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pretended to be pregnant to see if my best friend was sleeping with my fiance
but found out she was infertile and had been secretly dating my lying cheating X
my best friend Kate 25f and I also 25f have been friends since middle school
she and I have been Inseparable since forever and we know pretty much
everything about each other then there's my fiance Jake 26m who I met in college
we dated for a couple of years and got engaged a couple of months ago Jack is a
quiet introvert and nothing like me which is something I like about him he's
really shy and doesn't like talking to women much it had taken a lot for him to
even open up to me when we first started
going out so it came as a surprise to me when he and Kate started becoming good
friends a couple of months back they discovered a common interest this TV
show that both of them loved watching and when they realized that they were
both big fans of the show they started having watch parties at our home a few
weeks ago I saw Jack laughing at something on his phone and when he
showed it to me I realized it was a funny meme that Kate had sent him I
didn't know they texted and when I asked him he told me that they were kind of
friends now that made me feel a little weird I didn't just feel insecure
because my husband and my best friend were getting along but there's more to
it I was mostly insecure and a little suspicious because last year Kate had an
affair with a married guy it was some guy from work who had been married for 3
years and Kate knew about his wife but she still went out with him they were in
a relationship for eight months before her conscience finally kicked in and she
left another reason for her ultimately breaking things off with that guy was
that he kept putting her off he tell her that he would soon tell his wife about
cake but never would so she got tired of
waiting around for him and just broke up but the wife never found out about it a
month after her breakup she quit her job
there too and started somewhere else she was honest with me about this whole
thing and I told her several times that this was a bad idea but she was head
over heels in love with her coworker and couldn't seem to let him go she was
totally crazy about him and in spite of all my advice she still went back to him
every time he asked her to she feels bad about it now and hasn't been in touch
with him since their breakup but the fact that she'd engaged in an extra
marital Affair still made me feel very weird about her friendship with my
husband Jake doesn't have any female friends and Kate to be one of two the
other being his cousin that's why it freaked me out a little and I started
overthinking things I didn't have it in me to just confront them about it
because I didn't want to come off as rude or paranoid but I needed to know if
something was brewing between them or not so I did something Juvenile and went
in a very weird Direction I saw an advertisement for a pregnancy test while
scrolling through my phone a couple of days back and at the time I was really
freaking out over Kate and Jake's friendship Kate had been acting very
squirely around that time and I could tell that she was hiding something from
me Jake was also being very secretive and it just made me feel extra
suspicious so I decided to invite Kate over the next day and announce my
pregnancy to watch how they'd react to it if there was something going on
between them then they definitely wouldn't be too happy about it and I'd
have my answer now that I look back on this of course I realized what an
immature and ridiculous strategy I'd opted for but I wasn't thinking straight
back then I invited Kate over and when she and Jake were both at home I sat
them down and made the announcement I even told them about how I wanted them
to be the first people to know everything and to my surprise and relief
Jake seemed to be thrilled about it he was overjoyed but unfortunately that was
not the case with Kate she congratulated me first and tried to smile but within
seconds of my announcement she'd broken into tears and was sobbing with her face
in her hands I was alarmed and so was Jake because we had no clue as to why
she'd reacted this way I put all my own worries aside just to console her and
then through sobs she told me that she just received the results of her
fertility test some days back and she was unfortunately infertile she told me
that she'd gotten herself tested because she'd been seeing this guy which is why
she was being so uptight around me this guy was friends with me back in college
but then we had some stupid fight in our last year and just never spoke again
she'd matched with him on a dating app and they'd been seeing each other for a
while now but she'd been keeping it a secret for me because the guy didn't
want me to know just yet and neither did she because I'd not approve of him and
advise her to leave him but she liked him so she'd been keeping it all low key
she'd had the test done because things were getting serious between them and
he'd mentioned that he wanted kids in the future he'd said it casually but she
thought she should get tested because she'd never had a pregnancy scare ever
and it seemed a little suspicious to her but it all made sense now I was
horrified when she told me the real reason she'd been acting so weird and
why she'd started crying at my pregnancy announcement and I felt even worse when
she left still crying because she said that she needed to be alone for a while
and process everything I felt like crap about what I did in the stupid way I
chose to deal with this situation I've confessed to Jake since then and he
thinks I took it way too far I should have just talked to them both and had an
honest and open discussion instead of doing something so weird and pointless
he's forgiven me and I'm thankful for that but I haven't been able to figure
out what to do about the situation with Kate on one hand I feel really sorry
about the way I made her feel and one to tell her the truth but then again I
don't think this was entirely my fault because I couldn't have known what she
was going through I also don't know how to tell her the truth at all she's been
distant from me ever since the day she told me the truth and hasn't been
responding to my texts for some days now
I think she's taking this too personally
and I can't help but think that if I had been pregnant and this had been her
reaction to it I wouldn't have been too happy about it in her head I'm pregnant
and she's still choosing to give me the cold shoulder over something like this
when instead she should be celebrating with me I know it's not real but it
still stings I don't know Ida for telling my best friend and fiance that I
was pregnant to gauge their reactions because I wanted to find out if they
were having an affair or not update one so I went through the comments on my
original post and I'm so ashamed of myself I knew that I'd been juvenile but
to what extent exactly that was something I didn't really realize until
I saw the comments on this post Jake went easy on me to be very honest I
don't think any other guy would have forgiven me so easily he understands me
and loves me and that's the only reason I got away with this so easily it was
horrible to lead him to believe that we were having a baby just because I was
feeling insecure and what I did with Kate was pretty screwed up too he
reassured me that he and Kate never were and never will be anything more than
just good friends who occasionally talk online I know Kate has her own flaws and
everything but I had no right to do what I did to her either I get it now and
I've apologized to her and come clean about it two I didn't have the guts to
do it to her face so I typed everything out in an email and sent it to her an
hour ago she hasn't seen it yet and even
if she has I haven't heard anything from her Jake thinks she'll forgive me for
what I did but I'm not too sure because she seemed very torn up about the whole
pregnancy thing some of you guys had also asked about the guy she'd been
seeing and why i' had had a fight with him so I guess I'll share that too while
I wait for her to reply to me so her current partner Travis 25m and I went to
college together and were friends but we had a huge Fallout when I discovered
that he'd been seeing a girl who was a known bully like she was a full-blown
nutcase attention seeker who would always do weird crap for attention and
when she saw that Travis and I were good friends she spread some nasty rumors
about me which is why I got into a fight with Travis he was defending her and I
couldn't believe that he was siding with
her on this so that's how our friendship ended
of course I didn't keep in touch so now I don't know what he's like anymore he
might have changed and he might have remained the same but after my terrible
experience with him I definitely would have advised Kate to stay away from him
I can't control what she does which was evident right from when she dated her
married cooworker but I can nag her and force her to eventually change her mind
about men who are just bad decisions so that's what I usually do when she goes
after terrible guys which is more often than I'd like to admit update two Kate
got back to me and we met over coffee this evening I was very nervous but she
seemed happy to see me it's been almost 2 weeks since the day of my announcement
and Jake's forgotten about it entirely bless his heart but I haven't been able
to forget and neither had Kate she put me at ease as soon as I got there and
any awkwardness went away that instant we hugged and apologized we didn't even
need to specify what exactly we were sorry about because we knew and that's
all that mattered she told me she didn't
want to do it at home because she didn't want it to be awkward for Jake who
wasn't very good around emotional situations and it was really sweet that
she'd thought of him apparently she'd broken up with Travis because he'd
forced her to keep their relationship a secret not just from me but from
everyone in general she hadn't told me how long they'd been together initially
but today I found out that they'd been together for almost a year now and it
wasn't actually Travis who' brought up the topic of kids and marriage like
she'd originally told us it had been Kate she'd asked him if he ever wanted
to get married and have kids because my upcoming wedding had forced her to take
stock of her own relationship too he'd said that he wanted that in the long run
but wanted to keep their relationship under wraps for now Kate had been
planning on getting tested after the discussion because she thought she'd
finally found a guy who wanted the same things as her but just wanted to keep
things private and low-key for some time
so she was ready to wait for him she got the test done just to be on the safe
side because the thing about her never having had a pregnancy scare was
actually true and her Cycles were also really irregular so she did get tested
and that's what changed everything it wasn't just the infertility that she was
upset about but also their breakup a day after my conversation with her she told
Travis that she was infertile and he seemed to be okay with it but that day
she gave him an ultimatum and told him that since they were almost a year into
their relationship she thought it was about time they started getting more
serious and that he should make things public he didn't want to do that and
once again he he brought up the thing about me and said that he just didn't
want me nosing into their relationship because he knew how annoying I could be
when I wanted something to be done Kate put her foot down though and
unfortunately it didn't end well it was really weird to me that in spite of
being together for 8 months Travis didn't want to take things to the next
level and would rather break up with Kate then just tell everyone that they
were together I thought he was cheating but I didn't tell Kate about it that was
the last thing she needed to hear and if the relationship was over anyway there
was no need for me to add fuel to the fire and make her feel worse about
herself she'd been very low for the past couple of days mostly about her own
infertility and then the breakup to add to that Misery after that email she felt
better that at least she wouldn't have to deal with pregnancy around her so
soon while she was struggling with her own emotions about it we talked about
Jake too and she said the same thing that Jake had told me that they were
just friends and that was it I was too important to both of them to even think
of jeopardizing it it was kind of emotional and we got really teary-eyed
talking about these things because we've been friends for so long but now that
we're grown-ups we forget sometimes that
we're not the girls we knew back in high school I'm really happy she broke up
with Travis because if he was still keeping their relationship a secret then
he didn't deserve Kate at all Kate deserved better than someone who led her
on for ages without any promise for the future of their relationship it was
pretty ridiculous of that guy to use me as an excuse not to go public with their
relationship to and had he not done that I might have reconsidered my stance on
how he is as a person but this just reinforced what I already believed about
him that he was not ready to commit to her fully and was using me as an excuse
so hypothetically if Kate had told me about Travis and I'd have been right to
ask her to leave him that guy is as Troublesome as it gets I know that update 3
hey everyone so unfortunately I was right about Travis and he actually had
been cheating which is why he wasn't ready to post her publicly just a couple
of days ago he posted a picture with some other woman celebrating their three
months together but Kate and Travis had broken up just a few weeks back Kate is
devastated because he's blocked her already and she actually had to find out
through someone else she came over last night and she was just a mess sobbing
like a baby and wreaking of cheating wine Jake and I made her dinner and then
let her fall asleep on our couch it was hard to watch her because I felt like I
could have prevented this all if I just talked to her about her weird Behavior
earlier and made her tell me the truth then she would have told me who she was
seeing and I would have been able to nip their relationship in the bud but I was
too caught up in my own head to think about anyone else at that point I know
that this isn't my fault but it still feels a lot like it is I can't help
feeling like crap over Kate's emotional state right now because she's really
really upset about how this has all turned out she said she never saw this
coming which I can believe because when it comes to guys she always just refuses
to see any red flags until it's too late for her she pretends they're her
soulmates and ask oblivious to all their toxicity until they prove to her why
exactly they're bad for her Kate has always been this way right from high
school and has never known what's good for her or who's good for her that's why
I've always been protective of her but some lessons people just have to learn
for themselves and I guess this was one of those lessons update four hi folks so
the wedding is just a month away which makes me realize how many weeks have
passed since I last posted an update on what's been going on Jake and I are as
happy as ever and Kate's been making better decisions too like she started
therapy and has completely sworn off men for a while she'd never been single for
long in the past couple of years and was
jumping from one relationship to another without giving herself the time to even
heal from her past and in spite of my advice she'd constantly end up in awful
situations with these men who were usually just terrible people she did
meet a Few Good Men but those relationships never lasted long it was a
whole thing but I'm glad she's doing better now the only sad thing is that
she's decided to step down as my maate of Honor because it's too much to take
on right now I understand her decision and respect it but I won't lie I was
very disappointed when she stepped down don't get me wrong I do want her to put
herself first but ever since we first became friends I'd never ever imagined a
wedding where she wasn't my maid of honor I just never even considered it
and it was a huge blow to me when I realized she'd just be a bridesmaid I
mean it's not really that huge of a deal and I'm probably building it all up in
my head but this was really important to
me and now it won't go the way I thought it would Jake's been great and has been
very emotionally supportive which means the world to me and just reminds me that
I'm marrying a wonderful man who really gets me it's silly but he makes sure to
validate my feelings about the ma of Honor thing my cousin who's also very
close to me did step up and take her place but it's not the same it's just
not the same I felt bad about it for a really long time and it still feels kind
of sad but I'll get over it by the time the wedding actually rolls around
hopefully I'll have a lot to distract me
by then even now I already have a lot of
work to do on the wedding as it is which helps to take my mind off of the whole
situation with Kate there are also a lot of financial aspects to think about so
both Jake and I have been working extra hard so we can take a well-deserved
break right before our wedding it's been great for the most part so I can't
really complain except for the blip with my maate of Honor Kate and I have still
been on great terms and are in touch every day but now she's taking time out
for other things too like meditation therapy and even improv classes I didn't
even know she enjoyed doing that to be fair I don't think she knew she enjoyed
it either but it's okay if she's happy then I'm happy for her update five I'm
married yep it's true I'm finally married now and I couldn't be happier
about it last week I got married to the man of my dreams and the most beautiful
wedding I could have ever envisioned everything was dreamy and beautiful and
so so fun we had a blast at the Afterparty and even Jake who's usually a
Wallflower actually let loose and dance the night away with the rest of us but
yeah let's address the elephant in the room as well Kate and I are of course
still the best of friends and I love her just as much as I used to but no she
didn't end up being my maate of Honor like a lot of y'all had hoped too I was
disappointed for a really long time about it but with time I forgot about it
and sort of moved on from it it was fun at the wedding and not awkward at all
she's doing what's best for her and so am I she's doing a lot better mentally
now than she was doing earlier after her breakup and barely even talks about
Travis or any other of her exes anymore which is nice she's also taken up
painting as a hobby after dabbling in many other art forms to be honest she's
not very good at it but at least she tries and it helps take her mind off of
things her parents are also a lot happier now that she's not caught up
with some toxic guy all the time they'd stop speaking to her for a while in the
middle because she'd had that affair with a married cooworker but they're all
back on good terms now and I did see them having a Gaya time at my wedding as
well so things are going great for all of us now and I couldn't be happier for
myself and for Kate I've realized that being friends does not necessarily have
to mean that I have to always go out of my way to control her life which I've
been guilty of doing in the past sometimes but we're adults now and we
are our own people now coming back to my own life Jake and I are leaving for our
honeymoon in a few days we're going to the Bahamas and it's going to be so much
fun we've been looking forward to this for months after all the hard work we've
put into our respective jobs we've earned this and I can't wait to just
unwind on the beach Under the Sun with the sound of waves hitting all the right
notes fun fact fact Kate's actually the one paying for our hotel because she
wants me to accept it as our wedding gift which is super sweet of her she
wanted to make up to me for stepping down as my maid of honor and this
definitely does the job | give me a good story on PretendedtoBePregnanttoSeeifMyBestFriendWasSleepingWithMyFiancbutFoundOutShe |
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first story my mom who physically assaulted and disowned me at 14 calling
me a w after I was sawed allowed bullying at school and didn't even let
me see my little sisters in their final days before they died of cancer came
back after 7 years begging to reconcile and have a relationship with my
daughters I begin to tell you that I am Swedish my mother is Japanese and I have
lived most of my childhood with my father and stepmother when I was 14 I
was the victim of a gangaw by a few boys who landed me in the hospital hospital
and later revealed I was pregnant not even 12 hours later my mother came into
my room and gave me a slap called me a shameful W said that I was dead in her
eyes and then left my triplet sisters I am born number two of us three had to go
and get my stuff from our mother's apartment as I wasn't allowed there
anymore I wish to spend time with my half sister I gave birth to healthy twin
girls but sadly 5 years later my little sister died of cancer fast forward 2
years 7 years after I was disowned and my mother called me to say she wanted to
reconcile but I didn't want to do to bitterness over missing my sisters last
years but 2 years ago I agreed partly to
see if it could help me with my PTSD but with the conditions no alcohol as my
mother was that kind of alcoholic who did her job flawlessly but could drink
two bottles at least on the weekends she stopped after my sister's death though
also no talk about honor or any part of the honor culture of Japan but a few
weeks ago I came home to her with some stuff she wanted to borrow and and saw
an unopened bottle of wine and suddenly I was that scared little girl again
getting another slap so I just left and despite her calling I haven't spoken to
her about it I told my sisters what happened and they told her so right now
I don't know what to do because on the one hand she is my mother but on the
other hand she blew up that second chance I gave her and violated the terms
we agreed upon so any help would be valuable tldr mother betrayed me and
just blew her second chance update a small recap I got gang sod when I was 14
years old my mother from Japan disowned me for 7 years I gave her a chance for
us to reconcile before Co hit with the ultimatum that she must stay sober but
found a wine bottle at her home a few months ago well I explained to her that
I wasn't ready to give her a third chance as every betrayal felt like a new
slap and that I at the moment didn't wish to have any contact with her and
well since then it has been pretty interesting as she first tried to reach
me through texting and call calling but now when I don't answer she tries to
reach me through my sisters who are also my best friends so they are getting
caught in the middle also I don't know if you can call it gaslighting but she
is also telling them how she misses me and that she wonders what happened to
the happy little girl she remembered who thought good about everyone addressing
the more cynical person I became after the S so things are still a bit messed
up so I am pretty confused about how to deal with her now as I feel bad for my
sisters tldr my mother disowned me after the saw I tried to reconnect through my
sisters update my S story I hope it is okay even if I don't really ask for
advice I just want to share what happened to me as a way to process it as
I still have PTSD from it 15 years later but also that you can get a good life
after with the right help even if it is up to you to be willing to fight and
this is a pretty long story I live in the northern part of Sweden and have
lived there my whole life until I was 14
years old with my sisters I am a triplet
and my four half siblings on my father's side and one half sister on my mother's
side I lived in one of the suburbs of the nearest town or city with about
50,000 inhabitants and well even if I wasn't bullied I have always been the
outsider as I have always been kind of introverted and belonged to the rare
infj on the mbti scale so I was the invisible Point exter with barely a
handful of friends apart from my sisters who still today are two of my best
friends even if we are very different as they are very extrovert now to what
happened on the weekend just a week after my 14th
birthday in 2006 my sisters finally succeeded in getting me invited to a
party and while we were there one of the older guys who hosted the party who was
in his early 20s started to hit on one of my sisters and she finally snapped
and told him to leave her alone if he didn't want his face bashed in and yes
my sister has a real temper the evening went on and in the end I felt tired as
my arthritis wish I have had since I was 6 years old Googled juvenile idiopathic
arthritis so I told my sisters that I was going
home what I didn't notice was that the guy who was hitting on my sister
followed me around with three of his friends and did catch up with me and
soon I was surrounded by them and they started to taunt me and suddenly they
dragged me out into the forest next to the walkway where they beat me up pretty
badly before they violated me as they took turns I am actually a bit unsure of
how long I slipped in and out of conscious as a few of the kicks had hit
me in the head when they finally left me
I was barely able to move when I finally
got up I managed to limp my way home and collapsed on the floor when I got into
the hallway the next thing I remember is waking up at the hospital some of you
might have read my two posts regarding how my mother took it and we are on
non-speaking terms anyway the police questioned me and I told them everything
about what happened including the names of the ones who did it I was at the
hospital for a week and got back to school 2 weeks after the assault and
well I can say that my mother wasn't the only one who abandoned me apart from my
sister I just had one friend left and was the paror at the school as I was
seen as the party pooper as the frequency of parties dropped as the
party fixers were in custody among other things I got called names had my locker
vandalized and was also subjected to physical violence my sisters tried to
protect me as well as they could during the breaks but I was in class 8A and
they were in class 8 B I was at times alone I started to develop depression
and I was very sensitive to touching I even had a self-hatred wish that I tried
tried to handle by starting with self harm I accidentally slapped my youngest
sister who was 9 years old as she came into my room and I didn't hear her and
got startled when she touched my shoulder this in turn led to our parents
having to comfort two crying girls my sister for the slap and me as I felt
really guilty over it and mourned over how much of it all affected me and in
the end after a month of bullying some girls in my class went way overboard
with a prank that finally broke me after
PE where they in the shower held me down on the floor and well even if they
didn't do it you can guess what they said they would do with a shampoo bottle
after that I shut down and became numb to everything my sisters had PE after
hours and found me in the shower just staring they called my father and
stepmother and drove me home I got to hear that my sister caused a big scene
where she basically hit the leader of my
bullies and yes my sister uses her fists
my father and stepmother told the school that I wasn't going to come back until
they could guarantee my safety I was so numbed that not even the razor could
make me feel more than that I was a burden for my family who loved me my
logic was that if I remained my family would still worry about me while if I
died they would mourn and then move on so the Saturday after the incident in
the shower I went out and took a bus to the center of the town or city and
started walking towards the bridge I had planned to jump from but by a
coincidence I met a guy who was a little older than my brother that I met at a
camp for youths with arthritis and he remembered me as we were the only ones
from our area there plus that we both our car enthusiasts he invited me to
take a cup of coffee at the local McDonald's and we talked and he is one
of those who makes you open up so I told
him everything including my plans to end it all and he told me some of his own
experiences about self harm and the effects on those left behind and with
that I finally started to feel again and finally broke down crying and I called
my father who had found my final letter yes he had blown up my phone but I had
turned it off and called the police who were looking for me after that we moved
about 60 km South and I started a new school I was still down though and had
to find reasons to carry on each day and it was a fight against the urge to use
the razor which I lost a few times but the real turnaround was when I went to
the school nurse as I had troubles with my stomach and so on she asked the
standard questions and I had to pee in a cup and well you guessed it even though
pregnancy after such an ordeal can be a very traumatic event it was what finally
gave me a purpose to start living again and in May of next year I gave birth
through a C-section to my twin girls who
are my world that guy I met that evening became like an extra brother to me I
might add and an extra Uncle to my daughters especially after they
inherited my arthritis he is also my confidante when I need to talk I still
have nightmares today and even if I have an active exual life some things will
trigger Panic reactions so no 50 Shades of Gray with me I am pretty much living
a good life I also have some physical complications as I got a small brain
injury that gave me headaches and affected my short-term memory a little
bit I also work 5005 and I have disability benefits as my energy
plummets more than others both due to my autoimmune disease and my brain fog but
I can say that my life is generally good I am part of a support group for people
who have been through saw and I am one of the mentors there for newcomers it is
practically like being a sponsor in AA tldr I was SED when I was 14 life is
pretty good now at at 29 years old update trauma comeback hi well those who
read my earlier posts know what happened to me when I was 14 years old and
despite succeeding in living a pretty okay life I still have my setbacks after
that for some context my stepmother has had a tradition of sewing dresses for us
daughters both her step and her biological based on our personalities
earlier this week my daughters tried on their dresses that my stepmother made
for their 14th birthday as we had a family gathering this weekend
I succeeded in keeping my emotions in check and was happy for them while they
tried them on to see what accessories fit but at the same time I remember my
dress I got when I turned 14 sadly mine is still just Rags as I had that one on
the night I was assaulted and first the boys ripped it in some places plus it
got pretty dirty and after I collapsed in the hallway after failing to stumble
home the paramedics cut it open to be able to place their vitals and even the
police cut some parts out of it to secure DNA I know this will sound pretty
ridiculous but in a way destroying my dress hurts almost as much as what they
did to me and I am talking here about a small brain injury that affects my
short-term memory and leaves heavy emotional scars as I don't want even my
worst enemy to go through all that I still have the rags that are left in a
bag in the closet and I have tried to throw it away but something stops me
every time the closest I have been was to throw it in the garbage can but I
picked it up again and before anyone suggest it my stepmother has looked at
it and it is not salvageable after everyone has ripped and cut it I have
cried in the shower where no one can see me a lot these last few days because of
it I am not really looking for any tips but I just needed to rant to get it out
even if I am very close to my family I don't want to burden them more than what
this event already has done and they tend to be a bit overprotective of me
ever since my self harm attempt so I have avoided speaking with them about it
update one of my daughters wants to know who the father is the other doesn't I
really need some tips here I got badly beaten up and sawed when I was 14 read
my other posts and got pregnant with twins they are now 14 and one of them is
curious and wants an answer from her biological father while the other
doesn't want to know so how do I do it I might add that none of the four guys
even knows the kids exist if I know one of the reasons is that she wants to know
why he and his buddies assaulted me and she also wants to know about medical
problems that I wish I could understand as they both inherited my ankle loing SP
on to litis but I get kind of torn as it will be hard to let one know and at the
same time keep the other in darkness so any kind of advice would be welcome
update second assault hi some of you might have read my saw story about when
I got badly beaten up and gang saw when I was 14 years old well I don't know if
it would have been classified as saw the second assault but as this month has
been kind of rough with all the anniversaries related to my first and
the issue with my daughters I feel like I have to vent this and for context I am
giving some backstory I returned to school about a month later as I wanted
to get back into routine again and the doctors had cleared me well the first
thing I saw was that my locker had been vandalized and some of my stuff had been
stolen it turned out that except for my siblings and my best friend the whole
school had turned against me and I went from the outcast and teachers pet to
full-blown Pariah as they meant that I ruined it for Everyone by telling the
police who sought me resulting in fewer parties and making it harder to get
alcohol school pretty much became hell for me and even if my triplet sisters
tried to protect me they were in 8B and I was in 8A that pretty much along with
the trauma from the saw tore me down mentally and it finally culminated with
what the other girls in my class called a prank after PE in the shower after the
lesson the leader lets call her Lisa by her fake name and some of her friends
surrounded me and after some mean comments they pressed me down on the
shower room floor and I don't think I need to explain what Lisa wanted to do
with the bottle of shampoo she she held in front of her face because that was
what little W's like me liked before disappearing out of my sight I panicked
and tried to get loose but five against one isn't exactly the best odds finally
I heard her tell me that I wasn't worth it before she spit on me and left me
there my sister's class had PE after mine and saw that it was just my clothes
left and they found me in a fetal position against the wall I was home
from school after that as my father and stepmother refused to let me go there as
long as they couldn't guarantee my safety one of my sisters also got into
trouble the day after when Lisa gave a snide comment about me missing and my
sister is pretty hot-headed and beat her unconscious and well if it hadn't been
for someone who is one of my closest friends today I would have jumped from a
bridge the following weekend update the daughter wants to know who her father is
as mentioned in my previous post one of my daughters 14 wants to know who her
father is the other doesn't I might add for new people that I got pregnant with
them after a gangaw when I was and it might be a bit of a rant as so
much has happened the situation is not exactly solved she who wants to know has
had some depression-like symptoms and barely eats some days and the other who
doesn't know feels guilty for her sister
on top of that my estranged mother who I am not on speaking terms with saw a
chance to make amends by trying to be there for me during this wish which made
things even more difficult as I had to handle her that part ended with me
coldly telling her that I needed her after the sa and she chose to slap me
and disown me so I learned to cope without her and told her to leave when
it comes to my daughters the one who wants to know has found out through my
sister-in-law who the boy was and has started talking with the one most likely
to be the father through social media when I found out she started crying and
told me she was sorry but she felt like a part of her was missing and even if he
is a piece of crap she doesn't want to have a relationship she still has
questions she wants answers to I told her that I understood but also warned
her that it might be a bit like opening Pandora's Box the school counselor has
been contacted and we are trying to work
out a solution it is still a hard nut to crack how to let the other be in the
dark as she wishes as it is easier for her to ignore that she is a result of a
saw even if my girls are the absolute best thing that happened to me and I
love them without boundaries a late edit As Time passed the other daughter
started to wonder and her sister's thoughts made it harder to pretend that
he is a say whoever he is so we did contact him and are now awaiting the
test results I also got to know that a girl at their school has kind of bullied
one of my daughters because they don't know who he is which in turn insinuated
that I was a SLT who slept around even if that doesn't bother me my daughter
did take offense it culminated this week with them getting into a fight and my
daughter hit her head on the stone floor and was rushed to the ER she is at home
now as she just got a mild concussion regarding my mother my stepmother got
into a fight with her not physical and basically told her to leave her daughter
alone as she did just upset me how I admire my stepmother who pretty much
adopted me in all ways except legally after I got toown I will update later
when we have the answer to the paternity test I hope it is positive so I don't
have to confront the other three guys edit the paternity test came back
yesterday and now we know who the father
is we are going to digest this a bit and I will post an update after they have
had their meeting if we go through with that update daughters met their father
who saw me update well we got the paternity test and they met him earlier
today and it went pretty much to hell I had some guys at the coffee shop to
watch over them so they were never at risk of being physically hurt but well
they got answers to their questions and he basically SLT shamed me and tried to
spin a lie about what happened and the worst thing on his mind was that he had
to postpone his medical studies and take loans because of the 10 years he had a
felony in his papers after he came out and the money he had to pay me in
Damages but the worst was that he basically told them that the best would
have been if they hadn't been born and wanted to know how much they wanted in
child support for him not having to deal
with them or me so he could focus on his girlfriend and son and they left right
after that with my friends escorting them out so I have had to do a lot of
comforting and assure them that whatever he said they are the absolute best that
ever happened to me and they are two smart girls I am also going to contact
the school counselor after this week's school break to help them deal with this
at least all thoughts that he might have
changed went straight out the window and he is still the same idiot edit update
during the week I my father and stepmother and the girls have discussed
the topic of child support and we are going to see if we can get it not as
revenge or anything but to better the kids lives as I am a single parent who
works 50% and has disability benefits for the other 50% partly because of the
injuries he and his buddies inflicted I wish I could make money a bit tighter
and have my father and stepmother step in when needed even if she has offered I
haven't accepted any money from my mother as that would be a way to get her
back into my life again update miss my sister sibling loss hi well when I was
14 I was subjected to a crime read my other posts that led to my mother
disowning me so I went to live full-time with my father and stepmother this in
turn led to the fact that I missed my younger half sisters Last 5 Years as she
passed away in 2011 from a brain tumor at just 14 years old my wish from the
discovery was already 100% fatal I went yesterday to light a candle at her grave
and despite it being more than 10 and 1/2 years ago I just broke down
literally had a panic attack and could barely breathe I thought I had accepted
it but I was pretty much back at my breakdown after I had sung at her
funeral I might add that I can't enter a church due to the psychological trauma
it might be that the stress due to other issues and the fact that I lost some
friends during the pandemic age 3134 ripped some wounds open I and my mother
are still not speaking to each other even if she wants to reconcile largely
because I can't forgive her for being the reason I just got to see her the day
before she passed away I felt safer venting here as I know that if I tell my
sisters who are my best friends we are triplets my mother might get to know and
see it as a way back into my life luckily I had my daughter's twins who
helped me calm down update a song for my sister I hope this is okay to post but
this is a song that I wrote in memory of my sister and about how much I miss her
your final goodbye last night I had the saddest dream I ever had I saw you
standing there with your back towards me
slowly turning around you told me it was time for you to go you told me it was
time for me to let you go I will be okay without you and then you just walked
away I cried I screamed please stay here
with me but you just looked at me with a sad smile telling me this is your final
goodbye next morning I woke up noticing my cheeks all wet with tears
walking through the apartment I never felt so empty without your laughter I
really tried to sense you but it was just like a tomb I broke down crying
calling out your name in vain feeling the gaping hole in me I can barely
breathe I cried I screamed please stay here with me but you just looked at me
with a sad smile telling me this is your final goodbye later that day I visited
your grave touching those inscriptions on that cold stone thinking back on when
you drew your last breath did you even know I was was there or was the tumor
too far gone suddenly I felt the gentle breeze from the wind caressing my cheek
maybe I will be okay one day update this
is sort of an update about my mother and I am feeling guilty well she tried to
use the drama around Christmas caused by my kids faty I got pregnant by the saw
to get back into my life with the idea that I needed her support well I told
her that I needed her once and she let me down I managed and don't need her now
well I got to know from my sister that my mother crashed pretty badly she is
still doing her job as a higher manager but she drinks pretty heavily on the
weekends and cries to them about how she misses me and last weekend she made a
drunken call to me and asked for forgiveness and gave promises that if I
gave her a new chance she would stay sober the rest of her life and I simply
hung up because she was shtf fa drunk and I hate alcohol and I know I
shouldn't as I haven't done anything wrong but I guess maybe the infj part of
me who wants everyone to be happy feels guilty over the fact that I am kind of
the reason she seems to have gone off the deep end and know that I might be
able to help her back on track I might add that my stepmother who kind of
adopted me in every way except legally tore into her the day after for
harassing her daughter I needed to vent simply Second Story entitled mother and
golden sister who ruined my life stole my money and finally kicked me out
disowning me for standing up for myself came back to reconcile and have a
relationship with my daughter and demanded that I attend my sister 's
wedding abandoning my pregnant wife I 27m and my wife 30f were planning our
wedding last year February originally we wanted an intimate celebration with our
nearest and dearest which for me would have been my grandma 73f enter the
trouble with the rest of my family living in New Zealand to say our
relationship is troubled is an overstatement they are Senate 29f my
older sister with whom I had the closest relationship is now in Nemesis L 25f is
my EAS IL influenced younger sister who I was closest with as we promised never
to lie to each other spoiler she did Sher 47f is my loving mother no words
can describe her so I'll let her actions speak for themselves a bit of context
first after I passed nursing school in my home country my mom immediately
brought me back to New Zealand despite my not passing my local board exam she
insisted I didn't need a professional license or any Hospital experience I
disagreed but was shut down mom forced me to share a room with Senna in our
two-bedroom flat I had to sleep on the floor and run for my life every time our
landlord made an inspection yet despite this I still paid full rent mom and
Senna hated that I worked 8 hour shifts only while she worked 10 hours I still
pay rent and bills every month promptly I work in healthcare for 37 and half
hours a week they're aggressive militant vegans and I'm not need I say more five
they're hardcore feminists bordering on feminazi Turf the fact that I am a man
in their house triggers them so they make me do all the housework and chores
anyway after a year of this BS I decided enough was enough and made plans to get
experience in my home country since we were close I told Senna that I planned
on making my own way in life Senna felt conflicted But ultimately decided to
support me by talking to my mom to explain to her I was surprised however
that my mother became aggressive and practically foamed at the mouth it seems
like Senate told her a different story they both argued with me but years of
microaggression and mental torment made me do the unthinkable for me and I stood
up to them both my years in quora and fanfiction forums helped me break down
their arguments until they broke down into personal attacks and guilt tripped
me with all they've done for me paternal grandma paid for our schooling food and
board so I knew this was BS I confided and vented to Lana and used a few ah
Choice words to describe how I felt about Senna and Mom and wouldn't you
know it they chatted me going on about how I am breaking the family betraying
them and I will be disowned and disinherited Etc and they will only
forgive me if I come back into the fold when they couldn't browbeat me into
going back to New Zealand they demanded I get out of the house I was staying in
at the time which wouldn't be a problem except it was the height of the co
pandemic with nurses being discriminated against and even kicked out of their
accommodations mom even called my grandma and threatened her if she took
me in Gran almost did but my formerly estranged dad took my side and angrily
berated Grandma for even considering such nonsense as she wasn't beholden to
my mom since then I've been NC with my NZ relatives except from my stepdad
staying in our home country whilst waiting for his papers for NZ who I'm
not angry with but I'm VLC with since I know he's spying on me for her and also
revealed information Sher used against me in our argument during that dark time
my grandmother and my now wife supported me and I got on my feet and moved on
with my life around the time I was processing my papers to head to the UK I
caught Deni fever this was roughly 6 months of no contact with my family
however I was so ill that my stepdad took me to the hospital and in that time
he shoved a phone in my face where my family was FaceTiming I looked Dreadful
and they looked like nothing happened which infuriated me even more but I kept
civil I categorically refused their help with the hospital bills as they Ed that
often to manipulate me and I paid it myself with my own meager earnings I've
never felt so much pride and freedom throwing their money back at their own
faces from then on we've been civil never truly acknowledging what happened
but I'm not the type to care anyway Flash Forward to 2022 I'm in the UK as
an RN getting married to my now wife my grandmother was coming from the states
and she is all the family I need to my shock and horror my New Zealand family
decided to come I did invite them but I knew they were antivaxers and there was
very little chance they'd managed under such difficult circumstances they were
also confident their New Zealand residency status made them guaranteed to
get a Visa but their applications were all over the place and in the end my
wife and I had to devote a portion of our limited time to help them straighten
it out which they did knowing them to be freeloaders I informed them ahead of
time that I would not Pony up with them on the costs and no one forced them to
come before helping I made them promise not to ask for any money from my grandma
as they called me a mooch when my grandma gave me an allowance for plane
tickets and hotel stays through our intervention they managed to arrive at
the wedding literally 5 minutes before the event my wife and I were talking to
the minister and signing some paperwork before the event when I saw the four of
them running across the courtyard at the time I was impressed and happy and I
thought we could move on from the past in short we had a good time with them
here in the UK when they left I was happy that we had mended our
relationship and that everything was back to normal my grandmother who had to
leave early wanted to give us something for our honeymoon as she went home to
our country to oversee some of our properties Senna also went home for
vacation and told me that she would send
me a cash gift of $3,000 and Senna would be the one to send it Senna took a
really long time to get it changed at first I thought she was busy but her
Instagram showed her at the gym or going to the beach as my honeymoon was coming
up I needed that money to make plans and come up with a budget Senna brushed me
off and made excuses until finally she called and was excited to let me know
she had my money changed to New Zealand dollars I was confused as the rate of
commission took out nearly $400 she had a sht eating grin and
implied I should thank her as she took a long time finding a money changer for
that amount I was livid that commission rate was ridiculous so I probed her on
it as I might be confused so she began explaining like I was an idiot and I
still could not wrap my head around it I told her I knew where she had it
exchanged and with their current commission rates the commission should
be between 50 and 100 USD give or take she yelled at me since I implied she was
stealing and she was so abusive I had to hang up not to be outdone she went to
every group chat I was in and proceeded to launch a tie raade on what a up
jumped little sht I was that now that I've got a high-paying job as a nurse
all I care about is money y y so I left those groups but she still went on to
create a group this time with my wife in and proceeded to tell her of what I did
stuff I did in the past and tried to get her against me I replied say whatever
you want but I don't care Senna I said my peace but please don't drag my wife
to your level bye after that my mom called to yell at me for talking to
Senna like that saying that I should accept her for who she is as she will
not change for anyone maybe that's the problem Mom no one wants her to change
she's still the same immature entitled brat she was years years ago this made
her angry but she tried to reconcile to no avail grandma called and berated me
about it as well and I accidentally revealed she gave $3,000 to both my
sisters and $2,000 to my mom and stepdad at their insistence and I connected the
dots that's why it took so long to change that's why the commission rate
was so expensive pissed and disgusted that they broke a promise and blackened
their non-existent integrity I cut them off entirely I blocked my mom my sisters
and restricted my stepdad I am torn by what they did my grandma called me to
tell me that my mom insisted on not giving me my honeymoon money until I
begged for their forgiveness for being an INR I told my grandma that Senna can
keep that money as they'll die of old age before my apology is forthcoming
this has led to my grandma getting mad at me for fighting over money but what I
was fighting for was my principles which no amount of money can't buy now a year
later I going and see and my life has been an absolute dream without their
toxic malign influence hovering above me
I became more confident and happy I lost a lot of stress weight and my wife even
swears I grew a bit taller LOL now my wife was pregnant a few months ago and
my previously estranged biod dad posted pictures of our baby shower which got
through to my sisters now they are bombarding me indirectly through sock
account emails and mutual friends begging to talk to me and for me to go
to senna's wedding next spring there was neither an apology nor any mention of
the fight last year just sweeping it under the rug and pretending nothing
happened my mom even had the audacity to
ask my grandma to ask me to go by myself if my wife and daughter could not come
my wife will still be on maternity leave and cannot work Senna has never once
tried to apologize and I could frankly care less what happens to them a lot has
happened since then but that's a story for another day edit thanks for the
upvote folks a lot of you commented about how I let them walk all over me
and I admit in the past I did I have since gone absolutely NC with them and
VLC with the people they still communicate with so all is well I might
write about it one of these days comments de01 block all of their puppet
accounts and tell your grandmother that without an apology and the return of all
the funds they stole they will never meet your daughter and there is no hope
of reconciliation on the off chance they
pay you back put the money in an account for your daughter tell them you forgive
them but you do not want them in your life Opie I've done as you said on the
advice of my therapist to set boundaries but they have spies everywhere and no
means of contacting me I've told my grandma that they have zero relation to
my daughter and I don't even care about the money thank you for watching the
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a it for not letting my sister into my apartment about a year ago I 21 moved
into an apartment with my husband 21 I moved out of my mother's house and into
my brother's house at 16 so this is the first place I can actually call mine my
mother had a hoarding issue and often picked up things off the side of the
road due to this habit we ended up getting bed bugs and to this day my
mother has and continues to do nothing about them that is the main reason I
chose to move out with that said I told my sister she could visit while she's in
college and closer to us as much as she wanted as my other three brothers who do
not live with my mother come and visit regularly I have been no contact with my
mother since moving out recently my sister has moved out of the dorms and
back into my mother's house when she lived in the dorms I didn't have to
worry about her bringing bugs as my mother refused to visit her in college
and my sister doesn't bother to go home unless it is needed for emergencies due
to her moving back in I told her that she has to change in the guest bathroom
which is directly next to the front door before actually coming further into my
apartment and leave her cloths in a bag outside my apartment I purchased
multiple things for her to wear in her size and in her style to wear at my
house because of this rule I know | give me a good story on AITAfornotlettingmysisterintomyapartmentorig |
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medical professionals what is the craziest DIY treatment you've seen a
patient attempt so sugar can be used to help heal certain types of wounds a
patient I saw had missed an appointment with part of their care team where they
got their bandage changed I noticed what
appeared around the edges of the bandage
asked my patient about it and offered to change it for them we didn't typically
do that in our Clinic they said yes though so I go get fresh bandages and
whatnot take the old one off and it's just sticky and stringy picture the
slow-mo shots of caramel being pulled apart like that and it smells to be fair
most wounds smell but this one was different I finally asked them what they
used to change their bandage since I knew it wasn't discharge maple syrup
they use maple syrup so to answer some common questions yes honey certain
varieties can be used with wound healing so it's possible they confused it with
this but I don't believe that's what happened here I can't disclose more
because heppa the thing that doesn't seem to exist on shows like gray no I'm
not sure it was pure Maple they said it was the good stuff in the glass jar but
who knows either the way it wasn't sterile and this wasn't a simple wound
proper sugar dressings can be used on various types of wounds but it's not
just pouring some table sugar on it so don't go try this at Home Folks
necessary disclaimer no it wasn't thousand island dressing there is
medical grade honey studies show that it and medical grade sugar can actually be
better for some wounds than antibiotic iotics no I could not eat pancakes for a
while honey dressings typically are less
painful to administer than sugar because of the lack of crystallization but that
also means the sugar is better at cleansing your wound care specialist can
determine which is the better route since this seems to be an issue now no
heppa isn't just saying the patient's name it can also be saying enough that
could then cause them to be identified up to this point I have not revealed
anything that would link this story to this patient revealing more to the back
story would in my opinion considering I do not want to out this person as a
human being or cause a willful heap of violation as a now former professional I
won't go into the backstory even with details changed as some have requested
had to find the exact wording but this is directly from Hippa the term
individually identifiable health information means any information
including demographic information collected from an individual that with
respect to which there is a reasonable basis to believe that the information
can be used to identify the individual I
prefer to ER on the side of caution with that all right all right funny stuff
though also cuz earlier today I was reading an essay from a nurse who worked
in rural China and she was describing how she had to use sugar and honey to
help heal her client's bed Source story two as a brand new nurse starting my
career in a small Southern Hospital I had a patient who was admitted to my
unit with sort of non-specific complaints about a wound on her chest
she was a direct admit meaning that she was sent directly to the unit from a
doctor's office rather than going through the emergency room when someone
is directly admitted I don't get a full report all I can see or lab results and
notes from previous doctor's visits basically I'm Flying Blind as I'm
getting her settled into her room I start asking a few background questions
that will help me direct my assessment so I see that you were admitted because
you have a wound did you have an accident oh no it just kind of showed up
how long ago oh it's been a while now maybe a few years oh okay well if you've
had it for years what brought you in today has something changed is the wound
draining changing color well it fell off what did my chest so I help her get
settled in the bed and move her shirt to
take a look the entire portion below her udder had totally eroded away she
explained that she'd been putting triple antibiotic cream on it and had started
wrapping it in a baby diaper when it developed in odor I kept my face very
still tried not to be visible horrified and listened to her talk about how she
wanted to show it to her doctor at her yearly physicals but for the last 2
years her female doctor had been out of the office on the day of her exams so
she didn't feel comfortable showing her chest to a male doctor so she let it go
I nod excuse myself from the room and basically fly down the hall to the
hospitalist office I tell him that he needs to call his female NP down to this
patient room immediately because she's old and scared and won't show you her
chest but it is falling off and no part of nursing school taught me how to make
this better it took them all of five minutes to diagnose her with a very
Advanced fungating Breast tumor she was totally unsurprised and said that she
figured it was something like cancer she placed herself on hospice and passed
away less than 2 weeks later Story three
I got a boil in my armpit about 10 years ago had never had one before and had
just moved out of home so I didn't know what to do I was sort of hoping it would
go away after a week or two of strategic ignoring it did not go away and was
about the size of a golf ball every time I moved my arm it would rub and hurt
like hell I had heard that doctors's Lance them so I decided to give that a
go I had a nice blunt Rusty pocket knife so I tried to jab it in the shower like
most people I'd never jabbed myself before wouldn't recommend it it's very
hard especially since it hurts so damn much it hurts just to touch it so you
can imagine how much fun it was to poke it with a knife I gave up and went to
the doctor by now it was the size of a tennis ball and I needed to have a wad
of toilet paper in my armpit so it wouldn't leave stuff all over my shirt
the doctor didn't look too concerned but when I laid down and showed him he
visibly recoiled and jumped back about a meter or two he braced himself flanc it
properly and I am mighty glad I couldn't
see what I could feel dribbling into the
stainless steel pan this was followed by the most intense pain I have ever felt
in my entire life as he cleaned it out and jammed it full of alcohol soaked
gauze honestly it was like someone was holding a blowtorch under my armpit I
had to bite my hand to not scream like a little girl I've had maybe one to two
boils since then but you better believe as soon as I see the first sign of one
my old car is setting land speed records on the way to the pharmacy for some
sweet sweet antibiotics if I were him I would have just let that scream out he
earned that scream size of a freaking tennnis
holy moly story four I have a weird one a patient was told by her doctor that
she had low magnesium and should consider supplements not uncommon
instead of getting magnesium supplements though she ate an entire tub of quote
homeopathic volcanic ash and completely destroyed her electrolyte imbalance and
ended up in ICU we admitted her as a pharmaceutical excess so Poison Control
automatically follows up with you it was hard to explain to them it was probably
naturopathic not homeopathic I don't know enough about specific differences
think of a tub of protein powder but volcanic ash her husband brought it in
for the Poison Control report you were supposed to mix a scoop in with water
for health benefits she ate the whole tub and had a seizure and wrecked her
kidneys the activated charcoal SL volcanic ash spew that was all over her
when she came from emergency was a witch to clean up Story five when I was an
internal medicine resident I came across a very nice 50-year-old Dominican lady
she was well-mannered but one could tell she was not the sharpest tool in the
shed as I was prepping her chart for our first visit I noticed that she'd been
seen by every single Digestive Disease MD in our hospital system not only that
she'd had every single procedure in the book ranging from endoscopies up both
holes and culminating in an exploratory lapor toy you're opened up to basically
look inside you when you have no clue what's going on and all of this because
for years she had one single complaint she reported severe gnawing pain in her
stomach at this point I should mention that she was speaking Spanish only not
only that she had a very heavy Dominican accent and I was the first Hispanic
doctor to ever see her my first language is Spanish and even I had difficulty
understanding her so she comes in and after exchanging some firsttime
pleasantries I politely ask her how she's doing sure enough although she was
smiling and said she felt well she pointed at her belly and said it was
biting again and asked for the cream to end it at this point I got intrigued her
medication list only mentioned a cream used for breakthroughs the previous
fellow only mentioned in his note that in every single visit she only asked for
the cream and nothing else when I asked what she meant by the biting and what
she intended to do with the cream she very calmly told me she intended to
stick the cream behind in order to end the bird living inside her after delving
more deeply into her story it turns out she didn't have a medical condition ever
since she was a little girl she believed that after eating a whole quail egg the
bird had spawned inside her and not away whenever she was very hungry after a
short visit to psych she was diagnosed with a sematic type delusional disorder
no amount of medication or Psychotherapy will cure her but she was still a fully
functional mother of two who paid her taxes and had part-time jobs I reached
out to every Digestive Disease doctor in our Hospital hospital system once more
to make sure she never receives an inappropriate invasive intervention I've
been following her now for 3 years and she's happy as one can be considering
she has a bird living inside her so yeah lady complains of pain in her belly the
worst case of loss in Translation ensues gets very invasive medical procedures
and turns out she's just a little cuckoo all right man so this one kind of made
me sad I'm really curious as to how or even if her delusions affected other
aspects of her life on a lighter note it's good to hear she's doing a lot
better as one can be considering there is a bird living inside them it's a hard
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story it's Story 6 during third year med school I was on a neonatology rotation
lots of premature babies or highrisk births we get code green page for us for
please come to delivery room as able and code pink page for please come to
delivery room stat there was a pager that was the standard one that got paid
for this and usually it was whichever of
us Med students who was on call carrying it our job was then to get one of the
nurse practitioners and possibly a second nurse and head over with the
incubator Etc to take the baby and get him or her to the ni ICU about 600 p.m.
one evening as we're doing Handover rounds that pager goes off with a code
pink then the neonatologist personal pager the next 10 minutes are a bit of a
scramble and not particularly interesting from the point of view I had
as I was assigned to send pages to additional people and fetch things but
in short a teenage Lady of local Aboriginal descent had come in suffering
from very premature labor I want to say 20 weeks but could have been 22 or so
she and her ex-boyfriend had recently gotten back together he had discovered
she was pregnant believing that the baby was not his he attempted to terminate
the baby she did not want said termination so he attempted while she
was asleep baby and mother survived relationship did not later testing
showed the baby was indeed his for those wondering story seven vet student here
we once had a family that came in when their dog ate a bag of Easter chocolate
we had to induc spewing up but first asked if they had tried anything at home
they said they read online to make the dog eat a bunch of salt to make it throw
up now this poor dog had a bag of salt repeatedly poured down its throat before
he came in Pro tip if your dog ever eats chocolate and you panic have him ingest
about 2 tablespoons of hydrogen peroxide he'll spew out liquid and frothy
chocolate so put him in the bathtub immediately after save your dog save
your carpet please take him to the vet also the hydrogen peroxide is just in
the event that you can't rush him in during my emergency rotation 2 weeks ago
we were told by the attending vet that 30 mlit about 2 tablespoons of hydrogen
peroxide is saved to administer orally in case of an emergency I understand
that there are contradictory opinions on this and not all vets May recommend it
again it's meant to be done in case of emergency you should still take your dog
to the vet I'm not licensed to give medical advice which I thought was clear
when I said I was a vet student story eight former ER nurse here I did DIY for
a homeless patient generally whenever we get a homeless person for medical
treatment as long as it's not life-threatening we don't go out of our
way to treat them especially if they are self-inflicted injuries to obtain pain
meds had a guy come in for severe constipation he hasn't had had a bowel
movement in a month duee to substance abuse we gave him laxatives and told him
to drink lots of water and told him to be on his way he kept on begging for
help and refusing to leave without some treatment it was a slow night and didn't
want to have a scene so I told the charge nurse I'll take care of it if it
was okay and to ignore the medical items charges she was cool with it since he
was in actual pain given how stiff and distended his abdomen was so I took a
urinary catheter and a 50 cc syringe to the bathroom with him filled the sink
with water had him strip down some lube and up with the catheter took a good 20
flushes for him to finally have a bowel movement he went from looking like he
had four turkey dinners to a skinny featherweight the one thing I loved
about working in the ER was many times it does come down to DIY for things we
don't have a procedure for everyone might be wondering why I didn't use an
enema kit we didn't have them and the squeeze bottle kind would have been
dangerous plus the catheter syringe and Lube was and the charge nurse was okay
with ignoring the laws a gravity enema wouldn't have worked on him since his
impacted stool was so bad the tube would have just been blocked the syringe was
needed to force the water inside and around the stool to get things started
it worked mainly because the 50cc syringe and the catheter fit pretty
nicely okay that's unexpectedly wholesome but not so wholesome if you
see it in your brain unfortunately but hey I'm glad this person was there to
help him out story nine I met a guy that only did his own wound care he hired
this guy who has no medical experience to be his help or personal care worker
and then directed him to do stuff that poor guy so in wound care we use sterile
gauze and we have specialized products that can soak up more than average
amounts of fluid we even have specialized iodine products that can
help prevent bacteria growth this guy just use regular gauze products and then
use some special tape he found to cover everything he found found some odd foam
that he would put on top of his wounds it was a cix wound to his back his wound
was generally extremely gross he asked me to help and I was like uh I can't do
that because it's so wild so we made him sign something that he understood the
risks of completing his own care to be fair knowing what I know now Hospital
nurses sometimes suck at wound care and I think specialized Hare nursing would
have been more beneficial since he was interested in taking care of his own
health I think in hospital his wound got worse hence his distrust of medical
people in general medical people are not always nice when their advice is not
taken so it creates a really frustrating situation with patients's health often
on the line luckily or unluckily he liked me so I was able to convince him
to listen to people oh yeah and this guy
had his own rubber catheter that he made
with some rubber hose it actually worked pretty well in my opinion because it
just sort of clasped his junk usually they're loose and we wrap something like
tape to let it breathe and not get contaminated it was gross anyway so
maybe it didn't matter eventually it was determined he had a claw to one of his
legs and he needed an upper knee amputation surgeons are sometimes jerks
and this one clearly made his decision reviewing the notes and his assessment
was brief the patient was furious at this until an internist came around and
listened to him then the internist calmly and firmly stated the reasons why
he needs a surgery and that quote I am confident you're an independent guy and
you'll get through this then the patient amazingly agreed so I never saw him
after that it was a good lesson that sometimes people are wild crazy and odd
but if you flip it around as a clinician and treat them with respect work with
them you can make your life a little bit easier story 10 I've been a registered
nurse for almost 88 years and I've seen it all you'd be amazed at how much we
see and hear people do to themselves and then so easily forget a couple of DIY
remedies stick out of my mind though I currently work on Arenal and pulmonary
kidneys and lungs Intermediate Care floor we had a patient recently who had
chronic kidney disease and was getting close to needing dialysis she had a ton
of problems while she was in the hospital with us but one of the issues
the docks on Earth was that she had a giant blockage in her bowels that was
literally causing her to spew it up because the stool couldn't pass by the
blockage the family finally thought it was wise to let us know that they bought
some kind of healing clay powder on Etsy it was supposed to cure her kidney
issues and they had been feeding it to their mom the clay ended up clumping
together in her bowels and causing this obstruction earlier in my career another
elderly patient had been having issues with panic attacks but she noticed that
if she rubbed her neck in a certain spot it would get better turns out she was
frequently going in SVT and was essentially giving herself a cared
massage which made her feel better the anxious feeling she was having was from
her heart beating so fast crazy coincidence I guess I don't know how how
she came about this herself though another treatment that I'm sure many
people have heard of had a very obese and yeasty Lady as a patient who we
found out has been trying to cure her horrible yeast infection with yl and
tampons she ended up on IV Defan it was so bad story 11 so a lady comes into the
ER and refuses to tell the triage what's wrong other than to say she had
something growing down there she wants a lady doctor and that's that so we get
her set up for a pelvic exam in one of the obig rooms and called the only
female physician working that night to come check her out the doctor was in the
room for maybe 2 or 3 minutes before she comes out with a stench that made
everyone in the vicinity gag wafting from the room behind her the patient is
around 50 to 55 a previous substance dependent about 10 or 11 children no
medical insurance pre- Obamacare times her uterus had begun to prolapse so with
no money and no insurance it was suggested she just put something up
there to hold it in without much on hand that could both fit inside her and stay
inside her without falling out she came up with a genius plan a potato and what
do potatoes like to do in a warm dark moist environment why they like to grow
the something growing down there was the vine the potato shot out for sunlight
the potato had fully rooted as well and the potato itself was deteriorating
hence the stench she had to have a full
Hy to me we nicknamed her Tater [ __ ] and
she's Infamous at this Hospital okay
tater [ __ ] is it okay if I'm laughing or
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today we've got a great Revenge story against
somebody who intentionally depleted another
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person's phone balance we'll get into that in a
bit but first my grandfather shouldn't have been
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a teacher to preface growing up my grandfather
always made young female bartenders uncomfortable
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by giving them a creepy amount of attention think
16 to 17-year-old girls I always tried to diffuse
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the situation luckily he's never behaved this way
towards me he also used to be a teacher and my dad
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told me the story recently a apparently when he
was still a teacher in high school he would hover
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over young girls this was in the 70s or so he
would stand close to them touch their shoulders
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and generally give them more creepy attention when
he approached their tables his crotch would rub
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the table's Corner cetti Revenge from the boys in
their class cuz everyone was getting fed up about
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it but there was nothing they could really do the
boys put chalk on every corner of the table before
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one of his classes so for the rest of the year he
walked walked around with his crotch covered in
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white chalk he isn't the most self-aware person
so he never noticed my dad was friends with some
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of the people who did this so that's why he knows
Beyond his horrendous Behavior I think what hurts
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me the most is the fact that op's Dad was friends
with some of the people who did it so imagine not
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only do you have a creeper teacher going around
at your school it's your own father I would be
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mortified also hi I'm Steve and if you guys enjoy
stories of Revenge like these make sure to hit
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said our next story is standing up for myself when
:39.400 --> :44.080 I was in college we had a bar within walking
distance we would frequent one night I go up
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to the bar to order a drink there's a lovely girl
who I instantly wanted to talk to I broke the ice
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and I offered to buy her a drink but the catch
was that she had to dance with me for one song
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she eagerly said yes and we were off to a great
start until we turn around drinks in hand and
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take one step toward the Dance Floor she sees some
other dude gets excited and hugs him I wait for a
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minute but it seems like I'm already forgotten
I see a few buddies nearby and I tell them what
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happened my friend Jordan says do something man
so here comes my Petty Revenge I walk up to her
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say excuse me and take the drink out of her hand
I chug it down and slam the plastic cup down and
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walk away no reaction from the pretty girl and
her guy but my buddies loved it and we had a
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good laugh about it hey she didn't hold up her end
of the bargain and you paid for that drink I see
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you had every right to do that our next story
is the app I used to make sure I hit my daily
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to-dos got bought I paid $5 for Lifetime full
access to my favorite productivity app then they
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got bought the new owners added a bunch of stupid
features that slow it way down and use that as an
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excuse to make it cost $60 a year so freak that
but I still haven't found an app similar to the
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simpler version I emailed them and updated ated
my five-star App Store review to one star and you
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can see so many reviews complaining about the same
thing that they don't even respond to what a way
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to start out with your existing customers well it
seems like they can't take away my access to the
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full version so every day several times a day I
open this app and get a splash screen telling me
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to buy it and every day I ex out of that message
and continue using the app just as I had before I
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don't even notice it anymore spent like this for
months they probably don't notice but it makes
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me feel slightly Vindicated every time as long
as you can do what you used to do with that app
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I say keep on using it you paid for it but keep
that one star review up I'm right there with OP
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if I got a x out of a popup every time I use it
it's just going to become routine it's going to
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be nothing it's like the wind raar pop up every
time you open a zip file at some point you just
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have it mentally completely tuned out you just
expect it to pop up and hit close immediately
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and now's a good time for everybody who wants
to say use szip instead to do so in the comments
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our next story is grocery store Karen this was
years ago when I had a 22 caliber brain and a 50
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caliber mouth I was at a grocery store with two
items I went to the customer service desk which
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had a sign that said five items or less just as I
was approaching the counter a Karen ducked in in
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front of me with a basket that had 12 to 15 items
and she started unloading it onto the counter I
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looked to the cashier pointed at the sign held up
my hand with my fingers spread out and gestured as
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a question she looked at me and Shrugged as if she
couldn't do anything about it so I said to Karen
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you must be a natural blonde she replied I am how
did you know I pointed at the sign because you
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can't count to five oh she was mad she paid and
got out of there in a blur afterward the cashier
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was grinning I said you probably aren't allowed
to say anything but I can well what's the point
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of having the sign there that says 10 items or
less if they don't actually enforce it I mean I
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guess it depends on the Chain if this is at like
a Walmart this is probably one of two lanes there
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anyways our next story is Keys what keys when I
was 19 I used to work for the small roadside Zoo
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think dirt paths and chicken wire holding back
literal monkeys it happened to be really close
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in my country which made this Zoo very quiet
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I was hired is a front reception and customer
service the first face you see if I'm anything
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I'm bubbly and they basically hired me on the spot
the owner of the zoo came in one day a few weeks
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after I started and struck up a conversation and
a roundabout way found out I'm disabled and seemed
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very shocked since it's an invisible illness this
was the beginning of the end I just didn't know
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it yet unfortunately for them I was incredibly
good at my job customers were happy office was
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clean and I was finished with the work work they
gave me with half of my day empty and boring the
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head zookeeper was young short attractive and
had a temperature that could rival Regina from
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Mean Girls I tried asking for my responsibilities
with a background and art I offered my skills and
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knowledge and other areas just to fill my day and
was met with a screaming almost 30s something man
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on his tiptoes spitting in my face that I needed
to sit down shut up and smile for the customers so
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I did that was until the incident one day a friend
of the owners drops in this pair of birds as a
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surrender this cute little white cockal and a blue
Indian ring neck I own a bird and so when they put
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them in an old cage next to the office I was very
excited I wasn't to feed them but I was allowed
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to talk to them the days went by and the ring neck
became very wild and unhappy the poor little white
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bird was getting really sick I tried telling the
keepers that the seed was wet and the birds had
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no dry space when it rained they didn't have toys
or company and they weren't doing well I was met
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with violent screaming the head zookeeper had me
pinned to a wall and I was so afraid he was going
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to hit me for suggesting his level of care wasn't
good enough that I burst into tears and ran back
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to the office I called the owner sobbing that he'd
done that and she reassured me everything would be
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fine and to have a drink of water calm down and
finish the rest of my day by the afternoon one
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of the other Keepers was sent up to the office and
popped his head in to see if I was okay apparently
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he was sent to snap the neck of the birds because
euthanasia was too expensive for surrendered
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animals I was unbelievably upset and this keeper
patted my shoulder he was a massive introvert and
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this means a lot trying to calm me down he said he
didn't like it as much as I did but he had to do
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his job or he might get fired I asked him what
they told him to do exactly and he said when I
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get back up there they better not not be any birds
so I asked can I take them then he said as long as
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they aren't here I did my job and smirked as he
walked out of the office so there I am smuggling
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birds in my shirt to my car the sick little white
one tucked up holding on to my bra all snuggled
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close and this blue firecracker practicing for the
next bull riding competition I disinfected a spare
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cage I had at home and put them in our sun room
to freefly I was hand feeding the little white
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bird with the medic a the vet gave me and giving
her some Pats when I got an email the owner had
:33.760 --> :39.360 sent an email stating due to your ill health
and unhappiness you are no longer needed and
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your contract is terminated that's when it hit
me she'd been trying to find something anything
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to fire me for besides just being disabled with
an invisible illness me being upset that I was
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verbally abused physically assaulted and upset
that they were going to inhumanely kill animals
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was worth firing me over so I'm not proud of it
but I ghosted them they didn't give me common
:04.760 --> :10.760 decency so they weren't worth my efforts for
weeks and weeks I'd get emails asking for my
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keys to the zoo asking if I got the email I just
let the email sit there finally the owner called
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after a month and angrily asked for me to return
my keys I calmly said I put them in the mailbox
:22.680 --> :28.640 the day she fired me and hung up I knew they
were so unorganized that no one but me checked
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the mailbox to the office it had been a month and
to her knowledge they could have been anywhere by
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now I hope they had to change all the locks to
that office and it was a mild inconvenience that
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really graded on them I got a lot of Joy watching
those little birds play with that big chain of
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keys I hung in their bird room right up until I
found them a foster home where they would be cared
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for well the little white bird was very healthy
and happy when we parted ways but I'd never visit
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that Zoo again they feed their dead zoo animals
to their baboons they collected the branches and
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grass for their enclosures from private farmland
and have been run off people's property so often
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that staff had to be made aware they could get
shot and most importantly why would I want to
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support that horrible place when I can pop up the
road to this amazing zoo run by a Legends Legacy
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it's a small Petty but still Petty revenge in my
opinion I wish I could have done more honestly I
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mean I think Beyond Revenge I think what op did
here was the right thing those birds obviously
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didn't deserve to get euthanized if anything maybe
they were doing it to cause op to have an outrage
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considering they put them right there next to
them said don't touch them maybe even touching
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them would have been their reason to fire op and
maybe they were trying to cause an uproar for
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euthanizing the birds I don't know I don't know
if there's some regulatory body that could shut
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down this place but it sounds like they're not
treating these animals right I feel like they
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should be reported somewhere or at least be spoken
out against pretty publicly if they aren't already
:02.000 --> :07.120 let alone the fact that there's a better Zoo
nearby I think it's the fact that they're so dumpy
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and slimy that would contribute to them being so
poorly visited our next story is there are people
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who use this foot path you blocked with your car
you know so I was living in this massive block of
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apartments near a small Creek the bank on which
the building is built is well above the creek and
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there's exactly one path that leads down to the
kids playground where Mom Ms take their kids and
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babies and strollers and people walk their dogs
one beautiful spring morning I walked with my
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dog to the beginning of that path and found a car
parked on it occupying the whole width of the path
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there was a massive pile of snow left on the path
inkle deep mud right of the path and spaces in the
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building's designated parking area my dog and I
crept through the snow then I packed some dog crap
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in a bag and placed it snugly in the driver's door
handle on my way back the jerk didn't take the
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hint though there were multiple crap stained wet
tissues thrown on the floor where the car had been
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but I did at least get a petty Revenge story out
of it I'm not saying I'm advocating for smearing
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dog poo all over somebody's car who Parks like
such a jerk like this but I understand it our next
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story is remembered this and it made me chuckle
about 5 years ago before we bought our house
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my wife and I lived in an apartment complex that
had buy annual inspections we were Model tenants
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especially compared to our neighborhood the place
was prettyy strict so we saw a lot of people over
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the years we lived there get evicted my wife and
I both work nights so we were asleep during these
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inspections we just locked our bedroom door and
slept through them knowing everything was in order
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the last one before we moved out had a handwritten
bit on the standard notice of inspection stating
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that they absolutely needed to see the inside of
the bast bedroom okay so we sleep during the day
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and had extreme blackout measures in our bedroom
all in accordance with lease rules so for this
:02.680 --> :08.000 one we left the door unlocked and I stuck my
wife's suction cup you know what stuck to the
:08.000 --> :14.320 wall next to the light switch so my question
is I guess is this suction cup you know what
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stuck to the wall next to the light switch also
in accordance with lease rules I mean I'm no
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expert with leasing rules but I would suppose
that there's probably not any subsection about
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sticking a you know what on your wall as long as
it doesn't have such strong suction that it would
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damage it our next story is I must have picked
it up from you father here's a short tidbit from
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when I was a young child I'm the oldest child and
have a younger sister let's call her Eliza Eliza
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became a bit of a potty mouth after she started
school my father complained that it was my fault
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and that Eliza must have picked it up from me I
had to nip this in the bud I cannot be held ACC
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accountable for every single transgression of my
sister so I came up with a petty plan I purposely
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dropped a pen in front of my father and swore in
frustration hey you don't have to swear my father
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remarked sorry I said I must have picked it up
from you I'm surprised that it actually worked my
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father stopped blaming me for Eliza's wrongdoings
from then on instead he would just talk to Eliza
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directly thankfully my father had insight and was
not the kind of person who would discipline me
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for talking back to him I'm really glad for op's
sake that they clarified that last bit I feel like
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a lot of people who are willing to blame you for
your siblings transgressions would also probably
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overlap with being the kind of person who cannot
tolerate having an actual conversation where you
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disagree with them our next story is Jump the
line at the grocery huh very Petty and yet it's a
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business day at the grocery and all the lines are
long they get another cashier going and a few of
:53.360 --> :59.000
us move to it this is back before self-checkout
then a lady pushes past from the back of of the
:59.000 --> :05.360
line to jump in front of me hey I say come on
really she says nothing but smirks a little and
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stands her ground my eye contact with a few others
in line confirm yeah that was a bench move I begin
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to quietly berate her G-rated stuff wow not cool
Etc and she turns away to ignore me aha I continue
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to berate her to keep her turned away and start
taking things out of her cart this looks important
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oh I bet the kidss wanted this candy I'm putting
a few things in my cart but most goes on the gum
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rack and the under belt where the small baskets
live I even got a few off the belt after she
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unloads she never sees it hopefully she figured
it out when she finally got home and the family's
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asking for the barbecue sauce and snacks I don't
blame op but I do feel kind of bad for the kids
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that might have had their favorite candy coming
home or whatnot or Uncle Mark Zuckerberg was
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going to come over and all of a sudden you don't
have the sweet baby rays our next story is try to
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steal my car enjoy losing your partnership this
is something that happened a long time ago but it
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still tickles me I was young and had had my little
hand-me-down Acura Integra since I was 16 my
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parents let me borrow it and I paid for everything
repairs Insurance gas Etc when I graduated high
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school it was my graduation present I had actually
paid about $11,000 to them to cover insurance for
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a long-term time not long before they dropped
having me pay for insurance because neither my
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sister nor stepsister were paying for theirs my
stepdad was a mechanic and specialized in cars
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made for racing and car shows he and his boss had
had their vehicles featured in car magazines that
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were sold internationally he took care of the
repairs for it and I paid for parts when I got
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to be around 23 to 24 i' had moved pretty far away
so obviously my stepdad wasn't taking care of the
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repairs anymore but I did know some basic things
I was driving down the road when suddenly smoke
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or steam came pouring out from under the hood I
panicked but pulled over as safely as I could and
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quickly contacted triaa they sent someone to come
tow their car to their garage to get it repaired I
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get to the garage after I finally get a ride since
they wouldn't let me ride in their truck they tell
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me the mechanic is looking at it now I wait a bit
and then the guy comes out he looks concerned and
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then lays it on me oh well your whole radiator
blew it'll cost about $2,000 or so to have it
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replaced I began to panic because that was worth
more than the car was then with a slight smirk he
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says I'll tell you what I'll pay you $2,000 and
just take it off your hands for you since its
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repairs are worth more than the car itself alarm
Bells went off immediately this guy was obviously
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trying to scam me and take my car now I'm ticked
I don't let it show though and say have to make
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some phone calls I step outside and walk around
and peek into the garage Bay the guy steps back
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into the garage and goes to his bench and starts
chatting with the other mechanic he's grinning up
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a storm and plastered all over his workbench are
photos of modified cars one of the photos happens
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to be my stepdad's boss's car which is a bright
yellow Acura Integra and hard to miss it was the
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one at the front and it all clicked into place I
called my stepdad and asked him about How likely
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it was that the radiator had completely blown
he said that it was highly unlikely but not
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impossible I explained everything to him and he
told me do not sell that car he's trying to get
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it because he wants to kid it out ask if he can
show you exactly in the engine where the problems
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were if he shows you he might be legit but take
photos and send them to me so I can be sure if he
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refuses or attempts to distract or dissuade you
he's lying and get it toe to another shop right
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away do not let them do anything until after I
verify I hung up and put back on my distraught
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face making my way back into the office I asked
the manager if the mechanic could show me exactly
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where the problem was the manager went and got the
mechanic and wouldn't you know it he absolutely
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refused to show me saying I wouldn't know what I
was looking at there was no point because it was
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completely busted and any other excuse he could
I told them please do not make any repairs I'm
:29.480 --> :34.240 going to have it towed to another shop they
got angry and tried to dissuade me again but
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I wouldn't budge I called AAA to see if they would
cover having it towed to a different location they
:39.800 --> :45.680 said no and that had already been taken to a
AAA garage so any other Towing would be on me I
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arranged my own Tow and had them tow it to a shop
right next to where I was living that had the best
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reviews in town the reviews all made a point of
saying that they never tried to get people to do
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unnecessary repairs and often did their best to
save people money one even said they had taken it
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to a different place and they tried to get him to
do a bunch of stuff before being brought there and
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told most of it was completely unnecessary after
I had it towed there I got a call from triaa again
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they wanted to know why I was having it towed to
a different shop as it seemed very odd and they
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were following up on that request I told them
everything the lady was silent for most of my
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story she asked me do they have AAA logos on their
vehicles I confirmed that they didn't have just
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one but no less than six AAA logos on each tow
vehicle they had and was prominently displayed
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on their website and pictures of the trucks were
on there too she stayed silent for a while and
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said she would call me back again before hanging
up the other shop looked over my car and everyone
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was super kind and friendly the mechanic came and
got me from the waiting room and took me back to
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the shop he pointed into the engine see that hose
there it's the factory hose it's over 20 years old
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it ruptured because it's too old I'm surprised it
lasted this long I asked about the whole radiator
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being blown and he looked at me like I'd grown
several heads what no of course not I even tested
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it and it was fine even well beyond its labeled
rating whoever told you that was lying their butt
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off we went back into the office and I explained
everything to them and they looked at me horrified
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again the mechanic interjected what a jerk how
dare he lie and try to steal your car like that
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what's the Shop's name so I can make sure no one
I know ever goes there trying to say it'll cost
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$2,000 to repair when it just needs a $20 hose
replaced they fixed up my car and after I got
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it home I got a call it was AAA again and the lady
asked if I had any updates boy did I fill her in I
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didn't leave anything out everything the mechanic
had said the discrepancy in the repair costs the
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actual repair required she was silent but I could
hear her fingers madly typing away once I was done
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she said I am so sorry for what happened we take
these things very seriously don't worry they won't
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get away with this a week later I checked on that
shop all the AAA logos were gone and they were no
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longer listed as being a AAA approved business
honestly although they didn't help out on the
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second toe having that experience and knowing that
they actually took it accountably would make me
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feel a little bit better about having that AAA
membership or whatnot the only sad thing is you
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wish you could go back and rub it in their face
find that manager or that mechanic that was trying
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to rip you off and call them out in the lobby
even better if there were other people there I
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think I would take my savings of $1,980 and spend
a little bit time trying to make a public outcry
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about how horrendous this place was our next story
is deliberately deplete my prepaid phone balance
:56.040 --> :02.600
you will pay for it $1,000 times over I went to
middle school in the early 2010s right before
:02.600 --> :08.440
smartphones really took off I got my first phone
right before starting sixth grade it was a slide
:08.440 --> :14.400
phone with a pay as you go plan that cost 10 cents
per minute for calls and per text message center
:14.400 --> :21.920
received worse yet sending a receiving photos cost
25 cents each it was very expensive and my parents
:21.920 --> :27.560
only gave me $100 a year for this if I exceeded
the amount I had to cover the rest with my limited
:27.560 --> :33.240
birth and Christmas money I had fortunately most
of my friends were good about helping me preserve
:33.240 --> :38.360
the balance they would call and I'd let the call
drop but immediately call back on a landline
:38.360 --> :44.120
so it wouldn't count as a call and they would
email me or message me on Skype for most things
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everything was good until Derek joined the group
in seventh grade at first we thought he was funny
:49.440 --> :55.840
but we quickly got fed up with him as he was very
unpleasant and exhibited many antisocial behaviors
:55.840 --> :01.240
he started drama within the friend group and also
caused issues between us and other kids outside of
:01.240 --> :06.320
the group he was manipulative and always played
the victim when others rightfully called him out
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on his crap and he knew how to charm parents so
getting rid of him was easier said than done he
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was the one friend who didn't respect my phone
situation he very frequently texted me dumb memes
:18.720 --> :24.320
even though I told him multiple times to just
email or Skype them to me instead since picture
:24.320 --> :30.640
texts cost 25 cents each unfortunately blocking
phone numbers was a feature that was unavailable
:30.640 --> :37.200
for this pay as you go plan so there was nothing I
could do as he spammed my phone one day he got mad
:37.200 --> :43.920
at me for some reason and spammed my phone with
memes he must have sent me over 100 lol cats over
:43.920 --> :49.800
text he kept sending them until I lost service
since my phone balance was depleted I had lost
:49.800 --> :56.680 the $40 remaining in my account as a result
I was extremely ticked and demanded that he
:56.680 --> :02.840
pay me the $40 he had cost me and he refused and
said it wasn't his problem I got home from school
:02.840 --> :08.080
really upset and told my dad about the situation
expecting him to go and tear Derrick's mother a
:08.080 --> :13.520
new one and demand the money but my dad said that
it wasn't worth the battle I even asked him about
:13.520 --> :18.040
a small claims court but he said that not all
battles are worth fighting and that the effort
:18.040 --> :24.800
wasn't worth $40 he took me to the carrier store
and loaded $50 onto the phone the carrier changed
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my phone number and they managed to block derk's
number they had initially said that blocking phone
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numbers wasn't possible with this plan but my dad
insisted and would not leave the store until they
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did it I was extremely paranoid about my phone
number being leaked and other kids spamming it to
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freak with me fortunately my parents got iPhones
that summer and got me one too and the new family
:48.600 --> :54.680
plan had an unlimited text plan nonetheless I was
ticked at the $40 he essentially stole from me out
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of malice fortunately not too long after there
was a big blowout between Derek and the rest
:00.280 --> :04.920
of the friend group at the end of the school year
and we permanently kicked him out of the group he
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was an outcast the following year in e8th grade
nobody was tolerating his crap anymore and he
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changed schools the year after and we never heard
from him again fast forward to a few years ago I
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was back home for a few months between graduating
college and starting a new job on the other side
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of the country I went out to some garage sales
one Saturday morning and I ended up at Derek's
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house I recognized his mother but I don't think
she recognized me I guess glasses and a beard
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is all you need I noticed some Pokemon napkins
out for sale and when I picked them up to look
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at them dereck's mom said that her son had been
obsessed with Pokemon for his whole life and that
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she was tired of Pokemon stuff occupying her home
for so many years I said that these napkins were
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from my younger cousin who's really into Pokemon
and asked if she had any more Pokemon stuff she
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said she didn't know people were still into that
and that there were a few boxes in the Attic with
:00.680 --> :06.720
her son's old stuff she actually took me inside
the house which I never imagined I'd set foot
:06.720 --> :12.560
inside ever again and let me climb up the attic
ladder and take down several large boxes to look
:12.560 --> :18.760
through the first one had Christmas ornaments in
it and other junk but I freaked out inside when
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she opened a box jam-packed with Pokemon video
games in the original boxes though I kept my
:26.480 --> :32.160
cool on the outside the whole reason I had agreed
to go inside in the first place was because I was
:32.160 --> :38.800
holding out hope of this exact scenario happening
see I knew Derek was obsessed with Pokemon our
:38.800 --> :44.080
friend group liked Pokemon back in the day even
when other kids thought it wasn't cool but Derek
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was on a whole different level he bragged about
his Pokemon collection all the time at the time he
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had every single main Series game in the original
box and in mint condition as he always had to add
:57.880 --> :03.000
in I went to his house once and he was showing me
his collection he yelled at me for touching one of
:03.000 --> :10.160
the games nobody was allowed to touch them except
him he had many older Nintendo games in excellent
:10.160 --> :16.400
condition but Pokemon was his favorite he had a
couple incidents with his mom damaging or throwing
:16.400 --> :22.520 away his things it wasn't out of malice but
just ignorance as she didn't think the games or
:22.520 --> :28.000
Collectibles had any value fast forward into the
present day I was thinking about this when I asked
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his mother if she had any other Pokemon stuff she
ended up bringing out the mother load we opened
:34.800 --> :41.040
all of the boxes she had me bring down within the
boxes there was the Beloved collection of Pokemon
:41.040 --> :48.080
games all very well preserved as well as several
Nintendo consoles hundreds of games two dozen
:48.080 --> :54.600
binders full of Pokemon cards and there was also a
box of many Lego sets with the original boxes and
:54.600 --> :02.160
everything with many old Star Wars sets when I saw
D Jango Fett I knew I struck gold I told her that
:02.160 --> :08.480
I like old Legos as well and asked her how much
for the five boxes of games cards and Lego sets
:08.480 --> :15.600
and she thought for a second and said $100 a box
or $400 for all five I told her I would take it
:15.600 --> :22.240
all and hauled butt to get to an ATM I loaded the
five boxes into my dad's truck and a immediately
:22.240 --> :28.720
drove home I knew there was potentially tens of
thousands of dollars of good here this was the
:28.720 --> :35.000
score of a lifetime and I finally felt Vindicated
for the $40 Derek had taken from me all those
:35.000 --> :40.840
years ago I ended up giving all the stuff to my
uncle who's a hobbyist eBay reseller he offered
:40.840 --> :45.600 to sell it all he was willing to go through
the effort and sell everything individually
:45.600 --> :50.720
and despite my insistence he said he wouldn't
take more than a 10% cut of the profits after
:50.720 --> :56.600
all fees and taxes we went through and logged
every single item along with the estimated
:56.600 --> :04.320
value and and the total of the whole lot was about
$40,000 $40,000 was a poetic number since this was
:04.320 --> :10.120
a thousand times the value of what Derek stole
from me all those years ago my uncle sold most
:10.120 --> :15.480
of the lot before the end of the summer and ended
up writing me a check though it was considerably
:15.480 --> :21.800
less than $40,000 it was still a life-changing
amount of money for me I was able to pay off my
:21.800 --> :28.080
remaining student loans and put the rest towards
a down payment on a new car man it really sucks to
:28.080 --> :33.760
make some enemies as a kid huh you know those kids
grow up and uh they get a little bit more powerful
:33.760 --> :38.880
sometimes I almost kind of feel bad for the mom
because they just didn't know the value of what
:38.880 --> :43.880
they had and I mean you can't help but feel bad
for Derek when they're inevitably going to come
:43.880 --> :50.960
back home and find out oh that oh yeah I sold it
for $400 just your life's collections being pwned
:50.960 --> :57.400
off for 400 measly bucks but with that being said
that's all the time we have for today now if you
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want to hear another crazy Revenge story check out
that video on the left or if you missed my latest
:03.200 --> :08.840
video check out that video on the right that said
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AIT for being brutally honest in therapy and then saying my dad can send me
somewhere else if that's what they decide I 16m live with my dad my younger
brother 13m and sister 12f and my dad's wife Gwen and her kids 7f and 5m my dad
and Gwen Got Married 2 years ago they had known each other slash were dating
for a year prior to that my mom died 7 years ago Gwen's ex took off when she
was pregnant with her son and neither kid knows him or his memories of it
Gwen's kids are not my sibling I do not love them or feel the same big brother
protectiv my relationship with them is very different than the one with my
actual sibling when we were younger I used to let them crawl into my bed if
they had a nightmare and dad was working nights and we had a babysitter I would
still let them sleep on the floor of my room if they wanted to for some reason
my brother did it once in the last year because he was being bullied at school I
hug my siblings and I will ruffle their hair and stuff but I don't do those
things with my stepsiblings and I wouldn't be comfortable with physical
affection toward them I speak to them I won't leave the room or refuse to let
them join me if I'm watching something but I'm not going to cuddle them on the
couch which they have asked and I don't play with them in my spare time the kids
have felt less loved because of this so my dad and Gwen wanted the three of us
to talk things through in therapy they said I have four siblings now and not
just two and all four should be treated the same I told them it wasn't going to
happen because I don't love my steps siblings or feel comfortable being that
close to them or showing them affection I said I will be nice I won't ignore
them or be mean to them but that my relationship with my actual siblings is
always going to be different to whatever develops between us in the future Gwen
snapped that I should say siblings for all four and instead of saying steps I
told her they are siblings and I don't think I'll ever think of them as actual
siblings she asked what about her and where she fits in I said she's my dad's
wife then she was like so I won't be mentioned as your parent when you
graduate and I said no the conversation turned to Gwen not wanting her kids
around such different treatment and discussions of if I should leave the
therapist was like wo stop talking like that but they ignored the therapist and
continued to discuss this in therapy in front of it when the therapist told them
we should be figuring out ways to live together with less hurt feelings and she
mentioned talking to Gwen's kids Gwen said she didn't want me in the house and
dad said he understood so I said Dad could send me somewhere else if he wants
and I won't fight that Dad was pissed off that I would prefer him to send me
away than Embrace Gwen and the kids is my real family he told me it's not what
Mom would have wanted and she would be ashamed of me I pointed out mom never
had a close relationship with her steep relatives either and saw them
differently to her real family a it | give me a good story on AITAforbeinghonestintherapyandthensayingmydadcansendmesomewhereelseifthats |
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AIT for telling my sister that I hate the name she's planning to use for my
niece using a throwaway because I don't want this attached to my real account I
30f have a younger sister 27f who's currently around 6 months pregnant with
her first child everyone is super excited for her and her husband
especially because she's the first of the two of us to give my parents a
grandchild recently she's been throwing around a lot of name ideas and she
called me the yesterday to tell me she thinks she is settled on something she
wants to name her child chyia but spelled cyia I honestly thought she was
kidding at first for obvious reasons that's the dumbest name idea
I've ever heard the names her and her husband had been talking about were a
little unique but nothing crazy like this I started laughing when she told me
and she immediately got pissed and said she wasn't kidding and knew I wouldn't
get it I asked her to explain why she thought naming her unborn child after an
STD was a good idea she said she'd seen posts of people saying it'd be a pretty
name and she laughed them off for a while but then thought that it actually
could be cute she said since it's being spelled differently people won't think
of the STD right away and would help get rid of the stigma around the name and
that it may even catch on I told her I hate the name and she's setting my niece
up for a lifetime of bullying she told me it's her decision and that I am being
her child's first bully by making fun on the name apparently her husband also
agrees with this name choice I guess it's not that surprising considering
he's up her ass all the time and will do whatever she wants we got off the phone
angry at each other I talked to my parents and they agree that it's
horrible but they don't want to talk to her about it because they don't want to
upset her they think she'll change her mind anyway my parents are are
encouraging me to reach out to her and apologize because at the end of the day
this is her decision and I shouldn't upset her while she's pregnant I
honestly think she's being ridiculous and her name choice is cruel but she
tends to hold grudges and I don't want to not be involved | give me a good story on AITAfortellingmysisterthatIhatethenameshesplanningtouseformyniece |
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hello everyone my name is Reid and this is story time today we are going to be
reading some malicious compliance stories so take a seat relax and enjoy
sorry I'm not a courier I work for a large shipping company in Canada I work
early in the morning loading trucks but as needed would go over and deliver
packages at first it was here and there but it soon became normal that after my
regular scheduled shift I would go out and deliver this wasn't a requirement of
my job I was basically doing it as a favor because it looks really bad on the
managers to have packages go undelivered
and I thought it would look good on me I did this for a few years without any
issue one winter one of the drivers at a
different Depot slipped and hurt himself while out delivering this caused a new
initiative to force all drivers to wear super slip proof boots that had glass
embedded in them these run about 250 bucks all of the drivers received
pouches that would cover the cost because they are requirements of doing
the job when I went to the manager to ask if I would be getting a voucher he
replied with no sorry you're not a courier and walked away I went and told
the other employees that were in a similar situation to mine and they were
pretty displeased the next day as usual after my shift the manager started
telling me the things I would be delivering that day I waited for him to
finish and responded with sorry I'm not a courier he looks very confused like he
didn't remember our conversation from the day before so I explained that I
wasn't going to go out delivering because I wouldn't have the proper
safety equipment he had that I just smelt a fart face and just looked at me
for a second he said if you just work a few extra shifts then you can afford to
buy the boots yourself I was actually stunned and didn't know what to say so
we just stared at each other for a minute I eventually replied sort of laughing
because of how ridiculous this is so you want me to work without the
safety equipment you made mandatory until I can afford to buy it for myself
he scoffed at me like a 14 year old girl and walked away without an answer
few others followed suit when the managers asked them to go out delivering
after their shifts they replied with sorry I'm not the courier after all was
said and done they had so many leftover packages a few companies started
dropping contracts which directly affects the managers end of year bonuses
they ended up having to give promotion to a lot of workers that were doing
double work for half the pay to cover all of the backlog so we all ended up
getting paid more to do leste and best of all we finally got our safety boots
I think Opie should try to get back paid for the past two years of extra work oh
I can only come in if I'm on the official schedule all right some back
story I took some time off of uni and got hired at a big-name retail store in
a local mall been working there for a while now and school starts up again so
I gave my two weeks as a courtesy my immediate manager says she's sorry to
see me go then asked me to come in on a certain day even though I'm not on the
schedule to finish up some inventory okay no problem
fast-forward to yesterday when I arrived
at work I got a clock in and then get an error huh my immediate manager comes
over with a really puzzled look on her face it overrides it odd
maybe scheduling just forgot to add me oh well two hours I'm lugging a massive
cart full of clothes across the store win big boss our store manager shows up
the conversation went something like this big boss why are you still here
didn't you give up your two weeks me well yes but the apartment manager asked
me to come in to finish inventory big boss she has more than enough people for
that and you aren't on the schedule stop
working and leave please queue malicious compliance I abandoned the cart right
there in the middle of the store and went to clock out fun fact one of my
co-workers had a mandatory hour-long break coming up that I would normally
fill in for since I couldn't that meant they had to find someone within 15
minutes guess who was the only employee on the floor big boss couldn't even go
up to his office to grab a water bottle because there was a massive line at our
station I walked out the store six hours early knowing the manager who
kicked me out needed to do my job for the next hour good times
once I put in a courtesy two weeks notice there's no way I'm coming in to
do extra work to help out with inventory Opie is a bigger person than me and for
that I applaud you follow hospital policy the patient must be brought down
in a bed I work as a Ward's Minh aka Porter in a
private hospital in Australia now you don't need any training to do this job
so we are pretty much the least qualified people at the hospital in an
industry where there are a lot of qualified people around doctors nurses
radiographers etc I think it's because of this that I got a lot of run-ins with
staff / patients who think I'm stupid because I'm just a Hordesmen or it could
be because I have a face like a stunned mullet I went to pick up a patient from
the ward to bring them down for an ultrasound department policy requires us
to bring the patient down in their bed for the exam this is a recent change and
was done so because sometimes patients aren't very mobile and require a lot of
assistance and the sonographers don't have the time getting every patient from
the wheelchair to exam table if they have low mobility so the policy was
instituted ultrasound patients come down in their bed this patient however was
coming down from the maternity ward in our hospital recently started offering
double beds so partners can stay with them overnight the issue with the double
bed is they don't fit through a lot of doorways especially in the older section
of the hospital so like the thoughtful young man I am I fetch a wheelchair I
chatted with the patient and the nurse to make sure they were well enough to
come down on the wheelchair everyone was happy the patient was very mobile and
was able to get up out of the bed and walk the length of the room to the
wheelchair unaided so I think to myself I don't have to worry about this new
policy because I know the reason behind it and this patient won't be an issue
I will the patient into the waiting Bay just as the sonographer walks out of her
exam room and she notices me bringing her patient down in a will
chair and not to bed she went off at me in the middle of the waiting room in
front of a couple nurses and patients how I should know better this is a waste
of her time policy is policy and you don't mess with policy especially if you
were just Awards Minh all I know she seemed a little upset she told me to
wheel her back and bring her down into bed instead she did not let me get a
word in during her tirade to explain and her command had a sense of finality to
it so I took the patient back to her room and asked if she minded if I took
her down in the bed she said she didn't mind but was concerned that her bed
wouldn't fit in the exam room I told her that I shared her concern and off we
went I had to take a slightly circuitous route to get to radiology because it's
located in the old part of the hospital and had narrow doorways I parked the bed
and two of the waiting bays didn't fit into one and knocked on the door and let
the sonographer know that her patient was here in her bed just as she asked
she told me to bring the patient straight into the room well about that I
walked out and stood facing the double bed yeah she's not gonna fit the
sonographer just stood there as the patient hopped out of the bed and walked
into the exam room and hopped up onto the exam table without any assistance I
feel like just a little bit more justice to the sonographer would have been
perfect but I guess the point still came across tell me to smile bet this isn't
what you meant after a long stressful day at school I was picked up by my dad
to go to his house my parents are divorced you could see in my face that I
was tired and just wanted to go home I was in the backseat staring out of the
window and my dad decided to say come on smile don't look so miserable
most people don't smile if they're tired or stressed common sense I had had
enough of being told to smile by anyone old men my parents etc so I decided I
would follow his request I put on the biggest craziest most Joker like smile I
could form and held it until I went to bed we had to stop at the shops to get
dinner everyone thought I was crazy for his worth it he was completely and
utterly embarrassed tried to get me to stop as we were getting stared at alas I
did not as I wanted to prove my point he has barely ever told me to smile ever
again as I do this to other people as well if people I don't know tell me to
smile I do my Joker smile o man o P that is true dedication right there I
probably would have done something like this but not really had the drive to
follow through as much as you did so that's off can't obey a street sign
can't obey the safety rules I used to work for a boat rental company and the
way the marina was set up the main shop and docks were at the bottom of a
loop-the-loop connected to a main road and a parking lot and was very clearly
marked as one way now a patron can get to the lot and the shop without going
the wrong way obviously whenever people would drive
down the wrong way which happened a lot I'd see them they would go the wrong way
to park at the mini lot by the shop or to get to the main lot a little bit
faster like only a couple seconds now because I can see them and since we're
the only agency of the kind in the area we kind of do whatever that being said
anytime someone came down the wrong way I would refuse them a rental they would
come in ask for our rental and since we have a lot of safety rules I'd say no it
went like would I be able to rent a pontoon for two hours I'm sorry but I'm
afraid I won't be able to due to the safety requirements oh wait what do you
mean well our company has strict safety policy and requires trustworthiness and
the ability to follow safety procedure and clear rules and this has to do with
me because well you demonstrated that you were unable to abide by clear rules
when you drove down the wrong way of a one-way are you freaking serious
completely have a nice day and that job was the best we were told not to take
any crap because where the heck else are they gonna go as the nearest lake with
the marina was 40 miles away to clarify we only did this to customers that were
rude I gave free ice cream to old to counter my customer self-defense this
is also a really good example of if you don't think anyone's watching you should
probably still just do the right thing anyways you never know you get what you
paid for I had a customer call for a repair on a diesel engine in a front-end
loader his operator diagnosed it as blower seals leaking oil I went out and
checked it myself and diagnosed it as wrist pin seals not the blower he
insisted the operator was right and that I was wrong he wanted me to fix the
blower seals I gave him an estimate and marked on the
invoice the blower seals were not the problem that the wrist pin seals were
bad so I replaced the complete blower with a remanufactured unit turned the
engine and he paid me a week later he called and complained that it was still
using oil he said his operator told him the blower
gaskets were installed improperly so I went there and took the engine apart
again but before I would remove the blower I made him stand there while I
did it when the blower was off I asked if the gaskets look right he said they
did I told him the problem was the wrist
pin seals like I said to begin with so I
started packing up my tools he wanted me to put it back on I said are you going
to pay me again and he said no so I left I guess he had to get someone else to
put it back together and install the wrist pin seals I used to work at this
job that had some really finicky equipment so I got to know a lot of the
field service technicians that came in to diagnose the problems and do the
fixes they always had some great horror stories about how they would come in and
people would act like they knew what the problem was even though they diagnosed
it as something else it's actually a very tough job because you have to like
go into a company of people you don't know and they're telling you one thing
even though you know it's the other thing so you can't really offend them
but you still have to try and fix the problem somehow those people are cut
from a different cloth than I am because I would definitely get way too
frustrated with the customers that's all the stories we have for today so if you
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welcome friends to another r slash am i the jerk video we've got some
hard-hitting questions today and our first one's from an anonymous poster am
i the jerk for being rude to a friend who wouldn't stop giving her opinions on
adoption i 30 year old female am adopted my parents have been incredibly open
about this my whole life i wouldn't be able to pinpoint a time i was told it's
just the fact that i've always known about myself and i've never once felt
like i was any less loved or treated differently to my parents biological
children nor did my siblings treat me any different to each other i realize
how fortunate i am to have had the life i've had and realize this isn't the case
for everyone but i digress i have a colleague jenny who ever since she found
out i was adopted won't stop bringing it up she'll always ask personal questions
about it which is fine i have no problem telling my backstory but she's recently
taken to asking my opinion on hypothetical scenarios and then using it
as a platform to state her views for example one time she asked me if i had
the choice would i have my own children or adopt as well i could barely answer
before she was telling me all about how she could never adopt because she'd
never be able to see them as her own child yesterday she asked me if my
parents ever considered giving me back after they had biological children this
just really pissed me off as it could be
a triggering question for some people so i told her to mind her own business and
freak off with her terrible opinions which others tell me really upset her i
don't think i'm the jerk but others in my team said i should have been more
sensitive to her and explained why our questions are inappropriate instead of
biting her head off and making the whole team dynamic awkward this is definitely
a really weird situation would you guys agree that op is totally right to act
that way or do you think gop should have taken a more careful approach
considering this person doesn't really know the etiquette and just explained
how awful of a question that was let me know what you guys think in the comments
down below our next story is from an anonymous poster am i the jerk for not
having empathy for my friend who sent naughty pictures to a stranger my friend
matched with the guy on tinder she told me he was amazing and sweet and she
couldn't wait to meet him irl but he lived pretty far away then after texting
for about two weeks they shared some photos apparently his were just pictures
he downloaded from the internet but she sent real ones with her face visible he
then proceeded to threaten her to leak the pics online and also share them at
her workplace if she doesn't send him new pics on a daily basis she blocked
his number and his account on social media but he created new ones and
spammed her i don't get why she sent him pics after two weeks and why she chose
to keep her face in them instead of blurring it or cropping it after she
told me i tried comforting her and offering my help but she kept saying how
unfair this is and that she felt used by
him after thinking he was a decent guy i told her it was a stupid idea from the
beginning and she should have known better since something similar already
happened to her friend before also in this day and age don't you hear enough
horror stories about stuff like this to know you shouldn't do it she got mad
that i didn't have empathy and doesn't really speak to me anymore am i the jerk
for not having empathy with her i'm gonna say ops not the jerk here because
i don't think they did anything wrong here first and foremost op said that
they were there for them and they tried comforting them and offering their help
and i think beyond that it was just a case of what the friend's looking for
versus how ops feeling or thinking i don't think gop is a jerk but i can
understand why their friend's frustrated when if they're only there looking for
some consoling and some listening and in return they get a well wasn't it a
stupid idea i don't know was opie the jerk here let me know our next story is
from apprehensive top 8340 am i the jerk
for leaving my husband at home while our kids and i went on a mini vacation all
week we had been talking about going a couple hours out of town to get out of
the house he brought it up but wanted me
to plan everything out we couldn't agree on what to do but knew where we were
going the morning of the day we were to leave today he asks me when we were
going to leave i tell him i'm going to work out and shower and then i'll be out
he swore at me saying that meant we probably weren't going to go after i
showered i then began to make sure my things and my two boys things were all
packed while i also got myself and the two boys dressed my husband sat on the
couch the entire time he came to me halfway through and asks if there's
enough room in my tiny luggage for his things as well
but i told him no because i had the boys and my things in there this is tiny
enough for an airplane carry-on he walks
away i then load everything into the car
and put shoes on the boys and my husband sits on the couch i ask him if he has
his stuff to put in the car he says no and that he didn't think i wanted him to
go and says have a nice trip while crying i look at him and think to myself
you sat on the couch the entire time and did not help me whatsoever you couldn't
even pack your own things all he had to do was bring me his things and i could
have packed it for him i refused to pick
out clothes for a grown man so i left it took him eight hours to text me to even
make sure we were alive he didn't even have to check on me but you'd think he'd
want to check on his children addon that's not the only bag we have to pack
things we tend to take several different bags on trips i asked for help two
different times to get the boys ready and i also stated that we would be
leaving shortly after i exercised normally 30 minutes and showered opie i
think is definitely not the jerk and i think this husband is a huge man-child
with some kind of issue the fact that they can see you actively packing and
getting the kids ready and your stuff ready and just sits there and then at
the very end is like well i guess you didn't want me to go it's like you don't
even seem like you want to go our next story is from cute ad 263
am i the jerk for banning sister-in-law from easter party because of the stunt
she pulled on our daughter's birthday i'm 40 year old female my husband 41
year old male has a half sister who's 30. she's not my favorite and my husband
isn't crazy about her either she's always involved in a different
multi-level marketing every time we see her she quits every other job she has
after a month asks us for money and has a new boyfriend every time we see her
our daughter 13 has always been crazy about her though she's the fun aunt
there's been numerous other times we've been upset with her because of something
she said or did around our daughter that we found inappropriate but her 13th
birthday takes the cake this happened two weeks ago our daughter turned 13 and
what sister-in-law decided to do for her was to take her to the mall so she can
buy her some clothes she wants no problem with that at all but the secret
present is what husband and i have flipped over turns out she took our
daughter to one of her friend's apartments who pierced her belly button
i found out when i found daughter disinfecting it a few days later our
daughters expressed wanting this to her dad and i and we firmly said no my
husband thinks they're trashy and i sort
of agree maybe when she's a little older if that's really what she wants but 13
no way also sister-in-law didn't take her to a place that does piercings she
just had her friend do it how do we know that her friend knows what she's doing
how do we know her materials are clean horribly disrespectful and dangerous in
our opinion because of this we're not allowing sister-in-law at our house for
easter our daughter's upset and sister-in-law is raging at my husband at
the end of the day she took our daughter to do something that we firmly said no
to and potentially put her at harm we also aren't going to allow our daughter
to go with her aunt alone anywhere anytime soon are we jerks for this i
don't think they're the jerks for that i think it's very understandable even
necessarily not because of the piercing itself but because of the lack of
respect and concern for you knowing even what you're doing with your 13 year old
kid also i'm kind of curious if somebody really was like dead set on wanting a
belly button piercing how old do you think they should be before they're even
allowed to get that was the kid in the story way too young to even be getting a
belly button piercing let me know what you guys think in the comments down
below this next story is from important enough 05 am i the jerk for telling my
parents i'm not my sibling's mom i 16 year old female am the oldest of four
kids as the oldest sister a lot of responsibility is placed on me two of my
siblings 13 year old female and 9 year old male are old enough to care for
themselves however my parents have had a baby female in 2019 and she's now three
since the day she was born it's been my responsibility to watch her which i have
no problem with but sometimes it gets tiresome don't get me wrong i love all
my siblings and i try to do my best for them but i'm so tired when it comes to
my three-year-old sister i'm expected to bathe feed and help her get potty
trained but bear in mind when i get off school i have to go to work three days
of the week and then come home and take care of my sister which barely gives me
any time for myself i've complained to my parents multiple times i'm tired of
watching their child but it's always when i was your age i was watching my
little siblings no matter what i do it's always you're the oldest you should be
able to handle it be the role model fine
however a few weeks back it was a sunday
night around 9pm and i was in my bedroom doing my hair when my parents called me
into the kitchen they asked me to get my three-year-old sister and watch her so
they could watch tv because she was being too loud playing with her toys i
told them i couldn't because it was getting pretty late and i had to finish
my hair for school tomorrow my mother snapped at me and told me that i needed
to get my sister so they could have peace my dad's a truck driver and my
mother works at an insurance agency but she works from home so i get it they can
be tired after a long day but this day my father had gotten off work early
around 2 pm and my mother logs off at 5 30 pm but i also have other siblings
that are capable of watching her too so why me i then told her that my sister is
not my responsibility and that i wasn't the one who conceived her and gave birth
my father then joined the argument and took my mom's side saying that i was a
lazy witch that should be helpful because my parents get tired of working
24 7 and need a break i was so heated that i told my parents i'm not my
sibling's mom and i refused to watch my sister i then proceeded to walk away and
shut my door and continued getting ready the next morning my mom and dad were
saying that i'm a jerk for not helping my parents out when they're so tired and
need to relax i told my friends what happened when i got to school and they
said i wasn't in the wrong but i can't help but to feel guilty for what i did
so am i the jerk op is definitely not the jerk what they're doing already and
what they've done already is like way more than they ever should have
expected of them the fact that there is one night where you're doing your hair
and you're getting ready for bed your parents are there and they've been off
work since mid-afternoon and they still can't find it in their hearts to let you
just take off for the night watching their kid it's kind of ridiculous i know
they're tired but you can't just take off parenting well you can if you want
to be a terrible parent our next story is from potentialbeat3757
am i the jerk for trying to get my fiancee to convert for me i was raised
by a modern orthodox jewish family in queens new york city which is a scary
thing to say on reddit my mother 62 year old female is a first generation
immigrant the teen parents who escaped from germany in the late 30s and early
40s my grandparents who are 99 and 100 years old my father's a soviet immigrant
who came from what was then the ussr to the states as a child with his mother
and siblings while i 25 year old male don't really live in the modern orthodox
communities anymore and moved out of the states for university when i was 18 i'm
still a practicing jew just to give a lower level than i once was and i'm
engaged to an irish catholic woman i met at university who i'll call eve 26 year
old female even i met in freshers week and have been together since halfway
through first year eve's parents are both irish going back centuries and eve
was born and raised in ireland as well as growing up very strictly catholic
going to catholic schools and mass and having catholic ideals implanted in her
eve identifies as atheist spiritual slash pagan now and has
completely disconnected herself from her catholic faith my parents and eve's
parents do not get on as you would imagine eu's parents wanted to marry a
nice irish catholic boy not a first and second gen european immigrant and
immigrant from the states my parents want eve to convert to judaism for me as
their faith is very important to them and they fought so hard for it and they
want jewish grandchildren eve has no plans to convert for me and i'm fine
with that i have no plans to convert for her neither of our parents are thrilled
but even i are in love and live several hundreds of miles away from both our
parents i have several friends from my shule whose wives have converted for
their marriage and it's starting to make me doubt myself does eve really love me
if she won't convert for our marriage is eve not converting prove she's still
attached to her catholic faith i also feel a hole in my heart many of my
relatives died because they were jewish and there's not many of us left do i
really love eve more than i want to have jewish children and grandchildren and
continue my family line so long we've been killed for it and as things are
getting more serious i would like to have more children with jewish parents i
could still raise them as such but it wouldn't be the same i asked eve if she
would ever consider it and she blew up at me calling me a jerk for even
suggesting it as i've brought it up before and she said no i think i've
reached a place where i can't marry her even though i love her because my
lineage is very important to me we've been together for years and it'll break
both our hearts so am i the jerk for trying to get my fiance to convert for
me i think more or less it's not really about whether you're a jerk or not it's
about whether you're compatible if you're going to try and force them to
convert for you or put a pressure on them then yeah i think you are the jerk
sadly if it's something that is just such a contingency i don't know if it'll
work out but forcing that when very clearly eve does not want to does make
you a jerk our next story is from an anonymous poster am i the jerk for
telling off my deceased husband's attention-seeking ex my husband of 10
years died six months ago in a car accident and recently his girlfriend
from high school found out and posted a sympathy message on facebook stating how
great of a guy he was and how sorry she was to hear and her prayers go out to
his beautiful family normally this wouldn't have bothered me so much but
this woman was a constant sore spot in our relationship she was my exact
opposite i'm dominican and grew up poor and she's a spoiled blonde who grew up
wealthy she dated them for over a year but hid their relationship from her
racist parents who despised him for being hispanic during their senior year
she suddenly breaks up with him with zero explanation in a letter and
immediately moves on with a wealthy classmate who's obviously
parent-approved this hurt my husband so much that he dropped out of school to
avoid seeing her i met him soon after but he never got over it or her even
years later something as simple as seeing her on social media would put him
into a depression for days so seeing her posting on this memorial page after
causing him to quit school set me off and i simply told her that if she
thought so highly of him in death perhaps she should have treated him
better in life most of my friends and family support this but a few have told
me i'm being unreasonable am i the jerk here by defending my husband from
someone who hurt him i'm gonna say op is
the jerk i think their feelings are very emotionally charged and i think it's
bringing up just bad memories seeing anything from them but what they said
wasn't inherently bad you don't have to defend your husband when there's nothing
to defend him from in that situation our next story is from massive cell 9959
am i the jerk for refusing to help a co-worker who moved out of state i work
in an office setting most of us were allowed to work remotely two years ago
my co-worker jill ended up moving from san diego to utah because the cost of
living is cheaper in utah than san diego she's living quite well she'll had
someone who volunteered to help her with office stuff like her mail so it worked
out great for her i never liked jill because she took advantage of me when i
started and never apologized or made it right she also threw me under the bus
the person who helped your left and are companies requiring staff to come back
to the office twice a week jill panicked because she obviously can't fly from
utah to california every week our boss said he was fine with her working
remotely because she can do 95 of her job at home as long as she has someone
to handle her office stuff like mail guess who she asked i asked her why she
was asking me and she said i was nice and i'm in the office regularly then i
asked her what i was going to get she was confused i said i understood how
valuable it would be if i helped her but i'm not doing it for free because i'm
not a nice person i don't care if she's in a different state i'm busy enough i
don't over anything i don't work for her i don't have to help her and quite
frankly i really didn't like her i'm not saying no but what is she going to do
for me all she said was that we're a team and that i'm in the office so i
said sorry i'm too busy now she's coming up with plan b's that are being shot
down by hr and compliance honestly i would have settled for a gift card every
now and then it befuddles me how some beggars want to be choosers there's a
few instances that led to me cutting her off i had just started and she would
dump her work on my desk at the last minute i wasn't hired to help her then
she started promising that i would do stuff for other people without asking me
the worst was when she asked me to mail out paperwork that she prepared her work
was all wrong and she blamed me for not checking her work that was like four
months into the job and i never got a single thanks i told
her off and she found another sucker i think opie's definitely not the jerk and
honestly in jill situation i feel like this is like a well you don't know if
you don't ask type situation what else are they gonna do see if you can get
some free work out of somebody obviously opie's not the jerk for refusing to do
that our next story is from grow petter am i the jerk for keeping a caged dove
at my shop and letting kids pet it i 26 year old female consider myself an
animal lover there was a wedding a few months ago near my shop because there's
a really beautiful place nearby for pictures they let some white doves fly
for the ceremony or the pictures i saw them fly around and thought they'd be
taken back in or something but that wasn't the case the street cats had some
for lunch and some flew away one particularly chubby one was flying
around like a hen clearly failing to take off i thought it would get run over
so i felt that and took it in i called the company and asked if they wanted it
back and they said they had no obligation to take it back because it's
not an invasive species and they weren't coming back for the one i called animal
control same response try to adopt it out but it's not really considered a pet
not in my country at least i sell trinkets but i didn't want to keep it
free in the shop so i bought the biggest cage and set a minute before i open and
after i close i let it out and it wobbles around a vet told me it would
never fly because it's grown caged and its muscles haven't developed properly i
let some kids pet it and it enjoys the attention for sure a lady came in
yesterday and she was out of her mind mad that the birds in a cage and called
me horrible i tried to explain but she just scoffed and went to look around a
client asked me for something and i lost her from sight for about five minutes
when i glanced back up my dove was gone i ran out and i saw the woman
dramatically throwing it in the air the bird awkwardly flopped on the floor and
ran back to the shop like there's no tomorrow she kept fuming calling me a
horrible person and an abuser and went away she left a bad review there was
another customer that complained am i the jerk i think i'm doing what's best
for it i think ops not the jerk there's probably some kind of scenario that you
can find for it like a rehabilitation thing
but the next best thing is making sure that the quality of life isn't outright
horrendous i mean it's either opie do that for them in a cage and let them out
and let them experience some stuff and feed them or let them out on the street
until a wild cat comes and rips its head
off our next story is from seagoat888 am
i the jerk my boyfriend won't let me sit on his couch my boyfriend just moved
into a new place and bought a new couch it's beautiful and comfortable and he's
very proud of it we woke up today and worked out a couple hours after we biked
the store and home the temperature's about 70 fahrenheit with low humidity so
i didn't break a sweat he was cleaning up for about 30 minutes and then noticed
i was on it turns to me and tells me to get off the couch because i'm dirty i
got off but i think this is ridiculous i've been on it already for 30 minutes
anyways how much dirtier am i going to make it it really bothers me that i
don't feel comfortable in his home who's the jerk in the situation if anyone i
don't know this is a really tough one because
without being upfront about not wanting to get it dirty you're going over to
your boyfriend's place you just want to sit down but i also get it from his
perspective it's a brand new couch and then somebody's working out and came
home and sat on it i'm gonna say o.p is not the jerk because it's a couch you're
gonna sit on it it's probably going to get dirty and there was no mention of it
beforehand our next story is from an anonymous poster am i the jerk for
blowing up on my mom when she didn't go along with the plan to make mother's day
about my wife this year my wife and i had our first baby 10 months ago so this
is her first mother's day as a mom we talked about expectations and she said
that she wants the actual day to be about her from now on because our moms
both had plenty of mother's days and our nuclear family takes priority for some
background mother's day usually consists of splitting the day between the two
families my mom picks what she wants for the day and sometimes it isn't even
kid-friendly this is her second grandchild my sister who's a mom does
some stuff in the morning with her family but then everything else is about
my mom also my mom and wife really don't
like each other my mom doesn't act on it
but they've never liked each other and i can see them both physically cringing
when they're together i can get that i was a little nervous about how both of
our families would react my mother-in-law is having a hard time with
it but said she agrees my mother-in-law picked another date for us to celebrate
her though and it was all good i told my mom and she said it was fine but my
stepdad was making comments under his breath i asked my mom what alternative
dates she wanted and she said she doesn't celebrate things on other days
and i can do whatever i want but if i don't want to come to the family thing
she isn't going to have a fake mother's day just for us i tried explaining that
it would still be a celebration and we want to do something for her my mom said
it was fine and she didn't want to then my younger sister walked in and my
stepdad was like do you know what this jerk is doing my sister began yelling at
me so i was blunt that my wife takes priority now and i refuse to one make
her uncomfortable two spend mother's day
at a winery when kids can't drink my mom
told us all to shut up and went into the kitchen i followed her and asked if she
was hurt and she said no but she doesn't like to open up i explained that we
wanted to do something so please pick another day and she said she already
said no and leave her alone i knew my wife was going to take that badly so
honestly i lost my temper a bit and screamed at her that she's acting like a
two-year-old she's always selfish picking stuff that inconveniences the
actual kids and she doesn't even deserve much because she's a lame grandmother
never visits never helps i did apologize right after but she was just like okay
and rolled her eyes i'm gonna say everybody in this situation is a jerk it
just seems like there's so much dysfunction nobody can agree on anything
there's no compromising from either side
whatsoever there's a vicious claws being drug out petty things being said
underhanded things to make them upset top to bottom there's some dysfunction
our next story is from seeing ghosts act 2 am i the jerk for proving a point to
my friend and making her pay up on our bet alright so this is stupid but it's
turned into a problem for our friend group so i 26 year old male am single
and so is a lot of my friend group we tend to talk about our relationships
pretty openly as we're a tight crew so me and my friend jenny 27 year old
female tend to always take the opposite point of view on things eileen
conservative and she's very much left-leaning she's a feminist and very
vocal about social issues we always keep things civil and friendly we're good
friends but kind of rivals if that makes sense the friend group loves to get the
two of us going so recently i was dating a girl casually after a few dates she
said she wasn't feeling a spark but really wanted to stay friends i told her
she was a very nice person but i didn't see us being friends
the girl and jenny know each other so i think jenny found out about it so jenny
asked in front of the friend group why i didn't want to stay friends with said
girl i said i just didn't really view her as a friend this started the whole
debate on whether guys and girls can be friends i said that yes they could be
but not if the original goal was a romantic one she said that i was wrong
and that she had plenty of guy friends who were once potential relationships i
said bs that those guys are on a roster waiting for a chance she said i was
wrong and started calling me a jerk i've said it simple facts that unless they
were always just friends that those guys
would jump at the chance to hook up with her if given the chance we were
pre-gaming to go out so our whole friend group debated on this for over an hour
jenny kept getting pissed at me individually though saying how insulting
it is to imply guys are only her friends to get in her pants i said maybe not
every guy but a majority of those dudes on her roster are waiting for a call up
she said wanna bet i said sure let's do it i said text three of your closest guy
friends that you're lonely and want to hook up i'll bet that two of the three
of them will show up within 30 minutes she laughed and said how much this is
easy money we agreed on 100 and the friend group got super invested
in this bet well she sent out the text and all three dudes start texting her
asking when she wanted them to come over she got all upset and went to the
bathroom i read the room and didn't make
fun of her once she came back but i told
her she needed to pay up she told me she wasn't paying because it was a stupid
bet that proved nothing i said that i would have paid if i was wrong so she
needed to pay up on her bet the guys all
agree that she made the bed and needs to pay up the girls are saying i'm being a
jerk about it i think it's all fair because she took the bet confident that
she would win and i'm sure if i was wrong and didn't want to pay i'd be
getting roasted for it am i the jerk i'm gonna say both sides are the jerks here
i think both sides are being very argumentative and in that situation they
just found out three of their friends who they thought were friends are
secretly just hoping for a hookup session so like you might be entitled to
that money but like give them a minute to kind of get over it and cope you have
plenty of time to go badger them for the hundred dollars every so often and you
have plenty of witnesses so like let them process everything and then get
that hundred dollars later and our final story of the day is by throwaway 666
with a lot of zeroes am i the jerk for kicking my friend out of my bedroom so
my wife could take a nap so i 28 year old male have a wife 27 year old female
who works full time as a cna while she's in school to become an autopsy
technician she works a lot she's constantly picking up extra shifts
working doubles and even triples she does all that on top of going to school
full time because of that she often takes a nap after work well yesterday i
had a friend over who i'll call e my wife and e do not get along as e makes
her uncomfortable but she and i don't prevent one another from seeing friends
just because one of us doesn't like the other's friend he was over at mine at my
wife's house playing video games when my wife calls to tell me she's on her way
home from work she sounds exhausted and i asked her if she felt okay to drive
and if not i'd come pick her up from work and go back together in the car
later she says she's fine to drive and that she'll see me later i said okay and
told her that i loved her e and i go back to playing video games it's worth
mentioning that the only tv my wife and i have is in our bedroom i was laying on
the bed playing and e was sitting in my desk chair about 15 minutes later or so
i hear my wife come in the house and call out to let me know she was home i
come into the living room and give her a kiss she all but collapses into my arms
exhausted to the point that she couldn't even walk to the bedroom i asked her if
she's okay and she says yeah just a long
day at work i really need a nap i nodded
and told her to come lay down on the bed when we get to the bedroom i politely
tell e that he needed to leave as my wife was exhausted
and we could play later that night he asks why he has to leave and why my wife
just can't sleep while he and i keep playing i explained that it was just a
game and that my wife and her needs came first he then asks why my wife couldn't
just take a nap on our living room couch i told him i wasn't making her sleep on
the sofa just because he wanted to keep playing he gets pissed and slams his
controller down on the dresser and goes to leave before he does he turns to my
wife and tells her i'll bet you're happy he always feels like he has to pick you
over anyone else he leaves and slams the door on the way out my wife turns to me
and starts to apologize saying she could have just slept on the couch i tell her
no she couldn't have and told her to get some rest later that night my other
friends were blowing up my phone saying things along the lines of bros before
hoes and saying it was rude to kick e out just so my wife could sleep all of
my married friends however are on my side saying my wife's needs come first
before my friends he's now saying he won't speak to me until i apologize so
am i the jerk i think op is definitely not the jerk i think their friend e is a
man-child and can't understand that some things are more important than their
gaming session and god forbid somebody who's working super hard has to take a
nap in their bed just put a pause on it resume it later and move on with your
life stop being a petty jerk but with that being said that's all the time we
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what screams I'm poor but pretending to be rich a base model luxury car like a
BMW 220i or 320i an nbcla an Audi base level A3 or A4 Etc they will go around
touting I drive a BMW but they likely have it on lease and are overpaying for
what the car provides and they're paying out for insurance at least twice a week
I have someone on the phone unable to understand why the quoted premium for
their BMWs almost 50% higher than the quote for the other cars in their
household it's because not only are BMWs expensive to repair but statistically
BMW drivers are reckless in the road I mean the 20i engine is what 180
horsepower but it has the badge of BMW and they bank and the fact that most
people don't know cars that well so they can pretend to be fancy now this isn't
everyone who drives those cars some people just like the styling of the car
but didn't want to pay real luxury car prices so they got the cheapest model
they could but those are rare because most of them can get a much better deal
with a Toyota Camry and people who actually like BMW as a car company
actual car enthusiasts would rather get a used 35 engine at least where I live
you see a lot of these base model leas driving around it makes you chuckle it's
always driven by the same guy too the guy who has an air of I'll be your boss
soon enough but he looks like he's barely recovered from his weekend of
partying as he drives to his cubicle story two going out for a big fancy meal
to a nice restaurant and dressed to the nines you show up an hour and a half
late order the cheapest stuff on the menu complain that the soda is flat and
the hopes that it'll be calmed refuse to drink anything because it's expensive
take 45 5 minutes to figure out the bill because the restaurant can't split
checks and you've got to dig in your bag for that extra $10 bill have several
cards Decline and then not tip and all throughout the night being more
interested in taking pictures in the beautiful restaurant to post on
Instagram and pretend that you live like this all the time than enjoying the
actual food this happens at my workplace every single weekend we started putting
the gratuiti on any tables that fulfilled a certain checklist because we
knew we'd get screwed otherwise for real I once served a table like this where
the girl's card was declined when I brought it back to tell her what had
happened she already knew because the bank texted her she was only then moving
money from savings into checking on her phone and I happened to see over her
shoulder that she had $38 in checking who the hell goes out to a Manhattan
Steakhouse with $38 in the bank Story three how Dominican families fight to
the nail to give their kids Nike or Adidas before they can even walk I work
with someone who's married to a Dominican and they're constantly in tens
of thousands of dollars in credit card debt because both of them need to have
the latest everything it's constant photos and social media of the whole
family new clothes and the latest gadgets and then she cries at work about
not being able to afford the mortgage sometimes I just don't get it the reason
I included the cultural aspect is also because this colleague tells me they
send money to the Dr all the time so that other families can buy stuff too
that I always ask why not send money for education and maybe investing but I'm
always told that the money is used for designer clothes and shoes most of the
time being seen in expensive clothes in a fancy car at a hip restaurant is the
goal of Dominican socialites it doesn't matter if you have money or not I've
seen people drive poor Cayenne SUVs but then live with their parents also people
send money back home for two reasons the family needs it or they're flexing the
dollar or any currency to be honest has more purchasing power over there story
four my partner is a financial service manager at a car dealership her job in a
nutshell is to submit your credit card application to the banks to get
financing for your car your credit score will affect your car's interest rate in
which bank and what amount of Bank who's willing to lend you I feel like the
world's biggest equalizer is when you Equifax report opens on a computer screen
I know this is obvious to People Like Us on PFC but it isn't obvious to the
majority of people who will walk through a dealership trying to buy their dream
car a customer came in wanting to purchase a used 2012 Acura sedan it was
dressed to the nines with a big Louis Vuitton belt leather shoes a sweater
cardigan a fresh haircut you name it the customer was in their late 20s and had
to get their near retired mother to co-sign for the car my partner was
wearing a belt from a luxury brand if the customer commented and how that belt
didn't look like it cost much and he could buy one of those I have more
stories from experience but they don't fit the topic of the conversation but I
will say this you won't believe how many
people's credit scores are less than 650 some families don't own their house in
their rich neighborhood they're rented they lease their luxury cars and live
paycheck to paycheck with no savings whatsoever the credit scores ruined
because they can be slightly delinquent on these items but they won't get into
collections or repossession territories so only their credit score is impacted
they typically come from immigrant backgrounds where her face is a huge
deal Story five the cousins technically my cousin and his wife had a nice house
a brand new workshop garage and a used but $40,000 camping trailer they then
moved to a brand new home before selling their old place both had next to New
one-year-old vehicles I thought wow especially when she quit her job to do
an MLM they had two kids by then so it made sense for her to stay home rather
than pay for daycare for two kids which here is more than $2,000 a month I
presumed she made a ton of her office job and he cleaned up as a drywaller
tons of work for him in our city later I came to know that one of their parents
had to buy their original House when it didn't sell so that my cousins could
have a mortgage in the new house the parents are now landlords of a house
halfway across the city and the trailer money all came from my grandmother I
believe it was or is a loan rather than a gift but I can't believe they went to
the 80s something old lady for cash I presume their vehicles were on long-term
loans as well that much unnecessary debt makes me feel ill sure I'd love a new
car over my 12-year-old one but my car still runs just fine that's 400 to $800
a month saved a new house or renovating mine would be heaven but my house is
safe fairly spacious for a size family and while not pretty or updated isn't
ugly I don't even know how much I saved per month and while I can see a trailer
being important to them because as a family they Camp every weekend I'm
pretty sure there's one cheaper than $440,000 story six I live in a region
with a huge mining industry miners get paid really well with almost no
expertise needed and they get huge production bonuses I've seen this exact
situation more times than I can count a 20-year-old guy started mining with
overtime and a bonus he gets 120 or 150,00 a year so he dranks in parties
paying a $500 bar tab every weekend he gets a girlfriend and he buys a house
she gets pregnant so he pays for a huge wedding not long after she gets pregnant
again so he gets a bigger house then he keeps getting money so he buys a huge
pickup truck a smaller car for the wife an ATV a snowmobile and a boat he trades
those in for newer models every few years all of this while paying the
minimum payment and everything so he takes forever to actually own any asset
his children go to school so he complains a bit I didn't go to school
and make good money but pays for their college and university around 55 years
old he gets into a small accident or develops a condition that prevents him
from working so he starts getting disability pay since he barely finished
high school if fat all he has trouble getting other work so he starts selling
his toys one by one he ended up retiring very poor because he never put much
money to the side as he was always neck deep in payment sometimes if the metal
price dips mindes close down and some guys even go into bankruptcy because
they have to default on so many loans all that despite a great salary in a
region with a very low cost of living story seven that's easy I'd say credit
cards I've known people who order food for delivery almost every day and buy
new electronics constantly they also tend to be the types who say they don't
have money but then the next day there's another skip the dishes bag at the door
someone told me their minimum payment for the credit card and I had to stop
myself from saying what out loud I recently looked at some average Consumer
Debt statistics the amount was mindboggling to me but it's so
normalized I have several friends who actually don't have credit cards or any
sort of access to to a credit line because they know that if they got
carried away they could never pay it back hell I know people who make good
money who will never pay back their cards as long as they continue the
lifestyle they're living the thing is that's normal all around me I'll hear
things like I'm waiting for X until I finish paying off my line of credit or
they'll tell me they paid off their credit but 5 months later they're
overleveraged again it's so accepted in Canadian Society to just be in debt I
know a lot of people making minimum payments for using rap and their student
loans because I guess the loan will be forgiven after 10 or 15 years so of
those people make more than I did when I started paying off my student loans I
know people who are anxious when they get laid off because their line of
credit's monthly interest is high enough
that they need income to keep paying for it and so on and so forth at the end
it's not really worth looking at and gloating over someone else's situation
even though who doesn't like feeling like they're more responsible sometimes
just know your goals and don't let yourself get carried away many people
who are seemingly living a better life than you are also Meed in debt and not
all of them are happy about that some deal with chronic unhappiness or
depression so they spend money to make the pain go away it doesn't work you
can't fill a hole in your heart by throwing money at it but they sure do
try I've known a lot of people like that since we're halfway through and you're
obviously enjoying the content so far hit that like button and subscribe for
more flexing gone wrong stories story8 I'm not entirely sure if this belongs
here but here goes I work as a host in a
small restaurant with average prices $10
to $15 a plate plus drinks Etc yesterday two middle-aged women with generic care
and haircuts pulled up in new Mercedes came in and immediately became outraged
that we had a waiting list due to being understaffed in the middle of a lunch
rush I offered to put them on the list and one of them pulled out her credit
card showed it to me and assertively said okay are you going to see us now I
assumed that she had one of those Limitless cards which I literally
couldn't care less about and told her that it didn't matter and she' just have
to wait they went and stood outside even though we had set up chairs so people
could sit where they waited and glared at me the entire time the kept coming in
and asking why I couldn't seat them which I answered with a truthful answer
being terribly understaffed as two servers cook had been injured in a car
accident that morning they're fine no major injuries but the car was total
eventually after a 20-minute wait I called them and seat them on the patio
they proceed to order about $80 worth of food and drinks going so far as to pour
their first round of bloody marries onto
the ground just to prove the unfortunate
people around them that they didn't care about the cost of their food then when
they were given their bill they waited until the server went back inside then
ran out of the patio gate hopped in their car and drove away without paying
unfortunately for them Karen had decided
to back into her parking space out front with her license plate clearly visible
to the outside security camera a police report was then immediately filed by my
manager it was a good day story 9 I used to sell cars at a premium automakers
dealership one day a middle-aged couple arrived for their scheduled appointment
the wife twirling her Mercedes keys entered with an air of disdain while the
husband was notably pleasant as we discussed options for the car they were
interested in the wife's Behavior grew increasingly disrespectful after a brief
exchange I opted out of accompanying them on the test drive delegating it to
a colleague well my colleague was out with him I took the opportunity to
inspect their trade in Mercedes it turned out to be a base model CLA in
surprisingly poor condition cluttered with garbage and makeup accessories
notably it had a salvage title due to a recent serious accident following the
test drive my colleague explained that wholesalers refused the trade in due to
its salvage title when the husband called to discuss the matter he was
understanding admitting that it was his wife's idea to conceal the car's history
despite this the wife continued to berate mccague over the phone boasting
about her Mercedes and thriving to buy another in the end the husband
apologized for his wife's behavior and expressed genuine interest in our car
once his lease expired my experience I've learned that wealth isn't always
flaunted those who do often have something to hide genuine buyers come
from all walks of life regardless of what they drive or wear story 10 buying
a house you can't afford makes you look good to other people people that owned a
current house bought it two years ago before listing it and couldn't sell it
for another year so I was trying to figure out why they're trying to sell it
so soon after buying it and why they couldn't sell it for a whole year I
found the W Facebook and tried to find some posts indicating that they dealt
with major house damage some awful neighbors or something that would
explain it and then I found it a three-year-old post about finding her
dream home and how the wraps bought it they bought a house they couldn't afford
so they could look successful in their pyramid scheme hoping that would make
them successful so they could eventually afford it but that didn't work out I
checked her Facebook a week or so after closing they bought a forclosed fix me
up home good for them right she shared that in a big post about how she bought
the big house because she thought it was
her dream home but soon realized they're just walls and decided to down side so
they could spend more time outside somehow thinking he works in the process
I checked on her more recently she made a post saying she's been lying to
herself and was hoping it works apparently it never did story 11 I don't
know if this counts but I used to live in the ghetto like a really bad
apartment complex and neighborhood and it found it hilarious when people would
come out walking around with the newest iPhones expensive shoes and expensive
clothes but they would live in the smallest apartments with like two to
three people sharing a room I mean these apartments had three bedrooms at the
most yet a lot of these types of people had is like 5 to 9 in one apartment we
got out a long time ago but I've seen and known of people who still live there
to this day I left like 8 to n years ago and now own land in our own home we
never spent more than we could and probably looked a bit ordinary or
whatever but we were happy and now own our own business and are very successful
I feel bad for them I don't think they were ever taught to save their own money
and not waste it the moment you get it frequently there were people who had
very nice cars but couldn't pay their rent women who would always come in with
a sub story about how they couldn't pay all the rent but had expensive purses
and jewelry there were guys who sold substances and we couldn't kick them out
because they always paid the rent until one day they got locked up once there
was a guy with an entire apartment full of expensive Electronics but no money to
pay rent there was also a guy who went to the casino every day once a guy who
made $50,000 a year begged me for an apartment since it was a low-income
building he didn't qualify he had filed for bankruptcy multiple times in his
life had his car repossessed several times and couldn't get an apartment
anywhere because he ruined his credit story 12 I see this a lot with my circle
of acquaintances but I only know the reason reasons behind one of them he
makes about $80,000 or something a year but he also owns a Swanky condo in
downtown Toronto and a boat his parents paid his down payment I think he's
paying the mortgage but his parents are paying like 10% of that too he went half
on the boat with his sister the boat was
bought used for $22,000 the whole family only uses it once every two weeks or so
in the on season so he has it for the rest it makes it look like he's
constantly boating and that it's his boat the people in my circle of
acquaintances who have houses in Toronto I'm 28 all come from upper middle class
families I would be surprised if they all got help from their families oh
another one is a guy who doesn't necessarily flaunt his wealth but just
always seems to have money he's going on trips all the time posting nice photos
Etc most recently he went on a long backpacking trip with a nicely outfitted
Sprinter van those things aren't cheap he's a friend of mine but I'm not close
enough with them to ask how he makes his
money because I've never known him to be employed like at all I asked a mutual
friend of ours what the deal was when I saw his hashtag van posts it turns out
he straight up lives off of his parents cash they seem to be totally fine with
it so this is a guy who will never have to work a day in his life he's not a
flaunter necessarily he doesn't buy cars or houses or anything like that so I
sincerely think that even when his parents are gone and he gets the
inheritance he'll keep doing what he's doing story 13 I know someone who
basically mooches off of her rich parents she sees herself as an amazing
entrepreneur and has a business in coaching people for things she's utterly
unqualified to coach it began as teaching entrepreneurs how to Outsource
and reclaim their time and when that fell flat she rebranded herself as a
more generic life coach whenever her friends ask what she's up to she'll say
she's busy with work but she's super vague about that and no one is entirely
sure what exactly she does she spends all day posting photos from spas or day
trips and flaunting or Chanel LV or Mercedes and thinly veiled hashir boss
posts she makes the occasional post about attending some coaching or
entrepreneur conference most recently she's moved to Mexico but as far as
anyone can tell she's done nothing but stay at a resort do all her photos are
of a pool or a fancy restaurant I think she's so accustomed to using her parents
money as a crutch that she can't stop there's no other way she can afford her
lifestyle but she'll continue to flaunt her brave self-made woman image all over
social media and anyone who calls her out on it is now just another hater
story 14 my aunt was what we call Mountain William it's a term for a
hillbilly which we are to a degree who is had a taste of the finer life and
wants everyone to think they're rich and
in High Society I loved her to death she was and is my favorite aunt she was the
sweetest most generous woman I might ever meet but her home had an air of
falseness about it that shaped my view of people well into adult Ood she loved
crystals bowls lamps and chandeliers in every room are made of crystal or fake
Crystal baskets that were supposed to mimic wicker but were woven with fake
gold wire with crystals embedded aesthetically she had fancy looking
furniture and was probably expensive but the fact that her massage chair was
probably the most expensive thing in her whole house just enhanced the fake
richness of the whole thing don't get me
wrong her home is beautiful and as a kid I was so afraid to touch anything
because it looked so nice but it also just felt fake so to me surrounding
yourself with grandiosity like that feels fake fake story 15 I work with a
guy who makes around $180,000 per year since moving to the area he's purchased
a $500,000 house spent 100,000 arenos 125,000 in a boat 70,000 on an SUV
that's not even powerful enough to tow the boat so he rents a truck to move it
spent 30,000 in a Seido 30,000 in a hot tub and 20,000 in a sauna all this
spending has occurred in less than 3 years so you might be asking how do I
know all of this he brags about it in fact the guy doesn't shut up so
everything mentioned is right from his mouth furthermore he's divorced and pays
thousands a month in child support he has no Investments no savings and
everything is on payments he had to borrow money for the down payment in his
house from his dad the KnockOn effect this had with others at work has been
beneficial as none of us dare look as dumb and irresponsible as this to our
peers so that wraps up our I'm poor but pretending to be rich real life stories
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op's family wants her to give them her house posted in my side account because
I know for a fact that s reads stuff on this sub I f29 recently bought a house
and a brand new car I will admit I probably splurge on my house more than I
should but growing up very poor it has always been a dream of mine to live in a
nice house I worked really hard to be where I am so much so that I undergo
countless breakups because I always choose a career overo boys my brother
M25 is currently jobless he worked as a tourist guide before and can barely make
ends meet he has five kids now in counting as his wife announced her
pregnancy recently he messaged me on Facebook that there is something he
wants to talk about and I thought he wanted to name me godmother to his
incoming baby I said sure and invited him to the house to get his approval
about some things I modified for our parents I gave him a tour and he admired
my house greatly saying things like how excited he is to bring the kids to my
house I did not mind anything about it as I thought he meant a visit which I'm
more than happy to host them for imagine my surprise when he finally sat me down
and revealed what he wanted to talk about he wants me to give him my house I
clarified whether he meant this house or the other house I bought for my parents
which I still lived and it still has modifications on going with my dream
house he said the house is big enough for his family and I can go visit them
anytime I like he even offered that if I really wanted to live there I could go
move into the maid's room and modify it for my personal use I was shocked and
could not speak as he thanked me over and over for the house I finally asked
him where the heck that idea came from and our mother told him I would give him
my house I of course corrected that and this is where things have gone South my
brother repeatedly said that since our mom said the house is his now I cannot
do anything but give in I called my mother to tell him to duck off and lo
and behold my mother sided with my brother to make this already long story
short my whole family had cut me off and my parents disowned me until I gave my
brother my house my father has been brought to the hospital over this fight
and now I feel really bad the guy I'm seeing now said to just give that house
to my brother and he'll help me buy another edit to clarify the house that
they gave away is the newly bought one I thought I could raise five adorable fur
babies my family home is in my name too as I had to take out a loan back then to
buy it so yeah it may be obvious that I'm not the arsole at First Sight but I
feel like I could be one because my father got hospitalized over the ensuing
fight for the house edit to I'm trying to read all all the comments and I'm
just so overwhelmed by your support I've been temporarily staying at a friend's
house ever since your encouraging words really helped ease my mood I finally
decided not to give this house away and sell the other one to help pay for the
vast majority of the loan on my Dreamhouse I also decided to remove my
parents access to my health plans and remove them from my insurance last but
not least thank you for the award kind strangers reading your comments made me
realize how ridiculously unreal this sounds in the comments op not a
millionaire really I'm just earning really well my job has great demand but
really low Supply and if I say so myself I'm more than good at it so the real
millionaires had to pay me a fat paycheck to keep me maybe it's a
cultural thing because it's an unspoken tradition that whoever earns more in the
family must help the rest I'm mostly curious where where you can have parents
as dependents for insurance I tried for my dad once and my state was like he can
just un alive it's a common thing for young Professionals in my country
everybody's dependents are their parents if you're single at least I'm a little
jealous op don't be our health care is sht even for those who can afford it is
this real this can't be real she's from the same country as me this scenario is
not even new I can pick people on my friend list who can write stories so
close to this that you'd say they're all copycats I mean my grandma pulled
something like this for her kids update hello so a lot of people have reached
out to me since my original post a lot has happened since then I'll try to
include as many details as I can so I cut my family off back in December and
removed them from all services that would benefit them by being connected to
me since I figured hey Mom you told me I'm un alive to you then you get no free
house from me anymore so the reactions from our extended family were just as I
expected most of the adults sided with my mother my cousins expressed their
support for me I got Uninvited by the family reunion I initially sponsored and
isn't that just the worst my aunts and uncles had barricaded the gate when I
arrived at my grandma mother's house I won't expand on this anymore because it
still hurts my mother also sued me for selling the first house back in January
it did not reach the higher courts and I won the Public's perception of me got
worse though she and my brother took this defeat to twist the sympathy in
their favor they posted on social media about how I am an ungrateful daughter
and I owe them for everything I have they also blamed me for my father's un
alive yes he passed away I did not even get to attend the funeral because I'm
banned when this happened I almost gave in and signed the papers to give the
house to my brother I blamed myself and believed them my selfishness un alived
my father at this point my boyfriend convinced me to take a break from work
and talk to a professional I did just that and I'm only now realizing how
messed up the way they raised me was I can't believe it took internet strangers
to realize something was wrong with how they treated me to be honest I almost
decided not to post an update it was last month when my therapist suggested I
should do it because this is where my breakup with them started on the bright
side I saw how my fiance's family really likes me because of this ordeal I
thought they were just being nice but sht happened and they supported me every
step of the way especially when my partner had to go overseas for a one we
day because of his job they really took care of me and even assured me that I'm
worth more than my family thinks I am the nicest thing I ever heard in my life
came from his mother anyway on July 21 my father's birthday my mother reached
out to me she explained to me that she understood she had no right to ban me
from his funeral but at the time all she
could think about was how I cut them off my health plans which rendered them
incapable of supporting my father's hosit hospitalization I did not realize this
and we cried for hours she said she still blames me and doesn't think she
can forgive me I think I understand her my therapist told me that thinking of
what ifs is counterproductive what if I could go back in time I'd help them with
this my brother won't talk to me that's fine the feeling is very mutual and the
comments I still have doubts over the partner who said to just give the house
to the brother and he'd then help help her buy a new one according to the
original post something is very wrong with him too now he's convinced her to
leave her job which doesn't reassure me Playing devil's advocate here perhaps
his initial suggestion was made in dire circumstances with him watching her
struggle over this it might have just been a spur of the moment I just want my
loved one to stop hurting and here op says take a break from work which could
mean taking a couple of weeks off not necessarily quitting her job you might
be right but you also might not be I don't think we have enough information
to make that kind of judgment about op's partner op o he means well I showed the
comments about him back when I first posted and he made jokes about it he is
actually better off than me he made the offer because he just wants my family to
stop bothering me about the house this offer was made back when things were
escalating for the worst regarding me taking a break from work it was what we
had been planning even before covid and when the travel restrictions eased off
there was always something coming up that pushed our travel
plans however my work performance plummeted when my personal problems
piled on top of one another so he literally had to beg me to take a break
from work I just feel like I need to clarify this here he is an absolute
godsent my partner treats me like a goddess I only had to name it and he
would give it to me thank you for watching the video if you are interested
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wibta for deciding to not have a wedding
I 29f met my now fiance 35 male a little over 4 years ago we've been together
through thick and think and have become somewhat Inseparable and consider one
another as best friends and partner last
year we decided that we want to take our relationship a step further and get
married I didn't tell my parents right away because of cultural differences and
didn't know how they would react to me wanting marryed outside of our
nationality plus wanted to enjoy the time being engaged and not have to deal
with the drama initially for context I'm Arab and my fiance is white/ americ
after a few months I felt like it was finally time to tell my parents so I did
in low and behold there was a lot of backlash just as I expected my parents
started crying and cursing and accusing me of leaving them for a stranger and
asking if he even is financially stable and can buy me a house and asked him a
lot of questions about finances and nothing else I never wanted to marry for
money and me and my fiance say share everything 50/50 and both work hard to
keep us afloat and we are not rich or anything like that just two people
trying to survive in this economy I was embarrassed of all these questions about
money and showing that they don't care about anything else so I asked for my
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2 minutes before my alarm went off this morning I hear my drunk GF pissing on
the bookshelf in our room throw away a account because this is embarrassing but
I had to vent to someone I'm so annoyed she made a deal the other day
she was going to quit drinking for a while since she's sort of all and
nothing if she knows she's going to be taking a break she tends to go ham and
get shitfaced so it makes her want to stop I don't relate to this mentality at
all so it's been hard to deal with we've been together coming up on 12 years
together and she didn't start drinking heavily until maybe 3 to 4 years ago
definitely has an addictive personality though but it never got this bad about a
year ago I noticed could drink a 12-pack of 16 o beers at night and eventually I
got on her about it I've told her on numerous occasions she's ruining her
body and it's taking a toll on us she agrees and knows there's a problem but
just hasn't been able to stop well last night it was definitely 12 beers and a
good amount of whiskey I've seen her drunk but not pissed drunk like that I
went off on her and she just kept laughing and could barely get back into
bed so here's my alarm clock going off at 5:50 a.m. to go to work and she's
drunk as I was so annoyed I just left and she can clean everything up herself | give me a good story on mydrunkGFPISSEDonthebookshelfinourroomorig |
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today we've got a great moldy food malicious
compliance story we'll get into that in a bit
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but first want me to wash my dishes oh sure I will
my main has my photo and also here we are in a new
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account this happened over 3 years ago and while
telling it to my friend she laughingly said such
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a malicious compliance so decided to share here
when I first started to my very first corporate
:22.520 --> :28.320 job there was a kitchen full of utensils and
fridge and oven and stove and a dishwasher a
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full-fledged kitchen for employes to make tea
coffee Heat their meals even cook they said I
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can bring my own glasses and put them there or
use the companies also there was a woman who was
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working in the kitchen let's call her neilly since
she puts rules willy-nilly like a bully second day
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of my job dear neilly told me let me remind you
that no one should ever leave their dirty dishes
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in the sink I was surprised by the claim since
I'm new and don't know a single crap I thought
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this might be her way of bullying or it might
actually be true so I smiled and asked if this
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means I have to wash my own glasses she said yes
don't make me repeat it twice honey let me remind
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you there's a dishwasher if she isn't cleaning the
dishes her only remaining job is vacuum the office
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once a week and bring tea or coffee to Chiefs to
meetings and to managers so I decided to gather
:19.920 --> :24.960 information and wait on it apparently neilly
has been working in the company for 20 years
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and knows the CEO she knows how he drinks his tea
how he drinks his coffee when he drinks them what
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he eats with his coffee and tea she knows all of
them if I know one thing that is never fight aight
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with a person who knows how your boss likes his
coffee especially if you're replaceable so fight
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was not an option cool I also learned that once
a week CEO brings a bag of fruits to the kitchen
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to share in the company apparently he has a fruit
garden and goes there for weekends and she would
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take fruits to her house at the end of the day old
employees knew that they would take one or two two
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in the day that's how I learned this she said to
me I can get one from but it is hers so I refused
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the first time offer thinking she bought it then
learned that it was brought by the CEO I think
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she implied that the CEO brought it to her and she
was generous enough to share it with us peasants
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but this is my interpretation of her statement
one thing about me I look young and naive I look
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dumb as if there is some missing component in my
brain C malicious compliance from my desk I could
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partially see the kitchen if I turn around so on
the day of the fruit delivery I was constantly
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checking the kitchen when CEO came in I count
to 30 and went in as well to wash my glasses
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of course I went in and said hi to everyone this
was my first time seeing CEO so he said you must
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be new kindly and respectfully informed who I am
and he told me who he was I said sir I've checked
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the company before entering and knew him which
he liked after I turned to wash my dishes he
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asked me what I was doing and and I said oh I was
informed that all the staff wash their own dishes
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at the same time our neilly said I must have been
mistaken on that while laughing and taking the
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sponge and glasses out of my hand I said but you
as if shocked and cut myself as if realization hit
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me then smiled like she's my best friend of course
I didn't stop there I looked at the fruits CEO
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told me to take some fruits added that he brought
them to the company so all the staff could enjoy I
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haven't said anything but from my expression CEO
asked what was wrong I told him nothing and said
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I always thought they were nillies since then I
just smiled and asked if I can take a plate of
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them with a huge plate of fruits accompanied by a
huge smile I went to my desk shared them with my
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team I don't even like fruits couple hours later
I went to the kitchen and our dear neilly told me
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I had misunderstood things and washing dishes was
her job and I shouldn't mistake it again and added
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that the fruits were for everyone to share and I
should have taken more if I wanted I stupidly said
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oh I didn't know and how sorry I am to cause her
trouble with a sorry smile guess you never had to
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wash dishes and had fruits to eat every day if
your answer is Cleopatra probably yes but also
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me neie would also bring tea and coffee to me
from time to time if someone she served did not
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want to drink I would thank her with a huge smile
and take it apparently she does this to all the
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employees she likes I called them fruits instead
of specifying what they were because CEO would
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bring Apples oranges tangerines pears even sweet
cherries I don't remember what was the specific
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fruit that day if anything friend or not knowing
each other were not I think this showed the CEO
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that maybe I've been a little too hands off on
the operations here maybe I should stroll around
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a little bit more and make sure everything is in
tiptop shape also hi I'm Steven and if you guys
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enjoy awesome stories of malicious compli iance
why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down
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below that said our next story is husband tries
to warn Neighbors about their Landscaping gets
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told to mind his own business some background my
husband is pretty handy prior to co he had done
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several flip houses as a fun side gig it's what
he loves to do and he became very familiar with
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a ton of city codes during Co seems everyone was
suddenly buying houses to flip out of boredom and
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prices skyrocketed so he put that on hold so then
he started doing house hold repairs and upgrades
:31.120 --> :35.560 building fences Etc around the neighborhood
as well to get a better understanding of the
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neighborhood HOA bylaws and whatnot he joined
the HOA architectural committee through that
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he learned all there was to know about what was
allowed and what was not how the process worked
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how to work around things Etc long story short my
husband was very knowledgeable in what to do and
:53.960 --> :00.120
not do and various processes with the neighborhood
and the city our next door neighbor decided they
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were going to start Landscaping their backyard
and they I guess planned to make theirs as similar
:05.440 --> :11.600
to our backyard as possible problem was despite
being our Nextdoor neighbors our land was quite
:11.600 --> :16.920
different for one thing behind our house was a
bunch of brush and pine trees maybe 3 to 4 ft
:16.920 --> :21.320
from the lake that's at the back of the house
we didn't have to do a whole lot to clear the
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area but the brush on their property was about
onethird of their yard I'd say 10 ft from the
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water also the way the houses on our street are
the land naturally made like a valley where the
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house to our right is at the top we are in the
middle and the next two houses are at the bottom
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before it very quickly rises again first thing the
neighbors did was cut down all the trees in their
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backyard they were not small trees either but four
story tall trees or more husband and neighbor were
:48.720 --> :53.880
talking about the backyard plans when my husband
casually mentioned he was surprised the city gave
:53.880 --> :59.480
him permission to cut down so many trees in our
city you have to have an arborist give permission
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to cut down any trees that were X ft tall neighbor
first said it wasn't the city's business what he
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did with his backyard then told my husband to
mind his own business okay fair enough then they
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started putting up the retaining wall to bring
it up to level with our property which would
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have been about 7 to 8 ft tall basically they
were just stacking a bunch of cinder blocks my
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husband uneasily asked if their landscapers had
ever done a retaining wall like that and if the
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city approved it City says that if a retain pain
in wall is over 5 ft tall you need a structural
:32.800 --> :38.440
engineer to come out neighbor said again it wasn't
any of the city's business what he did to his yard
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and for my husband to mine his own business while
they're filling up the backyard to bring theirs
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level to ours the landscapers are dumping all
the dirt gravel and sand in the street locking a
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little over half the road several of the neighbors
who had trucks would just hop the curb but other
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neighbors with smaller cars were mad before my
husband could ask if they could put the dirt and
:58.240 --> :03.440
stuff in their driveway instead of the road like
everyone else neighbor went off on my husband to
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freak right off well okay then my husband let them
continue working and didn't say a word as they
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started constructing a 10ft tall fence which was
against HOA regulations fences couldn't be taller
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than 6 ft between them starting construction 6
days a week before 7:00 a.m. and them blocking
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the road I guess someone had had enough next thing
I know City officials are out there putting a big
:28.240 --> :34.600
butt sign in the yard saying all construction was
to be halted until further notice it wasn't us but
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my husband found out through the architectural
committee that someone had complained about the
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noise and the road blockage to the HOA who came
out to investigate saw everything they had done
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and then reported them to the city they got a
hefty fine for every tree stump the city official
:51.160 --> :57.200
found the structural engineer said the retaining
wall was not sound and had to be redone and it had
:57.200 --> :02.920
to have regular inspections during it build the
HOA also told them that not only did they have
:02.920 --> :08.720
to take down their 10-ft tall fence but as they
did not get prior approval and because it was not
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an approved design the HOA also hit them with a
hefty fine initially neighbor came after us for
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tattling but we told them it wasn't us as nothing
they did affected Us in any way our kids are early
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risers so even starting before 7 didn't bother us
my husband then said he tried to warn them this
:27.880 --> :33.520
would happen but neighbor told him to freak off
and mind his own business and he did landscaping
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had started on Black Friday was shut down for 3
weeks while I guess they got things sorted out
:37.960 --> :45.400
by the city and HOA their backyard is still not
finished honestly these people were morons for
:45.400 --> :51.040
going on and doing this and having this Backwoods
we leav in the country they can't tell me what I
:51.040 --> :58.320
can do with my land knowing that you are in an HOA
like you were just like setting up the dominoes
:58.320 --> :04.280
for somebody to knock them over including that
10-ft retaining wall one time an HOA was a semi
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helpful thing I suppose our next story is you
won't let me tell you the food you bought is
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moldy okay you can just eat it then this isn't my
story but a coworker I have I work in an airport
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restaurant you can imagine we get a lot of stuck
up and beny people who don't see us as humans we
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work our butts off to provide the best service we
can under the circumstances working in an airport
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setting with unpredictable passenger numbers for
context our restaurant is split into two separate
:32.240 --> :39.200
cafes mine is the one before TSA the one relevant
to the story happened past TSA meaning this was
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a passenger that either went through TSA or came
off a plane from the departure Lounge the kitchen
:44.680 --> :49.600 staff hand prepar trays of vegetables with a
portion of hummus one of those vegetables is
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sliced cucumbers today my assistant manager who
runs the kitchen pass security came up to me and
:55.840 --> :01.200
told me I needed to check the trays I had for
sale because they found mold on the cucumbers
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in their trays even when they haven't reached to
expiration we have for prepared Fresh Foods such
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as the tray in question I subsequently pulled my
trays because they did in fact have mold on them
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enter act two of this story he came to me about
30 minutes later to tell me this part back in post
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security past TSA a lady had bought a vegetable
tray being the good assistant manager he is he
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went over to make sure it was a fresh tray she
didn't even let him get more than one word out
:30.160 --> :36.480
before telling him go away leave me alone now
he isn't a mean person at all in fact he makes
:36.480 --> :41.200 the most conversation with all the customers
more than the rest of our staff including me
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he took one look at the trace he purchased it
was moldy he made a couple more attempts to try
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and tell her that her food had mold on it so she
could get a fresh one to no avail he's now at a
:51.440 --> :00.240
loss and just lets whatever happens happen she
ate the whole dang thing cucumbers in all with
:00.240 --> :06.920
zero complaints just goes to show when an employee
comes up to you hear out the employee just in case
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they have something important to tell you such as
ma'am you are about to consume mold how about you
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go choose another tray free of charge I feel like
this is one of those situations that even if she's
:18.680 --> :24.800
like yelling at him to go away he has like such
an importance to make sure that she knows there
:24.800 --> :31.120
is mold in that because either way it's going
to reflect badly even if she was totally irate
:31.120 --> :36.400
said go away and this person did give up and it's
revealed there was mold in there and she wouldn't
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complain and made a whole big deal about it I
guess the one good thing is this happened past
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TSA right they're probably not going to be around
for very long especially not if they keep eating
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moldy stuff our next story is you sure you know
how to tie down that load okay have it your way a
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few years ago I pulled into a lumber yard parking
lot on my way to pick up a super small item as I I
:58.960 --> :04.920
was walking through the parking lot on the way to
the store I saw this guy tying about $3,000 worth
:04.920 --> :10.720
of composite decking into the top of his truck
rack now if you know anything about composite
:10.720 --> :18.800
decking you know that it is expensive heavy and
super slick especially when multiple boards are
:18.800 --> :25.400
together this guy was using a rope to tie this
down now don't get me wrong ropes are great and
:25.400 --> :32.320
there are some awesome knots out there and this
guy could have used all of them but rope simply
:32.320 --> :39.440
wasn't going to cut it no matter what fancy na he
knew on my way in a polite way I told the guy hey
:39.440 --> :46.000
just so you know those are really slippery when
stacked a rope isn't going to cut it you really
:46.000 --> :52.200
need to get a couple of ratchet straps for that
don't worry I got it he replied in the most smug
:52.200 --> :59.720
way he could muster okay his issue so I went to
buy my thing well since since it was only one
:59.720 --> :05.960
thing I was back in my truck in 3 minutes and
it turns out I was behind this guy leaving the
:05.960 --> :13.320
driveway as the front of his truck dipped into
the gutter $3,000 worth of expensive composite
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decking slides right off the top of his truck
completely obliterates his hood and fans out
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across the boulevard as I drove past I honked
smiled and waved after all he clearly wanted
:27.320 --> :33.320 me to mind my own business business so I did
in that situation you can't help but just kind
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of laugh at the guy you saw their situation you
warned them the best you could I mean that just
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sucks but hey you got to know what you're doing
when you transport $3,000 worth of supplies right
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not going to lie if I were an OP shoes I think
I'd still feel bad about it even though I warned
:50.320 --> :57.240 the guy and he waved me off in the most smug
way possible that still absolutely blows but
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with that being said that's all the time we have
for today now if you want to hear another awesome
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video on the left or if you missed my latest
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video check out that video on the right that said
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my husband told me I was a little ugly hey guys can I vent here I'm using a
throwaway account we were drinking over the weekend while toddler was a grandma
my husband was drunk talking but I can't
stop thinking about it my husband stared
at me for a while and I was like what he said you a little ugly and he bursted
out laughing I said what he said you know you don't look like you did when I
met you 5 years ago at all he told me I gained too much weight and he jiggled my
arms and said I have Flappy Bird arms I know I gained a lot of weight it's just
hard losing weight when you're a stay-at-home mom and I have a battle
with my refrigerator all day he told me that he wished I lost my weight because
it's more than enough time now since I'm
3 years PP but he says I'm always making excuses my husband do helped me once he
gets back home from work but during my free time I just want to sleep or relax
and I just don't have the energy to work out my exercise is super minimal I try
to even get at least 3K steps in a day and sometimes that doesn't happen my
problem is mostly bad eating habits it's just hard I think I'm having a sugar
addiction my husband also told me that he doesn't want to be one of those
skinny tall guys that's with a short fat girl the next morning he didn't even
remember saying that to me he said he remembered telling me that he thinks I'm
unattractive because I gained 75 lbs in the last 5 years before my husband fell
asleep he said he always thought I was one of those girls that stayed hot
forever and never got fat what he said there just stuck with me because he's
not the first person that said that to me my friend back home also told me she
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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is Stephen and this it's
the storytime Channel we've got some entitled parents to read about so let's
jump right into our first story of the day by cube droid oh five entitled
mother tries to take away my wheelchair so her daughter can sit down context
this happened before lockdown started in the UK so the details of the story are
not pinpoint accurate I had a skiing accident while learning to ski with a
friend this was because we were going on
holiday it had been going quite well but in the last thirty minutes I fell over
and broke it I was stretchered off the slope and
taken to the hospital when there I was given a wheelchair because I couldn't
walk and didn't have crutches because it
had just broken we went into the waiting area and it was quite busy because this
was back when everyone was taking their kids to the hospital because their child
got a cold combine that with two serious accidents
that came in and we had a long wait ahead of us thankfully the wheelchair
was cushioned which was nice for me about three hours into the wait a mother
and daughter walk into the waiting room this is entitled mother and daughter
daughter has a face mask on and is looking worried go find a seat daughter
while I sign in but make sure it's away from people daughter says but all the
seats are close to each other and it's full
we'll find anyone and sit down you're wearing a face mask daughter looks
around the room and spots one empty chair and sits down and thought of
mother walks over where's my seat daughter she says this is the only empty
one entitled mother entitled mother stands up for about an hour
she then scours the room and spots me in my nice comfy wheelchair she starts
walking over to me excuse me young man I say yes I can't help but notice that
you're on a moveable chair could I borrow that from you to sit next to my
daughter my mother says no sorry my son is waiting on an x-ray and can't stand
up well if you haven't had an x-ray than you don't know if it's broken
mother says I think it's broken because you can hear the clicking when you move
it well it's public property so you can't
use it as your private property I say I seriously can't move so can you leave me
alone one entitled mother raises her voice for
the waiting room to hear what do you what do you mean I can't have a chair my
daughter is very nervous and needs me to sit next to her daughter looks down at
the floor embarassed nurse says can I please have Opie for his x-ray me and
mom go into the x-ray and get the diagnosis that my leg is broken and get
it casted this takes about three hours and takes us till 2:00 in the morning
I'm then taken home but while I'm going back through the waiting room I spot
entitled mother and the color drops from
her face as she realizes that my leg was actually broken there was no arrest no
removing from the hospital just a very conveniently timed nurse and a look of
horror and entitled mother's face imagine being in the waiting room of an
ER seeing somebody who's in great discomfort in a wheelchair that says I
think their leg is broken and then saying well you haven't had an extra yet
you don't know if it's broken you should get out of that wheelchair and give it
up to me that is incredibly entitled I hope she felt terrible when she saw him
walking out with the cast on that being said have you ever broken a bone I once
had a grade three ankle sprain which was good enough to land me in the ER but
it's not technically a break but in some cases it can be worse than an actual
ankle break wish to say the least was not much fun so let me know if you have
ever broken a bone which one why maybe how it happened let me know in the
comments down below our next story is by the sudden typos 1210 entitled aunt
thinks yeet is a demonic word used by satan's
gamers so I have been calling my friends and asking them do they have encounters
with karyn's so this is my friends story back story Mike is from an atheist
household but some of his extended family are religious but there is his aunt
Mike's aunt is the cuckoo clock of the family she is aunt Eve acts anti gamer
religious Karen she has always hated me and Mike because we love games and watch
vulgar cartoons like Rick and Morty and has been hotel but she hates her son and
daughter even more she claims that she loves them
but when they came out to her that they're gay and lesbian during a family
reunion she screamed like a banshee saying that they are not her children
she abandoned them then after a few years there was a family barbecue where
it all took place cast Emma's Mike f 1 and F 2 are friend 1 in front to the a
is entitled aunt mom is mom C is Karl entitled aunt's son s is Suzy entitled
aunt's daughter the story Mike and his friends were just chilling in his room
playing his PC and ps4 after having a nice long barbecue with family and
friends then they wanted to play Minecraft so Mike booted up his PC then
took turns playing bed Wars after a few rounds Mike saw a player below him so he
jumped down to kill him but as he jumped down he screamed yeet
and as he screamed to eat an entitled aunt barged into the room what did you say
Mike and shocked what what did you just say she was banshee screaming this
entire time friend who says you mean yeet do you know what you did we were
all silent you summon Satan you witch mike says uh entitled ant we didn't
summon Satan friend 1 whispering those clothes should have summon Satan what
did you just say then Mike's mom Karl and Suzy came into
his room after hearing entitled aunts horrid screaming mom says what's going
on your son summoning Satan I demand you throw away his ritual devices Karl says
mom stop Suzy says please can you just act normally for once shut up you insert
gay and lesbian slur now this line made people look at her as at least 25% of
the people in this reunion are gay and lesbian including friend 1 you will all
go to heck so pieces of shoot Karl took a deep breath listen you will never be
our mom and you will never be invited to my wedding
Suzy says and not my wedding either surprise surprise the SIB
are getting married when entitled they had heard this she stood there in awe
why didn't you tell me you two were getting married sob sob
I raised you Carl and Susie were red in anger right as she said that Carl said
you didn't raise us you tried to kill us by not giving us vaccines never let us
go to school field trips Susie said you never took our option you kicked us out
when we told you we're gay Carl said you never spend any time with us and most
importantly you go out looking for other
men while dad is an Afghanistan fighting in title that was silent stood there as
everyone was looking at her Mike's mom says entitled aunt is this true you're
cheating on my brother so who cares if I sleep with other men anyway these two
are probably not my husband's children anyway mom says so you're saying that
you're religious but you sleep with other men busted she just revealed her
deepest secret I she then ran to her car
and drove off this is not over yet after a few months Mike and his family were
invited to Carl's wedding turns out Carl's husband is some rich time bigshot
manager at a really popular company guess who heard about this and came
crawling back in title bant two days later after the wedding
Suzy Mike and his family were staying together with Carl and his husband so
they can celebrate they saw entitled Anne's car pulled up into the driveway
and entitled aunt came barging in Carl Carl Carl says what do you want please
give me some cash crosses what please I'm deep in trouble I'm in debt
with a guy who had sex with I told him I wasn't married but he found out he
threatened to call the police on me if I don't pay him Carl sighs here take this
this is all you will get from me hands are $250 what this is it you're married
to a rich guy and all you gave me you selfish witch Carl says go get out and
don't come back entitled aunt was never to be seen again
and this was a year ago last we heard from her is from
friends saying that she wasn't in trouble she just wanted money from Carl
the money Carl gave her and all her life savings she wasted all on drugs alcohol
and hookers now she has no money and is traveling from city to city to find a
life Carl Suzy and Michael live in California but entitled aunt was last
seen in North Carolina this is it Mike says there are more stories about her
but this is the last story Mike has about her yeet this entitled aunt seems
so crazy that this entire dialogue seems just like a comedy skit it's honestly
hard for me to even take it as real that being said I'm glad she eated herself
out of their lives the next story is written by Stacey be 292 entitled mother
waits until I go to the bathroom and then less her kid eat all my food at a
restaurant all right let's dive into some context here so in
my city amid the whole pandemic patio dining just started opening in
restaurants I've been super careful during this whole thing
social distancing the whole bit yesterday I finally decided I wanted to
go eat at a restaurant for the first time since March and this one great
restaurant near my house was doing patio dining I show up and grab a table and
place my order shortly after my food comes in titled mother and entitled kid
take a seat at the table nearest to me I really needed to pee and I had a whole
bunch of stuff with me I had been running some errands so I turned to
entitled mother and asked if she would mind watching my stuff from her seat
while I went to the bathroom she was super sweet oh sure honey go ahead and
then I went on my way but then Oh Lord when I came back I
didn't even know what the Freak I was looking at there was the spawn of Satan
sitting in my seat with his bare hands shoveling my food into his mouth all of
my bags were rummaged through in full of food from his dirty hands and entitled
mother was just sitting at her table scrolling through her phone wha what the
heck happened here hey sweetie looks like he took a real
liking to your food he just couldn't keep his paws off laughs ma'am
we're in the middle of a pandemic and you don't know where I've been and I
don't know where your child's been yet you thought we could just share food
he's eaten almost all of it and what about my stuff excuse me you mangy tween
i'm 19 by the way I wasn't gonna say anything but you don't need to be eating
all that food unless you want to get fatter than you already are I also don't
like you implying that baby has something as for your stuff he says some
stupid knickknacks he wanted to play with in there what did you want me to do
about it quit whining and eat the rest of your
food move I'm in no way overweight right now but as someone who struggled hard
with eating disorders in the past I was seeing red oh and those stupid
knickknacks she mentioned 90% of it were birthday presents for my mom whose
birthday is coming up next weekend ah oh and all the while as we are
arguing entitled kid is still eating in thought of mother and I start raising
our voices when the amazing manager finally comes out thank god you're here
this mangy child is trying to take our food and our stuff right over here I'd
like you to call the police he looked at entitled mother and then back at me and
then back at entitled mother ma'am I'm not sure if you're maybe not on the
right mindset you seem maybe a little unhinged but I
was actually here when this young lady came in and ordered I actually brought
her food out since were understaffed I mean I surely could have mistaken you
two if you weren't a hag but unfortunately for you shrugs at this
point a man arrives our decent dad I don't actually know for sure but I'm
assuming he showed up late to join the entitled mother an entitled kid for
lunch after work because he was still on a call still he noticed the commotion
and with a here we go again look he hung up and came over I explained the whole
situation to him and the entitled mother gave her twisted side of the story
and he immediately believed me which makes me think that she's definitely
pulled some BS like this before decent dad says honey let's just leave please
come on manager says yeah you guys are definitely leaving but you still have
this young lady's meal to pay for and whatever reimbursement is needed for
those items you ruined unless you'd like the police to be involved huh in your
dreams I'm not giving you or this child a penny let's go
grabs the kid and starts leaving and motions for decent dad to follow her
decent dad really silently came up to me an amazing manager and started
apologizing profusely and taking out money from his wallet to give to me he
said here-here please take this I'm so sorry
genuinely I'm looking into a divorce currently with my lawyer but she can't
know about it just yet here I'm really sorry about your stuff and your food
please replace everything on me I'm so so sorry
he closed his wallet and left while still apologizing I felt so bad for that
guy jeez I hope he gets out of that situation ASAP anyway I think I find
some comfort knowing that entitled mother has a surprise divorce fastball
heading her way that's gonna be a fun time for decent dad and pure amusement
for little old me hoo boy that's a lot of family drama
that just got unearthed right there it's probably not the best thing to say but
honestly I hope the kid ends up with decent dad yes I don't trust this
entitled mothers ability to raise their child how are you gonna say well he saw
some knickknacks what was I supposed to do uh I don't know keep your kids from
touching other people's stuff maybe I'd probably be a good start huh boy our
next story is by silver shotgunner entitled mother ruins her daughter's
birthday because she didn't get a discount this story happened quite some
time ago but it still kind of baffles me to this day I work at a McDonald's and
we get plenty of entitled people coming through however this one takes the cake
when it's someone's birthday we give them a free ice-cream cone when they
finished eating their food no more no less I don't know how it works in other
places but this is how it works over here one day and entitled
mother walks into our McDonald's with her daughter on her daughter's birthday
the daughter was actually very nice the entitled mother walks up to the counter
and I take her order as usual would you like anything else do you still have the
product that is not available anymore no sorry that one was available until
yesterday I can give you alternatives if you want entitled mother already a
little bit annoyed no thanks that's all all right that'll be 25 euros please
it's my daughter's birthday don't we get some sort of discount we don't give it
this kind of someone's birthday we can however give her a free ice cream cone
when she is done eating we deserve a discount I want to speak to your manager
whoa that went from zero to 100 real quick the manager walks over to the
counter can I help you this guy won't give me a discount even though it's my
daughter's birthday sorry ma'am we can give her a free ice-cream cone after she
is done eating but that's all fine this is really unfair I don't know how it's
unfair but trust me it's about to get even more unfair just one block away
from our mcdonald's is a big shop which we'll call Rico's we often get visited
by Rico employees our E when they're on break because of this we give them a 15%
discount on their orders Rico employees walk in and I take his order would you
like anything else they say no thanks one moment please
we have to get a manager's pass to give the discount so we don't have the
ability to give any unauthorized discounts this ari was new at Rico's so
he didn't know he'd get a discount I swiped the managers past through the
scanner and the prices order went down the Rico's employee thanked me and
patiently waited for his food entitled mother and her daughter were sitting
just in view of the cash register and she saw that I gave him a discount and
was furious she angrily walked up to the register why did he get a discount
that's because he works at Rico's Rico employees get a 15% discount and I don't
get a discount of my daughter's birthday I see her daughter visibly trying to
hide the fact that she's heard ma'am as I said we can give her a free
ice-cream cone when she's done eating nothing else this is BS entitled mother
walks back to her table and I slightly overhear the conversation she and her
daughter are having something about calming down and how she always does
this but we haven't hit our peak of Rage just yet when one of our employees are
on break we get a 60% discount if our order is over the price of six euros one
of my colleagues who will call al is on break and decides to order some food
al doesn't know how to use the register so I help him take his order I swipe the
manager's pass through the scanner and entitled mother sees the price drop down
from 10 euros to 4 euros she was furious she walks up to the register slamming
her foot onto the ground with every step this is ridiculous I don't get a
discount on my daughter's birthday but that guy gets more than 50% off that's
how it works when we're on break we get a 60% discount of our order is over 6
euros I'm done with this come on honey we're leaving her daughter is sitting at
her table crying entitled mother walks out of the restaurant leaving her
daughter behind saying that she'll wait in the car
they were otherwise done eating anyways so she would have left soon anyway the
manager wanted to go to the girl to try and calm her but I said I'd go to her
hey are you ok daughter says I swear to God my mom does this every single time
we go somewhere I hate it I say it'll be fine are you done eating she says yes
can I still have the ice-cream cone I say of course is your birthday after all
I walk back behind the counter to make the ice cream cone and even poured a
little extra into it just to make her feel a little bit better the manager
walks up to me and said give this to her he gave me a Happy Meal toy to give to
the girl she already had one since she had ordered a happy meal to begin with
but to make sure this wasn't the worst day in her life he wanted to give
another toy to her I walk up to the girl and give her the toy and ice
cream cone daughter says thanks is there
anything I can do to make it up to you I
say no you just go out enjoy the rest of your day we'll clean this up she says
thank you sir it looked like she wanted to hug me but
since she was a stranger I wasn't comfortable doing so I don't even want
to think what would have happened if entitled mother saw her daughter hugging
me the girl left and seemed happy that final section of the story is absolutely
heartwarming and it's encouraging to see a McDonald's employee reaching out and
caring for the customers this way although it's not really an employee
customer relation it's more feeling bad for this daughter who's entitled mother
is crazy basically and just trying to make her feel good on her birthday
either way I'm really proud of Opie and the employees for going out of their way
to try and make sure this daughter's day was a little bit better after breaking
down and crying in a McDonald's on their birthday and our final story of the day
is by Dan the evil killer entitled parents tries to steal my phone because
I don't deserve it last night I was eating at a restaurant
just to like go outside for once nothing much happened till I was about to leave
I left my phone at a table then I washed my hands when I come back I see a 50
year-old man at my table taking my phone I ran to him snatched my phone and was
about to leave when he said you don't deserve that phone and then mutters
about people like me being lazy and no for good human beings I then argued with
him I'm not a lazy son of a witch I think you are because you don't even
have a phone and steal other people's phones because you can't even get a job
you're why people in your age get a bad reputation for being nothing for good
human beings who are entitled you're pathetic you use phones and these new
gadgets use them because you're lazy you don't do anything yourself all these
machines do it for you since you're a lazy mother Freaker and then entitled
mother comes why are you talking to my husband because he's trying to steal my
phone well they try to steal your phone because you're an idiot I told them to
phones are so pathetic it's a waste of money I wanted to teach you a lesson
about spending money on useless items like these don't question me about how I
spend my money this is America where I can be free to do anything I
want and if I want to buy something I would buy it and then a waiter comes
waiter says what's going on here I say this old man tried to steal my phone we
tried to steal it because he doesn't deserve it then the waiter asks the
manager to come and then I asked to see the security cameras after seeing the
footage the restaurant told me the next time I came there the meal would be free
for the inconvenience and that the entitled parents were banned anyway have
a nice day well this one's kind of a new
one they actually went and admitted they were trying to steal the phone instead
of lying and saying no they were stealing it from me call the police or
something either way obviously this couple was a
bit psycho but that being said that's all the time we have for today so if you
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the entire Saga involves an evil psycho Mill who demanded her dboard her
pregnancy just because it's a boy physically abused her grandson after
birth for years behind Dill's back until op exposed her causing Dill to disown
Mill now Mill has physically assaulted op poisoned her cat burned down her
house and finally got arrested after trying to end her grandson by poisoning
his lunch so let's set the scene it's late and pissing it down with rain
typical English weather it's dark it's miserable everyone is sick literally
everyone with this death rattle cough because flu season and I'm just trying
to get through my night shift without committing mass murder or getting ill
you know the usual for us idiots who hate ourselves enough to work nights now
that I work at the big Supermarket we get a lot of crazies and what can I say
my llam demand to be fed and I love the drama so I'm nosi I'm working the stock
down the meds aisle contemplating the pros and cons of marrying a rich old guy
and killing him off when some customers come along there was an exhausted
looking woman who was trying to stop the snot flowing out of her nose from
drowning everyone in the area not successfully an older woman whose cat
butt face was causing Havoc with a coastline outside and a small boy maybe
around five wearing PJs and obviously as sick as his mother the old lady snagged
my attention because of my stalker habits on jml so I decided to discreetly
watch them for llama feed and boy was I not disappointed so the mom wanders up
to the cough and flu section and is obviously weighing up the various
options while her son tries not to cough up his lung
seriously this kid sounded like he had smoked 50 cigarettes a day for years a
proper death rattle blesses him Mill is just tapping her foot with impatience at
this point and tutting Mom ignores her which obviously won't do because doesn't
mom know that Mill is the center of the known universe and therefore should be
given constant attention insert I roll once Mill reaches the conclusion that
Mom isn't going to hurry up or pay her any mind she starts with a snarky
comments and I'm paraphrasing here because I think my brain shut down in
shock at the blatant rudess I'm British why are you reading the backs of the
boxes they all do the same thing you can't waste my son's money on an
expensive brand my son wouldn't have gotten up in the middle of the night for
this you spoil little boys too much we all know he is Faking it for attention
if you didn't baby him so much he wouldn't be like this and so on and so
forth like five full minutes of her whiny voice be teaching about everything
this poor woman was doing wrong after a little while the mom picks which brand
of cough stuff she wants and puts it in her basket she asks Mill if she will
watch him while she goes to the toilet to blow her nose and Mill begrudgingly
agrees now this is the bit that nearly caused me to fall into a rage induced
coma the little boy is still working on coughing up that lung and Mill is
getting increasingly agitated she leans down into this poor child's face and
tells him again not exact words that she knows he is faking for attention and
that he better stop coughing before she punishes him for being such a spoiled
little brat I die like literally my soul pieced out of my
body in an attempt to escape this vile woman's presence realizing my shock I
bit my lip intending to tell the tale as soon as the mom got back this poor
little boy tried unsuccessfully to hold in his coughs as I mentally chocked a
btch before letting out a giant death rattle quicker than the flash himself I
think evil gives these BT CH superhuman power Mill bends the kid over slightly
then slaps him hard on the backside while saying stop coughing I stand at
this point having had enough and I'm marching towards them while this btch is
telling this child that she has just been physically abused and not to DARE
cry either obviously small children do not work that way and the boy starts
crying in the middle of the aisle just as I reach them she raises her hand
again and all thoughts of civilized intervention leave my head I literally
push myself in between her and the small child and manage to snarl you evil btch
again I'm British and not confrontational at all so this was way
out of my comfort zone I felt like I was
in a movie the kid is full on crying his eyes out and wailing in the aisle at
this point I'm very close to kicking some ARS Mill is shrieking at me about
how dare I assault her I didn't touch her and that she will have my job y da
da all the crazy sht these crazy BT say this is where security decides to make
its arrival as well as little kid's mom who kind of stands there shocked for
half a second taking in the scene her small child sobs hysterically me
squaring up to a woman who is far bigger than me and far trampier looking like
I'm about to have an aneurysm due to rage and her red-faced Mill shrieking
about my improper conduct she stalked towards us and got right in my face and
said with a deadly calm that gave me chills what the f did you do goosebumps
hell yeah titanium spine Mill starts spluttering and backtracking so I very
helpfully explained the entire situation to mom who goes pale when I mention the
physical violence security being useless as always just stands there watching it
play out mom grabs her kid and her basket looks at Mill and says we're done
get the F out of my house and never darken my doorstep again you will never
see my child again and with that she just whisks away with her child without
looking back Mill realizing that she's just been cut off and abandoned in a
supermarket in the middle of the night swings towards me with the obvious
intent of Revenge I inform her politely customer voice in full flow that if she
lays a hand on me I will react with self-defense and have her arrested for
assault she took this as well as could be expected and had to be escorted out
by security while shrieking like a banshee I went back to my stock thanking
St Louis that it was over but of course it wasn't over fast forward a few hours
to the end of my shift and the day manager asks me for a word he informs me
that a woman made a formal complaint against me for improper and aggressive
conduct I tell him what really happened and he informs me that I handled the
situation badly and in the future I am to grab a manag if a customer is being
difficult in the end after a lot of me giving him sht he tells me that this is
just a verbal warning and to keep it in mind in my future conduct so there you
go that's how I nearly got fired this morning for stopping an Old Hag from
abusing her grandson update so I didn't really expect to have an update to the
story but BT has be cray cray I'm on my break so this happened when I started my
shift earlier I got into find that the GSM General store manager was waiting
for me which is hilarious because on a Sunday he usually finishes work at 4
p.m. apparently he had been informed of the incident by the day manager and
given the details by my awesome night manager when a customer complains about
a member of Staff the procedure is to take down their contact details so they
can be kissed by HR so in an effort to smooth over any potential problems the
GSM decided to handle Mill personally he didn't go into details but I managed to
get the general gist of the conversation
he called her to apologize and offer her some freebies typical crap like
discounts and apparently she went full on crazy on him threaten him with a
lawsuit threaten my life several times for destroying her family and threatened
to burn down the store with the colleagues in it you know what is normal
in jml territory since all our calls are recorded the GSM was then left with the
decision to contact the police or just take this as the normal sht customers
throw at us well St Louis must have been
smiling down on us because the mother of the small boy contacted the store she
has decided that she wants to press charges against the mill if she can and
she would like the footage we have of her assaulting her son and any contact
details of the policeman who helped security escort her away from the area
she has also asked if it it will be possible for me to give a statement as
our cameras do not pick up audio my GSM decided to actually grow some balls for
the first time and decided to make her threats against the store and me
personally a police matter so now I get to give a statement of events tomorrow
to the police and hopefully it will help this woman and her family keep this
crazy lady away from her the company has
also offered me the ability to change my shift to another day or move to another
store which I politely declined I see an Extinction burst on the horizon and
although she is banned from the store we tend to be terrible at actually
enforcing that as security sees hundreds of faces a day remembering one crazy
lady is unlikely hopefully this is the end probably not also the GSM
complimented me on my fast reaction to the situation and said that he believes
I handled it well update okay so I'm very sorry this isn't going to be much
of a feed so prepare the llamas for a little disappointment also I'm on break
so I'm typing this quickly on my mobile so I came into work early today to give
my statement to the police who very kindly agreed to come here so that a
representative from the company could be present I told the truth without any
embellishments unfortunately but not really shockingly they aren't going to
do anything about it they going to warn Mill that she is not allowed into our
store or near me anymore due to her threats but because this isn't uncommon
in retail they aren't taking it that seriously however just after I started
my shift mom turned up with a little boy
she and he had come to bring me a box of
chocolates as a thank you which was very nice of her in a rare social moment I
asked her if she would like to go to coffee at some point so now that I have
a coffee date next week I will Point her here then I didn't think it was a good
idea while at work to mention my posts she did say however that this was not
her first offense and that this was her last chance to show them that she wasn't
a complete pass she obviously failed that she didn't elaborate and I didn't
push but I am hoping she will impart some wonderful llama feed on our date so
I'm sorry this is not much of an update to those worried about my safety work is
insisting I take a job while things calm down and my boyfriend is insisting that
he move in with me early since I live alone just in case everyone is taking
the threat to me very seriously so please don't panic too much management
has also decided to make it mandatory that if a customer goes after me
specifically they will be told I no longer work for the company hopefully I
will update you next week until then my lovely llamas update please go check the
bot for the backstory my llamas this is likely to be a jumbled mess read at your
own Peril s do you know how people warn you and warn you and you think nah no
one is that that crazy right right right lol wrong so wrong this is going to
serve as a tale of caution to everyone out there who still believes that the
escalation is going to happen I had less than a 5minute interaction with this
woman and yeah so yesterday I met Dill hero and their son for coffee I will
give an update about that at some point because they gave me permission to post
some stuff but not others so I will have to send it to them for approval but
seriously start sharpening the pitchforks we are going to need them the
reason I mention the Meetup is because I believe it is important to mention for
my update that me and my so have now moved in so we had our young niece with
us a toddler who is super adorable now onto the actual update I'm super tired I
warned you so last night I quit my job not that I had much Choice after what
happened last night but yeah so I only been back to work a little while
purposefully being vague as someone already found me so I was doing my thing
putting out stock and trying not to look like a serial killer
when I noticed a woman lurking around the bottom of the aisle she was acting
super suspicious but I just assumed that she was shoplifting so I went to the
front to let security know what was up and return she's gone so I just assume
she got spooked and ran an hour or so goes by and she pops up again this time
I'm barely aware that I'm fully into the swing of things and working my little
ARS off she stays in my AIS for like 20 minutes and it starts to bug me I hate
it when customers lurk around me for long periods of time time the aisle
isn't that big just ask if you need help but I'm feeling nice and thinking hey
maybe she doesn't like asking for help so being the kind fantastic person I am
I decided in all my infinite wisdom to offer her Aid so I walk up to her all
smiles and a customer friendly attitude and ask her in my best customer voice if
there is anything I can do to help btch punches me in the face yep no words
first no warning just a full punch in the face she managed to hit me twice
luckily my fight or flight kicked in and I managed to back the F up pretty
quickly I was basically in shock she has found her voice and is screeching about
home recers and stuff I legitimately think she got me confused with someone
else by this point the rescue team has arrived everyone has been a bit jumpy
after the threats to my person and this woman ends up being tackled to the floor
I'm still going on about misunderstandings when the police arrive
to find out what the hell happened I didn't witness this bit because I was
carted off to the medical room since my face was starting to swell and my nose
was bleeding but according to my work buddies my asent was telling anyone who
would listen that I deserved it and that that's what I get when I tear families
apart my manager being the smart guy he is was the first to connect the two
incidents he asked the police if she had any connection to Mel she promptly
stopped talking silence speaks volumes she was then taken into police custody
and I will be pressing charges as will the company my manager then pressed me
for information since he wanted to find out if the two incidents were related
and he's super nosy we reviewed the security footage from the last few days
and every night guess who has been in the shop with her new FM yep Mill
daytime security can eat a bag of DC KS she's been coming in just before shift
change and staying until night security is busy doing rounds obviously waiting
to point me out that is our Theory anyway the night manager called the
police to update them so we will see unless FM rolls over on mil though it
won't go anywhere me and my manager talked and decided it was best if I
terminated my employment early I was leaving in 2 months anyway and the
company has offered to pay me holiday pay until my formal resignation so that
stinks he allowed me to work most of my last shift until my face started to
really ache though security stood at the end of my aisle the whole time
pretending to look at stock unfortunately that's not the end yeah I
got to see policemen twice in 24 hours one of my work friends drove me home
because everyone was a little paranoid about my safety and I didn't want to
wake up to come get me because I live quite far from work so I get home and
it's still dark outside I open my front door and just inside the entrance to my
house is a pile of gr looking substance and some loose razor blades after waking
up we determined the grally stuff to be rra poison now I have cats and thank F
they were snuggled up with me all night because I have no idea what what rat
poison does to cats but I guess it's not good so we call the police after I
finish explaining the new black eye and apologize for not getting so far to come
and get me the police get there and we let them know what's going on with
everything they ask us how M would know our address and I theorized that they
must have been following dill and Then followed us home as we have no other
enemies so it has to be her and it can't be a coincidence that the same night I
get punched rat poison turns up on my doorstep also I have been very careful
about coming home from work going all the way to a neighboring town
and getting someone to pick me up there to make sure no one follows me home
that's when so remarks that it's lucky that my niece wasn't here then it hits
me m if she was watching doesn't know that our niece isn't our child and that
she wouldn't be here there was no note or anything but how messed up is that
toddlers are notoriously difficult to contain how easy would it have been for
her to sneak out of bed and get curious about the shiny things we relayed this
to the police and we are now weighing the pros and cons of moving a few months
earlier than planned from what I know about this woman she isn't done I plan
to call Dill in a little while for now so is making me pancakes hopefully this
all goes away soon hopefully my next update will be more cheerful I probably
won't write up what dill and her told me today as I think I had enough of Mill
for one day so maybe tomorrow until then
remember all crazy is dangerous crazy it will escalate keep safe
update tww animal death and attempted murder so I read all the comments on my
last post and you guys are so wonderful and supportive I feel very grateful to
have you all on my side I decided to do a mini update about the current
situation because a lot has happened since yesterday also since we were
waiting for so long in the ER I decided to write up the stuff the dill and so
told me at coffee so that will be at the bottom so yesterday morning I ended up
going to the ER rather than the walk-in clinic because I thought in for a penny
in for a pound we were only waiting for an hour and a half so I feel like St
Louis was looking down on me guess who has a fractured cheekbone someone give
me a cookie for winning so was very upset more so than I because he hadn't
realized how serious it was until a nurse was lecturing me about my health
and getting proper medical attention quickly I got pizza on my way home
though so I'm happy this is where we get lucky and it gets a little messed up my
night manager called me while we were in the hospital he had taken it upon
himself to watch all the security footage to make sure that the police got
every minute of these crazy people on film as they had only taken footage
relating to the actual assault I mentioned my crazy morning and the rat
poison he lost his sht guess where Mill was filmed buying effing rat poison and
effing Razer blades this week that's right crazy btch got the sht she pushed
through my letter box from my place of work my night manager told me he would
call the police to get the footage when we got home I called my lawyer that I
have with the union and was on the phone with them for a while they believe we
should sue my old store I am on your guy advice giving him the go- ahead he is
also doing his best to get an emergency R luckily since we have her on camera
getting the stuff that was then put in my house there may be enough evidence
despite circumstantial to prove she is a
threat we also called the police to tell them about my injuries they didn't
really tell me anything which disappointed me as I had kind of assumed
they would keep me constantly updated but apparently not they did confirm that
they were investigating the new footage and the possible links between the
incidents but as of now the FM is not rolling over she is insisting that she
worked alone I'm not sure if they have asked about my homecoming present as the
officer insisted that when they knew something I would be informed I also
contacted D I was super busy yesterday she came over with wine which I didn't
drink because of pain medications but it was a nice gesture she was very
apologetic however she did prove very helpful as this is not the first time
Mill has used poisoning that story will be below she gave consent for our
lawyers to team up to speak to get more information and for me to pass all the
contact details along so got some super awesome cameras yesterday according to
him he works in Tech so we are putting them up today and looking into getting a
bad ARS letter cage thank you to whoever linked to it that's everything I think
but if anyone has any questions I'm not exactly doing anything better right now
so please go ahead also it's hella early
here yay fed up sleeping schedule anyway
on to the L feed so I let Dill read this
yesterday when she came over and she has approved it also she and her so have
started to lurk here and may start posting hopefully so hello to you as I
previously stated I have not been given permission to share everything they told
me and I will respect their boundaries I am also trying to keep this vague as I
don't want someone to find them they have enough problems
so today I am going to focus on all the events that have led up to every NC they
went with this woman yes all of them are plural Mill will be our crazy btch Dill
will be my new friend and DH will be Dill's husband without further Ado let's
get on the crazy train to Looney Town Sai so Mill was no better a mother than
she is a grandmother yes I don't know a lot about dh's childhood he didn't share
but I was told enough to know it wasn't fantastic if not outright terrible when
he was still young purposefully being vague with ages before secondary school
age M got bored of being a mother without a fill in picture and a kid to
cramp her style she decided enough was enough and dumped DH on his elderly
grandparents and took off with some stranger she had met at a bar fast
forward a while and DH is an angry teenager he hasn't seen his mom in a
long time and his grandparents while well-meaning were getting along in age
and didn't have the energy to Wrangle an unruly teen with abandonment issues
enter stage left Dill when DH met Dill everything changed he managed to turn
his life around and actually finish school he even went to University with
her support she literally guided him to the light and he credits her with saving
his life he was doing some not so good things to himself before when they both
come of age they decide to get married no one is particularly happy about this
her parents were very brief with justn for a short while until they realized DH
was here to stay everyone is happy everything is going so well what could
possibly ruin this wonderful moment enter from demon Lair Mill after a
decade or so she just popped out of nowhere like daisies now don't judge our
young couple too harshly they were young
and full of love and hope so they accept
the shedan back into the family fold now during the wedding planning Mill is
super helpful so they include her more now she doesn't have a lot of money but
she wants to help our young lovers are ecstatic that she is trying she cares
the darkness of the past is behind them let's all laugh and groan together they
go cake tasting and Mill offers to buy their dream Cake Way outside their
budget they of course accepted this generous offer and were Overjoyed at
this successful reunion our regrets it is probably an appropriate time to
mention that Dill has a super common super deadly food allergy do you see
where this is going so they order the cake the bakery is alerted to the
allergy the couple later sued but lost and everything continues on when the
wedding day comes everything goes perfectly Mill is playing nice the young
newlyweds go to Cut the Cake and face smash obviously and then disaster
strikes the couple end up in her Dill nearly died and it ruined their
reception and wedding night afterward Mill swore she didn't realize she had
changed it to surprise them as it was dh's favorite cake this was the first
time they went to NC deep caling breaths fast forward some more and our lovely
couple is expecting their first bundle of joy
Mill reaches out apologizing explaining and excusing her behavior the couple
decides to give her a chance as they are
still hopeful that she made a mistake by poisoning bill on her wedding day they
start a tentative relationship and then the gender reveal party comes along they
had asked for gender neutral gifts for the baby Mill had got them everything in
bright pink naturally she always wanted a little girl to spoil apparently so
obviously a baby is revealed to be a boy and everyone is happy and celebrating d
notices Mill is acting strange and Sullen probably CBF but ignores him
later when everyone is cleaning up dill and Mill are having a seemingly innocent
conversation when Mill asks Dill when she was planning to abort obviously
shocked Dill asks WTF Mill is talking about why the ever loving Jesus F would
they abort well obviously so they could conceive a girl why waste time birthing
the boy boys are horrible to raise she knows she raised one blah blah blah
luckily DH had a spine and basically kicked his mother out and told her never
to come near them again that was the second time they went to NC no we are
not done tragically I know try not to judge them I asked them what the actual
F they were thinking and apparently after a few years the hatred kind of
dissipates they do not speak to mill again until the baby is a few years old
they only contact her because she is in an accident and in the hospital they
allowed her to stay with them I know I legitimately moaned but all was well for
a time she was apparently a very considerate house guest and cleaned up
after them and herself never overstepped boundaries with low after a year or so
they start to forget to not trust her she moves out once she is better and
everything is going smoothly then they get a dog this bit actually really upset
me and I was mad at them for forgiving her after this so they adopt a youngish
dog and bring it home the dog and small child are best friends immediately glued
to the hip playing around on the floor you know normal stuff Mill didn't like
that she exclaimed many times that the dog was obviously dangerous which is why
it was abandoned it shouldn't be let around low it will hurt him are foolish
but lovely couple ignores this thinking it's just a good-natured concern until
one night they let the dog out to pee as
usual and he came back chewing something he swallows before they can do anything
but they just chalk it up to usual dog Shenanigans a while later they had to
have the dog put down due to complications from poisoning now the
couple confronts Mill and she swears it wasn't her and without any proof and
with the neighbors hating their dog also a very anxious Barker the couple gives
her the benefit of the doubt although they distance themselves from her and
move houses another couple of years pass and Mill sees Dill DH and loow twice a
year at the most and they get along fine until hazar Dil is pregnant it's still
early days but she is feeling that morning sickness all the time DH is away
a lot on business and with a boisterous 5-year-old in the house needing feeding
cleaning and taking to school and Club activities what is poor DAL to do her
own parents lie far away and are not much help so they allow Mill to help out
so she moves in just until dh's job has settled down a bit more and she helps
out now Dill has noticed that low has become a little reserved but puts it
down to adjusting to the news of not being an only child until of course she
is informed by our brave heroine of the abuse her child is suffering at her
hands when they get home without Mill Lo asks if he is in trouble Dal pushed a
little and discovered that this was not the first time Mill had physically
disciplined low they are really against physical discipline apparently whenever
Mill had low alone and he misbehaved she would spank him and tell him that she
wouldn't mention this to his mother so he wouldn't get in any more trouble of
course this effectively stopped low from
confiding in his parents about the abuse so they are once again and see but this
time apparently for good they are trying to get a ro and are working on
disappearing the police case for for abuse is going nowhere fast despite
their efforts they told me all this and so much more which is why I feel this
horrible fear in my gut because I know this woman is smarter than the others
she knows how to play nice B her time and strike when it will hurt the most
she is the most dangerous type of crazy the one who gets away with it now my
llamas please be forgiving to my new friend and her DH they are very lovely
people who were taken in by a monster I hope my next update will have this evil
btch behind bars for a long long time we shall see until then we are being wary
and we are all getting ready to run small very crappy update so the police
went to question Mill after reviewing the security footage I am told she was
very cooperative and even let the police search her house she had a pack of
unopened razors and an unopened box of poison the police are considering it a
coincidence when they question FM about my present she confessed fully my lawyer
is peeved because FM doesn't even know where I live
she couldn't tell the police where I live she said she followed me on the bus
but I haven't gotten on the bus since before this all happened the police
however don't give a sht apparently a confession is enough for them my lawyer
is trying his best to make the police realize it's obviously a trap we meet on
Monday with dill and my lawyer to basically compare notes sorry this isn't
satisfying update so it's been a while to everyone who has been messaging me
and responding to to my posts thank you I have read all of it and I really
appreciate you all things got crazy and I just couldn't really deal with it very
well this whole situation has really fed with me I've had to go back on my
medications and my poor so is currently the glue holding me together so without
further Ado let's catch up with some bullsh tea so we have a lot to cover so
I'm going to quickly mention some things my face is healing well and I no longer
look like I tried to bang on a brick wall my former workplace is compensating
me rather than taking me to court dill and family got a r i however did not
because there was not enough evidence linking Mill and the incident I love my
bad arlet cage which may have also helped Save Our Lives recently so thank
you again to you guys FM is being charged with a lot of things that I am
still not allowed to disclose but she will be away for a long time she didn't
roll on mil though that's it for the brief update I'm sure I forgotten
something I'm a little all over the place as of late so please ask questions
if you have any so me and so set up all our security stuff when I last updated
and for a little while it was quiet we almost thought maybe it was over that
Mill had retreated to the Shadows from when she came
ha first the graffiti started now to give you a good idea I live in a
smallish area surrounded by other smallish areas mainly populated by old
people and families graffiti just isn't a thing here first it was on the outside
of our garden wall just one word as LT we thought maybe some kids were from a
nearby City continues with life then it was our bin home recer okay maybe not
kids we check our cameras but they don't cover the bin area so we adjust put up
another camera and wait then our garage door die this time we call the police we
have it on film FM to and we give them the footage but there isn't much they
can do with it because it's dark and doesn't get his face apologies for the
terrible sentence English is hard and even typing this sht
up makes me start to panic at this point
my paranoia is starting to set in I only leave the house with so and his work is
still letting him work from home so I'm not alone we inform our neighbors that
some bullsh tea is going down the night the RO went through for dill and Co
everything went to sht deep breaths I would like you all to know I had to
abbreviate from posting because I started panicking and couldn't breathe
it's late we are asleep in bed when we hear the glass break we have a glass
Conservatory attached to our home it connects our back door with our garden
so jumps out of bed and I phone the police while I'm hysterically trying to
get the police to get to us quickly my incredibly stupid so decides to play
Super Hero luckily for him our actual beefed up neighbor had heard the
commotion and had come to help together they get fm2 down where the neighbor
holds him while I deal with my wrath at his utter stupidity the police come and
take fm2 away the front of our house had burn in hell graphi across it our womb
is at the back so we didn't hear it he had set fire to something and put it
into our letter box thank you internet stranger for being effing psychic our
bin was also set on fire but luckily we had not caught onto anything our
Conservatory was trashed with broken glass and a cat that looked just like my
cat was left there we are still trying to find the owner to break the news I'm
sorry it's not articulated well I'm having to distance myself from
we captured it all on camera and gave it to the police fm2 had a small knife on
him I think he believed I was alone in the house and when my so gave Chase he
panicked things progressed quickly from there it turns out fm2 is the DH of our
original FM and he was under the impression that I was at fault for his
wife's current predicament when he realized that they were actually puppets
he rolled over on his master pretty damn quickly you'd think this would be the
end of it right you'd be wrong the police went for Mill but she's
disappeared she didn't take her car and no one knows where she is so now here we
are a few weeks from moving and I can't leave the house if so goes out for
groceries I close myself in my closet and try not to break down if anyone
looks at the house when walking past I panic I spend most of my time watching
the cameras holding my cat babies and thanking every God deity or demon that
it wasn't worse that's what these people do this is the damage that is left I
just can't can't wait till we get out of
here dill and Company are staying with a
friend until m is found Dill has spent a lot of time here with me she has been
amazing they are still lurking they are going to post once this is all over so
there you go it's not a Justice boner it's just terrifying really sorry I
don't have anything better to update with and this lacks my usual humor
update I know many of you are worried about me I'm ashamed to say that I
responded to some and not others let's just say that I was in a very very dark
place and even getting a notification on this sub freaked me out my therapist
said it was Association but I'm still back and finally ready to finish this up
for all of our llamas this is likely to be a rambling mess I am afraid because I
do not plan on proofreading at all and I'm just trying to get through it I
believe that doing this will help me finally close this effing awful chapter
of my life I've come a long way and with your guys advice and a lot of therapy I
feel like a semi-normal human being again so without further Ado we left off
on me and so was running the police couldn't find any trace of Mill anywhere
and I knew that she would be after either me or Dill 50/50 is not that
great of odds when dealing with a effing psycho so we packed up everything
important our cat babies and left many of you offered places to stay for which
I was very grateful and it was actually with one of you that we escaped a shout
out to you for being awesome the journey was long that is 8 hours of pretty
constant driving we were both too scared to to pull over for any rest I know it
was dangerous but to be fair we were literally running into the arms of a
complete stranger who could easily have been a serial killer we get there and
I'm pretty numb I can't describe my feelings during this time because it
freaks me out thinking about it and it's
so hard to understand unless you felt it yourself it's just a permanent numbness
punctured with periods of deep Primal Fear I felt like an animal in a cage
that was waiting to be beaten it was by far the worst time of my life so far
anyway we get to this person's land and it is in the middle of nowhere
surrounded by fields and Practically Perfect for hiding out we were there for
2 months during this time I was mostly clinging to my cats calling the police
station daily for news checking in with dill and helping out a little it was our
host who forced me to continue my therapy sessions by phone to be honest
the way I was going she probably saved my life slowly I started to recover I
started to focus on other things to keep me busy we started looking for a house
to call our own and we started talking seriously about marriage I started to
feel like a person again and I started to laugh more I'm very glad I was
Stronger when I got the call Mill had been spotted she had convinced a family
friend to drop off a spare packed lunch for her grandson luckily the class
teacher isn't a effing [ __ ] and inspected it once it arrived in the
classroom knowing that he already had a lunch box the entire contents were laced
with the same allergen that the son shares with his mother there was also a
note I'm not sure what it said as when Dill called me to tell me the situation
she was an effing blabbering mess but the general just seemed to be I've taken
your son away from you like you did to me yes she tried to kill her grandson
because she realized she was in deep sht this sent me into a panic I cannot
convey in words how effing horrible it was in the few hours before they found
her I'm not even going to recount it properly because I can't breathe when I
think about that moment eventually they found her in my old house we still
technically lived there as we had nowhere else to store the stuff we had
to leave behind they found her screaming and destroying everything I'm assuming
that she thought that if she was going down she was taking me in Dow with her
she was arrested and will be away for a very very long time FM and fm2 I was
told we probably be out in a few years with good behavior since they rolled
over on her but I doubt they will care about me dill and family ran her DH got
his job to transfer them out of the country and we've both agreed not to
speak as this whole experience took a toll on my mental health and it would be
best for me if I could just remove myself from these events I never went
back to the old house so he went and saved what he could the rest we brought
new we moved into a nice house far away from where these events transpired after
a lot of therapy I finally got up the courage to go back to work it wasn't
easy and I'm really downplaying the journey I had to go through but I'm not
really ready to talk about that I only came back to Reddit properly 2 months
ago and I've been lurking in this sub a few of you gave me the purpose to post
this update because a lot of you are in situations where you are a lot like I
was not fully understanding just how much danger you are in I know I may be a
little biased but please accept that this update does nothing but warn you do
not give them a chance to hurt you even if they only seem a little crazy treat
it like a nuclear threat trust me when I say that it is really not worth trying
to be political or downplaying it I will never be the same as I was before we
have security cameras in our new house it took me effing ages to be able to let
my cats outside for fear of their safety I had to tell so that I wanted to push
back having children because I was not ready to be responsible for another
person while constantly looking over my shoulder and checking security footage
of my house do not care about what anyone says follow your gut and stay
effing safe find people who actually support your decisions and do not
compromise your safety for a single second thank you to everyone who
commented and messaged me I was terrible at replying
and to the moderators I'm sorry if I broke any rules or caused any trouble
for you at any point you all have been so wonderful and supportive during this
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what is something that everyone looks stupid doing Story one waiting to grab
your dog's poop I walk my dog at the river for Park like 300 yard down the
street from my apartment they have poop bag dispensers at the park so sometimes
I forget to bring one from home the absolute worst is when my dog decides
she needs to go before we get to the park and I can get a bag I have to
resist the urge to look around at anyone who might have seen it and say don't
worry I'm going to come back and pick it up I just don't have a bag yet because
they're at the park and she usually does
it at the park in other instances I make such a big old show batting all my
pockets rifling through my bag making a couple of exasperated expressions and
then carefully picking out a twig or something and exaggerating sticking it
in the ground to Mark the Spot I then back away a few steps while I stare at
it just to show that I've memorized the spot then hesitate do a tiny decisive
little nod to myself and walk in a big hurry to wherever the nearest bags are
then keep the bag open around my hand for whatever distance it takes to get me
back I did not not realize that I do this until you just got me analyzing
myself it's the same act every time how many other times am I being a
performative phony in public and not consciously realizing it the biggest
thing people do that looks stupid is knowing they are doing something stupid
and trying to clumsily cover it up by making it look cool if you're doing
something that looks deaft there really isn't a graceful way to do it just go do
it and smile as if no one's looking because usually they aren't anyway dog
walkers can all agree that this is one of the most awkward parts of the job
maybe bring a poop bag next time story two when you're walking in the opposite
direction you're supposed to go and have to do a sudden 180 turn back then I
would get my phone out and pretend that someone was meeting me and they given me
the wrong location then I'll sigh shake my head and then turn the other way or
I'd go with a good old pocket slap and act like I forgot something people
always say that no one is paying attention and no one cares that was
raised by a person who notices and comments on everyone driving by an
overweight person walking or jogging she would make judgmental comments she sees
a person going in the wrong direction and turns around judgmental comments she
sees a person trip you best believe there will be comments she is likely the
reason I had to work extra hard to get over my anxiety that people are always
watching and commenting for years this has been my view of the world however my
anxiety improved when I stopped doing the stuff I usually do I forced myself
to just turn around in situations like this or other similar situations and I
stopped caring as much as before just turn around and that's it plus this only
happens to me when I'm in a relatively big city and don't know some streets and
the truth is people are just minding their own business they usually don't
even notice and as they've said what if they do they'll most likely forget in a
minute and even if they don't who cares like OMG I just saw a guy changing
directions in the street it literally feels like the most naive thing ever
they're a total stranger who you might never see again and it surely is not
relevant for them to remember your face for the rest of their lives this is not
so awkward compared to almost bumping into someone and then s side stepping in
the same direction they're going Story three we all look a bit silly when we
confidently walk into a glass door we thought was open our brain assumes it's
open until reality hits us it's happened
to the best of us and it's always a good laugh afterward for example there's a
woman I know who has a 6-in scar starting in her shoulder and going down
her arm she said when she was a kid her parents were viewing a home to rent and
she and her brother were chasing each other around the place bam she ran into
the sliding door yes they did end up renting it another was when I was 12 my
brother was 10 and Mama just cleaned the
sliding glass door into the backyard she told my brother go get your sister
dinner is ready he goes running and slams into the clean now invisible glass
door after 7 hours in the ER and 212 stitches later mom dead and brother came
home his face and arms were totally clear but his legs were a mess I'll have
to give him a call tonight I had totally forgotten about it I also came forget
when while visiting a friend their 14-year-old granddaughter who's playing
Chase with her little brother ran straight through the 6x6 sliding glass
store I don't remember much about the aftermath if I remember correctly she
was okay just with a couple of small cuts and bruises from the fall and badly
shaken but the noise I'll never forget that noise story four wearing pieces
that Beck and wardrobe malfunctions in NYC a lady crossed the street and Midway
through her wig blew off everyone stopped and she walked to the middle of
the intersection bent over to pick it up and her dress blew over her head
contagious laughter from everyone even her while I'm on the subject of wigs
I've also seen this in my hometown years ago I was going into Walmart on a
particularly windy day the older lady was with her daughter and her wig flew
right off She chased it across the parking lot her daughter was laughing so
hard but to be fair if you're going to publicly embarrass yourself NYC is the
place to do it there's so much weird stuff always happening there that it
probably wouldn't even become dinner conversation for some people for example
I got caught in an unexpected short but torrential rainstorm while wearing a
white dress and had to ride the subway 40 blocks home my dress was rendered
nearly transparent but somehow no one else in the train car was even wet I
must have looked miserable because an old lady told me tear up dear you're
just giving the guys something fun to think about when they get home I did not
find her comment comforting the same thing happened to a friend of mine who
was working at a restaurant in down Chicago right on Michigan a they would
cater lunches to businesses nearby so she was pushing a cater cart with food
on it down the sidewalk when the wind took her hat off her head and when she
went to get my hat the cart started rolling down a sidewalk ramp and she had
to dash back over to catch it she luckily caught it in time but was dying
with laughter she had to go back to the restaurant and have someone else still
over the food Story five looking for a photo to show on your phone but it takes
forever this is horrible the longer it takes the less interested the other
person becomes and the more frustrated you get trying to find it then when you
do find it after all that it just feels like a chore and you regret doing it or
those awkward moments when you're looking at your phone with you waiting
to see the photo or video you want to show them and you have to scroll quickly
in hopes of them not seeing something weird or inappropriate on your phone on
the flip side I hate this whole showing people your phone thing I make a
conscious effort never to do it even when tempted I feel a bit like a jerk
but if that thing is not ready on your phone I rudely deny opportunity and just
say send it to me in fact I'd like to petition proper etiquette to send it yes
even when they are sitting next to you story six trying to take off pants
without removing shoes first it usually happens when you're trying to pair a
pair of heels or otherwise complicated shoes with different outfits if I can
squeeze the shoes through the pants I absolutely will because those little
buckles and whatnot require super uncomfortable positions to clink into
place and nobody has time for that I've also done done it when I've left the
house to go walk or hike with the dogs and realized it was a lot warmer outside
than I thought I loaded the dogs into the car and then ran back inside to
change into shorts getting shorts on over shoes isn't a big deal getting the
pants off however is another story story seven driving a segue Segways really
never took off like they were supposed to I remember the hype when they were
first revealed to the world then nothing one reason for that was that they
originally only went the extra mile between charges for most of us it is
just as easy to walk a mile as it is to ride around on one of those things for
that short of a distance the Segways were meant for use by warehouse workers
were on their feet all day fulfilling orders but they weren't practical
because they didn't stay charged long enough but I will say this I was in a
museum staring at a painting and a woman was standing next to me and she looked
weirdly tall I looked up and down and she was in her 70s affluent looking
slender hooked up to a portable oxygen tank with a lead to her nose and Tall
due to standing on a segue way it's hard to get on a bike if you have bad health
issues and bless her heart she wanted to
get out to the museum and look at things at eye level instead of from a
wheelchair so there is a use for it story eight standing up as soon as the
plane lands or on the opposite side doing absolutely nothing to prepare to
leave the plane and when it's your turn having to get all your stuff out of the
seat back pocket repack your purse and try to get your bags out of the
compartment three rows behind you while 100 people behind you have to have their
time wasted is as if you couldn't have seen the coming wave of people exiting
the plane ahead of you and made a sensible prediction as to when that wave
would reach you story n Fierce online arguments will instantly make both sides
look like jerks I've gotten into the habit of typing out my response then
deleting it and pretending I won sometimes I don't even pretend I won I
just realized after typing my response that the potential frustration wasn't
worth my time so I deleted it without posting plus this is definitely
something I learned the hard way arguing
with people online never never convinces anyone so why do it it just becomes
grandstanding and trying to poke fun at the other person's point for karma
rather than an actual discussion I've been on here for like 10 years and
sometime in the past seven years I realized that all of my written
communication is typed in a way that's defending myself before I make a point
on social media like work emails texts and stuff you can only say so much in a
couple of paragraphs in a reply and people on the internet go straight for
the worst possible scenario that no one would ever think of or mention in real
life I guess it's made me more diplomatic for work but it's quite
frankly exhausting to have to preface every single thing I've learned a lot
but I really wish everyone would quit needing to be the smartest person in the
room trolls have been around since the dawn of the internet era they're like
the norm now so you've made it this far how about hitting that like button and
subscribing to the channel it really helps me out story 10 walking through a
cobweb that no one else sees and then waving your arms around a lot to get rid
of the cobwebs on your body or walking through a circle of flying insects the
first time I visited my husband's Hometown we took a walk out to an old
cemetery on the way he stopped suddenly and began dancing around frantically
slapping at the air and himself I just stared in amazement wondering if this
was some kind of seizure he was shooting a horsefly horse flies don't live where
I grew up story 11 jumping jacks you know some folks swear by how cool
jumping jacks look but as a gal I think about how that had feel with gravity
giving them rough time during every jumping jack same deal with running I've
got to run with my arms clamped over my chest because the alternative is just
plain painful it's a whole different ball game no pun intended dealing with
these quirks really puts a spin on the whole exercise routine making you
rethink what works for different bodies story 12 chasing a pingpong ball there's
nothing more dehumanizing than chasing after an erratic ping pong or beer pong
ball I was visiting my friend at a certain University he was in a frat I
had never seen such a campus or a huge fret house I'm very anti-rat but I
wanted to see my friend anyway beer pong
was played and I was doing well everyone seemed nice at some point my ball went
behind a radiator and I went to get it when it fell by slamming down onto the
carpet at terminal velocity landing on my knees in ripped jeans that rug burn
took literally a month to heal back to the subject the trick is to stroll
around the direction it's traveling in and when the ball settles into a roll
nonchalant pick it up unless you chase pingpong balls while moonwalking then it
looks awesome story 13 standing or sitting awkwardly while everyone sings
Happy Birthday to you if you want to know a solution here's one from personal
experience my son covers his ears and cries so we stopped singing it for him
when he was younger and just never started it back up another time was
during my friend's 25th birthday when his request not to sing fell on deaf
ears for the 15th year in a row he was obviously going through something but it
was the first time he stopped family from crossing boundaries and he said he
wished he had learned it sooner well yeah the singing of happy birthday kind
of gets really awkward the older you get story 14 doing manual labor retail or
Food Service work while the boss is watching whether you care about your job
or not I swear dropped object's inability to find stock or just plain
looking stupid jump 200% if the boss was looking same with typing if anyone is
watching you in an office environment my
boss likes to sneak up behind me and say so do you know what you're doing he
thinks it's freaking hilarious I've named my stomach ulcer after him story
15 trying to find your car when you lost it in a parking lot I drove to a light
rail station and took it to a concert in San Francisco I came back to the wrong
station parking lot and looked everywhere for my car I figured somebody
stole it I called the cops they came and
helped me look for it another cop phoned in and said he found it at the next
station I was so embarrassed as if that wasn't enough I once went shopping at
the mall and when I was done I couldn't even remember which side of the mall I
parked on that was fun someone gave me a tip and I've been doing it since just
walk really far to park in the back if it isn't empty Park in the farthest away
spot so it's an easy search like dude ever heard of an air tag I'm sure you'll
never lose your car again story 16 hospital gown with bare bottom the funny
thing is that it's essential because they might need quick access I had
surgery where they realized things were going to take longer than expected and
they catheterized me I didn't expect that upon waking up and not only might
they have to put the catheter in but they will also likely need to put a
grounding pad on your thigh story 17 running with a backpack gone this was me
last night but it was at least my hiking pack with the waist and chest straps to
help keep it in place the dog I was walking got freaked out by the fireworks
and went into flight mode I finally got him calm enough to just speed walk when
a train crossing we just passed came down and the dinging started I freaked
the poor guy out out more and we just ended up running the rest of the way
home however if youve ever been in Washington DC for the Marine Corps there
are always 20 to 30 Marines running it with full 40b packs on it's pretty
impressive even more impressive is watching vets who lost limbs run the
marathon story 18 Tik Tock dances it's when people just mouth the words to a
movie or TV scene and try to act it out in their living room this is hugely
popular for some reason also when I was teaching high school health and PE I
fought the ti Tok dancing so much just being an old person when I stopped them
from dancing none of them wanted to participate so I caved and let them do
their silly Tik Tock dances albe it with appropriate music they had fun burned
calories and used dance as exercise and other kids joined in sometimes for fun
at the end of the day I was cool with it because who am I to say you have to
exercise and burn calories with just these Sports Go dance now the really
funny bit is watching people record them in real life the finished videos with
audio can be entertaining to watch but there's nothing nothing quite as
hilarious as watching someone record a Tik Tok out of context with no audio in
public on a random street hiking trail or some business it really makes you
realize how dumb most of those dances are story 19 walking and talking on your
phone without earphones I work in a small boutique and sometimes people walk
in and I'll greet them and they look at me like I'm an idiot for interrupting
and point to their tiny earbuds and continue with their phone conversation
then I awkwardly have to sit there while
they walk around a few feet away from me it just looks funny to when someone is
ranting and you don't see a phone in their ear they are talking to themselves
and gesturing and then you realize they are on the phone it's comical to me
that's all story 20 vaping I quit smoking six years ago and decided vaping
was the healthier alternative but what I
didn't realize was how ridiculously dumb
I looked doing it an ex-girlfriend tried telling me but I didn't decide to stop
until a few years ago I played golf with my friend on Saturday and he had this
ridiculously large handheld Vape clutched in his hand 80% % of the time
he wasn't swinging a club and it suddenly hit me how dumb he looked while
doing it and thought to myself well I can't believe I used to walk around with
one of these things looking like a toou all I see now are undisciplined people
getting into their strawberry kiwi Vape like their lives depend on it story 21
eating people just shove whatever into their faces and Munch on it until they
can force it into their bodies it will never not look weird as a kid I read an
article about Paparazzi at the end of it the reporter asked one of the is there
any situation where you would not take a picture the paparazzi he was talking to
thought about it a bit and said eating never take a picture of anyone eating
everyone looks bad when they're eating photographing them like that is just
disgusting a couple of months later I picked up a copy of the torona goat and
snail AKA Canada's national newspaper the front page above the fold is a
picture of a politician eating it looks awkward more specifically eating ice
cream I know there might be some ways to look alluring or something I don't know
but every time my husband and I see people eating an ice cream cone no spoon
just licking it they look ridiculous we giggle there's just no dignified way to
do this I also once saw my local Congressman on a sidewalk outside the
movie theater totally alone licking an ice cream cone I could never take him
seriously again I just know I'll never be caught dead licking an ice cream cone
in public same goes for joining an eating contest where you can't use your
hands story 22 walking back to the bench after you bowl or bowling in general
that I don't like it because I feel like I look like an idiot the entire time
where do you look do you watch the ball while walking backward or turn around
and walk back without watching such an awkward experience I was in a bowling
league as a kid but now as an adult it is so uncomfortable especially when it's
just you and one other a date for example and they have no choice but to
watch you the worst part is that I always do some kind of purposely awkward
dance back to the bll bench because of this I do a side shuffle with those
stupid ball shoes because they're so slippery and I give finger guns and
Winks even if I hit a gutter ball can't get enough of hearing about others dumb
moments then go watch what's your this person is on another level of stupid
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aita for defending my husband's ex-wife after she was made to leave me F50 and
my husband m46 were at his mother's funeral we have kids from previous
relationships we have four boys my husband's oldest son had his mother come
to pay her respects we asked our son where his mom was and he said she left
we were all like what my son was upset and said that a cousin escorted her out
and said she doesn't belong here so my husband and I went outside to catch her
to bring her back in now there is a crowd of people in the parking lot so we
start walking to go back in the funeral home they started screaming and swearing
right outside the funeral home that had large Windows every door we went to they
blocked them there was almost a physical
fight the whole situation was disgusting they didn't want my husband's ex-wife
there she had every right to be there not only to say good bye to her
ex-mother-in-law but also support her son with his grief it all came to the
end when the crazy addict cousin and her child molest her brother these are true
facts about both of them called the police on my son saying he had a gun
which was absolutely not true because he never carries a gun so the police came
and I was the one that actually spoke to them and told them the situation I told
them that my son does not have a gun it was the cousins that were starting all
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I know that my husband is cheating on me
I need to tell someone if F40 found that out about 6 months ago I went into a
total shock I thought he M39 loved me because he tells me that every day we
have a beautiful family together three beautiful children 5 comma 4 and 16 Mo
beautiful home vacation home we are close to both our families and
everything else is perfect shf 35 is a cooworker of my husband that I know very
well she has been in my home I have comforted her when her husband cheated
on her and left her for his new woman I saw her pain little did I know that she
would inflict that same pain on me a few months later I saw her Nudes on his
phone talk about their hookups on messenger she isn't even beautiful she
is disgusting pathetic and miserable I know I'm being a disgusting misandrist
here but I can't help myself what does she have that I don't he disgusts me
very much he is pathetic and stupid my respect for him is gone I have chosen to
pretend that I don't know I love my life and I'll be damned if I share my
children and not be able to see them every day of their lives not him nor her
deserve me separating for my babies my home my family my comfortable life and
my safety sometimes I think he knows that I know when he looks at me and asks
me to come back to him when he asks where I'm in my thoughts it feels like
your body is here but your mind is a thousand miles away I don't answer him
he starts to argue sometimes it feels like he is doing it to provoke a
reaction out of me but never answer or engage until he gets tired and leaves me
alone I never initiate anything with him and when he has me I just let him and I
refuse to let him Pleasure Me In the Beginning he complained that I am
distant and cold and that I want him to use protection I told him I stopped
using BC so he has to wear protection his complaining stopped when I told him
that it's either this or nothing 6 months later I am mostly at peace with
my life still a lot of ups and downs but the Downs are getting fewer and further
apart today was a down so I needed to vent the part of my heart and thoughts
that were occupied with my husband were suddenly empty and I have found out that
I'm pretty good at filling the void with other things new hobbies and even more
quality time with my babies and loved ones all is well update hi everyone I
didn't expect that I needed to make an update about my post because I really
only ever wanted to vent because nobody knows my situation and I need an outlet
sorry about that BTW I have some news anyway and mostly they're based on your
comments about me needing to protect my ass in case my husband got bored and
left me I have never been worried before for because I basically own half of
everything legally speaking but I started to think of worst case scenario
situations anyway Friday my husband had made me dinner and brought me flowers
and chocolate he said he wanted to make it a night for the two of us because he
felt that we were pulling apart kids were sleeping and he wanted me and then
got upset because it wasn't how he imagined the evening would go and
accused me of not loving him or our family anymore I got really angry when
accused me of not loving my family when they're all I have left to give me love
and hope I snapped at him that I didn't feel safe with him anymore and he full
well knew why I had become this way you know the reason why he was shocked and
looked at me without saying anything and then just sat silent on his end of the
sofa for the rest of the evening before bed he asked me to tell him how I would
feel safe again and to tell him what I wanted him to do he went to bed I stayed
up all night and made a list of Demands one I want a postnuptial agreement where
I get my house and my summer house two I
become a partner at his company's at 50%
I don't know how these things work since
I won't be buying in but this is for him to fix I'm not interested in management
just that I have my half in the passive income three I want him to get a
vasectomy we were planning four children before all this but I don't want that
anymore so he should have a vasectomy four I want him to always wear condoms
with me or never bother to touch me again I will not even tolerate
complaining about that part also I want by annual STI tests this morning I sent
him a text with these demands I know it is silly to send someone you live with a
text but I didn't want to Fumble with my words and forget details I didn't want
him to see me cry or being visibly emotional I just couldn't take him
trying to console me just the thought of him feeling sorry for me makes me sick
but also I didn't want to forget anything and I wanted it to be in
writing he read it on The Breakfast Table and he didn't say anything we
continued the day as normal and when the children were in bed we had our dinner
and he said about your demands I agree I told him to start on Monday with
realizing my list he agreed so I guess since many of you you asked me to take
measurements and have a backup plan this is what I could come up with and it did
help I woke up today a little bit less anxious I don't know how long we can
keep this up but I hope until I feel safe to leave my babies in his care
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hey everybody hope you're all doing well
my name is steven and this is the story time channel
we've got some i don't work here lady stories and our first story of the day
is by achalasaur ex-employee chews out of karen i wasn't
sure where this karen story belonged but decided to post it here in honor of its
hero who most definitely doesn't work here anymore
so for some context this story involves me a nice lady
a karen karen's husband and a guy who used to work there
we'll call him adam but he's actually my hero
also i'm obviously a trans guy which did not help
i work at a large hardware store as an appliance associate
we wear orange aprons so i'll let you figure out where that is
now i don't usually work in flooring but the regular flooring guy was on break
so after the nice lady asked me to get something down from the overhead for her
i headed over there to help seeing karen and adam standing at the carpet cutting
machine not together i tell them i'll come help
them as soon as i was done with the nice lady
after about two minutes i returned to the carpet cutting machine to find karen
gone leaving me to talk adam through what would be best for him to get for his
project just as i'm getting ready to roll out the carpet we decided on
karen comes stomping back there you are adam says it's alright man take care of
her first i'm not in any rush i say how can i help you ma'am i need 60
feet of astro turf how freaking hard is that
i started rolling out her carpet you should have just done that to begin with
are you stupid or something all of you people are lazy good for nothing r words
adam says ma'am there's no reason to talk to him like that
he's just doing his job not freaking fast enough not that it's any of your
business you need to stay out of our conversation
adam obviously done with her bs look he's just trying to do his job and
you're acting like a witch a verbal smackdown ensues until my
manager will call her debbie walks over to intervene debbie says is
there a problem i was just having a conversation with this lady points to me
and he started being rude you need to handle it manager says ma'am
he doesn't work here i don't know what you want me to tell you
my manager proceeds to try and talk the woman down while i roll and cut her
carpet by the time i had her carpet ready her
husband had arrived to the cart to load it up
then thinking everything was over my manager walks away
and i turned to adam to get him his carpet that's when i realized that karen
had been telling her husband what happened husband storming out to adam did you
call my wife a witch adam shrugging i said she was acting like a witch
there's no reason to talk to associates the way she did you need to learn some
freaking respect you can't talk to customers like that
adam says i am a customer which means i can say the things
everyone else is thinking but can't say then the husband tried to fight adam
before my manager came back and escorted the couple to the front
come to find out adam used to work there and loved the opportunity to tell
customers everything he'd never been able to when he worked there
i've never been so satisfied let me ask you guys
if you were doing retail and you had a bad customer like this
would you be able to hold in the kind of vulgar language
and remain completely publicly appropriate let me know if you think you
would be able to handle that in the comments down below
because some of these karens might really test me on something like that
our next stories by rest equals rust my wife saw it happen there's something
about the way i look slash dress slash act that causes people to
assume i work here wherever i am at the time it's happened
at restaurants a few times office depot more than once at a fancy
resort in hawaii but it happens most often at home depot
it's become an ongoing joke with me and my wife i have told her dozens of times
about these instances and we are both entertained
but she rarely sees it happen firsthand yesterday we were at a home depot
picking up plastic storage bins she and i together pulling bins off the
shelf and loading them into a cart an older lady approached me excuse me
where do you keep your bug spray it's in outdoors right over there oh thank you
also i have these little fruit flies in my house what do you recommend
put a splash of wine in a glass add two drops of dish soap
cover the top with saran wrap poke a couple holes in the saran wrap with a
toothpick the bugs will be attracted by the wine
go inside and not be able to find their way out the soap will help them drown by
breaking the surface tension of the wine oh wow thank you so much for your help
the whole time my wife stood there with a shocked face after the old lady left
my wife told me how amazing it is to see this happen in real life
and how quickly i transformed from a customer to an employee
i don't even bother to tell people i don't work here well
when you only ever have polite old ladies and good experiences
it makes it a little easier to just go along with it but when you have the
irate cairns it becomes a lot more easier to quickly
say i don't work here it's not my responsibility
this next story is by the grizzly gentleman do you have any idea who i
am i do do you know this man so this one was years ago and will need
a little setup i'll try to make it so i can't be so easily identified but will
also try to give enough detail that it can be checked up on
as it involves a reasonably famous individual
therefore i have no doubt people may be skeptical
so for years i lived in kennebunkport in maine usa
it's very much a holiday town and gets busy in the summer
now as the summer period starts a very special guest would arrive in
kennebunkport as they had a holiday home at the northern end of town on a small
peninsula the 41st president of the united states
the late george bush senior the flags and banners used to come out
welcome back mr president there were plenty of restaurants in the town
many owned by the same company and the president used to dine with us a lot
so one day i was wiping down the bar it was a quiet day and we only had a few
people dining behind the bar is a huge fish tank so
you can see through the tank to the front door
i saw a lady walking across the drive well-dressed and straightening her skirt
i placed the cleaning stuff under the bar and awaited the lady
i said may i help you karen says i hope so is the order ready
i'm not aware of any order but i'll have a check with the kitchen
can i take your name you don't even know who the heck i am
what an embarrassment she would go on to tell me that she was here for an order
of oysters and clams for the presidential compound
now this wasn't unusual the president often got complimentary oysters whenever
he would dine with us plus we would often send food up to the
compound but it was never this lady and never a sole person who would pick
it up certainly not on foot and we knew the cars they used
i could not get a single word in she berated me for a while
i'll have your job or is this the disrespectful shambolic service you
always provide and the usual crap then she spies the gentleman behind me
full suit very smart who has come to see what the commotion was all about
karen flicks her head his way in utters you come here
karen went into her rant to be stopped 10 seconds in as the man in the suit
gestured for her to come through into the back dining area
suited man said madam will you just step this way please and we can resolve this
now i don't work here but on the other side of the wall
she saw george bush barbara bush and a few guests who were dining with us
i should probably mention though you probably know ex-presidents who were in
office before 1997 were provided secret service agents to
protect them and their family for life obama brought this back in making george
w bush the first president to have lifelong security
since 1997. one of president bush's agents was sat in the corner
the other one was the well-dressed man by karen's side whom she had
incorrectly assumed was my manager her face went
white and she ran sort of she had heels on she stumbled and headbutted the front
door before stumbling over the driveway like a newborn deer
trying to walk for the first time the prison and staff just let her go
simply asking for a copy of the cctv before they left
according to one of my bosses the lady was picked up by the sheriff's department
charged and fined a few months later i think there were some form
of fraud charges i had nothing to do with it
after she ran out our managers dealt with most of it
like i said a larger company owned most restaurants in town
we only got snippets apparently attempting to steal products in
defrauded business by way of claiming to work for an ex-president of the united
states is frowned upon in maine so yeah she didn't work on the president's team
she worked at walmart in a town called wells up the coast
just wanted to try your look and it probably heard that the president dined
here when he was in town i believe she lost her job there and was
arrested and fined a few months later she had some balls to even try that's
done let's be real but going in the restaurant and trying to pull that stunt
only for george bush to actually walk in in the middle of it
is about the worst luck you could possibly have and probably the biggest
serving of karma this next story is by odd gnator sure i
can help you find the creamer i wanted to share a wholesome story here
that's from a few years ago i was walking into a big grocery store
chain to start my shopping i start my trip with my headphones in
before i even left my car however i can typically tell due to
hyper anxiety when someone tries to get my attention
when i walked through those big double doors i stopped to check my list to see
where to begin and saw someone looking at me out of the corner of my eye
i look up and there's two guys standing there one looks like he might be blind
in one eye and the other was staring at the
floor i popped my headphones out of my ears and
i'm sorry what did you say do do can can you um can you help us find the creamer
of course i pause for a second because i
don't work here and i don't want to give them the idea that i do
however being an avid coffee drinker i do know where the creamer is
plus they seemed very sweet so i thought why not
there was something off though i thought maybe one or both of them might have
some kind of disability and i didn't have it in my heart to say
no i walked them both straight over to the creamers
showed them the different kinds and brands and told them which one was my
favorite and wish them a wonderful day the one
who stared at the floor never said a word to me but i did hear the first guy
repeating the info i gave him to the one that stared at the floor
as i walked away i'd never seen them before and haven't seen them
since i did call my mom afterwards though and relay the information to her
and she told me they were likely part of a home for people with mental
disabilities and that one of their tests to see if they can get their own place
is the ability to go out and buy something without incident
like creamer i almost hope it was so that maybe i helped those two pass their
test but either way it's one of the fondest i
don't work here stories that i have so if you walked right into a store
right into them asking you to help them would you help them out if it was me i
probably would say i don't work here but i think
it's in x direction because most doors have some kind of
pretty familiar layout and for something like creamer you kind of just have to
ride the outer wall and you'll probably be just fine
but of course it does depend on what kind of store you're in
our next story is by insect boys ma'am i am not your uber driver context my
parents recently built a hotel that rhymes with
chariot i am there quite a bit because my girlfriend is the general manager
but i don't work there as i hate the hospitality industry with a fiery passion
also i drive a 2018 maserati and wear a full suit
daily one day i pulled into the driveway
of the hotel to wait on my girlfriend to pick her up from work
it was an especially rainy day for the area i live in west texas and it doesn't
rain too much and i see two women in their late 40s to 50s in the entryway
i'll call them karen and non-karen i'm minding my own business listening to a
podcast when all of a sudden karen starts banging on my back window
yelling open the freaking door i look back thinking what the heck is going
on and reaching my glove box to grab my pistol
i have my concealed carry license and roll my window down thinking she is in
trouble and needs help for context the hotel is within one
quarter of a mile of a halfway house and we always get shady people and drug
dealers outside i proceed to ask her ma'am can i help you karen replies with
yes open the door you are the worst freaking uber driver
ever i am giving you a one star rating lucky
i am not quick to anger and not an uber driver but if i was
i don't think it would be the right thing to start off as a writer being
this rude i realized there was no danger so i put
up my pistol away and calmly reply to her
ma'am i don't drive for uber please stop hitting my car
at that moment my girlfriend calls asking me to come inside to help her
carry out her things as i'm talking to my girlfriend karen
goes back inside sheepishly and i park my car
as i walk inside non-karen promptly apologizes for karen's actions
saying she's sorry karen thought it was their uber driver driving a ford
focus i laugh and say no problem karen never apologized it really tells
you what kind of person that karen is to do
all that and not even say as much as a sorry that's like the least you could do
for that and all i know is apparently op is driving the nicest ford focus
in existence our next story is by divergent
a wholesome i don't work here i'm a body piercer in the uk
yesterday was my receptionist shift while my co-piercer got to do the fun
shift we have four studios three of which are tattoo only studios
needless to say we go through a metric freak ton of paper towel
and cleaning supplies in a normal time much more in a pandemic
part of the reception job is gathering said supplies from the wilco and the
nearby shopping center so i've got my trolley shopping cart
filled with everything we need looking like a professional panic
shopper when this lady comes up to me and asks if i know where the batteries are
i looked at her a bit confused and apologized saying i don't work here
she looked at me again realized i'm in a black long-sleeved band shirt
black skirt with patches all over it and not the normal red uniform
the lady says oh my god i'm sorry i saw you with a lot of things and didn't even
stop to realize you don't work here sorry i hope you have a lovely day i say
it's fine you have a lovely day too i hope she found her batteries
what is this a story on r slash i don't work here lady that has
zero drama and a person actually taking a second to look at a person's attire
and realize because of that that they don't actually work there
now this is a rarity and our final story of the day is by shadowwolf 360.
jack skeleton doesn't work here hello everyone this is a rather
quick story no karen yelling no manager called
so not really all that interesting but i figured i would share
i was at walmart with my mom the other day i had just gotten paid for work and
asked her to take me to walmart to look at the computers
while we were back in the electronics aisle she went to look at laptops and i
was looking at desktop computers to mention i was wearing a yellow
pac-man t-shirt it had a small little pac-man on the
front and a giant on the back black pants and my jack skeleton lanyard
that held my card and locker keys for work as well as a picture of jack himself
after looking i started heading back to get my mom to look with me
when a lady called me over from the registers the lady said
excuse me can you ring me up i at that point didn't say anything being a bit
surprised she was speaking to me the lady then took a second look at me
and went do you work here being i have a bit of social anxiety i
was still processing the fact that a random lady was speaking to me
and was only able to shake my head no and continued to my mom
so that's my story like i said nothing dramatic happened and it only lasted a
minute or two but i thought it would be all right to share
shout out to jack skellington the nightmare before christmas a fantastic
movie and it's getting awfully close to getting into the spirit for it
unfortunately this lady might have thought opie was mute or
just very socially awkward unfortunately but with that being said that's all the
time we have for today so if you have a favorite story of the day
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a ITA for refusing to look after the family dog whilst my family go on
holiday without me let me f29 start this by saying that my mom f69 dad M72 and
sister let's call her Lauren f27 all lived together at our childhood home I
moved out when I was 22 with my then boyfriend I now live with my current
partner M24 in a different city I still visit home often nearly every weekend we
the four of us have been going on holidays together for years however
since I've been living with my boyfriend they've been on one holiday together
without me they decided to go in term time I'm a teacher so I couldn't go now
they have asked me to look after the family dog let's call him fluff whilst
they go away this year they have said the only way theyd go on this holiday is
if I would look after fluff as he's old blind and going deaf fluff is also on
medication for his many Health issu now I was already hurt when my mom and dad
asked me to look after fluff as they didn't invite me on the holiday over the
past year I've been noticing it more and more that they seemed to have a
preference for Lauren and treat her like the favorite daughter this has made me
resentful towards the family so when they asked me to look after fluff I said
no because I wouldn't feel comfortable adhering to his medication Etc my mom
and dad have also made it clear that I would have to live at their house to
look after fluff as that is where he is used to I explained my work and life is
in my new city now and that was a big ass last night it all came to a head
when Lauren called me rude and my mom and dad said nothing to defend how she
spoke to me my mom has since rung me and said I'm being selfish after all they
have done for me I don't do anything for
them she guilt tripped me saying her and my dad won't be around for much longer | give me a good story on AITAforrefusingtolookafterthefamilydogwhilstmyfamilygoonholidaywithoutmeorig |
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aita for filing for divorce after my wife lied to me and talked badly about
me I will just make a quick edit everyone who commented and everyone who
will comment in future I thank you all and I agree with you all that she has
done something very unforgivable but I just love her so so so much I thought I
could make it work she's my lovely wife and has been for this whole time I just
wish she did the bare minimum of having my back but it looks like she has taken
my love as my weakness so I'll just proceed with divorce I don't have any
doubts right now I thank you all forgive
me if my English is bad so I 26m married my lovely wife 25 f a year ago
everything was going good we would date have sex multp times our sex was Vanilla
I didn't even know about this or other positions but it was good I would
prepare breakfast dinner for her made love to her multiple times not just sex
I gave her my all our families introduced us to each other cuz in Asia
that's how it works I had never been with any other women and I was expecting
the same for my wife I asked her multiple times before our marriage when
we went on dates and she said she hasn't been with anyone else either okay fine
we got married fast forward to 10 days ago my wife invited her friends and her
cousin I was the only man in our house I felt uncomfortable yet I tried my best
to mix in we all started drinking and after 2 or 3 hours I pretended that I
was too drunk and going to sleep cuz I felt uncomfortable my wife and her
friends and cousins they all six women were drunk so much that they couldn't
even get up properly I came downstairs to get some water and see how they are
doing and if they ran out and if they did I would go buy some for them to my
shock one of her friends started talking bad about me like I'm weak I'm skinny
but I'm not weak at all I have trained since my childhood anyway one of her
friends said that my wife should be dominant that I'm not worth anything and
she can make me submit to her turn me into a cuck cuz I give them that Vibe
for what exactly cuz I gave respected them cuz they are women gave my own
women my all that's why I'm weak okay okay fine they said all kinds of things
about me I was angry but it didn't hurt me cuz they are no buies what hurt me
the most is what my own wife said she said you guys are right my
previous boyfriend was way better than my husband in the bed I still crave her
he was big but my husband is small that broke me then everyone said that she
should meet up with her ex and have fun even her cousin whom I trusted they all
said I will never know and even if I will with how much I love my wife I
won't leave her and she would gain an opportunity to turn me into a cuck I'm
glad at least my wife denied it she said she will never cheat on me and however
bad I am in bed I have given her everything that I could she said
although she missed her ex she will never cheat on me I was angry but it was
something that helped me a bit to control my anger still I'm hurt my own
wife bered me in front of her friends I was expecting her to have my back so
what if she won't cheat just talk about me so I just filed for divorce and
served her I told her next morning I heard their conversation I said so what
if I'm small so what if I don't know much about sex converse with me and
teach me but know you had to insult me despite what I did for you she said she
was drunk and made a mistake I replied okay I made a mistake marrying you as
well and he'll fix it at this point it isn't about you lying about your
virginity as much as I love you I just can't stay with you so
is it just a mistake she said what she said cuz she was drunk I want to forgive
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today we've got a crazy plagiarism related malicious compliance story we'll
get to that in a bit but first no refunds once you stepped out of the
store fine I won't step out of the store this happens in a large store on a
European country when you purchase something from them and for any reason
want to return the item their policy is that they never give money back they
only give you a voucher redeemable same day only I went to the store today and
purchased quite a long list of items I got home my wife looks at them and says
that we don't need some of them I go back to the store barely 20 minutes pass
the returns manager Smiles at me as I tell her I just purchased these and
would like to return them she tells me that I stepped out of the store so she
can't refund only give me a voucher and I must buy something else I'd already
bought everything I needed then she tells me to take the products home and
keep them for the next time I would need
to buy something then I can come and get the voucher and redeem it imagine
keeping a pair of shoes in a bowl and remember to bring them with you the next
time you happen to need something I tried to reason but she was adamant
those are the rules you stepped out of the store you don't get a refund and
then it clicked I asked so if someone wants to return an item without leaving
the store they get the money back they say yes you see where this is heading
malicious compliance kicking in I ask to return the items and get the voucher I
take the voucher get inside the store find a product to exactly the same
amount buy it with the voucher right after the cashier there's the returns
manager straight from the cashier I go to her hand her that random product I
just bought and say I would like to return this I don't want it and I never
left the store she's looking at me with barely contained rage in her eyes I kid
you not the awkward pause was getting longer and then her manager comes along
looks at us a nice smile at him and say I never left the store and I would like
to get a refund for this please he nods silent and not looking at me she
proceeds to refund me the money in cash company policy right I'm really really
surprised that worked because in most places that have a setup like this if
you try to refund something that you bought using a voucher or store credit
they're only going to ever refund you in store credit or with a voucher like the
chances are incredibly highly likely that there were millions of people that
came before op that would have tried to do the exact same thing so it's kind of
surprising that they would be taken soah back by this also hi I'm Steven and if
you enjoy awesome stories of malicious compliance why not hit those like And
subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is stepdad tried to
punish me without hearing me out I did what he asked to clarify I'm a woman
also my sister and I are both adults now and safely moved out as long as I can
remember my sister who was two years younger than me would come up and hit me
for no reason reason and often start fights with me my parents started
telling me that I would just have to hit her back because I'm stronger so she
would stop when she realized I would hurt her worse fast forward to me being
16 my sister was 14 we're sitting on the love seat in the living room with my
stepdad across from us asleep on the couch at 3 P.M she hits me because I
won't get up and get her a drink I hit her back she screams because I don't
usually hit her back my stepdad wakes up
and starts yelling at her for being loud and demands to know what happened she
said I hit her he then turns his anger to me he yells at me if you want to mess
around you can ride five pages front and back I will not bite people if it's not
done before dinner I'm gonna take your phone and books I made it clear that I
hit her not bit her but he got even more angry and screamed if you think you're
so smart then write 10 pages front to back he went back to sleep on the couch
I rode five pages front and back I will not bite people unerotically I will not
bite people unconsensually I will not bite people without asking first I will
not bite people because they are not food along with some other ridiculous
things I don't remember I finished five pages before dinner miraculously and he
read over them he went red in the face I
thought I told you 10 pages he raged you said 10 pages if I think I'm so smart
which I don't I innocently replied this is not what I told you to write yes it
is you said it right I will not bite people and that's exactly what I did my
mom got home at that point and overheard coming to investigate she flipped
through the pages and laughed it made him angrier as he answered her questions
on the assignment and she took my side still chuckling as we started making
dinner this is kind of irrelevant to the story but this story kind of took me
back to a time in my youth that really pissed me off there was a time I was on
the school bus riding home and for some reason they had these overhead lights on
the school bus and when they turned them on that means you're supposed to get
quiet or not talk well we had a substitute bus driver for one day and me
and my friends sat all the way in the back where you sit all the way in the
back you can't really see the lights above your head and your periphery and
we didn't even really talk that loud so apparently they had flicked the lights
on and we were still blabbing and me and my friend got just told off by this bus
driver and she told us if you don't write me a paper front and back each
line filling up I will not talk when the
lights are on you're getting a ride up I mean I did it but like looking back on
it God forbid two kids talk on the bus ride home in the very back of the bus
and we didn't even talk that loud it's not like we were screaming we had a
conversation it frustrated me then because I did not get it and it
frustrates me now thinking back on it this next story is the squeaky chair
years ago I had a daily conference call that was always attended by the same
four people myself my boss Mike and our counterparts from Los Angeles Carl and
Joe one day we're discussing some paperwork when we hear a long screeching
noise Mike said what was that Joe said sorry I think something's come loose in
my chair it's been making a noise all day I said sounded like a fart to be
honest you need to lay off the taco trucks man laughter was sad and the call
moved on but every day Joe's chair was making noises and they were getting
louder and more frequent after a week Carl's annoyed enough to tell Joe that
he doesn't want to hear that darn chair anymore do something about it and the
squeaks disappear fantastic a month passes then one day we're discussing
some numbers Carl doesn't have and he decides to walk over to Joe's office to
grab a copy Carl muffled said what's that on your head Joe said it's the
headset I bought last month so you don't have to listen to my chair make noise
Carl still muffled said gosh darn it you
know that's not what I meant I meant you need to call the facilities and get it
fixed or order a new one Joe said but I like my chair Carl said are you still
gonna like your chair when you get written up by it for plugging unapproved
headsets into their telephones well order a new chair and I don't want to
see you wearing that again the whole time the conversation was going on Mike
and I were individually muted laughing our butts off Carl returns to his office
Joe apparently unplugs his headset because we can all hear the chair again
and the call closes normally the squeak continued for another week knowing
facilities wasn't usually that slow I asked about it Joe said oh yeah they
delivered it two days ago it's still in a box though they didn't have time to
put it together Carl said oh thank God I'm gonna call them and hurry them along
but as soon as the new chair is together I want the old one gone from the office
you get me Joe said yes sir two days later the squeak was back and the very
first time we heard it Carl went off Carl said I told you to throw that chair
Way Joe said no you said you wanted it gone from the office it is gone from the
office I'm working from home today Mike and I could not mute in time and we
laughed our butts off at Carl's expense Mike said he's right you know Carl said
well then use that gosh darn headset you
bought I can't freaking see it if you're at home can I Joe said yes sir I don't
blame Joe but dude needs to try to use some like WD-40 or something I can't
blame him though because if you find a chair that is so comfortable you just
you know fit right in it it's like the chair made for you you're not gonna want
to get rid of it even if it's squeaking like a hungry baby bird our next story
is you want a toothbrush back in the sunset of the last Millennium and
Century the older of my brothers Mac and I were driving together to meet my
father and other brother Joe for a guy's weekend we were going to hunt for I
think Texas topaz which we thoroughly enjoyed completely failing to find while
in route we gotta call from Joe on the new fangled cell phone thingy he'd
forgotten his toothbrush and wanted us to get him one when we stopped to pick
up supplies I'm not sure whose idea it was Mac and I often had the same ideas
more or less simultaneously but the mixed look of disgust resignation and
utter not surprised on The Late teenaged Joe's face as we proudly presented him
with the pinkest girliest cartoon characterist Kitty toothbrush the
supermarket had to offer is what I'll always treasure P.S yes he used it we
were pretty far in the middle of nowhere so his only other option was his finger
which is why he asked us to get it in the first place bonus points to op and
their brother if the handle glittered in the right light there's nothing wrong
about using a toothbrush that's pink and
has unicorns and glitter all over it our next story is you're just joking great
I'ma head home since you all liked my last story here's another regarding my
jerk supervisor let's call her Kathy so I work at a Canadian coffee chain called
Tim Hortons basically Canadian Dunkin Donuts I was about halfway through my
shift the other day when Kathy comes up to me while I was busy and says you're
staying late because you owe me a favor and walked away someone had called in
and she wanted me to cover part of their shift now if I stayed late I'd be
working 12 hours and I'm on my third day working out of five and had to be up
early the next day for another shift not to mention I didn't even owe Kathy
anything the favor she's referring to is when she sent me home early because we
weren't busy which she had to do or she would get in trouble now in Canada an
employer can't force you to stay later like that so I walked up to Kathy when I
had a free moment and said if you want me to stay later you can ask me properly
I don't disrespect you so I expect to be given respect in return Kathy gets
snippy oh calm down I was just joking with you I was about to fight back but a
light bulb went off in my head I walked away and continued my work when the
people in the next shift started showing
up I ran my plan past them and they gave
me the go-ahead cue malicious compliance instead of staying later I went home at
my normal time I didn't stay later as I hadn't agreed to anything nearly the
second I sat down at home I got a call from none other than Kathy I said hello
Kathy says where are you I said you were staying late today I said you said you
were joking she said yeah with how I asked but I figured you needed hours and
weren't gonna say no so I assumed you'd stay said I can't I'm busy this is why
you should have asked properly click Kathy had to cover the shift worst part
is I probably would have considered covering it had she just asked me nicely
but I'm a petty witch I mean is it legal anywhere to force you to stay late like
I just can't imagine anywhere that would enforce rules or laws that say oh yeah
if they want you to stay late you have to stay late I don't blame op though if
somebody walked past me and said you're staying late because you owe me a favor
well I'm not going to want to stick around very much maybe I'll stick around
and I'll do the bare minimum our next story is teacher got my honors taken
away for plagiarism for checking answers
in a non-mandatory workbook in college I had the meanest French teacher of all
time he literally made fun of one of my classmates boobs once totally
inappropriate and cruel it was a real narcissist picked favorites and actively
pointed out terrible things about the students he didn't like he assigned us
to loads of work to do every single day along with these ungraded grammar
workbooks he told us that the workbooks were just for practice that we could do
them with a friend use the back of the book whatever as long as we brought the
book in to show that we had done just something for the most part I did all of
those assignments they were mostly multiple choice or fill-in answers so it
was easy just to half-heartedly do the work and then correct it with back of
the book when covet hit we had to do some of our classes remotely so instead
of him glancing at our books every day he asked that we sent in photos of our
workbook instead everything was going well until the very end of the term when
he called out every single student for plagiarism and ultimately threatened to
fail all of us from the class by getting rid of our homework grades don't know
how that works when it was an ungraded workbook those who had them would lose
their honors get a permanent infraction on their record and those with multiple
offenses wrist suspension the last week of school all of the other students
accepted the infraction suspensions revoked and given half the homework
credit if they redid their entire workbook which would take weeks but I
was livid I thought it wasn't fair and I was ready to fight my school seemed to
be more concerned about the term plagiarism rather than the actual work
none of it made sense I thought talk my way out of and said to the dean of the
department how can it be plagiarism if I'm writing in the book the answers came
from they said because I didn't cite my sources I wanted to take it further and
bring it to the chancellor but the dean blackmailed me and said if I brought it
up higher they would consider all of my other infractions and I could
potentially get expelled I literally had nothing but it was enough to scare me
off I was a week or so from graduation when I went to redo all of my questions
I decided to just put a proper citation on every single page citing literally
the back of the same book The Dean called me in and said even though it
wasn't respectable technically it was passable because I cited my sources so
it was no longer considered plagiarism got my honors taken but passed the
course and still got my French major bygones will be bygones wish I did more
and I think it could have won but just that a little bit of freak you felt good
and saved me hours of work so did this guy intentionally try to trap all of
those students and make them suffer for literally no reason at all and if the
book is multiple choice how did you know
cite your answer what do you mean how do I know said my answer I was literally
told A B C or D I didn't use a source to answer this question it was right there
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today we have a crazy entitled parent story of a dad whose dead set on
reunifying a family we'll get into that in a bit but first entitled stepdad who
I went no contact with two years ago came to my door demanding to see my
daughter another update so after my stepdad came to my door a couple months
ago kicking the door yelling and cussing
he already had his court date the reason he was arrested was because he was
trespassing wouldn't leave when the police told him to leave and he
threatened a police officer the reason why I went no contact was because he
abused me my entire life he essayed for 2 years and assaulted me anyways he had
his court date February the 6th I looked
up all the information online and I also had cousins on my mother's side of the
family feeding me information as well he got off lightly and it's a dang shame
apparently his lawyer used an insanity defense because he and I quote acted
under extreme emotional distress and he was off his medicine the thing is he
never took medicine for anything to my knowledge he is is on probation he has a
suspended sentence meaning you serve your sentence outside of jail so
probation and if he violates the terms of the probation SL sentence he will go
to jail and serve the rest of the suspended sentence so he's not sitting
in jail unfortunately but I do have a protective order against him if he
violates it he goes to jail so I should be fine at the very least op can be
reassured that if they do try to show up they are most likely going to actually
get in some serious trouble that's a good reassurance to have also
hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy crazy stories of entitled parents why
not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is
my dad thinks a chef isn't a respected job yes he said to me that being so no
one will marry their daughter to a chef and he wants me to study something else
after I'm done with my studies and that how he thinks of the major I'm studying
and he doesn't say a lot of my studies and my mom changed majors and they're
never happy for my completion and they're cold about it I think a chef
position is a pretty respected job you want to get into a line of work that
will always have demand that will never go away and especially if you're good at
it will pay you well a chef position is it as long as humans are around food and
cooking said food is never going to go away he's a little too old-fashioned
thinking in multiple ways here our next story is my sister-in-law is stealing
from me and using her baby as an EXC excuse hello Reddit I didn't think I'd
be back to this throwaway but here I am my sister-in-law Jessica 29-year-old
female and her husband my brother Liam 32-year-old male are staying with me
27-year-old female and my wife 30-year-old female due to Foundation
trouble at their own home simply put she's been an absolute nightmare when it
comes to taking things that aren't hers and brushing them off because she needs
them due to her baby my nephew Liam Jr male 3 months I'll just list the worst
of it but do note this is a very condensed list one she took my expensive
hair products made specifically for thick hair because and I quote Liam Jr
can't handle strong sents and yours are just gentler on his nose she used an
entire 16 o bottle of conditioner in 3 days two I caught her trying to take the
food I ordered for everyone into her room after it was delivered I ordered
almost six full meals to dish out for the entire house and she was just
holding this large paper bag in her room
she told me she was just sorting through it to find her food but she was sitting
down with chopsticks and the door was closed so I call BS three all of my
snacks my pantry has a shelf labeled specifically for me due to a mild food
allergy that has all the snacks that I bought I keep seeing her walking back
and forth past my room with my snacks if I or my wife try to confront her she
cries that she's breastfeeding and she needs the energy then she'll get my
brother to chew me out for the record we do have a communal snack bin but she
won't touch the snacks in there four she
took my gift card Stash from my shelf in the kitchen and spent nearly $75 on
random BS because she claimed she wanted to make the room more comfortable for
Liam Jr I use those gift cards when I go shopping or as presents for sudden
events she knows this and still took 6 to eight gift cards out with her it's
been non-stop for the last 3 weeks and I'm so freaking done with her she's
taken my hair ties my shirts from the laundry my sleep Bonnets and my lipstick
she even took a bottle of my apple cider gummies which I know she doesn't like
because she's tried them before I feel like she's doing it just to spite me or
to assert herself but I'm seriously considering kicking her out edit just
wanted to clarify that Jessica used my shampoo on herself not Liam Jr because
the smell was I guess irritating him edit two I'm just going to State the the
only reason I'm letting these two stay is because of Liam Jr my brother can't
afford Housing close to his job and if I
kick him out Liam Junior's housing would be up in the air his commute is already
45 to 60 minutes each way and none of our relatives are willing to let him
stay to live any closer secondly please do not insult my wife in the comments
She was recently promoted and isn't home
often but I assure you she sticks up for me when she's home she's told me she's
willing to let them stay for Liam Jr but she's shown that she's upset by
Jessica's feeling I'm sorry I didn't say that before edit 3/ small update I've
been reading through the comments during
my work break and I keep seeing the same things being tossed around even the
comments that were harsh with it are right Jessica stomped on both mine and
my wife's boundaries using her son as a cover and I'm being spineless by letting
her stay I also have to accept that Liam
Jr is not my responsibility as much as I love him I can't let his mom use him
against me I talked with my wife on her phone today and we we've decided that
we're telling them to start seeking alternative housing we're also going to
get a proper eviction drafted up we've decided they have until Friday the 17th
at the absolute latest I will update after we've talked thank you all for
knocking some sense into me update 4 we had the talk with them about an hour ago
and it went bad fast my brother was screaming Jessica was screaming Liam Jr
was crying because of all the noise and somehow that's my fault they yelled for
a good 40 minutes about how they had nowhere else to go and they won't be
able to stay together if I kick them out
it was hard for me but my wife helped me with my stress some highlights from
Jessica's rant include you can't have a baby you'll never know how stressed I am
you didn't lose anything super expensive why are you acting like this and my
personal favorite if you kick us out you'll never see me or my son again
along with a healthy bit of cursing I told him that my wife and I's decision
was Final and Jessica locked herself in her room with Liam Jr my brother tried
to apologize saying that he was just stressed from work and his new baby and
Jessica putting pressure on him but my wife cut him off and told him to imagine
how stressed I'd been when my things went missing he just kind of slumped in
his seat then went and joined Jessica in the room after I denied his please to
stay again I heard them arguing for a bit but only for around 15 minutes I got
a text from Jessica's mother asking what
was happening but it wasn't hostile so I don't think she has the full story I'm
debating telling her since she's technically not involved yet I've gotten
three or four similar messages from numbers I don't recognize so I think
Jessica may have told people my number or posted something I'll update again if
anything else serious happens final update Jessica and Liam woke me and my
wife up by clambering around about 20ish minutes ago they didn't say much while
they packed up their stuff but Jessica did say I hope you're happy now don't
expect to see Liam Jr anytime soon I just feel useless I feel like a useless
wife like a useless ant and sister I was trying to help and now I might not see
my nephew again I went out of my way and
now it feels like I'm being punished I'm pretty sure they'll try something again
but it's not my concern anymore my brother left his spare key in the
kitchen but I'm still changing the locks Jessica texted me that Liam is going to
be staying in a motel near his job till they figure something else out and she's
going to be stuck with her mother her mother lives 4 hours away for reference
you were all right that I needed to have them gone but I I didn't feel so dang
bad my wife has been comforting me as best as she can and I appreciate her so
much she's been so supportive and I'm lucky to have her thank you all for
listening commenting Etc it was the extra push I needed to knock my stupid
head on straight edit five another small update I was contacted by Jessica's
mother who apologized for her daughter and offered to pay me the value of the
item stolen if I let her and Liam Jr moov back in I told her no and she was
surprisingly kind and accepting of this the call was very short but I can only
assume Jessica told her mother some short or watered down version of what
happened I think things are settling down now I also got a text from my
brother but it only said that he was safe at the motel I think it needed to
happen I think everything kind of ended up where it did need to be there was
just no way that things were going to be healthy and good and functional with
them still living under op's roof our next story is my father lied to us about
his colon cancer my father is a wealthy jerk who worked his way up who is
jealous of my mom and her upbringing so he spent their entire marriage bullying
her and gaslighting her and siphoning funds from her parents to be a chief
skate and save his own money he's also a notorious Casanova long story short
she's still suffering from stage 4 cancer after 5 years the cause of the
cancer is quite an obvious one and then finally getting the surgery this year
during those 5 years he left the house and never spent a day with her and spent
them with his Mistresses and their kids whenever we do meet he always plays pity
party about himself only to act like he's the saddest person in the world
this Lunar New Year was real fresh he told us he had colon cancer so that we
can pity him but someone exposed him after he left stating that he told
everyone else a different hospital name every time he told that story and he's
been doing it for quite some time stage one colon cancer my butt I feel bad that
my mom had to deal with this Royal jerk for 30 years it takes a special kind of
jerk to lie about something like colon cancer my question is why is the mom
continuing to deal with a guy like that our next story is you put my child in
danger somehow I'm the issue so there's a ton of context here that is absolutely
going to be missing I'll provide what I can to help with this specific story but
Lord there's a lot my 28-year-old male mom 58 has been an alcohol holic my
entire adult and most of My Teenage life of course she's been sober for long
stretches and has slips it's just how addiction is for many people especially
those who don't seek out help when she's drinking mom is the most entitled
self-centered person I know some context mom had been in the hospital in March
and April for an artery rupture in her liver to this day she denies that her
history of drinking and her current drinking have anything to do with it
fast forward to Summer mom seems to be back on track with sobriety she gets on
well with my fiance and has been a big support for fiance's pregnancy I made
sure mom was there for the birth of her newest grandbaby all seemed to be well
Mom insists that she watches my baby for us after fiance's leave ends and we are
skeptically receptive to the idea ultimately we decide to allow this maybe
the baby will help her maintain sobriety boy was I wrong I get a call from my
sister who tells me mom's been drinking not with or around the baby but it's
happening yeah I'm not going to allow this to go on any further I'm about 3
hours away from my car I drive dirt trucks and can't get there fast enough
to make sure my baby girl is safe so I call my father-in-law he was kind enough
to pick up my daughter and keep it on the download and not hurt mom's feelings
if there's one thing mom isn't it's dumb she sees through all of this and knows
exactly what's up we find a new sitter and do what we can we maintain
incredibly low contact a couple couple of months later I get a call from my
sister just to talk the conversation of course comes to mom sister tells me a
story about Mom begging to watch her kids but an hour before she was supposed
to she instead chose to drink before having to watch my sister's kids this
happened years ago I don't know how I got this mixed up but apparently I
somehow confused this with Mom choosing to drink and drive with her kids I don't
know I suppose I was emotional and got things mixed up remember this it's
important for the end on the bright side though at the time of this phone call
Mom is doing better again maybe it would
give her something to look forward to if we allowed her to watch the baby once a
week I approached mom and offered to her that fiance and I felt comfortable with
her taking the baby one day a week this conversation goes sour so we decided
that we would be comfortable with you taking the baby on Tuesdays I know
you've been really wanting to watch her again she says no we ask no she replies
well first I want you to ask me this kind of confuses me a bit at first but I
suppose it's a fair statement she is doing something to help me after all
right all right I'll rephrase would you be willing to take the baby on Tuesdays
it would be a big help and you'd get to see her more again she says no I want it
all if I can't have every day then I won't take her at all this devolves into
an argument where she tries to justify her actions in drinking and accuses me
of holding the baby over her head she throws in how dare you call your
fiance's father to take her from me I was not drinking that day truth not even
after they left lie remember that phone call with my sister from earlier the one
with the mixed stories well here's where that mixup bit me in the butt I threw
the story I thought was true in her face I'm not proud of it not at all this of
course turned into denial and further argument with her conveniently
forgetting that regardless of whether or not a car was involved she ultimately
chose to forgo the responsibility she claimed to want so she could drink I
finally had to stop this whole argument by saying that this was getting nowhere
and she could call me when she was ready to address the problem like an adult
that call happened the next day but that's for the next post I just want to
end this post here and say I love my mother when she's sober she is the most
amazing woman I know but that alcohol turns her into the most narcissistic and
entitled Beast of a human I have ever ever seen if the community wants more
I'd be willing to continue telling the story from the phone call the next day
all the way to what's happening now is things progress it gets weird and
frustrating but telling this has been oddly cathartic one of the nicest things
sometimes about these Reddit posts is you kind of get to vent and you kind of
just get to put it all out there and it really I think helps you put it in
perspective sometimes in a way that you don't really feel or think about when
you haven't put it just on paper or typed it up when it's just in front of
you and you have all your thoughts organized I think it can really help you
focus on just what's important or sometimes realize how ridiculous some
things are our next story is entitled but why what is your one rule for a
principle of how to live and one request
for others inspired by my childhood self writing to the court when entering
foster care the letter I wrote to the court was declared a child in need 15
years ago dear Mom and Dad your 10 rules are my one request one year ago I moved
to Florida in hopes of new dreams with my family but only one year later I
learned to live without the two people I thought I would never be able to live
without I will repair it finally without you both today I'm ready to give you my
love without expecting anything back but instead the simple request to give me
away I beg you to give me away to someone who will finally care for me and
guide me to take care of me not to Revenge upon someone else you both made
me what I am but I am ready to build myself into what I can be anything I
desire and Beyond Today I am seeking a proper living environment without either
one of you you both have made it clear that neither of you is capable of
further raising and guiding me dad you taught me that I deserved a more capable
mother mom you taught me that I deserved a more capable father you both gave me
the ultimate decision from the time I can remember which parent is better you
both have always talked so Nega negatively of each other I don't know
what caused either of you to dislike each other so much but I really don't
care what I don't understand is why you both took so much energy to be so cruel
why not take time to communicate and not bash the other parent to your young and
innocent children I find it pathetic and sad that each of you was so blind with
anger you couldn't see what you both were doing to your children at the
hardest struggles in my life you rarely once supported a positive change or
pulled it together in the slightest bit to support one another for the sake of
your devastated children you exposed em and me to the struggles of finances
disaster broken families blackmail slander and so much more during our
tender youth you both blame the other party as the effect of my false
pronounced childhood you both placed your own selfish revenge against the
other parent over your tender and traumatized children as well as
influencing our decisions with the slander and defamation of the other's
parenting while being oblivious to your use of your own children as Pawns in
your chess game both of you always burdened me in the middle of your
inevitable fights and told me things that I shouldn't have known you both
cornered and robbed me of my innocence through your extensive neglect why are
you so ignorant of the obvious truth I loved you both with everything I had but
you both left me to fend on my own to become a victim of violence abuse and
further neglect neither of you is the guardian in which a parent should be you
both fight so hard to keep me from the other parent but don't offer stability
you give me false promises when I say I want to leave or when I say I want to
come back so today I share 10 rules that I was taught through the awful
Misfortune of my so-called childhood I do not deserve to be given up on or
abandoned to never maintain a relationship with someone who abuses or
neglects me leave immediately and do not
believe the false promises I shall never be placed in a situation that denies my
self-respect you don't need money to be happy to never choose a negative
relationship especially over my own family I deserve a stable environment
education is extremely important what makes you stronger is the struggles that
you're brave enough to stand up against and fight for your rights do not regret
what you've done but instead what you should have done when you had the chance
it is okay to be a little selfish from time to time this is a step in my
recovery I take action in the belief of opportunity care and guidance of the
proper nature when I think of you both I'll think of the happiest days of my
life when you both put aside your differences and celebrated my fifth
birthday at Chuck E cheeses I will always remember the pure feeling of
knowing you both sacrificed your opinion
and anger to support me and get along as
the memory of the events that took place
that lovely day faded I never forget the only moment in my childhood that I felt
at peace so thank thank you but please give me away without a fight give me the
chance to feel at peace again give me the opportunity to love someone who
won't take it for granted if that isn't just about one of the most heartbreaking
things you've read in a while could you imagine being a parent that's so
self-absorbed you're just focused on trying to get one up over on the other
party and then hearing something like this and realizing you completely miss
the boat in every way with your kid knowing there's no doover if those
parents have any heart I'm sure that hit them harder than anything they've ever
experienced in their life this next story is issue with dad my dad was
really big this past year on reunifying our family he and my mother have been
divorced since I was 11 I'm Now 37 my mother and I co-own a house in Maine my
father asked quite a few months ago in July right around my 37th birthday if he
could move in with us seeing as things are getting so expensive and he and my
mom are not getting any younger as a family we made the decision that this
would be in everyone's best interest especially for me since I'm unable to
clone myself and be in two states at once my father talked to his sisters and
they both thought it was a great idea it would benefit all of us for months my
father has been texting my mother not as friends in a more romantic way she was
receptive to it he spent Thanksgiving with us and my mom's family and was
telling people they were seeing where things were going and what our plans for
the future were well this past Friday as
I was ding driving home I call my father
to just check in and say hi and give him some updates as my mother was in the
hospital he drops the bombshell on me that he now has a girlfriend I was a
little confused but like okay the next morning I'm talking to my aunt and she
drops another bombshell on me apparently a few months ago my father had told her
that it wasn't going to work out with him moving back to Maine and in with my
mother and I he somehow forgot to mention this to myself and my mother he
cannot understand why I am upset and hurt all this time up until a couple of
weeks ago he kept on going on about how we were repairing our family and how we
were going to be a happy family I have tried to explain to him why what he did
is wrong how making this decision unilaterally that affects everyone
without discussing it with his family is an issue I told him I don't care about
the girlfriend it's the fact that he lied for months when we had made a plan
as a family that I was planning on for my future I asked him to explain to me
how he expects me to be able to take care of him and Connecticut and my
mother in Maine when he is the one who has unilaterally changed the plan
especially when he knows my health issues he of course has no answer
unfortunately this has brought up a lot of trauma the biggest being from when I
was 11 and him saying he was leaving and never coming back I guess he really
meant it he just has to keep hurting me over and over again and just expects me
to be there for him no matter what he does as I'm supposed to be the dutiful
daughter I'm just so tired tired of it yet he'll be the first one to bring up
all the trauma our family has been through and just cannot see his part in
it I'm so tired of being hurt by him ultimately I think this guy made his
decision and he doesn't have to blatantly say it one way or another too
op him making this change in this decision on his own and then just
totally dropping it on you out of nowhere like that it's like he's
flashing you a giant billboard saying choose your mom don't worry about me our
next story is mother gets angry because of a comment so I male 31 just wanted to
share this to get insight beyond my all-encompassing wisdom recently been on
vacation from work stayed with my parents for 5 days stayed with my
girlfriend for 2 weeks and came back to end my last days with family since I
work basically 7 days a week my mom 51-year-old female this morning started
talking to my stepdad about alcohol and how dangerous it is she mentioned she
got drunk once while driving and never did it again I told her that wasn't true
because as a child I recall multiple instances of her driving while drunk
often after my aunt's daily parties we used to have this triggered her and she
began to yell at me I remained calm but didn't back down on my words she
basically began to say that I can't judge her and that my dad who was not
very involved in my life is the real issue and I should complain to him about
his lack of involvement my argument is always that I don't need to be mad with
someone that barely affected my life being that he wasn't the one berating me
and trying to emotionally abuse me because he was not around so I don't
have bad feelings to him for that reason because people who don't bother me and
harass me aren't the issue my mother who used me as an emotional husband and her
scapegoat and Golden Child whichever was most convenient in the moment was my
issue as a kid because I was being abused by her as a kid and anything I
did wasn't actually that bad because I was a child being antagonized by an
adult woman I I eventually just told her that you yell thinking it makes your
point valid it doesn't I work in mental health as a nurse and I almost on a
daily have to deal with adults and teens who try to abuse me because they have
poor emotional control and entitlement related to whatever they went through so
it isn't something that upsets me I see my mom is very similar to these people
that I care for on a daily basis so I treated her like I do them I spoke
sternly but also respectfully and I got cursed out for it my stepdad for
8-year-old male just thought it was funny I'm a guest here but she expects
me to do all the chores I told her no because I wouldn't do that to you and I
haven't legitimately made any messes I've been here a night in the previous
time I ate out and only used the bathroom I don't think I did anything
wrong but I often find that if I even disagree suddenly I am a batch butt
child who is ungrateful and a coward or whatever she feels like calling me
honestly makes me wonder why I even bother trying to to make any form of
contact she was right about one thing I am often Mia and only talk when I want
to discuss some kind of service between us for example holding on to my mail or
doing I for my job which I pay her for I admit I respect my mom because it feels
ugly and I feel karma is real I don't want to disrespect my parent I recognize
the good they do for me and they have been there for me plenty of times just
there is huge disrespect when I disagree I don't believe I have to tolerate it
but I also don't think it's right to be a jerk right back the last time I
disrespected my mom openly is when she verbally berated my nephew and told him
he'd become a woman beater like his dad who was physically abusive I cursed her
out and then a lot of bad stuff happened
in my life so I assume there's Karma and being rude to your parents even if I
feel I was justified so I'm a bit worried for myself now because I think
Karma will try to play me if I add anything my elder sister thinks I'm The
Golden Child and she's the black sheep like I said I was both whichever was
most convenient in the moment I only get
compliments from my parents when they're
mad at my elder sister personally I feel like karma is a fun thing to talk about
or like wish on somebody who kind of deserves to have some bad karma in the
moment but I'm not somebody that actually puts much stock into Karma
overall though having boundaries and being firm but respectful in asserting
those boundaries is in no way disrespectful at all if you're getting
Bad Karma for that something in the world is broken but with that being said
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today we've got a crazy nuclear Revenge story
of taking out a loan in someone else's name
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we'll get into that in a bit but first shaming
my father I was born into a rich home with two
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parents and three younger siblings or maybe I'm
being a little dishonest let me add some backstory
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my mother was a biracial child who to her own
Mother's Chagrin was more black than white to
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all-white school and had hair straightened for
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the longest time my grandmother was my grandpa's
wife and he had children from his first wife that
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were already adults and her mother was barely
older than his oldest I guess in a way it does
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make sense because all my step uncles and aunts
have respectable professions one of them is a
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billionaire violinist that's how snobby rich my
family is anyway my mother's mom attempted to
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control her life in every way she could down to
who she married so she made an acquaintance with
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a business rival of her husbands to join their
families together as a pack of business partners
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ship thus my mother was betrothed to my father
regular snobby rich people crap because they grew
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up around each other and knew of their betral
my parents were an unofficial couple among the
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children of the elite and they got to mess around
for a bit somewhere along the line they separated
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for college and by the time they met up again my
father had fallen in love with a white woman and
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some of his new ideals were a bit racist which
is weird because my grandparents roll their eyes
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to the story because my dad had a whole other
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relationship with this new girl it sounded like
a whole new Scandal for the rich Community if
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there's anything the rich ones hate it's scandals
new ones especially there were Whispers and my
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dad's parents immediately asked him to shut them
down shutting them down meant breaking up with his
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new Lover he couldn't do it and instead opted to
break up with my mother instead my mom was focused
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on making a name for herself in her chosen field
so she didn't mind much it gave her time away
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from having to attend Galas and all those events
the thing about betrothals is you didn't do it
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yourself someone else did it for you so you can't
call it off yourself either no matter how much my
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Dad tried to explain himself and prove that it was
Mutual between him and my mother neither parents
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would take it it was a few long years of fights
running away and threats of being disowned before
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both parents agree to get married to each other
my mother said my father swears it was because
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he found out his lover was cheating on him but I
don't really care for the finer details soon after
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they married my dad started sleeping around and
started another Scandal this started to anger his
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parents because how could he represent their name
if he was out there in the wild behaving like this
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when my mom got pregnant with me he slowed down
and when the doctor said that my mother had an
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STD that he gave her that might affect me he felt
so bad and was inclined to stop completely he was
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supposedly sweet the remainder of my stay inside
my mom's uterus but all of that stopped the minute
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I popped out remember what I said about my father
being racist well he was convinced that my mother
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had cheated on him with another black man which
was why I was so dark considering my mother was
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mixed and much lighter than me I could really see
where he was coming from after a Stern talking to
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and a few DNA tests my dad finally shut up about
me not being his child but he didn't get over his
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disdain for me as much as my mother wanted him to
like me better she made sure not to censor parts
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up like wearing her hair however she liked I
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always got to do whatever with my hair since I can
remember and there have been zero questions about
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that regardless I grew up knowing my own dad liked
me less because of my skin it didn't help that all
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of my three siblings were so much lighter and even
white passing a lot of the time I didn't hate my
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siblings though I couldn't they never did anything
to me my parents are rich people people and rich
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people are weird my father could care less about
me and my mother was basically left to raise me on
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her own her rules for me were few go to school
and study a respected degree if you want your
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father to be proud of you that's all I lived for
my father's approval and I did it to the point
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where I nearly drove myself mad from kindergarten
right up until High School I don't remember having
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any friends that stuck because I'd heard my father
preach to my siblings countless times about not
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keeping friends even though the rule became LAX
by the time I was in Middle School a part of me
:34.360 --> :39.400 wanted to show that I could be obedient even
when he didn't need me to be it almost got the
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best of me until I made a friend in 11th grade
and we just never separated we went to the same
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college and were roommates until we graduated
and decided to move to New York City and figure
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out what we were going to do with our young lives
I already knew what I wanted to do but for fear
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of embarrassing or ashaming my father I kept it
all under wraps nework York was the perfect place
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to spread my wings creatively while still getting
to live a slightly less glamorous life than I was
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used to but I was living with my best friend and
so nothing could go wrong my little secret life
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away from my parents was being an artist and they
could never know or they would take it all away
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from me I've always been crafty with my hands but
my parents are neat freaks who couldn't stand the
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thought of anything going on their pristine White
Walls so I only had the opportunity to do any art
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in art class I used to mainly toy with pottery and
Ceramics and I still do but holding a paintbrush
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to Canvas was where I excelled the most I was
really good at it so much that my best friends
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who I'll call May for the purpose of this video
approached me to tell me how good I was a little
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back story on how may and I became friends the
art room in my high school was barely untouched
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because most of the students were in the more
serious clubs like science and whatnot but the
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room was always free to use there was a teacher
who looked after it as well and she was usually
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quiet and let me stay in the room much longer
than I had to one Friday we had a half day at
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school and while students usually were not allowed
to stay back late I was given an exception because
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of my involvement with the art room I didn't know
how much time it passed until someone burst into
:17.200 --> :23.080 the room and out of fear I yelled apparently
it was two people yelling back at me and I saw
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a girl and a boy who just looked like they'd been
locking lips I was looking at both of them and the
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girl was looking at at my art she ended up shoeing
the guy and convincing me that my art needed to be
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in museums I didn't want to tell her that my dad
would kill me so I just went along with it and
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it made us hang out more often until one day she
said that her uncle worked with an art gallery and
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her dad had a side gig restoring old and defaced
paintings basically she could push my art if I
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would just say the word money had never been my
issue and as much as I loved art I also really
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loved my family and I wouldn't want to disappoint
them this way so I turned her down but we spoke
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about all the reasons why I couldn't pursue art
further and may promise to help me find a way
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to keep practicing she got me artsy gifts every
time she had the chance to and what seemed like
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a friendship formed based off a mutual love for
art blossomed into the sweetest relationship in
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my life it was also May's idea to move to New York
because her family lived there and I could get my
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start on being an artist while my family was none
the wiser in their minds I was a marine biologist
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who had just gotten a job with a startup company
the only reason my father wasn't pushing for me to
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join his friends companies was because I really
sold the dream of learning to love on my own to
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him New York was my opportunity to do things my
way and I made sure to live like that I partied
:48.800 --> :55.400 went out on dates did Art and even started a
second degree in art history it was all so fun
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and fascinating to me that I didn't even see the
bad experiences as is remotely bad crap weather
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at least we can wear what we want bad date you
win some you lose some bad street food or dining
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experience it's all a part of these things my
original plan was to take all of my art seriously
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but also do it on a smaller scale so that I could
make a decent amount of money while not being
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too celebrated that I would reach my father's
corner of the internet it was a small corner but
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information sifted through every now and then
but it seemed like the universe simultaneously
:28.920 --> :34.400 wanted good and bad for me I submitted a few
of my Works to a gallery to display at their
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upcoming exhibition and all of my art was bought
at once the gallery asked me if I wanted a solo
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exhibition and after I agreed I had to go on a
seven-month long painting spree to prepare it
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was really hard for me because I'd started feeling
very weird things that I wasn't used to usually I
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was in my head long enough to mask how I was truly
feeling but in this instance I had to feel things
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and use those feelings to put things on canvas may
also introduced me to a lady who did therapy and
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yoga and while that might sound outrageous to you
it was the best thing I ever tried either made you
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throw up violently or cry until you fall asleep
whatever happens though you feel so much better
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after a session just a month before the exhibition
I made some Headway with my therapist and it felt
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like I was ready to be honest with my parents I
hadn't studied marine biology like they picked
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for me I did something else that made sure I could
also do art I knew they would be disappointed but
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hey at least I was making a reasonable amount of
money I hadn't seen my family in nearly 6 months
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so initially they were all elated to see me and by
then I mean my mother and three younger siblings
:48.120 --> :53.440 my father continued to ignore me like always
but this time it felt different now I know why
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people always say listen to your gut because if
I had listened to mine I wouldn't have needed to
:58.600 --> :04.040 go there and and face all of the humiliation
I did but I went there anyway after my first
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weekend home I let my family walk in on me doing
art related stuff like returning from the shops
:09.840 --> :15.360 with art supplies or setting up in my little
brother's former shed to do art my mother kept
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asking what it was all about but I told her that
I would let her know about the same time I let my
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father know she looked horrified but I made sure
to assure her that all would be well and it wasn't
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something too weird I could see her visibly call
down and she asked me to think carefully and be
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safe the fact that she had no idea what I wanted
to do or say but needed me to think carefully was
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already enough reasons to pack my things up and go
back to New York but I blamed anxiety and carried
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on oh the ways I would have gotten the heck out
of there if I had known anyway here's what went
:50.080 --> :55.240 down it was Sunday and the rest of my family
had returned from church I lied about visiting
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a friend from College's church so I could have
some alone time and take take a walk before they
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came back and just as I came from the walk and
all the faces were stormy I had a much healthier
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relationship with food and I'd started eating
breakfast so I assumed they were just hangry or
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something I offered to make brunch and my mother
calmly told me that my dad needed to speak to me
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in their bedroom I don't know what it's like in
other homes but in mine entering our parents'
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bedroom either meant very good or very bad my
alarms didn't start going off until I entered
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into his bedroom and he locked the door behind me
immediately my father started to scream about me
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being a sex worker in New York and blaming himself
forever sending me far away for college I was so
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confused that I immediately started to explain
myself but I was met with a slap that honestly
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confused me further I don't want to go into too
many details but I was beaten up so bad that my
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entire body had really bad bruises and I couldn't
do much but cry for a week and stay locked up in
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my room it was a little confusing what happened
and I couldn't exactly place my feelings towards
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it but as I healed and talked to May Mo I was full
of anger why would he do that to me over what was
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likely a rumor my mother and I spoke about things
and I was honest with her but I was also 24 while
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I appreciated my parents blessings I didn't need
them to survive anymore I got into college on a
:22.080 --> :26.560 scholarship so he didn't need to pay a dime
and after helping with accommodation for the
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first year I dealt with everything else my myself
and I mean by myself because I had a job and some
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savings my parents wisely put away for college I'm
not complaining because there were way more people
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who had even wealthier parents and they suffered
worse or had to turn to harmful measures so I
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wasn't really underprivileged if you think about
it it was also where I realized that by not being
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surrounded by snobs there were other ways to live
the fact that I also seemed like an outcast for my
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family must have been what made these guys like me
even more more because when they said Eat the Rich
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they meant it there were kids who were so rich
that they were the best kind of tree huggers but
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I digress my mother and I spoke about things and
she basically helped me break out promising that
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my father would be fine it was the first time she
was completely on my side and my heart was warmed
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when I got back to New York May's first itinerary
was to get back into therapy but I wanted to use
:24.520 --> :31.440 my anger against my father and not just heal
he was a pest piece of crap to his own child
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and deserve the worst for it before I agreed to
let may use her Connections in the art community
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for me she had attempted to drag me into modeling
with her for fear of my father seeing me online I
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turned it down but my best friend had been working
on a swimwear line with a really popular fashion
:48.080 --> :53.000 company and because we'd worked on a lot of
it together she offered to pay me as a best
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friend I felt guilty but may insisted I told her
I'd think about it and give an answer before she
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had to launch my answer was that I wanted to be
a model for the brand instead of getting paid
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modeling for a brand that big meant billboards
with my half- naked body all over New York can
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you see where I'm going with this I think you
can right after my exhibition came up and I was
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too busy to worry about my father when things
had calmed down a little I had a chat with my
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mother and while she expressed motherly concerns
about the skimpiness of my clothes and how little
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sleep I was getting she also seemed proud of me my
father had not shown his face in church since the
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images dropped and his blood pressure was through
the roof as a little extra gift I mailed him a
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Christmas card of May and I on the front topless
and in a seductive pose no boob was shown and we
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weren't actually topless our shoulders were just
bare and my siblings called to laugh about it and
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inform me that he had to be taken to the hospital
it might not seem that much but it took a lot
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to embarrass my father or make him anything but
but stoic and pissed a hospital trip was barely
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child's play in the least judgmental way possible
I just have to say almost a great way to ensure
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that your kid does act out and do things that
you're afraid they would do is to shelter them
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hardcore and try to censor the world around them
it's kind of like the idea of preaching abstinence
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as the only protective measure involving sex due
to hundreds of thousands of years of human nature
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and behavior that's almost guaranted ably not
going to work that said our next story is took a
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loan in her name and now she can't pay back being
a cheerful Giver can be really tough sometimes but
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that's just how I was raised my father used to
be something of a philanthropist he was the most
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generous person I knew growing up and probably
still is I don't know since we don't live together
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anymore I always saw him give almost whenever
he could and also lend a helping hand to friends
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and family members I liked how it made them feel
and the way they loved him so so I always said to
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myself be like Dad when you grow up in fact in my
Elementary School yearbook one time I registered
:06.240 --> :11.200 philanthropist as my dream job I didn't care
that I would have first needed a well-paying
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job or business or maybe even a charity to become
a philanthropist that's how badly I wanted to be
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a giver I may have overdone it at times though
I remember one time where I gave a classmate of
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mine my lunch money for an entire term when they
told me they had to walk miles to school because
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they couldn't afford the bus turns out they were
actually using their bus money to play video games
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in a shop after school and I was only feeling
their addiction by giving them more money worst
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part was that I didn't even stop giving it to
them after the school authorities had caught them
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in the act the first time I truly reconsidered the
whole cheerful Giver thing was when a friend of my
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father betrayed him I was still quite young so I
didn't fully understand at the time until he fully
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explained it to me apparently he and his friend
agreed to a business deal where he would Finance
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the entire procurement process and get back his
money and half of the profits in return the sounds
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like a good deal if you're doing it with a friend
who you think you can trust but my Dad's friend
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simply used this money to move himself and his
family out of the country then fully cut ties
:17.360 --> :23.400
with my dad till this day my dad was devastated
and the whole thing took a toll on his health
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and our family finances the craziest part was that
despite this my father remained the same he never
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said oh no I was scammed so now I'll never help
anyone out again he never changed when he told me
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the story it hurt me but seeing his reaction to it
made me feel that it would all be okay in the end
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and that I didn't have to change my mentality
because of a single incident anyways away from
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all of those childhood experiences I was growing
up and seeing the world in a way any prepubescent
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boy would when I got to high school I found out
that it was vastly different toe Elementary School
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and there were a lot of very unique characters in
elementary school most kids are truly innocent and
:06.520 --> :11.400
we're not usually trying to oneup each other so
you could trust most of them even if there were
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a few bad eggs in the high school I attended it
was a different ball game entirely that was my
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first experience with kids from broken homes kids
with negligent parents and kids with literally no
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parents the people were different their traumas
and experiences were also so different so their
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behaviors were obviously different to what I'd
been used to personally I tried not to change but
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in an environment like that it's pretty hard not
to honestly in the beginning I remained generous
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and was always willing to offer a helping hand
whenever I could but it looked like people were
:45.440 --> :50.480
taking advantage of me like one time when I told
a supposed friend of mine where I kept my money in
:50.480 --> :56.840
my school bag so he could get himself something to
eat and 3 days later the entire money in my school
:56.840 --> :02.400
bag went missing I I eventually found out that
he told a group of boys where I kept my money and
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watched them steal it I was pissed but I wasn't
reactionary so I just stopped putting my money
:09.000 --> :14.040
there rather than confront the boys or reporting
the case maybe I should have made them pay but it
:14.040 --> :18.920
just wasn't who I was a similar thing happened to
me again when I became a boarding student in the
:18.920 --> :24.600 eth grade this time it was my bunk maid whom
I trusted with everything I had that was the
:24.600 --> :30.760
culprit I used to keep my pocket money in serial
boxes locked up in my traveling box underneath
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the bed nothing too confidential but it was going
to take a concentrated effort to get those serial
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boxes out and find the money I and my bunk maid
were supposed to be brothers looking out for each
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other so we shared the locations of our valuables
with each other but he sold me where I hid my key
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out to some Notorious seniors in exchange for
some of my cornflakes once I found out I was
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broken not because of what I lost but the fact
that my bunk mate did that over something I would
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have given him if he just asked it was so obvious
that the serial was just a secondary reward for
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him he just wanted to see me in pain from then on
I made a promise to never be that overly generous
:11.960 --> :18.760
guy anymore I was going to harden my heart or
so I thought years went by and I was now in the
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University a very changed man with a different
outlook on the world at least in terms of how
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I perceived what I defined as help I actually
lost a few friends after I changed because it
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turned out they were only friends with me because
of what they stood to benefit I'd been away from
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my dad for close to a decade by that time so my
entire inspiration for being the most helpful
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person ever had mostly faded and all I had was the
PTSD for my previous tries I made new friends in
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the University I never had a problem making new
friends and they were really cool people they
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didn't like me for what they could benefit from me
heck they didn't even know what they could benefit
:55.960 --> :01.760
from me at the beginning of all of our friendships
I was a totally different man and kept most of my
:01.760 --> :07.560
privileges lowkey my friends always found out
eventually though but only after they'd become
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my friends so it was all good I was always down
to be helpful as long as it's not the reason for
:13.280 --> :19.640
the relationship anyway as time went on my friend
Circle grew you know how it goes from the front of
:19.640 --> :26.240
a friend to a classmate to a faculty made and so
on my friendship selection process got weaker as I
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needed to make as many connections as possible to
survive in such a difficult environment at first
:31.800 --> :36.840
this wasn't an issue because it was super helpful
but over time some people tend to overestimate
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their importance in your life and they start to
nudge themselves into spaces you probably don't
:41.840 --> :46.600 want them to be in this was the case with a
friend one of the guys in my initial friend
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group I can't really put my hand on when we first
met or how her face became so common in my spaces
:53.000 --> :57.800
she just appeared honestly I probably found out
she was friends with my buddy after our third
:57.800 --> :03.480 or fourth hangout Hangouts in the University
could be anything from a pool party to being at
:03.480 --> :09.120
the backseat of chemistry class her face became
so common you could barely tell that she wasn't
:09.120 --> :14.400
in our close Circle a few months prior I won't
lie I warmed up to her because she was pretty
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cool and easygoing with most people and that was
an attribute which I admired so that's how she
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became one of the Bros I must tell you having
a girl as one of the Bros cannot be understated
:26.920 --> :31.120 especially when you're in the University all
the months where my closest friend Circle was
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all guys we made a joint meal maybe four or five
times when we had a girl join in she was making us
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meals like every other day now I know you might
want to attack us for our gross incompetence in
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the kitchen and probably in life as a whole but
I think I should mention to you that we were all
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boys from decent families so we had people help
us do a lot of basic stuff growing up of course
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for some of us going to boarding school changed
most of of that but we weren't allowed to cook
:59.760 --> :04.960
there so that issue persisted I learned to cook
a bit from watching my mom do her magic in the
:04.960 --> :10.120
kitchen but I didn't learn enough variety for
self- sustenance then there was the big issue
:10.120 --> :15.720
of self-motivation towards cooking for a group of
boys I don't know how my mom did it with me and
:15.720 --> :21.360
all of my brothers but having to sort all those
ingredients into a recipe looked like calculus
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to me that's why I along with my boys welcomed a
female into the group for the very first time to
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be honest aside her tasty meals she was actually
into a few things we loved too like animals and
:34.000 --> :39.880 science so it wasn't like we were using her
for her chefing skills that was just a bonus
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that benefited everyone in response we usually
got her most of what she wanted as long as it
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was within our means it was a perfect relationship
especially as none of us harbored any nonplatonic
:51.120 --> :56.840
feelings towards her as that could have easily
have damaged the Dynamics of the relationship
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however I think we might have spoiled her because
a few months after she basically became one of us
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she started to demand much more than usual I got
it when she asked for stuff on her birthday or
:08.560 --> :13.680
days where she was celebrating something but as
soon as we all let our guards down she began to
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change the first time I noticed the changes in
our female friend was when we were going through
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our regular cycle of having literally no money
we lived well above the average on campus so we
:24.760 --> :30.160 usually had big bills to pay and bill paying
period left us with no money most of the time
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in one of such periods our female friend told us
how her father had fallen ill and was unable to
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sort her school fees for that semester we were
never going to allow any of our friends to go
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through such problems but that period was so tight
that we could barely even raise a quarter but we
:46.720 --> :53.120
explained the situation to her nonetheless to our
greatest shock she only begrudgingly accepted what
:53.120 --> :58.840 we could offer as if she was entitled to the
entire money from us this this was the first
:58.840 --> :05.280
red flag but none of us saw it and life continued
after the incident I also noticed that she began
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to feed us less of her wonderful cooking I'm not
saying she should have continued because it was
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probably the wakeup call we needed but I noticed
it nevertheless those things might look huge in
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hindsight but at this point in time they were too
subtle for their motive to be truly noticed I'm
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not proud seeing this but we were oblivious to a
lot of things that happened outside our bubble I
:26.880 --> :31.800
didn't even know when anything that went on in the
personal lives of anyone that wasn't in my circle
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that's how bad it was not caring too much about
the personal lives of people around you means you
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know too much about those in your circle because
they will tell you everything we all knew or
:42.320 --> :47.640
thought our females friend father was sick but we
didn't know what he was suffering with until one
:47.640 --> :53.760
day she came out clean to tell us something pretty
shocking he had been diagnosed with cancer I won't
:53.760 --> :59.800
lie I don't know the man but it sent chills down
my spine she also told us that he needed surgery
:59.800 --> :05.160
as soon as possible or he was going to be dead
within a couple of months she wasn't from a rich
:05.160 --> :11.280
or even middle class home so we knew she couldn't
afford it but we had to do something the fee was
:11.280 --> :17.280
quite large and even a crowdfunding effort between
us wouldn't have been enough on one hand we were
:17.280 --> :21.960
considering creating awareness for her father's
case around the school but none of us had the
:21.960 --> :28.560 knowhow or Zeal to go through such a process
of asking random people for financial aid we
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were usually the financial aid so we decided to
reach out to our various homes to ask for help
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I had to lie to my dad that I needed money for a
project and a couple of my friends did the same
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then I also emptied my entire Bank savings and
lent some money for my elder sister but sadly
:45.080 --> :50.800
the money was still not enough luckily for us she
knew an agency that gave out low interest loans
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to people in desperate need so all she needed
to do was register she didn't have a laptop so
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she made me do the entire process for her with
mine and gave me all the credentials I needed to
:01.360 --> :06.400
take the loan in her name when we successfully
raised the money I was feeling like the power
:06.400 --> :11.480 of friendship had just saved a poor man from
death but after we thought we had settled it
:11.480 --> :17.400
all something suspicious happened it had been a
month since we celebrated raising the funds for
:17.400 --> :23.200 our friend's father's surgical operation and
we hadn't seen her ever since in our minds we
:23.200 --> :29.040
were truly worried especially as we couldn't reach
her we thought the worst happened we weren't even
:29.040 --> :34.360
thinking about all the money we raised because it
was a worthless worry at that point we once tried
:34.360 --> :39.280 to declare her missing but the authorities
confirmed to us that she was indeed alive
:39.280 --> :44.080
which was a relief but we still felt she hadd been
avoiding school because something bad had happened
:44.080 --> :49.920 during the operation we were just hoping our
friend was okay but what we saw was the shock of
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Our Lives one day we decided to go to the mall to
cool off from all the school workor and thoughts
:55.440 --> :00.880
of our grieving friend while we were chilling in
the parking lot one of my buddies saw a lady come
:00.880 --> :08.160
out of a NIC looking car and alerted us we were
unable to believe our eyes it was our friend and
:08.160 --> :13.600
she was okay we all rushed towards her to know
what had happened but a huge guy came out through
:13.600 --> :19.480
the driver's seat to basically try to fend us
off before she let him know she was cool with us
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but this whole misunderstanding was enough excuse
for her to dodge the questions we threw at her so
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it was left for us to do our own investigations
on further investigation we discovered that the
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huge guy from earlier was actually her boyfriend
when I said we were oblivious I Meed because it
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also turned out that he was a scam artist I began
to connect the dots and found out a possibility
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that he had used our female friend to extort money
off us and that the father suffering with cancer
:49.560 --> :55.600
thing was probably an elaborate part of the plan
after some more research into the situation it
:55.600 --> :01.040
turned out that all of my fears were were valid
they had indeed scammed us off our money and used
:01.040 --> :05.920 the loan she took to make it more believable
it was even more crazy when I found out that
:05.920 --> :11.520
most of the money was used to buy the nice car we
saw them come out of at the mall despite reading
:11.520 --> :17.160
all this I still needed to hear her confirm the
allegations for herself so I tried to reach out
:17.160 --> :22.800
over the phone several times but I couldn't get
her I was finally able to see her on campus alone
:22.800 --> :29.480
one day and confronted her about the situation but
rather than be remorseful or possibly terrified
:29.480 --> :34.000
she seemed to rub it in that she was never in
it for the friendship and that it was all a
:34.000 --> :40.720
plan from the beginning her words truly broke my
spirit all these years I thought I'd moved on from
:40.720 --> :47.160
being such a fool but it turned out I was wrong
at that point there was only one thing on my mind
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after our altercation I let my friends know of her
reaction and every word she said they had all lost
:53.640 --> :59.040
money to the scam too and because we mostly lie
to our parents to Source the money it was going
:59.040 --> :04.280
to be hard to build a case to get it back the only
thing we could truly do was get our revenge in
:04.280 --> :10.840
one way or another luckily for us fate had me
planned for that very moment remember earlier
:10.840 --> :16.240
during the fun sourcing process when I helped her
secure a loan in her name turned out I still had
:16.240 --> :22.800
her credentials stored in my PC even to the most
minute detail so I told my friends and the plan
:22.800 --> :29.200
was simple we take a huge Loan in her name we
didn't just take aug huge loan we maxed out the
:29.200 --> :37.120
loan limit set a short payback period and set more
generally unfavorable terms that's how badly we
:37.120 --> :42.720
wanted to get back at her we took out even more
than what we had raised for the farle operation
:42.720 --> :50.120
and sat back as the results came out and boy do
I tell you the results were quite stupendous her
:50.120 --> :54.840
boyfriend had to sell the car after using it for
less than a month and it still wasn't enough for
:54.840 --> :00.360
them to repay the loan According to some mutuals
who knew them they also had to sell most of their
:00.360 --> :06.160
other properties because the deadline was set
pretty close she probably knew it was us behind
:06.160 --> :10.880
the whole thing but there was nothing she could
do because there was no true evidence she could
:10.880 --> :17.760
use against us we might have taken a loan in her
name but she was the one who got paid back so I
:17.760 --> :22.720
guess my question is what did they do with the
money when they got the loan because I'm willing
:22.720 --> :28.280
to bet with a large sum of money you're going to
be like afraid that they're going to come for it
:28.280 --> :33.280
that there's going to be some kind of legal action
where do you try to like stash that you can't just
:33.280 --> :38.720
like hide it away in some bank account right and I
guess the second question is once you have waited
:38.720 --> :43.400
long enough that you feel okay maybe they're not
going to come after this money do you pay back all
:43.400 --> :49.560
the people that you took money from or do you just
continue that lie that it all went to somebody who
:49.560 --> :54.400
had cancer although this Revenge was done it left
me with even more questions about what happened
:54.400 --> :59.680
afterwards but with that being said that's all
the time we have for today now if you want to hear
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I had always thought getting married to the guy of
your dreams would be a very enjoyable experience,
:14.440 --> :18.600
ever since I was little, I had always had the
mind-set that the guy I would eventually get
:18.600 --> :25.400
married to would be a very respectable, loving,
caring and by far, would be my perfect guy. I
:25.400 --> :30.120 guess this is what most ladies usually dream
of when asked of their future partners. But I
:30.120 --> :35.680
can tell you with all honesty there is in the
world, my case was most definitely not it. For
:35.680 --> :43.040
as long as I can remember in my marriage, I have
never experienced a much coy switch up or drastic
:43.040 --> :48.760 change in a man’s character than I did in Tom.
My name is Emily, I've been married to my husband,
:48.760 --> :54.280 Tom, for almost 6 years, or 7th anniversary
would be coming up by October. I would not
:54.280 --> :58.760 say I have not been happily married for
the entire 6 years, because there was most
:58.760 --> :03.760 definitely a period where I experienced the
sweetness and pure nature of love from Tom,
:03.760 --> :09.080 which was around the first year of our marriage.
My story and Tom’s go way back to when we had met
:09.080 --> :13.800
for the very first time. This was immediately
after graduation from high school. Tom and
:13.800 --> :18.640 I have been mere acquaintances back then in
high school, as back then, he was the kind of
:18.640 --> :23.440 guy that would rarely associate himself with
other people, either in social gatherings or
:23.440 --> :29.680
in general. He was what you would call a strict
introvert. I on the other hand, was overly social,
:29.680 --> :34.560 and thus I knew next to everyone everywhere
I went, and I was basically the most social
:34.560 --> :39.560
person you would ever meet . At the time, I just
knew there would have been no reason for the both
:39.560 --> :44.680
of us to even associate with each other. However,
this would change much sooner than I had thought.
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So the school had organised a closed in party
for the members of the school, which involved and
:49.800 --> :55.960
not excluding the academic staffs, non academic
staffs, and obviously the students. During this
:55.960 --> :01.660
period while everyone was being asked out to the
upcoming party, I was surprisingly left out, as I
:01.660 --> :07.040
had received no offer from anyone. It it kind of
hurt at the time, seeing as amongst all my peers
:07.040 --> :12.680
and my friends I was the one most likely to have
a partner to the dance. I just waited patiently
:12.680 --> :18.800
as I began to get less and less interested in the
dance, as at this time, every single person was
:18.800 --> :24.600
literally taken. To the extent that I even went as
far as taking matters into my own hands, by going
:24.600 --> :30.000
around and asking guys myself if they would like
to go to the dance with me, and practically every
:30.000 --> :35.340
single person that I had approached and asked
literally turned me down on the spot, even guys I
:35.340 --> :39.480
had thought that were single at the time and would
not have had a date to the party at the time,
:39.480 --> :44.480
were among those that turned me down at the time.
It got to a point that it became frustrating,
:44.480 --> :50.440
and then later on, annoying. But I just decided
to pay it no mind, as this was no longer something
:50.440 --> :55.880 that interested me again. But seeing as the
school made the attendance to the party mandatory,
:55.880 --> :00.080 I just had to come regardless of whether or
not I had a partner to go to the dance with. :00.080 --> :05.880
It was the day of the party, a very sad and long
friendly morning, and all my friends were so
:05.880 --> :11.720
excited about the dance seeing as they even left
me out of their conversation and their after party
:11.720 --> :17.440
plans, seeing as I did not have a partner of my
own. It hurt that my friends would do this to me,
:17.440 --> :22.280 but I did not take it to heart. My goal that
evening was just to survive the party night
:22.280 --> :27.240 and forget it had ever happened. The school
dismissed the students quite early that day,
:27.240 --> :32.120
as we were instructed to head back to our homes
and prepare for the party which was slated for the
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same evening that very day. We were dismissed
at around a few minutes past 12PM and were to
:37.520 --> :42.160 reconvene back at the school Gym which was
where the party was supposed to take place.
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I got there a few minutes past 7PM, as the time of
commencement of the party was 30 minutes after 6,
:48.520 --> :53.960
but I was not willing to comply by this time,
seeing as I was practically the least motivated
:53.960 --> :59.960
person to come for the party at the time. Little
did I know that I was only seconded by one person,
:59.960 --> :05.520
which was none other than Tom. Apparently when
I got to the venue of the party, I had no idea
:05.520 --> :11.800
that Tom was also not present, as you could say
he has a zero rating on his social presence. I
:11.800 --> :16.360
just sat down at the corner of the room, while I
watched as every single one of my friends had the
:16.360 --> :22.560
party of their lives, everyone was paired up and
ready to get the party started, but there I was,
:22.560 --> :28.760
sitting in the corner of the room like some loser.
At the time, I had not the mind nor the intention
:28.760 --> :34.720
to stay in the room any longer, so I just left
the premises as I headed back to the class area,
:34.720 --> :38.800 just to try and get a breather. And as I
approached the class I wanted to cool my
:38.800 --> :44.960
head off in, there he was, Tom was already in
the room I was making plans on making use of,
:44.960 --> :51.440
to pass the time. The moment I saw him in the
class, I tried to apologise and leave immediately,
:51.440 --> :56.840
but he stopped me and said if I wanted to make use
of the class, I was free, seeing as he literally
:56.840 --> :02.440 had not the right, nor the power to stop me
from doing so. I was still being stubborn and
:02.440 --> :07.760
reluctant at the time, but I later gave In and
came into the class. We initially had a really
:07.760 --> :13.840
long moment where neither of us had anything to
say to the other, until I asked what his name was,
:13.840 --> :19.200
what grade he was in, and why he was here in the
class room and not out there in the Gym enjoying
:19.200 --> :25.520
himself. He responded in same and asked why I was
also not in the gym, but rather I was looking for
:25.520 --> :31.560
a place to escape down to. I explained myself to
him, which till this day, I do not know why I did
:31.560 --> :37.120
so to a complete stranger at the time, but he did
the same, as he also told me why he was here in
:37.120 --> :42.760 the classroom and not down there in the gym.
Surprisingly we both had very similar reasons,
:42.760 --> :47.720
as he too was not able to fins someone he could
take to the party, and thus after he had checked
:47.720 --> :52.560
himself into the party, he immediately found a
chance to leave the party and come here just to
:52.560 --> :59.520
enjoy some quality and alone time all by himself.
He seemed like a really nice enough person and I
:59.520 --> :05.160
began to wonder why It was that I had never once
remembered myself engaging in a conversation with
:05.160 --> :10.600
him. The night was a very long one and we both
had lots of things to say to each other all to
:10.600 --> :16.520
pass the time we had. We talked about a lot, who
we both were individually, what we had planned for
:16.520 --> :22.320
ourselves in the nearest future, what our goals
and ambitions were, what we had planned to do once
:22.320 --> :27.840
we got out of High-school, just basic stuffs like
that. And before you know it, it was not too long
:27.840 --> :33.400
before we saw that every person that was attending
the party began exiting the Gym, as it was already
:33.400 --> :38.720
signalled, the end of the party that is, I was
initially surprised, as I thought at first that
:38.720 --> :44.520
the party was ended abruptly, but after checking
my phone for the time, I realised that time was
:44.520 --> :49.720 far spent. And I did not notice this because
Tom and myself were both having one of the most
:49.720 --> :55.760
interesting and intelligent conversations I have
ever had. I even thought to myself back then that,
:55.760 --> :01.400
I had never recalled myself having a conversation
with someone, and the I would begin losing track
:01.400 --> :06.840
of time, as I was a very time conscious person.
Anyways after which we had seen the members of
:06.840 --> :11.720 the school begin exiting the school premises
and conducting searches in the classrooms,
:11.720 --> :16.240 to find out if there was any students that
was still lingering around in the classrooms,
:16.240 --> :21.560
we decided to get up and leave the classroom. The
conversation we were having was so interesting
:21.560 --> :26.600
and captivating, that I just could not help but
request for his number so that we both would be
:26.600 --> :32.000
able to meet on another time. We exchanged numbers
and we both went on our way home. It was after I
:32.000 --> :37.640
had gotten home, gotten myself settled down, and
freshened up, that I realised that at that moment,
:37.640 --> :42.560 I actually was kind of interested In Tom.
I Know how crazy I must sound, but that
:42.560 --> :48.480
was genuinely how I felt at the time. Probably it
was because I was already rejected by practically
:48.480 --> :54.360
everyone I knew at the time and for others that
I just had relations with, I was still rejected
:54.360 --> :59.800
by them. So this seemed like it was right from
the get go. I paid little to no attention to what
:59.800 --> :03.840 ever it was that was running through my mind
at the time that was trying to make me lose
:03.840 --> :08.920 interest in Tom. I mean how could I possible
do that, for one he was the perfect gentleman
:08.920 --> :14.200 to me throughout the time we were together,
he is very good looking, the perfect height,
:14.200 --> :20.240 his voice was the perfect level of deep, and
his demeanour was sublime. Everything about him
:20.240 --> :25.280
just caught my attention, I didn’t think there
was anything that could ward me off from him.
:25.280 --> :29.920 Following out resumption back to school the
following week, Tom and I got really close,
:29.920 --> :35.000
in fact, I could say it took us a few days less
than a month for the both of us to become as close
:35.000 --> :41.720
as we did at the time. It was really something.
We were practically inseparable. It came sooner
:41.720 --> :47.520
rather than later, that is Tom asking me out. I
knew this was coming, because I have practically
:47.520 --> :52.800
been hinting it to him in the most subtlest way
possible and I always knew he picked up on the
:52.800 --> :58.160 hints. Anyways following the events that
happened and took place the coming weeks,
:58.160 --> :03.520
he finally asked me to be his girlfriend and this
was the very beginning of our journey, together.
:03.520 --> :08.040 We would occasionally go out on dates during
our free time, and I could ay this helped In
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boosting the current state of our relationship.
The realisation that he really was a handsome
:12.880 --> :18.320 enough guy that I had started to notice that
he could and would most definitely be getting
:18.320 --> :24.480
offers from other girls, as he was perfect in any
way physically possible, and to top things off,
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he was literally the perfect gentleman. I mean
what else could a lady ask for in a man. I even
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jokingly tried to tease him about it one of these
days we were hanging out together, when something
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happened. So picture this, we went out on a date
to one of our famous and regular restaurants for
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our usual dates, and after which we had already
placed our orders, we decided to take our usual
:46.400 --> :51.640
spot at the corner of the restaurant and hang out,
only foe a lady to walk up to him and complement
:51.640 --> :57.600
him om his beauty and how good looking he was.
He seemed shy bat first but after she had left
:57.600 --> :03.960
our table, he seemed gleeful and really proud of
himself. I was happy my man was really this happy,
:03.960 --> :10.560
and this perfect, but I did not fancy the idea
of another woman complementing him on his beauty,
:10.560 --> :16.360
while I was there and even while I was not. But
he seemed happy about it, and I just tried to
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lighten the mood by teasing him about it, and he
almost snapped at me, trying to defend himself,
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by saying it was not his fault she came up t meet
him and all, and that what did you want from and
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for him to do when ever such a situation should
happen again. I just tried to lighten the mood,
:32.480 --> :37.240 but it had seemed at this time that things
were starting to get heated and serious,
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so I just decided to drop the matter, and let us
enjoy the time we had to spend together that day.
:43.080 --> :47.080 This was the first event that had happened
like this, and soon after being together
:47.080 --> :51.840 with him for many years, I could say it
most definitely does not get any better,
:51.840 --> :57.040
as it only gets worse and the more I tried to keep
quiet on the matter but it got to a point I just
:57.040 --> :02.360 could not. Soon after graduating high-school
and college, we both were still together and
:02.360 --> :08.000
strong for almost 4 years back then. So we had
decided to move in together with each other,
:08.000 --> :13.120 because at the time this had seemed like
a not so logical but reasonable enough.
:13.120 --> :18.080
We moved in together, and a few months after we
had moved in together, he decided to propose to
:18.080 --> :24.040
me at the time. And I accepted immediately as I
loved him that much and I was fully willing and
:24.040 --> :29.440
ready to be with him all my life at the time. Even
considering the fact that we still have not found
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out a reasonable and effective enough solution to
the problem of ladies approaching him and kill,
:34.720 --> :39.680
which I thought would stop the moment he began
making it general knowledge that he was already
:39.680 --> :45.720
happily married and taken. However the most put
of character and context thing happened one very
:45.720 --> :51.200 day that crumbled the very foundation of our
marriage, and had thus led to both of us having
:51.200 --> :56.320 second doubts about our marriage at the time.
So Tom had initially told me he was going to be
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away from home for just 2 days pending the time
he was going to be done with a certain work order
:01.560 --> :06.520
he had to take care of at the time. I agreed to
him being away for the time he had requested,
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which was a full weekend, and I had expected him
back the very first day of the following week if
:12.360 --> :18.280
everything goes as planned. But apparently unknown
to me, I had no idea about the things that had
:18.280 --> :24.600
been happening in his life when I was not present.
So a little birdie told me, and by little birdie i
:24.600 --> :30.560
mean my best friend, Anna, that she would like to
share a very disturbing image she had just taken
:30.560 --> :36.520
at that very moment we were talking. And I got
confused for a moment, but I asked her to send it,
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knowing how hysterical and overly hyper she can
be, I just decided to go along with the flow,
:42.560 --> :48.320 and she sent me a picture of Tom at the club
with another lady, and she asked whether or
:48.320 --> :54.160
not she was seeing correctly as she wanted me to
clarify whether or not it was my husband in the
:54.160 --> :01.040
picture. I couldn’t even respond as I was too
awestruck to even say anything anymore. I just
:01.040 --> :07.040
hung up the phone and I broke down in tears. This
went on for a while, after which I had decided to
:07.040 --> :13.320
compose myself and await his arrival to get his
own perspective of this image I had just received.
:13.320 --> :18.720 He got back the following Monday, as planned
and when I asked how his work order was he
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began formulating a story for me om the spot, and
when I could not take it anymore, I brought out
:21.920 --> :26.320 the picture Annie, had sent to me of himself
in the club with some other girls, having the
:26.320 --> :32.320
time of his life apparently. When he saw this
he quickly switched up, as he got mad, asking
:32.320 --> :37.200
why I had someone trail him when he was going
out and why I did not trust him to even leave
:37.200 --> :42.360
the house by himself. Somehow he made himself
the victim in all of these. We couldn’t finish
:42.360 --> :47.480
our conversation that say and even when he got
back I already noticed that he had no intention
:47.480 --> :53.120
of coming clean and letting us resolve this as
adults. I decided to wait it out patiently, for
:53.120 --> :59.640
him to finally come clan and apologise at the very
least. Unfortunately I waited for quite a while,
:59.640 --> :05.760 as my waiting soon progressed quickly from
days, to weeks to months and ultimately years,
:05.760 --> :11.920
5 years to be exact. And at this point, I had
already gotten fed up with his attitude, as this
:11.920 --> :17.120
was not the man I had fallen in love with and
gotten married to, and when I found out that he
:17.120 --> :22.400
was still continuing with his activities, I just
decided I would get back at him in the very same
:22.400 --> :28.040
way, but instead of heading out to the club and
picking a random guy, I decided to invite one of
:28.040 --> :34.600
his buddies over and things got heated between the
both of us, and we got to do the deed, all while
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I was anticipating his arrival during the act,
but he soon came back home after the act, while
:40.640 --> :47.640
we were cuddling. He was furious, near mad, as he
began to ask why I would do such thing, and with
:47.640 --> :53.200
his buddy for that matter. I just nonchalantly
excused myself to the restroom to freshen up,
:53.200 --> :59.600
as I looked at him and said straight to him while
looking at his eyes, “we are even now aren’t we?”. :22.120 --> :27.160
One might argue differently, when told that
establishing a business enterprise with a very
:27.160 --> :34.280
close friend, partner or even brother, would be a
terrible if not bad idea but that was not the case
:34.280 --> :39.880
with Jared and I. We both were successful owners
of our joint business, and things were going
:39.880 --> :45.760
really smooth not until we got an offer for a buy
out, and Jared convinced me totally to at least
:45.760 --> :50.960
take what they were offering as this seemed like
a more than good enough deal for our business. At
:50.960 --> :56.400
the time I had no idea about the legalities behind
the deal, but I just decided to go along with
:56.400 --> :02.760
Jared, since he was even more knowledgeable than
I was in matters like this. Unfortunately for me,
:02.760 --> :08.800
I was too complacent and decided to let Jared
handle it, by trusting him completely. To my
:08.800 --> :14.480
greatest surprise, he altered the deal to his
favour, and took the majority of the funds we
:14.480 --> :19.640 were both supposed to receive as a result of
the deal of the buy out of our joint company.
:19.640 --> :24.880
Jared’s story and mine go way back to when we both
were about leaving High-school. We had just been
:24.880 --> :30.320
given the pep talk, about how we were to prepare
our lives for the challenges we were going to face
:30.320 --> :35.480
having left the High-school environment and all,
and seeing as we were still very young adults, we
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were advices to get something going for ourselves
so as to get something working for ourselves right
:41.240 --> :46.880 before we get into the college of our choice.
Back then, Jared and myself had not met even
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following the fact that we were both in the same
school and all. After our High-school, during my
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search for a decent enough college that could fit
my criteria of offering the course of my choice,
:57.080 --> :02.800
has a decent enough learning and work environment,
and also not too far from my current environment,
:02.800 --> :07.360 I would most definitely prefer one that was
available in my surrounding state, or within
:07.360 --> :13.120
the surrounding vicinity. And when I finally found
one I fancied and the one that fit what I wanted,
:13.120 --> :17.560 I immediately applied and went over there,
just to go and experience the environment
:17.560 --> :23.120
first hand. I asked my parents to drive me all
the way to the college, because at this time,
:23.120 --> :28.160 I had not gotten my drivers licence, and I
could not drive myself down to the college. :28.160 --> :33.520
The drive to the college was a 5-hour drive, and
at one point it had seemed like the journey would
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not end, because for one I had never gone on a
journey this long in my entire life, and secondly,
:40.520 --> :46.320
I was not the one behind the wheels, and since it
was my dad, he tried as much as possible to take
:46.320 --> :52.120
his time, seeing as he was just as slow a driver
as ever. Anyways we eventually got to the college
:52.120 --> :58.000
at around past 11, as we left home really early
that day. We went straight to the orientation
:58.000 --> :03.440 centre so that we can join the others during
their orientation programme. And as we got there,
:03.440 --> :09.280
I thought it would feel kind of awkward seeing as
I knew next no nobody there, until I saw him. He
:09.280 --> :15.720
looked very familiar, seeing as I rarely forget
a familiar face. I just had this gut feeling to
:15.720 --> :21.080 try and approach him, and ask whether or not
he knew me and all. To my greatest surprise,
:21.080 --> :26.600
when I approached him, he knew me immediately and
said my name right then and there on the spot. It
:26.600 --> :33.000
was surprising because at this time, I still did
not know his name. Anyways he introduced himself
:33.000 --> :38.120
and said he remembered me from our High-school as
we went there together and all. I quickly asked
:38.120 --> :44.160
him if he cane alone and he went to find his Dad,
as he was the only one with him there that day,
:44.160 --> :49.720
I quickly got introduced to his Dad, and when we
were done with the formalities and introduction,
:49.720 --> :54.520 I took him and his dad over to my parents so
that I may introduce him to both my dad and my
:54.520 --> :59.400
mum. While they were done with the introductory
formalities, we both left the adults to get to
:59.400 --> :04.440
know themselves, while we went along with the
orientation guide, to get acclimatised with our
:04.440 --> :10.560
soon to be new environment. Getting to know Jared
was a really fun experience as it was nice to have
:10.560 --> :15.840 net someone you knew in a new environment and all.
The orientation programme was a really fun
:15.840 --> :21.960
experience also as we got to go to every single
place that concerned us on the school grounds,
:21.960 --> :28.000
but as fun as the experience may have been, it all
came to an end, a few hours after it had started
:28.000 --> :32.920
and we were supposed to head back to our homes
the next day, but the drive home was a really
:32.920 --> :38.480
long one and both our parents were too tired and
exhausted from waiting and sitting down all day,
:38.480 --> :42.520 so both my parents and Jared’s dad decided
that we should all get a motel around the
:42.520 --> :47.960
vicinity to stay in for the night, and we would
leave the very next morning. So as planned,
:47.960 --> :52.840
they all went ahead to take a quick drive down
to the nearest Motel, which was directly outside
:52.840 --> :57.960
the schools gate. And while they were checking
themselves in, Jared and I decided to take a quick
:57.960 --> :03.920
walk around as we were not satisfied with the
ending of our orientation that day. Soon after, we
:03.920 --> :09.640
found a relaxation centre, we settled down, and we
began getting to know each other. I asked what he
:09.640 --> :15.480
wanted to major in and he told me Accounting and
Business Management. I also told him mine, and we
:15.480 --> :20.320
began talking about what we both had planned for
when we left high school and all. I told him I had
:20.320 --> :25.880
plans to try and set up a small scale business for
myself, as I seriously wanted to have something
:25.880 --> :31.440
going for myself. We found common ground on what
we both wanted to do, while we were in college,
:31.440 --> :37.040
but the first stage was to get accepted into the
school first. We soon went back to our motel room,
:37.040 --> :42.200 as we wanted to get more than enough sleep,
as we had quite a journey ahead of us. :42.200 --> :47.000
The next morning , we left the motel as quickly
as possible, as we did not bring along a change
:47.000 --> :52.240
of clothes, and Jared and I exchanged contact
with each other, as we both had planned to tell
:52.240 --> :56.880
each other, when either of us got admitted. The
journey seemed shorter than it was when we were
:56.880 --> :03.640
initially coming to the college. I had no idea
why, but the journey still came down to 5 hours,
:03.640 --> :09.440
even though it seemed like we were going really
fast. Anyways, we got home safely and I texted
:09.440 --> :14.760
Jared the moment I got back in. It almost seemed
like this was an experience I had missed out on,
:14.760 --> :19.320 because seeing as how well Jared and I were
getting along, one would think that we were
:19.320 --> :24.920
friends and have been friends for quite a while,
meanwhile we had just formally gotten acquainted
:24.920 --> :31.360 with each other over the span of 72 hours max.
It took a little over 5 months before the college
:31.360 --> :36.400
was done with the current session they were in,
and then the time for admissions were finally upon
:36.400 --> :41.440
us, as we had both been very hopeful about getting
admitted together, since it would mean that the
:41.440 --> :46.520
both of us would be very much able to get into
the same Dorm and all. The admission process was
:46.520 --> :52.840
supposed to run for a little bit over a month, and
we were just in the second week and still nothing.
:52.840 --> :57.640
At this point we were not at all too worried,
mainly because we had thought to ourselves,
:57.640 --> :02.080 that there was still plenty of time before
the admission period was over. However we
:02.080 --> :07.720
began panicking, when it was already a week left
for the admission process. At this point I had
:07.720 --> :11.840
already thought to myself that it seemed like
we were not going to be admitted in that set,
:11.840 --> :16.600
and I was even already on the verge of giving
up and trying to apply to another college,
:16.600 --> :21.000 which was the second on the list of colleges
I made some months back, while seeking for
:21.000 --> :27.760
the perfect college I could apply to, then it
happened, Jared’s admission finally came through.
:27.760 --> :33.440
I was so happy for him as he was given the course
of his choice, and this was what we both wanted
:33.440 --> :38.720
for each other. I on the other hand, was still
holding on to the last thread of hope I had,
:38.720 --> :45.480
that my admission would pull through. And the
on the last day, after I had given up totally,
:45.480 --> :52.640
almost om the verge of tears, in my room, a mail
notification popped up on my screen, and when I
:52.640 --> :59.560
checked it, there it was, my letter of admission.
I was beyond glad, as I was also given the course
:59.560 --> :06.880
of my choice. I had no idea why my admission came
this late and at the eleventh hour no less. Still
:06.880 --> :11.800
though, I did not question it one bit. I just went
with the flow, as I had already prepared myself to
:11.800 --> :17.520
break the news to Jared first before even telling
my family. Anyways after I told Jared the good
:17.520 --> :23.480
news, he was as happy for me as I was for him.
Soon after the week for admission had passed,
:23.480 --> :29.440
a notification was sent to every admitted student,
embedded in the mail, were instructions to resume
:29.440 --> :34.200 the following week, and also detailed
instructions on what to do upon arrival,
:34.200 --> :40.320
and how to go about our clearance and settlement
on the schools dorms. We were both so happy. :40.320 --> :45.440
What I felt at this moment was like I was
celebrating with my childhood friend after
:45.440 --> :50.760
finally accomplishing my goals, ambitions and
dreams, even though this was just the stepping
:50.760 --> :56.320 stone to my future. As instructed, we both
resumed as early as humanly possible to school,
:56.320 --> :01.520
to finalise our admission, get cleared by the
admissions officer, and the finally get settled
:01.520 --> :08.320 down in our dorms. Finally things were all
good everywhere. We resumed classes as usual,
:08.320 --> :14.480
and things were going fine academically. I would
not say I had any problem with my classes, as most
:14.480 --> :20.320
of them were pretty for me to understand, as I was
expecting things to take a boost in the difficulty
:20.320 --> :26.400
level. Seeing as my academics were not affected a
single bit, and seeing as I was doing fairly well
:26.400 --> :33.320
effortlessly, I decided it was finally time for me
to pursue my dream of finally owning a business,
:33.320 --> :39.280
no matter how small I was going to start up. And
before I did this, I consulted Jared on possible
:39.280 --> :45.280
business ideas ad strategies, as we had initially
discussed before, he had some ideas on what kind
:45.280 --> :50.320
of business to start up with, taking into serious
consideration, the environment we were going to
:50.320 --> :56.760
set up our business in, the capital needed to
start up said business and some other factors.
:56.760 --> :02.480
Basically I needed him to give me some guidelines
and the go ahead plan to kick start my business,
:02.480 --> :06.720 and after he had done just that, I
asked my parents for start up funds, :06.720 --> :12.760
as I presented the business idea to them. My
dad was absolutely impressed as he was most
:12.760 --> :18.920 willing to invest fully into by business venture.
Basically we went with something simplistic and
:18.920 --> :25.080
simple. Our conclusion on what to venture into was
a mini coffee stand, which would later develop in
:25.080 --> :29.200
the coming weeks into a breakfast joint, as we
thought there were a lot of students that were
:29.200 --> :34.120
looking for something quick to have before going
for their early morning classes and all. After
:34.120 --> :38.880
discussing it with the schools management, we
were given a slot on the school premises to
:38.880 --> :44.680
conduct our business, and I can proudly tell you,
that within a month of operation, we were well
:44.680 --> :50.880
known all around the school for our perfectly
made coffee and also perfectly made bread,
:50.880 --> :56.320
which I usually got from a local bakery outside of
the schools premises. It was really like a dream
:56.320 --> :02.920
come true, seeing my dream of having a business
owned in and by my name come true but I couldn’t
:02.920 --> :08.840
handle the whole management and finances alone,
and so I incorporated the help of Jared and the
:08.840 --> :15.240
both of us together, managed our small business,
until we were able to afford an actual Shop on
:15.240 --> :22.480
the schools premises. To my greatest surprise, we
were pulling 6 figures by the end of the schools
:22.480 --> :28.000 semester. I was really proud with myself,
as this was really what I had wanted. I felt
:28.000 --> :33.240
fulfilled with myself at this point. All these
and my academics weren’t affected a single bit.
:33.240 --> :37.680
After establishing and running our business for
a little over 7 months, we were approached with
:37.680 --> :43.040
a buy out proposal by some private investors,
who proposed we sell off our business to them,
:43.040 --> :48.120 for 5 times its worth. I had not heard of
this immediately they brought this proposal,
:48.120 --> :53.080
because I was not the one managing our finances at
the time, and Jared only told me that there were
:53.080 --> :58.840
some people looking to invest in our business, and
they were looking to own a particular percentage
:58.840 --> :03.440
in it. And this was what I had thought. So when
Jared brought up the contract they had brought
:03.440 --> :09.120 for us for the sell out, which I had thought
at this time, was the contract for owning about
:09.120 --> :15.920
20% of the business, as Jared had said, I just
signed off on it immediately as I trusted him
:15.920 --> :21.520
and that was that. We closed up early as I felt
really happy with how that day had planned out,
:21.520 --> :26.800
and I took Jared out for dinner, as It was my way
of thanking him for everything he had done for me.
:26.800 --> :31.920
It was not until the following week, that I came
to the shop, to carry out business as usual,
:31.920 --> :37.640
that I saw a couple of guys already at the shop, I
was thinking it was the guys Jared told me about,
:37.640 --> :42.360
that he was looking to hire at the time to help
out in the shop and all, but when I went in,
:42.360 --> :46.920
I thought they would greet me, relative to the
fact that I was their boss and the owner of
:46.920 --> :52.000
the business and all, but they welcomed me in
like a customer which was weird, but I didn’t
:52.000 --> :56.920
pay it any mind at the time, and when I tried
to go into the backroom, where my office was,
:56.920 --> :02.560 I was stopped by the guy that was initially
manning the register. To cut the long story short,
:02.560 --> :08.440
I was basically kicked out of my own restaurant.
I got confused. What was happening right now. What
:08.440 --> :15.200
was the meaning of all these, I was readily about
to throw a literal fit, until a guy came out of my
:15.200 --> :21.040
office and walked me in through the back door. We
got into what qas my office and I already saw that
:21.040 --> :26.160
he had already made the place totally different
from what it was. He sat me down and began
:26.160 --> :31.960
answering my questions. After the entire session
I had with him, I was feeling a while lot of
:31.960 --> :38.920
emotions raging inside me, the dominant emotions
were majorly, Anger, Rage, Disappointment,
:38.920 --> :44.920
Betrayed, amongst others. I immediately called
Hared and his phone was turned off, but it was
:44.920 --> :50.280
later reachable and he immediately told me to
meet up as he wanted to explain things to me in
:50.280 --> :55.680
person. I was seriously looking forward to what he
wanted to say that would justify why he sold off
:55.680 --> :01.640
m business. I met up with Jared back in our dorms
as I was already to mad at him to even listen to
:01.640 --> :07.720
him request we meet anywhere else. While he sat me
down, he began explaining why he did what he did,
:07.720 --> :13.080
and he tried to justify what he did by saying
that he felt like I would not take the offer, as
:13.080 --> :18.440
he though it was a reasonable enough offer for the
business and all, that was why he did what he did.
:18.440 --> :23.040
I was too mad at him for what he did, and when
I tried to make him understand that what he did
:23.040 --> :29.880
was wrong in all manner of speaking, he Lashed out
and retaliated by saying he did it to help me and
:29.880 --> :34.960
that if I felt any different, there was literally
nothing I could do, as he was the one in charge of
:34.960 --> :41.560
the money he collected and if he wanted he could
make it so, that I never get anything from it.
:41.560 --> :47.240
This really flipped something off In me, as I
left the room, I immediately packed my bags and
:47.240 --> :53.600 left for home, as it was relatively not too
far, the usual 5 hour drive. And when I got
:53.600 --> :59.480
home I immediately reported the whole incident
to my dad and all, he was furious as I also
:59.480 --> :05.000 tried to add in some spicy and altered facts
about what happened , but basically my dad was
:05.000 --> :11.840
threatening to sue him for everything him and
his family owned. Those were his exact words.
:11.840 --> :17.080
I don’t really know the details of what really
happened legally or the legal process the went
:17.080 --> :22.360
through for the entirety of the case in the court,
even though I as present for the entire thing, but
:22.360 --> :28.840
one thing I do know, Is that my dad won the case
for me as he got a really competent enough lawyer,
:28.840 --> :35.600
and we sued for 2 tines the amount he got from
the deal which was well over $2million dollars,
:35.600 --> :40.680
I still couldn’t believe it, but this was the
current reality Jared HD to face for crushing
:40.680 --> :46.080
my dream and what he did to me. Betraying the
trust of his only best friend. While we left
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the course room after the judges verdict, I looked
him in the eye and asked, “was it really worth it,
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doing what you did”. And I could see the look
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:00.000 --> :00.960 Posted by :00.960 --> :05.700
u/Dylan_Farstveet_ 3 days ago :06.300 --> :09.581
Entitled neighbor trespasses into our backyard for a ball
:09.581 --> :10.291 M Hey, Reddit! Here is the key:
:10.291 --> :11.940
EN = Entitled Neighbor ENG = Entitled Neighbor's
Grandson Dad = My dad So, EN has been giving us
:11.940 --> :16.140
trouble ever since she moved to our neighborhood;
she threatened to sue us multiple times,
:16.140 --> :21.660
claiming that our legally constructed fence was
somehow causing water to go into her basement.
:21.660 --> :27.000
She never actually sued us. The other day I was
on my day off from work, and I ordered some Uber
:27.000 --> :33.960
Eats. Once my food arrived, I went out to get my
food, and I noticed ENG (who looked around maybe
:33.960 --> :39.780
10 or 11) pacing around our sidewalk. I didn't
think much of it and went back inside; however,
:39.780 --> :44.400 afterward, I looked on our Arlo (security
system) app and noticed some new videos. :44.400 --> :51.600
[EN rings our doorbell] [Dad answers through
the doorbell] Dad: hey, can I help you? EN:
:52.320 --> :56.760 "Hey, I was wondering if we could go In
the backyard to get our ball?" Dad: "No,
:56.760 --> :04.380
I can't have anybody going in the backyard. I'm
not home." EN: "Can we go get it back or...?" Dad:
:04.380 --> :10.740
"No" EN: "Can we go get the ball?" Dad: "No, I'm
afraid I can't have you going back there." EN:
:11.460 --> :18.000
"My grandson can't go get his ball?" Dad: "No,
I don't want anyone going in my backyard." EN:
:18.000 --> :23.700 "ARE YOU SERIOUS?!" Dad: "Oh yeah, I'm dead
serious." EN: "I'll go right back there and
:23.700 --> :28.740
open the fence" (I think that's what she said, it
was hard to understand) Dad: "Especially not you,
:28.740 --> :35.400
EN; stay the heck outta my yard. You gotta get
off our property now. I'll call the police." EN:
:36.000 --> :41.340 "You know what? I don't care; I'm calling as
well. I'm calling the cops right now!" Dad:
:41.340 --> :46.140 "Oh, do it because I'm not home."
EN: [walking away] "YOU CAN'T TELL :46.140 --> :51.780
US WE CAN'T GET OUR STUFF! THAT'S STEALING!"
Dad: "No, you put it there; it's mine now." :51.780 --> :57.120
Instead of just waiting for my dad to text me to
get the ball for them, she proceeded to unlatch
:57.120 --> :02.400 our back gate and go into our backyard after
being told she was not allowed back there and
:02.400 --> :07.200
walked around our backyard to get her ball. I came
out to get my food while she was in the backyard.
:07.200 --> :11.760
The reason why Dad told her she's not allowed
on our property is that she and her husband have
:11.760 --> :16.620
gone on our property without permission before
and has caused issues for other neighbors as
:16.620 --> :20.820
well. We don't feel comfortable with her on our
property, and we have told her in the past she
:20.820 --> :24.900 is not allowed on our property. Obviously,
my dad should not have said that last part,
:24.900 --> :30.480
but after she threatened to sue us for our fence
that is on the property line and never apologized,
:30.480 --> :35.940
and they often hit your house with their ball,
it's kind of hard to be nice to them. Some people
:35.940 --> :40.260 may think that Dad was in the wrong, but he
was going to text me to get it for them anyway,
:40.260 --> :44.040 and even then, they could have just
come back later when my dad was home. :44.040 --> :48.840
[UPDATE] I saw some people recommending putting
a padlock on the gate my dad did that on his
:48.840 --> :52.140 way home he bought a combination
padlock and put it on the gate. :57.060 --> :57.780 Posted by
:57.780 --> :03.360 u/DirtyBisexual1010 3 days ago
:21.000 --> :23.880 Entitled stepdad threatened to take me to court
S :23.880 --> :29.040
As you all know I am publishing a book about my
abuse. Read my other posts for more explanation.
:29.040 --> :35.880
But he molested me as a teenager and SA me. He
was very abusive. I am writing my book about
:35.880 --> :40.980 the abuse I endured and suffered. My mother
told him about my book and how it’s about him
:40.980 --> :46.980
etc. I haven’t talked to him in a very long time
he was cut out of my life a long butt time ago. I
:46.980 --> :51.180 got a message from a weird number. Keep in
mind he’s not supposed to message me bc I
:51.180 --> :56.700
have a protective order against him and it’s for
good reason. He messaged me after he changed his
:56.700 --> :02.280
number. I had his number blocked I have a feeling
my mother gave him my phone number. The message
:02.280 --> :09.000
said “I will take you to court if you publish
this book. You will be sorry. If you publish I
:09.000 --> :14.520 will sue you for everything you have. If you
publish this we want a cut of your profits.” :14.520 --> :19.380
I saw this message and was like
wtf. I didn’t even respond bc of :19.380 --> :23.340
the protective order I didn’t want to break it. What an entitled prick.
:23.340 --> :24.120 Posted by :24.120 --> :37.560
u/materialisticghost 2 days ago :39.420 --> :42.830
My family can't accept the reason I'm
pulling away from them emotionally :42.830 --> :42.854 M
TW: Brief mention of ED :42.854 --> :42.900
I don't even know if this belongs in this sub. :42.900 --> :49.440
I'm back home from college for the summer, and I
finally, finally, at last got the backbone that
:49.440 --> :53.280 I've been lacking a majority of my life.
I have some semblance of self confidence. :53.280 --> :57.840
But the minute I come home, that just
gets ripped away from me, and suddenly,
:57.840 --> :03.420
I'm 13 again and I can do nothing but sit and
stare at the floor while my parents berate me.
:03.420 --> :09.060
I don't even act out or anything. I just go to
work, go to my internship, do my online courses,
:09.060 --> :13.200 maybe play some Stardew, and sleep. I
don't even go out or see my friends. :13.200 --> :18.720
Every time I come home, I think if I just stay
as invisible as possible, they won't find a
:18.720 --> :24.120
reason to yell at me, But nope, they always do,
and I'm so sick of it. I'm purposefully looking
:24.120 --> :28.620
for internships out of state next summer just
so I won't be home for the full three months. :28.620 --> :32.520
Last night, they asked why we don't have
a normal relationship while yelling and
:32.520 --> :37.140 screaming at me about the usual (family
disappointment, they wish I was never born,
:37.140 --> :42.300
etc.). They asked why I can't talk to them and
I just said 'I don't know how to talk to you'. :42.300 --> :48.900
The minute I said that, all heck breaks loose,
my mom starts wailing, saying it's not a good
:48.900 --> :53.820 enough reason, my parents say I'm not their
daughter, my dad accuses me of having trust
:53.820 --> :58.800
issues and thinking that my family is dumb. I
tried to explain but the kept cutting me off
:58.800 --> :03.420 and interjecting, and just invalidated every
reason why I don't speak to them that much. :03.420 --> :06.720
To clarify, we do talk, I talk to them daily,
:06.720 --> :10.500 but I don't share much with them about
when I'm struggling when I'm at university. :10.500 --> :15.240
The real reason is that I don't know what
to say to them, because the minute I try to
:15.240 --> :19.320 voice how I'm feeling, I just know they'll
bring it up later, when I'm at my lowest,
:19.320 --> :24.720 and just use it against me, because they've
done it multiple times in the past. For example,
:24.720 --> :30.180 I went through a traumatic situation in
2021, that led to me developing an ED and
:30.180 --> :35.040 having to go to therapy, and they brought it
up three times in yesterday's conversation. :35.040 --> :39.660
My dad said it was proof I was freaked
up because I needed a shrink, my mom :39.660 --> :43.740
said that the experience was more traumatic
for her, even though I had to live through it,
:43.740 --> :50.220 and for some reason, my trauma and me as a
person is the reason their life is crap even
:50.220 --> :54.180 though I don't even live at home anymore.
I HAVEN'T LIVED HERE FOR ALMOST A YEAR. :54.180 --> :59.220
I don't know how to tell my parents the reason I
have trouble speaking to them is because of them,
:59.220 --> :04.500 because every time I try to, they're unable
to accept that they might be the reason why. :05.580 --> :07.500
Posted by :08.580 --> :19.320 u/rhaegarvader 1 day ago
:22.200 --> :24.630 Self-entitled mother stole our table M
:24.630 --> :29.400
We were in a restaurant in Tokyo and followed
instructions to get a table for lunch. This
:29.400 --> :33.300 would consist of getting one of the tags
at the door with a number and placing on
:33.300 --> :38.100 the table to "reserve". We did that and
it was a two-table joined area. Another
:38.100 --> :43.320 lady with a child also occupying a four
seater table was staring at me slyly for
:43.320 --> :47.760
some reason (I should have realised something
was up then). When we were queuing my husband
:47.760 --> :53.220 noticed a woman with a baby pram went to our
table and moved a baby chair over. Then she
:53.220 --> :58.800 queued behind us. We went back and found our
tag was switched!!!The number was different! :58.800 --> :03.600
We got our food, sat down at our table.
Seeing she needed the table badly, :03.600 --> :08.820
I moved one table away from us so she could use
it. The lady was furious and got one of the staff
:08.820 --> :13.860
to ask us to move. I replied in Japanese (i'm
not a native speaker but I know the language
:13.860 --> :19.800
to converse) and we said no, we got the table
first and booked it the right way. She then
:19.800 --> :24.900 came over and scolded us and I replied again
in Japanese. Then she spoke to us in English,
:24.900 --> :29.400 telling us that she had the right as
she "had a child" and we should jolly :29.400 --> :34.800
well sit elsewhere. She ignored me and instead
directed to my husband in English, making me
:34.800 --> :40.380 wonder if she was not Japanese and obviously
appealing her situation to a man. Anyhow,
:40.380 --> :44.640 my husband said "you could have just asked
us nicely instead of switching our tags".
:44.640 --> :51.120
She claimed it was empty. We asked for the CCTV
to be shown of which both staff and her paled. :51.120 --> :55.200
My husband felt this was beneath us to
argue. She was obviously throwing out :55.200 --> :01.080
the "I'm a mother" card. We then told her "since
she wanted it so badly she could have our table
:01.080 --> :06.720 and the food". We left and then we realised,
since the shop was useless at supporting us,
:06.720 --> :12.000 we wanted our money back. So we went back to
get a refund. The whole time I interpreted for
:12.000 --> :17.580
my husband to get the refund, I saw the lady with
the child who swapped our card, was staring at us,
:17.580 --> :23.040
worriedly.. perhaps wondering if we were going to
complain about her? Anyhow when we got the refund,
:23.040 --> :28.140 we walked out and she pretended to feed her
child. I just said "hope you are proud of
:28.140 --> :33.990
your values to your kids after your self-entitled
behaviour earlier". I didn't bother to translate,
:33.990 --> :37.680 am sure she got my meaning. We
didn't ask the other lady to clarify, :37.680 --> :42.420
we should have but my guess at seeing
her face, she would have feign ignorance.
:42.420 --> :46.620 My guess seeing how she threw her card
out, it was not her first time either. :46.620 --> :51.300
I am surprised as we have never had
this situation in Japan of parental :51.300 --> :56.220
self-entitlement so was disappointed as
we have visited a few times and love the
:56.220 --> :01.500
place. It did not spoil our holidays but made
me now more cautious when going to such places
:01.500 --> :06.840
and to sit there while another person orders.
I come from a country that has a lesser system
:06.840 --> :11.460 than this restaurant in question and so
far if anyone wants a table that seems :11.460 --> :16.140
empty and they have more people, they will ask
politely and usually we will be ok about it. :24.360 --> :24.960
Posted by :24.960 --> :30.360 u/notarjdisndosdb 1 day ago
:38.220 --> :43.320 Entitled mom benches about 5 dollars
for half an hour and blocking the line :43.320 --> :45.120 L
So I work as a host for a :45.120 --> :50.520
restaurant, and yesterday was Father’s Day so it
was PACKED. I worked pretty much the entire day,
:50.520 --> :55.740 woke up at 10am and clocked in at 12pm.
I sat this family down at around 3pm, :55.740 --> :59.340
and didn’t think much of it. About
half an hour later, complaints were :59.340 --> :04.440
rolling in. The customers were trying to make
substitutions with the combo meals, and that
:04.440 --> :10.140
wasn’t allowed except for certain items. It wasn’t
for some small combo either, it was worth 100$+
:11.280 --> :16.680 and she kept trying to squeeze in expensive
items to substitute the less expensive ones. :16.680 --> :20.880
When the restaurant emptied out a bit, the
manager stopped by at the front desk for
:20.880 --> :24.600 a break and a chat. She started to
complain about these customers who: :24.600 --> :28.020
1: pretended they didn’t get a part
of their combo when the busboy, :28.020 --> :32.100
chefs and waitress could confirm it was made and was sent to their table
:32.100 --> :37.020 2: started holding the check and
tip as hostage to “fix” the order :37.020 --> :42.480
3: returned 40$+ worth of food after a bite because they were too full
:42.480 --> :47.460
I didn’t really care too much and just took it as
a interesting story because it didn’t affect me,
:47.460 --> :51.840
but it did leave a horrible impression. After
the customers were done with everything,
:51.840 --> :53.940 they sent their checks with two coupons.
:53.940 --> :57.720 Our company policy around
coupons are pretty strict, :57.720 --> :02.340
because it would only allow for a single
coupon for each table to prevent customers
:02.340 --> :07.140
splitting their orders and leaving a coupon in
every single one of them. I took the 5$ off,
:07.140 --> :11.400 printed the receipt and sent it back to
waitress. She comes back saying that the
:11.400 --> :16.200
customer was complaining about how the second
coupon wasn’t used (when it clearly said only
:16.200 --> :20.880 one coupon for a table in the back). I was
pretty grouchy and couldn’t be bothered
:20.880 --> :25.200 after 4 hours of sleep so I just took off
the price for the hushpuppies they had,
:25.200 --> :32.400
and sent the receipt back. Cards swiped, money
paid, tips? done, customers leave, right? If only. :32.400 --> :36.900
A couple minutes later, a old lady stomped
back to the front with the poor waitress
:36.900 --> :42.000 in tow demanding to know why the second
coupon (which said “when ordering a entree,
:42.000 --> :48.600
you can enjoy a complementary entree for free”
up to 10$ value) didn’t take 10$ off their order,
:48.600 --> :55.320 but instead took 5.15$. Technically, that
was a invalid coupon because we didn’t have
:55.320 --> :01.080
any entrees below 10$, and nowhere did it say
that it would take 10 dollars off their check. :01.080 --> :06.960
I tried explaining that she didn’t order any
entrees below 10$, so I just took off the
:06.960 --> :12.840
hushpuppies. She said “but that says 10 dollars”.
I didn’t really catch her point and just said
:12.840 --> :20.100
“and?” “So I should get 10 dollars off” “No, the
coupon gives you a free entree under 10 dollars,
:20.100 --> :26.400
which you didn’t order.” “Hello? Can you read?”
She started waving her hands in front of my face,
:26.400 --> :33.180 lifted the coupon close underlined 10$
with her nails” and said “10 dollars. :33.180 --> :39.900
Entree. Hushpuppies aren’t entrees” This cycle
goes on a couple times with our voices slowly
:39.900 --> :46.080
getting louder before she busts out the “then
I want a refund.” card. I gave up and decide
:46.080 --> :50.760 to just give her 10 dollars off. Worst comes
to worst, I’ll just pay out of my own pocket.
:50.760 --> :54.600 There were customers waiting behind her,
and I might as well get this over with. :54.600 --> :59.280
Just when I tell her fine, she took the
opportunity to taunt with her daughter :59.280 --> :05.760
recording as backup. “Hushpuppies aren’t a entree,
they’re appetizers, I should be getting 10$ off my
:05.760 --> :12.660
entree. Can you even read?” she had a crap eating
smile on her face. Now, there were plenty of cards
:12.660 --> :18.120
I could’ve played here, with the pettiest being
the race card (that realized just now). But,
:18.120 --> :23.100
I just got angry and decided to argue. I won’t
lie, some of the stuff I said belonged to a
:23.100 --> :28.320
fantasy novel with how cringe some of the lines
were. I’m rolling around in bed with embarrassment
:28.320 --> :33.900
while typing this. Here’s how the convo roughly
went: Me: “y’know what? No. I’m not giving you a
:33.900 --> :40.020
discount” OB: “…. I want to see a manager” Me:
“well congrats! You’re speaking to the manager
:40.020 --> :45.720
(I was pulling this out of my butt), and the final
answer is no.” OB: “you’re obviously not, because
:45.720 --> :52.020
I’ve already spoken to a manager. You shouldn’t be
working front desk with your attitude” Me: “good
:52.020 --> :58.680
for you, but final answer is no.” Our voices have
been steadily rising at this point, and the actual
:58.680 --> :04.320
manager walked in and tried to break us up. Then,
the funniest thing happened, her daughter tried to
:04.320 --> :10.320
gaslight me and directly lie to the manager (and
maybe the audience for her TikTok or whatever). :10.320 --> :15.480
“We’ve been polite all this time, but you’ve been
standing here calling us stupid” matter of fact,
:15.480 --> :21.060
I hated this girl more than her (presumed) mom.
She’s the textbook example of a gaslighter,
:21.060 --> :25.020 and she’s probably the inspiration
behind KayAndPeele’s short about the :25.020 --> :30.540
person who always say “awkward”. All the
way down to that dumb side smirk and how
:30.540 --> :33.480 she makes you feel dumb when you’ve
done nothing but defend your point. :33.480 --> :39.960
She kept gassing up her mom and played the perfect
Karen supporting role by trying to find any morale
:39.960 --> :44.580 high ground or threats. She even tried to
pit the waitress against me using the tip,
:44.580 --> :51.060 saying that she might not get a tip because
of me (a crisp 5$ bill after a hour and a
:51.060 --> :55.380 half of listening and adjusting their
orders to their complaints) It ended :55.380 --> :00.240
with the manager caving in and giving them the
discount, and they left happy and Scott-free. :00.240 --> :02.460
I think I should’ve just held it in a bit better,
:02.460 --> :07.500 now I got a video of me floating around
somewhere acting like a prick, and I have
:07.500 --> :12.600 nothing gained. I felt super frustrated at
the manager but now I understand there was
:12.600 --> :17.340 nothing she could do. People need to stop
treating food industry workers like slaves. :19.120 --> :19.720
Posted by :19.720 --> :20.070 u/LegendaryZTV 1 day ago
:59.100 --> :01.286 Entitled mother is taking advantage of me…
:01.286 --> :01.300 L So this is a
:01.300 --> :02.458
somewhat long post. I’m gonna try to keep it short
but looking for feedback so might get lengthy. :02.458 --> :07.920
I (M30) currently live with my mother (53) &
her husband (50?). My mother has not worked
:07.920 --> :12.960 a job in 3.5 years, while her husband works
full time seasonally, but gets paid part time
:12.960 --> :18.000 wages due to his employer paying lawyer fees
to keep him out of jail some years back. I
:18.000 --> :24.480
work full time plus overtime (60 hours a week,
federal company even). I got this job in 2019. :24.480 --> :30.480
In 2016, I moved into this 2 bedroom townhouse
with my mother. I was still working part time,
:30.480 --> :36.960 got a full time job that paid well ($16 an
hour +OT) for a 23 year old. I was paying
:36.960 --> :43.500
half on the rent & the full light bill ($400+ in
CT with old infrastructure 💀), as well as food,
:43.500 --> :49.080
her cellphone bill, gassing up her car & buying
her cigarettes. I did not have a car at the time
:49.080 --> :55.200
so she would drive me to the bus stop & asked for
gas & cigs as appreciation for her helping me. :55.200 --> :01.680
The job was contracted, I didn’t get converted to
permanent employee, so a new job came with a small
:01.680 --> :07.440
pay cut & full time for this company was 33 hours
a week but could walk from home. By this point,
:07.440 --> :13.920
2017, my mother had paid off most of her car &
was financially good. I begin to struggle with
:13.920 --> :19.200 the lights and half the rent due to my pay
cut & she made it an entire thing about me
:19.200 --> :24.960 “choosing” to not pay, when I’m showing her
my bank account to disprove her assumption. :24.960 --> :30.780
Fast forward to late 2018, she starts dating
her now husband, could not be happier to see
:30.780 --> :35.640 her getting a life! I get hired at a full
time, well paying job! She decides she :35.640 --> :40.860
wants to move in with her boyfriend & leave me
the townhouse, with the furniture as a “gift”,
:40.860 --> :48.240
if I can cover the bills & all on my own. I’m all
for it! Mind you, this “gift” came after she stole
:48.240 --> :54.360
the title of my car out of my room & sold it while
I was at work to a family member & kept the money.
:54.360 --> :00.540
Jump to August 2019 & I got hired by the Post
Office, best pay, & more hours than I could
:00.540 --> :07.320
know what to do with, I’m banking! Living solo,
enjoying my time to self 🔥 then… March 2020,
:07.320 --> :12.720
I get call that my mother is quitting her job
because she’s tired of commuting (moved 2 towns
:12.720 --> :18.240
over) & she worked in medical & claimed “my
job is allowing COVID patients to come in”,
:18.240 --> :25.200 so she quit… To be a stay at home wife in
2020. Gave her $200 for her birthday & she
:25.200 --> :30.540 then made that a money thing to ask for…
which my idiot thought was fine to help 🥴 :30.540 --> :35.220
Her half brained husband tells her it’s fine,
that he can handle the bills while she “takes
:35.220 --> :40.080 a break” because she deserves it. Whole
time, his butt can’t afford crap. Think
:40.080 --> :45.780
when you sweep a room & brush the dirt under
the rug, except the dirt is bills 🤬 so who
:45.780 --> :51.960
do they call once shut off notices & back due
rent from a year ago is due? Call me. & since
:51.960 --> :56.760
my mother was on the OG lease & we never told
the owner she moved, wasn’t much I could say. :56.760 --> :02.340
The idea was they move in with the intent to save
towards buying a home & leaving me with my own
:02.340 --> :08.460
space again. Find out Half Brain’s credit score
is in the 400’s & my mother not working, couldn’t
:08.460 --> :14.820
apply for a loan! The plan is then “I’ll collect
unemployment & save towards a house”… she finagled
:14.820 --> :20.940
unemployment & her husband job hopped a total of
5 times since. Whole time, I’m paying a majority
:20.940 --> :27.480
on everything, like 70/30 split, because they have
to save & I’ve been “covering it myself anyway”…
:27.480 --> :32.700 Every time I talk about moving or apartment
hunting going well, I get threatened with
:32.700 --> :38.640 “eviction” or police calls from my mother,
calls up the family to tell them I’m sabotaging?
:38.640 --> :44.940
“I sacrificed my life for you kids & you don’t
appreciate crap” could be a tshirt in this house. :44.940 --> :50.820
She even has the family convinced that she’s been
working for the last 4 years… this woman bought
:50.820 --> :55.080 a whole computer & has it on the kitchen
table to appear like she works from home
:55.080 --> :00.360 when people come over… this crap is insane
& her husband just supports it like a idiot :00.360 --> :04.140
I need to get away but I can’t properly save for rent/deposit,
:04.140 --> :11.100
while also paying $1250 for rent & lights
(70/30 split), along with all my own food,
:11.100 --> :16.920 cosmetics, car insurance, cell phone, gas,
& random expenses (just had to replace my
:16.920 --> :24.420
alternator two weeks ago) & local rent+deposit
is $3k plus (central Connecticut). All this
:24.420 --> :29.520
while my mother sits at home & crap talks
me to her husband & anyone who will listen!
:29.520 --> :34.800 And she crap talks all of those people,
broke butt husband(her words) included. :34.800 --> :39.240
I don’t want to dislike my mother but the
thought of being taken advantage of has been
:39.240 --> :44.280
at the forefront of my mind for too long now. I
can’t even exchange pleasantries with this woman
:44.280 --> :51.960 without getting bothered lately. Am I being
to harsh or is this entitled mother bullcrap? :52.932 --> :52.958
Posted by :52.958 --> :53.760 u/DegasiSurvivor230 16 hours ago
:16.800 --> :21.840 Parents ignore my requests to stop giving
me unneeded appointments and continue to
:21.840 --> :25.460 let my brother abuse me, as well as
berating me for having my own life. :25.460 --> :25.486 Lspoiler
Warning: Elements :25.486 --> :25.583
in this post go over some serious topics. If you
need to reach out, there are services available. :25.583 --> :25.601
Lifeline: 13 11 14 :25.601 --> :25.650
Kids Helpline (For anyone under 25): 1800 55 1800 :25.650 --> :25.680
Mensline Australia: 1300 78 99 :25.680 --> :31.260
Hello everyone. I'm terribly sorry about my
absence and the wait. I've recently got a new job,
:31.260 --> :36.660
and I'm working late shifts. However, the job
is rewarding and I get paid well. I'll start
:36.660 --> :40.980
off with some good news. Me and my friends are
planning on moving in together at a share house,
:40.980 --> :44.280 and I recently had my first kiss. It felt lovely.
:44.280 --> :47.880 I'll start with my therapist.
Before I graduated high school, :47.880 --> :52.680
I had to see a therapist due to my mental
state constantly deteriorating. This was
:52.680 --> :56.940 because I was bullied by nearly every
single popular kid for needing help with
:56.940 --> :01.680 schoolwork. I was at a point where I wanted
to kill myself over any small inconvenience. :01.680 --> :06.240
I've been seeing her since I graduated and
have still been seeing her, even though
:06.240 --> :09.420 I don't need any more appointments.
I've tried telling my parents this, :09.420 --> :13.080
but they just ignore me. My therapist
has started to care more about money :13.080 --> :16.920
than the mental health of her clients,
and charging exorbitant amounts of money
:16.920 --> :20.760 for the children and adults she has
appointments with. It's gotten so bad, :20.760 --> :25.440
that my mother is fishing out money from her
retirement and heritage funds to pay for it. :25.440 --> :30.240
This deeply concerns me, as I don't want her
to go broke, and I don't want the same thing
:30.240 --> :34.980 to happen to any of my family members, and
I've been begging them to stop sending me to
:34.980 --> :40.980
these. The response I usually get is 'but you need
them' and that 'they'll help you'. The content of
:40.980 --> :44.940 the appointments is fairly straightforward,
with each of us talking about how our weeks
:44.940 --> :49.620
were and our plans for the future. She helped me
with strategies in the past when I needed them,
:49.620 --> :54.120 but now she's just stealing expensive
moments of my life away when I don't even
:54.120 --> :58.380 need the appointments. I've tried telling
her this as well, but she's ignored me. :58.380 --> :02.280
She charges a cancellation fee
for her appointments if cancelled, :02.280 --> :07.440
and I don't know how much it is, which is
where the incident last night came in. Me
:07.440 --> :11.460 and my bf are seeing Across the Spider
Verse today and I'd already ordered the
:11.460 --> :15.420 tickets. I had an appointment with her
booked for tomorrow, but last night, :15.420 --> :20.280
she sent me an email for an appointment
today without even giving me any knowledge
:20.280 --> :25.980
she was changing it. I was stunned, and I couldn't
cancel the tickets. I told her I couldn't attend,
:25.980 --> :30.600 and she then charged me the cancellation fee
that I'd be paying for the next appointment. :30.600 --> :36.300
I checked my emails just in case I missed anything
from her regarding this change, and there wasn't
:36.300 --> :42.600
anything. I felt awful, as I've heard rumors about
cancellation fees and how much they were. She
:42.600 --> :47.880
emailed my parents about this as well, and they
barged into my room and started screaming at me. :47.880 --> :52.500
It was apparently 'my fault' that this
happened, and their screams and verbal :52.500 --> :57.300
abuse made it even worse. I wanted to cry,
but they'd yell at me for that too. They
:57.300 --> :02.820 then began to insult my life and insult my
friends, as well as my bf. They whined about
:02.820 --> :07.380 me telling him to 'reimburse me for the
tickets', and the 'supports come first',
:07.380 --> :12.780
before guilt tripping me. I believe they're trying
to look after me, but I just feel concerned. :12.780 --> :16.800
As soon as they left, my brother
started to hit objects and make loud, :16.800 --> :20.220
unneeded noises to disturb my hatred for loud noises,
:20.220 --> :25.080 knowing it would make me feel worse and more
likely to scream into my pillow, which would
:25.080 --> :29.640 give him the 'favourite child' feeling, and
my parents would end up yelling at me more. :29.640 --> :35.580
Before all this, I had a difficult day at work.
It was very busy, and I had to deal with a rude,
:35.580 --> :42.120
abusive entitled customer that believed she was
my manager and barked orders at me. She eventually
:42.120 --> :47.220
left, but I found it difficult to get past that
situation. The only good thing that happened was
:47.220 --> :51.480 a little girl trying to say 'thank you' to
me after I helped her mother. I was really
:51.480 --> :55.980
looking forward to relaxing after work, but I
should've known that I couldn't do that either. :55.980 --> :00.660
Later on, I was watching One Piece and
playing a harry potter game on my switch,
:00.660 --> :05.580 when my mother barged in without knocking.
I could tell she was going to say goodnight,
:05.580 --> :09.840 so I hugged her and said 'goodnight', and to
have a nice sleep. She tried to intimidate
:09.840 --> :14.940 me with a stare, and told me that I 'need to
make better choices, and that she cancelled
:14.940 --> :20.460 my weekly payments from her account, before
telling me that my account was 'down 25'. :20.460 --> :24.780
After that, I felt tired, and wanted to
sleep. I'd had enough today, so I tried
:24.780 --> :29.820 to say goodnight to my brother. In response,
he began thumping his hands against his desk
:29.820 --> :35.160
and rudely mimicking me saying 'shut up', which
is what I told him the last time he did that,
:35.160 --> :40.800
as I couldn't mentally handle this. I eventually
gave up and cried in my room, falling asleep. :40.800 --> :44.460
This morning it continued. I woke
up and began making breakfast, :44.460 --> :49.440
when my brother decided to storm into the
kitchen, and shove me aside as well as the
:49.440 --> :54.540 bowl I was pouring milk into, causing some
to spill over the bench. He teased me for
:54.540 --> :58.500 making a mess, and the moment I tried to
say something, he made a shushing noise.
:59.100 --> :03.480 He then ordered me to do the dishwasher,
even though I kept telling my family that
:03.480 --> :08.760 the dishwasher made me feel nauseated, and I
tried to tell him this. I was met with another
:08.760 --> :13.860
shushing noise at this, and he threatened me that
I kept talking, he'd punch me as hard as he could. :13.860 --> :18.060
I finished making breakfast and sat
down, attempting to eat it as fast as :18.060 --> :21.960
I could to escape from the kitchen
and from him. I thought he'd stop, :21.960 --> :27.300
but this wasn't the end. He started berating
me for enjoying anime and reading manga,
:27.300 --> :31.380 and that it 'promoted violence' and it
was the reason I was violent, apparently? :31.380 --> :36.720
He also judged me for having different likes
and dislikes to him. I recently tried telling
:36.720 --> :41.940 my family what my kink was, and they called
it disgusting. I now have to pretend to no
:41.940 --> :46.260
longer be into it. He'll start something over
something as small as a character in a movie
:46.260 --> :50.340 that he doesn't like. For example, I like
Peni Parker from the Spider Verse movies,
:50.340 --> :55.320
and he hates her because she's designed as an
anime character. He's even told me that I'm not
:55.320 --> :00.600
allowed to like child characters because it counts
as something disgusting that I won't even mention. :00.600 --> :05.220
I just want this to end, and I'm hopefully
moving out soon with my friends. I can't
:05.220 --> :10.140
wait to get out of this place, and start a new
life away from these people. Thanks for reading,
:10.140 --> :13.620 and I hope you all have a great day.
I'm terribly sorry about all this. | give me a good story on rEntitledParentsWHYIHATEMYEVILBROTHERRedditStoriesen |
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AIT for breaking up with my fiance and he ends up getting cut out of his
grandma's will I 22 female broke up with my fiance 23 male and he ended up
getting cut out of his grandma's will this is not my main account I just had
to get this out there and my friends and
fiance know my personal account a little backstory is that my fiance and I have
known each other since we were in elementary school and grew up with each
other we both come from religious families this is important for later
when we graduated high school I chose to go to college and he went to the
military at that point we were d for 2 years and then we got engaged when I was
21 and he 22 so a year ago we were doing
long distances cause he was stationed in a different state the plan was that I
was going to graduate college and then go down there and find a job where he is
stationed a couple of months ago I got a call from a friend who lives down there
and he told me that my fiance is dating another girl and has been for months now
he sent me pictures and her social media my fiance was coming home for a couple
of weeks for my graduation I thought it would be a good time to talk this out
rather than over the phone when he came back I sat him down | give me a good story on AITAHforbreakingupwithmyfianceandheendsupgettingcutoutofhisgrandmaswillaita |
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hey everybody hope you're all doing well my name is Stephen and this is the
storytime channel without wasting any more time let's get into our stories of
the day our first story of the day is by Luke in 89 Karen and Coe want to pet my
service dog this happened yesterday and while as usual many will call me an
a-hole I still don't feel bad about it I'm on my way home from work and decide
that I need to do my grocery shopping then because I'm exhausted and know I
won't get out again once I get home important to note at this point for
those that don't know I have a service dog in training Sadie that goes
everywhere with me so I was in the membership version of America's most
popular store and browsing to see what groceries I'd need for the month when I
hear the familiar high-pitched squeal of the increasingly common cat Banshee now
this isn't an uncommon occurrence as anyone seeing my dog will tell you that
she's absolutely adorable hath great pyrenees half Catahoula Leopard dog
seven months old and 65 ish pounds she knows better than to interact with
people at this point but she does do as she's trained and she sees the kid
running up and puts herself between myself and the kid not really in a guard
stance but sideways between myself and the kid and touching the back of my legs
so I know where the person is approaching from in this case I already
knew but I still turned around and gave her a treat she's still learning after
all told her to heal she does as she stole then the kid slows and comes to a
stop now that I'm between him and Sadie e/m is entitled mom the sea is sentient
sea stain aka kid the kid says your dog is so cute I want to pet it I'm sorry
but see the vest or the patches she's wearing it says service dog do not touch
that means she's working right now and can't be distracted I don't really like
kids much beyond my niece and nephew so I'm not good with that telling ages and
didn't know if he could read I figured he knew how to obey signs though so I
thought if I told him what it said he'd understand nope but he still hasn't
earned his nickname quite yet what's a service dog she doesn't look busy just
one pet he's not being rude just sounds more curious than anything so
I don't really mind explaining and I notice a woman push her cart up behind
him so I assume she's his mom and I feel
a bit more relaxed about the situation a service dog is a dog that helps people
do things there are all types of jobs dogs can do but they can't be distracted
because their owners need them to pay attention to only them in case something
happens kid says but she's just sitting there
right now if she's not gonna get back to work he should let me pet her now at
this point I guess I should have noticed
thee if she's not gonna get back to work red-flag
and guessed he was being raised by a Karen but honestly I've really only
dealt with a few Karen's in my life and didn't think much of it
just that he was a kid being annoying me
- his mom ma'am could you please explain it to him I don't have kids so I'm not
too good at this I was admittedly probably sounding annoyed in all honesty
but I was still trying to be polite and I don't think I was being unreasonable
here but she seemed to take offense why he just wants to pet her it's not a big
deal and he's been acting really good today and he deserves a treat I don't
see what you won't let him pet her me definitely annoyed now ma'am she's a
working dog she shouldn't be distracted I don't mean to be rude but you're also
not wearing masks and kovat has been known to spread the dogs as well I'd
really prefer no one mess with her we're
in Texas and I'm sure everyone has heard how poorly the state is handling the
pandemic but the majority of people still refuse to wear masks and of all
the shops I've been to only one store has a no masks no entry rule shut up the
Skechers thanks for being proactive oh you're one of those people insert I roll
just let him pick this stupid dog so we can move on the stupid virus is over
with everything is open now I think we're done here and I just turn and walk
off keeping Sadie in my sight just in case it should have ended there she
should have just told her kid I was an a-hole or something and moved on but if
she did I wouldn't be posting this instead she leaves her cart behind walks
up behind me and grabs my shoulder it's at this point I should mention that I
have Sadie because of my PTSD now usually it's controllable
I'm on meds to help with anxiety and I'm in therapy and don't usually have a
problem heck I even love music festivals and raves and have only had a problem
one time when I was trying to leave EDC early and got stopped at the gate
because they were about to set off fireworks and something about the bangs
and being close enough to feel the vibrations of that many fireworks got to
me I guess with the quarantine being so recent and not having to worry about
people randomly grabbing me and touching me and stuff I mean heck even someone
rolling absolute balls at a rave usually asks before they hug you were something
I'd kind of let my guard down a bit this set me off though and without even
thinking I grabbed her hand and spun around twisting her arm and pushed as
hard as I could sending her sprawling to the ground what
the heck is wrong with you I yelled and I said some other stuff but I was mad
and honestly don't remember what I said something about no means no and I don't
want her nasty but hands on me at this point Sadie had gotten between us and her
stance and had began to bark loudly and repetitively as she's been trained so
she can get someone's attention I noticed that Sadie was offered our no
leash because somehow kid had gotten in front of my cart and unhooked it
luckily Sadie is the best girl and doesn't need a leash to do her job she
never even thought about running and just stood in front of me barking kid
was crying after seeing what happened to
his mom and getting scared that the cute puppy was now looking pretty darn mean
now Sadie wouldn't hurt a fly but this woman didn't know that and Sadie has a
very intimidating bark without even standing up this woman was scrambling to
get back from me and grabs at her cart to stand up of course
employees start running to see what's going on and when one gets there she
asks what's going on this man's dog tried to attack me I was just trying to
get his attention and it bit me no I've browsed this up enough to know where
this was headed and I wasn't in the mood look just call the cops and grab the
camera footage I'm not gonna play the he-said/she-said game the employee calls
for the manager who calls the cops and asks us to come to the front office to
get things sorted out started to head towards the front office
but once they're entitled mother says she doesn't have time for this and has
places to be and just walks out of the store no one tries to stop her but the
manager looks at the footage and prints off her face that put on the banned
people wall and when the cops arrived they say there's nothing they can do
since she already left I got an employee discount for my food
which was nice but left in a pretty bad mood because of the interaction after
getting home I gave Sadie a small slab of steak for being such a good girl and
I just took a shower and went to bed didn't get anything done that I needed
to but it had been a long day and I was extra annoyed so that's it sadly no real
repercussions for Karen other than maybe
a bruiser to where she hit the tiles and
a traumatized kid but of this sub is any indication
Karen's don't learn from stuff like that
here's hoping the kid learned a thing or two at least and because this is reddit
and I know it'll be asked if I don't include here's a picture of Sadie so
obviously I feel bad for Opie in the situation because while there might be a
lack of awareness on service animals and how important it is to not mess with
them people like Karen and the kids they just won't understand they won't agree
with it they won't think that it's the right thing to do all they see is a cute
animal and they want to be able to pet it regardless and good on Opie for
standing their ground and using a technique that is very well documented
in subs like these if you're ever in an altercation and you know you are in the
right just ask to be taken to security to the manager what not have them call
the cops and if there's security footage look at the security footage
hopefully you shouldn't go wrong in that situation let me know if you think this
is the way to handle it or not and why in the comment section down below our
next story is by sweet baguette entitled mother tried to yell at me because she
crashed her nice car into my old car this is before quarantine so I'm 15 and
I have a driver's permit and my friend 18 has her driver's license so she was
in the passenger seat so basically I was
just driving to a jack-in-the-box or Tim Hortons whichever one was closer and we
stopped at a red light and as it changed to green I went in this lady Rams and
my side door in the back and thankfully none of us were harmed
anyway we quickly got out of there as we
grabbed our wallets phones the important stuff afterwards anyway I started to
panic as I'm crying at this point and this is where entitled mother pops in
what the Freak did you just do to my perfect car I couldn't speak as my
friend stepped in you ran a red light dumb bud were you driving no but I saw
everything it was you driving looking at
me I managed to nod as she said you were too young to drive she laughed silently
as she thought she was going to throw one minor and a new adult in jail and
get money from it basically entitled mother crossed her arms and waited for
the police as we treated insurance cards
the police come and assess the situation
as they questioned entitled mother first those two are drunk driving and almost
killed me and my baby boy she had what seems to be an eight year old which
seemed fine as the police talked to him as people checked all of us for any
damage my baby boy is scared and this just ruined life for him the police just
nodded and went to us I was still crying this seems like I'm a baby but I have
autism which makes me scared of confrontation and yelling and most
definitely anything bad and so basically
the police questioned us as we explained
the situation and showed him our drivers license and ID's the police were
extremely nice to me as I had a card explaining my autism and they just
generally helps me calm down anyway the police saw cameras for a store outside
which caught everything as they checked the traffic cameras and the store
cameras entitled mother smirked like a demon as she thought she would get away
with this and the police came back saying they watched the footage as the
color drained out of her face as she kept changing her story to get out of
the situation as she said my boy needs to go to football practice if he's late
he will be kicked off the team and it's gonna be your fault while yelling at the
officer and then 10 seconds later she said my mom's in the hospital and I need
to see her before she dies and then my baby boy needs to go to the doctor for
shots etc so basically in the end she was in a
police cruiser and I was taken to Tim Hortons in an uber with my friend and
back to home I did press charges as there were so many witnesses and in
court she broke down singing I need to feed my kids while she had like Gucci
and Louis Vuitton I was able to fix my car and I never ran
into her again how despicable can you be to obviously be at fault and then
complain that they wrecked your car when you ran the red light and hit them and
then start making all these BS excuses like oh my kid needs shots oh they need
to go to the football practice my mom's dying in the hospital some of that might
even be true and it's not okay to use that as an attempt to emotionally
manipulate the situation so honestly I'm glad Opie press charges and got to be
able to fix their car and the situation seemed to resolve itself as fittingly as
possible our next story is by raging tales entitled mother who forgotten mask
and car is upset my business occupies where a subway used to be and we don't
have the same items as subway in December my business partner and I
opened our first cafe coffee dreams pastries sandwiches that kind of thing
we are in a space that was a subway previously the current requirement in
our state is all customers have to be wearing a mask until they sit down to
eat this interaction just happened a few days ago entitled mother an entitled
child walk into cafe both not wearing masks my employee says I'm sorry ma'am
you have to wear a mask while in the establishment
I forgot it in my car we just want to take out anyway wait um excuse me this
isn't subway what happened to the subway Oh P says the subway closed over a year
ago we've been here for four months ma'am you need to wear a mask some way
doesn't go out of business did you pay more and get them kicked out no I'm sure
they just moved locations or something you have to wear a mask in here entitled
child realizes this isn't subway and starts throwing a tantrum no mom I want
subway well do you make sandwiches No I want subway we do make sandwiches and
we would be happy to make you one but you have to wear a mask in here ma'am
please either go get your mask or leave well what kind of sandwiches do you make
are they like subway no they are not they are bistro style paninis
I'm not going to ask again please go put
on a mask or leave my child needs to eat we don't want paninis where is there a
subway I'm not sure you can google it now please leave how dare you that was
rude I want to speak to whoever is in charge I'm the owner
now please leave I'm gonna leave a terrible review for this place you have
terrible customer service entitled mother and entitled child leaves this
lady was incredibly entitled and honestly it sounds like their kid is on
a fast best to becoming entitled to I kind of feel like the online review
system has become one part genuinely helpful one part a plague on the service
industry do you guys kind of feel that way to anybody who's at least slightly
upset can throw a well I'm gonna leave a
bad review for you and the only place it really hurts is small businesses like I
assume Oh pieces some general subway on a corner somewhere isn't gonna care
about a bad review but a small business cafe like Oh pieces where they're not
going to just get brand name awareness generic business might get a little bit
hurt from that and our final story of the day is by my name is Adi my entitled
mom got angry at my sister for eating noodles I cannot stress the title of
this post enough my mom is entitled to her word she thinks everyone should
follow what she says in this case she wanted us to eat cereal but the rest of
us dad me and sister wanted to eat noodles so we did big mistake on our
part our mom got furious at my sister because we ate it yesterday true then
she started verbally attacking her and my sister got sadder and sadder by the
time she got to our room then she started crying because she thought
everyone hated her I feel like we can understand this because all she did was
make noodles fast forward two hours and my mum is
again verbally attacking my sister even though my dad is trying to stop her
again my sister is crying so dad's just the
door on mom mom is shouting at my sister
that if she behaves this way and doesn't follow her orders she will not marry
anyone and be left to rot on the streets because she is not eating lunch even
though we ate noodles just two hours earlier as our lunch
my father is currently consoling my sister and I'm angry at my mum for
making my sister feel like wanting to die on the spot this mom sounds so
over-the-top I feel so bad for Opie and their sister and their dad obviously
cares it's such an unfortunate dynamic to deal with when their mom is acting so
crazy because you can't have noodles two days in a row to the point where she's
abusing her daughter verbally I'm not even sure how they can really
effectively deal with this maybe it's something that dad can help with I don't
know but all in all I just hope the situation does get better for them
somehow but with that being said that's all the stories we have for today
if you had a favorite of all these stories that I read let me know in the
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much for giving a part of your day to the storytime channel I hope you all
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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is stephen and this is the
story time channel first things first a big
congratulations to last week's giveaway winner crystal shield
and if you don't know i do a giveaway every single week so if you're
interested and don't know how to enter just stay tuned until later in the video
and i'll tell you exactly how to that said we've got some malicious
compliance stories and our first story of the day is by pj
expat no one is above the rules and i mean no one
call me if he pulls rank i used to work for a marketing company that serviced
small and medium-sized businesses across america it was a multi-billion dollar
revenue company the ceo was a true rags to riches story
he joined the company right after he got
out of jail in his early 20s for a small drug
charge and worked his way up over 20 years to eventually become the ceo of the
company the ceo strongly believed that the
success of the company did not come from
the brilliant and intelligent minds that he hired for his executive team
but the hard work sweat and tears of the infield sales reps
service reps made sure the customer services were properly installed
collection reps chased after customers who fell behind on their payments
and sales managers he would often say without sales we don't have the revenue
to pay your salaries without customer service customers will
drop us faster than we can bill them without collection reps we'd lose too
many accounts due to non-payment and without sales managers to hold it
all together we'd fall apart and he had a rule every single executive
team member would spend one full week of each quarter in the
field with a sales manager customer service rep collections rep or sales rep
in addition when they are in the field they are to submit
to whoever they've been assigned to and they may not pull
rank this rule applied to everyone to include the ceo i know this because
the ceo personally rode along with me for five days in the field
he was a legit cool guy i got a story at the end about this
so apparently we had hired a new vp of marketing from a major brand that i'm
sure everyone in the sub would know of anyway apparently the first time he went
in the field the vp of marketing pulled rank on a sales manager
and the sales manager reported this directly to the ceo
a new quarter went by and i got an email
stating that the vp of marketing will be
joining me in the field on such and such week
okay cool not the first time i had some higher up come out and ride with me
but about an hour later i got a call from my ceo
the ceo said op the vp of marketing is going in the field with
you i said yes sir i got the email they then said op
i picked you because when i was in the field with you you seemed like the kind
of guy that wouldn't be bullied or let someone run all over you
i said okay well thank you the ceo said this vp is new to the company and the
last time he went in the field he pulled rank i've told him not to pull
rank again and if he does i want you to call me as soon as you can
i said i understand and the ceo said thank you the vp meets me
up honestly for the first two days everything was fine
however on the third day i was meeting with an existing client
this client was a difficult to please customer he would always say we weren't
worth the money but i knew we were cause i could see his
results and over the years this client's business had grown a lot
said client would beat us up over pricing
i'd stand firm give him a three percent price increase
and offer him upgrades on top he'd haggle me down to a 1.5
price increase and we'd sign the contract now i told the vp what would happen
that it would be a long sales call and a difficult high tense one but to let me
handle it i've dealt with the client quite a bit
and was well prepared now this meeting with the client lasted two and a half
hours but i'll get to the point the client wanted a discount and was
threatening to go to our competitor he wouldn't that's when the vp spoke up
and said i'm the vp and i'll personally give you a 15
discount on your current plan if you agree to sign a one-year contract
the customer said twenty percent the vp said split the difference 17.5 and we
have a deal they agreed i was mad as heck one thing to mention my commissions
depended on me generating more revenue and this vp just freaked me over
we get in the car and i go you pulled rank you shouldn't have done that
he said i got the deal done i said had you kept your mouth shut i'd have gotten
more money not given 20 back he goes we got the contract
signed i said we gave away tens of thousands of dollars that we didn't need to
he goes look i'm the vp i then called my ceo he saw the name pop up on my car's
bluetooth ceo answered opie how are you doing i say the vp
pulled rank on me and gave my customer a 17.5 discount on his current plan
right as i was about to close him for more money the ceo said
that's not right where is the vp i said you're on speaker he can hear you
ceo said excellent hey vp yes sir tell me what happened vp told his side
of the story which he admitted the truth but also admitted to pulling rank and
giving the customer a discount the ceo said okay thanks for your honesty you're
fired excuse me you're fired you have a one-year probation clause you're done
you don't pull rank when in the field you can't do this i just did you are to
get on a plane come back to your office and clean it
out op take mr vp back to his hotel and drop him off
i said sure no problem and for the next 20 minutes i had an
awkward car ride back to my former vp's hotel
later in a all hands-on meeting the ceo made sure to talk about how if an
executive is in the field and pulls rank it's a fireable offense
for the executive and he wants all the sales reps sales
managers customer service reps and collection reps to know that
size story on the ceo the company had a data plan which gave us 4g on our ipads
phones and laptops well the company changed the service
plan and our data plan went down to only our phones and we had to hotspot
off that they said this move would save us eighty thousand dollars a month
we had like four thousand ish employees in the field well two months later we
had a conference we had three conferences a year and
after the conference everyone went to the hotel bar
that's when i approached my ceo with another sales rep and talked to him
about how much of a pain in the butt it was
to hot spot all our devices and how much it drained our phone batteries and blah
blah and that i get it saves money but it also costs productivity
the ceo nodded and said tell you what in two weeks the cio is supposed to go in
the field i'll have him go in the field with you and if he agrees that it's
costing our reps productivity and causing too many workflow issues
i'll bring back 4g data to all devices the cio was there and was told
cio you're going to xyz area and you will be riding with
op pay attention to how he uses his 4g data
and if you think we should go back to the old plan where all devices had 4g
the cio went into the field with me on the third day at breakfast he said
last night i called the ceo and i said yeah
and he said i made a recommendation that we go back to our old data plan and
ensure all your devices have 4g data it's obviously creating productivity
issues and when you look at the cost per user
it's not that great this is absolutely the best kind of ceo somebody that
worked from the ground level up and still cares greatly about every single
employee and not only that but making sure everybody in a position of power
gets that power checked every so often do you guys think this
process that the ceo does is worthwhile basically making ceos vps cios people
that are in a position of power go in the field and work underneath the
common employee do you think that's a worthwhile
experience that most places should consider implementing
let me know in the comments down below our next story is by search yb2795
do you have these albums this story happens about 10 years ago
i was a teenager that loved to go to record stores and buy my favorite rock
or metal albums and concerts this one day i was in another part of
the city and i went to another store that wasn't my usual
but i had some money and wanted to see if they had some albums my usual store
didn't have the time i was looking through the cd starting to think they
didn't have them when the store employee saw me he was a
man in his 30s or 40s with long hair hello how can i help you hi i was
looking for albums x and y those are great albums do
you know who played guitar in them i thought it was odd for him to ask but
it was an easy question and i am a rock and metal nerd and knew the answer
yeah it was tony i'm a huge fan oh yes that's right
i also love how jon sings in these albums i found this statement
more odd as the name he mentioned was wrong in these albums the band had a
different singer than the most known john oh i think you're thinking about
their earlier years in those albums the band had james as a
singer yes you're right so silly of me this continued for a couple of more
questions and he even asked me about trivia about other albums of that band
and of the music genre i'm an introvert and usually just try to
avoid small talk in public situations however i thought this employee wanted
to be a snob and make fun of me so i complied by answering his questions
and correcting him i must admit it was amusing after i
answered all of them he said alright follow me as he started walking
to a section of dvds of a completely different
genre i think it was live concerts of folk music for my country
moved some dvds aside and behind all of them were the albums
i wanted with some other gems as well recently we got this amazing stock of
records at a great price i thought they were too good to let
anybody buy them but you have proven you deserve them
pick any one you like i was very surprised by this
and even laughed i picked the albums i wanted and the employee even gave me an
extra discount i went to that store a few more times
and made small talk with that particular employee
until a few years later when the store changed management and he wasn't there
anymore don't know if he quit or was fired this is a really cool story
it almost sounds like the start of a fantasy film where
you get all the questions right and they take it to some back mysterious section
of the record store and they slide all these weird folk music
albums out of the way and boom secret entrance to the vault of all legendary
rock and metal music and you set off on some epic adventure sadly this story
ends up like most record stores end up these days and
changed hands or shut down or commercialized
it's quite unfortunate this next story is by waytak
if i could just get past years ago i was part of the founding faculty of a brand
new university i was the facilities director for my department which meant that
in addition to teaching and doing research i was responsible for designing
and implementing all of the rooms and equipment for the entire department
labs student offices computer rooms everything
it was a lot of fun and i had a great system staff team and facility
department to back me up then one day i got a win that one of the
people in top management in the university had decided that we were
going to move all of our graduate students into a big open room
the problem which he was either ignoring or hadn't realized was that
for these students the room had to function as both
an office and a lab there had to be room for shared access computers
desks whiteboards for discussion all in a few square feet per
student there was no way known that it could be done
the boss held firm though and insisted that we were just being selfish and
stubborn enter the malicious compliance i asked him if he would allow us to do a
dry run before we finalize the layout so we spent two full days setting up the
room in question pillaging computers desks chairs tables
everything we could think of and setting them up in the least
efficient most convoluted layout we could manage
but there was a problem for it to be convincing we needed
people and the number of grad students that we currently had
was a fraction of the number that would have to use this room the following
semester remember it was a new university so i
did what any good manager would do i delegated i gathered the most trusted
students and said at such and such a time i want this room to be full
i don't care who they are or if i ever see them again
but make sure there are no empty chairs or desks
so on the appointed day the big brass showed up with something of a smirk on
his face ready to show the young whippersnapper how a negotiation for
space is done and then he stepped into the room or he tried to
he had to physically step over one of the senior students
who of course apologized for being in the way he walked
sideways through the many twists and turns past desk after desk
stepping over cable scooting around printers i think we may have offered him
a cup of coffee at one point from a coffee pot buried in some obscure
corner of the room but that part is fuzzy when he finally
made it out of the room again he turned to me with an expression that
i won't even try to describe and said okay you made your point we got our
second room a brief addendum after it was all over
and everything was put back together again
i found the lead student and asked who were
all of those people he looked at me with half a smile and said
i have no idea well op said they didn't want to know
they got their wish and got a classroom full of random people
sometimes you got to resort to theatrics to sell the point this time they went
above and beyond and they proved their point
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that said our final story of the day is by lol camis
vladimi about my hours that's going to cost you
this happened about 8 years ago i was on summer break from college
so i was looking for an entry-level job for a few months
i was offered two jobs at the same time but one of them was a grocery store just
down the street from me so i accepted that one i accepted under
the pretense that my hours would be full time
turning down the other job offer when i started
it turned out i was actually getting 5 hours
a week i gave it a couple weeks to see if it would change
it didn't and by that time the job market was flooded by
every other student so i was kind of sol but i still came every day once a week
and did my job to the best of my ability early on i found an expired product on
the shelf and asked a co-worker what i should do with it he told me that
any time we came across something expired we put it in the donation bin outside
the store i took that and ran i made it my mission to go through every item on
every shelf and donate anything expired grocery stores have a markup of
something tiny like five percent depending on the item
by the time school rolled around again i had donated
thousands and thousands of dollars worth of expired product
to less fortunate people it was a big company with
unyielding company policies so the manager couldn't do anything other than
watch me throw all this profit into a bin it was very satisfying
i mean if it is expired technically it should go in the bin
the least thing you can do is get some form of payback for forcing you to work
five hours a week when you were promised a full-time position
if i still showed up and i could find a way that would absolutely
piss off the manager but also be still doing the absolute right thing and not
be able to get fired for it and still get paid for those 5 hours
i'd do it for sure but with that being said that's all the time we have for
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hello everyone my name is Reid and welcome to story time today we are gonna
be reading some malicious compliance stories so sit back relax and enjoy I
wanted to be salaried you wanted me to be hourly okay then I applied to a
full-time opening at a company but for reasons they wanted to bring me in as a
contractor for a while until a different position opened I would be reporting to
Joe in a department I didn't really care for but it was alright as a temporary
situation well it turns out Joe was a reasonably nice person but not such a
great project manager he staked his role at the company on our team delivering a
certain major project on time the problem was that a series of
miscalculations meant we weren't able to even start working on it until halfway
through the implementation phase as scheduled slipped and upper management
expressed their disappointment Joe became much less pleasant to be around
he owned a good people for no reason and a terrible attitude in generally made
life miserable for everyone in our work room now I was the sole contractor in
that department full of salaried employees early on Joe it all but pushed
me out the door as my timecard rolled over from 39.92 40.0 hours as his budget
had zero room for paying me for 41 hours a week even worse that would pay the
same as 41 and a half hours because I was subject to time and a half overtime
rules as crunch time turned into a death march Joe made announcements like no
one's going home until this job is done and scheduled to have breakfast and
supper brought into the office every day I asked Joe if this included me and he
said yes of course and he was surprised that I even had the nerve to ask ok then
it almost killed us there was shouting and literally tears we were all near a
breaking point well most of us I was in a great mood as rough and emotionally
fraught as it was we got the project done we were heroes and as Sunday dinner
at our desk came and went Joe thanked me in particular for my great attitude
Oh P I really appreciate your hard work with a smile during this tough time
that's what I reminded him hey I clocked an extra 61 hours of
overtime this week I'm thrilled I could help Jo dang near had a stroke I found
myself standing outside waiting for my bus two minutes later he was ticked but
couldn't really say anything because I had asked him if I had to stay and he
explicitly told me that I did worked out great for everyone in the long term
blown budget or not Joe looks good for getting the project done the CEO liked
my can-do attitude and transferred me into a full-time dream job and that
paycheck getting paid Silicon Valley hourly rates for 130 1.5 hours that's
40-plus sixty one time and a half hours but a very nice vacation for my family
thanks Joe I'm available to work all-nighters any
time you want to pay for them hey Opie you're a good person
you worked them hard hours you were happy about it sure you got paid a crap
ton of money for it but you got the job done and did what you needed to do that
shouldn't be all that matters you're going to throw your waste into my garden
okay great my uncle's neighbors really hate him for
literally no reason and one day he walked into his garden to find three
plastic bags the heavy-duty ones you get dog food slash cattle feeding and they
were lying on his lawn and he knew immediately where they were from since
he only has one neighbor the bags looked as if they had been lazily thrown over
the shared fence two of the bags were filled with leaf litter and the other
was full of apples that looked like they had been slightly eaten by worms
obviously the neighbors didn't want to eat them well cool let's call him flea
does all sorts of gardening in his spare time and he thought that the neighbors
threw them their waste for him to use so he went around to their house and asked
if they were the ones who threw them the
leaf litter and the apples they shot the door in his face without answering and
at this point flea realized they did it maliciously because they couldn't be
bothered to take their waste anywhere most of you probably know that leaf
litter is great for keeping soil healthy and my uncle realizes this
too it decides to make compost from the leaves to use for his onions he grows
large onions for an annual competition and don't ask after he has a bag full of
his homemade leaf litter fertilizer he waits until one of the neighbors leaves
for work then goes out into his front garden and makes a big deal of spreading
the fertilizer in front of the neighbor exaggerating every slight movement and
noise with the apples however he decided to make in combination with his own
apples some sort of beer wine cider hybrid and he also made sure that at
least one of the neighbors saw him using their apples throughout the process the
drink was pretty good in the end if not a bit strong
yeah icing on the cake for me though is when he neatly folded up the plastic
bags and left them piled in the neighbor's garden with a rock on top of
them in which he edged the word more huh I knew flea had awesome bass skills but
awesome farming skills as well Wow mad props get down immediately about 14
years ago when I was an 11 year old kid I liked to climb on stuff the higher up
the better and if my friends joined he even better hanging out on places where
no one would find you is awesome one day during lunch break on school me and my
friends decided to climb on the school gym a building of about 10 meters high I
was the first of the group to climb up to the top since it was a drainpipe we
went one by one since it was during break time all the kids were outside and
we drew quite a crowd when I eventually reached the top there was cheering and I
felt like a king but right after that came a loud horrifying shout the janitor
who noticed me climbing up stood there and was shouting that I should get down
immediately me not so clever 11 year old boy full of adrenaline from the climb
did what he said I immediately went down this time not via the drainpipe but by
jumping off the roof I fell down 10 meters breaking both my ankles first of
all I felt nothing stood up tried to walk it off like a cool kid only to fall
to the ground several moments later crying my
eyes out I had to spend about six weeks in a wheelchair and to spend two more
years at that school being known as the boy who jumped off the roof an editor
who was traumatized because I listened to him I learned my lesson and haven't
climbed any building since then who I bet that janitor feels awful I mean it's
a good thing you ended up okay or else man that could have been really scarring
for him you can't make your own drinks okay I work in a cafe inside of a
bookstore it's pretty chill most of the time and management is usually pretty
lacks our company was bought by someone else recently and corporate has been
pushing all kind of nitpicky changes to quote improve in quote the store one of
the big crackdowns is employees making their own drinks and then paying for
them or even paying first and then making their own drink when you work at
a coffee shop the employee drinks can tend to be pretty customized you know
what they want and often feel embarrassed at having another co-worker
make it it's more annoying when there's a rush in the cafe and you're on your
break and have to first wait in line and then wait for the server to actually
make the drink it eats up extra break time they said the new drink rule is for
loss protection but we get a 40% discount and none of us are really
concerned with stealing when we get it for so cheap anyway on to the malicious
compliance I would usually get the biggest size refresher they have
refreshers are 50% refresher concentrate and 50% water with some ice and berries
mixed in so instead of ordering the large size and making it myself I
ordered the small size i order the small and I asked the barista to give me the
cup just full of the concentrate in a giant cup of ice I take it put the water
in the cup of ice and then add the concentrate Oh while sitting in the
break room in front of management I can't say a thing about it
so instead of paying the employee rate for a giant drink I have gamed the
system and paid for a small while getting maximum drink that feel guilty
about it but a lot of our regulars do the same thing
huh that's genius good on you Opie you want a supervisor okay
this happened a few years ago to my cubicle made at a call center so I used
to work at an IT call center there was this guy who would call in periodically
and get upset if a female answered one day he called in got a girl cussed her
out hung up and called again then he just so happened to be sent to girl two
who was sitting next to girl one I guess he really needed his computer worked on
because he got upset and asked for the supervisor she told him she would have
to grab his info and the reason he wanted a supervisor before she get one
once he told her that he didn't want to talk to a girl she put him on hold to
grab the supervisor this is where the malicious compliance kicks in since it
was later at night there weren't very many supervisors the supervisor on our
team was a guy after hearing why the caller wanted to talk to him he decided
to go grab the only female supervisor on the floor that night this guy was so
ticked when he heard her voice he spent about five minutes trying to get her to
get him a male supervisor she said she was the only one who could talk to him
after he realized she wasn't budging he called her a few names and then hung up
I don't know if he called back that night but we were laughing about it for
at least a week hey the caller can get mad they specifically asked for a
supervisor and that's what they got it's their fault that they're sexist and
assumed that the supervisor wouldn't be a female I mean they shouldn't have had
a problem talking to a female anyways bit of a short one but it was jam-packed
full of good stuff right anyways that's all we got so thank you so much for
listening and I hope you have an amazing day goodbye | give me a good story on rmaliciouscomplianceSalariedorHourlyIlltaketheBESToneorig |
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hello everyone my name is Reid and welcome to story time today we are gonna
be reading some malicious compliance stories so sit back relax and enjoy
we'll just switch to the hot site I once worked in the IT department for a
company that managed some utilities and infrastructure they had multiple
facilities throughout their state and some extensive redundancy measures in
place to keep the building's connected in case of an emergency
one of the most important of these measures was their hot site a backup
facility that housed two replicas of their computer network infrastructure
the hot site was located in a separate building from the main data center so
even if the main building was knocked offline the hot site would still be
available to take over operations of course simply having the equipment and
policies to recover from an emergency aren't enough so the company also had an
emergency preparedness committee with representatives from several key
departments the committee held regular simulated emergency drills wherein a
member would write and direct an emergency scenario and the others would
rehearse the process of recovering from it the IT departments contributions to
these activities were frequently marginalized by the rest of the
committee who firmly believe that the only appropriate way to handle any
computer problem was just to activate the hot site after all it is a complete
functional replica of our main systems why bother doing anything else when the
problem can be instantly solved by simply plugging in a different computer
well the thing is that switching to our hot site was easier said than done
think of it like the spare tire in your car it's there if you need it but it
doesn't automatically replace a flat tire you need to spend some time and
effort to take the old one off and put the new one on and once you finish your
road trip you generally want to get the tire properly replace rather than
continuing to use the spare and if you're having engine problems you don't
solve it by putting on a different tire and so on the point is that a hot site
doesn't solve every problem in even if it does switching to ours in particular
wood takes time the IT representatives explained
that every time but we were always ignored finally one of the network
engineers was selected to lead one of the emergency drills and this guy was
fed up with everyone else always suggesting the hot site as the solution
once the committee had taken their seats to hear what crisis they would be
averting that day the network engineer informed them that the building they
currently occupied had just been demolished by a storm and none of the
computer systems they have remained time to activate the hot site he grabbed his
stuff from the table and left the building and at that moment all of the
other departments realized that they had no clue how to even get to the hot side
the other IT representatives being directly responsible for the upkeep of
the facility knew where to go and we're out of the door only moments after the
network engineer everybody else was considerably less prepared to relocate
to a different building if they had looked out the window as the IT people
left they might have seen which direction they had to turn out of the
parking lot but nothing more after all the hot site is designed to be isolated
from anything that would damage the main facility so it is located a fair
distance away the last of the emergency preparedness committee arrived several
hours after the IT department had all arrived on site not wanting to admit
that they had no clue where they were going
they had no better option than to drive from one maintenance building to the
next across the state hoping that their destination happened to house the backup
facility by this point the drill had taken much longer than the schedule had
originally allowed and the network engineer called it off noting that the
site would probably be just about ready to be brought online if they had
actually bothered to start setting it up they didn't of course since that would
have disrupted the entire network the IT department wasn't allowed to direct
another drill for quite some time after that but at least everybody else was
much more reluctant to suggest the hot site as a catch-all solution
honestly I get that not everyone knew where the hot site was but I mean
there's really no excuse for them not listening about the whole it not being a
catch-all solution sooner anyways let's move on to the next story we have to do
all our tests before we leave sure I worked as a cook in Denny's for roughly
a year the shift I worked in particular which where weekend's during the morning
it was always full and very busy overall most times the morning crew that
consisted of five to seven cooks depending on the day handled the orders
and once things die down around 2:00 p.m. the swing shift would handle the
cleanup and restocking from the morning's aftermath it was set up so
that those that took the beating in the morning could take it easy in the last
few hours of their shift and so that the swing had stuff to do if the restaurant
was empty we all have daily tasks that should be completed before the shift
ends which are small like cleaning part of the kitchen or labeling stuff and
then we had bigger weekly tasks that took a lot more time and limited use of
certain things in the kitchen current general manager at the time gets a
promotion and we get a new GM that doesn't quite like the structure of how
we operated and no longer allowed for morning crew to leave without cleaning
up and completing our tasks ok no problem malicious compliance begins now every
Sunday during the busiest parts of the shift me and a couple of co-workers
would begin our weekly tasks that we were forced to do otherwise we would get
memos fryers not operational until done being emptied and thoroughly cleaned
want to make the pancakes or any type of meat sorry wait so we're done cleaning
and disinfecting all the grills kitchen backed up sure let us finish cleaning
all the carpets furs this went on for about a month
naturally things got real bad for the restaurant as customers started leaving
complaining directly to the Denny's website and bad reviews on Facebook this
also caused a lot of overtime because most would also start right before the
shift ended and didn't leave till they finished a few hours later taking their
sweet sweet time previous general manager now the district manager
called in the meeting with all the staff to see what was happening and once
things were explained he removed the GM and promoted a shift manager that
deserved the position and knew how things were done who just comes into a
well-oiled machine that's running perfectly fine and throws a wrench in it
for no reason and then screws everything up come on people don't make things
harder for yourselves extra pickles when I worked at Wendy's one night a dude
came through the drive-thru with a really bad attitude he ordered a double
stack and kept insisting how he wanted extra pickles I can understand that
but the dude kept making personal attacks about how we messed up his
orders previously and how stupid we are I make his sandwich and hand him his bag
and he immediately goes there better be some extra pickles on this I'm a check
now normally the amount of pickles on the sandwiches - I gave him four that's
where I went wrong sure enough two minutes later he comes in saying there's
no pickles on this thing so I smile wave and assure him I'll remake it with the
necessary pickles the sandwich was made as follows
bun pickles Pattie pickles cheese pickles Pattie pickles cheese pickles
onions pickles pickles pickles bun pickles wrapped up and personally
delivered to him luckily my manager thought it was hilarious and didn't care
oh yeah this one deserves to be posted on delicious compliance thanks for
telling me I did something wrong I work on IT security basically granting and
revoking access to software to and from people designing access profiles that
sort of stuff as I believe is no different anywhere you need to put up a
ticket with adequate approval to be granted access to access something
within corporate systems so my job consists in getting tickets checking for
approvals assigning access closing ticket monkey job 101 to some extent so
I get this ticket from username girl one please grant access to users girl 1 and
girl 2 as per attached approval I open the attached email to find a long as can
be chain of emails with an approval for girl 2 to be granted profile XYZ issued
by the proper approver way in the bottom it's not generally an issue that the
approver is not the last person to email
as one could say alter the email to read approved instead of tonight upon
affording the email to someone else which I find to be an issue but
apparently our internal audit does not I therefore proceed to process the ticket
as one would access is granted to girl - and who approval was provided to girl 1
therefore no action taken closed a few days go by and I get a second ticket
please grant access to user girl 1 as per attached approval I tend to remember
these cases especially when something out of the ordinary happen or the
verbiage used is pretty much the same as soon as I open the email deja vu hit me
like a brick so I proceed to selectively read the
email up to the point with the approval when I pay attention to the date it was
issued January 2019 also it was changed from girl 2 to girl 1 in evident
different font well I could accuse her of forging an approval but I really
ain't got time to deal with such BS also I would need to rework the previous one
so I proceed with as per policy approval
should be no older than 30 days which is
true and should be the last email issued by the approver ie not forwarded to
someone which isn't necessarily mandatory but it would save me from
trouble closed hours later same ticket is reopened as I expected and the user
goes all caps but ticket 1 to 3 was processed with this same approval date
please take action and take action I did uh sorry for the oversight access to
profile XYZ has been revoked effective immediately
thank you for letting me know closed looking forward to the third
it action was demanded and action was given just not what the requester might
have had in mind the day the glassy stood still so a little background
before I start the bar I work at is a lovely bar and everyone who works there
is just an amazing co-worker so I don't have it out for anyone I am employed as
a glassy but I work the bar as well on the day of the most recent UFC fight we
all expected to get utterly destroyed as the bar is fairly popular where it is
and we all shared the event on social media as much as we could this put
everyone in a high tense mindset especially the managers one of the
managers who I get along with well approached me and said for today I want
you to just be doing glasses only not bar don't go past this area drawing an
imaginary line with her foot if you go past it I won't be happy I couldn't
blame her for being this intense it was going to be a stressful day after all
now the layout of this bar from left to right goes glassy station coffee machine
left bar taps and fridges cocktail station right bar taps and fridges
gaming and keynote ill and the manager drew a line just after the coffee
machine after she left my brains cheeky cog started turning and I pushed through
the next set of glassware polished what I needed to be in just stood there at
the line waiting the manager eventually saw me holding two trays of clean
glasses standing still at the line and gave me a puzzled look so I in return
gave her the most over exaggerated confused face and shrug I could do
she then chuckled and said fine you can go past the line I know it isn't an
explosion of anger that is usually posted here but had helped keep things
from getting too tense behind the bar and I thought it would be worth sharing
yeah I was really confused what a glass he was at the beginning of the story but
it's very clear that it's someone that you know washes the glasses and dishes
and stuff cool makes sense keep my hands off your bags okay there's
a bus terminal on my way home and I usually pass by it every day a few years
ago I was walking home and saw a woman struggling with her luggage
it was raining in the ground was slippery so I headed over to help one of
her bags fell off her pile and I reached out and caught it before it landed on
the wet ground the woman turned around and screamed at me to keep my hands off
her stuff so I smiled at her and promptly dropped her bag into the puddle
she called me a jerk but it was worth it I like this story short sweet simple to
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today we have a crazy story of Revenge involving
destroying an apartment we'll get into that in a
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bit but first best friends extorts me so I get her
arrested I 25-year-old female have been a follower
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of this page for a long time now and I've read
a lot of crazy stories here firstly I'd like to
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say thank you to everyone who shares their stories
here on a daily basis it's because of you and your
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courage to share your stories that I'm able to
share mine today this story happened a few years
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ago and to date it remained the scariest and most
trauma izing time of my life before I get into the
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story I have to say one thing whoever told you not
to trust anyone got it 100% right you shouldn't
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trust anyone with anything especially your secrets
or anything that can be used against you I know
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people like to hold on to Sentiments like oh he's
my boyfriend or she's my best friend she can't do
:51.640 --> :56.800 anything to hurt me you're wrong they can do
something to hurt you and when the chips are
:56.800 --> :02.000
down they probably will I didn't used to believe
this this I thought that anyone I call my friend
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must think the world of me and would do anything
to make me happy and I used to believe this until
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I trusted the wrong person I didn't just trust
the wrong person I invited them into my home and
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lived with them as roommates anyway let's not jump
the gun I have to start from the beginning it was
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one year after college I was still looking for a
job and even though I didn't live at home I was
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still receiving support from my parents so I could
keep the apartment I got while in college it was
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a two-bedroom apartment and my former roommate
moved out to work in a family's friend's firm
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in a different state so I had the apartment all
to myself during this time the only thing I had
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in mind was getting a job as soon as possible it
wasn't cool that I was still being supported by
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my parents at my age and I needed to get out of
their hair as soon as possible I finally got an
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internship offer at a firm and I accepted it the
offer was good and if I did well they'd retain me
:54.800 --> :59.640 as I got to the office on Monday I found out
that I wasn't the only intern they hired we
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were were six in total and they were only going
to hire three of us at the end of the six-month
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internship program I had to work super hard if
I was going to get retained so I made sure to
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do just that I was very professional towards my
work and friendly towards my co-workers and heads
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of Department I was a pretty charismatic person
so it was easy for everyone to like me besides I
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got everyone coffee every morning I made a lot of
friends in the office and among these friends was
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Nadia Nadia was also an intern in the office she
was looking for a job just like me and she was
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also putting in the work she had the best work
ethic next to mine but there were some slight
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differences between us she was a nice lady but she
wasn't as characteristic as I was she was barely
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noticed in the office besides she came late to
work every day our head of Department complained
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about her lateness and at one point he wanted to
straight up fire her but she pleaded with him and
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he let her off the hook that same day I went to
the break room for lunch and while I was eating
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she came into the to the room to grab her lunch
we said Hi and she settled down to eat that was
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when I asked her why she always came late to work
she said it was because she lived really far away
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and no matter how early she woke up she couldn't
beat the morning traffic and come to work on time
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she couldn't even sleep early all because the
interns closed later than the normal workers
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and she had to face the same traffic getting home
which meant that she had to go to bed late I asked
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her why she didn't just move to somewhere closer
and she said she didn't have the money for that
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she wasn't getting support from home the only
support she was getting from her family was her
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aunt's roof over her head I took pity on her and
decided to help I told her I lived close to work
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and she could stay with me pending the time she
could get a new place and stand on her own two
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feet she jumped at the offer and moved into my
place the next day we started to spend a lot of
:48.440 --> :53.160
time together and we pretty much bonded over the
next two months of our internship by the end of
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the internship we had become so tight and I was
really rooting for her to get into the company
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so we could work together but sadly she wasn't
retained coming late for 4 months straight didn't
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help her record Nadia was devastated I didn't know
how much she wanted to be in the company till she
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got rejected she literally broke down in tears and
cried in my living room I had to console her for
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over 30 minutes telling her it wasn't the end of
the world but then to her it was she didn't want
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to have to go back to her aunt's place because
she had been emotionally abused for years all
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she wanted was to get a job so she could stand on
her own too feet that company was her only hope
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of doing that then I told her she didn't have to
go back to her aunt's place she could stay in my
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place till she found a job I thought I was doing a
favor I didn't know I'd come to regret that simple
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statement she took me up on my offer and just like
that we became roommates for an indefinite period
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of time I have to say this mistake was on me I let
someone who I didn't really know into my house and
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I expected that there wouldn't be consequences
but then there was a few months along the line I
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was already a full-fledged staff in my workplace
and Nadia was still looking for a new job one of
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those days the company hosted a party where they
invited workers from a firm they were Consulting
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with that was where I met Caleb my boyfriend he
was one of the accountants of the other firm and
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I met him when I went to get a drink from the
champagne Fountain we talked for a moment till
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I was distracted by some of my co-workers when I
was alone again he came to find me and we talked
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some more by the end of the night he collected
my number and we started to text eventually he
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asked me out and we started dating a month or
two later Nadia was the closest person to me
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at this point and I used to tell her everything I
mean everything from the elegant dates he used to
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take me on to the vacation preparation he was
planning for my paid leave sometimes even our
:49.800 --> :54.920 sex lives I know it was oversharing at that
point but she was my best friend at the time
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and she knew everything she told me everything
going on in her life too and when Caleb asked
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to make a tape of us you know I told her about
it too I thought it was just between friends
:06.320 --> :12.000
sharing crazy stories I didn't know what Nadia
was capable of a week after I told her about the
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tape I received a text from an unknown number
it simply said your boyfriend wasn't careful
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with his phone with a video attached to it on
clicking the video I received the shock of my
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life it was the tape we recorded the person was
asking for $1,000 and gave me a deadline of 12
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hours or they were going to share the video to my
workplace and Caleb's I called Caleb and told him
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what was going on he swore to me that the video
didn't leak from his end because he didn't leave
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his phone anywhere with anyone but we didn't have
the time to figure that out we sent the money to
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the person and they said they delete the video but
just 2 days after that they texted again this time
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asking for $5,000 that was just outrageous and I
didn't even have that much money with me even if
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Caleb and I contributed they'd just call again and
again and again we had to find another alternative
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we decided to involve the police and they were
looking into it but it was difficult to trace
:10.400 --> :16.120
where the texts were coming from Caleb and I had
to pay the 5,000 to buy ourselves time even though
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I didn't receive another text for a few weeks I
was so depressed and it showed I wasn't eating
:21.240 --> :28.120
well I was growing thin it was really bad and
Nadia was there for me all through this time or
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so I thought I had to take a sick leave from work
to get better but as soon as I got back the texts
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continued they were asking for another 5,000 to
be delivered in a week by this time I'd emptied my
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bank account to make the last payment and I didn't
know what to do Caleb offered to make the payment
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but we knew it would never stop so we visited the
police again for leads but nothing still but this
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was when our extorter AKA Nadia slipped up 3 days
after the message was sent she sent a followup
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with the same video asking me what my co-workers
would do with the video I was already mentally
:03.040 --> :08.360
drained from work and it was just too much for
me so I decided to close early I got home around
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2:00 p.m. and Nadia was in the shower I went to
her room to say hi and I heard her shower running
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I was about to leave when I saw a strange phone
on her bed Nadia had always been using an iPhone
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and there was an Android phone on the bed at first
I thought she had someone over but curiosity got
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the better of me I picked up the phone with which
didn't have a password by the way and looked at
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it there weren't any pictures on the wallpaper
and it looked relatively new then I clicked on
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the gallery because I thought I'd see the picture
of the guy who owned the phone but to my shock the
:42.360 --> :48.800
gallery only contained one video my tape I looked
through the texts and saw my conversation with my
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black mailer and everything clicked Nadia must
have aird dropped the video to her iPhone when
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I wasn't looking and used the Android to Blackmail
me I dropped the phone and went to the living room
:59.240 --> :04.560
room like nothing happened then called Caleb and
the police Nadia and I were hanging out in the
:04.560 --> :09.320
living room when they arrived they searched her
room and found the phone and receipt with which
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she got it when they had had all the evidence
they needed she was arrested all the money she
:14.160 --> :19.360
stole from me and Caleb was taken from her bank
account and returned to us by the end of the day
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she didn't have enough money to hire a lawyer for
her case she didn't even try to call her parents
:24.280 --> :30.640
or anything she called me instead begging me to
forgive her she explained that she was jealous of
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me because I had everything she wanted she even
went further to say that she wasn't planning to
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share the video it was all an empty threat because
she needed the money eventually she begged me to
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forgive her and drop the charges but I couldn't do
that not for that two-faced bench called Nadia she
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put me through so much over the months and I went
through emotional damage because of her she had
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to pay for her crime I pressed charges and she was
sent to jail Opie really brings up an interesting
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discussion here they're talking about how you
really can't trust anyone and when you're in a
:05.080 --> :09.240
situation where you feel like you have somebody
that is so close to you that there's no way you
:09.240 --> :16.400
can't trust them and you experience this kind of
absolute backstabbing can you ever really get back
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to trusting somebody to that degree I feel like I
would might live an incredibly guarded life after
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that also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy
these crazy stories of Revenge it would be amazing
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if you left a like or left a to review if you're
listening to my podcast that said our next story
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is the pain that didn't destroy me when I got
admitted into college I was so certain I wouldn't
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get into any romantic relationship before you
frown hear me out I came from a family of geniuses
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and I mean my paternal grandfather aunties and
uncles were the smartest among their peers and it
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was like a family inheritance for us to graduate
top of our class that was the family's tradition
:57.080 --> :02.440
until my father changed that course du to some
influences such as getting involved in a steamy
:02.440 --> :08.520
romance with a classmate in college the story had
it that instead of being a class genius he ended
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up a love genius unconsciously it became a silent
family tradition not to pursue love interests in
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college when I got into college I knew better
than to allow myself to alter the family's
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tradition once again I made a strong resolve to
bring the trophy home because Come What May the
:26.560 --> :32.440
Legacy must continue once summer during my fourth
year in college I was selected to be a part of a
:32.440 --> :37.600
discussion centered around stem and its growing
impact the discussion was going to be aired around
:37.600 --> :43.840
the country and as part of that discussion was a
21-year-old female who was popularly known as Miss
:43.840 --> :51.040
R after the discussion I became friends with Miss
R needless to say I was enthralled by her level of
:51.040 --> :57.640
intelligence intuition and exposure and I couldn't
deny that there was a budding Chemistry Between Us
:57.640 --> :04.400
you know how they say once beaten Twice Shy well
that became my watch word I was determined to ward
:04.400 --> :09.840
off any further interest in this attractive lady
she on the other hand encouraged anything other
:09.840 --> :15.040
than friendship that was budding between us we had
gotten into a series of intelligent conversations
:15.040 --> :20.560
which I found amusing however I know I didn't
feel anything beyond the amusement or maybe I
:20.560 --> :26.040
didn't allow myself to feel Miss r on the other
hand managed to combine intelligence with being
:26.040 --> :31.360 sassy after about 3 months of maintaining a
closely knitted friendship she told me she
:31.360 --> :36.120
could no longer wait for me to pop the question
she minced no words when she told me she wanted
:36.120 --> :42.080
something deeper than the superficial friendship
we shared she was in love with me and she had no
:42.080 --> :46.680
intention of keeping it to herself I couldn't
believe it took me one month for me to realize
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that I was also interested in something Beyond The
Superficial friendship I thought I had to offer I
:52.240 --> :58.600
had been completely swept over by love and I loved
every bit of it I knew I was breaking the family
:58.600 --> :04.640
Cod showed but if falling in love was a crime I
was ready to stake it all our lives were like a
:04.640 --> :09.760
perfect Symphony and I did not doubt that we were
meant for each other we became Inseparable in
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college and I often wondered why I didn't meet
her earlier we were so perfect that a lot of
:14.880 --> :20.720
people began to use us as reference points at some
point I had to take her home to meet my parents
:20.720 --> :26.520
they knew that whatever made me break the family
code was a real deal after 2 years we graduated
:26.520 --> :32.200
college we changed cities and there seemed like a
little distance between us that distance however
:32.200 --> :37.560
little was strong enough to flip the script that I
thought we had excellently written over the years
:37.560 --> :43.960
my career led me to a desolate Outpost a distant
local far from the luxuries of the city but miss
:43.960 --> :49.480 R remained my soulle anchor and inspiration
our conversations echoed through the barren
:49.480 --> :54.280
Landscapes and we were still in sync regarding the
beautiful future we had hoped to build together
:54.280 --> :59.880
but everything changed in one Christmas I couldn't
discard the coldness and miss R's demeanor when I
:59.880 --> :05.440
saw her that Christmas she had ceased to be the
chatter box I'd grown so fond of I could sense
:05.440 --> :10.400
there was trouble in our beautifully orchestrated
Paradise but it was difficult to Fathom where the
:10.400 --> :16.440
trouble lay I organized dates picnics Hangouts
Adventures she enjoyed and anything to revive the
:16.440 --> :21.440 memories we've built and the love we shared
but all my efforts were merely seen but not
:21.440 --> :27.560
appreciated after the holidays I left home again
in my lone times I remembered our College days
:27.560 --> :33.080
and how Miss r became the sunshine I never knew
I needed I couldn't get past the image of her
:33.080 --> :38.640
being incredibly Giddy and affectionate around
me she was like a burst of sunshine bringing
:38.640 --> :44.160
joy and laughter into every corner of our shared
existence her laughter was infectious and her eyes
:44.160 --> :50.280
sparkled with genuine happiness whenever we were
together Miss R wasn't just a companion she was my
:50.280 --> :56.240
anchor during the turbulent times of Academia she
played a significant role in my academic Journey
:56.240 --> :01.320
becoming one of my motivations to strive for a a
first class degree when challenges threatened to
:01.320 --> :07.000
overwhelm me she was there when I graduated top
of my class she was there when my father shed
:07.000 --> :13.560
tears of joy she was there when I got my first job
outside the city her belief in my abilities fueled
:13.560 --> :19.520
my determination to achieve academic Excellence
it was so fascinating to see how much she was
:19.520 --> :25.080
there for both of us she never allowed herself
to lag as well and eventually she graduated as
:25.080 --> :30.440 a top engineer too thinking about our shared
experience gave me more reasons to fight for
:30.440 --> :35.920
our future together but I was compelled to reflect
on my stance When Miss R made it clear that she no
:35.920 --> :41.640
longer believed in our future together she minced
no words when she told me there was someone else
:41.640 --> :46.920
and she had moved on I called her several times
to be sure I wasn't making things up in my head
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I was Dum struck and confused I couldn't believe
the woman who had motivated me to take a chance on
:52.680 --> :59.360
love moved on without me she left me in a state
of profound confusion and heartbreak it was a
:59.360 --> :05.160
surreal and unexpected twist to a story that had
been written with shared laughter challenges and
:05.160 --> :11.000
countless memories what added to the complexity
of my emotions was the fact that Miss R was the
:11.000 --> :16.880
one who initiated our relationship by asking me
out first in those initial moments I had felt a
:16.880 --> :22.160
connection a bond that I believed would withstand
the test of time little did I know that the
:22.160 --> :27.560
same person who had taken the first step in our
journey would be the one to alter its course so
:27.560 --> :33.040
drastically determined to salvage what I could of
our relationship I mustered the courage to reach
:33.040 --> :37.920
out to her after learning that she was getting
married to a guy she met at work my attempts
:37.920 --> :43.840
however were met with a cold and deafening silence
she blatantly told me to stop trying how could she
:43.840 --> :49.680
not allow me to try to save us did we never mean a
thing to her it was difficult for me to believe in
:49.680 --> :55.240
the fleeting moment of Life at that moment nothing
could explain how the person who had once been my
:55.240 --> :01.360 Confidant my partner in crime and my alltime
favorite person was now a chapter in my life
:01.360 --> :06.720
that seemed to be closing leaving me to confront
a future that felt uncertain and unfamiliar but
:06.720 --> :12.360
trust me I remained undeterred I tried reaching
out again through various social media platforms
:12.360 --> :17.360
pouring my heart out in messages that convey the
depth of my confusion and the pain of watching
:17.360 --> :23.360
our shared history crumble I hope that perhaps
a conversation could provide Clarity a chance to
:23.360 --> :29.160
understand the reasons behind her choices and if
possible find a way to bridge the growing app to
:29.160 --> :35.200
my dismay my efforts were in vain she had blocked
me on all social media platforms she blocked me
:35.200 --> :40.680
without offering any closure I guess that was the
most painful part for me becoming a stranger to
:40.680 --> :46.080
someone who couldn't go a day without speaking to
me I knew I had to stop trying when I got the news
:46.080 --> :52.440
that Miss R had married that guy the very person
who had become an unexpected wedge between us she
:52.440 --> :58.560
had moved forward in her life in a way I had never
anticipated her wedding photos and announcements
:58.560 --> :04.840 on social media became the final Bittersweet
confirmation of the closing chapter of our story
:04.840 --> :10.040
the digital spaces that had once been a canvas for
our shared dream were now adorned with images of a
:10.040 --> :16.560
future that no longer included me I spent so many
weeks imagining what was so special about that guy
:16.560 --> :22.040
I tried to stalk his social media platforms but
the more I tried the less I saw I was left in the
:22.040 --> :28.000
pain of acceptance mingled with the Echoes of a
past that could never be resurrected indeed I had
:28.000 --> :33.680
to face the harsh reality that the love which
was once so promising had taken an unforeseen
:33.680 --> :39.160
and irreversible turn I had no other choice other
than to accept the painful reality and also move
:39.160 --> :44.680
on with my future although the wounds of emotional
separation festered it took the intervention of
:44.680 --> :50.440
my father to fetch me out of depression however
in that moment of pain when I realized I had no
:50.440 --> :56.560
control over what had happened I made a conscious
decision to transform my pain into a powerful
:56.560 --> :03.080
driving force a force that would Propel me toward
not just professional success but personal growth
:03.080 --> :09.320
and resilience I dedicated myself to becoming an
exceptional engineer immersing myself in learning
:09.320 --> :15.040
pushing boundaries and taking on projects that
stretched my capabilities the long hours that
:15.040 --> :19.840
could have been spent dwelling on heartache were
invested in honing my skills and expanding my
:19.840 --> :25.840
knowledge I turned every ounce of Despair into
a Wellspring of resilience using the emotional
:25.840 --> :31.160
energy to propel me forward rather than than hold
me back my commitment to Excellence didn't go
:31.160 --> :37.080
unnoticed as I consistently delivered outstanding
results my reputation in the engineering community
:37.080 --> :42.720 grew doors of opportunity swung open and I
found myself being sought after by prestigious
:42.720 --> :48.840
companies and organizations in the United States
the juicy pay that accompanied these sought-after
:48.840 --> :54.680
positions became a tangible acknowledgment of
the transformation I had undergone it wasn't
:54.680 --> :01.200
just about financial success it was a testament
to my ability to turn adversity into advantage and
:01.200 --> :06.160 pain into purpose there were days I wondered
if I needed to go through that heartbreak to
:06.160 --> :12.440
experience such tenacity and willpower to succeed
my journey from heartbreak to becoming one of the
:12.440 --> :18.280
most sought-after engineers in the United States
wasn't just about climbing the career ladder it
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was a personal Triumph for me after about 2 years
Miss R and I had the opportunity to work together
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on a project thankfully for me I'd been selected
as the lead engineer on the project to be honest
:31.520 --> :35.800 I could see how difficult it was for her to
comprehend my professional growth in a span
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of 2 years it was such a hard pill to swallow and
she couldn't hide it I was so proud of myself for
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overcoming the rejection I thought would be the
end of me I didn't care to spare her any attention
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and I made it so obvious that I was in a better
place emotionally after the project I was mandated
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to recommend some Engineers out of the team for
some long-term projects with Juicy reward s even
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though I had healed I knew that that was my chance
to allow Miss R to understand how it feels not to
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be chosen Frank was IM mutual friend of Miss R
and me and he couldn't wait to spill to me that
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Miss R had a real hot tears in her eyes when she
realized that I didn't shortlist her name I went
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about my work wistfully for so many months I knew
I was being petty but sometimes pettiness does the
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trick this is what I think realistically should
happen after a heartbreaking breakup you feel like
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you kind of slink down to the absolute bottom and
I feel like it's just about the most perfect time
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to just turn around your life and focus on you
and working yourself back up to even better than
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where you were before the relationship our next
story is husband's coworker flirts with him so I
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destroy her apartment I 30-year-old female have
met a lot of people who thought that they could
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take anything they wanted without consequences the
one I can still remember vividly was in my high
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school the leader of the Glee Club Mandy is a big
example she's so full of herself that she expected
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that the entire world should bend to her needs
I wasn't close to her I wasn't even in glee club
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but I had a friend Susan who was I remember all
the story Susan used to tell me about Mandy after
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making the rest of the Glee club members rehearse
and perform a song that only she liked she went on
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to steal one of the Glee members boyfriends some
lacrosse player named Jake anytime I thought of
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that story and the effect it had in school I used
to wonder how absurd it was I used to think that
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Mandy was the worst that Humanity had to offer
but I was quickly proven wrong when I met Chloe
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one of my husband's co-workers long story short
she tried to steal my husband for me being me I
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taught her a lesson but before I delve deeper I
need to talk about how it all came to be we loved
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each other and we knew that when we started our
career Journey we wouldn't have the time to do it
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so we decided to just tie the knot as soon as we
left College we both got internships in different
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fields of work and due to our insane work ethics
we expected that we were going to get retained
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as soon as the internship was done the prospects
were nice and if it all worked out we'd be able to
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start a family as soon as possible Hank and I had
been together since our first year of college he
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was the friend of my roommate's boyfriend we've
been going strong since then he was different
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from every other guy I've dated he cared about me
and my hopes and dreams and he pushed me till I
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achieved every one of them that one time I told
him that I wanted to graduate as one of the top
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students in the class was one of the moments I
regretted in my entire time in school because
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Hank took it as his responsibility to make sure
I studied he had my course schedule with him and
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made sure I attended every class I was a naturally
lazy person and even though I'm really smart I
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don't put nearly enough effort into anything I
want to do and because of that I always end up
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with mediocre results but when Hank stepped in it
was something else we f a lot because I wouldn't
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want to go to class and he'd come over to drive
me there himself one time I didn't want to open
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the door for him so he got a key for my roommate
Ashley and practically kidnapped me and drove me
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to school it was tough but by the time I graduated
it was all worth it I was top three in my class
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anyways we were killing it in our internships
but Hank own was a bit tougher than mine that
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was because he was competing with some of the
best students from different prominent colleges I
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think he said some of them were even ivy league by
the end of the internship I got the job but Hank
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didn't it was so bad that he fell into some kind
of depression which got worse by the day while I
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went to work Hank stayed home job hunting it took
months before he could get an offer but before
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then it was rejection after rejection eventually
he got the offer after months of searching I
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was really worried the day after he went for the
interview because I knew that if he didn't get it
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this time it would would be disastrous but thank
God he did we celebrated that night because all
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was right in the world again or so I thought it
took us over 2 years of working and saving before
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we decided that we were ready to start trying
for children we'd been married for over 4 years
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by this time I got pregnant and had twins by this
time I had to take a leave from work to take care
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of them but the three months I was given wasn't
enough to take care of my newborns so I had to
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negotiate with my boss to give me a work from home
plan they agreed and I turned remote till I could
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return to work one day Hank got back from work and
invited me to a party in his office The Firm had
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closed a major deal and they were celebrating
my mom lived close so he dropped off the kids
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with her and went to the party I was in a good
mood till I got to the party as soon as we got
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to the hall some lady walked up to us all smiles
she was looking at Hank in a really weird way and
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I knew something was up as soon as she got close
enough Hank introduced us her name was Chloe and
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she worked in his Department she was an intern
the previous year and she worked under him when
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Hank introduced me as his wife the look on her
face changed she looked me over and grumbled a
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greeting she had two drinks in her hands and she
gave one to Hank she said she didn't know he was
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bringing someone yes she referred to me as someone
Hank told her that the invite clearly said that
:22.360 --> :27.240
they could bring a plus one there was a moment
of awkwardness when Hank left to get me a drink
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I pretended to be looking around but I could see
that she was checking me out by the time Han got
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back I asked if Chloe was married to which she
laughed and said no I asked why and she said
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she was waiting for the right person here's the
crazy part she said that while looking straight
:43.720 --> :49.800 into Hank's eyes I was so upset but I didn't
want to cause a scene so I excused myself from
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the hall and went to the restroom I didn't come
out for over 20 minutes when we got back home I
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confronted Hank I asked him if he'd been cheating
on on me with Chloe he laughed at first when he
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thought I was joking when he realized that I was
serious he told me he wasn't and that they were
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just friends he was her senior in the company and
owing to the fact that she worked under him as an
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intern they had developed some type of closeness
I could tell that he wasn't lying but that didn't
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mean the threat wasn't real that's the thing with
men sometimes they can be pretty oblivious about
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things especially Hank we were friends before
we started dating but I liked him and I could
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tell that he liked me too I tried to get him to
ask me out I gave him all the signals there were
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to give a guy but he still wouldn't do the needful
I literally had to spell it out for him before he
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finally asked me out so I wasn't shocked when he
didn't see what was going on with Chloe I decided
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to give it a rest since I trusted Hank I knew that
if he got too far he'd stop it or at least that's
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what I thought one night when Hank caught home I
was about to order Chinese when he told me not to
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worry because he'd already gotten something to
eat I I asked him where and he said Khloe got
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pizza they were working late on a project and she
decided to buy him dinner I was enraged I yelled
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at Hank for accepting food from her but he didn't
see what was wrong with it which pissed me off
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even further we fought for an entire week before
he decided to apologize he promised not to accept
:17.040 --> :23.520
food from her again and I said okay but still that
was not the end Khloe decided to kick her game up
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a notch she didn't come with her car to work one
day because for some reason it was at the auto
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body shop that day and instead of her to order a
ride or something she decided to ask my husband
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to help her home Hank being the oblivious person
he was actually helped her home how do I know all
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this well because he told me he usually tells me
everything and I'm lucky that he didn't know which
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part was good or bad or else he might have cut out
a few details I asked him where she lived and he
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told me without hesitation that was when I started
to formulate my plan when he'd gone to work I'd
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take take the kids on a stroll and I'd walk past
her house to see how the neighborhood was at night
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I'd drop the kids off with my mom and stake out
at her place it was an apartment building and I
:07.800 --> :12.560
had to know where she lived I finally figured
it out when she got back from work one night
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and I wore a nose mask and face cap following her
closely behind once I figured it out I moved to
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the next phase of my plan I went to her place
one day when I was sure that she'd be at work
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and I broke in I looked up how to pick a lock
on YouTube One I was in I went into her closet
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and gathered all her clothes especially the ones
that looked expensive I grabbed her designer bags
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and shoes and gathered them in a pile next I took
the batteries out of the fire alarm and set the
:41.360 --> :46.800
clothes on fire I put out the fire before it got
too out of control but made sure it was properly
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destroyed then I moved on to completely trashing
her kitchen in her living room I tore up her bed
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and broke all her vases and dishes when I was done
I decided to leave a cryptic message just for fun
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I wrote I'm watching you on a piece of paper and
set it on the kitchen island that'll keep her
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on her toes then I left through the fire escape
making sure I wasn't seen by anyone the next day
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when Hank got home he told me about how paranoid
Khloe had gotten since she' got to her apartment
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and saw that it was completely trashed she had to
leave and stay in a hotel till she could find a
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solution to the break-in I decided to kick it
up a notch a little while Hank was sleeping I
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took Chloe's number from his cell phone and got a
new phone just to mess with her telling her that
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getting a room in a hotel wouldn't protect her
from me and that I was coming for her Khloe's
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paranoia turned into hysteria in a matter of hours
that same day she applied for a leave from work
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and left before it even got approved she stopped
talking to Hank because she got all paranoid and
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didn't know who was targeting her she disconnected
from everyone and went to God knows where I didn't
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care as long as I had my husband all to myself I
was good I was going to ask if anybody thought op
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went off the deep end here but I think the better
question is does anybody think op did not go off
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the deep end here because it's pretty clear even
when their husband is being utterly transparent
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about what's going on and isn't acting on any
of these things that op went way too far with
:19.680 --> :25.040 this but with that being said that's all the
time we have for today now if you want to hear
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video on the left or if you missed my latest
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aita for refusing to House s at T while my entire family goes on a summer
vacation I I 19f and being forced to watch both my family dog and my aunt's
cat and house while they go on a week-long vacation to Vancouver I just
learned by accident from my aunt that my whole extended family including my two
sisters cousins aunt and uncle parents and grandparents are going to Vancouver
Island for well over a week they have apparently been keeping it a secret from
me because they just assumed I wouldn't mind staying behind despite never being
asked if I was even interested I feel left behind and disconnected from the
rest of my family and don't know if I should even agree to house sit during
the week aita add-on I'm not just house sitting my own house but also my aunt's
house and their cats our houses are not that far from each other but I will have
to go back and forth every day I also wanted to clear up that I live with my
grandparents and my parents and I do pay rent for the people that are wondering
update I talked to my parents and they told me the trip is going to be in July
and they will be gone for 2 week they apologized somewhat but didn't really
give me a straight answer as to why I can't come but from what I'm guessing
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today we've got a nuclear Revenge story
all about stealing College tuition we'll get to that in a bit but first my
roommate stole from me so I sorted him out I grew up in a pretty disciplined
home my dad was an Army veteran who had done two tours in Afghanistan and while
he didn't want that kind of life for us he still treated my sisters and I like
soldiers my older sister Ada had once jokingly called him a drill sergeant
which he had luckily laughed at good naturedly basically he trained and
drilled us to be efficient and take orders now don't get me wrong my dad
wasn't an unfeeling mean head who was only interested in ordering us around he
was a pretty awesome man he took up a job as a police officer after his
military service and was a big softy to almost everyone who met him After
experiencing the harshness of War my dad believed that kindness went a long way
in making people happy and he was intent in spreading Joy everywhere he went he
loved to hang out with the homeless and he'd bring food and clothing to them and
chat with them about their lives this helped in many ways for one homeless
people saw a lot of things that happen on the streets and the people my father
helped were like any other member of society just trying to survive and they
wanted to live in a safe Community just like anyone else they were usually not
very open to helping police officers though because they saw police officers
as oppressive which is understandable considering that more often than not the
encounters between cops and homeless people were to force them out of a
particular place or interrogate them as a suspect for crimes they probably
didn't commit my father's kindness to them was not only a breath of fresh air
it built trust and they gave information to my dad that helped put a lot of bad
people in jail the second advantage of this symbiotic relationship was that
oftentimes the kindness and support that my father showed these people was a
spark that gave them hope and motivation to get off the streets he had helped a
lot of people this way and was very proud of the work he had done my dad was
also quite kind to us at home but he was of the belief that life didn't hand
anything for free and we had to work hard and be disciplined and so he was
quite strict with us notwithstanding this we loved him very much and we could
approach him to talk about just about anything a big part of my father's
training involved ensuring that personal hygiene was seen as important he would
always have us make our bed the moment we got out of it and the general rule
around the house was clean up after yourself this included doing your dishes
after eating and always folding your laundry the moment it got in my dad also
made sure we followed a strict timetable and that my sisters and I were never
tardy to anything all my life all I knew was the lifestyle that my dad had
enforced in us and so I didn't really know any other way of living I knew that
other people lived differently but personally I'd never really experienced
it that was the way I lived until I got admission to college and I met my
roommate Matthew Matt had resumed School a day earlier than I had but he'd
already added his style to the room apparently he was big on rock and roll
and had hung posters all around the room he'd also brought in a mini fridge and
had filled it up with beer now my first impression when I met Matt was that he
was different and I honestly was quite excited for it every day for the past 18
years I had lived with the same people and lived the same way and for once I
was going to get the chance to be in a different environment with different
people and Matt was going to be the first of those people in fact my parents
don't know this one of the main reasons I only applied to schools at least two
states away was exactly because of this I wasn't trying to be wild or anything
though I just wanted a little variety to my life a little excitement so when I
moved in I spent hours talking to Matt about everything I really wanted to know
as much as I possibly could we talked about our interests What majors we were
going to do and just about everything else even offered me a beer and I after
tons of convincing accepted it I really didn't enjoy it by the way beer tastes
weird I was convinced that we were going to be best of friends and I was looking
forward to it perhaps if I had known what was to happen I'd have been more
cautious of Matt but oh well the first sign that Matt was going to be
problematic was his hygiene the first week in the room I could swear he never
took a bath he also dropped everything on the floor trashed his clothes used
dishes there were just the two of us so he couldn't even really claim that it
was anyone else at first I was fine with it well maybe not fine but I wasn't
really pissed off about it when I came back from classes I'd clean up the room
as much as I could and move his clothes to his bed heck I even did his dishes a
few times however as time went on it seemed like he was getting too
comfortable with me cleaning up for him and he just gave up all together the
room started to have a really funky smell and there were stains on the floor
that I didn't even want to know what they were dishes filled the sink and
they were kept there for so long that they started to stink too it really was
a very bad starting to feel very annoyed about it I decided that the best option
for me was to talk to him about it so one Friday evening I sat him down and I
told him that he needed to do better when it came to hygiene I told him that
his behavior was affecting me Gravely and I suggested that he work on it to
help I suggested setting up a timetable to help with organizing tasks and even
cleaning together the entire time he was pretty mellow and it seemed like he was
thinking really hard about it perhaps I'd gotten to him I thought after a
while he told me he'd think about it that perhaps we could talk about it
again the next day when I asked why it had to wait till the next day he said he
had a party to attend and he would be in
a better State of Mind to talk then so I let him go I didn't see Matt again for
another four days in that time his number was unavailable and I was already
considering contacting the police to report him as missing then he randomly
just showed up and acted like nothing had happened again I tried talking to
him but no matter what I tried he always either made an excuse not to talk about
it or he'd just say okay and then do nothing about it frustrated I just
resolved it keep on doing what I'd been doing and I convinced myself that if it
ever got too much I would just report to
the hall admin then came the stealing at first it was just little things like a
sandwich I'd saved for later or my pens I ended up buying a lot of pens it was
kind of annoying because I'd always been the kind of person who organized
everything so I sort of had the expectation of where my things were
supposed to be at any given point in time so imagine how annoying it is to
try to get my sandwich which I'd carefully planned for dinner and
realizing that Matt had eaten it and left no replacement I knew that talking
to him wasn't going to yield any positive results I tried this before
with the whole cleaning up thing remember so instead I just tried to be
very careful with my things and when possible I hid my stuff there are two
main issues with this though for one there's only so much you can hide in
your room instinctively you feel safe in your room and you're bound to leave
things just lying around it's only when it goes missing that you recall you'd
made the mistake of keeping it within reach of your thieving roommate the
second thing is that even hiding wasn't an efficient way of keeping things out
of reach of Matt you would simply just look for them and knowing me it's very
very easy to predict where I'd keep my things it's usually in the most expected
Place possible I started to consider getting a safe or a cupboard with a lock
after my wallet went missing the wallet had my school ID my credit card and 55
dollars in cash I instantly suspected Matt but I had no evidence he had taken
it and it didn't seem right to just accuse him of stealing it I had to go to
the bank to block access to my credit card to prevent any unauthorized access
into my account I got another wallet and
I'd applied to the school for another ID when I walked into the room one day to
see my old wallet sticking out from under my bed I knew it had been planted
there because when I opened it all that was missing was the cash I began to be
very paranoid around Matt and I seriously was considering reporting to
the school but I didn't it wasn't until Matt went too far that I decided I'd had
enough during the semester break I went home despite spend some time with my
family while I was with them my father had given me the antique watch of my
grand Uncle who had recently passed apparently he had bequeathed that along
with a fair amount of money for my education to me now the watch was quite
expensive and I honestly considered not taking it with me back to school but I
was quite close to my grand Uncle while he was alive and the thought of having a
part of him close to me was comforting I decided to bring the watch with me to
school but leave it locked up somewhere safe I wouldn't tell anyone about its
existence that should work right a week after resuming school I walked into the
room to see it trashed instinctively I went to where I kept the watch it was
gone other things were missing too and I knew that we had been robbed I
immediately called 9-1-1 and then Matt I never considered even for a second that
Matt had been responsible the police dispatched a couple of officers who
asked Matt and I a bunch of questions after that they told us that an
investigation was open and that if they got any info they'd let us know the
thought that I had lost such a priceless item so soon made me absolutely mad at
myself for days I sulked and spent hours just brooding about it all I had called
my dad to report what had happened and he had told me that he was confident the
watch would be found even if he wasn't he said it took more than physical
property to keep the memory of my grand Uncle I had decided to leave it all up
to fate till one day I while cleaning the room saw a little glint from Matt's
bed now normally I would have probably ignored what I saw but for some reason I
moved towards the glint which was coming from something tucked under his pillow
whatever it was had just a bit of it sticking out the side and the sun's Rays
it caused it to reflect as I picked up his pillow there was my grand uncle's
watch right there staring at me I couldn't believe it Matt had stolen the
watch I stood there speechless thinking of what to do by the time I finally
managed to move I knew what I had to do Matt had gone too far and I was going to
make sure he paid normally I would have confronted Matt about it and maybe also
requested to have my room switched but it was time he got the punishment he
deserved the plan I had in mind was very simple simple yet effective I took the
watch I had now found and then I called one of the police officers that had come
over when I reported the robbery he had given me his number and I told him I had
information for him and requested that he come when he got there I told him
that I found the watch in the custody of
Matt I showed him the watch and he asked me if I wanted to escalate things I
escalated things not only did Matt get arrested for theft but he also got
charged with purchase of alcohol as a minor and falsify buying his identity
apparently he had used a fake ID to buy the beers that were constantly in his
mini fridge Matt also got reported to school and was expelled during his trial
I had testified against him and my testimony was strong enough to ensure
conviction however he didn't get any jail time his lawyer had been pretty
good and had argued to the court that as a first-time offender he'd be given a
light sentence so the judge sentenced him to do community service for 60 days
and a year of probation the damage was done though and I was glad that I'd
finally gotten some form of Justice I'm certain now that my enthusiasm for
wanting to experience life differently from how it was in my family was a big
mistake I'm absolutely convinced I don't
want to have another roommate ever again maybe in time this opinion will change
but for now that's what it is I wish I didn't have to go as far as I did with
Matthew but I know that if I didn't he have done worse so I'm sort of glad I
did I think this is one of those situations where you experienced the
absolute lowest end of the spectrum and you've allowed that to ruin the
experience of kind of living on your own and also seeing a side of things that
aren't what your family forced you to experience that said op definitely let
this go on way too long without ever reporting any of it our next story is I
took the money meant for my brother's College my revenge against my brother
was taking the money meant for his college education I carefully plan to
get money from his college funds for my mother and I succeeded he went to
college eventually but not having the funds meant for his education set him
back by years he left college with student loans that he would have never
have had to obtain in the first place if he had gotten the funds meant for his
college education my mom had my brother and me when she was really young she met
my dad when they were both in high school they were together for a while
after high school when she had my brother and nearly two years later she
had me my mom lives with my dad and his mother's house and my paternal
grandmother took care of us all for a while but she soon got tired she was a
teacher and wasn't saving enough for her retirement because she had to take care
of two adults and two children she asked to speak with my mom one day and told
her that she needed my mom and her children my brother and me to leave her
house interestingly she never threw my dad her son out my dad also never tried
to rent a place for his small family he left the house when he knew my mom was
leaving he probably didn't want to deal with the guilt of seeing us leave and
being unable or unwilling to do anything about it we heard later that he got
another woman pregnant and she moved in with my grandmother until my grandmother
died my mom was sad about what had happened she couldn't return to her
parents home because they were conservative Christians and had sent her
out when she was pregnant with my brother anyway we moved into a house
provided by a church in our community for single mothers and women who needed
a temporary place to stay away from their abusive husbands or Partners while
we lived there my mom was offered a job by a member of the church that offered
us a place to stay she was to work as a receptionist at a small Law Firm my mom
accepted the offer and soon started working towards getting her high school
diploma we weren't rich but things got better than they were and we could
afford basic stuff things got even better for us when my mom met a wealthy
lawyer in the course of her work as a paralegal my mom and the lawyer dated
secretly for a while because they were ashamed of their relationship the lawyer
was 35 years older than my mom and he died before I could have strong memories
of him but I remember that he and my mom
were in love with each other my mom says he's the only man who's ever shown her
true love even after he had died she maintained that he was the only man with
whom she ever felt genuine love naturally since he was a lot older than
my mom and was richer too everyone in the church assumed she was with him
because of the money the church pastor didn't approve of my mom's relationship
with him when he proposed to her and she agreed to marry him the pastor refused
to give his blessings he insisted that my mom could not marry the lawyer
because he was not a Believer and because he didn't believe that my mom
was marrying him for Godly reasons the lawyer was irritated by the pastor's
comment and his assumed authority over my mother but he kept this cool and he
and my mom kept dating they never got married but my mom got fed up with the
pastor's obsession with controlling her life we left the church house and the
church too and moved in with the rich lawyer he never wanted my mom to work
outside the home since the career opportunities available for her were
limited anyway my mom agreed to stay at home and take care of us in the home our
time in his house is the most Pleasant memory I have of my childhood my brother
and I had enough food to eat enough snacks and too many toys we also had
nice clothes and stopped getting hand-me-downs from the people at church
he didn't just treat my mom nicely but he was a sweet dad to us too he paid for
everything we had to do in school too the experience was great sadly he got a
terminal illness this time passed and he died after he died his ex-wife filed a
case against my mom she believed that she should inherit his house and that my
mom brother and I had to move out she was quite influential more educated than
my mom and could afford good lawyers to help her my mom was hardly knowledgeable
about things like that and wasn't college educated she also had no money
so she didn't contest the case and simply let it all go we had to move to
the town where my mom grew up her siblings had all moved out of the house
her dad was dead and it was just her mom we moved into the house and while it
wasn't as bad as when we lived in the church house it certainly wasn't as good
as when we lived with my mom's boyfriend my mom was heartbroken but she managed
to find a good job in town and took good care of my brother and me some years
later my mom's laid boyfriend's lawyer reached out to us he had apparently set
up a college fund for my older brother my mom was very grateful I'm sure he
would have done the same for you if he'd
stayed alive a little longer my mom said to me later that week I got back at my
brother by ensuring that my mother spent the money on something else my brother
had to repeat a grade in high school so we were in the same grade at the time he
was a big bully but he was brilliant and that was the only reason the school
didn't kick him out he looked forward to going to college finally his reason for
going to college was despite our father he badly wanted to prove himself to
everyone of course he was banking on the money my
mom's boyfriend had in store for him there was no better way to hurt my
brother than to ensure he didn't go to college my best friend in school had a
stepdad who was a known gangster everyone knew he sold drugs too he had
been in and out of jail many times my mom had warned me many times to stay
away from my best friend because everyone knew his stepdad to be
dangerous and working for even more dangerous people my best friend wasn't
about that life though he actively avoided getting into that business even
though his mom was involved too the plan was to convince my mom that I was owing
a drug lord a huge amount of money and that he was going to end me that way my
mom would be forced to pay up with a huge chunk of my brother's college fund
to make the whole thing believable I started to run errands for my best
friend's stepdad he was horrified at first but I let him in on my plans and
he let me be it was from working for my best friend step dad that I realized
that he had a boss and his boss has a boss it was a whole network in hierarchy
of bosses my best friend suggested that I actually lose some of his stepdad's
goods and run away that would make him send his boys to my grandma's house to
look for me on one of the days he sent me on an errand I ran home with the
goods and hid them under my bed as my best friend and I expected his stepdad
sent some boys to my grandma's house my mom was horrified to see that I was
dealing with those kinds of people I handed them the goods I ran away with
when they asked that meant one thing my best friend's stepdad had fired me he
never joked about his business a week after my mom had had a complete
emotional breakdown about the new company I was keeping I packed a bag and
ran away well I wanted my mom and brother to think I ran away my mom was
beside herself with grief worrying about my safety eventually I sneaked home one
evening and told her what had happened I lied that I'd gotten mixed up with some
drug dealers I was going to deliver some
drugs to another person and I was robbed
of them I told her the gang leaders were after me because they thought I'd run
away with their goods my mom was scared she grew up in the same neighborhood so
she knew how dangerous those gangs could be after exploring several options she
decided to dip into my brother's college funds my mom could never let my brother
know that she was using his college funds to repay a debt and save my life
he would have never ever allowed it instead she lied to him about having a
health emergency even though she had lied about her health my brother still
managed to throw a tantrum he left the house for a while and then returned
later refusing to speak to anyone when my mom handed me the money to pay back
the gangsters my best friend and I went over to the bank to deposit the money
and his brother's account his brother was someone we could trust so we had him
keep the money in a fixed deposit until I needed it I could not think of a
better way to punish my brother than what I did my brother cost my mom too
much heartache she was always spending lots of money time and energy trying to
get him out of one trouble or the other he assaulted and bullied many people
even my best friend and Me growing up my mom would explain away his behavior and
make excuses for him she never let him take responsibility for his crappy
Behavior she would say that the reason that he was hostile was because he
witnessed our birth dad being hostile towards her my mom never spoke with no
holds bars about all that my dad did to her but I suspect that he used to hit
her my brother was older and had a more formed memory of our birth dad than I
did my brother was very selfish and would never do anything for anyone other
than himself he had academic Excellence going on for him but other than that he
was is a complete jerk bag he would Mock and Bully anyone who he perceived this
week I was his first victim I was terrified of my brother because he got
angry very often and when he did he would punch me and grab my neck it was
never a pleasant sight even my mom would worry about leaving me at home with him
I was helpless and small because my brother was huge and had the muscular
physique of our birth dad he got away with hitting me too many times because
my mother hardly ever confronted him about his behavior she was almost as
scared of him as I was despite my brother's aggressive behavior he had
good grades in school and would represent the school and quiz and Essay
competitions he won most of them too I knew I had to stop my mom from pouring
all that money into my brother's education when my brother got a lot of
money from an essay competition he participated in we needed the money in
the family at the time my grandma house where we lived had a lot of things that
needed repairing and we barely had enough groceries my mom worked at a
Bookshop and her pay was barely enough for us my brother could have done
something for the family but he didn't he went to my birth dad who lived in the
same town as us but never bothered to be
an actual father to us my dad being just as selfish and inconsiderate as my
brother tricked my brother and took all of his money my mom warned my brother
but he didn't listen he even moved some of his stuff to live with my dad and his
new family my mom felt betrayed and cried about it for the whole week when
my brother returned she took him in but I knew that something had changed she no
longer prioritized him as she used to she also stopped making excuses for him
and left him to deal with the consequences of his behavior it was at
that time that he was suspended for a semester another gross misconduct and
had to repeat a grade my mom pretended that the whole episode episode of my dad
hadn't happened but I never forgot my brother had the chance to do something
for his family but he ran away to my birth dad who didn't care about us I
knew the best way to get back in my brother was to take up the college funds
and return them to my mother in the future that worked and as soon as my
brother started his journey in college and was able to work his way around
getting loans I had my best friend's brother return the money to me and I
gave it to my mother my Mom hardly had a solid retirement plan so it made sense
to let her use the money instead I know it was meant for a different purpose but
my brother didn't seem like a credible investment anyway he came about money
for a while and abandoned the family he'd always known thankfully my brother
is a brilliant kid and he found his way around the university on his own my mom
as usual tried to mask her happiness when I confessed what really happened to
her I know she was glad I helped her to save some money though she was also are
relieved that I was never part of any drug dealing gang my brother having to
navigate college with very little support from my mother helped develop
his character he stopped bullying people
and finally became more responsible with money although stealing somebody's
college funds is pretty cruel I'm glad that overall an OP situation it seems to
have worked out pretty darn well for them it seems like pretty much
everybody's in a pretty darn good place and can you really be too upset at the
actions taken if things worked out that well in the end it's nice to see that
their jerk of a brother had character development but with that being said
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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've
got a story of following a boss's very dumb orders but first make sure to hit
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videos our story of the days from scicar22 run the material that'll damage
the machine you're the boss this happened about 10 years ago i was
working as an industrial process engineer for a major company my duties
were varied in many some days i was an auditor of equipment condition others i
would try to unravel how waste or scrap was created still others i would be the
designated smart guy in the room to listen to plans the factory came up with
and give them an engineering seal of approval the most enjoyable things i did
were trials which were basically science experiments with industrial value for
example a trial might involve changing a chemical in the material following it
through the process and testing it at every point if it passed everything to
satisfaction we'd begin the process to make it a permanent process in the
material we would sell running trials was my favorite thing to do i wasn't a
manager but when i was running a trial i had give or take unquestioned authority
over the process and the people to run it as i saw fit i ran hundreds of them a
year and i was good at it one day i got called into a voice call between myself
about five engineers in a downstream department i didn't know very well and a
new corporate engineer that i'd never met i had a very good relationship with
my contacts at corporate we always had a good back and forth on how to improve
the process at the factory and they provided chemical experience i didn't
have or couldn't perform at the factory level this call however was different
there was no debate i was told in forceful terms that my product was not
sticky enough downstream for their purposes and we needed to make it more
sticky he outlined four different ways to make it stickier and the only choice
i would get to make would be one to try first i was pretty confused at all this
i told them that from my standpoint the material was already too sticky it was
difficult to process on my equipment without sticking to everything and
anytime it did we would get scrap or bad product which we'd sometimes send
downstream which created even more waste and scrap i was trying to work with my
corporate chemist to make it less sticky not more i also said that the material
would naturally lose stickiness over time on the first couple of days it was
a pretty sticky mess but after that it would be a good level we would guarantee
that it would be sticky enough to use for at least seven days which was
confirmed by audits after seven days it might not become sticky enough but we
made the material every two or three days if it was sitting around more than
seven days it was on their end they were
probably breaking policy somehow such as taking material out of the machine when
changing over but putting a fresh bunch of material in next time so they
wouldn't have to change a half batch and they could do less work this type of
problem wasn't a chemical problem it was a logistics and manning problem and
making the chemistry worse to solve it wasn't going to fix the bigger issues
but i was outnumbered like six to one on the call they all said that didn't
matter that they were the customer and their customer was telling them to fix a
problem and they expected me to do it i'd never been treated like that as a
company and i have to say i didn't appreciate it a few days later i got a
corporate trial scheduled for me though i used the term loosely it was an
amateur effort at best it didn't include standard vital information for example
it requested a sample but it didn't say how much how many or to whom to send it
this was vital to make sure those who had tested got enough to complete their
tests the company was big they had a dozen factories and maybe 50 plus trials
at those factories at all times so stuff
just couldn't show up at the lab and get handled properly there was also no
shipping information i didn't handle company money internally so corporate
would pre-pay shipping and send me the information so i could ship them samples
there were five or six other mistakes and emissions it was clearly a trial
that wasn't out of the planning stages i briefly told my boss all of this that
this trial wasn't good for our department that this wasn't where i was
going with the material chemically and that the trial was missing vital
information he sort of nodded and that was good enough for me so i did what i
very very rarely had to do i rejected the trial on behalf of the plant i'd
only had to do it a few times before and those were with corporate mutual
approval that we'd design a different better trial and the one i was rejecting
was a first draft this was the first and i believe last time i had to reject a
hostile trial that i was openly opposed to existing i was happily not
remembering the whole incident a few weeks later when i see the same trial
pop up for me again i'm irritated i go to my boss but this time this corporate
guy had contacted my boss to complain and my boss wants me to run it i remind
him of what i told him last time and he says to run it anyway i say i can't it's
not even ready and he tells me to work with the corporate engineer to get the
holes filled but we have to run the thing i should talk about this boss for
a moment during my three years at the company i had seven different bosses
some of them were very competent and i lost as a boss due to reorgs them
resigning or in one case one died due to
an unrelated condition other bosses were filler bosses someone i reported to
until the next candidate could be filled but this current boss was the worst of
the seven by a long shot he was someone who apparently had excelled at corporate
and they'd sent down to fill the engineering manager role in my apartment
we all disliked him he had no knowledge of our department whatsoever my entire
work was a write-off to him he was busy counting material we could ship so any
of the processing stuff i did upstream was far out of his interest despite
literally being in charge of it and me also instead of someone from our
department being promoted to this manager role they'd sent us a corporate
guy bad times i ignored him best i could only looping him in if i had to make
important decisions i could sometimes go weeks without talking to him and those
were fine weeks by me anyway i didn't reject the trial this time but i leave
it hanging at my approval i email the guy all of my concerns with the trial
and the questions he has to answer before i can run it i'm very
professional non-judgmental just saying what i need in order to run the trial no
response to that email of course a few days later my boss is livid he says this
corporate guy has been saying that our department is obstructionist rude and
negative and that i need to approve and run the trial now i remind them of all
the issues that would increase our scrap slow us down possibly damage equipment
to say nothing of the vague and incomplete trial requirements he doesn't
care i'm an engineer he pays me to figure this stuff out i need to get this
corporate guy his material he heavily implied my job was in danger over all
this so i say okay i approve the trial and we finally get to the malicious
compliance i ask a colleague to prepare the material for me he reports that it
was a nightmare and that he had to do it manually and even then he lost two
batches before the third was finally ready for me this alone would have been
caused to stop the trial remember that we're preparing industrial processes
here it doesn't matter if we can do it once we have to create a process that
will work every day for years so this type of failure means the material isn't
ready but not this time oh no we have to
get this guy his material and i have big
plans once i have the material i look to when to schedule the trial normally i'm
considerate of the manufacturing demands
scheduling my trials when we're ahead on
what's needed downstream not this time i
find what we have the lowest of and bump
it from the schedule putting my trial in the spot instead 100 a jerk move but
it's my job on the line at this point so
i'm taking no prisoners we start running the trial on my equipment it's sticking
to all the preparation areas it's a huge mess just as expected we have to keep
stopping the machine to scrape stuff free again this would have been another
failure condition we keep going we have some sensors that sort of float on the
material as it goes along but the material's too sticky it's grabbing and
twisting the sensors and bending their arms i can see some of the damage will
be permanent after this trial they'll have to have
some machine work done on them to fix them totally unacceptable but we press
on until one of them breaks off completely now i have metal plastic and
electronics in my material this isn't just a failed trial it's now a mockery
of what trials are there's no way we can use any of this material for any reason
but nope corporate needs material we have an area that ensures an even flow
of material but it's too sticky it's clumping up instead of flowing so the
material we're making is uneven very heavy at one side and with nearly none
of the other side at this point we're not even making bad material we're
making pure scrap i tell them to keep going through this process the machine
operators are getting vexed and call their area bosses and also engineering
and maintenance gets involved because of
the damage everyone's asking me what i'm doing i tell them that this is
authorized by my boss and that i have to run it and to direct all complaints to
him that's all i say every time just name drop my boss in the post processing
area the unevenness of the material combined with the stickiness of the
material is starting to pull on the rollers that straighten it out in weird
ways everyone's getting concerned we might have to do a whole realignment
which is a slow process that takes three or four days
i eventually relent and allow them to stop the trial nothing ever made it to
the end of the process normally we make around 2000 pounds of material in a run
we made zero not that it would have been
usable in any way the operators have the unenviable job of trying to get this
crap off the machine we were down for the rest of the day about five hours of
machine time to clean and fix and replace damaged sensors but i have more
work to do on my end i got various samples of this horrific mess some of
the heavy areas some of the light i found a piece of that sensor embedded in
there and get a sample of that too just frankly a ridiculous amount of material
it's too much to carry but i'm not worried i have an industrial vehicle to
drive around in these cases and i still have a plan i briefly entertain sending
some of these samples to our testing lab
that standard procedure during trials to test them at the plant level as much as
we can but if this is malicious compliance and i know it the lab
equipment is pretty sensitive if this sticky stuff pulls on it in the wrong
ways it could break the testing equipment and that would shut down the
whole factory i don't actually want that i'm pretty sure i'm making my point as
is but i keep a sample for myself just in case testing becomes a thing i need
to do later i take my two heavy samples to shipping i never got shipping
information but i did find the address of this guy's office in the building
he'll get this gigantically heavy package that he can't carry delivered to
his mail area and i don't have shipping paperwork but i do have the address of a
private van shipping company we used them in the past when the regular mail
was too slow when we were worried about a major defect and needed to get the
material to corporate asap it turned out to be a false alarm it costs much much
more than just shipping this normally but i have no other actual way to ship
it so i use the one tool i have available i'd been avoiding going back
to the office for a few hours and when i
do as expected my boss has been barraged by visitors and phone calls about what
went down i tell them of the difficulties in detail and as
unsarcastically as i can muster apologize for not risking a roll
alignment and having to stop the trial early i show him the horrible sample of
material i kept for myself he's still pretty mad but i give him one thing that
helps a lot because there was one important thing on that amateur trial
request since he couldn't create the request without one a billing account
number i give him the number and say the plant should charge it with anything
related to the trial not just the damages but any downtime due to lost
production from material shortages i estimate the total cost of the whole
venture was somewhere between twenty thousand dollars and thirty thousand but
it could be more i'm not sure how much downtime was directly caused by this i
did keep my job though so i guess that billing account helped ease the pain for
the factory maybe not on the corporate side but they did want their trial about
a week later i have my follow-up with the six people that confronted me in the
first place i tell them of the unmitigated disaster that was this trial
and my estimation of the damages this guy has the nuts to say something like
excellent work we've proven that we can move the needle on stickiness if we want
to i can't help but think i'm a chemist numb nuts moving the needle was never a
question he asks me which of the three remaining trials i want to do next i
tell them that i don't need to worry about the details and ask him to email
my boss and ask him which he thinks is best to which he thought was a wonderful
idea my boss never mentioned a follow-up trial and no corporate trials from that
guy were scheduled for me about two months later my boss resigned from the
company quietly and quickly he was clearly miserable in his role and i know
that this whole mess helped contribute to it what a cataclysmic failure from
this boss do you believe anybody in a situation like this that would come down
from a corporate level to involving with factories and chemicals and processes
that they've just never had any experience with that it would always end
in disaster or do you think that despite
coming from corporate some guys could be really good let me know what you guys
think in the comments down below but with that being said that's all the time
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a ITA for refusing to lend my brother money after he squandered his
inheritance here's the deal he refused to lend my brother money after he blew
through his entire inheritance in less than a year am I the here I'm
the more let's say financially responsible one in the family I've
always been about budgets savings and the whole nine yards my brother on the
other hand lives for the moment when our grandfather passed away he left us both
a significant amount of money I used mine to pay off my mortgage and invested
the rest for retirement my brother he went on a wild spending spree luxury
vacations a sports car you name it fast forward to last week my brother shows up
at my door looking like he's carrying the weight of the world on his shoulder
he's broke the inherit is gone poof just
like that and then comes the kicker he's asking me for a small loan to tide him
over he's family sure but here's the thing I've bailed him out before several
times actually and it always goes the same way he promises it's the last time
and then boom back to square one I told him I couldn't help this time I said it
was time for some tough love that he needed to learn to manage his finances
and deal with the consequences of his action he called me heartless said
family should always have each other's back Mom and Dad are on his side
claiming I'm being too harsh and that I should help him out just this once heard
that before so Reddit am I the here should I have just lent him the
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a woman is at her boyfriend's parents house for dinner this is her first time
meeting the family the woman is beginning to feel a little discomfort
thanks to her nervousness in the broccoli casserole the gas paines are
making her eyes water left with no other choice she decides to relieve herself a
bit and lets out a dainty fart it wasn't
loud but everyone at the table heard the poop before she even had a chance to be
embarrassed her boyfriend's father looked over at the cat that had been
snoozing at the woman's feet and said in a rather Stern voice bubbles the woman
thought this is great A couple of minutes later she was beginning to feel
the pain again this time she didn't even hesitate she let a much louder and
longer fart rip the father again looked at the cat and yelled damn it bubbles
once again the woman smiled and thought yes a few minutes later the woman had to
let another one rip this time she didn't even think about it she let rip a fart
that rivaled a train whistle blowing once again the father looked at the cat
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my wife will soon start cheating on me what should I do sorry this ended up
being long I married my wife for 4 years
she recently had a career change and was accepted into the local firefighter
Academy she has been in school for about
2 months my wife is extremely gregarious and also very bro meaning she can well
hold her own with typical guy topics like football UFC Fitness Etc and loves
the culture of sarcasm and sht talking she has always been immediately accepted
into guy friend groups and frankly she has loved having dozens of new best
friends most of whom are dudes her 30th birthday is coming up in early September
so I decided I wanted to throw her a big surprise party the majority will be
friends we already have but I wanted to invite at least a few of her firefighter
classmates I've barely met any of them so I decided to Snoop on her phone to
one get a good idea of who she's closest with and two steal their contact
information to secretly invite them since starting the academy she's been
texting on her phone more frequently which I thought was normal considering
the dozens of new people in her life and how social she is well at least for the
past week or so a majority of her texts have been going to just one individual
we call him D the wife and D appear to text each other very frequently they
aren't allowed phones during school hours but as soon as it's after hours
the texting starts up all the way until they go to bed while most of the texting
is just friendly with inside jokes de has very clearly been flirting with wife
and wanting to spend more time in person with her wife thankfully has not yet
reciprocated in the flirting instead acting dumb as if she's oblivious and
they're just good friends some of the more egregious exchanges just from the
past week one de asked wife to rate her looks she said 6 out of 10 maybe a 6.5
he jokes that maybe only if she was rating her left side and that she's
selling herself short and that she's at least an8 out of 10 two at a group study
session recently apparently wife acted as a pillow to D while the group ended
the night watching a movie they texted about being affectionate people and
enjoying being touched three he texted her at 2: a.m. one night saying hello
apparently he couldn't sleep and decided to text someone's wife four part of the
academy Fitness portion is something similar to jiujitsu Rolling or wrestling
the wife has a lot of experience with this they joke about practicing this
outside school with him making comments about seeing who can hold the other down
also some comments about being forced to share secrets specifically through
tickling each other or in his specific words getting her to Spill the juice
five he said she makes a cute face when she crinkles her nose but then said he
feels weird saying that why I thought you might possibly construe it as weird
since you're married the wife responds okay we're friends and Friends use cute
all the time well this coming say they're planning to hang out and study
some together and it seems like d very well might make a move here's their
exchange word for word d let's do Saturday for sure then little bit of
studying most likely a movie some tussles and whatever else may happen
wife study and movie sound good tussling is a given with how much sht you talk
what else would happen D listening to music and being pillows again just a
blanket statement for anything D also don't forget to bring comfy clothes if
you want to shower before or don't bring
clothes and wear something Nifty of mine haha and that leads us to now I have no
idea what to do I deeply love my wife and I'm absolutely shocked to discover
this I don't expect her to make moves on D but I honestly don't know how she'll
respond to him making a move on her knowing her she genuinely believes
they're just friends but I'm sure subconsciously she is enjoying the
attention I'm tempted to call her out now and put a stop to it early but I
guarantee she'll claim ignorance and say I'm paranoid and maybe even controlling
if I wait and let things happen I obviously risk being cheated on but the
reward is having much stronger evidence and being able to end things immediately
what's the best way to proceed here update warning this got long too
complicated for a tldr Thursday night I couldn't sleep with everything on my
mind so I decided to get up at 1:00 a.m. and check her text to see the updates
from that day I've been doing this by checking IM messages through her laptop
once she left for work in the morning well the exchanges with d managed to get
significantly worse he made a not the only thing that's hard joke somehow this
turned into him admitting he gets a natural response when they hug or
wrestle he subtly jokes about the length of his D and how he's only gotten
partially erect D even though it's not little it still didn't have much effect
this was a bit delayed and out of context leading her to question what he
was talking about D I guess you'll never know maybe sat day until then you're
going to have to figure out the puzzle yourself wow satar really is on I'm
crushed wife if it isn't little should I have noticed you having a natural
reaction L well I think she solved the puzzle showering gets brought up again
they joke about how showering is better when properly accompanied she says I
mean you can definitely get some other things done well that was it I simply
couldn't take it anymore I went back to the bedroom room turned the lights on
and abruptly woke her up we need to talk right now we sat down and I told her I
had been reading her text with te and how this was strictly emotional
infidelity soon turning into physical infidelity I let her know I had already
been in contact with a divorce lawyer and may or may not be meeting with him
this week depending on how this plays out she seemed genuinely shocked by all
this so much so that she started crying and having a panic attack
hyperventilating and even running to go throw up in the bathroom no she was not
putting on a show we talked for a bit she never tried denying my feelings
attacking me or pretending she's the victim somehow it took a lot of
questioning to figure out why I believed all this I told her my first demand was
to have zero contact with d unless absolutely needed for some reason during
Academy hours I had drafted up a text earlier to suggest to her she made some
mild edits and sent it off right there she also blocked his number in front of
me D has not attempted contact in any way as best I can tell while we weren't
at all fixed yet we were better enough to at least pause things and go back to
bed she was also notably fatigued and crippled from everything so I knew we
wouldn't progress until we both could breathe some on Friday we barely saw
each other our work hours were nearly opposite and I told her I was going solo
to a friend's party that night to cool off some and be a little distracted from
it all she stayed home with the dog all night we have cameras yes she did on
Saturday morning we had a very long but calm talk she seemed sincere believing
that in the moment every exchange felt platonic and light-hearted like bro talk
we went through all the texts and I think seeing them brought together
finally started hitting her just how obvious his flirting was and how she was
clearly greenlighting every further Advance she feels absolutely terrible
for letting this happen and she also feels remarkably stupid for not seeing
any of it she agrees that she was likely
putting herself in a position for him to try and physically Advance things next
time they hung out claims it would have come as a complete surprise and would
have shut him down I think at this point it's it's mandatory that I give some
major context on my wife my wife is the youngest of four with two older brothers
and one older sister her brothers were both College athletes they loved hazing
their youngest sister and she grew up loving that Dynamic back likewise her
father is a very traditional masculine man he loved his daughters but he
definitely understood Boys best her older sister was always the pretty and
skinny one often being be to her younger sister and using frequent off-hand
comments to hurt her self-esteem when she was growing up this LED my wife to
basically grow up thinking her identity was the really smart but chubby and ugly
sibling she focused on Sports being social and absolutely killing it
academically she went to a very challenging high school and prided
herself on taking as many AP classes as possible in college she joined a
sorority entirely for the friendships and social activities she disliked when
they had to dress up wear heels and do other girly things her favorite events
were always the crossover events with the frats doing more generically fun
group activities like food fights competitions Drinking Games Etc if it
weren't for being female I think she would have honestly preferred joining a
fraternity instead she had a boyfriend in high school but for the most part I'm
the only major relationship she's ever had she did not grow up being flirted
with in college she had guy friends but they all knew and respected me as her
boyfriend and interactions with my wife that could be considered flirty were
very clearly platonic there was one time I saw my wife dancing with a guy friend
at a party and I had to tell her to cut it out she apologized and said she
didn't see it that way but has never done it since fast forward to now my
wife has lost significant weight she works out and definitely has an athletic
yet feminine physique she takes care of her skin and actually wears makeup now
despite all this she still has incredibly low self-esteem likewise her
two previous jobs were very female dominated meaning she hasn't had a
chance to be around fun men close to her age since basically College knowing all
this and knowing my wife for about 11 years now now my gut says she's
completely telling the truth I have no reason to think she's lying she's never
lied to me or even tried no it's not that I just haven't caught her lying is
just not a part of who she is reading her texts again she never actively
flirted with him all of her responses feel like playing dumb and being koi to
his advances but frankly I believe they were her literally being dumb when she
responded something like and what else would happen her brain literally meant
okay cool what else would happen when talking about his bones she literally
responded I'm a biology major natural reactions don't make me uncomfortable
I'm sure plenty of you reading this think I'm a complete idiotic chump
falling for this I get it I really do outside looking in I would be thinking
the exact same bro he literally told her
that he gets erections when they hug and joke that she'll find out how big it is
on Saturday what yep she's literally that idiotic when it comes to male
female interactions oh come on man no woman is that you're being
played open your eyes I get it and I see
it but I know my wife better than anyone
and I believe she's telling the absolute truth regardless assuming she's being
entirely truthful I definitely have a massive task in changing how she
perceives these kinds of exchanges preventing them entirely is the easiest
way we're establishing some rules and doing plenty of other things to help
move forward we'll be returning to coup's therapy and reading not just
friends together among other things for the most part we're in an infinitely
better spot than we were late Thursday calm discussion going out for a nice
dinner and lots of dirty makeup SX have put us in a pretty good spot All Things
Considered I will leave you doubting this I can't help but think her actions
were approved of on a subconscious level to some extent I've been reflecting on
where I may be lacking in being the best
man and husband I can possibly be we are planning some changes there too I wish
all the best to those who followed along and offered me advice thanks everyone
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:00.190 --> :02.770 Not my story but one I am very familiar with.
:02.770 --> :04.840 Was guided to post here from pro revenge.
:04.840 --> :05.840 Tldr at bottom. :05.840 --> :07.680
My town in England is rough, very rough. :07.680 --> :11.830
There's a man that passes through every now
and again who is, to put it bluntly, a psychopath. :11.830 --> :14.559
His name's Fergal and he's a gypsy (moves
around a lot and dissapears into gypsy community) :14.559 --> :17.320
and if you even look at him wrong, he might stab you.
:17.320 --> :18.900 Seriously, he has killed people.
:18.900 --> :22.990 He has a lot of friends in town (drug dealers,
felons, selling guns) :22.990 --> :27.850
I used to work in a shop that was owned by
a drug dealer and Fergal always came in when :27.850 --> :29.730
he was in town for a cup of tea. :29.730 --> :32.680
He liked me and always called me butterfly for some weird reason.
:32.680 --> :39.030 My boss came in the shop one day and said
that a well know scruff (he'd sell his own :39.030 --> :44.309
mother and rob the dead) who we'll call Tez,
had stolen Fergals chain that had his beloved, :44.309 --> :45.559
deceased Grandmother's ring on. :45.559 --> :46.559 Fergal was fuming.
:46.559 --> :51.280 Fergal was coming back to town at his earliest
convenience, but before he could Tez was arrested :51.280 --> :54.980
for trying to rob the corner shop with a rolling pin.
:54.980 --> :00.199 Fergal wasn't having that, he had told everyone
that he was going to kill him because there :00.199 --> :02.809
was no way to get the ring back. :02.809 --> :08.200
Fergal did what any sane person would do,
he seriously assaulted someone to get arrested. :08.200 --> :12.390
He made sure it was on camera and stayed until the police got there.
:12.390 --> :15.710 He was arrested and put put in the same prison
as Tez. :15.710 --> :20.150
Fergal managed to stab Tez in the legs, but told him that he wasn't finished.
:20.150 --> :25.670 That he'd beat him so badly that he'll think
he's going to kill him, but he won't. :25.670 --> :28.140
He will sometime, definetly, but he'll never know when.
:28.140 --> :31.040 This was 3 years ago and both are out.
:31.040 --> :33.930 Tez has been beaten twice and he's moved town.
:33.930 --> :36.730 Fergal knows where he lives and makes sure
that Tez knows. :36.730 --> :40.180
Tez's brother said that he's terrified of
Fergal and that he's scared of going out. :40.180 --> :44.820
Tez is a horrible person, he stole his mother's
bank card and put her in debt with drugs, :44.820 --> :50.120
beat his pregnant girlfriend and he left a
1 year old in the bath alone, she barely survived :50.120 --> :52.060
and has damage to her brain due to lack of oxygen. :52.060 --> :55.910
Tldr Steal of a pshychotic gypsy, he'll follow
you to prison, hurt you, threaten to hurt :55.910 --> :59.180
you whenever he wants, and one day that will end in your death.
:59.180 --> :00.310 But you won't know when.
:00.310 --> :01.310 Everyday living in fear.
:01.310 --> :05.570 Some back story When I was about 11 or 12
I started get hobbies which included rock :05.570 --> :10.179
collecting and ant farming( important later)
I also started babysitting my brother at the :10.179 --> :11.179 time
:11.179 --> :13.520 So it was a normal Saturday that consisted
of me babysitting my little brother Taking :13.520 --> :14.520
care of my ants. :14.520 --> :18.010
I was let my brother play on my PS3 until
the doorbell rang I opened it and saw these :18.010 --> :20.480
annoying little kids that always asked if
I could play but every time I would say no. :20.480 --> :24.810
Normally they would just leave but this time
they just sat there and just kept on ringing :24.810 --> :28.480
the doorbell it went on for about 10 minutes
until it stopped I thought it was over until :28.480 --> :32.870
I heard them start giggling then they started
THROWING ROCKS at my house they even cracked :32.870 --> :36.930
one of the windows I opened the door and they
just knew it wasn't going to be good. :36.930 --> :39.480
Also at the time, I was probably about 5' 9" so I was kinda scary.
:39.480 --> :43.420 I walked outside and told them to go home
or I'll call the police. :43.420 --> :48.530
Fast forward about 2 weeks and it happened
3 more times at this point I was done playing :48.530 --> :49.530
around. :49.530 --> :53.740
I knew they were gonna do it again so at the
side of my house where they were getting the :53.740 --> :57.800
rocks I had "accidentally" spilled my fire
ant geranium with probably about 1500 to 2000 :57.800 --> :59.490
fire ants on the rocks. :59.490 --> :03.330
So the next day comes around and the little
brats were ringing my doorbell and I could :03.330 --> :07.970
almost taste it sweet sweet revenge after
the ring stopped I heard the thuds of the :07.970 --> :13.370
rocks hitting my house all the sudden it stopped
and I could hear them start to cry I looked :13.370 --> :15.280
out the window and the little boy was sitting right on the rocks.
:15.280 --> :16.450 They all ran home. :16.450 --> :17.910
Oh but it's not over. :17.910 --> :22.660
Their mom came out of the house and over to
mine I put on my saddest face and told the :22.660 --> :28.370
mom " they broke my ant farm " after that
the mom gave me 10 dollars and I never saw :28.370 --> :29.370
them again :29.370 --> :32.320
I'm almost starting to feel bad but they shouldn't have messed with my rocks
:32.320 --> :36.420 a few weeks later they started doing things
like taking toys from my back yard, ringing :36.420 --> :38.120
our doorbell, and stealing our rocks. :38.120 --> :43.220
I told their parents but they just kept on
doing it even after the fire ants and this :43.220 --> :45.630
time I was sooooooo mad I didn't hold back. :45.630 --> :50.020
I took one of my book bags and filled it with
legos balls dolls etc. but that wasn't it :50.020 --> :56.140
I had one of my subterranean termite farms
and emptied it into the bag I gently put my :56.140 --> :58.000
book bag in the grass and waited. :58.000 --> :01.470
I went to feed my brother lunch and when I came back it was gone
:01.470 --> :07.540 fast forward a couple of months and their
house was on quarantine for the bug infestation :07.540 --> :13.590
karma is a bench( i also wasted almost 500
dollars worth of bugs) Not sure if this belongs :13.590 --> :17.870
here, however I must let you know that this
story was handed down from my Grandfather :17.870 --> :19.900
a few months before he died in 2006. :19.900 --> :23.760
In the 1960's my Grandfather was working for
PanAm, and was sent to Dominican Republic :23.760 --> :28.229
(I can't remember if it was DR or Puerto Rico... but I'm more sure of DR.)
:28.229 --> :32.460 The local community of PanAm employees had
what equated to "Corporate housing" in a community :32.460 --> :33.460
near the Airport. :33.460 --> :39.590
My Grandfather would fly between DR, and NYC
on a regular, and on this particular day he :39.590 --> :42.770
was supposed to get back at 1 in the Morning. :42.770 --> :47.860
Over the prior 3-4 weeks, there had been some
break ins in the PanAm community housing, :47.860 --> :52.000
where the "Housewives" were getting raped,
and any valuables stolen from their homes. :52.000 --> :56.690
My Grandmother being the cool that she was,
and having 3 young children in the house, :56.690 --> :58.750
refused to be a victim. :58.750 --> :05.840
She saw a pattern in the break ins, and determined
that her house would be next, but if you heard :05.840 --> :08.160
my Grandfather tell the story she "Had a gut feeling that night".
:08.160 --> :13.280 My Grandmother put my father and my uncles
to sleep, earlier than usual that night, and :13.280 --> :16.310
then proceeded to pull out the shot gun, and wait. :16.310 --> :20.310
According to my Grandfather, she waited with
the lights off in the house, sitting on a :20.310 --> :24.000
stool about 5-6 feet in from the front door, holding a double barrel shotgun.
:24.000 --> :29.430 after a couple hours, she heard someone messing
with the front door locks, so she promptly :29.430 --> :34.880
got ready, because if it had been my Grandfather she would have heard keys.
:34.880 --> :40.680 The would be rapist knocked down the door,
to see a little lady pointing a double barrel :40.680 --> :42.050
shotgun right at him. :42.050 --> :47.030
Now, I would like to say before this next
part, that I never knew that my Grandmother :47.030 --> :52.280
was this much of a cool, until I heard this
story, but she was always a tough cookie. :52.280 --> :56.590
as soon as the guy raised his hands, she pulled
both triggers and two shells of shotgun pellets :56.590 --> :57.690
destroyed this human being. :57.690 --> :01.180
My Grandmother, then proceeded to put a call
into the airport to inform my Grandfather :01.180 --> :03.730
as soon as he got in, to hurry home, that there was a family emergency.
:03.730 --> :08.320 This being a foreign country, and my Grandmother
not knowing how the local police would react. :08.320 --> :14.130
My Grandfather got home as soon as he landed,
and got the news, to see the body laying by :14.130 --> :18.570
the front door, and my Grandmother in the throws of cleaning up the blood.
:18.570 --> :24.530 My Grandfather without a word, just went a
couple houses down to a few people who he :24.530 --> :25.940
trusted, and enlisted their help. :25.940 --> :30.820
They promptly tied the body by a rope to the
back of their pickup, and started driving. :30.820 --> :37.169
He said they spent hours dragging this body
through the mountain roads, until there wasn't :37.169 --> :39.800
any of the body left. :39.800 --> :45.009
Grinding it away using the road. by the time
he got home at 7 in the morning, my Grandmother :45.009 --> :46.960
had cleaned the blood, and fixed the front door. :46.960 --> :49.990
They never told the local government, and went on with their lives.
:49.990 --> :54.180 Now I am not sure about this story being true,
however, it was one of the last stories my :54.180 --> :55.810
grandfather told me before he died. :55.810 --> :59.580
My Father once told me that he remembered
hearing the commotion, but never investigated, :59.580 --> :04.889
because he didn't want to get in trouble for
being out of bed... he was 5-6 years old at :04.889 --> :05.889
the time. :05.889 --> :09.900
I wish there was a way to confirm this story,
however all parties involved are no longer :09.900 --> :10.900 alive.
:10.900 --> :11.900 **Update** :11.900 --> :16.520
So I got a hold of my Grandfather's brother
who is now in his 90's, and who lives in England, :16.520 --> :17.520
he said that the story was true. :17.520 --> :23.550
He said that he knew it was because my Grandpa's
PanAm friends that were there, told him, before :23.550 --> :24.550
Grandpa did. :24.550 --> :29.139
I'm actually sitting here amazed that that
my Grandma, who was this sweet old nurse, :29.139 --> :32.639
who when I was a child, seemed like she couldn't
hurt a fly, was actually tough as nails, and :32.639 --> :33.639
did that. :33.639 --> :37.940
I have been trying to get a hold of any others
who were around in the family, and I am going :37.940 --> :42.789
down the rabbit hole of reaching out to any
PanAm employees who were stationed in DR or :42.789 --> :46.520
Puerto Rico in the early 1960's who would remember this event.
:46.520 --> :47.870 not everyone would understand.
:47.870 --> :54.160 CQ: Its a duty in the Army you have to do
where you got to stay up for 24 hours. :54.160 --> :56.040
It sucks, but everyone does it. :56.040 --> :59.440
JAG: Its the legal office on base, lawyers for the military.
:59.440 --> :00.440 Private a rank :00.440 --> :02.759
Specialist: One rank higher then a private :02.759 --> :05.740
NCO: Non commissioned officer, basically my first line supervisor
:05.740 --> :10.380 Please note this story occurred after DADT
was repealed, so that wasn't the issue. :10.380 --> :17.030
When I was in the Army I became friends with
a guy by the name of Scott, he very flamboyant, :17.030 --> :18.509
and loud and loved to talk. :18.509 --> :19.870
He was also my roommate. :19.870 --> :21.220
We became very good friends. :21.220 --> :25.430
I work 25b (Computers) and he worked as a paralegal at the JAG office on base.
:25.430 --> :29.030 As a result of his position he knew confidential
legal matters of service members. :29.030 --> :35.250
Some of the stuff he knew was quite serious,
we are talking sexual assault, theft, forgery, :35.250 --> :36.250
divorce, etc. :36.250 --> :39.649
Naturally he's supposed to keep this information
confidential about what he knows. :39.649 --> :40.670 But he didn't.
:40.670 --> :44.410 He would tell me all kinds of stories about
different people and their respective legal :44.410 --> :45.410
issues. :45.410 --> :48.550 On several occasions I would tell him "You
shouldn't be telling me stuff like this, its :48.550 --> :49.760
supposed to be confidential right?" :49.760 --> :53.649
I wasn't sure on the rules, but I'm sure he knew he shouldn't be telling me.
:53.649 --> :56.840 Never the less he did tell me, a lot of stories
about alot of different people. :56.840 --> :02.600
Whatever he was my friend, he was also great
to have around as he helped pick up women, :02.600 --> :04.520
he was like my gay wingman. :04.520 --> :06.120
It was good for awhile. :06.120 --> :13.280
Well one day I had a date, and I asked Scott to cover for my CQ.
:13.280 --> :20.870 I told him I'd pay him $100 if he did my CQ
and he said "Sure" so he did my CQ, I paid :20.870 --> :21.870 him.
:21.870 --> :27.790 This started a deal between us, whenever we
had CQ if we didn't want to do it we'd pay :27.790 --> :29.410
each other to do it. :29.410 --> :34.260
Its actually pretty common practice in the
Army . We did this back and forth several :34.260 --> :35.260 times.
:35.260 --> :39.540 Each time we would negotiate a price, and
it became pretty common to just pay each other :39.540 --> :40.540
back on payday. :40.540 --> :46.529
Heck I remember one time I covered for him
and said I'd pay him $100 and he agreed and :46.529 --> :47.529 did.
:47.529 --> :52.460 And in that same period he asked me to cover
for him and he'd pay me $100 and we'd call :52.460 --> :53.460
it even. :53.460 --> :58.830 Well a few days before a 4 day week Scott
came up to me and said he wanted me to cover :58.830 --> :00.810
him for CQ on that Friday. :00.810 --> :07.029
I had plans, and didn't really want to do
CQ that Friday but he told me he had a date :07.029 --> :08.880
and really wanted to go on his date. :08.880 --> :12.130
I told him it'd cost him extra. :12.130 --> :17.020
We ended up agreeing to $250 for me to cover for him.
:17.020 --> :19.260 So I cover for him, and the payday comes around.
:19.260 --> :22.519 I ask Scott for my money and he says he'll pay me.
:22.519 --> :27.130 I'm going cut this story short, 3 payday goes
by and he still hasn't paid me. :27.130 --> :33.910
I confront him on a payday and say "Look you
owe me $250, pay me half now and half on next :33.910 --> :39.860
payday" and he has the balls to ask me to
just forgive him for the debt he owes me. :39.860 --> :47.420
Keep in mind I'm a PFC at the time, I was
making like $1,600~ a month $250 is a good :47.420 --> :49.110
chunk of money to me. :49.110 --> :57.300
I tell him in no uncertain terms will I be
forgiving this debt, he owes me $250 and I :57.300 --> :58.300
want my $250. :58.300 --> :00.279
Another payday comes around, I confront him again. :00.279 --> :03.050
He laughs and says "dude I'm not going pay you" :03.050 --> :06.260
Now keep in mind this was at breakfast, and I'm ticked.
:06.260 --> :10.411 I get to my office and I come up with idea.
:10.411 --> :14.890 I talk to my NCO and tell him I need to go
speak to JAG. :14.890 --> :18.160
My NCO tells me to call JAG get an appointment and go.
:18.160 --> :24.170 So I call up JAG and ask to speak to the Major
there who knew me. :24.170 --> :33.450
I told him I had some information regrading
one of his paralegals that he should be aware :33.450 --> :41.960
of and I'd like to come speak to him. :41.960 --> :43.000
He agrees, and tells me a time. :43.000 --> :49.060
I head over there that afternoon, walk into
legal and there is Scott, he greets me, I :49.060 --> :50.779
smirk and don't say anything. :50.779 --> :55.770
A minute or so later the Major comes out and calls me into his office.
:55.770 --> :02.459 I look over at Scott (who had just been promoted
to Specialist) and smile...I think Scott knew :02.459 --> :04.680
what I was there for. :04.680 --> :14.649
I sit down with the Major and I tell him that
SPC Scott has been telling me stories about :14.649 --> :20.480
the various legal issues of different service
members and I felt that it was inappropriate :20.480 --> :32.390
for him to be sharing that and that JAG should know
:32.390 --> :33.670 about it. :33.670 --> :50.050
The Major is a bit shocked, he asks me to
tell him about a story to prove that I'm not :50.050 --> :54.490
blowing smoke up his butt. :54.490 --> :07.190
So I proceed to tell him about a story involving a service member whose been
:07.190 --> :09.600 charged with both sexual assault, and shoplifting.
:09.600 --> :21.620 I even go so far as to explain what course
of action they intend on taking with this :21.620 --> :22.620
service member. :22.620 --> :25.310
You can see and feel the rage building inside of this Major.
:25.310 --> :33.769 I obviously knew stuff that I had no right
knowing, and its all because one of his paralegals :33.769 --> :37.160
that he's responsible for is blabbing to me. :37.160 --> :40.050
Of course this all remained professional. :40.050 --> :43.980
He then asked me to list off any other cases I'm aware of.
:43.980 --> :01.310 I told him SPC Scott has told me a lot of
stories, involving a lot of people but I listed :01.310 --> :04.320
off the ones I knew. :04.320 --> :09.610
I even made sure to mention "There's a really
good chance I'm not even remembering them :09.610 --> :12.980
all" this did not sit well with the Major at all. :12.980 --> :22.899
The Major thanked me for my time, we shared
contact information and he walked me out of :22.899 --> :32.550
his office, I was smiling ear to ear because
I knew exactly what was about to happen. :32.550 --> :48.029
As I'm walking out of the Majors office SPC
Scott sees me and the fear of death is on :48.029 --> :49.360
his face. :49.360 --> :58.570
And the Major thanks me for my time and off
I go, as I'm walking out I hear the Major :58.570 --> :01.670
say "SPC Scott, please come to my office" :01.670 --> :06.140
I didn't see or speak to Scott after this
meeting but about 2 weeks later I saw him :06.140 --> :10.279
on base, he didn't have his SPC rank on anymore, in fact he was a fuzzy!
:10.279 --> :11.450 (E1, lowest rank possible).
:11.450 --> :19.760 I then saw him again about 6 weeks later and
he seemed even more down sporting that lovely :19.760 --> :26.060
fuzzy rank and I decided to ask him "Hey man whats up?"
:26.060 --> :49.310 He looks at me and says "They are kicking
me out of the Army"...I didn't need to ask :49.310 --> :56.199
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mom invited my sister to my wedding behind my back she gave a speech about a
nasty High School incident so my husband
kicked her out now my mom is siding with the sister I 27f got married to my
boyfriend of 7 years Aaron 27m 4 days back the wedding was great except for
one part which was ruined by my mom 52f and my estranged sister Monica 25f she
had to be kicked out by Aaron after this speech that she made and my mother is
going crazy about it because she thinks that Aaron was somehow in the wrong here
so for context Monica and I haven't spoken in almost 4 years because of an
incident that took place at a Thanksgiving dinner that my parents were
hosting she'd been hitting on and subtly trying to flirt with Aaron throughout
the evening but I had somehow ignored it
because I didn't want to ruin my parents Thanksgiving dinner but then after
dinner was done with and we were all just sitting around and chatting Aaron
came to me and told me that Monica was trying to come on to him and it was
making him really uncomfortable I lost my cool and confronted her in the living
room where everybody was sitting and it turned into a huge thing she told me
that it was all right because if Aaron had a problem with with it then he would
have told her which he didn't but that was just because he was a generally
quiet person and didn't like confrontations which is why he'd
approached me to deal with the situation
then she said that Aaron deserves better and that's why she was hitting on him
because he should know what he deserves and not settle for me my dad had to
intervene and tell her that it was enough so she got really annoyed and
left we hadn't seen or met each other since that day which was a relief
because Monica and I didn't really get along anyway ever since we were kids
she'd always been fiercely competitive and even though I was older than her she
always tried to make me seem like the less competent and capable one she was
already my mother's favorite but I guess she wanted to be my dad's favorite as
well and couldn't stand the fact that he
treated us both equally our relationship got even worse when both of us were in
high school and by the time we graduated
college we were barely on speaking terms we would meet on the holidays and would
ignore each other there but after that one incident I decided that I wasn't
going to be attending any events that she would be there at so I would ask my
dad if she would be attending and if she
was then I wouldn't go and if she wasn't then I would it was the perfect system
and it helped that my dad respected my boundaries unlike my mother who always
insisted that we patch things up despite how uncomfortable Aaron felt around her
judging by that I guess it's no surprise that she invited Monica to my wedding
without even Consulting with me first I was pretty shocked when Monica showed up
and after the ceremony was over I instantly confronted my mother about it
and she told me that Monica was the one who suggested it duh of course she did
when she heard that I was getting married so my mother thought that it
would be a good idea to invite her and we could finally patch things up and get
along as sisters I told her that it was a terrible idea and I wanted her to
leave but my mother said that nothing bad could come out of this which she was
really wrong about while we were talking Monica grabbed a mic and started off
with her speech I froze in my spot because I knew that she certainly wasn't
going to say good things about me it started off normally enough where she
made a toast to the new bride and groom and then she started talking about this
one incident from high school which she'd always held a grudge against me
for so in high school when I was a senior and she was in her sophomore year
there had been this guy in my grade Chris was pretty much everybody's Crush
but he and I were just really great friends in of course that led to a lot
of people getting really mad at me for no reason I knew Chris because he and I
were in middle school together but then he'd left for like 2 years because his
dad had moved out of state and now he was finally back and a lot more
attractive than he used to be I never thought of him as anything more than a
friend and neither did he but in spite of that people seemed to hate me but
nobody hated me as much as Monica seemed
to I knew that she had a thing for Chris and couldn't stand the fact that he was
so close to me so she went crazy and decided to sabotage our friendship by
spreading a rumor that apparently he and
I were secretly dating and had even been bragging about it to her at home that
wasn't the case in both Chris and I were
aware of it we also knew that this rumor was my sister's doing so instead of
giving into her strategy to ruin our friendship we decided to go along with
it and started holding hands while strolling in the hallways and pretending
that we were together just so that Monica would feel jealous we would even
make a whole show out of it whenever she and her friends would walk past us and
the anger on her face is what we got a kick out of it got to a point where
everybody was in on the joke and the plan had totally backfired because now
people were making fun of Monica for spreading such insane rumors about us
and high school kids can be pretty nasty when they want to be so one day when
some kid was making fun of her for lying she decided that she was going to
confront me in the cafeteria and give everyone a show that didn't turn out too
well for her because as soon as she approached me Chris came to my defense
and told her off he told her that she had no right to come to me and berate me
for anything because she was the one who'd started that stupid rumor just so
we'd stop being friends he called her crazy insecure and jealous and Monica
got so mad that she started cursing at him the language that she used was so
terrible that Chris actually had to walk away because the words that she was
using were actually so filthy I couldn't stand it either and I told her to shut
up but she just went on swearing at us so In the Heat of the Moment I grabbed
her by the hair and slapped her it wasn't my proudest moment and both of us
ended up getting in trouble for it but to this day she holds me responsible for
ruining the next couple of years for her in high school because everybody just
remembered her due to that one incident I graduated but she still had to spend
the next two years in high school with the same people who had witnessed her
first getting told off by the hottest guy in her senior year and then getting
slapped by her own old her sister in front of everybody it can't have been
easy for her but she brought it on herself and I didn't think that it was
my fault at all but she narrated that entire incident in a way that made her
seem like the victim and I came off pretty badly in her version of the story
and then in Her speech she started telling everyone how i' not only ruined
school for her but I'd apparently also ruined her relationship with our father
because now my dad would barely even speak to her but she didn't even mention
the incident that made him stop talking to her so Aaron finally got up from his
seat grabbed the mic and took it away from her then he caught her by the arm
and started dragging her away towards the door and my mother tried to stop it
I just stood there rooted to the spot because I couldn't believe that this was
all happening at my wedding there was a bit of a fuss at the exit as my
bridesmaids tried to push her out but Monica and my mother fought with them
eventually both my mother and Monica ended up leaving the venue and I was so
upset that I walked away and hid in the restroom I didn't even come out until
Aaron came to me and reassured me that everything would be fine and that all
the guests would judge Monica and my mother not me it didn't make me feel any
better but I knew that Aaron my father and every body else was counting on me
to stay strong so the event didn't end on a bad note so I went back out there
and tried to put on a brave face so everybody else could forget about this
after the thing was over and everybody went back home I talked to my dad about
this and he told me that he was going to
talk to my mother and make her apologize to me I told him that that wouldn't be
necessary because I didn't care if she apologized or not and he seemed to
understand what I meant it's been a few days since and my mother contacted me
the day before yesterday and told me that I needed to leave my husband
because apparently he was the crazy one here she called me up a few few days ago
and I picked up the call because I assumed that she was going to apologize
to me and I had a lot of things that I wanted to say to her but as soon as I
picked up I regretted it because she wasn't apologizing she just wanted to
tell me that she believed that Aaron was
crazy and that I needed to leave him and
get the marriage in all dayap her reason was that he'd physically tried to drag
Monica away and if he could put his hands on a woman that had nothing to do
with him then he wouldn't hesitate in doing the same to me I thought that it
was a bit of a stretch to compare Monica to me because I hadn't tried to hit on
someone and make someone uncomfortable and then started playing the blame game
and pretending to be be the victim that was all Monica and Aaron wasn't going to
let her ruin our wedding by making it all about herself which is why he tried
to drag her away and even in doing so he'd been pretty respectful of her what
Monica had said was unforgivable and I told my mother that she should be glad
that I didn't go up to her and slap her like I had all those years ago in the
cafeteria my mother started yelling at me and told me that both of us were the
same and that Aaron and I needed help if we believe that violence was the answer
to everything she said that she knew that Monica was wrong for giving that
speech and that she'd realized that she probably shouldn't have invited her
without asking me first but in isted that both my husband and I were wrong
for supporting physical violence and Monica could even sue him if she wanted
to but she wasn't out of the goodness of her heart because she didn't want to
create more trouble for us than she already had my mother thinks that we
need to apologize but I don't understand if we should or not to be honest this
post is more on my husband's behalf than for me is my husband ta for physically
dragging my estranged sister away from the mic and kicking her out of the venue
after she delivered a nasty speech about
me at our wedding update one it's been a
week since I posted here and most of the comments agree that my husband went a
little tooo far in manhandling her so we've decided that we're going to
apologize to her for just that but nothing else Aaron has already crafted
an apology letter that he's going to send to her personally and I'm just
hoping that this comes to an end soon my mother's really been after me trying to
convince me to apologize to Monica for what happened at the wedding she hasn't
apologized to us yet and neither do I hope for or expect one because she
probably doesn't even think that she did anything wrong and her apology means
nothing to me anyway I just want my husband to apologize so our conscience
remains clear and after that if she wants to then she apologize to us as
well and even if she doesn't I'm okay with it because like I said her apology
really means nothing to me I know the truth and I know what kind of person she
is so I don't want to waste any more of my time thinking about her or my mother
I'm going to block my mother as soon as we're done with this because I know
she's just never going to see my side of things ever since Monica was born she
always had a favorite but I never imagined that she would let her bias
take over to an extent where she couldn't even tell apart right from
wrong I think everybody with even half a brain would be able to tell that Monica
never had any good intentions when it came to me and would think twice before
inviting her to an event like a wedding which was so important for the two of us
my mother's the one who's actually responsible for ruining everything and
yet she still feels that it's more important for Aaron and I to apologize
than for Monica to apologize to us at this point I'm not even surprised
because she always made sure that Monica never felt that she was even capable of
making mistakes to my mother She'll always be just perfect and I'm sick and
tired of trying to live up to her crazy standards which she sets specifically
for me I always have to be the one who makes all the sacrifices and does all
the forgiving even when people mostly Monica aren't even sorry for what they
did I've tried to maintain a good relationship with her in spite of her
behavior just because of my father but now I think my father knows that I'm
done with her and I can't do this all my life so after we send the apology I'm
going to send a copy of it to my mother and inform her that it's done now
because she might doubt the truthfulness
of what I'm saying and then she's out of our Lives update two so Aaron and I
emailed the apology to Monica and we thought that it' be enough and that she
wouldn't drag this on but I really underestimated exactly how much she hat
hates me because she decided that it would be a good idea to take a
screenshot of that email and post it on her social media so she could break
about how she made us beg for forgiveness she put up a very haha
gotcha kind of post and said that she received an apology from us even though
she was the one who crashed our wedding and made a very humiliating speech just
to insult me it really made my blood boil and I found myself wishing there
was a way to unsend emails after they'd already been sent or whatever we don't
follow each other on any platform so it was actually a cousin of mine who sent
me that post to tell me that this is what was going on behind my back it felt
infuriating to know that she was using our apology against the US to insult us
instead of going against her right away I decided to call my mother and ask her
what she felt about this luckily I hadn't blocked her yet and when I called
her to ask about the post she already had an explanation ready and told me
that she was working on it and trying to convince Monica to take down that post
she tried to downplay how insulting that was by telling me that it was just her
being petty and it meant nothing she even said that people probably hadn't
even bothered to read it so I had nothing to worry about even as my
relatives actively texted me to ask about that post and even some folks from
high school were asking about it I told her that she had half an hour to get
that post taken down and if she couldn't do it then I would have to take matters
into my own hands and it wouldn't be nice I had a lot more dirt on Monica
than my mother could even imagine and I knew certain things about her that I
hadn't even mentioned in my post if I put all that out on social media then
nobody would ever be able to see Monica the same way again so if my mother
didn't get Monica to take down that post then things could get really ugly for
her and I didn't want to get into all of that drama either so it would be in her
best interest to take it down and hope that I wasn't feeling Petty or vengeful
my mother promised me that she'd get it done but almost an hour passed and the
post still stayed up so Aaron and I decided that it was time to finally
expose Monica there was obviously the truth about how Monica had tried to hit
on and come on to Aaron at the Thanksgiving party and then there was
the truth about the Chris incident but there was also another thing that I
didn't mention in my post because it wasn't exactly relevant there but this
time I decided to go all out and talk about how Monica had an affair with her
best friend's husband a couple of years ago hardly anybody knows about it
because she and that guy had done a really good job job of hushing people
and keeping it all really secretive and of course her best friend didn't want
any of this news getting out because it was embarrassing for her so she didn't
tell many people about it either but I knew all about it even though Monica
didn't want me too her best friend also went to high school with us and made the
mistake of confiding in a couple of her close friends and one of those close
friends talked to me about it because after all it involved my sister too I
hadn't told a soul about this affair that Monica had been a part of out of
respect for her ex-best friend but now I
don't care anymore I went public with it to make sure that everybody from our
high school got to know what kind of person Monica was and the best part
about all of this was that I didn't even have to resort to lies or halft truths
like Monica everything that I said about her was 100% true the like started
pouring in as soon as I posted it because Monica had been pretty popular
in high school and through college people were pretty scandalized and
interested to know about that Affair and also how Monica had tried to hit on my
husband everyone knew that Monica had a cruel streak in her and my post was just
proof that this wasn't anything new and that she' just always been this way my
mother's encouragement only made her worse after putting up that post Aaron
and I finally felt a little better because we done enough to get back at
her I didn't want to entertain any calls or texts from friends or relatives and
mostly my mother so I switched my phone off and so did he we decided not to look
at our phones or any other electronic device for the next couple of hours and
went out for a walk instead once we came back home we started packing for our
honeymoon which we were supposed to leave for in a few days by the time we
finally got back to our phones it was almost midnight as soon as I turned it
on I almost had to shut it off again because there was just notification
after notification from literally everyone I knew I decided to check my
mom's messages first and unsurprisingly she was on Monica's side and was telling
me that I'd taken things too far by talking about that Affair which Monica
really regretted she told me that Monica was very upset and couldn't stop crying
when she talked to her as if that was supposed to make me feel bad for her I
really didn't especially not after what she put me through I didn't reply to my
mother and went on to check the comments
on my post which were all against Monica and that made me feel really Vindicated
it's been one day since I put up that post and by by now pretty much all of my
family and my entire High School population from when I was there has
seen that post and has had something to say about Monica I don't even feel bad
about it because it was always her trying to get under my skin and I always
tried to ignore her but this time she deserves this so now the post is going
to stay up for as long as I want to no matter how much she cries about it I'm
not taking it down and neither am I going to feel sorry about what I do
update three hi guys it's been two weeks since I put up that post and I took it
down yesterday because I think it's reached its target audience and I don't
want it on my feet anymore I blocked my mother and Monica a few days after the
post because I really didn't want them to have any access to me like not even
one bit they've proved to me time and again that they don't deserve to be
around me or even breathe the same air as me my dad is completely on my side
about this and thinks that I did the right thing even if I had to expose
Monica's ex-best friend for it I didn't name her so nobody really knows aart
from the people who already knew who her
best friend was and that was pretty much our entire high school because the two
of them had been quite thick ever since they were in their freshman year but at
least I didn't name her so that's some consolation for both of us and even if I
did end up inadvertently exposing her even that girl had been really mean to
me because of Monica back then so I don't feel particularly sorry about it
Aaron and I are finally enjoying our honeymoon and the only reason that I
even remembered to post an update was because somebody dm'd me asking about
what became of Chris and I realized that I'd forgotten to tell you guys that
we're still friends he wasn't able to attend my wedding unfortunately because
he was really down with a stomach flu but we might meet in the next couple of
weeks and when we do I'm going to make sure that I take a picture of us and
post it for Monica to see also my dad has been talking to me about my mother's
irrational behavior when it comes to Monica and asked me if he should think
about couples's counseling or just straight up divorce I was surprised to
learn that my father was considering getting divorced from my mom after all
these years that they'd spent together but he told me that he just wasn't
feeling it anymore and it was becoming more difficult for him to deal with my
mom every day because of how weird she was acting she had even tried to talk
him into disinheriting me and leaving all their property and money to Monica
because apparently I needed to be taught
a lesson about family loyalty my dad had to fight really hard for me and he says
that he's just absolutely emotionally drained trying to keep up with my mother
he said he's too old for this and needs a break and honestly I agree I know that
my mother can't be an easy person to live with I didn't tell him what to do
but I told him that I would support him regardless of what decision he makes
even if he chooses to stay with my mom I wouldn't mind it because that's what
brings him joy as long as he's happy I'm happy that being said I really do hope
they look into couples counseling at the very least because my mother definitely
do with therapy in fact I think therapy would do a world of good to both my
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my girlfriend was violated and became pregnant I broke up with her because she
wanted to keep the baby really really
[ __ ] situation two months ago my GF was
raped it was done in a park she didn't want to report it and went into a full
breakdown wouldn't speak to police go to hospital Etc I couldn't force her so I
just stayed with her she was obviously
in a really [ __ ] State since and I've
been with her by her side listening to her helping her we went to therapy and
she knows I'm there for her her she has a history of depression and I've been
really worried last week we found out she was pregnant I was abroad for 2
months before the rape on work and came back early to care for her so the baby
definitely isn't mine she is 100% sure it's the rapists so we had a discussion
she is a devout Catholic we initially decided on an abortion but after she
speak to her mother she has decided to keep the baby saying that isn't the
baby's fault I flat out told her that I would not help raise a baby of a guy who
raped her she cried and begged me not to leave I told she is the one making the
choice either she keeps the baby and I leave or she aborts the baby and I stay
I would not let this go she didn't want either of those things to happen so I
told her we were done I feel [ __ ] was I
wrong update one I'll post the update first since there has been some change
since I last posted then I'll respond to some general points made from the last
thread and the ton of PMS I received yesterday I received a call from my GF
she was crying and she begged me to listen to her I told her that I still
care for her and that I'll obviously listen to what she has to say she told
me that a few days after I told her we were done she called up her mother to
talk about this apparently what happened before was that she was pretty much
decided on aborting but then when she spoke to her mother her mother told her
that under no account should she abort and that I was actually manipulating her
to do so her mother went on to say that if she aborted the child she would no
longer consider my my GF as her daughter
after I left her my GF called her mom up to talk about what went on my GF said
that she desperately wanted to abort the baby and her mother again said that if
she does so this is the last time they will ever speak again my GF said she
broke down on the phone and her mother kept asking her what she will do the
conversation then ended when my GF said she didn't know then she started texting
after a few hours of thinking my GF sent her Mom a text saying she was going to
abort she was then blocked my GF then called me and told me
everything she will be having an abortion in 3 weeks I discussed this
with my GF and we both completely agreed that I had not manipulated her in any
way and that she appreciated that I put my foot down because had I not she would
have had a baby who would remind her of the worst time of her life her words not
mine she further went on to say that I am the best thing that has ever happened
to her and that she knew that even if she no longer had a mom if she had me
she could get through this I broke down down at this point I love her so much in
truth I probably would have gone back to her and raised the baby with her even
though I knew I'd resent it I made the original thread to get some backing
rather than anything to see if I had made the right decision I'm so relieved
things had turned out the way they have also screw any mother who places
religion over their own child fraking lunatics Now to respond to some of your
points from the last thread one no my GF did not cheat on me I am almost certain
about this not only because she had the conscience of a fragile Angel but also
because we both know each other's schedules really well and we often talk
to friends who can corroborate timings moreover her roommate took photos of my
GF after she came home assaulted it's not rough sex as some of you dicks put
it two I don't give a rat's ARS if you think abortion is a sin or the killing
of a baby come and raise the baby or give us money to raise the baby or hire
us alive and made to tend to my gf's every need while she pregnant if you're
so sanctimonious talk the talk then walk the walk you wanking tit baboons three
my GF was absolutely clear she wanted to raise the baby probably influenced by
the mom four thanks for all the people telling me I did the right thing it was
really difficult I'm very glad it turned out the way it has though five to the
people who pm' me telling me I'm a monstrous baby killer I fail to see what
my hobbies have to do with this issue thanks Reddit update two I was hoping to
post here again after the abortion still
scheduled for 2 weeks time but I thought I should provide an update on some
recent events from a mother from the pits of Satan's rectum on Saturday I
answered my door and stood face to face with two police officers they asked me
if I was who I was and I replied I was they then said they were looking for my
GF I called her over and the police officer said that he needs to have a
word with her the officers then split one taking the GF to the living room we
let them in and the other took me into my bedroom the officer who took me
started asking me questions about how long GF had been here if she had any
contact with anyone else if she had left the house at all and a few other
questions I answered and then asked what
this was about but the officer just said
they received a report to check in on GF I asked who reported and the officer
said he couldn't say after a while the other officer was done and they both
left the moment they left my GF told me that she was outrightly asked if she was
in danger and if I had been hurting her she was also asked if she was being held
against her will she said no to everything of course she said that the
police received a call from her mother saying she might be in danger and that I
could be Abus of her I was [ __ ] livid
I immediately said I was going to press charges against her for what I didn't
know harassment probably my GF begged me to not and said that it would all just
blow over and that she just needs time to calm down WTF she sent police to my
house to get me arrested how is that San thinking I could lose my job if I was
arrested and charged what the hell is she thinking I told GF that if the
mother does anything like this again I will definitely press charges so the GF
decides on Sunday to talk to the mom to not do anything like this again they had
a conversation for about 2 minutes then I start hearing sobs immediately I
walked into the room saw my GF was crying still holding the phone against
her ear I plucked E phone from her hand and held her for a bit as I heard hello
from the phone then I put it on me and said you're a disgrace of a mother and
hung up then I held the GF for what felt like an hour before we started talking
apparently the mother was telling GF how if she continues with the abortion she
will never see the mother again or her brother or her deceased father who is in
heaven even though he died a drink violent alcoholic who beat GF but hey
repent your sins at death amirite because GF would be going to damnation I
told GF that if she was going to hell then she should save me a seat eat and
we'd be nice and toasty together I love her smile what do you think if anything
should I do about the mother no doubt my words to her will have some reactions
response to some people from previous threads and PMs after thread was locked
one abortion was never an option GF was adamant she wanted to raise the baby
influenced by her mother and if you suggest adoption anyway then you truly
do not understand just how taxing a normal pregnancy is let alone one dipped
in a beautiful cocktail of rap depression two you can believe my GF
cheated on me if that makes you feel better about your lives I suppose just
FYI the pictures and roommates report showed she had a bloody nose black eyes
cuts and bruises against her arms hands and knees torn coat and top bruises
around her neck cheating right edit three my GF and I are still going to
therapy about all of this update three I
just wanted to update folk on this whole Saga this will be my final update a few
days ago the abortion was carried out during the weeks beforehand my GF went
to a counselor and talked to a nurse about why she wanted an abortion she was
also tested for any STI she's clear she went ahead with the abortion after
getting the all clear a few days ago it was successfully carried out they went
for the surgical abortion method which involved using a vacuum to suck the
pregnancy out GF said it was pretty painless and she was able to return home
after just a few hours when she came home she cried and cried and cried she
says she feels like a huge weight had been lifted and she can finally look to
moving on with her life we took the whole week of work and yesterday we went
camping it rained while in the tent she talked about how difficult life was
sometimes but she was really glad things
turned out the way they did because even though things were bad she came out the
other side probably stronger than before she's amazing man seriously update on
the mom so my GF received a call from her mom who was asking if she went
through with the abortion my GF and I have an agreement that if Mom calls
either hang up or give it to me in this instance she answered didn't know what
to say and gave it to me I told the mom that the abortion went perfectly and
smiled as she cursed at me for about a minute I then said how Jesus of you at
which point she hung up my GF didn't find it funny anyway that's it good luck
to everyone in their lives also if you're going to message and insult me
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a ITA for not continuing my reception after my husband went behind my back my
now husband Lucas 26 and I f25 were getting married we decided to tie the
knot as we were having a little girl together and are madly in love so
leading up to the wedding day Lucas told me that his best man Jacob wanted to
propose to his girlfriend as it would be a great time and it is a nice venue to
do it at I said that I didn't want him to propose at our wedding as it is our
special moment not theirs and that they can do it sometime else Lucas told me
that his friend was mad that I didn't agree I just wanted the wedding to be
about us because it was our special day after that disagreement I thought
nothing of it fast forward to my wedding day we had finished the church service
and now we're at the reception we're all
having fun eating I'm eating my food and then Jacob stops the music at the DJ
booth to make an announcement I just knew from that moment he was going to
propose I looked to see where Lucas was and he was holding red and white roses
walking out to stand in front of Chloe Jacob's girlfriend spelling out will you
marry me I was shocked that they went behind my back when I said no I got up
out of seat and walked out it's been 2 days since the wedding and my husband
cursed me out for not letting them have a special moment I responded with I
wanted the day to be about us because it's our wedding not theirs and I am
happy for them but the worst thing was even though I said no you went behind my
back about it since that argument he moved to the guest bedroom and now most
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whta for asking my husband 38m if he's cheating after he secretly bought
lingerie that was too small for me 44f I'm trying to figure out if there's a
reasonable explanation behind this because I can't believe he would cheat
on me my husband and I have been married for years and raised two beautiful
children he's always been a loving romantic affectionate perfect husband I
never had any doubts about him I have an athletic body I'm very healthy but I am
not small we have joint finances and I noticed an unusual purchase my husband
had bought expensive lingerie arriving today I looked into it on one hand it's
too small for me and built for a petite skinny woman with no muscle and I have
never worn lingerie I don't even know if I would be confident in lingerie and he
knows my size he's bought clothes for me
before including underwear and has never been wrong this SE is clearly the wrong
size way too small for me the brand has undercarriage waist and hip sizes my
husband is handsome and has women throwing themselves at him I have no
doubt that if he wanted to he could easily get an affair partner on the
other hand it could conceivably be an insanely tight fit on me and he's
shipping it to our home address instead of his office he didn't have anything
incriminating on his phone but we share phones so it could mean nothing whb to
for confronting him about the lingerie I don't want my husband to feel that I
don't trust him but I don't have any other explanation edit I have never worn
lingerie in my life he hasn't bought me lingerie before it's very fril and cute
not something that would suit me even if it fit he is a perfectionist and has
never bought me the wrong size and clothes if it was a mistake in sizing he
would have called weeks ago when it was ordered the lingerie has actual
measurements and my husband knows my measurement edit I am not going to be
home when the package arrives I don't open packages anyway it's way way way
too small to fit my husband I know a few women it would fit I don't usually go
through credit card transaction if I hadn't looked at them to cancel a
subscription I wouldn't have noticed the pricey credit card charge to a lingerie
store our children are young if they stole the credit card my husband would
have immediately noticed and shut it down it's entirely inappropriate for
children | give me a good story on WIBTAforaskingmyhusbandMifhescheatingafterhesecretlyboughtlingeriethatwastooorig |
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a ITA for telling my friend her husband is right not to help her with the baby
my friend let's call her Anna met her husband we'll call him Dave about 10
years ago they started dating right away moved in together pretty quickly and
couple years after they started dating she began worrying that he has not
proposed yet long story short turns out when they met they discussed what each
wants in the future and discovered that she really wants babies and Dave doesn't
neither wanted to let go of the relationship and they stayed together
hoping the other will change their mind I encouraged Anna to find out why Dave
doesn't want babies and he said that he didn't want to the responsibility the
waking up at night changing nappies Etc so they came up solution where they
would have a baby together however Anna would do all everything to do with that
baby so that she gets her wish and Dave gets his they got married and 2 years
later had the baby girl now Anna is not happy when she came back from the
hospital and was recovering Dave helped out but now it's all on her she does
majority of the changes all the feeds Etc she said that she remembered the
agreement however thinks that if Dave loves her he would see how much she is
struggling and give her a hand she complained to me a few times and I
finally told her that I think she is wrong he was very clear about not
wanting to do all this stuff and they decided together that this way they
would both get what they wanted Anna's anger shifted to me she just explained
and called me a bad friend she said that I don't understand her because I don't
have a child and that as her friend I should be more supportive we don't
really talk nowadays and our friends are divided some said that iata and
shouldn't have said anything at all so I don't know am I really the here
additional information to clarify some of the questions the marriage hasn't
ended as far as Dave is concerned they both have what they want and that are
happy she has not told him that she is unhappy and wants more help over the
years he has become my friend as well and I know for a fact that as she tells
him she needs needs more help he will step up more I do go and help her when I
can however I do have a job so I can't do that all the time both sets of
parents also help when they can yes Anna is a stay-at-home mom yes it is
specifically the baby stage he didn't want to deal with diapers and waking up
at night in particular he does all the other stuff EG playtime book reading Etc
yes Dave does help with cooking and cleaning in fact he is the one that
cooks because Anna doesn't like cooking and he seems to enjoy it Anna does leave
the baby with him for when she needs a break needs a shower girls night go get
nails done Etc | give me a good story on AITAfortellingmyfriendherhusbandisrightnottohelpherwiththebabyorig |
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:00.179 --> :15.910 A few :15.910 --> :20.530
months ago, my older brother asked me to be
his best man and my husband to be a groomsman. :20.530 --> :25.260
He and I have always been close and he was
my best man at our (much smaller) ceremony. :25.260 --> :31.119
At the time I committed to this obligation,
no real planning had taken place so everyone :31.119 --> :35.180
was on standby waiting for further details and an official date.
:35.180 --> :40.060 I'm not sure when they began properly planning
things, but I didn't hear much more about :40.060 --> :43.550
it until November during our Thanksgiving family gathering.
:43.550 --> :47.770 My brother's fiancée told us the venue, the
date, and the fact that the wedding was going :47.770 --> :48.800
to be child-free. :48.800 --> :53.400
Now, I have no issue with the concept of child-free
weddings -- I had one myself. :53.400 --> :57.270
The problem is that my husband and I are expecting a baby.
:57.270 --> :02.329 If all goes well with our surrogate's pregnancy
(fingers crossed), our son will be 3 months :02.329 --> :04.189
old by the wedding date given. :04.189 --> :07.770
The venue they've chosen is one 2.5 hours from where we live.
:07.770 --> :10.509 We would likely be spending three days away
from home. :10.509 --> :14.990
You can call me an overprotective first time
parent, but the thought of both my husband :14.990 --> :21.380
and I being away from our child for that long
when he's so little scares me, and he's not :21.380 --> :22.510
even here yet. :22.510 --> :27.220
My in-laws could watch him and I trust them
completely, but I know I wouldn't be able :27.220 --> :32.170
to properly enjoy the festivities if my infant is over two hours away from me.
:32.170 --> :36.619 I pulled my brother aside later in the night
and apologized profusely while explaining :36.619 --> :37.810
my worries. :37.810 --> :43.680
He said he understood and offered up a venue
change (one much closer to home) or maybe :43.680 --> :48.399
making an exception for me by inviting my
in-laws to the wedding, that way I could see :48.399 --> :52.079
the baby during the ceremony and feel a little less stressed.
:52.079 --> :54.689 I told him either would work for me and thanked
him. :54.689 --> :58.840 He spoke to his fiancée, but she won't budge
on either issue. :58.840 --> :02.700
He's vented to me multiple times over the
course of the month that has now passed about :02.700 --> :07.590
how he's really frustrated because what matters
most to him is making sure he's surrounded :07.590 --> :10.910
by the people he loves and that they are comfortable.
:10.910 --> :15.970 Meanwhile his fiancée continually repeats
that she's not giving up her 'dream venue :15.970 --> :17.310
and ceremony.' :17.310 --> :21.660
I told him my husband and I could just attend
as guests instead if it would make things :21.660 --> :26.150
easier, but he immediately shut me down and said he wanted us by his side.
:26.150 --> :31.050 She texted me yesterday (politely, I'll admit)
asking if I could please just drop things :31.050 --> :32.050
with my brother. :32.050 --> :36.530
I might have considered it previously, but
hearing how she turned down all of my brother's :36.530 --> :41.050
requests for compromise made me put my foot down and refuse.
:41.050 --> :46.730 I hate causing my brother trouble like this,
especially so close to the holidays, but I :46.730 --> :04.849
feel like she's showing her true colors. :04.849 --> :18.170 AITA?
:18.170 --> :25.599 My (f35) family is Mexican and we live in TX.
:25.599 --> :30.950 Everyone in my family is bilingual and they
tend to mix English and Spanish constantly. :30.950 --> :35.689
My siblings spouses have all learned some
Spanish, some better, some worse, but they :35.689 --> :37.980
can still participate in all conversations. :37.980 --> :40.890
I’ve been with my husband for 10 years. :40.890 --> :46.080
He took a few classes but he found it too
difficult and decided that he can’t learn :46.080 --> :51.909
a language as it’s his thing just like math isn’t his thing and he dropped it.
:51.909 --> :56.470 Every family gathering (there are a lot of
them) he feels left out because everyone switches :56.470 --> :59.010
back and forth and he doesn’t understand them. :59.010 --> :03.730
I have to translate for him and it really must be uncomfortable for him.
:03.730 --> :07.760 This year he said that he’s not coming,
he feels excluded and even when he talks with :07.760 --> :14.430
non Mexican spouses, they mix and match languages
and he felts it’s to mock him because there’s :14.430 --> :15.480
no need to. :15.480 --> :19.840
I called my mother and told her that they
must promise to not speak Spanish because :19.840 --> :22.660
it’s excluding my husband or were not coming. :22.660 --> :27.430
My mother was angry, she told me they’re
not going to police their speech, that they :27.430 --> :33.340
were accommodating for the first few years
but he made no effort and it’s ridiculous :33.340 --> :35.160
that he doesn’t even try. :35.160 --> :39.480
I told her to at he did try but she knows it’s difficult for him.
:39.480 --> :42.979 She said that he’s no longer invited and
I can come on my own. :42.979 --> :46.259
I was really angry and repeatet my ultimatum. :46.259 --> :48.199
This didn’t go down well. :48.199 --> :10.040
My whole family is ticked off, I'm on a trash
account since people know about my main... :10.040 --> :12.710
I have a 14F daughter. :12.710 --> :16.390
We moved a few years ago to a bigger house in the same neighborhood.
:16.390 --> :21.120 Because it's a bigger house my daughter can
now have her own full bathroom, and me and :21.120 --> :23.670
my husband share another one. :23.670 --> :28.789
The bathroom my daughter uses' shower broke
so we just took the opportunity to get a full :28.789 --> :29.789
remodel. :29.789 --> :33.789 My husband and I found furniture we liked
that complimented our bathroom and was also :33.789 --> :35.419
a good nice theme I wanted. :35.419 --> :38.710
We got a paint color that we knew my daughter liked pretty well.
:38.710 --> :40.730 Our remodel started a few days ago.
:40.730 --> :44.920 My daughter and I were out of the house staying
at a friend's while my husband worked from :44.920 --> :46.250
home in the basement. :46.250 --> :49.889
My daughter told me that she was stressed
out because she didn't know what was getting :49.889 --> :51.310
put in the bathroom. :51.310 --> :56.820
I told her she was no where as stressed as
I was because this isn't her house and her :56.820 --> :57.820 money.
:57.820 --> :01.350 She then proceeded to tell me she was upset
that she didn't get to have a say in what :01.350 --> :06.370
was happening in "her" bathroom, and she didn't know if she'd like the bathroom.
:06.370 --> :11.680 I told her it was my house and that we put
a color she liked, which she said wasn't what :11.680 --> :12.680
she wanted. :12.680 --> :17.790
I told her she was being spoiled and she shouldn't
think she gets to make all of the decisions. :17.790 --> :23.400
She said I wasn't being fair and that I was
making the bathroom she'd "be using" all about :23.400 --> :28.340
what I wanted, but she'll graduate soonish
and then I'll still have the bathroom. :28.340 --> :34.740
She claims she just wants a comprimise, but
why should I comprimise how I make MY house :34.740 --> :35.740 look?
:35.740 --> :39.139 My husband hasn't really weighed in on this,
but AITA? :39.139 --> :59.270
I'm pretty sure my child is being entitled. :59.270 --> :01.849
Every year my family spends our Christmas in Hawaii.
:01.849 --> :06.669 We’ve done it every year since I can remember
and it’s a fun family tradition for me. :06.669 --> :10.949
After me and my husband had kids we had to
reorganize our family Christmas plans because :10.949 --> :16.130
his parents wanted to see our kids for Christmas,
so we decided that we would celebrate Christmas :16.130 --> :20.889
with his parents on New Years and go to Hawaii for actual Christmas.
:20.889 --> :25.750 This is the system that worked for us until
last year. :25.750 --> :30.110
Last year his dad passed away around this
time of the year and it hit him and his mom :30.110 --> :31.180 hard.
:31.180 --> :34.280 For obvious reasons we didn’t go to Hawaii.
:34.280 --> :37.199 This year we planned out what we’d do for
the holidays early. :37.199 --> :42.160
We’d do Thanksgiving with his mom, and we’d
do Christmas in Hawaii since me and the kids :42.160 --> :43.410
missed out last year. :43.410 --> :47.229
Things were going well until right before our flight.
:47.229 --> :49.810 About a week out, he said he was unsure.
:49.810 --> :52.440 He said that he thinks it might be better
that we stay. :52.440 --> :56.699
He said he really wanted to spend Christmas
with his family and felt like his mom really :56.699 --> :57.699
needed it. :57.699 --> :03.050
I was unhappy about this, we made a plan,
we saw her last month, and we already had :03.050 --> :09.479
my dad buy our tickets and hotel, so it would
be incredibly unfair to me, him and our kids :09.479 --> :15.569
for us to not go just for his mom, who we’d
see a few days after we got back anyways. :15.569 --> :20.620
We got into an argument about it and proposed
that me and the kids can go to Hawaii and :20.620 --> :22.360
he can stay there with his mom. :22.360 --> :29.699
He decided to do this but he was very clearly
upset that I wasn’t going to forgo my family’s :29.699 --> :34.280
Christmas tradition and seeing my family just for his mom.
:34.280 --> :38.089 So now I’m in Hawaii watching and rangling
the kids by myself. :38.089 --> :39.519 While he’s home alone.
:39.519 --> :42.770 He have said texted me or responded to me much.
:42.770 --> :46.769 When I call him he only talks for about 3
minutes before wanting to get off the phone :46.769 --> :59.870
with me and talk to the girls. :59.870 --> :06.339 AITA?
:06.339 --> :15.060 My (19M) girlfriend (18f) got her license
about 3 months ago, but last week was the :15.060 --> :18.130
first time that I've been in the car with her while she was driving.
:18.130 --> :23.370 My car was in the shop & she came to pick
me up from work & on our way back she decides :23.370 --> :25.180
to stop at a gas station. :25.180 --> :30.779
We pull up to the machine, she looks at me
funny for a moment, doesn't say anything & then
:30.779 --> :33.720 gets out the car & starts pumping her gas.
:33.720 --> :38.250 When she gets back in the car, I ask her what
the funny look was for & she says, "Really? :38.250 --> :43.810
How do I have a man in the car & I'm the one pumping gas?"
:43.810 --> :47.899
"Because its your car & youre the one driving?"
:47.899 --> :49.529 She says, "Wow. :49.529 --> :52.300
And you're not even a little bit embarassed? :52.300 --> :57.200
Watching your girlfriend pump gas in the cold
while youre sitting in the nice, warm car :57.200 --> :58.830
listening to music?" :58.830 --> :04.790
I say, "No I was actually quite comfortable
& if I wasn't here, wouldn't you have to pump :04.790 --> :06.790
the gas by yourself anyway?" :06.790 --> :08.500
She says, "But that's the point. :08.500 --> :09.520 You're here.
:09.520 --> :13.830 A woman should never to pump gas while a man's
in the car. :13.830 --> :19.380
My dad, uncle, cousin, brother, nephew, whoever
would've never just did what you did just :19.380 --> :20.380 now."
:20.380 --> :24.140 I say, "Well, Im not them & I don't subscribe
to that. :24.140 --> :25.140 Can we go now?"
:25.140 --> :29.700 Mind you, the whole time were having this
conversation she hasnt even started the car. :29.700 --> :34.720
The gas station is filling up w/ cars & shes literally hogging a machine.
:34.720 --> :37.990 She says, "I'm not moving until you apologize."
:37.990 --> :42.480 To make it even worse, the guy waiting in
the car behind us walks over and politely :42.480 --> :47.339
taps on the window and says, "Hey, sorry, are you guys leaving or...?"
:47.339 --> :51.600 She rolls down the window & asks him, "If
your girlfriend or wife was driving, would :51.600 --> :53.459
you still pump her gas?" :53.459 --> :56.129
He says, "Uhhh, probably?" :56.129 --> :58.890
& she looks at me victory & we finally move.
:58.890 --> :04.420 She says, "Seriously, don't ever do that again"
I probably should have let it go, but I couldn't: :04.420 --> :09.339
"No, if we're in your car and youre driving, youre pumping the gas."
:09.339 --> :13.260 She starts going off again until I cant take
it anymore. :13.260 --> :18.010
I get out & start walking down side streets to a friends place.
:18.010 --> :23.690 She's following me calling my name & my phone,
but I ignore her & eventually lose her when :23.690 --> :25.810
she gets stuck at a red light. :25.810 --> :30.149
Since last Friday I've been getting all sorts
of angry messages & texts from her friends :30.149 --> :35.770
about how Im not a real man for not pumping
gas & even my friends were telling me, "Yeah, :35.770 --> :38.920
man, you should always pump the girls gas, its just principle."
:38.920 --> :42.910 That whole week was Finals week so I didnt
really pay too much attention to what they :42.910 --> :47.139
were saying but Finals ended yesterday & I'm home now for Christmas.
:47.139 --> :52.840 My extended family is all here, so I decided
to ask them if a guy should always pump gas :52.840 --> :53.940
for the girl. :53.940 --> :59.060
I'm confused because all the men are saying
yes, but all the women are saying that while :59.060 --> :03.660
they appreciate the men doing it, they can
also do it by themselves, even when a man :03.660 --> :05.060
is in the car. :05.060 --> :10.670
They're all still arguing downstairs & its
getting pretty heated so I decided to write :10.670 --> :31.820
to you guys to ask AITA & should I apologize? :31.820 --> :39.510
I (25F) got married to my husband (24M) who we’ll call Adam.
:39.510 --> :43.639 When Adam and I were dating, I found out I
was pregnant with my ex’s kid. :43.639 --> :47.470
Adam didn’t care and was thrilled because
he’s infertile, and has always wanted to :47.470 --> :48.470 be a dad.
:48.470 --> :53.709 I tried for over a year to get in contact
with my ex to see if he wanted to be a dad, :53.709 --> :57.339
and he nor his family ever answered me. :57.339 --> :59.180
Even when I went to their houses. :59.180 --> :05.750
So A has been my daughter’s (3F who we’ll
call Calli) dad her whole life, and legally :05.750 --> :07.080
adopted her at 2. :07.080 --> :09.240
Sorry for the tangent, but it’s relevant. :09.240 --> :13.620
We’re in freezing cold weather, and have
lost power during higher temps than this the :13.620 --> :15.120
last two years. :15.120 --> :19.839
A kid in our neighborhood got really sick last year because he nearly froze.
:19.839 --> :24.680 So I set up my and my husband’s bed to be
a kind of tent so it would keep all the body :24.680 --> :25.680
heat in. :25.680 --> :31.510 It’s a California King, so there’s PLENTY
of room for us, Calli and our dog who sleeps :31.510 --> :32.779
with us anyway. :32.779 --> :36.650
I got Callie ready for bed, and tucked her
in in our bed to finish getting ready. :36.650 --> :42.060
Adam asked why she was in our bed, and I explained
I was afraid of the power going out because :42.060 --> :44.990
we’ve already gotten warnings and the past two years.
:44.990 --> :49.010 He was angry and said that he shouldn’t
have to share his bed with her because he :49.010 --> :51.009
might want “loving”. :51.009 --> :55.010
I told him that I wasn’t going to be in the mood tonight because it’s 6 degrees
:55.010 --> :57.350 and I’d be worried about Calli.
:57.350 --> :02.959 Long story short, after a huge fight, I took
the whole set up (so only leaving him the :02.959 --> :06.869
sheets, duvet and one blanket) and did it over my daughter’s bed.
:06.869 --> :10.290 I slept in there with her, and our dog followed
us. :10.290 --> :15.199 Adam was so angry this morning that he accused
me of wanting a divorce. :15.199 --> :19.250
I just told him that Calli was coming to work
with me today, and I’m dropping the dog :19.250 --> :23.699
off at my mother’s since she works from home so he’s not alone in case the power
:23.699 --> :24.699 goes off. :24.699 --> :29.770
Adam went off to work and I’m getting texts
from my in laws and a couple mutual friends. :29.770 --> :33.960
Someone even texted me that expecting him
to share a bed with a girl he’s not related :33.960 --> :40.540
to is disgusting, but that just makes me question
him and his family that that’s their thought :40.540 --> :41.540
process. :41.540 --> :42.540 AITA? :42.540 --> :45.770
I just was worried about my literal three year old.
:45.770 --> :47.850 Even if I am though, I’m doing it again tonight.
:47.850 --> :52.880 I just want to know because I’m furious
at him for blowing it out of proportion, but :52.880 --> :54.080
maybe he’s right to be mad? :54.080 --> :55.080 Idk
:55.080 --> :56.080 Edit: I didn’t think to add this but a comment
made me think I should- Calli doesn’t have :56.080 --> :57.080
free access to our room. :57.080 --> :58.080
Adam locks the door after I fall asleep, and
because he’s up and down all night, I can :58.080 --> :59.080
never stay up later than him. :59.080 --> :00.080
Calli has multiple times woken me up crying
and banging on the door to get in after a :00.080 --> :01.080
bad dream, hearing weird noises, etc. :01.080 --> :02.080
Adam always apologizes but it keeps happening,
so with her asthma I don’t want to risk :02.080 --> :03.080
her being out in that cold for even a few minutes longer than she has too.
:03.080 --> :04.080 Also Adam won’t buy another top that goes
over the beds to keep in the heat. :04.080 --> :05.080
He says they’re a waste of money/not worth the price.
:05.080 --> :06.080 I bought two last year but our dog ripped
it, and I didn’t have the money to buy another :06.080 --> :07.080
one. :07.080 --> :08.080 I plan to after the new year when I have a
full check so Calli can always have one in :08.080 --> :09.080
the cold, just in case. :09.080 --> :10.080
Edit 2: Our home is technically in a trust
for me from my Aunt, but I’m taking my and :10.080 --> :11.080
Calli’s stuff and staying with my mom while working on how to make him leave.
:11.080 --> :12.080 Our dog is already there.
:12.080 --> :13.080 Adam has been blowing up my cell phone and
work phone because I haven’t apologized :13.080 --> :14.080
and I’m ignoring his parents. :14.080 --> :15.080
My last straw was all the texts about him
saying he wants to dissolve the adoption “when :15.080 --> :16.080
I leave him” because Calli doesn’t respect
him as her dad because she talks back, doesn’t :16.080 --> :17.080
listen, runs away, has tantrums, and doesn’t
want to spend time with her if there’s people :17.080 --> :18.080
besides us around (again, she’s 3. :18.080 --> :19.080 Barely.
:19.080 --> :20.080 She doesn’t “respect” me most of the
time either by his definition). :20.080 --> :21.080
I haven’t responded to anything. :21.080 --> :22.080
I don’t think I will for awhile. :22.080 --> :23.080
Yes, we’re in Texas so losing power is a constant stress.
:23.080 --> :24.080 Adam has insomnia and has since he was a kid,
which is why he gets up and down a lot. :24.080 --> :25.080
He has since we were kids. :25.080 --> :26.080
I’ve known his family since I was like 10. :26.080 --> :27.080
This is new behavior for him. :27.080 --> :28.080
Until about two months ago, he was perfect. :28.080 --> :29.080
He just randomly started locking the door, and he dots on her.
:29.080 --> :30.080 His family has made it a point to let me know
Calli isn’t “really” their family, but :30.080 --> :31.080
we’re LC with those that say that so it’s a non-issue.
:31.080 --> :32.080 Maybe he’s back in contact with them though.
:32.080 --> :33.080 Maybe he’s upset about my new job, or that
the house isn’t “really” his. :33.080 --> :34.080
He won’t discuss either of those things. :34.080 --> :35.080
I really don’t know. :35.080 --> :36.080 He’s in therapy already.
:36.080 --> :37.080 I need to know if I'm being reasonable or
heartless here. :37.080 --> :38.080
My husband, 27m, has a long time friend who we'll call Bill - 31m.
:38.080 --> :39.080 The two of them met when my husband was 16
and from the way they always tell the story, :39.080 --> :40.080
they've been inseparable ever since. :40.080 --> :41.080
Bill is now married and lives nearby with his wife.
:41.080 --> :42.080 They announced their pregnancy a while ago
and my husband was absolutely overjoyed for :42.080 --> :43.080 them.
:43.080 --> :44.080 He would visit at often as he could and it
seemed like he was singlehandedly funding :44.080 --> :45.080
the baby's wardrobe and nursery, honestly. :45.080 --> :46.470
Unfortunately, they suffered a miscarriage just before the six month mark.
:46.470 --> :51.639 Bill and his wife were understandably devastated,
and so was my husband. :51.639 --> :56.970
I got it - he was watching his best friend
go through something unimaginably painful. :56.970 --> :01.930
He was often gone for long periods to time
comforting Bill because not only had he suffered :01.930 --> :06.780
this loss, his marriage didn't seem to be holding up very well either.
:06.780 --> :08.980 The miscarriage occurred at the end of September.
:08.980 --> :14.050 Now, this is where I might be a huge jerk,
so I'm in desperate need of judgement-- I :14.050 --> :19.100
completely empathize with Bill and his wife
still needing time to recover, but my husband :19.100 --> :22.410
is ALSO still acting as if this is fresh. :22.410 --> :26.860
Not just in the way he's still comforting
his friend during his free time or excusing :26.860 --> :32.759
himself to take hours long phone calls, but the intensity of his emotions.
:32.759 --> :37.750 I caught him crying about a week ago and when
I asked him what about, he got angry with :37.750 --> :39.860
me and said it should be obvious. :39.860 --> :45.819
I was surprised to be met with such malice
over a simple question, so I tried to gently :45.819 --> :49.250
suggest that maybe therapy would be beneficial. :49.250 --> :54.480
He was feeling this loss like it was his own,
and I didn't find that very healthy. :54.480 --> :00.000
In fact, I had been concerned about him since
mid-October if I was honest but had no idea :00.000 --> :01.540
how to broach the subject. :01.540 --> :08.060
The conversation that followed didn't go well,
and my husband said his emotions were perfectly :08.060 --> :11.850
normal and that maybe I was just lacking in empathy.
:11.850 --> :21.120 He's been avoiding me since.
:21.120 --> :29.200 AITA? :29.200 --> :40.840
I (26F) have been with my boyfriend Sean (25M) for about a year and a half.
:40.840 --> :45.710 It's been great, but I let him know from the
outset that I was a recovering alcoholic. :45.710 --> :49.670
He had no problem with that, and he still
drinks with his friends, but won't do that :49.670 --> :51.050
in my presence. :51.050 --> :55.970
It still bothers me that he drinks, but it's
his life, I can't tell him what to do. :55.970 --> :58.770
Fast forward to last Sunday, and we're at his apartment.
:58.770 --> :03.710 I come in, and he's in the middle of making
pasta sauce, and there's a large bottle of :03.710 --> :05.350
vodka on the counter. :05.350 --> :09.690
I didn't say anything about the bottle, but
he saw me staring at it, and he told me it's :09.690 --> :11.409
for the sauce. :11.409 --> :17.809
Pasta sauce he's made me at least twice a
month for the entirety of our relationship. :17.809 --> :23.030
He said he's told me from the beginning he
does that, that it cooks away, but I think :23.030 --> :27.170
that would be something I would very much remember, and I got a little angry.
:27.170 --> :30.679 I knocked the bottle off the counter and went
to my mom's. :30.679 --> :35.760
He's called and apologized for triggering
me, and that he was being brainless, but he :35.760 --> :40.210
wants me to pay for the broken bottle, which he says was about an $80 brand.
:40.210 --> :45.130 I told him that I wasn't under any circumstances
going to pay for something he's been lacing :45.130 --> :47.700
my food with for years. :47.700 --> :51.770
We haven't really talked since, and my mom
wants me to just go ahead and buy the thing :51.770 --> :58.820
to make amends, and I'm still refusing. :58.820 --> :03.929 AITA?
:03.929 --> :18.700 I(46F) am the mother of a 24 years old woman
from my first marriage, and 12 and 10 years :18.700 --> :21.180
old boys from my second marriage. :21.180 --> :26.100
When I was married to my first husband, he
was unemployed almost all our marriage, we :26.100 --> :32.070
lived in a house his father owned, his father
paid our bills, he bought us the car we drove, :32.070 --> :35.960
he sent my husband money to take care of our family…etc.
:35.960 --> :41.260 I was young, stupid and in love, that is my
only excuse for living like that. :41.260 --> :47.039
When my daughter turned 5 I started pushing
my husband to work, I myself got a job. :47.039 --> :48.600
He didn’t want to. :48.600 --> :51.280
Things escalated and ended up in us getting divorced.
:51.280 --> :56.840 He got full custody while I got visitations
every other Saturday (his dad hired a good :56.840 --> :00.520
lawyer, I couldn’t do that), I also had to pay child support.
:00.520 --> :06.510 I used to work a full time and 2 part time
jobs to afford my 1 bedroom apartment as well :06.510 --> :08.270
as the child support payments. :08.270 --> :12.120
A year after our divorce, my ex married a new woman.
:12.120 --> :17.540 There was a lot of child alienation from them,
and sadly I couldn’t afford to take them :17.540 --> :18.750
to court again. :18.750 --> :23.940
By the time my daughter turned 14, she was
calling me by name and calling her step mom :23.940 --> :24.980 “mom”.
:24.980 --> :29.800 I tried my best to hold on to my kid, I went
to all the event I could go to, I planned :29.800 --> :34.930
fun days with the limited funds I had, even
when I couldn’t afford to turn on the heat, :34.930 --> :38.240
I still made sure to get her a Christmas gift. :38.240 --> :43.520
Sadly by the time she turned 16, she no longer
wanted to have anything to do with me. :43.520 --> :46.630
I took them to court, but they did nothing. :46.630 --> :51.590
And the last time I saw her, she said some very awful things to me.
:51.590 --> :57.559 I was defeated, but I decided that I no longer
had a daughter, since that is literally what :57.559 --> :58.559
she wanted. :58.559 --> :04.610
I moved away, met a good man, married him and had 2 wonderful kids.
:04.610 --> :06.710 Last year my daughter reached out.
:06.710 --> :09.870 She was sorry, she said that she wanted to
reconnect. :09.870 --> :14.120
I was hesitant and resentful, but I still talk with her once a week.
:14.120 --> :19.539 Suddenly she asked if she could spend Christmas
with us, she wanted to get to know her brothers. :19.539 --> :23.300
I told her that we were not in a stage where I could allow that.
:23.300 --> :28.030 It got heated, but I told her that I could
not trust her with my kids, and that I was :28.030 --> :32.920
still not 100% sure that I wanted our relationship to become more.
:32.920 --> :38.260 She says that I am an AH, that I am punishing
her for things she had no control over, that :38.260 --> :59.799
I know what she told me and how she reacted to me was a direct result of
:59.799 --> :02.110 her father’s manipulation.
:02.110 --> :03.110 AITA? :03.110 --> :07.980
My daughter (2) just got light up princess heels from a family member.
:07.980 --> :10.750 She loves these shoes and wants to wear them
everywhere. :10.750 --> :15.800
She wore them to daycare on Tuesday and when
I picked my daughter up, she was wearing a :15.800 --> :19.070
pair of socks from the school instead of her shoes.
:19.070 --> :25.090 They asked me to send “acceptable” shoes
in her backpack if she wants to wear her heels. :25.090 --> :29.049
When I got home, I checked the school’s
dress code and there was absolutely nothing :29.049 --> :33.490
about shoes, except that kids have to be able to comfortably play in them.
:33.490 --> :39.050 My daughter is very comfortable in her heels
(she wears them to the park, the grocery store, :39.050 --> :43.860
pretty much every time we leave the house
and she never complains) so I didn’t think :43.860 --> :46.809
there was anything wrong with her wearing them to school.
:46.809 --> :49.070 She wore them again to school yesterday.
:49.070 --> :53.750 Shortly after I dropped her off, I got a call
from her teacher saying I needed to drop off :53.750 --> :59.049
a new pair of shoes but I was already at work so I couldn’t get her a new pair.
:59.049 --> :01.510 When I picked her up, it was the same thing.
:01.510 --> :05.000 Her heels were in her backpack and she was
wearing socks. :05.000 --> :09.010
The teacher told me they couldn’t let her out for recess because of her shoes.
:09.010 --> :13.890 I was livid when I was told that she couldn’t
play at recess because of her shoes. :13.890 --> :18.309
First of all, she’s worn those shoes to the park so I know she can play in them.
:18.309 --> :23.040 Second, it’s not her fault that I couldn’t
drop off a new pair of shoes so I don’t :23.040 --> :24.950
see why she has to be punished for it. :24.950 --> :29.110
I want to pull her out of this daycare and
find a better one but my husband is refusing :29.110 --> :34.850
because his kids (he has kids from a previous
marriage) went there and they all love it. :34.850 --> :39.140
I personally think they’re treating my daughter
unfairly and that we should look for a better :39.140 --> :42.880
daycare. :42.880 --> :46.620 AITA? :46.620 --> :57.840
Throwaway, fake names. :57.840 --> :09.780
I've (m23) been dating my girlfriend Ellie (f31) for almost a year.
:09.780 --> :14.529 Ellie has 2 kids (f6, m4) and we get along
really well. :14.529 --> :21.320
I have a big family and it's pretty much impossible
to have one Christmas event and expect everyone :21.320 --> :25.140
to make it, so my parents host their celebration the week before.
:25.140 --> :30.350 My mom has a tradition with the 'kids' (us)
where she gives mini snow globes. :30.350 --> :35.200
The event was last Saturday, and as usual
mom pulled us aside and gave us this year's :35.200 --> :36.539
snow globes. :36.539 --> :41.450
Now the snow globe giving extends to partners
and I was expecting Ellie and the kids to :41.450 --> :42.530
receive one. :42.530 --> :49.380
My brother's wife Jane (f27-28) was there
and mom gave her and her 5 yo daughter snow :49.380 --> :50.380
globes. :50.380 --> :55.309
Mom's reasoning is that she doesn't know Ellie
well enough to be included, but I said being :55.309 --> :00.120
my partner should be enough and she should've at least included the kids.
:00.120 --> :04.630 Ellie came to the event with me and she was
upset when she saw mom didn't get one for :04.630 --> :06.470
her or the kids. :06.470 --> :12.000
I got kind of annoyed and told mom she gets
snow globes for Jane and her daughter, considering :12.000 --> :15.160
my brother wasn't her son (we're half brothers). :15.160 --> :19.630
If that's the case then she's excluding Ellie for no reason.
:19.630 --> :23.760 Mom got defensive and started getting mad,
and we ended up leaving early. :23.760 --> :28.110
I just don't think what mom did was right,
these aren't expensive and she could've got :28.110 --> :31.100
3 more so Ellie and the kids could be included. :31.100 --> :36.150
I'd get if it was just for us, but she gets them for partners and kids too.
:36.150 --> :41.630 I got a few texts later from my sister, saying
I'm creating issues and we disrespected my :41.630 --> :45.600
parents and Jane, and should apologize. :45.600 --> :46.690 AITA?
:46.690 --> :55.740 I (19m) have a roommate.
:55.740 --> :09.990 He has a girlfriend (call her L) since they
have been seeing eachother and when she’s :09.990 --> :14.240
been staying round she has walked in on me and pulled the covers off as a joke.
:14.240 --> :18.700 She’s also walked in on me and my girlfriend
which was the final straw. :18.700 --> :23.540
My roommate has been doing nothing about this saying “I can’t control her”.
:23.540 --> :28.180 Few days ago my girlfriend was in our flat
and so was L. My girlfriend has been getting :28.180 --> :30.279
ticked at L walking in on us. :30.279 --> :33.520
I told her to sleep naked and she will stop probably.
:33.520 --> :40.260 At 6 me and my girlfriend was sleeping and
L busted threw the door and saw us butt naked :40.260 --> :41.260
together. :41.260 --> :43.679
She screamed like she saw a murderer scene. :43.679 --> :47.270
My roommate walked in and told us we should of been wearing clothes.
:47.270 --> :50.140 I told him that she needs to learn about privacy
first. :50.140 --> :51.820 He told us we were acting childish.
:51.820 --> :56.850 We didn’t care if we were acting childish
she needed to know that’s it’s weird walking :56.850 --> :58.540
in on people like that. :58.540 --> :11.659 So aita?
:11.659 --> :24.660 I (34m) have a wife (32f) and we have two
children 4f and 7m. :24.660 --> :28.860
I work as a manager at a care home and my wife owns a bakery with her mum.
:28.860 --> :34.620 My wife cooks all the time because she is
much better at cooking than I am, I cook sometimes.
:34.620 --> :39.270 She is the one who takes care of the house,
kids, and chores. :39.270 --> :43.610
Yesterday when I came back from work dinner
was ready so I plated it up for everyone while :43.610 --> :48.760
my wife was washing her hands (my kids like
their food cut up) I was cutting their chickens :48.760 --> :54.260
into pieces and it looked a bit pink I told
my wife to look at it and she said “it’s :54.260 --> :56.039
a little pink but it’s fine”. :56.039 --> :59.909
I told her I’m not letting them eat this if it’s pink, she told me to stop being
:59.909 --> :01.820 a baby and it won’t kill them.
:01.820 --> :06.400 I kept telling her it’s pink in the middle
they shouldn’t eat that they can get food :06.400 --> :08.970
poisoning and that’s it’s dangerous for them. :08.970 --> :13.090
She told me “if you don’t want them eating it then you can cook their dinner”.
:13.090 --> :18.159 I made them cheese and ham toasties, also
made her one but she didn’t eat it. :18.159 --> :21.700
She told me she isn’t talking to me if I think her cooking is horrible.
:21.700 --> :25.830 I don’t think it’s horrible I just didn’t
want our kids eating that. :25.830 --> :28.809
I told her to stop thinking she was right. :28.809 --> :57.539
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a it ta for being honest about disliking
my nephew's name my sister gave birth to my nephew in January and she gave him a
name that I dislike which is Phillip the two of us have always been so so close
and we always swore we would be honest with each other when asked that has
always been our relationship we feel it keeps Us close and stops hard feelings
because if we don't want to hear something we just don't ask there has
never been a time I didn't want her honesty so I will ask her anything
looking for an honest answer my sister is a little more sensitive which there's
nothing wrong with that but I get her not asking everything if she feels like
it would hurt her feeling she asked me what I thought of the name because I was
the only one who didn't comment about loving the name according to her and I'm
not saying every single person she meets compliments the name just that those in
her and her husband Circle did so two-thirds weeks after my nephew was
born she asked me if I didn't like his name she said my reaction was very muted
and it made her Wonder so I was honest and told her I didn't like the name but
reassured her I love my nephew very much she asked some more questions that I
answered honestly and I was even open about names I would use for my future
child when asked my sister made a joke that it was weird to find a topic we
were so | give me a good story on AITAforbeinghonestaboutdislikingmynephewsnameorig |
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Welcome Friends to another r/ nuclear revenge video today we've got a story of
op's little brother getting beaten up and the Revenge they got against the
person who did it but first a story from Rumple for Sky 990 scumbag does $2,000
damage to my car steals my best friend's motorcycle while recovering from dental
surgery gets whole life destroyed for years this happened several years ago
but first let's meet the cast there's me best friend and of course the star of
the show scumbag first a little bit of background there was this homeless he
wasn't truly homeless scumbag who I was Sheltering in my house while he looked
for a place to stay I wanted to help him out and help him back on his feet he'd
been problematic for a while he was crapping in the trash can peeing in soda
bottles everywhere and lying to everyone all the time he wasn't even good at
lying he was one of those pathological Liars who can't tell the truth to save
their life and when he got a BB gun he shot out my neighbor's window this will
become relevant at the end the list of sketchy stuff scumbag did could go on
for days but that's not what I'm writing this about though it certainly does
factor into the Revenge now on to the main event while one of my buddies
needed a ride to the train station I was too tired to drive so I let him take my
car and drive himself to the train station when he came back my front
bumper was on the ground and he duct taped it back on he claimed that he was
T-boned at an intersection and injured his leg he went to the hospital faked
his injury and came back with crutches so I'd buy it when I asked the police in
the town he said it happened in whom he said he had filed a report with they
told me No Such event had been reported and they had no clue what I was talking
about I later found out through my buddy who was in the car with him that he was
doing donuts in a parking lot and hit a tree so shame on me for letting someone
drive my car I know it was a very stupid decision on my part the cost of
repairing my car came out to be $2,000 and I couldn't get insurance to cover it
so the repairs came out of my pocket so I gave him the benefit of the
opportunity to make things right and said all right pay for the cost of
repairs and I'll forgive the transgression he already had a minimum
wage job so I expected him to pay me every week until it was paid off after 2
weeks he stopped so I took his PS3 in safe as collateral and said I'd give it
back when he paid me back and if he didn't I I'd sell it to cover the costs
a few weeks later my best friend who was also staying with me had his wisdom
teeth removed he was in a ton of pain that dental pain is the worst scumbag
said he needed to go to the store he let scumbag take the bike to the grocery
store but after a while we became suspicious he called saying the bike
wouldn't start I drove over to the store
he was at and he and the Motorcycle were nowhere to be found the store was 10
minutes away we called him and said bring it back now or else we'll report
it stolen when he came back later that evening with a girl and he made up a BS
excuse as to why the motorcycle had 130 M on the odometer the way he told it
made it clear he had no clue how mechanical odometers work they don't
glitch and jump ahead 130 Mi like he said it did my best friend would know
he's constantly pulling his bike apart and making repairs and modifications to
it I grilled him about the fact that he was never where he said he was we
deduced that he had rode the bike to his hometown to pick up his girlfriend in
back and lied about everything that was the last straw that broke the camel's
back and a very bad mistake my best friend and I were trembling with rage
when we threw him and his girl out the front door to the curb this is where the
nuclear Revenge begins scumbag was dumb enough to leave all of his password
saved on the laptop we loaned him while he was with us we got his email and
changed the password password once you've got someone's email you've got
everything else by default we got a social media accounts and financial
accounts and reset their passwords too it was hysterical seeing the flurry of
password reset emails coming in he knew we had them in the bag and was
frantically trying to salvage his situation he had opened a bank account
at the local bank to deposit his paychecks from his local cashier job
while he was in the area we emptied the whole thing for a total of $2500
imagine my shock I kept the 2,000 for my car and gave the remaining 500 to best
friend for his troubles and having my back we then sold his PS3 on Craigslist
and split that 50/50 we eventually opened his safe and it was full of
random papers and earbuds of no value but it did have his debit card and one
of the papers had his pin on it which is how we emptied his bank account in
addition to that while he's on his way out I go to the store he was working at
and tell his boss he won't be showing up
this afternoon and to consider him to be
quitting I explained why the manager was cool about it but told me that he can't
take my word for it in any event he was never seen at that establishment again
so sooner or later that manager was going to have to take my word for it but
we're not done yet we still have a social life to destroy we hijack his
Facebook and make all of his friends hate him we make posts about all the
crappy stuff he did we make posts about eating his poop we make posts exclaiming
his love of all manner of debauchery and degeneracy we start petty fights with
his friends list in the DMS we go under their walls and say snarky nasty crap we
turned everyone against him and in the process of destroying his social life a
bunch of girls he abused who lurked on his page came out of the Woodworks
praising us for taking him down a peg it's been years and he still doesn't
have a social media presence a few weeks weeks go by and we get a package in the
mail from him turns out he wasn't homeless and completely out of options
like he said big surprise I know the package was mailed from his parents
house it's an empty threat to Sumi overflowing with hilariously made up
lies and pages of screenshots of what we did to his social media me and best
friend are laughing our butts off reading it he said he left town because
the bills were too much he never did Sue us and we even taunted his bluff with
our new Facebook account the reason why he thought this would fly is the
neighbor threatened to sue us over the window he broke and we paid for the
replacement window so he thought that the mere threat of a lawsuit would be
enough to put an end to the Revenge I still have his lawsuit letter because I
like to read it for a good chuckle every now and then I'm thinking of framing it
on my wall as a trophy last I heard he's completely destitute and has zero
friends now that everyone knows how much of a terrible person he is even his
parents got sick of his manipulative Behavior Behavior his girlfriend didn't
take long to wise up and apologize to us so what's the real lesson of the story
protect the ever loving crap out of your
email because that's all anyone needs to gain access to everything else you do
and completely ruin you also don't save your passwords on the computers of the
people you're screwing over I'm kind of curious after reading this story do any
of you guys in the comments have any friend that you would trust enough to
give your email password to I'm talking your email that you would use to link
your bank account your social media accounts up to or would you not trust
anyone with that let me know in the comments down below and our final story
of the day is by Hager balm hubner Jerk Beats up my little brother because of
his mental issues gets beaten within an inch of his life for context this story
takes place long before I was born my father told me these stories many many
many times when I was younger another context my father was an a witness but
his friends told him the story so detailed since they were there when it
happened that it almost sounds like he was there so here we go the cus Cage The
Jerk who verbally and physically attacks
someone with mental health issues Daniel the poor guy who's semi mentally
challenged I'll explain it better Vin Johnson Daniel's Big Brother the name
will make sense when I explain it so okay I don't know which year this took
place as my dad never specified but I knew this took place when he was in his
late Andor early 20s okay there was this guy Daniel who was well semi mentally
challenged when I say semi I mean occasionally he was able to successfully
understand the situation around him but the majority of the time he couldn't
because of that his friend group constantly protected him not out of pity
but because they genuinely cared about him however this one jerkface cage
decided he didn't like Daniel's mental issues and decided to poke fun at him
them note they were at a bar and cage had a large group of friends with him
who all forced Daniel's friends to back off since they were taller and thus were
intimidated although they kept close just in case things went South and they
assumed a verbal assault would be the furthest that this would go how wrong
they were cage decides to poke fun at Daniel making stupid noises at him
purposely talking all wrong and broken as a way to mock his difficulty to speak
due to his issues and well everything else you can imagine but like I said
Daniel most of the time wasn't able to pick up on the things around him and
thus wasn't phased by the insults since he couldn't really understand what was
going on this seemingly upset cage who then resulted in beating the everloving
hack out of Daniel Daniel's friends immediately tossed aside their
intimidation of Cage's friends and tried to stop him but were restrained by
Cage's friends while poor Daniel was defenseless against Cage's beating 2
minutes later cage stops the beating laughs at Daniel and kicks his foot one
last time before leaving with his buddies Daniel's friends take him away
to a hospital and inform his parents and
older brother Daniel's brother will call him Vin Johnson why because if you take
Vin Diesel and Dwayne Johnson fuse them together that's Daniel's brother that's
how buffed and jacked he was he went full papa bear mode seeing red at his
beloved little brother being beaten to a
pulp and demanded to know who did it and Daniel's friends informed him and Vin
immediately returned to the bar a day later and from what I was told literally
kicked the door open and loudly and aggressively asked I was told this part
so many times and the words are quite exact who the freak beat my brother up
yesterday which one of you freakers did it start talking or I'll tear this place
Peace by piece despite Vin's hulk-like stature and Darth Vader levels of deep
voice cage wasn't scared and smugly walked up and told him I did what you
going to do about it without less than a billionth of a second later Vin punched
cage so hard he actually flew back a couple feet Vin stomped over the cage
and continued to beat him up as in he stood above a fallen cage and rained
punches like those you see in movies then he picked him up and threw him into
a wall before grabbing him by the hair and smashing his head onto the pool
table several times finally Cage's friends interfered though they were all
beaten up by VIN seriously it was like 5
V1 yet Vin whooped their butts according to my father whose friends were there
and were watching the whole thing Vin took two of Cage's friends lifted them
both up with one hand each by the throat and smashed their heads onto a glass
portrait knocking them both out instantly and leaving them with several
cuts from the falling glass then Vin finished off Cage's remaining friends
before returning his attention to cage himself who was literally dragging
himself across the floor In Fear And as Vin grabbed him by the collar of his
shirt cage begged him to stop but Vin sarcastically asked him if his little
brother Daniel also begged him to stop and Vin continued to beat the crap out
of him and even after cage was knocked out with his face covered in blood and a
few teeth knocked out then continued to beat him up and was only stopped by
Daniel's friends who told him to stop otherwise he could kill him and Vin
actually said I still don't see the problem the bartender was indeed
watching but knowing what a piece of crap cage was decided not to do anything
yep cage was that much of a jerk but since he paid for beer almost every day
the bartender wouldn't throw him out then Vin decided to end the beating by
picking the now unconscious cage up one last time and threw him across the bar
and Cage's head smashed against a juke box or something like that I don't know
exactly what it was but it was something related to music Vin and Daniel's
friends walked away and the bartender called an ambulance for cage and his
friends a few weeks later Daniel was dispatched from the hospital and only
suffered bruises but was overall all right when Daniel's friends returned to
the bar sometime later they asked the bartender if he knew what happened to
cage and his friends and the bartender actually knew almost everything that
happened apparently C's parents decided to find out what actually happened since
one of Cage's eyes had suffered so much damage he actually became blind in one
eye and asked for security footage but the bar didn't have cameras so there was
nothing however the bartender actually came clean and told them all that
happened and what cage had done to deserve the beating surprisingly the
parents weren't entitled what a miracle and understood the situation and asked
the bartender to tell Vin and his family
they were sorry for their son's behavior and prom promised to update him on
Cage's future to inform Daniel's family about Cage's punishment then according
to the bartender Cage's parents refused to take him back home and literally
threw him out on the streets telling him that if he was willing to beat a
defenseless person then he too shall become defenseless without support from
his family cage then became homeless and his friends abandoned him and became a
loner homeless one day Vin actually passed by cage while driving his car and
since had been a day after a rainy day there were water puddles around Vin
purposely drove over one splashing over to cage making him completely soaked in
dirty water cage began cursing at him but as Vin slowed down and looked over
cage recognized Vin anded it not long after cage was arrested for trying to
steal food off a local market and his parents actually further added to a
sentence over the beating he gave to Daniel making cage spend some good
quality time in jail after getting out however cage was finally allowed to go
back home but was never allowed to go out without his parents again until he
got himself a job a house of his own and a life of his own considering what cage
went and very explicitly did it's very easy to have no sympathy for them in
this situation it takes a horrendous human to do what they did to a
defenseless person and frankly everybody as a whole were lucky that VIN existed
and was willing to stand up for them cage deserved it Karen gave get burned
some years ago I started working for a heavy industrial manufacturing company I
locked out and got a great supervisor for a boss Joe the work was hard working
12-hour days for 13 days in a row and then a Sunday off then back for another
13 days I was young and didn't mind and helped my wife and I save up for a house
after about 6 months Joe noticed I was picking up on the work pretty fast and
promoted me to a group leader position this came with a raise and increased
responsibility that most other workers didn't want Joe would put me in troubled
groups in his department and I would work on General improvements in figuring
out the issues this was a union shop and the mentality was just to put in your
hours don't work harder or smarter just do your time and don't kill the job was
the unspoken motto after a few years Joe was promoted to a manager and he
transferred me with him to his departments while I wasn't a supervisor
yet I was the supervisor in all but name this supervisors loved it because they
never had to leave the office and I liked it because it was a good learning
experience I made a good reputation and got a lot of respect from workers and
from management eventually Joe's areas were doing so well he was promoted to
plant manager as before he wanted to promote me with him this time to a
supervisor spot we talked in length because the only supervisor spot open
was working for Karen Karen was female a minority and a member of the lgbtq
Community she was the poster child on the company website of the inclusiveness
in the workplace literally her face was the one they used she was also a freshly
minted manager and Joe was not confident
in her abilities but me being the Plucky
go-getter with a can do attitude decided to take the position I had an interview
with Karen and got to meet some of her supervisors they were very quiet and
reserved once I was promoted I worked in Tanana with another supervisor Chris
Chris was young had one small child and his wife was pregnant and a stay-at-home
mom during the first week everything was going well I was learning all the
employees getting to know the process and getting my feeling for the area
during the second week Chris's wife went
into labor and she had a hard time Chris went on paternity leave for 6 weeks and
I was tossed into the deep end in charge
of the whole area solo with 60 employees I was barely treading water but I was
doing my best when I would ask Karen for guidance or assistance she would scoff
like it was beneath her and tell me if I have to do your job then I don't need
you so I gritted my teeth and worked my tail off my wife got me a smart watch
and I was averaging 25,000 steps a day trying to keep everything running we
were holding our own and employees all did what they could to help as the
satiation was not ideal for everyone a few weeks in I was reviewing some
quality documents and I noticed that one of the quality Gates was not being
followed I emailed the info to the Quality engineers and they lost their
minds this was a 4-Hour operation on a 20-hour part that we were skipping
entirely turns out one of the reasons Karen got promoted was because she was
running her department so efficiently then it came to light that she made the
decision to skip this quality process saving that 20% of time except the
engineers never signed off on this and it caused massive damage control the
process had had to be reinstated and the parts that were never checked had to
have warranty extensions this caused the company to have egg on their face and
Karen to look bad during this time Karen also became more vindictive she would
openly tell people she would never be fired and could do what she wanted she
would walk the Departments and if she didn't like someone she would make the
supervisors write them up by the end of the day she wanted us to find a reason
and if we didn't she would take it out on the supervisors for example forcing
the supervisors to stay late to do inventory or something else menial just
because she could she wouldn't let the supervisors make any decisions until she
approved so something like overtime had to wait for her approval and she
wouldn't respond until the end of the day causing the Departments to scramble
then if there weren't enough overtime employees to do the work she would blame
it on the supervisors while the supervisors knew this wasn't right we
all needed our job and tried to do the best we could for Karen and the the
employees we were mainly rodeo clowns to
Karen being the bull the first day Chris
was back him and I were both pulled into Karen's office she started berating me
on how poor of a job I was doing making her look bad and how I never came to her
for help this made me speechless because
of the previous comment she made and the fact that supervisor work was beneath
her after the meeting I was still a bit stunned but I put it together that she
was about to Railroad me out of the company and this was the first first
step I called Joe and asked for a meeting that same day when I got
together with Joe I started telling him about the things that were going on that
he had no idea the harassment the abuse the vindictive nature ironically while I
was speaking with him another supervisor called him to complain about Karen as
well with the same grievances Joe was stunned and said he would speak with
Karen but he gave me card blanch on any open spot in the company starting next
day he really didn't want want to lose me I did a lateral transfer to a
different department doing engineering and it work and I thought that was the
end of it a few weeks later I was leaving work and Karen mentioned that I
never turned in my laptop and phone do her I told her I didn't know I had to
but I could give it to her tomorrow she smirked and said that she would get it
back soon enough I didn't think too much
of it at the time after about 6 months I had my review with my new boss Jake the
review went great and he was very happy with my work and was a bit surprised at
how fast I picked up things at the end of the meeting Jake mentioned offand how
Karen tried to intervene in the review and get me fired but Joe stepped in and
squashed it okay Karen now you pissed me off after I left Karen's Department the
turnover rate went through the roof the supervisors were quitting at a rate of
one every 3 months keep in mind that this is a legacy company that had
multi-generations working fathers mothers Sons entire families some areas
had three generations working side by side and yet Karen was rolling over
employees and supervisors like a steamroller working for her became the
kiss of death I casually mentioned to Joe about the turnover and he told me he
couldn't figure out what was going on people were quitting without notice and
no one was doing exit interviews I told Joe that Karen was riding people up to
force them out when they would hand her the resignation letter or 2 weeks notice
she would tell them to leave immediately
and throw away the letter then she would tell the HR person that the person quit
on the spot and that was the end of it Joe told me that because of who she was
and how high she was the company wouldn't do anything to her until they
had an airtight case so I went to work I took the supervisors working for Karen
out drinking after work a few times a week and made sure I had my hand on the
pulse if someone was quitting I made sure they emailed their letter of
resignation to Karen and CC Joe and HR stayed for their exit interview and that
they called the company Integrity hotline for good measure things were
progressing well and I had all the supervisors on board except Chris Chris
really needed the job and Karen was not riding him up through a stroke of luck I
found out Karen was lowballing his raisings as a cost-saving measure that's
why she wasn't harassing him when I told Chris he was Furious and he wanted to
quit on the spot I encouraged him to speak with Joe before he leaves Joe and
Chris had a very productive meeting and Chris decided to stay now all the
supervisors were on board Joe brought in an HR big wig from the headquarters in
Kansas and over the course of a week each Supervisor was sent in for an
interview discreetly without Karen knowing by the time the interviews were
over they had emails texts eyewitnesses and a mountain of evidence this next
part I heard from other people HR Joe Etc despite everything the company
wanted to keep this quiet so they brought in Karen and said they no longer
needed her and offered a very generous severance package Karen being Karen lost
it on the HR people she threatened to sue for discrimination and even called a
lawyer that's when the company pulled out the stack of evidence and rescinded
the severance offer after a few months Karen found a new job as a plant manager
in a different Factory and I found out where I casually mentioned to the union
reps at my factory where kieren was working and suggested that maybe they
should give the Union at the other Factory a call she was fired within 3
months for employee harassment last I heard she had to sell her house and move
out of the state to find a job this is just really disappointing to see from
somebody that gets in that level of position but honestly it's not too
surprising would you guys agree that a lot of times people who move into these
managerial or supervisor positions they they often seek these roles out not to
help the company or to move up in their career but to do so because they enjoy
the power they have over people let me know if you agree with me in the
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loyal Samurai in 1701 aano nagori and another Lord were ordered to arrange a
reception for the emperor's envoys they went to Kira yoshinaka a court official
to learn the court etiquette however Kira was an arrogant piece of poop and
pushed around asano due to not getting bribed asano then lost his temper and
wounded kirao with a dagger asano has just committed a crime violence in the
Edo Castle was forbidden and as punishment asano committed seppuku slh
harakiri his property was seized leaving his men with no leader and and his
family with nothing 47 Ronin out of the 300 of aso's men vowed to take revenge
Kira knew he would be attacked so he made sure he was protected the 47 leader
oi spent his time drinking sleeping at broel participating in obscene acts all
to lower Kira's guard and lowering his guard was the worst mistake he had made
oi's acts continued for 2 years and on January 30th 7 1903 the 47 Ronin
attacked Kira's house and fought all the men oi gave Kira the choice to commit
zuku but Kira only crouched trembling oi then killed Kira with the same dagger
his master used one of the Ronin terasaka reported what they had done and
placed the head on aso's grave 46 of the Ronin surrendered and committed seppuku
while terasaka was pardoned by the Shogun imagine being so dedicated to
proving that you're you're not a threat that you spend 2 years just drinking
sleeping around doing obscene acts and making a fool of yourself just so that 2
years later you can finally pull off a surprise attack what a crazy historical
story and our final story of the days by tardan nator O2 repeatedly break into a
cabin watch your head firstly this isn't
mine it's from a book yes I like reading called cooled Vine cadest you only die
twice where the writer from what understood is a morg worker where dead
people's bodies go who's been working for a long time also he's been hearing
some stories secondly it might be a little exaggerated it also happened in
Finland so the laws are different lastly we fins usually go to our cabins only a
few times a year in the summer and in the winter now on to the story shall we
apparently there was a thief SL robber who repeatedly broke into a finish man's
cabin the owner got pissed so he bought some bear traps and put them across the
inside of his cabin and left he thought that the thief would be able to open the
claws if he had stepped on it well the thief didn't get a chance when the owner
came back the next winter he saw the thief dead on the floor with the claws
around his crushed head apparently when he broke through the window he didn't go
feet first like a normal person but he dove in head first I guess he didn't get
the chance to say you should have gone for the head I'm not sorry the owner
called the cops and they checked the crime scene Out and because the bear
traps were inside his cabin he didn't even get a warning if they would have
been on the yard it would have been a different story so I mean first of all
this form of Revenge was already nuclear deciding in settling on a bear trap to
be the ultimate solution to stopping somebody from ever returning after they
break in and assumedly step into this maybe just about lose an ankle but
honestly I can't imagine the horrendous feeling of getting back to your cabin
noticing the window is broken opening that door and seeing what that guy saw
there there's definitely some things you wouldn't be able to unsee in life and
frankly stumbling across that opening your door to that scene probably to be
honest that smell two would be a pretty Unforgettable thing I would imagine do
you guys think that considering op intentionally put this bear trap in
their house that they should be liable for some kind of crime or do you think
considering it was in their cabin and the guy just dove in head first and
tragically landed directly upon it that op should be pretty much scot-free and
have no crime against them at all I'd like to know your guys' thoughts on this
in the comments down below found my girlfriend cheating on me with my close
friend I have him arrested and and ghosted her backstory incoming sadness
my wife Rachel and I grew up in a largest town of close to 30,000 people
we knew each other about an early age roughly six or seven can't specifically
remember we were practically Inseparable at 16 we started dating each other when
we turned 18 we moved away for work in a city just a few hours drive away by 20
we were married and had about our first house at 22 we discovered that she was
pregnant with a boy it was then the disaster struck about 5 weeks before she
was due to go on maternity leave a large shelving unit collapsed and crushed her
I was told that her and our child were killed instantly two of her colleagues
had also been injured in the accident one left paralyzed the other losing his
leg after it had to be amputated the company she was working for had in a
cost cutting measure decided to continue using old shelving that had been ridden
off as unsafe instead of replacing reling it I still haven't quite forgiven
those Executives and management Personnel that made that decision
because they cut short the love of my life as well as killing our unborn child
it wasn't long after I was told I had a choice on how to proceed with what her
company called compensation but I called
it blood money they wanted to settle out of court to avoid a lawsuit I on the
other hand was out for their blood just to clarify here this is not the Revenge
this is still backstory fortunately due to the coverage that it got and
involving several politicians the case was settled quickly in court roughly 3
years in which the payout for all parties was close to 10 times the amount
that they initially offered a lot of fines were given to them for breaches on
work health and safety Executives were sacked others were jailed Etc a story
for another time when I feel comfortable
sharing in this time I was still working my job in
telecommunications my mother blessed her soul and moved in while all this was
happening to help me I think I would have fallen apart if she hadn't been as
involved as she was it was around this time I was offered a promotion but it
involved a lot of travel around the state I made a request to have an office
in my hometown's Branch as I wanted to not only take care of businesses in the
state but in my hometown also as there was no business representative located
there to which they agreed after a few months we settled into the routine of 1
to two weeks in the city office one week in my hometown and one to two weeks
weeks visiting the rest of the state after a year I decided to buy a house in
my hometown so I wasn't having to stay at my parents' place every week or so
that I was home and that I could come and go as I pleased this is important
for later in the story it's about 4 years later that our Story begins I had
just returned from one of my trips on Friday and was checking in some stuff in
my office when Harry the Branch's managing director walked in we had grown
up together also but had gone to different schools but since coming back
had developed a a very close friendship he asked how things were and then asked
me if I wanted to come to a house party that he was having that evening short
notice and all but I said yes I felt like a few drinks with friends were in
order it was there that Harry introduced me to Catherine she was a new hire at
the branch where my hometown's office was located and was getting to know
everyone being new in town we hit it off immediately as much of a cliche as it
sounds it was almost as if Rachel was in
front of me instead of Catherine I won't bore you too much with the details but
after 2 years of dating we decided to take the next step and she moved into my
hometown's house everything up to this point has been going really well
Catherine and my parents got along and Rachel's parents also approved and were
happy that someone could make me just as happy as Rachel had done all was going
well for close to a year when things began to change Skype sessions were cut
short suddenly neighbors would tell me about how a car described to me like ha
hares was always seen parked in the back alley near my house whenever I was away
some clothes that weren't mine were in my wardrobe all signs pointed to her
cheating but she said that nothing was happening she said that Harry would come
over occasionally to discuss business Etc but never stayed the night I chocked
it up to me being paranoid and continued
on as if nothing was wrong but there was always this feeling that something
wasn't right it was close to 6 months after that I discovered that she had
been lying to me I had just finished closing a rather large contract with a
new company and negotiations had wrapped up earlier than I'd anticipated so
instead of sticking around for the next few days I decided to pay for an early
flight home and surprise everyone fast forward a few hours and I drive into my
hometown and down the alley behind my house so that I could get into the house
without being seen and surprise Catherine some part of me was curious
however as to whether this mystery car was there sure enough there was a car
that was blocking the back entrance gate
I was confused for a moment wondering if it had just been a neglectful neighbor
parking only to realize that it was indeed Harry's car if it hadn't been for
the high hedg line that had put in a few years back for privacy I may have well
driven past my own place pulling up behind his car I got out and thought it
was strange that he was there so late as
she claimed that he'd always left by now
I approached the back of the house and I saw something that made my stomach drop
in my kitchen Catherine and Harry were going at it hammer and Tong I froze time
stopped there was my close friend hooking up on my kitchen bench with my
girlfriend I didn't know what to do so many questions were running through my
head was this real or was I dreaming why
were they hooking up in my house feeling defeated I turned and left without them
seeing me I sat in my car for what felt like an attor ET I was crying hard but
the sadness quickly turned to anger the same kind of anger I felt towards those
that were responsible for Rachel's death I wanted to hurt them badly as a
pacifist I don't believe in violence it was then I knew I was going to punish
them and destroy their lives and what better time to start than now I moved my
car back up the alley far enough from my driveway that I could still see Harry's
car and then walked back to the gate where I could see into the house and
called her phone they were still going for it when it rang they looked at the
caller ID and did a double take when my name came up I could see that she was
considering answering it and they let it ring out after a few moments they were
back into it again and I dialed once again this time she did answer as she
was answering I hung up and made my way back to my car as soon as I did she
called me back she asked why I was calling as late as I was and I told her
that I was about 10 minutes from home and didn't want to scare her coming in
she obviously was shocked and acted happy that I was coming and the call
ended up very quickly after she said she
was going to get up and get changed into something I said bye and hung up a few
moments later Harry came peeling through the Gates still half naked jumped into
his car and took off like a bad out of heck I smiled a little knowing the fear
that both of them would be feeling from being so close to being caught I waited
a few moments before turning my car into the same place har had been moments
earlier the night was fairly uneventful afterwards and it wasn't until after she
was asleep that I got up and went to my office down the hall I couldn't sleep I
needed a plan and plan I did the Revenge my mother always taught me to be a
pacifist and to allow Cosmic Karma to take its course but on this occasion I
decided that Karma could use a helping hand I decided to punish them separately
but destroy both of them I knew that Harry had had a drug habit nothing major
but he kept it private I only knew about it after accidentally seeing some coke
and weed left out in his place but pretended I hadn't seen it when he made
attempts to cover it up I began calling some of my more unsavory clientele and
made a few discreet inquiries into obtaining some samples that they were
willing to part with a few days later I had a decent enough stash for my plan to
work about a month later I had friends including Harry around for a barbecue
night after making sure that I sufficiently
liquored up Harry I told him to stay the night and sleep it off in the early
hours of that morning I took the drugs and an assortment of my personal
belongings and placed them at various places around his car with the biggest
stash in his tire well confident that he wouldn't find them over the first few
months as the rest of my plan took effect I locked the car up and went
inside to sleep I also placed some more drugs and personal items in his house
after driving him home because he was still too drunk to drive a few days
later I staged a Breakin by Smashing the back pain of my back door into my
kitchen and leaving it open before heading back to the city for a flight I
had several messages the moment I landed
one from my clearly panicked mom who had
found the back door smashed open and had called the police one from Catherine in
tears and a one from the local police asking me to call after returning all
the calls I informed the police I was away on business and that I would be
back the following week to talk with them while away I got Catherine to stay
with my parents until after I got back and asked my dad to organize one of the
local security companies to install cameras and an alarm system after
getting the go-ahead from the police as to not ruin the scene of the crime after
getting home I did the usual my God I can't believe this happened and why
would anyone do this routine after doing a thorough check of everywhere finding
that the items I had taken were missing and filing a police report I had the
security company's rep talk Catherine and I through how the cameras an alarm
system worked then came the question I'd been waiting for the question of what
happens if we're doing some business and don't want to record it she acted a bit
shy asking this question but I knew exactly the reason she was asking he
assured us this was a question he got asked a lot and we were shown on the
home computer if we wanted to be doing things without a being recorded how to
stop the recording for certain cameras so that we could protect her modesty as
I was walking him out I asked him if the cameras were turned off could a
notification be sent out just as a security precaution he came back in and
helped me through how to set up email notifications and left shortly after
fantastic all I had to do was wait at this stage I approached r/ legal advice
for some help in relation to couples law
in my country I needed to make sure that
my upcoming plan could illegally be done
and that I wouldn't be forced to pay out any money or Equity to Catherine as I
didn't know if we were classified as a deao couple or not being the sole
benefactor of Rachel's estate I didn't want to be left with any nasty surprises
where Catherine could take any of the estate away from me shout out to those
guys and gals there as they helped me get in contact with a great lawyer who
assured me due to the fact that although
we'd been dating for close to 4 years we hadn't been living together long enough
be classified as de facto and because I was paying all the utilities on the
property that she was living in and didn't pay rent showed that she had no
legal standing to make a financial claim against me just to be sure though he
drew up what I felt was a pretty Ironclad document just in case there
were any legal trouble the following week my work had approached me and
offered me a promotion to move back to the city and run the team that I was a
part of meaning I wouldn't need to travel as often and be in the one
location and due to the success of being located in my hometown that they were
considering having three to five Representatives spend one to two weeks
in the larger surrounding towns including my hometown as part of my team
I said yes and began the process of beginning my transfer which would take
about 6 weeks perfect more than enough time to gather all my evidence upon
getting back to my hometown the following week I began to start in
motion the rest of my plan I asked Harry to approve one week's worth of vacation
for Catherine for 2 weeks time I wanted to send her and a friend or two away on
a retreat before I made the biggest decision of my life for a second time he
jumped up and gave me a huge hug congratulating me on being prepared to
take the leap again I hugged him back tight but not the way I think you'd
imagine it at the time he agreed and blocked out the week for me I asked him
not to say anything to anyone as I wanted to make it as big a surprise as I
could good I knew that it would spread like wildfire around the office
regardless but that was my plan that night I told Catherine that I'd booked
her and two friends to go to a tropical spa resort all expenses paid for a week
no questions asked picked two friends and come back to the biggest surprise of
her life she screamed like a kid who had
just been told that all the candy in the shop was hers to have I then told her
that the following week I was going to spend it in the city preparing for a
large client who was one of my biggest accounts and needed some people in my
team to help before flying out the following week and I wouldn't be home
until the Monday that she was leaving so I wouldn't be able to see her which
seemed to disappoint her but I told her it would be worth it when she returned
what I failed to tell her was that I had decided to take 2 weeks vacation on the
other side of the country mentally preparing myself for the craft storm
that was about to erupt the moment she stepped foot on the plane as well as was
enjoying my first stage of freedom on Sunday 2 weeks later I flew back and
began driving home once getting there I did a quick pass by my house and sure
enough Harry's car was there like the first night i' caught them I parked a
little ways back and checked the cameras
asleep in my bed no surprise honestly as I'd recorded them constantly doing this
over the 2 weeks I'd been away I then made my first call to the police
blocking my caller ID I told them that I was one of my neighbors and saw someone
hanging around in their car in the alley
behind my house and occasionally passing something through Windows to passing
cars while also looking into my yard and I was concerned that they were dealing
drugs or going to break into someone's property I gave them his license plate
in description they said they would have someone there in a few minutes so I
thanked them and hung up I then called Catherine and told her I was about 10
minutes from home and that I knew she was flying out tomorrow but desperately
wanted to surprise her looking back at the footage now I laugh at the commotion
that I'm surprised I didn't hear in a few short seconds Harry was half-dressed
and flying out the back door to his car at that point I couldn't have asked for
a more perfect scene as Harry was peeling away one of the police cars
rounded the corner behind me saw Harry driving away fast and gave chase after
pulling in greeting an excited Catherine
and doing all the couple things she fell asleep again on the other hand couldn't
sleep a wink the next day her and her friends were bundled into a car after
they drove away I had to wait a few hours but I began to execute my plan I
called my friend who was a removalist and apologized for the late notice but
needed my place packed and moved on Friday after agreeing on a time I told
him that he would need to take certain boxes to a storage facility which he
said wasn't an issue then I began packing Catherine's belongings later
that day I got a call from from the police for me to come and identify some
property that they'd apprehended from a suspect the previous night that fit the
description of property I had reported stolen I grinned to myself happy that my
plan for Harry had grown to fruition and
replied that I would be there shortly to collect it of course when I got there
some of the items were still unaccounted for due to the fact that they must have
still been in his house and they hadn't searched there yet by this stage the
town was buzzing with news events in my hometown don't stay secret
for long Harry was disgraced and promptly fired for his possession of
drugs and stolen property and our respective bosses on behalf of the
company had extended a formal apology towards me during the week that night I
went to my parents house and told both mine and Rachel's parents what had
happened admitting certain details and that I was moving back to the city after
being promoted but Catherine wouldn't be a part of it they were pretty upset
initially that I hadn't let them know what was going on but they were happy
that I was handling everything maturely and hadn't sunk to their level though
they didn't agree with Ghost and Catherine but after some drinks laughs
and tears I went home on Friday afternoon after a busy week of
organizing cleaners for the following week the real estate to put my house on
the rental market and various other tasks at my hometown's office I packed
some things into my car and drove to my parents' place and said good by before
the drive before leaving I went to Becky's house Becky had been one of
Rachel's closest friends growing up she was the only other person who knew what
was happening minus the details about Harry without her help I wouldn't have
been able to organize everything as quickly as I had I gave Becky a large
manila folder with my gathered evidence of her cheating as well as the letter
and a few other legal documents from my attorney stating that she was ordered
not to contact me and the details of how to access her belongings located at the
storage unit I'd rented out after a quick goodbye I left and drove back to
the city on Sunday I woke up to several Miss calls voice messages and text
messages turns out Catherine had come home early after being alerted to
something being a foot in the town only to find an empty house and a forent sign
out the front freaking out she'd gone to my parents who closed the door on her
the moment that they answered forcing her to call everyone until she managed
to somehow be contacted by Becky and was told that she had a package for her I
was told that she didn't take too well to that as I fully well knew at that
point from the numerous angry texts and voice messages from her accusing me of
setting up hay of being deceitful Etc I was worried that she might show up at my
front door but nothing ever happened 5 weeks later after leaving and being
promoted I write this out for you dear reader granted it's long and it took a
few rewrites to shorten it down from my initial 14 pages but I feel that most of
what I said was important enough for the
story do you guys think that op went too far here or do you just understand like
with everything that they went through and what they experienced in this
situation do you just understand or was it just too much planting all that stuff
let me know what you guys think in the comments down below standing up to my
workplace bully led to unforeseen consequences let me start one out by
saying that I fully intended to seek revenge on the person in this story but
the Aftershock of the eventual confrontation is what led to the
aformentioned consequences rather than by my direct actions I work in the UK
for a large technology company doing software support I'm part of a team that
has members all over the world I've been in this job for around 10 years and
other than the major issues I've had with this guy I truly enjoy my job when
I started with the company I wouldn't say that I was Green I had about seven
years industry experience under my belt I was definitely inexperienced with the
company but the job that I'd been hired to do use technologies that I was more
than comfortable with the point I'm trying to convey here is that I wasn't
completely oblivious to all of the applications supported by our company
everyone on my team around 30 of us was very nice and was very keen to help
except for Shane Shane is probably what you would term the team Guru about 5
Years From retirement part of the office furniture metaphorically as we were all
home workers he'd been with the company for nearly 40 years everyone labeled
Shane as the only guy to go to when you were truly in a bind when I was
initially starting out I did indeed find that Shane was highly knowledgeable and
more often than not had the answers to whatever obscure questions you might
have things were great and our team ticked over nicely I got to know the
rest of the team well over phone over time too and my best friend was a woman
named Mel she was of a similar age and experience level to Shane and in my
opinion was just as knowledgeable as him one day Mel and I were on a brief call
chatting about a work issue when we got to shooting the breeze for a while we
talked about ourselves and also the team
I had said that I hadn't met anyone face
to face yet and that is when she told me that she once met Shane in person a
couple of years ago they're both based in the US I'm in the UK and both got
invited to a Tech Conference in New York she told told me that he has serious
health issues due to his weight around 450 lb and when he was home was often on
oxygen and medication his plan was to ride things out until he was able to
take early retirement so that he didn't need to worry about paying for his
medical insurance anymore that sounded like a reasonable enough plan to me and
we were soon talking about something else the issue started about 2 years
into my tenure with the company we started moving in a New Direction with
what applications we were going to be offer offering to customers and towards
that end we were trained in a bunch of new stuff I saw this as a great
opportunity and equalizer if no one on our team had any experience with this
new software then I would be on equal footing with everyone this went really
well for me and I put a lot of time and effort into learning as much as possible
Shane didn't show much interest in the new stuff he still continued to spend
most of his time with the Legacy Tools in team meetings you could clearly tell
he was getting pissed off that his status as a guru was gradually becoming
more and more meaningless this wasn't anything personal we work in software
you have to adapt in order to remain competitive as time went on it was
becoming clear to the team how much work I was putting in and I was well on the
way to becoming the go-to guy for the new software during this time Shane
would start sniping at me for anything he could plausibly manage for example if
I was late to a team meeting because a customer call over ran he'd make sure to
interrupt whatever was being said to comment something like oh look op's
bothered to Grace us with his presence even though he'd been guilty of the same
in the past things like email chains too
almost anything I sent out that included him and our boss on an email he would
reply with some unrelated complaint or observation completely irrelevant to
what was actually being discussed one day Mel called me and asked me what my
beef with Shane was I truthfully told told her that I'd had no beef at all
with him and he just seemed to have it in for me she said that if she managed
to find anything out she'd let me know things continued like this for a couple
of years I continued to be their go-to guy and he continued to try to discredit
me and generally pay me in a bat as light as possible one day we had a major
incident one that literally could have cost the company millions and SLA fines
if it was not solved quickly our manager split us into teams to troubleshoot
specific areas is and she paired me up with Shane I wasn't happy about it but
whatever I was a professional we got on a call and started working through the
issue as our call progressed it was becoming abundantly clear why he didn't
like me he knew nothing about the new application he hadn't done any work on
it at all everything I asked him to check he needed handholding even for the
most basic of tasks eventually I just stared at my screen and said for him to
watch me I went into the guts to the system through so many logs explaining
to him what I was doing the whole time and eventually found the problem was
with a recent patch that we'd installed at this point he dropped from the call I
didn't think anything of this at the time we use Skype for business and it
can be flaky so I just continued what I was doing our process was not to roll
back any changes until it had been approved by the senior manager as I was
the one responsible for deploying and rolling back patches I made some notes
about what we needed to do and then rejoin the main call I wasn't worried at
all because bad patches happened every so often they just didn't usually have
this level of impact as soon as I did I got absolutely destroyed by the incident
manager apparently Shane had returned to the group call and informed everyone
present that the outage was caused by an error that I had made in the deployment
process and that Shane had told me what the correct fix was and I'd refused to
implement it then and there I was Furious he had accurately told them the
cause of the problem because it was me who literally demonstrated to him how to
find it I had even foolishly mentioned to him what I thought would fix the
problem because of how long he'd been with the company compared to me only our
immediate team knew the truth about who was really the better skilled person in
this situation his historical reputation still carried a lot of weight with
people who didn't work day-to-day with him because this incident was so major
over a 100 people were on this call several of them two or three levels of
management above our team he made me out to be a reckless incompetent idiot and
he was believed despite my manager's protests I was disciplined and given a
verbal warning he meanwhile was congratulated for steering the company
away from a potential disaster and given a commendation I was so angry and a
while later Mel gave me a call apparently Shane had been bragging to
her about putting that smart butt punk in his place she was shocked and asked
him what he was talking about his real beef was that he thought I disrespected
him by trying to take over his role as go-to guy for the new software that
wasn't my intention at all I didn't see it as my fault that he was too darn lazy
to do the work again I lamented with Mel that she should have recorded the call
she laughed and said that Skype shows when you're recording a call and he'd
never have spilled his guts while being recorded I immediately Had a Brain Wave
I decided that I would confront Shane oneon-one I pinged him on Skype and said
that I wanted to talk he responded with a smiley and just said sure I called him
and let him know I was recording this call and the Skype notification popped
up to let all participants know that this call was being recorded I went
right for it and accused him of lying about the major incident and said that
it seemed like he had a major beef with me as expected he lied and said that he
was sorry that I felt like I had to react this way he said that he would
need to talk to our boss about it I said
wait one second and turned off the Skype recorder I then said that Skype isn't
recording and that he knew exactly what he had done his mask slipped at this
point and he said that he was perfectly in his rights to put me in my place he
said that you need to respect the longer serving people in jobs like this and
that he would do it again in a heartbeat
I didn't hold back I called called him a dinosaur who refused to move with the
times and wanted to Coast out his days here without doing any work he said that
he was a couple of years away from retirement and he'd be darned if he was
going to bust his butt for some shiny new software I said to him speaking of
new software has he heard of OBS of course he hadn't and I suggest that he
Google it I then hung up on him not long after the messages started he was
begging me not to use the secret recording that I'd taken he said that if
he gets fired he'll lose his retirement package and his medical benefits I told
him to go screw himself and that he should have considered that before
trying to get me fired I passed all of this on to the relevant channels before
really giving it any thought things set in motion and sure enough a few weeks
later after a company investigation he was fired I heard from Mel that he had
asked to take an early retirement so as to keep his benefits but this was
apparently rejected it all came out later that apparently he had significant
debts and that he was counting on his retirement package to keep him
financially afloat with no job and no package he had no money to pay for the
medical treatment which he badly needed he was in no state to get himself a new
job and his skills had stagnated so badly that he couldn't even get a new
job online Mel told me he passed about 6 months after this whole incident due to
his ongoing health issues I felt conflicted about this for a while
sharing the recording obviously contributed to his death but I don't
know how bad I feel about it I'm a young guy trying to build my career and he
actively tried to destroy me I should maybe have held off when he pleaded for
me to not reveal the truth but he was old enough and wise enough to not engage
in the childish games he played if I had known he' been gone as a result of this
I'd maybe have done things differently it's one that stays with me that's for
sure I'm still at this company and I can tell you that I will never treat a new
employee the way he treated me so maybe the breaking of that cycle is the
positive to come out of all of this so considering the outcome do you think if
op could have a second go around that they should withhold that information
after they were pleading or considering everything that cooworker did did they
deserve it regardless of that outcome let me know what you guys think in the
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story of the day written by do stinko Uno Pinko my Petty Revenge led me to a
nuclear Revenge victim I needed to go into DC for a couple hours yesterday
afternoon to tie a few things up at work before leaving for vacation I didn't
leave until a bit after noon so I was pretty hungry and decided to stop at
this nice little Deli SLG grocery store on the way for a sub it's a small
establishment but pretty popular the parking lot is kind of weird the spaces
are on the small side and it's very narrow I drive a full-size truck because
I have to tow heavy crap often I spot a corner space that's going to be easy for
me to get in and out of so I go for it I back in partially and then pull out to
straighten it up and a lady swoops in my
space in a little Fiat I put my truck in park and look through the back window
she was on the phone when I gave a little honk she looked up and gave me
the finger I gave her a slow shaking head and a thumbs down I don't know why
but that gesture seems more impactful to me like disappointment versus anger I
found myself another spot and started making my way to the deli the angry lady
was still engaged in her conversation now behind me walking to the deli she's
talking loudly on her phone about the redneck that almost wrecked her car in
the parking lot trying to gain sympathy from whoever she was speaking to like I
God darn tried to assault her with my vehicle so as I'm in line to take a
number to be served it clicks I can mess with her a little bit today I reach up
to take my number and pull the next 10 tucking them in as I turn around so the
angry lady didn't see them I make my way down the line passing out the extra
numbers ahead of hers and mine putting 10 people ahead of us to order and
receive food making her wait an extra 20 or so before she even got to order
here's where it gets a little fun my number was directly before hers so I
just just waited at the counter after they called mine as the girl walked up
with the next sub I asked if it was number 469 the angry lady sub it was of
course so the deli never called her number and I bought both subs I don't
know how long she waited before she asked about her order but I do hope she
wasn't a jerk to the workers the second part of this is what I did with the
extra sub I told a story from college a while back and in the comments I
mentioned that I try to be a little extra now part of that is being kind of
strangers I work in DC there's a ridiculous amount of homeless people
here so I pack an extra lunch a few days a week to eat with some random person
the extra sub was going to be my lunch date with whoever I ran into that looked
like they needed a meal after I parked my truck I found my overpriced parking
spot quickly and grabbed the sandwiches and a couple bottles of water before
making the track towards work I spotted a guy sitting on a bench with a little
sign asking for change I asked him if he'd like to have lunch with me his eyes
lit up and he shook his head yes we had a little casual conversation and he
asked me why I bought him a sandwich I told him that oddly enough I bought it
out of spite and told him how I came into ownership of said sub he laughed
said it was fate that Revenge brought him a sandwich and proceeded to tell me
the following story that led to him to the life he now lives he was a young
investment Baker in the late '90s making serious money he was married and had a
sex addiction he would spend spend thousands of dollars on high dollar
entertainers to do all kinds of weird stuff to him he eventually got himself a
sugar baby and set her up with an apartment in the city he had no interest
in children but his wife did so he got a secret visectomy thinking that he was
only going to be hooking up with two people now he liked the idea of no
condoms or babies at either house his plan was to stay at the apartment for a
couple of weeks to heal while his wife thought he was in San Francisco go for
business unfortunately for him his urologist's office called his home line
to check in after a couple of days this is when his wife started to learn of all
his illicit Behavior the cheating the spending the stealing of her future
family over the weeks he was gone she uncovered his secrets to her and she sat
on it he told me in the weeks and months after his vasectomy she started wanting
to go out get drunk experiment with drugs hugs and hooking up with groups he
was amazed at how much he and her were in sync now he loved their Newfound
lifestyle he really loved the white powder so much so that he had to evict
his sugar baby from the 7 to eight grand he was spending a month on Blow he
couldn't handle the expense anymore along with his habit luckily his wife
was still ride or die with the swinging snorting life they had built so he was
going to be okay and she was going along with every fantasy recing men and women
to hook up with she kept building up this fantasy of having a threesome with
his boss's wife whispering things in his ear when they were hooking up just
really putting her at the Forefront of his thoughts Christmas party time rolls
around and the whole staff is wasted she keeps ad him about the forbidden fruit
the boss's wife goes to the restroom and
his wife follows her after a few minutes they come out and the boss's wife waves
at him as his wife approaches she tells him that she's down to to swap and
that's why she waved next time she goes to the restroom he should just follow
her in she kept him at her side and fluffed him until she sent him gleefully
trailing behind his superior's wife into the restroom no that's not at all what
she was actually waving for wifey had said that he didn't think she'd seen him
all night and a wave would make him feel better he exposed himself and said he
couldn't wait to taste what her husband left in his wife after the scream in
this lap the party halted the next day he was fired and subsequently black
balled from his industry his white powder habit sucked what little finances
he had left after the divorce he couldn't keep a job after his life fell
apart he's now homeless and has done some deprived things for a warm place to
sleep and a meal no not for this meal I mean honestly all I know is that story
is insane and frankly I feel like the money they spent on that sub was well
worth it getting a story like that in return fooled my cheating soon to be
ex-wife into the thinking I was cheating then thermonuclear Shinobi ghosted and
served her Christmas day I hope you've got some time and a snack because this
one's going to be super long as the events that follow Spann from late 2019
to last week as per the rules all names are altered here in okay so here's the
backstory my soon to be ex-wife was my high school sweetheart we started dating
in 1992 when we were both 17 we're both 45 now and I've been together ever since
she's the only woman I've ever been with my entire life we married 5 years later
at 22 fresh out of college a year later we had our first of two children both
boys 22 and 17 203 years I gave to her built her a house worked my butt off to
give her the life she wanted sure we had rough batches but what marriage doesn't
even in the worst of times we found a way to pull through and come out the
other side better which made the discovery of her aair that much more
jarring flash back to March 2020 when I first got the Feeling something was off
for a good two months prior we were in a funk I was on the men from
reconstructive knee surgery blew out my ACL fall 2019 but still lacking in
movement at the time I only had about 55% range of motion on my knee this took
quite a toll in the house I was out on workers comp as I'd been injured on the
job and I was unable to do my usual household Duty so a lot got backed up my
sons would do what they could but tasks only I was capable of doing had to be
put on the back burner or my wife had to do which she wasn't pleased with things
also crawled to a standstill in the bedroom between us it had already slowed
down prior to my injury but in the state I was in at the time it completely
stopped during these months she we'll call her Sue was spending more time
hanging with co-workers after work between November 2019 to March 2020 it
was a regular occurrence for her naturally I thought nothing of it I've
never in the 23 years I'd been with her had any reason to worry or not trust her
she has her friends I have mine and we have mutual I'd go hang out with my
friends all the time and there was no issue it was all above board it was
around January of this year that I noticed something odd Sue started
getting noticeably distant with me sure we were in a funk but she never denied
me affection to that point the usual hugs and kisses she'd gave me came to a
halt her phone was attached to her hand long before my suspicion grew but she'd
always share and show me things she'd discovered on the web DIY interests and
recipes on Pinterest memes all kinds of stuff but she was now being guarded
about her phone even her interactions with me became more snippy as if she
couldn't be bothered so we're now in March Co has arrived in New York City's
lockdown our chosen careers fall under the essential designation so neither of
us have to work from home i' just been recently cleared to return to work after
5 months on the shelf and I was eager to
get back after it as 5 months on my butt rehabbing my knee and not being able to
do physical stuff drove me nuts for context I enjoy physical activities I'm
an avid martial artist and I'm typically in the gym 4 days a week on top of all
the home projects I did within a week or
two of the lockdown my soon Tobe ex-wife alerts me that she's going to have to
start putting in extra hours again again I think nothing of this because of her
field of course I was under the assumption it'd be every other day but
no it was every day and not just an hour or two she'd come home three or more
hours later and go straight to the shower spend a little time with me a
little time with our 17-year-old 22-year-old lives with his girlfriend
cross town and then go to bed as I'm able to support myself on my knee better
we started getting into again but as you'd probably guess she wasn't mentally
or emotionally present for it which I noticed quickly so by early April the
picture started getting clearer to me all of the signs were pointing to the
idea that she was having an affair that's when I decided I needed to find
answers so I scoured the internet on things I should be looking for signs of
infidelity in one's partner and sure enough she was pretty much taking all of
the boxes on such Behavior so then my search in query Advanced to how do I
find proof I started with her social media looking at her Facebook entries
from months prior it's pretty much the usual picks of us and our sons picks
with her and her friends and a few more picks of her nights out with co-workers
in these pics it's a mixed bag of her closest friends from work and a couple
of folks I've never met from her work but I see one recurring thing in a
number of these picks one guy in every picture he's in he's rather un
comfortably close to her his arms around her shoulder or hand on her lower back
way too close for a guy I've never personally met needless to say that put
a sour taste in my mouth but that wasn't the worst of it no no no the worst was
the fact that apparently this dude is a friend of hers on Facebook and follows
her on Instagram so we go to look up his Facebook account and wouldn't you know
it I'm blocked why the heck am I blocked from seeing this guy's Facebook account
but he's friends with her on Facebook yep I'm now in Batman detective mode at
that point I wasn't even trying to deny it I knew she was cheating on me with
this guy my mission was to find out for how long and over the course of April
and May that's what I did you know I never had any clue the depth of info you
could secure from phone text and email records up until then we have a family
cell phone package and I was able to pull up quite a bit of data my soon Tobe
ex-wife's data history was telling the two most frequent numbers she had
interacted with from October 2019 to April 2020 was my own and a number I've
never seen before take a while guess whose number it was a quick check on
Google and I confirmed it was the dude from the photos who blocked me on
Facebook we'll call him POS cuz that's what he is again the picture becomes
even clearer at this point but a lot of their messages and texts were disjointed
which meant she was deleting a lot of them I knew she was cheating on me with
this guy but nothing in the data could serve as a Smoking Gun I needed more
evidence it's at this point that I tell my best friend Oz what I'd found he
asked me did I confront her with what I had and I said no because I felt like it
wasn't enough that's when he told me about an app that I could download to
apparently spy on her Communications in real time I won't say the name as I
don't know the rules on that here I got it installed sync up my data plan and
waited within days of doing so I finally saw it a texturing between the two of
them talking about how much fun they'd had the previous night and making plans
to do it again that weekend boom gut punch to say I was completely devastated
was an understatement I guess that moment counts as my D-Day and for the
next 2 days after I was just broken I actively distanced myself from her those
2 days immediately after D-Day which she was noticeably shaking by she tried to
cons St me and ask me what was wrong but I'd brush it off and leave her pres I
couldn't even look at her this woman who I gave 23 years of my life to who I had
given everything I could and more to as a husband and she stepped outside of our
marriage for a guy just 5 years older than our eldest son by the third day I
wasn't even sad anymore I was pissed I contacted my friend oz to let him know
my suspicion was confirmed and he asked me had I confronted her yet my answer
was was no and I told him I wanted payback I didn't want to just divorce
her I wanted to destroy her I wanted to leave her life in shambles and freaking
ruin her it was going to take time to do so and I devised to plan in my readings
and research on infidelity I had saw a quote that resonated with me that went
the enemy of infidelity is unpredictability or something to that
elk that was going to be the basis of my plan I was going to make her life hack
on wheels while also secretly planning my exit strategy so we're now in early
June and I've got the app still installed pretty much every night I'm
gathering as much data as I can seeing their back and forth messages they're
talking like it's a full-blown relationship they in sexting lovey-dovey
romantic stuff inappropriate photos the whole freaking bag at that point I'd
stopped looking at any of it I was just collecting info and cataloging on my
private FPS server meanwhile I start doing things out of the ordinary I start
going out at odd times I start coming home later than she does and her
presence I'm on my phone a lot more than usual and when she asks what are you up
to I just simply say just stuff and put my phone away I'd also changed my login
info on everything so she couldn't access any of my stuff mind you for our
entire marriage we did never hit anything from each other but right
around I'm assuming the start of her Affair she' changed her password on
Facebook as well as on her phone stating she had to because of the security
breaches in recent months yeah really nice cover for hiding your Affair from
your husband anyway I'd include oz in on my plan as well as telling my older and
only sister and two more of my closest friends what was going on these are
people I trust with my life and I swore them to secrecy for context Oz and I
have been friends since we were kids the other of our friends Joey and nah we've
known since high school make note of nah she comes into play down the road July
comes and my soon Tobe ex-wife is in full paranoia mode she's texting and
calling me a lot more frequently now asking me if I'm going to be home when
she gets home when am I coming home while she is and I'm not asking me what
I'm up to the works I can see the seed planted in her head the month prior is
starting to sprout especially in her communication with POS she's confiding
in him her doubt and confusion telling him that I'm getting cold and distant
the freaking nerve of this woman in the interim of these interactions with POS
she suggests that maybe they should stop meeting up at our house because she has
no idea if I just show up confirming that yes she's had this jerk wad in my
home thanks Sue POS asks her in that specific communication was she worried
about me potentially cheating on her which actually pissed her off I can't
even begin to describe the level of joy and how many laughs I got out of reading
that exchange my cheating wife arguing with her Affair partner over if she's
mad her husband could be cheating on her oh the freaking irony now bear in mind
I'm not hooking up with anyone when I leave I'm usually at Oz's or Joey's
throwing back some booze watching fights and spending some time with my Bros or
at my big sister's house hanging with her and my brother-in-law who's like an
older brother to me my sis is 52 and her
hubby's 8 she had told him about my soon
to be ex-wife's infidelity but not of my
plan couldn't risk it as he's a bit of a blabber mouth we'll fast forward now to
October that's when things seriously pick up I've been in my faux Affair for
3 months now and Sue is hyper aware of the fact that I'm actively pulling away
from her it's been as long as the day I enacted my plan until the day she
confronted me October 20th 2020 that I had even touched her no hugs no kisses
no initiation of intimacy nothing not like she needed it she was still
screwing POS just at his place or at motels so that afternoon she calls me at
work which wasn't rare before this all began but certainly hadn't happened in a
while and asks me to come straight home after work saying she had something
important to tell me I'm not going to lie to you all I half believ she was
going to come clean about her infidelity but she of course didn't instead I get
home to her asking me if I was unhappy with her the freaking nerve she cites
the fact that I've been spending way too much time away from home I don't show
her affection anymore and our sex life has completely died she tells me she's
worried I'm pushing her away because I was resentful of how she treated me the
months I was rehabbing my knee and then came the punchline she freaking asked if
I was cheating on her folks I fell on the floor laughing hysterically and when
I say hysterically I mean Joker laughing gas hysterical on the surface it looked
like to her assuming it was me laughing off the notion of being unfaithful but
it was of course actually me laughing at
the sheer irony of what was happening in front of my eyes I'm tearing up pouting
on the floor and complete hysterics for a good 2 minutes before I compose myself
enough to answer I sit up and look her in the eyes for the first time in months
shaking my head but I don't give her an answer I stand up Rush myself off kiss
the top of her head and go about settling in for the night later that
night as I'm in my office I decide you know what given the brevity of what
happened I wanted to see what she was telling him so I fire up the app and
sure enough they're actually texting in real time she tells POS I know he's
cheating on me I asked him tonight and he literally laughed in my face he fell
on the floor and laughed for like 5 minutes it wasn't 5 minutes obviously he
doesn't care how I feel anymore I don't know how or why but he's gone I know
I've lost him this is karma I know it the smile on my face I had while reading
that must have resembled a Cheshire Cat she was breaking POS attempted to
console her saying that if I cared enough for her she wouldn't have had to
come to him to give her what I wasn't giving her but the tone of her responses
told me she was having doubt now she had the nerve to step out of our marriage
because I was unable to fulfill my role as a husband due to a legitimate injury
and kept the affair going for at that point nearly an entire year but the idea
of her losing me to another woman was enough to make her waiver what a
freaking weakling now during all of this I was also exacting the second part of
my plan for payback getting all of my Affairs in order financially in
September ID met with a family attorney to get the ball rolling on divorce
papers with the mountain of evidence I'd
piled up to that point New York is an at fault state as far as divorce and the
overwhelming amount of proof I'd gathered Des playing Sue infidelity
pretty much solidified I could nail her to the freaking wall in a divorce case
my lawyer instructed me to get all of my financials in order and preparation for
whatever division of assets might come as a result I went one better than that
secretly pulling all of my money out of our joint account and putting it in my
personal account I also started shopping
around for an apartment as part of phase 2 we're now in November and I've not
changed my behavior in fact I've ramped it up this is where my friend nah comes
into play for context nah and Sue have never been what you call close I met
Nina freshman year of high school 2 years before I met Sue even way back
then sue had seen nah as a threat as she's my closest female friend there's
always been an implied I don't trust her from Sue regarding nah she's never
addressed it directly but it's obvious to anyone who pays attention conversely
Nina's never been a big fan of Sue early in me and Sue's relationship nah called
to attend mentioned to me how Sue is pretty much imposing herself into our
little square of friends whereas I didn't do the same with Sue set of
friends that irked nah because she knew why Sue was doing it her among Sue's
Circle even now there are no male friends aside from POS whereas nah is
the only girl in my Square nah had been stuck overseas due to the virus and
finally returned to New York City November 3rd Oz Joey and I decided we
were going to celebrate her return with a night at Joey's house for dinner and
drinks there was only five of us Oz Joey
Joey's wife who's also Nina's sister nah
and myself sticking to CDC guidelines we
take Theona very seriously nah being the evil mastermind she is comes up with an
evil idea to trigger Sue she suggested we take some photos in the same vein of
photos I discovered of Sue and POS months prior and post them to my
Facebook and that's just what we did it wasn't until the 5ifth that Sue got a
wind of it as I'm guessing a few friends noticed my updates and saw how
uncomfortably close I was with nah this really messed her mind up because she
still believed I was cheating and I can almost guarantee she wanted to accuse
nah but she knew that nah had been stuck in Europe for the majority of the Year
still didn't stop her from attempting to
dress me down that night for being so as she said handsy in the pics I saw this
as a golden opportunity to deliver the lead jab for my knockout BL
I say so what about the picks with you and POS from last year he was pretty
handsy in them but did you see me get bent out of shape over it deer and
headlights it was the first time I even mentioned the dude's name throughout all
of this the hamster wheel in her head started reeling in real time as she
tried to explain away those pcks to that point she hadn't even known I saw them
That's how little I use Facebook when I actually do post something it's like an
event to people which is why the picks with nah specifically got so much
traction among our circles and explain a way she did he's that way with everyone
he's just a really friendly guy I can see how it looks but there's nothing
there I'm sorry if those pics hurt you I'll delete them no no the pics aren't
what hurts me the year you've been hooking up with the dude whil it's lying
to me that you're working extra hours and hanging with friends is what hurts
me but Vengeance as Lieutenant Commander Warf from Star Trek the Next Generation
so famously said is a dish best served cold from that night Sue was being extra
specially clingy and attentive to me like annoyingly so she' try to initiate
affection and intimacy with me and I'd Stonewall her at every chance all of the
while I'm archiving literally everything she says to POS mind you at this point
I'd long since gone numb any desire I might have had to save my marriage was
dead i' checked out the day I enacted the first phase of my plan she's
confiding in him that I've gotten worse that she doesn't know what to do and she
feels like I absolutely hate her I do then comes the bombshell she says she
can't see him anymore the guilt is too much for her and she feels like karma is
suffocating her she can't risk losing me she says that she loves POS deeply but
she still is in love with me and she has
to save her marriage before she loses me no my dear you're about 8 months too
late for that BOS loses his crap saying such lovely things as doesn't love you
the way I love you and you're making a mistake you can't just throw me away
like this that text chain would be the last they'd have until about 3 weeks ago
throughout the remainder of November into December she's stuck in limbo she's
trying to gauge where my head space is and is still unable to tell if I'm
actually being unfaithful meanwhile POS is steadily blowing her phone up daily
but she's not responding to him I'd see her check her phone often then quickly
put it away meanwhile phase two of the plan with was now officially complete
the divorce papers were done I found me a studio apartment in Co-op City New
Yorkers will know the area and signed a 2-year lease on it all of my money was
in my personal account I was ready to throw my hay maker so we're now at
Thanksgiving my oldest and his girlfriend were hosting a small
gathering of our immediate families so them oldest and his girlfriend oldest
girlfriend's parents she's an only child myself Sue and our youngest we have a
great night my oldest girlfriend is studying to be a chef and she did all
the cooking herself the girl can freaking cook let me tell you as I had
to keep up appearances of nothing being wrong between Sue and I I initiated
affection with her several times that evening kisses on the cheek cute little
hugs wrapping my arms around her shoulders from behind the gestures
didn't go unnoticed by her as she reveled in it bear in mind this was the
first time I touched this woman since I kissed the top of her head the night she
confronted me in October October so just about 2 months not going to lie I felt
repulsed doing it but I had to I couldn't risk the plan and me being
distant to her in the face of my boys my oldest's girlfriend and her parents
would set off alarms so my youngest decides he wants to stay over with his
big bro for the night so Sue and I head home on the drive home she thanks me for
being so good to her and says I don't know what you're going through baby but
I'm here for you I had to hold off busting out a maniacal laughter again
responded saying I know I just need time so for the first time realistically
since Springtime we hooked up that night I figured screw it with what I'm about
to do may as well get some action before I delete her from my existence I won't
go into detail but it wasn't love making when I finished she was a lump of Flesh
laying there trying to figure out the direction of the truck that ran her over
no cuddling or anything after I just got up showered and went to go sleep in my
office to her confusion though I used protection first time in two darn
decades I did she was definitely perplexed by it but she didn't ask
questions sh asach wasn't going raw knowing that she'd been doing so with
POS for months at that point I wake up the next day and check my handy dandy
spy app and for the first time in weeks she responded to POS dude went full
Nolla he professed his love for her said she was wasting her time trying to
rekindle a flame in me that died that she'd have been inap risen with me for
23 years and deserve to experience the love and affection of a man that would
cherish her mind you this dude is 27 freaking years old 5 years older than
our oldest son and he's that sprung on a
45-year-old married mother of two what a grade A highquality simp she chose to
blow up our marriage and destroy the home we'd Built For This dude a pretty
boy with a soft side H she responded saying pretty much the same thing she
said when they last talked that she loved them and enjoyed their time
together but she can't lose me I'm still the love of her life but she'll always
have a place for him in her heart that they can still be friends if he chooses
but the physical relationship between them is over he begged her to see him
one last time that week and yep you guessed it she said yes one more for the
road right who am I to say anything that's what I did to her the previous
night of course I added all of that to the archive I'd compiled December 4th is
when phase three the Final Phase of operation Shinobi ghost started the
divorce papers were in hand my new place or residence was set up now I had to
slowly start moving my stuff out of the house but first I had to break the news
to my boys I called my oldest to the house that Friday night had them join me
in my office and laid everything on the table not the specifics but that their
mother had been cheating on me for over a year and I was going to be filing for
divorce soon my 17-year-old old was especially shaken up by this because he
himself had recently experienced his first taste of infidelity yep his first
girlfriend had cheated on him just four months prior seeing his heart broken a
second time at the idea that his own mother was capable of doing this hit him
hard my oldest took it a lot better and suggested taking his brother in to live
with him until this blows over to which I agree we packed up some of his stuff
and he asked me if I was going to be okay I told him yes son I'm going to be
all right and so are you we're going to be all right I promise and then they
were off the hardest part was now over and it was now time to arm the nukes
over the next few weeks day by day Oz would help me get a little of my most
sensitive stuff out of the house gave him a list of all the definite stuff to
grab while Sue and I were at work and left him the spare key this was all
stuff that Sue wouldn't notice was missing unless he told her it was gone
I'd also gotten a new phone and a phone number and told everyone who needed to
to know Oz Joey nah my boys big sis and my mother my new contact info meanwhile
I'm keeping up the ruse with Sue and she's none the wiser trickling bits and
pieces of affection to her just to keep her off the trail whilst she's still in
contact with POS not to the extent that they'd been prior but there's still an
emotional thing happening the fog is faint but it's still there all the while
I gather everything and I do mean everything every bit of data I've
archived since I started the plan in call logs texts picks emails everything
and start making printouts folks I must have spent over $1,500 on Staple
supplies printer ink paper binders the works and I cataloged everything in
order from the beginning of the affair until that last bit 2 weeks ago December
16th in the binders 14 of them I then put each one in a box and gift wrapped
each addressing them to various people my mother my father pass last 7 years
ago her parents her two sisters her brother her HR department did I forget
to mention POS works for the same company and there's an expressed rule
against intercompany relationships because of the nature of what she does
several of her friends POS and P's parents lugged all those freakers to the
post office and shipped them all out December 16th ETA for the delivery
December 22nd to 24th perfect so we're now at Christmas Eve Sue comes home
around the usual time no idea if she'd seen POS I'd stopped tracking her on the
app the 18th figure I'd gotten all the mileage I'd need out of it as per usual
she showers hangs out with me a bit I blow her back out on the living room
couch I know I'm a freaking jerk and she turns in for the night the Final Phase
was upon me at long last the new guy had
been arming since June was finally about to be launched in the middle of the
night I woke up and wrapped up one of the three remaining binders with the
divorce papers taped to the inside cover and set it on my side of the bed with a
note that said Merry Christmas on it next to it I left my old phone and the
business card of my lawyer I packed up the remainder of my most needed items
enough to fill two backpacks and I left my home that I spent 23 years in for the
last time that my friends was one week ago to Sue I'm completely off the grid
gone Shadow ghosted she's blocked on Facebook but still hasn't blocked me
for some reason so I'm keeping tabs on the Fallout it's absolutely glorious my
packages have reached everyone I sent them out to and Sue is getting crucified
her youngest sister completely dressed her down both of her parents have
condemned her my mom absolutely destroyed her like holy crap I know my
mom has a Mean Streak but the things she called Sue were unfreaking holy she's
been frantically trying to find out if anyone knows where I am but those that
do aren't saying a word all over her Facebook feed she's desperately trying
to reach me because I'm guessing she knows I'm likely looking but I'm not
saying a freaking word to her without my lawyer present that'll be the next time
I share oxygen with her she's got no way
of spinning the narrative to paint me as the bad guy because I've exposed her to
everyone who matters to her and from what a mutual friend who works in the
same company as her said she and PE apparently are being put on
administrative leave as of tomorrow so yeah chances are she'll be going into
2021 unemployed as for the final two binders well one's been turned over to
my lawyer as my final bit of evidence for my impending divorce and the last
one I put in my storage unit to be burned in Joey's fire pit when the
divorce is final do I feel guilty about this no not even in the slightest 23
years I did write by this woman I gave her the home she wanted I gave her the
family she wanted I gave her the life I felt we both deserved and I loved her
unconditionally never have I faltered never have I strayed never have I even
entertained the notion of breaking my vows when an issue came up that I felt
was affecting our marriage I came to her and told her and we sorted it out the
best we could she opted to find comfort in another man's bed rather than come to
me and say she was unhappy with our sex life at the time she decided to step out
with a young punk who gave her the tingles so no I have no sympathy for
what I did or for her she can burn for all I care the most I stand to lose is
my house a car and maybe a couple hundred bucks a month in alimony but
seeing as the divorce is filed under the statute of adultery and New York state
is at fault that might get waved with the insurmountable amount of evidence
I've provided as far as I'm concerned she's dead to me and I'm never looking
back if you were in such a a long-term lifetime level relationship would you
have the ability to wait as long as op did to enact this level of Revenge or
would you just have to call them out on it right away kick them out get it going
as soon as it happened let me know how you would handle something like this in
the comments down below beat me up I'll run you over this story is not mine
neither of anyone I personally know but it's something that happened where I
lived and it became news last week because of how gruesome and stupid it
was as it's public and on the news I'll try not to give names as to not expose
even more the parties and their families
this happened last Sunday April 21st the Revenge victim in the situation was an
MMA fighter and the perpetrator was his Uber driver I'll refer to them as
fighter and Uber that night the Uber picked up the fighter and some of his
friends in a planned neighborhood in the suburbs of my city the group was
supposedly drunk and were screaming and making a huge fuss inside the car which
annoyed the Uber he asked them to stop which they did for a while but soon
after started again they kept annoying the Uber until he snapped he stopped the
car on top of an overpass and told them to get out of his car this was late at
night so it had no traffic the group started to get out but the fighter
didn't like the Uber's attitude so he started punching the Uber right before
leaving his friends take him off of the driver and the Uber speeds off the
fighters group start walking to a nearby gas station to wait for another ride
meanwhile the Uber makes it back around round and starts speeding back in their
Direction and hits the fighter in the back running him over from what I heard
the impact alone wouldn't have been enough to kill the fighter but that was
not it the force of the impact launched the fighter in the direction of a truck
parked nearby and he hit his head on said truck killing him almost instantly
while the Uber sped off the driver presented himself to the cops last
Thursday April 25th the fighter had two kids and so did the driver needless to
say this is definitely one of those overly Brash decisions that you make
would you guys agree with me that to be able to go and do this and run somebody
over like that that you have to have a legitimate anger problem whether that's
a disability or a mental issue or do you think an otherwise normal person could
get riled up to the point that they would actually go and do that let me
know what you guys think in the comments down below our next story is from an
anonymous poster my mom's abuser gets what he deserves this happened when I
was much younger and frankly I'm not ashamed after divorcing my dad my mom
hooked up with a dude who was really into drugs I was 14 at the time after
hooking up with him she pretty much abandoned me I went a year without
seeing her and around 15 I finally saw her again she was as thin as a twig and
had a black eye I immediately grabbed my
skateboard and went to go after her dude
but my uncle stopped me and just told me not here we were at my grandparents
house fast forward a few years where I rarely saw her and I would hear about
the abuse here and there from family I didn't get involved as I was a teenager
and didn't even know where she was most times of course she never told me about
the beatings when I did have a chance to see her or speak with her when I was 18
I was living with my uncle the one who stopped me years before he got a call
late one night and it was my mom her dude had hurt her bad we loaded up two
9mm pistols and grabbed a couple of bats then rolled out but when we arrived the
cops were there as a neighbor at call Mom's dude was arrested and she was
taken to a hospital he messed her up pretty good did a year and a half in the
pen for it after he gets out he claims to be reformed and they hook back up now
I'm in my early 20s she's living near me and I'm trying to build my relationship
with her back up I never would visit her when her dude was home and she would
only come to visit along I hadn't heard much those days about the abuse as it
appeared she was trying to clean up her act and think things maybe were better
with him one day she comes to visit and I notice a ton of swelling in one eye
and a bunch of makeup kicked around the area I observed but I didn't acknowledge
I knew what he had done I kept my cool and gave her the impression I wanted to
give him a chance as she had begged me to do for years I invited her over for a
cookout and gave her permission to bring him my daughter who was a baby and her
mom were present for this as well maybe I should have mentioned that earlier I
became a dad at 21 and we stayed together this all occurred around the
same time frame anyways the day comes and she brings them I had already
stashed my favorite aluminum kids baseball bat by the back door kid-sized
metal bats are the best for home defense
I led everyone to the front yard to hang out and had my mom daughter and my
daughter's mom chilling out there by the grill I knew my mom's dude smoked herbs
so I made an implication that I'm growing something in my backyard and I'd
like to show him as he heads to the backyard I told him I just needed to
grab something from inside real quick side note I'm really proud of myself for
being able to play this all cool because
inside I was raging I see him waiting in the backyard and I grabbed my bat I
stormed outside and yelled so I heard you like to hit women I proceeded to
beat the heck out of him shins ribs back and arms I didn't want to kill him as I
knew I'd go to prison and I had a newborn to raise but I did hit his head
once accidentally I just wanted to hurt him good cuz I wanted to send a message
he crawled to the front yard as my mom yelled at me and cussed me out she got
him into the car and they sped off as my
neighbors stood outside trying to figure out what happened I kept all the action
in the backyard so no one would see but I made a point to yell at her car
driving away something along the lines of don't let me find out you hit my mom
again I just didn't need cops to come luckily no one called my mom didn't
speak to me for months nothing new here I ended up cat catching up with a mutual
acquaintance and I found out I cracked ribs on the dude and he had severe
bruising all over he couldn't really get around for a few weeks mom's dude asked
said acquaintance whether he should seek revenge but Mom's dude was told he
earned it so he just accepted it and didn't move forward I think he knew that
if he did seek revenge on me that my family very old school rural country
type family would help them disappear so I owe them gratitude for their
understood protection of me they tried to help my mom their sister but she
would just disappear with her dude anytime loved ones tried to intervene
she is a grown woman after all that's my story I'm not ashamed first time I've
ever told this publicly but all these years later it feels good to let it out
well I'm not saying a kid's baseball bat is the answer in this situation but
considering what was going on you can't really blame them too much for feeling
that way and doing that I mean if it's your own mom and you care about her a
lot and you see that happen happening to her they show up silently trying to
downplay it knowing the turmoil they're going through how can you not want to do
something like that by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit
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videos that said our final story of the days by an anonymous poster crappy
neighbor bullly struggling immigrants for 15 years their kid gets revenge and
the crappy neighbor loses custody of her kid and is forced to move out of their
house spoiler alert I'm the kid a bit of context first I'm an only child born in
the USA to older parents they were both 45 when I was born who immigrated from
Venezuela in the 9s when I was 2 my dad was shot in the head he lived for
another 13 years but the incident permanently damaged certain parts of his
brain and he was a completely different person for those last 13 years he went
from being the most loving incredible caring compassion passate person around
to an aggressive violent jerk who blew up over the smallest things but only
ever at his inner circle me my mother or other close family he always managed to
keep his composure around strangers for fear of someone calling the police and
him getting arrested but he would later let it all out on my mom and myself
admittedly mostly me after the shooting he could never work again and my mom was
forced into the position of being the family's sole bread winner we lived in p
y for many many years because the USA wouldn't recognize her college degree
and she couldn't afford to go to college again so she couldn't work in her field
and had to start at the bottom of the ladder that eventually passed when I was
15 of issues related to his shooting now when I was seven my parents decided to
move into a town with a better reputation for their schools than the
one we were currently living in so that I could attend a better school they
bought a house literally on the edge of town most of this town is incredibly
expensive but because on the other side of our street and across the town line
there's a big complex of government subsidized housing our area is much
cheaper this is the house with the jerk neighbor the house is a three family for
the last 16 years we've owned and occupied the first floor while the
terrible neighbor lived on the second floor until recently and the third floor
had been occupied by over 10 owners and tenants over those years none have
stayed more than three or 4 years and some have stayed as little as a handful
of months now the second floor witch let's call her Karen because obviously
she has a husband who will call Bill and they have a young son Henry here's the
story when we moved in Karen and Bill had already been there for a few short
months the three of us us on the first floor Karen and bill on the second and
the original third floor's owners bought the house from the same crew who had
bought it and turned it into a three family fixing it up in the process Karen
quickly showed her true colors as a bully over the years there's been
countless examples of nasty crap she's pull her husband bill is an immigrant
himself and doesn't speak very good English he's very submissive to her and
does whatever she wants but in front of other people makes himself out to be
physically dominant in our first years here they used to fight a lot which we
regularly heard from downstairs they would yell sometimes for hours and
occasionally it seemed like things got violent and was born maybe 10 years ago
he doesn't factor into the story until much later but anyways the point is
whatever Karen's done she's always gotten away with it here's a couple
highlights my mom always took pride in how well she took care of our trash bin
and recycling bin every month she'd give them a quick rinse after that week's
trash day just to make sure that they wouldn't develop a smell or a colony of
bacteria wouldn't move in Karen apparently wasn't so diligent and one
time her recycling bin got really nasty and I mean really nasty so she just left
it out back context behind the house isn't a backyard it's just pavement with
a parking spot designated for each unit and began using hours lo and behold
hours started to get nasty and Mom quickly went from spending a quick 3
minutes rinsing it out every month to about 45 minutes scrubbing with soap and
water to clean it out eventually we decided we'd had enough and she and Dad
sent Karen and the third floor tenants of the time a polite but firm email that
basically said whoever started using our recycling bin please stop and use your
own you never asked our permission and we take good care of it and ever since
you began using it it's become disgusting we knew it was Karen and Bill
but Mom and Dad figured it was more polite without a call out and they
didn't want to start anything within a week two things happened Karen and Bill
got a brand spanking new recycle bin and one week we found ours had been
mysteriously destroyed someone took a knife to it and cut it to Pieces we had
no way of knowing who it was but we had a pretty good feeling we knew exactly
who it was yes we had to get a new one because we had no evidence of who did it
though my parents didn't say anything about it back when we could afford a car
we haven't had one since our first few years here we used our parking space out
back every time that Karen and Bill host at a party which back then was
surprisingly frequently they would toss their trash over their balcony into the
general vicinity of the trash and recycling bins out back which is
literally right next to our designated parking space most of the dents we had
on our old 88 Toyota were from bottles thrown from the second floor balcony we
had Windows break a couple of times same deal each time it happened my parents
would politely go upstairs knock on Karen and Bill's door and respectfully
ask them to stop throwing stuff over the balcony because we know you don't mean
it but sometimes it accidentally hits our car each time they went and did that
Karen and Bill stopped but they would do it again until they got caught during
their next party again though my parents never wanted to escalate the situation
so they never Justified taking it further than knocking on her door and
politely asking them to stop this is another example of Karen's utter crap
Behavior but it's also relevant for the revenge part of the story so I'm putting
it after the bullet point section our basement is shared between all three
units each unit has its designated space boxed out kind of like office cubicles
and there's some designated common area in between years ago like maybe 8 or
nine Karen and Bill completely filled their designated basement cubicle so
they just started piling crap all over the common area eventually they
developed this enormous pile of junk in front of unit 1's our unit oil tank for
heating my mom and dad never said anything because it happened over a long
period of time and they didn't want to start a fight and as far as I know none
of the third floor folks ever said anything either but it got to the point
where she and her husband were taking up common area space that was easily twice
the size of their designated cubicle now
I'll be the first to admit that for many years my parents and I weren't great
neighbors either we didn't bully anyone but due to my dad's condition he could
be triggered by seemingly anything and suddenly he'd be in a rage and we'd all
be yelling I grew up in that generally chaotic environment and yeah there were
several times when the police were called to our house for noise
disturbances but we kept our crab to ourselves and we were nothing but polite
and respectful to all our neighbors always that said you can imagine that
our first priority was always my dad and his stability and we had enough on our
hands with that so he and mom always swallowed their pride and avoided doing
anything to antagonize Karen no matter how crappy her behavior got and believe
you me there are plenty more stories on top of the ones I told above after my
dad died I developed my own issues for a
while with mental health growing up in a constantly chaotic violent aggressive
environment took its toll on me and for a time I had deeply depressive
Tendencies I struggled with thoughts of ending things for years and eventually
wound up graduating high school after 8 years of attending classes in some form
or another similar to when my dad was sick I became my mother's top priority
at that point so again Karen and Bill kept getting away with all her BS I got
better though nowadays I'm even off psychiatric medication I got my stuff
together and graduated high school and even College I have my bachelors and I'm
doing some postgrad stuff for a masters most of the way has been paid for by
scholarships shout out to the book confession of a scholarship winner but I
recently decided that as an adult now and therefore as someone with a little
more saying things around the house than when I was a kid I had had enough of
watching Karen Bully my parents particularly my mother for so many years
I wanted Revenge phase one of my plan was to ease my way into the adult condo
Administration dialogue I began helping out more around the house as in around
the common area parts of the house I single-handedly redid the backp is
flooring it sounds like more than it is I just pulled out all the floorboards
and nailed new ones in I replaced both storm doors about 6 months apart when
each one began having problems different kinds of problems doesn't matter what
they were I also took care of some comparatively smaller things I weed
whacked out back for a couple of hours cut the grass out front a few times and
got up early so that I could beat everyone else to the shoveling every
time it snowed one winter not 201819 but 20 1718 I also began Wheeling back
everyone's Recycling and trash bins after trash week every week not just our
own after the first two bullet point stuff each time I sent out an email to
everyone in the condo to let them know I'd taken care of it all I asked of the
other two units was for them to reimburse me onethird of the cost of
materials on their timetable because of course I hadn't given them a heads up so
it was only fair that I allow them to pay me when they can the smaller stuff
from the last bullet point I obviously didn't need to announce the idea was
just that over time the neighbors would see me taking more initiative in things
and being more active which would go on to justify me participating more in the
inter condo politics I also made a point to keep conversations to emails so that
there would be a written record of every interaction phase two of my plan ran
pretty much concurrently to phase 1 but had an entirely different purpose and
was overall entirely different different
I began Gathering evidence of everything
I could I asked my mom to track down all
the old emails she and dad had exchanged with the neighbors documenting many
instances that Karen and Bill had pulled crap I went downstairs and took a video
of Karen and Bill's crap all over the common area particularly emphasizing all
the highly flammable wooden and cardboard stuff they had piled up in
front of our oil tank I dug up and poured over the D to our apartment
specifically the section that detailed the rules around common areas and the
limitations of our unit as compared to the others and vice versa to my utter
Joy mom and dad never threw out that old recycling bin that Karen Andor Bill had
knifed up apparently because they just never knew what to do with it and never
wanted anyone to ask questions naturally I dug it up and took plenty of photos I
did one other evidence Gathering thing that needs a bit more explanation Karen
and Bill are awful par parents mom and I
regularly hear the crap they do to Henry through the very thin ceiling we have
here I'm decidedly not going to go into detail because even though I changed his
name he's still underage and I feel it would be disrespectful to him to do that
but let's say it crosses far into the realm of child abuse this is a topic I'm
particularly sensitive about because I grew up in a crappy situation myself so
believe me when I say this part is the most satisfying part part of my revenge
let's just say that every time I could hear stuff through the ceiling I took
out my phone and started a recording until it stopped finally phase three of
my plan was basically to bait Karen Andor bill into a trap I set that as it
turns out would have humongous consequences for them mom and I have
this old treadmill that we got for free it's in the kitchen and lately we've
come to the conclusion that it just takes up a little too much space we both
use it a little but not enough to justify by keeping it she wanted to toss
it out but I argued hard to keep it around because I knew I could use it for
this plan it would be my only shot remember how I mentioned we hadn't had a
car for years well eventually I convinced mom to let me put the
treadmill outside in our parking space out back I bought a large tarp to cover
it with so it would be protected from the rain and I told her I'd start using
it more if it was outside cuz it's nicer to do exercise in the fresh air I also
sent out an email to Karen cc to Bill and the current third floor folks asking
her to move all the things in front of our oil tank in the basement somewhere
else despite the fact that those things had been there for many years I
Justified addressing it now because I'm the one addressing it and that's
different from before because before I was a child and now I'm an adult who
actively participates in the inter condo dialogue I asked her to because the way
she currently had it set up is a safet Hazard and I'm just following the rules
I further let her know that if she and Bill didn't take care of it within a
handful of weeks that I would have no choice but to take care of it myself in
the same email I let everyone know that I was putting our treadmill and our
parking space out back so if anyone had any trouble with getting into their spot
to please let me know the same day I sent out the email I put the treadmill
out back now I figured nothing was going to change from all the other emails I
had sent about matters regarding the condo's Administration and nothing did
she and Bill never acknowledged anything the current third floor guy didn't want
anything to do with going up against Karen so he just thanked me for the
heads up about the treadmill and said nothing else it's also important to note
here that my real reason for mentioning the treadmill in that email wasn't in
case anyone has trouble getting into their parking spot needless to say sure
a treadmill in a kitchen is pretty freaking big and obnox noxious but a
tread mill off to the side of an automobile parking space isn't really
big at all plus I placed it in such a way that it wasn't in anyone's way
giving everyone ample room to maneuver around it was just there off to the side
the reason I mention the treadmill in that email was to alert her to its
presence and perhaps associated in her mind with my request for her to move all
her crap in the basement I also began using it at least three mornings a week
I timed it so that sometimes Karen and Bill would run into me as they left to
drive Henry to school every time I saw them I waved and greeted to ensure
they'd notice me on the treadmill mom also used it a few times but she wasn't
part of my plan so I have no idea if she ever ran into them while on it here's
the other thing I did I set up a video camera and our laundry basket see we
have it permanently in the pantry next to the pantry window that faces the back
area I buried it beneath clothing so that from the outside side you can't
even see it but I bought a few massive memory storage wise not physically SD
cards and kept the thing recording 24/7 with a timestamp for 2 weeks nothing
happened the camera recorded nothing suspicious and Karen and Bill didn't
move their crap in the basement their time was up so one night I got up at
around 1:00 a.m. when everyone else was asleep so nobody would hear me and went
downstairs to move their crap Reddit I can't express to you how much I enjoyed
this I bought a GoPro strapped into my Noggin and carefully recorded the entire
hour and a half of moving stuff around I took the enormous pile of junk in front
of mom and I's oil tank and found a way to fit it all into their designated
storage cubicle in the end it was packed
I have mild OCD and I nearly exploded at the end from how well organized
physically everything was so that everything was in need neatly packed
together and all of the space was used at maximum efficiency it was glorious
packed from floor to ceiling and almost wall to- wall all around if you can just
imagine one massive near perfect rectangular prism of junk that's what I
created it was a masterpiece I was so proud on the side the door was on there
was enough space to walk to either wall but he couldn't move into it anywhere I
got back upstairs into our apartment and couldn't sleep the rest of the night I
was beyond excited I wound up watching Infinity War to prepare for Ant-Man and
the Wasps then upcoming release sure enough Karen and Bill took the bait it
must have been at school or work when they first discovered the basement
because I never heard a thing about it in hindsight it's probably best I was
out even though I would have savored those angry shrieks like nothing ever
before in any case within a few days we discovered our treadmill destroyed
similarly to the recycling bin of years past it had been knifed up I can imagine
they probably wanted to straight up take a hammer to it but they didn't really
want to make much noise so they wound up tearing the thing apart with a really
big and a really sharp knife they had seen we were using it and aside from our
trash and recycling bins it was our only
property that they had access to at that
point several years back I filled up the
rest of the wall of our basement cubicle and installed a door with a lock so our
cubicle was now sealed off to every else but the others are open and anyone can
enter plus I can imagine destroying a $1,000 treadmill is infinitely more
tempting than a trash or recycling bin so they went for it in retaliation for
my stunt in the basement after moving the crap in the basement I started
timing my treadmill use differently so that I wouldn't run into them as soon as
I saw it after they destroyed it I went straight to the camera I had set up in
the pantry it caught the whole thing in true fashion of their relationship Bill
brandished an enormous knife and single-handedly destroyed the whole
thing himself while she stood next to him and seemingly ordered him to do it
she basically kept pointing around at all the parts she wanted him to cut up
with that in hand I called the police reported the incident told them that my
mother and I felt threatened by their presence and we filed a restraining
order against both Karen and Bill with the police that same day I turned over
all the evidence I'd gathered of all their crap over the years and I also
turned over all the audio clips I had of Karen and Bill terrorizing Henry I
figured because it was all audio and no video it wouldn't be enough to get them
out of their care but maybe it at least get the Department of Children and
Families involved Karen and Bill immediately claimed that I'd broken a
bunch of their crap while moving it around in the basement crap that they no
doubt had broken themselves so I offered my GoPro recordings as proof that I had
not in fact broken any of their crap while moving it at all the restraining
order of persons allowed to file with a police report is always temporary but
you can always petition the court to extend it once mom and I did that it was
granted at that point Karen and Bill hadn't been legally allowed to go back
home for about a week and since it became a longer term restraining order
they were basically not going to be allowed to live in their own home for
several years so they made the obvious choice to sell the house and move
elsewhere needless to say selling a house you're not allowed to be near is a
difficult task and moving all your stuff
out of said house is even more difficult
particularly when you have so much of it they wound up coordinating the entire
House's sale from AF far with their realtor being the only person who came
around to show the house once it was time for them to move some relatives of
theirs came around and packed everything
up and loaded it into a truck also I was
right based on my recordings alone Henry wasn't taken from their custody but DCF
did get involved I heard from their family that came around to pack their
crap up though that Karen and Bill did wind up losing custody of him they
didn't say much as to why but they basically implied that the abuse ramped
up a lot after everything went down between me and Karen and Bill which is
the only part I feel guilty about but in
the end I hope this is a situation where the end justifies the means at which
point Department of Children and Families was already sniff around so
they will end up losing custody of him anyways I have no idea where Henry wound
up but wherever he is I obviously have nothing against him and I hope he winds
up in a much better situation than he was finally I'll say for two such
inordinately obtuse and disgusting human beings they had surprisingly decent
family members the few times I ran into them and made small talk when they were
around they were pretty apologetic about the whole thing I got the impression
that this isn't the first time they're apologizing on Karen and Bill's behalf I
hope Henry's taken in by one of them and not chucked into the Foster system
here's hoping kid considering the overall outcome and the ramp up in what
the kid had to deal with for the short term do you think this overall is a
situation where the ends justifies the means I'd like to know what you guys
think in the comments down below either way I definitely think that we can all
agree that we just hope the best for Henry in the situation and whatever
living situation they're in now you hope that it's much much better than what
they had to deal with I crushed my ex-wife's hopes after she cheated on me
bit of background I'm 36-year-old male as of now the characters have been a bit
altered by their names Rebecca my ex-wife now 34 James my college buddy
and the guy Rebecca cheated on me with saladine my other guy friend and Lisa
saladin's cousin so Rebecca and I were what you call College sweethearts we
survived College in the hardships of Life got married in our early 20s I was
25 she was 23 ever since we got married things were Rocky not from the start but
situation wise I was in medical while she was an accounting major there were
things that were okay with me but was not with her despite being married she
acted like she was a free bird she was it's a good thing but there was marital
neglect from from her side 2016 she joins James's company as an accountant
because it pays well I was happy because hey he's a buddy of mine slowly she
started to complain about things that were in place she didn't like where we
lived had problems with everything I did
she didn't like the food she used to I'm a great cook and she loved my Foods our
fights intensified by a margin where she
would call me names I'm good for nothing she earned more than me coming to this
part later on drastic turn here was that Rebecca and James were hanging out with
our set of mutual friends I got the word of it and it seemed off I confronted
both of them to which they both said it was a sudden plan and I was out in field
coincidentally it happened on the same day I was out of the city they might
have planned it beforehand which I'm not sure of 2017 the year my marriage blew
up so I was sure there was something because my bedroom became a freaking
Dead one I was increasingly paranoid and
whenever I tried to address things I was turned down now I'm not a saint I
constantly yelled at her to tell me what was going on because there was just
something off your favorite person rarely talks or does stuff with you and
they claim it's nothing does that sound okay it was also the year that we were
at our our Peak financially because our debts were paid off my friends and I
decided to open up a medical shop that provided medicine shop as a side Venture
so one of the friends was saladine he proposed that we celebrate it at a pup
when we go there I notice a girl that looks exactly like Rebecca she was
dancing with another man and it was quite dark I get a closer look low and
behold it's Rebecca and James Dancing hand to hand I wasn't much bothered
about it because hey they're friends I was here with my colleagues and she was
there with hers but it was bothering me I decide to send her a text asking where
she was she's usually on her way home at
this time she told me she was already at home now that was a red flag I told her
to stop lying because she wasn't I could clearly see her that she was getting
paranoid and told me she was on her way she left the pub afterwards that that
night I asked her about James the look she gave me was as if she saw a ghost
because she was not expecting that question that look was what told me
something was definitely up if you ask your significant other about a friend
they should act normally but the way she acted was abnormal that night itself I
snooped on her phone curiosity was killing me the password was changed so I
couldn't see the phone the next day I saw her password and snoop through it
there were hundreds of thousands of texts right there countless
inappropriate photos calling him daddy deg grating comments my wife and I made
a vow to each other that if there was ever anything we needed to explore we
would be transparent to each other she broke that vow too she confided in him
about how much thrill she felt that night at the pup I went through
everything what hurt the most was she herself told me if one of us ever got
bored of the other or needed to spice things up will'll Let each other know
she destroyed everything I couldn't look
at her the way I used to anymore I cried the night and confronted her stupidly
without any evidence the next morning she yelled at me and stormed out after
telling me I was abusive and insane she told all of our friends that I was
abusive that afternoon they all created a messenger group where everyone ganged
up to troll me when she came home that night she told me that she was in love
with James and wants a divorce I told her to talk first but it turned into her
berating me I yelled at her and she called the cops I was asked to spend the
night elsewhere I went to my sister's and when I returned the next morning
James's car was here he spent the night here there was nothing needed to explain
he was doing it on purpose heck she was doing it on purpose I went to see a
lawyer as we didn't have a prup she she had already filed a complaint about me
being abusive it didn't look good for me not once did she try to apologize not
once did she try to make amends our country's laws don't count infidelity as
a fault so even with that she's entitled to half of my everything but her
complaint can sue me up few days after that where I was still living with my
sister I tried contacting Rebecca but she won't reply to me Rebecca hit me up
telling me that we should get divorced that's it 12 years of relationship 4
years of marriage and she ends it with a
text I was freaking convinced that James was taking my place she handed me the
divorce papers everyone from our friend Circle was convinced that I was a
freaking abuser and James was her savior she did the right thing to cheat on me
we were officially divorced during the start of 2018 she was already dating
James open during our divorce he was her life I lost my job my house my
reputation and her little Affair I had to change the city to move someplace
else to restart again saladine helped me massively in that Fresh Start he got me
a decent paying job that was nowhere near like my previous one but it was
better than the rest we became close buddies while I was working to earned
back what I had dating life was over for
me I just couldn't trust anyone it was a complete no contact between me and
Rebecca last I heard she moved in with James they were doing great Revenge part
end of 2020 my life was actually blowing
up Co helped our cause with Broken Backs but filled our pockets our Pharmacy
Venture turned huge so I was able to make a lot of money I met a friend of
mine from whom I got a tip that James and Reb were done James cheated on her
and left her but but Reb had a child with James he was absent since birth so
he didn't sign the birth certificate so Reb is Raising that child as a single
parent she tried dating but she wasn't over me or James the audacity part of me
was happy with it but gosh I really missed her I sent her an email asking
how she was doing she wasn't expecting to hear for me we exchanged emails and
reconnected our first meet was in 2021 after after several years she looked
like crap she gained weight lost the charm and looked utterly exhausted all
the time frankly just her look made my blood boil and triggered me but I also
wanted to take my revenge on her life had already done that on my part but I'm
a jerk I wasn't done with her she told me about James and reopened the earlier
wounds I got my closure which made me feel a bit better I guess she said she
was sorry she wasn't thinking straight what she was doing James poisoned her
mind against me I told her I'll forgive her as she comes clean to everyone and
clears my name out she did that losing a lot of friends but she deserved that my
name was clean she wanted us to date again clear words make me raise that
jerk James's child I told her I would agree to it but we needed to date and
marry first only then would I legally adopt her child that little guy is
adorable and i' taken a liking to him here's the truth I was already seeing
someone pretty safe to say I was cheating on that woman with Reb she was
a client of mine from a different country we were in a long-distance
relationship Reb and I were living in different cities so I never moved in
with her but I played It Well by saying that I need to travel for business so I
was only getting Rebecca's hopes up to crush her like she crushed me we were
getting intimate but protection was used
Rebecca felt like she found love again I pushed her to therapy to get her to be
normal again everyone was commenting how
she was getting more happier with me she would praise and then say sorry do
little things for me that she used to when she was married to me trust me when
I say I had a lot of emotions attached to this woman I considered my revenge if
it was a good thing to break her heart she might be traumatized for a lifetime
but she didn't think of my heart and we were married why should I think of hers
her birthday was coming up last year in October lockdown was eased up and my
someone it's Lisa was in my city for the
birthday gift I grabbed Rebecca for ring shopping she picked out her favorite
ring and I got it wrapped she was elated
because of that that night she came came up to me crying that she was sorry for
hurting me she looked genuinely remorseful but I had no feelings for her
except indifference Lisa was saladin's cousin I already told her everything
beforehand she was against my revenge idea but I managed to convince her
somehow she was uncomfortable with it but understood that I needed to go
through with it on Rebecca's birthday I drove her to our favorite spot when we
were married it's a Nature's Place Lisa was already waiting there I introduced
Lisa to Rebecca that Lisa is my girlfriend Rebecca went white and asked
me what that meant what is she then I introduced her to Lisa as Rebecca my
ex-wife and Friends with Benefits there and then I proposed to Lisa with that
ring Rebecca went mad and started yelling to which I replied how the freak
and she expect us to work out when she nuked us I'm never dating a dirt bag
like her again she asked me again if we meant nothing I told her nope sleeping
with her was compensation for the pain I
got her to clear out the pain she put me
through Lisa was holding me back she saw Rebecca was hurting I told Rebecca that
she needs to leave she told everyone that I cheated and I was a jerk this
time I took it as a pride everyone saw the dirt bag she was she cheated on me
and made me pay a high price for a falsified abuse now she wants me to
raise her kid and date her the last we connected was in December of last year
she wrote me a letter that how much sorry she was because she can't imagine
putting me through the pain that she already put me through she hoped I live
a better life last I heard she was completely uninterested in dating looks
crap as for me I and Lisa stopped dating there were differences between us I'd
like to add an edit people who are saying that I'm worse than my ex can you
please at least for the love of God point out how I'm worse than her she
cheated I loved her and she freaking cheated on me she cost me my home my job
my image my reputation my friends I was an abuser to everyone I gave her a taste
of her own medicine yes by hurting someone else now I'm worse than her I
don't want judgment this is nuclear revenge and I'm sharing my revenge
stories I may have emotionally scarred her but that's what she did to me so
considering everything that initially went down here between op and their wife
essentially how their wife cheated and lied about them and how it cost op
literally just about everything to the point where they had to give up their
nice paying job and leave the city to find work elsewhere that op coming back
to his ex-wife's life and her new kid as a single mother and leading them on
hooking up with them giving them hope that maybe there's a new future together
was that justifiable for op or do you think that it actually makes op worse
than their own ex was I'd like to know what you guys think in the comments down
below all I know is hearing a story like this and hearing all the pitfalls and
all the drama all the stress kind of makes me worry that in future
relationships am I going to overthink is a situation like this something that I
should have a concern about in the back of my mind that everything's going to
fall apart and I'm going to be labeled as an abuser falsely and overall
basically you can definitely say that this story is a nuclear Revenge story I
found out my sister's been screwing my boyfriend behind my back I get even
little backstory first I was born into a broken family my father was a drug
addict my mother on the other hand was the kindest strong strongest woman I
know fortunately they separated just after the birth of my younger sister who
was only younger than me by a year I took after my mother my sister though
apart from my mother's looks she got everything else from Dad now the thing
is my father was a horrible person even before he became a drug addict he was an
arrogant selfish insufferable jerk and not only that he also cheated on my
mother multiple times while she was pregnant with me and my sister and also
physically hurt her he was so horrible to the point that when he left my mother
said it was the happiest day of her life she continued raising us all by herself
while my dad went to God knows where and
you know what I've never even missed him
18 years later me and my sister were all grown up and the thing is we've never
really been that close we fought a lot when we were younger but it was all
usual sibling fights as we grew we fought less and less and we were able to
coexist like GF siblings do and though I didn't express it all the time I did
love her here's where it all goes to crap in my senior year of high school I
start dating one of my classmates he had just transferred during that year and
said that he liked me immediately and asked me to go out with him if I was
interested I give the guy a chance it goes extremely well and just 2 months
later we were officially dating he was sweet would treat me to lunch take me to
places and was just a great boyfriend overall we continue to date through our
first year and second year of college and he comes over at our house pretty
frequently and my mom even lets him stay the night it came to the point that he
would come there even when I wasn't and I thought nothing of it I was even glad
that he felt so comfortable there until one day just a month before our
anniversary I text him that I would be home later than usual because I still
had something to do in school I was already in my third year and I was
busier than I was before since we usually go home together he asked me
what time do I think I'll be home and I said probably after dinner so he can
pick me up then he says okay fortunately though I managed to finish earlier than
I thought and instead of texting him to pick me up I decide to surprise him by
coming to his house since it's been a while since we spent time together and I
missed him when I got there his sister whom I was very close with was visibly
confused and immediately asked me what I was doing there I told I was there to
see her brother and she becomes even more confused and says he told me he was
coming to your house to see you though he left hours ago this time I'm the one
who's confused so I quickly turned around and went home thankfully our
houses were only 15 minutes apart from each other so I got there quickly the
next 20 minutes were like heck I come home to find his bike outside the house
was dark and I try my bestest to go inside as quietly as I could
by the time I got up the stairs I hear it moans female and male the male one
sounding parly like my boyfriend tears immediately flooded my eyes I didn't
even need to see to know it was him my boyfriend of almost 3 years screwing my
sister my feet suddenly had a mind of its own and I yanked the door open I was
seething at this point the witch was rioting him like a mechanical bull I
stood there as my now ex pushes her off of him shocked as he puts his clothes
back on in light speed and starts spewing excuses I wasn't listening at
all I was sobbing so much I couldn't breathe The Jerk follows me all the way
downstairs and I yell at him that if he doesn't leave that instant I would tell
his entire family he leaves and I was left with my sister I couldn't even look
at her I stayed downstairs calming myself down until my mom came home from
work she immediately notices something's wrong but I don't tell her yet dinner
starts and I felt like crying again and you know what's even worse when my
sister came down and sat just across from me I saw no hint of remorse or
guilt on her face absolutely none I felt sick I wanted to vomit and I swear that
at some point during dinner that evil witch even smirked a week goes by and I
don't say anything I was so hurt my ex wasn't saying anything too no phone
calls text nothing and so did my sister not a single freaking sorry I felt so
defeated I was crying multiple times a day and I couldn't even focus in school
one day I finally snap and I tell my mother everything she was extremely
disappointed she scolds my sister but she didn't even seem to care and then
suddenly I remembered my ex had told me his passwords he had told me early in
our relationship and I never bothered to open them cuz I was never the type type
to go through my significant others messages I trusted the freaker and this
is what I get anyway I managed to open his Messenger account and there I see
hundreds of messages between him and my sister I felt weak in the knees it had
been going on for almost 4 months then I took screenshots turns out they'd been
going out while I would be at school all three of us were from different schools
my sister couldn't get into mine because her grades were too low and so was my
boy boyfriends my pain quickly turned into anger and I wanted nothing more
than to make them both pay I couldn't stomach the side of my sister the fact
that she would go behind my back like that over some guy made me freaking sick
we were supposed to always be there for each other after a month I asked my
mother if I can move out and live with my aunt for a while because I just
couldn't take it anymore she was sad but she understood I felt so sorry for her
she held my sister accountable for what what she did but at the end of the day
she was still her daughter so she can't completely turn her back on her I didn't
want to give her the burden of having to choose so I did instead so I move out
and live with my aunt and promise to keep in touch the next 6 months were
basically me putting my crap back together I became a working student and
did some freelance work to earn some money and as I started to earn more I
dropped out of school completely and became a full-time freelancer as the
months went by I would earn more and more and I had more than enough money to
spend for myself and from then on I started to send money to my mom monthly
one day I got curious and decided to check on my sister and ex when I
unblocked them I regretted it instantly the jerks were still together and my
sister was even flaunting their relationship on Instagram suddenly it's
as if no time had passed by at all and I was angry yet again I scroll through
more pictures and it was obvious that my
sister was completely in love with him I acted on anger I sent the screenshots I
took from before and sent it to our cousins and told them everything they
all ended up hating her and then I sent it to my ex's sister and also told her
everything she punched him and told their parents and a day later I reive a
text from them apologizing on behalf of their son it made me feel slightly
better a week later my mom asks me to come home to spend the weekend I decide
to say yes this time I stopped by a mall on the way to get a gift for my mom and
guess who I see my ex-boyfriend with a girl who wasn't my sister holding hands
I laugh hard the urge to take my phone out to take a picture and send it to my
sister was so strong but I stopped myself it wouldn't be painful enough so
I hide where he can't see me and follow them after about an hour she goes to the
bathroom I follow her there I approach her when she comes out of the cubicle
and say is the guy you're with your boyfriend she looks a little bit scared
and confused but she answers yes nonetheless I quickly tell her that the
same guy is currently dating my sister and even showed her some pictures the
girl was completely horrified she said she had no idea that he was seeing
someone else and I fought the urge to laugh I tell her to get rid of him
quickly and I'll tell her everything she
needed to know but also asked her not to dump him yet so she makes up an excuse
to him about an emergency at home and they go their separate ways for the day
we meet up at a coffee shop close to the
mall afterwards there I spill everything including all the details about the
cheating when I finished she looked so mad almost as if it had happened to her
and then she goes on to reveal that a longtime boyfriend of hers actually
cheated on her as well we talk some more
and as time passed by I came to discover that the girl was actually really sweet
and I felt sorry that she became a victim as my ex as well she asked me if
I was going to get revenge and I said yes but I needed her help but I also
told her she could say no if she didn't want to but she said she wanted to help
so I told her my plan and she was all for it I came home that night excited my
mom seemed pleased and my sister looked a little pissed I didn't give a freak
though since I had the knowledge that my ex-boyfriend the guy she destroyed our
relationship for was on on his way to destroy her the girl and I talked for
the next 3 weeks I was there and she would send me screenshots of her and my
ex's convo and also pcks of them together we continued to talk even after
I came back to my aunt's house and exactly 2 months after we met the plan
was finally in action it was a week before my ex and my sister's anniversary
yes they had an anniversary and I was about to give her the greatest gift by
that time my ex had confessed to the other girl about his relationship with
my sister but she told him that it was okay and that they could still be
together because she didn't care little did he know her and I were basically
best friends now and had come up with a master plan to ruin his life I come home
again and spent the week there leading up to their anniversary it was the
longest week of my life the day finally comes and after my sister leaves to go
to his house I wait a few hours then I FaceTime his sister to ask if the two
jerks were home she says yes then I send it dozens of pictures of my ex with the
other girl and screenshots of their conversations ones where he was telling
her how much he loves her and how he's planning to leave my sister for her soon
there was one where he even expressed how annoying he found her and that he
sometimes wants to strangle her a whole bunch of other screenshots where he
insults her calls her stupid desperate and many more he also said that she was
awful in bed and was way too noisy and that he barely touched her the past few
days ouch but it wasn't enough for me the Final Touch was a thre minute long
video of my friend and my ex screwing yes she gave me her full consent to send
it she was on top exactly how I found my sister an ex before and she was
Galloping to Oblivion but I cropped it so her face wasn't shown but my axes was
in full view it was hilarious The Jerk was enjoying it so much and I know my
sister would probably have a seizure once she watches it afterwards I wait I
was still on FaceTime with his sister and after a while I hear it screaming
objects being thrown more screaming his sister comes upstairs to check on them
and I hear everything my sister was sobbing and what's even more screwed up
is that my ex didn't even tried to deny any of it and asked her to just leave
her sister and I talk some more and she tells tells me how she's never liked my
sister and so did their parents they said that they would ignore her whenever
she would come by at their house she would even ask about me sometimes just
to piss her off after about an hour my sister finally comes home and I sat
there grinning like a devil as she steps into the living room face puffy from
crying we make eye contact and I smirked at her and said you deserve it before
going upstairs I don't speak to her again and for days she refused to even
leave her room the satisfaction I felt was through the roof and I even told my
mom that I could move back in now but it didn't end there because my ex had
gotten my sister pregnant a huge part of me wasn't shocked but my mom was of
course disappointed we had to tell the rest of our family and they were all
disappointed with her as well before she
gave birth my sister told my mom she was going to move in with my ex's family
since they had to take care of their baby and my mom refused to let him step
foot in our house again but since our houses were really close to each other
she agreed it was pathetic it was obvious that she still wanted to be with
him even after everything he did but hey wasn't my problem anymore but according
to my ex's sister though her parents weren't too happy about the whole thing
and although my ex said he would take responsibility of his child he didn't
want anything to do with my sister anymore freaking jerk so I continued to
live my life working going out and focusing on becoming even better it
didn't take long for me to finally be happy again and all the pain and
betrayal felt like a distant memory I reconnected with my old friends and even
started dating again I also kept in touch with the girl who helped me with
my revenge she of course dumped my ex broke up with him just the day after it
all went down and we're genuinely good friends now and meet when we can I don't
keep in touch with my sister at all but according to my ex's sister she's
absolutely miserable because she had to drop out of school
and my ex barely spoke to her and would always be gone sometimes for days and
even brought home girls on multiple occasions and hooked up with them in
that same house my pregnant sister was in he also wasn't there when she gave
birth I didn't feel sorry for her at all since she chose to stay with him but I
did feel sorry for the kid for having those two jerks as his parents they
would go to our house at least three times a week to see my mother and my
sister would completely ignore my existence guess what the witch still
hasn't apologized I didn't really care at that point so I ignored it but one
time I kindly offered to buy her some baby clothes and she fixed me with the
nastiest look before saying we don't need your freaking money I was appalled
and then I was pissed again all right then if that's how she wanted to play
funnily enough I ran into my ex at a bar just a couple of days later he looks
freaking terrible and I question what I even saw in him he sees me and actually
looks happy I on the other hand no longer felt anything for him only
disgust he tries to make conversation telling me I looked great and even
apologizes I was shocked but his apology didn't really mean crap to me anymore
later that night I received a bunch of messages from him he was apologizing
again and went on to say how much he regrets cheating on me before begging
for another chance and swears that at this time things would be different and
that he was going to change for me I laugh so hard I fall off my bed the
ocean would dry up before I'll even think about taking his butt back but
since my sister pissed me off once again and I was feeling a little petty I sent
her the screenshots of those messages with the caption this your baby daddy I
knew she was still in love with him even after everything and I knew that it
would hurt her to see how he's willing to change for me but not for for her the
mother of his darn child he barely even gave her money for their child it was
only ex's parents and my mom who supported her financially she blocked me
and no I don't ever take my ex back last I heard he started using drugs fast
forward to now I continue to thrive while she continues to be miserable we
recently had a family reunion and at one point she says to our relatives that
she's having a hard time and one of our cousins looks her dead in the eyes and
says well maybe May if you hadn't screwed your sister's boyfriend you
wouldn't be in this position she was absolutely dumbfounded and there were
Tears In Her Eyes I almost choked to my whine to keep from laughing she probably
didn't think they knew well now she does and they all didn't bother to hide how
much they despised her she had no one on her side and was considered the
disappointment of the family but she only has herself to blame with stories
like this I usually like to ask you guys if they deserved how the outcome really
turned out but honestly considering everything that happened here I think
it's totally just what happened for those of you that are close with your
siblings or even cousins if you found out your cousin went and cheated on
their sibling like that would that completely sour how you feel about them
for the rest of your relationship let me
know what you guys think in the comments
what's his most prized possession I will destroy it this happened back in
1989 the story involves my stepdad dad by biological dad Donald Duck and my
sister sis the person who exacted the Revenge has passed now so it should be
safe to relate I hope it meets the requirement for nuclear Revenge it's a
Revenge that would warrant prison time I
believe I was living outside the country when this happened so my sister relayed
all of this information to me about a year after it happened we recently got
together again and went over the events again my biological parents married when
they were very young and Donald Duck was still in law school the marriage marage
lasted long enough to produce two children they didn't waste time in those
days my sister who's 14 months my Elder and myself they were divorced before I
was born Donald Was a Serial cheater a pathological liar and a total jerk he
still is at least a liar and a jerk he's in his mid 70s now so maybe not so much
with the cheating the fact that he's still working as a lawyer I think is
indicative that he was never a good one as he evidently doesn't have enough
enough to retire I've looked up reviews on him online and it's funny to see that
most reviewers say that he's not only a terrible lawyer but a horrible person
when sis was 22 she was a single mother and my nephew her son was around three
her company transferred her to another state she discovered that Donald Duck
lived in a town near her new work location and thought that he might be
able to help her get her bearings in a new place for a short time when we were
teenagers he had some sporadic involvement in our lives after moving to
a neighbor neighboring City it was mostly him trying to impress us with how
cool and Rich he thought we should think
he was so though it had been a few years since she had seen him it's not like
they were complete strangers in any case Donald Duck agreed to let CIS move into
his apartment with him his girlfriend at the time of course many years as Junior
and her 9-month-old child not Donald's until she was able to find her own place
he also offered to allow her to keep her belongings in his storage unit sis took
him up on his offer never did Donald Duck make any reference to being paid
for the use of the storage unit or paying for the utilities at the
apartment sis stayed 3 months and did her best to get out as quickly as she
could and as far as she could once she became more familiar with the area
living with him was hard did I mention he was a jerk and her young son would
find his pregnant lady porno mags around the apartment this is obviously pre-
internet Mr Duck's young girlfriend was able to help with babysitting something
sis pet her for so sis gets her own apartment but all of her things her
son's toys furniture her furniture household items everything but her own
bed was still in the storage unit so she called him to figure out how she could
get her things back but he seemed to want to hang on to them for some reason
he said you owe girlfriend money for babysitting and you can't get your
things back until you pay her she said have you talked to her I've paid her
everything I owed her he puts down the phone and talks to girlfriend and she
confirms that she'd been paid he then says well you owe a third of the
utilities for the time you were here she reminded him that he had never said
anything about that he gets a little heated and she's feeling desperate and
angry and shouts an accusation of something he did to her when she was
very young a totally different story he responds have you ever told anyone that
she says no he says if you ever do I will ring your freaking neck and the the
conversation ends about 20 minutes later
she gets a call from an acquaintance who had actually gone on one or two dates
with Donald before she met my sister he tells sis that Mr duck had just called
her asking if sis had ever told her anything that he might have done to Sis
hinting at the accusations CIS had made CIS never told anyone and the
acquaintance told Donald as much CIS later calls my stepdad whom we've always
considered to be our dad he's the only father we knew growing up and he was in
the picture since before we were old enough to remember he married my mom
when I was an infant and my sister a toddler they were married 40 years until
my mom's death the guy absolutely had a lot of faults passed on
2017 and we often felt better when he wasn't around but he tried and it's not
easy raising someone else's kids and he was our dad as far as we were concerned
he actually legally adopted us he had a lot of issues but he absolutely hated to
see someone be taken advantage of because they were in a weaker position
in other words he hated a bully and Donald Duck was being a bully when I was
in the first grade I rode a school bus with middle and high school students
there were a couple of kids who would bully me when he found out he confronted
the bully's dad and it ended another time I was in third grade and driving
somewhere with him in his pickup around town and he saw two young teenagers
destroying a bicycle that he assumed they had stolen he stopped and
confronted them with his big framing hammer a v 16 oz I have one like it in
his honor years later he broke my mom out of a mental institution by
threatening the director or some doctor I'm not sure I was young with that same
Hammer yes we were a fun family anyway when sis calls him explaining that
Donald Duck is holding all of her possessions hostage and she doesn't know
what to do he tells her that he knows several Crips who would be happy to
rough him up and and wouldn't even want to be paid they would do it for pleasure
dad was very bothered that Donald was keeping his grandson's things from him
and wanted to hurt Mr duck CIS declines this offer he then asks her what's the
thing that he values most in this world she responds his car his car at that
point was a Porsche he had purchased new just a few years before it wasn't quite
the absolute entrylevel model but pretty close of course he had all kinds of
arguments about why it was actually better than the more expensive ones
obviously it was red dad was trying to come up with a way to not only get
revenge but to scare Mr duck enough to force him to give sis back her things
sis said she was fine with whatever he wanted to do if it got her belongings
back but wanted to make sure none of it could be traced back to her nothing
happens until about a month later and Donald Duck Calls CIS out of the blue as
if nothing had ever happened and asks hey when would you like to come get your
thing things how about Saturday evidently he had had some change of
heart that is unexplained to this day she said sure she didn't trust him so
she didn't want to go alone she was able to get a male friend to go with her she
gets a U-Haul and just picks up her stuff and gets out that very evening she
tried several times to call Dad to let him know that she got her things back
and all was well no need for any drastic measures but it was too late the wheels
had been set in motion never answers the phone remember this is pre-cell phone
day so when you're not at home you don't answer CIS Call's mom who was living
separately from Dad for a time it's complicated telling her she can't reach
dad mom says Dad is sick and that's probably why he's not answering his
phone at p.m. sis gets a call from Donald's girlfriend who asks her what
are you doing CIS replies I'm at home in bed why she responds someone just blew
up Donald's car sis s's heart rate drops she obviously knows who did it the
police ask Donald Duck who would want to do this to him and he aners Sis's name
so she becomes suspect number one sis asks girlfriend if Donald's scared
girlfriend says yes they're spending the night in a hotel fortunately the call
from girlfriend is sis just a few minutes after the explosion gave Sis her
Alibi sis lived over 30 minutes away and
couldn't have answered her home phone if she'd been the one to ignite the bomb
the bomb did its job well it turned the Porsche into an
unrecognizable wreck took out the adjacent car the Porsche was parked at
the end of the carport so there was only one car parked next to it and destroyed
a many feet of the carport above both cars I'm guessing the tank in the porch
was a near full just after sis gets off the phone she calls mom telling her that
someone blew up Mr Duck's car and she thinks it's dad while she's on the phone
with Mom another call comes in call waiting a fan feature in the days of
landlines it's Dad he says mysteriously there's a box outside your door bring it
in you never talk to me tonight sis is a little afraid to open the box but it
turns out to be some of her son's items that he'd left with his grandpa clothes
and toys months later at Christmas sis asked Dad about it and he confessed
turns out he was really sick physically when he pulled that stunt sis was
touched that he would go to so much effort and risk jail time for her all
while being ill she asked him if he was scared driving back he said yes and that
every headlight behind him he took to be a cop until he reached the state line
sis found out from girlfriend that the cop said the job was very amateur
certainly not the work of a professional but hey it did the job dad told CIS he
had asked a coworker who was once a member of the aformentioned Crips about
how to make a car bomb and she instructed him he always did love
blowing things up when I was 13 we bonded over crumbling up the old colored
sparklers into powder I don't think they make colored ones anymore but they
burned hotter funneling the powder into a spent CO2 cartridge using another
sparkler as a fuse and making bombs powerful enough to blow up those old
metal milk cans that hold a few gallons it was the 4th of July anyway sis says
that it was some sort of Molotov cocktail stuffed into the tailpipe but
I'm not sure how that would work my idea of a Molotov cocktail is a
750ml sized bottle like a wine bottle or a fifth of booze which would not fit
into the tailpipe of a 4cylinder Porsche I wouldn't think I'm guessing the
diameter is no more than 2 in not big enough to fit such a bottle maybe he
used a smaller bottle or simply a smaller container of some kind not a
bottle filled with something very ignitable I truly regret not discussing
it with him personally but we weren't close since I left home if you didn't
need him he had a hard time having a relationship with you plus I was married
to a woman for many years who kept me from my parents and siblings so I don't
have better details thank God that 25y year marriage is over and my current
wife loves my family sorry but the story
is true one hilarious detail Donald Duck continued to Father Offspring and date
very young women his current wife is my age exactly and he has a daughter many
years younger than my youngest child a couple years ago I had a conversation
with one of these half sisters a marvelous person despite half of her DNA
her mother was never married to Donald and this sister is the age of my
youngest daughter I told her the story of the exploded Porsche she found it
very amusing because she says Donald loves to tell a story about how he was
Prosecuting some mob bosses and a couple of thugs came to his door trying to
threaten him of course being the big bad
Brave man he is he did not back down and what was his reward
those thugs blew up his car I think it's hilarious that he tells this story to
his children but now they know the truth he is the biggest bser I have ever met
also due to Donald's allegation that it was my sister who blew up his car what
not Mobsters but a 22-year-old girl the condo association or whatever tried to
sue my sister for the damage to the carport it came to not they were
grasping its straws because there was no evidence of course but it did scare her
and cause some anxiety all I got to say is this guy sounds like Prime POS of the
Year material and in fact it goes even deeper in the comments op sis was
talking about how they would tell everything to the girlfriend who was 19
at the time and apparently Donald Duck's
19-year-old girlfriend went to a psychic and the psychic told the girlfriend
about the things that Donald Duck had done to his daughter I mean this whole
thing from top to bottom is just such a bizarre roller coaster of directions and
truths and lies and deceiving and tailpipe ignitions I'm left honestly not
even knowing what to think about this story I guess honestly my only question
is do you guys think that Donald Duck considering the way they conducted
themselves and everything they've done deserve to have their prized Porsche
exploded the carport damaged the adjacent car damaged as well did he
deserve it for being a terrible person his abandonment of his own kids and the
treatment of his own kids the extortion they put upon op's sister I'd like to
know what you guys think in the comments down below be a POS all of your life
have fun getting stranded in a drug cartel City this Revenge was performed
by my mom and her epic mind it all started when I was born life was happy
good and easy my brother was a good and working person College Dropout but
always very smart or that's what we thought my brother went out every night
with his friends nothing alarming but very weird time passed and I turned 10
years old at this point my brother had a girlfriend a son and had already moved
out it was fun until my brother moved back with me and my parents crap truly
hit the fan there the first day we noticed an instant change in both his
personality and appearance you see he didn't move back in alone he came with
his son and girlfriend we asked why he came back and he simply said they had a
problem and that this was temporary for his girlfriend to which I will refer to
her as D and Son this was true but he stayed for the rest of the story in our
house when de and her son left she cut contacts with both our family and my
brother but occasionally asked for money don't judge her as bad just yet because
she had a very good motive my brother after this became a good Forno piece of
crap with everybody in the house turns out his friends were actually his
dealers you know for weed and that stuff later we asked why they truly left the
other house and he just said I had a fight with her brother and Dad it was
vague but it was true sometime around 2018 when I turned 11 we occasionally
went to visit D and her son one of those times my mom asked why she cut contact
the truth was that my brother was emotionally physically verbally and
sexually abusing her she didn't press charges and still refuses to do so
because of fear my mom became enrage at him but didn't do anything just yet
years passed my brother stayed in our house fights between my brother and
everybody here became more and more common my brother smoked pot 24/7 with
two kids in the freaking house I started
showing signs of depression around those times I was 11 years old imagine how
crappy this was for me to consider ending things at that age more time
passed it's now 2020 and his first fight with my dad his stepdad just happened
my mom was leaving to go to kolia con and right after the fight my brother
asked if he can go my sister which was not relevant to this story offered to
buy him a plane ticket this is where the Revenge starts you see my sister bought
a ticket to go but not to come back Mom was the one to come up with this plan my
brother didn't know this at the time kiaan is a city known for being home to
various drug cartels Cena the state where kulia con is is pretty much
horrible more if you're like my brother the day my mom returned is when I was
notified about all of this I was expecting my mom to come back with my
brother but she came home alone my brother was left alone in a hotel with
no money no family nothing he tried calling us multiple times through public
phones but wasn't successful at all unless he gets a job in a house he's
either going to die of starvation or get killed by a drug cartel it's the first
time in years I've truly felt happy I would certainly classify that nuclear
Revenge do you guys think that this level of Revenge is super overboard for
what they did or do you think that honestly they deserved it let me know
what you guys think in the comments down below our next story is from horatius
Cals I got fired and went after the boss's money his hotel and his marriage
back when I was still in University I used to work for a hotel to make end's
meet when I started the hotel very urgently needed new Personnel so I cut a
deal with the old owner about getting to choose and pick shifts so I could visit
my courses and exams speaking some extra foreign languages I also got a little
bonus on each month on top the old owner
was a great guy he owned multiple hotels so I rarely saw him but when he was in
the house he always made a point to have drinks with the staff chat with us and
if we were free he even invited those on the front desk to fancy restaurants who
weren't on shift fast forward I'd worked
in the hotel for a few years now and was nearing the completion of my studies so
it wouldn't have been an eternity until I had to quit anyway as I was of course
more interested to work in my field of study as part of my deal with the old
owner I mostly chose to work night shifts allowing me to visit my courses
at University during the day to make up for my privileges I had picked up the
habit of doing some extra work in the dead of night other shifts would
normally have to do when I on contrast could have sat around and stared at the
walls people were grateful for the help in the beginning and we became a rather
tight-knit group but over time people rotated in and out when the old owner
retired and his jerk of a son took over the business as the new owner I already
feared the worst the new owner didn't like me very much I never found out the
exact reason for that one I was at that point nearly the sole veteran left from
when I started among the tasks I'd taken on was doing light clerical tasks to
ease the manager's job in the morning for that I generally had to use the
manager's network account one night while doing my list I logged into the
manager's account and email to do my job then I saw an email with my name in the
subject line I know it's not nice to Snoop but of course I read it turns out
the new owner wanted to get rid of me I still had my old employee contract with
the business for foreign language abilities and was allowed by my contract
to pick and choose shifts I can only assume that these privileges are what
made the new owner hate me no idea if he had other reasons because to be honest
these seem very weak to me but he couldn't fire me without cause on top of
that I would be owed Severance if fired and generally there weren't enough
bodies in the shift rotation without me though the new owner didn't seem to
understand that point as the emails told me I looked for more emails concerning
me and found them there was an email chain between some of the employees the
manager and the new owner I was of course not cced as I was the hated topic
the employees didn't like me hogging the night shifts because those paid better
and for every night you worked you got paid the night bonus the manager was the
only one rather neutral on the matter and just curbed their enthusiasm to get
rid of me as they needed me to be fully staffed the new owner and my colleagues
actively conspired to make a hostile work environment so I would quit of my
own valtion I was Furious I thought about a variety of reactions from egging
their cars to Burning Down the hotel but I settled on a less crazy method of
Revenge I called my Uncle at 2 a.m. asking for advice my uncle's a lawyer so
for sake of proof I forwarded myself all the emails I made photos printed them
out made copies and filmed the whole deal just to be sure my uncle told me to
sit tight and see if things got worse or if it was just a Bluster and so I gave
it a few days and things did take a turn snide remarks about my looks clothing
and so on were only the tip of the iceberg some of the colleagues were just
as professional as before the conspirators always left extra work for
me or pwned off crap duties they normally had to do on me I always kept a
spare shirt and suit at work just to have a change which suddenly disappeared
one guy even started to threaten me with violence but I kept clenching my butt
cheeks I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of saving on the severance
or giving in I'm a big boy after all I did however stop doing any extra work I
was not obligated to do do which in the end was the reason they used to fire me
they still had to pay me Severance the next day my uncle with bundled proof of
the email and all documented harassment by my colleagues served the hotel my
lawsuit it started with wrongful termination and ended with harassment
reportedly the manager went wide as a sheet when he realized where the emails
must have come from the new owner had been on vacation and had to cancel his
expensive vacation in France to deal with this there Council advised them to
settle so I accepted my Severance and a hefty bonus on top enough money to last
me until the end of University without work but that wasn't all of my revenge
I'd gone after the new owner's money but in the next step I went after the hotel
I had used all the spare time during night shifts alone to document every
last violation of City County District state and federal law I could find that
went from minor things like some harmless mold under the kitchen sink to
substantial violations like modifications to the building the
building was under a limited form of historical protection by federal law on
the ground of being built and inhabited by somewhat important historical figures
a few hundred years back so every renovation or change in floor plan needs
to be signed off on by a committee which can take ages there's also a grant paid
to the new owner by the government for keeping the building intact as is so
with my uncle help I sent documentation of every violation I could find to the
corresponding agency in one month everything from Health Building Code
fire safety to the finance and work police crawled over the hotel in the end
it was the building and fire inspectors that shut that place down the new owner
had done substantial renovations to the top floor luxury apartments which he had
used when he was in town so the new owner had to pay back the grant pay
fines for unauthorized alterations to the building endangering his guests
because something wasn't built right according to fire code and had to close
down the shop until the building was fixed I also tipped off a friend who had
studied journalism and worked at a local paper the paper ran an article on all
the violations accumulated which tanked the business once it had reopened as the
newspaper article had led to horrible reviews in the end to afford all the
fines repayments and building cost the new owner sold the hotel as the cherion
on top all the jerks who had tried to harass me lost their job granted the
people who didn't do anything to me lost
their jobs too but didn't do anything to stand up for me or help me either so I
don't feel too much remorse and the Revenge cherry on top was that the new
owner whenever he was in town used to bring home escorts which in my country
is not illegal but he was married it took some doing to get that information
to the new owner's wife but one of my former colleagues who had quit before
the It All Happened had her email so I let her know what the new owner was up
to when he was out of town I don't know exactly what happened but they did
divorce in the end make of that what you will honestly this is a pretty
impressive nuclear revenge like you can tell op did a lot of work did a lot of
research but also had a little bit of luck too stumbling into all those
incriminating emails by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure
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anonymous poster an Australian pilot enacts revenge against the Germans in
World War II Clive Caldwell Australian pilot he wound up in a British RAF
Squadron flying a P40 Tomahawk one of the first units in the world to fly one
Clive had trouble mastering the skill of Gunnery deflection he developed a
training technique known as Shadow shooting you shoot at the shadow of your
own aircraft the This was later adopted by the Desert Air Force now on to the
revenge on July 4th 1941 Clive watched a German pilot kill his close friend
Donald Monroe as he was parachuting to the ground that Harens Clive's attitude
and he ended up shooting every parachuting enemy pilot he could this
earned him the nickname Clive killer Caldwell Clive shot down 28 1/2 aircraft
and had an ace in a day he nearly killed one of Germany's most most famous Aces
Lieutenant wner Scher listen all I know is is if I'm out there on the actual
Battlefield flying my plane around I see my friend parachuting to the ground and
that happens to my own friend it would make me get very sour too what Clive did
wasn't really right but it's hard to blame him and our final story of the day
is by drumhead entitled ladyes Porsche loses tires okay so this story took
place back when I was in Florida in the early '90s it does involve an act of
vandalism is M that's connected to Revenge hopefully it won't be removed
and hopefully it'll count as nuclear Revenge anyway South Florida was
devastated by Hurricane Andrew my dad as part of a local charity was set up day
after day at a local market seeking donations from Shoppers to give to food
banks you have to understand this storm left many people homeless and without
power in some cases for six plus months in Florida heat and humidity my father
was legally disabled from a serious car AC accident he was hit by a drunk driver
in the early 80s and suffered from Relentless hip and back problems it
never killed his harder kindness to others hence the charity work one day he
was about to pull into the disabled space at the local market to go buy a
few items to donate to the hurricane charity right before he's about to pull
in this lady pulls into the space in the shiny red Porsche my dad parks behind
her and says excuse me ma'am I was about to pull in there and also points to was
disabled placard in the window she says to him you don't look disabled and
proceeds to walk into the store for anyone who has a relative who uses a
disabled space you know the frustration of this situation and the anger one
feels my dad seemingly unfaced Waits until she goes into the store and then
gets out and Snips the valve stems on all four tires flattening but not
destroying all of them he then pulls into another space not far away and just
Waits about 15 minutes later the lady comes out and is shrieking about her car
being vandalized my dad's far enough away so she can't see him but he can
hear everything she calls the police big
mistake she files a report for vandalism and the police give her a ticket for
being parked in the disabled space with no plard about $250 at the time the cops
leave and she calls a tow truck as the cars being Lo loaded onto the truck my
dad pulls up and says to her you don't look disabled but your car sure is and
then drives off my dad could be a nice guy and a pure Savage when he needed to
be well what op's father did here was absolutely not right but despite that
there's something about this story that you can't help leaving it without a
smile on your face my dad's side of the family doesn't play around for a little
bit of background this is a story that's been confirmed as absolutely 100% true
and has always been shared in Whispers whenever I was lucky enough to hear it I
live in a predominantly Mexican family and my dad's side is the Mexican side
our cast for this nuclear feature orge is cousin SLS server Arabella is cousin
sister m is Mobsters Jack Jack is the dbag lady hitter it begins in the 1950s
Midwest in a larger city orge was working for a decently classy restaurant
that the mob used to frequent due to its supposedly stellar food now this was
back in the day when the mobs used to run the cities with their protections
and whatnot so seeing suited up tonies in the street wasn't the most abnormal
thing every time the mob came in to eat Jorge had them at a table in no time
they were waited on hand and foot and nothing less Jorge made sure they were
fully supported throughout the meal and entertained with conversation now
somewhere along these lines the Mobsters noticed how much Jorge was busting his
balls and gave him a favor card with a number on it they said if anything goes
down and he needs help he is to call the number on the card and tell them what's
going on and that the situation will get taken care of in the meanwhile Arabella
had started dating Jack H and everything was lovey-dovey at first short time
later Jorge started noticing Arabella getting more and more distant
emotionally and always coming with new bruises and marks and silly excuses for
them Jorge then starts questioning Arabella about what the situation is and
eventually Arabella breaks down and reveals Jack H is the one laying his
hands on her so much orge didn't like this orge didn't like this at all so
when he was all right and riled up all he had to do was make one phone call he
told them everything he knew according to Jorge Jack H was picked up in a van
somewhere off the street beaten halfway to death and then left on the side of a
highway a away away from town tldr don't mess with the sister of a guy who's
trusted by the mob to serve them food I mean you just got to tell me 1950s
Midwest in a larger City and I already believe you if you were serving these
guys and they gave you a card like that would you ever actually consider using
it or would that be the kind of thing you tuck away and just try to forget
about let me know in the comments down below by the way if you enjoy these
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never miss any of my daily videos our next story is from Anonymous Survivor 5
years later the nuclear revenge on an abusive Predator is so so sweet
backstory trigger warning I was adopted as a child from South Korea into an
American family and was abused in many many ways I won't go into exact details
here but my background led me into the relationship the story is about I didn't
learn what a good and loving relationship should be like and wasn't
able to recognize is being groomed as a l te by a much older man inter jerk SL
Predator psychotic narcissist AP for short not one of the family but came
along after I left the abusive home these happenings took place over the
course of the following 15 years after I left the abusive home he was 32 and I
was not quite 19 yet I'm now 38 I ended up being whisked away from the only real
family I knew sis Mom and Dad no blood relation but I was their unofficially
adopted daughter to California from the beginning I noticed some things were off
when I was being groomed but didn't know
how to recognize the signs of grooming 2 years into the relationship the abuse
really started in Earnest over the course of our travels and problems I
noticed that he would talk incessantly online with other women he even made it
a point to tell me about one that turned him on on a job site he worked Telcom
construction jobs I also caught him online with a 16-year-old he told me
amidst severe paleness and sweating stammering and fear at this point it was
like having to take care of an adult-aged baby who had to have things
his way all the time I enjoyed when he left for weeks on end sometimes months
for work it meant that I didn't have to deal with his butt all the time just to
clarify why I say it's like taking care of an adult-aged baby he would literally
poop himself and drip it all over the floor on his way to the bathroom and
then make me clean it up this happened all the time that's just one example he
would throw the Christmas tree more often than not during some argument or
another during the holidays so I started not putting one out throwing things
breaking furniture and punching holes and walls non-consent those sorts of
things about 8 years into the relationship AP ended up getting an
inheritance from an uncle who passed away in his family and so started the if
you ever take my money and leave I'll find you and kill or shoot you threats
he was big into guns and had many mind you this is a man who is a severely
paranoid psychopath which I eventually learned that he was a paranoid
schizophrenic via his ex-wife I found on Facebook it was then that I really
really tried to find a way out it was difficult because he kept moving me
around the US to different places in several States so the last place he
forced me to move to was Missouri enter the 3,000 square foot home that he made
me cosign for I hated it I had to keep it spotless which also meant running
after AP constantly picking up around him and cleaning I was also working
part-time and doing College full-time the problems got worse at this point as
this is about the time I found him online with the 16-year-old Miner this
is when it really dawned on me that he was grooming someone else he would also
force me to talk to his then current girlfriend whenever she called at the
time too all this was adding up and since we were
finally in a big city I knew I could find a way to leave since there were
resources out there AP decided he was going to go on a trip with a friend out
of state so that's when I planned to leave I planned ahead let the shelter
know the situation when to expect me and if I didn't show to call the police
after 24 to 48 hours of no show I had copies of my social security card and
birth certificate too AP figured out something was up and ended up not going
I was a day late in getting to the shelter but I made it it was a violent
fight that night and I ended up leaving injured with nothing but the clothes on
me my hat jacket and some cigarettes oh and my hidden identification copies the
nuclear Revenge part one once I got to the shelter I used one day to decompress
then the Revenge plan started all the utilities including the cell service was
in my name yep I called and came canell them all the utility companies are
required to give a 7-Day disconnect notice to the occupant to allow them
time to get the utilities in their name so I knew AP would have problems with
this because AP had crap credit and hence the reason why everything was in
my name the s service was immediate however which meant AP no longer had a
phone to use for work the Gable company I also put a password on the
pay-per-view so we couldn't rack it up with adult entertainment I did call my
bank and let them know but was unaware at the time that he could still cash a
check which he did do and forged my name more on that later so after I got
everything cancelled I knew it was time to find a place and start over and
finish getting my revenge and my life back luckily I had a friend later
husband we'll call him H in Ohio who offered me a place to stay I used my
last paycheck to grab a bus ticket and high tailed it out of there part two
Once I arrived in Ohio and settled in I started taking stock of my options H is
a retired law enforcement slm military SL doctor slm martial arts practitioner
so much there that he's done but it comes in handy later too in more ways
than one he helped me to figure out my options letting me know our local laws
and helping me in finding the right type
of attorney to help me he also helped me in documenting everything that AP
decided to do once he figured out where I had gone and AP did try AP even sent
someone to our home to threaten to kill us AP tirelessly stalked send
threatening emails Etc part three with documentation in hand and a 15-page
typed statement I called up a local Missouri attorney we'll call him A1 who
ended up being amazing and he helped me take care of all the filings I needed to
do AP and I were together barely shy of 10 years and Missouri is a common law
state I had to go through a legal separation to sever everything we had in
Missouri A1 ended up getting me an excellent judgment against him as well
as a warrant for his arrest for that County the documentation of his erratic
threatening behaviors still continued part four AP was so scared that he ran
away he ran back to California and ended
up getting married enter my attorneys A2 A3 and ap's to attorneys A2 on my end
ended up a flop so I hired A3 A's first attorney I had had taken off the case
since he had represented both of us during the house purchase he really
thought I was stupid to allow that to go under the radar due to the Judgment
amount I ended up hiring an attorney who dealt with judgments 40,000 and above
normally for businesses my judgment wasn't much below that amount so he took
my case the amount was also coincidentally very close to the amount
he still had left from his inheritance I
asked A1 to ask for that amount since it was all he had left left of his
inheritance he filed a sister State judgment so that the interest in
judgment were moved to California for me A3 got ap's second attorney to drop him
since they were colleagues at one point AP no longer had any legal
representation and tried to represent himself from this point on and boy did
AP make a fool of himself trying to represent himself part five enter my
private investigator later on turned friend that A1 recommended Pi for short
he enjoyed that chase because of the situation behind it Pi hates abusers
like him Pi found him in California and we ended up finding all of ap's personal
address information Etc because he was arrested for domestic violence on his
pregnant wife we were able to serve him during his court hearing on his wife's
case via a bayith oh to have been a fly on the wall remember above I said that
I'd found out that AP had forged my signature and cashed a check on my bank
account yeah I also had all the proof from that and had him out and out on
check fraud and forgery as an Ace in the Hole if I ever needed it which A3 was
also provided as well the last act with all the proof in my hand AP also knew I
had him on check fraud and forgery should the need arise the judgments and
the warrants a second warrant was about to be issued in California on him as
well from me and A3 he finally offered to settle in the end I still got the the
same amount of my judgment plus court costs he never realized that that was
what I was aiming for he always said if I ever took his money and left him he
would find me and kill or shoot me I still got his money and he never did do
that it took 5 years but darn if I wasn't going to fight tooth and nail to
nail this jerk for what he put me through it was amazing being able to
nail him with some sweet nuclear revenge for 10 years of grief between myself H
and A3 he was so scared that he wouldn't even go into a3's office to hand over
the payment for the settlement he made someone else do it h and I took his
money renovated our home bought h a pickup truck me a replacement Honda
Pilot since AP stole mine before some other miscellaneous things that AP would
have hated and finally got my Korean sky
dragon tattoo sleeve done the Sky Dragon
was something that he always wanted done for him but was too chicken poop to
handle the pain with we made great use of that money for a 6t blond-haired 400
lb man he became obsessed with food during the course of our relationship
and added 200 lb he ended up being a whimpering terrified crybaby not bad for
an abuse Survivor who put up with 10 years of abuse oh and H and I have been
together now for 9 years married for six and a half of them all I can say is
putting up with that for 10 years op deserved everything they got and
probably more and the guy got off easy being able to settle and our final story
of the day is by SLG 407 bully me for 5 years enjoy being blind so when I was in
the first grade some guy moved into my school I'll call him p p was a tall thin
guy he liked to bully me verbally and would sometimes hit me this Revenge
starts in the fifth grade I've always had anger issues so when I got angry it
was extreme and sometimes it would take up to five teachers to to hold me down
so after P did a particularly tick move on me I snapped but this time it was
different I let the rage build up inside
me and when class ended I waited for him to bully me a little bit more after a
while he shoved me to the ground I got up and looked at him with the most rage
I've ever had and I punched his face but I missed and hit his ey so hard his
retina detached he then proceeded to fall to the ground crying and I got
suspended for a week but didn't get in too much trouble because the school
considered it self-defense his retina got damaged when the surgeon tried to
reattach it he's now blind in one eye well I'm not going to say that this kid
necessarily deserved to go and lose eyesight in one eye but if that sure as
heck isn't one Learning lesson about being a bully I don't know what would
get through to them I think the only thing I'd want to know from op is if
they continued a bully like Behavior or if they seem to clean up or stop messing
with OP I mean all I know is if I was that kid and I lost my one eye I'd
probably stop messing with OP I'd avoid them like the plague to bury the hatch
when mother-in-law was young and growing up on a plantain Farm she had an uncle
who was smitten for a neighbor girl the uncle and girl had grown up together had
been the best of friends and he wanted her like no other she said all he had to
do was ask but the poor guy was so nervous one day they both stroll into
town together and the town bully sees her at the Mark it he compliments her
unfavorably and demands he take her out because the town knows he always gets
his way the uncle of jacks to which the bully says he'll follow them home and
harass her until she agrees and spread lies about Uncle she tells the uncle
some days later that she'll go with the bully to stop the harassment he tells
her his dreams and says his peace to her and she agrees that they'll be together
forever after this night she goes that night and is never seen alive again a
week later news comes out that parts of the missing girl are found in a local
Pig Pen about the same time rumors of the bully being involved are circulating
buly neither denies nor admits doing it an investigation is opened the bully
seems to have numerous airtight aliis is let go but closely watched Uncle
confronts the town bully about where she
might be well he said he didn't know but
invites Uncle to a card game that coming weekend to bury the Hat about all
this and Uncle agrees the rest of the week he hears rumors of the bully
bragging that he was involved he tells his family the news and they were very
saddened his mother advises him against any Revenge but says that she would
stand by any decision he drives to the card game wins a decent amount and
offers to take the bully out on the town since Uncle had the money now buy gets
wasted starts passing out an uncle's car and proceeds to talk incoherently about
the girl 's disappearance he goes on about how she wanted to pet the pigs but
he said only if she kisses him and she says when they get there they get to the
pig farm she refuses and says she wants to go home but he had other plans he
knocks her out has his way with her and feeds her to the pigs uncle is furious
drives bully to the closest pig farm and proceeds to use the hatchet that he
always kept in his trunk to blood and dismember said bully and fed him to
several hungry pens Uncle drives as fast as he can to the family farm where he
tells his mother she tells him to put his clothes in the burn barrel and she
would meet him at the river right after she took the hatchet and buried it deep
into a random plantain trunk then he got
into bed with all the kids and pretended to sleep that night the police came
knocking and asked to speak with Uncle as he was last seen with the bully they
said the bully was found the same way the girl had been knew of uncle's
affection and wanted to know if he had been involved his mother tells him that
he came straight home right after the card game and said the community could
vouch for him because he was part of the piranda they left empty-handed but
opened an investigation the following week uncle was questioned the local
community was questioned but Uncle had numerous airtight aliis so it turns out
even some guy in Larry's that Uncle never met considering people who have
never even met Uncle were willing to vouch for them and try to give them an
alibi do you think that this bully deserved what happened to them
especially with what the bully did to the neighbor girl let me know what you
guys think in the comments down below our next story is from accurate chain
8581 I built a 15t wall to tell my neighbor that I was upset this is not my
story but my dad's and he tends to get funny acts of Revenge so I'll be posting
a lot from now on a little about him whenever someone upsets him he never
shouts and never gets angry but gets crazy Revenge so on with the story about
12 years ago he bought a piece of land on the outskirts of a major city and
well he had plans but at that time not the funds so it was just a piece of land
and 6 years after buying the land some people bought the land next to it and
built a house there and where I live it's currently not possible to get a
water pipe directly to your house so every evening a tractor came hooked with
a tank to give you water to bathe and other stuff so after the construction
was done a family moved in and started getting water from the tanker and around
that same time my father planted two Mingo trees on our property that evening
when my father came to water the plants a bit he noticed they were destroyed so
the next day he confronted the tractor driver to look out for the plants but
the driver only laughed a bit and mumbled something a few days later he
got more trees and same as before they were destroyed and he again confronted
the driver same thing happened and he again got the plants and the next day
they were again destroyed so after a fourth time of this he was pissed the
next day what he did was call a trench digger and made a 4ft deep trench around
his property and when the driver came with his tractor he was baffled and was
like what do I do now in the end he had to go around the whole Lane of the house
about 1 km as the behind area of the properties was currently where he came
from to give them water so after digging the trench my dad started building the
wall first the wall was a mere 2 ft and the neighbors thought it would stop
there but no the wall then grew to 3 ft then 5 ft then 8 ft they thought it
would stop there but nope it went up to 11 ft completely blocking their sunlight
in Wind then my father bought three dogs
two bullies and a Tibetan Mastiff though he later bought two huskys who howl
every single night and then he planted some trees which were a bit short but
growing so in the end my neighbors do not have access to sunlight fresh air or
a good night's sleep just because they messed with my dad I mean I feel this is
completely fair game so to clarify the neighbors were going to the tanker every
single day and trampling over op's father's plants first of all they were
trespassing to get to the tanker and not only were they trespassing they were
damaging property so I think it's more than a fair game for op's father to
build up their defenses to prevent being
terrorized by their own neighbors also I hope that the mango trees were able to
grow after that point because mangoes are delicious and I hope they were able
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Hannibal Von manstein High School Athletics versus broken blood vessel
here dear readers another con of my school years I'm in the end of grade 10
and the wrestling season is drawing to a close we set the scene at the city
championships where the bronze medal qualifier is about to take place
Hannibal myself and entitled wrestler are fighting for the bronze medal of the
90 kg 198 lb weight class both are in grade 10 the winner will not only get
the medal but the chance to advance to the regional competition held in a few
weeks being very evenly pitched as the same height weight and age Etc I very
slowly gained points on entitled wrestler then within 30 seconds to spare
entitled wrestler pulls a reversal on the ground to spare the details the
score at the end was seven for Hannibal and four for entitled wrestler however
the incompetent referee was either a relative or an acquaintance I never
found out but I suspect incompetent referee says I'm pinned after after the
Bell is rung giving entitled wrestler the win even though I was ahead on
points wasn't pinned and the timer had clearly ran out I am infuriated to the
point of saying a profane word that rhymes with hockey puck to which the
incompetent referee tells me no swearing on the mats young man all the while
enduring a self-righteous smile from both him and the entitled wrestler who
stole my victory nearly all my self-control was needed not to punch
incompetent referee full power in the throat I am livid for days as my
wrestling season has just ended I then take the anger and lift weights very
seriously from the end of City championships April until just before
grade 11 season November if you've never lifted weights and anger I highly
recommend it there's nothing quite as soothing as the healing power of hatred
I push the extra reps out knowing next year I would embarrass him every time
our schools would duel but the gods were
were even more generous than that and so our revenge begins grade 11 preseason
tournament has now started a pool tournament where each weight class is
split into groups of five or six and everyone wrestles everyone else those
who win all the matches get a small medal it's seen as a warm-up tournament
to get used to the ensuing months of high competition entitled wrestlers in
my pool after the national anthem and the head referee welcoming and wishing
good luck to all the competitors over the PA system entitled the approaches he
then says to me with the most arrogant smile he could muster hey you go to high
school name don't you yeah I remember you I beat you at cities last year the
hubris was over the top as the same incompetent referee is running the Met
were on with my loose fitted shirt on he can't tell I've been working out
thinking about punishing him for the past 7 months I smile and say yeah close
match with the Zen of knowing all that work will now pay off our names are
called by the incompetent referee I remove my shirt and the difference is
literally night and day he looks exactly the same condition he looks nervous
after the formality of shaking hands the whistle blows due to the now excessive
upper body strength difference his defense crumbles and I've scored a
one-point takedown it was literally me grabbing both his shoulders and throwing
him down the move although not an officially named move was described by a
close friend and teammate in the 68 kg class as like a cop arresting a suspect
bro this took all of 8 seconds I'm on his back thinking of a good way to pin
him and the Cradle comes to mind I execute the cradle and he's been pinned
in Under 12 seconds Hannibal wins the incompetent referee does not give me the
pin he slowly counts to five then gives me another point for holding his plan
was to have entitled wrestler break my grip from the cradle making me arm tired
thus allowing him to win via scoring back the two points he was now down and
aside to the Cradle it's a move where you grab around someone's knee and over
their neck holding the leg to the chest this makes it near impossible to avoid
being turned onto the back and exposes both shoulder blades for a pin I have
the Cradle unentitled wrestler and he's fighting for all he can the incompetent
referee is not going to give me the win my mind switches gears once I he figure
out the following I hate this person he stole my victory last year and he's
trying that even now how much can I hurt him I start squeezing harder and harder
like a boa or python I squeeze harder when he breathes out so he can never
refill his lungs to full capacity the incompetent referee does nothing waiting
for me to exhaust myself entitled wrestler turns red then blue I'm
suffocating him with all my might my workouts had taken me to the low end of
the strength Spectrum for grown men and he was still an average teenager a fully
legal move is still devastating to the body when done full power with a massive
strength difference for a long time after a good 50 to 60 seconds of
suffocating entitled wrestler into said pretzel formation I look up at
incompetent referee I show no exertion as I smile at him he sees that I'm
enjoying hurting entitled wrestler as I squeeze even harder jerking his head and
neck visibly he realizes his politics are no match for my conditioning and
quickly ends the match with a pin victory for Hannibal aftermath entitled
wrestler has to be helped off the mats by his school's coach I've squeezed him
so hard and long that I've broken blood vessels in his eyes he has to sit out
the season for the medical the head referee reprimands Inc competent referee
and kicks him out of the tournament he later loses his license to referee REM
matches as he's allowed a kid under his watch to be so badly hurt due to gross
incompetence I continue with the tournament ending with a 4 in1 record
losing only to the kid who was about 6'5 with his reach Advantage he was able
to keep me from grabbing around his waist yeah I've got to say this
incompetent referee clearly had a game plan and honestly it works out well if
you're refereeing a match that's actually fairly ranked but in this
free-for-all format where somebody like op who can be like hulked out goes up
against entitled wrestler who is not quite nearly as hulked out you can't
really count on entitled wrestler being able to hold their own long enough to
like create a scenario where they could win if you're out of match the way you
are like op was against entitled wrestler here in the second match you're
probably going to end up pinned in submission and our final story of the
day is by Mitchell lady a man murdered my step a his body was never found to
start this story is going to be a short story this isn't my story but my
stepdad's he didn't go into much detail so I can't he's gone nearly 20 years now
so I can't ask for any this story occurs
in the 1950s when he was a teenager in a small town in Michigan USA my stepdad
had a younger sister and one night she went on her very first date ever with
this guy she really liked from school dad said she was so excited and spent
hours getting ready she never came home that night she was assaulted and
murdered the date denied any wrongdoing and the police didn't charge him but he
was the last person she was with so everyone assumed they knew what happened
some of my dad's friends decided to take matters into their own hands he said he
wasn't happy with them and I believe him but he knew the lake they dumped his
body in he told us that when he left to go to n in 59 there'd been a few
attempts to drain the lake but none has succeeded dad was a Native American and
said that he thought the spirits didn't want the man's body to be found this is
definitely one of those situations that you come to really appreciate the modern
forensics nowadays just being able to get DNA samples and testing if you have
a suspect in hand like that you're going
to be able to find some kind of evidence and you'll be able to directly test it
against that suspect in the 1950s they just didn't have that kind of technology
and especially nowadays there's cameras just about everywhere I mean a lot of
crimes nowadays still go completely unsolved but compared to like the 1950s
it's not even close revenge of the bullied the butterfly effect the Prelude
I was a sweet nerdy boy when I was a child I was interested in the science
computers avionics and mechanics I was also slightly on the heavier side but
not so much that it would disqualify me from playing sports with the other kids
in my school I was generally liked by my peers so I've never been in physical
conflict until that that summer when I was 10 my parents sent me to the summer
camp for 2 weeks this is something I was
looking forward to for months as soon as we arrived at the camp things had gone
sideways pretty quickly I don't remember what exactly started the bullying and I
have a crapload of repressed memories about that period but I do remember this
one guy in particular let's call him ring leader I tried to resist the
bullying and fight back but he was 2 to 3 years older and the difference in
sheer physical power power was overwhelming he also got several other
boys and girls on his side so it was impossible for me to Mount any kind of
effective defense the fact that the camp supervisors the adults knew about this
and ignored this entirely did not help either keep in mind that this was during
the 9s in a post Soviet country cell phones were not a thing back then so I
had no option to contact my parents about what was going on my morning's at
the camp and I mean every every single morning would start with a ring leader
and several other of his craphead friends throwing a bed sheet over me
while I was still sleeping and beating me up they called this the blanket I
never knew who exactly was present as I was busy trying to cover my head and
face from the blows this would repeat in some shape or form several times over
the day basically every time the supervisors were not present and
sometimes even in the middle of the night some nights I would wake up
basically covered in bit and snot while ring leader was there laughing with his
band They of course restricted me from using a bathroom to clean myself up and
this was a point of immense entertainment and bragging stories for
them in one instance I remember the ring leader getting up from his bed during
the night peeing on me while I was asleep and then waking the whole Camp up
telling everyone that I've wet the bed sheets like a little baby I was even
reprimanded by the supervisors and the nickname piss boy stuck for the whole
remainder of the heck Camp the ring leader even tried to coax me to give him
a hand on one occasion in order for him to stop bullying me rest assured he was
not successful I was defeated but not broken after returning from the camp I
told my parents about some of the stuff but I kept the most hardcore parts to
myself I was too ashamed my father was an ex Soldier and a senior ranking
intelligence officer SL investigator at the time but even he was not able to do
too much of about it within the limits of law when my father tried to confront
him the ring Leader's father basically told us to buzz off and to add insult to
injury blame the situation on me for being a little wussy this was done over
the freaking intercom in front of their freaking house he didn't even see us I
don't mean to go into too much detail here but the fact is that this summer
effectively ended my childhood and started a chain of events that would end
up with me being the way I am now the long-term impact you see I'm in my mid
20s and I've been diagnosed with borderline antisocial personality
disorder basically I'm a sociopath apart
from other things this means that I have very little capacity for empathy or any
other emotion for that matter I can on occasion get happy angry sad or even
scared but the stimuli for this have to be pretty strong and I also have to
choose to feel something I in particular do have a deep distrust towards
authorities hate incompetence and neglectfulness and do not shy from
physical psychological or emotional confrontation if I deem it necessary
this personality adjustment is not entirely a bad thing for me either I'm
able to remain entirely composed in high stress or hostile situations and can
also read people extremely well since my biases and emotions rarely play a role
in my assessments this led me to some pretty interesting career choic ches
over the years since people with my disposition are pretty rare and valuable
in different roles contrary to popular belief sociopaths are not entirely
malicious we don't go out of our way to harm some random person just for poops
and Giggles because we're bored we need a darn good reason to do nefarious stuff
but when we have one we execute flawlessly fast forward 10ish years I
was working as a security guard in one of the more frequented bars in my city
this was not the kind kind of a security guard that you would imagine guarding a
mall or pulling a night shift in an administrative building we always worked
in teams of two and instead of Badges and uniforms our standard equipment
would consist of Civilian clothing a melee weapon of our choosing leather
gloves and a concealed firearm which I fortunately never had to use we were of
course prohibited from drinking in the establishment even on off-duty hours but
were otherwise required to socialize with the patrons and to generally appear
non-threatening most of the nights it would be pretty quiet and mellow since
most of the people knew not to mess around with the staff or other customers
and even appreciated the extra layer of security on one such a night I was
sitting and chatting with some of our regulars part of the job appear normal
and non-threatening when all of a sudden
the ring leader enters the establishment he didn't recognize me so far and he
also appeared drunk as heck however in short time he started verbally abusing
one of our waitresses in circumstances like these we employed a one strike rule
you got one warning from the staff and if you didn't change your behavior on
the spot and permanently you would be forcefully removed my colleague who was
a closer and had better overview of the situation slowly approached the guy and
asked him to stop insulting The Waitresses although I did pay attention
I wanted to distance myself from this situation as much as possible since I
knew that if the ring leader recognized me the situation would probably escalate
rapidly suddenly the ring leader grabbed an empty bottle of beer from the table
and hit the colleague over his right elbow doing some pretty significant
damage he threw the bottle away and ran for it immediately I quickly checked to
my colleague instructed the staff to call the cops and Then followed the ring
leader outside as soon as I got out I realized the freaker was completely
sober and that he had two other friends outside they did this on purpose and
were trying to provoke a street fight all along I was unsure if he knew who I
was or if he was targeting me on purpose but I was not 10 years old anymore I
took out my baton and proceeded with the engagement the freaker even had the
balls to call me a wussy and asked for a one-on-one without the Baton it took
them five seconds to realize that they've made a mistake they didn't bring
any weapons so as soon as the first one fell to the ground the ring leader and
his remaining friend decided to flee I was not about to let the ring leader get
away with this kind of BS I caught up to him in less than 100 m I did actually
only use the necessary Force to make him comply to my kind request to come back
to the front bar and let the cops sort things out as we relatively calmly
waited for the police to arrive I realized he indeed did not know who I
was and I was not about to spoil the fun they arrived like 3 minutes later they
informed me that they were looking for a group of guys provoking fights in this
manner over the last month and asked if we wanted to press charges of course we
did my colleague who almost got his elbow shattered was unable to attend
work for several months his friend that I had to put down in front of the bar
even tried to press charges against the establishment but it was quickly
dismissed as reasonable self-defense since there was no lasting damage I
assume my name must have come up during the proceeding but the ring leader never
connected the dots between myself as a 10-year-old boy and My New Self the best
part the ring leader was already up for sexual assault charges and while
arresting the ring leader the kind officers even found drugs on the dumb
idiot it was just a small amount of ganja but you could get served with some
serious time just for that back then of course he claimed somebody had planted
the drugs why would anybody do that to him though I'll never know lots of
repressed memories as I've said in the end he was sent to jail for 3 years did
I mention that my father was an intelligence officer I believe I did
well my father was already dead by this time but most of his old friends were
not some still worked with law enforcement one was overseeing the
guards in the jail the ring leader was sent to at the time I've made sure that
my father's friend remembered what happened to me and that summer camp to
put this into context back at the time our jails were pretty rough several of
the people working there were still from the old guard trained and taught by
Soviets this was certainly not a summer camp fast forward 5 years the Reckoning
I was now running security at The Establishment but the company grew a
little bit we now own the whole building which consisted of several stories some
of our duties consisted of making sure that the upper stories were empty during
the nights as the building was still technically accessible to the public
because the bar was open 24/7 during the winter months we've often had homeless
people trying to sneak past us and hide within the building since it could get
as low as -30° C during the nights even if it put our jobs at risk we've had an
unofficial understanding with the security guys as far as the homeless
people were not littering the place were not bringing alcohol or raising
commotion and got out before 6:00 in the morning we let them sleep and even wash
in some of the unused utility rooms we even sneak some blankets in we were not
animals and we realized that these people had nowhere else to go on one
such night I was checking the floors making sure that nothing nefarious was
going on when suddenly I hear someone snoring in one of the utility rooms I
knew it was one of the homeless people but I still needed to check it for
damage and alcohol upon closer inspection I found a ring leader
sleeping there he lost a lot of weight from the last time I've seen him and was
in overall bad shape later I learned that he'd had serious mental and
emotional problems because of the treatment he got in prison basically he
was bullied heavily by the inmates and the guards did absolutely nothing about
it this led to heavy substance abuse once he got released eventually getting
him into serious debt and not the nice clean debt towards the banks I mind you
his parents had to eventually sell the house just to cover it for him they
moved to a small apartment and kicked him out onto the streets standing there
I'm thinking about cutting the guy a slack thinking he's been through enough
already I turned towards the doors intent on leaving him be then I remember
how he freaking peed on me while I was asleep and made it look like I wet the
bed I remember how he and his punks hurt me several times a day for 2 weeks
straight I remember him barring me access from the bathrooms while I was
covered in dried snot and spit and laughing and bragging about it later I
remember him trying to coax a hand out of a 10 old boy I remember his crap of a
father blaming me for all that over the intercom I remember him injuring my
colleague five years ago just to stir crap up I think about the girl he tried
to assault the sex assault charges I break I put my gloves on and drag the
guy by his neck out into the freezing cold I can clearly see he doesn't fully
comprehend what is happening to him still half asleep once outside he starts
to freaking beg he's trying to appeal to my sense of humanity then he gets angry
I quickly reaffirm that he's in no position to be aggressive towards me or
anyone else and remind him not to make the same mistake he made 5 years ago
then he remembers he says you you got me into the jail 5 years ago I say you got
there yourself pal he says why are you doing this to me I say I don't know I'm
just a horrible kind of person I genuinely enjoy this he says what have I
ever done to you I say nothing really I would stop but you'd have to give me a
hand first this gives him a pause now I can almost see him connecting the dots
in his stupid little head the wheels are crunching for a while he then wants to
see something but I see that he realized he realized everything he opens his
mouth but not an Iota comes out he simply turns on his heel and takes on
into the freezing night later that night I let all the security guards know that
he's the one who assaulted our guy some years ago and that he's not to be
allowed to stay anywhere near the building under any circumstances the
aftermath I'm now working an entirely different field in a different company
I'm ahead of it and an R&D Branch but are often invited to lead negotiations
by other department heads particularly the more problematic and hostile kind
the kind where customers try to renegotiate prices after our part of the
contract is fulfilled or refuse to pay for services or work done at all my
particular talents come in pretty handy in these situations I know how it sounds
but this is all within legal means it's just that my crappy country has pretty
crappy Judicial Systems and virtually zero protection against customers
screwing contractors or providers after they finish the job or deliver the
product our company's currently entering a deal to acquire a small business
providing various Recreation services including running summer camps for
children a as far as I can tell some of the employees have been working there
for more than 20 years ring leader survived the winter he lost some fingers
due to frostbite but nothing major I still sometimes see him around the city
and it always puts a smile on my face I make a point of giving the poor guy some
cash each time I meet him since I know he'll inevitably spend it on drugs and
booze considering everything that went on here everything op did everything
this guy did and everything that guy had happened to him was that enough revenge
for this guy in his life after all he did was that enough Karma or do you
think being homeless roaming the city losing fingers to frostbite do you think
he deserved even worse than that let me know what you guys think in the comments
down below but with that being said Psychopathic bully gets his head crushed
in by one of his victims this story is from my grandfather and takes place
sometime around 1942 in a small town in Idaho his memory is bad and so is mine
so take most details with a grain of salt my grandpa was always a tough
person even when he was a child a bit of a jerk even but this was the 40s and
people were different back then he was also a small child and that attracted a
lot of bullies there was one bully however who was worse than most his
brothers would usually back him up but this kid came along after his older
brothers moved to a different school and left him with his younger siblings this
was the 1940s so the bully got away with absolutely Psychopathic levels of
beatings and he would sometimes involve friends to beat him in a gang
great-grandfather wouldn't do anything and he told him to be a man so he did
one day Grandpa hid behind the corner of a building where he knew the bully
passed every single day when the jerk stepped past the corner Granda swung a
brick at his head as hard as he could the kid skull caved in Grandpa described
it as being like an ash tray and he hit the ground Grandpa can't remember if he
died or just had severe brain damage but
nobody messed with Grandpa after that if it was described as looking like an
ashtray I'm going to say I would be very very surprised if the person actually
survived that I mean even in the 1940s I'm kind of questioning how op's Grandpa
got away with that that must have been a real small town in Idaho but with that
being said that's all the time we had for today now if you want to hear
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what's an oh crap moment when you realize you've been doing something the
wrong way for years I lived in the house for 6 years with a bathroom with no
shelf for cupboard to put toiletries into I was very disappointed and ended
up using a window sill that was way too small to fit everything anyway one day
we had a friend over and he asked why we didn't have anything in our bathroom
cupboard I was confused so he showed me it turns out that the mirror had been
using for six years as a hidden compartment behind it it was a mirror
door to a mounted cupboard on the wall I
was astonished and immediately moved all my stuff from the window into the new
space my friend was baffled that I had never figured out there was a space
behind the mirror there was an obvious gap between it and the wall that I
somehow failed to notice another one was that my family always had a cup next to
the bathroom sink in case you needed to rinse your mouth after brushing your
teeth or maybe get a quick drink of water in the middle of the night my
Grandma had the same cup at her house I used it for years whenever I was thirsty
one day she saw me doing this and said don't use that cup that's where Grandma
puts her teeth it's called a medicine cabinet I'll let you pause here to check
the bathroom if you have one too story two I grew up without a mom she
passed away when I was six I was afraid to ask my dad how to put a tampon in one
day I commented about age 18 to some friends that tampons hang too far out
and make me feel like a waddle when I walk my friend asked me how I put them
in I thought I would get stuck up there and wasn't inserting it far enough I did
it wrong for about 5 years my friends still make fun of me for it I can't help
but use the dead mom card but looking back it's pretty common sense that I
have to shove it up there in addition I didn't really feel comfortable with my
body so I'm not sure I understood what the directions were asking plus my dad
was a really good dad obviously he made some general mistakes as a parent as all
parents do but as a substitute mother he did a great job he taught me how to
shave my legs funny voices and all and he was a Girl Scout Troop leader for
almost 10 years he tried to figure out how to French braid and he calmed my
nasty ratty hair on a daily basis Story three I was living in a foreign country
where I was actively learning the language social accuses go a long way
when learning language on the spot that being said someone once said a phrase to
me while serving a hot dish which I assumed meant to excuse me after going
through crowds and lines replicating the same phrasee in an attempt to be
respectful of those around me I abruptly
found out that the phrase actually meant enjoy hindsight completely makes sense
the OD looks I would get by saying enjoy while squeezing past people all of a
sudden made sense for contacts this happened while I was living in Vietnam
phrase was sin it was even more deceiving because it was similar to the
phrase for Sor which is sin Loy that was year one the following three years were
full of similar mistakes tonal languages are tough story four my wife and I have
this ceiling fan in our bedroom in the house we moved into 2 years years ago it
has a remote control for the fan and lights about a year and a half ago the
lights suddenly stopped working the fan works well and we didn't have a ton of
money so we just lived with lamps in the room always frustrated with how damn
dark it is I was scrolling and saw post of a guy talking about how his lights
stopped working years ago then he found out that they were just dimmed which you
do by holding down the button on the remote it sounded so much like a fan
that I went and tried it and yes it was dimmed on the bright side ironically
mood lighting and lower electricity bills makes the relationship healthier
don't you think Story five so I was fortunate enough to buy my own home due
to unfortunate circumstances moved in and the thermostat thing was set to
about 70° Fahrenheit this time went on I couldn't figure out why there was no
visible way for me to change the temperature electric bill would be
through the roof every month the thermostat is well above my eye level
and lived alone for quite some time though family and friends did visit
regularly after several months of leaving windows open or closed to adapt
of the change in weather I finally asked
my niece I think to check the thermostat for a way to change the temperature she
looked around for bit and saw that there was a tab I was supposed to pull to
reveal all the buttons and settings of the darn
thermostat oh crap story six I was incredibly sheltered growing up anything
intimate was taboo and not disgusted I was in Middle School when instant
messaging really became mainstream I couldn't understand why the boy I had a
crush on kept laughing at me and telling me not to use the Shand for come I
didn't find out for a few years telling someone what to do and what to not do
should always come with an explanation but hey at least her Crush won't be able
to forget her story seven back in in the early 2010s my boyfriend and I had a
PlayStation that we used for Netflix since we didn't have a smart TV the
controller was in such a short core that we would always have to get up from the
couch to change the program or push any buttons my boyfriend also used to have
to sit up on the floor up close to the TV to play his video games since the
cord was so short one day my brother came to visit we put something on
Netflix and got up to use the remote like we always did my brother proceeded
to unplug the controller handed it to us and said you realize this is a wireless
controller right we dumbfounded why would there be a cord coming from it it
turns out that just to charge a wireless controller needless to say we were
mindblown Story 8 I have a flashlight that I've had for nearly a decade I
originally got it because it looked like a lightsaber and was cheap plus you
could twist the lens around it to focus it or so I thought when I got it home
and put batteries in it found that twisting the top didn't change the focus
I assumed the top being able to twist was just a result of it being cheap fast
forward to a month or so ago the storm picked up during the night so I went out
to check to see if anything was going to blow away as I was trying to open the
gate the flashlight slipped and it caught about the top part the twists but
the rest of the flashlight sled about two inches down from the twisty part and
it turns out if you pull the top part up it turns into a lantern type thing for
lighting up an area it's nothing big but
there have been times when it would have
been incredibly useful to be able to put the torch down and light up a wide area
I'm not even mad about that Lantern type feature considering it's cheap the fact
that it's been useful for nearly a decade means it's more than an awesome
buy story n after moving to a new city I went to the laundromat and the Korean
lady working was yelling at me about something I couldn't understand after
some anim it became clear that she was upset that I was putting in the wrong
detergent but it was the same kind I had
been using for 8 years since moving away
to college and being behind it turns out I've been washing my clothes with only
fabric softener for nearly a decade they always smelled good so I never really
thought about it not my proudest moment story 10 I owned a light blue colored
microwave for about 3 years that a family member gave me as a housewarming
gift I thought it was cool they had never seen a blue microwave before one
night a buddy asked why I never took the blue plastic wrap off my microwave and
proceeded to peel it off from me damn that thing is silver I still miss my
blue microwave sometimes though oh man I grieve for a blue microwave too this
buddy should never be allowed near any cool appliances again story 11 a couple
of years ago I was trying to open some toothpaste and had to break the seal of
the tube I used to look for something like a nail to break it then one day I
looked at the pointy end of the cap and thought what if I could use this to
break it and oh crap it did fit and break it effortlessly and so did every
other two product I had in the house in their respective caps my mind was alone
oh and for years I would struggle to take the cap off new deodorants the ones
under the lid it is always so stuck down in the deodorant stick I had an aha
moment a year or so ago when I could simply crank the deodorant stick up
until the cap could easily be removed I'm 34 it took me until I was 34 to
realize this story 12 since the dawn of time we would pick up the silverware and
utensils out of their tray in the dishwasher and put them away in their
drawers and go back and pick up more out of the dishwasher then one day I saw my
wife lift the tray out of the dishwasher
and I legit stood there with my my mouth open story 13 okay I realized this
literally yesterday it's super embarrassing for me to admit this
because it's common knowledge for pretty
much everyone who speaks English but for my entire life I was under the
impression that the word approximately meant exact or precise yesterday I was
watching a documentary about a guy who fell off his boat and the guy that found
it said they found it approximately 300 yards away and I'm like okay how would
they know exactly how far that was without measuring so I did end up
looking up the definition and imagine my
embarrassment when I found out and meant rough I'm
28 story 14 when I was a kid and was acting up my dad would always threy to
leave me at this mean old lady's house her name was Helen handbasket fast
forward about 28 years later and it clicked out of nowhere while I was on a
customer call at work customer this whole network is going to hell in a hand
basket me ha I'm an idiot customer did you figure it out me oh no not yet
parents are always full of fun stuff like that remember to use it on your kid
to get satisfaction story 15 I'm lactose
intolerant I genuinely did not know this
for the first 25 plus years of my life I always had to go to the bathroom after
eating something with cheese in it one day it just clicked I bought some laid
took it before the next time I ate cheese and I didn't have to go to the
bathroom it was mind-blowing I have no idea how I didn't make the connection
for years so I guess you could say instead of having an O crap moment I had
a no crap moment story 16 no one really ever told me you don't need to buy shoes
with a two-finger space in front of the toes after your feet stop growing I had
been buying an entire size too big until about age 23 23 one day in college I
decided to try a pair of Merill Barefoot type shoes and after reading the sezen
guide bam mind blown it's a terribly obvious mistake I 29 female like to
blame on being an only child but I'm just an idiot well to be fair some
people's feet grow until their 20s story
17 well it was just fairly recent when I realized that you do in fact need to
disassemble your laundry dryer and clean the lint out from underneath the drum
once per year I'm 31 and never knew this no one ever
said anything and I never saw anyone do this the crappiest thing is that my
parents also learned this the hard way and never bothered to give me a tip when
I bought my first dryer luckily my wife and I discovered the lint buildup when
changing the rollers I said to my parents wow it really builds up there
and they were like oh yeah you need to do that like once a year experience
really is the best teacher with these kinds of O crap scenarios huh oh if
you've been having fun so far never miss a story by hitting the like And
subscribe buttons Story 8 well to start I'm a male who grew up
with my grandma and mom so growing up I had very few male influences and I'm 34
now so the internet sucked anyway when I
was 12 my mom decided to move us in with
her boyfriend the first night in our new
place I walked out of the shower with my towel on my stepdad said what are you
doing you're not a girl I looked confused and said I know why he then
said guys don't wear their towels like that then realized I had always worn my
towel up to my chest since that's all I saw growing up I did not realize it was
so they would cover their chest S I was so embarrassed so yeah long story short
I wore my towel like a female until I was 12 story 19 so I had always assume
the gas stations had pipes that led to a nearby oil plant or something I live in
Houston so during Hurricane Harvey in 2017 there was so much news about the
gas stations being empty because they weren't being filled I was in the car
with my sisters and we were talking about it and I mentioned that I didn't
understand how the gas supply was limited when the pipes were underground
and not affected by the flooding they both looked at me with the most confused
faces ever and one of them said you do know the trucks come to fill up gas
stations right I was completely shocked by this and had no idea and they asked
me so when you see the big trucks at little gas stations in the city with
tubes in the ground what do you think they were doing and I replied uh filling
up their gas not something I did wrong but definitely something I thought wrong
for 17 years story 20 as a kid I never knew that saving in video games was a
thing whenever I looked at the menu screen I just didn't think much of it
and just ignored it after a few years maybe when I was about 11 years old
started watching gaming videos on YouTube and saw that you could could
save your progress little old me was absolutely mind-blown that Pokémon
wasn't supposed to be played in less than a day and that I could actually
save my progress playing an entire game in less than a day is more fun and a far
more impressive feat the little old you should be proud story 21 my significant
other and I were in a fight and he said you're unbelievably selfish and
impossible to talk to somehow my defense mechanisms were not engaged at the
moment because I heard him and realized it was true I saw for the first time
that I had been mostly difficult all my life that is super defensive been wrong
about a lot of things AKA a narcissist I've since had to learn how to be kind
to listen and to give back and while it has been very hard I still cringe often
when I think back on many moments in my life I now know I was wrong and my life
is so much better this is a much more wholesome realization it's really weird
to find out that the way you perceive yourself is so different from what
you're actually doing but in a good way story 22 my mom refused to show me how
to use a tampon because she thought I should stick to pads after all they were
safer this was back when Googling how to
do things wasn't an option and I was the first in my friend group to get my
period and a little sheepish about it so basically I was shoving that sucker up
there with the entire applicator for like 2 years wondering why tampons
didn't seem to work that well for me it wasn't until I was in high school and
one of my friends went on a crusade against plastic waste and started
advocating for tampons with no applicators that all of a sudden I
realized I had massively made a mistake story 23 my mom never tried to teach me
how to wipe my bum she just decided at some point to start ignoring me when I
called her when I was finished I had never seen anyone else wipe theirs
before so for years I wiped my own by bending over all the way with my head
near my feet you know the thing you do when someone else wipes your bum for you
eventually I saw someone on TV doing it while just sitting down normally Game
Changer it's literally an O moment when you realize you can do it in more ways
than one it's just a matter of preference really I mean some people
don't even do it at all story 24 when I was about 16 when I learned that there's
paper around Reese's Peanut Butter Cup growing up my family only bought those
small ones that you can eat in one bite so I never had a chance to bite into a
regular one and actually see the paper so one day me and my sister were talking
about what candy we wanted to hand out in Halloween and I mentioned that peanut
butter cups were good apart from having a chewy piece in them which really
confused her and we spent the next few minutes arguing over if they were chewy
or not then she stopped talking in the middle of her sentence and I could see
that something had clicked for her she went to the kitchen and grabbed one told
me to eat it and started laughing hard when it put the entire chocolate still
wrapped in the little brown paper into my mouth it's still to this day my
greatest shame that I can't live down then some years ago everyone started to
Hype at aame so I gave it a try I love beans and peas in general so I wondered
why they taste so disgusting and for a few embarrassing weeks i e whole Ed momy
when someone ordered them to share it in a restaurant because that's why cool
kids eat these days right guess what by observing others I found out that you're
not supposed to eat this skin since then I've Loved edamami I'm still wondering
if anyone noticed I was doing it wrong Story 25 I took my then girlfriend to a
fancy Baja bucket joints in San Diego and we each ordered a variety of buckets
full of shrimp LOB upster carna s chicken Etc trying to be Suave and
playful I went to feed her a single shrimp tail from my bucket she giggled
and put the shrimp in her mouth but held the tail because nobody eats that and
she bit down and it pulled the tail away and she chewed and stopped and chewed
once more and stopped and she stared at me with a what did you do look in her
face this is when I learned about peeling shrimp not everybody does but
some people eat the shell and tail it's an acquired taste though but what's more
interesting he's using fancy and bucket in the same sentence story 6 opening
milk bottles they all have that flap of plastic that you can grip to peel the
cover off I've ignored that for however long they've been doing it it took my
mom coming over to visit from overseas watching me open a new bottle and asking
me why I was not using the flap for a grip I asked what she meant and she
showed me I felt like I was five and learning how to subtract triple digit
numbers all over again also craft mac and cheese up until a few months ago I
would drain the noodles add them back to
the pot and then add the milk butter and
cheese packet it took forever to get all the clumps out then I realized it would
be way easier to just add the milk butter and cheese to the already hot pan
and make a cheese sauce while the noodles are draining no more clumps
story 27 my whole life it turned out that I was saying th which sounds like f
example trying to say three but it sounds like free the first time I
noticed it when I was at my cousin's house and she asked me to say three then
free and left I was so confused once I got to Middle School one of my friends
made fun of me 4 two and he finally explained what it was when I recorded
myself saying three and free I noticed the difference and felt so dumb the good
part is that after forcing myself enough for about 2 years I have the difference
between saying th and F sounds wired into my brain and sometimes I assume I
know the lyrics to songs I've heard from the radio for a long time I always sang
Toto Africa as I Miss the Rains Down in Africa until someone made fun of me and
told me it was I Bless The Rains Down in Africa they argued that makes no sense
why would someone bless rain it's a song about longing to return to Africa which
is why they miss the rain then I went home and looked up the lyrics if you've
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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is steven and this is the
story time channel we've got some great stories so let's
get into our first one of the day by force to create id
the bill was itemized as per your request sir
i used to work in a public hospital's public relations pr
department read the department where all sorts of miscellaneous stuff and
nonsense is sent to when no one wants to figure out who issues should be sent to
or just want problems sent somewhere it was hard to manage the workload with a
yes man pr director at the helm who typically acceded to most requests for help
especially after other staff tacked on their go-to flimsy excuse of
it's related to a patient so pr should handle it
or flattery you guys are really good at dealing with this
we'd just mess it up so for the best of pr takes over
besides the pr department there was a medical case management department that
dealt with more difficult cases involving legal highly complex medical or
multi-disciplinary cases due to the nature of our work sometimes
cases were bounced between the two departments
this case was partially dealt with by me but the malicious compliance is on my
co-worker's end cast cynthia is the medical case department director
joel is the medical case department staff sarah is the finance department
staff me is your friendly pr wage slave mr nutty patient retiree with no
income story this case happened almost a decade ago and does not take place in
the united states of america mr nutty underwent surgery everything went well
and he left the hospital after a few days to recuperate at home
there he combed through the bill called the hospital about an apparent billing
error and was transferred to my line for confidentiality and simplicity let's
call the item in question organ transplant mr nutty said that he
didn't have an organ transplant and only had a couple of medical items inserted
at this point he was still fairly pleasant i assured him i'd call him
after checking as this was basically a non-emergency case
the finance department and the surgery department took about a fortnight to
gather the details and figure out what happened
in the meantime mr nutty had started sending emails by the end of the first week
asking when he was going to get a refund which i
strangely enough had no recollection of promising every time he sent an
email company policy dictated that i was to get in touch with him
by the time finance gave me all the details i could recognize his email
address and phone number when they appear to my screens
and he was getting rather testy i contacted mr nutty and told him that he
was correct there was no organ transplant the organ transplant was actually a
billing code name for a package that usually consisted of a lot of items
that were used in a surgery including the medical items inserted the
surgery department knew of his financial situation
and to help him trim costs essentially gave him a package deal
instead of billing him per item which would have cost him much more
this triggered something in mr nutty and he went ballistic shouted that a public
hospital running on taxpayers money should be more honest
that it was the principle rather than intent that was important
and demanded that we change the bill to accurately reflect
everything that was used in the surgery no exceptions
even telling him that it was likely to be much more expensive
did not deter him from following his principles
i was still relatively new to the job then
so i informed mr nutty that i would have to speak with someone else
to see if his request could be granted and ended the call
it was at this point cynthia came up to me and asked if i was alright
she was passing by as the conversation was ending and hung around as i was
obviously upset and shaken i shared what happened and she very
kindly told me to pass the case to her department as they were more familiar
with such cases and it would be pretty easy i didn't hesitate to say no as i was
sick of mr nutty by then and called him a day or so later to tell
him that joel was taking over his case thereafter i did not hear anything about
this issue from joel cynthia or mr nutty and forgot about it
until five years later a major reorganization took place four
years after the case came in cynthia and joel left the medical case
management department was closed the pr department merged with several
others and now manages even more stuff one fine day
sarah from the finance department calls me about a patient who claims to have
spoken with the pr department staff and medical case department staff of yore
about a billing error that was left unresolved
although she couldn't be sure since the patient was insisting that they spoke to
cassandra gordon and op and that he had never heard of cynthia
joel or me when sarah tried to confirm if they were talking about the same staff
after an archaeological excavation of the archives and patient records
we discover that it is mr nutty calling about the same
issue with a twist apparently when joel reached out to mr nutty he tried to
explain that he would be facing substantial losses if we were to follow
his instructions in itemizing the bill mr nutty would simply not take no for an
answer and scream preached his ears off mr nutty also threatened to go to
multiple government departments to tell them about the hospital's
illegal actions and apparently later did go to
at least a couple here i have to admit that joel was
a much more professional worker than me and was typically a calm steady rock who
could take a lot of rubbish and still walk away without wanting to commit murder
or at least not admitting to wanting to commit murder
mr nutty must have deliberately picked all the bad
end route options he could and more because i had never seen joel doing anything
similar in the 4 years i worked with him typically when faced with such requests
joel could and would escalate the issue to cynthia
with the recommendation to ignore the case or
request after giving an official reply via letter
cynthia would usually agree as long as it was a morally correct
choice and there were no legal or medical repercussions
joel did not do that in this case joel opted to follow mr nutty's request to
the letter he told the surgery department what
happened pissed off that their goodwill has been spat
and trampled upon surgery department agreed with the changes and looped in
finance to make sure every single item used was listed
individually no more packages or cost saving efforts for mr
nutty it turned out that the organ transplant was not the only build item
that was actually a package deal so mr nutty's build came up to nearly
double his original cost mr nutty was not happy when joel
returned with the shiny new bill he refused to pay the bill and continued
to harass and threatened joel off and on for about a year or so but eventually
went quiet back to the present day i asked sarah
why mr nutty was calling years later and apparently it was because the debt
collection agency had found him mr nutty had moved and did not update
his particulars as he skipped his medical appointments as well
at the hospital if bills go unpaid for some time they go to a debt collection
agency which relies on the information provided by the hospital system
after all these years mr nutty finally came back for a checkup and had to
provide updated details the debt collection
agency caught wind of this and started the collection process again
somehow i managed to dig into my well of by then nearly non-existent compassion
and asked sarah if there was any way to reverse the charges
sarah cackled and pointed out that because of the universal health coverage
available mr nutty's medical bill was initially 80
covered in part thanks to the particular package codes like
organ transplant the surgery department used
however after his request only about 30 percent of his new
more expensive bill was covered the best bit
all such bills go to the government and only one
change is allowed unless the hospital admits it was their mistake
in which case there may be penalties this is to prevent hospitals from
changing the bill's willy-nilly and to save administrative costs
amazingly enough one of the governmental
departments mr nutty complained to about our legal actions was
the same department in charge of handling universal coverage for hospital bills
so not only did the government department in charge know about his
not-too-intelligent demands they also knew that we had tried to help him
but changed the bill to comply with his request and
there was absolutely no way the hospital was going to take a penalty on mr
nutty's behalf it was with great unbridled joy that i
made the final phone call to mr nutty he didn't recognize me but i had the
extreme pleasure of informing him that i was the first staff who spoke with him
five years ago didn't he remember screaming at me
no oh not to worry it was a long time ago oh it's not that it's a long time ago
you just thought it wasn't worth remembering all our names because we're just
customer service staff you say all right after that i didn't bother
with further niceties or small talk and went in straight for the kill
telling him that we could not change the bill again as it could only be changed
once surprisingly he didn't flip at once and even asked for the reasons
i explained how we sarah and i dug through our archives in the sequence of
events there was a long silence and just as i
was getting worried about whether he had passed out
mr nutty erupted shouting about it being a pack of
lies we were dishonest he was a retiree with no money how could we do this to
him why did we even make the changes if we
knew it was going to be more expensive how was it even possible that the
revised bill be of a higher amount it must be a mistake etc by now
i was a seasoned staff and would normally have ended the call after three
warnings my dear readers i did not do that with mr nutty
i waited very patiently for him to run out of breath screaming and cussing and
in the lull i simply said the bill was itemized as per your request
sir i don't know if it's weird of me to have so much empathy for these people
who very clearly argued constantly about something that they had been
explained to over and over that what was happening already was better for them
than what they're arguing for i don't know there's just something
about it that makes me feel bad for them you know they're retiree they're stuck
with double the bill it's just it's unfortunate that
they weren't able to realize that the hospital was trying to help them out
do you feel bad for this guy if so if not why let me know in the comments down
below our next story is by andres444 small time spousal malicious compliance
i have been in charge of doing the weekly grocery shopping for my husband and i
my husband has also developed a craving for watermelon for months now
requesting slices of watermelon every time i go to the store
which is fine lately he has been complaining about the quality of the
watermelon that i have been buying reminding me several times during the
week that i need to be better at choosing the best pieces
today being no different like whatever i'll get your darn watermelon but he
fails to realize that i'm not in charge of the watermelon that's available
and i don't know there's a global pandemic that's affecting their stock
cue malicious compliance i am over the complaining about the freaking watermelon
so i went to the store and got the biggest fattest whole watermelon that i
could find hauling it around while i completed the rest of our shopping list
he came out to help with the groceries and a look of confusion came over his
face and i let him know i got the best watermelon they had with the greatest
poop eating grin i could muster he's been cutting that behemoth up for 20
minutes because it's so unruly and refuses to talk to me this is kind
of a you can't have your cake and eat it too
situation where you're asking somebody to go and get something for you
every single time they go to the store per week if you constantly want
something and it's not always up to the standard you want i think you kind of
have to be involved with the acquisition of said item so you know that what
you're getting is quality stuff at least in your opinion the next story
was written by hisako315 no i don't think i will so a little explanation first
i work overnights and the way our schedules work is
you work ten to seven with two hours on friday and six hours on saturday
this will make more sense later our policy is you aren't required to work
past your schedule time even if management asks you to i work most weekends and
only am able to see my daughter once or twice a week
i asked for saturday through monday off so i could spend time with my daughter
in the hospital my boss begrudgingly allowed me to do that
but then scheduled me to work friday but only for two
hours all that week as payback for me asking off i got stuck with the heaviest
jobs and given no other support whereas the other workers
who had to do those same areas got help friday night rolls around
and i show up for my two hour shift just to find out that we had a few
call-ins and probably wouldn't get done my boss comes up to me
and gives me half of the work which would take most of the night to
complete i get started and an hour and a half into my 2 hour shift my boss goes
oh you're scheduled until 12 but i'm going to need you to stay until 7.
after having the heaviest work dumped on me all week
i decided i wasn't going to stay any longer than scheduled
i told my boss no i think i'm going to head home at 12.
other than getting the same treatment for the next week i haven't had
any repercussions from my following policy
i'm relieved to hear at the very end of the story that they haven't gotten any
bad repercussions from it because it's the jobs policy that you can go
home exactly when you're scheduled to be able to go home
that's actually a rarity because i hear a lot of times the expectation is for
you to work overtime without even complaining about
it and our final story of the day is by equivalent salary 357 but she has to
have an a sometime in the 1990s shortly after the first of six marking
periods in the school year me 40-something high school chemistry teacher
dad student's father mom student's mom principal principal of the high school
dad contacts principal for a conference with
me he was concerned that his daughter had almost failed chemistry the first
marking period principal informs me that we need to
meet with dad after school the next day usually parents contact the teacher
directly so i expect a hostile parent when the meeting starts
dad wants an explanation of why his daughter did so poorly
as politely as i could i explained that his daughter didn't seem to be putting
much effort into the class didn't complete homework assignments
didn't seem to pay attention in the lecture
and that her test and quiz scores were very low
actual effort and attention are not always easy to judge
but by this time i'd been teaching around 15 years so i thought i had a clue
that informs me that his daughter was going to nearby college with good rep
and that she needed to get an a in chemistry to get scholarships so that
they could afford to send her the next 20 to 25 minutes consisted of
me trying to explain that i believe she was capable of doing well if she put
in the effort and that she wouldn't be prepared to do well once she arrived at
nearby college with good rap if she was just given a grade now lots of different
variations on that but each was met with dads but she has to have an a
principal sits silently mom starts looking embarrassed but
silent just me and dad after about half an hour at this
i realized that dad had to win if we were going to get anywhere
so let me get this straight she has to get an a
yes she has to get an a i had never heard of the term
malicious compliance at that time but alright
i understand it is too late for me to do anything tonight
but tomorrow during my planning time i'll go down to the guidance office
where school records are kept and change your grade to an
a plus from now on every grade she receives from me will be an a plus
will that work for you daddy frowning well if you just give her the grade she
won't study maybe but you said she has to have an a to get a scholarship
dad repeats several more of my previous points apparently he was listening to me
after all to each of these i reply but she has to have an a
dad more to himself than to me but if she doesn't study she won't be prepared
for chemistry at nearby college with good rap
me silent dad goes quiet for a moment then no i'm going to tell that girl she
has to get to work and pull up her grade conference over no great change after
mom and dad left principal asked what i would have done if dad had taken me up
on my offer i said that i would have done exactly what i offered
looking back i'm not sure what i would have done the next day
but i dodged a bullet so the girl gets to work and by the end of the third
grading period she is earning all a and a plus grades somehow a
mistake occurred and her final overall grade ended up being calculated without
that first grading period averaged in so she ended up with a solid
a about 20 years later about five years ago
now retired this same young woman now a pharmacist in a local pharmacy
filled a prescription for me i'm smiling as i type this
basically it goes to show you that you have to have the drive if you're ever
going to end up anywhere she could have salvaged the grade
herself if she wanted to but she ended up getting a hookup she was allowed to
be lazy and even if she did end up going to nearby college with good rep
she didn't end up with a very prestigious job
don't get me wrong a pharmacist job isn't bad but
i would guess that's not exactly what they were aspiring for
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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've
got a crazy story of compliance involving doing an emergency drill at
sea but first the story from warrior four four dumb boss equals broken glass
so all this happens a good 10 years ago now when i had my very first job right
after school i was 17 years old then had
no clue about labor laws and was working as a metal worker for a small five-man
business the boss was from sicily and thought of himself as a better don
corleone the other workers were one actual worker a 50-plus year old school
chief that forgotten more than others ever knew and kept the entire shop
running one apprentice in his fourth and last year robin an arrogant jerk but
pretty competent and then there was the apprentice of the first year who was
always so stoned weed kept growing out of his ears and then there was me a more
theoretically oriented guy who wanted to work in the it sector but since my dad
considered me too dumb for it second best grades in every subject in my
finishing year but that's another topic and he paid for my applications back
then on paper he had me do some proper work the boss himself was working in the
office doing the designing of the stuff we would cut up build weld and install i
had two left hands coming fresh from school but if boss grabbed a screwdriver
well jump in a ditch put a helmet on and start praying he was a walking
catastrophe on two legs he always hired himself people with either no clue about
a labor laws or no other choice so he could pretty much do as he pleased the
one year i worked there according to my contract minimum wage of course i
accumulated a good 200 overtime hours which i didn't have any proof about so i
could smear them up my rear so we were on a construction site a good one and a
half hour drive from our shop where we're supposed to install 14 3.10 meters
tall 122 inches by 1.50 meter 59 inches broad panes of glass those were made out
of the double layered safety glass a good 1.6 inches thick with a layer of
tough clear foil in between so really heavy things a good 440 pounds or so
those panes of glass were supposed to go into the rail in the ceiling and floor
creating solid secure glass walls for an
office the normal ceiling was around 2.6 meters tall so we had to use cuption
suckers and bring the heavy freakers in angle which was really a pain like
literally the problem so we ran into a problem pretty quickly that while the
ceiling was 2.60 meters above the floor and the glass was 3.10 there's a good
lack of space around half a meter 20 inches the rails in the ceiling and the
floor added another five centimeters each so we ended up with the glass being
40 centimeters too long turns out the boss had been ordering them wrong oh
crap so we called the boss he still being back home in the shop telling him
the problem which he was infuriated about as if we extended the glass
somehow we then try to call multiple companies in the area who work with
glass if they could come in and cut the glass on the construction site as soon
as they heard double layered safety glass each and every one of them
outright refused saying that the glass was more likely to break than to be cut
with anything short of an industrial sized laser cutter or water cutter for
that matter the solution and malicious compliance so after calling every glass
company within 30 minutes travel of the site who all refused the request our
boss had a glorious idea that if the professionals chicken out we four metal
workers of which only one actually had a finished apprenticeship should do the
job with our diamond cutter something you used to cut normal thin glass we
three looked at ourselves stoner was just giggling mad as usual speechless
for a moment before our chief asked the boss if he the boss was really sure
about this because there was simply no way in heck all the glass would survive
when the professionals gave us a 50-50 chance chief gave us a 10 90 chance of
any glass surviving boss said he was absolutely sure after all our chief
could do everything and if one or two glasses break it would be better than
nothing cause we the workers couldn't just drive home and have no progress on
the construction site whatsoever to show for when the customer would do an
inspection our chief asked once more if the boss was sure that he was okay with
that risk that a good number of glass would break and knowing our boss we had
him on speaker and recorded what he said well he said a second time that he was
all sure and that he would take this one on him as if ordering the stuff wrong
hadn't been on him he then spent 10 minutes arguing with the chief who
insisted to go and quickly buy a new sharp diamond cutter as ours was dull as
a trolls club boss didn't like the expense of like 200 dollars converted
but he eventually allowed it problem with cutting glasses you cut one side
turn it around and then bend it carefully against the cut but when you
have double layered glass yeah joke's on you basically well we unloaded all the
glass carefully until we only had one on our truck carefully cut one side with
the new diamond cutter poured some flammable liquid in the cut and ignited
it to melt the foil layer then we turned the whole thing around cut the other
side and started to carefully move the top part back and forth to widen the cut
until it would crack all the way through from the 14 glasses 11 were killed with
a crack suddenly going down splitting the entire length in half so three
glasses survived the massacre and the rest had to be reordered completely by
our boss instead of just being sent in for a professional cut with a proper
machine he later complained why we did this crap and we simply played him the
recording of him twice saying he was all fine with it he kept grumbling and
making snarky remarks but in all honesty this was just one of many instances so
we simply nodded and ignored him he could have only have gone after the
chief if he pressed the issue but without the chief nothing would run in
this shop and the boss really knew it i was unlike my second to last month and
already had the contract for my proper apprenticeship somewhere else of course
already signed and sealed so it wasn't like i cared one iota anymore anyway at
that point hope this memory of mine made you smile just like it does make me
smile even a decade later does this story make you guys smile for me it just
kind of stresses me out making me think of myself in a situation like that being
expected to do something i know is just going to go bad and not work out well do
you guys think this is a story that's supposed to make you smile or give you
contact ptsd let me know what you guys think in the comments down below and by
the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and
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every video has awesome stories like our next one from new techie one you only
pay mileage for the shortest possible trip okay then you have to pay my tolls
and my job every day i have to travel between two offices i start at my main
office then have to travel to the second office then back to my main office
because i'm using my personal vehicle for this travel the company pays me
mileage well there's basically two routes you can take between the two
offices one's about a mile round trip shorter but has tolls so i always took
the one mile longer route and avoided the tolls i did it this way for a year
well then comes the new bookkeeper and she is heck bent on saving the company
money where does she think all this wasteful money is going expense reports
obviously so she starts nitpicking every report like if someone's out and has to
buy some pens for work she goes online and finds the cheapest price possible
for those pens and only reimburses for that cheaper price it obviously has
pissed several people off well she eventually decided to target me i submit
my report for two weeks and a few days later get the reimbursement payment well
it's 5.85 short i ask her about it and she
says i've been ripping off the company for the past year by taking the longer
route between the offices she'll only pay the mileage for the shorter route
from now on and i'm lucky she doesn't go back and take back all the extra from
the past year i say okay but to please send me that per her request i must take
the shorter route and then this is company policy and lever office before i
even made it to my desk i had the email from her confirming what she said two
weeks later i submit my expense report i reported the shorter route so the
company saved five dollars and 85 cents but the tolls added up to
136 dollars a net loss for the company of a hundred thirty dollars and fifteen
cents it's been six months and i'm still taking the shorter route costing the
company an extra hundred thirty dollars every two weeks i love this story and i
think the only thing that annoys me is that it isn't like noticeably faster
like op still at the end of the day only saving a mile between trips this story
would become amazing if it actually saved op 5 10 plus minutes on their
commute this next story is from cacto and sano had to redo an emergency drill
at sea because too much of it was simulated corrected the mistake the next
time around i was in the military underway on a ship and we had to
periodically do drills think fire alarm man overboard abandon ship etc and as we
geared up for an outside inspection team to visit we'd be run and grade them
ourselves to see what we need to improve upon to pass inspection we were in the
middle of a long patrol and we were running a man overboard drill part of
this drill is that when the man overboard alarm sounds you're supposed
to throw a life ring over the side of the ship towards the person in the water
to give them something to hang on to and to help mark the position of where they
were in the water so that the ship could more easily find them to pick them up
simple enough as a side note when running drills there's various ways to
mark what things are off limits or should be simulated we would use blue
tape so blue tape would go over the real international distress signals for a
drill the long range radio etc so we knew we just had to simulate those
things if we were doing a part of the response and saw something with a blue
tape we'd kind of narrate and now i'd use the radio to alert our parent
command etc so we run the man overboard drill the ship maneuvers to pick up the
fake man overboard a dummy named oscar named for the name of the flag you hoist
when you have a man overboard in pretty quick time however during the debrief
the ship's executive officer second in command and also head of the training
team berates the crew because no one threw life rings over the side as per
policy we would have failed the drill if we were at a real inspection he says he
said that a bunch of crew members went up to the life rings and then stated and
now i'd throw over a life ring to the training team member watching rather
than actually doing it if there isn't blue tape on it then you can't
self-simulate the xo says and we were going to run the drill again until we
get it right and what happened next was a brilliant moment of a group without
consulting each other executing some malicious compliance we run the drill
again oscar goes over the side and the man overboard alarm is sounded the ship
had i believe nine life rings on the outside decks they started going over
the side one after the other i think we got eight of them over the side before
the exo got on the loudspeaker and said stop throwing life rings but the damage
had been done i do wish we would have gotten the last one over but alas at the
end of the drill the ship spent the next two to three hours tracking down life
rings with flashing strobes each floating different directions away from
the ship on the open ocean it was lots of fun since we got to maneuver the ship
around a ton and just enjoyed driving it rather than having to do anything
worthwhile but the xo was certainly none too pleased since it delayed our patrol
schedule a little bit but the good news was we passed the drill and certainly
didn't simulate anything so he couldn't say anything about it see in this
situation i don't know what the xo can really complain about like yeah there's
a lot of extra work and it's pretty obvious why people would simulate it
then but this is exactly what they asked
for they shouldn't be upset at all in my opinion they should be proud of their
crew and our final story of the day is from ngg jamie you wanted to watch it on
pay-per-view if we're paying for it you need to keep watching this is a minor
malicious compliance from when i was about eight years old i had a satellite
dish receiver in my room and was looking for something to watch when i saw they
had rugrats in paris on pay-per-view i loved rugrats but knew i wasn't supposed
to watch anything on those channels cause it would cost money so i asked my
parents and they didn't like it but relented so they put it on when it
started over next this was probably about right after lunch i watch the
movie and really like it the credits come on and i'm not sure if i can just
change the channel without it continuing to charge or something so i go to the
living room to tell my parents the movie ended so they could take it off before
i'm able to say something my dad tells me i wanted to watch the movie so bad i
need to be in my room watching it because it's costing money i try to say
what i was going to say again but get interrupted once more i don't want to
get in trouble so i go back to my room and stay in there the movie probably
played through an extra two or three times before my mom comes in to call me
out for dinner and i'm finally able to tell her the movie ended a long time ago
she switches the channel over and asks why i didn't say something before i say
i did but i got told that i needed to stay in here and watch the movie so i
did there was a sigh and i bet you probably told my dad something later
when i wasn't in the room i didn't watch anything on pay-per-view after that but
i didn't get in trouble and it cost at least three to four times as much
because they wouldn't listen the first time it sucks for the parents but the
sooner you learn just let somebody get what they want to say out when they're
trying to tell you something the sooner dumb things will stop like paying three
to four times over for ugg rats in paris on pay-per-view by the way i love the
rugrats and love that movie it was the first place i ever heard the song who
let the dogs out and that song has been a certified jam ever since but with that
being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear
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:00.000 --> :01.000 Posted by :00.000 --> :00.840
u/TheHorizonLies 2 days ago :07.480 --> :10.589
You want me to do something else while I'm waiting? Ok
:10.589 --> :10.757 LOC This is kind of long. Sorry or whatever.
:10.757 --> :14.920 At my most recent former employer, a home
improvement store in the vein of Lowe's
:14.920 --> :20.040 or Home Depot, I worked in receiving,
mostly unloading trucks with a forklift. :20.040 --> :24.160
About two years into my time there, we got
a new assistant store manager, let's call
:24.160 --> :29.480
him Gary. This guy came in and thought that not
only did his crap not stink, but that we should
:29.480 --> :38.080
all eat as much of it as possible. Micromanaging,
changing SOP, etc. Everything he said was right. :38.080 --> :42.920
So one day, a truck is in the process of
backing down the ramp to our receiving docks,
:42.920 --> :47.760
but there's a problem with the brakes and the
wheels are just dragging. Since my job at that
:47.760 --> :52.800 moment is "wait until the truck comes in and
unload it once it does," there's literally
:52.800 --> :57.560 nothing I can really do apart from give the
dude good vibes from my seat. (To be clear,
:57.560 --> :02.160 the problem was not any failing on the
driver's part, just bad luck with the hoses). :02.160 --> :07.320
At this time of day, we have two people on the
clock in receiving: me on one forklift, waiting
:07.320 --> :12.560 for the truck, and my department manager on
another, helping out in the outside yard because
:12.560 --> :18.120
two propane forklifts were disabled and they had
two lumber trucks show up at the same time. We
:18.120 --> :22.640
only had two electric forks, and they were the
only ones that could be inside the building.
:22.640 --> :28.880
[REDACTED TO PROTECT THOSE WITH NO SENSE OF HUMOR]
So basically, I'm literally all alone on the only
:28.880 --> :34.160
available forklift that can unload the truck.
Which is fine, because that's my freaking jam. :34.160 --> :38.760
At the same time, we only had one dock
of three available for live loads, :38.760 --> :42.600
because one already had an unhooked trailer and the other was broken.
:42.600 --> :46.640 So, while we're understaffed and short
equipment, and while the driver is trying
:46.640 --> :52.280
to unfreak his truck, Gary walks into receiving
with two other department managers and sees
:52.280 --> :57.880 me sitting on the forklift, basically just
twiddling my thumbs as I watch the driver.
:57.880 --> :03.480 I can understand how it might look like I'm
freaking off, since I kind of am, but not really. :03.480 --> :06.240
"Why are you just sitting there?" Gary asks me. :06.240 --> :08.600
"Waiting for the truck to back up," I say. :08.600 --> :12.120
He says, "While you're waiting, you can do other things."
:12.120 --> :16.120
I look out the dock door and see the driver come
out from between the truck and trailer and get
:16.120 --> :21.960 back in the cab, so I say, "But he's almost
got it. He'll be docked in like a minute." :21.960 --> :24.960
"And in that minute, you can do other things." :24.960 --> :29.200
I've had more than my share of crapy
leaders in my life, and I can tell by :29.200 --> :34.160
Gary's tone and body language that nothing
is going to shake him from this attitude,
:34.160 --> :37.800 so I just say, "You got it,
what should I do while I wait?" :37.800 --> :42.040
Gary says "Go outside and help unload one of the lumber trucks."
:42.040 --> :43.800 I say, "For how long?"
:43.800 --> :49.520
Sounding annoyed, he waves his hands in a shooing
motion and says, "For as long as it takes,
:49.520 --> :54.320 now go." Then he walks away. The two
department managers look at each other,
:54.320 --> :59.280 look at me, smile, and follow after
him. They know what's about to happen. :59.280 --> :03.200
Hey, buddy, you got it. I'm absolutely gonna do this for
:03.200 --> :07.440 you. So I spin the forklift around and
zip out through the big overhead door :07.440 --> :12.000
into the outside yard to help with
the lumber trucks. As I do this, :12.000 --> :17.720
I hear the trailer back into the dock. But that
doesn't matter, because Gary gave me a mission. :17.720 --> :21.280
I make it to where the lumber trucks are
parked in the yard, and my department :21.280 --> :27.080
manager drives over next to me. He says, "Why
are you out here? Isn't the truck docking?" :27.080 --> :31.000
I nod. "Gary told me I needed to be
out here helping while I wait. He :31.000 --> :36.240
was very insistent." I slowly emphasize the last two words.
:36.240 --> :40.440 My manager just smiles, turns
around and continues to unload. :40.440 --> :45.200
I start helping. A stack of studs
here, a bundle of trusses there, :45.200 --> :49.920
and I'm doing my part to empty these
flatbeds of wood. While this is happening,
:49.920 --> :54.400
I hear the gate attendant for the outside yard
radio that we have another truck waiting to come
:54.400 --> :58.960 in. I radio back that it's gonna have
to wait until the other truck is gone. :58.960 --> :04.160
Then another truck shows up. And another.
In the twenty minutes I've been outside,
:04.160 --> :08.680 four trucks besides the one that is now
in the dock have arrived to be unloaded
:08.680 --> :13.240 in our single dock. And every time I
tell the gate that they have to wait. :13.240 --> :17.120
At this point, the general store manager
Mike finally hears what's happening over
:17.120 --> :22.120 the radio and cuts in. "Hey what's going on?
Are we not unloading the truck in receiving?" :22.120 --> :26.360
I radio back and say, "I'll be there in
just a second." I put the load I've got on
:26.360 --> :31.560 my tines where it needs to go and haul butt
back to receiving. As I drive into the bay,
:31.560 --> :34.880 Mike and Gary are both standing
there, with the driver next to them. :34.880 --> :39.880
I zip up to them and hold my hand out for
the driver's paperwork. He hands it to me
:39.880 --> :45.600
as Gary says, "What the heck is taking you so
long? Why haven't you started unloading yet?" :45.600 --> :48.960
"You told me to help on the lumber trucks while I wait," I say.
:48.960 --> :53.120 Gary sputters and says, "I meant
until this truck was in the dock." :53.120 --> :55.800
I look at Mike and then back to Gary. "I asked you
:55.800 --> :58.800 for how long and you said
for as long as it takes." :58.800 --> :05.560
"I didn't say that." I look at him and he looks at
me, like he's daring me. And I like taking dares. :05.560 --> :09.840
I name the two department managers who
were with him when he told me and say :09.840 --> :12.640
"We all heard you say it. You were very clear." :12.640 --> :20.120
His face turns the color of an apple, and not like
a Fuji or Gala, but a Red freaking Delicious. He
:20.120 --> :25.320 opens his mouth but Mike puts a hand on his
arm and stops him. Mike looks at me and says,
:25.320 --> :31.760
"Get it sorted fast, okay?" I nod and get started
as Mike walks away with Gary fuming beside him. :31.760 --> :37.120
Now I didn't hear their conversation because I
was kicking butt and taking names on my forklift,
:37.120 --> :42.000 but word got back to me that Mike told Gary
he would never again be allowed to question
:42.000 --> :48.280
anything anyone in receiving does, and especially
me when it comes to unloading trucks. If I'm on
:48.280 --> :54.320 a forklift, I'm basically untouchable. And
over the next year that Gary was with us,
:54.320 --> :58.640 he abided by that directive, though he
did feel entitled to shoot me a dirty :58.640 --> :04.280
glance or twenty every so often. Not that
I cared, because I had trucks to unload. :25.000 --> :28.680 Posted by
u/Kingdo7 :28.680 --> :31.640 2 days ago
:31.640 --> :34.520 You want us to mind our business ? Okay LOC
:34.520 --> :38.760 Hello, this is an old story from
around 2015, I was at the time a :38.760 --> :43.640
college student and I hope you will enjoy
it. Also, English isn't my native language. :43.640 --> :48.600
I was living in my first apartment, a complex
for college students. The complex give us
:48.600 --> :52.520 a separate bedroom and bathroom. But the
kitchen and dinner room were common. There
:52.520 --> :57.920 was one kitchen per floor. As you expect,
dinner time was crowded, but we managed. :57.920 --> :03.440
Quickly, I notice a guy, he always did the
same thing. He came, prepare a quick meal,
:03.440 --> :08.120 put it in the induction hob and left.
I notice him for two reasons, first, :08.120 --> :12.880
I find it odd to leave the kitchen while
cooking. If you cook a long meal, I get it,
:12.880 --> :16.960 but a quick meal ? The second reasons
was because he left for an unreasonable
:16.960 --> :22.520 time. His main meal was a 3-min rice,
but he usually left for 20 to 30 min. :22.520 --> :25.720
So while I was cooking, then eating in the kitchen area,
:25.720 --> :30.160 I often stop the pan and evacuate the
water to not have the rice turning bad. :30.160 --> :35.160
After multiples times, I try to tell him that
whatever he did, his rice was only cooking for
:35.160 --> :40.520
3 minutes, and since his activities take him 20
minutes each time, he should take care of his
:40.520 --> :46.000 meal. But he shut me off, telling me to mind
my business. I told him that he wasn't nice,
:46.000 --> :51.760
but I will indeed stop taking care of his meal
now. And his meal will turn bad. He smirks,
:51.760 --> :56.440 telling me there are a lot of people in
the floor and someone will do it anyway. :56.440 --> :00.840
Few days later, I can see his pan with rice
again. And someone else decided to take care
:00.840 --> :05.640
of it. That person end up sitting in my table
to eat and ask about the rice without owner
:05.640 --> :12.000
when everyone was eating. So I told her about the
guy who constantly left other cooking for him. :12.000 --> :16.320
She tells me I was being mean and we should
help each others. I told her I won't stop her
:16.320 --> :21.680
from cooking for him, but he will be ungrateful.
She didn't like my answer and stay silent. I saw
:21.680 --> :26.760 her taking care of his meal multiples times
after that. Then, one day, she caught the
:26.760 --> :32.120
man fleeing the kitchen and run after him. She
came back and sit right next to me. She wanted
:32.120 --> :39.280
to vent about how the man was a brat. I laugh, I
say, “I told you”. This scenario repeat 5 times.
:39.280 --> :43.920 But the last 2 were easier since 3 persons
were telling the same thing. At some point,
:43.920 --> :49.560 someone ask the dude what he was doing to
ditch his meal every day, video games. XD :49.560 --> :54.360
After our team of 5 were formed. I notice
one thing, basically no one was helping
:54.360 --> :59.440 to anything in the kitchen, the only one
who did was us 5. (we were 20 per floor,
:59.440 --> :05.000 it wasn't a big building, only 100 room for
5 floors) So with us not helping him anymore,
:05.000 --> :10.800
his rice will finally turn bad. I talk to the
other about it, and we decided to see the show. :10.800 --> :15.560
We came the earlier possible, cook, eat
and just hang out in the kitchen. Then,
:15.560 --> :21.640 come the man, as usual, he put water in
his pan, add the 3 minutes rices and left.
:21.640 --> :27.400 The time we came back was random, but mostly
around 20–30 minutes, the worst was 1 hour. :27.400 --> :33.240
We waited, 3 minutes passed, and he wasn't there,
as expected. Others started to come and make
:33.240 --> :38.520
their meal, sometimes they ask for the abandoned
rice. So we just explain that the owner was in
:38.520 --> :45.240
his room playing video games. They all shrugs and
continue their business, nobody even try to help. :45.240 --> :49.080
Oh yeah, he put the induction hub at max temperature too.
:49.080 --> :54.600 After 30 minutes, we expected him to come,
but he didn't. Feeling interested in science
:54.600 --> :00.440
(I never saw overcooked rice before, well, not
that overcooked), I approach the pan to look at
:00.440 --> :06.080
the rice. I take a fork and dig a little. They
ask what it's look like, I answer the rice look
:06.080 --> :12.400
completely fine if untouched, but disintegrate
in a fine powder in the water with my fork. :12.400 --> :16.640
At 40 and 50 minutes, he still wasn't
there. Most people have finished eating
:16.640 --> :20.600 and return to their room by now. 2
of the group decided to leave too. :20.600 --> :26.520
At 1 hour, someone check the state of the rice and
say all the water was evaporated. It was proposed
:26.520 --> :32.760
to stop the induction hob to not risk a fire. But
we decided not to, mostly because we were there.
:32.760 --> :38.280
The others 2 decided to leave, having better thing
to do. I think about it myself, but hey, I am
:38.280 --> :44.760
patient and petty, and I want to see his face in
front of that pan. I was then waiting by myself. :44.760 --> :49.680
At 1 hour 30 min, I check the rice, as expected, the bottom was dark.
:49.680 --> :55.358 At 2 hour, one of the 4 saw me alone in the
kitchen. The conversation was I follow : :55.358 --> :56.718 - OP ?
:56.718 --> :57.438 - yes ? :57.438 --> :01.438
- What are you doing alone in the kitchen ? Wait, are you still waiting ?
:01.438 --> :01.840 - yes :01.840 --> :04.398
- He didn't get his rice yet ? :04.398 --> :05.520 - No, he didn't
:05.520 --> :11.918 - What the... but I took a shower and
watch the TV ! This rice cook since when ? :11.918 --> :13.620
- It's been 2 hours now :13.620 --> :15.360 - No, that impossible.
:15.360 --> :17.820 - I use the chronometer of my phone.
:17.820 --> :20.320 - the induction hub is off, right ?
:20.320 --> :24.920 - No, I didn't put it off, but I
open the window for the burn odor :24.920 --> :30.600
She approaches the pan, and declare the rice
burn. She quickly left the kitchen, exited. :30.600 --> :36.480
At 1 hour 10, she came back with the 3 others and
snacks. Everyone wanted to see the state of the
:36.480 --> :42.880
rice, someone try to dig with a wooden spoon and
declare the pan damaged. He couldn't dig at all,
:42.880 --> :47.440 the rice has melted and now be a part
of the pan. I don't know much about it,
:47.440 --> :52.480 I never got a dish burn that much, but I
agree that cleaning it will be a challenge. :52.480 --> :58.160
At 2 hour 15, I check the rice, not a single grain was white anymore.
:58.160 --> :05.280 At 2 hour 30, look who came ! THE MAN ! He
finally shows his nose in the kitchen. We
:05.280 --> :10.560 look at him with anticipation. He looked
at us a little puzzle, but go to his pan. :10.560 --> :16.960
He looks at his rice and then, he froze. He didn't
move for a while, he tries to take his pan off the
:16.960 --> :23.200
induction hub, but burn himself with the metallic
handle. We all look at him amused. He looks at us,
:23.200 --> :29.200
still chocked, and ask where was his food. We
told him in his pan. He said there is no way,
:29.200 --> :34.400
he always finds his rice around. We told him no
one touch his food. Didn't he put the rice in the
:34.400 --> :40.400
pan himself ? He argued that usually, he just has
to put his rice and go to his room. When he comes
:40.400 --> :45.520
back, someone has been taking the rice off for
him, but sometimes with everyone moving around,
:45.520 --> :51.640 he finds his rice in odd places like on the
oven. But he didn't see any rice in the kitchen.
:51.640 --> :57.160 We told him that indeed, that what happen,
but he told each of us to mind our business,
:57.160 --> :02.680 so neither of us touch his food today. I
think that when he realizes who we were. :02.680 --> :08.520
He looked alternatively to the pan and us. He
looks at the pan again, then ask us what he
:08.520 --> :13.360 will eat now. We answer that we don't know,
he can still make rice again, but he has to
:13.360 --> :19.840
stay nearby because we will not help him anymore.
He looks at us, and try to touch the pan again,
:19.840 --> :24.960 he success to move it using his shirt in the
handle. He put it in the sink with cold water,
:24.960 --> :30.800
he tries to clean it, but quickly look at us again
and ask how he should clean that. We don't know,
:30.800 --> :36.200 really. He looks at us in despair, he
said he only has one pan. We laughed, :36.200 --> :40.920
I left after that, I know that 2 people stay, but I saw what I wanted.
:40.920 --> :44.160 While he still went to his room
after putting his meal on the pan, :44.160 --> :49.560
he comes back around 5 minutes later. Then,
eventually, just stop coming to his room,
:49.560 --> :53.160 I guess the round trip was a
hassle for just a few minutes. :53.160 --> :56.200
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today we have a crazy story of an entitled parent and their kid who used
their entitlement to tank a group from first place all the way to last we'll
get into that in a bit but first entitled family causes scene at
graduation my sister-in-law graduated medical school over the weekend at the
ceremony a family sat behind us they had a four-year-old girl who kept running
back and forth kicking our seats playing with our coats and hair whining and
coughing Etc after about 40 minutes of this my father-in-law started throwing
the parent sturdy looks and finally asked the girl and her mom to stop
kicking his chair that was all he asked the woman Karen grabbed her child and
said fine this is my husband's graduation but I guess I'll just have to
miss it thanks a lot and then she took her kid and left the Grandma Karen
senior stayed and was ticked she said why don't you just deal with it she's
not feeling well our group ignored her after the ceremony The Graduate husband
came and found father-in-law and expressed his dissat satisfaction at him
making his wife leave when again no one asked her to leave it ended up being a
comically dramatic situation with Karen senior trying to shame us for not
putting up with the kid I very calmly ask the people why don't you just parent
your child they had no answer and stomped away as a former teacher and
someone who loves kids I get that kids will be kids but parents are responsible
for teaching their kids how to act in public it's not okay for a child to be
all up in other people's personal spaces I mean the parents are kind of the kids
themselves that just never really grew up I mean they're displaying the classic
child behavior of All or Nothing you ask them to be a bit more polite and they
just go okay fine guess I got to grab my ball and go home then thanks a lot hey
if you're going to Caren out like that in public that's probably doing us a
favor anyways also hi I'm step and if you guys enjoy these stories of entitled
parents why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that's said
our next story is Mom asks me to pay her debt caused by money loss in stock
market my mom is in serious debt because she borrowed money to invest in the
stock market which is actually almost 10 years ago but her friend that lent her
the money recently is an urgent need of this money so my mom turned to me she's
asking me to give her $110,000 now and says she'll sell her
house and find a job to pay the rest she's out of a job now I have at most
30,000 to give her but I know she needs 70 ,000 even after selling the house and
I don't believe her one bit that she'll work to make money as she only loves
risky investments in the past also I think borrowing money to invest in
stocks is just gambling and afraid she'll ask for more once I give her some
money she doesn't want anyone else in the family to know about the debt either
I really don't want to give her any money to pay the debt but my mom can be
very extreme if I don't give her attention she would say things like I
did the most for this family but you all just hate me no one will know even if I
die on the street I just worry she'll do
something stupid to hurt herself but she wouldn't go to the therapist either
thanks for reading and appreciate any suggestions I mean if it were me I would
be leaning towards not giving her any money especially because somebody who's
that far gone with taking money and investing it I'm afraid that they would
just turn around and instead of using it to actually pay off any debts they're
going to take this money and be like well I can strike lightning this one
time and that's that's all I need and just blow the rest of your money too our
next story is my parents in their my house my rules hello I need experiences
opinions and maybe advices I'll try to make it short it concerns my parents and
my boyfriend my boyfriend 22 and I 19 are together since 5 months ago we live
far apart from each other one to 2 hours but we see each other every weekend it
started from a few hours one day a week to every weekend Saturday and Sunday
we've been together for 5 months only but everything is perfect he loves and
respects me a lot nothing has been more perfect than being with him I know I
found happiness I already met his parents and I see them regularly when I
go to his house they love me a lot I even text his mom occasionally he also
met my parents but only once it went well and they liked him but now I'm not
sure they do so I said that I see my boyfriend every week starting with a few
hours to now every weekend sleeping at his place since more than a month ago I
spend the weekend with him and at his place for two reasons we don't see each
other that much so we want to spend more time together he lives in the
countryside where it's peaceful but my parents especially my mom don't like
that I spend the weekend at his house she told me a lot of things you're only
19 you're acting like you can do whatever you want aren't you ashamed to
bother his family every weekend thing is his parents want me to sleep over over
at their house every weekend and they support the relationship with my
boyfriend and spend more time together if he leaves you what will you do you
two were not married for you to sleep at
his place my house my rules exactly what she said I even got threats by message
from her telling me that once I come back to them my parents my life will
only get bad and that I should put that on my mind never thought she would go
that far but I'm not surprised I know my parents want me to sleep at home where
they know I'm safe but we barely talk to each other when I come back even way
before I sleep at my boyfriend's house so I don't see the point to come back
home on Saturday if I see him again the next day my dad is more cool with me he
doesn't get angry but he doesn't listen to me too he takes my mom's side my mom
has always been protective and she restricts me a lot even to my sister
when she was younger I barely could go out with my friends and when I did I had
to give names and numers numbers to her never went partying or clubbing before
last month as well sleepovers at my friend's houses she knew for years were
also hard to get I always ask her but I get a no every time or she would say yes
but get passive aggressive if I dared to decide or do things without telling her
she would get mad and angry at me and since I have a boyfriend I told myself
that I should decide by myself and stop being my mom's dog that's what I've been
doing for a few months now and I regret any decisions I made because I'm happier
like that we also might move out together next year because his parents
will sell the house but they would eventually rent it for my boyfriend and
I nothing sure yet but it's most likely to happen it'll be hard to talk about it
to my parents but this situation where my mom keeps controlling or whatever she
does to me I need to get rid of it any similar situations experiences or any
advices please thank you for reading this I would say say once you get to the
point where you're an adult and you can make your own decisions and it sounds
like they're especially getting to the point where they have their own
independence they're going to move out to find their own place you stop taking
stock in people who want to control you and control your life and you should
start kind of putting that wall up where if they're going to try to be
controlling overexerting themselves in this relationship that you're just going
to keep pulling back until there's an equilibrium and that may be almost no
contact if they can't support you or support the choices you make for
yourself as an adult I don't think it's worth the time or stress it's not like
they're trying to come to you with advice here they're trying to control
what you can or can't do our next story is Mom complains about her father
falling asleep after he takes care of her son I read this in the guardian
today and couldn't quite Believe The Audacity Of This Mother exert below
twice a week when I'm at work dad watches Theo my son who's 11 and feeds
our dog Betsy a 12-year-old Labrador who still has a lot of energy but Dad often
falls asleep at mine Theo says he doesn't like to wake up his grandpa and
he's pretty much old enough to look after himself but if Dad's offer to come
and cook Theo's dinner and keep him company then Falls as sleep on him
what's the point in coming when I get home I'll ask Theo how long has he been
sleeping often it's after he's made their dinner and done whatever else I've
asked him to help with after the chores he's zoned So This Woman's 76-year-old
dad comes over twice a week to look after her son cook him dinner and do
chores all for free and she has the audacity to complain that he falls
asleep also it's not like the child is a toddler he's 11 if anything happens he
can wake his grandpa up or call for help some people I mean not all 11year olds
are equal but as long as there's pretty basic supervision going on I feel like
you can kind of trust that an 11-year-old will be able to make make it
through an afternoon by themselves I mean I'm willing to bet that this child
care is free so really how much can you complain especially on top of they're
actually doing chores I think I would be elated if I were in her position our
next story is I want to avoid being an entitled mother-in-law okay so just
found out my son and his girlfriend tied the knot at the courthouse beginning of
November I'm very happy for them both she's a lovely person and I like her a
lot they've been here visiting this weekend we've discussed that they want
to do something a little bigger with some family in about 2 to 3 years I've
offered to help with any planning in the location of the backyard it's a decent
size although some work needs to get done and I'm a pretty decent diyer and
crafter money is an issue for me and them my new daughter tends to be a
little quiet and introverted and has not always had the best interactions with
the mother figures in her life I want to make sure I don't push anything on her
please for everyone out there who's dealt with entire entitled moms
mother-in-laws Etc especially in the wedding SL reception planning process
please tell me how to avoid becoming one of those I mean I think as far as
somebody who is a bit more quiet and introverted I think honestly suggesting
things but focusing so much on having patience and hearing their opinions is
the crucial thing I tend to be a pretty quiet guy I think I'm also not the most
crafty person so I think I would appreciate a lot of guidance or
suggestions as far as what to do it's just you don't want to be controlling or
overbearing I think you take your time you ask them how they feel about things
especially what they like what they don't like I think you can find a lot of
success and come across as a stellar mother-in-law our next story is I feel
trapped I'm 17-year-old female and my mother 50-year-old female keeps
pressuring me into bringing a guy home I deeply refuse because she's always
criticized everything about about me she's a weird person she's called me a
because one day I came home later than usual and she decided to believe
that I was freaking with a guy I was at school but later she would ask me why I
don't bring the boyfriend that she's totally convinced that I have home due
to this my attempts to date have always been horrible last time I dated a guy he
broke up with me because he couldn't meet my family and he didn't like that
now I'm seeing another guy but every time we go out I have to lie to my
mother and tell her I go to the gym or to my friends my father knows and he's
by my side but my mother doesn't listen today I was with my brother 8-year-old
male and my mother he said something about his girlfriend and of course my
mother went crazy so I told him I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend even though
I'm 17 you'll have to wait to which my mother said that that was a lie that I
was the one who was a freaking weirdo and couldn't get no one I said that
bringing a guy home wasn't necessary and
by telling my parents about him was more than enough this is where she snapped
and told me that if I want to freak around and have hookups I may as well
move out because I'm old enough I really don't know what to do why can't she be
normal I don't want my life wasted I want to date I want to fall in love and
I want to have a normal relationship with a guy without being forced to make
a plan and lie in order to get out of my house I'm so sad honestly I think you
just need to break through that wall if you're with somebody and you're committ
committed to them you should be able to tell him that your mom is weird that
they make it really uncomfortable and you and your partner should be there for
each other and be ready to face that I would say go ahead and bring them home
have that meeting I would say don't even be afraid about saying that you want to
go see your boyfriend you want to go spend time with them especially when
Opie says that their father is backing them up I feel like even if she
escalates this and says oh well you're sleeping around oh you want to go be a
because you're committed to one guy that you want to see regularly I'm
going to kick you out of my house blah blah blah I'm willing to bet that
doesn't happen because of the father and I think the more you normalize your
dating behavior and being with people the sooner you're going to at least
increase your chances of maybe them coming around to it especially if they
end up liking the guy this next story is
frustrated with my mom I'm 24 and have a Bachelor of Arts and psychology and
years of experience working in mental health facilities I'm also on route to
earn my associates as a speech language pathologist assistant I am very close to
being done and being in a good paying career but she unexpectedly told me
today that I make poor financial decisions I believe she said this
because this week they informed my facility that I work in they would be
closing it was either we go to another bigger facility with no pay increase or
get laid off they gave us a two-day notice and with them not being
interested in increasing our pay I involuntary tery resigned I explained to
her that I may need assistance until I start my new job I don't think I will
but I took a huge dip into my emergency savings account a month ago my dog got
sick and we found out he has cancer so the vet bills were Hefty she's even
mocked me saying let's hope your dog doesn't die soon because you don't have
a job to pay for his cremation I have savings but not as much as she wants it
to be I already got an offer for a higher paying job but you know how
background checks can take a while unfortunately most careers with a BA in
psychology don't pay enough to live on my own hence why she says I'm not trying
hard enough as I could be doing any job that pays $30 or more but I don't want
to be miserable doing something I don't like like I get where she's coming from
but I don't want to do that to my life am I in the wrong she's a very
hard-headed lady she immigrated almost 30 years ago so I can see why she has
high expectations for me as I'm her oldest I told her I am trying but she
says I'm not because I still live with her I am frustrated and upset because
it's all been a lot this week and I can't explain to this all to her without
bursting into tears I would tell her legitimately how you feel if she's not
going to understand your feelings show any amount of care for how she's making
you feel if you feel like you may be subconsciously trying to seek some kind
of validation or whatnot it might be time to start pulling back a bit if they
hear you out and show some remorse that would be great but at the end of the day
you're just trying to be you do what you
like in life and they're just giving you grief over all of it I don't have a
great gut feeling about her showing any remorse though when you consider the
things she said about op's dog this next story is er visits and Disney trips
don't grow on trees Let's Travel back to the year
1995 the glove didn't fit so the jury acquitted the most obvious murderer in
the history of murder the 49ers took the the Chargers down in the Super Bowl 49
to 26 TLC was dominating the top 40 and America tried to pick up the pieces
after suffering a horrific tragedy in the Oklahoma City bombing in the summer
of 95 I was 4 years old and I was visiting Disney World with my family it
was here in Orlando Florida that another less significant sad story took place
and a young op saw her first glimpse of the truth about her egg and sperm donors
they're a bit freaked up and believe me this story is only Child's Play compared
to what they're capable of inside the Tiny Tunes Market on Main Street USA we
got two coffees for them and a milk for me and we were standing in line for the
checkout when suddenly I changed my mind my dad told me to go exchange the milk
for what I wanted so I made my way back to the beverage fridges I had just about
made it when I heard my mom Screech my name and and scream at me to hurry up
because it was almost our turn at the queue being four I took the advice to
heart and started running back up the snack aisle toward my destination smack
I fell on the slippery floor face first I pushed myself up and felt a slight
pain in my hand fun fact about the 9s most juices OJ especially used to come
in glass bottles instead of the safe less shiny ones seen today when I stood
up there was blood like a lot oh and a Nifty big butt Shard of glass stuck
right through my left hand and I mean big like it extended at least 2 to 3
Ines on either side what did my dad say when he came to my Aid something along
the lines of crap op look what a mess you've made and now we have to buy the
wasted OJ too hm not great but it could be worse he really F the clerk about
paying for the OJ what did did my mom say when she ran to my Aid well first of
all she never ran anywhere she stayed in line demanding that the people behind
her keep waiting for her to make a breakfast sandwich selection second
after buying her coffee and making her way over to me she said dang it op do
you have any idea how much money I spent on these tickets I might as well flush
them down the drain cuz thanks to you we all get to spend the day at the ER
instead yeah that's worse what's even worse still my dad D and grandfather
ended up taking me to and waiting with me at the ER all day while my mom opted
to generously stay at the park and take my cousins on the rides she's super
thoughtful like that again I was only four when this all went down and even
though I actually do remember a lot of it I can't be expected to remember the
fine details thankfully I have my awesome hilarious older cousin C and
eyewitness to help fill in the gaps of the story we hope you enjoyed yeah I
think a nightmare scenario is telling a 4-year-old in any kind of public facing
situation hurry come on get over here I feel like you're almost guaranteeing
like a 50/50% chance that that kid is going to take a tumble this is also the
kind of memory where like you're laying in bed and you just have a random
flashback and you just think about how callous your mom was about the whole
thing nothing like a little reflecting on a childhood memory to bring up the
stress levels when you're trying to shut
your eyes our next story is why can't my parents do the basics I'm a 14-year-old
girl and I've been going through a lot in my life but today my anger is getting
worse my mother 50 years old woman and my stepfather 47 years old man have been
complaining to me about everything I have a twin sister who she acts like a
young Karen I would say she's the kind of person that if you complain about her
in front of her she'll play the victim and she also doesn't give anyone the
slightest bit of privacy I was quiet in my room talking to my half brother my
sister comes in and I rudely weigh her out because it's not the first time
she's done this and I was in a serious matter between me and my half brother we
were venting to each other suddenly I get a notification from my mom saying
Why can't your sister join the conversation I tell her to be quiet stop
excluding your sister I took a deep breath and replied that the problem
wasn't that she didn't talk but that she listened so my sister left the room
after I insisted so much it doesn't even
pass 5 minutes she comes back to my room doing the same thing and complaining
only now she starts sending stupid things on my WhatsApp and I ask her to
stop but she doesn't stop I get angry again and ask her to leave but she
starts correcting my speech and doesn't leave so I curse her and push her out of
the room suddenly I hear a small repeated knock on my door at this moment
I need to let you know that I am autistic Level One support I have a high
hearing sensitivity and sometimes some repetitive sounds bother me such as
knocks on the door chalk on the board noises of pens with brush tips passing
on the paper some more I open the door it's my sister mini Karen banging on
wood who holds the door with a sad face I get ticked off and go to my mom to
complain so it happens this mom says I'm going to talk to your sister I say okay
come into her room me my sister's Karen my mother and my stepfather I'll name
him ruie for how long ruie says every day I can't take it anymore my mother is
already in the hospital almost dying I'm already tired you don't have sympathy
with us don't you mom says every weekend you guys are fighting we're in trouble
enough y'all are just getting worse Ruby
added next tantrum I'm going to sleep in the freaking hospital with my mom
because at least there I have peace I haven't slept in 3 days
they lecture upon sermon especially on me the conversation ends I go to my room
and I just want to punch everything my sister's face or something else every
day they complain that I talk badly about my sister and I don't trust them
and I don't tell them anything but because I wouldn't tell things to
someone who ruined all my trust in her thinks I don't deserve privacy always
complains about me when my sister does something wrong and I get the blame in
the situation for complaining about her they complain about my own sister to me
all the time but I can't complain about her then it gets difficult some advice I
saw that is really good for this situation I feel is the idea that you
prove that you're not doing the things they say you're doing so when things get
loud or there might be some slight arguing going on what op should do just
go silent relocate to somewhere nearer to their parents ideally where they
might be able to see op and you just keep doing your stuff silently and let
them physically see and try to call you out for being noisy when you're
literally not doing anything in general though if the sister's wanting to throw
a fit and be loud it probably would be for the best that you kind of learn to
Gray Rock them where you just don't respond you just go blink you kind of
sit there silently expressionless let them go off don't give them any fuel and
just let them keep on going our next story is entitled mom and kid make us go
from first place to last so this is from a long time ago when I was in second
grade but it's probably the most Vivid memories I have from that age background
I went to a very small private school that didn't even have real teachers let
alone no staff for extracurriculars my second grade class had more kids than
any other grade while I went to the school we had almost 15 kids in the
grade which meant that was enough for an
extracurricular we made a DI group di is
destination IM in ination it's a program that has a gathering for schools to
compete in challenges testing things like creativity and working together
entitled kids mother entitled mother volunteered to teach our Destination
Imagination class her concept of teaching was my kid is perfect everyone
pay attention to her di was meant to be student run so it was meant to be more
of a supervisory position entitled kid constantly told us she was in charge of
the group because her mom was The Chaperone so for that year's competition
we had to create and perform a skit if it hadn't been for entitled kid being
out sick for a couple days we wouldn't have been able to do it she needed all
the attention all the time and constant praise thankfully we wrote everything
while she was gone and we were able to communicate as a group when she came
back she demanded she be the star her mother reassigned the person cast for
the main role and gave it to entitled kid but then she thought this other role
was more fun she didn't want to switch she wanted to play both roles we finally
convinced her she couldn't play simultaneous roles as it's not humanly
possible so she just chooses which one she wanted and switched for the other
one and not only did she demand who she played she wanted to tell everyone else
who we were playing again we already cast The Skit entitled mother tried to
convince us to change the roles we already had and were happy with with and
had practiced we just ignored entitled mother at that point we go to the
competition excited as could be even entitled kid's constant demand for
attention wasn't getting to us we watched some of the other skits waiting
for ours entitled kid liked some of the other skits and tried to change Ours by
adding lines from the others we told her it was too late to make changes and the
judges watched the same skits we did they would know we just took lines from
what they already saw she was was mad but we performed well in fact we found
out we were in first place we were the youngest group there and everyone was
excited there was only the second competition left and it wasn't worth as
many points we thought for sure we would
do well in the end because it was almost impossible to fail after doing so well
in the main competition unlike the skit we didn't know what the Second Challenge
was until we got into the room entitled Mother wasn't there as it was only the
group being tested and the judges in the room we walked in and there was a large
solid stationary ball on the floor surrounded by things like rubber bands a
pencil a paperclip toothpicks some string Etc we were told we had 5 minutes
to build a structure on top of the ball the goal was to make it as high as
possible so knowing working together was one of the things the overall
competition was about we knew it wasn't about how high we built it was about how
well we worked together I don't think they were trying trying to be obvious
about that but it was pretty clear in true entitled kid fashion she
immediately told us she was in charge we explained no one was in charge and this
was about us cooperating we don't have any leader we're working as a group
entitled kid was not okay with that she threw a tantrum and yelled until we said
fine we tried doing what we normally did
let her think she was in charge and just work together without her but entitled
kid wouldn't let anyone else else touch any of the objects she was the only one
who could touch them people tried giving
her ideas of how to use them most of the ideas she either didn't understand or
was unable to balance herself so she deemed them stupid she actually insulted
everyone who had an idea we reminded her
we were being judged on working together so she's really hurting our score by
acting like this she kept getting more aggravated because time was running out
and we had built nothing the shocked judges told us time was up we had built
exactly nothing which we could have still done well with if we'd actually
worked together and communicated well we tried explaining that to entitled kid
but she ran to her mom her face red with anger and yelled that we failed because
everyone else was mean to me and wouldn't listen even though I'm in
charge we pointed out that no she wasn't this whole thing is about working as
equals in a student-led group entitled kid immediately said since her mom was
the chaperon that meant she was in charge entitled mother agreed and told
us we were awful for challenging entitled kid's rule during the
competition she just kept reassuring entitled kid she was perfect and in
charge of the world and everyone else is to blame and that we ruined her chances
of winning entitled mother reminded us that if not for entitled kid we wouldn't
have a skit we had it in spite of her and that if we were better listeners
entitled kid would have led us to Greatness none of us were shocked when
we didn't do well we found out at the end that while we had done the best in
the skit round we had bombed the second round so badly it took us out of the
running entirely at the end we were explicitly told the second competition
wasn't actually testing how high the tower was but how well the groups work
together that's why some of the top scoring groups hadn't built the highest
Towers in response entitled kid told us that we would have built the highest to
if we'd listened to her we tried and that we would have won the whole thing
if we let her do it all we pointed out they had just said it wasn't about the
tower but about us working together as equals entitled mother disagreed she
believed the judges would have changed the entire meaning of the organization
and their mission statement had they seen the perfect Tower her daughter
would have created had we idiots not got
in her way the rest of the year entitled
kid kept telling everyone how she did so well in spite of us and how we failed
and how she would have won without us when our teacher talked to us about
doing this again next year we asked who would be the adult in charge our
confused teacher said it would be entitled mother again unless someone
else's parent volunteered we knew that wouldn't happen and that entitled kid
would for sure join if entitled mother was in charge as much as we liked it as
good as we were at it it wasn't worth it if those tyrants were involved I almost
can't blame entitled kid for being so awful when she was raised like this
what's crazier she had a little sister who entitled mother did not treat like
this entitled kid had a sleepover party with all the girls in our grade and when
we got there we found out it was her sister's birthday her sister wasn't
allowed to have a party because it would be too many kids entitled kid got gifts
for her sister's birthday but that wasn't good enough she was mad her
little sister got anything at all she demanded her sister give her all her
birthday gifts when she didn't entitled kid destroyed all of them entitled
mother did nothing after sleeping over at my house once my parents told me I
wasn't allowed to invite her over again last I heard she was completely insane
and faking a pregnancy for attention this is just sad to see because you can
tell that parent literally ruined that kid I mean I feel bad for her she grew
up to be so Mis blinded because of the way she was raised I mean how can you
fault the kid for growing up and having issues when all their life they were
told you're excellent you're doing the world a favor by being around everything
you do is A+ 100% and anybody else is an absolute fool if they think not you're
never going to grow up to be well adjusted like that but with that being
said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another
absolutely crazy entitled parent story check out that video on the left or if
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:04.569 --> :16.019 To get this out of the way: I'm a flatchested
:16.019 --> :17.019 girl. :17.019 --> :21.670
I suffered from health issues and growth problems
so I'm small but I'm proud of myself. :21.670 --> :25.439
My fiance and I went over to his parents house for his niece's birthday.
:25.439 --> :31.539 I wore a sweetheart shape dress and my sil
(Mel) who always comments on my chest, saw :31.539 --> :35.840
the dress and went like "this dress needs boobs, you ain't got any".
:35.840 --> :40.270 I ignored her but then at dinner she asked
if I was planning on getting a plastic surgery :40.270 --> :44.000
before the wedding so that I don't "ruin" the wedding dress.
:44.000 --> :47.609 I found this offensive especially when others
were watching. :47.609 --> :52.090
I said nothing but when we were sitting in
the living room later, Mel suddenly started :52.090 --> :56.520
wiping her nose and trying to clear it (it's stuffed due to cold apparently).
:56.520 --> :00.660 She has a large nose so I smiled and asked
"do you need help with that? :00.660 --> :02.750
I could get the plunger for you.". :02.750 --> :07.020
She was stunned and the room got awkward after her husband was laughing.
:07.020 --> :11.720 She was fuming and told my fiance that I stepped
out of line and ruined her daughter's birthday :11.720 --> :14.180
with my words that humiliated her. :14.180 --> :18.540
My fiance said I shouldn't have caused a scene
after his parents told us to leave. :18.540 --> :23.189
I explained how her comments made me feel
but he said she said it was out of concern :23.189 --> :25.840
but my comment was out of hate. :25.840 --> :32.360
Now she's exoecting an apology. :32.360 --> :51.219
Did I go too far here? :51.219 --> :57.250
My husband's boss at the small startup he
works on was throwing a huge party for 2023 :57.250 --> :01.969
celebrating a big contract and funding round
they landed (despite the recession I suppose). :01.969 --> :07.399
He is clearly doing well because he couldn't
wait to show off his newly landscaped yard :07.399 --> :12.920
(with pool and jacuzzi), new Mercedes, and a clear trophy girlfriend.
:12.920 --> :17.950 This trophy girlfriend literally had nothing
to talk about, hardly played host, and just :17.950 --> :22.440
wandered off halfway through the party into
their jacuzzi, and basically stripped down :22.440 --> :24.239
to just her panties. :24.239 --> :30.500
This was like less than 50 ft away from a
party full of people, including 4 kids (around :30.500 --> :33.940
4-7 years) including my 5 year old daughter! :33.940 --> :38.370
I was appalled, waited to see if she would
be out in a few minutes or something but then :38.370 --> :44.120
decided to wander over, and politely tell
her, and I quote: "Hey, this is a lovely party, :44.120 --> :45.900
but there are some kids around. :45.900 --> :47.450
Would you mind putting something on? :47.450 --> :50.019
Or saving it for after the kids bedtime?" :50.019 --> :53.849
She barely acknowledged me, I felt awkward and left.
:53.849 --> :58.760 I guess ten minutes later or so, she wandered
off, talked to his boss, and then the boss :58.760 --> :01.670
comes over to my husband and gives him an earful. :01.670 --> :06.440
Now I'm the terrible person because the boss
apparently told my husband that I was rather :06.440 --> :10.730
impolite with his girlfriend and he hoped
that I'd have a talk when we're invited over :10.730 --> :23.370
again in the future. :23.370 --> :28.370
I (39M) have a son (17 M) who recently got a girlfriend.
:28.370 --> :32.230 His girlfriend is black and a very nice, kind
and beautiful young lady. :32.230 --> :36.730
I have met her and invited her for dinner
and family events plenty of times and she’s :36.730 --> :38.069
a joy to be around. :38.069 --> :42.150
But recently my mother has been staying with
us because she is recovering from a surgery :42.150 --> :47.239
she had and she’s going on 70 years old so she can’t do much on her own.
:47.239 --> :53.760 Long story short my mother is a classic racist
and being a raging narcissist and she is not :53.760 --> :55.569
one to hold back from her opinions. :55.569 --> :01.599
I showed her a photo of my son and his girlfriend
and she went on a 2 hour rant about bloodlines :01.599 --> :06.069
and kept saying they “don’t look right”
and when I said she was coming to dinner she :06.069 --> :11.040
said doesn’t want the girl near her because it’ll “disturb her” so last minute I
:11.040 --> :12.650 told her she could not come.
:12.650 --> :17.549 My son has been trying to invite his girlfriend
over everyday since but I said no multiple :17.549 --> :22.699
times due to his grandmother being here and
her saying she doesn’t want her near her, :22.699 --> :24.770
I just don’t want any problems. :24.770 --> :29.900
But he argues that I am being “a complacent
racist” by even allowing her to be here. :29.900 --> :34.760
And even more so for not allowing her to come over to “protect a racist”.
:34.760 --> :38.840 He says I should of told her to leave the
moment my mother said all that stuff. :38.840 --> :43.830
But my mother is an elderly woman who can hardly make it on her own as it is.
:43.830 --> :45.770 Definitely much harder after surgery.
:45.770 --> :49.759 Though I don’t agree with her I can just
leave her to fend for herself. :49.759 --> :51.949
I literally do not know what to do. :51.949 --> :57.190
My wife says my son is right about me being
complacent but of course she’d agree because :57.190 --> :59.480
her and my mother don’t get along well. :59.480 --> :01.960
I know I am not a danged racist. :01.960 --> :06.180
But now everyone is saying I am aiding one by taking my mothers side.
:06.180 --> :17.990 So AITA? :17.990 --> :35.669
So, I (F27) went to do some grocery shopping
today and I’m still having a hard time processing :35.669 --> :36.919
what just happened. :36.919 --> :39.169 I am childfree, but disabled.
:39.169 --> :41.509 I have a small mobility disability.
:41.509 --> :44.870 I am able to walk, but need a cane to support
myself. :44.870 --> :48.210 I also have regular bad pain from too much
walking. :48.210 --> :51.020 I do have a disability sign for my car.
:51.020 --> :55.319 So when I went shopping today, all the disabled
parkings were taken. :55.319 --> :58.330
As always, mostly by people without plates. :58.330 --> :00.150
Sigh, ok. :00.150 --> :05.491
I decided to use one of those “family parking”
spots instead - because I just can’t get :05.491 --> :10.630
out of or into the car a lot of times with
regular sports - especially if people park :10.630 --> :12.840
way too close to the driver’s door. :12.840 --> :18.000
I didn’t feel entirely comfortable, but
I thought a disabled person being in need :18.000 --> :20.139
for this spot should be understandable… :20.139 --> :21.480
I was wrong. :21.480 --> :26.280
When I came back to my car a woman in her
40s (?) bolted at me with her kid (that was :26.280 --> :31.949
maybe like 6y old, not in a pram or anyhow)
and shouted at me “you don’t look like :31.949 --> :33.350
you got children!” :33.350 --> :38.020
I was very confused but promptly figured she was upset about the parking spot.
:38.020 --> :43.010 I apologised and tried to explain myself,
but she kept cutting me off. :43.010 --> :47.360
Apparently she had been to the store manager
demanding my car to be towed because she saw :47.360 --> :52.860
me leaving my car without children, but the
employee denied, which made her even more :52.860 --> :53.860 mad.
:53.860 --> :58.449 She told me she is sick of “people like
me” being entitled to “her” parking :58.449 --> :59.449 spot.
:59.449 --> :04.310 So, I’m here looking for honest feedback,
AITA for using a spot for families because :04.310 --> :06.620
the disabled spots were all taken? :06.620 --> :25.680
Should I have waited for one :25.680 --> :39.550 to open up?
:39.550 --> :41.430 My sister got married last summer.
:41.430 --> :45.069 She had a very elegant and beautiful wedding
and reception planned. :45.069 --> :46.450 It was child free.
:46.450 --> :51.569 She sent gracious note to everyone who sent
their regrets and thanked them for understanding :51.569 --> :56.449
her desires for her wedding and respecting them enough to RSVP in the negative.
:56.449 --> :00.580 She also invited them to a party later that
summer at her home if they wanted to take :00.580 --> :04.610
pictures with her and her wedding party in their fancy clothes.
:04.610 --> :06.990 I thought it was well handled and classy.
:06.990 --> :13.259 Several people did not understand the meaning
of "child free" and brought their kids anyways. :13.259 --> :17.980
One screamed through the ceremony and the
mom would not leave the chapel because she :17.980 --> :19.509
did not want to cause a fuss. :19.509 --> :23.880
There were no problem Xtra places for them
at the reception so their parents had to shar :23.880 --> :25.099
their food with them. :25.099 --> :29.740
The worst was the kid that wanted a cupcake
off the table the wedding cake was on. :29.740 --> :33.339
He lost tipped the wedding cake onto the floor. :33.339 --> :38.330
My dad saved it but there was a handprint
on the lowest tier and a lot of cupcakes hit :38.330 --> :39.360
the floor. :39.360 --> :43.080
All in all it was four families that brought uninvited children.
:43.080 --> :45.570 My wedding invitations just went out over
Christmas. :45.570 --> :47.089 We are getting married in May.
:47.089 --> :52.529 I know this is a long time but we have a lot
of out of town, country, and even continent :52.529 --> :54.230
guests we hope will come. :54.230 --> :56.269
We did not invite these families to our wedding. :56.269 --> :00.769
We have a Facebook group for the wedding for
people to share pictures and memories that :00.769 --> :02.570
we might put in the wedding video. :02.570 --> :07.370
They found out about the group and posted
to my personal page about being excluded and :07.370 --> :09.470
asking why we are not inviting them. :09.470 --> :14.010
I messaged them privately and asked them to
take down their posts and explained that my :14.010 --> :18.640
wedding was smaller and I wasn't having as many guests as my sister.
:18.640 --> :23.839 They went public again and benched about me
excluding them for no good reason. :23.839 --> :25.420
So I post d the receipts. :25.420 --> :30.480
I posted a video my cousin sent me of the
kid crying during the ceremony and the parents :30.480 --> :31.740
doing nothing. :31.740 --> :36.550
The video of the kid freaking out because he had to share trout for supper.
:36.550 --> :39.860 The before and after pictures of the wedding
cake table. :39.860 --> :44.320
And I also asked of they knew in advance that
they were not supposed to bring their kids :44.320 --> :45.320
to the wedding. :45.320 --> :47.649 Then everyone started piling on.
:47.649 --> :48.649 To them. :48.649 --> :51.200
I guess there was a lot of stuff I missed. :51.200 --> :55.570
Including one of them changing a kid on the
table with the guest book because the closest :55.570 --> :58.279
bathroom did not have a baby station. :58.279 --> :02.620
Now they are all calling me an jerk for embarrassing
them for having children and wanting to be :02.620 --> :04.480
part of family events. :04.480 --> :09.540
I said that they could not understand why
rules were in place and that is why they were :09.540 --> :10.540
not invited. :10.540 --> :14.140
My uncle posted about how embarrassed he was
that his daughter was one of these entitled :14.140 --> :17.600
jerks and offered to pay my sister for the cake that got wrecked.
:17.600 --> :21.149 He had been unable to attend and hadn't heard
about the cake. :21.149 --> :33.649 So AITA?
:33.649 --> :39.089 I (32M) have not a good relationship with
my dad (59M) the reason being the pressure :39.089 --> :40.300
he put me on. :40.300 --> :46.760
If i had anything less than a 90/100 he would
be disapointed at me and tell me i was a failure :46.760 --> :49.459
and i would never be anyone in life. :49.459 --> :54.220
I still remember he and my mom (59F) fighting,
she always defended me saying i was doing :54.220 --> :58.139
my best but he would always scream that my best wasn't enough.
:58.139 --> :03.240 When i was 12 i got 83/100 in a math test
and i freaked out. :03.240 --> :08.709
I remember coming home crying thankfully my
dad was at work and i begged my mom to not :08.709 --> :09.709
tell my dad. :09.709 --> :14.470
I guess seeing a 12 year old boy freaking
out for a grade that even teacher tough was :14.470 --> :18.540
great was enough and my mom divorced my dad. :18.540 --> :22.360
I belive that was the moment he understood he screwed up and tried to apologize.
:22.360 --> :27.140
My mom always wanted me to have a good relationship
with my dad and i would stay with him one :27.140 --> :28.269
week end a month. :28.269 --> :34.950
At 16 he had my brother with my stepmom and
i had to see the same man who call me a failure :34.950 --> :37.339
be the best dad to my brother. :37.339 --> :43.089
At 18 i cut my dad and his family off with
the exception of my grandparents and my uncle. :43.089 --> :49.279
1 year ago my grandfather passed away and
at his funeral i saw my dad and his family, :49.279 --> :53.230
my dad briefly looked at me and then turned his head down in shame.
:53.230 --> :57.940 My uncle came up to me, he said he understood
if i did not want to talk to my dad but asker :57.940 --> :59.570
if i would talk with my brother. :59.570 --> :04.910
I said yes and i met with him outside, we
had a great conversation and in the last year :04.910 --> :08.470
he has met my wife and children and we have a good relationship.
:08.470 --> :12.279 A few days ago, my brother asked why i don't
talk to our dad. :12.279 --> :14.430
I told him what i wrote here and more. :14.430 --> :19.269
In the end i told him our dad wasn't good
to me but that did not mean he should stop :19.269 --> :20.649
talk to him. :20.649 --> :25.550
Yesterday my uncle called me and said my brother
and my father fought because of what i shared :25.550 --> :36.029
with my brother. :36.029 --> :50.310
As a new years resolution, my friends and
I agreed to do more fun cardio during the. :50.310 --> :56.970
Our area is pretty built up, so we go down
to the local community oval play 3v3 soccer. :56.970 --> :02.149
We swapped from Wednesday afternoons to Thursday
last week and this was the first time we ran :02.149 --> :03.350
into the issue: :03.350 --> :08.450
We're running about as normal until a dozen
or so kids and a few adults pile out of a :08.450 --> :10.400
local private school bus. :10.400 --> :14.079
The ovals big so we make sure we're only using a little corner.
:14.079 --> :18.050 One of the coaches comes up to us and says
"I'll get you guys to finish up. :18.050 --> :20.750
We're just about to start our practice session." :20.750 --> :25.170
We ask if we can just use a corner but he insists they need the whole oval.
:25.170 --> :31.550 We're a bit confused but clear out none the
less, maybe they can book the oval? :31.550 --> :34.860
Instead of going straight home I duck to the shops for a drink.
:34.860 --> :40.300 Walking back past I'm annoyed to see them
just doing ball drills and sprints and stuff :40.300 --> :43.940
that could easily be done in a quarter of the oval.
:43.940 --> :49.180 I do some research and confirm there is no
way to book the ovals, they are shared community :49.180 --> :50.390
resources. :50.390 --> :56.300
Every day I drive past the private school
and they have 3 immaculately kept ovals privately :56.300 --> :57.389
fenced in. :57.389 --> :02.660
I keep thinking back to my public school that
didn't even have an oval and for sports festivals :02.660 --> :07.930
we needed to walk over to the public fields
and we would share with whoever was there. :07.930 --> :13.089
Thursday comes around as I drive home I make
note of the 3 completely empty fields at the :13.089 --> :19.089
school (two NRL and a Cricket field) before I join my friends at the oval.
:19.089 --> :23.019 We get about 20 minutes into our game before
the bus rocks up again. :23.019 --> :28.259
As last time, the coach wanders over and tells
us to pack it up so they can start practice. :28.259 --> :32.560
I ask them, since they are just doing drills,
if we can share and that we will stay out :32.560 --> :33.560
of their way. :33.560 --> :35.339 "Sorry guys no can do."
:35.339 --> :37.600 I ask why they don't use one of the schools ovals
:37.600 --> :42.800 "Those are NRL and Cricket ovals, we're an
AFL team” :42.800 --> :45.880
I point out this is a public oval for everyone. :45.880 --> :50.959
At this point the coaches all come over and
start asking why we're being so difficult :50.959 --> :52.300
and uncooperative. :52.300 --> :56.709
They start saying we're being jerks and getting
in the way of kids enjoying sports. :56.709 --> :01.911
at this point I put my foot down, saying we're
going to stay, we were here first, and they're :01.911 --> :03.970
welcome to share with us. :03.970 --> :09.420
They get to practice and there is more than
enough space for us to coexist, but about :09.420 --> :14.670
20 minutes later a cop car parks up next to
the oval and two cops walk over to us. :14.670 --> :18.370
They ask what we we’re doing and we explain its 3v3 soccer.
:18.370 --> :23.610 They ask us to be mindful to share the oval
before going over to talk with the coaches. :23.610 --> :28.130
As they are leaving I ask them what its all
about and they tell me they had a call from :28.130 --> :32.920
"someone" that we were disrupting the sports
team, but as long as we aren't getting in :32.920 --> :35.220
their way, they can’t see anything wrong. :35.220 --> :39.050
So we're pretty sure they called the cops on us because we wouldn't leave...
:39.050 --> :44.509 I think its complete crap that a private school
can come in and just annex public facilities, :44.509 --> :55.910
but the coaches looks made me feel like I was being
:55.910 --> :00.199 a dick. :00.199 --> :07.990
My (24F) birthday was this past weekend and
I am still getting crap from some family over :07.990 --> :10.529
this and want to get some outside opinions. :10.529 --> :15.490
MIL do not have the greatest relationship, but tolerate each other.
:15.490 --> :20.509 My husband and I don't have a very conventional
marriage as he works from home and I took :20.509 --> :25.000
over my families business a few years ago and work full time there 8-5.
:25.000 --> :31.310 Due to this he takes over most of the household
chores such as cooking, cleaning etc since :31.310 --> :32.399
he's home more. :32.399 --> :38.320
My MIL is very old school and does not think
this it right, due to this she's became very :38.320 --> :40.930
cold to me over the past few years. :40.930 --> :45.800
So my birthday was this past weekend and on
Sunday my husband planned a family dinner :45.800 --> :47.600
to celebrate at our house. :47.600 --> :53.420
My mom and grandma insisted on bringing/cooking
all my favorite foods for the dinner. :53.420 --> :58.569
My MIL caught wind of this and I guess wanted
to pitch in and help to so she offered to :58.569 --> :59.870
get the birthday cake. :59.870 --> :04.589
She asked my husband what kind I like and
he told her anything chocolate or tiramisu. :04.589 --> :10.380
He also told her that I hate fruity cakes (lemon, raspberry etc).
:10.380 --> :16.000 Evening of my birthday rolls around and everything
is going smoothly until it's time for cake. :16.000 --> :21.880
My MIL and my mom both went into the kitchen,
MIL was unboxing the cake and my mom was grabbing :21.880 --> :23.419
plates and utensils. :23.419 --> :28.160
Apperently my mom took a glance at the cake and asked if this cake was for me?
:28.160 --> :31.480 My MIL was like yes obviously.
:31.480 --> :37.240 My mom was like "oh no, I guess no one informed
you that *my name* doesn't like fruity cakes, :37.240 --> :40.410
her favorites are anything chocolate and tiramisu."
:40.410 --> :44.020 My MIL was like "no they informed me of her
preference. :44.020 --> :47.480
I just saw this cake at the store and thought it looked lovely.
:47.480 --> :50.790 Plus it would be nice for *my name* to try
something different". :50.790 --> :55.480
My mom left left the kitchen because she didn't
want to make a scene on my birthday. :55.480 --> :01.179
MIL brought the cake out and my husband immediately
confronted her when he saw it and was like :01.179 --> :05.809
"mom is this cake for *my name*?" she was
like "yes I thought it would be nice for us :05.809 --> :07.770
to try something different". :07.770 --> :12.370
Anyway i'm an adult and it's just a cake,
I wasn't about to make some huge scene about :12.370 --> :19.020
a cake so the cake was cut and MIL offered
me a slice and I just politely declined and :19.020 --> :24.360
ate some of the other desserts at the table
(fruit, chocolate covered strawberries etc). :24.360 --> :29.900
She immediately got offended and said she
finds it extremely insulting that I am not :29.900 --> :35.000
eating any of the cake that she specifically bought for me on my birthday.
:35.000 --> :40.190 I just simply told her "well I appreciate
you getting the cake, but my husband and I :40.190 --> :44.150
made it clear that I do not like fruity cakes and you knew this".
:44.150 --> :50.260 She said I was being extremely disrespectful
and selfish and stormed out with my FIL. :50.260 --> :55.630
She's been contacting both my husband and
I saying how I need to apologize for my behavior. :55.630 --> :00.929
We've also been getting crap from my SIL's
and I kind of feel bad now for not just eating :00.929 --> :08.560
the cake. :08.560 --> :15.990 AITA? :15.990 --> :21.750
I (22m) am a lead teacher in a 3K classroom (3 year olds).
:21.750 --> :25.720 I have two assistant teachers in the classroom,
both middle aged women. :25.720 --> :30.640
I do a lot of running around and activities
with the children, so the center has literally :30.640 --> :33.250
told me to wear athletic clothing to work. :33.250 --> :34.490
I am fine with that. :34.490 --> :38.909
I typically wear a t-shirt and either athletic shorts or joggers.
:38.909 --> :45.150 Now I’m a tall guy (think 6’6”) so obviously
I have to bend down a lot if I’m working :45.150 --> :47.240
with 3 year olds. :47.240 --> :52.390
Apparently sometimes when I bend down the
top of my underwear shows over my shorts and :52.390 --> :56.850
one of my assistant teachers insists on commenting whey time.
:56.850 --> :02.419 She’ll say stuff like “I see London I
see France” and even comment on the colors. :02.419 --> :05.470
She’ll make comments on it not being professional. :05.470 --> :10.710
I want to clarify that my boss has come in
to watch me teach many times and has not made :10.710 --> :12.320
any comments. :12.320 --> :17.120
Yesterday my boss pulls me over and says the
assistant teacher has made some complaints :17.120 --> :18.640
about my attire. :18.640 --> :24.090
She suggested I wear more “muted” underwear to work if it’s going to be visible.
:24.090 --> :29.730 Not only was it incredibly embarrassing to
have to hear my boss talk about my underwear, :29.730 --> :34.830
but doing so would require me to literally go out and buy all new underwear.
:34.830 --> :39.000 All my current underwear are pretty bright
colors except for one pair of white briefs :39.000 --> :42.289
that I’m not even sure still fit me to be honest. :42.289 --> :47.490
I want to be clear that the issue is not that
my underwear shows maybe once or twice a day :47.490 --> :52.770
(she even admitted that’s a natural part
of being bent over so much), but the fact :52.770 --> :55.350
that apparently it’s “attention grabbing.” :55.350 --> :00.410
This is incredibly embarrassing and I want
to know if I’m the AH if I simply ignore :00.410 --> :05.919
it, as all my other feedback has been good
and I can’t imagine them firing me over :05.919 --> :33.190 this.
:33.190 --> :36.780 I (f33) had same day surgery.
:36.780 --> :41.270 I was not allowed to drive myself to to from
the hospital and was to have someone with :41.270 --> :43.940
me for 24 hours following surgery. :43.940 --> :48.679
I asked my husband (m33) to take me there and to take care of me.
:48.679 --> :51.539 He agreed, which was a big reason I went ahead it.
:51.539 --> :56.140 My husband runs a busy company and it is difficult
for him to step away. :56.140 --> :01.700
Bit of background: we have 4 children together
under 6 in our blended family, and childcare :01.700 --> :04.029
duties fall mainly to me. :04.029 --> :05.620 I also work full-time.
:05.620 --> :08.309 I just recently gave birth to our son.
:08.309 --> :11.630 My husband begrudgingly takes me to the hospital.
:11.630 --> :15.919 Once I am settled, I said it was fine for
him to leave as long as he was back when I :15.919 --> :17.400
woke up from surgery. :17.400 --> :21.840
I called him an hour or so later to let him
know I was going back and they would call :21.840 --> :25.659
him when I was going into recovery, before they brought me back to the room.
:25.659 --> :30.169 I get out of recovery and was obviously very
loopy from anesthesia. :30.169 --> :33.090
My husband wasn’t there but the nanny was. :33.090 --> :38.940
I had to stay longer than I expected because
I had some small complications afterwards. :38.940 --> :43.279
My husband finally got there as I was getting
dressed and being put in the wheelchair to :43.279 --> :44.279 leave.
:44.279 --> :48.270 He was annoyed with me for calling and texting
asking where he was. :48.270 --> :50.290 He takes me home in silence.
:50.290 --> :55.830 When we get back, I finally eat some chicken
soup and the nanny suggests she take the kids :55.830 --> :57.919
so I can nap for a few hours. :57.919 --> :00.730
I agree and ask my husband not to go far. :00.730 --> :06.330
I woke up shortly after they leave with vomiting
and needed my medicine, which is in my husband’s :06.330 --> :08.539
vehicle and he’s not here. :08.539 --> :11.710
I call him and it goes straight to voicemail repeatedly.
:11.710 --> :16.490 I finally get ahold of him and he is working
in the next county over, explaining he’s :16.490 --> :18.530
going to finish up and then head home. :18.530 --> :22.710
It’s a 30 minute drive and then he continues to work for a while.
:22.710 --> :26.570 When he gets home, I’m crying and he’s
very upset with me. :26.570 --> :31.600
We argue but then the nanny brings home the
baby about 5 minutes after he gets there. :31.600 --> :37.789
He explained he rearranged his whole day because
of my surgery and I’m very ungrateful. :37.789 --> :42.720
I explain that I’m not even supposed to
be alone and he left to go to a county over :42.720 --> :44.779
and took my medicine with him. :44.779 --> :49.679
I stay up most of the night caring for the
baby alone and he left early this morning, :49.679 --> :54.510
saying not to call him if I need anything because I don’t appreciate it anyways.
:54.510 --> :02.600 AITA for being upset?
:02.600 --> :17.419 A little back story so it'll help you understand
my situation better, I 15f have ibs and because :17.419 --> :19.550
of this I'm slightly underweight. :19.550 --> :26.430
for instance, I'm 5'2 and 100 pounds. anyways
my friend let's call Amy, has some weird obsession :26.430 --> :27.860
with my condition. :27.860 --> :32.529
like she'll make weird comments about how
I'm "too skinny" and how I need to eat better :32.529 --> :36.020
if I ever want to gain weight and basically get healthy.
:36.020 --> :42.710 it really annoys me sometimes because she's
literally overweight herself and has absolutely :42.710 --> :44.190
no room to talk. :44.190 --> :48.350
so, I normally just ignore whatever bullcrap comes out of her mouth.
:48.350 --> :49.700 for my sanity. :49.700 --> :53.740
so fast forward to around lunch my friend
group and I went to McDonalds, because are :53.740 --> :56.260
school food is absolute crap. :56.260 --> :02.040
anyways I go to order and Amy decides to ask
me if I'm really gonna eat that with my condition, :02.040 --> :07.121
in the absolute snarkiest tone. that's when
I lose it, and ask her "where to do have any :07.121 --> :13.420
room to say that, while you've just ordered
two double quarter pounders a 20pc and a mcflurry?"
:13.420 --> :19.280 she literally goes absolutely feral after
I said that and told me I was eating myself :19.280 --> :25.240
to death and she just wants to help, and how I had no right food shaming her.
:25.240 --> :30.309 that's when I say that she was literally food
shaming me, because I have a medical condition :30.309 --> :34.750
that's none of her freaking business and she had no right commenting on.
:34.750 --> :39.530 we argued for a while after that, and she
eventually left the McDonalds. :39.530 --> :44.350
that's when half of my friend group left with
her and told me I went too far, and she was :44.350 --> :46.510
generally trying to help. :46.510 --> :51.200
while the other half was on my side saying
how Amy was definitely in the wrong and how :51.200 --> :53.950
she had no right to chime in like she did. :53.950 --> :58.130
I honestly kinda feel bad but I don't at the same time.
:58.130 --> :59.940 so I came to reddit to get yalls opinions.
:59.940 --> :00.940 so AITA? :00.940 --> :01.940
Recently my younger brother (13M) had come
out to my parents about his mental health. :01.940 --> :02.940
I (16F) have known about this for a while
since I am the person who listens to his problems. :02.940 --> :03.940
I have serious mental health problems, which
I don’t like people knowing about therefore :03.940 --> :04.940
I keep it to myself. :04.940 --> :05.940
During the talk my brother had with my parents,
they couldn’t understand how to comfort :05.940 --> :06.940
him therefore they called me down and asked for my opinion.
:06.940 --> :07.940 My opinion was to get him a therapist.
:07.940 --> :08.940 They got mad at me for that idea and sent
my brother upstairs. :08.940 --> :09.940
As we were alone they started yelling at me
saying I shouldn’t have said such a thing, :09.940 --> :10.940
and as a family, we should be each other's backbone.
:10.940 --> :11.940 I told them that I think my brother needs
someone he can talk to knowing he won’t :11.940 --> :12.940
be judged and can get professional help. :12.940 --> :13.940
My mom yelled at me saying he could talk to me and trust me not to judge him.
:13.940 --> :14.940 That’s when I snapped and told her I wasn’t
a therapist and won’t ever be my brother's :14.940 --> :15.940
therapist. :15.940 --> :16.940
There was some more yelling until I stormed off to my room.
:16.940 --> :17.940 I’m feeling like TA because of how I handled
the situation and my brother (17M) called :17.940 --> :18.940
me one because of the way I reacted. :18.940 --> :19.940 So AITA?
:19.940 --> :20.940 My ex-wife (Emma) and my wife (Lara) were
pregnant around the same time. :20.940 --> :21.940
Lara was about 10 weeks ahead of Emma. :21.940 --> :22.940
In November, Lara gave birth to our son a few days after his due date.
:22.940 --> :25.600 Three days after he and Lara came home, I
received a panicked call from my SIL asking :25.600 --> :31.770
if I could take my daughters (9F twins) as
Emma had been taken to hospital the night :31.770 --> :34.240
before and was being taken for a c-section. :34.240 --> :39.429
SIL and my brother had taken the girls in
overnight but weren’t able to take them :39.429 --> :43.970
for long due to lack of space as they have 4 children themselves.
:43.970 --> :49.919 SIL said that Emma was looking at a minimum
of 5 days in hospital and then the baby would :49.919 --> :54.610
need to stay in hospital for a while – the baby came home just before Christmas.
:54.610 --> :59.549 I told my SIL that we couldn’t take the
girls because we had just had our son and :59.549 --> :03.570
we were wanting to spend the time just bonding as a family of three.
:03.570 --> :09.299 SIL angrily told me that having my new son
didn’t cancel out the fact I already had :09.299 --> :10.510
two daughters. :10.510 --> :14.720
I apologised and told her that I couldn’t
take them in right now but I would send her :14.720 --> :17.429
some money to help out while they have the girls. :17.429 --> :22.360
If we hadn’t just brought him home, I would
have taken the girls in but Lara and I had :22.360 --> :27.890
already decided that we didn’t want any
guests for the first few weeks and I had told :27.890 --> :28.890
Emma this. :28.890 --> :33.670
While Emma was in the hospital, the girls
stayed with SIL and my brother another night :33.670 --> :37.120
before they went to stay with Emma’s husband’s parents.
:37.120 --> :41.400 While the baby was in hospital, because Emma
and her husband were spending most of their :41.400 --> :48.369
time at the hospital, they were cared for
a lot by Emma’s in laws or my SIL and brother. :48.369 --> :52.740
After a week or so, Lara and I offered to
take the girls but they told us they didn’t :52.740 --> :55.640
want to stay because we were more focused on our son.
:55.640 --> :00.039 It did feel like they were just parroting
what they had heard from the adults around :00.039 --> :01.039 them.
:01.039 --> :05.250 Though admittedly with the sleepless nights
I did forget some things such as the video :05.250 --> :07.130
call with the girls. :07.130 --> :12.390
After the baby came home and everything settled
down with Emma, she sent me a long email in :12.390 --> :17.500
the middle of the night explaining that she
was disappointed in my actions and thought :17.500 --> :22.390
that I would see this is a medical emergency
and I wouldn’t need to be asked to take :22.390 --> :23.390 them in.
:23.390 --> :28.860 I told her that we had just had son and I
had to think about his needs as well, especially :28.860 --> :32.210
when there was plenty of people around them to care for them.
:32.210 --> :37.180 Emma’s told me that any communication is
to now go through the lawyer because she’s :37.180 --> :41.620
fed up of dealing with me and is going to
take me to court to get full custody instead :41.620 --> :43.110
of 50/50. :43.110 --> :48.179
I didn’t think it was unreasonable to not
take them in given we had just had a baby. :48.179 --> :52.890
Lara wants me to fix it as we can’t afford
my child maintenance more than doubling if :52.890 --> :54.410
Emma gets full custody. :54.410 --> :08.730 AITA for not taking my
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Throughout my entire life, I’ve been in a lot
of relationships. I’m the kind of person who
:15.480 --> :20.240
believes that there’s a lot of love out there, and
I would be doing myself a disservice if I didn’t
:20.240 --> :25.560
let myself experience it. Till today, I still
don’t know if this is the right mindset or not,
:25.560 --> :30.720
because as quick as I am to enter a relationship,
that is just how quick I am at getting out of one
:30.720 --> :35.680 the minute I stop feeling as I used to. Now,
for the most part, my breakups are usually
:35.680 --> :42.400
clean and mature, but sometimes it gets messy,
probably a clingy or emotionally immature ex,
:42.400 --> :47.000
who wouldn’t accept the fact that I have moved on
from the relationship. I don’t have a lot of them,
:47.000 --> :51.320 but the few ones I have are usually
crazy. This story is about one of the :51.320 --> :56.840
craziest of them all. Let’s call him Mark.
I met Mark during my final year of college.
:56.840 --> :00.960 It was my final semester and I was under a
lot of pressure. My grades had been good,
:00.960 --> :06.480
and overall, I was an above-average student, but
for some reason, I got really scared and anxious
:06.480 --> :12.320
in my final year. I guess I can call it imposter
syndrome because none of the members of my family
:12.320 --> :17.680
ever got to finish college. Not my mom or dad.
My older brother got to sophomore year and then
:17.680 --> :23.200
dropped out. My other brother, (my immediate older
brother), didn’t even try to get into college.
:23.200 --> :28.320
Even though they were all doing well in their
chosen paths, I made it a point to finish college.
:28.320 --> :34.640
Anyway, I had just got back from the library after
a six-hour study marathon, and I wanted my bed so
:34.640 --> :40.200
badly. I had even forgotten that that day was my
birthday. As soon as I got home, I tossed my bag
:40.200 --> :45.360
somewhere and my shoes somewhere else. Then I
went to bed. Less than thirty minutes later,
:45.360 --> :50.640
I received a phone call. I usually put my phone on
Do Not Disturb whenever I want to sleep, but I was
:50.640 --> :56.040
so tired that night that I forgot. I looked at the
caller ID, and it was my best friend, Susan. She
:56.040 --> :00.440
told me I had to come over to her place and that
she had just cut her hand with a knife and she was
:00.440 --> :05.520
bleeding out and she thought she was going to die.
In hindsight, I should have known that Susan had a
:05.520 --> :11.240 flair for the dramatic. But then again, even
if I thought she was joking or overreacting,
:11.240 --> :16.200
I couldn’t risk it, on the off chance that she was
telling the truth. I dragged myself out of bed and
:16.200 --> :21.360
hurried out of my apartment. I drove down to her
apartment building. (it was a walkable distance,
:21.360 --> :26.280 ten minutes tops, but I had to get there as
soon as possible, in case if she wasn’t joking.
:26.280 --> :30.920
I got to her apartment building in good time and
hurried up the flight of stairs to her apartment.
:30.920 --> :36.600
The door was slightly open, which was unusual.
At that moment, my thoughts ran wild. What if
:36.600 --> :42.720
she was actually terribly injured? I ran into the
apartment, only to receive the shock of my life.
:42.720 --> :44.840 Surprise! There I was,
:44.840 --> :50.000
standing with my heart in my throat, in front of
my closest friends, colleagues from school, and
:50.000 --> :56.320
a bunch of strangers I’d never met in my entire
life. It was a surprise party, and Susan fooled
:56.320 --> :01.040
me into thinking she had an accident to get me to
come. I remember when she was planning to throw
:01.040 --> :07.360
me a party, I specifically told her I was going to
be studying for school, so I didn’t want a party,
:07.360 --> :12.120
but somehow, that got lost in translation, and
what she thought I meant was that I wanted a
:12.120 --> :18.080
surprise party. But seriously, it was difficult
to get mad at Susan. I understood that she cared
:18.080 --> :23.480
for me, and that was why she was always so extra.
I decided to go with it, but with the promise that
:23.480 --> :29.120
I’d leave in one hour. She said sure and got me a
drink. I had another marathon study the next day,
:29.120 --> :34.160
so I wasn’t drinking. I stayed in the apartment
with Susan for a few minutes, but the moment she
:34.160 --> :39.680
turned away to attend to another friend, I slipped
away. The loud music and noise were starting to
:39.680 --> :44.280
get to me, and if I hadn’t left the apartment,
I would surely have gotten a headache. (I mean,
:44.280 --> :48.480 I still got a headache the next day, but it
could have been worse). I the apartment and
:48.480 --> :53.320
took a seat by the stairs. It was going to take
a while before Susan noticed that I had left,
:53.320 --> :58.440
but she’d find out eventually. I spent the time
scrolling through Twitter and Pinterest. I was
:58.440 --> :03.360 so deep into it that I didn’t notice someone
walking up behind me. It was when I heard the
:03.360 --> :09.360
bark of a dog that I turned around, and there
he stood. Tall, and handsome with a contagious
:09.360 --> :14.640
smirk. He was holding a small golden retriever
pup. I rose from the steps to let him pass and
:14.640 --> :19.720
he made his way downward after saying thank you.
A few moments later, I had gone back to Twitter
:19.720 --> :25.080
when he returned. He still had the same smile
on his lips, but the pup in his arms was gone.
:25.080 --> :29.720
“Where’s the cute pup?” was the first thing I said
to him. He explained that the dog wasn’t his, and
:29.720 --> :34.920
he was just sitting it for someone. I introduced
myself to him and so did he. We talked for close
:34.920 --> :40.080
to thirty minutes, and soon enough, I could hear
Susan out in the hallway, yelling my name. I had
:40.080 --> :45.000
to leave. I forgot to collect his number before
returning to the party. I only remembered the
:45.000 --> :50.160
next day, when I was thinking about the party. I
was so pissed off but there was nothing I could
:50.160 --> :55.760 do. He’s gone, and I might never see him again.
Or at least that was what I thought. Susan invited
:55.760 --> :00.080 me to her apartment less than a week later.
She wanted to bake a cake for her boyfriend’s
:00.080 --> :04.120
birthday, but she didn’t know the first thing
about baking a cake. (I didn’t know why she
:04.120 --> :09.600
wouldn’t just buy a cake like everyone else, but
I had to help her do basically everything). When I
:09.600 --> :14.960
got there, I found Susan standing in the hallway.
Apparently, she had tried to bake some cupcakes by
:14.960 --> :20.120
herself, but she ended up burning the whole batch
and smoking the entire apartment. We had to stay
:20.120 --> :24.480
outside to wait for the smoke to clear out. We
were talking about something when Mark walked
:24.480 --> :30.840
out of the apartment directly opposite Susan’s.
I was so surprised, because for some reason,
:30.840 --> :35.600
I had thought Mark had come for the party, and
even with the pup he was holding, my mind didn’t
:35.600 --> :41.320
make the association that there was a possibility
that he lived in the same apartment with Susan. We
:41.320 --> :46.920
talked for a moment, and this time, he asked for
my number, which I gave to him immediately. After
:46.920 --> :52.160
that, he said hi to Susan and walked away. I asked
Susan why she didn’t tell me that he lived here,
:52.160 --> :55.880 (even though I didn’t tell her a single
thing about him). She merely shrugged and
:55.880 --> :01.080 told me not to think about it, because Mark
was bad news. I asked her why she thought so,
:01.080 --> :05.680 but all she had to say was that she got
a bad vibe from him. Coming from Susan,
:05.680 --> :10.480
who kept a long line of unhealthy relationships,
and didn’t know when to back out of one, that
:10.480 --> :15.440
comment didn’t mean much to me. That night, Mark
texted me, and even when I had earlier decided
:15.440 --> :19.960
that I was going to go to bed early to sleep off
the fatigue that had resulted from living in the
:19.960 --> :26.280 library, I stayed up till four am, texting Mark.
Mark was a third-year lit Major, and he was two
:26.280 --> :31.800
years younger than me. I should have seen this
as a red flag then, but I didn’t. Even while he
:31.800 --> :37.160
was young, he was funny and very interesting. He
wanted to be a writer and he was very passionate
:37.160 --> :43.280
about books. Our first date took place in the
library. (I mean, I wouldn’t call it a date,
:43.280 --> :49.040 but we hung out, so yeah it was kind of a date).
We continued our routine of midnight texting and
:49.040 --> :54.280
library dates for some time before he asked me
out on a real date. Less than a month later,
:54.280 --> :58.880 we started dating. It was fun for a while
because Mark always wanted to be around to keep
:58.880 --> :04.840
me company. Sometimes, he’d stay in my apartment
for over two weeks. The only problem was that he
:04.840 --> :10.120
was always very active. Even with the fact that
he loved to read novels and stuff, he couldn’t sit
:10.120 --> :16.320
in one place for a long time. He loved loud music
and was always jumping from one task to the other.
:16.320 --> :20.840
It was kind of annoying. The biggest problem was
that he took offense whenever I called out these
:20.840 --> :25.840
behaviors. He didn’t like to be told that he was
doing something wrong. I think he was insecure
:25.840 --> :30.600
about the fact that I was older than him, and
that made it feel like I was trying to correct him
:30.600 --> :36.440
from that standpoint. Whenever he came over to my
place, we fought almost every day, but he’d change
:36.440 --> :42.440
nothing. One day, I was tired of the whole issue,
and I decided to break up with him. He didn’t see
:42.440 --> :48.560
it coming. He begged me to stay, but I said no. In
two months, I was already seeing someone else. I
:48.560 --> :54.080
had that someone over one day when Mark came to
my place without prior notice. He was so pissed
:54.080 --> :00.120
that I was already seeing someone else and we got
into a huge fight. Eventually, he left. I thought
:00.120 --> :05.440
that was the end, till two days later, when exams
started. I had my first paper and was already
:05.440 --> :10.280
running late because I spent the night studying
and overslept. I got to my car, and it wouldn’t
:10.280 --> :16.040
start. That was when I noticed that the tires were
flat. But they weren’t just flat. They were torn
:16.040 --> :21.840
with something sharp, probably a knife. But that
wouldn’t stop the car from starting, so I decided
:21.840 --> :29.360
to check the hood. To my horror, every wire had
been cut off, every plug, pulled out. Even the
:29.360 --> :34.240
engine looked like it had taken a few hits. It
was terrible. Nothing was stolen, so I knew it
:34.240 --> :39.600
wasn’t random. I didn’t have to think hard before
I guessed who had it out for me, and who was just
:39.600 --> :44.400 immature enough to do something like this. I
wanted to report to the police, but they’ll
:44.400 --> :49.760 just make him pay a fine. I wanted more than
that, so I waited. I waited till I was done with
:49.760 --> :55.720 exams and I was free enough to carry out my plan.
The Friday after I finished my exams, I decided
:55.720 --> :01.440
to go to his place. I knew that Mark always went
to visit friends on Friday evening, so I waited
:01.440 --> :06.800
outside his apartment to watch his movements.
As soon as he left, I entered his apartment,
:06.800 --> :12.320
careful not to run into Susan. I knew where he
kept his spare key, so I got into his apartment.
:12.320 --> :17.200
I started with his collection of first-edition
books, I used his kitchen knife to tear it to
:17.200 --> :22.720 shreds then went ahead to do the same things
to his clothes. Next, I smashed his laptop and
:22.720 --> :28.840
tossed his chairs. To top it all off, I smashed a
window and left the house the same way I came in.
:28.840 --> :34.160
After that, I called Susan to hang out with the
rest of our other friends, so I’d have an alibi,
:34.160 --> :39.120 in case he decided to call the police. He
didn’t, and I never heard from him again. :07.520 --> :12.480
Right from when I was young, for as long as I
can remember, I have always been the black sheep,
:12.480 --> :18.120
wherever I went, and wherever I found myself,
all except the place I called home. It was only
:18.120 --> :23.160
my family that still treated me as I still meant
something to them, and I was worth something at
:23.160 --> :28.560
least, because for as long as I can remember,
ever since I had begun going to school, I was
:28.560 --> :34.360
always that one kid, that was the very object of
bullying , and every single time I had taken the
:34.360 --> :39.320
matter to a higher authority, they would always
end up dismissing the students that were involved,
:39.320 --> :45.880
and I would also be let off with an apology, and
these exact same words, “They only bully you,
:45.880 --> :50.960 because, they feel intimidated by you, your
presence, and your intellect, they do not have
:50.960 --> :55.760
any other means of catching up to you, and thus,
they think bullying is the only way to stop you,
:55.760 --> :02.320
prove them wrong”. I have always held on to this,
every single time an incident happens, but also,
:02.320 --> :07.680 every single time, I would also consider the
fact that there was absolutely nothing I had,
:07.680 --> :12.560 that they could possibly want, for one, my
parents were not too well off, as they were
:12.560 --> :17.840
still struggling to keep our family together, and
also still managing to do the little they could,
:17.840 --> :22.760
so as to provide the highest level of education,
that they could afford for me. This was at the
:22.760 --> :27.320 time, the only thing that was motivating me,
seeing as most people, did not have the benefit
:27.320 --> :32.480
of even having parents that were trying their
very best to ensure that their kid had everything
:32.480 --> :38.640
needed to survive on their own, later in life.
So in some way, this was also my driving force,
:38.640 --> :44.440 regardless of their endless taunting and bullying.
Things soon changed, right when I was in my 2nd
:44.440 --> :48.960
year in high school, and this was all due to the
presence of someone so precious and dear to my
:48.960 --> :54.760
heart at the time, that sometimes, she had almost
seemed like an angel, as the moment she came,
:54.760 --> :59.000 it was similar to getting saved from
everything I was going through in school,
:59.000 --> :03.360 as related to the constant bullying and all.
Right after entering high school, :03.360 --> :08.840
I was immediately made aware of my then current
situation, as some of my seniors, came over to me
:08.840 --> :14.200
and began to educate me on the system they went by
there, and they also tried to put me in my place,
:14.200 --> :19.200 by simply giving me their welcome speech for
guys like me. Basically, they tried to show me
:19.200 --> :24.120
who ruled the social setting in the school. And I
made it really clear to the guys that came over to
:24.120 --> :29.920
meet me, that I was willing to abide by everything
they wasn’t of me, as I was not planning to resist
:29.920 --> :36.520
in any way, or rebel against any person, that
I was not supposed to, or “ get in their way”.
:36.520 --> :41.840 And right after this, I guess you could say
this was the biggest mistake I could have made,
:41.840 --> :47.640
as apparently, I basically said to them, “ I was
ready to become your dog, and I would accept my
:47.640 --> :53.880
place as your dog”, because right from that very
moment, I had truly become their dog, because
:53.880 --> :00.240
seeing as I was as gullible, and weak looking, as
one could be, I was constantly taken advantage of,
:00.240 --> :04.680 and this seriously affected my academics,
and when I tried to voice out my problems,
:04.680 --> :09.400 I was ganged up on, right after school, and
they beat the hell out of me, and they also
:09.400 --> :15.440
threatened to do even more serious damage, If I
were to report to any higher up. And thus began
:15.440 --> :21.400 my hellish life in this school, or so I thought.
Right when I was in my 2nd year, we had a new
:21.400 --> :27.240
student, a girl, Annette, was her name. She was
almost the same age as I was, and the moment she
:27.240 --> :33.240
came, she instantly became the buzz of the entire
school, as her parents were popular for being
:33.240 --> :38.400
famous for some movies, that were famous at the
time. I immediately knew to distance myself from
:38.400 --> :43.720
her, because seeing as she was the new buzz of the
school, she would most definitely catch the eye
:43.720 --> :49.040
of various seniors that were my higher ups. And
also, while she was the new girl in the school,
:49.040 --> :53.840
and as popular as she got with the teachers and
all the students, she was still also trying to
:53.840 --> :59.000 compete with me for the top student position
in our grade, and, I guess this is where you
:59.000 --> :05.040 could say I caught her eye, the one thing I
absolutely did not want to happen, happened. :05.040 --> :11.560
Anyways following her arrival, she had decided to
meet the competition, just once, as in her words,
:11.560 --> :16.720 she wanted to “check me out”. We met one day
finally, during recess, when we were done with
:16.720 --> :21.560
one of our classes, as she approached me, and
asked to speak with me, as she had heard that,
:21.560 --> :26.360
I was the one at the top of the class in terms
of grades and all. I wanted to tell her off,
:26.360 --> :31.720
as I did not want to have anything to do with
her, seeing as I would only get in more trouble,
:31.720 --> :36.880 if I was caught just being around her, so I
immediately avoided her question, as I made
:36.880 --> :42.080
my way to the venue of my next class. I guess
I should not have done that, as she took it as,
:42.080 --> :47.320
even more motivation to come at me, as she did
not know then, what kind of trouble I would be in,
:47.320 --> :52.560 if I were even aught, talking to her and all.
Our little game of tag, went on for quite a while,
:52.560 --> :56.920
as she was still as relentless, as the first day
she came. And then what I had been dreading for
:56.920 --> :02.680
the past weeks, had finally come to past. As she
was following me around as usual, still trying
:02.680 --> :07.720
to figure out, why I would not just talk to her,
and why I had been avoiding her these past weeks,
:07.720 --> :11.720 since she had arrived in the school. I just
decided, then and there, that I was going to
:11.720 --> :17.400
finally give her the benefit of a conversation,
as I was already feeling bad for her, and also I
:17.400 --> :22.760
was dreading what would happen, if my seniors were
to catch me, anywhere around her, as I was already
:22.760 --> :28.040 hearing from other students, that my seniors
were watching me and my movements. On this day,
:28.040 --> :32.760
when she stopped me and asked the same question
she had been asking me for the past few weeks, as
:32.760 --> :38.960
I turned to answer her, there they were, the very
guys I had been trying my possible best to avoid,
:38.960 --> :43.720
were right behind her, and as I tried to walk
away peacefully, they stopped me right there in
:43.720 --> :49.640
my tracks, as they began questioning me, as to why
I was seen around Annette, at the time, and why I
:49.640 --> :54.880
was always following her around. And right there,
before I could say anything, they had already
:54.880 --> :00.280
ganged up on me as usual, and they began to beat
the living daylight out of me, as they warned me
:00.280 --> :05.960
not to ever near Annette again, as far as I still
wanted to graduate from the school peacefully.
:05.960 --> :10.600
It was one of the most embarrassing moments of my
life, as I was beaten right there in front of the
:10.600 --> :15.960
girl, that, I would admit now, I was beginning to
have feeling for her back then. It had seemed like
:15.960 --> :20.080 this was one of those moments that one would
wish that, the ground would just open up and
:20.080 --> :25.880
swallow me right then and there, as I did not even
want to move from the spot I was. I later gathered
:25.880 --> :31.160
my strength, I went to my locker, and packed my
books, as I went home straight. I usually try to
:31.160 --> :36.040
hide my face from my parents, as I know that they
would blow the matter out of proportions, and it
:36.040 --> :40.560
would only make things, worse for me. So when I
went home that day, I went straight to my room,
:40.560 --> :45.120
as I had already been to the schools infirmary,
and I was treated a bit, and It would have been
:45.120 --> :50.520
obvious for my parents, if they had seen it that
day, so the next day, when my mom saw my face, she
:50.520 --> :55.480
asked what had happened, and I just told her, that
I had an accident, during our sports practice,
:55.480 --> :01.360
and it was nothing serious, she was skeptical
as to my excuse, but she went along. When I got
:01.360 --> :07.160
to school that day, I tried my possible best to
avoid Annette, as best as I could, so as to avoid
:07.160 --> :13.000
a repeat of the previous days incident and all,
and just as I was about to head silently to class,
:13.000 --> :19.000
she dragged me out of nowhere, as she took me to
a secluded lab, and she began to apologies, mainly
:19.000 --> :24.280
for what happened the day before, as she had no
idea, what was going to happen, seeing as she was
:24.280 --> :28.760
following me around and all. She also said she
wanted to help me get back at them for what they
:28.760 --> :34.480
did to me. I tried as much as possible to persuade
her from doing anything rash, so that things would
:34.480 --> :39.760
not be blow unnecessarily out of proportions,
but she was adamant about what she had set her
:39.760 --> :45.640
mind to at the time, and I knew there was nothing
I could do to stop her, so we decided to meet up
:45.640 --> :51.400
right after school, to discuss what we were going
to do, and how we were going to get back at them.
:51.400 --> :56.720
We met up right after school, as the path to both
out houses were along the same path. And then she
:56.720 --> :02.000
began to tell me what she had planned, some of
which were seeming to extreme for me, but somehow
:02.000 --> :06.240 she felt okay with it, I guess she was still
feeling guilty for what had happened, and she
:06.240 --> :12.440
just wanted to do this, as a means to clear up her
conscience. After much speculations, we finally
:12.440 --> :17.720
decided to come up with a plan, which would not
only ruin their lives currently, but could also
:17.720 --> :22.600 potentially land them in juvenile homes.
Annette, after infiltrating the circle :22.600 --> :27.560
of the seniors, after they had invited her
over to hang out, became an inside man,
:27.560 --> :32.480
as she was trying to find out some things that she
could use to report them to the authorities, and
:32.480 --> :39.120
then she found out that, nearly all of them were
dealing with and in illegal substances, of which
:39.120 --> :44.840
were strictly prohibited by law. So she took some
photos, and brought them, as part of the evidence,
:44.840 --> :50.520
but she was not done. As my job, was to find a way
to get some of the substance they were dealing in,
:50.520 --> :56.240
and place them in their lockers, as more reliable
and relevant evidence. And I was also in charge
:56.240 --> :01.360
of reporting this to the principal and of course
the Law enforcement agents. We did all of these
:01.360 --> :07.400
in under 24hours, and when we were finally done
with everything that the both of us needed to do,
:07.400 --> :13.560 we just sat back, and watch the Dominoes fall.
The next day in school, all the seniors involved,
:13.560 --> :17.840 were called to the principal’s office,
alongside their parents, and the principal,
:17.840 --> :22.640 apparently, tried to cover things up, as
best that she could, but it was to no avail,
:22.640 --> :27.560 as the law enforcement agents were already
involved. And no sooner had they arrived,
:27.560 --> :33.040
did they take all parties involved into custody,
they also went along with the evidence already
:33.040 --> :38.280
gathered by the schools authority. And that was
it. The set of people that were always reigning
:38.280 --> :44.640
supreme in the school were gone, my tormentors
were gone, and it’s all thanks to Annette. :44.640 --> :49.280
Since that very day, we have been close
ever since, right through our college days,
:49.280 --> :54.720 and now we are about celebrating our 5 years
wedding anniversary. She really has been like
:54.720 --> :58.920 a blessing to me, right from the
day I met her, till this very day. :32.160 --> :36.800
We lived in a very quiet town. The name was
Oakridge and although it has been a couple of
:36.800 --> :40.382 years now, I still remember the story like
it happened yesterday. I guess that is the
:40.382 --> :43.920 beauty of it all. The offender might forget
but there is actually no way the offender
:43.920 --> :48.560 forgets. And that is even if they find a way
to forgive the offender in the first place. :48.560 --> :53.080
To be clear, I am not the offended,
neither am I the offender. But I am :53.080 --> :58.240
like a mother hen to her chicks. I protected
what was mine without giving it two thoughts.
:58.240 --> :02.240 So, let me tell you the story of how
I got revenge on my child’s bully. :02.240 --> :07.880
In our quiet town, I woke up each morning with a
singular purpose in my heart - to protect my only
:07.880 --> :13.440
child, Brooke. With my warm smile and nurturing
spirit, I was the kind of parent who would move
:13.440 --> :19.040
heaven and earth to ensure my child's happiness.
I was a devoted teacher, tirelessly imparting
:19.040 --> :24.680
knowledge to my elementary school students, but my
most important role was being Brooke's mother. At
:24.680 --> :31.520
ten years old, my precious Brooke was a bright and
gentle soul, brimming with curiosity and boundless
:31.520 --> :37.000 potential. Those wide eyes of my child were
filled with the innocence of youth, but beneath
:37.000 --> :42.760 their sparkle lay the anguish of relentless
torment. As the sun cast its golden rays
:42.760 --> :48.960
over Oakridge Elementary, I watched as Brooke's
youthful spirit began to dim under the constant
:48.960 --> :55.440 cruelty of that one particular school bully.
The bully, Jason, was the embodiment of trouble.
:55.440 --> :00.760
With a menacing glare and a sharp tongue, he had
transformed the halls of Oakridge Elementary into
:00.760 --> :06.080 a fearful domain. His relentless taunts and
physical aggression had shattered my child's
:06.080 --> :11.560
self-esteem. The child, once vibrant and full
of life, now bore the physical and emotional
:11.560 --> :17.520 scars of the torment inflicted by Jason. My
heart ached constantly as I watched my child
:17.520 --> :21.760 suffer in silence. I saw the way Brooke's
shoulders slumped when she approached the
:21.760 --> :26.720 door to the hallway knowing that he would be
slammed to the walls or accidentally trip on
:26.720 --> :32.400
someone’s shoes. The sparkle in those innocent
eyes dimmed, and it got to a time I decided
:32.400 --> :37.200 to do something about it. It was the love
for my child that fueled my determination,
:37.200 --> :43.000
driving me to confront the relentless antagonist
who had made my child's life a living nightmare.
:43.000 --> :47.520 As the days went by, I couldn't shake off
the growing concern and frustration that
:47.520 --> :53.000
settled in the pit of my stomach. It was as if
a dark cloud loomed over our home, casting a
:53.000 --> :58.720
shadow on my child's once joyful and carefree
demeanor. Brooke's laughter had grown scarce,
:58.720 --> :03.880 replaced by the quiet, painful tears that
only a parent could detect. Every evening,
:03.880 --> :08.000 I'd sit at the kitchen table with Brooke,
her trembling hands gripping a half-eaten
:08.000 --> :14.640
sandwich as she recounted the horrors she faced
at school. The torment was relentless – taunts,
:14.640 --> :20.600
jeers, and cruel pranks that left her emotionally
battered. I felt helpless, watching the lively
:20.600 --> :26.480 spark in her eyes slowly fade, the weight of
this unbearable burden pressing down on her tiny
:26.480 --> :31.280 shoulders. At the very least, I was thankful
that she did not hide it from me. At first,
:31.280 --> :36.280
she did not want to tell me what was going on but
at some point, she knew she had no choice but to.
:36.280 --> :40.080 Desperate to protect my child, I
took my concerns to the school, :40.080 --> :45.840
hoping for swift action. The principal listened to
my pleas, offered sympathetic words, and assured
:45.840 --> :50.960 me that the situation would be addressed.
They promised investigations and counseling,
:50.960 --> :56.400
but as the days turned into weeks, Jason's actions
remained unchecked. The school's well-intentioned
:56.400 --> :02.440
efforts seemed inadequate in the face of a bully
who knew how to hide his tracks. Somehow, I still
:02.440 --> :07.440
think it was more than that. To me, it seemed
like the usual case of a spoilt brat with wealthy
:07.440 --> :12.640
parents who felt he could do as he pleased because
his parents donated heavily to the school and he
:12.640 --> :17.320 could never really be sanctioned for his actions.
So, I didn't stop at the school, :17.320 --> :22.600
for my child's well-being was at stake.
I consulted with lawyers, thinking that
:22.600 --> :28.040
legal measures might bring the justice Brooke
so desperately needed. Yet, the complex legal
:28.040 --> :33.240
system couldn't offer a quick solution to end the
suffering. It was a heartbreaking realization that
:33.240 --> :38.680 the very channels designed to protect our
children failed us. The bully continued to
:38.680 --> :44.880
torment my precious Brooke, seemingly emboldened
by the lack of consequences. Plus, he was a minor,
:44.880 --> :49.760
after all. There is little that can be done in
court about minor activities like this. Well,
:49.760 --> :53.880 maybe there are things to be done.
But I was totally oblivious to them. :53.880 --> :58.640
With each passing day, the helplessness
gnawed at my heart, and I watched as my
:58.640 --> :04.320
beloved Brooke's spirit continued to wither. The
torment inflicted by Jason had taken its toll,
:04.320 --> :10.840
and I could no longer stand idly by. Determination
welled up within me more than it did before. And I
:10.840 --> :16.120
decided to do something that would actually have
an impact. It was no longer enough to rely on the
:16.120 --> :22.080
impotent efforts of the school and legal system.
I became a detective in my own right. I decided to
:22.080 --> :28.480
check through the media about every detail about
Jason’s parents, his habits, vulnerabilities, and
:28.480 --> :34.120
any secrets that could be exploited. I knew pretty
much how cunny kids like Jason could be because I
:34.120 --> :38.760
moved with the bullies in high school. I knew how
far things could get if they weren’t stopped when
:38.760 --> :44.120
there was still a bit of fear in the students.
That was why I knew that I had to find a way to
:44.120 --> :49.360 keep my daughter out of the bullying league.
In the quiet solitude of my makeshift command
:49.360 --> :55.120 center, I hatched a meticulous plan to make
Jason, the tormentor of my precious Brooke,
:55.120 --> :01.600
pay for every tear he had forced from her eyes.
Revenge was not my first choice, but it became a
:01.600 --> :07.680
necessity to ensure my child's safety and restore
her sense of self-worth. My plan was crafted with
:07.680 --> :13.560 careful consideration, designed to humiliate
Jason while avoiding any violent or illegal
:13.560 --> :19.920
actions that might compromise my own morality or
land me in legal trouble. I was determined that
:19.920 --> :25.480
this revenge would not transform me into a mirror
image of the bully who had tormented my child.
:25.480 --> :30.760 The first step involved targeting his online
presence. I created a fictitious persona,
:30.760 --> :35.440 infiltrating his social media world and
subtly leaking the secrets I had uncovered.
:35.440 --> :40.120 I was well aware that the revelation of his
own vulnerabilities and fears could incite
:40.120 --> :46.360
a level of panic and insecurity that matched the
emotional turmoil he had subjected Brooke to. But
:46.360 --> :51.840
the craziest thing is that the so-called secrets
were not real things that should matter. At least,
:51.840 --> :56.520
not in the real world. The best of what I found
was that he had a half-brother that people did
:56.520 --> :00.800 not really know about in our community. I
guess the family did not want the details of
:00.800 --> :07.240
the father’s infidelity to be the topic of town.
So, it was kind of a big deal, in that regard.
:07.240 --> :13.160
Next, I orchestrated situations in which Jason
would face public embarrassment and ridicule.
:13.160 --> :18.480
Making him have to tell obvious lies because a
little birdie was feeding him the information.
:18.480 --> :24.600
Well, the little birdie was me. I created a fake
account on Facebook where I told supposed truths.
:24.600 --> :29.600
He would say it to his clique and it would end
up being a lie. These psychological tactics
:29.600 --> :35.200
were aimed at making him truly understand the
pain he had caused. I ensured that his friends
:35.200 --> :41.160 and peers began to question his actions and
motives, leaving him isolated and shunned. :41.160 --> :46.240
I knew that revenge would come at a cost, not
just to Jason, but to my own conscience. It
:46.240 --> :50.880 was a moral tightrope I was walking, but
my love for Brooke and the need to protect
:50.880 --> :56.440 her propelled me forward. This non-violent
revenge was my way of restoring the balance,
:56.440 --> :01.840 making Jason face the same fear and torment
that had haunted my child's days and nights. :01.840 --> :07.720
In the aftermath of my carefully executed revenge
plan, I had expected to find satisfaction in the
:07.720 --> :12.160 fact that Jason was finally facing the
consequences of his actions. But as the
:12.160 --> :16.360 days turned into weeks, I couldn't escape
the gnawing doubt that my actions might
:16.360 --> :22.200
have unintended consequences that extended far
beyond the tormentor himself. My nights were
:22.200 --> :27.760
haunted by the thought of collateral damage - the
innocents who might be caught in the crossfire of
:27.760 --> :33.920
my revenge. I had inadvertently involved other
students, friends of Jason's, who were neither
:33.920 --> :39.720
responsible for his actions nor deserving of the
humiliation I had orchestrated. I had to make it
:39.720 --> :44.720
seem like it was not a witch hunt specifically
meant for Jason. I had to make him feel like there
:44.720 --> :50.560 was someone else that knew the secrets he knew.
However, the consequences extended to Brooke,
:50.560 --> :55.600
my beloved child. She had been my motivation from
the beginning, and I had hoped that my actions
:55.600 --> :01.360
would protect her from further harm. But instead,
my vengeful plot seemed to have thrust her into a
:01.360 --> :06.600 spotlight of attention she never sought. She
became the subject of whispers, rumors, and
:06.600 --> :11.920
judgments that were as merciless as the bullying
itself. I guess the bitter part about bullies is
:11.920 --> :16.040
that they tend to pass out their aggression of
something unrelated to the other person they
:16.040 --> :22.600 term inferior to them. In this case, since I
made Jason the pillar for scandalous rumors,
:22.600 --> :28.320 he got the idea to do the same to those he
considered inferior to him. It was not just
:28.320 --> :34.400
to Brooke but it was hers that had me instantly
regretting my involvement in the bullying affair.
:34.400 --> :39.680
She came from school that day crying that they
began to spread a rumor about her that she stole
:39.680 --> :46.160
from the cafeteria because we had no money. First,
that was awful to say about a kid. And secondly,
:46.160 --> :51.200 we were living just fine. I worked two jobs
that paid handsomely and we had enough to
:51.200 --> :55.960 spare for savings. So, I could be sure
that the rumors were absolutely false. :55.960 --> :01.280
The realization of the harm I had caused to
innocent bystanders and the moral toll my actions
:01.280 --> :07.400
were taking on my own conscience weighed heavily
upon me. I had become the very thing I despised -
:07.400 --> :13.880
a force of cruelty, vengeance, and manipulation. I
had lost sight of my own values and inadvertently
:13.880 --> :19.400
exposed Brooke to the darkness that had driven
me to such extreme measures. The line between
:19.400 --> :24.480
right and wrong had blurred, and I knew that I
needed to make amends before it was too late.
:24.480 --> :28.200 So, this time, I went to the school
management and asked for an in-depth :28.200 --> :33.200
investigation into why a rumor was passed
around that my daughter was responsible for
:33.200 --> :38.960
the missing supplies in the cafeteria. I was not
really banking on anything noteworthy from them
:38.960 --> :43.640 so I told my daughter to protect herself
the next time she was bullied or tripped. :43.640 --> :46.880
What did she do? In a surprising turn of events,
:46.880 --> :51.920 my daughter, Brooke, decided to take matters
into her own hands and protect herself from
:51.920 --> :57.720
further bullying. One day, as she was faced with
yet another incident orchestrated by Jason and
:57.720 --> :04.800
his gang, she executed a daring move. With courage
and determination, she delivered a well-aimed blow
:04.800 --> :09.840
that broke the nose of one of the bullies who
had tripped her, leaving him in shock and pain.
:09.840 --> :14.080 The school was immediately alerted to the
incident, and I was called in for a meeting
:14.080 --> :19.560
with the principal and other concerned parties.
When I arrived, my daughter sat beside me,
:19.560 --> :24.600 her face a mix of defiance and triumph. I
listened to the school staff, and other parents,
:24.600 --> :29.440 and their concerns, but I did not respond.
Brooke, in her own way, had shown that she
:29.440 --> :34.080 would not tolerate being a victim any
longer. The suspension that followed was
:34.080 --> :38.120 a small price to pay for the satisfaction
of making it clear that she wouldn't be
:38.120 --> :43.000 bullied any further. Her actions resonated
throughout the school, sending a powerful
:43.000 --> :47.600 message that she wouldn't be an easy target.
Though her suspension may not have been the
:47.600 --> :52.520 ideal outcome, it was the last time she
came home with a story of being bullied. :52.520 --> :56.320
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my girlfriend says I need to get rid of my dead wife's stuff or she's leaving I
first got married at the age of 18 to my girlfriend I'd had since age 15 we
enjoyed 6 years of marriage together before she died in a motorcycle accident
leaving me broken and severely depressed for years a bit over one year ago four
years after my wife's passing I met my current girlfriend at a work event and
we really hid it off I decided that it was time for me to start looking for a
serious partner again and that my wife would have wanted me to be happy my
current girlfriend and I became more serious over time and we moved in
together two weeks ago I've talked with her extensively about my deceased wife
and the mental health issues it brought to me and she has been nothing but
supportive and loving the problems began after we moved in together I have a
small chest that I used to keep under my
bed that has a few things that belong to my deceased wife along with some photos
of the two of us during the moving process my girlfriend noticed the chest
and asked about it so I explained what it was and showed her the contents I
didn't really expect it to be a big deal
but since I showed her things have never been worse for us she sat me down that
night and explained that because I still had the chest and wanted to keep it it
was indication to her that I hadn't moved on from my deceased wife and that
she doesn't think she can continue the relationship unless I get rid of it I
was pretty shocked at this and told her that I needed some time to think about
it well it's been 2 weeks now and I still don't know what to do my current
girlfriend and I have had no major problems up until this point and she's
asking me daily when I plan to get rid of it and says she can't live in the
same space as the chest I really don't want to get rid of it but I want to
continue my relationship with her as well what can I say to get her to
understand or am I being crazy by keeping those things for
years update wow I did not expect that amount of feedback at all on the post
sorry I haven't responded to many comments it was a bit overwhelming to
wake up to thousands of them but I wanted to provide some more information
and an update about how everything went down some people were wondering how
often I look at the chest and talk about
my late wife I spend prolonged time with
the chest and its contents usually twice a year on our anniversary date and her
death date so I'm not constantly opening it and having it out and around and
stuff I feel as though I find the most Comfort just knowing that's its nearby
strangely enough which is why I wanted to keep it in the house most of the
conversations about my previous marriage have been prompted by my girlfriend not
me I can talk about it pretty openly when asked about my late wife but I
seldom bring her up on my own in conversation she used to be all I ever
talked about and it was annoying and uncomfortable to people in my life
looking back on a lot of our conversations my girlfriend would
frequently ask questions trying to gauge if I was still mourning or if I was
happy again now with the chest incident that makes sense to me that it has been
an unvoiced insecurity for a while at the time I suppose I just thought she
was asking if I was depressed still but I see now she was trying to ask if I was
over my late wife when my girlfriend asked me to get rid of the chest she did
in fact mean dispose of it I didn't go into great detail about the conversation
we had when she sat me down but I proposed keeping it more tucked away not
in our bedroom or at another person's home and she continued to say I was
still hanging on and not ready for a relationship in her eyes and keeping it
somewhere else didn't change that I am definitely not getting rid of the
chest and by that I mean disposing of it and it's been locked in my car the past
couple days while I've been dealing with this I got some really good advice from
you guys and tried to have an open honest conversation with her today
asking her why the chest was so significant as to give me an ultimatum
and why she felt like I had to get rid of it to continue growing our
relationship she said the entire relationship we've had she's always felt
like she had to match up to the standards of my late wife or be even
better so that I would stay with her and that me still having the chest was the
confirmation that she will always be lesser than if I got rid of the chest it
would be confirmation that I was ready to give my whole heart to her this broke
my heart honestly and I couldn't believe she never told me she was feeling this
way and that I didn't see it it also made me feel confused because I've been
trying to show her the best I can that I can give her my heart in other ways why
do I need to dump these precious memories to do that I told her that the
relationship with my late wife and my relationship with her are entirely
independent of one another and that I was focused on building trust and love
with her not trying to replace my late wife or compare her by any means I told
her that I couldn't dispose of the chest because it meant a lot to me
sentimentally but that I wasn't keeping it to hang on or cling to my late wife I
just felt as though it was an important part of my history and I wanted to honor
her memory some of the trinkets in the chest were from when we were 16 years
old going to high school dances and learning how to drive together I
couldn't simply trash those I reassured her that I loved her for exactly who she
was not the position she held in my life
or how similar she was to my late wife I told her that I could see us building a
life together and that I was focused on our future not my past I told her that
there is absolutely no competition and that while I was hurt by the ultimatum I
was ready to move past this and move the chest to store stage somewhere else it
wasn't enough for her I don't know what else I needed to say or do to
communicate my love and dedication but she was dead set on me getting rid of
the chest or her leaving I told her a final time that there was not an ounce
of a chance I was getting rid of it radio silence then she gets a bag of her
stuff hops in her car and drives off ignoring me when I asked what was going
on after calling her multiple times for a few hours I learned she's staying with
a friend who she called in the car I guess so so she originally just drove
off not knowing where she was going and making arrangements to move out next
week I'm still in shock but I mostly feel confused and Hollow maybe I truly
wasn't ready for a relationship maybe she is just crazy maybe a bit of both
that's the full update sort of went how a lot of the comments predicted but I
feel like absolute [ __ ] going to order
takeout and play video games all weekend
to try and reset cheers to being alone I guess my sister got an abortion and I
can't see her the same anymore hey everyone I'm using my throwaway account
for this because my main has a lot of personal information so around two weeks
ago my sister got an abortion and I can't see her the same anymore a while
before that her and I were at the dinner table with our parents and she started
crying she'd been kind of depressed the last few weeks but hadn't talked about
it until now she said that a while back she had been at a house party with some
of her friends and was sexually assaulted by a group of boys she didn't
go into too much detail but she said that a while after that she started to
feel sick so she took a pregnancy test and it came back positive she started
sobbing and saying that she wanted to get an abortion saying that she doesn't
want to give birth and that she's been having nightmares about it our parents
suggested taking her to a therapist or pursuing legal action but they both
refused to let her kill a child which I agree with my parents kept trying to
discuss things what to do next but my sister wouldn't listen she just kept
sobbing for the next few days my sister really isolated herself every
conversation she had with our parents eventually devolved into them trying to
convince her to see a therapist while she begged literally on her knees
sometimes for them to let her get an abortion I tried talking to her and
explaining that maybe the child is a blessing and that something good could
come from all this that just made her even more upset she told me that she
would rather kill herself than give birth to a rapist child she said that
it's unfair that she's only 16 and that she doesn't understand why this is
happening to her a few days later she came to my parents and told them that
she got an abortion Apparently one of her friends had driven her to a place
where she could kill the child our parents were Furious and yelled at her
for what she did she begged them to forgive her and said that it was her
only choice which is ridiculous our parents literally tried to give her
other options but she still chose to kill a child our parents barely speak to
her anymore and I can tell it's making her severely depressed she's always been
skinny but now she barely eats anything only leaves her room for school and her
grades are steadily dropping she says she just wants her mom and dad back
wants them to understand why did it I've tried my best to comfort her but every
time I look at her I just think about how she murdered a child what do I do I
want my sister back but I just can't see her the same way anymore I know she's
been through a lot but is that really an excuse isn't getting an abortion a sin
no matter what update hello everyone I'm the one that made the post a few hours
ago about how my sister got an abortion after being sexually assaulted by a
group of boys at a house party if you haven't read it I would suggest you go
do so otherwise this post won't make sense sense I received a lot of comments
and messages some of them were thoughtful kind and helpful most of them
were from the subreddit but a lot of the responses I got on our SL prolife told
me that my sister is a liar [ __ ] child
murderer that this is all her fault and that my parents and I would be justified
in never speaking to her again but when I look at my sister I don't see any of
these things I see a scared 16-year-old girl I see the girl who helped me get
over my stutter I see the girl who protected me from being bullied for so
many many years I see the girl who always convinced me that I was good
enough I see the girl who needs my help right now I've spent a lot of the day
talking with people on Reddit chats and in comments about how to help her and
despite all the horrible things I've heard said about my sister today there
were a some nice things as well I spent a good chunk of the evening talking with
her and we both ended up crying about what happened she gave me more details
about what happened to her at the house party details I won't share here but
what I will say is I wouldn't wish what she went through on anyone not even my
worst enemy I tried talking to our parents some more but they wouldn't
listen to me in their mind what my sister did overshadows what happened to
her the more I think about it the more I realized they failed her when she first
told them about what happened they never comforted her they just coldly gave her
the option between therapy or legal action and I think that was wrong of
them I feel like I failed my duty as a brother by being so quick to label her a
monster like our parents have and I'm trying to do everything in my power to
make that up to her as for how I feel about her abortion I don't know I still
don't think it was right but I understand why she did it I understand
why she felt she didn't have any other options thank you to everyone on this
subreddit who was so kind and helpful God bless all of you | give me a good story on MyGIRLFRIENDSaysINeedToGetRidOfMyDEADWifesStuffOrShesLeavingPT |
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:00.000 --> :00.920 Posted by u/Ok_Response_3123
:00.920 --> :02.240 5 hours ago :06.000 --> :09.073
Parents think they get a say so over MY children S
:09.073 --> :09.162 Update: thank you everyone for the words of
advice and support. I stood my ground and my
:09.162 --> :09.242 kids will be spending a week with their
dad. I really needed to vent and having
:09.242 --> :09.320 all of this support has made me feel a
lot better. Thank you so much everyone! :09.320 --> :13.520
My ex and I separated beginning of the year,
and I moved into my mom’s house with my 2
:13.520 --> :18.280 kids. They’re both under 3. My parents do
not like my ex as he hasn’t helped much
:18.280 --> :22.920 financially. He puts in effort on seeing the
kids and talking to them. My oldest got sick
:22.920 --> :26.960 and can’t go to daycare for a week, so I
contacted him and asked if he could watch
:26.960 --> :31.920 the kids for a week. I can’t miss work or
I’ll get fired. He said he would no problem. :31.920 --> :34.520
The problem is when I told my mom what was going on,
:34.520 --> :39.640
she thinks she gets a say so on my kids having
a relationship with their dad. My ex and I had
:39.640 --> :45.280
a rocky end and that is between us and not our
kids. I believe as long as he puts in effort,
:45.280 --> :49.080 it’s not my place to say he can’t
have a relationship with his kids. :49.080 --> :53.120
My parents have also offered to pay for
my divorce, but only on the terms that I
:53.120 --> :57.240 get his parental rights terminated. My
parents don’t like the guy that much, :57.240 --> :59.680
so I of course have not took that offer. :59.680 --> :04.920
The big gripe is my mom thinking she is my kids
parent, and treating me like a child and like
:04.920 --> :09.720 I get no say over my children. So now it is
about to be a whole argument with my mother
:09.720 --> :15.200 over this and I’m standing my ground. It is
just incredibly frustrating to deal with this. :21.840 --> :22.640
Posted by :22.640 --> :25.080 u/Sh0rtGam3r 6 hours ago
:52.600 --> :55.060
Entitled parents think I should change my hair cut
:55.060 --> :56.300 S So I got my hair
:56.300 --> :02.320
cut last week. My mom wanted me to go get it done.
I’m under 18 so I’m legally not an adult but I’m
:02.320 --> :07.160
old enough to be able to make decisions about my
haircut. I go to the hairdressers with my mom and
:07.160 --> :12.200
she get annoyed at me when I say the haircut I
wanted because she didn’t want it that way. (She
:12.200 --> :17.440
usually likes my hair really short and I look like
Charlie Brown from snoopie when it’s done “her
:17.440 --> :22.960
way”) I wanted to cut it a bit short but keep my
fringe and try to get a normal style going on my
:22.960 --> :28.680
head. so she keeps talking crap about me the whole
time and when I get home. Her and my dad both
:28.680 --> :34.720
get mad at me and demand to get it re-done. I say
I’m not getting it bald more or less. They let me
:34.720 --> :39.920
keep it this way but talk crap about my hair and
how I’m a ridiculous looking to everyone we see. :46.640 --> :47.320
Posted by :47.320 --> :57.040 u/Alias72018 7 hours ago
:02.320 --> :04.940 My dad is beginning to act
entitled to things I make :04.940 --> :08.520 M
For context my dad (64M) used to :08.520 --> :13.600
volunteer to coach track at the same middle school
where my mom teaches. Because of this position
:13.600 --> :18.560
he ended up meeting a lot of students from my
grade and below for years. Sometimes he’ll ask
:18.560 --> :25.160
me “do you remember so and so?” And sometimes the
answer is yes and sometimes the answer is no. I’ve
:25.160 --> :30.480
gotten back into crocheting recently and around
mid September Dad asked “do you remember John
:30.480 --> :35.040
Smith (not real name)? He was a year below you
in high school.” I tell him no but to go on with
:35.040 --> :39.520
what he’s saying. He tells me that John Smith and
his wife are having a baby and he thinks it would
:39.520 --> :45.400
be nice for me to make a baby blanket for them. At
first I happily agreed because I love babies and I
:45.400 --> :50.840
already had the perfect yarn for it at home. Later
on in October my dad asked how it was going and
:50.840 --> :57.760
only THEN tells me the baby is due in November.
I started panicking a little so when I got home
:57.760 --> :02.720
I was ranting to my husband about this sudden
deadline because I had been working on scarves
:02.720 --> :08.200
for people for. Christmas and suddenly had a new
thing due sooner and my husband asks “why are you
:08.200 --> :13.120
doing this for him? Do you even know the guy?”
I admitted that I didn’t and my husband said I
:13.120 --> :19.560
didn’t owe my dad or this John Smith guy anything
and that if my dad wants to give the guy a blanket
:19.560 --> :25.240
so back he can go buy one. I even pulled out my
yearbooks from junior and senior years of high
:25.240 --> :30.720
school and there was no John Smith in any of the
grades for either year. I decided to not make the
:30.720 --> :36.520
blanket. Cue this past Sunday, when my Dad said
“I need that blanket” (didn’t ask, just said he
:36.520 --> :41.880
needed it) while we were out for lunch, I calmly
said that I was working on Christmas scarves for
:41.880 --> :48.000
people. Dad replied “the baby is due in November,
Christmas is in December”, as if I didn’t know
:48.000 --> :54.000
this. I calmly said “Dad, I don’t even know the
guy” and Dad got all frustrated and said “never
:54.000 --> :59.760
mind, just forget about it” with an annoyed tone.
We continued lunch and at one point I mention
:59.760 --> :05.040
hoping to purchase a sewing machine someday so
I can make t-shirt quilts; one for shirts I have
:05.040 --> :10.080
from events in my life (shirts that basically
can’t be replaced and are special to me) and
:10.080 --> :15.200
one for my state t-shirt collection (hoping to
visit and collect a shirt from every state). My
:15.200 --> :20.120
mom mentions I can order some shirts online for
states that I’ve been to but didn’t get a shirt
:20.120 --> :24.840
and Dad said if he’d known he would’ve grabbed me
one while he and my sister were in Minnesota last
:24.840 --> :30.360
month. I thanked him but explained I wanted to
visit the states myself. He grumbled something
:30.360 --> :35.560
and then said “you know what would be cool? A
quilt made of made of all my t-shirts from [insert
:35.560 --> :41.800
favorite college football team]” and smiles at
me. At first i liked the idea and said, “if you
:41.800 --> :46.680
can get them to me I’ll try” but the more I think
about it the more I don’t like that his attitude
:46.680 --> :53.200 tends to be telling me to make things rather
than asking if I can or even want to make them. :13.680 --> :22.880
Posted by :22.880 --> :24.120 u/Yami_The_Outcast 1 day ago
:28.600 --> :33.280 My younger sister is pregnant, and my mom is
trying to get her to keep the child. We are not
:33.280 --> :35.640 ready to add an infant to this household. L
:35.640 --> :40.040
So, I don't know if this is the right place for
this, but this is literally driving me nuts and
:40.040 --> :44.520 maybe writing it out will help but honestly,
I'm just hoping someone can help me talk some
:44.520 --> :49.760
sense into my mother who listens to people reading
reddit and I honestly don't care if she knows it's
:49.760 --> :55.560
me sharing this. She's being entitled by thinking
she has a say in what my younger sister does.
:55.560 --> :02.480
Me (f23), just found out my younger sister (f16)
is pregnant by her boyfriend who I don't even
:02.480 --> :07.600 know how old he is, I just know I've barely
seen him in our house and for good reason. :07.600 --> :12.440
I am the oldest of six kids, with this sister,
let's call her MS (Middle sister) because she's
:12.440 --> :16.200 the eldest out of the second group of
kids that came after me and the other :16.200 --> :20.560
two who are all in our twenties at this point.
It was late, getting into the wee hours of the
:20.560 --> :25.440 morning and I couldn't sleep, so I decided I
might as well mess around on Fortnite to grind
:25.440 --> :31.320
and hopefully get a little sleepy, when my mom
(f mid-forties I think?) comes in and just kinda
:31.320 --> :37.000
starts standing behind me. When I ask her what she
wants, she just asks me if I can pause the game.
:37.000 --> :43.320
Not in a "serious we need to talk" tone, but more
in a "this is something you should know" kind of
:43.320 --> :49.280
way. I expected her to show me some facebook post
or something on messenger from someone she doesn't
:49.280 --> :54.240 care for, as at this point I'm quite used to
being the one she goes to in order to rant about
:54.240 --> :58.840
these sorts of things (it's honestly emotionally
draining but I don't know how to tell her I'm not
:58.840 --> :04.360 interested in hearing her complain all the time).
She pulls out a pregnancy test and shows me,
:04.360 --> :08.520 when I get confused and don't know how
to react she proceeds to tell me that :08.520 --> :14.040
it's not the sister who was born two years
after me (who's 21 and currently engaged,
:14.040 --> :18.240 living at home with her fiancé until they
can get enough together to move elsewhere),
:18.240 --> :23.560 and that it's one of the middle siblings MS.
She tells me that MS had said she didn't want
:23.560 --> :28.120 to keep the child, but at this point it
was way too late to get an abortion or :28.120 --> :32.880
anything else, but according to my mom
"we don't do that in this household". :32.880 --> :39.120
My sister is not ready to be a parent in any
way. She's failing homeschool, she lays around
:39.120 --> :45.280
and watches tv all day long and has basically
made the living room into her bedroom (never
:45.280 --> :50.160 mind that she *has* a perfectly good room
upstairs), not to mention she still ends up
:50.160 --> :57.040 wetting herself in her sleep on a regular basis.
The house is.. not good I'm going to be honest.
:57.040 --> :02.280
With this many people, dishes pile up, and nobody
but my mother and me seem to want to do them,
:02.280 --> :06.800
and on top of that there's just so much clutter
all around the house. We don't have space for
:06.800 --> :11.880 a baby! We don't have the money for a baby!
I'm on food stamps at this moment, so is the
:11.880 --> :17.560
engaged sister, so is my mother! If we were to
bring a child into this household I do not see
:17.560 --> :23.760 that kid ending up well off or in any way okay.
I tried to talk with MS just a little bit ago,
:23.760 --> :28.840
and explain to her that nobody could make her keep
that kid, that she wasn't ready, that this home
:28.840 --> :34.040
wasn't ready for a kid, but she just kinda clammed
up and told me that our mom had been talking with
:34.040 --> :39.440
her and planning for the future, trying to get her
to think of names for this kid and everything. I
:39.440 --> :44.040
don't know what's going on through her head, but
I know full well that our mother is manipulating
:44.040 --> :49.280
her, that all our mother wants is another baby
around the house and isn't thinking of the
:49.280 --> :55.280 long-term. She's not a young mother anymore,
and MS is in no way ready to be a parent. :55.280 --> :59.440
I know I have to have this talk with my mother,
but I'm afraid of what she's going to say or
:59.440 --> :04.520 think, as she often comes to me with adult
situations and then doesn't seem to actually
:04.520 --> :09.160 listen when I have adult opinions about it.
What can I do to talk with her about this?
:09.160 --> :14.240
To convince my younger sister that she doesn't
have to do this unless she's 100% certain she
:14.240 --> :20.351 does? I'm at a loss for words and I can feel
myself spiraling the more I think about this. :20.351 --> :20.360
Posted by :20.360 --> :38.280 u/Inner-Side4117 10 hours ago
:07.080 --> :09.200 Parents have a real estate obsession M
:09.200 --> :11.960 I know this may sound tone-deaf but here goes.
:11.960 --> :16.880 My parents have this unhealthy obsession for
real estate outside of their price range.
:16.880 --> :22.560
This has really gotten on my nerves recently as
houses is all they talk about. I am dead serious
:22.560 --> :27.200 when I say their favorite past-time pastime
activity is going to real estate listings,
:27.200 --> :31.960 I have pretty much seen the inside of every
single gated residential that's been built in
:31.960 --> :37.880
our city for the last 10 years bc that was how we
spent a lot of our weekends. They always request
:37.880 --> :43.200 to see the largest units with 5/6 bedrooms,
because a family of 4 now that I'm not home
:43.200 --> :47.640 most of the time just needs that much space.
They have sold smaller houses here and there,
:47.640 --> :53.000 but all of that has pretty much gone towards
financing bigger real estate purchases. Gross
:53.000 --> :58.480 rental yield is terrible so these houses
pretty much collect dust all year round. :58.480 --> :03.160
Whenever I advise against making a
purchase, they say sth along the lines of,
:03.160 --> :07.960 ppl buy houses thats just what they do.
Recently while I was out of the country they
:07.960 --> :14.160
had me sign over a first-property preferential
discount that I was entitled to despite me saying
:14.160 --> :19.000
specifically that I prefer to leave it for the
time being. When I raised my suspicions they
:19.000 --> :24.480 tried convincing me this was a huge steal,
that the house came with a 20 sq feet garden
:24.480 --> :30.040
and elevator and everything. For what they were
charged, it should have come with a bat cave. I
:30.040 --> :34.680 suggested maybe selling a house to help pay
for the new one only to be told that experts
:34.680 --> :40.240 do not think this is a good time to sell. It
is just never a good time to sell I guess. :40.240 --> :44.920
I do not think they are the way they are as a
result of being under-educated or susceptible
:44.920 --> :50.320 to guerilla marketing as they are senior
university dean/management. To the best
:50.320 --> :55.560
of my understanding my parents feel they missed
out on the real estate booms several decades ago,
:55.560 --> :02.040
what they are doing now I can only categorize as
overcompensating/preparation in the event a sequel
:02.040 --> :07.120
occurs. We are on good terms most of the time
and I don't want to come across as ungrateful
:07.120 --> :12.160
for what they've done for me. When I begin to get
critical of them their strategy thus far has been
:12.160 --> :17.680
to guilt me by bringing up their friends who have
been successful at converting their children into
:17.680 --> :23.600
submissive house-hoarders. If it comes to it, I
trust that they will respect my decisions but I
:23.600 --> :28.440 am hoping this does not affect relationships.
This is kind of a rant but would appreciate
:28.440 --> :34.960
any suggestions/advice. I acknowledge that to
some this sounds like whining or even flexing,
:34.960 --> :41.160
bc despite having partial ownership it doesn't
benefit me one bit, potentially(while not legally)
:41.160 --> :46.800
entangles me into loan/mortgage situations I would
rather play no part in. Parents literally pull out
:46.800 --> :52.800
the seniority card all the time and refuse to look
at market research/evidence that says otherwise. :52.800 --> :54.000
Posted by :54.000 --> :10.400 u/Nozomi_KaizokuYT 1 day ago
:35.960 --> :40.720
I probably developed a chronic pain condition
and my mom doesn't believe me. What do I do? :40.720 --> :42.400
L So, for context, I have :42.400 --> :46.840
been dealing with headaches for the past 3 months
as of now, and it's been interfering with my life. :46.840 --> :50.480
The headaches started sometime after the
first two weeks of school (School started
:50.480 --> :55.280 on the 14th of august, and it's november the
7th as i'm typing this out), and for the first
:55.280 --> :00.560 few days the headaches occured, i thought
I was just faking, or maybe i was stressed. :00.560 --> :04.840
It wasn't until it still kept happening after
about a week that I started to feel something
:04.840 --> :10.280
wasn't right. So I asked my mom about it, and
she told me it was normal. So I left it at that. :10.280 --> :13.760
Fast foward to about a month, and
I was in so much pain to the point :13.760 --> :16.920
that even my dad was starting to
notice, and asked my mom to take :16.920 --> :21.880
me to the doctor. She sounded hesitant
to at first, but eventually I went in. :21.880 --> :24.280
The doctor was doing her normal evaluation,
:24.280 --> :27.400 and then asked me to describe the
symptoms of my headaches to her. :27.400 --> :29.640
Before i could actually get a whole lot across,
:29.640 --> :33.560 my mom talked over me and told the doctor
that I wasn't drinking water and wasn't
:33.560 --> :39.000
eating breakfast in the mornings anymore. She
basically minimized my symptoms then and there. :39.000 --> :44.200
Now, it's important to keep in mind here that
I have sensory issues due to being autistic,
:44.200 --> :50.200
and drinking water (as much as it sounds dumb
to say it) causes a negative sensory reaction.
:50.200 --> :55.040
Same with protein bars and Gatorade. It's also
important to note that because of the pain from my
:55.040 --> :00.520
headaches, I had to stop eating in the mornings
because my eyes and head are in so much pain. :00.520 --> :04.720
I ended up leaving the doctor's office
with a simple diagnosis of headaches, :04.720 --> :09.920
and during that time, i felt completely
invalidated, mainly because my mom minimized
:09.920 --> :14.400 how bad the issue actually was, and
now the doctor won't believe me. :14.400 --> :18.520
The headaches started to get worse even
while I was taking the doctor's orders,
:18.520 --> :21.520 and eventually i stopped seeing
the point in doing it anymore and :21.520 --> :26.640
eventually stopped. This ended up causing my
mom to have another excuse to invalidate me. :26.640 --> :31.280
After about two more months of trips to
the nurses office, having to stay home,
:31.280 --> :35.640 and the occasional crying from the severe
pain and the mental health problems that
:35.640 --> :40.760 arose from these headaches, I couldn't
handle it anymore, which leads to today. :40.760 --> :46.880
So after I relapsed my self harm due to my only
coping mechanism throughout these entire three
:46.880 --> :52.160 months (that being my phone) being taken, i
decided to look up if my headaches could be
:52.160 --> :57.920
linked to anything, and as it turns out, there
is a rare chronic headache condition that exists
:57.920 --> :03.160
called New Daily Persistent Headaches (NDPH),
and the description matches exactly to what I
:03.160 --> :08.080 was feeling. So I sent a teams chat to the
nurse, and while she can't do a diagnosis
:08.080 --> :12.720 without authorization, she believes me
(at least I'm pretty sure she does). :12.720 --> :17.760
She asked me to print out a copy of the article
i had saw and show it to my mom. So I did,
:17.760 --> :22.280
alongside a list of the symptoms I exhibited over
the past three months for her to compare the list
:22.280 --> :26.920 to the article. And I hoped at that point
she'd actually take a look and believe me. :26.920 --> :28.400
Well golly was I wrong. :28.960 --> :33.600
The second I told her about the condition, she
scoffed at me and told me that I didn't have
:33.600 --> :40.200
NDPH (even though it's pretty obvious + we cant
actually be sure until I see a doctor about it),
:40.200 --> :43.800 that the doctor's aren't going to believe me
because I haven't been doing what the doctors
:43.800 --> :49.080 told me to do, and that I shouldn't be using
WebMD for my research (even though I used an
:49.080 --> :53.920 article from the Cleveland Clinic). She also
kept asking me provocative questions about
:53.920 --> :58.560 the last time I drank water-- even though
I explained numerous times that I stopped
:58.560 --> :03.560
because it wasn't working whatsoever, and just
leaving me in more pain-- and she overall just
:03.560 --> :08.160 proved how little she was actually willing
to listen to me when it came down to this. :08.160 --> :12.760
My eyes are currently sore from crying as
i'm typing this, and I just want to say,
:12.760 --> :16.920 i'm ticked as freak. She pretty much
knew that I wasn't doing okay and that :16.920 --> :21.720
something was clearly wrong, but she cares
more about some stupid butt speech that is
:21.720 --> :26.800 never getting done because of my headaches,
more than the physical health of her child. :26.800 --> :31.400
By this point, I'm considering suicide
over this because it's gotten so bad to
:31.400 --> :35.840 the point i can't leave the house on the
weekends, I have basically no friends, :35.840 --> :40.120
I don't have a dream job because every
opportunity was shattered by my headaches,
:40.120 --> :44.600
and my mental health is slowly but drastically
getting worse, and I'm pretty sure my mom
:44.600 --> :50.160
won't care if i did it (Judging from the numerous
times she's invalidated my depression, headaches,
:50.160 --> :57.160
burnout... basically everything bad happening
to me), and all because in her eyes I'm "Lazy". :57.160 --> :00.880
No, Cheryl, Just because you have
headaches yourself does not mean :00.880 --> :04.840
you get to tell someone how to feel about
their headaches or whether or not they even
:04.840 --> :10.240 have a condition that causes headaches,
let alone your kids, the tiny morsels YOU
:10.240 --> :14.280 have to take care of until they are 18.
If your child suspects they might have a
:14.280 --> :20.720 chronic health condition and have provided
you with research, LISTEN TO THEM. period. :20.720 --> :21.760
Posted by :21.760 --> :41.240 u/MorsInvictaEst 2 days ago
:54.680 --> :58.080 Unbelievable insensitivity
ruins family get-together :58.080 --> :59.040 M
Disclaimer: :59.040 --> :02.640
I didn't witness the main event since
I only arrived later that evening, :02.640 --> :06.360
but I witnessed the fallout and my sister filled me in on the rest.
:06.360 --> :09.920 The entitled parents in question
are my sister's sister-in-law, :09.920 --> :14.880
a high school teacher for music and maths
as well as a catholic theologian, and her
:14.880 --> :20.240
husband. The husband is a university professor
from an upper class family who strongly believes
:20.240 --> :25.920
that his supreme intellect and background elevate
him above the plebeians, and he makes no attempts
:25.920 --> :31.680
of hiding this. As parents of an upcoming genius
they expect preferential treatment even from their
:31.680 --> :36.800 family members while strictly reglementing
their child's contact with lesser people,
:36.800 --> :41.920 such as his cousins. The poor kid is never
left alone, every movement is watched, :41.920 --> :46.080
play-time is often interrupted because he
shouldn't spend too much time with other
:46.080 --> :51.720 children and play with intellect-developing
toys by himself instead. You get the type. :51.720 --> :56.600
Now, this is what happened: We had a little
get-together at my sister's place over a holiday,
:56.600 --> :01.360
in part to support her brother-in-law and his
girlfriend, who had lost their child about six
:01.360 --> :05.920 weeks earlier and were just starting to
reengage with society after a period of
:05.920 --> :11.360
intense grief. Since it was the first evening
and everyone was just arriving my sister and
:11.360 --> :15.920
her husband had decided to just order some pizza
for everyone. Because they live outside of the
:15.920 --> :21.520
city limits the pizza place wouldn't deliver and
someone had to drive there and pick up the goods. :21.520 --> :26.880
My sister was still busy preparing snacks, her
husband was handling the kids, his parents had
:26.880 --> :32.640
just arrived after a long drive and needed some
rest, the professor was above such simple tasks
:32.640 --> :37.440
and the sister-in-law had her own child to care
for. But she had an idea about who could pick
:37.440 --> :42.120 up the pizza: She turned towards her brother
and his girlfirend, and said to them: "Hey,
:42.120 --> :46.520 since you are the only ones who don't have a
child, why don't you go and pick up the pizza."
:46.520 --> :52.200
Except for the children the room went silent for
a moment, then the girlfriend broke down sobbing
:52.200 --> :57.480
and the brother's face turned white before he
also started to cry and the two left the room. :57.480 --> :03.240
When I arrived about an hour later the mood in the
room was icy. My sister's brother-in-law and his
:03.240 --> :08.640
girlfriend had gone to their guest room and not
reappeared. My sister, her husband and his parents
:08.640 --> :14.520
had had a heated exchange with the sister-in-law
who steadfastly refused to admit that she had said
:14.520 --> :19.840
anything wrong. She insisted that she had merely
stated a fact, that they had had enough time to
:19.840 --> :26.080
grief and it was time to get over it, and that
she and my sister as "actual mothers" deserved
:26.080 --> :32.560
support, even from "those two". Meanwhile the
professor remained aloof, just watching things
:32.560 --> :38.240
unfold from the sidelines after confirming that
his wife's statement had been factually correct. :38.240 --> :42.680
There was also a lot of cold pizza, since my
brother-in-law had handed the kids over to my
:42.680 --> :47.720 sister and picked up the pizza himself,
but nobody had any real appetite left. :47.720 --> :52.160
When I got up next morning my sister told me that
her brother-in-law and his girlfriend had left
:52.160 --> :56.560
earlier that morning, apologising and telling
her that they couldn't spend the weekend in
:56.560 --> :02.240
the presence of his sister and, in fact, didn't
want to see her again for a long time. For the
:02.240 --> :08.320
rest of the weekend nobody was in the mood to do
much. We went for extended walks where my sister,
:08.320 --> :13.720
her husband and I formed a group while his parents
had lengthy discussions with their daughter, who
:13.720 --> :20.040
had become the weekend's pariah and only cemented
her status with her incessant whining about her
:20.040 --> :26.240
"unfair treatment" and "lack of support for her as
a mother". Other than that we didn't do much apart
:26.240 --> :32.640
from talking , watching some films and especially
ignoring her. What a fun weekend we had. :32.640 --> :36.080
At least they won't be coming to to this year's family christmay party.
:36.720 --> :39.040 Posted by :39.040 --> :45.280
u/HybridPhoenixKing 2 days ago :49.400 --> :51.200
Entitled grandparents M :51.200 --> :57.080
So this isn’t my family per say, but my roommates.
Recently his parental figure passed away,
:57.080 --> :02.240 and was cremated. He was defined as next
of kin, and due to Michigan law he was :02.240 --> :07.040
to determine who was to have the ashes. While
his grandparents said they wished to have it,
:07.040 --> :10.200 my roommate stated that he didn’t
believe his parent would want that, :10.200 --> :14.600
as they actively avoided the grandparents
due to extensive emotional and mental :14.600 --> :19.560
abuse throughout their life, and stated he
would keep the ashes as he is next of kin. :19.560 --> :22.720
They grumbled but my roommate thought that was the end of it,
:22.720 --> :27.240 over the past few weeks they have called
and called and called and once sent the
:27.240 --> :31.640
grandfather to try and reason with my roommate,
which ended with my roommate saying that his
:31.640 --> :35.400 parent wouldn’t have wanted to be stuck
eternally with their abusive mother and
:35.400 --> :40.200 the grandfather stated something along the
lines of “well you are right about that”. :40.200 --> :45.600
Again my roommate thought it was over. Until he
went to get the paperwork for the autopsy report
:45.600 --> :51.360 and found out his grandfather had been their
the day before and had acquired several copies. :51.360 --> :55.840
A few days later, his grandfather delivered
a note from the funeral home stating that
:55.840 --> :01.280 his grandparents had come forward later and
stated he was not the Next of Kin, and he was
:01.280 --> :06.400 to release the ashes to his grandparents
lest they seek legal action against him. :06.400 --> :10.200
That’s what happened just this night,
but even my roommates uncle stated he :10.200 --> :15.320
was next of kin. I would also like to state
the grandparents didn’t pay for anything.
:15.320 --> :19.440 They had my roommate or my roommates
family friends pay for everything, :19.440 --> :23.680
and up until the problem with ashes,
they called him grandson and everything. :23.680 --> :28.600
He’s not technically biologically related
to the parent, it’s an odd situation, :28.600 --> :32.880
but he was raised by the deceased, and the
parent cared enough about my roommate to
:32.880 --> :36.960 get his initials as a tattoo and
referred to him as their child. :36.960 --> :41.240
Right now we are trying to figure out the best
way to tell his grandparents to screw off,
:41.240 --> :45.120 cause we don’t believe they have a leg
to stand on, what do you all think? :45.120 --> :46.320
Posted by :46.320 --> :47.360 u/Foreversadandlonely 1 day ago
:19.080 --> :23.380 Entitled parent put me into debt to
buy a car for her spoiled second child. :23.380 --> :27.080 S
Yup. You read that correctly. My mother is very
:27.080 --> :33.200
entitled. Actually, you cannot do anything apart
from what she is demanding. She cannot communicate
:33.200 --> :39.600
or she is not willing to comprehend anything that
you are actually communicating. In 2018 she asked
:39.600 --> :45.840
(demanded) me to sign some papers for a new car.
Basically she was buying a new car under my name
:45.840 --> :51.240
so when I would get my license, that car would be
mine. I thought she was paying in cash, instead,
:51.240 --> :58.160
to buy a fiat 500 for my sister, she made ME sign
a loan (I didn’t know it) so she could fully pay
:58.160 --> :03.480
my sister’s car and let her live her life debt
free! I did not have that privilege. This kind of
:03.480 --> :09.320
financial abuse/bullying literally set me under
every achievement anyone my age had. I had to
:09.320 --> :15.840
focus on survival so no degree for me. No license
for me. Nothing! Had to spend my days worrying how
:15.840 --> :22.160
to repair her disastrous choices. I literally
need like a good 7/8 of therapy just because of
:22.160 --> :28.800
the financial abuse. No one I know had the same
experiences. It’s also very alienating. I have
:28.800 --> :34.680
ptsd from debts collectors threatening me (some
of them were also very sorry and compassionate). :39.240 --> :39.819
Posted by :39.819 --> :42.880 u/CallMeDesdinova42 2 days ago
:02.760 --> :05.620
I think I had my first Toxic Boy Mom encounter
:05.620 --> :08.400 S My family (myself, fiancé
:08.400 --> :14.000
and baby boy) went to visit my cousin for a few
days last week. The day we arrived, we all went
:14.000 --> :19.680
to pick her daughter (my 1st cousin once removed;
I'll call her my niece for short) up from school. :19.680 --> :24.160
When we got there, she was chatting
with a (boy) friend of hers. She saw us,
:24.160 --> :26.680 hugged him goodbye and ran in our direction.
:26.680 --> :30.480 My niece talked to us for less than 30
seconds before turning her attention :30.480 --> :36.560
to my son. She cooed over him for a while
before taking my fiancé's hand and having
:36.560 --> :41.720 him show our baby around to her classmates.
I stood next to my cousin waiting for them. :41.720 --> :43.800
As soon as my niece was out of earshot,
:43.800 --> :48.880 someone called my cousin's name. It was the
boy's mom. She was holding her son in her lap. :48.880 --> :52.280
She reached us, pointed her finger at my cousin and said,
:52.280 --> :55.400 "You need to teach your daughter
to behave herself. She shouldn't :55.400 --> :00.120
be talking to my son and they shouldn't be
hugging. They're way too young for that." :00.120 --> :03.120
She then left the classroom without waiting for a reply.
:03.120 --> :07.000 They're both five. He was
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serious friends of sociopaths or Psychopaths what was your most
uncomfortable moment to them my mom had me when she was young and regularly told
me that I ruined her life she told me that if she had the money she would have
gone rid of me I remember from a very early age that my mom would just stand
at the entrance to my room with a weapon this didn't happen very often maybe two
to three times a year one time when I was young I finally asked her why she
would do this I'll never forget how she said this she looked me straight in the
eyes and said that I was a mistake and she was deciding if she should have done
what she should have done a long time ago I asked to move in with my grandma a
week later thinking about how she said it still gets my heart racing 22 years
later don't know if I can accurately describe it but every hair on my body
stood straight up I was paralyzed with fear and I felt like if I moved too
suddenly she would strike man that's rough story two in high school my
boyfriend at the time and I shared a math class it was well known we were
dating so I would always take his homework at the teacher's request if he
missed it he skipped a lot I broke up with him over Christmas break he cheated
on me the math teacher still assumed we were together so he asked me to bring
his homework I did I got to his house waiting to drop it off at his door stab
he told me to come in and explain it to him he locked his bedroom door and
started saying things like if I can't have you then no one else can I could
get you back in a second just admit it Etc then the true kicker if I end you or
if you pass away I would keep you disclaimer I was never intimate with him
and I think that irritated him he then proceeded to try to be rough with me he
thought it was endearing and had no idea
why I was so upset I got out I called my mom to pick me up and ran back to the
school it lived close terrifying to this day I'm still horrified by it and him
last I heard he was trying to be a magician looks like Charles Manson and
is in and out of psych wards just to add my ex hated animals my dog passed away
while we were dating and all he said was good I didn't like that dog or any dogs
anyway his emotions were all over the map too he would cry in weird situations
and it would always seem forced pretty much stayed with him for as long as I
did because I was afraid of him he was pretty cruel Story three my cat recently
had a litter a relative of my husband said to my daughter come here little one
and show me which one you want to keep so I can get rid of the rest for your
mama my kid told him I'm keeping them all and you wen't allowed to pick them
up we lived in the Backwoods good old boy area the intel was well recognized
by the adults but it still freaked out my daughter who's now convinced that
dude might do something to her if she thinks she's a baby too kids are so
great with logic she thought he didn't like her cats because they were little
these relatives all have this attitude towards animals if a pet is sick or
injured you just eliminate it and throw it away they've also been doing it to a
Vermin for fun I used to be horrified when I visited them listening to the
kids cheerfully talk about getting rid of animals they would talk about what
they did to the poor rabbits and squirrels just because they could a cat
I think would be different a cat is a pet you don't eliminate your pet because
it has issues they also had two dogs who
horned their newly bought goat this goat
was maybe going to be sold at some point but instead of taking it as a loss they
got rid of the dogs that they had for years these dogs were sweet and lovable
but also unsupervised honestly their treatment of animals as a giant red flag
for me story for he had a gasp powered pellet gun it was one of my first times
being baked he also emptied a huge box of matches into the sink one time and
when we all told him not to he called us wussies and lit it all on fire it was a
major pyro I'm pretty sure he's in jail now we'd hang out a lot in middle school
and every day I'd be worried I'd say something wrong and be punished with
some unique torture like the P gun thing and stuff related to my anxiety like
making me sing in front of his friends I'm not a singer by any means he just
made me we'd always play weird performance related games like dance
offs or sing offs and whoever didn't want to participate usually me would
always be punished in some way not to mention that everything I say is berated
and never taken seriously I know it sounds weird that I kept hanging out
with him even after incidents like these but it was really funny and kind of a
wild card it wasn't all bad plus I was an only child and a year and a half
younger so it looked up to him like a brother
well that friend does seem like a psycho but how metal was it to make that fire
Story five I've been longtime friends with a sociopath he's honestly like my
brother I've developed this relationship around he treats me like his moral
compass but it doesn't always work he's still manipulative and cruel at times
and he only truly cares about himself but he tries to be a good person because
he doesn't want to be an a-hole this being said my most uncomfortable moment
with him would have to be when he was telling me about watching some guy
almost leave this earth it was telling me how he knew he should have stopped
watching helped him but he was too interested in what the outcome would be
if he didn't help it was creepy to know that asard as he may try to be a decent
person sometimes he still can't help himself some people have asked me why
I'm still friends with him and honestly it's because I care about him I don't
want any harm to come his way and he knows that so he trusts me which is a
huge thing for a sociopath I don't judge
him when he tells me about his dark like super dark thoughts and I appreciate
that he will always tell me the truth even when I don't want to hear it we
both have horrible fathers so it's nice to lament together for him our
friendship is beneficial and so we will remain friends I know he will never care
about me and that's okay story six contrary to what my son says I believe
he's a sociopath and possibly a psychopath as well he can be cruel to
the point of being a monster even though my son says he cares about others I
don't see it he uses people and doesn't care when he throws them away he was
terrible to me and I'm his mother my son told me that I deserve to be homeless
I'm not my son also threaten to eliminate me and said he should have
done it a long time ago he used me until I had nothing left for him to get and
then he pulled a weapon on me that was the last draw and I haven't seen him in
several years I raised him by myself and my mother and sister looked close by so
my son was around him a lot I don't know if my son was born to be the way he is
or what I'm not that way at all if it's in the DNA my son got it from his father
his dad is very manipulative and cunning can be charming and can be very cruel
the difference between my son and his father is that my son is much smarter
which is dangerous story seven my ex would say
headlines headlines which meant that would be headlines in tomorrow's
newspaper because he was going to end me
once straight forcibly took me I left in the middle of a fight to walked to work
and he jumped in his car pulled up next to me grabbed me and threw me in the car
he drove like a maniac swerving into traffic and super close to parked cars
telling me he was going to end us both he made me call my work and tell them I
wasn't coming in I was sobbing hysterically and it just played it off
like I just found out a close friend had passed away I don't remember how I
talked myself out of that situation but looking back I can't believe how weak I
was and just did what he said he got arrested for handling me super
embarrassing I'm so glad I snapped out of that I would never let anyone treat
me like that way again the weakness came from I staying with him afterward he
would cry in my lap and beg me to help him be a better man and there were
always Promises of never doing it again which of course were lies and he did get
arrested and the police were taking pictures of my roughed up face and
everyone was staring at me in the parking lot I should have loved myself
enough to get out when the officer took pictures and collected evidence a man my
grandfather's age looked me in the eyes and told me I didn't deserve it and
needed to get out I should have never looked back I'm ashamed to say I put up
with a lot more before I finally walked away I hate to say it but I think it is
a weakness I also think people can find a strength in themselves they never
imagined possible if they find a reason to see in themselves it doesn't Define
you in the long run unless you let it wow I don't think I'll ever hear
headlines without thinking of this now I can't believe I'm going to say this but
some of these stories are straight up giving me the chills they're just crazy
and if you want more of these videos just hit the like button and subscribe
to my channel story8 my sister is a sociopath it took me a lot of years to
realize this and stop rationalizing it I'm diabetic and have been in comas
during the last one in 2015 after a year of no contact she showed up at the
hospital saying I had expressed to her that my wishes were not to resuscitate
about 12 of my friends shouted her down and I Woke Up 3 days later on my own if
I had coded during that time however there would have been a lot of gray area
around if they were allowed to revive me
about 4 months later she took out a life insurance policy on me and asked me to
sign it I said no I no longer speak to her I should add that I now have very
clear wishes notorized and copies kept with my doctors and trusted friends
she's not taking me out that easily story nine I'm friends with a legit
psychopath not all psychopaths are necessarily a danger to society in the
sense of physical violence craziness or unreasonableness G is a close friend of
mine he's of shallow moral character devious manipulative ready to screw
anyone out of money and capable of being physical when pressed he's scary that
said he's deeply intelligent quick with a laugh and non-judging you could talk
to this guy about anything he just doesn't care he's a lot of fun to talk
to or party with because he's so unique I trust him to be himself he's never
screwed me over except I seem to lose money when I went into business with him
the creepiest he's been and he knows I feel this way is when we talk about
moralistic standards for society essentially he thinks the weak and
stupid should be weeded out put on farms or something he doesn't care about
anyone else save for a select few he just thinks he's better than others is
based on his smarts looks and abilities he feels the dumb should not be allowed
to thrive creepy huh I remember one conversation we had when buzzed that I
couldn't finish because we weren't getting anywhere with it he won't change
he doesn't empathize that said he's a reasonable person he's not going to put
his darker nonprofi thoughts into action he's not interested he likes money and
doesn't mind ripping people off a businessman cunning he exists for profit
that said he'd help me out of any kind of sticky situation mostly for the fun
of it he's bored a lot and he understands he needs others he likes me
because I'm interesting and he feels I'm on his level we speak openly about a
psychopathy because I'm so interested in it we've been friends for seven years
and were closed for three years before he moved to another city I stayed at his
house in 2016 for a couple of weeks story 10 I dated someone who I now
believe is a sociopath the most uncomfortable thing while we were dating
was that he would constantly whisper things in my ear in public like do you
think I look hot right now or do you think I'm cool the first few times I
thought I was joking so I laughed and and he'd get angry he wanted a serious
answer he wanted me to tell him how much I wanted to jump his bones right there
in front of all our friends while they were watching and listening I'd get
lectured afterward like you know you insulted me personally when you laughed
at me in front of everyone he could also cry on Q to get what he wanted and as
soon as he got what he wanted it would instantly switch off and he turned very
serious and tell me what a horrible person I was the instant emotional
switches are disarming when he broke up with me I went from being his favorite
person in the world to instantly being at the very bottom of his list he
laughed when I cried a multip occasions calling me ridiculous what's very
alarming about people like him is how many people they can get on their side
with their charm none of his current friends know anything about his behavior
behind closed doors they're all new people all the people who caught on when
we were dating are gone from his life has convinced his new friends that I'm a
psychopath because I tried to tell others what happened so whenever I say
anything about what a creep he is I get brigaded by the new people who are now
being manipulated also he's completely emotionless until you interact with him
and then it's like he becomes animated that dude reminds me of Dennis from its
Always Sunny in Philadelphia what a nut job story 11 I have a friend who's a
pathological liar is also mostly Scottish inheritage Northern Scotland
where the Viking influence is he 68 350 lbs when he's watching his weight 400
plus when he isn't and there is a lot of muscle to go with everything else the
lies aren't all that awful most of the time he's known as a very entertaining
Storyteller and everyone knows he'll embellish greatly from time to time but
he can't keep a girlfriend apparently he can't be honest and is a pathological
cheater the lives catch up with his relationships in a few weeks at most one
day we were in a taxi together and he got the idea that the driver was taking
an unnecessarily long route he stopped the cheerful story he was telling me
midson his face changed and He barked at the cab driver in a voice I'd never
heard loud angry and aggressive the cab driver immediately pulled over and let
us out without paying and a good thing too I think my friend was about to hurt
him I was petrified in my seat I was terrified it was the last time I spent
time with him though I'd known him for 20 years I later learned that he W to so
with someone after they've seen him snap as one of his other ex-friends put it
story 12 I just about H my sociopath stepfather while doing the dishes he'd
been doing his thing which was sitting behind me about 15 ft away and staring
at me without saying anything for about 20 minutes while I cleaned up the
kitchen after dinner 20 minutes of staring I was washing a knife and the
hair on the back of my neck stood up and
I realized it was right behind me it was
a big guy and I'm not sure how I did not hear him I turned around with a knife
and instinctively shoved it at him he managed to suck in has gotten and not
get caught I was saying over and over again get away from me get away from me
get away from me I didn't make a sound and went upstairs I was young and that's
when I knew one of us was going to go to
jail if nothing changed story 13 married one the last draw was the day I caught
his reflection as I passed by I saw Pure
Evil and hatred in his eyes I told him I was leaving the following week he said
if I ever see you somewhere with someone else I won't say a word to you I said
okay he then added I'll just walk up to you and hit you I
was moving some things out and looked under the bed for a pair of shoes I
found his Firearms fully loaded and out of their cases under his side of the bed
I went to the cops nothing came of it fast forward and he remarries before the
ink is drying the divorce his new wife ends him in his sleep she proceeds to
end herself by using his pain pills yeah I sleep better these days word from
relatives was that she was a psycho as well that he was getting ready to leave
her that she was stealing peain medicines from people but I don't
believe that at all he was a monster I guess some problems solved themselves
story 14 my uncle we found out about it in bits and pieces my dad and he worked
together he got my dad fired by saying all sorts of lies to their boss and then
pretend to be the White Knight by offering him a job in another country
where he's living money was tied back then and we were in a lot of debt so my
dad agreed he took him there gave him work but also made him a slave to his
wife and kids who also lived there dad was expected to cook food wash the
dishes clean up the dining table after my uncle's family ate and then eat
himself dad didn't tell us until much later according to the rule said by my
uncle he wasn't to contact us often should mind his own business even if his
daughter didn't turn up home all night and should keep his mouth shut about
work dad was miserable there and we couldn't do much because again that job
was a welcome relief to us Uncle meanwhile would come every night to our
home and have breakfast and dinner that my mom generously cooked because his
family was abroad while complaining about my dad in front of us one day I
had finally reached my breaking point and I started crying because I felt
horrible for my dad was trying so hard to make things right for us Michael just
sat opposite me smiling godamn smiling I will never forget that psycho grin on
his face Days Later dad suddenly turned up and announced at home it turns out
he'd been dumped by her uncle in her City without prior notice dad had no
guts to tell us what happened he realized uncle was a psychopath later
he'd routinely mentally torture people and enjoy their misery while pretending
to offer sympathy and help he's in a powerful spot so he offers his victims
jobs once they accept he makes them entirely dependent on him he' put his
victims under even more Psych ological stress be it by threatening to cut off
ties or getting them fired if they disagreed with him but Dad was messed up
for days he'd swing from utter despair to not speaking for days to extreme
violence to being broken I got roughed up a bit for trying to calm him down Dad
could finally regain his mental sanity after we cut off all ties to that Uncle
last we heard he wanted to contact my dad because their brothers and people
realized what an awful person he was so they avoided him too story 15 the sister
feels nothing but rage when she doesn't feel rage she feels literally nothing
she spends her life manipulating everyone around her and satisfying that
rage she had been mercilessly cruel to me growing up she tried to eliminate me
three times before I moved out no one believed me because I was older and
larger I was always considered the aggressor even when I was being targeted
in my sleep living with her was a nightmare the most uncomfortable moment
between us was something she did to me it was something I considered doing to
her I'd been sent up to the crawl space to get an ornament you could only access
it from a ladder in the garage when I grabbed it and turned around she was at
the top of the ladder staring at me there wasn't any room for her to come up
she was just waiting there staring she told me to get out of the way and I told
her I couldn't there wasn't room for two people in the crawl space she'd have to
go back down the ladder she immediately switched to rage she said she hated me
and she wasn't going to let me down from
the crawl space it was 110° in there air and I was already exhausted I remember
thinking she's at the top of the ladder over a cement floor I could make this
stop I just say it was an accident as soon as I thought of that her face
suddenly went blank and she went back down the ladder
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a it for implying to Mom I won't help her and my siblings out after I turn 18
my mom is a single mom and we struggle I'm 17 male the oldest and I have four
younger siblings 14f 12f nine male and 8 F we have two different dads me and my
14 and 12-year-old sisters share a dad and he walked out on us while Mom was
pregnant with my 12-year-old sister a year later she found another guy and he
was bad news but my mom was so desperate for a guy and overlooked a lot of red
flags she had two kids with him and then he stole from my mom and left without
ever looking back and left us in a really tight position after that my mom
would lean on me a lot and she asked me to step up and be there for my siblings
and help more around the house and I did it because I wanted to help my mom I
hoped it would mean she wouldn't rush into another relationship with another
dude who was bad news it was tough though like having to help with homework
and feeding my siblings and being responsible for most of the cleaning was
a lot my mom still did stuff it was just she had to work and couldn't be there
all the time but after a year or so of it she started to take her frustrations
out on me verbally she'd complain about calls from my school I struggle in
school even still or if I forgot to do something she'd tell me I couldn't let
her down and I needed to act more like like an adult and do better when I was
14 she asked me if I could start making money and I did I helped around the
neighborhood for some extra money and I got a part-time job a year later and
gave Mom the money from that but it was like she'd take it all out on me more if
I got home late from work or school she'd tell me to cut it out and I needed
to be more responsible if a bill wasn't paid on time she'd tell me to be less
useless or be more useful if I couldn't do something she'd ask me what good was
I doing she'd tell me I wasn't a kid anymore and needed to stop expecting the
life of one out of nowhere sometimes eventually I got so tired of it and it
became so constant that I started saving
money so I can get away ASAP mom doesn't know about it and I still give her the
rest of what I make because it's really the only way to save without her knowing
my mom expects me to stay here and help for the next several years until my
siblings are all older I'll be out of the house as soon as I turn 18 and I
won't consider staying for anyone not even my siblings mom has been extra
nasty lately to me and she was saying I should start looking for a full-time job
now so I can be a full second income I was like bold of you to assume I'll be
getting a full-time job to help out more and mom was then even more pissed and
she told me I need to get over myself and accept it she told me I was
such a dick for implying I could abandon
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stepmom got herself banned from my wedding after she had my child I'm 28m
and my stepmother 49f is a wannabe party
planner she has taken it upon herself to
plan and host every party and holiday my dad's family has thrown since she
married him I never loved those occasions growing up she's controlling
and gets upset if people complain about anything but humor her for my dad's sake
according to him this helps her feel included I'm getting married to my
fianceé Jane 26f in July we got engaged in early 2021 but Jane ended up getting
pregnant a couple of months after after that and we decided to postpone the
wedding to focus on our son for a while so we've had a long engagement my
stepmother has tried to hijack our wedding plans from day one complaining
contacting our planner showing up unannounced to Jane's dress appointments
Etc and we have repeatedly asked her to stop dad wants us to humor her but she's
clearly resentful of the fact that she's
not hosting the wedding or being labeled mother of the groom in invitations
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first story my entitled brother bullied me for being gay and outed me at our
school to further humiliate me so I went
no contact now 3 years later he tried to strike up a conversation at our family
gathering like nothing happened so I gave him the silent treatment now he is
having a breakdown and is begging to reconcile I'm 19 and my brother is 21
and is my only sibling I realized I was gay at a young age and came out at 14 my
parents were supportive from the get-go but my brother was absolutely not he
tried telling me I wasn't or that I was just trying to get attention and tried
to get me to change my mind when that failed he called me a freak diseased
said I was going to hell even though we aren't that religious and made it clear
he didn't want a relationship with me he outed me at school my friends already
knew and tried to get others to join in but no one really cared and nothing much
changed needless to say I vowed to limit
contact with him as much as possible but the comments continued until he moved
out when he turned 18 for school I've since gotten into a great school and
have completed a year and a half I'm in a relationship my grades are the best
they've ever been and everything seems to have fallen nicely into place my
brother sent me a Facebook message back in August he started by apologizing for
how he treated me saying he was depressed before and was stuck inside
his own head or fell into the wrong crowd online which reinforced his
bitterness towards others he said he'd gotten treatment for his depression
feels more confident than he has in years and was on the upswing and wanted
to meet up to repair our relationship he said he was proud of me for being gay
supported me and apologized for taking so long to make it known I didn't
respond nor did I respond to his happy birthday message in September then he
started texting me saying he understands if I'm still hurt but that's because
he'd love nothing more to make up for the hurt he caused I haven't responded
to these either here's where my boyfriend says andun T over the holidays
we were all back at my parents house I had a great time seeing my family
except for him each time he'd ask about me or try to talk to me I'd give him
one-word answers or clam up he offered to get a game for me as a gift but I
declined he pulled me aside to apologize face to face reiterating the stuff he
said before but I also cut that short and walked away meanwhile I talked with
my parents like normal and was very open with them about the happenings of my
life typically within earshot of them the day we left I said my goodbyes and
found him by my car crying he said he understands why I'm closed off to him
and that he regrets how it turned out he
wished me well and went inside I told my BF about this when I got back and he's
pissed and called me an awe BF says it's clear my brother feels badly about how
he used to be and that he's changed and that to throw that all back in his face
is a dck move my parents agree and say he's a good person but ultimately feel
it's up to us personally I've gotten so used to the idea of not having a brother
that I don't don't know if there's anything left to salvage he made his
choice to sabotage me then is it really my problem that he regrets his actions
now aah edit so my BF just texted and said that how I handled this thing has
him questioning things and that he thinks we should take a step back for a
while so that's cool update so it's been a few months since my first post and
since a few people were asking I thought I owed you an update I would have
provided one sooner but this is a throwaway and I had logged out earlier
the fact I remember the password is itself a miracle the tldr of the last
post was that I had ignored my brother's attempts to have a relationship with me
after the homophobic sht he threw at me when we were younger I'm glad to say
that's no longer the case a little after my last post I texted him that I
appreciated his words but that his actions had really hurt me and that I
needed time he texted back that he understood and to take as much time as I
needed he also thanked me for reaching back out to him I spent a lot of January
and February in self-reflection and trying to figure out what I wanted lots
of people in the last post said I needed
therapy and I agree I likely did I never
ended up seeing a professional but I got really into some guided meditation and
calming exercises I saw on YouTube making a habit of it helped me realize
how much weight I was carrying and has helped me start to let that weight down
I still have some ways to go but I can feel my empathy growing and I like that
I went home for spring break and saw my brother for the first time since
Christmas long story short we spend a lot of time hanging out and our
relationship is recovering we've had some hard conversation cried shared a
couple joints Etc and I came away from the break feeling much better about
everything and since each of our schools has closed down due to the pandemic
we're both at home doing our classes remotely and hanging out during the
downtime I want to thank those of you who said I'd probably regret cutting him
out because I can tell you were right my brother isn't perfect and did many
things to purposely hurt me but people can change if they want to and he did I
wouldn't want to be judged by my lowest point and I'm working on not judging him
by his I finally have my brother back and forgiving him has helped me feel
better in ways I didn't realize I needed thank you tldr forgiveness is a hell of
a drug edit to answer some common questions no my boyfriend from the op
and I are no longer together but for separate reasons unrelated to the
original post we just wanted different things and were at different stages of
our lives but it was a parting with minimal hard feelings I don't consider
his reaction to be manipulative it wasn't a hard do this or we through why
did my brother do it there's no one reason he was in a dark place and
dealing with a lot of issues in a bad way he was ignorant about a lot of LGBT
stuff and relied on that ignorance when it came to me it took a while and going
off to college and meeting new people for him to begin questioning a lot of
what he believed and since getting help for his unresolved issues it was a step
by step process until he saw how wrong he was he said he didn't even realize
how what he was doing was hurtful a lot of the time because he was so in his own
head and had some really bad influences on the internet reinforcing his mindset
I can understand that and I love how far he's come why didn't our parents
intervene even though they always had my
back they did a lot of the time but most of what he said or did wasn't in their
presence and I was not one to go running to them each time I was the victim of
something they are good people and I hold no animosity towards what they
might have done instead I'm thinking about showing my brother this and the
previous thread so he has a better understanding of how I felt about this
and May update later on how that goes also I just want to say to others out
there who feel they've been repeatedly wronged by someone to the point they
want to cut them off that I know exactly how you feel but the fact is people can
change if they want to and even if they do you're under no obligation to welcome
them back into your life but if you can find it in your heart I'd strongly
encourage you to give them a fair shot at doing so people do screw up things
sometimes many times or for many years before they realize it and feel remorse
we all only human relevant comment guistic it's hard for me to find a
reason to forgive family that purposely hurts family strangers I can understand
but family is the core of trust breaking that trust usually causes a domino
effect that outperforms the original Behavior I don't plan on ever forgiving
my brothers it's a trap op I understand understand where you're coming from
consider this if you would in my opinion there's much more reason to forgive a
family member than a stranger an injury from family hurts much more than an
injury from someone you barely know like you said family is supposed to be the
Bedrock of trust and breaking it can cause a lot of subsequent harm and while
your birth family is who you're stuck with by virtue of being alive they're by
no means your real family you choose who that is I'm fortunate enough that the
family I've chosen is also the one I was born into but many aren't so lucky
the fact is that humans can be Ary holes
idiot and selfish to the point that they hurt those they around sometimes on
purpose and sometimes without even realizing it but even if you choose your
own family the one you're born into knows you very well you have memories no
one else has you've shared experiences no one else has and even if you've cut
them off for good reason holding on to hate towards them or wishing them
Misfortune will have a corrosive effect on your own well-being not forgiving a
stranger just isn't the same the hate is just is corrosive but it's much less
relevant to you as a person and much less intimate a situation than the hate
toward a family member being angry at a stranger is like holding a red hot screw
being angry at a family member is like having a red hot screw between your
heart and your lungs you don't need to have a relationship with anyone if you
don't want to not even your birth family you don't need to make people feel
better if you think they don't deserve it but I urge you to look at the baggage
you carry inside baggage that may well have been thrust on you through no fault
or choice of your own and slowly allow yourself to let it down forgiveness
isn't about saying everything is okay or going back to where it was it's about
allowing yourself to heal from the damage others caused and leave it in the
past it's a very intimate thing to experience but a very scary thing to
even try but I encourage you to take a chance if you can you owe it to yourself
and who knows what can come from it Second Story my Golden Child sister
abandoned her daughter forcing me to adopt her which caused me to lose my
boyfriend of 3 years now 6 years later she came back
demanding my daughter's custody realizing I'm moving to a new country
then tried to kidnap my daughter still my entitled parents took her side so I
went to NC with the whole family my younger sister went through a pretty
rough time as a young adult drinking and
doing drugs and generally being wild she ended up getting pregnant early and she
did not want the child after giving birth despite never wanting children
myself either I stepped in and adopted my newborn niece as my daughter my then
boyfriend friend gave me an ultimatum and as he didn't want children either I
picked her and he left me which resulted
in me suddenly being a single mother the first few years were rough as a single
parent barely making ends meet but I managed and my sister had nothing to do
with us I never once hid the truth from my daughter that she was adopted but I
always assured her that I loved her so much and was her mommy when my daughter
was six my sister was finally clean and wanted to have access to her I allowed
it but stressed she would just be an aunt to her and she accepted this though
it's clear she struggled with a concept and sometimes acted more like a mother
which I always squashed quickly now that my daughter is eight and I've been
offered a job in a different country the pay is almost double my current salary
so of course I'm going to take it but this resulted in my family having a
meltdown about how I can't do this how it's cruel to take my daughter away from
her family and how it's not fair to my sister my sister has told me she won't
allow me to move away with her and that she'll fight in court to get my daughter
back I've talked to lawyers and it seems
she doesn't have a leg to stand on as my daughter is legally my daughter but the
rest of my family is telling me I'm being extremely cruel and if I cared
about my sister i' turn this job down edit as I keep being asked this yes my
daughter is excited about the move she's of course sad about leaving her school
and friends but I've been teaching her about the country and letting her try
foods from there she knows she can FaceTime or message her friends and will
be visiting secret voices not this post contains repeated information
with additional context to provide a clearer picture of the situation update
I am sharing my post from a because I think some of you will like it the
revised post as the title had an error in it my younger sister went through a
pretty rough time as a young adult drinking and doing drugs and generally
being wild she ended up getting pregnant and giving birth at age 18 when I was
just a few weeks away from turning 21 she did not want the child after giving
birth she refused to even pick up the child and would leave her sitting in
dirty nappies despite never wanting children myself either I stepped in and
adopted my newborn niece as my daughter my then boyfriend who I'd been with for
3 years gave me an ultimatum he or she didn't want children either so I picked
her up and he left me which resulted in me suddenly being a single mother the
first few years were rough as a single parent barely making ends meet but I
managed and my sister had nothing to do with us I never once hid the truth from
my daughter that she was adopted but I always assured her that I loved her so
much and was her mommy when my daughter was six my sister was finally clean and
wanted to have access to her I allowed it but stressed she would just be an
aunt to her and she accepted this though it's clear she struggled with the
concept and sometimes acted more like a mother which I always squashed quickly
now that my daughter is eight I've been offered a job in a different country the
pay is almost double my current salary and the company is helping us find a
home putting my daugh in an international school and providing after
school care so of course I'm going to take it but this resulted in my family
having a meltdown about how I can't do this how it's cruel to take my daughter
away from her family and how it's not fair to my sister my sister has told me
she won't allow me to move away with her
and that she'll fight in court to get my
daughter back I've talked to lawyers and
it seems she doesn't have a leg to stand
on as my daughter is legally my daughter but the rest of my family is telling me
I'm being extremely cruel and if I cared
about my sister I'd turn this job down I left home at 16 and finished my
education my sister meanwhile is The Golden Child who gets away with
everything she even now lives with our parents and doesn't work my daughter
while sad to be leaving her school and friends is excited for the move I've
been teaching her about the country every night before bed and we've gone to
some authentic restaurants to try food from there I've also promised her we'll
fly back at least once a year to visit and she can FaceTime or call her friends
I feel like my family is angling for me to eventually just hand my daughter back
over as if I were just a temporary filler for my sister which will
obviously never happen and my lawyers are involved in this matter update the
entitled sister tried to pick my daughter up from school so some of you
may remember my last post so I got a call from the school today that a woman
not on the list had come around and tried to pick up my daughter claiming
she was the mother she had claimed there
was a family emergency and she needed to take my daughter home early now only
only myself and my best friend are marked down as able to pick up my
daughter and when they wanted to see her ID she got kg and claimed she forgot it
when they told her she couldn't pick her up without an ID she shouted at them
before storming off I have spent all day
on the phone with my lawyers and my boss my schedule is being moved ahead I'd
wanted to give my daughter a final Christmas in our current home but it's
clear that's not a safe idea anymore our move has been brought forward and my
company is putting us up in a hotel until they help us find a home home
update so some of you may remember my previous posts about my adopted daughter
the job overseas that my family was trying to stop me from taking and how my
sister tried to pick up my daughter from school this will likely be my final
update so I just wanted to thank you all for your incredible words and support
during this time I am currently writing this from our room where we are
self-isolating in a whole brand new country I thought I'd give you all an
update while my daughter sleeps and I'm waiting for her to wake up on Christmas
morning first ly many of you may be wondering what country we're in and I'm
very pleased to tell you we are in South Korea for our own privacy I will be
leaving out the name of the city or area we're in the people here have been
amazing and have gone above and beyond for us as we're currently the only
family with a child here they even gave us a Christmas tree which we spent last
night putting up it would seem my attempts to introduce my daughter to
Korean cuisine have had an unexpected side effect her favorite food is now
fish fingers with kimchi I guess this is
the life of a mom raising their kid in a different culture it's revolting please
send help now many of you may be wondering about my family and more
specifically my sister well just because my lawyers talked me out of making a
police report doesn't mean we did nothing they gathered reports from the
school and CCTV footage and then I invited my parents to a meeting at my
lawyer's office where all the evidence was laid down they had no idea and my
mother broke down crying I made it clear our connections were firmly cut and if
my daughter is an adult and wants to get in contact we will reconsider them but
now for our safety we will be going no contact I kept the date of our flights a
secret and my best friend has my keys and is closing up the house for me and
going to ship me heavier items when we are properly settled my first action
upon entering the country was to contact
the local authorities with proof that my daughter was my daughter in case my
family tried to pull any bullsh the people here are also aware of my
situation and no one can find anything out about us without a password
I honestly feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders and this is the
start of a whole new life for us I wish you all a Merry Christmas third story my
daughter confessed that her mom's cheating happened 2 years ago before her
accident left her wheelchair bound and they both stayed silent and betrayed me
I want to divorce my wife but she is fully dependent on me and we recently
found out she has cancer I am not sure if this is the right place to post this
since my situation is very different from others but I am desate my wife and
I have been together for 25 years but married for 19 we are high school
sweethearts and have two amazing kids a daughter and a son I was honestly under
the impression that we had a solid marriage that our relationship wouldn't
be like that of our friends and colleagues and that we'd actually stand
the test of time now I see how spectacularly naive and wrong I was my
wife has been a stay-at-home mom for most of our adult lives something we
both agreed on but after our kids went to college she began feeling restless
and empty nest syndrome I guess she would tell me she was feeling
unfulfilled and felt like she had lost sense of who she was I tried
recommending Hobbies we could do together places we could visit or even
adopting puppies if that would help and at first she was all for it but soon
began saying she wanted to feel like she
was contributing and not simply coasting through life I understood and was
willing to support her she never liked sitting still so I kind of expected it
she complained to a few friends and one of them actually managed to get her an
interview at a real estate firm she used to work at one before having the kids
and I was just as excited as she was when she accepted in the beginning
things were going great but after the first year I noticed some changes she
started going to meet up with co-workers and began texting a lot more than usual
when at home and at odd hours at night she even started wearing a particular
type of perfume and would wear more suggestive clothing nothing too
revealing or SLT but clothing that complimented her body figure a lot more
than usual but what made me supicious was when I accidentally saw a message
from a male coworker on her phone who wasn't snooping which seemed to be
highly inappropriate and flirtatious I asked about it and I could tell she was
slightly shaken but she assured me he was simply a friend and she would talk
to him about his inappropriate messages me not wanting to be the paranoid
jealous and controlling husband chose to believe her and let it go oh how I wish
I didn't her behavior got more strange as time went on she started mentioning
how she wanted to be more spontaneous with life and even picked up smoking
wheat I made jokes about how she seemed to be living the same College lifestyle
as our kids and suggested she slow down but she dropped an absolute boom when
she mentioned in a drunken state after another night of going out that maybe I
dimmed her lights and held her back I was completely blindsided by this and
really believed I was messing up somehow so I tried to do everything to improve
the marriage even booking counseling but it went nowhere then out of the blue
that strange Behavior stopped my wife apologized for the way she had acted she
said it was like she forgot who she was but realized she had what she had at
home and knew she didn't want to lose it she resigned from her job and we began
MC it was tough initially things improved immensely and for the next 2
years our marriage was better than ever she was more attentive she initiated
intimacy more and would shower me with affection the only problem is that her
relationship with our daughter seemed to be in a nose dive I would question my
wife about it but she would tell me it was a growing phase or a woman thing and
once again I would take her word for it the funny thing is that during this
period my relationship with my daughter improved she would call me a lot more
meet me for coffee or lunch often during the week and even buy me gifts t-shirts
and stuff I always told her it wasn't necessary but she insisted and I could
always tell she wanted to say something but would hold her tongue a tragedy
struck one evening as my wife was returning from doing groceries when she
was hit by a drunk driver unfortunately she lost the use of her legs and has
been wheelchair bound ever since things got really bad and she would make
suggestions about me sleeping with other women which I obviously refused I just
choked it up to her depression and reminded her that I was here to stay
because I loved her more than our situation this actually made her cry and
asked me why I was so good to her or what she did to deserve me again and
again I choked it up to depression and just tried to help her as best I could
sometime later we went for our medical checkups and the doctor sat down to
inform us that they found a mass in my wife's throat it was of an unusual size
and because it may be cancerous they had to do a biopsy my first reaction was
shock whereas my wife was just blank at first then she started laughing it
started small then became hysterical as she began mumbling that this was her
punishment we managed to claim her down but she requested that before the biopsy
we could do a family dinner I of course agreed and we had our kids and immediate
family over I made a speech about how my wife was the light of my life and how
we'd get through this but at the end of my speech I noticed my daughter was
rather uncomfortable I thought that maybe it was because of what was going
on that made her feel that way the next evening my daughter called me drunk
begging me not to hate her at first I was confused but I reassured her that I
would never hate her because she is my little girl and I will always love her
at those words she went on to tell me how she caught her mother cheating on me
with a man she had never seen before it was during her my wife's time at at the
real estate firm that my daughter went on a road trip with some friends and
decided to pass by a dinner they don't normally frequent to get a bit and
that's where she saw her mother lip locking with a man that was nothing like
me apparently this was why their relationship deteriorated and ours
improved I confronted my wife and to her credit she didn't deny it through tears
she confirmed it was the coworker from the messages and says it was the dumbest
thing she has ever done she said he was always coming on to her and eventually
wore down her walls she tells me getting caught by our daughter made her realize
the gravity of what she was doing she wanted to take it to the Grave because
she never wanted to hurt me and was too much of a coward to confess so she
begged our child not to tell me I am absolutely Shattered by the Revelation
and don't know what to do I now question every aspect of our relationship and
wonder where I went wrong she tells me I
was a good husband and that none of this is on me the problem is since that time
I haven't been loving towards her I still take care of her but it's more
like a nurse does with a patient than a husband does with his wife if I leave
her she will be completely stranded she is dependent on me both financially and
emotionally and it seems immensely unfair sorry if it seems to be all over
the place but I am a mess right now update wow I had no idea so many people
were willing to help both on the post and in the inbox it really helps to know
we are not alone I did something I am not proud of my wife has always been on
my case to experience my true feelings and thoughts about her no matter how
ugly or cruel they may be not long after my first post in the afternoon as I
prepared lunch for her like I always do and just when I was about to leave her
for her meal she suddenly grabbed my hand and once again begged me to say
something to her anything because it was killing her the way I've been treating
her since our D-Day at those words I just exploded a lot came out of me I
told her that to me she was perfect but since this happened she has become used
in my eyes I told her that the very sound of her voice used to make me want
to give her the world but now simply being around her makes me want to run
and never look back I told her that now she is like a dead weight around my neck
that will never leave because it needs me to survive I explained that through
all this she is still somehow the first thing I think about when I wake up in
the morning and the last thing I think about when I go to sleep but those
thoughts are accompanied by a pain I never knew existed and it makes me
absolutely miserable because somehow I still need her I still want to hold her
in my arms but each time I touch her I have mental pictures of her with another
man but what eats at me the most is the fact that she dragged our daughter into
this she put our baby girl in an impossible position and expected life to
go on like nothing happened I pointed out that even despite her current
circumstances her relationship with our daughter has hardly changed and that is
the fruit of her actions my wife just sobbed softly through it all and at the
end she simply said she deserved all that was coming her way she said she
tried her hardest to atone for the disgusting decision ision she made
during that time and has never stopped seeking forgiveness from our daughter
she explains that seeing me in this state makes her feel like a murderer and
she will do absolutely anything to help me heal and recover from this she also
added that she wanted me to know that even if I never forgive her and end up
divorcing her she has and always will love only me and that she doesn't regret
our life and marriage because it is more than she could have ever asked for
apparently she can hardly look herself in the mirror because of who was looking
back at her and she never wanted to be that person I can see she clearly hates
herself for what she did but I am torn about all this I never knew it was
possible to absolutely love someone and hate them at the same time I have
decided to book therapy for me and my wife because I have a lot I want to say
to her but I'm afraid I'll go too far so speaking in a controlled environment
will be best I also have this overwhelming urge to speak with the man
she was involved with it may be useless after many years but I feel like I need
it for my own sanity I want to know who the man was who had the audacity to
actually come between a husband and his wife I believe I will ask for his
information during the therapy session once again thank you all so much thank
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would you be the jerk for telling your sons that
they wouldn't exist if you had a daughter first
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we'll get into that in a bit but first am I the
jerk for refusing to let my parents rename me
:10.280 --> :16.560 my 15-year-old male parents gave my sister
16-year-old female brother 13-year-old male
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and me nature names and more specifically water
nature names my sister is ocean I'm Cove and my
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brother is River they wanted our names to have a
theme without being matchy with the same initial
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so we got our name names the story was told to us
when we were little and my parents were proud of
:33.560 --> :38.160 the names they gave us back when we were all
stuck at home my parents started to express
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regret about their choices for us they actually
told us over dinner one night that they wish
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they had given us better names and apologized for
making us live with the names we were given a few
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months after that apology my mom and dad told
us they wanted us to be Elizabeth sister James
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me and Michael brother they said since we were
kids and weren't in college yet and nobody had
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their license at that that point it would be the
best time to do it all three of us said we didn't
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want to change our first names my dad looked into
whether they could do it when we said no and all
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answers he got pointed to a very strong no but
it was also unusual to change your older kids's
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first name so they went ahead and tried anyway
but once we were asked if we wanted different
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names they were told no my parents brought it up
a lot to us afterward my brother asked why they
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wanted to name him Michael and said the name was
crappy they told him Michael was a Timeless name
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that would age well and gave him some nickname
choices he said he hated it so they asked if
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he would consider Charles instead which he said
was an even bigger no our parents focused really
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hard on him for a while because he had asked the
question about the name so they figured he was
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to the name change I told my parents that I
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know they regret the names but we're all used
to and like our names and don't want to go for
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more boring or common names my parents argued that
in the future we will regret it and we'd have to
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pay for it ourselves when we were adults and we
realized having weird names does not age well I
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asked why they can't let us get there if we ever
do they said we should be thinking more of our
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futures and they accused me of having a really bad
attitude because I said James was as bad to me as
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Cove is to them now they told me to look online
and I did and I saw a lot of hate for our names
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but I told them it still didn't change my mind
my parents said we should respect them enough
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as parents to allow this and that we're all being
disrespectful am I the jerk so if you like your
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name that's great they might regret it but if you
don't regret your name you don't want to change
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your name then really I think this is dead in the
pun not intended water could people perceive these
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names as being maybe slightly Gody or showy names
sure but at the same time Ocean Cove River while
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that's definitely uncommon I wouldn't be like
wow that's a weird name personally I feel like
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like I would think that's nice different there's
nothing wrong with those names also hi I'm Steven
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or not all of these people are jerks why not hit
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said our next story is am I the jerk for bringing
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a friend home and letting her sleep on the couch
when my mom was over and supposed to sleep on the
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couch I 30-year-old female started college last
year during my second semester I met Phoebe 19 we
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were taking two classes together and we clicked
immediately we have a lot of the same interests
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and she's just a kind and smart girl Phoebe was
diagnosed with cancer over the summer she spent
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a few months in the hospital and now goes for
outpatient chemo every couple weeks on Thursday
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Phoebe called me and said her Grandpa was supposed
to drive her to chemo but he never showed up and
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asked if I could take her after her chemo she
fell asleep in the car I decided to bring her
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to my apartment to let her rest because she's one
of six kids at home and her house is loud not a
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good place for recovering ing from Chemo when we
got to my apartment I woke her up brought her to
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the couch and brought her some blankets she was
very appreciative of me letting her stay at my
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apartment the thing is my mom was staying with
us and she was supposed to be sleeping on the
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couch it totally slipped my mind when I brought
Phoebe home my mom got back and asked why Phoebe
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was here when she saw her sleeping on the couch I
explained the situation and she said it was rude
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of me to give up the couch without asking her
I called my husband explain the situation and
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he picked up an air mattress and extra blankets
for my mom but she's still mad I gave away the
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couch for the night I took Phoebe home Friday
afternoon my husband says he gets why I did
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it but he gets why she is upset am I the jerk
for giving my friend the couch when my mom was
:45.360 --> :50.040 staying with us I think this is one of those
doomed if you do doomed if you don't moments
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where your heart's in the right place but at least
as far as you personally feel you're never going
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to come out of this feeling like a true winner
I think ultimately since you had promised your
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mom that couch didn't tell her at all what was
going on and then left her with the air mattress
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I guess you could ultimately say op is the jerk
but admittedly it does pain me to say that our
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next story is am I the jerk for letting my baby
cry when she was hungry because we were stuck
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in traffic my husband and I were on a recent road
trip with our two kids under two we drove through
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a winter storm during the first few hours of our
drive on the second day the storm created icy
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road conditions periods of poor visibility and
eventually an accident that led to us sitting
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in stop and go traffic for quite some time my
husband has done a lot of driving in his life
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but does make me nervous because he's a distracted
driver and uses his phone while driving this means
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sometimes I see things up ahead before he does and
he hits the brakes harder or more suddenly than if
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he hadn't been distracted while we were sitting in
traffic both kids started crying this is typical
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for sitting in traffic they're happier in the
car while we're moving it was also about the
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time that our four-month-old should be starting
to get hungry I started trying to distract or
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entertain the kids to keep them happy my husband
mentioned a couple of times that I should just
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take our youngest out of her car seat and feed her
we were only going a few miles per hour and stop
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and go traffic on an icy Road surrounded by semi
trucks there was an exit coming up that would take
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about 10 minutes to get to and I decided I would
wait until we could get off the freeway and pull
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over by the time we got to the exit traffic had
started to pick up again we were going 40 mph and
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our youngest wasn't crying anymore so my husband
kept driving a few minutes later we were in stop
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and go again and she was crying again he ended up
angrily pulling over and feeding her himself at
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that point he wouldn't let me and I was worried
if I was feeding her he'd keep driving again
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anyway he maintains that I was being psycho and
neglectful for not wanting to get her out of her
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car seat when we were driving as fast as I can
walk walk while she was clearly hungry I feel
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that traffic can pick back up unexpectedly and
we were in conditions that didn't feel safe even
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if we were going so slowly am I the jerk for not
getting my daughter out of her seat and stop and
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go traffic to feed her when she was clearly hungry
my question is will the kids survive unharmed if
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you don't feed them right then until you get back
home or at least to the next reasonable checkpoint
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to pull over and feed the kid if so I think Opie's
pretty clearly not the jerk you don't want to be
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handling your kid holding your baby feeding them
in conditions where things can go south really
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quickly high speed or not I think the only issue
here is deciding to forego that stop even with
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still just pulled off and fed the kid our next
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story is am I the jerk for taking my kid's Nanny
on vacation and not my ex-wife the title may seem
:53.680 --> :59.440 like a given but it's not apparently about 9
months ago my current wife 40-year-old female
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and I 43-year-old male hired a nanny I have seven
kids four from my previous marriage and three for
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my current anytime we go on vacation I plan it
around when my other kids are going to be in our
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custody so we can all go our Nanny comes with us
as well as was discussed when she was hired the
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problem actually starts when my youngest from my
previous marriage 7-year-old female returned to
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her mom's and apparently all she talked about was
the nanny my ex-wife accused me of abandoning our
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kids onto our Nanny even though I don't they just
like hanging out with her yes she is paid extra
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for the other kids every time my kids go back to
their moms she calls and texts me infuriated it
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all came to a head when I discussed going on a
cruise with the kids my wife and the nanny over
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the summer because I have custody of them the
entire summer my ex-wife called me calling me
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selfish mean-spirited a horrible father Etc she
said I should have invited her instead of our
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Nanny because she's their real mother and the
kids already like the nanny more than her what
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will happen in 3 months and I never did things
like this when we were married even though I made
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significantly less money back then even my parents
and some of my family are agreeing that taking our
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Nanny and not the kid's mom is ridiculous so am
I the jerk should I have at least offered her to
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go I mean I don't see an issue with you paying
for and having the nanny join you as long as
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the Nanny wants to be there and I don't blame op
for not sticking their neck out to invite their
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ex-wife on a holiday vacation her insecurity of
being outclassed by the Nanny shouldn't affect
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anything going forward this next story is am I
the jerk for not attending my sister-in-law's
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wedding because she is identically copying my
wedding I told my in-laws I'm not attending my
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sister-in-law's wedding because she's decided to
copy my wedding my husband and I live in Michigan
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USA 5 years ago we chose to have a destination
wedding in the Outer Banks North Carolina we
:58.760 --> :03.600 invited our closest friends and family for
a full week of fun to include the ceremony
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we spent a year selecting the venue nationally
flying down meeting with vendors and selected
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the perfect beach front to have the reception and
ceremony yesterday a text message was sent from
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my sister-in-law who also lives in Michigan in a
group chat to the entire family announcing that
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she was now having her own destination wedding in
the same state on the same beach at the same house
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using the same vend ERS taking the same photos
and the same poses as my husband and I this was
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not discussed with my husband and I ahead of time
my husband and I told his family that by copying
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our wedding they are overriding our memories made
there and that it really bothers us we even found
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another house for her to book but she refuses
to change her venue my heart is broken and today
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we told them that we will not be attending my
father-in-law called me this afternoon and said
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that his daughter has the right to choose where
she wants to get married and that copying another
:59.160 --> :05.360
person's wedding was a compliment and no big deal
I need to know am I the jerk personally I can't
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blame op I mean I feel like they would be kind
of jerks if they're outwardly like complaining
:10.680 --> :17.200
and ragging on it but for them personally I can
understand not wanting to show up because if all
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of these experiences are darn near identical to
what you experienced you don't want to go to this
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place and see all these things and have those kind
of take over and replace the memories you had of
:28.640 --> :34.720 your wedding I think ultimately if you don't
want to go don't go but lashing out and making
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a big deal about this supposed copycat 5 years
after your wedding is most likely going to make
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you the jerk our next story is am I the jerk for
telling a doctor I don't need their consult I was
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born with a cleft lip and had extensive surgeries
to correct it now it's significantly less visible
:52.440 --> :57.080 and the result was told to be impressive on
the unrelated note I also have a wax issue
:57.080 --> :03.200
with my ears so I have to see an ENT specialist
doctor from time to time to get the wax removed
:03.200 --> :08.480
it happened to me before to have doctors which
are supposed to just remove my wax to Marvel at
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my cleft lip and the whole work done around it
for me it's weird because one I don't consider
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it that groundbreaking and two they're doctors
shouldn't they be more used to that however I
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usually don't say much about it anyway Q Dr Jane
who was supposed to remove my wax for the day I
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scheduled an appointment specific specifically
for that she does it and then proceeds to ask me
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to open my mouth although I told her the issue
is with my ears I comply foolishly imagining
:38.840 --> :44.120
it's going to be relevant to my problem but she
begins talking about my cleft lip and how great
:44.120 --> :49.400 the result is and wants to examine my nose
at which point I stop her I tell her there's
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nothing wrong with my nose and ask her if she
suspects there might be an infection spreading
:53.440 --> :59.200
to my ears or something she says something like
no I just wanted to have a look and see more about
:59.200 --> :05.120
your cleft lip I stop her again literally pushing
her hands away and keep asking if she's done with
:05.120 --> :11.960
my ears she says yes and keeps trying to see the
work for my cleft lip I told her to quit it that
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I'm not some sort of museum piece that she gets
to look at from all sides and that for my cleft
:17.160 --> :22.080 lip problems I see other doctors meanwhile I
got up from the chair and started to get my
:22.080 --> :27.440
stuff to leave she said there's no need to react
like that and all she did was try to help me I
:27.440 --> :32.040 explained all the help I needed from her was
with my ears and if I need more I'll let her
:32.040 --> :36.800
know by then I was already dressed with a hand
on the door handle she kept telling me this is
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no way of Behaving and I'm disrespectful to her I
almost snapped but told her as calmly as I could
:42.680 --> :48.760
that for me this is not an interesting case but
a lifelong condition and I'm not fond of people
:48.760 --> :54.520
pointing fingers at it I explained to her that I
find it unprofessional and rude I then just left
:54.520 --> :00.720
to avoid further conflict was I wrong clearly
this doctor did not understand just how much
:00.720 --> :06.000
this must have happened to op ultimately when it
gets to this point where op showing discomfort
:06.000 --> :11.720
does not want that privacy invaded this doctor
should have been professional and especially a
:11.720 --> :16.440
lot of that bedside men or training that they're
supposed to have should know to quit it and cut
:16.440 --> :22.000
their losses as far as investigating op's cleft
lip I get it's interesting and the doctor wanted
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to see it but op is not a toy I would honestly say
that kind of behavior is worthy of a complaint I
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just wish there would be a way to make that doctor
understand what they did wrong our next story is
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am I the jerk for not continuing my reception
after my husband went behind my back my now
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husband Lucas 26 and I female 25 were getting
married we decided to tie the knot as we were
:44.960 --> :50.280
having a little girl together and are madly in
love so leading up to the wedding day Lucas told
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me that his best man Jacob wanted to propose to
his girlfriend as it would be a great time and
:55.200 --> :00.240
is a nice venue to do it at I said that I didn't
want him to propose it at our wedding as it's our
:00.240 --> :05.640
special moment not theirs and that they can just
do it sometime else Lucas told me that his friend
:05.640 --> :10.760
was mad that I didn't agree I just wanted the
wedding to be about us because it was our special
:10.760 --> :16.400
day after that disagreement I thought nothing of
it fast forward to my wedding day we had finished
:16.400 --> :21.920
the church service and now we're at the reception
we're all having fun eating I'm eating my food and
:21.920 --> :27.640
then Jacob stops the music at the DJ booth to make
an announcement I just knew from that moment he
:27.640 --> :33.600
was going to propose I looked to see where Lucas
was and he was holding red and white roses walking
:33.600 --> :40.240
out to stand in front of Chloe Jacob's girlfriend
spelling out will you marry me I was shocked that
:40.240 --> :46.320
they went behind my back when I said no I got up
out of my seat and walked out it's been 2 days
:46.320 --> :51.640
since the wedding and my husband cursed me out for
not letting them have a special moment I responded
:51.640 --> :58.040
with I wanted the day to be about us because it's
our wedding not theirs and I'm happy for them but
:58.040 --> :03.720
the worst thing was even though I said no you
went behind my back about it since that argument
:03.720 --> :09.080
he moved to the guest bedroom and now most of
my friends are cursing me out on all my socials
:09.080 --> :14.680
am I the jerk I don't think op's the jerk but I
think honestly walking out was more passive than
:14.680 --> :19.560
I'd like to have seen I think I would have liked
to have seen op speak up during the proposal and
:19.560 --> :24.080
yell out that you told them not to do this during
your wedding I think that would have established
:24.080 --> :29.000
pretty clearly what the heck was going on your own
husband going behind your back here I understand
:29.000 --> :34.320 why op walked out our next story is am I the
jerk for telling my family their comments about
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my son's name are not making me regret the name
but instead making me regret them my husband and
:40.600 --> :46.200
I welcomed our son into the world in November we
chose the name Reed for him after some searching
:46.200 --> :51.480
neither of us got our first choice but we love the
name and it fits our son beautifully we believe I
:51.480 --> :56.560
knew my son's name was a bit of a standout among
my family they like to reuse the same names that
:56.560 --> :01.880
are popular and always seem to float pretty high
in naming charts for boys the top three in our
:01.880 --> :08.880
family are James Benjamin and William but Reed
isn't a weird or unheard of name my family were
:08.880 --> :13.520
all very quiet when we announced the name and
almost immediately they start dropping comments
:13.520 --> :19.360
about people making weird naming choices for their
children which never directly mentioned my husband
:19.360 --> :23.840
and me but we both felt it was aimed at us then
they commented a few times how there was nothing
:23.840 --> :30.600
wrong with good solid classic names that everyone
knows and loves and reuses but then they started
:30.600 --> :37.480
to say Reed was an odd choice or that they had
no idea where we found such a name even though
:37.480 --> :43.240
it's in the top 400 choices my parents accused
me of trying to be trendy and not thinking about
:43.240 --> :48.200
my son's future I decided to confront my family
without my husband present because I felt like it
:48.200 --> :53.160
wasn't fair to drag him into it more I asked them
what their problem was and why they were being so
:53.160 --> :59.400
mean about the name they told me that they hated
Reed and that they felt it was a very unattractive
:59.400 --> :03.800
name and we didn't think it through at all they
told me we should have reconsidered and given
:03.800 --> :10.440
him a real name not something trendy that came
up in the last 20 to 30 years they said we had
:10.440 --> :16.080
so many beautiful names to choose from and we made
a horrible decision then they said they had tried
:16.080 --> :20.920
to gently show us the light but we ignored their
efforts I told them if their comments about my
:20.920 --> :26.320
son's name were supposed to make me regret the
choice then they failed because all it did was
:26.320 --> :32.800
make me regret them because they were being rude
and hurtful my family did not take my comment well
:32.800 --> :38.320
and told me I was being rude and I was behaving
like a child who can't accept the truth am I the
:38.320 --> :44.440
jerk is Reed even that weird of a name I can't
recall if I know a reed personally but like if
:44.440 --> :49.480 I came across anybody with the name Reed I'm
definitely not going to go wow what a bizarre
:49.480 --> :54.920
name I'm sorry for them I'm not sitting there
hearing Reed and thinking oh their Future's done
:54.920 --> :00.200
for now if you named your kid like Jackhammer
or some something maybe I could understand our
:00.200 --> :05.240
next story is am I the jerk for telling my mom
no one asked you to have another kid I'll give
:05.240 --> :10.960
background to who I am I'm 16-year-old male with
two parents 38-year-old female and 40-year-old
:10.960 --> :18.400
male three younger sisters 14 1 2 and one doe in
March I'm in High School junior year doing well
:18.400 --> :25.040
passing my classes with mostly A's making honor
rooll every year and a good kid in high school I
:25.040 --> :30.560
wouldn't consider myself a lazy person either as
I work Out 3 to five times a week wrestle during
:30.560 --> :35.640
the winter and clean the house two to five times
a week I don't normally socialize often outside
:35.640 --> :40.960
of school as I don't feel motivated to do so so
then I just stay inside and either play my game
:40.960 --> :47.360
read study a language or pray 3 years ago my mom
and dad both worked my mom used to work around
:47.360 --> :53.800
50 to 80 hours a week to catch up on bills often
times she would come home tired and would sleep
:53.800 --> :59.480
during the day while my dad worked around 40 to
50ish hours and would be tired too often times
:59.480 --> :05.360
my mom would complain about no one doing anything
around the house and calls me and my sister lazy
:05.360 --> :10.160
I usually don't say anything to those complaints
but sometimes I get irritated and say I actually
:10.160 --> :15.200
clean around the house and that you only sleep
so of course you wouldn't pay attention moving
:15.200 --> :19.800
forward a year or so when my mom announced she
was pregnant I was kind of irritated because
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she would always complain about bills and how she
needed to catch up on them I proceeded to say how
:25.720 --> :31.040
are you going to say you need to catch up on bills
but then have another child I can't remember what
:31.040 --> :36.560
she told me but a month or two later the reason
she wanted to have another kid was because I love
:36.560 --> :41.560 being a mother in my head at the time I kind
of seen it as selfish as she didn't want to be
:41.560 --> :48.480
alone somewhere in June or July 20123 my mom was
pregnant but then had a miscarriage 5 Weeks Later
:48.480 --> :53.840
2 weeks later she gets pregnant again with a girl
I wanted to work over the summer and be a little
:53.840 --> :00.160
bit more independent as I'm only a few years from
being a legal adult so I ask my mom can I work
:00.160 --> :06.160
she says yes but she needs to get money for an ID
the next thing you know she never gives me my ID
:06.160 --> :11.920
to work my mom complains that I go out a lot and
give my attention to my girlfriend instead of my
:11.920 --> :18.760
baby sister or the things around the house seeing
I half butt things around here many times I don't
:18.760 --> :23.920
have a problem with playing with or watching my
sister but at times my mom makes it seem like I'm
:23.920 --> :30.440
obligated to watch my sister anytime she's tired
from work or sees she's struggling and that she
:30.440 --> :37.040
once again says she pays for everything and all I
do is ask for items just because I clean the house
:37.040 --> :44.080
like I'm supposed to do which I feel as isn't true
as I hardly ask for wants one comment she said was
:44.080 --> :49.040
can I walk to school mind you it's the winter
and when I wanted to walk to school she said it
:49.040 --> :54.560
wasn't safe to do so and she won't be paying my
phone bill anymore as it's her money and have my
:54.560 --> :00.000
girlfriend pay for it instead I made the comment
when I wanted to work you said no because I'm not
:00.000 --> :05.120
ready then started yelling at me telling me to
go to my room while slamming the doors there's
:05.120 --> :10.720
definitely some weird controlling Behavior going
on here it honestly sounds to me like she doesn't
:10.720 --> :15.800
want you to become too independent because she
wants to be able to still kind of use you for
:15.800 --> :20.720
whatever she wants to do she's honestly trying
to have it both ways where she's complaining that
:20.720 --> :25.920
you're not working hard enough you're not being
independent enough for specifically the things she
:25.920 --> :31.880
wants you to be independent for but then anything
that you want to do or however you want to further
:31.880 --> :37.920
your life she's not there for any of that our next
story is am I the jerk for telling my boyfriend he
:37.920 --> :44.040
deserved to get humbled I 18-year-old female and
my boyfriend 19-year-old male have been dating
:44.040 --> :51.000
since we started college in October 2021 for the
past I'd say 8 months my boyfriend has become very
:51.000 --> :57.480
interested in UFC MMA I don't know what to call
it he gets up at like 3:00 a.m. to watch fights
:57.480 --> :02.560
and often has play fights with his friends one of
these friends are important in this situation I'll
:02.560 --> :08.560
call him s we had a very large group of friends we
all graduated in summer but we all kept in touch
:08.560 --> :15.280
over summer until now now these play fights or
spars as my boyfriend would say were all fun in
:15.280 --> :20.480 games but they actually led to my boyfriend
believing he could actually fight because s
:20.480 --> :26.600
who says he does MMA said he's naturally good this
led to a massive ego and he said that he wanted to
:26.600 --> :31.920
have an actual fight and one of our other friends
dad owned a gym with a ring and he said he could
:31.920 --> :37.400
let him fight there I don't know if that was even
legal s proposed a guy for him to fight and it was
:37.400 --> :43.600
a guy back from school I'll call a s was friends
with a not close friends and I knew a because we
:43.600 --> :49.880
used to sit next to each other in class s said
he'll try to get a hold of him a agreed shockingly
:49.880 --> :55.440
when a agreed I did express some concern to my
boyfriend multiple times and he didn't listen
:55.440 --> :01.160
a was a quiet guy but as we sat next next to each
other for a year I knew probably more than others
:01.160 --> :06.600
about him he was pretty much just one of those
traditional masculine males in a physical sense
:06.600 --> :12.200 worked out 6 days a week rode horses and did
archery owned large dogs but was one of those
:12.200 --> :17.480
guys that looked intimidating but was actually a
nerdy and friendly guy my boyfriend didn't like
:17.480 --> :22.680
a or A's friends and neither did the rest of the
boys in our friend group I always questioned my
:22.680 --> :28.520
boyfriend on this as a had literally never even
spoken to him and my boyf friend used to say
:28.520 --> :34.000
it's because a is so arrogant and thinks he's so
goodlooking this led to a lot of arguments with
:34.000 --> :39.120
my boyfriend because why did my boyfriend care
if other women were attracted to a when he had
:39.120 --> :44.240
me nobody knew if a could fight but as said he
told him something about he had been training
:44.240 --> :50.680
in some form of martial arts the whole buildup to
this was my boyfriend was acting so childish he'd
:50.680 --> :56.600
constantly try to insult a in a group chat that
was made and a wouldn't even open them 90% of the
:56.600 --> :02.120
time and I don't think he responded once when the
fight came along there was only one outcome from
:02.120 --> :09.760
the start a was visibly towering over my boyfriend
and he had clearly bulked up on top of that turned
:09.760 --> :16.320
out he could fight my boyfriend lost and I'd say
90 seconds after it I didn't bother consoling
:16.320 --> :21.880
him I bered him because I expressed my concern
multiple times and he picked not to listen to me
:21.880 --> :27.720
he said I'm the jerk because I should support him
unconditionally if I really loved him he now won't
:27.720 --> :32.080
speak to me because he says I embarrassed him
in front of his friends while he was vulnerable
:32.080 --> :36.760
part of me feels bad but I feel like he needed
to hear the truth I don't think op's the jerk
:36.760 --> :42.400
here but considering the boyfriend's beliefs and
their standpoint in view on this situation I wish
:42.400 --> :48.200
op the best for their relationship going forward
if anything happens maybe you should check if A's
:48.200 --> :53.880
available our next story is am I the jerk for
not agreeing to my mom's husband adopting me so
:53.880 --> :01.240
my brother will agree my brother 13-year-old male
and I 16-year-old male lost our dad 10 years ago
:01.240 --> :06.840
mom got married to Jared 6 years ago and after
like a year my mom asked us if we would be okay
:06.840 --> :13.120
with Jared adopting us and maybe changing your
last names to his or adding his as a hyphenated
:13.120 --> :19.040
last name I said no and my brother followed my
mom decided we should discuss it some more in
:19.040 --> :24.840
Family Therapy and we went for a few months then
we had no therapy when stuff closed down and then
:24.840 --> :30.160
we returned when an office therapy was back on
the table throughout the stay- in place order my
:30.160 --> :35.880
mom would ask us about our feelings and if we were
more open to the idea recently my mom decided to
:35.880 --> :42.280
try the divide and conquer way since the therapist
mentioned that my brother said no because I was
:42.280 --> :48.720
she tried talking to my brother and he was adamant
he would say no as long as I'm saying no Mom then
:48.720 --> :54.640
sat me down and asked me why I was saying no she
told me she had a few she told me she had a few
:54.640 --> :00.320
very practical reasons to want the adoption to
happen happen including protection for us if she
:00.320 --> :05.160
were to die so we could stay with her husband I
asked her if that was because she knew I would
:05.160 --> :10.360
want my extended family to fight for custody and
to live with them but because she doesn't like
:10.360 --> :16.200
them she wouldn't want that and knew my decision
would carry some weight unless I was adopted first
:16.200 --> :21.800
she denied it initially but then said yes then
asked me why I was against the adoption I told
:21.800 --> :26.840
her I didn't want another legal dad and didn't
want the protection being adopted would offer she
:26.840 --> :32.120
then told me about my brother saying no because
I'm saying no and she wanted me to agree so he
:32.120 --> :38.160
would change his mind I told her that won't happen
and nothing she says will change my mind she asked
:38.160 --> :43.800
me to at least encourage him to be adopted and
I told her I would not I did speak to my brother
:43.800 --> :49.000
anyway and he said he doesn't want to do it if I'm
not and it would feel weird to him to be adopted
:49.000 --> :54.840
by Jared when I'm not he doesn't remember our dad
so the attachment isn't a reason for him like it
:54.840 --> :00.240
is for me I told him I wouldn't be mad at him if
he said yeah he said he knew that but still mom
:00.240 --> :05.320
and Jared sat me down and asked me again to say
yes so he could adopt my brother and once again
:05.320 --> :11.240
I said no Mom started to cry and she got really
angry with me Jared said I was at the age where
:11.240 --> :17.040
I could be mature and compromise on this he told
me I might not love him but surely I don't hate
:17.040 --> :23.560
him so much that I would rather end up in foster
care than in his care if mom died he also said I'm
:23.560 --> :28.560
putting my brother at risk am I the jerk I don't
think Opie's the jerk care if they don't want to
:28.560 --> :33.080
be adopted they don't want to be adopted and if
the brother because the other kid doesn't want to
:33.080 --> :37.440
be adopted doesn't want to be adopted that's kind
of their choice and the courts are not going to
:37.440 --> :43.080
force that the parents are just going to have to
move past that our next story is am I the jerk for
:43.080 --> :48.720
telling my sons that we would have only one child
if my daughter were the first born I 39-year-old
:48.720 --> :57.680
female have three kids with my husband 46 our two
boys 13 12 and our girl 10 before we became became
:57.680 --> :03.720
parents my husband and I were oneandone meaning we
only wanted one child and we wanted a girl and if
:03.720 --> :09.800
our first child would have been a girl she would
very likely have been an only child however I am
:09.800 --> :15.760
beyond thankful that we had to try three times I
love my boys and wouldn't trade them for anything
:15.760 --> :21.080
in the world but the truth is that we only tried
three times because the first one and the second
:21.080 --> :27.160
one weren't girls yesterday my boys were picking
on their little sister normally they adore her
:27.160 --> :32.720
but yesterday they would not stop making fun of
her they said something like we should put her up
:32.720 --> :38.200
for adoption because she's the last one they were
obviously joking but it upset their sister to the
:38.200 --> :44.720
point where she had tears in her eyes I told them
to knock it off again and again but they continued
:44.720 --> :49.320
in the end I said that they should be thankful
that their sister is the youngest one because I
:49.320 --> :55.720
only wanted a girl and they wouldn't be there if I
had my daughter first they looked at me in horror
:55.720 --> :01.520
my oldest one asked me if this is really true and
I said yes I know it was harsh and hurtful but
:01.520 --> :07.360
they were bullies my younger son started to sob
and the older called me a witch then they ran to
:07.360 --> :14.160
their room when I told my husband what happened he
called me an absolute jerk and nut job for telling
:14.160 --> :19.840
our sons the truth when I begged him to help me
Comfort them he told me to freak off and now he
:19.840 --> :26.120
and my boys are not talking to me and the boys
are ignoring their sister am I the jerk so even if
:26.120 --> :31.120
this were the case even if you did have a daughter
first and that would have been it that's the kind
:31.120 --> :36.320
of thing that you take to your grave that is not
something that you need to put a lifelong trauma
:36.320 --> :41.760
knowing that they were looked over or desired less
because they weren't a daughter 13 years old and
:41.760 --> :47.240
younger there's still very much kids they're just
being bullies the way sometimes siblings do you
:47.240 --> :53.080
don't give them a possible lifelong mental trauma
note just to try to get back at them but with that
:53.080 --> :58.920
being said that's all the time we have for today
now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy
:58.920 --> :04.160
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aita for prohibiting my family from ever having anything to do with my father
after my mom passed away I never thought I would make a Reddit account and post
my life on it but here I am at 2 a.m. was abused by my father you name it he
did it I have several scars on my body due to his abuse I'm practically a
walking art gallery of my father's work my mother was a saint on the other hand
I don't know why she never left but I imagine it was for me she was a victim
of my father as well but for some reason stayed with him I moved out at 18 and
lived a nomad life in my VW bus working on jobs to put food on the table until I
met my now wife 30f she was a lot more established in life thanks to her
parents financial support I moved in with her and it did not take long before
we had kids 9M and 10f I remained in contact with my parents I did not
disappear out of their life mostly because of my mom I haven't told my wife
or my kids about my father and the kind of man he was I just never wanted to
bring that up it was not their business either way my mom was extremely happy to
meet her grandkids so was my father do you know those memes where the parent
acts completely different than what you know them for yeah imagine that he was a
completely different person it disgusted
me but I could not take the joy of being a grandma for my mom I swallowed my
feelings and allowed my kids to develop a relationship with my parents they grew
attached to them and we often took them to go see them every weekend my mom
always made their favorite food and spoiled them my father also enjoyed
spending time with my kids kids as much as I hated it I kept my feelings buried
my wife loved them and also had a good relationship with them she would often
invite them over for dinner and for whatever celebration we had going on two
months ago my mom passed away from a heart attack as you can imagine I was
devastated when the funeral was held everyone was crying including my father
seeing him cry made me angry I felt so disgusted when my mom got buried and
everyone left it was my father and I who
were the last ones left I told my family
that we needed a moment and that I would meet them later I told my father that I
didn't want him in my life or my family's life anymore I let out all the
anger and disgust I felt seeing him with my children the final thing I told him
was that he would die alone because neither I nor my family would be around
I do not Reg it I wanted that part of my
life cut out for the longest time I told my wife when I got home to never bring
my father up to me or the kids that he was as good as dead she asks what about
the kids that they loved him and that he had grown on them that I couldn't do
that to them that it was my father and I couldn't just leave him because I was
all the family he had left she tried to argue and go against my decision but I
told her that I did not care about how they felt about it that it was Final I
told my kids as well they started balling their eyes out and doing their
best to curse at me my wife is angry at me and feels it is unfair because it is
not only my relationship I'm cutting I haven't allowed my wife to call text
mention or even take my kids to go see him she has tried and I have put a halt
to it and reminded her that I was not kidding that my father is dead to me and
that to quit trying to be involved with him she and the kids have made numerous
Jabs at me throughout the past few days and my wife feels that I'm being a huge
and unfair that I was not taking my kids or her feelings into
consideration my kids have been really upset and haven't really spoken to me
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op1 19f woke up with Seaman on her face and her mom 45f won't believe her
yesterday morning I woke up to seaman all over my face and pillow I didn't
know what to do but I just went to the shower and cried for 2 hours then washed
all my sheets and pillows I'm not sure if that was a mistake or not since if I
didn't wash them I might have proof but in the moment I just wanted to be clean
around the end of the day I broke down and confided in my mom she helped me
calm down and was patient about it but suggested I probably just dreamed it or
mistook what it was I tried telling her that I didn't dream it and that it was
definitely what I thought it was but she just told me to go rest try and forget
about it all I feel like I'm going crazy and I'm on edge around all the men in
the house now I'm not sure who it could be and that is making me feel unsafe
around all the men right now the men in the house are my dad 50m my brother's
22m 24m and 27m and my sister's boyfriend but I know it's not him as he
is FTM I'm scared in my own home home and my mom won't believe me but I have
nowhere else to go all my friends have moved or are on vacation and any other
family members live out of state is there a way to convince my mom I'm
telling the truth edit my sister is home from work now the situation is worse
than I thought I talked with my sister she is with me now and will stay with me
in my room till we can both get out of the house tonight we will go stay with
her boyfriend for the time being she told me something nearly identical
happened to her about a month ago and told our mom and she told her the same
thing that she did to me I don't trust our mom anymore I feel violated and
angry my sister didn't even come to me because Mom gasted her just like she did
me I want to just scream at her I won't be replying for a while sorry me and my
sister are packing and want to just comfort each other and get out of the
house as soon as possible thank you everyone for the advice some comments if
you can't get them to give you a lock I would go ahead and purchase some door
stoppers Amazon has some incl including ones that have a sound for an alarm if
anyone tries to enter while you are sleeping I saw one for like $7 I just
searched on Amazon for door stopper alarm stay safe link op replies that
sounds good I didn't know something like that existed how loud can they get I
take some heavy sleeping medications for insomnia that really knock me out so I
would probably need a decently loud one she gets further advice this is
extremely relevant to your post sleep medications that Knock You Out
op you are going to want a hidden camera to have evidence next time since you
likely won't be safe with a lock make sure you have the camera at an angle
where it's clear someone did something to you not just looking at their back
make sure the video footage cannot be accessed and deleted without a passcode
since a fingerprint biometric is easy to access I don't know much about the
Dynamics in your house but if you could conceivably believe one of your family
members put semen on your face I'm guessing it's not safe and it hasn't
been for a long time your parents not allowing you to put a lot lock on your
door is a sign there are issues with boundaries in this household sadly it is
very common for parents to excuse downplay and ignore abuse within
families a normal response would be shock concern and horror your mom
telling you it was just a dream is textbook gaslighting I'm sorry she isn't
protecting you being ejaculated on in your sleep is saay it's completely
unacceptable it's a criminal offense is there any way you can leave that house
and find a safer living Arrangement you deserve live in a safe home with Safe
People op replies there's no one I can stay with but I am looking at women's
shelters in my area and might see if I can stay at one if possible I'm so sorry
that this happened to you and that your mom doesn't believe you it's not right
and it's not fair can you tell someone at school teacher or counselor you trust
grandparent or other family even if out of state I would get on a plane
immediately if my niece told me this happened to her and that her mom didn't
believe her can you tell your sister or her boyfriend
can one of them stay in your room at night until you get a better plan in
place op replies I will try to talk to my sister and her boyfriend when she
comes home from work they are the only people I feel I can trust right now it
might be good for me to ask if they could sleep in the room with me until I
can get some cameras there's not much family I can tell the person I would
trust to tell would be my grandma unfortunately she passed last year all
my other relatives I don't know well as they are out of state and I don't see
them often without Pro there's no way to convince your mom of
anything you could bring it up at the dinner table though so which one of you
losers came all over my pillow last night see who looks guilty seriously
though put a good lock on your door op replies I've been asking for a lock
since I was 13 my parents refuse and bringing it up at the dinner table would
be too difficult for me I only told my mom because I trusted her but she
wouldn't trust me someone suggests op actually believes her but dismisses it
is it possible your mom knows this is true and is deliberating brushing it
aside op replies I don't know what to think anymore I didn't think any of my
family was capable of something this disgusting so I'm not sure anymore
update post on our relationship advice me and my sister stayed with her
boyfriend for a few days then decided to take some advice from here and tell the
family what happened we told everyone through a group text that we didn't want
to do it in person since there was just too much anxiety without going into
exact details me and my sister are now back in our home after some things went
down mom has been kicked out and she is currently in the hospital dad and our
other brothers have been a big help and support unfortunately dad now has a
court date but we have been told by lawyers that it is unlikely our dad will
face any time so that's good as for our 27-year-old brother it's unlikely the
police will do anything about him but we have him out of our Lives now and we
feel a lot safer in our own home I'm just glad it's over that me and my
sister are protected in this house now and that our dad and other brothers
Believe in Us thank you all for your support some comments I am glad that you
and your sister are safe did your mom try to downplay or even dismiss the
seriousness of the brother's actions after they were revealed and that's why
she was kicked out link o elaborates on what her mom knew and the aftermath from
what I know Mom was aware it was him from what I have learned in the past
couple days he did something similar to a cousin years ago dad wanted him out
but Mom stuck up for him and promised to get him into therapy I guess I know why
my dad and brother didn't get along so when we texted that group text dad knew
immediately and got a bit violent kicked mom out and put 27m in the hospital
given the circumstances this was a good update did you guys end up finding proof
that 27m was the PA if so I'm glad your dad sorted him out and that he's now out
of the family doing that to a younger sibling is disgusting so did your mom
know and cover it up or was she just a bad parent in either case she failed her
Duty as a parent and let you down op replies there is no solid proof mom knew
it was him someone hopes for a divorce that's abhorent given your Dad's
reaction I hope heun on the war path and divorces her if she knew this likely
wasn't the first time he'd done something like this op confirms yeah dad
is getting everything sorted out for a divorce I won't be seeing her again
either and I hope I never do I'm glad my brother is in the hospital but I just
hope dad doesn't get into too much trouble for it another comment so I
guess the reason he's in the hospital is because your dad kicked his ARS good
op's response yeah from what I heard from my brothers they went nuts on him
and probably would have killed him if my brothers hadn't stepped in after the
initial ARS beating honestly when hearing that Dad was close to killing
him all I could think was good I am heartbroken for you and yours nobody
should go through something like this and it's a special kind of crazy when
the guilty parties are people you're supposed to be able to trust yes I said
parties plural because your mother knew and failed to protect you and others
just in case you don't know this nothing about this is your fault you didn't do
anything to create this horrific situation and you bear no responsibility
for the Fallout you and your sister are complete Innocents in this sht show you
had a right to be safe in your home and a right to speak up when that safety was
shattered you have an absolute right to permanently remove from your life the
people responsible for what was done to you don't listen to anyone who tries to
talk to you about how you should forgive or Let It Go or tries to minimize the
seriousness of the crime committed against you you are in the right and you
are blameless I hope you heal well if he has a phone still in the house get it
most of these idiots record themselves doing this and upload it to adultery
sites if you can find his phone there may be evidence of it since you have a
lawyer let him have it if you get into it yourself it may cause issues or just
ask your lawyer first what he recommends if you find it if he has it in his
possession ask your lawyer to get a subpoena for it even if he did record it
but deleted it computer forensics can recover it I'm a retired police officer
and have seen this too many times I'm glad you are safe and that your dad is
like me I would do anything to protect my daughter if I had answered the call I
wouldn't have arrested your dad thank you for watching the video if you are
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AIT ta for showing my girlfriend pictures of my attractive ex-girlfriend
after she called All of My Ex's ugly and said I was lucky to be with her some
history here let's call my girlfriend Rachel Rachel and I first met in college
we had the same major lived in the same dorm we used to hang out all the time
and though we weren't a couple everything was going that way we would
cuddle together eats meals together everything changed though once she
started going out to frat parties I remember one night our dorm group going
out guys and girls and we walked to the Frat houses and the frat brothers at the
door told us the girls could come in but no allow after that night Rachel lost
interest in me and started pursuing frat
guys at the time I was hurt but I wasn't shocked this happened I still went on
dated other people and lived my life and had a good college experience we then
didn't talk in person till we were both 30 3 months ago I posted a story of food
and Rachel asked me out over Instagram we started dating and throughout our
relationship Rachel has been the one to pursue me more she was the one that
asked to be exclusive is asking me to post her on my Instagram I say this
because despite that she has tried to frame the relationship is that I am the
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I cheated years ago and it haunts me every day I 38f cheated on my husband
39m 10 years ago and I can't let it go it haunts me every day my husband and I
were trying to conceive for 5 years I became really depressed and blamed
myself for not being able to have a child neither of us ever saw a doctor
but I just knew this was me I confided in a colleague who would always tell me
it would happen for us and to take the pressure off and just to have sex
because we wanted sex and not make it a job weeks of talking with this guy went
by and we went for a walk after work on a day I had gotten a negative test and
he kissed me I didn't stop it and it felt good there was passion behind his
kiss and something I didn't allow myself to feel anymore that was that just the
one kiss and our friendship became awkward and I became distant one day he
called and asked if I could give him a ride home because he didn't have enough
money for an Uber he sent me his location and I picked him up from a bar
that was not that far from where he said he lived when he got in my car he told
me that when he kissed me he knew he cared for me as more than friends and
could not go on just being my friend and
needed me to know that would be the last time he talked to me he kissed me when
we got to his apartment and we didn't stop we went inside and hooked up it
happened just the one time and I cut all ties with him the following day neither
ever spoke of it and both went on with our Li the guilt is eating me alive and
I know this is unforgivable my husband and I now have two beautiful boys and
we're so happy how do I go on how do people feel okay with doing this and
having no remorse if I ever told him it would crush him and I know he'd leave I
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what life Pro tip have you learned from
Reddit that you still use every time the situation presents itself
Story one when you're trying to resolve an issue or someone else made an error
put the focus on the error and not the person an example of this that I use
almost every day at work someone sends me an email without the attachment
instead of saying you didn't send the attachment I say the attachment didn't
come through please try sending it again it doesn't seem like a huge deal but
people are more likely to become defensive or hostile when you blame them
even if it was their fault it has saved me a lot of headaches at work Google has
a version of this that takes it a little further namely that if something goes
wrong it's always a problem with a system not a person I think it's
contributed a lot to their success Dave pushes a change that breaks the build
don't Point your finger at Dave figure out where the system allows bad changes
to get pushed in the first place add some more testing to the process so that
no one can ever push a bad change again story two it's only been used once but
when you're caught in a Riptide Swim parallel to the shore not directly
forwards in order to escape about a week ago my brother and I were out in the
ocean and a wave crashed over us my hair was plastered to my face and I couldn't
see in the time that I took to get the hair out of my eyes we realized we had
been pushed out and couldn't touch the ground at all you're getting further and
further from Shore we were struggling for about 20 minutes against the current
until he remembered that life Pro tip and we both swam sideways like crazy my
cousin had locally alerted her uncle and he was able to get us back in once we
could touch the ground again thanks Reddit wow it's amazing how a simple tip can
make so much difference in tough situations like that thanks to this dude
for reminding us about it it will definitely save lives forever you go
Story three a redditor once remarked on how he realized how much you didn't know
about a topic he was really passionate about he then said something along the
lines of reserving our judgment for things we know very little about like
stuff that's covered in the news Etc you see people are skeptical with what
they've mastered but believe things that
they only have Layman's understanding of without any skepticism the most common
example is reading a newspaper and let's say you work in construction there's a
long article about a highway construction near you being delayed and
listing reasons why it was delayed blaming X Y and Z Etc you roll your eyes
reading this as it's clear that the author knows nothing about the industry
you work in and you brush off the article as being dumb and bad then you
turn the page and it's talking about some conflict in some health care
clinics and you take the whole article at face value and believe it as a fact
and frame opinions around the single somewhat ambiguous source of information
thing is nobody knows everything there are people who think they do and those
who pretend they do and those who actually know quite a bit tend to not
say anything because they know there are still things they don't yet know I've
taken that advice to heart and become less judgmental about things I don't
know very much about it's made me less angry less depressed and less skeptical
about the world in general story for a father worked in Human
Resources his whole career his advice to me was never put a person in a position
where they have to defend themselves even when you know they're wrong it only
makes them your adversary instead ask what happened to her how can I help make
your job better now that I'm in a career where I have authority over dozens of
employees I'm so grateful for this wisdom the other great pearl of wisdom
he gave me was be silent ask the question you need to ask they'll tell
you the answer they prepared stay silent they'll accidentally tell you the truth
I don't know about you guys but if I was the employee of that dude I would
probably feel creeped out come on I didn't join the company to win a staring
match competition plus I would feel like I'm being judged this psychology
mumbo-jumbo of HR people is just out of this world
five the best advice I got about public speaking actually came from my college
course on it but the Prof didn't use the book obviously know your subject well
enough to be able to have a conversation about it then just speak on the subject
with an ID on the points of interest you want to touch on it helps so much with
the stress and you're better able to adapt to time constraints that might
change I've also found that actually having conversations about your subject
matter helps as well and can give you an idea of what will actually interest
others about it story six I had writer's block for the
longest time what got me out of it was one piece of advice that can work for
nearly anything write one sends and see where he goes don't overthink it or
criticize the ideas just jump in and do it it really works some of my best
writing came from using that technique letting the plot write itself and break
away from my initial ideas of how I thought it was supposed to go it can
apply to anything just one step one phone call one new accomplishment
outside of your comfort zone jump in and get going
story seven get a dash cam fortunately I haven't had to use it to defend myself
but the thought of not having it when I need it brings me absolute anxiety now
there have been a few instances where I've almost had intoxicated pedestrians
and if I didn't have the dash cam running I would have been in a tight
spot if I did hit them and they lawyered up knowing that I have a dash cam
running also improves my motorist habit significantly keep the music down obey
the speed loss don't use the phone no evasive Lane changes no speeding up to
try and beat a yellow light with a dash cam I drive like there's an insurance
broker riding shotgun and a jury in the back seat
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story eight a saw thread that involved building confidence and someone had said
something that helped me so much in high school they said if you're in a
situation and you're uncomfortable just imagine someone you look up to and do
and say what you'd expect them to say I had a guy in my swim team who ended up
being a really good friend it was muscular to the nth degree and was just
so calm and cool all the time everyone loved the guy and for good reason so
when I was uncomfortable or didn't know what to do I just channeled him and
tried to emulate what he would say and do it really helped me a lot I'm glad we
ended up such good friends story nine if you accidentally offend
and or anger someone when apologizing follow this formula stay what you did
white was wrong and how you'll prevent it from happening in the future also
don't forget to acknowledge how what you
did impacted the person you wronged it's fine to add an explanation after an
apology however do not preface it with but because then it just sounds like
you're trying to make excuses on the other end if you're mad at someone tell
them what they did why you were upset by it and what you'd rather they do in the
future heck you can frame it as if they've already done it I'm really busy
these days so when you're running late I
really appreciate it when you text me so I could fit in some things I need to do
the piles of stuff on the floor make me worried I'm going to break your stuff
and sometimes I get dirt or water on them if I have to step over them so I
appreciate it when you keep them out of the walkways yada yada
story time if you're ever saying mean stuff about someone and they walk up and
catch you include them in the conversation like you fully intended to
call them out on it might as well really give it to them at this point as well
they're already off balance because they fully expected you to backpedal and
become defensive this approach prevents them from saying that you were talking
behind their back and lets them know you have a problem with them
story 11. I love it when people do this my mind is a strainer so I forget things
all the time my friend took a picture of me when I borrowed some books a few
months later I texted her if she could remember which books I borrowed as I
have a lot of books myself and she sent me a photo with me holding the books now
since I'm so forgetful I never remembered to take a picture myself of
stuff I lend to people so I never get my
own things back let it swell when others take my picture means I'm not in
possession of other people's stuff storytalk if you have ancestors who
moved from Italy to the US or wherever you live today you might qualify for
Italian citizenship no joke like your great grandpa came to the US in 1894 you
might still very well qualify it takes time Gathering all the required
documents and proofs and it's clearly not free but for about a thousand and
500 total I should be holding an Italian passport by Year's End you see Italy
view citizenship via bloodline the reason so many people qualify is because
of how Italy views things for example Giuseppe was born in 1875 and he
together with his wife left Italy in 1895 in 1899 your great-grandfather was
born in the U.S the process to become a U.S citizen was often put off 5 or 10
plus years and even then took several years so while that 1899 birth happened
in the U.S because the parents were still Italian citizens Italy views that
kid as Italian the US sees him as American he goes on to get married have
kids repeat and you are born you qualify but you have to produce the proof all
birth marriage and death certificates dating back to sepi and his wife Ireland
has this too if I remember correctly it's three generations and you're
eligible and it's not just for Ireland or Italy it gives you access to the
entire EU this is also true for Germany they have a rule that says if 1939 to
1945 didn't happen would you be German then you can be or something similar I
have a grandparent on each side who escaped the Holocaust and I'm in the
process of getting German citizenship story 13. I just heard this one recently
and it's been useful if you're late replying to an important email for
example something for work don't start it by saying sorry or apologizing for
the delay that starts it off on a negative connotation and sets the mood
for the reader instead started with thank you for your patience so instead
of it starting by assigning blame to yourself it instead starts off the email
in a good note by praising the reader well it seems to me that this lady was
just trying to buy some extra hours and pulling a ninja move of timely responses
if you want to learn more game changing email strategies you better hit that
like button and subscribe to the channel story 14. don't overthink before making
decisions make the one your gut tells you to and see through to the end of
course it doesn't apply to Big life decisions but for everyday work and
personal decisions it's been helping me a lot saving me lots of unnecessary
stress or you can also think of it this way if you're trying to decide between
two different things flip a coin when it's in the air you'll most likely find
yourself hoping for a certain side to be
the one that's faced up letting you know
which of the two is what you really want
story 15. if you're job hunting copy and
paste the job description from the ad or the website you're applying to and make
the font white so it is not seen by human eyes the computer will pick up the
keywords and phrases and move your resume to the list of people that will
call for interviews at the time that I saw this tip I was job hunting and
having problems getting anyone to call me for an interview I started adding the
job description to the bottom of the resume tiny fonts and white color switch
was blind every company I submitted my resume to that I did that to I got an
interview with I ended up getting a job for a company that is very picky about
who they hire and only interview one out of every 100 applications I love my new
job going forward if I ever have to apply anywhere again I'll be doing the
same trick I don't know if this trick works everywhere I was skeptical too
when I read it on here but figured I had nothing to lose I was applying to major
national companies who use computer software to sort the applications except
for the one job I applied where I met all the requirements of skills education
experience Etc even the Java wasn't qualified for called me and fell apart
during the interview lesson learned so for me history worked story 16. never
assume Alice when ignorance is a valid explanation it's fairly Sound Advice to
live by if someone did someone that made you angry then giving them the benefit
of the doubt makes you look like a saint
if the person did something out of spite then saying you understand it's only a
mistake will piss them off even more ah the art of assuming ignorance definitely
one of the most famous Jedi Mind Tricks out there want to get on the fast lane
of sandthood just give people who push your buttons the benefit of the doubt
they'll probably end up scratching their heads in bewilderment
story 17. just this last weekend I was playing basketball with my kids in the
driveway and noticed two young guys jogging up and down the street and
shouting something I went to check it out and they were trying to catch their
dog that had left through an open gate and was running all over the street I
don't know how long they had been trying but they looked exhausted I sat down in
the curb and whistled and dog came straight over and let me hug and catch
him life Pro tip dogs think that being chased is a fun game sit down to stop
the game story 18 change your sheets at least
once a week I changed mine every four to five days because I like clean sheets
when you go to sleep pick a pillow and sleep with it the next night flip it
over and sleep on the other side next night use the second pillow then flip it
over the following night your face is on
the clean side of a pillow more often so you're not sleeping on where your oily
face and hair was last night this helps immensely with clearing up your skin if
you get pimples also drink more water and less soda thanks for the tip that's
the ultimate nightly spa treatment for the face definitely one of the best kept
secrets to achieving that I woke up like this glow
story 19 f o r d which I use for topics when trying to make small talk with
strangers start with family then occupation Recreation and lastly dreams
in that order if you get to dreams you've basically meet a new friend here
are some examples are you from this area did you grow up around here what do you
do for a living what do you do when you're not working or stay with yourself
as a lead-in I went kitesurfing for the first time last weekend have you ever
done that it's often the no but leads to a related story or less you ask what do
you do outside work what would you be doing if you didn't have to work if you
won the lottery what would you do instead of working
story 20 whenever using a public toilet take a piece of toilet paper wipe the
seat and flush it now you know there's toilet paper the seat is dry and how
well it flushes and develop this into a habit so I'm never trapped without
toilet paper getting wet from the seat or overestimating the power of the flush
it avoids a lot of embarrassing situations I really do this with every
bathroom that is in my own it saved me from numerous embarrassing situations at
my in-laws's house as well as friends houses
story 21 as contrived as this may sound my advice is don't Pine breakups happen
accidents happen life happens there's a time to be sad but don't dwell on it
that's pining be sad learn from it and get on with your life anytime spent
pining can be spent moving forward job interview didn't go well guzzle a glass
of wine and trudge on don't spend a week crying over what could have been don't
Pine should be our Mantra in facing life's curveballs cheers to leaving the
what-ifs in the rearview mirrors and speeding forward full steam ahead
story 22 that there are two types of people who are not talking in a
conversation a person who's waiting to talk and a person who's actually
listening think about that division next
time you talk with a friend or co-worker if they are constantly waiting to talk
when you're telling a story EG their own story then there is a good chance that
person is much more focused on themselves I've noticed in the worst
cases of this they can be super nice but there is a good chance that they want
you there to enhance their own experience not because they want to
share an experience with you if they don't try to shift the conversation to
themselves but ask questions about what you're saying they probably are actually
interested in getting to know you people like listeners
story 23 I didn't get these from Reddit but I haven't seen them in this thread
and they're all pretty useful when putting open bags of food away if you
don't have any Clips or zip locks just roll it up and place it upside down or
against the wall of a cabinet Crush all plastic bottles then replace the cap
before putting them in the trash or recycling bin safe space put your alarm
clock or phone across your room as long as it's loud enough so you have to get
up to turn it off keep your wallet in your hand until you put your cards back
into it so you don't forget it or stuff it in a pocket to get lost keep a bag
for change in your car whenever you get change back you have an easy place to
put it and you can later use it for talls or car washes and this may not
work for some people but if you have some daunting tasks to do and you feel
overwhelmed get a couple of quick easy tasks out of the way first so you can
focus more easily and the more important and longer tasks it helps especially if
you're a procrastinator because it allows you to procrastinate efficiently
these tips are gold unless you're like me who can sleep through a hurricane so
that alarm tip not gonna work story 24. if you are out of town and
shopping at a store that has a rewards card program that is tied to your phone
number just use the local area code look it up on your phone and then type
867-5309 I've used this trick everywhere from California to Hawaii to Wisconsin
and just about everywhere in between it works at stores grocery stores Etc I've
probably saved 100 or more using it while traveling and I've never run into
a situation where the number didn't work
why does it work most grocery stores and stores have rewards programs that are
free to sign up for they give you discounts and all sorts of products in
exchange for a way to track your purchases and they're usually tied to
your phone number so if you're somewhere new and don't want to sign up for the
program chances are that someone else has already signed up with 867-5309 is
their phone number since they didn't want to give their real one
alternatively if you need to sign up for something that requires a phone number
just use this number and someone else will benefit from it in the future
Story 25 I learned a dead giveaway for telling if someone likes another person
men become more expressive with their eyebrows when they're talking to someone
they're interested in or crushing on women will cover their mouth and laugh
not super exaggerated but if you look for it you'll notice when a guy or girl
walks into a room or approaches them I know you may think no way this is true
but I thought the same thing until I noticed it with some of the couples I
hang out with occasionally I hope you enjoyed the video and if you
made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy men who had a girlfriend what did
you do to get rid of her story three is so lit see you in that video | give me a good story on WhatPROLIFETIPYouveLearnedFromREDDITYouUseEVERYTIME |
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i work at a call center for health insurance
one of the things that people really seem to get mad about is when we tell
them we can't do something because it would break hipaa
which is a federal privacy law that specifically protects health and medical
information so a few days ago a gent calls in on behalf of a provider's office
provider in this case meaning doctor wanting to check eligibility and
benefits for a patient he gives me the npi national provider identifier
number for the practice and per hippa and all my training
i ask him to verify the address in the system he gives me an address that is
decidedly not the one in the system and when i politely explain that
he says he doesn't know any other address so i told him that we couldn't
properly verify him we're required to verify the following
three things for a doctor's office or facility npi or tax id number name of the
practice facility or individual provider and address
as it appears in the system i couldn't give specific benefits for a patient
but i could give general plan information
gentlemen just kept sitting on the phone line demanding specifics
while i kept patiently explaining why i couldn't do that
he finally goes off on me telling you that he's been doing this for years and
he knows he can do it and to transfer him to my supervisor and make it quick
a little irked at that particular demand
because a transfer takes more than a few seconds to set up these days
due to working from home i politely said that i would need a minute or two at
least to set it up and put a note in the system provider rep says yes
please put a nice long note in the system aye aye mother trucker
into the transfer notes went the following the name of the caller
the npi number used the request to speak to a supervisor
why he requested a supervisor the address he gave that wasn't
in the system what he had initially requested
what i offered to give him what i had explained to him about why
i couldn't do as he asked his admission that he didn't know the address
in the system we have room for 4 000 characters in the transfer notes
i used all but 25 of them i transferred him and took more calls
but got curious during my break and took a look to see what happened
noted onto the account were multiple notes from multiple supervisors
that he was unable to be verified and that we couldn't give him the requested
info as explained to him by the initial rep who took his call
the final supervisor note said that he was requesting a call back from someone
higher than that supervisor but that he got mad and hung up before
giving them his number after the supervisor requested a minute
to get the callback note together so as a result of him telling me to put
a long note in the system he got none of the information he requested
he got nobody who would break hipaa for him and he is getting zero callbacks
because he refused to be patient and wait for the request to be completed
properly don't ask call center reps to break hipaa folks
we will rat you out to other reps and you will
get zero of what you requested hipaa is definitely not something you want to
mess around with and this guy is clueless if he's not able to understand that
i should do my job okay i got my first job at 16 working in a ski resorts
restaurant in the kitchens i was a line cook that was my job but on
busy days i'd help bring out food just to keep the plate area clean enough
to put more up this wasn't a particularly busy day but the meal i put
up wasn't getting taken out and i couldn't see the waitress
after five minutes i made sure that the only two items from my side of the line
were the only ones on the ticket and went out to deliver the plates
before they got cold i approached the table with my best
smile and chirpy voice and set down the chicken tenders and fries in a caesar
salad in front of a karen and her child what is this
you're not our waitress i understand and
apologize for the surprise i just wanted to make sure your food wasn't cold
before it got to you unacceptable kitchen staff shouldn't
come out of the kitchen you should do your job take this back it's probably
filthy i looked at the kid who was about to dig into his golden fries before his
basket was swiped away from his mother and shoved back into my hands he looked
surprised then like he was about to cry as
karen shooed me away back to the kitchen i went back
dumbfounded but the customer is always right
right guess i'll stick to my job in the kitchen
the kid was crying and karen just gave him a few quarters to play the cheap
arcade games we have in the pit before going to her phone the waitress
wasn't coming back but i had to do my job right my job was in the kitchen
maybe 30 minutes had passed and that karen looked impatient with her kid
nowhere to be seen i assumed he was still in the pit playing games
so i went in the back and took the small set of stairs down to the pit
as kitchens were connected we had a main floor kitchen upstairs kitchen
bar and the pit bar i left through the pit bar and saw the kid sitting around
board because he spent all his quarters on games
i gave him a fresh basket of chicken tenders and fries because
why should the child suffer because of a horrible mother
i even got him a nice caffeinated pop to then hopefully make his mother suffer
throughout the rest of the day with a hyper child the rest of the hour went by
and still no sign of the waitress the line cooks were getting worried and
as i was getting out to go look for her the karen walked out with a child who
was bouncing off the walls i found the waitress in the bathroom who was
so sick she had been puking for the past hour
her pores were starting to get a little red because of the simple force of
vomiting for that long somehow no one knew she was there until they went in
she was sent home and the manager ended up waiting tables for the rest of the
shift i kind of wish the story was more exciting but malicious compliance with a
karen honestly if i could just piss off and title people like her all the time
i'd gladly work in customer service for a long time how exactly did they know
they were kitchen staff was it the outfit
if you were in op shoes and this kieran told you to go out because your kitchen
staff and that you probably made the plate dirty what
would you have done let me know in the comment section down below
i want absolutely everything added to the calendar
sure thing boss this is the same kind of story often told in the sub and mine is
dumb so i'll keep it short supervisor introduces a new project
management tool to the team our team is only three people and we
don't need a giant professional software solution
both of us underlings point this out supervisor
insists we worry about it being a waste of time
supervisor says it'll be worth it we ask for clarification on about what exactly
do we need to enter into the new tool supervisor says everything everything
absolutely everything you do should be entered and checked off
co-worker underling gets a gleam in his eye i understand so we enter
everything into the calendar leave home for work
entered arrive at work entered sit down a desk
entered and so on and every time we accomplished a task
we log on to the program and mark it as complete
coffee check write an email check and every time we do this the program
automatically sends an email to supervisor that the task is done to the
supervisor's credit he took it well then laughed about the overwhelming emails
and it was only a few days later that he dropped the program and we
went back to the way it was before i think it's okay to cut supervisor some
slack on this one they're trying to just boost productivity
and although they don't need it because they're such a small team
the thought was there one of the reasons they probably pushed it so much despite
the pushback from op and the other co-worker is they probably
spent some money on the software so they didn't want to just give up on
it everyone must join a work call regardless of working hours
sure a company i worked for is global offices all over the globe it wasn't often
but it was expected that if you were needed on a call outside of your business
hours you would make arrangements to join typically a crazy one-off scenario
where they needed to find an urgent time slot for a single call
it sounds awful but it really was infrequent
and most folks were very conscientious when planning meetings
in comes a crappy meeting leader we'll call her
karen based in europe who scheduled a weekly reoccurring call at what would be 4
a.m for west coast usa i was east coast so 7 am for me wasn't bad but i reminded
the meeting leader that the meeting made for the next day
was outside their hours she said they'd see the meeting in their
afternoon and be able to accept for the next day
it was especially selfish because there were eight participants from west coast
and karen was the only one in europe next day no one from west coast joined
karen made a big stink about it to management that they'll all have to join
weekly for this call sadly it worked and those poor souls had to join
at 4 00 am every friday within only two to three weeks someone
from west coast became very interested and offered to champion the project
and become the leader karen was happy to relinquish leadership and be a
participant only that very same day they took over the project
the reoccurring meeting was moved to normal business hours
afternoon west coast time evening europe time
karen was not happy and in the first occurrence kept making remarks about how
it's very late friday evening for her whenever she'd answer a question my
brain is a bit fried because it's late evening here but
or let's not drag this topic out any further as happy hour here has already
started haha on the third week of the rescheduled
call she stopped joining even though her participation was
key being the only representative from europe
the new leader had to go to management to get her to join and when i dropped
off the project they were still meeting fridays i hope she
learned her lesson can somebody say hypocrite
she starts complaining about evening on fridays but yet made eight people on the
west coast go to weekly meetings at 4 00 am the
west coast people had it way worse than she did
a filled zoom baby shower slash gift parade
i was on another sub and found something that frankly kind of blew me away
under a thread about asking for suggestions for games to play at a baby shower
the sad and stressed update really had me reeling
apparently she has no clue why the 200 people she virtually
invited are not playing by the rules and is causing a lot of issues now with
family and friends grandma is posting about the baby shower
she is throwing for her two daughters grandbabies number eight and nine since
kovid there are only actually 20 people physically invited to her house
and she only has catering for 20 people because of this that's totally
understandable with kovitt right now you really don't
want to have large gatherings of people and if her daughters are pregnant
especially you don't want additional people around them
if necessary the rest of the 200 people invited were supposed to form a parade
in their cars and dropped gifts off then
go home and attend a zoo meeting for the next four
hours watching her daughters open their shower gifts
she did not include the address of her house
on the invite because as people rsvp'd she was going to assign them their place
in line so that people weren't sitting in their cars for
an hour waiting to drop off their gifts the sadness and stress 65
of the 200 people she'd invited hadn't even rsvp'd
out of the people who were not invited to the house the few that said they
would give a gift didn't see the need to attend a four-hour zoo meeting
to watch her daughters open gifts since they weren't physically invited
some of them decided to pick up shifts at work
which angered her and the rest of them didn't have a valid reason
in her opinion to not attend the zoom meeting to watch her daughters open
all their gifts i was astounded yeesh just be grateful that people are sending
gifts if people aren't physically invited and can pick up a shift at work
so what i'm going to bet that the 200 people invited were her spamming her
facebook contacts of every single person she could think of
and sending them a generic invite i don't know anyone who has 200 close
friends or family members of the people who said they would still
give a gift i'm assuming those people are from her actual close friend
or family group i couldn't believe she was upset they didn't further want to
watch a four hour zoom meeting of her daughter's opening gifts
hey congratulations on your new grandbabies i'm sure everyone wishes
them the best but when it is not a close friend or family member people
really don't feel the need to sit in a zoom meeting and watch people they
probably barely know open baby shower gifts i loved baby
showers with my friends and family and the gift opening was
cute but when you go to a 2-3 hour gift opening
it's just kind of boring hope you liked my gift
i have laundry to do and you are not going to notice if i'm there or not
really i certainly wouldn't sit in my car for an hour in a line of cars to
drop off gifts at a certain time kovit is putting a lot of stress on
people and it's true people shouldn't be having large
gatherings so i guess you just have to be grateful for the people still willing
to gift grandbabies eight and nine with something whether they attend a
four-hour zoo meeting or not she was getting a lot of support though
on her thread wishing her well i just thought wow she's actually really
angry and upset and has no idea that she's asking for
way too much inviting 200 people gift grab just be glad some of them are
actually going to drop off a gift op definitely hit the nail on the head here
it almost seemed narcissistic like woe is me
all 200 people didn't show up giving gifts and fulfilling my dreams
include me in all conferences moving forward all
conferences i used to work as the only conference facilitator in a preventative
services program with two units four case planners each at the time i
would schedule all necessary conferences with the case planners and outlook
supervisors were required to participate in some of the conferences
depending on the purpose and i would invite them to those
after a few months one of the units was assigned to a new supervisor
on her first day she approached me and asked to be invited to all conferences
for her unit i asked if she knew that supervisors did not have to participate in
all conferences and informed her which conferences she needed to be a part of
she responded that she still wanted to be included in all
conferences moving forward since it was her first day
we hadn't gotten a chance to talk about how i did my job
she didn't know that i periodically planned all conferences ahead of time
for all case planners and was often fully booked for the upcoming week or two
it turned out that on the day she asked her unit was scheduled for conferences
with me every day with at least one or two each day for the next two weeks after
she has to be added to the email invite i included her on all of the conferences
for her unit the next day she came by my desk and
told me it wouldn't be necessary for me to invite her to all conferences
and just invite her to those she is required to attend
i did as was asked but had a laugh to myself after she left
if only they understood how everything worked before going into it
it's all hands on my daughter told me this story after spending the weekend at
her cousin's house the last morning there her uncle's
girlfriend was making breakfast once everything was done and almost
everything was set out for people to eat she went to make herself a plate she
noticed that there was nothing to scoop the food onto the plate with
so she asked where are the forks her uncle's girlfriend told her
it's all hands on meaning help get stuff out for breakfast
my daughter being the smart alex she is took this instruction literally so
she went over to the eggs and grabbed a handful and plopped it onto her plate
with a smile on her face her uncle's girlfriend looked at her for a moment
doubles over laughing and said that's not what i meant
my daughter looked at them with a big old grin on her face and told her
but that's what you said my daughter thinks she was hilarious
i kind of agree to be fair if i asked where the forks were
and somebody said it's all hands on i probably would be like wait you want me
to use my hands i don't need your help okay good luck have fun
a few years ago i accepted a contract to write some material for an
engineering class the result was a set of heavily hyperlinked latex documents
that compiled into a single pdf of a few hundred pages
with a nice table of contents embedded images
and carefully written equations in both breakout and inline with text
i was contacted by a student who's been given a short-term contract to convert
the latex to html so the class can go online only two small problems
problem one student doesn't know latex problem 2 student doesn't know html
i suggested that the easiest solution particularly within a short time frame
would be to use an online tool to convert the latex to html
preserving the original structure and hyperlinks of the document set
and using a javascript plugin to render the native latex equations
i offered to volunteer some time to make sure it went ok
to the extent that edits or new material were required
the easiest solution would be to edit the latex
which student can learn quite easily nope student didn't want to do any of that
student has a plan one import entire pdf rendered from latex into adobe acrobat
2. use adobe acrobat to convert content to word 3. edit content in word 4.
manually screenshot every equation in the pdf
and drop screenshots into place in the word document
5. use word to automatically render the html for a website
i politely suggested that the plan has some issues the document structure will
be lost where it is gonna vomit out a single slab of html
corresponding to the monolithic pdf input equations will be mangled embedded
images will be rescaled nine different ways resulting in major quality loss
it's okay student is confident no further help required
malicious compliance not helping not my circus not my monkeys
the content was pristine when i handed it off
and i have a record of the conversation have fun storming the castle
opie honestly kind of overstepped their boundaries to the point of trying to
help this person figure it all out and they blindly give it a cold shoulder
and they say no the way i'm gonna do it instead of going from latex to html i'm
gonna go through adobe acrobat and word and convert it three times backwards and
just a terrible process how i tricked my entitled cousin into eternally cleaning
the backyard so i have this cousin let's call him
nick and he is incredibly entitled but this is the story of how i finally
got revenge on him this happened before the lockdown but i
didn't use reddit then so here we are nick and my nice cousin let's call her l
came over to watch movies and weird cartoons note we are all 13 to 15 years old
and a few hours later my mother called me to help her clean the backyard
we have many plants a pool and a wooden deck
i headed over and elle offered some help now nick always wants to be the best
nothing is ever enough so i assume he thought that being a boy the nicest
thing he could do was offer help as well because boys don't do chores so he did
little did he know as soon as he said that i already had a plan
then my mother saw the three of us and decided to separate the chores
nick was going to water the plants elle was going to clean the deck and
i was going to clean the exterior chairs and stuff
perfect at one point my mother left to get us snacks
perfectly predictable and as soon as she left
nick finished watering the plants also predictable
he came to me and tried to look like he was willing to help
asking me what he should do next i stood up and showed him a part of the floor
near a grass patch and told him how that spot was
always dirty i said that he had done enough and he could rest after cleaning
that what happened next was a mixture of predictable satisfying
and funny he had the garden hose in his hand
he used it to water the plants and used it to try and clean that spot
the dirty part was directly in front of the grass patch and the water hit the
grass and a lot of dirt mud and water flew and got the floor
even more dirty than before he said done elle started laughing as she
noticed my plan and i just pointed at the floor
he looked and his eyes went wide to see the floor even more dirty
he tried to clean with the hose again and failed miserably
elle and i sat down and enjoyed the show after 10 minutes of fun my mother came
back with the snacks and tried not to laugh
as she explained to nick how we tricked him he was furious
and tried to slap me one hour later my aunt came and was told what happened
nick got grounded for trying to hit his cousin and
my favorite part for being dumb usually being lazy ends up giving you
some kind of critical or analytical mind of some sort
where you can break down things but in this case
nick was just lazy and not that bright but with that being said that's all the
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what's the biggest scam in life that no one wants to admit
Story one I apologize and I'm sorry but the grind and hustle cultures only
generate oh they think everyone's goal is to be riches
working 100 hours a week I just want to be able to power my bills and feed my
family anything after that should be time spent with said family I find that
the boy the upbringing the more that they want it but the ones that typically
find it had connections by being rich already but I agree I'm kind of
miserable in my current job because I have extremely stressful situations back
in the day I made less but never thought about working after eight hours a day I
literally felt like I could do whatever I wanted once I clocked out now I am
constantly getting emails about fires that need to be put out oh and my
favorite thing to say about these people
is that the appearance of being happy is way more important than them actually
being happy another thing that recently changed my mind was going to my
grandfather-in-law's funeral the guy was a Navy man turd mechanist he never made
much money they had five kids who had 10 grandkids and 20 great grandkids he
retired at 50 which is Unthinkable these days
they lived very moderately but they never worried about money for themselves
or their kids they didn't drive nice cars they didn't own a house that was
too big for them they were just content hell I've never met a happier couple and
family than them and their kids all their kids looked up to them as the
Pinnacle of good and happiness and they were I was really stressed at work when
he died and the funeral happened but it changed the way I thought about
happiness we worry about most in life should never be work it should always be
on the last of our list of worries how you get it there is hard though some
don't have the luxury of worrying about money well not worrying about money some
do but if you do it shouldn't even cross
your mind about exceeding it well except for maybe doctors I always laugh when
people get so upset about work it's not like anyone is dying if you miss a
deadline stop acting like it is again unless you're a doctor
story two I think about this a lot in some of the finance Subs yes save for
your future and your retirement if you can maybe you will live healthily into
your 90s and that pot will be appreciated as will the ability to
retire in your 50s I hope so but I see people being like I'm currently living
like a spa button to save money and I've been able to cut out a hot shower and
now I have 50 pounds extra a year should I invest here or here to make an extra
0.1 percent annually I'm looking to spend x hundred thousand pounds or
whatever by the time I'm 55 and I can't help but thinking buddy you could get
hit by a bus tomorrow I'm in my mid-30s and I've seen people I know growing up
die from cancer so alcoholism and overdoses long before their time also
way before their planned retirement no more laughs with friends no more going
on that trip to Brazil they'd always wanted to no more seeing that band they
were obsessed with no more bumping into someone at a class and discovering they
click perfectly no more sunsets with the ones they love no more heading out for
the weekend with the wind in their hair no more cheering on their team and with
600 000 others no more tasting the perfect meal by candlelight no more
first days with a new console no more fun Joy or excitement they're dead
that's it we love and remember and cherish them but in this life at least
they experience none of that no more no need to blow all your cash if you have a
savings goal but do not forget to enjoy today
Story three we had a claw machine at work because we got paid a small
percentage for hosting it the guy who ran it was fantastic he had it set to a
low dollar amount for payout so people would actually be able to win and win
regularly he also refused to tweak the machine with the grab and drop features
so it very rarely grabbed and then dropped something before getting it to
the slot he also had larger toys so you could trade in your small toys for a
larger one and he had a fantastic range trade in 10 20 or for the super large
toy trade in 50. we had some guys spend nearly 600 a week just because they
wanted 50 toys to trade in for the Unicorn that was so tall it was taller
than my hips he even bought in toy ranges that timed well with the current
movie releases we were in a video store so it worked out perfectly for us we
were making bank over the machine nearly a grand a month and then he left and
each new person made the machine worse the payout amount got higher The Tweak
settings for more grab and drops dropped the trade-ins entirely and the toy
quality decreased with only the occasional fantastic toy line it didn't
matter what we said worked for our store because each month was getting worse
payouts they tweak the machine even worse to get more money
by the time we asked them to take the machine away we were making about 30 a
month off of it enough to cover the electricity bill for it and not much more
story four yeah dental insurance is basically just an employee benefit
masquerading as an insurance product my dental insurance through my employer
costs like a hundred per year and it is pretty good deal for two cleanings a
year and plus some X-rays and some occasional other benefits like
discounted fillings but it doesn't do the one thing that insurance is supposed
to do which is cover catastrophic losses
the kinds of things you can't easily pay for out of pocket which could bankrupt
you I don't need insurance for the occasional filling I need insurance for
the rare chance that my teeth get
totally [ __ ] up and I end up needing
multiple dollars to buy implants but if you try to buy dental insurance not from
an employer it often looks like a pretty
deal I just pulled a random quote and it was like what 4 30 for me to get
coverage that coverage included regular visits 80 of fillings and 50 of major
work but with like 1500 Max you're kind of screwed so if you need five figures
worth of implants again you screwed that's a terrible deal for most people
most dentists will give you a great deal on cleanings if you pay cash up front
though in many areas you can get quality
care for about a hundred so that's about
200 per year maybe add an extra 50 or so
for annual x-rays paying for 30 for that is stupid
if your employer gives you a highly discounted rate it might be okay but for
a random person off the street just pay cash Story five
when I was a kid I discovered my Grandma
has a puzzle box on her drawer I'm being a stupid kid I couldn't figure out how
to open it and after a few unsuccessful attempts at just asking her to show me I
got crafty there's only a stupid kid can
and I thought I'd trick her into showing
me so I gave her a two dollar bill I got somewhere and asked her to keep it safe
for me on a puzzle box well Grandma knew exactly what I was doing so the attempt
failed I never get to see her open the box and I promptly forgot about the
entire thing fast forward to 20 years grandma has now died rest in peace and
mum's going through a safe to figure out what's what and one runs through an
envelope with my name on it inside is a two dollar bill and a short note
explaining that it belongs to me and is given to her for safe keeping she did
keep it safe for me right next to the deed to her house and other important
financial documents even though it was a silly attempt at trickery and not a
genuine request I did end up getting that puzzle box and as an adult it took
about half a second to figure out how to open it it currently contains a
rattlesnake of rattle that my grandma got as a little girl and that was her
treasure she kept in a puzzle box a two dollar bill inside and that note
story six anyone below the age of 18 that works and gets taxes taken from
their check the definition of taxation without representation these millions of
dollars worth of relief funds that the FED gov gets approved in past bills they
love to Pivot the highlights of those bills on these types of things meanwhile
they're hard of work tucking much larger rations of the total bill amount behind
such relief funds once the dollar for the fggs landed the corresponding
account that when they stop attending to it they actually leave it up to a
certain Financial institution's Bank Plus a few other smaller companies that
meet their requirements to create these systems that end up being put out in
place a lot of the times and this is why the documentation slash inquiry slash
review slash response waiting periods may take really long this is where they
enjoy watching humans suffer and kill each other
they even go around to sell poison to each other while to know that money can
get people out of these situations being sit in an account for the entire time
and make zero effort in structuring a system to then get those funds out of
the citizens story Seven health insurance companies
in the us we don't need health insurance
companies at all primary care physicians in private practices pay 100
000 plus annually in administrative costs patients pay insurance premiums
some being charged a thousand monthly then insurance companies rather than our
health care providers determine approval
deny whether patients receive treatments testing durable medical equipment
therapies medications and Consultants treatments by specialists a life-saving
treatment may be available locally however if it's out of network not
affiliated with or covered by one's insurance plan one doesn't receive their
care despite having the medical insurance and their health care
providers orders health insurance is a scam that only ensures companies benefit
from the US needs single-payer Medicare for all now
story eight yep found out that Planet Fitness was double charging me because
they decided to randomly say nah to my transfer after all I moved to a
different city and I transferred my membership to a different location
[ __ ] that your membership only works
in one location anyway unless you pay more and instead of fixing it they said
I had to mail in a request to cancel it which of course quote unquote might take
a few months to process they don't accept credit cards either they just
take only direct account info hmm presumably you can't just change a card
if that I marked everything from them as fraudulent and made sure that my bank
doesn't allow them access again I learned the hard way never to sign up
with anything that requires checking access storyline my fiance and I had to
convince her brother last year not to join the pharmaceutical MLM they had a
website that described the different tiers you could achieve and how much you
could make would have been hilarious if we weren't trying to convince our
brother not to spend his life savings on it they called it the 5x12 program or
something basically convinced five people to work below you then have those
five convince another five people as well etc etc if you succeed then you
would be estimated to be making about 500 000 per year now how many people
come out working for you one billion through 120 million seven hundred and
three thousand one hundred twenty five people
so like 15 of the world's population we gave her brother that information and he
still tried for it story 10 credit scores they are a
history of things that show you are able low risk to lend money to
this is how it's structured to make you think that you show a history of good
behavior take on deaths and pay them back well ahead of time but people
should be more than willing to hand you money but they don't they would rather
deny you and go after the guy who will pay the most interest or the minimal so
interest stacks they are not used for that but to see
who is in the best area to overlenda as much as possible they are not intended
to be used to see if you should get internet cable or even able to rent from
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aita for telling my mom that she's ruining my wedding I'm 28f dealing with
my mom's excessive gift giving of clothes and her intrusive involvement in
my wedding planning throughout my life she sent me numerous packages of clothes
always unsolicited and mostly not my style I've tried to politely return the
items I don't like but this hasn't stopped her from sending more my fance
recently pointed out how her style is very different from mine often either
very matronly or childish despite returning 80% of the clothes she sends
she continues to inundate me with more the situation escalated with my wedding
dress when we went shopping she pushed for a matronly dress that I hated and
dismissed the ones I love I eventually chose a dress that everyone including
her seemed to agree was the most flattering however the next day she
insisted it was too low cut and even showed photos of me in it to her friends
at my grandmother's funeral ticket validation she claimed that they all
agreed with her and suggested we go shopping again which I refused despite
my clear refusal she booked another dress shopping appointment which was a
humiliating experience she showed zoomed in photos of my chest to the staff who
graciously assured her that it was not revealing however it didn't stop there
in the car leaving the second dress shop she said she was then taking me to shop
for rehearsal dinner dresses I said as politely as possible that I wouldn't be
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my daughter tore apart my fiance's wedding dress ending our engagement I've
grounded her until she's 18 imposed strict limitations on her activities and
making her work to contribute to expenses this is more of an off my chest
post I am not looking for advice but welcome some given with empathy and
understanding in mind I 42m have a 16-year-old daughter Ella 6 months ago
because of her my partner Khloe 36f ended our engagement to give some
context before my partner now ex was in my life I was married to my late wife
for around 1.5 years she was in a vegetative state and I had already
grieved her death before she even passed on accepting her death was something I
had already prepared ahead of time and I dipped my feet in the dating Market 6
months after I met my lovely partner Khloe who also had a daughter from her
first marriage and after dating for a year I proposed to her I was ecstatic to
be with the love of my new life Ella not so much Khloe tried to bond with Ella
and did everything possible to make her feel like a welcome presence in her life
Ella wasn't thrilled and had routinely messed with Khloe such as guarding her
mother's territory having an attitude when I got Khloe gifts hit her stuff and
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vegan Sil snatches pork sandwich insults
op refuses apology for retaliating throw away I 26 FM currently 2 weeks pregnant
I have a craving for pork I can't get enough of it I have to have it with
everything I'm eating I get very emotional if I can't have it I would
even go so far as to say I'm obsessed with having it I'm sure my poor
husband's sick of all the pork dishes we've been having but he's been a real
supportive and thinks up creative dishes for me he's a chef I'm even eating some
pork as I'm writing this on to the story
couple of days ago it was M birthday and my husband wanted to do a birthday
dinner for her at our house so everyone showed up at our house including Sil 24
last year Sil became a vegan she is very passionate about it and good for her
however she can be annoying when she becomes to pushy with her beliefs
majority of the time everyone just ignores her when she starts ranting but
she's usually stops when someone tells her to knock it off when it becomes to
much but this time I feel she went to far my husband made dinner and he even
made Sil food to her preference everyone was eating and just catching up when my
husband came in with my pork sandwich for me I was sitting next to Sil and she
started ranting again but I ignored her and started eating my sandwich ignoring
her seemed to set her off and she suddenly snatched my sandwich out of my
hands and started going on how disgusting I was and when I grabbed for
it again she pulled it out of my reach and I just lost it and punched her right
in face and she fell off her chair and my sandwich was all on the floor and
seeing that I bursted into tears and left the kitchen it took my husband
Abbott to Cal me down I heard yelling in
the kitchen my bill was the one who told me what happened after I left the
kitchen since me and my husband were upstairs and by the time I had calmed
down everyone had left basically half the family was mad that Sil did that and
the other half said I shouldn't have hit her I agree I shouldn't have hit her I
wasn't thinking and just did it since then Sil said she will apologize when I
apologize first I said no she now saying that I am overreacting and just because
I'm pregnant doesn't give me an excuse to be a and I told her just
because she's vegan doesn't excuse her for being a my husband backing me
and my in-law saying this whole situation is stressing them out which is
making me feel bad AIT he | give me a good story on VeganSILsnatchesporksandwichinsultsOPrefusesapologyforretaliatingorig |
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I called my wife manipulative and now she's emotionally distant I got into an
argument with my wife a couple months ago and ended up saying some really
hurtful things that she can't forgive me for essentially we never fight we have
disagreements that are quickly resolved but we've only had one real fight in the
decade we've been together my wife is incredibly emotional sad ad tears
reading a book tears telling even a remotely sad story tears she feels
things very deeply and responds sometimes inappropriately with the
amount of emotion she reacts with I've tried to not have a problem with this as
I know that's just her nature but it can be overwhelming sometimes and
embarrassing to others about 3 months ago we happened to get into a huge fight
she was telling a story to some friends and embellishing quite a bit so I just
said hey I think you're lying a bit here that didn't really happen like that I
wasn't trying to take away from the story but I hate liars and she does it a
fair bit when storytelling she told me that she just does it for comedic effect
and that everyone knows she doesn't tell stories 100% accurately
it was still bothering me however after everyone went home I brought it up again
and she told me that we'd already talked about it and she didn't need me to
correct her in front of her friends I'll spare the rest but we essentially got
into a fight and I raised my voice she immediately started crying more like
sobbing and I told her that she was being manipulative doing that every time
I bring up something she takes as a critique she begins crying and it's a
manipulative way to get me to stop talking about whatever is bothering me
my mom did the same thing to my dad and I hate when women do that she asked me
through shuddered breathing if I really thought that and I said yes I told her
that she manipulates the argument into going her way by crying and being the
victim she told me she couldn't even look at me and locked herself into our
room to calm down she came out a few hours later and told me that she was
sorry if I thought she was being manipulative and that it wouldn't happen
again the problem was solved right except it's not at all I didn't notice
it immediately but she started pulling away from me she won't watch movies with
me if there's any s sad parts she doesn't tell me the stories she used to
she won't tell stories to friends when I'm around and now our friends don't
want me to go out when they do because they say she's not fun when I'm there
she stopped reading books in the living room stopped watching unpredictable TV
shows and won't even talk to her mom on the phone when I'm in the room I feel
like I'm living with a ghost now it wasn't until yesterday that I even
realized I hadn't seen her cry since our
fight I brought it up last night and she told me that she didn't want to
manipulate me anymore I told her that her everyday crying wasn't manipulative
and she said so it's only manipulative when you're mad at me and now I don't
know what to do I apologized and said I was wrong for saying that to begin with
and that I shouldn't have but it didn't help I asked if she wanted to watch The
Notebook with me since it's her favorite movie and she told me she doesn't like
it anymore so what do I do can I do anything advice from married men and
women please tldr I called my wife manipulative for crying during an
argument and now she's emotionally distant from me and won't accept my
apology comment running away 6797 why did you marry your wife if you
hated how she was I highly doubt she just started crying over everything
after you got married op I don't hate how she is normally she cries a lot and
I get that but when she does it during an argument to turn the tide it honestly
bothers me spicy Margarita 143 you start off your post by saying you never fight
so if it doesn't sound like this is that frequent An Occurrence and if your wife
easily cries over sad movies books Etc would would that imply to you that it's
not something she can control and thus when you're having a fight and emotions
are high she cries because she's feeling deeply and is not manipulative op but
she doesn't stop she can't calm down and come back to talk she can't discuss it
over the phone and she tells me how sad it makes her when we text there has to
be a way to overcome problems in relationships outside of ignoring them
curly locks I am a CER and always have been it isn't manipulation at all it is
how my body works when I feel strong emotions good or bad and has nothing to
do with the person or people I am with I have always been this way even as a
child and it is a personality trait I actually liken myself if someone told me
that I was being manipulative by outwardly showing my emotions that would
spell the end of my relationship with them calling your wife a liar in front
of friends was probably very hurtful and was something you could have discussed
with her later and privately op I didn't outwardly call her a liar but you're
right there was a better time and place to address that update something to add
to my relationship advice post I doubt many people will read this as it's a
part of my personal profile I've read and considered the comments under my
thread and appreciate them I've scheduled with an online therapist for
tomorrow and I'm currently waiting for my wife to come home I'm not sure how
she's going to react to what I have to say but I'm hoping she will give me a
chance to make this right I know it isn't something that can be fixed in a
day or with a simple apology but I'm willing to try anything at this point
I've researched marriage counselors in our area but want to see how she feels
before going forward with it I also called my parents and let them know we
would be going to NC with them for a while while I tried to fix my mistakes
at home I'm not so sure they will want to talk with me even if I fix it as they
were Furious that I would be excluding them from this part of my life but going
off of the threat I know that that's a boundary I need to make to be able to
focus my energy where it's needed and disregard opinions that could only prove
to further divide us I know many people have hoped she will leave me and if
that's the Avenue she wants to proceed with I won't hold her back from happy
future with someone who doesn't diminish
her feelings and make her feel like less than she is update I talked to my wife
last night there was so much to say and I've never been good about sharing my
feelings so it started off painfully awkward I started with apologizing not
what I did before by just saying sorry but a full I attacked your character and
assumed the worst of you when given no prior reasoning to do so I've damaged
and hurt you in a way that I will never forgive myself for and I would
understand if you couldn't either there is more but I'll save you guys from
every detail she was mostly shocked when I started and didn't say anything but
she did reach out for me in the first time since I messed up she looked like
she was trying so hard not to cry and I let her know that her crying has never
been the problem in our relationship and that my unwillingness to accept people
and see the worst was it resulted in tears and in that moment I realized how
much I missed her being there I told her about how I was starting therapy and
that I would like to do marriage counseling someday to do what I can to
mend the damages I've caused between us but that I would would need to go by
myself for a while to get to the base reasons of why I react so harshly to
things some of the comments suggest I write a letter to her and so while I
waited for her to get home I did that I wrote about how much I loved her all of
the things about her that made me happy all the quirks and mannerisms that were
undoubtedly her and then I told her I went NC with my parents I've never seen
her light up so fast she asked me if I was being serious and I told her that to
be able to focus on her I couldn't have them whispering in my ear anymore she
hugged me and cried for the better part of an hour saying that they're one of
the worst parts of being married to me she said she can't forgive easily but
that she wants to work on us together she wants us to move away from my family
and we were discussing options that could make that possible I am not a good
person in general no one has ever described me as warm or caring except my
wife and I almost lost her for being manipulative and selfish I can't put
into words how much I appreciate every comment no matter the content it made me
realize just how much I messed up I don't deserve her but she's willing to
give me a second chance at this and I'm going to be different I don't think
it'll be quick or easy but I would do anything for her I don't know if I'll
ever update after this I have a lot of growing up and groeling ahead of me it's
not the update a lot of you wanted but thank you for your help comment from op
explaining why he had no contact with his parents I appreciate your comment my
family definitely has a lot of problems but my mom is one of them I don't want
to get into detail about her because I don't know her very well and she very
well could have been a used by my father however when I was in elementary she
drowned my dog as a punishment for something remedial I'm going to focus on
my primary relationship with my wife and consider during that time how much time
I want to continue devoting to my family after that op has very repetitive
comments on his posts but the gist of it
is one his wife embellishes stories like standup comedians and exaggerates a bit
she doesn't lie about him two his father told him that his mother manipulates by
crying all the time op has never seen his mom cry three his wife sobs no
matter the mode of communication which makes it difficult for them to
communicate on topics That Make Her sad and he thought it was manipulative hence
the post but now they're working on this and he's going to therapy update number
two I wasn't sure I'd be back to update but I've been receiving a lot of
messages asking me how everything has been going and I figured I'd let
everyone know who still wants to know my wife's pregnant about 3 months along
maybe more I saw a pregnancy test in the the trash in the bathroom a few weeks
ago I waited for her to bring it up to me but she never did I asked her about
it last week and she started crying telling me that she loved me so much and
that this didn't mean anything we're both ASU she used to be anyway she said
when we were fighting she caught up with
someone who doesn't mean anything to her and things progressed past where she
thought they would she told me she's always been as cuu so she just wanted to
verify there's not much I could say at the moment and I needed time to process
the information she told me I'd betrayed her when we'd fought and I'd called her
manipulative so now we're on even ground and have a chance to start over I see
the logic in that but it doesn't feel right I feel an ache in my chest that
won't go away no matter what I do I never wanted kids I've seen what growing
up can look like and I wouldn't put someone else through it no matter how
hard I work would I ever really be different from those who raised me it
wasn't worth the risk and physical touch makes my skin crawl but here's my wife
telling me she's pregnant has no intention to tell the other man and is
waiting for me to say something I told her that pregnancy was going to be
difficult and that I'd buy some books on it she was so happy she went to look at
baby registry and I've been in this weird State since I have put in a lot of
work to ensure that our relationship can grow from what it was I have therapy
multiple times a week and it's proved to
be one of the most difficult things I've experienced I wanted nothing more than
for us to work out and be what we used to be and I still want that but I feel
betrayed maybe even more so since she didn't apologize for sleeping with
someone she's happy that we can be a family of three ecstatic even and she
wants me to be as well my mind is divided between what's logical and how
it makes me feel her family will help with advising on children and the kid
will have one set of grandparents my parents are still in NC but now the rest
of my family is as well I can't even get into contact with grandchildren across
the sea I've been cut off from everyone on my side but I knew this could be a
possible outcome that leaves my therapist and Reddit to talk to that's
who I am now I suppose my my wife doesn't work and I promised her until
the end she's skipping around the house talking about child safety where the
nursery will be the best schools and names and I've been in the office
reading books that prepare you for Parenthood she's worried about people
asking her about the baby when it won't look like me I'm worried I'll turn into
my dad and ruin this child's life before
they even have one so cheers to everyone comments Mand D68 now you're even no
that's not how this works nothing absolutely nothing gives you a pass for
adultery if you didn't want kids in the first place why would you want to raise
someone else's child I get you wanting to keep your vows but she didn't keep up
with your therapy really think this through do what is right for you I hope
it all works out for the best hospital automatic what the hell this is not okay
I know what you did was wrong and you tried to fix it but this does not excuse
cheating at all and the fact that she thinks that makes you guys even as
disgusting is she expecting you to raise another man's child and not find a
problem with it I didn't think she was manipulative before but that statement
definitely was I think you should leave her at this point how long was the
affair was she going to get an abortion was she going to tell you who did she
cheat with and when there are so many questions here most importantly your
feelings of betrayal and sadness are valid you don't deserve this she's
broken your marriage vows and taken away many of your choices including being
childless when you've just started to work on yourself altruistic usual 855
are you literally going to let it slide that she literally broke the sanctity of
your marriage in the worst way possible and now isn't even planning on telling
the real father about any of this what the hell update parents attempting
contact I've been in NC with my parents for the last 5 months the decision
wasn't easy because of cultural expectations especially regarding the
oldest children but it was necessary for my marriage and the current counseling
goals that I'm holding myself to their reaction to me going to NC was screaming
and blaming my wife for the decision I told them I was firm on my course of
action and blocked them from contacting me or my wife through our phones and
social media about 2 months ago my wife started receiving emails that were
mostly inan comments about her weight and looks she's currently pregnant I
blocked the senders but she' contined getting them from various shortlife
email accounts until she decided to create a new email after that came the
packages there was no return address and all that was inside were letters
detailing how our relationship had ruined and stained my family what an
embarrassment I was for being in therapy Etc I go through all the mail before
giving my wife hers now opening anything
that looks even remotely suspicious last week we received an edible arrangement
with some fruit my wife had an intolerance along with a note giving
their distinct blessing for a divorce I apologize for the long post I feel the
need to vent without overly worrying my wife about the issue however I'm worried
they'll show up at our place when I'm not home and harass my wife has anyone
had any success mitigating aggressive contact update moving forward I'm
updating here as a means to to quell questions that I've been receiving over
the past few weeks I do understand that this isn't my child by blood that seems
to be weighing heavily on others minds and I am aware of that I'm also aware
that children abandoned by their parents
or viewed negatively for the simple fact of existing grow up poorly with low
self-worth and no chance to thrive while
I never wanted children I wouldn't leave one to suffer because of others poor
choices I've been in contact with the father and his responses toward her were
pejorative overall my wife has also decided that parent in isn't what she
thought it would be she offered me full custody in return for spousal support
and I've decided to take that option with her I filed for divorce she wants
freedom and I want this to be behind me I'll always love her but this is the
right move for both of us to whoever knows me from my posts and has decided
to share everything with my family I hope you received whatever it is you
were looking for by doing that if they were impertinent before they're a
nightmare now congratulations on that and for your health may we never meet my
daughter is thriving now now the pediatrician suggested donor milk and
she's doing better than ever she's happy healthy and well cared for while she
only has me as a parent which is a disconcerting thought I believe we're
making the best of the situation I don't see myself updating anymore my life has
found a rhythm that is suitable for us both despite being a far cry from what I
saw my life being only a year ago cheers to an unexpected but bright future
comments Ms here at all your ex-wife may
not have been manipulating You by crying but she is a horrendous piece of of sht
for cheating on you having the affair baby and then dumping it on you when it
wasn't the fantasy she wanted I hope you remain in therapy and that one day you
enter a relationship where you never have to experience this sht again and I
hope you and that baby are happy and healthy also this might be too rude but
F your parents also your ex doesn't deserve spousal support she should be
paying you child support you come across as a very traditional man but that
doesn't mean htty people should be taking advantage of you Bon Aipom you're
a good man it's inspiring to see how you've persevered and despite coming
from the childhood that you had you seem wholly determined to give your daughter
only the best I don't know what the hell your ex-wife's problem is but I'm glad
you don't have to deal with it anymore I second the comment that says she should
be paying you child support instead of you providing spousal support she
cheated she wanted the baby she wanted the divorce you're the sole guardian of
the child and you have to deal with your shtt family while you're giving her
money surely you deserve better in any case I'm wishing you and your daughter a
beautiful life filled with love quirky tea party 65 you're making the most of a
bad situation I hope you're continuing with the therapy you've come a long way
from the first post and you should be proud of the progress you've made thank
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what have your pets done that is worryingly smart I had a cat that
learned how to open the fridge then my dog started begging my cat for food then
the cats started getting into the fridge just to feed the dog I patiently await
the day where my pets would decide to overthrow me and have me fixed I'm not
fighting it that'll only make it worse in the long run had him for about 3
months and my dog didn't like him to be fair my dog didn't like anybody that
wasn't me or food husband's dog wasn't too interested in him either anyways so
one day the cat got up onto the counter and found some leftover chicken does he
eat the chicken nope he knocks a piece off the counter watches it fall down my
dog taking it and walking to the carpet to eat it second dog comes up tosses
another piece off dog goes to the carpet first dog comes back for the next piece
until all the chicken was gone didn't eat a single piece himself freak
occurrence no cleaning lady kicked the dogs outside to mob their Hooves were
inside C brings the dog a hoof my dog runs off with his hoof second dog waits
for him picks it up spits it back out and waits cat runs back and side grabs
another hoof and takes it to him dogs doesn't want that either goes back to
fetch a third hoof dog finally accepts that one and runs off cat goes back to
lying in the bookshelf here's a bonus story about my cat I have this red
lighter and I've had it for almost four years now it's one of my most prized
possessions because come on it's a lighter that lasted almost 4 years after
my dog passed away we got a new friend for the second dog this new friend liked
to steal things and eat them she got hold of this red lighter and it was gone
a week later in the middle of the night the cat jumps onto the bed and tries to
wake me up I can hear there's something in his mouth very unlike him in being
3:00 a.m. I wanted nothing to do with him so I shooted him away husband
happened to be awake C goes to him smacks his leg to get his attention and
drops my red lighter on the floor at his feet minus one piece it's all good
husband rewards the cow with scratches and a treat a few hours later he came
back with another lighter one which was not mine I don't know where he found it
but he brought it to me too sometimes animals are more Bros than humans to I
would do the old trick when my cat yawns to stick my finger in his mouth don't
know why I do it I guess it's just funny
to see his expression when boom suddenly finger so the other day he's sitting on
my lap and I yawn he wakes up and does a stretch perfectly putting his paw in my
mouth boom suddenly paw still no idea if by accident or if planned his smug
expression afterwards makes me blean towards the ladder my dog did this and
it was definitely deliberate it was a very sweet incredibly well behaved
slightly nervous dog because he'd been through a lot with his past owner before
we got him he would rather die than misbehave anyway I used to have him
sleep on my bed right up beside me when I was a little kid when he was getting
sleepy he'd yawn a lot and because he had dog breath I'd always put my hand on
his snout to close his mouth one day I was lying there facing him looking at
how cute he was I started yawning and then bam he'd suddenly stuck his whole
foot in my mouth out of nowhere the look in his eyes also left me with no doubts
that it was deliberate he also pissed on someone who was staying at her house
who'd been teasing him it was my parents
friend's poop head kid they were camping out on the floor and in our living room
in the middle of the night our dog again the most well- behaved dog in the world
who would hold it in all day rather than pee in the house crept into the living
room quietly stepped across all the other sleeping people in the room until
he got to this kid and then cocked his leg in his head best dog ever Story
three back when I was a kid my family had an incredibly intelligent Cavalier
King Charles panel she had somehow managed to learn several dozen different
words to the point where we could tell her to go find certain people to wait
for us in certain rooms or to pick out specific items from her collection of
about 15 different toys this dog would even obey remarkably detailed commands
combining those elements like go get your hedgehog then bring it to dad in
his office suffice to say she was a damned remarkable pet now this dog's
favorite toy was a little stuffed animal that was vaguely shaped like a human
which we refer to as her baby she would wrestle with it tote it around the house
and keep it right next to her whenever the family would gather to watch a movie
or something after a year or so of such Adventures though the toy started to get
a little bit worn out so my mother decided to replace it and effort to
surprise the dog she discreetly put the old baby in the garbage then stood in
the middle of the living room with a new one behind her back coyote my mother
called the dog's name was kod though we pronounced every letter kot come here as
expected the dog came bounding into the room a happy spring in her step where's
your baby go get your baby everyone expected the dog to approach the corner
where her toys were kept discovered the item was missing then Mount to search
for it she done similar things in the past after all with hide-and-seek being
one of the many games she seemingly enjoyed but rather than behaving as
anticipated kot trotted over to the trash compactor and started pressing on
its foot pedal with her paws she wasn't heavy enough to get the thing open but
the intention was clear enough in the end kod wound up with two babies story
four my dog let's call her a had a dog friend who was dumb as a brick let's
call him B when be's owners were out of town he'd stay with us a was a bit
spoiled and had lots of Bones and toys she never touched unless be wanted to
have them one day when a was checking out who was cooking in the kitchen and
if she could snag some food B got hold of one of her bones B was a large dog
and once he had something he wasn't giving it up a was fairly big herself
but she didn't compare to B so a comes out of the kitchen realizes that bee has
her bone that she hasn't touched in months and is having none of it she
knows from past experiences that she can't just snag the bone away from be so
she grabs a tennis ball and sneaks up behind him and drops it on his head bee
stares up at the ceiling for about 3 minutes trying to figure out what's
happening and a snags the bone and hides it be looks down and sees that the bone
is gone and then stares at the ceiling for another 5 minutes trying to figure
out how it took his bone rest in peace a you were an amazing dog I'm very
confused by your choice to maintain the anonymity of the dogs Story five not my
pet but I found a dog on the side of the road once took it in tried to find its
owner it had a chip so the local shelter reached out to him for me didn't hear
from him immediately so I let this dog stay with me when I took him to the
shelter they recognized him right off the bat said he had been in before full
Brad Australian Shepherd super sweet get along well with my cat no accidents in
the house clearly well trained 2 days later I go to work still no word from
the owner let the dog roam free in the house during the day since he seemed so
well behaved boyfriend comes home midday the dog and my cat are sitting outside
the front yard all doors are shut and locked my boyfriend very confused calls
me wondering how the hell both animals are outside our first thought is that
someone broke in he goes inside and notices the window on the side of the
house as the window slid up and the screen pushed out we heard from the
owner the next day finally he had been out of town I met up with him to give
him the dog explained to him what happened with the window he said oh yeah
that happens all the time he knows how to open Windows story six well there was
the rat that learned how to run on his hind legs or how he kept tricking people
by looking cute and cuddly until they went within biting range at which point
he dropped the facade and strike them he also was able to understand locks and
levers and similar physics and if he didn't get the food he wanted or the
treatment he wanted he would threaten us menacingly moving towards us as if to
bite he would also communicate to us when he wanted something if the water
bottle was empty he would go to it and start sneezing and rattling the bars if
the cage needed cleaning he'd get our attention and start sneezing
deliberately we used to call him doing this letters to the editor as it was
always done with a rage of the type of person who writes into Sunday newspaper
about issues of the day he had a human presence and personality to the degree
that his resing expression looked more like the face of a human than a rat he
changed this when luring someone towards him and he looked almost unrecognizable
unfortunately he hated people but if you
treated him with a respect as if he were
a human he liked that if people CED over him he would attack them he hated being
a little furry cute thing too it was put to sleep about 9 months ago now a day
goes by that I don't miss the psychotic little a-hole story seven oh boy my
working Lan German Shepherd female learned to operate paddle handle doors
at about 3 months and would let herself out afterward learned to operate a
normal doorknob by biting it and twisting it within about 25 minutes
learned the trick behind the sliding glass door at my mom's house bites that
handle and pulls it open then learned to move the stick that was blocking the
door from being open so she could go outside old doors in my house have to be
locked or she will decid to let herself out is impervious to the tennis ball and
the food trick because she simply picks up the tennis ball moves it and then
goes to eat her food as quickly as she wants routinely tricks my 10-year-old
German Shepherd by barking at the front door he gets up and runs to the front
door then she runs and steals his toy sometimes tricks Me by whining like she
has to go out GSS are very vocal and you can interpret their wine types after a
while then when she goes out Simply goes to get her frisbee toy can easily tell
when the treats in my hand run out and will sometimes stop doing her training
if she knows I no longer have treats in my hand when she got sick once and
couldn't hold her poop went inside the bathroom in the house to do it I
couldn't even be mad both know my running shoes mean to run and my hiking
bag means going on a hike if you think about it animals are crazy smart well at
least to have companions who truly understand us and love us animals are
just really genuine anyway I'm pretty sure there are some pets out there that
could hit the like button subscribe to the channel will you let pets beat you
to it come on do it I know you want to story8 my family had a golden retriever
when when we were teenagers who was one of the smartest dogs I've ever known she
had a very peculiar and adorable way of letting us know that she was pissed at
us as a puppy she got in trouble a few times for stealing food off her counters
she most often stole a loaf of bag bread but quickly learned that stealing bread
was a big no no after a few times well one Saturday we had to take a day trip
somewhere I think a football tournament we had only planned on staying a Max of
4 hours so we just left her home knowing that she wouldn't get in any trouble I
can't remember the details but circumstances forced us to stay at the
tournament for the entire day so our poor dog was left home all day we felt
terrible and raced home as soon as we could when we got to our house we
couldn't find her she normally would greet us at the door and go crazy but
this time we were met with nothing my parents start looking for her and after
a few minutes I hear my mom laughing from her room our dog had grabbed every
single loaf of bread sitting on the counter and carried it to their room
gently placing it on the bed for us to find every loaf was perfect sa for a
little indentation where she had carried
it in her mouth no puncture marks or the plastic wrapping no missing pieces just
perfect loaves of bread on my parents' bed sitting right next to their bed was
our dog with a smug look on her face that said you see what I could have done
but I didn't don't leave me home alone again we never left her home alone for
that long again but every once in a while my parents would still find a
perfect loaf of bread in their bed I miss that dog story n when I get asked
to do some things I'll groan jokingly and do the thing anyway and when I call
my dog while she's sleeping or if I accidentally nudge her at the foot of
the bed then she groans with an attitude like I would kind of adorable kind of
freaky my dog knows my caller ID sometimes need to call home for my cell
and her home phone speaks the incoming Call's caller ID the only time my dog
ever house is when a call and the answering machine says my ID she's done
it when my mom is off somewhere else in the house and can't hear the phone
ringing she doesn't do it for any other phone call even if I'm not home I also
tried calling it while I'm still home to see if I can get her to howl but she
just looks at me like I'm an idiot my dog also has two bowls one for food and
one for water whenever I give her some crushed ice to lick in the water bowl
she'll pick up chunks of the ice and put
them in the food bowl instead apparently solids equal food bowl even if said
solids turn into water she learns a lot of things on her own and doesn't really
care what I think which can cause me a lot of headaches but I wouldn't trade
her for anything in the world story 10 not so much worrying as it is somewhat
annoying and funny but my golden will walk up to the Xbox look at the Xbox
button Boop it with his nose and wait for the light to turn on and the chime
to sound then just walk away all satisfied looking for a couple of months
I would come home from work and noticed the Xbox was on but no I had to turn it
off I accused my fiance of leaving it on until one day I was in the Next Room
room and heard the chime so I ran in and he was walking away from it then he
started to get flagrant about it and did it right in front of me and eventually
turned it off if I was playing it and he wanted my attention goldens are a trip
one night I had paused the movie on my laptop and fell asleep he was laying at
the bedroom door and could see the movie
he thought we should keep watching so he snuck onto my bed and hit the space bar
I didn't wake up until a loud fight scene a while in and freaked out he was
just curled up on my bed watching you'll never know maybe he thinks you're the
Pat and he's in charge no Xbox and no sleeping with the movies and finished
dog rules story 11 not as much smart rather worryingly calculated on
Christmas Eve I was wrapping the cat's favorite treats because I'm that person
the three boys weren't too fussed about this but Amber the princess wanted the
treats now of course she's a cat and has no concept of Christmas so I gave her
one of her normal treats and put the presents away she was not amused by this
now the thing about Amber is that she never came upstairs she had tiny little
legs that made the journey too long so she comeand deared the downstairs
instead but that night I was woken up by a weird cat chirping I opened my eyes
and on the Shelf eye level across from me was Amber I was confused as to a why
she was upstairs and B how she got on my shelf as I was thinking this whilst
maintaining eye contact she stuck out a pawn and swiped one action figure off
the shelf I didn't react at first so she did another and another by the third I
realized what she was doing and I said her name in shock to which she hopped
off the shelf and left my room like it was nothing that confirmed my suspicions
that Amber held grudges and exact Revenge my other cat systematically
tests for weaknesses in my door he Jingles my keys in the wall he knows
that that noise gets that door to open he's finally managed to unlock the dead
bolt with his little paw if that a-hole could turn the door knob he'd be gone my
fat cat has devised an alarm system by laying on top of my foot or having his
foot touch my foot whenever possible so that when I get up if he's sleeping
he'll wake up just in case I'm going to feed him story 12 my dog is afraid of
the smoke alarm after a while he discovered the toaster could set the
alarm off if toast burned so he became scared of the toaster eventually
eventually he figured out the noise the bread bag made as it preceded the
toaster noise so he became scared of that eventually he figured out the
kettle turning and usually accompanied the bread bag noise so he became scared
of that now we have just reached the point that he has figured out the time
of day we go into the kitchen to turn on the kettle and open the bread bag so he
has scheduled his fear to that I'm always Blown Away how he been able to
figure all this out not sure if it is really that smart but it impresses me to
clarify the smoke alarm has only actually gone off once or twice but he
remembers it well we're also training him with treats to not be scared he's
also a Chihuahua cross so being scared of noises is kind of his thing you'd be
surprised how much dogs lives revolve around your routine as soon as my alarm
goes off every morning my dog sits in front of the door waiting for his walk
and if I snooze it one too many times he takes it upon himself to be my alarm by
getting in my bed and putting his face next to mine no matter where he is in
the house he can hear me put my shoes on and he knows that it's something I do
every time before I walk or a trip to the dog park so he always comes
downstairs and sits in front of me while intently staring at me he knows that if
I wake up and don't get ready for work that it's the weekend or whatever he
calls it and is more excited than when it's a weekday magnificent creatures hi
you don't seem to know what time it is it's walk's time story 13 my dog has
pooped on the floor and casually placed my husband's underwear over it stole in
the cat's bag and hid it behind the entertainment center has been the only
dog to break out of his boarding kennel find his own bag and walk around the
front waiting for a walk he's an a-hole but such a sweet baby story 14 I have
rats six Boys in one cage four girls in another and a solo boy in his own
separate cage solo boy has behavioral issues so he can't be HED with anything
but himself I've tried everything from getting him snipped to going
ridiculously slow with introductions nothing he goes for the kill with
everything myself included my partner was the one who found this out Loki the
a-hole in question is able to open his cage door by putting all his weight on
it free roaming our apartment to do God knows what then just goes back into his
cage whenever he's done you're probably asking how he closes the door preventing
us from notic ing him escaping right well I had a chew toy in the door for
him and this smart a-hole literally just pulls on the damn chew toy I wouldn't
have known he was getting out if it had not been for my partner waking up in the
middle of the night to use the washroom Smartest little SOB I've ever met nephew
Loki and now know it's you who's been destroying my furniture and the reason
why I won't get my damage deposit back I hope you enjoyed the video and if you
made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy teachers what student was so smart
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am I wrong for embarrassing my girlfriend friend's boyfriend my
girlfriend wanted us to go on a double date with her friend and her boyfriend I
had met the friend before but never the boyfriend so I asked my GF what he was
like he's been out of work for nearly a year now and will refuse to apply for
any job that isn't specific to what he wants to do he lives with his parents
and expects my GFS friend to pay for everything when they go out we got to
the date and he immediately suggested doing rounds for drinks so his GF got
the first round in I got the next one then my GF got the one after that he
then told his GF what he wanted to drink so she could get the next round I just
mentioned that it was his round next his
response was just I don't have any money
I just asked why he suggested rounds and
expected everyone else to buy him drinks
then if he knew he wasn't going to do it back he just started going on about not
having money so I just said that maybe if he bothered applying for jobs he'
actually be able to pay his way instead of expecting everyone else to pay for
him he said I was completely out of order but I just pointed out I'm not the
one expecting my GF to pay for everything for me because I'm too lazy
to get a job my girlfriend agreed with me and he walked off his GF apologized
to us both then left with him I was talking to a friend about it and he said
I shouldn't have said anything and that I was wrong for what I said and that I
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Story one when I was a young kid I got a job babysitting for my neighbors they
had two little girls who were just the easiest kids to look after the mom and
dad were super nice people dad was a nurse who worked mainly nights and Mom
worked from home and would ask me over Friday nights so she could go out and
have some downtime I quickly found out though that she was seeing other men the
first night I went over there the mom informed me she would be home no later
than midnight while 4:00 a.m. rolled around and I was woken up by noise out
in the porch and saw hastily kiss another man and Che him off she
apologizes for being late pays me was $5 short and I go home to my mom mom who's
pissed that she kept me so late the same thing happened two more times she
promised to be home at midnight and come home at 3:00 or 4: in the morning every
time with a different guy and every time
would stiffen me with a little of what I earned my mom put a stop to it and
called her out for cheating on her husband they ended up getting divorced
not long after that instead of short changing the sitter maybe she should
have sweetened the deal with extra cash to keep things Hush Hush but hey the
sitter should still spill the beans right story too I used to babysit for a
pair of girls and the six-year-old was always trying to show me what she could
stick inside her down there I was pretty weirded out out by that she would even
try and show me in the street corner she had no shame about it I also got fired
from that job for washing the floor I used to do busy work when the kids were
sleeping the Mom was convinced I washed the floor because something terrible
happened and I had to clean it up okay she even had her niece who was in my
grade at school gr me to get me to admit what I had spilled on the floor she was
a school counselor she always used to mow the lawn in really inappropriate
bikinis and had some living French boy toy the kid's real daddy lived in
Jamaica somewhere they never saw him I can't say they were especially weird in
any other respect but the babysitter they hired after me was 4 years younger
than me and probably got paid less than me she claimed the floor was sticky
after I washed it I didn't notice any stickiness when I was done and her kids
were awake when they washed it so I don't know why she just didn't ask them
if anything was spilled they would have seen it I have a suspicion that she just
wanted to pay the other girl less than me my sister and the new sitter were
friends and she admitted the mom P her way less than me I have no idea what she
needed her niece to grill me on it I guess she was an overly suspicious type
of Lady Story three I wasn't really babysitting as the girl was older and
was mature enough to take care of herself just fine while her mother was
at work I was paid to to keep her safe her father got into illegal substances
and women which turned him quite violent and scary the mother kicked him out and
he vanished for a while I knew all of this because I was close to the family a
few months go by and he starts showing up banging on the doors she was inside
scared to death hiding he leaves and she runs to my place balling her eyes out
and begging me to protect her I let her in and close the blinds she knew I would
keep her safe I was a brick house back then I told her to keep the doors closed
and not leave the house as I needed to walk to her mother's work to let her
know what was going on small town it wasn't a far walk that I would keep her
at my place until she was off work after that day I was hired I was paid in
freshly baked cookies and a can of pop to hang out with her daughter while she
was at work she was a good kid we had always gotten along so it was no biggie
today it took her to see beus and Butthead Do America in the theater her
dad went to prison I believe and we stopped hanging out several years later
we bumped into each other in a big city on a bus she was so happy to see me
thank me again for being her big protective sister all those years ago it
was the last time we saw each other I think about her often I wish I knew
where she was and if she was okay story four as spent a summer babysitting the
two most spoiled little brats that's ever been my displeasure to come across
their names were Mary and Kristen their mom was an awesome lady but she tried to
overcompensate for an absent father who was apparently quite the cruel a holder
her luckily the kids had no memory of this she was smart enough to know out of
that marriage before he could do any harm to the girls anyway things were
fine for the first week or so then one evening I told the eldest Kristen that
she wasn't to have more than three cookies before dinner that i' had
already given her and I really wasn't supposed to have given her those her
response she took off all her clothing and ran into the wall over and over hard
enough to leave d as I watched her do this in absolute horror I noticed
similar dents all over the Walls Within 5 minutes her little sister Mary had
begun to do this too well I let them do it I wasn't having it even at my age
then I had no tolerance for that crap so I sat down and read a book while they
proceeded to destroy mom's security deposit she'd do this till she passed
out her kid Sister too at least they were always in bed by the time Mom got
home they were also horrific tattletails eventually they started punishing them
for whatever their friends did that they
ratted them out for I did this mainly to keep them from being tormented in the
playground KidCo dictates that you don't tattle tail and didn't have time for
that crap Mary Emily stole my chocolate and ate it all right Mary well then no
snack for you I'm pleased to say that they were much less spoiled rotten by
the time I moved on and quit watching them and have turned into proper healthy
lovely women but my God I will always see those two little brates the bare
squawky Little Devils I once knew them as I envy those kids those little
Daredevils have a bright feature in the demolition business mapped out from an
early age Watch Out World Story five that reminds me of a family used to
babysit there were three kids the oldest was the girl and then there were two
younger autistic boys while the mother treated them all equally the father
didn't he obviously played favorites with the girl and was always yelling at
the two autistic boys it's really just tragic all around it was especially hard
to witness because the father had no idea he was doing it it was obviously
because the father had a hard time coping with the boy's autism it seemed
like he knew it was wrong but couldn't get past his issues I have no doubt he
loved the boys when I was babysitting them I was helping the middle child Ben
get ready for bed in the middle of brushing his teeth he goes Rockstar
state do you think I'm bad what no I think you're wonderful Ben I think I'm
bad that's silly you aren't bad I love playing with you do you love me I love
you oh of course I love you Ben it kind of broke my heart because he's usually
so Lively but he got really sad and serious when he said it needless to say
he got an extra bedtime story that night they were the absolute best kids I've
ever babysat so extremely well-tempered too and absolutely adorable story six I
Babys sat for a very prominent family in my town wife was a CEO husband was a
lawyer it was the best job ever two easygoing kids $15 an hour this was 15
years ago so that was a ton of money access to their pool in an open
invitation for my friends to come swim while I was working in between my first
and second Summers working for them the parents divorced and the dad bought a
giant house out in the country where he'd watch the kids sometimes he made it
very clear that his office and all the out buildings were strictly off limits
okay whatever no problem he had a grounds keeper who was always prowling
around hitting on me and acting like a total creeper if the kids or eye came
within 20 ft of the supposedly empty Stables he'd chew us away saying he'd
spot a dangerous snake just sprayed for bugs or some other BS reason to keep us
away I came home from school a few months after my summer gig was over and
saw the dad's mug shot on TV he'd been busted as some kind of smalltime kingpen
sing snow to dealers out of his house in
the country and his grounds keeper was a wanted man it was a huge embarrassing
ordeal for his ex-wife and their kids and they eventually moved away the
parents freaked out that I was working so close to criminal activity and
wouldn't let me babysit anymore after that it was a bummer all around story
seven when I was a teenager I was babysitting for a family whose dog had
just been hit by a car and had broken leg there was one kid a little girl had
been asked to take the dog out to pee a few times that night it to be leash
walked so while the little girl was happily watching TV and her parents bed
it took the dog out to the front yard the people neglected to tell me that the
front door locked on its own when it's closed I've never ever seen a door in a
house do that so when it turned to go back in I was loed out with a little
girl alone in the house I went across the street to the neighbor I think they
mentioned that their neighbor had a spare key if ever needed one no answer I
go over to the window where I can see the kid and try to instruct her to open
the door she goes to the front door and from the window along the side of the
door and points pointing and saying open the door go on open the door and she's
not getting it she breaks down crying hysterically because she doesn't know
I'm not coming back in then runs back to her parents bed to continue sobbing I
felt horrible the next door neighbor notices what's going on and asks what's
up it was kind of a shady guy it was the
last guy in the neighborhood not to sell his property for flipping it was a
well-off neighborhood and he had the last tiny brick bungalow among giant
rebuilds he had a lovely unmowed lawn growing around an old rusty car up in
blocks nice guy though he said oh I can break in for you let me get my tools so
he proceeds to go up on the roof and completely remove their Skylight one of
those Plexi bubble type ones and drop himself down into the house luckily the
little girl had fallen asleep on a parents bed by that point when the
parents came home they felt awful for not telling me about the door and I had
to tell them they should get their Skylight checked for leaks the neighbor
across the street later told me she does have their spare key and was home that
night and heard me ringing the doorbell but she had just had a bath and was in
her bathrob and didn't feel like answering she felt pretty bad about that
that's pretty wild I mean MacGyver would
be proud of the roof drop maneuver right miss an impossible vibe all the way and
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you story8 I haven't babysat in a while but when I was a teenager I watched two
kids up the street the mother was single and had another single friend with two
kids so I usually watch them all I knew they went out to party which was fine
because they'd come home buzzed and pay me more than I expected what I didn't
know was how much they partied one evening I went upstairs to get money for
pizza found both moms in the bathroom snow the worst thing was when they
offered me some despite the fact that a I was about to spend the night watching
their young children and B I was still young at the time story nine a baby
sadle little boyh had severe emotional problems one time he ran away while I
was upstairs playing with a sister he ran away to the park down the block
climbed a tree and refused to come down because no one loved him I was young and
didn't think about calling the police or
anything I just sat at the bottom of the tree and literally talked him down I
convinced him that I loved him and wanted him to Cal down his siblings also
helped me by saying they loved him it was so scary story 10 I usually take
care of three siblings the younger ones a girl and a boy who are twins usually
ask me the strangest questions one day the boy turned to me and asked me if I
shaved my legs I said that yes I do then the girl asked me if I shaved my hair
down there I was so surprised by the question that before answering the
little boy just told me that their mom doesn't do it but he continues she has
her leg shaved because my dad does it for her when they take showers together
not too strange but at the end of the night it was a bit weird looking at
their parents faces when they arrived kids and censored honesty it's like a
box of fireworks you never know when they're going to drop those unexpected
bombs on you story 11 I Babys sat regular L as a teen one night it was
business as usual I just laid the kids down for bed until I heard crying in the
bathroom I went in and the little one had a poop string hanging out of his
bottom I didn't want to pull it in case it was wrapped around something so I'm
trying to keep this kid calm and call his parents they didn't answer I call
over and over with this kid freaking out they called my mom who calmed me down
took their number and then chain called them until she got a hold of them they
rushed home and took him to the ER it was definitely my weirdest night this
drink came out fine by the way apparently the kid liked yarn a lot
story 12 used to Babys at my neighbor's kids actually a Babys sat them for one
night that was all there were three of them and the mother never really learned
how to discipline either as all three were literally the redheaded demon
children you always hear about I don't remember their names now the middle
child was on some sort of medication for an anger problem the youngest looked up
to the middle child and copied him and the eldest the sister was more mild
bannered but tolerable alone it started off normal the two younger kids were
riding their bikes around the neighborhood and the eldest and I were
doing a puzzle eventually the kids got bored so we broke out their game of
Connect 4 that went well for all of maybe five minutes the middle child lost
his game to the eldest so he threw the entire game set at her and she continued
to tease him which made him angrier he continued to throw things around and I
asked him to stop that's not nice he yelled shut up and tried to attack his
sister so she runs away screaming with him following behind the youngest
decided to try and get involved but somehow he trips and connects with the
middle child's foot as he's running so now I've got two kids roughing each
other up and one with a bloody nose I decided to leave the two Elder kids
while I dealt with a bloody nose here I'm holding a crying screaming child
over a sink with hot water running while I'm trying to stay calm and have the
other kids calm themselves I did end up screaming stop to the kids
and they stopped back to the youngest who's still crying I realized holy crap
the sink isn't draining the middle kids go Oh yeah that sink doesn't work okay
awesome I've got to clean off the carpet
H and now a sink full of water of course
this is when the middle child decides to lose it and grabs something sharp from
his mother's end table and tries to use it in his sister what on Earth I take it
from him so of course he comes back from
the kitchen with something else yay well at least he stopped trying to hurt his
sister for the time being and he resorted to stacking all of his mother's
Furniture instead but then I've called the mom like four times but she isn't
answering her phone so I end up calling my stepmom who's a retired military
because someone's going to get hurt and I'm starting to lose my temper so my
stepmom runs over to see exactly that I explain to her the situation and she
ends up restraining the middle child while I clean up the mess finally mom
calls back and I explain the situation to her as well and she says calmly yeah
his medication must have worn off just tell him he's done nothing wrong and to
give him what we want okay maybe that isn't the exact words but that's
basically what you told me to do screw that I I got out of there got paid $80
and that was my very last time babysitting story 18 when I was a kid a
baby sat for a weird family in my town they had three daughters who were super
awesome and we always had a blast when I started the youngest was just barely
born it turned into me babysitting for them more than their parents were home
or I was at my own home anyway the parents are into weird stuff one of the
things they like to do was for any major
decisions they needed to make they would get out a sinker attached to a string
and ask a questions if it swung a certain way it meant yes and if it went
the other way it meant no well anyway I've been watching these girls for a
couple of years in one night the mother asks where the father and I go when he
takes me home I tell her that he takes me home right away while she says that
it takes him two or 3 hours before he gets back obviously I'm stunned what
she's insinuating but they pay okay and they always know they were crazy anyway
about a week after this she tells me that I can no longer watch the kids
because her Sinker told her that the husband and I were having an affair we
weren't I was young and he was an ugly 37-year-old oh the magic H from
SpongeBob all hail the magic H story 14 I was young and babysitting two kids
across the street for the night night my parents were home and even brought
dinner so I felt pretty safe if the mother of the two children goes to leave
and says she'll be home in the early morning feel free to sleep in her bed I
ask about her husband she said he's home soon before her but go ahead and sleep
in their bed I got that weird gut feeling something was off and after
putting the kids to bed I curled up on the couch and tried to sleep the parents
came home sometime between 3:00 and 4: and I could hear them in the kitchen
commenting on how I was on the couch and not asleep in their bed as they had
hoped should they wake me carry me upstairs no just leave her I never said
anything to my parents and I avoided watching their kids for the next few years
the second and last time my baby sat for
them was 3 years later which ended to me
calling the parents home and leaving the house as their son had a fishing knife
and a whip gifts from Grandpa he was threatening me with story 15 a Babys sat
two little boys every day from 6:00 a.m. to 600 p.m. for the summer they had a
single mom who was super cool and let me take the boys to the beach pool
Boardwalk whatever one day when it got to work she informed me that her new
boyfriend who I never met or heard or talk about was going to stay home all
day because he was sick I wasn't sure why I had to be there too but I wanted
to pay and figured maybe he was too sick to watch the boys about lunchtime I fed
the boys and we walked to the community pool we were there for a while and come
back to the boyfriend watching TV in the living room this being the first time
meeting the boyfriend I introduced myself and sent the boys upstairs to
shower and change as soon as the boys left the room the boyfriend asked me to
take my cover up and bathing suit off being young naive I laughed and said
something stupid like what well he became more persistent at that point I
grabbed my stuff and told him I was leaving calling the police and the boy
mother looking back I probably should have taken the boys but I was freaked
out and not thinking I left and never looked back the police came talk to me
but when they got to the house the mom was there and he had left the mom never
believed me and didn't pay me for the week she accused me several times of
making it up to get out of work why she would believe that dirt bag she just met
over her babysitter of several months is beyond me I hope you enjoyed the video
and if you made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy what happens when you
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aita for telling my stepmother she's not second best SL a consolation prize
because she's not in the running my dad and my stepmother got married when I was
nine and I'm 17 now they have three kids together my mom died when I was eight
but my parents were already divorced and I think my dad was already dating my
stepmother at that point either that or he slash they rushed the relationship
because they assumed I would need a new mom because mine died it was a crazy AF
time my dad and stepmother decided we needed therapy together because she was
struggling and wanted to communicate some stuff to the two of us that she had
not before in therapy she started off talking about how she feels like she's
second best or a consolation prize with me she feels like I see her as less than
a parent less than a mother and it hurts she talked about marrying my dad
expecting we would be so close and how she believed a newly motherless child
would need someone else to fill in but that the whole time we've known each
other she feels like I do nothing but compare her to Mom or dismiss her in
favor of mom and leave her in second place a lot she said she wanted to be
more important to me than that she wanted to Mom in my eyes she didn't want
to feel like I would gladly toss her aside if my mom came back I'll say now
in therapy she was called out for that she was told it was cruel to toss that
in my face when I'm old enough to be aware my mom is never coming back she
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what has been your I freaking told you moment Story one had a friend who always
rode BMX with his headphones in with his
volume so loud he couldn't hear anything in a few occasions you can hear us
shouting things like car or don't go stuff like that it almost hurt us or
himself he crashed into me after I fell because he couldn't hear people shouting
stop and that flipped out and told him that one of these days he was going to
really hurt someone or himself a week later he rode directly out of a friend's
driveway and got blindsided by a car it was fine saved some cuts and bruises but
his bike was destroyed and he broke her windshield her lawyer basically proved
it was his fault and he had to pay for the whole thing I told you you idiot his
parents paid for the whole thing bought a manure nicer bike and he told people
this long story about getting hit by a car and that's why he only rides with
one headphone in bonus story about this jabroni it would put his mom on the
phone well into high school if he had a disagreement with a friend like imagine
being 17 having an argument with your friend calling him to talk about it and
he puts his mom on the phone anyway to this day he can't take responsibility
for his actions and we haven't been friends since our late teens because
because of it long story but he got me a
few other people arrested and attempt to not take responsibility for his own
mistake I did really enjoy watching his divorce happen publicly on Facebook last
year though I feel such pity for these types they'll never become proper adults
especially this guy I wonder if he'll even be alive to become one
story two my ex who I remain good friends with and nothing more started
dating someone after he introduced us he asked me what I thought of her and I
said I had a bad feeling and to be careful the more I got to know her the
more I told him she was bad news the last adopt trying to say that I'm just
saying that because I still have feelings for him didn't a few years
later he's having to get legal representation she destroyed his
business and his family stocked and harassed him and even had him under
investigation by the FBI took him a couple of years to clean up the whole
mess I totally said I told you so I just felt really uncomfortable around her
ever meet someone right away you feel a connection and want to get to know that
person whether it was the complete and total opposite I have another friend
that completely trusts my intuition it would always introduce me to a girl when
they started dating and if I said it didn't like her he'd drop her and would
later find out something where he was thankful to dodge that bullet when he
met the woman who is now his wife I literally fell in love with her
immediately she's incredible I wish I had that same kind of sixth sense with
the men I choose to date LOL Story three when I was young and still
living with my parents there were a lot of squirrels in her neighborhood one
morning I was pulling weeds in the front yard and heard the sounds of squirrels
moving around coming from the ceiling of
the porch just under erratic and told me that immediately but he was absolutely
sure that I was just hearing squirrels on top of the roof and there was nothing
to worry about this happened a few more times over the summer but each time my
parents said they couldn't possibly be in the Attic cut to several months later
during a peaceful Sunday morning breakfast when what can only be
described as a ball of loud angry squirrels thumped down in between the
walls of our kitchen we listened to them trying to climb back up and squabbling
with each other for hours until a pest control guy came and got them out
confirming that they had entered through a hole in the roof and set up a nest in
the Attic which fell into the cavity between the walls I've never felt so
Vindicated in my life all squirrels were safely removed and relocated outside
story for kind of a sad story and I refrain from saying it in the end but a
roommate had a cat for years and when I moved in her boyfriend had a dog they
got along swimmingly they decided to get another dog they saw on Craigslist and
within two hours of finding the post the dog was in her house she's a border
collie or Australian Shepherd mix the cat was then unseen for two weeks hiding
in the couch somehow the New Year's my roomies were gone and I heard growling
from the kitchen she had pinned the cat in the corner about to attack so I made
the dog leave so the cat could Escape I told him of the incident and that it
wasn't a good idea for the new dog to be here they ended up just making the cat
live in a single room for six months while the new dog had free reign of the
rest of the house one day I got a call from my roomies and apparently the cat
tore through the window screen was in the backyard they came home and let the
dogs out apparently the cat put up a major fight because the collie mix was
covered in scratches but the dog ultimately won it found the poor Kitty
laying there gone in the backyard a few minutes later the boyfriend came up to
me and said you were right it was not something I wanted to be right about
R.I.P little kitty Story five I had a new family movie Next Door several years
ago and caught the husband who smacks his wife around Vibe almost immediately
she wouldn't look at any one smile and almost look like a zombie the dude tried
interacting with other neighbors and seemed to be doing a good job pretending
he wasn't a person one day I ran into one of the neighbors and we started
talking about the newbies on the Block a
neighbor didn't seem too concerned but I
just couldn't shake the feeling that the
new dude was bad news fast forward three months and my wife and I were woken up
for some loud banging and screaming she called the cops she grabbed my firearm
to see what was going on the next thing I see is the neighbor's wife running out
of their front door pleading for help ended up holding the dude at gunpoint
until police arrived 10 minutes later the next morning I made a point to say I
Told You So to anyone who thought the worthless piece of garbage was a good
human and yes he was arrested and charged spent six months in jail and
they took off with one another the second he was released dude that sucks
he did the right thing and ended up with the worst possible outcome only six
months in jail they got back together either way
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come to life story six my mom and I were driving out
of state someplace from her car 79 Broncos started to hesitate and almost
stalled I told her it was probably the fuel filter but as far as she was
concerned I was just a teen who didn't know anything so she pulls into some hit
garage guy gives her some story about it probably being a blocked catalytic
converter cleaned it out while we had to
wait an hour or so charged her 100 bucks this was in the 80s and sent us on our
way about an hour down the road the same
thing again she pulls into another place this time I spoke up about the fuel
filter a guy agrees that might be what it is pops off the air cleaner takes off
a fuel filter going into the carb and tries to blow into it like a whistle
clogged grabbed a new one put it on in like two minutes charged something like
twenty dollars and we had no problems after that I even tried telling her
earlier that exact same problem happened when Dad was driving it one time and
that's what was causing it but gee he wanted nothing of it
story seven told my mom that I felt sick after accidentally eating her crunchy
nut cereal and that I was worried I was allergic to nuts she told me that she
allergy tested me as a baby and I was not allergic to anything told her that
allergies can change and asked for a second allergy test she told me I was
overreacting a few years later I had an ear infection got put in antibiotics had
a whole body rash everything was red and swollen got admitted to a e told by
doctors that I was allergic to Amoxicillin the most common form of
antibiotic told her about the incident it was told once again that I was
overreacting because she had me tested as a baby the same year I ate Thai food
with peanuts vomited and had a swollen throat my roommates were so worried that
they offered to take me to a e but I declined until my mom once I had
recovered still didn't believe me last year I ate some chicken only had one
bite before my boyfriend realized it had peanut butter in the sauce and forbade
me for having another bite ellipse swelled up and my stomach was so badly
affected that I had to stay in bed for the night Mom finally believes me but I
do genuinely believe that she only thinks that because my boyfriend was a
witness am I the only one wondering whether heck
she kept eating nuts when she knew she's allergic story Aid had a congenital
heart defect called HCM I was 33 years old and otherwise perfectly healthy
however it got to the point where I could walk across the living room
without feeling sick like I was going to pass out or throw up I went to the ER
they said I was fine but one day vomited and passed out went to the ER they said
I was fine one morning I passed out and hit my face in the bathtub where my wife
found me went to the ER they said I was fine and seriously got to the point
where I was convinced it was psychosomatic but that last time after
my wife found me she told the doc we weren't going home they needed to
transfer me to another hospital three hours away where they have a specialized
Heart Center we got there and they run a test to see the pressure of my heart
like how effectively it's pumping blood turns out it sucks really bad I was
immediately put in a transplant list and
a month later got a new heart man I knew I was sick this year docs almost had me
convinced it was on my header I was exaggerating my symptoms though them so
almost two years post-transplant the zero problems this case makes me think
of all the times I've read about a young person suddenly kicking the bucket from
a diagnosed heart defect I wonder how many of them were as lucky I wonder how
many of you guys have liked the video and subscribe to the channel better be a
lot man story nine my sister had a horrible narcissistic friend who I told her
repeatedly to cut out of her life this girl never gave a crap about my sister's
life only wanting the attention on her she was jealous of my sister's boyfriend
and would say my sister should kick him out so she could move in she would get
mad that my sister didn't wish her a happy godmother day on Mother's Day she
was super possessive of my sister the three of us were together talking about
something traumatic that had just happened to my sister and she would drag
her away saying she needed to talk privately to her constantly just so my
sister's attention would be solely on her and she could talk about her
boyfriend instead of what we were talking about I called her out to her
face before for treating my sister like trash literally in front of me and all
she focused on was that I called her selfish she would try to emotionally
manipulate my sister to get her way for years and my sister would always forgive
her because she was the only person from school she still kept in contact with
until two weeks ago when the friend said my sister needed to hurry up and get
over her recent pregnancy termination due to complications so she could listen
to her problems as other people are going through things too my sister
finally realized that all the friend cared about was being the center of my
sister's attention something which she never returned she call the friend
selfish locked her on everything and finally cut the cancer out of her life
she said I was right I literally said I told you so
storytelling a pregnant wife and I were staying in a well-known hotel in
Killarney Carrie Ireland there was a second story being built onto an
existing extension visible from our window it was being built by a huge
well-known contractor and not just something about the build that I thought
was very unsafe and reported it to management I'm not a builder or a civil
engineer so they didn't take much notice that went to the building foreman and
told him of my concerns he assured me everything was safe but I wasn't
convinced and they continued with construction I went back to management
and told them I was really concerned but it was obvious they considered to be
nothing more than an inconvenience to cut a long story short within hours a
very large portion of the new wall collapsed missing a Bus full of tourists
by a few yards agama I told you moment but they never acknowledged their fault
or mistake story 11. I was in the U.S Navy and
doing work for a few months as a tax preparer through a program being offered
on base which allowed military members to have their taxes prepared for free it
was my second consecutive year doing this and I was the only one out of four
of us assigned to the tech center that year who had any prior experience anyway
as we go through the training and set up the tax Center and go over the process
of how everything would be run the highest rank was an E6 and he was the
pretentious snow at all time it pointed out that we needed to have everyone sign
a particular form that wasn't covered when we went over the process but the E6
completely blew me off and was basically just like what no we don't I reminded
him that I did this the year before and I strongly believed everyone would need
to sign this form nevertheless I was brushed aside like the piece of trash E4
I was and that was that so the tax year came to a close and we were all but
finished with that assignment for me my enlistment was coming to an end and I
had began processing out there's a time period where you're released from your
normal command so that you can go around Gathering and turning in everything you
need and that's what I was doing when one day I got a call from a frantic E6
and you'll never guess why that's right the form I had declared needed to be
signed did in fact need to be signed and now they had to call everyone whose
taxes we filed and have them come back in to sign it he needed me to come in
and help with that he called and left a lot of voicemails saying so
unfortunately I was processing out and had no obligation to do that and so I
blew him off the same way he did me I laughed a lot remembering the story as I
wrote it Thanks for the Memories there isn't a better form of malicious
compliance than military malicious compliance
story 12. my little bro's girlfriend we all warned him she was in her mid-30s
when he had just turned 21 she gave off real bad vibes it was weird and she gets
pregnant mind you two months into knowing her he says no biggie then she
says she's keeping the baby and does not
want him involved at all he being 21 she rakes him over the courtroom to take
full custody knows he's short on money so delays and delays hearings because he
fights to be in his son's life her entire family steps in trying to
instigate terrible circumstances and it gets worse and worse so bad that the
courts allow him to wear GoPros to the baby exchanges and have witnesses in
public spaces to try and thwart such crazy reactions from her and her family
long story short she had to sign an agreement to never attempt to see his
child again in the hopes it saves his life from a downward spiral of
depression and financial loss I'm sure we'll hear more from her as soon as he
starts making good money discern it's over I hate to say it but we all try to
tell him not trying to be ignorant but only two months into knowing her is the
kid really his feel like a paternity test should be done so he has no ties
binding him to that kind of crazy story 13. my life sisters husband was the
family is Golden Boy and I was constantly being compared to him now
I'll be forced to admit that I'm an underachieving slacker but I still have
a degree enlisted in the Army and served honorably in combat and I have a pretty
good paying job where I sit in front of a computer most of the day my sister's
husband ties me to one of those good job because I would rather spend all day
playing video games instead of painting the house I'm the app and he's the great
guy but one day he came home and handed his wife an envelope he filed for
divorce she didn't even know their marriage was in trouble personally I
think he did it because he got power of attorney over his parents wealth they're
pretty well off and he had a side chick he liked better than my wife's sister
anyway even though he seemed like a nice guy both my buddy and I could tell he
was a phony piece of crap a real neocon Jericho was super nice in the most
superficial way that anyone who didn't grow up in a posh suburb recognizes
within five minutes of meeting the guy never voiced my opinions on my
ex-brother-in-law because I knew everyone would just say I was jealous
but the day my wife told me he left her sister I actually did get out a little I
Told You So my wife was completely devastated that she was so utterly duped
by this guy but since she's pretty much a snow white type girl I get it she
thinks everyone is a good person it's not like she's the only one fooled by
the guy like I said the whole family loved him anyway I know it hurts my wife
if I mention how much I hated the guy while everyone was kissing the ground He
Walked on so I never bring it up story 14. in October 2018 my mom informed me
that my uncle would be temporarily moving in with us now I wouldn't have a
problem with it except that he's a convicted criminal he got arrested and
locked up multiple times for the following reasons giving grass to his 18
year old son running snow and domestic violence in my father have some mental
issues from being this kid so they're both kind of messed up my uncle is a
pathological liar he's lied about his job criminal status his girlfriend in
hastric many gullible women to giving him money anyway the day my mom told me
he was moving in I lost it it gave her a
ton of reasons why you shouldn't move in and that my parents were making a huge
mistake he just got out of jail in Alabama for God's sake or so we thought
spoiler alert she didn't listen he ended up moving in and getting a job a couple
blocks away from our house it's a truck repair store that would pay him at
minimum wage at this point my dad is at an all-time high he absolutely loves his
brother since he's the only family who's
always been good to him I actually don't mind my uncle that much just because
he's always been nice to me but it's just a Persona he and my dad went
shopping test drove expensive cars and had a lot of fun at this point it was
about November he moved out from the blow up mattress in our living room
Florence's boss's house no it's weird my mom was getting cancer treatment and
what came next really stressed her out a woman messaged my mom on Facebook
telling her that a man with our last names camed her out of money wonder who
that is at this point in the story it gets pretty complicated so I'm just
going to simplify it multiple other women come forward about him whilst
these single mothers are struggling at about six thousand dollars my uncle is
in Hawaii with his millionaire friends good guy all right all of a sudden he
disappears my dad the woman and his friends can get a hold of him I guess it
was using a trap phone one of the women he scammed went to the gym he works at
and found out some detectives from DC were looking for him here's the good
part he'd been running from the cops this whole time he was supposed to go to
jail in Alabama but missed his court dates and flew over here so I guess we
unknowingly harbored a fugitive for a couple of weeks it was in prison for
about seven months before they released him last month he is protected by the
state so now he has to stay here to avoid getting arrested and taken to
Alabama he's 43 and living with his parents a real winner because of my
parents decision to house him while he got back on his feet he came into our
community and scammed Global women I enjoyed it nice I Told You So with my
parents after that one I was really expecting that guy to be older that's a
lot of living in 43 years I hope you enjoyed the video and if you made it
this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy teachers when did karma hit that one kid
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first story op's wife demands he cut ties with his female friend after she
accidentally spilled wine on her wedding dress so he asked redit and Reddit
knocked some sense into his head me and ay met through a mutual friend in 2012
during a pub quiz at University I was quite attracted to her and actually told
her so at the end of the evening but she told me she had a boyfriend even though
she was flattered all the same fast forward 3 years later I met Eliza at the
Edinburgh Fringe and we just clicked immediately politics music Cinema
whatever the subject approached there was a spark that I'd never felt with
anyone else she simply made sense to me her personality was just Vivid it's hard
to describe but I'll try on first impression she was so knowledgeable and
enthusiastic that I was taken aback by her intensity from that point on we were
inseparable and I was dead certain of our future together long before we got
engaged and her a again I started a new job at an advertising firm with a
position in web design and she was one of the only people I knew at first it
was a little awkward given our history especially considering that she was now
married to the boyfriend she was dating back then but there was no one else I
knew at the firm and we both had Partners at this point so it couldn't
hurt to be friends right and to be honest I'm glad because I feel like our
chemistry as friends superseded any potential we might have had as a couple
she's clever and has a bit of a cheeky personality I'm quite dry and sarcastic
myself so I reckon we have a pretty fun Dynamic Eliza doesn't seem to feel that
way though sometimes when it's been the three of us she has expressed a feeling
of being left out or that ay has been making fun of her I don't see it it's
just our Dynamic but there have been a couple of nights where Eliza's been in
tears because of something that ay has said one time Eliza got out of her seat
and ay sat down where she was sitting to show me a video on YouTube when Eliza
came back in she saw ay leaning next to me and was upset for the rest of the
night sometimes there have been times when ay has said something that Eliza
has read as a come on like when I said I missed swimming because I felt out of
shape ay said the two of us should go together with a playful punch Eliza
didn't say anything at the time but her discomfort was visible things really
came to a head at our wedding and I think the stress of it really got to
Eliza during the reception ay bumped into her and red wine spilled all over
her dress she was balling the entire evening we're now on our honeymoon and
Eliza has said she hopes for a fresh start but she feels like ay might have
spilled her wine on purpose she's suggesting that I cut ties with her and
if I'm honest I'm not so sure I want to where do I go from here my wife is
getting increasingly insecure about my best friend to the point where she wants
us to cut contact she says that it feels like she's treating her poorly I'm at a
loss for what to do relevant comments and additional information no you thanks
the number of times I've bumped into someone and Spilled my drink on them is
exactly once in my entire life and I was a sht faced teenager you are e either
astoundingly naive or Ally is somehow the unluckiest woman in the world to
accidentally spill her red wine on the bride on her wedding day I think you
know which one is more likely your wife won't stay your wife for much longer
unless you start actually listening to her and stop dismissing all of her fears
as baseless insecurities Opie ay was getting a drink from the bar Eliza had
taken off part of her gown for dining and dancing purposes and was leaving our
bedroom to return to our table they bumped into each other and Eliza had a
huge red stain on her dress ay made an off-hand joke and fled and Eliza ran up
to me in bits and pieces it sounded really bad when Eliza told me and she
was in bits about the wine spilling all over her dress and I went to Ay and
asked her what the hell she was up to Ay was so mortified and told me she wanted
to sink into a hole she's dyspraxic and has struggled with falling at impromptu
moments I've actually witnessed it happened before there was a meeting at
work and she got our colleagu coffee the moment she came in she tripped and fell
coffee flying everywhere ripped dirt back Ally bumped into your wife in her
wedding dress spilling wine all over it and made an off-hand joke before fleeing
what kind of response is that op shek a really awkward person and doesn't know
how to interact with people sometimes there have been times I have been upset
with her because of how glib she's been about personal issues star Valiant so
someone who has a habit of accidentally saying or doing things that make your
wife cry accidentally also managed to spill red wine over her white dress on
the biggest day of her life and you don't think that's at all suspicious if
you knew and imagine here that you somehow knew for certain that she'd done
it on purpose what would your reaction be would it change how you thought about
her give it some thought op I would be really hurt if ay was doing it on
purpose I love Eliza and want us to be happy and I can see that I've really
messed up here multiple times ay is a good friend but if she's deliberately
being a windup Merchant and harming my marriage then I'll have to cut the cord
and and sto chumming up to her so much Eliza sometimes says to me that she can
Intuit people's opinions and feelings within minutes of meeting them I've
never been like that my folks have always said that I'm terrible at picking
up on basic things I was at an aunt's house when I was a kid talking her ear
off and she said oh it's getting late multiple times it was only until my mom
dragged me out that I picked up that she wanted me to leave simple faren it
really sounds like you're putting your friend first no wonder your wife is
unhappy she comes back in tears from hanging out and you still invite ay to
the wedding what was that conversation like op she got really upset one time
during banter because me and ay liked to roast each other regularly and ay
roasted her a little too hard I guess we were singling out things to insult each
other on and the subject went to Eliza and Eliza mentioned that she had webbed
feet since then Aly called her Lea frog when I say it Eliza takes it in good
stride but when ay says it it's this massive problem I don't get it Eliza has
suggested that A's being serious when she says it as opposed to when I do but
she roast me the same way too she said I looked like a Jug's poodle that day
because I was wearing baggy metal clothes and hadn't styled my hair so it
was frizzing all over the place secr beans
1367 why haven't you stuck up for your wife all those times ay has hurt her op
I guess because I didn't know that I needed to it seems like it's a
perspective thing Eliza is a passionate person who cries at Deluxe puppy
advertisements and the intensity is great for a partner but it can cause
problems with friendships she reads a lot into things her friends do thinking
they're intentional and when she talks to them about what they did they will be
completely shocked and unaware that they hurt her ay is a very sarcastic person
in general who rolls with the punches and to me it reads like they struggle to
Jael rather than intentional cruelty on A's part but for what it's worth ay has
told me that she's really keen on Eliza and thinks she's a top girl up date I am
posting this here because it keeps getting deleted on relationship advice
you know I posted here recently looking for guidance on how to deal with my
wife's anxiety and hurt revolving around my friend and it seems like I read the
riot act probably rightly so I have been completely inconsiderate of Eliza's
feelings and how she feels about these roastings and you alerted me to the
possibility that ay is doing this just to be a little sht I sat down with Eliza
and we had an in-depth conversation about the wedding incident I got her to
describe the event step by step in her own words I was leaving the lobby into
the dining venue and ay was a little tipsy at this point and already
stumbling from the bar she was initially walking slower but seemed to speed up
when she saw me we collided with each other and she pulled an ashamed face and
made a joke about me looking like rosam mon Pike and gong girl before scurrying
away she seemed embarrassed at the moment but she didn't apologize to me I
heard from other people that she was appalled about what happened but I never
heard anything from her directly it just paints a picture of Habitual
microaggressions from her that have festered into this ugly anxiety whenever
she's around I pretty much predict that whenever I'm in her vicinity there will
be weird Behavior or uncomfortable comments and I don't want to continue
being in a situation where my husband brings someone into my home who resents
me simply for existing that was a real gut punch for me for me it always felt
like it was just insecurity about me fancying ay 10 minutes ago but Eliza is
really torn up about this she said that the honeymoon has been miserable because
the memory has been swirling around in her mind and she feels like I'm going to
downplay or dismiss it no one should feel like they can't just be themselves
especially not at home I didn't realize what a sht had I'd been and I apologized
profusely to Eliza and decided to call up ay to confront her about the wedding
incident so I did and it didn't go well basically I told her that Eliza was
really hurt by the wedding dress incident that she had been hurt by her
behavior for a long time and that if she couldn't bring herself to apologize to
Eliza's face at least she should pay towards getting the stain removed and if
she couldn't bring herself to even do that then our friendship had to stop to
say that ay was taken aback would be an understatement she was completely
blindsided asking what was wrong with their interactions that made me want to
go to such extremes I mentioned the leap frog comment and she went but even you
call her that stating that Eliza called her Garfield because of her weight and
bright orange hair when I mentioned that she ran towards Eliza and didn't
apologize for spilling wine on her she got really upset and started shouting
that she wasn't running at her to hurl wine at her dress she was running from
her because she didn't want to talk at that moment because she felt like Eliza
hated her and didn't know how to go about it she started pointing out times
when Eliza had been funny towards her and I basically said right but this
isn't about when Eliza has hurt you this
is about when you've hurt Eliza and it's got so bad that it needs to be talked
about and she started laughing it was really uncomfortable I know she does
this when shek anxious about something Eliza asked me if things were okay in
the other room and ay demanded if this was set up and when I tried to explain
myself she hung up her husband even called me insisting that he would pay
for the damage if it was less stressful for me I told you and husband that I
appreciated that but I needed to know where ay stood regarding what I just
said Yan told me that ay makes jokes whenever she's anxious or uncomfortable
and that they've wrote about it in the past but the wedding dress incident is a
major issue and that he wants to smooth things over as much as I do so he and ay
will pay for dry cleaning while a condolence hamper is sent to Eliza Eliza
was relieved that Yuan was so understanding but she wasn't thrilled
about A's reaction she basically said that the Garfield comment was always
about her hair and never about her weight and that she was deliberately
trying to make it seem like the bad behavior went both ways I don't think
it's gone both ways either because I've never noticed Eliza roasting ay in any
real way Eliza has suggested we try marriage counseling I was a bit shocked
at first because we 've only been married for a month but I decided maybe
that's the way forward because if Eliza reckons that we need counseling for it
then it's clearly a problem so yeah me and Eliza are going to try marriage
counseling and my future with ay is uncertain update to so after the rightly
deserved bollocking you gave me in the last post Youk be happy to learn that ay
and me aren't talking anymore and it's probably for the best Eliza and I
received the condolence hamper in the mail and it was primarily soaps not in
the sense of fragrant body lotions luxury packages or even organic bars
just regular run-of thee Mill soaps there were two dispensers that were
faintly rose scented but they were so mild you had to really look for them
there were several white soap bars that didn't smell of anything really it was
so confusing the only items that suggested it was a proper gift basket
were a pound six bottle of Chardonnay and a box of roses chocolates that
looked a fair deal more effort than the cleaning equipment at the nearest pub
the weirdest item though a pair of women's Underpants
not lingerie not anything Lacy or risque like just a plain pair of white pants
they were actually kind of grubby there was a faint orange linting on them it
just didn't make sense to me because if they were meant to be for Eliza they
were at least six sizes too big and if ay really was making a move on me they
were again around six sizes too big also why would she choose such disgusting
pants to try and seduce me it weirded me
out so much that I rang up ay asking why I had soap and grubby nickers in our
condolences hand ER she kept making dry remarks to her husband about there being
a strange noise on the other end of the phone I didn't get anywhere with her and
insisted that you and talk to me instead because getting anywhere with her was
like pulling teeth at this rate after some disgruntled remarks she passed the
phone over youan asked what was up and I explained the whole situation he was
momentarily surprised when I described the hamper as looking like the luggage
of a janitor that lived under a bridge he said that it was a small package but
there should have been several luxury gifts that weren't simply sanitary items
apparently there was a bottle of chardonay a bottle of shurz one box of
Rose chocolates a lint bar a selection of crackers and some assorted cheeses
somehow they got replaced with leftover soaps bought in bulk in his y fronts
which ay found ever so hilarious and apparently found ever so hilarious to
send to my wife he was hugely apologetic
and embarrassed stating that he'd pay us the cost of the Lost items I was raging
at this point but I tried to be collected and said right let me talk to
Al again again please and he got her on the line I told her that she had the
chance to make it right and she blew it and she groaned and told me that Eliza's
jealousy had crippled our friendship and she was sick of having to flatter her
insecurities I said no you are Eliza's insecurities and we rode for a bit
eventually it ended with me saying that this had been building up for a while
and that her attitude had been giving Eliza grief for years ay said none of
this would be happening if Eliza knew how to take a joke and I just told her
that a joke isn't ruining her wedding dress and then sending her your
husband's stinky W fronts she said I sold out my principles for a girl who's
threatened by other women after the phone call Eliza was not so hurt as she
was confused at first because she was wondering if there was a mixup until I
explained to her the joke she seemed pretty much resigned to the idea that ay
would always be at sht and I told her the likelihood of that happening was
very slim considering she'd cut me off for standing up for her I think the
counseling has made us stronger and in a
weird way I'm glad this happened because if your friendship falls apart the
moment you try to protect your loved ones then they probably weren't that
strong of friendships at all shame I won't be speaking to you and from now on
HEK a top lad relevant comments material cellist I just hope you finally feel
stupid apologize and make amends with your wife how the F didn't you know your
friend was bullying your wife is beyond me op I have apologized to Eliza
multiple times I should have been more assertive with ay and told her to cut
her sht out then I'm aware that this is entirely on me for being permissive
towards someone who is really just being
a bully towards my wife I'm trying to do
better mixed meat I'm glad you're seeing the light but why were you permissive
before why was it only now that you finally believed her and confronted ay
did you like the attention was it easier
to dismiss your wife's concerns as being petty over a crush than to critically
consider her feelings and the situation also don't you still work with ay op I
think it was because I saw it as lost in transl
like it was something that worked with me and ay but didn't with her and
assumed that she would figure that it was the sort of banter we encouraged and
join in at some point Eliza's from a very sincere straightforward family that
says what it means and doesn't necessarily make jokes like I do the
whole idea would be lost on them and they would be really confused and upset
thinking that we were actually insulting
each other Eliza's brother nearly jumped me once just because I said that's
plenty when she was rambling on a little that's a still game reference for the
transatlantic pal across the world I like it when she Rambles I think it's
cute and it's a running joke between us but he found it so personally offensive
like he thought that I was just telling her to put a sock in it and he started
ranting at me for disrespecting his sister like that Eliza started hiding
her face and shame it was that extreme a reaction I think I should have been
paying more attention Eliza told me that when she's tried to chat with her A's
just been like I don't do small talk and they've sat in complete silence
apparently when she tried to chat at another time she was totally
noncommittal and yawned so loudly that it woke up our dog I only found this out
recently because Eliza didn't want to inconvenience me and I feel so ashamed
of my behavior I felt like there were just crossed wires but ay really was
bullying Eliza and finding creative ways to essentially make her uncomfortable
and squeeze her out of our Dynamic I don't know why or how she thought any of
that was appropriate but it's irrelevant as my wife should never be scared of
telling me how she really feels yeah I work with ay that is a complication that
I hadn't considered I wouldn't worry about her causing drama in the workplace
because she values her job greatly but I
wouldn't be surprised about some passive aggressive attitude being thrown my way
oh well I guess I'll have to wait and see what happens but I'm uninterested in
any form of reconciliation if she's going to be that disrespectful
additional information from the op the reason that ay is out of my life is
because I raised the point in the first place that's more to do with her than me
or my paity and yeah I'm aware it was a problem you're damn right it was a
problem but it feels like even when I'm trying to write the wrong I'm getting a
finger wagging really I don't mind criticism but at this point it feels a
bit like I'm getting blows for new reasons I didn't pick up on A's shdt
behavior before I felt like it was crossed wires at first but the reason
she isn't talking to me is because I told her off for treating Eliza like sht
to begin with I should have done it long ago I acknowledge that but let's not
start fantasizing about a future where I'll just welcome her back in with open
arms for treating my wife like that it's not going to happen because I want a
future with Eliza much more than I want a pal to have lunch with I've messed up
I know I have and I want to change it letun just move forward op when asked if
the underwear was his I didn't I stopped
liking ay in 2012 after she said she was taken I didn't sleep with her and I
don't really care for that kind of speculation it's just untrue and adds
more fuel to the fire people come across this stuff and it just exacerbates
problems L Lia came across one of the videos about my post on YouTube or Tik
Tok and it stirred up a lot of painful feelings especially reading about your
reactions she was shocked that I sought online advice because I usually try to
handle things by myself she was more shocked by the comments which were
overwhelmingly on her side it helped her acknowledge how shtt and awful
everything done to her had been and we had a long talk about it I've agreed not
to talk to Ay as she is clearly only interested in causing trouble with a
cheap laugh I me mentioned the situation to HR even the stinky Underpants and
they said they'd speak to her and keep an eye on any potential developments but
so far no trouble as far as I know A's been having lunch with another colleague
and I now go down to a neighboring Cafe to grab a baked potato whenever I've
been in her vicinity she's just mumbled all right so I'm guessing there were
some words between her and HR I mean op on how his wife is doing she's doing
well so far so good we had a really successful coup's counseling session and
it opened my eyes to so much of my behavior and how I was essentially
permitting bad behavior for so long I realized that it was because investing
in something emotionally heavy or even just a problem makes me really anxious
so I Tred to distance myself from conflict it used to be that whenever my
relatives fought they would sort of figuratively pull at me like a ragd doll
into taking their side and that behavior upset me so much that any sort of
conflict was off-putting to me but I realized that when I essentially do that
I leave problems completely unsolved and cause my loved on 's pain due to my own
anxieties so if someone is mistreating someone I love I'm not in their corner
like I should be a big part of these counseling sessions is figuring out how
to manage accountability and not just being like Oh it's my childhood blah
blah blah and stepping up the mantle into making things right me and Eliza
now do daily check-ins like how are you feeling today how are you managing that
is there anything you're not happy about and what can be done to help you so far
it's been really helpful as she seems to
be in much better spirits and we've been having date nights again which is great
aside from the occasional disagreement things have genuinely improved as for ay
well things haven't changed much but luckily the work situation has been
tolerable I'm surprised at how much I like eating outside of work to be honest
I can't stand the cens the food is sht Second Story op knocked her daughter's
boyfriend unconscious after seeing bruises on his daughter hello people of
Reddit this is my very first time on Reddit but I have heard that you can get
good advice from strangers I'm sorry if my writing is horrible so please bear
with me I will do my best here my situation happened two weeks ago I have
been a single parent for the past 15 years my wife passed away from cancer
when our daughter was seven she is now 22 years old it was a difficult journey
and I faced a lot of hardships in raising her I have no plans to remarry
so all I have left in my life is my daughter we will call her Liz Liz and I
are close but she does tend to hide things from me very often minor stuff
like boys and stuff I understand that it's normal and I've told her so I have
met a few boyfriends throughout the years so it is not like she doesn't
trust me I have asked her not to be afraid to introduce me to any boyfriend
and I have reassured her that I will always be there for her she does talk a
lot about her relationships with me so thankfully I do get updated on them
myself she moved out of the house when she was 20 and has since lived alone I
visit quite often and help her with whatever she needs recently though she
started seeing this guy she met at the bar I think his name was John but I'm
not so sure since they started dating she hasn't allowed me to go visit her
all that often and usually when she does she makes me tell her days in advance I
thought it was only because she was growing up and was advancing in her
relationship I have met Jon on a few occasions and to be honest I did not
like him I had no evidence that supported my feelings towards him but I
just did not like him I have asked her about about how she's doing and how
Jon's doing and she has been hesitant to
tell me anything she would prefer not to talk about it and would switch the
subject when I invited her out to eat it
took a lot of persuasion whenever I have seen her she always wears clothing that
covers most of her body and has a lot of makeup on she had never worn makeup
before so it struck me as odd but she brushed it off when I asked her about
John she would get defensive and invasive about it it was almost like she
was scared of him recently I I have seen new bruises appear on her arm and neck
area she has tried to cover them up but I've noticed them I have asked her about
them and how she got them and she would give those cliche excuses oh at work I
hit myself on something or I fell while biking I was not born yesterday and I
immediately found it suspicious and called her out on it she got angry and
told me to let it go and not worry about it I suspected that Jon was responsible
ever since he came into her life she has changed and now I am certain that he
puts her hands on her two weeks ago I paid her a surprise visit at her home
and to No Surprise it was JN who answered the door I let myself in and
asked him where Liz was she came out of her room and was shocked to see me she
wasn't covered up with 20 layers so I got to see everything every bruise every
handprint mark on her body I was horrified that my suspicions were true
and before I knew it I lost my self-composure and laid hands on Jon I
am not proud of it I threw Jon out of her apartment she was angry at me and
through her tears she was telling me she
told me not to worry about it and that I should have left it alone that
everything was fine Etc she was making me feel like I was the bad guy she told
me to get out before I left I again reassured her that I would always be her
father and whatnot it has been two weeks
and each time I've tried to reach out to
her she has been distant with me and has denied any invitation to dinner with me
I made sure that Jon was not coming over anymore and she confirmed that she had
left him but that she still did not want to see me I do not think I did anything
wrong but I feel like I somehow messed up so a comments Mond shaan it sounds
like he still has a hold over her trust me he is talking to her at the very
least Whispering his poison in her ear I hope she can resist she needs time away
from him and no contact to break the spell and see him for what he is
n n it's what I would have done too you make a decent D environmental run 528 if
it were my child this guy would go missing update one day later hello
everybody it has been a while well not exactly but so much has happened over
the last few hours I'm sorry I haven't responded to anyone but I have made sure
to read every comment I cannot thank you guys enough you guys saved my daughter
by giving me the push and the advice to act many of you have said that she is
most likely still in touch with him and that would explain why she has been dis
from me I did not want to imagine that but you guys have the right sort of
explanation and I will explain everything like I said in my earlier
post I have been checking up on her making sure Jon wasn't around well after
reading many comments I decided that maybe I should man up and go talk to my
daughter about what happened I decided to call sick to work today and wanted to
go spend that day with my daughter I did not tell her in advance I wanted it to
be a surprise no I'm sorry I wanted to see if that filthy effing animal was
there and did not want her to give him a heads up just like you guys said he
might still be around I decided to head to her place early I picked up some
flowers and her favorite snacks as I was walking up the stairs to her apartment
room I heard loud screaming and banging I would be lying if I told you guys that
it didn't make my skin crawl I was praying that it wasn't him and that my
daughter was okay my mind and heart were
racing when I made it to her floor I saw
him he was banging on the door trying to get in and screaming to be let in at
that moment I felt as if the world had Frozen it is hard to explain but I felt
a moment of calm and Clarity I'm not sure if I am explaining it well but it
doesn't matter I dropped the flowers and the snacks on the floor and made my way
towards him he was too busy being an absolute waste of a man to notice me I
swear to everyone who will read this I swung at him so hard that I broke not
only his nose but maybe some of my fingers as well I'm too old to be
fighting my hand is SW swen I did not stop swinging at him not even when he
fell unconscious or when he hit the floor I was ready to beat that man to
death the only reason I stopped was because my daughter pulled me off of him
it turns out that she was watching him through the door peep whole thing this
time she did not scream at me she did not cuss me out she hugged me I could
hear her muffled cries I kind of cried myself but pulled myself together and
told her to pack what was most important
to her that she would be staying with me until everything was resolved
she silently went back into her home and started to pack I could not believe it
but the mother of her was still alive and starting to get up I grabbed him and
told him that if I ever saw him again I would beat him to death to never effing
show his face again and to leave my daughter the F alone he simply nodded
and I tossed him aside it took Liz a while but she eventually came out with a
small suitcase and we headed back to my home sht now that I typed this out I
forgot about her flowers and snacks back at the apartment she is now safe under
my roof once again and I cannot thank everyone enough I would have never
imagined it would turn out this way but I thank God that it did I do not want to
imagine what might have happened if I had not chosen to show up or not taken
any of your guys advice at the moment she is doing fine and is cooking me my
favorite meal while I sit on the porch drinking beer and typing this out I will
lawyer up because I did f up that kid pretty badly and I'm not stupid enough
to believe that I won't hear a knock on my door soon I'm so thankful and glad
that I asked you guys I will update you guys if I do not end up in jail or
something for now I am only looking forward to eating some effing steak and
being with my daughter I love you guys say goodbye for now comments triacle I
would hug you if I could also so very dad to suddenly remember snacks and
flowers good job you are a top-notch parent and she will never forget this I
am 46 and my dad is still a superhero in my eyes because of something like this
never be afraid to burn the world for your kids op I wish my wife was here to
taste my daughter's cooking she might have had some competition Tracy and 12
I'm happy that she's safe just as a precaution if he goes to the cops to
file a complaint about what you did make sure that they know it was done in
defense of your daughter after he was the one physically and emotionally
abusing her Inda joyo actually Jon swung on him first I saw it all I swear your
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I came home from a trip and my roommate moved all her things into my room and
doesn't want to move back hi there I'm writing this on a throwaway because to
be honest I never thought I'd need to post here but what can you do so I 25f
moved into this flat about 8 months ago I met L 22f online on a roommate website
and we clicked well she's a bit younger but seemed mature we quickly agreed to
be roommates both of us were under time constraints to find a place to live but
I've got on really well so far up until this our flat is a two-bedroom and to be
frank my room is clearly the better one it's bigger and is built in wardrobes
when looking for the flat I found the place first on my own and put down a
deposit to take it off the market while I found another roommate the flat was
perfect cheap rent and my aunt manages the property so I was Keen to snap it up
before anyone else did the area it's in is popular so I wasn't really worried
about not finding someone to room with because of the above and that I was
there first I took the bigger room naturally when showing potential
roommates including L round I was sure to show the smaller room and say this
would be your room we moved in 8 months ago and it's been happy families never
heard L complain about her room because I have about 6X the Wardrobe space that
she does I told her she's welcome to store her offseason clothes in there or
whatever she wants to store as long as she's not popping and every morning to
get dressed she was happy with this just over a month ago I went traveling now
I'm not the biggest fan of having people in my room but I told Lana if she had
someone St her sister friends from home they could sleep in my bed she said
thanks and as she's been such a great roommate and rarely has guests except
her boyfriend I didn't worry at all I came back yesterday I was exhausted from
the flight and traveling and just wanted
to shower and sleep as I walked in L was
in the living room with her boyfriend we said hello and hugged had a very quick
catch up blah blah then I dragged my suitcase to my room opened the door and
found it full of stuff that was not mine
I kind of yelled what the [ __ ] and
briefly thought I was so jetlagged I was
confused but opened the door to L's room and saw all my stuff I walked into the
living room and asked L what was going on and she said oh sorry I forgot to
mention we put my stuff in your room just because it's bigger and you weren't
here and you said I could use it I was honestly so tired I could have passed
out then so I probably wasn't in the best state and told her to move it all
back immediately she said they were in the middle of making dinner and I looked
tired so I should have as sleep her boyfriend then said in anyway you pay
the same rent so isn't it fair that you both get the big room at some point I
was getting really frustrated and could feel tears welling up hysterical from
lack of sleep so I just said we'll deal with this tomorrow and it's getting
moved back and then I went to sleep and not my room I've woken up now and I'm so
pissed off L's at work so I can't talk to her but what should I do when she's
home I feel like this is going to turn into an argument I don't think it'll be
as simple as okay let's swap now your home edit I've taken the advice of most
people on this threat and moved my stuff back it's taken hours and I'm knackered
but I think if I left it another night it would be a real problem I sent her a
text when I was almost done in case she
kicked up a [ __ ] storm and came home to
say Hi l hope you're having a nice day at work just to let you know I'm moving
my stuff back into my room didn't want you coming home and walking into the
wrong one yes I'm Petty I'll be talking to her when she gets in because this is
out of character for her to the point of it being bizarre she's never been
anything but a model roommate so I'm going to give her a chance before we're
done ASO if she wants to be reasonable and have a chat about rent portions I'm
happy to do that she's never had a problem with the rent before and
honestly I've never had uneven rent amounts in any place I've ever lived
whether I had a bigger room or smaller room but a lot of people here are saying
it's the norm so I'm open to talking about it if she's not ridiculous edit
two Lena should be home in a bit I'll update when I can edit three hi everyone
I've got about a million messages asking for an update but last night was a bit
mad and I'm still pretty pretty jet lagged so sorry but I went to sleep
anyway here we go so as you know I text L to tell her I moved my stuff back she
didn't reply to me fine whatever but she didn't kick off so I figured we were
okay I told my Aunt what had happened who was as baffled as all of you and I
told her it was probably all sorted just keeping her in the loop I also told my
boyfriend who works about 5 minutes down the road he offered to come round in
case Lana's boyfriend came round but I told him not to because then we're
ganging up on L he insisted on going for a coffee with his mid a couple roads
away in case we needed backup which is a
bit ridiculous but very cute of him so I did get myself a glass of wine while
waiting for L not because I was nervous I just like wine and she came home I was
sad in the living room and gave her a very cold High when she walked in she
sort of froze bag in hand and her eyes darted between me and my slash not her
slash our bedroom door she blurted did you do it and I said what move the rooms
back yeah of course and her eyes went all wide and she dropped her bag and ran
into the bathroom I could hear her talking on the phone so I was like y PE
I guess Tom's coming round fun I heard the door unlock and I was about to go
full Hulk on how psycho she is when she came out of the door and stood between
our bedrooms their doors are adjacent and she just stared between them both
Breathing heavily it was really odd then I noticed she was crying and getting a
bit panicky so I asked what was going on she burst into tears and said om he's
going to kill me and just sobbed so yeah it was the boyfriend's idea completely
as a lot of us suspected she's honestly always been a perfect roommate which is
kind of why I came to this sub if she
was generally an [ __ ] I would have
known how to act if you know what I mean anyway Len has a bit of a breakdown and
it turns out piece of [ __ ] Tom has
always been a bit of a piece of [ __ ]
very jealous which I always saw hints of but L never mentioned so I didn't and
has amped up his pness while I've been away when I left he just finished school
and basically moved and unannounced and when she'd mentioned he hasn't been home
in days he'd give her the what don't you love me I treat you so well you're so
selfish blah blah [ __ ] and refuse to
move she showed me the texts he sent her absolutely horrific stuff things like
ring me in the next 5 minutes or whever send me a picture of you at your desk
with something showing today's date so I know you're at work just abusive stuff
on to the room as we guessed he moved it
he did it while she was at work which is actually a bit gross thinking of him
going through my stuff and I'm considering somehow implying I have
crashed or something he could catch just to make him squirm a bit but I'll work
on it l came home and said what are you doing he made out it was just temporary
and that I wouldn't mind such a gentleman speaking on my behalf and he
would move it back and he was doing tea for her and she was so selfish Etc when
it got a few days before I came back Lena suggested moving it back and he
completely denied he said that and told her it was her idea to move it and he
only did what she told him but it's staying now or she'd be sorry so
basically Tom is a prick and L sobbed and apologized and cried and I fed her
wine she didn't want to see Tom who obviously
assumed he lived there now so I text him from her phone saying our land lady my
aunt was coming round for an inspection and staying for dinner after with my
family and he couldn't come over tonight
he sent a lot of begging whiny texts and
then one on the offensive and called l a liar so I rang my aunt explained
everything and had her write us a fake landlord email mentioning the visit and
how she was looking forward to Fajita because she's an absolute babe and I
make good packet fajitas which we forwarded on to Tom he left her alone
for the rest of the night apart from a few texts I'm not entirely sure what we
do about Tom L sounds like she wants to break up judging from her crying and
screaming I hate him I hate him I hate him into her wine I think she's scared
to though I checked with her and he doesn't have a key so that's a relief
I've told my Aunt everything and she said she is happy to ban him from the
flat but L would need not break up with him first and get all that sorted thanks
everyone for the advice I know it wasn't the most popcorn update but hopefully
lenana will be okay and we're going to
be doing some girly [ __ ] this week and
avoiding Tom and yeah God knows what will happen update 2 hi everyone it's
been a busy month since my last post and I logged back into this account out of
curiosity and saw quite a few people messaged me requesting an update so here
we are sorry it took so long but things have calmed down now so shortly after my
last post L broke up with Tom she was quite scared to do it because he's a
psycho and it took two weeks between the last post and the actual breakup during
that time she didn't let him come round or see her luckily she remembered that
Tom had never had chickenpox as a kid so we pretended my nephew had caught
chicken poox and had to stay with us because my brother's wife had never had
it and couldn't risk getting shingles it worked luckily and he stayed away she
told her family and close friends about what he'd been like in case he contacted
them to get in touch with her and lied about what happened and then text him
saying she wanted to break up well he
blew the [ __ ] up called her every name
under the sun switched back to apologizing and said saying she was the
love of his life then said she'd never find someone like him then he would die
without her then he wanted to kill her then they were soulmates it was insane
he started messaging me too telling me I
was an evil [ __ ] who had ruined his
perfect wife l k then and as predicted her family and friends got messages too
we both turned our phones off to ignore it and just watched TV later I briefly
switched mine on where I had a lot of messages from my friends telling me to
block some guy on my social media it was Tom calling me everyone imag intive
combination of the c word he could think of all over my public Instagram page
there were even a few racial slurs which was odd because we're both white but
okay L had already blocked him on everything but silly me forgot to make
my insta private the next day he rang L's office she was so embarrassed it was
awful to tell her he was driving down to our flat she rang me and I rang my aunt
who you remember manages the property who told us it was time to call the
police we filed a report about Tom and they said to update us on the situation
ation in the UK you need to go to court to actually get a restraining order so
we haven't as such but the evidence is all there and documented if we need to
go that far the police rang Tom at our request told him they'd seen the
messages and to turn his car around because if he turned up at our door he'd
be arrested police officers here are amazing can I just say Tom managed to
[ __ ] himself hard enough to not show up
after that so we were fine for a week then the post came Tom started sending
letters threats and sappia I love you [ __ ]
flowers then a pizza that we had to pay for we were actually hungry so we ate it
he signed us up to a magazine subscription it was bizarre we went to
the police again they filed everything but Lana didn't want to go to court I
don't blame her she was incredibly stressed by the whole thing so two weeks
ago I took my aunt and mother out to dinner I told them both about the
situation and my goddess of an aunt had an idea she manages about 30 properties
not just the one we live at as had a few
that were unoccupied now now with school finishing she told me she would show us
round all the two bedrooms She had and we could live in any of them for the
same rent we pay now and just transfer over our deposit SL fees as long as
there were no damages to deduct and we helped do a deep clean to get it ready
for the next tenant we found one within a 5-minute drive that's just as lovely
and to anyone concerned about the previous rent dispute has equally sized
bedrooms so we moved which is why the last two weeks have been manic but we're
settled in now Tom has now been informed that we've moved because the stuff he
sent since has been returned Len and I are completely no contact with him and
anyone who visits us is sure not to pass on our address to Tom also I apologized
to L about the issue with paying the same amounts of rent she said she had
never had a problem with it and said that's how she had always done it
through uni and with other roommates she refused to take any money from me but
I've decided I will be funding the weekly flat wine sessions for the future
it's been a long long month and even though my traveling tan has faded things
are great now thanks for all your advice before guys
even the ones I didn't agree with and let's all pray to baby Jesus that I have
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wife 31f may be upset about not getting invited to my friends 30f celebration
dinner long story short one of my friends 30f of 10 plus years is having a
celebration dinner but can only have a certain amount of guests I 30m made the
cut but however my wife 31f did not there is still the possibility of
somebody not being able to make it and my wife can take that spot and because
of that I haven't told her about the dinner yet if nobody cancels and my wife
isn't able to go should I just not go and not mention anything to my wife and
have my friend possibly be upset with me or do I tell my wife and I go alone to
the dinner and have her possibly be upset with me seems like a lose/lose
situation edit just to clarify my friend has a significant other that will be
there so no motive to get with me LOL and also my wife has been to multiple
events and while her and my friend are cordial it's not like they've become
BFFs or nothing so I guess that's why my friend maybe thought to not invite her
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AIT for digging up my husband's past so I 25f have been with my husband 23m for
5 years and married for three he's a very quiet reclusive guy I can count how
many friends he is on one hand and he doesn't talk much about his childhood I
know that he has a single father 43m who he moved in with later on in his
childhood and an older half brother 25m it seems to be a sort of taboo to bring
up specifically his childhood especially during the time before he moved in with
his father I've gone to dinner at his family's place a lot and sometimes times
his brother would be telling a story he'll get briefly brought up and then
everyone will go quiet it's bothered me for some time now if I'm honest I've
asked so many times what happened only for my husband to tell me H not ready to
talk about it or to dodge the subject he's in therapy so what's the hold up
recently I also had notice some scars on his neck he wears a lot of turtlenecks
so I rarely am seeing or paying attention to his neck I asked and he
dodged the question and it just made me want to know what happened more it all
came to a head a few days ago when I decided to take things into my own hands
while my husband was was on a trip for the weekend I asked all of his friends
what they knew if he had said anything strange about his past they said nothing
learning this just made me want to find out more I practically tore apart our
entire house while he was gone looking for anything at all nothing
nothing I swear to God I was starting to think that he was some kind of
lab creature Who Never Was a baby at this point there was nothing no
indicators of his life before his teens and even then barely anything was there
no pictures no yearbook absolutely nothing it was like he just appeared
into existence one day I ended up calling his father father who after a
lot poking and prodding about the situation spilled absolutely everything
my husband the sweetest man alive had been abused to the point of near death
by his mother neglected so badly that at 12 he was only 40 lb and nearly got
strangled to death by that bastard woman that was why he got sent to his father
apparently I felt sick I actually couldn't believe what I had heard I just
kind of hung up and cleaned the house back up and sat around feeling really
gross my husband who came back a day early when his father spilled that he
had told me was Furious for the first time in our entire relationship he
screamed at me he screamed that I was awful for digging up his past when
he wasn't ready I just kind of stood there stunned as he grabbed his cat and
left he's been staying with his brother since isn't answering my calls nor his
fathers at this rate I'm worried I might be getting sered divorce paper I was
just curious I didn't think it would be something that bad AIT t a edit spelling
edit to clarifying A few thing one we know quite a lot about each other this
is honestly the one aspect that I knew nothing about he was semi-open about
things in his very late teens 16 to 17ish fairly closed off about anything
after 13 and just refused to talk about anything before then to I didn't see the
scars on his neck until recently because
it's weird as hell to stare at someone's neck he also is much shorter than me
five apostrophe 2 compared to 5' 11 in and almost always wears turtleneck this
is also part of why I didn't piece two and two together three I was the one who
proposed and willingly chose to go into this marriage I thought he would say
more as time went on but he didn't for I
have my own issues with my family that I don't talk much about but this is way
bigger than what I hide it's not as though he expects full transparency from
me but it isn't fair that I tell him more than he tells me edit three the new
post that was not my husband Jesus Christ someone actually Twisted what had
said into his POV take the fact op says he knew the house was torn apart even
though it cleaned it before my husband got home and all the weird added in
extra details is proof also my husband is dyslexic he couldn't spell half of
that right if he tried post from him was doctored 100% anyway I
understand the verdict is MTA and that I violated his boundary thanks for the
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aita for telling my future sister-in-law that she can't bring her baby to my
bachelorette party advice needed this weekend I 24f am having my bachelorette
party in Miami and have invited all of my bridesmaids to join we have been
planning it for a while and decided to rent a house to have a pool party and go
clubbing in the evening I bought a copious amount of alcohol a new speaker
and picked up party friendly Airbnb so that we could blast music and drink the
weekend away my matron of honor 32f sent
me a text last night asking if she could
bring her three Monon old baby along she said that she feels uncomfortable
leaving the baby for the weekend for context she has three children and lives
about hour from the Airbnb leading up to the party she has expressed her
excitement and agreed to chip in for the total cost so I didn't expect this one
bit I asked her if she could instead come by herself for the daytime portion
rather than spending the night away from her baby since I sent that text she has
not responded and now I feel like the bad guy I know it may sound selfish but
if she doesn't show up then I'm going to be pretty upset especially considering
that she is my matron on honor I really just don't think my bachelorette party
is the place for a newborn I figured I would ask online since I'm not a mom so
I don't know what it is like to be in her shoes am I the for asking
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today we have a rich entitled parent story where an entitled parent complains
that they're being made to feel like a child we'll get into that in a bit but
first mother-in-law disregarding me not sure if this is where to put this but I
feel like this was an entitled parent moment maybe guess I'm looking for
advice because I really don't like confrontation and I'm quite a sensitive
person offline basically I've always been really close to my mother-in-law
and she's more like a mum to me we're very similar in a lot of ways especially
insensitivity and caring for others but recently she said some hurtful things
and completely disregarded my wishes first upset me and her son got married a
few weeks ago I read my vows out to her a few weeks before to see if they were
okay and she loved them fast forward to the day it appeared like everyone loved
them including the little jokes I put in and a few people said that to me the
following day I was saying I relieved people like them and found the jokes
funny but she said people weren't laughing they were groaning at me for
putting them in I asked why she would say that because that'll get into my
head and ruin the moment for me but she didn't say anything and carried on
playing with my son she knows my mental health isn't always the best and that
that would be something I would latch on to especially since I've only just
started being able to trust people again second biggest upset because we live so
far away from each other I've only met our colleagues once or twice but they've
always been really kind to me and spoiled us when big celebrations have
happened on top of this they've looked after and cared for my mother-in-law in
such a way that they've been more like family and best friends to her
especially in difficult times in her life I realized I hadn't thanked them
properly for the gifts and things when my baby daughter was born at the
beginning of the year as well as my son a few years ago but I also wanted to
thank them generally mostly for her I didn't have a traditional cake in my
wedding and instead did a traditional dessert slash cake from where I live
that are small and individual as we only invited really close family and friends
to the wedding her colleagues weren't invited but I still wanted to
acknowledge and thank them so I bought separate ones specifically for my
mother-in-law to give to them when she went back to work I told her this prior
and she didn't look happy about it but didn't say anything other than one of
the reasons I'll say in a sec when we came back from our mini honeymoon we had
a catch up over the phone and she told me that she'd been thinking about it and
took the decision to instead give all the little cakes to one of her
colleagues slash friends in particular and told this person I bought them
specifically for her her reasons being that no one was really in that week only
one other person had gifted my newest baby when we moved closer this person
and her family would more likely be our friends and be close to them and this
person was having a really hard time so they needed something to cheer her up I
was shocked and upset so I didn't know what to say but then tried to come
around her way of thinking however I can't seem to don't get me wrong I am
glad in some way way I could be part of doing something for her friend
especially as she's done a lot for me but for me mother-in-law took something
I went out of my way to do disregarded my wishes lied to her friend put me in
an awkward position and took a gift away from her other colleagues here's a
couple more things but these two are the ones I'm most upset about I don't feel
like I'm wrong for being hurt and upset with her and feel she's massively
overstepped I tried to talk to my husband about it but he doesn't see the
big deal for me but I think he forgets I've experienced a lot of hurt and
disregard from people and just how much it's taken me to work hard to trust
people and go back to how I used to be with people I really love her a lot and
as I said I really really hate confrontation I don't know how to
address it without an argument or saying something in the wrong way please no
hate just want advice on how to address this appropriately without causing upset
I think the issue here is op either feeling the need to please her or or
live up to her standards or need validation it's clear that she's
routinely hurt you or let you down and my question is why is Opie presenting
this as if the only option is to move forward with her and try to find a way
not to upset her versus being honest or honestly pulling back a little bit and
stop allowing yourself to be hurt by this person our next story is entitled
mom is upset that I did my job and had to inform her that her son is
misbehaving bit of context first I'm a manager of a before and after school
Child Care Program in my local public school district the company that I work
for is privately owned and sort of rinse out the space in the schools I've just
passed my seventh year working here started when I was 15 and I've always
really liked it mainly because the school that I've been working at is the
school that I went to as a kid and it's within close walking distance working in
that specific school is one of the main reasons that I've worked here for so
long when I became the manager it was literally something that was just forced
upon me because there was no one else to fill that role I've always been really
good at saving so I've never asked for a raise before I've spent my own money
buying toys and supplies for the site that the High Reps either didn't want to
get or didn't know what to get I've been shortened on support staff for my site
for the second straight year as they don't want to pay a competing starting
wage with other nearby businesses but whatever working with children K-5 takes
a lot out of you but you do it for them I've always really liked my job but the
past couple of days are making me change my mind so there I was opening
understaffed with two staff out on vacation one not showing and two others
coming nearly 30 minutes after school gets out because they're both high
schoolers and have to commute drop off siblings and whatever shortly after
school gets out I usually take the kids to the playground it's one of the
largest playgrounds in the district despite being one of the smallest
schools so I'm practically solo monitoring 45 kids because one staff has
to stand at the end entrance to the playground and then a hill and the
equipment get in the way then I hear a lot of yelling that one of the first
grade girls is crying when I get over there the first grader is under some
stairs crying and I start my questioning the first grader in question has some
Mobility disability required a walker to get around and had multiple surgeries
over the summer to help turns out that a
new kid in the program this year a third grade boy had pushed her down kept
pushing her down pinned her to the ground and grabbed her neck when I asked
the third grader why he did this he said
I don't know when I asked if asked there was a reason why he did this he said no
in response I had him apologize to the first grader and walk Three laps around
the blacktop and of course I wrote up a behavior report for him to give to his
parents all pretty normal until I get a text from my boss if I could come into
the company office to talk apparently the mom of the third grader had called
my boss and the principal of this school and had a multi-hour conversation about
how I was being biased and unfair to her kid she demanded that I be removed from
the site and my boss for some reason immediately caved and said I can pick
the school that I want to manage so I'm essentially being demoted told I have to
spend a lot more on commuting be moved with no advanced warning and cause the
sight that I've spent so much effort on have no manager for the horrible crime
of doing my job well I guess this just reinforces the fact that parents have a
lot of power when it comes to schools I don't really understand why in a
situation where the kid's Behavior was clearly horrendous they would cave so
badly but man I would be salty for a long time if I were an op's position
honestly I think it's kind of the stuff like this that ruined the experience of
people who genuinely care and want to do
good being somebody who helps these kids
as they grow up and learn our next story
is Mom ignored me for weeks got mad when I didn't communicate to her I'm 25 year
old female the only daughter in my family I recently started a new
relationship with someone who makes me feel safe and appreciated this means I'm
spending more time outside of the house and occasionally staying over at their
place growing up my parents have always been overprotective helicoptery and
would make me stay home to take care of my toddler brother after school as a
result I missed out on a lot of high school experiences I've always felt a
little behind socially and in life because of this I was never allowed to
date even in my early 20s but I stopped listening to them at this point and my
parents always judged my friends and their families for allowing their
daughters to have boyfriends or dress a certain way I'm a grown adult I work
full time go to school part-time and I'm preparing to continue my education next
year and move far far away neither of my parents really care to be involved in
what is going on in my life there's never a stream of communication via text
or call in the past they would only really text or call me to ask where I am
this would present itself as them cursing me out or accusing me of
drinking or doing drugs there's not even a stream of consistent communication
between the two of them so I've learned to be private with what's going on in my
personal life just because I don't really want them to be involved or
provide their very judgmental and traditional opinions on what I do my
narcissistic mom recently saw my tattoo a small outline of my childhood dog on
my ankle and told me I was a bad person and ran away crying she then didn't talk
to me for two to three weeks I started this relationship around the same time
my parents now have been demanding to know where I am who I'm with even though
I've asked them for privacy probably should have known better they started
lecturing me about how if I don't like it here I can move somewhere else my
mother made a very personal attacks at me during this lecture I got upset and
emotional and she Scott drafted me my dad told me to not take her opinions
personally and that she shows affection in a weird way they told me that I'm
responsible for telling them where I am even though they haven't texted me to
ask where I've been again they don't text or call me really ever so I just
assumed that it didn't bother them only to find out that I should have been
picking up that they care oh so much but
speaking from past experiences they only
start to care when they start to pick up on me dating someone they also say
things like we trust you but not the other person which I take as we don't
trust you to pick a good person they also say things like you always pick
friends over family but when they go out for dinner they take my brothers and
don't invite me I'm just incredibly confused if I'm in the wrong to assume
that they didn't care because it definitely feels like I'm of the lowest
value as the only daughter in a first gen household I guess I'm just wondering
if this is normal for parents and how do I navigate or appease them for peace
because I'm just so tired I have so much going on in my life and these
unnecessary lectures jumble my brain and stress me out even more than I already
am also am I being gaslit into believing that they genuinely care because I feel
cognitive dissonance creeping up on me anyway I'm just incredibly tired of not
feeling seen as a competent individual in their eyes yeah I definitely think a
lot of op's concerns are very real here I mean they're putting in the bare
minimum or outright ignoring or dodging op and then turning around and saying
why are you dodging us or thinking that we're dodging you is it not like a level
of gaslighting that's honestly going on here this next story is got the silent
treatment for my mom after an argument about my boyfriend I would like to start
this story with the fact that me and my boyfriend are currently in a long
distance relationship due to the fact that I'm working in another country and
he's still in our hometown where my pair parents and his also live so long story
short my parents are divorced and living in separate houses in the same city at
the time me and my boyfriend got together my mom was living in another
city but since the beginning of this year she moved back to our hometown when
my mom and boyfriend met at first they had a very nice connection which I was
also very happy about but due to some circumstances she started calling him
for favors to help around the house as she's doing everything alone I guess she
saw him as very reliable and helpful he also has some problems saying no and
started to call him even more sometimes even without a reason to share her day
or problems once he came to visit me where I live and while in the bathroom
he left his phone with me the phone started ringing and I saw it's my mom so
I naturally picked up she was so confused why I picked up as she was
calling him and when I asked why the freak she calls him instead of me she
said she just wanted to chat with him time went by and other their situations
started to go on my nerves as I started to understand things that happened to my
mom Via him she usually talks with a lot of people during the day and sometimes
forgets what she told who but it's just so unnatural to me to learn things about
my mom through him there was also a situation that irritated me a lot when I
was going back home my flight was on let's say on Saturday and she was
supposed to come pick me up from the airport on Thursday my boyfriend says
your mom invited me tomorrow evening so Friday to have dinner at her place of
course we started an argument as of why she would invite him to dinner exactly a
day before I come and especially what they'll do to a dinner just the two of
them he didn't go and we ended up going after I was back fast forward to a few
days ago when the same situation with a dinner happened again she hit him up
with the idea of cooking something and having a dinner together I get that info
from my boyfriend again and when the day of the dinner came she randomly texted
me what she was doing now I took the opportunity to tell her I know about the
dinner and it's again not from her but from my boyfriend and that I don't feel
comfortable about these kinds of situations at all she invalidated my
feelings saying something like you're always mad about something and when I
told her that I don't expect her to tell
me everything but when it comes to plans with my own boyfriend I am expecting to
know she said am I supposed to tell you every time I call or every word I say to
him as well she said if I waited a bit more she would have told me about the
dinner I just left the convo there as I was left with no words during their
dinner she called me with video and I told her we'll talk later once she's
alone I guess my boyfriend was also giving her the cold shoulder and she
left in an hour I called her to explain my feelings and how I don't see it right
for her to share so many things with him than with me I also told her that her
behavior messes up my relation ships with him and we have Arguments for
nothing she said she didn't understand my point and needs time to think about
everything it's been four days of silent treatment since then am I in the wrong
in this situation for speaking up and having some boundaries I don't think Ops
in the wrong here I mean it's one thing I suppose for a parent to want to spend
a little time getting to know their kids partner but there seems to be like this
weird unhealthy attachment going on here where yeah it almost seems like she's
trying to date the boyfriend more than op is my question is why is the
boyfriend playing along so much with it I mean Opie doesn't seem too upset with
him but like why has it been allowed to get to this point our next story is my
mom has been abusive and a bully to everyone and now wonders why she's alone
I 19 year old female have lived with my mother all my life but moved out a year
ago due to multiple traumatic events in the past as of last week I got the
official PTSD diagnosis for this and I plan to cut ties she's never been the
nurturing type and always just given me the bare minimum that I needed to
survive I'm talking friends had to teach me at 13 or so how to brush my hair and
teeth because my mom couldn't be bothered to do it they also had to
explain things you usually learn in preschool that my mom also failed to
show me like not to hit or even touch other kids if they didn't want it she
left me alone for the first time when I was six overnight and when I called
crying 20 minutes after she left my mom said that she would only come home if
there was an emergency and I was so scared to be alone I almost threw myself
down the stairs on purpose so that she would come home I chickened out and cry
to myself to sleep the next day she said see that went well no need to be a baby
about it and from that point forward just expected me to be okay with her
dipping whenever she felt like it she said I looked like a Chinese
because I had makeup on for the first time and the shade was too pale for me
she said that all the men would be looking at me in that way and that I
would be a pretty sight slash distraction for them I was 12 and I was
about to go to church for a ceremony she has repeatedly made it known that she
doesn't care about my well-being nearly as much as my chores being done my
grades being good and people thinking she's a good Brave single mom from not
caring that I wouldn't eat or show up at her house for days just to see if that
would make her worry two calling me fat even though I'm perfectly healthy and
she's the obese one there's a lot to unpack here I'm going to therapy and I'm
getting better responsible for my PTSD is something she did when I was six or
seven she would invite our neighbor and her two sons over so they could play
with me and the grown-ups would talk they essayed me multiple times during
those play dates I begged my mom not to let them come over again with tears in
my eyes she responded by saying I should be grateful those older boys were even
indulging me after all boys that age don't want to play with girls much less
younger babies like myself it stopped after she fought with a neighbor
Meanwhile my memories got repressed and I only remembered these things after two
years of therapy that was just the context sorry for trauma dumping my
birth giver's most recent Escapade is this ever since my grandma her and my
aunt's mother died my aunt doesn't celebrate Christmas with my mother she
says it's because she thinks the holiday is overrated but whenever I come to
visit on December 24th or 25th to drop off presents the entire house is
decorated beautifully and I'm always invited to stay for dinner a movie or a
snack I think my aunt likes to celebrate Christmas just not with her sister my
sister The Golden Child and an enabler for my mother's Tantrums spends one
holiday with our mother and one with her
baby daddy's family so the kids get even visit
so imagine my surprise when after a year of little to no contact suddenly I'm
called by Mother Dearest asking me to come home and spend Christmas with
family I've been at my Dad's for Christmas for five years in a row I was
the first to leave to spend the holiday elsewhere then came my aunt and then
this year my sister why I should throw around my plans because she failed to
keep her family close literally every other day of the year is beyond me and I
tell her so now of course this is very sad and I'm a horrible daughter in
person for doing this and leaving my poor mother alone on Christmas boohoo
some family members have called and told me not to be selfish and that it's time
for family to come together I tell them I am with my family and if they think
it's so sad that this poor narcissistic abusive she devil has to spend a cold
December night alone then they can come and pick her up no one wants to do that
big surprise my aunt is staying out of it my dad says it's my right to do
whatever ever I want on Christmas and would not recommend going back out of
pity and guilt my mom is crying and calling and guilt-tripping me and
begging me to come home my sister says I'm being cruel and a selfish brat the
woman is my mom and she gave birth to me our family is really small so there's
like seven people on either side can someone please tell me I'm not insane I
think I need to hear that or would you keep someone like this in your life
aside from the sa this is the Tamer stuff she did edit for those of you
wondering where my dad was during all of this she basically used him as a donor
and pieced out they both wanted a child but not a relationship so they agreed
that he would be a weekend dad and I would stay with my mom most of the time
only she started reducing contact the second I was born she didn't put his
name on the birth certificate without anyone's knowledge he only got to see me
like once every two months if we got lucky and even then my mom complained
that that was too much my dad wasn't aware of how I'd been treated and and I
only recently told him mostly because I repressed half the bad stuff that
happened and the other half I thought was normal as a child he was horrified
what's weird is that she never seemed to
want me around like she'd leave for days during school weeks with little to no
warning or during summer she'd ship me off to a camp I didn't want to go to my
dad would have gladly had me on all those occasions I don't know why she
didn't let me go at this point I think she was just acting cruel because she
could honestly I think the last bit Opie was talking about is just selfish they
probably just wanted to be the better parent they probably wanted to reinforce
and make sure their status as a strong Brave single mother could not be
infringed or walked upon in any way needless to say I don't think gopi's
insane at all this next story is entitled parent complained that I made
him feel like a child I work in the kids area on a cruise ship policy we allow
parents with kids younger than three in the play area rule being one parent has
to be accompanying the child at all times I left for a few minutes because
of a child getting seasick when I returned there was the dad with his
two-year-old son drawing on the counter I said I'm sorry sir but please do not
let him draw on the counter he said oh these aren't washable I said yes they
are we don't want anyone drawing on the counter entitled dad allowing the child
to continue I say sir please do not allow your son to draw on the counter
entitled dad tells the child he isn't allowed and they leave while I clean the
marker off the counter the child runs off to some prep work one of my
co-workers set aside child grabs the scissors and the prep work I said sorry
dear you cannot play with this right now
you're welcome to play with it later the entitled dad says it's okay for him to
play with it while I sit with him I say Sir there are toys he's welcome to play
with this he cannot play with right now the dad replies I'll be sitting here
with him I say understand that right now
he cannot play with this he's welcome to when my co-worker has finished cutting
everything the entitled dad now frustrated do I need to pay for anything
I said no sir I'm just letting you know right now he cannot play with this I
thought my son was allowed to play with anything in this room the manager thank
God for her says he can play with what is available to him there are toys on
the other side of the room he can play with sir no need to pay for anything
entitled dad takes a plate of markers to one of the tables I tell my manager I'm
going to give him some paper as I'm worried he'll allow the child to draw on
the table just as I got the paper there he was sitting next to the child drawing
on the table I say Sir here's some paper for your son to draw on please do not
allow him to draw on the table entitled dad takes the paper while telling his
son he must draw on the paper all frustrated my manager gave me a look of
oh my God I want to go clean the room next door before returning my manager
informed me the entitled dad asked for my name he wanted to make a formal
complaint against me for treating him like a child my manager said the last
straw was when his son opened the TV cupboard started playing with the things
in there which is the Nintendo switch controller sound system DVD player and
games for the switch my manager informs him that that is not an area for a
two-year-old child to play with he was obviously not happy by that his wife
showed up during the time they left just as I returned the wife thanked us for
everything that was that the washable marker I could get off the counter sadly
not completely on the table I love that this guy had to clarify and make sure to
ask do I have to pay for anything because it darn sure seems like by the
time they were done in that room that they would have managed to find a way to
have to pay for something just to clarify I don't have to pay for anything
in here right meanwhile he's revving a theoretical chainsaw behind his back our
next story is entitled mom yells at me and my cousin because we didn't let her
kids play I'm sorry if the details are a bit vague as I was only around 4 years
old when this incident occurred this story takes place in late 2008 around
November at the time my cousin had the idea to set up a lemonade stand for our
neighborhood and I agreed we received permission and gathered all the
necessary ingredients to make the lemonade using an old Lemonade Stand
from our parents childhood and adding in our play tents and toys we transformed
our front yard into a kid's Paradise with play tens swings a trampoline and a
sandbox our cul-de-sac had about six other kids including two girls our age
who had been our friends since we were born as well as four older cousins whom
we weren't extremely close with we were familiar with all the kids and everyone
knew they were welcome to join us and play once we had our setup ready our
grandma treated us to some snacks these snacks included chips gummies and two
cups of cola my cousin and I occasionally got to share a can of Coke
As a treat she also gave us a plate with two fresh brownies our routine was to
play until we noticed someone approaching the lemonade stand most of
the people who stopped by were family friends there were also two strangers
who approached but turned away after making a purchase at one point a boy
around 9 or 10 came by on a bike he immediately ran and started jumping on
our trampoline with his shoes on which upset my cousin our grandparents had a
strict no shoes on the trampoline Rule and his jumping caused my cousin to fall
off and hit her head my papa who was doing yard work nearby intervened and
asked the boy to get down the boy became angry and started yelling at my papa
claiming that he wasn't his boss and that his mom had told him he could play
on the trampoline this puzzled my grandpa because we had never seen this
boy before despite the confusion my papa picked the boy up by the arm and pulled
him to the ground he did this because the a trampoline was very low to the
ground my papa explained to the boy that
he couldn't simply do things because his mom told him to and he emphasized that
the boy could have just asked to play however he couldn't do that because he
ended up hurting my cousin the boy then sulked and got back on his bike after my
papa helped my cousin we continued playing by that point we'd sold most of
the lemonade when we suddenly heard a loud crash we turned to see a woman and
the pitcher of lemonade shattered on the ground the woman approached grabbed me
by the arm and began yelling at both me and my cousin leaving me terrified and
unable to recall much of what she said my papa heard the commotion and rushed
over to see what was happening he saw the woman holding me by the arm and
started yelling at her he even threatened to call the police the woman
let me go and redirected her anger towards my papa to her surprise my kind
looking Grandpa could be Stern and assertive he shouted at the woman while
my cousin come comforted me unfortunately the part of my arm that
she had grabbed was already starting to bruise eventually the woman grabbed a
half-eaten Brownie and threw it at my papa in response he took out his phone
and called 9-1-1 this frightened the woman prompting her to quickly run off
after that we packed up and went inside fortunately we were never bothered by
that woman or her son again we also found out that they lived on a nearby
Street guess the Apple doesn't fall too far from the tree at least the kid when
told no learned to just give up and walk off albeit sadly I mean I get his
apparent you see your kids sad or dejected because they couldn't get
something there's a part of you that's like I want to give them everything they
desire but you also have to you know be an actual parent first and foremost the
fact that this lady went and grabbed and smashed that lemonade and threw a
brownie not exactly somebody I would consider parent material to begin with
but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want
to hear another absolutely crazy entitled parent story check out that
video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the
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when did your something is very wrong here feeling turned out to be true have
a friend that would essentially answer a text message during bang bang he was
that attached to his phone he didn't get back to me one day and I noticed his
Facebook hadn't been updated yet I tried hitting him up a few more times
something didn't feel right told a few friends most wrote it off as nothing
because this guy always seems happy he lives like an hour away finally I get
someone to go with me to hang out with him worst case we'd say we were going to
be in the neighborhood that's why we were hitting him up had we not done that
he was going to kill himself that night we showed up and he just started crying
immediately and saying that he needed help we outright intervened in a
friend's suicide he was always so active on social media as a way to hide his
depression it chills me to this day that if maybe I don't write him and get a
strange odd feeling that a friend might not be here today edit a quick follow-up
he's actually quite good now he struggles still but we'll talk about it
and allows us a bit more into his life so that we can help he's got issues that
I myself have but would never mention it before so now we can talk about a lot
more things but overall he got the help he needed in lives pretty well these
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what have your pets done that is worryingly smart I had a cat that
learned how to open the fridge then my dog started begging my cat for food then
the cats started getting into the fridge just to feed the dog I patiently await
the day where my pets would decide to overthrow me and have me fixed I'm not
fighting it that'll only make it worse in the long run had him for about 3
months and my dog didn't like him to be fair my dog didn't like anybody that
wasn't me or food husband's dog wasn't too interested in him either anyways so
one day the cat got up onto the counter and found some leftover chicken does he
eat the chicken nope he knocks a piece off the counter watches it fall down my
dog taking it and walking to the carpet to eat it second dog comes up tosses
another piece off dog goes to the carpet first dog comes back for the next piece
until all the chicken was gone didn't eat a single piece himself freak
occurrence no cleaning lady kicked the dogs outside to mob their Hooves were
inside C brings the dog a hoof my dog runs off with his hoof second dog waits
for him picks it up spits it back out and waits | give me a good story on WhatsSomethingYourPETDidThatWasTOOSMARTItsSCARYPartorig |
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AIT for telling my daughter that alienation is not a good enough reason
to change schools I'm 38f going to be as straightforward as possible my daughter
16f started High School last September she's an incredibly smart kid and got
into the best high school in our city and best Nationwide ranked by admission
grade for reference her class had 26 spots up for grab and the lowest
admission grade was 9.89 10 we were so proud of her now this school also has a
reputation as a hub for wealthy kids we're solid middle class we didn't think
this would matter that much since rich kids are still just kids at the end of
the day and she should try being friends with everyone she's quite a shy and
quiet person even though she was nervous
about the whole thing to be expected she also looked excited until High School
actually began immediately after the first day she started complaining she
said the teachers are amazing facilities
are good but her classmates not the best experience to say the least apparently
they're all from very rich families and her and her benchmate are the only poor
students in that class she said they're not mean and don't bully anyone and if
she asks them about school related things they always respond nicely
willing to help but they're extremely clicky and | give me a good story on AITAfortellingmydaughterthatalienationisnotagoodenoughreasontochangeschools |
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did she cheat I need specific reasons why it's indicated repost this is my
first time posting here I feel like no matter how I word it that advice here is
going to skew towards leaving rationally I see it but I'm reluctant I still love
her we've been married around 3 years together eight about 6 weeks ago my wife
changed drastically in the way she acted and treated me she told me there was an
emotional wall between us and she was unable to feel she told me she still
loved me but wasn't in love with me she told me she needed time to find herself
and decide what she needed to be herself again she wanted me first to leave then
stay she wanted to keep me around while she made up her mind she told me that
while she was in this state she still thought it was possible to fix things
but she wouldn't have sex with me because she felt no emotional attachment
3 weeks ago this reached a climax I finally pulled it out of her that she
wanted to end it she pretended like things were okay and normal while I was
dying inside from her holding our future in her hand I needed an answer she
finally told me it was over I felt horrible for a night I called in from
work the next day to start looking for a new job in a new location that night
when we were both home she was sobbing and repentant she was pained and making
it very clear she thought she made a mistake we had great sex she made me
hope again I believed her a few days later she told me she had planned a
night out with an old friend a female cooworker from the past transplanted to
the area we are in now I was supportive I believe she needs to be more social
after this the way she acted towards me again dip she started flipping back to
being unsure she looked for and found fault we got drunk one night and instead
of being more fond or playful she became extremely negative and ranted about
things she is annoyed about she started withholding sex again all the while I
was losing my mind I just wanted to know
what the hell was going on why was it so hard for her to try so hard to find
fault in herself while seeing nothing but faults in me but I continued to try
a week ago I found something out that deeply hurt me I showed a cooworker a
picture of my wife and I and he recognized her holy as her name is
she age she's on Tinder I am grateful to this friend but this hurt intensely I
left work early that Saturday and confronted her after much lying and
pulling she finally admitted two things one it was actually h two she had went
on a date with a guy for drinks supposedly the night she met her old
coworker this was after we made up reconciled our love Etc she did this
because she told me she needed to feel again she was extremely sorry she had a
trip plan months ago with her best friend that she left for 2 days later I
wanted her to go I wanted her to be happy but I've had three days now to
think drink alone I was sober for 7 months until this sequence of events
broke me and consider what the hell to do she is adamant nothing physical
happen but I have doubts based on the amount of lying her mother has severe
narcissistic traits and has been hospitalized recently her family
situation has been putting immense stress on her she is trying to get help
and she knows she needs medication and therapy to manage her problem meanwhile
I moved over 3,000 Mi to be with her here 6 months ago to be near her to her
family who was dealing with a severe terminal illness one of the jobs I
applied for bid I had two interviews and I've all but been offered the job it
would be good pay housing provided and would put me back in driving distance to
my own family it would be another 3,000 M move and would finalize our split if I
took it I have 6 days to decide dash dash I still love her she was nothing
but supportive for years she lived in a dead end town near my family while we
dealt with our own terminal illness she kept it together while my mental health
spiraled in the past some BPD and was an alcoholic since then I found a
medication that worked for me have been trying to fix our relationship have been
working on myself every day I unfortunately relapsed with this
situation but I'm still trying to stay positive and will sober up when this is
resolved I see this as an illness but my
eyes are wide open is this the beginning
or will her Proclamation that I'll never do this again stick she wrote down her
Decline and everything she did to remind
herself how bad it can get she's getting
therapy and is going to try medication I don't know what to do I love her and
married for sickness and good health I believe this isn't her but she hurt me
so deeply and destroyed my trust not so much the date but the deception
cowardice and manipulation that the last
two months have entailed other subs have
surmised that she cheated please give me hard reasons and truths as to how this
is the case be brutal if you feel you have two I feel like I'm blinded because
I'm too close and in denial possibly | give me a good story on DidshecheatIneedspecificreasonswhyitsindicatedRepost |
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:13.219 --> :19.500 My friends had the worst thanksgiving some
years back when we decided to have a friend’s :19.500 --> :20.500
thanksgiving. :20.500 --> :24.029
That year, one of my friends suggested that
we celebrate thanksgiving with one another :24.029 --> :26.199
since we all did not have families in the city. :26.199 --> :30.190
“It would be like in ‘Friends’; they always celebrated Thanksgiving together”,
:30.190 --> :31.190 she said. :31.190 --> :34.610
We agreed that it was a great idea and decided to do it.
:34.610 --> :39.010 One of my friends had a sister who lived in
the city so she invited her sister. :39.010 --> :43.390
I was great at grilling turkey so everyone
knew I would be in charge of the turkey. :43.390 --> :48.739
We had a great cook amongst us and the sister
who lived in the city is a great cook as well :48.739 --> :50.739
so they were to take care of the food. :50.739 --> :52.399
We all looked forward to it. :52.399 --> :56.750
There were seven of us in our group, two of
us worked for the same PR company, and the :56.750 --> :58.570
other five had different jobs. :58.570 --> :01.690
What we all had in common was that we went to college together.
:01.690 --> :05.850 We were not all friends in college, but everyone
was friends with me in college. :05.850 --> :11.310
I was a popular guy in college, I was known
for being a campus journalist, and I had to :11.310 --> :16.630
go out a lot of times to talk to people, interview
them, and a lot more to gather data for my :16.630 --> :19.240
journalism so I met many people. :19.240 --> :23.920
The first person I was friends with from the
group was my first girlfriend in college. :23.920 --> :28.020
We met and noticed that we liked the same things and had the same interests.
:28.020 --> :31.700 We started hanging out so much that everyone
thought we were a couple. :31.700 --> :35.100
We would tell them all the time that we were
not dating and they would roll their eyes :35.100 --> :36.130 at us.
:36.130 --> :39.840 Since people already thought we were together,
we decided to give it a try. :39.840 --> :44.729
We dated for three weeks and decided we were
a bad fit, we did not even really like each :44.729 --> :47.259
other and we were fighting a lot. :47.259 --> :52.509
We chose to not let a romantic relationship
ruin our friendship and we went back to being :52.509 --> :53.509
friends. :53.509 --> :57.909
She had two other guy friends and I met them
through her, we somehow became a group of :57.909 --> :59.659
four, and she was the only girl. :59.659 --> :04.090
As time went on, I introduced three of my
female friends to the group and we all became :04.090 --> :05.509
quite close. :05.509 --> :11.129
So close that we moved to the same city after
college but all at different times. :11.129 --> :15.010
We did most stuff together, we hardly had
the time to be in the same space with one :15.010 --> :19.420
another, the group was hardly ever complete
but whenever that happened, it was always :19.420 --> :20.420
a delight. :20.420 --> :24.810
The girls sometimes hung out together and
we guys did our thing, but we could hardly :24.810 --> :29.630
get everyone together so when our friend suggested
spending Thanksgiving with one another, we :29.630 --> :32.300
were excited about it and all looked forward to it.
:32.300 --> :37.050 I was in the area where one of the guys lived
one evening when I decided to stop by his :37.050 --> :38.080
apartment. :38.080 --> :43.140
As I got closer to the building, I saw him
with a woman whose ginger hair looked very :43.140 --> :44.140
familiar. :44.140 --> :48.011
I just knew that I had seen her somewhere
but I could not place a finger on where, when :48.011 --> :52.549
it finally occurred to me where I had seen her, I recoiled in horror.
:52.549 --> :54.420 That was my ex-girlfriend!
:54.420 --> :59.490 I was sweaty and hot all of a sudden and when
I saw him kiss her, and how she laughed after :59.490 --> :03.200
he had done that and then kissed him again, I almost collapsed.
:03.200 --> :07.030 I drove back home angrily, I was close to
tearing up. :07.030 --> :10.650
I rang another friend in the group to tell
him what I had seen and he told me that they :10.650 --> :13.000
had all been in his house for most of that day. :13.000 --> :17.519
Since they were in his house, they had probably
seen them together and none of them told me. :17.519 --> :20.650
I thought for certain that they all knew about it. :20.650 --> :25.879
Seeing my friend with her hurt not just because
she was not just some random ex-girlfriend, :25.879 --> :28.879
but also because I was madly in love with her. :28.879 --> :30.390
She meant the world to me. :30.390 --> :35.090
When she broke up with me, I was so devastated
and became uninterested in living. :35.090 --> :39.540
I just did not know how I could live my life
without her, I did not want to live life without :39.540 --> :40.540
her. :40.540 --> :45.769 My productivity reduced drastically, I was
constantly sad thinking of her, and I would :45.769 --> :50.629
be indoors for days, refusing to go out, not even to work.
:50.629 --> :54.040
When I did go to work, I was grumpy and unproductive.
:54.040 --> :58.329 My boss was kind enough to ask me to stay
back and take compulsory leave. :58.329 --> :02.799
I know the only way he allowed that was because
I had been an asset to the company. :02.799 --> :05.650
My friends all had to come over to do a rescue of sorts.
:05.650 --> :11.060 They encouraged me to talk to them and find
healthy outlets to handle the end of my relationship.
:11.060 --> :14.020 They knew how long it took me to get over
that relationship. :14.020 --> :18.389
It was so bad that one day, I smiled and my friends were so happy.
:18.389 --> :22.630 They had not seen me smile in a very long time.
:22.630 --> :26.440 I knew that day that I had to just move on
from that relationship. :26.440 --> :30.740
I am a social butterfly and I am naturally bubbly and sanguine.
:30.740 --> :35.639 Seeing my friend celebrate me smiling when
I used to always smile scared me. :35.639 --> :40.509
I decided that I would not let my ex steal
my joy and consciously worked toward getting :40.509 --> :41.949
my groove back on. :41.949 --> :46.330
I could not believe that my friends who knew
all these were comfortable with one of them :46.330 --> :50.490
dating my ex and not one of them even told me! :50.490 --> :52.020
I felt betrayed. :52.020 --> :56.169
The day before Thanksgiving, I went shopping with the two “cooks”.
:56.169 --> :59.520 They noticed something was wrong but I insisted
that I was fine. :59.520 --> :01.300 “You don’t look okay though.
:01.300 --> :02.470 Are you sure you’re alright?”
:02.470 --> :04.690 “I already said I was fine.
:04.690 --> :06.389 Drop it” I snapped at her.
:06.389 --> :07.590 She was taken aback. :07.590 --> :08.930
“Listen, I am sorry. :08.930 --> :11.130
It’s just that I’m just overwhelmed.” :11.130 --> :14.139
My other friend nodded and patted me calmly on the back.
:14.139 --> :19.139 “I understand, holidays stress me out too,
and look at the overwhelming number of people :19.139 --> :21.819
in the store” Her sister rolled her eyes. :21.819 --> :26.160
“I know you are stressed but, so am I. Don’t take that out on me”.
:26.160 --> :29.800 I muttered an apology, but she ignored it
and kept walking. :29.800 --> :33.630
That evening, I was using the oven for the
turkey while the sisters cooked and the others :33.630 --> :35.080
helped out with other stuff. :35.080 --> :38.890
I was to grill the turkey and bring it over
to my friend’s house – the one who was :38.890 --> :43.199
dating my ex since we were having dinner at his house later that day.
:43.199 --> :48.990 The first thing I did was ruin the turkey,
I made sure it got burnt. :48.990 --> :52.580
It got so burnt that it was very black on the outside.
:52.580 --> :54.050 I also showed up late.
:54.050 --> :58.380 They kept calling to ask why it was taking
me so long because they were hungry. :58.380 --> :03.229
When I eventually showed up, they were relieved
but not until they saw the turkey. :03.229 --> :04.910
They all went about complaining. :04.910 --> :08.690
“I just knew we should have grilled it ourselves”, one of the sisters said.
:08.690 --> :13.919 I did not reply to their complaints initially
but when they had all kept quiet, I said “It :13.919 --> :16.350
tastes better than it looks, I promise”. :16.350 --> :19.759
“It's better,” one of the guys said as they set the table for dinner.
:19.759 --> :23.080 We all sat down to dinner and I asked what
everyone was grateful for. :23.080 --> :26.680
“Honey, can we talk about that AFTER we are done eating?”
:26.680 --> :28.360 “Come on” I urged everyone.
:28.360 --> :32.470 “It is only going to take a moment and then
we can go on with our food” :32.470 --> :33.860
They reluctantly agreed. :33.860 --> :37.669
“I’m going to talk with my mouth full though, I need to eat.
:37.669 --> :42.470 I’m starving”, the friend who was seeing
my ex said and everyone chuckled. :42.470 --> :46.099
We decided on what part of the table to start from and he started.
:46.099 --> :51.330 When he said he was grateful for love, I almost
stood and punched him in the face. :51.330 --> :56.349
The others talked about what they were grateful
for, good friends, a new job, supportive family :56.349 --> :57.949
members, and all of that. :57.949 --> :00.150
When it was my turn, I burst out laughing. :00.150 --> :04.610
“We do not have the time for your clownery,
the food is getting cold”, the sister I :04.610 --> :06.539
snapped at in the store said curtly. :06.539 --> :08.479
“You know what I’m grateful for? :08.479 --> :13.479
I’m grateful that my eyes are now opened to see the people I call friends”
:13.479 --> :17.039 The room went quiet, I guess they were wondering
what I was talking about. :17.039 --> :20.979
“I’m grateful that when I found out that
one of my best friends in the world is dating :20.979 --> :26.360
the only woman I have ever really loved, I did not get a stroke immediately?”
:26.360 --> :31.360 The two sisters were lost and so was my first
friend, the one who I used to date in college. :31.360 --> :34.039
“Which of your friends is dating your ex?” :34.039 --> :39.039
my college ex asked immediately, her eyes darting from one person to the other.
:39.039 --> :41.300 “Is someone going to tell me what is going
on here?” :41.300 --> :42.940 she asked when no one said anything.
:42.940 --> :44.099 “Oh, you didn’t know?”
:44.099 --> :48.599 I asked, partly disappointed in myself for
even thinking that she knew about it. :48.599 --> :52.409
She was my oldest friend in the group and
I should have known that there was no way :52.409 --> :55.409
she would be comfortable knowing that and not telling me.
:55.409 --> :58.509 I told her what was going on and she was shocked.
:58.509 --> :02.710 “How long has this been going on and why
didn’t anyone mention it to me?” :02.710 --> :03.710 “Or me?
:03.710 --> :07.259 I had no idea they were seeing each other”
one of the sisters said. :07.259 --> :11.980
She said she knew my friend was seeing someone,
but she did not for once ever think that the :11.980 --> :14.500
person he was seeing was my ex-girlfriend. :14.500 --> :16.919
“That is extremely cruel. :16.919 --> :20.830
It is very cruel of you to do that knowing
what we all went through trying to get our :20.830 --> :23.860
friend to move on”, my college ex remarked. :23.860 --> :26.909
While this was going on, my friend had his head in his hands.
:26.909 --> :27.909 “I am sorry. :27.909 --> :29.599
I am very sorry. :29.599 --> :31.921
I did not want to tell you because I did not want to hurt you…”
:31.921 --> :36.870 “Oh, you did not want to hurt him so you
chose instead to… hurt him?” :36.870 --> :39.669
“I was not talking to you”, he suddenly yelled. :39.669 --> :42.880
“Well I am talking to you”, my college ex yelled back.
:42.880 --> :46.100 “I can’t believe you all knew and did
not say anything. :46.100 --> :47.100 Shame on you!
:47.100 --> :48.160 All of you!” :48.160 --> :51.980
One of the guys who had been quiet and had
not said anything since I mentioned what I :51.980 --> :58.150
was grateful for, and was usually the quietest
one, sighed loudly and then turned to me. :58.150 --> :02.450
“Listen, I did not feel like it was in my
place to tell you, but I did make him promise :02.450 --> :07.510
to tell you and he swore that he would”
“Look, we did not want to hurt your feelings. :07.510 --> :12.620
There was no way I could break news like that
to you and that was why I did not say anything”, :12.620 --> :14.540
one of my other friends offered. :14.540 --> :19.170
They all soon started to argue about whether
their keeping it from me was wrong or right. :19.170 --> :23.590
“You can’t just lie to your friend for
so long and then say you did not mean to hurt :23.590 --> :24.590
them. :24.590 --> :26.770 At what point did you think it was not going
to hurt him? :26.770 --> :29.910
When he sees the bright pink wedding invitation cards?”
:29.910 --> :34.510 “I’m sorry,” my friends muttered, except
for the guy who was dating my ex. :34.510 --> :36.120 “I’m sorry, man.
:36.120 --> :38.650 I promise I did not intend to hurt you.
:38.650 --> :40.290 We met again on a work trip.
:40.290 --> :45.450 It was so random, I tried very hard to look
away, but we were in love…” :45.450 --> :49.500
Before he could finish his sentence, I hit him in the face.
:49.500 --> :50.500 Everyone gasped. :50.500 --> :55.310
“If you ask me, he deserves that,” my
college ex said, holding up her wine glass. :55.310 --> :57.770
“Why are you being so judgemental? :57.770 --> :00.360
You are only making things worse, you know that right?”
:00.360 --> :02.200 the sister who was invited quipped.
:02.200 --> :05.010 “Who are you and why are you even here?”
:05.010 --> :08.470 She turned to no one in particular and asked,
“Who invited her?” :08.470 --> :12.070
“Don’t talk to my sister like that,” her sister countered.
:12.070 --> :15.110 “Oh, is it okay for her to talk to me like that?”
:15.110 --> :18.019 “She only asked that you chill out on fueling
the fire. :18.019 --> :19.630 Why are you acting like his spokesman?
:19.630 --> :23.500 We are trying to make things right here, and
you’re making it even worse” :23.500 --> :27.130
The friend I had hit was still sitting, in shock, holding onto his face.
:27.130 --> :29.630 “She’s still in love with him,” he said.
:29.630 --> :30.630 “What?! :30.630 --> :31.630
Are you crazy?” :31.630 --> :33.339 My college ex looked mortified.
:33.339 --> :37.089 “Well, you did confess to being in love
with him last year” :37.089 --> :42.060
“First of all, that was last year, secondly,
loving someone is not morally wrong. :42.060 --> :45.070
I am not the one sleeping with my best friend’s ex”
:45.070 --> :46.589 “Can we just eat? :46.589 --> :48.000
I’m very hungry.” :48.000 --> :49.889
one of the girls said, holding her tummy. :49.889 --> :54.029
“Oh yeah, let’s just forget about what he did to me,” I replied to her.
:54.029 --> :55.450 “He was wrong, okay? :55.450 --> :56.450
He is wrong. :56.450 --> :00.620
About everything, but it’s Thanksgiving,
we can’t spend Thanksgiving bickering and :00.620 --> :05.060
hitting each other, come on” “I’m just going to leave,” my college
:05.060 --> :07.870 ex got up, walking to where she had hung her coat.
:07.870 --> :08.940 I followed her. :08.940 --> :10.400
“Why are you leaving? :10.400 --> :12.110
Is it because of what he said? :12.110 --> :13.700
So what if you were in love with me?” :13.700 --> :14.790
“Go on, leave!” :14.790 --> :16.970
I heard him yell from the dining room. :16.970 --> :21.330
She ignored me and left me standing, walked
over to where he was seated, and asked him :21.330 --> :22.740
to repeat himself. :22.740 --> :23.740 “Really?
:23.740 --> :24.740 You want to do this?”
:24.740 --> :25.810 One of the girls asked.
:25.810 --> :27.130 “I can’t take this anymore.
:27.130 --> :31.640 I’m leaving too” the third guy said and
he moved the chair back to stand. :31.640 --> :35.590
He was the one who revealed that they had
been hanging out with my friend that day. :35.590 --> :38.639
I heard one of the sisters trying to convince him to stay.
:38.639 --> :41.279 “This is the wrong time to do all of these.
:41.279 --> :43.350 It’s thanksgiving for goodness sake.
:43.350 --> :46.660 We all left our families and decided to spend
it with one another. :46.660 --> :51.750
We could all be home with our families having
fun, but we chose to be here, and this is :51.750 --> :52.829
what we get?” :52.829 --> :54.589 I heard him complain to her.
:54.589 --> :56.920 He passed by me in the living room and hissed.
:56.920 --> :01.070 “It was very petty that you chose today
of all days to do this?” :01.070 --> :03.190
He walked out and slammed the door. :03.190 --> :07.300
I returned to the dining room, and one of
the sisters was helping my friend put a pack :07.300 --> :09.370
of ice on where I had punched him. :09.370 --> :12.440
“This turkey tastes like coal, Jesus!” :12.440 --> :16.600
the other sister said, reaching out for tissues and spitting into it.
:16.600 --> :22.520 My college ex left, the guy I had hit left,
and the rest of us had a quiet, tension-filled :22.520 --> :23.520
night. :23.520 --> :25.410 We ate and bade one another goodnight.
:25.410 --> :27.390 They all had a terrible Thanksgiving.
:27.390 --> :28.760 I made sure of that. :28.760 --> :33.720
To this day, the guy who dated my ex and I
are no longer friends, but I am still friends :33.720 --> :49.480
with other people in :49.480 --> :51.460 the crew.
:51.460 --> :56.410 Boarding schools have to be the worst idea
ever imagined by anyone. :56.410 --> :00.160
I mean that with all sincerity, because… seriously.
:00.160 --> :05.050 Why on earth would you think to make students
suffer seven or eight excruciatingly long :05.050 --> :09.670
hours in the classroom, only to go back to
the dormitory with the thought that the classroom :09.670 --> :11.620
is only a few steps away? :11.620 --> :13.900
That has to be very traumatizing for students. :13.900 --> :15.860
(i know it was for me). :15.860 --> :17.710
And that’s not even the worst part! :17.710 --> :23.430
As we all know, teenagers are huge jerks and
are prone to making bad decisions at every :23.430 --> :24.430 turn.
:24.430 --> :27.130 Because of this, high school bullying is on
the rise. :27.130 --> :31.120
Now, the teachers and people in authority
had not been able to get the bullying under :31.120 --> :36.269
control, so all the bullied students had to
help them through these tough school times, :36.269 --> :38.990
were their families and friends back home. :38.990 --> :39.990
But syke! :39.990 --> :43.710
Boarding school students have nobody to help them through their trials.
:43.710 --> :48.020 All they get after the bullying from school
is more bullying in the dorm. :48.020 --> :50.800
Now, this bullying came in many forms. :50.800 --> :54.870
Some prefer to just beat up their victims,
just for the fun of it, while others loot :54.870 --> :58.000
steal and pillage from their victims. :58.000 --> :04.029
I fell prey to the latter, and one too many
times, they walked away with my fruits, snacks, :04.029 --> :07.770
my food, and even my marvel magazines. :07.770 --> :09.890
One day I decided that enough was enough. :09.890 --> :13.900
They’ve taken too much from me, and I had to fight back.
:13.900 --> :19.670 I hit them back eventually, and spectacularly
too, but first, let's start at the top. :19.670 --> :22.050
I didn’t have a really happy home growing up. :22.050 --> :25.380
Trust me, it isn’t a statement to say that my parents hated each other.
:25.380 --> :30.350 They fight every single day, and I’ve never
seen them agree on anything. :30.350 --> :35.160
Every time I stay at home, it was as though
I was walking on eggshells because literally, :35.160 --> :37.390
anything could start their fight. :37.390 --> :40.610
One time, they had a huge fight that lasted over a week.
:40.610 --> :43.440 It was so bad, that dad had to move out that week.
:43.440 --> :48.399 When we, (that is me and my younger sister,
CJ) traced the root of the problem, we found :48.399 --> :52.490
out that their one-week-long quarrel was started because of a TV remote.
:52.490 --> :56.120 (sometimes, it’s hard to even wonder how
they actually fell in love with each other :56.120 --> :57.480
in the first place. :57.480 --> :02.870
I go to my friend's house, and I see his parents
talking to each other with so much love and :02.870 --> :06.209
respect, and I’m just… filled with jealousy. :06.209 --> :07.360
Why couldn’t that be my family? :07.360 --> :09.570
Why did they have to fight every day? :09.570 --> :14.050
As the fights got more intense, the issue at home started to affect my studies.
:14.050 --> :19.459 I was a top-tier science before it became
so bad, but now I was failing. :19.459 --> :23.540
This issue sparked up concern with my teachers
because they’ve known that I was one of :23.540 --> :27.089
the smartest in well, not just my class. :27.089 --> :28.880
pretty much the entire school. :28.880 --> :31.519
They figured that something had to be going on. :31.519 --> :37.009
When one of my teachers decided to pay a visit
to my house, she quickly discovered the issue, :37.009 --> :38.680
and she offered a solution. :38.680 --> :41.970
She suggested that they should try out couples counseling.
:41.970 --> :45.319 They took her advice, and soon enough, they
started seeing someone. :45.319 --> :49.910
I was so happy about this development because
I was sure that the counseling was all they :49.910 --> :51.880
needed the entire time. :51.880 --> :56.620
Finally, my house will be as peaceful as my friend daniel’s house.
:56.620 --> :57.620 Syke!... :57.620 --> :58.620 again.
:58.620 --> :02.690 I expected good to come out of the counseling
my parents were attending, and honestly, for :02.690 --> :05.970
the first few weeks, it looked like they were making progress.
:05.970 --> :09.810 They were no longer fighting at home, and
they started to be more civil with each other. :09.810 --> :14.930
But one evening, my dad called me and my sister
to the dinner, table, and he broke the news :14.930 --> :16.970
that they were getting a divorce. :16.970 --> :21.390
The most annoying part about all that wasn’t
the fact that they were getting a divorce. :21.390 --> :24.910
It was that they were being civil with each other while discussing it.
:24.910 --> :26.180 Like what the heck! :26.180 --> :30.160
Where are the loud yelling and broken china when you need them?
:30.160 --> :34.550 I asked them why, because I felt like they
were making so much progress. :34.550 --> :38.760
They said they were making progress, and the
counselor had helped them see that they are :38.760 --> :40.110
not a good fit for each other. :40.110 --> :43.470
They even worked out the logistics of the divorce that night.
:43.470 --> :47.130 I was to live with my dad, while my sister
was with my mom. :47.130 --> :49.050 We were allowed to visit anytime.
:49.050 --> :53.540 Anyways, a few months after the divorce was
finalized, dad started to date some woman :53.540 --> :54.889
named Tiffany. :54.889 --> :56.960
Tiffany had a daughter named Roxanne. :56.960 --> :01.750
She was the same age as my sister, and I thought
we were going to have a similar relationship. :01.750 --> :03.390
But no we didnt. :03.390 --> :08.540
Tifanny was terrible, and her daughter was just the worst.
:08.540 --> :13.240 Tiffany tried to undermine me in front of
my dad, every time she could, and she made :13.240 --> :16.750
it feel like everything going wrong in the house was my fault.
:16.750 --> :19.829 Roxanne on the other hand, she was just a brat.
:19.829 --> :22.980 Yelling and throwing tantrums till she gets
whatever she wants. :22.980 --> :23.980 Really?
:23.980 --> :26.339 My family got divorced to be replaced with this?
:26.339 --> :31.721 Seriously, I’ll take my fighting parents
over the new one anytime any day, because :31.721 --> :34.600
at least when they were fighting, I had my sister. :34.600 --> :35.860
Now I had no one. :35.860 --> :37.500 My dad wasn’t even on my side.
:37.500 --> :39.120 He just takes Tiffany’s side.
:39.120 --> :43.980 Anyways, as you’d expect, my grades dropped
even lower, and my teachers decided that I :43.980 --> :48.289
needed summer classes if I was going to get enough points to graduate.
:48.289 --> :50.110 My dad had other ideas.
:50.110 --> :54.710 He told me that if I didn’t get my grades
up before summer, he was going to enroll me :54.710 --> :56.230
in a boarding school. :56.230 --> :58.500
I was sure he wasn’t gonna do that. :58.500 --> :59.770
He was bluffing. :59.770 --> :02.270
But to my uttermost shock, he wasn’t. :02.270 --> :06.950
I couldn’t get my grades up, so after the
end of summer, he told me to pack my bags, :06.950 --> :10.260
and he drove to a boarding school a few towns away.
:10.260 --> :13.640 I had never been more shocked in my entire life.
:13.640 --> :15.460 I still thought it was a joke.
:15.460 --> :20.150 A tactic to get me to fall in line, till he
got into his car and drove away. :20.150 --> :25.049
It took me a while, but I finally accepted
that that was my life then, and I just had :25.049 --> :26.070
to go with it. :26.070 --> :32.350
Anyways, I started attending classes, and
boy, it was way different from my high school. :32.350 --> :34.290
The teachers were stricter. :34.290 --> :39.250
And since it was an all-boys school, it was run almost like a military academy.
:39.250 --> :43.680 We are required to wake up before dawn to
get started on the day and do the chores that :43.680 --> :45.220
are assigned to us. :45.220 --> :50.670
Lateness to anything or anywhere buys you a few hours of scrubbing the toilet.
:50.670 --> :54.559 Sometimes you get cafeteria duty, washing
a huge pile of plates. :54.559 --> :58.610
I wasn’t used to these rules, and because
of that, I fell prey to toilet scrubbing more :58.610 --> :00.470
times than I cared to admit. :00.470 --> :04.659
The first few weeks were the toughest, and not because of the toilet scrubbing.
:04.659 --> :08.559 As a transfer student, I didn’t know anyone
in the school, and I wasn’t the best at :08.559 --> :09.990
making friends. :09.990 --> :13.360
It got pretty lonely, and all I wanted was to go home.
:13.360 --> :18.460 During the first visitation day, my mom came
with my sister, and she promised to get me :18.460 --> :21.220
out of the school by the end of the school year. :21.220 --> :25.890
She had spoken to my dad about it, and it
was settled that I’d move to her place. :25.890 --> :31.450
That was the best piece of news I had received
in a few weeks, and I was just so happy about :31.450 --> :32.940
the new development. :32.940 --> :34.840
She also brought me some snacks and stuff. :34.840 --> :37.470
You know, my favorite beverages and stuff. :37.470 --> :39.700
Just a little something to keep me sane. :39.700 --> :43.571
When they left, I walked back to my dorm to
keep the things she bought for me, and for :43.571 --> :48.400
the first time, the boy I shared my dorm room with, Julian, spoke to me.
:48.400 --> :53.010 He told me to hide my stuff, and not to eat
or drink them when the seniors were around. :53.010 --> :58.080
I didn’t know what he meant, but when I
asked him to explain, he just clammed up, :58.080 --> :59.700
and wouldn’t say more. :59.700 --> :04.520
Then that night, just a few minutes to light
out, some of the seniors walked into my dorm :04.520 --> :05.520 room.
:05.520 --> :09.000 They walked directly to me and pulled me up
from my bunk. :09.000 --> :11.450
Then they told me to open up my locker. :11.450 --> :16.090
Now it’s important to note that before that
day, I had never been bullied before. :16.090 --> :20.470
Bullying wasn’t a thing in my former High
school, and because of this, I didn’t know :20.470 --> :21.580
what to expect. :21.580 --> :26.310
So when they ordered me to open my locker,
I refused and asked them why I should. :26.310 --> :28.720
They were really surprised at my audacity. :28.720 --> :33.929
They looked me over for a few seconds, and
before I knew it, they were all over me, punching :33.929 --> :34.929
and kicking. :34.929 --> :39.340
Eventually, they stopped, and their leader,
Damian, asked me to open the locker again. :39.340 --> :41.480
I had no choice but to oblige. :41.480 --> :45.980
They took all my snacks and beverages and left the room.
:45.980 --> :49.770 After their footsteps receded in the distance,
Julian helped me up. :49.770 --> :53.610
I asked him what that was and he smiled and said something along the lines of
:53.610 --> :58.279 “Welcome to boarding school”
Julian and I stayed up late talking about :58.279 --> :00.330
the school and the seniors. :00.330 --> :04.250
He had been in the school since freshman year, and it wasn’t new to him.
:04.250 --> :09.840 During the visiting days, the seniors were
always on the prowl, looking for junior students :09.840 --> :15.289
to steal from, and they usually resorted to
violence, if the junior stands his ground. :15.289 --> :20.380
It had been happening for a long time, and it was going to continue to happen.
:20.380 --> :24.770 I asked Julian why none of the Juniors ever
thought of reporting the problem to the teachers :24.770 --> :26.630
and the people in authority. :26.630 --> :30.510
He laughed at me and told me it was only going
to make it worse because the teacher won't :30.510 --> :31.520
do anything about it. :31.520 --> :32.520 I didn’t believe that.
:32.520 --> :36.150 To me, the teachers and house masters couldn't
care so little about the well-being of the :36.150 --> :40.440
students, so I made up my mind to report the case to the teachers.
:40.440 --> :43.880 Julian warned me against this, but I didn’t
listen. :43.880 --> :48.580 The next day, after class, I walked up to
one of the house masters and reported the :48.580 --> :49.580
incident. :49.580 --> :53.270
He asked me if I could recognize the culprits, and I said yes.
:53.270 --> :58.100 Then he followed me to the common room, and
I pointed to Damien and his friends. :58.100 --> :02.830
The Housemaster walked them out of the common
room, and before Damien walked out he whispered :02.830 --> :06.060
a silent, “you’re dead,” in my ear. :06.060 --> :11.390
I was so scared, and I started to think that
perhaps I had made the wrong decision by reporting :11.390 --> :12.390
them. :12.390 --> :17.150
The seniors were all assigned to the kitchen,
to wash the cafeteria dishes for three days. :17.150 --> :20.710
After their punishment was over, I thought
that would be the last I’d be hearing from :20.710 --> :23.380
them, but that was far from the truth. :23.380 --> :27.970
That night, after light out, they came to my room and beat me up again.
:27.970 --> :31.799 They were careful not to hit my face, so there
won't be any evidence, and when they were :31.799 --> :37.320
done, Damien crouched to the ground, and told
me that he would gladly scrub toilets or wash :37.320 --> :42.450
dishes if I were to report them again, but
if I did, he’ll be back, and it will be :42.450 --> :44.220
worst than the last. :44.220 --> :47.630
I was so scared that I decided to keep my mouth shut.
:47.630 --> :51.150 The only thing the house masters were interested
in, was dishing out punishment. :51.150 --> :56.010
They didn’t really care about trying to
stop the whole bullying from happening again. :56.010 --> :00.520
Anyways the bullying continued in that manner for a long time.
:00.520 --> :04.830 Anytime my mom comes to visit, they bring
snacks and beverages, and every time, I have :04.830 --> :09.179
to surrender them to the seniors, or else I get the beating of my life.
:09.179 --> :13.970
One day after class, I sat on one of the bleachers,
watching the football team practice. :13.970 --> :17.450
Julian came to join me, and we talked about our classes and stuff.
:17.450 --> :22.429 When we were done, we started to head back
to the dorm, when out of the blue, I blurted :22.429 --> :27.450
out that I was going to get back at Damien for everything he had done to me.
:27.450 --> :30.750 Julian asked me how I intended to do that,
and I shrugged. :30.750 --> :33.250 I didn’t have a plan yet.
:33.250 --> :37.070 All I knew was that I was tired of the bullying,
and the fact that there was nothing I could :37.070 --> :38.290
do about it. :38.290 --> :40.010 That same day, I was in the dorm.
:40.010 --> :42.250 I looked out of the window, to the grounds.
:42.250 --> :45.230 I saw Damien walking past with his gang.
:45.230 --> :47.100 He was drinking apple juice.
:47.100 --> :53.260 It dawned on me that day, that I had never
seen him drink anything else. :53.260 --> :56.270
That was how much he loved apple juice. :56.270 --> :59.409
Suddenly, I knew how I was gonna get back at him. :59.409 --> :04.950
I turned to Julian and told him that I finally
figured out how I’m going to get my revenge. :04.950 --> :08.980
Then I hurried to the housemaster, to use the phone to call my mom.
:08.980 --> :12.659 Visiting day was in a few days, and I wanted
her to get me some apple juice. :12.659 --> :17.940
A few days later, ad I walked to the visiting
room, I could feel Damien’s eyes on me as :17.940 --> :19.919
I jogged past the grounds. :19.919 --> :23.130
I turned to look at him, and he had this glint in his eyes.
:23.130 --> :25.570 Don’t worry, not for long.
:25.570 --> :28.970 I hugged my mom and sister, and we talked
for a little while. :28.970 --> :33.040
The school year is almost over, and exams are starting in a few days.
:33.040 --> :37.250 She told me she had already gotten a suitable
school for me to finish my senior year. :37.250 --> :39.650
All I had to do was pass my exams. :39.650 --> :42.820
One hour later, they left, and I hurried back to my hostel.
:42.820 --> :47.080 There were three bottles of apple juices in
the bag, so I picked out two and hid them :47.080 --> :49.070
inside Julian’s locker. :49.070 --> :52.890
Then I picked up the last bottle and drank half of the juice.
:52.890 --> :57.149 Julian asked me what I intended to do with
the half bottle of juice, and I just told :57.149 --> :58.419
him to watch and learn. :58.419 --> :04.570
I walked into the bathroom and peed into the
bottle till it was back to the original level. :04.570 --> :08.029
Then I closed the bottle and returned it to my beverage bag.
:08.029 --> :10.330 All I had to do then, was wait.
:10.330 --> :13.510 That night, Damien and his gang walked into
my dorm room. :13.510 --> :17.980
He demanded that I opened my locker, and I didn’t argue with him.
:17.980 --> :20.940 I opened it, and they grabbed my snacks and stuff.
:20.940 --> :25.750 Damien went through it and his eyes lit up,
when he saw the “apple juice” they grabbed :25.750 --> :27.549
the bag and walked out of the room. :27.549 --> :31.100
I followed them closely behind, making sure they don't see me.
:31.100 --> :35.140 When they got to their dorm room, I stayed
at the window, peeking inside, as they split :35.140 --> :36.340
the snacks. :36.340 --> :41.380
Immediately, Damien picked up the apple juice,
and without a thought, he opened it and started :41.380 --> :43.230
to drink in quick gulps. :43.230 --> :47.890
He stopped almost immediately and then looked at the bottle again.
:47.890 --> :52.990 He brought the bottle close to his nose, and
he threw it to the ground, and started to :52.990 --> :53.990 retch.
:53.990 --> :57.800 I knew what was coming next, so I ran to the
house master’s room, and told him that the :57.800 --> :59.430
seniors were coming for me. :59.430 --> :05.360
He followed me to my dorm room, and sure enough,
Damien and his gang were already there, beating :05.360 --> :06.360
up Julian. :06.360 --> :10.720
They were given detention, and toilet scrubbing
duties till the end of the school year. :10.720 --> :15.020
They couldn’t touch me till the end of the
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a for telling my daughter she is a spoiled brat and doesn't know what a
hard life is okay so background I 40m I'm married to a 38f we met in high
school wife's parents are terrible completely abused her until she moved
out at 18 my wife has always tried to be a good mother and break the abusive
cycle we both have good jobs they want for nothing we tried not to spoil they
have chores know Their Manners are good kids in school so my daughter came home
one day and asked us to go visit her grandparents house we said yeah because
we thought she met my parents but no she
met my wife my wife and immediately said no then I backed her and said they will
have no part in their lives she said I was overreacting and that she deserves
to meet all her grandparents and we were being selfit my wife was diagnosed with
PTSD and still sees a therapist due to all the that she went through
it really annoyed me and I sent her to her room I talked to my wife and said
that I should tell her what happened so she understands why we are saying no
that her parents aren't good people my wife was reluctant but agreed as long as
she didn't have to be there so she wasn't triggered I went to my daughter's
room the next day and I talked to her I said look at | give me a good story on AITAHfortellingmydaughtersheisaspoiledbratanddoesntknowwhatahardlifeisaita |
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first story my stepmom punished me for her husband's cheating he had an affair
with my mom while she was his student and then abandoned us for his wife now
my half siblings contacted me for the first time in 14 years to build a
relationship only to abandon me out of fear of their mom who threatened to
disown them if they contacted me and wrote me a letter to stay away from her
family the background when my mom was 20 she had an affair with my dad who had
been her math teacher in high school their asual relationship only started
after she was a legal adult and graduated but I do agree that it is
creepy my dad was and still is married had kids and is around 20 years older
than my mom 6 months into their relationship my mom got pregnant and
decided to keep me even though my Dad tried to get her to have an abortion he
then came clean to his wife in order to stay married his wife told him that he
could never see me or my mom again they then kept me secret from the rest of my
family my dad pays child support but that is the only contact I have ever had
with him my mom told me the truth when I was 11 and she thought I was ready to
know before anyone says anything about her character my mom readily admits that
she made a huge mistake carrying on with my dad and that she was immature and
naive she never makes me feel like a mistake though we don't have a lot of
money at all but my mom is my best friend and makes so many sacrifices for
me the situation now is three months ago
I was contacted on Facebook by a guy who
is a senior at a high school a half hour away from where I live he introduced
himself as my older half brother and said he was contacting me because he
just found out I existed and wanted to get to know his younger sister we talked
nearly every day for a month he told me all about my half sisters who are his
older sisters my aunts and uncles and my
grandparents I look just like my sisters and my brother and I are really similar
personality wise for the first time I felt like a part of a big happy family
my mom is estranged from her parents and brother so it has only been the two of
us my whole life when I was a kid I always wanted a big brother so this felt
like a dream come true I also hoped against hope that someday I might get to
finally meet my dad we were just starting to make plans to meet up in
secret when he left his Facebook open on their computer and his mom found the
messages for me she threw a fit and threatened to leave my dad as well as
kick my half brother out of the house and not pay for his college my half
brother told me all of this in a really apologetic final message telling me we
couldn't speak anymore though he is really unhappy about it and wishes me
the best when I asked him if my dad said anything to her defending me he said no
how I feel now I feel worthless and like
I am not worth being anyone's daughter I didn't ask to be born why does my dad's
wife blame me I just want a proper family though this hurt before I found
out the truth talking to my brother and being so close to being whole only to
have that taken away feels like a cruel tease I also feel like I can't tell my
mom any of this because it would hurt her that I place such importance on my
dad and his family does anyone have any advice on how to cope with this tldr I
am the result of my dad and my mom having an affair so he can stay married
my dad is not allowed to have any contact with me my half brother found
out about me and contacted me getting my
hopes up but my dad's wife found out and has banned him from speaking with me as
well I feel like my entire existence is dirty please help me deal with these
feelings update I know it's been a short amount of time
since I last posted but so much has happened already first of all the advice
I got gave me the courage to tell my mom what had been happening she was a bit
hurt that I did not think she was enough not true at all but I understand why it
would come off that way but she was even more upset that I had been feeling so
badly about myself I told her the morning after I posted before school and
she let me take the day off and took me out to lunch so we could talk about
everything and rehash my feelings she was glad I'd come into contact with my
half brother and said he sounded like a nice boy she also said we couldn't talk
anymore but she understood completely why and did not blame him at all the
next day after we talked she told me that she thinks I could use talk therapy
apparently she had seen one briefly when I was a baby and it helped her a lot we
couldn't get an appointment soon but in 3 weeks I will see a therapist for the
first time now for this next part I will use names for the most part since there
are a lot of people so it could get confusing otherwise
one comment made in the last post stuck out to me that I could make a fake
account of some sort and talk to my brother Ryan that way I was kind of
nervous about getting Ryan into trouble but I did want to say a proper goodbye
during our last conversation I was in shock and upset so I didn't get the
chance to tell him how much I appreciated him talking to me so I
decided to find a way to at least do that and I almost immediately found a
really obvious way Instagram I made a fake one and messaged his account
telling him I don't want to get in trouble but that it means the world to
me that he went out of his way to find me and that I love him I told him he
didn't even have to reply but Ryan did respond to me he told me he loved me too
and that he wants to talk again when he's in college he told me something
else though that he told our older sister Haley about me a couple of weeks
after he found me and that he thinks she'd respond if I reached out to her I
have another older sister Sarah but she's a huge Daddy's girl so Ryan was
afraid to tell her Ryan said that she was nervous and shy about contacting me
so I should make the first move he gave me Haley school email and I sent her
something telling her who I was this morning I found a very long kind and
loving email from Haley in my inbox she is 20 and goes to college 10 hours away
she told me how happy she was to hear from me Haley also shed light on my biod
dad and his wife the biggest reason why she was so receptive to me was that she
was already used to the idea of him cheating when she was very young she and
and Sarah had a best friend for years then one day when Haley was around 10 my
sisters suddenly weren't allowed to hang out with her anymore or talk to her at
school when she was 18 Haley's mother told her that the reason was that my dad
and the friend's mom had been having an affair and had been caught Ryan doesn't
know this Haley also told me that she remembers a lot of times when she was in
high school when our dad and her mom almost divorced and that they actually
separated for 2 years when she was a kid from the tone of her email Haley does
not seem to like our dad very much and I understand why she also told me she
doesn't think it's a good idea to tell Sarah about me right now since she will
just run to their mom with the info and make things horrible at home which will
affect Ryan the most she did however give me the home address of my aunt
Jalene my biological dad's younger sister apparently Jalene is estranged
from my biological dad and his wife but still talks to my half siblings so she
is an ideal person to contact thank you so much Reddit for helping to give me
the courage to reach out and make all these family connections I feel a bit
selfish doing it like I could be forcing
my way into their lives but they do seem happy to talk to me I have one piece of
sad news however Haley also told me that within the two months Ryan and I were
out of touch my paternal grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's she had been
having memory problems for a year before the diagnosis but the family is still
very sad however I don't know if I should try to talk to my grandparents
now they have a lot on their plate as does the rest of my extended family I
don't want to be a bother again thank you Reddit tldr I'm going to get therapy
and with the help of some of the advice in the last post managed to establish
contact with my half sister I could also be put in contact with my paternal ant
updates hi I wasn't originally going to update again but I am in an emotional
hole and I don't see the therapist I told you about until Thursday I also
have a few questions that I could use advice on I was advised last time to
delete my account and posts and I will probably end up doing this after this
one I just really need help April 4th was my 15th birthday and two days before
that I got a birthday card in the mail with a Starbucks gift card from my dad's
family it's not signed by him or anyone in particular just from the last names
also included with the card was a handwritten letter from my stepmom since
this sub doesn't allow links I've written it out here if anyone wants me
to send them a picture of it just PM me dear my name I have no nice way to say
this to you so I apologize if this comes
off as harsh just know that I am writing as a wife and mother and I'm trying to
appeal to any common decency you may or may not have my daughter told me she is
in contact with you and she has done that only to hurt and punish me because
of issues that are none of your business please don't let her do that I don't
know if you were raised with any understanding of family in your
household but in our family we put the good of others over our own selfishness
honest honestly you are being very selfish in trying to get to my husband
he has provided for you well these past years and honestly I'm hardpressed to
know what else you could possibly want please my name we were happy and at
peace before you decided your own wishes mattered more than our ability to sleep
well at night I know you are young and young people are not the most empathetic
but I hope you will listen to me now stay away from my family you are causing
us nothing but pain her name I know it seems unreal the main reason why I'll
send a picture to anyone who wants one and I'm still stunned that this was sent
to me a who the hell does this B this has made me feel devastated and horrible
I'm really angry about her passive aggressive digs towards me like I was
raised like a wild animal because my mom made a mistake I've done what she wants
though I don't think I'm ever going to contact any of them again I already knew
my sister had told her about me because 3 days before I got this she emailed me
saying she was sorry but she was fighting with her mom and the truth
slipped out because she was upset and wanted to hurt her my brother genuinely
hasn't been talking to me though so he is still safe I showed my mom the letter
and she is pissed she told me that she would give me the choice but if I say
yes she will find my dad and confront him over his wife's actions I don't know
I guess my questions for you guys are how do I stop feeling like a stupid
piece of Pawn scum should I get my mom to confront my dad my gut tells her she
shouldn't be involved but at the same time my more selfish side wants her to
yell at him should I be the bigger person and send them a thank you card
for my birthday present thanks in advance guys tldr my stepmom sent me a
weird and passively aggressive note telling me to stay away from her family
well I'm doing what she says feeling really devastated and horrible though
Second Story my entitled mom allowed my Golden Child brother to bully me all my
life and she is now realizing how messed up she raised him after cops arrived to
arrest him when he tried to end me still she blames me and expects me to forgive
him and reconcile so I'll be using fake names for everyone in this story
everything I type happened as I have scars as proof and am tired of my family
acting like it didn't happen especially my brother and my mom I'm literally
shaking as I type this I need to get this well you know off my chest here are
the stars of the show my parents are in their late 50s to early 60s my sister is
Lisa my brother is Ricky and I'm Jake my sister is the oldest and is nearing her
30s Ricky is 26 and has very intense anger issues that my parents have never
bothered to try and solve I'm 23 I'm FTM and I'm the youngest a lot of stuff
happened when we were kids and I've had some of these memories flashing in my
head but I can't tell if it's just my fear of my brother creating these
Horrors or if they're repressed memories I'm suddenly remembering it's hard to
decipher when we have such a volatile relationship and he terrifies me to this
day this is all kind kind of out of order as I made a list of things he'd
done and realized how much he's ruined for me I hardly speak of him anymore
unless it's to trash his character with my friends one of the earliest memories
of abuse I have of my brother is when we were little I was maybe five or six and
I was beating him at a stupid little game I don't remember what the game was
but I remember him getting so angry that I was beating him that he stabbed me in
the head with the pencil I screamed and our mom came in after that the memory
gets blurry there there were so many times when he got angry with me that he
would literally chase me around the house with a knife my parents well
instead of really punishing him they just took the knives away from him but
he always got more so what was even the point there was never any real
punishment countless times I had to lock
my door sit on the ground in front of it and press my feet against the desk to
keep my door shut as he slammed against it and tried to get into my room so he
could abuse me physically during one of these situations my brother punched a
hole in my door when my dad came home and I came out of
my room crying my dad's first concern was how he was going to hide it from my
mom he didn't get in trouble again on multiple occasions he's put his hands on
me to punch me or grab me the last time he grabbed me was a year ago I'd moved
out but I didn't have a washer or dryer so I would do laundry at my parents
house one day I was there and my brother had left his clothes in the dryer so I
asked him a few times to come and get them he didn't so I joked I was going to
put them on the floor as I started folding them and he came down the stairs
to the basement to get in my face and yell at me I told him to get away from
me and back off because it was a joke and he needed to chill out he backed off
and went to his room again and I pushed his clothes on the floor anyway because
I was pissed at him I go upstairs and Lisa asks me what that was all about so
I explained the joke to her and not even a second after I finished talking Ricky
came running up the stairs and towards me Lisa got between us and told him to
back off he kept yelling if you want to be a man
so much then fight me and other things like that I called the police on him
when I went outside I was shaking so violently that I could hardly call the
police they came and took our statements and my brother wrote no comment on his
form and they said they couldn't do anything they told him to just stay in
his room until I left he came out of his
room literally 5 minutes after they left and glared at me when my mom got home
from a business trip she found out I called the cops on Ricky and then texted
me that she would have been incredibly mad if Ricky had been arrested I was so
angry with her that I told her off and didn't talk to her for a month I made
her reach out to me first when we were in high school he was a senior and me
and my best friend Stella were sophomores he asked her to the dance
after her boyfriend broke up with her the day before it was sweet and I
thought he was just doing it to be nice to her in a sort of sister way then I
heard that they kissed on the dance floor they started dating shortly after
and she stopped hanging out with me almost all together she would come over
to the house to hang out with my brother after I asked her to hang out with me
and she would poke her head in and say hi I can't blame her for it a lot of my
friends had crushes on my brother Ricky isn't an ugly guy but his personality
makes him uglier than anyone I've ever met then after breaking up with her and
getting back together with her for the fifth time he physically abused her like
I warned her he would because I knew him she called the cops and my brother lied
through his teeth about what he did and made himself the victim of our parents
she couldn't contact me because of the lawsuit and I lost contact with her I
still miss her every day and I miss hanging out with her I came out 8 years
ago as FTM and my family struggled with it like I knew they would at first
eventually they moved on and got used to it but my brother trapped me in my room
with him a few times and would interrogate me about why I came out I
wanted to be a boy and he would aggressively tell me that he thought I
was being stupid and believing a bunch of nonsense when we were kids after
school he would emotionally Andor physically abuse me until I would cry
when it got time for our dad to come home he would trap me in rooms with him
make me calm down and promise not to tell our parents and that he was sorry
and I believed him because I wanted my brother to love me when I was younger I
know now that he's not capable of loving people he's a pathological liar and he
has lied about just about everything he would often make it seem like I left him
no choice but to attack me or abuse me my mom believed him no matter how much I
screamed or cried when we were kids we were playing around the table and he
bumped it and his coffee cup spilled over and all over the floor our mom came
down and he said that I did it we were supposed to go see a movie that day but
my mom said I wasn't allowed to come and I cried about it my dad took me out to
get ice cream and a new Webkins yeah remember those he talked to my mom that
night about how she is too hard on me sometimes here are a few others that
don't really have much behind them as they're pretty straightforward he
literally brought my ex over 3 months after we broke up and literally had SX
with her and he was loud as hell because he knew I was the only one at home he
would take my money from my coin Bank when we were kids after I did chores he
would come into my room in the middle of
the night and play on the computer I had in my room I would also just come in
because he felt like it and play on my computer until he broke my monitor by
punching it and my parents never got me a new one so I just lost my computer it
was like his favorite pastime to go into
my room because every night I would take
a shower and come back to my room and he would have taken my Xbox controller and
replaced it with his shtt corded one that was half broken he then broke that
controller by putting it through the wall and refusing to buy me a new one my
mom never made him pay me back or get me a new one so my dad bought one for me
the last time I saw him was around Christmas he came up to me when I was
talking to our mom about how it felt to be moved out Ricky ol oliz to me like he
always did and I didn't accept it I told him straight up how I didn't like him
and how he always apologized and expected me to forgive him I told him I
didn't forgive him our mom got Huffy with me because of that and I stopped
talking to her the rest of the night until it was time to go his girlfriend
asked to talk to me and we went outside and she tried to tell me he changed and
was a different person I told her I know him and I know he'll never change I'll
believe it when I see it I know I never will recently I reconnected with my
sister as she's come back from rehab we have a rocky relationship but it's
getting better he seems to think that he has a chance to be forgiven and tells
our sister that when she sees me in person next she needs to mention him at
least once to see how I'll react I found that out from a mutual friend of ours
well that's everything I was shaking when I started this but I feel better
now my mom can't see him for what he truly is but I really hope you all can
I've been carrying all this tension around with me because of everything I
was having dreams where he was trying to kill me and I was begging my parents to
believe me they never did in their dreams maybe someday I'll tell them what
I know as my truth and see what they say thanks for reading third story deadbeat
boyfriend quit his job and spent op's money while telling his family he was
the Sole Provider belittling op she finally lost it when he demanded a brand
new car just because op has the money so op broke up with him and asked him to
move out he physically assaulted her tried killing her dogs and got himself
arrested now his family is harassing op my boyfriend 33 years old quit his job
last year without telling me I only found out two days before the rent was
do we split everything 50/50 when I asked him for his part of the rent when
I asked he simply told me he quit because he was tired of working at that
place since then I've been paying for everything including rent food gas bills
and anything he needs I had to work two jobs while going to school for a while
it was hard but I finally finished school a couple months ago and I found
my dream job I make enough to live comfortably even take care of my
boyfriend and still have money for saving however I still want him to get a
job to support himself because as an adult I think he needs a job but I feel
like he relies on me too much and he thinks that since my job pays well he
doesn't have any reason to work he always says things like you make good
money now so maybe you could buy me my dream car or you should open a business
bu for me to run it bothers me a lot I don't mind supporting my partner
financially if there's a legit reason that prevents him from working but
that's not the case he spends most of his time playing games meeting up with
friends or just at home watching movies I still have to do all the chores and
take care of our dogs his family thinks that he's been working to take care of
me so that I can finish school which is not true now they think I was able to
finish school and get a good job all because of him I don't even want to
explain it to them I just want him to get a job and have a future when I tried
to talk to him he told me I'm not supportive and now that I have a good
job I look down on him what should I do is it even worth it to try to talk some
sense into him I don't want to start dating at this age but I feel like I
can't keep doing this edit next day wow I didn't expect this many comments I
can't reply to everyone but I did read all the comments and I really appreciate
them many people have asked why him why do I stay for years what did I see in
him so I just want to answer it here we started off pretty normal we split
everything 50/50 and I had no problem with that but throughout the years he
started showing his true self I was in school and school was the most important
thing to me at that point so I invested all my time and energy into it I was in
a PhD program so I had a stipend around 30k per year which was enough for myself
but not for two people after he quit his job I was very stress out but I had to
focus on school and Tred to do everything I could to survive I didn't
have time to really think about my personal life and I also didn't want to
go through any changes in life so I just
let it be in addition he guilds me a lot so I feel bad for him but now that I
have a stable job I have time to really think about my future I don't see myself
being with him long term I don't think it would be as easy as hey let's break
up because I know he wouldn't let it go that easy but I'll start planning to get
out maybe ask some friends for support his name is not on the lease so I'll
stay where I am and he'll have to move relevant comments just the red aler 3
you worked two jobs while in school to support someone who happily sits on
their ARS not contributing not even cleaning or caring for the pets why why
have you accepted this and the worst part is that he lets his family think
that he's supporting you so he actually has enough sense to know that what he's
doing is frowning you don't want to start dating at this age you mean 31 so
you'd rather be 31 than take care of a stay-at-home boyfriend who contributes
literally nothing how is that a better Outlook at 31 Opie I think it's because
I was too busy figuring my life out and trying to do everything I could to
survive all I did was work and go to school I didn't really have time to
think about my personal life now that I have a stable job I have time to think
about my life more and yes I need to end
this and take care of myself TBH I'm not even sure how to date anymore but I
guess I'll try and hopefully be able to find someone op on moving forward next
day I will have a talk with him this afternoon to tell him it's time to end
things and he needs to move out he will probably give me the my life is
miserable talk again but I think reading all these comments makes me realize I
should feel bad for myself and not for him I'm sure once he moves back to live
with his family they will reach out to me to tell me how good he has been
treating me and how he helped me through school they've done this before when I
told them things things weren't working for us I will tell them everything this
time AR puzzlehead 675 you were in a PhD program you are
intellectually smart apply that to your emotional and financial intelligence if
you were a classmate when this happened I can tell you the other graduate
students would ask why you were still with him after a grace period of a
couple of months leave and rebuild your life op I haven't told any of my family
and friends about the situation because I'm kind of ashamed of it my friends
would probably think I couldn't be this stupid but two of my very close friends
did tell me that I deserved better just based on the way he treats me in front
of them I will have a talk with him this afternoon and a couple of my friends
will be waiting outside in case he gets physical or refuses to leave wish me
luck update two months later it's been 2
months since I posted about my situation on this sub and I just want to give you
an update on how things went after I made that post before I go into the
details I just want to say I really appreciate everyone here after I
resolved everything I occasionally went back to my original post and read the
comments to remind myself that I'd done the right thing after posting on here I
went home from work that day and asked my friends to come over but stay in the
parking lot while I sorted things out with my now ex-boyfriend before I could
even start the conversation he told me his friend got a new car recently and
how I should get him a car since I can afford it I got really upset and told
him he could have gotten himself a car if he was working I I told him how
stressful it has been for me with him not working and fully relying on me he
started the my life is already miserable and you're not being supportive talk I
was sick of it so I said I wanted to end things here and he needs to move out
ASAP as expected he got upset and threw a tantrum he was yelling and throwing
stuff around and when he realized I was being dead serious he started
threatening to hit and kill my dogs I jumped in between him and the dogs to
stop him from harming them then he pushed me and grabbed me by my neck I
was able to get him off of me put the dogs in a room and called my friends to
tell them to come in and call the police he was trying to hit me but my friends
got there in time I think he got scared when he saw my friends show up so he
backed down still verbally telling them to get out of the way or he would hit
them too the police came they took him away and told me he wouldn't be able to
come into the apartment anymore he had to move but would need to be escorted by
the police if he wanted to grab his stuff later it was a horrible EXP
experience but it showed me that I've done the right thing I thought that was
the end of everything but his auntie called me when she found out and tried
to Gaslight me saying that he didn't do anything wrong and I was just upset so I
called the police I told myself that I no longer had to deal with this bullsh
te so I told her to leave me alone and hung up his family would continue to
harass me but stopped when I threatened to report to the police I continue to
pay the rent and bills like I've always done the only thing that's changed is
that I'm now so much happier I'm the happiest I've ever been in years
I just got a promotion last week I've been spending time enjoying life with
the extra money I have since I no longer have to pay for his expenses as for my
ex he's moved in with his aunt I got a protection order so we are not in
contact at all relevant comments many people congratulate op and wish her well
op responds thank you it feels great to wake up in the morning and not have to
worry about what kind of crap he is going to give me today and OMG the extra
savings that I have since I'm no longer financially responsible for a full-grown
adult thank you I've realized that all the uncertainties that I had before
really don't mean anything my life is only getting better and I've received
all the support I need from friends family and people on Reddit too galaxion
86 how long were you in that relationship op I was in that
relationship for 8 years Corf is 74 I hope you changed the locks and why
didn't you tell his family about his refusal to work I hate that they think
of him as the victim now and that you used him to finance your studies and
then dropped him op I haven't mentioned this but his family is the type of
people for whom it doesn't matter what he does he's always right for them I
knew that even if I told them that he refused to work his family would still
defend him and make excuses for his behavior it has happened with other
things before but his family can take care of him all they want now I didn't
put this in the post because I didn't want the post to get too long but when
his auntie first called me she told me if I kicked him out he wouldn't have
anywhere to stay because she couldn't let him stay with her I knew she was
just saying that so that I would feel bad and wouldn't kick him out so I told
her it's none of my business and he needs to figure it out himself guess
what he moved right into his aunt's house after he was released sweet op
will you be able to move given that he seems unhinged what are the chances of
him coming back at a later date he has already escalated to violence
and it seems like he has gotten his rotten morals from his family who enable
him to do the same I read way too much about raw and boru hearing how bad
things escalate I hope you are able to do the following filing a restraining
order and documenting all instances of the abuse that has escalated consider
moving and keep the information where you move to the bottom plus a change of
place may do wonders for your mental health invest in a ring doorbell cam
it's for your safety and the docks alert your rental apartment or property that
he is not available unless you have a scheduled time to pick up his stuff find
a safe space for you and your animals in case he escalates again anyone who has
gone to his manic level of harming you in animals will repeat until they find
another Obsession he is an abuser and he's at the stage where he lost control
and is going berserk but he may also be bidding his time it is better to be
overly cautious than not I hope you are fully free of him op I'm planning to
move to a new place soon and it's nicer and closer to my work too since I can
now afford it with the extra money I have I have no doubt he's capable of
harming me and I'm honestly not sure if he would leave me alone I'm considering
filing a restraining order against his family also because even though they've
stopped coming to my place to try to Gaslight and guilt trip me they still
try to call me sometimes with a different number since I blocked their
numbers already I just ordered a ring camera and I'm also going to move to a
new place soon he doesn't even know where I work because he doesn't care
he'd never taken me to work or even asked what company I worked for he only
asked about my salary when I told him I had a new job I was sad that he didn't
care but now I'm glad that he doesn't know much about me besides where I live
deleted user I hope you read this and seriously consider it we are attracted
to what is normal to us not necessarily what is good for us you need to spend
some time with a therapist unpacking what your past taught you to accept
being used women especially are often taught to be people Pleasers even to the
point of their own detriment I hope you spend some time rewiring yourself to
only accept respectful loving treatment my heartbreaks that you went through
this I sincerely wish you well op I'm spending a lot of time taking care of
myself I have had a couple therapy sessions in the past couple weeks the
whole incident was traumatizing to me I'm a lot happier but I still need lots
of time to heal update it's been a year since I called the police on my
ex-boyfriend after he hurt me and threatened to hurt my dogs I hope the
same thing doesn't happen to anyone but if you're currently in a similar
relationship I hope this post will help you realize good things will come after
you stand up for yourself after my ex was taken by the police I dealt with
some harassment from his family but they eventually left me alone I moved closer
to my job and basically to a different city that's 30 minutes away from my old
apartment I took some time to heal and went on vacations by myself it was great
I finally look forward to coming home and spending time with my dogs one of
them passed away from cancer a couple months ago about 6 months after the
incident I met someone he's a great person and for the first time in a long
time someone treats me with love and respect I'm very happy at the moment
I've learned to set boundaries and expectations early on to avoid being in
the same situation again now to my ex's case yesterday I got a call from the
prosecutor's office to be honest I totally forgot about the case and I
thought there was nothing else to follow up on
but they called to inform me that they'd
be pressing charges and asked if I would be okay to testify I said yes it'll be
hard for me to go to court and talk about the incident if he's right there
because even though I've completely moved on with my life I can still feel
the fear when I hear about the case I'm still somewhat traumatized by the whole
thing but I think he needs to be responsible for his actions especially
after his aunt tried to defend his actions by blaming me it really stinks
that I have to go through all of that to
end a toxic and abusive relationship but I got out somewhat safely and I can't
imagine what my life would be if I stayed it was a hard time but it's worth
it things are definitely better and I'm surrounded by people who truly love and
appreciate me simple and little things in life truly make me happy like how my
boyfriend got me bubble tea and prepared dinner for me when I had a hard day at
work last week I can't believe that just more than a year ago I thought a day
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I f17 think my stepdad m46 might have a
thing for me yes I know this sounds like clickbait or a shitty porno but I need
help and advice sorry if this isn't the place to post this but it's the first
subreddit that came to mind and I didn't want to talk to anyone I know in real
life about this for hopefully obvious reasons so my mom got remarried about
four or five years ago now to my new stepdad Steve I never had an issue with
this as he was a really cool and nice guy he never tried to replace my dad who
isn't dead but just isn't in my life but he was always very supportive the other
day I was looking for some headphones because mine were broken and knowing my
mom always puts the ones you get with new phones in her nightstand I went
looking in there I didn't find any in
hers so I thought [ __ ] it and check
Steve's nightstand too I didn't find any headphones but what I did find was a
pair of what were definitely my panties and pictures of me now if it was just
pictures of me I wouldn't think anything of it he's always treated me like his
daughter so that wouldn't be too weird but this coupled with the panties as if
that wouldn't have been enough on on its own really freaked me out so I put
everything back how I found it and left their room since then I've just been
hyper aware of how he behaves around me and feel panicked whenever he touches me
or hugs me and I think back to any time he's done it in the past and just wonder
if he was trying to feel me up or something I don't know whether I should
talk to my mom about this he's never made sexual advances towards me in any
way or anything like that so could I just be overthinking something that
could have a reasonable explanation I'm just going into worst case scenario
thinking and imagining him secretly having a thing for me and jerking off to
my underwear or something gross like that update I'm sorry I took so long to
update people on this especially since I didn't make any comments on my post
before it was locked I'm pretty shaken up still so again this post may not be
entirely coherent in all honesty after making the post and seeing the first
couple of comments come in it kind of all became a bit too real for me and I
started panicking so just took myself to bed seeing as I then had school in the
morning I didn't get the chance to read through everything until after school
and by then it was too late to comment on my last post please know that I've
read every comment and I appreciate everybody who gave me advice and
believed me I was pretty torn up about whether to tell my mom or not but it was
a pretty constant thing people were telling me she's never not believed me
about something before but with something this big I was worried plus
all the comments saying I had made this up kind of shook my confidence about
whether she'd believe me I ended up asking her to go for a walk with me
which is something we do semi often anyway so it wasn't that weird and
wouldn't have alerted Steve I almost didn't tell her in the the end but she
could tell something was wrong and got me to tell her she was pretty quiet for
a while but then she started crying she said she hoped there was a reasonable
answer to this but until she spoke to him and we figured it all out I should
stay at my aunts just in case so I went and stayed at my aunts last night we
told Steve I was staying at a friends at school today my mom texted me saying I
should come home after school so we could talk about it she didn't tell me
much about what happened but Steve is gone now she kicked him out I think and
it doesn't sound like he'll be coming back I don't know if they're going to
get a a divorce it sounds like they weren't doing as great as I had thought
and when she confronted him he just didn't say anything but obviously looked
panicked she ended up forcing a confession out of him as she threatened
to call the police and he admitted he was attracted to me they were getting
better though apparently and my mom had even said to him the other day that she
thought it was great how he was affectionate with me hugging me and
treating me like his own which she now feels sick about I'm not sure if we're
going to get the police involved or if they'd even do anything since I'm 17
anyways and he didn't actually do anything to me plus I'm not sure I'd
want to deal with the hassle of it all I kind of just want to move on with my
life and help my mom heal I don't think she blames me but I can't help but feel
like I ruined her marriage so that's about it really thank you everyone for
your concern I'll actually stick around to answer comments this time and thank
you to everybody who told me about their own experiences encouraging me to speak
up I mentioned it before but there were a few comments insisting that my post
was fake and that apparently I had posted a different incest story earlier
this was my first post on this account I didn't see that other post and I had
nothing to do with it unfortunately just because something happens in porn
doesn't mean it doesn't happen in real life please don't make such constant
comments on posts like this in future even if they turn out to be fake you
could stop somebody from speaking up as they think no one would believe them
some people also wondered about how an account that wasn't even a day old would
think to ask on this sub I am a frequent user on Reddit I made a throwaway
account because I'm not going to post about my stepfather being a potential
pedophile on an account that actually be connected to me if if you still don't
believe me that's fine plenty of other people have given me helpful advice and
as another commenter said if any other person can read those comments and find
something helpful then that's a good thing update two relationship advice
took this down without saving the body text as I was unaware I was only allowed
one update post so I've reposted it here I was really hoping I wouldn't have to
make another update but things have kind
of gone to [ __ ] after my mom kicked
Steve out everything was actually going okay to start with we hung out a lot and
she took time off work partly to spend time with me and I think partly to deal
with what happened we never really talked about it specifically as I could
sense that she wasn't ready to talk about it more yet and honestly neither
was I so I was fine with that as the week went on though I noticed she seemed
to be getting worse she was talking less and wasn't eating as much and I even
heard her crying one night I really didn't know what to do so I just didn't
mention it to her then maybe a week after she kicked him out I came home
from school and found Steve back in the house I freaked out about this and went
to talk to my mom but she just stayed silent and avoided eye contact with me I
kind of figured out on my own that she missed him a lot and decided to ask him
to come back this was 5 days ago since then my mom's been noticeably happier
and more of her usual self but she refuses to talk about what happened or
punish Steve for it in any way now that he's been welcomed back it's as if he's
Bolder since he knows he can get away with it he keeps lingering by the
bathroom whenever I have a shower hugging me from behind and has started
just walking into my room unannounced anytime he touches me he definitely
lingers I'm really worried he might try and take things further and I've cried
myself to sleep most nights I feel completely unsafe in my own home I tried
staying at my aunts or her friends a few times but they were busy and since I
haven't told them what's going on I couldn't make them have me over I think
maybe I should tell my friends is then they might let me stay with them for a
bit but from how my mom's reacted I'm
[ __ ] terrified to tell anyone else as
they might just brush it off I don't know what to do it's obvious I can't
trust my mom now and I don't know who to turn to I'm going to start saving money
so but hopefully when I turn 18 I can move out edit off the back of everyone's
comments I've spoken to my aunt she now knows everything and although she's
going away for work for the next week she's given me keys to her place and is
letting me stay there for now we both agreed we wouldn't tell my mom or Steve
where I was as I'm worried he might come over if he knew I was in a house by
myself I will also look into getting locks for if I have to go back to my
house and I've requested a meeting with the school counselor to talk about
everything thank you everyone I'll keep you updated when slash if anything
changes update 8 3 I figured it would be worth making a new post as a lot has
happened in the past month that I know some of you would be interested in
hearing about plus with certain things that have come to light I'm in need of
even more advice as of my last post I moved in with my aunt at the time this
was just a temporary thing but now I've pretty much completely moved in she took
me to collect my stuff from my house one
day while Steve was at work I eventually
told my mom and by extension Steve where
I was staying more for her Peace of Mind than anything else as I didn't want her
thinking I was homeless or or something that kind of stopped her demanding to
know where I was and to come home as my aunt made it clear how disgusting she
found my mom's behavior and that she was ready to protect me since she clearly
wasn't like I said previously though my aunt goes away for work a lot so most of
the time I have the place to myself which is pretty sweet but unfortunately
Steve is aware of this too he tried coming over to talk to me a few times
when I was home alone but I locked the door and threatened to call the police
if he didn't leave he hasn't bothered me
since after taking into account people's advice I told my friend friends about
what happened I had to at some point as they were eventually going to realize I
was living with my aunt and I wanted them to be able to come over too sadly
this is where things got even more
[ __ ] up once my friends knew what had
happened some of them came forward to me and it turns out a few of them had had
run-ins with Steve for some of them he had just made creepy comments and
remarks that they'd brushed off at the time another had actually gotten
messages from him on Facebook telling her how good she'd looked the last time
she'd come over complimenting her new pictures and making it clear that she
turned him on even offering to show proof the worst was with my best friend
Lucy she didn't go into too much detail about it but I could tell it was hard
for her to talk about nearly a year ago probably the last time she had stayed
over at my house she had run into him when getting some water at night he'd
said something about how a girl her age shouldn't be wearing such revealing
pajamas blocking her from leaving the kitchen and just kind of kept telling
her how good she looked at that she must be wanting for people to notice she was
pretty uncomfortable about and tried getting past him and he took the
opportunity to grope her fortunately he didn't take it any further than that I
feel completely disgusted both at Steve and also myself I can't help but think
that if I'd notice something sooner that
I could have spared my friends from this I think part of me was trying to
rationalize his behavior which is why I didn't make a report at first I thought
maybe it was fine since I'm almost 18 anyways but knowing that he's been
behaving like this with my friends going as far back as when one of them was 15
is just disgusting I was being stupid before I realize now how horrible he
really is I've spent a lot of time with Lucy since
trying to make sure she's okay I'm not sure it really sunk in for her what
happened until she told us about it we all agreed to make reports with the
police after that which we have done now right now I'm kind of just waiting to
see what happens and praying that he gets arrested sorry if that's kind of a
rushed recap but the last part makes me quite uncomfortable to talk about I'm
happy to answer any questions people have but mostly I'm looking for more
advice now so I guess now I have some new questions mainly being how do I go
forward with my Mom I'd love nothing more than to have her back in my life
but I'm just not ready to act like nothing happened how can I support my
friend through dealing with what happened to her and how should I prepare
myself and my friends in the event Steve does get arrested final update hi so
first things first I'm really sorry it's
taken me so long to post anything I want to thank everyone who reached out to me
in past six months offering support and wanting to know how I'm doing I'm okay
kind of a lots happened and at first I didn't want to dwell on anything but
just get on with my life I felt like I owe it to everyone to give a final
update but the thought of writing everything out really intimidated me I
kept worrying that I wouldn't write enough or that I'd miss things out but
I've had enough time that I'm comfortable now this won't be super
lengthy but I think I'll have hit all
the major points also I don't know [ __ ]
about law so prepare for some potential inaccuracies in my terminology I've
rambled enough on to the [ __ ] you
actually care about about 5 months ago my aunt went on one of her work trips in
a brief conversation with my mom I was stupid and let it slip she wasn't around
she must have mentioned this to Steve because at like 10: p.m. the same night
he showed up to my aunt's house once I realized it was him on the other side of
the door I wouldn't open it but he refused to leave he was speaking to me
through the front door begging that we sit down have a drink and just talk
about all this there was no way in hell I was about to let him into my house
when I was by myself so after almost 2
hours of telling him to [ __ ] off I ended
up phoning the police I told them my stepfather was at my house and refusing
to leave insisting he' be led inside that I was
concerned for my safety I also reminded them of the reports my friends and I had
made previously they came and escorted him away but he was quite agitated and
i' mentioned I was worried he'd hurt me so they searched him he had roipnol on
him at this point it was pretty easy to assume he had planned to ruy me I also
asked them to look at the messages he'd sent to my friends on his phone which is
when they also found an album of pictures of me these were pictures I had
taken from my boyfriend when I was 156 he had somehow stolen them off my phone
he was arrested for possession of child porn at this point I went fully no
contact with my mom other than he's sending me updates on what was happening
he had his trial like a month ago and plead guilty to possession of CP he was
charged with that and a few other things that I can't remember the terms for but
the important thing is he's been sentenced to 8 years in prison my aunt's
been amazing this whole time though I've turned 18 now so don't need a legal
guardian but I'd like it if she became mine I've not spoken to my mom since she
told me he'd been sent to jail I get regular texts from her and it's obio she
wants to repair our relationship and knows she's in the wrong but I don't
think I can ever trust her again I'm sorry this was kind of brief after such
a long time I'll be around all day to answer any questions if you have any or
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a it for telling my sister-in-law I won't dress modestly around her husband
I 33f have been married to my husband 33m for 4 years one year ago I had my
daughter when I was a teenager I had been sexually assaulted by a family
friend multiple times this has left me with a lot of complex feeling about my
body my abuser told my parents that the abuse was my fault because I dressed
around him he was 40s and I was 14 for years I would only wear baggy
clothes and not do my hair and makeup I've gotten some therapy and worked hard
to overcome these feelings of self-blame but being pregnant and having a baby
messed with my body image a bit I've been working out a lot and I'm really
liking my body currently it feels very freeing my sill 29f knows all about my
past abuse and my issues with blaming myself and my teenage clothes for my
abuse she is married to my bill 30m and the four of us have always gotten along
we are going on a trip with my husband's
parents my bill and S and their two boys 8 and 6m my S texted me and asked me to
not bring any bikinis because she had two young boys I thought this was weird
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for not trying to make my stepdaughter's son that I raised like her hi I'm 54 I
married my husband when he was 41 and I was 38 he had a 12-year-old daughter who
I got along with well but we were never very close because she visited her mom
often I'll call her Tina when Tina was 16 my husband passed away suddenly she
could have gone and lived with her mom but her mom lives a few hours away and
she would have had to switch schools in her junior year so she decided to just
stay at home with me we did become closer then as we had to get through
this together but she still didn't think of me as a mom which I totally
understand Tina was planning to go to medical school but she got pregnant in
her senior year she wasn't even dating the guy as far as I know she got drunk
and it happened she pushed through and graduated on time though but then once
her son was born she asked me if I would take care of him so she could go to
medical school I didn't even think it a burden because when I was younger I
couldn't have a child of my own and I was happy to have the chance to raise
one so she moved States and went to college and first I was calling her
weekly to tell her what was going on on with her child but she never called and
slowly I stopped calling she never called on her own or seemed to show any
interest when I told her she just listened politely but I got the sense
that she was just moving on in life and not really thinking about her son I
still called her every few months for the first few years but then that faded
too now her son is nine she just finished the eight years of med school I
think of her son as mine and he calls me grandma even though we're not
biologically related about his real parents I told him that everyone has two
sets of parents the ones that cre created the baby he was and the ones
that helped create the adult he would be I said that for some people these were
the same and for some people they weren't I didn't want to straight up
tell him his mom didn't care but I also didn't want to lie he accepted this even
though the lack of real parents obviously had an impact recently Tina
reached out saying she wants to get to know her son she came to visit and
stayed for a few days it was so incredibly awkward I told my son she
would be coming and when she came she asked him if he knew who she was he said
yes you gave birth to me but you're not my real mom then he basically ignored
her the whole time she was really angry with me and accused me of turning him
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