650 for food $100 for invitations $200 for favors Etc at the end of that
update I said that even if we maxed out we'd still have $200 left over but we'd
probably have more everyone gave a thumbs up or raised concerns most people
gave a quick thumbs up but the informant said we were spending too much and that
the bride was expecting us to have more than $200 left over that last part
definitely rubbed me the wrong way but in the spirit of being agreeable I said
that to get a better sense of costs everyone could do an estimate for what
they thought they'd need for their respective tasks and then report back in
two weeks which they said sounded good today I woke up after updating my phone
OS last night to a bunch of text notifications with the name of the venue
in them my phone did that thing where you just see a number but no name there
were at least six of them when I unlocked them they were all gone I
posted in the group chat without the bride asking if someone had texted about
the venue and the informant said she was
pretty sure the venue didn't have AC and apparently there had been a lot of
heated conversation around that I had told everyone which venue I booked
several weeks ago when I did it so I'm not sure why it was only coming up today
I was already planning on going to The Venue today to take pictures to help the
person doing the decorating and to put the rest of the money down so I said I'd
confirm AC 100% but was pretty sure I'd asked before booking my blood pressure
was way up already starting my day with more shower drama so I decided to call
the venue before driving all the way there a 40-minute drive and confirm
about the AC in case I had somehow messed that up I hadn't while I was on
the phone with the venue I got a text from an unfamiliar number which ended up
being the bride mom saying the informant told them I was going to the venue and
the bride was with them they wanted to know what time I was going so they could
meet me at that point I told the other bridesmaids that I had confirmed the
venue had AC but that because there were concerns I wasn't going to put the rest
of the money down until we were sure we wanted it and that I would call the
bride to discuss when I called the bride I could tell right away that she was
pissed I asked her what was going on and she said she heard the venue had AC so
that was good word of that had miraculously traveled in less than 5
minutes she asked if I was going to the venue and I said I wasn't going to drive
all the way there to take pictures or pay if she no longer wanted the venue
she scolded me saying there's a better way to do things other people live
closer and I don't need to be driving to
the venue to take pictures then she told me she's been trying very hard to be
patient with me but that she shouldn't have to be unhappy about her own bridal
shower this was the first thing I heard about her not liking the venue it had
even been on her list her tone was very indignant and patronizing I seriously
felt like two cents I asked why she was unhappy and she said that the food the
mole had planned was not nice enough that she heard we were spending $650
just on food and that because her mom had paid for the venue we should be able
to pay for food plus everything else needed for the shower meaning
invitations favors decorations game prizes plates and utensils Etc with $650
so there would be more left over I was so taken aback and overwhelmed that I
honestly started to cry a little and told her that i' tried to plan to give
her a nice day with the information I had at the time that she didn't want to
be involved in planning she didn't want her mom involved she wanted to do
Sundays and games and I was trying to work with what we had and what she
wanted when I tried to defend myself she said do not talk to me this way every
time I talk to you and started lambasting me that's where I honestly
don't remember too much else because I finally snapped and said okay I'm done
I'm pulling out of this wedding she kept
yelling at me so I yelled I'm done again and hung up she called me back
immediately a few times and I declined I texted her reiterating that I was done
that I had just wanted to give her a nice day but that I clearly do not have
the capacity to show up like she needs a bridesmaid to show up so it's in
everyone's best interest for me to drop out she texted me that I should have a
conversation like an adult I sent her the money her mom had sent me back on
venmo and told her I'd done so she called me over and over in Rapid
succession and I finally blocked her so that was it not my finest moment but I
was definitely in fight or flight and I don't owe it to anyone to get on the
phone with them so they can berate and tone police me I texted the mo just to
give her a heads up that I am out of the wedding and she told me the bride had
called her right after and said that she
wants her shower at a restaurant now and that she was expecting to have a
conversation about how we're spending money our money I was ready to eat the
non-refundable portion of the deposit but the woman at the venue felt so bad
for me that I'm getting it back I was also supposed to be doing her wedding
makeup and she was pushing back on needing to buy her own foundation so I
wish whoever inherits that task luck I will never be a bridesmaid again after
this I wish I had listened to my gut and everyone who told me to bow out
gracefully weeks ago because maybe things could have been salvaged but now
I don't see how we come back from this or no if I even want to update she
texted my husband saying that there is a big disconnect here that I am clearly
not okay in a deep way and she hopes I can find my way to okay soon it's truly
impressive Rive that someone can be that
sanctimonious about me not wanting to be yelled at taken for granted and shd
talked relevant comments dogs and cats World 1,000 I'm glad you are finally out
of that I wonder how many more of the bridal parties she will end up driving
away I hope you enjoy your Summer with the amount of free time you will have
without being part of this nightmare op she kicked another person out a few
months ago snuff hugus 27 why was she worried about how much money was left
over was she expecting to get that money for something else I am so confused
muffin Mama 93 she wanted the leftovers to go toward the bachelorette party
which will be a nightmare in and of itself no one needs a $1,700 bridal
shower unless they are paying everything themselves these Bridezillas are
vampires sucking the money time and emotional energy out of their
bridesmaid's lives because bridesmaid has now come to mean slave labor where
slaves pay all the bills too op we weren't even against her using the
leftovers but her setting her own secondary budget and then being mad that
we were exceeding it as wild we are also older and many people in the bridal
party have small kids and we are too busy to do everything in the most
economical way possible we also just wanted it to be nice for her so we were
in favor of paying for a certain degree of convenience and some things of higher
quality 16 car $1,700 for a bridal shower is absolutely insane op she
didn't ask us to spend that much it was how much we had after everyone chipped
in there were nine bridesmaids alt together before I dropped out and we
were not planning on spending all of it the mo realistically thought food would
be closer to $450 but we thought we should buffer to
be safe in case something fell through or we forgot something Etc the bride
just wanted what we did spend to be done in a way that she approved of op on
ending her friendship with the bride op it's honestly been pretty lousy seeing
that such a longtime friend 21 years defaulted to finding fault with
everything I did and talking about me with others as if everything I was doing
was not for her this has been so much work it was going to cost money and it
didn't benefit me personally at all except that I wanted my friend to have a
really nice event that she didn't have to worry about which checked off the
list of things she wanted but I'm not even upset about that I'm upset that she
was so nasty to me and talked down to me like I was nothing more than an idiot
who is ruining everything and then on top of it she attacked my mental health
with my husband which was just cruel and unnecessary I can only imagine what she
is saying about me to other people but I don't care blue crew 2020 you took your
money back from the budget right so it should be less than $1,700 in budget now
op the only money that i' put down was the deposit so I'm not out of anything
once I get the refund Second Story entitled husband took op's RV on their
trip and ranted at op for coming with him it turned out the trip was for him
and his high school ex so op exposed him in front of his mother and got him
kicked out now he wants to reconcile because op made his mom upset this might
be confusing but I will try my best to be clear I am typing this on my tablet
so please forgive me for any spelling or grammar mistakes just to note this is
the first time that an issue like this has come up in our marriage and I do not
know what to do I have been writing romance novels since I was in college I
was a relatively successful author and I have made a living selling my novels
ever sense I do not make a lot of money but I do bring home $40,000 a year in
Book Sales this allows me to stay at home during the day so I can write and
also make crafts to sell in my Etsy Shop a few years after college I met Tim and
we instantly hit it off we dated for 3 years before tying the knot and we
bought a house shortly after Tim makes his living off his Investments and
stocks however we keep our finances separate this is because Tim inherited a
vast amount of money from his family and before we married I signed a prenup
agreement in order to ease his mind we both contribute an equal share to the
joint bank account for bills and then we Ed the remainder of our money for
ourselves about a year ago I landed a contract to write part of a romance
series the contract was huge and the payout was over $120,000 for a few
months work I contributed my share to the joint account and then put the rest
of the money into the bank so I could buy an RV I have always wanted an RV
because I love to travel and nothing would make me happier than being able to
write while on the road Tim is often away on business for days at a time so
the RV would give me an opportunity to get out of the house while he is away
after 6 months of deciding I chose a lightly used RV and purchased it from
the owners for a great price when Tim found out that I had purchased the RV he
was excited he has a travel trailer but it's not the same as an all in one RV he
loves RVs and he wanted to immediately take them out for a trip across the
state we took our trip and Tim couldn't stop talking about how much he enjoyed
the experience so he started talking about taking more trips together I
gently reminded him that even though the RV is a fun thing for us to have for
vacations its main purpose is for me to have something to do while he is away
for business but that we would be taking plenty of vacations together Tim agreed
with me and he let it go for a while the thing is in the past few weeks Tim has
been badgering me about taking the RV with him on his business trips he
usually flies when he goes to check his rental properties or visit family and he
is normally gone for four or five days at a time we got into an argument
because he had to evict a tenant and he wanted to drive the RV across the state
in order to do so I asked him if I could come along and Tim said he would prefer
it if I didn't I then said that if I couldn't come with him he couldn't take
my RV I suggested that he take his travel trailer instead and he got mad
and stormed out of the house about an hour later he started texting me like
nothing had happened and then he said he was taking the RV as if our previous
conversation had never happened I called him and tried to explain that he had
just purchased a brand new pickup and that if I didn't get to to drive his new
truck in his absence why should he get to take my RV when I am not coming on
the trip Tim and I went back and forth and eventually he said I could come
along if it meant that much to me I said I would and now I am regretting
everything I am sitting in the back of my own RV with a man who won't let me
touch the wheel it has been 3 days since this trip started and all Tim has done
is rant about how awesome the RV trip would be if I weren't with him it has
made me question everything in our marriage from how we split our finances
to how we argue and function together this is the first time that anything
like this has ever happened and I don't know what to do in this situation he is
still ranting as I type this and he's never done that before either I bought
an RV with my money so I could write or travel in it while my husband was away
for business my husband insisted on taking the RV with him and me and I
convinced him to let me come now he is ranting about how he doesn't want me on
the trip while I sit in the back of the RV hating my life edit hey guys I have
read all your comments and advice I don't know what I'll do yet but I will
update later second edit hey guys I've read all of your messages and I've got
limited internet right now a few of you were concerned for my safety and I just
wanted to let you all know I'm fine I plan on confronting him later today
update I promised I would update but things got very hectic and this is the
first chance I have gotten this whole situation makes me very emotional so
please forgive me if this post is not as
coherent as I would like it to be when I
post posted my first post we were on the
road in the RV and my husband was giving me the cold shoulder while he beat Tad
at me from the driver's seat you all had some great advice for me about what I
should do and I listened to a few people who suggested that he might be cheating
on me Tim had left his iPad in the back of the RV to charge while he drove I'm
not proud of this but I was able to sneak his iPad into the bedroom while he
was distracted by the road he was logged into his email account and I quickly
skimmed over his inbox but didn't find anything sus supicious I then had the
idea to check his scent folder and found out that he had been chatting up his ex
from college it made me sick to my stomach to read the messages but luckily
they had not yet been physical translated from chatspeak the message he
had sent his ex was basically I can't wait to get my hands on you it's been
years since I felt that mouth I'm excited I was disgusted but I tried to
keep calm we were on the road headed to another state and we planned on stopping
at his mother's house I knew that if his messages were in the scent folder that
meant that he had deleted them Tim was not planning on being caught and was
trying to hide his tracks he wanted my RV so that he could take his ex around
the state and have fun without leaving a credit card Trace I took photos of the
emails and sent them to myself in order to preserve the evidence I then went
back to the front of the RV and acted as if everything was fine I apologized
don't worry I lied for how I had acted and suggested that we ask his mom to
help us work through this Tim said that he was sorry and that he accepted my
apology he said he was looking forward to using the RV in the future and that
he was glad I had come to see the reason I smiled and nodded but on the inside I
was cursing his existence we made it to his mom's house and I made up an excuse
about having to change because my clothes were wrinkled Tim went inside
without me and I started throwing all of his clothes and belongings into a trash
bag I then went inside the house and Tim was sitting with his mom in the kitchen
he asked me what I was doing with the bag and I told him that I was giving him
his clothes so that I could leave Tim then got angry and asked me what the f I
was doing and his mom was simply confused she asked me what was going on
and I told her I'm not sure myself I'm waiting for Tim to explain why he was
planning to cheat on me with his ex Tim's mom then started to cry and yell
at Tim while he tried to calm her down I know Reddit does not have a lot of love
for religion but Tim's mother is a fundamentalist she had loved me from the
minute Tim introduced me to her and it would be an understatement to say that
she was very upset with her adulterous son Tim never tried to apologize to me
instead he chased after his mother saying he was sorry for her this made
her cry harder because she knew that he wasn't even trying to make amends with
me he was just apologizing to her she hugged me and told me to just go home
and she would handle her son I thanked her took the RV keys from Tim this ended
up being a minor wrestling match and left I drove home crying but at least I
got rid of my rcy hole ex-husband Tim called me the next day and begged me to
come back to him he said it was all a mistake and that he was sorry I asked
him why he didn't apologize at his mother's house and why he didn't say he
was sorry when I was handing him his back I told him that he didn't care
about cheating on me and that all he cared about was how bad it made him look
to his family he tried to explain himself but I cut him off and hung up I
blocked him on all social media and haven't heard anything since I have
gotten a lawyer and have already started the divorce process op did drop in on
the previous boru and update her situation 7 years later comment one hi
there I'm the op from the story a friend told me it had resurfaced on this subit
long story short the prenup was not even considered during the divorce our
lawyers worked out an agreement to split all assets acquired during marriage
50/50 to avoid a drawn out legal battle I did end up getting slightly more than
I put in during the marriage but not by much in the end I was happier to just
get rid of him quickly comment two goodness I was not expecting to hear
anything about my story on Reddit after so many years but a friend linked me to
this post I'm a bit late to the thread though I'm typing this on my phone so
please forgive any spelling or grammar mistakes for a small update our divorce
was finalized and settled a long time ago our lawyers worked out an agreement
outside of court and we split all assets acquired during the marriage 5050 which
meant I ended up slightly ahead of my personal contributions I didn't want the
mental stress of having to fight my ex in court and simply wanted to be rid of
him and yes I kept the RV after the divorce settlement Mill and I stayed in
touch until her passing last year she was someone who loved God and she never
truly forgave her son for committing the
sin of adultery her own husband Phil had left her for another woman decades ago
and she had never moved past it seeing her son commit the same sin almost broke
her especially since I had fulfilled what she considered to be my wely
obligations as for me I am happily single to this day and am still a writer
op answers her current relationship status bahaha this is why I'm still
single I haven't been in a relationship since the divorce unless you count my
cat and this exchange about her books shadowex 31 based on the timing and the
details I think I may know who this author is there's this one book she
writes that's the story of an author who finds love after divorcing her abusive
arle husband the book talks about how she started writing when she was younger
and didn't pull much for a while before hitting it B
there's just a lot of similarities in both this story and the author's writing
Style op that is definitely not me but nice try my work is more Pulp Fiction
Harlequin romance and borderline smut I try to avoid topics from real life like
divorce because people read my work to escape from the harsh reality of the
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:00.350 --> :03.240 Posted by u/Alone-Panic-3630
:03.240 --> :06.130 4 hours ago :06.130 --> :10.429
AITA for taking my Fiancè's dinner after he touched mine?
:10.429 --> :15.820 I'll be quick, my f26 fiance m32 is blind.
:15.820 --> :20.220 We don't disagree a lot except, he always
gets bothered whenever I eat different food :20.220 --> :21.990
from what he's eating when we go out. :21.990 --> :26.769
Like, if we're having dinner out and I order
else, he'd instantly get upset and accuse :26.769 --> :32.070
me of treating him as less than when I just
have different taste in foods.I'd just eat :32.070 --> :37.110
what he eats to keep the peace (I eat out
alone as alternative) but since he clearly :37.110 --> :42.310
doesn't trust me, he'd randomly touch my plate
to see if I'm having the same dish. :42.310 --> :46.710
This caused huge arguments between us and
I told him to stop doing it and he said he :46.710 --> :47.710 would.
:47.710 --> :51.940 We went out to eat nights ago, and I ordered
the same dish he ordered. :51.940 --> :55.039
When the food arrived, he looked somewhat uncomfortable.
:55.039 --> :00.530 I asked what was wrong and he refused to say,
and before I could even grab the fork he extended :00.530 --> :03.559
his arm and his hand touched the food on my plate. :03.559 --> :09.020
He moved quickly and started excussing what
he did saying he "just wanted to make sure..." :09.020 --> :14.100
but I lost it on him, I felt so grossed out
and there was no way I could eat the food :14.100 --> :15.330
after he touched it. :15.330 --> :20.930
He tried to get me to drop it saying i shouldn't
be grossed out by his hand, and that I overreacted :20.930 --> :25.690
etc... but I grabbed his plate and told him that I was taking it as my donner.
:25.690 --> :30.640 He at first asked meto be "rational" and give
the plate back but I refused. :30.640 --> :32.930
An argument ensued and we had a fight. :32.930 --> :38.640
He then ended up leaving started spam texting
me accusing me of being bitter, pathetic and :38.640 --> :40.510
childish, and robbing his dinner. :40.510 --> :44.500
He went to stay with his friend who picked
him up and his friend sided with him saying :44.500 --> :46.190
I was in the wrong. :46.190 --> :50.969
Even went as far as to say that I was abusing
my fiance and financially controlling him :50.969 --> :54.100
when I pointed out that I was the one who paid for the food.
:54.100 --> :59.100 The problem is magnified now with him wanting
an apology and me refusing to give him one. :59.100 --> :03.530
My parents think I should have more patience
and that this is just typical "love spats" :03.530 --> :05.650
between us but I'm not sure. :05.650 --> :12.440
Was I the ah with how I handled this? :12.440 --> :28.350 Posted by
u/Holiday-Kangaroo4152 :28.350 --> :44.260 14 hours ago
:44.260 --> :53.940 AITA for telling my wife it's her job to babysit
the kids and leaving the house? :53.940 --> :59.940
I (35m) have been married to my wife (32f) for 7 years.
:59.940 --> :03.720 We have two children together (6m) and (3f).
:03.720 --> :08.730 She takes care of house and babysits the kids
most of the time because she's a SAHM but :08.730 --> :13.489
we evenly split chores and childcare on weekends and when I get home from work.
:13.489 --> :16.140 My wife is much more social than I am.
:16.140 --> :19.659 We moved to her home state from mine because
she was wanted to be closer to her parents :19.659 --> :21.049
and her childhood friends. :21.049 --> :23.810
Now, she is a lot more social than I am. :23.810 --> :26.560
She goes on 3-4 girls trips a year. :26.560 --> :30.849
I have no issues with that and I'm happy to
babysit the kids full time in her absence. :30.849 --> :36.849
I'm more of a homebody anyway so I usually
like to just paint in the spare room or play :36.849 --> :40.980
video games every once in a while instead of traveling out of state.
:40.980 --> :44.230 I don't really take time off from work unless
we do something as a family :44.230 --> :49.030
For the past 3-4 months, I was very busy on a major project at work.
:49.030 --> :54.010 I've been working 60 hour weeks and frankly
I'm exhausted with the stress. :54.010 --> :58.850
So when the project was finally coming to
an end, I told my wife I'm taking a day off :58.850 --> :01.840
and I won't be doing any work around the house. :01.840 --> :06.959
Of course, I'd still clean up after myself
but I didn't want to do any chores or childcare :06.959 --> :08.349
on that one day. :08.349 --> :11.439
I told her that 2 weeks in advance and she agreed. :11.439 --> :13.610
I also reminded her three days before :13.610 --> :19.170
However, when that day came, my wife "forgot" about our agreement.
:19.170 --> :23.570 I was in the painting room and my wife interrupted
me telling me she needed me to give our daughter :23.570 --> :28.891
a bath because she spilt milk all over herself
and couldn't do it because she had to wash :28.891 --> :30.150
the dishes. :30.150 --> :33.290
It was annoying but whatever, crap happens. :33.290 --> :37.840
Later on when I was playing video games, my
wife tells me our son needs help for his math :37.840 --> :38.840
homework. :38.840 --> :43.500
I ask her why can't she help him herself,
she said it's because she has some "work" :43.500 --> :44.500 to do.
:44.500 --> :48.620 This work was actually her best friend coming
over and chatting for an hour. :48.620 --> :52.910
This really ticked me off so after I helped
my son and the best friend left, I told my :52.910 --> :55.820
wife I'm leaving the house for 4-5 hours. :55.820 --> :59.970
She asked me where I was going, I told her
I'm just going to chill in the park and do :59.970 --> :00.970
whatever. :00.970 --> :04.740
But then she said needs me to help out with the chores and with the kids.
:04.740 --> :09.710 I told her that today was my day off from
all work including house work and it's her :09.710 --> :13.800
job to babysit the kids on this day before I left the house
:13.800 --> :18.800 When I came back she was acting cold and called
me an jerk for just abandoning her and the :18.800 --> :19.800 kids.
:19.800 --> :25.470 I think she's being dramatic but when I spoke
to my sister, she said parenting is a 24/7 :25.470 --> :26.470 job.
:26.470 --> :52.190 So AITA? :52.190 --> :53.450 Posted by
u/aitah-dinner :53.450 --> :55.270 14 hours ago Heartwarming
:55.270 --> :58.720 AITA for taking my daughter's boyfriend out
to dinner? :58.720 --> :04.210
My 14-year-old daughter May has been dating
this boy Félix (also 14) for a couple of :04.210 --> :05.210
months now. :05.210 --> :10.130
He's a nice boy, really polite, but I can
tell he most likely isn't from a well-to-do :10.130 --> :11.130
family. :11.130 --> :15.289
I don't have a problem with this though because
as I said, he seems like a good person and :15.289 --> :16.570
that's what counts. :16.570 --> :20.660
He was going to take my daughter out for ice
cream earlier today, and while he was waiting :20.660 --> :24.280
for her to get ready he asked me if he could have some peanut butter.
:24.280 --> :27.919 I said oh, don't you want to save room for
the date, but he explained he didn't have :27.919 --> :32.039
enough money to buy something for himself
(he's always paid on their dates as far as :32.039 --> :33.039
I know). :33.039 --> :36.640
This poor kid was so hungry I could hear his stomach growling.
:36.640 --> :40.430 offered to give him some money but he said
he's not allowed to accept cash. :40.430 --> :44.711
I then asked him if it'd be alright if I took
him out for dinner with my daughter, and he :44.711 --> :47.360
called his mom and she said it was ok. :47.360 --> :50.599
When May came downstairs I told her the new plan. :50.599 --> :53.400
She was upset and thought it was lame that I'd be with them.
:53.400 --> :57.289 I said I could just sit in the car and she
could call me when it was time to pick up :57.289 --> :02.449
the check, but she was having none of it and
said she was going out with some friends instead. :02.449 --> :07.040
It was a little embarrassing since she basically
dumped him in front of me, but I kind of just :07.040 --> :10.040
moved on and asked Félix if he still wanted to go. :10.040 --> :12.900
He said yeah so I took him down to Wendy's. :12.900 --> :17.379
We had a good time, but when I told May where I'd been she was furious.
:17.379 --> :22.069
She accused me of liking her boyfriend romantically
and that I shouldn't have gone “on a date” :22.069 --> :23.280
with him without her. :23.280 --> :28.350
I reminded her I'd given her that option and
she'd refused, but she said that didn't change :28.350 --> :32.180
anything and now she can't trust me with any of her boyfriends.
:32.180 --> :36.199 I tried to tell her I'm not interested in
her boyfriend at all but she just ran out :36.199 --> :37.199
of the room. :37.199 --> :43.639
I feel bad for her but I don't think I did anything wrong.
:43.639 --> :47.629 AITA? :47.629 --> :59.610 Posted by
u/spotifyexe :59.610 --> :11.580 10 hours ago
:11.580 --> :18.669 AITA for not wanting my future stepson to
attend my wedding :18.669 --> :25.509
I(30F) am getting married to my fiance 'Alan'(33M) in december.
:25.509 --> :33.110 My fiance was married to 'Amy'(34F) before
me and they had a son together 'Jay'(17F). :33.110 --> :37.360
Amy and Alan slept together at a party when
they were both 16 and jay was the product :37.360 --> :38.360 of that.
:38.360 --> :43.120 They tried their best to make it work for
5 years but then got divorced as Amy had cheated :43.120 --> :44.240
on Alan. :44.240 --> :49.240 Now coming to the issue, I met my husband
when I was 25 and he was 28. :49.240 --> :53.110
That's nearly 6-7 years after his divorce with Amy.
:53.110 --> :55.800 But Jay seemed to think of me as the cause of it.
:55.800 --> :00.800 Alan and Amy have decided to not tell Jay
about the real reason of their divorce until :00.800 --> :02.560
he's legally an adult. :02.560 --> :06.620
Because of that, he seems to believe that
if he pushes his father and mother together, :06.620 --> :07.870
they'll get back together. :07.870 --> :12.750
I have nothing against Jay but his actions
really hurt me and he's so full of hatred :12.750 --> :13.750 for me.
:13.750 --> :18.430 Intially, I tried to be a second mom to him
but he didn't like it nor did Amy, which I :18.430 --> :19.430
understand. :19.430 --> :22.510
So I stopped trying and treated him as a friend instead.
:22.510 --> :25.149 But he talks down to me, calls me homewrecker.
:25.149 --> :30.769 But, last week his friends all messaged me
harassing me and asking to send them my OF(which :30.769 --> :35.750
I don't have) since I'm a thot and alot of other explicit things.
:35.750 --> :38.529 This has hit the nail in the coffin for my fiance.
:38.529 --> :44.620 My fiance is furious at Jay and wants to uninvite
him from our wedding, so do I. but Amy is :44.620 --> :45.740
against that. :45.740 --> :50.160
She thinks I'm being too sensitive and believes
that this is normal teen behaviour. :50.160 --> :53.750
I don't know if my dislike for Jay is clouding my decision.
:53.750 --> :55.529 So please tell me AITA?
:55.529 --> :01.300 Edit 1 : hey guys we scheduled a talk with
amy & jay tomorrow to look over this issue. :01.300 --> :03.230
Will update tomorrow if all goes well. :03.230 --> :05.100
Thanks for all the advice and insight. :05.100 --> :10.920
Edit 2 : hey so I'm going to try to make this
not too long but basically me, amy, alan& :10.920 --> :14.549
jay had a sit down talk just about 30 mins ago. :14.549 --> :19.209
It wasn't going anywhere until Alan burst out about amy cheating on him.
:19.209 --> :25.010 Amy went hysterical and tried to deny any
accusations but eventually agreed. :25.010 --> :26.650
Jay looked so confused. :26.650 --> :28.700
But he surprisingly took it well. :28.700 --> :33.210
Noone expected him to, but he did, he seemed so ashamed of himself.
:33.210 --> :34.450 Turns out, I was right.
:34.450 --> :38.899 Jay didn't believe that I was a homewrecker
or anything he was just jealous and mad that :38.899 --> :43.870
I got with Alan when Alan had money & was
rich meanwhile his mom had to go through poverty :43.870 --> :49.270
with his dad and seemed think of me as some
gold digger(?) Even though I also work & earn :49.270 --> :51.630
almost as much as my fiancee. :51.630 --> :56.450
Jay also admitted that Amy had said alot of
messed up stuff about me to him when Alan :56.450 --> :58.139
and I first got together. :58.139 --> :59.720 He apologised for that
:59.720 --> :03.760 He said that he wasn't aware of what his friends
had sent to me and agreed that while he may :03.760 --> :09.459
have confided in his 'friends' about what
his mom said about me, he never asked them :09.459 --> :10.810
to message me. :10.810 --> :14.160
I've never seen Jay look so remorseful. :14.160 --> :19.300
Amy was fuming throughout this ordeal and
screaming at Alan and I. Eventually Alan kicked :19.300 --> :21.950
her out to have a more peaceful convo with Amy. :21.950 --> :27.589
Alan and Jay both exchanged hugs and for the
first time in 3 years, Jay looked happy. :27.589 --> :32.510
Well that didn't last for long because after
the initial guilt and shock, anger settled :32.510 --> :36.640
in and he immediately moved out of his moms flat & moved in with us.
:36.640 --> :42.300 He'd mad with Alan too for keeping this secret
from him but not at me surprisingly, he actually :42.300 --> :43.690
didn't blame me. :43.690 --> :59.350
So I think we might actually be able to be
in a more friendly familial relationship. :59.350 --> :12.750
Posted by u/Askingforafriend2278 :12.750 --> :16.570 4 hours ago
:16.570 --> :21.000 WIBTA for revealing where my kids college
money came from? :21.000 --> :22.000 Hello.
:22.000 --> :27.360 I am a single mother (43) of two kids 18f and 14m.
:27.360 --> :29.760 Their fathers are not in the picture.
:29.760 --> :32.690 Recently I was contacted by my exBIL (40?).
:32.690 --> :37.930 He told me that when he was married to my
sister (38) he had started college funds for :37.930 --> :38.930
my kids. :38.930 --> :42.510
They separated, but he still wanted to give the money for my children.
:42.510 --> :46.699 It's not full ride amount, but it will mean
my daughter won't have to work during college :46.699 --> :51.870
unless she wants spending money, and it's
more that me or my parents can give her. :51.870 --> :56.930
Obviously I was overjoyed at this... but i
asked him not to tell anyone because my sister :56.930 --> :59.420
has grown quite bitter about their divorce. :59.420 --> :05.130
I'm not really sure what went down, but afaik
they had separate finances, so I don't think :05.130 --> :07.339
it would be due to money reasons. :07.339 --> :12.230
When I told my family we had received a donation
to my daughters college fund everyone was :12.230 --> :18.580
overjoyed.. but also really suspicious, because
there are times in the last few years that :18.580 --> :20.740
money would have really helped. :20.740 --> :26.870
Someone in my family started the "joke" that
I got this from my boss for "favours". :26.870 --> :29.670
It's not true, but my sister and brother won't let it go.
:29.670 --> :33.570 "Let's get takeout tonight, hey, X, go sleep
with your boss and get it". :33.570 --> :37.850
I'm not doing a good job of explaining it
but its really quite hurtful to have my family :37.850 --> :40.510
saying these things, even as jokes. :40.510 --> :43.720
I'm considering telling them BIL is the one behind it.
:43.720 --> :47.690 It will stop them insisting on knowing the
source, but it might hurt my sister to know :47.690 --> :48.880
he helped us. :48.880 --> :51.700
I can't really ask people for advice without it leaking out.
:51.700 --> :59.529 I have only told 1 girl from work and she
suggested here for some anonymous opinions. :59.529 --> :09.440
Posted by u/GoatRevolutionary221 :09.440 --> :21.730 19 hours ago
The Poop Knife :21.730 --> :23.240 I am disappoint Hugz
:23.240 --> :26.870 AITA for asking my wife to wake me up at night
when our newborn wakes up? :26.870 --> :32.259 Jerk
My wife (35f) and I (35m) just had our third :32.259 --> :34.880
child one month ago (4 weeks). :34.880 --> :39.550
For the first week or two my wife had to wake
him up every couple hours to feed him but :39.550 --> :42.050
now we just let him sleep until he wakes up to eat.
:42.050 --> :47.010 Here’s where that becomes a problem: I am
a REALLY heavy sleeper. :47.010 --> :53.450
There is nothing that can wake me up short
of being attacked by a bear or shaken or something.
:53.450 --> :56.920 It’s been that way since way before my wife
and I had kids. :56.920 --> :59.200
Babies crying or screaming do not wake me up. :59.200 --> :04.800
They didn’t even when we had our first (8m)
so usually I’ve woken up when my wife turns :04.800 --> :07.680
on the lights for changing and stuff like that. :07.680 --> :13.240
Apparently I sleep through A LOT when my wife
is getting up a lot, so she is saying she :13.240 --> :16.820
does an “unfair amount” of work at night because of it.
:16.820 --> :20.980 I feel bad because I recognize that if I’m
asleep I’m not contributing to the night :20.980 --> :21.980 stuff.
:21.980 --> :26.019 So I asked my wife to wake me up when the
baby wakes up, and she told me that made it :26.019 --> :30.490
so much worse and that it was like “weaponized incompetence.”
:30.490 --> :32.710 She just doesn’t want to wake me up for
some reason. :32.710 --> :37.690
I am not WEAPONIZING my heavy sleep against
her, I just want her to wake me up so I can :37.690 --> :38.690 help.
:38.690 --> :42.640 But like I said, she said that makes it worse,
and now she’s mad. :42.640 --> :50.090
AITA for asking to wake me up so I can help
with the night stuff for our newborn? :50.090 --> :01.639 Posted by
u/Effective_Ad9651 :01.639 --> :13.190 14 hours ago
:13.190 --> :17.040 AITA? :17.040 --> :21.350
My wife and I got into a huge fight over a
budget on the way to back-to-school shopping :21.350 --> :22.759
at the local mall. :22.759 --> :26.819
She insisted we needed to adhere to a strict
budget, I said we should get whatever the :26.819 --> :29.000
kids need/were drawn to. :29.000 --> :30.800
She hopped out of the car and walked home. :30.800 --> :33.209
I went shopping for 7 hours. :33.209 --> :36.900
I am the breadwinner for our family and my wife stays at home.
:36.900 --> :40.750 She is a few years older than me and I have
always struggled with feeling like I report :40.750 --> :41.750
to her. :41.750 --> :45.850
She denies it strongly, but I still feel that
there is a power imbalance that she benefits :45.850 --> :48.610
from (even after 15 years of marriage). :48.610 --> :53.209
We've done well over the years and have a net worth of $2m+.
:53.209 --> :57.240 I have a great job and we make $300k+/yr.
:57.240 --> :03.300 My wife is very frugal and not only doesn't
like spending money herself, but shames/pressures :03.300 --> :04.610
me when I do. :04.610 --> :08.350
She grew up in a poor family and spending doesn't come easy for her.
:08.350 --> :10.829 Not the worst problem to have in a spouse, I know!
:10.829 --> :11.939 But hear me out. :11.939 --> :16.580
We were heading to a large local mall with
all of our kids to do school shopping when :16.580 --> :18.689
the topic of a budget came up. :18.689 --> :23.169
She was insisting that the budget for each kid should be $100.
:23.169 --> :27.689 I suggested that we should be more flexible
and get what the kids need + what the kids :27.689 --> :29.560
might want/be excited by. :29.560 --> :34.410
"Why am I working as hard as I do if I can't
spend the money on my kids from time to time?" :34.410 --> :39.429
We do not spoil our kids and back-to-school
is pretty much the only time we get new stuff :39.429 --> :40.760
for our kids. :40.760 --> :44.850
She then changed tactics and claimed that
it was her that does laundry and the kids :44.850 --> :50.350
already have enough clothes, so I would have
to do the additional laundry that would inevitably :50.350 --> :52.360
come with more clothes. :52.360 --> :57.460
I dug in and said that since I am the breadwinner,
and make all of the money, I should have the :57.460 --> :00.270
right to spend it on my kids how I see fit. :00.270 --> :05.740
I have never once in our entire marriage tried
to control or restrict how she spends money, :05.740 --> :08.240
but she does it to me all the time. :08.240 --> :12.680
She snapped and said "fine, you can just go
with the kids then and spend to your heart's :12.680 --> :13.680
content. :13.680 --> :15.890
I don't want to have anything to do with it." :15.890 --> :18.280
and got out of the car at the next stop sign. :18.280 --> :20.390
I begged her to get back in. :20.390 --> :24.960
I turned around the car and gave her several
opportunities to get back in and I offered :24.960 --> :26.400
to give her a ride. :26.400 --> :31.600
She refused and literally walked 6 miles back home alone.
:31.600 --> :36.500 I was quite shocked that she would do that
but proceeded to the mall where I spent seven :36.500 --> :40.710
hours shopping with the kids getting lots of great stuff for school.
:40.710 --> :45.730 I definitely didn't go overboard and spend
like I was a celebrity, but we focused on :45.730 --> :49.559
getting what the kids needed with a healthy
amount of things they wanted as well. :49.559 --> :05.159
AITA for digging in and insisting on spending
however much was needed on my kids? :05.159 --> :21.020 Posted by
u/YellowSockMonkey :21.020 --> :39.140 20 hours ago Facepalm
:39.140 --> :47.010 AITA for not inviting my friend to my party
because she would ruin the aesthetic? :47.010 --> :48.040 Jerk
Alt account because I don’t want my friends :48.040 --> :49.040
to see this. :49.040 --> :54.179
I (29F) started a small online book club for
book lovers in my city about a year ago. :54.179 --> :58.340
I know it sounds a little nerdy but it’s
not like that, we’re all just some girls :58.340 --> :02.870
who like to read and share our thoughts, especially on historical fiction.
:02.870 --> :07.030 Well I’ve been seeing a lot of those book
balls on tiktok recently where people throw :07.030 --> :13.740
huge parties where everyone dresses up extravagantly
in ball gowns and those intricate masks and :13.740 --> :18.800
parasols and whatnot and thought it looked
super fun, only there weren’t any being :18.800 --> :23.170
held anywhere near me so I decided to hold
an intimate one with the girls from my book :23.170 --> :24.170 club.
:24.170 --> :28.309 There are about a dozen of us and we’ve
met up multiple times so we’re all good :28.309 --> :29.309 friends.
:29.309 --> :34.830 One of these girls is a close friend of mine,
I’ll call her Sam (29F) and she does not :34.830 --> :36.630
like to dress up at all. :36.630 --> :42.610
She’s always in sweats or athletic clothes,
never does her makeup or hair, just doesn’t :42.610 --> :46.830
really care about her appearance even for
formal events, I remember she skipped our :46.830 --> :51.340
prom and wore jeans to our ceremony, which is fine, she’s a beautiful girl.
:51.340 --> :54.710 But I didn’t want that at my ball, so I
didn’t invite her. :54.710 --> :59.820
I sent out beautiful invites that I spent
a good chunk of money for, rented out a small :59.820 --> :05.360
hall that fit my budget, catered, and only
asked my friends to pitch in about $20 each :05.360 --> :07.350
to cover some costs. :07.350 --> :13.070
Everyone bought beautiful extravagant gowns
and accessories and I got even more excited. :13.070 --> :17.910
Well eventually word somehow made it to Sam and she asked me about the event.
:17.910 --> :22.750 She asked if I was really hosting an event
for the book club and not inviting her and :22.750 --> :28.010
after hesitating I said yes but only because
I know she would never wear a ball gown or :28.010 --> :29.919
put effort into looking good. :29.919 --> :34.340
She said she was upset that I wouldn’t want
her there even if she wore her regular clothes :34.340 --> :38.470
and I told her that that’s not fair, that
I put in all of this effort for a beautiful :38.470 --> :43.549
event where everyone can be a little extra
for one day and I didn’t want her to ruin :43.549 --> :44.710
the aesthetic. :44.710 --> :50.501
She hasn’t spoken to me since then and the
ball was two days ago (a success btw- everyone :50.501 --> :51.501
looked amazing). :51.501 --> :57.260
Am I the a**hole for not inviting her because she would ruin the event?
:57.260 --> :03.120 Posted by u/whoknows2919
:03.120 --> :24.850 22 hours ago Mind Blown
:24.850 --> :36.620 AITA for asking my husband if he washed his hands?
:36.620 --> :39.750 Not the A-hole
My husband and me seem to have different standards :39.750 --> :41.700
on hygiene and cleanliness. :41.700 --> :46.840
I might be overly worried about germs to him
but whenever we go places I want us to wash :46.840 --> :51.630
our hands when we get back.. he started making
food today for himself and I asked him if :51.630 --> :56.690
he washed his hands as a question and he said what the freak is wrong with you?
:56.690 --> :00.309 And this led to a fight where I told him if
he would just do it I wouldn’t feel a need :00.309 --> :05.429
to ask and he said I’m belittling him and then raised his voice and got mad.
:05.429 --> :07.450 I told him not to talk to me like that..
:07.450 --> :12.740 it’s like getting to me that at night he
doesn’t always brush his teeth, never flosses,etc. :12.740 --> :24.100
so am I belittling :24.100 --> :31.390 and in the wrong?
:31.390 --> :35.340 Posted by u/PlutonianEnergy
:35.340 --> :39.279 1 day ago :39.279 --> :43.390
AITA for how I reacted to my BF not letting me sleep?
:43.390 --> :46.710 Not the A-hole
First off I work 12hr shifts at night 5pm :46.710 --> :47.710 to 5am.
:47.710 --> :53.080 He doesn't work he's a SAHD so he could get
therapy (it took him a year just to do one :53.080 --> :56.549
appointment but that's a whole other story for another day).
:56.549 --> :59.750 I usually let him sleep in and I did today
as well. :59.750 --> :06.630
I have barely slept the past few days because
of dental pain/work and I'm 14 weeks pregnant :06.630 --> :10.730
so I'm exhausted from feeling sick and tired all the time.
:10.730 --> :17.830 So, of course, at 9:20 I storm out of the
house (he's still asleep) and go get coffee/breakfast
:17.830 --> :18.830 for everyone. :18.830 --> :24.070
I get back obviously still upset about being
so tired and it's practically 10am at this :24.070 --> :25.070 point.
:25.070 --> :29.580 I lock myself in the room (I'm in a 1 bedroom
with 2 kids and he's not on the lease) to :29.580 --> :31.960
try to eat/sleep in peace. :31.960 --> :35.740
The kids will not stop screaming or shooting toy guns.
:35.740 --> :38.640 He's just on his phone on the couch curled up.
:38.640 --> :42.940 I stormed out to sit on the steps and gather
my thoughts and messaged him that when I came :42.940 --> :48.320
back he could either keep the kids quiet and
let me sleep, take them somewhere, or he could :48.320 --> :49.529
leave himself. :49.529 --> :54.140
I don't want to look at him when I'm so sleep
deprived and he gets to sleep at night and :54.140 --> :57.240
sleep in cuz it's just gonna pee me off. :57.240 --> :02.350
He stays up late playing videogames so it's
not like he HAS to stay up all night/day. :02.350 --> :06.090
He said he didn't know the kids were that
loud and got ticked off saying he doesn't :06.090 --> :10.799
know where to take them (we also live in a
big city and there's at least 2 libraries :10.799 --> :13.940
and parks near us, plus his mom and aunts). :13.940 --> :17.549
Mind you he could have just kept them quiet
with a little effort and stayed here. :17.549 --> :19.890
Am I truly the jerk in this situation? :19.890 --> :23.320
He left ticked off at me and yelling at the kids to hurry up.
:23.320 --> :28.890 I also said if he's that dang mad to just
go himself before he left but he refused. :28.890 --> :33.550
He wouldn't say "I love you" when he left
which is his Hallmark being ticked off move. :33.550 --> :36.409
I didn't say it either cuz I don't want to play that game with him.
:36.409 --> :37.789 I just want to sleep.
:37.789 --> :43.059 When I wake up I'll read the replies on if
I'm an jerk or not and if I am I'll apologize. :43.059 --> :47.000
But right now I'm barely able to keep my eyes open to type this out.
:47.000 --> :54.440 I'm so tired I might throw up.
:54.440 --> :11.679 Posted by u/JackfruitOk4421
:11.679 --> :19.250 1 day ago :19.250 --> :23.770
AITA for injuring myself before my sisters wedding?
:23.770 --> :29.410 Not the A-hole
I (28F) and my sister (26F) have always had :29.410 --> :30.510
great relations. :30.510 --> :34.350
Recently, her fiancé, lets call him Josh, had proposed to her.
:34.350 --> :37.789 She invited the entire family and a few of
her friends to the wedding. :37.789 --> :41.789
4 days before the wedding I was cycling around the neighbourhood I live in.
:41.789 --> :46.679 i accidentally took a sharp turn and planted
face first into the concrete. :46.679 --> :50.910
I bruised my leg, part of my face and arms. :50.910 --> :53.230
Unfortunately, I thought I shouldn’t go to the wedding.
:53.230 --> :58.040 This reached my sister a few hours after I
came back home and started treating my scar. :58.040 --> :01.240
And I tell you, she was furious. :01.240 --> :06.340
She told me that because of some dumb scar I can’t come to a relatives wedding.
:06.340 --> :10.890 She also accused me of doing this on purpose
just so I wouldn’t have to see her friend :10.890 --> :12.010 (my ex).
:12.010 --> :16.809 About 1 hour later I got an entire paragraph
from my mother, stating t? hat I am a liar :16.809 --> :18.179
and a selfish person. :18.179 --> :21.480
There we’re 2 main reasons why I couldn’t attend the wedding.
:21.480 --> :25.450 1st, after the crash I felt extremely nauseous
and dizzy. :25.450 --> :32.669
2nd, I could not dare to walk into a public
area with a large, bright red dot on my forehead. :32.669 --> :37.740
My husband, lets call him Damien, also decided
not to go to the wedding due to the way my :37.740 --> :38.909
sister treats me. :38.909 --> :43.510
During the time I am writing this, it is 3
days before the wedding and I still feel extremely :43.510 --> :44.510
sick. :44.510 --> :48.960 My mother is scolding me for not being able
to attend a wedding for a medical event. :48.960 --> :54.210
She says that my sister has attended all of
my important events, my graduation, my own :54.210 --> :55.210
wedding, etc. :55.210 --> :00.970
I accept that, but getting bombarded by angry
messages from my mom because I got hurt is :00.970 --> :01.970
horrible in my eyes. :01.970 --> :02.970 So reddit, AITA?
:02.970 --> :03.970 Posted by u/snowyleopard52
:03.970 --> :04.970 1 day ago :04.970 --> :05.970
AITA for telling my husband’s cousins if
they went out with my husband, they would :05.970 --> :06.970
have to take our son with them? :06.970 --> :07.970 Jerk
Our son is 2 and right now he’s going through :07.970 --> :10.400
a phase where his dad is his absolute favourite
person and he’s practically glued to him. :10.400 --> :11.400
It’s come at a good time since we’re visiting
my husband’s family so he’s available :11.400 --> :12.400
to spend more time with our son than he normally would be.
:12.400 --> :13.400 My husband’s cousins wanted to go out on
the boat with my husband. :13.400 --> :14.662
They were discussing it in front of me and
I let them know they would have to take my :14.662 --> :15.662
son with them if my husband went. :15.662 --> :18.450
They told me it wasn’t a good idea for them
to take him and made up some lies about how :18.450 --> :20.820
it would be dangerous for him to go with them. :20.820 --> :23.059
I suggested they do something else then because
my son wouldn’t stay in if his dad was going :23.059 --> :24.059 out.
:24.059 --> :25.059 They kept trying to convince me to keep my
son home and even asked me why he couldn’t :25.059 --> :26.059
stay with me at one point. :26.059 --> :27.059
Eventually my father-in-law told them they
could only use the boat if they took my son :27.059 --> :28.059
too which is the only reason they finally backed down and agreed.
:28.059 --> :29.059 They weren’t happy about it, though.
:29.059 --> :30.059 My husband wasn’t there during the conversation
as he was bathing our son but he didn’t :30.059 --> :32.890
seem concerned about taking our son on the
boat which is why I know they were just making :32.890 --> :33.890
stuff up so he couldn’t go. :33.890 --> :34.890 AITA?
:34.890 --> :35.890 Posted by u/ThrowawayAcct0075
:35.890 --> :36.890 19 hours ago Snek :36.890 --> :37.890
AITA for Son/DIL Vacation Drama? :37.890 --> :38.890 Jerk
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. :38.890 --> :41.580
I have an adult son, lovely daughter-in-law,
and two grandchildren, as well as a devoted :41.580 --> :42.580 wife.
:42.580 --> :44.390 Generally, we get along well.
:44.390 --> :49.320 Every 2-3 years, my daughter-in-law's family
takes their (adult) children and grandchildren :49.320 --> :51.100
on a week-long vacation. :51.100 --> :54.659
A cruise, a beach trip, Disney World, whatever. :54.659 --> :57.360
Obviously, this includes my son and his family. :57.360 --> :02.480
The problem is, my wife is increasingly jealous
that we also don't have these vacations with :02.480 --> :04.370
our son/grandchildren. :04.370 --> :07.840
When we broached the subject with him, he
mentioned that he and his wife don't have :07.840 --> :13.220
much disposable income, and can only attend
these vacations because his in-laws pay. :13.220 --> :17.780
While we can afford it, we adamantly believe
that we should not have to pay for an adult :17.780 --> :19.539
child's vacation. :19.539 --> :22.210
We decided to invite them on a cruise for next year.
:22.210 --> :26.730 My son says that they can not afford it that
soon, but maybe in 2-3 years. :26.730 --> :31.929
Of course, they already have a plan to vacation
with my daughter-in-law's parents next year. :31.929 --> :34.140
My wife is devastated. :34.140 --> :39.010
I suggested that they bow out of the in-law
trip next year, and instead take some money :39.010 --> :43.269
out of their line of credit to join us, as we aren't getting any younger.
:43.269 --> :48.200 My son got upset and said he shouldn't have
to go into debt for a vacation, and that maybe :48.200 --> :50.820
we could do a weekend getaway instead. :50.820 --> :55.840
My wife and I kind of lost it and said that
we are tired of being treated like second-class :55.840 --> :56.840
citizens. :56.840 --> :58.940 AITA for what I suggested?
:58.940 --> :03.740 It's only about 5,000 for the cruise for all
4 of them - we are not expecting anything :03.740 --> :06.780 crazy. | give me a good story on rAITAMYPOORFAMILYCANTAFFORDAVACATIONRedditStoriesen |
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told my daughter that I won't attend her wedding if her biological father is
there but she told me I'm being stuck in
the past for some context I was about 24 years ago assault by a close friend of
mine and got pregnant by the encounter I was inconsolable for months after the
event to make matters worse I found out I was pregnant at about 20 weeks and
where I lived at the time it was illegal to get after the first trimester my
husband had really been my rock and my support during that time and I do not
know how I would have ended up if not for him he said that I could put it up
for adoption or I could keep the child and he would raise it like our other
children I decided to not give it up for adoption but raising the kid was hard I
am half polish and half German and he is half German and half Russian we both
have pale skin light hair and blue eyes as well as being fairly tall I'm about
178 cm or around 5T 10 in and he is 191 CM or about 6' 3 in however our daughter
Luna is about 160 cm or 5 ft 3 in has dark hair and a brown complexion like
her biological father I often heard snide remarks about me being an
Unfaithful wife because it was obvious that she was not my husband's child | give me a good story on ToldMyDaughterThatIWontAttendHerWeddingIfHerBiologicalFatherIsThereorig |
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welcome friends to another r slash entitled parents video if you want an
easy way to prove that you're not entitled all you gotta do is hit those
like and subscribe buttons down below that said our first story of the day is
by the table 12. this is a story from the pre-covet enjoy some important
details needed later i have a tendency to help anyone who says please and i'm a
night person also i nearly failed in sixth grade and i'm the best in writing
essays in my class i used to live near the entitled mother's house there was
this one girl who was disabled i don't know what exactly disabilities there
were but her mother claims her daughter's disabilities won't affect her
studies so everyone was fine with it our
class teacher was a really sweet lady so she helped the girl get a few friends
most people wanted to stay away from her
because she was very demanding and i was quite shy to speak to her she didn't
want to write her own notes but just wanted others to write her notes her
friends were generous enough to give her their notes and mostly used to write
them for her the other students used to ignore this because they thought she
couldn't write because of her disabilities this all happened in the
sixth grade the story starts here near december our school was going to
participate in an essay writing competition arranged by the government
it was an annual event so it was no big surprise but it was a bit different for
our class because this time our class was for some freaking reason the
representatives for the school from our class the principal personally tested
who was the best writing essays he used to give very controversial topics like
school life is the best time of our life right for or against equality among
humans is not possible right for or against etc our class teacher was asked
to make sure everyone writes and submits their work and to submit those at the
end of the week to the principal everyone submitted their work except the
disabled girl the teacher called her mother and asked her why her daughter
was not submitting her work she didn't submit any of her work in two years this
is where i got involved and i regret every decision i made from here on the
teacher very kindly asked me if i could help her with her work and i being the
idiot i am said yes without a second thought the teacher called her mother
and talked about how i was going to help
her child they decided that i would take out any two free hours of daily life to
help her and i agreed we meet monday evening at her house and i just gave her
a long lecture on how to write essays i thought i had done my job of helping a
girl with special needs then on saturday
morning my parents were going to visit a doctor and the appointment was near 7
a.m and the clinic was quite far so they left home at 6. i was half dead when
they said to me to lock the door i heard that but i didn't bother to close it i
first went to make coffee for myself the moment i entered my kitchen my door was
slammed by someone i heard the noise and
slowly walked towards the door and guess who i see the girl's mother and her
daughter in my house at 8am on a weekend i was not a polite child back then the
conversation between us went through like this i said what the actual freak
are you doing here on a weekend the entitled mother says where's her work i
say what work she said you promised me and that a very very bad word then
you'll complete all her pending work i say to heck with you and your work you
two witches want me to complete your two years of pending work the entitled
mother says yes then things started to get real ugly the entitled mother
demanded i give her my own work or she'll report me to the school and i
said yes and she left i later got a call from the school that i was accused of
stealing a fellow classmate's work then abusing her and her mother verbally and
many more things the next day the entitled mother came back again with
another person who she was referring to as bro look like your brother-in-law i
went out of my room just to see two middle-aged people trying to force
themselves into my house when she saw me she said give me my daughter's work or
your essays i called the police and they were arrested the school later
apologized to me i heard she already had many complaints about her moral of the
story don't help ungrateful people i'm still surprised that all this ruckus
happened because of a 300 word essay so considering everything you heard in this
story would you say you yourself are a people pleaser or are you more selective
where you try to help people out or make people happier let me know down in the
comments where you feel like you fall on the people pleaser spectrum our next
story is by ruby the trumpet mom causing issues about my grad school choice this
is a timeline between late january till now so please bear with me i applied to
phd programs this round and i found out late december and early january that i
got interviews from ucla and johns hopkins i told my mom this and it was
obvious that she wanted me to go to ucla simply for the fact to be close to her
she spoke down about johns hopkins always referring to it as that school
she was definitely against me going additionally she used this opportunity
to tell me that she was jealous of the relationship i had with my god mom this
is important as it'll follow suit with the rest of the ongoing situation god
mom conversation background my god mom and i are extremely close i've known her
since i was a first grader and she's helped with my family i'm one of
quadruplets her kids had classes with me and my siblings for a while and have
gone on many play dates god mom and i are closer than the combined
relationships she has with my siblings and my own mom she's been involved in my
career goals the point person i can talk
to about career options networking in my field stem and going to graduate school
as she went to medical school back in the day she's also allowed me to stay
over at her house when i visit la i live in a different city as refuge for my
current messy family situation since being allowed to stay at her place only
stayed two times ever my mom seems to be upset that i don't stay over with her
which is where it seems her feelings are coming from the problem she brought her
up and talked about how i treat god mom better than her she's jealous how i talk
to her about stuff like this and it may be a factor on my grad school choices
etc the fact that she used my good news to bring this up it made me upset
because i didn't bring up god mom in our conversation at all for her to say that
in fact i don't bring up god mom at all in our conversations because i don't
talk to my mom about her after that i didn't speak to my mom at all for a few
weeks and purposely ignored all our calls messages etc until the beginning
of february early february during the last week of january i had both
interviews throughout the week monday to sunday on february 1st i found out that
i got accepted to johns hopkins university i was definitely surprised
and i shared the news with her she didn't congratulate me just simply asked
what about ucla then went on a tangent about not wanting me to go to that
school then changing the conversation to well i'm going to go with you to live
there she also asked if god mom knew about it i lied to her because god mom
was the first to know about the johns hopkins university acceptance because i
was on the phone with her when i received the email this pushed me to
ignore my mom after our initial phone call for the last few weeks i avoided
speaking to mom as she tried calling me texting me every day to ask about the
other school that is until a few days ago last thursday after many days and
nights with chatting the current john hopkins university students in my
program and faculty and professors reaching out with my current mentors etc
i accepted the offer to johns hopkins university without hearing back from
ucla because i was confident in my choice and reviewing countless
communications from students and faculty i felt supported in my decision to
continue my education there i called god mom to tell her the news and we had a
wonderful conversation about it she said
she was proud of me and congratulated me i also expressed my concerns about how
to tell mom this decision she's familiar with the past reactions she tells me to
present the facts to her and it won't matter if i tell her now or later
basically so i decided to tell her after the weekend this week i video called my
mom on tuesday and the call went like this i said i didn't receive an offer
from ucla and therefore i'll be moving forward with my decision to johns
hopkins university she looks like she's gonna faint then says
so no ucla i say no ucla she says didn't hear from other places or anywhere else
no other options i say nope she says i guess that's your choice then to be
honest i expected this but i was still very sad about her lack of
congratulations and everything she made the conversation about her and talked
about how i'm going to be too far from her then she tries to guilt-trip me by
saying i know how much she wanted to be close to home and go to ucla it was
obviously not the case so i shut it down very quickly and she got upset that i
didn't agree with her so i ended our call and basically been sad since
reading the previous post compelled me to share this i definitely think this is
just a very frustrating thing to hear you want your own mom to be so happy for
you you get into a school that you feel happy about and confident about and they
don't even give a congratulations because it doesn't fit what they want
i'm giving a lot of credit to op for even trying to maintain that
relationship but to me if you're gonna act like that about somebody who's
legitimately moving forward and succeeding in their life your own kid
it's a little bit of a screw you then kind of moment and our final story of
the day is by gabby the gemini entitled mother ruins my credit and then demands
i buy a house with a spare room for her i just got accepted to a veterinary
school and i'm very excited and nervous my partner and i have decided that
buying a house would be a good investment for when we move to this
school in the fall but there's some barriers in the way he
hardly has any credit and i've struggled with poor credit for my entire adult
life when i went to university for the first time in 2016 i took out student
loans that i had not yet paid they're deferred because i'm currently a student
so it's not a huge deal i've also been told that a medical bill has been
dinging my credit which i thought was a late payment on a medical expense 40
that entitled mother promised to pay for me when i just turned 18. i knew that
she paid late and there were many arguments about it back then so i just
figured the late payment was staining my credit however the housing lender told
me that there's an outstanding bill for a thousand dollars that's gone to
collections and has been dinging my credit since 2017.
i called the collection agency and learned that the original bill was for 700
for a psychiatrist that entitled mother insisted that i see and again promised
to pay for additionally my health insurance at the time was her and my
father's responsibility so it was explained to me that they were to work
out the expenses amongst themselves when i brought this to her attention she got
frustrated and insisted that it was some mistake made by the insurance company i
requested that she take it up with the insurance company because i was not at
all involved in the process of picking the psychiatrist understanding my
insurance coverage making payments for these services etc if i weren't so busy
with work school moving etc then i usually would do it myself but i just
don't have the knowledge or the time at the moment to do something like that as
entitled mothers often do there was a vague maybe when i get around to it
which is basically a passive aggressive no i've been denied for apartments
couldn't sign up for my own wi-fi couldn't finance a car mine's literal
dog poop have paid high signing costs with apartments that would take me and
probably more because of this credit issue i can't express the amount of
distress and frustration this caused me and now it's going to impact my ability
to get a home loan there was no apology no ownership not even any
acknowledgement that her mistake has impacted me in any way i am beyond
frustrated but decided that what's done is done and there's no sense fighting
about it entitled mother is infatuated with the idea that i'm buying a house
and started sending me all these three bedroom homes for around 150 thousand
dollars on zillow when i told her that we were looking for a two-bedroom home
at around a hundred thousand dollars she absolutely lost her mind and
aggressively insisted that i have a room
for her to stay in while she visits when i told her this probably wouldn't be
possible she hit me with a you'll find a way again i decided not to fight about
it and change the subject because ultimately the decision is up to me when
the lender asked how much gift money i might receive i reached out to entitled
mother to get a number for the lender she's already stated she wants to help
wherever she can but when this came up immediately jumped into victim mode
stating that she lives paycheck to paycheck and that i can't just keep
visiting the bank of mom when i need something i've paid for all of my own
school up to this point and plan to finance vet school through loans so
maybe this has to do with the groceries she bought me a month ago who the freak
knows she also just bought a new designer dog a car replaced carpets on
one floor of her house with wood and re-carpeted the other two floors of her
massive house doesn't sound like paycheck to paycheck to me yet again
decided the fight wasn't worth it and dropped the issue basically i'm at my
wit's end with this i don't know how to address it i don't know how to solve any
of these problems and i can't afford to keep losing sleep over it i'm just ready
to move away into a home without a spare bedroom to be honest maybe they are
living paycheck to paycheck because they keep spending any other money they
possibly could have saved up on whatever i'm not gonna lie with your mom acting
the way she is that might be more than enough reason to get a house with only
two bedrooms any way to keep your distance away from somebody that treats
you with like such a lack of care lies to you and lets your credit fall apart
goes victim mode when they have to overall just an entitled parent it
probably would feel pretty good to say sorry mom i don't have a spare bedroom
for you to stay in but with that being said that's all the time we have for
today so of all these stories i've read today which is your favorite and why let
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Welcome Friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've
got some great compliance stories and our first story of the day is from
defiant bad 9070 they'll sell me three and give me one free you should too not
me but an interaction I saw a while ago I needed tires so I went to my usual
store and was waiting to be served but the gentleman in front was being
difficult see the other tire shop was going to sell them three tires for 800
plus fitting and give them the fourth for free pretty good deal right well
this tire shop weren't going to give him one free because they sold the same
tires for 800 for all four including fitting but darn it this man wanted his
free tire so the clerk complied with his
request he raised the price on the tires sold them three for eight hundred
dollars gave them a free one and then charged them fitting on top of that not
to mention that the fitting price at this shop was higher than the other
customer got what he wanted because the customer is always right so they bought
got three for the price of four and got one free hey man whatever as long as the
customer's happy right I'd just be afraid somehow that this like comes back
on me for giving away a free tire even though it was exactly the same price
would it surprise you if management gave that worker a hard time for going ahead
and doing this despite literally getting the exact listing price of all four
tires let me know what you guys think in the comments down below our next story
is from Sirius lampshade I must call it you got it many years ago I worked in a
call center for a major credit provider when I started I was trained in certain
aspects but because I was saving for a house at the time I put my hand up for
further product training until six months into my employment I was one of
the more highly skilled agents on the floor I was able to take calls from any
queue about any product as well as being trained to take escalations and
complaints a team nicknamed The Clock Watchers ran the floor telling the
agents when to take breaks and controlling the cues as well as checking
on any agent who was offline too long after a call one of our systems was a
dos-like program this was in the days when a Motorola flip phone was
considered Cutting Edge it was pretty reliable but when it crashed the only
way to get it working again was by rebooting the computer after working
there long enough you got to know by the time of day when the it support guys
would be around and if you knew there'd be a wait it was quicker to just reboot
than to call them and have them tell you to about 10
employment there I could reboot the computer and get all the necessary
programs open and logged in again within three minutes during lunchtime for
example the hold for it could be up to 10 minutes due to break overlaps so when
this program went down I would flick my status to unavailable and perform the
quick reboot I bet you can guess where this is going one busy day the program
crashed but I was able to help the customer using other systems and once I
was off the call I flicked into one available and performed the necessary
reboot as I was logging in again I got a tap on the shoulder and turned to see
one of the clock Watchers pointing at her watch impatiently I said my system
crashed I'm rebooting as fast as I can she says you need to call it if you have
an issue you can't just sit in unavailable I said it'll take longer she
says call it for system issues otherwise you are required to be taking calls now
I knew their kpis were based on calls taken and customer hold times but she
did not want to listen I called it and told him I'd performed a reboot and by
the time the call was answered I was back up and running I didn't think much
more of it until two days later when a mandatory coaching session showed up on
my schedule my team leader listened to my reasoning but basically had her hands
tied and went through the coaching with me fine you want me to call it for
system issues no problem two of our other programs had what we called floor
workarounds where if the correct procedure didn't work you could get
around it not me not anymore error but the customer on hold and call it system
crash call ID program taking too long call it my stats went down the toilet
then I had a night shift RIT guys went home at 8 pm but we had a team in
another time zone the wait times were horrendous so at 8 30 PM one night my
program went down and I called it after 20 minutes on hold the clock watcher on
dude he came to my desk to ask what was going on I explained she asked if I
could just reboot because I was one of only three escalations trained agents on
duty that night I apologized and said I would get it straight on it as soon as
I'd spoken to it just like I was coached to I was on hold for just under an hour
and the IIT agent sounded as exasperated as I felt my next shift I was given a
memo stating that agents who had seniority could try rebooting before
calling I.T escalations is who you get when you ask to speak to a manager in my
experience the longer the hole to get an escalation answered the nastier the
customer gets sadly people like op have to be the ones on the front lines
suffering the pain of putting up with these things until they can finally
prove that there's a rationale for allowing workers to just try the reboot
themselves until somebody makes a point of making a fool of the whole system and
showing a much easier way of going about things until the then a lot of places
shove the process down your throat our next story is from the
cleverbit58093 Porsche Germany Calamity so I'm a British guy living in Germany
I've always wanted to drive a Porsche 911 so a few years ago I bought one
which turned out to be full of problems and broke down I had to fight for three
months for that car to be taken back by the dealer and went to a rival which is
where the fun begins I made the dealer very aware of the mess the first car had
caused I told them up front order me a new car give me the spec I want and I
will be a customer for Life cross me and
I will be a nightmare it's a 200 000 car I want what I'm paying for nothing less
you see Germany can be very xenophobic when it comes to overseas folks with
money even if they work bloody hard to earn it it's like I wear a sign saying
kick me so the specification is submitted and it's got all the toys
aggressive racing suspension Tech the lot three months out from delivery and
I'm at has to come sign something of the dealer it doesn't look right so I query
where have my options gone somehow a few items have fallen off the list and the
suspension is the softer variant I go mad where are they it's apparently my
mistake and after several hours of arguments they admit they changed the
car I'm told I'm committed to taking the car regardless or they want me to pay
twenty thousand to cancel the car I call my lawyer so I'm not committed to the
car and in fact as the dealer changed the order turns out I have a chance to
force the dealer to take the car back plus as I'm freelance all verbal
promises are seen as a contract game on so I collect the car from Stuttgart it's
lovely but it's not what I ordered shame
that cue the call to the lawyer before I agree to sign in front of the guy from
Porsche and I'm told to sign for the car with conditions Porsche are not happy
with this and the dealer is shouting down the phone own next the dealer
refuses to ever speak to me again no matter that's fine I insist on returning
the car free of charge the Porsche dealer knows they must accept and every
day they take to think about it costs them money I returned the car for a full
refund 3 500 kilometers later 3 500 very fast kilometers with the red line being
reached daily I'm yet to replace it but whatever I get is unlikely to be a
Porsche it's not like I didn't warn them
I'm surprised that the links to which op described they had to go to to get out
of being responsible for this car I mean it just seems pretty straightforward
that if you sign an agreement for a car with certain kinds of specs and you
don't get exactly that like a lot of things are changed that you should not
be expected to pay for something especially worth that much money that is
literally not what you ordered I mean whether you're ordering a pizza and they
got the pizza totally wrong or you're ordering a two hundred thousand dollar
sports car and they got the in internals all wrong on that I don't think you
should be liable for any messed up order our next story is from Red sty by a
Mercedes instead okay I'm from Belgium Europe this happened to my father about
25 years ago but I was there to enjoy looking for a new car we visited a few
local dealerships after having seen some cars that were within specifications he
fell in love with the brand new Citroen C5 after a test drive my dad told the
salesperson dealership owner in this case that he loved the car but had some
concerns with visibility regarding parking because the nose dropped a lot
towards the front it was the late 90s so parking assist was not yet a common
thing and more of a luxury the owner replied clearly offended if you can't
park you should buy a Mercedes they have a site like a gun on the front a man of
principles and pride my father told the man he was taught by his dad to always
accept good advice and we walked out without giving the surprised man another
look or a chance to respond since the car he was driving at the time was still
running smoothly he took his time continuing his search by pure luck two
weeks or so later he runs into an old friend who tells him he'd bought a
Mercedes C-Class some months prior but didn't like it as much the car being a
bit too big for him after some back and forth they agreed on a price my dad
couldn't refuse especially since this has always been one of his dream cars
about one week later the transfer of ownership was complete and the car had
new tags and insurance the very next morning we drove to the Citron
dealership asking the rep on duty to speak to the manager personally we
waited patiently until the man came out of his office he seemed to remember us
as he gave us his biggest and somewhat arrogant smile just to be sure though my
dad reminded him that he'd been there not long before to buy the C5 but that
the kind and honest man had told him to buy a Mercedes instead still full of
himself he informed us that he remembered and started moving to towards
the nearest sales office inviting my dad to discuss price my dad told him this
wasn't necessary since he had wisely accepted the man's advice and pointed
outside to the sparkling Mercedes parked conveniently right in front of the big
windows for the second and last time the man was left speechless as we casually
walked outside and drove off all I personally know is is if I was going to
go into business or try to buy from any kind of dealer if I was treated the way
this salesman treated op or op's father I would refuse to buy from anybody like
that in no way would I be giving thousands of dollars in commission to a
person that says if you can't park you should buy a Mercedes you raise a
legitimate concern that you have and they go and essentially crack jokes
about you you're gonna go and belittle me and my concerns maybe I am a bad
Parker either way my business here's done I've got better things to do than
deal with one of the worst salesmen I've seen and our final story of the days
from Wildcat B you should fire us okay my family runs a small Trucking Company
depending on where you are in the world you might call us a p and d company a
final mile company a white glove company basically we handle the kind of stuff
that you might buy to have delivered to your home or business that's too big for
someone like UPS to deliver but not big enough for a tractor trailer to haul and
or stuff that actually needs to be brought into the home and set up like
Furniture appliances Etc a lot of what we've hauled over the years is stuff
going to small stores that can't take delivery by large truck construction
sites where large trucks can't get in and out neighborhoods and apartment
complexes we don't work for the people buying the stuff we work for the people
selling or shipping it but as we tend to
see the same business owners a lot we've developed great relationships with them
over the years we don't get rich but we've been pretty comfortable over the
years one of our major stressors has been a long time shipper who has or
rather had become increasingly demanding
as time went on now when I say long time
I mean it we made our first delivery for them over 50 years ago our company's
been doing business with them longer than any of their current employees or
management staff has been there there was one point not too long ago where the
retired guy who came in a few hours a day to sweep our warehouse because he
was bored sitting at home literally knew more about this shipper's systems than
their senior field rep who was supposed to be supervising our operations we have
been a small but vital part of their Network for so long that almost no one
there really realized how much we did for them we've seen field reps come and
go some have been great some have been a little challenging but most have once
they realized what was going on largely left us alone to do our jobs one even
called when he took over our area to ask who we were because his predecessor had
no notes on us at all because they'd never gone to visit we've just been
mostly quietly plugging along taking care of their customers in some cases
for Generations well the latest rep was a genuinely unpleasant person he was
arrogant abrasive casually insulted our employees honestly it's not worth
getting into the minutiae here he wasn't someone we wanted to work with but I'm
able to put on a happy face and get along with about anyone when needs must
so onward we Strode as I said earlier the shipper had been getting more and
more demanding as time went on systems had been getting harder to navigate
inventory had been getting harder to track phone trees had grown into Banyan
nightmares more and more layers of bureaucracy had been added and with
every change they'd grown less agile slower more difficult to deal with one
day the field rep called because he didn't like how we'd answer it in email
not that we hadn't answered it just that he didn't like the manner in which it
had been answered after Decades of dealing with this shipper being
micromanaged to that level was not something that we were interested in the
manager here who was dealing directly with him tried to defuse the situation
but it kept getting worse until the field rep said if you aren't happy with
the way things are going maybe you should just quit oh okay then we started
running the numbers looked at all our other businesses decided that we could
indeed go on without them and then I called the field rep to have a Frank
conversation with him and then I wrote a short polite direct letter to our
customer of over 50 years telling them that we were firing them we didn't just
pull the plug we gave them a full 60 days notice so they'd have time to get
something worked out and they didn't we've always been here for them they've
never had to worry about it they had someone they thought was going to be a
replacement but well as of today most of
their customers in this area haven't had
to deliveries in a week some longer than that many don't know when they'll get
their next shipment that field rep might still have a job when all is said and
done but it's not our problem anymore our phone keeps ringing people looking
for their Freight from that shipper sorry you'll have to call them well it
only took them 50 years but they finally managed to sour a relationship with a
company that they were co-dependent on I
imagine as this company gets handed down from generation to generation there was
probably going to come along somebody that was just probably handed things
down left and right probably just didn't get the business that well honestly
having a relationship of 50 plus years between two entirely different companies
pretty impressive that it even went that long you would think maybe just at one
point one company would outright buy the other or find a way to incorporate that
workflow into their business kind of like how Amazon when they mostly did UPS
or FedEx deliveries now have their own giant Fleet of prime trucks one of my
personal favorite stories this happened a few years ago to set the scene I was
working at Target in Starbucks and was going to school full time I would work
Monday Wednesday Friday and Saturday from 6 to 2 30 at Target and then 3 30
to 11 at Starbucks Tuesday I had class and worked Starbucks Thursday I had a
full day of classes and then Sunday I worked at Target I also don't drive so I
would be walking to and from both jobs and school that means my 6 a.m to 11 pm
days actually started at 5am and ended at 11 30. so Monday Wednesday Friday and
Saturday were 18 plus hour days all on my feet needless to say I was tired and
I'm a hard worker so I never slouched in my job and usually worked harder than
those around me I accept that I'll usually be working harder than others I
usually don't mind because it's who I am now mostly it was fun except the
back-to-back 18 hour days on Friday and Saturday man did that one hurt every
week and then at Starbucks it started being the same closing shift we'll call
them doofus and closer we'll call her Coke because you guessed it she was on
coke well all the drugs but the coke made her hard to work with now cook
wanted to be a supervisor and doofus was lazy so coke would do doofus's job and
doofus would do nothing so that resulted in a very tired of me having to do most
of the closing tasks every Friday and Saturday by myself while helping every
customer in the cafe and drive through while making all their drinks and food
again alone I'm normally a fun person to work with who jokes and keeps things
light to help myself through my shifts but this closing team was slowly killing
me so one weekend Saturday I just stopped talking to Doofus and Coke and
just went about my job I was still pleasant as freak to the customers
because they weren't the problem and still did more than my fair share of
work I just did it silently no because I was in a bad mood so was everyone else
doofus literally cornered me and told me
I needed to change my attitude I ignored him and that was that he only spoke to
me to send me on breaks or tell me where to go when I got back from breaks and
those few words were said in less than Pleasant tones didn't phase me I just
did my job so the next weekend rolls around it's earlier in the day on Friday
maybe 6 p.m so there are more people still working in the store all of whom
also had issues with lazy doofus and Coke and knew how they were treating me
later in the evening so doofus and Coke starred in on not being helpful so I
started going quiet on them not rude not
disrespectful not spiteful just quiet so doofus pulls me aside and says and I
quote I'm going to need you to chipper up or I'm going to send you home oh boy
I said okay in the flattest Stone I could muster walked into the back
grabbed my things and clocked out and then walked out of the store this has
nothing to do with the malicious compliance but it's a good part of the
story the subway next door to me had their cameras down so they'd been
hooking me up lately with free Subs so I stopped and got my mom and myself free
sandwiches and the wing place would give me free fries so I picked up some fries
and then headed home to get to hang out with my mom who I barely saw anymore
because of my schedule we watched a movie and I got to bed early it was
great so one of my homie co-workers who was still working texted me about how
badly doofus was freaking out and how he
was contacting my store manager about me walking out but how proud he was of me
for actually walking out even though I just made his job Harder by leaving them
short staffed the aftermath the next day I was heading out to work at Target and
I stopped at my Starbucks to get coffee on my way as I always did so I walked
through the door and see my store manager coming out of the back room he
walked straight into the lobby towards me oh freak walks directly up to me and
gives me a hug and asks if I'm okay he said I know you wouldn't have walked out
unless it was really bad what the freak I love that man I guess doofus had been
texting him freaking out and my store manager told him you can't threaten to
send someone home and not expect them to
leave and basically told him he needs to deal with his repercussions it was such
a good feeling knowing my manager had my back I would have gone to the ends of
the Earth for that man and doofus never threatened me with anything ever again
and even tiptoed around me for a while after that made sure Coke was working on
her job and made sure I wasn't working too much harder than everyone else what
I love about a hard worker is that you should always have some kind of Leverage
if you're somebody that like they depend on or you're somebody that just gets
stuff done more likely than not you gotta little bit of sway here and there
I just love that in this story you can tell that the manager is so behind op
that they're not tolerating doofus's stuff for even a second whatever you're
currently doing whether it's a job or school do you deserve some leverage let
me know what you guys think in the comments down below and by the way if
you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons
down below too our next story is from depressed papoto you can't be alone with
the kids so I'm sitting here at work and listening to malicious compliance
stories on a podcast I just remembered this story from when I was about 15
years old and working my first job this was in the mid 90s so some of the
memories are a little on the fuzzy side I was 15 years old and able to finally
work my first job I took a job to work in the local daycare center in our town
during the summer I was working with some awesome Preschool teachers but
there was one that we can call Nancy because I don't remember her name she
was a complete and total witch she would always chew me out for not moving fast
enough with getting a snack out to the kids or being fast enough with taking a
child to the bathroom the playground was above ground and the preschool room was
below ground there were huge windows that even through the walkway was
partially blocking the view of the playground you could still look down
into the preschool room and see everything that was going on the kids
usually went out to play after nap time so usually around 3 or 4 pm before
parent pickup we had a little one that was about two or three that was still in
pull-ups and was potty training she would have accidents sometimes so she
would have to be escorted to the bathroom Nancy's favorite thing to witch
at me about was that I had to take this little girl to the bathroom to get
changed but I wasn't allowed to be by myself with her I asked her why she
didn't go and take her down to the bathroom herself then and her response
to me was I can't leave you alone with the kids on the playground I get it a
safety issue so Nancy would send me to take the little girl to the bath room
but then would yell at me because she couldn't see me with her she would
Witcher me every day about this my teenage brain was like what the freak
lady how am I supposed to do my job so I
came up with a plan one day she asked me
to take the girl to the bathroom and she kindly reminded me that I couldn't be
out of you while taking her to the bathroom fine no problem so I took the
girl to the bathroom I kept the bathroom door wide open gave the little girl
verbal instructions with an earshot easy enough for a two or three year old to
understand and stood out in the classroom so she could see me I told the
girl to pull off the wet pants and throw away the pull-up which she did like a
big girl her words then I told her to come to me she walked out into the empty
classroom with an eyesight of Nancy on the playground standing and staring down
watching me I helped her get her clean pull-up and pants on and took her back
up to the playground Nancy was pissed why did you do that she needed to be
taken care of in the bathroom I just looked at her in the eye all innocent
but she told me that I wasn't allowed to be alone with the kids and you had to
see me at all times so that's what I did I didn't get fired the director of the
preschool asked me what happened and I don't remember her exact response but I
do remember there was a chuckle probably not very malicious but malicious enough
for a teenage girl that was super shy in the mid to late 90s not gonna lie all
throughout the story I thought this was gonna be about a guy and like that being
the reason why they're like oh you can't
be alone but then op got to the very end and they said that they're a teenage
girl I don't understand if this is part of their job description or what they're
supposed to do literally how else are they supposed to do it actually having
looked in the comments I guess it was an Insurance liability thing I guess it's
too much of an Insurance liability to allow miners to have sole care of
children but what kind of jerk is going to enforce that over a five minute
bathroom break and our final story of the days from attempt typical okay then
I'll deal with it myself I went into a local cannabis dispensary to get a dual
cartridge CBD slash THC vape pen that was rechargeable to check out I'm in
cancer treatment recovery and use CBD slash THC to help with muscle soreness
on longer rows of 10 km and the product seemed to fit all the boxes for me it
was 60 bucks I didn't have time to try it out that day and the next one I took
a few Vapes and it didn't seem to be working I plugged it into a USBC cable
into my laptop the device didn't come with one and went back to working right
next to it a few minutes later I noticed the smell of burning wire and looked
down and the Disposable device is burning a hole in my desk and smoke is
coming out the end with a charger on it the distillate was bubbling and Vapor
pouring out the top I removed it from the charger and let it cool down outside
for a few minutes and then head back to the dispensary I explained the situation
to the clerk and said it was smoldering and reek of electrical wires burning and
he said it's unlike user error to him and I should try a different charger for
it he said that they've had multiple people with this issue and it was always
the same thing he told me to take the device which was a fire hazard at this
point and plug it back in and it'll be just fine I asked him to write the
instructions on the back of my receipt just for clarification and I left with a
pin so I come home again get a different charger and plug it back in to the same
result but this time I recorded it with my phone on and headed back to the store
again the clerk refused the return and said there was about 20 percent of the
product missing and perhaps I just Vaped it and couldn't afford another he did
offer me 10 off on another order he said I was free to contact his manager if I
wasn't satisfied and I could deal with it myself I took the receipt and the pen
and I came home and I did just that I first did the corporate website of the
Canadian company which is highly regulated by federal and provincial
cannabis regulations in my country and found the CEO and noted his email
address I then figured out the distributor for the child and safety
protection housing for the devices in question and noted his email address as
well next was the email address to report faulty and defective devices to
health Canada as well as the regulatory branch of the consumer production
Protection Agency as well I sent them all a very factual email stating nothing
but facts and I included conversations telling me as a consumer to apply more
electricity to an obviously defective device as well as the stating that a
corporation with multiple reports of a faulty device are legally obligated to
report and follow a lengthy investigation when situations like this
occur in this industry it's highly regulated and for a reason I even send
videos they had not done this I finished
everything off at about 11 pm last night and I sat back and waited I have a 16
year old son who knew of this situation and on the way to school this morning we
discussed it and he bet me 20 bucks that no one would call about it and that I
should just let it go I decided that it would go the other way instead about 9
30 am I get an email from the indigenous
cannabis producers PR department stating that she was escalating my concerns and
someone would be contacting me shortly I also received another email shortly
after from the CEO of the child protection and safety device distributor
and she and the CEO wanted to discuss the situation with me as well a call
followed with the CEO and the CEO of the
district meter device maker as this crap was now getting real for them knowing
everyone that needed to know now knew and an investigation was imminent I
shared everything with them and a calls being set up with the Chinese
manufacturer to ask me questions about the device and circumstances of the
failure and I agreed to that as well lastly the distributor offered to come
by this afternoon to pick up the device which is sitting safely outside in a box
as I was instructed to do so by the consumer safety Branch here in Ontario
she said she would include a few products and some swag for my efforts
sadly the retail store hasn't said a word which leads me to believe that they
really don't give a crap or else they're
too scared to call me back as for my kid I'm getting 20 bucks and he learns a
valuable lesson of sometimes it's the principle over the 60 device I suspect
the staff won't be telling anyone else to look after things themselves
dispensary rhymes with flash and Co and they needed teach their staff some
manners in dealing with customers who think they're all potheads trying to rip
them off for 10 bucks worth of THC vape P.S no I did not steal or attempt to
profit by the dispensaries ink pens this was a THC CBD vape pen I am not a
monster obviously op should have just been properly taken care of considering
they had more than ample proof that this
device went and just burned up on them I guess a place like a vape shop probably
does have a lot of people that maybe they're in the live situation where they
try to be a little bit of a scammer at the end of the day not a lot of people
probably go to that length but what op did here is ostensibly the right thing
to do clearly nobody is holding these vape shops accountable for stuff like
this I've never really been clued a lot into the whole Vape World and adjacent
stuff but I've always gotten the impression that these disposable Vapes
were never really that well made to begin with so maybe they're just
expecting you to expand back that I don't know but with that being said
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AIT for minimizing contact with my parents because they are housing my
brother I 30m was with my ex-girlfriend from the time we were 16 to the time we
were 23 during this time my girlfriend and I was discussing marriage and the
possibility of kids by the time we were 21 we were trying for kids and it was
always a fail we went to the doctor about our fertility issues and I was
told that I was the problem I was basically informed that I was in Fertile
du and it was rare possibility that I could ever have kids my girlfriend and I
were crushed but she was persistent that
we could keep trying and if it continues to fail we could look into adoption I
was happy and thankful for this as it finally gave me hope we made the
decision that if I couldn't get her pregnant by the time we were 25 we'd
look into adoption we tried for two more years and when she was 23 she told me
that she was pregnant I was ecstatic this excitement lasted for a good 5
months until my ex revealed that she doubts the baby was mine by this point
she was crying and told me that she slept with my brother 33m around the
time she got pregnant and she was positive it was his she was 1,000%
correct the baby was not mine it was my brother's they both apologized to me but
I beyond betrayed to make it worse their apologies didn't mean jack because
they had another child together as well but by this time I had already went no
contact with him late January my ex unfortunately passed away due to a car
accident and she was pregnant with their third child I guess my brother is not
coping well enough because he asked our parents if they'd be willing to allow
him and my nephews to move in with them because he is struggling to care for
them my parents told me this as we live pretty close by each other they told me
exactly that and that they were considering it I was upset by this and
told them that my nephews were my brother 's responsibility and weren't
theirs I said that he shouldn't have had kids if he didn't know how to handle
them my parents told me that they weren't asking me and were telling me
and just wanted to give me a heads up because they know I come over to visit
them often and they didn't want me to be
uncomfortable I was still upset and just
informed them that they wouldn't have to worry about me visiting them anytime
soon and hung up they tried calling me again but I didn't pick up this happened
about 2 weeks ago and my brother and nephews are living with my parents as of
now since then I haven't had any contact with my parents and I wasn't returning
any of their calls my parents showed up at my house around noon yesterday and
told me that they were hurt I haven't come to visit or return their calls they
said that they never meant to hurt me and that they were just trying to help
their son I told them that I understood them wanting to help my nephews and my
brother and I can't control who they house I then told them that if they're
hurt I can't change that and I was sorry if they were and but I have no interest
in visiting or taking calls from them as
long as my brother and nephews are there
I told them that they're welcome to come and visit me when they want but I'll no
longer do the same my mom started crying and told me that I was punishing them
for wanting to help their son and asked me to just see it from their perspective
they left after a while and it pains me to see my mom cry but I'm not sure if I
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my brother landed himself in hospital and ruined our vacation plans I am
having a hard time letting go of my anger I 33m have always loved my brother
31m even as I felt he could be a little selfish growing up as the older sibling
in a single parent home we have always been taught to take care of each other
by our mom as we only had each other I love my mom and bro very much and have
always tried my best to take care and provide for them using all my salary
recently I've been getting a little annoyed at his self-center ESS this
annoyance has been building up I now realize as I'm typing this for a while
already last year there were several short overseas trips that Mom and I
prepared everything for and bro tagged along passively we had to beg and fight
over work leave dates with him for these trips and even pack his luggage for him
in contrast trips with his friends were a breeze we had planned a longer holiday
for December in part to celebrate my promotion and that sweet pay raise and
because we could finally afford such a family trip to Europe in the months of
of planning it had always been my mom and I doing the researching whether the
differences I'm the one funding the trip as well for my brother's part we just
stressed to him to please take all Health precautions such as wearing masks
reducing Gatherings with friends if he could as Co was still spreading around
this was met with derision and sarcasm and I gave up nagging uselessly his
words just hoping nothing will happen oh
my [ __ ] god why are you so paranoid
while he continued doing what he wanted turns out we weren't par paranoid 2
weeks before our flight he got covid and a day before our flight he got
hospitalized for a covid related complication I rushed down to the
emergency room with Mom and waited for 6 hours till midnight while he was kept
under observation the next day we stayed in the hospital again for the whole day
waiting for some news from the doctor about what exactly happened all we knew
was that he definitely had to stay in the ICU for at least 2 days and in
hospital for at least a week I was already cancelling the flights and hotel
reservation at this point I was still more worried than pissed though I was
pissed and gel bro of course sensed my mood when I saw him but I was waiting
till he got discharged before scolding him for being careless but two things
made me just shut down the first was when his boss came to visit him on the
first day and in front of me mom was not in the room when his boss asked twice
was there nobody accompanying you to the hospital and twice he said no I had to
clarify that we rushed down to the hospital from home as he went to see the
GP first on his own he insisted despite Mom asking to follow and only after we
nagged at him for 3 Days To please see the doctor for his chest pain the second
when boss asked him what about your other trip on the 13th of January and he
said I'm still going for that this was a trip with his friend he scheduled for
immediately after our family trip this was after Mom and I told him to stay
here and cancel it just in case as it was too soon and we didn't even know
when he'd get discharged suddenly something in me just broke because what
the [ __ ] was I doing bending over for
someone who didn't seem to appreciate what his mom and brother did for him who
not only [ __ ] up his health but also
put his aging mother at risk granted he was the one in the ICU for a heart
injury due to covid but in the end was it not preventable if only he just
considered his family's feelings especially his mother who went every day
to visit him maxing out the visiting hours and cried every night because it
was something totally unone and where would we get the money for ICU treatment
and hospitalization this is where I am now I will not be visiting him for the
next few days as I don't want to see him or lose my composure I will not be
arranging any more trips with him only with mom who is my world I have shed
angry tears and worried tears yeah this is all very dramatic and other people
have it worse than us for sure but I guess I just wanted to get this off my
chest I will not be able to go on such a long leave in the foreseeable future so
I guess this is adding to my resentment as well mom told me not to be selfish
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aita for refusing to watch my cousin's kids anymore after she let me live with
her rentree I have a job coming up in a different state and I wanted to visit my
family before I went since it's far away so temporarily my cousin said she would
let me stay with her rentree I've been living on the couch for a month and
probably will for another month since my offer was pushed back I had to Pawn off
a lot of my stuff since there was no room for it which I've mostly accepted
since it was short notice I do wish I had at least my own space she's also
been paying for my food since I wasn't expecting it to be this long and didn't
save up enough before moving so I didn't want to complain I haven't been doing
chores much either since her kids are and I don't want to clean up after them
constantly initially I didn't mind watching her kids or letting her use my
car but it feels like she's taking advantage of me now I've even told her I
don't want to watch her kids all the time she started treating my car as her
own and will even leave it somewhere if her boyfriend picks her up leaving me
stranded she will also plan on me watching her kids when she leaves
without asking me yesterday she said she was taking her kids somewhere so I
thought I could finally have some time to myself but surprise I had to watch
her youngest because she's too young to go I normally go to the gym but now it
always feels like I'm too busy with her kids to do anything I want to do and
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op has to deal with an absentee co-parent sorry for any spelling grammar
or format mistakes I've been in a bit of a rage typing this as a single mother I
try my absolute best to co-parent with my daughter's father he always makes
plans to come and spend the day with her
then he'll not show up no calls no texts zero communication when he does decide
he wants to be a parent he'll stay with her for maybe 2 hours then bring her
back because she's too difficult to handle if I ask why he didn't show up
last time he'll say She's So Young she doesn't know that I broke a promise to
her yes she is young 1 AMD a half years old I know that in the long run she'll
see a pattern each time I get a nice photo of her I always send it to him and
his family he will then make a social media post bragging about being the best
dad ever he then receives all this praise world's best dad she's so lucky
to have an incredible father if only there were more great dads like you it
really just grinds my gears that he can take credit for something he isn't
sorry for my rant I hope everyone has a wonderful day relevant comment from op
I'm at the point of calling him out I forgot to mention in my post since I was
in a rage typing that he and his friends will tag me in posts on social media
that way I get notified every single time it's not the worst part though I
have all the messages and phone calls if I stop sending pictures they will all
bombard me if they don't get a weekly or monthly picture my phone gets blown up
when our daughter was in the hospital all they cared about was the picture I
lost it on them then and that's when they backed off then I got the hole why
didn't you tell him he'd be there if he knew I was one more message away back
then about throwing his butt under the bus you're right though I don't have the
energy I'm tired mentally and physically and I'm sad I'm sad my daughter doesn't
have the father she deserves because she really is a great little girl first
update I've finally done it not too long ago I made a post about absent parents
my fellow co-parent wasn't at all all pulling his weight but claimed to be the
best dad ever last night things came to a head when he once again showed up to
pick up our daughter when I reached out to see if he'd be picking her up he said
N I don't feel like it I replied with a thumbs up clearly done with this an hour
later I was tagged in a social media post the post goes on to say that I
won't let him see his kid that this is why men and themselves and that he has
rights too I'm sure you get the gist I was beyond Furious so I took every
screenshot that I've taken of canceled or no shows and posted it to his post I
made sure last night was the first to go up I then added to it that I'm not the
one stopping him the only one stopping him is himself his post was deleted
about 5 minutes later the damage was already done his sisters are reaching
out to apologize his friends are reaching out to say it's a low blow and
others are messaging me to apologize for not asking for my side overall I'm done
having a difficult co-parent our next custody re evaluation is going to be
interesting thanks for reading relevant comments good for you it sounds like his
sisters have been fed a lot of BS and now know the truth op's reply HEK very
very good at twisting the truth the only ones who have truly been by my side
aside from his family and friends have been his grandparents they've been able
to see through his charade from the start I feel so relieved that it's all
out there now it's like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders another
user asks he really didn't think you showed the receipts huh it was ballsy of
him to tell you one thing then go on social media and tell the world the
exact opposite glad you finally stood up to him and called him out op's reply I
guess he wasn't expecting me to come out with it all I've been dealing with this
since she was 4 years old it's not the first time he said things that aren't
true I've just saved it all over time what's the story of your breakup he
sounds like that would be a riveting read op's reply our story is that he was
a Serial cheater he would gas like me and put me down he had cheated on our
whole relationship before I gave birth I left him for both my mental health and
self-respect he told me it was a one-time thing however I had found 10
one-time things all these girls told me that he said I was just a one night
stand he literally blocked them from seeing any posts that I was tagged in I
had worked two jobs from when I'd met him six years up to my due date he
worked his cruy 73 he was late to the birth as he was outdoing who knows what
then when things had gotten complicated he yelled at me asking MEK what so hard
about giving birth why can't I do it right I was pushed in for an emergency
C-section and he was negative the whole time during the first four months he was
active as soon as I went back to work though that's when he started to be
distant and make posts about me keeping him from her up until recently I just
saved all the posts and taken the backlash from his friends and family I'm
in a much better State now single with my precious girl she'll never know what
length I would go to to protect her man I love screenshots the kids nowadays
call them receips op's reply I feel so old now LOL I'll be keeping all of my
receipts I have quite a stash of them I've actually just finished printing
them all out so I can take them to court he literally tagged the person with all
the proof in the post he was lying about
wow op's reply I can say that heun's not
the brightest light he must have thought she's taken it for this long shek not
going to do anything almost a year of proof later and
everything is taken down LOL second update hello all I wanted to say a huge
thank you to everyone who has commented and messaged me on my last post it's
been a wayward couple of weeks since I last posted 3 days after I posted my
co-parent messaged me he called me all sorts of names cried that I exposed him
told me it'll be my fault when he ends himself and then at the end of his
message he turned around and told me he hopes my life ends in the most painful
way possible to this I didn't reply a few days later he asked for pictures of
our daughter after not showing up for his planned visit again my only reply
was if you'd like a picture of her you best come and spend some time with her
which I got abused for this has been happening since I've also CED a lot of
abuse from his new girlfriend she has also been coming to my place of
employment to cause trouble she has since been sent to cease and desist
letter this seems to have scared her off today was our court day I had all the
screenshots and seats printed and ready to go I have been granted 100% custody
the judge felt that he wasn't mentally in the right frame of mind to be able to
take adequate care of our child he blew up at the judge for this the co-parent
went as far as to say to the judge I hope you can sleep at night knowing
you've unived someone he was given a last warning that if he spoke out again
he'd be in contempt of court the co-parent ended up being taken out of
court and heun been held from what his mom has said he will be going into a
mental health facility one of his sisters believes that he's
been taking some hard drugs since we've been broken up hopefully being in a
facility will help him get clean co-parents can have strict supervised
visits it was suggested that I have someone with me when he visits the text
about my death was a worry I have stood by my word and even told the courts that
he is welcome to come and see our child anytime I just like a heads up
beforehand all our communication needs to be done through text or email this
wasn't a problem for me this was also heavily discussed by the court this will
hopefully be the end of all the bad things that have come I truly hope he
gets the help he needs so he can be the dad our girl deserves thank you everyone
once again I hope you all stay safe relevant comments good for you op and
your daughter that you got 100% custody I really hope the co-parent can get the
help he needs because he really needs it guilt tripping someone by saying they
are going to end themselves is just not okay be safe op if he comes to visit
op's rep rep thank you very much I'm going to have someone with me when he
does come it's better to be safe than sorry same user replies yes 100% And I
would keep it that way for a long time until you're really confident that he
resolved his internal issues and that you aren't in danger op's reply we won't
have another court date for a few months now to see if heun resolving his
problems it'll stay this way until he can prove that he's in a better position
I've never wanted to keep him from our child the fact that he's unstable though
has put me in protection mode I was initially going to go for 8020 until his
sister told me about the drugs I'd never
live with myself if anything happened to our child I know heun's never
intentionally hurt her however in the condition he's been in I'm not taking a
risk good for you your daughter deserves the best and if he can't play the role
of Father then he has to stop playing his game with her she needs stability
not a crazy guy who comes and goes in her life because of his selfishness and
I'm happy everything was exposed now he will face the consequences of his
actions and don't let that crazy girlfriend get away with her attitude
keep everything they send or do to you if they have a simple attempt to hurt
you or your reputation show them they can't play with you in any way because
you will do everything to protect yourself but more for your baby op's
reply after I exposed everything last time I'd thought he would have stepped
up knowing what I do now I understand that he's missing some marbles at the
moment his new girlfriend has no idea who she's messing with I'll let things
slide to a certain extent when it comes to my little girl there isn't anything I
wouldn't do to protect her thank you for
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have you ever left a date Midway yep we went out to a nice sushi restaurant she
suggested it was about 40 per person which is expensive for my taste but I
had just sold one of my first patents and felt good about finally having some
spending money so I didn't mind I usually don't drop that much on a first
date these gardening hes really deserve McDonald's first date she seemed
interesting funny and smart but then she said it I would never pay for myself on
a date that's the man's job I asked her what if you invited me out she just
shook her head nope I would never ask a man out I inquired what if you made more
money than me she responded then you're just not a man you would be weak
bottom Barrel you would be the type for the fat only I asked her if she
thought men and women were equals and she said women were Superior in every
way but physical strength I had a crisp 100 and I slowly unfolded it in front of
her and the waiter I told him to keep the chain so she wouldn't jip him and
put it down on the table and told her nicely enjoy your meal on me then I left
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:00.120 --> :01.120 In today’s video, I would like to introduce
you to a suspenseful movie called "Escape :01.120 --> :02.120
from Alcatraz" that was produced in 1979. :02.120 --> :03.120
The movie is inspired by a real-life incident. :03.120 --> :04.120
If you plan to watch it, beware of spoilers. :04.120 --> :05.120
The storyline revolves around Frank Morris,
a highly intelligent criminal who had previously :05.120 --> :09.980
escaped from several prisons, and his incarceration
at the high-security Alcatraz Island Prison :09.980 --> :11.330
in 1960. :11.330 --> :15.349 As Frank tucks into his inaugural morning
meal at the diner, he befriends a peculiar :15.349 --> :17.130
chap by the name of Litmus. :17.130 --> :21.660
This oddball has a knack for requesting extra
portions from fellow diners and toting around :21.660 --> :23.440
a clandestine pet mouse. :23.440 --> :27.700
However, Frank can't shake the feeling of
being watched by a burly bloke dubbed Wolf, :27.700 --> :31.920
who seems to be sending some not-so-subtle intimidation vibes his way.
:31.920 --> :36.230 Subsequently, Frank is escorted to meet the
warden, who lays out the regulations Frank :36.230 --> :40.570
must abide by and requests the names of any
individuals he wishes to grant visitation :40.570 --> :42.110
privileges to. :42.110 --> :46.800
Unfortunately, Frank has nobody in his corner,
not a single soul to call family or friend. :46.800 --> :51.340
The warden spills the that the penitentiary
is unlike any other, as it lacks rehabilitation :51.340 --> :55.230
initiatives and prohibits the dissemination of current events.
:55.230 --> :59.500 Prisoners' access to information about the
world outside is solely reliant on the guards' :59.500 --> :00.500
discretion. :00.500 --> :04.760
Additionally, inmates are all housed in solitary
confinement, and anyone wishing to visit them :04.760 --> :07.200
must first undergo FBI scrutiny. :07.200 --> :10.939
Although they do have the option to work, this privilege must be earned.
:10.939 --> :15.710 and finally grants him one warning before
releasing him back into the clutches of Alcatraz: :15.710 --> :20.530
nobody has ever successfully pulled off a
prison break from this joint, and no one ever :20.530 --> :21.530
will. :21.530 --> :24.900
Turns out, Frank's rendezvous with the warden wasn't entirely for naught.
:24.900 --> :30.060 As the warden's gaze was momentarily averted,
Frank deftly lifted a pair of nail clippers, :30.060 --> :32.650
later squirreling them away inside his Bible. :32.650 --> :37.130
Fast forward to Frank's initial shower session,
where he encounters the intimidating Wolf, :37.130 --> :39.299
who declares Frank his new plaything. :39.299 --> :43.780
Despite Frank's protests, Wolf persisted,
and so Frank decided to take matters into :43.780 --> :48.810
his own hands, delivering some punches and
forcing a bar of soap into the brute's mouth. :48.810 --> :53.130
Sometime later, Frank is dispatched to lend
a hand at the prison library, where he crosses :53.130 --> :56.770
paths with English, a fellow inmate serving dual life sentences.
:56.770 --> :01.729 A decade prior, English acted in self-defense
when he took the lives of two men, yet their :01.729 --> :06.979
Caucasian status deemed their fabricated version
of events more believable than English's truth. :06.979 --> :11.000
With prisoners forbidden from entering the
library, Frank's current mission is to make :11.000 --> :15.020
the rounds, distributing reading materials to those keen on partaking.
:15.020 --> :19.330 During his yard interlude, Frank has an encounter
with Doc, a silver-haired inmate who whiles :19.330 --> :21.950
away the hours with a paintbrush in hand. :21.950 --> :26.379
Doc's artwork is nothing short of impressive,
with subjects ranging from himself to the :26.379 --> :29.510
warden, each portrait featuring a chrysanthemum blossom.
:29.510 --> :34.940 Doc also expresses concern for Frank's wellbeing,
given that he's now landed on Wolf's bad side. :34.940 --> :39.230
Later, Frank engages in a chat with English,
who shares with him all the intel he's gathered :39.230 --> :42.360
on the penitentiary's anti-escape protocols. :42.360 --> :46.200
According to English's intelligence, even
if an inmate managed to navigate their way :46.200 --> :50.640
out of their cell, a feat in itself, they'd
face the treacherous obstacle of armed guards :50.640 --> :54.170
perched in the watchtowers, ready to shoot at any sign of escape.
:54.170 --> :58.640 And even if someone somehow managed to evade
the sharpshooters and flee the premises, there's :58.640 --> :03.700
still the daunting matter of Alcatraz's locale:
situated on an island, with a mile-long swim :03.700 --> :07.840
to reach solid ground, and water temperatures
that would make a polar bear shiver. :07.840 --> :12.120
A few days later, while shooting the breeze
with Litmus in the yard, he casually drops :12.120 --> :17.030
the tidbit that their cellblock has ventilation
shafts up top, the only hurdle being figuring :17.030 --> :18.370
out a means of ascent. :18.370 --> :22.750
However, the day takes a perilous turn when
Wolf sets his sights on Frank, brandishing :22.750 --> :24.010
a deadly blade. :24.010 --> :28.200
Luckily, Doc is quick on the draw, alerting
Frank to the impending danger and allowing :28.200 --> :30.819
him to avoid the attack just in the nick of time. :30.819 --> :35.080
A full-blown brawl ensues between the two,
prompting the guards to intervene and cart :35.080 --> :38.290
both Wolf and Frank off to solitary confinement. :38.290 --> :42.959
Unfortunately, the warden couldn't care less
if Frank acted out of self-defense; a scuffle :42.959 --> :46.330
is a scuffle, and the punishment is solitary confinement.
:46.330 --> :50.459 The only company Frank receives comes in the
form of a guard who, under the guise of odor :50.459 --> :53.590
control, drenches him with frigid water from a hose.
:53.590 --> :57.930 After a brief stint in solitary confinement,
Frank is eventually released back into the :57.930 --> :02.640
general population, while Wolf is left to
rot in the hole for a more extended period :02.640 --> :05.409
for instigating the brawl and wielding a weapon. :05.409 --> :09.810
Later that evening, Frank receives a heartwarming
visit from his furry friend Litmus Mouse, :09.810 --> :13.790
who presents him with a tiny message of support reading, "Welcome Back."
:13.790 --> :18.199 As time passes, Frank strikes up a friendship
with his new neighbor, Charlie Butts, who's :18.199 --> :20.199
assigned to the cell adjacent to his. :20.199 --> :24.700
The two become close pals, and Frank even
introduces Charlie to his other buddies during :24.700 --> :27.000
one of their regular yard hangouts. :27.000 --> :31.600
One day, during the usual yard activity, the
warden decides to inspect the cells and stumbles :31.600 --> :33.910
upon Doc's beautiful painting of him. :33.910 --> :38.410
Despite the striking resemblance and flattering
portrayal, the cruel warden decides to strip :38.410 --> :42.720
Doc of his painting privileges as a punishment for...well, who knows what.
:42.720 --> :47.350 When a guard confiscates Doc's paint and canvases,
the distraught artist is left in a state of :47.350 --> :52.100
deep distress, as painting was his only source
of solace in the bleak and monotonous confines :52.100 --> :53.479
of Alcatraz. :53.479 --> :58.510
Frank manages to secure a job in the carpentry
team and while working one afternoon, he notices :58.510 --> :01.100
that Doc seems to be in a very bad state. :01.100 --> :05.220
Concerned, Frank tries to alert the guard but his concerns are dismissed.
:05.220 --> :09.169 Unfortunately, Doc's depression gets the best
of him and he asks for a hatchet, which he :09.169 --> :11.370
uses to sever his own fingers. :11.370 --> :15.919
Deeply saddened by Doc's tragic action, Frank
finds a chrysanthemum flower that Doc had :15.919 --> :20.370
left in his pocket and decides to gather the
severed fingers and put them in a box. :20.370 --> :24.460
He then sarcastically hands the box to the
guard, telling him to make sure to include :24.460 --> :25.800
it in his report. :25.800 --> :30.139
During dinner, the warden confronts Frank
about the incident, and Frank seizes the opportunity
:30.139 --> :34.229 to indirectly insult him by wondering how
anyone could take offense from a portrait :34.229 --> :35.620
that flatters them. :35.620 --> :39.600
Frank's mealtime got a boost when he found
out that the infamous Anglin brothers, John :39.600 --> :42.450
and Clarence, were also guests of Alcatraz. :42.450 --> :46.560
Frank has previous experience with the brothers
from his time in prison, and they all share :46.560 --> :51.660
a talent for escaping, which probably explains
why they ended up in the world's most secure :51.660 --> :52.660
prison. :52.660 --> :56.520
As Frank was feeling bored and contemplating
his next great escape plan, he observed a :56.520 --> :00.220
clever roach fleeing through the grill on
the wall, which seemed to be held in place :00.220 --> :01.810
by flimsy concrete. :01.810 --> :06.100
In a stroke of inspiration, Frank discovers
that the weak concrete surrounding the grill :06.100 --> :08.900
in his cell might be his ticket out of Alcatraz. :08.900 --> :13.080
Armed with a stolen nail clipper, he begins chipping away, slowly but surely.
:13.080 --> :17.330 If he can keep up the effort, he might just
make a hole large enough to squeeze through. :17.330 --> :21.510
Meanwhile, on visitor's day, two of Frank's
friends receive some much-needed news from :21.510 --> :22.789
the outside world. :22.789 --> :25.759
English's daughter informs him of her upcoming wedding.
:25.759 --> :30.069
Charlie, on the other hand, receives heart-wrenching
news from his wife that his mother's health :30.069 --> :33.889
is deteriorating, and she has only a few months left to live.
:33.889 --> :37.870 Desperate to see his mother before it's too
late, Charlie confides in Frank about his :37.870 --> :41.610
desire to escape and begs him to include him in his plans.
:41.610 --> :45.199 Frank shares his discovery with Charlie and
the Anglins during dinner. :45.199 --> :49.220
He tells them that the moist sea air has weakened
the concrete and metal of the grill, and it's :49.220 --> :51.880
just a matter of time before they can dig a hole. :51.880 --> :55.740
This could lead them to the utility corridor, which may be a path to the roof.
:55.740 --> :00.040 To keep the hole hidden, they plan to tear
out ads from magazines and use cardboard to :00.040 --> :01.430
create a fake wall. :01.430 --> :05.380
They can also cover the hole with objects like towels to keep it disguised.
:05.380 --> :09.030 They will make fake heads out of the cardboard
and hair from the barbershop to put on their :09.030 --> :12.819
pillows to trick the guards into thinking
they're sleeping while they are making their :12.819 --> :13.819
escape. :13.819 --> :16.669
They can escape at night and won't be noticed until morning count.
:16.669 --> :21.419 The Anglin siblings are the masterminds behind
this new project, the barbershop and clothing :21.419 --> :23.289
shop being their day jobs. :23.289 --> :27.350
With their combined expertise, one of them
will be able to obtain hair for the dummy, :27.350 --> :31.199
while the other will be able to steal some
raincoats and contact cement to construct :31.199 --> :32.280
life rafts. :32.280 --> :36.879
The plan is to use these rafts to cross the
bay to safety, but of course, the odds of :36.879 --> :37.879
success are low. :37.879 --> :40.319
Nevertheless, everyone agrees to lend a hand. :40.319 --> :44.599
As Frank tirelessly chips away at the weak
concrete around the grill, Charlie diligently :44.599 --> :47.210
keeps an eye out for patrolling guards. :47.210 --> :51.419
Unfortunately, using the nail clipper proves
to be a challenge as it doesn't offer a proper :51.419 --> :52.419
grip. :52.419 --> :56.340 The next day during the meal break, Frank
came up with a plan to get an extra spoon. :56.340 --> :00.280
He deliberately dirties his current spoon with his shoe and asks for a new one.
:00.280 --> :04.590 With the help of one of the Anglin brothers
who distracts the guard with conversation, :04.590 --> :08.620
Frank slyly takes two spoons instead of one and sneaks one back to his cell.
:08.620 --> :13.741 To further his escape plan, Frank asks English,
who visits to drop off some magazines, if :13.741 --> :16.690
it's possible to weld metal together in the cell. :16.690 --> :18.540
English agrees to teach him how. :18.540 --> :22.669
After a considerable amount of time, Litmus
comes to Frank's aid by trading him a dime :22.669 --> :24.280
for 15 desserts. :24.280 --> :28.620
With this valuable coin, Frank utilizes his
welding skills to create a unique tool to :28.620 --> :29.900
aid in his escape. :29.900 --> :34.380
By disassembling a spoon to acquire its grip
and using the clipper for the digging, Frank :34.380 --> :38.890
uses a handful of matches to melt the dime and fuse together the two utensils.
:38.890 --> :43.209 With his newly crafted tool, Frank digs much
faster than before and is able to get back :43.209 --> :47.100
to his bed in time whenever Charlie warns him of approaching guards.
:47.100 --> :51.690 Eventually, after several days of digging,
he successfully removes all the concrete around :51.690 --> :52.690
the grill. :52.690 --> :56.810
However, the grill itself is firmly attached
to the wall and proves impossible to remove :56.810 --> :57.910
by hand. :57.910 --> :01.790
Frank devises a plan to get a wedge into the prison to help him with his escape.
:01.790 --> :05.590 He makes the wedge during his time at the
carpentry shop, but the challenge is getting :05.590 --> :07.990
it through the metal detector undetected. :07.990 --> :12.209
Frank has an idea: he intentionally sets off
the detector by holding the wedge out in the :12.209 --> :15.200
open and telling the guard he made it to hang his clothes.
:15.200 --> :19.400 The guard doesn't buy it and confiscates the
wedge, without bothering to check Frank's :19.400 --> :20.400 pockets.
:20.400 --> :21.510 Since he has nothing in his pockets, he's
allowed to leave, and Frank returns to his :21.510 --> :23.150
cell with a feeling of success. :23.150 --> :26.899
He has a second wedge hidden in his shoe,
which he can use to finally get the grill :26.899 --> :27.959
off the wall. :27.959 --> :31.000
This is the sign he needs to get the plan rolling properly.
:31.000 --> :35.040 Over the next few months, Charlie and the
Anglin brothers start digging as well. :35.040 --> :40.269
They also begin working on creating cardboard
dummy heads using magazine pages, water, and :40.269 --> :42.290
concrete dust from their digging. :42.290 --> :46.110
Charlie even goes to order a painting set
under the guise of taking up a new hobby, :46.110 --> :50.209
but the paint will actually be used to color
the dummy heads and create cardboard covers :50.209 --> :52.220
that mimic the appearance of the grill. :52.220 --> :56.970
Once Frank finishes preparing his dummy with
hair acquired from the barbershop by the Anglins, :56.970 --> :01.070
he places it in his bed and enters the hole to explore what's on the other side.
:01.070 --> :05.540 He discovers a set of stairs leading to a
utility corridor, but he soon realizes that :05.540 --> :08.750
the ventilation shafts are out of his reach on the ceiling.
:08.750 --> :11.050 Meanwhile, a guard is patrolling the cell area.
:11.050 --> :15.020 As luck would have it, the guard falls for
the dummy's trickery on his first pass, but :15.020 --> :18.850
on his second round, he becomes suspicious when Frank doesn't move.
:18.850 --> :23.440 His doubts escalate when his baton falls with
a loud noise, yet Frank doesn't flinch. :23.440 --> :28.140
However, before the guard can get a closer
look at the dummy, Frank is already in bed, :28.140 --> :29.750
avoiding the dummy being found. :29.750 --> :34.370
The following day, the Frank shares his findings
with his colleagues and checks on the prisoners' :34.370 --> :35.370
progress. :35.370 --> :39.149
The Anglin brothers are nearly finished, but Charlie is lagging behind.
:39.149 --> :43.300 That evening, Frank and John sneak into the
utility corridor to stash the raincoats they :43.300 --> :46.889
stole from the clothing store and inspect the ventilation shaft.
:46.889 --> :51.240 With John's help, Frank is now able to reach
it and examine it closely, and he realizes :51.240 --> :54.420
that they'll need some heavy-duty tools to pry it open.
:54.420 --> :58.130 Frank and John spot an electrical outlet on
the wall that gives them an idea. :58.130 --> :02.519
At the next band practice, Frank approaches
Litmus and strikes a deal - he'll get Litmus :02.519 --> :07.290
all of his desserts in exchange for an extension
cord and a drill from Litmus's shop. :07.290 --> :11.660
Later that day Frank seizes the opportunity
to pinch a small desk fan and cleverly hides :11.660 --> :13.270
it in his accordion case. :13.270 --> :16.910
He even manages to pull the wool over the
guard's eyes by diverting their attention :16.910 --> :18.649
to Charlie's case instead. :18.649 --> :22.850
With all the necessary tools, including a
penlight that they snatch from Doc, Frank :22.850 --> :26.350
and John head back to the utility corridor to start their work.
:26.350 --> :30.470 After staying vigilant for any approaching
guards, they employ a pipe that John wrenches :30.470 --> :34.070
off the wall to dismantle the bars safeguarding the shaft hole.
:34.070 --> :37.760 Frank climbs into the shaft and, with the
help of the drill he's crafted using Litmus' :37.760 --> :41.779
tip and the fan he swiped, he unscrews the metal plates sealing the passage.
:41.779 --> :46.590 A considerable amount of time has passed since
Frank's initial arrival to Alcatraz, and the :46.590 --> :49.040
team is now set to make their escape. :49.040 --> :53.480
Charlie expresses his concern about the durability
of his imitation grill, but John reassures :53.480 --> :56.589
him that the raft will be completed by next Tuesday.
:56.589 --> :00.750 Frank schedules the escape for Tuesday night,
and during breakfast one morning, he takes :00.750 --> :03.959
out the chrysanthemum that Doc had given him to water it.
:03.959 --> :08.090 Litmus is delighted to see it, and it reminds
him of the good old times he had with Doc. :08.090 --> :13.279
However, the warden has a contrasting reaction
to the flower as it reminds him of the paintings, :13.279 --> :17.920
so he storms over to the table and smashes
it, stating that it goes against the rules. :17.920 --> :23.260
This upsets Litmus, and he lunges at the warden,
but unfortunately, he collapses due to a heart :23.260 --> :24.260
attack. :24.260 --> :28.459
Following the incident with the chrysanthemum,
the warden grows increasingly suspicious of :28.459 --> :31.010
Frank, prompting him to order a cell search. :31.010 --> :35.310
Despite the warden's doubts, the fake grill
holds up to scrutiny, and nothing out of the :35.310 --> :36.670
ordinary is found. :36.670 --> :41.630
However, the warden's suspicions don't dissipate,
and he orders Frank's transfer to a different :41.630 --> :42.630
cell. :42.630 --> :46.860
fortunately for Frank, this bureaucratic process
takes time, and the transfer is scheduled :46.860 --> :48.160
for Tuesday morning. :48.160 --> :52.029
The next day, the group learns that Wolf is
back from the hole and is determined to take :52.029 --> :53.050
Frank down. :53.050 --> :57.540
To avoid any potential danger, Frank decides
to move the escape plan to that night instead :57.540 --> :58.670
of Tuesday. :58.670 --> :02.720
During their afternoon break in the yard,
Wolf tries to attack Frank, but English comes :02.720 --> :08.140
to the rescue and leads him to his gang, hinting
that Wolf will face consequences for his actions. :08.140 --> :11.529
As the night grows darker, the group finally takes action.
:11.529 --> :15.209 Frank and the Anglins expertly deceive the
guards with their cardboard doppelgangers :15.209 --> :20.389
and sneak into the utility corridor, but Charlie
falters and stays in his cell, sobbing. :20.389 --> :24.920
With the raft and litmus mouse in tow, the
trio climbs the ventilation shaft and emerges :24.920 --> :29.339
onto the roof, where they meticulously navigate
around the searchlights by staying alert to :29.339 --> :31.110
their movements and evading them. :31.110 --> :35.930
The trio successfully navigate the roof by
keeping an eye on the searchlights' movements. :35.930 --> :40.250
Using a pipeline against the side wall, they
manage to climb down and reach the yard, where :40.250 --> :43.269
they carefully avoid detection and make it to the fence.
:43.269 --> :47.620 In the meantime Charlie, who had a change
of heart, tried to join Frank and the Anglins :47.620 --> :52.670
on their escape, but unfortunately, he couldn't
reach the ventilation shaft without his friends' :52.670 --> :53.670
help. :53.670 --> :57.490 He ends up returning to his cell, feeling
down about missing the chance to escape. :57.490 --> :02.040
Meanwhile, Frank and the Anglins successfully
climb over the barbed wire fence using strategic :02.040 --> :03.820
jumps to avoid injuries. :03.820 --> :07.580
With that hurdle behind them, they quickly
make their way towards the shoreline of the :07.580 --> :08.580
island. :08.580 --> :12.450
With the raft inflated, Frank and the Anglins
jump into the water and use their legs to :12.450 --> :14.440
paddle themselves towards freedom. :14.440 --> :18.850
As morning breaks, the guards discover the
escape and an intense search for the prisoners :18.850 --> :21.029
begins, covering the entire island. :21.029 --> :25.060
As the search progresses, the guards come
across some of the inmates' belongings floating :25.060 --> :26.060
in the bay. :26.060 --> :29.600
The warden jumps to the conclusion that they
must have drowned because no one would abandon :29.600 --> :34.650
their cherished possessions, but a guard suggests
that it could all be a ruse to mislead them. :34.650 --> :39.279
Meanwhile, the warden discovers a chrysanthemum
resting on a rock, a clear indication that :39.279 --> :42.209
Frank and his accomplices are still at large. :42.209 --> :46.079
Even though the fugitives are presumed dead, their bodies are never recovered.
:46.079 --> :50.910 The prison eventually shuts down a year later
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aita for not agreeing to walk my dad's fiance down the aisle my dad is getting
married in September and a few months ago his fiance asked me if I would walk
her down the aisle she's not close to her own family and she has no kids of
her own dad has me 17m and my two sisters 20f and 15f our mom died 8 years
ago so it was just us and Dad before his fiance came into his life and then ours
I don't really like his fiance I accept that my dad does but she comes across as
kind of pushy to me and a little too possessive she had a moment when my
older sister moved all her stuff out of her house a few months ago so she could
take it to her own place the moment was over my sister asked Dad for photos of
his and mom's wedding if he had any spares and she was upset that they were
still in the house and the fact my sister wanted to take some my younger
sister and I got upset when all photos of our mom were taken down in the living
room and dining room dad's fiance was upset about our reaction and said we
should want this to be comfortable for her she doesn't like us calling her by
her first name and tried to influence us to call her mommy we both knew that was
another word for Mom and said no she said it's not Mom though and could be
special for us to call her that my older
sister had a small surgery and she asked
Dad if he would be able to come and stay
with her and drive her back to her place
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AIT for choosing to have my mom come wedding dress shopping with me over my
stepmom this is about a dispute between me and my dad SL stepmom it's a dispute
that started because my dad and stepmom were upset that I chose to go wedding
dressing shopping with my mom and not with my stepmom instead for those who
will wonder why both women couldn't be there there's a lot of bad blood there
and my stepmom hates my mom and refuses to be civil with her anymore now that
I'm over 18 she also refuses to be in the same room unless it's some major
event in my life otherwise they are never in the same place the same goes
for my dad and my mom so this dates back many years I'm not sure if the tension
between them always existed but I was aware of the fact my mom and stepmom
didn't like each other when I was younger I was also aware that my Mom and
Dad didn't like each other though I feel like they put up a better act around me
than my mom and stepmom could both sides have their own reasons as to why the
tension started my mom has never told me
directly but my aunt has told me what my mom told her while my dad and stepmom
have shared their side with me but the big conflict came when I was 10 and my
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his wife and son blame him for the oldest son's death and abandon him
happened 10 years ago 10 years ago my oldest son started a job working the
graveyard shift he was 20 years old he was having trouble staying awake on his
drive home from work in the mornings so he came to stay with me because I lived
closer to his job he had two weeks before he moved into his new apartment
which was really close to his job after about 4 days of staying with me I forgot
about him having trouble staying awake on his drive home in the morning I had
gotten all-inclusive tickets to a baseball game and I was taking my
youngest son and all his friends when I came home from work that day I was
excited about the game but I wasn't thinking I woke up my oldest son and
asked him if he wanted to go to the game
he looked at me crazy and then got up to go to the restroom without saying
anything his mother walked in at that time and saw him and said boy what are
you doing up my son replied some fool woke me up we went to the game and that
next morning when I was at work at 8:17 a.m. my son had fallen asleep and gone
head on into an 18wheeler and was passed
away my wife and youngest son knew about me waking him up and they held it
against me within 2 years my son had moved off for college and my wife had
divorced me for 10 years I've been living with this debilitating guilt and
self-loathing it has ruined my life I'm on medications for severe depression and
PTSD I lost my business my house my wife both my sons my health and my dog I sit
here 10 years late still suffering from that eventful day
every day I hear the words some fool woke me up every day I see his burned up
body and images in my head I recently wrote this article for another sub and
got a lot of good advice I haven't seen or talked to my wife and son but a
handful of times in the past 10 years I'm thinking about confronting them even
now that I'm divorced and my son is married to a kid that I've never met I
need some type of closure so I can finally heal how do I confront them and
try to get them back in my life or should I just let sleeping dogs lie I
really miss my younger son and want to be a part of my granddaughter's life
relevant comments from op yes I spent several years in counseling and saw a
psychiatrist it helped some but the depression always came back I have
learned to live with it but I want my son back in my life I'm not sure how to
do it I have messaged him dozens of times in the past few years when I found
out about medical school he got married when I found out he bought a house had a
child and on and on he never answers me back update one in my original post I
mentioned that my son has barely spoken to me in 10 years reading the
overwhelmingly positive comments from Reddit I decided I was going to pursue
mending those fences one comment suggested that I write a letter and
that's what I did this is basically what I wrote dear kiddo I cannot begin to
tell you how incredibly proud I am of you for the man you have become a father
could not ask for more in a son considering that we have been through
something that no one should ever have to go through I am so happy that you
have pushed through and are living your best life I'm writing you to let you
know that I have also pushed through and forgiven myself and I'm going to start
living my best life also enough pain has been caused by something I could not
control it unives me that I have missed so many important milestones and events
in your life I don't want to miss you anymore I am very happy that you are
coming to your aunt carols for Christmas I hope that we get a chance to talk and
hopefully resolve some of the issues that have kept us apart I miss you more
than anything in this world I miss taking off early from work and meeting
you on the basketball court the volleyball court the football field and
the soccer field just us and the boys you have always been the cause of the
happiest days of my life I pray that we can fix this I can't wait to meet your
wife your stepson and my granddaughter and I can't wait to finally see you
again love Dad well rdit I hope that it opens an Avenue for reconciliation it's
a start the only possibly bad thing is that I also just just heard my ex might
also be coming comment from op I sent the letter already he should have it by
now I wouldn't and I haven't tried any type of manipulation on him I love him
too much for that I pray he is ready to talk in two weeks update to I haven't
seen my son or my ex-wife for years since the last time I saw my son he has
gotten married bought a house and had a baby they have blamed me for my son's
death for the past 10 years the party at my sister's house for Christmas was the
first chance I had to see him or her to say I was nervous is an understatement I
could barely think straight I arrived early at my sisters with my mom aunt and
tote we helped prepare the food and arrang the gifts my wife showed up a
little early as well she walked into the house and hugged everybody then looked
over at me and nodded I nodded back my son was running late because they were
driving for 5 hours I went out outside and sat on the porch and that's when my
son pulled up my wife quickly walked out the door past me and walked out to his
car my son got out with his wife and daughter and hugged her and she helped
him unload presents I wasn't sure if I should walk up to him so I just stayed
on the porch and waited for him to come in he came walking up to the porch
holding his daughter who was 1 and A2 years old he looked up at me and said
dad and then walked on by and inside he sat on the right side of the room with
his family and I went and sat on the far left all the way across the room from
him I couldn't take my eyes off his daughter she was beautiful full of life
and my first grandchild the party got going at full speed and there was a full
house packed with family everyone was talking exchanging gifts laughing and
eating and it was a lot of fun I stayed in my seat on the far side of the room
so I wouldn't crowd him or make him feel uncomfortable then my ex-wife from over
by his side said to me do you still have your hair I just smiled and lifted my
baseball cap to show her that I wasn't yet bald like the rest of the family it
was the first sign of life I had gotten a couple hours into it and I could see
that my son was staring at me I figured he was mad at me for being there then he
stood up walked over to me and stood there so I stood up and we were almost
face to face and I was waiting for him to say what he had to say and then I was
going to leave instead he reached out grabbed me and gave me the biggest hug
I've ever had in my life then he pushed over his cousins who were sitting next
to me and made a spot for him to sit and then we started talking and talking and
talking for the next 2 hours he caught me up on everything going on in his life
he said he missed me and that he was sorry that he hadn't been returning my
calls he told me that whenever he talked
to me it reminded him of his brother and the way he passed away it opened up the
depression he had been fighting and he felt like he was taken back to that day
he said it wasn't my fault but it was something that he had to deal with in
the middle of our conversation I looked around and there was not a dry eye in
the room everyone knew what we had been through and what had happened to our
relationship I can't explain the feelings that were going through me and
the emotions that were threatening to overwhelm me it was the best Christmas
gift I could have ever asked for he went and got his daughter and came and sat
her on my lap he formally introduced me and said she needs her grandfather in
her life so I got to hold my granddaughter for the first time then
his wife came up and he introduced her and we hugged and stared each other in
the eyes for a minute I told her that I had heard a lot about her and that I was
glad that she was with my son a little while later my ex-wife came up to me put
her arm around me and told me that I looked good then she went back to being
ice cold walked back over to her chair and never said another word to me I also
didn't try to speak to her I can't begin to tell you all the joy I feel about
having my son back I'm planning to go visit in the next couple of weeks and
I'm going to visit as often as this life allows and I'm going to be a part of my
granddaughter's life no matter what this has really changed my life and removed
some of the guilt and bitterness that I've been living with for the past 10
years I think things are going to be okay and that's that's all that matters
I want to thank you all for your comments advice and support you guys
really made a difference when I first wrote my post I wasn't sure what to
expect I felt like you were going to roast me and that I deserved it I got
nothing but encouragement and good advice and I was just a little bit
bashed I'm so glad I wrote that article and for the guy who suggested I write a
letter I think that was what made the difference because he mentioned it and
said he's been thinking about it for the past two weeks so all in all thank you
and I hope I can give some support to y'all's lives in the future comment from
op I was expecting the worst so what I got was a blessing thank you for
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:00.269 --> :03.639 Posted by u/PeopleCollider
:03.639 --> :07.020 4 hours ago :07.020 --> :10.469
Neighbor had two break-ins after not calling to have the door repaired
:10.469 --> :13.800 This is more in-line with the universe taking
revenge. :13.800 --> :17.140
Anyhow, you've all had those neighbors that simply don't care.
:17.140 --> :21.940 If a fire is about to start in a trash can
they just walk by, because someone else will :21.940 --> :22.940
deal with it. :22.940 --> :26.970
The front door of our apartment complex was broken so it stood permanently open.
:26.970 --> :30.570 There is a number on the wall that goes to
the janitor so he can send someone to fix :30.570 --> :31.570 it.
:31.570 --> :36.200 I usually always call this number if something
important, like the elevator is broken. :36.200 --> :39.020
This time I figured it was someone else's time to call.
:39.020 --> :45.059 It went 3 days and nobody called, then someone
broke into my neighbors apartment by drilling :45.059 --> :47.410
into the lock when she was at work. :47.410 --> :50.789
She then called her insurance company and
the insurance company sent someone out to :50.789 --> :55.320
look at it, and the insurance agent asked why the front door was wide open.
:55.320 --> :00.000 My neighbor explained that "they" hadn't fixed
it, then the insurance agent asked how long :00.000 --> :02.880
it was since my neighbor had called "them". :02.880 --> :07.200
She explained that she had not called anyone,
and the insurance agent asked how long it :07.200 --> :08.450
had been like that. :08.450 --> :13.790
She said 5 days, and then the insurance agent
told her that she was irresponsible and wouldn't :13.790 --> :15.930
get any insurance money. :15.930 --> :20.340
She paid out of her own pocket for a new lock, then complained to me about it.
:20.340 --> :25.439 4 more days passed with the door being wide
open, then someone broke into her apartment :25.439 --> :30.780
one more time, this time by bending the door
of the frame with some sort of machine. :30.780 --> :34.960
She called her insurance agent and it was
the same guy, who noticed that the front door :34.960 --> :36.230
still wasn't fixed. :36.230 --> :40.440
He asked her why they weren't fixing it, and she said she didn't know.
:40.440 --> :43.600 He then asked her if she had called the janitor
and she said no. :43.600 --> :47.270
He then asked if she wanted him to call, and she said yes.
:47.270 --> :07.689 He then called the janitor in front
:07.689 --> :08.689 of :08.689 --> :09.729 Posted by
u/MrNoJokes :09.729 --> :12.400 1 day ago Platinum
:12.400 --> :13.400 Bravo! :13.400 --> :19.330
New neighbors and their dog poop So I (34m) lived in a nice quiet neighborhood.
:19.330 --> :22.390 Most of my neighbors are elderly and we get
along pretty great. :22.390 --> :25.069
That was until my new neighbors moved in. :25.069 --> :30.879
Couple around my age with a baby and a dog...They
NEVER pick up after their dog and yes... :30.879 --> :33.110
I've asked them to pick it up A FEW TIMES.. :33.110 --> :35.700
It got to the point I stopped asking.. :35.700 --> :40.379
As I don't have a dog and it's annoying having
to watch my steps walking in my yard; i feel :40.379 --> :42.140
i shouldnt have to pick it up.. :42.140 --> :47.780
I've tracked dog crap into my house once it
was late night and it sent me over the edge... :47.780 --> :52.400
But I kept my cool because I hate blowing
up on people and plus I've asked so they know :52.400 --> :53.400
it's out there. :53.400 --> :59.400
Their dog barks constantly day snd night,
lunged at a couple walking by, and is never :59.400 --> :02.590
on a leash... never on a leash.. :02.590 --> :05.530
i dont know what breed it is but its a massive dog..
:05.530 --> :07.010 Easily over 110lbs. :07.010 --> :09.170
Its a big dog. :09.170 --> :13.141
The police even came to their house telling
them to leash the dog or animal control will :13.141 --> :14.190
be called. :14.190 --> :19.739
Our HOA states all dogs must be kept on a
leash or in a invisible fence at all times :19.739 --> :20.739
when outside. :20.739 --> :23.870
I know this because I read the WHOLE HOA book. :23.870 --> :27.360
The book has breed restrictions but not weight restrictions.
:27.360 --> :31.629 So you can have a big dog but only certain
breeds aren't allowed in our neighborhood. :31.629 --> :36.350
I once over heard them laughing about me asking
them to pick it up like it was a comical thing :36.350 --> :37.350
to ask. :37.350 --> :40.769
I didn't say anything about it because I knew how I was going to handle it.
:40.769 --> :43.709 My neighbors got a new roof put on their house
in February. :43.709 --> :48.350
So for the past 5 months I've been going out
late night and throwing it on top of their :48.350 --> :50.209
roof with a shovel... :50.209 --> :54.400
Their brand new roof is littered in dog crap. :54.400 --> :59.379
Where we live it rains alot during the spring
so all that poop was just turning into liquid :59.379 --> :01.409
as the spring season went by. :01.409 --> :04.459
And now that it's July it's just cooking up there..
:04.459 --> :06.819 I've never smelt it but I know it's been cooking.
:06.819 --> :13.230 Today 7/9/23 it's 98° pretty hot but nice out.
:13.230 --> :14.989 And it's finally happened...
:14.989 --> :20.139 The wife ( guessing they are married) is yelling
at the husband that their whole upstairs smells :20.139 --> :21.359
like crap. :21.359 --> :25.360
I can hear this because I'm sitting on my
back porch right now sipping some iced tea. :25.360 --> :27.470
They can't figure out why or how. :27.470 --> :30.560
Ha the gagging is what made me laugh the most. :30.560 --> :32.280
I don't want the dog hurt or killed. :32.280 --> :37.210
I know it has to go somewhere it cant hold
its crap forever i know this.. but pick up :37.210 --> :38.320
after your dog... :38.320 --> :41.310
it's not my dog I shouldnt have to clean up after it.
:41.310 --> :42.500 You're welcome neighbors
:42.500 --> :47.570 Signed your petty neighbor,
:47.570 --> :58.590 Posted by u/TheHobbyWaitress
:58.590 --> :09.620 3 hours ago :09.620 --> :13.020
That'll teach them Back in the 80s my fam moved to a neighborhood
:13.020 --> :17.470 on a dead end road with a turnaround and power
line access / riding trails at the end of :17.470 --> :18.470 it.
:18.470 --> :23.009 In our small town this road was well known
as a meet-up party spot for the underaged, :23.009 --> :24.009
myself included. :24.009 --> :27.500
To be honest, my 13yo self thought it was a great move.
:27.500 --> :32.560 The only problem my dad had with this was
how often he had to replace our mailbox. :32.560 --> :37.160
We lived closer to the end of the road than
the beginning and after a night of partying :37.160 --> :41.070
some of these kids made mailbox takedown a weekend sport.
:41.070 --> :42.330 It happened often. :42.330 --> :46.930
So, often that after numerous replacements
he mentioned it to our neighbor at their Sunday :46.930 --> :47.970
service. :47.970 --> :52.750 Their Sunday Service consisted of a bunch
dads, mostly vets, that would show up at my :52.750 --> :58.430
neighbors garage to drink, bullcrap & shoot
darts after the wives left with the kids for :58.430 --> :59.770
church service. :59.770 --> :03.000
It was a man cave before man caves were a thing. :03.000 --> :07.600
So, with a busted mailbox needing fixing and
my dad complaining about it they made a plan :07.600 --> :08.669
of replacement. :08.669 --> :12.750
The neighbor worked for the power company
and just happened to have a few extra old :12.750 --> :14.669
telephone poles laying around. :14.669 --> :19.950
They cut a 7-8ft piece off a pole and my dad
got the hole digger out and went to work. :19.950 --> :26.100
It took him hours to dig the hole but he knew
it would be a one and done so it was worth :26.100 --> :27.220
the effort. :27.220 --> :30.830
Dad and neighbor installed the pole, placed the mailbox and waited.
:30.830 --> :31.830 It took a week. :31.830 --> :38.520
At the next Sunday Service they were all chuckling
about my dad picking up car parts before attending :38.520 --> :39.520
service. :39.520 --> :41.130 Word got around school.
:41.130 --> :44.069 Mailboxes remained untouched throughout our
high school years.. :44.069 --> :49.900
The parents long since moved and that pole is still in place after 40 years.
:49.900 --> :00.970 Sidenote- It was the 80s.
:00.970 --> :04.540 Posted by u/SouthernStinkGrocery
:04.540 --> :19.319 5 hours ago :19.319 --> :23.569
eBay negative feedback This happened years ago, around 2008, but
:23.569 --> :25.129 I still think about it.
:25.129 --> :29.840 I had a unique designer cell phone that was
associated with some fashion label. :29.840 --> :35.099
The feature of the phone was a virtual display
with haptic feedback, so you press each button :35.099 --> :39.790
and the phone makes internal vibrations to simulate pressing buttons.
:39.790 --> :44.460 I bought it for my gf and she used it a bit
but eventually didnt like it that much so :44.460 --> :45.850
put it on ebay. :45.850 --> :50.840
I sold it and bidding pushed it up above what
I was hoping to get, shipped it off and forgot :50.840 --> :51.840
about it. :51.840 --> :56.990
A couple of weeks later I was fired from my
job so I was not paying close attention to :56.990 --> :02.030
emails, and the account I had tied to eBay
was not my main personal email address. :02.030 --> :07.780
So apparently the buyer didn't like the phone,
claimed it was defective (it wasnt), and because :07.780 --> :12.620
I did not respond to his desire to return
the defective phone within 3 days, he used :12.620 --> :16.100
the feature in ebay to complain about being scammed.
:16.100 --> :20.280 I was happy to refund the amount once I had
the phone and confirmed it working, however, :20.280 --> :24.680
if it was ok, I wouldn't refund shipping costs. :24.680 --> :29.660
I get the phone, all is good, I perform the refund minus shipping.
:29.660 --> :34.750 Then one week later the buyer gives me a negative
review, the 1st one I ever received. :34.750 --> :39.599
Really ticked me off because not only was
he just having buyers remorse, he was a huge :39.599 --> :42.659
jerk during the entire refund process. :42.659 --> :46.269
I eventually added him to my Sellers to watch list.
:46.269 --> :48.140 Now here's the petty revenge part.
:48.140 --> :53.090 Two years later he is selling a bunch of stuff
and I had moved since then to a different :53.090 --> :54.090 state.
:54.090 --> :58.530 He has a cheap electronic device listed so
I buy it using a different ebay account. :58.530 --> :03.290
Then when I get it I contact him and state
that it isnt working, he does not respond, :03.290 --> :10.010
and I file an ebay complaint, I get all annoying
to him, get a refund, and then give him a :10.010 --> :16.240
bad review. :16.240 --> :27.510 Posted by u/FeistyIrishWench
:27.510 --> :43.440 16 hours ago :43.440 --> :52.209
1930s schoolboy petulance My late father told of his elementary school
:52.209 --> :54.990 days learning from the Brothers of St Joseph.
:54.990 --> :58.339 I don't remember why he was seated at the
front of the classroom but he was. :58.339 --> :02.519
His teacher would always lean on my dad's desk and it annoyed my dad.
:02.519 --> :06.400 One day he decided to get to school early
and take all the bolts out of the desk and :06.400 --> :09.430
precariously balance the desk back together again. :09.430 --> :12.380
He went about his morning pretending nothing was different.
:12.380 --> :16.079 Then the good Brother went to lean on the
desk as usual and met with a gravitational :16.079 --> :17.520
pull instead. :17.520 --> :22.380
I would imagine dad got paddled at school
for it and then got a 2nd round at home from :22.380 --> :24.579
his Irish immigrant parents. :24.579 --> :28.300
The teacher stopped leaning on the desks after that.
:28.300 --> :32.149 Posted by u/Saucy-ai-girls
:32.149 --> :35.990 22 hours ago :35.990 --> :38.870
Landmine revenge I just remembered this one after reading some
:38.870 --> :40.139 other stories. :40.139 --> :42.750
This story must be nigh on forty years old. :42.750 --> :47.270
The cast are an elderly gentleman I'll call
Ivan, and his dog owning neighbour, who I'll :47.270 --> :50.910
call Karen (no particular reason, but it seems fitting)
:50.910 --> :55.329 Back in the eighties people let their dogs
foul in the gutter as that was regarded as :55.329 --> :56.680
good form. :56.680 --> :58.220 Nobody cleared up after them.
:58.220 --> :59.970 Those laws came later.
:59.970 --> :05.430 Nevertheless, letting a dog use anyone else's
garden was the height of bad manners. :05.430 --> :10.980
In our admittedly short road there was only
one dog owner, Karen, and she let them foul :10.980 --> :17.320
wherever they pleased, arguing that, "it's
only natural", and, "it's good for the plants" :17.320 --> :21.889
Well, Ivan owned one of the gardens that the
dogs regularly fouled, and this particular :21.889 --> :27.490
morning he's stepped in one, and ruined his
suede shoes - they had to be replaced. :27.490 --> :31.760
He was about to chuck them in the bin when he had a rather wicked idea.
:31.760 --> :37.959 He, very carefully, put them back on, outside,
and, being sure to walk through a few more :37.959 --> :40.230
landmines, went to Karen's house. :40.230 --> :45.360
He knocked on the door, she answered, and
he asked to borrow a cup of sugar, she said, :45.360 --> :50.440
"of course, come in, and turned away to walk
to the kitchen Ivan walked in across her fairly :50.440 --> :56.260
new hall carpet, into the lounge, and into
the kitchen, where he accepted the proffered :56.260 --> :01.630
cup, turned and made a beeline for the door,
leaving the cup on the hall table before leaving. :01.630 --> :05.260
He could hear the anguished scream from his house. :05.260 --> :06.300
Three doors down. :06.300 --> :11.870
The dogs were under better control for a while,
until one day they weren't, and that day she :11.870 --> :17.230
(his words) heard a knock on the door and a voice asking for a cup of sugar.
:17.230 --> :21.540 Apparently she moved away shortly after.
:21.540 --> :30.470 Posted by u/Westman11
:30.470 --> :39.399 23 hours ago :39.399 --> :40.990
Getting the last pay check twice! :40.990 --> :42.600
Ok so this was years ago. :42.600 --> :43.600 Form a friend.
:43.600 --> :45.730 The store rhymes with barget.
:45.730 --> :49.230 Working over night stocking shelves at a place
where the workers wear red shirts and the :49.230 --> :50.959
logo is a red circle. :50.959 --> :53.970
The over night employees were really crapy ppl. :53.970 --> :57.630
He says he brought treats for everyone to
smooth things over m, but they were just adamant :57.630 --> :59.240
at being at odds. :59.240 --> :00.240 Job was crap.
:00.240 --> :01.410 My friend slowed down a lot.
:01.410 --> :04.670 They wanted two boxes opened and shelved per
minute. :04.670 --> :07.120 He was best and worn out and slowed down.
:07.120 --> :08.850 They decided to fire him.
:08.850 --> :13.110 If you’re not familiar with the large retailer
in the US, they give your last paycheck in :13.110 --> :14.110 cash.
:14.110 --> :19.320 And if you have direct deposit set up, they
send it and then pull it back right away. :19.320 --> :22.130
Nightmare if you have automatic bill payments set up.
:22.130 --> :26.060 So he looks at his banking app and sees the
money come in and out right away. :26.060 --> :30.530
He gets ther on payday, the same day, they
don’t have a check and tell him to come :30.530 --> :32.370
back later for your shift. :32.370 --> :35.570
He comes, they give him his cash and say he’s fired.
:35.570 --> :40.440 He calls up his bank and says the money being
pulled out right away was a glitch or fraud. :40.440 --> :41.970
They refunded the money. :41.970 --> :45.120
And sent him a letter saying the agreed that it was fraud.
:45.120 --> :48.269 So he kept the cash and direct deposit.
:48.269 --> :52.750 The cash was the previous two weeks oay plus
the few days of the next cycle. :52.750 --> :55.450
The direct deposit was only the previous two weeks.
:55.450 --> :58.410 So not quite double the last pay but close.
:58.410 --> :00.970 To anyone who gets the ax from there do the same.
:00.970 --> :05.730 As far as I k ow they still fire ppl like
this with the pay and pull direct deposit :05.730 --> :07.510 routine.
:07.510 --> :12.850 Posted by u/DandyWarlocks
:12.850 --> :18.190 1 day ago :18.190 --> :23.980
Glitter bombs for 10 years I worked in a very stressful job for 3.5 years.
:23.980 --> :27.649 Towards the end, I had had some surgery and
wasn't in a good headspace. :27.649 --> :30.620
I went into the back room one day and was sobbing. :30.620 --> :35.870
Well, apparently sobbing at work was unprofessional
and should just get a Xanax prescription, :35.870 --> :37.380
per the head of HR. :37.380 --> :42.300
I was off work on a mandated leave because
of mental health issues when she called me :42.300 --> :45.079
to come in and tell me this, btw. :45.079 --> :48.740
She also told me I was demoted and wanted
to know how much the demotion was going to :48.740 --> :50.180
reduce my salary. :50.180 --> :53.240
I swear she was salivating when she said that... :53.240 --> :57.709
My manager at the time interrupted her and
said, "no, dandywarlocks never took a raise :57.709 --> :02.389
when she took the position, because she took
the position at a favor to old boss. :02.389 --> :04.180
So she doesn't get a pay cut." :04.180 --> :06.810
Visible sad face on head of HR. :06.810 --> :10.320
I guess I was one of the higher paid ppl, idk. :10.320 --> :14.510
Eventually I finally found a new job, was
able to leave (this was 10+ years ago, and :14.510 --> :17.410
they checked credit scores at the time for jobs. :17.410 --> :18.410
Mine... :18.410 --> :20.370 Was still suffering from my divorce).
:20.370 --> :25.470 But man, I could still remember the looks
on her face when she told me that crying (from :25.470 --> :29.940
the stress of the job) was unprofessional and to go on Xanax.
:29.940 --> :34.970 How she would hound me for every possible
infraction but ignore the sexual harassment :34.970 --> :35.970
I reported. :35.970 --> :39.889
First, the company forgot to take my master key before my last day.
:39.889 --> :46.220 So (on my last day) I saran wrapped anything
in all the mgmt offices I could get into. :46.220 --> :49.910
Pens, keyboards, chairs, snacks, scissors, etc. :49.910 --> :54.760
I left the key inside several layers of said
Satan wrap and left it in the offices before :54.760 --> :55.760
I left. :55.760 --> :56.760 Then. :56.760 --> :57.760
I waited. :57.760 --> :01.050
Around the time the anonymous glitter bomb companies had started up.
:01.050 --> :05.800 I didn't have a lot of money but I set enough
aside to send her a glittery package once :05.800 --> :07.320
a year or so. :07.320 --> :11.620
And to keep her from figuring out what the
package/envelope might contain, I used several :11.620 --> :14.800
different companies which each used different packaging.
:14.800 --> :19.800 Sometimes I'd send those prank candles that
started as vanilla but then turned to fart :19.800 --> :20.800 scent.
:20.800 --> :24.210 I heard she got married so I sent her one
of those congratulations cards that you had :24.210 --> :26.209
to destroy to turn off. :26.209 --> :31.019
Later, a bear that had to be destroyed to stop singing on her anniversary.
:31.019 --> :32.320 Then back to glitter.
:32.320 --> :33.320 Then cock lollipops. :33.320 --> :34.920
Edit: by cock I meant rooster. :34.920 --> :38.560
I never sent the actual nsfw cock. :38.560 --> :39.700 Etc.
:39.700 --> :44.399 No more then once a year, but on and off for
10 YEARS. :44.399 --> :48.440
She retired, so I obviously stopped (they were sent to work, not home).
:48.440 --> :49.440 And honestly? :49.440 --> :51.240
She probably doesn't even remember me. :51.240 --> :55.920
I don't think she ever figured out who did
the glitter, tbh she ticked A LOT of people :55.920 --> :56.920 off
:56.920 --> :17.990 Posted by u/Huge_Buddy_2216
:17.990 --> :20.730 2 days ago Helpful (Pro)2
:20.730 --> :23.480 Gold Faith In Humanity Restored
:23.480 --> :25.610 Can't buy a homeless man a pizza?
:25.610 --> :26.670 Fine by me. :26.670 --> :31.340
Back in the early 2000's, I worked at a well-known
US pizza delivery chain store. :31.340 --> :35.460
For anyone who has ever worked in the US food
service industry, you're probably familiar :35.460 --> :39.280
with what a failing dumpster fire of a restaurant looks like.
:39.280 --> :44.120 On many nights it was literally just me and
one driver taking care of the whole restaurant. :44.120 --> :48.559
Breaks were out of the question because the
restaurant would be completely unattended, :48.559 --> :53.620
the recent franchise buyers were complete
and total idiots who would show up unannounced :53.620 --> :58.640
to yell at me, and the overwhelming majority
of our customers ordered once and then never :58.640 --> :59.640
again. :59.640 --> :05.090 We had pizza deliveries taking 90+ minutes,
people bringing them back to the store ... it :05.090 --> :06.440
was a nightmare. :06.440 --> :10.360
And I got paid $8.50/hour to run shifts. :10.360 --> :13.510
One night I was running a shift and it was particularly dead.
:13.510 --> :18.299 Such nights were not uncommon and they were
basically the only reason I still worked there. :18.299 --> :23.140
Well, 11pm rolls around as I'm kind of standing
by the phones watching the clock tick down, :23.140 --> :26.120
and a clearly homeless man walks in. :26.120 --> :30.920
He introduces himself as Ricky and asks if
we had any leftover pizzas that nobody picked :30.920 --> :31.920 up.
:31.920 --> :34.090 I apologetically inform him that we didn't.
:34.090 --> :40.190 He smiles and thanks me anyway, but then since
I'm in such a good mood, I ask him what he :40.190 --> :41.190 wants.
:41.190 --> :42.190 He says he likes the meat lovers' pizza.
:42.190 --> :47.960 Since he isn't a sociopath like some of our
customers (I'm looking at you, Mr. Teriyaki :47.960 --> :52.460
Bacon and Sardines Guy), I say I'll be happy to make him one.
:52.460 --> :56.980 Ricky at this point is so thankful that he
sits down in one of our chairs and starts :56.980 --> :59.020
bouncing up and down like a little kid. :59.020 --> :01.570
I put the order in and pay for it myself. :01.570 --> :06.130
It ends up being $12, or basically an hour and a half of work for me.
:06.130 --> :07.520 Good deal in my mind.
:07.520 --> :11.920
Ricky watches me and applauds my dough slapping/spinning skills.
:11.920 --> :17.250 As the pizza comes out of the oven, in comes
the area manager - the brother of the franchise :17.250 --> :18.250
owner. :18.250 --> :22.310 He begins shouting as usual and accuses me
of stealing from the store. :22.310 --> :26.640
As he goes into his tirade, one of our few regulars, Henry, comes in.
:26.640 --> :30.480
Henry hears the tirade and looks very uncomfortable.
:30.480 --> :35.300 I finally tell the area manager that I paid
for the pizza out of my own pocket. :35.300 --> :40.740
Area manager shouts a bit more, calls me a
liar, says the count better be right that :40.740 --> :42.150
night, and leaves. :42.150 --> :48.750
I apologize to Henry and Ricky, who both tell
me, an 18-year-old kid, "Yeah work sucks doesn't :48.750 --> :49.750
it." :49.750 --> :53.770 Ricky gets his pizza, Henry gets his, and
they leave around the same time. :53.770 --> :55.640
I see them talking outside. :55.640 --> :58.309
The next night, Henry calls me for an order. :58.309 --> :01.140
This was unusual because he was generally a once a week guy.
:01.140 --> :06.950 I also found it unusual that he ordered a
meal lovers' pizza instead of his usual supreme. :06.950 --> :12.300
I took it, made it, and 20 minutes later Henry
calls again apologetically to cancel it. :12.300 --> :13.789 I say OK.
:13.789 --> :18.790 In a bizarre coincidence, Ricky rolled in
right around that time asking for a pizza. :18.790 --> :22.780
I just so had one that was going to go uneaten sitting under the heater.
:22.780 --> :25.260 And so began the nightly dance.
:25.260 --> :29.559 Henry would call, order a meat lovers' pizza,
and I'd make it. :29.559 --> :34.750
Henry would then call again, cancel, and Ricky would coincidentally roll in.
:34.750 --> :36.940 Every night, same time.
:36.940 --> :38.520 You could time it to the second.
:38.520 --> :40.880 This went on for months.
:40.880 --> :45.900 Eventually the area manager caught wind because
a bootlicker co-worker of mine narced on me, :45.900 --> :49.090
but I responded that I was just doing my job as instructed.
:49.090 --> :54.321 They then stopped putting me into the schedule
rotation in a quiet-firing sort of way, but :54.321 --> :55.790
I really didn't care. :55.790 --> :58.400
The restaurant went under about a year later. :58.400 --> :04.230
Obviously it wasn't all Henry, but I was glad to see it go.
:04.230 --> :08.390 Posted by u/queerdo84
:08.390 --> :13.919 1 day ago Gold :13.919 --> :30.470
Quit my :30.470 --> :36.270
job at an upscale steakhouse…but not before
making sure all the customers knew what a :36.270 --> :38.440
prick the owner was. :38.440 --> :43.580
This happened back in 2009, but I shared it
in a comment on another sub yesterday and :43.580 --> :45.430
figured it belonged here too. :45.430 --> :51.350
I was waiting tables at an upscale steakhouse,
and the company culture was absolute garbage. :51.350 --> :56.740
The owner, “Gary,” was constantly throwing
tantrums and screaming at everyone, and we :56.740 --> :58.480
all HATED him. :58.480 --> :03.059
He’d line us all up before every shift just
to berate us and yell how lucky we were that :03.059 --> :07.530
he’d hired us, because we were all crap
at our jobs and no one else would ever have :07.530 --> :08.530 us.
:08.530 --> :09.530 Stuff like that. :09.530 --> :13.090
The only reason anyone ever stuck around was
because the money was good due to the high :13.090 --> :17.220
ticket prices and solid customer base, as
well as the fact that there weren’t many :17.220 --> :20.800
other employment options for fine dining service in the area.
:20.800 --> :25.270 In addition to being a massive prick, Gary
was also a cheap idiot. :25.270 --> :30.260
There was this 6-foot tall dessert cooler
in the kitchen that had a broken door, and :30.260 --> :34.450
he put off fixing it for months because he
didn’t want to spend the money, so it was :34.450 --> :39.150
just sort of hanging on its hinge and you had to be really careful opening it.
:39.150 --> :43.070 Inevitably, during the height of a Saturday
night rush, it fell completely off and hit :43.070 --> :45.270
one of the servers, hard. :45.270 --> :49.419
So she’s laying there on the kitchen floor,
bleeding from a serious-looking wound on her :49.419 --> :55.940
head, and Gary is standing over her and SCREAMING
down at her: “Way to go - just BRILLIANT. :55.940 --> :58.140
What the FREAK am I supposed to do now? :58.140 --> :02.531
It’s the middle of the rush, you’ve got a full section, and no one’s going to be
:02.531 --> :07.929 able to pick up your goddang tables because
everyone who works here is useless and incompetent!
:07.929 --> :09.559 You should have been more careful!”
:09.559 --> :14.600 I’d seen a lot of his crap, but this was
the hard line, and I made a decision right :14.600 --> :15.980
then that I was out. :15.980 --> :19.720
So when I got home that night, I typed up
a letter to Gary, telling him exactly why :19.720 --> :25.820
I was quitting and leaving no detail out when
it came to his tantrums, his verbal abuse, :25.820 --> :28.559
and the hazards in the workplace that he wouldn’t address.
:28.559 --> :34.070 I printed out 30 copies, went in early for
my opening shift the following day (midafternoon :34.070 --> :38.020
- the place was only open for dinner) and
hid them all over the restaurant where guests :38.020 --> :43.400
would find them: in the menus, under the napkins
on the tables, in between paper towels in :43.400 --> :45.260
the restrooms, etc. :45.260 --> :49.700
Some were in really obscure places, so that
they wouldn’t be found right away and would :49.700 --> :52.720
keep popping up randomly - surprise! :52.720 --> :54.760
- allowing my legacy to live on. :54.760 --> :58.630
Then, instead of working my shift, I left before the pre-shift lineup.
:58.630 --> :02.650 Fast forward to a couple days later, when
a coworker reached out and shared with me :02.650 --> :07.809
the beautiful details of Gary’s head almost
exploding with rage when he found out about :07.809 --> :08.830
the letters. :08.830 --> :12.070
A couple tables read them and walked out before ordering.
:12.070 --> :15.900 People in the dining room could hear him screaming
from the kitchen. :15.900 --> :20.550
Apparently they were still finding letters
weeks later, and every time one surfaced, :20.550 --> :25.940
the vein in Gary’s forehead would pop out
and he’d disappear into his office and slam :25.940 --> :26.940
the door. :26.940 --> :31.179
It remains one of my proudest moments, and
my only regret is that I couldn’t be a fly :31.179 --> :37.150
on the wall, watching this all unfold. :37.150 --> :49.300 Posted by
u/sb0702 :49.300 --> :01.450 7 hours ago :01.450 --> :03.440
Enjoy snorting salt all night nsfw :03.440 --> :07.450
This dude in my friend group is such a dick
and grabbed my butt while we were all hanging :07.450 --> :08.450 out.
:08.450 --> :12.710 I pushed him away and he said "sorry I'm so
horny", yuck. :12.710 --> :16.970
It wasn't the first time something like this
happend and I was pretty ticked off about :16.970 --> :17.970 it.
:17.970 --> :21.970 While I was putting some stickers on a closet
door (in that closet is also a small drug :21.970 --> :26.010
stash) he was whining if he could have some drugs. :26.010 --> :31.710
The backs of the stickers looked somewhat
similar to the material of a cocaine packet, :31.710 --> :35.980
so I folded one up in the most amateuristic way and gave it to him.
:35.980 --> :39.480 He thought it was real and when opening found
out it was empty. :39.480 --> :45.520
I did the exact same joke 3 times in 5 minutes
time and he kept falling for it like an idiot. :45.520 --> :51.049
Then, I took it one step further, I took one
of sticker wrappers, ground up some salt in :51.049 --> :55.149
it and wrote a K on it (for ketamine). :55.149 --> :59.679
I gave it to him quite a few times, all my
other friends were in on it and were pretending :59.679 --> :04.309
to also snort it and then he would be like "ohh can I also have some more?"
:04.309 --> :07.630 At some point he even went to the bathroom
to rinse his nose. :07.630 --> :09.290 "Ahh it burns!
:09.290 --> :11.799 Good ketamine always burns" he said.
:11.799 --> :17.110 I asked him a few times if he felt anything
and he was like yeahh this ketamine is really :17.110 --> :18.110
good. :18.110 --> :19.770 HAHA the dumb little weasel.
:19.770 --> :22.450 I didn't tell him about it being fake at all.
:22.450 --> :25.700 Might continue this prank another time as
it was very funny to watch. :25.700 --> :26.700 Posted by
u/MidnightMarmot :26.700 --> :27.700 2 days ago
:27.700 --> :30.620 Party all night, want to enjoy the sun, get
eaten by bugs :30.620 --> :37.380
So I posted a short version of this in a comment
months ago and a number of you enjoyed it :37.380 --> :43.470
so I thought I would share with the group as a post.
:43.470 --> :48.309 About 10 years ago, I lived in a popular beach
town in Sydney’s Eastern suburbs with a :48.309 --> :51.799
great view of the ocean and just a block to the beach.
:51.799 --> :55.710 It was great but had poor sound proofing and
didn’t have a lot of privacy. :55.710 --> :00.520
The neighbors next door could see right into
my kitchen and the house kitty corner to me, :00.520 --> :03.190
their backyard looked directly into my living room.
:03.190 --> :07.770 All good, you gotta accept some drawbacks
for getting to live that close to the beach. :07.770 --> :11.549
Some Brazilians moved in to the house kitty
corner to me with the backyard that looked :11.549 --> :12.970
into my living room. :12.970 --> :18.320
Unfortunately they liked to stay up and party until 4am almost every night.
:18.320 --> :22.309 They would sing at the top of their lungs
in addition to the music. :22.309 --> :27.400
I was fine with weekend nights but the week day nights were killing me for work.
:27.400 --> :30.750 I called the police, landlords and nothing
would be done. :30.750 --> :32.190 This went on for weeks.
:32.190 --> :36.200 I noticed that after a long night of partying
they liked to come sit in the backyard to :36.200 --> :40.190
sunbath and would be looking directly into my living room.
:40.190 --> :44.380 Great, not only have they kept me up all night
but now I have to look at them all greased :44.380 --> :47.330
up about 15 ft from my window. :47.330 --> :48.950
But that got me thinking. :48.950 --> :51.040
The next evening I waged war. :51.040 --> :54.409
I bought a couple extra bags of sugar and eggs. :54.409 --> :59.409
Now, if you know anything about Australia is that is has a lot of bugs.
:59.409 --> :00.409 Lots. :00.409 --> :01.409 Of.
:01.409 --> :02.409 Big. :02.409 --> :03.409 Bugs.
:03.409 --> :04.940 Of course this attracts spiders.
:04.940 --> :05.940 Lots. :05.940 --> :06.940 Of.
:06.940 --> :07.940 Big. :07.940 --> :08.940 Spiders.
:08.940 --> :10.510 If you’ve never seen a huntsman, Google it.
:10.510 --> :12.210 Dinner plate size. :12.210 --> :16.170
Being subtropical, it’s also teaming with cockroaches!
:16.170 --> :18.669 Like the big 3-4 in freakers.
:18.669 --> :24.529 While they were partying away I dusted their
backyard with 2 bags (10 pounds!) of sugar :24.529 --> :29.179
and launched 4 dozen eggs over the fence and onto their roof and yard.
:29.179 --> :34.210 They heard nothing and I went to bed slightly
uncomfortable thinking about the teeming mass :34.210 --> :39.960
of bugs that must be moving into their backyard
and around their house to snack on the eggs :39.960 --> :40.960
and sugar. :40.960 --> :45.850
The next day I’m watching tv and they drag
their ratty lawn chairs out in the yard. :45.850 --> :48.530
I make a snack and settle down to watch the show. :48.530 --> :54.179
At first it’s a slap here and there and
then it’s loud shouts of alarm and screaming. :54.179 --> :59.190
Then they are running toward the house dragging
their clacking lawn chairs behind them slapping :59.190 --> :01.030
at their bodies and hair. :01.030 --> :04.480
It only lasted a few minutes but it was so satisfying.
:04.480 --> :09.330 I settled down to watch a movie, finish my
snack with a happy little smile on my face. :09.330 --> :14.200
They never returned to the yard and my very
cool landlord finally got in touch with their :14.200 --> :53.359
landlord and they were evicted about a month later. | give me a good story on rProRevengeNEIGHBORSEATENMYBUGSRedditStories |
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trigger warning infidelity abandonment and self harm mom cheated on stepdad and
ruined my and my siblings lives I am a 16-year-old male I have two sisters our
biological father was never in our lives he left my mom when she was pregnant
with me came back 6 years later and said he wanted to make amends and that we
could be a happy family somehow my mom immediately started saying that she
loved him but he left after my mom got pregnant again then 2 years later he
came back I cried and begged my mom not to leted him into our lives because I
hated him well he said the same thing my mom also said she loved him and then he
left after she got pregnant again my mom was a waitress so the four of us lived
in a small one-bedroom apartment I was essentially another parent to my sisters
because Mom was always working sometimes we wouldn't eat breakfast or dinner
because we couldn't afford it other times I did not eat anything so that my
sisters could eat my mom met another man
a year after my youngest sister was born he is a really good man his wife and
daughter had had passed away in an accident a long time ago when he was in
his 20s he met my mom when he was ready to date again he is a really good man
and treated us like his own children and I consider him my father he was very
wealthy and own multiple businesses we eventually moved into his huge mansion
like house I also had a better school there we three siblings got our own
rooms and I got better clothes played video games for the first time in my
life and a bunch of other things he taught me things and helped me catch up
in school because I could not do well in the previous school he spent a lot of
time with the three of us my sisters eventually started calling him dad I
followed shortly after I remember him crying hugging us and telling us he
loved us when we called him dad for the first time they eventually got married
and dad asked me to be one of his groomsmen and of course I said yes while
my sister was my mom's bridesmaid mom stayed at home to take care of us as far
as I know they were very happy together they went on dates at least once every
two weeks kissed each other frequently and always told each other that they
loved each other he also knew about Mom's past realized she had issues and
got her into counseling I was really happy that my mom had finally found
someone who treated her well I was also very happy for myself and my siblings
and I really loved him he also said that he would pay for college for the three
of us my dream is to become a doctor and I never thought it would be possible
because it was so expensive so I was so freaking happy mom also told me she was
very lucky to have found him that she loves him and that she is very grateful
for how has made her and our lives better well last July my dad discovered
that my mom was having an affair with his best friend who was also the best
man at their wedding apparently the affair was going on for a long time I do
not know exactly how long mom cried and begged him to give her another chance he
didn't understandably he let us keep all the new things such as clothes for me
and toys for my sisters when I went to him crying and asking him why he was
leaving us he just hugged me and told me
about Mom's Affair he said the affair is too painful and that he cannot be in
this marriage anymore and then he said that he loved me and my sisters my
sisters do not know about the affair I do not think they will understand he got
a print up so Mom did not get anything that wasn't hers dad just had to pay the
rent for a new apartment until the divorce was finalized we stayed in a
decent apartment but after the divorce was done we moved into a much smaller
apartment I tried to be in contact with him but it does not seem like he wants a
relationship with me he has never responded to my messages I sent a final
letter to him last December thanking him for everything he did for me and my
sisters and saying that I loved him and would remember him forever so now we're
back in a one-bedroom apartment skipping meals and barely being able to afford
anything I'm sleeping on the floor now my sisters share a bed while my mom uses
another mom is a waitress again I've also taken part-time work at a grocery
store to help with money I just hate my mom so much right now I only took the
job to help my sisters I have also stopped talking to Mom recently she came
crying to me and told me that she was sorry for ruining everything and she
wanted me to talk to her I broke down and just said I don't understand why did
you cheat on him he was taking such good care of you and the three of us he was
also going to send us to college for the first time in my life I was happy you
have destroyed my life why do you always have to ruin everything you already did
that twice when you let my biological father back into my life I hate you I
never want to talk to you again she was crying a lot after I said that I am
going to admit that what I said was pretty rude but at that time I was just
so angry I just hate her so much right now I just wish she had ended a very
painful way possible these thoughts are the only things in my head it's making
me go insane and I know it's not normal I read online that therapy would be
useful but we can't even afford food on most days so we don't have insurance all
I can think about is how she ruined everything he didn't even ask for much
Mom was living such a luxurious life and was just at home taking care of her own
bi logical children I just miss him so much even my sisters keep asking when
they are going back home or when they'll see dad again they've also started
crying and asking for Dad a lot of times
this past year I just don't know what to do anymore I am so frustrated and just
angry at everything I wish I could run from here but if I did who would take
care of my siblings that stupid mother can't do sht I guess I'm here because I
need some help I don't really know what to do some days I'm just so tired and
don't want to do anything other days I just wish I had on live and all of this
had ended thank you relevant comments mixed panda bear the feelings you have
towards your mom are totally justified she's selfish and self-destructive the
only person you and your sisters can rely on is you don't ever give up on
your dream to be a doctor try to work hard in school to get a scholarship to a
college to make that happen you still have two years to do so try to talk to a
counselor about your situation maybe there are food programs where you can
get free food life is hard again for you and that sucks don't let it discourage
you from getting ahead in life use this to fight for a better future for
yourself be a good example for your sisters when you're able to cut your mom
out of your life do so and if you ever want to talk you can always send me a
message op I do pretty well in school I am one of the best students in my school
my plan is to take some extra courses and then get a job and help my sisters
get to College becoming a doctor is pretty much impossible now one sister
wants to become a doctor and the other wants to become a lawyer so I plan to
pay for their education I can't do that if I have a bunch of debt and Loans sh
atie where has the best friend gone the one your mother cheated with op the best
friend is married and he and his wife have four kids and are working on things
he stopped contact when things blew up volence despair oh yes wreck a whole
family and slink away like nothing happened classic reach out to his wife
edit on second thought it might not be your place to do that I hope your
stepdad does OP P his wife knows she told my stepdad my cabbages if it makes
you feel any better I've never met your mom and I hate her too your hate is
Justified and she just has to learn to live with the consequences of her
selfish behavior also call CPS children should not be missing meals op I have a
few friends who are in the foster care system none of them have ever seen their
siblings since then I do not want that own paleontologist 4008 hem reading that
your mother is capable of these I wonder if the three of you are full-blooded
siblings and could be the reason your BofA runs away op I do not know I
believe that he is my biological father and my legal father at least my mom says
that my sisters and I also look alike update my mom committed self harm
because of me hello everybody about 2 weeks ago I found my mom and alive in
our house she had sent my siblings to their friend's house and then hung
herself she really changed after she got divorced from my stepdad after she
cheated on him my mom and I didn't talk a lot after that one of the last things
I told told her was that I hated her and asked her why she ruined my and my
sister's lives I wish I didn't say that maybe she would have been alive if I had
supported her I have had no contact with my stepfather since the divorce my
sisters and I live with my mom's sister and her husband now we never met them
before this and even my mom never had contact with them but they are the only
family that could be found and they agreed to let us live with them my
siblings and I don't like living here both of them are constantly shouting at
each other and at us we're just so uncomfortable here I don't think they
can afford food for all of us I have a job at a grocery store so I mostly buy
food for my siblings my boss is also very nice and allows me to take home
some extra things for free I really miss
my mom my sisters are also always crying for her she had her flaws but I still
love her she's my mom the last thing I told her was that I hated her I just
wish that I told her that I loved her and supported and helped her then she
would have been alive today what I told her tipped her over the edge I can't do
any of this anymore I just just don't know anything anymore relevant comment
significant week 744 it is not your fault children and teens say things to
their parents they don't mean usually you get the chance to apologize and move
on you didn't take the time to forgive yourself forgive your mother you've been
Delta htty hand see what blessings you can find amidst the rubble and hold on
to them keep talking about it the self harm Prevention Hotline may offer some
perspective | give me a good story on MomCheatedOnStepDadRuinedAndMySiblingsLives |
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:06.280 --> :11.480 AITA for walking out of the bridal salon
when I found out my friends were making
:11.480 --> :13.160 fun of me behind my back?
Necessary-Wall-6446 :13.160 --> :18.080
I have two friends: Gaby and Shelly. All of
us are 23, if that matters. We were roommates
:18.080 --> :22.520 in college and stayed in the same city after
graduation. While the three of us are close,
:22.520 --> :26.920
I’ve always known that Gaby and Shelly are the
closest. They have a really sweet friendship. :26.920 --> :31.600
Shelly is getting married. Gaby is the maid of
honor and I’m one of the bridesmaids. Over the
:31.600 --> :36.200
weekend, I went with Shelly so she could look
at wedding dresses. Gaby was supposed to come
:36.200 --> :40.760
with us but got called into work last minute.
I helped Shelly pick out some dresses then
:40.760 --> :45.040 she went with the consultant to try them on.
Shelly asked that I take pictures and videos
:45.040 --> :49.560 on her phone to send to her mom and Gaby. I
was getting the camera ready when a text from
:49.560 --> :54.600
Gaby came through. I didn’t mean to click on it
and was instantly going to click back out when I
:54.600 --> :00.000
saw one of my Instagram pictures in their private
chat from earlier that morning. Both were making
:00.000 --> :05.880
fun of me for the face I was making and my outfit
choice. It didn’t appear to be very good nature. :05.880 --> :09.840
I admit, curiosity got the best
of me so I searched my name in the :09.840 --> :15.600
chat. I found multiple pictures that I, my
boyfriend or my mom have posted of myself,
:15.600 --> :21.760 absolutely ripping them to shreds. Ranging
from selfies to posed shots to even a few
:21.760 --> :26.160 baby pictures. They’d also make fun of me
in general in terms of the way I talked,
:26.160 --> :31.160 wore my hair and the way I ate. This went
back as far as I could tell, at least a year. :31.160 --> :36.560
My heart broke. It all felt so juvenile
and high school. While we all joke around,
:36.560 --> :40.560 I would never do this to them nor have they
ever even tried to instigate these types of
:40.560 --> :45.920 conversations with me about the other one
on one. I was in tears. As someone who was
:45.920 --> :49.120 bullied all through middle and high
school, it just brought me back to a :49.120 --> :53.400
horrible place. I put the phone in Shelly’s
purse and brought it to another employee,
:53.400 --> :57.800 telling her to tell Shelly that I had
to go. I drove home and had a long cry. :57.800 --> :03.280
Shelly texted me by the time I made it home asking
where I went. I said I was going home and we could
:03.280 --> :08.600
talk later. When she did call a few hours later,
she was understandably confused and hurt that I
:08.600 --> :13.040
left. I told her what I found, explaining that
I only looked further because of the initial
:13.040 --> :18.640
text I accidentally saw. She went off on me for
looking through her private texts and said those
:18.640 --> :23.080 were none of my business. She also told me I
shouldn’t have left the store without saying
:23.080 --> :28.440
anything. I said I didn’t want to make a scene
but also knew I couldn’t fake being happy for her. :28.440 --> :34.000
Shelly told me the texts were “all in good fun”
and clearly she loves me because I’m going to
:34.000 --> :40.320
be her bridesmaid. She added that I’m only hurt
because I chose to read all those texts. Later on,
:40.320 --> :45.120 Gaby called to tell me that I invaded
Shelly’s privacy and hurt her by walking out. :45.120 --> :49.360
My boyfriend and mom think I did the right thing
by walking out. But obviously, they’re a little
:49.360 --> :55.000
biased. I just want some unbiased looks: was I
an jerk to look through the texts and then leave? :17.280 --> :17.760
Lendyman :17.760 --> :23.680
NTA. Searching her phone was maybe crossing
the line, but that line is far less important
:23.680 --> :29.320
than two supposed friends spending months making
fun of you behind your back. The all in good fun
:29.320 --> :33.320 excuse doesn't hold water because you were
not a party to it. You don't hide things
:33.320 --> :37.360 like that from people unless you're aware of
the fallout that would happen if you didn't. :37.360 --> :41.400
I can guarantee you that the vast majority of
the people who will comment on this thread would
:41.400 --> :47.560
never make fun of their friends to other friends
behind their back. This is mean girl behavior.
:47.560 --> :52.800
It's passive aggressive, it's mean spirited and
it's not how real friends treat their friends. :52.800 --> :56.520
They were making fun of you because they're
mean and not very nice people. And they hid
:56.520 --> :59.840 it from you because they are mean
and not very nice people. She made :59.840 --> :05.080
excuses and blamed you for the situation because
she is mean and not a very nice person. You should
:05.080 --> :09.280 drop them both like a hot potato because
they're mean and not very nice people. :09.280 --> :13.880
My only caveat here is if you engage in
similar behavior with either of them, :13.880 --> :19.240
having private chats and making fun of other friends. If you do, then ESH.
:19.240 --> :24.880 Edit: OP confirms that they do not engage
in that behavior. So my initial NTA stands. :25.400 --> :26.120
Necessary-Wall-6446 :26.120 --> :31.080
I have never had similar conversations with them
and never even would. We occasionally joke around
:31.080 --> :35.480 but I’ve only ever done it with both of them
right there. Would never behind their back. :41.560 --> :51.060
AITA for offering my kids nanny more
money/hours so she won't work for my SIL? :51.060 --> :52.320
aitanannyraise My husband and I :52.320 --> :01.400
have 3 kids (10mo f, 4m, 10f). We currently
have a nanny, Isabelle (22f) 3 days a week. :01.400 --> :06.440
I have to say, Isabelle is freaking
amazing. She drives on field trips, :06.440 --> :11.800
she does homework with the kids, she handles play
dates, she's the one adult my 10 year old likes,
:11.800 --> :16.720 she's not dependent on screens, does art
projects with the kids, she speaks 10 year old,
:16.720 --> :21.280 and she's even teaching them how to cook and
bake. They made mini quiches a few weeks ago. :21.280 --> :25.000
My oldest is doing state testing right
now and wanted a fun activity with her :25.000 --> :29.760
friends. Isabelle suggested a spa day
and my daughter loved it. I set up a :29.760 --> :33.400
day for my 4 year old to go home with
his grandparents and let Isabelle turn :33.400 --> :37.840
our living room into a spa. She picked
up my daughter, my niece, and 2 friends,
:37.840 --> :42.840
brought them to our house, and did their hair and
nails while they laid back and did face masks. :42.840 --> :48.320
I guess my niece was telling her mom how cool
Isabelle is because my SIL texted Isabelle
:48.320 --> :54.080 offering her a nanny position 4 days a week,
matching whatever I pay her but for only 1 kid.
:54.080 --> :57.840
Isabelle showed me the text and told me that she
will have to think about it because the extra
:57.840 --> :03.440
money would be nice. I told her if she promised
to stay, next year I'd have her at 5 days a week
:03.440 --> :08.960 with a $5 per hour raise. Isabelle turned
my SIL down saying she had received a better
:08.960 --> :13.400 offer and now she's telling my husband's
family that I stole a nanny from her. :13.400 --> :17.640
They're upset that I outbid my SIL
and gave Isabelle extra money and :17.640 --> :22.880
hours just so my SIL wouldn't get her.
My husband said it was petty. AITA for :22.880 --> :43.240
offering Isabelle a raise and more hours so she doesn't work for my SIL?
:49.120 --> :50.040 LaurelCrash :50.680 --> :57.560
NTA. Every parent knows that a good babysitter or
nanny is worth their weight in gold. Your SIL is
:57.560 --> :02.560
T A H for trying to poach your nanny, and you
fighting to keep her should be expected. It’s
:02.560 --> :08.080
rich that your SIL is accusing you of stealing a
nanny when she tried to do the exact same thing.
:08.080 --> :14.280
ETA just make sure you follow through with the
promised raise etc. ETA2: and if your husband has
:14.280 --> :19.120
such an issue with it tell him he’s responsible
next time you need a new nanny/sitter. He can do
:19.120 --> :24.360
all the interviewing and contacting references
and background checks and negotiations for pay.
:24.360 --> :30.400
It’s not so easy as “find a new nanny”: your SIL
knows this and tried to circumvent the process. :31.280 --> :35.120
AITA for not forcing my child to eat blueberries? DeleteMeLater4321
:35.120 --> :40.320 Today my wife gave our 11 year old son some
blueberries. My son said that he rather not eat
:40.320 --> :46.040
them because he doesn't really like blueberries.
My wife replied "but these are really good" so
:46.040 --> :51.520
my son hesitantly tried one blueberry and replied
"Thx, but I still don't like them and rather not
:51.520 --> :56.320
eat the rest". I thought that was the end of it
and went to the store to get groceries for diner. :56.320 --> :01.560
When i came back my son was crying at the table
because he was forced to eat the remaining three
:01.560 --> :06.560 blueberries. I asked my wife "why is he
crying?" and she explained that he had :06.560 --> :10.840
to eat the blueberries because it is healthy.
Thinking it was just about eating a piece of
:10.840 --> :15.000 fruit i told my son that he didn't have to
eat the blueberries but he did have to eat
:15.000 --> :20.760
another piece of fruit instead like an apple or
three strawberries or something similar. My son
:20.760 --> :26.360
immediatly agreed, spat out the blueberries (in
the garbage can) and started eating an apple. :26.360 --> :31.400
This, much to my wives dismay. She said i
overruled her authority and that my son will
:31.400 --> :37.240
never learn to eat healthy. My reply was that it
is not ok to force a child (or any other person)
:37.240 --> :41.560 to eat something they don't like (especially
after they tasted it). How would she feel if
:41.560 --> :46.280
I forced her to eat something she doens't like?
Why is it ok for her to not eat certain foods
:46.280 --> :51.200
but not for our son? He likes enough vegetables
and fruit in order to get a balanced diet so I
:51.200 --> :55.760
think we should meet him halfway and not focus
on forcing him to eat stuff we know he doesn't
:55.760 --> :00.520
like (and he is not really a fussy eater so we
have plenty of healthy stuff to choose from). :00.520 --> :06.040
The situation escalated and at one point my
son even said "i'll just eat the blueberries",
:06.040 --> :10.480 in an attempt to de-escalate our argument
(after which he took three blueberries from
:10.480 --> :15.560 the fridge and swallowing them almost whole
just to get it over with). Sadly for him,
:15.560 --> :20.680
it didn't really work because we were already to
far into the argument (although i did thank him
:20.680 --> :24.960 afterwards for trying and apoligized
for not being able to let it slide). :24.960 --> :28.760
Am i the jerk because I didn't force my
son to eat the blueberries and allowed :28.760 --> :31.720
him to take another piece of fruit he does like? :56.400 --> :57.920
dryadduinath :57.920 --> :02.680
congrats to your wife for working so hard to
mess up your child’s relationship with food,
:02.680 --> :07.040 and also starting an argument right in front
of him so he would feel wretched and guilty
:07.040 --> :12.160 over something that wasn’t his fault. ffs,
he even tried the blueberries. he’s allowed
:12.160 --> :18.880
to not like things, as any human being is. nta,
keep an eye on how she treats him going forward,
:18.880 --> :23.200
especially when it comes to food. this incident
is likely to have him doing things he doesn’t
:23.200 --> :27.080 want to do to reduce friction at home.
and the next time she starts up with you
:27.080 --> :31.440 in front of him? take it elsewhere. he
doesn’t need to see or hear that crap. :32.280 --> :37.260
AITA for threatening to kick out my niece
after she hacked my daughter’s Roblox account?
:37.260 --> :41.400 AITArobloxhacker
My (38F) daughter (13F) has been :41.400 --> :46.280
playing this game called Roblox since lockdown
first started as a way of playing with her friends
:46.280 --> :51.200
virtually as well as curing her boredom. She was
obsessed with this Roblox game that’s set in a
:51.200 --> :55.800
school because she missed her friends so much
and it allowed her to stay connected with them.
:55.800 --> :01.000
Her interest in video games has developed into an
interest into technology - she’s by far at the top
:01.000 --> :05.720
of her IT class and has even started learning
how to code in order to make her own game. :05.720 --> :11.320
My sister (34F) and niece (10F) have
recently had to move in with us after :11.320 --> :14.680
my sister discovered that her husband
was having an affair. They’re staying :14.680 --> :18.640
at my house for the time being while she
saves up money for a place of their own. :18.640 --> :23.280
My niece and daughter usually get along, and
they both bond over their interest in Roblox.
:23.280 --> :28.840
Last week, my daughter was completely distraught
and crying nonstop. She said that she saw her
:28.840 --> :33.920 cousin playing on a Roblox game and realised
her cousin’s avatar had a lot more items than
:33.920 --> :39.000
usual. She decided to join her, only to realise
that her account had been hacked and she’d lost
:39.000 --> :46.360
nearly every item she had on her favourite Roblox
game. She’d lost 800K of the in-game currency and
:46.360 --> :52.280
nearly her entire inventory, which she claimed was
worth over 5 million of the in-game currency. She
:52.280 --> :57.320
had spent the last four years saving up for those
items and everything was gone just like that. :57.320 --> :02.040
My daughter began accusing my niece of hacking
her account. My niece denied it at first,
:02.040 --> :05.920 but quickly broke under pressure and
admitted everything. The previous day, :05.920 --> :09.640
they had been playing the game together when
I called them down to dinner. My niece has
:09.640 --> :14.000 only been playing for a few months and I
suppose she would be considered a ‘noob’.
:14.000 --> :18.000 She begged my daughter to give her some
of her items, and my daughter refused, :18.000 --> :22.880
saying that she should earn the items by herself.
When my daughter came down, my niece decided to
:22.880 --> :28.320 stay behind for a minute to transfer all
of my daughter’s items into her account. :28.320 --> :33.880
I tried to mediate the situation, but my sister is
refusing to co-operate. She told me that it’s only
:33.880 --> :39.240 a game, it’s not like my daughter spent real
money on it. I attempted to explain just how
:39.240 --> :43.360
much this game means to my daughter, to which
my sister said that my daughter should count
:43.360 --> :48.920
herself lucky that her biggest problem is a bunch
of pixels on a screen. She said my daughter was a
:48.920 --> :54.800
teenager now and was too old to be acting this
immature over a game. My niece refuses to give
:54.800 --> :59.280 my niece her stuff back and says it’s unfair
that my daughter gets to have everything she
:59.280 --> :04.640 wants both in real life and online. I told
my sister and niece that both of them were
:04.640 --> :09.920 acting like ungrateful brats considering how
I was letting them stay in my home rent free. :09.920 --> :14.200
Today, I gave her an ultimatum: if my
niece doesn’t return everything she :14.200 --> :18.440
hacked from my daughter, they would both
have one week to leave. I told her that
:18.440 --> :24.320 I refuse to let anyone disrespect
my daughter under my roof. AITA? :02.280 --> :03.760 bamf1701
:04.280 --> :09.320 NTA. I am getting so tired of people telling
other people that they are too old to love the
:09.320 --> :14.480
things they love. Let people enjoy the things they
want to and enjoy life. It doesn't matter if your
:14.480 --> :20.320
daughter is too old for the game or if she didn't
spend any real money on the items - what matters
:20.320 --> :24.640
is that your niece stole from your daughter and
your sister wants to give her no repercussions
:24.640 --> :29.200
for this action. How much longer until your niece
decides that it is not fair that your daughter
:29.200 --> :33.920
has something else that she doesn't have and takes
it from you, or that you have something that she
:33.920 --> :39.760
doesn't and takes that? Theft is theft, and if
your sister doesn't put a stop to it now, it can
:39.760 --> :45.440
start a slippery slope, especially since that your
niece has seen that she has her mother's approval. :45.440 --> :50.000
Yes, your niece has been given a raw
deal, but that is no excuse to steal, :50.000 --> :54.920
especially from someone who not only had nothing
to do with why she has this bad situation,
:54.920 --> :59.200 but who was sharing her home to try to help
her out. Both your niece and your sister
:59.200 --> :02.320 has taken your hospitality and broken your trust.
:03.200 --> :08.080 AITA for refusing to pay for birthday
presents for my son that he can only use
:08.080 --> :09.800 at my ex-wife's place? Fantastic-Pension734
:09.800 --> :18.000 I am a 52m recently separated from my ex
(49f) of 18 yrs. We share custody (week on,
:18.000 --> :23.600 week off) with our 2 children, a 13 yr
old daughter and soon-to-be 15 yr old son. :23.600 --> :29.720
The relationship ended mostly amicably, noone
cheated on each other, as far as I know. Just
:29.720 --> :34.920 drifted apart, 'friend-zoned'. When we split
we agreed that I would stay in our old 4-bdrm
:34.920 --> :39.320
family home for a few more years, while our kids
were still at high school (we lived right next
:39.320 --> :44.200
door to my son’s high school). I would continue
to pay down our mortgage (on my own) and also
:44.200 --> :48.760 pay for any additional renovations (on my
own) that we still have left to complete,
:48.760 --> :53.760 since buying the place 4 yrs ago. When the
time comes to sell she will get her 50%. :53.760 --> :59.440
She agreed to move out into her own 3-bdrm rental
out by the beach. I am paying her child support,
:59.440 --> :02.760 as she only earns about 1/3 of what
I do in her part time (30hrs/wk) :03.680 --> :07.920
job. The rest of her income comes from
Govt social support. We have a joint :07.920 --> :12.040
bank account where we both put money into to cover the kids general needs.
:12.040 --> :17.760
This week is my son's 15th birthday, he's big
into gaming, basketball and fishing. When he
:17.760 --> :23.680
moves between our two places he's brings his Xbox
with him. I have paid for two computer monitors,
:23.680 --> :28.040 one at each property, just so he can
do this easily and be happy. He has a :28.040 --> :32.191
home-made basketball hoop (that he helped me
build & paint for him when he was a young 10
:32.191 --> :37.640
year old lad) mounted on the outside of my house
for him to practice, whenever he stays with me. :37.640 --> :43.560
My ex emailed me to ask me what I think 'we'
should get him for his birthday, i.e. share
:43.560 --> :49.640 costs for. She listed two things, firstly a
free-standing basketball hoop, and a gaming
:49.640 --> :56.760
chair (all up around $1000 total), both to be
used only at her place, for his enjoyment there. :56.760 --> :00.600
I've refused to help her buy these
particular options, I'd prefer it :00.600 --> :04.000
if we spent our money on something that
he'll enjoy getting the benefits from :04.000 --> :09.720
wherever he may be. Like new clothes, a
new device, a new bike, fishing gear etc,
:09.720 --> :14.920 or a shared family experience with both of
us present. I thought that was reasonable. :14.920 --> :19.720
My ex-wife thinks I'm being a jerk with this
stance, for not agreeing to pay anything for
:19.720 --> :24.520 these particular presents, to help furnish
her house or his bedroom there. She's :24.520 --> :29.160
suggesting that it's not fair that he can
play basketball at my place and not hers,
:29.160 --> :32.600 or that he feels more comfortable
playing video games at my place, :32.600 --> :38.760
and not hers. She’s now accusing me of starting to
play some kind petty 'tit-for-tat' game with her,
:38.760 --> :43.480 by ‘not fairly contributing enough towards
my son's happiness on his birthday’. :43.480 --> :48.160
My fear is that I am indeed being
unnecessarily picky with this battle, :48.160 --> :51.760
being too selfish, and denying her
the right to be able to make her :51.760 --> :55.920
home as happy or as comfortable as mine, for my son to live in.
:24.040 --> :24.360 AITA? :31.440 --> :31.813 Kami_Sang
:43.640 --> :50.000 NTA - first up he's 15 - you don't need "we"
presents. Secondly, it's convenient that she
:50.000 --> :54.600
wants you to pay for something he already has
at your house to be installed at her home and
:54.600 --> :00.240
a second gift for her space. One of the things I
learnt is that the kids will not remember or care
:00.240 --> :06.040
who paid for what but re money they will remember
which parent they had experiences with and which
:06.040 --> :10.800
parent made their home a comforting place for
them. Don't invest in your ex's space (unless
:10.800 --> :15.480
younthink it really serves your son over something
you can do with him or he can have at your home).
:15.480 --> :20.200
As long as you are fairly paying child support
it's on her to provide as well. You have no
:20.200 --> :26.480
duty to make anything equal. That being said buy
your son something you think he will truly enjoy. :26.480 --> :32.760
AITA for making my sister-in-law pay for
a professional cleaning service after she
:32.760 --> :34.160 cooked in my kitchen? Guilty_Discount_5535
:34.160 --> :39.160
Last week, I invited my sister-in-law, who loves
cooking, to stay with us. She offered to cook
:39.160 --> :45.480
dinner as a way to show her gratitude. However, I
have a meticulously organized and spotless kitchen
:45.480 --> :51.120
due to my severe anxiety around mess and disorder,
something that my family is well aware of. :51.120 --> :54.520
Despite this, after she cooked, the
kitchen was left in what I would :54.520 --> :59.920
consider a disastrous state—spills on
the counter, pots not cleaned properly,
:59.920 --> :06.200
and utensils misplaced. It took me hours just to
calm down after seeing the mess. The next day,
:06.200 --> :09.880 I calmly explained how distressed it made
me feel and asked if she could cover the
:09.880 --> :14.440 cost of a professional cleaning service
to restore it to its original condition. :14.440 --> :19.320
She was shocked and upset by my request, arguing
that she had already contributed by buying
:19.320 --> :24.360
groceries and spending her evening cooking for us.
My husband thinks I was too harsh and should have
:24.360 --> :29.720
cleaned it myself or let it go this time. This
has caused tension between us and his sister. :29.720 --> :33.600
So Reddit, AITA for insisting
she pays for the cleaning service :33.600 --> :36.280
knowing my issues with anxiety and cleanliness? :04.240 --> :05.520
curious_jess :05.520 --> :09.520
YTA Knowing your issues with anxiety
and cleanliness, you need to take :09.520 --> :13.800
steps to manage those issues. Like
booking an extra therapy session, :13.800 --> :17.680
not letting people cook in your kitchen
if it's going to send you into a tailspin,
:17.680 --> :22.200
being clear about your expectations for how you
would like things to be cleaned up afterwards
:22.200 --> :26.440
or helping to clean up so that you can make sure
things get put away where you'd like them to be. :26.440 --> :31.800
If she cleaned up to a normal person's reasonable
standards, then this is your issue and you need to
:31.800 --> :37.120 own it and not ask her to pay for a cleaning
service. If you really feel you need that,
:37.120 --> :41.480 pay for it yourself, although I doubt
they would be up to your standards either. :41.480 --> :45.640
Thank her for dinner and maybe have her
cook for you at her place next time. :46.560 --> :52.120
AITA for telling my mom I won't pay
rent AND do chores to live with them? :52.120 --> :54.680
Sure-Lobster6553 Hello! I'm 24(f) and I
:54.680 --> :59.120
live with my parents currently. I'm doing this
to save money and they haven't charged me rent
:59.120 --> :04.800 until now. I've been basically "paying" rent
by doing the chores, mainly cleaning the house,
:04.800 --> :09.400 groceries shopping, managing their bills,
cooking their meals and taking care of my
:09.400 --> :16.200
5(f) cousin(due to some circumstances my parents
are currently her guardians) when I'm off work. :16.200 --> :19.920
This hasn't left me with that much free
time however it's been in fact helping :19.920 --> :23.480
me save money so I've been more than happy with this arrangement.
:23.480 --> :28.120 Recently however my parents have asked me to
start paying rent. I asked them if everything
:28.120 --> :32.920
was ok and if they're struggling but they told
that's not the case and they just feel like I
:32.920 --> :36.680 should contribute more since they've been
letting me stay with them for free after
:36.680 --> :41.200 finishing college. I'm not gonna lie I was
a bit bumped but the rent they wanted from
:41.200 --> :46.360 me was still a way better deal than anything
else i would find somewhere else so I accepted. :46.360 --> :50.640
A few hours ago however my mom confronted
me about how I've been slacking off on my
:50.640 --> :55.760 chores after I told her I can't take care of
my cousin since I had plans with some friends. :55.760 --> :00.640
She said they tried to be understanding
but this can't keep going on and I asked
:00.640 --> :05.640
her what she meant. Since the deal was that me
doing chores was going to be how I pay rent,
:05.640 --> :11.400
now that I'm actually paying rent I'll stop doing
them and I thought that was obvious. She got mad,
:11.400 --> :15.520 called me ungrateful and spoiled. I
told her she can't expect me to pay :15.520 --> :20.680
rent AND all do all these chores that left me
with no free time and that I'd be better off
:20.680 --> :25.200 if I just found my own place even if it
was going to cost me more at this point. :25.200 --> :29.880
She got angry once more because I'd rather
"give money to some stranger than your own
:29.880 --> :35.760
family" and said she can't believe how big of
an AH I am and to just wait until my dad hears
:35.760 --> :40.720
about it. He's gonna be back in a few hours and
honestly I've been thinking about our fight,
:40.720 --> :45.806
if you can even call it that, and I'm wondering
if I really am entitled for how I feel? :45.806 --> :45.840
Apologies for any mistakes/errors. :45.840 --> :50.080
EDIT: thank you everyone for your input. i
think the majority of you are right when it
:50.080 --> :55.160
comes to the moving out thing. This is probably
the only solution regardless of the outcome of
:55.160 --> :00.000 our hopefully peaceful family discussion.
Thank you for the advice and suggestions :) :00.000 --> :01.720
EDIT 2: UPDATE :01.720 --> :04.520
Some of you have been asking for an
update once I have the talk with my :04.520 --> :08.600
parents so here it is. But first of all I'd like to clear up some things.
:08.600 --> :13.080 English is not my first language and
I suppose the use of the word "chores" :13.080 --> :18.320
confused some people. By chores I don't mean
just washing the dishes and taking out the trash. :18.320 --> :21.320
A lot of you also assumed that just
because I don't think it's fair I :21.320 --> :25.720
continue cleaning their mess this means
I suddenly want them to be my maid and :25.720 --> :29.560
cook and do everything for me. How y'all
reached that conclusion instead of the :29.560 --> :35.160
sane one where I'd continue doing stuff
for myself is beyond me but anyways. No,
:35.160 --> :40.640
I do not expect them to clean after me or cook
my food or whatever, I still do those things. :40.640 --> :44.160
They do not support me financially
and haven't done so since I finished :44.160 --> :48.080
college 2 years ago. I pay 1 third
of the bills with my own money, :48.080 --> :52.120
I buy my own groceries, whatever
shared necessities( toilet paper, :52.120 --> :58.360
cleaning products etc) I also contribute to.
If I want/need something I buy it myself. :58.360 --> :01.280
The reason I'm still living with
them is literally the beginning of :01.280 --> :05.480
the first sentence idk how so many of
you could have just skipped that part. :05.480 --> :09.960
Yes I am aware that once I move out I'll
have to both pay rent and do chores, :09.960 --> :13.880
I've lived with roommates before and I know
I'd have to share chores with them as well
:13.880 --> :17.520 and tbh I preferred that compared
to what my parents expected of me. :17.520 --> :22.760
Now onto the update. My dad came home last night
a few hours after I've made that post and he told
:22.760 --> :27.240 me mom informed him about our fight but he's
tired and we'll talk about it in the morning. I
:27.240 --> :32.880
was quite anxious and could barely sleep ngl.
Well the morning came and we had the talk. :32.880 --> :36.920
My dad told me that he's discussed things
with mom and he does kinda understand why
:36.920 --> :40.960 I'd be unhappy with our new arrangement but
that he still considers they're giving me
:40.960 --> :47.040
an amazing deal. I asked, as some suggested in
the comments, if they're struggling financially
:47.040 --> :51.880
which he denied. Then I asked if they just want
me to move out and don't know how to tell me.
:51.880 --> :57.640
Once again he denied that and both of them got
slightly offended(?) that I'd even suggest that. :57.640 --> :03.000
So yeah, they haven't given me an exact reason for
their change of heart. They just think it's still
:03.000 --> :07.760
a fair deal even with the added rent. I told them
that I get it's their house and they can do what
:07.760 --> :13.320
they want but personally I don't find it fair so
I'll be trying to move out as soon as possible. :13.320 --> :17.680
They didn't quite like that either. 😅 My mom
brought up once more the fact that I'd rather
:17.680 --> :22.880 make a stranger rich than contribute to
our household which made me kinda mad :22.880 --> :26.760
because I think I've done my fair share
of contributing to the household so far. :26.760 --> :30.400
She started tearing up a bit and went
on a rant about how she can't believe :30.400 --> :34.760
her only child would do this to her
and to at least think of my cousin. :34.760 --> :38.360
About how my cousin loves me and abandoning her would destroy her.
:38.360 --> :41.760 My father then told me he thinks I'm
irrational and that he'll allow me :41.760 --> :46.960
to calm down and rethink my decision when I'm
less agitated, I was the calmest out of the 3
:46.960 --> :50.560 of us lol, because I'll see that they're
right once I've thought things through. :50.560 --> :55.360
So yeah, that's the update. I already started
searching for a place and I think I'll just
:55.360 --> :01.040 let them think I've accepted their new terms
until I can find anything so wish me luck. :29.280 --> :30.320
redpenraccoon :30.840 --> :36.080
NTA. They want you to pay THEM on top of
you doing all of their housework??? When
:36.080 --> :41.280 you have a job? When you said chores I was
expecting you to say "doing the dishes" or
:41.280 --> :47.160
"taking out the trash" or "cleaning the kitchen
sometimes"... But you're their cook, their maid,
:47.160 --> :51.520 their personal shopper, their childcare,
their accountant... do they pay you for
:51.520 --> :55.800 any of that? Your parents are guilt tripping
you. You're not an jerk; you're a human being
:55.800 --> :01.320 with limits. If I were you, I'd save up as
much money as possible and move out ASAP. :01.320 --> :02.480
Alarmed_Jellyfish555 :04.760 --> :10.320
Exactly! This is so far beyond "chores"
that OP was already being taken advantage
:10.320 --> :13.200
of when she was living there at no cost! Now she's
:13.200 --> :17.040 supposed to pay for the privilege of
being completely taken advantage of? :17.040 --> :20.440
Time to get the heck out of there. A
second job to cover the difference in :20.440 --> :24.600
rent is still going to be a far better
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rooms one bedroom is Star Wars theme so last night when we were looking at
pictures of it I was joking around and said we should sleep in that room and
role play I'd dress up as a Jedi and save her and we'd make love to be funny
of course she laughed and replied that if I did that then she'd leave and go
straight over to Mike M's house suggesting she would leave me for a guy
she met through work it took me back and hurt a little for background my wife is
the hottest and sweetest person on the planet she works in interior decor and
last fall she met a man named Mike m he is a decent looking divorced guy about
our age who recently sold his company so he is presumably wealthy she did some
Decor work for him and while usually she has a team with her this job was just
her on a Saturday and she ended up staying at his place until about 9 p.m.
at night apparently he offered her a tour of his fancy house and drinks she
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:00.220 --> :03.980 This may be a long one, just happened this
morning and I am livid and still trying to :03.980 --> :05.799
calm down. Obligatory formatting apology- I'm on mobile.
:05.799 --> :09.450 TLDR: My boyfriend's entitled dad used his
wife's copy (we never gave him one) to enter :09.450 --> :13.840
our home and then pound on our locked bedroom
door this morning because he was having a :13.840 --> :14.840
tech issue, then took issue with me being upset about it.
:14.840 --> :17.800 DISCLAIMER: I am not advocating for violence,
I am pointing out how lucky my boyfriend's :17.800 --> :23.289
dad is that I don't currently own a firearm,
because I genuinely thought we were experiencing :23.289 --> :24.650
a home invasion. :24.650 --> :28.579
Two things that are important to know about
me- I am hard of hearing, I am a survivor :28.579 --> :30.980
of a violent crime and subsequent stalking. :30.980 --> :36.840
Context: My boyfriend 28M [BF] and his folks
[ late 60s] own a coffee shop, but because :36.840 --> :41.350
his dad [ED] doesn't want to A. Listen to
anyone else, B. Learn how to run a business :41.350 --> :47.030
correctly or C. Pay his son his draw - BF
is largely uninvolved and has talked about :47.030 --> :51.250
being bought out. He is still the administrator
on the point of sale system though, because :51.250 --> :55.910
his dad has no desire to actually learn how
it works or go through the process to take :55.910 --> :00.260
over the account. The coffee shop drama could
be a whole series of posts about how they :00.260 --> :02.750
did us dirty, perhaps another time. :02.750 --> :08.480
We got to bed really late ( ok... early...
it was 4:30 am) which normally wouldn't be :08.480 --> :13.300
an issue, as my BF was scheduled for a late
shift, and I'm currently taking time off work :13.300 --> :18.230
to figure out a medical issue. BF turns off
his phone volume when he goes to bed, and :18.230 --> :23.220
this is well known to everyone close to us.
He is notoriously hard to get ahold of in :23.220 --> :28.280
the mornings. I only hear my phone if it is
right under my pillow and the volume and vibration :28.280 --> :29.280
is up. :29.280 --> :35.260
At 6:25 am I started receiving the following
texts from BF's mom , which I do not hear :35.260 --> :38.830
as I am PTFO. :38.830 --> :44.840
6:25 am : Sorry to bother you. I need BF to call ED asap. His phone is off.
:44.840 --> :50.110 7:35 am: ED is going to come wake BF unless
he calls us. :50.110 --> :55.860
Just before 8:30 the dogs start barking as
someone tried to open the locked bedroom door. :55.860 --> :01.180
I wake up panicked, as whoever it is starts
banging on the door. It then stops for a few :01.180 --> :07.121
moments then starts again. No one has said
anything at this point, not Me, Not BF, Not :07.121 --> :12.020
the intruder. I get up and go to the closet
for the baseball bat, and start kicking myself :12.020 --> :16.290
for thinking we would not need a gun when BF had brought it up in the past.
:16.290 --> :21.320 We open the bedroom door to find ED at the
end of the hall. He starts yelling about needing :21.320 --> :27.709
the code for the two factor authentication
for the register. I start yelling at ED and :27.709 --> :32.520
BF , who is just as angry as I am, has me
go back into the bedroom ( I put my hearing :32.520 --> :37.380
aids in at this point.) ED claims to have
been knocking on our front door, but neither :37.380 --> :42.230
dog heard him. BF gives him the code, tries
to explain to him that coming into our house :42.230 --> :48.590
unannounced is a huge violation of trust and
boundaries ( not the first major issue). ED :48.590 --> :53.500
then yells about needing to get the register
working. BF kicks him out, and we think that's :53.500 --> :54.500
the end of it. :54.500 --> :57.950
Not 2 minutes later, I receive another text from M :57.950 --> :03.650
8:24am: Please tell BF to send the new code. We still can't get in.
:03.650 --> :08.980 Then we hear the clanging of the metal gate
and more pounding on the front door. We go :08.980 --> :13.370
answer it, and ED is yelling about needing
the new code, and he has a copy of our key :13.370 --> :18.970
in hand. He clearly was going to let himself
back in. I lost it at this point and yelled, :18.970 --> :23.580
" You can't just let yourself into our house,
What the f*** is wrong with you?" He gave :23.580 --> :29.020
me more BS about needing to get the register
working. I screamed, " My ability to be safe :29.020 --> :32.480
in my own home is more important than your shop." :32.480 --> :37.551
He took particular offense to this yelling
back at me, " SO YOU SEE ME AS A THREAT? AM :37.551 --> :39.010
I A THREAT TO YOU?!" :39.010 --> :45.501
I try explaining that I've had my home broken
into before. His response, "NOT BY ME!" Over :45.501 --> :51.200
and over then continues yelling about the
shop. I demand the emergency key back, and :51.200 --> :56.629
after yelling a bit more he shoves it at me.
BF had enough and yells at me to go back to :56.629 --> :01.770
the bedroom, he will handle it. I do, because
at this point I am on the edge of a panic :01.770 --> :06.710
attack. Through the closed bedroom door I
hear more yelling and after a bit the door :06.710 --> :07.710
slammed. :07.710 --> :14.050
BF called his mom, saying that ED needed to
apologize and that this behavior wasn't acceptable.
:14.050 --> :20.530 She asked him, "what does he need to apologize
for?" BF tells her and she is mortified. I :20.530 --> :21.530
then get this text from her- :21.530 --> :28.530
9:08am: I'm sorry to have bothered you so
much today and sorry ED made such a scene. :28.530 --> :33.370
I have not responded. This man clearly doesn't
understand boundaries, doesn't think he needs :33.370 --> :38.530
to be held accountable for anything, and felt
entitled to just barge into our house and :38.530 --> :44.560
demand his son fix a tech issue. And for the
record, yes, I do in fact see him as a threat :44.560 --> :50.960
now. Both of BFs parents know about my severe
PTSD. We know he won't apologize, because :50.960 --> :56.550
he genuinely doesn't see a problem with his
behavior. It's time for some serious boundaries :56.550 --> :07.560
and a :07.560 --> :26.120
security system. So this started for me maybe
4 yrs ago, but I think she's been doing this :26.120 --> :31.870
for much longer and I still see this lady
as she never learns, and security is too effing :31.870 --> :32.870
slow. :32.870 --> :37.600 At a mall near my house there's a Mcdonalds
with a poor design flaw, it has an exit in :37.600 --> :43.400
the restaurant and not the typical mall exit.
So this lady is a food thief. Tbh I think :43.400 --> :47.840
food should be free and I can understand those
who struggle to buy food but this lady is :47.840 --> :53.940
the exact opposite. She pulls up in a nice
a** car and has like a Louis or Chanel handbag. :53.940 --> :59.419
She will slink in and kinda join the line.
In this Mcdicks you can see all the way to :59.419 --> :02.270
the back so you can see them preparing orders. :02.270 --> :04.169
How the thief picks her food :04.169 --> :09.630
This EP will sit there, and wait. No order,
no nothing. People in the mall are oblivious :09.630 --> :13.680
and won't come to the counter right away so
this lady has figured out the sweet spot. :13.680 --> :19.270
Aka how to get free food. She'll watch until
someone orders a kids meal and you can see :19.270 --> :24.830
the employee load it up and walk up "Hey I
got a *insert number here*" EP: "Yeppp that's :24.830 --> :29.949
me" and she'll show a blank piece of paper.
The Mcdicks employees aren't paid enough for :29.949 --> :35.580
this bs so they usually don't notice. Then
the fireworks start. She goes for the bag :35.580 --> :40.210
and once got away with it, then when the real
person came up the employee's look puzzled :40.210 --> :47.289
and the customer freaks out. And thus us customers
knew "S***** thief". *Jedi will remember this*. :47.289 --> :48.770
How she got caught... again. :48.770 --> :55.419
I was coming home from school, hungry af and
waiting for my food. No kids meal so idk why :55.419 --> :59.970
she decided to f*** with me. There's a lot
of food stealers in this mall but d***** I :59.970 --> :00.970
was hungry. :00.970 --> :06.560
I order and wait. She arrives and they don't
notice, my paranoid a** does. She waits and :06.560 --> :11.010
then they call my order. A hamburger with
a strawberry milkshake. As I'm pushing through :11.010 --> :15.620
the oblivious "I'm waiting for food but idk
about actually paying attention so I'll block :15.620 --> :17.870
up the way" people, she goes: :17.870 --> :21.030
EP: "Hi! Thanks my kid will love this!" :21.030 --> :26.380
Me: *finally* "No sorry there must be a mistake
maybe I'm wrong but this is my order, see :26.380 --> :28.870
this is my receipt" and I show it. :28.870 --> :30.380
EP looks nervous :30.380 --> :36.370
EP: "No your mistaken this is mine. I paid
for it already and I don't appreciate this". :36.370 --> :41.400
Employee: "Okay can I please see both your receipts? Maybe there's a mixup".
:41.400 --> :45.949 EP: *begins making up BS about how she can't
find "it"* :45.949 --> :54.590
Security: Rolls up "Is there a problem here?
*notices EP* Miss you can't be here your banned :54.590 --> :56.449
from the mall you need to leave" :56.449 --> :00.580
EP: "NOOOOooooOOO!! TH-THIS IS FOR MY KID! I PAID FOR IT!!"
:00.580 --> :05.889 I couldn't believe it like wtf lady. I had
the receipt, she didn't. She pulled out a :05.889 --> :09.650
small crusty looking receipt... it was for Walmart.
:09.650 --> :15.420 Security: "EP you know your not allowed in
here. This is you second warning now you can :15.420 --> :18.100
either leave or we'll call the police" :18.100 --> :23.830
EP stormed out, I got my crap and left at
the same time because I was DONE. She was :23.830 --> :29.199
tugging away a small kid into a nice a** car.
Even if she wasn't rich (though it was a very :29.199 --> :34.100
nice car) I don't understand why she couldn't
pay the 8 bucks for what I paid. Entitled :34.100 --> :40.370
people are so f***ing stupid and this was
tame too, but fishy. I call her an EP because :40.370 --> :45.670
she steals s*** "for her kid" but I think
a stealer like that would eat the s*** themselves :45.670 --> :51.319
and save nothing. I saw her today, though
she was kicked out right away which made me :51.319 --> :38.499
remember. Today I unlocked an old memory from when I was between 15 ~ 19.
:38.499 --> :43.290 Important for context: In my country, from
time to time a new special coin is made, it :43.290 --> :48.040
has the same value as the others and the only
reason is special is because of something :48.040 --> :53.929
engraved in it, can be an animal or an important
person. People like to collect them just because :53.929 --> :59.449
they are pretty and others for a formal collection.
This has been going since the 2000s. :59.449 --> :03.920
Now the memory: My best friends' aunt worked
at the bank where this coins were ordered :03.920 --> :08.601
and because of that she had the same coins
but laminated. She have us one each every :08.601 --> :13.029
time a new one came out so I had a pretty
big collection of those, you could get an :13.029 --> :17.779
album to store them but I wasn't into that
that much so I had them stored dreaming of :17.779 --> :22.459
a time were they would be worth a lot. Currently
(at that time) they were worth x40. :22.459 --> :27.429
Well, that was the time I used to live with
my parents. I don't have a great history with :27.429 --> :32.610
them but they gave me a free roof and food
until I moved (free in monetary terms, they :32.610 --> :39.379
were ah). I remember I traveled for a month
and came back to my room evidently fully searched. :39.379 --> :44.040
I used to smoke a lot of pot so I figured
she was searching for that, I didn't care :44.040 --> :48.920
as I didn't cover it. Most of my father's
family side are pot heads but she doesn't :48.920 --> :49.920 know.
:49.920 --> :53.819 Weeks later I was searching for something
in her room, you know... Like a normal human :53.819 --> :59.760
being, without destroying and leaving everything
in shambles. Then I stumbled upon some laminated :59.760 --> :04.370
coins, went back to my room and searched mines were I stored them... Nothing.
:04.370 --> :10.850 I had like 20 or more, I found only 4 or 5
I get drawer. When confronted she said she :10.850 --> :16.290
was only looking at them and wanted my father
to see them. I know it was bs but what else :16.290 --> :19.269
can I do? I took what was left and hid them. :19.269 --> :23.290
What did she do to the rest? I will never
know. Don't know if she sold them or used :23.290 --> :28.439
them as gifts. Maybe she opened them and felt
dumb? I just know that years later, living :28.439 --> :34.910
on my own, having my own free life, I noticed
I didn't have the other 4 or 5 laminated coins. :34.910 --> :15.439
My mother had stole them again. Getting a
job soon and I want to save money so I can :15.439 --> :18.689
move out but my overbearing mother has other plans.
:18.689 --> :23.299 My two older sisters have become part of her
hive mind and both of their earnings go directly :23.299 --> :28.999
to her account so they can all share the money.
Were really poor, not so poor we can't get :28.999 --> :30.699
by every month but still. :30.699 --> :36.920
We: my mother, me, two older sisters, little
brother and cat all live in the same apartment. :36.920 --> :41.879
My mom desperately wants to buy a house so
we can all live together. What I desperately :41.879 --> :46.980
want is to move out from my mega religious family so I can live my own life.
:46.980 --> :51.299 But I can't even attend real life College
classes because the city is an hour away by :51.299 --> :56.679
bus and my mother wouldn't let any of us do
that on a million years. One of the classes :56.679 --> :02.480
I need to pursue my major only has one online
course available and it's full. If I tell :02.480 --> :08.009
my mom about she just get angry at me saying
"you should've applied earlier then." :08.009 --> :13.899
She always says she would do anything for
my education and then does stuff like this. :13.899 --> :19.170
College students ride hour long busses all
the time to their classes but she probably :19.170 --> :24.339
won't believe that because thats the realm
outside of her small mind. If I ask her and :24.339 --> :29.190
my two older sisters will tear me to shreds
saying "since when do you care so much about :29.190 --> :30.739
your education?" :30.739 --> :36.529
I'm not doing the best I can with my education
because at this point I've lost real motivation. :36.529 --> :42.540
The only future I imagine with myself is away
from my family but that future is so impossible :42.540 --> :44.739
if I can't save up my own money. :44.739 --> :50.160
I don't want to end up like my older sister.
She studied so hard and graduated a great :50.160 --> :55.759
college with the best grades in order to become
a doctor. Butt for the past three years she's :55.759 --> :00.769
been doing nothing for that dream because
she has to help my mom make money to take :00.769 --> :06.079
care of us. She desperately wants to live
on her own too but she's held down by my mom, :06.079 --> :11.509
who would faint at the thought of any of her
children living alone- or with other people. :11.509 --> :13.149
Especially non-muslim people. :13.149 --> :18.879
If I move out, I wouldn't be her responsibility
anymore. I shouldn't be her responsibility. :18.879 --> :25.139
I'm 19 which isn't that old but they've been
treating me the same since I was 13 so it :25.139 --> :27.170
doesn't matter how old I get. :27.170 --> :30.959
Also the reason why I'm scared of standing
up to them is because I feel like I don't :30.959 --> :36.880
deserve it. I was never the best kid. Never
really got good grades, fought often with :36.880 --> :41.709
parents, was slightly a trouble maker in middle
school. And by that I mean I hung out with :41.709 --> :47.189
real troublemakers but never did anything
myself. But my mom and older sisters act like :47.189 --> :49.209
I was the worst kid in school. :49.209 --> :55.769
They also guilt trip by saying they sacrificed
so much for me- which is true. My mom protected :55.769 --> :01.850
us often from our abusive father. They also
say that because I was a bad kid, I abused :01.850 --> :07.089
them. Which, I also feel is true. I don't
know why they want me to stay so bad though, :07.089 --> :09.800
because I'm still a bad kid in their eyes. :09.800 --> :14.749
I'm not the best I used to be as a person
either. I used to read and draw a lot but :14.749 --> :20.389
I don't do that as much anymore. I don't even
keep my room or myself clean regularly anymore. :20.389 --> :25.389
Yeah I know I'm gross for showering slightly
less regularly than a normal person but I :25.389 --> :30.679
lost all motivation to do practically anything
because I can't get to the future I want. :30.679 --> :36.300
I want to stand up them. I want my own bank
account, I want my own room, I want my own :36.300 --> :42.910
life. The hive mind of my mother and two older
sisters is really scary because they exactly :42.910 --> :46.919
how to tear into me. I'm scared they might kick me out because I have nothing.
:46.919 --> :03.529 How do I hide my guilt, sadness and anger
to get what :03.529 --> :42.109
I need? A bit of background, I'm a first-generation
Russian American, I've always lived in America :42.109 --> :47.479
and I speak English as my primary language.
My husband on the other hand, only relocated :47.479 --> :52.699
from Moscow about six years ago and speaks
enough English to get by in most situations. :52.699 --> :59.749
We decided to raise our kids primarily speaking
Russian, both so they can take part in cultural/religious
:59.749 --> :05.010 celebrations and so they can talk to family
back home. Bilingualism is also a great skill :05.010 --> :10.329
to have as an adult, so it felt like the right
choice to make (they speak English too obviously :10.329 --> :16.319
Now, for the conflict. My boys have always
been involved in activities. As stereotypical :16.319 --> :22.069
as it is, they're both enrolled in dance classes.
They enjoy doing it, so I don't feel bad, :22.069 --> :27.350
but the glares from other moms when I'm bringing
them to lessons every Thursday night aren't :27.350 --> :31.960
great. A few weeks ago, their class had a
little recital for all the parents. All the :31.960 --> :36.740
kids did really well, nobody fell over, and
everyone had their costumes on right. The :36.740 --> :41.370
next day, there was a little picnic in a local
park for all the kids to celebrate how well :41.370 --> :46.029
they did. The dads were making the food while
the moms watched their kids. I was doing the :46.029 --> :51.260
same thing, sitting on a bench near the playground,
holding my baby and making sure my kids don't :51.260 --> :56.690
cause problems. They're running along the
little suspension bridge linking two structures, :56.690 --> :01.240
laughing and yelling to each other. I thought
nothing of it, they were having fun. I was :01.240 --> :04.370
listening, but only to make sure they didn't say anything rude.
:04.370 --> :09.429 Apparently, I'm not the only one who heard
them. A set of twins is playing under the :09.429 --> :14.289
structure, which wouldn't be a problem generally,
but these kids make me believe in the evil :14.289 --> :19.460
twin theory. One is a little doll and the
other would probably light your car on fire :19.460 --> :25.490
because you won't let them use your phone.
Their mom is EM. ET goes up to her and points :25.490 --> :30.390
to my son. I had no idea what he was saying,
I figured probably just complaining about :30.390 --> :33.040
the gravel falling on them from the bridge. :33.040 --> :37.669
The kid walks away, and I looked down at my
baby to adjust her little hat, when the woman :37.669 --> :42.269
goes up to the little bridge. If she was just
going to tell them to be more careful because :42.269 --> :46.380
there's people under there that didn't want
rocks falling on them, that would have been :46.380 --> :52.340
fine. Instead, I hear her calling trying to
talk to him, but like with most five-year-olds, :52.340 --> :57.919
he had far more interest in going back to
play instead of talking to a stranger. EM :57.919 --> :03.279
keeps trying to get his attention, and when
that doesn't work, she just yells "We're in :03.279 --> :07.000
America! We won, stop talking like a commie!" :07.000 --> :12.200
Hearing that shocked me out of whatever I
was thinking about, and like any normal person :12.200 --> :17.990
I went over there trying to use all my self-control
to not slap her. Honestly, all the kids there :17.990 --> :22.570
is probably the only thing that stopped me.
I was just going to collect my kids and go :22.570 --> :29.390
home, maybe get the tray of cupcakes I brought.
But no, anything with EM could never be that :29.390 --> :35.120
simple. As I'm walking away, she offhandedly
says "Teach your brat some manners, red. He :35.120 --> :40.279
needs to learn some respect. ET doesn't deserve
to have to hear that. All the other kids were :40.279 --> :46.269
just being nice." Meanwhile, GT is just sitting
there terrified and not sure what to do :46.269 --> :51.410
I knew if I stayed I was going to say or do
something I would regret, and that possibly :51.410 --> :56.330
might put me in weekend jail. I spit a few
insults at her and threw my kids in the car, :56.330 --> :01.011
holding onto the steering wheel so tight my
fingers went white. My husband says people :01.011 --> :06.600
like her are just part of life. He's far more
mature than I am; I'm considering reciting :06.600 --> :11.230
parts of old literature next time I see her
if I didn't think it would get the windows :11.230 --> :50.080
in my car broken out (yes, I'm that petty)
I never expected to post here, but sometimes :50.080 --> :54.990
things happen unexpectedly. Recently I bought
a new flat ground utility knife for crafts :54.990 --> :00.129
and carving. Anyway this purchase didn’t
go unscathed because while I was walking out, :00.129 --> :06.419
I felt someone clear their voice. Em: AHEM!.
I realized by the sound that it was directed :06.419 --> :11.830
at someone so I turn around. Em: yes you,
what are you doing with a knife?, aren’t :11.830 --> :17.779
you too young? I’m 17 but have the face
of a young kid so I realized the misunderstanding. :17.779 --> :23.580
Me: sorry ma’am, I’m 17 and allowed to
purchase this knife, sorry for th-. Em: I’m :23.580 --> :29.159
not stupid, hand me the knife before I call
security!. I was honestly surprised on the :29.159 --> :35.020
quick escalation of the situation as I’m
not a “master at talking” but even then, :35.020 --> :42.049
it’s a surprise. Me: I’m sorry? Em: give
me the knife, you are tooo young! Me: I mean :42.049 --> :48.010
you can check with the workers, I even showed
them my id. Em: you are lying!. Em runs off :48.010 --> :55.360
and I walk away, yet somehow I got stopped
almost immediately. Security guard: wait sir. :55.360 --> :01.870
Me: is everything alright. Em: THATS HIM,
I CAUGHT HIM SHOPLIFTING. I remained calm :01.870 --> :07.649
and go into my pocket and pull out a receipt.
Security guard: notices receipt can I see :07.649 --> :12.399
that. I hand him the receipt and he stares
at it for a second. Security: can I see the :12.399 --> :18.169
knife? Me: hands knife in packaging. The guard
looked at the receipt details and the knife. :18.169 --> :24.929
Security: checks out, you are free to go.
A loud screeching came from behind him. Em: :24.929 --> :30.590
HE’S LYING. An employee walks up recognizing
the woman. Employee: ma’am, your not supposed :30.590 --> :38.070
to be here. Em: WHY? Employee: you are banned
from this store. Surprisingly, the em walks :38.070 --> :11.379
away, not even with a last word, just a long
sigh and a huff. My sister (38) has 3 kids, :11.379 --> :16.970
her eldest (18f) moved out a few months ago
and got her own place, the other 2 kids still :16.970 --> :18.880
live with my sister and her partner. :18.880 --> :23.480
My niece has been trying her best since she
moved out, she had a partner and a job lined :23.480 --> :28.230
up but everything went to s***, her partner
broke up with her and she had a breakdown :28.230 --> :32.840
and now she's not got that job and is on the
sick because her depression took over. :32.840 --> :37.180
My niece has to use my sister's bank account
to get her benefits paid into because she :37.180 --> :41.940
doesn't have the appropriate identification
to open her own bank account (even tho she :41.940 --> :47.529
gave my sister the money to buy her a provisional
license about 2 years ago but my sister never :47.529 --> :52.331
sent off for it and spent the money on other
things and never paid my niece back) Since :52.331 --> :57.529
my niece started getting her money paid into
my sister's account money has been going missing, :57.529 --> :02.309
my niece only gets a couple hundred pounds
each month to live on and is already struggling, :02.309 --> :06.769
we try and help her as much as we can but
there's only so much we can do, but the other :06.769 --> :13.870
week £50 went missing out of my niece's money
and my sister (when confronted) insisted that :13.870 --> :19.399
it was because my niece spent it, her exact
words were 'its quids you've spent here and :19.399 --> :25.130
there it adds up.' We all know thats not the
case and that my sister stole it but we can't :25.130 --> :31.120
prove it. Another one was when £120 went
from my niece's rent money and my sister hasn't :31.120 --> :35.470
paid my niece that back, it's getting to a
point where I'm considering seeking legal :35.470 --> :38.169
advice because this cannot continue. :38.169 --> :43.650
Yesterday my niece got a phone call off my
sister and my sister was demanding that my :43.650 --> :49.090
niece owed her hundreds of pounds and that
she wants it back asap in the form of a hundred :49.090 --> :54.710
or more pounds each time my niece gets paid.
To top all this off my sister and her partner :54.710 --> :59.789
have well paid jobs and easily get over 2
grand a month and yet they are taking as much :59.789 --> :04.669
as they can off my niece it's unfair, I don't
know what to do I've told my niece to get :04.669 --> :10.289
her identification when she gets paid and
as soon as it comes to open up her own bank, :10.289 --> :15.039
I've even offered my second bank account for
her to use in the meantime I hope she uses :15.039 --> :18.039
it because my sister can't keep getting away with it.
:18.039 --> :22.539 I know this isn't the most interesting thing
on here but I needed to vent and my sister :22.539 --> :25.100
is an entitled parent. So, my son goes to
a special needs school. Last week they started :25.100 --> :27.559
a school summer holiday club running over
two weeks. My son went last week and there :27.559 --> :31.059
were some spaces left for this week and he
was lucky enough to get another spot. Yesterday :31.059 --> :33.760
a boy turned up and me and the other parents
didn’t realise anything was off until the :33.760 --> :36.690
organiser asked why he was there and she had
told him that there wasn’t a space for him :36.690 --> :38.820
on Friday. She asked where his dad was and
he said he left. This man dropped his son :38.820 --> :42.710
off and just drove off. The school had no
choice but to take him. I couldn’t help :42.710 --> :43.710
myself but say to my friend ‘who does that?’
So I turned up this morning and guess what, :43.710 --> :45.029
he showed up again and went to drive off again.
Luckily the son had left his bag in the car :45.029 --> :47.580
so one of the other workers flagged the father
down. I have no idea what the organiser said :47.580 --> :48.909
to him or whether they sent the boy home.
I guess I will find out this afternoon when :48.909 --> :50.009
I pick my son. But, what the h***, these are
seriously vulnerable children. I wouldn’t :50.009 --> :53.360
even just leave a child with no special needs
without making sure they go into the building. :53.360 --> :57.279
For context, these children are under 16’s
So yeah, just wanted to vent. I am y (not :57.279 --> :02.300
my real name) and this all started 7 years
ago at my 13th birthday you see my family's :02.300 --> :08.149
dad side lives in another state except my
grandparents and my favourite cousins we live :08.149 --> :13.029
in the same state and this birthday we were
planning to see my dad side of the family :13.029 --> :19.259
I was excited my cousins (twins) had already
seen some of them but I was super excited. :19.259 --> :24.710
After a 6 hour long car ride with 5 people
onboard we finally arrived and I got to meet :24.710 --> :30.660
them. My extended family was amazing I really
liked them we talked and enjoyed ourselves. :30.660 --> :35.539
Now the next day I as always woke up early
and I sat at the table just doing nothing :35.539 --> :40.450
then one of my aunts came and told me a few
things about one of my uncles 1.they were :40.450 --> :45.769
greedy and super entitled. 2.be sure to stay
away from them because you don't want to talk :45.769 --> :53.830
to them. 3.their kid is terrible and her wife
is an absolute Karen and a b****. After hearing :53.830 --> :58.450
all that I had one hope even thought they
sounded terrible I at least hoped the dad :58.450 --> :05.210
would be respectable and a man of his word...
NOPE when they came along I instantly hated :05.210 --> :11.679
them (think of my uncle as gangsta spongebob
and their kid as a demon) first my uncle sat :11.679 --> :17.600
on the couch and gave me 250 bucks and said
take it I was shocked and angry. now how they :17.600 --> :23.669
can do that is unbelievable. My uncle won
the lottery...TWICE and had an insane amount :23.669 --> :28.190
of money after he went to the bathroom I went
to my aunts table and put the money on the :28.190 --> :33.330
table and said "I don't want this mans money"
fast forward a few hours all the adults were :33.330 --> :38.450
doing somethingoutside only my dad was here
and he was sleeping then my cousin lets call :38.450 --> :45.169
her "a" came crying with a few bruises on
her body then demon came.he slapped her back :45.169 --> :51.399
and a** and called her a st I got up enraged
I was gonna punch but realized it would be :51.399 --> :56.740
too much so I let go of my hand and grabbed
his neck instead then I pinned him to the :56.740 --> :02.001
ground and I started yelling at with every
single curse word I know my dad and my family :02.001 --> :07.309
came rushing and my dad was furious at me
of course he was then I explained it to them :07.309 --> :12.909
and they were not happy but my uncle came
and started yelling at me so I yelled at him :12.909 --> :17.821
and they left I know I didn't do a good thing
but I couldn't handle it my favourite cousin :17.821 --> :23.090
getting treated like she was an object and
treated like this I couldn't handle it but :23.090 --> :28.330
wait my friends because this ain't over yet.
Now 5 years later at my 18th birthday party :28.330 --> :33.529
my extended family came to our state just
for my birthday and some sightseeing now for :33.529 --> :38.409
my birthday I didn't want a car or something
big I just talked about the things I liked :38.409 --> :42.879
and enjoyed and they got the hint and some
couldn't get a birthday present so they gave :42.879 --> :49.510
me money instead but I was happy...UNTIL my
bratty cousin and his uncle came to my party. :49.510 --> :54.630
now let me say this the only reason my extended
family still accepts my uncle is because they :54.630 --> :59.759
are a bit poor and he got some money to spare
so I put all my presents and money In one :59.759 --> :06.769
place and enjoyed myself now . demon that
greedy kid stole all my birthday money thrashed :06.769 --> :11.190
the place and acted like a complete jerk I
just told him to stop but then but then he :11.190 --> :17.490
touched my moms breasts my cousins butt shoved
my girl cousins into the ground and my breaking :17.490 --> :22.980
point kicked and punched and did some things
to my grandma that was sitting now I wouldve :22.980 --> :27.460
done something but the apartement was crowded
and by the time I reached him he had already :27.460 --> :32.470
done these things and I pinned him to the
ground and punched him hard my family also :32.470 --> :38.090
said enough and just lifted them off the ground
and literally threw them out and me punching :38.090 --> :43.369
that demon was incredibly satisfying. Now
two years later I asked my extended family :43.369 --> :48.090
how they were doing and they said he got into
debt and gambling losing all his lottery money :48.090 --> :53.059
and being homeless he begged them to stay
with them but they just refused and then I :53.059 --> :58.179
started laughing because that was pretty good
to hear I am only writing this now because :58.179 --> :02.580
I went drinking for the first and got a bit
drunk then I told the story to my friends :02.580 --> :08.320
and they told me to post it on reddit. Life
is good revenge is cold but remember karma :08.320 --> :32.960
is always :32.960 --> :36.129 a b*h. | give me a good story on rEntitledParentsIPunchedMyCousinOnMyBirthdayRedditStories |
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you didn't realize you married someone so lazy huh update at the end last week
my husband and I went shopping we came out of one shop and wanted to go to
another which was the other side of the car park we walked over and there were
no trolleys what we wanted was packed into four heavy boxes and was awkward to
carry across a large car park so I said I drive the car over it's one of those
shops where you order at the till and they bring it from the warehouse to the
till and you take it to your car well he called me lazy for wanting to move the
car I tried explaining my side but no he was adamant I was lazy I went and moved
the car because the was I putting my back out carrying an outdoor table
and chairs set to the car he bered whilst we waited in the calling me lazy
saying he didn't realize he married someone so lazy Etc I ended up leaving
the shop without the table and chairs because he kept pushing for a reaction
today we went back to said shops he said he would go get the table and chairs
while I went into another shop guess what no trolley he rang me and asked me
to drive the car over did I did I that's lazy he started to get pissed and
realized he didn't have a leg to stand on he carried each box separately from
the shop to the car for trips there and back each time he asked me to move the
car and I said that it was lazy and I didn't realize I married someone so lazy
edit for all the people getting their panties in a twist no I'm not nesting
the furniture is for my parents yes I'm waiting on my lawyer to do their thing
then I can serve him the divorce papers edit too just woke up to hundreds of
Reddit notifications I'm not going to read all the comments but I skimmed a
few and Jesus some of the speculation is wild you could have just asked me for
more info but I guess that would have ruined your narrative some of you really
do have two brain cells fighting for third place I contacted my lawyer
regarding divorce 10 days ago this Petty Revenge happened yesterday I will hand
him the papers with Witnesses just in case his behavior takes a turn for the
worse again he's recently started to threaten me with beatings if I don't
comply he's treated me like for way too long no matter how many times e
communicated with him about it he still continues to treat me like his
escalation to threats of violence proves to me he doesn't care I'm not begging
him to treat me better anymore I deserve better if that makes me an then
so be it I'm an update is I don't think I can actually do update
posts separately first time back on Reddit since I posted and wow there's a
lot of notifications that I don't have the energy to read through ATM so I'll
keep it brief my mind is a bit jumbled at the moment so sorry if this doesn't
make sense the divorce papers came Wednesday evening I gave them to him
yesterday yesterday morning it's now Friday morning as I type this all UK
time my brother and two of my brothers friends both of husband's parents and
his brother were present police on standby only my brother and his friends
knew what was about to happen my brother's friends were waiting outside
in case kicked off my brother was recording the whole thing and thank
he did husband threw all his toys out the pram punching holes in the walls
ripped some doors off the hinges destroying my things threatening to kill
me threatening to kill himself he tried to get to the kitchen to get a knife it
wasn't great his parents were shocked and tried to get him to calm down but he
ended up hurting his mom by this point the police were already nearly here and
he was arrested I've had nothing but apology messages from his side of the
family saying they had no idea he was like this I sent them the voice
recordings I had from the past few months of him threatening me and
explained how he changed since our wedding day the house we are in is
rented so all the damage will have to be fixed the lease is up in 6 months but
I'll be requesting to terminate the contract and look into buying my own
place far away from him I won't be doing
another update in the future though feel free ask if you want more info I look
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technicality in a high-profile case wouldn't have come up on a background
check as he was acquitted but the woman in the factory Flatout refused to work
for him and their spouses threatened to come to the factory and rough him up
company had to dismiss and pay him out on probation I did a background check on
my boss actually he was arrested for fourth degree ARs and he pleaded guilty
he works in Shanghai now I want to add that thinking you can follow generic
instructions to be successful is the real mistake you still need to stand out
among your peers and learn a marketable skill to make money just having a degree
doesn't help a company that hires you make money implementing what you've
learned while still learning more and more in a proven setting now that
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former friend stole from all of his friends so we made him fly across the
country and stood him up with a $400 bill so one of my friends from childhood
since around 14 and we're 26 now started kind of flying off the rails two to 3
years ago at first it wasn't that bad but as of late he stole $600 from me a
couple months ago borrowed four grand from another friend and didn't pay him
back then I hung out with him one more time to five him a chance and I woke up
with $2,500 worth of charges to a sports book on my debit card which he
vehemently denied he's pretty delusional and considers himself a business man
despite never doing any actual successful business and pretends to be
on LinkedIn posting these weird rants so a couple weeks ago I contacted him as
potential business partner and offered him a lucrative deal the only catch was
he had to fly 3 hours to me for a dinner to seal the deal and this fell for
it so easily LOL I didn't even plan this part but the meeting day ended up being
December 23rd and he left on the 22nd which turned out to be the worst day to
travel all year flights were both $800 and he sat at the airport all day on the
22nd when it came down to the meeting I booked a reservation for a nice
steakhous had him show up and told him to order a bottle of wine and appetizers
so it'd be ready by the time we got there he sat there for 2 hours and I
eventually sent him a text about how dumb he was to fall for it and how
destructive his behavior has been to everyone around him did I | give me a good story on Formerfriendstolefromallofhisfriendssowemadehimflyacrosstheaitaredditstoriesorig |
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my fiance wants to end our relationship because I didn't choose him first I'm
sorry if this whole thing sounds a little rushed but my fiance Ryan who
I've been with for 7 years told me today that he's not sure whether he wants to
be with me anymore and I realize it may sound stupid but I love him so much it
feels like my world is falling apart around me I don't know what I can do
this all started a couple days ago when we were celebrating our anniversary we
invited a bunch of people including one of my closest friends Ellie she noticed
my fiance being affectionate towards me and made some stupid comment about how
she told me so that R would be better for me than my ex Andy my fiance was a
little confused and asked Ellie what she meant back when I was in college Andy
and Ryan both asked me out to the same event I'd known Ryan since high school
and we'd always had a thing but we weren't a couple on top of that he went
to another college that was a half hour drive away from me Andy went to my
college his dorm was a 5-minute walk away and he was someone completely new I
began to feel like my relationship with Ryan wouldn't be exciting enough because
we already knew almost everything about each other with the added headache of
being half an hour hour away from each other despite Ellie's protests I decided
to go with Andy I know my reasoning is beyond stupid but I never thought that
this decision had the potential to blow up my future Ryan was already hurt that
I declined his request to go on a date I didn't want to make him feel worse by
telling him that I was going with someone else not that it mattered
because he stopped talking to me for about 6 months during this time it
became obvious that me and Andy weren't right for each other so we ended it when
me and Ryan began talking again I realized how much I missed him and that
he was perfect for me so I asked him out he was overjoyed and that's how we got
to this point for the rest of the party I could tell that his mood was off he
kept pulling away from my kisses SL touches and responded to me with short
one sentence answers after the party when I asked him what was wrong he just
said that he felt sick for the next two days he continued to be cold and distant
I had no idea what was happening so I waited patiently for him to become
comfortable enough to tell me today he told me the reason he'd been acting off
from the story it sounded like I had kept him as my backup or plan be in case
my relationship with Andy failed and that it was especially messed up since
we'd obvious ious ly had feelings for each other long before then he also said
that he deserved to be someone's first choice I thought that this was just an
insecurity that we could get through but then he went on to say that he's not
sure whether he can see our relationship
in the same light anymore so it might be best if we split up I pleaded with him
that we don't need to take it that far and that we should go to counseling or
even just live secet for a few days while he thinks about whether this is
what he actually wants so far he hasn't said anything except that he absolutely
refuses to go to therapy I can tell that this is Weighing on him heavily because
he's been drinking more than usual but I don't know what to say to make him feel
better we've had a beautiful relationship he's never been overly
jealous or possessive and although neither of us are perfect I couldn't ask
for a more loving respectful intelligent and Charming soon to be husband I don't
understand how all of that could come to
an end for a foolish mistake that I made 7 years ago I don't know exactly what
I'm looking for by posting on here but if anyone has any advice please please
let me know TL drr my fiance found out that I chose to date someone else in
college before him says that he doesn't want to be my backup relationship and
that it might be best if we go our separate ways edit I think I may have
messed up on my wording he doesn't care that I dated someone else before him it
bothers him that I had the choice between him or Andy and I chose Andy
update so a few people have asked for an
update it's been a little over two weeks now so I'm not sure if anyone is even
interested anymore I think for now I'm just confused about what's happening if
anyone has any advice or has some idea of what he's thinking please tell me
after what happened in the last post he said that we should put off the wedding
while we decide how to proceed that means something right he used the exact
words put off instead of cancel and while we decide how to proceed I think
that means he hasn't decided that we should break up yet maybe he'll just
decide not to marry but to continue our relationship I don't think he's ready to
give up our relationship yet but he's moved into a hotel I know some people
have told me to give him space but I've decided that even if a part of him is
willing to stay with me I'm going to do everything I can to give me another
chance I've been dropping off food leaving notes under his door and we've
been calling every day sometimes twice a day right now we're both stuck in limbo
most of the time we talk about how much we miss each other the plans we had in
me convincing him that he's my soulmate and that regardless of whatever happened
with Andy I know we would have ended up together then there are other moments
where he calls in the middle of the night having obviously been crying and
asking questions like what did he have that I didn't did you love him was he
better in bed was he was better looking than me do you still think he's better
looking than me what does more exciting mean do you wish he gave you another
chance he says that he wants to be with me desperately but when he thinks about
me it seared into his mind that I was always his first choice but he will
always have been my second it hurts him that we had feelings for each other all
the way through high school but the moment I met Andy none of that meant
anything anymore which must have meant I thought Andy was worth my time and he
wasn't it breaks my heart to hear him holding back his tears and trying to cry
silently but I swear I'll do anything to save our relationship and part of that
means not hiding anything from him I've begged him to reconsider going to
therapy but he absolutely will not budge some of our mutual friends are saying
that they're not sure if he'll recover from this but I don't care he hasn't
told me to stop trying so I'm not going to I wish to God that I could go back
and change the past because I love him more than anything including myself it
feels like I'm in some sort of surreal nightmare less than a month ago we were
laying in bed fighting over which of us got to name our kids and now a seemingly
insignificant mistake that I made 7 years ago might wipe away the beautiful
future I want with Ryan all I can do right now is be there and hope that he
can give me another chance but I don't know what he's thinking I know this
isn't a common relationship problem but if anyone has anything they can give me
whether it's advice or even reassurance that things are going to work out please
please tell me edit he called an hour ago some of his friends found this
Reddit post and showed it to him so he called angry asking why I would tell
strangers about our personal problems and how is he supposed to Face his
friends and family now after they all know that the only reason I'm with him
is because Andy broke up with me after reading the comments he realized that it
wasn't right for him to keep me in the dark for so long without making a
decision he's decided that we should go our separate ways so that I can decide
whether it really is him that I want to be with and that he wasn't just the
convenient choice for now I can't describe how I'm feeling
it's like I'm so tired I just want to go
to sleep forever I know some of you have the impression that he's a horrible man
but this was just a small fragment of our relationship and doesn't reflect who
he is an individual in the slightest he's the guy who spent days learning
about my major on top of his own studies
so that he could help me study for exams and proof Reed my coursework he spent
thousands of his own hard-earned money to give my parents their dream vacation
to Australia and insisted that I say I paid for it because they'd feel bad
taking money from him when my ex threatened to leak nudes that I'd sent
him when we were together I was terrified that he would leave
he took me out to my favorite restaurant and said that there was nothing anyone
else could do or say that would ever affect how much he loves me and then he
asked me to marry him so I'd never have to worry about him leaving ever again my
fiance is the best man that I've never known and the assumptions that everyone
here has made from hearing about such a small part of our Lives is disgusting
and I didn't come here for people to convince me that he's immature insecure
or any of that I should have known better than to post here but all I can
hope for now is that he sees this to my fiance I don't know what I can say to
make this better and I don't know if you'll be able to heal from this what I
can say is that you are wrong in thinking that I chose you out of
convenience I chose you because you're the most thoughtful handsome intelligent
and Charming Man that I've ever known every single moment that we've had
together for the last 7 years every kiss
that we've shared every Bagel that we've split and every I love you that I've
said was meant for you and was an affirmation that you are and always will
be my first choice I don't believe that you want to cut our lives together short
I think that you were trying to heal from the consequences of a mistake that
I made and then I inadvertently set a fire underneath you by forcing you to
come to a decision by making this post take as long as you need to do whatever
it is that you need to do to heal from this and I'll be here waiting for when
you're ready to talk if you decide that this is something that we cannot
overcome I would accept your decision but I know we are stronger than this I
love you so so much edit too I know this is starting to get really long but he
read my open letter and got in contact with me to say that he's not promising
anything except that he'll listen he still refuses to see a therapist because
he doesn't view our relationship is strong enough that there's anything to
salvage right now however some people here have expressed that they wish they
could give give him advice directly and I've convinced him to talk to others who
have experienced this and healed from it if you've experienced something similar
please ask for his throwaway either in your response to this post or by pming
me thank you final update before I get into the update I want to say that I
asked my ex fiance before posting this and he said it's fine as long as I don't
give away any details that could reveal us to more of our friends and family
I've always been the type of person who values other people's input when it
comes to making big decisions and he knows that a lot has happened since the
last update after we spoke he went completely quiet for around 2 weeks for
time to think the waiting was almost unbearable but he promised that as soon
as he had an answer for me he would contact me I wasn't allowed to come to
his hotel to drop off food try to see him or any sort of contact when he
finally called the first thing that he established was that our relationship
was over however despite our relationship ending he still wants to be
with me if I still want to be with him we can restart our relationship
completely from the beginning with the board wiped clean in his own words while
you look back at our relationship and see something wonderful I look back at
it in discuss because you lied by a mission every single day initially I was
ready to agree on the spot but he insisted that i' take the week to decide
whether I really want this his logic is that if I choose to restart our
relationship from the beginning now he will be my first choice later on in the
week it began to settle what this would mean I would go from fiance back to
girlfriend I don't know when he is going to propose again I don't want children
until we're married so I don't know how long that's going to be in short it
would completely throw off the life plans we had I asked for a little more
time and he doesn't want me to resent him in the future so agreed to give me
as much time as I needed to come to a decision this is a better outcome than I
expected and maybe better than I deserve but I would be lying if I said that I
don't wish things could go back to normal I've decided that I'm going to
agree to starting over it just really hurts that the past 7 years don't mean
anything anymore not long ago we celebrated our seventh anniversary but
this time next year we'll be celebrating our first anniversary again TL DR he
broke up with me but gave me the option of starting over with a new relationship
as boyfriend and girlfriend that would Rectify my mistake and make him my first
choice I've had some time to think and I've decided that I'm going to agree
edit he read the post and wanted to address some of the comments if we do
restart our relationship he won't hold anything over my head it'll be exactly
as he said and our relationship would start over completely he's so confident
of this that he insists I leave him if he ever slips up and brings it up when
we argue some people have said that being first is just an arbitrary
construct but that doesn't mean anything marriage is a construct monogamy is in
construct Etc something being a con struck doesn't make it any less real or
capable of inflicting pain a reminder that this isn't about me dating people
before him he doesn't care that about that he cares that I knew him for years
that we had a bond in high school and that he waited until we were in college
so we could officially be a couple but I picked someone else I barely knew it's
come up very often that the length of our relationship should have some
influence over his decisions he says it does because it makes it even worse I
never told him about what happened during those 6 months while we were
together on top of that I wasn't the one to tell him in the end we know
everything about each other so he can only assume that I consciously HIIT it
from him I'm not insecure fragile or irrational the fact is that our old
relationship is now ruined in my eyes it's ruined because she took away my
ability to make an informed decision 7 years ago if I had known the
circumstances of her return I'm not afraid to say that I would have told her
to go FK herself now I'm giving her the option to restart our relationship with
me knowing all the facts this time will be equals now on to the next story story
two my girlfriend asked to an open relationship and I just pointed her to
the door so like the title says my 43 M GF 36f asked that we open the
relationship and I just pointed her to the door it was too much I strongly
believe that in a monogamous relationship when someone asked to open
it well is because that person saw something else out there and is ready to
try it instead of working in the relationship basically is blindsiding
his/ her partner so I have being with Fran 36 over the last 2 years and a half
almost two as a couple I taught that things were moving smoothly and was
about to ask her to move in at the the beginning of April but lately she was
acting rather distant so I decided to wait a little and watch I was cheated on
the past so I'm a little cios with some signs out of nowhere this last Friday
she asked me to open the relationship she gave me all her big speech and when
she ended her presentation I asked her if she is someone in mind because is not
like we decided today and basically going out with other persons tomorrow
basically I trick her into to tell me what I already knew and yes she has
someone in mind which means to me that either she already did it or she has all
set up so I got up walk around the apartment while she was trying to sell
the this could be good for both us and our relationship by the time she ended
talking I hand her one of my sport bags with all her stuff in it and tell her to
left the spare key over the table on her way out that we are done and she knows
why then I went to the couch and turned on the TV just trying to look
indifferent and save face she was speechless for a while about to cry but
before she couldn't say something I tell her that I didn't want to talk about
anything and she should leave as soon as she left I felt like crap So Unworthy
cried a little and as right now I'm still mourning my phone is going almost
nuclear without the calls and text I received from Friends of both sides
about my extreme reaction over her simple request don't know what she told
them so now I'm sitting wondering if I really went overboard and at the same
time fighting the urge to run back to her because deep inside even knowing my
feelings for her are still there the trust is gone and I'm not going to spend
all my time watching her movements is not healthy maybe in time really don't
know before anyone pointed out yes I know my reaction is pure reflection of
me not what she did or was about to do or could do so did I went overboard PS
sorry about my English keep that in mind if you don't understand something on me
redaction update one first of all thanks for all the replies and up votes it
never crossed my mind that this post would have this much attention I just
writed to put order in my ideas and vent a little and with the Hope a few people
told me if I went overboard but I didn't expected the amount of replies I got so
many thanks to all for that some people pointed that maybe I went overboard that
maybe she wasn't aware of my position on the subject I replied to some but they
wereare of many comments to get back to all so so to clarify maybe a year back
approaches we had a couple of friends in
a similar situation and for like a month that was the main theme of conversation
on our group of friends and every time I said that for me as a big no and if one
person in a relationship need to be with other persons well she SL she should
leave about that the friends trying to mend things up well they weren't totally
aware of the situation yesterday after I posted here and with my ideas more
defined went to see a group of them and told them my point all of them agree
with me at different levels some of them wanted to let it go others wanted two
burner at the stake of course a few girls in the group pointed that I could
do things in a better way and also there was a few question about if could
consider give her another chance but for
me the main issue is not feelings I know that I love her but the trust is gone
and I don't want to find myself wondering all the time what is she up to
after I left my friends talked to other persons that weren't there and basically
the waters have calm if you are wondering what is she doing really don't
know I got a few texts from her but haven't read it yet and don't think it
will do it soon anyway I know is not much but this is all I got for now note
when I first joined this part of Reddit I didn't get what people get here by
posting their relationship troubles but I do get it now update to hello to every
stranger interested in how things ended I wasn't much on the idea about posting
any other update but some people have being asking so here it is finally after
listening to various friends and some Reddit users I talked to her just to
sort things out last Friday we meet at our regular place where we take coffee
at the distance she looked great so
great that I just wanted to say [ __ ] it
and drag her back to my place it took a lot of restrain to not do it when I got
close to her I notice her sadness and she still has her eyes irritated from
crying we sat and before she could say a word I asked her to tell me the entire
story and that please don't let anything
out of it that I needed and then I would
ask her a few things and also needed all the TR the story is pretty basic around
two months before she asked for the open relationship on her girls dancing night
out they meet this exotic good-looking guy during the first month he was the
new flavor that all the singles friends on the group were trying out which leads
to girl taking and sharing experiences do eventually this guy that was was
having his way with all the girls around him set his eyes on Fran and begun to
flirt with her taking her to dance floor having fun well here is when she
shouldered sto things because we had an agreement with daing Knight that she
would stay away from any guy because we guys are pigs and it's pretty rare that
a guy just want to dance anyway because of the excitement she went for it
enjoyed the attention of this guy and had a great time dancing looking at the
Timeline this was around the time I noticed that Fran was distant moving
forward a few weeks her friends were sharing more intimate stories about this
guy and it got into her mind she found herself fantasizing doing it with him
also he was trying to make a move on her
too but from what she told me she didn't went for it because she was with me
drinks and drunken friends are bad counselors and once the idea of open the
relationship came out they were over two weeks chatting about how to convince me
that because long time ago I had threesoms and also swinged a little I
should be okay with the idea of open the relationship but Thoms and Swinging are
things you do as a couple and out of the pure exitment at least for me and was a
long time ago early's 20s all this lead to the day she asked to open the
relationship she told me that she and her friends never thought that I would
end the relationship in the moment that the worst scenario would be meating
angry and say no so there is no big deal in just ask at this point I interrupt
her and tell her that she should know better we were together over 2 years and
always share my T about everything with her she agrees at this point I explained
to her that I didn't break up with her for the question I did it because there
was already a guy so for me that was a major trust issue if this was some
concern that came out natural maybe we could have work it out in the worst
scenario maybe we could found it an alternative but the way things were is
was an alert for me we went around to the topic for a while and then I began
to question her basically I asked if she was intimate with him at some point she
said she wasn't if she developed some feelings for him no she didn't and
lastly if she has see this guy again and that was also a no even if that is not
much that was a small relief but I explained to her that I can't go back to
her I need to close this for my own health also I told her that we share a
lot of friends and I don't want to lose any of them because of this and wouldn't
be fair to ask them to chose so we can behave like adults and keep things
friendly if my friends take one side is because they want it not because I ask
them to she said how sorry she is that if she could would undo everything but
she knew it can't be done she was about to cry I was also too so it was a good
moment to ask for the check and leave I walked her to her car opened the door
for her just in habit of mine and she started to cry I couldn't help and hug
her we stood there about 10 minutes when she calmed she got into her car and
drove I was at went home grabbed my camping gear and drove to the Mount and
spended it all the weekend there to clear my mind early this morning I was
driving back to the city and at the moment my phone grabbed signal it got
flooded with messages from friends and family all worried because basically I
Disappeared without telling anybody I text back to everyone telling that I was
okay that went out camping and at the moment was driving to work also I got a
text from her something on the lines that she feels that we are not over yet
and that she thinks I need time to leave all this behind me and she will wait in
the hope of it I haven't text text her back because I'm pretty sure I'm done
but experience has teached me to Never Say Never so for now I'm going to take
easy doing what I like and see where things take me well that's it thanks all
for your support and advice PS sorry about my English update 3 how are things
going for me hello it's been a while the truth is I didn't plan to continue
updating the story but a few days ago a friend sent me a Tik Tok link where the
story was but now in Spanish the translation was horrible so I got some
Smiles at it and realized that I hadn't logged into Reddit in a while while so I
decided to do it yesterday I came across several messages some asking what I was
up to others giving advice and encouragement and of course those asking
for an update I decided that it would be easier to write here than to respond
individually to each of you well here it goes after almost a month and a half
revolving around the matter I still didn't have things very clear but
fortunately that's what best friends are for I had a conversation with CLA and
her husband Pete my two best friends CLA is like my little sister and Pete is my
best friend since College after a while talking CLA put on her serious face
that's strange he's always smiling and told me you have to let her go you know
very well that in your head you will always be wondering what happened and if
you are really all that she wants in regardless of whether that's the case
you'll never be sure she also said something about how the only reason I
haven't let her go is because I don't want to be alone to be very honest all
of that is true it was hard to hear it especially because it came from the
woman who I still see as that little girl I took by the hand to school and
for some reason I couldn't stop wondering when she became more mature
and wiser than me funny note I jokingly asked her when she had matured Ed more
than me she laughed and told me that I stopped maturing at 15 and that she had
caught up with me when she turned 10 we have 5 years difference anyway back to
the story I gave the situation A couple more thoughts that week and went to talk
to Fran I just told her that clearly at this moment in life we wanted different
things and that it was better for each of us to continue on our own way without
resentments or bad feelings and I said goodbye clearly she didn't like what I
said and she got sad but well she has to process her emotions and I have to
process mine I was in an emotional low for a while and I focused on work but
things have slowly improved no I'm not seeing anyone and I have no intentions
anytime soon I think it's a good opportunity to behave like an immature
15-year-old in the body of a 43-year-old and play video games go camping and be
the Envy of every one of my friends whose wives or Partners don't let them
go out to play XD and that's it thank you for your interest in my story your
advice and good wishes PS like always sorry about my English | give me a good story on MyFiancewantstoendourrelationshipbecauseIdidntchoosehimfirst |
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my 20m father 56m is not speaking to me after getting a flat tire I got a flat
tire yesterday to the point I had to plug the hole and fill it back up in
order to get home the tire will have to get replaced but other than that there's
no other issues my father however is not speaking to me after I told him what
happened he called me a and is done with me he's been giving me
the silent treatment since then not sure what to do I'm ordering a new tire and
waiting for it to come in I work with him for his electrical business and
pretty much every day now he's belittling me and insulting me I'm not
really sure why he's just always angry and stressed he now just tells me to go
myself and that he has the worst family he does support me a lot
financially as I still live at home and that he pays me for working with him but
that may change as he has also fired me due to this tire incident just not sure
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iida for kicking my girlfriend's 16yo daughter out for bringing drugs into my
house I 33 male am kicking my GF 33f daughter out of the house that I own
because she refuses to respect the house rules around Christmas 2023 she got
kicked out of school for having marijuana on school property she has
been told and given amnesty multiple times about having it in my house
tonight I smelled it coming from her room went in and told her to give it to
me she refused I tossed her room and never found it she never denied having
it and I know where it is but I will not under any circumstances lay a hand on
this child in order to retrieve it from her purse that was on her shoulder I
informed her that if drugs are more important than respecting the to of the
house that she lives in and I pay for then she can go ahead and pack her
things she then called her dad and now I'm awaiting his arrival I don't want
her to leave because our place is safer than his last I heard he was living in a
stolen van but I will not tolerate her setting a bad example for her little
sister or disrespecting the one rule I've laid out it is worth noting that I
am an addict in recovery and the entire point of this rule is an effort to keep
her from making the mistakes I made which she is unfortunately quickly
moving towards update firstly I did not expect this to blow up the way it did
and I appreciate all the feedback from all sides as it's given me a lot to
ponder on I want to address some of the most common inputs here before getting
to the update or at least where it's at so far it's just a plant yes yes it is
but it is also a psychotropic substance that should not be mixed with mental
health meds have you tried talking to her I have on multiple occasions both
before and after she got caught with it at school I've tried pointing out the
changes in personality that her mother and I have witnessed loss of motivation
becoming a shut in an absolute disregard for grades even though she wanted to be
a doctor and letting we become her entire personality I've tried explaining
the dangers of mixing drugs and psych meds I've tried explaining my own
personal life experiences in an effort to show her that I understand where
she's coming from and what she is going through and lastly I've even told her
about my issues with addiction what caused it what drugs I was doing and
even how all of that affected my life all to no avail you can't kick her out I
don't want to this is all something that
has been building up it started with her just smoking weed and then graduated to
her doing hallucinogenic drugs and one time accidentally smoking crack adding
that she's threatened violence against her little sister something we initially
wrote off as kids being kids until I was informed last night that her little
sister has known about this for weeks and didn't say anything because she
threatened to beat me up if I told on her so she's using intimidation to get
what she wants when I told her to pack her things it was admittedly coming from
a place of anger and an attempt to try the Scared Straight tactics of yester
year I didn't expect her to try and call my bluff so that kind of backfire
furthermore she has stated on multiple occasions that she would rather live
with her dad because I hate it here you guys moved an hour away and took me from
all of my friends as for the update I told her mother this morning that she
doesn't have to leave and I would honestly prefer if she didn't her mother
told me that she wanted to leave anyways so all I've done is given her an out
last night after things calmed down a bit I went to check on the little sister
because she was worried she was in trouble while doing so I was informed
that she has known this was going on and
was scared to speak up due to threats of
violence I reassured her that she is not in any trouble my hope is that by the
end of the day we reach a resolution that doesn't end in her leaving the
safety of her current living situation and going into one that is more
tumultuous but I have my doubt I know I shouldn't have jumped to something so
drastic but at this point I've tried everything I can think of that made
sense I don't have an issue with weed as a whole but I do have an issue with a
16-year-old child making it her entire personality and then brazenly rubbing it
in everyone's faces with no regard for anyone around her I've considered asking
her mother to send her to rehab but unfortunately where we live rehabs won't
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a it for being annoyed at my fiance for not making my sister a bridesmaid I 30
male have known my fiance 29f will call her Amy for 7even years and we got
engaged 3 months ago I also have a little sister 9f we'll call her Lily Amy
and Lily are very close as Lily only has brothers and Amy as an only child Amy
promised Lily before we even got engaged that she could be a bridesmaid for our
wedding Lily has waistlength red hair which she is very proud of and Amy loves
it and frequently comments on how gorgeous it is and loves playing with it
the problem came up last week when I was at my parents house without Amy one day
and Lily was talking to me and asking when Amy was officially going to ask her
to be a bridesmaid as she was really excited to go dress shopping I said that
it's none of my business as the groom and she'd just have to wait and see but
I was really happy seeing how excited she was I asked Amy later on when she
was planning on asking Lily to be her bridesmaid but she hesitated and then
said she's not going to ask her and that
she's not going to be a bridesmaid I was taken aback as she'd always expressed
that she wanted Lily so be a part of our wedding party for some background we're
planning on a spring wedding and Amy very keen on the trend where all the
Bridesmaids wear a pastel color which are all different but tied together
nicely I know that the bridal party is completely Amy's decision and not mine
but I asked her why not all of a sudden she said that if Lily was a part of the
bridal party she would be wearing a pale pink dress which would Clash horribly
with her Vivid red hair and she didn't want that on all the photos I personally
really don't think it would be that much of a problem and I know Lily especially
would love that dress as it's her favorite color I asked is it not
possible for Lily to wear one of the other colors and for one of the other
bridesmaids to wear the light pink she said she'd already decided what each of
the girls were wearing based on what best suit suited them and that it just
wasn't possible for Lily to be a bridesmaid I left it at that for the
night as I didn't want to get in a fight over it then I've so far stayed out of
the way of all of the bridal party stuff as it's completely her choice but I was
shocked by this as Amy has already told Lily that she can be a bridesmaid I
brought it upon again the next morning calmly and asked her is there no way she
could still do it as she was so excited Amy turned around and almost shouted in
my face though and said she'd made her decision and that was Final and Lily
wasn't going to be a bridesmaid I told Lily that it turns out that due to a
couple of different reasons she wasn't going to be able to be a bridesmaid but
didn't tell her the reason why is I didn't want her to feel like it was her
fault she didn't make a big deal out of it and just said okay but from what I've
seen of her and from what my parents have told me she's really upset | give me a good story on AITAforbeingannoyedatmyfiancfornotmakingmysisterabridesmaid |
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a it ta for not regretting divorcing my wife because our son is not mine I try
to make it as short as possible so me and my ex-wife Mary real name cause I
don't care if she finds out have been together for 5 years and married for two
our relationship was mostly fine and we always had only one major issue she
cheated on me when we were together since 3 years and after a lot of therapy
I decided to forgive her and she to work
harder for our relationship it wasn't an easy decision at all but I loved her
more than myself and I decided to forgive her then since things were going
great and she changed from therapy I decided to marry her and she accepted it
was the best day of my life even thought that my friends told me that I was
insane to marry her because of her cheating in her past she had a very high
body count of over 100 but I loved her anyway unfortunately my friends didn't
showed up for my wedding because they were extremely skeptical but I didn't
careed because I was too happy her parents too were happy that we worked
things out and the whole wedding and honeymoon was just amazing and it was
like I was leaving in one of those fairly Tales then after a year of
marriage she became pregnant and I was super happy to start a family with her
and the whole pregnancy went smoothly but then when our son was born | give me a good story on AITAHfornotregrettingdivorcingmywifebecauseoursonisnotmineorig |
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parents opened up several credit cards in my name while I was away at College
they racked up more than $155,000 in debt and now they want me to kick me out
because I brought it up original post May 9th 2024 I guess this is a lesson in
paying attention to my finances after having just finished my freshman year of
college I came back to my parents house for the summer my mom made it a habit on
Monday SL Tuesday to make sure she got the mail before I had a chance even
running from the kitchen Tuesday to make sure I didn't get it as I was expecting
an Amazon order order today the mail came kind of early and there was a
letter from a collection agency addressed to me I only knew it was a
collection agency once I opened it and discovered I supposedly owed nearly
$5,000 on a Capital One card I had no idea I was ever signed up for once I got
done freaking out I called my dad at work and asked him what to do it was
weird when he said to talk to my mother about it he didn't seem happy at all but
I didn't think much of it once my mom got home I asked her about it and she
said her and my dad opened up a few credit cards in my name for house hold
expenses she said she thinks I owe around $10,000 to three different credit
card companies I checked my credit and it turns out I owe over
$155,000 we ended up having a huge argument about it with my mom saying her
parents did this to her when she was 18 she said that I could file for
bankruptcy and that it wouldn't hurt me because I wouldn't be trying to buy a
house for several years I'm interested in going into a government related job
and a bankruptcy would probably disqualify me for it she knows this but
it doesn't seem like she cares my dad got home a couple of hours ago and they
talked to me together either I can declare bankruptcy once they spend up to
the credit limit of the last card with any credit on it or they said I could
move out at the end of the month it just feels like it's incredibly unfair
because it doesn't sound like bankruptcy will actually do anything for my credit
and probably sync my job opportunities how can I get my credit score back to
where it was which was around 720 and how can I get this to not affect my
credit going forward comments checking out 2024 that's identity theft it's a
felony the ball is in your court you could easily have them arrested and you
can lean their property muffin man 0807 not sure if this is another comment but
I'll write this out [ __ ] these pieces of
[ __ ] you owe them nothing now this is an
egregious betrayal of you as a person they are trading your financial future
for some new [ __ ] in their house [ __ ]
them you are a tenant and they can't just kick you out they have to evict you
if they change the locks throw your stuff away or anything like that call
the police for an illegal eviction absolutely record the next conversation
you have on this subject use the voice recorder on your phone but record the
conversation go to the police and file a police report with the evidence it will
be able to be removed from your credit and hopefully land them with some jail
time and a big fine hopefully [ __ ] these
people I have three kids and I can't imagine ever stealing from them update
June 10th 2024 1 month later I ended up taking the advice of the vast majority
of people here and I filed a police report the officer took some printouts
of everything as evidence once I had the
report I called all of the places listed on my report and gave them the report
number the three credit card companies all took it and were pretty cool with it
the collection agency wanted me to make a Goodwill payment so they could start
investigating my claim that it was fraudulent they said they could still
sue me even with a police report if I didn't cooperate with their fraud report
I refused obviously as I don't want them to be able to take money out of my bank
account I never told my parents that I went to the police and for a couple of
weeks they had no idea right after mem morial day they received a call from a
detective and everything blew up after the call they began screaming at me and
my dad started literally throwing my things out of the door I called the
police at that time and they showed up and told my parents if they wanted me to
leave they would have to evict me I came home from work the next day and the
locks were changed I called the police again and my parents refused to open the
door and said all of my stuff was at my grandparents house I received another
report number for the unlawful eviction which I was told was a civil issue and
got my stuff from my grandparents luckily I have a friend with a couple of
spare bedrooms and she said I'm welcome to stay with her for a couple of months
I'm scheduled to move into my own place in about a week once I get a full tally
of the total cost of everything included
in moving I'll be filing a civil lawsuit against my parents for the unlawfully
eviction I was told by the same detective my parents didn't seem very
truthful with anything and the State's Attorney's office will be in contact in
the next few weeks regarding identity theft charges he said he believes they
will likely prosecute possibly as soon as this week if that's the case they or
more likely just my mom will be issued a warrant and have to spend at least a
night in jail no matter what I feel as though I made the right choice
additional information from oop after reading comments oop I'll post another
update if my mom ends up getting arrested and or if my civil suit has any
action on it I appreciate everyone's advice in the op techu 420 for what it's
worth you probably spoke to a collections agent who lied to you about
them needed a goodfaith payment to start investigating one no a good faith of
payment is needed to investigate a situation like this especially with
police report two the moment you pay them they legally classify that as you
accepting responsibility for the full amount as your debt three credit card
companies and their debt collectors cannot sue you they will just put it on
your credit report and harass you Story 2 aita for not letting my kids ride for
hours home with their grandmother original post June 10th 2024 around 1:00
a.m. there was a terrible crash as my 70f mil decided to try to navigate our
stairs in the dark while wearing a CPAP she tumbled down the steps hitting her
head bad enough to bruise her face and C some serious swelling around her ear I
immediately started calling 911 but my wife who is a niku right now told me not
to call as her mother had no obviously broken bones and didn't want to go I'm
not a medical professional and it's seldom wise to argue with a nurse or
one's wife but I pressed for them to at least let me drive her to thee um if
they refused an ambulance but all to no avail this was just a couple of hours
ago go and she's now in the bed with an ice pack and a couple of Tylenol to
avoid blood thinners in the morning she wants to drive home and take my 9f
daughter and 13m son to her place for the week this has been planned for weeks
and I would have no issues with it but for the fact that the woman just fell
down a flight of stairs and could have a
concussion I love her and don't want her to drive at all and asked her to stay a
couple of extra days but if she insists on going I can't stop her I told my wife
I was uncomfortable with the kids riding
with her given the danger and she thinks
I'm being silly which I don't understand
at all as she's a very competent nurse I finally told her that everyone could be
mad at me but it simply wasn't an option I'll take the day off and drive them if
I must but I won't take any chances ITA top comment on the OG post I'm a nurse
and I'm frankly appalled at your wife's decision to not take her mother to the
um a 70-year-old who suffers a fall and sustains head injuries should absolutely
be checked out in the um whether or not your wife your mother or the Easter
Bunny believe it isn't necessary if she absolutely refuses to go tell her that
your children will not be staying with her at her house as you do not think it
is safe she could be suffering from a concussion or an intracranial bleed oop
is voted NTA update same post 18 hours later well my milil was alive and
conscious when we woke this morning my wife stayed up to watch over her through
the night I spoke to my wife this morning and again shared my concerns
regarding the dangers my milil would be posing to herself and our kids and my
wife was frustrated that I questioned her opinion but when I asked asked if
she was so utterly certain in Her diagnosis sans's any medical equipment
that she was willing to bet both her mother and our children's lives on it
she sheepishly relented and agreed the kids would stay home and that she would
encourage her mom to go to the um I spoke to my milil again and asked her to
let me take her to the um and she shared that her primary reason for refusing
Medical Care was a fear of the cost of doing so unfortunately that's a serious
concern of many folks here in the US anyways hearing that I firmly insisted
she go and told her we'd cover any costs she and my wife finally went to the um
and after several hours and copious tests it was in fact determined that she
had a concussion as well as rib and wrist fractures and soft tissue injuries
bruising my wife was pretty devastated with the diagnosis and was deeply
apologetic and remorseful my mother-in-law will be in the hospital
until at least tomorrow the hospitalist pretty directly chided both my wife and
Mel all in all I'm thankful that things didn't end up worse the kids only cared
about their Grandma being okay some answers to questions asked my milil is a
retired school teacher on a very limited fixed income along with my fil there's
no inheritance or other reason my wife would have wished her ill they have a
great relationship my wife sprang out of
bed the moment the accident happened and was almost detached and clinical at the
moment but was later extremely emotional her father had a major stroke last year
and we actually just sold our house Friday in order to move closer to her
parents to help take care of them in their old age while my wife has been a
ncku nurse for a decade she was a step- down ICU nurse for 8 years I realize
that doesn't strengthen her case regarding her decision but perhaps it
adds context she really is remarkable with babies and has saved many a life
but I can certainly understand why the circumstances of these events would
paint her in a less than beneficial light in retrospect I think my wife was
in a State of Shock she's never lost anyone and her dad's stroke is still
fresh on her mind I've lost both parents
and four siblings plus plenty of friends
my time in the service so I have to look at her through a lens of empathy | give me a good story on ParentsopenedupseveralcreditcardsinmynamewhileIwasawayatcollegeTheyrackeduporig |
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my family wants me to hide my heterochromia for my sister's wedding my
21 male sister 32f is getting married and they want me to sing at her wedding
but also work contacts to hide my heterochromia I have two different
colored eyes I'm Asian and my family thinks my heterocromia will never be
socially accepted SL always looked down upon and may even be perceived as some
kind of illness or disability and they don't want the new in-laws to perceive
any flaws about us and our family I live abroad so I don't see my family often
but every time I visit I get urged to go out in public at events to see family
wearing contacts spring every year when this wedding is we have really bad
yellow dust and wearing the contacts is going to be a pain I have good Vision so
contacts are not part of my life at all accept to hide my colored eye my mom has
always been image-oriented grooming my sister and I our whole lives and being
hypercritical about our looks my only flaw is my eye condition my sister's
flaw was her nose and my mom bullied her into surgery for a small bump no one
would have said anything bad about so should I suck it up and wear the
contacts for that day maybe I'm picking the wrong time to retaliate when is the
right time edit I can't keep up with the comments so I will write here and hope
you see it I have a complete heterochromia brown and blue questions
about my sister as I mentioned in my post I live abroad I grew up and went to
school outside my home country from a young age where I never hide my
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I'm breaking off my engagement because my fiance might get sick in the future
my fiance and I have been together for five years he's the love of my life and
I literally can't imagine being without him so the thought of doing this is
making my stomach roll he was adopted and neither he nor his parents knew much
about his medical history a few weeks ago he met his biological brother for
the first time and found out that his birth father had passed from
Huntington's disease there's a 50 chance that my fiance also has the genetic
defect that causes Huntington's but he refuses to get tested it's not the
disease I'm scared of it's the not knowing if we know he'll get it we can
prepare financially practically and emotionally he says a positive test
result will hold him back from living his life but I feel like it's the
opposite how can we live with this giant maybe looming over us how can I make
smart decisions on where to live how to budget or even whether or not to have
biological children with this man if I'm not allowed to have all the facts
so I've come to the decision that I have to break it off I respect his decision
but I can't understand or accept it I have literally no one I can talk to
about this because it's his effing secret and not mine to tell edit I have
to go to work now but I'll try to continue responding throughout the day
especially to the comments that exactly mirror the descending voice in my head I
just want to clarify a few things up here one I would not leave him if he tested
positive for the defect I would not leave him if he got sick I just want to
plan for us to be able to afford the best life and care for him if he does
which means we have to start immediately two I don't want or need perfect
children that isn't realistic but it is possible to avoid them being subjected
to a 50 50 chance of having this disease of course there are alternative options
but again they involve preparation and planning I'm more than willing to take a
full genetic panel as well three yes one or both of us could get cancer or
permanently disabled in an accident or any other number of things but I've come
to learn that you can't plan for every unpredictable thing life throws at you
this is the rare occasion that we do have the opportunity to prepare for
essentially it comes down to the fact that we're incompatible regardless of
how much we love each other I'm a planner and he's very laid back until
now these traits have complemented each other but unfortunately they brought us
to an impasse that I don't think we can both move forward from happily second
edit I'm floored at all of these responses supportive and otherwise at
the very least I feel validated that this is a complex issue with no clear
and obvious answer I've decided to take a few steps back those of you who
brought up the fact that a few weeks is probably too little time for him to
fully process his possible diagnosis have a really valid point just because I
want to immediately jump into problem-solving mode doesn't mean it's
necessarily the right thing to do here so I'm not leaving yet at least and
hopefully never I'm going to find a therapist to help me work through my
anxieties and give my fiance some space not literal to work through his and then
we'll revisit this conversation hopefully with more patience on my part
and willingness to act on his third edit I know my title sucks sorry
but I can't do anything about it now it sounded fine at 6am when I made the post
update posted September 16 2022. update I'm breaking off my engagement because
my fiance might get sick in the future hi remember me I posted earlier this
year about my fiance who was refusing to get tested for Huntington's after
learning he had a 50 50 chance of having the genetic defect
some of you gave me great advice and support others the Wake Up Call I needed
and the rest of you well ready gonna read it I'm not sure if it was obvious
but I was not in a good place when I made that post when I stress I don't
sleep or eat for him it may have only been a few weeks to accept the situation
but for me it was a few long weeks of non-stop anxiety where I was lucky to
get even an hour of restless sleep a night I was plain exhausted on top of
everything else and only began to consider leaving when I started to hit
my Breaking Point anyway we talked about it at length we
cried we fought we researched I showed him empathy we consulted with friends
family and Specialists we pressed pause for days or weeks when we needed a break
from the whole damn thing and in the end he agreed to have the test
guys to say we dodged an absolute Maelstrom of bullets would be putting it
mildly he's negative both for developing the disease himself as well as the risk
of passing it on no matter what else happens this is one area where he's
assuredly safe all of this said once the Euphoria faded we decided it was
necessary to put a hold on our engagement and take some time apart I
still love him with all my heart but this was our first serious disagreement
as a couple and it forced us to seriously reflect on ourselves and our
relationship neither of our positions were wrong but they were so disparate
that there was no realistic compromise I've spent the last few months traveling
abroad and other than a few texts we haven't spoken much but I'm home now and
we have our second first date tonight wish me luck edits I mentioned this a
million times in my first post but here goes again I had no plans to leave if he
tested positive I just needed to know so
that we could plan our lives accordingly
we decided together to take a break it's
been an incredibly difficult emotionally charged roller coaster of a year I
didn't leave him we plan from day one to keep communication to a minimum it was
difficult I actually began keeping a journal of all the things I wanted to
call or text him about it's extensive and I can't wait to share it with him I
didn't give him an ultimatum but I understand why that's the takeaway I
only told Reddit that I was thinking of leaving and I know that it was rational
irrational point one no I'm not going to kill myself sorry if that disappoints
you point two why does everyone seem to think that traveling means sleeping
around 0.3 just gonna leave a little timeline
here for those of you who think I've been traveling since my last post
point four he learned that he was at risk of developing HD
0.5 I posted on Reddit when I reached my own breaking point and needed to vent
about how I was affected point six we spent the next three-ish
months discussing next steps Consulting professionals meeting others in our
situation Etc point seven he made his own decision to get tested
0.8 that took a while since there are a lot of steps you have to go through
before they'll even agree to do it 0.9 we learned he's negative point 10 we
rode the emotional high for a bit then realized we weren't the same people we
were at the beginning of the year and no longer knew how to be together normally
given everything we learned about ourselves and each other during the
hardest of situations Point 11 we decided to take a break and meet for
dinner on September 16th Point 12 I'm now getting ready to leave for said dinner
I meant to say this last time too thank you to all of you who are sharing your
stories about HD chronic illness and love I'm sorry I haven't responded to
everyone but I'm reading all of them and wishing you and your loved ones nothing
but health and happiness additional update in the comments
op also found this post and left a comment oh my God I'm so happy I found
this post after losing an entire day to defending myself on Reddit my own fault
LOL it happened last time too the positive tone here is amazing thank you
all for reading and commenting I promise I'll come back tomorrow to let you know
how our date when I have butterflies and I can't remember the last time I felt
like this our slash true-off matches doesn't allow links so I hope you guys
don't mind if I leave this here I've been completely humbled by this disease
and we're one of the lucky ones second update posted September 17th 2022
second update I'm breaking off my engagement because my fiance might get
sick in the future no I'm not this is about our date this title continues to
be embarrassingly bad and now irrelevant but I kind of feel like I'm stuck with
it now sorry if you're new here my fiance found out he was at risk of
developing Huntington's disease I wanted him to get tested and he did not months
later he did and thank God he was negative the whole thing put such a
strain on us that we decided to take a break last night we went on our second
first date and I can't believe how many of you want to hear about it of course I
couldn't leave you hanging but there are a few things I want to address first so
please bear with me for a few more sentences it feels like many of you are
determined for there to be a bad guy here but please don't put this label on
my fiance he doesn't deserve it he's not a jerk an or an ostrich he's a
man who was suddenly forced to face his own mortality he had a very human
response and I didn't make it any easier on him during those first few weeks
on that note it's great that so many of you guys always react perfectly to every
tough situation life throws at you I'm sadly not like that sometimes I up
like I did by not initially giving him enough time to process but I owned up to
that took several steps back and he forgave me I don't know what else you
want from me lastly there are a lot of comments about
how the obvious compromise was to just act like he had it but you know what it
was the idea of living like he was dying that actually drove him get tested he
didn't want us to unnecessarily save half our paychecks instead of using them
to enjoy life or deal with the complications of IVF if we don't have to
or forego opportunities that didn't play nicely with the end of life care plans
we'd be making essentially he concluded in his words that the cat was already
halfway out of the bag and it could come
out but it was never going back in if he was positive we'd be obsessing over
every little thing being a possible symptom but if we left things as they
were we'd be doing that anyway that doesn't mean it was easy at all we
actually had to make a second appointment to get the results because
he couldn't bring himself to hear them the first time but that was okay I was
there for him the whole time to support him however he needed me to okay I'm
done with that on to what you actually clicked for
do you guys know the feeling of watching your favorite childhood movie for the
first time in years and being nervous that it won't hold up or have the same
magic you remember that's kind of what I was feeling yesterday and I actually
have to thank everyone jumping down my throat in the comments because you did a
great job of distracting me from the butterflies in my stomach
well the magic was still there we may have spent months apart but it didn't
feel that way at all in fact everything felt even better and more comfortable
than when we parted we felt like the happy couple we'd been back in January
before this whole thing started it was like there was a weight hanging over our
relationship that was keeping us from actually moving forward despite the good
news and it's finally been lifted before last night I couldn't remember the last
time anything with him felt bright and easy but we're back baby
I know the general consensus was that this was a dumb move that we should have
opted for marriage counseling instead of going our own ways for a bit I'm not a
relationship counselor I'm not recommending this method to anyone I
don't know why it worked for us all I know is that we were both so drained at
the time and we each had the same gut feeling that a complete separation was
what we needed our relationship had become far more exhausting than fun and
I honestly believe that we wouldn't have
made it if we'd forced ourselves to work together to fix it
again don't take relationship advice from me but trust your instincts you
have them for a reason and I'm sure you'll be happy to know that he wasn't
sitting at home pining for me while I traipsed around Europe not having
intimacy with people he was busy with his own adventure he bought a car we
live in Manhattan so that's a pretty big thing and Road tripped across the
country we stayed up all night sharing stories
and pictures and telling each other about the people we've met it was
absolutely amazing sharing our experiences with each other I know it
may seem like it would have been better if we'd done it together but there was
something really special about living it through each other's eyes
anyway we have the rest of our lives to travel the world together
because we're not breaking up suck on the people who were hoping he'd leave me
look we know this new honeymoon period wherein won't last forever but I really
think we're prepared to handle whatever other challenges life tries to throw at
us honestly there's a pretty good chance we've already gotten through the worst
one knock wood but even if there's something bigger and better waiting for
us I'm completely optimistic we'll be okay
so that's that we've officially reached the other side of our first major life
issue together did either of us behave perfectly no are we going to be perfect
next time probably not are we 100 committed to combining our completely
opposite ways of dealing with crises into a superpower designed to crush
conflict like a 90s cartoon absolutely thanks for listening to my story
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aita for refusing to apologize for not telling my ex-son-in-law about our
family's history of mental illness my 60f son-in-law 43m and daughter 43f had
a very ugly divorce that has resulted in their kids 18m 15f 10m no longer
speaking to their dad in my EXs Al side of the family no longer speaking to us
and refusing to attend any holiday or birthday event for the grandkids if we
are involved in any way my son-in-law spent time in jail for screaming at the
judge handling the divorce case calling him a piece of human trash and enabler
of deception and bragging about writing rants about the judge online my daughter
was diagnosed with schizophrenia a few years into her marriage now her ex
demands that my husband and I apologize and pay him damages because he claims we
should have told him before the wedding 22.5 years ago that our family has a
history of mental illness at the time of their wedding my daughter did not show
symptoms my mom who was already deceased at the time had schizophrenia a few
relatives in the generation before her also may have had it but they were in a
time where it was hushed up my husband and I did not have any mental health
issues my daughter gets married and a few years into it she shows symptoms and
gets diagnosed with schizophrenia her ex
knew this and continued to be married to her and signing up for fatherhood with
her my daughter found it hard to keep employment and was stifled in her
marriage she filed for divorce and only then did her mental health become an
issue with her ex he posted rants that he wanted an analment because he was
lied to and he wouldn't have married her if he knew she was going to be insane a
lawyer friend told him he did know for years about the family history after my
daughter got diagnosed and didn't ask for an enement for nearly two decades
and California rarely grants them very few lawyers do them the judge implied my
ex's vocation experts and he himself were untruthful about my daughter's
employment prospects and ruled for alimony that had the potential to be
renewed indefinitely since this is a long-term marriage by CA standards my is
furious at having to pay that and that it's insulting he has to be given a
legally mandated amount to send his children he claims there was never a
marriage to begin with now he says we are the real villains because we knew
and should have made sure he knew and not just assumed he knew that our
daughter could become mentally ill he said as compensation we needed to pay
for his lawyers and support our daughter
so his alimony is zero because the judge
hates him now because of my lie and will like extend her alimony forever as they
are past 10 years of marriage in California I told him I'm not
apologizing for not revealing privileged medical information that wasn't mine to
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what simple decision changed your life dropping out of school was the best
decision I ever made I hated college so much all I wanted to do was drop out and
start my own business or company but my parents were insistent I graduate the
amount of work and stress that were associated with college for me made me
very depressed and I started using substances to relieve my stress I was
spiraling downwards really fast and I was contemplating ending my life I
decided to try one last time to turn my life around and I dropped out without
telling my parents every morning when I would usually leave for school I would
go to a park or a cafe and work on building my own company I started
getting sober it took a while but I eventually started doing much better my
online store was booming and I was sober I was also much happier I then told my
parents what I'd been doing and after a bit of disappointment they told me they
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aita for prohibiting my family from ever having anything to do with my father
after my mom passed away I never thought I would make a Reddit account and post
my life on it but here I am at 2 a.m. was abused by my father you name it he
did it I have several scars on my body due to his abuse I'm practically a
walking art gallery of my father's work my mother was a saint on the other hand
I don't know why she never left but I imagine it was for me she was a victim
of my father as well but for some reason stayed with him I moved out at 18 and
lived a nomad life in my VW bus working on jobs to put food on the table until I
met my now wife 30f she was a lot more established in life thanks to her
parents financial support I moved in with her and it did not take long before
we had kids 9M and 10f I remained in contact with my parents I did not
disappear out of their life mostly because of my mom I haven't told my wife
or my kids about my father and the kind of man he was I just never wanted to
bring that up it was not their business either way my mom was extremely happy to
meet her grandkid so was my father do you know those memes where the parent
acts completely different than what you know them for yeah imagine that he was a
completely different person it disgusted
me but I could not take the joy of being a grandma for my mom I swallowed my
feelings and allowed my kids to develop a relationship with my parents they grew
attached to them and we often took them to go see them every weekend my mom
always made their favorite food and spoiled them my father also enjoyed
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what nice things did we used to have until they got ruined by idiots Story
one I used to work at Tim Hortons and we were located right beside a homeless
shelter so every night we would take all the food that was still fresh and give
it to charity it wasn't a lot usually like a box of 10 bits and about a dozen
donuts until one day the regional manager came and shut the whole thing
down he didn't tell us why only to never do it again or we'll be fired but never
questioned it and just tell the resentment of Tim Hortons in our hearts
like how cheap do you have to be that you would rather have us throw away
consumable food a few months later a homeless man came in right as we were
throwing food in a garbage bag he goes ah it's Such a Pity I used to love
eating your guys's Donuts until that idiot had to ruin it my co-worker said
yeah that's honestly messed up Corporation greed you know the homeless
man gave us a weird look and he goes nah that's not what happened one of the
idiots at the shelter fake joking in a Timbit and tried to Sue this store
that's why they cut us off I'm not really sure how you can sue a restaurant
because you can swallow their food story two wine tasting it used to be
that if you were planning a nice dinner or picking up wine for holiday meals or
for whatever reason you would go to the winery and they would suggest pairings
for you you would taste a few samples and then buy the bottle or bottles you
wanted or you would politely tell them you're going to try a different Winery
the word got out the wine tasting is free and every Meathead who wanted to
get buzzed for free showed up nowadays every Winery in California charges for
tastings and instead of having a nice experience you have to fight yuppies in
their dates bachelorette parties screaming and wooing etc for space at the bar
Story 3 buying concert tickets a third-party company sold me e-tickets
and emailed me tickets with someone else's name on them I figured whatever
you know they messed up I'd get over it as long as I got into the show well I
got into the show it was over packed almost as if many seats have been double
sold and workers at the Event Hall were making accommodations left and right we
got to our seats before whoever else got those tickets a buzzed sweaty guy
managed to ruin most of the second set for us by getting right in my face and
insisting we were in his seats to which I firmly replied he'd have to get
security to move us because tickets said these were ours didn't see him face to
face again but I did notice him and his wife standing and railing about two
sections over for the rest of the show screw third-party concert ticket vendors
story form not long ago most neighborhoods in the United States were
surrounded by Woods or Meadows not talking about formal nature preserves or
national parks these were simply open areas that businesses in Naya moved into
kids could go there to build forts catch bugs and play elaborate hide and seek
games nobody seemed to mind there was a patch of force like this in my own
neighborhood up until I was about 10 years old it surrounded the back of a
local baseball field these 30 Acres included a creek where you could find
salamanders in the springtime and lots of big old Hollow trees where songbirds
built their nests it was cool to go back there through each changing season you
could actually feel the wondrous changes taking place I still remember the way
the springtime puddles smelled the joy of raking up huge piles of autumn leaves
to Roland Halloween time felt extra spooky and spring was always enchanting
then the land was sold to a company that
wanted to build an office Park the whole place was destroyed 18 years later the
office buildings are no more than an empty eyesore this same story is being
replayed all across the country and all around the world national parks are very
important but they offer a very different experience than the woodlot
down the street I see kids today in urban and Suburban areas growing up with
almost no access to Nature they think the outdoors is either boring or scary
because they never had a chance to experience the beauty of unstructured
play and Discovery through the seasons I recently started up a conversation with
a group of kids hanging out near the baseball field they were amazed to hear
what used to be there when I was little it was like I was talking about a place
from the World of Harry Potter all of them said they thought it was stupid to
demolish the woods they'd rather have a forest than an office Park so there may
be hope Story five very dumb and minor but I
think it goes to show how selfish people can be a few years ago a guy on Twitter
shared a Starbucks card information and told people to put in their phones the
idea was to have a shared or Community card thing get a drink if you want to or
donate to it so others could get a drink you'd think that people would just grab
free drinks but it actually had a surplus of donations versus people
actually using it I think the card ended up with like 200 at some point anyway
some jerk comes along and locks the card in an account effectively shutting it
down he said he did it because he wanted to prove how ineffective sharing was or
something dumb like that you always have that one guy who sees other people
enjoying something and feels the need to disrupt it
their way of thinking is something along the lines of I'm going to prove that
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to explore more story six affordable colleges I thought people were over
exaggerating when they said tuition went
up I graduated not even 15 years ago and it wasn't even a thousand and five
hundred dollars a semester I looked back at my own undergrad and in-state is now
16 000 plus dollars a semester this is exactly what happened in the housing
market the federal government removed the loan back in cap over 2010 to 2014
so now private lenders will loan literally anyone money to get even the
trashiest most worthless degrees at even the most unemployable schools if the
student defaults the federal government assumes the loan pays the lender the
remaining amount and goes on merciless collections with all that extra money
available demand has massively outpaced Supply surprises have skyrocketed
there's now over one trillion dollars in
student loan debt and over 90 percent of the students who graduate with a degree
that's not in stem business or Finance or accounting health care or education
will carry that debt for decades or even
die with it still unpaid payscale was so mortified that they removed their
20-year Roi sections with the mortgage crisis the bomb that nuked everyone was
the collateral debt obligations in the subprime mortgages we have entered the
U.S economic phase where subprime degrees have become normalized and we're
not going to emerge nicely story 7. 24 hour decongestant or
antihistamine cold medicine that worked drixoral dropped off the market when
everyone switched to new decongestant formulas that Were Somehow more
resistant to distilling into oh and anytime I buy decongestants my DL gets
scanned one year we had five people with allergies and sinuses in our family I
got put in some kind of watch list for buying too much children's allergy
medicine it always boggled my mind because the pharmacy had a free needle
exchange there's no questions asked if you were a fiend but God forbid you have
multiple children with sinus congestion thanks criminals this year's allergy
season is so bad they're turning their back into cough syrup story Aid read it
people are stupid they're still stupid on Reddit I still see so much of that
old Pat yourselves in the back don't we know better than the pros attitude here
like the average user is some educated techie as if this is 2006 and Reddit is
some underground site acting like the user base is anything more than a hive
of idiots is ridiculous at this point Reddit is currently the 15th most
traffic site in the world that's incredible mainstream popularity and it
brings in everyone people who use this site aren't smart or interesting or
unusual for doing it if they ever were getting advice from Reddit doubt its
value it probably comes from someone stupid how about reddit's opinions
likely to be a rational group think with a healthy dose of corporate or foreign
astroturfing speaking of astroturfing the profit or influence potential of a
website this popular is immense and everyone knows it Reddit got so upset
about not being able to monetize its popularity as well as it wanted that
they pushed a terrible redesign exclusively to pack the side full of ads
and ban various controversial groups to sanitize the site for advertisers
they're turning this site into Facebook with messaging profiles and everything
so to Pander to those users and bring in
advertising dollars the sad part is it's
going to work because that's been proven to be extremely lucrative and because
the new Reddit is populated by average users who live for that format the site
is near ruined when I first became aware of it 11 years ago it was small the
discussion was good and most of the users were there to escape from the
burgeoning popular sites which were full of the mass marketed drivel that now
pervades Reddit because it has now itself been engulfed by the Facebook
machine we're going to need a new alternative for a few years before the
exact same thing happens as it always does to something small but interesting
that gets popular and attracts the attention of interest groups and average
internet users to be fair this complaint basically goes for the entire internet
story nine being a kid time was when you
could roam around your neighborhood ride your bike to a nearby park explore the
woods behind your house or whatever on a typical summer day you'd get kicked out
of your house and told to come home when the street lights came on yeah the
freedom to roam and explore and create and play he has to get beat up by
bullies and chased by stray dogs and maybe fall down and get hurt we were
free to explore and learn and figure things out on your own and it was
awesome now we have the norm at least in the U.S that children ought to be under
adult supervision every minute of every day we take them from one supervised
activity to the next handing them off like some kind of nuclear code briefcase
parents are afraid to leave their kids in the car while they run into the store
for a few minutes because someone might call the police on them they can and
have been charged through the crime this is ludicrous to me all things being
equal it's one thing to leave your kids sitting in the car reading a book or
playing a game on his tablet when the weather was a concern that could be
neglect or maltreatment if it's too hot for instance but if it's in the shade
and it's a cool 65 degrees Fahrenheit out and you're just picking up Grandma's
prescription real quick I just don't understand I don't get helicopter parent
and how it came to be the norm to the point parents can be charged with actual
crimes for doing nothing more than letting their kid alone for a few
minutes it's just baffling to me storytelling YouTube used to be about
uploading amateur videos old school YouTubers put out quality content as
well now it's all corporate with companies promoting their stuff and the
majority of the content being crap tutorial or educational videos have
always been good I'm talking about entertainment I like the new grounds or
early YouTube era where people just uploaded random videos not
professionally edited with a big team working backstage and creating
merchandise and whatnot not to mention people like Logan Paul who are just
plain crap also back then videos were in
clickbaity are monetized people uploaded for fun I guess the internet just
doesn't have that wild west feeling anymore that's why people still remember
ah I can't believe you've done this over
some new well-produced video although it may be good well to be fair YouTube's
always had the weirdest stuff go trending in the past remember that
seemingly irritating fruit yeah I thought so you also remember to leave a
like in this video And subscribe to the channel I thought so too
story 11. those fun Rock hiding groups on Facebook in the beginning you'd paint
a rock and hide it for someone to find there were so many fun designs sometimes
you'd find a ride from way out of state it was thrilling in its own sweet little
way and then people started imposing new rules in the group You Can't Hide rocks
with glitter or stickers or googly eyes because it might make a squirrel want to
swallow one they'd jump down the throat of anyone who posted the group with a
glittery rock you were not allowed to hide a rock in a business because
someone might think it was solicitation suddenly all the fun animal themed rocks
hidden around the zoo were against the rules and Heaven help you if you got
caught middle-aged women can be mean fights began to break out over designs
claiming they were stolen from someone else the entire thing turned into a
cesspool of he said she said and oh ignorant people doing their rocks wrong
now the groups only consist of a few people who beg others to hide rocks
because they don't know where the magic is gone this sounds just like playing
some new game in elementary school it's fun for several weeks and then new
people who come ruin the game and you have to come up with a new one
story 12 Facebook I'm not saying it was amazing but it was so different in my
freshman year of college it was fun to upload photos and connect with people
you met in class Etc now there are a ton
of middle-aged people with our political opinions on both sides and acting like
they're better than everyone who is morning Mac Miller while you're crying
over the celebrity I'm thinking of the three veterans who end themselves every
day repost to show you care just really sick of all my aunts and uncles on
Facebook with their stupid opinions obviously I can unfriend those people
and I have I'm just saying the whole vibe of this site is different maybe
it's just me getting old but I'll take the first day of school pictures of her
politics and buy my MLM stuff any day story 13 movie theaters
etiquette is absolutely dead and once the greatest joy is dead to me because
people are inconsiderate jerks who feel they can act like they're at home and
ruin it for others I love the experience
of going to a movie but it's gone so bad now my wife and I went to see a quiet
place with another group of friends and for the first half of the movie there
were these High school-aged kids literally carrying out full
conversations not even trying to whisper
like the entire point of the movie is to be quite a little twerps I asked him
nicely once early on and didn't stop so I finally got fed up and told him to
shut the heck up or get out my wife was super embarrassed but at least we
enjoyed the rest of the movie in peace there's just no shame anymore people
letting their kids just cry taking phone
calls talking during the movie kids just running around like it's a playground
tickets have gone too expensive to basically put up with the same stuff I
deal with on my couch story 14. we used to have a small state
park where I live it was a literal hole in the ground in the middle of farm
country there was a waterfall tons of crazy rock formations and climbing walls
as well as rare plants and trees as far as the eye could see it was beautiful
then then hippies took over the place spray painted in all of the rock
formations and moved any rocks and boulders that could spell a big 420 into
place's gazing field baggies and cans litter the waterfall to the point where
the entire waterfall looks like a fount of trash you can't step two feet in any
direction without seeing a can bottle or pipe or needle it's really sad the last
time I went my friends and I left in tears it was devastating
story 15. eBay used to be this amazing multinational garage sale filled to the
brim of people selling their used stuff then people started filling it with
garbage no brand products and Drop Shipping into the winning bidders then
came the people that started using it as a storefront and charging full retail
value for nib items Now eBay is nothing more than resellers that find it more
affordable than developing an actual Web Store leaving me scratching my head
wondering why people don't just order it from Amazon for twenty dollars less or
watch a big box store and buy it for the same price without shipping or a weight
I've permanently checked the use button and the search results have been far
better but there are still people that keep the original box and try to sell it
in like new condition for full retail I try to avoid using eBay to sell anything
because of all the ridiculous fees they charge these days they side with the
buyer like 99.99 of the time anything goes wrong
story 16. pristine parks are full of litter and graffiti now no one cares
about Jen and Zach forever so don't write it on a damn Rock the size of a
house campfires are so paranoid about fires now because of buzzed morons not
putting out the Embers and causing forest fires sea life and British
Columbia it's extremely rare to see sea snails sea urchins or octopi anymore
people don't seem to understand that putting animals in buckets of water on
the beach ends their life sea urchins and octopi were because of unsustainable
fishing practices technically idiots fireworks used to be able to buy them at
corner stores and have fun a few stupid kids lose their fingers and no more fun
for anyone volatile chemicals you used to be able to buy bags of potassium
nitrate and blow up tree stumps or even the ingredients for rocket fuel at a
local Garden or hardware store a few goons blow some buildings and everyone
gets punished critical discussion in politics that's devolved into people
calling each other names and blindly voting with their party leaders the
merits of an idea don't matter anymore just whether or not it sounds like a
right or left-wing ideal yes I'm calling politicians idiots technological
progress It's it's all one quarter at a time now and any real Technologies take
more than one quarter to develop at this
rate we were going in the 70s and 80s we would have colonized Mars by now public
restrooms were abused by blocking themselves in and uh now no more public
restrooms at least where I am story 17. this is weirdly specific but
when my kid brother was a baby 1990s we had this great bath chair that we used
to give him bath in the bathtub once he could sit up it's sectioned to the
bottom of the bathtub and it had leg holes for their legs it was a godsend
for giving a baby a bath because it freed up your hands to be able to wash
their hair and stuff if you've ever tried to hold a wet slippery baby in one
hand while washing their hair or body with the other you know how difficult it
can be it wasn't no way intended to be a device that you would leave the child
unattended in for any amount of time whatsoever it said this in large bold
letters in both the packaging and on the chair itself so of course that's what
idiots did their kids drowned and now nobody can buy this thing in the United
States because it was banned or whatever
I've taken care of a lot of babies since then and I'd love to have this thing
again I've seen a few floating around on
eBay but since they're all being shipped from Europe where apparently if idiots
drown their kids everyone just shrugs and Carries On the price is really
inflated and they charge thirty dollars for shipping story 18. I'm the idiot one
night out of Pub I insisted on sitting in front of a door security asked me to
move so other people could go in and out my mouth off to the bouncers and copter
well deserved straight left nothing serious just to remember who's in charge
and don't be a bonehead love tap my mom I was 16 at the time saw the cut the
next day and raised such a fuss imagine the wife of the Reverend from The
Simpsons with politicians Etc the new regulations and policies were put in
place to govern the regulation of security personnel and no one can afford
the licenses and training courses Securities and allowed to touch people
Etc fast forward six years and I'm now a bouncer working my way through college
every other bouncer was a no hope or unemployed wanker who was put through
the course or license by the job search agency so all my colleagues or complete
tossors who disappear as soon as any trouble goes down all because I was a
wanker story 19. Lakes my family used to go to the lake near us once a month or
so as we grew up we went less mostly because of a lack of free time in high
school I had a car so I took some friends out to our Lake spot super nice
secluded spot hard to get to but beautiful it has lots of cliffs to Cliff
jump and some waterfalls caught on is a cool place to chill with friends and By
Word of Mouth All the dirtbags rolled in and trashed the place shattered glass
all over the beach in the rocks and cliffs other trash too but that was easy
to pick up we were diving once and found out someone had thrown a barbecue grill
into the lake with chairs too who does that we couldn't pull that stuff out too
deep and too heavy instant regret I tried to get people to clean up but
shattered glass is hard to collect and Hike out it's a hard hike to get to that
particular spot I haven't been back in years not sure if anyone else took up
the mantle to try to keep it clean maybe if we'd had a boat with a giant
industrial vacuum I hope you enjoyed the video and if you
made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy teachers what is the worst thing a
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if somebody says don't bother me unless it's an emergency sometimes you have to
just maliciously comply we'll get into that in a bit but first you will not
recheck our scores fine have fun with unemployment context I've been working
in this health insurance company for the
past three years I recently took another position with better hours and better
pay but this time it was to coordinate appointments with doctors and
Specialists my metrics were always great and the reason I was selected for the
new position was due to my metrics this has been brewing since October 2022. we
used to have a co-worker let's call her Karen Karen is this old lady that thinks
she knows it all everything she says is right and she often blames everything on
someone else typical care and activities
the first time I interacted with her was back in October when I messaged her via
our work chat because she messed up prior authorization for a patient and
the MD office was calling to have the person that created the authorization
fixed the issue the conversation went like this I said hi good morning I have
an MD office calling requesting to speak to you in regards to a prior
authorization that looks incomplete Karen says and you couldn't help them
this is a call center you're supposed to help and I don't even know who that MD
is I said you're correct this is a call center however you created the
authorization and as you know I cannot fix authorizations that were not created
by me and also they'll likely speak with
you specifically I also provided her the patient record number and the MD office
phone number she said well I'm not available to talk to them I said okay I
went back to the call I specifically told the MD what she said including that
she's not available to talk but hopefully she'll call them back to fix
the issue I also sent a message to my direct supervisor with a screenshot of
our conversation and I simply said this is unprofessional especially in an
environment like ours fast forward the start of the Year Karen took a position
with our quality assurance Department due to them being understaffed I used to
work in the QA department and I knew the ins and outs and knew she would be
assigned to our department since she already had experience context our
quality assurance gives scores from a hundred and if we miss something we get
points deducted for example Miss HIPAA -20 give an accurate info -10 don't
advise people for our survey minus five Etc in January comes my first bad score
in three years in the company it was a 56 percent I was astonished because it
was the first time I've had a bad score but I also make sure the score was
correct our company gives us the choice to listen to our calls just to be sure
just in case the quality agent made a mistake I listened to my call and I did
everything right I completed the information provided good service and I
asked the PT if they need assistance with anything else and provided a
closing script on the quality note it was stated that I didn't offer any help
and that I didn't even complete HIPAA I sent it to my supervisor and he stated
that when I offered the closing script the patient asked something and I
replied and disconnected the call okay I still said the closing script in his
question and my answer lasted literally five seconds my supervisor still went to
her and managed to fix the score to 95 because she felt like I didn't provide a
survey if someone's worked in a call center you know that metrics are
everything and one bad thing will quickly not get you your monthly bonuses
and on top of that we get our butts handed To Us by management because if we
don't achieve the metrics they also don't get bonuses I took screenshots of
our conversation and saved it in a file then I sent it to my personal email
since I know our it department is known for deleting anything that is not a
working system or appropriate fast forward three days ago or April 18th I
had received several scores ranging from 85 to 80 percent and only one 100 score
the 100 score I received because Karen wasn't the one who audited my call and
the other person found everything all right but the 85 percent looked fishy
since the first thing you see is the patient name I quickly remembered the
call because the person was funny and I enjoyed the call I listened to the call
and of course I did everything perfectly
however Karen put on the system that she deducted 10 points for not telling the
patient that he had a copay for the visit and another five points for
extending the call what I contacted my supervisor and let him know what had
happened however I didn't receive a response I was confused so I sent a
message to A co-worker who told me that they'd been having the same issue with
Karen with inaccurate Audits and the department not achieving their monthly
goals due to it since my supervisor didn't reply I did what everyone does
when management doesn't reply I messaged
Karen and I sent her a message that just said hey I've seen some inaccurate
Audits and I would like to know if you could recheck them since I listened to
the calls and everything was done properly the reply I received was all
audit scores are final and it could not be appealed I knew it was a lie since
I'd worked with quality before and I know it could be changed I replied you
know I worked in that department for one year and I know it could be rechecked
and reversed right Karen said your previous position is irrelevant in this
matter if you don't like the score you can go ahead and submit a complaint to
my supervisor I replied okay have a good
day knowing that her supervisor knows me really well cue malicious compliance I
just didn't create one formal complaint I created one complaint for each time
she scored me incorrectly not only that but I also told my 19 co-workers what
she said and advised them that if they would like their scores overturned and
rechecked they could send a complaint to her supervisor but only to send one
complaint per bad score also to let you guys know we don't get one audit a month
no no we get audited 10 times per month in the span of 24 hours her supervisor
must have received around 200 complaints from our department complaining for one
person Karen the first complaint was mine with Karen's conversation saying
that all decisions are final and that she cannot recheck or overturn and also
saying to submit a complaint to her supervisor her supervisor sent me a
message saying that they'll evaluate all
the complaints and scores and we will be
receiving a message that was on Monday 4
17 23 Tuesday we didn't get any messages Wednesday I couldn't go to work due to
my Illness but today on 4 20 I received a message from her supervisor stating
that my scores have been reviewed and properly scored and also stating that my
supervisor will be under investigation because any complaint should be
submitted to his manager and he never submitted anything and that employee has
been terminated but the best part is logging into our chat and seeing Karen's
profile with no pictures and instead of her name it only said unknown user the
morale of our group is better and I hope we don't have issues again I just can't
think of anything more fun than working in a call center where somebody has to
go and score all of these things just imagine you spend all your life going up
through school you get out and the best you can do is this call center where
essentially you're graded on your work every week once again also hi I'm Steven
and if you enjoy awesome stories of malicious compliance why not hit those
like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is a new
manager was older than me so knew the best way to run an event I used to work
part-time for my University running student events experience is the best
teacher I'd participated in these events as a student assisted in these events
under someone else as part of my scholarship and as a staff member ran
the events myself we had a new College head who was much older approximately 50
to 60 while everyone else was in their early 20s this woman was the most
pig-headed arrogant fool you can imagine and despite being new she wouldn't sit
back and observe how things worked or listened to those on our team who'd been
there for years no matter what you told her when she announced something that
wouldn't work or cause problems the answer was the same I'm older so I know
best didn't matter if it would take you longer to do it her way or in one case
if it was technically illegal of course mistakes that we'd warned her would
happen were always someone else's fault or swept under the carpet during event
planning one look at the schedule told me she hadn't allocated the team
properly Email exchange I said hmm probably not a good idea to have the
whole team in an hour before the event most of them standing around doing
nothing best to get five or so people in for setup most of the team in for
running the event and hold back another three to four for cleanup the college
head said no I want everyone in helping out equally an hour before the event I
said they're only meant to do two hours work per event if you have them an hour
early for a two-hour event that's three hours they'll all leave before cleanup
The Slackers will slack off and the proactives will end up doing everything
the college head said I'm older than you I know best just do as you're told cue
malicious compliance I said fine but I've got some personal business to do
directly after the event I'll handle procurement and setup but we'll need to
leave right afterward the event is over College head said that's fine on to
other business day of the event the whole team showed up an hour before for
setup as expected five or so did all the
setup work while most of the teams stood around on their phones some even got
bored and wandered off it wasn't the team member's fault for standing around
only so many people can do meal prep and set up tables without getting in each
other's way 10 minutes before the event College head shows up and everything's
running smoothly event was a lot of fun some of the team continued to wander off
some ran the events some participated I was running around like a gopher letting
the college head take credit for the event in front of everyone not doing any
work mind you but taking credit for it I made sure to remind her I had to leave
right at the end of the event for personal business in front of the other
college heads several times to be extra spiteful I neglected to stop several
team members from wandering off who had done no work other than standing around
talking and eating and encouraged several people who had definitely done
two hours worth of work to call it a night and thank them for their help
forgetful me I also didn't tell team members standing around during events to
start cleaning up as things were finishing all the free food was gone all
the games were over both students and team members were wandering off into the
night right and all of a sudden the college had said wait where are you
going there's so much mess and we've got to put away all the tables and tidy up
all the different games but everyone's left I said hmm yes we probably should
have saved up a few team members to do clean up but they've already done their
two hours anyway like I told you earlier I've got some personal business to
attend to directly after the event so I'll see you tomorrow College had said
what personal business is it this will take over an hour to do all this on my
own I said I'm sorry but I said personal business because I wasn't comfortable
discussing with you or the team about what it was as it really is quite
personal and I'm going to be late I wandered off home for my personal
business of closing all my curtains and playing Xbox in my underwear chuckling
at the thought of that arrogant woman having to do all that work by herself
the formal complaint she put in for me leaving didn't really go anywhere as I
just forwarded the email exchange to management sadly pig-headed people are
pig-headed because they don't learn no matter what I eventually quit and a few
months later was introduced to my Replacements replacement who was also
ready to quit what I don't understand is when you have a pig-headed person like
this why does it seem like they can survive so many mishaps like sometimes
they'll make some erroneous mistake that's so huge that they have to be
canned but there's these weird survivors that seem to stick around despite being
so methodically backwards our next story is don't bother me unless it's an
emergency this morning I got into my car and realized I left my headlights on
thankfully modern technology meant it automatically it switched off when the
key was removed but it reminded me of a time where that wasn't so many many
years ago I was working one of my first jobs in a little cafe nearing the end of
my training period it was a quiet day perfect to put the Newbie on with only
one experienced staff member the experienced staff member called in sick
boss had to come in and cover until Sue could come in early boss wanted to use
the time on site to do paperwork out the back I'll be in here if you have any
questions I very annoyingly had a lot of questions how to avoid an incorrect
transaction where to find more special paper for the credit card machine what
to do when the coffee grinder stopped working finally boss said I'm busy don't
bother me unless it's an emergency let me know when Sue is here shyly I replied
that's what I came to tell you sue just arrived they said great many more
questions ask her Sue took over the coffee area and got me on restocking
clearing tables and emptying the bins and other necessary grunt work I went
out to the outside bins through the little staff parking area and saw my
boss's old car there with the headlights
still on I went back to my boss's office
boss is it an emergency boss snapped not to me I replied then go away I left
quickly I I went to tell Sue instead Sue
then I changed my mind boss doesn't want
to be disturbed unless it's an emergency so I'm supposed to ask you if I have
more questions Sue and I worked pleasantly until the end of my shift a
few hours later as I gathered my things to leave boss ran by Me Knocking into me
a bit without turning around to see if I
was okay boss said sorry I'm in a rush I slowed down to see what happened next
getting out my brick of a phone to text my mother I was on my way home I could
hear my boss swearing op oh no boss realized that was what I was going to
tell them earlier I was in trouble can you bring your car in and give me a jump
start my battery's flat only a few cars could fit so only senior staff and
management could park there I said I walked here I lived 10 minutes walk up
the hill I raced off before my boss could blame me the next time I was on
shift with Sue I asked what happened to boss headlights left on got a flat
battery boss tried to jump start it with my car but it didn't work had to call a
taxi funny that neither of us noticed the lights were on when we walked by it
and I realized of course she had to have seen it when she walked in I can only
imagine why she didn't say anything either does Sue know Sue definitely
knows I don't know what Sue has against this boss but considering the way boss
treated op there's definitely some kind of unknown grievance going on here that
was definitely intentionally acted upon the wage theft Tango the phones in the
call center are open from 9am to 8pm I work a later shift from 11 30 to 8. one
week the following happens Monday I clock into my job at 11 30 a.m do five
minutes of setup and start taking phone calls from customers by 11 35 I clock
out at 8pm that night sometime during the day a memo comes down from corporate
call center Representatives should start taking calls the moment their shift is
scheduled to start Tuesday in order to avoid working off the clock I clock into
my job at 11 15 am do five minutes of setup 10 minutes of administrative work
and start taking phone calls from customers at 11 30 am when my shift
officially starts I clock out at 8 pm having done 15 minutes of overtime that
day Wednesday in order to avoid working off the clock I clock into my job at 11
15 am do five minutes of setup 10 minutes of administrative work and start
taking phone calls from customers at 11 30 am when my shift officially starts
sometime during the day a memo comes down from corporate overtime is not
approved for a call center Representatives I clock out early at 7
45 PM in order to avoid doing overtime Thursday starting at 11 25 a.m I do five
minutes of setup I clock in at 11 30 and start taking calls immediately I stop
working at 7 55 but don't clock out yet I'll be darned if I let corporate make
me a victim of wage theft over the next 5 five minutes a couple of calls from
last minute Karen's come in I don't take the calls and at 8 pm I clock out the
customers eventually hang up disappointed Friday starting at 11 25
a.m I do five minutes of setup I clock in at 11 30 and start taking calls
immediately sometime during the day my boss comes to talk to me boss says when
you clocked out at 8 o'clock last night there were still customers waiting in
the call queue why didn't you take their
calls I said sorry boss my shift ends at eight o'clock and overtime is not
approved for call center reps the boss said oh well you're allowed to stay late
to finish up the customers that call in I said sure thing boss can I have that
in writing later that day a memo comes down from corporate over time for
business needs is approved for call center Representatives at 7 59 PM a
last-minute Karen calls in I help her until 805 I clock off 8 15 to make sure
I get get paid for the extra 10 minutes of work I did keep trying corporate I'm
hourly the simple thing here is just don't work for free for anybody doesn't
matter how much pressure they're trying to put on you if they're not going to
pay you for the time you stay extra or work early definitely do not stick
around and put up with that also hi I'm Stephen and if you enjoy awesome stories
of malicious compliance why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down
below that said our next story is you can't use a competitor's phone well
folks for those of you who don't know I work on cell phone towers I used to work
at an extremely remote rural area for a now defunct small cell phone company the
conversations are to the best of my recollection the area I worked was the
type of area where you could drive for hours and not see anything but field
forests and animals most of the sites I had were what was referred to as Island
sites meaning they don't hand off to another cell tower and most of these
sites were about 30 minutes apart on a good day or well works nights but you
get the drift so it came around that a competitor had located quite a few sites
near our sites I being of the mindset of efficiency purchased a phone from them
and with approval from my boss kept it ready especially during upgrades but he
was the type when anyone above him says boo he'd jump and asked if he jumped
high enough or should he jump again so a couple of months later boss's boss
leaves and we get a new boss's boss who spent 250 percent of his life in the
confines of New York City within his first week he's working the switch and
sees me call in from our competitor's number of course he takes offense to
this and it quickly comes down that nobody may use a competitor's phone I
bring up my concerns but you know they don't need to do this in New York city
so we're not going to do this mind you my job is to shut down our sights and
upgrade or repair them yes I'm the guy you love to hate when you can't make a
phone call and so it happens a short time later I'm at one of my most remote
sites of 40 35 minute drive to the next site on a good day about four hours from
home I do my diligence call the switch tell them what I need them to change and
shut down the site an hour later site's not up I go through everything on my end
yep everything's good oh crap now there's a couple of pay phones but they
were the competitor's phone so I start driving it takes me about an hour and a
half to get to the next site because of a freak blizzard crap that side's down
too roll on to the next site usually about 30 minutes but it's snowing hard
and the roads are crap two and a half hours on the road after leaving the
original site I finally get service I pull over and in five minutes we figured
out the switch crossed a number and took down the wrong site switch promises to
fix it and I drive three hours back to the original gate 30 minutes later it's
still not up this time it takes an hour to get to the closest site call the
switch again they get it up and after about 3 30 minutes I verify it's up
hooray but I still have to drive back clean up and make some testing calls 18
some odd hours after I left my driveway I pull back in and submit my time
complete with the OT it's my Friday I turn off my phone and hit the bed Monday
morning I turn on my phone for our weekly call-in meeting and I kid you not
it buzzes with new texts and voicemails for 20 straight minutes all from boss
and boss's boss I jump on the call and the first thing I hear is boss's boss
why the freak did you have a nearly nine hour outage for a 30 minute upgrade
before I get a word in and how dare you claim nine hours of overtime when you
were clearly freaking around not doing your job I say well there were a series
of issues outside of the site and a freak snowstorm slowed my response I hit
send on emails I'd already prepared before clocking out for the weekend with
a full rundown of events of the night as a reply to the emails coming down from
him dismissing my needs for a competitor's phone and included his boss
vice president of the company I don't want to freaking hear excuses from you
why didn't you just use a freaking pay phone and call for help literally
everyone on the call groan I said in case you don't remember I just replied
to a series of emails where you forbade me under threat of termination from
using a competitor's phone at this point I hear VP join our call and since pay
phones are owned by a competitor I spent six hours driving around in a blizzard
searching for service instead of spending 45 minutes to an hour and
making a call on a competitor's phone boss's boss replies I never freaking
threatened to terminate anyone don't be stupid you could have used a pay phone
the VP Cuts in it appears boss's boss that you do not remember what you said
and Mr op has clearly documented his actions on the night in question boss's
boss please call me immediately thank you everyone else for your time this
morning please have a good day this meeting is over boss's boss was removed
shortly afterwards having a fairly Rocky rest of his short employment I now work
for the company which purchased our competitor I moved to my home state
though I still work at a rural Market it's not quite as bad this is another
classic case of whenever you can when you get instructions that are clearly so
inappropriately wrong you cover your butt however you can as carefully as you
can completely saves the lives of numerous people in these crap jobs with
crap bosses our next story is return the
car empty done talking to my grandmother earlier today reminded me of this story
from a number of years ago I live in Sydney and used to fly up to the Gold
Coast three or four times a year to check on my grandmother the whole family
was in Sydney so someone would usually pop up once each month to help her out
anyway I would always rent a car from Hertz when I arrived at the time they
offered a prepaid fuel option where you would pay an amount and not need to
refuel before return it was usually less than you would pay at the local service
station so I usually took this option as I picked up the keys to this shiny new
manual Toyota Corolla the woman said to me so you have the prepaid fuel just
bring it back empty after a few days of relaxing by the beach I ran a few
errands for my grandmother in the morning before my 1500 flight when the
fuel light comes on and the words of hurt staff ring in my ear bring it back
empty without wanting to push it I rolled into 7-Eleven and put two liters
in and went on my way the light didn't extinguish but with the distance I
needed to cover I figured I'd be safe about 1300 my grandmother's pushing me
out the door telling me to catch my flight so I make the six kilometer trip
to the airport the whole time anxiously wondering if I'll make it with the fuel
remaining as I was coming up on the airport I felt the engine splutter but
it was still going heading in it started spluttering more so much so that I
genuinely thought I'd run out mere meters from my destination as I pulled
through the boom gate for rental returns
I put my foot down and got a final burst
of acceleration the car determined to be The Little Engine That Could my Finish
Line in sight and the car is going to make it until it didn't the car stalled
with the momentum I had I pulled it into
a spot marked Avis it only made it about
halfway in I tried in vain to restart it
but it wasn't to be I got out and pushed
A Little Engine That Could into Bay 109. I was 11 Bays short of the first marked
Hertz and was a Broken Man my goal so near yet so far torment ran through my
mind did those 11 Bays mean I was short of my goal to bring it back empty I mean
it was in the rental car car park after all and it wasn't uncommon for people to
just park in a spot and ignore who owns the spot I walk into the terminal carry
on roller Bay in one hand car keys in the other and walk up to rental returns
can I help you the same young woman asks as I walk up to her returning a car I
said she takes the paperwork and asks where I parked it Bay 109 it says Avis I
respond her not looking up she shrugs and talks into the radio on the counter
return 109. finally she says did you fill it up I say no and she asks roughly
how much is left none I say oh so the petrol light is on no worries she says
no I say I mean it ran out of fuel as I drove in I had to push it into the
parking spot The Helpful woman gives me a blink stare for a full 10 seconds wait
you will let it run out you said return it empty so I accepted your challenge
seems I win I said with a mixture of Pride and embarrassment the staff member
turns to her colleague pointed me and says prepaid Fuel and he says it ran out
in the car park the guy looks at me with
a smirk and says really well it wouldn't start back up I reply as someone comes
in from the outside to get the keys it's out of fuel the woman says that's okay
I'll run it up to the Shell after I washed it he replies both terminal staff
look at him as the woman looking at me says No the customer says he had to push
it into the spot cue the largest eyes I've ever seen I have to see this he
walks out with me and the guy from behind the counter following behind
opens the car and tries to start it it's cranking but won't turn over as all
three of us burst out laughing I've never had one fully out before he says
when I tell him the woman in there told me to bring it back empty as I walk
inside laughing to check my bags honestly that is incredibly impressive
although you didn't quite make it into the hurt spot you got close enough and
I'd say mission accomplished our next door is not allowed to remove my neck
brace okay years ago I was in a bad car accident an older man turned left in
front of me at an intersection and T-boned me ambulances were called I was
put on a backboard with a neck brace and brought to the hospital where I was
deposited on the gurney in a hallway as there are no rooms available at that
time I laid there for quite a while waiting to be seen my injuries weren't
bad basically just got banged around and bruised up so that was okay with the
waiting but I was in pain and laying on my back was very uncomfortable I didn't
think there was anything wrong with my neck the only pain I felt was due to the
darn neck brace digging into the bottom of my skull and I really wanted to lay
in a different position not only to alleviate some of the pain in the rest
of my body hopefully but also because I was parked right under a light that was
blaring in my eyes the whole time so I started taking off my neck brace a nurse
spotted me doing this this and ran over very upset with me and told me I had to
keep the neck brace on I tried telling her my neck was fine but she was adamant
that I not remove the brace until the doctor had examined me which I get I'm
guessing at the very least it goes very much against protocol and at the very
worst it would have been a huge liability if I took the brace off and
there was something wrong plus I didn't want to piss off the nurse or be one of
those patients so I begrudgingly complied even though I thought it was
Overkill I tried to reposition myself as best as I could to the least painful
position very not successfully unfortunately however the darn light
blaring directly down was driving me crazy even when I closed my eyes finally
out of frustration I took the blanket that was over me pulled it up more and
threw it over my head ah finally no more
light in my eyes Bliss I just laid there trying to block the pain and danger
dream to pass the time wondering how long I'd be there for not too long after
I hear what sounds like a bit of commotion and someone saying something
about a dead person in the hallway I was like oh my God that's freaky I got that
there were no rooms available but to leave a dead body just laying out for
everyone to see I thought that was Uber creepy suddenly the same nurse that gave
me crap about the neck brace pulls the blanket off my head scaring the crap out
of me and she starts yelling at me that I'm not allowed to put the blanket over
my head and what the heck was I doing it was then that I realized the dead body
they were talking about was me I said oh crap I'm so so sorry I just wanted the
light out of my eyes and I can't move my head with the neck darn brace on to say
the nurse was not impressed would be an understatement but she did find me a
room to move me to and positioned me not under any light which I think they're
very much for she just gave me a surly look and walked away way sorry just the
idea that op's sitting there like under this blanket like oh I'm stuck next to a
dead body and I can't even like move can't take this neck brace off the pain
is here there's just something hilarious when you know the whole story of Opie
having those of op having that line of thought but with that being said that's
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9-year-old op's parents sold her sister so she opened an investigation got her
sister back and arrested her parents and Grandma throw away because this is
seriously terrifying I scope on Reddit a lot and I really don't know where to go
but I hope I can be helped here I'm 14 years old I'm American but I live in
Asia I'm worried because I don't want this traced back to me if the situation
is as bad as it seems I don't know if I should give some sort of background or
anything but up until about 7 months ago I lived with my mom 39 and my dad 41
plus my little sister 9 I say this because my sister is no longer here
she's in boarding school I want to preface this by saying we are not bad
kids we're half white and half asian when my grandpa on my dad's side got
sick four years ago we moved here so my dad could take care of him me and my
sister worked hard to learn the language despite her age she actually caught on
better than me and I was so impressed with her the issue began with Grandma
she would really look down on my sister and I love my sister and didn't like it
one bit my mom said it was cultural and I shouldn't make a fuss but it was hard
when Grandma really started making it obvious she got me clothes Games Etc but
my sister got no attention I should mention that four years ago we lived
with grandpa and grandma in that time of me getting spoiled my sister got
punished for everything she did I swear it was super unfair you wouldn't believe
it just under a year ago grandpa passed away and my parents decided we'd stay
here since I already speak and read pretty fluently Grandma spoke to
everyone about how rude and unladylike my sister is and my parents went along
with it when I completely think that's wrong 7 months ago she and Grandma went
out and my parents said she'd be at boarding school for the summer just the
summer after 3 months I got anxious and asked when she'd be back and I ended up
crying at the question I was talked to by my dad and he said she loved boarding
school so much she didn't want to come back yet like is that how boarding
school works I don't think so maybe I've
been watching too much TV or reading too much on Reddit but we're in another
country and I swear what they were doing was emotional a still it gets worse
after 5 months I still hadn't gotten any contact no message no letters nothing
and that's when my dad started making her room into his office space we
actually got into a big fight over it and I ended up with more chores but he
never answered why he was doing it if she'd be back soon anyway it's now been
7 months since that car trip that took my sister away and the final mail in the
coffin hit I was looking through the attic for my mom and found a box with
some of her old stuff including her phone why wouldn't she have her phone I
really just want to know if there's anything I can do no one will tell me
which boarding school she's at I'm told not to worry about it because I'm a
child I know I'm too young to do much but if there's anything I can do please
help when I think about it I can't stop remembering the way my mom cried that
day it makes me shiver I've been Imagining the worst and I'd hate if it
ended up being something along my mind update I haven't seen my sister in a
long while hi rdit it's been a crazy few weeks but I absolutely needed to update
as soon as possible sorry my post got locked and I appreciate everyone who
spoke to me via DMS sorry to those I couldn't get to it was a lot I should
get on with the most important part of the update what I finally ended up doing
so thanks to the super community that has read it I was able to get in touch
with a few different sources the least favorite of which was a phone call
towards those that helped find traffic children I knew my family would be
investigated and actually went to meet up with another family at that time so
basically a redditor close to my age who I'll keep private met with me and she
had already shown my story to her family they ended up letting me stay with them
for a bit and making the proper calls to make sure it wasn't illegal I actually
even specified that I wasn't running from home and that I'd come back after
the investigation it didn't sit so well with the authorities and I was actually
forced to go back home but it only got stranger from there I I went back home
to a completely empty house even grandma was gone so I was allowed to stay with
the other family for the time being they were extremely kind for a week I didn't
get any news and bless her mother's heart I was told I had a home here no
matter the results so a few days after a week had passed I got a call and it
turns out they found my sister my family had been taken in for questioning and
were placed in holding for quite a while I'm not sure why they didn't tell me
this immediately though I don't actually know the full story but my sister was
living close to 700 km away yeah nearly a whole day drive it wasn't summer
school boarding school or anything like that my dad sold her to get married my
mom was off the hook as one I still needed a parent and two she wasn't in on
it until it was a decent way in my dad and grandma have been arrested though
and I'm back living with my mom and sister now I'm still in contact with the
redditor who let me stay with her and I'll forever be grateful I have no idea
what would have happened if I was around when the authorities came knocking shek
my angel on a more depressing note my sister doesn't speak much but she seemed
to cheer up after I let her read my post she said she felt abandoned and alone
among other things but seeing how I and plenty of strangers gave their hearts
for her made her very happy so thank you all sorry for being so vud here but I'm
trying to protect identities this isn't over by a long shot there are still
things that are going to happen but I have my sister and that's all thanks to
Reddit thank you update kind of an update I got my sister back so hey
Reddit I made a post a little while ago about my sister and thanks to the power
of Reddit I got her back I left the account with no real intention of
returning but about a week ago my sister
was feeling down and wanted to read some
comments holy crap there's so much going on the post blew up and we got added to
an update on Reddit and it's practically
at the top of the page I'm actually very embarrassed but proud as many redditors
said I should be I am so sorry but there are hundreds and starting more than
three or four conversations is already a bit overwhelming with everything else
going on that being said I'm sure you'd all rather hear about my sister so first
off there was another investigation a much bigger one since everyone in our
home is an American citizen I thought I didn't have much family on my mom's side
because that's what my dad told us all our lives it turns out I have an uncle
and we've been with him since two weeks ago my mother on the other hand is also
awaiting trial I won't lie some of the redditors are a little cruel but
understandably so my mother was complicit even if she could do minimal
to stop it but she's still my mom and my
dad is still my dad it hurts that I just lost them in the span of a month what
they did to my sister is unforgivable and I will likely cut all contact but
losing the people that have been with me since day one is a lot as suggested
we're starting therapy and we've already had our first meeting but it was mostly
introductions and getting settled nothing of note was talked about my
sister gives her heart to all of you guys and things seem to be be a little
calmer now more personally I'm still friends with the lovely girls still in
Taiwan and we're in close contact she will always be my hero she'll very
likely read this update so I won't embarrass her but she's got sister
status now and she's well aware of what I'd do for my sister thanks again Reddit
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would you be the jerk for buying a brand new TV
for a friend after breaking theirs instead of
:04.760 --> :09.000 just giving them the money for it we'll get
into that in a bit but first am I the jerk
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for demanding my house guest pay me for what she
drank I 29-year-old female was asked by a friend
:14.560 --> :19.440 27-year-old female that I went to University
with if she could stay a few days at my place
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on her vacation she came a couple days ago and
also brought her sister 31-year-old female which
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was fine with me her sister declined going out for
dinner with us and wanted to stay in that was fine
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and we left and we went to Eat Well turns out her
sister is a recovering alcoholic and wasn't coping
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that well being in a different place we come home
a few hours later and I found out she got drunk
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and raided my liquor cabinet for what she could
find she ended up drinking my very expensive gin
:46.920 --> :53.680 $300 USD that was given to me by my dad it's
not something I ever would have offered guests
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when she woke up the next morning I told her that
she needed to pay me for it I didn't even open it
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she started started freaking out saying it was
a mistake and that she couldn't afford the rest
:03.560 --> :08.840
of her trip if that's what it really costs I told
her that she technically stole it for me and that
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she needed to pay me for it my friend from uni
says that her sister is struggling in recovery
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but they really can't afford to compensate me
without it ruining their trip I asked them to
:18.680 --> :23.240 leave and they were both very upset about it
while I do understand that it was a moment of
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weakness I still think she needs to pay me for
it if she broke it by accident that would be a
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different story am I the jerk for wanting her to
give me the money for it in my opinion moment of
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weakness or not they still did pretty much steal
that from op they never had permission to do that
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they never had permission to Rifle around on their
stuff if op wants the value of that stuff back I
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can't fault them also hi I'm Steven and if you
guys enjoy getting to decide whether or not all
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of these people are jerks why not hit those like
And subscribe buttons down below our next story
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is am I the jerk for mistaking someone else for
the bride and made the actual bride bride cry a
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few days ago I went with my boyfriend to one of
his late cousins weddings I never met this cousin
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or the bride since my boyfriend sees them like
once or two times a year we've been together for
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almost 3 years so he thought it would be a good
time to introduce me to them my boyfriend told
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me he wanted to introduce them to me before the
actual ceremony started so we were going to meet
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them but my boyfriend got a call so he told me to
wait a moment and got a little far so he wouldn't
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have been interrupted 2 minutes after that I saw a
woman with a beautiful wedding dress I said hello
:32.000 --> :36.760 and that I congratulated her for the wedding
and this is when things went wrong the woman
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I was talking to wasn't the bride the bride heard
what I said she was in a room near us but I didn't
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notice cuz everything was silent the bridesmaid
or her mother weren't with her I guess she just
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wanted time alone before the ceremony started and
got upset and started crying when my boyfriend
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approached us I explained him the situation so
we called the bridesmaid and the mom to calm her
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my boyfriend and his family reassured me saying
it wasn't my fault but the bride her mom and the
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groom are upset with me and are saying it's all my
fault I never saw her face so when I saw a woman
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in a wedding dress I immediately thought she was
the bride I still feel bad so a friend suggested
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me to post this in Reddit to have some outside
opinions am I the jerk I mean I could take this
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as an honest enough mistake you see somebody in
a wedding dress at a wedding you probably assume
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oh that must be the bride right I think as long as
you're apologetic enough and say listen I I messed
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up I made a mistake is that really that much of a
jerk move if anything they should be upset at the
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person who wore a wedding dress to somebody else's
wedding not OP for making that mistake our next
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story is am I the jerk for telling my roommate her
boyfriend can't sleep over five nights a week it's
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pretty straightforward my roommate's boyfriend is
over 5 days a week I told her he can't be here 5
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to 6 days a week because I pay to live with one
other person not two our place also only has one
:00.640 --> :06.240
bathroom she's upset with me and thinks I'm being
unreasonable because I have my boyfriend over two
:06.240 --> :11.640
my boyfriend is over two nights a week at most
on the weekend usually it's only once cuz I work
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weekends I feel like it's reasonable to ask for a
boyfriend not to fully live with us without paying
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I'm with OP here if they're over all the time
at least like make it up in some way like do a
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bunch of work around the apartment or whatnot
but ultimately yeah I'm with OP you're paying
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for this place that's supposed to be split between
two people you shouldn't be having to live around
:33.080 --> :37.800 a third person especially the couple and you
kind of feel like you're third Wheeling it in
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the place where you're supposed to be living our
next story is am I the jerk for refusing to let
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my sister apologize to my fiance so she can be at
our wedding I 27-year-old male have five siblings
:49.560 --> :56.840
and one of my sisters Eva 26-year-old female has
been awful to my fiance Reese 27-year-old female
:56.840 --> :02.800
since they met the biggest thing is transphobia
and Rees isn't even trans but Ava made up her
:02.800 --> :08.640
mind when they met that she was she's made some
really awful comments about Rees being a dude
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about Reese needing more hormones to make her
sound more feminine because she does an awful
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job of it and just other awful comments like that
Eva makes most of these comments made on the fact
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that my fiance has a traditionally male name even
if the spelling is more popular for girls and her
:24.280 --> :30.480
voice isn't as gentle and soft as Ava thinks it
should be we ended up cutting Ava out because of
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this I told her to stop I set boundaries and Ava
refused to respect them now that we're engaged the
:36.600 --> :40.640 issue has come up that all my other siblings
are in the wedding and Ava is now upset that
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she's being left out my parents told her to try
and apologize so she reached out to ask if we'd
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let her be in the wedding if she apologizes she
said she wants to go back to normal I told her
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I wouldn't believe her apology after all this
time and would see it as her having fomo fear
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of missing out she told me it's not fair and it's
been over 2 years I told her she had 2 years to
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try and make amends my parents think I'm being too
hard on Eva and should let her apologize and find
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a way to move on they said Rees can surely say
what kind of apology she would need to be able
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to move on from this Rees told me she's glad I
took the stand because she didn't want to be the
:17.680 --> :22.760 bad guy within the family but she's also not
over the way Ava spoke to her and the things
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Ava would say about her Reese's brother is trans
so we're also aware that if Eva would speak that
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way to her when Rees isn't trans what would she
say to my future brother-in-law Eva is ticked I
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won't give her a chance and my parents are siding
more with her than I would like they say I should
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be willing to try am I the jerk absolutely not
the jerk here somebody like this you know that
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apology isn't even genuine especially when they
have to go out of the way and say hey what kind
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of apology do you want me to give you that will
make it all okay yeah because there's going to
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be an answer that's going to make it all okay
in that situation hey sorry for irrationally
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bullying you about things that literally are just
you and doing it unapologetically for years is
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there anything I can say to go to your wedding
absolutely not right our next story is am I the
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jerk for not wanting to follow my sister-in-law's
rules for her wedding and saying her insecurities
:18.160 --> :26.520
aren't my fault my female 27 brother male 34 and
his fiance female 31 are getting married soon my
:26.520 --> :32.200
husband and I got our invitation all fine however
this is the problem I'm having with them I'm not
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a bridesmaid slash in the bridal party because
I have a baby and as she's very young 4 months
:38.080 --> :43.360
now and I was either pregnant or with a newborn
during most of the wedding planning it was for the
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best so I'm just a regular guest as everyone else
right well my brother and his fiance came over a
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few days after they sent the invitations because
they wanted to talk to me my future sister-in-law
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basically told me she's gotten a dress for me and
she'll love for me to wear it for their wedding
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I was kind of like okay thanks but why you know
At first she didn't want to tell me that they've
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chosen a dress for me but finally she told me
that I tend to draw too much attention to me last
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year our other brother got married and my future
sister-in-law thinks that she doesn't want to risk
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having me show up similarly to their wedding by
the way I wasn't wearing an inappropriate dress
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or white anything like that I was wearing a normal
formal dress yes I was very confused by this and I
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asked what she meant because as I said I know
how to dress up for a wedding I reassured her
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that she shouldn't worry about being outshined
because for starters it's her wedding day and
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everyone will be paying attention to the bride and
groom and secondly I won't wear an inappropriate
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dress with like too much cleavage or something her
family is rather conservative so I thought maybe
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she was more scared of her family's reactions we
discussed this for a while and she told me that
:58.840 --> :04.320
the problem problem is my weight she's a little
overweight and I'm not always had problems gaining
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weight even while pregnant so she feels insecure
and that's why she wants me to wear a dress that
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would cover me completely this is where I think I
might be the jerk I told her that her insecurities
:16.480 --> :21.880 were not my problem and that it was weird to
ask me to wear a certain dress just because I'm
:21.880 --> :27.360
skinnier than her she told me that she knew I'd
have this reaction because supposedly I always
:27.360 --> :32.680
want to be the focus of attention she also said
that my life has always been easier and it's not
:32.680 --> :38.160
fair that I want to steal her wedding day as well
I asked her if she was doing this with every other
:38.160 --> :43.680
woman who was skinnier attending the wedding and
she said no so I told her that was a crappy move
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we argued and then my husband and brother got in
between us too so they argued as well and finally
:49.880 --> :54.960
we kicked them out but not before I told them to
enjoy their dang day because I wasn't attending
:54.960 --> :00.000
the wedding for which they accused me of being
a drama queen and wanting to to embarrass them
:00.000 --> :04.800 by not going well I'm more calm on this and
this has caused quite a fight in our family
:04.800 --> :10.800
as well I admit that I was so tired and stressed
that day because my baby had been sick all the
:10.800 --> :16.960
prior day and night so I don't know do you think
I exaggerated here or were they truly rude to ask
:16.960 --> :23.960
me something like this as long as everything is as
op describes I say op is absolutely not the jerk
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and it's also completely understandable for them
to not attend the wedding it's just a ridiculous
:28.760 --> :35.720
thing to go to op and request our next story is
am I the jerk for thinking Fair isn't necessarily
:35.720 --> :41.480 the same for our twins more like are we the
jerk as my wife somewhat agrees with me but
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is swayed by mother-in-law basically my wife and I
36-year-old female and 38-year-old female just to
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be clear both women are struggling with how to
handle a delicate situation with our daughters
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both 9-year-old female I'll call them Nova and
Luna fake names the girls have been dancing for
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years and a couple of years ago we let them start
competitions the way their Studio works there was
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a general slop team where parents pay a fee for
specialized competition choreography extra classes
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dedicated to practice entry fees Etc and an elite
team which is audition only this team operates on
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scholarship so certain class SL competition SL
private class fees are waved although there are
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minimum Studio require ments for both teams you
can see where this is going both girls auditioned
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last summer Nova made the team Luna did not while
I was heartbroken for Luna I also don't think it's
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the worst thing for a child to be disappointed
sometimes you win sometimes you don't obviously
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it's hard for her but realistically there will
be many times that something similar happens
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to both girls over the course of their lives as
with any set of siblings we all move at our own
:55.960 --> :01.520
pace and have our moments in the Sun so to speak
and learning to celebrate each other's success
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even when you're a little jealous is a good life
lesson Nova has been working with her elite team
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for a couple of months now and Luna is still upset
she's on the general slopen team my mother-in-law
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has started to get vocal with my wife and I that
pulling Nova from her team is the only fair way to
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handle things but to me and to an extent my wife
it seems the opposite Affair to take something
:24.360 --> :29.560
away from Nova to spare Luna's feelings for what
it's worth we've needed to set boundaries with
:29.560 --> :35.400
mother-in-law before for treating the girls as
twins rather than two children and I feel this
:35.400 --> :41.000
scenario is something of an extension of that Luna
also insists that it's only fair that her sister
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give up her spot since they can't be together
Nova would love her sister to be a part of the
:46.040 --> :51.520
team but doesn't want to quit no matter what she's
proud to have been chosen it seems like a terrible
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precedent to set if Luna gets a place at a better
University would we make her reject it to spare
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her sister's feelings if no is the first to find a
partner does she have to end it if Luna is single
:03.320 --> :08.480
unfortunately my wife is starting to crumble under
the weight of her mother's criticism and wondering
:08.480 --> :13.280 if we should pull Nova and let both girls
audition again in the summer I feel like it's
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vital we don't and allow each girl to take the
opportunities they earn to be clear if the roles
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were reversed I'd want Luna to keep her place
also so Reddit am I the jerk Opie would absolutely
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be the jerk if they removed NOA from that team
failure is not an inherently bad thing I mean how
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many times do you hear some cliche saying of how
failure is what makes successes and let's be real
:40.400 --> :44.880
a lot of the times when there's twins that are
going in the same field there's always going to be
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one that's better than the other to hold one back
so that they both can always be on the same level
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is just not fair to the individual this next story
is am I the jerk for Banning visits with my son's
:57.120 --> :02.200
biog grandparents after they ambushed him with
his birth mother I will try to keep the backstory
:02.200 --> :07.520
basic my brother was married to a woman called
Kathy they were both addicts who entered recovery
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when they had a son Freddy when Freddy was five
my brother passed away Cathy relapsed my husband
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and I got custody of Freddy when he was six and
later adopted him he is now 12 we've tried to keep
:19.320 --> :25.320
a relationship between Freddy and his maternal
grandparents Pam and Joe and Freddy goes to see
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them once a month to spend the day and sometimes
an overnight with them Pam and Joe have brought
:30.080 --> :35.120 up that Kathy has been clean for over a year
and they'd like to reintroduce her to Freddy's
:35.120 --> :40.280
life we've said no to this because Freddy was in
therapy and his therapist has shared that he has
:40.280 --> :45.600
some extremely negative feelings towards Kathy
we've never shared this with Pam and Joe because
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it's not their business we've just said no the
time isn't right last weekend we dropped Freddy
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off intending he would spend the day there and we
took our daughter to nearby riding school after
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about an hour we got a call from Freddy saying
we need to pick him up because Kathy is there
:02.320 --> :09.280
we rush over to the house to find him Joe and Pam
outside arguing it devolves into chaos with Joe
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and Pam trying to convince Freddy to come inside
while berating me then Cathy came outside and
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the arguing got worse eventually Freddy started
shouting at Kathy and she started sobbing and we
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took that opportunity to leave Joe and Pam called
and texted but I ignored them for a couple of
:26.400 --> :31.440
days while we calmed down when we called we told
them that we will no longer be allowing Freddy to
:31.440 --> :37.960
visit them they betrayed our trust and his and the
things they said about us and to us were heinous
:37.960 --> :44.160
we said we are done with them for the foreseeable
future they pleaded with us but we held firm we've
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blocked them from Freddy's phone but we're keeping
the Line open with us because we want to collect
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evidence of their harassment just in case Cathy
has reached out begging for contact with Freddy
:54.880 --> :00.240
and we've ignored that as well family advice is
split some say we've done the right thing some
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say we should allow supervised contact Freddy
has said he would see them again but not Kathy
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but we just don't feel we can guarantee that we've
never got along well with Pam and Joe and I don't
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know if that is clouding our judgment and I know
that this is the only link he has to Cathy side
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of the family but on the other hand Freddy was in
tears for hours and having nightmares after seeing
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Kathy am I the jerk for thinking enough is enough
absolutely not the jerk here hon H ly I think op
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is doing everything the right way they clearly
violated boundaries that op was expressing and
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wasn't okay with and they're just kind of reaping
what they seow hopefully they have some common
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sense and realize and respect those boundaries
going forward so that maybe Freddy can actually
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rekindle and have that relationship with Pam and
Joe our next story is am I the jerk because I said
:52.000 --> :57.800
my stepdaughter and her kids should get out of the
house I got married to my now husband 3 years ago
:57.800 --> :04.000
he has a daughter she's 27 with a 4-year-old kid
and now gave birth to a girl who's 11 months old
:04.000 --> :08.880
her relationship with the father of her children
is complicated and he's out of sight right now
:08.880 --> :13.800
without getting into more details she doesn't
have any sort of income and can't pay rent so
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she didn't have a proper place thus for the last
4 months she's been living with us those were the
:19.640 --> :26.240
most hectic months of my life lack of sleep at
night chaos during the day loss of control over
:26.240 --> :32.400
food because her four-year-old is very picky and
even couldn't watch TV properly because again kid
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wants to see cartoon my stepdaughter didn't try to
have the father involved or seek child support or
:38.320 --> :43.240
try to find any solution for herself during that
time she's been with us and I'm tired of all of
:43.240 --> :48.840
this she isn't even giving me the potential that
she might do something no she decided that this is
:48.840 --> :53.920
where she'll live so I told my husband that he has
to get her a place and try to reach the father of
:53.920 --> :59.880
her children because this situation isn't working
at all he refused used because while he already
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is the one paying for all of her stuff he doesn't
want to pay extra rent in our house everything is
:05.640 --> :11.760
50/50 and it was like that even when she came but
he paid extra Necessities like children's clothes
:11.760 --> :17.160
diapers Etc obviously my stepdaughter doesn't
want to get out either because she has her free
:17.160 --> :23.080
cook and free babysitters in the house my husband
doesn't want to pay extra rent I held my ground
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that she got till the end of this month to leave
or else I'll file for divorce which will cost my
:28.000 --> :33.400
husband a lot I did sympathize with her situation
but now it feels like she doesn't even want to try
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and help herself and I'm so disappointed at my
husband I don't think op is the jerk here and
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I'm kind of shocked that anybody that says op
is the jerk at this point it's not even really
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about op saying that the daughter has to get out
it's more op doesn't want to live their life and
:49.960 --> :55.080
their marriage in this circumstance where they're
saddled with this adult kid living at home for the
:55.080 --> :02.360
foreseeable future with no strive no effort being
put in at all to try to be independent this next
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story is am I the jerk for telling my mom and
her husband they got what they wanted so they
:07.120 --> :12.240
should leave my sister alone my younger sister got
married in November and our mom's husband walked
:12.240 --> :17.800
her down the aisle my sister did not want him she
wanted me but he's been married to our mom since
:17.800 --> :22.520
my sister was six and she had a lot of pressure
on her to ask him because he tried to be a good
:22.520 --> :27.800
father to her and he stepped up and was there
and paid for Stuff Etc she didn't have him pay
:27.800 --> :33.640
for the or her college education but she knew
she would be judged harshly for not asking him
:33.640 --> :39.320
when he wanted to and he was in her life for so
long the day of the wedding my sister was crying
:39.320 --> :45.920
on my shoulder for a while about how upset she was
that he was walking her and not me she wished dad
:45.920 --> :51.960
was there Etc mom's husband overheard everything
and walked her anyway and then the next day he and
:51.960 --> :56.920
my mom heard her and my brother-in-law talking
about it and how much she hated the experience
:56.920 --> :02.360
and wanted to wipe it from her her memory my mom
and her husband are offended I think he was hurt
:02.360 --> :07.200
that she was so upset by him doing it but they
weren't happy she was so upset SL bothered by
:07.200 --> :12.560
him doing it my mom tried to drag me into their
anger and I told her I wasn't angry then they
:12.560 --> :18.640
both claimed I should have more respect for him
as the man who stepped up when dad died I was 15
:18.640 --> :24.160
when he and my mom got married so he played a very
small role in my life I told my mom's husband he
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got what he wanted and I told them they both got
what they wanted which was him walking my sister
:28.480 --> :33.600
down the aisle and they need to leave my sister
alone because she has every right to be unhappy
:33.600 --> :39.600
when they pressured her he argued that she's his
little girl and this is hard for him I told him he
:39.600 --> :46.120
never listened because she has never ever claimed
to be his little girl she has always seen herself
:46.120 --> :52.600
as our dad's daughter and he will never be our dad
they told me I overstepped and my mom claimed I
:52.600 --> :58.520
should understand why it's an insult to them that
my sister reacted as she did am I the jerk oh op's
:58.520 --> :03.280
definitely not the jerk here there's honestly been
countless stories like this that have popped up
:03.280 --> :08.320
and the sentiment I give is usually always the
same I just never understand stepparents who
:08.320 --> :14.400
come into somebody's life and they try to force a
roll it just almost always never seems to go well
:14.400 --> :19.640
our next story is am I the jerk for telling my
fiance's stepmother that my fiance didn't want her
:19.640 --> :25.560
engagement ring after she continuously pressured
me to propose with it so I 25-year-old male
:25.560 --> :30.440
proposed to my girlfriend of 10 years last month
we had discussed getting engaged before and what
:30.440 --> :35.880
we wanted that to look like and what we wanted
marriage to look like for us one thing my fiance
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Kay was upfront about was that she would love
to have her mom's engagement ring her maternal
:40.720 --> :46.320
grandparents had it since her mom was terminally
ill she had wanted it saved for Kaylee and Kaylee
:46.320 --> :51.400
loved the idea of having her mom's ring because
it was something her mom designed she never said
:51.400 --> :56.480
I had to but I knew how much it meant to her she
also was clear that she did not want her dad's
:56.480 --> :03.800
wife AKA Stepmother's Ruth's ring Kaye does not
like Ruth she doesn't view her as a stepmother
:03.800 --> :09.120
or a real parent to her she tolerates her because
she does not want to lose her dad but she said she
:09.120 --> :14.040
would rather get engaged without a ring than have
one from Ruth I always knew she didn't think much
:14.040 --> :19.440
of the woman so it came as no surprise to me and
I always knew I would turn it down if offered even
:19.440 --> :24.760
before Kaylee said anything because her feelings
on her were clear so here's the issue I got the
:24.760 --> :29.640 ring back in November and started planning
the proposal around the end of November Ruth
:29.640 --> :34.800
was questioning if I had plans to propose she
asked me directly when I saw her one day and I
:34.800 --> :40.240
said Kaye and I had talked about it she mentioned
giving me her ring and I told her thank you but
:40.240 --> :46.040
that wouldn't be necessary and what followed was
a solid six weeks of this woman trying to make me
:46.040 --> :52.200
take the ring so I could propose she never even
got confirmation that I was proposing but she was
:52.200 --> :57.360
adamant I started shopping in different stores
to avoid her entirely I thought proposing would
:57.360 --> :02.960
be the end Ruth's pressure but she confronted me
after the engagement and asked me why I rejected
:02.960 --> :09.000
her ring but used the other one I told her Kaye
dreamed of her mom's ring I was then scolded for
:09.000 --> :14.720
referring to kayle's mom as her mom Ruth told
me she's been mothering Kaye since she was six
:14.720 --> :19.240
and she's been there for her every step of her
life since and she would have wanted her ring
:19.240 --> :25.240
more she told me I was selfish for denying Kaylee
that I told her that Kaylee didn't want her ring
:25.240 --> :29.520
and it should come as no surprise that Kaylee
wanted her Mom's ring when her mom has been
:29.520 --> :34.760
gone for a long time Ruth then starts on a rant
about how she's my future mother-in-law and the
:34.760 --> :39.600
future grandmother of our children and I should
be careful how I speak to her because our kids
:39.600 --> :45.120
do not deserve to grow up around such tension
she stormed off and complained to kayle's Dad
:45.120 --> :50.320
he and Kaylee talked about it Kaylee apologized
for Ruth being over the top and told me I did the
:50.320 --> :55.120
right thing but some of kayle's paternal family
believe I was wrong and that I'm helping keep the
:55.120 --> :01.320
gap between Kaye and Ruth when in an ideal world I
would encourage Kaye to be more accepting of Ruth
:01.320 --> :06.240
by treating Ruth with more respect and acting as
though she's my mother-in-law it doesn't help that
:06.240 --> :12.680
Ruth is still saying I was so rude am I the jerk
Opie's definitely not the jerk here because they
:12.680 --> :20.440
followed word for word the request and Boundary
that their fiance set Opie only did exactly the
:20.440 --> :26.520
right thing our next story is am I the jerk for
buying my friend a new TV after breaking hers
:26.520 --> :31.080
instead of paying her for it my friend moved into
a new apartment a few days ago and had a little
:31.080 --> :36.640
housewarming party most of us were pretty drunk
by the end of the night and unfortunately I am
:36.640 --> :42.600
very clumsy when intoxicated long story short I
tripped and fell right into her brand new TV it
:42.600 --> :48.600
was completely broken and obviously I was very
embarrassed and apologized a thousand times and
:48.600 --> :53.600
promised I would pay for it sober the next day
I texted her and asked what kind of TV it was
:53.600 --> :58.840
and where she got it then I looked it up online
and it had a Valentine's Day sale on it 80 bucks
:58.840 --> :03.640
cheaper than what she originally had paid before
I could even tell her about that she messaged me
:03.640 --> :08.120
and told me I can just PayPal her the money and
she'll go to the store today and pick it up but
:08.120 --> :13.840
she named the price she paid not the new one I
showed her the new price but she said that's not
:13.840 --> :19.160
what she paid she should get the full price back
I was free that day so I tried to offer to drive
:19.160 --> :25.040
us there buy it and help her carry it up since
she doesn't have a car anyway but she insists I
:25.040 --> :29.920
just send her the full amount since that's what I
owe her because I said I would pay for it sale or
:29.920 --> :35.720
not I don't think that's fair she'll have exactly
the same TV as before why do I need to give her
:35.720 --> :42.680
an additional 80 bucks I think if it's the exact
identical TV and especially if op's offering to go
:42.680 --> :48.080
out of their way to pick them up take them there
bring the TV back help them put it up on the wall
:48.080 --> :53.240
op should be fair and square and this person is
definitely just trying to take advantage of the
:53.240 --> :57.680
situation at this point this isn't just getting
a replacement TV at that point they're asking oh
:57.680 --> :03.000
op to give them the TV and 80 bucks honestly if
they went on and on and on with that if I were in
:03.000 --> :08.480
OP shoes I probably would give them the money and
then cut them off and never talk to them again our
:08.480 --> :14.640
next story is am I the jerk for saying my stepmom
can't take back how she treated me I 24-year-old
:14.640 --> :20.840
female have always had a rocky relationship with
my stepmom Cindy 51-year-old female she came into
:20.840 --> :26.440
my life when I was 13 and pretty much as soon as
she and my dad were married she became very pushy
:26.440 --> :31.840
about taking up a parental role she came to all
of my events and stuff which I try to appreciate
:31.840 --> :38.040
but she was also very it's my house too when I get
to make rules after moving in with my dad she was
:38.040 --> :43.320
the bad cop I guess she was the one who thought I
didn't have enough chores that my grades weren't
:43.320 --> :49.400
good enough that I needed screen time limits Etc
and that led to a lot of arguments I hit the last
:49.400 --> :55.480
draw at 17 the lawn needed cutting before Sunday
my dad said he would do it Saturday afternoon so
:55.480 --> :00.600
I made plans to go hang out with friends for the
day while I was out Cindy messaged me saying I
:00.600 --> :05.760
shouldn't have let Dad do the lawn because he'd
had a tiring week and that I would be doing it
:05.760 --> :12.200
her usual emmo basically I said no and stayed out
with my friends when I got home she was Furious
:12.200 --> :17.040
and tried to ground me and it turned into this
big stupid argument where I pulled the you're
:17.040 --> :23.000
not my mom card dad ended up stepping in I wasn't
grounded but also asked me to try and get along
:23.000 --> :29.160
with her it didn't matter because she decided she
was done she just kind stopped acknowledging me
:29.160 --> :33.960 we basically became roommates who hated each
other I wasn't even allowed to eat food she
:33.960 --> :40.000
bought not special stuff like when the bread ran
out and she was the one to replace it it was all
:40.000 --> :45.160
just really tense and I ended up spending a lot
more time at my mom's apartment until I went to
:45.160 --> :51.840
college I've never formally blocked her or gone
no contact but we just haven't spoken since she
:51.840 --> :57.360
never came anytime I met up with Dad Etc until
me and my fiance announced our engagement the
:57.360 --> :03.080
way wedding is over a year away but Cindy sent me
a long text congratulating me and asking for all
:03.080 --> :08.840
the details so she could help plan she was asking
about coming to dress fittings and if we wanted an
:08.840 --> :14.480
engagement party and if she could make a speech
at the wedding basically asking about all of the
:14.480 --> :20.920
mother of the bride stuff and pretending the last
11 years didn't happen I didn't reply until Dad
:20.920 --> :27.280
reached out asking why I hadn't I was honest with
him I'm weirded out by this I'm happy for Cindy
:27.280 --> :32.400
to come as his plus one but she's not getting
any role at the wedding we're actually not even
:32.400 --> :37.840
doing a head table just because I don't want to
share a table with her or separate her from dad
:37.840 --> :43.800
because she's not my mom and the last time I saw
her she was insistent about that it's turned into
:43.800 --> :49.200
a whole thing he says she's really hurt and that
he's rethinking coming to the wedding because she
:49.200 --> :55.040
doesn't want to go I say she can't take back what
happened and at the very least she should have
:55.040 --> :59.960 apologized before reaching out like this mom
and my partner are supportive of me but I've
:59.960 --> :06.080
had messages from several people on Dad's side
saying I'm a jerk for punishing Cindy and it's
:06.080 --> :13.800
getting to me so am I the jerk my question is do
the several people on op's Dad's side understand
:13.800 --> :19.840 and know the full context of the way Cindy's
treated op for the last 11 years or are they
:19.840 --> :25.560 spoonfed Cindy's version and are operating
solely off of that bottom line regardless I
:25.560 --> :31.600
think what op needs to clear their and focus on
is it's their wedding what do they truly want
:31.600 --> :37.680
at heart if they don't want them involved in any
capacity in any major role and that's such a deal
:37.680 --> :42.880
breaker for her and op's dad that they're both
not going to show up it's honestly for the best
:42.880 --> :47.640
because that's going to lead to the best possible
wedding for op even if they're sad that their dad
:47.640 --> :53.480
is so blinded by Cindy that they're willing to
forego the whole thing but with that being said
:53.480 --> :58.280 that's all the time we have for today now if
you want to hear another absolutely crazy am
:58.280 --> :03.360
I the jerk here story check out that video on
the left or if you missed my latest video check
:03.360 --> :08.200 out that video on the right that said I'll
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what is the most strange wrong number call you've ever received dude called
from prison after I told him wrong number he said he had nobody to talk to
and he had just dialed a random number I was young and naive but the dude never
asked for anything we talked for a while him telling me how he got to be in jail
straight up Street Thug but he was trying to make good and get back to
society in good shape never talked again I hope he made it out okay | give me a good story on whatsyourwrongnumbercallaskredditredditstoriesshorts |
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aita for refusing to do free labor for my family little backstory my dad and my
uncle own a bar/restaurant together my dad is somewhat poor and my uncle is a
multi-millionaire when they first opened they asked me to work for them since I
just finished College 2020 I said I would for a little while since Co was
going on and I was unsure how my career was going to work out during the
pandemic I have an Associates in E Media Tech and MBA with a focus in marketing
so I handled management cooking cleaning
serving event coordination marketing web development and The Branding for the
entire business I'll keep in mind this isn't just some small bar this is one
that is a large venue has huge events Etc they refuse to give me any sort of
decent pay I was being paid $15 an hour to do management marketing web
development etc for serving and bartending I was only making $6 an hour
I was feeling very underpaid and overworked in the back of my mind I
understood that they just opened the business and money was tight after
working there for 3 years nothing has changed for me they couldn't even offer
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my evil mother-in-law sabotaged my chemo
treatment and made my life hell I 30m am
currently dealing with a ton of problems and my mother-in-law is at the top of
the list this is compounded by the fact that I'm battling cancer for the second
time in my life my first diagnosis came when I was just 14 I fought bravely and
managed to overcome it life was calm and peaceful until recently when a routine
health check for my job turned my world upside down
at 30 I found myself facing cancer again
this time it was a secondary cancer in a
different organ entirely unrelated to my previous illness though it's only at
stage two my oncologist warned me of its aggressive nature emphasizing the need
for Swift action to prevent it from escalating to stage three or beyond the
news was a crushing blow as it felt like
a Relentless force was determined to see me defeated anyone who has faced cancer
or known someone who has has understands the immense physical and emotional toll
it takes after undergoing surgery I was set to begin chemotherapy the doctors
prescribed oral chemo which I could take at home requiring hospital visits only
for periodic blood tests and scans this Arrangement was a relief as daily
hospital visits would have been too taxing I'm currently on sick leave from
work and the treatment has left me significantly weakened and noticeably
thinner before this my wife and I shared household chores equally nowadays my
energy levels are all over the place with some days being better than others
however immediately after each chemo session even the simplest tasks become
overwhelming despite my efforts to contribute my wife has been incredibly
understanding reassuring me that my sole focus should be on my recovery one
afternoon my mother-in-law visited fully aware of my diagnosis I was lounging on
the couch trying to rest while my wife was doing household tasks Mill
approached me with a distasteful look exclaiming look at you lounging around
as if you're on vacation aren't you ashamed a grown man lying down in the
middle of the day while your poor wife works like a
slave I explained to her how I just had chemo and I wasn't fit to do any work
she scoffed at me and said you can't cure yourself with those toxic chemicals
only natural products work later M cornered my wife in the
kitchen though I didn't intend to EES drop I couldn't help but overhear their
conversation Mill ranted you shouldn't let him take that poison it's killing
him if it wasn't toxic he wouldn't feel so awful doctors today are clueless you
need to try herbal treatments instead my wife recognizing miel's ignorance
quickly shut her down warning her to stay out of matters she didn't
understand the following day it was time for my scheduled chemo dose I prefer
taking it in the morning to feel better by evening and sleep more comfortably
however when I opened the bathroom cabinet my chemo bottles were missing
surprised I asked my wife if she had moved them but she hadn't we searched
everywhere but it was clear they hadn't just fallen out we had no children or
pets so there was no reason to hide them
then my wife recalled that Emil had used
the bathroom before leaving the previous day given her rant about Cho's toxicity
it dawned on us that mil might have taken the body
my wife was enraged she stormed out heading straight to Mel's house when she
returned about half an hour later she was still fuming Mill had indeed taken
my chemo and admitted to throwing it out believing she was doing me a favor Mill
argued can't you see he's dying it's not the cancer it's those pills I saved him
you should be thanking me and buying him herbal teas due to mil's interference I
missed a crucial dose of chemo which is extremely detrimental I had to see my
oncologist immediately when I explained the situation he was incredulous he
asked what happened to the chemo he gave me and I had to tell him the reality of
the situation he looked at me as if I had told him the most absurd story
nonetheless he prescribed new bottles and a revised schedule for my treatment
now we store my medication in a locked cabinet my wife has vowed that M will
never set foot in our home again as I continue my treatment I am determined to
stay focused each day brings new challenges but the turmoil caused by my
Emil's interference is something we could have never
anticipated the physical toll of chemotherapy is immense but dealing with
Mills meddling adds a layer of stress that's almost unbearable a few days
after the incident me showed up unannounced at our doorstep she was
clutching a bag filled with various herbs and teas insisting they were the
Cure I needed my wife seeing red refused to let her in me stood outside shouting
about how we were ungrateful and that I was going to die if I continued the
toxic treatment the commotion drew the attention of our neighbors adding to the
embarrassment and stress we decided it was time to take action my wife and I
sat down and wrote a formal letter warning mil to stay away from our home
and to stop interfering with my treatment we hoped this would be enough
to deter her but we underestimated her determination the next week while my
wife was out running errands Ile somehow
managed to sneak into the house I was in the bedroom too weak to get up when I
heard the sound of cupboards opening and closing by the time I made it to the
kitchen she had already rifled through our medicine cabinet she had taken all
the new chemo bottles and was about to leave when I confronted her she yelled
at me insisting I was killing myself and that she was saving my life in my
weakened State I could barely argue she stormed out taking the medication with
her when my wife returned she found me distraught and the house in disarray
this was the final straw we called the police and filed a report they took our
statement and assured us they would handle it mil's actions had crossed the
line into criminal behavior and we were determined to protect my health and our
sanity the police visited me's house and she denied everything claiming she was
only trying to help however with our detailed account and previous warnings
they issued her a formal restraining order Mill was Furious and the situation
escalated further she began a campaign against us within the family painting
herself as a concerned mother only looking out for her son-in-law's best
interests while we were portrayed as ungrateful and stubborn the stress from
these family conflicts started to impact my health more severely my oncologist
noticed the change and advised that I minimize any stressors in my life my
wife decided to cut all communication with her mother a heartbreaking but
necessary decision to ensure my health and safety this decision wasn't easy and
it took a toll on her emotionally she loved her mother despite everything and
hoped that someday there could be reconciliation but not at the cost of my
well-being but mil was relentless she began contacting my workplace spreading
lies about my health and claiming that I was a danger to myself and others she
insisted that my mental state was compromised due to the chemotherapy and
that I needed to be fired for my good this interference jeopardized my sick
leave benefits causing additional stress and financial strain on us we sought
legal advice and were told to gather all
evidence of her harassment and to pursue legal action for defamation and
harassment This legal battle was draining both emotionally and
financially each day brought new challenges and while the legal process
moved forward mil's Antics did not cease
she started sending letters and packages filled with alternative medicines and
pamphlets on natural healing to our home
we had to screen our mail and change our phone numbers to prevent her from
reaching us despite the restraining order she found ways to bypass legal
restrictions further demonstrating her obsession with controlling my treatment
the emotional toll was immense we decided to temporarily move to a
different location staying with a trusted friend while we sorted things
out this move though disruptive provided a much needed respit from mil's
Relentless harassment in the safety of our friend's home we could focus on my
treatment without the constant fear of Mel's interference while staying with
our friend we had time to reflect on our situation we realized that our primary
focus had to be my health and well-being and that meant taking drastic measures
to cut Mill out of our Lives completely my wife decided to send a
final clear message to her mother that any further interference would result in
severe legal consequences as we settled into our new
temporary home my health slowly began to improve the stability and absence of
constant stress made a noticeable difference I could focus on my treatment
follow the doctor's orders meticulously and even start to regain some strength
but the drama was far from over Mi L determined as ever somehow found out
where we were staying she began showing up at our friend's house demanding to
see us our friend a non-nonsense type of person threatened to call the police if
she didn't leave my's desperation was evident she was losing control and it
was driving her to more erratic Behavior one day as we were returning from a
hospital visit we found mil waiting outside our friend's house she was
screaming obscenities demanding that we listen to her it was the final straw our
friend called the police and this time they took her way for violating the
restraining order we pressed charges hoping this would be enough to finally
end her harassment the court proceedings were long and grueling mil played the
victim insisting she was only trying to help but the evidence against her was
overwhelming the Court ruled in our favor extending the restraining order
and mandating that she undergo psychological evaluation and counseling
it was a small victory in a long tiring battle with M legally bound to stay away
we finally began to rebuild our lives we were finally at peace and my health
continued to improve my wife and I grew closer and our bonds strengthened by the
trials we had faced together we resumed our routines cautiously optimistic about
the future despite the chaos me had caused we found moments of joy and hope
my health gradually improved and we started to plan for a future free from
her interference we reconnected with supportive family members and friends
who had distanced themselves due to the drama their understanding and support
provided a much needed sense of normaly just as we thought things were
settling down a new twist emerged milil managed to recruit some extended family
members to her cause they started calling and visiting us trying to
convince us to reconcile with her their arguments were filled with guilt
tripping and emotional manipulation claiming that mil's actions were out of
love and concern one cousin in particular was
relentless he showed up at our doorstep insisting that we were tearing the
family apart and that we needed to forgive meel his aggressive stance was
overwhelming and his presence brought back all the stress we had been trying
to escape my wife fed up with the constant barrage finally told him off
explaining the extent of me's interference and the harm it had caused
but the family pressure didn't stop there Mill's siblings began to take take
her side accusing us of being ungrateful
and disrespectful they started spreading rumors within the family painting us as
villains who had turned our backs on Ile in her time of need the family
gatherings we once looked forward to became sources of tension and conflict
we decided to take a more drastic step we moved to a different city seeking a
fresh start away from the toxic family Dynamics the move was challenging but it
brought a sense of Rel belief and a chance to rebuild our lives in peace my
health continued to improve in the new environment free from the constant
stress and interference in our new city we found a supportive community and
began to establish new friendships my wife found a job she loved and I
continued my treatment with a new medical team the sense of normaly and
stability was a blessing and we cherished The Quiet Moments
together however the shadow of Mill's actions still lingered we remained
cautious always on the lookout for any signs of her interference despite the
distance she continued to find ways to reach out using social media and other
family members to send messages we ignored them focusing on our healing and
well-being one day we received a letter from milil claiming she had changed and
was seeking forgiveness she wrote about her regrets and how she had undergone
counseling to understand her actions my wife and I were skeptical given the
history of manipulation and deceit we discussed the possibility of
reconciliation but decided it was too soon to trust her words as my health
stabilized I began to reflect on the journey we had been through the battles
with cancer and mil's interference had tested us in ways we never imagined but
it also brought us closer revealing the strength of our bond and our resilience
we learned to prioritize our well-being and to protect our peace no matter the
cost the journey was far from over but with each passing day we moved further
away from the chaos me had inflicted on our lives my wife and I vowed to protect
our peace and well-being no matter the cost we had faced incredible adversity
and emerged stronger ready to face whatever challenges lay ahead together
in the end this experience reinforced our belief in the power of love and
support we continued to build a life filled with hope and joy despite the
Shadows of the past our journey taught us the
importance of setting boundaries and standing up for ourselves even in the
face of Relentless opposition update one several months passed and my health
continued to show Improvement the regular chemo sessions though grueling
were starting to show positive results the tumors were shrinking and my energy
levels were gradually returning it felt like we were were finally seeing the
light at the end of a very long tunnel then one day we received a call from the
police miil had been arrested for trespassing and harassment she had been
caught sneaking into the hospital where I was receiving treatment trying to
access my medical records the hospital staff aware of our situation had called
the authorities this was the final straw we decided to press charges hoping that
this would finally put an end to her Relentless interference
the court case was intense milil once again played the victim insisting she
was only trying to help but this time the evidence was overwhelming the
hospital staff testified about her attempts to access my records and the
police presented a history of her harassment the judge was not sympathetic
mil was found guilty of harassment and trespassing and was sentenced to
community service and mandatory counseling the restraining order was
extended indefinitely this legal victory was a significant relief for the first
time in months we felt a sense of security we could focus on my recovery
without the constant fear of mil's interference my wife and I took this
opportunity to strengthen our relationship focusing on the positive
aspects of our lives and planning for the future however the aftermath of the
court case brought new challenges mil actions had caused a rift in the family
some family members who had previously supported us began to dis dist
themselves unable to reconcile the image
of the loving mother with the reality of her actions others continued to support
mil blaming us for the family's division this new Dynamic was difficult to
navigate but we remained steadfast in our decision to protect our peace as my
health continued to improve we decided to take a long awaited
vacation we traveled to a peaceful Seaside Town far away from the memories
of our recent struggles the fresh air the sound of the waves and the Serene
environment provided a much needed respit we spent our days exploring the
town enjoying the local Cuisine and simply relaxing it was a time of healing
and Rejuvenation a reminder that life could be beautiful despite the
challenges Upon Our return we found that the distance had helped to mend some
family relationships a few relatives reached
out offering apologies and expressing their support
these gestures though small were meaningful we appreciated the efforts to
rebuild trust and mend the broken bonds however we remained cautious M's
previous actions had taught us to be vigilant we maintained the restraining
order and continued to screen our mail and calls trust once broken is difficult
to rebuild and we were determined to protect our Newfound peace as the months
turned into a year my health continued to improve the cancer was in remission
and I was gradually returning to a semblance of
normaly my wife and I celebrated this Victory with a quiet dinner reflecting
on the journey we had been through the trials and tribulations had tested us in
ways we never imagined but they had also
brought us closer strengthening our bond and our resolve update two just when we
thought we had left the worst behind a new and unexpected challenge emerged one
evening we received an urgent call from my wife's Aunt who informed us that mil
had suffered a serious health issue and was in the hospital despite everything
she had done my wife felt a bit of concern and guilt torn between her Duty
as a daughter and her need to protect our peace she decided to visit her
mother in the hospital the visit was tense and emotional me frail and
vulnerable seemed to have softened she apologized tearfully for her actions
claiming that her fear and misunderstanding had driven her to such extreme
my wife always compassionate felt conflicted could her mother's remorse be
genuine or was it another ploy to regain
control we decided to proceed cautiously my wife maintained limited contact with
mil visiting her occasionally and ensuring she was receiving proper care
however we made it clear that any further interference in our lives would
not be tolerated M seemed to accept these terms and for a while there was a
fragile peace but as Mill's Health improved so did her old habits she began
to subtly criticize things about me again albeit in a more subdued manner my
wife and I had to constantly remind her of the boundaries we had set the stress
began to take its toll once more and we realized that the cycle of manipulation
was starting again to find a permanent solution we sought the help of a family
therapist the therapist worked with us to establish firmer boundaries and
provided strategies for dealing with mil's behavior it was a challenging
process but it gave us the tools we needed to manage the situation more
effectively despite these efforts Mel's Behavior continued to fluctuate some
days she was contrite and Cooperative other days she reverted to her old
manipulative tactics the unpredictability was exhausting and we
had to make a difficult decision for the sake of my health and our well-being we
chose to cut off contact with myel completely the decision was not easy
easy and it came with a heavy emotional burden my wife mourned the loss of her
relationship with her mother but she knew it was necessary to protect our
peace we focused on healing and moving forward building a life free from the
chaos that had plagued us for so long as time passed the wounds began to heal we
found joy in the small moments celebrating each Milestone and
cherishing our time together my health continued to improve and we embraced the
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write tickets inappropriately and toe cars you'll have to eat crow while I
laugh over 20 years ago I lived in an apartment complex made up of several
building each with about 60 units and each building has only 15 garage spots
and about 20 parking spaces so the majority must park on the street on a
long drive there was going to be a raring project and a couple days before
temporary no parking signs were placed up for Tuesday from 8:00 a.m. to 7:00
p.m. along the street it was a Monday and a holiday so a lot of people were
home and my roommates and I heard a loud sound outside and saw cars being towed
including mine and a police officer writing tickets and placing them on all
the cars before being towed I ran outside and up to the officer and asked
why he was ticketing the cars and he pointed at the sign I said it is Monday
and the signs say Tuesday we just have to move them by 8:00 a.m. tomorrow at
the time I was just 21 but was often mistaken for be a very young teen The
Jerk responded I don't care if it says Monday Tuesday or Wednesday if I see a
No Parking sign I'm not going to park there tell your mommy and daddy that
their cars are moved up the street and they have a $50 ticket and $190 tow fee
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I told my boyfriend the way he spoke about his parents relationship to my
family embarrassed me he broke up with me 3 days later we had been together for
almost 3 years in total we had spoken about the future we were on the same
page about wanting children one day as we are only in our mid 20s we had no
desire to rush into marriage or anything
too serious but we agreed that's what we wanted one day I believe it's important
to discuss these long-term wants sooner rather than later we had conversations
about the sacrifices we would and wouldn't wish to make and agreed on
everything we exchanged promise rings I was so hopeful about our relationship 3
weeks ago he broke up with me in a short text exchange whilst at work and out of
the country on a trip because he couldn't be with someone who was
embarrassed of him it was such a shock I invited him round to my family home and
we all saw the new year and together he stayed with us for a few days on the
last night my family who were still getting to know him asked him about his
family and growing up my boyfriend spoke
about how much he admired his mother how highly he regarded his parents loving
relationship he described how his mother
gave up her religion for his father gave up her dreams of working in textiles to
be a stay-at-home mom when she had kids then when times were tough took up three
different jobs while his father only had
the one how she managed all the finances
always cooked for the family did all the household chores and never minded that
her husband would regularly spend evenings with his friends he spoke about
how amazing his parents relationship is because of his mother the way he spoke
about it was as though he saw no flaws and his father's behavior that it was
completely reasonable to expect a spouse to make so many sacrifices no one knew
what to say so I tried to change the conversation as I could feel an awkward
silence Brewing my family thought it was strange How Deeply my boyfriend admired
his parents extremely unequal relationship they worried about me he
took great offense to me explaining to him how it was awkward for me I tried to
explain how this talk worried me as I thought he understood I want an equal
relationship and wouldn't be happy sacrificing so much I thought came to an
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AIT ta for telling my mom she doesn't get to act like the victim when she
named me after her late husband behind my dad's back my mom was married to
another guy before she was married to my dad her first husband was her childhood
best friend her first and only love until he died they started dating as
teenagers and got married in their 20s and were trying to have kids when he
died they were 28 my mom never loved anyone else again she met and married my
dad but she never loved him she married him because she was turned down as a
single adoptive parent and because people in her life told her she should
find a way to be happy again I'm there only kid and she named me after her
first husband my dad didn't realize for years her husband's name was James like
his legal name it's the one most people used for him but my mom called him
Hunter and guess what my name is Hunter she told Dad she just really loved the
name and my dad liked it too so he agreed he only knew her first husband is
James so never made the connection I was 10 when my dad found out he found some
letters that he initially thought were meant for me but realized they were to
the first husband they ended up arguing for like two weeks straight and that's
how I learned mom's feelings toward dad and why she married him I would sit up
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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've
got a great story of sticking it to a boss who thinks it's funny to joke about
firing you but first the story from michael shing served a number of years
ago i was a server at a local tavern and
was walking up to the doorframe my shift
i noticed someone behind me and politely held the door it was the newish server
and she proceeded to yell lecture at me about how i should not treat her
differently and hold the door just because she's a woman etc i was pretty
taken aback because i was taught to hold
the door for anyone behind me regardless
because it's polite we were both working the patio section together that day
about five hours of tension after the confrontation and getting our butts
kicked lying out the door wait kitchen backed up everything and the shift hits
and it's time to clean up we had this huge heavy cooler we would fill with ice
and carry out every shift for condiments rule was one person carried it out the
other would carry it back i happened to be the one to carry it out so when it
was her turn to carry it back she came up to me and asked if i would help her
with it i'm sure you've guessed already but i hit her with sorry wouldn't want
to treat you differently because you're a woman walked to the mod handed in my
checkout slip clocked out and left she was a lot nicer after that day i respect
anybody that doesn't want any free handouts or preferential treatment just
because they are the way they are but would you guys agree with me that
holding the door open for somebody is a weird hill to die on regardless if you
think it's like conforming to gender roles holding the door open for a lady
let's say o.p even did identify and say that oh this is a lady let me hold the
door open for them is there actually an issue with that line of thinking
specifically holding the door open i'd like to know what you guys think in the
comments down below our next story is from hanky pimp my parents tried to
force me to get a job in high school for context i was the youngest in my family
my older sister didn't have to work and while two of my siblings did help my dad
at his business after school it was just for two hours monday to friday i was a
good student i got an academic scholarship for all four years at my
private high school none of my siblings can say the same but my parents were
firm on their belief that i needed to contribute more to the household despite
saving a few thousand on my tuition i didn't want to work i wanted to focus on
my studies and play sports but they wouldn't let up my siblings kept
bringing me job applications for every fast food restaurant in the area but i
didn't do anything with them my parents decided they were going to drive me to
each one and watch me hand in the application to each restaurant cue the
malicious compliance i filled out the applications and they checked to make
sure i gave my correct name and phone number thankfully they didn't check the
desired wages box towards the bottom i asked for 75 000 a year this was in 1986.
i didn't get a single call personally if
i found myself in this situation where i was being forced to work i'd want to do
the same thing and tank that application the thing i really like about op's way
of doing it though is it turns it into like a lose-lose scenario into like a
total win because let's say somebody was really in need of work like that would
have been a nice payday not that it would ever have happened this nice story
is from vampire wolf smoke breaks are only for smokers deal conversation at
work yesterday reminded me of this one back in 2000 i was working at a royal
burger place darn near full time while in high school monday tuesday thursday 5
to 10 p.m friday and saturday 10 to 7 a.m sunday 12 to 7 p.m when needed
friday and saturday was as maintenance the rest of the time was as kitchen
primarily as the one feeding burgers and buns through the broiler and then into
the steamer i had moved into the meeting and split about four to five months in
which caused issues getting my reviews at 6 and 12 months but that's another
rant one of three maintenance people for five locations the standard practice
around there was that as supper rush was
starting we'd lose four people that went out back to smoke including the shift
manager and leave three of us scrambling
for 15 minutes i complained and was told
that there's a smoke break allowed every hour nothing says it has to be a fixed
time first off i just went out with the smokers for five minutes and was told by
the same shift manager that it was only for smokers and not just a general break
fine by me malicious compliance time the next shift with her i walked out with
him as supper rush was starting and lit one up all of a sudden she's screaming
at me to get back in and get burgers in the broiler sorry but i get a smoke
break every hour and they can be anytime
in that hour like you told me or were we all going back in all of a sudden we
have a new rule posted in the break room and on that back door only two smokers
outside at any given time and not between five to seven pm pack of smokes
was lasting me three to four weeks only smoked at work when i wanted a five
minute break for the remainder of my time there that same shift manager gave
me a dirty look every time i walk back in every time we work together after
that as a non-smoker myself i've always seen these smoke breaks and the
preferential treatment smokers get and it kind of blows my mind that even as
recently as like the 2000s and even nowadays in some places they still get
these breaks but only if you're a smoker to me it just feels extremely odd and
like an old tradition that's hung on way too long for smokers to get weird
preferential only smoker breaks our next story is from dano ammo bold face of
makeup necessary got it i'm not really a makeup girl i'll wear like foundation
and mascara but i work at a makeup store
and my manager kept telling me to wear a
full face of makeup so i did a full face
with at least five different products by request caked on foundation and didn't
blend it drew on sharpie brows smudged eyeliner blue eye shadow terribly
overdrawn lips and of course glued on eyelashes crooked came in and my manager
had a problem but i told her i was wearing five products and did my best
she hasn't commented on my foundation plus mascara look ever since now i'm the
furthest person from knowing anything about makeup but isn't the goal to
accentuate your features or cover up a few blemishes if you have them i guess
it's not a universal thing but most of the time doesn't it defeat the point if
you're wearing enough makeup to the point where you're like literally
identifying that you're wearing a full face of makeup i understand when people
make awesome creative styles and they really stand out and it's pretty blatant
but to seeing somebody with identifiably caked on multiple layers of makeup
actually influenced the customer seeing them to buy makeup i don't know by the
way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and
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next story is from camus dark fly that's
not how the world works so this happened more than 14 years ago but i don't
remember exactly how long ago it involves myself and a canadian slash
american office supply chain store that almost rhymes with maple syrup a little
bit of backstory is necessary before we get to the meat though it's lengthy so i
hope you don't mind way back when in the stone age of my i.t career i was hired
as a floor associate for this office supply store it wasn't the position i'd
applied for but that'll change later i applied for a position as an in-store
computer tech it wasn't long before my aptitude for the internal workings of
computers became apparent and one day the store manager asked me into the tech
office to help deal with the massive backlog of computers in for service that
the actual tech who only worked a few hours a week couldn't handle i went
through these tickets in relatively short order turning the machines around
and clearing the bench so to speak at this point the store decided to make me
the full-time tech that was fine by me that's what i wanted in the first place
unfortunately when you let computers languish as long as this store had and
never do any marketing the business doesn't come in very fast i'd already
moved to have some aggressive in-store marketing done by the floor associates
along with enforcing certain company policies that were lacked before and
things started to slowly turn around not
fast enough for the store though who cut my hours back to three days a week i
applied for and worked other jobs to make up the difference over the next
several months i gradually built the store's tech services up from being
bottom of the barrel to one of the top grossing stores in the region edging out
the larger and more well-established stores we had a reputation for fast and
efficient service along with saving the customer time and money by handling
anything that didn't require the warranty department in store this
further increased our store profits and it wasn't long before the district
management took notice and gave recognition to me personally of course
all this effort comes at a cost and it wasn't long before my day was full from
beginning to end i was still working the
other part-time job which offered higher pay but fewer hours so it balanced out
to being equal to the store job on fewer days so i couldn't add more days to my
store schedule without sacrificing my weekend something i was unwilling to do
i started working extra hours usually clocking in a shift anywhere from 10 to
14 hours business continued to explode and it wasn't long before i was working
lunches at my workbench too throughout all this the store never bothered to
hire a second tech i didn't mind i got paid and it averaged out to a full five
day job and it was pennies compared to the money i was directly making the
store here's where the malicious compliance comes in after about six
months of this the department manager came to me and stated they could no
longer afford to pay me overtime despite tech work sales being higher than the
store had ever seen and my pay still being less than or equal to what they'd
have to pay me to work full time for them they didn't even offer to put me
back to full time and or raise my pay just told me to clock out of my schedule
time so i did i clocked out and went home right when i was scheduled computer
on the bench it got left until my next work day ticket not updated maybe the
notes are on my desk and i clocked out before entering them into the system i
was always gone by my scheduled time not
a minute later i also stopped working on my lunch break work times on the bench
went through the roof and it wasn't long before management started getting
complaints from floor associates who had to deal with angry customers not having
their computers within a respectable length of time one even called the head
office to complain after their computer was sitting with no news for two weeks
it was only three weeks and a huge disaster later that they finally
relented and said i could work as long as i wanted it didn't last and a few
months later i transferred stores before quitting for greener fields entirely i
still drive by that store and wonder how well they're doing without me and it's
been 11 years i'm really left here wondering if that kind of thing is
exactly what happened to the other it guy before op like i imagine they come
in they're doing enough work and then they get their hours marginalized and
cut back down to the point where they just straight up quit or get fired for
just not being as good as op was with that limited time one thing's for
certain as backwards as this whole operation seems they're still open 11
years later and our final story of the days from dwardo225
manager told me i was fired as a joke so i quit i worked for a car dealership as
a lot porter i'd gotten into an accident that totaled my car right as i was
purchasing a house which led to a predicament because you don't want to
buy a new car while buying a house shortly after buying the house i found a
different job and a field i love so i put in my two weeks notice and then i
went and bought from a different dealership because my wife wanted a
specific car that my dealership did not sell i also knew how slimy the one i
worked for was a few days after the purchase of both house and car one of
the sales managers asked me if i was ready to buy a car from him i didn't
disclose the fact to anyone that i bought from a different dealer i
informed him that i'd already bought one so he looks at me in the most serious
face and asks if i wanted to pack my things basically because i wasn't loyal
to this dealership knowing i already had a better job that was able to start me
immediately i said sure and turned and walked away to pack my things he then
realized i wasn't going to put up a fight so he immediately started laughing
and told me he was joking and how they would never fire anyone for going
somewhere else but i already knew a few people that had gotten fired for that
exact reason i told him i don't appreciate being fired as a joke because
first i do have a one and a half year old and if i didn't have a job lined up
he could have seriously hurt me financially but i ended up leaving
feeling relieved because this was not a good job the funny thing is he called me
about 30 to 45 minutes after i left because i left keys to multiple brand
new trucks in my desk that had to have the plastic removed and get parked turns
out since he fired me they made him take
care of the stuff i'm now fully enjoying my new job with the best bosses i've
ever had i know i probably took it too far but i don't regret it there was a
good few sales managers that really cared and i don't want to throw them
under the bus but the job got too tiring because of the bad ones i think i speak
for most people when i say nobody's really judging op for quitting a place
that didn't respect them at all i know if i worked at a place like this and
there was like a pressure placed on me to make a big time purchase only with
their store and if you went anywhere else you're dirt to them i definitely
wouldn't be particularly feeling the we're all family here vive from that
dealership i guess also not to mention that dealerships aren't exactly
considered the most holiest of places bottom line i think if you experience a
situation like that how could you ever go back to that how would you possibly
mend a relationship like that where they basically try to fire on the spot and
then go haha no i'm just kidding i'd say screw this place and screw you but with
that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear
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aita for telling my mom to get a job just like everyone else throwaway
account because my main has personal info my a 34f mother 59f has not worked
for the last 30 years when we were little dad worked and she was a s she
refused to work even when we were older I remember my parents fighting about it
after their divorce mom remarried almost instantly and relied on her much older
husband who died last year leaving everything for his adult kids and almost
nothing for her after the death of her second husband mom moved in with my
brother and his wife she was supposed to look after their kids while they work
this didn't work out and they are kicking her out which is totally my
mom's fault I told her multiple times this would happen if she continued to
act like she did she was extremely mean to S tried to run their household acted
like the queen refused to watch the kids fulltime which was their original
agreement she only watched them like half day twice a week and when she did
she neglected them like not changing a poopy diaper for God knows how long
because she was hoping Asel would be back soon and do it which resulted in
baby getting a very nasty rash etc etc now she wants to move in with me she's
claiming she'd help with the kid I have a 2 years old I told her no I saw what
happened to my brother and say you caused major issues in their marriage
and I will not risk it after all you always told us adult children should
never live with their parents yes we were both kicked out at 18 right after
we finished school she started crying and saying she doesn't have anywhere to
go she has until the end of the month to leave my brother's house I told her
neither did I when she kicked me out at 18 and I went to live on my friend's
couch but I worked and eventually rented
a room so I guess that's what she should do that's what everyone else does she
asked me to at least pay her rent until she gets back on her feet I said no
you're a healthy working age person you should not be freeloading that's exactly
what she told me when when I was 18 we had a very big fight but I refused to
let her move in or give her money I'm sure she should still have some from her
inheritance and I know for a fact my brother gave her money so I didn't feel
guilty at all now multiple relatives are texting me basically saying me and are
horrible people mom's dead husband son called to scold me telling me my mom is
my responsibility and not there so I should do what's right I do not feel
guilty but perhaps that's what makes me the ah am I I do feel bad about people
claiming I'm a bad daughter mainly because my mother was never a model mom
herself she never put her kids first and was generally interested in us unless
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my boyfriend slept with another woman and claims I wanted him too I'm 27f my
boyfriend is 28m my hands are shaking so
sorry if there are typos I don't know if I'll be able to explain what just
happened I'm in a hotel room right now just falling apart I live with my
boyfriend Jack we've been together for 2
years the relationship has been good sex is frequent we say I love you often and
both of us participate in each other's family functions I don't have any major
complaints and to my knowledge he hasn't been unhappy I am deeply in love with
him I came home today about an hour early I had started to get a migraine at
work which isn't super unusual and once I started to get nauseated I decided I
should just go home and lie down it doesn't happen a ton but maybe a few
times a year when I decide to take the afternoon off my boyfriend works nights
so he is often home during the day he pulled into the driveway and his car was
there it's not unusual he doesn't work until the evening I parked on the street
out front like I always do you can't really hear the car from that distance
unless you're really listening and went into the apartment the bedroom is on the
far side of the apartment from where I came in so you usually can't hear a key
in the lock or anything especially with the air conditioning on it was I said
hello as I came in but I could immediately see that the air
conditioning was on in the bedroom it's a separate window unit and pretty loud I
opened the door to say hello to Jack and there he is right in the middle of
having sex with a girl doggy style they both froze and she looked really shocked
he was just sort of expressionless she immediately sort of scrambled for the
sheets but he just sat there I guess I was in shock because I actually walked
into the bedroom where they were and got my suitcase from under the bed I even
said excuse me to the girl [ __ ] my
boyfriend I went to my closet and threw a bunch of clothes in the case and all
the while he's constantly talking I can't remember everything he said but I
distinctly heard him say I wanted to surprise you we've wanted to spice
things up in the bedroom I didn't say anything and left and came to this hotel
we've discussed having a threesome in the past and I even said I would
possibly be open to it at some point in the future I told him I found the idea
exciting but that we would need to discuss things and find the right person
if it was actually going to happen I never wanted him to just surprise me out
of the blue he's been blowing up my phone ever since he's left several
voicemails and sent about a dozen texts he said things didn't go as he imagined
but he thought it would be sexy to have a spontaneous threesome he said he was
trying to fulfill my fantasy I've been crying for the last 3 hours I have no
idea what to think at this point I think he's lying to me but what if he really
thought he was doing what I wanted is it possible he's just that clueless please
please help update one firstly thank you all for your comments and advice my gut
knew that I had to end the relationship but I needed a kick in the pants to
actually do it the apartment we live in is actually owned by my uncle with whom
I am very close I live there for free while attending graduate school it is
part of a building he owns and was his way of helping me afford to further my
education he had no problem with my boyfriend also living there on the
condition that he help out with managerial duties and repairs around the
building I called my uncle and told him the circumstances and he called Jack and
told him he needed to find a new place to live He's not on a lease or anything
so hopefully it won't be IL legal issue I haven't responded to Jack in any way
since yesterday I returned to the apartment this afternoon after going to
the doctor to get tested for STDs thankfully clear so far Jack was there
since he spoke with my uncle he knew that I was breaking up with him and
wanted him out he immediately tried to argue with me saying once again that the
whole thing had been intended as a gift for me I just ignored him as I went
around the place packing his things he also said that the only reason he
started without me was that he wanted to get used to the two of them together so
things wouldn't be awkward when I arrived apparently he thought having sex
with her first would make the threesome go smoother I didn't even look at him I
just kept packing I'm proud of myself that I didn't cry I think I was past the
point of crying he kept blabbering on saying that he just wanted to test the
waters with the other person so that when the time came they could both
focused totally on me the final straw was when he said that I was being
totally unreasonable and ungrateful for the effort he was putting into our
sexual relationship I stared at him for a minute and then I just started
laughing I couldn't control it I must have laughed hysterically for a full
minute he got angry but finally shut up and stopped trying to justify himself I
asked for his key and then told him to leave I said that he could call to
arrange a time to come pick up all his things but not to contact me for any
other reason his parents live in the same city so I know he is somewhere to
stay he left looking pretty for laoren I didn't ask how long he'd been cheating
on me just knowing about the one incident was enough he's obviously not
the person I thought he was I don't feel like I even know him anymore I'm still
sad but I'm going to be okay there's no way I could keep someone like that in my
life thanks again for all the encouragement and motivation to end it
for good I knew the truth in my heart but I needed to know I wasn't crazy I'm
going no contact with my mom after I found out what she did to my late dad
throwa away account because I don't want
this tied to my main I'm 21m and lost my
dad to self Annihilation 11 years ago it
was terrible to say the least I loved my dad and looked up to him we were really
close because I was his only child and him and my mom didn't have any other
children back then after his death my mom remarried a man named John and they
had two kids together my half sisters JN was all right he always treated me well
back to the topic I never knew the reason why my dad took his life I always
thought it was because of me so my mom put me into therapy when I was like 11
therapy did help eventually but I always wanted to know what pushed him about 2
years ago I went to visit my paternal grandparents they always stayed in my
life and they were always good to me my dad was their only child so I can't
imagine what it must have been like to lose their son anyway the topic of my
dad came up and my grandmother started tearing up I just asked her what's wrong
she said that she can't handle this and wanted me to know what she thinks drove
my dad to Suicide she said that two months before his death he found out my
mom had an affair with her now husband John my dad was crushed and went into a
deep depression so he took his own life my grandfather was there and he
confirmed it I asked why they didn't tell me sooner because I should have
known they basically said I was young and I shouldn't have been burdened by
this and that they didn't want to ruin the image and relationship of the only
parent I had and they were also afraid that my mom might not let let them see
me again to say that after hearing I was a mess as an understatement I didn't
confront my mother immediately I went back to UNI and it took me weeks to
confront her during these weeks I was distant so my mom just thought I was
busy when I went back home during the summer I confronted her as soon as I
just mentioned that I knew about her affair with JN she immediately broke
down crying saying that it was never supposed to be like this that my dad was
never supposed to find out about the affair that she has guilt for all that
went down she was just sobbing and crying out loud then John heard her cry
and wondered what happened I told him that I knew about the affair and his
face just went pale I basically told my mom that I will never see her again and
that I will never forget nor forgive her for this and that I will go no contact
with her she begged me and kept apologizing but I just left the house
and went back to my dorm and kept crying it's been 2 years now and I refuse to
see Mom and her husband I know that my dad taking his own life is a choice and
no one is responsible for it and that no other person one can control their own
mental health I just can't get past that maybe if my mom didn't do something
that's selfish my dad would have still been here idida I told my husband that
if he pays me an hourly rate I'll do more housework I am a steam fitter but
I've been at it for a while and I'm in supervision with bonuses and incentives
but not counting benefits I earn over $100 an hour I also work out of town I
started doing that once the kids were old enough to take care of themselves
with their dad at home so when my youngest was in Middle School and the
oldest was a junior in high school it is great our retirement savings are piling
up and we have been able to splurge on the kids and ourselves
my husband is upset however because I decided to pay for a cleaning lady he
and I discussed it and we agreed that him and the kids didn't do a great job
keeping the house clean and tidy while I was away I hated coming home to a mess
it caused a few fights because it was like they expected me to come home and
clean up after them having her is fantastic I come home to a clean house
and I am happier my kids have more time to study and do extracurriculars they
still have chores and they are still expected to clean up after themselves my
husband came to me last time I was home and said we should cut back back on the
service when I'm home that I should be doing more housework he thinks that we
are wasting money I said that I work 14 days in a row and that those are 13-hour
days yes it is mostly paperwork but his job as a teacher isn't much more
physically challenging I said that I could offer him two options if he wanted
we could completely get rid of the service and him and the kids could make
sure the house was in good shape when I got home or he could pay me my hourly
rate to do extra housework when I'm on my days off he is upset with me insists
that I'm being financially manipulative I think if he and the kids actually did
what they are supposed to do when I'm aw
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first story The Saga of op who is pregnant at 42 with her husband 65 who
has a daughter the same age as op she wants to terminate for her husband's
sake but also wants to experience motherhood my head and my heart don't
agree about what to do I have no children my husband is 65 years old
we've been together for 20 years and married for 12 yes we're both aware of
the large age Gap it was nothing either of us was looking for but we met and we
clicked and I'm still so incredibly in love with him one major thing we
discussed early on was children he has four children with his first wife
they're all adults some with kids of their own now he told me when we first
started dating that he didn't want any more children it took me a while to
decide if I wanted to pursue a serious relationship with a man who had children
with somebody else and didn't want anymore I had never felt 100% sure about
having kids of my own anyway I ultimately decided that I was okay with
not having kids I've been happy in my life with him although I have sometimes
felt a hole in my heart regarding not having children I think I especially
started to feel it when my much younger sister had a baby and then when my
husband's kids had their babies being around all of these little ones made me
wonder what I had maybe missed out on I'm very early in my pregnancy right now
it was not planned I started to worry that I might be pregnant and I felt very
mixed about it at times I felt excited and hopeful and at other times I felt
completely Dreadful I figured my period would eventually come and when I thought
about that I felt disappointed but somewhat relieved but my period didn't
come I took a test once my period was a week late and it immediately showed a
positive result without even needing to wait the full time my heart wants this
baby I think deep down I regret not having a child of my own and I fear the
regret will Fester as I grow older I also love my husband so much that I want
to have his baby I've always been quietly and privately jealous that his
ex-wife shares four children with him my head knows this is stupid I'm 42 but my
husband is 65 years old he's a grandfather his oldest kid is just a
year younger than me he doesn't want to have a baby now it's not right to have a
baby because I made a decision that I regret I know that we're both too old to
do this now I know what I really have to do but I'm sad and angry about it I'm
really just sad and angry with myself I think I could have accepted never having
children but allowing myself to get pregnant has really been like a form of
self- torture it would be totally selfish to have this baby right no I'm
not asking the internet to decide what I do here I just want honest opinions I'm
not sharing this information with any of my loved ones at this time and I may
never share it with them I know they would give me biased feedback anyway so
please tell me how bad it would be if I did this instead of what I know I
probably should do update I want to thank everyone who commented on my first
post asking if it was selfish for my husband and me to have a baby at our
ages I received some good feedback and perspectives and I appreciate the
honesty of some of the comments this isn't really a rant but just sort of me
pouring my heart out somewhere since I'm choosing not to share this information
with anyone in my life quite yet I'm 42 and he's 65 I'm 7 weeks pregnant
although I haven't been to the doctor to confirm anything yet I track my cycle
very closely so I feel pretty confident about how far along I am it wasn't
planned or expected at all we had planned to never have kids because he
was already done having kids by the time I let him when he was 45 and he made it
very clear I think having this baby would be a very selfish thing to do but
I can no longer deny that I really want this baby for me I feel a huge hole in
my life for not being a mother to my own child a bigger hole than I could ever
let myself admit I didn't feel this longing back when I met my husband or
years later when we married I never felt like being a mom was a huge dream of
mine or a requirement for my life when I made my original post I think I was
looking for reasons to go through with an abortion not consciously I just felt
that's what I should do and wanted more reason to do the right thing so if
complete strangers agreed that yes it would be incredibly selfish to have a
baby then I'd be able to tell myself that my fantasies of this baby and ever
becoming a mom were best left as fantasies and it would help wake me up
to reality 2 days after I posted here my younger sister sent me a picture of a
positive pregnancy test she's pregnant with her second baby what are the
chances that my sister will be pregnant right now of course I was happy for her
but I felt so sad for myself when I told
my husband he just said that's nice with seemingly no comprehension of how much
my sister's news stung me then at work the next day my cooworker was talking
about needing to take a pregnancy test because she thought she might be
pregnant which triggered a whole group conversation about people's pregnancy
experiences needless to say I was feeling pretty sad and sorry for myself
when I went home that day my husband asked what was wrong I told him nothing
I was fine he said he knew something was wrong I
had sad eyes I told him I'm dealing with things he cannot understand but that
it's my problem to deal with and that I'm not sure what the right thing to do
is and I'm just going to be sad for a little while it's like he still didn't
know exactly what I was referring to and
then he realized and asked is this about the baby of course it is it's been the
only thing I've been thinking about since I saw the positive pregnancy test
I feel tortured over this to him it was already a foregone conclusion that I
wasn't continuing the pregnanc so again he said I'm 65 years old we've
talked about this I'll be over 70 years old by the time the kid is in
kindergarten it's not fair to do that to
a kid I told him I knew and understood I realized it' be selfish for him and for
a child I told him to leave me alone and let me cry over it for a while then
later he asked me if I was going to leave him over this and that he knew I
could find a younger man who would be willing to have a child since there's
still time for me I told him now because
I'm not considering leaving him at all I love him with all my heart and I don't
want to be with anybody else even if it might mean I could have a baby I don't
even know if I could easily get pregnant again and my chances will only continue
to drop I don't even want a baby just for the sake of having a baby and
experiencing motherhood I want to carry my husband's baby I want to be the
mother of his children I asked him if he'd leave me if I insisted on having
the baby he said no he said he thinks I'd be a fantastic mother and he'd love
to see me have his baby he's thought about it over the years but he doesn't
think he can be the type of dad a kid needs at this point he doesn't want to
die before they've even graduated high school or leave me to handle everything
on my own also it'll change everything about our lives and our plans right now
we can basically go do whatever we want when we want and all of that will end
but he also said he couldn't stand to see me so sad and asked what would
happen if I could never get over this so now he's not saying absolutely no he
told me to go to the doctor to see if this is a healthy viable pregnancy so
far and then we'll talk of course the longer I remain pregnant the more
attached I get to this idea and the harder it'll be for me to go through
with anything I feel a mixture of pure happiness like overwhelming happiness
all over my body but also dread I was able to jump on an appointment with my
omin this coming Tuesday due to a cancellation that was happening right
when I was calling to make an appointment I'm trying to brace myself
for any news I might receive update I'm officially pregnant and I'm sad I've
posted a few times s about my pregnancy I'm 42 and Pregnant for the first time
my husband is 65 the father of four adult kids and he doesn't want more I
went to the doctor yesterday to confirm the pregnancy I'm 8 weeks one day
pregnant which is exactly in line with my calculations everything seems normal
as far as the pregnancy goes so far they did a transvaginal ultrasound and I
heard the heartbeat my doctor says everything looks and sounds just as it
should at this stage and she sees no reason to not proceed with the pregnant
if that's what I choose to do her goal is to help me have the healthiest safest
pregnancy possible and while there are increased risks associated with my age
it's really nothing out of the ordinary these days she went over the genetic
tests available and what she would recommend based on my age and concerns
she could also refer me to a genetic counselor based on my age alone even
without having any red flags at this time I got out of there went to my car
and just cried I had a pity party for myself to be honest when I got home my
husband asked me how it went I told him it was fine everything was normal I'm 8
weeks pregnant just like I knew I was I also told him I was having an abortion I
told him I knew that's what I needed to do it's the right thing to do I'm just
going to cry about it and be sad for a little while but I'll be fine it would
be selfish for him and the future person I'd give birth to I missed my chance
maybe if this had happened 10 years ago or if I had realized back then that I
had this longing for a baby we could have talked about it and made a decision
less influenced by our ages just because I'm pregnant now doesn't mean this is
fate or any sort of special sign from the universe that I'm supposed to have
this baby plus what if something goes wrong or what if I just really end up
regretting it and making a decision so totally based on emotions that I can't
take it back I like my life I've survived this long without having
children I can keep living this way and be happy with a more certain future and
my freedom I went to the bedroom to just lay there and cry he came in and said
you don't really feel that way do you I told him not to question how I feel
because that's only going to make it worse he said HEK fine with me making a
decision and he's not telling me to not terminate but he doesn't believe I'm
actually making a decision based on what I want to do at all if I'm going to
spend the rest of my life acting like a martyr over it I'd rather just have the
baby it's not about me being a martyr I know from a rational place that I
shouldn't have the baby I wish I could let my emotions win but I just can't
seem to let my emotions have any say I really wish I could be selfish this once
and just let myself deal with the consequences later update I've posted
about my pregnancy a few times very recently I'm 42 and my husband is 65 we
have no kids together he has four adult children from his first marriage my last
update a few days ago was that I had been to the doctor to confirm my
pregnancy and that I was 8 weeks along as of a few days ago I was planning to
terminate because I felt it was the right least selfish thing to do I really
wanted to have the baby but I felt like wanting it was just not a good reason to
justify bringing another human into the world it probably still isn't a good
enough reason but my husband has convinced me to be selfish and to do
this simply because I want to I'm deliriously happy I'm only about 8 and 1
half weeks pregnant and I know that due to my age I'm at increased risk of
miscarriage but I just had to go buy a bunch of baby things today to make it
real and perhaps to say there's no turning back now it felt wonderful my
husband even reacted enthusiastically as I showed him everything I bought he was
happy that I was happy and he said this is much better than how I've been acting
the past few days my husband told me he knew that an abortion was not what I
wanted I admitted that no it wasn't what I wanted at all but I just couldn't get
over the guilt of doing something this serious and this big simply because I
wanted it he asked me why I'm always holding myself to this strict moral code
and for whom he said sometimes you just have to be selfish and that's okay screw
anyone who is going to judge me for having a baby I'm 42 not 15 he says this
will be a totally different experience for him his first child was born over 40
years ago he worked a lot of the time and was away from home now he's retired
I work part-time and if I want to I don't have to work at all he says we can
afford it maybe even get a nanny to help I don't know how I feel about that he
resents that anyone would think he couldn't keep up with a toddler he's
almost turned it into a challenge for himself he told me he wants to have a
baby together he wants me to have his baby and it makes him feel good and he
wants me to have his baby too he even said he has been selfish which I don't
agree with and that I was right when I said he couldn't possibly know how I
feel regarding this child-sized hole and missing out on motherhood ultimately he
told me he wouldn't tell me what to do but he thinks we should proceed with the
pregnancy and see what happens he said the only factor I needed to consider was
whether I wanted it or not he told me he'd get over his whole not wanting more
kids thing don't worry about him on the other hand he doubted I'd ever get over
this if I wanted it I needed to just jump off the cliff do it and enjoy it so
I decided to jump off the cliff and I feel overwhelmed with joy I didn't want
to terminate at all I already love being
pregnant I love every bit of it even the
morning sickness which doesn't ever come in the morning BTW and the achy breasts
I love every bit of it I want to experience it all I do plan to wait
until at least 12 weeks to tell loved ones I'm nervous about some of their
reactions but at this point I don't think any criticism could really touch
me I almost feel like I'm floating I'm so happy I'm not even going to consider
any other option there is no if just yes I'm due on October 15 is anyone out
there due around that time update nipped results and telling my husband's adult
kids some of you may remember that I posted about 1 and a half months ago
because I was conflicted about whether I should continue my pregnancy or not I'm
42 and while I wasn't too overly concerned concerned about my age my
husband is 65 and had made it clear from the start of our relationship that he
was done having kids ultimately I decided to continue the pregnancy
barring any devastating results found during prenatal testing the first hurdle
is done everything came back low risk on the nip I had made myself sick waiting
for the results I'm just ecstatic now and the test says we're having a girl I
already have a name picked out and everything it's so hard for me to Pace
myself I want to start planning the Nursery next but my husband keeps
telling me to slow down I'm in my second trimester now so the chances of
something happening are much lower and get lower with each passing day I had
some morning sickness but that's pasted my main symptom now is some bloating no
actual bump and extremely sore breasts my breasts have already grown to two
full cup sizes when I have a bra on it looks like I got a major boob job it's
weird I feel less pregnant now than I did at 8 n weeks I think we're going to
tell his kids soon they're all adults and three of them
have kids of their own they may need some time to adjust to the news
understandably I know we could wait longer but I don't see any reason to I
feel like they might take it worse if we
wait until 16 20 weeks plus I hope to be showing by then yes this is the one and
only pregnancy I'll ever experience and I want to experience it all I also don't
know if it's best to just tell them very straightforwardly or make some sort of
cute announcement I want to make a cute announcement but I'm not sure if they'd
appre appreciate it what do you all think how did you announce it to your
family and friends his adult kids are going to be the first people we tell
well I told my sister already but I'll be announcing it to the rest of my
family and friends soon I'm mostly just nervous about his kids I get along great
with them but they're so close to my age that it's never been a step parent
stepchild relationship I hope they'll accept it and be happy for us but I will
also understand if they have other feelings he has grandkids that will be
older than our baby and I get that it could be awkward for some update mixed
reactions from the husbands adult kids okay even though I've already shared
that I feel really silly stating this every time people have told me to keep
doing it I'm 42 and my husband is 65 I'm
pregnant with our first baby he has four adult kids from his previous marriage
last time I posted I asked for input about telling his kids about my
pregnancy I decided that all of the comments about not making a cute
announcement were probably the way to go I was already strongly lean toward not
doing it but I thank those who gave their opinions it was always the plan
for my husband to be the one who actually told them it wasn't going to
come out of my mouth first originally I thought that maybe we would have them
all over for dinner and tell them in person without anything cesy involved I
started to get nervous about it I told my husband maybe he should just call
them each or text them he said he wasn't going to tell them via text he told me
he's never shared any sort of serious news with them via text it just doesn't
feel right to him he said he understands and appreciates that I'm sensitive to
his kids feelings but there adults who need to accept that their opinions don't
matter in our decision on this topic and that if he's agreeing to having this
baby I'm not allowed to start hiding how happy I am for his kids sake I told him
ultimately he could decide since they're his kids so he decided to tell them in
person he said he felt they could all handle it and he felt better telling
them in person I think he was very sensitive to their possible feelings
when he actually announced it but he also let them know our decision has been
made and it's not open for discussion it was all very uncomfortable for me they
were very surprised reactions were a bit mixed but I expected that one son and
one daughter seemed to be fine with it not expecting the news at all but I'd
almost say they're happy for us those are the two kids I'd say he's closest to
he's close to all of his kids but I think he has closer more special bonds
with those two they both congratulated me hugged me and seemed to be genuinely
smiling when talking to us about it his other son was like are you sure this is
a good idea he essentially expressed that he thinks it's a crazy thing for
his dad to do he specifically said he could understand me wanting to have a
baby but not his dad since then he's talked to my husband and told him he
thinks it's weird but he understands it's our life and our choice and he's
not mad at his dad about it it was only his oldest daughter who reacted badly I
shouldn't say badly because she's entitled to feel how she feels and those
feelings are valid she didn't say anything and after about a minute she
got up went into another room and closed
the door my husband said to just let her go and then after about 5 minutes he
went and talked to her when she came back to where everybody was it was
obvious she had been crying she stayed quiet most of the evening after that his
oldest daughter is the one who is only a year younger than me she's also very
close to her mom and very loyal to her it took her the longest to warm up to me
and I'd say I'm the least close with her
out of all his kids I expected her to be up set honestly I understand I'd
probably react the same way if I were in her shoes it still made me cry after
everyone left maybe I should have talked to her myself but I figure I'm not the
person she'd want to talk to I just hate knowing something I've done has upset
somebody like that she doesn't think it's fair for me to force him to have a
baby now because I want one that I missed my chance and just have to deal
with it I don't know everything she told
him because he said it had just upset me unnecessarily his kids obviously told
his ex-wife right away way I noticed she had been texting him a lot I don't look
through his phone we just don't guard our phones and he frequently asks me to
check texts and respond for him when he's driving or busy doing something
else I admit I was curious about what she was saying so I read her texts she
thinks he's stupid and is shocked he didn't already have a vasectomy she
assumed he did and that was the only reason I didn't get pregnant 20 years
ago when we met especially considering he apparently didn't even want them to
have their fourth baby but she also said their oldest daughter will be fine once
she has some time to process it apparently she's always reacted this way
to the news of a new sibling okay so this turned into more of a diary entry
than anything I'm just feeling a little sad I'm planning to announce it to a few
close friends this weekend so I hope that'll make me feel better Second Story
entitled mother and brother wished death on op's second unborn child after she
refused to give up her baby's fund for her nephew's College Chris is my husband
31 Rory is my my father-in-law Shawn is my nephew 16 and Tom is my brother 35 I
don't have a baby right now about 2 years ago I got pregnant and Chris and I
told our families Rory gave us a check for £1,000 he said he wanted us to use
it to buy baby stuff while the kid was young and whatever was left over should
be saved for when our child turns 18 and then given to them I miscarried shortly
after and we tried to give Rory the money back but he asked if we were
planning on trying again to which we replied that we would wouldn't be
anytime soon but someday definitely he said to keep the money put it in a
savings account and keep adding to it for when we do have a baby Chris and I
tried to put in about $10 a week between us which is doable for high school
teachers we missed a couple of weeks but there's about 2500 in there right now
and we've never taken it out in 2 years the only people who have put money in
this account are me Chris and Rory both myself and Chris have been to therapy
and we agreed to try again about six months ago and I'm now pregnant again at
4 months we told our families today and Rory and my mother-in-law are both
really happy for us as are my parents Tom however looked a bit sad I asked if
I could speak to him off to one side in the conversation that ensued Tom said
that he had actually been hoping to ask me about the baby fund Tom and his wife
are both on the living wage meaning they earn slightly less than us as they had
Shawn at the age where they would have gone to University so it's important to
them that Shawn gets to go Shawn is 16 but plans to go to university in a
couple of years Tom and his wife are concerned that if Shawn got a job to
save up it would affect his grades and they don't have money to spare so before
Tom knew I was pregnant he was basically hoping he could ask me to transfer the
current contents of the baby fund over to Shawn and keep giving Shawn the money
that would otherwise go in the baby fund as he worries Shawn will not be able to
afford University otherwise if I were to
agree to this and keep doing it until he finishes University I could restart the
baby fund when the baby I'm currently carrying is about 5 years old I told Tom
I wasn't comfortable with that for several reasons the main ones being that
at most a third of it is actually my money that the money is meant for my
baby and that the money was also meant to be used when the baby was due to get
baby stuff which we'd struggle to afford otherwise on the teacher wages I said
I'd be willing to work something out and that with the pregnancy Chris is
gradually taking on more housework so maybe if Shawn wanted to come over and
do the Garden or help with chores I could pay him out of my money not not
the baby fund but Tom says that Shawn can't be distracted from his studies I
said that while I love my nephew I'm just not comfortable giving money meant
from my child to Shawn aah edit my family side with Tom as the baby isn't
born yet and I have time to rebuild the fund Chris and Rory side with me in that
their money as far as they're concerned is for their child or grandchildren but
Rory also said do what you think is best the Mother-in-law wants to keep the
peace but the initial money was just as much her idea as Rory's clarification
Rory has no relation to either Tom or Shawn and no one on my side of the
family other than me has made any contribution to the baby fund verdict
not the arle update hi of all the things I was expecting to see in this threat I
didn't quite expect this still pregnant about 7 months my husband and I agreed
to pay my nephew and niece to do some jobs for me around the house and they've
accumulated a chunk of cash each niece at 100ish pound nephew closer to 500
pounds to check out when they go to university brother is none the wiser and
thanks to their efforts the nursery is ready to go nephew has asked his parents
to let him get a job but still no luck however his college does these programs
within school time that pay so he's applying for one of those my mother
outright wished that I lost this child because I was so selfish to not help out
family and my brother agreed and said that he would make sure to teach my
child to take care of others and they each made a Facebook post about it which
ended up with me getting a bunch of anonymous messages wishing sickness or
death on me and my child I came off social media and I have not spoken to
either my mother or brother in a couple months outside of that I'm doing okay my
baby looks healthy my marriage is going strong and no one has wished death on me
or my baby since I blocked my mother and brother so sht got wild for a second
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wife cheated on op and got pregnant he forced her to get an abortion and took
her back after pleading only to find out she was cheating again with the same
person now he has physically assaulted her and filed for divorce including
wife's posts husbands POV this is a little lengthy so I apologize and offer
thanks to anyone who takes the time to read it throw away account for obvious
reasons my wife and I met in 2008 when we were both traveling we met in Madrid
and it was a very stereotypical cute our eyes met from across the bar and I
approached her we ended up going home together that night we spent the next 3
days having SX drinking and soaking up the Sun and decided to keep in touch she
went home and I finished my travels and we began a year-long ldr before I moved
to be with her over the course of the ldr she divulged to me that she had
cheated on a previous boyfriend and felt
bad about it but felt his choice to dump her was over the top and that cheating
wasn't always a silver bullet especially since it was only a kiss I realized now
that she was sizing up my reaction and almost certainly cheating this I can
actually forgive and let go of because F ldrs and it's in the distant past but
not what happened last week I told her at the time it was a deal breaker and if
I caught her so much flirting with another man I would dump her there are
two absolute no NOS in a relationship no violence and no cheating a year after I
moved we got married and a year later again she fell pregnant I was overjoyed
she seemed distant sad and anxious the first two months after finding out and
eventually after I poked and prodded she broke down and told me she had a one
night stand around the time of conception and the kid might not be mine
I was on a plane back home 2 days later and didn't speak to her for a month I
ignored all her messages and calls but eventually I caved and we talked she
said she was going to get an Ino paternity test and that if the baby
wasn't mine she would abort but that she
wanted me to come back first I went back and she got the test I was in the room
when she got the results not mine I told her she was scheduling the appointment
that day or I was going to a divorce lawyer as soon as I left the hospital
she scheduled the appointment for a week
later the day of the appointment I drove her and held her hand as an abortion
under any circumstances is a traumatic event for a woman in the car she broke
down in tears and begged me to wait change my mind try to make it work
anything but go through with it and I looked her dead in the eye and told her
do whatever you want it's your body and your life but I will not raise another
man's child that child will be the living embodiment of your betrayal and a
daily reminder of what you did I will not subject myself to that abortion or
divorce edit for detail I wanted a divorce as soon as she hesitated I
jumped right to divorce I never tired to talk her into it I advised against the
abortion she didn't want to keep the kid and lose the marriage she wanted both
she told me directly that she would abort if the baby was mine and I
divorced her she would be getting an abortion she wanted specifically to keep
the child and have me raise it with her and unless I stayed she was getting the
abortion no matter what that was not happening she asked me if she had it and
if I would give her another chance I said yes I loved my wife effing Sumi I
am not sorry I refused to play Daddy to her infidelity spawn she got the
abortion there were complications and she was on bed rest for a month for a
while after she was short with me unaffectionate and cold we lost the
spark I tried but she didn't she told me one night after a few drinks that she
resented me for making her choice I told her I was glad she got the abortion as
she deserved to suffer for what she'd done I regretted saying this out loud
immediately even though that is exactly how I felt and still feel one day I came
home early from work and found her crying on the couch with a man next to
her holding her a man I'd met many times before a man she worked with
the look on their faces told me everything I needed to know he was the
father it wasn't a one night stand after I dragged him out of the house by his
neck she admitted they'd had a three-month Affair I will never know if
this is the extent of the truth to this day I accept that and have stopped
asking I began divorce proceedings and immediately kicked her out of the house
she begged cried and pleaded for months and again stupidly I broke and took her
back I told her she had to quit her job and cut contact she agreed read and made
the call there and then we moved away from her City and bought a house in mine
on the other end of the country we went to marriage counseling and got better
slowly but surely we went from strength to strength we now both had total
transparency on all accounts and we accepted that's the way it was as time
went on I stopped looking at her phone things were great between us our SX life
was great we both travel junkies went on lots of trips and started talking about
having kids we tried for 2 years to a child and it hadn't happened yet but the
practice was a lot of fun so what the hell this was the case for years I was
completely unguarded and my defenses were down when the most recent event
happened she had gotten slightly distant for a couple of months but not so much
that I was worried I asked her about it and she always made a point of being
affectionate when I did and assuring me it was all good but her default when not
being prompted was to be quiet and seek out her own space she was out drinking
with her friends one night and I stayed at home I woke up at 4:00 a.m. and heard
her voice downstairs I went out and asked if that was her there was no
answer she didn't hear me I guessed pretty quickly that she was on the phone
and due to the time it was her recent withdrawal and her dubious relationship
with loyalty I decided to listen in she was laughing flirting and saying sht
like I miss you too and I love you too I
knew it was him I was certain of it then she started talking about the hotel and
how good the room service was and when she could see him again I had heard
enough I charged down the stairs like a bull and she knew she had been caught
she started yelling and screaming and cursing me shouting that she'd been to a
doctor here and she told her during the abortion there was some sort of problem
she was drunk and slurring her words and crying but somewhere in the minutia of
words like tear and Scar Tissue impermanent I got it out of her that her
uterus had been damaged and it was unlikely she could ever bring a baby to
term she'd found this out 3 months prior right around when she started getting
distant again I grabbed the phone out of her hand she tried to take it back we
clawed back and forth until I shoved her back on the couch and told her not to
get back up until I told her to I sat on the chair opposite her and went through
every detail a half dozen text messages from him asked when she was going to be
leaving the bar that he missed her voice and how much fun they'd had obviously
all the other messages had been deleted but she hadn't had a chance to delete
the ones from that night yet I read the messages aloud and she stared at me with
daggers in her eyes I asked her over and over to explain herself and eventually
she jumped up and started screaming again she screamed that she'd taken a
day off work and Dove to meet him halfway and they Eed in a hotel all day
she screamed that when she got the news from the doctor she saw me as an enemy
and he was her Ally she screamed at me saying that she wasn't sorry and that
I'd ruined her life I yelled back that I was glad she got the abortion and if I
could kill him and take that away from her too I would she slapped me across
the face and I slapped her back hard it was open-handed but proportionately much
harder than when she hit me she fell back onto the couch and looked at me
stunned and in disbelief as she held her face and began to sob she reached for
her phone and I snatched it away from her before throwing it and smashing it
against the wall I went up to my room and paced back and forth and she sat
downstairs crying and that's where we stayed until morning when I went
downstairs she was asleep I woke her up and told her to get a shower and get out
I'd already made an appointment with my lawyer to file for divorce and she
wasn't staying in the house while I was gone she sobbed and begged me not to go
through with it she said she was drunk and didn't mean it she said she only
made up the story about meeting him to hurt me and that I was her one and only
blah blah blah she said she was sorry she hit me and didn't want an apology
for me hitting her back saying she deserved it I agreed she deserved it and
told her it was good she wasn't waiting for an apology because she would be
getting one that was last week this week she's back to living with her parents
she calls me every day 10 times a day she sends lengthy weepy text messages
that I don't read or reply to as my lawyer says I shouldn't contact her
unless through him I'm going forward with the divorce iel edit an important
note I left out is that I have answered numerous comments and it wasn't until
someone pointed it out that I should have mentioned it in the op she stated
that she had no interest in raising the baby alone if I divorced her she was
going through with it she didn't want to keep the baby and I made her get rid of
it she wanted us both to keep it and be the father to the child of the man she
cheated with at this point I still believe the pregnancy was due to a one
night stand she had with the girls she was not on a weekend with the girls
wife's POV I use Reddit too if you thought I wouldn't stumble on this post
you clearly didn't think it would blow up the way it did I was 20 when I met my
husband we met when we were both traveling around Europe I was just
finishing my trip and he was just starting his we met and slept together
the same day and we spent my last few days together for anyone saying this was
a red flag for him any more than it was for me your eism is showing after he
went home we struck up communication again and had a long-distance
relationship that lasted a year during this time we talked about previous
relationships and why they failed I told him my ex dumped me for kissing another
girl and at the time I didn't think it was a big deal but I had since realized
that cheating is cheating and it was wrong of me to do it he moved to me as
his work is freelance and he can do it from anywhere and I had spent the last
year settling into a job I really liked this was his suggestion he makes more
money than me and wanted to buy a house right away I told him I would rather
wait until we were married we had discussed marriage at length and it's
what we both wanted and we could buy one together but he said he didn't want to
throw money away on rent and when we got married and I signed a printup he would
put my name on the mortgage the suggestion of a printup was offensive as
he knew my family was well off and I'd never cared about money but I agreed I
also wanted to keep my own last name if we got married and he said he wouldn't
marry me if I didn't take his last name this I also agreed to he said fair is
fair and if I wanted to live and raise kids near my family and not his and be
the one to stay home while he worked when we had kids which I wanted then I
had to make compromises too I didn't think these were Fair compromises but I
agreed he bought the house against my wishes and then we got married and to
his credit he put my name on the mortgage the following week but this all
left a bitter taste in my mouth for the most part things were great I had a good
social life and was outgoing he was more of a stay-at-home type I had lots of
friends he was focused on work we were different but we made it work one of the
men I worked with expressed an interest even knowing I was married and I told
him no I told my husband this and he asked me to stop spending time with him
outside of work I told him no as I had already shot the other man down this was
a mistake on my part and I admit it when things were good they were great but I
also had resentments about the decisions I'd been forced to make and felt less
like an equal partner in the marriage by the day he bought a dog without my
consent when we were far apart I told him I wanted a dog but that I wanted to
wait until we had kids so they could bond together he claims I never
mentioned this last part he says I didn't I say I did he claimed it was a
surprise for me and that I was ungrateful for kicking up a fuss so the
dog stay I've never been great at communicating and prefer my own space
when things go bad so instead of talking
about these issues I let them fester and spent more time with my friends
including the guy from work my husband was overly protective and asked me to
check in with him if I was out late and asked me not to stay out at night even
when I was staying at a female friend's house I am not the apron washing type of
woman I have always valued my freedom these arguments drove a wedge between us
and I made a terrible decision I was drunk and slept with the guy from the
office I came home after slept on the couch and cried all night my husband
came down the next morning and attacked me for not coming home at a reasonable
time he said I was a mess because I slept in the clothes I went out in and
that I looked like a hooker the other man Greg never said things like this to
me he enjoyed being social dancing and all the other things my husband didn't I
was young and stupid and decided to keep seeing him he was kind and decent and
the more time I spent with him the more I wished I'd met him first I found out I
was pregnant I didn't know who the baby was and I was racked with guilt I told
Greg the day I found out and he told me to get an abortion because he didn't
want to get caught up in the middle of raising a kid with a married woman this
was the moment when the affair ended I told my husband a week later he didn't
have to pry the truth out of me like he said in his post a couple of months
later he saw me upset and I told him he flew home without telling me and ignored
my calls I realized ized then that I'd made a terrible mistake and decided to
recommit to my marriage I told him I would get an abortion if the child
wasn't his he told me to go f myself and hung up eventually he came home and we
found out the baby wasn't his so as we agreed I put on the appointment for the
abortion when we did the paternity test the doctor asked me if I wanted to know
the SX my husband answered for me and said it doesn't matter and we left I
went back without him and found out it wasn't an it it was a she my daughter
over the course of the week I had thoughts of being a mother I had always
wanted to raise kids and in my fantasies during this week I didn't think about
the other man this was my husband's baby
I pictured the three of us together as a family it wasn't ideal but there was no
good reason I could think of why we couldn't make the best of a bad
situation I planned to tell him who the father really was I panicked and told
him it was a one-time thing while I was away for the weekend and I would quit my
job it wasn't perfect but if he loved me we could make at work life throws tests
at us and when I took my marriage vows I
realized this and hoped he would too the day of the appointment I begged him not
to make me choose I begged him to do one
thing for me not to commit to a lifetime of it not even to love the baby just to
do one thing for me I begged him to try I asked him to give it a chance he told
me he was filing for divorce I need to make something clear yes I made mistakes
but I love my husband he was the great love of my life and still is
he told me he wouldn't even try to make it work and if I didn't have the
operation he would leave me and file for divorce that day I asked him to let me
think about it and he said no to that too I was torn between two horrible
choices and I chose one I had the abortion I was never going to raise a
baby alone if he wasn't with me on this I wasn't going through with it and he
made it clear he wasn't with me a few weeks after the operation I was in more
pain than I had ever been in my life during this time I stayed with my my
parents because we couldn't be around each other I blamed him for making me
choose he still hated me for the cheating and even told me he hated me
for wanting to keep the baby and for asking him to be around for us but I
didn't want it to be in vain so I moved back home and tried to make it work I
kept my feelings bottled up because I didn't want to remind him of what I'd
done I was on medical leave for 3 months and none of my friends knew as far as
they knew Sam my husband and I had miscarried as had my parents I had
nobody to talk to I asked Greg to come over and we talked I cried and he cried
with me it felt good to be heard and not have to wear a mask these visits
happened another half a dozen times and it's important to know that nothing
actual happened the affair was over I was leaning on a friend the only friend
who knew what I was going through you know the rest he came home I found out
Greg was the father we moved away and things got better these were great years
and I loved him with my whole heart I never forgot what happened but we talked
about having our own children I was happy and I had him to thank for that
when I found out I couldn't have children anymore I tried to tell him but
I'd remembered the way he looked at me years ago when he found out the names he
called me I thought of how much he loved me and I didn't want to ruin that by
telling him I could never give him children because of my betrayal I
reached out to Greg I found out he'd moved away from our hometown too and was
only a few hours drive away he is married now but I wasn't looking to
start anything back up to talk he told me I should tell Sam I couldn't we
agreed to meet and I took the day off work we met halfway and we slept
together we agreed it would be a one-time thing and both went back to our
partners to anyone who wants to call me a w I know it was wrong but life isn't
black and white I don't regret anything I love them both and for better or worse
they will both always be a part of what makes me who I am today I got drunk and
told Sam everything I was hurt and cruel to him and I told him I wasn't sorry I
met up with Greg he called me a w again and told me he was glad I gave up the
baby I slapped him and he slapped me back I don't resent him at all for
hitting me he had never lifted a hand to me before and I said awful things that
night but after he told me he was glad that the choice he forced me into
deprived me of ever being able to be a mother which I can't forgive I will
never forgive myself for the abortion and I will never forgive him the
difference is that he gets to move on and have a family and I never will I'm
back home with my parents now and I've spoken to divorce lawyers too they say a
printup doesn't mean anything anymore but I'm not going to take anything away
from you I just want it to be over too so maybe we can both find some peace
wife's update added in the same post presumably after a few days I talked to
a therapist today I read all your comments last night and this morning and
since I came back I've been reading all of your messages all day even if I
haven't replied I've been reading and digesting all of it
some people have been really kind and told me I'm only human and have made
mistakes these comments took place in a private message I imagine fear on behalf
of the commenter of being mocked some people took a harsher line and told me
that I was completely to blame and a total effa but that it's not too late
and I can always turn it around and some of you let's be honest have been awful
horrible hate-filled Pricks who have entirely too much invested in an
internet strangers marriage and extramarital Affairs you should all
maybe look at your own lives and try to figure out why you feel the need to go
online and tell bad people why they're bad people that being said every message
has helped me the cruel ones shook me to my core and had they not been so brutal
and so many I could have maybe Shrugged them off but there are over a thousand
comments on this page and there are probably less than 100 that aren't some
variation of calling me a c a w or a monster and even when I stopped replying
I kept reading I have read every single word that every single one of you has
typed it shook my foundations and allowed cracks to appear that I have
been chipped away at ever since I read all night slept 4 hours read again sayi
therapist and read some more the kind messages were like a life ring I needed
those two but again if they had been the majority I could have taken the easy
Road I needed a breath of air every once
in a while but the poison cleaned me out and the moderate messages kept me
grounded between the extremes I don't want to detail everything on here that
my therapist and I talked about because this is already a rant and I'm not done
yet but one hour with a paid professional and a thousand insults held
a pretty in escapable Mirror up to my face Sam did absolutely nothing wrong I
would say I forgive him for the abortion
but there is nothing to forgive that was the biggest realization I've had I put
him in an awful position and asked him to do something that probably would have
driven him to self harm I chose to have the abortion and mutilate my own body
Beyond repair I alone chose that I selfishly destroyed my marriage twice by
cheating because effing and forgetting to be a grown-up was easier than being
an adult and standing by the man I swore to love and expected such staggering
loyalty from I betrayed him in ways I as a woman am incapable of ever
understanding and I have to live with that and my mutilated body forever and I
should live with that forever as a reminder I want to express my genuine
gratitude to each and every one of you but there are two people I want to thank
in particular the first is the man or woman who PMD me about the authentic me
and what I was truly asking of my husband and what it would have meant for
him to push him to accept I would have have enslaved him I don't remember your
name I'm sorry there are so many messages I hope you see this update
thank you and the other is your relationships sht your breakdown of me
made the first crack I don't think you were trying to help me but you did I'm
grateful to you all and I will keep reading comments or PMS if any of you
have anything to say I'm open to talking to people I will not be replying to any
more hateful messages but that doesn't mean you shouldn't type them because I
will see them and if you really need to keep telling me what a dise person I am
then do because I am someone just made a
post about a [ __ ] dog and it was the
first time I've smiled in 2 days so I'm not sitting here crying and being a
victim I'm digesting it all thanks Emily since I named everyone else and if
you're reading this you deserve so much better I am deeply ashamed I am so sorry
for all of it thank you for watching the
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today we've got a great Revenge story that completely takes place in a parking
lot we'll get to that great revenge in a bit but first revenge on creepy cousin
my whole extended family went on vacation when I was in Middle School and
stayed in one big house when we were about to go swimming and I was changing
my younger cousin kept coming up to the keyhole and peeking in I was a 12 year
old girl and he was a 10 year old boy and I was really upset I'd yell at him
and he'd run away but then sneak back I realized that the door opened out
towards where he was coming from so after I was all ready I watched for him
to come back and slammed the door into his head right as he was bending down to
Peak again he screamed and of course his mom came running and I was like huh I
opened the door because I was done why would I have thought to see if he was
there and totally played dumb it's not like he could say anything to defend
himself because then he'd be in trouble I didn't get in trouble and he left me
alone after that he was always big bigger and stronger and this time I felt
like I won for the first time I just feel bad for Opie like having to deal
with this creepy stronger younger cousin it sounds to me like maybe they were
kind of protected by their family or they could feign innocence enough in
other situations I'm glad that Opie finally figured out a way how to put a
stop to it and gave them a lasting reminder too also hi I'm Stephen and if
you enjoy awesome stories of Revenge why
not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is
unintentional consequences of a cylindrical object this was some years
ago but when I lived in The Burbs there was this 25 year old guy that hung out
with kids still in high school and would
drive by every day with a massive lifted truck yelling profanities at us we
didn't personally know him just that type of guy one day he threw his soda at
us driving by and we had enough my friends and I had bought a giant
cylindrical object as a prank months ago
and decided to super glue it to the back of his truck come to find out he was
dating two girls one was mid-20s and had a kid with him one was outrage in high
school 18. for a week he didn't notice the cylindrical object and he would
drive by with it flailing around on the back of his truck he also had the
hanging balls on his truck which was even more hilarious back then Facebook
was the thing and when he found out he accused the 18 year old girl of doing it
the 18 year old girl publicly posted that her ridiculous boyfriend accused
her of putting her cylindrical object on the back of his truck and the mid-20s
girl saw it and put two and two together
realized he was cheating they both ended up breaking up with him and the girl in
their mid-20s posted a picture with the cylindrical object on the back for
everyone to see to this day he's still single from what I can tell and never
knew it was us not that great of a Revenge story but who would have thought
to clarify the guy lived up the street from us and I was friends with the 18
year old girl on Facebook she went to the same high school as me that's how I
saw all of it go down the cylindrical object had suction on the back of it so
it's meant to stick to surfaces or walls not sure if it was super glued or
Gorilla Glue but whatever it was we held it on for a few minutes and it stayed I
think honestly the most surprising thing
to me is a guy that was willing and able to go around and get multiple
girlfriends never ended up dating anybody ever again like maybe instead of
dating they were just you know keeping it a bit more casual maybe they were
burnt on the whole dating thing after both their girlfriends found out our
next story is in hospital today is day 13 in hospital I have a severe back
condition and awaiting surgery I've been on my new Ward for about five days I'm
the youngest there I'm in my early 40s but young at heart I have six kids and
I'm sort of the practical joke mum put fake spiders in their beds sew up their
pajama bottom legs so they can't get in them etc etc so you now know a bit of my
personality I live in chronic pain I take fentanyl morphine gabapentin and
Other Drugs but can't care enough to write them all but I try to be happy
jokey and just take the piss out of everything really I'm the youngest in my
ward I'm sharing with five other ladies I'd got on with them well till today we
were chatting well mainly three of them I just chip in when I feel like it I'm
too busy listening to Prime and trying to build my Lego Ghostbusters car to be
moaning about things and acting more important than others we were talking
about snoring they said I snored okay I snore I don't care I rarely sleep well
due to pain so if I get three to four hours sleep great my oh doesn't moan so
I can't be that bad I jokingly said well you snore a lot but I don't moan about
it and laughed well core blimey would have thought I've done a poop on the
floor one of them said you lot you lot and the other one chimed in us a lot
we're ladies I then did The Little Britain lady thing and laughed and she
said we are ladies we're your elders you should show your elders respect I
disagree I think respect and politeness gets muddled up I'm polite to people
very polite but my respect needs to be earned the woman next to me then said
that I had my light on till 2 A.M the other night yes I did I had my light on
in my area with my curtain around me but I was Mindful and put it as low as I
could to not disturb her when she asked how long I'll be I tilted the light so
it was darker in her area I tried to respond but they cut me off and told me
the conversation is over so tonight I didn't bother adjusting the lamp and I
didn't care if it annoyed her I know it's not much but I can barely walk at
the moment barely sit up and I'm weeing into a bag so let me have this little
bit of Revenge firstly d think respect needs to be earned by individuals or is
it a given right secondly any advice how I can get some Revenge would be greatly
appreciated as I'm being bullied by three coffin Dodgers and it's really not
helping at the moment as I'm missing my kids family and friends and I'm feeling
like a bit of a failure I don't know what's going to happen to me and I'm in
constant pain so a bit emotional thirdly I fell asleep before I posted this I've
not long been awake someone asked how she slept she said not great when asked
why she said because of the light I couldn't help but feel really pleased in
a smile spread across my face Petty I know yeah I honestly do agree greatly
with OP as far as respect is earned like at the default from the get-go you
should show respect regardless of somebody's age but if they show that
they aren't worthy of that respect they don't deserve it wouldn't you guys agree
our next story is Nurse judgments backfired I nailed my friend during the
covid-19 vaccination program in my community after the program she
introduced me to the rest of the team she told them that I used to work for
the same company and then this one nurse raised her eyebrow and loudly said oh
you're one of those who got laid off during the pandemic huh I felt
overwhelmed on her remarks but my friend said oh no she resigned on her position
because she's attending medical school to become a medical doctor the nurse was
stunned and quietly apologized I guess my friend got my back on putting
judgmental people in their places although I don't really see like a great
Revenge here it's nice to really put people in their place when they try to
judge negative things about you also I don't even understand why this would be
that negative of a thing to say or accuse somebody of I mean a lot of
people lost their jobs through no fault of their own during the pandemic our
next story is don't mess with me I'll tell your mom for some backstory I 20
year old female live in a dorm at my University City I unfortunately was
assigned a room this year right next to the sky 20 year old male we'll call him
Cole a guy who in the first two weeks of our freshman year dumps my friend and
said she was easy and slept around to her face ever since then I've hated him
and his jerk friends who haven't stopped talking crap about her living next to
him this year has been awful Cole and his roommate and friends who frequently
visit them yell bang on the walls and loudly shame women and comment on their
bodies needless to say this guy sucks so the other night I was drunk and ordered
food while my boyfriend was over every time I order from GrubHub I make sure to
get down to the front door as fast as possible because it's common for people
to steal orders outside as I'm headed to the entrance my food was left at Cole
and his friends walked past me with bags of food in their hands I go outside and
my food is gone coal sucks so I immediately suspect that he stole it I
thankfully catch the elevator before it closes and see one of his friends
telling him to put it back I say is that my food they all awkwardly say yes and
Cole hands me my food then another friend says okay we'll put the other one
back Cole's holding another bag of takeout with my friend's name on it I
say that's my friend I'll take it to him while we're going up floors I start to
cry as I'm inebriated and very overwhelmed by what just happened then
everyone in the elevator laughs at me trying to stifle it with their hands
over their mouths I leave the elevator in tears without any one of them saying
a single I'm sorry I go back home drunk and pissed and hungry I tell my
boyfriend everything and he's pissed he asked me if I want him to go over and
tell him off even suggesting the slash his tires and key his car but I wanted
to hit him where it really hurts I go to
Facebook and find his mother through his account it only took three minutes to
find her I dm'd her and told her everything not only just what happened
but all the misogynistic and mean things he said to women and my friends a few
days pass and my ra texts me that Cole has requested to formally apologize with
the R.A as a witness apparently since it
was attempted theft the ra would have to report him and it would be put on his
permanent record if he didn't apologize totally coincidentally I saw that Cole's
mom had opened my message a half an hour earlier sounds like his mom scolded him
and probably demanded he apologize I went to the apology thinking to myself
this better be a scholarship saving apology but he did what I assumed and
gave a BS unemotional apology and thanked me for not reporting him but the
satisfaction of his mother knowing what a jerk he is was all I really needed
honestly this is a great honestly underrated method of Revenge most of
these people have a social media profile that you can probably find maybe some
relatives from if you do a little searching around you might be able to
find Mom and granted maybe if they are acting like that they come from a
lineage that all acts like that and maybe doesn't care but just maybe Mom
does and for anyone who still loves their mom you gotta know there's one
thing that hurts the most and it's your mom being disappointed in you like
legitimately disappointed in you and your life our next story is TP trouble I
share a bathroom with other people they like to play the if I leave one piece on
the roll it doesn't count as empty so I don't have to change it game my solution
if the role is left empty or with one or two pieces I will gladly put a new one
on the holder the wrong way around I don't care if it's backwards but I know
it bugs the heck out of them because it's always turned around the next day
the best part is that they can't say anything because then they would have to
admit that they never change it you gotta love that it's probably just about
the exact same amount of work to go and put a new role on as it is flipping it
around it's like if you're that bothered enough to be willing to do that why not
just put the new role on where do you gotta go in such a hurry that you gotta
wipe your butt and Sprint out of there you literally can't take 60 seconds to
just change it it's the same thing as the people who for some reason don't
want to wash their hands or brush their teeth so they'll turn the water on and
just wait the exact same amount of time it would take to legitimately wash your
hands like what even is the point just actually do it our next story is
entitled girl causes drama surrounding my friendship with her Crush now she has
a reason to be mad my 24 year old female
friend group consists of about 10 people give or take a good mixture of men and
women all varying in ages from 24 to 37.
there's also this new girl a 27 year old female that we've been hanging out with
she hasn't been particularly kind to me but she's friends with my friends for
example she bartends at the place we frequent and she won't even even serve
me while she serves everyone around me she ignores me so obviously and
frequently that others have even noticed and pointed it out I never understood
why she was so mean but I didn't take it too personally I also catch her giving
me death glares rather frequently this entitled witch took me aside so she
could ask me questions about the guy she likes Jay 35 year old male one of my
friends from the way she was talking I assumed her and Jay had been together
for a minute she kept saying that she knows about Jay and I so I had to tell
her at one point one of our other friends did try to hook Jay and I up
months prior but things were so platonic that we hadn't even kissed so we began
dating other people and were content just being friends we're great friends
he's one of my best friends sometime after this conversation though she told
Jay that she had heard that Jay and I hooked up we hadn't and she caused drama
surrounding our friendship that was secluded to him and her presumably since
I had an heard about it until after everything unfolded it turns out though
that she has that conversation with every pretty girl she sees talking to
Jay but Jay's been telling everyone that there's nothing going on with him and a
he's not interested she just has a crush
on him Thursday though Jay asked me if I
wanted to come with him while he went to
the next date over in a semi why not how many other chances will I have in my
life to ride in a semi to pick up potatoes I have a friend that's actually
requesting my company cool I brought my canvas and paints with me at one point
during the drive I shared a Snapchat with my friend group of my canvas and
Jay inside the semi with the caption Spud run a immediately sent a chat and
then deleted it then the girl who's known for causing a scene and happened
to be working with a at the time sent a chat that read something along the lines
of what's going on I'm gonna get pissed if no one tells me op are you with Jay
right now that sure looks like his truck
Jason to chat confirming that we were in the same place at the same time two
different people told me that it was wrong of me to hang out with Jay knowing
that a has a crush on him I told them both the same thing A's not my friend
she's never been nice to me and I'm not obligated to tiptoe around her feelings
a sent me four paragraphs worth of messages we're talking 5 000 plus
characters a paragraph telling me she's not the reason for this drama she never
said that her and Jay were a thing rumors just go around she doesn't care
that I've slept with Jay I hadn't she just cares that I slept with her
ex-boyfriend still I hadn't she doesn't care to be friends with me because I'm
not her favorite person she repeated that five times that I can screenshot
the messages and show whoever I want because drama was not her intent with
them and that it wasn't wrong of her to ignore me but that I've gotta stop
telling people she gives me death glares Jay and I did end up hooking up but I
don't know if we would have had it not been put in our heads after all we did
spend about 24 hours bonding over the drama that a created honestly like the
ending does not surprise me first of all they were willing to invite you to do a
long drive with them in a semi truck I mean it doesn't seem outlandish for
platonic friends to do but it seems like a a bold choice to ask a friend to go
with you on but also yeah a creating that drama and creating a situation
where all through that ride they're sitting there together they can honestly
be laughing and cracking up about this and how it all just involves the two of
them and how it would kill this person if they were together and you know all
the things they do that seem like they make them so close and you know hey it's
no surprise that that genuinely sparked a few Sparks our next story is jealous
tantrum leads to drama which leads to work issues I had a few dates with a guy
let's call him snake like 20 plus years ago I was vaguely aware that he'd been
dating this other woman Jay but she had moved to another country a year before
and there was no indication that they were still together he said they were
pretty casual they never lived together and were never exclusive per everyone
who knew them I was sure to ask around before accepting a date with him it was
the General consensus that it was fine I didn't have a way to get a hold of her
before the internet was reliably available in many countries after a few
dates I had since decided that he was cute but had caught him in some lies and
he displayed some red flags about manipulative Behavior so I said let's
just be acquaintances he was fine with it he was clearly playing the field and
no hard feelings it was pretty common in our group to date around and not be
jealous or serious at the time but people were respectful of each other
well Jay came back a few months later and made a huge scene screaming and
yelling at me in a nightclub I was like what the freak a mutual took us out of
the club and mediated a law long conversation between us it was
ridiculous I was like I'm not responsible for Jay's feelings and don't
really care that she's mad but I'll sure try to work it out I was like hey sorry
if I hurt your feelings I respect you and that was not my intent but homie's
been playing the field so you may want to address your rage at him rather than
me it took hours that I will never get back in my life but she finally calmed
down and was able to see that he had lied to her and to me we made up
commiserated that he was manipulative to
us both and she agreed that her feelings were not my problem and apologized for
making a scene I was not too happy about being put in The Other Woman role and
would never agree to that I told her I had a guy's cheat on me and it feels
gross and I don't want to be a part of that I thought she believed me I didn't
hate him or anything and was fine seeing him at Social functions I barely knew
this woman I would just see her at parties or clubs or whatever but I
thought it was all good and things were chill again I had no idea she got back
together with him or what and didn't really care it wasn't my business then
she started working at one of my work sites it was a Social Services Center
with lots of vulnerable clients getting basic needs met I was in another agency
that would come by and pick up certain clients for services in the evening I
had been doing my job for several years and had no idea she wanted to do that
kind of work we were cordial at the work
site and I offered her help getting more work and experience in the field if she
was interested she was gracious and friendly no issues this becomes
important to know later I also knew all of her bosses for years and was tight
with them and no 90 percent of the clients really well having worked there
before and having been in the field for a long time I was decently well
respected and I loved the people at the site a few months later I was driving
with my friend on my way to a party at a mutual friend house I saw a snake and
another male friend K getting off a bus to walk to the party it was kind of a
schlep and they had some musical equipment so we pulled over and offered
them a ride this is pre-uber as well we pulled up and got to the party and I
helped them and some other folks by bringing their equipment into the house
it was a party of musicians and people were gonna jam and I'm always happy to
help with a designated driver ride make food bring booze or whatever I can so I
can rock out it was something I'd been doing for a long time and would do again
no big deal well apparently Jay was there and saw me gasp talking to snake
and helping with the equipment she unbeknownst to me at the time stormed
out the back and flounced out in a huff I never even saw her she never asked
what was going on I'm allowed to talk to people and give them rides it doesn't
mean I'm humping them sheesh I enjoy the party and drove some other musicians to
their homes later like I said no big deal a week later I come into the social
services site to pick up my clients and I see her she glared stomped and flipped
her ponytail in a mini fit the whole room got quiet clients noticed staff
noticed all eyes were on me I just ignored her Antics and called out my
clients names from the list to get them on the van I got no time for nonsense
when I'm at work as a side note this was a woman's slash non-binary only space
and while working there I've broken up many fights over boyfriends or
girlfriends between clients like people throwing lunch trays and stuff so I am
stoic as freak when people bring drama at me the clients were stoked ooh staff
drama heck yes so I ignored her and did my job I was thinking wow that is super
unprofessional but I am not letting that
crab rub off on me get yourself together girl but I kept my Bland Pleasant
expression this made her even more pissed and she stomped off to a back
office the manager was there and looked at me with curious eyes I knew she was
gonna squeeze me for Deets later I got home and Jay left a voicemail on my
landline machine yes I'm actually a hundred years old now stating that she
knew I was still hooking up with snake and she said you're not my friend very
clearly she also said snake and I are soul mates and you can't keep us apart
and complained about the night I came in with him like a couple I was like oh
good grief you've got to be kidding me so I called her back and got her
voicemail I said first of all you said I'm not your friend thank you for that I
am officially freed from worrying about your feelings ever again second I spent
way too much time dealing with your emotions about your perceptions of my
behavior I was done with you and you acted like a donkey at my place of work
anyway third while I'm on the subject of work if you ever even look at me funny
in a work situation I will get your butt fired so quick your head will spin
fourth go make a wonderful life with your soul mate who likes to screw other
women best of luck with that 5. leave me the freak alone I know it verbatim
because my friend and I wrote it out and
I just read from the paper I was sorting things recently and ran into it so I
decided to post it here the next time I worked at the work site the big boss BB
a freaking bad to the bone lady who has my eternal respect pulled me aside as I
expected and asked what was up with Jay I told her truthfully my side and said I
was disappointed that she was so ridiculous at our work site and this
needs to be a safe place free of drama for our clients I told BB I would
continue to ignore Jay's drama she said don't worry about it I never saw Jay
again apparently she was fired for her behavior and yelled at BB when a BB
asked what the freak was up with her and Screech that I I was a devil woman or
something epilogue I'm still friends with Kay the other musician guy 20 plus
years later yay social media epilogue 2 my friend s who knew Jay from working
Social Services ran into her at a coffee shop s is a Snoopy witch so she got an
update that Jay is a yoga teacher now hopefully she's happy and found a more
suitable person to be with the yikes wow I can't believe this all took place 20
years ago in 1980 right definitely not 2003. I think that maybe is what pains
me the most beyond the whole drama queen
nonsense she displayed our next story is divorced and she refused to believe it
2003 20 years ago young 19 year old male dumb and on the rebound I met someone
online ex-girlfriend told me not to date her best friend told me not to date her
everyone said the same thing six months later married and I can almost identify
the day she conceived our kid now almost 19 himself she had her IUD removed and
didn't tell me the actual marriage time living together lasted about a year I
started hooking up with a co-worker yeah
I'm a jerk but always a butt she refused to work claimed health issues wouldn't
even let her hold down a desk job but didn't mind sitting in front of my
computer all day playing games EverQuest
mostly smoking eating food but not a job she had a lot of other issues too both
step daughters were being assaulted by the younger one's father she knew and
did nothing she is a crappy member of an indigenous people demanded a free house
but refused to live on the reserve welfare pawned all my crap to make bills
each month rarely showered withheld sex as a weapon when I very often out
logiced her in an argument she'd threaten me with a knife in modern days
she's worse about her hygiene and our son won't speak to her although she
locked him on all socials because he wouldn't move in with her she got her
youngest daughter kicked out of a house so she could have it still doesn't have
a job and blames everyone else for it annually tries to scam fifty thousand US
dollars from people for a surgery the issue is real I've seen the x-rays but
she doesn't want Canada to do it for free because they don't use lasers drugs
I was the only one making money at 8.50 an hour with a two-hour commute gas was
over four dollars at the time plus I was feeding four people on that as well
sometimes five when the youngest came over I was starving myself anyways
walked away for the most part but still saw my son regularly got a better job
then joined the army my son went to live with his grandparents single soldier
stuff and his mother signed away her rights to an extent from the time I
walked out 2004 until July 2012 she kept refusing to sign papers to finalize is
the divorce my first sergeant said you will get divorced or get court-martialed
I had a daughter with another woman while in the Army so I got divorced put
an ad in the paper she claimed to read never responded divorce granted all
debts belonging to the debtor but because we're married in Canada the U.S
could only handle the divorce not custody well she denied the divorce ever
happened every day she claimed she couldn't find the record on the state's
Vital Statistics site but I could and she was mailed a divorce decree back in
2012. roll up on October 2020 I'm on my way back home after a visit to my origin
and visiting friends I get a call from some freaking lawyer in Toronto she
hired a divorced lawyer and was suing me I tell the guy it happened when I get
home I'll scan it and email it scanner was broken so I took photos with my
phone and I called every day for a week to confirm he got it he was not happy
this is one of those stories where you finish reading it and you're like
there's no like hero in the story it's kind of like a bad guy convention where
nobody's necessarily in the right and nobody's really coming out on top so to
say our next story is block me in I'll block you in so about a year ago I was
at a Lake Way North from where I live I came back to the parking lot to find my
car Locked In by someone who thought it was a genius idea to leave their car
directly behind three parked cars I was the middle car definitely couldn't get
out I waited and waited and right before
I was going to call a tow truck a couple walks up and casually gets in the car
and proceeds to drive off I quickly backed up circled around the other way
to get to the parking lot exit first I get to the exit and he's right behind me
I throw the car in park and just sit there ten seconds later he's laying on
the horn eventually he gets out and walks up to my window and starts yelling
profanities and tells me to get out of the way something to note here there's
only one exit in this parking lot and the entrance for some reason has one-way
spikes to prevent people from leaving that way no idea why since this is just
the parking lot for a lake anyway I cut him off and tell him he made me wait 17
minutes and 20 seconds I timed it when he illegally blocked me in and I intend
to wait 17 minutes and 20 seconds to let him leave he storms off calls me a few
names in the process and Floors it in reverse he drives down to the entrance
and without noticing the spikes I guess drives right into them I see his brake
lights come on at the last minute and pow both front tires are done I then
decided 17 minutes was a waste of time since he'd clearly be there longer than
that and so I left made the rest of my day feel much better I love that because
this guy was so enraged and upset they went and made a foolish decision that in
no way can be tied down to op I mean maybe you can say for the few minutes
Opie was blocking the car in there's some kind of something maybe stretch of
the imagination you could charge them for but let's be real nobody's gonna
follow up on that I hope this guy has the money for those tires but with that
being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear
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:00.220 --> :03.820 Not sure if this is the right sub.
:03.820 --> :05.620 Just looking to vent.
:05.620 --> :08.320 Obligatory mention I’m typing on phone.
:08.320 --> :17.039 A little backstory - my mum has always put her
:17.039 --> :20.609 love interests and relationships before her
children. :20.609 --> :24.410 I (27F) have one older sister (30F).
:24.410 --> :27.609 EM has been this way since I can remember.
:27.609 --> :32.469 She has uprooted us from home to move to a
new city for a man she loved who was married, :32.469 --> :36.960
made me stay the night at boyfriend’s houses
that I wasn’t comfortable at, and went as :36.960 --> :42.160
far as ditching my sister and I in a foreign
country in a hostel while she went off with :42.160 --> :45.620
a man she just met for a one night stand. :45.620 --> :51.360
She also slept with a guy I was seeing when
I was around 17/18 (luckily he was of legal :51.360 --> :52.360 age).
:52.360 --> :53.360 You get the picture. :53.360 --> :59.350
The thing is, she’s also incredibly intelligent,
professional, built an amazing career for :59.350 --> :05.409
herself in academia, and has and can be very
supportive and loving of both my sister and :05.409 --> :11.939
I. She’s given us both so many opportunities
in life as a single mother so it feels terrible :11.939 --> :14.080
to even point out these issues I have with her. :14.080 --> :18.200
Cut to 2019, I’m now married with a wonderful husband.
:18.200 --> :20.160 My sister has a long term partner.
:20.160 --> :22.700 EM has been dating this young man.
:22.700 --> :25.240 They both live overseas where she is currently
working. :25.240 --> :31.630
EM has told us of their turbulent relationship,
and as always, we watch as she shape shifts :31.630 --> :34.280
to fit the type of women she thinks he’ll like. :34.280 --> :40.640
Like clockwork, we see her uproot her life,
schedules, everything, to pursue this unhealthy :40.640 --> :41.640
relationship. :41.640 --> :43.960
She slowly but surely cuts us out of her life. :43.960 --> :48.290
It must be said that she has been physically,
emotionally, and verbally abusive throughout :48.290 --> :51.920
my life, and this behaviour has continued toward her partner.
:51.920 --> :54.160 He also is abusive toward her.
:54.160 --> :58.270 My sister and I have gone through the motions
and tried to get her help but she doesn’t :58.270 --> :02.409
believe in mental illness, nor does she listen to anything we have to say.
:02.409 --> :06.930 Our whole lives were spent trying to keep
her stable, but now that we have our own lives, :06.930 --> :10.170
for our own mental stability, we have just left it to her.
:10.170 --> :12.260 That’s been a whole thing in itself.
:12.260 --> :17.950 Cut to the pressing issue: 2 years ago her
boyfriend tried and threatened to kill myself, :17.950 --> :23.790
husband, my sister, her partner, and my mum,
in a drunken rage in the country they lived :23.790 --> :24.930
in at the time. :24.930 --> :28.120
He was charged with 5 counts of attempted murder. :28.120 --> :30.209
Most traumatic moment of my life. :30.209 --> :32.750
Still dealing with the after effects (PTSD, anxiety, panic attacks, insomnia).
:32.750 --> :36.600 EM pleaded with court to get him off charges,
and they were dropped. :36.600 --> :38.150
She went back to him pretty quick. :38.150 --> :41.520
Now, EM and boyfriend are back in my home country. :41.520 --> :45.769
They’re trying to build a life here, and
EM has stated she has moved back to work on :45.769 --> :48.680
relationships with my sister and I. Bullcrap lol. :48.680 --> :52.690
The boyfriend sent a crapy 2 line email apology. :52.690 --> :56.540
Through therapy I have decided to forgive
them both, and have worked on my relationship :56.540 --> :59.930
with my mum and even seen the boyfriend a few times.
:59.930 --> :02.659 This took a long time to get to this stage.
:02.659 --> :08.020 My sister doesn’t want to set eyes on the
boyfriend and I 100% support her decision. :08.020 --> :10.220
She is still working on relationship with mum. :10.220 --> :15.180
Christmas is coming up and it’s tradition in our family to have a family brunch.
:15.180 --> :19.440 Never missed a year except once when mum was
stuck overseas due to COVID. :19.440 --> :24.590
So I call mum to chat about plans and she
is now crapy that her boyfriend is not invited. :24.590 --> :27.049
He is not welcome at our home, ever. :27.049 --> :28.910
I think that’s a fair boundary. :28.910 --> :33.201
She has said things like “I can’t keep choosing between you and boyfriend” and
:33.201 --> :39.190 “how long is it gonna take, he did that
THING over 2 years ago” and “what does :39.190 --> :41.560
he have to do for you to accept him?!” :41.560 --> :42.560 Etc.
:42.560 --> :46.819 So now I doubt she’s going to come to Christmas,
and I think this may be the last straw in :46.819 --> :47.989
our relationship. :47.989 --> :53.659
I’ve worked so hard on my own mental stability
after all this crap and I no longer want to :53.659 --> :55.260
be a second option for her. :55.260 --> :07.939
I just don’t how how I could live with myself
if I cut her off but I may have to. :07.939 --> :44.300
Thanks for letting me vent I work at a zoo,
and we’re mostly closed for the winter, :44.300 --> :48.490
but our reptile house is still open because
it’s kept at the same temperature year round. :48.490 --> :53.610
I’m working, showing people what the different
animals are, answering their questions, when :53.610 --> :56.630
a family, two parents one kid, comes in. :56.630 --> :01.229
They’re mostly chill, doing what all visitors
do, when I hear that the kid wants to hold :01.229 --> :02.880
the green mamba. :02.880 --> :07.940
Normally we let kids hold some of the reptiles
if they are non venomous and non aggressive. :07.940 --> :13.390
Green Mambas are venomous, and this one in
particular gets really aggressive when near :13.390 --> :14.390
people. :14.390 --> :18.479 The parents come and ask me if they’re kid
can hold it, I tell them he can for the above :18.479 --> :19.920
reasons, and they tell him. :19.920 --> :23.050
This is when he throws a massive fit. :23.050 --> :27.690
Apparently his favorite color is green and he only wanted to hold that snake.
:27.690 --> :31.949 We had other green snakes, and thinking back
I should have just got a different snake and :31.949 --> :36.990
told him it was a green mamba to avoid the
bullcrap but I didn’t think of that at the :36.990 --> :37.990 time.
:37.990 --> :41.190 They come back to me and ask again, and I
firmly say no. :41.190 --> :46.481
They then got really upset and loud about
how I was a terrible zookeeper, and should :46.481 --> :49.160
just let their kid hold the snake. :49.160 --> :53.660
My manager hears the commotion, and so did
every other guest, and comes over to see what’s :53.660 --> :54.660
wrong. :54.660 --> :58.069 They tell him that I’m not letting their
kid hold a snake, when we let kids hold the :58.069 --> :59.550
snakes all the time. :59.550 --> :05.020
There is really only five snakes that we let
people hold, mostly because most snakes don’t :05.020 --> :09.069
like being held, so my manager then tells
them to follow him and he will let him hold :09.069 --> :10.069
a snake. :10.069 --> :15.139
They stop him, bring him to the green mamba, and say it has to be this one.
:15.139 --> :19.740 He tells them what I told them, and that they
can’t let guests hold venomous snakes, and :19.740 --> :21.190
they yell at him as well. :21.190 --> :25.690
Now my manager doesn’t have a lot of patience,
so he just tells them to get out or he’s :25.690 --> :27.800
gonna call security to force them out. :27.800 --> :59.099
They promptly left but not before calling
us “Child hating Nazis” Hello again everyone. :59.099 --> :02.599
Before I start explaining what happened in this post, I have some good news.
:02.599 --> :07.720 I'll be seeing a psychiatrist in December,
but it'll be online, as in-person appointments :07.720 --> :08.889
have been booked out. :08.889 --> :13.180
Luckily there's the zoom chat, so I'll be
able to explain without talking, and my parents :13.180 --> :15.050
won't be able to hear me. :15.050 --> :18.389
Another positive thing is that I'll hopefully be moving out by next year.
:18.389 --> :20.539 Now, I'll get into the post.
:20.539 --> :25.020 This started last week, and I had no idea
my little brother was trying to continue this :25.020 --> :27.160
torment until earlier tonight. :27.160 --> :28.789
I'll start with what happened then. :28.789 --> :33.960
A few nights ago, I was enjoying dinner with
my family, before my brother swung his leg :33.960 --> :35.550
into me and kicked my leg. :35.550 --> :39.669
My parents didn't even react, and expected me to just deal with it and move on.
:39.669 --> :43.129 A few days later, I had just finished vacuuming
the house. :43.129 --> :47.860
I sat down on my bed and relaxed, but was
then disrupted by the sound of the vacuum :47.860 --> :48.860 again.
:48.860 --> :52.849 I walked outside, and saw my brother vacuuming
the places I'd checked thoroughly. :52.849 --> :57.830
I told him we didn't need to vacuum there,
and as soon as I walked near him he dropped :57.830 --> :00.090
the vacuum and punched me. :00.090 --> :05.330
According to my parents, that was my fault, and I was supposed to move on.
:05.330 --> :10.560 Yesterday, I came home from work after a long
and tiring day, and my parents needed to go :10.560 --> :11.650
out for the night. :11.650 --> :15.889
I had no idea about this, and they sprung it on me out of nowhere.
:15.889 --> :19.970 They expected me to know, and were rather
irritated that I didn't, even though they :19.970 --> :21.280
didn't explain. :21.280 --> :25.550
They ordered me to make dinner immediately
(luckily there were some leftovers in the :25.550 --> :26.960
fridge I could heat up). :26.960 --> :30.500
I went to the kitchen, and began heating up the leftover chicken.
:30.500 --> :34.729 Once it had been heated up, I split up the
container into two parts using a fork. :34.729 --> :37.919
I filled one bowl for me, and another bowl for my little brother.
:37.919 --> :42.599 I kept the remaining chicken in the container
for somebody else, if they wanted to eat it :42.599 --> :43.599
for lunch or dinner. :43.599 --> :48.490
My little brother then walked into the kitchen,
and snatched the container and the fork away :48.490 --> :51.450
from me, and dumped the rest into his bowl. :51.450 --> :55.140
I kindly asked him to give the fork back,
and told him that I was saving the rest of :55.140 --> :59.620
the chicken for someone else that might be
hungry, but as I should've known, that was :59.620 --> :02.050
met by yells and verbal abuse. :02.050 --> :06.440
I quickly apologised for making dinner for
him, and then he started yelling horrible :06.440 --> :07.680
things at me. :07.680 --> :12.801
In his words, or what I can remember at least,
he said 'you're the worst big brother, you :12.801 --> :17.720
failed at being a brother, you're so f**king overprotective, I hate you.
:17.720 --> :20.790 I'm sorry that mom and dad have to deal with you.'
:20.790 --> :25.670 These words deeply hurt me, and I decided
to retreat to another room for some alone :25.670 --> :26.670 time.
:26.670 --> :31.200 As I sat there, I could still hear him yelling
obscenities at me, and I was crying. :31.200 --> :35.800
I then noticed a dusting brush that had been
broken in half, and threw it into the ground :35.800 --> :36.800
in sheer anger. :36.800 --> :41.230
I know I should have not done that, as that
was rather immature, but I couldn't think :41.230 --> :44.670
of expressing my rage and sorrow in any other way. :44.670 --> :47.570
He saw this, and walked into the room I was in. :47.570 --> :49.860
He picked it up, and threw it at me. :49.860 --> :53.450
It nearly hit my head, and I threw up my arms to defend myself.
:53.450 --> :57.550 I then got up from where I was sitting, and
he ran away instantly. :57.550 --> :00.450
This isn't the first time he's thrown things at me either.
:00.450 --> :03.200 He once threw a pen that almost hit me in the eye.
:03.200 --> :07.050 I was almost finished my dinner, and I thought
that was the end of it. :07.050 --> :08.490 I was mistaken.
:08.490 --> :13.209 He walked into the room while I wasn't paying
attention, and jammed the fork he was using :13.209 --> :14.730
into my arm. :14.730 --> :18.250
It actually drew blood, and I tried to defend myself.
:18.250 --> :21.970 He ran off again, but I couldn't bring myself
to chase after him. :21.970 --> :27.260
I was still recovering from the embarrassment
and true horror I experienced during Halloween. :27.260 --> :30.440
I finished eating my dinner, and cried to myself in my room.
:30.440 --> :32.370 I felt alone and unsafe.
:32.370 --> :36.610 Then I heard the sound of the garage door
opening, and my parents returning from their :36.610 --> :37.610
party. :37.610 --> :41.190
I tried to explain what happened, as I couldn't handle this myself.
:41.190 --> :45.210 I tried talking it out with my little brother,
but that didn't work. :45.210 --> :46.720
Their response was the usual. :46.720 --> :48.660
'Deal with it yourself'. :48.660 --> :52.980
I tried to explain again that I needed help,
but they instructed me to work it out with :52.980 --> :54.950
him, and it wasn't their problem. :54.950 --> :56.820
I went back to my room, annoyed. :56.820 --> :58.329
Now, this afternoon. :58.329 --> :02.420
I had just come home from another long day
at work, and I'm finally getting a break. :02.420 --> :07.680
I've finished all my work, and need to wait
for a special celebration next year in January, :07.680 --> :09.360
which is when I'll be returning there. :09.360 --> :14.540
I sat down, put everything away, and began
watching Jujitsu Kaisen and playing Pokemon :14.540 --> :16.240
Scarlet on my Switch. :16.240 --> :20.250
I'd already told my dad about my good news,
so I was just waiting for mum to get home :20.250 --> :22.070
so I could tell her as well. :22.070 --> :26.440
She eventually did come home, and I walked
up to her room to tell her about my news. :26.440 --> :30.740
I waited in the doorway, and waited for her
to get ready and put her stuff away before :30.740 --> :32.190
I could talk to her. :32.190 --> :35.620
As I stood there, I heard my little brother come up behind me.
:35.620 --> :37.200 He said the words 'hey mum!'
:37.200 --> :42.329 In a welcoming voice, but then that voice
turned into an aggravated tone for absolutely :42.329 --> :43.630
no reason. :43.630 --> :48.250
I remember him saying the words 'oh my god' before stomping away.
:48.250 --> :52.350 I tried asking him what was wrong later, but
he told me to just f**k off. :52.350 --> :55.810
I told my mum, and she was very happy for me as well.
:55.810 --> :00.790 I thought my life was about to turn in the
right direction, but I was wrong again. :00.790 --> :05.300
Later, when we were having dinner, my little
brother decided to speak about last night, :05.300 --> :07.130
and how awful I was to him. :07.130 --> :11.040
They believed all his lies, and I tried to explain what happened.
:11.040 --> :16.760 Apparently, I kicked him first during that
time he kicked me, and I turned off the vacuum :16.760 --> :18.200
so he punched me. :18.200 --> :23.180
They believed this, and berated me for acting
like his parent and babysitter, even though :23.180 --> :26.110
that is exactly what they told me to do. :26.110 --> :30.390
I tried to talk to them about how they were
wrong about all this, and tell them what actually :30.390 --> :36.330
happened, free of my brother's lies, but I
was cut off again for being 'disrespectful'. :36.330 --> :42.269
My mother then started screaming and berating
me about how her life was 'so hard' and she :42.269 --> :47.690
wants us to 'pretend to get on and be happy
with each other', and using me as her emotional :47.690 --> :49.170
punching bag again. :49.170 --> :53.370
I was resisting the urge to cry, knowing that it would only make things worse.
:53.370 --> :55.800 They'd yell at me for crying too.
:55.800 --> :59.910 My brother then brought up the fact that I
said 'my parents are using me as a scapegoat :59.910 --> :01.680
and mental punching bag'. :01.680 --> :06.070
I've never said that to him, he may have heard me muttering that at some point.
:06.070 --> :10.529 This only caused more yelling, and I felt
incredibly stressed out. :10.529 --> :15.601
I tried to leave the table multiple times,
but I was dragged back there verbally, even :15.601 --> :17.120
though I wanted to say no. :17.120 --> :23.040
I was forced to listen to how my little brother
'doesn't have any more compassion for me left, :23.040 --> :24.850
since I'm such a bad brother'. :24.850 --> :29.250
My parents tried to have us finish up with
things we enjoy so they could escape to watch :29.250 --> :31.709
their scripted live action shows. :31.709 --> :36.550
I told them I was happy with the shiny Pokemon
I'd recently acquired in Scarlet, while my :36.550 --> :41.589
brother rambled on about how he could no longer
enjoy the things I loved, as I 'sucked all :41.589 --> :44.380
the joy out of them, just because I like them'. :44.380 --> :46.450
Which were his exact words. :46.450 --> :51.149
Also, apparently he 'wasn't aiming for me' when he threw the brush.
:51.149 --> :56.170 Even if he didn't purposely aim, I didn't
know that, and my parents expected me to. :56.170 --> :59.290
After I left the table, I sat in my room and cried.
:59.290 --> :00.490 I felt awful. :00.490 --> :05.740
I was forced to listen to more lies and verbal
abuse from my family, all because of one simple :05.740 --> :06.740
fact. :06.740 --> :09.399
I had the audacity to make dinner for my little brother.
:09.399 --> :14.329 On a short note, during my Halloween adventures,
my parents didn't come with us because they :14.329 --> :22.310
wanted to watch TV, and get drunk. :22.310 --> :28.640
On another short note. :28.640 --> :33.769 I have a dream.
:33.769 --> :40.590 I want to be adopted my Midnight and Mount
Lady from My Hero Academia, or Makima from :40.590 --> :42.440
Chainsaw Man, or Professor Sada from Pokemon. :42.440 --> :53.190
It really is a wonderful dream, and I want it to come true someday.
:53.190 --> :03.720 Thank you all for listening to my story.
:03.720 --> :09.079 I am a freshman in high school, and I want
to talk about a recent scenario that happened :09.079 --> :10.079
at my school. :10.079 --> :14.100
In my grade, there are twins, a boy and a girl, Braxton and Ava.
:14.100 --> :18.820 Braxton is a good kid for the most part, he
is an athlete, plays multiple sports in school :18.820 --> :21.529
and out, though baseball is his main one. :21.529 --> :25.930
The only time Braxton is really mean is in
gym class, he’s the type of boy who will :25.930 --> :30.519
scream at you if you don’t catch the ball and takes gym too seriously.
:30.519 --> :34.310 Other than that, he’s a chill dude though,
most people like and respect him. :34.310 --> :39.779
Ava is much worse, she has been a bully since
Kindergarten, is mean to everyone except her :39.779 --> :43.730
friends and her only personality trait is being rich.
:43.730 --> :48.730 I go to school in a pretty well off area,
my family is also well off, so this is mostly :48.730 --> :50.250
an online thing. :50.250 --> :53.120
She likes to brag about her wealth on TikTok and Instagram.
:53.120 --> :57.430 She’s the type of kid who thinks she’s
better than everyone because she is rich. :57.430 --> :01.959
One thing you need to know about Braxton is
he is the type of kid who wears a cross necklace :01.959 --> :08.529
to school, has “God First” in his social
media bios, and will occasionally post Bible :08.529 --> :09.529
verses. :09.529 --> :14.029 He’s nothing like Ned Flanders, but he is
pretty openly religious, and has been for :14.029 --> :15.300
about a year and a half. :15.300 --> :19.029
He said he “found Christ” through sports around 11-12.
:19.029 --> :25.069 He’s not a judgmental type of kid, he is
friends with openly gay and trans students, :25.069 --> :27.760
and has said he doesn’t believe gay is a sin. :27.760 --> :32.740
Braxton does definitely have some more conservative
views from religion, like saying he doesn’t :32.740 --> :38.000
curse (always uses replacement words in a
TikTok instead of a curse word) and saying :38.000 --> :42.259
he doesn’t want tattoos and following rules about food, ect.
:42.259 --> :47.620 He also owns a lot of stuff that combine religion
and sports, like bracelets with baseballs :47.620 --> :53.080
saying he can do stuff with God and shirts
that take about baseball and faith, doesn’t :53.080 --> :54.470
wear them everyday though. :54.470 --> :58.930
Because of him talking about “finding Christ”
through sports to various people, we also :58.930 --> :03.160
know that his entire family on both sides are atheists.
:03.160 --> :07.630 Last week, right before Thanksgiving break,
Ava and the group of girls she’s friends :07.630 --> :12.910
with got in trouble for being homophobic to
a boy, sending him messages with anti gay :12.910 --> :15.880
slurs and telling him he’s going to heck. :15.880 --> :17.420
Some really horrible stuff. :17.420 --> :20.650
This wasn’t surprising coming from Ava’s group of friends though.
:20.650 --> :25.929 Ava and her friends are terrible people, I’ve
never seen them show even a bit of remorse :25.929 --> :27.069
or empathy. :27.069 --> :31.470
The parents of the girls came to pick them
up, most made bullcrap excuses to defend their :31.470 --> :37.280
daughters behaviors, but the most outlandish
had to come from Ava’s, one of the parents :37.280 --> :42.250
said something about homosexuality being against
their religion, and Ava’s parents thought :42.250 --> :45.150
it would be a good idea to use the same excuse. :45.150 --> :49.530
The girls are also toxic to each other and
one of them mentioned how Braxton has talked :49.530 --> :54.710
about how his family is atheist, another girl
elaborated on that and then Ava’s parents :54.710 --> :01.820
tried defending themselves before giving up
and admitting that they lied about being religious/Christians
:01.820 --> :03.920 and were indeed atheists.
:03.920 --> :08.190 We know all of this happened because one of
Ava’s friends was recording the conversation :08.190 --> :13.270
on her phone and proudly posted on Snapchat
about getting out of school suspension because :13.270 --> :18.220
of it and how she “gets to miss school now” and how they hated school.
:18.220 --> :23.640 Since this ordeal has gone down and the recording
was released, Braxton posted a story on Instagram :23.640 --> :28.690
making an indirect jab at his sister talking about how God hates bullying.
:28.690 --> :33.740 Braxton and Ava were already known to not
like each other much, but this probably made :33.740 --> :35.270
it much worse. :35.270 --> :38.970
I’m just glad Ava and her friends are gone for some time.
:38.970 --> :43.410 Ava and Braxton’s parents are delusionally
entitled. :43.410 --> :46.610
Truly some of the most entitled I’ve ever heard of.
:46.610 --> :49.660 Also, I acknowledge most atheists are totally
chill people. :49.660 --> :55.091
I am an atheist myself, this was just a crazy
scenario that happened at my school that I :55.091 --> :33.860
needed to talk about. :33.860 --> :36.440
So this just happened, and I'm pretty bent about it.
:36.440 --> :39.430 I went to California Fish Grill, CFG, for
a late lunch. :39.430 --> :43.400
It was a pretty standard ordeal, I ordered
my meal, grabbed a drink, and made sure to :43.400 --> :47.840
grab a small table with only two seats so I wouldn't take up too much space.
:47.840 --> :53.049
Not that it really mattered, because the restaurant
was fairly empty with plenty of tables. :53.049 --> :57.130
As I'm casually sitting at this small table
for two, an older lady came up and asked me :57.130 --> :58.130
to move. :58.130 --> :04.370
I was a bit puzzled because she came in after
me, the table I was at appeared to be untaken, :04.370 --> :06.960
and there were plenty of other available tables. :06.960 --> :11.920
I asked why, and she said she wanted a table big enough for her and her son.
:11.920 --> :16.020 At this point, I told her I wasn't going to
inconvenience myself when there were plenty :16.020 --> :17.910
of other open tables. :17.910 --> :20.600
She could simply go sit elsewhere with her son. :20.600 --> :25.640
So she started getting frustrated with me,
and telling me I needed to respect my elders :25.640 --> :28.740
and that her son would not be able to sit at another table.
:28.740 --> :32.390 I just ignored her though, because it was
not my problem. :32.390 --> :37.400
So this lady walks off and tells the manager
that I took her table and was refusing to :37.400 --> :38.840
give it back to her. :38.840 --> :43.780
She brings the manager over and explained
that her son is very upset that I took their :43.780 --> :45.590
table, and it was hurting his feelings. :45.590 --> :51.030
We had a few minutes of back and forth before
the manager gives me this look of "I don't :51.030 --> :55.030
make enough money to deal with this, please just move."
:55.030 --> :00.090 So whatever, I get up, go to another table,
and this lady just glares at me. :00.090 --> :03.880
I glare back, and she's sitting all by herself. :03.880 --> :07.799
At first, I thought she was just a liar and didn't have a son.
:07.799 --> :11.160 Maybe she just wanted to abuse what little
power she had. :11.160 --> :17.980
After like 10 minutes though, this guy walks
in with a full suit and tie, maybe 40-50 years :17.980 --> :20.990
old, and approaches this lady and calls her mom. :20.990 --> :24.260
They exchange some words, and he starts glaring at me too.
:24.260 --> :28.850 At this point, I'm just annoyed and trying
to eat my lunch in peace. :28.850 --> :35.850
So her son, a grown-butt man, shouts at me
across the restaurant and asks if I think :35.850 --> :38.620
it's funny to disrespect his mom like that. :38.620 --> :42.330
And I just look at him puzzled because I have no idea what he's talking about.
:42.330 --> :45.529 He shouts again, "Yeah, you in the hat."
:45.529 --> :49.270 So I just ignore him because this is stupid.
:49.270 --> :53.070 As he continued to harass me, I decided to
just flip him the bird. :53.070 --> :58.650
This lady and her son lost their crap, got
up yelling, screaming, and generally causing :58.650 --> :59.650
a scene. :59.650 --> :01.540
The son started threatening to kick my butt. :01.540 --> :06.111
He asked me if I liked being such a smart-butt,
so of course, I had to let him know it was :06.111 --> :07.490
better than being a dumb-butt. :07.490 --> :12.140
Anyway, this commotion resulted in the police being called by the manager.
:12.140 --> :17.350 They showed up after an unclear amount of
time, walk right up to this lady and her son, :17.350 --> :18.559
and ask them to leave. :18.559 --> :24.779
The lady starts going off about how I stole
her table, was harassing her, and how started :24.779 --> :25.779 it.
:25.779 --> :30.279 Now, this poor police officer looks down at
me, casually sitting at my table, eating my :30.279 --> :35.710
salmon, and tells this ancient woman that I don't seem to be bothering anyone.
:35.710 --> :40.299 So the lady signals out the manager, hoping
that they will corroborate her story, and :40.299 --> :45.330
the manager explains in great detail that
this woman had come in and started harassing :45.330 --> :46.330 me.
:46.330 --> :50.160 She asks the woman and her son to leave, and
they both refuse because they paid for their :50.160 --> :55.080
food and said they had a right to sit at any table for as long as they wanted.
:55.080 --> :00.100 After refusing to leave, this hag of a woman
and her son were cuffed and escorted away. :00.100 --> :30.960
I made sure to move to her table as she left, just to rub the salt
:30.960 --> :44.710 in the wound. :44.710 --> :47.330
My daughter had her 9th birthday last week. :47.330 --> :51.010
Since she was very young she accompanied me in nearly everything I did.
:51.010 --> :56.020 As I like to cook and bake she also had already
plenty of experience with helping by making :56.020 --> :57.900
various dishes and cakes. :57.900 --> :02.929
For her last birthday however she wanted to go first time all solo.
:02.929 --> :07.390 Meaning I was to sit and wait in case she
had a question, but everything else was her. :07.390 --> :14.200
She was incredibly proud and so was I. From
picking the recipe, measuring, mixing etc. :14.200 --> :16.790
The only thing I did was pull it out of the oven. :16.790 --> :22.010
She then proceeded to make the frosting and
decorate the cake again all by herself. :22.010 --> :26.700
Needless to say everybody was very proud of
her and she was really looking forward to :26.700 --> :31.610
share her cake with the family and chip in with everyone about her process.
:31.610 --> :37.720
My mom is a baker also and she heavily complimented
my daughter, how wonderful the cake looked :37.720 --> :42.850
and tasted and soon all of us will be coming to daughter for advice.
:42.850 --> :44.620 Daughter was glooming with joy.
:44.620 --> :50.570 Everybody complimented daughter as the cake
was indeed delicious AND beautiful. :50.570 --> :55.730
that was apparently to much for my dad who started to get increasingly fuzzy.
:55.730 --> :01.240 First off he started his 'maybe you are trying
to poising us with this' jokes - and I sushed :01.240 --> :02.240 him.
:02.240 --> :06.930 Then when everybody asked daughter about how
she did it he got louder and louder interrupting :06.930 --> :11.559
her to tell us all that he is also capable
of making cake / his cakes will always taste :11.559 --> :15.100
better / it wasn't even a difficult cake etc. :15.100 --> :19.179
Everytime somebody else told him to be quiet as it was daughters moment.
:19.179 --> :25.470 So he waited to let the 'stupid cake talk'
pass and then started interrupting every conversation
:25.470 --> :28.700 that followed just to make it all about him
him him. :28.700 --> :33.840 When that failed he got louder and talked
with increased volume so he would be heart. :33.840 --> :38.409
He even kind of pounded when she opened her
presents as nobody asked what he thought of :38.409 --> :39.559
the presents. :39.559 --> :43.529
So yeah, dear people of Reddit, that is my dad. :43.529 --> :35.450
Trapped in the body of a 65year old man with the mind of a bratty 3 year old.
:35.450 --> :52.360 So :52.360 --> :59.810
Wednesday I(17f) was sick I had a fever and
just felt really bad so I was spending most :59.810 --> :04.310
of the day lying in bed but around noon I
moved to the living room couch cause it was :04.310 --> :09.460
getting really hot in my room and it was cool
in the living room, and some context our living :09.460 --> :14.370
room is filled with large windows that point
to the street and my neighbor's house. :14.370 --> :18.890
So I went to the couch and I still felt hot so I took off my shirt.
:18.890 --> :22.200 At that point I was only wearing short shorts
and my bra. :22.200 --> :26.960
So I was laying down for a few minutes when
there was a knock on the door and my mom went :26.960 --> :28.070
to go answer it. :28.070 --> :32.760
The living room is right next to the door
so it wasn’t hard to hear the conversation. :32.760 --> :37.510
So my mom opened the door and the neighbor
who we’ll call Karen was there and said: :37.510 --> :42.679
“Hi Suzan(my mom if you need clarification)how
are you doing I came over to tell you to tell :42.679 --> :44.679
your daughter to cover up.” :44.679 --> :50.451
My mom then reasonably said “excuse me” to which Karen replied “yes it’s kind
:50.451 --> :55.529 of disgusting what she’s doing exposing
herself like that.“ my mom now a bit less :55.529 --> :01.059
patient said, “oh I’m sorry I didn’t know that YOU could tell ME what to do with
:01.059 --> :03.919 MY kids in MY house.”
:03.919 --> :08.190 Karen then replied, “oh no that’s not
what I’m trying to do it’s just that my :08.190 --> :12.770
husband’s office is right across your windows
and it’s hard for him to concentrate on :12.770 --> :16.399
work when there’s a naked teen on the other side of his window.”
:16.399 --> :23.680 My mom just about as dumbfounded as I was
at this point told Karen “Ok three things, :23.680 --> :27.860
first my daughter’s not naked, and even
if she was it wouldn’t matter because she :27.860 --> :34.279
lives here and she can wear whatever she wants,
second what is your husband a 45-year-old :34.279 --> :41.029
man doing looking at my 17-year-old daughter
in her underwear, and third get off my property :41.029 --> :46.910
because we’re done here .” And with that,
my mom slammed the door in Karen’s face. :46.910 --> :51.159
We haven’t heard from them since then and
on Friday my mom bought curtains for the living :51.159 --> :52.530
room windows. :52.530 --> :40.409
So yeah that was my encounter with our neighbors. | give me a good story on rEntitledParentsMYPERVYNEIGHBORISSTALKINGMERedditStories |
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:00.250 --> :03.689 Posted by u/ForsakenWolverine444
:03.689 --> :07.140 8 hours ago :07.140 --> :12.720
AITA for demanding respect from my DIL and if she can’t then get the freak out
:12.720 --> :15.820 I’m a young MIL, I’m only 39.
:15.820 --> :19.720 Had my kids pretty young and I am very lucky
that my husband makes a lot of money so I :19.720 --> :20.840
don’t have to work. :20.840 --> :25.519
I was a SAHM for a long time and once they
started to spread their wings instead of going :25.519 --> :29.960
to work my husband and I decided I would be
a home maker and be active in the community. :29.960 --> :33.790
That’s what I have been up to and I try to make the community a better place.
:33.790 --> :39.590 Now my oldest son 22 married and I was really
excited until I met her. :39.590 --> :43.700
In general she is a very business focus person that is very blunt.
:43.700 --> :47.270 I actively dislike her but I try to be polite
for my sons sake. :47.270 --> :51.110
A few examples of why I don’t like her,
her wedding gift I handed over saying it was :51.110 --> :52.430
from me and my husband. :52.430 --> :56.829
She responded back with just your husband
since I know it wasn’t your money that paid :56.829 --> :57.949
for it. :57.949 --> :02.280 Saying I am volunteering well that’s not
a real job since it doesn’t make money. :02.280 --> :06.470
It’s passive aggressive and yes I have talked
to my son about it and even once’s with :06.470 --> :07.470
her to try to clear the air. :07.470 --> :08.470
We had a get together last night and i made a homemade meal.
:08.470 --> :11.720 When I was playing everything she came up
and made the comment other no wonder I could :11.720 --> :15.130
make a home cooked meal I don’t do anything else with my day.
:15.130 --> :19.900 I lost it and told her that she needs to respect
me or ge the freak out of my house. :19.900 --> :23.310
She was shocked and then started to cry when I did kick her out.
:23.310 --> :27.450 My son is ticked and we had a huge argument
and he called me a huge jerk. :27.450 --> :32.290
I need an outside opinion. :32.290 --> :43.979 Posted by
u/Adventurous-Boss5432 :43.979 --> :55.659 11 hours ago
:55.659 --> :11.690 AITA (26F) for reporting my neighbour (38F
+ 39M) son (11M) to the police for trespassing? :11.690 --> :14.670
I (26F) live in England. :14.670 --> :20.080
I own my home and understand I am fortunate, but I also worked hard for it.
:20.080 --> :24.740 Any money I received or earned while working
part-time till graduation went into my savings :24.740 --> :25.819
account. :25.819 --> :31.440
Most people on my street are social housing
tenants; I'm still determining what that is, :31.440 --> :35.790
but they've explained that you're eligible
for the scheme if you're on a low income. :35.790 --> :40.240
It's more secure than the private sector as
you mostly get assured tenancy's even though :40.240 --> :42.409
there are different tenancy types. :42.409 --> :47.190
For a while, I got on well with my next-door
neighbours "Emily" and "Ben" they also have :47.190 --> :55.580
three kids (13M, 9F, 4F), but soon I started
experiencing a lot of problems from next door. :55.580 --> :03.430
I work from home often, and I could hear shouting
next door constantly; Ben is 5"11, 145kg and :03.430 --> :08.629
quite loud and intimidating, and I could hear their kids screaming and crying.
:08.629 --> :13.640 I had to ask them to lower their voices daily,
and I even explained that I work from home. :13.640 --> :17.270
The next set of problems revolved around the 13-year-old son.
:17.270 --> :21.650 I spotted their son climbing over a wall to
get into my garden to get his football back :21.650 --> :23.360
which at first I ignored it. :23.360 --> :28.640
Then after it happened ten times, I finally
decided to speak with his parents, and I can't :28.640 --> :30.340
remember what I said entirely. :30.340 --> :35.510
Still, it was something like, "Hey, I just
wanted to have a word as I have seen your :35.510 --> :40.660
son, <insert name here>, trespass 11 times to get his ball from my garden.
:40.660 --> :45.290 I would appreciate it if you could get him
to stop as he is trespassing, and if he just :45.290 --> :49.590
came round to the front and knocked on my
front door and asked for his ball back I would :49.590 --> :51.310
happily collect it for him." :51.310 --> :55.610
The neighbours apologised and said they would
make sure their son doesn't do it and knock. :55.610 --> :59.060
A few days later, their son did it again while I was in my lounge.
:59.060 --> :02.280 I walked into my garden, which made him jump
and spoke with him. :02.280 --> :06.150
I told him I'd seen him trespass to collect his ball on various occasions.
:06.150 --> :11.140 I told him I had talked with his parents and
that trespassing is a crime, and I would appreciate
:11.140 --> :14.280 it if he could just come to the front and
knock in the future. :14.280 --> :17.580
He didn't say anything and just went back into his garden.
:17.580 --> :21.329 I informed his parents, and they apologised,
but it continued. :21.329 --> :25.259
I got fed up with it and decided to invest in CCTV finally.
:25.259 --> :30.430 I wrote a letter to residents on my road to
give them a week's notice that CCTV is being :30.430 --> :35.350
installed at my address, and it will cover
my entire garden and it will also cover my :35.350 --> :36.350
doorway. :36.350 --> :39.110
I also wrote that I'm getting a ring doorbell camera.
:39.110 --> :43.390 After installing CCTV, I thought it would
stop the kids from trespassing. :43.390 --> :44.390 It continued.
:44.390 --> :48.800 I saved the footage, filed a police report
against the son for trespassing, and sent :48.800 --> :50.610
all my evidence to the police. :50.610 --> :54.669
I knew there was a strong chance that nothing
was going to happen but I just wanted the :54.669 --> :57.200
son to have some responsibility. :57.200 --> :02.360
When my neighbours found out they were mad
AF with me and since then our relationship :02.360 --> :03.360 soured.
:03.360 --> :08.840 My siblings found out about this and think
I am a total Ahole for this. :08.840 --> :11.290 AITA?
:11.290 --> :18.620 Posted by u/notinthebudgetaita
:18.620 --> :25.960 10 hours ago :25.960 --> :32.440
AITA For telling my wife to work more if she
wants to help her sister financially :32.440 --> :40.800
My wife (38f) and I (37M) have been married
for 12 years and have 3 kids (10, 8, & 5). :40.800 --> :45.380
We both work full-time and have the kids in
daycare during the summer until school starts :45.380 --> :46.380
up again. :46.380 --> :51.310
We both make decent money, but with the cost
of literally everything going up more and :51.310 --> :53.940
more often, our budget is getting tighter. :53.940 --> :58.040
We still live comfortably within our means,
but we are saving much less and are being :58.040 --> :00.770
more conscious of our discretionary spending. :00.770 --> :04.500
Our youngest is starting kindergarten this
fall, so that will help because we aren't :04.500 --> :06.419
spending on daycare anymore. :06.419 --> :11.039
But our oldest kids are now in more sport
and extracurricular activities which pretty :11.039 --> :15.120
much offset any saving we would be doing on childcare.
:15.120 --> :19.789 We aren't anywhere near struggling, but we
are definitely more aware of how we spend :19.789 --> :21.030
our money now. :21.030 --> :26.800
My wife's younger sister, Jen (30F), is 6 months pregnant with her 3rd child.
:26.800 --> :30.160 Jen is not married and this is her 3rd different
baby daddy. :30.160 --> :35.240
Only one of the first 2 fathers is involved,
the other is a complete deadbeat who regularly :35.240 --> :37.440
skips child support payments. :37.440 --> :41.819
Jen recently called my wife and told her that
her current baby's dad left her and she's :41.819 --> :44.160
freaking out and asking for help. :44.160 --> :47.590
Whether that be money, a place to stay, anything. :47.590 --> :52.599
My wife's parents are both passed away and
they have no other siblings, just each other. :52.599 --> :56.280
So, obviously my wife wants to do whatever we can to help.
:56.280 --> :00.321 But, we don't have the space to house them
and don't have a lot of extra money to give :00.321 --> :01.360
them either. :01.360 --> :05.669
My wife wants to give Jen a few hundred dollars
every month and to start watching her 2 older :05.669 --> :08.310
kids so Jen can keep working. :08.310 --> :13.320
Personally, I think that idea is short-sighted
because Jen won't be able to work after the :13.320 --> :14.860
new baby comes. :14.860 --> :19.610
My idea was to dip into savings and pay for
a lawyer for Jen to do a better job of getting :19.610 --> :21.400
the child support she is owed. :21.400 --> :27.720
I would rather bite a bigger bullet once than
death by a thousand cuts over months and months. :27.720 --> :31.669
But my wife says that won't help put food on Jen's table every week.
:31.669 --> :36.530 I laid out our budget and asked my wife where
we can make cuts to support Jen, because I :36.530 --> :37.670
just don't see it. :37.670 --> :42.800
I asked her what she would be willing to give
up, or have our kids go without, to support :42.800 --> :43.800 Jen.
:43.800 --> :46.900 She got mad at me and called me heartless
for not wanting to help. :46.900 --> :51.520
It turned into a fight and I ended up telling
her that if she wants to support her sister :51.520 --> :57.729
like this, then she is going to need to work
more or get a 2nd job because I'm not compromising :57.729 --> :00.090
our family budget long-term. :00.090 --> :05.330
All of our finances are shared, so it's not
like either of us has our "own" money to use :05.330 --> :06.460
however we want. :06.460 --> :12.240
I also know that my wife and I are the only
family Jen has and I agree that we should :12.240 --> :13.240 help.
:13.240 --> :18.639 But adding hundreds or possibly more to our
monthly budget isn't going to work. :18.639 --> :23.000
Jen needs more help than we can provide and
she needs to find resources that can do that :23.000 --> :24.000
for her. :24.000 --> :31.310 But my wife thinks I am being an uncaring
AH about this. :31.310 --> :45.800 Posted by u/Famous-Throaway-922
:45.800 --> :00.290 6 hours ago :00.290 --> :07.910
AITA for not inviting my sister to my baby shower? :07.910 --> :11.350
My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for several years.
:11.350 --> :16.339 We had a really hard time conceiving, but
after a few years of trying we finally got :16.339 --> :17.339
pregnant. :17.339 --> :21.500
We told our family the news, and told them
the baby names we had picked: Violet for a :21.500 --> :23.440
girl, and Carson for a boy. :23.440 --> :27.410
We unfortunately lost the baby in the second trimester.
:27.410 --> :32.580 Then we experienced two more miscarriages
(both in the first trimester), and went through :32.580 --> :35.010
a couple more rounds of failed IVF. :35.010 --> :38.150
It was a very difficult and traumatic time for us. :38.150 --> :43.260
We visited my family over the 2022 winter
holidays, and my sister announced that she :43.260 --> :44.260
was pregnant. :44.260 --> :50.300
I was genuinely happy for her, until she told
us the names they’d chosen: Violet for a :50.300 --> :51.740
girl, Carson for a boy. :51.740 --> :57.899
I took her aside and told her that I was very
happy for her pregnancy, but hurt and confused :57.899 --> :02.820
that she would choose our baby names, especially
with everything we've been through. :02.820 --> :07.550
And she basically said, “don’t try to pull the miscarriage card on me, you can’t
:07.550 --> :09.380 call dibs on a name.”
:09.380 --> :13.670 I tried talking to her a couple more times
about it, but each time she’d say things :13.670 --> :18.890
like “you might never have kids, you can’t
just keep those names in reserve forever,” :18.890 --> :20.680
and was just so hurtful. :20.680 --> :25.250
I stopped bringing it up for the sake of keeping
the peace, and after a few months she told :25.250 --> :28.459
my parents she wasn’t going to use either of those names.
:28.459 --> :32.399 But wouldn’t tell anybody what name they
HAD chosen. :32.399 --> :38.790
Fast forward to a couple months ago, and she
gave birth to her baby girl: Violetta Karsyn. :38.790 --> :40.600
And I’m just so hurt. :40.600 --> :44.880
I found out in the early spring that I'm pregnant,
and I'm far enough along now that the doctors :44.880 --> :49.300
feel pretty good about everything, and we let our families know last month.
:49.300 --> :53.220 My mom and her friends have planned a baby
shower, but I told her I do not want my sister :53.220 --> :54.220
invited. :54.220 --> :58.329
My mom said I’m being an AH for not inviting
her over the baby name, but at this point :58.329 --> :00.590
it’s not even about the name to me anymore. :00.590 --> :05.810
It’s the malicious comments, the lack of compassion, and the overall pettiness.
:05.810 --> :10.350 So tell me, good people of Reddit: Am I the
jerk for not inviting my sister to my baby :10.350 --> :11.350 shower?
:11.350 --> :15.830 (For further context, prior to this my sister
and I were decent terms. :15.830 --> :20.339
She’s always been competitive and attention
seeking, and growing up she’d find ways :20.339 --> :26.811
to one-up me or make my special occasions,
like my birthday party or HS graduation, all :26.811 --> :27.959
about her. :27.959 --> :30.040 But NEVER to this extent.)
:30.040 --> :45.370 Posted by u/Euphoric-Glove-6889
:45.370 --> :00.690 15 hours ago :00.690 --> :09.399
AITA for yelling at my nephews until they cried and had to leave?
:09.399 --> :11.070 My son recently died.
:11.070 --> :14.170 I have not moved his stuff other than keeping
it clean. :14.170 --> :16.730
I usually leave the door to his room closed. :16.730 --> :23.360
I pick up and babysit my two nephews for around
an hour on weekdays, since their mom (my sister-in-law)
:23.360 --> :25.240 gets off work too late to pick them up.
:25.240 --> :27.810 They are 11 and 13. :27.810 --> :32.540
Usually they are well behaved and do their
own thing or even sometimes help me with chores. :32.540 --> :37.639
On Friday I was cooking a very pungent soup
so I aired the whole house out by opening :37.639 --> :39.470
all the windows and doors. :39.470 --> :44.949
I should have left my son's room closed in
hindsight, but I think I opened it out of :44.949 --> :45.949 habit.
:45.949 --> :49.529 When their mom went to pick up her kids, I
went to get them and saw them messing around :49.529 --> :51.060
with my son's guitar. :51.060 --> :54.779
The older one was messing with the string
screws while the younger one was plucking :54.779 --> :56.000
at the strings. :56.000 --> :00.610
I admittedly freaked out a lot and I raised
my voice at them, which I have never done. :00.610 --> :02.360
I said, "What are you doing? :02.360 --> :03.360 Drop that right now!
:03.360 --> :05.300 What are you even doing in his room?
:05.300 --> :06.300 Get out! :06.300 --> :08.100
Never come in this room again!" :08.100 --> :12.769
At that point they started crying, I pulled
the guitar away, and their mother came in. :12.769 --> :17.500
She tried to mediate the situation and console
them, but I told them all to get out of my :17.500 --> :19.250
house and they left. :19.250 --> :22.519
The guitar was thankfully okay and not scratched. :22.519 --> :27.120
Their mom called me later to talk and apologized
on their behalf, but told me that she thinks :27.120 --> :30.720
that we should all have a sit down and apologize to each other.
:30.720 --> :35.000 She told me that I really scared her boys,
and that although she thinks what I did was :35.000 --> :38.449
understandable, I overreacted in front of them. :38.449 --> :42.370
She told me that at the end of the day, they
didn't really do anything harmful and that :42.370 --> :44.820
they deserve an apology from me too. :44.820 --> :49.579
I told her I do think that I overreacted but
that I wasn't sorry because they could've :49.579 --> :51.350
broke my son's guitar. :51.350 --> :56.020
She told me that it's extremely cruel to ever
raise your voice at children and that I should :56.020 --> :57.450
be the bigger person. :57.450 --> :04.140
Was I the jerk for doing that? :04.140 --> :20.700 Posted by
u/Human-Vermicelli5535 :20.700 --> :42.779 12 hours ago Platinum
:42.779 --> :53.310 Faith In Humanity Restored Dread
:53.310 --> :00.130 AITA for taking my daughter to the hairdresser's
to have her hair cut against my wife's wishes? :00.130 --> :03.770
I (45m) have a daughter "Lily" (14f). :03.770 --> :10.589
Me and my wife "Marie" (43f) have been separated
for over 5 years now and have split custody :10.589 --> :13.730
over Lily, however she prefers to stay with me. :13.730 --> :18.870
I'm not sure if it is cultural, but my wife
and her family have always insisted on Lily :18.870 --> :23.640
to let her hair to grow as they believe the
longer your hair are, the more feminine you :23.640 --> :27.360
are and they always took pride in how long their own hair are.
:27.360 --> :30.120 Lily followed as she didn't want to cause a scene.
:30.120 --> :32.639 Lily's hair were going past her thighs.
:32.639 --> :37.279 Lily was staying with me last weekend and
when I was about to go to bed I saw her crying :37.279 --> :38.449
while brushing her hair. :38.449 --> :42.980
I have asked what is wrong and it felt as if Lily was having a breakdown.
:42.980 --> :47.350 She started to cry harder and told me how
much she hates her hair, that it takes her :47.350 --> :51.880
hours each day to brush through them due to
how thick they are and how hot and tired it :51.880 --> :55.470
makes her feel, I'm not even mentioning styling them.
:55.470 --> :59.279 She also told me how she wants to dye them,
but Marie would not let her do this as it :59.279 --> :02.759
would ruin her hair and is a "bad taste". :02.759 --> :05.829
I have hugged her and told her not to worry and I will think of something.
:05.829 --> :10.300 I have called my sister and explained the
situation to her, she organised an appointment :10.300 --> :15.620
for next day with her hair stylist to look
at Lily's hair and do something with it. :15.620 --> :20.399
So the next day I took Lily to the hair saloon,
where she had her hair cut (she chose a long :20.399 --> :25.519
bob?) so her hair are now just about reaching
her shoulders with the rest of the hair donated. :25.519 --> :29.320
She also had some highlights done which made Lily super happy.
:29.320 --> :34.230 When Lily got home Marie called me immediately
and said I am an jerk and what have I done :34.230 --> :35.509
to our daughter. :35.509 --> :40.889
She and her whole family started berating
me for it and making horrible comments about :40.889 --> :44.459
Lily, so she ended up coming back to me and is staying with me.
:44.459 --> :49.079 Marie took it to social media saying I am
a horrible father that "have stripped my daughter :49.079 --> :51.440
out of her womanhood and femininity". :51.440 --> :55.589
Even my parents called me about it and said
I shouldn't have taken Lily to the hairdresser :55.589 --> :00.839
without discussing it first with Marie. :00.839 --> :11.459 Posted by
u/Disastrous_Plastic10 :11.459 --> :18.829 12 hours ago
:18.829 --> :25.929 AITA for telling my boyfriend that he and
his son are overreacting? :25.929 --> :33.070
I (36F) have been with my boyfriend “David”
(44M) for 2 years and we recently decided :33.070 --> :37.590
to take the next step and have me move in with him and his son “Ben” (13M).
:37.590 --> :40.799 I’ve only been moved in for about 3 weeks now.
:40.799 --> :44.100 This is the first real friction I’ve had
with either of them. :44.100 --> :52.160
The issue is that Ben has a very sweet, shy
dog, Zoro (~75lb GSD mix) and I have 2 cats :52.160 --> :57.059
(a youngish friendly orange named Ump and my old lady calico, Daisy).
:57.059 --> :03.919 Ump has decided he loves the dog and would
like to be his BFF immediately and unfortunately, :03.919 --> :07.580
it turns out poor Zoro is terrified of the cats. :07.580 --> :12.070
We did do slow introductions at first but
we took Zoro’s avoidance of the initial :12.070 --> :17.940
cat room/doors/gates as disinterest so we
thought it would be fine to let them mingle :17.940 --> :20.780
and then we saw what was really happening. :20.780 --> :23.890
Daisy seems pleased with Zoro’s fear of her, to be honest..
:23.890 --> :28.740 she doesn’t go out of her way to bother
him; she’s 16 & uninterested but she certainly :28.740 --> :31.020
liked how fast he would get out of her way. :31.020 --> :33.049
You can see it in her lil sashay. :33.049 --> :34.870
But she ignores him otherwise. :34.870 --> :40.140
Sweet Ump tried to approach him twice with
happy tail and head bumps and Zoro booked :40.140 --> :42.429
it out of the room in terror. :42.429 --> :46.570
We scaled back the introductions again and
set up a tall gate on the landing to keep :46.570 --> :49.300
them all separated on different floors for now. :49.300 --> :51.900
In my mind, there’s no problems here. :51.900 --> :58.409
Zoro is afraid, yes but neither Ump nor Daisy
is being aggressive or antagonistic towards :58.409 --> :59.409 him.
:59.409 --> :02.940 We just need to go more slowly and give him
time to adjust to an entirely new type of :02.940 --> :04.620
creature and he’ll be okay. :04.620 --> :09.740
In fact, I’m positive once he realizes Ump
is soft, warm & safe, he’ll want to cuddle :09.740 --> :10.740
too. :10.740 --> :14.880
But everything will be fine soon; no one needs to be punished or corrected here.
:14.880 --> :16.179 No one did anything wrong.
:16.179 --> :18.620 It’s a just matter of patience
:18.620 --> :23.809 Ben is upset that Zoro is upset and David
is upset that Ben is upset. :23.809 --> :27.780
They’ve worked each other up into a tizzy about how “this isn’t working!!”
:27.780 --> :30.620 and finding a “solution” right now.
:30.620 --> :35.960 Their “solutions” have included: keeping
Ump & Daisy locked in one room permanently :35.960 --> :40.870
so Zoro can’t see them through the gate, “training” the cats to not go near/look
:40.870 --> :45.070 at the dog via spraying/loud noises & rehoming
Ump. :45.070 --> :49.350 Obviously none of these are acceptable to
me and I have refused all of them, saying :49.350 --> :52.390
I’d rather move back out than punish my cats for existing.
:52.390 --> :56.280 I’m definitely not giving away my cat for
being too friendly. :56.280 --> :00.809
David got really upset when I said I’d move
out and said it would be choosing my cats :00.809 --> :04.679
over him & his son which would be the end of our relationship.
:04.679 --> :10.470 which I don’t want but I’m not going to
appease such an over the top reaction & I’m :10.470 --> :12.380
disappointed in how he’s handling this. :12.380 --> :13.380
Am I the jerk? :13.380 --> :14.690 Am I crazy?
:14.690 --> :20.110 I feel like it’s an extreme, ridiculous
overreaction (from David; I expect the black :20.110 --> :25.270
& white thinking from Ben) to such a mild
situation that I think will resolve itself :25.270 --> :30.620
very shortly but everyone I talk to in my
life is like “well that’s his kids feelings, :30.620 --> :32.070
what do you expect?” :32.070 --> :52.310
And I feel like I’m losing my mind here. :52.310 --> :11.500 Posted by
u/Soft_Confection_4582 :11.500 --> :13.590 9 hours ago
:13.590 --> :18.890 AITA for telling my SIL to choose my niece
as a bridesmaid instead of my daughter? :18.890 --> :24.290
My brother and soon to be SIL are getting
married soon and since my SIL and I are very :24.290 --> :27.270
good friends she chose me as her MOH. :27.270 --> :32.750
My SIL wants to have 7 bridesmaids and she
chose 6 people that are close to her but couldn't :32.750 --> :36.720
find the 7th one so she asked for ny opinion oh who it should be.
:36.720 --> :43.030 She was considering my daughter(17) and niece(16)
since my brother is close to both girls and :43.030 --> :46.409
loves them very much so she wanted to include one of them.
:46.409 --> :51.050 I suggested she should ask my niece for several
reasons such as: :51.050 --> :55.380
My niece is younger and always wanted to be
a bridesmaid and never had the chance :55.380 --> :00.370
My daughter is not the girly type and wouldn't
really enjoy it while my niece is extremely :00.370 --> :02.289
girly and loves these things :02.289 --> :07.430
My niece is extremely beautiful(the supermodel
kind of beauty) and would look good in the :07.430 --> :08.430 photos
:08.430 --> :13.140 My daughter however called me an jerk when
she found out and now she is refusing to attend :13.140 --> :14.140
the wedding :14.140 --> :26.360 Posted by u/Mobile-Loquat9371
:26.360 --> :39.190 9 hours ago :39.190 --> :51.110
WIBTA If I Told My Landlord About My Roommate's Husband?
:51.110 --> :55.510 I (18F) just started my freshman year of college
last week. :55.510 --> :00.440
At my university, it is not mandatory that
you live on campus the first year, and I did :00.440 --> :03.770
not want to live in a dorm, so my parents helped me apartment hunt.
:03.770 --> :07.580 They mostly just gave me tips or helped when
asked because they wanted me to pick what :07.580 --> :11.600
I thought would be best for me, since I'm
ultimately going to be the one paying for :11.600 --> :12.600
the rent. :12.600 --> :17.640
I chose a place very close to campus (5-15
minute walk depending on which building you're :17.640 --> :21.910
heading to) and with great amenities in relation to my rent payment.
:21.910 --> :27.409 It's not campus-owned, but it is exclusively
marketed to students and has a questionnaire :27.409 --> :32.000
on the application for the purpose of placing
you with your roommates that asks about your :32.000 --> :35.190
major, greek affiliation, clubs, etc. :35.190 --> :40.300
Anyway, I applied, got accepted, and got a
letter two weeks prior to move-in with my :40.300 --> :45.669
apartment number, bedroom number, and the
name/phone # of my new roomies for a 3-bed :45.669 --> :46.669 unit.
:46.669 --> :49.160 We made a group chat and started to get to
know each other. :49.160 --> :56.370
Layla (19F) is a sophomore, and Mina (23F) is a college super senior.
:56.370 --> :00.870 I found out what they study, what they like,
what they hate, what they're allergic to, :00.870 --> :03.070
their ground rules, etc. :03.070 --> :04.409 Everything seemed great.
:04.409 --> :07.450 Then the day I move in I learn Mina is married.
:07.450 --> :12.930 Her husband Kurt (25M) is nice, but he didn't
leave. :12.930 --> :17.760 After a couple days I come to learn that he
lives in the apartment with Mina. :17.760 --> :21.440
Definitely not what I was expecting and not what I signed up for.
:21.440 --> :26.640 The apartment complex does not do co-ed living
unless you and another person apply together :26.640 --> :28.010
for a 2-bed unit. :28.010 --> :33.580
I ended up asking Mina offhandedly where Kurt
stays just to confirm, and she said he lives :33.580 --> :35.000
with her in her room. :35.000 --> :39.390
She asked me in a joking tone if I'd be "hush
hush" about it because the leasing office :39.390 --> :44.140
doesn't know and this is the cheapest option
for them with all the amenities they want :44.140 --> :48.570
until they get a house together, which they're
planning to purchase/finance in the spring :48.570 --> :50.900
when they're sure Mina is going to graduate. :50.900 --> :56.100
They're also apparently trying (or will start
trying) for a baby because they're ready for :56.100 --> :57.100
a family. :57.100 --> :00.390
I'm upset and uncomfortable and I don't know what to do.
:00.390 --> :04.799 I want to report Mina to the leasing office
and get her removed, but I'm worried that :04.799 --> :09.159
even thought they're the ones breaking the
rules that I might just be overreacting. :09.159 --> :13.820
I really don't like living with a grown man
I don't know when I signed up to live with :13.820 --> :16.809
other girls, primarily in my age group. :16.809 --> :20.820
I was excited to move in with people that
I wouldn't feel weird walking around in a :20.820 --> :25.559
sports bra and gym shorts, and being able
to go to the fridge in the middle of the night :25.559 --> :31.120
for a snack in my underwear, and not having
to lock the door every time I go in or leave :31.120 --> :34.779
my room, but I don't feel like I can do that with Kurt here.
:34.779 --> :38.950 I've already caught him looking me up and
down and I really don't want it to go past :38.950 --> :41.779
that and there be drama on top of all of this. :41.779 --> :02.419
Would I be the jerk if I just report the situation
:02.419 --> :04.390 to my landlord? :04.390 --> :09.750
Posted by u/Soft-Comfortable-174 :09.750 --> :22.140 16 hours ago
:22.140 --> :31.080 AITA for telling my sister she knew what she
was getting into when she married her husband :31.080 --> :34.170
and can't be ticked at his kids and in-law's now? :34.170 --> :40.920
My sister Alicia (40f) married her husband John (48m) 11 years ago now.
:40.920 --> :45.830 John was a widower with a son who is now 21
and a daughter who is now 19. :45.830 --> :50.440
John's late wife's family was still a strong
presence in the lives of their grandchildren :50.440 --> :55.550
when Alicia met John and it was discussed,
and made clear, that John's son and daughter :55.550 --> :00.730
with his wife were their grandchildren and
any future children from John and Alicia would :00.730 --> :07.440
not be regarded as such and would not be entitled
to anything from them, the former in-law's. :07.440 --> :11.590
John's children also shared their perspective
that they would not consider any half siblings :11.590 --> :16.600
the same as they considered their full sibling
and they wouldn't try to share traditions :16.600 --> :19.500
from their maternal family with any half siblings. :19.500 --> :25.700
I remember my parents and brother (42m) raising
concerns with Alicia about her decision to :25.700 --> :28.630
marry into the family with that information. :28.630 --> :32.970
She has always held the view that things change
and also that families can never have too :32.970 --> :36.390
many people, especially if she's involved. :36.390 --> :40.510
Nobody can be liked by everyone but Alicia
has always held the belief that people should :40.510 --> :41.630
want her around. :41.630 --> :46.370
We all told her at the time that we hoped
she was aware of what she was signing up for :46.370 --> :47.539
and she dismissed us. :47.539 --> :52.679
Now Alicia has three children with John and those kids are now 10, 9 and 7.
:52.679 --> :57.620 True to their word, John's in-law's from his
first marriage do not consider my nieces and :57.620 --> :02.279
nephew as grandkids and they are not included in their family functions.
:02.279 --> :06.620 And John's older children have next to no
relationship with their half siblings. :06.620 --> :12.130
I'm not entirely sure on all the details on this but my sister is not happy.
:12.130 --> :16.250 Alicia's complaints are that her kids are
excluded and have never been welcome by John's :16.250 --> :17.500
in-law's. :17.500 --> :21.799
That her stepkids have never changed their
stance since that conversation and do not :21.799 --> :24.200
treat my nieces and nephew as siblings. :24.200 --> :29.669
That things she considers small, like being
included in some kind of book, are denied :29.669 --> :31.019
to her children. :31.019 --> :36.200
It has hurt the children to see their older
siblings enjoy this very close family dynamic :36.200 --> :37.850
and not be a part of it. :37.850 --> :40.200
Alicia is enraged by this. :40.200 --> :45.020
She ranted and raved about it and there are things I could not keep up with.
:45.020 --> :50.730 But everything she was warned about by our
parents, brother and me are now very big issues :50.730 --> :52.049
for her. :52.049 --> :53.820 This is where I might be TA.
:53.820 --> :58.690 I brought up to Alicia that she knew what
she was getting into when she married John :58.690 --> :03.680
and that she had been warned by all of our
family to reflect and see if it was what she :03.680 --> :04.680
wanted. :04.680 --> :08.929
I told her she doesn't get to be mad now when
everyone laid their intentions out early. :08.929 --> :11.830
I said she can be disappointed things didn't change.
:11.830 --> :17.769 But ultimately she made choices and every
choice has a consequence, be it a good or :17.769 --> :18.779 bad one.
:18.779 --> :23.360 She accused me of holding her accountable
for the crapy behavior of others and said :23.360 --> :29.350
nobody would assume people could be so cold
hearted or that kids could hold such strong :29.350 --> :31.789
views from such a young age. :31.789 --> :34.420
She said I was being cruelly unfair to her. :34.420 --> :35.420 AITA?
:35.420 --> :36.420 Posted by u/ChoiceDisastrous4432
:36.420 --> :37.420 1 day ago Tearing Up :37.420 --> :38.420
AITA for telling my wife off after getting
our daughter to cut her hair off, even after :38.420 --> :39.420
being told not to? :39.420 --> :40.420 Not the A-hole
My wife is currently battling cancer, and :40.420 --> :41.420
one of the things she’s told me she’s
struggling with the most was losing her hair. :41.420 --> :42.420
She’s been given a near 100% chance of survival
since we caught it early, but the chemotherapy :42.420 --> :43.420
has destroyed her hair anyway, and she had
to shave what was left of it off a few weeks :43.420 --> :44.420 ago.
:44.420 --> :45.420 Not long after that, she suggested we attempt
to get our 17 year old daughter, Anna, to :45.420 --> :46.420
do so as well. :46.420 --> :47.660
Anna has very long hair that she puts a lot
of care into so I felt it was appropriate :47.660 --> :50.770
to ask her in private if she wanted to/would be willing to do such a thing.
:50.770 --> :51.770 She told me that she didn’t want to cut
her hair and I figured that was the end of :51.770 --> :52.770 that.
:52.770 --> :54.480 However yesterday they came home from a “girls
shopping trip”, something they do every :54.480 --> :56.440
so often, and Anna had a buzzed haircut. :56.440 --> :58.049
That struck me as odd after what she’d said,
so after dinner I talked to her and she told :58.049 --> :59.049
me that my wife had said she would never forgive
Anna if she didn’t show her support by buzzing :59.049 --> :00.049
her head. :00.049 --> :01.330
I asked her if she was happy about it and she said that she wasn’t.
:01.330 --> :03.780 When I went to bed, I brought it up with my
wife and she said “it was Anna’s choice :03.780 --> :05.539
to or not, I just told her how I’d see the situation.”
:05.539 --> :07.263 I told her off, saying she needed to respect
Anna’s personal choices and that a 17 year :07.263 --> :09.809
old girl being against shaving her head wasn’t
exactly out of the ordinary, however my wife :09.809 --> :11.610
simply said it was to show support for her. :11.610 --> :12.730
I’ve been sleeping on the couch since. :12.730 --> :13.870
I love my wife, and I understand that she’s
going through something traumatic, however :13.870 --> :15.140
her attitude comes off as very manipulative
to me, and that’s not behavior I feel I :15.140 --> :16.140
can personally accept. :16.140 --> :18.409
I’m not sure if I can move past this to continue the relationship.
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what is a conspiracy theory you believe 100% Pablo Escobar worked with the CIA
they were involved in the illegal substances trade this is confirmed by
his son the reasons for working together was the fight against communism in
Central America they were working together in sales and importing snow to
the states the cia's role was exposed in 1996 in an investigative series dark
Alliance by Gary Webb for the San Jose Mercury News the investigation headed up
by Webb revealed ties between the CIA Nicaragua contras and the substances
ravaging african-amer American communities this investigation severely
damaged the intelligence agency's reputation and launched a number of
federal investigations things didn't end well for web major media led by the New
York Times Washington Post and Los Angeles Times worked to discredit his
story and he lost his work and died in 2004 friending himself officials would
later come forward to back web's original investigation up Senator John
KY even released a detailed report claiming Not only was there considerable
evidence linking the Contra effort to trafficking of substances and weapons
but that the US government knew about it story two the mattress Mafia how often
do you have to buy mattresses maybe every 5 to 7 years but how come there
are so many mattress stores sit and sleep mattress firm Banner Mattress and
so many more of these stores compete with each other that's fair enough but
how can they have so many stores and stay in business San Marcos within 10
miles of each other they're 12 mattress Only Stores That's not including stores
that also sell Furniture still don't believe me well you should even m
mattress firm's top two Executives and chairman resigned after postponing their
financial accounts in 2017 due to some accounting failures well now that you're
obviously on my side otherwise you're just supporting literal crime now I can
share with you who is running the mattress Mafia the mafia they're still
very much an active organization they started up in Ran Las Vegas and still do
today so they have to launder their money somewhere as a legitimate business
they knew that they had to diversify their money laundering unless they get
found out so they looked at mattresses people buy them people need them so why
not but they slipped up and I among others am on to them each store would
need to bring in a considerable amount of money to stay in business according
to a source mattress firm's 4K to 6K square footage at $430 to $650 brings
the lowball amount to $1.72 million per store no rent involved add in the rent
which the lease says will increase every 5 years this can reach $3 million but
this to how much a mattress costs and you see that to break even they would
have to sell roughly 2,660 mattresses per store but this against how many
mattress firms alone there are in the United States according to Mattress Firm
themselves they own 3,500 stores that equals 9, 38,000 mattresses needed to be
sold to pay off their stores that doesn't include rent employees or the
fact that this would require them to have a consistent flow of sales or the
mafia could lend a helping hand all I'm saying is that none of this adds up to a
successful business Mattress Firm the most successful one in addition to
dozens of companies like them they're all money launderers how often do you
buy a new car once every 10 years and not everyone needs a car everyone needs
a mattress damn did this guy just crack the code Story three that the complete
lack of proper political discussion nowadays and extreme polarization is
done on purpose to keep the people fighting each other instead of actually
moving forward and realizing that we're losing more freedom every day that
passes put another way no Chomsky put forward the idea of manufactured consent
or propaganda Theory the idea is that you have a very narrow scope of
allowable political positions but encourage vigorous debate without narrow
scope this way everyone gets an opinion that they can shout from the hilltops
but regardless of who wins the debate very little changes you can see it plain
as day in the media not in what they say
but what they don't say a recent example that comes to mind is the debate about
policy to curtail school shootings there's so much psychology and sociology
to unpack in what inspires these events yet somehow the AR-15 specifically
became a topic of debate I get that's the gun that Cruz used but he literally
could have used just about anything that's not even a consistent threat in
other school incident but you can debate about this scary
looking military style gun even proposed to ban it and essentially nothing
changes the same goes for the mental health line it's just scapegoating thec
comfortable conversations about American
culture don't have to happen because you
have a symbol that you can divide people on Pro AR15 or anti- AR-15 proun
anti-gun pro-choice pro-life Democrat Republican etc etc narrow scope of IDE
is debated vigorously these ultimately cosmetic binaries are the basis by which
the majority of the populists contend to be governed by the current system it
convinces people they have a say in their governance oh another example
Facebook we're all mad at Facebook for selling our data and maybe even Twitter
at Al will be dragged into it all these debates about privacy in Congress
thinking about regulating social media but I haven't seen much conversation in
the mainstream media regarding the NSA spying that's been known about for the
better part of a decade it's not cool and Facebook sells our data to whoever
but warrantless spying on all our Communications is acceptable because
terrorists in short Americans by and large of brutally unnuanced politics to
an extent we're proud of it and I don't think it's an accident the lack of
nuance and raging debate between two false dichotomies keeps the power
structure more or less stable story four what the authorities say Mick Jagger is
simply an iconic rock and roll star and nothing more Theory from U Ramsey's the
pigeon the song Tik Tok as performed by Kesha was written by a guy named Benny
Blanco its lyrics include the line we kick them to the curb unless they look
like MC Jagger that's a little bit strange right MC Jagger wasn't exactly
at the height of his attractiveness when the piece in question came out stranger
still it wasn't the only popular song to paint the man in a pleasant light moves
like Jagger performed by Maroon 5 was released at around the same time and
Benny Blanco also had a hand in writing that one this is where things start to
get creepy the song The Time Dirty Bit as performed by the blackeyed piece
features the following phrase all these girls they like my Swagger they call me
MC Jagger I'd be rolling like a stone it was written by John de Nia who used to
produce the music music for a band called Cara flowers although you might
know them better by the current name of Maroon 5 the song Heart and Soul as
performed by the Jonas Brothers contains a verse that ends with making mistakes
but that won't matter if you can Swag Like Old MC Jagger antonina armato wrote
the piece and she's managed by downtown music publishing care to guess who else
they manage here's a Hint it rhymes with balloon Hive this web of connections
extends all throughout the recording industry but one thing remains unclear
what's the link back to MC Jagger himself there must be something because
if if you have a look at Google Trends you'll see that his popularity spiked
with a release of each song the only time in recent memory when it has been
higher is during a period in March of 2014 when his girlfriend died some
people have suggested that the man's name is just as easy to rhyme with
swagger but popular usage of the word in reference to something other than a
walking gate came about after the aformentioned songs that hit the
airwaves in other words Jagger prompted Swagger not the other way around why
does there seem to be a cabal of artists trying to artificially inflate the
performers appeal in popular ity what benefit is there in promoting an aging
rockar who is actually behind this odd Trend in order to answer those questions
we need to turn to the vendi this is a company which owns a lot of stuff their
subsidiaries include Daily Motion Ubisoft Game Loft and the Universal
Music Group the Rolling Stone signed to Universal Music in 2008 in 2010 all of
the songs listed above were released look at those Google Trends again 2008
marked MC Jagger's lowest ever dip in popularity and the slump continued until
February of 2010 right after Tik Tok became the most popular song in the
radio in September of that same year the Rolling Stones re-released their rare
concert movie securing the number one spot in four different countries charts
the US and the UK being two of them second place and four more in a double
Platinum certification in Canada strangely enough though the only other
place besides the United States where Plum status was achieved was in France
which is where vend is located what if all this was carefully planned and
executed what if there's a shadowy organization that's intent on promoting
MC for their own profit what if I made all of this up on a whim and just found
whatever tenuous evidence I could to support it this is great I imagine your
office is full of red string connecting pictures and news articles of all the
aformentioned people attacked onto the wall Story five Yu sui Kenshin a
Japanese Dao warlord and one of the most powerful and cunning generals of his
time so much so that he was considered an avatar of the God of War was actually
a woman let's look at some evidence that supports this number one kenchin had
stomach cramps on a monthly basis around the 10th of the month he actually
scheduled his military campaigns around this number two kenshin's cause of death
is recorded as a form of uterine cancer by a doctor who made virtually no
mistakes in the rest of the book that it's written in three when the U Sugi
were forced to relocate they repeatedly took kenshin's remains with him and
refused to tell even the Shogun where he was interred this rules out DNA testing
for kenshin's personal tastes and appearance were consistently described
in feminine terms which given the extreme subtleties of Japanese is
actually a bigger deal than it might seem five Kenshin was the only man
allowed with a Shogun to wander among his harm six Kenshin never married and
never had children although he did adopt
seven he was described as beautiful with a very pale face and small features now
the source of this theory is a pretty crazy historian forgot his name but I
believe it and it's pretty interesting to think about it's a good thing people
were blocked from doing DNA testing back then now it's a free-for-all enjoying
these conspiracy theories how about hitting the like button and subscribing
to my channel no theories here just facts like the fact that this is the
best YouTube channel anyway story six Facebook is
collecting microphone data to advertise to us it's a theory I've seen people
mention several times and it always just brushed it off I work in the tech
industry and I've learned most people aren't even all that aware of what
they're doing on their own computers I always assumed the suspicious
advertising was coming from search history ER cookies embedded in people's
devices I was over at a friend's house and it mentioned my throat was sore and
I be coming down with something she had just been given a large box of emergency
vitamin juice powder packets we had a lengthy conversation about the packets
and how she got them but until that moment it was a product I had never seen
or heard of before my phone was definitely on and in my hands during the
conversation I was sending information of where to meet up with someone for the
next day that conversation was over messenger I definitely didn't do any
additional Research into the emergency packets by the time I got home that
night and for roughly 3 days afterwards emergency packets were heavily
advertised to me over Facebook B I haven't really seen them since but they
were certainly prevalent for a short period of time immediately after the
verbal conversation I tried this and damn it's true there was a time I did an
experiment about dog treats we talked about it for a good 10 minutes with my
buddies after a few hours all dog treats
on my feed actually creeped me out a bit story seven the promoter of the local
ComiCon is trying to get rid of the loyal guests or cosplayers by selling
fewer and fewer three-day passes this Con is held three times a year in April
August and December it's the weekend in fact they max out
the building fire code capacity every time but the promoter has a great deal
with a Convention Center including exclusive rights to Comic-Con held there
so he won't move it to the big Center downtown because they can't get any more
people in the door he's been trying to make more money by screwing with the
tickets and with the vendors first he eliminated the second badge from vendor
table purchases if you have a helper they have to buy a second vendor pass it
costs more than a 3-day guest pass so a lot of vendors buy their assistance the
3-day although they can't get in trouble for that and the helper can't go to set
up on Thursday next he did away with reduced price passes for the big groups
like The 500 first which is the largest star wars club in the world and used to
volunteer to help run the con the left after we tried to get them to sign an
agreement that they wouldn't go to any other cons which as a 501c3 charity they
aren't allowed to do now I think he's trying to maximize ticket sales by
cutting three-day passes they sell out earlier every con so only single day
passes are available instead of $38 3 day you have to buy three $19 one day
passes or not go all three days what he wants is for people people to buy a
one-day pass come in for 3 hours spend their money then leave it doesn't make
as much money office bums that go for the whole weekend and since I was thrown
out in December I won't be giving him any money this time I don't have any
real proof this is what's happening but it seems very likely and he kind of
showed his hand while kicking me out story8 that potato crisp bags aren't 60%
air to protect them during shipping the manufacturers are lowering the quantity
of the product so they can still compete on price not just with crisps sorry
British can't bring myself to call them chips
but with all packaged Foods they used to be a news agent you would sometimes see
the effect of a batch of stock coming in where you would have to wait until the
Shelf was completely empty before restocking or it is blatantly obvious
that there are different sizes companies tend to mask it by having an interim
offer where it is say 10% extra free for
a couple of months and when the offer is
over the new stock is 5% smaller than it was before it is only really noticeable
in slower moving lines where you didn't receive the interim offer stock since
brexit in the UK and the loss of value of sterling directly afterwards almost
all confectionary products have reduced in size to keep the price around the
same point for example standard bottle of milkshake like yazu used to be 500 mL
now it tends to be 400 or 420 ml in general most of the packaged Foods we
buying are now providing around 20% less product than two years ago for the same
price damn it corporations now I got to make sure I get the correct amount of
Cinnamon Toast Crunch each time I buy story nine that the tobacco industry has
driven The Vape bands AKA flavor bands across the country by promising more
money money to States there's the misconception that big Vape is the same
as big tobacco and a lot of that has to do with juel who was owned by Altria
juel didn't even start out as Altria but they eventually bought it when juwel
wasn't owned by Altria they had more tame ads while they were the choice of
teens they weren't explicitly targeted once alria bought Jewel some funky stuff
went down Jewel ads began having more colorful and cartoonish ads or what most
people would classify as ads appealing to children every tobacco company has to
do anti-smoking initiatives by law and when Altria bought Jewel they were
report of reps doing those anti-smoking talks to teens than advertising Jewel
when teachers looked away the truth is owned by the tobacco companies anyone
noticed the difference between their old
smoking ads and current vaping ads their old smoking ads were obnoxious AF which
is actually a tactic they've used for a while by making their anti-smoking PSA
obnoxious fewer people would take them serious causing less of a dent in their
cigarette sales notice how most of the truth's anti Vape ads aren't obnoxious
best part is long after Altria bought juel juel was in a California court and
their attorney literally said your honor can't you see that this is all a tactic
by big tobacco to stop vaping to get their customers back juwel is Big
tobacco I can't help but feel they did that to make those of us seeing theit
sound crazy in reality many adult Vapors actually use or used since many states
have made it so only pods are sellable refillable tanks instead of PODS most
Vapes you find in gas stations and pods found around are owned by tobacco
companies and there's a massive quality difference using a gas station Vape or a
pod feels no different to me than smoking and I got respiratory infections
like I did when smoking with with them on the other hand most refillable
liquids were made by small businesses and many of those have zero interaction
with tobacco a lot of those get their nicotine from tomatoes and tea not
tobacco so big tobacco saw Zero from small Vape businesses there's also a
huge quality difference that I can feel my lungs healing from my years of
smoking with a small business refillable
eju while the tobacco owned pods make me
feel like I'm reopening smoke wounds the thing about the flavor B is a lot of us
actually don't really care about flavors like yeah my coffee or cheesecake is a
nice bonus but what I care more about is being able to breathe only the
refillables do that for me however if there's no flavors how can a business
stay around I mean all they'd sell is tobacco flavor and that's not enough to
keep a small business open that's what's so ironic about the flavor bands
everyone says it's to hurt big tobacco but in reality it's just giving them a
monopoly again only big tobacco can afford to only sell tobacco flavored
products the small businesses we should be helping fight big tobacco have been
closing down because they can't compete with big tobacco anymore thanks to these
laws then a lot of areas that band flavors are seeing te smoke traditional
cigarettes again real smoking amongst teens was non-existent many people point
to the teen smoking rate going up around 2017 well the reason it appears to have
gone up is because her smoking and vaping statistics were rolled into one
in reality the same amount of teens have used nicotine products for a while now
they just stopped smoking but now the vaping is going away because a flavor
band has effectively ban vaping they're smoking again it astounds me that the
UK's pushing Vape as a harm reduction alternative to smoking based on their
own government funded studies yet our us FDA and CDC are trusting tobacco funded
studies that say vaping is equal or more harmful than smoking then what do the
states get from this more money vaping hadn't Fallen under the traditional
tobacco taxes and they didn't give money for the master settlement agreement or
MSA what the MSA did was give States a certain amount of money for each pack of
cigarettes sold 50 cents per pack was the highest some states got and if you
look at the timelines the states that got that much were the first to enact
flavor bands while states that got less dragged their feet which this all sucks
because I try to tell anyone anything positive about vape flavors you think
all I care about is a quick Buzz no what I care about is having a safer
alternative to improve my health smoking did a number on me but I've actually
gotten healthier after starting vaping and thanks to refillable tanks I've been
able to titrate my nicotine to know where I've got 0.5 milligram of nicotine
per ML and we'll be able to stop all together in a month that's not something
you can do with traditional cigarettes or pots then people will tell me
propaganda that is easily verifiable fals from evidence-based studies or my
own experience I mean I've actually told
doctor that with the flavor bands if all I can get are pods a part of me feels
like smoking again since it won't make a difference and it's hilarious to see
them go from vaping is worse than smoking to wait no smoking is so much
worse you shouldn't switch back most of all what I don't understand is smoking
and vaping is 21 in the US now like alcohol why does alcohol get to have
flavors but when Vapes do it's considered too appealing to kids how is
flavored alcohol also not appealing to kids if 21 is good enough to allow
alcohol flavors why isn't it for vaping the fight against flavor bands isn't
about some fleeting pleasure it's about being able to make more choices with our
health but then it takes away money from States and big
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