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pretended to be pregnant to see if my best friend was sleeping with my fiance but found out she was infertile and had been secretly dating my lying cheating X my best friend Kate 25f and I also 25f have been friends since middle school she and I have been Inseparable since forever and we know pretty much everything about each other then there's my fiance Jake 26m who I met in college we dated for a couple of years and got engaged a couple of months ago Jack is a quiet introvert and nothing like me which is something I like about him he's really shy and doesn't like talking to women much it had taken a lot for him to even open up to me when we first started going out so it came as a surprise to me when he and Kate started becoming good friends a couple of months back they discovered a common interest this TV show that both of them loved watching and when they realized that they were both big fans of the show they started having watch parties at our home a few weeks ago I saw Jack laughing at something on his phone and when he showed it to me I realized it was a funny meme that Kate had sent him I didn't know they texted and when I asked him he told me that they were kind of friends now that made me feel a little weird I didn't just feel insecure because my husband and my best friend were getting along but there's more to it I was mostly insecure and a little suspicious because last year Kate had an affair with a married guy it was some guy from work who had been married for 3 years and Kate knew about his wife but she still went out with him they were in a relationship for eight months before her conscience finally kicked in and she left another reason for her ultimately breaking things off with that guy was that he kept putting her off he tell her that he would soon tell his wife about cake but never would so she got tired of waiting around for him and just broke up but the wife never found out about it a month after her breakup she quit her job there too and started somewhere else she was honest with me about this whole thing and I told her several times that this was a bad idea but she was head over heels in love with her coworker and couldn't seem to let him go she was totally crazy about him and in spite of all my advice she still went back to him every time he asked her to she feels bad about it now and hasn't been in touch with him since their breakup but the fact that she'd engaged in an extra marital Affair still made me feel very weird about her friendship with my husband Jake doesn't have any female friends and Kate to be one of two the other being his cousin that's why it freaked me out a little and I started overthinking things I didn't have it in me to just confront them about it because I didn't want to come off as rude or paranoid but I needed to know if something was brewing between them or not so I did something Juvenile and went in a very weird Direction I saw an advertisement for a pregnancy test while scrolling through my phone a couple of days back and at the time I was really freaking out over Kate and Jake's friendship Kate had been acting very squirely around that time and I could tell that she was hiding something from me Jake was also being very secretive and it just made me feel extra suspicious so I decided to invite Kate over the next day and announce my pregnancy to watch how they'd react to it if there was something going on between them then they definitely wouldn't be too happy about it and I'd have my answer now that I look back on this of course I realized what an immature and ridiculous strategy I'd opted for but I wasn't thinking straight back then I invited Kate over and when she and Jake were both at home I sat them down and made the announcement I even told them about how I wanted them to be the first people to know everything and to my surprise and relief Jake seemed to be thrilled about it he was overjoyed but unfortunately that was not the case with Kate she congratulated me first and tried to smile but within seconds of my announcement she'd broken into tears and was sobbing with her face in her hands I was alarmed and so was Jake because we had no clue as to why she'd reacted this way I put all my own worries aside just to console her and then through sobs she told me that she just received the results of her fertility test some days back and she was unfortunately infertile she told me that she'd gotten herself tested because she'd been seeing this guy which is why she was being so uptight around me this guy was friends with me back in college but then we had some stupid fight in our last year and just never spoke again she'd matched with him on a dating app and they'd been seeing each other for a while now but she'd been keeping it a secret for me because the guy didn't want me to know just yet and neither did she because I'd not approve of him and advise her to leave him but she liked him so she'd been keeping it all low key she'd had the test done because things were getting serious between them and he'd mentioned that he wanted kids in the future he'd said it casually but she thought she should get tested because she'd never had a pregnancy scare ever and it seemed a little suspicious to her but it all made sense now I was horrified when she told me the real reason she'd been acting so weird and why she'd started crying at my pregnancy announcement and I felt even worse when she left still crying because she said that she needed to be alone for a while and process everything I felt like crap about what I did in the stupid way I chose to deal with this situation I've confessed to Jake since then and he thinks I took it way too far I should have just talked to them both and had an honest and open discussion instead of doing something so weird and pointless he's forgiven me and I'm thankful for that but I haven't been able to figure out what to do about the situation with Kate on one hand I feel really sorry about the way I made her feel and one to tell her the truth but then again I don't think this was entirely my fault because I couldn't have known what she was going through I also don't know how to tell her the truth at all she's been distant from me ever since the day she told me the truth and hasn't been responding to my texts for some days now I think she's taking this too personally and I can't help but think that if I had been pregnant and this had been her reaction to it I wouldn't have been too happy about it in her head I'm pregnant and she's still choosing to give me the cold shoulder over something like this when instead she should be celebrating with me I know it's not real but it still stings I don't know Ida for telling my best friend and fiance that I was pregnant to gauge their reactions because I wanted to find out if they were having an affair or not update one so I went through the comments on my original post and I'm so ashamed of myself I knew that I'd been juvenile but to what extent exactly that was something I didn't really realize until I saw the comments on this post Jake went easy on me to be very honest I don't think any other guy would have forgiven me so easily he understands me and loves me and that's the only reason I got away with this so easily it was horrible to lead him to believe that we were having a baby just because I was feeling insecure and what I did with Kate was pretty screwed up too he reassured me that he and Kate never were and never will be anything more than just good friends who occasionally talk online I know Kate has her own flaws and everything but I had no right to do what I did to her either I get it now and I've apologized to her and come clean about it two I didn't have the guts to do it to her face so I typed everything out in an email and sent it to her an hour ago she hasn't seen it yet and even if she has I haven't heard anything from her Jake thinks she'll forgive me for what I did but I'm not too sure because she seemed very torn up about the whole pregnancy thing some of you guys had also asked about the guy she'd been seeing and why i' had had a fight with him so I guess I'll share that too while I wait for her to reply to me so her current partner Travis 25m and I went to college together and were friends but we had a huge Fallout when I discovered that he'd been seeing a girl who was a known bully like she was a full-blown nutcase attention seeker who would always do weird crap for attention and when she saw that Travis and I were good friends she spread some nasty rumors about me which is why I got into a fight with Travis he was defending her and I couldn't believe that he was siding with her on this so that's how our friendship ended of course I didn't keep in touch so now I don't know what he's like anymore he might have changed and he might have remained the same but after my terrible experience with him I definitely would have advised Kate to stay away from him I can't control what she does which was evident right from when she dated her married cooworker but I can nag her and force her to eventually change her mind about men who are just bad decisions so that's what I usually do when she goes after terrible guys which is more often than I'd like to admit update two Kate got back to me and we met over coffee this evening I was very nervous but she seemed happy to see me it's been almost 2 weeks since the day of my announcement and Jake's forgotten about it entirely bless his heart but I haven't been able to forget and neither had Kate she put me at ease as soon as I got there and any awkwardness went away that instant we hugged and apologized we didn't even need to specify what exactly we were sorry about because we knew and that's all that mattered she told me she didn't want to do it at home because she didn't want it to be awkward for Jake who wasn't very good around emotional situations and it was really sweet that she'd thought of him apparently she'd broken up with Travis because he'd forced her to keep their relationship a secret not just from me but from everyone in general she hadn't told me how long they'd been together initially but today I found out that they'd been together for almost a year now and it wasn't actually Travis who' brought up the topic of kids and marriage like she'd originally told us it had been Kate she'd asked him if he ever wanted to get married and have kids because my upcoming wedding had forced her to take stock of her own relationship too he'd said that he wanted that in the long run but wanted to keep their relationship under wraps for now Kate had been planning on getting tested after the discussion because she thought she'd finally found a guy who wanted the same things as her but just wanted to keep things private and low-key for some time so she was ready to wait for him she got the test done just to be on the safe side because the thing about her never having had a pregnancy scare was actually true and her Cycles were also really irregular so she did get tested and that's what changed everything it wasn't just the infertility that she was upset about but also their breakup a day after my conversation with her she told Travis that she was infertile and he seemed to be okay with it but that day she gave him an ultimatum and told him that since they were almost a year into their relationship she thought it was about time they started getting more serious and that he should make things public he didn't want to do that and once again he he brought up the thing about me and said that he just didn't want me nosing into their relationship because he knew how annoying I could be when I wanted something to be done Kate put her foot down though and unfortunately it didn't end well it was really weird to me that in spite of being together for 8 months Travis didn't want to take things to the next level and would rather break up with Kate then just tell everyone that they were together I thought he was cheating but I didn't tell Kate about it that was the last thing she needed to hear and if the relationship was over anyway there was no need for me to add fuel to the fire and make her feel worse about herself she'd been very low for the past couple of days mostly about her own infertility and then the breakup to add to that Misery after that email she felt better that at least she wouldn't have to deal with pregnancy around her so soon while she was struggling with her own emotions about it we talked about Jake too and she said the same thing that Jake had told me that they were just friends and that was it I was too important to both of them to even think of jeopardizing it it was kind of emotional and we got really teary-eyed talking about these things because we've been friends for so long but now that we're grown-ups we forget sometimes that we're not the girls we knew back in high school I'm really happy she broke up with Travis because if he was still keeping their relationship a secret then he didn't deserve Kate at all Kate deserved better than someone who led her on for ages without any promise for the future of their relationship it was pretty ridiculous of that guy to use me as an excuse not to go public with their relationship to and had he not done that I might have reconsidered my stance on how he is as a person but this just reinforced what I already believed about him that he was not ready to commit to her fully and was using me as an excuse so hypothetically if Kate had told me about Travis and I'd have been right to ask her to leave him that guy is as Troublesome as it gets I know that update 3 hey everyone so unfortunately I was right about Travis and he actually had been cheating which is why he wasn't ready to post her publicly just a couple of days ago he posted a picture with some other woman celebrating their three months together but Kate and Travis had broken up just a few weeks back Kate is devastated because he's blocked her already and she actually had to find out through someone else she came over last night and she was just a mess sobbing like a baby and wreaking of cheating wine Jake and I made her dinner and then let her fall asleep on our couch it was hard to watch her because I felt like I could have prevented this all if I just talked to her about her weird Behavior earlier and made her tell me the truth then she would have told me who she was seeing and I would have been able to nip their relationship in the bud but I was too caught up in my own head to think about anyone else at that point I know that this isn't my fault but it still feels a lot like it is I can't help feeling like crap over Kate's emotional state right now because she's really really upset about how this has all turned out she said she never saw this coming which I can believe because when it comes to guys she always just refuses to see any red flags until it's too late for her she pretends they're her soulmates and ask oblivious to all their toxicity until they prove to her why exactly they're bad for her Kate has always been this way right from high school and has never known what's good for her or who's good for her that's why I've always been protective of her but some lessons people just have to learn for themselves and I guess this was one of those lessons update four hi folks so the wedding is just a month away which makes me realize how many weeks have passed since I last posted an update on what's been going on Jake and I are as happy as ever and Kate's been making better decisions too like she started therapy and has completely sworn off men for a while she'd never been single for long in the past couple of years and was jumping from one relationship to another without giving herself the time to even heal from her past and in spite of my advice she'd constantly end up in awful situations with these men who were usually just terrible people she did meet a Few Good Men but those relationships never lasted long it was a whole thing but I'm glad she's doing better now the only sad thing is that she's decided to step down as my maate of Honor because it's too much to take on right now I understand her decision and respect it but I won't lie I was very disappointed when she stepped down don't get me wrong I do want her to put herself first but ever since we first became friends I'd never ever imagined a wedding where she wasn't my maid of honor I just never even considered it and it was a huge blow to me when I realized she'd just be a bridesmaid I mean it's not really that huge of a deal and I'm probably building it all up in my head but this was really important to me and now it won't go the way I thought it would Jake's been great and has been very emotionally supportive which means the world to me and just reminds me that I'm marrying a wonderful man who really gets me it's silly but he makes sure to validate my feelings about the ma of Honor thing my cousin who's also very close to me did step up and take her place but it's not the same it's just not the same I felt bad about it for a really long time and it still feels kind of sad but I'll get over it by the time the wedding actually rolls around hopefully I'll have a lot to distract me by then even now I already have a lot of work to do on the wedding as it is which helps to take my mind off of the whole situation with Kate there are also a lot of financial aspects to think about so both Jake and I have been working extra hard so we can take a well-deserved break right before our wedding it's been great for the most part so I can't really complain except for the blip with my maate of Honor Kate and I have still been on great terms and are in touch every day but now she's taking time out for other things too like meditation therapy and even improv classes I didn't even know she enjoyed doing that to be fair I don't think she knew she enjoyed it either but it's okay if she's happy then I'm happy for her update five I'm married yep it's true I'm finally married now and I couldn't be happier about it last week I got married to the man of my dreams and the most beautiful wedding I could have ever envisioned everything was dreamy and beautiful and so so fun we had a blast at the Afterparty and even Jake who's usually a Wallflower actually let loose and dance the night away with the rest of us but yeah let's address the elephant in the room as well Kate and I are of course still the best of friends and I love her just as much as I used to but no she didn't end up being my maate of Honor like a lot of y'all had hoped too I was disappointed for a really long time about it but with time I forgot about it and sort of moved on from it it was fun at the wedding and not awkward at all she's doing what's best for her and so am I she's doing a lot better mentally now than she was doing earlier after her breakup and barely even talks about Travis or any other of her exes anymore which is nice she's also taken up painting as a hobby after dabbling in many other art forms to be honest she's not very good at it but at least she tries and it helps take her mind off of things her parents are also a lot happier now that she's not caught up with some toxic guy all the time they'd stop speaking to her for a while in the middle because she'd had that affair with a married cooworker but they're all back on good terms now and I did see them having a Gaya time at my wedding as well so things are going great for all of us now and I couldn't be happier for myself and for Kate I've realized that being friends does not necessarily have to mean that I have to always go out of my way to control her life which I've been guilty of doing in the past sometimes but we're adults now and we are our own people now coming back to my own life Jake and I are leaving for our honeymoon in a few days we're going to the Bahamas and it's going to be so much fun we've been looking forward to this for months after all the hard work we've put into our respective jobs we've earned this and I can't wait to just unwind on the beach Under the Sun with the sound of waves hitting all the right notes fun fact fact Kate's actually the one paying for our hotel because she wants me to accept it as our wedding gift which is super sweet of her she wanted to make up to me for stepping down as my maid of honor and this definitely does the job
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first story my mom who physically assaulted and disowned me at 14 calling me a w after I was sawed allowed bullying at school and didn't even let me see my little sisters in their final days before they died of cancer came back after 7 years begging to reconcile and have a relationship with my daughters I begin to tell you that I am Swedish my mother is Japanese and I have lived most of my childhood with my father and stepmother when I was 14 I was the victim of a gangaw by a few boys who landed me in the hospital hospital and later revealed I was pregnant not even 12 hours later my mother came into my room and gave me a slap called me a shameful W said that I was dead in her eyes and then left my triplet sisters I am born number two of us three had to go and get my stuff from our mother's apartment as I wasn't allowed there anymore I wish to spend time with my half sister I gave birth to healthy twin girls but sadly 5 years later my little sister died of cancer fast forward 2 years 7 years after I was disowned and my mother called me to say she wanted to reconcile but I didn't want to do to bitterness over missing my sisters last years but 2 years ago I agreed partly to see if it could help me with my PTSD but with the conditions no alcohol as my mother was that kind of alcoholic who did her job flawlessly but could drink two bottles at least on the weekends she stopped after my sister's death though also no talk about honor or any part of the honor culture of Japan but a few weeks ago I came home to her with some stuff she wanted to borrow and and saw an unopened bottle of wine and suddenly I was that scared little girl again getting another slap so I just left and despite her calling I haven't spoken to her about it I told my sisters what happened and they told her so right now I don't know what to do because on the one hand she is my mother but on the other hand she blew up that second chance I gave her and violated the terms we agreed upon so any help would be valuable tldr mother betrayed me and just blew her second chance update a small recap I got gang sod when I was 14 years old my mother from Japan disowned me for 7 years I gave her a chance for us to reconcile before Co hit with the ultimatum that she must stay sober but found a wine bottle at her home a few months ago well I explained to her that I wasn't ready to give her a third chance as every betrayal felt like a new slap and that I at the moment didn't wish to have any contact with her and well since then it has been pretty interesting as she first tried to reach me through texting and call calling but now when I don't answer she tries to reach me through my sisters who are also my best friends so they are getting caught in the middle also I don't know if you can call it gaslighting but she is also telling them how she misses me and that she wonders what happened to the happy little girl she remembered who thought good about everyone addressing the more cynical person I became after the S so things are still a bit messed up so I am pretty confused about how to deal with her now as I feel bad for my sisters tldr my mother disowned me after the saw I tried to reconnect through my sisters update my S story I hope it is okay even if I don't really ask for advice I just want to share what happened to me as a way to process it as I still have PTSD from it 15 years later but also that you can get a good life after with the right help even if it is up to you to be willing to fight and this is a pretty long story I live in the northern part of Sweden and have lived there my whole life until I was 14 years old with my sisters I am a triplet and my four half siblings on my father's side and one half sister on my mother's side I lived in one of the suburbs of the nearest town or city with about 50,000 inhabitants and well even if I wasn't bullied I have always been the outsider as I have always been kind of introverted and belonged to the rare infj on the mbti scale so I was the invisible Point exter with barely a handful of friends apart from my sisters who still today are two of my best friends even if we are very different as they are very extrovert now to what happened on the weekend just a week after my 14th birthday in 2006 my sisters finally succeeded in getting me invited to a party and while we were there one of the older guys who hosted the party who was in his early 20s started to hit on one of my sisters and she finally snapped and told him to leave her alone if he didn't want his face bashed in and yes my sister has a real temper the evening went on and in the end I felt tired as my arthritis wish I have had since I was 6 years old Googled juvenile idiopathic arthritis so I told my sisters that I was going home what I didn't notice was that the guy who was hitting on my sister followed me around with three of his friends and did catch up with me and soon I was surrounded by them and they started to taunt me and suddenly they dragged me out into the forest next to the walkway where they beat me up pretty badly before they violated me as they took turns I am actually a bit unsure of how long I slipped in and out of conscious as a few of the kicks had hit me in the head when they finally left me I was barely able to move when I finally got up I managed to limp my way home and collapsed on the floor when I got into the hallway the next thing I remember is waking up at the hospital some of you might have read my two posts regarding how my mother took it and we are on non-speaking terms anyway the police questioned me and I told them everything about what happened including the names of the ones who did it I was at the hospital for a week and got back to school 2 weeks after the assault and well I can say that my mother wasn't the only one who abandoned me apart from my sister I just had one friend left and was the paror at the school as I was seen as the party pooper as the frequency of parties dropped as the party fixers were in custody among other things I got called names had my locker vandalized and was also subjected to physical violence my sisters tried to protect me as well as they could during the breaks but I was in class 8A and they were in class 8 B I was at times alone I started to develop depression and I was very sensitive to touching I even had a self-hatred wish that I tried tried to handle by starting with self harm I accidentally slapped my youngest sister who was 9 years old as she came into my room and I didn't hear her and got startled when she touched my shoulder this in turn led to our parents having to comfort two crying girls my sister for the slap and me as I felt really guilty over it and mourned over how much of it all affected me and in the end after a month of bullying some girls in my class went way overboard with a prank that finally broke me after PE where they in the shower held me down on the floor and well even if they didn't do it you can guess what they said they would do with a shampoo bottle after that I shut down and became numb to everything my sisters had PE after hours and found me in the shower just staring they called my father and stepmother and drove me home I got to hear that my sister caused a big scene where she basically hit the leader of my bullies and yes my sister uses her fists my father and stepmother told the school that I wasn't going to come back until they could guarantee my safety I was so numbed that not even the razor could make me feel more than that I was a burden for my family who loved me my logic was that if I remained my family would still worry about me while if I died they would mourn and then move on so the Saturday after the incident in the shower I went out and took a bus to the center of the town or city and started walking towards the bridge I had planned to jump from but by a coincidence I met a guy who was a little older than my brother that I met at a camp for youths with arthritis and he remembered me as we were the only ones from our area there plus that we both our car enthusiasts he invited me to take a cup of coffee at the local McDonald's and we talked and he is one of those who makes you open up so I told him everything including my plans to end it all and he told me some of his own experiences about self harm and the effects on those left behind and with that I finally started to feel again and finally broke down crying and I called my father who had found my final letter yes he had blown up my phone but I had turned it off and called the police who were looking for me after that we moved about 60 km South and I started a new school I was still down though and had to find reasons to carry on each day and it was a fight against the urge to use the razor which I lost a few times but the real turnaround was when I went to the school nurse as I had troubles with my stomach and so on she asked the standard questions and I had to pee in a cup and well you guessed it even though pregnancy after such an ordeal can be a very traumatic event it was what finally gave me a purpose to start living again and in May of next year I gave birth through a C-section to my twin girls who are my world that guy I met that evening became like an extra brother to me I might add and an extra Uncle to my daughters especially after they inherited my arthritis he is also my confidante when I need to talk I still have nightmares today and even if I have an active exual life some things will trigger Panic reactions so no 50 Shades of Gray with me I am pretty much living a good life I also have some physical complications as I got a small brain injury that gave me headaches and affected my short-term memory a little bit I also work 5005 and I have disability benefits as my energy plummets more than others both due to my autoimmune disease and my brain fog but I can say that my life is generally good I am part of a support group for people who have been through saw and I am one of the mentors there for newcomers it is practically like being a sponsor in AA tldr I was SED when I was 14 life is pretty good now at at 29 years old update trauma comeback hi well those who read my earlier posts know what happened to me when I was 14 years old and despite succeeding in living a pretty okay life I still have my setbacks after that for some context my stepmother has had a tradition of sewing dresses for us daughters both her step and her biological based on our personalities earlier this week my daughters tried on their dresses that my stepmother made for their 14th birthday as we had a family gathering this weekend I succeeded in keeping my emotions in check and was happy for them while they tried them on to see what accessories fit but at the same time I remember my dress I got when I turned 14 sadly mine is still just Rags as I had that one on the night I was assaulted and first the boys ripped it in some places plus it got pretty dirty and after I collapsed in the hallway after failing to stumble home the paramedics cut it open to be able to place their vitals and even the police cut some parts out of it to secure DNA I know this will sound pretty ridiculous but in a way destroying my dress hurts almost as much as what they did to me and I am talking here about a small brain injury that affects my short-term memory and leaves heavy emotional scars as I don't want even my worst enemy to go through all that I still have the rags that are left in a bag in the closet and I have tried to throw it away but something stops me every time the closest I have been was to throw it in the garbage can but I picked it up again and before anyone suggest it my stepmother has looked at it and it is not salvageable after everyone has ripped and cut it I have cried in the shower where no one can see me a lot these last few days because of it I am not really looking for any tips but I just needed to rant to get it out even if I am very close to my family I don't want to burden them more than what this event already has done and they tend to be a bit overprotective of me ever since my self harm attempt so I have avoided speaking with them about it update one of my daughters wants to know who the father is the other doesn't I really need some tips here I got badly beaten up and sawed when I was 14 read my other posts and got pregnant with twins they are now 14 and one of them is curious and wants an answer from her biological father while the other doesn't want to know so how do I do it I might add that none of the four guys even knows the kids exist if I know one of the reasons is that she wants to know why he and his buddies assaulted me and she also wants to know about medical problems that I wish I could understand as they both inherited my ankle loing SP on to litis but I get kind of torn as it will be hard to let one know and at the same time keep the other in darkness so any kind of advice would be welcome update second assault hi some of you might have read my saw story about when I got badly beaten up and gang saw when I was 14 years old well I don't know if it would have been classified as saw the second assault but as this month has been kind of rough with all the anniversaries related to my first and the issue with my daughters I feel like I have to vent this and for context I am giving some backstory I returned to school about a month later as I wanted to get back into routine again and the doctors had cleared me well the first thing I saw was that my locker had been vandalized and some of my stuff had been stolen it turned out that except for my siblings and my best friend the whole school had turned against me and I went from the outcast and teachers pet to full-blown Pariah as they meant that I ruined it for Everyone by telling the police who sought me resulting in fewer parties and making it harder to get alcohol school pretty much became hell for me and even if my triplet sisters tried to protect me they were in 8B and I was in 8A that pretty much along with the trauma from the saw tore me down mentally and it finally culminated with what the other girls in my class called a prank after PE in the shower after the lesson the leader lets call her Lisa by her fake name and some of her friends surrounded me and after some mean comments they pressed me down on the shower room floor and I don't think I need to explain what Lisa wanted to do with the bottle of shampoo she she held in front of her face because that was what little W's like me liked before disappearing out of my sight I panicked and tried to get loose but five against one isn't exactly the best odds finally I heard her tell me that I wasn't worth it before she spit on me and left me there my sister's class had PE after mine and saw that it was just my clothes left and they found me in a fetal position against the wall I was home from school after that as my father and stepmother refused to let me go there as long as they couldn't guarantee my safety one of my sisters also got into trouble the day after when Lisa gave a snide comment about me missing and my sister is pretty hot-headed and beat her unconscious and well if it hadn't been for someone who is one of my closest friends today I would have jumped from a bridge the following weekend update the daughter wants to know who her father is as mentioned in my previous post one of my daughters 14 wants to know who her father is the other doesn't I might add for new people that I got pregnant with them after a gangaw when I was and it might be a bit of a rant as so much has happened the situation is not exactly solved she who wants to know has had some depression-like symptoms and barely eats some days and the other who doesn't know feels guilty for her sister on top of that my estranged mother who I am not on speaking terms with saw a chance to make amends by trying to be there for me during this wish which made things even more difficult as I had to handle her that part ended with me coldly telling her that I needed her after the sa and she chose to slap me and disown me so I learned to cope without her and told her to leave when it comes to my daughters the one who wants to know has found out through my sister-in-law who the boy was and has started talking with the one most likely to be the father through social media when I found out she started crying and told me she was sorry but she felt like a part of her was missing and even if he is a piece of crap she doesn't want to have a relationship she still has questions she wants answers to I told her that I understood but also warned her that it might be a bit like opening Pandora's Box the school counselor has been contacted and we are trying to work out a solution it is still a hard nut to crack how to let the other be in the dark as she wishes as it is easier for her to ignore that she is a result of a saw even if my girls are the absolute best thing that happened to me and I love them without boundaries a late edit As Time passed the other daughter started to wonder and her sister's thoughts made it harder to pretend that he is a say whoever he is so we did contact him and are now awaiting the test results I also got to know that a girl at their school has kind of bullied one of my daughters because they don't know who he is which in turn insinuated that I was a SLT who slept around even if that doesn't bother me my daughter did take offense it culminated this week with them getting into a fight and my daughter hit her head on the stone floor and was rushed to the ER she is at home now as she just got a mild concussion regarding my mother my stepmother got into a fight with her not physical and basically told her to leave her daughter alone as she did just upset me how I admire my stepmother who pretty much adopted me in all ways except legally after I got toown I will update later when we have the answer to the paternity test I hope it is positive so I don't have to confront the other three guys edit the paternity test came back yesterday and now we know who the father is we are going to digest this a bit and I will post an update after they have had their meeting if we go through with that update daughters met their father who saw me update well we got the paternity test and they met him earlier today and it went pretty much to hell I had some guys at the coffee shop to watch over them so they were never at risk of being physically hurt but well they got answers to their questions and he basically SLT shamed me and tried to spin a lie about what happened and the worst thing on his mind was that he had to postpone his medical studies and take loans because of the 10 years he had a felony in his papers after he came out and the money he had to pay me in Damages but the worst was that he basically told them that the best would have been if they hadn't been born and wanted to know how much they wanted in child support for him not having to deal with them or me so he could focus on his girlfriend and son and they left right after that with my friends escorting them out so I have had to do a lot of comforting and assure them that whatever he said they are the absolute best that ever happened to me and they are two smart girls I am also going to contact the school counselor after this week's school break to help them deal with this at least all thoughts that he might have changed went straight out the window and he is still the same idiot edit update during the week I my father and stepmother and the girls have discussed the topic of child support and we are going to see if we can get it not as revenge or anything but to better the kids lives as I am a single parent who works 50% and has disability benefits for the other 50% partly because of the injuries he and his buddies inflicted I wish I could make money a bit tighter and have my father and stepmother step in when needed even if she has offered I haven't accepted any money from my mother as that would be a way to get her back into my life again update miss my sister sibling loss hi well when I was 14 I was subjected to a crime read my other posts that led to my mother disowning me so I went to live full-time with my father and stepmother this in turn led to the fact that I missed my younger half sisters Last 5 Years as she passed away in 2011 from a brain tumor at just 14 years old my wish from the discovery was already 100% fatal I went yesterday to light a candle at her grave and despite it being more than 10 and 1/2 years ago I just broke down literally had a panic attack and could barely breathe I thought I had accepted it but I was pretty much back at my breakdown after I had sung at her funeral I might add that I can't enter a church due to the psychological trauma it might be that the stress due to other issues and the fact that I lost some friends during the pandemic age 3134 ripped some wounds open I and my mother are still not speaking to each other even if she wants to reconcile largely because I can't forgive her for being the reason I just got to see her the day before she passed away I felt safer venting here as I know that if I tell my sisters who are my best friends we are triplets my mother might get to know and see it as a way back into my life luckily I had my daughter's twins who helped me calm down update a song for my sister I hope this is okay to post but this is a song that I wrote in memory of my sister and about how much I miss her your final goodbye last night I had the saddest dream I ever had I saw you standing there with your back towards me slowly turning around you told me it was time for you to go you told me it was time for me to let you go I will be okay without you and then you just walked away I cried I screamed please stay here with me but you just looked at me with a sad smile telling me this is your final goodbye next morning I woke up noticing my cheeks all wet with tears walking through the apartment I never felt so empty without your laughter I really tried to sense you but it was just like a tomb I broke down crying calling out your name in vain feeling the gaping hole in me I can barely breathe I cried I screamed please stay here with me but you just looked at me with a sad smile telling me this is your final goodbye later that day I visited your grave touching those inscriptions on that cold stone thinking back on when you drew your last breath did you even know I was was there or was the tumor too far gone suddenly I felt the gentle breeze from the wind caressing my cheek maybe I will be okay one day update this is sort of an update about my mother and I am feeling guilty well she tried to use the drama around Christmas caused by my kids faty I got pregnant by the saw to get back into my life with the idea that I needed her support well I told her that I needed her once and she let me down I managed and don't need her now well I got to know from my sister that my mother crashed pretty badly she is still doing her job as a higher manager but she drinks pretty heavily on the weekends and cries to them about how she misses me and last weekend she made a drunken call to me and asked for forgiveness and gave promises that if I gave her a new chance she would stay sober the rest of her life and I simply hung up because she was shtf fa drunk and I hate alcohol and I know I shouldn't as I haven't done anything wrong but I guess maybe the infj part of me who wants everyone to be happy feels guilty over the fact that I am kind of the reason she seems to have gone off the deep end and know that I might be able to help her back on track I might add that my stepmother who kind of adopted me in every way except legally tore into her the day after for harassing her daughter I needed to vent simply Second Story entitled mother and golden sister who ruined my life stole my money and finally kicked me out disowning me for standing up for myself came back to reconcile and have a relationship with my daughter and demanded that I attend my sister 's wedding abandoning my pregnant wife I 27m and my wife 30f were planning our wedding last year February originally we wanted an intimate celebration with our nearest and dearest which for me would have been my grandma 73f enter the trouble with the rest of my family living in New Zealand to say our relationship is troubled is an overstatement they are Senate 29f my older sister with whom I had the closest relationship is now in Nemesis L 25f is my EAS IL influenced younger sister who I was closest with as we promised never to lie to each other spoiler she did Sher 47f is my loving mother no words can describe her so I'll let her actions speak for themselves a bit of context first after I passed nursing school in my home country my mom immediately brought me back to New Zealand despite my not passing my local board exam she insisted I didn't need a professional license or any Hospital experience I disagreed but was shut down mom forced me to share a room with Senna in our two-bedroom flat I had to sleep on the floor and run for my life every time our landlord made an inspection yet despite this I still paid full rent mom and Senna hated that I worked 8 hour shifts only while she worked 10 hours I still pay rent and bills every month promptly I work in healthcare for 37 and half hours a week they're aggressive militant vegans and I'm not need I say more five they're hardcore feminists bordering on feminazi Turf the fact that I am a man in their house triggers them so they make me do all the housework and chores anyway after a year of this BS I decided enough was enough and made plans to get experience in my home country since we were close I told Senna that I planned on making my own way in life Senna felt conflicted But ultimately decided to support me by talking to my mom to explain to her I was surprised however that my mother became aggressive and practically foamed at the mouth it seems like Senate told her a different story they both argued with me but years of microaggression and mental torment made me do the unthinkable for me and I stood up to them both my years in quora and fanfiction forums helped me break down their arguments until they broke down into personal attacks and guilt tripped me with all they've done for me paternal grandma paid for our schooling food and board so I knew this was BS I confided and vented to Lana and used a few ah Choice words to describe how I felt about Senna and Mom and wouldn't you know it they chatted me going on about how I am breaking the family betraying them and I will be disowned and disinherited Etc and they will only forgive me if I come back into the fold when they couldn't browbeat me into going back to New Zealand they demanded I get out of the house I was staying in at the time which wouldn't be a problem except it was the height of the co pandemic with nurses being discriminated against and even kicked out of their accommodations mom even called my grandma and threatened her if she took me in Gran almost did but my formerly estranged dad took my side and angrily berated Grandma for even considering such nonsense as she wasn't beholden to my mom since then I've been NC with my NZ relatives except from my stepdad staying in our home country whilst waiting for his papers for NZ who I'm not angry with but I'm VLC with since I know he's spying on me for her and also revealed information Sher used against me in our argument during that dark time my grandmother and my now wife supported me and I got on my feet and moved on with my life around the time I was processing my papers to head to the UK I caught Deni fever this was roughly 6 months of no contact with my family however I was so ill that my stepdad took me to the hospital and in that time he shoved a phone in my face where my family was FaceTiming I looked Dreadful and they looked like nothing happened which infuriated me even more but I kept civil I categorically refused their help with the hospital bills as they Ed that often to manipulate me and I paid it myself with my own meager earnings I've never felt so much pride and freedom throwing their money back at their own faces from then on we've been civil never truly acknowledging what happened but I'm not the type to care anyway Flash Forward to 2022 I'm in the UK as an RN getting married to my now wife my grandmother was coming from the states and she is all the family I need to my shock and horror my New Zealand family decided to come I did invite them but I knew they were antivaxers and there was very little chance they'd managed under such difficult circumstances they were also confident their New Zealand residency status made them guaranteed to get a Visa but their applications were all over the place and in the end my wife and I had to devote a portion of our limited time to help them straighten it out which they did knowing them to be freeloaders I informed them ahead of time that I would not Pony up with them on the costs and no one forced them to come before helping I made them promise not to ask for any money from my grandma as they called me a mooch when my grandma gave me an allowance for plane tickets and hotel stays through our intervention they managed to arrive at the wedding literally 5 minutes before the event my wife and I were talking to the minister and signing some paperwork before the event when I saw the four of them running across the courtyard at the time I was impressed and happy and I thought we could move on from the past in short we had a good time with them here in the UK when they left I was happy that we had mended our relationship and that everything was back to normal my grandmother who had to leave early wanted to give us something for our honeymoon as she went home to our country to oversee some of our properties Senna also went home for vacation and told me that she would send me a cash gift of $3,000 and Senna would be the one to send it Senna took a really long time to get it changed at first I thought she was busy but her Instagram showed her at the gym or going to the beach as my honeymoon was coming up I needed that money to make plans and come up with a budget Senna brushed me off and made excuses until finally she called and was excited to let me know she had my money changed to New Zealand dollars I was confused as the rate of commission took out nearly $400 she had a sht eating grin and implied I should thank her as she took a long time finding a money changer for that amount I was livid that commission rate was ridiculous so I probed her on it as I might be confused so she began explaining like I was an idiot and I still could not wrap my head around it I told her I knew where she had it exchanged and with their current commission rates the commission should be between 50 and 100 USD give or take she yelled at me since I implied she was stealing and she was so abusive I had to hang up not to be outdone she went to every group chat I was in and proceeded to launch a tie raade on what a up jumped little sht I was that now that I've got a high-paying job as a nurse all I care about is money y y so I left those groups but she still went on to create a group this time with my wife in and proceeded to tell her of what I did stuff I did in the past and tried to get her against me I replied say whatever you want but I don't care Senna I said my peace but please don't drag my wife to your level bye after that my mom called to yell at me for talking to Senna like that saying that I should accept her for who she is as she will not change for anyone maybe that's the problem Mom no one wants her to change she's still the same immature entitled brat she was years years ago this made her angry but she tried to reconcile to no avail grandma called and berated me about it as well and I accidentally revealed she gave $3,000 to both my sisters and $2,000 to my mom and stepdad at their insistence and I connected the dots that's why it took so long to change that's why the commission rate was so expensive pissed and disgusted that they broke a promise and blackened their non-existent integrity I cut them off entirely I blocked my mom my sisters and restricted my stepdad I am torn by what they did my grandma called me to tell me that my mom insisted on not giving me my honeymoon money until I begged for their forgiveness for being an INR I told my grandma that Senna can keep that money as they'll die of old age before my apology is forthcoming this has led to my grandma getting mad at me for fighting over money but what I was fighting for was my principles which no amount of money can't buy now a year later I going and see and my life has been an absolute dream without their toxic malign influence hovering above me I became more confident and happy I lost a lot of stress weight and my wife even swears I grew a bit taller LOL now my wife was pregnant a few months ago and my previously estranged biod dad posted pictures of our baby shower which got through to my sisters now they are bombarding me indirectly through sock account emails and mutual friends begging to talk to me and for me to go to senna's wedding next spring there was neither an apology nor any mention of the fight last year just sweeping it under the rug and pretending nothing happened my mom even had the audacity to ask my grandma to ask me to go by myself if my wife and daughter could not come my wife will still be on maternity leave and cannot work Senna has never once tried to apologize and I could frankly care less what happens to them a lot has happened since then but that's a story for another day edit thanks for the upvote folks a lot of you commented about how I let them walk all over me and I admit in the past I did I have since gone absolutely NC with them and VLC with the people they still communicate with so all is well I might write about it one of these days comments de01 block all of their puppet accounts and tell your grandmother that without an apology and the return of all the funds they stole they will never meet your daughter and there is no hope of reconciliation on the off chance they pay you back put the money in an account for your daughter tell them you forgive them but you do not want them in your life Opie I've done as you said on the advice of my therapist to set boundaries but they have spies everywhere and no means of contacting me I've told my grandma that they have zero relation to my daughter and I don't even care about the money thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friend
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a it for not letting my sister into my apartment about a year ago I 21 moved into an apartment with my husband 21 I moved out of my mother's house and into my brother's house at 16 so this is the first place I can actually call mine my mother had a hoarding issue and often picked up things off the side of the road due to this habit we ended up getting bed bugs and to this day my mother has and continues to do nothing about them that is the main reason I chose to move out with that said I told my sister she could visit while she's in college and closer to us as much as she wanted as my other three brothers who do not live with my mother come and visit regularly I have been no contact with my mother since moving out recently my sister has moved out of the dorms and back into my mother's house when she lived in the dorms I didn't have to worry about her bringing bugs as my mother refused to visit her in college and my sister doesn't bother to go home unless it is needed for emergencies due to her moving back in I told her that she has to change in the guest bathroom which is directly next to the front door before actually coming further into my apartment and leave her cloths in a bag outside my apartment I purchased multiple things for her to wear in her size and in her style to wear at my house because of this rule I know
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medical professionals what is the craziest DIY treatment you've seen a patient attempt so sugar can be used to help heal certain types of wounds a patient I saw had missed an appointment with part of their care team where they got their bandage changed I noticed what appeared around the edges of the bandage asked my patient about it and offered to change it for them we didn't typically do that in our Clinic they said yes though so I go get fresh bandages and whatnot take the old one off and it's just sticky and stringy picture the slow-mo shots of caramel being pulled apart like that and it smells to be fair most wounds smell but this one was different I finally asked them what they used to change their bandage since I knew it wasn't discharge maple syrup they use maple syrup so to answer some common questions yes honey certain varieties can be used with wound healing so it's possible they confused it with this but I don't believe that's what happened here I can't disclose more because heppa the thing that doesn't seem to exist on shows like gray no I'm not sure it was pure Maple they said it was the good stuff in the glass jar but who knows either the way it wasn't sterile and this wasn't a simple wound proper sugar dressings can be used on various types of wounds but it's not just pouring some table sugar on it so don't go try this at Home Folks necessary disclaimer no it wasn't thousand island dressing there is medical grade honey studies show that it and medical grade sugar can actually be better for some wounds than antibiotic iotics no I could not eat pancakes for a while honey dressings typically are less painful to administer than sugar because of the lack of crystallization but that also means the sugar is better at cleansing your wound care specialist can determine which is the better route since this seems to be an issue now no heppa isn't just saying the patient's name it can also be saying enough that could then cause them to be identified up to this point I have not revealed anything that would link this story to this patient revealing more to the back story would in my opinion considering I do not want to out this person as a human being or cause a willful heap of violation as a now former professional I won't go into the backstory even with details changed as some have requested had to find the exact wording but this is directly from Hippa the term individually identifiable health information means any information including demographic information collected from an individual that with respect to which there is a reasonable basis to believe that the information can be used to identify the individual I prefer to ER on the side of caution with that all right all right funny stuff though also cuz earlier today I was reading an essay from a nurse who worked in rural China and she was describing how she had to use sugar and honey to help heal her client's bed Source story two as a brand new nurse starting my career in a small Southern Hospital I had a patient who was admitted to my unit with sort of non-specific complaints about a wound on her chest she was a direct admit meaning that she was sent directly to the unit from a doctor's office rather than going through the emergency room when someone is directly admitted I don't get a full report all I can see or lab results and notes from previous doctor's visits basically I'm Flying Blind as I'm getting her settled into her room I start asking a few background questions that will help me direct my assessment so I see that you were admitted because you have a wound did you have an accident oh no it just kind of showed up how long ago oh it's been a while now maybe a few years oh okay well if you've had it for years what brought you in today has something changed is the wound draining changing color well it fell off what did my chest so I help her get settled in the bed and move her shirt to take a look the entire portion below her udder had totally eroded away she explained that she'd been putting triple antibiotic cream on it and had started wrapping it in a baby diaper when it developed in odor I kept my face very still tried not to be visible horrified and listened to her talk about how she wanted to show it to her doctor at her yearly physicals but for the last 2 years her female doctor had been out of the office on the day of her exams so she didn't feel comfortable showing her chest to a male doctor so she let it go I nod excuse myself from the room and basically fly down the hall to the hospitalist office I tell him that he needs to call his female NP down to this patient room immediately because she's old and scared and won't show you her chest but it is falling off and no part of nursing school taught me how to make this better it took them all of five minutes to diagnose her with a very Advanced fungating Breast tumor she was totally unsurprised and said that she figured it was something like cancer she placed herself on hospice and passed away less than 2 weeks later Story three I got a boil in my armpit about 10 years ago had never had one before and had just moved out of home so I didn't know what to do I was sort of hoping it would go away after a week or two of strategic ignoring it did not go away and was about the size of a golf ball every time I moved my arm it would rub and hurt like hell I had heard that doctors's Lance them so I decided to give that a go I had a nice blunt Rusty pocket knife so I tried to jab it in the shower like most people I'd never jabbed myself before wouldn't recommend it it's very hard especially since it hurts so damn much it hurts just to touch it so you can imagine how much fun it was to poke it with a knife I gave up and went to the doctor by now it was the size of a tennis ball and I needed to have a wad of toilet paper in my armpit so it wouldn't leave stuff all over my shirt the doctor didn't look too concerned but when I laid down and showed him he visibly recoiled and jumped back about a meter or two he braced himself flanc it properly and I am mighty glad I couldn't see what I could feel dribbling into the stainless steel pan this was followed by the most intense pain I have ever felt in my entire life as he cleaned it out and jammed it full of alcohol soaked gauze honestly it was like someone was holding a blowtorch under my armpit I had to bite my hand to not scream like a little girl I've had maybe one to two boils since then but you better believe as soon as I see the first sign of one my old car is setting land speed records on the way to the pharmacy for some sweet sweet antibiotics if I were him I would have just let that scream out he earned that scream size of a freaking tennnis holy moly story four I have a weird one a patient was told by her doctor that she had low magnesium and should consider supplements not uncommon instead of getting magnesium supplements though she ate an entire tub of quote homeopathic volcanic ash and completely destroyed her electrolyte imbalance and ended up in ICU we admitted her as a pharmaceutical excess so Poison Control automatically follows up with you it was hard to explain to them it was probably naturopathic not homeopathic I don't know enough about specific differences think of a tub of protein powder but volcanic ash her husband brought it in for the Poison Control report you were supposed to mix a scoop in with water for health benefits she ate the whole tub and had a seizure and wrecked her kidneys the activated charcoal SL volcanic ash spew that was all over her when she came from emergency was a witch to clean up Story five when I was an internal medicine resident I came across a very nice 50-year-old Dominican lady she was well-mannered but one could tell she was not the sharpest tool in the shed as I was prepping her chart for our first visit I noticed that she'd been seen by every single Digestive Disease MD in our hospital system not only that she'd had every single procedure in the book ranging from endoscopies up both holes and culminating in an exploratory lapor toy you're opened up to basically look inside you when you have no clue what's going on and all of this because for years she had one single complaint she reported severe gnawing pain in her stomach at this point I should mention that she was speaking Spanish only not only that she had a very heavy Dominican accent and I was the first Hispanic doctor to ever see her my first language is Spanish and even I had difficulty understanding her so she comes in and after exchanging some firsttime pleasantries I politely ask her how she's doing sure enough although she was smiling and said she felt well she pointed at her belly and said it was biting again and asked for the cream to end it at this point I got intrigued her medication list only mentioned a cream used for breakthroughs the previous fellow only mentioned in his note that in every single visit she only asked for the cream and nothing else when I asked what she meant by the biting and what she intended to do with the cream she very calmly told me she intended to stick the cream behind in order to end the bird living inside her after delving more deeply into her story it turns out she didn't have a medical condition ever since she was a little girl she believed that after eating a whole quail egg the bird had spawned inside her and not away whenever she was very hungry after a short visit to psych she was diagnosed with a sematic type delusional disorder no amount of medication or Psychotherapy will cure her but she was still a fully functional mother of two who paid her taxes and had part-time jobs I reached out to every Digestive Disease doctor in our Hospital hospital system once more to make sure she never receives an inappropriate invasive intervention I've been following her now for 3 years and she's happy as one can be considering she has a bird living inside her so yeah lady complains of pain in her belly the worst case of loss in Translation ensues gets very invasive medical procedures and turns out she's just a little cuckoo all right man so this one kind of made me sad I'm really curious as to how or even if her delusions affected other aspects of her life on a lighter note it's good to hear she's doing a lot better as one can be considering there is a bird living inside them it's a hard left but also don't forget to hit that like And subscribe button to my channel it helps keep me going and it helps keep these stories going here's the next story it's Story 6 during third year med school I was on a neonatology rotation lots of premature babies or highrisk births we get code green page for us for please come to delivery room as able and code pink page for please come to delivery room stat there was a pager that was the standard one that got paid for this and usually it was whichever of us Med students who was on call carrying it our job was then to get one of the nurse practitioners and possibly a second nurse and head over with the incubator Etc to take the baby and get him or her to the ni ICU about 600 p.m. one evening as we're doing Handover rounds that pager goes off with a code pink then the neonatologist personal pager the next 10 minutes are a bit of a scramble and not particularly interesting from the point of view I had as I was assigned to send pages to additional people and fetch things but in short a teenage Lady of local Aboriginal descent had come in suffering from very premature labor I want to say 20 weeks but could have been 22 or so she and her ex-boyfriend had recently gotten back together he had discovered she was pregnant believing that the baby was not his he attempted to terminate the baby she did not want said termination so he attempted while she was asleep baby and mother survived relationship did not later testing showed the baby was indeed his for those wondering story seven vet student here we once had a family that came in when their dog ate a bag of Easter chocolate we had to induc spewing up but first asked if they had tried anything at home they said they read online to make the dog eat a bunch of salt to make it throw up now this poor dog had a bag of salt repeatedly poured down its throat before he came in Pro tip if your dog ever eats chocolate and you panic have him ingest about 2 tablespoons of hydrogen peroxide he'll spew out liquid and frothy chocolate so put him in the bathtub immediately after save your dog save your carpet please take him to the vet also the hydrogen peroxide is just in the event that you can't rush him in during my emergency rotation 2 weeks ago we were told by the attending vet that 30 mlit about 2 tablespoons of hydrogen peroxide is saved to administer orally in case of an emergency I understand that there are contradictory opinions on this and not all vets May recommend it again it's meant to be done in case of emergency you should still take your dog to the vet I'm not licensed to give medical advice which I thought was clear when I said I was a vet student story eight former ER nurse here I did DIY for a homeless patient generally whenever we get a homeless person for medical treatment as long as it's not life-threatening we don't go out of our way to treat them especially if they are self-inflicted injuries to obtain pain meds had a guy come in for severe constipation he hasn't had had a bowel movement in a month duee to substance abuse we gave him laxatives and told him to drink lots of water and told him to be on his way he kept on begging for help and refusing to leave without some treatment it was a slow night and didn't want to have a scene so I told the charge nurse I'll take care of it if it was okay and to ignore the medical items charges she was cool with it since he was in actual pain given how stiff and distended his abdomen was so I took a urinary catheter and a 50 cc syringe to the bathroom with him filled the sink with water had him strip down some lube and up with the catheter took a good 20 flushes for him to finally have a bowel movement he went from looking like he had four turkey dinners to a skinny featherweight the one thing I loved about working in the ER was many times it does come down to DIY for things we don't have a procedure for everyone might be wondering why I didn't use an enema kit we didn't have them and the squeeze bottle kind would have been dangerous plus the catheter syringe and Lube was and the charge nurse was okay with ignoring the laws a gravity enema wouldn't have worked on him since his impacted stool was so bad the tube would have just been blocked the syringe was needed to force the water inside and around the stool to get things started it worked mainly because the 50cc syringe and the catheter fit pretty nicely okay that's unexpectedly wholesome but not so wholesome if you see it in your brain unfortunately but hey I'm glad this person was there to help him out story nine I met a guy that only did his own wound care he hired this guy who has no medical experience to be his help or personal care worker and then directed him to do stuff that poor guy so in wound care we use sterile gauze and we have specialized products that can soak up more than average amounts of fluid we even have specialized iodine products that can help prevent bacteria growth this guy just use regular gauze products and then use some special tape he found to cover everything he found found some odd foam that he would put on top of his wounds it was a cix wound to his back his wound was generally extremely gross he asked me to help and I was like uh I can't do that because it's so wild so we made him sign something that he understood the risks of completing his own care to be fair knowing what I know now Hospital nurses sometimes suck at wound care and I think specialized Hare nursing would have been more beneficial since he was interested in taking care of his own health I think in hospital his wound got worse hence his distrust of medical people in general medical people are not always nice when their advice is not taken so it creates a really frustrating situation with patients's health often on the line luckily or unluckily he liked me so I was able to convince him to listen to people oh yeah and this guy had his own rubber catheter that he made with some rubber hose it actually worked pretty well in my opinion because it just sort of clasped his junk usually they're loose and we wrap something like tape to let it breathe and not get contaminated it was gross anyway so maybe it didn't matter eventually it was determined he had a claw to one of his legs and he needed an upper knee amputation surgeons are sometimes jerks and this one clearly made his decision reviewing the notes and his assessment was brief the patient was furious at this until an internist came around and listened to him then the internist calmly and firmly stated the reasons why he needs a surgery and that quote I am confident you're an independent guy and you'll get through this then the patient amazingly agreed so I never saw him after that it was a good lesson that sometimes people are wild crazy and odd but if you flip it around as a clinician and treat them with respect work with them you can make your life a little bit easier story 10 I've been a registered nurse for almost 88 years and I've seen it all you'd be amazed at how much we see and hear people do to themselves and then so easily forget a couple of DIY remedies stick out of my mind though I currently work on Arenal and pulmonary kidneys and lungs Intermediate Care floor we had a patient recently who had chronic kidney disease and was getting close to needing dialysis she had a ton of problems while she was in the hospital with us but one of the issues the docks on Earth was that she had a giant blockage in her bowels that was literally causing her to spew it up because the stool couldn't pass by the blockage the family finally thought it was wise to let us know that they bought some kind of healing clay powder on Etsy it was supposed to cure her kidney issues and they had been feeding it to their mom the clay ended up clumping together in her bowels and causing this obstruction earlier in my career another elderly patient had been having issues with panic attacks but she noticed that if she rubbed her neck in a certain spot it would get better turns out she was frequently going in SVT and was essentially giving herself a cared massage which made her feel better the anxious feeling she was having was from her heart beating so fast crazy coincidence I guess I don't know how how she came about this herself though another treatment that I'm sure many people have heard of had a very obese and yeasty Lady as a patient who we found out has been trying to cure her horrible yeast infection with yl and tampons she ended up on IV Defan it was so bad story 11 so a lady comes into the ER and refuses to tell the triage what's wrong other than to say she had something growing down there she wants a lady doctor and that's that so we get her set up for a pelvic exam in one of the obig rooms and called the only female physician working that night to come check her out the doctor was in the room for maybe 2 or 3 minutes before she comes out with a stench that made everyone in the vicinity gag wafting from the room behind her the patient is around 50 to 55 a previous substance dependent about 10 or 11 children no medical insurance pre- Obamacare times her uterus had begun to prolapse so with no money and no insurance it was suggested she just put something up there to hold it in without much on hand that could both fit inside her and stay inside her without falling out she came up with a genius plan a potato and what do potatoes like to do in a warm dark moist environment why they like to grow the something growing down there was the vine the potato shot out for sunlight the potato had fully rooted as well and the potato itself was deteriorating hence the stench she had to have a full Hy to me we nicknamed her Tater [ __ ] and she's Infamous at this Hospital okay tater [ __ ] is it okay if I'm laughing or chuckling at that it's also mean at the same time let me know what you think in the comments below and if you like these stories here's a few more YouTube thinks you're going to love them so I'll catch you there and thank you for hanging out with me in this one
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:00.040 --> :04.280 today we've got a great Revenge story against  somebody who intentionally depleted another   :04.280 --> :09.560 person's phone balance we'll get into that in a  bit but first my grandfather shouldn't have been   :09.560 --> :15.680 a teacher to preface growing up my grandfather  always made young female bartenders uncomfortable   :15.680 --> :22.440 by giving them a creepy amount of attention think  16 to 17-year-old girls I always tried to diffuse   :22.440 --> :28.280 the situation luckily he's never behaved this way  towards me he also used to be a teacher and my dad   :28.280 --> :33.000 told me the story recently a apparently when he  was still a teacher in high school he would hover   :33.000 --> :39.040 over young girls this was in the 70s or so he  would stand close to them touch their shoulders   :39.040 --> :44.800 and generally give them more creepy attention when  he approached their tables his crotch would rub   :44.800 --> :50.480 the table's Corner cetti Revenge from the boys in  their class cuz everyone was getting fed up about   :50.480 --> :56.480 it but there was nothing they could really do the  boys put chalk on every corner of the table before   :56.480 --> :01.720 one of his classes so for the rest of the year he  walked walked around with his crotch covered in   :01.720 --> :06.960 white chalk he isn't the most self-aware person  so he never noticed my dad was friends with some   :06.960 --> :13.120 of the people who did this so that's why he knows  Beyond his horrendous Behavior I think what hurts   :13.120 --> :19.800 me the most is the fact that op's Dad was friends  with some of the people who did it so imagine not   :19.800 --> :26.400 only do you have a creeper teacher going around  at your school it's your own father I would be   :26.400 --> :33.600 mortified also hi I'm Steve and if you guys enjoy  stories of Revenge like these make sure to hit   :33.600 --> :39.400 those like And subscribe buttons down below that  said our next story is standing up for myself when   :39.400 --> :44.080 I was in college we had a bar within walking  distance we would frequent one night I go up   :44.080 --> :49.400 to the bar to order a drink there's a lovely girl  who I instantly wanted to talk to I broke the ice   :49.400 --> :54.040 and I offered to buy her a drink but the catch  was that she had to dance with me for one song   :54.040 --> :59.560 she eagerly said yes and we were off to a great  start until we turn around drinks in hand and   :59.560 --> :05.760 take one step toward the Dance Floor she sees some  other dude gets excited and hugs him I wait for a   :05.760 --> :10.320 minute but it seems like I'm already forgotten  I see a few buddies nearby and I tell them what   :10.320 --> :16.840 happened my friend Jordan says do something man  so here comes my Petty Revenge I walk up to her   :16.840 --> :23.000 say excuse me and take the drink out of her hand  I chug it down and slam the plastic cup down and   :23.000 --> :28.320 walk away no reaction from the pretty girl and  her guy but my buddies loved it and we had a   :28.320 --> :33.480 good laugh about it hey she didn't hold up her end  of the bargain and you paid for that drink I see   :33.480 --> :38.640 you had every right to do that our next story  is the app I used to make sure I hit my daily   :38.640 --> :45.280 to-dos got bought I paid $5 for Lifetime full  access to my favorite productivity app then they   :45.280 --> :51.160 got bought the new owners added a bunch of stupid  features that slow it way down and use that as an   :51.160 --> :57.240 excuse to make it cost $60 a year so freak that  but I still haven't found an app similar to the   :57.240 --> :03.880 simpler version I emailed them and updated ated  my five-star App Store review to one star and you   :03.880 --> :09.360 can see so many reviews complaining about the same  thing that they don't even respond to what a way   :09.360 --> :14.440 to start out with your existing customers well it  seems like they can't take away my access to the   :14.440 --> :21.200 full version so every day several times a day I  open this app and get a splash screen telling me   :21.200 --> :27.560 to buy it and every day I ex out of that message  and continue using the app just as I had before I   :27.560 --> :32.560 don't even notice it anymore spent like this for  months they probably don't notice but it makes   :32.560 --> :38.280 me feel slightly Vindicated every time as long  as you can do what you used to do with that app   :38.280 --> :44.200 I say keep on using it you paid for it but keep  that one star review up I'm right there with OP   :44.200 --> :49.320 if I got a x out of a popup every time I use it  it's just going to become routine it's going to   :49.320 --> :54.720 be nothing it's like the wind raar pop up every  time you open a zip file at some point you just   :54.720 --> :00.400 have it mentally completely tuned out you just  expect it to pop up and hit close immediately   :00.400 --> :05.600 and now's a good time for everybody who wants  to say use szip instead to do so in the comments   :05.600 --> :12.480 our next story is grocery store Karen this was  years ago when I had a 22 caliber brain and a 50   :12.480 --> :18.000 caliber mouth I was at a grocery store with two  items I went to the customer service desk which   :18.000 --> :23.480 had a sign that said five items or less just as I  was approaching the counter a Karen ducked in in   :23.480 --> :29.360 front of me with a basket that had 12 to 15 items  and she started unloading it onto the counter I   :29.360 --> :35.200 looked to the cashier pointed at the sign held up  my hand with my fingers spread out and gestured as   :35.200 --> :40.600 a question she looked at me and Shrugged as if she  couldn't do anything about it so I said to Karen   :40.600 --> :46.920 you must be a natural blonde she replied I am how  did you know I pointed at the sign because you   :46.920 --> :54.000 can't count to five oh she was mad she paid and  got out of there in a blur afterward the cashier   :54.000 --> :00.080 was grinning I said you probably aren't allowed  to say anything but I can well what's the point   :00.080 --> :05.200 of having the sign there that says 10 items or  less if they don't actually enforce it I mean I   :05.200 --> :10.360 guess it depends on the Chain if this is at like  a Walmart this is probably one of two lanes there   :10.360 --> :17.720 anyways our next story is Keys what keys when I  was 19 I used to work for the small roadside Zoo   :17.720 --> :23.520 think dirt paths and chicken wire holding back  literal monkeys it happened to be really close   :23.520 --> :28.880 to one of the largest and most popular zoos  in my country which made this Zoo very quiet   :28.880 --> :34.480 I was hired is a front reception and customer  service the first face you see if I'm anything   :34.480 --> :40.160 I'm bubbly and they basically hired me on the spot  the owner of the zoo came in one day a few weeks   :40.160 --> :45.880 after I started and struck up a conversation and  a roundabout way found out I'm disabled and seemed   :45.880 --> :51.600 very shocked since it's an invisible illness this  was the beginning of the end I just didn't know   :51.600 --> :57.880 it yet unfortunately for them I was incredibly  good at my job customers were happy office was   :57.880 --> :03.000 clean and I was finished with the work work they  gave me with half of my day empty and boring the   :03.000 --> :08.600 head zookeeper was young short attractive and  had a temperature that could rival Regina from   :08.600 --> :14.680 Mean Girls I tried asking for my responsibilities  with a background and art I offered my skills and   :14.680 --> :21.240 knowledge and other areas just to fill my day and  was met with a screaming almost 30s something man   :21.240 --> :28.440 on his tiptoes spitting in my face that I needed  to sit down shut up and smile for the customers so   :28.440 --> :34.920 I did that was until the incident one day a friend  of the owners drops in this pair of birds as a   :34.920 --> :41.080 surrender this cute little white cockal and a blue  Indian ring neck I own a bird and so when they put   :41.080 --> :47.200 them in an old cage next to the office I was very  excited I wasn't to feed them but I was allowed   :47.200 --> :53.200 to talk to them the days went by and the ring neck  became very wild and unhappy the poor little white   :53.200 --> :58.200 bird was getting really sick I tried telling the  keepers that the seed was wet and the birds had   :58.200 --> :04.600 no dry space when it rained they didn't have toys  or company and they weren't doing well I was met   :04.600 --> :10.280 with violent screaming the head zookeeper had me  pinned to a wall and I was so afraid he was going   :10.280 --> :15.800 to hit me for suggesting his level of care wasn't  good enough that I burst into tears and ran back   :15.800 --> :21.960 to the office I called the owner sobbing that he'd  done that and she reassured me everything would be   :21.960 --> :28.200 fine and to have a drink of water calm down and  finish the rest of my day by the afternoon one   :28.200 --> :33.520 of the other Keepers was sent up to the office and  popped his head in to see if I was okay apparently   :33.520 --> :40.000 he was sent to snap the neck of the birds because  euthanasia was too expensive for surrendered   :40.000 --> :46.960 animals I was unbelievably upset and this keeper  patted my shoulder he was a massive introvert and   :46.960 --> :52.360 this means a lot trying to calm me down he said he  didn't like it as much as I did but he had to do   :52.360 --> :57.600 his job or he might get fired I asked him what  they told him to do exactly and he said when I   :57.600 --> :04.120 get back up there they better not not be any birds  so I asked can I take them then he said as long as   :04.120 --> :10.600 they aren't here I did my job and smirked as he  walked out of the office so there I am smuggling   :10.600 --> :16.600 birds in my shirt to my car the sick little white  one tucked up holding on to my bra all snuggled   :16.600 --> :23.360 close and this blue firecracker practicing for the  next bull riding competition I disinfected a spare   :23.360 --> :28.440 cage I had at home and put them in our sun room  to freefly I was hand feeding the little white   :28.440 --> :33.760 bird with the medic a the vet gave me and giving  her some Pats when I got an email the owner had   :33.760 --> :39.360 sent an email stating due to your ill health  and unhappiness you are no longer needed and   :39.360 --> :45.480 your contract is terminated that's when it hit  me she'd been trying to find something anything   :45.480 --> :51.560 to fire me for besides just being disabled with  an invisible illness me being upset that I was   :51.560 --> :58.000 verbally abused physically assaulted and upset  that they were going to inhumanely kill animals   :58.000 --> :04.760 was worth firing me over so I'm not proud of it  but I ghosted them they didn't give me common   :04.760 --> :10.760 decency so they weren't worth my efforts for  weeks and weeks I'd get emails asking for my   :10.760 --> :17.040 keys to the zoo asking if I got the email I just  let the email sit there finally the owner called   :17.040 --> :22.680 after a month and angrily asked for me to return  my keys I calmly said I put them in the mailbox   :22.680 --> :28.640 the day she fired me and hung up I knew they  were so unorganized that no one but me checked   :28.640 --> :33.840 the mailbox to the office it had been a month and  to her knowledge they could have been anywhere by   :33.840 --> :39.600 now I hope they had to change all the locks to  that office and it was a mild inconvenience that   :39.600 --> :44.840 really graded on them I got a lot of Joy watching  those little birds play with that big chain of   :44.840 --> :49.800 keys I hung in their bird room right up until I  found them a foster home where they would be cared   :49.800 --> :55.440 for well the little white bird was very healthy  and happy when we parted ways but I'd never visit   :55.440 --> :01.080 that Zoo again they feed their dead zoo animals  to their baboons they collected the branches and   :01.080 --> :06.760 grass for their enclosures from private farmland  and have been run off people's property so often   :06.760 --> :11.560 that staff had to be made aware they could get  shot and most importantly why would I want to   :11.560 --> :18.600 support that horrible place when I can pop up the  road to this amazing zoo run by a Legends Legacy   :18.600 --> :24.560 it's a small Petty but still Petty revenge in my  opinion I wish I could have done more honestly I   :24.560 --> :30.360 mean I think Beyond Revenge I think what op did  here was the right thing those birds obviously   :30.360 --> :36.520 didn't deserve to get euthanized if anything maybe  they were doing it to cause op to have an outrage   :36.520 --> :41.160 considering they put them right there next to  them said don't touch them maybe even touching   :41.160 --> :46.040 them would have been their reason to fire op and  maybe they were trying to cause an uproar for   :46.040 --> :51.040 euthanizing the birds I don't know I don't know  if there's some regulatory body that could shut   :51.040 --> :55.720 down this place but it sounds like they're not  treating these animals right I feel like they   :55.720 --> :02.000 should be reported somewhere or at least be spoken  out against pretty publicly if they aren't already   :02.000 --> :07.120 let alone the fact that there's a better Zoo  nearby I think it's the fact that they're so dumpy   :07.120 --> :14.640 and slimy that would contribute to them being so  poorly visited our next story is there are people   :14.640 --> :19.960 who use this foot path you blocked with your car  you know so I was living in this massive block of   :19.960 --> :25.240 apartments near a small Creek the bank on which  the building is built is well above the creek and   :25.240 --> :29.960 there's exactly one path that leads down to the  kids playground where Mom Ms take their kids and   :29.960 --> :35.720 babies and strollers and people walk their dogs  one beautiful spring morning I walked with my   :35.720 --> :41.040 dog to the beginning of that path and found a car  parked on it occupying the whole width of the path   :41.040 --> :46.880 there was a massive pile of snow left on the path  inkle deep mud right of the path and spaces in the   :46.880 --> :52.520 building's designated parking area my dog and I  crept through the snow then I packed some dog crap   :52.520 --> :57.800 in a bag and placed it snugly in the driver's door  handle on my way back the jerk didn't take the   :57.800 --> :03.480 hint though there were multiple crap stained wet  tissues thrown on the floor where the car had been   :03.480 --> :09.280 but I did at least get a petty Revenge story out  of it I'm not saying I'm advocating for smearing   :09.280 --> :16.440 dog poo all over somebody's car who Parks like  such a jerk like this but I understand it our next   :16.440 --> :22.440 story is remembered this and it made me chuckle  about 5 years ago before we bought our house   :22.440 --> :28.320 my wife and I lived in an apartment complex that  had buy annual inspections we were Model tenants   :28.320 --> :33.120 especially compared to our neighborhood the place  was prettyy strict so we saw a lot of people over   :33.120 --> :38.720 the years we lived there get evicted my wife and  I both work nights so we were asleep during these   :38.720 --> :44.280 inspections we just locked our bedroom door and  slept through them knowing everything was in order   :44.280 --> :49.800 the last one before we moved out had a handwritten  bit on the standard notice of inspection stating   :49.800 --> :56.680 that they absolutely needed to see the inside of  the bast bedroom okay so we sleep during the day   :56.680 --> :02.680 and had extreme blackout measures in our bedroom  all in accordance with lease rules so for this   :02.680 --> :08.000 one we left the door unlocked and I stuck my  wife's suction cup you know what stuck to the   :08.000 --> :14.320 wall next to the light switch so my question  is I guess is this suction cup you know what   :14.320 --> :19.920 stuck to the wall next to the light switch also  in accordance with lease rules I mean I'm no   :19.920 --> :25.960 expert with leasing rules but I would suppose  that there's probably not any subsection about   :25.960 --> :30.680 sticking a you know what on your wall as long as  it doesn't have such strong suction that it would   :30.680 --> :36.360 damage it our next story is I must have picked  it up from you father here's a short tidbit from   :36.360 --> :42.520 when I was a young child I'm the oldest child and  have a younger sister let's call her Eliza Eliza   :42.520 --> :47.600 became a bit of a potty mouth after she started  school my father complained that it was my fault   :47.600 --> :52.800 and that Eliza must have picked it up from me I  had to nip this in the bud I cannot be held ACC   :52.800 --> :58.760 accountable for every single transgression of my  sister so I came up with a petty plan I purposely   :58.760 --> :04.840 dropped a pen in front of my father and swore in  frustration hey you don't have to swear my father   :04.840 --> :11.400 remarked sorry I said I must have picked it up  from you I'm surprised that it actually worked my   :11.400 --> :17.040 father stopped blaming me for Eliza's wrongdoings  from then on instead he would just talk to Eliza   :17.040 --> :22.920 directly thankfully my father had insight and was  not the kind of person who would discipline me   :22.920 --> :29.480 for talking back to him I'm really glad for op's  sake that they clarified that last bit I feel like   :29.480 --> :35.360 a lot of people who are willing to blame you for  your siblings transgressions would also probably   :35.360 --> :41.280 overlap with being the kind of person who cannot  tolerate having an actual conversation where you   :41.280 --> :48.360 disagree with them our next story is Jump the  line at the grocery huh very Petty and yet it's a   :48.360 --> :53.360 business day at the grocery and all the lines are  long they get another cashier going and a few of   :53.360 --> :59.000 us move to it this is back before self-checkout  then a lady pushes past from the back of of the   :59.000 --> :05.360 line to jump in front of me hey I say come on  really she says nothing but smirks a little and   :05.360 --> :12.400 stands her ground my eye contact with a few others  in line confirm yeah that was a bench move I begin   :12.400 --> :21.440 to quietly berate her G-rated stuff wow not cool  Etc and she turns away to ignore me aha I continue   :21.440 --> :27.200 to berate her to keep her turned away and start  taking things out of her cart this looks important   :27.200 --> :32.640 oh I bet the kidss wanted this candy I'm putting  a few things in my cart but most goes on the gum   :32.640 --> :38.000 rack and the under belt where the small baskets  live I even got a few off the belt after she   :38.000 --> :43.480 unloads she never sees it hopefully she figured  it out when she finally got home and the family's   :43.480 --> :49.920 asking for the barbecue sauce and snacks I don't  blame op but I do feel kind of bad for the kids   :49.920 --> :55.040 that might have had their favorite candy coming  home or whatnot or Uncle Mark Zuckerberg was   :55.040 --> :00.720 going to come over and all of a sudden you don't  have the sweet baby rays our next story is try to   :00.720 --> :06.720 steal my car enjoy losing your partnership this  is something that happened a long time ago but it   :06.720 --> :12.960 still tickles me I was young and had had my little  hand-me-down Acura Integra since I was 16 my   :12.960 --> :20.440 parents let me borrow it and I paid for everything  repairs Insurance gas Etc when I graduated high   :20.440 --> :28.240 school it was my graduation present I had actually  paid about $11,000 to them to cover insurance for   :28.240 --> :33.680 a long-term time not long before they dropped  having me pay for insurance because neither my   :33.680 --> :39.800 sister nor stepsister were paying for theirs my  stepdad was a mechanic and specialized in cars   :39.800 --> :45.600 made for racing and car shows he and his boss had  had their vehicles featured in car magazines that   :45.600 --> :51.040 were sold internationally he took care of the  repairs for it and I paid for parts when I got   :51.040 --> :58.600 to be around 23 to 24 i' had moved pretty far away  so obviously my stepdad wasn't taking care of the   :58.600 --> :04.280 repairs anymore but I did know some basic things  I was driving down the road when suddenly smoke   :04.280 --> :10.920 or steam came pouring out from under the hood I  panicked but pulled over as safely as I could and   :10.920 --> :16.680 quickly contacted triaa they sent someone to come  tow their car to their garage to get it repaired I   :16.680 --> :21.360 get to the garage after I finally get a ride since  they wouldn't let me ride in their truck they tell   :21.360 --> :26.840 me the mechanic is looking at it now I wait a bit  and then the guy comes out he looks concerned and   :26.840 --> :34.000 then lays it on me oh well your whole radiator  blew it'll cost about $2,000 or so to have it   :34.000 --> :40.160 replaced I began to panic because that was worth  more than the car was then with a slight smirk he   :40.160 --> :46.160 says I'll tell you what I'll pay you $2,000 and  just take it off your hands for you since its   :46.160 --> :52.840 repairs are worth more than the car itself alarm  Bells went off immediately this guy was obviously   :52.840 --> :58.920 trying to scam me and take my car now I'm ticked  I don't let it show though and say have to make   :58.920 --> :04.800 some phone calls I step outside and walk around  and peek into the garage Bay the guy steps back   :04.800 --> :09.800 into the garage and goes to his bench and starts  chatting with the other mechanic he's grinning up   :09.800 --> :16.880 a storm and plastered all over his workbench are  photos of modified cars one of the photos happens   :16.880 --> :23.760 to be my stepdad's boss's car which is a bright  yellow Acura Integra and hard to miss it was the   :23.760 --> :29.640 one at the front and it all clicked into place I  called my stepdad and asked him about How likely   :29.640 --> :35.200 it was that the radiator had completely blown  he said that it was highly unlikely but not   :35.200 --> :41.240 impossible I explained everything to him and he  told me do not sell that car he's trying to get   :41.240 --> :46.240 it because he wants to kid it out ask if he can  show you exactly in the engine where the problems   :46.240 --> :52.520 were if he shows you he might be legit but take  photos and send them to me so I can be sure if he   :52.520 --> :58.360 refuses or attempts to distract or dissuade you  he's lying and get it toe to another shop right   :58.360 --> :05.160 away do not let them do anything until after I  verify I hung up and put back on my distraught   :05.160 --> :11.080 face making my way back into the office I asked  the manager if the mechanic could show me exactly   :11.080 --> :17.360 where the problem was the manager went and got the  mechanic and wouldn't you know it he absolutely   :17.360 --> :22.880 refused to show me saying I wouldn't know what I  was looking at there was no point because it was   :22.880 --> :29.480 completely busted and any other excuse he could  I told them please do not make any repairs I'm   :29.480 --> :34.240 going to have it towed to another shop they  got angry and tried to dissuade me again but   :34.240 --> :39.800 I wouldn't budge I called AAA to see if they would  cover having it towed to a different location they   :39.800 --> :45.680 said no and that had already been taken to a  AAA garage so any other Towing would be on me I   :45.680 --> :50.600 arranged my own Tow and had them tow it to a shop  right next to where I was living that had the best   :50.600 --> :55.800 reviews in town the reviews all made a point of  saying that they never tried to get people to do   :55.800 --> :01.480 unnecessary repairs and often did their best to  save people money one even said they had taken it   :01.480 --> :06.440 to a different place and they tried to get him to  do a bunch of stuff before being brought there and   :06.440 --> :13.200 told most of it was completely unnecessary after  I had it towed there I got a call from triaa again   :13.200 --> :18.080 they wanted to know why I was having it towed to  a different shop as it seemed very odd and they   :18.080 --> :24.680 were following up on that request I told them  everything the lady was silent for most of my   :24.680 --> :31.000 story she asked me do they have AAA logos on their  vehicles I confirmed that they didn't have just   :31.000 --> :37.960 one but no less than six AAA logos on each tow  vehicle they had and was prominently displayed   :37.960 --> :43.320 on their website and pictures of the trucks were  on there too she stayed silent for a while and   :43.320 --> :48.800 said she would call me back again before hanging  up the other shop looked over my car and everyone   :48.800 --> :53.760 was super kind and friendly the mechanic came and  got me from the waiting room and took me back to   :53.760 --> :00.480 the shop he pointed into the engine see that hose  there it's the factory hose it's over 20 years old   :00.480 --> :06.600 it ruptured because it's too old I'm surprised it  lasted this long I asked about the whole radiator   :06.600 --> :13.400 being blown and he looked at me like I'd grown  several heads what no of course not I even tested   :13.400 --> :18.920 it and it was fine even well beyond its labeled  rating whoever told you that was lying their butt   :18.920 --> :25.440 off we went back into the office and I explained  everything to them and they looked at me horrified   :25.440 --> :31.960 again the mechanic interjected what a jerk how  dare he lie and try to steal your car like that   :31.960 --> :36.920 what's the Shop's name so I can make sure no one  I know ever goes there trying to say it'll cost   :36.920 --> :43.520 $2,000 to repair when it just needs a $20 hose  replaced they fixed up my car and after I got   :43.520 --> :50.680 it home I got a call it was AAA again and the lady  asked if I had any updates boy did I fill her in I   :50.680 --> :56.680 didn't leave anything out everything the mechanic  had said the discrepancy in the repair costs the   :56.680 --> :03.320 actual repair required she was silent but I could  hear her fingers madly typing away once I was done   :03.320 --> :09.640 she said I am so sorry for what happened we take  these things very seriously don't worry they won't   :09.640 --> :15.960 get away with this a week later I checked on that  shop all the AAA logos were gone and they were no   :15.960 --> :21.240 longer listed as being a AAA approved business  honestly although they didn't help out on the   :21.240 --> :27.000 second toe having that experience and knowing that  they actually took it accountably would make me   :27.000 --> :32.520 feel a little bit better about having that AAA  membership or whatnot the only sad thing is you   :32.520 --> :37.560 wish you could go back and rub it in their face  find that manager or that mechanic that was trying   :37.560 --> :42.680 to rip you off and call them out in the lobby  even better if there were other people there I   :42.680 --> :49.080 think I would take my savings of $1,980 and spend  a little bit time trying to make a public outcry   :49.080 --> :56.040 about how horrendous this place was our next story  is deliberately deplete my prepaid phone balance   :56.040 --> :02.600 you will pay for it $1,000 times over I went to  middle school in the early 2010s right before   :02.600 --> :08.440 smartphones really took off I got my first phone  right before starting sixth grade it was a slide   :08.440 --> :14.400 phone with a pay as you go plan that cost 10 cents  per minute for calls and per text message center   :14.400 --> :21.920 received worse yet sending a receiving photos cost  25 cents each it was very expensive and my parents   :21.920 --> :27.560 only gave me $100 a year for this if I exceeded  the amount I had to cover the rest with my limited   :27.560 --> :33.240 birth and Christmas money I had fortunately most  of my friends were good about helping me preserve   :33.240 --> :38.360 the balance they would call and I'd let the call  drop but immediately call back on a landline   :38.360 --> :44.120 so it wouldn't count as a call and they would  email me or message me on Skype for most things   :44.120 --> :49.440 everything was good until Derek joined the group  in seventh grade at first we thought he was funny   :49.440 --> :55.840 but we quickly got fed up with him as he was very  unpleasant and exhibited many antisocial behaviors   :55.840 --> :01.240 he started drama within the friend group and also  caused issues between us and other kids outside of   :01.240 --> :06.320 the group he was manipulative and always played  the victim when others rightfully called him out   :06.320 --> :12.280 on his crap and he knew how to charm parents so  getting rid of him was easier said than done he   :12.280 --> :18.720 was the one friend who didn't respect my phone  situation he very frequently texted me dumb memes   :18.720 --> :24.320 even though I told him multiple times to just  email or Skype them to me instead since picture   :24.320 --> :30.640 texts cost 25 cents each unfortunately blocking  phone numbers was a feature that was unavailable   :30.640 --> :37.200 for this pay as you go plan so there was nothing I  could do as he spammed my phone one day he got mad   :37.200 --> :43.920 at me for some reason and spammed my phone with  memes he must have sent me over 100 lol cats over   :43.920 --> :49.800 text he kept sending them until I lost service  since my phone balance was depleted I had lost   :49.800 --> :56.680 the $40 remaining in my account as a result  I was extremely ticked and demanded that he   :56.680 --> :02.840 pay me the $40 he had cost me and he refused and  said it wasn't his problem I got home from school   :02.840 --> :08.080 really upset and told my dad about the situation  expecting him to go and tear Derrick's mother a   :08.080 --> :13.520 new one and demand the money but my dad said that  it wasn't worth the battle I even asked him about   :13.520 --> :18.040 a small claims court but he said that not all  battles are worth fighting and that the effort   :18.040 --> :24.800 wasn't worth $40 he took me to the carrier store  and loaded $50 onto the phone the carrier changed   :24.800 --> :30.200 my phone number and they managed to block derk's  number they had initially said that blocking phone   :30.200 --> :36.480 numbers wasn't possible with this plan but my dad  insisted and would not leave the store until they   :36.480 --> :42.320 did it I was extremely paranoid about my phone  number being leaked and other kids spamming it to   :42.320 --> :48.600 freak with me fortunately my parents got iPhones  that summer and got me one too and the new family   :48.600 --> :54.680 plan had an unlimited text plan nonetheless I was  ticked at the $40 he essentially stole from me out   :54.680 --> :00.280 of malice fortunately not too long after there  was a big blowout between Derek and the rest   :00.280 --> :04.920 of the friend group at the end of the school year  and we permanently kicked him out of the group he   :04.920 --> :10.600 was an outcast the following year in e8th grade  nobody was tolerating his crap anymore and he   :10.600 --> :16.400 changed schools the year after and we never heard  from him again fast forward to a few years ago I   :16.400 --> :21.480 was back home for a few months between graduating  college and starting a new job on the other side   :21.480 --> :27.000 of the country I went out to some garage sales  one Saturday morning and I ended up at Derek's   :27.000 --> :33.040 house I recognized his mother but I don't think  she recognized me I guess glasses and a beard   :33.040 --> :38.840 is all you need I noticed some Pokemon napkins  out for sale and when I picked them up to look   :38.840 --> :44.960 at them dereck's mom said that her son had been  obsessed with Pokemon for his whole life and that   :44.960 --> :50.560 she was tired of Pokemon stuff occupying her home  for so many years I said that these napkins were   :50.560 --> :56.280 from my younger cousin who's really into Pokemon  and asked if she had any more Pokemon stuff she   :56.280 --> :00.680 said she didn't know people were still into that  and that there were a few boxes in the Attic with   :00.680 --> :06.720 her son's old stuff she actually took me inside  the house which I never imagined I'd set foot   :06.720 --> :12.560 inside ever again and let me climb up the attic  ladder and take down several large boxes to look   :12.560 --> :18.760 through the first one had Christmas ornaments in  it and other junk but I freaked out inside when   :18.760 --> :26.480 she opened a box jam-packed with Pokemon video  games in the original boxes though I kept my   :26.480 --> :32.160 cool on the outside the whole reason I had agreed  to go inside in the first place was because I was   :32.160 --> :38.800 holding out hope of this exact scenario happening  see I knew Derek was obsessed with Pokemon our   :38.800 --> :44.080 friend group liked Pokemon back in the day even  when other kids thought it wasn't cool but Derek   :44.080 --> :50.920 was on a whole different level he bragged about  his Pokemon collection all the time at the time he   :50.920 --> :57.880 had every single main Series game in the original  box and in mint condition as he always had to add   :57.880 --> :03.000 in I went to his house once and he was showing me  his collection he yelled at me for touching one of   :03.000 --> :10.160 the games nobody was allowed to touch them except  him he had many older Nintendo games in excellent   :10.160 --> :16.400 condition but Pokemon was his favorite he had a  couple incidents with his mom damaging or throwing   :16.400 --> :22.520 away his things it wasn't out of malice but  just ignorance as she didn't think the games or   :22.520 --> :28.000 Collectibles had any value fast forward into the  present day I was thinking about this when I asked   :28.000 --> :34.800 his mother if she had any other Pokemon stuff she  ended up bringing out the mother load we opened   :34.800 --> :41.040 all of the boxes she had me bring down within the  boxes there was the Beloved collection of Pokemon   :41.040 --> :48.080 games all very well preserved as well as several  Nintendo consoles hundreds of games two dozen   :48.080 --> :54.600 binders full of Pokemon cards and there was also a  box of many Lego sets with the original boxes and   :54.600 --> :02.160 everything with many old Star Wars sets when I saw  D Jango Fett I knew I struck gold I told her that   :02.160 --> :08.480 I like old Legos as well and asked her how much  for the five boxes of games cards and Lego sets   :08.480 --> :15.600 and she thought for a second and said $100 a box  or $400 for all five I told her I would take it   :15.600 --> :22.240 all and hauled butt to get to an ATM I loaded the  five boxes into my dad's truck and a immediately   :22.240 --> :28.720 drove home I knew there was potentially tens of  thousands of dollars of good here this was the   :28.720 --> :35.000 score of a lifetime and I finally felt Vindicated  for the $40 Derek had taken from me all those   :35.000 --> :40.840 years ago I ended up giving all the stuff to my  uncle who's a hobbyist eBay reseller he offered   :40.840 --> :45.600 to sell it all he was willing to go through  the effort and sell everything individually   :45.600 --> :50.720 and despite my insistence he said he wouldn't  take more than a 10% cut of the profits after   :50.720 --> :56.600 all fees and taxes we went through and logged  every single item along with the estimated   :56.600 --> :04.320 value and and the total of the whole lot was about  $40,000 $40,000 was a poetic number since this was   :04.320 --> :10.120 a thousand times the value of what Derek stole  from me all those years ago my uncle sold most   :10.120 --> :15.480 of the lot before the end of the summer and ended  up writing me a check though it was considerably   :15.480 --> :21.800 less than $40,000 it was still a life-changing  amount of money for me I was able to pay off my   :21.800 --> :28.080 remaining student loans and put the rest towards  a down payment on a new car man it really sucks to   :28.080 --> :33.760 make some enemies as a kid huh you know those kids  grow up and uh they get a little bit more powerful   :33.760 --> :38.880 sometimes I almost kind of feel bad for the mom  because they just didn't know the value of what   :38.880 --> :43.880 they had and I mean you can't help but feel bad  for Derek when they're inevitably going to come   :43.880 --> :50.960 back home and find out oh that oh yeah I sold it  for $400 just your life's collections being pwned   :50.960 --> :57.400 off for 400 measly bucks but with that being said  that's all the time we have for today now if you   :57.400 --> :03.200 want to hear another crazy Revenge story check out  that video on the left or if you missed my latest   :03.200 --> :08.840 video check out that video on the 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AIT for being brutally honest in therapy and then saying my dad can send me somewhere else if that's what they decide I 16m live with my dad my younger brother 13m and sister 12f and my dad's wife Gwen and her kids 7f and 5m my dad and Gwen Got Married 2 years ago they had known each other slash were dating for a year prior to that my mom died 7 years ago Gwen's ex took off when she was pregnant with her son and neither kid knows him or his memories of it Gwen's kids are not my sibling I do not love them or feel the same big brother protectiv my relationship with them is very different than the one with my actual sibling when we were younger I used to let them crawl into my bed if they had a nightmare and dad was working nights and we had a babysitter I would still let them sleep on the floor of my room if they wanted to for some reason my brother did it once in the last year because he was being bullied at school I hug my siblings and I will ruffle their hair and stuff but I don't do those things with my stepsiblings and I wouldn't be comfortable with physical affection toward them I speak to them I won't leave the room or refuse to let them join me if I'm watching something but I'm not going to cuddle them on the couch which they have asked and I don't play with them in my spare time the kids have felt less loved because of this so my dad and Gwen wanted the three of us to talk things through in therapy they said I have four siblings now and not just two and all four should be treated the same I told them it wasn't going to happen because I don't love my steps siblings or feel comfortable being that close to them or showing them affection I said I will be nice I won't ignore them or be mean to them but that my relationship with my actual siblings is always going to be different to whatever develops between us in the future Gwen snapped that I should say siblings for all four and instead of saying steps I told her they are siblings and I don't think I'll ever think of them as actual siblings she asked what about her and where she fits in I said she's my dad's wife then she was like so I won't be mentioned as your parent when you graduate and I said no the conversation turned to Gwen not wanting her kids around such different treatment and discussions of if I should leave the therapist was like wo stop talking like that but they ignored the therapist and continued to discuss this in therapy in front of it when the therapist told them we should be figuring out ways to live together with less hurt feelings and she mentioned talking to Gwen's kids Gwen said she didn't want me in the house and dad said he understood so I said Dad could send me somewhere else if he wants and I won't fight that Dad was pissed off that I would prefer him to send me away than Embrace Gwen and the kids is my real family he told me it's not what Mom would have wanted and she would be ashamed of me I pointed out mom never had a close relationship with her steep relatives either and saw them differently to her real family a it
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AIT for telling my sister that I hate the name she's planning to use for my niece using a throwaway because I don't want this attached to my real account I 30f have a younger sister 27f who's currently around 6 months pregnant with her first child everyone is super excited for her and her husband especially because she's the first of the two of us to give my parents a grandchild recently she's been throwing around a lot of name ideas and she called me the yesterday to tell me she thinks she is settled on something she wants to name her child chyia but spelled cyia I honestly thought she was kidding at first for obvious reasons that's the dumbest name idea I've ever heard the names her and her husband had been talking about were a little unique but nothing crazy like this I started laughing when she told me and she immediately got pissed and said she wasn't kidding and knew I wouldn't get it I asked her to explain why she thought naming her unborn child after an STD was a good idea she said she'd seen posts of people saying it'd be a pretty name and she laughed them off for a while but then thought that it actually could be cute she said since it's being spelled differently people won't think of the STD right away and would help get rid of the stigma around the name and that it may even catch on I told her I hate the name and she's setting my niece up for a lifetime of bullying she told me it's her decision and that I am being her child's first bully by making fun on the name apparently her husband also agrees with this name choice I guess it's not that surprising considering he's up her ass all the time and will do whatever she wants we got off the phone angry at each other I talked to my parents and they agree that it's horrible but they don't want to talk to her about it because they don't want to upset her they think she'll change her mind anyway my parents are are encouraging me to reach out to her and apologize because at the end of the day this is her decision and I shouldn't upset her while she's pregnant I honestly think she's being ridiculous and her name choice is cruel but she tends to hold grudges and I don't want to not be involved
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hello everyone my name is Reid and this is story time today we are going to be reading some malicious compliance stories so take a seat relax and enjoy sorry I'm not a courier I work for a large shipping company in Canada I work early in the morning loading trucks but as needed would go over and deliver packages at first it was here and there but it soon became normal that after my regular scheduled shift I would go out and deliver this wasn't a requirement of my job I was basically doing it as a favor because it looks really bad on the managers to have packages go undelivered and I thought it would look good on me I did this for a few years without any issue one winter one of the drivers at a different Depot slipped and hurt himself while out delivering this caused a new initiative to force all drivers to wear super slip proof boots that had glass embedded in them these run about 250 bucks all of the drivers received pouches that would cover the cost because they are requirements of doing the job when I went to the manager to ask if I would be getting a voucher he replied with no sorry you're not a courier and walked away I went and told the other employees that were in a similar situation to mine and they were pretty displeased the next day as usual after my shift the manager started telling me the things I would be delivering that day I waited for him to finish and responded with sorry I'm not a courier he looks very confused like he didn't remember our conversation from the day before so I explained that I wasn't going to go out delivering because I wouldn't have the proper safety equipment he had that I just smelt a fart face and just looked at me for a second he said if you just work a few extra shifts then you can afford to buy the boots yourself I was actually stunned and didn't know what to say so we just stared at each other for a minute I eventually replied sort of laughing because of how ridiculous this is so you want me to work without the safety equipment you made mandatory until I can afford to buy it for myself he scoffed at me like a 14 year old girl and walked away without an answer few others followed suit when the managers asked them to go out delivering after their shifts they replied with sorry I'm not the courier after all was said and done they had so many leftover packages a few companies started dropping contracts which directly affects the managers end of year bonuses they ended up having to give promotion to a lot of workers that were doing double work for half the pay to cover all of the backlog so we all ended up getting paid more to do leste and best of all we finally got our safety boots I think Opie should try to get back paid for the past two years of extra work oh I can only come in if I'm on the official schedule all right some back story I took some time off of uni and got hired at a big-name retail store in a local mall been working there for a while now and school starts up again so I gave my two weeks as a courtesy my immediate manager says she's sorry to see me go then asked me to come in on a certain day even though I'm not on the schedule to finish up some inventory okay no problem fast-forward to yesterday when I arrived at work I got a clock in and then get an error huh my immediate manager comes over with a really puzzled look on her face it overrides it odd maybe scheduling just forgot to add me oh well two hours I'm lugging a massive cart full of clothes across the store win big boss our store manager shows up the conversation went something like this big boss why are you still here didn't you give up your two weeks me well yes but the apartment manager asked me to come in to finish inventory big boss she has more than enough people for that and you aren't on the schedule stop working and leave please queue malicious compliance I abandoned the cart right there in the middle of the store and went to clock out fun fact one of my co-workers had a mandatory hour-long break coming up that I would normally fill in for since I couldn't that meant they had to find someone within 15 minutes guess who was the only employee on the floor big boss couldn't even go up to his office to grab a water bottle because there was a massive line at our station I walked out the store six hours early knowing the manager who kicked me out needed to do my job for the next hour good times once I put in a courtesy two weeks notice there's no way I'm coming in to do extra work to help out with inventory Opie is a bigger person than me and for that I applaud you follow hospital policy the patient must be brought down in a bed I work as a Ward's Minh aka Porter in a private hospital in Australia now you don't need any training to do this job so we are pretty much the least qualified people at the hospital in an industry where there are a lot of qualified people around doctors nurses radiographers etc I think it's because of this that I got a lot of run-ins with staff / patients who think I'm stupid because I'm just a Hordesmen or it could be because I have a face like a stunned mullet I went to pick up a patient from the ward to bring them down for an ultrasound department policy requires us to bring the patient down in their bed for the exam this is a recent change and was done so because sometimes patients aren't very mobile and require a lot of assistance and the sonographers don't have the time getting every patient from the wheelchair to exam table if they have low mobility so the policy was instituted ultrasound patients come down in their bed this patient however was coming down from the maternity ward in our hospital recently started offering double beds so partners can stay with them overnight the issue with the double bed is they don't fit through a lot of doorways especially in the older section of the hospital so like the thoughtful young man I am I fetch a wheelchair I chatted with the patient and the nurse to make sure they were well enough to come down on the wheelchair everyone was happy the patient was very mobile and was able to get up out of the bed and walk the length of the room to the wheelchair unaided so I think to myself I don't have to worry about this new policy because I know the reason behind it and this patient won't be an issue I will the patient into the waiting Bay just as the sonographer walks out of her exam room and she notices me bringing her patient down in a will chair and not to bed she went off at me in the middle of the waiting room in front of a couple nurses and patients how I should know better this is a waste of her time policy is policy and you don't mess with policy especially if you were just Awards Minh all I know she seemed a little upset she told me to wheel her back and bring her down into bed instead she did not let me get a word in during her tirade to explain and her command had a sense of finality to it so I took the patient back to her room and asked if she minded if I took her down in the bed she said she didn't mind but was concerned that her bed wouldn't fit in the exam room I told her that I shared her concern and off we went I had to take a slightly circuitous route to get to radiology because it's located in the old part of the hospital and had narrow doorways I parked the bed and two of the waiting bays didn't fit into one and knocked on the door and let the sonographer know that her patient was here in her bed just as she asked she told me to bring the patient straight into the room well about that I walked out and stood facing the double bed yeah she's not gonna fit the sonographer just stood there as the patient hopped out of the bed and walked into the exam room and hopped up onto the exam table without any assistance I feel like just a little bit more justice to the sonographer would have been perfect but I guess the point still came across tell me to smile bet this isn't what you meant after a long stressful day at school I was picked up by my dad to go to his house my parents are divorced you could see in my face that I was tired and just wanted to go home I was in the backseat staring out of the window and my dad decided to say come on smile don't look so miserable most people don't smile if they're tired or stressed common sense I had had enough of being told to smile by anyone old men my parents etc so I decided I would follow his request I put on the biggest craziest most Joker like smile I could form and held it until I went to bed we had to stop at the shops to get dinner everyone thought I was crazy for his worth it he was completely and utterly embarrassed tried to get me to stop as we were getting stared at alas I did not as I wanted to prove my point he has barely ever told me to smile ever again as I do this to other people as well if people I don't know tell me to smile I do my Joker smile o man o P that is true dedication right there I probably would have done something like this but not really had the drive to follow through as much as you did so that's off can't obey a street sign can't obey the safety rules I used to work for a boat rental company and the way the marina was set up the main shop and docks were at the bottom of a loop-the-loop connected to a main road and a parking lot and was very clearly marked as one way now a patron can get to the lot and the shop without going the wrong way obviously whenever people would drive down the wrong way which happened a lot I'd see them they would go the wrong way to park at the mini lot by the shop or to get to the main lot a little bit faster like only a couple seconds now because I can see them and since we're the only agency of the kind in the area we kind of do whatever that being said anytime someone came down the wrong way I would refuse them a rental they would come in ask for our rental and since we have a lot of safety rules I'd say no it went like would I be able to rent a pontoon for two hours I'm sorry but I'm afraid I won't be able to due to the safety requirements oh wait what do you mean well our company has strict safety policy and requires trustworthiness and the ability to follow safety procedure and clear rules and this has to do with me because well you demonstrated that you were unable to abide by clear rules when you drove down the wrong way of a one-way are you freaking serious completely have a nice day and that job was the best we were told not to take any crap because where the heck else are they gonna go as the nearest lake with the marina was 40 miles away to clarify we only did this to customers that were rude I gave free ice cream to old to counter my customer self-defense this is also a really good example of if you don't think anyone's watching you should probably still just do the right thing anyways you never know you get what you paid for I had a customer call for a repair on a diesel engine in a front-end loader his operator diagnosed it as blower seals leaking oil I went out and checked it myself and diagnosed it as wrist pin seals not the blower he insisted the operator was right and that I was wrong he wanted me to fix the blower seals I gave him an estimate and marked on the invoice the blower seals were not the problem that the wrist pin seals were bad so I replaced the complete blower with a remanufactured unit turned the engine and he paid me a week later he called and complained that it was still using oil he said his operator told him the blower gaskets were installed improperly so I went there and took the engine apart again but before I would remove the blower I made him stand there while I did it when the blower was off I asked if the gaskets look right he said they did I told him the problem was the wrist pin seals like I said to begin with so I started packing up my tools he wanted me to put it back on I said are you going to pay me again and he said no so I left I guess he had to get someone else to put it back together and install the wrist pin seals I used to work at this job that had some really finicky equipment so I got to know a lot of the field service technicians that came in to diagnose the problems and do the fixes they always had some great horror stories about how they would come in and people would act like they knew what the problem was even though they diagnosed it as something else it's actually a very tough job because you have to like go into a company of people you don't know and they're telling you one thing even though you know it's the other thing so you can't really offend them but you still have to try and fix the problem somehow those people are cut from a different cloth than I am because I would definitely get way too frustrated with the customers that's all the stories we have for today so if you like the content don't forget to subscribe and stay tuned for more episodes thanks
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welcome friends to another r slash am i the jerk video we've got some hard-hitting questions today and our first one's from an anonymous poster am i the jerk for being rude to a friend who wouldn't stop giving her opinions on adoption i 30 year old female am adopted my parents have been incredibly open about this my whole life i wouldn't be able to pinpoint a time i was told it's just the fact that i've always known about myself and i've never once felt like i was any less loved or treated differently to my parents biological children nor did my siblings treat me any different to each other i realize how fortunate i am to have had the life i've had and realize this isn't the case for everyone but i digress i have a colleague jenny who ever since she found out i was adopted won't stop bringing it up she'll always ask personal questions about it which is fine i have no problem telling my backstory but she's recently taken to asking my opinion on hypothetical scenarios and then using it as a platform to state her views for example one time she asked me if i had the choice would i have my own children or adopt as well i could barely answer before she was telling me all about how she could never adopt because she'd never be able to see them as her own child yesterday she asked me if my parents ever considered giving me back after they had biological children this just really pissed me off as it could be a triggering question for some people so i told her to mind her own business and freak off with her terrible opinions which others tell me really upset her i don't think i'm the jerk but others in my team said i should have been more sensitive to her and explained why our questions are inappropriate instead of biting her head off and making the whole team dynamic awkward this is definitely a really weird situation would you guys agree that op is totally right to act that way or do you think gop should have taken a more careful approach considering this person doesn't really know the etiquette and just explained how awful of a question that was let me know what you guys think in the comments down below our next story is from an anonymous poster am i the jerk for not having empathy for my friend who sent naughty pictures to a stranger my friend matched with the guy on tinder she told me he was amazing and sweet and she couldn't wait to meet him irl but he lived pretty far away then after texting for about two weeks they shared some photos apparently his were just pictures he downloaded from the internet but she sent real ones with her face visible he then proceeded to threaten her to leak the pics online and also share them at her workplace if she doesn't send him new pics on a daily basis she blocked his number and his account on social media but he created new ones and spammed her i don't get why she sent him pics after two weeks and why she chose to keep her face in them instead of blurring it or cropping it after she told me i tried comforting her and offering my help but she kept saying how unfair this is and that she felt used by him after thinking he was a decent guy i told her it was a stupid idea from the beginning and she should have known better since something similar already happened to her friend before also in this day and age don't you hear enough horror stories about stuff like this to know you shouldn't do it she got mad that i didn't have empathy and doesn't really speak to me anymore am i the jerk for not having empathy with her i'm gonna say ops not the jerk here because i don't think they did anything wrong here first and foremost op said that they were there for them and they tried comforting them and offering their help and i think beyond that it was just a case of what the friend's looking for versus how ops feeling or thinking i don't think gop is a jerk but i can understand why their friend's frustrated when if they're only there looking for some consoling and some listening and in return they get a well wasn't it a stupid idea i don't know was opie the jerk here let me know our next story is from apprehensive top 8340 am i the jerk for leaving my husband at home while our kids and i went on a mini vacation all week we had been talking about going a couple hours out of town to get out of the house he brought it up but wanted me to plan everything out we couldn't agree on what to do but knew where we were going the morning of the day we were to leave today he asks me when we were going to leave i tell him i'm going to work out and shower and then i'll be out he swore at me saying that meant we probably weren't going to go after i showered i then began to make sure my things and my two boys things were all packed while i also got myself and the two boys dressed my husband sat on the couch the entire time he came to me halfway through and asks if there's enough room in my tiny luggage for his things as well but i told him no because i had the boys and my things in there this is tiny enough for an airplane carry-on he walks away i then load everything into the car and put shoes on the boys and my husband sits on the couch i ask him if he has his stuff to put in the car he says no and that he didn't think i wanted him to go and says have a nice trip while crying i look at him and think to myself you sat on the couch the entire time and did not help me whatsoever you couldn't even pack your own things all he had to do was bring me his things and i could have packed it for him i refused to pick out clothes for a grown man so i left it took him eight hours to text me to even make sure we were alive he didn't even have to check on me but you'd think he'd want to check on his children addon that's not the only bag we have to pack things we tend to take several different bags on trips i asked for help two different times to get the boys ready and i also stated that we would be leaving shortly after i exercised normally 30 minutes and showered opie i think is definitely not the jerk and i think this husband is a huge man-child with some kind of issue the fact that they can see you actively packing and getting the kids ready and your stuff ready and just sits there and then at the very end is like well i guess you didn't want me to go it's like you don't even seem like you want to go our next story is from cute ad 263 am i the jerk for banning sister-in-law from easter party because of the stunt she pulled on our daughter's birthday i'm 40 year old female my husband 41 year old male has a half sister who's 30. she's not my favorite and my husband isn't crazy about her either she's always involved in a different multi-level marketing every time we see her she quits every other job she has after a month asks us for money and has a new boyfriend every time we see her our daughter 13 has always been crazy about her though she's the fun aunt there's been numerous other times we've been upset with her because of something she said or did around our daughter that we found inappropriate but her 13th birthday takes the cake this happened two weeks ago our daughter turned 13 and what sister-in-law decided to do for her was to take her to the mall so she can buy her some clothes she wants no problem with that at all but the secret present is what husband and i have flipped over turns out she took our daughter to one of her friend's apartments who pierced her belly button i found out when i found daughter disinfecting it a few days later our daughters expressed wanting this to her dad and i and we firmly said no my husband thinks they're trashy and i sort of agree maybe when she's a little older if that's really what she wants but 13 no way also sister-in-law didn't take her to a place that does piercings she just had her friend do it how do we know that her friend knows what she's doing how do we know her materials are clean horribly disrespectful and dangerous in our opinion because of this we're not allowing sister-in-law at our house for easter our daughter's upset and sister-in-law is raging at my husband at the end of the day she took our daughter to do something that we firmly said no to and potentially put her at harm we also aren't going to allow our daughter to go with her aunt alone anywhere anytime soon are we jerks for this i don't think they're the jerks for that i think it's very understandable even necessarily not because of the piercing itself but because of the lack of respect and concern for you knowing even what you're doing with your 13 year old kid also i'm kind of curious if somebody really was like dead set on wanting a belly button piercing how old do you think they should be before they're even allowed to get that was the kid in the story way too young to even be getting a belly button piercing let me know what you guys think in the comments down below this next story is from important enough 05 am i the jerk for telling my parents i'm not my sibling's mom i 16 year old female am the oldest of four kids as the oldest sister a lot of responsibility is placed on me two of my siblings 13 year old female and 9 year old male are old enough to care for themselves however my parents have had a baby female in 2019 and she's now three since the day she was born it's been my responsibility to watch her which i have no problem with but sometimes it gets tiresome don't get me wrong i love all my siblings and i try to do my best for them but i'm so tired when it comes to my three-year-old sister i'm expected to bathe feed and help her get potty trained but bear in mind when i get off school i have to go to work three days of the week and then come home and take care of my sister which barely gives me any time for myself i've complained to my parents multiple times i'm tired of watching their child but it's always when i was your age i was watching my little siblings no matter what i do it's always you're the oldest you should be able to handle it be the role model fine however a few weeks back it was a sunday night around 9pm and i was in my bedroom doing my hair when my parents called me into the kitchen they asked me to get my three-year-old sister and watch her so they could watch tv because she was being too loud playing with her toys i told them i couldn't because it was getting pretty late and i had to finish my hair for school tomorrow my mother snapped at me and told me that i needed to get my sister so they could have peace my dad's a truck driver and my mother works at an insurance agency but she works from home so i get it they can be tired after a long day but this day my father had gotten off work early around 2 pm and my mother logs off at 5 30 pm but i also have other siblings that are capable of watching her too so why me i then told her that my sister is not my responsibility and that i wasn't the one who conceived her and gave birth my father then joined the argument and took my mom's side saying that i was a lazy witch that should be helpful because my parents get tired of working 24 7 and need a break i was so heated that i told my parents i'm not my sibling's mom and i refused to watch my sister i then proceeded to walk away and shut my door and continued getting ready the next morning my mom and dad were saying that i'm a jerk for not helping my parents out when they're so tired and need to relax i told my friends what happened when i got to school and they said i wasn't in the wrong but i can't help but to feel guilty for what i did so am i the jerk op is definitely not the jerk what they're doing already and what they've done already is like way more than they ever should have expected of them the fact that there is one night where you're doing your hair and you're getting ready for bed your parents are there and they've been off work since mid-afternoon and they still can't find it in their hearts to let you just take off for the night watching their kid it's kind of ridiculous i know they're tired but you can't just take off parenting well you can if you want to be a terrible parent our next story is from potentialbeat3757 am i the jerk for trying to get my fiancee to convert for me i was raised by a modern orthodox jewish family in queens new york city which is a scary thing to say on reddit my mother 62 year old female is a first generation immigrant the teen parents who escaped from germany in the late 30s and early 40s my grandparents who are 99 and 100 years old my father's a soviet immigrant who came from what was then the ussr to the states as a child with his mother and siblings while i 25 year old male don't really live in the modern orthodox communities anymore and moved out of the states for university when i was 18 i'm still a practicing jew just to give a lower level than i once was and i'm engaged to an irish catholic woman i met at university who i'll call eve 26 year old female even i met in freshers week and have been together since halfway through first year eve's parents are both irish going back centuries and eve was born and raised in ireland as well as growing up very strictly catholic going to catholic schools and mass and having catholic ideals implanted in her eve identifies as atheist spiritual slash pagan now and has completely disconnected herself from her catholic faith my parents and eve's parents do not get on as you would imagine eu's parents wanted to marry a nice irish catholic boy not a first and second gen european immigrant and immigrant from the states my parents want eve to convert to judaism for me as their faith is very important to them and they fought so hard for it and they want jewish grandchildren eve has no plans to convert for me and i'm fine with that i have no plans to convert for her neither of our parents are thrilled but even i are in love and live several hundreds of miles away from both our parents i have several friends from my shule whose wives have converted for their marriage and it's starting to make me doubt myself does eve really love me if she won't convert for our marriage is eve not converting prove she's still attached to her catholic faith i also feel a hole in my heart many of my relatives died because they were jewish and there's not many of us left do i really love eve more than i want to have jewish children and grandchildren and continue my family line so long we've been killed for it and as things are getting more serious i would like to have more children with jewish parents i could still raise them as such but it wouldn't be the same i asked eve if she would ever consider it and she blew up at me calling me a jerk for even suggesting it as i've brought it up before and she said no i think i've reached a place where i can't marry her even though i love her because my lineage is very important to me we've been together for years and it'll break both our hearts so am i the jerk for trying to get my fiance to convert for me i think more or less it's not really about whether you're a jerk or not it's about whether you're compatible if you're going to try and force them to convert for you or put a pressure on them then yeah i think you are the jerk sadly if it's something that is just such a contingency i don't know if it'll work out but forcing that when very clearly eve does not want to does make you a jerk our next story is from an anonymous poster am i the jerk for telling off my deceased husband's attention-seeking ex my husband of 10 years died six months ago in a car accident and recently his girlfriend from high school found out and posted a sympathy message on facebook stating how great of a guy he was and how sorry she was to hear and her prayers go out to his beautiful family normally this wouldn't have bothered me so much but this woman was a constant sore spot in our relationship she was my exact opposite i'm dominican and grew up poor and she's a spoiled blonde who grew up wealthy she dated them for over a year but hid their relationship from her racist parents who despised him for being hispanic during their senior year she suddenly breaks up with him with zero explanation in a letter and immediately moves on with a wealthy classmate who's obviously parent-approved this hurt my husband so much that he dropped out of school to avoid seeing her i met him soon after but he never got over it or her even years later something as simple as seeing her on social media would put him into a depression for days so seeing her posting on this memorial page after causing him to quit school set me off and i simply told her that if she thought so highly of him in death perhaps she should have treated him better in life most of my friends and family support this but a few have told me i'm being unreasonable am i the jerk here by defending my husband from someone who hurt him i'm gonna say op is the jerk i think their feelings are very emotionally charged and i think it's bringing up just bad memories seeing anything from them but what they said wasn't inherently bad you don't have to defend your husband when there's nothing to defend him from in that situation our next story is from massive cell 9959 am i the jerk for refusing to help a co-worker who moved out of state i work in an office setting most of us were allowed to work remotely two years ago my co-worker jill ended up moving from san diego to utah because the cost of living is cheaper in utah than san diego she's living quite well she'll had someone who volunteered to help her with office stuff like her mail so it worked out great for her i never liked jill because she took advantage of me when i started and never apologized or made it right she also threw me under the bus the person who helped your left and are companies requiring staff to come back to the office twice a week jill panicked because she obviously can't fly from utah to california every week our boss said he was fine with her working remotely because she can do 95 of her job at home as long as she has someone to handle her office stuff like mail guess who she asked i asked her why she was asking me and she said i was nice and i'm in the office regularly then i asked her what i was going to get she was confused i said i understood how valuable it would be if i helped her but i'm not doing it for free because i'm not a nice person i don't care if she's in a different state i'm busy enough i don't over anything i don't work for her i don't have to help her and quite frankly i really didn't like her i'm not saying no but what is she going to do for me all she said was that we're a team and that i'm in the office so i said sorry i'm too busy now she's coming up with plan b's that are being shot down by hr and compliance honestly i would have settled for a gift card every now and then it befuddles me how some beggars want to be choosers there's a few instances that led to me cutting her off i had just started and she would dump her work on my desk at the last minute i wasn't hired to help her then she started promising that i would do stuff for other people without asking me the worst was when she asked me to mail out paperwork that she prepared her work was all wrong and she blamed me for not checking her work that was like four months into the job and i never got a single thanks i told her off and she found another sucker i think opie's definitely not the jerk and honestly in jill situation i feel like this is like a well you don't know if you don't ask type situation what else are they gonna do see if you can get some free work out of somebody obviously opie's not the jerk for refusing to do that our next story is from grow petter am i the jerk for keeping a caged dove at my shop and letting kids pet it i 26 year old female consider myself an animal lover there was a wedding a few months ago near my shop because there's a really beautiful place nearby for pictures they let some white doves fly for the ceremony or the pictures i saw them fly around and thought they'd be taken back in or something but that wasn't the case the street cats had some for lunch and some flew away one particularly chubby one was flying around like a hen clearly failing to take off i thought it would get run over so i felt that and took it in i called the company and asked if they wanted it back and they said they had no obligation to take it back because it's not an invasive species and they weren't coming back for the one i called animal control same response try to adopt it out but it's not really considered a pet not in my country at least i sell trinkets but i didn't want to keep it free in the shop so i bought the biggest cage and set a minute before i open and after i close i let it out and it wobbles around a vet told me it would never fly because it's grown caged and its muscles haven't developed properly i let some kids pet it and it enjoys the attention for sure a lady came in yesterday and she was out of her mind mad that the birds in a cage and called me horrible i tried to explain but she just scoffed and went to look around a client asked me for something and i lost her from sight for about five minutes when i glanced back up my dove was gone i ran out and i saw the woman dramatically throwing it in the air the bird awkwardly flopped on the floor and ran back to the shop like there's no tomorrow she kept fuming calling me a horrible person and an abuser and went away she left a bad review there was another customer that complained am i the jerk i think i'm doing what's best for it i think ops not the jerk there's probably some kind of scenario that you can find for it like a rehabilitation thing but the next best thing is making sure that the quality of life isn't outright horrendous i mean it's either opie do that for them in a cage and let them out and let them experience some stuff and feed them or let them out on the street until a wild cat comes and rips its head off our next story is from seagoat888 am i the jerk my boyfriend won't let me sit on his couch my boyfriend just moved into a new place and bought a new couch it's beautiful and comfortable and he's very proud of it we woke up today and worked out a couple hours after we biked the store and home the temperature's about 70 fahrenheit with low humidity so i didn't break a sweat he was cleaning up for about 30 minutes and then noticed i was on it turns to me and tells me to get off the couch because i'm dirty i got off but i think this is ridiculous i've been on it already for 30 minutes anyways how much dirtier am i going to make it it really bothers me that i don't feel comfortable in his home who's the jerk in the situation if anyone i don't know this is a really tough one because without being upfront about not wanting to get it dirty you're going over to your boyfriend's place you just want to sit down but i also get it from his perspective it's a brand new couch and then somebody's working out and came home and sat on it i'm gonna say o.p is not the jerk because it's a couch you're gonna sit on it it's probably going to get dirty and there was no mention of it beforehand our next story is from an anonymous poster am i the jerk for blowing up on my mom when she didn't go along with the plan to make mother's day about my wife this year my wife and i had our first baby 10 months ago so this is her first mother's day as a mom we talked about expectations and she said that she wants the actual day to be about her from now on because our moms both had plenty of mother's days and our nuclear family takes priority for some background mother's day usually consists of splitting the day between the two families my mom picks what she wants for the day and sometimes it isn't even kid-friendly this is her second grandchild my sister who's a mom does some stuff in the morning with her family but then everything else is about my mom also my mom and wife really don't like each other my mom doesn't act on it but they've never liked each other and i can see them both physically cringing when they're together i can get that i was a little nervous about how both of our families would react my mother-in-law is having a hard time with it but said she agrees my mother-in-law picked another date for us to celebrate her though and it was all good i told my mom and she said it was fine but my stepdad was making comments under his breath i asked my mom what alternative dates she wanted and she said she doesn't celebrate things on other days and i can do whatever i want but if i don't want to come to the family thing she isn't going to have a fake mother's day just for us i tried explaining that it would still be a celebration and we want to do something for her my mom said it was fine and she didn't want to then my younger sister walked in and my stepdad was like do you know what this jerk is doing my sister began yelling at me so i was blunt that my wife takes priority now and i refuse to one make her uncomfortable two spend mother's day at a winery when kids can't drink my mom told us all to shut up and went into the kitchen i followed her and asked if she was hurt and she said no but she doesn't like to open up i explained that we wanted to do something so please pick another day and she said she already said no and leave her alone i knew my wife was going to take that badly so honestly i lost my temper a bit and screamed at her that she's acting like a two-year-old she's always selfish picking stuff that inconveniences the actual kids and she doesn't even deserve much because she's a lame grandmother never visits never helps i did apologize right after but she was just like okay and rolled her eyes i'm gonna say everybody in this situation is a jerk it just seems like there's so much dysfunction nobody can agree on anything there's no compromising from either side whatsoever there's a vicious claws being drug out petty things being said underhanded things to make them upset top to bottom there's some dysfunction our next story is from seeing ghosts act 2 am i the jerk for proving a point to my friend and making her pay up on our bet alright so this is stupid but it's turned into a problem for our friend group so i 26 year old male am single and so is a lot of my friend group we tend to talk about our relationships pretty openly as we're a tight crew so me and my friend jenny 27 year old female tend to always take the opposite point of view on things eileen conservative and she's very much left-leaning she's a feminist and very vocal about social issues we always keep things civil and friendly we're good friends but kind of rivals if that makes sense the friend group loves to get the two of us going so recently i was dating a girl casually after a few dates she said she wasn't feeling a spark but really wanted to stay friends i told her she was a very nice person but i didn't see us being friends the girl and jenny know each other so i think jenny found out about it so jenny asked in front of the friend group why i didn't want to stay friends with said girl i said i just didn't really view her as a friend this started the whole debate on whether guys and girls can be friends i said that yes they could be but not if the original goal was a romantic one she said that i was wrong and that she had plenty of guy friends who were once potential relationships i said bs that those guys are on a roster waiting for a chance she said i was wrong and started calling me a jerk i've said it simple facts that unless they were always just friends that those guys would jump at the chance to hook up with her if given the chance we were pre-gaming to go out so our whole friend group debated on this for over an hour jenny kept getting pissed at me individually though saying how insulting it is to imply guys are only her friends to get in her pants i said maybe not every guy but a majority of those dudes on her roster are waiting for a call up she said wanna bet i said sure let's do it i said text three of your closest guy friends that you're lonely and want to hook up i'll bet that two of the three of them will show up within 30 minutes she laughed and said how much this is easy money we agreed on 100 and the friend group got super invested in this bet well she sent out the text and all three dudes start texting her asking when she wanted them to come over she got all upset and went to the bathroom i read the room and didn't make fun of her once she came back but i told her she needed to pay up she told me she wasn't paying because it was a stupid bet that proved nothing i said that i would have paid if i was wrong so she needed to pay up on her bet the guys all agree that she made the bed and needs to pay up the girls are saying i'm being a jerk about it i think it's all fair because she took the bet confident that she would win and i'm sure if i was wrong and didn't want to pay i'd be getting roasted for it am i the jerk i'm gonna say both sides are the jerks here i think both sides are being very argumentative and in that situation they just found out three of their friends who they thought were friends are secretly just hoping for a hookup session so like you might be entitled to that money but like give them a minute to kind of get over it and cope you have plenty of time to go badger them for the hundred dollars every so often and you have plenty of witnesses so like let them process everything and then get that hundred dollars later and our final story of the day is by throwaway 666 with a lot of zeroes am i the jerk for kicking my friend out of my bedroom so my wife could take a nap so i 28 year old male have a wife 27 year old female who works full time as a cna while she's in school to become an autopsy technician she works a lot she's constantly picking up extra shifts working doubles and even triples she does all that on top of going to school full time because of that she often takes a nap after work well yesterday i had a friend over who i'll call e my wife and e do not get along as e makes her uncomfortable but she and i don't prevent one another from seeing friends just because one of us doesn't like the other's friend he was over at mine at my wife's house playing video games when my wife calls to tell me she's on her way home from work she sounds exhausted and i asked her if she felt okay to drive and if not i'd come pick her up from work and go back together in the car later she says she's fine to drive and that she'll see me later i said okay and told her that i loved her e and i go back to playing video games it's worth mentioning that the only tv my wife and i have is in our bedroom i was laying on the bed playing and e was sitting in my desk chair about 15 minutes later or so i hear my wife come in the house and call out to let me know she was home i come into the living room and give her a kiss she all but collapses into my arms exhausted to the point that she couldn't even walk to the bedroom i asked her if she's okay and she says yeah just a long day at work i really need a nap i nodded and told her to come lay down on the bed when we get to the bedroom i politely tell e that he needed to leave as my wife was exhausted and we could play later that night he asks why he has to leave and why my wife just can't sleep while he and i keep playing i explained that it was just a game and that my wife and her needs came first he then asks why my wife couldn't just take a nap on our living room couch i told him i wasn't making her sleep on the sofa just because he wanted to keep playing he gets pissed and slams his controller down on the dresser and goes to leave before he does he turns to my wife and tells her i'll bet you're happy he always feels like he has to pick you over anyone else he leaves and slams the door on the way out my wife turns to me and starts to apologize saying she could have just slept on the couch i tell her no she couldn't have and told her to get some rest later that night my other friends were blowing up my phone saying things along the lines of bros before hoes and saying it was rude to kick e out just so my wife could sleep all of my married friends however are on my side saying my wife's needs come first before my friends he's now saying he won't speak to me until i apologize so am i the jerk i think op is definitely not the jerk i think their friend e is a man-child and can't understand that some things are more important than their gaming session and god forbid somebody who's working super hard has to take a nap in their bed just put a pause on it resume it later and move on with your life stop being a petty jerk but with that being said that's all the time we have for today so of all these stories i've read today which is your favorite and why let me know in the comments down below and if you haven't yet if you could like and subscribe that would mean a lot to me whatever you do whether it's liking subscribing turning 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what screams I'm poor but pretending to be rich a base model luxury car like a BMW 220i or 320i an nbcla an Audi base level A3 or A4 Etc they will go around touting I drive a BMW but they likely have it on lease and are overpaying for what the car provides and they're paying out for insurance at least twice a week I have someone on the phone unable to understand why the quoted premium for their BMWs almost 50% higher than the quote for the other cars in their household it's because not only are BMWs expensive to repair but statistically BMW drivers are reckless in the road I mean the 20i engine is what 180 horsepower but it has the badge of BMW and they bank and the fact that most people don't know cars that well so they can pretend to be fancy now this isn't everyone who drives those cars some people just like the styling of the car but didn't want to pay real luxury car prices so they got the cheapest model they could but those are rare because most of them can get a much better deal with a Toyota Camry and people who actually like BMW as a car company actual car enthusiasts would rather get a used 35 engine at least where I live you see a lot of these base model leas driving around it makes you chuckle it's always driven by the same guy too the guy who has an air of I'll be your boss soon enough but he looks like he's barely recovered from his weekend of partying as he drives to his cubicle story two going out for a big fancy meal to a nice restaurant and dressed to the nines you show up an hour and a half late order the cheapest stuff on the menu complain that the soda is flat and the hopes that it'll be calmed refuse to drink anything because it's expensive take 45 5 minutes to figure out the bill because the restaurant can't split checks and you've got to dig in your bag for that extra $10 bill have several cards Decline and then not tip and all throughout the night being more interested in taking pictures in the beautiful restaurant to post on Instagram and pretend that you live like this all the time than enjoying the actual food this happens at my workplace every single weekend we started putting the gratuiti on any tables that fulfilled a certain checklist because we knew we'd get screwed otherwise for real I once served a table like this where the girl's card was declined when I brought it back to tell her what had happened she already knew because the bank texted her she was only then moving money from savings into checking on her phone and I happened to see over her shoulder that she had $38 in checking who the hell goes out to a Manhattan Steakhouse with $38 in the bank Story three how Dominican families fight to the nail to give their kids Nike or Adidas before they can even walk I work with someone who's married to a Dominican and they're constantly in tens of thousands of dollars in credit card debt because both of them need to have the latest everything it's constant photos and social media of the whole family new clothes and the latest gadgets and then she cries at work about not being able to afford the mortgage sometimes I just don't get it the reason I included the cultural aspect is also because this colleague tells me they send money to the Dr all the time so that other families can buy stuff too that I always ask why not send money for education and maybe investing but I'm always told that the money is used for designer clothes and shoes most of the time being seen in expensive clothes in a fancy car at a hip restaurant is the goal of Dominican socialites it doesn't matter if you have money or not I've seen people drive poor Cayenne SUVs but then live with their parents also people send money back home for two reasons the family needs it or they're flexing the dollar or any currency to be honest has more purchasing power over there story four my partner is a financial service manager at a car dealership her job in a nutshell is to submit your credit card application to the banks to get financing for your car your credit score will affect your car's interest rate in which bank and what amount of Bank who's willing to lend you I feel like the world's biggest equalizer is when you Equifax report opens on a computer screen I know this is obvious to People Like Us on PFC but it isn't obvious to the majority of people who will walk through a dealership trying to buy their dream car a customer came in wanting to purchase a used 2012 Acura sedan it was dressed to the nines with a big Louis Vuitton belt leather shoes a sweater cardigan a fresh haircut you name it the customer was in their late 20s and had to get their near retired mother to co-sign for the car my partner was wearing a belt from a luxury brand if the customer commented and how that belt didn't look like it cost much and he could buy one of those I have more stories from experience but they don't fit the topic of the conversation but I will say this you won't believe how many people's credit scores are less than 650 some families don't own their house in their rich neighborhood they're rented they lease their luxury cars and live paycheck to paycheck with no savings whatsoever the credit scores ruined because they can be slightly delinquent on these items but they won't get into collections or repossession territories so only their credit score is impacted they typically come from immigrant backgrounds where her face is a huge deal Story five the cousins technically my cousin and his wife had a nice house a brand new workshop garage and a used but $40,000 camping trailer they then moved to a brand new home before selling their old place both had next to New one-year-old vehicles I thought wow especially when she quit her job to do an MLM they had two kids by then so it made sense for her to stay home rather than pay for daycare for two kids which here is more than $2,000 a month I presumed she made a ton of her office job and he cleaned up as a drywaller tons of work for him in our city later I came to know that one of their parents had to buy their original House when it didn't sell so that my cousins could have a mortgage in the new house the parents are now landlords of a house halfway across the city and the trailer money all came from my grandmother I believe it was or is a loan rather than a gift but I can't believe they went to the 80s something old lady for cash I presume their vehicles were on long-term loans as well that much unnecessary debt makes me feel ill sure I'd love a new car over my 12-year-old one but my car still runs just fine that's 400 to $800 a month saved a new house or renovating mine would be heaven but my house is safe fairly spacious for a size family and while not pretty or updated isn't ugly I don't even know how much I saved per month and while I can see a trailer being important to them because as a family they Camp every weekend I'm pretty sure there's one cheaper than $440,000 story six I live in a region with a huge mining industry miners get paid really well with almost no expertise needed and they get huge production bonuses I've seen this exact situation more times than I can count a 20-year-old guy started mining with overtime and a bonus he gets 120 or 150,00 a year so he dranks in parties paying a $500 bar tab every weekend he gets a girlfriend and he buys a house she gets pregnant so he pays for a huge wedding not long after she gets pregnant again so he gets a bigger house then he keeps getting money so he buys a huge pickup truck a smaller car for the wife an ATV a snowmobile and a boat he trades those in for newer models every few years all of this while paying the minimum payment and everything so he takes forever to actually own any asset his children go to school so he complains a bit I didn't go to school and make good money but pays for their college and university around 55 years old he gets into a small accident or develops a condition that prevents him from working so he starts getting disability pay since he barely finished high school if fat all he has trouble getting other work so he starts selling his toys one by one he ended up retiring very poor because he never put much money to the side as he was always neck deep in payment sometimes if the metal price dips mindes close down and some guys even go into bankruptcy because they have to default on so many loans all that despite a great salary in a region with a very low cost of living story seven that's easy I'd say credit cards I've known people who order food for delivery almost every day and buy new electronics constantly they also tend to be the types who say they don't have money but then the next day there's another skip the dishes bag at the door someone told me their minimum payment for the credit card and I had to stop myself from saying what out loud I recently looked at some average Consumer Debt statistics the amount was mindboggling to me but it's so normalized I have several friends who actually don't have credit cards or any sort of access to to a credit line because they know that if they got carried away they could never pay it back hell I know people who make good money who will never pay back their cards as long as they continue the lifestyle they're living the thing is that's normal all around me I'll hear things like I'm waiting for X until I finish paying off my line of credit or they'll tell me they paid off their credit but 5 months later they're overleveraged again it's so accepted in Canadian Society to just be in debt I know a lot of people making minimum payments for using rap and their student loans because I guess the loan will be forgiven after 10 or 15 years so of those people make more than I did when I started paying off my student loans I know people who are anxious when they get laid off because their line of credit's monthly interest is high enough that they need income to keep paying for it and so on and so forth at the end it's not really worth looking at and gloating over someone else's situation even though who doesn't like feeling like they're more responsible sometimes just know your goals and don't let yourself get carried away many people who are seemingly living a better life than you are also Meed in debt and not all of them are happy about that some deal with chronic unhappiness or depression so they spend money to make the pain go away it doesn't work you can't fill a hole in your heart by throwing money at it but they sure do try I've known a lot of people like that since we're halfway through and you're obviously enjoying the content so far hit that like button and subscribe for more flexing gone wrong stories story8 I'm not entirely sure if this belongs here but here goes I work as a host in a small restaurant with average prices $10 to $15 a plate plus drinks Etc yesterday two middle-aged women with generic care and haircuts pulled up in new Mercedes came in and immediately became outraged that we had a waiting list due to being understaffed in the middle of a lunch rush I offered to put them on the list and one of them pulled out her credit card showed it to me and assertively said okay are you going to see us now I assumed that she had one of those Limitless cards which I literally couldn't care less about and told her that it didn't matter and she' just have to wait they went and stood outside even though we had set up chairs so people could sit where they waited and glared at me the entire time the kept coming in and asking why I couldn't seat them which I answered with a truthful answer being terribly understaffed as two servers cook had been injured in a car accident that morning they're fine no major injuries but the car was total eventually after a 20-minute wait I called them and seat them on the patio they proceed to order about $80 worth of food and drinks going so far as to pour their first round of bloody marries onto the ground just to prove the unfortunate people around them that they didn't care about the cost of their food then when they were given their bill they waited until the server went back inside then ran out of the patio gate hopped in their car and drove away without paying unfortunately for them Karen had decided to back into her parking space out front with her license plate clearly visible to the outside security camera a police report was then immediately filed by my manager it was a good day story 9 I used to sell cars at a premium automakers dealership one day a middle-aged couple arrived for their scheduled appointment the wife twirling her Mercedes keys entered with an air of disdain while the husband was notably pleasant as we discussed options for the car they were interested in the wife's Behavior grew increasingly disrespectful after a brief exchange I opted out of accompanying them on the test drive delegating it to a colleague well my colleague was out with him I took the opportunity to inspect their trade in Mercedes it turned out to be a base model CLA in surprisingly poor condition cluttered with garbage and makeup accessories notably it had a salvage title due to a recent serious accident following the test drive my colleague explained that wholesalers refused the trade in due to its salvage title when the husband called to discuss the matter he was understanding admitting that it was his wife's idea to conceal the car's history despite this the wife continued to berate mccague over the phone boasting about her Mercedes and thriving to buy another in the end the husband apologized for his wife's behavior and expressed genuine interest in our car once his lease expired my experience I've learned that wealth isn't always flaunted those who do often have something to hide genuine buyers come from all walks of life regardless of what they drive or wear story 10 buying a house you can't afford makes you look good to other people people that owned a current house bought it two years ago before listing it and couldn't sell it for another year so I was trying to figure out why they're trying to sell it so soon after buying it and why they couldn't sell it for a whole year I found the W Facebook and tried to find some posts indicating that they dealt with major house damage some awful neighbors or something that would explain it and then I found it a three-year-old post about finding her dream home and how the wraps bought it they bought a house they couldn't afford so they could look successful in their pyramid scheme hoping that would make them successful so they could eventually afford it but that didn't work out I checked her Facebook a week or so after closing they bought a forclosed fix me up home good for them right she shared that in a big post about how she bought the big house because she thought it was her dream home but soon realized they're just walls and decided to down side so they could spend more time outside somehow thinking he works in the process I checked on her more recently she made a post saying she's been lying to herself and was hoping it works apparently it never did story 11 I don't know if this counts but I used to live in the ghetto like a really bad apartment complex and neighborhood and it found it hilarious when people would come out walking around with the newest iPhones expensive shoes and expensive clothes but they would live in the smallest apartments with like two to three people sharing a room I mean these apartments had three bedrooms at the most yet a lot of these types of people had is like 5 to 9 in one apartment we got out a long time ago but I've seen and known of people who still live there to this day I left like 8 to n years ago and now own land in our own home we never spent more than we could and probably looked a bit ordinary or whatever but we were happy and now own our own business and are very successful I feel bad for them I don't think they were ever taught to save their own money and not waste it the moment you get it frequently there were people who had very nice cars but couldn't pay their rent women who would always come in with a sub story about how they couldn't pay all the rent but had expensive purses and jewelry there were guys who sold substances and we couldn't kick them out because they always paid the rent until one day they got locked up once there was a guy with an entire apartment full of expensive Electronics but no money to pay rent there was also a guy who went to the casino every day once a guy who made $50,000 a year begged me for an apartment since it was a low-income building he didn't qualify he had filed for bankruptcy multiple times in his life had his car repossessed several times and couldn't get an apartment anywhere because he ruined his credit story 12 I see this a lot with my circle of acquaintances but I only know the reason reasons behind one of them he makes about $80,000 or something a year but he also owns a Swanky condo in downtown Toronto and a boat his parents paid his down payment I think he's paying the mortgage but his parents are paying like 10% of that too he went half on the boat with his sister the boat was bought used for $22,000 the whole family only uses it once every two weeks or so in the on season so he has it for the rest it makes it look like he's constantly boating and that it's his boat the people in my circle of acquaintances who have houses in Toronto I'm 28 all come from upper middle class families I would be surprised if they all got help from their families oh another one is a guy who doesn't necessarily flaunt his wealth but just always seems to have money he's going on trips all the time posting nice photos Etc most recently he went on a long backpacking trip with a nicely outfitted Sprinter van those things aren't cheap he's a friend of mine but I'm not close enough with them to ask how he makes his money because I've never known him to be employed like at all I asked a mutual friend of ours what the deal was when I saw his hashtag van posts it turns out he straight up lives off of his parents cash they seem to be totally fine with it so this is a guy who will never have to work a day in his life he's not a flaunter necessarily he doesn't buy cars or houses or anything like that so I sincerely think that even when his parents are gone and he gets the inheritance he'll keep doing what he's doing story 13 I know someone who basically mooches off of her rich parents she sees herself as an amazing entrepreneur and has a business in coaching people for things she's utterly unqualified to coach it began as teaching entrepreneurs how to Outsource and reclaim their time and when that fell flat she rebranded herself as a more generic life coach whenever her friends ask what she's up to she'll say she's busy with work but she's super vague about that and no one is entirely sure what exactly she does she spends all day posting photos from spas or day trips and flaunting or Chanel LV or Mercedes and thinly veiled hashir boss posts she makes the occasional post about attending some coaching or entrepreneur conference most recently she's moved to Mexico but as far as anyone can tell she's done nothing but stay at a resort do all her photos are of a pool or a fancy restaurant I think she's so accustomed to using her parents money as a crutch that she can't stop there's no other way she can afford her lifestyle but she'll continue to flaunt her brave self-made woman image all over social media and anyone who calls her out on it is now just another hater story 14 my aunt was what we call Mountain William it's a term for a hillbilly which we are to a degree who is had a taste of the finer life and wants everyone to think they're rich and in High Society I loved her to death she was and is my favorite aunt she was the sweetest most generous woman I might ever meet but her home had an air of falseness about it that shaped my view of people well into adult Ood she loved crystals bowls lamps and chandeliers in every room are made of crystal or fake Crystal baskets that were supposed to mimic wicker but were woven with fake gold wire with crystals embedded aesthetically she had fancy looking furniture and was probably expensive but the fact that her massage chair was probably the most expensive thing in her whole house just enhanced the fake richness of the whole thing don't get me wrong her home is beautiful and as a kid I was so afraid to touch anything because it looked so nice but it also just felt fake so to me surrounding yourself with grandiosity like that feels fake fake story 15 I work with a guy who makes around $180,000 per year since moving to the area he's purchased a $500,000 house spent 100,000 arenos 125,000 in a boat 70,000 on an SUV that's not even powerful enough to tow the boat so he rents a truck to move it spent 30,000 in a Seido 30,000 in a hot tub and 20,000 in a sauna all this spending has occurred in less than 3 years so you might be asking how do I know all of this he brags about it in fact the guy doesn't shut up so everything mentioned is right from his mouth furthermore he's divorced and pays thousands a month in child support he has no Investments no savings and everything is on payments he had to borrow money for the down payment in his house from his dad the KnockOn effect this had with others at work has been beneficial as none of us dare look as dumb and irresponsible as this to our peers so that wraps up our I'm poor but pretending to be rich real life stories if you found these eye opening be sure to check out this next video what are rich people problems you've seen Story 2 is something to look for forward to see you there
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op's family wants her to give them her house posted in my side account because I know for a fact that s reads stuff on this sub I f29 recently bought a house and a brand new car I will admit I probably splurge on my house more than I should but growing up very poor it has always been a dream of mine to live in a nice house I worked really hard to be where I am so much so that I undergo countless breakups because I always choose a career overo boys my brother M25 is currently jobless he worked as a tourist guide before and can barely make ends meet he has five kids now in counting as his wife announced her pregnancy recently he messaged me on Facebook that there is something he wants to talk about and I thought he wanted to name me godmother to his incoming baby I said sure and invited him to the house to get his approval about some things I modified for our parents I gave him a tour and he admired my house greatly saying things like how excited he is to bring the kids to my house I did not mind anything about it as I thought he meant a visit which I'm more than happy to host them for imagine my surprise when he finally sat me down and revealed what he wanted to talk about he wants me to give him my house I clarified whether he meant this house or the other house I bought for my parents which I still lived and it still has modifications on going with my dream house he said the house is big enough for his family and I can go visit them anytime I like he even offered that if I really wanted to live there I could go move into the maid's room and modify it for my personal use I was shocked and could not speak as he thanked me over and over for the house I finally asked him where the heck that idea came from and our mother told him I would give him my house I of course corrected that and this is where things have gone South my brother repeatedly said that since our mom said the house is his now I cannot do anything but give in I called my mother to tell him to duck off and lo and behold my mother sided with my brother to make this already long story short my whole family had cut me off and my parents disowned me until I gave my brother my house my father has been brought to the hospital over this fight and now I feel really bad the guy I'm seeing now said to just give that house to my brother and he'll help me buy another edit to clarify the house that they gave away is the newly bought one I thought I could raise five adorable fur babies my family home is in my name too as I had to take out a loan back then to buy it so yeah it may be obvious that I'm not the arsole at First Sight but I feel like I could be one because my father got hospitalized over the ensuing fight for the house edit to I'm trying to read all all the comments and I'm just so overwhelmed by your support I've been temporarily staying at a friend's house ever since your encouraging words really helped ease my mood I finally decided not to give this house away and sell the other one to help pay for the vast majority of the loan on my Dreamhouse I also decided to remove my parents access to my health plans and remove them from my insurance last but not least thank you for the award kind strangers reading your comments made me realize how ridiculously unreal this sounds in the comments op not a millionaire really I'm just earning really well my job has great demand but really low Supply and if I say so myself I'm more than good at it so the real millionaires had to pay me a fat paycheck to keep me maybe it's a cultural thing because it's an unspoken tradition that whoever earns more in the family must help the rest I'm mostly curious where where you can have parents as dependents for insurance I tried for my dad once and my state was like he can just un alive it's a common thing for young Professionals in my country everybody's dependents are their parents if you're single at least I'm a little jealous op don't be our health care is sht even for those who can afford it is this real this can't be real she's from the same country as me this scenario is not even new I can pick people on my friend list who can write stories so close to this that you'd say they're all copycats I mean my grandma pulled something like this for her kids update hello so a lot of people have reached out to me since my original post a lot has happened since then I'll try to include as many details as I can so I cut my family off back in December and removed them from all services that would benefit them by being connected to me since I figured hey Mom you told me I'm un alive to you then you get no free house from me anymore so the reactions from our extended family were just as I expected most of the adults sided with my mother my cousins expressed their support for me I got Uninvited by the family reunion I initially sponsored and isn't that just the worst my aunts and uncles had barricaded the gate when I arrived at my grandma mother's house I won't expand on this anymore because it still hurts my mother also sued me for selling the first house back in January it did not reach the higher courts and I won the Public's perception of me got worse though she and my brother took this defeat to twist the sympathy in their favor they posted on social media about how I am an ungrateful daughter and I owe them for everything I have they also blamed me for my father's un alive yes he passed away I did not even get to attend the funeral because I'm banned when this happened I almost gave in and signed the papers to give the house to my brother I blamed myself and believed them my selfishness un alived my father at this point my boyfriend convinced me to take a break from work and talk to a professional I did just that and I'm only now realizing how messed up the way they raised me was I can't believe it took internet strangers to realize something was wrong with how they treated me to be honest I almost decided not to post an update it was last month when my therapist suggested I should do it because this is where my breakup with them started on the bright side I saw how my fiance's family really likes me because of this ordeal I thought they were just being nice but sht happened and they supported me every step of the way especially when my partner had to go overseas for a one we day because of his job they really took care of me and even assured me that I'm worth more than my family thinks I am the nicest thing I ever heard in my life came from his mother anyway on July 21 my father's birthday my mother reached out to me she explained to me that she understood she had no right to ban me from his funeral but at the time all she could think about was how I cut them off my health plans which rendered them incapable of supporting my father's hosit hospitalization I did not realize this and we cried for hours she said she still blames me and doesn't think she can forgive me I think I understand her my therapist told me that thinking of what ifs is counterproductive what if I could go back in time I'd help them with this my brother won't talk to me that's fine the feeling is very mutual and the comments I still have doubts over the partner who said to just give the house to the brother and he'd then help help her buy a new one according to the original post something is very wrong with him too now he's convinced her to leave her job which doesn't reassure me Playing devil's advocate here perhaps his initial suggestion was made in dire circumstances with him watching her struggle over this it might have just been a spur of the moment I just want my loved one to stop hurting and here op says take a break from work which could mean taking a couple of weeks off not necessarily quitting her job you might be right but you also might not be I don't think we have enough information to make that kind of judgment about op's partner op o he means well I showed the comments about him back when I first posted and he made jokes about it he is actually better off than me he made the offer because he just wants my family to stop bothering me about the house this offer was made back when things were escalating for the worst regarding me taking a break from work it was what we had been planning even before covid and when the travel restrictions eased off there was always something coming up that pushed our travel plans however my work performance plummeted when my personal problems piled on top of one another so he literally had to beg me to take a break from work I just feel like I need to clarify this here he is an absolute godsent my partner treats me like a goddess I only had to name it and he would give it to me thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friends
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wibta for deciding to not have a wedding I 29f met my now fiance 35 male a little over 4 years ago we've been together through thick and think and have become somewhat Inseparable and consider one another as best friends and partner last year we decided that we want to take our relationship a step further and get married I didn't tell my parents right away because of cultural differences and didn't know how they would react to me wanting marryed outside of our nationality plus wanted to enjoy the time being engaged and not have to deal with the drama initially for context I'm Arab and my fiance is white/ americ after a few months I felt like it was finally time to tell my parents so I did in low and behold there was a lot of backlash just as I expected my parents started crying and cursing and accusing me of leaving them for a stranger and asking if he even is financially stable and can buy me a house and asked him a lot of questions about finances and nothing else I never wanted to marry for money and me and my fiance say share everything 50/50 and both work hard to keep us afloat and we are not rich or anything like that just two people trying to survive in this economy I was embarrassed of all these questions about money and showing that they don't care about anything else so I asked for my Gaz since all they care about marriage is what I can gain from it
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2 minutes before my alarm went off this morning I hear my drunk GF pissing on the bookshelf in our room throw away a account because this is embarrassing but I had to vent to someone I'm so annoyed she made a deal the other day she was going to quit drinking for a while since she's sort of all and nothing if she knows she's going to be taking a break she tends to go ham and get shitfaced so it makes her want to stop I don't relate to this mentality at all so it's been hard to deal with we've been together coming up on 12 years together and she didn't start drinking heavily until maybe 3 to 4 years ago definitely has an addictive personality though but it never got this bad about a year ago I noticed could drink a 12-pack of 16 o beers at night and eventually I got on her about it I've told her on numerous occasions she's ruining her body and it's taking a toll on us she agrees and knows there's a problem but just hasn't been able to stop well last night it was definitely 12 beers and a good amount of whiskey I've seen her drunk but not pissed drunk like that I went off on her and she just kept laughing and could barely get back into bed so here's my alarm clock going off at 5:50 a.m. to go to work and she's drunk as I was so annoyed I just left and she can clean everything up herself
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:00.040 --> :04.880 today we've got a great moldy food malicious  compliance story we'll get into that in a bit   :04.880 --> :11.160 but first want me to wash my dishes oh sure I will  my main has my photo and also here we are in a new   :11.160 --> :16.800 account this happened over 3 years ago and while  telling it to my friend she laughingly said such   :16.800 --> :22.520 a malicious compliance so decided to share here  when I first started to my very first corporate   :22.520 --> :28.320 job there was a kitchen full of utensils and  fridge and oven and stove and a dishwasher a   :28.320 --> :34.480 full-fledged kitchen for employes to make tea  coffee Heat their meals even cook they said I   :34.480 --> :39.520 can bring my own glasses and put them there or  use the companies also there was a woman who was   :39.520 --> :45.240 working in the kitchen let's call her neilly since  she puts rules willy-nilly like a bully second day   :45.240 --> :50.640 of my job dear neilly told me let me remind you  that no one should ever leave their dirty dishes   :50.640 --> :55.960 in the sink I was surprised by the claim since  I'm new and don't know a single crap I thought   :55.960 --> :01.280 this might be her way of bullying or it might  actually be true so I smiled and asked if this   :01.280 --> :07.640 means I have to wash my own glasses she said yes  don't make me repeat it twice honey let me remind   :07.640 --> :13.760 you there's a dishwasher if she isn't cleaning the  dishes her only remaining job is vacuum the office   :13.760 --> :19.920 once a week and bring tea or coffee to Chiefs to  meetings and to managers so I decided to gather   :19.920 --> :24.960 information and wait on it apparently neilly  has been working in the company for 20 years   :24.960 --> :31.200 and knows the CEO she knows how he drinks his tea  how he drinks his coffee when he drinks them what   :31.200 --> :38.240 he eats with his coffee and tea she knows all of  them if I know one thing that is never fight aight   :38.240 --> :43.560 with a person who knows how your boss likes his  coffee especially if you're replaceable so fight   :43.560 --> :49.520 was not an option cool I also learned that once  a week CEO brings a bag of fruits to the kitchen   :49.520 --> :54.720 to share in the company apparently he has a fruit  garden and goes there for weekends and she would   :54.720 --> :59.960 take fruits to her house at the end of the day old  employees knew that they would take one or two two   :59.960 --> :06.080 in the day that's how I learned this she said to  me I can get one from but it is hers so I refused   :06.080 --> :11.960 the first time offer thinking she bought it then  learned that it was brought by the CEO I think   :11.960 --> :17.880 she implied that the CEO brought it to her and she  was generous enough to share it with us peasants   :17.880 --> :23.320 but this is my interpretation of her statement  one thing about me I look young and naive I look   :23.320 --> :29.880 dumb as if there is some missing component in my  brain C malicious compliance from my desk I could   :29.880 --> :34.960 partially see the kitchen if I turn around so on  the day of the fruit delivery I was constantly   :34.960 --> :41.120 checking the kitchen when CEO came in I count  to 30 and went in as well to wash my glasses   :41.120 --> :47.040 of course I went in and said hi to everyone this  was my first time seeing CEO so he said you must   :47.040 --> :53.120 be new kindly and respectfully informed who I am  and he told me who he was I said sir I've checked   :53.120 --> :58.240 the company before entering and knew him which  he liked after I turned to wash my dishes he   :58.240 --> :04.000 asked me what I was doing and and I said oh I was  informed that all the staff wash their own dishes   :04.000 --> :09.320 at the same time our neilly said I must have been  mistaken on that while laughing and taking the   :09.320 --> :16.640 sponge and glasses out of my hand I said but you  as if shocked and cut myself as if realization hit   :16.640 --> :23.240 me then smiled like she's my best friend of course  I didn't stop there I looked at the fruits CEO   :23.240 --> :28.400 told me to take some fruits added that he brought  them to the company so all the staff could enjoy I   :28.400 --> :34.680 haven't said anything but from my expression CEO  asked what was wrong I told him nothing and said   :34.680 --> :40.040 I always thought they were nillies since then I  just smiled and asked if I can take a plate of   :40.040 --> :45.960 them with a huge plate of fruits accompanied by a  huge smile I went to my desk shared them with my   :45.960 --> :52.000 team I don't even like fruits couple hours later  I went to the kitchen and our dear neilly told me   :52.000 --> :58.040 I had misunderstood things and washing dishes was  her job and I shouldn't mistake it again and added   :58.040 --> :03.200 that the fruits were for everyone to share and I  should have taken more if I wanted I stupidly said   :03.200 --> :09.280 oh I didn't know and how sorry I am to cause her  trouble with a sorry smile guess you never had to   :09.280 --> :16.720 wash dishes and had fruits to eat every day if  your answer is Cleopatra probably yes but also   :16.720 --> :22.000 me neie would also bring tea and coffee to me  from time to time if someone she served did not   :22.000 --> :27.240 want to drink I would thank her with a huge smile  and take it apparently she does this to all the   :27.240 --> :33.280 employees she likes I called them fruits instead  of specifying what they were because CEO would   :33.280 --> :40.280 bring Apples oranges tangerines pears even sweet  cherries I don't remember what was the specific   :40.280 --> :46.080 fruit that day if anything friend or not knowing  each other were not I think this showed the CEO   :46.080 --> :51.800 that maybe I've been a little too hands off on  the operations here maybe I should stroll around   :51.800 --> :57.480 a little bit more and make sure everything is in  tiptop shape also hi I'm Steven and if you guys   :57.480 --> :02.160 enjoy awesome stories of malicious compli iance  why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down   :02.160 --> :07.640 below that said our next story is husband tries  to warn Neighbors about their Landscaping gets   :07.640 --> :13.360 told to mind his own business some background my  husband is pretty handy prior to co he had done   :13.360 --> :19.240 several flip houses as a fun side gig it's what  he loves to do and he became very familiar with   :19.240 --> :25.160 a ton of city codes during Co seems everyone was  suddenly buying houses to flip out of boredom and   :25.160 --> :31.120 prices skyrocketed so he put that on hold so then  he started doing house hold repairs and upgrades   :31.120 --> :35.560 building fences Etc around the neighborhood  as well to get a better understanding of the   :35.560 --> :41.640 neighborhood HOA bylaws and whatnot he joined  the HOA architectural committee through that   :41.640 --> :46.680 he learned all there was to know about what was  allowed and what was not how the process worked   :46.680 --> :53.960 how to work around things Etc long story short my  husband was very knowledgeable in what to do and   :53.960 --> :00.120 not do and various processes with the neighborhood  and the city our next door neighbor decided they   :00.120 --> :05.440 were going to start Landscaping their backyard  and they I guess planned to make theirs as similar   :05.440 --> :11.600 to our backyard as possible problem was despite  being our Nextdoor neighbors our land was quite   :11.600 --> :16.920 different for one thing behind our house was a  bunch of brush and pine trees maybe 3 to 4 ft   :16.920 --> :21.320 from the lake that's at the back of the house  we didn't have to do a whole lot to clear the   :21.320 --> :26.720 area but the brush on their property was about  onethird of their yard I'd say 10 ft from the   :26.720 --> :32.000 water also the way the houses on our street are  the land naturally made like a valley where the   :32.000 --> :37.040 house to our right is at the top we are in the  middle and the next two houses are at the bottom   :37.040 --> :42.520 before it very quickly rises again first thing the  neighbors did was cut down all the trees in their   :42.520 --> :48.720 backyard they were not small trees either but four  story tall trees or more husband and neighbor were   :48.720 --> :53.880 talking about the backyard plans when my husband  casually mentioned he was surprised the city gave   :53.880 --> :59.480 him permission to cut down so many trees in our  city you have to have an arborist give permission   :59.480 --> :04.800 to cut down any trees that were X ft tall neighbor  first said it wasn't the city's business what he   :04.800 --> :11.320 did with his backyard then told my husband to  mind his own business okay fair enough then they   :11.320 --> :15.640 started putting up the retaining wall to bring  it up to level with our property which would   :15.640 --> :21.320 have been about 7 to 8 ft tall basically they  were just stacking a bunch of cinder blocks my   :21.320 --> :26.840 husband uneasily asked if their landscapers had  ever done a retaining wall like that and if the   :26.840 --> :32.800 city approved it City says that if a retain pain  in wall is over 5 ft tall you need a structural   :32.800 --> :38.440 engineer to come out neighbor said again it wasn't  any of the city's business what he did to his yard   :38.440 --> :42.880 and for my husband to mine his own business while  they're filling up the backyard to bring theirs   :42.880 --> :48.880 level to ours the landscapers are dumping all  the dirt gravel and sand in the street locking a   :48.880 --> :53.760 little over half the road several of the neighbors  who had trucks would just hop the curb but other   :53.760 --> :58.240 neighbors with smaller cars were mad before my  husband could ask if they could put the dirt and   :58.240 --> :03.440 stuff in their driveway instead of the road like  everyone else neighbor went off on my husband to   :03.440 --> :09.760 freak right off well okay then my husband let them  continue working and didn't say a word as they   :09.760 --> :16.560 started constructing a 10ft tall fence which was  against HOA regulations fences couldn't be taller   :16.560 --> :22.640 than 6 ft between them starting construction 6  days a week before 7:00 a.m. and them blocking   :22.640 --> :28.240 the road I guess someone had had enough next thing  I know City officials are out there putting a big   :28.240 --> :34.600 butt sign in the yard saying all construction was  to be halted until further notice it wasn't us but   :34.600 --> :38.800 my husband found out through the architectural  committee that someone had complained about the   :38.800 --> :45.760 noise and the road blockage to the HOA who came  out to investigate saw everything they had done   :45.760 --> :51.160 and then reported them to the city they got a  hefty fine for every tree stump the city official   :51.160 --> :57.200 found the structural engineer said the retaining  wall was not sound and had to be redone and it had   :57.200 --> :02.920 to have regular inspections during it build the  HOA also told them that not only did they have   :02.920 --> :08.720 to take down their 10-ft tall fence but as they  did not get prior approval and because it was not   :08.720 --> :16.040 an approved design the HOA also hit them with a  hefty fine initially neighbor came after us for   :16.040 --> :22.200 tattling but we told them it wasn't us as nothing  they did affected Us in any way our kids are early   :22.200 --> :27.880 risers so even starting before 7 didn't bother us  my husband then said he tried to warn them this   :27.880 --> :33.520 would happen but neighbor told him to freak off  and mind his own business and he did landscaping   :33.520 --> :37.960 had started on Black Friday was shut down for 3  weeks while I guess they got things sorted out   :37.960 --> :45.400 by the city and HOA their backyard is still not  finished honestly these people were morons for   :45.400 --> :51.040 going on and doing this and having this Backwoods  we leav in the country they can't tell me what I   :51.040 --> :58.320 can do with my land knowing that you are in an HOA  like you were just like setting up the dominoes   :58.320 --> :04.280 for somebody to knock them over including that  10-ft retaining wall one time an HOA was a semi   :04.280 --> :09.240 helpful thing I suppose our next story is you  won't let me tell you the food you bought is   :09.240 --> :15.560 moldy okay you can just eat it then this isn't my  story but a coworker I have I work in an airport   :15.560 --> :21.200 restaurant you can imagine we get a lot of stuck  up and beny people who don't see us as humans we   :21.200 --> :26.920 work our butts off to provide the best service we  can under the circumstances working in an airport   :26.920 --> :32.240 setting with unpredictable passenger numbers for  context our restaurant is split into two separate   :32.240 --> :39.200 cafes mine is the one before TSA the one relevant  to the story happened past TSA meaning this was   :39.200 --> :44.680 a passenger that either went through TSA or came  off a plane from the departure Lounge the kitchen   :44.680 --> :49.600 staff hand prepar trays of vegetables with a  portion of hummus one of those vegetables is   :49.600 --> :55.840 sliced cucumbers today my assistant manager who  runs the kitchen pass security came up to me and   :55.840 --> :01.200 told me I needed to check the trays I had for  sale because they found mold on the cucumbers   :01.200 --> :06.560 in their trays even when they haven't reached to  expiration we have for prepared Fresh Foods such   :06.560 --> :12.080 as the tray in question I subsequently pulled my  trays because they did in fact have mold on them   :12.080 --> :18.000 enter act two of this story he came to me about  30 minutes later to tell me this part back in post   :18.000 --> :24.680 security past TSA a lady had bought a vegetable  tray being the good assistant manager he is he   :24.680 --> :30.160 went over to make sure it was a fresh tray she  didn't even let him get more than one word out   :30.160 --> :36.480 before telling him go away leave me alone now  he isn't a mean person at all in fact he makes   :36.480 --> :41.200 the most conversation with all the customers  more than the rest of our staff including me   :41.200 --> :46.400 he took one look at the trace he purchased it  was moldy he made a couple more attempts to try   :46.400 --> :51.440 and tell her that her food had mold on it so she  could get a fresh one to no avail he's now at a   :51.440 --> :00.240 loss and just lets whatever happens happen she  ate the whole dang thing cucumbers in all with   :00.240 --> :06.920 zero complaints just goes to show when an employee  comes up to you hear out the employee just in case   :06.920 --> :13.320 they have something important to tell you such as  ma'am you are about to consume mold how about you   :13.320 --> :18.680 go choose another tray free of charge I feel like  this is one of those situations that even if she's   :18.680 --> :24.800 like yelling at him to go away he has like such  an importance to make sure that she knows there   :24.800 --> :31.120 is mold in that because either way it's going  to reflect badly even if she was totally irate   :31.120 --> :36.400 said go away and this person did give up and it's  revealed there was mold in there and she wouldn't   :36.400 --> :40.800 complain and made a whole big deal about it I  guess the one good thing is this happened past   :40.800 --> :46.040 TSA right they're probably not going to be around  for very long especially not if they keep eating   :46.040 --> :52.880 moldy stuff our next story is you sure you know  how to tie down that load okay have it your way a   :52.880 --> :58.960 few years ago I pulled into a lumber yard parking  lot on my way to pick up a super small item as I I   :58.960 --> :04.920 was walking through the parking lot on the way to  the store I saw this guy tying about $3,000 worth   :04.920 --> :10.720 of composite decking into the top of his truck  rack now if you know anything about composite   :10.720 --> :18.800 decking you know that it is expensive heavy and  super slick especially when multiple boards are   :18.800 --> :25.400 together this guy was using a rope to tie this  down now don't get me wrong ropes are great and   :25.400 --> :32.320 there are some awesome knots out there and this  guy could have used all of them but rope simply   :32.320 --> :39.440 wasn't going to cut it no matter what fancy na he  knew on my way in a polite way I told the guy hey   :39.440 --> :46.000 just so you know those are really slippery when  stacked a rope isn't going to cut it you really   :46.000 --> :52.200 need to get a couple of ratchet straps for that  don't worry I got it he replied in the most smug   :52.200 --> :59.720 way he could muster okay his issue so I went to  buy my thing well since since it was only one   :59.720 --> :05.960 thing I was back in my truck in 3 minutes and  it turns out I was behind this guy leaving the   :05.960 --> :13.320 driveway as the front of his truck dipped into  the gutter $3,000 worth of expensive composite   :13.320 --> :19.720 decking slides right off the top of his truck  completely obliterates his hood and fans out   :19.720 --> :27.320 across the boulevard as I drove past I honked  smiled and waved after all he clearly wanted   :27.320 --> :33.320 me to mind my own business business so I did  in that situation you can't help but just kind   :33.320 --> :39.200 of laugh at the guy you saw their situation you  warned them the best you could I mean that just   :39.200 --> :45.480 sucks but hey you got to know what you're doing  when you transport $3,000 worth of supplies right   :45.480 --> :50.320 not going to lie if I were an OP shoes I think  I'd still feel bad about it even though I warned   :50.320 --> :57.240 the guy and he waved me off in the most smug  way possible that still absolutely blows but   :57.240 --> :02.480 with that being said that's all the time we have  for today now if you want to hear another awesome   :02.480 --> :07.160 malicious compliance story check out that  video on the left or if you missed my latest   :07.160 --> :12.920 video check out that video on the right that said  I'll see you all next time with some more stories
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my husband told me I was a little ugly hey guys can I vent here I'm using a throwaway account we were drinking over the weekend while toddler was a grandma my husband was drunk talking but I can't stop thinking about it my husband stared at me for a while and I was like what he said you a little ugly and he bursted out laughing I said what he said you know you don't look like you did when I met you 5 years ago at all he told me I gained too much weight and he jiggled my arms and said I have Flappy Bird arms I know I gained a lot of weight it's just hard losing weight when you're a stay-at-home mom and I have a battle with my refrigerator all day he told me that he wished I lost my weight because it's more than enough time now since I'm 3 years PP but he says I'm always making excuses my husband do helped me once he gets back home from work but during my free time I just want to sleep or relax and I just don't have the energy to work out my exercise is super minimal I try to even get at least 3K steps in a day and sometimes that doesn't happen my problem is mostly bad eating habits it's just hard I think I'm having a sugar addiction my husband also told me that he doesn't want to be one of those skinny tall guys that's with a short fat girl the next morning he didn't even remember saying that to me he said he remembered telling me that he thinks I'm unattractive because I gained 75 lbs in the last 5 years before my husband fell asleep he said he always thought I was one of those girls that stayed hot forever and never got fat what he said there just stuck with me because he's not the first person that said that to me my friend back home also told me she never thought
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I think my husband's mistress thinks he is richer than he actually is my best friend thinks I am a douche because I'm keeping silent husband and because we are not married legally throw away please let me vent here he col 39 me colon 39 mistress colon 29 best friend col 39 we have been together for 14 years living together for 11 he came and told me that he was in love about 3 weeks ago I was surprised at the lack of I had to give at receiving such information I did love him but maybe my love has always been conditional and its survival depends on it being reciprocated because it literally vanished the second he confessed to me that he was in love with another woman he didn't want a separation but to maybe open the relationship or let his feelings for her subside I said it was over it was like I never had feelings for him ever he was taken aback by my indifference which I thought the audacity did he want me to be hurt and suffer I told him that he should be relieved that he didn't cause pain instead he has been sulking since last Friday I got home and mistress was there sitting in my kitchen sipping my tea I felt nauseous because seriously I told them that this wasn't civil at all and to never be in my home again or I would call the cops
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a it TAA for not agreeing to my mom's husband adopting me so my brother will agree my brother 13m and I I 16m lost our dad 10 years ago mom got married to Jared 6 years ago and after like a year my mom asked us if we would be okay with Jared adopting us and maybe changing your last names to his or adding his as a hyphenated last name I said no and my brother followed my mom decided we should discuss it some more in Family Therapy and we went for a few months then we had no therapy when stuff closed down and then we returned when an office therapy was back on the table throughout the stay in place order my mom would ask us about our feelings and if we were more open to the idea recently my mom decided to try the divide and conquer way since the therapist mentioned that my brother said no because I was she tried talking to my brother and he was adamant he would say no as long as I'm saying no Mom then sat me down and asked me why I was saying no she told me she had a few very practical reasons to want the adoption to happen including protection for us if she were to die so we could stay with her husband
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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is Stephen and this it's the storytime Channel we've got some entitled parents to read about so let's jump right into our first story of the day by cube droid oh five entitled mother tries to take away my wheelchair so her daughter can sit down context this happened before lockdown started in the UK so the details of the story are not pinpoint accurate I had a skiing accident while learning to ski with a friend this was because we were going on holiday it had been going quite well but in the last thirty minutes I fell over and broke it I was stretchered off the slope and taken to the hospital when there I was given a wheelchair because I couldn't walk and didn't have crutches because it had just broken we went into the waiting area and it was quite busy because this was back when everyone was taking their kids to the hospital because their child got a cold combine that with two serious accidents that came in and we had a long wait ahead of us thankfully the wheelchair was cushioned which was nice for me about three hours into the wait a mother and daughter walk into the waiting room this is entitled mother and daughter daughter has a face mask on and is looking worried go find a seat daughter while I sign in but make sure it's away from people daughter says but all the seats are close to each other and it's full we'll find anyone and sit down you're wearing a face mask daughter looks around the room and spots one empty chair and sits down and thought of mother walks over where's my seat daughter she says this is the only empty one entitled mother entitled mother stands up for about an hour she then scours the room and spots me in my nice comfy wheelchair she starts walking over to me excuse me young man I say yes I can't help but notice that you're on a moveable chair could I borrow that from you to sit next to my daughter my mother says no sorry my son is waiting on an x-ray and can't stand up well if you haven't had an x-ray than you don't know if it's broken mother says I think it's broken because you can hear the clicking when you move it well it's public property so you can't use it as your private property I say I seriously can't move so can you leave me alone one entitled mother raises her voice for the waiting room to hear what do you what do you mean I can't have a chair my daughter is very nervous and needs me to sit next to her daughter looks down at the floor embarassed nurse says can I please have Opie for his x-ray me and mom go into the x-ray and get the diagnosis that my leg is broken and get it casted this takes about three hours and takes us till 2:00 in the morning I'm then taken home but while I'm going back through the waiting room I spot entitled mother and the color drops from her face as she realizes that my leg was actually broken there was no arrest no removing from the hospital just a very conveniently timed nurse and a look of horror and entitled mother's face imagine being in the waiting room of an ER seeing somebody who's in great discomfort in a wheelchair that says I think their leg is broken and then saying well you haven't had an extra yet you don't know if it's broken you should get out of that wheelchair and give it up to me that is incredibly entitled I hope she felt terrible when she saw him walking out with the cast on that being said have you ever broken a bone I once had a grade three ankle sprain which was good enough to land me in the ER but it's not technically a break but in some cases it can be worse than an actual ankle break wish to say the least was not much fun so let me know if you have ever broken a bone which one why maybe how it happened let me know in the comments down below our next story is by the sudden typos 1210 entitled aunt thinks yeet is a demonic word used by satan's gamers so I have been calling my friends and asking them do they have encounters with karyn's so this is my friends story back story Mike is from an atheist household but some of his extended family are religious but there is his aunt Mike's aunt is the cuckoo clock of the family she is aunt Eve acts anti gamer religious Karen she has always hated me and Mike because we love games and watch vulgar cartoons like Rick and Morty and has been hotel but she hates her son and daughter even more she claims that she loves them but when they came out to her that they're gay and lesbian during a family reunion she screamed like a banshee saying that they are not her children she abandoned them then after a few years there was a family barbecue where it all took place cast Emma's Mike f 1 and F 2 are friend 1 in front to the a is entitled aunt mom is mom C is Karl entitled aunt's son s is Suzy entitled aunt's daughter the story Mike and his friends were just chilling in his room playing his PC and ps4 after having a nice long barbecue with family and friends then they wanted to play Minecraft so Mike booted up his PC then took turns playing bed Wars after a few rounds Mike saw a player below him so he jumped down to kill him but as he jumped down he screamed yeet and as he screamed to eat an entitled aunt barged into the room what did you say Mike and shocked what what did you just say she was banshee screaming this entire time friend who says you mean yeet do you know what you did we were all silent you summon Satan you witch mike says uh entitled ant we didn't summon Satan friend 1 whispering those clothes should have summon Satan what did you just say then Mike's mom Karl and Suzy came into his room after hearing entitled aunts horrid screaming mom says what's going on your son summoning Satan I demand you throw away his ritual devices Karl says mom stop Suzy says please can you just act normally for once shut up you insert gay and lesbian slur now this line made people look at her as at least 25% of the people in this reunion are gay and lesbian including friend 1 you will all go to heck so pieces of shoot Karl took a deep breath listen you will never be our mom and you will never be invited to my wedding Suzy says and not my wedding either surprise surprise the SIB are getting married when entitled they had heard this she stood there in awe why didn't you tell me you two were getting married sob sob I raised you Carl and Susie were red in anger right as she said that Carl said you didn't raise us you tried to kill us by not giving us vaccines never let us go to school field trips Susie said you never took our option you kicked us out when we told you we're gay Carl said you never spend any time with us and most importantly you go out looking for other men while dad is an Afghanistan fighting in title that was silent stood there as everyone was looking at her Mike's mom says entitled aunt is this true you're cheating on my brother so who cares if I sleep with other men anyway these two are probably not my husband's children anyway mom says so you're saying that you're religious but you sleep with other men busted she just revealed her deepest secret I she then ran to her car and drove off this is not over yet after a few months Mike and his family were invited to Carl's wedding turns out Carl's husband is some rich time bigshot manager at a really popular company guess who heard about this and came crawling back in title bant two days later after the wedding Suzy Mike and his family were staying together with Carl and his husband so they can celebrate they saw entitled Anne's car pulled up into the driveway and entitled aunt came barging in Carl Carl Carl says what do you want please give me some cash crosses what please I'm deep in trouble I'm in debt with a guy who had sex with I told him I wasn't married but he found out he threatened to call the police on me if I don't pay him Carl sighs here take this this is all you will get from me hands are $250 what this is it you're married to a rich guy and all you gave me you selfish witch Carl says go get out and don't come back entitled aunt was never to be seen again and this was a year ago last we heard from her is from friends saying that she wasn't in trouble she just wanted money from Carl the money Carl gave her and all her life savings she wasted all on drugs alcohol and hookers now she has no money and is traveling from city to city to find a life Carl Suzy and Michael live in California but entitled aunt was last seen in North Carolina this is it Mike says there are more stories about her but this is the last story Mike has about her yeet this entitled aunt seems so crazy that this entire dialogue seems just like a comedy skit it's honestly hard for me to even take it as real that being said I'm glad she eated herself out of their lives the next story is written by Stacey be 292 entitled mother waits until I go to the bathroom and then less her kid eat all my food at a restaurant all right let's dive into some context here so in my city amid the whole pandemic patio dining just started opening in restaurants I've been super careful during this whole thing social distancing the whole bit yesterday I finally decided I wanted to go eat at a restaurant for the first time since March and this one great restaurant near my house was doing patio dining I show up and grab a table and place my order shortly after my food comes in titled mother and entitled kid take a seat at the table nearest to me I really needed to pee and I had a whole bunch of stuff with me I had been running some errands so I turned to entitled mother and asked if she would mind watching my stuff from her seat while I went to the bathroom she was super sweet oh sure honey go ahead and then I went on my way but then Oh Lord when I came back I didn't even know what the Freak I was looking at there was the spawn of Satan sitting in my seat with his bare hands shoveling my food into his mouth all of my bags were rummaged through in full of food from his dirty hands and entitled mother was just sitting at her table scrolling through her phone wha what the heck happened here hey sweetie looks like he took a real liking to your food he just couldn't keep his paws off laughs ma'am we're in the middle of a pandemic and you don't know where I've been and I don't know where your child's been yet you thought we could just share food he's eaten almost all of it and what about my stuff excuse me you mangy tween i'm 19 by the way I wasn't gonna say anything but you don't need to be eating all that food unless you want to get fatter than you already are I also don't like you implying that baby has something as for your stuff he says some stupid knickknacks he wanted to play with in there what did you want me to do about it quit whining and eat the rest of your food move I'm in no way overweight right now but as someone who struggled hard with eating disorders in the past I was seeing red oh and those stupid knickknacks she mentioned 90% of it were birthday presents for my mom whose birthday is coming up next weekend ah oh and all the while as we are arguing entitled kid is still eating in thought of mother and I start raising our voices when the amazing manager finally comes out thank god you're here this mangy child is trying to take our food and our stuff right over here I'd like you to call the police he looked at entitled mother and then back at me and then back at entitled mother ma'am I'm not sure if you're maybe not on the right mindset you seem maybe a little unhinged but I was actually here when this young lady came in and ordered I actually brought her food out since were understaffed I mean I surely could have mistaken you two if you weren't a hag but unfortunately for you shrugs at this point a man arrives our decent dad I don't actually know for sure but I'm assuming he showed up late to join the entitled mother an entitled kid for lunch after work because he was still on a call still he noticed the commotion and with a here we go again look he hung up and came over I explained the whole situation to him and the entitled mother gave her twisted side of the story and he immediately believed me which makes me think that she's definitely pulled some BS like this before decent dad says honey let's just leave please come on manager says yeah you guys are definitely leaving but you still have this young lady's meal to pay for and whatever reimbursement is needed for those items you ruined unless you'd like the police to be involved huh in your dreams I'm not giving you or this child a penny let's go grabs the kid and starts leaving and motions for decent dad to follow her decent dad really silently came up to me an amazing manager and started apologizing profusely and taking out money from his wallet to give to me he said here-here please take this I'm so sorry genuinely I'm looking into a divorce currently with my lawyer but she can't know about it just yet here I'm really sorry about your stuff and your food please replace everything on me I'm so so sorry he closed his wallet and left while still apologizing I felt so bad for that guy jeez I hope he gets out of that situation ASAP anyway I think I find some comfort knowing that entitled mother has a surprise divorce fastball heading her way that's gonna be a fun time for decent dad and pure amusement for little old me hoo boy that's a lot of family drama that just got unearthed right there it's probably not the best thing to say but honestly I hope the kid ends up with decent dad yes I don't trust this entitled mothers ability to raise their child how are you gonna say well he saw some knickknacks what was I supposed to do uh I don't know keep your kids from touching other people's stuff maybe I'd probably be a good start huh boy our next story is by silver shotgunner entitled mother ruins her daughter's birthday because she didn't get a discount this story happened quite some time ago but it still kind of baffles me to this day I work at a McDonald's and we get plenty of entitled people coming through however this one takes the cake when it's someone's birthday we give them a free ice-cream cone when they finished eating their food no more no less I don't know how it works in other places but this is how it works over here one day and entitled mother walks into our McDonald's with her daughter on her daughter's birthday the daughter was actually very nice the entitled mother walks up to the counter and I take her order as usual would you like anything else do you still have the product that is not available anymore no sorry that one was available until yesterday I can give you alternatives if you want entitled mother already a little bit annoyed no thanks that's all all right that'll be 25 euros please it's my daughter's birthday don't we get some sort of discount we don't give it this kind of someone's birthday we can however give her a free ice cream cone when she is done eating we deserve a discount I want to speak to your manager whoa that went from zero to 100 real quick the manager walks over to the counter can I help you this guy won't give me a discount even though it's my daughter's birthday sorry ma'am we can give her a free ice-cream cone after she is done eating but that's all fine this is really unfair I don't know how it's unfair but trust me it's about to get even more unfair just one block away from our mcdonald's is a big shop which we'll call Rico's we often get visited by Rico employees our E when they're on break because of this we give them a 15% discount on their orders Rico employees walk in and I take his order would you like anything else they say no thanks one moment please we have to get a manager's pass to give the discount so we don't have the ability to give any unauthorized discounts this ari was new at Rico's so he didn't know he'd get a discount I swiped the managers past through the scanner and the prices order went down the Rico's employee thanked me and patiently waited for his food entitled mother and her daughter were sitting just in view of the cash register and she saw that I gave him a discount and was furious she angrily walked up to the register why did he get a discount that's because he works at Rico's Rico employees get a 15% discount and I don't get a discount of my daughter's birthday I see her daughter visibly trying to hide the fact that she's heard ma'am as I said we can give her a free ice-cream cone when she's done eating nothing else this is BS entitled mother walks back to her table and I slightly overhear the conversation she and her daughter are having something about calming down and how she always does this but we haven't hit our peak of Rage just yet when one of our employees are on break we get a 60% discount if our order is over the price of six euros one of my colleagues who will call al is on break and decides to order some food al doesn't know how to use the register so I help him take his order I swipe the manager's pass through the scanner and entitled mother sees the price drop down from 10 euros to 4 euros she was furious she walks up to the register slamming her foot onto the ground with every step this is ridiculous I don't get a discount on my daughter's birthday but that guy gets more than 50% off that's how it works when we're on break we get a 60% discount of our order is over 6 euros I'm done with this come on honey we're leaving her daughter is sitting at her table crying entitled mother walks out of the restaurant leaving her daughter behind saying that she'll wait in the car they were otherwise done eating anyways so she would have left soon anyway the manager wanted to go to the girl to try and calm her but I said I'd go to her hey are you ok daughter says I swear to God my mom does this every single time we go somewhere I hate it I say it'll be fine are you done eating she says yes can I still have the ice-cream cone I say of course is your birthday after all I walk back behind the counter to make the ice cream cone and even poured a little extra into it just to make her feel a little bit better the manager walks up to me and said give this to her he gave me a Happy Meal toy to give to the girl she already had one since she had ordered a happy meal to begin with but to make sure this wasn't the worst day in her life he wanted to give another toy to her I walk up to the girl and give her the toy and ice cream cone daughter says thanks is there anything I can do to make it up to you I say no you just go out enjoy the rest of your day we'll clean this up she says thank you sir it looked like she wanted to hug me but since she was a stranger I wasn't comfortable doing so I don't even want to think what would have happened if entitled mother saw her daughter hugging me the girl left and seemed happy that final section of the story is absolutely heartwarming and it's encouraging to see a McDonald's employee reaching out and caring for the customers this way although it's not really an employee customer relation it's more feeling bad for this daughter who's entitled mother is crazy basically and just trying to make her feel good on her birthday either way I'm really proud of Opie and the employees for going out of their way to try and make sure this daughter's day was a little bit better after breaking down and crying in a McDonald's on their birthday and our final story of the day is by Dan the evil killer entitled parents tries to steal my phone because I don't deserve it last night I was eating at a restaurant just to like go outside for once nothing much happened till I was about to leave I left my phone at a table then I washed my hands when I come back I see a 50 year-old man at my table taking my phone I ran to him snatched my phone and was about to leave when he said you don't deserve that phone and then mutters about people like me being lazy and no for good human beings I then argued with him I'm not a lazy son of a witch I think you are because you don't even have a phone and steal other people's phones because you can't even get a job you're why people in your age get a bad reputation for being nothing for good human beings who are entitled you're pathetic you use phones and these new gadgets use them because you're lazy you don't do anything yourself all these machines do it for you since you're a lazy mother Freaker and then entitled mother comes why are you talking to my husband because he's trying to steal my phone well they try to steal your phone because you're an idiot I told them to phones are so pathetic it's a waste of money I wanted to teach you a lesson about spending money on useless items like these don't question me about how I spend my money this is America where I can be free to do anything I want and if I want to buy something I would buy it and then a waiter comes waiter says what's going on here I say this old man tried to steal my phone we tried to steal it because he doesn't deserve it then the waiter asks the manager to come and then I asked to see the security cameras after seeing the footage the restaurant told me the next time I came there the meal would be free for the inconvenience and that the entitled parents were banned anyway have a nice day well this one's kind of a new one they actually went and admitted they were trying to steal the phone instead of lying and saying no they were stealing it from me call the police or something either way obviously this couple was a bit psycho but that being said that's all the time we have for today so if you have a favorite story of the day let me know in the comments down below which one and why and if you enjoyed the video please consider giving it a like and if you haven't yet subscribe and turn notifications on all of those things up the channel so immensely so thank you no matter what you did whether it was just watching the video liking subscribing whatever you do thank you so much for supporting me right here on the storytime channel I hope you're all 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the entire Saga involves an evil psycho Mill who demanded her dboard her pregnancy just because it's a boy physically abused her grandson after birth for years behind Dill's back until op exposed her causing Dill to disown Mill now Mill has physically assaulted op poisoned her cat burned down her house and finally got arrested after trying to end her grandson by poisoning his lunch so let's set the scene it's late and pissing it down with rain typical English weather it's dark it's miserable everyone is sick literally everyone with this death rattle cough because flu season and I'm just trying to get through my night shift without committing mass murder or getting ill you know the usual for us idiots who hate ourselves enough to work nights now that I work at the big Supermarket we get a lot of crazies and what can I say my llam demand to be fed and I love the drama so I'm nosi I'm working the stock down the meds aisle contemplating the pros and cons of marrying a rich old guy and killing him off when some customers come along there was an exhausted looking woman who was trying to stop the snot flowing out of her nose from drowning everyone in the area not successfully an older woman whose cat butt face was causing Havoc with a coastline outside and a small boy maybe around five wearing PJs and obviously as sick as his mother the old lady snagged my attention because of my stalker habits on jml so I decided to discreetly watch them for llama feed and boy was I not disappointed so the mom wanders up to the cough and flu section and is obviously weighing up the various options while her son tries not to cough up his lung seriously this kid sounded like he had smoked 50 cigarettes a day for years a proper death rattle blesses him Mill is just tapping her foot with impatience at this point and tutting Mom ignores her which obviously won't do because doesn't mom know that Mill is the center of the known universe and therefore should be given constant attention insert I roll once Mill reaches the conclusion that Mom isn't going to hurry up or pay her any mind she starts with a snarky comments and I'm paraphrasing here because I think my brain shut down in shock at the blatant rudess I'm British why are you reading the backs of the boxes they all do the same thing you can't waste my son's money on an expensive brand my son wouldn't have gotten up in the middle of the night for this you spoil little boys too much we all know he is Faking it for attention if you didn't baby him so much he wouldn't be like this and so on and so forth like five full minutes of her whiny voice be teaching about everything this poor woman was doing wrong after a little while the mom picks which brand of cough stuff she wants and puts it in her basket she asks Mill if she will watch him while she goes to the toilet to blow her nose and Mill begrudgingly agrees now this is the bit that nearly caused me to fall into a rage induced coma the little boy is still working on coughing up that lung and Mill is getting increasingly agitated she leans down into this poor child's face and tells him again not exact words that she knows he is faking for attention and that he better stop coughing before she punishes him for being such a spoiled little brat I die like literally my soul pieced out of my body in an attempt to escape this vile woman's presence realizing my shock I bit my lip intending to tell the tale as soon as the mom got back this poor little boy tried unsuccessfully to hold in his coughs as I mentally chocked a btch before letting out a giant death rattle quicker than the flash himself I think evil gives these BT CH superhuman power Mill bends the kid over slightly then slaps him hard on the backside while saying stop coughing I stand at this point having had enough and I'm marching towards them while this btch is telling this child that she has just been physically abused and not to DARE cry either obviously small children do not work that way and the boy starts crying in the middle of the aisle just as I reach them she raises her hand again and all thoughts of civilized intervention leave my head I literally push myself in between her and the small child and manage to snarl you evil btch again I'm British and not confrontational at all so this was way out of my comfort zone I felt like I was in a movie the kid is full on crying his eyes out and wailing in the aisle at this point I'm very close to kicking some ARS Mill is shrieking at me about how dare I assault her I didn't touch her and that she will have my job y da da all the crazy sht these crazy BT say this is where security decides to make its arrival as well as little kid's mom who kind of stands there shocked for half a second taking in the scene her small child sobs hysterically me squaring up to a woman who is far bigger than me and far trampier looking like I'm about to have an aneurysm due to rage and her red-faced Mill shrieking about my improper conduct she stalked towards us and got right in my face and said with a deadly calm that gave me chills what the f did you do goosebumps hell yeah titanium spine Mill starts spluttering and backtracking so I very helpfully explained the entire situation to mom who goes pale when I mention the physical violence security being useless as always just stands there watching it play out mom grabs her kid and her basket looks at Mill and says we're done get the F out of my house and never darken my doorstep again you will never see my child again and with that she just whisks away with her child without looking back Mill realizing that she's just been cut off and abandoned in a supermarket in the middle of the night swings towards me with the obvious intent of Revenge I inform her politely customer voice in full flow that if she lays a hand on me I will react with self-defense and have her arrested for assault she took this as well as could be expected and had to be escorted out by security while shrieking like a banshee I went back to my stock thanking St Louis that it was over but of course it wasn't over fast forward a few hours to the end of my shift and the day manager asks me for a word he informs me that a woman made a formal complaint against me for improper and aggressive conduct I tell him what really happened and he informs me that I handled the situation badly and in the future I am to grab a manag if a customer is being difficult in the end after a lot of me giving him sht he tells me that this is just a verbal warning and to keep it in mind in my future conduct so there you go that's how I nearly got fired this morning for stopping an Old Hag from abusing her grandson update so I didn't really expect to have an update to the story but BT has be cray cray I'm on my break so this happened when I started my shift earlier I got into find that the GSM General store manager was waiting for me which is hilarious because on a Sunday he usually finishes work at 4 p.m. apparently he had been informed of the incident by the day manager and given the details by my awesome night manager when a customer complains about a member of Staff the procedure is to take down their contact details so they can be kissed by HR so in an effort to smooth over any potential problems the GSM decided to handle Mill personally he didn't go into details but I managed to get the general gist of the conversation he called her to apologize and offer her some freebies typical crap like discounts and apparently she went full on crazy on him threaten him with a lawsuit threaten my life several times for destroying her family and threatened to burn down the store with the colleagues in it you know what is normal in jml territory since all our calls are recorded the GSM was then left with the decision to contact the police or just take this as the normal sht customers throw at us well St Louis must have been smiling down on us because the mother of the small boy contacted the store she has decided that she wants to press charges against the mill if she can and she would like the footage we have of her assaulting her son and any contact details of the policeman who helped security escort her away from the area she has also asked if it it will be possible for me to give a statement as our cameras do not pick up audio my GSM decided to actually grow some balls for the first time and decided to make her threats against the store and me personally a police matter so now I get to give a statement of events tomorrow to the police and hopefully it will help this woman and her family keep this crazy lady away from her the company has also offered me the ability to change my shift to another day or move to another store which I politely declined I see an Extinction burst on the horizon and although she is banned from the store we tend to be terrible at actually enforcing that as security sees hundreds of faces a day remembering one crazy lady is unlikely hopefully this is the end probably not also the GSM complimented me on my fast reaction to the situation and said that he believes I handled it well update okay so I'm very sorry this isn't going to be much of a feed so prepare the llamas for a little disappointment also I'm on break so I'm typing this quickly on my mobile so I came into work early today to give my statement to the police who very kindly agreed to come here so that a representative from the company could be present I told the truth without any embellishments unfortunately but not really shockingly they aren't going to do anything about it they going to warn Mill that she is not allowed into our store or near me anymore due to her threats but because this isn't uncommon in retail they aren't taking it that seriously however just after I started my shift mom turned up with a little boy she and he had come to bring me a box of chocolates as a thank you which was very nice of her in a rare social moment I asked her if she would like to go to coffee at some point so now that I have a coffee date next week I will Point her here then I didn't think it was a good idea while at work to mention my posts she did say however that this was not her first offense and that this was her last chance to show them that she wasn't a complete pass she obviously failed that she didn't elaborate and I didn't push but I am hoping she will impart some wonderful llama feed on our date so I'm sorry this is not much of an update to those worried about my safety work is insisting I take a job while things calm down and my boyfriend is insisting that he move in with me early since I live alone just in case everyone is taking the threat to me very seriously so please don't panic too much management has also decided to make it mandatory that if a customer goes after me specifically they will be told I no longer work for the company hopefully I will update you next week until then my lovely llamas update please go check the bot for the backstory my llamas this is likely to be a jumbled mess read at your own Peril s do you know how people warn you and warn you and you think nah no one is that that crazy right right right lol wrong so wrong this is going to serve as a tale of caution to everyone out there who still believes that the escalation is going to happen I had less than a 5minute interaction with this woman and yeah so yesterday I met Dill hero and their son for coffee I will give an update about that at some point because they gave me permission to post some stuff but not others so I will have to send it to them for approval but seriously start sharpening the pitchforks we are going to need them the reason I mention the Meetup is because I believe it is important to mention for my update that me and my so have now moved in so we had our young niece with us a toddler who is super adorable now onto the actual update I'm super tired I warned you so last night I quit my job not that I had much Choice after what happened last night but yeah so I only been back to work a little while purposefully being vague as someone already found me so I was doing my thing putting out stock and trying not to look like a serial killer when I noticed a woman lurking around the bottom of the aisle she was acting super suspicious but I just assumed that she was shoplifting so I went to the front to let security know what was up and return she's gone so I just assume she got spooked and ran an hour or so goes by and she pops up again this time I'm barely aware that I'm fully into the swing of things and working my little ARS off she stays in my AIS for like 20 minutes and it starts to bug me I hate it when customers lurk around me for long periods of time time the aisle isn't that big just ask if you need help but I'm feeling nice and thinking hey maybe she doesn't like asking for help so being the kind fantastic person I am I decided in all my infinite wisdom to offer her Aid so I walk up to her all smiles and a customer friendly attitude and ask her in my best customer voice if there is anything I can do to help btch punches me in the face yep no words first no warning just a full punch in the face she managed to hit me twice luckily my fight or flight kicked in and I managed to back the F up pretty quickly I was basically in shock she has found her voice and is screeching about home recers and stuff I legitimately think she got me confused with someone else by this point the rescue team has arrived everyone has been a bit jumpy after the threats to my person and this woman ends up being tackled to the floor I'm still going on about misunderstandings when the police arrive to find out what the hell happened I didn't witness this bit because I was carted off to the medical room since my face was starting to swell and my nose was bleeding but according to my work buddies my asent was telling anyone who would listen that I deserved it and that that's what I get when I tear families apart my manager being the smart guy he is was the first to connect the two incidents he asked the police if she had any connection to Mel she promptly stopped talking silence speaks volumes she was then taken into police custody and I will be pressing charges as will the company my manager then pressed me for information since he wanted to find out if the two incidents were related and he's super nosy we reviewed the security footage from the last few days and every night guess who has been in the shop with her new FM yep Mill daytime security can eat a bag of DC KS she's been coming in just before shift change and staying until night security is busy doing rounds obviously waiting to point me out that is our Theory anyway the night manager called the police to update them so we will see unless FM rolls over on mil though it won't go anywhere me and my manager talked and decided it was best if I terminated my employment early I was leaving in 2 months anyway and the company has offered to pay me holiday pay until my formal resignation so that stinks he allowed me to work most of my last shift until my face started to really ache though security stood at the end of my aisle the whole time pretending to look at stock unfortunately that's not the end yeah I got to see policemen twice in 24 hours one of my work friends drove me home because everyone was a little paranoid about my safety and I didn't want to wake up to come get me because I live quite far from work so I get home and it's still dark outside I open my front door and just inside the entrance to my house is a pile of gr looking substance and some loose razor blades after waking up we determined the grally stuff to be rra poison now I have cats and thank F they were snuggled up with me all night because I have no idea what what rat poison does to cats but I guess it's not good so we call the police after I finish explaining the new black eye and apologize for not getting so far to come and get me the police get there and we let them know what's going on with everything they ask us how M would know our address and I theorized that they must have been following dill and Then followed us home as we have no other enemies so it has to be her and it can't be a coincidence that the same night I get punched rat poison turns up on my doorstep also I have been very careful about coming home from work going all the way to a neighboring town and getting someone to pick me up there to make sure no one follows me home that's when so remarks that it's lucky that my niece wasn't here then it hits me m if she was watching doesn't know that our niece isn't our child and that she wouldn't be here there was no note or anything but how messed up is that toddlers are notoriously difficult to contain how easy would it have been for her to sneak out of bed and get curious about the shiny things we relayed this to the police and we are now weighing the pros and cons of moving a few months earlier than planned from what I know about this woman she isn't done I plan to call Dill in a little while for now so is making me pancakes hopefully this all goes away soon hopefully my next update will be more cheerful I probably won't write up what dill and her told me today as I think I had enough of Mill for one day so maybe tomorrow until then remember all crazy is dangerous crazy it will escalate keep safe update tww animal death and attempted murder so I read all the comments on my last post and you guys are so wonderful and supportive I feel very grateful to have you all on my side I decided to do a mini update about the current situation because a lot has happened since yesterday also since we were waiting for so long in the ER I decided to write up the stuff the dill and so told me at coffee so that will be at the bottom so yesterday morning I ended up going to the ER rather than the walk-in clinic because I thought in for a penny in for a pound we were only waiting for an hour and a half so I feel like St Louis was looking down on me guess who has a fractured cheekbone someone give me a cookie for winning so was very upset more so than I because he hadn't realized how serious it was until a nurse was lecturing me about my health and getting proper medical attention quickly I got pizza on my way home though so I'm happy this is where we get lucky and it gets a little messed up my night manager called me while we were in the hospital he had taken it upon himself to watch all the security footage to make sure that the police got every minute of these crazy people on film as they had only taken footage relating to the actual assault I mentioned my crazy morning and the rat poison he lost his sht guess where Mill was filmed buying effing rat poison and effing Razer blades this week that's right crazy btch got the sht she pushed through my letter box from my place of work my night manager told me he would call the police to get the footage when we got home I called my lawyer that I have with the union and was on the phone with them for a while they believe we should sue my old store I am on your guy advice giving him the go- ahead he is also doing his best to get an emergency R luckily since we have her on camera getting the stuff that was then put in my house there may be enough evidence despite circumstantial to prove she is a threat we also called the police to tell them about my injuries they didn't really tell me anything which disappointed me as I had kind of assumed they would keep me constantly updated but apparently not they did confirm that they were investigating the new footage and the possible links between the incidents but as of now the FM is not rolling over she is insisting that she worked alone I'm not sure if they have asked about my homecoming present as the officer insisted that when they knew something I would be informed I also contacted D I was super busy yesterday she came over with wine which I didn't drink because of pain medications but it was a nice gesture she was very apologetic however she did prove very helpful as this is not the first time Mill has used poisoning that story will be below she gave consent for our lawyers to team up to speak to get more information and for me to pass all the contact details along so got some super awesome cameras yesterday according to him he works in Tech so we are putting them up today and looking into getting a bad ARS letter cage thank you to whoever linked to it that's everything I think but if anyone has any questions I'm not exactly doing anything better right now so please go ahead also it's hella early here yay fed up sleeping schedule anyway on to the L feed so I let Dill read this yesterday when she came over and she has approved it also she and her so have started to lurk here and may start posting hopefully so hello to you as I previously stated I have not been given permission to share everything they told me and I will respect their boundaries I am also trying to keep this vague as I don't want someone to find them they have enough problems so today I am going to focus on all the events that have led up to every NC they went with this woman yes all of them are plural Mill will be our crazy btch Dill will be my new friend and DH will be Dill's husband without further Ado let's get on the crazy train to Looney Town Sai so Mill was no better a mother than she is a grandmother yes I don't know a lot about dh's childhood he didn't share but I was told enough to know it wasn't fantastic if not outright terrible when he was still young purposefully being vague with ages before secondary school age M got bored of being a mother without a fill in picture and a kid to cramp her style she decided enough was enough and dumped DH on his elderly grandparents and took off with some stranger she had met at a bar fast forward a while and DH is an angry teenager he hasn't seen his mom in a long time and his grandparents while well-meaning were getting along in age and didn't have the energy to Wrangle an unruly teen with abandonment issues enter stage left Dill when DH met Dill everything changed he managed to turn his life around and actually finish school he even went to University with her support she literally guided him to the light and he credits her with saving his life he was doing some not so good things to himself before when they both come of age they decide to get married no one is particularly happy about this her parents were very brief with justn for a short while until they realized DH was here to stay everyone is happy everything is going so well what could possibly ruin this wonderful moment enter from demon Lair Mill after a decade or so she just popped out of nowhere like daisies now don't judge our young couple too harshly they were young and full of love and hope so they accept the shedan back into the family fold now during the wedding planning Mill is super helpful so they include her more now she doesn't have a lot of money but she wants to help our young lovers are ecstatic that she is trying she cares the darkness of the past is behind them let's all laugh and groan together they go cake tasting and Mill offers to buy their dream Cake Way outside their budget they of course accepted this generous offer and were Overjoyed at this successful reunion our regrets it is probably an appropriate time to mention that Dill has a super common super deadly food allergy do you see where this is going so they order the cake the bakery is alerted to the allergy the couple later sued but lost and everything continues on when the wedding day comes everything goes perfectly Mill is playing nice the young newlyweds go to Cut the Cake and face smash obviously and then disaster strikes the couple end up in her Dill nearly died and it ruined their reception and wedding night afterward Mill swore she didn't realize she had changed it to surprise them as it was dh's favorite cake this was the first time they went to NC deep caling breaths fast forward some more and our lovely couple is expecting their first bundle of joy Mill reaches out apologizing explaining and excusing her behavior the couple decides to give her a chance as they are still hopeful that she made a mistake by poisoning bill on her wedding day they start a tentative relationship and then the gender reveal party comes along they had asked for gender neutral gifts for the baby Mill had got them everything in bright pink naturally she always wanted a little girl to spoil apparently so obviously a baby is revealed to be a boy and everyone is happy and celebrating d notices Mill is acting strange and Sullen probably CBF but ignores him later when everyone is cleaning up dill and Mill are having a seemingly innocent conversation when Mill asks Dill when she was planning to abort obviously shocked Dill asks WTF Mill is talking about why the ever loving Jesus F would they abort well obviously so they could conceive a girl why waste time birthing the boy boys are horrible to raise she knows she raised one blah blah blah luckily DH had a spine and basically kicked his mother out and told her never to come near them again that was the second time they went to NC no we are not done tragically I know try not to judge them I asked them what the actual F they were thinking and apparently after a few years the hatred kind of dissipates they do not speak to mill again until the baby is a few years old they only contact her because she is in an accident and in the hospital they allowed her to stay with them I know I legitimately moaned but all was well for a time she was apparently a very considerate house guest and cleaned up after them and herself never overstepped boundaries with low after a year or so they start to forget to not trust her she moves out once she is better and everything is going smoothly then they get a dog this bit actually really upset me and I was mad at them for forgiving her after this so they adopt a youngish dog and bring it home the dog and small child are best friends immediately glued to the hip playing around on the floor you know normal stuff Mill didn't like that she exclaimed many times that the dog was obviously dangerous which is why it was abandoned it shouldn't be let around low it will hurt him are foolish but lovely couple ignores this thinking it's just a good-natured concern until one night they let the dog out to pee as usual and he came back chewing something he swallows before they can do anything but they just chalk it up to usual dog Shenanigans a while later they had to have the dog put down due to complications from poisoning now the couple confronts Mill and she swears it wasn't her and without any proof and with the neighbors hating their dog also a very anxious Barker the couple gives her the benefit of the doubt although they distance themselves from her and move houses another couple of years pass and Mill sees Dill DH and loow twice a year at the most and they get along fine until hazar Dil is pregnant it's still early days but she is feeling that morning sickness all the time DH is away a lot on business and with a boisterous 5-year-old in the house needing feeding cleaning and taking to school and Club activities what is poor DAL to do her own parents lie far away and are not much help so they allow Mill to help out so she moves in just until dh's job has settled down a bit more and she helps out now Dill has noticed that low has become a little reserved but puts it down to adjusting to the news of not being an only child until of course she is informed by our brave heroine of the abuse her child is suffering at her hands when they get home without Mill Lo asks if he is in trouble Dal pushed a little and discovered that this was not the first time Mill had physically disciplined low they are really against physical discipline apparently whenever Mill had low alone and he misbehaved she would spank him and tell him that she wouldn't mention this to his mother so he wouldn't get in any more trouble of course this effectively stopped low from confiding in his parents about the abuse so they are once again and see but this time apparently for good they are trying to get a ro and are working on disappearing the police case for for abuse is going nowhere fast despite their efforts they told me all this and so much more which is why I feel this horrible fear in my gut because I know this woman is smarter than the others she knows how to play nice B her time and strike when it will hurt the most she is the most dangerous type of crazy the one who gets away with it now my llamas please be forgiving to my new friend and her DH they are very lovely people who were taken in by a monster I hope my next update will have this evil btch behind bars for a long long time we shall see until then we are being wary and we are all getting ready to run small very crappy update so the police went to question Mill after reviewing the security footage I am told she was very cooperative and even let the police search her house she had a pack of unopened razors and an unopened box of poison the police are considering it a coincidence when they question FM about my present she confessed fully my lawyer is peeved because FM doesn't even know where I live she couldn't tell the police where I live she said she followed me on the bus but I haven't gotten on the bus since before this all happened the police however don't give a sht apparently a confession is enough for them my lawyer is trying his best to make the police realize it's obviously a trap we meet on Monday with dill and my lawyer to basically compare notes sorry this isn't satisfying update so it's been a while to everyone who has been messaging me and responding to to my posts thank you I have read all of it and I really appreciate you all things got crazy and I just couldn't really deal with it very well this whole situation has really fed with me I've had to go back on my medications and my poor so is currently the glue holding me together so without further Ado let's catch up with some bullsh tea so we have a lot to cover so I'm going to quickly mention some things my face is healing well and I no longer look like I tried to bang on a brick wall my former workplace is compensating me rather than taking me to court dill and family got a r i however did not because there was not enough evidence linking Mill and the incident I love my bad arlet cage which may have also helped Save Our Lives recently so thank you again to you guys FM is being charged with a lot of things that I am still not allowed to disclose but she will be away for a long time she didn't roll on mil though that's it for the brief update I'm sure I forgotten something I'm a little all over the place as of late so please ask questions if you have any so me and so set up all our security stuff when I last updated and for a little while it was quiet we almost thought maybe it was over that Mill had retreated to the Shadows from when she came ha first the graffiti started now to give you a good idea I live in a smallish area surrounded by other smallish areas mainly populated by old people and families graffiti just isn't a thing here first it was on the outside of our garden wall just one word as LT we thought maybe some kids were from a nearby City continues with life then it was our bin home recer okay maybe not kids we check our cameras but they don't cover the bin area so we adjust put up another camera and wait then our garage door die this time we call the police we have it on film FM to and we give them the footage but there isn't much they can do with it because it's dark and doesn't get his face apologies for the terrible sentence English is hard and even typing this sht up makes me start to panic at this point my paranoia is starting to set in I only leave the house with so and his work is still letting him work from home so I'm not alone we inform our neighbors that some bullsh tea is going down the night the RO went through for dill and Co everything went to sht deep breaths I would like you all to know I had to abbreviate from posting because I started panicking and couldn't breathe it's late we are asleep in bed when we hear the glass break we have a glass Conservatory attached to our home it connects our back door with our garden so jumps out of bed and I phone the police while I'm hysterically trying to get the police to get to us quickly my incredibly stupid so decides to play Super Hero luckily for him our actual beefed up neighbor had heard the commotion and had come to help together they get fm2 down where the neighbor holds him while I deal with my wrath at his utter stupidity the police come and take fm2 away the front of our house had burn in hell graphi across it our womb is at the back so we didn't hear it he had set fire to something and put it into our letter box thank you internet stranger for being effing psychic our bin was also set on fire but luckily we had not caught onto anything our Conservatory was trashed with broken glass and a cat that looked just like my cat was left there we are still trying to find the owner to break the news I'm sorry it's not articulated well I'm having to distance myself from we captured it all on camera and gave it to the police fm2 had a small knife on him I think he believed I was alone in the house and when my so gave Chase he panicked things progressed quickly from there it turns out fm2 is the DH of our original FM and he was under the impression that I was at fault for his wife's current predicament when he realized that they were actually puppets he rolled over on his master pretty damn quickly you'd think this would be the end of it right you'd be wrong the police went for Mill but she's disappeared she didn't take her car and no one knows where she is so now here we are a few weeks from moving and I can't leave the house if so goes out for groceries I close myself in my closet and try not to break down if anyone looks at the house when walking past I panic I spend most of my time watching the cameras holding my cat babies and thanking every God deity or demon that it wasn't worse that's what these people do this is the damage that is left I just can't can't wait till we get out of here dill and Company are staying with a friend until m is found Dill has spent a lot of time here with me she has been amazing they are still lurking they are going to post once this is all over so there you go it's not a Justice boner it's just terrifying really sorry I don't have anything better to update with and this lacks my usual humor update I know many of you are worried about me I'm ashamed to say that I responded to some and not others let's just say that I was in a very very dark place and even getting a notification on this sub freaked me out my therapist said it was Association but I'm still back and finally ready to finish this up for all of our llamas this is likely to be a rambling mess I am afraid because I do not plan on proofreading at all and I'm just trying to get through it I believe that doing this will help me finally close this effing awful chapter of my life I've come a long way and with your guys advice and a lot of therapy I feel like a semi-normal human being again so without further Ado we left off on me and so was running the police couldn't find any trace of Mill anywhere and I knew that she would be after either me or Dill 50/50 is not that great of odds when dealing with a effing psycho so we packed up everything important our cat babies and left many of you offered places to stay for which I was very grateful and it was actually with one of you that we escaped a shout out to you for being awesome the journey was long that is 8 hours of pretty constant driving we were both too scared to to pull over for any rest I know it was dangerous but to be fair we were literally running into the arms of a complete stranger who could easily have been a serial killer we get there and I'm pretty numb I can't describe my feelings during this time because it freaks me out thinking about it and it's so hard to understand unless you felt it yourself it's just a permanent numbness punctured with periods of deep Primal Fear I felt like an animal in a cage that was waiting to be beaten it was by far the worst time of my life so far anyway we get to this person's land and it is in the middle of nowhere surrounded by fields and Practically Perfect for hiding out we were there for 2 months during this time I was mostly clinging to my cats calling the police station daily for news checking in with dill and helping out a little it was our host who forced me to continue my therapy sessions by phone to be honest the way I was going she probably saved my life slowly I started to recover I started to focus on other things to keep me busy we started looking for a house to call our own and we started talking seriously about marriage I started to feel like a person again and I started to laugh more I'm very glad I was Stronger when I got the call Mill had been spotted she had convinced a family friend to drop off a spare packed lunch for her grandson luckily the class teacher isn't a effing [ __ ] and inspected it once it arrived in the classroom knowing that he already had a lunch box the entire contents were laced with the same allergen that the son shares with his mother there was also a note I'm not sure what it said as when Dill called me to tell me the situation she was an effing blabbering mess but the general just seemed to be I've taken your son away from you like you did to me yes she tried to kill her grandson because she realized she was in deep sht this sent me into a panic I cannot convey in words how effing horrible it was in the few hours before they found her I'm not even going to recount it properly because I can't breathe when I think about that moment eventually they found her in my old house we still technically lived there as we had nowhere else to store the stuff we had to leave behind they found her screaming and destroying everything I'm assuming that she thought that if she was going down she was taking me in Dow with her she was arrested and will be away for a very very long time FM and fm2 I was told we probably be out in a few years with good behavior since they rolled over on her but I doubt they will care about me dill and family ran her DH got his job to transfer them out of the country and we've both agreed not to speak as this whole experience took a toll on my mental health and it would be best for me if I could just remove myself from these events I never went back to the old house so he went and saved what he could the rest we brought new we moved into a nice house far away from where these events transpired after a lot of therapy I finally got up the courage to go back to work it wasn't easy and I'm really downplaying the journey I had to go through but I'm not really ready to talk about that I only came back to Reddit properly 2 months ago and I've been lurking in this sub a few of you gave me the purpose to post this update because a lot of you are in situations where you are a lot like I was not fully understanding just how much danger you are in I know I may be a little biased but please accept that this update does nothing but warn you do not give them a chance to hurt you even if they only seem a little crazy treat it like a nuclear threat trust me when I say that it is really not worth trying to be political or downplaying it I will never be the same as I was before we have security cameras in our new house it took me effing ages to be able to let my cats outside for fear of their safety I had to tell so that I wanted to push back having children because I was not ready to be responsible for another person while constantly looking over my shoulder and checking security footage of my house do not care about what anyone says follow your gut and stay effing safe find people who actually support your decisions and do not compromise your safety for a single second thank you to everyone who commented and messaged me I was terrible at replying and to the moderators I'm sorry if I broke any rules or caused any trouble for you at any point you all have been so wonderful and supportive during this whole thing thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friends
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what is something that everyone looks stupid doing Story one waiting to grab your dog's poop I walk my dog at the river for Park like 300 yard down the street from my apartment they have poop bag dispensers at the park so sometimes I forget to bring one from home the absolute worst is when my dog decides she needs to go before we get to the park and I can get a bag I have to resist the urge to look around at anyone who might have seen it and say don't worry I'm going to come back and pick it up I just don't have a bag yet because they're at the park and she usually does it at the park in other instances I make such a big old show batting all my pockets rifling through my bag making a couple of exasperated expressions and then carefully picking out a twig or something and exaggerating sticking it in the ground to Mark the Spot I then back away a few steps while I stare at it just to show that I've memorized the spot then hesitate do a tiny decisive little nod to myself and walk in a big hurry to wherever the nearest bags are then keep the bag open around my hand for whatever distance it takes to get me back I did not not realize that I do this until you just got me analyzing myself it's the same act every time how many other times am I being a performative phony in public and not consciously realizing it the biggest thing people do that looks stupid is knowing they are doing something stupid and trying to clumsily cover it up by making it look cool if you're doing something that looks deaft there really isn't a graceful way to do it just go do it and smile as if no one's looking because usually they aren't anyway dog walkers can all agree that this is one of the most awkward parts of the job maybe bring a poop bag next time story two when you're walking in the opposite direction you're supposed to go and have to do a sudden 180 turn back then I would get my phone out and pretend that someone was meeting me and they given me the wrong location then I'll sigh shake my head and then turn the other way or I'd go with a good old pocket slap and act like I forgot something people always say that no one is paying attention and no one cares that was raised by a person who notices and comments on everyone driving by an overweight person walking or jogging she would make judgmental comments she sees a person going in the wrong direction and turns around judgmental comments she sees a person trip you best believe there will be comments she is likely the reason I had to work extra hard to get over my anxiety that people are always watching and commenting for years this has been my view of the world however my anxiety improved when I stopped doing the stuff I usually do I forced myself to just turn around in situations like this or other similar situations and I stopped caring as much as before just turn around and that's it plus this only happens to me when I'm in a relatively big city and don't know some streets and the truth is people are just minding their own business they usually don't even notice and as they've said what if they do they'll most likely forget in a minute and even if they don't who cares like OMG I just saw a guy changing directions in the street it literally feels like the most naive thing ever they're a total stranger who you might never see again and it surely is not relevant for them to remember your face for the rest of their lives this is not so awkward compared to almost bumping into someone and then s side stepping in the same direction they're going Story three we all look a bit silly when we confidently walk into a glass door we thought was open our brain assumes it's open until reality hits us it's happened to the best of us and it's always a good laugh afterward for example there's a woman I know who has a 6-in scar starting in her shoulder and going down her arm she said when she was a kid her parents were viewing a home to rent and she and her brother were chasing each other around the place bam she ran into the sliding door yes they did end up renting it another was when I was 12 my brother was 10 and Mama just cleaned the sliding glass door into the backyard she told my brother go get your sister dinner is ready he goes running and slams into the clean now invisible glass door after 7 hours in the ER and 212 stitches later mom dead and brother came home his face and arms were totally clear but his legs were a mess I'll have to give him a call tonight I had totally forgotten about it I also came forget when while visiting a friend their 14-year-old granddaughter who's playing Chase with her little brother ran straight through the 6x6 sliding glass store I don't remember much about the aftermath if I remember correctly she was okay just with a couple of small cuts and bruises from the fall and badly shaken but the noise I'll never forget that noise story four wearing pieces that Beck and wardrobe malfunctions in NYC a lady crossed the street and Midway through her wig blew off everyone stopped and she walked to the middle of the intersection bent over to pick it up and her dress blew over her head contagious laughter from everyone even her while I'm on the subject of wigs I've also seen this in my hometown years ago I was going into Walmart on a particularly windy day the older lady was with her daughter and her wig flew right off She chased it across the parking lot her daughter was laughing so hard but to be fair if you're going to publicly embarrass yourself NYC is the place to do it there's so much weird stuff always happening there that it probably wouldn't even become dinner conversation for some people for example I got caught in an unexpected short but torrential rainstorm while wearing a white dress and had to ride the subway 40 blocks home my dress was rendered nearly transparent but somehow no one else in the train car was even wet I must have looked miserable because an old lady told me tear up dear you're just giving the guys something fun to think about when they get home I did not find her comment comforting the same thing happened to a friend of mine who was working at a restaurant in down Chicago right on Michigan a they would cater lunches to businesses nearby so she was pushing a cater cart with food on it down the sidewalk when the wind took her hat off her head and when she went to get my hat the cart started rolling down a sidewalk ramp and she had to dash back over to catch it she luckily caught it in time but was dying with laughter she had to go back to the restaurant and have someone else still over the food Story five looking for a photo to show on your phone but it takes forever this is horrible the longer it takes the less interested the other person becomes and the more frustrated you get trying to find it then when you do find it after all that it just feels like a chore and you regret doing it or those awkward moments when you're looking at your phone with you waiting to see the photo or video you want to show them and you have to scroll quickly in hopes of them not seeing something weird or inappropriate on your phone on the flip side I hate this whole showing people your phone thing I make a conscious effort never to do it even when tempted I feel a bit like a jerk but if that thing is not ready on your phone I rudely deny opportunity and just say send it to me in fact I'd like to petition proper etiquette to send it yes even when they are sitting next to you story six trying to take off pants without removing shoes first it usually happens when you're trying to pair a pair of heels or otherwise complicated shoes with different outfits if I can squeeze the shoes through the pants I absolutely will because those little buckles and whatnot require super uncomfortable positions to clink into place and nobody has time for that I've also done done it when I've left the house to go walk or hike with the dogs and realized it was a lot warmer outside than I thought I loaded the dogs into the car and then ran back inside to change into shorts getting shorts on over shoes isn't a big deal getting the pants off however is another story story seven driving a segue Segways really never took off like they were supposed to I remember the hype when they were first revealed to the world then nothing one reason for that was that they originally only went the extra mile between charges for most of us it is just as easy to walk a mile as it is to ride around on one of those things for that short of a distance the Segways were meant for use by warehouse workers were on their feet all day fulfilling orders but they weren't practical because they didn't stay charged long enough but I will say this I was in a museum staring at a painting and a woman was standing next to me and she looked weirdly tall I looked up and down and she was in her 70s affluent looking slender hooked up to a portable oxygen tank with a lead to her nose and Tall due to standing on a segue way it's hard to get on a bike if you have bad health issues and bless her heart she wanted to get out to the museum and look at things at eye level instead of from a wheelchair so there is a use for it story eight standing up as soon as the plane lands or on the opposite side doing absolutely nothing to prepare to leave the plane and when it's your turn having to get all your stuff out of the seat back pocket repack your purse and try to get your bags out of the compartment three rows behind you while 100 people behind you have to have their time wasted is as if you couldn't have seen the coming wave of people exiting the plane ahead of you and made a sensible prediction as to when that wave would reach you story n Fierce online arguments will instantly make both sides look like jerks I've gotten into the habit of typing out my response then deleting it and pretending I won sometimes I don't even pretend I won I just realized after typing my response that the potential frustration wasn't worth my time so I deleted it without posting plus this is definitely something I learned the hard way arguing with people online never never convinces anyone so why do it it just becomes grandstanding and trying to poke fun at the other person's point for karma rather than an actual discussion I've been on here for like 10 years and sometime in the past seven years I realized that all of my written communication is typed in a way that's defending myself before I make a point on social media like work emails texts and stuff you can only say so much in a couple of paragraphs in a reply and people on the internet go straight for the worst possible scenario that no one would ever think of or mention in real life I guess it's made me more diplomatic for work but it's quite frankly exhausting to have to preface every single thing I've learned a lot but I really wish everyone would quit needing to be the smartest person in the room trolls have been around since the dawn of the internet era they're like the norm now so you've made it this far how about hitting that like button and subscribing to the channel it really helps me out story 10 walking through a cobweb that no one else sees and then waving your arms around a lot to get rid of the cobwebs on your body or walking through a circle of flying insects the first time I visited my husband's Hometown we took a walk out to an old cemetery on the way he stopped suddenly and began dancing around frantically slapping at the air and himself I just stared in amazement wondering if this was some kind of seizure he was shooting a horsefly horse flies don't live where I grew up story 11 jumping jacks you know some folks swear by how cool jumping jacks look but as a gal I think about how that had feel with gravity giving them rough time during every jumping jack same deal with running I've got to run with my arms clamped over my chest because the alternative is just plain painful it's a whole different ball game no pun intended dealing with these quirks really puts a spin on the whole exercise routine making you rethink what works for different bodies story 12 chasing a pingpong ball there's nothing more dehumanizing than chasing after an erratic ping pong or beer pong ball I was visiting my friend at a certain University he was in a frat I had never seen such a campus or a huge fret house I'm very anti-rat but I wanted to see my friend anyway beer pong was played and I was doing well everyone seemed nice at some point my ball went behind a radiator and I went to get it when it fell by slamming down onto the carpet at terminal velocity landing on my knees in ripped jeans that rug burn took literally a month to heal back to the subject the trick is to stroll around the direction it's traveling in and when the ball settles into a roll nonchalant pick it up unless you chase pingpong balls while moonwalking then it looks awesome story 13 standing or sitting awkwardly while everyone sings Happy Birthday to you if you want to know a solution here's one from personal experience my son covers his ears and cries so we stopped singing it for him when he was younger and just never started it back up another time was during my friend's 25th birthday when his request not to sing fell on deaf ears for the 15th year in a row he was obviously going through something but it was the first time he stopped family from crossing boundaries and he said he wished he had learned it sooner well yeah the singing of happy birthday kind of gets really awkward the older you get story 14 doing manual labor retail or Food Service work while the boss is watching whether you care about your job or not I swear dropped object's inability to find stock or just plain looking stupid jump 200% if the boss was looking same with typing if anyone is watching you in an office environment my boss likes to sneak up behind me and say so do you know what you're doing he thinks it's freaking hilarious I've named my stomach ulcer after him story 15 trying to find your car when you lost it in a parking lot I drove to a light rail station and took it to a concert in San Francisco I came back to the wrong station parking lot and looked everywhere for my car I figured somebody stole it I called the cops they came and helped me look for it another cop phoned in and said he found it at the next station I was so embarrassed as if that wasn't enough I once went shopping at the mall and when I was done I couldn't even remember which side of the mall I parked on that was fun someone gave me a tip and I've been doing it since just walk really far to park in the back if it isn't empty Park in the farthest away spot so it's an easy search like dude ever heard of an air tag I'm sure you'll never lose your car again story 16 hospital gown with bare bottom the funny thing is that it's essential because they might need quick access I had surgery where they realized things were going to take longer than expected and they catheterized me I didn't expect that upon waking up and not only might they have to put the catheter in but they will also likely need to put a grounding pad on your thigh story 17 running with a backpack gone this was me last night but it was at least my hiking pack with the waist and chest straps to help keep it in place the dog I was walking got freaked out by the fireworks and went into flight mode I finally got him calm enough to just speed walk when a train crossing we just passed came down and the dinging started I freaked the poor guy out out more and we just ended up running the rest of the way home however if youve ever been in Washington DC for the Marine Corps there are always 20 to 30 Marines running it with full 40b packs on it's pretty impressive even more impressive is watching vets who lost limbs run the marathon story 18 Tik Tock dances it's when people just mouth the words to a movie or TV scene and try to act it out in their living room this is hugely popular for some reason also when I was teaching high school health and PE I fought the ti Tok dancing so much just being an old person when I stopped them from dancing none of them wanted to participate so I caved and let them do their silly Tik Tock dances albe it with appropriate music they had fun burned calories and used dance as exercise and other kids joined in sometimes for fun at the end of the day I was cool with it because who am I to say you have to exercise and burn calories with just these Sports Go dance now the really funny bit is watching people record them in real life the finished videos with audio can be entertaining to watch but there's nothing nothing quite as hilarious as watching someone record a Tik Tok out of context with no audio in public on a random street hiking trail or some business it really makes you realize how dumb most of those dances are story 19 walking and talking on your phone without earphones I work in a small boutique and sometimes people walk in and I'll greet them and they look at me like I'm an idiot for interrupting and point to their tiny earbuds and continue with their phone conversation then I awkwardly have to sit there while they walk around a few feet away from me it just looks funny to when someone is ranting and you don't see a phone in their ear they are talking to themselves and gesturing and then you realize they are on the phone it's comical to me that's all story 20 vaping I quit smoking six years ago and decided vaping was the healthier alternative but what I didn't realize was how ridiculously dumb I looked doing it an ex-girlfriend tried telling me but I didn't decide to stop until a few years ago I played golf with my friend on Saturday and he had this ridiculously large handheld Vape clutched in his hand 80% % of the time he wasn't swinging a club and it suddenly hit me how dumb he looked while doing it and thought to myself well I can't believe I used to walk around with one of these things looking like a toou all I see now are undisciplined people getting into their strawberry kiwi Vape like their lives depend on it story 21 eating people just shove whatever into their faces and Munch on it until they can force it into their bodies it will never not look weird as a kid I read an article about Paparazzi at the end of it the reporter asked one of the is there any situation where you would not take a picture the paparazzi he was talking to thought about it a bit and said eating never take a picture of anyone eating everyone looks bad when they're eating photographing them like that is just disgusting a couple of months later I picked up a copy of the torona goat and snail AKA Canada's national newspaper the front page above the fold is a picture of a politician eating it looks awkward more specifically eating ice cream I know there might be some ways to look alluring or something I don't know but every time my husband and I see people eating an ice cream cone no spoon just licking it they look ridiculous we giggle there's just no dignified way to do this I also once saw my local Congressman on a sidewalk outside the movie theater totally alone licking an ice cream cone I could never take him seriously again I just know I'll never be caught dead licking an ice cream cone in public same goes for joining an eating contest where you can't use your hands story 22 walking back to the bench after you bowl or bowling in general that I don't like it because I feel like I look like an idiot the entire time where do you look do you watch the ball while walking backward or turn around and walk back without watching such an awkward experience I was in a bowling league as a kid but now as an adult it is so uncomfortable especially when it's just you and one other a date for example and they have no choice but to watch you the worst part is that I always do some kind of purposely awkward dance back to the bll bench because of this I do a side shuffle with those stupid ball shoes because they're so slippery and I give finger guns and Winks even if I hit a gutter ball can't get enough of hearing about others dumb moments then go watch what's your this person is on another level of stupid Story Story 4 is hilarious see you there
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aita for defending my husband's ex-wife after she was made to leave me F50 and my husband m46 were at his mother's funeral we have kids from previous relationships we have four boys my husband's oldest son had his mother come to pay her respects we asked our son where his mom was and he said she left we were all like what my son was upset and said that a cousin escorted her out and said she doesn't belong here so my husband and I went outside to catch her to bring her back in now there is a crowd of people in the parking lot so we start walking to go back in the funeral home they started screaming and swearing right outside the funeral home that had large Windows every door we went to they blocked them there was almost a physical fight the whole situation was disgusting they didn't want my husband's ex-wife there she had every right to be there not only to say good bye to her ex-mother-in-law but also support her son with his grief it all came to the end when the crazy addict cousin and her child molest her brother these are true facts about both of them called the police on my son saying he had a gun which was absolutely not true because he never carries a gun so the police came and I was the one that actually spoke to them and told them the situation I told them that my son does not have a gun it was the cousins that were starting all the trouble then the police officer said to me we can remove her the cousin
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I know that my husband is cheating on me I need to tell someone if F40 found that out about 6 months ago I went into a total shock I thought he M39 loved me because he tells me that every day we have a beautiful family together three beautiful children 5 comma 4 and 16 Mo beautiful home vacation home we are close to both our families and everything else is perfect shf 35 is a cooworker of my husband that I know very well she has been in my home I have comforted her when her husband cheated on her and left her for his new woman I saw her pain little did I know that she would inflict that same pain on me a few months later I saw her Nudes on his phone talk about their hookups on messenger she isn't even beautiful she is disgusting pathetic and miserable I know I'm being a disgusting misandrist here but I can't help myself what does she have that I don't he disgusts me very much he is pathetic and stupid my respect for him is gone I have chosen to pretend that I don't know I love my life and I'll be damned if I share my children and not be able to see them every day of their lives not him nor her deserve me separating for my babies my home my family my comfortable life and my safety sometimes I think he knows that I know when he looks at me and asks me to come back to him when he asks where I'm in my thoughts it feels like your body is here but your mind is a thousand miles away I don't answer him he starts to argue sometimes it feels like he is doing it to provoke a reaction out of me but never answer or engage until he gets tired and leaves me alone I never initiate anything with him and when he has me I just let him and I refuse to let him Pleasure Me In the Beginning he complained that I am distant and cold and that I want him to use protection I told him I stopped using BC so he has to wear protection his complaining stopped when I told him that it's either this or nothing 6 months later I am mostly at peace with my life still a lot of ups and downs but the Downs are getting fewer and further apart today was a down so I needed to vent the part of my heart and thoughts that were occupied with my husband were suddenly empty and I have found out that I'm pretty good at filling the void with other things new hobbies and even more quality time with my babies and loved ones all is well update hi everyone I didn't expect that I needed to make an update about my post because I really only ever wanted to vent because nobody knows my situation and I need an outlet sorry about that BTW I have some news anyway and mostly they're based on your comments about me needing to protect my ass in case my husband got bored and left me I have never been worried before for because I basically own half of everything legally speaking but I started to think of worst case scenario situations anyway Friday my husband had made me dinner and brought me flowers and chocolate he said he wanted to make it a night for the two of us because he felt that we were pulling apart kids were sleeping and he wanted me and then got upset because it wasn't how he imagined the evening would go and accused me of not loving him or our family anymore I got really angry when accused me of not loving my family when they're all I have left to give me love and hope I snapped at him that I didn't feel safe with him anymore and he full well knew why I had become this way you know the reason why he was shocked and looked at me without saying anything and then just sat silent on his end of the sofa for the rest of the evening before bed he asked me to tell him how I would feel safe again and to tell him what I wanted him to do he went to bed I stayed up all night and made a list of Demands one I want a postnuptial agreement where I get my house and my summer house two I become a partner at his company's at 50% I don't know how these things work since I won't be buying in but this is for him to fix I'm not interested in management just that I have my half in the passive income three I want him to get a vasectomy we were planning four children before all this but I don't want that anymore so he should have a vasectomy four I want him to always wear condoms with me or never bother to touch me again I will not even tolerate complaining about that part also I want by annual STI tests this morning I sent him a text with these demands I know it is silly to send someone you live with a text but I didn't want to Fumble with my words and forget details I didn't want him to see me cry or being visibly emotional I just couldn't take him trying to console me just the thought of him feeling sorry for me makes me sick but also I didn't want to forget anything and I wanted it to be in writing he read it on The Breakfast Table and he didn't say anything we continued the day as normal and when the children were in bed we had our dinner and he said about your demands I agree I told him to start on Monday with realizing my list he agreed so I guess since many of you you asked me to take measurements and have a backup plan this is what I could come up with and it did help I woke up today a little bit less anxious I don't know how long we can keep this up but I hope until I feel safe to leave my babies in his care maybe when they're all in school leave your opinion in the comment section below
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hey everybody hope you're all doing well my name is steven and this is the story time channel we've got some i don't work here lady stories and our first story of the day is by achalasaur ex-employee chews out of karen i wasn't sure where this karen story belonged but decided to post it here in honor of its hero who most definitely doesn't work here anymore so for some context this story involves me a nice lady a karen karen's husband and a guy who used to work there we'll call him adam but he's actually my hero also i'm obviously a trans guy which did not help i work at a large hardware store as an appliance associate we wear orange aprons so i'll let you figure out where that is now i don't usually work in flooring but the regular flooring guy was on break so after the nice lady asked me to get something down from the overhead for her i headed over there to help seeing karen and adam standing at the carpet cutting machine not together i tell them i'll come help them as soon as i was done with the nice lady after about two minutes i returned to the carpet cutting machine to find karen gone leaving me to talk adam through what would be best for him to get for his project just as i'm getting ready to roll out the carpet we decided on karen comes stomping back there you are adam says it's alright man take care of her first i'm not in any rush i say how can i help you ma'am i need 60 feet of astro turf how freaking hard is that i started rolling out her carpet you should have just done that to begin with are you stupid or something all of you people are lazy good for nothing r words adam says ma'am there's no reason to talk to him like that he's just doing his job not freaking fast enough not that it's any of your business you need to stay out of our conversation adam obviously done with her bs look he's just trying to do his job and you're acting like a witch a verbal smackdown ensues until my manager will call her debbie walks over to intervene debbie says is there a problem i was just having a conversation with this lady points to me and he started being rude you need to handle it manager says ma'am he doesn't work here i don't know what you want me to tell you my manager proceeds to try and talk the woman down while i roll and cut her carpet by the time i had her carpet ready her husband had arrived to the cart to load it up then thinking everything was over my manager walks away and i turned to adam to get him his carpet that's when i realized that karen had been telling her husband what happened husband storming out to adam did you call my wife a witch adam shrugging i said she was acting like a witch there's no reason to talk to associates the way she did you need to learn some freaking respect you can't talk to customers like that adam says i am a customer which means i can say the things everyone else is thinking but can't say then the husband tried to fight adam before my manager came back and escorted the couple to the front come to find out adam used to work there and loved the opportunity to tell customers everything he'd never been able to when he worked there i've never been so satisfied let me ask you guys if you were doing retail and you had a bad customer like this would you be able to hold in the kind of vulgar language and remain completely publicly appropriate let me know if you think you would be able to handle that in the comments down below because some of these karens might really test me on something like that our next stories by rest equals rust my wife saw it happen there's something about the way i look slash dress slash act that causes people to assume i work here wherever i am at the time it's happened at restaurants a few times office depot more than once at a fancy resort in hawaii but it happens most often at home depot it's become an ongoing joke with me and my wife i have told her dozens of times about these instances and we are both entertained but she rarely sees it happen firsthand yesterday we were at a home depot picking up plastic storage bins she and i together pulling bins off the shelf and loading them into a cart an older lady approached me excuse me where do you keep your bug spray it's in outdoors right over there oh thank you also i have these little fruit flies in my house what do you recommend put a splash of wine in a glass add two drops of dish soap cover the top with saran wrap poke a couple holes in the saran wrap with a toothpick the bugs will be attracted by the wine go inside and not be able to find their way out the soap will help them drown by breaking the surface tension of the wine oh wow thank you so much for your help the whole time my wife stood there with a shocked face after the old lady left my wife told me how amazing it is to see this happen in real life and how quickly i transformed from a customer to an employee i don't even bother to tell people i don't work here well when you only ever have polite old ladies and good experiences it makes it a little easier to just go along with it but when you have the irate cairns it becomes a lot more easier to quickly say i don't work here it's not my responsibility this next story is by the grizzly gentleman do you have any idea who i am i do do you know this man so this one was years ago and will need a little setup i'll try to make it so i can't be so easily identified but will also try to give enough detail that it can be checked up on as it involves a reasonably famous individual therefore i have no doubt people may be skeptical so for years i lived in kennebunkport in maine usa it's very much a holiday town and gets busy in the summer now as the summer period starts a very special guest would arrive in kennebunkport as they had a holiday home at the northern end of town on a small peninsula the 41st president of the united states the late george bush senior the flags and banners used to come out welcome back mr president there were plenty of restaurants in the town many owned by the same company and the president used to dine with us a lot so one day i was wiping down the bar it was a quiet day and we only had a few people dining behind the bar is a huge fish tank so you can see through the tank to the front door i saw a lady walking across the drive well-dressed and straightening her skirt i placed the cleaning stuff under the bar and awaited the lady i said may i help you karen says i hope so is the order ready i'm not aware of any order but i'll have a check with the kitchen can i take your name you don't even know who the heck i am what an embarrassment she would go on to tell me that she was here for an order of oysters and clams for the presidential compound now this wasn't unusual the president often got complimentary oysters whenever he would dine with us plus we would often send food up to the compound but it was never this lady and never a sole person who would pick it up certainly not on foot and we knew the cars they used i could not get a single word in she berated me for a while i'll have your job or is this the disrespectful shambolic service you always provide and the usual crap then she spies the gentleman behind me full suit very smart who has come to see what the commotion was all about karen flicks her head his way in utters you come here karen went into her rant to be stopped 10 seconds in as the man in the suit gestured for her to come through into the back dining area suited man said madam will you just step this way please and we can resolve this now i don't work here but on the other side of the wall she saw george bush barbara bush and a few guests who were dining with us i should probably mention though you probably know ex-presidents who were in office before 1997 were provided secret service agents to protect them and their family for life obama brought this back in making george w bush the first president to have lifelong security since 1997. one of president bush's agents was sat in the corner the other one was the well-dressed man by karen's side whom she had incorrectly assumed was my manager her face went white and she ran sort of she had heels on she stumbled and headbutted the front door before stumbling over the driveway like a newborn deer trying to walk for the first time the prison and staff just let her go simply asking for a copy of the cctv before they left according to one of my bosses the lady was picked up by the sheriff's department charged and fined a few months later i think there were some form of fraud charges i had nothing to do with it after she ran out our managers dealt with most of it like i said a larger company owned most restaurants in town we only got snippets apparently attempting to steal products in defrauded business by way of claiming to work for an ex-president of the united states is frowned upon in maine so yeah she didn't work on the president's team she worked at walmart in a town called wells up the coast just wanted to try your look and it probably heard that the president dined here when he was in town i believe she lost her job there and was arrested and fined a few months later she had some balls to even try that's done let's be real but going in the restaurant and trying to pull that stunt only for george bush to actually walk in in the middle of it is about the worst luck you could possibly have and probably the biggest serving of karma this next story is by odd gnator sure i can help you find the creamer i wanted to share a wholesome story here that's from a few years ago i was walking into a big grocery store chain to start my shopping i start my trip with my headphones in before i even left my car however i can typically tell due to hyper anxiety when someone tries to get my attention when i walked through those big double doors i stopped to check my list to see where to begin and saw someone looking at me out of the corner of my eye i look up and there's two guys standing there one looks like he might be blind in one eye and the other was staring at the floor i popped my headphones out of my ears and i'm sorry what did you say do do can can you um can you help us find the creamer of course i pause for a second because i don't work here and i don't want to give them the idea that i do however being an avid coffee drinker i do know where the creamer is plus they seemed very sweet so i thought why not there was something off though i thought maybe one or both of them might have some kind of disability and i didn't have it in my heart to say no i walked them both straight over to the creamers showed them the different kinds and brands and told them which one was my favorite and wish them a wonderful day the one who stared at the floor never said a word to me but i did hear the first guy repeating the info i gave him to the one that stared at the floor as i walked away i'd never seen them before and haven't seen them since i did call my mom afterwards though and relay the information to her and she told me they were likely part of a home for people with mental disabilities and that one of their tests to see if they can get their own place is the ability to go out and buy something without incident like creamer i almost hope it was so that maybe i helped those two pass their test but either way it's one of the fondest i don't work here stories that i have so if you walked right into a store right into them asking you to help them would you help them out if it was me i probably would say i don't work here but i think it's in x direction because most doors have some kind of pretty familiar layout and for something like creamer you kind of just have to ride the outer wall and you'll probably be just fine but of course it does depend on what kind of store you're in our next story is by insect boys ma'am i am not your uber driver context my parents recently built a hotel that rhymes with chariot i am there quite a bit because my girlfriend is the general manager but i don't work there as i hate the hospitality industry with a fiery passion also i drive a 2018 maserati and wear a full suit daily one day i pulled into the driveway of the hotel to wait on my girlfriend to pick her up from work it was an especially rainy day for the area i live in west texas and it doesn't rain too much and i see two women in their late 40s to 50s in the entryway i'll call them karen and non-karen i'm minding my own business listening to a podcast when all of a sudden karen starts banging on my back window yelling open the freaking door i look back thinking what the heck is going on and reaching my glove box to grab my pistol i have my concealed carry license and roll my window down thinking she is in trouble and needs help for context the hotel is within one quarter of a mile of a halfway house and we always get shady people and drug dealers outside i proceed to ask her ma'am can i help you karen replies with yes open the door you are the worst freaking uber driver ever i am giving you a one star rating lucky i am not quick to anger and not an uber driver but if i was i don't think it would be the right thing to start off as a writer being this rude i realized there was no danger so i put up my pistol away and calmly reply to her ma'am i don't drive for uber please stop hitting my car at that moment my girlfriend calls asking me to come inside to help her carry out her things as i'm talking to my girlfriend karen goes back inside sheepishly and i park my car as i walk inside non-karen promptly apologizes for karen's actions saying she's sorry karen thought it was their uber driver driving a ford focus i laugh and say no problem karen never apologized it really tells you what kind of person that karen is to do all that and not even say as much as a sorry that's like the least you could do for that and all i know is apparently op is driving the nicest ford focus in existence our next story is by divergent a wholesome i don't work here i'm a body piercer in the uk yesterday was my receptionist shift while my co-piercer got to do the fun shift we have four studios three of which are tattoo only studios needless to say we go through a metric freak ton of paper towel and cleaning supplies in a normal time much more in a pandemic part of the reception job is gathering said supplies from the wilco and the nearby shopping center so i've got my trolley shopping cart filled with everything we need looking like a professional panic shopper when this lady comes up to me and asks if i know where the batteries are i looked at her a bit confused and apologized saying i don't work here she looked at me again realized i'm in a black long-sleeved band shirt black skirt with patches all over it and not the normal red uniform the lady says oh my god i'm sorry i saw you with a lot of things and didn't even stop to realize you don't work here sorry i hope you have a lovely day i say it's fine you have a lovely day too i hope she found her batteries what is this a story on r slash i don't work here lady that has zero drama and a person actually taking a second to look at a person's attire and realize because of that that they don't actually work there now this is a rarity and our final story of the day is by shadowwolf 360. jack skeleton doesn't work here hello everyone this is a rather quick story no karen yelling no manager called so not really all that interesting but i figured i would share i was at walmart with my mom the other day i had just gotten paid for work and asked her to take me to walmart to look at the computers while we were back in the electronics aisle she went to look at laptops and i was looking at desktop computers to mention i was wearing a yellow pac-man t-shirt it had a small little pac-man on the front and a giant on the back black pants and my jack skeleton lanyard that held my card and locker keys for work as well as a picture of jack himself after looking i started heading back to get my mom to look with me when a lady called me over from the registers the lady said excuse me can you ring me up i at that point didn't say anything being a bit surprised she was speaking to me the lady then took a second look at me and went do you work here being i have a bit of social anxiety i was still processing the fact that a random lady was speaking to me and was only able to shake my head no and continued to my mom so that's my story like i said nothing dramatic happened and it only lasted a minute or two but i thought it would be all right to share shout out to jack skellington the nightmare before christmas a fantastic movie and it's getting awfully close to getting into the spirit for it unfortunately this lady might have thought opie was mute or just very socially awkward unfortunately but with that being said that's all the time we have for today so if you have a favorite story of the day let me know which one and why in the comments down below if you enjoyed the video please consider giving it 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a ITA for refusing to look after the family dog whilst my family go on holiday without me let me f29 start this by saying that my mom f69 dad M72 and sister let's call her Lauren f27 all lived together at our childhood home I moved out when I was 22 with my then boyfriend I now live with my current partner M24 in a different city I still visit home often nearly every weekend we the four of us have been going on holidays together for years however since I've been living with my boyfriend they've been on one holiday together without me they decided to go in term time I'm a teacher so I couldn't go now they have asked me to look after the family dog let's call him fluff whilst they go away this year they have said the only way theyd go on this holiday is if I would look after fluff as he's old blind and going deaf fluff is also on medication for his many Health issu now I was already hurt when my mom and dad asked me to look after fluff as they didn't invite me on the holiday over the past year I've been noticing it more and more that they seemed to have a preference for Lauren and treat her like the favorite daughter this has made me resentful towards the family so when they asked me to look after fluff I said no because I wouldn't feel comfortable adhering to his medication Etc my mom and dad have also made it clear that I would have to live at their house to look after fluff as that is where he is used to I explained my work and life is in my new city now and that was a big ass last night it all came to a head when Lauren called me rude and my mom and dad said nothing to defend how she spoke to me my mom has since rung me and said I'm being selfish after all they have done for me I don't do anything for them she guilt tripped me saying her and my dad won't be around for much longer
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aita for filing for divorce after my wife lied to me and talked badly about me I will just make a quick edit everyone who commented and everyone who will comment in future I thank you all and I agree with you all that she has done something very unforgivable but I just love her so so so much I thought I could make it work she's my lovely wife and has been for this whole time I just wish she did the bare minimum of having my back but it looks like she has taken my love as my weakness so I'll just proceed with divorce I don't have any doubts right now I thank you all forgive me if my English is bad so I 26m married my lovely wife 25 f a year ago everything was going good we would date have sex multp times our sex was Vanilla I didn't even know about this or other positions but it was good I would prepare breakfast dinner for her made love to her multiple times not just sex I gave her my all our families introduced us to each other cuz in Asia that's how it works I had never been with any other women and I was expecting the same for my wife I asked her multiple times before our marriage when we went on dates and she said she hasn't been with anyone else either okay fine we got married fast forward to 10 days ago my wife invited her friends and her cousin I was the only man in our house I felt uncomfortable yet I tried my best to mix in we all started drinking and after 2 or 3 hours I pretended that I was too drunk and going to sleep cuz I felt uncomfortable my wife and her friends and cousins they all six women were drunk so much that they couldn't even get up properly I came downstairs to get some water and see how they are doing and if they ran out and if they did I would go buy some for them to my shock one of her friends started talking bad about me like I'm weak I'm skinny but I'm not weak at all I have trained since my childhood anyway one of her friends said that my wife should be dominant that I'm not worth anything and she can make me submit to her turn me into a cuck cuz I give them that Vibe for what exactly cuz I gave respected them cuz they are women gave my own women my all that's why I'm weak okay okay fine they said all kinds of things about me I was angry but it didn't hurt me cuz they are no buies what hurt me the most is what my own wife said she said you guys are right my previous boyfriend was way better than my husband in the bed I still crave her he was big but my husband is small that broke me then everyone said that she should meet up with her ex and have fun even her cousin whom I trusted they all said I will never know and even if I will with how much I love my wife I won't leave her and she would gain an opportunity to turn me into a cuck I'm glad at least my wife denied it she said she will never cheat on me and however bad I am in bed I have given her everything that I could she said although she missed her ex she will never cheat on me I was angry but it was something that helped me a bit to control my anger still I'm hurt my own wife bered me in front of her friends I was expecting her to have my back so what if she won't cheat just talk about me so I just filed for divorce and served her I told her next morning I heard their conversation I said so what if I'm small so what if I don't know much about sex converse with me and teach me but know you had to insult me despite what I did for you she said she was drunk and made a mistake I replied okay I made a mistake marrying you as well and he'll fix it at this point it isn't about you lying about your virginity as much as I love you I just can't stay with you so is it just a mistake she said what she said cuz she was drunk I want to forgive her really
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today we've got a crazy plagiarism related malicious compliance story we'll get to that in a bit but first no refunds once you stepped out of the store fine I won't step out of the store this happens in a large store on a European country when you purchase something from them and for any reason want to return the item their policy is that they never give money back they only give you a voucher redeemable same day only I went to the store today and purchased quite a long list of items I got home my wife looks at them and says that we don't need some of them I go back to the store barely 20 minutes pass the returns manager Smiles at me as I tell her I just purchased these and would like to return them she tells me that I stepped out of the store so she can't refund only give me a voucher and I must buy something else I'd already bought everything I needed then she tells me to take the products home and keep them for the next time I would need to buy something then I can come and get the voucher and redeem it imagine keeping a pair of shoes in a bowl and remember to bring them with you the next time you happen to need something I tried to reason but she was adamant those are the rules you stepped out of the store you don't get a refund and then it clicked I asked so if someone wants to return an item without leaving the store they get the money back they say yes you see where this is heading malicious compliance kicking in I ask to return the items and get the voucher I take the voucher get inside the store find a product to exactly the same amount buy it with the voucher right after the cashier there's the returns manager straight from the cashier I go to her hand her that random product I just bought and say I would like to return this I don't want it and I never left the store she's looking at me with barely contained rage in her eyes I kid you not the awkward pause was getting longer and then her manager comes along looks at us a nice smile at him and say I never left the store and I would like to get a refund for this please he nods silent and not looking at me she proceeds to refund me the money in cash company policy right I'm really really surprised that worked because in most places that have a setup like this if you try to refund something that you bought using a voucher or store credit they're only going to ever refund you in store credit or with a voucher like the chances are incredibly highly likely that there were millions of people that came before op that would have tried to do the exact same thing so it's kind of surprising that they would be taken soah back by this also hi I'm Steven and if you enjoy awesome stories of malicious compliance why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is stepdad tried to punish me without hearing me out I did what he asked to clarify I'm a woman also my sister and I are both adults now and safely moved out as long as I can remember my sister who was two years younger than me would come up and hit me for no reason reason and often start fights with me my parents started telling me that I would just have to hit her back because I'm stronger so she would stop when she realized I would hurt her worse fast forward to me being 16 my sister was 14 we're sitting on the love seat in the living room with my stepdad across from us asleep on the couch at 3 P.M she hits me because I won't get up and get her a drink I hit her back she screams because I don't usually hit her back my stepdad wakes up and starts yelling at her for being loud and demands to know what happened she said I hit her he then turns his anger to me he yells at me if you want to mess around you can ride five pages front and back I will not bite people if it's not done before dinner I'm gonna take your phone and books I made it clear that I hit her not bit her but he got even more angry and screamed if you think you're so smart then write 10 pages front to back he went back to sleep on the couch I rode five pages front and back I will not bite people unerotically I will not bite people unconsensually I will not bite people without asking first I will not bite people because they are not food along with some other ridiculous things I don't remember I finished five pages before dinner miraculously and he read over them he went red in the face I thought I told you 10 pages he raged you said 10 pages if I think I'm so smart which I don't I innocently replied this is not what I told you to write yes it is you said it right I will not bite people and that's exactly what I did my mom got home at that point and overheard coming to investigate she flipped through the pages and laughed it made him angrier as he answered her questions on the assignment and she took my side still chuckling as we started making dinner this is kind of irrelevant to the story but this story kind of took me back to a time in my youth that really pissed me off there was a time I was on the school bus riding home and for some reason they had these overhead lights on the school bus and when they turned them on that means you're supposed to get quiet or not talk well we had a substitute bus driver for one day and me and my friends sat all the way in the back where you sit all the way in the back you can't really see the lights above your head and your periphery and we didn't even really talk that loud so apparently they had flicked the lights on and we were still blabbing and me and my friend got just told off by this bus driver and she told us if you don't write me a paper front and back each line filling up I will not talk when the lights are on you're getting a ride up I mean I did it but like looking back on it God forbid two kids talk on the bus ride home in the very back of the bus and we didn't even talk that loud it's not like we were screaming we had a conversation it frustrated me then because I did not get it and it frustrates me now thinking back on it this next story is the squeaky chair years ago I had a daily conference call that was always attended by the same four people myself my boss Mike and our counterparts from Los Angeles Carl and Joe one day we're discussing some paperwork when we hear a long screeching noise Mike said what was that Joe said sorry I think something's come loose in my chair it's been making a noise all day I said sounded like a fart to be honest you need to lay off the taco trucks man laughter was sad and the call moved on but every day Joe's chair was making noises and they were getting louder and more frequent after a week Carl's annoyed enough to tell Joe that he doesn't want to hear that darn chair anymore do something about it and the squeaks disappear fantastic a month passes then one day we're discussing some numbers Carl doesn't have and he decides to walk over to Joe's office to grab a copy Carl muffled said what's that on your head Joe said it's the headset I bought last month so you don't have to listen to my chair make noise Carl still muffled said gosh darn it you know that's not what I meant I meant you need to call the facilities and get it fixed or order a new one Joe said but I like my chair Carl said are you still gonna like your chair when you get written up by it for plugging unapproved headsets into their telephones well order a new chair and I don't want to see you wearing that again the whole time the conversation was going on Mike and I were individually muted laughing our butts off Carl returns to his office Joe apparently unplugs his headset because we can all hear the chair again and the call closes normally the squeak continued for another week knowing facilities wasn't usually that slow I asked about it Joe said oh yeah they delivered it two days ago it's still in a box though they didn't have time to put it together Carl said oh thank God I'm gonna call them and hurry them along but as soon as the new chair is together I want the old one gone from the office you get me Joe said yes sir two days later the squeak was back and the very first time we heard it Carl went off Carl said I told you to throw that chair Way Joe said no you said you wanted it gone from the office it is gone from the office I'm working from home today Mike and I could not mute in time and we laughed our butts off at Carl's expense Mike said he's right you know Carl said well then use that gosh darn headset you bought I can't freaking see it if you're at home can I Joe said yes sir I don't blame Joe but dude needs to try to use some like WD-40 or something I can't blame him though because if you find a chair that is so comfortable you just you know fit right in it it's like the chair made for you you're not gonna want to get rid of it even if it's squeaking like a hungry baby bird our next story is you want a toothbrush back in the sunset of the last Millennium and Century the older of my brothers Mac and I were driving together to meet my father and other brother Joe for a guy's weekend we were going to hunt for I think Texas topaz which we thoroughly enjoyed completely failing to find while in route we gotta call from Joe on the new fangled cell phone thingy he'd forgotten his toothbrush and wanted us to get him one when we stopped to pick up supplies I'm not sure whose idea it was Mac and I often had the same ideas more or less simultaneously but the mixed look of disgust resignation and utter not surprised on The Late teenaged Joe's face as we proudly presented him with the pinkest girliest cartoon characterist Kitty toothbrush the supermarket had to offer is what I'll always treasure P.S yes he used it we were pretty far in the middle of nowhere so his only other option was his finger which is why he asked us to get it in the first place bonus points to op and their brother if the handle glittered in the right light there's nothing wrong about using a toothbrush that's pink and has unicorns and glitter all over it our next story is you're just joking great I'ma head home since you all liked my last story here's another regarding my jerk supervisor let's call her Kathy so I work at a Canadian coffee chain called Tim Hortons basically Canadian Dunkin Donuts I was about halfway through my shift the other day when Kathy comes up to me while I was busy and says you're staying late because you owe me a favor and walked away someone had called in and she wanted me to cover part of their shift now if I stayed late I'd be working 12 hours and I'm on my third day working out of five and had to be up early the next day for another shift not to mention I didn't even owe Kathy anything the favor she's referring to is when she sent me home early because we weren't busy which she had to do or she would get in trouble now in Canada an employer can't force you to stay later like that so I walked up to Kathy when I had a free moment and said if you want me to stay later you can ask me properly I don't disrespect you so I expect to be given respect in return Kathy gets snippy oh calm down I was just joking with you I was about to fight back but a light bulb went off in my head I walked away and continued my work when the people in the next shift started showing up I ran my plan past them and they gave me the go-ahead cue malicious compliance instead of staying later I went home at my normal time I didn't stay later as I hadn't agreed to anything nearly the second I sat down at home I got a call from none other than Kathy I said hello Kathy says where are you I said you were staying late today I said you said you were joking she said yeah with how I asked but I figured you needed hours and weren't gonna say no so I assumed you'd stay said I can't I'm busy this is why you should have asked properly click Kathy had to cover the shift worst part is I probably would have considered covering it had she just asked me nicely but I'm a petty witch I mean is it legal anywhere to force you to stay late like I just can't imagine anywhere that would enforce rules or laws that say oh yeah if they want you to stay late you have to stay late I don't blame op though if somebody walked past me and said you're staying late because you owe me a favor well I'm not going to want to stick around very much maybe I'll stick around and I'll do the bare minimum our next story is teacher got my honors taken away for plagiarism for checking answers in a non-mandatory workbook in college I had the meanest French teacher of all time he literally made fun of one of my classmates boobs once totally inappropriate and cruel it was a real narcissist picked favorites and actively pointed out terrible things about the students he didn't like he assigned us to loads of work to do every single day along with these ungraded grammar workbooks he told us that the workbooks were just for practice that we could do them with a friend use the back of the book whatever as long as we brought the book in to show that we had done just something for the most part I did all of those assignments they were mostly multiple choice or fill-in answers so it was easy just to half-heartedly do the work and then correct it with back of the book when covet hit we had to do some of our classes remotely so instead of him glancing at our books every day he asked that we sent in photos of our workbook instead everything was going well until the very end of the term when he called out every single student for plagiarism and ultimately threatened to fail all of us from the class by getting rid of our homework grades don't know how that works when it was an ungraded workbook those who had them would lose their honors get a permanent infraction on their record and those with multiple offenses wrist suspension the last week of school all of the other students accepted the infraction suspensions revoked and given half the homework credit if they redid their entire workbook which would take weeks but I was livid I thought it wasn't fair and I was ready to fight my school seemed to be more concerned about the term plagiarism rather than the actual work none of it made sense I thought talk my way out of and said to the dean of the department how can it be plagiarism if I'm writing in the book the answers came from they said because I didn't cite my sources I wanted to take it further and bring it to the chancellor but the dean blackmailed me and said if I brought it up higher they would consider all of my other infractions and I could potentially get expelled I literally had nothing but it was enough to scare me off I was a week or so from graduation when I went to redo all of my questions I decided to just put a proper citation on every single page citing literally the back of the same book The Dean called me in and said even though it wasn't respectable technically it was passable because I cited my sources so it was no longer considered plagiarism got my honors taken but passed the course and still got my French major bygones will be bygones wish I did more and I think it could have won but just that a little bit of freak you felt good and saved me hours of work so did this guy intentionally try to trap all of those students and make them suffer for literally no reason at all and if the book is multiple choice how did you know cite your answer what do you mean how do I know said my answer I was literally told A B C or D I didn't use a source to answer this question it was right there but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another awesome malicious compliance story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories
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today we have a crazy entitled parent story of a dad whose dead set on reunifying a family we'll get into that in a bit but first entitled stepdad who I went no contact with two years ago came to my door demanding to see my daughter another update so after my stepdad came to my door a couple months ago kicking the door yelling and cussing he already had his court date the reason he was arrested was because he was trespassing wouldn't leave when the police told him to leave and he threatened a police officer the reason why I went no contact was because he abused me my entire life he essayed for 2 years and assaulted me anyways he had his court date February the 6th I looked up all the information online and I also had cousins on my mother's side of the family feeding me information as well he got off lightly and it's a dang shame apparently his lawyer used an insanity defense because he and I quote acted under extreme emotional distress and he was off his medicine the thing is he never took medicine for anything to my knowledge he is is on probation he has a suspended sentence meaning you serve your sentence outside of jail so probation and if he violates the terms of the probation SL sentence he will go to jail and serve the rest of the suspended sentence so he's not sitting in jail unfortunately but I do have a protective order against him if he violates it he goes to jail so I should be fine at the very least op can be reassured that if they do try to show up they are most likely going to actually get in some serious trouble that's a good reassurance to have also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy crazy stories of entitled parents why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that said our next story is my dad thinks a chef isn't a respected job yes he said to me that being so no one will marry their daughter to a chef and he wants me to study something else after I'm done with my studies and that how he thinks of the major I'm studying and he doesn't say a lot of my studies and my mom changed majors and they're never happy for my completion and they're cold about it I think a chef position is a pretty respected job you want to get into a line of work that will always have demand that will never go away and especially if you're good at it will pay you well a chef position is it as long as humans are around food and cooking said food is never going to go away he's a little too old-fashioned thinking in multiple ways here our next story is my sister-in-law is stealing from me and using her baby as an EXC excuse hello Reddit I didn't think I'd be back to this throwaway but here I am my sister-in-law Jessica 29-year-old female and her husband my brother Liam 32-year-old male are staying with me 27-year-old female and my wife 30-year-old female due to Foundation trouble at their own home simply put she's been an absolute nightmare when it comes to taking things that aren't hers and brushing them off because she needs them due to her baby my nephew Liam Jr male 3 months I'll just list the worst of it but do note this is a very condensed list one she took my expensive hair products made specifically for thick hair because and I quote Liam Jr can't handle strong sents and yours are just gentler on his nose she used an entire 16 o bottle of conditioner in 3 days two I caught her trying to take the food I ordered for everyone into her room after it was delivered I ordered almost six full meals to dish out for the entire house and she was just holding this large paper bag in her room she told me she was just sorting through it to find her food but she was sitting down with chopsticks and the door was closed so I call BS three all of my snacks my pantry has a shelf labeled specifically for me due to a mild food allergy that has all the snacks that I bought I keep seeing her walking back and forth past my room with my snacks if I or my wife try to confront her she cries that she's breastfeeding and she needs the energy then she'll get my brother to chew me out for the record we do have a communal snack bin but she won't touch the snacks in there four she took my gift card Stash from my shelf in the kitchen and spent nearly $75 on random BS because she claimed she wanted to make the room more comfortable for Liam Jr I use those gift cards when I go shopping or as presents for sudden events she knows this and still took 6 to eight gift cards out with her it's been non-stop for the last 3 weeks and I'm so freaking done with her she's taken my hair ties my shirts from the laundry my sleep Bonnets and my lipstick she even took a bottle of my apple cider gummies which I know she doesn't like because she's tried them before I feel like she's doing it just to spite me or to assert herself but I'm seriously considering kicking her out edit just wanted to clarify that Jessica used my shampoo on herself not Liam Jr because the smell was I guess irritating him edit two I'm just going to State the the only reason I'm letting these two stay is because of Liam Jr my brother can't afford Housing close to his job and if I kick him out Liam Junior's housing would be up in the air his commute is already 45 to 60 minutes each way and none of our relatives are willing to let him stay to live any closer secondly please do not insult my wife in the comments She was recently promoted and isn't home often but I assure you she sticks up for me when she's home she's told me she's willing to let them stay for Liam Jr but she's shown that she's upset by Jessica's feeling I'm sorry I didn't say that before edit 3/ small update I've been reading through the comments during my work break and I keep seeing the same things being tossed around even the comments that were harsh with it are right Jessica stomped on both mine and my wife's boundaries using her son as a cover and I'm being spineless by letting her stay I also have to accept that Liam Jr is not my responsibility as much as I love him I can't let his mom use him against me I talked with my wife on her phone today and we we've decided that we're telling them to start seeking alternative housing we're also going to get a proper eviction drafted up we've decided they have until Friday the 17th at the absolute latest I will update after we've talked thank you all for knocking some sense into me update 4 we had the talk with them about an hour ago and it went bad fast my brother was screaming Jessica was screaming Liam Jr was crying because of all the noise and somehow that's my fault they yelled for a good 40 minutes about how they had nowhere else to go and they won't be able to stay together if I kick them out it was hard for me but my wife helped me with my stress some highlights from Jessica's rant include you can't have a baby you'll never know how stressed I am you didn't lose anything super expensive why are you acting like this and my personal favorite if you kick us out you'll never see me or my son again along with a healthy bit of cursing I told him that my wife and I's decision was Final and Jessica locked herself in her room with Liam Jr my brother tried to apologize saying that he was just stressed from work and his new baby and Jessica putting pressure on him but my wife cut him off and told him to imagine how stressed I'd been when my things went missing he just kind of slumped in his seat then went and joined Jessica in the room after I denied his please to stay again I heard them arguing for a bit but only for around 15 minutes I got a text from Jessica's mother asking what was happening but it wasn't hostile so I don't think she has the full story I'm debating telling her since she's technically not involved yet I've gotten three or four similar messages from numbers I don't recognize so I think Jessica may have told people my number or posted something I'll update again if anything else serious happens final update Jessica and Liam woke me and my wife up by clambering around about 20ish minutes ago they didn't say much while they packed up their stuff but Jessica did say I hope you're happy now don't expect to see Liam Jr anytime soon I just feel useless I feel like a useless wife like a useless ant and sister I was trying to help and now I might not see my nephew again I went out of my way and now it feels like I'm being punished I'm pretty sure they'll try something again but it's not my concern anymore my brother left his spare key in the kitchen but I'm still changing the locks Jessica texted me that Liam is going to be staying in a motel near his job till they figure something else out and she's going to be stuck with her mother her mother lives 4 hours away for reference you were all right that I needed to have them gone but I I didn't feel so dang bad my wife has been comforting me as best as she can and I appreciate her so much she's been so supportive and I'm lucky to have her thank you all for listening commenting Etc it was the extra push I needed to knock my stupid head on straight edit five another small update I was contacted by Jessica's mother who apologized for her daughter and offered to pay me the value of the item stolen if I let her and Liam Jr moov back in I told her no and she was surprisingly kind and accepting of this the call was very short but I can only assume Jessica told her mother some short or watered down version of what happened I think things are settling down now I also got a text from my brother but it only said that he was safe at the motel I think it needed to happen I think everything kind of ended up where it did need to be there was just no way that things were going to be healthy and good and functional with them still living under op's roof our next story is my father lied to us about his colon cancer my father is a wealthy jerk who worked his way up who is jealous of my mom and her upbringing so he spent their entire marriage bullying her and gaslighting her and siphoning funds from her parents to be a chief skate and save his own money he's also a notorious Casanova long story short she's still suffering from stage 4 cancer after 5 years the cause of the cancer is quite an obvious one and then finally getting the surgery this year during those 5 years he left the house and never spent a day with her and spent them with his Mistresses and their kids whenever we do meet he always plays pity party about himself only to act like he's the saddest person in the world this Lunar New Year was real fresh he told us he had colon cancer so that we can pity him but someone exposed him after he left stating that he told everyone else a different hospital name every time he told that story and he's been doing it for quite some time stage one colon cancer my butt I feel bad that my mom had to deal with this Royal jerk for 30 years it takes a special kind of jerk to lie about something like colon cancer my question is why is the mom continuing to deal with a guy like that our next story is you put my child in danger somehow I'm the issue so there's a ton of context here that is absolutely going to be missing I'll provide what I can to help with this specific story but Lord there's a lot my 28-year-old male mom 58 has been an alcohol holic my entire adult and most of My Teenage life of course she's been sober for long stretches and has slips it's just how addiction is for many people especially those who don't seek out help when she's drinking mom is the most entitled self-centered person I know some context mom had been in the hospital in March and April for an artery rupture in her liver to this day she denies that her history of drinking and her current drinking have anything to do with it fast forward to Summer mom seems to be back on track with sobriety she gets on well with my fiance and has been a big support for fiance's pregnancy I made sure mom was there for the birth of her newest grandbaby all seemed to be well Mom insists that she watches my baby for us after fiance's leave ends and we are skeptically receptive to the idea ultimately we decide to allow this maybe the baby will help her maintain sobriety boy was I wrong I get a call from my sister who tells me mom's been drinking not with or around the baby but it's happening yeah I'm not going to allow this to go on any further I'm about 3 hours away from my car I drive dirt trucks and can't get there fast enough to make sure my baby girl is safe so I call my father-in-law he was kind enough to pick up my daughter and keep it on the download and not hurt mom's feelings if there's one thing mom isn't it's dumb she sees through all of this and knows exactly what's up we find a new sitter and do what we can we maintain incredibly low contact a couple couple of months later I get a call from my sister just to talk the conversation of course comes to mom sister tells me a story about Mom begging to watch her kids but an hour before she was supposed to she instead chose to drink before having to watch my sister's kids this happened years ago I don't know how I got this mixed up but apparently I somehow confused this with Mom choosing to drink and drive with her kids I don't know I suppose I was emotional and got things mixed up remember this it's important for the end on the bright side though at the time of this phone call Mom is doing better again maybe it would give her something to look forward to if we allowed her to watch the baby once a week I approached mom and offered to her that fiance and I felt comfortable with her taking the baby one day a week this conversation goes sour so we decided that we would be comfortable with you taking the baby on Tuesdays I know you've been really wanting to watch her again she says no we ask no she replies well first I want you to ask me this kind of confuses me a bit at first but I suppose it's a fair statement she is doing something to help me after all right all right I'll rephrase would you be willing to take the baby on Tuesdays it would be a big help and you'd get to see her more again she says no I want it all if I can't have every day then I won't take her at all this devolves into an argument where she tries to justify her actions in drinking and accuses me of holding the baby over her head she throws in how dare you call your fiance's father to take her from me I was not drinking that day truth not even after they left lie remember that phone call with my sister from earlier the one with the mixed stories well here's where that mixup bit me in the butt I threw the story I thought was true in her face I'm not proud of it not at all this of course turned into denial and further argument with her conveniently forgetting that regardless of whether or not a car was involved she ultimately chose to forgo the responsibility she claimed to want so she could drink I finally had to stop this whole argument by saying that this was getting nowhere and she could call me when she was ready to address the problem like an adult that call happened the next day but that's for the next post I just want to end this post here and say I love my mother when she's sober she is the most amazing woman I know but that alcohol turns her into the most narcissistic and entitled Beast of a human I have ever ever seen if the community wants more I'd be willing to continue telling the story from the phone call the next day all the way to what's happening now is things progress it gets weird and frustrating but telling this has been oddly cathartic one of the nicest things sometimes about these Reddit posts is you kind of get to vent and you kind of just get to put it all out there and it really I think helps you put it in perspective sometimes in a way that you don't really feel or think about when you haven't put it just on paper or typed it up when it's just in front of you and you have all your thoughts organized I think it can really help you focus on just what's important or sometimes realize how ridiculous some things are our next story is entitled but why what is your one rule for a principle of how to live and one request for others inspired by my childhood self writing to the court when entering foster care the letter I wrote to the court was declared a child in need 15 years ago dear Mom and Dad your 10 rules are my one request one year ago I moved to Florida in hopes of new dreams with my family but only one year later I learned to live without the two people I thought I would never be able to live without I will repair it finally without you both today I'm ready to give you my love without expecting anything back but instead the simple request to give me away I beg you to give me away to someone who will finally care for me and guide me to take care of me not to Revenge upon someone else you both made me what I am but I am ready to build myself into what I can be anything I desire and Beyond Today I am seeking a proper living environment without either one of you you both have made it clear that neither of you is capable of further raising and guiding me dad you taught me that I deserved a more capable mother mom you taught me that I deserved a more capable father you both gave me the ultimate decision from the time I can remember which parent is better you both have always talked so Nega negatively of each other I don't know what caused either of you to dislike each other so much but I really don't care what I don't understand is why you both took so much energy to be so cruel why not take time to communicate and not bash the other parent to your young and innocent children I find it pathetic and sad that each of you was so blind with anger you couldn't see what you both were doing to your children at the hardest struggles in my life you rarely once supported a positive change or pulled it together in the slightest bit to support one another for the sake of your devastated children you exposed em and me to the struggles of finances disaster broken families blackmail slander and so much more during our tender youth you both blame the other party as the effect of my false pronounced childhood you both placed your own selfish revenge against the other parent over your tender and traumatized children as well as influencing our decisions with the slander and defamation of the other's parenting while being oblivious to your use of your own children as Pawns in your chess game both of you always burdened me in the middle of your inevitable fights and told me things that I shouldn't have known you both cornered and robbed me of my innocence through your extensive neglect why are you so ignorant of the obvious truth I loved you both with everything I had but you both left me to fend on my own to become a victim of violence abuse and further neglect neither of you is the guardian in which a parent should be you both fight so hard to keep me from the other parent but don't offer stability you give me false promises when I say I want to leave or when I say I want to come back so today I share 10 rules that I was taught through the awful Misfortune of my so-called childhood I do not deserve to be given up on or abandoned to never maintain a relationship with someone who abuses or neglects me leave immediately and do not believe the false promises I shall never be placed in a situation that denies my self-respect you don't need money to be happy to never choose a negative relationship especially over my own family I deserve a stable environment education is extremely important what makes you stronger is the struggles that you're brave enough to stand up against and fight for your rights do not regret what you've done but instead what you should have done when you had the chance it is okay to be a little selfish from time to time this is a step in my recovery I take action in the belief of opportunity care and guidance of the proper nature when I think of you both I'll think of the happiest days of my life when you both put aside your differences and celebrated my fifth birthday at Chuck E cheeses I will always remember the pure feeling of knowing you both sacrificed your opinion and anger to support me and get along as the memory of the events that took place that lovely day faded I never forget the only moment in my childhood that I felt at peace so thank thank you but please give me away without a fight give me the chance to feel at peace again give me the opportunity to love someone who won't take it for granted if that isn't just about one of the most heartbreaking things you've read in a while could you imagine being a parent that's so self-absorbed you're just focused on trying to get one up over on the other party and then hearing something like this and realizing you completely miss the boat in every way with your kid knowing there's no doover if those parents have any heart I'm sure that hit them harder than anything they've ever experienced in their life this next story is issue with dad my dad was really big this past year on reunifying our family he and my mother have been divorced since I was 11 I'm Now 37 my mother and I co-own a house in Maine my father asked quite a few months ago in July right around my 37th birthday if he could move in with us seeing as things are getting so expensive and he and my mom are not getting any younger as a family we made the decision that this would be in everyone's best interest especially for me since I'm unable to clone myself and be in two states at once my father talked to his sisters and they both thought it was a great idea it would benefit all of us for months my father has been texting my mother not as friends in a more romantic way she was receptive to it he spent Thanksgiving with us and my mom's family and was telling people they were seeing where things were going and what our plans for the future were well this past Friday as I was ding driving home I call my father to just check in and say hi and give him some updates as my mother was in the hospital he drops the bombshell on me that he now has a girlfriend I was a little confused but like okay the next morning I'm talking to my aunt and she drops another bombshell on me apparently a few months ago my father had told her that it wasn't going to work out with him moving back to Maine and in with my mother and I he somehow forgot to mention this to myself and my mother he cannot understand why I am upset and hurt all this time up until a couple of weeks ago he kept on going on about how we were repairing our family and how we were going to be a happy family I have tried to explain to him why what he did is wrong how making this decision unilaterally that affects everyone without discussing it with his family is an issue I told him I don't care about the girlfriend it's the fact that he lied for months when we had made a plan as a family that I was planning on for my future I asked him to explain to me how he expects me to be able to take care of him and Connecticut and my mother in Maine when he is the one who has unilaterally changed the plan especially when he knows my health issues he of course has no answer unfortunately this has brought up a lot of trauma the biggest being from when I was 11 and him saying he was leaving and never coming back I guess he really meant it he just has to keep hurting me over and over again and just expects me to be there for him no matter what he does as I'm supposed to be the dutiful daughter I'm just so tired tired of it yet he'll be the first one to bring up all the trauma our family has been through and just cannot see his part in it I'm so tired of being hurt by him ultimately I think this guy made his decision and he doesn't have to blatantly say it one way or another too op him making this change in this decision on his own and then just totally dropping it on you out of nowhere like that it's like he's flashing you a giant billboard saying choose your mom don't worry about me our next story is mother gets angry because of a comment so I male 31 just wanted to share this to get insight beyond my all-encompassing wisdom recently been on vacation from work stayed with my parents for 5 days stayed with my girlfriend for 2 weeks and came back to end my last days with family since I work basically 7 days a week my mom 51-year-old female this morning started talking to my stepdad about alcohol and how dangerous it is she mentioned she got drunk once while driving and never did it again I told her that wasn't true because as a child I recall multiple instances of her driving while drunk often after my aunt's daily parties we used to have this triggered her and she began to yell at me I remained calm but didn't back down on my words she basically began to say that I can't judge her and that my dad who was not very involved in my life is the real issue and I should complain to him about his lack of involvement my argument is always that I don't need to be mad with someone that barely affected my life being that he wasn't the one berating me and trying to emotionally abuse me because he was not around so I don't have bad feelings to him for that reason because people who don't bother me and harass me aren't the issue my mother who used me as an emotional husband and her scapegoat and Golden Child whichever was most convenient in the moment was my issue as a kid because I was being abused by her as a kid and anything I did wasn't actually that bad because I was a child being antagonized by an adult woman I I eventually just told her that you yell thinking it makes your point valid it doesn't I work in mental health as a nurse and I almost on a daily have to deal with adults and teens who try to abuse me because they have poor emotional control and entitlement related to whatever they went through so it isn't something that upsets me I see my mom is very similar to these people that I care for on a daily basis so I treated her like I do them I spoke sternly but also respectfully and I got cursed out for it my stepdad for 8-year-old male just thought it was funny I'm a guest here but she expects me to do all the chores I told her no because I wouldn't do that to you and I haven't legitimately made any messes I've been here a night in the previous time I ate out and only used the bathroom I don't think I did anything wrong but I often find that if I even disagree suddenly I am a batch butt child who is ungrateful and a coward or whatever she feels like calling me honestly makes me wonder why I even bother trying to to make any form of contact she was right about one thing I am often Mia and only talk when I want to discuss some kind of service between us for example holding on to my mail or doing I for my job which I pay her for I admit I respect my mom because it feels ugly and I feel karma is real I don't want to disrespect my parent I recognize the good they do for me and they have been there for me plenty of times just there is huge disrespect when I disagree I don't believe I have to tolerate it but I also don't think it's right to be a jerk right back the last time I disrespected my mom openly is when she verbally berated my nephew and told him he'd become a woman beater like his dad who was physically abusive I cursed her out and then a lot of bad stuff happened in my life so I assume there's Karma and being rude to your parents even if I feel I was justified so I'm a bit worried for myself now because I think Karma will try to play me if I add anything my elder sister thinks I'm The Golden Child and she's the black sheep like I said I was both whichever was most convenient in the moment I only get compliments from my parents when they're mad at my elder sister personally I feel like karma is a fun thing to talk about or like wish on somebody who kind of deserves to have some bad karma in the moment but I'm not somebody that actually puts much stock into Karma overall though having boundaries and being firm but respectful in asserting those boundaries is in no way disrespectful at all if you're getting Bad Karma for that something in the world is broken but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy entitled parent story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that it I'll see you all next time with some more stories
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:00.240 --> :05.680 today we've got a crazy nuclear Revenge story  of taking out a loan in someone else's name   :05.680 --> :10.880 we'll get into that in a bit but first shaming  my father I was born into a rich home with two   :10.880 --> :16.960 parents and three younger siblings or maybe I'm  being a little dishonest let me add some backstory   :16.960 --> :22.560 my mother was a biracial child who to her own  Mother's Chagrin was more black than white to   :22.560 --> :27.080 attempt to bridge that Gap she was put in an  all-white school and had hair straightened for   :27.080 --> :32.600 the longest time my grandmother was my grandpa's  wife and he had children from his first wife that   :32.600 --> :37.600 were already adults and her mother was barely  older than his oldest I guess in a way it does   :37.600 --> :42.720 make sense because all my step uncles and aunts  have respectable professions one of them is a   :42.720 --> :49.280 billionaire violinist that's how snobby rich my  family is anyway my mother's mom attempted to   :49.280 --> :54.800 control her life in every way she could down to  who she married so she made an acquaintance with   :54.800 --> :00.120 a business rival of her husbands to join their  families together as a pack of business partners   :00.120 --> :06.400 ship thus my mother was betrothed to my father  regular snobby rich people crap because they grew   :06.400 --> :11.160 up around each other and knew of their betral  my parents were an unofficial couple among the   :11.160 --> :16.560 children of the elite and they got to mess around  for a bit somewhere along the line they separated   :16.560 --> :21.920 for college and by the time they met up again my  father had fallen in love with a white woman and   :21.920 --> :27.880 some of his new ideals were a bit racist which  is weird because my grandparents roll their eyes   :27.880 --> :33.120 at the things he says sometimes anyway back  to the story because my dad had a whole other   :33.120 --> :38.400 relationship with this new girl it sounded like  a whole new Scandal for the rich Community if   :38.400 --> :44.800 there's anything the rich ones hate it's scandals  new ones especially there were Whispers and my   :44.800 --> :49.480 dad's parents immediately asked him to shut them  down shutting them down meant breaking up with his   :49.480 --> :55.280 new Lover he couldn't do it and instead opted to  break up with my mother instead my mom was focused   :55.280 --> :00.800 on making a name for herself in her chosen field  so she didn't mind much it gave her time away   :00.800 --> :06.560 from having to attend Galas and all those events  the thing about betrothals is you didn't do it   :06.560 --> :12.320 yourself someone else did it for you so you can't  call it off yourself either no matter how much my   :12.320 --> :17.160 Dad tried to explain himself and prove that it was  Mutual between him and my mother neither parents   :17.160 --> :23.200 would take it it was a few long years of fights  running away and threats of being disowned before   :23.200 --> :28.160 both parents agree to get married to each other  my mother said my father swears it was because   :28.160 --> :33.640 he found out his lover was cheating on him but I  don't really care for the finer details soon after   :33.640 --> :39.400 they married my dad started sleeping around and  started another Scandal this started to anger his   :39.400 --> :45.000 parents because how could he represent their name  if he was out there in the wild behaving like this   :45.000 --> :49.800 when my mom got pregnant with me he slowed down  and when the doctor said that my mother had an   :49.800 --> :56.600 STD that he gave her that might affect me he felt  so bad and was inclined to stop completely he was   :56.600 --> :02.480 supposedly sweet the remainder of my stay inside  my mom's uterus but all of that stopped the minute   :02.480 --> :08.280 I popped out remember what I said about my father  being racist well he was convinced that my mother   :08.280 --> :14.200 had cheated on him with another black man which  was why I was so dark considering my mother was   :14.200 --> :20.280 mixed and much lighter than me I could really see  where he was coming from after a Stern talking to   :20.280 --> :26.560 and a few DNA tests my dad finally shut up about  me not being his child but he didn't get over his   :26.560 --> :32.160 disdain for me as much as my mother wanted him to  like me better she made sure not to censor parts   :32.160 --> :37.720 of me that were censored in her when growing  up like wearing her hair however she liked I   :37.720 --> :43.120 always got to do whatever with my hair since I can  remember and there have been zero questions about   :43.120 --> :49.040 that regardless I grew up knowing my own dad liked  me less because of my skin it didn't help that all   :49.040 --> :54.800 of my three siblings were so much lighter and even  white passing a lot of the time I didn't hate my   :54.800 --> :00.680 siblings though I couldn't they never did anything  to me my parents are rich people people and rich   :00.680 --> :06.400 people are weird my father could care less about  me and my mother was basically left to raise me on   :06.400 --> :11.920 her own her rules for me were few go to school  and study a respected degree if you want your   :11.920 --> :17.360 father to be proud of you that's all I lived for  my father's approval and I did it to the point   :17.360 --> :23.440 where I nearly drove myself mad from kindergarten  right up until High School I don't remember having   :23.440 --> :28.960 any friends that stuck because I'd heard my father  preach to my siblings countless times about not   :28.960 --> :34.360 keeping friends even though the rule became LAX  by the time I was in Middle School a part of me   :34.360 --> :39.400 wanted to show that I could be obedient even  when he didn't need me to be it almost got the   :39.400 --> :44.600 best of me until I made a friend in 11th grade  and we just never separated we went to the same   :44.600 --> :49.760 college and were roommates until we graduated  and decided to move to New York City and figure   :49.760 --> :54.920 out what we were going to do with our young lives  I already knew what I wanted to do but for fear   :54.920 --> :00.800 of embarrassing or ashaming my father I kept it  all under wraps nework York was the perfect place   :00.800 --> :05.960 to spread my wings creatively while still getting  to live a slightly less glamorous life than I was   :05.960 --> :12.080 used to but I was living with my best friend and  so nothing could go wrong my little secret life   :12.080 --> :17.200 away from my parents was being an artist and they  could never know or they would take it all away   :17.200 --> :22.200 from me I've always been crafty with my hands but  my parents are neat freaks who couldn't stand the   :22.200 --> :27.760 thought of anything going on their pristine White  Walls so I only had the opportunity to do any art   :27.760 --> :34.360 in art class I used to mainly toy with pottery and  Ceramics and I still do but holding a paintbrush   :34.360 --> :39.880 to Canvas was where I excelled the most I was  really good at it so much that my best friends   :39.880 --> :45.280 who I'll call May for the purpose of this video  approached me to tell me how good I was a little   :45.280 --> :51.280 back story on how may and I became friends the  art room in my high school was barely untouched   :51.280 --> :56.760 because most of the students were in the more  serious clubs like science and whatnot but the   :56.760 --> :01.560 room was always free to use there was a teacher  who looked after it as well and she was usually   :01.560 --> :06.800 quiet and let me stay in the room much longer  than I had to one Friday we had a half day at   :06.800 --> :11.880 school and while students usually were not allowed  to stay back late I was given an exception because   :11.880 --> :17.200 of my involvement with the art room I didn't know  how much time it passed until someone burst into   :17.200 --> :23.080 the room and out of fear I yelled apparently  it was two people yelling back at me and I saw   :23.080 --> :28.640 a girl and a boy who just looked like they'd been  locking lips I was looking at both of them and the   :28.640 --> :34.240 girl was looking at at my art she ended up shoeing  the guy and convincing me that my art needed to be   :34.240 --> :40.400 in museums I didn't want to tell her that my dad  would kill me so I just went along with it and   :40.400 --> :45.600 it made us hang out more often until one day she  said that her uncle worked with an art gallery and   :45.600 --> :52.040 her dad had a side gig restoring old and defaced  paintings basically she could push my art if I   :52.040 --> :57.680 would just say the word money had never been my  issue and as much as I loved art I also really   :57.680 --> :03.720 loved my family and I wouldn't want to disappoint  them this way so I turned her down but we spoke   :03.720 --> :08.480 about all the reasons why I couldn't pursue art  further and may promise to help me find a way   :08.480 --> :13.920 to keep practicing she got me artsy gifts every  time she had the chance to and what seemed like   :13.920 --> :19.440 a friendship formed based off a mutual love for  art blossomed into the sweetest relationship in   :19.440 --> :25.320 my life it was also May's idea to move to New York  because her family lived there and I could get my   :25.320 --> :31.920 start on being an artist while my family was none  the wiser in their minds I was a marine biologist   :31.920 --> :37.040 who had just gotten a job with a startup company  the only reason my father wasn't pushing for me to   :37.040 --> :42.440 join his friends companies was because I really  sold the dream of learning to love on my own to   :42.440 --> :48.800 him New York was my opportunity to do things my  way and I made sure to live like that I partied   :48.800 --> :55.400 went out on dates did Art and even started a  second degree in art history it was all so fun   :55.400 --> :01.960 and fascinating to me that I didn't even see the  bad experiences as is remotely bad crap weather   :01.960 --> :08.000 at least we can wear what we want bad date you  win some you lose some bad street food or dining   :08.000 --> :13.800 experience it's all a part of these things my  original plan was to take all of my art seriously   :13.800 --> :18.680 but also do it on a smaller scale so that I could  make a decent amount of money while not being   :18.680 --> :24.120 too celebrated that I would reach my father's  corner of the internet it was a small corner but   :24.120 --> :28.920 information sifted through every now and then  but it seemed like the universe simultaneously   :28.920 --> :34.400 wanted good and bad for me I submitted a few  of my Works to a gallery to display at their   :34.400 --> :40.440 upcoming exhibition and all of my art was bought  at once the gallery asked me if I wanted a solo   :40.440 --> :46.600 exhibition and after I agreed I had to go on a  seven-month long painting spree to prepare it   :46.600 --> :53.000 was really hard for me because I'd started feeling  very weird things that I wasn't used to usually I   :53.000 --> :59.800 was in my head long enough to mask how I was truly  feeling but in this instance I had to feel things   :59.800 --> :05.840 and use those feelings to put things on canvas may  also introduced me to a lady who did therapy and   :05.840 --> :12.040 yoga and while that might sound outrageous to you  it was the best thing I ever tried either made you   :12.040 --> :18.240 throw up violently or cry until you fall asleep  whatever happens though you feel so much better   :18.240 --> :23.520 after a session just a month before the exhibition  I made some Headway with my therapist and it felt   :23.520 --> :28.760 like I was ready to be honest with my parents I  hadn't studied marine biology like they picked   :28.760 --> :34.960 for me I did something else that made sure I could  also do art I knew they would be disappointed but   :34.960 --> :41.080 hey at least I was making a reasonable amount of  money I hadn't seen my family in nearly 6 months   :41.080 --> :48.120 so initially they were all elated to see me and by  then I mean my mother and three younger siblings   :48.120 --> :53.440 my father continued to ignore me like always  but this time it felt different now I know why   :53.440 --> :58.600 people always say listen to your gut because if  I had listened to mine I wouldn't have needed to   :58.600 --> :04.040 go there and and face all of the humiliation  I did but I went there anyway after my first   :04.040 --> :09.840 weekend home I let my family walk in on me doing  art related stuff like returning from the shops   :09.840 --> :15.360 with art supplies or setting up in my little  brother's former shed to do art my mother kept   :15.360 --> :19.960 asking what it was all about but I told her that  I would let her know about the same time I let my   :19.960 --> :25.920 father know she looked horrified but I made sure  to assure her that all would be well and it wasn't   :25.920 --> :31.920 something too weird I could see her visibly call  down and she asked me to think carefully and be   :31.920 --> :38.200 safe the fact that she had no idea what I wanted  to do or say but needed me to think carefully was   :38.200 --> :44.200 already enough reasons to pack my things up and go  back to New York but I blamed anxiety and carried   :44.200 --> :50.080 on oh the ways I would have gotten the heck out  of there if I had known anyway here's what went   :50.080 --> :55.240 down it was Sunday and the rest of my family  had returned from church I lied about visiting   :55.240 --> :00.000 a friend from College's church so I could have  some alone time and take take a walk before they   :00.000 --> :05.440 came back and just as I came from the walk and  all the faces were stormy I had a much healthier   :05.440 --> :10.720 relationship with food and I'd started eating  breakfast so I assumed they were just hangry or   :10.720 --> :15.680 something I offered to make brunch and my mother  calmly told me that my dad needed to speak to me   :15.680 --> :20.720 in their bedroom I don't know what it's like in  other homes but in mine entering our parents'   :20.720 --> :26.720 bedroom either meant very good or very bad my  alarms didn't start going off until I entered   :26.720 --> :32.720 into his bedroom and he locked the door behind me  immediately my father started to scream about me   :32.720 --> :39.280 being a sex worker in New York and blaming himself  forever sending me far away for college I was so   :39.280 --> :45.160 confused that I immediately started to explain  myself but I was met with a slap that honestly   :45.160 --> :50.880 confused me further I don't want to go into too  many details but I was beaten up so bad that my   :50.880 --> :57.440 entire body had really bad bruises and I couldn't  do much but cry for a week and stay locked up in   :57.440 --> :02.600 my room it was a little confusing what happened  and I couldn't exactly place my feelings towards   :02.600 --> :09.000 it but as I healed and talked to May Mo I was full  of anger why would he do that to me over what was   :09.000 --> :16.080 likely a rumor my mother and I spoke about things  and I was honest with her but I was also 24 while   :16.080 --> :22.080 I appreciated my parents blessings I didn't need  them to survive anymore I got into college on a   :22.080 --> :26.560 scholarship so he didn't need to pay a dime  and after helping with accommodation for the   :26.560 --> :32.400 first year I dealt with everything else my myself  and I mean by myself because I had a job and some   :32.400 --> :38.440 savings my parents wisely put away for college I'm  not complaining because there were way more people   :38.440 --> :44.880 who had even wealthier parents and they suffered  worse or had to turn to harmful measures so I   :44.880 --> :50.080 wasn't really underprivileged if you think about  it it was also where I realized that by not being   :50.080 --> :56.000 surrounded by snobs there were other ways to live  the fact that I also seemed like an outcast for my   :56.000 --> :01.480 family must have been what made these guys like me  even more more because when they said Eat the Rich   :01.480 --> :07.280 they meant it there were kids who were so rich  that they were the best kind of tree huggers but   :07.280 --> :13.000 I digress my mother and I spoke about things and  she basically helped me break out promising that   :13.000 --> :19.040 my father would be fine it was the first time she  was completely on my side and my heart was warmed   :19.040 --> :24.520 when I got back to New York May's first itinerary  was to get back into therapy but I wanted to use   :24.520 --> :31.440 my anger against my father and not just heal  he was a pest piece of crap to his own child   :31.440 --> :36.880 and deserve the worst for it before I agreed to  let may use her Connections in the art community   :36.880 --> :42.920 for me she had attempted to drag me into modeling  with her for fear of my father seeing me online I   :42.920 --> :48.080 turned it down but my best friend had been working  on a swimwear line with a really popular fashion   :48.080 --> :53.000 company and because we'd worked on a lot of  it together she offered to pay me as a best   :53.000 --> :58.840 friend I felt guilty but may insisted I told her  I'd think about it and give an answer before she   :58.840 --> :04.480 had to launch my answer was that I wanted to be  a model for the brand instead of getting paid   :04.480 --> :10.640 modeling for a brand that big meant billboards  with my half- naked body all over New York can   :10.640 --> :16.200 you see where I'm going with this I think you  can right after my exhibition came up and I was   :16.200 --> :20.880 too busy to worry about my father when things  had calmed down a little I had a chat with my   :20.880 --> :26.560 mother and while she expressed motherly concerns  about the skimpiness of my clothes and how little   :26.560 --> :32.280 sleep I was getting she also seemed proud of me my  father had not shown his face in church since the   :32.280 --> :38.600 images dropped and his blood pressure was through  the roof as a little extra gift I mailed him a   :38.600 --> :44.960 Christmas card of May and I on the front topless  and in a seductive pose no boob was shown and we   :44.960 --> :50.640 weren't actually topless our shoulders were just  bare and my siblings called to laugh about it and   :50.640 --> :55.880 inform me that he had to be taken to the hospital  it might not seem that much but it took a lot   :55.880 --> :02.400 to embarrass my father or make him anything but  but stoic and pissed a hospital trip was barely   :02.400 --> :08.800 child's play in the least judgmental way possible  I just have to say almost a great way to ensure   :08.800 --> :14.960 that your kid does act out and do things that  you're afraid they would do is to shelter them   :14.960 --> :20.680 hardcore and try to censor the world around them  it's kind of like the idea of preaching abstinence   :20.680 --> :26.840 as the only protective measure involving sex due  to hundreds of thousands of years of human nature   :26.840 --> :32.320 and behavior that's almost guaranted ably not  going to work that said our next story is took a   :32.320 --> :38.040 loan in her name and now she can't pay back being  a cheerful Giver can be really tough sometimes but   :38.040 --> :43.120 that's just how I was raised my father used to  be something of a philanthropist he was the most   :43.120 --> :48.480 generous person I knew growing up and probably  still is I don't know since we don't live together   :48.480 --> :54.000 anymore I always saw him give almost whenever  he could and also lend a helping hand to friends   :54.000 --> :59.320 and family members I liked how it made them feel  and the way they loved him so so I always said to   :59.320 --> :06.240 myself be like Dad when you grow up in fact in my  Elementary School yearbook one time I registered   :06.240 --> :11.200 philanthropist as my dream job I didn't care  that I would have first needed a well-paying   :11.200 --> :17.360 job or business or maybe even a charity to become  a philanthropist that's how badly I wanted to be   :17.360 --> :22.720 a giver I may have overdone it at times though  I remember one time where I gave a classmate of   :22.720 --> :28.080 mine my lunch money for an entire term when they  told me they had to walk miles to school because   :28.080 --> :33.480 they couldn't afford the bus turns out they were  actually using their bus money to play video games   :33.480 --> :39.080 in a shop after school and I was only feeling  their addiction by giving them more money worst   :39.080 --> :43.480 part was that I didn't even stop giving it to  them after the school authorities had caught them   :43.480 --> :49.520 in the act the first time I truly reconsidered the  whole cheerful Giver thing was when a friend of my   :49.520 --> :55.400 father betrayed him I was still quite young so I  didn't fully understand at the time until he fully   :55.400 --> :00.640 explained it to me apparently he and his friend  agreed to a business deal where he would Finance   :00.640 --> :06.720 the entire procurement process and get back his  money and half of the profits in return the sounds   :06.720 --> :11.400 like a good deal if you're doing it with a friend  who you think you can trust but my Dad's friend   :11.400 --> :17.360 simply used this money to move himself and his  family out of the country then fully cut ties   :17.360 --> :23.400 with my dad till this day my dad was devastated  and the whole thing took a toll on his health   :23.400 --> :29.920 and our family finances the craziest part was that  despite this my father remained the same he never   :29.920 --> :36.320 said oh no I was scammed so now I'll never help  anyone out again he never changed when he told me   :36.320 --> :42.160 the story it hurt me but seeing his reaction to it  made me feel that it would all be okay in the end   :42.160 --> :47.840 and that I didn't have to change my mentality  because of a single incident anyways away from   :47.840 --> :53.880 all of those childhood experiences I was growing  up and seeing the world in a way any prepubescent   :53.880 --> :59.680 boy would when I got to high school I found out  that it was vastly different toe Elementary School   :59.680 --> :06.520 and there were a lot of very unique characters in  elementary school most kids are truly innocent and   :06.520 --> :11.400 we're not usually trying to oneup each other so  you could trust most of them even if there were   :11.400 --> :17.840 a few bad eggs in the high school I attended it  was a different ball game entirely that was my   :17.840 --> :24.040 first experience with kids from broken homes kids  with negligent parents and kids with literally no   :24.040 --> :29.680 parents the people were different their traumas  and experiences were also so different so their   :29.680 --> :35.120 behaviors were obviously different to what I'd  been used to personally I tried not to change but   :35.120 --> :40.760 in an environment like that it's pretty hard not  to honestly in the beginning I remained generous   :40.760 --> :45.440 and was always willing to offer a helping hand  whenever I could but it looked like people were   :45.440 --> :50.480 taking advantage of me like one time when I told  a supposed friend of mine where I kept my money in   :50.480 --> :56.840 my school bag so he could get himself something to  eat and 3 days later the entire money in my school   :56.840 --> :02.400 bag went missing I I eventually found out that  he told a group of boys where I kept my money and   :02.400 --> :09.000 watched them steal it I was pissed but I wasn't  reactionary so I just stopped putting my money   :09.000 --> :14.040 there rather than confront the boys or reporting  the case maybe I should have made them pay but it   :14.040 --> :18.920 just wasn't who I was a similar thing happened to  me again when I became a boarding student in the   :18.920 --> :24.600 eth grade this time it was my bunk maid whom  I trusted with everything I had that was the   :24.600 --> :30.760 culprit I used to keep my pocket money in serial  boxes locked up in my traveling box underneath   :30.760 --> :36.080 the bed nothing too confidential but it was going  to take a concentrated effort to get those serial   :36.080 --> :40.960 boxes out and find the money I and my bunk maid  were supposed to be brothers looking out for each   :40.960 --> :47.440 other so we shared the locations of our valuables  with each other but he sold me where I hid my key   :47.440 --> :54.080 out to some Notorious seniors in exchange for  some of my cornflakes once I found out I was   :54.080 --> :59.240 broken not because of what I lost but the fact  that my bunk mate did that over something I would   :59.240 --> :05.440 have given him if he just asked it was so obvious  that the serial was just a secondary reward for   :05.440 --> :11.960 him he just wanted to see me in pain from then on  I made a promise to never be that overly generous   :11.960 --> :18.760 guy anymore I was going to harden my heart or  so I thought years went by and I was now in the   :18.760 --> :23.960 University a very changed man with a different  outlook on the world at least in terms of how   :23.960 --> :29.120 I perceived what I defined as help I actually  lost a few friends after I changed because it   :29.120 --> :33.560 turned out they were only friends with me because  of what they stood to benefit I'd been away from   :33.560 --> :39.240 my dad for close to a decade by that time so my  entire inspiration for being the most helpful   :39.240 --> :45.960 person ever had mostly faded and all I had was the  PTSD for my previous tries I made new friends in   :45.960 --> :51.160 the University I never had a problem making new  friends and they were really cool people they   :51.160 --> :55.960 didn't like me for what they could benefit from me  heck they didn't even know what they could benefit   :55.960 --> :01.760 from me at the beginning of all of our friendships  I was a totally different man and kept most of my   :01.760 --> :07.560 privileges lowkey my friends always found out  eventually though but only after they'd become   :07.560 --> :13.280 my friends so it was all good I was always down  to be helpful as long as it's not the reason for   :13.280 --> :19.640 the relationship anyway as time went on my friend  Circle grew you know how it goes from the front of   :19.640 --> :26.240 a friend to a classmate to a faculty made and so  on my friendship selection process got weaker as I   :26.240 --> :31.800 needed to make as many connections as possible to  survive in such a difficult environment at first   :31.800 --> :36.840 this wasn't an issue because it was super helpful  but over time some people tend to overestimate   :36.840 --> :41.840 their importance in your life and they start to  nudge themselves into spaces you probably don't   :41.840 --> :46.600 want them to be in this was the case with a  friend one of the guys in my initial friend   :46.600 --> :53.000 group I can't really put my hand on when we first  met or how her face became so common in my spaces   :53.000 --> :57.800 she just appeared honestly I probably found out  she was friends with my buddy after our third   :57.800 --> :03.480 or fourth hangout Hangouts in the University  could be anything from a pool party to being at   :03.480 --> :09.120 the backseat of chemistry class her face became  so common you could barely tell that she wasn't   :09.120 --> :14.400 in our close Circle a few months prior I won't  lie I warmed up to her because she was pretty   :14.400 --> :20.240 cool and easygoing with most people and that was  an attribute which I admired so that's how she   :20.240 --> :26.920 became one of the Bros I must tell you having  a girl as one of the Bros cannot be understated   :26.920 --> :31.120 especially when you're in the University all  the months where my closest friend Circle was   :31.120 --> :38.480 all guys we made a joint meal maybe four or five  times when we had a girl join in she was making us   :38.480 --> :43.720 meals like every other day now I know you might  want to attack us for our gross incompetence in   :43.720 --> :49.000 the kitchen and probably in life as a whole but  I think I should mention to you that we were all   :49.000 --> :55.080 boys from decent families so we had people help  us do a lot of basic stuff growing up of course   :55.080 --> :59.760 for some of us going to boarding school changed  most of of that but we weren't allowed to cook   :59.760 --> :04.960 there so that issue persisted I learned to cook  a bit from watching my mom do her magic in the   :04.960 --> :10.120 kitchen but I didn't learn enough variety for  self- sustenance then there was the big issue   :10.120 --> :15.720 of self-motivation towards cooking for a group of  boys I don't know how my mom did it with me and   :15.720 --> :21.360 all of my brothers but having to sort all those  ingredients into a recipe looked like calculus   :21.360 --> :27.680 to me that's why I along with my boys welcomed a  female into the group for the very first time to   :27.680 --> :34.000 be honest aside her tasty meals she was actually  into a few things we loved too like animals and   :34.000 --> :39.880 science so it wasn't like we were using her  for her chefing skills that was just a bonus   :39.880 --> :45.120 that benefited everyone in response we usually  got her most of what she wanted as long as it   :45.120 --> :51.120 was within our means it was a perfect relationship  especially as none of us harbored any nonplatonic   :51.120 --> :56.840 feelings towards her as that could have easily  have damaged the Dynamics of the relationship   :56.840 --> :02.600 however I think we might have spoiled her because  a few months after she basically became one of us   :02.600 --> :08.560 she started to demand much more than usual I got  it when she asked for stuff on her birthday or   :08.560 --> :13.680 days where she was celebrating something but as  soon as we all let our guards down she began to   :13.680 --> :18.560 change the first time I noticed the changes in  our female friend was when we were going through   :18.560 --> :24.760 our regular cycle of having literally no money  we lived well above the average on campus so we   :24.760 --> :30.160 usually had big bills to pay and bill paying  period left us with no money most of the time   :30.160 --> :35.560 in one of such periods our female friend told us  how her father had fallen ill and was unable to   :35.560 --> :40.400 sort her school fees for that semester we were  never going to allow any of our friends to go   :40.400 --> :46.720 through such problems but that period was so tight  that we could barely even raise a quarter but we   :46.720 --> :53.120 explained the situation to her nonetheless to our  greatest shock she only begrudgingly accepted what   :53.120 --> :58.840 we could offer as if she was entitled to the  entire money from us this this was the first   :58.840 --> :05.280 red flag but none of us saw it and life continued  after the incident I also noticed that she began   :05.280 --> :11.000 to feed us less of her wonderful cooking I'm not  saying she should have continued because it was   :11.000 --> :16.560 probably the wakeup call we needed but I noticed  it nevertheless those things might look huge in   :16.560 --> :21.720 hindsight but at this point in time they were too  subtle for their motive to be truly noticed I'm   :21.720 --> :26.880 not proud seeing this but we were oblivious to a  lot of things that happened outside our bubble I   :26.880 --> :31.800 didn't even know when anything that went on in the  personal lives of anyone that wasn't in my circle   :31.800 --> :36.720 that's how bad it was not caring too much about  the personal lives of people around you means you   :36.720 --> :42.320 know too much about those in your circle because  they will tell you everything we all knew or   :42.320 --> :47.640 thought our females friend father was sick but we  didn't know what he was suffering with until one   :47.640 --> :53.760 day she came out clean to tell us something pretty  shocking he had been diagnosed with cancer I won't   :53.760 --> :59.800 lie I don't know the man but it sent chills down  my spine she also told us that he needed surgery   :59.800 --> :05.160 as soon as possible or he was going to be dead  within a couple of months she wasn't from a rich   :05.160 --> :11.280 or even middle class home so we knew she couldn't  afford it but we had to do something the fee was   :11.280 --> :17.280 quite large and even a crowdfunding effort between  us wouldn't have been enough on one hand we were   :17.280 --> :21.960 considering creating awareness for her father's  case around the school but none of us had the   :21.960 --> :28.560 knowhow or Zeal to go through such a process  of asking random people for financial aid we   :28.560 --> :34.520 were usually the financial aid so we decided to  reach out to our various homes to ask for help   :34.520 --> :39.600 I had to lie to my dad that I needed money for a  project and a couple of my friends did the same   :39.600 --> :45.080 then I also emptied my entire Bank savings and  lent some money for my elder sister but sadly   :45.080 --> :50.800 the money was still not enough luckily for us she  knew an agency that gave out low interest loans   :50.800 --> :56.560 to people in desperate need so all she needed  to do was register she didn't have a laptop so   :56.560 --> :01.360 she made me do the entire process for her with  mine and gave me all the credentials I needed to   :01.360 --> :06.400 take the loan in her name when we successfully  raised the money I was feeling like the power   :06.400 --> :11.480 of friendship had just saved a poor man from  death but after we thought we had settled it   :11.480 --> :17.400 all something suspicious happened it had been a  month since we celebrated raising the funds for   :17.400 --> :23.200 our friend's father's surgical operation and  we hadn't seen her ever since in our minds we   :23.200 --> :29.040 were truly worried especially as we couldn't reach  her we thought the worst happened we weren't even   :29.040 --> :34.360 thinking about all the money we raised because it  was a worthless worry at that point we once tried   :34.360 --> :39.280 to declare her missing but the authorities  confirmed to us that she was indeed alive   :39.280 --> :44.080 which was a relief but we still felt she hadd been  avoiding school because something bad had happened   :44.080 --> :49.920 during the operation we were just hoping our  friend was okay but what we saw was the shock of   :49.920 --> :55.440 Our Lives one day we decided to go to the mall to  cool off from all the school workor and thoughts   :55.440 --> :00.880 of our grieving friend while we were chilling in  the parking lot one of my buddies saw a lady come   :00.880 --> :08.160 out of a NIC looking car and alerted us we were  unable to believe our eyes it was our friend and   :08.160 --> :13.600 she was okay we all rushed towards her to know  what had happened but a huge guy came out through   :13.600 --> :19.480 the driver's seat to basically try to fend us  off before she let him know she was cool with us   :19.480 --> :24.560 but this whole misunderstanding was enough excuse  for her to dodge the questions we threw at her so   :24.560 --> :30.240 it was left for us to do our own investigations  on further investigation we discovered that the   :30.240 --> :36.400 huge guy from earlier was actually her boyfriend  when I said we were oblivious I Meed because it   :36.400 --> :43.160 also turned out that he was a scam artist I began  to connect the dots and found out a possibility   :43.160 --> :49.560 that he had used our female friend to extort money  off us and that the father suffering with cancer   :49.560 --> :55.600 thing was probably an elaborate part of the plan  after some more research into the situation it   :55.600 --> :01.040 turned out that all of my fears were were valid  they had indeed scammed us off our money and used   :01.040 --> :05.920 the loan she took to make it more believable  it was even more crazy when I found out that   :05.920 --> :11.520 most of the money was used to buy the nice car we  saw them come out of at the mall despite reading   :11.520 --> :17.160 all this I still needed to hear her confirm the  allegations for herself so I tried to reach out   :17.160 --> :22.800 over the phone several times but I couldn't get  her I was finally able to see her on campus alone   :22.800 --> :29.480 one day and confronted her about the situation but  rather than be remorseful or possibly terrified   :29.480 --> :34.000 she seemed to rub it in that she was never in  it for the friendship and that it was all a   :34.000 --> :40.720 plan from the beginning her words truly broke my  spirit all these years I thought I'd moved on from   :40.720 --> :47.160 being such a fool but it turned out I was wrong  at that point there was only one thing on my mind   :47.160 --> :53.640 after our altercation I let my friends know of her  reaction and every word she said they had all lost   :53.640 --> :59.040 money to the scam too and because we mostly lie  to our parents to Source the money it was going   :59.040 --> :04.280 to be hard to build a case to get it back the only  thing we could truly do was get our revenge in   :04.280 --> :10.840 one way or another luckily for us fate had me  planned for that very moment remember earlier   :10.840 --> :16.240 during the fun sourcing process when I helped her  secure a loan in her name turned out I still had   :16.240 --> :22.800 her credentials stored in my PC even to the most  minute detail so I told my friends and the plan   :22.800 --> :29.200 was simple we take a huge Loan in her name we  didn't just take aug huge loan we maxed out the   :29.200 --> :37.120 loan limit set a short payback period and set more  generally unfavorable terms that's how badly we   :37.120 --> :42.720 wanted to get back at her we took out even more  than what we had raised for the farle operation   :42.720 --> :50.120 and sat back as the results came out and boy do  I tell you the results were quite stupendous her   :50.120 --> :54.840 boyfriend had to sell the car after using it for  less than a month and it still wasn't enough for   :54.840 --> :00.360 them to repay the loan According to some mutuals  who knew them they also had to sell most of their   :00.360 --> :06.160 other properties because the deadline was set  pretty close she probably knew it was us behind   :06.160 --> :10.880 the whole thing but there was nothing she could  do because there was no true evidence she could   :10.880 --> :17.760 use against us we might have taken a loan in her  name but she was the one who got paid back so I   :17.760 --> :22.720 guess my question is what did they do with the  money when they got the loan because I'm willing   :22.720 --> :28.280 to bet with a large sum of money you're going to  be like afraid that they're going to come for it   :28.280 --> :33.280 that there's going to be some kind of legal action  where do you try to like stash that you can't just   :33.280 --> :38.720 like hide it away in some bank account right and I  guess the second question is once you have waited   :38.720 --> :43.400 long enough that you feel okay maybe they're not  going to come after this money do you pay back all   :43.400 --> :49.560 the people that you took money from or do you just  continue that lie that it all went to somebody who   :49.560 --> :54.400 had cancer although this Revenge was done it left  me with even more questions about what happened   :54.400 --> :59.680 afterwards but with that being said that's all  the time we have for today now if you want to hear   :59.680 --> :05.640 another absolutely crazy Revenge story check out  that video on the left or if you missed my latest   :05.640 --> :11.520 video check out that video on the right that said  I'll see you all next time with some more stories
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:09.640 --> :14.440 I had always thought getting married to the guy of  your dreams would be a very enjoyable experience,   :14.440 --> :18.600 ever since I was little, I had always had the  mind-set that the guy I would eventually get   :18.600 --> :25.400 married to would be a very respectable, loving,  caring and by far, would be my perfect guy. I   :25.400 --> :30.120 guess this is what most ladies usually dream  of when asked of their future partners. But I   :30.120 --> :35.680 can tell you with all honesty there is in the  world, my case was most definitely not it. For   :35.680 --> :43.040 as long as I can remember in my marriage, I have  never experienced a much coy switch up or drastic   :43.040 --> :48.760 change in a man’s character than I did in Tom. My name is Emily, I've been married to my husband,   :48.760 --> :54.280 Tom, for almost 6 years, or 7th anniversary  would be coming up by October. I would not   :54.280 --> :58.760 say I have not been happily married for  the entire 6 years, because there was most   :58.760 --> :03.760 definitely a period where I experienced the  sweetness and pure nature of love from Tom,   :03.760 --> :09.080 which was around the first year of our marriage. My story and Tom’s go way back to when we had met   :09.080 --> :13.800 for the very first time. This was immediately  after graduation from high school. Tom and   :13.800 --> :18.640 I have been mere acquaintances back then in  high school, as back then, he was the kind of   :18.640 --> :23.440 guy that would rarely associate himself with  other people, either in social gatherings or   :23.440 --> :29.680 in general. He was what you would call a strict  introvert. I on the other hand, was overly social,   :29.680 --> :34.560 and thus I knew next to everyone everywhere  I went, and I was basically the most social   :34.560 --> :39.560 person you would ever meet . At the time, I just  knew there would have been no reason for the both   :39.560 --> :44.680 of us to even associate with each other. However,  this would change much sooner than I had thought.   :44.680 --> :49.800 So the school had organised a closed in party  for the members of the school, which involved and   :49.800 --> :55.960 not excluding the academic staffs, non academic  staffs, and obviously the students. During this   :55.960 --> :01.660 period while everyone was being asked out to the  upcoming party, I was surprisingly left out, as I   :01.660 --> :07.040 had received no offer from anyone. It it kind of  hurt at the time, seeing as amongst all my peers   :07.040 --> :12.680 and my friends I was the one most likely to have  a partner to the dance. I just waited patiently   :12.680 --> :18.800 as I began to get less and less interested in the  dance, as at this time, every single person was   :18.800 --> :24.600 literally taken. To the extent that I even went as  far as taking matters into my own hands, by going   :24.600 --> :30.000 around and asking guys myself if they would like  to go to the dance with me, and practically every   :30.000 --> :35.340 single person that I had approached and asked  literally turned me down on the spot, even guys I   :35.340 --> :39.480 had thought that were single at the time and would  not have had a date to the party at the time,   :39.480 --> :44.480 were among those that turned me down at the time.  It got to a point that it became frustrating,   :44.480 --> :50.440 and then later on, annoying. But I just decided  to pay it no mind, as this was no longer something   :50.440 --> :55.880 that interested me again. But seeing as the  school made the attendance to the party mandatory,   :55.880 --> :00.080 I just had to come regardless of whether or  not I had a partner to go to the dance with.  :00.080 --> :05.880 It was the day of the party, a very sad and long  friendly morning, and all my friends were so   :05.880 --> :11.720 excited about the dance seeing as they even left  me out of their conversation and their after party   :11.720 --> :17.440 plans, seeing as I did not have a partner of my  own. It hurt that my friends would do this to me,   :17.440 --> :22.280 but I did not take it to heart. My goal that  evening was just to survive the party night   :22.280 --> :27.240 and forget it had ever happened. The school  dismissed the students quite early that day,   :27.240 --> :32.120 as we were instructed to head back to our homes  and prepare for the party which was slated for the   :32.120 --> :37.520 same evening that very day. We were dismissed  at around a few minutes past 12PM and were to   :37.520 --> :42.160 reconvene back at the school Gym which was  where the party was supposed to take place.   :42.160 --> :48.520 I got there a few minutes past 7PM, as the time of  commencement of the party was 30 minutes after 6,   :48.520 --> :53.960 but I was not willing to comply by this time,  seeing as I was practically the least motivated   :53.960 --> :59.960 person to come for the party at the time. Little  did I know that I was only seconded by one person,   :59.960 --> :05.520 which was none other than Tom. Apparently when  I got to the venue of the party, I had no idea   :05.520 --> :11.800 that Tom was also not present, as you could say  he has a zero rating on his social presence. I   :11.800 --> :16.360 just sat down at the corner of the room, while I  watched as every single one of my friends had the   :16.360 --> :22.560 party of their lives, everyone was paired up and  ready to get the party started, but there I was,   :22.560 --> :28.760 sitting in the corner of the room like some loser.  At the time, I had not the mind nor the intention   :28.760 --> :34.720 to stay in the room any longer, so I just left  the premises as I headed back to the class area,   :34.720 --> :38.800 just to try and get a breather. And as I  approached the class I wanted to cool my   :38.800 --> :44.960 head off in, there he was, Tom was already in  the room I was making plans on making use of,   :44.960 --> :51.440 to pass the time. The moment I saw him in the  class, I tried to apologise and leave immediately,   :51.440 --> :56.840 but he stopped me and said if I wanted to make use  of the class, I was free, seeing as he literally   :56.840 --> :02.440 had not the right, nor the power to stop me  from doing so. I was still being stubborn and   :02.440 --> :07.760 reluctant at the time, but I later gave In and  came into the class. We initially had a really   :07.760 --> :13.840 long moment where neither of us had anything to  say to the other, until I asked what his name was,   :13.840 --> :19.200 what grade he was in, and why he was here in the  class room and not out there in the Gym enjoying   :19.200 --> :25.520 himself. He responded in same and asked why I was  also not in the gym, but rather I was looking for   :25.520 --> :31.560 a place to escape down to. I explained myself to  him, which till this day, I do not know why I did   :31.560 --> :37.120 so to a complete stranger at the time, but he did  the same, as he also told me why he was here in   :37.120 --> :42.760 the classroom and not down there in the gym.  Surprisingly we both had very similar reasons,   :42.760 --> :47.720 as he too was not able to fins someone he could  take to the party, and thus after he had checked   :47.720 --> :52.560 himself into the party, he immediately found a  chance to leave the party and come here just to   :52.560 --> :59.520 enjoy some quality and alone time all by himself.  He seemed like a really nice enough person and I   :59.520 --> :05.160 began to wonder why It was that I had never once  remembered myself engaging in a conversation with   :05.160 --> :10.600 him. The night was a very long one and we both  had lots of things to say to each other all to   :10.600 --> :16.520 pass the time we had. We talked about a lot, who  we both were individually, what we had planned for   :16.520 --> :22.320 ourselves in the nearest future, what our goals  and ambitions were, what we had planned to do once   :22.320 --> :27.840 we got out of High-school, just basic stuffs like  that. And before you know it, it was not too long   :27.840 --> :33.400 before we saw that every person that was attending  the party began exiting the Gym, as it was already   :33.400 --> :38.720 signalled, the end of the party that is, I was  initially surprised, as I thought at first that   :38.720 --> :44.520 the party was ended abruptly, but after checking  my phone for the time, I realised that time was   :44.520 --> :49.720 far spent. And I did not notice this because  Tom and myself were both having one of the most   :49.720 --> :55.760 interesting and intelligent conversations I have  ever had. I even thought to myself back then that,   :55.760 --> :01.400 I had never recalled myself having a conversation  with someone, and the I would begin losing track   :01.400 --> :06.840 of time, as I was a very time conscious person.  Anyways after which we had seen the members of   :06.840 --> :11.720 the school begin exiting the school premises  and conducting searches in the classrooms,   :11.720 --> :16.240 to find out if there was any students that  was still lingering around in the classrooms,   :16.240 --> :21.560 we decided to get up and leave the classroom. The  conversation we were having was so interesting   :21.560 --> :26.600 and captivating, that I just could not help but  request for his number so that we both would be   :26.600 --> :32.000 able to meet on another time. We exchanged numbers  and we both went on our way home. It was after I   :32.000 --> :37.640 had gotten home, gotten myself settled down, and  freshened up, that I realised that at that moment,   :37.640 --> :42.560 I actually was kind of interested In Tom. I Know how crazy I must sound, but that   :42.560 --> :48.480 was genuinely how I felt at the time. Probably it  was because I was already rejected by practically   :48.480 --> :54.360 everyone I knew at the time and for others that  I just had relations with, I was still rejected   :54.360 --> :59.800 by them. So this seemed like it was right from  the get go. I paid little to no attention to what   :59.800 --> :03.840 ever it was that was running through my mind  at the time that was trying to make me lose   :03.840 --> :08.920 interest in Tom. I mean how could I possible  do that, for one he was the perfect gentleman   :08.920 --> :14.200 to me throughout the time we were together,  he is very good looking, the perfect height,   :14.200 --> :20.240 his voice was the perfect level of deep, and  his demeanour was sublime. Everything about him   :20.240 --> :25.280 just caught my attention, I didn’t think there  was anything that could ward me off from him.  :25.280 --> :29.920 Following out resumption back to school the  following week, Tom and I got really close,   :29.920 --> :35.000 in fact, I could say it took us a few days less  than a month for the both of us to become as close   :35.000 --> :41.720 as we did at the time. It was really something.  We were practically inseparable. It came sooner   :41.720 --> :47.520 rather than later, that is Tom asking me out. I  knew this was coming, because I have practically   :47.520 --> :52.800 been hinting it to him in the most subtlest way  possible and I always knew he picked up on the   :52.800 --> :58.160 hints. Anyways following the events that  happened and took place the coming weeks,   :58.160 --> :03.520 he finally asked me to be his girlfriend and this  was the very beginning of our journey, together.  :03.520 --> :08.040 We would occasionally go out on dates during  our free time, and I could ay this helped In   :08.040 --> :12.880 boosting the current state of our relationship.  The realisation that he really was a handsome   :12.880 --> :18.320 enough guy that I had started to notice that  he could and would most definitely be getting   :18.320 --> :24.480 offers from other girls, as he was perfect in any  way physically possible, and to top things off,   :24.480 --> :30.400 he was literally the perfect gentleman. I mean  what else could a lady ask for in a man. I even   :30.400 --> :35.600 jokingly tried to tease him about it one of these  days we were hanging out together, when something   :35.600 --> :41.040 happened. So picture this, we went out on a date  to one of our famous and regular restaurants for   :41.040 --> :46.400 our usual dates, and after which we had already  placed our orders, we decided to take our usual   :46.400 --> :51.640 spot at the corner of the restaurant and hang out,  only foe a lady to walk up to him and complement   :51.640 --> :57.600 him om his beauty and how good looking he was.  He seemed shy bat first but after she had left   :57.600 --> :03.960 our table, he seemed gleeful and really proud of  himself. I was happy my man was really this happy,   :03.960 --> :10.560 and this perfect, but I did not fancy the idea  of another woman complementing him on his beauty,   :10.560 --> :16.360 while I was there and even while I was not. But  he seemed happy about it, and I just tried to   :16.360 --> :21.720 lighten the mood by teasing him about it, and he  almost snapped at me, trying to defend himself,   :21.720 --> :26.760 by saying it was not his fault she came up t meet  him and all, and that what did you want from and   :26.760 --> :32.480 for him to do when ever such a situation should  happen again. I just tried to lighten the mood,   :32.480 --> :37.240 but it had seemed at this time that things  were starting to get heated and serious,   :37.240 --> :43.080 so I just decided to drop the matter, and let us  enjoy the time we had to spend together that day.  :43.080 --> :47.080 This was the first event that had happened  like this, and soon after being together   :47.080 --> :51.840 with him for many years, I could say it  most definitely does not get any better,   :51.840 --> :57.040 as it only gets worse and the more I tried to keep  quiet on the matter but it got to a point I just   :57.040 --> :02.360 could not. Soon after graduating high-school  and college, we both were still together and   :02.360 --> :08.000 strong for almost 4 years back then. So we had  decided to move in together with each other,   :08.000 --> :13.120 because at the time this had seemed like  a not so logical but reasonable enough.   :13.120 --> :18.080 We moved in together, and a few months after we  had moved in together, he decided to propose to   :18.080 --> :24.040 me at the time. And I accepted immediately as I  loved him that much and I was fully willing and   :24.040 --> :29.440 ready to be with him all my life at the time. Even  considering the fact that we still have not found   :29.440 --> :34.720 out a reasonable and effective enough solution to  the problem of ladies approaching him and kill,   :34.720 --> :39.680 which I thought would stop the moment he began  making it general knowledge that he was already   :39.680 --> :45.720 happily married and taken. However the most put  of character and context thing happened one very   :45.720 --> :51.200 day that crumbled the very foundation of our  marriage, and had thus led to both of us having   :51.200 --> :56.320 second doubts about our marriage at the time. So Tom had initially told me he was going to be   :56.320 --> :01.560 away from home for just 2 days pending the time  he was going to be done with a certain work order   :01.560 --> :06.520 he had to take care of at the time. I agreed to  him being away for the time he had requested,   :06.520 --> :12.360 which was a full weekend, and I had expected him  back the very first day of the following week if   :12.360 --> :18.280 everything goes as planned. But apparently unknown  to me, I had no idea about the things that had   :18.280 --> :24.600 been happening in his life when I was not present.  So a little birdie told me, and by little birdie i   :24.600 --> :30.560 mean my best friend, Anna, that she would like to  share a very disturbing image she had just taken   :30.560 --> :36.520 at that very moment we were talking. And I got  confused for a moment, but I asked her to send it,   :36.520 --> :42.560 knowing how hysterical and overly hyper she can  be, I just decided to go along with the flow,   :42.560 --> :48.320 and she sent me a picture of Tom at the club  with another lady, and she asked whether or   :48.320 --> :54.160 not she was seeing correctly as she wanted me to  clarify whether or not it was my husband in the   :54.160 --> :01.040 picture. I couldn’t even respond as I was too  awestruck to even say anything anymore. I just   :01.040 --> :07.040 hung up the phone and I broke down in tears. This  went on for a while, after which I had decided to   :07.040 --> :13.320 compose myself and await his arrival to get his  own perspective of this image I had just received.  :13.320 --> :18.720 He got back the following Monday, as planned  and when I asked how his work order was he   :18.720 --> :21.920 began formulating a story for me om the spot, and  when I could not take it anymore, I brought out   :21.920 --> :26.320 the picture Annie, had sent to me of himself  in the club with some other girls, having the   :26.320 --> :32.320 time of his life apparently. When he saw this  he quickly switched up, as he got mad, asking   :32.320 --> :37.200 why I had someone trail him when he was going  out and why I did not trust him to even leave   :37.200 --> :42.360 the house by himself. Somehow he made himself  the victim in all of these. We couldn’t finish   :42.360 --> :47.480 our conversation that say and even when he got  back I already noticed that he had no intention   :47.480 --> :53.120 of coming clean and letting us resolve this as  adults. I decided to wait it out patiently, for   :53.120 --> :59.640 him to finally come clan and apologise at the very  least. Unfortunately I waited for quite a while,   :59.640 --> :05.760 as my waiting soon progressed quickly from  days, to weeks to months and ultimately years,   :05.760 --> :11.920 5 years to be exact. And at this point, I had  already gotten fed up with his attitude, as this   :11.920 --> :17.120 was not the man I had fallen in love with and  gotten married to, and when I found out that he   :17.120 --> :22.400 was still continuing with his activities, I just  decided I would get back at him in the very same   :22.400 --> :28.040 way, but instead of heading out to the club and  picking a random guy, I decided to invite one of   :28.040 --> :34.600 his buddies over and things got heated between the  both of us, and we got to do the deed, all while   :34.600 --> :40.640 I was anticipating his arrival during the act,  but he soon came back home after the act, while   :40.640 --> :47.640 we were cuddling. He was furious, near mad, as he  began to ask why I would do such thing, and with   :47.640 --> :53.200 his buddy for that matter. I just nonchalantly  excused myself to the restroom to freshen up,   :53.200 --> :59.600 as I looked at him and said straight to him while  looking at his eyes, “we are even now aren’t we?”. :22.120 --> :27.160 One might argue differently, when told that  establishing a business enterprise with a very   :27.160 --> :34.280 close friend, partner or even brother, would be a  terrible if not bad idea but that was not the case   :34.280 --> :39.880 with Jared and I. We both were successful owners  of our joint business, and things were going   :39.880 --> :45.760 really smooth not until we got an offer for a buy  out, and Jared convinced me totally to at least   :45.760 --> :50.960 take what they were offering as this seemed like  a more than good enough deal for our business. At   :50.960 --> :56.400 the time I had no idea about the legalities behind  the deal, but I just decided to go along with   :56.400 --> :02.760 Jared, since he was even more knowledgeable than  I was in matters like this. Unfortunately for me,   :02.760 --> :08.800 I was too complacent and decided to let Jared  handle it, by trusting him completely. To my   :08.800 --> :14.480 greatest surprise, he altered the deal to his  favour, and took the majority of the funds we   :14.480 --> :19.640 were both supposed to receive as a result of  the deal of the buy out of our joint company.  :19.640 --> :24.880 Jared’s story and mine go way back to when we both  were about leaving High-school. We had just been   :24.880 --> :30.320 given the pep talk, about how we were to prepare  our lives for the challenges we were going to face   :30.320 --> :35.480 having left the High-school environment and all,  and seeing as we were still very young adults, we   :35.480 --> :41.240 were advices to get something going for ourselves  so as to get something working for ourselves right   :41.240 --> :46.880 before we get into the college of our choice. Back then, Jared and myself had not met even   :46.880 --> :51.760 following the fact that we were both in the same  school and all. After our High-school, during my   :51.760 --> :57.080 search for a decent enough college that could fit  my criteria of offering the course of my choice,   :57.080 --> :02.800 has a decent enough learning and work environment,  and also not too far from my current environment,   :02.800 --> :07.360 I would most definitely prefer one that was  available in my surrounding state, or within   :07.360 --> :13.120 the surrounding vicinity. And when I finally found  one I fancied and the one that fit what I wanted,   :13.120 --> :17.560 I immediately applied and went over there,  just to go and experience the environment   :17.560 --> :23.120 first hand. I asked my parents to drive me all  the way to the college, because at this time,   :23.120 --> :28.160 I had not gotten my drivers licence, and I  could not drive myself down to the college.  :28.160 --> :33.520 The drive to the college was a 5-hour drive, and  at one point it had seemed like the journey would   :33.520 --> :40.520 not end, because for one I had never gone on a  journey this long in my entire life, and secondly,   :40.520 --> :46.320 I was not the one behind the wheels, and since it  was my dad, he tried as much as possible to take   :46.320 --> :52.120 his time, seeing as he was just as slow a driver  as ever. Anyways we eventually got to the college   :52.120 --> :58.000 at around past 11, as we left home really early  that day. We went straight to the orientation   :58.000 --> :03.440 centre so that we can join the others during  their orientation programme. And as we got there,   :03.440 --> :09.280 I thought it would feel kind of awkward seeing as  I knew next no nobody there, until I saw him. He   :09.280 --> :15.720 looked very familiar, seeing as I rarely forget  a familiar face. I just had this gut feeling to   :15.720 --> :21.080 try and approach him, and ask whether or not  he knew me and all. To my greatest surprise,   :21.080 --> :26.600 when I approached him, he knew me immediately and  said my name right then and there on the spot. It   :26.600 --> :33.000 was surprising because at this time, I still did  not know his name. Anyways he introduced himself   :33.000 --> :38.120 and said he remembered me from our High-school as  we went there together and all. I quickly asked   :38.120 --> :44.160 him if he cane alone and he went to find his Dad,  as he was the only one with him there that day,   :44.160 --> :49.720 I quickly got introduced to his Dad, and when we  were done with the formalities and introduction,   :49.720 --> :54.520 I took him and his dad over to my parents so  that I may introduce him to both my dad and my   :54.520 --> :59.400 mum. While they were done with the introductory  formalities, we both left the adults to get to   :59.400 --> :04.440 know themselves, while we went along with the  orientation guide, to get acclimatised with our   :04.440 --> :10.560 soon to be new environment. Getting to know Jared  was a really fun experience as it was nice to have   :10.560 --> :15.840 net someone you knew in a new environment and all. The orientation programme was a really fun   :15.840 --> :21.960 experience also as we got to go to every single  place that concerned us on the school grounds,   :21.960 --> :28.000 but as fun as the experience may have been, it all  came to an end, a few hours after it had started   :28.000 --> :32.920 and we were supposed to head back to our homes  the next day, but the drive home was a really   :32.920 --> :38.480 long one and both our parents were too tired and  exhausted from waiting and sitting down all day,   :38.480 --> :42.520 so both my parents and Jared’s dad decided  that we should all get a motel around the   :42.520 --> :47.960 vicinity to stay in for the night, and we would  leave the very next morning. So as planned,   :47.960 --> :52.840 they all went ahead to take a quick drive down  to the nearest Motel, which was directly outside   :52.840 --> :57.960 the schools gate. And while they were checking  themselves in, Jared and I decided to take a quick   :57.960 --> :03.920 walk around as we were not satisfied with the  ending of our orientation that day. Soon after, we   :03.920 --> :09.640 found a relaxation centre, we settled down, and we  began getting to know each other. I asked what he   :09.640 --> :15.480 wanted to major in and he told me Accounting and  Business Management. I also told him mine, and we   :15.480 --> :20.320 began talking about what we both had planned for  when we left high school and all. I told him I had   :20.320 --> :25.880 plans to try and set up a small scale business for  myself, as I seriously wanted to have something   :25.880 --> :31.440 going for myself. We found common ground on what  we both wanted to do, while we were in college,   :31.440 --> :37.040 but the first stage was to get accepted into the  school first. We soon went back to our motel room,   :37.040 --> :42.200 as we wanted to get more than enough sleep,  as we had quite a journey ahead of us.  :42.200 --> :47.000 The next morning , we left the motel as quickly  as possible, as we did not bring along a change   :47.000 --> :52.240 of clothes, and Jared and I exchanged contact  with each other, as we both had planned to tell   :52.240 --> :56.880 each other, when either of us got admitted. The  journey seemed shorter than it was when we were   :56.880 --> :03.640 initially coming to the college. I had no idea  why, but the journey still came down to 5 hours,   :03.640 --> :09.440 even though it seemed like we were going really  fast. Anyways, we got home safely and I texted   :09.440 --> :14.760 Jared the moment I got back in. It almost seemed  like this was an experience I had missed out on,   :14.760 --> :19.320 because seeing as how well Jared and I were  getting along, one would think that we were   :19.320 --> :24.920 friends and have been friends for quite a while,  meanwhile we had just formally gotten acquainted   :24.920 --> :31.360 with each other over the span of 72 hours max. It took a little over 5 months before the college   :31.360 --> :36.400 was done with the current session they were in,  and then the time for admissions were finally upon   :36.400 --> :41.440 us, as we had both been very hopeful about getting  admitted together, since it would mean that the   :41.440 --> :46.520 both of us would be very much able to get into  the same Dorm and all. The admission process was   :46.520 --> :52.840 supposed to run for a little bit over a month, and  we were just in the second week and still nothing.   :52.840 --> :57.640 At this point we were not at all too worried,  mainly because we had thought to ourselves,   :57.640 --> :02.080 that there was still plenty of time before  the admission period was over. However we   :02.080 --> :07.720 began panicking, when it was already a week left  for the admission process. At this point I had   :07.720 --> :11.840 already thought to myself that it seemed like  we were not going to be admitted in that set,   :11.840 --> :16.600 and I was even already on the verge of giving  up and trying to apply to another college,   :16.600 --> :21.000 which was the second on the list of colleges  I made some months back, while seeking for   :21.000 --> :27.760 the perfect college I could apply to, then it  happened, Jared’s admission finally came through.   :27.760 --> :33.440 I was so happy for him as he was given the course  of his choice, and this was what we both wanted   :33.440 --> :38.720 for each other. I on the other hand, was still  holding on to the last thread of hope I had,   :38.720 --> :45.480 that my admission would pull through. And the  on the last day, after I had given up totally,   :45.480 --> :52.640 almost om the verge of tears, in my room, a mail  notification popped up on my screen, and when I   :52.640 --> :59.560 checked it, there it was, my letter of admission.  I was beyond glad, as I was also given the course   :59.560 --> :06.880 of my choice. I had no idea why my admission came  this late and at the eleventh hour no less. Still   :06.880 --> :11.800 though, I did not question it one bit. I just went  with the flow, as I had already prepared myself to   :11.800 --> :17.520 break the news to Jared first before even telling  my family. Anyways after I told Jared the good   :17.520 --> :23.480 news, he was as happy for me as I was for him.  Soon after the week for admission had passed,   :23.480 --> :29.440 a notification was sent to every admitted student,  embedded in the mail, were instructions to resume   :29.440 --> :34.200 the following week, and also detailed  instructions on what to do upon arrival,   :34.200 --> :40.320 and how to go about our clearance and settlement  on the schools dorms. We were both so happy.  :40.320 --> :45.440 What I felt at this moment was like I was  celebrating with my childhood friend after   :45.440 --> :50.760 finally accomplishing my goals, ambitions and  dreams, even though this was just the stepping   :50.760 --> :56.320 stone to my future. As instructed, we both  resumed as early as humanly possible to school,   :56.320 --> :01.520 to finalise our admission, get cleared by the  admissions officer, and the finally get settled   :01.520 --> :08.320 down in our dorms. Finally things were all  good everywhere. We resumed classes as usual,   :08.320 --> :14.480 and things were going fine academically. I would  not say I had any problem with my classes, as most   :14.480 --> :20.320 of them were pretty for me to understand, as I was  expecting things to take a boost in the difficulty   :20.320 --> :26.400 level. Seeing as my academics were not affected a  single bit, and seeing as I was doing fairly well   :26.400 --> :33.320 effortlessly, I decided it was finally time for me  to pursue my dream of finally owning a business,   :33.320 --> :39.280 no matter how small I was going to start up. And  before I did this, I consulted Jared on possible   :39.280 --> :45.280 business ideas ad strategies, as we had initially  discussed before, he had some ideas on what kind   :45.280 --> :50.320 of business to start up with, taking into serious  consideration, the environment we were going to   :50.320 --> :56.760 set up our business in, the capital needed to  start up said business and some other factors.   :56.760 --> :02.480 Basically I needed him to give me some guidelines  and the go ahead plan to kick start my business,   :02.480 --> :06.720 and after he had done just that, I  asked my parents for start up funds,   :06.720 --> :12.760 as I presented the business idea to them. My  dad was absolutely impressed as he was most   :12.760 --> :18.920 willing to invest fully into by business venture. Basically we went with something simplistic and   :18.920 --> :25.080 simple. Our conclusion on what to venture into was  a mini coffee stand, which would later develop in   :25.080 --> :29.200 the coming weeks into a breakfast joint, as we  thought there were a lot of students that were   :29.200 --> :34.120 looking for something quick to have before going  for their early morning classes and all. After   :34.120 --> :38.880 discussing it with the schools management, we  were given a slot on the school premises to   :38.880 --> :44.680 conduct our business, and I can proudly tell you,  that within a month of operation, we were well   :44.680 --> :50.880 known all around the school for our perfectly  made coffee and also perfectly made bread,   :50.880 --> :56.320 which I usually got from a local bakery outside of  the schools premises. It was really like a dream   :56.320 --> :02.920 come true, seeing my dream of having a business  owned in and by my name come true but I couldn’t   :02.920 --> :08.840 handle the whole management and finances alone,  and so I incorporated the help of Jared and the   :08.840 --> :15.240 both of us together, managed our small business,  until we were able to afford an actual Shop on   :15.240 --> :22.480 the schools premises. To my greatest surprise, we  were pulling 6 figures by the end of the schools   :22.480 --> :28.000 semester. I was really proud with myself,  as this was really what I had wanted. I felt   :28.000 --> :33.240 fulfilled with myself at this point. All these  and my academics weren’t affected a single bit.  :33.240 --> :37.680 After establishing and running our business for  a little over 7 months, we were approached with   :37.680 --> :43.040 a buy out proposal by some private investors,  who proposed we sell off our business to them,   :43.040 --> :48.120 for 5 times its worth. I had not heard of  this immediately they brought this proposal,   :48.120 --> :53.080 because I was not the one managing our finances at  the time, and Jared only told me that there were   :53.080 --> :58.840 some people looking to invest in our business, and  they were looking to own a particular percentage   :58.840 --> :03.440 in it. And this was what I had thought. So when  Jared brought up the contract they had brought   :03.440 --> :09.120 for us for the sell out, which I had thought  at this time, was the contract for owning about   :09.120 --> :15.920 20% of the business, as Jared had said, I just  signed off on it immediately as I trusted him   :15.920 --> :21.520 and that was that. We closed up early as I felt  really happy with how that day had planned out,   :21.520 --> :26.800 and I took Jared out for dinner, as It was my way  of thanking him for everything he had done for me.  :26.800 --> :31.920 It was not until the following week, that I came  to the shop, to carry out business as usual,   :31.920 --> :37.640 that I saw a couple of guys already at the shop, I  was thinking it was the guys Jared told me about,   :37.640 --> :42.360 that he was looking to hire at the time to help  out in the shop and all, but when I went in,   :42.360 --> :46.920 I thought they would greet me, relative to the  fact that I was their boss and the owner of   :46.920 --> :52.000 the business and all, but they welcomed me in  like a customer which was weird, but I didn’t   :52.000 --> :56.920 pay it any mind at the time, and when I tried  to go into the backroom, where my office was,   :56.920 --> :02.560 I was stopped by the guy that was initially  manning the register. To cut the long story short,   :02.560 --> :08.440 I was basically kicked out of my own restaurant.  I got confused. What was happening right now. What   :08.440 --> :15.200 was the meaning of all these, I was readily about  to throw a literal fit, until a guy came out of my   :15.200 --> :21.040 office and walked me in through the back door. We  got into what qas my office and I already saw that   :21.040 --> :26.160 he had already made the place totally different  from what it was. He sat me down and began   :26.160 --> :31.960 answering my questions. After the entire session  I had with him, I was feeling a while lot of   :31.960 --> :38.920 emotions raging inside me, the dominant emotions  were majorly, Anger, Rage, Disappointment,   :38.920 --> :44.920 Betrayed, amongst others. I immediately called  Hared and his phone was turned off, but it was   :44.920 --> :50.280 later reachable and he immediately told me to  meet up as he wanted to explain things to me in   :50.280 --> :55.680 person. I was seriously looking forward to what he  wanted to say that would justify why he sold off   :55.680 --> :01.640 m business. I met up with Jared back in our dorms  as I was already to mad at him to even listen to   :01.640 --> :07.720 him request we meet anywhere else. While he sat me  down, he began explaining why he did what he did,   :07.720 --> :13.080 and he tried to justify what he did by saying  that he felt like I would not take the offer, as   :13.080 --> :18.440 he though it was a reasonable enough offer for the  business and all, that was why he did what he did.   :18.440 --> :23.040 I was too mad at him for what he did, and when  I tried to make him understand that what he did   :23.040 --> :29.880 was wrong in all manner of speaking, he Lashed out  and retaliated by saying he did it to help me and   :29.880 --> :34.960 that if I felt any different, there was literally  nothing I could do, as he was the one in charge of   :34.960 --> :41.560 the money he collected and if he wanted he could  make it so, that I never get anything from it.  :41.560 --> :47.240 This really flipped something off In me, as I  left the room, I immediately packed my bags and   :47.240 --> :53.600 left for home, as it was relatively not too  far, the usual 5 hour drive. And when I got   :53.600 --> :59.480 home I immediately reported the whole incident  to my dad and all, he was furious as I also   :59.480 --> :05.000 tried to add in some spicy and altered facts  about what happened , but basically my dad was   :05.000 --> :11.840 threatening to sue him for everything him and  his family owned. Those were his exact words.  :11.840 --> :17.080 I don’t really know the details of what really  happened legally or the legal process the went   :17.080 --> :22.360 through for the entirety of the case in the court,  even though I as present for the entire thing, but   :22.360 --> :28.840 one thing I do know, Is that my dad won the case  for me as he got a really competent enough lawyer,   :28.840 --> :35.600 and we sued for 2 tines the amount he got from  the deal which was well over $2million dollars,   :35.600 --> :40.680 I still couldn’t believe it, but this was the  current reality Jared HD to face for crushing   :40.680 --> :46.080 my dream and what he did to me. Betraying the  trust of his only best friend. While we left   :46.080 --> :51.280 the course room after the judges verdict, I looked  him in the eye and asked, “was it really worth it,   :51.280 --> :56.560 doing what you did”. And I could see the look  in his eyes. I was pleased with what I had done.
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:00.000 --> :00.960 Posted by  :00.960 --> :05.700 u/Dylan_Farstveet_ 3 days ago :06.300 --> :09.581 Entitled neighbor trespasses  into our backyard for a ball  :09.581 --> :10.291 M Hey, Reddit! Here is the key:   :10.291 --> :11.940 EN = Entitled Neighbor ENG = Entitled Neighbor's  Grandson Dad = My dad So, EN has been giving us   :11.940 --> :16.140 trouble ever since she moved to our neighborhood;  she threatened to sue us multiple times,   :16.140 --> :21.660 claiming that our legally constructed fence was  somehow causing water to go into her basement.   :21.660 --> :27.000 She never actually sued us. The other day I was  on my day off from work, and I ordered some Uber   :27.000 --> :33.960 Eats. Once my food arrived, I went out to get my  food, and I noticed ENG (who looked around maybe   :33.960 --> :39.780 10 or 11) pacing around our sidewalk. I didn't  think much of it and went back inside; however,   :39.780 --> :44.400 afterward, I looked on our Arlo (security  system) app and noticed some new videos. :44.400 --> :51.600 [EN rings our doorbell] [Dad answers through  the doorbell] Dad: hey, can I help you? EN:   :52.320 --> :56.760 "Hey, I was wondering if we could go In  the backyard to get our ball?" Dad: "No,   :56.760 --> :04.380 I can't have anybody going in the backyard. I'm  not home." EN: "Can we go get it back or...?" Dad:   :04.380 --> :10.740 "No" EN: "Can we go get the ball?" Dad: "No, I'm  afraid I can't have you going back there." EN:   :11.460 --> :18.000 "My grandson can't go get his ball?" Dad: "No,  I don't want anyone going in my backyard." EN:   :18.000 --> :23.700 "ARE YOU SERIOUS?!" Dad: "Oh yeah, I'm dead  serious." EN: "I'll go right back there and   :23.700 --> :28.740 open the fence" (I think that's what she said, it  was hard to understand) Dad: "Especially not you,   :28.740 --> :35.400 EN; stay the heck outta my yard. You gotta get  off our property now. I'll call the police." EN:   :36.000 --> :41.340 "You know what? I don't care; I'm calling as  well. I'm calling the cops right now!" Dad:   :41.340 --> :46.140 "Oh, do it because I'm not home."  EN: [walking away] "YOU CAN'T TELL   :46.140 --> :51.780 US WE CAN'T GET OUR STUFF! THAT'S STEALING!"  Dad: "No, you put it there; it's mine now." :51.780 --> :57.120 Instead of just waiting for my dad to text me to  get the ball for them, she proceeded to unlatch   :57.120 --> :02.400 our back gate and go into our backyard after  being told she was not allowed back there and   :02.400 --> :07.200 walked around our backyard to get her ball. I came  out to get my food while she was in the backyard.   :07.200 --> :11.760 The reason why Dad told her she's not allowed  on our property is that she and her husband have   :11.760 --> :16.620 gone on our property without permission before  and has caused issues for other neighbors as   :16.620 --> :20.820 well. We don't feel comfortable with her on our  property, and we have told her in the past she   :20.820 --> :24.900 is not allowed on our property. Obviously,  my dad should not have said that last part,   :24.900 --> :30.480 but after she threatened to sue us for our fence  that is on the property line and never apologized,   :30.480 --> :35.940 and they often hit your house with their ball,  it's kind of hard to be nice to them. Some people   :35.940 --> :40.260 may think that Dad was in the wrong, but he  was going to text me to get it for them anyway,   :40.260 --> :44.040 and even then, they could have just  come back later when my dad was home. :44.040 --> :48.840 [UPDATE] I saw some people recommending putting  a padlock on the gate my dad did that on his   :48.840 --> :52.140 way home he bought a combination  padlock and put it on the gate. :57.060 --> :57.780 Posted by  :57.780 --> :03.360 u/DirtyBisexual1010 3 days ago :21.000 --> :23.880 Entitled stepdad threatened to take me to court S  :23.880 --> :29.040 As you all know I am publishing a book about my  abuse. Read my other posts for more explanation.   :29.040 --> :35.880 But he molested me as a teenager and SA me. He  was very abusive. I am writing my book about   :35.880 --> :40.980 the abuse I endured and suffered. My mother  told him about my book and how it’s about him   :40.980 --> :46.980 etc. I haven’t talked to him in a very long time  he was cut out of my life a long butt time ago. I   :46.980 --> :51.180 got a message from a weird number. Keep in  mind he’s not supposed to message me bc I   :51.180 --> :56.700 have a protective order against him and it’s for  good reason. He messaged me after he changed his   :56.700 --> :02.280 number. I had his number blocked I have a feeling  my mother gave him my phone number. The message   :02.280 --> :09.000 said “I will take you to court if you publish  this book. You will be sorry. If you publish I   :09.000 --> :14.520 will sue you for everything you have. If you  publish this we want a cut of your profits.” :14.520 --> :19.380 I saw this message and was like  wtf. I didn’t even respond bc of   :19.380 --> :23.340 the protective order I didn’t want  to break it. What an entitled prick. :23.340 --> :24.120 Posted by  :24.120 --> :37.560 u/materialisticghost 2 days ago :39.420 --> :42.830 My family can't accept the reason I'm  pulling away from them emotionally  :42.830 --> :42.854 M TW: Brief mention of ED :42.854 --> :42.900 I don't even know if this belongs in this sub. :42.900 --> :49.440 I'm back home from college for the summer, and I  finally, finally, at last got the backbone that   :49.440 --> :53.280 I've been lacking a majority of my life.  I have some semblance of self confidence. :53.280 --> :57.840 But the minute I come home, that just  gets ripped away from me, and suddenly,   :57.840 --> :03.420 I'm 13 again and I can do nothing but sit and  stare at the floor while my parents berate me.   :03.420 --> :09.060 I don't even act out or anything. I just go to  work, go to my internship, do my online courses,   :09.060 --> :13.200 maybe play some Stardew, and sleep. I  don't even go out or see my friends. :13.200 --> :18.720 Every time I come home, I think if I just stay  as invisible as possible, they won't find a   :18.720 --> :24.120 reason to yell at me, But nope, they always do,  and I'm so sick of it. I'm purposefully looking   :24.120 --> :28.620 for internships out of state next summer just  so I won't be home for the full three months. :28.620 --> :32.520 Last night, they asked why we don't have  a normal relationship while yelling and   :32.520 --> :37.140 screaming at me about the usual (family  disappointment, they wish I was never born,   :37.140 --> :42.300 etc.). They asked why I can't talk to them and  I just said 'I don't know how to talk to you'. :42.300 --> :48.900 The minute I said that, all heck breaks loose,  my mom starts wailing, saying it's not a good   :48.900 --> :53.820 enough reason, my parents say I'm not their  daughter, my dad accuses me of having trust   :53.820 --> :58.800 issues and thinking that my family is dumb. I  tried to explain but the kept cutting me off   :58.800 --> :03.420 and interjecting, and just invalidated every  reason why I don't speak to them that much. :03.420 --> :06.720 To clarify, we do talk, I talk to them daily,   :06.720 --> :10.500 but I don't share much with them about  when I'm struggling when I'm at university. :10.500 --> :15.240 The real reason is that I don't know what  to say to them, because the minute I try to   :15.240 --> :19.320 voice how I'm feeling, I just know they'll  bring it up later, when I'm at my lowest,   :19.320 --> :24.720 and just use it against me, because they've  done it multiple times in the past. For example,   :24.720 --> :30.180 I went through a traumatic situation in  2021, that led to me developing an ED and   :30.180 --> :35.040 having to go to therapy, and they brought it  up three times in yesterday's conversation. :35.040 --> :39.660 My dad said it was proof I was freaked  up because I needed a shrink, my mom   :39.660 --> :43.740 said that the experience was more traumatic  for her, even though I had to live through it,   :43.740 --> :50.220 and for some reason, my trauma and me as a  person is the reason their life is crap even   :50.220 --> :54.180 though I don't even live at home anymore.  I HAVEN'T LIVED HERE FOR ALMOST A YEAR. :54.180 --> :59.220 I don't know how to tell my parents the reason I  have trouble speaking to them is because of them,   :59.220 --> :04.500 because every time I try to, they're unable  to accept that they might be the reason why. :05.580 --> :07.500 Posted by  :08.580 --> :19.320 u/rhaegarvader 1 day ago :22.200 --> :24.630 Self-entitled mother stole our table M  :24.630 --> :29.400 We were in a restaurant in Tokyo and followed  instructions to get a table for lunch. This   :29.400 --> :33.300 would consist of getting one of the tags  at the door with a number and placing on   :33.300 --> :38.100 the table to "reserve". We did that and  it was a two-table joined area. Another   :38.100 --> :43.320 lady with a child also occupying a four  seater table was staring at me slyly for   :43.320 --> :47.760 some reason (I should have realised something  was up then). When we were queuing my husband   :47.760 --> :53.220 noticed a woman with a baby pram went to our  table and moved a baby chair over. Then she   :53.220 --> :58.800 queued behind us. We went back and found our  tag was switched!!!The number was different! :58.800 --> :03.600 We got our food, sat down at our table.  Seeing she needed the table badly,   :03.600 --> :08.820 I moved one table away from us so she could use  it. The lady was furious and got one of the staff   :08.820 --> :13.860 to ask us to move. I replied in Japanese (i'm  not a native speaker but I know the language   :13.860 --> :19.800 to converse) and we said no, we got the table  first and booked it the right way. She then   :19.800 --> :24.900 came over and scolded us and I replied again  in Japanese. Then she spoke to us in English,   :24.900 --> :29.400 telling us that she had the right as  she "had a child" and we should jolly   :29.400 --> :34.800 well sit elsewhere. She ignored me and instead  directed to my husband in English, making me   :34.800 --> :40.380 wonder if she was not Japanese and obviously  appealing her situation to a man. Anyhow,   :40.380 --> :44.640 my husband said "you could have just asked  us nicely instead of switching our tags".   :44.640 --> :51.120 She claimed it was empty. We asked for the CCTV  to be shown of which both staff and her paled. :51.120 --> :55.200 My husband felt this was beneath us to  argue. She was obviously throwing out   :55.200 --> :01.080 the "I'm a mother" card. We then told her "since  she wanted it so badly she could have our table   :01.080 --> :06.720 and the food". We left and then we realised,  since the shop was useless at supporting us,   :06.720 --> :12.000 we wanted our money back. So we went back to  get a refund. The whole time I interpreted for   :12.000 --> :17.580 my husband to get the refund, I saw the lady with  the child who swapped our card, was staring at us,   :17.580 --> :23.040 worriedly.. perhaps wondering if we were going to  complain about her? Anyhow when we got the refund,   :23.040 --> :28.140 we walked out and she pretended to feed her  child. I just said "hope you are proud of   :28.140 --> :33.990 your values to your kids after your self-entitled  behaviour earlier". I didn't bother to translate,   :33.990 --> :37.680 am sure she got my meaning. We  didn't ask the other lady to clarify,   :37.680 --> :42.420 we should have but my guess at seeing  her face, she would have feign ignorance.   :42.420 --> :46.620 My guess seeing how she threw her card  out, it was not her first time either. :46.620 --> :51.300 I am surprised as we have never had  this situation in Japan of parental   :51.300 --> :56.220 self-entitlement so was disappointed as  we have visited a few times and love the   :56.220 --> :01.500 place. It did not spoil our holidays but made  me now more cautious when going to such places   :01.500 --> :06.840 and to sit there while another person orders.  I come from a country that has a lesser system   :06.840 --> :11.460 than this restaurant in question and so  far if anyone wants a table that seems   :11.460 --> :16.140 empty and they have more people, they will ask  politely and usually we will be ok about it. :24.360 --> :24.960 Posted by  :24.960 --> :30.360 u/notarjdisndosdb 1 day ago :38.220 --> :43.320 Entitled mom benches about 5 dollars  for half an hour and blocking the line  :43.320 --> :45.120 L So I work as a host for a   :45.120 --> :50.520 restaurant, and yesterday was Father’s Day so it  was PACKED. I worked pretty much the entire day,   :50.520 --> :55.740 woke up at 10am and clocked in at 12pm.  I sat this family down at around 3pm,   :55.740 --> :59.340 and didn’t think much of it. About  half an hour later, complaints were   :59.340 --> :04.440 rolling in. The customers were trying to make  substitutions with the combo meals, and that   :04.440 --> :10.140 wasn’t allowed except for certain items. It wasn’t  for some small combo either, it was worth 100$+   :11.280 --> :16.680 and she kept trying to squeeze in expensive  items to substitute the less expensive ones. :16.680 --> :20.880 When the restaurant emptied out a bit, the  manager stopped by at the front desk for   :20.880 --> :24.600 a break and a chat. She started to  complain about these customers who: :24.600 --> :28.020 1: pretended they didn’t get a part  of their combo when the busboy,   :28.020 --> :32.100 chefs and waitress could confirm it  was made and was sent to their table :32.100 --> :37.020 2: started holding the check and  tip as hostage to “fix” the order :37.020 --> :42.480 3: returned 40$+ worth of food after  a bite because they were too full :42.480 --> :47.460 I didn’t really care too much and just took it as  a interesting story because it didn’t affect me,   :47.460 --> :51.840 but it did leave a horrible impression. After  the customers were done with everything,   :51.840 --> :53.940 they sent their checks with two coupons. :53.940 --> :57.720 Our company policy around  coupons are pretty strict,   :57.720 --> :02.340 because it would only allow for a single  coupon for each table to prevent customers   :02.340 --> :07.140 splitting their orders and leaving a coupon in  every single one of them. I took the 5$ off,   :07.140 --> :11.400 printed the receipt and sent it back to  waitress. She comes back saying that the   :11.400 --> :16.200 customer was complaining about how the second  coupon wasn’t used (when it clearly said only   :16.200 --> :20.880 one coupon for a table in the back). I was  pretty grouchy and couldn’t be bothered   :20.880 --> :25.200 after 4 hours of sleep so I just took off  the price for the hushpuppies they had,   :25.200 --> :32.400 and sent the receipt back. Cards swiped, money  paid, tips? done, customers leave, right? If only. :32.400 --> :36.900 A couple minutes later, a old lady stomped  back to the front with the poor waitress   :36.900 --> :42.000 in tow demanding to know why the second  coupon (which said “when ordering a entree,   :42.000 --> :48.600 you can enjoy a complementary entree for free”  up to 10$ value) didn’t take 10$ off their order,   :48.600 --> :55.320 but instead took 5.15$. Technically, that  was a invalid coupon because we didn’t have   :55.320 --> :01.080 any entrees below 10$, and nowhere did it say  that it would take 10 dollars off their check. :01.080 --> :06.960 I tried explaining that she didn’t order any  entrees below 10$, so I just took off the   :06.960 --> :12.840 hushpuppies. She said “but that says 10 dollars”.  I didn’t really catch her point and just said   :12.840 --> :20.100 “and?” “So I should get 10 dollars off” “No, the  coupon gives you a free entree under 10 dollars,   :20.100 --> :26.400 which you didn’t order.” “Hello? Can you read?”  She started waving her hands in front of my face,   :26.400 --> :33.180 lifted the coupon close underlined 10$  with her nails” and said “10 dollars.   :33.180 --> :39.900 Entree. Hushpuppies aren’t entrees” This cycle  goes on a couple times with our voices slowly   :39.900 --> :46.080 getting louder before she busts out the “then  I want a refund.” card. I gave up and decide   :46.080 --> :50.760 to just give her 10 dollars off. Worst comes  to worst, I’ll just pay out of my own pocket.   :50.760 --> :54.600 There were customers waiting behind her,  and I might as well get this over with. :54.600 --> :59.280 Just when I tell her fine, she took the  opportunity to taunt with her daughter   :59.280 --> :05.760 recording as backup. “Hushpuppies aren’t a entree,  they’re appetizers, I should be getting 10$ off my   :05.760 --> :12.660 entree. Can you even read?” she had a crap eating  smile on her face. Now, there were plenty of cards   :12.660 --> :18.120 I could’ve played here, with the pettiest being  the race card (that realized just now). But,   :18.120 --> :23.100 I just got angry and decided to argue. I won’t  lie, some of the stuff I said belonged to a   :23.100 --> :28.320 fantasy novel with how cringe some of the lines  were. I’m rolling around in bed with embarrassment   :28.320 --> :33.900 while typing this. Here’s how the convo roughly  went: Me: “y’know what? No. I’m not giving you a   :33.900 --> :40.020 discount” OB: “…. I want to see a manager” Me:  “well congrats! You’re speaking to the manager   :40.020 --> :45.720 (I was pulling this out of my butt), and the final  answer is no.” OB: “you’re obviously not, because   :45.720 --> :52.020 I’ve already spoken to a manager. You shouldn’t be  working front desk with your attitude” Me: “good   :52.020 --> :58.680 for you, but final answer is no.” Our voices have  been steadily rising at this point, and the actual   :58.680 --> :04.320 manager walked in and tried to break us up. Then,  the funniest thing happened, her daughter tried to   :04.320 --> :10.320 gaslight me and directly lie to the manager (and  maybe the audience for her TikTok or whatever). :10.320 --> :15.480 “We’ve been polite all this time, but you’ve been  standing here calling us stupid” matter of fact,   :15.480 --> :21.060 I hated this girl more than her (presumed) mom.  She’s the textbook example of a gaslighter,   :21.060 --> :25.020 and she’s probably the inspiration  behind KayAndPeele’s short about the   :25.020 --> :30.540 person who always say “awkward”. All the  way down to that dumb side smirk and how   :30.540 --> :33.480 she makes you feel dumb when you’ve  done nothing but defend your point. :33.480 --> :39.960 She kept gassing up her mom and played the perfect  Karen supporting role by trying to find any morale   :39.960 --> :44.580 high ground or threats. She even tried to  pit the waitress against me using the tip,   :44.580 --> :51.060 saying that she might not get a tip because  of me (a crisp 5$ bill after a hour and a   :51.060 --> :55.380 half of listening and adjusting their  orders to their complaints) It ended   :55.380 --> :00.240 with the manager caving in and giving them the  discount, and they left happy and Scott-free. :00.240 --> :02.460 I think I should’ve just held it in a bit better,   :02.460 --> :07.500 now I got a video of me floating around  somewhere acting like a prick, and I have   :07.500 --> :12.600 nothing gained. I felt super frustrated at  the manager but now I understand there was   :12.600 --> :17.340 nothing she could do. People need to stop  treating food industry workers like slaves. :19.120 --> :19.720 Posted by  :19.720 --> :20.070 u/LegendaryZTV 1 day ago :59.100 --> :01.286 Entitled mother is taking advantage of me…  :01.286 --> :01.300 L So this is a   :01.300 --> :02.458 somewhat long post. I’m gonna try to keep it short  but looking for feedback so might get lengthy. :02.458 --> :07.920 I (M30) currently live with my mother (53) &  her husband (50?). My mother has not worked   :07.920 --> :12.960 a job in 3.5 years, while her husband works  full time seasonally, but gets paid part time   :12.960 --> :18.000 wages due to his employer paying lawyer fees  to keep him out of jail some years back. I   :18.000 --> :24.480 work full time plus overtime (60 hours a week,  federal company even). I got this job in 2019. :24.480 --> :30.480 In 2016, I moved into this 2 bedroom townhouse  with my mother. I was still working part time,   :30.480 --> :36.960 got a full time job that paid well ($16 an  hour +OT) for a 23 year old. I was paying   :36.960 --> :43.500 half on the rent & the full light bill ($400+ in  CT with old infrastructure 💀), as well as food,   :43.500 --> :49.080 her cellphone bill, gassing up her car & buying  her cigarettes. I did not have a car at the time   :49.080 --> :55.200 so she would drive me to the bus stop & asked for  gas & cigs as appreciation for her helping me. :55.200 --> :01.680 The job was contracted, I didn’t get converted to  permanent employee, so a new job came with a small   :01.680 --> :07.440 pay cut & full time for this company was 33 hours  a week but could walk from home. By this point,   :07.440 --> :13.920 2017, my mother had paid off most of her car &  was financially good. I begin to struggle with   :13.920 --> :19.200 the lights and half the rent due to my pay  cut & she made it an entire thing about me   :19.200 --> :24.960 “choosing” to not pay, when I’m showing her  my bank account to disprove her assumption. :24.960 --> :30.780 Fast forward to late 2018, she starts dating  her now husband, could not be happier to see   :30.780 --> :35.640 her getting a life! I get hired at a full  time, well paying job! She decides she   :35.640 --> :40.860 wants to move in with her boyfriend & leave me  the townhouse, with the furniture as a “gift”,   :40.860 --> :48.240 if I can cover the bills & all on my own. I’m all  for it! Mind you, this “gift” came after she stole   :48.240 --> :54.360 the title of my car out of my room & sold it while  I was at work to a family member & kept the money. :54.360 --> :00.540 Jump to August 2019 & I got hired by the Post  Office, best pay, & more hours than I could   :00.540 --> :07.320 know what to do with, I’m banking! Living solo,  enjoying my time to self 🔥 then… March 2020,   :07.320 --> :12.720 I get call that my mother is quitting her job  because she’s tired of commuting (moved 2 towns   :12.720 --> :18.240 over) & she worked in medical & claimed “my  job is allowing COVID patients to come in”,   :18.240 --> :25.200 so she quit… To be a stay at home wife in  2020. Gave her $200 for her birthday & she   :25.200 --> :30.540 then made that a money thing to ask for…  which my idiot thought was fine to help 🥴 :30.540 --> :35.220 Her half brained husband tells her it’s fine,  that he can handle the bills while she “takes   :35.220 --> :40.080 a break” because she deserves it. Whole  time, his butt can’t afford crap. Think   :40.080 --> :45.780 when you sweep a room & brush the dirt under  the rug, except the dirt is bills 🤬 so who   :45.780 --> :51.960 do they call once shut off notices & back due  rent from a year ago is due? Call me. & since   :51.960 --> :56.760 my mother was on the OG lease & we never told  the owner she moved, wasn’t much I could say. :56.760 --> :02.340 The idea was they move in with the intent to save  towards buying a home & leaving me with my own   :02.340 --> :08.460 space again. Find out Half Brain’s credit score  is in the 400’s & my mother not working, couldn’t   :08.460 --> :14.820 apply for a loan! The plan is then “I’ll collect  unemployment & save towards a house”… she finagled   :14.820 --> :20.940 unemployment & her husband job hopped a total of  5 times since. Whole time, I’m paying a majority   :20.940 --> :27.480 on everything, like 70/30 split, because they have  to save & I’ve been “covering it myself anyway”… :27.480 --> :32.700 Every time I talk about moving or apartment  hunting going well, I get threatened with   :32.700 --> :38.640 “eviction” or police calls from my mother,  calls up the family to tell them I’m sabotaging?   :38.640 --> :44.940 “I sacrificed my life for you kids & you don’t  appreciate crap” could be a tshirt in this house. :44.940 --> :50.820 She even has the family convinced that she’s been  working for the last 4 years… this woman bought   :50.820 --> :55.080 a whole computer & has it on the kitchen  table to appear like she works from home   :55.080 --> :00.360 when people come over… this crap is insane  & her husband just supports it like a idiot :00.360 --> :04.140 I need to get away but I can’t  properly save for rent/deposit,   :04.140 --> :11.100 while also paying $1250 for rent & lights  (70/30 split), along with all my own food,   :11.100 --> :16.920 cosmetics, car insurance, cell phone, gas,  & random expenses (just had to replace my   :16.920 --> :24.420 alternator two weeks ago) & local rent+deposit  is $3k plus (central Connecticut). All this   :24.420 --> :29.520 while my mother sits at home & crap talks  me to her husband & anyone who will listen!   :29.520 --> :34.800 And she crap talks all of those people,  broke butt husband(her words) included. :34.800 --> :39.240 I don’t want to dislike my mother but the  thought of being taken advantage of has been   :39.240 --> :44.280 at the forefront of my mind for too long now. I  can’t even exchange pleasantries with this woman   :44.280 --> :51.960 without getting bothered lately. Am I being  to harsh or is this entitled mother bullcrap? :52.932 --> :52.958 Posted by  :52.958 --> :53.760 u/DegasiSurvivor230 16 hours ago :16.800 --> :21.840 Parents ignore my requests to stop giving  me unneeded appointments and continue to   :21.840 --> :25.460 let my brother abuse me, as well as  berating me for having my own life.  :25.460 --> :25.486 Lspoiler Warning: Elements   :25.486 --> :25.583 in this post go over some serious topics. If you  need to reach out, there are services available. :25.583 --> :25.601 Lifeline: 13 11 14 :25.601 --> :25.650 Kids Helpline (For anyone under 25): 1800 55 1800 :25.650 --> :25.680 Mensline Australia: 1300 78 99 :25.680 --> :31.260 Hello everyone. I'm terribly sorry about my  absence and the wait. I've recently got a new job,   :31.260 --> :36.660 and I'm working late shifts. However, the job  is rewarding and I get paid well. I'll start   :36.660 --> :40.980 off with some good news. Me and my friends are  planning on moving in together at a share house,   :40.980 --> :44.280 and I recently had my first kiss. It felt lovely. :44.280 --> :47.880 I'll start with my therapist.  Before I graduated high school,   :47.880 --> :52.680 I had to see a therapist due to my mental  state constantly deteriorating. This was   :52.680 --> :56.940 because I was bullied by nearly every  single popular kid for needing help with   :56.940 --> :01.680 schoolwork. I was at a point where I wanted  to kill myself over any small inconvenience. :01.680 --> :06.240 I've been seeing her since I graduated and  have still been seeing her, even though   :06.240 --> :09.420 I don't need any more appointments.  I've tried telling my parents this,   :09.420 --> :13.080 but they just ignore me. My therapist  has started to care more about money   :13.080 --> :16.920 than the mental health of her clients,  and charging exorbitant amounts of money   :16.920 --> :20.760 for the children and adults she has  appointments with. It's gotten so bad,   :20.760 --> :25.440 that my mother is fishing out money from her  retirement and heritage funds to pay for it. :25.440 --> :30.240 This deeply concerns me, as I don't want her  to go broke, and I don't want the same thing   :30.240 --> :34.980 to happen to any of my family members, and  I've been begging them to stop sending me to   :34.980 --> :40.980 these. The response I usually get is 'but you need  them' and that 'they'll help you'. The content of   :40.980 --> :44.940 the appointments is fairly straightforward,  with each of us talking about how our weeks   :44.940 --> :49.620 were and our plans for the future. She helped me  with strategies in the past when I needed them,   :49.620 --> :54.120 but now she's just stealing expensive  moments of my life away when I don't even   :54.120 --> :58.380 need the appointments. I've tried telling  her this as well, but she's ignored me. :58.380 --> :02.280 She charges a cancellation fee  for her appointments if cancelled,   :02.280 --> :07.440 and I don't know how much it is, which is  where the incident last night came in. Me   :07.440 --> :11.460 and my bf are seeing Across the Spider  Verse today and I'd already ordered the   :11.460 --> :15.420 tickets. I had an appointment with her  booked for tomorrow, but last night,   :15.420 --> :20.280 she sent me an email for an appointment  today without even giving me any knowledge   :20.280 --> :25.980 she was changing it. I was stunned, and I couldn't  cancel the tickets. I told her I couldn't attend,   :25.980 --> :30.600 and she then charged me the cancellation fee  that I'd be paying for the next appointment. :30.600 --> :36.300 I checked my emails just in case I missed anything  from her regarding this change, and there wasn't   :36.300 --> :42.600 anything. I felt awful, as I've heard rumors about  cancellation fees and how much they were. She   :42.600 --> :47.880 emailed my parents about this as well, and they  barged into my room and started screaming at me. :47.880 --> :52.500 It was apparently 'my fault' that this  happened, and their screams and verbal   :52.500 --> :57.300 abuse made it even worse. I wanted to cry,  but they'd yell at me for that too. They   :57.300 --> :02.820 then began to insult my life and insult my  friends, as well as my bf. They whined about   :02.820 --> :07.380 me telling him to 'reimburse me for the  tickets', and the 'supports come first',   :07.380 --> :12.780 before guilt tripping me. I believe they're trying  to look after me, but I just feel concerned. :12.780 --> :16.800 As soon as they left, my brother  started to hit objects and make loud,   :16.800 --> :20.220 unneeded noises to disturb  my hatred for loud noises,   :20.220 --> :25.080 knowing it would make me feel worse and more  likely to scream into my pillow, which would   :25.080 --> :29.640 give him the 'favourite child' feeling, and  my parents would end up yelling at me more. :29.640 --> :35.580 Before all this, I had a difficult day at work.  It was very busy, and I had to deal with a rude,   :35.580 --> :42.120 abusive entitled customer that believed she was  my manager and barked orders at me. She eventually   :42.120 --> :47.220 left, but I found it difficult to get past that  situation. The only good thing that happened was   :47.220 --> :51.480 a little girl trying to say 'thank you' to  me after I helped her mother. I was really   :51.480 --> :55.980 looking forward to relaxing after work, but I  should've known that I couldn't do that either. :55.980 --> :00.660 Later on, I was watching One Piece and  playing a harry potter game on my switch,   :00.660 --> :05.580 when my mother barged in without knocking.  I could tell she was going to say goodnight,   :05.580 --> :09.840 so I hugged her and said 'goodnight', and to  have a nice sleep. She tried to intimidate   :09.840 --> :14.940 me with a stare, and told me that I 'need to  make better choices, and that she cancelled   :14.940 --> :20.460 my weekly payments from her account, before  telling me that my account was 'down 25'. :20.460 --> :24.780 After that, I felt tired, and wanted to  sleep. I'd had enough today, so I tried   :24.780 --> :29.820 to say goodnight to my brother. In response,  he began thumping his hands against his desk   :29.820 --> :35.160 and rudely mimicking me saying 'shut up', which  is what I told him the last time he did that,   :35.160 --> :40.800 as I couldn't mentally handle this. I eventually  gave up and cried in my room, falling asleep. :40.800 --> :44.460 This morning it continued. I woke  up and began making breakfast,   :44.460 --> :49.440 when my brother decided to storm into the  kitchen, and shove me aside as well as the   :49.440 --> :54.540 bowl I was pouring milk into, causing some  to spill over the bench. He teased me for   :54.540 --> :58.500 making a mess, and the moment I tried to  say something, he made a shushing noise.   :59.100 --> :03.480 He then ordered me to do the dishwasher,  even though I kept telling my family that   :03.480 --> :08.760 the dishwasher made me feel nauseated, and I  tried to tell him this. I was met with another   :08.760 --> :13.860 shushing noise at this, and he threatened me that  I kept talking, he'd punch me as hard as he could. :13.860 --> :18.060 I finished making breakfast and sat  down, attempting to eat it as fast as   :18.060 --> :21.960 I could to escape from the kitchen  and from him. I thought he'd stop,   :21.960 --> :27.300 but this wasn't the end. He started berating  me for enjoying anime and reading manga,   :27.300 --> :31.380 and that it 'promoted violence' and it  was the reason I was violent, apparently? :31.380 --> :36.720 He also judged me for having different likes  and dislikes to him. I recently tried telling   :36.720 --> :41.940 my family what my kink was, and they called  it disgusting. I now have to pretend to no   :41.940 --> :46.260 longer be into it. He'll start something over  something as small as a character in a movie   :46.260 --> :50.340 that he doesn't like. For example, I like  Peni Parker from the Spider Verse movies,   :50.340 --> :55.320 and he hates her because she's designed as an  anime character. He's even told me that I'm not   :55.320 --> :00.600 allowed to like child characters because it counts  as something disgusting that I won't even mention. :00.600 --> :05.220 I just want this to end, and I'm hopefully  moving out soon with my friends. I can't   :05.220 --> :10.140 wait to get out of this place, and start a new  life away from these people. Thanks for reading,   :10.140 --> :13.620 and I hope you all have a great day.  I'm terribly sorry about all this.
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AIT for breaking up with my fiance and he ends up getting cut out of his grandma's will I 22 female broke up with my fiance 23 male and he ended up getting cut out of his grandma's will this is not my main account I just had to get this out there and my friends and fiance know my personal account a little backstory is that my fiance and I have known each other since we were in elementary school and grew up with each other we both come from religious families this is important for later when we graduated high school I chose to go to college and he went to the military at that point we were d for 2 years and then we got engaged when I was 21 and he 22 so a year ago we were doing long distances cause he was stationed in a different state the plan was that I was going to graduate college and then go down there and find a job where he is stationed a couple of months ago I got a call from a friend who lives down there and he told me that my fiance is dating another girl and has been for months now he sent me pictures and her social media my fiance was coming home for a couple of weeks for my graduation I thought it would be a good time to talk this out rather than over the phone when he came back I sat him down
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hey everybody hope you're all doing well my name is Stephen and this is the storytime channel without wasting any more time let's get into our stories of the day our first story of the day is by Luke in 89 Karen and Coe want to pet my service dog this happened yesterday and while as usual many will call me an a-hole I still don't feel bad about it I'm on my way home from work and decide that I need to do my grocery shopping then because I'm exhausted and know I won't get out again once I get home important to note at this point for those that don't know I have a service dog in training Sadie that goes everywhere with me so I was in the membership version of America's most popular store and browsing to see what groceries I'd need for the month when I hear the familiar high-pitched squeal of the increasingly common cat Banshee now this isn't an uncommon occurrence as anyone seeing my dog will tell you that she's absolutely adorable hath great pyrenees half Catahoula Leopard dog seven months old and 65 ish pounds she knows better than to interact with people at this point but she does do as she's trained and she sees the kid running up and puts herself between myself and the kid not really in a guard stance but sideways between myself and the kid and touching the back of my legs so I know where the person is approaching from in this case I already knew but I still turned around and gave her a treat she's still learning after all told her to heal she does as she stole then the kid slows and comes to a stop now that I'm between him and Sadie e/m is entitled mom the sea is sentient sea stain aka kid the kid says your dog is so cute I want to pet it I'm sorry but see the vest or the patches she's wearing it says service dog do not touch that means she's working right now and can't be distracted I don't really like kids much beyond my niece and nephew so I'm not good with that telling ages and didn't know if he could read I figured he knew how to obey signs though so I thought if I told him what it said he'd understand nope but he still hasn't earned his nickname quite yet what's a service dog she doesn't look busy just one pet he's not being rude just sounds more curious than anything so I don't really mind explaining and I notice a woman push her cart up behind him so I assume she's his mom and I feel a bit more relaxed about the situation a service dog is a dog that helps people do things there are all types of jobs dogs can do but they can't be distracted because their owners need them to pay attention to only them in case something happens kid says but she's just sitting there right now if she's not gonna get back to work he should let me pet her now at this point I guess I should have noticed thee if she's not gonna get back to work red-flag and guessed he was being raised by a Karen but honestly I've really only dealt with a few Karen's in my life and didn't think much of it just that he was a kid being annoying me - his mom ma'am could you please explain it to him I don't have kids so I'm not too good at this I was admittedly probably sounding annoyed in all honesty but I was still trying to be polite and I don't think I was being unreasonable here but she seemed to take offense why he just wants to pet her it's not a big deal and he's been acting really good today and he deserves a treat I don't see what you won't let him pet her me definitely annoyed now ma'am she's a working dog she shouldn't be distracted I don't mean to be rude but you're also not wearing masks and kovat has been known to spread the dogs as well I'd really prefer no one mess with her we're in Texas and I'm sure everyone has heard how poorly the state is handling the pandemic but the majority of people still refuse to wear masks and of all the shops I've been to only one store has a no masks no entry rule shut up the Skechers thanks for being proactive oh you're one of those people insert I roll just let him pick this stupid dog so we can move on the stupid virus is over with everything is open now I think we're done here and I just turn and walk off keeping Sadie in my sight just in case it should have ended there she should have just told her kid I was an a-hole or something and moved on but if she did I wouldn't be posting this instead she leaves her cart behind walks up behind me and grabs my shoulder it's at this point I should mention that I have Sadie because of my PTSD now usually it's controllable I'm on meds to help with anxiety and I'm in therapy and don't usually have a problem heck I even love music festivals and raves and have only had a problem one time when I was trying to leave EDC early and got stopped at the gate because they were about to set off fireworks and something about the bangs and being close enough to feel the vibrations of that many fireworks got to me I guess with the quarantine being so recent and not having to worry about people randomly grabbing me and touching me and stuff I mean heck even someone rolling absolute balls at a rave usually asks before they hug you were something I'd kind of let my guard down a bit this set me off though and without even thinking I grabbed her hand and spun around twisting her arm and pushed as hard as I could sending her sprawling to the ground what the heck is wrong with you I yelled and I said some other stuff but I was mad and honestly don't remember what I said something about no means no and I don't want her nasty but hands on me at this point Sadie had gotten between us and her stance and had began to bark loudly and repetitively as she's been trained so she can get someone's attention I noticed that Sadie was offered our no leash because somehow kid had gotten in front of my cart and unhooked it luckily Sadie is the best girl and doesn't need a leash to do her job she never even thought about running and just stood in front of me barking kid was crying after seeing what happened to his mom and getting scared that the cute puppy was now looking pretty darn mean now Sadie wouldn't hurt a fly but this woman didn't know that and Sadie has a very intimidating bark without even standing up this woman was scrambling to get back from me and grabs at her cart to stand up of course employees start running to see what's going on and when one gets there she asks what's going on this man's dog tried to attack me I was just trying to get his attention and it bit me no I've browsed this up enough to know where this was headed and I wasn't in the mood look just call the cops and grab the camera footage I'm not gonna play the he-said/she-said game the employee calls for the manager who calls the cops and asks us to come to the front office to get things sorted out started to head towards the front office but once they're entitled mother says she doesn't have time for this and has places to be and just walks out of the store no one tries to stop her but the manager looks at the footage and prints off her face that put on the banned people wall and when the cops arrived they say there's nothing they can do since she already left I got an employee discount for my food which was nice but left in a pretty bad mood because of the interaction after getting home I gave Sadie a small slab of steak for being such a good girl and I just took a shower and went to bed didn't get anything done that I needed to but it had been a long day and I was extra annoyed so that's it sadly no real repercussions for Karen other than maybe a bruiser to where she hit the tiles and a traumatized kid but of this sub is any indication Karen's don't learn from stuff like that here's hoping the kid learned a thing or two at least and because this is reddit and I know it'll be asked if I don't include here's a picture of Sadie so obviously I feel bad for Opie in the situation because while there might be a lack of awareness on service animals and how important it is to not mess with them people like Karen and the kids they just won't understand they won't agree with it they won't think that it's the right thing to do all they see is a cute animal and they want to be able to pet it regardless and good on Opie for standing their ground and using a technique that is very well documented in subs like these if you're ever in an altercation and you know you are in the right just ask to be taken to security to the manager what not have them call the cops and if there's security footage look at the security footage hopefully you shouldn't go wrong in that situation let me know if you think this is the way to handle it or not and why in the comment section down below our next story is by sweet baguette entitled mother tried to yell at me because she crashed her nice car into my old car this is before quarantine so I'm 15 and I have a driver's permit and my friend 18 has her driver's license so she was in the passenger seat so basically I was just driving to a jack-in-the-box or Tim Hortons whichever one was closer and we stopped at a red light and as it changed to green I went in this lady Rams and my side door in the back and thankfully none of us were harmed anyway we quickly got out of there as we grabbed our wallets phones the important stuff afterwards anyway I started to panic as I'm crying at this point and this is where entitled mother pops in what the Freak did you just do to my perfect car I couldn't speak as my friend stepped in you ran a red light dumb bud were you driving no but I saw everything it was you driving looking at me I managed to nod as she said you were too young to drive she laughed silently as she thought she was going to throw one minor and a new adult in jail and get money from it basically entitled mother crossed her arms and waited for the police as we treated insurance cards the police come and assess the situation as they questioned entitled mother first those two are drunk driving and almost killed me and my baby boy she had what seems to be an eight year old which seemed fine as the police talked to him as people checked all of us for any damage my baby boy is scared and this just ruined life for him the police just nodded and went to us I was still crying this seems like I'm a baby but I have autism which makes me scared of confrontation and yelling and most definitely anything bad and so basically the police questioned us as we explained the situation and showed him our drivers license and ID's the police were extremely nice to me as I had a card explaining my autism and they just generally helps me calm down anyway the police saw cameras for a store outside which caught everything as they checked the traffic cameras and the store cameras entitled mother smirked like a demon as she thought she would get away with this and the police came back saying they watched the footage as the color drained out of her face as she kept changing her story to get out of the situation as she said my boy needs to go to football practice if he's late he will be kicked off the team and it's gonna be your fault while yelling at the officer and then 10 seconds later she said my mom's in the hospital and I need to see her before she dies and then my baby boy needs to go to the doctor for shots etc so basically in the end she was in a police cruiser and I was taken to Tim Hortons in an uber with my friend and back to home I did press charges as there were so many witnesses and in court she broke down singing I need to feed my kids while she had like Gucci and Louis Vuitton I was able to fix my car and I never ran into her again how despicable can you be to obviously be at fault and then complain that they wrecked your car when you ran the red light and hit them and then start making all these BS excuses like oh my kid needs shots oh they need to go to the football practice my mom's dying in the hospital some of that might even be true and it's not okay to use that as an attempt to emotionally manipulate the situation so honestly I'm glad Opie press charges and got to be able to fix their car and the situation seemed to resolve itself as fittingly as possible our next story is by raging tales entitled mother who forgotten mask and car is upset my business occupies where a subway used to be and we don't have the same items as subway in December my business partner and I opened our first cafe coffee dreams pastries sandwiches that kind of thing we are in a space that was a subway previously the current requirement in our state is all customers have to be wearing a mask until they sit down to eat this interaction just happened a few days ago entitled mother an entitled child walk into cafe both not wearing masks my employee says I'm sorry ma'am you have to wear a mask while in the establishment I forgot it in my car we just want to take out anyway wait um excuse me this isn't subway what happened to the subway Oh P says the subway closed over a year ago we've been here for four months ma'am you need to wear a mask some way doesn't go out of business did you pay more and get them kicked out no I'm sure they just moved locations or something you have to wear a mask in here entitled child realizes this isn't subway and starts throwing a tantrum no mom I want subway well do you make sandwiches No I want subway we do make sandwiches and we would be happy to make you one but you have to wear a mask in here ma'am please either go get your mask or leave well what kind of sandwiches do you make are they like subway no they are not they are bistro style paninis I'm not going to ask again please go put on a mask or leave my child needs to eat we don't want paninis where is there a subway I'm not sure you can google it now please leave how dare you that was rude I want to speak to whoever is in charge I'm the owner now please leave I'm gonna leave a terrible review for this place you have terrible customer service entitled mother and entitled child leaves this lady was incredibly entitled and honestly it sounds like their kid is on a fast best to becoming entitled to I kind of feel like the online review system has become one part genuinely helpful one part a plague on the service industry do you guys kind of feel that way to anybody who's at least slightly upset can throw a well I'm gonna leave a bad review for you and the only place it really hurts is small businesses like I assume Oh pieces some general subway on a corner somewhere isn't gonna care about a bad review but a small business cafe like Oh pieces where they're not going to just get brand name awareness generic business might get a little bit hurt from that and our final story of the day is by my name is Adi my entitled mom got angry at my sister for eating noodles I cannot stress the title of this post enough my mom is entitled to her word she thinks everyone should follow what she says in this case she wanted us to eat cereal but the rest of us dad me and sister wanted to eat noodles so we did big mistake on our part our mom got furious at my sister because we ate it yesterday true then she started verbally attacking her and my sister got sadder and sadder by the time she got to our room then she started crying because she thought everyone hated her I feel like we can understand this because all she did was make noodles fast forward two hours and my mum is again verbally attacking my sister even though my dad is trying to stop her again my sister is crying so dad's just the door on mom mom is shouting at my sister that if she behaves this way and doesn't follow her orders she will not marry anyone and be left to rot on the streets because she is not eating lunch even though we ate noodles just two hours earlier as our lunch my father is currently consoling my sister and I'm angry at my mum for making my sister feel like wanting to die on the spot this mom sounds so over-the-top I feel so bad for Opie and their sister and their dad obviously cares it's such an unfortunate dynamic to deal with when their mom is acting so crazy because you can't have noodles two days in a row to the point where she's abusing her daughter verbally I'm not even sure how they can really effectively deal with this maybe it's something that dad can help with I don't know but all in all I just hope the situation does get better for them somehow but with that being said that's all the stories we have for today if you had a favorite of all these stories that I read let me know in the comment section down below and if you could please consider giving the video a like and subscribing if you haven't they're both such an invaluable way to help out the channel and doing any of those means a lot to me so whether you liked commented subscribed or just merely watch the video thank you all so much for giving a part of your day to the storytime channel I hope you all have a wonderful day and we'll see you next time
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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is stephen and this is the story time channel first things first a big congratulations to last week's giveaway winner crystal shield and if you don't know i do a giveaway every single week so if you're interested and don't know how to enter just stay tuned until later in the video and i'll tell you exactly how to that said we've got some malicious compliance stories and our first story of the day is by pj expat no one is above the rules and i mean no one call me if he pulls rank i used to work for a marketing company that serviced small and medium-sized businesses across america it was a multi-billion dollar revenue company the ceo was a true rags to riches story he joined the company right after he got out of jail in his early 20s for a small drug charge and worked his way up over 20 years to eventually become the ceo of the company the ceo strongly believed that the success of the company did not come from the brilliant and intelligent minds that he hired for his executive team but the hard work sweat and tears of the infield sales reps service reps made sure the customer services were properly installed collection reps chased after customers who fell behind on their payments and sales managers he would often say without sales we don't have the revenue to pay your salaries without customer service customers will drop us faster than we can bill them without collection reps we'd lose too many accounts due to non-payment and without sales managers to hold it all together we'd fall apart and he had a rule every single executive team member would spend one full week of each quarter in the field with a sales manager customer service rep collections rep or sales rep in addition when they are in the field they are to submit to whoever they've been assigned to and they may not pull rank this rule applied to everyone to include the ceo i know this because the ceo personally rode along with me for five days in the field he was a legit cool guy i got a story at the end about this so apparently we had hired a new vp of marketing from a major brand that i'm sure everyone in the sub would know of anyway apparently the first time he went in the field the vp of marketing pulled rank on a sales manager and the sales manager reported this directly to the ceo a new quarter went by and i got an email stating that the vp of marketing will be joining me in the field on such and such week okay cool not the first time i had some higher up come out and ride with me but about an hour later i got a call from my ceo the ceo said op the vp of marketing is going in the field with you i said yes sir i got the email they then said op i picked you because when i was in the field with you you seemed like the kind of guy that wouldn't be bullied or let someone run all over you i said okay well thank you the ceo said this vp is new to the company and the last time he went in the field he pulled rank i've told him not to pull rank again and if he does i want you to call me as soon as you can i said i understand and the ceo said thank you the vp meets me up honestly for the first two days everything was fine however on the third day i was meeting with an existing client this client was a difficult to please customer he would always say we weren't worth the money but i knew we were cause i could see his results and over the years this client's business had grown a lot said client would beat us up over pricing i'd stand firm give him a three percent price increase and offer him upgrades on top he'd haggle me down to a 1.5 price increase and we'd sign the contract now i told the vp what would happen that it would be a long sales call and a difficult high tense one but to let me handle it i've dealt with the client quite a bit and was well prepared now this meeting with the client lasted two and a half hours but i'll get to the point the client wanted a discount and was threatening to go to our competitor he wouldn't that's when the vp spoke up and said i'm the vp and i'll personally give you a 15 discount on your current plan if you agree to sign a one-year contract the customer said twenty percent the vp said split the difference 17.5 and we have a deal they agreed i was mad as heck one thing to mention my commissions depended on me generating more revenue and this vp just freaked me over we get in the car and i go you pulled rank you shouldn't have done that he said i got the deal done i said had you kept your mouth shut i'd have gotten more money not given 20 back he goes we got the contract signed i said we gave away tens of thousands of dollars that we didn't need to he goes look i'm the vp i then called my ceo he saw the name pop up on my car's bluetooth ceo answered opie how are you doing i say the vp pulled rank on me and gave my customer a 17.5 discount on his current plan right as i was about to close him for more money the ceo said that's not right where is the vp i said you're on speaker he can hear you ceo said excellent hey vp yes sir tell me what happened vp told his side of the story which he admitted the truth but also admitted to pulling rank and giving the customer a discount the ceo said okay thanks for your honesty you're fired excuse me you're fired you have a one-year probation clause you're done you don't pull rank when in the field you can't do this i just did you are to get on a plane come back to your office and clean it out op take mr vp back to his hotel and drop him off i said sure no problem and for the next 20 minutes i had an awkward car ride back to my former vp's hotel later in a all hands-on meeting the ceo made sure to talk about how if an executive is in the field and pulls rank it's a fireable offense for the executive and he wants all the sales reps sales managers customer service reps and collection reps to know that size story on the ceo the company had a data plan which gave us 4g on our ipads phones and laptops well the company changed the service plan and our data plan went down to only our phones and we had to hotspot off that they said this move would save us eighty thousand dollars a month we had like four thousand ish employees in the field well two months later we had a conference we had three conferences a year and after the conference everyone went to the hotel bar that's when i approached my ceo with another sales rep and talked to him about how much of a pain in the butt it was to hot spot all our devices and how much it drained our phone batteries and blah blah and that i get it saves money but it also costs productivity the ceo nodded and said tell you what in two weeks the cio is supposed to go in the field i'll have him go in the field with you and if he agrees that it's costing our reps productivity and causing too many workflow issues i'll bring back 4g data to all devices the cio was there and was told cio you're going to xyz area and you will be riding with op pay attention to how he uses his 4g data and if you think we should go back to the old plan where all devices had 4g the cio went into the field with me on the third day at breakfast he said last night i called the ceo and i said yeah and he said i made a recommendation that we go back to our old data plan and ensure all your devices have 4g data it's obviously creating productivity issues and when you look at the cost per user it's not that great this is absolutely the best kind of ceo somebody that worked from the ground level up and still cares greatly about every single employee and not only that but making sure everybody in a position of power gets that power checked every so often do you guys think this process that the ceo does is worthwhile basically making ceos vps cios people that are in a position of power go in the field and work underneath the common employee do you think that's a worthwhile experience that most places should consider implementing let me know in the comments down below our next story is by search yb2795 do you have these albums this story happens about 10 years ago i was a teenager that loved to go to record stores and buy my favorite rock or metal albums and concerts this one day i was in another part of the city and i went to another store that wasn't my usual but i had some money and wanted to see if they had some albums my usual store didn't have the time i was looking through the cd starting to think they didn't have them when the store employee saw me he was a man in his 30s or 40s with long hair hello how can i help you hi i was looking for albums x and y those are great albums do you know who played guitar in them i thought it was odd for him to ask but it was an easy question and i am a rock and metal nerd and knew the answer yeah it was tony i'm a huge fan oh yes that's right i also love how jon sings in these albums i found this statement more odd as the name he mentioned was wrong in these albums the band had a different singer than the most known john oh i think you're thinking about their earlier years in those albums the band had james as a singer yes you're right so silly of me this continued for a couple of more questions and he even asked me about trivia about other albums of that band and of the music genre i'm an introvert and usually just try to avoid small talk in public situations however i thought this employee wanted to be a snob and make fun of me so i complied by answering his questions and correcting him i must admit it was amusing after i answered all of them he said alright follow me as he started walking to a section of dvds of a completely different genre i think it was live concerts of folk music for my country moved some dvds aside and behind all of them were the albums i wanted with some other gems as well recently we got this amazing stock of records at a great price i thought they were too good to let anybody buy them but you have proven you deserve them pick any one you like i was very surprised by this and even laughed i picked the albums i wanted and the employee even gave me an extra discount i went to that store a few more times and made small talk with that particular employee until a few years later when the store changed management and he wasn't there anymore don't know if he quit or was fired this is a really cool story it almost sounds like the start of a fantasy film where you get all the questions right and they take it to some back mysterious section of the record store and they slide all these weird folk music albums out of the way and boom secret entrance to the vault of all legendary rock and metal music and you set off on some epic adventure sadly this story ends up like most record stores end up these days and changed hands or shut down or commercialized it's quite unfortunate this next story is by waytak if i could just get past years ago i was part of the founding faculty of a brand new university i was the facilities director for my department which meant that in addition to teaching and doing research i was responsible for designing and implementing all of the rooms and equipment for the entire department labs student offices computer rooms everything it was a lot of fun and i had a great system staff team and facility department to back me up then one day i got a win that one of the people in top management in the university had decided that we were going to move all of our graduate students into a big open room the problem which he was either ignoring or hadn't realized was that for these students the room had to function as both an office and a lab there had to be room for shared access computers desks whiteboards for discussion all in a few square feet per student there was no way known that it could be done the boss held firm though and insisted that we were just being selfish and stubborn enter the malicious compliance i asked him if he would allow us to do a dry run before we finalize the layout so we spent two full days setting up the room in question pillaging computers desks chairs tables everything we could think of and setting them up in the least efficient most convoluted layout we could manage but there was a problem for it to be convincing we needed people and the number of grad students that we currently had was a fraction of the number that would have to use this room the following semester remember it was a new university so i did what any good manager would do i delegated i gathered the most trusted students and said at such and such a time i want this room to be full i don't care who they are or if i ever see them again but make sure there are no empty chairs or desks so on the appointed day the big brass showed up with something of a smirk on his face ready to show the young whippersnapper how a negotiation for space is done and then he stepped into the room or he tried to he had to physically step over one of the senior students who of course apologized for being in the way he walked sideways through the many twists and turns past desk after desk stepping over cable scooting around printers i think we may have offered him a cup of coffee at one point from a coffee pot buried in some obscure corner of the room but that part is fuzzy when he finally made it out of the room again he turned to me with an expression that i won't even try to describe and said okay you made your point we got our second room a brief addendum after it was all over and everything was put back together again i found the lead student and asked who were all of those people he looked at me with half a smile and said i have no idea well op said they didn't want to know they got their wish and got a classroom full of random people sometimes you got to resort to theatrics to sell the point this time they went above and beyond and they proved their point second room secured so quickly now i want to explain just how to enter the giveaway all you need to do is leave a comment on this video relevant to something you 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store just down the street from me so i accepted that one i accepted under the pretense that my hours would be full time turning down the other job offer when i started it turned out i was actually getting 5 hours a week i gave it a couple weeks to see if it would change it didn't and by that time the job market was flooded by every other student so i was kind of sol but i still came every day once a week and did my job to the best of my ability early on i found an expired product on the shelf and asked a co-worker what i should do with it he told me that any time we came across something expired we put it in the donation bin outside the store i took that and ran i made it my mission to go through every item on every shelf and donate anything expired grocery stores have a markup of something tiny like five percent depending on the item by the time school rolled around again i had donated thousands and thousands of dollars worth of expired product to less fortunate people it was a big company with unyielding company policies so the manager couldn't do anything other than watch me throw all this profit into a bin it was very satisfying i mean if it is expired technically it should go in the bin the least thing you can do is get some form of payback for forcing you to work five hours a week when you were promised a full-time position if i still showed up and i could find a way that would absolutely piss off the manager but also be still doing the absolute right thing and not be able to get fired for it and still get paid for those 5 hours i'd do it for sure but with that being said that's all the time we have for today so if you have a favorite story of the day let me know which one and why in the comments down below if you enjoyed the video please consider giving it a like and subscribe if you haven't and turn on notifications so you'll never miss an upcoming video from the story time channel every little thing that you do helps the channel grow that much more so no 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hello everyone my name is Reid and welcome to story time today we are gonna be reading some malicious compliance stories so sit back relax and enjoy I wanted to be salaried you wanted me to be hourly okay then I applied to a full-time opening at a company but for reasons they wanted to bring me in as a contractor for a while until a different position opened I would be reporting to Joe in a department I didn't really care for but it was alright as a temporary situation well it turns out Joe was a reasonably nice person but not such a great project manager he staked his role at the company on our team delivering a certain major project on time the problem was that a series of miscalculations meant we weren't able to even start working on it until halfway through the implementation phase as scheduled slipped and upper management expressed their disappointment Joe became much less pleasant to be around he owned a good people for no reason and a terrible attitude in generally made life miserable for everyone in our work room now I was the sole contractor in that department full of salaried employees early on Joe it all but pushed me out the door as my timecard rolled over from 39.92 40.0 hours as his budget had zero room for paying me for 41 hours a week even worse that would pay the same as 41 and a half hours because I was subject to time and a half overtime rules as crunch time turned into a death march Joe made announcements like no one's going home until this job is done and scheduled to have breakfast and supper brought into the office every day I asked Joe if this included me and he said yes of course and he was surprised that I even had the nerve to ask ok then it almost killed us there was shouting and literally tears we were all near a breaking point well most of us I was in a great mood as rough and emotionally fraught as it was we got the project done we were heroes and as Sunday dinner at our desk came and went Joe thanked me in particular for my great attitude Oh P I really appreciate your hard work with a smile during this tough time that's what I reminded him hey I clocked an extra 61 hours of overtime this week I'm thrilled I could help Jo dang near had a stroke I found myself standing outside waiting for my bus two minutes later he was ticked but couldn't really say anything because I had asked him if I had to stay and he explicitly told me that I did worked out great for everyone in the long term blown budget or not Joe looks good for getting the project done the CEO liked my can-do attitude and transferred me into a full-time dream job and that paycheck getting paid Silicon Valley hourly rates for 130 1.5 hours that's 40-plus sixty one time and a half hours but a very nice vacation for my family thanks Joe I'm available to work all-nighters any time you want to pay for them hey Opie you're a good person you worked them hard hours you were happy about it sure you got paid a crap ton of money for it but you got the job done and did what you needed to do that shouldn't be all that matters you're going to throw your waste into my garden okay great my uncle's neighbors really hate him for literally no reason and one day he walked into his garden to find three plastic bags the heavy-duty ones you get dog food slash cattle feeding and they were lying on his lawn and he knew immediately where they were from since he only has one neighbor the bags looked as if they had been lazily thrown over the shared fence two of the bags were filled with leaf litter and the other was full of apples that looked like they had been slightly eaten by worms obviously the neighbors didn't want to eat them well cool let's call him flea does all sorts of gardening in his spare time and he thought that the neighbors threw them their waste for him to use so he went around to their house and asked if they were the ones who threw them the leaf litter and the apples they shot the door in his face without answering and at this point flea realized they did it maliciously because they couldn't be bothered to take their waste anywhere most of you probably know that leaf litter is great for keeping soil healthy and my uncle realizes this too it decides to make compost from the leaves to use for his onions he grows large onions for an annual competition and don't ask after he has a bag full of his homemade leaf litter fertilizer he waits until one of the neighbors leaves for work then goes out into his front garden and makes a big deal of spreading the fertilizer in front of the neighbor exaggerating every slight movement and noise with the apples however he decided to make in combination with his own apples some sort of beer wine cider hybrid and he also made sure that at least one of the neighbors saw him using their apples throughout the process the drink was pretty good in the end if not a bit strong yeah icing on the cake for me though is when he neatly folded up the plastic bags and left them piled in the neighbor's garden with a rock on top of them in which he edged the word more huh I knew flea had awesome bass skills but awesome farming skills as well Wow mad props get down immediately about 14 years ago when I was an 11 year old kid I liked to climb on stuff the higher up the better and if my friends joined he even better hanging out on places where no one would find you is awesome one day during lunch break on school me and my friends decided to climb on the school gym a building of about 10 meters high I was the first of the group to climb up to the top since it was a drainpipe we went one by one since it was during break time all the kids were outside and we drew quite a crowd when I eventually reached the top there was cheering and I felt like a king but right after that came a loud horrifying shout the janitor who noticed me climbing up stood there and was shouting that I should get down immediately me not so clever 11 year old boy full of adrenaline from the climb did what he said I immediately went down this time not via the drainpipe but by jumping off the roof I fell down 10 meters breaking both my ankles first of all I felt nothing stood up tried to walk it off like a cool kid only to fall to the ground several moments later crying my eyes out I had to spend about six weeks in a wheelchair and to spend two more years at that school being known as the boy who jumped off the roof an editor who was traumatized because I listened to him I learned my lesson and haven't climbed any building since then who I bet that janitor feels awful I mean it's a good thing you ended up okay or else man that could have been really scarring for him you can't make your own drinks okay I work in a cafe inside of a bookstore it's pretty chill most of the time and management is usually pretty lacks our company was bought by someone else recently and corporate has been pushing all kind of nitpicky changes to quote improve in quote the store one of the big crackdowns is employees making their own drinks and then paying for them or even paying first and then making their own drink when you work at a coffee shop the employee drinks can tend to be pretty customized you know what they want and often feel embarrassed at having another co-worker make it it's more annoying when there's a rush in the cafe and you're on your break and have to first wait in line and then wait for the server to actually make the drink it eats up extra break time they said the new drink rule is for loss protection but we get a 40% discount and none of us are really concerned with stealing when we get it for so cheap anyway on to the malicious compliance I would usually get the biggest size refresher they have refreshers are 50% refresher concentrate and 50% water with some ice and berries mixed in so instead of ordering the large size and making it myself I ordered the small size i order the small and I asked the barista to give me the cup just full of the concentrate in a giant cup of ice I take it put the water in the cup of ice and then add the concentrate Oh while sitting in the break room in front of management I can't say a thing about it so instead of paying the employee rate for a giant drink I have gamed the system and paid for a small while getting maximum drink that feel guilty about it but a lot of our regulars do the same thing huh that's genius good on you Opie you want a supervisor okay this happened a few years ago to my cubicle made at a call center so I used to work at an IT call center there was this guy who would call in periodically and get upset if a female answered one day he called in got a girl cussed her out hung up and called again then he just so happened to be sent to girl two who was sitting next to girl one I guess he really needed his computer worked on because he got upset and asked for the supervisor she told him she would have to grab his info and the reason he wanted a supervisor before she get one once he told her that he didn't want to talk to a girl she put him on hold to grab the supervisor this is where the malicious compliance kicks in since it was later at night there weren't very many supervisors the supervisor on our team was a guy after hearing why the caller wanted to talk to him he decided to go grab the only female supervisor on the floor that night this guy was so ticked when he heard her voice he spent about five minutes trying to get her to get him a male supervisor she said she was the only one who could talk to him after he realized she wasn't budging he called her a few names and then hung up I don't know if he called back that night but we were laughing about it for at least a week hey the caller can get mad they specifically asked for a supervisor and that's what they got it's their fault that they're sexist and assumed that the supervisor wouldn't be a female I mean they shouldn't have had a problem talking to a female anyways bit of a short one but it was jam-packed full of good stuff right anyways that's all we got so thank you so much for listening and I hope you have an amazing day goodbye
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hello everyone my name is Reid and welcome to story time today we are gonna be reading some malicious compliance stories so sit back relax and enjoy we'll just switch to the hot site I once worked in the IT department for a company that managed some utilities and infrastructure they had multiple facilities throughout their state and some extensive redundancy measures in place to keep the building's connected in case of an emergency one of the most important of these measures was their hot site a backup facility that housed two replicas of their computer network infrastructure the hot site was located in a separate building from the main data center so even if the main building was knocked offline the hot site would still be available to take over operations of course simply having the equipment and policies to recover from an emergency aren't enough so the company also had an emergency preparedness committee with representatives from several key departments the committee held regular simulated emergency drills wherein a member would write and direct an emergency scenario and the others would rehearse the process of recovering from it the IT departments contributions to these activities were frequently marginalized by the rest of the committee who firmly believe that the only appropriate way to handle any computer problem was just to activate the hot site after all it is a complete functional replica of our main systems why bother doing anything else when the problem can be instantly solved by simply plugging in a different computer well the thing is that switching to our hot site was easier said than done think of it like the spare tire in your car it's there if you need it but it doesn't automatically replace a flat tire you need to spend some time and effort to take the old one off and put the new one on and once you finish your road trip you generally want to get the tire properly replace rather than continuing to use the spare and if you're having engine problems you don't solve it by putting on a different tire and so on the point is that a hot site doesn't solve every problem in even if it does switching to ours in particular wood takes time the IT representatives explained that every time but we were always ignored finally one of the network engineers was selected to lead one of the emergency drills and this guy was fed up with everyone else always suggesting the hot site as the solution once the committee had taken their seats to hear what crisis they would be averting that day the network engineer informed them that the building they currently occupied had just been demolished by a storm and none of the computer systems they have remained time to activate the hot site he grabbed his stuff from the table and left the building and at that moment all of the other departments realized that they had no clue how to even get to the hot side the other IT representatives being directly responsible for the upkeep of the facility knew where to go and we're out of the door only moments after the network engineer everybody else was considerably less prepared to relocate to a different building if they had looked out the window as the IT people left they might have seen which direction they had to turn out of the parking lot but nothing more after all the hot site is designed to be isolated from anything that would damage the main facility so it is located a fair distance away the last of the emergency preparedness committee arrived several hours after the IT department had all arrived on site not wanting to admit that they had no clue where they were going they had no better option than to drive from one maintenance building to the next across the state hoping that their destination happened to house the backup facility by this point the drill had taken much longer than the schedule had originally allowed and the network engineer called it off noting that the site would probably be just about ready to be brought online if they had actually bothered to start setting it up they didn't of course since that would have disrupted the entire network the IT department wasn't allowed to direct another drill for quite some time after that but at least everybody else was much more reluctant to suggest the hot site as a catch-all solution honestly I get that not everyone knew where the hot site was but I mean there's really no excuse for them not listening about the whole it not being a catch-all solution sooner anyways let's move on to the next story we have to do all our tests before we leave sure I worked as a cook in Denny's for roughly a year the shift I worked in particular which where weekend's during the morning it was always full and very busy overall most times the morning crew that consisted of five to seven cooks depending on the day handled the orders and once things die down around 2:00 p.m. the swing shift would handle the cleanup and restocking from the morning's aftermath it was set up so that those that took the beating in the morning could take it easy in the last few hours of their shift and so that the swing had stuff to do if the restaurant was empty we all have daily tasks that should be completed before the shift ends which are small like cleaning part of the kitchen or labeling stuff and then we had bigger weekly tasks that took a lot more time and limited use of certain things in the kitchen current general manager at the time gets a promotion and we get a new GM that doesn't quite like the structure of how we operated and no longer allowed for morning crew to leave without cleaning up and completing our tasks ok no problem malicious compliance begins now every Sunday during the busiest parts of the shift me and a couple of co-workers would begin our weekly tasks that we were forced to do otherwise we would get memos fryers not operational until done being emptied and thoroughly cleaned want to make the pancakes or any type of meat sorry wait so we're done cleaning and disinfecting all the grills kitchen backed up sure let us finish cleaning all the carpets furs this went on for about a month naturally things got real bad for the restaurant as customers started leaving complaining directly to the Denny's website and bad reviews on Facebook this also caused a lot of overtime because most would also start right before the shift ended and didn't leave till they finished a few hours later taking their sweet sweet time previous general manager now the district manager called in the meeting with all the staff to see what was happening and once things were explained he removed the GM and promoted a shift manager that deserved the position and knew how things were done who just comes into a well-oiled machine that's running perfectly fine and throws a wrench in it for no reason and then screws everything up come on people don't make things harder for yourselves extra pickles when I worked at Wendy's one night a dude came through the drive-thru with a really bad attitude he ordered a double stack and kept insisting how he wanted extra pickles I can understand that but the dude kept making personal attacks about how we messed up his orders previously and how stupid we are I make his sandwich and hand him his bag and he immediately goes there better be some extra pickles on this I'm a check now normally the amount of pickles on the sandwiches - I gave him four that's where I went wrong sure enough two minutes later he comes in saying there's no pickles on this thing so I smile wave and assure him I'll remake it with the necessary pickles the sandwich was made as follows bun pickles Pattie pickles cheese pickles Pattie pickles cheese pickles onions pickles pickles pickles bun pickles wrapped up and personally delivered to him luckily my manager thought it was hilarious and didn't care oh yeah this one deserves to be posted on delicious compliance thanks for telling me I did something wrong I work on IT security basically granting and revoking access to software to and from people designing access profiles that sort of stuff as I believe is no different anywhere you need to put up a ticket with adequate approval to be granted access to access something within corporate systems so my job consists in getting tickets checking for approvals assigning access closing ticket monkey job 101 to some extent so I get this ticket from username girl one please grant access to users girl 1 and girl 2 as per attached approval I open the attached email to find a long as can be chain of emails with an approval for girl 2 to be granted profile XYZ issued by the proper approver way in the bottom it's not generally an issue that the approver is not the last person to email as one could say alter the email to read approved instead of tonight upon affording the email to someone else which I find to be an issue but apparently our internal audit does not I therefore proceed to process the ticket as one would access is granted to girl - and who approval was provided to girl 1 therefore no action taken closed a few days go by and I get a second ticket please grant access to user girl 1 as per attached approval I tend to remember these cases especially when something out of the ordinary happen or the verbiage used is pretty much the same as soon as I open the email deja vu hit me like a brick so I proceed to selectively read the email up to the point with the approval when I pay attention to the date it was issued January 2019 also it was changed from girl 2 to girl 1 in evident different font well I could accuse her of forging an approval but I really ain't got time to deal with such BS also I would need to rework the previous one so I proceed with as per policy approval should be no older than 30 days which is true and should be the last email issued by the approver ie not forwarded to someone which isn't necessarily mandatory but it would save me from trouble closed hours later same ticket is reopened as I expected and the user goes all caps but ticket 1 to 3 was processed with this same approval date please take action and take action I did uh sorry for the oversight access to profile XYZ has been revoked effective immediately thank you for letting me know closed looking forward to the third it action was demanded and action was given just not what the requester might have had in mind the day the glassy stood still so a little background before I start the bar I work at is a lovely bar and everyone who works there is just an amazing co-worker so I don't have it out for anyone I am employed as a glassy but I work the bar as well on the day of the most recent UFC fight we all expected to get utterly destroyed as the bar is fairly popular where it is and we all shared the event on social media as much as we could this put everyone in a high tense mindset especially the managers one of the managers who I get along with well approached me and said for today I want you to just be doing glasses only not bar don't go past this area drawing an imaginary line with her foot if you go past it I won't be happy I couldn't blame her for being this intense it was going to be a stressful day after all now the layout of this bar from left to right goes glassy station coffee machine left bar taps and fridges cocktail station right bar taps and fridges gaming and keynote ill and the manager drew a line just after the coffee machine after she left my brains cheeky cog started turning and I pushed through the next set of glassware polished what I needed to be in just stood there at the line waiting the manager eventually saw me holding two trays of clean glasses standing still at the line and gave me a puzzled look so I in return gave her the most over exaggerated confused face and shrug I could do she then chuckled and said fine you can go past the line I know it isn't an explosion of anger that is usually posted here but had helped keep things from getting too tense behind the bar and I thought it would be worth sharing yeah I was really confused what a glass he was at the beginning of the story but it's very clear that it's someone that you know washes the glasses and dishes and stuff cool makes sense keep my hands off your bags okay there's a bus terminal on my way home and I usually pass by it every day a few years ago I was walking home and saw a woman struggling with her luggage it was raining in the ground was slippery so I headed over to help one of her bags fell off her pile and I reached out and caught it before it landed on the wet ground the woman turned around and screamed at me to keep my hands off her stuff so I smiled at her and promptly dropped her bag into the puddle she called me a jerk but it was worth it I like this story short sweet simple to the point and still delivered all right that's all we have for today if you enjoyed what you heard then subscribe for more content like this daily thank you so much for listening and have an amazing day
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:00.080 --> :05.360 today we have a crazy story of Revenge involving  destroying an apartment we'll get into that in a   :05.360 --> :11.840 bit but first best friends extorts me so I get her  arrested I 25-year-old female have been a follower   :11.840 --> :17.000 of this page for a long time now and I've read  a lot of crazy stories here firstly I'd like to   :17.000 --> :21.600 say thank you to everyone who shares their stories  here on a daily basis it's because of you and your   :21.600 --> :26.400 courage to share your stories that I'm able to  share mine today this story happened a few years   :26.400 --> :32.480 ago and to date it remained the scariest and most  trauma izing time of my life before I get into the   :32.480 --> :39.680 story I have to say one thing whoever told you not  to trust anyone got it 100% right you shouldn't   :39.680 --> :45.400 trust anyone with anything especially your secrets  or anything that can be used against you I know   :45.400 --> :51.640 people like to hold on to Sentiments like oh he's  my boyfriend or she's my best friend she can't do   :51.640 --> :56.800 anything to hurt me you're wrong they can do  something to hurt you and when the chips are   :56.800 --> :02.000 down they probably will I didn't used to believe  this this I thought that anyone I call my friend   :02.000 --> :07.120 must think the world of me and would do anything  to make me happy and I used to believe this until   :07.120 --> :12.440 I trusted the wrong person I didn't just trust  the wrong person I invited them into my home and   :12.440 --> :17.880 lived with them as roommates anyway let's not jump  the gun I have to start from the beginning it was   :17.880 --> :23.080 one year after college I was still looking for a  job and even though I didn't live at home I was   :23.080 --> :28.120 still receiving support from my parents so I could  keep the apartment I got while in college it was   :28.120 --> :32.760 a two-bedroom apartment and my former roommate  moved out to work in a family's friend's firm   :32.760 --> :38.000 in a different state so I had the apartment all  to myself during this time the only thing I had   :38.000 --> :42.920 in mind was getting a job as soon as possible it  wasn't cool that I was still being supported by   :42.920 --> :48.160 my parents at my age and I needed to get out of  their hair as soon as possible I finally got an   :48.160 --> :54.800 internship offer at a firm and I accepted it the  offer was good and if I did well they'd retain me   :54.800 --> :59.640 as I got to the office on Monday I found out  that I wasn't the only intern they hired we   :59.640 --> :04.040 were were six in total and they were only going  to hire three of us at the end of the six-month   :04.040 --> :09.480 internship program I had to work super hard if  I was going to get retained so I made sure to   :09.480 --> :14.920 do just that I was very professional towards my  work and friendly towards my co-workers and heads   :14.920 --> :20.920 of Department I was a pretty charismatic person  so it was easy for everyone to like me besides I   :20.920 --> :25.880 got everyone coffee every morning I made a lot of  friends in the office and among these friends was   :25.880 --> :31.840 Nadia Nadia was also an intern in the office she  was looking for a job just like me and she was   :31.840 --> :37.000 also putting in the work she had the best work  ethic next to mine but there were some slight   :37.000 --> :42.760 differences between us she was a nice lady but she  wasn't as characteristic as I was she was barely   :42.760 --> :48.520 noticed in the office besides she came late to  work every day our head of Department complained   :48.520 --> :53.800 about her lateness and at one point he wanted to  straight up fire her but she pleaded with him and   :53.800 --> :59.040 he let her off the hook that same day I went to  the break room for lunch and while I was eating   :59.040 --> :04.120 she came into the to the room to grab her lunch  we said Hi and she settled down to eat that was   :04.120 --> :09.160 when I asked her why she always came late to work  she said it was because she lived really far away   :09.160 --> :14.560 and no matter how early she woke up she couldn't  beat the morning traffic and come to work on time   :14.560 --> :19.200 she couldn't even sleep early all because the  interns closed later than the normal workers   :19.200 --> :24.160 and she had to face the same traffic getting home  which meant that she had to go to bed late I asked   :24.160 --> :28.800 her why she didn't just move to somewhere closer  and she said she didn't have the money for that   :28.800 --> :33.240 she wasn't getting support from home the only  support she was getting from her family was her   :33.240 --> :38.840 aunt's roof over her head I took pity on her and  decided to help I told her I lived close to work   :38.840 --> :43.440 and she could stay with me pending the time she  could get a new place and stand on her own two   :43.440 --> :48.440 feet she jumped at the offer and moved into my  place the next day we started to spend a lot of   :48.440 --> :53.160 time together and we pretty much bonded over the  next two months of our internship by the end of   :53.160 --> :57.840 the internship we had become so tight and I was  really rooting for her to get into the company   :57.840 --> :03.360 so we could work together but sadly she wasn't  retained coming late for 4 months straight didn't   :03.360 --> :08.640 help her record Nadia was devastated I didn't know  how much she wanted to be in the company till she   :08.640 --> :15.240 got rejected she literally broke down in tears and  cried in my living room I had to console her for   :15.240 --> :21.640 over 30 minutes telling her it wasn't the end of  the world but then to her it was she didn't want   :21.640 --> :26.520 to have to go back to her aunt's place because  she had been emotionally abused for years all   :26.520 --> :31.720 she wanted was to get a job so she could stand on  her own too feet that company was her only hope   :31.720 --> :36.640 of doing that then I told her she didn't have to  go back to her aunt's place she could stay in my   :36.640 --> :41.920 place till she found a job I thought I was doing a  favor I didn't know I'd come to regret that simple   :41.920 --> :47.880 statement she took me up on my offer and just like  that we became roommates for an indefinite period   :47.880 --> :54.800 of time I have to say this mistake was on me I let  someone who I didn't really know into my house and   :54.800 --> :00.640 I expected that there wouldn't be consequences  but then there was a few months along the line I   :00.640 --> :06.720 was already a full-fledged staff in my workplace  and Nadia was still looking for a new job one of   :06.720 --> :11.440 those days the company hosted a party where they  invited workers from a firm they were Consulting   :11.440 --> :17.240 with that was where I met Caleb my boyfriend he  was one of the accountants of the other firm and   :17.240 --> :21.480 I met him when I went to get a drink from the  champagne Fountain we talked for a moment till   :21.480 --> :26.920 I was distracted by some of my co-workers when I  was alone again he came to find me and we talked   :26.920 --> :32.200 some more by the end of the night he collected  my number and we started to text eventually he   :32.200 --> :37.400 asked me out and we started dating a month or  two later Nadia was the closest person to me   :37.400 --> :44.200 at this point and I used to tell her everything I  mean everything from the elegant dates he used to   :44.200 --> :49.800 take me on to the vacation preparation he was  planning for my paid leave sometimes even our   :49.800 --> :54.920 sex lives I know it was oversharing at that  point but she was my best friend at the time   :54.920 --> :00.000 and she knew everything she told me everything  going on in her life too and when Caleb asked   :00.000 --> :06.320 to make a tape of us you know I told her about  it too I thought it was just between friends   :06.320 --> :12.000 sharing crazy stories I didn't know what Nadia  was capable of a week after I told her about the   :12.000 --> :17.640 tape I received a text from an unknown number  it simply said your boyfriend wasn't careful   :17.640 --> :23.760 with his phone with a video attached to it on  clicking the video I received the shock of my   :23.760 --> :30.800 life it was the tape we recorded the person was  asking for $1,000 and gave me a deadline of 12   :30.800 --> :36.880 hours or they were going to share the video to my  workplace and Caleb's I called Caleb and told him   :36.880 --> :41.680 what was going on he swore to me that the video  didn't leak from his end because he didn't leave   :41.680 --> :47.240 his phone anywhere with anyone but we didn't have  the time to figure that out we sent the money to   :47.240 --> :53.080 the person and they said they delete the video but  just 2 days after that they texted again this time   :53.080 --> :59.840 asking for $5,000 that was just outrageous and I  didn't even have that much money with me even if   :59.840 --> :05.760 Caleb and I contributed they'd just call again and  again and again we had to find another alternative   :05.760 --> :10.400 we decided to involve the police and they were  looking into it but it was difficult to trace   :10.400 --> :16.120 where the texts were coming from Caleb and I had  to pay the 5,000 to buy ourselves time even though   :16.120 --> :21.240 I didn't receive another text for a few weeks I  was so depressed and it showed I wasn't eating   :21.240 --> :28.120 well I was growing thin it was really bad and  Nadia was there for me all through this time or   :28.120 --> :33.560 so I thought I had to take a sick leave from work  to get better but as soon as I got back the texts   :33.560 --> :39.600 continued they were asking for another 5,000 to  be delivered in a week by this time I'd emptied my   :39.600 --> :44.480 bank account to make the last payment and I didn't  know what to do Caleb offered to make the payment   :44.480 --> :50.240 but we knew it would never stop so we visited the  police again for leads but nothing still but this   :50.240 --> :57.520 was when our extorter AKA Nadia slipped up 3 days  after the message was sent she sent a followup   :57.520 --> :03.040 with the same video asking me what my co-workers  would do with the video I was already mentally   :03.040 --> :08.360 drained from work and it was just too much for  me so I decided to close early I got home around   :08.360 --> :14.000 2:00 p.m. and Nadia was in the shower I went to  her room to say hi and I heard her shower running   :14.000 --> :21.080 I was about to leave when I saw a strange phone  on her bed Nadia had always been using an iPhone   :21.080 --> :27.000 and there was an Android phone on the bed at first  I thought she had someone over but curiosity got   :27.000 --> :31.800 the better of me I picked up the phone with which  didn't have a password by the way and looked at   :31.800 --> :36.320 it there weren't any pictures on the wallpaper  and it looked relatively new then I clicked on   :36.320 --> :42.360 the gallery because I thought I'd see the picture  of the guy who owned the phone but to my shock the   :42.360 --> :48.800 gallery only contained one video my tape I looked  through the texts and saw my conversation with my   :48.800 --> :53.960 black mailer and everything clicked Nadia must  have aird dropped the video to her iPhone when   :53.960 --> :59.240 I wasn't looking and used the Android to Blackmail  me I dropped the phone and went to the living room   :59.240 --> :04.560 room like nothing happened then called Caleb and  the police Nadia and I were hanging out in the   :04.560 --> :09.320 living room when they arrived they searched her  room and found the phone and receipt with which   :09.320 --> :14.160 she got it when they had had all the evidence  they needed she was arrested all the money she   :14.160 --> :19.360 stole from me and Caleb was taken from her bank  account and returned to us by the end of the day   :19.360 --> :24.280 she didn't have enough money to hire a lawyer for  her case she didn't even try to call her parents   :24.280 --> :30.640 or anything she called me instead begging me to  forgive her she explained that she was jealous of   :30.640 --> :35.960 me because I had everything she wanted she even  went further to say that she wasn't planning to   :35.960 --> :41.560 share the video it was all an empty threat because  she needed the money eventually she begged me to   :41.560 --> :48.160 forgive her and drop the charges but I couldn't do  that not for that two-faced bench called Nadia she   :48.160 --> :53.840 put me through so much over the months and I went  through emotional damage because of her she had   :53.840 --> :00.360 to pay for her crime I pressed charges and she was  sent to jail Opie really brings up an interesting   :00.360 --> :05.080 discussion here they're talking about how you  really can't trust anyone and when you're in a   :05.080 --> :09.240 situation where you feel like you have somebody  that is so close to you that there's no way you   :09.240 --> :16.400 can't trust them and you experience this kind of  absolute backstabbing can you ever really get back   :16.400 --> :22.040 to trusting somebody to that degree I feel like I  would might live an incredibly guarded life after   :22.040 --> :28.000 that also hi I'm Steven and if you guys enjoy  these crazy stories of Revenge it would be amazing   :28.000 --> :32.840 if you left a like or left a to review if you're  listening to my podcast that said our next story   :32.840 --> :38.560 is the pain that didn't destroy me when I got  admitted into college I was so certain I wouldn't   :38.560 --> :45.680 get into any romantic relationship before you  frown hear me out I came from a family of geniuses   :45.680 --> :51.600 and I mean my paternal grandfather aunties and  uncles were the smartest among their peers and it   :51.600 --> :57.080 was like a family inheritance for us to graduate  top of our class that was the family's tradition   :57.080 --> :02.440 until my father changed that course du to some  influences such as getting involved in a steamy   :02.440 --> :08.520 romance with a classmate in college the story had  it that instead of being a class genius he ended   :08.520 --> :15.720 up a love genius unconsciously it became a silent  family tradition not to pursue love interests in   :15.720 --> :20.560 college when I got into college I knew better  than to allow myself to alter the family's   :20.560 --> :26.560 tradition once again I made a strong resolve to  bring the trophy home because Come What May the   :26.560 --> :32.440 Legacy must continue once summer during my fourth  year in college I was selected to be a part of a   :32.440 --> :37.600 discussion centered around stem and its growing  impact the discussion was going to be aired around   :37.600 --> :43.840 the country and as part of that discussion was a  21-year-old female who was popularly known as Miss   :43.840 --> :51.040 R after the discussion I became friends with Miss  R needless to say I was enthralled by her level of   :51.040 --> :57.640 intelligence intuition and exposure and I couldn't  deny that there was a budding Chemistry Between Us   :57.640 --> :04.400 you know how they say once beaten Twice Shy well  that became my watch word I was determined to ward   :04.400 --> :09.840 off any further interest in this attractive lady  she on the other hand encouraged anything other   :09.840 --> :15.040 than friendship that was budding between us we had  gotten into a series of intelligent conversations   :15.040 --> :20.560 which I found amusing however I know I didn't  feel anything beyond the amusement or maybe I   :20.560 --> :26.040 didn't allow myself to feel Miss r on the other  hand managed to combine intelligence with being   :26.040 --> :31.360 sassy after about 3 months of maintaining a  closely knitted friendship she told me she   :31.360 --> :36.120 could no longer wait for me to pop the question  she minced no words when she told me she wanted   :36.120 --> :42.080 something deeper than the superficial friendship  we shared she was in love with me and she had no   :42.080 --> :46.680 intention of keeping it to herself I couldn't  believe it took me one month for me to realize   :46.680 --> :52.240 that I was also interested in something Beyond The  Superficial friendship I thought I had to offer I   :52.240 --> :58.600 had been completely swept over by love and I loved  every bit of it I knew I was breaking the family   :58.600 --> :04.640 Cod showed but if falling in love was a crime I  was ready to stake it all our lives were like a   :04.640 --> :09.760 perfect Symphony and I did not doubt that we were  meant for each other we became Inseparable in   :09.760 --> :14.880 college and I often wondered why I didn't meet  her earlier we were so perfect that a lot of   :14.880 --> :20.720 people began to use us as reference points at some  point I had to take her home to meet my parents   :20.720 --> :26.520 they knew that whatever made me break the family  code was a real deal after 2 years we graduated   :26.520 --> :32.200 college we changed cities and there seemed like a  little distance between us that distance however   :32.200 --> :37.560 little was strong enough to flip the script that I  thought we had excellently written over the years   :37.560 --> :43.960 my career led me to a desolate Outpost a distant  local far from the luxuries of the city but miss   :43.960 --> :49.480 R remained my soulle anchor and inspiration  our conversations echoed through the barren   :49.480 --> :54.280 Landscapes and we were still in sync regarding the  beautiful future we had hoped to build together   :54.280 --> :59.880 but everything changed in one Christmas I couldn't  discard the coldness and miss R's demeanor when I   :59.880 --> :05.440 saw her that Christmas she had ceased to be the  chatter box I'd grown so fond of I could sense   :05.440 --> :10.400 there was trouble in our beautifully orchestrated  Paradise but it was difficult to Fathom where the   :10.400 --> :16.440 trouble lay I organized dates picnics Hangouts  Adventures she enjoyed and anything to revive the   :16.440 --> :21.440 memories we've built and the love we shared  but all my efforts were merely seen but not   :21.440 --> :27.560 appreciated after the holidays I left home again  in my lone times I remembered our College days   :27.560 --> :33.080 and how Miss r became the sunshine I never knew  I needed I couldn't get past the image of her   :33.080 --> :38.640 being incredibly Giddy and affectionate around  me she was like a burst of sunshine bringing   :38.640 --> :44.160 joy and laughter into every corner of our shared  existence her laughter was infectious and her eyes   :44.160 --> :50.280 sparkled with genuine happiness whenever we were  together Miss R wasn't just a companion she was my   :50.280 --> :56.240 anchor during the turbulent times of Academia she  played a significant role in my academic Journey   :56.240 --> :01.320 becoming one of my motivations to strive for a a  first class degree when challenges threatened to   :01.320 --> :07.000 overwhelm me she was there when I graduated top  of my class she was there when my father shed   :07.000 --> :13.560 tears of joy she was there when I got my first job  outside the city her belief in my abilities fueled   :13.560 --> :19.520 my determination to achieve academic Excellence  it was so fascinating to see how much she was   :19.520 --> :25.080 there for both of us she never allowed herself  to lag as well and eventually she graduated as   :25.080 --> :30.440 a top engineer too thinking about our shared  experience gave me more reasons to fight for   :30.440 --> :35.920 our future together but I was compelled to reflect  on my stance When Miss R made it clear that she no   :35.920 --> :41.640 longer believed in our future together she minced  no words when she told me there was someone else   :41.640 --> :46.920 and she had moved on I called her several times  to be sure I wasn't making things up in my head   :46.920 --> :52.680 I was Dum struck and confused I couldn't believe  the woman who had motivated me to take a chance on   :52.680 --> :59.360 love moved on without me she left me in a state  of profound confusion and heartbreak it was a   :59.360 --> :05.160 surreal and unexpected twist to a story that had  been written with shared laughter challenges and   :05.160 --> :11.000 countless memories what added to the complexity  of my emotions was the fact that Miss R was the   :11.000 --> :16.880 one who initiated our relationship by asking me  out first in those initial moments I had felt a   :16.880 --> :22.160 connection a bond that I believed would withstand  the test of time little did I know that the   :22.160 --> :27.560 same person who had taken the first step in our  journey would be the one to alter its course so   :27.560 --> :33.040 drastically determined to salvage what I could of  our relationship I mustered the courage to reach   :33.040 --> :37.920 out to her after learning that she was getting  married to a guy she met at work my attempts   :37.920 --> :43.840 however were met with a cold and deafening silence  she blatantly told me to stop trying how could she   :43.840 --> :49.680 not allow me to try to save us did we never mean a  thing to her it was difficult for me to believe in   :49.680 --> :55.240 the fleeting moment of Life at that moment nothing  could explain how the person who had once been my   :55.240 --> :01.360 Confidant my partner in crime and my alltime  favorite person was now a chapter in my life   :01.360 --> :06.720 that seemed to be closing leaving me to confront  a future that felt uncertain and unfamiliar but   :06.720 --> :12.360 trust me I remained undeterred I tried reaching  out again through various social media platforms   :12.360 --> :17.360 pouring my heart out in messages that convey the  depth of my confusion and the pain of watching   :17.360 --> :23.360 our shared history crumble I hope that perhaps  a conversation could provide Clarity a chance to   :23.360 --> :29.160 understand the reasons behind her choices and if  possible find a way to bridge the growing app to   :29.160 --> :35.200 my dismay my efforts were in vain she had blocked  me on all social media platforms she blocked me   :35.200 --> :40.680 without offering any closure I guess that was the  most painful part for me becoming a stranger to   :40.680 --> :46.080 someone who couldn't go a day without speaking to  me I knew I had to stop trying when I got the news   :46.080 --> :52.440 that Miss R had married that guy the very person  who had become an unexpected wedge between us she   :52.440 --> :58.560 had moved forward in her life in a way I had never  anticipated her wedding photos and announcements   :58.560 --> :04.840 on social media became the final Bittersweet  confirmation of the closing chapter of our story   :04.840 --> :10.040 the digital spaces that had once been a canvas for  our shared dream were now adorned with images of a   :10.040 --> :16.560 future that no longer included me I spent so many  weeks imagining what was so special about that guy   :16.560 --> :22.040 I tried to stalk his social media platforms but  the more I tried the less I saw I was left in the   :22.040 --> :28.000 pain of acceptance mingled with the Echoes of a  past that could never be resurrected indeed I had   :28.000 --> :33.680 to face the harsh reality that the love which  was once so promising had taken an unforeseen   :33.680 --> :39.160 and irreversible turn I had no other choice other  than to accept the painful reality and also move   :39.160 --> :44.680 on with my future although the wounds of emotional  separation festered it took the intervention of   :44.680 --> :50.440 my father to fetch me out of depression however  in that moment of pain when I realized I had no   :50.440 --> :56.560 control over what had happened I made a conscious  decision to transform my pain into a powerful   :56.560 --> :03.080 driving force a force that would Propel me toward  not just professional success but personal growth   :03.080 --> :09.320 and resilience I dedicated myself to becoming an  exceptional engineer immersing myself in learning   :09.320 --> :15.040 pushing boundaries and taking on projects that  stretched my capabilities the long hours that   :15.040 --> :19.840 could have been spent dwelling on heartache were  invested in honing my skills and expanding my   :19.840 --> :25.840 knowledge I turned every ounce of Despair into  a Wellspring of resilience using the emotional   :25.840 --> :31.160 energy to propel me forward rather than than hold  me back my commitment to Excellence didn't go   :31.160 --> :37.080 unnoticed as I consistently delivered outstanding  results my reputation in the engineering community   :37.080 --> :42.720 grew doors of opportunity swung open and I  found myself being sought after by prestigious   :42.720 --> :48.840 companies and organizations in the United States  the juicy pay that accompanied these sought-after   :48.840 --> :54.680 positions became a tangible acknowledgment of  the transformation I had undergone it wasn't   :54.680 --> :01.200 just about financial success it was a testament  to my ability to turn adversity into advantage and   :01.200 --> :06.160 pain into purpose there were days I wondered  if I needed to go through that heartbreak to   :06.160 --> :12.440 experience such tenacity and willpower to succeed  my journey from heartbreak to becoming one of the   :12.440 --> :18.280 most sought-after engineers in the United States  wasn't just about climbing the career ladder it   :18.280 --> :24.800 was a personal Triumph for me after about 2 years  Miss R and I had the opportunity to work together   :24.800 --> :31.520 on a project thankfully for me I'd been selected  as the lead engineer on the project to be honest   :31.520 --> :35.800 I could see how difficult it was for her to  comprehend my professional growth in a span   :35.800 --> :41.600 of 2 years it was such a hard pill to swallow and  she couldn't hide it I was so proud of myself for   :41.600 --> :47.280 overcoming the rejection I thought would be the  end of me I didn't care to spare her any attention   :47.280 --> :52.760 and I made it so obvious that I was in a better  place emotionally after the project I was mandated   :52.760 --> :59.000 to recommend some Engineers out of the team for  some long-term projects with Juicy reward s even   :59.000 --> :04.480 though I had healed I knew that that was my chance  to allow Miss R to understand how it feels not to   :04.480 --> :10.480 be chosen Frank was IM mutual friend of Miss R  and me and he couldn't wait to spill to me that   :10.480 --> :17.320 Miss R had a real hot tears in her eyes when she  realized that I didn't shortlist her name I went   :17.320 --> :23.880 about my work wistfully for so many months I knew  I was being petty but sometimes pettiness does the   :23.880 --> :30.000 trick this is what I think realistically should  happen after a heartbreaking breakup you feel like   :30.000 --> :35.800 you kind of slink down to the absolute bottom and  I feel like it's just about the most perfect time   :35.800 --> :41.200 to just turn around your life and focus on you  and working yourself back up to even better than   :41.200 --> :47.360 where you were before the relationship our next  story is husband's coworker flirts with him so I   :47.360 --> :52.320 destroy her apartment I 30-year-old female have  met a lot of people who thought that they could   :52.320 --> :57.760 take anything they wanted without consequences the  one I can still remember vividly was in my high   :57.760 --> :04.480 school the leader of the Glee Club Mandy is a big  example she's so full of herself that she expected   :04.480 --> :10.960 that the entire world should bend to her needs  I wasn't close to her I wasn't even in glee club   :10.960 --> :16.920 but I had a friend Susan who was I remember all  the story Susan used to tell me about Mandy after   :16.920 --> :22.240 making the rest of the Glee club members rehearse  and perform a song that only she liked she went on   :22.240 --> :28.120 to steal one of the Glee members boyfriends some  lacrosse player named Jake anytime I thought of   :28.120 --> :33.560 that story and the effect it had in school I used  to wonder how absurd it was I used to think that   :33.560 --> :39.400 Mandy was the worst that Humanity had to offer  but I was quickly proven wrong when I met Chloe   :39.400 --> :45.520 one of my husband's co-workers long story short  she tried to steal my husband for me being me I   :45.520 --> :50.760 taught her a lesson but before I delve deeper I  need to talk about how it all came to be we loved   :50.760 --> :55.360 each other and we knew that when we started our  career Journey we wouldn't have the time to do it   :55.360 --> :00.440 so we decided to just tie the knot as soon as we  left College we both got internships in different   :00.440 --> :05.760 fields of work and due to our insane work ethics  we expected that we were going to get retained   :05.760 --> :11.320 as soon as the internship was done the prospects  were nice and if it all worked out we'd be able to   :11.320 --> :16.480 start a family as soon as possible Hank and I had  been together since our first year of college he   :16.480 --> :21.080 was the friend of my roommate's boyfriend we've  been going strong since then he was different   :21.080 --> :26.560 from every other guy I've dated he cared about me  and my hopes and dreams and he pushed me till I   :26.560 --> :31.760 achieved every one of them that one time I told  him that I wanted to graduate as one of the top   :31.760 --> :37.160 students in the class was one of the moments I  regretted in my entire time in school because   :37.160 --> :42.840 Hank took it as his responsibility to make sure  I studied he had my course schedule with him and   :42.840 --> :49.160 made sure I attended every class I was a naturally  lazy person and even though I'm really smart I   :49.160 --> :54.280 don't put nearly enough effort into anything I  want to do and because of that I always end up   :54.280 --> :59.880 with mediocre results but when Hank stepped in it  was something else we f a lot because I wouldn't   :59.880 --> :04.680 want to go to class and he'd come over to drive  me there himself one time I didn't want to open   :04.680 --> :10.480 the door for him so he got a key for my roommate  Ashley and practically kidnapped me and drove me   :10.480 --> :17.440 to school it was tough but by the time I graduated  it was all worth it I was top three in my class   :17.440 --> :22.960 anyways we were killing it in our internships  but Hank own was a bit tougher than mine that   :22.960 --> :27.320 was because he was competing with some of the  best students from different prominent colleges I   :27.320 --> :32.920 think he said some of them were even ivy league by  the end of the internship I got the job but Hank   :32.920 --> :39.040 didn't it was so bad that he fell into some kind  of depression which got worse by the day while I   :39.040 --> :44.840 went to work Hank stayed home job hunting it took  months before he could get an offer but before   :44.840 --> :51.800 then it was rejection after rejection eventually  he got the offer after months of searching I   :51.800 --> :56.640 was really worried the day after he went for the  interview because I knew that if he didn't get it   :56.640 --> :03.760 this time it would would be disastrous but thank  God he did we celebrated that night because all   :03.760 --> :09.920 was right in the world again or so I thought it  took us over 2 years of working and saving before   :09.920 --> :14.840 we decided that we were ready to start trying  for children we'd been married for over 4 years   :14.840 --> :20.600 by this time I got pregnant and had twins by this  time I had to take a leave from work to take care   :20.600 --> :25.960 of them but the three months I was given wasn't  enough to take care of my newborns so I had to   :25.960 --> :31.400 negotiate with my boss to give me a work from home  plan they agreed and I turned remote till I could   :31.400 --> :36.840 return to work one day Hank got back from work and  invited me to a party in his office The Firm had   :36.840 --> :41.960 closed a major deal and they were celebrating  my mom lived close so he dropped off the kids   :41.960 --> :46.920 with her and went to the party I was in a good  mood till I got to the party as soon as we got   :46.920 --> :53.280 to the hall some lady walked up to us all smiles  she was looking at Hank in a really weird way and   :53.280 --> :59.280 I knew something was up as soon as she got close  enough Hank introduced us her name was Chloe and   :59.280 --> :04.120 she worked in his Department she was an intern  the previous year and she worked under him when   :04.120 --> :10.360 Hank introduced me as his wife the look on her  face changed she looked me over and grumbled a   :10.360 --> :15.680 greeting she had two drinks in her hands and she  gave one to Hank she said she didn't know he was   :15.680 --> :22.360 bringing someone yes she referred to me as someone  Hank told her that the invite clearly said that   :22.360 --> :27.240 they could bring a plus one there was a moment  of awkwardness when Hank left to get me a drink   :27.240 --> :32.480 I pretended to be looking around but I could see  that she was checking me out by the time Han got   :32.480 --> :38.360 back I asked if Chloe was married to which she  laughed and said no I asked why and she said   :38.360 --> :43.720 she was waiting for the right person here's the  crazy part she said that while looking straight   :43.720 --> :49.800 into Hank's eyes I was so upset but I didn't  want to cause a scene so I excused myself from   :49.800 --> :55.280 the hall and went to the restroom I didn't come  out for over 20 minutes when we got back home I   :55.280 --> :59.920 confronted Hank I asked him if he'd been cheating  on on me with Chloe he laughed at first when he   :59.920 --> :04.920 thought I was joking when he realized that I was  serious he told me he wasn't and that they were   :04.920 --> :10.080 just friends he was her senior in the company and  owing to the fact that she worked under him as an   :10.080 --> :15.560 intern they had developed some type of closeness  I could tell that he wasn't lying but that didn't   :15.560 --> :20.920 mean the threat wasn't real that's the thing with  men sometimes they can be pretty oblivious about   :20.920 --> :26.760 things especially Hank we were friends before  we started dating but I liked him and I could   :26.760 --> :32.040 tell that he liked me too I tried to get him to  ask me out I gave him all the signals there were   :32.040 --> :38.320 to give a guy but he still wouldn't do the needful  I literally had to spell it out for him before he   :38.320 --> :43.440 finally asked me out so I wasn't shocked when he  didn't see what was going on with Chloe I decided   :43.440 --> :49.600 to give it a rest since I trusted Hank I knew that  if he got too far he'd stop it or at least that's   :49.600 --> :54.760 what I thought one night when Hank caught home I  was about to order Chinese when he told me not to   :54.760 --> :59.720 worry because he'd already gotten something to  eat I I asked him where and he said Khloe got   :59.720 --> :05.960 pizza they were working late on a project and she  decided to buy him dinner I was enraged I yelled   :05.960 --> :10.960 at Hank for accepting food from her but he didn't  see what was wrong with it which pissed me off   :10.960 --> :17.040 even further we fought for an entire week before  he decided to apologize he promised not to accept   :17.040 --> :23.520 food from her again and I said okay but still that  was not the end Khloe decided to kick her game up   :23.520 --> :29.560 a notch she didn't come with her car to work one  day because for some reason it was at the auto   :29.560 --> :34.840 body shop that day and instead of her to order a  ride or something she decided to ask my husband   :34.840 --> :40.680 to help her home Hank being the oblivious person  he was actually helped her home how do I know all   :40.680 --> :46.240 this well because he told me he usually tells me  everything and I'm lucky that he didn't know which   :46.240 --> :51.560 part was good or bad or else he might have cut out  a few details I asked him where she lived and he   :51.560 --> :57.240 told me without hesitation that was when I started  to formulate my plan when he'd gone to work I'd   :57.240 --> :02.680 take take the kids on a stroll and I'd walk past  her house to see how the neighborhood was at night   :02.680 --> :07.800 I'd drop the kids off with my mom and stake out  at her place it was an apartment building and I   :07.800 --> :12.560 had to know where she lived I finally figured  it out when she got back from work one night   :12.560 --> :18.560 and I wore a nose mask and face cap following her  closely behind once I figured it out I moved to   :18.560 --> :23.920 the next phase of my plan I went to her place  one day when I was sure that she'd be at work   :23.920 --> :29.360 and I broke in I looked up how to pick a lock  on YouTube One I was in I went into her closet   :29.360 --> :35.800 and gathered all her clothes especially the ones  that looked expensive I grabbed her designer bags   :35.800 --> :41.360 and shoes and gathered them in a pile next I took  the batteries out of the fire alarm and set the   :41.360 --> :46.800 clothes on fire I put out the fire before it got  too out of control but made sure it was properly   :46.800 --> :52.600 destroyed then I moved on to completely trashing  her kitchen in her living room I tore up her bed   :52.600 --> :59.760 and broke all her vases and dishes when I was done  I decided to leave a cryptic message just for fun   :59.760 --> :05.680 I wrote I'm watching you on a piece of paper and  set it on the kitchen island that'll keep her   :05.680 --> :11.480 on her toes then I left through the fire escape  making sure I wasn't seen by anyone the next day   :11.480 --> :16.760 when Hank got home he told me about how paranoid  Khloe had gotten since she' got to her apartment   :16.760 --> :21.840 and saw that it was completely trashed she had to  leave and stay in a hotel till she could find a   :21.840 --> :26.960 solution to the break-in I decided to kick it  up a notch a little while Hank was sleeping I   :26.960 --> :32.000 took Chloe's number from his cell phone and got a  new phone just to mess with her telling her that   :32.000 --> :37.640 getting a room in a hotel wouldn't protect her  from me and that I was coming for her Khloe's   :37.640 --> :44.560 paranoia turned into hysteria in a matter of hours  that same day she applied for a leave from work   :44.560 --> :49.960 and left before it even got approved she stopped  talking to Hank because she got all paranoid and   :49.960 --> :56.640 didn't know who was targeting her she disconnected  from everyone and went to God knows where I didn't   :56.640 --> :02.760 care as long as I had my husband all to myself I  was good I was going to ask if anybody thought op   :02.760 --> :08.680 went off the deep end here but I think the better  question is does anybody think op did not go off   :08.680 --> :13.880 the deep end here because it's pretty clear even  when their husband is being utterly transparent   :13.880 --> :19.680 about what's going on and isn't acting on any  of these things that op went way too far with   :19.680 --> :25.040 this but with that being said that's all the  time we have for today now if you want to hear   :25.040 --> :30.440 another crazy Revenge story check out that  video on the left or if you missed my latest   :30.440 --> :36.000 video check out that video on the right that said  I'll see you all next time with some more stories
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aita for refusing to House s at T while my entire family goes on a summer vacation I I 19f and being forced to watch both my family dog and my aunt's cat and house while they go on a week-long vacation to Vancouver I just learned by accident from my aunt that my whole extended family including my two sisters cousins aunt and uncle parents and grandparents are going to Vancouver Island for well over a week they have apparently been keeping it a secret from me because they just assumed I wouldn't mind staying behind despite never being asked if I was even interested I feel left behind and disconnected from the rest of my family and don't know if I should even agree to house sit during the week aita add-on I'm not just house sitting my own house but also my aunt's house and their cats our houses are not that far from each other but I will have to go back and forth every day I also wanted to clear up that I live with my grandparents and my parents and I do pay rent for the people that are wondering update I talked to my parents and they told me the trip is going to be in July and they will be gone for 2 week they apologized somewhat but didn't really give me a straight answer as to why I can't come but from what I'm guessing everything is already paid for and set in stone
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today we've got a nuclear Revenge story all about stealing College tuition we'll get to that in a bit but first my roommate stole from me so I sorted him out I grew up in a pretty disciplined home my dad was an Army veteran who had done two tours in Afghanistan and while he didn't want that kind of life for us he still treated my sisters and I like soldiers my older sister Ada had once jokingly called him a drill sergeant which he had luckily laughed at good naturedly basically he trained and drilled us to be efficient and take orders now don't get me wrong my dad wasn't an unfeeling mean head who was only interested in ordering us around he was a pretty awesome man he took up a job as a police officer after his military service and was a big softy to almost everyone who met him After experiencing the harshness of War my dad believed that kindness went a long way in making people happy and he was intent in spreading Joy everywhere he went he loved to hang out with the homeless and he'd bring food and clothing to them and chat with them about their lives this helped in many ways for one homeless people saw a lot of things that happen on the streets and the people my father helped were like any other member of society just trying to survive and they wanted to live in a safe Community just like anyone else they were usually not very open to helping police officers though because they saw police officers as oppressive which is understandable considering that more often than not the encounters between cops and homeless people were to force them out of a particular place or interrogate them as a suspect for crimes they probably didn't commit my father's kindness to them was not only a breath of fresh air it built trust and they gave information to my dad that helped put a lot of bad people in jail the second advantage of this symbiotic relationship was that oftentimes the kindness and support that my father showed these people was a spark that gave them hope and motivation to get off the streets he had helped a lot of people this way and was very proud of the work he had done my dad was also quite kind to us at home but he was of the belief that life didn't hand anything for free and we had to work hard and be disciplined and so he was quite strict with us notwithstanding this we loved him very much and we could approach him to talk about just about anything a big part of my father's training involved ensuring that personal hygiene was seen as important he would always have us make our bed the moment we got out of it and the general rule around the house was clean up after yourself this included doing your dishes after eating and always folding your laundry the moment it got in my dad also made sure we followed a strict timetable and that my sisters and I were never tardy to anything all my life all I knew was the lifestyle that my dad had enforced in us and so I didn't really know any other way of living I knew that other people lived differently but personally I'd never really experienced it that was the way I lived until I got admission to college and I met my roommate Matthew Matt had resumed School a day earlier than I had but he'd already added his style to the room apparently he was big on rock and roll and had hung posters all around the room he'd also brought in a mini fridge and had filled it up with beer now my first impression when I met Matt was that he was different and I honestly was quite excited for it every day for the past 18 years I had lived with the same people and lived the same way and for once I was going to get the chance to be in a different environment with different people and Matt was going to be the first of those people in fact my parents don't know this one of the main reasons I only applied to schools at least two states away was exactly because of this I wasn't trying to be wild or anything though I just wanted a little variety to my life a little excitement so when I moved in I spent hours talking to Matt about everything I really wanted to know as much as I possibly could we talked about our interests What majors we were going to do and just about everything else even offered me a beer and I after tons of convincing accepted it I really didn't enjoy it by the way beer tastes weird I was convinced that we were going to be best of friends and I was looking forward to it perhaps if I had known what was to happen I'd have been more cautious of Matt but oh well the first sign that Matt was going to be problematic was his hygiene the first week in the room I could swear he never took a bath he also dropped everything on the floor trashed his clothes used dishes there were just the two of us so he couldn't even really claim that it was anyone else at first I was fine with it well maybe not fine but I wasn't really pissed off about it when I came back from classes I'd clean up the room as much as I could and move his clothes to his bed heck I even did his dishes a few times however as time went on it seemed like he was getting too comfortable with me cleaning up for him and he just gave up all together the room started to have a really funky smell and there were stains on the floor that I didn't even want to know what they were dishes filled the sink and they were kept there for so long that they started to stink too it really was a very bad starting to feel very annoyed about it I decided that the best option for me was to talk to him about it so one Friday evening I sat him down and I told him that he needed to do better when it came to hygiene I told him that his behavior was affecting me Gravely and I suggested that he work on it to help I suggested setting up a timetable to help with organizing tasks and even cleaning together the entire time he was pretty mellow and it seemed like he was thinking really hard about it perhaps I'd gotten to him I thought after a while he told me he'd think about it that perhaps we could talk about it again the next day when I asked why it had to wait till the next day he said he had a party to attend and he would be in a better State of Mind to talk then so I let him go I didn't see Matt again for another four days in that time his number was unavailable and I was already considering contacting the police to report him as missing then he randomly just showed up and acted like nothing had happened again I tried talking to him but no matter what I tried he always either made an excuse not to talk about it or he'd just say okay and then do nothing about it frustrated I just resolved it keep on doing what I'd been doing and I convinced myself that if it ever got too much I would just report to the hall admin then came the stealing at first it was just little things like a sandwich I'd saved for later or my pens I ended up buying a lot of pens it was kind of annoying because I'd always been the kind of person who organized everything so I sort of had the expectation of where my things were supposed to be at any given point in time so imagine how annoying it is to try to get my sandwich which I'd carefully planned for dinner and realizing that Matt had eaten it and left no replacement I knew that talking to him wasn't going to yield any positive results I tried this before with the whole cleaning up thing remember so instead I just tried to be very careful with my things and when possible I hid my stuff there are two main issues with this though for one there's only so much you can hide in your room instinctively you feel safe in your room and you're bound to leave things just lying around it's only when it goes missing that you recall you'd made the mistake of keeping it within reach of your thieving roommate the second thing is that even hiding wasn't an efficient way of keeping things out of reach of Matt you would simply just look for them and knowing me it's very very easy to predict where I'd keep my things it's usually in the most expected Place possible I started to consider getting a safe or a cupboard with a lock after my wallet went missing the wallet had my school ID my credit card and 55 dollars in cash I instantly suspected Matt but I had no evidence he had taken it and it didn't seem right to just accuse him of stealing it I had to go to the bank to block access to my credit card to prevent any unauthorized access into my account I got another wallet and I'd applied to the school for another ID when I walked into the room one day to see my old wallet sticking out from under my bed I knew it had been planted there because when I opened it all that was missing was the cash I began to be very paranoid around Matt and I seriously was considering reporting to the school but I didn't it wasn't until Matt went too far that I decided I'd had enough during the semester break I went home despite spend some time with my family while I was with them my father had given me the antique watch of my grand Uncle who had recently passed apparently he had bequeathed that along with a fair amount of money for my education to me now the watch was quite expensive and I honestly considered not taking it with me back to school but I was quite close to my grand Uncle while he was alive and the thought of having a part of him close to me was comforting I decided to bring the watch with me to school but leave it locked up somewhere safe I wouldn't tell anyone about its existence that should work right a week after resuming school I walked into the room to see it trashed instinctively I went to where I kept the watch it was gone other things were missing too and I knew that we had been robbed I immediately called 9-1-1 and then Matt I never considered even for a second that Matt had been responsible the police dispatched a couple of officers who asked Matt and I a bunch of questions after that they told us that an investigation was open and that if they got any info they'd let us know the thought that I had lost such a priceless item so soon made me absolutely mad at myself for days I sulked and spent hours just brooding about it all I had called my dad to report what had happened and he had told me that he was confident the watch would be found even if he wasn't he said it took more than physical property to keep the memory of my grand Uncle I had decided to leave it all up to fate till one day I while cleaning the room saw a little glint from Matt's bed now normally I would have probably ignored what I saw but for some reason I moved towards the glint which was coming from something tucked under his pillow whatever it was had just a bit of it sticking out the side and the sun's Rays it caused it to reflect as I picked up his pillow there was my grand uncle's watch right there staring at me I couldn't believe it Matt had stolen the watch I stood there speechless thinking of what to do by the time I finally managed to move I knew what I had to do Matt had gone too far and I was going to make sure he paid normally I would have confronted Matt about it and maybe also requested to have my room switched but it was time he got the punishment he deserved the plan I had in mind was very simple simple yet effective I took the watch I had now found and then I called one of the police officers that had come over when I reported the robbery he had given me his number and I told him I had information for him and requested that he come when he got there I told him that I found the watch in the custody of Matt I showed him the watch and he asked me if I wanted to escalate things I escalated things not only did Matt get arrested for theft but he also got charged with purchase of alcohol as a minor and falsify buying his identity apparently he had used a fake ID to buy the beers that were constantly in his mini fridge Matt also got reported to school and was expelled during his trial I had testified against him and my testimony was strong enough to ensure conviction however he didn't get any jail time his lawyer had been pretty good and had argued to the court that as a first-time offender he'd be given a light sentence so the judge sentenced him to do community service for 60 days and a year of probation the damage was done though and I was glad that I'd finally gotten some form of Justice I'm certain now that my enthusiasm for wanting to experience life differently from how it was in my family was a big mistake I'm absolutely convinced I don't want to have another roommate ever again maybe in time this opinion will change but for now that's what it is I wish I didn't have to go as far as I did with Matthew but I know that if I didn't he have done worse so I'm sort of glad I did I think this is one of those situations where you experienced the absolute lowest end of the spectrum and you've allowed that to ruin the experience of kind of living on your own and also seeing a side of things that aren't what your family forced you to experience that said op definitely let this go on way too long without ever reporting any of it our next story is I took the money meant for my brother's College my revenge against my brother was taking the money meant for his college education I carefully plan to get money from his college funds for my mother and I succeeded he went to college eventually but not having the funds meant for his education set him back by years he left college with student loans that he would have never have had to obtain in the first place if he had gotten the funds meant for his college education my mom had my brother and me when she was really young she met my dad when they were both in high school they were together for a while after high school when she had my brother and nearly two years later she had me my mom lives with my dad and his mother's house and my paternal grandmother took care of us all for a while but she soon got tired she was a teacher and wasn't saving enough for her retirement because she had to take care of two adults and two children she asked to speak with my mom one day and told her that she needed my mom and her children my brother and me to leave her house interestingly she never threw my dad her son out my dad also never tried to rent a place for his small family he left the house when he knew my mom was leaving he probably didn't want to deal with the guilt of seeing us leave and being unable or unwilling to do anything about it we heard later that he got another woman pregnant and she moved in with my grandmother until my grandmother died my mom was sad about what had happened she couldn't return to her parents home because they were conservative Christians and had sent her out when she was pregnant with my brother anyway we moved into a house provided by a church in our community for single mothers and women who needed a temporary place to stay away from their abusive husbands or Partners while we lived there my mom was offered a job by a member of the church that offered us a place to stay she was to work as a receptionist at a small Law Firm my mom accepted the offer and soon started working towards getting her high school diploma we weren't rich but things got better than they were and we could afford basic stuff things got even better for us when my mom met a wealthy lawyer in the course of her work as a paralegal my mom and the lawyer dated secretly for a while because they were ashamed of their relationship the lawyer was 35 years older than my mom and he died before I could have strong memories of him but I remember that he and my mom were in love with each other my mom says he's the only man who's ever shown her true love even after he had died she maintained that he was the only man with whom she ever felt genuine love naturally since he was a lot older than my mom and was richer too everyone in the church assumed she was with him because of the money the church pastor didn't approve of my mom's relationship with him when he proposed to her and she agreed to marry him the pastor refused to give his blessings he insisted that my mom could not marry the lawyer because he was not a Believer and because he didn't believe that my mom was marrying him for Godly reasons the lawyer was irritated by the pastor's comment and his assumed authority over my mother but he kept this cool and he and my mom kept dating they never got married but my mom got fed up with the pastor's obsession with controlling her life we left the church house and the church too and moved in with the rich lawyer he never wanted my mom to work outside the home since the career opportunities available for her were limited anyway my mom agreed to stay at home and take care of us in the home our time in his house is the most Pleasant memory I have of my childhood my brother and I had enough food to eat enough snacks and too many toys we also had nice clothes and stopped getting hand-me-downs from the people at church he didn't just treat my mom nicely but he was a sweet dad to us too he paid for everything we had to do in school too the experience was great sadly he got a terminal illness this time passed and he died after he died his ex-wife filed a case against my mom she believed that she should inherit his house and that my mom brother and I had to move out she was quite influential more educated than my mom and could afford good lawyers to help her my mom was hardly knowledgeable about things like that and wasn't college educated she also had no money so she didn't contest the case and simply let it all go we had to move to the town where my mom grew up her siblings had all moved out of the house her dad was dead and it was just her mom we moved into the house and while it wasn't as bad as when we lived in the church house it certainly wasn't as good as when we lived with my mom's boyfriend my mom was heartbroken but she managed to find a good job in town and took good care of my brother and me some years later my mom's laid boyfriend's lawyer reached out to us he had apparently set up a college fund for my older brother my mom was very grateful I'm sure he would have done the same for you if he'd stayed alive a little longer my mom said to me later that week I got back at my brother by ensuring that my mother spent the money on something else my brother had to repeat a grade in high school so we were in the same grade at the time he was a big bully but he was brilliant and that was the only reason the school didn't kick him out he looked forward to going to college finally his reason for going to college was despite our father he badly wanted to prove himself to everyone of course he was banking on the money my mom's boyfriend had in store for him there was no better way to hurt my brother than to ensure he didn't go to college my best friend in school had a stepdad who was a known gangster everyone knew he sold drugs too he had been in and out of jail many times my mom had warned me many times to stay away from my best friend because everyone knew his stepdad to be dangerous and working for even more dangerous people my best friend wasn't about that life though he actively avoided getting into that business even though his mom was involved too the plan was to convince my mom that I was owing a drug lord a huge amount of money and that he was going to end me that way my mom would be forced to pay up with a huge chunk of my brother's college fund to make the whole thing believable I started to run errands for my best friend's stepdad he was horrified at first but I let him in on my plans and he let me be it was from working for my best friend step dad that I realized that he had a boss and his boss has a boss it was a whole network in hierarchy of bosses my best friend suggested that I actually lose some of his stepdad's goods and run away that would make him send his boys to my grandma's house to look for me on one of the days he sent me on an errand I ran home with the goods and hid them under my bed as my best friend and I expected his stepdad sent some boys to my grandma's house my mom was horrified to see that I was dealing with those kinds of people I handed them the goods I ran away with when they asked that meant one thing my best friend's stepdad had fired me he never joked about his business a week after my mom had had a complete emotional breakdown about the new company I was keeping I packed a bag and ran away well I wanted my mom and brother to think I ran away my mom was beside herself with grief worrying about my safety eventually I sneaked home one evening and told her what had happened I lied that I'd gotten mixed up with some drug dealers I was going to deliver some drugs to another person and I was robbed of them I told her the gang leaders were after me because they thought I'd run away with their goods my mom was scared she grew up in the same neighborhood so she knew how dangerous those gangs could be after exploring several options she decided to dip into my brother's college funds my mom could never let my brother know that she was using his college funds to repay a debt and save my life he would have never ever allowed it instead she lied to him about having a health emergency even though she had lied about her health my brother still managed to throw a tantrum he left the house for a while and then returned later refusing to speak to anyone when my mom handed me the money to pay back the gangsters my best friend and I went over to the bank to deposit the money and his brother's account his brother was someone we could trust so we had him keep the money in a fixed deposit until I needed it I could not think of a better way to punish my brother than what I did my brother cost my mom too much heartache she was always spending lots of money time and energy trying to get him out of one trouble or the other he assaulted and bullied many people even my best friend and Me growing up my mom would explain away his behavior and make excuses for him she never let him take responsibility for his crappy Behavior she would say that the reason that he was hostile was because he witnessed our birth dad being hostile towards her my mom never spoke with no holds bars about all that my dad did to her but I suspect that he used to hit her my brother was older and had a more formed memory of our birth dad than I did my brother was very selfish and would never do anything for anyone other than himself he had academic Excellence going on for him but other than that he was is a complete jerk bag he would Mock and Bully anyone who he perceived this week I was his first victim I was terrified of my brother because he got angry very often and when he did he would punch me and grab my neck it was never a pleasant sight even my mom would worry about leaving me at home with him I was helpless and small because my brother was huge and had the muscular physique of our birth dad he got away with hitting me too many times because my mother hardly ever confronted him about his behavior she was almost as scared of him as I was despite my brother's aggressive behavior he had good grades in school and would represent the school and quiz and Essay competitions he won most of them too I knew I had to stop my mom from pouring all that money into my brother's education when my brother got a lot of money from an essay competition he participated in we needed the money in the family at the time my grandma house where we lived had a lot of things that needed repairing and we barely had enough groceries my mom worked at a Bookshop and her pay was barely enough for us my brother could have done something for the family but he didn't he went to my birth dad who lived in the same town as us but never bothered to be an actual father to us my dad being just as selfish and inconsiderate as my brother tricked my brother and took all of his money my mom warned my brother but he didn't listen he even moved some of his stuff to live with my dad and his new family my mom felt betrayed and cried about it for the whole week when my brother returned she took him in but I knew that something had changed she no longer prioritized him as she used to she also stopped making excuses for him and left him to deal with the consequences of his behavior it was at that time that he was suspended for a semester another gross misconduct and had to repeat a grade my mom pretended that the whole episode episode of my dad hadn't happened but I never forgot my brother had the chance to do something for his family but he ran away to my birth dad who didn't care about us I knew the best way to get back in my brother was to take up the college funds and return them to my mother in the future that worked and as soon as my brother started his journey in college and was able to work his way around getting loans I had my best friend's brother return the money to me and I gave it to my mother my Mom hardly had a solid retirement plan so it made sense to let her use the money instead I know it was meant for a different purpose but my brother didn't seem like a credible investment anyway he came about money for a while and abandoned the family he'd always known thankfully my brother is a brilliant kid and he found his way around the university on his own my mom as usual tried to mask her happiness when I confessed what really happened to her I know she was glad I helped her to save some money though she was also are relieved that I was never part of any drug dealing gang my brother having to navigate college with very little support from my mother helped develop his character he stopped bullying people and finally became more responsible with money although stealing somebody's college funds is pretty cruel I'm glad that overall an OP situation it seems to have worked out pretty darn well for them it seems like pretty much everybody's in a pretty darn good place and can you really be too upset at the actions taken if things worked out that well in the end it's nice to see that their jerk of a brother had character development but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another crazy Revenge story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories
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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've got a story of following a boss's very dumb orders but first make sure to hit those like and subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos our story of the days from scicar22 run the material that'll damage the machine you're the boss this happened about 10 years ago i was working as an industrial process engineer for a major company my duties were varied in many some days i was an auditor of equipment condition others i would try to unravel how waste or scrap was created still others i would be the designated smart guy in the room to listen to plans the factory came up with and give them an engineering seal of approval the most enjoyable things i did were trials which were basically science experiments with industrial value for example a trial might involve changing a chemical in the material following it through the process and testing it at every point if it passed everything to satisfaction we'd begin the process to make it a permanent process in the material we would sell running trials was my favorite thing to do i wasn't a manager but when i was running a trial i had give or take unquestioned authority over the process and the people to run it as i saw fit i ran hundreds of them a year and i was good at it one day i got called into a voice call between myself about five engineers in a downstream department i didn't know very well and a new corporate engineer that i'd never met i had a very good relationship with my contacts at corporate we always had a good back and forth on how to improve the process at the factory and they provided chemical experience i didn't have or couldn't perform at the factory level this call however was different there was no debate i was told in forceful terms that my product was not sticky enough downstream for their purposes and we needed to make it more sticky he outlined four different ways to make it stickier and the only choice i would get to make would be one to try first i was pretty confused at all this i told them that from my standpoint the material was already too sticky it was difficult to process on my equipment without sticking to everything and anytime it did we would get scrap or bad product which we'd sometimes send downstream which created even more waste and scrap i was trying to work with my corporate chemist to make it less sticky not more i also said that the material would naturally lose stickiness over time on the first couple of days it was a pretty sticky mess but after that it would be a good level we would guarantee that it would be sticky enough to use for at least seven days which was confirmed by audits after seven days it might not become sticky enough but we made the material every two or three days if it was sitting around more than seven days it was on their end they were probably breaking policy somehow such as taking material out of the machine when changing over but putting a fresh bunch of material in next time so they wouldn't have to change a half batch and they could do less work this type of problem wasn't a chemical problem it was a logistics and manning problem and making the chemistry worse to solve it wasn't going to fix the bigger issues but i was outnumbered like six to one on the call they all said that didn't matter that they were the customer and their customer was telling them to fix a problem and they expected me to do it i'd never been treated like that as a company and i have to say i didn't appreciate it a few days later i got a corporate trial scheduled for me though i used the term loosely it was an amateur effort at best it didn't include standard vital information for example it requested a sample but it didn't say how much how many or to whom to send it this was vital to make sure those who had tested got enough to complete their tests the company was big they had a dozen factories and maybe 50 plus trials at those factories at all times so stuff just couldn't show up at the lab and get handled properly there was also no shipping information i didn't handle company money internally so corporate would pre-pay shipping and send me the information so i could ship them samples there were five or six other mistakes and emissions it was clearly a trial that wasn't out of the planning stages i briefly told my boss all of this that this trial wasn't good for our department that this wasn't where i was going with the material chemically and that the trial was missing vital information he sort of nodded and that was good enough for me so i did what i very very rarely had to do i rejected the trial on behalf of the plant i'd only had to do it a few times before and those were with corporate mutual approval that we'd design a different better trial and the one i was rejecting was a first draft this was the first and i believe last time i had to reject a hostile trial that i was openly opposed to existing i was happily not remembering the whole incident a few weeks later when i see the same trial pop up for me again i'm irritated i go to my boss but this time this corporate guy had contacted my boss to complain and my boss wants me to run it i remind him of what i told him last time and he says to run it anyway i say i can't it's not even ready and he tells me to work with the corporate engineer to get the holes filled but we have to run the thing i should talk about this boss for a moment during my three years at the company i had seven different bosses some of them were very competent and i lost as a boss due to reorgs them resigning or in one case one died due to an unrelated condition other bosses were filler bosses someone i reported to until the next candidate could be filled but this current boss was the worst of the seven by a long shot he was someone who apparently had excelled at corporate and they'd sent down to fill the engineering manager role in my apartment we all disliked him he had no knowledge of our department whatsoever my entire work was a write-off to him he was busy counting material we could ship so any of the processing stuff i did upstream was far out of his interest despite literally being in charge of it and me also instead of someone from our department being promoted to this manager role they'd sent us a corporate guy bad times i ignored him best i could only looping him in if i had to make important decisions i could sometimes go weeks without talking to him and those were fine weeks by me anyway i didn't reject the trial this time but i leave it hanging at my approval i email the guy all of my concerns with the trial and the questions he has to answer before i can run it i'm very professional non-judgmental just saying what i need in order to run the trial no response to that email of course a few days later my boss is livid he says this corporate guy has been saying that our department is obstructionist rude and negative and that i need to approve and run the trial now i remind them of all the issues that would increase our scrap slow us down possibly damage equipment to say nothing of the vague and incomplete trial requirements he doesn't care i'm an engineer he pays me to figure this stuff out i need to get this corporate guy his material he heavily implied my job was in danger over all this so i say okay i approve the trial and we finally get to the malicious compliance i ask a colleague to prepare the material for me he reports that it was a nightmare and that he had to do it manually and even then he lost two batches before the third was finally ready for me this alone would have been caused to stop the trial remember that we're preparing industrial processes here it doesn't matter if we can do it once we have to create a process that will work every day for years so this type of failure means the material isn't ready but not this time oh no we have to get this guy his material and i have big plans once i have the material i look to when to schedule the trial normally i'm considerate of the manufacturing demands scheduling my trials when we're ahead on what's needed downstream not this time i find what we have the lowest of and bump it from the schedule putting my trial in the spot instead 100 a jerk move but it's my job on the line at this point so i'm taking no prisoners we start running the trial on my equipment it's sticking to all the preparation areas it's a huge mess just as expected we have to keep stopping the machine to scrape stuff free again this would have been another failure condition we keep going we have some sensors that sort of float on the material as it goes along but the material's too sticky it's grabbing and twisting the sensors and bending their arms i can see some of the damage will be permanent after this trial they'll have to have some machine work done on them to fix them totally unacceptable but we press on until one of them breaks off completely now i have metal plastic and electronics in my material this isn't just a failed trial it's now a mockery of what trials are there's no way we can use any of this material for any reason but nope corporate needs material we have an area that ensures an even flow of material but it's too sticky it's clumping up instead of flowing so the material we're making is uneven very heavy at one side and with nearly none of the other side at this point we're not even making bad material we're making pure scrap i tell them to keep going through this process the machine operators are getting vexed and call their area bosses and also engineering and maintenance gets involved because of the damage everyone's asking me what i'm doing i tell them that this is authorized by my boss and that i have to run it and to direct all complaints to him that's all i say every time just name drop my boss in the post processing area the unevenness of the material combined with the stickiness of the material is starting to pull on the rollers that straighten it out in weird ways everyone's getting concerned we might have to do a whole realignment which is a slow process that takes three or four days i eventually relent and allow them to stop the trial nothing ever made it to the end of the process normally we make around 2000 pounds of material in a run we made zero not that it would have been usable in any way the operators have the unenviable job of trying to get this crap off the machine we were down for the rest of the day about five hours of machine time to clean and fix and replace damaged sensors but i have more work to do on my end i got various samples of this horrific mess some of the heavy areas some of the light i found a piece of that sensor embedded in there and get a sample of that too just frankly a ridiculous amount of material it's too much to carry but i'm not worried i have an industrial vehicle to drive around in these cases and i still have a plan i briefly entertain sending some of these samples to our testing lab that standard procedure during trials to test them at the plant level as much as we can but if this is malicious compliance and i know it the lab equipment is pretty sensitive if this sticky stuff pulls on it in the wrong ways it could break the testing equipment and that would shut down the whole factory i don't actually want that i'm pretty sure i'm making my point as is but i keep a sample for myself just in case testing becomes a thing i need to do later i take my two heavy samples to shipping i never got shipping information but i did find the address of this guy's office in the building he'll get this gigantically heavy package that he can't carry delivered to his mail area and i don't have shipping paperwork but i do have the address of a private van shipping company we used them in the past when the regular mail was too slow when we were worried about a major defect and needed to get the material to corporate asap it turned out to be a false alarm it costs much much more than just shipping this normally but i have no other actual way to ship it so i use the one tool i have available i'd been avoiding going back to the office for a few hours and when i do as expected my boss has been barraged by visitors and phone calls about what went down i tell them of the difficulties in detail and as unsarcastically as i can muster apologize for not risking a roll alignment and having to stop the trial early i show him the horrible sample of material i kept for myself he's still pretty mad but i give him one thing that helps a lot because there was one important thing on that amateur trial request since he couldn't create the request without one a billing account number i give him the number and say the plant should charge it with anything related to the trial not just the damages but any downtime due to lost production from material shortages i estimate the total cost of the whole venture was somewhere between twenty thousand dollars and thirty thousand but it could be more i'm not sure how much downtime was directly caused by this i did keep my job though so i guess that billing account helped ease the pain for the factory maybe not on the corporate side but they did want their trial about a week later i have my follow-up with the six people that confronted me in the first place i tell them of the unmitigated disaster that was this trial and my estimation of the damages this guy has the nuts to say something like excellent work we've proven that we can move the needle on stickiness if we want to i can't help but think i'm a chemist numb nuts moving the needle was never a question he asks me which of the three remaining trials i want to do next i tell them that i don't need to worry about the details and ask him to email my boss and ask him which he thinks is best to which he thought was a wonderful idea my boss never mentioned a follow-up trial and no corporate trials from that guy were scheduled for me about two months later my boss resigned from the company quietly and quickly he was clearly miserable in his role and i know that this whole mess helped contribute to it what a cataclysmic failure from this boss do you believe anybody in a situation like this that would come down from a corporate level to involving with factories and chemicals and processes that they've just never had any experience with that it would always end in disaster or do you think that despite coming from corporate some guys could be really good let me know what you guys think in the comments down below but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another malicious compliance story that was way crazier than any of the ones in this video click on that left video or if you missed my latest video click on the right that said though i'll see you all next time with some more stories
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a ITA for refusing to lend my brother money after he squandered his inheritance here's the deal he refused to lend my brother money after he blew through his entire inheritance in less than a year am I the here I'm the more let's say financially responsible one in the family I've always been about budgets savings and the whole nine yards my brother on the other hand lives for the moment when our grandfather passed away he left us both a significant amount of money I used mine to pay off my mortgage and invested the rest for retirement my brother he went on a wild spending spree luxury vacations a sports car you name it fast forward to last week my brother shows up at my door looking like he's carrying the weight of the world on his shoulder he's broke the inherit is gone poof just like that and then comes the kicker he's asking me for a small loan to tide him over he's family sure but here's the thing I've bailed him out before several times actually and it always goes the same way he promises it's the last time and then boom back to square one I told him I couldn't help this time I said it was time for some tough love that he needed to learn to manage his finances and deal with the consequences of his action he called me heartless said family should always have each other's back Mom and Dad are on his side claiming I'm being too harsh and that I should help him out just this once heard that before so Reddit am I the here should I have just lent him the money or was I right to think that it's high time he learned his lesson
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a woman is at her boyfriend's parents house for dinner this is her first time meeting the family the woman is beginning to feel a little discomfort thanks to her nervousness in the broccoli casserole the gas paines are making her eyes water left with no other choice she decides to relieve herself a bit and lets out a dainty fart it wasn't loud but everyone at the table heard the poop before she even had a chance to be embarrassed her boyfriend's father looked over at the cat that had been snoozing at the woman's feet and said in a rather Stern voice bubbles the woman thought this is great A couple of minutes later she was beginning to feel the pain again this time she didn't even hesitate she let a much louder and longer fart rip the father again looked at the cat and yelled damn it bubbles once again the woman smiled and thought yes a few minutes later the woman had to let another one rip this time she didn't even think about it she let rip a fart that rivaled a train whistle blowing once again the father looked at the cat with disgust and yelled damn it bubbles get away from her before she shits on
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my wife will soon start cheating on me what should I do sorry this ended up being long I married my wife for 4 years she recently had a career change and was accepted into the local firefighter Academy she has been in school for about 2 months my wife is extremely gregarious and also very bro meaning she can well hold her own with typical guy topics like football UFC Fitness Etc and loves the culture of sarcasm and sht talking she has always been immediately accepted into guy friend groups and frankly she has loved having dozens of new best friends most of whom are dudes her 30th birthday is coming up in early September so I decided I wanted to throw her a big surprise party the majority will be friends we already have but I wanted to invite at least a few of her firefighter classmates I've barely met any of them so I decided to Snoop on her phone to one get a good idea of who she's closest with and two steal their contact information to secretly invite them since starting the academy she's been texting on her phone more frequently which I thought was normal considering the dozens of new people in her life and how social she is well at least for the past week or so a majority of her texts have been going to just one individual we call him D the wife and D appear to text each other very frequently they aren't allowed phones during school hours but as soon as it's after hours the texting starts up all the way until they go to bed while most of the texting is just friendly with inside jokes de has very clearly been flirting with wife and wanting to spend more time in person with her wife thankfully has not yet reciprocated in the flirting instead acting dumb as if she's oblivious and they're just good friends some of the more egregious exchanges just from the past week one de asked wife to rate her looks she said 6 out of 10 maybe a 6.5 he jokes that maybe only if she was rating her left side and that she's selling herself short and that she's at least an8 out of 10 two at a group study session recently apparently wife acted as a pillow to D while the group ended the night watching a movie they texted about being affectionate people and enjoying being touched three he texted her at 2: a.m. one night saying hello apparently he couldn't sleep and decided to text someone's wife four part of the academy Fitness portion is something similar to jiujitsu Rolling or wrestling the wife has a lot of experience with this they joke about practicing this outside school with him making comments about seeing who can hold the other down also some comments about being forced to share secrets specifically through tickling each other or in his specific words getting her to Spill the juice five he said she makes a cute face when she crinkles her nose but then said he feels weird saying that why I thought you might possibly construe it as weird since you're married the wife responds okay we're friends and Friends use cute all the time well this coming say they're planning to hang out and study some together and it seems like d very well might make a move here's their exchange word for word d let's do Saturday for sure then little bit of studying most likely a movie some tussles and whatever else may happen wife study and movie sound good tussling is a given with how much sht you talk what else would happen D listening to music and being pillows again just a blanket statement for anything D also don't forget to bring comfy clothes if you want to shower before or don't bring clothes and wear something Nifty of mine haha and that leads us to now I have no idea what to do I deeply love my wife and I'm absolutely shocked to discover this I don't expect her to make moves on D but I honestly don't know how she'll respond to him making a move on her knowing her she genuinely believes they're just friends but I'm sure subconsciously she is enjoying the attention I'm tempted to call her out now and put a stop to it early but I guarantee she'll claim ignorance and say I'm paranoid and maybe even controlling if I wait and let things happen I obviously risk being cheated on but the reward is having much stronger evidence and being able to end things immediately what's the best way to proceed here update warning this got long too complicated for a tldr Thursday night I couldn't sleep with everything on my mind so I decided to get up at 1:00 a.m. and check her text to see the updates from that day I've been doing this by checking IM messages through her laptop once she left for work in the morning well the exchanges with d managed to get significantly worse he made a not the only thing that's hard joke somehow this turned into him admitting he gets a natural response when they hug or wrestle he subtly jokes about the length of his D and how he's only gotten partially erect D even though it's not little it still didn't have much effect this was a bit delayed and out of context leading her to question what he was talking about D I guess you'll never know maybe sat day until then you're going to have to figure out the puzzle yourself wow satar really is on I'm crushed wife if it isn't little should I have noticed you having a natural reaction L well I think she solved the puzzle showering gets brought up again they joke about how showering is better when properly accompanied she says I mean you can definitely get some other things done well that was it I simply couldn't take it anymore I went back to the bedroom room turned the lights on and abruptly woke her up we need to talk right now we sat down and I told her I had been reading her text with te and how this was strictly emotional infidelity soon turning into physical infidelity I let her know I had already been in contact with a divorce lawyer and may or may not be meeting with him this week depending on how this plays out she seemed genuinely shocked by all this so much so that she started crying and having a panic attack hyperventilating and even running to go throw up in the bathroom no she was not putting on a show we talked for a bit she never tried denying my feelings attacking me or pretending she's the victim somehow it took a lot of questioning to figure out why I believed all this I told her my first demand was to have zero contact with d unless absolutely needed for some reason during Academy hours I had drafted up a text earlier to suggest to her she made some mild edits and sent it off right there she also blocked his number in front of me D has not attempted contact in any way as best I can tell while we weren't at all fixed yet we were better enough to at least pause things and go back to bed she was also notably fatigued and crippled from everything so I knew we wouldn't progress until we both could breathe some on Friday we barely saw each other our work hours were nearly opposite and I told her I was going solo to a friend's party that night to cool off some and be a little distracted from it all she stayed home with the dog all night we have cameras yes she did on Saturday morning we had a very long but calm talk she seemed sincere believing that in the moment every exchange felt platonic and light-hearted like bro talk we went through all the texts and I think seeing them brought together finally started hitting her just how obvious his flirting was and how she was clearly greenlighting every further Advance she feels absolutely terrible for letting this happen and she also feels remarkably stupid for not seeing any of it she agrees that she was likely putting herself in a position for him to try and physically Advance things next time they hung out claims it would have come as a complete surprise and would have shut him down I think at this point it's it's mandatory that I give some major context on my wife my wife is the youngest of four with two older brothers and one older sister her brothers were both College athletes they loved hazing their youngest sister and she grew up loving that Dynamic back likewise her father is a very traditional masculine man he loved his daughters but he definitely understood Boys best her older sister was always the pretty and skinny one often being be to her younger sister and using frequent off-hand comments to hurt her self-esteem when she was growing up this LED my wife to basically grow up thinking her identity was the really smart but chubby and ugly sibling she focused on Sports being social and absolutely killing it academically she went to a very challenging high school and prided herself on taking as many AP classes as possible in college she joined a sorority entirely for the friendships and social activities she disliked when they had to dress up wear heels and do other girly things her favorite events were always the crossover events with the frats doing more generically fun group activities like food fights competitions Drinking Games Etc if it weren't for being female I think she would have honestly preferred joining a fraternity instead she had a boyfriend in high school but for the most part I'm the only major relationship she's ever had she did not grow up being flirted with in college she had guy friends but they all knew and respected me as her boyfriend and interactions with my wife that could be considered flirty were very clearly platonic there was one time I saw my wife dancing with a guy friend at a party and I had to tell her to cut it out she apologized and said she didn't see it that way but has never done it since fast forward to now my wife has lost significant weight she works out and definitely has an athletic yet feminine physique she takes care of her skin and actually wears makeup now despite all this she still has incredibly low self-esteem likewise her two previous jobs were very female dominated meaning she hasn't had a chance to be around fun men close to her age since basically College knowing all this and knowing my wife for about 11 years now now my gut says she's completely telling the truth I have no reason to think she's lying she's never lied to me or even tried no it's not that I just haven't caught her lying is just not a part of who she is reading her texts again she never actively flirted with him all of her responses feel like playing dumb and being koi to his advances but frankly I believe they were her literally being dumb when she responded something like and what else would happen her brain literally meant okay cool what else would happen when talking about his bones she literally responded I'm a biology major natural reactions don't make me uncomfortable I'm sure plenty of you reading this think I'm a complete idiotic chump falling for this I get it I really do outside looking in I would be thinking the exact same bro he literally told her that he gets erections when they hug and joke that she'll find out how big it is on Saturday what yep she's literally that idiotic when it comes to male female interactions oh come on man no woman is that you're being played open your eyes I get it and I see it but I know my wife better than anyone and I believe she's telling the absolute truth regardless assuming she's being entirely truthful I definitely have a massive task in changing how she perceives these kinds of exchanges preventing them entirely is the easiest way we're establishing some rules and doing plenty of other things to help move forward we'll be returning to coup's therapy and reading not just friends together among other things for the most part we're in an infinitely better spot than we were late Thursday calm discussion going out for a nice dinner and lots of dirty makeup SX have put us in a pretty good spot All Things Considered I will leave you doubting this I can't help but think her actions were approved of on a subconscious level to some extent I've been reflecting on where I may be lacking in being the best man and husband I can possibly be we are planning some changes there too I wish all the best to those who 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:00.190 --> :02.770 Not my story but one I am very familiar with. :02.770 --> :04.840 Was guided to post here from pro revenge. :04.840 --> :05.840 Tldr at bottom. :05.840 --> :07.680 My town in England is rough, very rough. :07.680 --> :11.830 There's a man that passes through every now and again who is, to put it bluntly, a psychopath. :11.830 --> :14.559 His name's Fergal and he's a gypsy (moves around a lot and dissapears into gypsy community) :14.559 --> :17.320 and if you even look at him wrong, he might stab you. :17.320 --> :18.900 Seriously, he has killed people. :18.900 --> :22.990 He has a lot of friends in town (drug dealers, felons, selling guns) :22.990 --> :27.850 I used to work in a shop that was owned by a drug dealer and Fergal always came in when :27.850 --> :29.730 he was in town for a cup of tea. :29.730 --> :32.680 He liked me and always called me butterfly for some weird reason. :32.680 --> :39.030 My boss came in the shop one day and said that a well know scruff (he'd sell his own :39.030 --> :44.309 mother and rob the dead) who we'll call Tez, had stolen Fergals chain that had his beloved, :44.309 --> :45.559 deceased Grandmother's ring on. :45.559 --> :46.559 Fergal was fuming. :46.559 --> :51.280 Fergal was coming back to town at his earliest convenience, but before he could Tez was arrested :51.280 --> :54.980 for trying to rob the corner shop with a rolling pin. :54.980 --> :00.199 Fergal wasn't having that, he had told everyone that he was going to kill him because there :00.199 --> :02.809 was no way to get the ring back. :02.809 --> :08.200 Fergal did what any sane person would do, he seriously assaulted someone to get arrested. :08.200 --> :12.390 He made sure it was on camera and stayed until the police got there. :12.390 --> :15.710 He was arrested and put put in the same prison as Tez. :15.710 --> :20.150 Fergal managed to stab Tez in the legs, but told him that he wasn't finished. :20.150 --> :25.670 That he'd beat him so badly that he'll think he's going to kill him, but he won't. :25.670 --> :28.140 He will sometime, definetly, but he'll never know when. :28.140 --> :31.040 This was 3 years ago and both are out. :31.040 --> :33.930 Tez has been beaten twice and he's moved town. :33.930 --> :36.730 Fergal knows where he lives and makes sure that Tez knows. :36.730 --> :40.180 Tez's brother said that he's terrified of Fergal and that he's scared of going out. :40.180 --> :44.820 Tez is a horrible person, he stole his mother's bank card and put her in debt with drugs, :44.820 --> :50.120 beat his pregnant girlfriend and he left a 1 year old in the bath alone, she barely survived :50.120 --> :52.060 and has damage to her brain due to lack of oxygen. :52.060 --> :55.910 Tldr Steal of a pshychotic gypsy, he'll follow you to prison, hurt you, threaten to hurt :55.910 --> :59.180 you whenever he wants, and one day that will end in your death. :59.180 --> :00.310 But you won't know when. :00.310 --> :01.310 Everyday living in fear. :01.310 --> :05.570 Some back story When I was about 11 or 12 I started get hobbies which included rock :05.570 --> :10.179 collecting and ant farming( important later) I also started babysitting my brother at the :10.179 --> :11.179 time :11.179 --> :13.520 So it was a normal Saturday that consisted of me babysitting my little brother Taking :13.520 --> :14.520 care of my ants. :14.520 --> :18.010 I was let my brother play on my PS3 until the doorbell rang I opened it and saw these :18.010 --> :20.480 annoying little kids that always asked if I could play but every time I would say no. :20.480 --> :24.810 Normally they would just leave but this time they just sat there and just kept on ringing :24.810 --> :28.480 the doorbell it went on for about 10 minutes until it stopped I thought it was over until :28.480 --> :32.870 I heard them start giggling then they started THROWING ROCKS at my house they even cracked :32.870 --> :36.930 one of the windows I opened the door and they just knew it wasn't going to be good. :36.930 --> :39.480 Also at the time, I was probably about 5' 9" so I was kinda scary. :39.480 --> :43.420 I walked outside and told them to go home or I'll call the police. :43.420 --> :48.530 Fast forward about 2 weeks and it happened 3 more times at this point I was done playing :48.530 --> :49.530 around. :49.530 --> :53.740 I knew they were gonna do it again so at the side of my house where they were getting the :53.740 --> :57.800 rocks I had "accidentally" spilled my fire ant geranium with probably about 1500 to 2000 :57.800 --> :59.490 fire ants on the rocks. :59.490 --> :03.330 So the next day comes around and the little brats were ringing my doorbell and I could :03.330 --> :07.970 almost taste it sweet sweet revenge after the ring stopped I heard the thuds of the :07.970 --> :13.370 rocks hitting my house all the sudden it stopped and I could hear them start to cry I looked :13.370 --> :15.280 out the window and the little boy was sitting right on the rocks. :15.280 --> :16.450 They all ran home. :16.450 --> :17.910 Oh but it's not over. :17.910 --> :22.660 Their mom came out of the house and over to mine I put on my saddest face and told the :22.660 --> :28.370 mom " they broke my ant farm " after that the mom gave me 10 dollars and I never saw :28.370 --> :29.370 them again :29.370 --> :32.320 I'm almost starting to feel bad but they shouldn't have messed with my rocks :32.320 --> :36.420 a few weeks later they started doing things like taking toys from my back yard, ringing :36.420 --> :38.120 our doorbell, and stealing our rocks. :38.120 --> :43.220 I told their parents but they just kept on doing it even after the fire ants and this :43.220 --> :45.630 time I was sooooooo mad I didn't hold back. :45.630 --> :50.020 I took one of my book bags and filled it with legos balls dolls etc. but that wasn't it :50.020 --> :56.140 I had one of my subterranean termite farms and emptied it into the bag I gently put my :56.140 --> :58.000 book bag in the grass and waited. :58.000 --> :01.470 I went to feed my brother lunch and when I came back it was gone :01.470 --> :07.540 fast forward a couple of months and their house was on quarantine for the bug infestation :07.540 --> :13.590 karma is a bench( i also wasted almost 500 dollars worth of bugs) Not sure if this belongs :13.590 --> :17.870 here, however I must let you know that this story was handed down from my Grandfather :17.870 --> :19.900 a few months before he died in 2006. :19.900 --> :23.760 In the 1960's my Grandfather was working for PanAm, and was sent to Dominican Republic :23.760 --> :28.229 (I can't remember if it was DR or Puerto Rico... but I'm more sure of DR.) :28.229 --> :32.460 The local community of PanAm employees had what equated to "Corporate housing" in a community :32.460 --> :33.460 near the Airport. :33.460 --> :39.590 My Grandfather would fly between DR, and NYC on a regular, and on this particular day he :39.590 --> :42.770 was supposed to get back at 1 in the Morning. :42.770 --> :47.860 Over the prior 3-4 weeks, there had been some break ins in the PanAm community housing, :47.860 --> :52.000 where the "Housewives" were getting raped, and any valuables stolen from their homes. :52.000 --> :56.690 My Grandmother being the cool that she was, and having 3 young children in the house, :56.690 --> :58.750 refused to be a victim. :58.750 --> :05.840 She saw a pattern in the break ins, and determined that her house would be next, but if you heard :05.840 --> :08.160 my Grandfather tell the story she "Had a gut feeling that night". :08.160 --> :13.280 My Grandmother put my father and my uncles to sleep, earlier than usual that night, and :13.280 --> :16.310 then proceeded to pull out the shot gun, and wait. :16.310 --> :20.310 According to my Grandfather, she waited with the lights off in the house, sitting on a :20.310 --> :24.000 stool about 5-6 feet in from the front door, holding a double barrel shotgun. :24.000 --> :29.430 after a couple hours, she heard someone messing with the front door locks, so she promptly :29.430 --> :34.880 got ready, because if it had been my Grandfather she would have heard keys. :34.880 --> :40.680 The would be rapist knocked down the door, to see a little lady pointing a double barrel :40.680 --> :42.050 shotgun right at him. :42.050 --> :47.030 Now, I would like to say before this next part, that I never knew that my Grandmother :47.030 --> :52.280 was this much of a cool, until I heard this story, but she was always a tough cookie. :52.280 --> :56.590 as soon as the guy raised his hands, she pulled both triggers and two shells of shotgun pellets :56.590 --> :57.690 destroyed this human being. :57.690 --> :01.180 My Grandmother, then proceeded to put a call into the airport to inform my Grandfather :01.180 --> :03.730 as soon as he got in, to hurry home, that there was a family emergency. :03.730 --> :08.320 This being a foreign country, and my Grandmother not knowing how the local police would react. :08.320 --> :14.130 My Grandfather got home as soon as he landed, and got the news, to see the body laying by :14.130 --> :18.570 the front door, and my Grandmother in the throws of cleaning up the blood. :18.570 --> :24.530 My Grandfather without a word, just went a couple houses down to a few people who he :24.530 --> :25.940 trusted, and enlisted their help. :25.940 --> :30.820 They promptly tied the body by a rope to the back of their pickup, and started driving. :30.820 --> :37.169 He said they spent hours dragging this body through the mountain roads, until there wasn't :37.169 --> :39.800 any of the body left. :39.800 --> :45.009 Grinding it away using the road. by the time he got home at 7 in the morning, my Grandmother :45.009 --> :46.960 had cleaned the blood, and fixed the front door. :46.960 --> :49.990 They never told the local government, and went on with their lives. :49.990 --> :54.180 Now I am not sure about this story being true, however, it was one of the last stories my :54.180 --> :55.810 grandfather told me before he died. :55.810 --> :59.580 My Father once told me that he remembered hearing the commotion, but never investigated, :59.580 --> :04.889 because he didn't want to get in trouble for being out of bed... he was 5-6 years old at :04.889 --> :05.889 the time. :05.889 --> :09.900 I wish there was a way to confirm this story, however all parties involved are no longer :09.900 --> :10.900 alive. :10.900 --> :11.900 **Update** :11.900 --> :16.520 So I got a hold of my Grandfather's brother who is now in his 90's, and who lives in England, :16.520 --> :17.520 he said that the story was true. :17.520 --> :23.550 He said that he knew it was because my Grandpa's PanAm friends that were there, told him, before :23.550 --> :24.550 Grandpa did. :24.550 --> :29.139 I'm actually sitting here amazed that that my Grandma, who was this sweet old nurse, :29.139 --> :32.639 who when I was a child, seemed like she couldn't hurt a fly, was actually tough as nails, and :32.639 --> :33.639 did that. :33.639 --> :37.940 I have been trying to get a hold of any others who were around in the family, and I am going :37.940 --> :42.789 down the rabbit hole of reaching out to any PanAm employees who were stationed in DR or :42.789 --> :46.520 Puerto Rico in the early 1960's who would remember this event. :46.520 --> :47.870 not everyone would understand. :47.870 --> :54.160 CQ: Its a duty in the Army you have to do where you got to stay up for 24 hours. :54.160 --> :56.040 It sucks, but everyone does it. :56.040 --> :59.440 JAG: Its the legal office on base, lawyers for the military. :59.440 --> :00.440 Private a rank :00.440 --> :02.759 Specialist: One rank higher then a private :02.759 --> :05.740 NCO: Non commissioned officer, basically my first line supervisor :05.740 --> :10.380 Please note this story occurred after DADT was repealed, so that wasn't the issue. :10.380 --> :17.030 When I was in the Army I became friends with a guy by the name of Scott, he very flamboyant, :17.030 --> :18.509 and loud and loved to talk. :18.509 --> :19.870 He was also my roommate. :19.870 --> :21.220 We became very good friends. :21.220 --> :25.430 I work 25b (Computers) and he worked as a paralegal at the JAG office on base. :25.430 --> :29.030 As a result of his position he knew confidential legal matters of service members. :29.030 --> :35.250 Some of the stuff he knew was quite serious, we are talking sexual assault, theft, forgery, :35.250 --> :36.250 divorce, etc. :36.250 --> :39.649 Naturally he's supposed to keep this information confidential about what he knows. :39.649 --> :40.670 But he didn't. :40.670 --> :44.410 He would tell me all kinds of stories about different people and their respective legal :44.410 --> :45.410 issues. :45.410 --> :48.550 On several occasions I would tell him "You shouldn't be telling me stuff like this, its :48.550 --> :49.760 supposed to be confidential right?" :49.760 --> :53.649 I wasn't sure on the rules, but I'm sure he knew he shouldn't be telling me. :53.649 --> :56.840 Never the less he did tell me, a lot of stories about alot of different people. :56.840 --> :02.600 Whatever he was my friend, he was also great to have around as he helped pick up women, :02.600 --> :04.520 he was like my gay wingman. :04.520 --> :06.120 It was good for awhile. :06.120 --> :13.280 Well one day I had a date, and I asked Scott to cover for my CQ. :13.280 --> :20.870 I told him I'd pay him $100 if he did my CQ and he said "Sure" so he did my CQ, I paid :20.870 --> :21.870 him. :21.870 --> :27.790 This started a deal between us, whenever we had CQ if we didn't want to do it we'd pay :27.790 --> :29.410 each other to do it. :29.410 --> :34.260 Its actually pretty common practice in the Army . We did this back and forth several :34.260 --> :35.260 times. :35.260 --> :39.540 Each time we would negotiate a price, and it became pretty common to just pay each other :39.540 --> :40.540 back on payday. :40.540 --> :46.529 Heck I remember one time I covered for him and said I'd pay him $100 and he agreed and :46.529 --> :47.529 did. :47.529 --> :52.460 And in that same period he asked me to cover for him and he'd pay me $100 and we'd call :52.460 --> :53.460 it even. :53.460 --> :58.830 Well a few days before a 4 day week Scott came up to me and said he wanted me to cover :58.830 --> :00.810 him for CQ on that Friday. :00.810 --> :07.029 I had plans, and didn't really want to do CQ that Friday but he told me he had a date :07.029 --> :08.880 and really wanted to go on his date. :08.880 --> :12.130 I told him it'd cost him extra. :12.130 --> :17.020 We ended up agreeing to $250 for me to cover for him. :17.020 --> :19.260 So I cover for him, and the payday comes around. :19.260 --> :22.519 I ask Scott for my money and he says he'll pay me. :22.519 --> :27.130 I'm going cut this story short, 3 payday goes by and he still hasn't paid me. :27.130 --> :33.910 I confront him on a payday and say "Look you owe me $250, pay me half now and half on next :33.910 --> :39.860 payday" and he has the balls to ask me to just forgive him for the debt he owes me. :39.860 --> :47.420 Keep in mind I'm a PFC at the time, I was making like $1,600~ a month $250 is a good :47.420 --> :49.110 chunk of money to me. :49.110 --> :57.300 I tell him in no uncertain terms will I be forgiving this debt, he owes me $250 and I :57.300 --> :58.300 want my $250. :58.300 --> :00.279 Another payday comes around, I confront him again. :00.279 --> :03.050 He laughs and says "dude I'm not going pay you" :03.050 --> :06.260 Now keep in mind this was at breakfast, and I'm ticked. :06.260 --> :10.411 I get to my office and I come up with idea. :10.411 --> :14.890 I talk to my NCO and tell him I need to go speak to JAG. :14.890 --> :18.160 My NCO tells me to call JAG get an appointment and go. :18.160 --> :24.170 So I call up JAG and ask to speak to the Major there who knew me. :24.170 --> :33.450 I told him I had some information regrading one of his paralegals that he should be aware :33.450 --> :41.960 of and I'd like to come speak to him. :41.960 --> :43.000 He agrees, and tells me a time. :43.000 --> :49.060 I head over there that afternoon, walk into legal and there is Scott, he greets me, I :49.060 --> :50.779 smirk and don't say anything. :50.779 --> :55.770 A minute or so later the Major comes out and calls me into his office. :55.770 --> :02.459 I look over at Scott (who had just been promoted to Specialist) and smile...I think Scott knew :02.459 --> :04.680 what I was there for. :04.680 --> :14.649 I sit down with the Major and I tell him that SPC Scott has been telling me stories about :14.649 --> :20.480 the various legal issues of different service members and I felt that it was inappropriate :20.480 --> :32.390 for him to be sharing that and that JAG should know :32.390 --> :33.670 about it. :33.670 --> :50.050 The Major is a bit shocked, he asks me to tell him about a story to prove that I'm not :50.050 --> :54.490 blowing smoke up his butt. :54.490 --> :07.190 So I proceed to tell him about a story involving a service member whose been :07.190 --> :09.600 charged with both sexual assault, and shoplifting. :09.600 --> :21.620 I even go so far as to explain what course of action they intend on taking with this :21.620 --> :22.620 service member. :22.620 --> :25.310 You can see and feel the rage building inside of this Major. :25.310 --> :33.769 I obviously knew stuff that I had no right knowing, and its all because one of his paralegals :33.769 --> :37.160 that he's responsible for is blabbing to me. :37.160 --> :40.050 Of course this all remained professional. :40.050 --> :43.980 He then asked me to list off any other cases I'm aware of. :43.980 --> :01.310 I told him SPC Scott has told me a lot of stories, involving a lot of people but I listed :01.310 --> :04.320 off the ones I knew. :04.320 --> :09.610 I even made sure to mention "There's a really good chance I'm not even remembering them :09.610 --> :12.980 all" this did not sit well with the Major at all. :12.980 --> :22.899 The Major thanked me for my time, we shared contact information and he walked me out of :22.899 --> :32.550 his office, I was smiling ear to ear because I knew exactly what was about to happen. :32.550 --> :48.029 As I'm walking out of the Majors office SPC Scott sees me and the fear of death is on :48.029 --> :49.360 his face. :49.360 --> :58.570 And the Major thanks me for my time and off I go, as I'm walking out I hear the Major :58.570 --> :01.670 say "SPC Scott, please come to my office" :01.670 --> :06.140 I didn't see or speak to Scott after this meeting but about 2 weeks later I saw him :06.140 --> :10.279 on base, he didn't have his SPC rank on anymore, in fact he was a fuzzy! :10.279 --> :11.450 (E1, lowest rank possible). :11.450 --> :19.760 I then saw him again about 6 weeks later and he seemed even more down sporting that lovely :19.760 --> :26.060 fuzzy rank and I decided to ask him "Hey man whats up?" :26.060 --> :49.310 He looks at me and says "They are kicking me out of the Army"...I didn't need to ask :49.310 --> :56.199 why, I left it at that.
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mom invited my sister to my wedding behind my back she gave a speech about a nasty High School incident so my husband kicked her out now my mom is siding with the sister I 27f got married to my boyfriend of 7 years Aaron 27m 4 days back the wedding was great except for one part which was ruined by my mom 52f and my estranged sister Monica 25f she had to be kicked out by Aaron after this speech that she made and my mother is going crazy about it because she thinks that Aaron was somehow in the wrong here so for context Monica and I haven't spoken in almost 4 years because of an incident that took place at a Thanksgiving dinner that my parents were hosting she'd been hitting on and subtly trying to flirt with Aaron throughout the evening but I had somehow ignored it because I didn't want to ruin my parents Thanksgiving dinner but then after dinner was done with and we were all just sitting around and chatting Aaron came to me and told me that Monica was trying to come on to him and it was making him really uncomfortable I lost my cool and confronted her in the living room where everybody was sitting and it turned into a huge thing she told me that it was all right because if Aaron had a problem with with it then he would have told her which he didn't but that was just because he was a generally quiet person and didn't like confrontations which is why he'd approached me to deal with the situation then she said that Aaron deserves better and that's why she was hitting on him because he should know what he deserves and not settle for me my dad had to intervene and tell her that it was enough so she got really annoyed and left we hadn't seen or met each other since that day which was a relief because Monica and I didn't really get along anyway ever since we were kids she'd always been fiercely competitive and even though I was older than her she always tried to make me seem like the less competent and capable one she was already my mother's favorite but I guess she wanted to be my dad's favorite as well and couldn't stand the fact that he treated us both equally our relationship got even worse when both of us were in high school and by the time we graduated college we were barely on speaking terms we would meet on the holidays and would ignore each other there but after that one incident I decided that I wasn't going to be attending any events that she would be there at so I would ask my dad if she would be attending and if she was then I wouldn't go and if she wasn't then I would it was the perfect system and it helped that my dad respected my boundaries unlike my mother who always insisted that we patch things up despite how uncomfortable Aaron felt around her judging by that I guess it's no surprise that she invited Monica to my wedding without even Consulting with me first I was pretty shocked when Monica showed up and after the ceremony was over I instantly confronted my mother about it and she told me that Monica was the one who suggested it duh of course she did when she heard that I was getting married so my mother thought that it would be a good idea to invite her and we could finally patch things up and get along as sisters I told her that it was a terrible idea and I wanted her to leave but my mother said that nothing bad could come out of this which she was really wrong about while we were talking Monica grabbed a mic and started off with her speech I froze in my spot because I knew that she certainly wasn't going to say good things about me it started off normally enough where she made a toast to the new bride and groom and then she started talking about this one incident from high school which she'd always held a grudge against me for so in high school when I was a senior and she was in her sophomore year there had been this guy in my grade Chris was pretty much everybody's Crush but he and I were just really great friends in of course that led to a lot of people getting really mad at me for no reason I knew Chris because he and I were in middle school together but then he'd left for like 2 years because his dad had moved out of state and now he was finally back and a lot more attractive than he used to be I never thought of him as anything more than a friend and neither did he but in spite of that people seemed to hate me but nobody hated me as much as Monica seemed to I knew that she had a thing for Chris and couldn't stand the fact that he was so close to me so she went crazy and decided to sabotage our friendship by spreading a rumor that apparently he and I were secretly dating and had even been bragging about it to her at home that wasn't the case in both Chris and I were aware of it we also knew that this rumor was my sister's doing so instead of giving into her strategy to ruin our friendship we decided to go along with it and started holding hands while strolling in the hallways and pretending that we were together just so that Monica would feel jealous we would even make a whole show out of it whenever she and her friends would walk past us and the anger on her face is what we got a kick out of it got to a point where everybody was in on the joke and the plan had totally backfired because now people were making fun of Monica for spreading such insane rumors about us and high school kids can be pretty nasty when they want to be so one day when some kid was making fun of her for lying she decided that she was going to confront me in the cafeteria and give everyone a show that didn't turn out too well for her because as soon as she approached me Chris came to my defense and told her off he told her that she had no right to come to me and berate me for anything because she was the one who'd started that stupid rumor just so we'd stop being friends he called her crazy insecure and jealous and Monica got so mad that she started cursing at him the language that she used was so terrible that Chris actually had to walk away because the words that she was using were actually so filthy I couldn't stand it either and I told her to shut up but she just went on swearing at us so In the Heat of the Moment I grabbed her by the hair and slapped her it wasn't my proudest moment and both of us ended up getting in trouble for it but to this day she holds me responsible for ruining the next couple of years for her in high school because everybody just remembered her due to that one incident I graduated but she still had to spend the next two years in high school with the same people who had witnessed her first getting told off by the hottest guy in her senior year and then getting slapped by her own old her sister in front of everybody it can't have been easy for her but she brought it on herself and I didn't think that it was my fault at all but she narrated that entire incident in a way that made her seem like the victim and I came off pretty badly in her version of the story and then in Her speech she started telling everyone how i' not only ruined school for her but I'd apparently also ruined her relationship with our father because now my dad would barely even speak to her but she didn't even mention the incident that made him stop talking to her so Aaron finally got up from his seat grabbed the mic and took it away from her then he caught her by the arm and started dragging her away towards the door and my mother tried to stop it I just stood there rooted to the spot because I couldn't believe that this was all happening at my wedding there was a bit of a fuss at the exit as my bridesmaids tried to push her out but Monica and my mother fought with them eventually both my mother and Monica ended up leaving the venue and I was so upset that I walked away and hid in the restroom I didn't even come out until Aaron came to me and reassured me that everything would be fine and that all the guests would judge Monica and my mother not me it didn't make me feel any better but I knew that Aaron my father and every body else was counting on me to stay strong so the event didn't end on a bad note so I went back out there and tried to put on a brave face so everybody else could forget about this after the thing was over and everybody went back home I talked to my dad about this and he told me that he was going to talk to my mother and make her apologize to me I told him that that wouldn't be necessary because I didn't care if she apologized or not and he seemed to understand what I meant it's been a few days since and my mother contacted me the day before yesterday and told me that I needed to leave my husband because apparently he was the crazy one here she called me up a few few days ago and I picked up the call because I assumed that she was going to apologize to me and I had a lot of things that I wanted to say to her but as soon as I picked up I regretted it because she wasn't apologizing she just wanted to tell me that she believed that Aaron was crazy and that I needed to leave him and get the marriage in all dayap her reason was that he'd physically tried to drag Monica away and if he could put his hands on a woman that had nothing to do with him then he wouldn't hesitate in doing the same to me I thought that it was a bit of a stretch to compare Monica to me because I hadn't tried to hit on someone and make someone uncomfortable and then started playing the blame game and pretending to be be the victim that was all Monica and Aaron wasn't going to let her ruin our wedding by making it all about herself which is why he tried to drag her away and even in doing so he'd been pretty respectful of her what Monica had said was unforgivable and I told my mother that she should be glad that I didn't go up to her and slap her like I had all those years ago in the cafeteria my mother started yelling at me and told me that both of us were the same and that Aaron and I needed help if we believe that violence was the answer to everything she said that she knew that Monica was wrong for giving that speech and that she'd realized that she probably shouldn't have invited her without asking me first but in isted that both my husband and I were wrong for supporting physical violence and Monica could even sue him if she wanted to but she wasn't out of the goodness of her heart because she didn't want to create more trouble for us than she already had my mother thinks that we need to apologize but I don't understand if we should or not to be honest this post is more on my husband's behalf than for me is my husband ta for physically dragging my estranged sister away from the mic and kicking her out of the venue after she delivered a nasty speech about me at our wedding update one it's been a week since I posted here and most of the comments agree that my husband went a little tooo far in manhandling her so we've decided that we're going to apologize to her for just that but nothing else Aaron has already crafted an apology letter that he's going to send to her personally and I'm just hoping that this comes to an end soon my mother's really been after me trying to convince me to apologize to Monica for what happened at the wedding she hasn't apologized to us yet and neither do I hope for or expect one because she probably doesn't even think that she did anything wrong and her apology means nothing to me anyway I just want my husband to apologize so our conscience remains clear and after that if she wants to then she apologize to us as well and even if she doesn't I'm okay with it because like I said her apology really means nothing to me I know the truth and I know what kind of person she is so I don't want to waste any more of my time thinking about her or my mother I'm going to block my mother as soon as we're done with this because I know she's just never going to see my side of things ever since Monica was born she always had a favorite but I never imagined that she would let her bias take over to an extent where she couldn't even tell apart right from wrong I think everybody with even half a brain would be able to tell that Monica never had any good intentions when it came to me and would think twice before inviting her to an event like a wedding which was so important for the two of us my mother's the one who's actually responsible for ruining everything and yet she still feels that it's more important for Aaron and I to apologize than for Monica to apologize to us at this point I'm not even surprised because she always made sure that Monica never felt that she was even capable of making mistakes to my mother She'll always be just perfect and I'm sick and tired of trying to live up to her crazy standards which she sets specifically for me I always have to be the one who makes all the sacrifices and does all the forgiving even when people mostly Monica aren't even sorry for what they did I've tried to maintain a good relationship with her in spite of her behavior just because of my father but now I think my father knows that I'm done with her and I can't do this all my life so after we send the apology I'm going to send a copy of it to my mother and inform her that it's done now because she might doubt the truthfulness of what I'm saying and then she's out of our Lives update two so Aaron and I emailed the apology to Monica and we thought that it' be enough and that she wouldn't drag this on but I really underestimated exactly how much she hat hates me because she decided that it would be a good idea to take a screenshot of that email and post it on her social media so she could break about how she made us beg for forgiveness she put up a very haha gotcha kind of post and said that she received an apology from us even though she was the one who crashed our wedding and made a very humiliating speech just to insult me it really made my blood boil and I found myself wishing there was a way to unsend emails after they'd already been sent or whatever we don't follow each other on any platform so it was actually a cousin of mine who sent me that post to tell me that this is what was going on behind my back it felt infuriating to know that she was using our apology against the US to insult us instead of going against her right away I decided to call my mother and ask her what she felt about this luckily I hadn't blocked her yet and when I called her to ask about the post she already had an explanation ready and told me that she was working on it and trying to convince Monica to take down that post she tried to downplay how insulting that was by telling me that it was just her being petty and it meant nothing she even said that people probably hadn't even bothered to read it so I had nothing to worry about even as my relatives actively texted me to ask about that post and even some folks from high school were asking about it I told her that she had half an hour to get that post taken down and if she couldn't do it then I would have to take matters into my own hands and it wouldn't be nice I had a lot more dirt on Monica than my mother could even imagine and I knew certain things about her that I hadn't even mentioned in my post if I put all that out on social media then nobody would ever be able to see Monica the same way again so if my mother didn't get Monica to take down that post then things could get really ugly for her and I didn't want to get into all of that drama either so it would be in her best interest to take it down and hope that I wasn't feeling Petty or vengeful my mother promised me that she'd get it done but almost an hour passed and the post still stayed up so Aaron and I decided that it was time to finally expose Monica there was obviously the truth about how Monica had tried to hit on and come on to Aaron at the Thanksgiving party and then there was the truth about the Chris incident but there was also another thing that I didn't mention in my post because it wasn't exactly relevant there but this time I decided to go all out and talk about how Monica had an affair with her best friend's husband a couple of years ago hardly anybody knows about it because she and that guy had done a really good job job of hushing people and keeping it all really secretive and of course her best friend didn't want any of this news getting out because it was embarrassing for her so she didn't tell many people about it either but I knew all about it even though Monica didn't want me too her best friend also went to high school with us and made the mistake of confiding in a couple of her close friends and one of those close friends talked to me about it because after all it involved my sister too I hadn't told a soul about this affair that Monica had been a part of out of respect for her ex-best friend but now I don't care anymore I went public with it to make sure that everybody from our high school got to know what kind of person Monica was and the best part about all of this was that I didn't even have to resort to lies or halft truths like Monica everything that I said about her was 100% true the like started pouring in as soon as I posted it because Monica had been pretty popular in high school and through college people were pretty scandalized and interested to know about that Affair and also how Monica had tried to hit on my husband everyone knew that Monica had a cruel streak in her and my post was just proof that this wasn't anything new and that she' just always been this way my mother's encouragement only made her worse after putting up that post Aaron and I finally felt a little better because we done enough to get back at her I didn't want to entertain any calls or texts from friends or relatives and mostly my mother so I switched my phone off and so did he we decided not to look at our phones or any other electronic device for the next couple of hours and went out for a walk instead once we came back home we started packing for our honeymoon which we were supposed to leave for in a few days by the time we finally got back to our phones it was almost midnight as soon as I turned it on I almost had to shut it off again because there was just notification after notification from literally everyone I knew I decided to check my mom's messages first and unsurprisingly she was on Monica's side and was telling me that I'd taken things too far by talking about that Affair which Monica really regretted she told me that Monica was very upset and couldn't stop crying when she talked to her as if that was supposed to make me feel bad for her I really didn't especially not after what she put me through I didn't reply to my mother and went on to check the comments on my post which were all against Monica and that made me feel really Vindicated it's been one day since I put up that post and by by now pretty much all of my family and my entire High School population from when I was there has seen that post and has had something to say about Monica I don't even feel bad about it because it was always her trying to get under my skin and I always tried to ignore her but this time she deserves this so now the post is going to stay up for as long as I want to no matter how much she cries about it I'm not taking it down and neither am I going to feel sorry about what I do update three hi guys it's been two weeks since I put up that post and I took it down yesterday because I think it's reached its target audience and I don't want it on my feet anymore I blocked my mother and Monica a few days after the post because I really didn't want them to have any access to me like not even one bit they've proved to me time and again that they don't deserve to be around me or even breathe the same air as me my dad is completely on my side about this and thinks that I did the right thing even if I had to expose Monica's ex-best friend for it I didn't name her so nobody really knows aart from the people who already knew who her best friend was and that was pretty much our entire high school because the two of them had been quite thick ever since they were in their freshman year but at least I didn't name her so that's some consolation for both of us and even if I did end up inadvertently exposing her even that girl had been really mean to me because of Monica back then so I don't feel particularly sorry about it Aaron and I are finally enjoying our honeymoon and the only reason that I even remembered to post an update was because somebody dm'd me asking about what became of Chris and I realized that I'd forgotten to tell you guys that we're still friends he wasn't able to attend my wedding unfortunately because he was really down with a stomach flu but we might meet in the next couple of weeks and when we do I'm going to make sure that I take a picture of us and post it for Monica to see also my dad has been talking to me about my mother's irrational behavior when it comes to Monica and asked me if he should think about couples's counseling or just straight up divorce I was surprised to learn that my father was considering getting divorced from my mom after all these years that they'd spent together but he told me that he just wasn't feeling it anymore and it was becoming more difficult for him to deal with my mom every day because of how weird she was acting she had even tried to talk him into disinheriting me and leaving all their property and money to Monica because apparently I needed to be taught a lesson about family loyalty my dad had to fight really hard for me and he says that he's just absolutely emotionally drained trying to keep up with my mother he said he's too old for this and needs a break and honestly I agree I know that my mother can't be an easy person to live with I didn't tell him what to do but I told him that I would support him regardless of what decision he makes even if he chooses to stay with my mom I wouldn't mind it because that's what brings him joy as long as he's happy I'm happy that being said I really do hope they look into couples counseling at the very least because my mother definitely do with therapy in fact I think therapy would do a world of good to both my mother and my sister
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my girlfriend was violated and became pregnant I broke up with her because she wanted to keep the baby really really [ __ ] situation two months ago my GF was raped it was done in a park she didn't want to report it and went into a full breakdown wouldn't speak to police go to hospital Etc I couldn't force her so I just stayed with her she was obviously in a really [ __ ] State since and I've been with her by her side listening to her helping her we went to therapy and she knows I'm there for her her she has a history of depression and I've been really worried last week we found out she was pregnant I was abroad for 2 months before the rape on work and came back early to care for her so the baby definitely isn't mine she is 100% sure it's the rapists so we had a discussion she is a devout Catholic we initially decided on an abortion but after she speak to her mother she has decided to keep the baby saying that isn't the baby's fault I flat out told her that I would not help raise a baby of a guy who raped her she cried and begged me not to leave I told she is the one making the choice either she keeps the baby and I leave or she aborts the baby and I stay I would not let this go she didn't want either of those things to happen so I told her we were done I feel [ __ ] was I wrong update one I'll post the update first since there has been some change since I last posted then I'll respond to some general points made from the last thread and the ton of PMS I received yesterday I received a call from my GF she was crying and she begged me to listen to her I told her that I still care for her and that I'll obviously listen to what she has to say she told me that a few days after I told her we were done she called up her mother to talk about this apparently what happened before was that she was pretty much decided on aborting but then when she spoke to her mother her mother told her that under no account should she abort and that I was actually manipulating her to do so her mother went on to say that if she aborted the child she would no longer consider my my GF as her daughter after I left her my GF called her mom up to talk about what went on my GF said that she desperately wanted to abort the baby and her mother again said that if she does so this is the last time they will ever speak again my GF said she broke down on the phone and her mother kept asking her what she will do the conversation then ended when my GF said she didn't know then she started texting after a few hours of thinking my GF sent her Mom a text saying she was going to abort she was then blocked my GF then called me and told me everything she will be having an abortion in 3 weeks I discussed this with my GF and we both completely agreed that I had not manipulated her in any way and that she appreciated that I put my foot down because had I not she would have had a baby who would remind her of the worst time of her life her words not mine she further went on to say that I am the best thing that has ever happened to her and that she knew that even if she no longer had a mom if she had me she could get through this I broke down down at this point I love her so much in truth I probably would have gone back to her and raised the baby with her even though I knew I'd resent it I made the original thread to get some backing rather than anything to see if I had made the right decision I'm so relieved things had turned out the way they have also screw any mother who places religion over their own child fraking lunatics Now to respond to some of your points from the last thread one no my GF did not cheat on me I am almost certain about this not only because she had the conscience of a fragile Angel but also because we both know each other's schedules really well and we often talk to friends who can corroborate timings moreover her roommate took photos of my GF after she came home assaulted it's not rough sex as some of you dicks put it two I don't give a rat's ARS if you think abortion is a sin or the killing of a baby come and raise the baby or give us money to raise the baby or hire us alive and made to tend to my gf's every need while she pregnant if you're so sanctimonious talk the talk then walk the walk you wanking tit baboons three my GF was absolutely clear she wanted to raise the baby probably influenced by the mom four thanks for all the people telling me I did the right thing it was really difficult I'm very glad it turned out the way it has though five to the people who pm' me telling me I'm a monstrous baby killer I fail to see what my hobbies have to do with this issue thanks Reddit update two I was hoping to post here again after the abortion still scheduled for 2 weeks time but I thought I should provide an update on some recent events from a mother from the pits of Satan's rectum on Saturday I answered my door and stood face to face with two police officers they asked me if I was who I was and I replied I was they then said they were looking for my GF I called her over and the police officer said that he needs to have a word with her the officers then split one taking the GF to the living room we let them in and the other took me into my bedroom the officer who took me started asking me questions about how long GF had been here if she had any contact with anyone else if she had left the house at all and a few other questions I answered and then asked what this was about but the officer just said they received a report to check in on GF I asked who reported and the officer said he couldn't say after a while the other officer was done and they both left the moment they left my GF told me that she was outrightly asked if she was in danger and if I had been hurting her she was also asked if she was being held against her will she said no to everything of course she said that the police received a call from her mother saying she might be in danger and that I could be Abus of her I was [ __ ] livid I immediately said I was going to press charges against her for what I didn't know harassment probably my GF begged me to not and said that it would all just blow over and that she just needs time to calm down WTF she sent police to my house to get me arrested how is that San thinking I could lose my job if I was arrested and charged what the hell is she thinking I told GF that if the mother does anything like this again I will definitely press charges so the GF decides on Sunday to talk to the mom to not do anything like this again they had a conversation for about 2 minutes then I start hearing sobs immediately I walked into the room saw my GF was crying still holding the phone against her ear I plucked E phone from her hand and held her for a bit as I heard hello from the phone then I put it on me and said you're a disgrace of a mother and hung up then I held the GF for what felt like an hour before we started talking apparently the mother was telling GF how if she continues with the abortion she will never see the mother again or her brother or her deceased father who is in heaven even though he died a drink violent alcoholic who beat GF but hey repent your sins at death amirite because GF would be going to damnation I told GF that if she was going to hell then she should save me a seat eat and we'd be nice and toasty together I love her smile what do you think if anything should I do about the mother no doubt my words to her will have some reactions response to some people from previous threads and PMs after thread was locked one abortion was never an option GF was adamant she wanted to raise the baby influenced by her mother and if you suggest adoption anyway then you truly do not understand just how taxing a normal pregnancy is let alone one dipped in a beautiful cocktail of rap depression two you can believe my GF cheated on me if that makes you feel better about your lives I suppose just FYI the pictures and roommates report showed she had a bloody nose black eyes cuts and bruises against her arms hands and knees torn coat and top bruises around her neck cheating right edit three my GF and I are still going to therapy about all of this update three I just wanted to update folk on this whole Saga this will be my final update a few days ago the abortion was carried out during the weeks beforehand my GF went to a counselor and talked to a nurse about why she wanted an abortion she was also tested for any STI she's clear she went ahead with the abortion after getting the all clear a few days ago it was successfully carried out they went for the surgical abortion method which involved using a vacuum to suck the pregnancy out GF said it was pretty painless and she was able to return home after just a few hours when she came home she cried and cried and cried she says she feels like a huge weight had been lifted and she can finally look to moving on with her life we took the whole week of work and yesterday we went camping it rained while in the tent she talked about how difficult life was sometimes but she was really glad things turned out the way they did because even though things were bad she came out the other side probably stronger than before she's amazing man seriously update on the mom so my GF received a call from her mom who was asking if she went through with the abortion my GF and I have an agreement that if Mom calls either hang up or give it to me in this instance she answered didn't know what to say and gave it to me I told the mom that the abortion went perfectly and smiled as she cursed at me for about a minute I then said how Jesus of you at which point she hung up my GF didn't find it funny anyway that's it good luck to everyone in their lives also if you're going to message and insult me via p am just be warned I've killed a baby before
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a ITA for not continuing my reception after my husband went behind my back my now husband Lucas 26 and I f25 were getting married we decided to tie the knot as we were having a little girl together and are madly in love so leading up to the wedding day Lucas told me that his best man Jacob wanted to propose to his girlfriend as it would be a great time and it is a nice venue to do it at I said that I didn't want him to propose at our wedding as it is our special moment not theirs and that they can do it sometime else Lucas told me that his friend was mad that I didn't agree I just wanted the wedding to be about us because it was our special day after that disagreement I thought nothing of it fast forward to my wedding day we had finished the church service and now we're at the reception we're all having fun eating I'm eating my food and then Jacob stops the music at the DJ booth to make an announcement I just knew from that moment he was going to propose I looked to see where Lucas was and he was holding red and white roses walking out to stand in front of Chloe Jacob's girlfriend spelling out will you marry me I was shocked that they went behind my back when I said no I got up out of seat and walked out it's been 2 days since the wedding and my husband cursed me out for not letting them have a special moment I responded with I wanted the day to be about us because it's our wedding not theirs and I am happy for them but the worst thing was even though I said no you went behind my back about it since that argument he moved to the guest bedroom and now most of my friends are cursing me out on all my socials
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whta for asking my husband 38m if he's cheating after he secretly bought lingerie that was too small for me 44f I'm trying to figure out if there's a reasonable explanation behind this because I can't believe he would cheat on me my husband and I have been married for years and raised two beautiful children he's always been a loving romantic affectionate perfect husband I never had any doubts about him I have an athletic body I'm very healthy but I am not small we have joint finances and I noticed an unusual purchase my husband had bought expensive lingerie arriving today I looked into it on one hand it's too small for me and built for a petite skinny woman with no muscle and I have never worn lingerie I don't even know if I would be confident in lingerie and he knows my size he's bought clothes for me before including underwear and has never been wrong this SE is clearly the wrong size way too small for me the brand has undercarriage waist and hip sizes my husband is handsome and has women throwing themselves at him I have no doubt that if he wanted to he could easily get an affair partner on the other hand it could conceivably be an insanely tight fit on me and he's shipping it to our home address instead of his office he didn't have anything incriminating on his phone but we share phones so it could mean nothing whb to for confronting him about the lingerie I don't want my husband to feel that I don't trust him but I don't have any other explanation edit I have never worn lingerie in my life he hasn't bought me lingerie before it's very fril and cute not something that would suit me even if it fit he is a perfectionist and has never bought me the wrong size and clothes if it was a mistake in sizing he would have called weeks ago when it was ordered the lingerie has actual measurements and my husband knows my measurement edit I am not going to be home when the package arrives I don't open packages anyway it's way way way too small to fit my husband I know a few women it would fit I don't usually go through credit card transaction if I hadn't looked at them to cancel a subscription I wouldn't have noticed the pricey credit card charge to a lingerie store our children are young if they stole the credit card my husband would have immediately noticed and shut it down it's entirely inappropriate for children
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a ITA for telling my friend her husband is right not to help her with the baby my friend let's call her Anna met her husband we'll call him Dave about 10 years ago they started dating right away moved in together pretty quickly and couple years after they started dating she began worrying that he has not proposed yet long story short turns out when they met they discussed what each wants in the future and discovered that she really wants babies and Dave doesn't neither wanted to let go of the relationship and they stayed together hoping the other will change their mind I encouraged Anna to find out why Dave doesn't want babies and he said that he didn't want to the responsibility the waking up at night changing nappies Etc so they came up solution where they would have a baby together however Anna would do all everything to do with that baby so that she gets her wish and Dave gets his they got married and 2 years later had the baby girl now Anna is not happy when she came back from the hospital and was recovering Dave helped out but now it's all on her she does majority of the changes all the feeds Etc she said that she remembered the agreement however thinks that if Dave loves her he would see how much she is struggling and give her a hand she complained to me a few times and I finally told her that I think she is wrong he was very clear about not wanting to do all this stuff and they decided together that this way they would both get what they wanted Anna's anger shifted to me she just explained and called me a bad friend she said that I don't understand her because I don't have a child and that as her friend I should be more supportive we don't really talk nowadays and our friends are divided some said that iata and shouldn't have said anything at all so I don't know am I really the here additional information to clarify some of the questions the marriage hasn't ended as far as Dave is concerned they both have what they want and that are happy she has not told him that she is unhappy and wants more help over the years he has become my friend as well and I know for a fact that as she tells him she needs needs more help he will step up more I do go and help her when I can however I do have a job so I can't do that all the time both sets of parents also help when they can yes Anna is a stay-at-home mom yes it is specifically the baby stage he didn't want to deal with diapers and waking up at night in particular he does all the other stuff EG playtime book reading Etc yes Dave does help with cooking and cleaning in fact he is the one that cooks because Anna doesn't like cooking and he seems to enjoy it Anna does leave the baby with him for when she needs a break needs a shower girls night go get nails done Etc
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:00.179 --> :15.910 A few :15.910 --> :20.530 months ago, my older brother asked me to be his best man and my husband to be a groomsman. :20.530 --> :25.260 He and I have always been close and he was my best man at our (much smaller) ceremony. :25.260 --> :31.119 At the time I committed to this obligation, no real planning had taken place so everyone :31.119 --> :35.180 was on standby waiting for further details and an official date. :35.180 --> :40.060 I'm not sure when they began properly planning things, but I didn't hear much more about :40.060 --> :43.550 it until November during our Thanksgiving family gathering. :43.550 --> :47.770 My brother's fiancée told us the venue, the date, and the fact that the wedding was going :47.770 --> :48.800 to be child-free. :48.800 --> :53.400 Now, I have no issue with the concept of child-free weddings -- I had one myself. :53.400 --> :57.270 The problem is that my husband and I are expecting a baby. :57.270 --> :02.329 If all goes well with our surrogate's pregnancy (fingers crossed), our son will be 3 months :02.329 --> :04.189 old by the wedding date given. :04.189 --> :07.770 The venue they've chosen is one 2.5 hours from where we live. :07.770 --> :10.509 We would likely be spending three days away from home. :10.509 --> :14.990 You can call me an overprotective first time parent, but the thought of both my husband :14.990 --> :21.380 and I being away from our child for that long when he's so little scares me, and he's not :21.380 --> :22.510 even here yet. :22.510 --> :27.220 My in-laws could watch him and I trust them completely, but I know I wouldn't be able :27.220 --> :32.170 to properly enjoy the festivities if my infant is over two hours away from me. :32.170 --> :36.619 I pulled my brother aside later in the night and apologized profusely while explaining :36.619 --> :37.810 my worries. :37.810 --> :43.680 He said he understood and offered up a venue change (one much closer to home) or maybe :43.680 --> :48.399 making an exception for me by inviting my in-laws to the wedding, that way I could see :48.399 --> :52.079 the baby during the ceremony and feel a little less stressed. :52.079 --> :54.689 I told him either would work for me and thanked him. :54.689 --> :58.840 He spoke to his fiancée, but she won't budge on either issue. :58.840 --> :02.700 He's vented to me multiple times over the course of the month that has now passed about :02.700 --> :07.590 how he's really frustrated because what matters most to him is making sure he's surrounded :07.590 --> :10.910 by the people he loves and that they are comfortable. :10.910 --> :15.970 Meanwhile his fiancée continually repeats that she's not giving up her 'dream venue :15.970 --> :17.310 and ceremony.' :17.310 --> :21.660 I told him my husband and I could just attend as guests instead if it would make things :21.660 --> :26.150 easier, but he immediately shut me down and said he wanted us by his side. :26.150 --> :31.050 She texted me yesterday (politely, I'll admit) asking if I could please just drop things :31.050 --> :32.050 with my brother. :32.050 --> :36.530 I might have considered it previously, but hearing how she turned down all of my brother's :36.530 --> :41.050 requests for compromise made me put my foot down and refuse. :41.050 --> :46.730 I hate causing my brother trouble like this, especially so close to the holidays, but I :46.730 --> :04.849 feel like she's showing her true colors. :04.849 --> :18.170 AITA? :18.170 --> :25.599 My (f35) family is Mexican and we live in TX. :25.599 --> :30.950 Everyone in my family is bilingual and they tend to mix English and Spanish constantly. :30.950 --> :35.689 My siblings spouses have all learned some Spanish, some better, some worse, but they :35.689 --> :37.980 can still participate in all conversations. :37.980 --> :40.890 I’ve been with my husband for 10 years. :40.890 --> :46.080 He took a few classes but he found it too difficult and decided that he can’t learn :46.080 --> :51.909 a language as it’s his thing just like math isn’t his thing and he dropped it. :51.909 --> :56.470 Every family gathering (there are a lot of them) he feels left out because everyone switches :56.470 --> :59.010 back and forth and he doesn’t understand them. :59.010 --> :03.730 I have to translate for him and it really must be uncomfortable for him. :03.730 --> :07.760 This year he said that he’s not coming, he feels excluded and even when he talks with :07.760 --> :14.430 non Mexican spouses, they mix and match languages and he felts it’s to mock him because there’s :14.430 --> :15.480 no need to. :15.480 --> :19.840 I called my mother and told her that they must promise to not speak Spanish because :19.840 --> :22.660 it’s excluding my husband or were not coming. :22.660 --> :27.430 My mother was angry, she told me they’re not going to police their speech, that they :27.430 --> :33.340 were accommodating for the first few years but he made no effort and it’s ridiculous :33.340 --> :35.160 that he doesn’t even try. :35.160 --> :39.480 I told her to at he did try but she knows it’s difficult for him. :39.480 --> :42.979 She said that he’s no longer invited and I can come on my own. :42.979 --> :46.259 I was really angry and repeatet my ultimatum. :46.259 --> :48.199 This didn’t go down well. :48.199 --> :10.040 My whole family is ticked off, I'm on a trash account since people know about my main... :10.040 --> :12.710 I have a 14F daughter. :12.710 --> :16.390 We moved a few years ago to a bigger house in the same neighborhood. :16.390 --> :21.120 Because it's a bigger house my daughter can now have her own full bathroom, and me and :21.120 --> :23.670 my husband share another one. :23.670 --> :28.789 The bathroom my daughter uses' shower broke so we just took the opportunity to get a full :28.789 --> :29.789 remodel. :29.789 --> :33.789 My husband and I found furniture we liked that complimented our bathroom and was also :33.789 --> :35.419 a good nice theme I wanted. :35.419 --> :38.710 We got a paint color that we knew my daughter liked pretty well. :38.710 --> :40.730 Our remodel started a few days ago. :40.730 --> :44.920 My daughter and I were out of the house staying at a friend's while my husband worked from :44.920 --> :46.250 home in the basement. :46.250 --> :49.889 My daughter told me that she was stressed out because she didn't know what was getting :49.889 --> :51.310 put in the bathroom. :51.310 --> :56.820 I told her she was no where as stressed as I was because this isn't her house and her :56.820 --> :57.820 money. :57.820 --> :01.350 She then proceeded to tell me she was upset that she didn't get to have a say in what :01.350 --> :06.370 was happening in "her" bathroom, and she didn't know if she'd like the bathroom. :06.370 --> :11.680 I told her it was my house and that we put a color she liked, which she said wasn't what :11.680 --> :12.680 she wanted. :12.680 --> :17.790 I told her she was being spoiled and she shouldn't think she gets to make all of the decisions. :17.790 --> :23.400 She said I wasn't being fair and that I was making the bathroom she'd "be using" all about :23.400 --> :28.340 what I wanted, but she'll graduate soonish and then I'll still have the bathroom. :28.340 --> :34.740 She claims she just wants a comprimise, but why should I comprimise how I make MY house :34.740 --> :35.740 look? :35.740 --> :39.139 My husband hasn't really weighed in on this, but AITA? :39.139 --> :59.270 I'm pretty sure my child is being entitled. :59.270 --> :01.849 Every year my family spends our Christmas in Hawaii. :01.849 --> :06.669 We’ve done it every year since I can remember and it’s a fun family tradition for me. :06.669 --> :10.949 After me and my husband had kids we had to reorganize our family Christmas plans because :10.949 --> :16.130 his parents wanted to see our kids for Christmas, so we decided that we would celebrate Christmas :16.130 --> :20.889 with his parents on New Years and go to Hawaii for actual Christmas. :20.889 --> :25.750 This is the system that worked for us until last year. :25.750 --> :30.110 Last year his dad passed away around this time of the year and it hit him and his mom :30.110 --> :31.180 hard. :31.180 --> :34.280 For obvious reasons we didn’t go to Hawaii. :34.280 --> :37.199 This year we planned out what we’d do for the holidays early. :37.199 --> :42.160 We’d do Thanksgiving with his mom, and we’d do Christmas in Hawaii since me and the kids :42.160 --> :43.410 missed out last year. :43.410 --> :47.229 Things were going well until right before our flight. :47.229 --> :49.810 About a week out, he said he was unsure. :49.810 --> :52.440 He said that he thinks it might be better that we stay. :52.440 --> :56.699 He said he really wanted to spend Christmas with his family and felt like his mom really :56.699 --> :57.699 needed it. :57.699 --> :03.050 I was unhappy about this, we made a plan, we saw her last month, and we already had :03.050 --> :09.479 my dad buy our tickets and hotel, so it would be incredibly unfair to me, him and our kids :09.479 --> :15.569 for us to not go just for his mom, who we’d see a few days after we got back anyways. :15.569 --> :20.620 We got into an argument about it and proposed that me and the kids can go to Hawaii and :20.620 --> :22.360 he can stay there with his mom. :22.360 --> :29.699 He decided to do this but he was very clearly upset that I wasn’t going to forgo my family’s :29.699 --> :34.280 Christmas tradition and seeing my family just for his mom. :34.280 --> :38.089 So now I’m in Hawaii watching and rangling the kids by myself. :38.089 --> :39.519 While he’s home alone. :39.519 --> :42.770 He have said texted me or responded to me much. :42.770 --> :46.769 When I call him he only talks for about 3 minutes before wanting to get off the phone :46.769 --> :59.870 with me and talk to the girls. :59.870 --> :06.339 AITA? :06.339 --> :15.060 My (19M) girlfriend (18f) got her license about 3 months ago, but last week was the :15.060 --> :18.130 first time that I've been in the car with her while she was driving. :18.130 --> :23.370 My car was in the shop & she came to pick me up from work & on our way back she decides :23.370 --> :25.180 to stop at a gas station. :25.180 --> :30.779 We pull up to the machine, she looks at me funny for a moment, doesn't say anything & then :30.779 --> :33.720 gets out the car & starts pumping her gas. :33.720 --> :38.250 When she gets back in the car, I ask her what the funny look was for & she says, "Really? :38.250 --> :43.810 How do I have a man in the car & I'm the one pumping gas?" :43.810 --> :47.899 "Because its your car & youre the one driving?" :47.899 --> :49.529 She says, "Wow. :49.529 --> :52.300 And you're not even a little bit embarassed? :52.300 --> :57.200 Watching your girlfriend pump gas in the cold while youre sitting in the nice, warm car :57.200 --> :58.830 listening to music?" :58.830 --> :04.790 I say, "No I was actually quite comfortable & if I wasn't here, wouldn't you have to pump :04.790 --> :06.790 the gas by yourself anyway?" :06.790 --> :08.500 She says, "But that's the point. :08.500 --> :09.520 You're here. :09.520 --> :13.830 A woman should never to pump gas while a man's in the car. :13.830 --> :19.380 My dad, uncle, cousin, brother, nephew, whoever would've never just did what you did just :19.380 --> :20.380 now." :20.380 --> :24.140 I say, "Well, Im not them & I don't subscribe to that. :24.140 --> :25.140 Can we go now?" :25.140 --> :29.700 Mind you, the whole time were having this conversation she hasnt even started the car. :29.700 --> :34.720 The gas station is filling up w/ cars & shes literally hogging a machine. :34.720 --> :37.990 She says, "I'm not moving until you apologize." :37.990 --> :42.480 To make it even worse, the guy waiting in the car behind us walks over and politely :42.480 --> :47.339 taps on the window and says, "Hey, sorry, are you guys leaving or...?" :47.339 --> :51.600 She rolls down the window & asks him, "If your girlfriend or wife was driving, would :51.600 --> :53.459 you still pump her gas?" :53.459 --> :56.129 He says, "Uhhh, probably?" :56.129 --> :58.890 & she looks at me victory & we finally move. :58.890 --> :04.420 She says, "Seriously, don't ever do that again" I probably should have let it go, but I couldn't: :04.420 --> :09.339 "No, if we're in your car and youre driving, youre pumping the gas." :09.339 --> :13.260 She starts going off again until I cant take it anymore. :13.260 --> :18.010 I get out & start walking down side streets to a friends place. :18.010 --> :23.690 She's following me calling my name & my phone, but I ignore her & eventually lose her when :23.690 --> :25.810 she gets stuck at a red light. :25.810 --> :30.149 Since last Friday I've been getting all sorts of angry messages & texts from her friends :30.149 --> :35.770 about how Im not a real man for not pumping gas & even my friends were telling me, "Yeah, :35.770 --> :38.920 man, you should always pump the girls gas, its just principle." :38.920 --> :42.910 That whole week was Finals week so I didnt really pay too much attention to what they :42.910 --> :47.139 were saying but Finals ended yesterday & I'm home now for Christmas. :47.139 --> :52.840 My extended family is all here, so I decided to ask them if a guy should always pump gas :52.840 --> :53.940 for the girl. :53.940 --> :59.060 I'm confused because all the men are saying yes, but all the women are saying that while :59.060 --> :03.660 they appreciate the men doing it, they can also do it by themselves, even when a man :03.660 --> :05.060 is in the car. :05.060 --> :10.670 They're all still arguing downstairs & its getting pretty heated so I decided to write :10.670 --> :31.820 to you guys to ask AITA & should I apologize? :31.820 --> :39.510 I (25F) got married to my husband (24M) who we’ll call Adam. :39.510 --> :43.639 When Adam and I were dating, I found out I was pregnant with my ex’s kid. :43.639 --> :47.470 Adam didn’t care and was thrilled because he’s infertile, and has always wanted to :47.470 --> :48.470 be a dad. :48.470 --> :53.709 I tried for over a year to get in contact with my ex to see if he wanted to be a dad, :53.709 --> :57.339 and he nor his family ever answered me. :57.339 --> :59.180 Even when I went to their houses. :59.180 --> :05.750 So A has been my daughter’s (3F who we’ll call Calli) dad her whole life, and legally :05.750 --> :07.080 adopted her at 2. :07.080 --> :09.240 Sorry for the tangent, but it’s relevant. :09.240 --> :13.620 We’re in freezing cold weather, and have lost power during higher temps than this the :13.620 --> :15.120 last two years. :15.120 --> :19.839 A kid in our neighborhood got really sick last year because he nearly froze. :19.839 --> :24.680 So I set up my and my husband’s bed to be a kind of tent so it would keep all the body :24.680 --> :25.680 heat in. :25.680 --> :31.510 It’s a California King, so there’s PLENTY of room for us, Calli and our dog who sleeps :31.510 --> :32.779 with us anyway. :32.779 --> :36.650 I got Callie ready for bed, and tucked her in in our bed to finish getting ready. :36.650 --> :42.060 Adam asked why she was in our bed, and I explained I was afraid of the power going out because :42.060 --> :44.990 we’ve already gotten warnings and the past two years. :44.990 --> :49.010 He was angry and said that he shouldn’t have to share his bed with her because he :49.010 --> :51.009 might want “loving”. :51.009 --> :55.010 I told him that I wasn’t going to be in the mood tonight because it’s 6 degrees :55.010 --> :57.350 and I’d be worried about Calli. :57.350 --> :02.959 Long story short, after a huge fight, I took the whole set up (so only leaving him the :02.959 --> :06.869 sheets, duvet and one blanket) and did it over my daughter’s bed. :06.869 --> :10.290 I slept in there with her, and our dog followed us. :10.290 --> :15.199 Adam was so angry this morning that he accused me of wanting a divorce. :15.199 --> :19.250 I just told him that Calli was coming to work with me today, and I’m dropping the dog :19.250 --> :23.699 off at my mother’s since she works from home so he’s not alone in case the power :23.699 --> :24.699 goes off. :24.699 --> :29.770 Adam went off to work and I’m getting texts from my in laws and a couple mutual friends. :29.770 --> :33.960 Someone even texted me that expecting him to share a bed with a girl he’s not related :33.960 --> :40.540 to is disgusting, but that just makes me question him and his family that that’s their thought :40.540 --> :41.540 process. :41.540 --> :42.540 AITA? :42.540 --> :45.770 I just was worried about my literal three year old. :45.770 --> :47.850 Even if I am though, I’m doing it again tonight. :47.850 --> :52.880 I just want to know because I’m furious at him for blowing it out of proportion, but :52.880 --> :54.080 maybe he’s right to be mad? :54.080 --> :55.080 Idk :55.080 --> :56.080 Edit: I didn’t think to add this but a comment made me think I should- Calli doesn’t have :56.080 --> :57.080 free access to our room. :57.080 --> :58.080 Adam locks the door after I fall asleep, and because he’s up and down all night, I can :58.080 --> :59.080 never stay up later than him. :59.080 --> :00.080 Calli has multiple times woken me up crying and banging on the door to get in after a :00.080 --> :01.080 bad dream, hearing weird noises, etc. :01.080 --> :02.080 Adam always apologizes but it keeps happening, so with her asthma I don’t want to risk :02.080 --> :03.080 her being out in that cold for even a few minutes longer than she has too. :03.080 --> :04.080 Also Adam won’t buy another top that goes over the beds to keep in the heat. :04.080 --> :05.080 He says they’re a waste of money/not worth the price. :05.080 --> :06.080 I bought two last year but our dog ripped it, and I didn’t have the money to buy another :06.080 --> :07.080 one. :07.080 --> :08.080 I plan to after the new year when I have a full check so Calli can always have one in :08.080 --> :09.080 the cold, just in case. :09.080 --> :10.080 Edit 2: Our home is technically in a trust for me from my Aunt, but I’m taking my and :10.080 --> :11.080 Calli’s stuff and staying with my mom while working on how to make him leave. :11.080 --> :12.080 Our dog is already there. :12.080 --> :13.080 Adam has been blowing up my cell phone and work phone because I haven’t apologized :13.080 --> :14.080 and I’m ignoring his parents. :14.080 --> :15.080 My last straw was all the texts about him saying he wants to dissolve the adoption “when :15.080 --> :16.080 I leave him” because Calli doesn’t respect him as her dad because she talks back, doesn’t :16.080 --> :17.080 listen, runs away, has tantrums, and doesn’t want to spend time with her if there’s people :17.080 --> :18.080 besides us around (again, she’s 3. :18.080 --> :19.080 Barely. :19.080 --> :20.080 She doesn’t “respect” me most of the time either by his definition). :20.080 --> :21.080 I haven’t responded to anything. :21.080 --> :22.080 I don’t think I will for awhile. :22.080 --> :23.080 Yes, we’re in Texas so losing power is a constant stress. :23.080 --> :24.080 Adam has insomnia and has since he was a kid, which is why he gets up and down a lot. :24.080 --> :25.080 He has since we were kids. :25.080 --> :26.080 I’ve known his family since I was like 10. :26.080 --> :27.080 This is new behavior for him. :27.080 --> :28.080 Until about two months ago, he was perfect. :28.080 --> :29.080 He just randomly started locking the door, and he dots on her. :29.080 --> :30.080 His family has made it a point to let me know Calli isn’t “really” their family, but :30.080 --> :31.080 we’re LC with those that say that so it’s a non-issue. :31.080 --> :32.080 Maybe he’s back in contact with them though. :32.080 --> :33.080 Maybe he’s upset about my new job, or that the house isn’t “really” his. :33.080 --> :34.080 He won’t discuss either of those things. :34.080 --> :35.080 I really don’t know. :35.080 --> :36.080 He’s in therapy already. :36.080 --> :37.080 I need to know if I'm being reasonable or heartless here. :37.080 --> :38.080 My husband, 27m, has a long time friend who we'll call Bill - 31m. :38.080 --> :39.080 The two of them met when my husband was 16 and from the way they always tell the story, :39.080 --> :40.080 they've been inseparable ever since. :40.080 --> :41.080 Bill is now married and lives nearby with his wife. :41.080 --> :42.080 They announced their pregnancy a while ago and my husband was absolutely overjoyed for :42.080 --> :43.080 them. :43.080 --> :44.080 He would visit at often as he could and it seemed like he was singlehandedly funding :44.080 --> :45.080 the baby's wardrobe and nursery, honestly. :45.080 --> :46.470 Unfortunately, they suffered a miscarriage just before the six month mark. :46.470 --> :51.639 Bill and his wife were understandably devastated, and so was my husband. :51.639 --> :56.970 I got it - he was watching his best friend go through something unimaginably painful. :56.970 --> :01.930 He was often gone for long periods to time comforting Bill because not only had he suffered :01.930 --> :06.780 this loss, his marriage didn't seem to be holding up very well either. :06.780 --> :08.980 The miscarriage occurred at the end of September. :08.980 --> :14.050 Now, this is where I might be a huge jerk, so I'm in desperate need of judgement-- I :14.050 --> :19.100 completely empathize with Bill and his wife still needing time to recover, but my husband :19.100 --> :22.410 is ALSO still acting as if this is fresh. :22.410 --> :26.860 Not just in the way he's still comforting his friend during his free time or excusing :26.860 --> :32.759 himself to take hours long phone calls, but the intensity of his emotions. :32.759 --> :37.750 I caught him crying about a week ago and when I asked him what about, he got angry with :37.750 --> :39.860 me and said it should be obvious. :39.860 --> :45.819 I was surprised to be met with such malice over a simple question, so I tried to gently :45.819 --> :49.250 suggest that maybe therapy would be beneficial. :49.250 --> :54.480 He was feeling this loss like it was his own, and I didn't find that very healthy. :54.480 --> :00.000 In fact, I had been concerned about him since mid-October if I was honest but had no idea :00.000 --> :01.540 how to broach the subject. :01.540 --> :08.060 The conversation that followed didn't go well, and my husband said his emotions were perfectly :08.060 --> :11.850 normal and that maybe I was just lacking in empathy. :11.850 --> :21.120 He's been avoiding me since. :21.120 --> :29.200 AITA? :29.200 --> :40.840 I (26F) have been with my boyfriend Sean (25M) for about a year and a half. :40.840 --> :45.710 It's been great, but I let him know from the outset that I was a recovering alcoholic. :45.710 --> :49.670 He had no problem with that, and he still drinks with his friends, but won't do that :49.670 --> :51.050 in my presence. :51.050 --> :55.970 It still bothers me that he drinks, but it's his life, I can't tell him what to do. :55.970 --> :58.770 Fast forward to last Sunday, and we're at his apartment. :58.770 --> :03.710 I come in, and he's in the middle of making pasta sauce, and there's a large bottle of :03.710 --> :05.350 vodka on the counter. :05.350 --> :09.690 I didn't say anything about the bottle, but he saw me staring at it, and he told me it's :09.690 --> :11.409 for the sauce. :11.409 --> :17.809 Pasta sauce he's made me at least twice a month for the entirety of our relationship. :17.809 --> :23.030 He said he's told me from the beginning he does that, that it cooks away, but I think :23.030 --> :27.170 that would be something I would very much remember, and I got a little angry. :27.170 --> :30.679 I knocked the bottle off the counter and went to my mom's. :30.679 --> :35.760 He's called and apologized for triggering me, and that he was being brainless, but he :35.760 --> :40.210 wants me to pay for the broken bottle, which he says was about an $80 brand. :40.210 --> :45.130 I told him that I wasn't under any circumstances going to pay for something he's been lacing :45.130 --> :47.700 my food with for years. :47.700 --> :51.770 We haven't really talked since, and my mom wants me to just go ahead and buy the thing :51.770 --> :58.820 to make amends, and I'm still refusing. :58.820 --> :03.929 AITA? :03.929 --> :18.700 I(46F) am the mother of a 24 years old woman from my first marriage, and 12 and 10 years :18.700 --> :21.180 old boys from my second marriage. :21.180 --> :26.100 When I was married to my first husband, he was unemployed almost all our marriage, we :26.100 --> :32.070 lived in a house his father owned, his father paid our bills, he bought us the car we drove, :32.070 --> :35.960 he sent my husband money to take care of our family…etc. :35.960 --> :41.260 I was young, stupid and in love, that is my only excuse for living like that. :41.260 --> :47.039 When my daughter turned 5 I started pushing my husband to work, I myself got a job. :47.039 --> :48.600 He didn’t want to. :48.600 --> :51.280 Things escalated and ended up in us getting divorced. :51.280 --> :56.840 He got full custody while I got visitations every other Saturday (his dad hired a good :56.840 --> :00.520 lawyer, I couldn’t do that), I also had to pay child support. :00.520 --> :06.510 I used to work a full time and 2 part time jobs to afford my 1 bedroom apartment as well :06.510 --> :08.270 as the child support payments. :08.270 --> :12.120 A year after our divorce, my ex married a new woman. :12.120 --> :17.540 There was a lot of child alienation from them, and sadly I couldn’t afford to take them :17.540 --> :18.750 to court again. :18.750 --> :23.940 By the time my daughter turned 14, she was calling me by name and calling her step mom :23.940 --> :24.980 “mom”. :24.980 --> :29.800 I tried my best to hold on to my kid, I went to all the event I could go to, I planned :29.800 --> :34.930 fun days with the limited funds I had, even when I couldn’t afford to turn on the heat, :34.930 --> :38.240 I still made sure to get her a Christmas gift. :38.240 --> :43.520 Sadly by the time she turned 16, she no longer wanted to have anything to do with me. :43.520 --> :46.630 I took them to court, but they did nothing. :46.630 --> :51.590 And the last time I saw her, she said some very awful things to me. :51.590 --> :57.559 I was defeated, but I decided that I no longer had a daughter, since that is literally what :57.559 --> :58.559 she wanted. :58.559 --> :04.610 I moved away, met a good man, married him and had 2 wonderful kids. :04.610 --> :06.710 Last year my daughter reached out. :06.710 --> :09.870 She was sorry, she said that she wanted to reconnect. :09.870 --> :14.120 I was hesitant and resentful, but I still talk with her once a week. :14.120 --> :19.539 Suddenly she asked if she could spend Christmas with us, she wanted to get to know her brothers. :19.539 --> :23.300 I told her that we were not in a stage where I could allow that. :23.300 --> :28.030 It got heated, but I told her that I could not trust her with my kids, and that I was :28.030 --> :32.920 still not 100% sure that I wanted our relationship to become more. :32.920 --> :38.260 She says that I am an AH, that I am punishing her for things she had no control over, that :38.260 --> :59.799 I know what she told me and how she reacted to me was a direct result of :59.799 --> :02.110 her father’s manipulation. :02.110 --> :03.110 AITA? :03.110 --> :07.980 My daughter (2) just got light up princess heels from a family member. :07.980 --> :10.750 She loves these shoes and wants to wear them everywhere. :10.750 --> :15.800 She wore them to daycare on Tuesday and when I picked my daughter up, she was wearing a :15.800 --> :19.070 pair of socks from the school instead of her shoes. :19.070 --> :25.090 They asked me to send “acceptable” shoes in her backpack if she wants to wear her heels. :25.090 --> :29.049 When I got home, I checked the school’s dress code and there was absolutely nothing :29.049 --> :33.490 about shoes, except that kids have to be able to comfortably play in them. :33.490 --> :39.050 My daughter is very comfortable in her heels (she wears them to the park, the grocery store, :39.050 --> :43.860 pretty much every time we leave the house and she never complains) so I didn’t think :43.860 --> :46.809 there was anything wrong with her wearing them to school. :46.809 --> :49.070 She wore them again to school yesterday. :49.070 --> :53.750 Shortly after I dropped her off, I got a call from her teacher saying I needed to drop off :53.750 --> :59.049 a new pair of shoes but I was already at work so I couldn’t get her a new pair. :59.049 --> :01.510 When I picked her up, it was the same thing. :01.510 --> :05.000 Her heels were in her backpack and she was wearing socks. :05.000 --> :09.010 The teacher told me they couldn’t let her out for recess because of her shoes. :09.010 --> :13.890 I was livid when I was told that she couldn’t play at recess because of her shoes. :13.890 --> :18.309 First of all, she’s worn those shoes to the park so I know she can play in them. :18.309 --> :23.040 Second, it’s not her fault that I couldn’t drop off a new pair of shoes so I don’t :23.040 --> :24.950 see why she has to be punished for it. :24.950 --> :29.110 I want to pull her out of this daycare and find a better one but my husband is refusing :29.110 --> :34.850 because his kids (he has kids from a previous marriage) went there and they all love it. :34.850 --> :39.140 I personally think they’re treating my daughter unfairly and that we should look for a better :39.140 --> :42.880 daycare. :42.880 --> :46.620 AITA? :46.620 --> :57.840 Throwaway, fake names. :57.840 --> :09.780 I've (m23) been dating my girlfriend Ellie (f31) for almost a year. :09.780 --> :14.529 Ellie has 2 kids (f6, m4) and we get along really well. :14.529 --> :21.320 I have a big family and it's pretty much impossible to have one Christmas event and expect everyone :21.320 --> :25.140 to make it, so my parents host their celebration the week before. :25.140 --> :30.350 My mom has a tradition with the 'kids' (us) where she gives mini snow globes. :30.350 --> :35.200 The event was last Saturday, and as usual mom pulled us aside and gave us this year's :35.200 --> :36.539 snow globes. :36.539 --> :41.450 Now the snow globe giving extends to partners and I was expecting Ellie and the kids to :41.450 --> :42.530 receive one. :42.530 --> :49.380 My brother's wife Jane (f27-28) was there and mom gave her and her 5 yo daughter snow :49.380 --> :50.380 globes. :50.380 --> :55.309 Mom's reasoning is that she doesn't know Ellie well enough to be included, but I said being :55.309 --> :00.120 my partner should be enough and she should've at least included the kids. :00.120 --> :04.630 Ellie came to the event with me and she was upset when she saw mom didn't get one for :04.630 --> :06.470 her or the kids. :06.470 --> :12.000 I got kind of annoyed and told mom she gets snow globes for Jane and her daughter, considering :12.000 --> :15.160 my brother wasn't her son (we're half brothers). :15.160 --> :19.630 If that's the case then she's excluding Ellie for no reason. :19.630 --> :23.760 Mom got defensive and started getting mad, and we ended up leaving early. :23.760 --> :28.110 I just don't think what mom did was right, these aren't expensive and she could've got :28.110 --> :31.100 3 more so Ellie and the kids could be included. :31.100 --> :36.150 I'd get if it was just for us, but she gets them for partners and kids too. :36.150 --> :41.630 I got a few texts later from my sister, saying I'm creating issues and we disrespected my :41.630 --> :45.600 parents and Jane, and should apologize. :45.600 --> :46.690 AITA? :46.690 --> :55.740 I (19m) have a roommate. :55.740 --> :09.990 He has a girlfriend (call her L) since they have been seeing eachother and when she’s :09.990 --> :14.240 been staying round she has walked in on me and pulled the covers off as a joke. :14.240 --> :18.700 She’s also walked in on me and my girlfriend which was the final straw. :18.700 --> :23.540 My roommate has been doing nothing about this saying “I can’t control her”. :23.540 --> :28.180 Few days ago my girlfriend was in our flat and so was L. My girlfriend has been getting :28.180 --> :30.279 ticked at L walking in on us. :30.279 --> :33.520 I told her to sleep naked and she will stop probably. :33.520 --> :40.260 At 6 me and my girlfriend was sleeping and L busted threw the door and saw us butt naked :40.260 --> :41.260 together. :41.260 --> :43.679 She screamed like she saw a murderer scene. :43.679 --> :47.270 My roommate walked in and told us we should of been wearing clothes. :47.270 --> :50.140 I told him that she needs to learn about privacy first. :50.140 --> :51.820 He told us we were acting childish. :51.820 --> :56.850 We didn’t care if we were acting childish she needed to know that’s it’s weird walking :56.850 --> :58.540 in on people like that. :58.540 --> :11.659 So aita? :11.659 --> :24.660 I (34m) have a wife (32f) and we have two children 4f and 7m. :24.660 --> :28.860 I work as a manager at a care home and my wife owns a bakery with her mum. :28.860 --> :34.620 My wife cooks all the time because she is much better at cooking than I am, I cook sometimes. :34.620 --> :39.270 She is the one who takes care of the house, kids, and chores. :39.270 --> :43.610 Yesterday when I came back from work dinner was ready so I plated it up for everyone while :43.610 --> :48.760 my wife was washing her hands (my kids like their food cut up) I was cutting their chickens :48.760 --> :54.260 into pieces and it looked a bit pink I told my wife to look at it and she said “it’s :54.260 --> :56.039 a little pink but it’s fine”. :56.039 --> :59.909 I told her I’m not letting them eat this if it’s pink, she told me to stop being :59.909 --> :01.820 a baby and it won’t kill them. :01.820 --> :06.400 I kept telling her it’s pink in the middle they shouldn’t eat that they can get food :06.400 --> :08.970 poisoning and that’s it’s dangerous for them. :08.970 --> :13.090 She told me “if you don’t want them eating it then you can cook their dinner”. :13.090 --> :18.159 I made them cheese and ham toasties, also made her one but she didn’t eat it. :18.159 --> :21.700 She told me she isn’t talking to me if I think her cooking is horrible. :21.700 --> :25.830 I don’t think it’s horrible I just didn’t want our kids eating that. :25.830 --> :28.809 I told her to stop thinking she was right. :28.809 --> :57.539 So AITA?
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a it ta for being honest about disliking my nephew's name my sister gave birth to my nephew in January and she gave him a name that I dislike which is Phillip the two of us have always been so so close and we always swore we would be honest with each other when asked that has always been our relationship we feel it keeps Us close and stops hard feelings because if we don't want to hear something we just don't ask there has never been a time I didn't want her honesty so I will ask her anything looking for an honest answer my sister is a little more sensitive which there's nothing wrong with that but I get her not asking everything if she feels like it would hurt her feeling she asked me what I thought of the name because I was the only one who didn't comment about loving the name according to her and I'm not saying every single person she meets compliments the name just that those in her and her husband Circle did so two-thirds weeks after my nephew was born she asked me if I didn't like his name she said my reaction was very muted and it made her Wonder so I was honest and told her I didn't like the name but reassured her I love my nephew very much she asked some more questions that I answered honestly and I was even open about names I would use for my future child when asked my sister made a joke that it was weird to find a topic we were so
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Welcome Friends to another r/ nuclear revenge video today we've got a story of op's little brother getting beaten up and the Revenge they got against the person who did it but first a story from Rumple for Sky 990 scumbag does $2,000 damage to my car steals my best friend's motorcycle while recovering from dental surgery gets whole life destroyed for years this happened several years ago but first let's meet the cast there's me best friend and of course the star of the show scumbag first a little bit of background there was this homeless he wasn't truly homeless scumbag who I was Sheltering in my house while he looked for a place to stay I wanted to help him out and help him back on his feet he'd been problematic for a while he was crapping in the trash can peeing in soda bottles everywhere and lying to everyone all the time he wasn't even good at lying he was one of those pathological Liars who can't tell the truth to save their life and when he got a BB gun he shot out my neighbor's window this will become relevant at the end the list of sketchy stuff scumbag did could go on for days but that's not what I'm writing this about though it certainly does factor into the Revenge now on to the main event while one of my buddies needed a ride to the train station I was too tired to drive so I let him take my car and drive himself to the train station when he came back my front bumper was on the ground and he duct taped it back on he claimed that he was T-boned at an intersection and injured his leg he went to the hospital faked his injury and came back with crutches so I'd buy it when I asked the police in the town he said it happened in whom he said he had filed a report with they told me No Such event had been reported and they had no clue what I was talking about I later found out through my buddy who was in the car with him that he was doing donuts in a parking lot and hit a tree so shame on me for letting someone drive my car I know it was a very stupid decision on my part the cost of repairing my car came out to be $2,000 and I couldn't get insurance to cover it so the repairs came out of my pocket so I gave him the benefit of the opportunity to make things right and said all right pay for the cost of repairs and I'll forgive the transgression he already had a minimum wage job so I expected him to pay me every week until it was paid off after 2 weeks he stopped so I took his PS3 in safe as collateral and said I'd give it back when he paid me back and if he didn't I I'd sell it to cover the costs a few weeks later my best friend who was also staying with me had his wisdom teeth removed he was in a ton of pain that dental pain is the worst scumbag said he needed to go to the store he let scumbag take the bike to the grocery store but after a while we became suspicious he called saying the bike wouldn't start I drove over to the store he was at and he and the Motorcycle were nowhere to be found the store was 10 minutes away we called him and said bring it back now or else we'll report it stolen when he came back later that evening with a girl and he made up a BS excuse as to why the motorcycle had 130 M on the odometer the way he told it made it clear he had no clue how mechanical odometers work they don't glitch and jump ahead 130 Mi like he said it did my best friend would know he's constantly pulling his bike apart and making repairs and modifications to it I grilled him about the fact that he was never where he said he was we deduced that he had rode the bike to his hometown to pick up his girlfriend in back and lied about everything that was the last straw that broke the camel's back and a very bad mistake my best friend and I were trembling with rage when we threw him and his girl out the front door to the curb this is where the nuclear Revenge begins scumbag was dumb enough to leave all of his password saved on the laptop we loaned him while he was with us we got his email and changed the password password once you've got someone's email you've got everything else by default we got a social media accounts and financial accounts and reset their passwords too it was hysterical seeing the flurry of password reset emails coming in he knew we had them in the bag and was frantically trying to salvage his situation he had opened a bank account at the local bank to deposit his paychecks from his local cashier job while he was in the area we emptied the whole thing for a total of $2500 imagine my shock I kept the 2,000 for my car and gave the remaining 500 to best friend for his troubles and having my back we then sold his PS3 on Craigslist and split that 50/50 we eventually opened his safe and it was full of random papers and earbuds of no value but it did have his debit card and one of the papers had his pin on it which is how we emptied his bank account in addition to that while he's on his way out I go to the store he was working at and tell his boss he won't be showing up this afternoon and to consider him to be quitting I explained why the manager was cool about it but told me that he can't take my word for it in any event he was never seen at that establishment again so sooner or later that manager was going to have to take my word for it but we're not done yet we still have a social life to destroy we hijack his Facebook and make all of his friends hate him we make posts about all the crappy stuff he did we make posts about eating his poop we make posts exclaiming his love of all manner of debauchery and degeneracy we start petty fights with his friends list in the DMS we go under their walls and say snarky nasty crap we turned everyone against him and in the process of destroying his social life a bunch of girls he abused who lurked on his page came out of the Woodworks praising us for taking him down a peg it's been years and he still doesn't have a social media presence a few weeks weeks go by and we get a package in the mail from him turns out he wasn't homeless and completely out of options like he said big surprise I know the package was mailed from his parents house it's an empty threat to Sumi overflowing with hilariously made up lies and pages of screenshots of what we did to his social media me and best friend are laughing our butts off reading it he said he left town because the bills were too much he never did Sue us and we even taunted his bluff with our new Facebook account the reason why he thought this would fly is the neighbor threatened to sue us over the window he broke and we paid for the replacement window so he thought that the mere threat of a lawsuit would be enough to put an end to the Revenge I still have his lawsuit letter because I like to read it for a good chuckle every now and then I'm thinking of framing it on my wall as a trophy last I heard he's completely destitute and has zero friends now that everyone knows how much of a terrible person he is even his parents got sick of his manipulative Behavior Behavior his girlfriend didn't take long to wise up and apologize to us so what's the real lesson of the story protect the ever loving crap out of your email because that's all anyone needs to gain access to everything else you do and completely ruin you also don't save your passwords on the computers of the people you're screwing over I'm kind of curious after reading this story do any of you guys in the comments have any friend that you would trust enough to give your email password to I'm talking your email that you would use to link your bank account your social media accounts up to or would you not trust anyone with that let me know in the comments down below and our final story of the day is by Hager balm hubner Jerk Beats up my little brother because of his mental issues gets beaten within an inch of his life for context this story takes place long before I was born my father told me these stories many many many times when I was younger another context my father was an a witness but his friends told him the story so detailed since they were there when it happened that it almost sounds like he was there so here we go the cus Cage The Jerk who verbally and physically attacks someone with mental health issues Daniel the poor guy who's semi mentally challenged I'll explain it better Vin Johnson Daniel's Big Brother the name will make sense when I explain it so okay I don't know which year this took place as my dad never specified but I knew this took place when he was in his late Andor early 20s okay there was this guy Daniel who was well semi mentally challenged when I say semi I mean occasionally he was able to successfully understand the situation around him but the majority of the time he couldn't because of that his friend group constantly protected him not out of pity but because they genuinely cared about him however this one jerkface cage decided he didn't like Daniel's mental issues and decided to poke fun at him them note they were at a bar and cage had a large group of friends with him who all forced Daniel's friends to back off since they were taller and thus were intimidated although they kept close just in case things went South and they assumed a verbal assault would be the furthest that this would go how wrong they were cage decides to poke fun at Daniel making stupid noises at him purposely talking all wrong and broken as a way to mock his difficulty to speak due to his issues and well everything else you can imagine but like I said Daniel most of the time wasn't able to pick up on the things around him and thus wasn't phased by the insults since he couldn't really understand what was going on this seemingly upset cage who then resulted in beating the everloving hack out of Daniel Daniel's friends immediately tossed aside their intimidation of Cage's friends and tried to stop him but were restrained by Cage's friends while poor Daniel was defenseless against Cage's beating 2 minutes later cage stops the beating laughs at Daniel and kicks his foot one last time before leaving with his buddies Daniel's friends take him away to a hospital and inform his parents and older brother Daniel's brother will call him Vin Johnson why because if you take Vin Diesel and Dwayne Johnson fuse them together that's Daniel's brother that's how buffed and jacked he was he went full papa bear mode seeing red at his beloved little brother being beaten to a pulp and demanded to know who did it and Daniel's friends informed him and Vin immediately returned to the bar a day later and from what I was told literally kicked the door open and loudly and aggressively asked I was told this part so many times and the words are quite exact who the freak beat my brother up yesterday which one of you freakers did it start talking or I'll tear this place Peace by piece despite Vin's hulk-like stature and Darth Vader levels of deep voice cage wasn't scared and smugly walked up and told him I did what you going to do about it without less than a billionth of a second later Vin punched cage so hard he actually flew back a couple feet Vin stomped over the cage and continued to beat him up as in he stood above a fallen cage and rained punches like those you see in movies then he picked him up and threw him into a wall before grabbing him by the hair and smashing his head onto the pool table several times finally Cage's friends interfered though they were all beaten up by VIN seriously it was like 5 V1 yet Vin whooped their butts according to my father whose friends were there and were watching the whole thing Vin took two of Cage's friends lifted them both up with one hand each by the throat and smashed their heads onto a glass portrait knocking them both out instantly and leaving them with several cuts from the falling glass then Vin finished off Cage's remaining friends before returning his attention to cage himself who was literally dragging himself across the floor In Fear And as Vin grabbed him by the collar of his shirt cage begged him to stop but Vin sarcastically asked him if his little brother Daniel also begged him to stop and Vin continued to beat the crap out of him and even after cage was knocked out with his face covered in blood and a few teeth knocked out then continued to beat him up and was only stopped by Daniel's friends who told him to stop otherwise he could kill him and Vin actually said I still don't see the problem the bartender was indeed watching but knowing what a piece of crap cage was decided not to do anything yep cage was that much of a jerk but since he paid for beer almost every day the bartender wouldn't throw him out then Vin decided to end the beating by picking the now unconscious cage up one last time and threw him across the bar and Cage's head smashed against a juke box or something like that I don't know exactly what it was but it was something related to music Vin and Daniel's friends walked away and the bartender called an ambulance for cage and his friends a few weeks later Daniel was dispatched from the hospital and only suffered bruises but was overall all right when Daniel's friends returned to the bar sometime later they asked the bartender if he knew what happened to cage and his friends and the bartender actually knew almost everything that happened apparently C's parents decided to find out what actually happened since one of Cage's eyes had suffered so much damage he actually became blind in one eye and asked for security footage but the bar didn't have cameras so there was nothing however the bartender actually came clean and told them all that happened and what cage had done to deserve the beating surprisingly the parents weren't entitled what a miracle and understood the situation and asked the bartender to tell Vin and his family they were sorry for their son's behavior and prom promised to update him on Cage's future to inform Daniel's family about Cage's punishment then according to the bartender Cage's parents refused to take him back home and literally threw him out on the streets telling him that if he was willing to beat a defenseless person then he too shall become defenseless without support from his family cage then became homeless and his friends abandoned him and became a loner homeless one day Vin actually passed by cage while driving his car and since had been a day after a rainy day there were water puddles around Vin purposely drove over one splashing over to cage making him completely soaked in dirty water cage began cursing at him but as Vin slowed down and looked over cage recognized Vin anded it not long after cage was arrested for trying to steal food off a local market and his parents actually further added to a sentence over the beating he gave to Daniel making cage spend some good quality time in jail after getting out however cage was finally allowed to go back home but was never allowed to go out without his parents again until he got himself a job a house of his own and a life of his own considering what cage went and very explicitly did it's very easy to have no sympathy for them in this situation it takes a horrendous human to do what they did to a defenseless person and frankly everybody as a whole were lucky that VIN existed and was willing to stand up for them cage deserved it Karen gave get burned some years ago I started working for a heavy industrial manufacturing company I locked out and got a great supervisor for a boss Joe the work was hard working 12-hour days for 13 days in a row and then a Sunday off then back for another 13 days I was young and didn't mind and helped my wife and I save up for a house after about 6 months Joe noticed I was picking up on the work pretty fast and promoted me to a group leader position this came with a raise and increased responsibility that most other workers didn't want Joe would put me in troubled groups in his department and I would work on General improvements in figuring out the issues this was a union shop and the mentality was just to put in your hours don't work harder or smarter just do your time and don't kill the job was the unspoken motto after a few years Joe was promoted to a manager and he transferred me with him to his departments while I wasn't a supervisor yet I was the supervisor in all but name this supervisors loved it because they never had to leave the office and I liked it because it was a good learning experience I made a good reputation and got a lot of respect from workers and from management eventually Joe's areas were doing so well he was promoted to plant manager as before he wanted to promote me with him this time to a supervisor spot we talked in length because the only supervisor spot open was working for Karen Karen was female a minority and a member of the lgbtq Community she was the poster child on the company website of the inclusiveness in the workplace literally her face was the one they used she was also a freshly minted manager and Joe was not confident in her abilities but me being the Plucky go-getter with a can do attitude decided to take the position I had an interview with Karen and got to meet some of her supervisors they were very quiet and reserved once I was promoted I worked in Tanana with another supervisor Chris Chris was young had one small child and his wife was pregnant and a stay-at-home mom during the first week everything was going well I was learning all the employees getting to know the process and getting my feeling for the area during the second week Chris's wife went into labor and she had a hard time Chris went on paternity leave for 6 weeks and I was tossed into the deep end in charge of the whole area solo with 60 employees I was barely treading water but I was doing my best when I would ask Karen for guidance or assistance she would scoff like it was beneath her and tell me if I have to do your job then I don't need you so I gritted my teeth and worked my tail off my wife got me a smart watch and I was averaging 25,000 steps a day trying to keep everything running we were holding our own and employees all did what they could to help as the satiation was not ideal for everyone a few weeks in I was reviewing some quality documents and I noticed that one of the quality Gates was not being followed I emailed the info to the Quality engineers and they lost their minds this was a 4-Hour operation on a 20-hour part that we were skipping entirely turns out one of the reasons Karen got promoted was because she was running her department so efficiently then it came to light that she made the decision to skip this quality process saving that 20% of time except the engineers never signed off on this and it caused massive damage control the process had had to be reinstated and the parts that were never checked had to have warranty extensions this caused the company to have egg on their face and Karen to look bad during this time Karen also became more vindictive she would openly tell people she would never be fired and could do what she wanted she would walk the Departments and if she didn't like someone she would make the supervisors write them up by the end of the day she wanted us to find a reason and if we didn't she would take it out on the supervisors for example forcing the supervisors to stay late to do inventory or something else menial just because she could she wouldn't let the supervisors make any decisions until she approved so something like overtime had to wait for her approval and she wouldn't respond until the end of the day causing the Departments to scramble then if there weren't enough overtime employees to do the work she would blame it on the supervisors while the supervisors knew this wasn't right we all needed our job and tried to do the best we could for Karen and the the employees we were mainly rodeo clowns to Karen being the bull the first day Chris was back him and I were both pulled into Karen's office she started berating me on how poor of a job I was doing making her look bad and how I never came to her for help this made me speechless because of the previous comment she made and the fact that supervisor work was beneath her after the meeting I was still a bit stunned but I put it together that she was about to Railroad me out of the company and this was the first first step I called Joe and asked for a meeting that same day when I got together with Joe I started telling him about the things that were going on that he had no idea the harassment the abuse the vindictive nature ironically while I was speaking with him another supervisor called him to complain about Karen as well with the same grievances Joe was stunned and said he would speak with Karen but he gave me card blanch on any open spot in the company starting next day he really didn't want want to lose me I did a lateral transfer to a different department doing engineering and it work and I thought that was the end of it a few weeks later I was leaving work and Karen mentioned that I never turned in my laptop and phone do her I told her I didn't know I had to but I could give it to her tomorrow she smirked and said that she would get it back soon enough I didn't think too much of it at the time after about 6 months I had my review with my new boss Jake the review went great and he was very happy with my work and was a bit surprised at how fast I picked up things at the end of the meeting Jake mentioned offand how Karen tried to intervene in the review and get me fired but Joe stepped in and squashed it okay Karen now you pissed me off after I left Karen's Department the turnover rate went through the roof the supervisors were quitting at a rate of one every 3 months keep in mind that this is a legacy company that had multi-generations working fathers mothers Sons entire families some areas had three generations working side by side and yet Karen was rolling over employees and supervisors like a steamroller working for her became the kiss of death I casually mentioned to Joe about the turnover and he told me he couldn't figure out what was going on people were quitting without notice and no one was doing exit interviews I told Joe that Karen was riding people up to force them out when they would hand her the resignation letter or 2 weeks notice she would tell them to leave immediately and throw away the letter then she would tell the HR person that the person quit on the spot and that was the end of it Joe told me that because of who she was and how high she was the company wouldn't do anything to her until they had an airtight case so I went to work I took the supervisors working for Karen out drinking after work a few times a week and made sure I had my hand on the pulse if someone was quitting I made sure they emailed their letter of resignation to Karen and CC Joe and HR stayed for their exit interview and that they called the company Integrity hotline for good measure things were progressing well and I had all the supervisors on board except Chris Chris really needed the job and Karen was not riding him up through a stroke of luck I found out Karen was lowballing his raisings as a cost-saving measure that's why she wasn't harassing him when I told Chris he was Furious and he wanted to quit on the spot I encouraged him to speak with Joe before he leaves Joe and Chris had a very productive meeting and Chris decided to stay now all the supervisors were on board Joe brought in an HR big wig from the headquarters in Kansas and over the course of a week each Supervisor was sent in for an interview discreetly without Karen knowing by the time the interviews were over they had emails texts eyewitnesses and a mountain of evidence this next part I heard from other people HR Joe Etc despite everything the company wanted to keep this quiet so they brought in Karen and said they no longer needed her and offered a very generous severance package Karen being Karen lost it on the HR people she threatened to sue for discrimination and even called a lawyer that's when the company pulled out the stack of evidence and rescinded the severance offer after a few months Karen found a new job as a plant manager in a different Factory and I found out where I casually mentioned to the union reps at my factory where kieren was working and suggested that maybe they should give the Union at the other Factory a call she was fired within 3 months for employee harassment last I heard she had to sell her house and move out of the state to find a job this is just really disappointing to see from somebody that gets in that level of position but honestly it's not too surprising would you guys agree that a lot of times people who move into these managerial or supervisor positions they they often seek these roles out not to help the company or to move up in their career but to do so because they enjoy the power they have over people let me know if you agree with me in the comments down below and while you're at it make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos every single video has great stories like our next one by P leonov when you have very loyal Samurai in 1701 aano nagori and another Lord were ordered to arrange a reception for the emperor's envoys they went to Kira yoshinaka a court official to learn the court etiquette however Kira was an arrogant piece of poop and pushed around asano due to not getting bribed asano then lost his temper and wounded kirao with a dagger asano has just committed a crime violence in the Edo Castle was forbidden and as punishment asano committed seppuku slh harakiri his property was seized leaving his men with no leader and and his family with nothing 47 Ronin out of the 300 of aso's men vowed to take revenge Kira knew he would be attacked so he made sure he was protected the 47 leader oi spent his time drinking sleeping at broel participating in obscene acts all to lower Kira's guard and lowering his guard was the worst mistake he had made oi's acts continued for 2 years and on January 30th 7 1903 the 47 Ronin attacked Kira's house and fought all the men oi gave Kira the choice to commit zuku but Kira only crouched trembling oi then killed Kira with the same dagger his master used one of the Ronin terasaka reported what they had done and placed the head on aso's grave 46 of the Ronin surrendered and committed seppuku while terasaka was pardoned by the Shogun imagine being so dedicated to proving that you're you're not a threat that you spend 2 years just drinking sleeping around doing obscene acts and making a fool of yourself just so that 2 years later you can finally pull off a surprise attack what a crazy historical story and our final story of the days by tardan nator O2 repeatedly break into a cabin watch your head firstly this isn't mine it's from a book yes I like reading called cooled Vine cadest you only die twice where the writer from what understood is a morg worker where dead people's bodies go who's been working for a long time also he's been hearing some stories secondly it might be a little exaggerated it also happened in Finland so the laws are different lastly we fins usually go to our cabins only a few times a year in the summer and in the winter now on to the story shall we apparently there was a thief SL robber who repeatedly broke into a finish man's cabin the owner got pissed so he bought some bear traps and put them across the inside of his cabin and left he thought that the thief would be able to open the claws if he had stepped on it well the thief didn't get a chance when the owner came back the next winter he saw the thief dead on the floor with the claws around his crushed head apparently when he broke through the window he didn't go feet first like a normal person but he dove in head first I guess he didn't get the chance to say you should have gone for the head I'm not sorry the owner called the cops and they checked the crime scene Out and because the bear traps were inside his cabin he didn't even get a warning if they would have been on the yard it would have been a different story so I mean first of all this form of Revenge was already nuclear deciding in settling on a bear trap to be the ultimate solution to stopping somebody from ever returning after they break in and assumedly step into this maybe just about lose an ankle but honestly I can't imagine the horrendous feeling of getting back to your cabin noticing the window is broken opening that door and seeing what that guy saw there there's definitely some things you wouldn't be able to unsee in life and frankly stumbling across that opening your door to that scene probably to be honest that smell two would be a pretty Unforgettable thing I would imagine do you guys think that considering op intentionally put this bear trap in their house that they should be liable for some kind of crime or do you think considering it was in their cabin and the guy just dove in head first and tragically landed directly upon it that op should be pretty much scot-free and have no crime against them at all I'd like to know your guys' thoughts on this in the comments down below found my girlfriend cheating on me with my close friend I have him arrested and and ghosted her backstory incoming sadness my wife Rachel and I grew up in a largest town of close to 30,000 people we knew each other about an early age roughly six or seven can't specifically remember we were practically Inseparable at 16 we started dating each other when we turned 18 we moved away for work in a city just a few hours drive away by 20 we were married and had about our first house at 22 we discovered that she was pregnant with a boy it was then the disaster struck about 5 weeks before she was due to go on maternity leave a large shelving unit collapsed and crushed her I was told that her and our child were killed instantly two of her colleagues had also been injured in the accident one left paralyzed the other losing his leg after it had to be amputated the company she was working for had in a cost cutting measure decided to continue using old shelving that had been ridden off as unsafe instead of replacing reling it I still haven't quite forgiven those Executives and management Personnel that made that decision because they cut short the love of my life as well as killing our unborn child it wasn't long after I was told I had a choice on how to proceed with what her company called compensation but I called it blood money they wanted to settle out of court to avoid a lawsuit I on the other hand was out for their blood just to clarify here this is not the Revenge this is still backstory fortunately due to the coverage that it got and involving several politicians the case was settled quickly in court roughly 3 years in which the payout for all parties was close to 10 times the amount that they initially offered a lot of fines were given to them for breaches on work health and safety Executives were sacked others were jailed Etc a story for another time when I feel comfortable sharing in this time I was still working my job in telecommunications my mother blessed her soul and moved in while all this was happening to help me I think I would have fallen apart if she hadn't been as involved as she was it was around this time I was offered a promotion but it involved a lot of travel around the state I made a request to have an office in my hometown's Branch as I wanted to not only take care of businesses in the state but in my hometown also as there was no business representative located there to which they agreed after a few months we settled into the routine of 1 to two weeks in the city office one week in my hometown and one to two weeks weeks visiting the rest of the state after a year I decided to buy a house in my hometown so I wasn't having to stay at my parents' place every week or so that I was home and that I could come and go as I pleased this is important for later in the story it's about 4 years later that our Story begins I had just returned from one of my trips on Friday and was checking in some stuff in my office when Harry the Branch's managing director walked in we had grown up together also but had gone to different schools but since coming back had developed a a very close friendship he asked how things were and then asked me if I wanted to come to a house party that he was having that evening short notice and all but I said yes I felt like a few drinks with friends were in order it was there that Harry introduced me to Catherine she was a new hire at the branch where my hometown's office was located and was getting to know everyone being new in town we hit it off immediately as much of a cliche as it sounds it was almost as if Rachel was in front of me instead of Catherine I won't bore you too much with the details but after 2 years of dating we decided to take the next step and she moved into my hometown's house everything up to this point has been going really well Catherine and my parents got along and Rachel's parents also approved and were happy that someone could make me just as happy as Rachel had done all was going well for close to a year when things began to change Skype sessions were cut short suddenly neighbors would tell me about how a car described to me like ha hares was always seen parked in the back alley near my house whenever I was away some clothes that weren't mine were in my wardrobe all signs pointed to her cheating but she said that nothing was happening she said that Harry would come over occasionally to discuss business Etc but never stayed the night I chocked it up to me being paranoid and continued on as if nothing was wrong but there was always this feeling that something wasn't right it was close to 6 months after that I discovered that she had been lying to me I had just finished closing a rather large contract with a new company and negotiations had wrapped up earlier than I'd anticipated so instead of sticking around for the next few days I decided to pay for an early flight home and surprise everyone fast forward a few hours and I drive into my hometown and down the alley behind my house so that I could get into the house without being seen and surprise Catherine some part of me was curious however as to whether this mystery car was there sure enough there was a car that was blocking the back entrance gate I was confused for a moment wondering if it had just been a neglectful neighbor parking only to realize that it was indeed Harry's car if it hadn't been for the high hedg line that had put in a few years back for privacy I may have well driven past my own place pulling up behind his car I got out and thought it was strange that he was there so late as she claimed that he'd always left by now I approached the back of the house and I saw something that made my stomach drop in my kitchen Catherine and Harry were going at it hammer and Tong I froze time stopped there was my close friend hooking up on my kitchen bench with my girlfriend I didn't know what to do so many questions were running through my head was this real or was I dreaming why were they hooking up in my house feeling defeated I turned and left without them seeing me I sat in my car for what felt like an attor ET I was crying hard but the sadness quickly turned to anger the same kind of anger I felt towards those that were responsible for Rachel's death I wanted to hurt them badly as a pacifist I don't believe in violence it was then I knew I was going to punish them and destroy their lives and what better time to start than now I moved my car back up the alley far enough from my driveway that I could still see Harry's car and then walked back to the gate where I could see into the house and called her phone they were still going for it when it rang they looked at the caller ID and did a double take when my name came up I could see that she was considering answering it and they let it ring out after a few moments they were back into it again and I dialed once again this time she did answer as she was answering I hung up and made my way back to my car as soon as I did she called me back she asked why I was calling as late as I was and I told her that I was about 10 minutes from home and didn't want to scare her coming in she obviously was shocked and acted happy that I was coming and the call ended up very quickly after she said she was going to get up and get changed into something I said bye and hung up a few moments later Harry came peeling through the Gates still half naked jumped into his car and took off like a bad out of heck I smiled a little knowing the fear that both of them would be feeling from being so close to being caught I waited a few moments before turning my car into the same place har had been moments earlier the night was fairly uneventful afterwards and it wasn't until after she was asleep that I got up and went to my office down the hall I couldn't sleep I needed a plan and plan I did the Revenge my mother always taught me to be a pacifist and to allow Cosmic Karma to take its course but on this occasion I decided that Karma could use a helping hand I decided to punish them separately but destroy both of them I knew that Harry had had a drug habit nothing major but he kept it private I only knew about it after accidentally seeing some coke and weed left out in his place but pretended I hadn't seen it when he made attempts to cover it up I began calling some of my more unsavory clientele and made a few discreet inquiries into obtaining some samples that they were willing to part with a few days later I had a decent enough stash for my plan to work about a month later I had friends including Harry around for a barbecue night after making sure that I sufficiently liquored up Harry I told him to stay the night and sleep it off in the early hours of that morning I took the drugs and an assortment of my personal belongings and placed them at various places around his car with the biggest stash in his tire well confident that he wouldn't find them over the first few months as the rest of my plan took effect I locked the car up and went inside to sleep I also placed some more drugs and personal items in his house after driving him home because he was still too drunk to drive a few days later I staged a Breakin by Smashing the back pain of my back door into my kitchen and leaving it open before heading back to the city for a flight I had several messages the moment I landed one from my clearly panicked mom who had found the back door smashed open and had called the police one from Catherine in tears and a one from the local police asking me to call after returning all the calls I informed the police I was away on business and that I would be back the following week to talk with them while away I got Catherine to stay with my parents until after I got back and asked my dad to organize one of the local security companies to install cameras and an alarm system after getting the go-ahead from the police as to not ruin the scene of the crime after getting home I did the usual my God I can't believe this happened and why would anyone do this routine after doing a thorough check of everywhere finding that the items I had taken were missing and filing a police report I had the security company's rep talk Catherine and I through how the cameras an alarm system worked then came the question I'd been waiting for the question of what happens if we're doing some business and don't want to record it she acted a bit shy asking this question but I knew exactly the reason she was asking he assured us this was a question he got asked a lot and we were shown on the home computer if we wanted to be doing things without a being recorded how to stop the recording for certain cameras so that we could protect her modesty as I was walking him out I asked him if the cameras were turned off could a notification be sent out just as a security precaution he came back in and helped me through how to set up email notifications and left shortly after fantastic all I had to do was wait at this stage I approached r/ legal advice for some help in relation to couples law in my country I needed to make sure that my upcoming plan could illegally be done and that I wouldn't be forced to pay out any money or Equity to Catherine as I didn't know if we were classified as a deao couple or not being the sole benefactor of Rachel's estate I didn't want to be left with any nasty surprises where Catherine could take any of the estate away from me shout out to those guys and gals there as they helped me get in contact with a great lawyer who assured me due to the fact that although we'd been dating for close to 4 years we hadn't been living together long enough be classified as de facto and because I was paying all the utilities on the property that she was living in and didn't pay rent showed that she had no legal standing to make a financial claim against me just to be sure though he drew up what I felt was a pretty Ironclad document just in case there were any legal trouble the following week my work had approached me and offered me a promotion to move back to the city and run the team that I was a part of meaning I wouldn't need to travel as often and be in the one location and due to the success of being located in my hometown that they were considering having three to five Representatives spend one to two weeks in the larger surrounding towns including my hometown as part of my team I said yes and began the process of beginning my transfer which would take about 6 weeks perfect more than enough time to gather all my evidence upon getting back to my hometown the following week I began to start in motion the rest of my plan I asked Harry to approve one week's worth of vacation for Catherine for 2 weeks time I wanted to send her and a friend or two away on a retreat before I made the biggest decision of my life for a second time he jumped up and gave me a huge hug congratulating me on being prepared to take the leap again I hugged him back tight but not the way I think you'd imagine it at the time he agreed and blocked out the week for me I asked him not to say anything to anyone as I wanted to make it as big a surprise as I could good I knew that it would spread like wildfire around the office regardless but that was my plan that night I told Catherine that I'd booked her and two friends to go to a tropical spa resort all expenses paid for a week no questions asked picked two friends and come back to the biggest surprise of her life she screamed like a kid who had just been told that all the candy in the shop was hers to have I then told her that the following week I was going to spend it in the city preparing for a large client who was one of my biggest accounts and needed some people in my team to help before flying out the following week and I wouldn't be home until the Monday that she was leaving so I wouldn't be able to see her which seemed to disappoint her but I told her it would be worth it when she returned what I failed to tell her was that I had decided to take 2 weeks vacation on the other side of the country mentally preparing myself for the craft storm that was about to erupt the moment she stepped foot on the plane as well as was enjoying my first stage of freedom on Sunday 2 weeks later I flew back and began driving home once getting there I did a quick pass by my house and sure enough Harry's car was there like the first night i' caught them I parked a little ways back and checked the cameras asleep in my bed no surprise honestly as I'd recorded them constantly doing this over the 2 weeks I'd been away I then made my first call to the police blocking my caller ID I told them that I was one of my neighbors and saw someone hanging around in their car in the alley behind my house and occasionally passing something through Windows to passing cars while also looking into my yard and I was concerned that they were dealing drugs or going to break into someone's property I gave them his license plate in description they said they would have someone there in a few minutes so I thanked them and hung up I then called Catherine and told her I was about 10 minutes from home and that I knew she was flying out tomorrow but desperately wanted to surprise her looking back at the footage now I laugh at the commotion that I'm surprised I didn't hear in a few short seconds Harry was half-dressed and flying out the back door to his car at that point I couldn't have asked for a more perfect scene as Harry was peeling away one of the police cars rounded the corner behind me saw Harry driving away fast and gave chase after pulling in greeting an excited Catherine and doing all the couple things she fell asleep again on the other hand couldn't sleep a wink the next day her and her friends were bundled into a car after they drove away I had to wait a few hours but I began to execute my plan I called my friend who was a removalist and apologized for the late notice but needed my place packed and moved on Friday after agreeing on a time I told him that he would need to take certain boxes to a storage facility which he said wasn't an issue then I began packing Catherine's belongings later that day I got a call from from the police for me to come and identify some property that they'd apprehended from a suspect the previous night that fit the description of property I had reported stolen I grinned to myself happy that my plan for Harry had grown to fruition and replied that I would be there shortly to collect it of course when I got there some of the items were still unaccounted for due to the fact that they must have still been in his house and they hadn't searched there yet by this stage the town was buzzing with news events in my hometown don't stay secret for long Harry was disgraced and promptly fired for his possession of drugs and stolen property and our respective bosses on behalf of the company had extended a formal apology towards me during the week that night I went to my parents house and told both mine and Rachel's parents what had happened admitting certain details and that I was moving back to the city after being promoted but Catherine wouldn't be a part of it they were pretty upset initially that I hadn't let them know what was going on but they were happy that I was handling everything maturely and hadn't sunk to their level though they didn't agree with Ghost and Catherine but after some drinks laughs and tears I went home on Friday afternoon after a busy week of organizing cleaners for the following week the real estate to put my house on the rental market and various other tasks at my hometown's office I packed some things into my car and drove to my parents' place and said good by before the drive before leaving I went to Becky's house Becky had been one of Rachel's closest friends growing up she was the only other person who knew what was happening minus the details about Harry without her help I wouldn't have been able to organize everything as quickly as I had I gave Becky a large manila folder with my gathered evidence of her cheating as well as the letter and a few other legal documents from my attorney stating that she was ordered not to contact me and the details of how to access her belongings located at the storage unit I'd rented out after a quick goodbye I left and drove back to the city on Sunday I woke up to several Miss calls voice messages and text messages turns out Catherine had come home early after being alerted to something being a foot in the town only to find an empty house and a forent sign out the front freaking out she'd gone to my parents who closed the door on her the moment that they answered forcing her to call everyone until she managed to somehow be contacted by Becky and was told that she had a package for her I was told that she didn't take too well to that as I fully well knew at that point from the numerous angry texts and voice messages from her accusing me of setting up hay of being deceitful Etc I was worried that she might show up at my front door but nothing ever happened 5 weeks later after leaving and being promoted I write this out for you dear reader granted it's long and it took a few rewrites to shorten it down from my initial 14 pages but I feel that most of what I said was important enough for the story do you guys think that op went too far here or do you just understand like with everything that they went through and what they experienced in this situation do you just understand or was it just too much planting all that stuff let me know what you guys think in the comments down below standing up to my workplace bully led to unforeseen consequences let me start one out by saying that I fully intended to seek revenge on the person in this story but the Aftershock of the eventual confrontation is what led to the aformentioned consequences rather than by my direct actions I work in the UK for a large technology company doing software support I'm part of a team that has members all over the world I've been in this job for around 10 years and other than the major issues I've had with this guy I truly enjoy my job when I started with the company I wouldn't say that I was Green I had about seven years industry experience under my belt I was definitely inexperienced with the company but the job that I'd been hired to do use technologies that I was more than comfortable with the point I'm trying to convey here is that I wasn't completely oblivious to all of the applications supported by our company everyone on my team around 30 of us was very nice and was very keen to help except for Shane Shane is probably what you would term the team Guru about 5 Years From retirement part of the office furniture metaphorically as we were all home workers he'd been with the company for nearly 40 years everyone labeled Shane as the only guy to go to when you were truly in a bind when I was initially starting out I did indeed find that Shane was highly knowledgeable and more often than not had the answers to whatever obscure questions you might have things were great and our team ticked over nicely I got to know the rest of the team well over phone over time too and my best friend was a woman named Mel she was of a similar age and experience level to Shane and in my opinion was just as knowledgeable as him one day Mel and I were on a brief call chatting about a work issue when we got to shooting the breeze for a while we talked about ourselves and also the team I had said that I hadn't met anyone face to face yet and that is when she told me that she once met Shane in person a couple of years ago they're both based in the US I'm in the UK and both got invited to a Tech Conference in New York she told told me that he has serious health issues due to his weight around 450 lb and when he was home was often on oxygen and medication his plan was to ride things out until he was able to take early retirement so that he didn't need to worry about paying for his medical insurance anymore that sounded like a reasonable enough plan to me and we were soon talking about something else the issue started about 2 years into my tenure with the company we started moving in a New Direction with what applications we were going to be offer offering to customers and towards that end we were trained in a bunch of new stuff I saw this as a great opportunity and equalizer if no one on our team had any experience with this new software then I would be on equal footing with everyone this went really well for me and I put a lot of time and effort into learning as much as possible Shane didn't show much interest in the new stuff he still continued to spend most of his time with the Legacy Tools in team meetings you could clearly tell he was getting pissed off that his status as a guru was gradually becoming more and more meaningless this wasn't anything personal we work in software you have to adapt in order to remain competitive as time went on it was becoming clear to the team how much work I was putting in and I was well on the way to becoming the go-to guy for the new software during this time Shane would start sniping at me for anything he could plausibly manage for example if I was late to a team meeting because a customer call over ran he'd make sure to interrupt whatever was being said to comment something like oh look op's bothered to Grace us with his presence even though he'd been guilty of the same in the past things like email chains too almost anything I sent out that included him and our boss on an email he would reply with some unrelated complaint or observation completely irrelevant to what was actually being discussed one day Mel called me and asked me what my beef with Shane was I truthfully told told her that I'd had no beef at all with him and he just seemed to have it in for me she said that if she managed to find anything out she'd let me know things continued like this for a couple of years I continued to be their go-to guy and he continued to try to discredit me and generally pay me in a bat as light as possible one day we had a major incident one that literally could have cost the company millions and SLA fines if it was not solved quickly our manager split us into teams to troubleshoot specific areas is and she paired me up with Shane I wasn't happy about it but whatever I was a professional we got on a call and started working through the issue as our call progressed it was becoming abundantly clear why he didn't like me he knew nothing about the new application he hadn't done any work on it at all everything I asked him to check he needed handholding even for the most basic of tasks eventually I just stared at my screen and said for him to watch me I went into the guts to the system through so many logs explaining to him what I was doing the whole time and eventually found the problem was with a recent patch that we'd installed at this point he dropped from the call I didn't think anything of this at the time we use Skype for business and it can be flaky so I just continued what I was doing our process was not to roll back any changes until it had been approved by the senior manager as I was the one responsible for deploying and rolling back patches I made some notes about what we needed to do and then rejoin the main call I wasn't worried at all because bad patches happened every so often they just didn't usually have this level of impact as soon as I did I got absolutely destroyed by the incident manager apparently Shane had returned to the group call and informed everyone present that the outage was caused by an error that I had made in the deployment process and that Shane had told me what the correct fix was and I'd refused to implement it then and there I was Furious he had accurately told them the cause of the problem because it was me who literally demonstrated to him how to find it I had even foolishly mentioned to him what I thought would fix the problem because of how long he'd been with the company compared to me only our immediate team knew the truth about who was really the better skilled person in this situation his historical reputation still carried a lot of weight with people who didn't work day-to-day with him because this incident was so major over a 100 people were on this call several of them two or three levels of management above our team he made me out to be a reckless incompetent idiot and he was believed despite my manager's protests I was disciplined and given a verbal warning he meanwhile was congratulated for steering the company away from a potential disaster and given a commendation I was so angry and a while later Mel gave me a call apparently Shane had been bragging to her about putting that smart butt punk in his place she was shocked and asked him what he was talking about his real beef was that he thought I disrespected him by trying to take over his role as go-to guy for the new software that wasn't my intention at all I didn't see it as my fault that he was too darn lazy to do the work again I lamented with Mel that she should have recorded the call she laughed and said that Skype shows when you're recording a call and he'd never have spilled his guts while being recorded I immediately Had a Brain Wave I decided that I would confront Shane oneon-one I pinged him on Skype and said that I wanted to talk he responded with a smiley and just said sure I called him and let him know I was recording this call and the Skype notification popped up to let all participants know that this call was being recorded I went right for it and accused him of lying about the major incident and said that it seemed like he had a major beef with me as expected he lied and said that he was sorry that I felt like I had to react this way he said that he would need to talk to our boss about it I said wait one second and turned off the Skype recorder I then said that Skype isn't recording and that he knew exactly what he had done his mask slipped at this point and he said that he was perfectly in his rights to put me in my place he said that you need to respect the longer serving people in jobs like this and that he would do it again in a heartbeat I didn't hold back I called called him a dinosaur who refused to move with the times and wanted to Coast out his days here without doing any work he said that he was a couple of years away from retirement and he'd be darned if he was going to bust his butt for some shiny new software I said to him speaking of new software has he heard of OBS of course he hadn't and I suggest that he Google it I then hung up on him not long after the messages started he was begging me not to use the secret recording that I'd taken he said that if he gets fired he'll lose his retirement package and his medical benefits I told him to go screw himself and that he should have considered that before trying to get me fired I passed all of this on to the relevant channels before really giving it any thought things set in motion and sure enough a few weeks later after a company investigation he was fired I heard from Mel that he had asked to take an early retirement so as to keep his benefits but this was apparently rejected it all came out later that apparently he had significant debts and that he was counting on his retirement package to keep him financially afloat with no job and no package he had no money to pay for the medical treatment which he badly needed he was in no state to get himself a new job and his skills had stagnated so badly that he couldn't even get a new job online Mel told me he passed about 6 months after this whole incident due to his ongoing health issues I felt conflicted about this for a while sharing the recording obviously contributed to his death but I don't know how bad I feel about it I'm a young guy trying to build my career and he actively tried to destroy me I should maybe have held off when he pleaded for me to not reveal the truth but he was old enough and wise enough to not engage in the childish games he played if I had known he' been gone as a result of this I'd maybe have done things differently it's one that stays with me that's for sure I'm still at this company and I can tell you that I will never treat a new employee the way he treated me so maybe the breaking of that cycle is the positive to come out of all of this so considering the outcome do you think if op could have a second go around that they should withhold that information after they were pleading or considering everything that cooworker did did they deserve it regardless of that outcome let me know what you guys think in the comments down below and by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons down below too if you do so you'll never miss out on any of my daily uploads each one has great stories like our final story of the day written by do stinko Uno Pinko my Petty Revenge led me to a nuclear Revenge victim I needed to go into DC for a couple hours yesterday afternoon to tie a few things up at work before leaving for vacation I didn't leave until a bit after noon so I was pretty hungry and decided to stop at this nice little Deli SLG grocery store on the way for a sub it's a small establishment but pretty popular the parking lot is kind of weird the spaces are on the small side and it's very narrow I drive a full-size truck because I have to tow heavy crap often I spot a corner space that's going to be easy for me to get in and out of so I go for it I back in partially and then pull out to straighten it up and a lady swoops in my space in a little Fiat I put my truck in park and look through the back window she was on the phone when I gave a little honk she looked up and gave me the finger I gave her a slow shaking head and a thumbs down I don't know why but that gesture seems more impactful to me like disappointment versus anger I found myself another spot and started making my way to the deli the angry lady was still engaged in her conversation now behind me walking to the deli she's talking loudly on her phone about the redneck that almost wrecked her car in the parking lot trying to gain sympathy from whoever she was speaking to like I God darn tried to assault her with my vehicle so as I'm in line to take a number to be served it clicks I can mess with her a little bit today I reach up to take my number and pull the next 10 tucking them in as I turn around so the angry lady didn't see them I make my way down the line passing out the extra numbers ahead of hers and mine putting 10 people ahead of us to order and receive food making her wait an extra 20 or so before she even got to order here's where it gets a little fun my number was directly before hers so I just just waited at the counter after they called mine as the girl walked up with the next sub I asked if it was number 469 the angry lady sub it was of course so the deli never called her number and I bought both subs I don't know how long she waited before she asked about her order but I do hope she wasn't a jerk to the workers the second part of this is what I did with the extra sub I told a story from college a while back and in the comments I mentioned that I try to be a little extra now part of that is being kind of strangers I work in DC there's a ridiculous amount of homeless people here so I pack an extra lunch a few days a week to eat with some random person the extra sub was going to be my lunch date with whoever I ran into that looked like they needed a meal after I parked my truck I found my overpriced parking spot quickly and grabbed the sandwiches and a couple bottles of water before making the track towards work I spotted a guy sitting on a bench with a little sign asking for change I asked him if he'd like to have lunch with me his eyes lit up and he shook his head yes we had a little casual conversation and he asked me why I bought him a sandwich I told him that oddly enough I bought it out of spite and told him how I came into ownership of said sub he laughed said it was fate that Revenge brought him a sandwich and proceeded to tell me the following story that led to him to the life he now lives he was a young investment Baker in the late '90s making serious money he was married and had a sex addiction he would spend spend thousands of dollars on high dollar entertainers to do all kinds of weird stuff to him he eventually got himself a sugar baby and set her up with an apartment in the city he had no interest in children but his wife did so he got a secret visectomy thinking that he was only going to be hooking up with two people now he liked the idea of no condoms or babies at either house his plan was to stay at the apartment for a couple of weeks to heal while his wife thought he was in San Francisco go for business unfortunately for him his urologist's office called his home line to check in after a couple of days this is when his wife started to learn of all his illicit Behavior the cheating the spending the stealing of her future family over the weeks he was gone she uncovered his secrets to her and she sat on it he told me in the weeks and months after his vasectomy she started wanting to go out get drunk experiment with drugs hugs and hooking up with groups he was amazed at how much he and her were in sync now he loved their Newfound lifestyle he really loved the white powder so much so that he had to evict his sugar baby from the 7 to eight grand he was spending a month on Blow he couldn't handle the expense anymore along with his habit luckily his wife was still ride or die with the swinging snorting life they had built so he was going to be okay and she was going along with every fantasy recing men and women to hook up with she kept building up this fantasy of having a threesome with his boss's wife whispering things in his ear when they were hooking up just really putting her at the Forefront of his thoughts Christmas party time rolls around and the whole staff is wasted she keeps ad him about the forbidden fruit the boss's wife goes to the restroom and his wife follows her after a few minutes they come out and the boss's wife waves at him as his wife approaches she tells him that she's down to to swap and that's why she waved next time she goes to the restroom he should just follow her in she kept him at her side and fluffed him until she sent him gleefully trailing behind his superior's wife into the restroom no that's not at all what she was actually waving for wifey had said that he didn't think she'd seen him all night and a wave would make him feel better he exposed himself and said he couldn't wait to taste what her husband left in his wife after the scream in this lap the party halted the next day he was fired and subsequently black balled from his industry his white powder habit sucked what little finances he had left after the divorce he couldn't keep a job after his life fell apart he's now homeless and has done some deprived things for a warm place to sleep and a meal no not for this meal I mean honestly all I know is that story is insane and frankly I feel like the money they spent on that sub was well worth it getting a story like that in return fooled my cheating soon to be ex-wife into the thinking I was cheating then thermonuclear Shinobi ghosted and served her Christmas day I hope you've got some time and a snack because this one's going to be super long as the events that follow Spann from late 2019 to last week as per the rules all names are altered here in okay so here's the backstory my soon to be ex-wife was my high school sweetheart we started dating in 1992 when we were both 17 we're both 45 now and I've been together ever since she's the only woman I've ever been with my entire life we married 5 years later at 22 fresh out of college a year later we had our first of two children both boys 22 and 17 203 years I gave to her built her a house worked my butt off to give her the life she wanted sure we had rough batches but what marriage doesn't even in the worst of times we found a way to pull through and come out the other side better which made the discovery of her aair that much more jarring flash back to March 2020 when I first got the Feeling something was off for a good two months prior we were in a funk I was on the men from reconstructive knee surgery blew out my ACL fall 2019 but still lacking in movement at the time I only had about 55% range of motion on my knee this took quite a toll in the house I was out on workers comp as I'd been injured on the job and I was unable to do my usual household Duty so a lot got backed up my sons would do what they could but tasks only I was capable of doing had to be put on the back burner or my wife had to do which she wasn't pleased with things also crawled to a standstill in the bedroom between us it had already slowed down prior to my injury but in the state I was in at the time it completely stopped during these months she we'll call her Sue was spending more time hanging with co-workers after work between November 2019 to March 2020 it was a regular occurrence for her naturally I thought nothing of it I've never in the 23 years I'd been with her had any reason to worry or not trust her she has her friends I have mine and we have mutual I'd go hang out with my friends all the time and there was no issue it was all above board it was around January of this year that I noticed something odd Sue started getting noticeably distant with me sure we were in a funk but she never denied me affection to that point the usual hugs and kisses she'd gave me came to a halt her phone was attached to her hand long before my suspicion grew but she'd always share and show me things she'd discovered on the web DIY interests and recipes on Pinterest memes all kinds of stuff but she was now being guarded about her phone even her interactions with me became more snippy as if she couldn't be bothered so we're now in March Co has arrived in New York City's lockdown our chosen careers fall under the essential designation so neither of us have to work from home i' just been recently cleared to return to work after 5 months on the shelf and I was eager to get back after it as 5 months on my butt rehabbing my knee and not being able to do physical stuff drove me nuts for context I enjoy physical activities I'm an avid martial artist and I'm typically in the gym 4 days a week on top of all the home projects I did within a week or two of the lockdown my soon Tobe ex-wife alerts me that she's going to have to start putting in extra hours again again I think nothing of this because of her field of course I was under the assumption it'd be every other day but no it was every day and not just an hour or two she'd come home three or more hours later and go straight to the shower spend a little time with me a little time with our 17-year-old 22-year-old lives with his girlfriend cross town and then go to bed as I'm able to support myself on my knee better we started getting into again but as you'd probably guess she wasn't mentally or emotionally present for it which I noticed quickly so by early April the picture started getting clearer to me all of the signs were pointing to the idea that she was having an affair that's when I decided I needed to find answers so I scoured the internet on things I should be looking for signs of infidelity in one's partner and sure enough she was pretty much taking all of the boxes on such Behavior so then my search in query Advanced to how do I find proof I started with her social media looking at her Facebook entries from months prior it's pretty much the usual picks of us and our sons picks with her and her friends and a few more picks of her nights out with co-workers in these pics it's a mixed bag of her closest friends from work and a couple of folks I've never met from her work but I see one recurring thing in a number of these picks one guy in every picture he's in he's rather un comfortably close to her his arms around her shoulder or hand on her lower back way too close for a guy I've never personally met needless to say that put a sour taste in my mouth but that wasn't the worst of it no no no the worst was the fact that apparently this dude is a friend of hers on Facebook and follows her on Instagram so we go to look up his Facebook account and wouldn't you know it I'm blocked why the heck am I blocked from seeing this guy's Facebook account but he's friends with her on Facebook yep I'm now in Batman detective mode at that point I wasn't even trying to deny it I knew she was cheating on me with this guy my mission was to find out for how long and over the course of April and May that's what I did you know I never had any clue the depth of info you could secure from phone text and email records up until then we have a family cell phone package and I was able to pull up quite a bit of data my soon Tobe ex-wife's data history was telling the two most frequent numbers she had interacted with from October 2019 to April 2020 was my own and a number I've never seen before take a while guess whose number it was a quick check on Google and I confirmed it was the dude from the photos who blocked me on Facebook we'll call him POS cuz that's what he is again the picture becomes even clearer at this point but a lot of their messages and texts were disjointed which meant she was deleting a lot of them I knew she was cheating on me with this guy but nothing in the data could serve as a Smoking Gun I needed more evidence it's at this point that I tell my best friend Oz what I'd found he asked me did I confront her with what I had and I said no because I felt like it wasn't enough that's when he told me about an app that I could download to apparently spy on her Communications in real time I won't say the name as I don't know the rules on that here I got it installed sync up my data plan and waited within days of doing so I finally saw it a texturing between the two of them talking about how much fun they'd had the previous night and making plans to do it again that weekend boom gut punch to say I was completely devastated was an understatement I guess that moment counts as my D-Day and for the next 2 days after I was just broken I actively distanced myself from her those 2 days immediately after D-Day which she was noticeably shaking by she tried to cons St me and ask me what was wrong but I'd brush it off and leave her pres I couldn't even look at her this woman who I gave 23 years of my life to who I had given everything I could and more to as a husband and she stepped outside of our marriage for a guy just 5 years older than our eldest son by the third day I wasn't even sad anymore I was pissed I contacted my friend oz to let him know my suspicion was confirmed and he asked me had I confronted her yet my answer was was no and I told him I wanted payback I didn't want to just divorce her I wanted to destroy her I wanted to leave her life in shambles and freaking ruin her it was going to take time to do so and I devised to plan in my readings and research on infidelity I had saw a quote that resonated with me that went the enemy of infidelity is unpredictability or something to that elk that was going to be the basis of my plan I was going to make her life hack on wheels while also secretly planning my exit strategy so we're now in early June and I've got the app still installed pretty much every night I'm gathering as much data as I can seeing their back and forth messages they're talking like it's a full-blown relationship they in sexting lovey-dovey romantic stuff inappropriate photos the whole freaking bag at that point I'd stopped looking at any of it I was just collecting info and cataloging on my private FPS server meanwhile I start doing things out of the ordinary I start going out at odd times I start coming home later than she does and her presence I'm on my phone a lot more than usual and when she asks what are you up to I just simply say just stuff and put my phone away I'd also changed my login info on everything so she couldn't access any of my stuff mind you for our entire marriage we did never hit anything from each other but right around I'm assuming the start of her Affair she' changed her password on Facebook as well as on her phone stating she had to because of the security breaches in recent months yeah really nice cover for hiding your Affair from your husband anyway I'd include oz in on my plan as well as telling my older and only sister and two more of my closest friends what was going on these are people I trust with my life and I swore them to secrecy for context Oz and I have been friends since we were kids the other of our friends Joey and nah we've known since high school make note of nah she comes into play down the road July comes and my soon Tobe ex-wife is in full paranoia mode she's texting and calling me a lot more frequently now asking me if I'm going to be home when she gets home when am I coming home while she is and I'm not asking me what I'm up to the works I can see the seed planted in her head the month prior is starting to sprout especially in her communication with POS she's confiding in him her doubt and confusion telling him that I'm getting cold and distant the freaking nerve of this woman in the interim of these interactions with POS she suggests that maybe they should stop meeting up at our house because she has no idea if I just show up confirming that yes she's had this jerk wad in my home thanks Sue POS asks her in that specific communication was she worried about me potentially cheating on her which actually pissed her off I can't even begin to describe the level of joy and how many laughs I got out of reading that exchange my cheating wife arguing with her Affair partner over if she's mad her husband could be cheating on her oh the freaking irony now bear in mind I'm not hooking up with anyone when I leave I'm usually at Oz's or Joey's throwing back some booze watching fights and spending some time with my Bros or at my big sister's house hanging with her and my brother-in-law who's like an older brother to me my sis is 52 and her hubby's 8 she had told him about my soon to be ex-wife's infidelity but not of my plan couldn't risk it as he's a bit of a blabber mouth we'll fast forward now to October that's when things seriously pick up I've been in my faux Affair for 3 months now and Sue is hyper aware of the fact that I'm actively pulling away from her it's been as long as the day I enacted my plan until the day she confronted me October 20th 2020 that I had even touched her no hugs no kisses no initiation of intimacy nothing not like she needed it she was still screwing POS just at his place or at motels so that afternoon she calls me at work which wasn't rare before this all began but certainly hadn't happened in a while and asks me to come straight home after work saying she had something important to tell me I'm not going to lie to you all I half believ she was going to come clean about her infidelity but she of course didn't instead I get home to her asking me if I was unhappy with her the freaking nerve she cites the fact that I've been spending way too much time away from home I don't show her affection anymore and our sex life has completely died she tells me she's worried I'm pushing her away because I was resentful of how she treated me the months I was rehabbing my knee and then came the punchline she freaking asked if I was cheating on her folks I fell on the floor laughing hysterically and when I say hysterically I mean Joker laughing gas hysterical on the surface it looked like to her assuming it was me laughing off the notion of being unfaithful but it was of course actually me laughing at the sheer irony of what was happening in front of my eyes I'm tearing up pouting on the floor and complete hysterics for a good 2 minutes before I compose myself enough to answer I sit up and look her in the eyes for the first time in months shaking my head but I don't give her an answer I stand up Rush myself off kiss the top of her head and go about settling in for the night later that night as I'm in my office I decide you know what given the brevity of what happened I wanted to see what she was telling him so I fire up the app and sure enough they're actually texting in real time she tells POS I know he's cheating on me I asked him tonight and he literally laughed in my face he fell on the floor and laughed for like 5 minutes it wasn't 5 minutes obviously he doesn't care how I feel anymore I don't know how or why but he's gone I know I've lost him this is karma I know it the smile on my face I had while reading that must have resembled a Cheshire Cat she was breaking POS attempted to console her saying that if I cared enough for her she wouldn't have had to come to him to give her what I wasn't giving her but the tone of her responses told me she was having doubt now she had the nerve to step out of our marriage because I was unable to fulfill my role as a husband due to a legitimate injury and kept the affair going for at that point nearly an entire year but the idea of her losing me to another woman was enough to make her waiver what a freaking weakling now during all of this I was also exacting the second part of my plan for payback getting all of my Affairs in order financially in September ID met with a family attorney to get the ball rolling on divorce papers with the mountain of evidence I'd piled up to that point New York is an at fault state as far as divorce and the overwhelming amount of proof I'd gathered Des playing Sue infidelity pretty much solidified I could nail her to the freaking wall in a divorce case my lawyer instructed me to get all of my financials in order and preparation for whatever division of assets might come as a result I went one better than that secretly pulling all of my money out of our joint account and putting it in my personal account I also started shopping around for an apartment as part of phase 2 we're now in November and I've not changed my behavior in fact I've ramped it up this is where my friend nah comes into play for context nah and Sue have never been what you call close I met Nina freshman year of high school 2 years before I met Sue even way back then sue had seen nah as a threat as she's my closest female friend there's always been an implied I don't trust her from Sue regarding nah she's never addressed it directly but it's obvious to anyone who pays attention conversely Nina's never been a big fan of Sue early in me and Sue's relationship nah called to attend mentioned to me how Sue is pretty much imposing herself into our little square of friends whereas I didn't do the same with Sue set of friends that irked nah because she knew why Sue was doing it her among Sue's Circle even now there are no male friends aside from POS whereas nah is the only girl in my Square nah had been stuck overseas due to the virus and finally returned to New York City November 3rd Oz Joey and I decided we were going to celebrate her return with a night at Joey's house for dinner and drinks there was only five of us Oz Joey Joey's wife who's also Nina's sister nah and myself sticking to CDC guidelines we take Theona very seriously nah being the evil mastermind she is comes up with an evil idea to trigger Sue she suggested we take some photos in the same vein of photos I discovered of Sue and POS months prior and post them to my Facebook and that's just what we did it wasn't until the 5ifth that Sue got a wind of it as I'm guessing a few friends noticed my updates and saw how uncomfortably close I was with nah this really messed her mind up because she still believed I was cheating and I can almost guarantee she wanted to accuse nah but she knew that nah had been stuck in Europe for the majority of the Year still didn't stop her from attempting to dress me down that night for being so as she said handsy in the pics I saw this as a golden opportunity to deliver the lead jab for my knockout BL I say so what about the picks with you and POS from last year he was pretty handsy in them but did you see me get bent out of shape over it deer and headlights it was the first time I even mentioned the dude's name throughout all of this the hamster wheel in her head started reeling in real time as she tried to explain away those pcks to that point she hadn't even known I saw them That's how little I use Facebook when I actually do post something it's like an event to people which is why the picks with nah specifically got so much traction among our circles and explain a way she did he's that way with everyone he's just a really friendly guy I can see how it looks but there's nothing there I'm sorry if those pics hurt you I'll delete them no no the pics aren't what hurts me the year you've been hooking up with the dude whil it's lying to me that you're working extra hours and hanging with friends is what hurts me but Vengeance as Lieutenant Commander Warf from Star Trek the Next Generation so famously said is a dish best served cold from that night Sue was being extra specially clingy and attentive to me like annoyingly so she' try to initiate affection and intimacy with me and I'd Stonewall her at every chance all of the while I'm archiving literally everything she says to POS mind you at this point I'd long since gone numb any desire I might have had to save my marriage was dead i' checked out the day I enacted the first phase of my plan she's confiding in him that I've gotten worse that she doesn't know what to do and she feels like I absolutely hate her I do then comes the bombshell she says she can't see him anymore the guilt is too much for her and she feels like karma is suffocating her she can't risk losing me she says that she loves POS deeply but she still is in love with me and she has to save her marriage before she loses me no my dear you're about 8 months too late for that BOS loses his crap saying such lovely things as doesn't love you the way I love you and you're making a mistake you can't just throw me away like this that text chain would be the last they'd have until about 3 weeks ago throughout the remainder of November into December she's stuck in limbo she's trying to gauge where my head space is and is still unable to tell if I'm actually being unfaithful meanwhile POS is steadily blowing her phone up daily but she's not responding to him I'd see her check her phone often then quickly put it away meanwhile phase two of the plan with was now officially complete the divorce papers were done I found me a studio apartment in Co-op City New Yorkers will know the area and signed a 2-year lease on it all of my money was in my personal account I was ready to throw my hay maker so we're now at Thanksgiving my oldest and his girlfriend were hosting a small gathering of our immediate families so them oldest and his girlfriend oldest girlfriend's parents she's an only child myself Sue and our youngest we have a great night my oldest girlfriend is studying to be a chef and she did all the cooking herself the girl can freaking cook let me tell you as I had to keep up appearances of nothing being wrong between Sue and I I initiated affection with her several times that evening kisses on the cheek cute little hugs wrapping my arms around her shoulders from behind the gestures didn't go unnoticed by her as she reveled in it bear in mind this was the first time I touched this woman since I kissed the top of her head the night she confronted me in October October so just about 2 months not going to lie I felt repulsed doing it but I had to I couldn't risk the plan and me being distant to her in the face of my boys my oldest's girlfriend and her parents would set off alarms so my youngest decides he wants to stay over with his big bro for the night so Sue and I head home on the drive home she thanks me for being so good to her and says I don't know what you're going through baby but I'm here for you I had to hold off busting out a maniacal laughter again responded saying I know I just need time so for the first time realistically since Springtime we hooked up that night I figured screw it with what I'm about to do may as well get some action before I delete her from my existence I won't go into detail but it wasn't love making when I finished she was a lump of Flesh laying there trying to figure out the direction of the truck that ran her over no cuddling or anything after I just got up showered and went to go sleep in my office to her confusion though I used protection first time in two darn decades I did she was definitely perplexed by it but she didn't ask questions sh asach wasn't going raw knowing that she'd been doing so with POS for months at that point I wake up the next day and check my handy dandy spy app and for the first time in weeks she responded to POS dude went full Nolla he professed his love for her said she was wasting her time trying to rekindle a flame in me that died that she'd have been inap risen with me for 23 years and deserve to experience the love and affection of a man that would cherish her mind you this dude is 27 freaking years old 5 years older than our oldest son and he's that sprung on a 45-year-old married mother of two what a grade A highquality simp she chose to blow up our marriage and destroy the home we'd Built For This dude a pretty boy with a soft side H she responded saying pretty much the same thing she said when they last talked that she loved them and enjoyed their time together but she can't lose me I'm still the love of her life but she'll always have a place for him in her heart that they can still be friends if he chooses but the physical relationship between them is over he begged her to see him one last time that week and yep you guessed it she said yes one more for the road right who am I to say anything that's what I did to her the previous night of course I added all of that to the archive I'd compiled December 4th is when phase three the Final Phase of operation Shinobi ghost started the divorce papers were in hand my new place or residence was set up now I had to slowly start moving my stuff out of the house but first I had to break the news to my boys I called my oldest to the house that Friday night had them join me in my office and laid everything on the table not the specifics but that their mother had been cheating on me for over a year and I was going to be filing for divorce soon my 17-year-old old was especially shaken up by this because he himself had recently experienced his first taste of infidelity yep his first girlfriend had cheated on him just four months prior seeing his heart broken a second time at the idea that his own mother was capable of doing this hit him hard my oldest took it a lot better and suggested taking his brother in to live with him until this blows over to which I agree we packed up some of his stuff and he asked me if I was going to be okay I told him yes son I'm going to be all right and so are you we're going to be all right I promise and then they were off the hardest part was now over and it was now time to arm the nukes over the next few weeks day by day Oz would help me get a little of my most sensitive stuff out of the house gave him a list of all the definite stuff to grab while Sue and I were at work and left him the spare key this was all stuff that Sue wouldn't notice was missing unless he told her it was gone I'd also gotten a new phone and a phone number and told everyone who needed to to know Oz Joey nah my boys big sis and my mother my new contact info meanwhile I'm keeping up the ruse with Sue and she's none the wiser trickling bits and pieces of affection to her just to keep her off the trail whilst she's still in contact with POS not to the extent that they'd been prior but there's still an emotional thing happening the fog is faint but it's still there all the while I gather everything and I do mean everything every bit of data I've archived since I started the plan in call logs texts picks emails everything and start making printouts folks I must have spent over $1,500 on Staple supplies printer ink paper binders the works and I cataloged everything in order from the beginning of the affair until that last bit 2 weeks ago December 16th in the binders 14 of them I then put each one in a box and gift wrapped each addressing them to various people my mother my father pass last 7 years ago her parents her two sisters her brother her HR department did I forget to mention POS works for the same company and there's an expressed rule against intercompany relationships because of the nature of what she does several of her friends POS and P's parents lugged all those freakers to the post office and shipped them all out December 16th ETA for the delivery December 22nd to 24th perfect so we're now at Christmas Eve Sue comes home around the usual time no idea if she'd seen POS I'd stopped tracking her on the app the 18th figure I'd gotten all the mileage I'd need out of it as per usual she showers hangs out with me a bit I blow her back out on the living room couch I know I'm a freaking jerk and she turns in for the night the Final Phase was upon me at long last the new guy had been arming since June was finally about to be launched in the middle of the night I woke up and wrapped up one of the three remaining binders with the divorce papers taped to the inside cover and set it on my side of the bed with a note that said Merry Christmas on it next to it I left my old phone and the business card of my lawyer I packed up the remainder of my most needed items enough to fill two backpacks and I left my home that I spent 23 years in for the last time that my friends was one week ago to Sue I'm completely off the grid gone Shadow ghosted she's blocked on Facebook but still hasn't blocked me for some reason so I'm keeping tabs on the Fallout it's absolutely glorious my packages have reached everyone I sent them out to and Sue is getting crucified her youngest sister completely dressed her down both of her parents have condemned her my mom absolutely destroyed her like holy crap I know my mom has a Mean Streak but the things she called Sue were unfreaking holy she's been frantically trying to find out if anyone knows where I am but those that do aren't saying a word all over her Facebook feed she's desperately trying to reach me because I'm guessing she knows I'm likely looking but I'm not saying a freaking word to her without my lawyer present that'll be the next time I share oxygen with her she's got no way of spinning the narrative to paint me as the bad guy because I've exposed her to everyone who matters to her and from what a mutual friend who works in the same company as her said she and PE apparently are being put on administrative leave as of tomorrow so yeah chances are she'll be going into 2021 unemployed as for the final two binders well one's been turned over to my lawyer as my final bit of evidence for my impending divorce and the last one I put in my storage unit to be burned in Joey's fire pit when the divorce is final do I feel guilty about this no not even in the slightest 23 years I did write by this woman I gave her the home she wanted I gave her the family she wanted I gave her the life I felt we both deserved and I loved her unconditionally never have I faltered never have I strayed never have I even entertained the notion of breaking my vows when an issue came up that I felt was affecting our marriage I came to her and told her and we sorted it out the best we could she opted to find comfort in another man's bed rather than come to me and say she was unhappy with our sex life at the time she decided to step out with a young punk who gave her the tingles so no I have no sympathy for what I did or for her she can burn for all I care the most I stand to lose is my house a car and maybe a couple hundred bucks a month in alimony but seeing as the divorce is filed under the statute of adultery and New York state is at fault that might get waved with the insurmountable amount of evidence I've provided as far as I'm concerned she's dead to me and I'm never looking back if you were in such a a long-term lifetime level relationship would you have the ability to wait as long as op did to enact this level of Revenge or would you just have to call them out on it right away kick them out get it going as soon as it happened let me know how you would handle something like this in the comments down below beat me up I'll run you over this story is not mine neither of anyone I personally know but it's something that happened where I lived and it became news last week because of how gruesome and stupid it was as it's public and on the news I'll try not to give names as to not expose even more the parties and their families this happened last Sunday April 21st the Revenge victim in the situation was an MMA fighter and the perpetrator was his Uber driver I'll refer to them as fighter and Uber that night the Uber picked up the fighter and some of his friends in a planned neighborhood in the suburbs of my city the group was supposedly drunk and were screaming and making a huge fuss inside the car which annoyed the Uber he asked them to stop which they did for a while but soon after started again they kept annoying the Uber until he snapped he stopped the car on top of an overpass and told them to get out of his car this was late at night so it had no traffic the group started to get out but the fighter didn't like the Uber's attitude so he started punching the Uber right before leaving his friends take him off of the driver and the Uber speeds off the fighters group start walking to a nearby gas station to wait for another ride meanwhile the Uber makes it back around round and starts speeding back in their Direction and hits the fighter in the back running him over from what I heard the impact alone wouldn't have been enough to kill the fighter but that was not it the force of the impact launched the fighter in the direction of a truck parked nearby and he hit his head on said truck killing him almost instantly while the Uber sped off the driver presented himself to the cops last Thursday April 25th the fighter had two kids and so did the driver needless to say this is definitely one of those overly Brash decisions that you make would you guys agree with me that to be able to go and do this and run somebody over like that that you have to have a legitimate anger problem whether that's a disability or a mental issue or do you think an otherwise normal person could get riled up to the point that they would actually go and do that let me know what you guys think in the comments down below our next story is from an anonymous poster my mom's abuser gets what he deserves this happened when I was much younger and frankly I'm not ashamed after divorcing my dad my mom hooked up with a dude who was really into drugs I was 14 at the time after hooking up with him she pretty much abandoned me I went a year without seeing her and around 15 I finally saw her again she was as thin as a twig and had a black eye I immediately grabbed my skateboard and went to go after her dude but my uncle stopped me and just told me not here we were at my grandparents house fast forward a few years where I rarely saw her and I would hear about the abuse here and there from family I didn't get involved as I was a teenager and didn't even know where she was most times of course she never told me about the beatings when I did have a chance to see her or speak with her when I was 18 I was living with my uncle the one who stopped me years before he got a call late one night and it was my mom her dude had hurt her bad we loaded up two 9mm pistols and grabbed a couple of bats then rolled out but when we arrived the cops were there as a neighbor at call Mom's dude was arrested and she was taken to a hospital he messed her up pretty good did a year and a half in the pen for it after he gets out he claims to be reformed and they hook back up now I'm in my early 20s she's living near me and I'm trying to build my relationship with her back up I never would visit her when her dude was home and she would only come to visit along I hadn't heard much those days about the abuse as it appeared she was trying to clean up her act and think things maybe were better with him one day she comes to visit and I notice a ton of swelling in one eye and a bunch of makeup kicked around the area I observed but I didn't acknowledge I knew what he had done I kept my cool and gave her the impression I wanted to give him a chance as she had begged me to do for years I invited her over for a cookout and gave her permission to bring him my daughter who was a baby and her mom were present for this as well maybe I should have mentioned that earlier I became a dad at 21 and we stayed together this all occurred around the same time frame anyways the day comes and she brings them I had already stashed my favorite aluminum kids baseball bat by the back door kid-sized metal bats are the best for home defense I led everyone to the front yard to hang out and had my mom daughter and my daughter's mom chilling out there by the grill I knew my mom's dude smoked herbs so I made an implication that I'm growing something in my backyard and I'd like to show him as he heads to the backyard I told him I just needed to grab something from inside real quick side note I'm really proud of myself for being able to play this all cool because inside I was raging I see him waiting in the backyard and I grabbed my bat I stormed outside and yelled so I heard you like to hit women I proceeded to beat the heck out of him shins ribs back and arms I didn't want to kill him as I knew I'd go to prison and I had a newborn to raise but I did hit his head once accidentally I just wanted to hurt him good cuz I wanted to send a message he crawled to the front yard as my mom yelled at me and cussed me out she got him into the car and they sped off as my neighbors stood outside trying to figure out what happened I kept all the action in the backyard so no one would see but I made a point to yell at her car driving away something along the lines of don't let me find out you hit my mom again I just didn't need cops to come luckily no one called my mom didn't speak to me for months nothing new here I ended up cat catching up with a mutual acquaintance and I found out I cracked ribs on the dude and he had severe bruising all over he couldn't really get around for a few weeks mom's dude asked said acquaintance whether he should seek revenge but Mom's dude was told he earned it so he just accepted it and didn't move forward I think he knew that if he did seek revenge on me that my family very old school rural country type family would help them disappear so I owe them gratitude for their understood protection of me they tried to help my mom their sister but she would just disappear with her dude anytime loved ones tried to intervene she is a grown woman after all that's my story I'm not ashamed first time I've ever told this publicly but all these years later it feels good to let it out well I'm not saying a kid's baseball bat is the answer in this situation but considering what was going on you can't really blame them too much for feeling that way and doing that I mean if it's your own mom and you care about her a lot and you see that happen happening to her they show up silently trying to downplay it knowing the turmoil they're going through how can you not want to do something like that by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos that said our final story of the days by an anonymous poster crappy neighbor bullly struggling immigrants for 15 years their kid gets revenge and the crappy neighbor loses custody of her kid and is forced to move out of their house spoiler alert I'm the kid a bit of context first I'm an only child born in the USA to older parents they were both 45 when I was born who immigrated from Venezuela in the 9s when I was 2 my dad was shot in the head he lived for another 13 years but the incident permanently damaged certain parts of his brain and he was a completely different person for those last 13 years he went from being the most loving incredible caring compassion passate person around to an aggressive violent jerk who blew up over the smallest things but only ever at his inner circle me my mother or other close family he always managed to keep his composure around strangers for fear of someone calling the police and him getting arrested but he would later let it all out on my mom and myself admittedly mostly me after the shooting he could never work again and my mom was forced into the position of being the family's sole bread winner we lived in p y for many many years because the USA wouldn't recognize her college degree and she couldn't afford to go to college again so she couldn't work in her field and had to start at the bottom of the ladder that eventually passed when I was 15 of issues related to his shooting now when I was seven my parents decided to move into a town with a better reputation for their schools than the one we were currently living in so that I could attend a better school they bought a house literally on the edge of town most of this town is incredibly expensive but because on the other side of our street and across the town line there's a big complex of government subsidized housing our area is much cheaper this is the house with the jerk neighbor the house is a three family for the last 16 years we've owned and occupied the first floor while the terrible neighbor lived on the second floor until recently and the third floor had been occupied by over 10 owners and tenants over those years none have stayed more than three or 4 years and some have stayed as little as a handful of months now the second floor witch let's call her Karen because obviously she has a husband who will call Bill and they have a young son Henry here's the story when we moved in Karen and Bill had already been there for a few short months the three of us us on the first floor Karen and bill on the second and the original third floor's owners bought the house from the same crew who had bought it and turned it into a three family fixing it up in the process Karen quickly showed her true colors as a bully over the years there's been countless examples of nasty crap she's pull her husband bill is an immigrant himself and doesn't speak very good English he's very submissive to her and does whatever she wants but in front of other people makes himself out to be physically dominant in our first years here they used to fight a lot which we regularly heard from downstairs they would yell sometimes for hours and occasionally it seemed like things got violent and was born maybe 10 years ago he doesn't factor into the story until much later but anyways the point is whatever Karen's done she's always gotten away with it here's a couple highlights my mom always took pride in how well she took care of our trash bin and recycling bin every month she'd give them a quick rinse after that week's trash day just to make sure that they wouldn't develop a smell or a colony of bacteria wouldn't move in Karen apparently wasn't so diligent and one time her recycling bin got really nasty and I mean really nasty so she just left it out back context behind the house isn't a backyard it's just pavement with a parking spot designated for each unit and began using hours lo and behold hours started to get nasty and Mom quickly went from spending a quick 3 minutes rinsing it out every month to about 45 minutes scrubbing with soap and water to clean it out eventually we decided we'd had enough and she and Dad sent Karen and the third floor tenants of the time a polite but firm email that basically said whoever started using our recycling bin please stop and use your own you never asked our permission and we take good care of it and ever since you began using it it's become disgusting we knew it was Karen and Bill but Mom and Dad figured it was more polite without a call out and they didn't want to start anything within a week two things happened Karen and Bill got a brand spanking new recycle bin and one week we found ours had been mysteriously destroyed someone took a knife to it and cut it to Pieces we had no way of knowing who it was but we had a pretty good feeling we knew exactly who it was yes we had to get a new one because we had no evidence of who did it though my parents didn't say anything about it back when we could afford a car we haven't had one since our first few years here we used our parking space out back every time that Karen and Bill host at a party which back then was surprisingly frequently they would toss their trash over their balcony into the general vicinity of the trash and recycling bins out back which is literally right next to our designated parking space most of the dents we had on our old 88 Toyota were from bottles thrown from the second floor balcony we had Windows break a couple of times same deal each time it happened my parents would politely go upstairs knock on Karen and Bill's door and respectfully ask them to stop throwing stuff over the balcony because we know you don't mean it but sometimes it accidentally hits our car each time they went and did that Karen and Bill stopped but they would do it again until they got caught during their next party again though my parents never wanted to escalate the situation so they never Justified taking it further than knocking on her door and politely asking them to stop this is another example of Karen's utter crap Behavior but it's also relevant for the revenge part of the story so I'm putting it after the bullet point section our basement is shared between all three units each unit has its designated space boxed out kind of like office cubicles and there's some designated common area in between years ago like maybe 8 or nine Karen and Bill completely filled their designated basement cubicle so they just started piling crap all over the common area eventually they developed this enormous pile of junk in front of unit 1's our unit oil tank for heating my mom and dad never said anything because it happened over a long period of time and they didn't want to start a fight and as far as I know none of the third floor folks ever said anything either but it got to the point where she and her husband were taking up common area space that was easily twice the size of their designated cubicle now I'll be the first to admit that for many years my parents and I weren't great neighbors either we didn't bully anyone but due to my dad's condition he could be triggered by seemingly anything and suddenly he'd be in a rage and we'd all be yelling I grew up in that generally chaotic environment and yeah there were several times when the police were called to our house for noise disturbances but we kept our crab to ourselves and we were nothing but polite and respectful to all our neighbors always that said you can imagine that our first priority was always my dad and his stability and we had enough on our hands with that so he and mom always swallowed their pride and avoided doing anything to antagonize Karen no matter how crappy her behavior got and believe you me there are plenty more stories on top of the ones I told above after my dad died I developed my own issues for a while with mental health growing up in a constantly chaotic violent aggressive environment took its toll on me and for a time I had deeply depressive Tendencies I struggled with thoughts of ending things for years and eventually wound up graduating high school after 8 years of attending classes in some form or another similar to when my dad was sick I became my mother's top priority at that point so again Karen and Bill kept getting away with all her BS I got better though nowadays I'm even off psychiatric medication I got my stuff together and graduated high school and even College I have my bachelors and I'm doing some postgrad stuff for a masters most of the way has been paid for by scholarships shout out to the book confession of a scholarship winner but I recently decided that as an adult now and therefore as someone with a little more saying things around the house than when I was a kid I had had enough of watching Karen Bully my parents particularly my mother for so many years I wanted Revenge phase one of my plan was to ease my way into the adult condo Administration dialogue I began helping out more around the house as in around the common area parts of the house I single-handedly redid the backp is flooring it sounds like more than it is I just pulled out all the floorboards and nailed new ones in I replaced both storm doors about 6 months apart when each one began having problems different kinds of problems doesn't matter what they were I also took care of some comparatively smaller things I weed whacked out back for a couple of hours cut the grass out front a few times and got up early so that I could beat everyone else to the shoveling every time it snowed one winter not 201819 but 20 1718 I also began Wheeling back everyone's Recycling and trash bins after trash week every week not just our own after the first two bullet point stuff each time I sent out an email to everyone in the condo to let them know I'd taken care of it all I asked of the other two units was for them to reimburse me onethird of the cost of materials on their timetable because of course I hadn't given them a heads up so it was only fair that I allow them to pay me when they can the smaller stuff from the last bullet point I obviously didn't need to announce the idea was just that over time the neighbors would see me taking more initiative in things and being more active which would go on to justify me participating more in the inter condo politics I also made a point to keep conversations to emails so that there would be a written record of every interaction phase two of my plan ran pretty much concurrently to phase 1 but had an entirely different purpose and was overall entirely different different I began Gathering evidence of everything I could I asked my mom to track down all the old emails she and dad had exchanged with the neighbors documenting many instances that Karen and Bill had pulled crap I went downstairs and took a video of Karen and Bill's crap all over the common area particularly emphasizing all the highly flammable wooden and cardboard stuff they had piled up in front of our oil tank I dug up and poured over the D to our apartment specifically the section that detailed the rules around common areas and the limitations of our unit as compared to the others and vice versa to my utter Joy mom and dad never threw out that old recycling bin that Karen Andor Bill had knifed up apparently because they just never knew what to do with it and never wanted anyone to ask questions naturally I dug it up and took plenty of photos I did one other evidence Gathering thing that needs a bit more explanation Karen and Bill are awful par parents mom and I regularly hear the crap they do to Henry through the very thin ceiling we have here I'm decidedly not going to go into detail because even though I changed his name he's still underage and I feel it would be disrespectful to him to do that but let's say it crosses far into the realm of child abuse this is a topic I'm particularly sensitive about because I grew up in a crappy situation myself so believe me when I say this part is the most satisfying part part of my revenge let's just say that every time I could hear stuff through the ceiling I took out my phone and started a recording until it stopped finally phase three of my plan was basically to bait Karen Andor bill into a trap I set that as it turns out would have humongous consequences for them mom and I have this old treadmill that we got for free it's in the kitchen and lately we've come to the conclusion that it just takes up a little too much space we both use it a little but not enough to justify by keeping it she wanted to toss it out but I argued hard to keep it around because I knew I could use it for this plan it would be my only shot remember how I mentioned we hadn't had a car for years well eventually I convinced mom to let me put the treadmill outside in our parking space out back I bought a large tarp to cover it with so it would be protected from the rain and I told her I'd start using it more if it was outside cuz it's nicer to do exercise in the fresh air I also sent out an email to Karen cc to Bill and the current third floor folks asking her to move all the things in front of our oil tank in the basement somewhere else despite the fact that those things had been there for many years I Justified addressing it now because I'm the one addressing it and that's different from before because before I was a child and now I'm an adult who actively participates in the inter condo dialogue I asked her to because the way she currently had it set up is a safet Hazard and I'm just following the rules I further let her know that if she and Bill didn't take care of it within a handful of weeks that I would have no choice but to take care of it myself in the same email I let everyone know that I was putting our treadmill and our parking space out back so if anyone had any trouble with getting into their spot to please let me know the same day I sent out the email I put the treadmill out back now I figured nothing was going to change from all the other emails I had sent about matters regarding the condo's Administration and nothing did she and Bill never acknowledged anything the current third floor guy didn't want anything to do with going up against Karen so he just thanked me for the heads up about the treadmill and said nothing else it's also important to note here that my real reason for mentioning the treadmill in that email wasn't in case anyone has trouble getting into their parking spot needless to say sure a treadmill in a kitchen is pretty freaking big and obnox noxious but a tread mill off to the side of an automobile parking space isn't really big at all plus I placed it in such a way that it wasn't in anyone's way giving everyone ample room to maneuver around it was just there off to the side the reason I mention the treadmill in that email was to alert her to its presence and perhaps associated in her mind with my request for her to move all her crap in the basement I also began using it at least three mornings a week I timed it so that sometimes Karen and Bill would run into me as they left to drive Henry to school every time I saw them I waved and greeted to ensure they'd notice me on the treadmill mom also used it a few times but she wasn't part of my plan so I have no idea if she ever ran into them while on it here's the other thing I did I set up a video camera and our laundry basket see we have it permanently in the pantry next to the pantry window that faces the back area I buried it beneath clothing so that from the outside side you can't even see it but I bought a few massive memory storage wise not physically SD cards and kept the thing recording 24/7 with a timestamp for 2 weeks nothing happened the camera recorded nothing suspicious and Karen and Bill didn't move their crap in the basement their time was up so one night I got up at around 1:00 a.m. when everyone else was asleep so nobody would hear me and went downstairs to move their crap Reddit I can't express to you how much I enjoyed this I bought a GoPro strapped into my Noggin and carefully recorded the entire hour and a half of moving stuff around I took the enormous pile of junk in front of mom and I's oil tank and found a way to fit it all into their designated storage cubicle in the end it was packed I have mild OCD and I nearly exploded at the end from how well organized physically everything was so that everything was in need neatly packed together and all of the space was used at maximum efficiency it was glorious packed from floor to ceiling and almost wall to- wall all around if you can just imagine one massive near perfect rectangular prism of junk that's what I created it was a masterpiece I was so proud on the side the door was on there was enough space to walk to either wall but he couldn't move into it anywhere I got back upstairs into our apartment and couldn't sleep the rest of the night I was beyond excited I wound up watching Infinity War to prepare for Ant-Man and the Wasps then upcoming release sure enough Karen and Bill took the bait it must have been at school or work when they first discovered the basement because I never heard a thing about it in hindsight it's probably best I was out even though I would have savored those angry shrieks like nothing ever before in any case within a few days we discovered our treadmill destroyed similarly to the recycling bin of years past it had been knifed up I can imagine they probably wanted to straight up take a hammer to it but they didn't really want to make much noise so they wound up tearing the thing apart with a really big and a really sharp knife they had seen we were using it and aside from our trash and recycling bins it was our only property that they had access to at that point several years back I filled up the rest of the wall of our basement cubicle and installed a door with a lock so our cubicle was now sealed off to every else but the others are open and anyone can enter plus I can imagine destroying a $1,000 treadmill is infinitely more tempting than a trash or recycling bin so they went for it in retaliation for my stunt in the basement after moving the crap in the basement I started timing my treadmill use differently so that I wouldn't run into them as soon as I saw it after they destroyed it I went straight to the camera I had set up in the pantry it caught the whole thing in true fashion of their relationship Bill brandished an enormous knife and single-handedly destroyed the whole thing himself while she stood next to him and seemingly ordered him to do it she basically kept pointing around at all the parts she wanted him to cut up with that in hand I called the police reported the incident told them that my mother and I felt threatened by their presence and we filed a restraining order against both Karen and Bill with the police that same day I turned over all the evidence I'd gathered of all their crap over the years and I also turned over all the audio clips I had of Karen and Bill terrorizing Henry I figured because it was all audio and no video it wouldn't be enough to get them out of their care but maybe it at least get the Department of Children and Families involved Karen and Bill immediately claimed that I'd broken a bunch of their crap while moving it around in the basement crap that they no doubt had broken themselves so I offered my GoPro recordings as proof that I had not in fact broken any of their crap while moving it at all the restraining order of persons allowed to file with a police report is always temporary but you can always petition the court to extend it once mom and I did that it was granted at that point Karen and Bill hadn't been legally allowed to go back home for about a week and since it became a longer term restraining order they were basically not going to be allowed to live in their own home for several years so they made the obvious choice to sell the house and move elsewhere needless to say selling a house you're not allowed to be near is a difficult task and moving all your stuff out of said house is even more difficult particularly when you have so much of it they wound up coordinating the entire House's sale from AF far with their realtor being the only person who came around to show the house once it was time for them to move some relatives of theirs came around and packed everything up and loaded it into a truck also I was right based on my recordings alone Henry wasn't taken from their custody but DCF did get involved I heard from their family that came around to pack their crap up though that Karen and Bill did wind up losing custody of him they didn't say much as to why but they basically implied that the abuse ramped up a lot after everything went down between me and Karen and Bill which is the only part I feel guilty about but in the end I hope this is a situation where the end justifies the means at which point Department of Children and Families was already sniff around so they will end up losing custody of him anyways I have no idea where Henry wound up but wherever he is I obviously have nothing against him and I hope he winds up in a much better situation than he was finally I'll say for two such inordinately obtuse and disgusting human beings they had surprisingly decent family members the few times I ran into them and made small talk when they were around they were pretty apologetic about the whole thing I got the impression that this isn't the first time they're apologizing on Karen and Bill's behalf I hope Henry's taken in by one of them and not chucked into the Foster system here's hoping kid considering the overall outcome and the ramp up in what the kid had to deal with for the short term do you think this overall is a situation where the ends justifies the means I'd like to know what you guys think in the comments down below either way I definitely think that we can all agree that we just hope the best for Henry in the situation and whatever living situation they're in now you hope that it's much much better than what they had to deal with I crushed my ex-wife's hopes after she cheated on me bit of background I'm 36-year-old male as of now the characters have been a bit altered by their names Rebecca my ex-wife now 34 James my college buddy and the guy Rebecca cheated on me with saladine my other guy friend and Lisa saladin's cousin so Rebecca and I were what you call College sweethearts we survived College in the hardships of Life got married in our early 20s I was 25 she was 23 ever since we got married things were Rocky not from the start but situation wise I was in medical while she was an accounting major there were things that were okay with me but was not with her despite being married she acted like she was a free bird she was it's a good thing but there was marital neglect from from her side 2016 she joins James's company as an accountant because it pays well I was happy because hey he's a buddy of mine slowly she started to complain about things that were in place she didn't like where we lived had problems with everything I did she didn't like the food she used to I'm a great cook and she loved my Foods our fights intensified by a margin where she would call me names I'm good for nothing she earned more than me coming to this part later on drastic turn here was that Rebecca and James were hanging out with our set of mutual friends I got the word of it and it seemed off I confronted both of them to which they both said it was a sudden plan and I was out in field coincidentally it happened on the same day I was out of the city they might have planned it beforehand which I'm not sure of 2017 the year my marriage blew up so I was sure there was something because my bedroom became a freaking Dead one I was increasingly paranoid and whenever I tried to address things I was turned down now I'm not a saint I constantly yelled at her to tell me what was going on because there was just something off your favorite person rarely talks or does stuff with you and they claim it's nothing does that sound okay it was also the year that we were at our our Peak financially because our debts were paid off my friends and I decided to open up a medical shop that provided medicine shop as a side Venture so one of the friends was saladine he proposed that we celebrate it at a pup when we go there I notice a girl that looks exactly like Rebecca she was dancing with another man and it was quite dark I get a closer look low and behold it's Rebecca and James Dancing hand to hand I wasn't much bothered about it because hey they're friends I was here with my colleagues and she was there with hers but it was bothering me I decide to send her a text asking where she was she's usually on her way home at this time she told me she was already at home now that was a red flag I told her to stop lying because she wasn't I could clearly see her that she was getting paranoid and told me she was on her way she left the pub afterwards that that night I asked her about James the look she gave me was as if she saw a ghost because she was not expecting that question that look was what told me something was definitely up if you ask your significant other about a friend they should act normally but the way she acted was abnormal that night itself I snooped on her phone curiosity was killing me the password was changed so I couldn't see the phone the next day I saw her password and snoop through it there were hundreds of thousands of texts right there countless inappropriate photos calling him daddy deg grating comments my wife and I made a vow to each other that if there was ever anything we needed to explore we would be transparent to each other she broke that vow too she confided in him about how much thrill she felt that night at the pup I went through everything what hurt the most was she herself told me if one of us ever got bored of the other or needed to spice things up will'll Let each other know she destroyed everything I couldn't look at her the way I used to anymore I cried the night and confronted her stupidly without any evidence the next morning she yelled at me and stormed out after telling me I was abusive and insane she told all of our friends that I was abusive that afternoon they all created a messenger group where everyone ganged up to troll me when she came home that night she told me that she was in love with James and wants a divorce I told her to talk first but it turned into her berating me I yelled at her and she called the cops I was asked to spend the night elsewhere I went to my sister's and when I returned the next morning James's car was here he spent the night here there was nothing needed to explain he was doing it on purpose heck she was doing it on purpose I went to see a lawyer as we didn't have a prup she she had already filed a complaint about me being abusive it didn't look good for me not once did she try to apologize not once did she try to make amends our country's laws don't count infidelity as a fault so even with that she's entitled to half of my everything but her complaint can sue me up few days after that where I was still living with my sister I tried contacting Rebecca but she won't reply to me Rebecca hit me up telling me that we should get divorced that's it 12 years of relationship 4 years of marriage and she ends it with a text I was freaking convinced that James was taking my place she handed me the divorce papers everyone from our friend Circle was convinced that I was a freaking abuser and James was her savior she did the right thing to cheat on me we were officially divorced during the start of 2018 she was already dating James open during our divorce he was her life I lost my job my house my reputation and her little Affair I had to change the city to move someplace else to restart again saladine helped me massively in that Fresh Start he got me a decent paying job that was nowhere near like my previous one but it was better than the rest we became close buddies while I was working to earned back what I had dating life was over for me I just couldn't trust anyone it was a complete no contact between me and Rebecca last I heard she moved in with James they were doing great Revenge part end of 2020 my life was actually blowing up Co helped our cause with Broken Backs but filled our pockets our Pharmacy Venture turned huge so I was able to make a lot of money I met a friend of mine from whom I got a tip that James and Reb were done James cheated on her and left her but but Reb had a child with James he was absent since birth so he didn't sign the birth certificate so Reb is Raising that child as a single parent she tried dating but she wasn't over me or James the audacity part of me was happy with it but gosh I really missed her I sent her an email asking how she was doing she wasn't expecting to hear for me we exchanged emails and reconnected our first meet was in 2021 after after several years she looked like crap she gained weight lost the charm and looked utterly exhausted all the time frankly just her look made my blood boil and triggered me but I also wanted to take my revenge on her life had already done that on my part but I'm a jerk I wasn't done with her she told me about James and reopened the earlier wounds I got my closure which made me feel a bit better I guess she said she was sorry she wasn't thinking straight what she was doing James poisoned her mind against me I told her I'll forgive her as she comes clean to everyone and clears my name out she did that losing a lot of friends but she deserved that my name was clean she wanted us to date again clear words make me raise that jerk James's child I told her I would agree to it but we needed to date and marry first only then would I legally adopt her child that little guy is adorable and i' taken a liking to him here's the truth I was already seeing someone pretty safe to say I was cheating on that woman with Reb she was a client of mine from a different country we were in a long-distance relationship Reb and I were living in different cities so I never moved in with her but I played It Well by saying that I need to travel for business so I was only getting Rebecca's hopes up to crush her like she crushed me we were getting intimate but protection was used Rebecca felt like she found love again I pushed her to therapy to get her to be normal again everyone was commenting how she was getting more happier with me she would praise and then say sorry do little things for me that she used to when she was married to me trust me when I say I had a lot of emotions attached to this woman I considered my revenge if it was a good thing to break her heart she might be traumatized for a lifetime but she didn't think of my heart and we were married why should I think of hers her birthday was coming up last year in October lockdown was eased up and my someone it's Lisa was in my city for the birthday gift I grabbed Rebecca for ring shopping she picked out her favorite ring and I got it wrapped she was elated because of that that night she came came up to me crying that she was sorry for hurting me she looked genuinely remorseful but I had no feelings for her except indifference Lisa was saladin's cousin I already told her everything beforehand she was against my revenge idea but I managed to convince her somehow she was uncomfortable with it but understood that I needed to go through with it on Rebecca's birthday I drove her to our favorite spot when we were married it's a Nature's Place Lisa was already waiting there I introduced Lisa to Rebecca that Lisa is my girlfriend Rebecca went white and asked me what that meant what is she then I introduced her to Lisa as Rebecca my ex-wife and Friends with Benefits there and then I proposed to Lisa with that ring Rebecca went mad and started yelling to which I replied how the freak and she expect us to work out when she nuked us I'm never dating a dirt bag like her again she asked me again if we meant nothing I told her nope sleeping with her was compensation for the pain I got her to clear out the pain she put me through Lisa was holding me back she saw Rebecca was hurting I told Rebecca that she needs to leave she told everyone that I cheated and I was a jerk this time I took it as a pride everyone saw the dirt bag she was she cheated on me and made me pay a high price for a falsified abuse now she wants me to raise her kid and date her the last we connected was in December of last year she wrote me a letter that how much sorry she was because she can't imagine putting me through the pain that she already put me through she hoped I live a better life last I heard she was completely uninterested in dating looks crap as for me I and Lisa stopped dating there were differences between us I'd like to add an edit people who are saying that I'm worse than my ex can you please at least for the love of God point out how I'm worse than her she cheated I loved her and she freaking cheated on me she cost me my home my job my image my reputation my friends I was an abuser to everyone I gave her a taste of her own medicine yes by hurting someone else now I'm worse than her I don't want judgment this is nuclear revenge and I'm sharing my revenge stories I may have emotionally scarred her but that's what she did to me so considering everything that initially went down here between op and their wife essentially how their wife cheated and lied about them and how it cost op literally just about everything to the point where they had to give up their nice paying job and leave the city to find work elsewhere that op coming back to his ex-wife's life and her new kid as a single mother and leading them on hooking up with them giving them hope that maybe there's a new future together was that justifiable for op or do you think that it actually makes op worse than their own ex was I'd like to know what you guys think in the comments down below all I know is hearing a story like this and hearing all the pitfalls and all the drama all the stress kind of makes me worry that in future relationships am I going to overthink is a situation like this something that I should have a concern about in the back of my mind that everything's going to fall apart and I'm going to be labeled as an abuser falsely and overall basically you can definitely say that this story is a nuclear Revenge story I found out my sister's been screwing my boyfriend behind my back I get even little backstory first I was born into a broken family my father was a drug addict my mother on the other hand was the kindest strong strongest woman I know fortunately they separated just after the birth of my younger sister who was only younger than me by a year I took after my mother my sister though apart from my mother's looks she got everything else from Dad now the thing is my father was a horrible person even before he became a drug addict he was an arrogant selfish insufferable jerk and not only that he also cheated on my mother multiple times while she was pregnant with me and my sister and also physically hurt her he was so horrible to the point that when he left my mother said it was the happiest day of her life she continued raising us all by herself while my dad went to God knows where and you know what I've never even missed him 18 years later me and my sister were all grown up and the thing is we've never really been that close we fought a lot when we were younger but it was all usual sibling fights as we grew we fought less and less and we were able to coexist like GF siblings do and though I didn't express it all the time I did love her here's where it all goes to crap in my senior year of high school I start dating one of my classmates he had just transferred during that year and said that he liked me immediately and asked me to go out with him if I was interested I give the guy a chance it goes extremely well and just 2 months later we were officially dating he was sweet would treat me to lunch take me to places and was just a great boyfriend overall we continue to date through our first year and second year of college and he comes over at our house pretty frequently and my mom even lets him stay the night it came to the point that he would come there even when I wasn't and I thought nothing of it I was even glad that he felt so comfortable there until one day just a month before our anniversary I text him that I would be home later than usual because I still had something to do in school I was already in my third year and I was busier than I was before since we usually go home together he asked me what time do I think I'll be home and I said probably after dinner so he can pick me up then he says okay fortunately though I managed to finish earlier than I thought and instead of texting him to pick me up I decide to surprise him by coming to his house since it's been a while since we spent time together and I missed him when I got there his sister whom I was very close with was visibly confused and immediately asked me what I was doing there I told I was there to see her brother and she becomes even more confused and says he told me he was coming to your house to see you though he left hours ago this time I'm the one who's confused so I quickly turned around and went home thankfully our houses were only 15 minutes apart from each other so I got there quickly the next 20 minutes were like heck I come home to find his bike outside the house was dark and I try my bestest to go inside as quietly as I could by the time I got up the stairs I hear it moans female and male the male one sounding parly like my boyfriend tears immediately flooded my eyes I didn't even need to see to know it was him my boyfriend of almost 3 years screwing my sister my feet suddenly had a mind of its own and I yanked the door open I was seething at this point the witch was rioting him like a mechanical bull I stood there as my now ex pushes her off of him shocked as he puts his clothes back on in light speed and starts spewing excuses I wasn't listening at all I was sobbing so much I couldn't breathe The Jerk follows me all the way downstairs and I yell at him that if he doesn't leave that instant I would tell his entire family he leaves and I was left with my sister I couldn't even look at her I stayed downstairs calming myself down until my mom came home from work she immediately notices something's wrong but I don't tell her yet dinner starts and I felt like crying again and you know what's even worse when my sister came down and sat just across from me I saw no hint of remorse or guilt on her face absolutely none I felt sick I wanted to vomit and I swear that at some point during dinner that evil witch even smirked a week goes by and I don't say anything I was so hurt my ex wasn't saying anything too no phone calls text nothing and so did my sister not a single freaking sorry I felt so defeated I was crying multiple times a day and I couldn't even focus in school one day I finally snap and I tell my mother everything she was extremely disappointed she scolds my sister but she didn't even seem to care and then suddenly I remembered my ex had told me his passwords he had told me early in our relationship and I never bothered to open them cuz I was never the type type to go through my significant others messages I trusted the freaker and this is what I get anyway I managed to open his Messenger account and there I see hundreds of messages between him and my sister I felt weak in the knees it had been going on for almost 4 months then I took screenshots turns out they'd been going out while I would be at school all three of us were from different schools my sister couldn't get into mine because her grades were too low and so was my boy boyfriends my pain quickly turned into anger and I wanted nothing more than to make them both pay I couldn't stomach the side of my sister the fact that she would go behind my back like that over some guy made me freaking sick we were supposed to always be there for each other after a month I asked my mother if I can move out and live with my aunt for a while because I just couldn't take it anymore she was sad but she understood I felt so sorry for her she held my sister accountable for what what she did but at the end of the day she was still her daughter so she can't completely turn her back on her I didn't want to give her the burden of having to choose so I did instead so I move out and live with my aunt and promise to keep in touch the next 6 months were basically me putting my crap back together I became a working student and did some freelance work to earn some money and as I started to earn more I dropped out of school completely and became a full-time freelancer as the months went by I would earn more and more and I had more than enough money to spend for myself and from then on I started to send money to my mom monthly one day I got curious and decided to check on my sister and ex when I unblocked them I regretted it instantly the jerks were still together and my sister was even flaunting their relationship on Instagram suddenly it's as if no time had passed by at all and I was angry yet again I scroll through more pictures and it was obvious that my sister was completely in love with him I acted on anger I sent the screenshots I took from before and sent it to our cousins and told them everything they all ended up hating her and then I sent it to my ex's sister and also told her everything she punched him and told their parents and a day later I reive a text from them apologizing on behalf of their son it made me feel slightly better a week later my mom asks me to come home to spend the weekend I decide to say yes this time I stopped by a mall on the way to get a gift for my mom and guess who I see my ex-boyfriend with a girl who wasn't my sister holding hands I laugh hard the urge to take my phone out to take a picture and send it to my sister was so strong but I stopped myself it wouldn't be painful enough so I hide where he can't see me and follow them after about an hour she goes to the bathroom I follow her there I approach her when she comes out of the cubicle and say is the guy you're with your boyfriend she looks a little bit scared and confused but she answers yes nonetheless I quickly tell her that the same guy is currently dating my sister and even showed her some pictures the girl was completely horrified she said she had no idea that he was seeing someone else and I fought the urge to laugh I tell her to get rid of him quickly and I'll tell her everything she needed to know but also asked her not to dump him yet so she makes up an excuse to him about an emergency at home and they go their separate ways for the day we meet up at a coffee shop close to the mall afterwards there I spill everything including all the details about the cheating when I finished she looked so mad almost as if it had happened to her and then she goes on to reveal that a longtime boyfriend of hers actually cheated on her as well we talk some more and as time passed by I came to discover that the girl was actually really sweet and I felt sorry that she became a victim as my ex as well she asked me if I was going to get revenge and I said yes but I needed her help but I also told her she could say no if she didn't want to but she said she wanted to help so I told her my plan and she was all for it I came home that night excited my mom seemed pleased and my sister looked a little pissed I didn't give a freak though since I had the knowledge that my ex-boyfriend the guy she destroyed our relationship for was on on his way to destroy her the girl and I talked for the next 3 weeks I was there and she would send me screenshots of her and my ex's convo and also pcks of them together we continued to talk even after I came back to my aunt's house and exactly 2 months after we met the plan was finally in action it was a week before my ex and my sister's anniversary yes they had an anniversary and I was about to give her the greatest gift by that time my ex had confessed to the other girl about his relationship with my sister but she told him that it was okay and that they could still be together because she didn't care little did he know her and I were basically best friends now and had come up with a master plan to ruin his life I come home again and spent the week there leading up to their anniversary it was the longest week of my life the day finally comes and after my sister leaves to go to his house I wait a few hours then I FaceTime his sister to ask if the two jerks were home she says yes then I send it dozens of pictures of my ex with the other girl and screenshots of their conversations ones where he was telling her how much he loves her and how he's planning to leave my sister for her soon there was one where he even expressed how annoying he found her and that he sometimes wants to strangle her a whole bunch of other screenshots where he insults her calls her stupid desperate and many more he also said that she was awful in bed and was way too noisy and that he barely touched her the past few days ouch but it wasn't enough for me the Final Touch was a thre minute long video of my friend and my ex screwing yes she gave me her full consent to send it she was on top exactly how I found my sister an ex before and she was Galloping to Oblivion but I cropped it so her face wasn't shown but my axes was in full view it was hilarious The Jerk was enjoying it so much and I know my sister would probably have a seizure once she watches it afterwards I wait I was still on FaceTime with his sister and after a while I hear it screaming objects being thrown more screaming his sister comes upstairs to check on them and I hear everything my sister was sobbing and what's even more screwed up is that my ex didn't even tried to deny any of it and asked her to just leave her sister and I talk some more and she tells tells me how she's never liked my sister and so did their parents they said that they would ignore her whenever she would come by at their house she would even ask about me sometimes just to piss her off after about an hour my sister finally comes home and I sat there grinning like a devil as she steps into the living room face puffy from crying we make eye contact and I smirked at her and said you deserve it before going upstairs I don't speak to her again and for days she refused to even leave her room the satisfaction I felt was through the roof and I even told my mom that I could move back in now but it didn't end there because my ex had gotten my sister pregnant a huge part of me wasn't shocked but my mom was of course disappointed we had to tell the rest of our family and they were all disappointed with her as well before she gave birth my sister told my mom she was going to move in with my ex's family since they had to take care of their baby and my mom refused to let him step foot in our house again but since our houses were really close to each other she agreed it was pathetic it was obvious that she still wanted to be with him even after everything he did but hey wasn't my problem anymore but according to my ex's sister though her parents weren't too happy about the whole thing and although my ex said he would take responsibility of his child he didn't want anything to do with my sister anymore freaking jerk so I continued to live my life working going out and focusing on becoming even better it didn't take long for me to finally be happy again and all the pain and betrayal felt like a distant memory I reconnected with my old friends and even started dating again I also kept in touch with the girl who helped me with my revenge she of course dumped my ex broke up with him just the day after it all went down and we're genuinely good friends now and meet when we can I don't keep in touch with my sister at all but according to my ex's sister she's absolutely miserable because she had to drop out of school and my ex barely spoke to her and would always be gone sometimes for days and even brought home girls on multiple occasions and hooked up with them in that same house my pregnant sister was in he also wasn't there when she gave birth I didn't feel sorry for her at all since she chose to stay with him but I did feel sorry for the kid for having those two jerks as his parents they would go to our house at least three times a week to see my mother and my sister would completely ignore my existence guess what the witch still hasn't apologized I didn't really care at that point so I ignored it but one time I kindly offered to buy her some baby clothes and she fixed me with the nastiest look before saying we don't need your freaking money I was appalled and then I was pissed again all right then if that's how she wanted to play funnily enough I ran into my ex at a bar just a couple of days later he looks freaking terrible and I question what I even saw in him he sees me and actually looks happy I on the other hand no longer felt anything for him only disgust he tries to make conversation telling me I looked great and even apologizes I was shocked but his apology didn't really mean crap to me anymore later that night I received a bunch of messages from him he was apologizing again and went on to say how much he regrets cheating on me before begging for another chance and swears that at this time things would be different and that he was going to change for me I laugh so hard I fall off my bed the ocean would dry up before I'll even think about taking his butt back but since my sister pissed me off once again and I was feeling a little petty I sent her the screenshots of those messages with the caption this your baby daddy I knew she was still in love with him even after everything and I knew that it would hurt her to see how he's willing to change for me but not for for her the mother of his darn child he barely even gave her money for their child it was only ex's parents and my mom who supported her financially she blocked me and no I don't ever take my ex back last I heard he started using drugs fast forward to now I continue to thrive while she continues to be miserable we recently had a family reunion and at one point she says to our relatives that she's having a hard time and one of our cousins looks her dead in the eyes and says well maybe May if you hadn't screwed your sister's boyfriend you wouldn't be in this position she was absolutely dumbfounded and there were Tears In Her Eyes I almost choked to my whine to keep from laughing she probably didn't think they knew well now she does and they all didn't bother to hide how much they despised her she had no one on her side and was considered the disappointment of the family but she only has herself to blame with stories like this I usually like to ask you guys if they deserved how the outcome really turned out but honestly considering everything that happened here I think it's totally just what happened for those of you that are close with your siblings or even cousins if you found out your cousin went and cheated on their sibling like that would that completely sour how you feel about them for the rest of your relationship let me know what you guys think in the comments what's his most prized possession I will destroy it this happened back in 1989 the story involves my stepdad dad by biological dad Donald Duck and my sister sis the person who exacted the Revenge has passed now so it should be safe to relate I hope it meets the requirement for nuclear Revenge it's a Revenge that would warrant prison time I believe I was living outside the country when this happened so my sister relayed all of this information to me about a year after it happened we recently got together again and went over the events again my biological parents married when they were very young and Donald Duck was still in law school the marriage marage lasted long enough to produce two children they didn't waste time in those days my sister who's 14 months my Elder and myself they were divorced before I was born Donald Was a Serial cheater a pathological liar and a total jerk he still is at least a liar and a jerk he's in his mid 70s now so maybe not so much with the cheating the fact that he's still working as a lawyer I think is indicative that he was never a good one as he evidently doesn't have enough enough to retire I've looked up reviews on him online and it's funny to see that most reviewers say that he's not only a terrible lawyer but a horrible person when sis was 22 she was a single mother and my nephew her son was around three her company transferred her to another state she discovered that Donald Duck lived in a town near her new work location and thought that he might be able to help her get her bearings in a new place for a short time when we were teenagers he had some sporadic involvement in our lives after moving to a neighbor neighboring City it was mostly him trying to impress us with how cool and Rich he thought we should think he was so though it had been a few years since she had seen him it's not like they were complete strangers in any case Donald Duck agreed to let CIS move into his apartment with him his girlfriend at the time of course many years as Junior and her 9-month-old child not Donald's until she was able to find her own place he also offered to allow her to keep her belongings in his storage unit sis took him up on his offer never did Donald Duck make any reference to being paid for the use of the storage unit or paying for the utilities at the apartment sis stayed 3 months and did her best to get out as quickly as she could and as far as she could once she became more familiar with the area living with him was hard did I mention he was a jerk and her young son would find his pregnant lady porno mags around the apartment this is obviously pre- internet Mr Duck's young girlfriend was able to help with babysitting something sis pet her for so sis gets her own apartment but all of her things her son's toys furniture her furniture household items everything but her own bed was still in the storage unit so she called him to figure out how she could get her things back but he seemed to want to hang on to them for some reason he said you owe girlfriend money for babysitting and you can't get your things back until you pay her she said have you talked to her I've paid her everything I owed her he puts down the phone and talks to girlfriend and she confirms that she'd been paid he then says well you owe a third of the utilities for the time you were here she reminded him that he had never said anything about that he gets a little heated and she's feeling desperate and angry and shouts an accusation of something he did to her when she was very young a totally different story he responds have you ever told anyone that she says no he says if you ever do I will ring your freaking neck and the the conversation ends about 20 minutes later she gets a call from an acquaintance who had actually gone on one or two dates with Donald before she met my sister he tells sis that Mr duck had just called her asking if sis had ever told her anything that he might have done to Sis hinting at the accusations CIS had made CIS never told anyone and the acquaintance told Donald as much CIS later calls my stepdad whom we've always considered to be our dad he's the only father we knew growing up and he was in the picture since before we were old enough to remember he married my mom when I was an infant and my sister a toddler they were married 40 years until my mom's death the guy absolutely had a lot of faults passed on 2017 and we often felt better when he wasn't around but he tried and it's not easy raising someone else's kids and he was our dad as far as we were concerned he actually legally adopted us he had a lot of issues but he absolutely hated to see someone be taken advantage of because they were in a weaker position in other words he hated a bully and Donald Duck was being a bully when I was in the first grade I rode a school bus with middle and high school students there were a couple of kids who would bully me when he found out he confronted the bully's dad and it ended another time I was in third grade and driving somewhere with him in his pickup around town and he saw two young teenagers destroying a bicycle that he assumed they had stolen he stopped and confronted them with his big framing hammer a v 16 oz I have one like it in his honor years later he broke my mom out of a mental institution by threatening the director or some doctor I'm not sure I was young with that same Hammer yes we were a fun family anyway when sis calls him explaining that Donald Duck is holding all of her possessions hostage and she doesn't know what to do he tells her that he knows several Crips who would be happy to rough him up and and wouldn't even want to be paid they would do it for pleasure dad was very bothered that Donald was keeping his grandson's things from him and wanted to hurt Mr duck CIS declines this offer he then asks her what's the thing that he values most in this world she responds his car his car at that point was a Porsche he had purchased new just a few years before it wasn't quite the absolute entrylevel model but pretty close of course he had all kinds of arguments about why it was actually better than the more expensive ones obviously it was red dad was trying to come up with a way to not only get revenge but to scare Mr duck enough to force him to give sis back her things sis said she was fine with whatever he wanted to do if it got her belongings back but wanted to make sure none of it could be traced back to her nothing happens until about a month later and Donald Duck Calls CIS out of the blue as if nothing had ever happened and asks hey when would you like to come get your thing things how about Saturday evidently he had had some change of heart that is unexplained to this day she said sure she didn't trust him so she didn't want to go alone she was able to get a male friend to go with her she gets a U-Haul and just picks up her stuff and gets out that very evening she tried several times to call Dad to let him know that she got her things back and all was well no need for any drastic measures but it was too late the wheels had been set in motion never answers the phone remember this is pre-cell phone day so when you're not at home you don't answer CIS Call's mom who was living separately from Dad for a time it's complicated telling her she can't reach dad mom says Dad is sick and that's probably why he's not answering his phone at p.m. sis gets a call from Donald's girlfriend who asks her what are you doing CIS replies I'm at home in bed why she responds someone just blew up Donald's car sis s's heart rate drops she obviously knows who did it the police ask Donald Duck who would want to do this to him and he aners Sis's name so she becomes suspect number one sis asks girlfriend if Donald's scared girlfriend says yes they're spending the night in a hotel fortunately the call from girlfriend is sis just a few minutes after the explosion gave Sis her Alibi sis lived over 30 minutes away and couldn't have answered her home phone if she'd been the one to ignite the bomb the bomb did its job well it turned the Porsche into an unrecognizable wreck took out the adjacent car the Porsche was parked at the end of the carport so there was only one car parked next to it and destroyed a many feet of the carport above both cars I'm guessing the tank in the porch was a near full just after sis gets off the phone she calls mom telling her that someone blew up Mr Duck's car and she thinks it's dad while she's on the phone with Mom another call comes in call waiting a fan feature in the days of landlines it's Dad he says mysteriously there's a box outside your door bring it in you never talk to me tonight sis is a little afraid to open the box but it turns out to be some of her son's items that he'd left with his grandpa clothes and toys months later at Christmas sis asked Dad about it and he confessed turns out he was really sick physically when he pulled that stunt sis was touched that he would go to so much effort and risk jail time for her all while being ill she asked him if he was scared driving back he said yes and that every headlight behind him he took to be a cop until he reached the state line sis found out from girlfriend that the cop said the job was very amateur certainly not the work of a professional but hey it did the job dad told CIS he had asked a coworker who was once a member of the aformentioned Crips about how to make a car bomb and she instructed him he always did love blowing things up when I was 13 we bonded over crumbling up the old colored sparklers into powder I don't think they make colored ones anymore but they burned hotter funneling the powder into a spent CO2 cartridge using another sparkler as a fuse and making bombs powerful enough to blow up those old metal milk cans that hold a few gallons it was the 4th of July anyway sis says that it was some sort of Molotov cocktail stuffed into the tailpipe but I'm not sure how that would work my idea of a Molotov cocktail is a 750ml sized bottle like a wine bottle or a fifth of booze which would not fit into the tailpipe of a 4cylinder Porsche I wouldn't think I'm guessing the diameter is no more than 2 in not big enough to fit such a bottle maybe he used a smaller bottle or simply a smaller container of some kind not a bottle filled with something very ignitable I truly regret not discussing it with him personally but we weren't close since I left home if you didn't need him he had a hard time having a relationship with you plus I was married to a woman for many years who kept me from my parents and siblings so I don't have better details thank God that 25y year marriage is over and my current wife loves my family sorry but the story is true one hilarious detail Donald Duck continued to Father Offspring and date very young women his current wife is my age exactly and he has a daughter many years younger than my youngest child a couple years ago I had a conversation with one of these half sisters a marvelous person despite half of her DNA her mother was never married to Donald and this sister is the age of my youngest daughter I told her the story of the exploded Porsche she found it very amusing because she says Donald loves to tell a story about how he was Prosecuting some mob bosses and a couple of thugs came to his door trying to threaten him of course being the big bad Brave man he is he did not back down and what was his reward those thugs blew up his car I think it's hilarious that he tells this story to his children but now they know the truth he is the biggest bser I have ever met also due to Donald's allegation that it was my sister who blew up his car what not Mobsters but a 22-year-old girl the condo association or whatever tried to sue my sister for the damage to the carport it came to not they were grasping its straws because there was no evidence of course but it did scare her and cause some anxiety all I got to say is this guy sounds like Prime POS of the Year material and in fact it goes even deeper in the comments op sis was talking about how they would tell everything to the girlfriend who was 19 at the time and apparently Donald Duck's 19-year-old girlfriend went to a psychic and the psychic told the girlfriend about the things that Donald Duck had done to his daughter I mean this whole thing from top to bottom is just such a bizarre roller coaster of directions and truths and lies and deceiving and tailpipe ignitions I'm left honestly not even knowing what to think about this story I guess honestly my only question is do you guys think that Donald Duck considering the way they conducted themselves and everything they've done deserve to have their prized Porsche exploded the carport damaged the adjacent car damaged as well did he deserve it for being a terrible person his abandonment of his own kids and the treatment of his own kids the extortion they put upon op's sister I'd like to know what you guys think in the comments down below be a POS all of your life have fun getting stranded in a drug cartel City this Revenge was performed by my mom and her epic mind it all started when I was born life was happy good and easy my brother was a good and working person College Dropout but always very smart or that's what we thought my brother went out every night with his friends nothing alarming but very weird time passed and I turned 10 years old at this point my brother had a girlfriend a son and had already moved out it was fun until my brother moved back with me and my parents crap truly hit the fan there the first day we noticed an instant change in both his personality and appearance you see he didn't move back in alone he came with his son and girlfriend we asked why he came back and he simply said they had a problem and that this was temporary for his girlfriend to which I will refer to her as D and Son this was true but he stayed for the rest of the story in our house when de and her son left she cut contacts with both our family and my brother but occasionally asked for money don't judge her as bad just yet because she had a very good motive my brother after this became a good Forno piece of crap with everybody in the house turns out his friends were actually his dealers you know for weed and that stuff later we asked why they truly left the other house and he just said I had a fight with her brother and Dad it was vague but it was true sometime around 2018 when I turned 11 we occasionally went to visit D and her son one of those times my mom asked why she cut contact the truth was that my brother was emotionally physically verbally and sexually abusing her she didn't press charges and still refuses to do so because of fear my mom became enrage at him but didn't do anything just yet years passed my brother stayed in our house fights between my brother and everybody here became more and more common my brother smoked pot 24/7 with two kids in the freaking house I started showing signs of depression around those times I was 11 years old imagine how crappy this was for me to consider ending things at that age more time passed it's now 2020 and his first fight with my dad his stepdad just happened my mom was leaving to go to kolia con and right after the fight my brother asked if he can go my sister which was not relevant to this story offered to buy him a plane ticket this is where the Revenge starts you see my sister bought a ticket to go but not to come back Mom was the one to come up with this plan my brother didn't know this at the time kiaan is a city known for being home to various drug cartels Cena the state where kulia con is is pretty much horrible more if you're like my brother the day my mom returned is when I was notified about all of this I was expecting my mom to come back with my brother but she came home alone my brother was left alone in a hotel with no money no family nothing he tried calling us multiple times through public phones but wasn't successful at all unless he gets a job in a house he's either going to die of starvation or get killed by a drug cartel it's the first time in years I've truly felt happy I would certainly classify that nuclear Revenge do you guys think that this level of Revenge is super overboard for what they did or do you think that honestly they deserved it let me know what you guys think in the comments down below our next story is from horatius Cals I got fired and went after the boss's money his hotel and his marriage back when I was still in University I used to work for a hotel to make end's meet when I started the hotel very urgently needed new Personnel so I cut a deal with the old owner about getting to choose and pick shifts so I could visit my courses and exams speaking some extra foreign languages I also got a little bonus on each month on top the old owner was a great guy he owned multiple hotels so I rarely saw him but when he was in the house he always made a point to have drinks with the staff chat with us and if we were free he even invited those on the front desk to fancy restaurants who weren't on shift fast forward I'd worked in the hotel for a few years now and was nearing the completion of my studies so it wouldn't have been an eternity until I had to quit anyway as I was of course more interested to work in my field of study as part of my deal with the old owner I mostly chose to work night shifts allowing me to visit my courses at University during the day to make up for my privileges I had picked up the habit of doing some extra work in the dead of night other shifts would normally have to do when I on contrast could have sat around and stared at the walls people were grateful for the help in the beginning and we became a rather tight-knit group but over time people rotated in and out when the old owner retired and his jerk of a son took over the business as the new owner I already feared the worst the new owner didn't like me very much I never found out the exact reason for that one I was at that point nearly the sole veteran left from when I started among the tasks I'd taken on was doing light clerical tasks to ease the manager's job in the morning for that I generally had to use the manager's network account one night while doing my list I logged into the manager's account and email to do my job then I saw an email with my name in the subject line I know it's not nice to Snoop but of course I read it turns out the new owner wanted to get rid of me I still had my old employee contract with the business for foreign language abilities and was allowed by my contract to pick and choose shifts I can only assume that these privileges are what made the new owner hate me no idea if he had other reasons because to be honest these seem very weak to me but he couldn't fire me without cause on top of that I would be owed Severance if fired and generally there weren't enough bodies in the shift rotation without me though the new owner didn't seem to understand that point as the emails told me I looked for more emails concerning me and found them there was an email chain between some of the employees the manager and the new owner I was of course not cced as I was the hated topic the employees didn't like me hogging the night shifts because those paid better and for every night you worked you got paid the night bonus the manager was the only one rather neutral on the matter and just curbed their enthusiasm to get rid of me as they needed me to be fully staffed the new owner and my colleagues actively conspired to make a hostile work environment so I would quit of my own valtion I was Furious I thought about a variety of reactions from egging their cars to Burning Down the hotel but I settled on a less crazy method of Revenge I called my Uncle at 2 a.m. asking for advice my uncle's a lawyer so for sake of proof I forwarded myself all the emails I made photos printed them out made copies and filmed the whole deal just to be sure my uncle told me to sit tight and see if things got worse or if it was just a Bluster and so I gave it a few days and things did take a turn snide remarks about my looks clothing and so on were only the tip of the iceberg some of the colleagues were just as professional as before the conspirators always left extra work for me or pwned off crap duties they normally had to do on me I always kept a spare shirt and suit at work just to have a change which suddenly disappeared one guy even started to threaten me with violence but I kept clenching my butt cheeks I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of saving on the severance or giving in I'm a big boy after all I did however stop doing any extra work I was not obligated to do do which in the end was the reason they used to fire me they still had to pay me Severance the next day my uncle with bundled proof of the email and all documented harassment by my colleagues served the hotel my lawsuit it started with wrongful termination and ended with harassment reportedly the manager went wide as a sheet when he realized where the emails must have come from the new owner had been on vacation and had to cancel his expensive vacation in France to deal with this there Council advised them to settle so I accepted my Severance and a hefty bonus on top enough money to last me until the end of University without work but that wasn't all of my revenge I'd gone after the new owner's money but in the next step I went after the hotel I had used all the spare time during night shifts alone to document every last violation of City County District state and federal law I could find that went from minor things like some harmless mold under the kitchen sink to substantial violations like modifications to the building the building was under a limited form of historical protection by federal law on the ground of being built and inhabited by somewhat important historical figures a few hundred years back so every renovation or change in floor plan needs to be signed off on by a committee which can take ages there's also a grant paid to the new owner by the government for keeping the building intact as is so with my uncle help I sent documentation of every violation I could find to the corresponding agency in one month everything from Health Building Code fire safety to the finance and work police crawled over the hotel in the end it was the building and fire inspectors that shut that place down the new owner had done substantial renovations to the top floor luxury apartments which he had used when he was in town so the new owner had to pay back the grant pay fines for unauthorized alterations to the building endangering his guests because something wasn't built right according to fire code and had to close down the shop until the building was fixed I also tipped off a friend who had studied journalism and worked at a local paper the paper ran an article on all the violations accumulated which tanked the business once it had reopened as the newspaper article had led to horrible reviews in the end to afford all the fines repayments and building cost the new owner sold the hotel as the cherion on top all the jerks who had tried to harass me lost their job granted the people who didn't do anything to me lost their jobs too but didn't do anything to stand up for me or help me either so I don't feel too much remorse and the Revenge cherry on top was that the new owner whenever he was in town used to bring home escorts which in my country is not illegal but he was married it took some doing to get that information to the new owner's wife but one of my former colleagues who had quit before the It All Happened had her email so I let her know what the new owner was up to when he was out of town I don't know exactly what happened but they did divorce in the end make of that what you will honestly this is a pretty impressive nuclear revenge like you can tell op did a lot of work did a lot of research but also had a little bit of luck too stumbling into all those incriminating emails by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos every video has awesome stories like our next story from an anonymous poster an Australian pilot enacts revenge against the Germans in World War II Clive Caldwell Australian pilot he wound up in a British RAF Squadron flying a P40 Tomahawk one of the first units in the world to fly one Clive had trouble mastering the skill of Gunnery deflection he developed a training technique known as Shadow shooting you shoot at the shadow of your own aircraft the This was later adopted by the Desert Air Force now on to the revenge on July 4th 1941 Clive watched a German pilot kill his close friend Donald Monroe as he was parachuting to the ground that Harens Clive's attitude and he ended up shooting every parachuting enemy pilot he could this earned him the nickname Clive killer Caldwell Clive shot down 28 1/2 aircraft and had an ace in a day he nearly killed one of Germany's most most famous Aces Lieutenant wner Scher listen all I know is is if I'm out there on the actual Battlefield flying my plane around I see my friend parachuting to the ground and that happens to my own friend it would make me get very sour too what Clive did wasn't really right but it's hard to blame him and our final story of the day is by drumhead entitled ladyes Porsche loses tires okay so this story took place back when I was in Florida in the early '90s it does involve an act of vandalism is M that's connected to Revenge hopefully it won't be removed and hopefully it'll count as nuclear Revenge anyway South Florida was devastated by Hurricane Andrew my dad as part of a local charity was set up day after day at a local market seeking donations from Shoppers to give to food banks you have to understand this storm left many people homeless and without power in some cases for six plus months in Florida heat and humidity my father was legally disabled from a serious car AC accident he was hit by a drunk driver in the early 80s and suffered from Relentless hip and back problems it never killed his harder kindness to others hence the charity work one day he was about to pull into the disabled space at the local market to go buy a few items to donate to the hurricane charity right before he's about to pull in this lady pulls into the space in the shiny red Porsche my dad parks behind her and says excuse me ma'am I was about to pull in there and also points to was disabled placard in the window she says to him you don't look disabled and proceeds to walk into the store for anyone who has a relative who uses a disabled space you know the frustration of this situation and the anger one feels my dad seemingly unfaced Waits until she goes into the store and then gets out and Snips the valve stems on all four tires flattening but not destroying all of them he then pulls into another space not far away and just Waits about 15 minutes later the lady comes out and is shrieking about her car being vandalized my dad's far enough away so she can't see him but he can hear everything she calls the police big mistake she files a report for vandalism and the police give her a ticket for being parked in the disabled space with no plard about $250 at the time the cops leave and she calls a tow truck as the cars being Lo loaded onto the truck my dad pulls up and says to her you don't look disabled but your car sure is and then drives off my dad could be a nice guy and a pure Savage when he needed to be well what op's father did here was absolutely not right but despite that there's something about this story that you can't help leaving it without a smile on your face my dad's side of the family doesn't play around for a little bit of background this is a story that's been confirmed as absolutely 100% true and has always been shared in Whispers whenever I was lucky enough to hear it I live in a predominantly Mexican family and my dad's side is the Mexican side our cast for this nuclear feature orge is cousin SLS server Arabella is cousin sister m is Mobsters Jack Jack is the dbag lady hitter it begins in the 1950s Midwest in a larger city orge was working for a decently classy restaurant that the mob used to frequent due to its supposedly stellar food now this was back in the day when the mobs used to run the cities with their protections and whatnot so seeing suited up tonies in the street wasn't the most abnormal thing every time the mob came in to eat Jorge had them at a table in no time they were waited on hand and foot and nothing less Jorge made sure they were fully supported throughout the meal and entertained with conversation now somewhere along these lines the Mobsters noticed how much Jorge was busting his balls and gave him a favor card with a number on it they said if anything goes down and he needs help he is to call the number on the card and tell them what's going on and that the situation will get taken care of in the meanwhile Arabella had started dating Jack H and everything was lovey-dovey at first short time later Jorge started noticing Arabella getting more and more distant emotionally and always coming with new bruises and marks and silly excuses for them Jorge then starts questioning Arabella about what the situation is and eventually Arabella breaks down and reveals Jack H is the one laying his hands on her so much orge didn't like this orge didn't like this at all so when he was all right and riled up all he had to do was make one phone call he told them everything he knew according to Jorge Jack H was picked up in a van somewhere off the street beaten halfway to death and then left on the side of a highway a away away from town tldr don't mess with the sister of a guy who's trusted by the mob to serve them food I mean you just got to tell me 1950s Midwest in a larger City and I already believe you if you were serving these guys and they gave you a card like that would you ever actually consider using it or would that be the kind of thing you tuck away and just try to forget about let me know in the comments down below by the way if you enjoy these stories make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons down below so you know never miss any of my daily videos our next story is from Anonymous Survivor 5 years later the nuclear revenge on an abusive Predator is so so sweet backstory trigger warning I was adopted as a child from South Korea into an American family and was abused in many many ways I won't go into exact details here but my background led me into the relationship the story is about I didn't learn what a good and loving relationship should be like and wasn't able to recognize is being groomed as a l te by a much older man inter jerk SL Predator psychotic narcissist AP for short not one of the family but came along after I left the abusive home these happenings took place over the course of the following 15 years after I left the abusive home he was 32 and I was not quite 19 yet I'm now 38 I ended up being whisked away from the only real family I knew sis Mom and Dad no blood relation but I was their unofficially adopted daughter to California from the beginning I noticed some things were off when I was being groomed but didn't know how to recognize the signs of grooming 2 years into the relationship the abuse really started in Earnest over the course of our travels and problems I noticed that he would talk incessantly online with other women he even made it a point to tell me about one that turned him on on a job site he worked Telcom construction jobs I also caught him online with a 16-year-old he told me amidst severe paleness and sweating stammering and fear at this point it was like having to take care of an adult-aged baby who had to have things his way all the time I enjoyed when he left for weeks on end sometimes months for work it meant that I didn't have to deal with his butt all the time just to clarify why I say it's like taking care of an adult-aged baby he would literally poop himself and drip it all over the floor on his way to the bathroom and then make me clean it up this happened all the time that's just one example he would throw the Christmas tree more often than not during some argument or another during the holidays so I started not putting one out throwing things breaking furniture and punching holes and walls non-consent those sorts of things about 8 years into the relationship AP ended up getting an inheritance from an uncle who passed away in his family and so started the if you ever take my money and leave I'll find you and kill or shoot you threats he was big into guns and had many mind you this is a man who is a severely paranoid psychopath which I eventually learned that he was a paranoid schizophrenic via his ex-wife I found on Facebook it was then that I really really tried to find a way out it was difficult because he kept moving me around the US to different places in several States so the last place he forced me to move to was Missouri enter the 3,000 square foot home that he made me cosign for I hated it I had to keep it spotless which also meant running after AP constantly picking up around him and cleaning I was also working part-time and doing College full-time the problems got worse at this point as this is about the time I found him online with the 16-year-old Miner this is when it really dawned on me that he was grooming someone else he would also force me to talk to his then current girlfriend whenever she called at the time too all this was adding up and since we were finally in a big city I knew I could find a way to leave since there were resources out there AP decided he was going to go on a trip with a friend out of state so that's when I planned to leave I planned ahead let the shelter know the situation when to expect me and if I didn't show to call the police after 24 to 48 hours of no show I had copies of my social security card and birth certificate too AP figured out something was up and ended up not going I was a day late in getting to the shelter but I made it it was a violent fight that night and I ended up leaving injured with nothing but the clothes on me my hat jacket and some cigarettes oh and my hidden identification copies the nuclear Revenge part one once I got to the shelter I used one day to decompress then the Revenge plan started all the utilities including the cell service was in my name yep I called and came canell them all the utility companies are required to give a 7-Day disconnect notice to the occupant to allow them time to get the utilities in their name so I knew AP would have problems with this because AP had crap credit and hence the reason why everything was in my name the s service was immediate however which meant AP no longer had a phone to use for work the Gable company I also put a password on the pay-per-view so we couldn't rack it up with adult entertainment I did call my bank and let them know but was unaware at the time that he could still cash a check which he did do and forged my name more on that later so after I got everything cancelled I knew it was time to find a place and start over and finish getting my revenge and my life back luckily I had a friend later husband we'll call him H in Ohio who offered me a place to stay I used my last paycheck to grab a bus ticket and high tailed it out of there part two Once I arrived in Ohio and settled in I started taking stock of my options H is a retired law enforcement slm military SL doctor slm martial arts practitioner so much there that he's done but it comes in handy later too in more ways than one he helped me to figure out my options letting me know our local laws and helping me in finding the right type of attorney to help me he also helped me in documenting everything that AP decided to do once he figured out where I had gone and AP did try AP even sent someone to our home to threaten to kill us AP tirelessly stalked send threatening emails Etc part three with documentation in hand and a 15-page typed statement I called up a local Missouri attorney we'll call him A1 who ended up being amazing and he helped me take care of all the filings I needed to do AP and I were together barely shy of 10 years and Missouri is a common law state I had to go through a legal separation to sever everything we had in Missouri A1 ended up getting me an excellent judgment against him as well as a warrant for his arrest for that County the documentation of his erratic threatening behaviors still continued part four AP was so scared that he ran away he ran back to California and ended up getting married enter my attorneys A2 A3 and ap's to attorneys A2 on my end ended up a flop so I hired A3 A's first attorney I had had taken off the case since he had represented both of us during the house purchase he really thought I was stupid to allow that to go under the radar due to the Judgment amount I ended up hiring an attorney who dealt with judgments 40,000 and above normally for businesses my judgment wasn't much below that amount so he took my case the amount was also coincidentally very close to the amount he still had left from his inheritance I asked A1 to ask for that amount since it was all he had left left of his inheritance he filed a sister State judgment so that the interest in judgment were moved to California for me A3 got ap's second attorney to drop him since they were colleagues at one point AP no longer had any legal representation and tried to represent himself from this point on and boy did AP make a fool of himself trying to represent himself part five enter my private investigator later on turned friend that A1 recommended Pi for short he enjoyed that chase because of the situation behind it Pi hates abusers like him Pi found him in California and we ended up finding all of ap's personal address information Etc because he was arrested for domestic violence on his pregnant wife we were able to serve him during his court hearing on his wife's case via a bayith oh to have been a fly on the wall remember above I said that I'd found out that AP had forged my signature and cashed a check on my bank account yeah I also had all the proof from that and had him out and out on check fraud and forgery as an Ace in the Hole if I ever needed it which A3 was also provided as well the last act with all the proof in my hand AP also knew I had him on check fraud and forgery should the need arise the judgments and the warrants a second warrant was about to be issued in California on him as well from me and A3 he finally offered to settle in the end I still got the the same amount of my judgment plus court costs he never realized that that was what I was aiming for he always said if I ever took his money and left him he would find me and kill or shoot me I still got his money and he never did do that it took 5 years but darn if I wasn't going to fight tooth and nail to nail this jerk for what he put me through it was amazing being able to nail him with some sweet nuclear revenge for 10 years of grief between myself H and A3 he was so scared that he wouldn't even go into a3's office to hand over the payment for the settlement he made someone else do it h and I took his money renovated our home bought h a pickup truck me a replacement Honda Pilot since AP stole mine before some other miscellaneous things that AP would have hated and finally got my Korean sky dragon tattoo sleeve done the Sky Dragon was something that he always wanted done for him but was too chicken poop to handle the pain with we made great use of that money for a 6t blond-haired 400 lb man he became obsessed with food during the course of our relationship and added 200 lb he ended up being a whimpering terrified crybaby not bad for an abuse Survivor who put up with 10 years of abuse oh and H and I have been together now for 9 years married for six and a half of them all I can say is putting up with that for 10 years op deserved everything they got and probably more and the guy got off easy being able to settle and our final story of the day is by SLG 407 bully me for 5 years enjoy being blind so when I was in the first grade some guy moved into my school I'll call him p p was a tall thin guy he liked to bully me verbally and would sometimes hit me this Revenge starts in the fifth grade I've always had anger issues so when I got angry it was extreme and sometimes it would take up to five teachers to to hold me down so after P did a particularly tick move on me I snapped but this time it was different I let the rage build up inside me and when class ended I waited for him to bully me a little bit more after a while he shoved me to the ground I got up and looked at him with the most rage I've ever had and I punched his face but I missed and hit his ey so hard his retina detached he then proceeded to fall to the ground crying and I got suspended for a week but didn't get in too much trouble because the school considered it self-defense his retina got damaged when the surgeon tried to reattach it he's now blind in one eye well I'm not going to say that this kid necessarily deserved to go and lose eyesight in one eye but if that sure as heck isn't one Learning lesson about being a bully I don't know what would get through to them I think the only thing I'd want to know from op is if they continued a bully like Behavior or if they seem to clean up or stop messing with OP I mean all I know is if I was that kid and I lost my one eye I'd probably stop messing with OP I'd avoid them like the plague to bury the hatch when mother-in-law was young and growing up on a plantain Farm she had an uncle who was smitten for a neighbor girl the uncle and girl had grown up together had been the best of friends and he wanted her like no other she said all he had to do was ask but the poor guy was so nervous one day they both stroll into town together and the town bully sees her at the Mark it he compliments her unfavorably and demands he take her out because the town knows he always gets his way the uncle of jacks to which the bully says he'll follow them home and harass her until she agrees and spread lies about Uncle she tells the uncle some days later that she'll go with the bully to stop the harassment he tells her his dreams and says his peace to her and she agrees that they'll be together forever after this night she goes that night and is never seen alive again a week later news comes out that parts of the missing girl are found in a local Pig Pen about the same time rumors of the bully being involved are circulating buly neither denies nor admits doing it an investigation is opened the bully seems to have numerous airtight aliis is let go but closely watched Uncle confronts the town bully about where she might be well he said he didn't know but invites Uncle to a card game that coming weekend to bury the Hat about all this and Uncle agrees the rest of the week he hears rumors of the bully bragging that he was involved he tells his family the news and they were very saddened his mother advises him against any Revenge but says that she would stand by any decision he drives to the card game wins a decent amount and offers to take the bully out on the town since Uncle had the money now buy gets wasted starts passing out an uncle's car and proceeds to talk incoherently about the girl 's disappearance he goes on about how she wanted to pet the pigs but he said only if she kisses him and she says when they get there they get to the pig farm she refuses and says she wants to go home but he had other plans he knocks her out has his way with her and feeds her to the pigs uncle is furious drives bully to the closest pig farm and proceeds to use the hatchet that he always kept in his trunk to blood and dismember said bully and fed him to several hungry pens Uncle drives as fast as he can to the family farm where he tells his mother she tells him to put his clothes in the burn barrel and she would meet him at the river right after she took the hatchet and buried it deep into a random plantain trunk then he got into bed with all the kids and pretended to sleep that night the police came knocking and asked to speak with Uncle as he was last seen with the bully they said the bully was found the same way the girl had been knew of uncle's affection and wanted to know if he had been involved his mother tells him that he came straight home right after the card game and said the community could vouch for him because he was part of the piranda they left empty-handed but opened an investigation the following week uncle was questioned the local community was questioned but Uncle had numerous airtight aliis so it turns out even some guy in Larry's that Uncle never met considering people who have never even met Uncle were willing to vouch for them and try to give them an alibi do you think that this bully deserved what happened to them especially with what the bully did to the neighbor girl let me know what you guys think in the comments down below our next story is from accurate chain 8581 I built a 15t wall to tell my neighbor that I was upset this is not my story but my dad's and he tends to get funny acts of Revenge so I'll be posting a lot from now on a little about him whenever someone upsets him he never shouts and never gets angry but gets crazy Revenge so on with the story about 12 years ago he bought a piece of land on the outskirts of a major city and well he had plans but at that time not the funds so it was just a piece of land and 6 years after buying the land some people bought the land next to it and built a house there and where I live it's currently not possible to get a water pipe directly to your house so every evening a tractor came hooked with a tank to give you water to bathe and other stuff so after the construction was done a family moved in and started getting water from the tanker and around that same time my father planted two Mingo trees on our property that evening when my father came to water the plants a bit he noticed they were destroyed so the next day he confronted the tractor driver to look out for the plants but the driver only laughed a bit and mumbled something a few days later he got more trees and same as before they were destroyed and he again confronted the driver same thing happened and he again got the plants and the next day they were again destroyed so after a fourth time of this he was pissed the next day what he did was call a trench digger and made a 4ft deep trench around his property and when the driver came with his tractor he was baffled and was like what do I do now in the end he had to go around the whole Lane of the house about 1 km as the behind area of the properties was currently where he came from to give them water so after digging the trench my dad started building the wall first the wall was a mere 2 ft and the neighbors thought it would stop there but no the wall then grew to 3 ft then 5 ft then 8 ft they thought it would stop there but nope it went up to 11 ft completely blocking their sunlight in Wind then my father bought three dogs two bullies and a Tibetan Mastiff though he later bought two huskys who howl every single night and then he planted some trees which were a bit short but growing so in the end my neighbors do not have access to sunlight fresh air or a good night's sleep just because they messed with my dad I mean I feel this is completely fair game so to clarify the neighbors were going to the tanker every single day and trampling over op's father's plants first of all they were trespassing to get to the tanker and not only were they trespassing they were damaging property so I think it's more than a fair game for op's father to build up their defenses to prevent being terrorized by their own neighbors also I hope that the mango trees were able to grow after that point because mangoes are delicious and I hope they were able to enjoy some by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like And subscribe buttons down below so you never miss any of my daily videos every single video has awesome stories like our next story from Hannibal Von manstein High School Athletics versus broken blood vessel here dear readers another con of my school years I'm in the end of grade 10 and the wrestling season is drawing to a close we set the scene at the city championships where the bronze medal qualifier is about to take place Hannibal myself and entitled wrestler are fighting for the bronze medal of the 90 kg 198 lb weight class both are in grade 10 the winner will not only get the medal but the chance to advance to the regional competition held in a few weeks being very evenly pitched as the same height weight and age Etc I very slowly gained points on entitled wrestler then within 30 seconds to spare entitled wrestler pulls a reversal on the ground to spare the details the score at the end was seven for Hannibal and four for entitled wrestler however the incompetent referee was either a relative or an acquaintance I never found out but I suspect incompetent referee says I'm pinned after after the Bell is rung giving entitled wrestler the win even though I was ahead on points wasn't pinned and the timer had clearly ran out I am infuriated to the point of saying a profane word that rhymes with hockey puck to which the incompetent referee tells me no swearing on the mats young man all the while enduring a self-righteous smile from both him and the entitled wrestler who stole my victory nearly all my self-control was needed not to punch incompetent referee full power in the throat I am livid for days as my wrestling season has just ended I then take the anger and lift weights very seriously from the end of City championships April until just before grade 11 season November if you've never lifted weights and anger I highly recommend it there's nothing quite as soothing as the healing power of hatred I push the extra reps out knowing next year I would embarrass him every time our schools would duel but the gods were were even more generous than that and so our revenge begins grade 11 preseason tournament has now started a pool tournament where each weight class is split into groups of five or six and everyone wrestles everyone else those who win all the matches get a small medal it's seen as a warm-up tournament to get used to the ensuing months of high competition entitled wrestlers in my pool after the national anthem and the head referee welcoming and wishing good luck to all the competitors over the PA system entitled the approaches he then says to me with the most arrogant smile he could muster hey you go to high school name don't you yeah I remember you I beat you at cities last year the hubris was over the top as the same incompetent referee is running the Met were on with my loose fitted shirt on he can't tell I've been working out thinking about punishing him for the past 7 months I smile and say yeah close match with the Zen of knowing all that work will now pay off our names are called by the incompetent referee I remove my shirt and the difference is literally night and day he looks exactly the same condition he looks nervous after the formality of shaking hands the whistle blows due to the now excessive upper body strength difference his defense crumbles and I've scored a one-point takedown it was literally me grabbing both his shoulders and throwing him down the move although not an officially named move was described by a close friend and teammate in the 68 kg class as like a cop arresting a suspect bro this took all of 8 seconds I'm on his back thinking of a good way to pin him and the Cradle comes to mind I execute the cradle and he's been pinned in Under 12 seconds Hannibal wins the incompetent referee does not give me the pin he slowly counts to five then gives me another point for holding his plan was to have entitled wrestler break my grip from the cradle making me arm tired thus allowing him to win via scoring back the two points he was now down and aside to the Cradle it's a move where you grab around someone's knee and over their neck holding the leg to the chest this makes it near impossible to avoid being turned onto the back and exposes both shoulder blades for a pin I have the Cradle unentitled wrestler and he's fighting for all he can the incompetent referee is not going to give me the win my mind switches gears once I he figure out the following I hate this person he stole my victory last year and he's trying that even now how much can I hurt him I start squeezing harder and harder like a boa or python I squeeze harder when he breathes out so he can never refill his lungs to full capacity the incompetent referee does nothing waiting for me to exhaust myself entitled wrestler turns red then blue I'm suffocating him with all my might my workouts had taken me to the low end of the strength Spectrum for grown men and he was still an average teenager a fully legal move is still devastating to the body when done full power with a massive strength difference for a long time after a good 50 to 60 seconds of suffocating entitled wrestler into said pretzel formation I look up at incompetent referee I show no exertion as I smile at him he sees that I'm enjoying hurting entitled wrestler as I squeeze even harder jerking his head and neck visibly he realizes his politics are no match for my conditioning and quickly ends the match with a pin victory for Hannibal aftermath entitled wrestler has to be helped off the mats by his school's coach I've squeezed him so hard and long that I've broken blood vessels in his eyes he has to sit out the season for the medical the head referee reprimands Inc competent referee and kicks him out of the tournament he later loses his license to referee REM matches as he's allowed a kid under his watch to be so badly hurt due to gross incompetence I continue with the tournament ending with a 4 in1 record losing only to the kid who was about 6'5 with his reach Advantage he was able to keep me from grabbing around his waist yeah I've got to say this incompetent referee clearly had a game plan and honestly it works out well if you're refereeing a match that's actually fairly ranked but in this free-for-all format where somebody like op who can be like hulked out goes up against entitled wrestler who is not quite nearly as hulked out you can't really count on entitled wrestler being able to hold their own long enough to like create a scenario where they could win if you're out of match the way you are like op was against entitled wrestler here in the second match you're probably going to end up pinned in submission and our final story of the day is by Mitchell lady a man murdered my step a his body was never found to start this story is going to be a short story this isn't my story but my stepdad's he didn't go into much detail so I can't he's gone nearly 20 years now so I can't ask for any this story occurs in the 1950s when he was a teenager in a small town in Michigan USA my stepdad had a younger sister and one night she went on her very first date ever with this guy she really liked from school dad said she was so excited and spent hours getting ready she never came home that night she was assaulted and murdered the date denied any wrongdoing and the police didn't charge him but he was the last person she was with so everyone assumed they knew what happened some of my dad's friends decided to take matters into their own hands he said he wasn't happy with them and I believe him but he knew the lake they dumped his body in he told us that when he left to go to n in 59 there'd been a few attempts to drain the lake but none has succeeded dad was a Native American and said that he thought the spirits didn't want the man's body to be found this is definitely one of those situations that you come to really appreciate the modern forensics nowadays just being able to get DNA samples and testing if you have a suspect in hand like that you're going to be able to find some kind of evidence and you'll be able to directly test it against that suspect in the 1950s they just didn't have that kind of technology and especially nowadays there's cameras just about everywhere I mean a lot of crimes nowadays still go completely unsolved but compared to like the 1950s it's not even close revenge of the bullied the butterfly effect the Prelude I was a sweet nerdy boy when I was a child I was interested in the science computers avionics and mechanics I was also slightly on the heavier side but not so much that it would disqualify me from playing sports with the other kids in my school I was generally liked by my peers so I've never been in physical conflict until that that summer when I was 10 my parents sent me to the summer camp for 2 weeks this is something I was looking forward to for months as soon as we arrived at the camp things had gone sideways pretty quickly I don't remember what exactly started the bullying and I have a crapload of repressed memories about that period but I do remember this one guy in particular let's call him ring leader I tried to resist the bullying and fight back but he was 2 to 3 years older and the difference in sheer physical power power was overwhelming he also got several other boys and girls on his side so it was impossible for me to Mount any kind of effective defense the fact that the camp supervisors the adults knew about this and ignored this entirely did not help either keep in mind that this was during the 9s in a post Soviet country cell phones were not a thing back then so I had no option to contact my parents about what was going on my morning's at the camp and I mean every every single morning would start with a ring leader and several other of his craphead friends throwing a bed sheet over me while I was still sleeping and beating me up they called this the blanket I never knew who exactly was present as I was busy trying to cover my head and face from the blows this would repeat in some shape or form several times over the day basically every time the supervisors were not present and sometimes even in the middle of the night some nights I would wake up basically covered in bit and snot while ring leader was there laughing with his band They of course restricted me from using a bathroom to clean myself up and this was a point of immense entertainment and bragging stories for them in one instance I remember the ring leader getting up from his bed during the night peeing on me while I was asleep and then waking the whole Camp up telling everyone that I've wet the bed sheets like a little baby I was even reprimanded by the supervisors and the nickname piss boy stuck for the whole remainder of the heck Camp the ring leader even tried to coax me to give him a hand on one occasion in order for him to stop bullying me rest assured he was not successful I was defeated but not broken after returning from the camp I told my parents about some of the stuff but I kept the most hardcore parts to myself I was too ashamed my father was an ex Soldier and a senior ranking intelligence officer SL investigator at the time but even he was not able to do too much of about it within the limits of law when my father tried to confront him the ring Leader's father basically told us to buzz off and to add insult to injury blame the situation on me for being a little wussy this was done over the freaking intercom in front of their freaking house he didn't even see us I don't mean to go into too much detail here but the fact is that this summer effectively ended my childhood and started a chain of events that would end up with me being the way I am now the long-term impact you see I'm in my mid 20s and I've been diagnosed with borderline antisocial personality disorder basically I'm a sociopath apart from other things this means that I have very little capacity for empathy or any other emotion for that matter I can on occasion get happy angry sad or even scared but the stimuli for this have to be pretty strong and I also have to choose to feel something I in particular do have a deep distrust towards authorities hate incompetence and neglectfulness and do not shy from physical psychological or emotional confrontation if I deem it necessary this personality adjustment is not entirely a bad thing for me either I'm able to remain entirely composed in high stress or hostile situations and can also read people extremely well since my biases and emotions rarely play a role in my assessments this led me to some pretty interesting career choic ches over the years since people with my disposition are pretty rare and valuable in different roles contrary to popular belief sociopaths are not entirely malicious we don't go out of our way to harm some random person just for poops and Giggles because we're bored we need a darn good reason to do nefarious stuff but when we have one we execute flawlessly fast forward 10ish years I was working as a security guard in one of the more frequented bars in my city this was not the kind kind of a security guard that you would imagine guarding a mall or pulling a night shift in an administrative building we always worked in teams of two and instead of Badges and uniforms our standard equipment would consist of Civilian clothing a melee weapon of our choosing leather gloves and a concealed firearm which I fortunately never had to use we were of course prohibited from drinking in the establishment even on off-duty hours but were otherwise required to socialize with the patrons and to generally appear non-threatening most of the nights it would be pretty quiet and mellow since most of the people knew not to mess around with the staff or other customers and even appreciated the extra layer of security on one such a night I was sitting and chatting with some of our regulars part of the job appear normal and non-threatening when all of a sudden the ring leader enters the establishment he didn't recognize me so far and he also appeared drunk as heck however in short time he started verbally abusing one of our waitresses in circumstances like these we employed a one strike rule you got one warning from the staff and if you didn't change your behavior on the spot and permanently you would be forcefully removed my colleague who was a closer and had better overview of the situation slowly approached the guy and asked him to stop insulting The Waitresses although I did pay attention I wanted to distance myself from this situation as much as possible since I knew that if the ring leader recognized me the situation would probably escalate rapidly suddenly the ring leader grabbed an empty bottle of beer from the table and hit the colleague over his right elbow doing some pretty significant damage he threw the bottle away and ran for it immediately I quickly checked to my colleague instructed the staff to call the cops and Then followed the ring leader outside as soon as I got out I realized the freaker was completely sober and that he had two other friends outside they did this on purpose and were trying to provoke a street fight all along I was unsure if he knew who I was or if he was targeting me on purpose but I was not 10 years old anymore I took out my baton and proceeded with the engagement the freaker even had the balls to call me a wussy and asked for a one-on-one without the Baton it took them five seconds to realize that they've made a mistake they didn't bring any weapons so as soon as the first one fell to the ground the ring leader and his remaining friend decided to flee I was not about to let the ring leader get away with this kind of BS I caught up to him in less than 100 m I did actually only use the necessary Force to make him comply to my kind request to come back to the front bar and let the cops sort things out as we relatively calmly waited for the police to arrive I realized he indeed did not know who I was and I was not about to spoil the fun they arrived like 3 minutes later they informed me that they were looking for a group of guys provoking fights in this manner over the last month and asked if we wanted to press charges of course we did my colleague who almost got his elbow shattered was unable to attend work for several months his friend that I had to put down in front of the bar even tried to press charges against the establishment but it was quickly dismissed as reasonable self-defense since there was no lasting damage I assume my name must have come up during the proceeding but the ring leader never connected the dots between myself as a 10-year-old boy and My New Self the best part the ring leader was already up for sexual assault charges and while arresting the ring leader the kind officers even found drugs on the dumb idiot it was just a small amount of ganja but you could get served with some serious time just for that back then of course he claimed somebody had planted the drugs why would anybody do that to him though I'll never know lots of repressed memories as I've said in the end he was sent to jail for 3 years did I mention that my father was an intelligence officer I believe I did well my father was already dead by this time but most of his old friends were not some still worked with law enforcement one was overseeing the guards in the jail the ring leader was sent to at the time I've made sure that my father's friend remembered what happened to me and that summer camp to put this into context back at the time our jails were pretty rough several of the people working there were still from the old guard trained and taught by Soviets this was certainly not a summer camp fast forward 5 years the Reckoning I was now running security at The Establishment but the company grew a little bit we now own the whole building which consisted of several stories some of our duties consisted of making sure that the upper stories were empty during the nights as the building was still technically accessible to the public because the bar was open 24/7 during the winter months we've often had homeless people trying to sneak past us and hide within the building since it could get as low as -30° C during the nights even if it put our jobs at risk we've had an unofficial understanding with the security guys as far as the homeless people were not littering the place were not bringing alcohol or raising commotion and got out before 6:00 in the morning we let them sleep and even wash in some of the unused utility rooms we even sneak some blankets in we were not animals and we realized that these people had nowhere else to go on one such night I was checking the floors making sure that nothing nefarious was going on when suddenly I hear someone snoring in one of the utility rooms I knew it was one of the homeless people but I still needed to check it for damage and alcohol upon closer inspection I found a ring leader sleeping there he lost a lot of weight from the last time I've seen him and was in overall bad shape later I learned that he'd had serious mental and emotional problems because of the treatment he got in prison basically he was bullied heavily by the inmates and the guards did absolutely nothing about it this led to heavy substance abuse once he got released eventually getting him into serious debt and not the nice clean debt towards the banks I mind you his parents had to eventually sell the house just to cover it for him they moved to a small apartment and kicked him out onto the streets standing there I'm thinking about cutting the guy a slack thinking he's been through enough already I turned towards the doors intent on leaving him be then I remember how he freaking peed on me while I was asleep and made it look like I wet the bed I remember how he and his punks hurt me several times a day for 2 weeks straight I remember him barring me access from the bathrooms while I was covered in dried snot and spit and laughing and bragging about it later I remember him trying to coax a hand out of a 10 old boy I remember his crap of a father blaming me for all that over the intercom I remember him injuring my colleague five years ago just to stir crap up I think about the girl he tried to assault the sex assault charges I break I put my gloves on and drag the guy by his neck out into the freezing cold I can clearly see he doesn't fully comprehend what is happening to him still half asleep once outside he starts to freaking beg he's trying to appeal to my sense of humanity then he gets angry I quickly reaffirm that he's in no position to be aggressive towards me or anyone else and remind him not to make the same mistake he made 5 years ago then he remembers he says you you got me into the jail 5 years ago I say you got there yourself pal he says why are you doing this to me I say I don't know I'm just a horrible kind of person I genuinely enjoy this he says what have I ever done to you I say nothing really I would stop but you'd have to give me a hand first this gives him a pause now I can almost see him connecting the dots in his stupid little head the wheels are crunching for a while he then wants to see something but I see that he realized he realized everything he opens his mouth but not an Iota comes out he simply turns on his heel and takes on into the freezing night later that night I let all the security guards know that he's the one who assaulted our guy some years ago and that he's not to be allowed to stay anywhere near the building under any circumstances the aftermath I'm now working an entirely different field in a different company I'm ahead of it and an R&D Branch but are often invited to lead negotiations by other department heads particularly the more problematic and hostile kind the kind where customers try to renegotiate prices after our part of the contract is fulfilled or refuse to pay for services or work done at all my particular talents come in pretty handy in these situations I know how it sounds but this is all within legal means it's just that my crappy country has pretty crappy Judicial Systems and virtually zero protection against customers screwing contractors or providers after they finish the job or deliver the product our company's currently entering a deal to acquire a small business providing various Recreation services including running summer camps for children a as far as I can tell some of the employees have been working there for more than 20 years ring leader survived the winter he lost some fingers due to frostbite but nothing major I still sometimes see him around the city and it always puts a smile on my face I make a point of giving the poor guy some cash each time I meet him since I know he'll inevitably spend it on drugs and booze considering everything that went on here everything op did everything this guy did and everything that guy had happened to him was that enough revenge for this guy in his life after all he did was that enough Karma or do you think being homeless roaming the city losing fingers to frostbite do you think he deserved even worse than that let me know what you guys think in the comments down below but with that being said Psychopathic bully gets his head crushed in by one of his victims this story is from my grandfather and takes place sometime around 1942 in a small town in Idaho his memory is bad and so is mine so take most details with a grain of salt my grandpa was always a tough person even when he was a child a bit of a jerk even but this was the 40s and people were different back then he was also a small child and that attracted a lot of bullies there was one bully however who was worse than most his brothers would usually back him up but this kid came along after his older brothers moved to a different school and left him with his younger siblings this was the 1940s so the bully got away with absolutely Psychopathic levels of beatings and he would sometimes involve friends to beat him in a gang great-grandfather wouldn't do anything and he told him to be a man so he did one day Grandpa hid behind the corner of a building where he knew the bully passed every single day when the jerk stepped past the corner Granda swung a brick at his head as hard as he could the kid skull caved in Grandpa described it as being like an ash tray and he hit the ground Grandpa can't remember if he died or just had severe brain damage but nobody messed with Grandpa after that if it was described as looking like an ashtray I'm going to say I would be very very surprised if the person actually survived that I mean even in the 1940s I'm kind of questioning how op's Grandpa got away with that that must have been a real small town in Idaho but with that being said that's all the time we had for today now if you want to hear another Revenge story that was even more insane than the ones in this video click on that left video or if you missed my latest video click on the right but with that said I'll see you all next time for some more 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what's an oh crap moment when you realize you've been doing something the wrong way for years I lived in the house for 6 years with a bathroom with no shelf for cupboard to put toiletries into I was very disappointed and ended up using a window sill that was way too small to fit everything anyway one day we had a friend over and he asked why we didn't have anything in our bathroom cupboard I was confused so he showed me it turns out that the mirror had been using for six years as a hidden compartment behind it it was a mirror door to a mounted cupboard on the wall I was astonished and immediately moved all my stuff from the window into the new space my friend was baffled that I had never figured out there was a space behind the mirror there was an obvious gap between it and the wall that I somehow failed to notice another one was that my family always had a cup next to the bathroom sink in case you needed to rinse your mouth after brushing your teeth or maybe get a quick drink of water in the middle of the night my Grandma had the same cup at her house I used it for years whenever I was thirsty one day she saw me doing this and said don't use that cup that's where Grandma puts her teeth it's called a medicine cabinet I'll let you pause here to check the bathroom if you have one too story two I grew up without a mom she passed away when I was six I was afraid to ask my dad how to put a tampon in one day I commented about age 18 to some friends that tampons hang too far out and make me feel like a waddle when I walk my friend asked me how I put them in I thought I would get stuck up there and wasn't inserting it far enough I did it wrong for about 5 years my friends still make fun of me for it I can't help but use the dead mom card but looking back it's pretty common sense that I have to shove it up there in addition I didn't really feel comfortable with my body so I'm not sure I understood what the directions were asking plus my dad was a really good dad obviously he made some general mistakes as a parent as all parents do but as a substitute mother he did a great job he taught me how to shave my legs funny voices and all and he was a Girl Scout Troop leader for almost 10 years he tried to figure out how to French braid and he calmed my nasty ratty hair on a daily basis Story three I was living in a foreign country where I was actively learning the language social accuses go a long way when learning language on the spot that being said someone once said a phrase to me while serving a hot dish which I assumed meant to excuse me after going through crowds and lines replicating the same phrasee in an attempt to be respectful of those around me I abruptly found out that the phrase actually meant enjoy hindsight completely makes sense the OD looks I would get by saying enjoy while squeezing past people all of a sudden made sense for contacts this happened while I was living in Vietnam phrase was sin it was even more deceiving because it was similar to the phrase for Sor which is sin Loy that was year one the following three years were full of similar mistakes tonal languages are tough story four my wife and I have this ceiling fan in our bedroom in the house we moved into 2 years years ago it has a remote control for the fan and lights about a year and a half ago the lights suddenly stopped working the fan works well and we didn't have a ton of money so we just lived with lamps in the room always frustrated with how damn dark it is I was scrolling and saw post of a guy talking about how his lights stopped working years ago then he found out that they were just dimmed which you do by holding down the button on the remote it sounded so much like a fan that I went and tried it and yes it was dimmed on the bright side ironically mood lighting and lower electricity bills makes the relationship healthier don't you think Story five so I was fortunate enough to buy my own home due to unfortunate circumstances moved in and the thermostat thing was set to about 70° Fahrenheit this time went on I couldn't figure out why there was no visible way for me to change the temperature electric bill would be through the roof every month the thermostat is well above my eye level and lived alone for quite some time though family and friends did visit regularly after several months of leaving windows open or closed to adapt of the change in weather I finally asked my niece I think to check the thermostat for a way to change the temperature she looked around for bit and saw that there was a tab I was supposed to pull to reveal all the buttons and settings of the darn thermostat oh crap story six I was incredibly sheltered growing up anything intimate was taboo and not disgusted I was in Middle School when instant messaging really became mainstream I couldn't understand why the boy I had a crush on kept laughing at me and telling me not to use the Shand for come I didn't find out for a few years telling someone what to do and what to not do should always come with an explanation but hey at least her Crush won't be able to forget her story seven back in in the early 2010s my boyfriend and I had a PlayStation that we used for Netflix since we didn't have a smart TV the controller was in such a short core that we would always have to get up from the couch to change the program or push any buttons my boyfriend also used to have to sit up on the floor up close to the TV to play his video games since the cord was so short one day my brother came to visit we put something on Netflix and got up to use the remote like we always did my brother proceeded to unplug the controller handed it to us and said you realize this is a wireless controller right we dumbfounded why would there be a cord coming from it it turns out that just to charge a wireless controller needless to say we were mindblown Story 8 I have a flashlight that I've had for nearly a decade I originally got it because it looked like a lightsaber and was cheap plus you could twist the lens around it to focus it or so I thought when I got it home and put batteries in it found that twisting the top didn't change the focus I assumed the top being able to twist was just a result of it being cheap fast forward to a month or so ago the storm picked up during the night so I went out to check to see if anything was going to blow away as I was trying to open the gate the flashlight slipped and it caught about the top part the twists but the rest of the flashlight sled about two inches down from the twisty part and it turns out if you pull the top part up it turns into a lantern type thing for lighting up an area it's nothing big but there have been times when it would have been incredibly useful to be able to put the torch down and light up a wide area I'm not even mad about that Lantern type feature considering it's cheap the fact that it's been useful for nearly a decade means it's more than an awesome buy story n after moving to a new city I went to the laundromat and the Korean lady working was yelling at me about something I couldn't understand after some anim it became clear that she was upset that I was putting in the wrong detergent but it was the same kind I had been using for 8 years since moving away to college and being behind it turns out I've been washing my clothes with only fabric softener for nearly a decade they always smelled good so I never really thought about it not my proudest moment story 10 I owned a light blue colored microwave for about 3 years that a family member gave me as a housewarming gift I thought it was cool they had never seen a blue microwave before one night a buddy asked why I never took the blue plastic wrap off my microwave and proceeded to peel it off from me damn that thing is silver I still miss my blue microwave sometimes though oh man I grieve for a blue microwave too this buddy should never be allowed near any cool appliances again story 11 a couple of years ago I was trying to open some toothpaste and had to break the seal of the tube I used to look for something like a nail to break it then one day I looked at the pointy end of the cap and thought what if I could use this to break it and oh crap it did fit and break it effortlessly and so did every other two product I had in the house in their respective caps my mind was alone oh and for years I would struggle to take the cap off new deodorants the ones under the lid it is always so stuck down in the deodorant stick I had an aha moment a year or so ago when I could simply crank the deodorant stick up until the cap could easily be removed I'm 34 it took me until I was 34 to realize this story 12 since the dawn of time we would pick up the silverware and utensils out of their tray in the dishwasher and put them away in their drawers and go back and pick up more out of the dishwasher then one day I saw my wife lift the tray out of the dishwasher and I legit stood there with my my mouth open story 13 okay I realized this literally yesterday it's super embarrassing for me to admit this because it's common knowledge for pretty much everyone who speaks English but for my entire life I was under the impression that the word approximately meant exact or precise yesterday I was watching a documentary about a guy who fell off his boat and the guy that found it said they found it approximately 300 yards away and I'm like okay how would they know exactly how far that was without measuring so I did end up looking up the definition and imagine my embarrassment when I found out and meant rough I'm 28 story 14 when I was a kid and was acting up my dad would always threy to leave me at this mean old lady's house her name was Helen handbasket fast forward about 28 years later and it clicked out of nowhere while I was on a customer call at work customer this whole network is going to hell in a hand basket me ha I'm an idiot customer did you figure it out me oh no not yet parents are always full of fun stuff like that remember to use it on your kid to get satisfaction story 15 I'm lactose intolerant I genuinely did not know this for the first 25 plus years of my life I always had to go to the bathroom after eating something with cheese in it one day it just clicked I bought some laid took it before the next time I ate cheese and I didn't have to go to the bathroom it was mind-blowing I have no idea how I didn't make the connection for years so I guess you could say instead of having an O crap moment I had a no crap moment story 16 no one really ever told me you don't need to buy shoes with a two-finger space in front of the toes after your feet stop growing I had been buying an entire size too big until about age 23 23 one day in college I decided to try a pair of Merill Barefoot type shoes and after reading the sezen guide bam mind blown it's a terribly obvious mistake I 29 female like to blame on being an only child but I'm just an idiot well to be fair some people's feet grow until their 20s story 17 well it was just fairly recent when I realized that you do in fact need to disassemble your laundry dryer and clean the lint out from underneath the drum once per year I'm 31 and never knew this no one ever said anything and I never saw anyone do this the crappiest thing is that my parents also learned this the hard way and never bothered to give me a tip when I bought my first dryer luckily my wife and I discovered the lint buildup when changing the rollers I said to my parents wow it really builds up there and they were like oh yeah you need to do that like once a year experience really is the best teacher with these kinds of O crap scenarios huh oh if you've been having fun so far never miss a story by hitting the like And subscribe buttons Story 8 well to start I'm a male who grew up with my grandma and mom so growing up I had very few male influences and I'm 34 now so the internet sucked anyway when I was 12 my mom decided to move us in with her boyfriend the first night in our new place I walked out of the shower with my towel on my stepdad said what are you doing you're not a girl I looked confused and said I know why he then said guys don't wear their towels like that then realized I had always worn my towel up to my chest since that's all I saw growing up I did not realize it was so they would cover their chest S I was so embarrassed so yeah long story short I wore my towel like a female until I was 12 story 19 so I had always assume the gas stations had pipes that led to a nearby oil plant or something I live in Houston so during Hurricane Harvey in 2017 there was so much news about the gas stations being empty because they weren't being filled I was in the car with my sisters and we were talking about it and I mentioned that I didn't understand how the gas supply was limited when the pipes were underground and not affected by the flooding they both looked at me with the most confused faces ever and one of them said you do know the trucks come to fill up gas stations right I was completely shocked by this and had no idea and they asked me so when you see the big trucks at little gas stations in the city with tubes in the ground what do you think they were doing and I replied uh filling up their gas not something I did wrong but definitely something I thought wrong for 17 years story 20 as a kid I never knew that saving in video games was a thing whenever I looked at the menu screen I just didn't think much of it and just ignored it after a few years maybe when I was about 11 years old started watching gaming videos on YouTube and saw that you could could save your progress little old me was absolutely mind-blown that Pokémon wasn't supposed to be played in less than a day and that I could actually save my progress playing an entire game in less than a day is more fun and a far more impressive feat the little old you should be proud story 21 my significant other and I were in a fight and he said you're unbelievably selfish and impossible to talk to somehow my defense mechanisms were not engaged at the moment because I heard him and realized it was true I saw for the first time that I had been mostly difficult all my life that is super defensive been wrong about a lot of things AKA a narcissist I've since had to learn how to be kind to listen and to give back and while it has been very hard I still cringe often when I think back on many moments in my life I now know I was wrong and my life is so much better this is a much more wholesome realization it's really weird to find out that the way you perceive yourself is so different from what you're actually doing but in a good way story 22 my mom refused to show me how to use a tampon because she thought I should stick to pads after all they were safer this was back when Googling how to do things wasn't an option and I was the first in my friend group to get my period and a little sheepish about it so basically I was shoving that sucker up there with the entire applicator for like 2 years wondering why tampons didn't seem to work that well for me it wasn't until I was in high school and one of my friends went on a crusade against plastic waste and started advocating for tampons with no applicators that all of a sudden I realized I had massively made a mistake story 23 my mom never tried to teach me how to wipe my bum she just decided at some point to start ignoring me when I called her when I was finished I had never seen anyone else wipe theirs before so for years I wiped my own by bending over all the way with my head near my feet you know the thing you do when someone else wipes your bum for you eventually I saw someone on TV doing it while just sitting down normally Game Changer it's literally an O moment when you realize you can do it in more ways than one it's just a matter of preference really I mean some people don't even do it at all story 24 when I was about 16 when I learned that there's paper around Reese's Peanut Butter Cup growing up my family only bought those small ones that you can eat in one bite so I never had a chance to bite into a regular one and actually see the paper so one day me and my sister were talking about what candy we wanted to hand out in Halloween and I mentioned that peanut butter cups were good apart from having a chewy piece in them which really confused her and we spent the next few minutes arguing over if they were chewy or not then she stopped talking in the middle of her sentence and I could see that something had clicked for her she went to the kitchen and grabbed one told me to eat it and started laughing hard when it put the entire chocolate still wrapped in the little brown paper into my mouth it's still to this day my greatest shame that I can't live down then some years ago everyone started to Hype at aame so I gave it a try I love beans and peas in general so I wondered why they taste so disgusting and for a few embarrassing weeks i e whole Ed momy when someone ordered them to share it in a restaurant because that's why cool kids eat these days right guess what by observing others I found out that you're not supposed to eat this skin since then I've Loved edamami I'm still wondering if anyone noticed I was doing it wrong Story 25 I took my then girlfriend to a fancy Baja bucket joints in San Diego and we each ordered a variety of buckets full of shrimp LOB upster carna s chicken Etc trying to be Suave and playful I went to feed her a single shrimp tail from my bucket she giggled and put the shrimp in her mouth but held the tail because nobody eats that and she bit down and it pulled the tail away and she chewed and stopped and chewed once more and stopped and she stared at me with a what did you do look in her face this is when I learned about peeling shrimp not everybody does but some people eat the shell and tail it's an acquired taste though but what's more interesting he's using fancy and bucket in the same sentence story 6 opening milk bottles they all have that flap of plastic that you can grip to peel the cover off I've ignored that for however long they've been doing it it took my mom coming over to visit from overseas watching me open a new bottle and asking me why I was not using the flap for a grip I asked what she meant and she showed me I felt like I was five and learning how to subtract triple digit numbers all over again also craft mac and cheese up until a few months ago I would drain the noodles add them back to the pot and then add the milk butter and cheese packet it took forever to get all the clumps out then I realized it would be way easier to just add the milk butter and cheese to the already hot pan and make a cheese sauce while the noodles are draining no more clumps story 27 my whole life it turned out that I was saying th which sounds like f example trying to say three but it sounds like free the first time I noticed it when I was at my cousin's house and she asked me to say three then free and left I was so confused once I got to Middle School one of my friends made fun of me 4 two and he finally explained what it was when I recorded myself saying three and free I noticed the difference and felt so dumb the good part is that after forcing myself enough for about 2 years I have the difference between saying th and F sounds wired into my brain and sometimes I assume I know the lyrics to songs I've heard from the radio for a long time I always sang Toto Africa as I Miss the Rains Down in Africa until someone made fun of me and told me it was I Bless The Rains Down in Africa they argued that makes no sense why would someone bless rain it's a song about longing to return to Africa which is why they miss the rain then I went home and looked up the lyrics if you've been enjoying these stupidly awkward moments then level up by check out what's your this person is on another level of stupid story story too straight up out of a comedy movie see you there
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hello everybody hope you're all doing well my name is steven and this is the story time channel we've got some great stories so let's get into our first one of the day by force to create id the bill was itemized as per your request sir i used to work in a public hospital's public relations pr department read the department where all sorts of miscellaneous stuff and nonsense is sent to when no one wants to figure out who issues should be sent to or just want problems sent somewhere it was hard to manage the workload with a yes man pr director at the helm who typically acceded to most requests for help especially after other staff tacked on their go-to flimsy excuse of it's related to a patient so pr should handle it or flattery you guys are really good at dealing with this we'd just mess it up so for the best of pr takes over besides the pr department there was a medical case management department that dealt with more difficult cases involving legal highly complex medical or multi-disciplinary cases due to the nature of our work sometimes cases were bounced between the two departments this case was partially dealt with by me but the malicious compliance is on my co-worker's end cast cynthia is the medical case department director joel is the medical case department staff sarah is the finance department staff me is your friendly pr wage slave mr nutty patient retiree with no income story this case happened almost a decade ago and does not take place in the united states of america mr nutty underwent surgery everything went well and he left the hospital after a few days to recuperate at home there he combed through the bill called the hospital about an apparent billing error and was transferred to my line for confidentiality and simplicity let's call the item in question organ transplant mr nutty said that he didn't have an organ transplant and only had a couple of medical items inserted at this point he was still fairly pleasant i assured him i'd call him after checking as this was basically a non-emergency case the finance department and the surgery department took about a fortnight to gather the details and figure out what happened in the meantime mr nutty had started sending emails by the end of the first week asking when he was going to get a refund which i strangely enough had no recollection of promising every time he sent an email company policy dictated that i was to get in touch with him by the time finance gave me all the details i could recognize his email address and phone number when they appear to my screens and he was getting rather testy i contacted mr nutty and told him that he was correct there was no organ transplant the organ transplant was actually a billing code name for a package that usually consisted of a lot of items that were used in a surgery including the medical items inserted the surgery department knew of his financial situation and to help him trim costs essentially gave him a package deal instead of billing him per item which would have cost him much more this triggered something in mr nutty and he went ballistic shouted that a public hospital running on taxpayers money should be more honest that it was the principle rather than intent that was important and demanded that we change the bill to accurately reflect everything that was used in the surgery no exceptions even telling him that it was likely to be much more expensive did not deter him from following his principles i was still relatively new to the job then so i informed mr nutty that i would have to speak with someone else to see if his request could be granted and ended the call it was at this point cynthia came up to me and asked if i was alright she was passing by as the conversation was ending and hung around as i was obviously upset and shaken i shared what happened and she very kindly told me to pass the case to her department as they were more familiar with such cases and it would be pretty easy i didn't hesitate to say no as i was sick of mr nutty by then and called him a day or so later to tell him that joel was taking over his case thereafter i did not hear anything about this issue from joel cynthia or mr nutty and forgot about it until five years later a major reorganization took place four years after the case came in cynthia and joel left the medical case management department was closed the pr department merged with several others and now manages even more stuff one fine day sarah from the finance department calls me about a patient who claims to have spoken with the pr department staff and medical case department staff of yore about a billing error that was left unresolved although she couldn't be sure since the patient was insisting that they spoke to cassandra gordon and op and that he had never heard of cynthia joel or me when sarah tried to confirm if they were talking about the same staff after an archaeological excavation of the archives and patient records we discover that it is mr nutty calling about the same issue with a twist apparently when joel reached out to mr nutty he tried to explain that he would be facing substantial losses if we were to follow his instructions in itemizing the bill mr nutty would simply not take no for an answer and scream preached his ears off mr nutty also threatened to go to multiple government departments to tell them about the hospital's illegal actions and apparently later did go to at least a couple here i have to admit that joel was a much more professional worker than me and was typically a calm steady rock who could take a lot of rubbish and still walk away without wanting to commit murder or at least not admitting to wanting to commit murder mr nutty must have deliberately picked all the bad end route options he could and more because i had never seen joel doing anything similar in the 4 years i worked with him typically when faced with such requests joel could and would escalate the issue to cynthia with the recommendation to ignore the case or request after giving an official reply via letter cynthia would usually agree as long as it was a morally correct choice and there were no legal or medical repercussions joel did not do that in this case joel opted to follow mr nutty's request to the letter he told the surgery department what happened pissed off that their goodwill has been spat and trampled upon surgery department agreed with the changes and looped in finance to make sure every single item used was listed individually no more packages or cost saving efforts for mr nutty it turned out that the organ transplant was not the only build item that was actually a package deal so mr nutty's build came up to nearly double his original cost mr nutty was not happy when joel returned with the shiny new bill he refused to pay the bill and continued to harass and threatened joel off and on for about a year or so but eventually went quiet back to the present day i asked sarah why mr nutty was calling years later and apparently it was because the debt collection agency had found him mr nutty had moved and did not update his particulars as he skipped his medical appointments as well at the hospital if bills go unpaid for some time they go to a debt collection agency which relies on the information provided by the hospital system after all these years mr nutty finally came back for a checkup and had to provide updated details the debt collection agency caught wind of this and started the collection process again somehow i managed to dig into my well of by then nearly non-existent compassion and asked sarah if there was any way to reverse the charges sarah cackled and pointed out that because of the universal health coverage available mr nutty's medical bill was initially 80 covered in part thanks to the particular package codes like organ transplant the surgery department used however after his request only about 30 percent of his new more expensive bill was covered the best bit all such bills go to the government and only one change is allowed unless the hospital admits it was their mistake in which case there may be penalties this is to prevent hospitals from changing the bill's willy-nilly and to save administrative costs amazingly enough one of the governmental departments mr nutty complained to about our legal actions was the same department in charge of handling universal coverage for hospital bills so not only did the government department in charge know about his not-too-intelligent demands they also knew that we had tried to help him but changed the bill to comply with his request and there was absolutely no way the hospital was going to take a penalty on mr nutty's behalf it was with great unbridled joy that i made the final phone call to mr nutty he didn't recognize me but i had the extreme pleasure of informing him that i was the first staff who spoke with him five years ago didn't he remember screaming at me no oh not to worry it was a long time ago oh it's not that it's a long time ago you just thought it wasn't worth remembering all our names because we're just customer service staff you say all right after that i didn't bother with further niceties or small talk and went in straight for the kill telling him that we could not change the bill again as it could only be changed once surprisingly he didn't flip at once and even asked for the reasons i explained how we sarah and i dug through our archives in the sequence of events there was a long silence and just as i was getting worried about whether he had passed out mr nutty erupted shouting about it being a pack of lies we were dishonest he was a retiree with no money how could we do this to him why did we even make the changes if we knew it was going to be more expensive how was it even possible that the revised bill be of a higher amount it must be a mistake etc by now i was a seasoned staff and would normally have ended the call after three warnings my dear readers i did not do that with mr nutty i waited very patiently for him to run out of breath screaming and cussing and in the lull i simply said the bill was itemized as per your request sir i don't know if it's weird of me to have so much empathy for these people who very clearly argued constantly about something that they had been explained to over and over that what was happening already was better for them than what they're arguing for i don't know there's just something about it that makes me feel bad for them you know they're retiree they're stuck with double the bill it's just it's unfortunate that they weren't able to realize that the hospital was trying to help them out do you feel bad for this guy if so if not why let me know in the comments down below our next story is by andres444 small time spousal malicious compliance i have been in charge of doing the weekly grocery shopping for my husband and i my husband has also developed a craving for watermelon for months now requesting slices of watermelon every time i go to the store which is fine lately he has been complaining about the quality of the watermelon that i have been buying reminding me several times during the week that i need to be better at choosing the best pieces today being no different like whatever i'll get your darn watermelon but he fails to realize that i'm not in charge of the watermelon that's available and i don't know there's a global pandemic that's affecting their stock cue malicious compliance i am over the complaining about the freaking watermelon so i went to the store and got the biggest fattest whole watermelon that i could find hauling it around while i completed the rest of our shopping list he came out to help with the groceries and a look of confusion came over his face and i let him know i got the best watermelon they had with the greatest poop eating grin i could muster he's been cutting that behemoth up for 20 minutes because it's so unruly and refuses to talk to me this is kind of a you can't have your cake and eat it too situation where you're asking somebody to go and get something for you every single time they go to the store per week if you constantly want something and it's not always up to the standard you want i think you kind of have to be involved with the acquisition of said item so you know that what you're getting is quality stuff at least in your opinion the next story was written by hisako315 no i don't think i will so a little explanation first i work overnights and the way our schedules work is you work ten to seven with two hours on friday and six hours on saturday this will make more sense later our policy is you aren't required to work past your schedule time even if management asks you to i work most weekends and only am able to see my daughter once or twice a week i asked for saturday through monday off so i could spend time with my daughter in the hospital my boss begrudgingly allowed me to do that but then scheduled me to work friday but only for two hours all that week as payback for me asking off i got stuck with the heaviest jobs and given no other support whereas the other workers who had to do those same areas got help friday night rolls around and i show up for my two hour shift just to find out that we had a few call-ins and probably wouldn't get done my boss comes up to me and gives me half of the work which would take most of the night to complete i get started and an hour and a half into my 2 hour shift my boss goes oh you're scheduled until 12 but i'm going to need you to stay until 7. after having the heaviest work dumped on me all week i decided i wasn't going to stay any longer than scheduled i told my boss no i think i'm going to head home at 12. other than getting the same treatment for the next week i haven't had any repercussions from my following policy i'm relieved to hear at the very end of the story that they haven't gotten any bad repercussions from it because it's the jobs policy that you can go home exactly when you're scheduled to be able to go home that's actually a rarity because i hear a lot of times the expectation is for you to work overtime without even complaining about it and our final story of the day is by equivalent salary 357 but she has to have an a sometime in the 1990s shortly after the first of six marking periods in the school year me 40-something high school chemistry teacher dad student's father mom student's mom principal principal of the high school dad contacts principal for a conference with me he was concerned that his daughter had almost failed chemistry the first marking period principal informs me that we need to meet with dad after school the next day usually parents contact the teacher directly so i expect a hostile parent when the meeting starts dad wants an explanation of why his daughter did so poorly as politely as i could i explained that his daughter didn't seem to be putting much effort into the class didn't complete homework assignments didn't seem to pay attention in the lecture and that her test and quiz scores were very low actual effort and attention are not always easy to judge but by this time i'd been teaching around 15 years so i thought i had a clue that informs me that his daughter was going to nearby college with good rep and that she needed to get an a in chemistry to get scholarships so that they could afford to send her the next 20 to 25 minutes consisted of me trying to explain that i believe she was capable of doing well if she put in the effort and that she wouldn't be prepared to do well once she arrived at nearby college with good rap if she was just given a grade now lots of different variations on that but each was met with dads but she has to have an a principal sits silently mom starts looking embarrassed but silent just me and dad after about half an hour at this i realized that dad had to win if we were going to get anywhere so let me get this straight she has to get an a yes she has to get an a i had never heard of the term malicious compliance at that time but alright i understand it is too late for me to do anything tonight but tomorrow during my planning time i'll go down to the guidance office where school records are kept and change your grade to an a plus from now on every grade she receives from me will be an a plus will that work for you daddy frowning well if you just give her the grade she won't study maybe but you said she has to have an a to get a scholarship dad repeats several more of my previous points apparently he was listening to me after all to each of these i reply but she has to have an a dad more to himself than to me but if she doesn't study she won't be prepared for chemistry at nearby college with good rap me silent dad goes quiet for a moment then no i'm going to tell that girl she has to get to work and pull up her grade conference over no great change after mom and dad left principal asked what i would have done if dad had taken me up on my offer i said that i would have done exactly what i offered looking back i'm not sure what i would have done the next day but i dodged a bullet so the girl gets to work and by the end of the third grading period she is earning all a and a plus grades somehow a mistake occurred and her final overall grade ended up being calculated without that first grading period averaged in so she ended up with a solid a about 20 years later about five years ago now retired this same young woman now a pharmacist in a local pharmacy filled a prescription for me i'm smiling as i type this basically it goes to show you that you have to have the drive if you're ever going to end up anywhere she could have salvaged the grade herself if she wanted to but she ended up getting a hookup she was allowed to be lazy and even if she did end up going to nearby college with good rep she didn't end up with a very prestigious job don't get me wrong a pharmacist job isn't bad but i would guess that's not 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welcome friends to another r slash malicious compliance video today we've got a crazy story of compliance involving doing an emergency drill at sea but first the story from warrior four four dumb boss equals broken glass so all this happens a good 10 years ago now when i had my very first job right after school i was 17 years old then had no clue about labor laws and was working as a metal worker for a small five-man business the boss was from sicily and thought of himself as a better don corleone the other workers were one actual worker a 50-plus year old school chief that forgotten more than others ever knew and kept the entire shop running one apprentice in his fourth and last year robin an arrogant jerk but pretty competent and then there was the apprentice of the first year who was always so stoned weed kept growing out of his ears and then there was me a more theoretically oriented guy who wanted to work in the it sector but since my dad considered me too dumb for it second best grades in every subject in my finishing year but that's another topic and he paid for my applications back then on paper he had me do some proper work the boss himself was working in the office doing the designing of the stuff we would cut up build weld and install i had two left hands coming fresh from school but if boss grabbed a screwdriver well jump in a ditch put a helmet on and start praying he was a walking catastrophe on two legs he always hired himself people with either no clue about a labor laws or no other choice so he could pretty much do as he pleased the one year i worked there according to my contract minimum wage of course i accumulated a good 200 overtime hours which i didn't have any proof about so i could smear them up my rear so we were on a construction site a good one and a half hour drive from our shop where we're supposed to install 14 3.10 meters tall 122 inches by 1.50 meter 59 inches broad panes of glass those were made out of the double layered safety glass a good 1.6 inches thick with a layer of tough clear foil in between so really heavy things a good 440 pounds or so those panes of glass were supposed to go into the rail in the ceiling and floor creating solid secure glass walls for an office the normal ceiling was around 2.6 meters tall so we had to use cuption suckers and bring the heavy freakers in angle which was really a pain like literally the problem so we ran into a problem pretty quickly that while the ceiling was 2.60 meters above the floor and the glass was 3.10 there's a good lack of space around half a meter 20 inches the rails in the ceiling and the floor added another five centimeters each so we ended up with the glass being 40 centimeters too long turns out the boss had been ordering them wrong oh crap so we called the boss he still being back home in the shop telling him the problem which he was infuriated about as if we extended the glass somehow we then try to call multiple companies in the area who work with glass if they could come in and cut the glass on the construction site as soon as they heard double layered safety glass each and every one of them outright refused saying that the glass was more likely to break than to be cut with anything short of an industrial sized laser cutter or water cutter for that matter the solution and malicious compliance so after calling every glass company within 30 minutes travel of the site who all refused the request our boss had a glorious idea that if the professionals chicken out we four metal workers of which only one actually had a finished apprenticeship should do the job with our diamond cutter something you used to cut normal thin glass we three looked at ourselves stoner was just giggling mad as usual speechless for a moment before our chief asked the boss if he the boss was really sure about this because there was simply no way in heck all the glass would survive when the professionals gave us a 50-50 chance chief gave us a 10 90 chance of any glass surviving boss said he was absolutely sure after all our chief could do everything and if one or two glasses break it would be better than nothing cause we the workers couldn't just drive home and have no progress on the construction site whatsoever to show for when the customer would do an inspection our chief asked once more if the boss was sure that he was okay with that risk that a good number of glass would break and knowing our boss we had him on speaker and recorded what he said well he said a second time that he was all sure and that he would take this one on him as if ordering the stuff wrong hadn't been on him he then spent 10 minutes arguing with the chief who insisted to go and quickly buy a new sharp diamond cutter as ours was dull as a trolls club boss didn't like the expense of like 200 dollars converted but he eventually allowed it problem with cutting glasses you cut one side turn it around and then bend it carefully against the cut but when you have double layered glass yeah joke's on you basically well we unloaded all the glass carefully until we only had one on our truck carefully cut one side with the new diamond cutter poured some flammable liquid in the cut and ignited it to melt the foil layer then we turned the whole thing around cut the other side and started to carefully move the top part back and forth to widen the cut until it would crack all the way through from the 14 glasses 11 were killed with a crack suddenly going down splitting the entire length in half so three glasses survived the massacre and the rest had to be reordered completely by our boss instead of just being sent in for a professional cut with a proper machine he later complained why we did this crap and we simply played him the recording of him twice saying he was all fine with it he kept grumbling and making snarky remarks but in all honesty this was just one of many instances so we simply nodded and ignored him he could have only have gone after the chief if he pressed the issue but without the chief nothing would run in this shop and the boss really knew it i was unlike my second to last month and already had the contract for my proper apprenticeship somewhere else of course already signed and sealed so it wasn't like i cared one iota anymore anyway at that point hope this memory of mine made you smile just like it does make me smile even a decade later does this story make you guys smile for me it just kind of stresses me out making me think of myself in a situation like that being expected to do something i know is just going to go bad and not work out well do you guys think this is a story that's supposed to make you smile or give you contact ptsd let me know what you guys think in the comments down below and by the way if you're enjoying these stories make sure to hit those like and subscribe buttons down below as well so you never miss any of my daily videos every video has awesome stories like our next one from new techie one you only pay mileage for the shortest possible trip okay then you have to pay my tolls and my job every day i have to travel between two offices i start at my main office then have to travel to the second office then back to my main office because i'm using my personal vehicle for this travel the company pays me mileage well there's basically two routes you can take between the two offices one's about a mile round trip shorter but has tolls so i always took the one mile longer route and avoided the tolls i did it this way for a year well then comes the new bookkeeper and she is heck bent on saving the company money where does she think all this wasteful money is going expense reports obviously so she starts nitpicking every report like if someone's out and has to buy some pens for work she goes online and finds the cheapest price possible for those pens and only reimburses for that cheaper price it obviously has pissed several people off well she eventually decided to target me i submit my report for two weeks and a few days later get the reimbursement payment well it's 5.85 short i ask her about it and she says i've been ripping off the company for the past year by taking the longer route between the offices she'll only pay the mileage for the shorter route from now on and i'm lucky she doesn't go back and take back all the extra from the past year i say okay but to please send me that per her request i must take the shorter route and then this is company policy and lever office before i even made it to my desk i had the email from her confirming what she said two weeks later i submit my expense report i reported the shorter route so the company saved five dollars and 85 cents but the tolls added up to 136 dollars a net loss for the company of a hundred thirty dollars and fifteen cents it's been six months and i'm still taking the shorter route costing the company an extra hundred thirty dollars every two weeks i love this story and i think the only thing that annoys me is that it isn't like noticeably faster like op still at the end of the day only saving a mile between trips this story would become amazing if it actually saved op 5 10 plus minutes on their commute this next story is from cacto and sano had to redo an emergency drill at sea because too much of it was simulated corrected the mistake the next time around i was in the military underway on a ship and we had to periodically do drills think fire alarm man overboard abandon ship etc and as we geared up for an outside inspection team to visit we'd be run and grade them ourselves to see what we need to improve upon to pass inspection we were in the middle of a long patrol and we were running a man overboard drill part of this drill is that when the man overboard alarm sounds you're supposed to throw a life ring over the side of the ship towards the person in the water to give them something to hang on to and to help mark the position of where they were in the water so that the ship could more easily find them to pick them up simple enough as a side note when running drills there's various ways to mark what things are off limits or should be simulated we would use blue tape so blue tape would go over the real international distress signals for a drill the long range radio etc so we knew we just had to simulate those things if we were doing a part of the response and saw something with a blue tape we'd kind of narrate and now i'd use the radio to alert our parent command etc so we run the man overboard drill the ship maneuvers to pick up the fake man overboard a dummy named oscar named for the name of the flag you hoist when you have a man overboard in pretty quick time however during the debrief the ship's executive officer second in command and also head of the training team berates the crew because no one threw life rings over the side as per policy we would have failed the drill if we were at a real inspection he says he said that a bunch of crew members went up to the life rings and then stated and now i'd throw over a life ring to the training team member watching rather than actually doing it if there isn't blue tape on it then you can't self-simulate the xo says and we were going to run the drill again until we get it right and what happened next was a brilliant moment of a group without consulting each other executing some malicious compliance we run the drill again oscar goes over the side and the man overboard alarm is sounded the ship had i believe nine life rings on the outside decks they started going over the side one after the other i think we got eight of them over the side before the exo got on the loudspeaker and said stop throwing life rings but the damage had been done i do wish we would have gotten the last one over but alas at the end of the drill the ship spent the next two to three hours tracking down life rings with flashing strobes each floating different directions away from the ship on the open ocean it was lots of fun since we got to maneuver the ship around a ton and just enjoyed driving it rather than having to do anything worthwhile but the xo was certainly none too pleased since it delayed our patrol schedule a little bit but the good news was we passed the drill and certainly didn't simulate anything so he couldn't say anything about it see in this situation i don't know what the xo can really complain about like yeah there's a lot of extra work and it's pretty obvious why people would simulate it then but this is exactly what they asked for they shouldn't be upset at all in my opinion they should be proud of their crew and our final story of the day is from ngg jamie you wanted to watch it on pay-per-view if we're paying for it you need to keep watching this is a minor malicious compliance from when i was about eight years old i had a satellite dish receiver in my room and was looking for something to watch when i saw they had rugrats in paris on pay-per-view i loved rugrats but knew i wasn't supposed to watch anything on those channels cause it would cost money so i asked my parents and they didn't like it but relented so they put it on when it started over next this was probably about right after lunch i watch the movie and really like it the credits come on and i'm not sure if i can just change the channel without it continuing to charge or something so i go to the living room to tell my parents the movie ended so they could take it off before i'm able to say something my dad tells me i wanted to watch the movie so bad i need to be in my room watching it because it's costing money i try to say what i was going to say again but get interrupted once more i don't want to get in trouble so i go back to my room and stay in there the movie probably played through an extra two or three times before my mom comes in to call me out for dinner and i'm finally able to tell her the movie ended a long time ago she switches the channel over and asks why i didn't say something before i say i did but i got told that i needed to stay in here and watch the movie so i did there was a sigh and i bet you probably told my dad something later when i wasn't in the room i didn't watch anything on pay-per-view after that but i didn't get in trouble and it cost at least three to four times as much because they wouldn't listen the first time it sucks for the parents but the sooner you learn just let somebody get what they want to say out when they're trying to tell you something the sooner dumb things will stop like paying three to four times over for ugg rats in paris on pay-per-view by the way i love the rugrats and love that movie it was the first place i ever heard the song who let the dogs out and that song has been a certified jam ever since but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another malicious compliance story that was crazier than any of the ones in this video click on that left video or if you missed my latest video 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:00.000 --> :01.000 Posted by  :00.000 --> :00.840 u/TheHorizonLies 2 days ago :07.480 --> :10.589 You want me to do something  else while I'm waiting? Ok  :10.589 --> :10.757 LOC This is kind of long. Sorry or whatever. :10.757 --> :14.920 At my most recent former employer, a home  improvement store in the vein of Lowe's   :14.920 --> :20.040 or Home Depot, I worked in receiving,  mostly unloading trucks with a forklift. :20.040 --> :24.160 About two years into my time there, we got  a new assistant store manager, let's call   :24.160 --> :29.480 him Gary. This guy came in and thought that not  only did his crap not stink, but that we should   :29.480 --> :38.080 all eat as much of it as possible. Micromanaging,  changing SOP, etc. Everything he said was right. :38.080 --> :42.920 So one day, a truck is in the process of  backing down the ramp to our receiving docks,   :42.920 --> :47.760 but there's a problem with the brakes and the  wheels are just dragging. Since my job at that   :47.760 --> :52.800 moment is "wait until the truck comes in and  unload it once it does," there's literally   :52.800 --> :57.560 nothing I can really do apart from give the  dude good vibes from my seat. (To be clear,   :57.560 --> :02.160 the problem was not any failing on the  driver's part, just bad luck with the hoses). :02.160 --> :07.320 At this time of day, we have two people on the  clock in receiving: me on one forklift, waiting   :07.320 --> :12.560 for the truck, and my department manager on  another, helping out in the outside yard because   :12.560 --> :18.120 two propane forklifts were disabled and they had  two lumber trucks show up at the same time. We   :18.120 --> :22.640 only had two electric forks, and they were the  only ones that could be inside the building.   :22.640 --> :28.880 [REDACTED TO PROTECT THOSE WITH NO SENSE OF HUMOR]  So basically, I'm literally all alone on the only   :28.880 --> :34.160 available forklift that can unload the truck.  Which is fine, because that's my freaking jam. :34.160 --> :38.760 At the same time, we only had one dock  of three available for live loads,   :38.760 --> :42.600 because one already had an unhooked  trailer and the other was broken. :42.600 --> :46.640 So, while we're understaffed and short  equipment, and while the driver is trying   :46.640 --> :52.280 to unfreak his truck, Gary walks into receiving  with two other department managers and sees   :52.280 --> :57.880 me sitting on the forklift, basically just  twiddling my thumbs as I watch the driver.   :57.880 --> :03.480 I can understand how it might look like I'm  freaking off, since I kind of am, but not really. :03.480 --> :06.240 "Why are you just sitting there?" Gary asks me. :06.240 --> :08.600 "Waiting for the truck to back up," I say. :08.600 --> :12.120 He says, "While you're waiting,  you can do other things." :12.120 --> :16.120 I look out the dock door and see the driver come  out from between the truck and trailer and get   :16.120 --> :21.960 back in the cab, so I say, "But he's almost  got it. He'll be docked in like a minute." :21.960 --> :24.960 "And in that minute, you can do other things." :24.960 --> :29.200 I've had more than my share of crapy  leaders in my life, and I can tell by   :29.200 --> :34.160 Gary's tone and body language that nothing  is going to shake him from this attitude,   :34.160 --> :37.800 so I just say, "You got it,  what should I do while I wait?" :37.800 --> :42.040 Gary says "Go outside and help  unload one of the lumber trucks." :42.040 --> :43.800 I say, "For how long?" :43.800 --> :49.520 Sounding annoyed, he waves his hands in a shooing  motion and says, "For as long as it takes,   :49.520 --> :54.320 now go." Then he walks away. The two  department managers look at each other,   :54.320 --> :59.280 look at me, smile, and follow after  him. They know what's about to happen. :59.280 --> :03.200 Hey, buddy, you got it. I'm  absolutely gonna do this for   :03.200 --> :07.440 you. So I spin the forklift around and  zip out through the big overhead door   :07.440 --> :12.000 into the outside yard to help with  the lumber trucks. As I do this,   :12.000 --> :17.720 I hear the trailer back into the dock. But that  doesn't matter, because Gary gave me a mission. :17.720 --> :21.280 I make it to where the lumber trucks are  parked in the yard, and my department   :21.280 --> :27.080 manager drives over next to me. He says, "Why  are you out here? Isn't the truck docking?" :27.080 --> :31.000 I nod. "Gary told me I needed to be  out here helping while I wait. He   :31.000 --> :36.240 was very insistent." I slowly  emphasize the last two words. :36.240 --> :40.440 My manager just smiles, turns  around and continues to unload. :40.440 --> :45.200 I start helping. A stack of studs  here, a bundle of trusses there,   :45.200 --> :49.920 and I'm doing my part to empty these  flatbeds of wood. While this is happening,   :49.920 --> :54.400 I hear the gate attendant for the outside yard  radio that we have another truck waiting to come   :54.400 --> :58.960 in. I radio back that it's gonna have  to wait until the other truck is gone. :58.960 --> :04.160 Then another truck shows up. And another.  In the twenty minutes I've been outside,   :04.160 --> :08.680 four trucks besides the one that is now  in the dock have arrived to be unloaded   :08.680 --> :13.240 in our single dock. And every time I  tell the gate that they have to wait. :13.240 --> :17.120 At this point, the general store manager  Mike finally hears what's happening over   :17.120 --> :22.120 the radio and cuts in. "Hey what's going on?  Are we not unloading the truck in receiving?" :22.120 --> :26.360 I radio back and say, "I'll be there in  just a second." I put the load I've got on   :26.360 --> :31.560 my tines where it needs to go and haul butt  back to receiving. As I drive into the bay,   :31.560 --> :34.880 Mike and Gary are both standing  there, with the driver next to them. :34.880 --> :39.880 I zip up to them and hold my hand out for  the driver's paperwork. He hands it to me   :39.880 --> :45.600 as Gary says, "What the heck is taking you so  long? Why haven't you started unloading yet?" :45.600 --> :48.960 "You told me to help on the lumber  trucks while I wait," I say. :48.960 --> :53.120 Gary sputters and says, "I meant  until this truck was in the dock." :53.120 --> :55.800 I look at Mike and then back to Gary. "I asked you   :55.800 --> :58.800 for how long and you said  for as long as it takes." :58.800 --> :05.560 "I didn't say that." I look at him and he looks at  me, like he's daring me. And I like taking dares. :05.560 --> :09.840 I name the two department managers who  were with him when he told me and say   :09.840 --> :12.640 "We all heard you say it. You were very clear." :12.640 --> :20.120 His face turns the color of an apple, and not like  a Fuji or Gala, but a Red freaking Delicious. He   :20.120 --> :25.320 opens his mouth but Mike puts a hand on his  arm and stops him. Mike looks at me and says,   :25.320 --> :31.760 "Get it sorted fast, okay?" I nod and get started  as Mike walks away with Gary fuming beside him. :31.760 --> :37.120 Now I didn't hear their conversation because I  was kicking butt and taking names on my forklift,   :37.120 --> :42.000 but word got back to me that Mike told Gary  he would never again be allowed to question   :42.000 --> :48.280 anything anyone in receiving does, and especially  me when it comes to unloading trucks. If I'm on   :48.280 --> :54.320 a forklift, I'm basically untouchable. And  over the next year that Gary was with us,   :54.320 --> :58.640 he abided by that directive, though he  did feel entitled to shoot me a dirty   :58.640 --> :04.280 glance or twenty every so often. Not that  I cared, because I had trucks to unload. :25.000 --> :28.680 Posted by u/Kingdo7  :28.680 --> :31.640 2 days ago :31.640 --> :34.520 You want us to mind our business ? Okay LOC  :34.520 --> :38.760 Hello, this is an old story from  around 2015, I was at the time a   :38.760 --> :43.640 college student and I hope you will enjoy  it. Also, English isn't my native language. :43.640 --> :48.600 I was living in my first apartment, a complex  for college students. The complex give us   :48.600 --> :52.520 a separate bedroom and bathroom. But the  kitchen and dinner room were common. There   :52.520 --> :57.920 was one kitchen per floor. As you expect,  dinner time was crowded, but we managed. :57.920 --> :03.440 Quickly, I notice a guy, he always did the  same thing. He came, prepare a quick meal,   :03.440 --> :08.120 put it in the induction hob and left.  I notice him for two reasons, first,   :08.120 --> :12.880 I find it odd to leave the kitchen while  cooking. If you cook a long meal, I get it,   :12.880 --> :16.960 but a quick meal ? The second reasons  was because he left for an unreasonable   :16.960 --> :22.520 time. His main meal was a 3-min rice,  but he usually left for 20 to 30 min. :22.520 --> :25.720 So while I was cooking, then  eating in the kitchen area,   :25.720 --> :30.160 I often stop the pan and evacuate the  water to not have the rice turning bad. :30.160 --> :35.160 After multiples times, I try to tell him that  whatever he did, his rice was only cooking for   :35.160 --> :40.520 3 minutes, and since his activities take him 20  minutes each time, he should take care of his   :40.520 --> :46.000 meal. But he shut me off, telling me to mind  my business. I told him that he wasn't nice,   :46.000 --> :51.760 but I will indeed stop taking care of his meal  now. And his meal will turn bad. He smirks,   :51.760 --> :56.440 telling me there are a lot of people in  the floor and someone will do it anyway. :56.440 --> :00.840 Few days later, I can see his pan with rice  again. And someone else decided to take care   :00.840 --> :05.640 of it. That person end up sitting in my table  to eat and ask about the rice without owner   :05.640 --> :12.000 when everyone was eating. So I told her about the  guy who constantly left other cooking for him. :12.000 --> :16.320 She tells me I was being mean and we should  help each others. I told her I won't stop her   :16.320 --> :21.680 from cooking for him, but he will be ungrateful.  She didn't like my answer and stay silent. I saw   :21.680 --> :26.760 her taking care of his meal multiples times  after that. Then, one day, she caught the   :26.760 --> :32.120 man fleeing the kitchen and run after him. She  came back and sit right next to me. She wanted   :32.120 --> :39.280 to vent about how the man was a brat. I laugh, I  say, “I told you”. This scenario repeat 5 times.   :39.280 --> :43.920 But the last 2 were easier since 3 persons  were telling the same thing. At some point,   :43.920 --> :49.560 someone ask the dude what he was doing to  ditch his meal every day, video games. XD :49.560 --> :54.360 After our team of 5 were formed. I notice  one thing, basically no one was helping   :54.360 --> :59.440 to anything in the kitchen, the only one  who did was us 5. (we were 20 per floor,   :59.440 --> :05.000 it wasn't a big building, only 100 room for  5 floors) So with us not helping him anymore,   :05.000 --> :10.800 his rice will finally turn bad. I talk to the  other about it, and we decided to see the show. :10.800 --> :15.560 We came the earlier possible, cook, eat  and just hang out in the kitchen. Then,   :15.560 --> :21.640 come the man, as usual, he put water in  his pan, add the 3 minutes rices and left.   :21.640 --> :27.400 The time we came back was random, but mostly  around 20–30 minutes, the worst was 1 hour. :27.400 --> :33.240 We waited, 3 minutes passed, and he wasn't there,  as expected. Others started to come and make   :33.240 --> :38.520 their meal, sometimes they ask for the abandoned  rice. So we just explain that the owner was in   :38.520 --> :45.240 his room playing video games. They all shrugs and  continue their business, nobody even try to help. :45.240 --> :49.080 Oh yeah, he put the induction  hub at max temperature too. :49.080 --> :54.600 After 30 minutes, we expected him to come,  but he didn't. Feeling interested in science   :54.600 --> :00.440 (I never saw overcooked rice before, well, not  that overcooked), I approach the pan to look at   :00.440 --> :06.080 the rice. I take a fork and dig a little. They  ask what it's look like, I answer the rice look   :06.080 --> :12.400 completely fine if untouched, but disintegrate  in a fine powder in the water with my fork. :12.400 --> :16.640 At 40 and 50 minutes, he still wasn't  there. Most people have finished eating   :16.640 --> :20.600 and return to their room by now. 2  of the group decided to leave too. :20.600 --> :26.520 At 1 hour, someone check the state of the rice and  say all the water was evaporated. It was proposed   :26.520 --> :32.760 to stop the induction hob to not risk a fire. But  we decided not to, mostly because we were there.   :32.760 --> :38.280 The others 2 decided to leave, having better thing  to do. I think about it myself, but hey, I am   :38.280 --> :44.760 patient and petty, and I want to see his face in  front of that pan. I was then waiting by myself. :44.760 --> :49.680 At 1 hour 30 min, I check the rice,  as expected, the bottom was dark. :49.680 --> :55.358 At 2 hour, one of the 4 saw me alone in the  kitchen. The conversation was I follow : :55.358 --> :56.718 - OP ? :56.718 --> :57.438 - yes ? :57.438 --> :01.438 - What are you doing alone in the  kitchen ? Wait, are you still waiting ? :01.438 --> :01.840 - yes :01.840 --> :04.398 - He didn't get his rice yet ? :04.398 --> :05.520 - No, he didn't :05.520 --> :11.918 - What the... but I took a shower and  watch the TV ! This rice cook since when ? :11.918 --> :13.620 - It's been 2 hours now :13.620 --> :15.360 - No, that impossible. :15.360 --> :17.820 - I use the chronometer of my phone. :17.820 --> :20.320 - the induction hub is off, right ? :20.320 --> :24.920 - No, I didn't put it off, but I  open the window for the burn odor :24.920 --> :30.600 She approaches the pan, and declare the rice  burn. She quickly left the kitchen, exited. :30.600 --> :36.480 At 1 hour 10, she came back with the 3 others and  snacks. Everyone wanted to see the state of the   :36.480 --> :42.880 rice, someone try to dig with a wooden spoon and  declare the pan damaged. He couldn't dig at all,   :42.880 --> :47.440 the rice has melted and now be a part  of the pan. I don't know much about it,   :47.440 --> :52.480 I never got a dish burn that much, but I  agree that cleaning it will be a challenge. :52.480 --> :58.160 At 2 hour 15, I check the rice, not  a single grain was white anymore. :58.160 --> :05.280 At 2 hour 30, look who came ! THE MAN ! He  finally shows his nose in the kitchen. We   :05.280 --> :10.560 look at him with anticipation. He looked  at us a little puzzle, but go to his pan. :10.560 --> :16.960 He looks at his rice and then, he froze. He didn't  move for a while, he tries to take his pan off the   :16.960 --> :23.200 induction hub, but burn himself with the metallic  handle. We all look at him amused. He looks at us,   :23.200 --> :29.200 still chocked, and ask where was his food. We  told him in his pan. He said there is no way,   :29.200 --> :34.400 he always finds his rice around. We told him no  one touch his food. Didn't he put the rice in the   :34.400 --> :40.400 pan himself ? He argued that usually, he just has  to put his rice and go to his room. When he comes   :40.400 --> :45.520 back, someone has been taking the rice off for  him, but sometimes with everyone moving around,   :45.520 --> :51.640 he finds his rice in odd places like on the  oven. But he didn't see any rice in the kitchen.   :51.640 --> :57.160 We told him that indeed, that what happen,  but he told each of us to mind our business,   :57.160 --> :02.680 so neither of us touch his food today. I  think that when he realizes who we were. :02.680 --> :08.520 He looked alternatively to the pan and us. He  looks at the pan again, then ask us what he   :08.520 --> :13.360 will eat now. We answer that we don't know,  he can still make rice again, but he has to   :13.360 --> :19.840 stay nearby because we will not help him anymore.  He looks at us, and try to touch the pan again,   :19.840 --> :24.960 he success to move it using his shirt in the  handle. He put it in the sink with cold water,   :24.960 --> :30.800 he tries to clean it, but quickly look at us again  and ask how he should clean that. We don't know,   :30.800 --> :36.200 really. He looks at us in despair, he  said he only has one pan. We laughed,   :36.200 --> :40.920 I left after that, I know that 2  people stay, but I saw what I wanted. :40.920 --> :44.160 While he still went to his room  after putting his meal on the pan,   :44.160 --> :49.560 he comes back around 5 minutes later. Then,  eventually, just stop coming to his room,   :49.560 --> :53.160 I guess the round trip was a  hassle for just a few minutes. :53.160 --> :56.200 Outside that, I notice that  he has a brand-new pan.
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today we have a crazy story of an entitled parent and their kid who used their entitlement to tank a group from first place all the way to last we'll get into that in a bit but first entitled family causes scene at graduation my sister-in-law graduated medical school over the weekend at the ceremony a family sat behind us they had a four-year-old girl who kept running back and forth kicking our seats playing with our coats and hair whining and coughing Etc after about 40 minutes of this my father-in-law started throwing the parent sturdy looks and finally asked the girl and her mom to stop kicking his chair that was all he asked the woman Karen grabbed her child and said fine this is my husband's graduation but I guess I'll just have to miss it thanks a lot and then she took her kid and left the Grandma Karen senior stayed and was ticked she said why don't you just deal with it she's not feeling well our group ignored her after the ceremony The Graduate husband came and found father-in-law and expressed his dissat satisfaction at him making his wife leave when again no one asked her to leave it ended up being a comically dramatic situation with Karen senior trying to shame us for not putting up with the kid I very calmly ask the people why don't you just parent your child they had no answer and stomped away as a former teacher and someone who loves kids I get that kids will be kids but parents are responsible for teaching their kids how to act in public it's not okay for a child to be all up in other people's personal spaces I mean the parents are kind of the kids themselves that just never really grew up I mean they're displaying the classic child behavior of All or Nothing you ask them to be a bit more polite and they just go okay fine guess I got to grab my ball and go home then thanks a lot hey if you're going to Caren out like that in public that's probably doing us a favor anyways also hi I'm step and if you guys enjoy these stories of entitled parents why not hit those like And subscribe buttons down below that's said our next story is Mom asks me to pay her debt caused by money loss in stock market my mom is in serious debt because she borrowed money to invest in the stock market which is actually almost 10 years ago but her friend that lent her the money recently is an urgent need of this money so my mom turned to me she's asking me to give her $110,000 now and says she'll sell her house and find a job to pay the rest she's out of a job now I have at most 30,000 to give her but I know she needs 70 ,000 even after selling the house and I don't believe her one bit that she'll work to make money as she only loves risky investments in the past also I think borrowing money to invest in stocks is just gambling and afraid she'll ask for more once I give her some money she doesn't want anyone else in the family to know about the debt either I really don't want to give her any money to pay the debt but my mom can be very extreme if I don't give her attention she would say things like I did the most for this family but you all just hate me no one will know even if I die on the street I just worry she'll do something stupid to hurt herself but she wouldn't go to the therapist either thanks for reading and appreciate any suggestions I mean if it were me I would be leaning towards not giving her any money especially because somebody who's that far gone with taking money and investing it I'm afraid that they would just turn around and instead of using it to actually pay off any debts they're going to take this money and be like well I can strike lightning this one time and that's that's all I need and just blow the rest of your money too our next story is my parents in their my house my rules hello I need experiences opinions and maybe advices I'll try to make it short it concerns my parents and my boyfriend my boyfriend 22 and I 19 are together since 5 months ago we live far apart from each other one to 2 hours but we see each other every weekend it started from a few hours one day a week to every weekend Saturday and Sunday we've been together for 5 months only but everything is perfect he loves and respects me a lot nothing has been more perfect than being with him I know I found happiness I already met his parents and I see them regularly when I go to his house they love me a lot I even text his mom occasionally he also met my parents but only once it went well and they liked him but now I'm not sure they do so I said that I see my boyfriend every week starting with a few hours to now every weekend sleeping at his place since more than a month ago I spend the weekend with him and at his place for two reasons we don't see each other that much so we want to spend more time together he lives in the countryside where it's peaceful but my parents especially my mom don't like that I spend the weekend at his house she told me a lot of things you're only 19 you're acting like you can do whatever you want aren't you ashamed to bother his family every weekend thing is his parents want me to sleep over over at their house every weekend and they support the relationship with my boyfriend and spend more time together if he leaves you what will you do you two were not married for you to sleep at his place my house my rules exactly what she said I even got threats by message from her telling me that once I come back to them my parents my life will only get bad and that I should put that on my mind never thought she would go that far but I'm not surprised I know my parents want me to sleep at home where they know I'm safe but we barely talk to each other when I come back even way before I sleep at my boyfriend's house so I don't see the point to come back home on Saturday if I see him again the next day my dad is more cool with me he doesn't get angry but he doesn't listen to me too he takes my mom's side my mom has always been protective and she restricts me a lot even to my sister when she was younger I barely could go out with my friends and when I did I had to give names and numers numbers to her never went partying or clubbing before last month as well sleepovers at my friend's houses she knew for years were also hard to get I always ask her but I get a no every time or she would say yes but get passive aggressive if I dared to decide or do things without telling her she would get mad and angry at me and since I have a boyfriend I told myself that I should decide by myself and stop being my mom's dog that's what I've been doing for a few months now and I regret any decisions I made because I'm happier like that we also might move out together next year because his parents will sell the house but they would eventually rent it for my boyfriend and I nothing sure yet but it's most likely to happen it'll be hard to talk about it to my parents but this situation where my mom keeps controlling or whatever she does to me I need to get rid of it any similar situations experiences or any advices please thank you for reading this I would say say once you get to the point where you're an adult and you can make your own decisions and it sounds like they're especially getting to the point where they have their own independence they're going to move out to find their own place you stop taking stock in people who want to control you and control your life and you should start kind of putting that wall up where if they're going to try to be controlling overexerting themselves in this relationship that you're just going to keep pulling back until there's an equilibrium and that may be almost no contact if they can't support you or support the choices you make for yourself as an adult I don't think it's worth the time or stress it's not like they're trying to come to you with advice here they're trying to control what you can or can't do our next story is Mom complains about her father falling asleep after he takes care of her son I read this in the guardian today and couldn't quite Believe The Audacity Of This Mother exert below twice a week when I'm at work dad watches Theo my son who's 11 and feeds our dog Betsy a 12-year-old Labrador who still has a lot of energy but Dad often falls asleep at mine Theo says he doesn't like to wake up his grandpa and he's pretty much old enough to look after himself but if Dad's offer to come and cook Theo's dinner and keep him company then Falls as sleep on him what's the point in coming when I get home I'll ask Theo how long has he been sleeping often it's after he's made their dinner and done whatever else I've asked him to help with after the chores he's zoned So This Woman's 76-year-old dad comes over twice a week to look after her son cook him dinner and do chores all for free and she has the audacity to complain that he falls asleep also it's not like the child is a toddler he's 11 if anything happens he can wake his grandpa up or call for help some people I mean not all 11year olds are equal but as long as there's pretty basic supervision going on I feel like you can kind of trust that an 11-year-old will be able to make make it through an afternoon by themselves I mean I'm willing to bet that this child care is free so really how much can you complain especially on top of they're actually doing chores I think I would be elated if I were in her position our next story is I want to avoid being an entitled mother-in-law okay so just found out my son and his girlfriend tied the knot at the courthouse beginning of November I'm very happy for them both she's a lovely person and I like her a lot they've been here visiting this weekend we've discussed that they want to do something a little bigger with some family in about 2 to 3 years I've offered to help with any planning in the location of the backyard it's a decent size although some work needs to get done and I'm a pretty decent diyer and crafter money is an issue for me and them my new daughter tends to be a little quiet and introverted and has not always had the best interactions with the mother figures in her life I want to make sure I don't push anything on her please for everyone out there who's dealt with entire entitled moms mother-in-laws Etc especially in the wedding SL reception planning process please tell me how to avoid becoming one of those I mean I think as far as somebody who is a bit more quiet and introverted I think honestly suggesting things but focusing so much on having patience and hearing their opinions is the crucial thing I tend to be a pretty quiet guy I think I'm also not the most crafty person so I think I would appreciate a lot of guidance or suggestions as far as what to do it's just you don't want to be controlling or overbearing I think you take your time you ask them how they feel about things especially what they like what they don't like I think you can find a lot of success and come across as a stellar mother-in-law our next story is I feel trapped I'm 17-year-old female and my mother 50-year-old female keeps pressuring me into bringing a guy home I deeply refuse because she's always criticized everything about about me she's a weird person she's called me a because one day I came home later than usual and she decided to believe that I was freaking with a guy I was at school but later she would ask me why I don't bring the boyfriend that she's totally convinced that I have home due to this my attempts to date have always been horrible last time I dated a guy he broke up with me because he couldn't meet my family and he didn't like that now I'm seeing another guy but every time we go out I have to lie to my mother and tell her I go to the gym or to my friends my father knows and he's by my side but my mother doesn't listen today I was with my brother 8-year-old male and my mother he said something about his girlfriend and of course my mother went crazy so I told him I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend even though I'm 17 you'll have to wait to which my mother said that that was a lie that I was the one who was a freaking weirdo and couldn't get no one I said that bringing a guy home wasn't necessary and by telling my parents about him was more than enough this is where she snapped and told me that if I want to freak around and have hookups I may as well move out because I'm old enough I really don't know what to do why can't she be normal I don't want my life wasted I want to date I want to fall in love and I want to have a normal relationship with a guy without being forced to make a plan and lie in order to get out of my house I'm so sad honestly I think you just need to break through that wall if you're with somebody and you're committ committed to them you should be able to tell him that your mom is weird that they make it really uncomfortable and you and your partner should be there for each other and be ready to face that I would say go ahead and bring them home have that meeting I would say don't even be afraid about saying that you want to go see your boyfriend you want to go spend time with them especially when Opie says that their father is backing them up I feel like even if she escalates this and says oh well you're sleeping around oh you want to go be a because you're committed to one guy that you want to see regularly I'm going to kick you out of my house blah blah blah I'm willing to bet that doesn't happen because of the father and I think the more you normalize your dating behavior and being with people the sooner you're going to at least increase your chances of maybe them coming around to it especially if they end up liking the guy this next story is frustrated with my mom I'm 24 and have a Bachelor of Arts and psychology and years of experience working in mental health facilities I'm also on route to earn my associates as a speech language pathologist assistant I am very close to being done and being in a good paying career but she unexpectedly told me today that I make poor financial decisions I believe she said this because this week they informed my facility that I work in they would be closing it was either we go to another bigger facility with no pay increase or get laid off they gave us a two-day notice and with them not being interested in increasing our pay I involuntary tery resigned I explained to her that I may need assistance until I start my new job I don't think I will but I took a huge dip into my emergency savings account a month ago my dog got sick and we found out he has cancer so the vet bills were Hefty she's even mocked me saying let's hope your dog doesn't die soon because you don't have a job to pay for his cremation I have savings but not as much as she wants it to be I already got an offer for a higher paying job but you know how background checks can take a while unfortunately most careers with a BA in psychology don't pay enough to live on my own hence why she says I'm not trying hard enough as I could be doing any job that pays $30 or more but I don't want to be miserable doing something I don't like like I get where she's coming from but I don't want to do that to my life am I in the wrong she's a very hard-headed lady she immigrated almost 30 years ago so I can see why she has high expectations for me as I'm her oldest I told her I am trying but she says I'm not because I still live with her I am frustrated and upset because it's all been a lot this week and I can't explain to this all to her without bursting into tears I would tell her legitimately how you feel if she's not going to understand your feelings show any amount of care for how she's making you feel if you feel like you may be subconsciously trying to seek some kind of validation or whatnot it might be time to start pulling back a bit if they hear you out and show some remorse that would be great but at the end of the day you're just trying to be you do what you like in life and they're just giving you grief over all of it I don't have a great gut feeling about her showing any remorse though when you consider the things she said about op's dog this next story is er visits and Disney trips don't grow on trees Let's Travel back to the year 1995 the glove didn't fit so the jury acquitted the most obvious murderer in the history of murder the 49ers took the the Chargers down in the Super Bowl 49 to 26 TLC was dominating the top 40 and America tried to pick up the pieces after suffering a horrific tragedy in the Oklahoma City bombing in the summer of 95 I was 4 years old and I was visiting Disney World with my family it was here in Orlando Florida that another less significant sad story took place and a young op saw her first glimpse of the truth about her egg and sperm donors they're a bit freaked up and believe me this story is only Child's Play compared to what they're capable of inside the Tiny Tunes Market on Main Street USA we got two coffees for them and a milk for me and we were standing in line for the checkout when suddenly I changed my mind my dad told me to go exchange the milk for what I wanted so I made my way back to the beverage fridges I had just about made it when I heard my mom Screech my name and and scream at me to hurry up because it was almost our turn at the queue being four I took the advice to heart and started running back up the snack aisle toward my destination smack I fell on the slippery floor face first I pushed myself up and felt a slight pain in my hand fun fact about the 9s most juices OJ especially used to come in glass bottles instead of the safe less shiny ones seen today when I stood up there was blood like a lot oh and a Nifty big butt Shard of glass stuck right through my left hand and I mean big like it extended at least 2 to 3 Ines on either side what did my dad say when he came to my Aid something along the lines of crap op look what a mess you've made and now we have to buy the wasted OJ too hm not great but it could be worse he really F the clerk about paying for the OJ what did did my mom say when she ran to my Aid well first of all she never ran anywhere she stayed in line demanding that the people behind her keep waiting for her to make a breakfast sandwich selection second after buying her coffee and making her way over to me she said dang it op do you have any idea how much money I spent on these tickets I might as well flush them down the drain cuz thanks to you we all get to spend the day at the ER instead yeah that's worse what's even worse still my dad D and grandfather ended up taking me to and waiting with me at the ER all day while my mom opted to generously stay at the park and take my cousins on the rides she's super thoughtful like that again I was only four when this all went down and even though I actually do remember a lot of it I can't be expected to remember the fine details thankfully I have my awesome hilarious older cousin C and eyewitness to help fill in the gaps of the story we hope you enjoyed yeah I think a nightmare scenario is telling a 4-year-old in any kind of public facing situation hurry come on get over here I feel like you're almost guaranteeing like a 50/50% chance that that kid is going to take a tumble this is also the kind of memory where like you're laying in bed and you just have a random flashback and you just think about how callous your mom was about the whole thing nothing like a little reflecting on a childhood memory to bring up the stress levels when you're trying to shut your eyes our next story is why can't my parents do the basics I'm a 14-year-old girl and I've been going through a lot in my life but today my anger is getting worse my mother 50 years old woman and my stepfather 47 years old man have been complaining to me about everything I have a twin sister who she acts like a young Karen I would say she's the kind of person that if you complain about her in front of her she'll play the victim and she also doesn't give anyone the slightest bit of privacy I was quiet in my room talking to my half brother my sister comes in and I rudely weigh her out because it's not the first time she's done this and I was in a serious matter between me and my half brother we were venting to each other suddenly I get a notification from my mom saying Why can't your sister join the conversation I tell her to be quiet stop excluding your sister I took a deep breath and replied that the problem wasn't that she didn't talk but that she listened so my sister left the room after I insisted so much it doesn't even pass 5 minutes she comes back to my room doing the same thing and complaining only now she starts sending stupid things on my WhatsApp and I ask her to stop but she doesn't stop I get angry again and ask her to leave but she starts correcting my speech and doesn't leave so I curse her and push her out of the room suddenly I hear a small repeated knock on my door at this moment I need to let you know that I am autistic Level One support I have a high hearing sensitivity and sometimes some repetitive sounds bother me such as knocks on the door chalk on the board noises of pens with brush tips passing on the paper some more I open the door it's my sister mini Karen banging on wood who holds the door with a sad face I get ticked off and go to my mom to complain so it happens this mom says I'm going to talk to your sister I say okay come into her room me my sister's Karen my mother and my stepfather I'll name him ruie for how long ruie says every day I can't take it anymore my mother is already in the hospital almost dying I'm already tired you don't have sympathy with us don't you mom says every weekend you guys are fighting we're in trouble enough y'all are just getting worse Ruby added next tantrum I'm going to sleep in the freaking hospital with my mom because at least there I have peace I haven't slept in 3 days they lecture upon sermon especially on me the conversation ends I go to my room and I just want to punch everything my sister's face or something else every day they complain that I talk badly about my sister and I don't trust them and I don't tell them anything but because I wouldn't tell things to someone who ruined all my trust in her thinks I don't deserve privacy always complains about me when my sister does something wrong and I get the blame in the situation for complaining about her they complain about my own sister to me all the time but I can't complain about her then it gets difficult some advice I saw that is really good for this situation I feel is the idea that you prove that you're not doing the things they say you're doing so when things get loud or there might be some slight arguing going on what op should do just go silent relocate to somewhere nearer to their parents ideally where they might be able to see op and you just keep doing your stuff silently and let them physically see and try to call you out for being noisy when you're literally not doing anything in general though if the sister's wanting to throw a fit and be loud it probably would be for the best that you kind of learn to Gray Rock them where you just don't respond you just go blink you kind of sit there silently expressionless let them go off don't give them any fuel and just let them keep on going our next story is entitled mom and kid make us go from first place to last so this is from a long time ago when I was in second grade but it's probably the most Vivid memories I have from that age background I went to a very small private school that didn't even have real teachers let alone no staff for extracurriculars my second grade class had more kids than any other grade while I went to the school we had almost 15 kids in the grade which meant that was enough for an extracurricular we made a DI group di is destination IM in ination it's a program that has a gathering for schools to compete in challenges testing things like creativity and working together entitled kids mother entitled mother volunteered to teach our Destination Imagination class her concept of teaching was my kid is perfect everyone pay attention to her di was meant to be student run so it was meant to be more of a supervisory position entitled kid constantly told us she was in charge of the group because her mom was The Chaperone so for that year's competition we had to create and perform a skit if it hadn't been for entitled kid being out sick for a couple days we wouldn't have been able to do it she needed all the attention all the time and constant praise thankfully we wrote everything while she was gone and we were able to communicate as a group when she came back she demanded she be the star her mother reassigned the person cast for the main role and gave it to entitled kid but then she thought this other role was more fun she didn't want to switch she wanted to play both roles we finally convinced her she couldn't play simultaneous roles as it's not humanly possible so she just chooses which one she wanted and switched for the other one and not only did she demand who she played she wanted to tell everyone else who we were playing again we already cast The Skit entitled mother tried to convince us to change the roles we already had and were happy with with and had practiced we just ignored entitled mother at that point we go to the competition excited as could be even entitled kid's constant demand for attention wasn't getting to us we watched some of the other skits waiting for ours entitled kid liked some of the other skits and tried to change Ours by adding lines from the others we told her it was too late to make changes and the judges watched the same skits we did they would know we just took lines from what they already saw she was was mad but we performed well in fact we found out we were in first place we were the youngest group there and everyone was excited there was only the second competition left and it wasn't worth as many points we thought for sure we would do well in the end because it was almost impossible to fail after doing so well in the main competition unlike the skit we didn't know what the Second Challenge was until we got into the room entitled Mother wasn't there as it was only the group being tested and the judges in the room we walked in and there was a large solid stationary ball on the floor surrounded by things like rubber bands a pencil a paperclip toothpicks some string Etc we were told we had 5 minutes to build a structure on top of the ball the goal was to make it as high as possible so knowing working together was one of the things the overall competition was about we knew it wasn't about how high we built it was about how well we worked together I don't think they were trying trying to be obvious about that but it was pretty clear in true entitled kid fashion she immediately told us she was in charge we explained no one was in charge and this was about us cooperating we don't have any leader we're working as a group entitled kid was not okay with that she threw a tantrum and yelled until we said fine we tried doing what we normally did let her think she was in charge and just work together without her but entitled kid wouldn't let anyone else else touch any of the objects she was the only one who could touch them people tried giving her ideas of how to use them most of the ideas she either didn't understand or was unable to balance herself so she deemed them stupid she actually insulted everyone who had an idea we reminded her we were being judged on working together so she's really hurting our score by acting like this she kept getting more aggravated because time was running out and we had built nothing the shocked judges told us time was up we had built exactly nothing which we could have still done well with if we'd actually worked together and communicated well we tried explaining that to entitled kid but she ran to her mom her face red with anger and yelled that we failed because everyone else was mean to me and wouldn't listen even though I'm in charge we pointed out that no she wasn't this whole thing is about working as equals in a student-led group entitled kid immediately said since her mom was the chaperon that meant she was in charge entitled mother agreed and told us we were awful for challenging entitled kid's rule during the competition she just kept reassuring entitled kid she was perfect and in charge of the world and everyone else is to blame and that we ruined her chances of winning entitled mother reminded us that if not for entitled kid we wouldn't have a skit we had it in spite of her and that if we were better listeners entitled kid would have led us to Greatness none of us were shocked when we didn't do well we found out at the end that while we had done the best in the skit round we had bombed the second round so badly it took us out of the running entirely at the end we were explicitly told the second competition wasn't actually testing how high the tower was but how well the groups work together that's why some of the top scoring groups hadn't built the highest Towers in response entitled kid told us that we would have built the highest to if we'd listened to her we tried and that we would have won the whole thing if we let her do it all we pointed out they had just said it wasn't about the tower but about us working together as equals entitled mother disagreed she believed the judges would have changed the entire meaning of the organization and their mission statement had they seen the perfect Tower her daughter would have created had we idiots not got in her way the rest of the year entitled kid kept telling everyone how she did so well in spite of us and how we failed and how she would have won without us when our teacher talked to us about doing this again next year we asked who would be the adult in charge our confused teacher said it would be entitled mother again unless someone else's parent volunteered we knew that wouldn't happen and that entitled kid would for sure join if entitled mother was in charge as much as we liked it as good as we were at it it wasn't worth it if those tyrants were involved I almost can't blame entitled kid for being so awful when she was raised like this what's crazier she had a little sister who entitled mother did not treat like this entitled kid had a sleepover party with all the girls in our grade and when we got there we found out it was her sister's birthday her sister wasn't allowed to have a party because it would be too many kids entitled kid got gifts for her sister's birthday but that wasn't good enough she was mad her little sister got anything at all she demanded her sister give her all her birthday gifts when she didn't entitled kid destroyed all of them entitled mother did nothing after sleeping over at my house once my parents told me I wasn't allowed to invite her over again last I heard she was completely insane and faking a pregnancy for attention this is just sad to see because you can tell that parent literally ruined that kid I mean I feel bad for her she grew up to be so Mis blinded because of the way she was raised I mean how can you fault the kid for growing up and having issues when all their life they were told you're excellent you're doing the world a favor by being around everything you do is A+ 100% and anybody else is an absolute fool if they think not you're never going to grow up to be well adjusted like that but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy entitled parent story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more stories
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:04.569 --> :16.019 To get this out of the way: I'm a flatchested :16.019 --> :17.019 girl. :17.019 --> :21.670 I suffered from health issues and growth problems so I'm small but I'm proud of myself. :21.670 --> :25.439 My fiance and I went over to his parents house for his niece's birthday. :25.439 --> :31.539 I wore a sweetheart shape dress and my sil (Mel) who always comments on my chest, saw :31.539 --> :35.840 the dress and went like "this dress needs boobs, you ain't got any". :35.840 --> :40.270 I ignored her but then at dinner she asked if I was planning on getting a plastic surgery :40.270 --> :44.000 before the wedding so that I don't "ruin" the wedding dress. :44.000 --> :47.609 I found this offensive especially when others were watching. :47.609 --> :52.090 I said nothing but when we were sitting in the living room later, Mel suddenly started :52.090 --> :56.520 wiping her nose and trying to clear it (it's stuffed due to cold apparently). :56.520 --> :00.660 She has a large nose so I smiled and asked "do you need help with that? :00.660 --> :02.750 I could get the plunger for you.". :02.750 --> :07.020 She was stunned and the room got awkward after her husband was laughing. :07.020 --> :11.720 She was fuming and told my fiance that I stepped out of line and ruined her daughter's birthday :11.720 --> :14.180 with my words that humiliated her. :14.180 --> :18.540 My fiance said I shouldn't have caused a scene after his parents told us to leave. :18.540 --> :23.189 I explained how her comments made me feel but he said she said it was out of concern :23.189 --> :25.840 but my comment was out of hate. :25.840 --> :32.360 Now she's exoecting an apology. :32.360 --> :51.219 Did I go too far here? :51.219 --> :57.250 My husband's boss at the small startup he works on was throwing a huge party for 2023 :57.250 --> :01.969 celebrating a big contract and funding round they landed (despite the recession I suppose). :01.969 --> :07.399 He is clearly doing well because he couldn't wait to show off his newly landscaped yard :07.399 --> :12.920 (with pool and jacuzzi), new Mercedes, and a clear trophy girlfriend. :12.920 --> :17.950 This trophy girlfriend literally had nothing to talk about, hardly played host, and just :17.950 --> :22.440 wandered off halfway through the party into their jacuzzi, and basically stripped down :22.440 --> :24.239 to just her panties. :24.239 --> :30.500 This was like less than 50 ft away from a party full of people, including 4 kids (around :30.500 --> :33.940 4-7 years) including my 5 year old daughter! :33.940 --> :38.370 I was appalled, waited to see if she would be out in a few minutes or something but then :38.370 --> :44.120 decided to wander over, and politely tell her, and I quote: "Hey, this is a lovely party, :44.120 --> :45.900 but there are some kids around. :45.900 --> :47.450 Would you mind putting something on? :47.450 --> :50.019 Or saving it for after the kids bedtime?" :50.019 --> :53.849 She barely acknowledged me, I felt awkward and left. :53.849 --> :58.760 I guess ten minutes later or so, she wandered off, talked to his boss, and then the boss :58.760 --> :01.670 comes over to my husband and gives him an earful. :01.670 --> :06.440 Now I'm the terrible person because the boss apparently told my husband that I was rather :06.440 --> :10.730 impolite with his girlfriend and he hoped that I'd have a talk when we're invited over :10.730 --> :23.370 again in the future. :23.370 --> :28.370 I (39M) have a son (17 M) who recently got a girlfriend. :28.370 --> :32.230 His girlfriend is black and a very nice, kind and beautiful young lady. :32.230 --> :36.730 I have met her and invited her for dinner and family events plenty of times and she’s :36.730 --> :38.069 a joy to be around. :38.069 --> :42.150 But recently my mother has been staying with us because she is recovering from a surgery :42.150 --> :47.239 she had and she’s going on 70 years old so she can’t do much on her own. :47.239 --> :53.760 Long story short my mother is a classic racist and being a raging narcissist and she is not :53.760 --> :55.569 one to hold back from her opinions. :55.569 --> :01.599 I showed her a photo of my son and his girlfriend and she went on a 2 hour rant about bloodlines :01.599 --> :06.069 and kept saying they “don’t look right” and when I said she was coming to dinner she :06.069 --> :11.040 said doesn’t want the girl near her because it’ll “disturb her” so last minute I :11.040 --> :12.650 told her she could not come. :12.650 --> :17.549 My son has been trying to invite his girlfriend over everyday since but I said no multiple :17.549 --> :22.699 times due to his grandmother being here and her saying she doesn’t want her near her, :22.699 --> :24.770 I just don’t want any problems. :24.770 --> :29.900 But he argues that I am being “a complacent racist” by even allowing her to be here. :29.900 --> :34.760 And even more so for not allowing her to come over to “protect a racist”. :34.760 --> :38.840 He says I should of told her to leave the moment my mother said all that stuff. :38.840 --> :43.830 But my mother is an elderly woman who can hardly make it on her own as it is. :43.830 --> :45.770 Definitely much harder after surgery. :45.770 --> :49.759 Though I don’t agree with her I can just leave her to fend for herself. :49.759 --> :51.949 I literally do not know what to do. :51.949 --> :57.190 My wife says my son is right about me being complacent but of course she’d agree because :57.190 --> :59.480 her and my mother don’t get along well. :59.480 --> :01.960 I know I am not a danged racist. :01.960 --> :06.180 But now everyone is saying I am aiding one by taking my mothers side. :06.180 --> :17.990 So AITA? :17.990 --> :35.669 So, I (F27) went to do some grocery shopping today and I’m still having a hard time processing :35.669 --> :36.919 what just happened. :36.919 --> :39.169 I am childfree, but disabled. :39.169 --> :41.509 I have a small mobility disability. :41.509 --> :44.870 I am able to walk, but need a cane to support myself. :44.870 --> :48.210 I also have regular bad pain from too much walking. :48.210 --> :51.020 I do have a disability sign for my car. :51.020 --> :55.319 So when I went shopping today, all the disabled parkings were taken. :55.319 --> :58.330 As always, mostly by people without plates. :58.330 --> :00.150 Sigh, ok. :00.150 --> :05.491 I decided to use one of those “family parking” spots instead - because I just can’t get :05.491 --> :10.630 out of or into the car a lot of times with regular sports - especially if people park :10.630 --> :12.840 way too close to the driver’s door. :12.840 --> :18.000 I didn’t feel entirely comfortable, but I thought a disabled person being in need :18.000 --> :20.139 for this spot should be understandable… :20.139 --> :21.480 I was wrong. :21.480 --> :26.280 When I came back to my car a woman in her 40s (?) bolted at me with her kid (that was :26.280 --> :31.949 maybe like 6y old, not in a pram or anyhow) and shouted at me “you don’t look like :31.949 --> :33.350 you got children!” :33.350 --> :38.020 I was very confused but promptly figured she was upset about the parking spot. :38.020 --> :43.010 I apologised and tried to explain myself, but she kept cutting me off. :43.010 --> :47.360 Apparently she had been to the store manager demanding my car to be towed because she saw :47.360 --> :52.860 me leaving my car without children, but the employee denied, which made her even more :52.860 --> :53.860 mad. :53.860 --> :58.449 She told me she is sick of “people like me” being entitled to “her” parking :58.449 --> :59.449 spot. :59.449 --> :04.310 So, I’m here looking for honest feedback, AITA for using a spot for families because :04.310 --> :06.620 the disabled spots were all taken? :06.620 --> :25.680 Should I have waited for one :25.680 --> :39.550 to open up? :39.550 --> :41.430 My sister got married last summer. :41.430 --> :45.069 She had a very elegant and beautiful wedding and reception planned. :45.069 --> :46.450 It was child free. :46.450 --> :51.569 She sent gracious note to everyone who sent their regrets and thanked them for understanding :51.569 --> :56.449 her desires for her wedding and respecting them enough to RSVP in the negative. :56.449 --> :00.580 She also invited them to a party later that summer at her home if they wanted to take :00.580 --> :04.610 pictures with her and her wedding party in their fancy clothes. :04.610 --> :06.990 I thought it was well handled and classy. :06.990 --> :13.259 Several people did not understand the meaning of "child free" and brought their kids anyways. :13.259 --> :17.980 One screamed through the ceremony and the mom would not leave the chapel because she :17.980 --> :19.509 did not want to cause a fuss. :19.509 --> :23.880 There were no problem Xtra places for them at the reception so their parents had to shar :23.880 --> :25.099 their food with them. :25.099 --> :29.740 The worst was the kid that wanted a cupcake off the table the wedding cake was on. :29.740 --> :33.339 He lost tipped the wedding cake onto the floor. :33.339 --> :38.330 My dad saved it but there was a handprint on the lowest tier and a lot of cupcakes hit :38.330 --> :39.360 the floor. :39.360 --> :43.080 All in all it was four families that brought uninvited children. :43.080 --> :45.570 My wedding invitations just went out over Christmas. :45.570 --> :47.089 We are getting married in May. :47.089 --> :52.529 I know this is a long time but we have a lot of out of town, country, and even continent :52.529 --> :54.230 guests we hope will come. :54.230 --> :56.269 We did not invite these families to our wedding. :56.269 --> :00.769 We have a Facebook group for the wedding for people to share pictures and memories that :00.769 --> :02.570 we might put in the wedding video. :02.570 --> :07.370 They found out about the group and posted to my personal page about being excluded and :07.370 --> :09.470 asking why we are not inviting them. :09.470 --> :14.010 I messaged them privately and asked them to take down their posts and explained that my :14.010 --> :18.640 wedding was smaller and I wasn't having as many guests as my sister. :18.640 --> :23.839 They went public again and benched about me excluding them for no good reason. :23.839 --> :25.420 So I post d the receipts. :25.420 --> :30.480 I posted a video my cousin sent me of the kid crying during the ceremony and the parents :30.480 --> :31.740 doing nothing. :31.740 --> :36.550 The video of the kid freaking out because he had to share trout for supper. :36.550 --> :39.860 The before and after pictures of the wedding cake table. :39.860 --> :44.320 And I also asked of they knew in advance that they were not supposed to bring their kids :44.320 --> :45.320 to the wedding. :45.320 --> :47.649 Then everyone started piling on. :47.649 --> :48.649 To them. :48.649 --> :51.200 I guess there was a lot of stuff I missed. :51.200 --> :55.570 Including one of them changing a kid on the table with the guest book because the closest :55.570 --> :58.279 bathroom did not have a baby station. :58.279 --> :02.620 Now they are all calling me an jerk for embarrassing them for having children and wanting to be :02.620 --> :04.480 part of family events. :04.480 --> :09.540 I said that they could not understand why rules were in place and that is why they were :09.540 --> :10.540 not invited. :10.540 --> :14.140 My uncle posted about how embarrassed he was that his daughter was one of these entitled :14.140 --> :17.600 jerks and offered to pay my sister for the cake that got wrecked. :17.600 --> :21.149 He had been unable to attend and hadn't heard about the cake. :21.149 --> :33.649 So AITA? :33.649 --> :39.089 I (32M) have not a good relationship with my dad (59M) the reason being the pressure :39.089 --> :40.300 he put me on. :40.300 --> :46.760 If i had anything less than a 90/100 he would be disapointed at me and tell me i was a failure :46.760 --> :49.459 and i would never be anyone in life. :49.459 --> :54.220 I still remember he and my mom (59F) fighting, she always defended me saying i was doing :54.220 --> :58.139 my best but he would always scream that my best wasn't enough. :58.139 --> :03.240 When i was 12 i got 83/100 in a math test and i freaked out. :03.240 --> :08.709 I remember coming home crying thankfully my dad was at work and i begged my mom to not :08.709 --> :09.709 tell my dad. :09.709 --> :14.470 I guess seeing a 12 year old boy freaking out for a grade that even teacher tough was :14.470 --> :18.540 great was enough and my mom divorced my dad. :18.540 --> :22.360 I belive that was the moment he understood he screwed up and tried to apologize. :22.360 --> :27.140 My mom always wanted me to have a good relationship with my dad and i would stay with him one :27.140 --> :28.269 week end a month. :28.269 --> :34.950 At 16 he had my brother with my stepmom and i had to see the same man who call me a failure :34.950 --> :37.339 be the best dad to my brother. :37.339 --> :43.089 At 18 i cut my dad and his family off with the exception of my grandparents and my uncle. :43.089 --> :49.279 1 year ago my grandfather passed away and at his funeral i saw my dad and his family, :49.279 --> :53.230 my dad briefly looked at me and then turned his head down in shame. :53.230 --> :57.940 My uncle came up to me, he said he understood if i did not want to talk to my dad but asker :57.940 --> :59.570 if i would talk with my brother. :59.570 --> :04.910 I said yes and i met with him outside, we had a great conversation and in the last year :04.910 --> :08.470 he has met my wife and children and we have a good relationship. :08.470 --> :12.279 A few days ago, my brother asked why i don't talk to our dad. :12.279 --> :14.430 I told him what i wrote here and more. :14.430 --> :19.269 In the end i told him our dad wasn't good to me but that did not mean he should stop :19.269 --> :20.649 talk to him. :20.649 --> :25.550 Yesterday my uncle called me and said my brother and my father fought because of what i shared :25.550 --> :36.029 with my brother. :36.029 --> :50.310 As a new years resolution, my friends and I agreed to do more fun cardio during the. :50.310 --> :56.970 Our area is pretty built up, so we go down to the local community oval play 3v3 soccer. :56.970 --> :02.149 We swapped from Wednesday afternoons to Thursday last week and this was the first time we ran :02.149 --> :03.350 into the issue: :03.350 --> :08.450 We're running about as normal until a dozen or so kids and a few adults pile out of a :08.450 --> :10.400 local private school bus. :10.400 --> :14.079 The ovals big so we make sure we're only using a little corner. :14.079 --> :18.050 One of the coaches comes up to us and says "I'll get you guys to finish up. :18.050 --> :20.750 We're just about to start our practice session." :20.750 --> :25.170 We ask if we can just use a corner but he insists they need the whole oval. :25.170 --> :31.550 We're a bit confused but clear out none the less, maybe they can book the oval? :31.550 --> :34.860 Instead of going straight home I duck to the shops for a drink. :34.860 --> :40.300 Walking back past I'm annoyed to see them just doing ball drills and sprints and stuff :40.300 --> :43.940 that could easily be done in a quarter of the oval. :43.940 --> :49.180 I do some research and confirm there is no way to book the ovals, they are shared community :49.180 --> :50.390 resources. :50.390 --> :56.300 Every day I drive past the private school and they have 3 immaculately kept ovals privately :56.300 --> :57.389 fenced in. :57.389 --> :02.660 I keep thinking back to my public school that didn't even have an oval and for sports festivals :02.660 --> :07.930 we needed to walk over to the public fields and we would share with whoever was there. :07.930 --> :13.089 Thursday comes around as I drive home I make note of the 3 completely empty fields at the :13.089 --> :19.089 school (two NRL and a Cricket field) before I join my friends at the oval. :19.089 --> :23.019 We get about 20 minutes into our game before the bus rocks up again. :23.019 --> :28.259 As last time, the coach wanders over and tells us to pack it up so they can start practice. :28.259 --> :32.560 I ask them, since they are just doing drills, if we can share and that we will stay out :32.560 --> :33.560 of their way. :33.560 --> :35.339 "Sorry guys no can do." :35.339 --> :37.600 I ask why they don't use one of the schools ovals :37.600 --> :42.800 "Those are NRL and Cricket ovals, we're an AFL team” :42.800 --> :45.880 I point out this is a public oval for everyone. :45.880 --> :50.959 At this point the coaches all come over and start asking why we're being so difficult :50.959 --> :52.300 and uncooperative. :52.300 --> :56.709 They start saying we're being jerks and getting in the way of kids enjoying sports. :56.709 --> :01.911 at this point I put my foot down, saying we're going to stay, we were here first, and they're :01.911 --> :03.970 welcome to share with us. :03.970 --> :09.420 They get to practice and there is more than enough space for us to coexist, but about :09.420 --> :14.670 20 minutes later a cop car parks up next to the oval and two cops walk over to us. :14.670 --> :18.370 They ask what we we’re doing and we explain its 3v3 soccer. :18.370 --> :23.610 They ask us to be mindful to share the oval before going over to talk with the coaches. :23.610 --> :28.130 As they are leaving I ask them what its all about and they tell me they had a call from :28.130 --> :32.920 "someone" that we were disrupting the sports team, but as long as we aren't getting in :32.920 --> :35.220 their way, they can’t see anything wrong. :35.220 --> :39.050 So we're pretty sure they called the cops on us because we wouldn't leave... :39.050 --> :44.509 I think its complete crap that a private school can come in and just annex public facilities, :44.509 --> :55.910 but the coaches looks made me feel like I was being :55.910 --> :00.199 a dick. :00.199 --> :07.990 My (24F) birthday was this past weekend and I am still getting crap from some family over :07.990 --> :10.529 this and want to get some outside opinions. :10.529 --> :15.490 MIL do not have the greatest relationship, but tolerate each other. :15.490 --> :20.509 My husband and I don't have a very conventional marriage as he works from home and I took :20.509 --> :25.000 over my families business a few years ago and work full time there 8-5. :25.000 --> :31.310 Due to this he takes over most of the household chores such as cooking, cleaning etc since :31.310 --> :32.399 he's home more. :32.399 --> :38.320 My MIL is very old school and does not think this it right, due to this she's became very :38.320 --> :40.930 cold to me over the past few years. :40.930 --> :45.800 So my birthday was this past weekend and on Sunday my husband planned a family dinner :45.800 --> :47.600 to celebrate at our house. :47.600 --> :53.420 My mom and grandma insisted on bringing/cooking all my favorite foods for the dinner. :53.420 --> :58.569 My MIL caught wind of this and I guess wanted to pitch in and help to so she offered to :58.569 --> :59.870 get the birthday cake. :59.870 --> :04.589 She asked my husband what kind I like and he told her anything chocolate or tiramisu. :04.589 --> :10.380 He also told her that I hate fruity cakes (lemon, raspberry etc). :10.380 --> :16.000 Evening of my birthday rolls around and everything is going smoothly until it's time for cake. :16.000 --> :21.880 My MIL and my mom both went into the kitchen, MIL was unboxing the cake and my mom was grabbing :21.880 --> :23.419 plates and utensils. :23.419 --> :28.160 Apperently my mom took a glance at the cake and asked if this cake was for me? :28.160 --> :31.480 My MIL was like yes obviously. :31.480 --> :37.240 My mom was like "oh no, I guess no one informed you that *my name* doesn't like fruity cakes, :37.240 --> :40.410 her favorites are anything chocolate and tiramisu." :40.410 --> :44.020 My MIL was like "no they informed me of her preference. :44.020 --> :47.480 I just saw this cake at the store and thought it looked lovely. :47.480 --> :50.790 Plus it would be nice for *my name* to try something different". :50.790 --> :55.480 My mom left left the kitchen because she didn't want to make a scene on my birthday. :55.480 --> :01.179 MIL brought the cake out and my husband immediately confronted her when he saw it and was like :01.179 --> :05.809 "mom is this cake for *my name*?" she was like "yes I thought it would be nice for us :05.809 --> :07.770 to try something different". :07.770 --> :12.370 Anyway i'm an adult and it's just a cake, I wasn't about to make some huge scene about :12.370 --> :19.020 a cake so the cake was cut and MIL offered me a slice and I just politely declined and :19.020 --> :24.360 ate some of the other desserts at the table (fruit, chocolate covered strawberries etc). :24.360 --> :29.900 She immediately got offended and said she finds it extremely insulting that I am not :29.900 --> :35.000 eating any of the cake that she specifically bought for me on my birthday. :35.000 --> :40.190 I just simply told her "well I appreciate you getting the cake, but my husband and I :40.190 --> :44.150 made it clear that I do not like fruity cakes and you knew this". :44.150 --> :50.260 She said I was being extremely disrespectful and selfish and stormed out with my FIL. :50.260 --> :55.630 She's been contacting both my husband and I saying how I need to apologize for my behavior. :55.630 --> :00.929 We've also been getting crap from my SIL's and I kind of feel bad now for not just eating :00.929 --> :08.560 the cake. :08.560 --> :15.990 AITA? :15.990 --> :21.750 I (22m) am a lead teacher in a 3K classroom (3 year olds). :21.750 --> :25.720 I have two assistant teachers in the classroom, both middle aged women. :25.720 --> :30.640 I do a lot of running around and activities with the children, so the center has literally :30.640 --> :33.250 told me to wear athletic clothing to work. :33.250 --> :34.490 I am fine with that. :34.490 --> :38.909 I typically wear a t-shirt and either athletic shorts or joggers. :38.909 --> :45.150 Now I’m a tall guy (think 6’6”) so obviously I have to bend down a lot if I’m working :45.150 --> :47.240 with 3 year olds. :47.240 --> :52.390 Apparently sometimes when I bend down the top of my underwear shows over my shorts and :52.390 --> :56.850 one of my assistant teachers insists on commenting whey time. :56.850 --> :02.419 She’ll say stuff like “I see London I see France” and even comment on the colors. :02.419 --> :05.470 She’ll make comments on it not being professional. :05.470 --> :10.710 I want to clarify that my boss has come in to watch me teach many times and has not made :10.710 --> :12.320 any comments. :12.320 --> :17.120 Yesterday my boss pulls me over and says the assistant teacher has made some complaints :17.120 --> :18.640 about my attire. :18.640 --> :24.090 She suggested I wear more “muted” underwear to work if it’s going to be visible. :24.090 --> :29.730 Not only was it incredibly embarrassing to have to hear my boss talk about my underwear, :29.730 --> :34.830 but doing so would require me to literally go out and buy all new underwear. :34.830 --> :39.000 All my current underwear are pretty bright colors except for one pair of white briefs :39.000 --> :42.289 that I’m not even sure still fit me to be honest. :42.289 --> :47.490 I want to be clear that the issue is not that my underwear shows maybe once or twice a day :47.490 --> :52.770 (she even admitted that’s a natural part of being bent over so much), but the fact :52.770 --> :55.350 that apparently it’s “attention grabbing.” :55.350 --> :00.410 This is incredibly embarrassing and I want to know if I’m the AH if I simply ignore :00.410 --> :05.919 it, as all my other feedback has been good and I can’t imagine them firing me over :05.919 --> :33.190 this. :33.190 --> :36.780 I (f33) had same day surgery. :36.780 --> :41.270 I was not allowed to drive myself to to from the hospital and was to have someone with :41.270 --> :43.940 me for 24 hours following surgery. :43.940 --> :48.679 I asked my husband (m33) to take me there and to take care of me. :48.679 --> :51.539 He agreed, which was a big reason I went ahead it. :51.539 --> :56.140 My husband runs a busy company and it is difficult for him to step away. :56.140 --> :01.700 Bit of background: we have 4 children together under 6 in our blended family, and childcare :01.700 --> :04.029 duties fall mainly to me. :04.029 --> :05.620 I also work full-time. :05.620 --> :08.309 I just recently gave birth to our son. :08.309 --> :11.630 My husband begrudgingly takes me to the hospital. :11.630 --> :15.919 Once I am settled, I said it was fine for him to leave as long as he was back when I :15.919 --> :17.400 woke up from surgery. :17.400 --> :21.840 I called him an hour or so later to let him know I was going back and they would call :21.840 --> :25.659 him when I was going into recovery, before they brought me back to the room. :25.659 --> :30.169 I get out of recovery and was obviously very loopy from anesthesia. :30.169 --> :33.090 My husband wasn’t there but the nanny was. :33.090 --> :38.940 I had to stay longer than I expected because I had some small complications afterwards. :38.940 --> :43.279 My husband finally got there as I was getting dressed and being put in the wheelchair to :43.279 --> :44.279 leave. :44.279 --> :48.270 He was annoyed with me for calling and texting asking where he was. :48.270 --> :50.290 He takes me home in silence. :50.290 --> :55.830 When we get back, I finally eat some chicken soup and the nanny suggests she take the kids :55.830 --> :57.919 so I can nap for a few hours. :57.919 --> :00.730 I agree and ask my husband not to go far. :00.730 --> :06.330 I woke up shortly after they leave with vomiting and needed my medicine, which is in my husband’s :06.330 --> :08.539 vehicle and he’s not here. :08.539 --> :11.710 I call him and it goes straight to voicemail repeatedly. :11.710 --> :16.490 I finally get ahold of him and he is working in the next county over, explaining he’s :16.490 --> :18.530 going to finish up and then head home. :18.530 --> :22.710 It’s a 30 minute drive and then he continues to work for a while. :22.710 --> :26.570 When he gets home, I’m crying and he’s very upset with me. :26.570 --> :31.600 We argue but then the nanny brings home the baby about 5 minutes after he gets there. :31.600 --> :37.789 He explained he rearranged his whole day because of my surgery and I’m very ungrateful. :37.789 --> :42.720 I explain that I’m not even supposed to be alone and he left to go to a county over :42.720 --> :44.779 and took my medicine with him. :44.779 --> :49.679 I stay up most of the night caring for the baby alone and he left early this morning, :49.679 --> :54.510 saying not to call him if I need anything because I don’t appreciate it anyways. :54.510 --> :02.600 AITA for being upset? :02.600 --> :17.419 A little back story so it'll help you understand my situation better, I 15f have ibs and because :17.419 --> :19.550 of this I'm slightly underweight. :19.550 --> :26.430 for instance, I'm 5'2 and 100 pounds. anyways my friend let's call Amy, has some weird obsession :26.430 --> :27.860 with my condition. :27.860 --> :32.529 like she'll make weird comments about how I'm "too skinny" and how I need to eat better :32.529 --> :36.020 if I ever want to gain weight and basically get healthy. :36.020 --> :42.710 it really annoys me sometimes because she's literally overweight herself and has absolutely :42.710 --> :44.190 no room to talk. :44.190 --> :48.350 so, I normally just ignore whatever bullcrap comes out of her mouth. :48.350 --> :49.700 for my sanity. :49.700 --> :53.740 so fast forward to around lunch my friend group and I went to McDonalds, because are :53.740 --> :56.260 school food is absolute crap. :56.260 --> :02.040 anyways I go to order and Amy decides to ask me if I'm really gonna eat that with my condition, :02.040 --> :07.121 in the absolute snarkiest tone. that's when I lose it, and ask her "where to do have any :07.121 --> :13.420 room to say that, while you've just ordered two double quarter pounders a 20pc and a mcflurry?" :13.420 --> :19.280 she literally goes absolutely feral after I said that and told me I was eating myself :19.280 --> :25.240 to death and she just wants to help, and how I had no right food shaming her. :25.240 --> :30.309 that's when I say that she was literally food shaming me, because I have a medical condition :30.309 --> :34.750 that's none of her freaking business and she had no right commenting on. :34.750 --> :39.530 we argued for a while after that, and she eventually left the McDonalds. :39.530 --> :44.350 that's when half of my friend group left with her and told me I went too far, and she was :44.350 --> :46.510 generally trying to help. :46.510 --> :51.200 while the other half was on my side saying how Amy was definitely in the wrong and how :51.200 --> :53.950 she had no right to chime in like she did. :53.950 --> :58.130 I honestly kinda feel bad but I don't at the same time. :58.130 --> :59.940 so I came to reddit to get yalls opinions. :59.940 --> :00.940 so AITA? :00.940 --> :01.940 Recently my younger brother (13M) had come out to my parents about his mental health. :01.940 --> :02.940 I (16F) have known about this for a while since I am the person who listens to his problems. :02.940 --> :03.940 I have serious mental health problems, which I don’t like people knowing about therefore :03.940 --> :04.940 I keep it to myself. :04.940 --> :05.940 During the talk my brother had with my parents, they couldn’t understand how to comfort :05.940 --> :06.940 him therefore they called me down and asked for my opinion. :06.940 --> :07.940 My opinion was to get him a therapist. :07.940 --> :08.940 They got mad at me for that idea and sent my brother upstairs. :08.940 --> :09.940 As we were alone they started yelling at me saying I shouldn’t have said such a thing, :09.940 --> :10.940 and as a family, we should be each other's backbone. :10.940 --> :11.940 I told them that I think my brother needs someone he can talk to knowing he won’t :11.940 --> :12.940 be judged and can get professional help. :12.940 --> :13.940 My mom yelled at me saying he could talk to me and trust me not to judge him. :13.940 --> :14.940 That’s when I snapped and told her I wasn’t a therapist and won’t ever be my brother's :14.940 --> :15.940 therapist. :15.940 --> :16.940 There was some more yelling until I stormed off to my room. :16.940 --> :17.940 I’m feeling like TA because of how I handled the situation and my brother (17M) called :17.940 --> :18.940 me one because of the way I reacted. :18.940 --> :19.940 So AITA? :19.940 --> :20.940 My ex-wife (Emma) and my wife (Lara) were pregnant around the same time. :20.940 --> :21.940 Lara was about 10 weeks ahead of Emma. :21.940 --> :22.940 In November, Lara gave birth to our son a few days after his due date. :22.940 --> :25.600 Three days after he and Lara came home, I received a panicked call from my SIL asking :25.600 --> :31.770 if I could take my daughters (9F twins) as Emma had been taken to hospital the night :31.770 --> :34.240 before and was being taken for a c-section. :34.240 --> :39.429 SIL and my brother had taken the girls in overnight but weren’t able to take them :39.429 --> :43.970 for long due to lack of space as they have 4 children themselves. :43.970 --> :49.919 SIL said that Emma was looking at a minimum of 5 days in hospital and then the baby would :49.919 --> :54.610 need to stay in hospital for a while – the baby came home just before Christmas. :54.610 --> :59.549 I told my SIL that we couldn’t take the girls because we had just had our son and :59.549 --> :03.570 we were wanting to spend the time just bonding as a family of three. :03.570 --> :09.299 SIL angrily told me that having my new son didn’t cancel out the fact I already had :09.299 --> :10.510 two daughters. :10.510 --> :14.720 I apologised and told her that I couldn’t take them in right now but I would send her :14.720 --> :17.429 some money to help out while they have the girls. :17.429 --> :22.360 If we hadn’t just brought him home, I would have taken the girls in but Lara and I had :22.360 --> :27.890 already decided that we didn’t want any guests for the first few weeks and I had told :27.890 --> :28.890 Emma this. :28.890 --> :33.670 While Emma was in the hospital, the girls stayed with SIL and my brother another night :33.670 --> :37.120 before they went to stay with Emma’s husband’s parents. :37.120 --> :41.400 While the baby was in hospital, because Emma and her husband were spending most of their :41.400 --> :48.369 time at the hospital, they were cared for a lot by Emma’s in laws or my SIL and brother. :48.369 --> :52.740 After a week or so, Lara and I offered to take the girls but they told us they didn’t :52.740 --> :55.640 want to stay because we were more focused on our son. :55.640 --> :00.039 It did feel like they were just parroting what they had heard from the adults around :00.039 --> :01.039 them. :01.039 --> :05.250 Though admittedly with the sleepless nights I did forget some things such as the video :05.250 --> :07.130 call with the girls. :07.130 --> :12.390 After the baby came home and everything settled down with Emma, she sent me a long email in :12.390 --> :17.500 the middle of the night explaining that she was disappointed in my actions and thought :17.500 --> :22.390 that I would see this is a medical emergency and I wouldn’t need to be asked to take :22.390 --> :23.390 them in. :23.390 --> :28.860 I told her that we had just had son and I had to think about his needs as well, especially :28.860 --> :32.210 when there was plenty of people around them to care for them. :32.210 --> :37.180 Emma’s told me that any communication is to now go through the lawyer because she’s :37.180 --> :41.620 fed up of dealing with me and is going to take me to court to get full custody instead :41.620 --> :43.110 of 50/50. :43.110 --> :48.179 I didn’t think it was unreasonable to not take them in given we had just had a baby. :48.179 --> :52.890 Lara wants me to fix it as we can’t afford my child maintenance more than doubling if :52.890 --> :54.410 Emma gets full custody. :54.410 --> :08.730 AITA for not taking my :08.730 --> :36.490 daughters in?
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:10.880 --> :15.480 Throughout my entire life, I’ve been in a lot  of relationships. I’m the kind of person who   :15.480 --> :20.240 believes that there’s a lot of love out there, and  I would be doing myself a disservice if I didn’t   :20.240 --> :25.560 let myself experience it. Till today, I still  don’t know if this is the right mindset or not,   :25.560 --> :30.720 because as quick as I am to enter a relationship,  that is just how quick I am at getting out of one   :30.720 --> :35.680 the minute I stop feeling as I used to. Now,  for the most part, my breakups are usually   :35.680 --> :42.400 clean and mature, but sometimes it gets messy,  probably a clingy or emotionally immature ex,   :42.400 --> :47.000 who wouldn’t accept the fact that I have moved on  from the relationship. I don’t have a lot of them,   :47.000 --> :51.320 but the few ones I have are usually  crazy. This story is about one of the   :51.320 --> :56.840 craziest of them all. Let’s call him Mark. I met Mark during my final year of college.   :56.840 --> :00.960 It was my final semester and I was under a  lot of pressure. My grades had been good,   :00.960 --> :06.480 and overall, I was an above-average student, but  for some reason, I got really scared and anxious   :06.480 --> :12.320 in my final year. I guess I can call it imposter  syndrome because none of the members of my family   :12.320 --> :17.680 ever got to finish college. Not my mom or dad.  My older brother got to sophomore year and then   :17.680 --> :23.200 dropped out. My other brother, (my immediate older  brother), didn’t even try to get into college.   :23.200 --> :28.320 Even though they were all doing well in their  chosen paths, I made it a point to finish college.   :28.320 --> :34.640 Anyway, I had just got back from the library after  a six-hour study marathon, and I wanted my bed so   :34.640 --> :40.200 badly. I had even forgotten that that day was my  birthday. As soon as I got home, I tossed my bag   :40.200 --> :45.360 somewhere and my shoes somewhere else. Then I  went to bed. Less than thirty minutes later,   :45.360 --> :50.640 I received a phone call. I usually put my phone on  Do Not Disturb whenever I want to sleep, but I was   :50.640 --> :56.040 so tired that night that I forgot. I looked at the  caller ID, and it was my best friend, Susan. She   :56.040 --> :00.440 told me I had to come over to her place and that  she had just cut her hand with a knife and she was   :00.440 --> :05.520 bleeding out and she thought she was going to die.  In hindsight, I should have known that Susan had a   :05.520 --> :11.240 flair for the dramatic. But then again, even  if I thought she was joking or overreacting,   :11.240 --> :16.200 I couldn’t risk it, on the off chance that she was  telling the truth. I dragged myself out of bed and   :16.200 --> :21.360 hurried out of my apartment. I drove down to her  apartment building. (it was a walkable distance,   :21.360 --> :26.280 ten minutes tops, but I had to get there as  soon as possible, in case if she wasn’t joking.   :26.280 --> :30.920 I got to her apartment building in good time and  hurried up the flight of stairs to her apartment.   :30.920 --> :36.600 The door was slightly open, which was unusual.  At that moment, my thoughts ran wild. What if   :36.600 --> :42.720 she was actually terribly injured? I ran into the  apartment, only to receive the shock of my life.  :42.720 --> :44.840 Surprise! There I was,   :44.840 --> :50.000 standing with my heart in my throat, in front of  my closest friends, colleagues from school, and   :50.000 --> :56.320 a bunch of strangers I’d never met in my entire  life. It was a surprise party, and Susan fooled   :56.320 --> :01.040 me into thinking she had an accident to get me to  come. I remember when she was planning to throw   :01.040 --> :07.360 me a party, I specifically told her I was going to  be studying for school, so I didn’t want a party,   :07.360 --> :12.120 but somehow, that got lost in translation, and  what she thought I meant was that I wanted a   :12.120 --> :18.080 surprise party. But seriously, it was difficult  to get mad at Susan. I understood that she cared   :18.080 --> :23.480 for me, and that was why she was always so extra.  I decided to go with it, but with the promise that   :23.480 --> :29.120 I’d leave in one hour. She said sure and got me a  drink. I had another marathon study the next day,   :29.120 --> :34.160 so I wasn’t drinking. I stayed in the apartment  with Susan for a few minutes, but the moment she   :34.160 --> :39.680 turned away to attend to another friend, I slipped  away. The loud music and noise were starting to   :39.680 --> :44.280 get to me, and if I hadn’t left the apartment,  I would surely have gotten a headache. (I mean,   :44.280 --> :48.480 I still got a headache the next day, but it  could have been worse). I the apartment and   :48.480 --> :53.320 took a seat by the stairs. It was going to take  a while before Susan noticed that I had left,   :53.320 --> :58.440 but she’d find out eventually. I spent the time  scrolling through Twitter and Pinterest. I was   :58.440 --> :03.360 so deep into it that I didn’t notice someone  walking up behind me. It was when I heard the   :03.360 --> :09.360 bark of a dog that I turned around, and there  he stood. Tall, and handsome with a contagious   :09.360 --> :14.640 smirk. He was holding a small golden retriever  pup. I rose from the steps to let him pass and   :14.640 --> :19.720 he made his way downward after saying thank you.  A few moments later, I had gone back to Twitter   :19.720 --> :25.080 when he returned. He still had the same smile  on his lips, but the pup in his arms was gone.  :25.080 --> :29.720 “Where’s the cute pup?” was the first thing I said  to him. He explained that the dog wasn’t his, and   :29.720 --> :34.920 he was just sitting it for someone. I introduced  myself to him and so did he. We talked for close   :34.920 --> :40.080 to thirty minutes, and soon enough, I could hear  Susan out in the hallway, yelling my name. I had   :40.080 --> :45.000 to leave. I forgot to collect his number before  returning to the party. I only remembered the   :45.000 --> :50.160 next day, when I was thinking about the party. I  was so pissed off but there was nothing I could   :50.160 --> :55.760 do. He’s gone, and I might never see him again. Or at least that was what I thought. Susan invited   :55.760 --> :00.080 me to her apartment less than a week later.  She wanted to bake a cake for her boyfriend’s   :00.080 --> :04.120 birthday, but she didn’t know the first thing  about baking a cake. (I didn’t know why she   :04.120 --> :09.600 wouldn’t just buy a cake like everyone else, but  I had to help her do basically everything). When I   :09.600 --> :14.960 got there, I found Susan standing in the hallway.  Apparently, she had tried to bake some cupcakes by   :14.960 --> :20.120 herself, but she ended up burning the whole batch  and smoking the entire apartment. We had to stay   :20.120 --> :24.480 outside to wait for the smoke to clear out. We  were talking about something when Mark walked   :24.480 --> :30.840 out of the apartment directly opposite Susan’s.  I was so surprised, because for some reason,   :30.840 --> :35.600 I had thought Mark had come for the party, and  even with the pup he was holding, my mind didn’t   :35.600 --> :41.320 make the association that there was a possibility  that he lived in the same apartment with Susan. We   :41.320 --> :46.920 talked for a moment, and this time, he asked for  my number, which I gave to him immediately. After   :46.920 --> :52.160 that, he said hi to Susan and walked away. I asked  Susan why she didn’t tell me that he lived here,   :52.160 --> :55.880 (even though I didn’t tell her a single  thing about him). She merely shrugged and   :55.880 --> :01.080 told me not to think about it, because Mark  was bad news. I asked her why she thought so,   :01.080 --> :05.680 but all she had to say was that she got  a bad vibe from him. Coming from Susan,   :05.680 --> :10.480 who kept a long line of unhealthy relationships,  and didn’t know when to back out of one, that   :10.480 --> :15.440 comment didn’t mean much to me. That night, Mark  texted me, and even when I had earlier decided   :15.440 --> :19.960 that I was going to go to bed early to sleep off  the fatigue that had resulted from living in the   :19.960 --> :26.280 library, I stayed up till four am, texting Mark. Mark was a third-year lit Major, and he was two   :26.280 --> :31.800 years younger than me. I should have seen this  as a red flag then, but I didn’t. Even while he   :31.800 --> :37.160 was young, he was funny and very interesting. He  wanted to be a writer and he was very passionate   :37.160 --> :43.280 about books. Our first date took place in the  library. (I mean, I wouldn’t call it a date,   :43.280 --> :49.040 but we hung out, so yeah it was kind of a date). We continued our routine of midnight texting and   :49.040 --> :54.280 library dates for some time before he asked me  out on a real date. Less than a month later,   :54.280 --> :58.880 we started dating. It was fun for a while  because Mark always wanted to be around to keep   :58.880 --> :04.840 me company. Sometimes, he’d stay in my apartment  for over two weeks. The only problem was that he   :04.840 --> :10.120 was always very active. Even with the fact that  he loved to read novels and stuff, he couldn’t sit   :10.120 --> :16.320 in one place for a long time. He loved loud music  and was always jumping from one task to the other.   :16.320 --> :20.840 It was kind of annoying. The biggest problem was  that he took offense whenever I called out these   :20.840 --> :25.840 behaviors. He didn’t like to be told that he was  doing something wrong. I think he was insecure   :25.840 --> :30.600 about the fact that I was older than him, and  that made it feel like I was trying to correct him   :30.600 --> :36.440 from that standpoint. Whenever he came over to my  place, we fought almost every day, but he’d change   :36.440 --> :42.440 nothing. One day, I was tired of the whole issue,  and I decided to break up with him. He didn’t see   :42.440 --> :48.560 it coming. He begged me to stay, but I said no. In  two months, I was already seeing someone else. I   :48.560 --> :54.080 had that someone over one day when Mark came to  my place without prior notice. He was so pissed   :54.080 --> :00.120 that I was already seeing someone else and we got  into a huge fight. Eventually, he left. I thought   :00.120 --> :05.440 that was the end, till two days later, when exams  started. I had my first paper and was already   :05.440 --> :10.280 running late because I spent the night studying  and overslept. I got to my car, and it wouldn’t   :10.280 --> :16.040 start. That was when I noticed that the tires were  flat. But they weren’t just flat. They were torn   :16.040 --> :21.840 with something sharp, probably a knife. But that  wouldn’t stop the car from starting, so I decided   :21.840 --> :29.360 to check the hood. To my horror, every wire had  been cut off, every plug, pulled out. Even the   :29.360 --> :34.240 engine looked like it had taken a few hits. It  was terrible. Nothing was stolen, so I knew it   :34.240 --> :39.600 wasn’t random. I didn’t have to think hard before  I guessed who had it out for me, and who was just   :39.600 --> :44.400 immature enough to do something like this. I  wanted to report to the police, but they’ll   :44.400 --> :49.760 just make him pay a fine. I wanted more than  that, so I waited. I waited till I was done with   :49.760 --> :55.720 exams and I was free enough to carry out my plan. The Friday after I finished my exams, I decided   :55.720 --> :01.440 to go to his place. I knew that Mark always went  to visit friends on Friday evening, so I waited   :01.440 --> :06.800 outside his apartment to watch his movements.  As soon as he left, I entered his apartment,   :06.800 --> :12.320 careful not to run into Susan. I knew where he  kept his spare key, so I got into his apartment.   :12.320 --> :17.200 I started with his collection of first-edition  books, I used his kitchen knife to tear it to   :17.200 --> :22.720 shreds then went ahead to do the same things  to his clothes. Next, I smashed his laptop and   :22.720 --> :28.840 tossed his chairs. To top it all off, I smashed a  window and left the house the same way I came in.   :28.840 --> :34.160 After that, I called Susan to hang out with the  rest of our other friends, so I’d have an alibi,   :34.160 --> :39.120 in case he decided to call the police. He  didn’t, and I never heard from him again.  :07.520 --> :12.480 Right from when I was young, for as long as I  can remember, I have always been the black sheep,   :12.480 --> :18.120 wherever I went, and wherever I found myself,  all except the place I called home. It was only   :18.120 --> :23.160 my family that still treated me as I still meant  something to them, and I was worth something at   :23.160 --> :28.560 least, because for as long as I can remember,  ever since I had begun going to school, I was   :28.560 --> :34.360 always that one kid, that was the very object of  bullying , and every single time I had taken the   :34.360 --> :39.320 matter to a higher authority, they would always  end up dismissing the students that were involved,   :39.320 --> :45.880 and I would also be let off with an apology, and  these exact same words, “They only bully you,   :45.880 --> :50.960 because, they feel intimidated by you, your  presence, and your intellect, they do not have   :50.960 --> :55.760 any other means of catching up to you, and thus,  they think bullying is the only way to stop you,   :55.760 --> :02.320 prove them wrong”. I have always held on to this,  every single time an incident happens, but also,   :02.320 --> :07.680 every single time, I would also consider the  fact that there was absolutely nothing I had,   :07.680 --> :12.560 that they could possibly want, for one, my  parents were not too well off, as they were   :12.560 --> :17.840 still struggling to keep our family together, and  also still managing to do the little they could,   :17.840 --> :22.760 so as to provide the highest level of education,  that they could afford for me. This was at the   :22.760 --> :27.320 time, the only thing that was motivating me,  seeing as most people, did not have the benefit   :27.320 --> :32.480 of even having parents that were trying their  very best to ensure that their kid had everything   :32.480 --> :38.640 needed to survive on their own, later in life.  So in some way, this was also my driving force,   :38.640 --> :44.440 regardless of their endless taunting and bullying. Things soon changed, right when I was in my 2nd   :44.440 --> :48.960 year in high school, and this was all due to the  presence of someone so precious and dear to my   :48.960 --> :54.760 heart at the time, that sometimes, she had almost  seemed like an angel, as the moment she came,   :54.760 --> :59.000 it was similar to getting saved from  everything I was going through in school,   :59.000 --> :03.360 as related to the constant bullying and all. Right after entering high school,   :03.360 --> :08.840 I was immediately made aware of my then current  situation, as some of my seniors, came over to me   :08.840 --> :14.200 and began to educate me on the system they went by  there, and they also tried to put me in my place,   :14.200 --> :19.200 by simply giving me their welcome speech for  guys like me. Basically, they tried to show me   :19.200 --> :24.120 who ruled the social setting in the school. And I  made it really clear to the guys that came over to   :24.120 --> :29.920 meet me, that I was willing to abide by everything  they wasn’t of me, as I was not planning to resist   :29.920 --> :36.520 in any way, or rebel against any person, that  I was not supposed to, or “ get in their way”.  :36.520 --> :41.840 And right after this, I guess you could say  this was the biggest mistake I could have made,   :41.840 --> :47.640 as apparently, I basically said to them, “ I was  ready to become your dog, and I would accept my   :47.640 --> :53.880 place as your dog”, because right from that very  moment, I had truly become their dog, because   :53.880 --> :00.240 seeing as I was as gullible, and weak looking, as  one could be, I was constantly taken advantage of,   :00.240 --> :04.680 and this seriously affected my academics,  and when I tried to voice out my problems,   :04.680 --> :09.400 I was ganged up on, right after school, and  they beat the hell out of me, and they also   :09.400 --> :15.440 threatened to do even more serious damage, If I  were to report to any higher up. And thus began   :15.440 --> :21.400 my hellish life in this school, or so I thought. Right when I was in my 2nd year, we had a new   :21.400 --> :27.240 student, a girl, Annette, was her name. She was  almost the same age as I was, and the moment she   :27.240 --> :33.240 came, she instantly became the buzz of the entire  school, as her parents were popular for being   :33.240 --> :38.400 famous for some movies, that were famous at the  time. I immediately knew to distance myself from   :38.400 --> :43.720 her, because seeing as she was the new buzz of the  school, she would most definitely catch the eye   :43.720 --> :49.040 of various seniors that were my higher ups. And  also, while she was the new girl in the school,   :49.040 --> :53.840 and as popular as she got with the teachers and  all the students, she was still also trying to   :53.840 --> :59.000 compete with me for the top student position  in our grade, and, I guess this is where you   :59.000 --> :05.040 could say I caught her eye, the one thing I  absolutely did not want to happen, happened.  :05.040 --> :11.560 Anyways following her arrival, she had decided to  meet the competition, just once, as in her words,   :11.560 --> :16.720 she wanted to “check me out”. We met one day  finally, during recess, when we were done with   :16.720 --> :21.560 one of our classes, as she approached me, and  asked to speak with me, as she had heard that,   :21.560 --> :26.360 I was the one at the top of the class in terms  of grades and all. I wanted to tell her off,   :26.360 --> :31.720 as I did not want to have anything to do with  her, seeing as I would only get in more trouble,   :31.720 --> :36.880 if I was caught just being around her, so I  immediately avoided her question, as I made   :36.880 --> :42.080 my way to the venue of my next class. I guess  I should not have done that, as she took it as,   :42.080 --> :47.320 even more motivation to come at me, as she did  not know then, what kind of trouble I would be in,   :47.320 --> :52.560 if I were even aught, talking to her and all. Our little game of tag, went on for quite a while,   :52.560 --> :56.920 as she was still as relentless, as the first day  she came. And then what I had been dreading for   :56.920 --> :02.680 the past weeks, had finally come to past. As she  was following me around as usual, still trying   :02.680 --> :07.720 to figure out, why I would not just talk to her,  and why I had been avoiding her these past weeks,   :07.720 --> :11.720 since she had arrived in the school. I just  decided, then and there, that I was going to   :11.720 --> :17.400 finally give her the benefit of a conversation,  as I was already feeling bad for her, and also I   :17.400 --> :22.760 was dreading what would happen, if my seniors were  to catch me, anywhere around her, as I was already   :22.760 --> :28.040 hearing from other students, that my seniors  were watching me and my movements. On this day,   :28.040 --> :32.760 when she stopped me and asked the same question  she had been asking me for the past few weeks, as   :32.760 --> :38.960 I turned to answer her, there they were, the very  guys I had been trying my possible best to avoid,   :38.960 --> :43.720 were right behind her, and as I tried to walk  away peacefully, they stopped me right there in   :43.720 --> :49.640 my tracks, as they began questioning me, as to why  I was seen around Annette, at the time, and why I   :49.640 --> :54.880 was always following her around. And right there,  before I could say anything, they had already   :54.880 --> :00.280 ganged up on me as usual, and they began to beat  the living daylight out of me, as they warned me   :00.280 --> :05.960 not to ever near Annette again, as far as I still  wanted to graduate from the school peacefully.  :05.960 --> :10.600 It was one of the most embarrassing moments of my  life, as I was beaten right there in front of the   :10.600 --> :15.960 girl, that, I would admit now, I was beginning to  have feeling for her back then. It had seemed like   :15.960 --> :20.080 this was one of those moments that one would  wish that, the ground would just open up and   :20.080 --> :25.880 swallow me right then and there, as I did not even  want to move from the spot I was. I later gathered   :25.880 --> :31.160 my strength, I went to my locker, and packed my  books, as I went home straight. I usually try to   :31.160 --> :36.040 hide my face from my parents, as I know that they  would blow the matter out of proportions, and it   :36.040 --> :40.560 would only make things, worse for me. So when I  went home that day, I went straight to my room,   :40.560 --> :45.120 as I had already been to the schools infirmary,  and I was treated a bit, and It would have been   :45.120 --> :50.520 obvious for my parents, if they had seen it that  day, so the next day, when my mom saw my face, she   :50.520 --> :55.480 asked what had happened, and I just told her, that  I had an accident, during our sports practice,   :55.480 --> :01.360 and it was nothing serious, she was skeptical  as to my excuse, but she went along. When I got   :01.360 --> :07.160 to school that day, I tried my possible best to  avoid Annette, as best as I could, so as to avoid   :07.160 --> :13.000 a repeat of the previous days incident and all,  and just as I was about to head silently to class,   :13.000 --> :19.000 she dragged me out of nowhere, as she took me to  a secluded lab, and she began to apologies, mainly   :19.000 --> :24.280 for what happened the day before, as she had no  idea, what was going to happen, seeing as she was   :24.280 --> :28.760 following me around and all. She also said she  wanted to help me get back at them for what they   :28.760 --> :34.480 did to me. I tried as much as possible to persuade  her from doing anything rash, so that things would   :34.480 --> :39.760 not be blow unnecessarily out of proportions,  but she was adamant about what she had set her   :39.760 --> :45.640 mind to at the time, and I knew there was nothing  I could do to stop her, so we decided to meet up   :45.640 --> :51.400 right after school, to discuss what we were going  to do, and how we were going to get back at them.  :51.400 --> :56.720 We met up right after school, as the path to both  out houses were along the same path. And then she   :56.720 --> :02.000 began to tell me what she had planned, some of  which were seeming to extreme for me, but somehow   :02.000 --> :06.240 she felt okay with it, I guess she was still  feeling guilty for what had happened, and she   :06.240 --> :12.440 just wanted to do this, as a means to clear up her  conscience. After much speculations, we finally   :12.440 --> :17.720 decided to come up with a plan, which would not  only ruin their lives currently, but could also   :17.720 --> :22.600 potentially land them in juvenile homes. Annette, after infiltrating the circle   :22.600 --> :27.560 of the seniors, after they had invited her  over to hang out, became an inside man,   :27.560 --> :32.480 as she was trying to find out some things that she  could use to report them to the authorities, and   :32.480 --> :39.120 then she found out that, nearly all of them were  dealing with and in illegal substances, of which   :39.120 --> :44.840 were strictly prohibited by law. So she took some  photos, and brought them, as part of the evidence,   :44.840 --> :50.520 but she was not done. As my job, was to find a way  to get some of the substance they were dealing in,   :50.520 --> :56.240 and place them in their lockers, as more reliable  and relevant evidence. And I was also in charge   :56.240 --> :01.360 of reporting this to the principal and of course  the Law enforcement agents. We did all of these   :01.360 --> :07.400 in under 24hours, and when we were finally done  with everything that the both of us needed to do,   :07.400 --> :13.560 we just sat back, and watch the Dominoes fall. The next day in school, all the seniors involved,   :13.560 --> :17.840 were called to the principal’s office,  alongside their parents, and the principal,   :17.840 --> :22.640 apparently, tried to cover things up, as  best that she could, but it was to no avail,   :22.640 --> :27.560 as the law enforcement agents were already  involved. And no sooner had they arrived,   :27.560 --> :33.040 did they take all parties involved into custody,  they also went along with the evidence already   :33.040 --> :38.280 gathered by the schools authority. And that was  it. The set of people that were always reigning   :38.280 --> :44.640 supreme in the school were gone, my tormentors  were gone, and it’s all thanks to Annette.  :44.640 --> :49.280 Since that very day, we have been close  ever since, right through our college days,   :49.280 --> :54.720 and now we are about celebrating our 5 years  wedding anniversary. She really has been like   :54.720 --> :58.920 a blessing to me, right from the  day I met her, till this very day.  :32.160 --> :36.800 We lived in a very quiet town. The name was  Oakridge and although it has been a couple of   :36.800 --> :40.382 years now, I still remember the story like  it happened yesterday. I guess that is the   :40.382 --> :43.920 beauty of it all. The offender might forget  but there is actually no way the offender   :43.920 --> :48.560 forgets. And that is even if they find a way  to forgive the offender in the first place.  :48.560 --> :53.080 To be clear, I am not the offended,  neither am I the offender. But I am   :53.080 --> :58.240 like a mother hen to her chicks. I protected  what was mine without giving it two thoughts.  :58.240 --> :02.240 So, let me tell you the story of how  I got revenge on my child’s bully.  :02.240 --> :07.880 In our quiet town, I woke up each morning with a  singular purpose in my heart - to protect my only   :07.880 --> :13.440 child, Brooke. With my warm smile and nurturing  spirit, I was the kind of parent who would move   :13.440 --> :19.040 heaven and earth to ensure my child's happiness.  I was a devoted teacher, tirelessly imparting   :19.040 --> :24.680 knowledge to my elementary school students, but my  most important role was being Brooke's mother. At   :24.680 --> :31.520 ten years old, my precious Brooke was a bright and  gentle soul, brimming with curiosity and boundless   :31.520 --> :37.000 potential. Those wide eyes of my child were  filled with the innocence of youth, but beneath   :37.000 --> :42.760 their sparkle lay the anguish of relentless  torment. As the sun cast its golden rays   :42.760 --> :48.960 over Oakridge Elementary, I watched as Brooke's  youthful spirit began to dim under the constant   :48.960 --> :55.440 cruelty of that one particular school bully. The bully, Jason, was the embodiment of trouble.   :55.440 --> :00.760 With a menacing glare and a sharp tongue, he had  transformed the halls of Oakridge Elementary into   :00.760 --> :06.080 a fearful domain. His relentless taunts and  physical aggression had shattered my child's   :06.080 --> :11.560 self-esteem. The child, once vibrant and full  of life, now bore the physical and emotional   :11.560 --> :17.520 scars of the torment inflicted by Jason. My  heart ached constantly as I watched my child   :17.520 --> :21.760 suffer in silence. I saw the way Brooke's  shoulders slumped when she approached the   :21.760 --> :26.720 door to the hallway knowing that he would be  slammed to the walls or accidentally trip on   :26.720 --> :32.400 someone’s shoes. The sparkle in those innocent  eyes dimmed, and it got to a time I decided   :32.400 --> :37.200 to do something about it. It was the love  for my child that fueled my determination,   :37.200 --> :43.000 driving me to confront the relentless antagonist  who had made my child's life a living nightmare.  :43.000 --> :47.520 As the days went by, I couldn't shake off  the growing concern and frustration that   :47.520 --> :53.000 settled in the pit of my stomach. It was as if  a dark cloud loomed over our home, casting a   :53.000 --> :58.720 shadow on my child's once joyful and carefree  demeanor. Brooke's laughter had grown scarce,   :58.720 --> :03.880 replaced by the quiet, painful tears that  only a parent could detect. Every evening,   :03.880 --> :08.000 I'd sit at the kitchen table with Brooke,  her trembling hands gripping a half-eaten   :08.000 --> :14.640 sandwich as she recounted the horrors she faced  at school. The torment was relentless – taunts,   :14.640 --> :20.600 jeers, and cruel pranks that left her emotionally  battered. I felt helpless, watching the lively   :20.600 --> :26.480 spark in her eyes slowly fade, the weight of  this unbearable burden pressing down on her tiny   :26.480 --> :31.280 shoulders. At the very least, I was thankful  that she did not hide it from me. At first,   :31.280 --> :36.280 she did not want to tell me what was going on but  at some point, she knew she had no choice but to.  :36.280 --> :40.080 Desperate to protect my child, I  took my concerns to the school,   :40.080 --> :45.840 hoping for swift action. The principal listened to  my pleas, offered sympathetic words, and assured   :45.840 --> :50.960 me that the situation would be addressed.  They promised investigations and counseling,   :50.960 --> :56.400 but as the days turned into weeks, Jason's actions  remained unchecked. The school's well-intentioned   :56.400 --> :02.440 efforts seemed inadequate in the face of a bully  who knew how to hide his tracks. Somehow, I still   :02.440 --> :07.440 think it was more than that. To me, it seemed  like the usual case of a spoilt brat with wealthy   :07.440 --> :12.640 parents who felt he could do as he pleased because  his parents donated heavily to the school and he   :12.640 --> :17.320 could never really be sanctioned for his actions. So, I didn't stop at the school,   :17.320 --> :22.600 for my child's well-being was at stake. I consulted with lawyers, thinking that   :22.600 --> :28.040 legal measures might bring the justice Brooke  so desperately needed. Yet, the complex legal   :28.040 --> :33.240 system couldn't offer a quick solution to end the  suffering. It was a heartbreaking realization that   :33.240 --> :38.680 the very channels designed to protect our  children failed us. The bully continued to   :38.680 --> :44.880 torment my precious Brooke, seemingly emboldened  by the lack of consequences. Plus, he was a minor,   :44.880 --> :49.760 after all. There is little that can be done in  court about minor activities like this. Well,   :49.760 --> :53.880 maybe there are things to be done.  But I was totally oblivious to them.  :53.880 --> :58.640 With each passing day, the helplessness  gnawed at my heart, and I watched as my   :58.640 --> :04.320 beloved Brooke's spirit continued to wither. The  torment inflicted by Jason had taken its toll,   :04.320 --> :10.840 and I could no longer stand idly by. Determination  welled up within me more than it did before. And I   :10.840 --> :16.120 decided to do something that would actually have  an impact. It was no longer enough to rely on the   :16.120 --> :22.080 impotent efforts of the school and legal system.  I became a detective in my own right. I decided to   :22.080 --> :28.480 check through the media about every detail about  Jason’s parents, his habits, vulnerabilities, and   :28.480 --> :34.120 any secrets that could be exploited. I knew pretty  much how cunny kids like Jason could be because I   :34.120 --> :38.760 moved with the bullies in high school. I knew how  far things could get if they weren’t stopped when   :38.760 --> :44.120 there was still a bit of fear in the students.  That was why I knew that I had to find a way to   :44.120 --> :49.360 keep my daughter out of the bullying league. In the quiet solitude of my makeshift command   :49.360 --> :55.120 center, I hatched a meticulous plan to make  Jason, the tormentor of my precious Brooke,   :55.120 --> :01.600 pay for every tear he had forced from her eyes.  Revenge was not my first choice, but it became a   :01.600 --> :07.680 necessity to ensure my child's safety and restore  her sense of self-worth. My plan was crafted with   :07.680 --> :13.560 careful consideration, designed to humiliate  Jason while avoiding any violent or illegal   :13.560 --> :19.920 actions that might compromise my own morality or  land me in legal trouble. I was determined that   :19.920 --> :25.480 this revenge would not transform me into a mirror  image of the bully who had tormented my child.  :25.480 --> :30.760 The first step involved targeting his online  presence. I created a fictitious persona,   :30.760 --> :35.440 infiltrating his social media world and  subtly leaking the secrets I had uncovered.   :35.440 --> :40.120 I was well aware that the revelation of his  own vulnerabilities and fears could incite   :40.120 --> :46.360 a level of panic and insecurity that matched the  emotional turmoil he had subjected Brooke to. But   :46.360 --> :51.840 the craziest thing is that the so-called secrets  were not real things that should matter. At least,   :51.840 --> :56.520 not in the real world. The best of what I found  was that he had a half-brother that people did   :56.520 --> :00.800 not really know about in our community. I  guess the family did not want the details of   :00.800 --> :07.240 the father’s infidelity to be the topic of town.  So, it was kind of a big deal, in that regard.  :07.240 --> :13.160 Next, I orchestrated situations in which Jason  would face public embarrassment and ridicule.   :13.160 --> :18.480 Making him have to tell obvious lies because a  little birdie was feeding him the information.   :18.480 --> :24.600 Well, the little birdie was me. I created a fake  account on Facebook where I told supposed truths.   :24.600 --> :29.600 He would say it to his clique and it would end  up being a lie. These psychological tactics   :29.600 --> :35.200 were aimed at making him truly understand the  pain he had caused. I ensured that his friends   :35.200 --> :41.160 and peers began to question his actions and  motives, leaving him isolated and shunned.  :41.160 --> :46.240 I knew that revenge would come at a cost, not  just to Jason, but to my own conscience. It   :46.240 --> :50.880 was a moral tightrope I was walking, but  my love for Brooke and the need to protect   :50.880 --> :56.440 her propelled me forward. This non-violent  revenge was my way of restoring the balance,   :56.440 --> :01.840 making Jason face the same fear and torment  that had haunted my child's days and nights.  :01.840 --> :07.720 In the aftermath of my carefully executed revenge  plan, I had expected to find satisfaction in the   :07.720 --> :12.160 fact that Jason was finally facing the  consequences of his actions. But as the   :12.160 --> :16.360 days turned into weeks, I couldn't escape  the gnawing doubt that my actions might   :16.360 --> :22.200 have unintended consequences that extended far  beyond the tormentor himself. My nights were   :22.200 --> :27.760 haunted by the thought of collateral damage - the  innocents who might be caught in the crossfire of   :27.760 --> :33.920 my revenge. I had inadvertently involved other  students, friends of Jason's, who were neither   :33.920 --> :39.720 responsible for his actions nor deserving of the  humiliation I had orchestrated. I had to make it   :39.720 --> :44.720 seem like it was not a witch hunt specifically  meant for Jason. I had to make him feel like there   :44.720 --> :50.560 was someone else that knew the secrets he knew. However, the consequences extended to Brooke,   :50.560 --> :55.600 my beloved child. She had been my motivation from  the beginning, and I had hoped that my actions   :55.600 --> :01.360 would protect her from further harm. But instead,  my vengeful plot seemed to have thrust her into a   :01.360 --> :06.600 spotlight of attention she never sought. She  became the subject of whispers, rumors, and   :06.600 --> :11.920 judgments that were as merciless as the bullying  itself. I guess the bitter part about bullies is   :11.920 --> :16.040 that they tend to pass out their aggression of  something unrelated to the other person they   :16.040 --> :22.600 term inferior to them. In this case, since I  made Jason the pillar for scandalous rumors,   :22.600 --> :28.320 he got the idea to do the same to those he  considered inferior to him. It was not just   :28.320 --> :34.400 to Brooke but it was hers that had me instantly  regretting my involvement in the bullying affair.  :34.400 --> :39.680 She came from school that day crying that they  began to spread a rumor about her that she stole   :39.680 --> :46.160 from the cafeteria because we had no money. First,  that was awful to say about a kid. And secondly,   :46.160 --> :51.200 we were living just fine. I worked two jobs  that paid handsomely and we had enough to   :51.200 --> :55.960 spare for savings. So, I could be sure  that the rumors were absolutely false.  :55.960 --> :01.280 The realization of the harm I had caused to  innocent bystanders and the moral toll my actions   :01.280 --> :07.400 were taking on my own conscience weighed heavily  upon me. I had become the very thing I despised -   :07.400 --> :13.880 a force of cruelty, vengeance, and manipulation. I  had lost sight of my own values and inadvertently   :13.880 --> :19.400 exposed Brooke to the darkness that had driven  me to such extreme measures. The line between   :19.400 --> :24.480 right and wrong had blurred, and I knew that I  needed to make amends before it was too late.  :24.480 --> :28.200 So, this time, I went to the school  management and asked for an in-depth   :28.200 --> :33.200 investigation into why a rumor was passed  around that my daughter was responsible for   :33.200 --> :38.960 the missing supplies in the cafeteria. I was not  really banking on anything noteworthy from them   :38.960 --> :43.640 so I told my daughter to protect herself  the next time she was bullied or tripped.  :43.640 --> :46.880 What did she do? In a surprising turn of events,   :46.880 --> :51.920 my daughter, Brooke, decided to take matters  into her own hands and protect herself from   :51.920 --> :57.720 further bullying. One day, as she was faced with  yet another incident orchestrated by Jason and   :57.720 --> :04.800 his gang, she executed a daring move. With courage  and determination, she delivered a well-aimed blow   :04.800 --> :09.840 that broke the nose of one of the bullies who  had tripped her, leaving him in shock and pain.  :09.840 --> :14.080 The school was immediately alerted to the  incident, and I was called in for a meeting   :14.080 --> :19.560 with the principal and other concerned parties.  When I arrived, my daughter sat beside me,   :19.560 --> :24.600 her face a mix of defiance and triumph. I  listened to the school staff, and other parents,   :24.600 --> :29.440 and their concerns, but I did not respond. Brooke, in her own way, had shown that she   :29.440 --> :34.080 would not tolerate being a victim any  longer. The suspension that followed was   :34.080 --> :38.120 a small price to pay for the satisfaction  of making it clear that she wouldn't be   :38.120 --> :43.000 bullied any further. Her actions resonated  throughout the school, sending a powerful   :43.000 --> :47.600 message that she wouldn't be an easy target. Though her suspension may not have been the   :47.600 --> :52.520 ideal outcome, it was the last time she  came home with a story of being bullied.  :52.520 --> :56.320 I bullied her bully, and she learned  to dish out the same to them.
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my girlfriend says I need to get rid of my dead wife's stuff or she's leaving I first got married at the age of 18 to my girlfriend I'd had since age 15 we enjoyed 6 years of marriage together before she died in a motorcycle accident leaving me broken and severely depressed for years a bit over one year ago four years after my wife's passing I met my current girlfriend at a work event and we really hid it off I decided that it was time for me to start looking for a serious partner again and that my wife would have wanted me to be happy my current girlfriend and I became more serious over time and we moved in together two weeks ago I've talked with her extensively about my deceased wife and the mental health issues it brought to me and she has been nothing but supportive and loving the problems began after we moved in together I have a small chest that I used to keep under my bed that has a few things that belong to my deceased wife along with some photos of the two of us during the moving process my girlfriend noticed the chest and asked about it so I explained what it was and showed her the contents I didn't really expect it to be a big deal but since I showed her things have never been worse for us she sat me down that night and explained that because I still had the chest and wanted to keep it it was indication to her that I hadn't moved on from my deceased wife and that she doesn't think she can continue the relationship unless I get rid of it I was pretty shocked at this and told her that I needed some time to think about it well it's been 2 weeks now and I still don't know what to do my current girlfriend and I have had no major problems up until this point and she's asking me daily when I plan to get rid of it and says she can't live in the same space as the chest I really don't want to get rid of it but I want to continue my relationship with her as well what can I say to get her to understand or am I being crazy by keeping those things for years update wow I did not expect that amount of feedback at all on the post sorry I haven't responded to many comments it was a bit overwhelming to wake up to thousands of them but I wanted to provide some more information and an update about how everything went down some people were wondering how often I look at the chest and talk about my late wife I spend prolonged time with the chest and its contents usually twice a year on our anniversary date and her death date so I'm not constantly opening it and having it out and around and stuff I feel as though I find the most Comfort just knowing that's its nearby strangely enough which is why I wanted to keep it in the house most of the conversations about my previous marriage have been prompted by my girlfriend not me I can talk about it pretty openly when asked about my late wife but I seldom bring her up on my own in conversation she used to be all I ever talked about and it was annoying and uncomfortable to people in my life looking back on a lot of our conversations my girlfriend would frequently ask questions trying to gauge if I was still mourning or if I was happy again now with the chest incident that makes sense to me that it has been an unvoiced insecurity for a while at the time I suppose I just thought she was asking if I was depressed still but I see now she was trying to ask if I was over my late wife when my girlfriend asked me to get rid of the chest she did in fact mean dispose of it I didn't go into great detail about the conversation we had when she sat me down but I proposed keeping it more tucked away not in our bedroom or at another person's home and she continued to say I was still hanging on and not ready for a relationship in her eyes and keeping it somewhere else didn't change that I am definitely not getting rid of the chest and by that I mean disposing of it and it's been locked in my car the past couple days while I've been dealing with this I got some really good advice from you guys and tried to have an open honest conversation with her today asking her why the chest was so significant as to give me an ultimatum and why she felt like I had to get rid of it to continue growing our relationship she said the entire relationship we've had she's always felt like she had to match up to the standards of my late wife or be even better so that I would stay with her and that me still having the chest was the confirmation that she will always be lesser than if I got rid of the chest it would be confirmation that I was ready to give my whole heart to her this broke my heart honestly and I couldn't believe she never told me she was feeling this way and that I didn't see it it also made me feel confused because I've been trying to show her the best I can that I can give her my heart in other ways why do I need to dump these precious memories to do that I told her that the relationship with my late wife and my relationship with her are entirely independent of one another and that I was focused on building trust and love with her not trying to replace my late wife or compare her by any means I told her that I couldn't dispose of the chest because it meant a lot to me sentimentally but that I wasn't keeping it to hang on or cling to my late wife I just felt as though it was an important part of my history and I wanted to honor her memory some of the trinkets in the chest were from when we were 16 years old going to high school dances and learning how to drive together I couldn't simply trash those I reassured her that I loved her for exactly who she was not the position she held in my life or how similar she was to my late wife I told her that I could see us building a life together and that I was focused on our future not my past I told her that there is absolutely no competition and that while I was hurt by the ultimatum I was ready to move past this and move the chest to store stage somewhere else it wasn't enough for her I don't know what else I needed to say or do to communicate my love and dedication but she was dead set on me getting rid of the chest or her leaving I told her a final time that there was not an ounce of a chance I was getting rid of it radio silence then she gets a bag of her stuff hops in her car and drives off ignoring me when I asked what was going on after calling her multiple times for a few hours I learned she's staying with a friend who she called in the car I guess so so she originally just drove off not knowing where she was going and making arrangements to move out next week I'm still in shock but I mostly feel confused and Hollow maybe I truly wasn't ready for a relationship maybe she is just crazy maybe a bit of both that's the full update sort of went how a lot of the comments predicted but I feel like absolute [ __ ] going to order takeout and play video games all weekend to try and reset cheers to being alone I guess my sister got an abortion and I can't see her the same anymore hey everyone I'm using my throwaway account for this because my main has a lot of personal information so around two weeks ago my sister got an abortion and I can't see her the same anymore a while before that her and I were at the dinner table with our parents and she started crying she'd been kind of depressed the last few weeks but hadn't talked about it until now she said that a while back she had been at a house party with some of her friends and was sexually assaulted by a group of boys she didn't go into too much detail but she said that a while after that she started to feel sick so she took a pregnancy test and it came back positive she started sobbing and saying that she wanted to get an abortion saying that she doesn't want to give birth and that she's been having nightmares about it our parents suggested taking her to a therapist or pursuing legal action but they both refused to let her kill a child which I agree with my parents kept trying to discuss things what to do next but my sister wouldn't listen she just kept sobbing for the next few days my sister really isolated herself every conversation she had with our parents eventually devolved into them trying to convince her to see a therapist while she begged literally on her knees sometimes for them to let her get an abortion I tried talking to her and explaining that maybe the child is a blessing and that something good could come from all this that just made her even more upset she told me that she would rather kill herself than give birth to a rapist child she said that it's unfair that she's only 16 and that she doesn't understand why this is happening to her a few days later she came to my parents and told them that she got an abortion Apparently one of her friends had driven her to a place where she could kill the child our parents were Furious and yelled at her for what she did she begged them to forgive her and said that it was her only choice which is ridiculous our parents literally tried to give her other options but she still chose to kill a child our parents barely speak to her anymore and I can tell it's making her severely depressed she's always been skinny but now she barely eats anything only leaves her room for school and her grades are steadily dropping she says she just wants her mom and dad back wants them to understand why did it I've tried my best to comfort her but every time I look at her I just think about how she murdered a child what do I do I want my sister back but I just can't see her the same way anymore I know she's been through a lot but is that really an excuse isn't getting an abortion a sin no matter what update hello everyone I'm the one that made the post a few hours ago about how my sister got an abortion after being sexually assaulted by a group of boys at a house party if you haven't read it I would suggest you go do so otherwise this post won't make sense sense I received a lot of comments and messages some of them were thoughtful kind and helpful most of them were from the subreddit but a lot of the responses I got on our SL prolife told me that my sister is a liar [ __ ] child murderer that this is all her fault and that my parents and I would be justified in never speaking to her again but when I look at my sister I don't see any of these things I see a scared 16-year-old girl I see the girl who helped me get over my stutter I see the girl who protected me from being bullied for so many many years I see the girl who always convinced me that I was good enough I see the girl who needs my help right now I've spent a lot of the day talking with people on Reddit chats and in comments about how to help her and despite all the horrible things I've heard said about my sister today there were a some nice things as well I spent a good chunk of the evening talking with her and we both ended up crying about what happened she gave me more details about what happened to her at the house party details I won't share here but what I will say is I wouldn't wish what she went through on anyone not even my worst enemy I tried talking to our parents some more but they wouldn't listen to me in their mind what my sister did overshadows what happened to her the more I think about it the more I realized they failed her when she first told them about what happened they never comforted her they just coldly gave her the option between therapy or legal action and I think that was wrong of them I feel like I failed my duty as a brother by being so quick to label her a monster like our parents have and I'm trying to do everything in my power to make that up to her as for how I feel about her abortion I don't know I still don't think it was right but I understand why she did it I understand why she felt she didn't have any other options thank you to everyone on this subreddit who was so kind and helpful God bless all of you
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:00.000 --> :00.920 Posted by u/Ok_Response_3123  :00.920 --> :02.240 5 hours ago :06.000 --> :09.073 Parents think they get a say so over MY children S  :09.073 --> :09.162 Update: thank you everyone for the words of  advice and support. I stood my ground and my   :09.162 --> :09.242 kids will be spending a week with their  dad. I really needed to vent and having   :09.242 --> :09.320 all of this support has made me feel a  lot better. Thank you so much everyone! :09.320 --> :13.520 My ex and I separated beginning of the year,  and I moved into my mom’s house with my 2   :13.520 --> :18.280 kids. They’re both under 3. My parents do  not like my ex as he hasn’t helped much   :18.280 --> :22.920 financially. He puts in effort on seeing the  kids and talking to them. My oldest got sick   :22.920 --> :26.960 and can’t go to daycare for a week, so I  contacted him and asked if he could watch   :26.960 --> :31.920 the kids for a week. I can’t miss work or  I’ll get fired. He said he would no problem. :31.920 --> :34.520 The problem is when I told  my mom what was going on,   :34.520 --> :39.640 she thinks she gets a say so on my kids having  a relationship with their dad. My ex and I had   :39.640 --> :45.280 a rocky end and that is between us and not our  kids. I believe as long as he puts in effort,   :45.280 --> :49.080 it’s not my place to say he can’t  have a relationship with his kids. :49.080 --> :53.120 My parents have also offered to pay for  my divorce, but only on the terms that I   :53.120 --> :57.240 get his parental rights terminated. My  parents don’t like the guy that much,   :57.240 --> :59.680 so I of course have not took that offer. :59.680 --> :04.920 The big gripe is my mom thinking she is my kids  parent, and treating me like a child and like   :04.920 --> :09.720 I get no say over my children. So now it is  about to be a whole argument with my mother   :09.720 --> :15.200 over this and I’m standing my ground. It is  just incredibly frustrating to deal with this. :21.840 --> :22.640 Posted by  :22.640 --> :25.080 u/Sh0rtGam3r 6 hours ago :52.600 --> :55.060 Entitled parents think I should change my hair cut  :55.060 --> :56.300 S So I got my hair   :56.300 --> :02.320 cut last week. My mom wanted me to go get it done.  I’m under 18 so I’m legally not an adult but I’m   :02.320 --> :07.160 old enough to be able to make decisions about my  haircut. I go to the hairdressers with my mom and   :07.160 --> :12.200 she get annoyed at me when I say the haircut I  wanted because she didn’t want it that way. (She   :12.200 --> :17.440 usually likes my hair really short and I look like  Charlie Brown from snoopie when it’s done “her   :17.440 --> :22.960 way”) I wanted to cut it a bit short but keep my  fringe and try to get a normal style going on my   :22.960 --> :28.680 head. so she keeps talking crap about me the whole  time and when I get home. Her and my dad both   :28.680 --> :34.720 get mad at me and demand to get it re-done. I say  I’m not getting it bald more or less. They let me   :34.720 --> :39.920 keep it this way but talk crap about my hair and  how I’m a ridiculous looking to everyone we see. :46.640 --> :47.320 Posted by  :47.320 --> :57.040 u/Alias72018 7 hours ago :02.320 --> :04.940 My dad is beginning to act  entitled to things I make  :04.940 --> :08.520 M For context my dad (64M) used to   :08.520 --> :13.600 volunteer to coach track at the same middle school  where my mom teaches. Because of this position   :13.600 --> :18.560 he ended up meeting a lot of students from my  grade and below for years. Sometimes he’ll ask   :18.560 --> :25.160 me “do you remember so and so?” And sometimes the  answer is yes and sometimes the answer is no. I’ve   :25.160 --> :30.480 gotten back into crocheting recently and around  mid September Dad asked “do you remember John   :30.480 --> :35.040 Smith (not real name)? He was a year below you  in high school.” I tell him no but to go on with   :35.040 --> :39.520 what he’s saying. He tells me that John Smith and  his wife are having a baby and he thinks it would   :39.520 --> :45.400 be nice for me to make a baby blanket for them. At  first I happily agreed because I love babies and I   :45.400 --> :50.840 already had the perfect yarn for it at home. Later  on in October my dad asked how it was going and   :50.840 --> :57.760 only THEN tells me the baby is due in November.  I started panicking a little so when I got home   :57.760 --> :02.720 I was ranting to my husband about this sudden  deadline because I had been working on scarves   :02.720 --> :08.200 for people for. Christmas and suddenly had a new  thing due sooner and my husband asks “why are you   :08.200 --> :13.120 doing this for him? Do you even know the guy?”  I admitted that I didn’t and my husband said I   :13.120 --> :19.560 didn’t owe my dad or this John Smith guy anything  and that if my dad wants to give the guy a blanket   :19.560 --> :25.240 so back he can go buy one. I even pulled out my  yearbooks from junior and senior years of high   :25.240 --> :30.720 school and there was no John Smith in any of the  grades for either year. I decided to not make the   :30.720 --> :36.520 blanket. Cue this past Sunday, when my Dad said  “I need that blanket” (didn’t ask, just said he   :36.520 --> :41.880 needed it) while we were out for lunch, I calmly  said that I was working on Christmas scarves for   :41.880 --> :48.000 people. Dad replied “the baby is due in November,  Christmas is in December”, as if I didn’t know   :48.000 --> :54.000 this. I calmly said “Dad, I don’t even know the  guy” and Dad got all frustrated and said “never   :54.000 --> :59.760 mind, just forget about it” with an annoyed tone.  We continued lunch and at one point I mention   :59.760 --> :05.040 hoping to purchase a sewing machine someday so  I can make t-shirt quilts; one for shirts I have   :05.040 --> :10.080 from events in my life (shirts that basically  can’t be replaced and are special to me) and   :10.080 --> :15.200 one for my state t-shirt collection (hoping to  visit and collect a shirt from every state). My   :15.200 --> :20.120 mom mentions I can order some shirts online for  states that I’ve been to but didn’t get a shirt   :20.120 --> :24.840 and Dad said if he’d known he would’ve grabbed me  one while he and my sister were in Minnesota last   :24.840 --> :30.360 month. I thanked him but explained I wanted to  visit the states myself. He grumbled something   :30.360 --> :35.560 and then said “you know what would be cool? A  quilt made of made of all my t-shirts from [insert   :35.560 --> :41.800 favorite college football team]” and smiles at  me. At first i liked the idea and said, “if you   :41.800 --> :46.680 can get them to me I’ll try” but the more I think  about it the more I don’t like that his attitude   :46.680 --> :53.200 tends to be telling me to make things rather  than asking if I can or even want to make them. :13.680 --> :22.880 Posted by  :22.880 --> :24.120 u/Yami_The_Outcast 1 day ago :28.600 --> :33.280 My younger sister is pregnant, and my mom is  trying to get her to keep the child. We are not   :33.280 --> :35.640 ready to add an infant to this household. L  :35.640 --> :40.040 So, I don't know if this is the right place for  this, but this is literally driving me nuts and   :40.040 --> :44.520 maybe writing it out will help but honestly,  I'm just hoping someone can help me talk some   :44.520 --> :49.760 sense into my mother who listens to people reading  reddit and I honestly don't care if she knows it's   :49.760 --> :55.560 me sharing this. She's being entitled by thinking  she has a say in what my younger sister does.  :55.560 --> :02.480 Me (f23), just found out my younger sister (f16)  is pregnant by her boyfriend who I don't even   :02.480 --> :07.600 know how old he is, I just know I've barely  seen him in our house and for good reason.  :07.600 --> :12.440 I am the oldest of six kids, with this sister,  let's call her MS (Middle sister) because she's   :12.440 --> :16.200 the eldest out of the second group of  kids that came after me and the other   :16.200 --> :20.560 two who are all in our twenties at this point. It was late, getting into the wee hours of the   :20.560 --> :25.440 morning and I couldn't sleep, so I decided I  might as well mess around on Fortnite to grind   :25.440 --> :31.320 and hopefully get a little sleepy, when my mom  (f mid-forties I think?) comes in and just kinda   :31.320 --> :37.000 starts standing behind me. When I ask her what she  wants, she just asks me if I can pause the game.   :37.000 --> :43.320 Not in a "serious we need to talk" tone, but more  in a "this is something you should know" kind of   :43.320 --> :49.280 way. I expected her to show me some facebook post  or something on messenger from someone she doesn't   :49.280 --> :54.240 care for, as at this point I'm quite used to  being the one she goes to in order to rant about   :54.240 --> :58.840 these sorts of things (it's honestly emotionally  draining but I don't know how to tell her I'm not   :58.840 --> :04.360 interested in hearing her complain all the time). She pulls out a pregnancy test and shows me,   :04.360 --> :08.520 when I get confused and don't know how  to react she proceeds to tell me that   :08.520 --> :14.040 it's not the sister who was born two years  after me (who's 21 and currently engaged,   :14.040 --> :18.240 living at home with her fiancé until they  can get enough together to move elsewhere),   :18.240 --> :23.560 and that it's one of the middle siblings MS. She tells me that MS had said she didn't want   :23.560 --> :28.120 to keep the child, but at this point it  was way too late to get an abortion or   :28.120 --> :32.880 anything else, but according to my mom  "we don't do that in this household".  :32.880 --> :39.120 My sister is not ready to be a parent in any  way. She's failing homeschool, she lays around   :39.120 --> :45.280 and watches tv all day long and has basically  made the living room into her bedroom (never   :45.280 --> :50.160 mind that she *has* a perfectly good room  upstairs), not to mention she still ends up   :50.160 --> :57.040 wetting herself in her sleep on a regular basis. The house is.. not good I'm going to be honest.   :57.040 --> :02.280 With this many people, dishes pile up, and nobody  but my mother and me seem to want to do them,   :02.280 --> :06.800 and on top of that there's just so much clutter  all around the house. We don't have space for   :06.800 --> :11.880 a baby! We don't have the money for a baby!  I'm on food stamps at this moment, so is the   :11.880 --> :17.560 engaged sister, so is my mother! If we were to  bring a child into this household I do not see   :17.560 --> :23.760 that kid ending up well off or in any way okay. I tried to talk with MS just a little bit ago,   :23.760 --> :28.840 and explain to her that nobody could make her keep  that kid, that she wasn't ready, that this home   :28.840 --> :34.040 wasn't ready for a kid, but she just kinda clammed  up and told me that our mom had been talking with   :34.040 --> :39.440 her and planning for the future, trying to get her  to think of names for this kid and everything. I   :39.440 --> :44.040 don't know what's going on through her head, but  I know full well that our mother is manipulating   :44.040 --> :49.280 her, that all our mother wants is another baby  around the house and isn't thinking of the   :49.280 --> :55.280 long-term. She's not a young mother anymore,  and MS is in no way ready to be a parent.  :55.280 --> :59.440 I know I have to have this talk with my mother,  but I'm afraid of what she's going to say or   :59.440 --> :04.520 think, as she often comes to me with adult  situations and then doesn't seem to actually   :04.520 --> :09.160 listen when I have adult opinions about it. What can I do to talk with her about this?   :09.160 --> :14.240 To convince my younger sister that she doesn't  have to do this unless she's 100% certain she   :14.240 --> :20.351 does? I'm at a loss for words and I can feel  myself spiraling the more I think about this. :20.351 --> :20.360 Posted by  :20.360 --> :38.280 u/Inner-Side4117 10 hours ago :07.080 --> :09.200 Parents have a real estate obsession M  :09.200 --> :11.960 I know this may sound tone-deaf but here goes. :11.960 --> :16.880 My parents have this unhealthy obsession for  real estate outside of their price range.   :16.880 --> :22.560 This has really gotten on my nerves recently as  houses is all they talk about. I am dead serious   :22.560 --> :27.200 when I say their favorite past-time pastime  activity is going to real estate listings,   :27.200 --> :31.960 I have pretty much seen the inside of every  single gated residential that's been built in   :31.960 --> :37.880 our city for the last 10 years bc that was how we  spent a lot of our weekends. They always request   :37.880 --> :43.200 to see the largest units with 5/6 bedrooms,  because a family of 4 now that I'm not home   :43.200 --> :47.640 most of the time just needs that much space.  They have sold smaller houses here and there,   :47.640 --> :53.000 but all of that has pretty much gone towards  financing bigger real estate purchases. Gross   :53.000 --> :58.480 rental yield is terrible so these houses  pretty much collect dust all year round.  :58.480 --> :03.160 Whenever I advise against making a  purchase, they say sth along the lines of,   :03.160 --> :07.960 ppl buy houses thats just what they do. Recently while I was out of the country they   :07.960 --> :14.160 had me sign over a first-property preferential  discount that I was entitled to despite me saying   :14.160 --> :19.000 specifically that I prefer to leave it for the  time being. When I raised my suspicions they   :19.000 --> :24.480 tried convincing me this was a huge steal,  that the house came with a 20 sq feet garden   :24.480 --> :30.040 and elevator and everything. For what they were  charged, it should have come with a bat cave. I   :30.040 --> :34.680 suggested maybe selling a house to help pay  for the new one only to be told that experts   :34.680 --> :40.240 do not think this is a good time to sell. It  is just never a good time to sell I guess.  :40.240 --> :44.920 I do not think they are the way they are as a  result of being under-educated or susceptible   :44.920 --> :50.320 to guerilla marketing as they are senior  university dean/management. To the best   :50.320 --> :55.560 of my understanding my parents feel they missed  out on the real estate booms several decades ago,   :55.560 --> :02.040 what they are doing now I can only categorize as  overcompensating/preparation in the event a sequel   :02.040 --> :07.120 occurs. We are on good terms most of the time  and I don't want to come across as ungrateful   :07.120 --> :12.160 for what they've done for me. When I begin to get  critical of them their strategy thus far has been   :12.160 --> :17.680 to guilt me by bringing up their friends who have  been successful at converting their children into   :17.680 --> :23.600 submissive house-hoarders. If it comes to it, I  trust that they will respect my decisions but I   :23.600 --> :28.440 am hoping this does not affect relationships. This is kind of a rant but would appreciate   :28.440 --> :34.960 any suggestions/advice. I acknowledge that to  some this sounds like whining or even flexing,   :34.960 --> :41.160 bc despite having partial ownership it doesn't  benefit me one bit, potentially(while not legally)   :41.160 --> :46.800 entangles me into loan/mortgage situations I would  rather play no part in. Parents literally pull out   :46.800 --> :52.800 the seniority card all the time and refuse to look  at market research/evidence that says otherwise. :52.800 --> :54.000 Posted by  :54.000 --> :10.400 u/Nozomi_KaizokuYT 1 day ago :35.960 --> :40.720 I probably developed a chronic pain condition  and my mom doesn't believe me. What do I do?  :40.720 --> :42.400 L So, for context, I have   :42.400 --> :46.840 been dealing with headaches for the past 3 months  as of now, and it's been interfering with my life. :46.840 --> :50.480 The headaches started sometime after the  first two weeks of school (School started   :50.480 --> :55.280 on the 14th of august, and it's november the  7th as i'm typing this out), and for the first   :55.280 --> :00.560 few days the headaches occured, i thought  I was just faking, or maybe i was stressed. :00.560 --> :04.840 It wasn't until it still kept happening after  about a week that I started to feel something   :04.840 --> :10.280 wasn't right. So I asked my mom about it, and  she told me it was normal. So I left it at that. :10.280 --> :13.760 Fast foward to about a month, and  I was in so much pain to the point   :13.760 --> :16.920 that even my dad was starting to  notice, and asked my mom to take   :16.920 --> :21.880 me to the doctor. She sounded hesitant  to at first, but eventually I went in. :21.880 --> :24.280 The doctor was doing her normal evaluation,   :24.280 --> :27.400 and then asked me to describe the  symptoms of my headaches to her. :27.400 --> :29.640 Before i could actually get a whole lot across,   :29.640 --> :33.560 my mom talked over me and told the doctor  that I wasn't drinking water and wasn't   :33.560 --> :39.000 eating breakfast in the mornings anymore. She  basically minimized my symptoms then and there. :39.000 --> :44.200 Now, it's important to keep in mind here that  I have sensory issues due to being autistic,   :44.200 --> :50.200 and drinking water (as much as it sounds dumb  to say it) causes a negative sensory reaction.   :50.200 --> :55.040 Same with protein bars and Gatorade. It's also  important to note that because of the pain from my   :55.040 --> :00.520 headaches, I had to stop eating in the mornings  because my eyes and head are in so much pain. :00.520 --> :04.720 I ended up leaving the doctor's office  with a simple diagnosis of headaches,   :04.720 --> :09.920 and during that time, i felt completely  invalidated, mainly because my mom minimized   :09.920 --> :14.400 how bad the issue actually was, and  now the doctor won't believe me. :14.400 --> :18.520 The headaches started to get worse even  while I was taking the doctor's orders,   :18.520 --> :21.520 and eventually i stopped seeing  the point in doing it anymore and   :21.520 --> :26.640 eventually stopped. This ended up causing my  mom to have another excuse to invalidate me. :26.640 --> :31.280 After about two more months of trips to  the nurses office, having to stay home,   :31.280 --> :35.640 and the occasional crying from the severe  pain and the mental health problems that   :35.640 --> :40.760 arose from these headaches, I couldn't  handle it anymore, which leads to today. :40.760 --> :46.880 So after I relapsed my self harm due to my only  coping mechanism throughout these entire three   :46.880 --> :52.160 months (that being my phone) being taken, i  decided to look up if my headaches could be   :52.160 --> :57.920 linked to anything, and as it turns out, there  is a rare chronic headache condition that exists   :57.920 --> :03.160 called New Daily Persistent Headaches (NDPH),  and the description matches exactly to what I   :03.160 --> :08.080 was feeling. So I sent a teams chat to the  nurse, and while she can't do a diagnosis   :08.080 --> :12.720 without authorization, she believes me  (at least I'm pretty sure she does). :12.720 --> :17.760 She asked me to print out a copy of the article  i had saw and show it to my mom. So I did,   :17.760 --> :22.280 alongside a list of the symptoms I exhibited over  the past three months for her to compare the list   :22.280 --> :26.920 to the article. And I hoped at that point  she'd actually take a look and believe me. :26.920 --> :28.400 Well golly was I wrong. :28.960 --> :33.600 The second I told her about the condition, she  scoffed at me and told me that I didn't have   :33.600 --> :40.200 NDPH (even though it's pretty obvious + we cant  actually be sure until I see a doctor about it),   :40.200 --> :43.800 that the doctor's aren't going to believe me  because I haven't been doing what the doctors   :43.800 --> :49.080 told me to do, and that I shouldn't be using  WebMD for my research (even though I used an   :49.080 --> :53.920 article from the Cleveland Clinic). She also  kept asking me provocative questions about   :53.920 --> :58.560 the last time I drank water-- even though  I explained numerous times that I stopped   :58.560 --> :03.560 because it wasn't working whatsoever, and just  leaving me in more pain-- and she overall just   :03.560 --> :08.160 proved how little she was actually willing  to listen to me when it came down to this. :08.160 --> :12.760 My eyes are currently sore from crying as  i'm typing this, and I just want to say,   :12.760 --> :16.920 i'm ticked as freak. She pretty much  knew that I wasn't doing okay and that   :16.920 --> :21.720 something was clearly wrong, but she cares  more about some stupid butt speech that is   :21.720 --> :26.800 never getting done because of my headaches,  more than the physical health of her child. :26.800 --> :31.400 By this point, I'm considering suicide  over this because it's gotten so bad to   :31.400 --> :35.840 the point i can't leave the house on the  weekends, I have basically no friends,   :35.840 --> :40.120 I don't have a dream job because every  opportunity was shattered by my headaches,   :40.120 --> :44.600 and my mental health is slowly but drastically  getting worse, and I'm pretty sure my mom   :44.600 --> :50.160 won't care if i did it (Judging from the numerous  times she's invalidated my depression, headaches,   :50.160 --> :57.160 burnout... basically everything bad happening  to me), and all because in her eyes I'm "Lazy". :57.160 --> :00.880 No, Cheryl, Just because you have  headaches yourself does not mean   :00.880 --> :04.840 you get to tell someone how to feel about  their headaches or whether or not they even   :04.840 --> :10.240 have a condition that causes headaches,  let alone your kids, the tiny morsels YOU   :10.240 --> :14.280 have to take care of until they are 18.  If your child suspects they might have a   :14.280 --> :20.720 chronic health condition and have provided  you with research, LISTEN TO THEM. period. :20.720 --> :21.760 Posted by  :21.760 --> :41.240 u/MorsInvictaEst 2 days ago :54.680 --> :58.080 Unbelievable insensitivity  ruins family get-together  :58.080 --> :59.040 M Disclaimer:   :59.040 --> :02.640 I didn't witness the main event since  I only arrived later that evening,   :02.640 --> :06.360 but I witnessed the fallout and my  sister filled me in on the rest. :06.360 --> :09.920 The entitled parents in question  are my sister's sister-in-law,   :09.920 --> :14.880 a high school teacher for music and maths  as well as a catholic theologian, and her   :14.880 --> :20.240 husband. The husband is a university professor  from an upper class family who strongly believes   :20.240 --> :25.920 that his supreme intellect and background elevate  him above the plebeians, and he makes no attempts   :25.920 --> :31.680 of hiding this. As parents of an upcoming genius  they expect preferential treatment even from their   :31.680 --> :36.800 family members while strictly reglementing  their child's contact with lesser people,   :36.800 --> :41.920 such as his cousins. The poor kid is never  left alone, every movement is watched,   :41.920 --> :46.080 play-time is often interrupted because he  shouldn't spend too much time with other   :46.080 --> :51.720 children and play with intellect-developing  toys by himself instead. You get the type. :51.720 --> :56.600 Now, this is what happened: We had a little  get-together at my sister's place over a holiday,   :56.600 --> :01.360 in part to support her brother-in-law and his  girlfriend, who had lost their child about six   :01.360 --> :05.920 weeks earlier and were just starting to  reengage with society after a period of   :05.920 --> :11.360 intense grief. Since it was the first evening  and everyone was just arriving my sister and   :11.360 --> :15.920 her husband had decided to just order some pizza  for everyone. Because they live outside of the   :15.920 --> :21.520 city limits the pizza place wouldn't deliver and  someone had to drive there and pick up the goods. :21.520 --> :26.880 My sister was still busy preparing snacks, her  husband was handling the kids, his parents had   :26.880 --> :32.640 just arrived after a long drive and needed some  rest, the professor was above such simple tasks   :32.640 --> :37.440 and the sister-in-law had her own child to care  for. But she had an idea about who could pick   :37.440 --> :42.120 up the pizza: She turned towards her brother  and his girlfirend, and said to them: "Hey,   :42.120 --> :46.520 since you are the only ones who don't have a  child, why don't you go and pick up the pizza."   :46.520 --> :52.200 Except for the children the room went silent for  a moment, then the girlfriend broke down sobbing   :52.200 --> :57.480 and the brother's face turned white before he  also started to cry and the two left the room. :57.480 --> :03.240 When I arrived about an hour later the mood in the  room was icy. My sister's brother-in-law and his   :03.240 --> :08.640 girlfriend had gone to their guest room and not  reappeared. My sister, her husband and his parents   :08.640 --> :14.520 had had a heated exchange with the sister-in-law  who steadfastly refused to admit that she had said   :14.520 --> :19.840 anything wrong. She insisted that she had merely  stated a fact, that they had had enough time to   :19.840 --> :26.080 grief and it was time to get over it, and that  she and my sister as "actual mothers" deserved   :26.080 --> :32.560 support, even from "those two". Meanwhile the  professor remained aloof, just watching things   :32.560 --> :38.240 unfold from the sidelines after confirming that  his wife's statement had been factually correct. :38.240 --> :42.680 There was also a lot of cold pizza, since my  brother-in-law had handed the kids over to my   :42.680 --> :47.720 sister and picked up the pizza himself,  but nobody had any real appetite left. :47.720 --> :52.160 When I got up next morning my sister told me that  her brother-in-law and his girlfriend had left   :52.160 --> :56.560 earlier that morning, apologising and telling  her that they couldn't spend the weekend in   :56.560 --> :02.240 the presence of his sister and, in fact, didn't  want to see her again for a long time. For the   :02.240 --> :08.320 rest of the weekend nobody was in the mood to do  much. We went for extended walks where my sister,   :08.320 --> :13.720 her husband and I formed a group while his parents  had lengthy discussions with their daughter, who   :13.720 --> :20.040 had become the weekend's pariah and only cemented  her status with her incessant whining about her   :20.040 --> :26.240 "unfair treatment" and "lack of support for her as  a mother". Other than that we didn't do much apart   :26.240 --> :32.640 from talking , watching some films and especially  ignoring her. What a fun weekend we had. :32.640 --> :36.080 At least they won't be coming to to  this year's family christmay party. :36.720 --> :39.040 Posted by  :39.040 --> :45.280 u/HybridPhoenixKing 2 days ago :49.400 --> :51.200 Entitled grandparents M  :51.200 --> :57.080 So this isn’t my family per say, but my roommates.  Recently his parental figure passed away,   :57.080 --> :02.240 and was cremated. He was defined as next  of kin, and due to Michigan law he was   :02.240 --> :07.040 to determine who was to have the ashes. While  his grandparents said they wished to have it,   :07.040 --> :10.200 my roommate stated that he didn’t  believe his parent would want that,   :10.200 --> :14.600 as they actively avoided the grandparents  due to extensive emotional and mental   :14.600 --> :19.560 abuse throughout their life, and stated he  would keep the ashes as he is next of kin. :19.560 --> :22.720 They grumbled but my roommate  thought that was the end of it,   :22.720 --> :27.240 over the past few weeks they have called  and called and called and once sent the   :27.240 --> :31.640 grandfather to try and reason with my roommate,  which ended with my roommate saying that his   :31.640 --> :35.400 parent wouldn’t have wanted to be stuck  eternally with their abusive mother and   :35.400 --> :40.200 the grandfather stated something along the  lines of “well you are right about that”. :40.200 --> :45.600 Again my roommate thought it was over. Until he  went to get the paperwork for the autopsy report   :45.600 --> :51.360 and found out his grandfather had been their  the day before and had acquired several copies. :51.360 --> :55.840 A few days later, his grandfather delivered  a note from the funeral home stating that   :55.840 --> :01.280 his grandparents had come forward later and  stated he was not the Next of Kin, and he was   :01.280 --> :06.400 to release the ashes to his grandparents  lest they seek legal action against him. :06.400 --> :10.200 That’s what happened just this night,  but even my roommates uncle stated he   :10.200 --> :15.320 was next of kin. I would also like to state  the grandparents didn’t pay for anything.   :15.320 --> :19.440 They had my roommate or my roommates  family friends pay for everything,   :19.440 --> :23.680 and up until the problem with ashes,  they called him grandson and everything. :23.680 --> :28.600 He’s not technically biologically related  to the parent, it’s an odd situation,   :28.600 --> :32.880 but he was raised by the deceased, and the  parent cared enough about my roommate to   :32.880 --> :36.960 get his initials as a tattoo and  referred to him as their child. :36.960 --> :41.240 Right now we are trying to figure out the best  way to tell his grandparents to screw off,   :41.240 --> :45.120 cause we don’t believe they have a leg  to stand on, what do you all think? :45.120 --> :46.320 Posted by  :46.320 --> :47.360 u/Foreversadandlonely 1 day ago :19.080 --> :23.380 Entitled parent put me into debt to  buy a car for her spoiled second child.  :23.380 --> :27.080 S Yup. You read that correctly. My mother is very   :27.080 --> :33.200 entitled. Actually, you cannot do anything apart  from what she is demanding. She cannot communicate   :33.200 --> :39.600 or she is not willing to comprehend anything that  you are actually communicating. In 2018 she asked   :39.600 --> :45.840 (demanded) me to sign some papers for a new car.  Basically she was buying a new car under my name   :45.840 --> :51.240 so when I would get my license, that car would be  mine. I thought she was paying in cash, instead,   :51.240 --> :58.160 to buy a fiat 500 for my sister, she made ME sign  a loan (I didn’t know it) so she could fully pay   :58.160 --> :03.480 my sister’s car and let her live her life debt  free! I did not have that privilege. This kind of   :03.480 --> :09.320 financial abuse/bullying literally set me under  every achievement anyone my age had. I had to   :09.320 --> :15.840 focus on survival so no degree for me. No license  for me. Nothing! Had to spend my days worrying how   :15.840 --> :22.160 to repair her disastrous choices. I literally  need like a good 7/8 of therapy just because of   :22.160 --> :28.800 the financial abuse. No one I know had the same  experiences. It’s also very alienating. I have   :28.800 --> :34.680 ptsd from debts collectors threatening me (some  of them were also very sorry and compassionate). :39.240 --> :39.819 Posted by  :39.819 --> :42.880 u/CallMeDesdinova42 2 days ago :02.760 --> :05.620 I think I had my first Toxic Boy Mom encounter  :05.620 --> :08.400 S My family (myself, fiancé   :08.400 --> :14.000 and baby boy) went to visit my cousin for a few  days last week. The day we arrived, we all went   :14.000 --> :19.680 to pick her daughter (my 1st cousin once removed;  I'll call her my niece for short) up from school. :19.680 --> :24.160 When we got there, she was chatting  with a (boy) friend of hers. She saw us,   :24.160 --> :26.680 hugged him goodbye and ran in our direction. :26.680 --> :30.480 My niece talked to us for less than 30  seconds before turning her attention   :30.480 --> :36.560 to my son. She cooed over him for a while  before taking my fiancé's hand and having   :36.560 --> :41.720 him show our baby around to her classmates.  I stood next to my cousin waiting for them. :41.720 --> :43.800 As soon as my niece was out of earshot,   :43.800 --> :48.880 someone called my cousin's name. It was the  boy's mom. She was holding her son in her lap. :48.880 --> :52.280 She reached us, pointed her  finger at my cousin and said,   :52.280 --> :55.400 "You need to teach your daughter  to behave herself. She shouldn't   :55.400 --> :00.120 be talking to my son and they shouldn't be  hugging. They're way too young for that." :00.120 --> :03.120 She then left the classroom  without waiting for a reply. :03.120 --> :07.000 They're both five. He was  complimenting her Shrek Crocs.
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serious friends of sociopaths or Psychopaths what was your most uncomfortable moment to them my mom had me when she was young and regularly told me that I ruined her life she told me that if she had the money she would have gone rid of me I remember from a very early age that my mom would just stand at the entrance to my room with a weapon this didn't happen very often maybe two to three times a year one time when I was young I finally asked her why she would do this I'll never forget how she said this she looked me straight in the eyes and said that I was a mistake and she was deciding if she should have done what she should have done a long time ago I asked to move in with my grandma a week later thinking about how she said it still gets my heart racing 22 years later don't know if I can accurately describe it but every hair on my body stood straight up I was paralyzed with fear and I felt like if I moved too suddenly she would strike man that's rough story two in high school my boyfriend at the time and I shared a math class it was well known we were dating so I would always take his homework at the teacher's request if he missed it he skipped a lot I broke up with him over Christmas break he cheated on me the math teacher still assumed we were together so he asked me to bring his homework I did I got to his house waiting to drop it off at his door stab he told me to come in and explain it to him he locked his bedroom door and started saying things like if I can't have you then no one else can I could get you back in a second just admit it Etc then the true kicker if I end you or if you pass away I would keep you disclaimer I was never intimate with him and I think that irritated him he then proceeded to try to be rough with me he thought it was endearing and had no idea why I was so upset I got out I called my mom to pick me up and ran back to the school it lived close terrifying to this day I'm still horrified by it and him last I heard he was trying to be a magician looks like Charles Manson and is in and out of psych wards just to add my ex hated animals my dog passed away while we were dating and all he said was good I didn't like that dog or any dogs anyway his emotions were all over the map too he would cry in weird situations and it would always seem forced pretty much stayed with him for as long as I did because I was afraid of him he was pretty cruel Story three my cat recently had a litter a relative of my husband said to my daughter come here little one and show me which one you want to keep so I can get rid of the rest for your mama my kid told him I'm keeping them all and you wen't allowed to pick them up we lived in the Backwoods good old boy area the intel was well recognized by the adults but it still freaked out my daughter who's now convinced that dude might do something to her if she thinks she's a baby too kids are so great with logic she thought he didn't like her cats because they were little these relatives all have this attitude towards animals if a pet is sick or injured you just eliminate it and throw it away they've also been doing it to a Vermin for fun I used to be horrified when I visited them listening to the kids cheerfully talk about getting rid of animals they would talk about what they did to the poor rabbits and squirrels just because they could a cat I think would be different a cat is a pet you don't eliminate your pet because it has issues they also had two dogs who horned their newly bought goat this goat was maybe going to be sold at some point but instead of taking it as a loss they got rid of the dogs that they had for years these dogs were sweet and lovable but also unsupervised honestly their treatment of animals as a giant red flag for me story for he had a gasp powered pellet gun it was one of my first times being baked he also emptied a huge box of matches into the sink one time and when we all told him not to he called us wussies and lit it all on fire it was a major pyro I'm pretty sure he's in jail now we'd hang out a lot in middle school and every day I'd be worried I'd say something wrong and be punished with some unique torture like the P gun thing and stuff related to my anxiety like making me sing in front of his friends I'm not a singer by any means he just made me we'd always play weird performance related games like dance offs or sing offs and whoever didn't want to participate usually me would always be punished in some way not to mention that everything I say is berated and never taken seriously I know it sounds weird that I kept hanging out with him even after incidents like these but it was really funny and kind of a wild card it wasn't all bad plus I was an only child and a year and a half younger so it looked up to him like a brother well that friend does seem like a psycho but how metal was it to make that fire Story five I've been longtime friends with a sociopath he's honestly like my brother I've developed this relationship around he treats me like his moral compass but it doesn't always work he's still manipulative and cruel at times and he only truly cares about himself but he tries to be a good person because he doesn't want to be an a-hole this being said my most uncomfortable moment with him would have to be when he was telling me about watching some guy almost leave this earth it was telling me how he knew he should have stopped watching helped him but he was too interested in what the outcome would be if he didn't help it was creepy to know that asard as he may try to be a decent person sometimes he still can't help himself some people have asked me why I'm still friends with him and honestly it's because I care about him I don't want any harm to come his way and he knows that so he trusts me which is a huge thing for a sociopath I don't judge him when he tells me about his dark like super dark thoughts and I appreciate that he will always tell me the truth even when I don't want to hear it we both have horrible fathers so it's nice to lament together for him our friendship is beneficial and so we will remain friends I know he will never care about me and that's okay story six contrary to what my son says I believe he's a sociopath and possibly a psychopath as well he can be cruel to the point of being a monster even though my son says he cares about others I don't see it he uses people and doesn't care when he throws them away he was terrible to me and I'm his mother my son told me that I deserve to be homeless I'm not my son also threaten to eliminate me and said he should have done it a long time ago he used me until I had nothing left for him to get and then he pulled a weapon on me that was the last draw and I haven't seen him in several years I raised him by myself and my mother and sister looked close by so my son was around him a lot I don't know if my son was born to be the way he is or what I'm not that way at all if it's in the DNA my son got it from his father his dad is very manipulative and cunning can be charming and can be very cruel the difference between my son and his father is that my son is much smarter which is dangerous story seven my ex would say headlines headlines which meant that would be headlines in tomorrow's newspaper because he was going to end me once straight forcibly took me I left in the middle of a fight to walked to work and he jumped in his car pulled up next to me grabbed me and threw me in the car he drove like a maniac swerving into traffic and super close to parked cars telling me he was going to end us both he made me call my work and tell them I wasn't coming in I was sobbing hysterically and it just played it off like I just found out a close friend had passed away I don't remember how I talked myself out of that situation but looking back I can't believe how weak I was and just did what he said he got arrested for handling me super embarrassing I'm so glad I snapped out of that I would never let anyone treat me like that way again the weakness came from I staying with him afterward he would cry in my lap and beg me to help him be a better man and there were always Promises of never doing it again which of course were lies and he did get arrested and the police were taking pictures of my roughed up face and everyone was staring at me in the parking lot I should have loved myself enough to get out when the officer took pictures and collected evidence a man my grandfather's age looked me in the eyes and told me I didn't deserve it and needed to get out I should have never looked back I'm ashamed to say I put up with a lot more before I finally walked away I hate to say it but I think it is a weakness I also think people can find a strength in themselves they never imagined possible if they find a reason to see in themselves it doesn't Define you in the long run unless you let it wow I don't think I'll ever hear headlines without thinking of this now I can't believe I'm going to say this but some of these stories are straight up giving me the chills they're just crazy and if you want more of these videos just hit the like button and subscribe to my channel story8 my sister is a sociopath it took me a lot of years to realize this and stop rationalizing it I'm diabetic and have been in comas during the last one in 2015 after a year of no contact she showed up at the hospital saying I had expressed to her that my wishes were not to resuscitate about 12 of my friends shouted her down and I Woke Up 3 days later on my own if I had coded during that time however there would have been a lot of gray area around if they were allowed to revive me about 4 months later she took out a life insurance policy on me and asked me to sign it I said no I no longer speak to her I should add that I now have very clear wishes notorized and copies kept with my doctors and trusted friends she's not taking me out that easily story nine I'm friends with a legit psychopath not all psychopaths are necessarily a danger to society in the sense of physical violence craziness or unreasonableness G is a close friend of mine he's of shallow moral character devious manipulative ready to screw anyone out of money and capable of being physical when pressed he's scary that said he's deeply intelligent quick with a laugh and non-judging you could talk to this guy about anything he just doesn't care he's a lot of fun to talk to or party with because he's so unique I trust him to be himself he's never screwed me over except I seem to lose money when I went into business with him the creepiest he's been and he knows I feel this way is when we talk about moralistic standards for society essentially he thinks the weak and stupid should be weeded out put on farms or something he doesn't care about anyone else save for a select few he just thinks he's better than others is based on his smarts looks and abilities he feels the dumb should not be allowed to thrive creepy huh I remember one conversation we had when buzzed that I couldn't finish because we weren't getting anywhere with it he won't change he doesn't empathize that said he's a reasonable person he's not going to put his darker nonprofi thoughts into action he's not interested he likes money and doesn't mind ripping people off a businessman cunning he exists for profit that said he'd help me out of any kind of sticky situation mostly for the fun of it he's bored a lot and he understands he needs others he likes me because I'm interesting and he feels I'm on his level we speak openly about a psychopathy because I'm so interested in it we've been friends for seven years and were closed for three years before he moved to another city I stayed at his house in 2016 for a couple of weeks story 10 I dated someone who I now believe is a sociopath the most uncomfortable thing while we were dating was that he would constantly whisper things in my ear in public like do you think I look hot right now or do you think I'm cool the first few times I thought I was joking so I laughed and and he'd get angry he wanted a serious answer he wanted me to tell him how much I wanted to jump his bones right there in front of all our friends while they were watching and listening I'd get lectured afterward like you know you insulted me personally when you laughed at me in front of everyone he could also cry on Q to get what he wanted and as soon as he got what he wanted it would instantly switch off and he turned very serious and tell me what a horrible person I was the instant emotional switches are disarming when he broke up with me I went from being his favorite person in the world to instantly being at the very bottom of his list he laughed when I cried a multip occasions calling me ridiculous what's very alarming about people like him is how many people they can get on their side with their charm none of his current friends know anything about his behavior behind closed doors they're all new people all the people who caught on when we were dating are gone from his life has convinced his new friends that I'm a psychopath because I tried to tell others what happened so whenever I say anything about what a creep he is I get brigaded by the new people who are now being manipulated also he's completely emotionless until you interact with him and then it's like he becomes animated that dude reminds me of Dennis from its Always Sunny in Philadelphia what a nut job story 11 I have a friend who's a pathological liar is also mostly Scottish inheritage Northern Scotland where the Viking influence is he 68 350 lbs when he's watching his weight 400 plus when he isn't and there is a lot of muscle to go with everything else the lies aren't all that awful most of the time he's known as a very entertaining Storyteller and everyone knows he'll embellish greatly from time to time but he can't keep a girlfriend apparently he can't be honest and is a pathological cheater the lives catch up with his relationships in a few weeks at most one day we were in a taxi together and he got the idea that the driver was taking an unnecessarily long route he stopped the cheerful story he was telling me midson his face changed and He barked at the cab driver in a voice I'd never heard loud angry and aggressive the cab driver immediately pulled over and let us out without paying and a good thing too I think my friend was about to hurt him I was petrified in my seat I was terrified it was the last time I spent time with him though I'd known him for 20 years I later learned that he W to so with someone after they've seen him snap as one of his other ex-friends put it story 12 I just about H my sociopath stepfather while doing the dishes he'd been doing his thing which was sitting behind me about 15 ft away and staring at me without saying anything for about 20 minutes while I cleaned up the kitchen after dinner 20 minutes of staring I was washing a knife and the hair on the back of my neck stood up and I realized it was right behind me it was a big guy and I'm not sure how I did not hear him I turned around with a knife and instinctively shoved it at him he managed to suck in has gotten and not get caught I was saying over and over again get away from me get away from me get away from me I didn't make a sound and went upstairs I was young and that's when I knew one of us was going to go to jail if nothing changed story 13 married one the last draw was the day I caught his reflection as I passed by I saw Pure Evil and hatred in his eyes I told him I was leaving the following week he said if I ever see you somewhere with someone else I won't say a word to you I said okay he then added I'll just walk up to you and hit you I was moving some things out and looked under the bed for a pair of shoes I found his Firearms fully loaded and out of their cases under his side of the bed I went to the cops nothing came of it fast forward and he remarries before the ink is drying the divorce his new wife ends him in his sleep she proceeds to end herself by using his pain pills yeah I sleep better these days word from relatives was that she was a psycho as well that he was getting ready to leave her that she was stealing peain medicines from people but I don't believe that at all he was a monster I guess some problems solved themselves story 14 my uncle we found out about it in bits and pieces my dad and he worked together he got my dad fired by saying all sorts of lies to their boss and then pretend to be the White Knight by offering him a job in another country where he's living money was tied back then and we were in a lot of debt so my dad agreed he took him there gave him work but also made him a slave to his wife and kids who also lived there dad was expected to cook food wash the dishes clean up the dining table after my uncle's family ate and then eat himself dad didn't tell us until much later according to the rule said by my uncle he wasn't to contact us often should mind his own business even if his daughter didn't turn up home all night and should keep his mouth shut about work dad was miserable there and we couldn't do much because again that job was a welcome relief to us Uncle meanwhile would come every night to our home and have breakfast and dinner that my mom generously cooked because his family was abroad while complaining about my dad in front of us one day I had finally reached my breaking point and I started crying because I felt horrible for my dad was trying so hard to make things right for us Michael just sat opposite me smiling godamn smiling I will never forget that psycho grin on his face Days Later dad suddenly turned up and announced at home it turns out he'd been dumped by her uncle in her City without prior notice dad had no guts to tell us what happened he realized uncle was a psychopath later he'd routinely mentally torture people and enjoy their misery while pretending to offer sympathy and help he's in a powerful spot so he offers his victims jobs once they accept he makes them entirely dependent on him he' put his victims under even more Psych ological stress be it by threatening to cut off ties or getting them fired if they disagreed with him but Dad was messed up for days he'd swing from utter despair to not speaking for days to extreme violence to being broken I got roughed up a bit for trying to calm him down Dad could finally regain his mental sanity after we cut off all ties to that Uncle last we heard he wanted to contact my dad because their brothers and people realized what an awful person he was so they avoided him too story 15 the sister feels nothing but rage when she doesn't feel rage she feels literally nothing she spends her life manipulating everyone around her and satisfying that rage she had been mercilessly cruel to me growing up she tried to eliminate me three times before I moved out no one believed me because I was older and larger I was always considered the aggressor even when I was being targeted in my sleep living with her was a nightmare the most uncomfortable moment between us was something she did to me it was something I considered doing to her I'd been sent up to the crawl space to get an ornament you could only access it from a ladder in the garage when I grabbed it and turned around she was at the top of the ladder staring at me there wasn't any room for her to come up she was just waiting there staring she told me to get out of the way and I told her I couldn't there wasn't room for two people in the crawl space she'd have to go back down the ladder she immediately switched to rage she said she hated me and she wasn't going to let me down from the crawl space it was 110° in there air and I was already exhausted I remember thinking she's at the top of the ladder over a cement floor I could make this stop I just say it was an accident as soon as I thought of that her face suddenly went blank and she went back down the ladder I hope you enjoyed the video and if you made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy what's the most up human you've ever encountered Story 4 is creepy see you in that video
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a it for implying to Mom I won't help her and my siblings out after I turn 18 my mom is a single mom and we struggle I'm 17 male the oldest and I have four younger siblings 14f 12f nine male and 8 F we have two different dads me and my 14 and 12-year-old sisters share a dad and he walked out on us while Mom was pregnant with my 12-year-old sister a year later she found another guy and he was bad news but my mom was so desperate for a guy and overlooked a lot of red flags she had two kids with him and then he stole from my mom and left without ever looking back and left us in a really tight position after that my mom would lean on me a lot and she asked me to step up and be there for my siblings and help more around the house and I did it because I wanted to help my mom I hoped it would mean she wouldn't rush into another relationship with another dude who was bad news it was tough though like having to help with homework and feeding my siblings and being responsible for most of the cleaning was a lot my mom still did stuff it was just she had to work and couldn't be there all the time but after a year or so of it she started to take her frustrations out on me verbally she'd complain about calls from my school I struggle in school even still or if I forgot to do something she'd tell me I couldn't let her down and I needed to act more like like an adult and do better when I was 14 she asked me if I could start making money and I did I helped around the neighborhood for some extra money and I got a part-time job a year later and gave Mom the money from that but it was like she'd take it all out on me more if I got home late from work or school she'd tell me to cut it out and I needed to be more responsible if a bill wasn't paid on time she'd tell me to be less useless or be more useful if I couldn't do something she'd ask me what good was I doing she'd tell me I wasn't a kid anymore and needed to stop expecting the life of one out of nowhere sometimes eventually I got so tired of it and it became so constant that I started saving money so I can get away ASAP mom doesn't know about it and I still give her the rest of what I make because it's really the only way to save without her knowing my mom expects me to stay here and help for the next several years until my siblings are all older I'll be out of the house as soon as I turn 18 and I won't consider staying for anyone not even my siblings mom has been extra nasty lately to me and she was saying I should start looking for a full-time job now so I can be a full second income I was like bold of you to assume I'll be getting a full-time job to help out more and mom was then even more pissed and she told me I need to get over myself and accept it she told me I was such a dick for implying I could abandon my siblings like that she was so loud my siblings heard and they were upset at me too
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stepmom got herself banned from my wedding after she had my child I'm 28m and my stepmother 49f is a wannabe party planner she has taken it upon herself to plan and host every party and holiday my dad's family has thrown since she married him I never loved those occasions growing up she's controlling and gets upset if people complain about anything but humor her for my dad's sake according to him this helps her feel included I'm getting married to my fianceé Jane 26f in July we got engaged in early 2021 but Jane ended up getting pregnant a couple of months after after that and we decided to postpone the wedding to focus on our son for a while so we've had a long engagement my stepmother has tried to hijack our wedding plans from day one complaining contacting our planner showing up unannounced to Jane's dress appointments Etc and we have repeatedly asked her to stop dad wants us to humor her but she's clearly resentful of the fact that she's not hosting the wedding or being labeled mother of the groom in invitations besides our baby boy we also have Luke for M Jane's paternal half brother
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first story my entitled brother bullied me for being gay and outed me at our school to further humiliate me so I went no contact now 3 years later he tried to strike up a conversation at our family gathering like nothing happened so I gave him the silent treatment now he is having a breakdown and is begging to reconcile I'm 19 and my brother is 21 and is my only sibling I realized I was gay at a young age and came out at 14 my parents were supportive from the get-go but my brother was absolutely not he tried telling me I wasn't or that I was just trying to get attention and tried to get me to change my mind when that failed he called me a freak diseased said I was going to hell even though we aren't that religious and made it clear he didn't want a relationship with me he outed me at school my friends already knew and tried to get others to join in but no one really cared and nothing much changed needless to say I vowed to limit contact with him as much as possible but the comments continued until he moved out when he turned 18 for school I've since gotten into a great school and have completed a year and a half I'm in a relationship my grades are the best they've ever been and everything seems to have fallen nicely into place my brother sent me a Facebook message back in August he started by apologizing for how he treated me saying he was depressed before and was stuck inside his own head or fell into the wrong crowd online which reinforced his bitterness towards others he said he'd gotten treatment for his depression feels more confident than he has in years and was on the upswing and wanted to meet up to repair our relationship he said he was proud of me for being gay supported me and apologized for taking so long to make it known I didn't respond nor did I respond to his happy birthday message in September then he started texting me saying he understands if I'm still hurt but that's because he'd love nothing more to make up for the hurt he caused I haven't responded to these either here's where my boyfriend says andun T over the holidays we were all back at my parents house I had a great time seeing my family except for him each time he'd ask about me or try to talk to me I'd give him one-word answers or clam up he offered to get a game for me as a gift but I declined he pulled me aside to apologize face to face reiterating the stuff he said before but I also cut that short and walked away meanwhile I talked with my parents like normal and was very open with them about the happenings of my life typically within earshot of them the day we left I said my goodbyes and found him by my car crying he said he understands why I'm closed off to him and that he regrets how it turned out he wished me well and went inside I told my BF about this when I got back and he's pissed and called me an awe BF says it's clear my brother feels badly about how he used to be and that he's changed and that to throw that all back in his face is a dck move my parents agree and say he's a good person but ultimately feel it's up to us personally I've gotten so used to the idea of not having a brother that I don't don't know if there's anything left to salvage he made his choice to sabotage me then is it really my problem that he regrets his actions now aah edit so my BF just texted and said that how I handled this thing has him questioning things and that he thinks we should take a step back for a while so that's cool update so it's been a few months since my first post and since a few people were asking I thought I owed you an update I would have provided one sooner but this is a throwaway and I had logged out earlier the fact I remember the password is itself a miracle the tldr of the last post was that I had ignored my brother's attempts to have a relationship with me after the homophobic sht he threw at me when we were younger I'm glad to say that's no longer the case a little after my last post I texted him that I appreciated his words but that his actions had really hurt me and that I needed time he texted back that he understood and to take as much time as I needed he also thanked me for reaching back out to him I spent a lot of January and February in self-reflection and trying to figure out what I wanted lots of people in the last post said I needed therapy and I agree I likely did I never ended up seeing a professional but I got really into some guided meditation and calming exercises I saw on YouTube making a habit of it helped me realize how much weight I was carrying and has helped me start to let that weight down I still have some ways to go but I can feel my empathy growing and I like that I went home for spring break and saw my brother for the first time since Christmas long story short we spend a lot of time hanging out and our relationship is recovering we've had some hard conversation cried shared a couple joints Etc and I came away from the break feeling much better about everything and since each of our schools has closed down due to the pandemic we're both at home doing our classes remotely and hanging out during the downtime I want to thank those of you who said I'd probably regret cutting him out because I can tell you were right my brother isn't perfect and did many things to purposely hurt me but people can change if they want to and he did I wouldn't want to be judged by my lowest point and I'm working on not judging him by his I finally have my brother back and forgiving him has helped me feel better in ways I didn't realize I needed thank you tldr forgiveness is a hell of a drug edit to answer some common questions no my boyfriend from the op and I are no longer together but for separate reasons unrelated to the original post we just wanted different things and were at different stages of our lives but it was a parting with minimal hard feelings I don't consider his reaction to be manipulative it wasn't a hard do this or we through why did my brother do it there's no one reason he was in a dark place and dealing with a lot of issues in a bad way he was ignorant about a lot of LGBT stuff and relied on that ignorance when it came to me it took a while and going off to college and meeting new people for him to begin questioning a lot of what he believed and since getting help for his unresolved issues it was a step by step process until he saw how wrong he was he said he didn't even realize how what he was doing was hurtful a lot of the time because he was so in his own head and had some really bad influences on the internet reinforcing his mindset I can understand that and I love how far he's come why didn't our parents intervene even though they always had my back they did a lot of the time but most of what he said or did wasn't in their presence and I was not one to go running to them each time I was the victim of something they are good people and I hold no animosity towards what they might have done instead I'm thinking about showing my brother this and the previous thread so he has a better understanding of how I felt about this and May update later on how that goes also I just want to say to others out there who feel they've been repeatedly wronged by someone to the point they want to cut them off that I know exactly how you feel but the fact is people can change if they want to and even if they do you're under no obligation to welcome them back into your life but if you can find it in your heart I'd strongly encourage you to give them a fair shot at doing so people do screw up things sometimes many times or for many years before they realize it and feel remorse we all only human relevant comment guistic it's hard for me to find a reason to forgive family that purposely hurts family strangers I can understand but family is the core of trust breaking that trust usually causes a domino effect that outperforms the original Behavior I don't plan on ever forgiving my brothers it's a trap op I understand understand where you're coming from consider this if you would in my opinion there's much more reason to forgive a family member than a stranger an injury from family hurts much more than an injury from someone you barely know like you said family is supposed to be the Bedrock of trust and breaking it can cause a lot of subsequent harm and while your birth family is who you're stuck with by virtue of being alive they're by no means your real family you choose who that is I'm fortunate enough that the family I've chosen is also the one I was born into but many aren't so lucky the fact is that humans can be Ary holes idiot and selfish to the point that they hurt those they around sometimes on purpose and sometimes without even realizing it but even if you choose your own family the one you're born into knows you very well you have memories no one else has you've shared experiences no one else has and even if you've cut them off for good reason holding on to hate towards them or wishing them Misfortune will have a corrosive effect on your own well-being not forgiving a stranger just isn't the same the hate is just is corrosive but it's much less relevant to you as a person and much less intimate a situation than the hate toward a family member being angry at a stranger is like holding a red hot screw being angry at a family member is like having a red hot screw between your heart and your lungs you don't need to have a relationship with anyone if you don't want to not even your birth family you don't need to make people feel better if you think they don't deserve it but I urge you to look at the baggage you carry inside baggage that may well have been thrust on you through no fault or choice of your own and slowly allow yourself to let it down forgiveness isn't about saying everything is okay or going back to where it was it's about allowing yourself to heal from the damage others caused and leave it in the past it's a very intimate thing to experience but a very scary thing to even try but I encourage you to take a chance if you can you owe it to yourself and who knows what can come from it Second Story my Golden Child sister abandoned her daughter forcing me to adopt her which caused me to lose my boyfriend of 3 years now 6 years later she came back demanding my daughter's custody realizing I'm moving to a new country then tried to kidnap my daughter still my entitled parents took her side so I went to NC with the whole family my younger sister went through a pretty rough time as a young adult drinking and doing drugs and generally being wild she ended up getting pregnant early and she did not want the child after giving birth despite never wanting children myself either I stepped in and adopted my newborn niece as my daughter my then boyfriend friend gave me an ultimatum and as he didn't want children either I picked her and he left me which resulted in me suddenly being a single mother the first few years were rough as a single parent barely making ends meet but I managed and my sister had nothing to do with us I never once hid the truth from my daughter that she was adopted but I always assured her that I loved her so much and was her mommy when my daughter was six my sister was finally clean and wanted to have access to her I allowed it but stressed she would just be an aunt to her and she accepted this though it's clear she struggled with a concept and sometimes acted more like a mother which I always squashed quickly now that my daughter is eight and I've been offered a job in a different country the pay is almost double my current salary so of course I'm going to take it but this resulted in my family having a meltdown about how I can't do this how it's cruel to take my daughter away from her family and how it's not fair to my sister my sister has told me she won't allow me to move away with her and that she'll fight in court to get my daughter back I've talked to lawyers and it seems she doesn't have a leg to stand on as my daughter is legally my daughter but the rest of my family is telling me I'm being extremely cruel and if I cared about my sister i' turn this job down edit as I keep being asked this yes my daughter is excited about the move she's of course sad about leaving her school and friends but I've been teaching her about the country and letting her try foods from there she knows she can FaceTime or message her friends and will be visiting secret voices not this post contains repeated information with additional context to provide a clearer picture of the situation update I am sharing my post from a because I think some of you will like it the revised post as the title had an error in it my younger sister went through a pretty rough time as a young adult drinking and doing drugs and generally being wild she ended up getting pregnant and giving birth at age 18 when I was just a few weeks away from turning 21 she did not want the child after giving birth she refused to even pick up the child and would leave her sitting in dirty nappies despite never wanting children myself either I stepped in and adopted my newborn niece as my daughter my then boyfriend who I'd been with for 3 years gave me an ultimatum he or she didn't want children either so I picked her up and he left me which resulted in me suddenly being a single mother the first few years were rough as a single parent barely making ends meet but I managed and my sister had nothing to do with us I never once hid the truth from my daughter that she was adopted but I always assured her that I loved her so much and was her mommy when my daughter was six my sister was finally clean and wanted to have access to her I allowed it but stressed she would just be an aunt to her and she accepted this though it's clear she struggled with the concept and sometimes acted more like a mother which I always squashed quickly now that my daughter is eight I've been offered a job in a different country the pay is almost double my current salary and the company is helping us find a home putting my daugh in an international school and providing after school care so of course I'm going to take it but this resulted in my family having a meltdown about how I can't do this how it's cruel to take my daughter away from her family and how it's not fair to my sister my sister has told me she won't allow me to move away with her and that she'll fight in court to get my daughter back I've talked to lawyers and it seems she doesn't have a leg to stand on as my daughter is legally my daughter but the rest of my family is telling me I'm being extremely cruel and if I cared about my sister I'd turn this job down I left home at 16 and finished my education my sister meanwhile is The Golden Child who gets away with everything she even now lives with our parents and doesn't work my daughter while sad to be leaving her school and friends is excited for the move I've been teaching her about the country every night before bed and we've gone to some authentic restaurants to try food from there I've also promised her we'll fly back at least once a year to visit and she can FaceTime or call her friends I feel like my family is angling for me to eventually just hand my daughter back over as if I were just a temporary filler for my sister which will obviously never happen and my lawyers are involved in this matter update the entitled sister tried to pick my daughter up from school so some of you may remember my last post so I got a call from the school today that a woman not on the list had come around and tried to pick up my daughter claiming she was the mother she had claimed there was a family emergency and she needed to take my daughter home early now only only myself and my best friend are marked down as able to pick up my daughter and when they wanted to see her ID she got kg and claimed she forgot it when they told her she couldn't pick her up without an ID she shouted at them before storming off I have spent all day on the phone with my lawyers and my boss my schedule is being moved ahead I'd wanted to give my daughter a final Christmas in our current home but it's clear that's not a safe idea anymore our move has been brought forward and my company is putting us up in a hotel until they help us find a home home update so some of you may remember my previous posts about my adopted daughter the job overseas that my family was trying to stop me from taking and how my sister tried to pick up my daughter from school this will likely be my final update so I just wanted to thank you all for your incredible words and support during this time I am currently writing this from our room where we are self-isolating in a whole brand new country I thought I'd give you all an update while my daughter sleeps and I'm waiting for her to wake up on Christmas morning first ly many of you may be wondering what country we're in and I'm very pleased to tell you we are in South Korea for our own privacy I will be leaving out the name of the city or area we're in the people here have been amazing and have gone above and beyond for us as we're currently the only family with a child here they even gave us a Christmas tree which we spent last night putting up it would seem my attempts to introduce my daughter to Korean cuisine have had an unexpected side effect her favorite food is now fish fingers with kimchi I guess this is the life of a mom raising their kid in a different culture it's revolting please send help now many of you may be wondering about my family and more specifically my sister well just because my lawyers talked me out of making a police report doesn't mean we did nothing they gathered reports from the school and CCTV footage and then I invited my parents to a meeting at my lawyer's office where all the evidence was laid down they had no idea and my mother broke down crying I made it clear our connections were firmly cut and if my daughter is an adult and wants to get in contact we will reconsider them but now for our safety we will be going no contact I kept the date of our flights a secret and my best friend has my keys and is closing up the house for me and going to ship me heavier items when we are properly settled my first action upon entering the country was to contact the local authorities with proof that my daughter was my daughter in case my family tried to pull any bullsh the people here are also aware of my situation and no one can find anything out about us without a password I honestly feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders and this is the start of a whole new life for us I wish you all a Merry Christmas third story my daughter confessed that her mom's cheating happened 2 years ago before her accident left her wheelchair bound and they both stayed silent and betrayed me I want to divorce my wife but she is fully dependent on me and we recently found out she has cancer I am not sure if this is the right place to post this since my situation is very different from others but I am desate my wife and I have been together for 25 years but married for 19 we are high school sweethearts and have two amazing kids a daughter and a son I was honestly under the impression that we had a solid marriage that our relationship wouldn't be like that of our friends and colleagues and that we'd actually stand the test of time now I see how spectacularly naive and wrong I was my wife has been a stay-at-home mom for most of our adult lives something we both agreed on but after our kids went to college she began feeling restless and empty nest syndrome I guess she would tell me she was feeling unfulfilled and felt like she had lost sense of who she was I tried recommending Hobbies we could do together places we could visit or even adopting puppies if that would help and at first she was all for it but soon began saying she wanted to feel like she was contributing and not simply coasting through life I understood and was willing to support her she never liked sitting still so I kind of expected it she complained to a few friends and one of them actually managed to get her an interview at a real estate firm she used to work at one before having the kids and I was just as excited as she was when she accepted in the beginning things were going great but after the first year I noticed some changes she started going to meet up with co-workers and began texting a lot more than usual when at home and at odd hours at night she even started wearing a particular type of perfume and would wear more suggestive clothing nothing too revealing or SLT but clothing that complimented her body figure a lot more than usual but what made me supicious was when I accidentally saw a message from a male coworker on her phone who wasn't snooping which seemed to be highly inappropriate and flirtatious I asked about it and I could tell she was slightly shaken but she assured me he was simply a friend and she would talk to him about his inappropriate messages me not wanting to be the paranoid jealous and controlling husband chose to believe her and let it go oh how I wish I didn't her behavior got more strange as time went on she started mentioning how she wanted to be more spontaneous with life and even picked up smoking wheat I made jokes about how she seemed to be living the same College lifestyle as our kids and suggested she slow down but she dropped an absolute boom when she mentioned in a drunken state after another night of going out that maybe I dimmed her lights and held her back I was completely blindsided by this and really believed I was messing up somehow so I tried to do everything to improve the marriage even booking counseling but it went nowhere then out of the blue that strange Behavior stopped my wife apologized for the way she had acted she said it was like she forgot who she was but realized she had what she had at home and knew she didn't want to lose it she resigned from her job and we began MC it was tough initially things improved immensely and for the next 2 years our marriage was better than ever she was more attentive she initiated intimacy more and would shower me with affection the only problem is that her relationship with our daughter seemed to be in a nose dive I would question my wife about it but she would tell me it was a growing phase or a woman thing and once again I would take her word for it the funny thing is that during this period my relationship with my daughter improved she would call me a lot more meet me for coffee or lunch often during the week and even buy me gifts t-shirts and stuff I always told her it wasn't necessary but she insisted and I could always tell she wanted to say something but would hold her tongue a tragedy struck one evening as my wife was returning from doing groceries when she was hit by a drunk driver unfortunately she lost the use of her legs and has been wheelchair bound ever since things got really bad and she would make suggestions about me sleeping with other women which I obviously refused I just choked it up to her depression and reminded her that I was here to stay because I loved her more than our situation this actually made her cry and asked me why I was so good to her or what she did to deserve me again and again I choked it up to depression and just tried to help her as best I could sometime later we went for our medical checkups and the doctor sat down to inform us that they found a mass in my wife's throat it was of an unusual size and because it may be cancerous they had to do a biopsy my first reaction was shock whereas my wife was just blank at first then she started laughing it started small then became hysterical as she began mumbling that this was her punishment we managed to claim her down but she requested that before the biopsy we could do a family dinner I of course agreed and we had our kids and immediate family over I made a speech about how my wife was the light of my life and how we'd get through this but at the end of my speech I noticed my daughter was rather uncomfortable I thought that maybe it was because of what was going on that made her feel that way the next evening my daughter called me drunk begging me not to hate her at first I was confused but I reassured her that I would never hate her because she is my little girl and I will always love her at those words she went on to tell me how she caught her mother cheating on me with a man she had never seen before it was during her my wife's time at at the real estate firm that my daughter went on a road trip with some friends and decided to pass by a dinner they don't normally frequent to get a bit and that's where she saw her mother lip locking with a man that was nothing like me apparently this was why their relationship deteriorated and ours improved I confronted my wife and to her credit she didn't deny it through tears she confirmed it was the coworker from the messages and says it was the dumbest thing she has ever done she said he was always coming on to her and eventually wore down her walls she tells me getting caught by our daughter made her realize the gravity of what she was doing she wanted to take it to the Grave because she never wanted to hurt me and was too much of a coward to confess so she begged our child not to tell me I am absolutely Shattered by the Revelation and don't know what to do I now question every aspect of our relationship and wonder where I went wrong she tells me I was a good husband and that none of this is on me the problem is since that time I haven't been loving towards her I still take care of her but it's more like a nurse does with a patient than a husband does with his wife if I leave her she will be completely stranded she is dependent on me both financially and emotionally and it seems immensely unfair sorry if it seems to be all over the place but I am a mess right now update wow I had no idea so many people were willing to help both on the post and in the inbox it really helps to know we are not alone I did something I am not proud of my wife has always been on my case to experience my true feelings and thoughts about her no matter how ugly or cruel they may be not long after my first post in the afternoon as I prepared lunch for her like I always do and just when I was about to leave her for her meal she suddenly grabbed my hand and once again begged me to say something to her anything because it was killing her the way I've been treating her since our D-Day at those words I just exploded a lot came out of me I told her that to me she was perfect but since this happened she has become used in my eyes I told her that the very sound of her voice used to make me want to give her the world but now simply being around her makes me want to run and never look back I told her that now she is like a dead weight around my neck that will never leave because it needs me to survive I explained that through all this she is still somehow the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning and the last thing I think about when I go to sleep but those thoughts are accompanied by a pain I never knew existed and it makes me absolutely miserable because somehow I still need her I still want to hold her in my arms but each time I touch her I have mental pictures of her with another man but what eats at me the most is the fact that she dragged our daughter into this she put our baby girl in an impossible position and expected life to go on like nothing happened I pointed out that even despite her current circumstances her relationship with our daughter has hardly changed and that is the fruit of her actions my wife just sobbed softly through it all and at the end she simply said she deserved all that was coming her way she said she tried her hardest to atone for the disgusting decision ision she made during that time and has never stopped seeking forgiveness from our daughter she explains that seeing me in this state makes her feel like a murderer and she will do absolutely anything to help me heal and recover from this she also added that she wanted me to know that even if I never forgive her and end up divorcing her she has and always will love only me and that she doesn't regret our life and marriage because it is more than she could have ever asked for apparently she can hardly look herself in the mirror because of who was looking back at her and she never wanted to be that person I can see she clearly hates herself for what she did but I am torn about all this I never knew it was possible to absolutely love someone and hate them at the same time I have decided to book therapy for me and my wife because I have a lot I want to say to her but I'm afraid I'll go too far so speaking in a controlled environment will be best I also have this overwhelming urge to speak with the man she was involved with it may be useless after many years but I feel like I need it for my own sanity I want to know who the man was who had the audacity to actually come between a husband and his wife I believe I will ask for his information during the therapy session once again thank you all so much thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friends
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:00.080 --> :04.800 would you be the jerk for telling your sons that  they wouldn't exist if you had a daughter first   :04.800 --> :10.280 we'll get into that in a bit but first am I the  jerk for refusing to let my parents rename me   :10.280 --> :16.560 my 15-year-old male parents gave my sister  16-year-old female brother 13-year-old male   :16.560 --> :23.760 and me nature names and more specifically water  nature names my sister is ocean I'm Cove and my   :23.760 --> :29.040 brother is River they wanted our names to have a  theme without being matchy with the same initial   :29.040 --> :33.560 so we got our name names the story was told to us  when we were little and my parents were proud of   :33.560 --> :38.160 the names they gave us back when we were all  stuck at home my parents started to express   :38.160 --> :42.720 regret about their choices for us they actually  told us over dinner one night that they wish   :42.720 --> :48.080 they had given us better names and apologized for  making us live with the names we were given a few   :48.080 --> :54.000 months after that apology my mom and dad told  us they wanted us to be Elizabeth sister James   :54.000 --> :59.040 me and Michael brother they said since we were  kids and weren't in college yet and nobody had   :59.040 --> :03.840 their license at that that point it would be the  best time to do it all three of us said we didn't   :03.840 --> :08.920 want to change our first names my dad looked into  whether they could do it when we said no and all   :08.920 --> :14.720 answers he got pointed to a very strong no but  it was also unusual to change your older kids's   :14.720 --> :19.520 first name so they went ahead and tried anyway  but once we were asked if we wanted different   :19.520 --> :25.120 names they were told no my parents brought it up  a lot to us afterward my brother asked why they   :25.120 --> :29.920 wanted to name him Michael and said the name was  crappy they told him Michael was a Timeless name   :29.920 --> :35.240 that would age well and gave him some nickname  choices he said he hated it so they asked if   :35.240 --> :41.520 he would consider Charles instead which he said  was an even bigger no our parents focused really   :41.520 --> :46.280 hard on him for a while because he had asked the  question about the name so they figured he was   :46.280 --> :51.480 the most open so far none of us have agreed  to the name change I told my parents that I   :51.480 --> :55.400 know they regret the names but we're all used  to and like our names and don't want to go for   :55.400 --> :00.920 more boring or common names my parents argued that  in the future we will regret it and we'd have to   :00.920 --> :06.400 pay for it ourselves when we were adults and we  realized having weird names does not age well I   :06.400 --> :11.200 asked why they can't let us get there if we ever  do they said we should be thinking more of our   :11.200 --> :17.480 futures and they accused me of having a really bad  attitude because I said James was as bad to me as   :17.480 --> :23.960 Cove is to them now they told me to look online  and I did and I saw a lot of hate for our names   :23.960 --> :28.400 but I told them it still didn't change my mind  my parents said we should respect them enough   :28.400 --> :34.400 as parents to allow this and that we're all being  disrespectful am I the jerk so if you like your   :34.400 --> :39.360 name that's great they might regret it but if you  don't regret your name you don't want to change   :39.360 --> :45.520 your name then really I think this is dead in the  pun not intended water could people perceive these   :45.520 --> :54.320 names as being maybe slightly Gody or showy names  sure but at the same time Ocean Cove River while   :54.320 --> :59.800 that's definitely uncommon I wouldn't be like  wow that's a weird name personally I feel like   :59.800 --> :05.960 like I would think that's nice different there's  nothing wrong with those names also hi I'm Steven   :05.960 --> :10.840 and if you guys enjoy getting to decide whether  or not all of these people are jerks why not hit   :10.840 --> :16.040 those like And subscribe buttons down below that  said our next story is am I the jerk for bringing   :16.040 --> :20.440 a friend home and letting her sleep on the couch  when my mom was over and supposed to sleep on the   :20.440 --> :27.760 couch I 30-year-old female started college last  year during my second semester I met Phoebe 19 we   :27.760 --> :32.920 were taking two classes together and we clicked  immediately we have a lot of the same interests   :32.920 --> :38.320 and she's just a kind and smart girl Phoebe was  diagnosed with cancer over the summer she spent   :38.320 --> :43.800 a few months in the hospital and now goes for  outpatient chemo every couple weeks on Thursday   :43.800 --> :48.120 Phoebe called me and said her Grandpa was supposed  to drive her to chemo but he never showed up and   :48.120 --> :53.440 asked if I could take her after her chemo she  fell asleep in the car I decided to bring her   :53.440 --> :58.640 to my apartment to let her rest because she's one  of six kids at home and her house is loud not a   :58.640 --> :03.480 good place for recovering ing from Chemo when we  got to my apartment I woke her up brought her to   :03.480 --> :08.240 the couch and brought her some blankets she was  very appreciative of me letting her stay at my   :08.240 --> :14.040 apartment the thing is my mom was staying with  us and she was supposed to be sleeping on the   :14.040 --> :19.480 couch it totally slipped my mind when I brought  Phoebe home my mom got back and asked why Phoebe   :19.480 --> :24.680 was here when she saw her sleeping on the couch I  explained the situation and she said it was rude   :24.680 --> :30.120 of me to give up the couch without asking her  I called my husband explain the situation and   :30.120 --> :34.880 he picked up an air mattress and extra blankets  for my mom but she's still mad I gave away the   :34.880 --> :40.320 couch for the night I took Phoebe home Friday  afternoon my husband says he gets why I did   :40.320 --> :45.360 it but he gets why she is upset am I the jerk  for giving my friend the couch when my mom was   :45.360 --> :50.040 staying with us I think this is one of those  doomed if you do doomed if you don't moments   :50.040 --> :55.280 where your heart's in the right place but at least  as far as you personally feel you're never going   :55.280 --> :00.040 to come out of this feeling like a true winner  I think ultimately since you had promised your   :00.040 --> :05.800 mom that couch didn't tell her at all what was  going on and then left her with the air mattress   :05.800 --> :11.280 I guess you could ultimately say op is the jerk  but admittedly it does pain me to say that our   :11.280 --> :16.280 next story is am I the jerk for letting my baby  cry when she was hungry because we were stuck   :16.280 --> :21.560 in traffic my husband and I were on a recent road  trip with our two kids under two we drove through   :21.560 --> :26.840 a winter storm during the first few hours of our  drive on the second day the storm created icy   :26.840 --> :32.600 road conditions periods of poor visibility and  eventually an accident that led to us sitting   :32.600 --> :38.240 in stop and go traffic for quite some time my  husband has done a lot of driving in his life   :38.240 --> :44.560 but does make me nervous because he's a distracted  driver and uses his phone while driving this means   :44.560 --> :49.960 sometimes I see things up ahead before he does and  he hits the brakes harder or more suddenly than if   :49.960 --> :55.480 he hadn't been distracted while we were sitting in  traffic both kids started crying this is typical   :55.480 --> :59.960 for sitting in traffic they're happier in the  car while we're moving it was also about the   :59.960 --> :04.520 time that our four-month-old should be starting  to get hungry I started trying to distract or   :04.520 --> :08.840 entertain the kids to keep them happy my husband  mentioned a couple of times that I should just   :08.840 --> :13.920 take our youngest out of her car seat and feed her  we were only going a few miles per hour and stop   :13.920 --> :20.160 and go traffic on an icy Road surrounded by semi  trucks there was an exit coming up that would take   :20.160 --> :25.360 about 10 minutes to get to and I decided I would  wait until we could get off the freeway and pull   :25.360 --> :32.520 over by the time we got to the exit traffic had  started to pick up again we were going 40 mph and   :32.520 --> :38.320 our youngest wasn't crying anymore so my husband  kept driving a few minutes later we were in stop   :38.320 --> :44.840 and go again and she was crying again he ended up  angrily pulling over and feeding her himself at   :44.840 --> :49.520 that point he wouldn't let me and I was worried  if I was feeding her he'd keep driving again   :49.520 --> :55.880 anyway he maintains that I was being psycho and  neglectful for not wanting to get her out of her   :55.880 --> :02.240 car seat when we were driving as fast as I can  walk walk while she was clearly hungry I feel   :02.240 --> :08.160 that traffic can pick back up unexpectedly and  we were in conditions that didn't feel safe even   :08.160 --> :13.440 if we were going so slowly am I the jerk for not  getting my daughter out of her seat and stop and   :13.440 --> :20.320 go traffic to feed her when she was clearly hungry  my question is will the kids survive unharmed if   :20.320 --> :26.160 you don't feed them right then until you get back  home or at least to the next reasonable checkpoint   :26.160 --> :31.720 to pull over and feed the kid if so I think Opie's  pretty clearly not the jerk you don't want to be   :31.720 --> :37.080 handling your kid holding your baby feeding them  in conditions where things can go south really   :37.080 --> :42.800 quickly high speed or not I think the only issue  here is deciding to forego that stop even with   :42.800 --> :47.400 traffic picking back up probably should have  still just pulled off and fed the kid our next   :47.400 --> :53.680 story is am I the jerk for taking my kid's Nanny  on vacation and not my ex-wife the title may seem   :53.680 --> :59.440 like a given but it's not apparently about 9  months ago my current wife 40-year-old female   :59.440 --> :05.680 and I 43-year-old male hired a nanny I have seven  kids four from my previous marriage and three for   :05.680 --> :10.680 my current anytime we go on vacation I plan it  around when my other kids are going to be in our   :10.680 --> :16.920 custody so we can all go our Nanny comes with us  as well as was discussed when she was hired the   :16.920 --> :22.240 problem actually starts when my youngest from my  previous marriage 7-year-old female returned to   :22.240 --> :29.400 her mom's and apparently all she talked about was  the nanny my ex-wife accused me of abandoning our   :29.400 --> :35.080 kids onto our Nanny even though I don't they just  like hanging out with her yes she is paid extra   :35.080 --> :41.440 for the other kids every time my kids go back to  their moms she calls and texts me infuriated it   :41.440 --> :46.120 all came to a head when I discussed going on a  cruise with the kids my wife and the nanny over   :46.120 --> :51.520 the summer because I have custody of them the  entire summer my ex-wife called me calling me   :51.520 --> :57.960 selfish mean-spirited a horrible father Etc she  said I should have invited her instead of our   :57.960 --> :02.880 Nanny because she's their real mother and the  kids already like the nanny more than her what   :02.880 --> :08.840 will happen in 3 months and I never did things  like this when we were married even though I made   :08.840 --> :14.480 significantly less money back then even my parents  and some of my family are agreeing that taking our   :14.480 --> :21.640 Nanny and not the kid's mom is ridiculous so am  I the jerk should I have at least offered her to   :21.640 --> :25.800 go I mean I don't see an issue with you paying  for and having the nanny join you as long as   :25.800 --> :31.640 the Nanny wants to be there and I don't blame op  for not sticking their neck out to invite their   :31.640 --> :37.360 ex-wife on a holiday vacation her insecurity of  being outclassed by the Nanny shouldn't affect   :37.360 --> :42.400 anything going forward this next story is am I  the jerk for not attending my sister-in-law's   :42.400 --> :47.560 wedding because she is identically copying my  wedding I told my in-laws I'm not attending my   :47.560 --> :53.160 sister-in-law's wedding because she's decided to  copy my wedding my husband and I live in Michigan   :53.160 --> :58.760 USA 5 years ago we chose to have a destination  wedding in the Outer Banks North Carolina we   :58.760 --> :03.600 invited our closest friends and family for  a full week of fun to include the ceremony   :03.600 --> :09.640 we spent a year selecting the venue nationally  flying down meeting with vendors and selected   :09.640 --> :15.720 the perfect beach front to have the reception and  ceremony yesterday a text message was sent from   :15.720 --> :21.080 my sister-in-law who also lives in Michigan in a  group chat to the entire family announcing that   :21.080 --> :27.880 she was now having her own destination wedding in  the same state on the same beach at the same house   :27.880 --> :34.000 using the same vend ERS taking the same photos  and the same poses as my husband and I this was   :34.000 --> :38.840 not discussed with my husband and I ahead of time  my husband and I told his family that by copying   :38.840 --> :44.640 our wedding they are overriding our memories made  there and that it really bothers us we even found   :44.640 --> :50.000 another house for her to book but she refuses  to change her venue my heart is broken and today   :50.000 --> :54.840 we told them that we will not be attending my  father-in-law called me this afternoon and said   :54.840 --> :59.160 that his daughter has the right to choose where  she wants to get married and that copying another   :59.160 --> :05.360 person's wedding was a compliment and no big deal  I need to know am I the jerk personally I can't   :05.360 --> :10.680 blame op I mean I feel like they would be kind  of jerks if they're outwardly like complaining   :10.680 --> :17.200 and ragging on it but for them personally I can  understand not wanting to show up because if all   :17.200 --> :23.280 of these experiences are darn near identical to  what you experienced you don't want to go to this   :23.280 --> :28.640 place and see all these things and have those kind  of take over and replace the memories you had of   :28.640 --> :34.720 your wedding I think ultimately if you don't  want to go don't go but lashing out and making   :34.720 --> :40.360 a big deal about this supposed copycat 5 years  after your wedding is most likely going to make   :40.360 --> :46.680 you the jerk our next story is am I the jerk for  telling a doctor I don't need their consult I was   :46.680 --> :52.440 born with a cleft lip and had extensive surgeries  to correct it now it's significantly less visible   :52.440 --> :57.080 and the result was told to be impressive on  the unrelated note I also have a wax issue   :57.080 --> :03.200 with my ears so I have to see an ENT specialist  doctor from time to time to get the wax removed   :03.200 --> :08.480 it happened to me before to have doctors which  are supposed to just remove my wax to Marvel at   :08.480 --> :14.560 my cleft lip and the whole work done around it  for me it's weird because one I don't consider   :14.560 --> :21.360 it that groundbreaking and two they're doctors  shouldn't they be more used to that however I   :21.360 --> :27.560 usually don't say much about it anyway Q Dr Jane  who was supposed to remove my wax for the day I   :27.560 --> :32.600 scheduled an appointment specific specifically  for that she does it and then proceeds to ask me   :32.600 --> :38.840 to open my mouth although I told her the issue  is with my ears I comply foolishly imagining   :38.840 --> :44.120 it's going to be relevant to my problem but she  begins talking about my cleft lip and how great   :44.120 --> :49.400 the result is and wants to examine my nose  at which point I stop her I tell her there's   :49.400 --> :53.440 nothing wrong with my nose and ask her if she  suspects there might be an infection spreading   :53.440 --> :59.200 to my ears or something she says something like  no I just wanted to have a look and see more about   :59.200 --> :05.120 your cleft lip I stop her again literally pushing  her hands away and keep asking if she's done with   :05.120 --> :11.960 my ears she says yes and keeps trying to see the  work for my cleft lip I told her to quit it that   :11.960 --> :17.160 I'm not some sort of museum piece that she gets  to look at from all sides and that for my cleft   :17.160 --> :22.080 lip problems I see other doctors meanwhile I  got up from the chair and started to get my   :22.080 --> :27.440 stuff to leave she said there's no need to react  like that and all she did was try to help me I   :27.440 --> :32.040 explained all the help I needed from her was  with my ears and if I need more I'll let her   :32.040 --> :36.800 know by then I was already dressed with a hand  on the door handle she kept telling me this is   :36.800 --> :42.680 no way of Behaving and I'm disrespectful to her I  almost snapped but told her as calmly as I could   :42.680 --> :48.760 that for me this is not an interesting case but  a lifelong condition and I'm not fond of people   :48.760 --> :54.520 pointing fingers at it I explained to her that I  find it unprofessional and rude I then just left   :54.520 --> :00.720 to avoid further conflict was I wrong clearly  this doctor did not understand just how much   :00.720 --> :06.000 this must have happened to op ultimately when it  gets to this point where op showing discomfort   :06.000 --> :11.720 does not want that privacy invaded this doctor  should have been professional and especially a   :11.720 --> :16.440 lot of that bedside men or training that they're  supposed to have should know to quit it and cut   :16.440 --> :22.000 their losses as far as investigating op's cleft  lip I get it's interesting and the doctor wanted   :22.000 --> :27.840 to see it but op is not a toy I would honestly say  that kind of behavior is worthy of a complaint I   :27.840 --> :33.280 just wish there would be a way to make that doctor  understand what they did wrong our next story is   :33.280 --> :38.680 am I the jerk for not continuing my reception  after my husband went behind my back my now   :38.680 --> :44.960 husband Lucas 26 and I female 25 were getting  married we decided to tie the knot as we were   :44.960 --> :50.280 having a little girl together and are madly in  love so leading up to the wedding day Lucas told   :50.280 --> :55.200 me that his best man Jacob wanted to propose to  his girlfriend as it would be a great time and   :55.200 --> :00.240 is a nice venue to do it at I said that I didn't  want him to propose it at our wedding as it's our   :00.240 --> :05.640 special moment not theirs and that they can just  do it sometime else Lucas told me that his friend   :05.640 --> :10.760 was mad that I didn't agree I just wanted the  wedding to be about us because it was our special   :10.760 --> :16.400 day after that disagreement I thought nothing of  it fast forward to my wedding day we had finished   :16.400 --> :21.920 the church service and now we're at the reception  we're all having fun eating I'm eating my food and   :21.920 --> :27.640 then Jacob stops the music at the DJ booth to make  an announcement I just knew from that moment he   :27.640 --> :33.600 was going to propose I looked to see where Lucas  was and he was holding red and white roses walking   :33.600 --> :40.240 out to stand in front of Chloe Jacob's girlfriend  spelling out will you marry me I was shocked that   :40.240 --> :46.320 they went behind my back when I said no I got up  out of my seat and walked out it's been 2 days   :46.320 --> :51.640 since the wedding and my husband cursed me out for  not letting them have a special moment I responded   :51.640 --> :58.040 with I wanted the day to be about us because it's  our wedding not theirs and I'm happy for them but   :58.040 --> :03.720 the worst thing was even though I said no you  went behind my back about it since that argument   :03.720 --> :09.080 he moved to the guest bedroom and now most of  my friends are cursing me out on all my socials   :09.080 --> :14.680 am I the jerk I don't think op's the jerk but I  think honestly walking out was more passive than   :14.680 --> :19.560 I'd like to have seen I think I would have liked  to have seen op speak up during the proposal and   :19.560 --> :24.080 yell out that you told them not to do this during  your wedding I think that would have established   :24.080 --> :29.000 pretty clearly what the heck was going on your own  husband going behind your back here I understand   :29.000 --> :34.320 why op walked out our next story is am I the  jerk for telling my family their comments about   :34.320 --> :40.600 my son's name are not making me regret the name  but instead making me regret them my husband and   :40.600 --> :46.200 I welcomed our son into the world in November we  chose the name Reed for him after some searching   :46.200 --> :51.480 neither of us got our first choice but we love the  name and it fits our son beautifully we believe I   :51.480 --> :56.560 knew my son's name was a bit of a standout among  my family they like to reuse the same names that   :56.560 --> :01.880 are popular and always seem to float pretty high  in naming charts for boys the top three in our   :01.880 --> :08.880 family are James Benjamin and William but Reed  isn't a weird or unheard of name my family were   :08.880 --> :13.520 all very quiet when we announced the name and  almost immediately they start dropping comments   :13.520 --> :19.360 about people making weird naming choices for their  children which never directly mentioned my husband   :19.360 --> :23.840 and me but we both felt it was aimed at us then  they commented a few times how there was nothing   :23.840 --> :30.600 wrong with good solid classic names that everyone  knows and loves and reuses but then they started   :30.600 --> :37.480 to say Reed was an odd choice or that they had  no idea where we found such a name even though   :37.480 --> :43.240 it's in the top 400 choices my parents accused  me of trying to be trendy and not thinking about   :43.240 --> :48.200 my son's future I decided to confront my family  without my husband present because I felt like it   :48.200 --> :53.160 wasn't fair to drag him into it more I asked them  what their problem was and why they were being so   :53.160 --> :59.400 mean about the name they told me that they hated  Reed and that they felt it was a very unattractive   :59.400 --> :03.800 name and we didn't think it through at all they  told me we should have reconsidered and given   :03.800 --> :10.440 him a real name not something trendy that came  up in the last 20 to 30 years they said we had   :10.440 --> :16.080 so many beautiful names to choose from and we made  a horrible decision then they said they had tried   :16.080 --> :20.920 to gently show us the light but we ignored their  efforts I told them if their comments about my   :20.920 --> :26.320 son's name were supposed to make me regret the  choice then they failed because all it did was   :26.320 --> :32.800 make me regret them because they were being rude  and hurtful my family did not take my comment well   :32.800 --> :38.320 and told me I was being rude and I was behaving  like a child who can't accept the truth am I the   :38.320 --> :44.440 jerk is Reed even that weird of a name I can't  recall if I know a reed personally but like if   :44.440 --> :49.480 I came across anybody with the name Reed I'm  definitely not going to go wow what a bizarre   :49.480 --> :54.920 name I'm sorry for them I'm not sitting there  hearing Reed and thinking oh their Future's done   :54.920 --> :00.200 for now if you named your kid like Jackhammer  or some something maybe I could understand our   :00.200 --> :05.240 next story is am I the jerk for telling my mom  no one asked you to have another kid I'll give   :05.240 --> :10.960 background to who I am I'm 16-year-old male with  two parents 38-year-old female and 40-year-old   :10.960 --> :18.400 male three younger sisters 14 1 2 and one doe in  March I'm in High School junior year doing well   :18.400 --> :25.040 passing my classes with mostly A's making honor  rooll every year and a good kid in high school I   :25.040 --> :30.560 wouldn't consider myself a lazy person either as  I work Out 3 to five times a week wrestle during   :30.560 --> :35.640 the winter and clean the house two to five times  a week I don't normally socialize often outside   :35.640 --> :40.960 of school as I don't feel motivated to do so so  then I just stay inside and either play my game   :40.960 --> :47.360 read study a language or pray 3 years ago my mom  and dad both worked my mom used to work around   :47.360 --> :53.800 50 to 80 hours a week to catch up on bills often  times she would come home tired and would sleep   :53.800 --> :59.480 during the day while my dad worked around 40 to  50ish hours and would be tired too often times   :59.480 --> :05.360 my mom would complain about no one doing anything  around the house and calls me and my sister lazy   :05.360 --> :10.160 I usually don't say anything to those complaints  but sometimes I get irritated and say I actually   :10.160 --> :15.200 clean around the house and that you only sleep  so of course you wouldn't pay attention moving   :15.200 --> :19.800 forward a year or so when my mom announced she  was pregnant I was kind of irritated because   :19.800 --> :25.720 she would always complain about bills and how she  needed to catch up on them I proceeded to say how   :25.720 --> :31.040 are you going to say you need to catch up on bills  but then have another child I can't remember what   :31.040 --> :36.560 she told me but a month or two later the reason  she wanted to have another kid was because I love   :36.560 --> :41.560 being a mother in my head at the time I kind  of seen it as selfish as she didn't want to be   :41.560 --> :48.480 alone somewhere in June or July 20123 my mom was  pregnant but then had a miscarriage 5 Weeks Later   :48.480 --> :53.840 2 weeks later she gets pregnant again with a girl  I wanted to work over the summer and be a little   :53.840 --> :00.160 bit more independent as I'm only a few years from  being a legal adult so I ask my mom can I work   :00.160 --> :06.160 she says yes but she needs to get money for an ID  the next thing you know she never gives me my ID   :06.160 --> :11.920 to work my mom complains that I go out a lot and  give my attention to my girlfriend instead of my   :11.920 --> :18.760 baby sister or the things around the house seeing  I half butt things around here many times I don't   :18.760 --> :23.920 have a problem with playing with or watching my  sister but at times my mom makes it seem like I'm   :23.920 --> :30.440 obligated to watch my sister anytime she's tired  from work or sees she's struggling and that she   :30.440 --> :37.040 once again says she pays for everything and all I  do is ask for items just because I clean the house   :37.040 --> :44.080 like I'm supposed to do which I feel as isn't true  as I hardly ask for wants one comment she said was   :44.080 --> :49.040 can I walk to school mind you it's the winter  and when I wanted to walk to school she said it   :49.040 --> :54.560 wasn't safe to do so and she won't be paying my  phone bill anymore as it's her money and have my   :54.560 --> :00.000 girlfriend pay for it instead I made the comment  when I wanted to work you said no because I'm not   :00.000 --> :05.120 ready then started yelling at me telling me to  go to my room while slamming the doors there's   :05.120 --> :10.720 definitely some weird controlling Behavior going  on here it honestly sounds to me like she doesn't   :10.720 --> :15.800 want you to become too independent because she  wants to be able to still kind of use you for   :15.800 --> :20.720 whatever she wants to do she's honestly trying  to have it both ways where she's complaining that   :20.720 --> :25.920 you're not working hard enough you're not being  independent enough for specifically the things she   :25.920 --> :31.880 wants you to be independent for but then anything  that you want to do or however you want to further   :31.880 --> :37.920 your life she's not there for any of that our next  story is am I the jerk for telling my boyfriend he   :37.920 --> :44.040 deserved to get humbled I 18-year-old female and  my boyfriend 19-year-old male have been dating   :44.040 --> :51.000 since we started college in October 2021 for the  past I'd say 8 months my boyfriend has become very   :51.000 --> :57.480 interested in UFC MMA I don't know what to call  it he gets up at like 3:00 a.m. to watch fights   :57.480 --> :02.560 and often has play fights with his friends one of  these friends are important in this situation I'll   :02.560 --> :08.560 call him s we had a very large group of friends we  all graduated in summer but we all kept in touch   :08.560 --> :15.280 over summer until now now these play fights or  spars as my boyfriend would say were all fun in   :15.280 --> :20.480 games but they actually led to my boyfriend  believing he could actually fight because s   :20.480 --> :26.600 who says he does MMA said he's naturally good this  led to a massive ego and he said that he wanted to   :26.600 --> :31.920 have an actual fight and one of our other friends  dad owned a gym with a ring and he said he could   :31.920 --> :37.400 let him fight there I don't know if that was even  legal s proposed a guy for him to fight and it was   :37.400 --> :43.600 a guy back from school I'll call a s was friends  with a not close friends and I knew a because we   :43.600 --> :49.880 used to sit next to each other in class s said  he'll try to get a hold of him a agreed shockingly   :49.880 --> :55.440 when a agreed I did express some concern to my  boyfriend multiple times and he didn't listen   :55.440 --> :01.160 a was a quiet guy but as we sat next next to each  other for a year I knew probably more than others   :01.160 --> :06.600 about him he was pretty much just one of those  traditional masculine males in a physical sense   :06.600 --> :12.200 worked out 6 days a week rode horses and did  archery owned large dogs but was one of those   :12.200 --> :17.480 guys that looked intimidating but was actually a  nerdy and friendly guy my boyfriend didn't like   :17.480 --> :22.680 a or A's friends and neither did the rest of the  boys in our friend group I always questioned my   :22.680 --> :28.520 boyfriend on this as a had literally never even  spoken to him and my boyf friend used to say   :28.520 --> :34.000 it's because a is so arrogant and thinks he's so  goodlooking this led to a lot of arguments with   :34.000 --> :39.120 my boyfriend because why did my boyfriend care  if other women were attracted to a when he had   :39.120 --> :44.240 me nobody knew if a could fight but as said he  told him something about he had been training   :44.240 --> :50.680 in some form of martial arts the whole buildup to  this was my boyfriend was acting so childish he'd   :50.680 --> :56.600 constantly try to insult a in a group chat that  was made and a wouldn't even open them 90% of the   :56.600 --> :02.120 time and I don't think he responded once when the  fight came along there was only one outcome from   :02.120 --> :09.760 the start a was visibly towering over my boyfriend  and he had clearly bulked up on top of that turned   :09.760 --> :16.320 out he could fight my boyfriend lost and I'd say  90 seconds after it I didn't bother consoling   :16.320 --> :21.880 him I bered him because I expressed my concern  multiple times and he picked not to listen to me   :21.880 --> :27.720 he said I'm the jerk because I should support him  unconditionally if I really loved him he now won't   :27.720 --> :32.080 speak to me because he says I embarrassed him  in front of his friends while he was vulnerable   :32.080 --> :36.760 part of me feels bad but I feel like he needed  to hear the truth I don't think op's the jerk   :36.760 --> :42.400 here but considering the boyfriend's beliefs and  their standpoint in view on this situation I wish   :42.400 --> :48.200 op the best for their relationship going forward  if anything happens maybe you should check if A's   :48.200 --> :53.880 available our next story is am I the jerk for  not agreeing to my mom's husband adopting me so   :53.880 --> :01.240 my brother will agree my brother 13-year-old male  and I 16-year-old male lost our dad 10 years ago   :01.240 --> :06.840 mom got married to Jared 6 years ago and after  like a year my mom asked us if we would be okay   :06.840 --> :13.120 with Jared adopting us and maybe changing your  last names to his or adding his as a hyphenated   :13.120 --> :19.040 last name I said no and my brother followed my  mom decided we should discuss it some more in   :19.040 --> :24.840 Family Therapy and we went for a few months then  we had no therapy when stuff closed down and then   :24.840 --> :30.160 we returned when an office therapy was back on  the table throughout the stay- in place order my   :30.160 --> :35.880 mom would ask us about our feelings and if we were  more open to the idea recently my mom decided to   :35.880 --> :42.280 try the divide and conquer way since the therapist  mentioned that my brother said no because I was   :42.280 --> :48.720 she tried talking to my brother and he was adamant  he would say no as long as I'm saying no Mom then   :48.720 --> :54.640 sat me down and asked me why I was saying no she  told me she had a few she told me she had a few   :54.640 --> :00.320 very practical reasons to want the adoption to  happen happen including protection for us if she   :00.320 --> :05.160 were to die so we could stay with her husband I  asked her if that was because she knew I would   :05.160 --> :10.360 want my extended family to fight for custody and  to live with them but because she doesn't like   :10.360 --> :16.200 them she wouldn't want that and knew my decision  would carry some weight unless I was adopted first   :16.200 --> :21.800 she denied it initially but then said yes then  asked me why I was against the adoption I told   :21.800 --> :26.840 her I didn't want another legal dad and didn't  want the protection being adopted would offer she   :26.840 --> :32.120 then told me about my brother saying no because  I'm saying no and she wanted me to agree so he   :32.120 --> :38.160 would change his mind I told her that won't happen  and nothing she says will change my mind she asked   :38.160 --> :43.800 me to at least encourage him to be adopted and  I told her I would not I did speak to my brother   :43.800 --> :49.000 anyway and he said he doesn't want to do it if I'm  not and it would feel weird to him to be adopted   :49.000 --> :54.840 by Jared when I'm not he doesn't remember our dad  so the attachment isn't a reason for him like it   :54.840 --> :00.240 is for me I told him I wouldn't be mad at him if  he said yeah he said he knew that but still mom   :00.240 --> :05.320 and Jared sat me down and asked me again to say  yes so he could adopt my brother and once again   :05.320 --> :11.240 I said no Mom started to cry and she got really  angry with me Jared said I was at the age where   :11.240 --> :17.040 I could be mature and compromise on this he told  me I might not love him but surely I don't hate   :17.040 --> :23.560 him so much that I would rather end up in foster  care than in his care if mom died he also said I'm   :23.560 --> :28.560 putting my brother at risk am I the jerk I don't  think Opie's the jerk care if they don't want to   :28.560 --> :33.080 be adopted they don't want to be adopted and if  the brother because the other kid doesn't want to   :33.080 --> :37.440 be adopted doesn't want to be adopted that's kind  of their choice and the courts are not going to   :37.440 --> :43.080 force that the parents are just going to have to  move past that our next story is am I the jerk for   :43.080 --> :48.720 telling my sons that we would have only one child  if my daughter were the first born I 39-year-old   :48.720 --> :57.680 female have three kids with my husband 46 our two  boys 13 12 and our girl 10 before we became became   :57.680 --> :03.720 parents my husband and I were oneandone meaning we  only wanted one child and we wanted a girl and if   :03.720 --> :09.800 our first child would have been a girl she would  very likely have been an only child however I am   :09.800 --> :15.760 beyond thankful that we had to try three times I  love my boys and wouldn't trade them for anything   :15.760 --> :21.080 in the world but the truth is that we only tried  three times because the first one and the second   :21.080 --> :27.160 one weren't girls yesterday my boys were picking  on their little sister normally they adore her   :27.160 --> :32.720 but yesterday they would not stop making fun of  her they said something like we should put her up   :32.720 --> :38.200 for adoption because she's the last one they were  obviously joking but it upset their sister to the   :38.200 --> :44.720 point where she had tears in her eyes I told them  to knock it off again and again but they continued   :44.720 --> :49.320 in the end I said that they should be thankful  that their sister is the youngest one because I   :49.320 --> :55.720 only wanted a girl and they wouldn't be there if I  had my daughter first they looked at me in horror   :55.720 --> :01.520 my oldest one asked me if this is really true and  I said yes I know it was harsh and hurtful but   :01.520 --> :07.360 they were bullies my younger son started to sob  and the older called me a witch then they ran to   :07.360 --> :14.160 their room when I told my husband what happened he  called me an absolute jerk and nut job for telling   :14.160 --> :19.840 our sons the truth when I begged him to help me  Comfort them he told me to freak off and now he   :19.840 --> :26.120 and my boys are not talking to me and the boys  are ignoring their sister am I the jerk so even if   :26.120 --> :31.120 this were the case even if you did have a daughter  first and that would have been it that's the kind   :31.120 --> :36.320 of thing that you take to your grave that is not  something that you need to put a lifelong trauma   :36.320 --> :41.760 knowing that they were looked over or desired less  because they weren't a daughter 13 years old and   :41.760 --> :47.240 younger there's still very much kids they're just  being bullies the way sometimes siblings do you   :47.240 --> :53.080 don't give them a possible lifelong mental trauma  note just to try to get back at them but with that   :53.080 --> :58.920 being said that's all the time we have for today  now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy   :58.920 --> :04.160 am I the jerk here story check out that video on  the left or if you missed my latest video check   :04.160 --> :09.040 out that video on the right that said I'll  see you all next time with some more stories
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aita for prohibiting my family from ever having anything to do with my father after my mom passed away I never thought I would make a Reddit account and post my life on it but here I am at 2 a.m. was abused by my father you name it he did it I have several scars on my body due to his abuse I'm practically a walking art gallery of my father's work my mother was a saint on the other hand I don't know why she never left but I imagine it was for me she was a victim of my father as well but for some reason stayed with him I moved out at 18 and lived a nomad life in my VW bus working on jobs to put food on the table until I met my now wife 30f she was a lot more established in life thanks to her parents financial support I moved in with her and it did not take long before we had kids 9M and 10f I remained in contact with my parents I did not disappear out of their life mostly because of my mom I haven't told my wife or my kids about my father and the kind of man he was I just never wanted to bring that up it was not their business either way my mom was extremely happy to meet her grandkids so was my father do you know those memes where the parent acts completely different than what you know them for yeah imagine that he was a completely different person it disgusted me but I could not take the joy of being a grandma for my mom I swallowed my feelings and allowed my kids to develop a relationship with my parents they grew attached to them and we often took them to go see them every weekend my mom always made their favorite food and spoiled them my father also enjoyed spending time with my kids kids as much as I hated it I kept my feelings buried my wife loved them and also had a good relationship with them she would often invite them over for dinner and for whatever celebration we had going on two months ago my mom passed away from a heart attack as you can imagine I was devastated when the funeral was held everyone was crying including my father seeing him cry made me angry I felt so disgusted when my mom got buried and everyone left it was my father and I who were the last ones left I told my family that we needed a moment and that I would meet them later I told my father that I didn't want him in my life or my family's life anymore I let out all the anger and disgust I felt seeing him with my children the final thing I told him was that he would die alone because neither I nor my family would be around I do not Reg it I wanted that part of my life cut out for the longest time I told my wife when I got home to never bring my father up to me or the kids that he was as good as dead she asks what about the kids that they loved him and that he had grown on them that I couldn't do that to them that it was my father and I couldn't just leave him because I was all the family he had left she tried to argue and go against my decision but I told her that I did not care about how they felt about it that it was Final I told my kids as well they started balling their eyes out and doing their best to curse at me my wife is angry at me and feels it is unfair because it is not only my relationship I'm cutting I haven't allowed my wife to call text mention or even take my kids to go see him she has tried and I have put a halt to it and reminded her that I was not kidding that my father is dead to me and that to quit trying to be involved with him she and the kids have made numerous Jabs at me throughout the past few days and my wife feels that I'm being a huge and unfair that I was not taking my kids or her feelings into consideration my kids have been really upset and haven't really spoken to me since and my wife is giving me the silent treatment a Ita
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op1 19f woke up with Seaman on her face and her mom 45f won't believe her yesterday morning I woke up to seaman all over my face and pillow I didn't know what to do but I just went to the shower and cried for 2 hours then washed all my sheets and pillows I'm not sure if that was a mistake or not since if I didn't wash them I might have proof but in the moment I just wanted to be clean around the end of the day I broke down and confided in my mom she helped me calm down and was patient about it but suggested I probably just dreamed it or mistook what it was I tried telling her that I didn't dream it and that it was definitely what I thought it was but she just told me to go rest try and forget about it all I feel like I'm going crazy and I'm on edge around all the men in the house now I'm not sure who it could be and that is making me feel unsafe around all the men right now the men in the house are my dad 50m my brother's 22m 24m and 27m and my sister's boyfriend but I know it's not him as he is FTM I'm scared in my own home home and my mom won't believe me but I have nowhere else to go all my friends have moved or are on vacation and any other family members live out of state is there a way to convince my mom I'm telling the truth edit my sister is home from work now the situation is worse than I thought I talked with my sister she is with me now and will stay with me in my room till we can both get out of the house tonight we will go stay with her boyfriend for the time being she told me something nearly identical happened to her about a month ago and told our mom and she told her the same thing that she did to me I don't trust our mom anymore I feel violated and angry my sister didn't even come to me because Mom gasted her just like she did me I want to just scream at her I won't be replying for a while sorry me and my sister are packing and want to just comfort each other and get out of the house as soon as possible thank you everyone for the advice some comments if you can't get them to give you a lock I would go ahead and purchase some door stoppers Amazon has some incl including ones that have a sound for an alarm if anyone tries to enter while you are sleeping I saw one for like $7 I just searched on Amazon for door stopper alarm stay safe link op replies that sounds good I didn't know something like that existed how loud can they get I take some heavy sleeping medications for insomnia that really knock me out so I would probably need a decently loud one she gets further advice this is extremely relevant to your post sleep medications that Knock You Out op you are going to want a hidden camera to have evidence next time since you likely won't be safe with a lock make sure you have the camera at an angle where it's clear someone did something to you not just looking at their back make sure the video footage cannot be accessed and deleted without a passcode since a fingerprint biometric is easy to access I don't know much about the Dynamics in your house but if you could conceivably believe one of your family members put semen on your face I'm guessing it's not safe and it hasn't been for a long time your parents not allowing you to put a lot lock on your door is a sign there are issues with boundaries in this household sadly it is very common for parents to excuse downplay and ignore abuse within families a normal response would be shock concern and horror your mom telling you it was just a dream is textbook gaslighting I'm sorry she isn't protecting you being ejaculated on in your sleep is saay it's completely unacceptable it's a criminal offense is there any way you can leave that house and find a safer living Arrangement you deserve live in a safe home with Safe People op replies there's no one I can stay with but I am looking at women's shelters in my area and might see if I can stay at one if possible I'm so sorry that this happened to you and that your mom doesn't believe you it's not right and it's not fair can you tell someone at school teacher or counselor you trust grandparent or other family even if out of state I would get on a plane immediately if my niece told me this happened to her and that her mom didn't believe her can you tell your sister or her boyfriend can one of them stay in your room at night until you get a better plan in place op replies I will try to talk to my sister and her boyfriend when she comes home from work they are the only people I feel I can trust right now it might be good for me to ask if they could sleep in the room with me until I can get some cameras there's not much family I can tell the person I would trust to tell would be my grandma unfortunately she passed last year all my other relatives I don't know well as they are out of state and I don't see them often without Pro there's no way to convince your mom of anything you could bring it up at the dinner table though so which one of you losers came all over my pillow last night see who looks guilty seriously though put a good lock on your door op replies I've been asking for a lock since I was 13 my parents refuse and bringing it up at the dinner table would be too difficult for me I only told my mom because I trusted her but she wouldn't trust me someone suggests op actually believes her but dismisses it is it possible your mom knows this is true and is deliberating brushing it aside op replies I don't know what to think anymore I didn't think any of my family was capable of something this disgusting so I'm not sure anymore update post on our relationship advice me and my sister stayed with her boyfriend for a few days then decided to take some advice from here and tell the family what happened we told everyone through a group text that we didn't want to do it in person since there was just too much anxiety without going into exact details me and my sister are now back in our home after some things went down mom has been kicked out and she is currently in the hospital dad and our other brothers have been a big help and support unfortunately dad now has a court date but we have been told by lawyers that it is unlikely our dad will face any time so that's good as for our 27-year-old brother it's unlikely the police will do anything about him but we have him out of our Lives now and we feel a lot safer in our own home I'm just glad it's over that me and my sister are protected in this house now and that our dad and other brothers Believe in Us thank you all for your support some comments I am glad that you and your sister are safe did your mom try to downplay or even dismiss the seriousness of the brother's actions after they were revealed and that's why she was kicked out link o elaborates on what her mom knew and the aftermath from what I know Mom was aware it was him from what I have learned in the past couple days he did something similar to a cousin years ago dad wanted him out but Mom stuck up for him and promised to get him into therapy I guess I know why my dad and brother didn't get along so when we texted that group text dad knew immediately and got a bit violent kicked mom out and put 27m in the hospital given the circumstances this was a good update did you guys end up finding proof that 27m was the PA if so I'm glad your dad sorted him out and that he's now out of the family doing that to a younger sibling is disgusting so did your mom know and cover it up or was she just a bad parent in either case she failed her Duty as a parent and let you down op replies there is no solid proof mom knew it was him someone hopes for a divorce that's abhorent given your Dad's reaction I hope heun on the war path and divorces her if she knew this likely wasn't the first time he'd done something like this op confirms yeah dad is getting everything sorted out for a divorce I won't be seeing her again either and I hope I never do I'm glad my brother is in the hospital but I just hope dad doesn't get into too much trouble for it another comment so I guess the reason he's in the hospital is because your dad kicked his ARS good op's response yeah from what I heard from my brothers they went nuts on him and probably would have killed him if my brothers hadn't stepped in after the initial ARS beating honestly when hearing that Dad was close to killing him all I could think was good I am heartbroken for you and yours nobody should go through something like this and it's a special kind of crazy when the guilty parties are people you're supposed to be able to trust yes I said parties plural because your mother knew and failed to protect you and others just in case you don't know this nothing about this is your fault you didn't do anything to create this horrific situation and you bear no responsibility for the Fallout you and your sister are complete Innocents in this sht show you had a right to be safe in your home and a right to speak up when that safety was shattered you have an absolute right to permanently remove from your life the people responsible for what was done to you don't listen to anyone who tries to talk to you about how you should forgive or Let It Go or tries to minimize the seriousness of the crime committed against you you are in the right and you are blameless I hope you heal well if he has a phone still in the house get it most of these idiots record themselves doing this and upload it to adultery sites if you can find his phone there may be evidence of it since you have a lawyer let him have it if you get into it yourself it may cause issues or just ask your lawyer first what he recommends if you find it if he has it in his possession ask your lawyer to get a subpoena for it even if he did record it but deleted it computer forensics can recover it I'm a retired police officer and have seen this too many times I'm glad you are safe and that your dad is like me I would do anything to protect my daughter if I had answered the call I wouldn't have arrested your dad thank you for 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AIT ta for showing my girlfriend pictures of my attractive ex-girlfriend after she called All of My Ex's ugly and said I was lucky to be with her some history here let's call my girlfriend Rachel Rachel and I first met in college we had the same major lived in the same dorm we used to hang out all the time and though we weren't a couple everything was going that way we would cuddle together eats meals together everything changed though once she started going out to frat parties I remember one night our dorm group going out guys and girls and we walked to the Frat houses and the frat brothers at the door told us the girls could come in but no allow after that night Rachel lost interest in me and started pursuing frat guys at the time I was hurt but I wasn't shocked this happened I still went on dated other people and lived my life and had a good college experience we then didn't talk in person till we were both 30 3 months ago I posted a story of food and Rachel asked me out over Instagram we started dating and throughout our relationship Rachel has been the one to pursue me more she was the one that asked to be exclusive is asking me to post her on my Instagram I say this because despite that she has tried to frame the relationship is that I am the super lucky guy that got
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I cheated years ago and it haunts me every day I 38f cheated on my husband 39m 10 years ago and I can't let it go it haunts me every day my husband and I were trying to conceive for 5 years I became really depressed and blamed myself for not being able to have a child neither of us ever saw a doctor but I just knew this was me I confided in a colleague who would always tell me it would happen for us and to take the pressure off and just to have sex because we wanted sex and not make it a job weeks of talking with this guy went by and we went for a walk after work on a day I had gotten a negative test and he kissed me I didn't stop it and it felt good there was passion behind his kiss and something I didn't allow myself to feel anymore that was that just the one kiss and our friendship became awkward and I became distant one day he called and asked if I could give him a ride home because he didn't have enough money for an Uber he sent me his location and I picked him up from a bar that was not that far from where he said he lived when he got in my car he told me that when he kissed me he knew he cared for me as more than friends and could not go on just being my friend and needed me to know that would be the last time he talked to me he kissed me when we got to his apartment and we didn't stop we went inside and hooked up it happened just the one time and I cut all ties with him the following day neither ever spoke of it and both went on with our Li the guilt is eating me alive and I know this is unforgivable my husband and I now have two beautiful boys and we're so happy how do I go on how do people feel okay with doing this and having no remorse if I ever told him it would crush him and I know he'd leave I know this because if I were I would never be able
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what life Pro tip have you learned from Reddit that you still use every time the situation presents itself Story one when you're trying to resolve an issue or someone else made an error put the focus on the error and not the person an example of this that I use almost every day at work someone sends me an email without the attachment instead of saying you didn't send the attachment I say the attachment didn't come through please try sending it again it doesn't seem like a huge deal but people are more likely to become defensive or hostile when you blame them even if it was their fault it has saved me a lot of headaches at work Google has a version of this that takes it a little further namely that if something goes wrong it's always a problem with a system not a person I think it's contributed a lot to their success Dave pushes a change that breaks the build don't Point your finger at Dave figure out where the system allows bad changes to get pushed in the first place add some more testing to the process so that no one can ever push a bad change again story two it's only been used once but when you're caught in a Riptide Swim parallel to the shore not directly forwards in order to escape about a week ago my brother and I were out in the ocean and a wave crashed over us my hair was plastered to my face and I couldn't see in the time that I took to get the hair out of my eyes we realized we had been pushed out and couldn't touch the ground at all you're getting further and further from Shore we were struggling for about 20 minutes against the current until he remembered that life Pro tip and we both swam sideways like crazy my cousin had locally alerted her uncle and he was able to get us back in once we could touch the ground again thanks Reddit wow it's amazing how a simple tip can make so much difference in tough situations like that thanks to this dude for reminding us about it it will definitely save lives forever you go Story three a redditor once remarked on how he realized how much you didn't know about a topic he was really passionate about he then said something along the lines of reserving our judgment for things we know very little about like stuff that's covered in the news Etc you see people are skeptical with what they've mastered but believe things that they only have Layman's understanding of without any skepticism the most common example is reading a newspaper and let's say you work in construction there's a long article about a highway construction near you being delayed and listing reasons why it was delayed blaming X Y and Z Etc you roll your eyes reading this as it's clear that the author knows nothing about the industry you work in and you brush off the article as being dumb and bad then you turn the page and it's talking about some conflict in some health care clinics and you take the whole article at face value and believe it as a fact and frame opinions around the single somewhat ambiguous source of information thing is nobody knows everything there are people who think they do and those who pretend they do and those who actually know quite a bit tend to not say anything because they know there are still things they don't yet know I've taken that advice to heart and become less judgmental about things I don't know very much about it's made me less angry less depressed and less skeptical about the world in general story for a father worked in Human Resources his whole career his advice to me was never put a person in a position where they have to defend themselves even when you know they're wrong it only makes them your adversary instead ask what happened to her how can I help make your job better now that I'm in a career where I have authority over dozens of employees I'm so grateful for this wisdom the other great pearl of wisdom he gave me was be silent ask the question you need to ask they'll tell you the answer they prepared stay silent they'll accidentally tell you the truth I don't know about you guys but if I was the employee of that dude I would probably feel creeped out come on I didn't join the company to win a staring match competition plus I would feel like I'm being judged this psychology mumbo-jumbo of HR people is just out of this world five the best advice I got about public speaking actually came from my college course on it but the Prof didn't use the book obviously know your subject well enough to be able to have a conversation about it then just speak on the subject with an ID on the points of interest you want to touch on it helps so much with the stress and you're better able to adapt to time constraints that might change I've also found that actually having conversations about your subject matter helps as well and can give you an idea of what will actually interest others about it story six I had writer's block for the longest time what got me out of it was one piece of advice that can work for nearly anything write one sends and see where he goes don't overthink it or criticize the ideas just jump in and do it it really works some of my best writing came from using that technique letting the plot write itself and break away from my initial ideas of how I thought it was supposed to go it can apply to anything just one step one phone call one new accomplishment outside of your comfort zone jump in and get going story seven get a dash cam fortunately I haven't had to use it to defend myself but the thought of not having it when I need it brings me absolute anxiety now there have been a few instances where I've almost had intoxicated pedestrians and if I didn't have the dash cam running I would have been in a tight spot if I did hit them and they lawyered up knowing that I have a dash cam running also improves my motorist habit significantly keep the music down obey the speed loss don't use the phone no evasive Lane changes no speeding up to try and beat a yellow light with a dash cam I drive like there's an insurance broker riding 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your custom idea come to life story eight a saw thread that involved building confidence and someone had said something that helped me so much in high school they said if you're in a situation and you're uncomfortable just imagine someone you look up to and do and say what you'd expect them to say I had a guy in my swim team who ended up being a really good friend it was muscular to the nth degree and was just so calm and cool all the time everyone loved the guy and for good reason so when I was uncomfortable or didn't know what to do I just channeled him and tried to emulate what he would say and do it really helped me a lot I'm glad we ended up such good friends story nine if you accidentally offend and or anger someone when apologizing follow this formula stay what you did white was wrong and how you'll prevent it from happening in the future also don't forget to acknowledge how what you did impacted the person you wronged it's fine to add an explanation after an apology however do not preface it with but because then it just sounds like you're trying to make excuses on the other end if you're mad at someone tell them what they did why you were upset by it and what you'd rather they do in the future heck you can frame it as if they've already done it I'm really busy these days so when you're running late I really appreciate it when you text me so I could fit in some things I need to do the piles of stuff on the floor make me worried I'm going to break your stuff and sometimes I get dirt or water on them if I have to step over them so I appreciate it when you keep them out of the walkways yada yada story time if you're ever saying mean stuff about someone and they walk up and catch you include them in the conversation like you fully intended to call them out on it might as well really give it to them at this point as well they're already off balance because they fully expected you to backpedal and become defensive this approach prevents them from saying that you were talking behind their back and lets them know you have a problem with them story 11. I love it when people do this my mind is a strainer so I forget things all the time my friend took a picture of me when I borrowed some books a few months later I texted her if she could remember which books I borrowed as I have a lot of books myself and she sent me a photo with me holding the books now since I'm so forgetful I never remembered to take a picture myself of stuff I lend to people so I never get my own things back let it swell when others take my picture means I'm not in possession of other people's stuff storytalk if you have ancestors who moved from Italy to the US or wherever you live today you might qualify for Italian citizenship no joke like your great grandpa came to the US in 1894 you might still very well qualify it takes time Gathering all the required documents and proofs and it's clearly not free but for about a thousand and 500 total I should be holding an Italian passport by Year's End you see Italy view citizenship via bloodline the reason so many people qualify is because of how Italy views things for example Giuseppe was born in 1875 and he together with his wife left Italy in 1895 in 1899 your great-grandfather was born in the U.S the process to become a U.S citizen was often put off 5 or 10 plus years and even then took several years so while that 1899 birth happened in the U.S because the parents were still Italian citizens Italy views that kid as Italian the US sees him as American he goes on to get married have kids repeat and you are born you qualify but you have to produce the proof all birth marriage and death certificates dating back to sepi and his wife Ireland has this too if I remember correctly it's three generations and you're eligible and it's not just for Ireland or Italy it gives you access to the entire EU this is also true for Germany they have a rule that says if 1939 to 1945 didn't happen would you be German then you can be or something similar I have a grandparent on each side who escaped the Holocaust and I'm in the process of getting German citizenship story 13. I just heard this one recently and it's been useful if you're late replying to an important email for example something for work don't start it by saying sorry or apologizing for the delay that starts it off on a negative connotation and sets the mood for the reader instead started with thank you for your patience so instead of it starting by assigning blame to yourself it instead starts off the email in a good note by praising the reader well it seems to me that this lady was just trying to buy some extra hours and pulling a ninja move of timely responses if you want to learn more game changing email strategies you better hit that like button and subscribe to the channel story 14. don't overthink before making decisions make the one your gut tells you to and see through to the end of course it doesn't apply to Big life decisions but for everyday work and personal decisions it's been helping me a lot saving me lots of unnecessary stress or you can also think of it this way if you're trying to decide between two different things flip a coin when it's in the air you'll most likely find yourself hoping for a certain side to be the one that's faced up letting you know which of the two is what you really want story 15. if you're job hunting copy and paste the job description from the ad or the website you're applying to and make the font white so it is not seen by human eyes the computer will pick up the keywords and phrases and move your resume to the list of people that will call for interviews at the time that I saw this tip I was job hunting and having problems getting anyone to call me for an interview I started adding the job description to the bottom of the resume tiny fonts and white color switch was blind every company I submitted my resume to that I did that to I got an interview with I ended up getting a job for a company that is very picky about who they hire and only interview one out of every 100 applications I love my new job going forward if I ever have to apply anywhere again I'll be doing the same trick I don't know if this trick works everywhere I was skeptical too when I read it on here but figured I had nothing to lose I was applying to major national companies who use computer software to sort the applications except for the one job I applied where I met all the requirements of skills education experience Etc even the Java wasn't qualified for called me and fell apart during the interview lesson learned so for me history worked story 16. never assume Alice when ignorance is a valid explanation it's fairly Sound Advice to live by if someone did someone that made you angry then giving them the benefit of the doubt makes you look like a saint if the person did something out of spite then saying you understand it's only a mistake will piss them off even more ah the art of assuming ignorance definitely one of the most famous Jedi Mind Tricks out there want to get on the fast lane of sandthood just give people who push your buttons the benefit of the doubt they'll probably end up scratching their heads in bewilderment story 17. just this last weekend I was playing basketball with my kids in the driveway and noticed two young guys jogging up and down the street and shouting something I went to check it out and they were trying to catch their dog that had left through an open gate and was running all over the street I don't know how long they had been trying but they looked exhausted I sat down in the curb and whistled and dog came straight over and let me hug and catch him life Pro tip dogs think that being chased is a fun game sit down to stop the game story 18 change your sheets at least once a week I changed mine every four to five days because I like clean sheets when you go to sleep pick a pillow and sleep with it the next night flip it over and sleep on the other side next night use the second pillow then flip it over the following night your face is on the clean side of a pillow more often so you're not sleeping on where your oily face and hair was last night this helps immensely with clearing up your skin if you get pimples also drink more water and less soda thanks for the tip that's the ultimate nightly spa treatment for the face definitely one of the best kept secrets to achieving that I woke up like this glow story 19 f o r d which I use for topics when trying to make small talk with strangers start with family then occupation Recreation and lastly dreams in that order if you get to dreams you've basically meet a new friend here are some examples are you from this area did you grow up around here what do you do for a living what do you do when you're not working or stay with yourself as a lead-in I went kitesurfing for the first time last weekend have you ever done that it's often the no but leads to a related story or less you ask what do you do outside work what would you be doing if you didn't have to work if you won the lottery what would you do instead of working story 20 whenever using a public toilet take a piece of toilet paper wipe the seat and flush it now you know there's toilet paper the seat is dry and how well it flushes and develop this into a habit so I'm never trapped without toilet paper getting wet from the seat or overestimating the power of the flush it avoids a lot of embarrassing situations I really do this with every bathroom that is in my own it saved me from numerous embarrassing situations at my in-laws's house as well as friends houses story 21 as contrived as this may sound my advice is don't Pine breakups happen accidents happen life happens there's a time to be sad but don't dwell on it that's pining be sad learn from it and get on with your life anytime spent pining can be spent moving forward job interview didn't go well guzzle a glass of wine and trudge on don't spend a week crying over what could have been don't Pine should be our Mantra in facing life's curveballs cheers to leaving the what-ifs in the rearview mirrors and speeding forward full steam ahead story 22 that there are two types of people who are not talking in a conversation a person who's waiting to talk and a person who's actually listening think about that division next time you talk with a friend or co-worker if they are constantly waiting to talk when you're telling a story EG their own story then there is a good chance that person is much more focused on themselves I've noticed in the worst cases of this they can be super nice but there is a good chance that they want you there to enhance their own experience not because they want to share an experience with you if they don't try to shift the conversation to themselves but ask questions about what you're saying they probably are actually interested in getting to know you people like listeners story 23 I didn't get these from Reddit but I haven't seen them in this thread and they're all pretty useful when putting open bags of food away if you don't have any Clips or zip locks just roll it up and place it upside down or against the wall of a cabinet Crush all plastic bottles then replace the cap before putting them in the trash or recycling bin safe space put your alarm clock or phone across your room as long as it's loud enough so you have to get up to turn it off keep your wallet in your hand until you put your cards back into it so you don't forget it or stuff it in a pocket to get lost keep a bag for change in your car whenever you get change back you have an easy place to put it and you can later use it for talls or car washes and this may not work for some people but if you have some daunting tasks to do and you feel overwhelmed get a couple of quick easy tasks out of the way first so you can focus more easily and the more important and longer tasks it helps especially if you're a procrastinator because it allows you to procrastinate efficiently these tips are gold unless you're like me who can sleep through a hurricane so that alarm tip not gonna work story 24. if you are out of town and shopping at a store that has a rewards card program that is tied to your phone number just use the local area code look it up on your phone and then type 867-5309 I've used this trick everywhere from California to Hawaii to Wisconsin and just about everywhere in between it works at stores grocery stores Etc I've probably saved 100 or more using it while traveling and I've never run into a situation where the number didn't work why does it work most grocery stores and stores have rewards programs that are free to sign up for they give you discounts and all sorts of products in exchange for a way to track your purchases and they're usually tied to your phone number so if you're somewhere new and don't want to sign up for the program chances are that someone else has already signed up with 867-5309 is their phone number since they didn't want to give their real one alternatively if you need to sign up for something that requires a phone number just use this number and someone else will benefit from it in the future Story 25 I learned a dead giveaway for telling if someone likes another person men become more expressive with their eyebrows when they're talking to someone they're interested in or crushing on women will cover their mouth and laugh not super exaggerated but if you look for it you'll notice when a guy or girl walks into a room or approaches them I know you may think no way this is true but I thought the same thing until I noticed it with some of the couples I hang out with occasionally I hope you enjoyed the video and if you made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy men who had a girlfriend what did you do to get rid of her story three is so lit see you in that video
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hey everybody my name is steven and welcome back to the story time channel by the way less than 50 of people watching this video are subscribed so if you've enjoyed what you've seen please consider subscribing so you won't miss out on our future videos without wasting any more time let's get into the stories of the day notate the account thoroughly you got it i work at a call center for health insurance one of the things that people really seem to get mad about is when we tell them we can't do something because it would break hipaa which is a federal privacy law that specifically protects health and medical information so a few days ago a gent calls in on behalf of a provider's office provider in this case meaning doctor wanting to check eligibility and benefits for a patient he gives me the npi national provider identifier number for the practice and per hippa and all my training i ask him to verify the address in the system he gives me an address that is decidedly not the one in the system and when i politely explain that he says he doesn't know any other address so i told him that we couldn't properly verify him we're required to verify the following three things for a doctor's office or facility npi or tax id number name of the practice facility or individual provider and address as it appears in the system i couldn't give specific benefits for a patient but i could give general plan information gentlemen just kept sitting on the phone line demanding specifics while i kept patiently explaining why i couldn't do that he finally goes off on me telling you that he's been doing this for years and he knows he can do it and to transfer him to my supervisor and make it quick a little irked at that particular demand because a transfer takes more than a few seconds to set up these days due to working from home i politely said that i would need a minute or two at least to set it up and put a note in the system provider rep says yes please put a nice long note in the system aye aye mother trucker into the transfer notes went the following the name of the caller the npi number used the request to speak to a supervisor why he requested a supervisor the address he gave that wasn't in the system what he had initially requested what i offered to give him what i had explained to him about why i couldn't do as he asked his admission that he didn't know the address in the system we have room for 4 000 characters in the transfer notes i used all but 25 of them i transferred him and took more calls but got curious during my break and took a look to see what happened noted onto the account were multiple notes from multiple supervisors that he was unable to be verified and that we couldn't give him the requested info as explained to him by the initial rep who took his call the final supervisor note said that he was requesting a call back from someone higher than that supervisor but that he got mad and hung up before giving them his number after the supervisor requested a minute to get the callback note together so as a result of him telling me to put a long note in the system he got none of the information he requested he got nobody who would break hipaa for him and he is getting zero callbacks because he refused to be patient and wait for the request to be completed properly don't ask call center reps to break hipaa folks we will rat you out to other reps and you will get zero of what you requested hipaa is definitely not something you want to mess around with and this guy is clueless if he's not able to understand that i should do my job okay i got my first job at 16 working in a ski resorts restaurant in the kitchens i was a line cook that was my job but on busy days i'd help bring out food just to keep the plate area clean enough to put more up this wasn't a particularly busy day but the meal i put up wasn't getting taken out and i couldn't see the waitress after five minutes i made sure that the only two items from my side of the line were the only ones on the ticket and went out to deliver the plates before they got cold i approached the table with my best smile and chirpy voice and set down the chicken tenders and fries in a caesar salad in front of a karen and her child what is this you're not our waitress i understand and apologize for the surprise i just wanted to make sure your food wasn't cold before it got to you unacceptable kitchen staff shouldn't come out of the kitchen you should do your job take this back it's probably filthy i looked at the kid who was about to dig into his golden fries before his basket was swiped away from his mother and shoved back into my hands he looked surprised then like he was about to cry as karen shooed me away back to the kitchen i went back dumbfounded but the customer is always right right guess i'll stick to my job in the kitchen the kid was crying and karen just gave him a few quarters to play the cheap arcade games we have in the pit before going to her phone the waitress wasn't coming back but i had to do my job right my job was in the kitchen maybe 30 minutes had passed and that karen looked impatient with her kid nowhere to be seen i assumed he was still in the pit playing games so i went in the back and took the small set of stairs down to the pit as kitchens were connected we had a main floor kitchen upstairs kitchen bar and the pit bar i left through the pit bar and saw the kid sitting around board because he spent all his quarters on games i gave him a fresh basket of chicken tenders and fries because why should the child suffer because of a horrible mother i even got him a nice caffeinated pop to then hopefully make his mother suffer throughout the rest of the day with a hyper child the rest of the hour went by and still no sign of the waitress the line cooks were getting worried and as i was getting out to go look for her the karen walked out with a child who was bouncing off the walls i found the waitress in the bathroom who was so sick she had been puking for the past hour her pores were starting to get a little red because of the simple force of vomiting for that long somehow no one knew she was there until they went in she was sent home and the manager ended up waiting tables for the rest of the shift i kind of wish the story was more exciting but malicious compliance with a karen honestly if i could just piss off and title people like her all the time i'd gladly work in customer service for a long time how exactly did they know they were kitchen staff was it the outfit if you were in op shoes and this kieran told you to go out because your kitchen staff and that you probably made the plate dirty what would you have done let me know in the comment section down below i want absolutely everything added to the calendar sure thing boss this is the same kind of story often told in the sub and mine is dumb so i'll keep it short supervisor introduces a new project management tool to the team our team is only three people and we don't need a giant professional software solution both of us underlings point this out supervisor insists we worry about it being a waste of time supervisor says it'll be worth it we ask for clarification on about what exactly do we need to enter into the new tool supervisor says everything everything absolutely everything you do should be entered and checked off co-worker underling gets a gleam in his eye i understand so we enter everything into the calendar leave home for work entered arrive at work entered sit down a desk entered and so on and every time we accomplished a task we log on to the program and mark it as complete coffee check write an email check and every time we do this the program automatically sends an email to supervisor that the task is done to the supervisor's credit he took it well then laughed about the overwhelming emails and it was only a few days later that he dropped the program and we went back to the way it was before i think it's okay to cut supervisor some slack on this one they're trying to just boost productivity and although they don't need it because they're such a small team the thought was there one of the reasons they probably pushed it so much despite the pushback from op and the other co-worker is they probably spent some money on the software so they didn't want to just give up on it everyone must join a work call regardless of working hours sure a company i worked for is global offices all over the globe it wasn't often but it was expected that if you were needed on a call outside of your business hours you would make arrangements to join typically a crazy one-off scenario where they needed to find an urgent time slot for a single call it sounds awful but it really was infrequent and most folks were very conscientious when planning meetings in comes a crappy meeting leader we'll call her karen based in europe who scheduled a weekly reoccurring call at what would be 4 a.m for west coast usa i was east coast so 7 am for me wasn't bad but i reminded the meeting leader that the meeting made for the next day was outside their hours she said they'd see the meeting in their afternoon and be able to accept for the next day it was especially selfish because there were eight participants from west coast and karen was the only one in europe next day no one from west coast joined karen made a big stink about it to management that they'll all have to join weekly for this call sadly it worked and those poor souls had to join at 4 00 am every friday within only two to three weeks someone from west coast became very interested and offered to champion the project and become the leader karen was happy to relinquish leadership and be a participant only that very same day they took over the project the reoccurring meeting was moved to normal business hours afternoon west coast time evening europe time karen was not happy and in the first occurrence kept making remarks about how it's very late friday evening for her whenever she'd answer a question my brain is a bit fried because it's late evening here but or let's not drag this topic out any further as happy hour here has already started haha on the third week of the rescheduled call she stopped joining even though her participation was key being the only representative from europe the new leader had to go to management to get her to join and when i dropped off the project they were still meeting fridays i hope she learned her lesson can somebody say hypocrite she starts complaining about evening on fridays but yet made eight people on the west coast go to weekly meetings at 4 00 am the west coast people had it way worse than she did a filled zoom baby shower slash gift parade i was on another sub and found something that frankly kind of blew me away under a thread about asking for suggestions for games to play at a baby shower the sad and stressed update really had me reeling apparently she has no clue why the 200 people she virtually invited are not playing by the rules and is causing a lot of issues now with family and friends grandma is posting about the baby shower she is throwing for her two daughters grandbabies number eight and nine since kovid there are only actually 20 people physically invited to her house and she only has catering for 20 people because of this that's totally understandable with kovitt right now you really don't want to have large gatherings of people and if her daughters are pregnant especially you don't want additional people around them if necessary the rest of the 200 people invited were supposed to form a parade in their cars and dropped gifts off then go home and attend a zoo meeting for the next four hours watching her daughters open their shower gifts she did not include the address of her house on the invite because as people rsvp'd she was going to assign them their place in line so that people weren't sitting in their cars for an hour waiting to drop off their gifts the sadness and stress 65 of the 200 people she'd invited hadn't even rsvp'd out of the people who were not invited to the house the few that said they would give a gift didn't see the need to attend a four-hour zoo meeting to watch her daughters open gifts since they weren't physically invited some of them decided to pick up shifts at work which angered her and the rest of them didn't have a valid reason in her opinion to not attend the zoom meeting to watch her daughters open all their gifts i was astounded yeesh just be grateful that people are sending gifts if people aren't physically invited and can pick up a shift at work so what i'm going to bet that the 200 people invited were her spamming her facebook contacts of every single person she could think of and sending them a generic invite i don't know anyone who has 200 close friends or family members of the people who said they would still give a gift i'm assuming those people are from her actual close friend or family group i couldn't believe she was upset they didn't further want to watch a four hour zoom meeting of her daughter's opening gifts hey congratulations on your new grandbabies i'm sure everyone wishes them the best but when it is not a close friend or family member people really don't feel the need to sit in a zoom meeting and watch people they probably barely know open baby shower gifts i loved baby showers with my friends and family and the gift opening was cute but when you go to a 2-3 hour gift opening it's just kind of boring hope you liked my gift i have laundry to do and you are not going to notice if i'm there or not really i certainly wouldn't sit in my car for an hour in a line of cars to drop off gifts at a certain time kovit is putting a lot of stress on people and it's true people shouldn't be having large gatherings so i guess you just have to be grateful for the people still willing to gift grandbabies eight and nine with something whether they attend a four-hour zoo meeting or not she was getting a lot of support though on her thread wishing her well i just thought wow she's actually really angry and upset and has no idea that she's asking for way too much inviting 200 people gift grab just be glad some of them are actually going to drop off a gift op definitely hit the nail on the head here it almost seemed narcissistic like woe is me all 200 people didn't show up giving gifts and fulfilling my dreams include me in all conferences moving forward all conferences i used to work as the only conference facilitator in a preventative services program with two units four case planners each at the time i would schedule all necessary conferences with the case planners and outlook supervisors were required to participate in some of the conferences depending on the purpose and i would invite them to those after a few months one of the units was assigned to a new supervisor on her first day she approached me and asked to be invited to all conferences for her unit i asked if she knew that supervisors did not have to participate in all conferences and informed her which conferences she needed to be a part of she responded that she still wanted to be included in all conferences moving forward since it was her first day we hadn't gotten a chance to talk about how i did my job she didn't know that i periodically planned all conferences ahead of time for all case planners and was often fully booked for the upcoming week or two it turned out that on the day she asked her unit was scheduled for conferences with me every day with at least one or two each day for the next two weeks after she has to be added to the email invite i included her on all of the conferences for her unit the next day she came by my desk and told me it wouldn't be necessary for me to invite her to all conferences and just invite her to those she is required to attend i did as was asked but had a laugh to myself after she left if only they understood how everything worked before going into it it's all hands on my daughter told me this story after spending the weekend at her cousin's house the last morning there her uncle's girlfriend was making breakfast once everything was done and almost everything was set out for people to eat she went to make herself a plate she noticed that there was nothing to scoop the food onto the plate with so she asked where are the forks her uncle's girlfriend told her it's all hands on meaning help get stuff out for breakfast my daughter being the smart alex she is took this instruction literally so she went over to the eggs and grabbed a handful and plopped it onto her plate with a smile on her face her uncle's girlfriend looked at her for a moment doubles over laughing and said that's not what i meant my daughter looked at them with a big old grin on her face and told her but that's what you said my daughter thinks she was hilarious i kind of agree to be fair if i asked where the forks were and somebody said it's all hands on i probably would be like wait you want me to use my hands i don't need your help okay good luck have fun a few years ago i accepted a contract to write some material for an engineering class the result was a set of heavily hyperlinked latex documents that compiled into a single pdf of a few hundred pages with a nice table of contents embedded images and carefully written equations in both breakout and inline with text i was contacted by a student who's been given a short-term contract to convert the latex to html so the class can go online only two small problems problem one student doesn't know latex problem 2 student doesn't know html i suggested that the easiest solution particularly within a short time frame would be to use an online tool to convert the latex to html preserving the original structure and hyperlinks of the document set and using a javascript plugin to render the native latex equations i offered to volunteer some time to make sure it went ok to the extent that edits or new material were required the easiest solution would be to edit the latex which student can learn quite easily nope student didn't want to do any of that student has a plan one import entire pdf rendered from latex into adobe acrobat 2. use adobe acrobat to convert content to word 3. edit content in word 4. manually screenshot every equation in the pdf and drop screenshots into place in the word document 5. use word to automatically render the html for a website i politely suggested that the plan has some issues the document structure will be lost where it is gonna vomit out a single slab of html corresponding to the monolithic pdf input equations will be mangled embedded images will be rescaled nine different ways resulting in major quality loss it's okay student is confident no further help required malicious compliance not helping not my circus not my monkeys the content was pristine when i handed it off and i have a record of the conversation have fun storming the castle opie honestly kind of overstepped their boundaries to the point of trying to help this person figure it all out and they blindly give it a cold shoulder and they say no the way i'm gonna do it instead of going from latex to html i'm gonna go through adobe acrobat and word and convert it three times backwards and just a terrible process how i tricked my entitled cousin into eternally cleaning the backyard so i have this cousin let's call him nick and he is incredibly entitled but this is the story of how i finally got revenge on him this happened before the lockdown but i didn't use reddit then so here we are nick and my nice cousin let's call her l came over to watch movies and weird cartoons note we are all 13 to 15 years old and a few hours later my mother called me to help her clean the backyard we have many plants a pool and a wooden deck i headed over and elle offered some help now nick always wants to be the best nothing is ever enough so i assume he thought that being a boy the nicest thing he could do was offer help as well because boys don't do chores so he did little did he know as soon as he said that i already had a plan then my mother saw the three of us and decided to separate the chores nick was going to water the plants elle was going to clean the deck and i was going to clean the exterior chairs and stuff perfect at one point my mother left to get us snacks perfectly predictable and as soon as she left nick finished watering the plants also predictable he came to me and tried to look like he was willing to help asking me what he should do next i stood up and showed him a part of the floor near a grass patch and told him how that spot was always dirty i said that he had done enough and he could rest after cleaning that what happened next was a mixture of predictable satisfying and funny he had the garden hose in his hand he used it to water the plants and used it to try and clean that spot the dirty part was directly in front of the grass patch and the water hit the grass and a lot of dirt mud and water flew and got the floor even more dirty than before he said done elle started laughing as she noticed my plan and i just pointed at the floor he looked and his eyes went wide to see the floor even more dirty he tried to clean with the hose again and failed miserably elle and i sat down and enjoyed the show after 10 minutes of fun my mother came back with the snacks and tried not to laugh as she explained to nick how we tricked him he was furious and tried to slap me one hour later my aunt came and was told what happened nick got grounded for trying to hit his cousin and my favorite part for being dumb usually being lazy ends up giving you some kind of critical or analytical mind of some sort where you can break down things but in this case nick was just lazy and not that bright but with that being said that's all the stories we have for today so what i want to know is which of these stories was your personal favorite of the day and why let me know which 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what's the biggest scam in life that no one wants to admit Story one I apologize and I'm sorry but the grind and hustle cultures only generate oh they think everyone's goal is to be riches working 100 hours a week I just want to be able to power my bills and feed my family anything after that should be time spent with said family I find that the boy the upbringing the more that they want it but the ones that typically find it had connections by being rich already but I agree I'm kind of miserable in my current job because I have extremely stressful situations back in the day I made less but never thought about working after eight hours a day I literally felt like I could do whatever I wanted once I clocked out now I am constantly getting emails about fires that need to be put out oh and my favorite thing to say about these people is that the appearance of being happy is way more important than them actually being happy another thing that recently changed my mind was going to my grandfather-in-law's funeral the guy was a Navy man turd mechanist he never made much money they had five kids who had 10 grandkids and 20 great grandkids he retired at 50 which is Unthinkable these days they lived very moderately but they never worried about money for themselves or their kids they didn't drive nice cars they didn't own a house that was too big for them they were just content hell I've never met a happier couple and family than them and their kids all their kids looked up to them as the Pinnacle of good and happiness and they were I was really stressed at work when he died and the funeral happened but it changed the way I thought about happiness we worry about most in life should never be work it should always be on the last of our list of worries how you get it there is hard though some don't have the luxury of worrying about money well not worrying about money some do but if you do it shouldn't even cross your mind about exceeding it well except for maybe doctors I always laugh when people get so upset about work it's not like anyone is dying if you miss a deadline stop acting like it is again unless you're a doctor story two I think about this a lot in some of the finance Subs yes save for your future and your retirement if you can maybe you will live healthily into your 90s and that pot will be appreciated as will the ability to retire in your 50s I hope so but I see people being like I'm currently living like a spa button to save money and I've been able to cut out a hot shower and now I have 50 pounds extra a year should I invest here or here to make an extra 0.1 percent annually I'm looking to spend x hundred thousand pounds or whatever by the time I'm 55 and I can't help but thinking buddy you could get hit by a bus tomorrow I'm in my mid-30s and I've seen people I know growing up die from cancer so alcoholism and overdoses long before their time also way before their planned retirement no more laughs with friends no more going on that trip to Brazil they'd always wanted to no more seeing that band they were obsessed with no more bumping into someone at a class and discovering they click perfectly no more sunsets with the ones they love no more heading out for the weekend with the wind in their hair no more cheering on their team and with 600 000 others no more tasting the perfect meal by candlelight no more first days with a new console no more fun Joy or excitement they're dead that's it we love and remember and cherish them but in this life at least they experience none of that no more no need to blow all your cash if you have a savings goal but do not forget to enjoy today Story three we had a claw machine at work because we got paid a small percentage for hosting it the guy who ran it was fantastic he had it set to a low dollar amount for payout so people would actually be able to win and win regularly he also refused to tweak the machine with the grab and drop features so it very rarely grabbed and then dropped something before getting it to the slot he also had larger toys so you could trade in your small toys for a larger one and he had a fantastic range trade in 10 20 or for the super large toy trade in 50. we had some guys spend nearly 600 a week just because they wanted 50 toys to trade in for the Unicorn that was so tall it was taller than my hips he even bought in toy ranges that timed well with the current movie releases we were in a video store so it worked out perfectly for us we were making bank over the machine nearly a grand a month and then he left and each new person made the machine worse the payout amount got higher The Tweak settings for more grab and drops dropped the trade-ins entirely and the toy quality decreased with only the occasional fantastic toy line it didn't matter what we said worked for our store because each month was getting worse payouts they tweak the machine even worse to get more money by the time we asked them to take the machine away we were making about 30 a month off of it enough to cover the electricity bill for it and not much more story four yeah dental insurance is basically just an employee benefit masquerading as an insurance product my dental insurance through my employer costs like a hundred per year and it is pretty good deal for two cleanings a year and plus some X-rays and some occasional other benefits like discounted fillings but it doesn't do the one thing that insurance is supposed to do which is cover catastrophic losses the kinds of things you can't easily pay for out of pocket which could bankrupt you I don't need insurance for the occasional filling I need insurance for the rare chance that my teeth get totally [ __ ] up and I end up needing multiple dollars to buy implants but if you try to buy dental insurance not from an employer it often looks like a pretty deal I just pulled a random quote and it was like what 4 30 for me to get coverage that coverage included regular visits 80 of fillings and 50 of major work but with like 1500 Max you're kind of screwed so if you need five figures worth of implants again you screwed that's a terrible deal for most people most dentists will give you a great deal on cleanings if you pay cash up front though in many areas you can get quality care for about a hundred so that's about 200 per year maybe add an extra 50 or so for annual x-rays paying for 30 for that is stupid if your employer gives you a highly discounted rate it might be okay but for a random person off the street just pay cash Story five when I was a kid I discovered my Grandma has a puzzle box on her drawer I'm being a stupid kid I couldn't figure out how to open it and after a few unsuccessful attempts at just asking her to show me I got crafty there's only a stupid kid can and I thought I'd trick her into showing me so I gave her a two dollar bill I got somewhere and asked her to keep it safe for me on a puzzle box well Grandma knew exactly what I was doing so the attempt failed I never get to see her open the box and I promptly forgot about the entire thing fast forward to 20 years grandma has now died rest in peace and mum's going through a safe to figure out what's what and one runs through an envelope with my name on it inside is a two dollar bill and a short note explaining that it belongs to me and is given to her for safe keeping she did keep it safe for me right next to the deed to her house and other important financial documents even though it was a silly attempt at trickery and not a genuine request I did end up getting that puzzle box and as an adult it took about half a second to figure out how to open it it currently contains a rattlesnake of rattle that my grandma got as a little girl and that was her treasure she kept in a puzzle box a two dollar bill inside and that note story six anyone below the age of 18 that works and gets taxes taken from their check the definition of taxation without representation these millions of dollars worth of relief funds that the FED gov gets approved in past bills they love to Pivot the highlights of those bills on these types of things meanwhile they're hard of work tucking much larger rations of the total bill amount behind such relief funds once the dollar for the fggs landed the corresponding account that when they stop attending to it they actually leave it up to a certain Financial institution's Bank Plus a few other smaller companies that meet their requirements to create these systems that end up being put out in place a lot of the times and this is why the documentation slash inquiry slash review slash response waiting periods may take really long this is where they enjoy watching humans suffer and kill each other they even go around to sell poison to each other while to know that money can get people out of these situations being sit in an account for the entire time and make zero effort in structuring a system to then get those funds out of the citizens story Seven health insurance companies in the us we don't need health insurance companies at all primary care physicians in private practices pay 100 000 plus annually in administrative costs patients pay insurance premiums some being charged a thousand monthly then insurance companies rather than our health care providers determine approval deny whether patients receive treatments testing durable medical equipment therapies medications and Consultants treatments by specialists a life-saving treatment may be available locally however if it's out of network not affiliated with or covered by one's insurance plan one doesn't receive their care despite having the medical insurance and their health care providers orders health insurance is a scam that only ensures companies benefit from the US needs single-payer Medicare for all now story eight yep found out that Planet Fitness was double charging me because they decided to randomly say nah to my transfer after all I moved to a different city and I transferred my membership to a different location [ __ ] that your membership only works in one location anyway unless you pay more and instead of fixing it they said I had to mail in a request to cancel it which of course quote unquote might take a few months to process they don't accept credit cards either they just take only direct account info hmm presumably you can't just change a card if that I marked everything from them as fraudulent and made sure that my bank doesn't allow them access again I learned the hard way never to sign up with anything that requires checking access storyline my fiance and I had to convince her brother last year not to join the pharmaceutical MLM they had a website that described the different tiers you could achieve and how much you could make would have been hilarious if we weren't trying to convince our brother not to spend his life savings on it they called it the 5x12 program or something basically convinced five people to work below you then have those five convince another five people as well etc etc if you succeed then you would be estimated to be making about 500 000 per year now how many people come out working for you one billion through 120 million seven hundred and three thousand one hundred twenty five people so like 15 of the world's population we gave her brother that information and he still tried for it story 10 credit scores they are a history of things that show you are able low risk to lend money to this is how it's structured to make you think that you show a history of good behavior take on deaths and pay them back well ahead of time but people should be more than willing to hand you money but they don't they would rather deny you and go after the guy who will pay the most interest or the minimal so interest stacks they are not used for that but to see who is in the best area to overlenda as much as possible they are not intended to be used to see if you should get internet cable or even able to rent from an apartment complex they should never be used to get a job but here we are
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aita for telling my mom that she's ruining my wedding I'm 28f dealing with my mom's excessive gift giving of clothes and her intrusive involvement in my wedding planning throughout my life she sent me numerous packages of clothes always unsolicited and mostly not my style I've tried to politely return the items I don't like but this hasn't stopped her from sending more my fance recently pointed out how her style is very different from mine often either very matronly or childish despite returning 80% of the clothes she sends she continues to inundate me with more the situation escalated with my wedding dress when we went shopping she pushed for a matronly dress that I hated and dismissed the ones I love I eventually chose a dress that everyone including her seemed to agree was the most flattering however the next day she insisted it was too low cut and even showed photos of me in it to her friends at my grandmother's funeral ticket validation she claimed that they all agreed with her and suggested we go shopping again which I refused despite my clear refusal she booked another dress shopping appointment which was a humiliating experience she showed zoomed in photos of my chest to the staff who graciously assured her that it was not revealing however it didn't stop there in the car leaving the second dress shop she said she was then taking me to shop for rehearsal dinner dresses I said as politely as possible that I wouldn't be requiring her
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my daughter tore apart my fiance's wedding dress ending our engagement I've grounded her until she's 18 imposed strict limitations on her activities and making her work to contribute to expenses this is more of an off my chest post I am not looking for advice but welcome some given with empathy and understanding in mind I 42m have a 16-year-old daughter Ella 6 months ago because of her my partner Khloe 36f ended our engagement to give some context before my partner now ex was in my life I was married to my late wife for around 1.5 years she was in a vegetative state and I had already grieved her death before she even passed on accepting her death was something I had already prepared ahead of time and I dipped my feet in the dating Market 6 months after I met my lovely partner Khloe who also had a daughter from her first marriage and after dating for a year I proposed to her I was ecstatic to be with the love of my new life Ella not so much Khloe tried to bond with Ella and did everything possible to make her feel like a welcome presence in her life Ella wasn't thrilled and had routinely messed with Khloe such as guarding her mother's territory having an attitude when I got Khloe gifts hit her stuff and generally becoming
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vegan Sil snatches pork sandwich insults op refuses apology for retaliating throw away I 26 FM currently 2 weeks pregnant I have a craving for pork I can't get enough of it I have to have it with everything I'm eating I get very emotional if I can't have it I would even go so far as to say I'm obsessed with having it I'm sure my poor husband's sick of all the pork dishes we've been having but he's been a real supportive and thinks up creative dishes for me he's a chef I'm even eating some pork as I'm writing this on to the story couple of days ago it was M birthday and my husband wanted to do a birthday dinner for her at our house so everyone showed up at our house including Sil 24 last year Sil became a vegan she is very passionate about it and good for her however she can be annoying when she becomes to pushy with her beliefs majority of the time everyone just ignores her when she starts ranting but she's usually stops when someone tells her to knock it off when it becomes to much but this time I feel she went to far my husband made dinner and he even made Sil food to her preference everyone was eating and just catching up when my husband came in with my pork sandwich for me I was sitting next to Sil and she started ranting again but I ignored her and started eating my sandwich ignoring her seemed to set her off and she suddenly snatched my sandwich out of my hands and started going on how disgusting I was and when I grabbed for it again she pulled it out of my reach and I just lost it and punched her right in face and she fell off her chair and my sandwich was all on the floor and seeing that I bursted into tears and left the kitchen it took my husband Abbott to Cal me down I heard yelling in the kitchen my bill was the one who told me what happened after I left the kitchen since me and my husband were upstairs and by the time I had calmed down everyone had left basically half the family was mad that Sil did that and the other half said I shouldn't have hit her I agree I shouldn't have hit her I wasn't thinking and just did it since then Sil said she will apologize when I apologize first I said no she now saying that I am overreacting and just because I'm pregnant doesn't give me an excuse to be a and I told her just because she's vegan doesn't excuse her for being a my husband backing me and my in-law saying this whole situation is stressing them out which is making me feel bad AIT he
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I called my wife manipulative and now she's emotionally distant I got into an argument with my wife a couple months ago and ended up saying some really hurtful things that she can't forgive me for essentially we never fight we have disagreements that are quickly resolved but we've only had one real fight in the decade we've been together my wife is incredibly emotional sad ad tears reading a book tears telling even a remotely sad story tears she feels things very deeply and responds sometimes inappropriately with the amount of emotion she reacts with I've tried to not have a problem with this as I know that's just her nature but it can be overwhelming sometimes and embarrassing to others about 3 months ago we happened to get into a huge fight she was telling a story to some friends and embellishing quite a bit so I just said hey I think you're lying a bit here that didn't really happen like that I wasn't trying to take away from the story but I hate liars and she does it a fair bit when storytelling she told me that she just does it for comedic effect and that everyone knows she doesn't tell stories 100% accurately it was still bothering me however after everyone went home I brought it up again and she told me that we'd already talked about it and she didn't need me to correct her in front of her friends I'll spare the rest but we essentially got into a fight and I raised my voice she immediately started crying more like sobbing and I told her that she was being manipulative doing that every time I bring up something she takes as a critique she begins crying and it's a manipulative way to get me to stop talking about whatever is bothering me my mom did the same thing to my dad and I hate when women do that she asked me through shuddered breathing if I really thought that and I said yes I told her that she manipulates the argument into going her way by crying and being the victim she told me she couldn't even look at me and locked herself into our room to calm down she came out a few hours later and told me that she was sorry if I thought she was being manipulative and that it wouldn't happen again the problem was solved right except it's not at all I didn't notice it immediately but she started pulling away from me she won't watch movies with me if there's any s sad parts she doesn't tell me the stories she used to she won't tell stories to friends when I'm around and now our friends don't want me to go out when they do because they say she's not fun when I'm there she stopped reading books in the living room stopped watching unpredictable TV shows and won't even talk to her mom on the phone when I'm in the room I feel like I'm living with a ghost now it wasn't until yesterday that I even realized I hadn't seen her cry since our fight I brought it up last night and she told me that she didn't want to manipulate me anymore I told her that her everyday crying wasn't manipulative and she said so it's only manipulative when you're mad at me and now I don't know what to do I apologized and said I was wrong for saying that to begin with and that I shouldn't have but it didn't help I asked if she wanted to watch The Notebook with me since it's her favorite movie and she told me she doesn't like it anymore so what do I do can I do anything advice from married men and women please tldr I called my wife manipulative for crying during an argument and now she's emotionally distant from me and won't accept my apology comment running away 6797 why did you marry your wife if you hated how she was I highly doubt she just started crying over everything after you got married op I don't hate how she is normally she cries a lot and I get that but when she does it during an argument to turn the tide it honestly bothers me spicy Margarita 143 you start off your post by saying you never fight so if it doesn't sound like this is that frequent An Occurrence and if your wife easily cries over sad movies books Etc would would that imply to you that it's not something she can control and thus when you're having a fight and emotions are high she cries because she's feeling deeply and is not manipulative op but she doesn't stop she can't calm down and come back to talk she can't discuss it over the phone and she tells me how sad it makes her when we text there has to be a way to overcome problems in relationships outside of ignoring them curly locks I am a CER and always have been it isn't manipulation at all it is how my body works when I feel strong emotions good or bad and has nothing to do with the person or people I am with I have always been this way even as a child and it is a personality trait I actually liken myself if someone told me that I was being manipulative by outwardly showing my emotions that would spell the end of my relationship with them calling your wife a liar in front of friends was probably very hurtful and was something you could have discussed with her later and privately op I didn't outwardly call her a liar but you're right there was a better time and place to address that update something to add to my relationship advice post I doubt many people will read this as it's a part of my personal profile I've read and considered the comments under my thread and appreciate them I've scheduled with an online therapist for tomorrow and I'm currently waiting for my wife to come home I'm not sure how she's going to react to what I have to say but I'm hoping she will give me a chance to make this right I know it isn't something that can be fixed in a day or with a simple apology but I'm willing to try anything at this point I've researched marriage counselors in our area but want to see how she feels before going forward with it I also called my parents and let them know we would be going to NC with them for a while while I tried to fix my mistakes at home I'm not so sure they will want to talk with me even if I fix it as they were Furious that I would be excluding them from this part of my life but going off of the threat I know that that's a boundary I need to make to be able to focus my energy where it's needed and disregard opinions that could only prove to further divide us I know many people have hoped she will leave me and if that's the Avenue she wants to proceed with I won't hold her back from happy future with someone who doesn't diminish her feelings and make her feel like less than she is update I talked to my wife last night there was so much to say and I've never been good about sharing my feelings so it started off painfully awkward I started with apologizing not what I did before by just saying sorry but a full I attacked your character and assumed the worst of you when given no prior reasoning to do so I've damaged and hurt you in a way that I will never forgive myself for and I would understand if you couldn't either there is more but I'll save you guys from every detail she was mostly shocked when I started and didn't say anything but she did reach out for me in the first time since I messed up she looked like she was trying so hard not to cry and I let her know that her crying has never been the problem in our relationship and that my unwillingness to accept people and see the worst was it resulted in tears and in that moment I realized how much I missed her being there I told her about how I was starting therapy and that I would like to do marriage counseling someday to do what I can to mend the damages I've caused between us but that I would would need to go by myself for a while to get to the base reasons of why I react so harshly to things some of the comments suggest I write a letter to her and so while I waited for her to get home I did that I wrote about how much I loved her all of the things about her that made me happy all the quirks and mannerisms that were undoubtedly her and then I told her I went NC with my parents I've never seen her light up so fast she asked me if I was being serious and I told her that to be able to focus on her I couldn't have them whispering in my ear anymore she hugged me and cried for the better part of an hour saying that they're one of the worst parts of being married to me she said she can't forgive easily but that she wants to work on us together she wants us to move away from my family and we were discussing options that could make that possible I am not a good person in general no one has ever described me as warm or caring except my wife and I almost lost her for being manipulative and selfish I can't put into words how much I appreciate every comment no matter the content it made me realize just how much I messed up I don't deserve her but she's willing to give me a second chance at this and I'm going to be different I don't think it'll be quick or easy but I would do anything for her I don't know if I'll ever update after this I have a lot of growing up and groeling ahead of me it's not the update a lot of you wanted but thank you for your help comment from op explaining why he had no contact with his parents I appreciate your comment my family definitely has a lot of problems but my mom is one of them I don't want to get into detail about her because I don't know her very well and she very well could have been a used by my father however when I was in elementary she drowned my dog as a punishment for something remedial I'm going to focus on my primary relationship with my wife and consider during that time how much time I want to continue devoting to my family after that op has very repetitive comments on his posts but the gist of it is one his wife embellishes stories like standup comedians and exaggerates a bit she doesn't lie about him two his father told him that his mother manipulates by crying all the time op has never seen his mom cry three his wife sobs no matter the mode of communication which makes it difficult for them to communicate on topics That Make Her sad and he thought it was manipulative hence the post but now they're working on this and he's going to therapy update number two I wasn't sure I'd be back to update but I've been receiving a lot of messages asking me how everything has been going and I figured I'd let everyone know who still wants to know my wife's pregnant about 3 months along maybe more I saw a pregnancy test in the the trash in the bathroom a few weeks ago I waited for her to bring it up to me but she never did I asked her about it last week and she started crying telling me that she loved me so much and that this didn't mean anything we're both ASU she used to be anyway she said when we were fighting she caught up with someone who doesn't mean anything to her and things progressed past where she thought they would she told me she's always been as cuu so she just wanted to verify there's not much I could say at the moment and I needed time to process the information she told me I'd betrayed her when we'd fought and I'd called her manipulative so now we're on even ground and have a chance to start over I see the logic in that but it doesn't feel right I feel an ache in my chest that won't go away no matter what I do I never wanted kids I've seen what growing up can look like and I wouldn't put someone else through it no matter how hard I work would I ever really be different from those who raised me it wasn't worth the risk and physical touch makes my skin crawl but here's my wife telling me she's pregnant has no intention to tell the other man and is waiting for me to say something I told her that pregnancy was going to be difficult and that I'd buy some books on it she was so happy she went to look at baby registry and I've been in this weird State since I have put in a lot of work to ensure that our relationship can grow from what it was I have therapy multiple times a week and it's proved to be one of the most difficult things I've experienced I wanted nothing more than for us to work out and be what we used to be and I still want that but I feel betrayed maybe even more so since she didn't apologize for sleeping with someone she's happy that we can be a family of three ecstatic even and she wants me to be as well my mind is divided between what's logical and how it makes me feel her family will help with advising on children and the kid will have one set of grandparents my parents are still in NC but now the rest of my family is as well I can't even get into contact with grandchildren across the sea I've been cut off from everyone on my side but I knew this could be a possible outcome that leaves my therapist and Reddit to talk to that's who I am now I suppose my my wife doesn't work and I promised her until the end she's skipping around the house talking about child safety where the nursery will be the best schools and names and I've been in the office reading books that prepare you for Parenthood she's worried about people asking her about the baby when it won't look like me I'm worried I'll turn into my dad and ruin this child's life before they even have one so cheers to everyone comments Mand D68 now you're even no that's not how this works nothing absolutely nothing gives you a pass for adultery if you didn't want kids in the first place why would you want to raise someone else's child I get you wanting to keep your vows but she didn't keep up with your therapy really think this through do what is right for you I hope it all works out for the best hospital automatic what the hell this is not okay I know what you did was wrong and you tried to fix it but this does not excuse cheating at all and the fact that she thinks that makes you guys even as disgusting is she expecting you to raise another man's child and not find a problem with it I didn't think she was manipulative before but that statement definitely was I think you should leave her at this point how long was the affair was she going to get an abortion was she going to tell you who did she cheat with and when there are so many questions here most importantly your feelings of betrayal and sadness are valid you don't deserve this she's broken your marriage vows and taken away many of your choices including being childless when you've just started to work on yourself altruistic usual 855 are you literally going to let it slide that she literally broke the sanctity of your marriage in the worst way possible and now isn't even planning on telling the real father about any of this what the hell update parents attempting contact I've been in NC with my parents for the last 5 months the decision wasn't easy because of cultural expectations especially regarding the oldest children but it was necessary for my marriage and the current counseling goals that I'm holding myself to their reaction to me going to NC was screaming and blaming my wife for the decision I told them I was firm on my course of action and blocked them from contacting me or my wife through our phones and social media about 2 months ago my wife started receiving emails that were mostly inan comments about her weight and looks she's currently pregnant I blocked the senders but she' contined getting them from various shortlife email accounts until she decided to create a new email after that came the packages there was no return address and all that was inside were letters detailing how our relationship had ruined and stained my family what an embarrassment I was for being in therapy Etc I go through all the mail before giving my wife hers now opening anything that looks even remotely suspicious last week we received an edible arrangement with some fruit my wife had an intolerance along with a note giving their distinct blessing for a divorce I apologize for the long post I feel the need to vent without overly worrying my wife about the issue however I'm worried they'll show up at our place when I'm not home and harass my wife has anyone had any success mitigating aggressive contact update moving forward I'm updating here as a means to to quell questions that I've been receiving over the past few weeks I do understand that this isn't my child by blood that seems to be weighing heavily on others minds and I am aware of that I'm also aware that children abandoned by their parents or viewed negatively for the simple fact of existing grow up poorly with low self-worth and no chance to thrive while I never wanted children I wouldn't leave one to suffer because of others poor choices I've been in contact with the father and his responses toward her were pejorative overall my wife has also decided that parent in isn't what she thought it would be she offered me full custody in return for spousal support and I've decided to take that option with her I filed for divorce she wants freedom and I want this to be behind me I'll always love her but this is the right move for both of us to whoever knows me from my posts and has decided to share everything with my family I hope you received whatever it is you were looking for by doing that if they were impertinent before they're a nightmare now congratulations on that and for your health may we never meet my daughter is thriving now now the pediatrician suggested donor milk and she's doing better than ever she's happy healthy and well cared for while she only has me as a parent which is a disconcerting thought I believe we're making the best of the situation I don't see myself updating anymore my life has found a rhythm that is suitable for us both despite being a far cry from what I saw my life being only a year ago cheers to an unexpected but bright future comments Ms here at all your ex-wife may not have been manipulating You by crying but she is a horrendous piece of of sht for cheating on you having the affair baby and then dumping it on you when it wasn't the fantasy she wanted I hope you remain in therapy and that one day you enter a relationship where you never have to experience this sht again and I hope you and that baby are happy and healthy also this might be too rude but F your parents also your ex doesn't deserve spousal support she should be paying you child support you come across as a very traditional man but that doesn't mean htty people should be taking advantage of you Bon Aipom you're a good man it's inspiring to see how you've persevered and despite coming from the childhood that you had you seem wholly determined to give your daughter only the best I don't know what the hell your ex-wife's problem is but I'm glad you don't have to deal with it anymore I second the comment that says she should be paying you child support instead of you providing spousal support she cheated she wanted the baby she wanted the divorce you're the sole guardian of the child and you have to deal with your shtt family while you're giving her money surely you deserve better in any case I'm wishing you and your daughter a beautiful life filled with love quirky tea party 65 you're making the most of a bad situation I hope you're continuing with the therapy 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what have your pets done that is worryingly smart I had a cat that learned how to open the fridge then my dog started begging my cat for food then the cats started getting into the fridge just to feed the dog I patiently await the day where my pets would decide to overthrow me and have me fixed I'm not fighting it that'll only make it worse in the long run had him for about 3 months and my dog didn't like him to be fair my dog didn't like anybody that wasn't me or food husband's dog wasn't too interested in him either anyways so one day the cat got up onto the counter and found some leftover chicken does he eat the chicken nope he knocks a piece off the counter watches it fall down my dog taking it and walking to the carpet to eat it second dog comes up tosses another piece off dog goes to the carpet first dog comes back for the next piece until all the chicken was gone didn't eat a single piece himself freak occurrence no cleaning lady kicked the dogs outside to mob their Hooves were inside C brings the dog a hoof my dog runs off with his hoof second dog waits for him picks it up spits it back out and waits cat runs back and side grabs another hoof and takes it to him dogs doesn't want that either goes back to fetch a third hoof dog finally accepts that one and runs off cat goes back to lying in the bookshelf here's a bonus story about my cat I have this red lighter and I've had it for almost four years now it's one of my most prized possessions because come on it's a lighter that lasted almost 4 years after my dog passed away we got a new friend for the second dog this new friend liked to steal things and eat them she got hold of this red lighter and it was gone a week later in the middle of the night the cat jumps onto the bed and tries to wake me up I can hear there's something in his mouth very unlike him in being 3:00 a.m. I wanted nothing to do with him so I shooted him away husband happened to be awake C goes to him smacks his leg to get his attention and drops my red lighter on the floor at his feet minus one piece it's all good husband rewards the cow with scratches and a treat a few hours later he came back with another lighter one which was not mine I don't know where he found it but he brought it to me too sometimes animals are more Bros than humans to I would do the old trick when my cat yawns to stick my finger in his mouth don't know why I do it I guess it's just funny to see his expression when boom suddenly finger so the other day he's sitting on my lap and I yawn he wakes up and does a stretch perfectly putting his paw in my mouth boom suddenly paw still no idea if by accident or if planned his smug expression afterwards makes me blean towards the ladder my dog did this and it was definitely deliberate it was a very sweet incredibly well behaved slightly nervous dog because he'd been through a lot with his past owner before we got him he would rather die than misbehave anyway I used to have him sleep on my bed right up beside me when I was a little kid when he was getting sleepy he'd yawn a lot and because he had dog breath I'd always put my hand on his snout to close his mouth one day I was lying there facing him looking at how cute he was I started yawning and then bam he'd suddenly stuck his whole foot in my mouth out of nowhere the look in his eyes also left me with no doubts that it was deliberate he also pissed on someone who was staying at her house who'd been teasing him it was my parents friend's poop head kid they were camping out on the floor and in our living room in the middle of the night our dog again the most well- behaved dog in the world who would hold it in all day rather than pee in the house crept into the living room quietly stepped across all the other sleeping people in the room until he got to this kid and then cocked his leg in his head best dog ever Story three back when I was a kid my family had an incredibly intelligent Cavalier King Charles panel she had somehow managed to learn several dozen different words to the point where we could tell her to go find certain people to wait for us in certain rooms or to pick out specific items from her collection of about 15 different toys this dog would even obey remarkably detailed commands combining those elements like go get your hedgehog then bring it to dad in his office suffice to say she was a damned remarkable pet now this dog's favorite toy was a little stuffed animal that was vaguely shaped like a human which we refer to as her baby she would wrestle with it tote it around the house and keep it right next to her whenever the family would gather to watch a movie or something after a year or so of such Adventures though the toy started to get a little bit worn out so my mother decided to replace it and effort to surprise the dog she discreetly put the old baby in the garbage then stood in the middle of the living room with a new one behind her back coyote my mother called the dog's name was kod though we pronounced every letter kot come here as expected the dog came bounding into the room a happy spring in her step where's your baby go get your baby everyone expected the dog to approach the corner where her toys were kept discovered the item was missing then Mount to search for it she done similar things in the past after all with hide-and-seek being one of the many games she seemingly enjoyed but rather than behaving as anticipated kot trotted over to the trash compactor and started pressing on its foot pedal with her paws she wasn't heavy enough to get the thing open but the intention was clear enough in the end kod wound up with two babies story four my dog let's call her a had a dog friend who was dumb as a brick let's call him B when be's owners were out of town he'd stay with us a was a bit spoiled and had lots of Bones and toys she never touched unless be wanted to have them one day when a was checking out who was cooking in the kitchen and if she could snag some food B got hold of one of her bones B was a large dog and once he had something he wasn't giving it up a was fairly big herself but she didn't compare to B so a comes out of the kitchen realizes that bee has her bone that she hasn't touched in months and is having none of it she knows from past experiences that she can't just snag the bone away from be so she grabs a tennis ball and sneaks up behind him and drops it on his head bee stares up at the ceiling for about 3 minutes trying to figure out what's happening and a snags the bone and hides it be looks down and sees that the bone is gone and then stares at the ceiling for another 5 minutes trying to figure out how it took his bone rest in peace a you were an amazing dog I'm very confused by your choice to maintain the anonymity of the dogs Story five not my pet but I found a dog on the side of the road once took it in tried to find its owner it had a chip so the local shelter reached out to him for me didn't hear from him immediately so I let this dog stay with me when I took him to the shelter they recognized him right off the bat said he had been in before full Brad Australian Shepherd super sweet get along well with my cat no accidents in the house clearly well trained 2 days later I go to work still no word from the owner let the dog roam free in the house during the day since he seemed so well behaved boyfriend comes home midday the dog and my cat are sitting outside the front yard all doors are shut and locked my boyfriend very confused calls me wondering how the hell both animals are outside our first thought is that someone broke in he goes inside and notices the window on the side of the house as the window slid up and the screen pushed out we heard from the owner the next day finally he had been out of town I met up with him to give him the dog explained to him what happened with the window he said oh yeah that happens all the time he knows how to open Windows story six well there was the rat that learned how to run on his hind legs or how he kept tricking people by looking cute and cuddly until they went within biting range at which point he dropped the facade and strike them he also was able to understand locks and levers and similar physics and if he didn't get the food he wanted or the treatment he wanted he would threaten us menacingly moving towards us as if to bite he would also communicate to us when he wanted something if the water bottle was empty he would go to it and start sneezing and rattling the bars if the cage needed cleaning he'd get our attention and start sneezing deliberately we used to call him doing this letters to the editor as it was always done with a rage of the type of person who writes into Sunday newspaper about issues of the day he had a human presence and personality to the degree that his resing expression looked more like the face of a human than a rat he changed this when luring someone towards him and he looked almost unrecognizable unfortunately he hated people but if you treated him with a respect as if he were a human he liked that if people CED over him he would attack them he hated being a little furry cute thing too it was put to sleep about 9 months ago now a day goes by that I don't miss the psychotic little a-hole story seven oh boy my working Lan German Shepherd female learned to operate paddle handle doors at about 3 months and would let herself out afterward learned to operate a normal doorknob by biting it and twisting it within about 25 minutes learned the trick behind the sliding glass door at my mom's house bites that handle and pulls it open then learned to move the stick that was blocking the door from being open so she could go outside old doors in my house have to be locked or she will decid to let herself out is impervious to the tennis ball and the food trick because she simply picks up the tennis ball moves it and then goes to eat her food as quickly as she wants routinely tricks my 10-year-old German Shepherd by barking at the front door he gets up and runs to the front door then she runs and steals his toy sometimes tricks Me by whining like she has to go out GSS are very vocal and you can interpret their wine types after a while then when she goes out Simply goes to get her frisbee toy can easily tell when the treats in my hand run out and will sometimes stop doing her training if she knows I no longer have treats in my hand when she got sick once and couldn't hold her poop went inside the bathroom in the house to do it I couldn't even be mad both know my running shoes mean to run and my hiking bag means going on a hike if you think about it animals are crazy smart well at least to have companions who truly understand us and love us animals are just really genuine anyway I'm pretty sure there are some pets out there that could hit the like button subscribe to the channel will you let pets beat you to it come on do it I know you want to story8 my family had a golden retriever when when we were teenagers who was one of the smartest dogs I've ever known she had a very peculiar and adorable way of letting us know that she was pissed at us as a puppy she got in trouble a few times for stealing food off her counters she most often stole a loaf of bag bread but quickly learned that stealing bread was a big no no after a few times well one Saturday we had to take a day trip somewhere I think a football tournament we had only planned on staying a Max of 4 hours so we just left her home knowing that she wouldn't get in any trouble I can't remember the details but circumstances forced us to stay at the tournament for the entire day so our poor dog was left home all day we felt terrible and raced home as soon as we could when we got to our house we couldn't find her she normally would greet us at the door and go crazy but this time we were met with nothing my parents start looking for her and after a few minutes I hear my mom laughing from her room our dog had grabbed every single loaf of bread sitting on the counter and carried it to their room gently placing it on the bed for us to find every loaf was perfect sa for a little indentation where she had carried it in her mouth no puncture marks or the plastic wrapping no missing pieces just perfect loaves of bread on my parents' bed sitting right next to their bed was our dog with a smug look on her face that said you see what I could have done but I didn't don't leave me home alone again we never left her home alone for that long again but every once in a while my parents would still find a perfect loaf of bread in their bed I miss that dog story n when I get asked to do some things I'll groan jokingly and do the thing anyway and when I call my dog while she's sleeping or if I accidentally nudge her at the foot of the bed then she groans with an attitude like I would kind of adorable kind of freaky my dog knows my caller ID sometimes need to call home for my cell and her home phone speaks the incoming Call's caller ID the only time my dog ever house is when a call and the answering machine says my ID she's done it when my mom is off somewhere else in the house and can't hear the phone ringing she doesn't do it for any other phone call even if I'm not home I also tried calling it while I'm still home to see if I can get her to howl but she just looks at me like I'm an idiot my dog also has two bowls one for food and one for water whenever I give her some crushed ice to lick in the water bowl she'll pick up chunks of the ice and put them in the food bowl instead apparently solids equal food bowl even if said solids turn into water she learns a lot of things on her own and doesn't really care what I think which can cause me a lot of headaches but I wouldn't trade her for anything in the world story 10 not so much worrying as it is somewhat annoying and funny but my golden will walk up to the Xbox look at the Xbox button Boop it with his nose and wait for the light to turn on and the chime to sound then just walk away all satisfied looking for a couple of months I would come home from work and noticed the Xbox was on but no I had to turn it off I accused my fiance of leaving it on until one day I was in the Next Room room and heard the chime so I ran in and he was walking away from it then he started to get flagrant about it and did it right in front of me and eventually turned it off if I was playing it and he wanted my attention goldens are a trip one night I had paused the movie on my laptop and fell asleep he was laying at the bedroom door and could see the movie he thought we should keep watching so he snuck onto my bed and hit the space bar I didn't wake up until a loud fight scene a while in and freaked out he was just curled up on my bed watching you'll never know maybe he thinks you're the Pat and he's in charge no Xbox and no sleeping with the movies and finished dog rules story 11 not as much smart rather worryingly calculated on Christmas Eve I was wrapping the cat's favorite treats because I'm that person the three boys weren't too fussed about this but Amber the princess wanted the treats now of course she's a cat and has no concept of Christmas so I gave her one of her normal treats and put the presents away she was not amused by this now the thing about Amber is that she never came upstairs she had tiny little legs that made the journey too long so she comeand deared the downstairs instead but that night I was woken up by a weird cat chirping I opened my eyes and on the Shelf eye level across from me was Amber I was confused as to a why she was upstairs and B how she got on my shelf as I was thinking this whilst maintaining eye contact she stuck out a pawn and swiped one action figure off the shelf I didn't react at first so she did another and another by the third I realized what she was doing and I said her name in shock to which she hopped off the shelf and left my room like it was nothing that confirmed my suspicions that Amber held grudges and exact Revenge my other cat systematically tests for weaknesses in my door he Jingles my keys in the wall he knows that that noise gets that door to open he's finally managed to unlock the dead bolt with his little paw if that a-hole could turn the door knob he'd be gone my fat cat has devised an alarm system by laying on top of my foot or having his foot touch my foot whenever possible so that when I get up if he's sleeping he'll wake up just in case I'm going to feed him story 12 my dog is afraid of the smoke alarm after a while he discovered the toaster could set the alarm off if toast burned so he became scared of the toaster eventually eventually he figured out the noise the bread bag made as it preceded the toaster noise so he became scared of that eventually he figured out the kettle turning and usually accompanied the bread bag noise so he became scared of that now we have just reached the point that he has figured out the time of day we go into the kitchen to turn on the kettle and open the bread bag so he has scheduled his fear to that I'm always Blown Away how he been able to figure all this out not sure if it is really that smart but it impresses me to clarify the smoke alarm has only actually gone off once or twice but he remembers it well we're also training him with treats to not be scared he's also a Chihuahua cross so being scared of noises is kind of his thing you'd be surprised how much dogs lives revolve around your routine as soon as my alarm goes off every morning my dog sits in front of the door waiting for his walk and if I snooze it one too many times he takes it upon himself to be my alarm by getting in my bed and putting his face next to mine no matter where he is in the house he can hear me put my shoes on and he knows that it's something I do every time before I walk or a trip to the dog park so he always comes downstairs and sits in front of me while intently staring at me he knows that if I wake up and don't get ready for work that it's the weekend or whatever he calls it and is more excited than when it's a weekday magnificent creatures hi you don't seem to know what time it is it's walk's time story 13 my dog has pooped on the floor and casually placed my husband's underwear over it stole in the cat's bag and hid it behind the entertainment center has been the only dog to break out of his boarding kennel find his own bag and walk around the front waiting for a walk he's an a-hole but such a sweet baby story 14 I have rats six Boys in one cage four girls in another and a solo boy in his own separate cage solo boy has behavioral issues so he can't be HED with anything but himself I've tried everything from getting him snipped to going ridiculously slow with introductions nothing he goes for the kill with everything myself included my partner was the one who found this out Loki the a-hole in question is able to open his cage door by putting all his weight on it free roaming our apartment to do God knows what then just goes back into his cage whenever he's done you're probably asking how he closes the door preventing us from notic ing him escaping right well I had a chew toy in the door for him and this smart a-hole literally just pulls on the damn chew toy I wouldn't have known he was getting out if it had not been for my partner waking up in the middle of the night to use the washroom Smartest little SOB I've ever met nephew Loki and now know it's you who's been destroying my furniture and the reason why I won't get my damage deposit back I hope you enjoyed the video and if you made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy teachers what student was so smart it's scary story one would make you question how smart you are see you in that video
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am I wrong for embarrassing my girlfriend friend's boyfriend my girlfriend wanted us to go on a double date with her friend and her boyfriend I had met the friend before but never the boyfriend so I asked my GF what he was like he's been out of work for nearly a year now and will refuse to apply for any job that isn't specific to what he wants to do he lives with his parents and expects my GFS friend to pay for everything when they go out we got to the date and he immediately suggested doing rounds for drinks so his GF got the first round in I got the next one then my GF got the one after that he then told his GF what he wanted to drink so she could get the next round I just mentioned that it was his round next his response was just I don't have any money I just asked why he suggested rounds and expected everyone else to buy him drinks then if he knew he wasn't going to do it back he just started going on about not having money so I just said that maybe if he bothered applying for jobs he' actually be able to pay his way instead of expecting everyone else to pay for him he said I was completely out of order but I just pointed out I'm not the one expecting my GF to pay for everything for me because I'm too lazy to get a job my girlfriend agreed with me and he walked off his GF apologized to us both then left with him I was talking to a friend about it and he said I shouldn't have said anything and that I was wrong for what I said and that I probably embarrassed him a iw4 embarrassing my partner
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Story one when I was a young kid I got a job babysitting for my neighbors they had two little girls who were just the easiest kids to look after the mom and dad were super nice people dad was a nurse who worked mainly nights and Mom worked from home and would ask me over Friday nights so she could go out and have some downtime I quickly found out though that she was seeing other men the first night I went over there the mom informed me she would be home no later than midnight while 4:00 a.m. rolled around and I was woken up by noise out in the porch and saw hastily kiss another man and Che him off she apologizes for being late pays me was $5 short and I go home to my mom mom who's pissed that she kept me so late the same thing happened two more times she promised to be home at midnight and come home at 3:00 or 4: in the morning every time with a different guy and every time would stiffen me with a little of what I earned my mom put a stop to it and called her out for cheating on her husband they ended up getting divorced not long after that instead of short changing the sitter maybe she should have sweetened the deal with extra cash to keep things Hush Hush but hey the sitter should still spill the beans right story too I used to babysit for a pair of girls and the six-year-old was always trying to show me what she could stick inside her down there I was pretty weirded out out by that she would even try and show me in the street corner she had no shame about it I also got fired from that job for washing the floor I used to do busy work when the kids were sleeping the Mom was convinced I washed the floor because something terrible happened and I had to clean it up okay she even had her niece who was in my grade at school gr me to get me to admit what I had spilled on the floor she was a school counselor she always used to mow the lawn in really inappropriate bikinis and had some living French boy toy the kid's real daddy lived in Jamaica somewhere they never saw him I can't say they were especially weird in any other respect but the babysitter they hired after me was 4 years younger than me and probably got paid less than me she claimed the floor was sticky after I washed it I didn't notice any stickiness when I was done and her kids were awake when they washed it so I don't know why she just didn't ask them if anything was spilled they would have seen it I have a suspicion that she just wanted to pay the other girl less than me my sister and the new sitter were friends and she admitted the mom P her way less than me I have no idea what she needed her niece to grill me on it I guess she was an overly suspicious type of Lady Story three I wasn't really babysitting as the girl was older and was mature enough to take care of herself just fine while her mother was at work I was paid to to keep her safe her father got into illegal substances and women which turned him quite violent and scary the mother kicked him out and he vanished for a while I knew all of this because I was close to the family a few months go by and he starts showing up banging on the doors she was inside scared to death hiding he leaves and she runs to my place balling her eyes out and begging me to protect her I let her in and close the blinds she knew I would keep her safe I was a brick house back then I told her to keep the doors closed and not leave the house as I needed to walk to her mother's work to let her know what was going on small town it wasn't a far walk that I would keep her at my place until she was off work after that day I was hired I was paid in freshly baked cookies and a can of pop to hang out with her daughter while she was at work she was a good kid we had always gotten along so it was no biggie today it took her to see beus and Butthead Do America in the theater her dad went to prison I believe and we stopped hanging out several years later we bumped into each other in a big city on a bus she was so happy to see me thank me again for being her big protective sister all those years ago it was the last time we saw each other I think about her often I wish I knew where she was and if she was okay story four as spent a summer babysitting the two most spoiled little brats that's ever been my displeasure to come across their names were Mary and Kristen their mom was an awesome lady but she tried to overcompensate for an absent father who was apparently quite the cruel a holder her luckily the kids had no memory of this she was smart enough to know out of that marriage before he could do any harm to the girls anyway things were fine for the first week or so then one evening I told the eldest Kristen that she wasn't to have more than three cookies before dinner that i' had already given her and I really wasn't supposed to have given her those her response she took off all her clothing and ran into the wall over and over hard enough to leave d as I watched her do this in absolute horror I noticed similar dents all over the Walls Within 5 minutes her little sister Mary had begun to do this too well I let them do it I wasn't having it even at my age then I had no tolerance for that crap so I sat down and read a book while they proceeded to destroy mom's security deposit she'd do this till she passed out her kid Sister too at least they were always in bed by the time Mom got home they were also horrific tattletails eventually they started punishing them for whatever their friends did that they ratted them out for I did this mainly to keep them from being tormented in the playground KidCo dictates that you don't tattle tail and didn't have time for that crap Mary Emily stole my chocolate and ate it all right Mary well then no snack for you I'm pleased to say that they were much less spoiled rotten by the time I moved on and quit watching them and have turned into proper healthy lovely women but my God I will always see those two little brates the bare squawky Little Devils I once knew them as I envy those kids those little Daredevils have a bright feature in the demolition business mapped out from an early age Watch Out World Story five that reminds me of a family used to babysit there were three kids the oldest was the girl and then there were two younger autistic boys while the mother treated them all equally the father didn't he obviously played favorites with the girl and was always yelling at the two autistic boys it's really just tragic all around it was especially hard to witness because the father had no idea he was doing it it was obviously because the father had a hard time coping with the boy's autism it seemed like he knew it was wrong but couldn't get past his issues I have no doubt he loved the boys when I was babysitting them I was helping the middle child Ben get ready for bed in the middle of brushing his teeth he goes Rockstar state do you think I'm bad what no I think you're wonderful Ben I think I'm bad that's silly you aren't bad I love playing with you do you love me I love you oh of course I love you Ben it kind of broke my heart because he's usually so Lively but he got really sad and serious when he said it needless to say he got an extra bedtime story that night they were the absolute best kids I've ever babysat so extremely well-tempered too and absolutely adorable story six I Babys sat for a very prominent family in my town wife was a CEO husband was a lawyer it was the best job ever two easygoing kids $15 an hour this was 15 years ago so that was a ton of money access to their pool in an open invitation for my friends to come swim while I was working in between my first and second Summers working for them the parents divorced and the dad bought a giant house out in the country where he'd watch the kids sometimes he made it very clear that his office and all the out buildings were strictly off limits okay whatever no problem he had a grounds keeper who was always prowling around hitting on me and acting like a total creeper if the kids or eye came within 20 ft of the supposedly empty Stables he'd chew us away saying he'd spot a dangerous snake just sprayed for bugs or some other BS reason to keep us away I came home from school a few months after my summer gig was over and saw the dad's mug shot on TV he'd been busted as some kind of smalltime kingpen sing snow to dealers out of his house in the country and his grounds keeper was a wanted man it was a huge embarrassing ordeal for his ex-wife and their kids and they eventually moved away the parents freaked out that I was working so close to criminal activity and wouldn't let me babysit anymore after that it was a bummer all around story seven when I was a teenager I was babysitting for a family whose dog had just been hit by a car and had broken leg there was one kid a little girl had been asked to take the dog out to pee a few times that night it to be leash walked so while the little girl was happily watching TV and her parents bed it took the dog out to the front yard the people neglected to tell me that the front door locked on its own when it's closed I've never ever seen a door in a house do that so when it turned to go back in I was loed out with a little girl alone in the house I went across the street to the neighbor I think they mentioned that their neighbor had a spare key if ever needed one no answer I go over to the window where I can see the kid and try to instruct her to open the door she goes to the front door and from the window along the side of the door and points pointing and saying open the door go on open the door and she's not getting it she breaks down crying hysterically because she doesn't know I'm not coming back in then runs back to her parents bed to continue sobbing I felt horrible the next door neighbor notices what's going on and asks what's up it was kind of a shady guy it was the last guy in the neighborhood not to sell his property for flipping it was a well-off neighborhood and he had the last tiny brick bungalow among giant rebuilds he had a lovely unmowed lawn growing around an old rusty car up in blocks nice guy though he said oh I can break in for you let me get my tools so he proceeds to go up on the roof and completely remove their Skylight one of those Plexi bubble type ones and drop himself down into the house luckily the little girl had fallen asleep on a parents bed by that point when the parents came home they felt awful for not telling me about the door and I had to tell them they should get their Skylight checked for leaks the neighbor across the street later told me she does have their spare key and was home that night and heard me ringing the doorbell but she had just had a bath and was in her bathrob and didn't feel like answering she felt pretty bad about that that's pretty wild I mean MacGyver would be proud of the roof drop maneuver right miss an impossible vibe all the way and hey if you're a fan of Daredevil stories and Wild Adventures smash that like button and subscribe to my channel I've got a treasure Trove of him waiting for you story8 I haven't babysat in a while but when I was a teenager I watched two kids up the street the mother was single and had another single friend with two kids so I usually watch them all I knew they went out to party which was fine because they'd come home buzzed and pay me more than I expected what I didn't know was how much they partied one evening I went upstairs to get money for pizza found both moms in the bathroom snow the worst thing was when they offered me some despite the fact that a I was about to spend the night watching their young children and B I was still young at the time story nine a baby sadle little boyh had severe emotional problems one time he ran away while I was upstairs playing with a sister he ran away to the park down the block climbed a tree and refused to come down because no one loved him I was young and didn't think about calling the police or anything I just sat at the bottom of the tree and literally talked him down I convinced him that I loved him and wanted him to Cal down his siblings also helped me by saying they loved him it was so scary story 10 I usually take care of three siblings the younger ones a girl and a boy who are twins usually ask me the strangest questions one day the boy turned to me and asked me if I shaved my legs I said that yes I do then the girl asked me if I shaved my hair down there I was so surprised by the question that before answering the little boy just told me that their mom doesn't do it but he continues she has her leg shaved because my dad does it for her when they take showers together not too strange but at the end of the night it was a bit weird looking at their parents faces when they arrived kids and censored honesty it's like a box of fireworks you never know when they're going to drop those unexpected bombs on you story 11 I Babys sat regular L as a teen one night it was business as usual I just laid the kids down for bed until I heard crying in the bathroom I went in and the little one had a poop string hanging out of his bottom I didn't want to pull it in case it was wrapped around something so I'm trying to keep this kid calm and call his parents they didn't answer I call over and over with this kid freaking out they called my mom who calmed me down took their number and then chain called them until she got a hold of them they rushed home and took him to the ER it was definitely my weirdest night this drink came out fine by the way apparently the kid liked yarn a lot story 12 used to Babys at my neighbor's kids actually a Babys sat them for one night that was all there were three of them and the mother never really learned how to discipline either as all three were literally the redheaded demon children you always hear about I don't remember their names now the middle child was on some sort of medication for an anger problem the youngest looked up to the middle child and copied him and the eldest the sister was more mild bannered but tolerable alone it started off normal the two younger kids were riding their bikes around the neighborhood and the eldest and I were doing a puzzle eventually the kids got bored so we broke out their game of Connect 4 that went well for all of maybe five minutes the middle child lost his game to the eldest so he threw the entire game set at her and she continued to tease him which made him angrier he continued to throw things around and I asked him to stop that's not nice he yelled shut up and tried to attack his sister so she runs away screaming with him following behind the youngest decided to try and get involved but somehow he trips and connects with the middle child's foot as he's running so now I've got two kids roughing each other up and one with a bloody nose I decided to leave the two Elder kids while I dealt with a bloody nose here I'm holding a crying screaming child over a sink with hot water running while I'm trying to stay calm and have the other kids calm themselves I did end up screaming stop to the kids and they stopped back to the youngest who's still crying I realized holy crap the sink isn't draining the middle kids go Oh yeah that sink doesn't work okay awesome I've got to clean off the carpet H and now a sink full of water of course this is when the middle child decides to lose it and grabs something sharp from his mother's end table and tries to use it in his sister what on Earth I take it from him so of course he comes back from the kitchen with something else yay well at least he stopped trying to hurt his sister for the time being and he resorted to stacking all of his mother's Furniture instead but then I've called the mom like four times but she isn't answering her phone so I end up calling my stepmom who's a retired military because someone's going to get hurt and I'm starting to lose my temper so my stepmom runs over to see exactly that I explain to her the situation and she ends up restraining the middle child while I clean up the mess finally mom calls back and I explain the situation to her as well and she says calmly yeah his medication must have worn off just tell him he's done nothing wrong and to give him what we want okay maybe that isn't the exact words but that's basically what you told me to do screw that I I got out of there got paid $80 and that was my very last time babysitting story 18 when I was a kid a baby sat for a weird family in my town they had three daughters who were super awesome and we always had a blast when I started the youngest was just barely born it turned into me babysitting for them more than their parents were home or I was at my own home anyway the parents are into weird stuff one of the things they like to do was for any major decisions they needed to make they would get out a sinker attached to a string and ask a questions if it swung a certain way it meant yes and if it went the other way it meant no well anyway I've been watching these girls for a couple of years in one night the mother asks where the father and I go when he takes me home I tell her that he takes me home right away while she says that it takes him two or 3 hours before he gets back obviously I'm stunned what she's insinuating but they pay okay and they always know they were crazy anyway about a week after this she tells me that I can no longer watch the kids because her Sinker told her that the husband and I were having an affair we weren't I was young and he was an ugly 37-year-old oh the magic H from SpongeBob all hail the magic H story 14 I was young and babysitting two kids across the street for the night night my parents were home and even brought dinner so I felt pretty safe if the mother of the two children goes to leave and says she'll be home in the early morning feel free to sleep in her bed I ask about her husband she said he's home soon before her but go ahead and sleep in their bed I got that weird gut feeling something was off and after putting the kids to bed I curled up on the couch and tried to sleep the parents came home sometime between 3:00 and 4: and I could hear them in the kitchen commenting on how I was on the couch and not asleep in their bed as they had hoped should they wake me carry me upstairs no just leave her I never said anything to my parents and I avoided watching their kids for the next few years the second and last time my baby sat for them was 3 years later which ended to me calling the parents home and leaving the house as their son had a fishing knife and a whip gifts from Grandpa he was threatening me with story 15 a Babys sat two little boys every day from 6:00 a.m. to 600 p.m. for the summer they had a single mom who was super cool and let me take the boys to the beach pool Boardwalk whatever one day when it got to work she informed me that her new boyfriend who I never met or heard or talk about was going to stay home all day because he was sick I wasn't sure why I had to be there too but I wanted to pay and figured maybe he was too sick to watch the boys about lunchtime I fed the boys and we walked to the community pool we were there for a while and come back to the boyfriend watching TV in the living room this being the first time meeting the boyfriend I introduced myself and sent the boys upstairs to shower and change as soon as the boys left the room the boyfriend asked me to take my cover up and bathing suit off being young naive I laughed and said something stupid like what well he became more persistent at that point I grabbed my stuff and told him I was leaving calling the police and the boy mother looking back I probably should have taken the boys but I was freaked out and not thinking I left and never looked back the police came talk to me but when they got to the house the mom was there and he had left the mom never believed me and didn't pay me for the week she accused me several times of making it up to get out of work why she would believe that dirt bag she just met over her babysitter of several months is beyond me I hope you enjoyed the video and if you made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy what happens when you don't take kids seriously story for will make you question the parenting skills of some people see you in that video
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aita for telling my stepmother she's not second best SL a consolation prize because she's not in the running my dad and my stepmother got married when I was nine and I'm 17 now they have three kids together my mom died when I was eight but my parents were already divorced and I think my dad was already dating my stepmother at that point either that or he slash they rushed the relationship because they assumed I would need a new mom because mine died it was a crazy AF time my dad and stepmother decided we needed therapy together because she was struggling and wanted to communicate some stuff to the two of us that she had not before in therapy she started off talking about how she feels like she's second best or a consolation prize with me she feels like I see her as less than a parent less than a mother and it hurts she talked about marrying my dad expecting we would be so close and how she believed a newly motherless child would need someone else to fill in but that the whole time we've known each other she feels like I do nothing but compare her to Mom or dismiss her in favor of mom and leave her in second place a lot she said she wanted to be more important to me than that she wanted to Mom in my eyes she didn't want to feel like I would gladly toss her aside if my mom came back I'll say now in therapy she was called out for that she was told it was cruel to toss that in my face when I'm old enough to be aware my mom is never coming back she spoke for several sessions about feeling second best SL
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what has been your I freaking told you moment Story one had a friend who always rode BMX with his headphones in with his volume so loud he couldn't hear anything in a few occasions you can hear us shouting things like car or don't go stuff like that it almost hurt us or himself he crashed into me after I fell because he couldn't hear people shouting stop and that flipped out and told him that one of these days he was going to really hurt someone or himself a week later he rode directly out of a friend's driveway and got blindsided by a car it was fine saved some cuts and bruises but his bike was destroyed and he broke her windshield her lawyer basically proved it was his fault and he had to pay for the whole thing I told you you idiot his parents paid for the whole thing bought a manure nicer bike and he told people this long story about getting hit by a car and that's why he only rides with one headphone in bonus story about this jabroni it would put his mom on the phone well into high school if he had a disagreement with a friend like imagine being 17 having an argument with your friend calling him to talk about it and he puts his mom on the phone anyway to this day he can't take responsibility for his actions and we haven't been friends since our late teens because because of it long story but he got me a few other people arrested and attempt to not take responsibility for his own mistake I did really enjoy watching his divorce happen publicly on Facebook last year though I feel such pity for these types they'll never become proper adults especially this guy I wonder if he'll even be alive to become one story two my ex who I remain good friends with and nothing more started dating someone after he introduced us he asked me what I thought of her and I said I had a bad feeling and to be careful the more I got to know her the more I told him she was bad news the last adopt trying to say that I'm just saying that because I still have feelings for him didn't a few years later he's having to get legal representation she destroyed his business and his family stocked and harassed him and even had him under investigation by the FBI took him a couple of years to clean up the whole mess I totally said I told you so I just felt really uncomfortable around her ever meet someone right away you feel a connection and want to get to know that person whether it was the complete and total opposite I have another friend that completely trusts my intuition it would always introduce me to a girl when they started dating and if I said it didn't like her he'd drop her and would later find out something where he was thankful to dodge that bullet when he met the woman who is now his wife I literally fell in love with her immediately she's incredible I wish I had that same kind of sixth sense with the men I choose to date LOL Story three when I was young and still living with my parents there were a lot of squirrels in her neighborhood one morning I was pulling weeds in the front yard and heard the sounds of squirrels moving around coming from the ceiling of the porch just under erratic and told me that immediately but he was absolutely sure that I was just hearing squirrels on top of the roof and there was nothing to worry about this happened a few more times over the summer but each time my parents said they couldn't possibly be in the Attic cut to several months later during a peaceful Sunday morning breakfast when what can only be described as a ball of loud angry squirrels thumped down in between the walls of our kitchen we listened to them trying to climb back up and squabbling with each other for hours until a pest control guy came and got them out confirming that they had entered through a hole in the roof and set up a nest in the Attic which fell into the cavity between the walls I've never felt so Vindicated in my life all squirrels were safely removed and relocated outside story for kind of a sad story and I refrain from saying it in the end but a roommate had a cat for years and when I moved in her boyfriend had a dog they got along swimmingly they decided to get another dog they saw on Craigslist and within two hours of finding the post the dog was in her house she's a border collie or Australian Shepherd mix the cat was then unseen for two weeks hiding in the couch somehow the New Year's my roomies were gone and I heard growling from the kitchen she had pinned the cat in the corner about to attack so I made the dog leave so the cat could Escape I told him of the incident and that it wasn't a good idea for the new dog to be here they ended up just making the cat live in a single room for six months while the new dog had free reign of the rest of the house one day I got a call from my roomies and apparently the cat tore through the window screen was in the backyard they came home and let the dogs out apparently the cat put up a major fight because the collie mix was covered in scratches but the dog ultimately won it found the poor Kitty laying there gone in the backyard a few minutes later the boyfriend came up to me and said you were right it was not something I wanted to be right about R.I.P little kitty Story five I had a new family movie Next Door several years ago and caught the husband who smacks his wife around Vibe almost immediately she wouldn't look at any one smile and almost look like a zombie the dude tried interacting with other neighbors and seemed to be doing a good job pretending he wasn't a person one day I ran into one of the neighbors and we started talking about the newbies on the Block a neighbor didn't seem too concerned but I just couldn't shake the feeling that the new dude was bad news fast forward three months and my wife and I were woken up for some loud banging and screaming she called the cops she grabbed my firearm to see what was going on the next thing I see is the neighbor's wife running out of their front door pleading for help ended up holding the dude at gunpoint until police arrived 10 minutes later the next morning I made a point to say I Told You So to anyone who thought the worthless piece of garbage was a good human and yes he was arrested and charged spent six months in jail and they took off with one another the second he was released dude that sucks he did the right thing and ended up with the worst possible outcome only six months in jail they got back together either way ooh something came in the mail today I wonder what it is it's Rufus rugs now hopefully after this ad plays you two can say you got him arrived from Rufus Rex now me and the boys have been grinding non-stop 24 7 making one of one hand tufted premium rugs now there's a chance you own a carpet that looks something like this let's just be real it's time for an upgrade and luckily for you me and the boys from Rufus rugs are at your service we don't make those average cheap quality looking rugs nope not gonna happen each one is handcrafted to Perfection no shortcuts no robot assembly lines and no Drop Shipping BS just pure rug grind whether you love anime sports cars or anything else you can think of we can turn it into a rug so click the first link in the description and have your custom idea come to life story six my mom and I were driving out of state someplace from her car 79 Broncos started to hesitate and almost stalled I told her it was probably the fuel filter but as far as she was concerned I was just a teen who didn't know anything so she pulls into some hit garage guy gives her some story about it probably being a blocked catalytic converter cleaned it out while we had to wait an hour or so charged her 100 bucks this was in the 80s and sent us on our way about an hour down the road the same thing again she pulls into another place this time I spoke up about the fuel filter a guy agrees that might be what it is pops off the air cleaner takes off a fuel filter going into the carb and tries to blow into it like a whistle clogged grabbed a new one put it on in like two minutes charged something like twenty dollars and we had no problems after that I even tried telling her earlier that exact same problem happened when Dad was driving it one time and that's what was causing it but gee he wanted nothing of it story seven told my mom that I felt sick after accidentally eating her crunchy nut cereal and that I was worried I was allergic to nuts she told me that she allergy tested me as a baby and I was not allergic to anything told her that allergies can change and asked for a second allergy test she told me I was overreacting a few years later I had an ear infection got put in antibiotics had a whole body rash everything was red and swollen got admitted to a e told by doctors that I was allergic to Amoxicillin the most common form of antibiotic told her about the incident it was told once again that I was overreacting because she had me tested as a baby the same year I ate Thai food with peanuts vomited and had a swollen throat my roommates were so worried that they offered to take me to a e but I declined until my mom once I had recovered still didn't believe me last year I ate some chicken only had one bite before my boyfriend realized it had peanut butter in the sauce and forbade me for having another bite ellipse swelled up and my stomach was so badly affected that I had to stay in bed for the night Mom finally believes me but I do genuinely believe that she only thinks that because my boyfriend was a witness am I the only one wondering whether heck she kept eating nuts when she knew she's allergic story Aid had a congenital heart defect called HCM I was 33 years old and otherwise perfectly healthy however it got to the point where I could walk across the living room without feeling sick like I was going to pass out or throw up I went to the ER they said I was fine but one day vomited and passed out went to the ER they said I was fine one morning I passed out and hit my face in the bathtub where my wife found me went to the ER they said I was fine and seriously got to the point where I was convinced it was psychosomatic but that last time after my wife found me she told the doc we weren't going home they needed to transfer me to another hospital three hours away where they have a specialized Heart Center we got there and they run a test to see the pressure of my heart like how effectively it's pumping blood turns out it sucks really bad I was immediately put in a transplant list and a month later got a new heart man I knew I was sick this year docs almost had me convinced it was on my header I was exaggerating my symptoms though them so almost two years post-transplant the zero problems this case makes me think of all the times I've read about a young person suddenly kicking the bucket from a diagnosed heart defect I wonder how many of them were as lucky I wonder how many of you guys have liked the video and subscribe to the channel better be a lot man story nine my sister had a horrible narcissistic friend who I told her repeatedly to cut out of her life this girl never gave a crap about my sister's life only wanting the attention on her she was jealous of my sister's boyfriend and would say my sister should kick him out so she could move in she would get mad that my sister didn't wish her a happy godmother day on Mother's Day she was super possessive of my sister the three of us were together talking about something traumatic that had just happened to my sister and she would drag her away saying she needed to talk privately to her constantly just so my sister's attention would be solely on her and she could talk about her boyfriend instead of what we were talking about I called her out to her face before for treating my sister like trash literally in front of me and all she focused on was that I called her selfish she would try to emotionally manipulate my sister to get her way for years and my sister would always forgive her because she was the only person from school she still kept in contact with until two weeks ago when the friend said my sister needed to hurry up and get over her recent pregnancy termination due to complications so she could listen to her problems as other people are going through things too my sister finally realized that all the friend cared about was being the center of my sister's attention something which she never returned she call the friend selfish locked her on everything and finally cut the cancer out of her life she said I was right I literally said I told you so storytelling a pregnant wife and I were staying in a well-known hotel in Killarney Carrie Ireland there was a second story being built onto an existing extension visible from our window it was being built by a huge well-known contractor and not just something about the build that I thought was very unsafe and reported it to management I'm not a builder or a civil engineer so they didn't take much notice that went to the building foreman and told him of my concerns he assured me everything was safe but I wasn't convinced and they continued with construction I went back to management and told them I was really concerned but it was obvious they considered to be nothing more than an inconvenience to cut a long story short within hours a very large portion of the new wall collapsed missing a Bus full of tourists by a few yards agama I told you moment but they never acknowledged their fault or mistake story 11. I was in the U.S Navy and doing work for a few months as a tax preparer through a program being offered on base which allowed military members to have their taxes prepared for free it was my second consecutive year doing this and I was the only one out of four of us assigned to the tech center that year who had any prior experience anyway as we go through the training and set up the tax Center and go over the process of how everything would be run the highest rank was an E6 and he was the pretentious snow at all time it pointed out that we needed to have everyone sign a particular form that wasn't covered when we went over the process but the E6 completely blew me off and was basically just like what no we don't I reminded him that I did this the year before and I strongly believed everyone would need to sign this form nevertheless I was brushed aside like the piece of trash E4 I was and that was that so the tax year came to a close and we were all but finished with that assignment for me my enlistment was coming to an end and I had began processing out there's a time period where you're released from your normal command so that you can go around Gathering and turning in everything you need and that's what I was doing when one day I got a call from a frantic E6 and you'll never guess why that's right the form I had declared needed to be signed did in fact need to be signed and now they had to call everyone whose taxes we filed and have them come back in to sign it he needed me to come in and help with that he called and left a lot of voicemails saying so unfortunately I was processing out and had no obligation to do that and so I blew him off the same way he did me I laughed a lot remembering the story as I wrote it Thanks for the Memories there isn't a better form of malicious compliance than military malicious compliance story 12. my little bro's girlfriend we all warned him she was in her mid-30s when he had just turned 21 she gave off real bad vibes it was weird and she gets pregnant mind you two months into knowing her he says no biggie then she says she's keeping the baby and does not want him involved at all he being 21 she rakes him over the courtroom to take full custody knows he's short on money so delays and delays hearings because he fights to be in his son's life her entire family steps in trying to instigate terrible circumstances and it gets worse and worse so bad that the courts allow him to wear GoPros to the baby exchanges and have witnesses in public spaces to try and thwart such crazy reactions from her and her family long story short she had to sign an agreement to never attempt to see his child again in the hopes it saves his life from a downward spiral of depression and financial loss I'm sure we'll hear more from her as soon as he starts making good money discern it's over I hate to say it but we all try to tell him not trying to be ignorant but only two months into knowing her is the kid really his feel like a paternity test should be done so he has no ties binding him to that kind of crazy story 13. my life sisters husband was the family is Golden Boy and I was constantly being compared to him now I'll be forced to admit that I'm an underachieving slacker but I still have a degree enlisted in the Army and served honorably in combat and I have a pretty good paying job where I sit in front of a computer most of the day my sister's husband ties me to one of those good job because I would rather spend all day playing video games instead of painting the house I'm the app and he's the great guy but one day he came home and handed his wife an envelope he filed for divorce she didn't even know their marriage was in trouble personally I think he did it because he got power of attorney over his parents wealth they're pretty well off and he had a side chick he liked better than my wife's sister anyway even though he seemed like a nice guy both my buddy and I could tell he was a phony piece of crap a real neocon Jericho was super nice in the most superficial way that anyone who didn't grow up in a posh suburb recognizes within five minutes of meeting the guy never voiced my opinions on my ex-brother-in-law because I knew everyone would just say I was jealous but the day my wife told me he left her sister I actually did get out a little I Told You So my wife was completely devastated that she was so utterly duped by this guy but since she's pretty much a snow white type girl I get it she thinks everyone is a good person it's not like she's the only one fooled by the guy like I said the whole family loved him anyway I know it hurts my wife if I mention how much I hated the guy while everyone was kissing the ground He Walked on so I never bring it up story 14. in October 2018 my mom informed me that my uncle would be temporarily moving in with us now I wouldn't have a problem with it except that he's a convicted criminal he got arrested and locked up multiple times for the following reasons giving grass to his 18 year old son running snow and domestic violence in my father have some mental issues from being this kid so they're both kind of messed up my uncle is a pathological liar he's lied about his job criminal status his girlfriend in hastric many gullible women to giving him money anyway the day my mom told me he was moving in I lost it it gave her a ton of reasons why you shouldn't move in and that my parents were making a huge mistake he just got out of jail in Alabama for God's sake or so we thought spoiler alert she didn't listen he ended up moving in and getting a job a couple blocks away from our house it's a truck repair store that would pay him at minimum wage at this point my dad is at an all-time high he absolutely loves his brother since he's the only family who's always been good to him I actually don't mind my uncle that much just because he's always been nice to me but it's just a Persona he and my dad went shopping test drove expensive cars and had a lot of fun at this point it was about November he moved out from the blow up mattress in our living room Florence's boss's house no it's weird my mom was getting cancer treatment and what came next really stressed her out a woman messaged my mom on Facebook telling her that a man with our last names camed her out of money wonder who that is at this point in the story it gets pretty complicated so I'm just going to simplify it multiple other women come forward about him whilst these single mothers are struggling at about six thousand dollars my uncle is in Hawaii with his millionaire friends good guy all right all of a sudden he disappears my dad the woman and his friends can get a hold of him I guess it was using a trap phone one of the women he scammed went to the gym he works at and found out some detectives from DC were looking for him here's the good part he'd been running from the cops this whole time he was supposed to go to jail in Alabama but missed his court dates and flew over here so I guess we unknowingly harbored a fugitive for a couple of weeks it was in prison for about seven months before they released him last month he is protected by the state so now he has to stay here to avoid getting arrested and taken to Alabama he's 43 and living with his parents a real winner because of my parents decision to house him while he got back on his feet he came into our community and scammed Global women I enjoyed it nice I Told You So with my parents after that one I was really expecting that guy to be older that's a lot of living in 43 years I hope you enjoyed the video and if you made it this far I'm sure you'll also enjoy teachers when did karma hit that one kid story two was satisfying see you in that video
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first story op's wife demands he cut ties with his female friend after she accidentally spilled wine on her wedding dress so he asked redit and Reddit knocked some sense into his head me and ay met through a mutual friend in 2012 during a pub quiz at University I was quite attracted to her and actually told her so at the end of the evening but she told me she had a boyfriend even though she was flattered all the same fast forward 3 years later I met Eliza at the Edinburgh Fringe and we just clicked immediately politics music Cinema whatever the subject approached there was a spark that I'd never felt with anyone else she simply made sense to me her personality was just Vivid it's hard to describe but I'll try on first impression she was so knowledgeable and enthusiastic that I was taken aback by her intensity from that point on we were inseparable and I was dead certain of our future together long before we got engaged and her a again I started a new job at an advertising firm with a position in web design and she was one of the only people I knew at first it was a little awkward given our history especially considering that she was now married to the boyfriend she was dating back then but there was no one else I knew at the firm and we both had Partners at this point so it couldn't hurt to be friends right and to be honest I'm glad because I feel like our chemistry as friends superseded any potential we might have had as a couple she's clever and has a bit of a cheeky personality I'm quite dry and sarcastic myself so I reckon we have a pretty fun Dynamic Eliza doesn't seem to feel that way though sometimes when it's been the three of us she has expressed a feeling of being left out or that ay has been making fun of her I don't see it it's just our Dynamic but there have been a couple of nights where Eliza's been in tears because of something that ay has said one time Eliza got out of her seat and ay sat down where she was sitting to show me a video on YouTube when Eliza came back in she saw ay leaning next to me and was upset for the rest of the night sometimes there have been times when ay has said something that Eliza has read as a come on like when I said I missed swimming because I felt out of shape ay said the two of us should go together with a playful punch Eliza didn't say anything at the time but her discomfort was visible things really came to a head at our wedding and I think the stress of it really got to Eliza during the reception ay bumped into her and red wine spilled all over her dress she was balling the entire evening we're now on our honeymoon and Eliza has said she hopes for a fresh start but she feels like ay might have spilled her wine on purpose she's suggesting that I cut ties with her and if I'm honest I'm not so sure I want to where do I go from here my wife is getting increasingly insecure about my best friend to the point where she wants us to cut contact she says that it feels like she's treating her poorly I'm at a loss for what to do relevant comments and additional information no you thanks the number of times I've bumped into someone and Spilled my drink on them is exactly once in my entire life and I was a sht faced teenager you are e either astoundingly naive or Ally is somehow the unluckiest woman in the world to accidentally spill her red wine on the bride on her wedding day I think you know which one is more likely your wife won't stay your wife for much longer unless you start actually listening to her and stop dismissing all of her fears as baseless insecurities Opie ay was getting a drink from the bar Eliza had taken off part of her gown for dining and dancing purposes and was leaving our bedroom to return to our table they bumped into each other and Eliza had a huge red stain on her dress ay made an off-hand joke and fled and Eliza ran up to me in bits and pieces it sounded really bad when Eliza told me and she was in bits about the wine spilling all over her dress and I went to Ay and asked her what the hell she was up to Ay was so mortified and told me she wanted to sink into a hole she's dyspraxic and has struggled with falling at impromptu moments I've actually witnessed it happened before there was a meeting at work and she got our colleagu coffee the moment she came in she tripped and fell coffee flying everywhere ripped dirt back Ally bumped into your wife in her wedding dress spilling wine all over it and made an off-hand joke before fleeing what kind of response is that op shek a really awkward person and doesn't know how to interact with people sometimes there have been times I have been upset with her because of how glib she's been about personal issues star Valiant so someone who has a habit of accidentally saying or doing things that make your wife cry accidentally also managed to spill red wine over her white dress on the biggest day of her life and you don't think that's at all suspicious if you knew and imagine here that you somehow knew for certain that she'd done it on purpose what would your reaction be would it change how you thought about her give it some thought op I would be really hurt if ay was doing it on purpose I love Eliza and want us to be happy and I can see that I've really messed up here multiple times ay is a good friend but if she's deliberately being a windup Merchant and harming my marriage then I'll have to cut the cord and and sto chumming up to her so much Eliza sometimes says to me that she can Intuit people's opinions and feelings within minutes of meeting them I've never been like that my folks have always said that I'm terrible at picking up on basic things I was at an aunt's house when I was a kid talking her ear off and she said oh it's getting late multiple times it was only until my mom dragged me out that I picked up that she wanted me to leave simple faren it really sounds like you're putting your friend first no wonder your wife is unhappy she comes back in tears from hanging out and you still invite ay to the wedding what was that conversation like op she got really upset one time during banter because me and ay liked to roast each other regularly and ay roasted her a little too hard I guess we were singling out things to insult each other on and the subject went to Eliza and Eliza mentioned that she had webbed feet since then Aly called her Lea frog when I say it Eliza takes it in good stride but when ay says it it's this massive problem I don't get it Eliza has suggested that A's being serious when she says it as opposed to when I do but she roast me the same way too she said I looked like a Jug's poodle that day because I was wearing baggy metal clothes and hadn't styled my hair so it was frizzing all over the place secr beans 1367 why haven't you stuck up for your wife all those times ay has hurt her op I guess because I didn't know that I needed to it seems like it's a perspective thing Eliza is a passionate person who cries at Deluxe puppy advertisements and the intensity is great for a partner but it can cause problems with friendships she reads a lot into things her friends do thinking they're intentional and when she talks to them about what they did they will be completely shocked and unaware that they hurt her ay is a very sarcastic person in general who rolls with the punches and to me it reads like they struggle to Jael rather than intentional cruelty on A's part but for what it's worth ay has told me that she's really keen on Eliza and thinks she's a top girl up date I am posting this here because it keeps getting deleted on relationship advice you know I posted here recently looking for guidance on how to deal with my wife's anxiety and hurt revolving around my friend and it seems like I read the riot act probably rightly so I have been completely inconsiderate of Eliza's feelings and how she feels about these roastings and you alerted me to the possibility that ay is doing this just to be a little sht I sat down with Eliza and we had an in-depth conversation about the wedding incident I got her to describe the event step by step in her own words I was leaving the lobby into the dining venue and ay was a little tipsy at this point and already stumbling from the bar she was initially walking slower but seemed to speed up when she saw me we collided with each other and she pulled an ashamed face and made a joke about me looking like rosam mon Pike and gong girl before scurrying away she seemed embarrassed at the moment but she didn't apologize to me I heard from other people that she was appalled about what happened but I never heard anything from her directly it just paints a picture of Habitual microaggressions from her that have festered into this ugly anxiety whenever she's around I pretty much predict that whenever I'm in her vicinity there will be weird Behavior or uncomfortable comments and I don't want to continue being in a situation where my husband brings someone into my home who resents me simply for existing that was a real gut punch for me for me it always felt like it was just insecurity about me fancying ay 10 minutes ago but Eliza is really torn up about this she said that the honeymoon has been miserable because the memory has been swirling around in her mind and she feels like I'm going to downplay or dismiss it no one should feel like they can't just be themselves especially not at home I didn't realize what a sht had I'd been and I apologized profusely to Eliza and decided to call up ay to confront her about the wedding incident so I did and it didn't go well basically I told her that Eliza was really hurt by the wedding dress incident that she had been hurt by her behavior for a long time and that if she couldn't bring herself to apologize to Eliza's face at least she should pay towards getting the stain removed and if she couldn't bring herself to even do that then our friendship had to stop to say that ay was taken aback would be an understatement she was completely blindsided asking what was wrong with their interactions that made me want to go to such extremes I mentioned the leap frog comment and she went but even you call her that stating that Eliza called her Garfield because of her weight and bright orange hair when I mentioned that she ran towards Eliza and didn't apologize for spilling wine on her she got really upset and started shouting that she wasn't running at her to hurl wine at her dress she was running from her because she didn't want to talk at that moment because she felt like Eliza hated her and didn't know how to go about it she started pointing out times when Eliza had been funny towards her and I basically said right but this isn't about when Eliza has hurt you this is about when you've hurt Eliza and it's got so bad that it needs to be talked about and she started laughing it was really uncomfortable I know she does this when shek anxious about something Eliza asked me if things were okay in the other room and ay demanded if this was set up and when I tried to explain myself she hung up her husband even called me insisting that he would pay for the damage if it was less stressful for me I told you and husband that I appreciated that but I needed to know where ay stood regarding what I just said Yan told me that ay makes jokes whenever she's anxious or uncomfortable and that they've wrote about it in the past but the wedding dress incident is a major issue and that he wants to smooth things over as much as I do so he and ay will pay for dry cleaning while a condolence hamper is sent to Eliza Eliza was relieved that Yuan was so understanding but she wasn't thrilled about A's reaction she basically said that the Garfield comment was always about her hair and never about her weight and that she was deliberately trying to make it seem like the bad behavior went both ways I don't think it's gone both ways either because I've never noticed Eliza roasting ay in any real way Eliza has suggested we try marriage counseling I was a bit shocked at first because we 've only been married for a month but I decided maybe that's the way forward because if Eliza reckons that we need counseling for it then it's clearly a problem so yeah me and Eliza are going to try marriage counseling and my future with ay is uncertain update to so after the rightly deserved bollocking you gave me in the last post Youk be happy to learn that ay and me aren't talking anymore and it's probably for the best Eliza and I received the condolence hamper in the mail and it was primarily soaps not in the sense of fragrant body lotions luxury packages or even organic bars just regular run-of thee Mill soaps there were two dispensers that were faintly rose scented but they were so mild you had to really look for them there were several white soap bars that didn't smell of anything really it was so confusing the only items that suggested it was a proper gift basket were a pound six bottle of Chardonnay and a box of roses chocolates that looked a fair deal more effort than the cleaning equipment at the nearest pub the weirdest item though a pair of women's Underpants not lingerie not anything Lacy or risque like just a plain pair of white pants they were actually kind of grubby there was a faint orange linting on them it just didn't make sense to me because if they were meant to be for Eliza they were at least six sizes too big and if ay really was making a move on me they were again around six sizes too big also why would she choose such disgusting pants to try and seduce me it weirded me out so much that I rang up ay asking why I had soap and grubby nickers in our condolences hand ER she kept making dry remarks to her husband about there being a strange noise on the other end of the phone I didn't get anywhere with her and insisted that you and talk to me instead because getting anywhere with her was like pulling teeth at this rate after some disgruntled remarks she passed the phone over youan asked what was up and I explained the whole situation he was momentarily surprised when I described the hamper as looking like the luggage of a janitor that lived under a bridge he said that it was a small package but there should have been several luxury gifts that weren't simply sanitary items apparently there was a bottle of chardonay a bottle of shurz one box of Rose chocolates a lint bar a selection of crackers and some assorted cheeses somehow they got replaced with leftover soaps bought in bulk in his y fronts which ay found ever so hilarious and apparently found ever so hilarious to send to my wife he was hugely apologetic and embarrassed stating that he'd pay us the cost of the Lost items I was raging at this point but I tried to be collected and said right let me talk to Al again again please and he got her on the line I told her that she had the chance to make it right and she blew it and she groaned and told me that Eliza's jealousy had crippled our friendship and she was sick of having to flatter her insecurities I said no you are Eliza's insecurities and we rode for a bit eventually it ended with me saying that this had been building up for a while and that her attitude had been giving Eliza grief for years ay said none of this would be happening if Eliza knew how to take a joke and I just told her that a joke isn't ruining her wedding dress and then sending her your husband's stinky W fronts she said I sold out my principles for a girl who's threatened by other women after the phone call Eliza was not so hurt as she was confused at first because she was wondering if there was a mixup until I explained to her the joke she seemed pretty much resigned to the idea that ay would always be at sht and I told her the likelihood of that happening was very slim considering she'd cut me off for standing up for her I think the counseling has made us stronger and in a weird way I'm glad this happened because if your friendship falls apart the moment you try to protect your loved ones then they probably weren't that strong of friendships at all shame I won't be speaking to you and from now on HEK a top lad relevant comments material cellist I just hope you finally feel stupid apologize and make amends with your wife how the F didn't you know your friend was bullying your wife is beyond me op I have apologized to Eliza multiple times I should have been more assertive with ay and told her to cut her sht out then I'm aware that this is entirely on me for being permissive towards someone who is really just being a bully towards my wife I'm trying to do better mixed meat I'm glad you're seeing the light but why were you permissive before why was it only now that you finally believed her and confronted ay did you like the attention was it easier to dismiss your wife's concerns as being petty over a crush than to critically consider her feelings and the situation also don't you still work with ay op I think it was because I saw it as lost in transl like it was something that worked with me and ay but didn't with her and assumed that she would figure that it was the sort of banter we encouraged and join in at some point Eliza's from a very sincere straightforward family that says what it means and doesn't necessarily make jokes like I do the whole idea would be lost on them and they would be really confused and upset thinking that we were actually insulting each other Eliza's brother nearly jumped me once just because I said that's plenty when she was rambling on a little that's a still game reference for the transatlantic pal across the world I like it when she Rambles I think it's cute and it's a running joke between us but he found it so personally offensive like he thought that I was just telling her to put a sock in it and he started ranting at me for disrespecting his sister like that Eliza started hiding her face and shame it was that extreme a reaction I think I should have been paying more attention Eliza told me that when she's tried to chat with her A's just been like I don't do small talk and they've sat in complete silence apparently when she tried to chat at another time she was totally noncommittal and yawned so loudly that it woke up our dog I only found this out recently because Eliza didn't want to inconvenience me and I feel so ashamed of my behavior I felt like there were just crossed wires but ay really was bullying Eliza and finding creative ways to essentially make her uncomfortable and squeeze her out of our Dynamic I don't know why or how she thought any of that was appropriate but it's irrelevant as my wife should never be scared of telling me how she really feels yeah I work with ay that is a complication that I hadn't considered I wouldn't worry about her causing drama in the workplace because she values her job greatly but I wouldn't be surprised about some passive aggressive attitude being thrown my way oh well I guess I'll have to wait and see what happens but I'm uninterested in any form of reconciliation if she's going to be that disrespectful additional information from the op the reason that ay is out of my life is because I raised the point in the first place that's more to do with her than me or my paity and yeah I'm aware it was a problem you're damn right it was a problem but it feels like even when I'm trying to write the wrong I'm getting a finger wagging really I don't mind criticism but at this point it feels a bit like I'm getting blows for new reasons I didn't pick up on A's shdt behavior before I felt like it was crossed wires at first but the reason she isn't talking to me is because I told her off for treating Eliza like sht to begin with I should have done it long ago I acknowledge that but let's not start fantasizing about a future where I'll just welcome her back in with open arms for treating my wife like that it's not going to happen because I want a future with Eliza much more than I want a pal to have lunch with I've messed up I know I have and I want to change it letun just move forward op when asked if the underwear was his I didn't I stopped liking ay in 2012 after she said she was taken I didn't sleep with her and I don't really care for that kind of speculation it's just untrue and adds more fuel to the fire people come across this stuff and it just exacerbates problems L Lia came across one of the videos about my post on YouTube or Tik Tok and it stirred up a lot of painful feelings especially reading about your reactions she was shocked that I sought online advice because I usually try to handle things by myself she was more shocked by the comments which were overwhelmingly on her side it helped her acknowledge how shtt and awful everything done to her had been and we had a long talk about it I've agreed not to talk to Ay as she is clearly only interested in causing trouble with a cheap laugh I me mentioned the situation to HR even the stinky Underpants and they said they'd speak to her and keep an eye on any potential developments but so far no trouble as far as I know A's been having lunch with another colleague and I now go down to a neighboring Cafe to grab a baked potato whenever I've been in her vicinity she's just mumbled all right so I'm guessing there were some words between her and HR I mean op on how his wife is doing she's doing well so far so good we had a really successful coup's counseling session and it opened my eyes to so much of my behavior and how I was essentially permitting bad behavior for so long I realized that it was because investing in something emotionally heavy or even just a problem makes me really anxious so I Tred to distance myself from conflict it used to be that whenever my relatives fought they would sort of figuratively pull at me like a ragd doll into taking their side and that behavior upset me so much that any sort of conflict was off-putting to me but I realized that when I essentially do that I leave problems completely unsolved and cause my loved on 's pain due to my own anxieties so if someone is mistreating someone I love I'm not in their corner like I should be a big part of these counseling sessions is figuring out how to manage accountability and not just being like Oh it's my childhood blah blah blah and stepping up the mantle into making things right me and Eliza now do daily check-ins like how are you feeling today how are you managing that is there anything you're not happy about and what can be done to help you so far it's been really helpful as she seems to be in much better spirits and we've been having date nights again which is great aside from the occasional disagreement things have genuinely improved as for ay well things haven't changed much but luckily the work situation has been tolerable I'm surprised at how much I like eating outside of work to be honest I can't stand the cens the food is sht Second Story op knocked her daughter's boyfriend unconscious after seeing bruises on his daughter hello people of Reddit this is my very first time on Reddit but I have heard that you can get good advice from strangers I'm sorry if my writing is horrible so please bear with me I will do my best here my situation happened two weeks ago I have been a single parent for the past 15 years my wife passed away from cancer when our daughter was seven she is now 22 years old it was a difficult journey and I faced a lot of hardships in raising her I have no plans to remarry so all I have left in my life is my daughter we will call her Liz Liz and I are close but she does tend to hide things from me very often minor stuff like boys and stuff I understand that it's normal and I've told her so I have met a few boyfriends throughout the years so it is not like she doesn't trust me I have asked her not to be afraid to introduce me to any boyfriend and I have reassured her that I will always be there for her she does talk a lot about her relationships with me so thankfully I do get updated on them myself she moved out of the house when she was 20 and has since lived alone I visit quite often and help her with whatever she needs recently though she started seeing this guy she met at the bar I think his name was John but I'm not so sure since they started dating she hasn't allowed me to go visit her all that often and usually when she does she makes me tell her days in advance I thought it was only because she was growing up and was advancing in her relationship I have met Jon on a few occasions and to be honest I did not like him I had no evidence that supported my feelings towards him but I just did not like him I have asked her about about how she's doing and how Jon's doing and she has been hesitant to tell me anything she would prefer not to talk about it and would switch the subject when I invited her out to eat it took a lot of persuasion whenever I have seen her she always wears clothing that covers most of her body and has a lot of makeup on she had never worn makeup before so it struck me as odd but she brushed it off when I asked her about John she would get defensive and invasive about it it was almost like she was scared of him recently I I have seen new bruises appear on her arm and neck area she has tried to cover them up but I've noticed them I have asked her about them and how she got them and she would give those cliche excuses oh at work I hit myself on something or I fell while biking I was not born yesterday and I immediately found it suspicious and called her out on it she got angry and told me to let it go and not worry about it I suspected that Jon was responsible ever since he came into her life she has changed and now I am certain that he puts her hands on her two weeks ago I paid her a surprise visit at her home and to No Surprise it was JN who answered the door I let myself in and asked him where Liz was she came out of her room and was shocked to see me she wasn't covered up with 20 layers so I got to see everything every bruise every handprint mark on her body I was horrified that my suspicions were true and before I knew it I lost my self-composure and laid hands on Jon I am not proud of it I threw Jon out of her apartment she was angry at me and through her tears she was telling me she told me not to worry about it and that I should have left it alone that everything was fine Etc she was making me feel like I was the bad guy she told me to get out before I left I again reassured her that I would always be her father and whatnot it has been two weeks and each time I've tried to reach out to her she has been distant with me and has denied any invitation to dinner with me I made sure that Jon was not coming over anymore and she confirmed that she had left him but that she still did not want to see me I do not think I did anything wrong but I feel like I somehow messed up so a comments Mond shaan it sounds like he still has a hold over her trust me he is talking to her at the very least Whispering his poison in her ear I hope she can resist she needs time away from him and no contact to break the spell and see him for what he is n n it's what I would have done too you make a decent D environmental run 528 if it were my child this guy would go missing update one day later hello everybody it has been a while well not exactly but so much has happened over the last few hours I'm sorry I haven't responded to anyone but I have made sure to read every comment I cannot thank you guys enough you guys saved my daughter by giving me the push and the advice to act many of you have said that she is most likely still in touch with him and that would explain why she has been dis from me I did not want to imagine that but you guys have the right sort of explanation and I will explain everything like I said in my earlier post I have been checking up on her making sure Jon wasn't around well after reading many comments I decided that maybe I should man up and go talk to my daughter about what happened I decided to call sick to work today and wanted to go spend that day with my daughter I did not tell her in advance I wanted it to be a surprise no I'm sorry I wanted to see if that filthy effing animal was there and did not want her to give him a heads up just like you guys said he might still be around I decided to head to her place early I picked up some flowers and her favorite snacks as I was walking up the stairs to her apartment room I heard loud screaming and banging I would be lying if I told you guys that it didn't make my skin crawl I was praying that it wasn't him and that my daughter was okay my mind and heart were racing when I made it to her floor I saw him he was banging on the door trying to get in and screaming to be let in at that moment I felt as if the world had Frozen it is hard to explain but I felt a moment of calm and Clarity I'm not sure if I am explaining it well but it doesn't matter I dropped the flowers and the snacks on the floor and made my way towards him he was too busy being an absolute waste of a man to notice me I swear to everyone who will read this I swung at him so hard that I broke not only his nose but maybe some of my fingers as well I'm too old to be fighting my hand is SW swen I did not stop swinging at him not even when he fell unconscious or when he hit the floor I was ready to beat that man to death the only reason I stopped was because my daughter pulled me off of him it turns out that she was watching him through the door peep whole thing this time she did not scream at me she did not cuss me out she hugged me I could hear her muffled cries I kind of cried myself but pulled myself together and told her to pack what was most important to her that she would be staying with me until everything was resolved she silently went back into her home and started to pack I could not believe it but the mother of her was still alive and starting to get up I grabbed him and told him that if I ever saw him again I would beat him to death to never effing show his face again and to leave my daughter the F alone he simply nodded and I tossed him aside it took Liz a while but she eventually came out with a small suitcase and we headed back to my home sht now that I typed this out I forgot about her flowers and snacks back at the apartment she is now safe under my roof once again and I cannot thank everyone enough I would have never imagined it would turn out this way but I thank God that it did I do not want to imagine what might have happened if I had not chosen to show up or not taken any of your guys advice at the moment she is doing fine and is cooking me my favorite meal while I sit on the porch drinking beer and typing this out I will lawyer up because I did f up that kid pretty badly and I'm not stupid enough to believe that I won't hear a knock on my door soon I'm so thankful and glad that I asked you guys I will update you guys if I do not end up in jail or something for now I am only looking forward to eating some effing steak and being with my daughter I love you guys say goodbye for now comments triacle I would hug you if I could also so very dad to suddenly remember snacks and flowers good job you are a top-notch parent and she will never forget this I am 46 and my dad is still a superhero in my eyes because of something like this never be afraid to burn the world for your kids op I wish my wife was here to taste my daughter's cooking she might have had some competition Tracy and 12 I'm happy that she's safe just as a precaution if he goes to the cops to file a complaint about what you did make sure that they know it was done in defense of your daughter after he was the one physically and emotionally abusing her Inda joyo actually Jon swung on him first I saw it all I swear your honor it's the truth thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friends
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my 26f wealthy boyfriend 35m told me if we broke up that this would not be a free ride my wealthy boyfriend 35m and I 26f had the talk about kids and he told me if we broke up that this would not be a free ride my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months despite the age Gap we get along very well both him and I have good careers I'm pretty comfortable whereas he is very wealthy we decided after six months of dating that I'd move in with him so although we do live together with his two dogs I still pay rent for my own apartment we both wanted to make sure if we didn't work out that I'd still have a place to go and wouldn't be stranded our relationship is quite traditional which we both value I take care of the home he takes care of the bills I cook clean am the sole caretaker of his two dogs do laundry on top of all of this I do work a hybrid in the office and at home him on the other hand works for maybe a couple of hours every day
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I came home from a trip and my roommate moved all her things into my room and doesn't want to move back hi there I'm writing this on a throwaway because to be honest I never thought I'd need to post here but what can you do so I 25f moved into this flat about 8 months ago I met L 22f online on a roommate website and we clicked well she's a bit younger but seemed mature we quickly agreed to be roommates both of us were under time constraints to find a place to live but I've got on really well so far up until this our flat is a two-bedroom and to be frank my room is clearly the better one it's bigger and is built in wardrobes when looking for the flat I found the place first on my own and put down a deposit to take it off the market while I found another roommate the flat was perfect cheap rent and my aunt manages the property so I was Keen to snap it up before anyone else did the area it's in is popular so I wasn't really worried about not finding someone to room with because of the above and that I was there first I took the bigger room naturally when showing potential roommates including L round I was sure to show the smaller room and say this would be your room we moved in 8 months ago and it's been happy families never heard L complain about her room because I have about 6X the Wardrobe space that she does I told her she's welcome to store her offseason clothes in there or whatever she wants to store as long as she's not popping and every morning to get dressed she was happy with this just over a month ago I went traveling now I'm not the biggest fan of having people in my room but I told Lana if she had someone St her sister friends from home they could sleep in my bed she said thanks and as she's been such a great roommate and rarely has guests except her boyfriend I didn't worry at all I came back yesterday I was exhausted from the flight and traveling and just wanted to shower and sleep as I walked in L was in the living room with her boyfriend we said hello and hugged had a very quick catch up blah blah then I dragged my suitcase to my room opened the door and found it full of stuff that was not mine I kind of yelled what the [ __ ] and briefly thought I was so jetlagged I was confused but opened the door to L's room and saw all my stuff I walked into the living room and asked L what was going on and she said oh sorry I forgot to mention we put my stuff in your room just because it's bigger and you weren't here and you said I could use it I was honestly so tired I could have passed out then so I probably wasn't in the best state and told her to move it all back immediately she said they were in the middle of making dinner and I looked tired so I should have as sleep her boyfriend then said in anyway you pay the same rent so isn't it fair that you both get the big room at some point I was getting really frustrated and could feel tears welling up hysterical from lack of sleep so I just said we'll deal with this tomorrow and it's getting moved back and then I went to sleep and not my room I've woken up now and I'm so pissed off L's at work so I can't talk to her but what should I do when she's home I feel like this is going to turn into an argument I don't think it'll be as simple as okay let's swap now your home edit I've taken the advice of most people on this threat and moved my stuff back it's taken hours and I'm knackered but I think if I left it another night it would be a real problem I sent her a text when I was almost done in case she kicked up a [ __ ] storm and came home to say Hi l hope you're having a nice day at work just to let you know I'm moving my stuff back into my room didn't want you coming home and walking into the wrong one yes I'm Petty I'll be talking to her when she gets in because this is out of character for her to the point of it being bizarre she's never been anything but a model roommate so I'm going to give her a chance before we're done ASO if she wants to be reasonable and have a chat about rent portions I'm happy to do that she's never had a problem with the rent before and honestly I've never had uneven rent amounts in any place I've ever lived whether I had a bigger room or smaller room but a lot of people here are saying it's the norm so I'm open to talking about it if she's not ridiculous edit two Lena should be home in a bit I'll update when I can edit three hi everyone I've got about a million messages asking for an update but last night was a bit mad and I'm still pretty pretty jet lagged so sorry but I went to sleep anyway here we go so as you know I text L to tell her I moved my stuff back she didn't reply to me fine whatever but she didn't kick off so I figured we were okay I told my Aunt what had happened who was as baffled as all of you and I told her it was probably all sorted just keeping her in the loop I also told my boyfriend who works about 5 minutes down the road he offered to come round in case Lana's boyfriend came round but I told him not to because then we're ganging up on L he insisted on going for a coffee with his mid a couple roads away in case we needed backup which is a bit ridiculous but very cute of him so I did get myself a glass of wine while waiting for L not because I was nervous I just like wine and she came home I was sad in the living room and gave her a very cold High when she walked in she sort of froze bag in hand and her eyes darted between me and my slash not her slash our bedroom door she blurted did you do it and I said what move the rooms back yeah of course and her eyes went all wide and she dropped her bag and ran into the bathroom I could hear her talking on the phone so I was like y PE I guess Tom's coming round fun I heard the door unlock and I was about to go full Hulk on how psycho she is when she came out of the door and stood between our bedrooms their doors are adjacent and she just stared between them both Breathing heavily it was really odd then I noticed she was crying and getting a bit panicky so I asked what was going on she burst into tears and said om he's going to kill me and just sobbed so yeah it was the boyfriend's idea completely as a lot of us suspected she's honestly always been a perfect roommate which is kind of why I came to this sub if she was generally an [ __ ] I would have known how to act if you know what I mean anyway Len has a bit of a breakdown and it turns out piece of [ __ ] Tom has always been a bit of a piece of [ __ ] very jealous which I always saw hints of but L never mentioned so I didn't and has amped up his pness while I've been away when I left he just finished school and basically moved and unannounced and when she'd mentioned he hasn't been home in days he'd give her the what don't you love me I treat you so well you're so selfish blah blah [ __ ] and refuse to move she showed me the texts he sent her absolutely horrific stuff things like ring me in the next 5 minutes or whever send me a picture of you at your desk with something showing today's date so I know you're at work just abusive stuff on to the room as we guessed he moved it he did it while she was at work which is actually a bit gross thinking of him going through my stuff and I'm considering somehow implying I have crashed or something he could catch just to make him squirm a bit but I'll work on it l came home and said what are you doing he made out it was just temporary and that I wouldn't mind such a gentleman speaking on my behalf and he would move it back and he was doing tea for her and she was so selfish Etc when it got a few days before I came back Lena suggested moving it back and he completely denied he said that and told her it was her idea to move it and he only did what she told him but it's staying now or she'd be sorry so basically Tom is a prick and L sobbed and apologized and cried and I fed her wine she didn't want to see Tom who obviously assumed he lived there now so I text him from her phone saying our land lady my aunt was coming round for an inspection and staying for dinner after with my family and he couldn't come over tonight he sent a lot of begging whiny texts and then one on the offensive and called l a liar so I rang my aunt explained everything and had her write us a fake landlord email mentioning the visit and how she was looking forward to Fajita because she's an absolute babe and I make good packet fajitas which we forwarded on to Tom he left her alone for the rest of the night apart from a few texts I'm not entirely sure what we do about Tom L sounds like she wants to break up judging from her crying and screaming I hate him I hate him I hate him into her wine I think she's scared to though I checked with her and he doesn't have a key so that's a relief I've told my Aunt everything and she said she is happy to ban him from the flat but L would need not break up with him first and get all that sorted thanks everyone for the advice I know it wasn't the most popcorn update but hopefully lenana will be okay and we're going to be doing some girly [ __ ] this week and avoiding Tom and yeah God knows what will happen update 2 hi everyone it's been a busy month since my last post and I logged back into this account out of curiosity and saw quite a few people messaged me requesting an update so here we are sorry it took so long but things have calmed down now so shortly after my last post L broke up with Tom she was quite scared to do it because he's a psycho and it took two weeks between the last post and the actual breakup during that time she didn't let him come round or see her luckily she remembered that Tom had never had chickenpox as a kid so we pretended my nephew had caught chicken poox and had to stay with us because my brother's wife had never had it and couldn't risk getting shingles it worked luckily and he stayed away she told her family and close friends about what he'd been like in case he contacted them to get in touch with her and lied about what happened and then text him saying she wanted to break up well he blew the [ __ ] up called her every name under the sun switched back to apologizing and said saying she was the love of his life then said she'd never find someone like him then he would die without her then he wanted to kill her then they were soulmates it was insane he started messaging me too telling me I was an evil [ __ ] who had ruined his perfect wife l k then and as predicted her family and friends got messages too we both turned our phones off to ignore it and just watched TV later I briefly switched mine on where I had a lot of messages from my friends telling me to block some guy on my social media it was Tom calling me everyone imag intive combination of the c word he could think of all over my public Instagram page there were even a few racial slurs which was odd because we're both white but okay L had already blocked him on everything but silly me forgot to make my insta private the next day he rang L's office she was so embarrassed it was awful to tell her he was driving down to our flat she rang me and I rang my aunt who you remember manages the property who told us it was time to call the police we filed a report about Tom and they said to update us on the situation ation in the UK you need to go to court to actually get a restraining order so we haven't as such but the evidence is all there and documented if we need to go that far the police rang Tom at our request told him they'd seen the messages and to turn his car around because if he turned up at our door he'd be arrested police officers here are amazing can I just say Tom managed to [ __ ] himself hard enough to not show up after that so we were fine for a week then the post came Tom started sending letters threats and sappia I love you [ __ ] flowers then a pizza that we had to pay for we were actually hungry so we ate it he signed us up to a magazine subscription it was bizarre we went to the police again they filed everything but Lana didn't want to go to court I don't blame her she was incredibly stressed by the whole thing so two weeks ago I took my aunt and mother out to dinner I told them both about the situation and my goddess of an aunt had an idea she manages about 30 properties not just the one we live at as had a few that were unoccupied now now with school finishing she told me she would show us round all the two bedrooms She had and we could live in any of them for the same rent we pay now and just transfer over our deposit SL fees as long as there were no damages to deduct and we helped do a deep clean to get it ready for the next tenant we found one within a 5-minute drive that's just as lovely and to anyone concerned about the previous rent dispute has equally sized bedrooms so we moved which is why the last two weeks have been manic but we're settled in now Tom has now been informed that we've moved because the stuff he sent since has been returned Len and I are completely no contact with him and anyone who visits us is sure not to pass on our address to Tom also I apologized to L about the issue with paying the same amounts of rent she said she had never had a problem with it and said that's how she had always done it through uni and with other roommates she refused to take any money from me but I've decided I will be funding the weekly flat wine sessions for the future it's been a long long month and even though my traveling tan has faded things are great now thanks for all your advice before guys even the ones I didn't agree with and let's all pray to baby Jesus that I have a calmer living situation from now on
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wife 31f may be upset about not getting invited to my friends 30f celebration dinner long story short one of my friends 30f of 10 plus years is having a celebration dinner but can only have a certain amount of guests I 30m made the cut but however my wife 31f did not there is still the possibility of somebody not being able to make it and my wife can take that spot and because of that I haven't told her about the dinner yet if nobody cancels and my wife isn't able to go should I just not go and not mention anything to my wife and have my friend possibly be upset with me or do I tell my wife and I go alone to the dinner and have her possibly be upset with me seems like a lose/lose situation edit just to clarify my friend has a significant other that will be there so no motive to get with me LOL and also my wife has been to multiple events and while her and my friend are cordial it's not like they've become BFFs or nothing so I guess that's why my friend maybe thought to not invite her since she had limited seating
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AIT for digging up my husband's past so I 25f have been with my husband 23m for 5 years and married for three he's a very quiet reclusive guy I can count how many friends he is on one hand and he doesn't talk much about his childhood I know that he has a single father 43m who he moved in with later on in his childhood and an older half brother 25m it seems to be a sort of taboo to bring up specifically his childhood especially during the time before he moved in with his father I've gone to dinner at his family's place a lot and sometimes times his brother would be telling a story he'll get briefly brought up and then everyone will go quiet it's bothered me for some time now if I'm honest I've asked so many times what happened only for my husband to tell me H not ready to talk about it or to dodge the subject he's in therapy so what's the hold up recently I also had notice some scars on his neck he wears a lot of turtlenecks so I rarely am seeing or paying attention to his neck I asked and he dodged the question and it just made me want to know what happened more it all came to a head a few days ago when I decided to take things into my own hands while my husband was was on a trip for the weekend I asked all of his friends what they knew if he had said anything strange about his past they said nothing learning this just made me want to find out more I practically tore apart our entire house while he was gone looking for anything at all nothing nothing I swear to God I was starting to think that he was some kind of lab creature Who Never Was a baby at this point there was nothing no indicators of his life before his teens and even then barely anything was there no pictures no yearbook absolutely nothing it was like he just appeared into existence one day I ended up calling his father father who after a lot poking and prodding about the situation spilled absolutely everything my husband the sweetest man alive had been abused to the point of near death by his mother neglected so badly that at 12 he was only 40 lb and nearly got strangled to death by that bastard woman that was why he got sent to his father apparently I felt sick I actually couldn't believe what I had heard I just kind of hung up and cleaned the house back up and sat around feeling really gross my husband who came back a day early when his father spilled that he had told me was Furious for the first time in our entire relationship he screamed at me he screamed that I was awful for digging up his past when he wasn't ready I just kind of stood there stunned as he grabbed his cat and left he's been staying with his brother since isn't answering my calls nor his fathers at this rate I'm worried I might be getting sered divorce paper I was just curious I didn't think it would be something that bad AIT t a edit spelling edit to clarifying A few thing one we know quite a lot about each other this is honestly the one aspect that I knew nothing about he was semi-open about things in his very late teens 16 to 17ish fairly closed off about anything after 13 and just refused to talk about anything before then to I didn't see the scars on his neck until recently because it's weird as hell to stare at someone's neck he also is much shorter than me five apostrophe 2 compared to 5' 11 in and almost always wears turtleneck this is also part of why I didn't piece two and two together three I was the one who proposed and willingly chose to go into this marriage I thought he would say more as time went on but he didn't for I have my own issues with my family that I don't talk much about but this is way bigger than what I hide it's not as though he expects full transparency from me but it isn't fair that I tell him more than he tells me edit three the new post that was not my husband Jesus Christ someone actually Twisted what had said into his POV take the fact op says he knew the house was torn apart even though it cleaned it before my husband got home and all the weird added in extra details is proof also my husband is dyslexic he couldn't spell half of that right if he tried post from him was doctored 100% anyway I understand the verdict is MTA and that I violated his boundary thanks for the input everyone
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aita for telling my future sister-in-law that she can't bring her baby to my bachelorette party advice needed this weekend I 24f am having my bachelorette party in Miami and have invited all of my bridesmaids to join we have been planning it for a while and decided to rent a house to have a pool party and go clubbing in the evening I bought a copious amount of alcohol a new speaker and picked up party friendly Airbnb so that we could blast music and drink the weekend away my matron of honor 32f sent me a text last night asking if she could bring her three Monon old baby along she said that she feels uncomfortable leaving the baby for the weekend for context she has three children and lives about hour from the Airbnb leading up to the party she has expressed her excitement and agreed to chip in for the total cost so I didn't expect this one bit I asked her if she could instead come by herself for the daytime portion rather than spending the night away from her baby since I sent that text she has not responded and now I feel like the bad guy I know it may sound selfish but if she doesn't show up then I'm going to be pretty upset especially considering that she is my matron on honor I really just don't think my bachelorette party is the place for a newborn I figured I would ask online since I'm not a mom so I don't know what it is like to be in her shoes am I the for asking her to leave her newborn at home with her husband for the day
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today we have a rich entitled parent story where an entitled parent complains that they're being made to feel like a child we'll get into that in a bit but first mother-in-law disregarding me not sure if this is where to put this but I feel like this was an entitled parent moment maybe guess I'm looking for advice because I really don't like confrontation and I'm quite a sensitive person offline basically I've always been really close to my mother-in-law and she's more like a mum to me we're very similar in a lot of ways especially insensitivity and caring for others but recently she said some hurtful things and completely disregarded my wishes first upset me and her son got married a few weeks ago I read my vows out to her a few weeks before to see if they were okay and she loved them fast forward to the day it appeared like everyone loved them including the little jokes I put in and a few people said that to me the following day I was saying I relieved people like them and found the jokes funny but she said people weren't laughing they were groaning at me for putting them in I asked why she would say that because that'll get into my head and ruin the moment for me but she didn't say anything and carried on playing with my son she knows my mental health isn't always the best and that that would be something I would latch on to especially since I've only just started being able to trust people again second biggest upset because we live so far away from each other I've only met our colleagues once or twice but they've always been really kind to me and spoiled us when big celebrations have happened on top of this they've looked after and cared for my mother-in-law in such a way that they've been more like family and best friends to her especially in difficult times in her life I realized I hadn't thanked them properly for the gifts and things when my baby daughter was born at the beginning of the year as well as my son a few years ago but I also wanted to thank them generally mostly for her I didn't have a traditional cake in my wedding and instead did a traditional dessert slash cake from where I live that are small and individual as we only invited really close family and friends to the wedding her colleagues weren't invited but I still wanted to acknowledge and thank them so I bought separate ones specifically for my mother-in-law to give to them when she went back to work I told her this prior and she didn't look happy about it but didn't say anything other than one of the reasons I'll say in a sec when we came back from our mini honeymoon we had a catch up over the phone and she told me that she'd been thinking about it and took the decision to instead give all the little cakes to one of her colleagues slash friends in particular and told this person I bought them specifically for her her reasons being that no one was really in that week only one other person had gifted my newest baby when we moved closer this person and her family would more likely be our friends and be close to them and this person was having a really hard time so they needed something to cheer her up I was shocked and upset so I didn't know what to say but then tried to come around her way of thinking however I can't seem to don't get me wrong I am glad in some way way I could be part of doing something for her friend especially as she's done a lot for me but for me mother-in-law took something I went out of my way to do disregarded my wishes lied to her friend put me in an awkward position and took a gift away from her other colleagues here's a couple more things but these two are the ones I'm most upset about I don't feel like I'm wrong for being hurt and upset with her and feel she's massively overstepped I tried to talk to my husband about it but he doesn't see the big deal for me but I think he forgets I've experienced a lot of hurt and disregard from people and just how much it's taken me to work hard to trust people and go back to how I used to be with people I really love her a lot and as I said I really really hate confrontation I don't know how to address it without an argument or saying something in the wrong way please no hate just want advice on how to address this appropriately without causing upset I think the issue here is op either feeling the need to please her or or live up to her standards or need validation it's clear that she's routinely hurt you or let you down and my question is why is Opie presenting this as if the only option is to move forward with her and try to find a way not to upset her versus being honest or honestly pulling back a little bit and stop allowing yourself to be hurt by this person our next story is entitled mom is upset that I did my job and had to inform her that her son is misbehaving bit of context first I'm a manager of a before and after school Child Care Program in my local public school district the company that I work for is privately owned and sort of rinse out the space in the schools I've just passed my seventh year working here started when I was 15 and I've always really liked it mainly because the school that I've been working at is the school that I went to as a kid and it's within close walking distance working in that specific school is one of the main reasons that I've worked here for so long when I became the manager it was literally something that was just forced upon me because there was no one else to fill that role I've always been really good at saving so I've never asked for a raise before I've spent my own money buying toys and supplies for the site that the High Reps either didn't want to get or didn't know what to get I've been shortened on support staff for my site for the second straight year as they don't want to pay a competing starting wage with other nearby businesses but whatever working with children K-5 takes a lot out of you but you do it for them I've always really liked my job but the past couple of days are making me change my mind so there I was opening understaffed with two staff out on vacation one not showing and two others coming nearly 30 minutes after school gets out because they're both high schoolers and have to commute drop off siblings and whatever shortly after school gets out I usually take the kids to the playground it's one of the largest playgrounds in the district despite being one of the smallest schools so I'm practically solo monitoring 45 kids because one staff has to stand at the end entrance to the playground and then a hill and the equipment get in the way then I hear a lot of yelling that one of the first grade girls is crying when I get over there the first grader is under some stairs crying and I start my questioning the first grader in question has some Mobility disability required a walker to get around and had multiple surgeries over the summer to help turns out that a new kid in the program this year a third grade boy had pushed her down kept pushing her down pinned her to the ground and grabbed her neck when I asked the third grader why he did this he said I don't know when I asked if asked there was a reason why he did this he said no in response I had him apologize to the first grader and walk Three laps around the blacktop and of course I wrote up a behavior report for him to give to his parents all pretty normal until I get a text from my boss if I could come into the company office to talk apparently the mom of the third grader had called my boss and the principal of this school and had a multi-hour conversation about how I was being biased and unfair to her kid she demanded that I be removed from the site and my boss for some reason immediately caved and said I can pick the school that I want to manage so I'm essentially being demoted told I have to spend a lot more on commuting be moved with no advanced warning and cause the sight that I've spent so much effort on have no manager for the horrible crime of doing my job well I guess this just reinforces the fact that parents have a lot of power when it comes to schools I don't really understand why in a situation where the kid's Behavior was clearly horrendous they would cave so badly but man I would be salty for a long time if I were an op's position honestly I think it's kind of the stuff like this that ruined the experience of people who genuinely care and want to do good being somebody who helps these kids as they grow up and learn our next story is Mom ignored me for weeks got mad when I didn't communicate to her I'm 25 year old female the only daughter in my family I recently started a new relationship with someone who makes me feel safe and appreciated this means I'm spending more time outside of the house and occasionally staying over at their place growing up my parents have always been overprotective helicoptery and would make me stay home to take care of my toddler brother after school as a result I missed out on a lot of high school experiences I've always felt a little behind socially and in life because of this I was never allowed to date even in my early 20s but I stopped listening to them at this point and my parents always judged my friends and their families for allowing their daughters to have boyfriends or dress a certain way I'm a grown adult I work full time go to school part-time and I'm preparing to continue my education next year and move far far away neither of my parents really care to be involved in what is going on in my life there's never a stream of communication via text or call in the past they would only really text or call me to ask where I am this would present itself as them cursing me out or accusing me of drinking or doing drugs there's not even a stream of consistent communication between the two of them so I've learned to be private with what's going on in my personal life just because I don't really want them to be involved or provide their very judgmental and traditional opinions on what I do my narcissistic mom recently saw my tattoo a small outline of my childhood dog on my ankle and told me I was a bad person and ran away crying she then didn't talk to me for two to three weeks I started this relationship around the same time my parents now have been demanding to know where I am who I'm with even though I've asked them for privacy probably should have known better they started lecturing me about how if I don't like it here I can move somewhere else my mother made a very personal attacks at me during this lecture I got upset and emotional and she Scott drafted me my dad told me to not take her opinions personally and that she shows affection in a weird way they told me that I'm responsible for telling them where I am even though they haven't texted me to ask where I've been again they don't text or call me really ever so I just assumed that it didn't bother them only to find out that I should have been picking up that they care oh so much but speaking from past experiences they only start to care when they start to pick up on me dating someone they also say things like we trust you but not the other person which I take as we don't trust you to pick a good person they also say things like you always pick friends over family but when they go out for dinner they take my brothers and don't invite me I'm just incredibly confused if I'm in the wrong to assume that they didn't care because it definitely feels like I'm of the lowest value as the only daughter in a first gen household I guess I'm just wondering if this is normal for parents and how do I navigate or appease them for peace because I'm just so tired I have so much going on in my life and these unnecessary lectures jumble my brain and stress me out even more than I already am also am I being gaslit into believing that they genuinely care because I feel cognitive dissonance creeping up on me anyway I'm just incredibly tired of not feeling seen as a competent individual in their eyes yeah I definitely think a lot of op's concerns are very real here I mean they're putting in the bare minimum or outright ignoring or dodging op and then turning around and saying why are you dodging us or thinking that we're dodging you is it not like a level of gaslighting that's honestly going on here this next story is got the silent treatment for my mom after an argument about my boyfriend I would like to start this story with the fact that me and my boyfriend are currently in a long distance relationship due to the fact that I'm working in another country and he's still in our hometown where my pair parents and his also live so long story short my parents are divorced and living in separate houses in the same city at the time me and my boyfriend got together my mom was living in another city but since the beginning of this year she moved back to our hometown when my mom and boyfriend met at first they had a very nice connection which I was also very happy about but due to some circumstances she started calling him for favors to help around the house as she's doing everything alone I guess she saw him as very reliable and helpful he also has some problems saying no and started to call him even more sometimes even without a reason to share her day or problems once he came to visit me where I live and while in the bathroom he left his phone with me the phone started ringing and I saw it's my mom so I naturally picked up she was so confused why I picked up as she was calling him and when I asked why the freak she calls him instead of me she said she just wanted to chat with him time went by and other their situations started to go on my nerves as I started to understand things that happened to my mom Via him she usually talks with a lot of people during the day and sometimes forgets what she told who but it's just so unnatural to me to learn things about my mom through him there was also a situation that irritated me a lot when I was going back home my flight was on let's say on Saturday and she was supposed to come pick me up from the airport on Thursday my boyfriend says your mom invited me tomorrow evening so Friday to have dinner at her place of course we started an argument as of why she would invite him to dinner exactly a day before I come and especially what they'll do to a dinner just the two of them he didn't go and we ended up going after I was back fast forward to a few days ago when the same situation with a dinner happened again she hit him up with the idea of cooking something and having a dinner together I get that info from my boyfriend again and when the day of the dinner came she randomly texted me what she was doing now I took the opportunity to tell her I know about the dinner and it's again not from her but from my boyfriend and that I don't feel comfortable about these kinds of situations at all she invalidated my feelings saying something like you're always mad about something and when I told her that I don't expect her to tell me everything but when it comes to plans with my own boyfriend I am expecting to know she said am I supposed to tell you every time I call or every word I say to him as well she said if I waited a bit more she would have told me about the dinner I just left the convo there as I was left with no words during their dinner she called me with video and I told her we'll talk later once she's alone I guess my boyfriend was also giving her the cold shoulder and she left in an hour I called her to explain my feelings and how I don't see it right for her to share so many things with him than with me I also told her that her behavior messes up my relation ships with him and we have Arguments for nothing she said she didn't understand my point and needs time to think about everything it's been four days of silent treatment since then am I in the wrong in this situation for speaking up and having some boundaries I don't think Ops in the wrong here I mean it's one thing I suppose for a parent to want to spend a little time getting to know their kids partner but there seems to be like this weird unhealthy attachment going on here where yeah it almost seems like she's trying to date the boyfriend more than op is my question is why is the boyfriend playing along so much with it I mean Opie doesn't seem too upset with him but like why has it been allowed to get to this point our next story is my mom has been abusive and a bully to everyone and now wonders why she's alone I 19 year old female have lived with my mother all my life but moved out a year ago due to multiple traumatic events in the past as of last week I got the official PTSD diagnosis for this and I plan to cut ties she's never been the nurturing type and always just given me the bare minimum that I needed to survive I'm talking friends had to teach me at 13 or so how to brush my hair and teeth because my mom couldn't be bothered to do it they also had to explain things you usually learn in preschool that my mom also failed to show me like not to hit or even touch other kids if they didn't want it she left me alone for the first time when I was six overnight and when I called crying 20 minutes after she left my mom said that she would only come home if there was an emergency and I was so scared to be alone I almost threw myself down the stairs on purpose so that she would come home I chickened out and cry to myself to sleep the next day she said see that went well no need to be a baby about it and from that point forward just expected me to be okay with her dipping whenever she felt like it she said I looked like a Chinese because I had makeup on for the first time and the shade was too pale for me she said that all the men would be looking at me in that way and that I would be a pretty sight slash distraction for them I was 12 and I was about to go to church for a ceremony she has repeatedly made it known that she doesn't care about my well-being nearly as much as my chores being done my grades being good and people thinking she's a good Brave single mom from not caring that I wouldn't eat or show up at her house for days just to see if that would make her worry two calling me fat even though I'm perfectly healthy and she's the obese one there's a lot to unpack here I'm going to therapy and I'm getting better responsible for my PTSD is something she did when I was six or seven she would invite our neighbor and her two sons over so they could play with me and the grown-ups would talk they essayed me multiple times during those play dates I begged my mom not to let them come over again with tears in my eyes she responded by saying I should be grateful those older boys were even indulging me after all boys that age don't want to play with girls much less younger babies like myself it stopped after she fought with a neighbor Meanwhile my memories got repressed and I only remembered these things after two years of therapy that was just the context sorry for trauma dumping my birth giver's most recent Escapade is this ever since my grandma her and my aunt's mother died my aunt doesn't celebrate Christmas with my mother she says it's because she thinks the holiday is overrated but whenever I come to visit on December 24th or 25th to drop off presents the entire house is decorated beautifully and I'm always invited to stay for dinner a movie or a snack I think my aunt likes to celebrate Christmas just not with her sister my sister The Golden Child and an enabler for my mother's Tantrums spends one holiday with our mother and one with her baby daddy's family so the kids get even visit so imagine my surprise when after a year of little to no contact suddenly I'm called by Mother Dearest asking me to come home and spend Christmas with family I've been at my Dad's for Christmas for five years in a row I was the first to leave to spend the holiday elsewhere then came my aunt and then this year my sister why I should throw around my plans because she failed to keep her family close literally every other day of the year is beyond me and I tell her so now of course this is very sad and I'm a horrible daughter in person for doing this and leaving my poor mother alone on Christmas boohoo some family members have called and told me not to be selfish and that it's time for family to come together I tell them I am with my family and if they think it's so sad that this poor narcissistic abusive she devil has to spend a cold December night alone then they can come and pick her up no one wants to do that big surprise my aunt is staying out of it my dad says it's my right to do whatever ever I want on Christmas and would not recommend going back out of pity and guilt my mom is crying and calling and guilt-tripping me and begging me to come home my sister says I'm being cruel and a selfish brat the woman is my mom and she gave birth to me our family is really small so there's like seven people on either side can someone please tell me I'm not insane I think I need to hear that or would you keep someone like this in your life aside from the sa this is the Tamer stuff she did edit for those of you wondering where my dad was during all of this she basically used him as a donor and pieced out they both wanted a child but not a relationship so they agreed that he would be a weekend dad and I would stay with my mom most of the time only she started reducing contact the second I was born she didn't put his name on the birth certificate without anyone's knowledge he only got to see me like once every two months if we got lucky and even then my mom complained that that was too much my dad wasn't aware of how I'd been treated and and I only recently told him mostly because I repressed half the bad stuff that happened and the other half I thought was normal as a child he was horrified what's weird is that she never seemed to want me around like she'd leave for days during school weeks with little to no warning or during summer she'd ship me off to a camp I didn't want to go to my dad would have gladly had me on all those occasions I don't know why she didn't let me go at this point I think she was just acting cruel because she could honestly I think the last bit Opie was talking about is just selfish they probably just wanted to be the better parent they probably wanted to reinforce and make sure their status as a strong Brave single mother could not be infringed or walked upon in any way needless to say I don't think gopi's insane at all this next story is entitled parent complained that I made him feel like a child I work in the kids area on a cruise ship policy we allow parents with kids younger than three in the play area rule being one parent has to be accompanying the child at all times I left for a few minutes because of a child getting seasick when I returned there was the dad with his two-year-old son drawing on the counter I said I'm sorry sir but please do not let him draw on the counter he said oh these aren't washable I said yes they are we don't want anyone drawing on the counter entitled dad allowing the child to continue I say sir please do not allow your son to draw on the counter entitled dad tells the child he isn't allowed and they leave while I clean the marker off the counter the child runs off to some prep work one of my co-workers set aside child grabs the scissors and the prep work I said sorry dear you cannot play with this right now you're welcome to play with it later the entitled dad says it's okay for him to play with it while I sit with him I say Sir there are toys he's welcome to play with this he cannot play with right now the dad replies I'll be sitting here with him I say understand that right now he cannot play with this he's welcome to when my co-worker has finished cutting everything the entitled dad now frustrated do I need to pay for anything I said no sir I'm just letting you know right now he cannot play with this I thought my son was allowed to play with anything in this room the manager thank God for her says he can play with what is available to him there are toys on the other side of the room he can play with sir no need to pay for anything entitled dad takes a plate of markers to one of the tables I tell my manager I'm going to give him some paper as I'm worried he'll allow the child to draw on the table just as I got the paper there he was sitting next to the child drawing on the table I say Sir here's some paper for your son to draw on please do not allow him to draw on the table entitled dad takes the paper while telling his son he must draw on the paper all frustrated my manager gave me a look of oh my God I want to go clean the room next door before returning my manager informed me the entitled dad asked for my name he wanted to make a formal complaint against me for treating him like a child my manager said the last straw was when his son opened the TV cupboard started playing with the things in there which is the Nintendo switch controller sound system DVD player and games for the switch my manager informs him that that is not an area for a two-year-old child to play with he was obviously not happy by that his wife showed up during the time they left just as I returned the wife thanked us for everything that was that the washable marker I could get off the counter sadly not completely on the table I love that this guy had to clarify and make sure to ask do I have to pay for anything because it darn sure seems like by the time they were done in that room that they would have managed to find a way to have to pay for something just to clarify I don't have to pay for anything in here right meanwhile he's revving a theoretical chainsaw behind his back our next story is entitled mom yells at me and my cousin because we didn't let her kids play I'm sorry if the details are a bit vague as I was only around 4 years old when this incident occurred this story takes place in late 2008 around November at the time my cousin had the idea to set up a lemonade stand for our neighborhood and I agreed we received permission and gathered all the necessary ingredients to make the lemonade using an old Lemonade Stand from our parents childhood and adding in our play tents and toys we transformed our front yard into a kid's Paradise with play tens swings a trampoline and a sandbox our cul-de-sac had about six other kids including two girls our age who had been our friends since we were born as well as four older cousins whom we weren't extremely close with we were familiar with all the kids and everyone knew they were welcome to join us and play once we had our setup ready our grandma treated us to some snacks these snacks included chips gummies and two cups of cola my cousin and I occasionally got to share a can of Coke As a treat she also gave us a plate with two fresh brownies our routine was to play until we noticed someone approaching the lemonade stand most of the people who stopped by were family friends there were also two strangers who approached but turned away after making a purchase at one point a boy around 9 or 10 came by on a bike he immediately ran and started jumping on our trampoline with his shoes on which upset my cousin our grandparents had a strict no shoes on the trampoline Rule and his jumping caused my cousin to fall off and hit her head my papa who was doing yard work nearby intervened and asked the boy to get down the boy became angry and started yelling at my papa claiming that he wasn't his boss and that his mom had told him he could play on the trampoline this puzzled my grandpa because we had never seen this boy before despite the confusion my papa picked the boy up by the arm and pulled him to the ground he did this because the a trampoline was very low to the ground my papa explained to the boy that he couldn't simply do things because his mom told him to and he emphasized that the boy could have just asked to play however he couldn't do that because he ended up hurting my cousin the boy then sulked and got back on his bike after my papa helped my cousin we continued playing by that point we'd sold most of the lemonade when we suddenly heard a loud crash we turned to see a woman and the pitcher of lemonade shattered on the ground the woman approached grabbed me by the arm and began yelling at both me and my cousin leaving me terrified and unable to recall much of what she said my papa heard the commotion and rushed over to see what was happening he saw the woman holding me by the arm and started yelling at her he even threatened to call the police the woman let me go and redirected her anger towards my papa to her surprise my kind looking Grandpa could be Stern and assertive he shouted at the woman while my cousin come comforted me unfortunately the part of my arm that she had grabbed was already starting to bruise eventually the woman grabbed a half-eaten Brownie and threw it at my papa in response he took out his phone and called 9-1-1 this frightened the woman prompting her to quickly run off after that we packed up and went inside fortunately we were never bothered by that woman or her son again we also found out that they lived on a nearby Street guess the Apple doesn't fall too far from the tree at least the kid when told no learned to just give up and walk off albeit sadly I mean I get his apparent you see your kids sad or dejected because they couldn't get something there's a part of you that's like I want to give them everything they desire but you also have to you know be an actual parent first and foremost the fact that this lady went and grabbed and smashed that lemonade and threw a brownie not exactly somebody I would consider parent material to begin with but with that being said that's all the time we have for today now if you want to hear another absolutely crazy entitled parent story check out that video on the left or if you missed my latest video check out that video on the right that said I'll see you all next time with some more 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when did your something is very wrong here feeling turned out to be true have a friend that would essentially answer a text message during bang bang he was that attached to his phone he didn't get back to me one day and I noticed his Facebook hadn't been updated yet I tried hitting him up a few more times something didn't feel right told a few friends most wrote it off as nothing because this guy always seems happy he lives like an hour away finally I get someone to go with me to hang out with him worst case we'd say we were going to be in the neighborhood that's why we were hitting him up had we not done that he was going to kill himself that night we showed up and he just started crying immediately and saying that he needed help we outright intervened in a friend's suicide he was always so active on social media as a way to hide his depression it chills me to this day that if maybe I don't write him and get a strange odd feeling that a friend might not be here today edit a quick follow-up he's actually quite good now he struggles still but we'll talk about it and allows us a bit more into his life so that we can help he's got issues that I myself have but would never mention it before so now we can talk about a lot more things but overall he got the help he needed in lives pretty well these days
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what have your pets done that is worryingly smart I had a cat that learned how to open the fridge then my dog started begging my cat for food then the cats started getting into the fridge just to feed the dog I patiently await the day where my pets would decide to overthrow me and have me fixed I'm not fighting it that'll only make it worse in the long run had him for about 3 months and my dog didn't like him to be fair my dog didn't like anybody that wasn't me or food husband's dog wasn't too interested in him either anyways so one day the cat got up onto the counter and found some leftover chicken does he eat the chicken nope he knocks a piece off the counter watches it fall down my dog taking it and walking to the carpet to eat it second dog comes up tosses another piece off dog goes to the carpet first dog comes back for the next piece until all the chicken was gone didn't eat a single piece himself freak occurrence no cleaning lady kicked the dogs outside to mob their Hooves were inside C brings the dog a hoof my dog runs off with his hoof second dog waits for him picks it up spits it back out and waits
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AIT for telling my daughter that alienation is not a good enough reason to change schools I'm 38f going to be as straightforward as possible my daughter 16f started High School last September she's an incredibly smart kid and got into the best high school in our city and best Nationwide ranked by admission grade for reference her class had 26 spots up for grab and the lowest admission grade was 9.89 10 we were so proud of her now this school also has a reputation as a hub for wealthy kids we're solid middle class we didn't think this would matter that much since rich kids are still just kids at the end of the day and she should try being friends with everyone she's quite a shy and quiet person even though she was nervous about the whole thing to be expected she also looked excited until High School actually began immediately after the first day she started complaining she said the teachers are amazing facilities are good but her classmates not the best experience to say the least apparently they're all from very rich families and her and her benchmate are the only poor students in that class she said they're not mean and don't bully anyone and if she asks them about school related things they always respond nicely willing to help but they're extremely clicky and
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did she cheat I need specific reasons why it's indicated repost this is my first time posting here I feel like no matter how I word it that advice here is going to skew towards leaving rationally I see it but I'm reluctant I still love her we've been married around 3 years together eight about 6 weeks ago my wife changed drastically in the way she acted and treated me she told me there was an emotional wall between us and she was unable to feel she told me she still loved me but wasn't in love with me she told me she needed time to find herself and decide what she needed to be herself again she wanted me first to leave then stay she wanted to keep me around while she made up her mind she told me that while she was in this state she still thought it was possible to fix things but she wouldn't have sex with me because she felt no emotional attachment 3 weeks ago this reached a climax I finally pulled it out of her that she wanted to end it she pretended like things were okay and normal while I was dying inside from her holding our future in her hand I needed an answer she finally told me it was over I felt horrible for a night I called in from work the next day to start looking for a new job in a new location that night when we were both home she was sobbing and repentant she was pained and making it very clear she thought she made a mistake we had great sex she made me hope again I believed her a few days later she told me she had planned a night out with an old friend a female cooworker from the past transplanted to the area we are in now I was supportive I believe she needs to be more social after this the way she acted towards me again dip she started flipping back to being unsure she looked for and found fault we got drunk one night and instead of being more fond or playful she became extremely negative and ranted about things she is annoyed about she started withholding sex again all the while I was losing my mind I just wanted to know what the hell was going on why was it so hard for her to try so hard to find fault in herself while seeing nothing but faults in me but I continued to try a week ago I found something out that deeply hurt me I showed a cooworker a picture of my wife and I and he recognized her holy as her name is she age she's on Tinder I am grateful to this friend but this hurt intensely I left work early that Saturday and confronted her after much lying and pulling she finally admitted two things one it was actually h two she had went on a date with a guy for drinks supposedly the night she met her old coworker this was after we made up reconciled our love Etc she did this because she told me she needed to feel again she was extremely sorry she had a trip plan months ago with her best friend that she left for 2 days later I wanted her to go I wanted her to be happy but I've had three days now to think drink alone I was sober for 7 months until this sequence of events broke me and consider what the hell to do she is adamant nothing physical happen but I have doubts based on the amount of lying her mother has severe narcissistic traits and has been hospitalized recently her family situation has been putting immense stress on her she is trying to get help and she knows she needs medication and therapy to manage her problem meanwhile I moved over 3,000 Mi to be with her here 6 months ago to be near her to her family who was dealing with a severe terminal illness one of the jobs I applied for bid I had two interviews and I've all but been offered the job it would be good pay housing provided and would put me back in driving distance to my own family it would be another 3,000 M move and would finalize our split if I took it I have 6 days to decide dash dash I still love her she was nothing but supportive for years she lived in a dead end town near my family while we dealt with our own terminal illness she kept it together while my mental health spiraled in the past some BPD and was an alcoholic since then I found a medication that worked for me have been trying to fix our relationship have been working on myself every day I unfortunately relapsed with this situation but I'm still trying to stay positive and will sober up when this is resolved I see this as an illness but my eyes are wide open is this the beginning or will her Proclamation that I'll never do this again stick she wrote down her Decline and everything she did to remind herself how bad it can get she's getting therapy and is going to try medication I don't know what to do I love her and married for sickness and good health I believe this isn't her but she hurt me so deeply and destroyed my trust not so much the date but the deception cowardice and manipulation that the last two months have entailed other subs have surmised that she cheated please give me hard reasons and truths as to how this is the case be brutal if you feel you have two I feel like I'm blinded because I'm too close and in denial possibly
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:13.219 --> :19.500 My friends had the worst thanksgiving some years back when we decided to have a friend’s :19.500 --> :20.500 thanksgiving. :20.500 --> :24.029 That year, one of my friends suggested that we celebrate thanksgiving with one another :24.029 --> :26.199 since we all did not have families in the city. :26.199 --> :30.190 “It would be like in ‘Friends’; they always celebrated Thanksgiving together”, :30.190 --> :31.190 she said. :31.190 --> :34.610 We agreed that it was a great idea and decided to do it. :34.610 --> :39.010 One of my friends had a sister who lived in the city so she invited her sister. :39.010 --> :43.390 I was great at grilling turkey so everyone knew I would be in charge of the turkey. :43.390 --> :48.739 We had a great cook amongst us and the sister who lived in the city is a great cook as well :48.739 --> :50.739 so they were to take care of the food. :50.739 --> :52.399 We all looked forward to it. :52.399 --> :56.750 There were seven of us in our group, two of us worked for the same PR company, and the :56.750 --> :58.570 other five had different jobs. :58.570 --> :01.690 What we all had in common was that we went to college together. :01.690 --> :05.850 We were not all friends in college, but everyone was friends with me in college. :05.850 --> :11.310 I was a popular guy in college, I was known for being a campus journalist, and I had to :11.310 --> :16.630 go out a lot of times to talk to people, interview them, and a lot more to gather data for my :16.630 --> :19.240 journalism so I met many people. :19.240 --> :23.920 The first person I was friends with from the group was my first girlfriend in college. :23.920 --> :28.020 We met and noticed that we liked the same things and had the same interests. :28.020 --> :31.700 We started hanging out so much that everyone thought we were a couple. :31.700 --> :35.100 We would tell them all the time that we were not dating and they would roll their eyes :35.100 --> :36.130 at us. :36.130 --> :39.840 Since people already thought we were together, we decided to give it a try. :39.840 --> :44.729 We dated for three weeks and decided we were a bad fit, we did not even really like each :44.729 --> :47.259 other and we were fighting a lot. :47.259 --> :52.509 We chose to not let a romantic relationship ruin our friendship and we went back to being :52.509 --> :53.509 friends. :53.509 --> :57.909 She had two other guy friends and I met them through her, we somehow became a group of :57.909 --> :59.659 four, and she was the only girl. :59.659 --> :04.090 As time went on, I introduced three of my female friends to the group and we all became :04.090 --> :05.509 quite close. :05.509 --> :11.129 So close that we moved to the same city after college but all at different times. :11.129 --> :15.010 We did most stuff together, we hardly had the time to be in the same space with one :15.010 --> :19.420 another, the group was hardly ever complete but whenever that happened, it was always :19.420 --> :20.420 a delight. :20.420 --> :24.810 The girls sometimes hung out together and we guys did our thing, but we could hardly :24.810 --> :29.630 get everyone together so when our friend suggested spending Thanksgiving with one another, we :29.630 --> :32.300 were excited about it and all looked forward to it. :32.300 --> :37.050 I was in the area where one of the guys lived one evening when I decided to stop by his :37.050 --> :38.080 apartment. :38.080 --> :43.140 As I got closer to the building, I saw him with a woman whose ginger hair looked very :43.140 --> :44.140 familiar. :44.140 --> :48.011 I just knew that I had seen her somewhere but I could not place a finger on where, when :48.011 --> :52.549 it finally occurred to me where I had seen her, I recoiled in horror. :52.549 --> :54.420 That was my ex-girlfriend! :54.420 --> :59.490 I was sweaty and hot all of a sudden and when I saw him kiss her, and how she laughed after :59.490 --> :03.200 he had done that and then kissed him again, I almost collapsed. :03.200 --> :07.030 I drove back home angrily, I was close to tearing up. :07.030 --> :10.650 I rang another friend in the group to tell him what I had seen and he told me that they :10.650 --> :13.000 had all been in his house for most of that day. :13.000 --> :17.519 Since they were in his house, they had probably seen them together and none of them told me. :17.519 --> :20.650 I thought for certain that they all knew about it. :20.650 --> :25.879 Seeing my friend with her hurt not just because she was not just some random ex-girlfriend, :25.879 --> :28.879 but also because I was madly in love with her. :28.879 --> :30.390 She meant the world to me. :30.390 --> :35.090 When she broke up with me, I was so devastated and became uninterested in living. :35.090 --> :39.540 I just did not know how I could live my life without her, I did not want to live life without :39.540 --> :40.540 her. :40.540 --> :45.769 My productivity reduced drastically, I was constantly sad thinking of her, and I would :45.769 --> :50.629 be indoors for days, refusing to go out, not even to work. :50.629 --> :54.040 When I did go to work, I was grumpy and unproductive. :54.040 --> :58.329 My boss was kind enough to ask me to stay back and take compulsory leave. :58.329 --> :02.799 I know the only way he allowed that was because I had been an asset to the company. :02.799 --> :05.650 My friends all had to come over to do a rescue of sorts. :05.650 --> :11.060 They encouraged me to talk to them and find healthy outlets to handle the end of my relationship. :11.060 --> :14.020 They knew how long it took me to get over that relationship. :14.020 --> :18.389 It was so bad that one day, I smiled and my friends were so happy. :18.389 --> :22.630 They had not seen me smile in a very long time. :22.630 --> :26.440 I knew that day that I had to just move on from that relationship. :26.440 --> :30.740 I am a social butterfly and I am naturally bubbly and sanguine. :30.740 --> :35.639 Seeing my friend celebrate me smiling when I used to always smile scared me. :35.639 --> :40.509 I decided that I would not let my ex steal my joy and consciously worked toward getting :40.509 --> :41.949 my groove back on. :41.949 --> :46.330 I could not believe that my friends who knew all these were comfortable with one of them :46.330 --> :50.490 dating my ex and not one of them even told me! :50.490 --> :52.020 I felt betrayed. :52.020 --> :56.169 The day before Thanksgiving, I went shopping with the two “cooks”. :56.169 --> :59.520 They noticed something was wrong but I insisted that I was fine. :59.520 --> :01.300 “You don’t look okay though. :01.300 --> :02.470 Are you sure you’re alright?” :02.470 --> :04.690 “I already said I was fine. :04.690 --> :06.389 Drop it” I snapped at her. :06.389 --> :07.590 She was taken aback. :07.590 --> :08.930 “Listen, I am sorry. :08.930 --> :11.130 It’s just that I’m just overwhelmed.” :11.130 --> :14.139 My other friend nodded and patted me calmly on the back. :14.139 --> :19.139 “I understand, holidays stress me out too, and look at the overwhelming number of people :19.139 --> :21.819 in the store” Her sister rolled her eyes. :21.819 --> :26.160 “I know you are stressed but, so am I. Don’t take that out on me”. :26.160 --> :29.800 I muttered an apology, but she ignored it and kept walking. :29.800 --> :33.630 That evening, I was using the oven for the turkey while the sisters cooked and the others :33.630 --> :35.080 helped out with other stuff. :35.080 --> :38.890 I was to grill the turkey and bring it over to my friend’s house – the one who was :38.890 --> :43.199 dating my ex since we were having dinner at his house later that day. :43.199 --> :48.990 The first thing I did was ruin the turkey, I made sure it got burnt. :48.990 --> :52.580 It got so burnt that it was very black on the outside. :52.580 --> :54.050 I also showed up late. :54.050 --> :58.380 They kept calling to ask why it was taking me so long because they were hungry. :58.380 --> :03.229 When I eventually showed up, they were relieved but not until they saw the turkey. :03.229 --> :04.910 They all went about complaining. :04.910 --> :08.690 “I just knew we should have grilled it ourselves”, one of the sisters said. :08.690 --> :13.919 I did not reply to their complaints initially but when they had all kept quiet, I said “It :13.919 --> :16.350 tastes better than it looks, I promise”. :16.350 --> :19.759 “It's better,” one of the guys said as they set the table for dinner. :19.759 --> :23.080 We all sat down to dinner and I asked what everyone was grateful for. :23.080 --> :26.680 “Honey, can we talk about that AFTER we are done eating?” :26.680 --> :28.360 “Come on” I urged everyone. :28.360 --> :32.470 “It is only going to take a moment and then we can go on with our food” :32.470 --> :33.860 They reluctantly agreed. :33.860 --> :37.669 “I’m going to talk with my mouth full though, I need to eat. :37.669 --> :42.470 I’m starving”, the friend who was seeing my ex said and everyone chuckled. :42.470 --> :46.099 We decided on what part of the table to start from and he started. :46.099 --> :51.330 When he said he was grateful for love, I almost stood and punched him in the face. :51.330 --> :56.349 The others talked about what they were grateful for, good friends, a new job, supportive family :56.349 --> :57.949 members, and all of that. :57.949 --> :00.150 When it was my turn, I burst out laughing. :00.150 --> :04.610 “We do not have the time for your clownery, the food is getting cold”, the sister I :04.610 --> :06.539 snapped at in the store said curtly. :06.539 --> :08.479 “You know what I’m grateful for? :08.479 --> :13.479 I’m grateful that my eyes are now opened to see the people I call friends” :13.479 --> :17.039 The room went quiet, I guess they were wondering what I was talking about. :17.039 --> :20.979 “I’m grateful that when I found out that one of my best friends in the world is dating :20.979 --> :26.360 the only woman I have ever really loved, I did not get a stroke immediately?” :26.360 --> :31.360 The two sisters were lost and so was my first friend, the one who I used to date in college. :31.360 --> :34.039 “Which of your friends is dating your ex?” :34.039 --> :39.039 my college ex asked immediately, her eyes darting from one person to the other. :39.039 --> :41.300 “Is someone going to tell me what is going on here?” :41.300 --> :42.940 she asked when no one said anything. :42.940 --> :44.099 “Oh, you didn’t know?” :44.099 --> :48.599 I asked, partly disappointed in myself for even thinking that she knew about it. :48.599 --> :52.409 She was my oldest friend in the group and I should have known that there was no way :52.409 --> :55.409 she would be comfortable knowing that and not telling me. :55.409 --> :58.509 I told her what was going on and she was shocked. :58.509 --> :02.710 “How long has this been going on and why didn’t anyone mention it to me?” :02.710 --> :03.710 “Or me? :03.710 --> :07.259 I had no idea they were seeing each other” one of the sisters said. :07.259 --> :11.980 She said she knew my friend was seeing someone, but she did not for once ever think that the :11.980 --> :14.500 person he was seeing was my ex-girlfriend. :14.500 --> :16.919 “That is extremely cruel. :16.919 --> :20.830 It is very cruel of you to do that knowing what we all went through trying to get our :20.830 --> :23.860 friend to move on”, my college ex remarked. :23.860 --> :26.909 While this was going on, my friend had his head in his hands. :26.909 --> :27.909 “I am sorry. :27.909 --> :29.599 I am very sorry. :29.599 --> :31.921 I did not want to tell you because I did not want to hurt you…” :31.921 --> :36.870 “Oh, you did not want to hurt him so you chose instead to… hurt him?” :36.870 --> :39.669 “I was not talking to you”, he suddenly yelled. :39.669 --> :42.880 “Well I am talking to you”, my college ex yelled back. :42.880 --> :46.100 “I can’t believe you all knew and did not say anything. :46.100 --> :47.100 Shame on you! :47.100 --> :48.160 All of you!” :48.160 --> :51.980 One of the guys who had been quiet and had not said anything since I mentioned what I :51.980 --> :58.150 was grateful for, and was usually the quietest one, sighed loudly and then turned to me. :58.150 --> :02.450 “Listen, I did not feel like it was in my place to tell you, but I did make him promise :02.450 --> :07.510 to tell you and he swore that he would” “Look, we did not want to hurt your feelings. :07.510 --> :12.620 There was no way I could break news like that to you and that was why I did not say anything”, :12.620 --> :14.540 one of my other friends offered. :14.540 --> :19.170 They all soon started to argue about whether their keeping it from me was wrong or right. :19.170 --> :23.590 “You can’t just lie to your friend for so long and then say you did not mean to hurt :23.590 --> :24.590 them. :24.590 --> :26.770 At what point did you think it was not going to hurt him? :26.770 --> :29.910 When he sees the bright pink wedding invitation cards?” :29.910 --> :34.510 “I’m sorry,” my friends muttered, except for the guy who was dating my ex. :34.510 --> :36.120 “I’m sorry, man. :36.120 --> :38.650 I promise I did not intend to hurt you. :38.650 --> :40.290 We met again on a work trip. :40.290 --> :45.450 It was so random, I tried very hard to look away, but we were in love…” :45.450 --> :49.500 Before he could finish his sentence, I hit him in the face. :49.500 --> :50.500 Everyone gasped. :50.500 --> :55.310 “If you ask me, he deserves that,” my college ex said, holding up her wine glass. :55.310 --> :57.770 “Why are you being so judgemental? :57.770 --> :00.360 You are only making things worse, you know that right?” :00.360 --> :02.200 the sister who was invited quipped. :02.200 --> :05.010 “Who are you and why are you even here?” :05.010 --> :08.470 She turned to no one in particular and asked, “Who invited her?” :08.470 --> :12.070 “Don’t talk to my sister like that,” her sister countered. :12.070 --> :15.110 “Oh, is it okay for her to talk to me like that?” :15.110 --> :18.019 “She only asked that you chill out on fueling the fire. :18.019 --> :19.630 Why are you acting like his spokesman? :19.630 --> :23.500 We are trying to make things right here, and you’re making it even worse” :23.500 --> :27.130 The friend I had hit was still sitting, in shock, holding onto his face. :27.130 --> :29.630 “She’s still in love with him,” he said. :29.630 --> :30.630 “What?! :30.630 --> :31.630 Are you crazy?” :31.630 --> :33.339 My college ex looked mortified. :33.339 --> :37.089 “Well, you did confess to being in love with him last year” :37.089 --> :42.060 “First of all, that was last year, secondly, loving someone is not morally wrong. :42.060 --> :45.070 I am not the one sleeping with my best friend’s ex” :45.070 --> :46.589 “Can we just eat? :46.589 --> :48.000 I’m very hungry.” :48.000 --> :49.889 one of the girls said, holding her tummy. :49.889 --> :54.029 “Oh yeah, let’s just forget about what he did to me,” I replied to her. :54.029 --> :55.450 “He was wrong, okay? :55.450 --> :56.450 He is wrong. :56.450 --> :00.620 About everything, but it’s Thanksgiving, we can’t spend Thanksgiving bickering and :00.620 --> :05.060 hitting each other, come on” “I’m just going to leave,” my college :05.060 --> :07.870 ex got up, walking to where she had hung her coat. :07.870 --> :08.940 I followed her. :08.940 --> :10.400 “Why are you leaving? :10.400 --> :12.110 Is it because of what he said? :12.110 --> :13.700 So what if you were in love with me?” :13.700 --> :14.790 “Go on, leave!” :14.790 --> :16.970 I heard him yell from the dining room. :16.970 --> :21.330 She ignored me and left me standing, walked over to where he was seated, and asked him :21.330 --> :22.740 to repeat himself. :22.740 --> :23.740 “Really? :23.740 --> :24.740 You want to do this?” :24.740 --> :25.810 One of the girls asked. :25.810 --> :27.130 “I can’t take this anymore. :27.130 --> :31.640 I’m leaving too” the third guy said and he moved the chair back to stand. :31.640 --> :35.590 He was the one who revealed that they had been hanging out with my friend that day. :35.590 --> :38.639 I heard one of the sisters trying to convince him to stay. :38.639 --> :41.279 “This is the wrong time to do all of these. :41.279 --> :43.350 It’s thanksgiving for goodness sake. :43.350 --> :46.660 We all left our families and decided to spend it with one another. :46.660 --> :51.750 We could all be home with our families having fun, but we chose to be here, and this is :51.750 --> :52.829 what we get?” :52.829 --> :54.589 I heard him complain to her. :54.589 --> :56.920 He passed by me in the living room and hissed. :56.920 --> :01.070 “It was very petty that you chose today of all days to do this?” :01.070 --> :03.190 He walked out and slammed the door. :03.190 --> :07.300 I returned to the dining room, and one of the sisters was helping my friend put a pack :07.300 --> :09.370 of ice on where I had punched him. :09.370 --> :12.440 “This turkey tastes like coal, Jesus!” :12.440 --> :16.600 the other sister said, reaching out for tissues and spitting into it. :16.600 --> :22.520 My college ex left, the guy I had hit left, and the rest of us had a quiet, tension-filled :22.520 --> :23.520 night. :23.520 --> :25.410 We ate and bade one another goodnight. :25.410 --> :27.390 They all had a terrible Thanksgiving. :27.390 --> :28.760 I made sure of that. :28.760 --> :33.720 To this day, the guy who dated my ex and I are no longer friends, but I am still friends :33.720 --> :49.480 with other people in :49.480 --> :51.460 the crew. :51.460 --> :56.410 Boarding schools have to be the worst idea ever imagined by anyone. :56.410 --> :00.160 I mean that with all sincerity, because… seriously. :00.160 --> :05.050 Why on earth would you think to make students suffer seven or eight excruciatingly long :05.050 --> :09.670 hours in the classroom, only to go back to the dormitory with the thought that the classroom :09.670 --> :11.620 is only a few steps away? :11.620 --> :13.900 That has to be very traumatizing for students. :13.900 --> :15.860 (i know it was for me). :15.860 --> :17.710 And that’s not even the worst part! :17.710 --> :23.430 As we all know, teenagers are huge jerks and are prone to making bad decisions at every :23.430 --> :24.430 turn. :24.430 --> :27.130 Because of this, high school bullying is on the rise. :27.130 --> :31.120 Now, the teachers and people in authority had not been able to get the bullying under :31.120 --> :36.269 control, so all the bullied students had to help them through these tough school times, :36.269 --> :38.990 were their families and friends back home. :38.990 --> :39.990 But syke! :39.990 --> :43.710 Boarding school students have nobody to help them through their trials. :43.710 --> :48.020 All they get after the bullying from school is more bullying in the dorm. :48.020 --> :50.800 Now, this bullying came in many forms. :50.800 --> :54.870 Some prefer to just beat up their victims, just for the fun of it, while others loot :54.870 --> :58.000 steal and pillage from their victims. :58.000 --> :04.029 I fell prey to the latter, and one too many times, they walked away with my fruits, snacks, :04.029 --> :07.770 my food, and even my marvel magazines. :07.770 --> :09.890 One day I decided that enough was enough. :09.890 --> :13.900 They’ve taken too much from me, and I had to fight back. :13.900 --> :19.670 I hit them back eventually, and spectacularly too, but first, let's start at the top. :19.670 --> :22.050 I didn’t have a really happy home growing up. :22.050 --> :25.380 Trust me, it isn’t a statement to say that my parents hated each other. :25.380 --> :30.350 They fight every single day, and I’ve never seen them agree on anything. :30.350 --> :35.160 Every time I stay at home, it was as though I was walking on eggshells because literally, :35.160 --> :37.390 anything could start their fight. :37.390 --> :40.610 One time, they had a huge fight that lasted over a week. :40.610 --> :43.440 It was so bad, that dad had to move out that week. :43.440 --> :48.399 When we, (that is me and my younger sister, CJ) traced the root of the problem, we found :48.399 --> :52.490 out that their one-week-long quarrel was started because of a TV remote. :52.490 --> :56.120 (sometimes, it’s hard to even wonder how they actually fell in love with each other :56.120 --> :57.480 in the first place. :57.480 --> :02.870 I go to my friend's house, and I see his parents talking to each other with so much love and :02.870 --> :06.209 respect, and I’m just… filled with jealousy. :06.209 --> :07.360 Why couldn’t that be my family? :07.360 --> :09.570 Why did they have to fight every day? :09.570 --> :14.050 As the fights got more intense, the issue at home started to affect my studies. :14.050 --> :19.459 I was a top-tier science before it became so bad, but now I was failing. :19.459 --> :23.540 This issue sparked up concern with my teachers because they’ve known that I was one of :23.540 --> :27.089 the smartest in well, not just my class. :27.089 --> :28.880 pretty much the entire school. :28.880 --> :31.519 They figured that something had to be going on. :31.519 --> :37.009 When one of my teachers decided to pay a visit to my house, she quickly discovered the issue, :37.009 --> :38.680 and she offered a solution. :38.680 --> :41.970 She suggested that they should try out couples counseling. :41.970 --> :45.319 They took her advice, and soon enough, they started seeing someone. :45.319 --> :49.910 I was so happy about this development because I was sure that the counseling was all they :49.910 --> :51.880 needed the entire time. :51.880 --> :56.620 Finally, my house will be as peaceful as my friend daniel’s house. :56.620 --> :57.620 Syke!... :57.620 --> :58.620 again. :58.620 --> :02.690 I expected good to come out of the counseling my parents were attending, and honestly, for :02.690 --> :05.970 the first few weeks, it looked like they were making progress. :05.970 --> :09.810 They were no longer fighting at home, and they started to be more civil with each other. :09.810 --> :14.930 But one evening, my dad called me and my sister to the dinner, table, and he broke the news :14.930 --> :16.970 that they were getting a divorce. :16.970 --> :21.390 The most annoying part about all that wasn’t the fact that they were getting a divorce. :21.390 --> :24.910 It was that they were being civil with each other while discussing it. :24.910 --> :26.180 Like what the heck! :26.180 --> :30.160 Where are the loud yelling and broken china when you need them? :30.160 --> :34.550 I asked them why, because I felt like they were making so much progress. :34.550 --> :38.760 They said they were making progress, and the counselor had helped them see that they are :38.760 --> :40.110 not a good fit for each other. :40.110 --> :43.470 They even worked out the logistics of the divorce that night. :43.470 --> :47.130 I was to live with my dad, while my sister was with my mom. :47.130 --> :49.050 We were allowed to visit anytime. :49.050 --> :53.540 Anyways, a few months after the divorce was finalized, dad started to date some woman :53.540 --> :54.889 named Tiffany. :54.889 --> :56.960 Tiffany had a daughter named Roxanne. :56.960 --> :01.750 She was the same age as my sister, and I thought we were going to have a similar relationship. :01.750 --> :03.390 But no we didnt. :03.390 --> :08.540 Tifanny was terrible, and her daughter was just the worst. :08.540 --> :13.240 Tiffany tried to undermine me in front of my dad, every time she could, and she made :13.240 --> :16.750 it feel like everything going wrong in the house was my fault. :16.750 --> :19.829 Roxanne on the other hand, she was just a brat. :19.829 --> :22.980 Yelling and throwing tantrums till she gets whatever she wants. :22.980 --> :23.980 Really? :23.980 --> :26.339 My family got divorced to be replaced with this? :26.339 --> :31.721 Seriously, I’ll take my fighting parents over the new one anytime any day, because :31.721 --> :34.600 at least when they were fighting, I had my sister. :34.600 --> :35.860 Now I had no one. :35.860 --> :37.500 My dad wasn’t even on my side. :37.500 --> :39.120 He just takes Tiffany’s side. :39.120 --> :43.980 Anyways, as you’d expect, my grades dropped even lower, and my teachers decided that I :43.980 --> :48.289 needed summer classes if I was going to get enough points to graduate. :48.289 --> :50.110 My dad had other ideas. :50.110 --> :54.710 He told me that if I didn’t get my grades up before summer, he was going to enroll me :54.710 --> :56.230 in a boarding school. :56.230 --> :58.500 I was sure he wasn’t gonna do that. :58.500 --> :59.770 He was bluffing. :59.770 --> :02.270 But to my uttermost shock, he wasn’t. :02.270 --> :06.950 I couldn’t get my grades up, so after the end of summer, he told me to pack my bags, :06.950 --> :10.260 and he drove to a boarding school a few towns away. :10.260 --> :13.640 I had never been more shocked in my entire life. :13.640 --> :15.460 I still thought it was a joke. :15.460 --> :20.150 A tactic to get me to fall in line, till he got into his car and drove away. :20.150 --> :25.049 It took me a while, but I finally accepted that that was my life then, and I just had :25.049 --> :26.070 to go with it. :26.070 --> :32.350 Anyways, I started attending classes, and boy, it was way different from my high school. :32.350 --> :34.290 The teachers were stricter. :34.290 --> :39.250 And since it was an all-boys school, it was run almost like a military academy. :39.250 --> :43.680 We are required to wake up before dawn to get started on the day and do the chores that :43.680 --> :45.220 are assigned to us. :45.220 --> :50.670 Lateness to anything or anywhere buys you a few hours of scrubbing the toilet. :50.670 --> :54.559 Sometimes you get cafeteria duty, washing a huge pile of plates. :54.559 --> :58.610 I wasn’t used to these rules, and because of that, I fell prey to toilet scrubbing more :58.610 --> :00.470 times than I cared to admit. :00.470 --> :04.659 The first few weeks were the toughest, and not because of the toilet scrubbing. :04.659 --> :08.559 As a transfer student, I didn’t know anyone in the school, and I wasn’t the best at :08.559 --> :09.990 making friends. :09.990 --> :13.360 It got pretty lonely, and all I wanted was to go home. :13.360 --> :18.460 During the first visitation day, my mom came with my sister, and she promised to get me :18.460 --> :21.220 out of the school by the end of the school year. :21.220 --> :25.890 She had spoken to my dad about it, and it was settled that I’d move to her place. :25.890 --> :31.450 That was the best piece of news I had received in a few weeks, and I was just so happy about :31.450 --> :32.940 the new development. :32.940 --> :34.840 She also brought me some snacks and stuff. :34.840 --> :37.470 You know, my favorite beverages and stuff. :37.470 --> :39.700 Just a little something to keep me sane. :39.700 --> :43.571 When they left, I walked back to my dorm to keep the things she bought for me, and for :43.571 --> :48.400 the first time, the boy I shared my dorm room with, Julian, spoke to me. :48.400 --> :53.010 He told me to hide my stuff, and not to eat or drink them when the seniors were around. :53.010 --> :58.080 I didn’t know what he meant, but when I asked him to explain, he just clammed up, :58.080 --> :59.700 and wouldn’t say more. :59.700 --> :04.520 Then that night, just a few minutes to light out, some of the seniors walked into my dorm :04.520 --> :05.520 room. :05.520 --> :09.000 They walked directly to me and pulled me up from my bunk. :09.000 --> :11.450 Then they told me to open up my locker. :11.450 --> :16.090 Now it’s important to note that before that day, I had never been bullied before. :16.090 --> :20.470 Bullying wasn’t a thing in my former High school, and because of this, I didn’t know :20.470 --> :21.580 what to expect. :21.580 --> :26.310 So when they ordered me to open my locker, I refused and asked them why I should. :26.310 --> :28.720 They were really surprised at my audacity. :28.720 --> :33.929 They looked me over for a few seconds, and before I knew it, they were all over me, punching :33.929 --> :34.929 and kicking. :34.929 --> :39.340 Eventually, they stopped, and their leader, Damian, asked me to open the locker again. :39.340 --> :41.480 I had no choice but to oblige. :41.480 --> :45.980 They took all my snacks and beverages and left the room. :45.980 --> :49.770 After their footsteps receded in the distance, Julian helped me up. :49.770 --> :53.610 I asked him what that was and he smiled and said something along the lines of :53.610 --> :58.279 “Welcome to boarding school” Julian and I stayed up late talking about :58.279 --> :00.330 the school and the seniors. :00.330 --> :04.250 He had been in the school since freshman year, and it wasn’t new to him. :04.250 --> :09.840 During the visiting days, the seniors were always on the prowl, looking for junior students :09.840 --> :15.289 to steal from, and they usually resorted to violence, if the junior stands his ground. :15.289 --> :20.380 It had been happening for a long time, and it was going to continue to happen. :20.380 --> :24.770 I asked Julian why none of the Juniors ever thought of reporting the problem to the teachers :24.770 --> :26.630 and the people in authority. :26.630 --> :30.510 He laughed at me and told me it was only going to make it worse because the teacher won't :30.510 --> :31.520 do anything about it. :31.520 --> :32.520 I didn’t believe that. :32.520 --> :36.150 To me, the teachers and house masters couldn't care so little about the well-being of the :36.150 --> :40.440 students, so I made up my mind to report the case to the teachers. :40.440 --> :43.880 Julian warned me against this, but I didn’t listen. :43.880 --> :48.580 The next day, after class, I walked up to one of the house masters and reported the :48.580 --> :49.580 incident. :49.580 --> :53.270 He asked me if I could recognize the culprits, and I said yes. :53.270 --> :58.100 Then he followed me to the common room, and I pointed to Damien and his friends. :58.100 --> :02.830 The Housemaster walked them out of the common room, and before Damien walked out he whispered :02.830 --> :06.060 a silent, “you’re dead,” in my ear. :06.060 --> :11.390 I was so scared, and I started to think that perhaps I had made the wrong decision by reporting :11.390 --> :12.390 them. :12.390 --> :17.150 The seniors were all assigned to the kitchen, to wash the cafeteria dishes for three days. :17.150 --> :20.710 After their punishment was over, I thought that would be the last I’d be hearing from :20.710 --> :23.380 them, but that was far from the truth. :23.380 --> :27.970 That night, after light out, they came to my room and beat me up again. :27.970 --> :31.799 They were careful not to hit my face, so there won't be any evidence, and when they were :31.799 --> :37.320 done, Damien crouched to the ground, and told me that he would gladly scrub toilets or wash :37.320 --> :42.450 dishes if I were to report them again, but if I did, he’ll be back, and it will be :42.450 --> :44.220 worst than the last. :44.220 --> :47.630 I was so scared that I decided to keep my mouth shut. :47.630 --> :51.150 The only thing the house masters were interested in, was dishing out punishment. :51.150 --> :56.010 They didn’t really care about trying to stop the whole bullying from happening again. :56.010 --> :00.520 Anyways the bullying continued in that manner for a long time. :00.520 --> :04.830 Anytime my mom comes to visit, they bring snacks and beverages, and every time, I have :04.830 --> :09.179 to surrender them to the seniors, or else I get the beating of my life. :09.179 --> :13.970 One day after class, I sat on one of the bleachers, watching the football team practice. :13.970 --> :17.450 Julian came to join me, and we talked about our classes and stuff. :17.450 --> :22.429 When we were done, we started to head back to the dorm, when out of the blue, I blurted :22.429 --> :27.450 out that I was going to get back at Damien for everything he had done to me. :27.450 --> :30.750 Julian asked me how I intended to do that, and I shrugged. :30.750 --> :33.250 I didn’t have a plan yet. :33.250 --> :37.070 All I knew was that I was tired of the bullying, and the fact that there was nothing I could :37.070 --> :38.290 do about it. :38.290 --> :40.010 That same day, I was in the dorm. :40.010 --> :42.250 I looked out of the window, to the grounds. :42.250 --> :45.230 I saw Damien walking past with his gang. :45.230 --> :47.100 He was drinking apple juice. :47.100 --> :53.260 It dawned on me that day, that I had never seen him drink anything else. :53.260 --> :56.270 That was how much he loved apple juice. :56.270 --> :59.409 Suddenly, I knew how I was gonna get back at him. :59.409 --> :04.950 I turned to Julian and told him that I finally figured out how I’m going to get my revenge. :04.950 --> :08.980 Then I hurried to the housemaster, to use the phone to call my mom. :08.980 --> :12.659 Visiting day was in a few days, and I wanted her to get me some apple juice. :12.659 --> :17.940 A few days later, ad I walked to the visiting room, I could feel Damien’s eyes on me as :17.940 --> :19.919 I jogged past the grounds. :19.919 --> :23.130 I turned to look at him, and he had this glint in his eyes. :23.130 --> :25.570 Don’t worry, not for long. :25.570 --> :28.970 I hugged my mom and sister, and we talked for a little while. :28.970 --> :33.040 The school year is almost over, and exams are starting in a few days. :33.040 --> :37.250 She told me she had already gotten a suitable school for me to finish my senior year. :37.250 --> :39.650 All I had to do was pass my exams. :39.650 --> :42.820 One hour later, they left, and I hurried back to my hostel. :42.820 --> :47.080 There were three bottles of apple juices in the bag, so I picked out two and hid them :47.080 --> :49.070 inside Julian’s locker. :49.070 --> :52.890 Then I picked up the last bottle and drank half of the juice. :52.890 --> :57.149 Julian asked me what I intended to do with the half bottle of juice, and I just told :57.149 --> :58.419 him to watch and learn. :58.419 --> :04.570 I walked into the bathroom and peed into the bottle till it was back to the original level. :04.570 --> :08.029 Then I closed the bottle and returned it to my beverage bag. :08.029 --> :10.330 All I had to do then, was wait. :10.330 --> :13.510 That night, Damien and his gang walked into my dorm room. :13.510 --> :17.980 He demanded that I opened my locker, and I didn’t argue with him. :17.980 --> :20.940 I opened it, and they grabbed my snacks and stuff. :20.940 --> :25.750 Damien went through it and his eyes lit up, when he saw the “apple juice” they grabbed :25.750 --> :27.549 the bag and walked out of the room. :27.549 --> :31.100 I followed them closely behind, making sure they don't see me. :31.100 --> :35.140 When they got to their dorm room, I stayed at the window, peeking inside, as they split :35.140 --> :36.340 the snacks. :36.340 --> :41.380 Immediately, Damien picked up the apple juice, and without a thought, he opened it and started :41.380 --> :43.230 to drink in quick gulps. :43.230 --> :47.890 He stopped almost immediately and then looked at the bottle again. :47.890 --> :52.990 He brought the bottle close to his nose, and he threw it to the ground, and started to :52.990 --> :53.990 retch. :53.990 --> :57.800 I knew what was coming next, so I ran to the house master’s room, and told him that the :57.800 --> :59.430 seniors were coming for me. :59.430 --> :05.360 He followed me to my dorm room, and sure enough, Damien and his gang were already there, beating :05.360 --> :06.360 up Julian. :06.360 --> :10.720 They were given detention, and toilet scrubbing duties till the end of the school year. :10.720 --> :15.020 They couldn’t touch me till the end of the school year, because of their detention, so :15.020 --> :19.249 the last three weeks I spent in the boarding school went without incident
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a for telling my daughter she is a spoiled brat and doesn't know what a hard life is okay so background I 40m I'm married to a 38f we met in high school wife's parents are terrible completely abused her until she moved out at 18 my wife has always tried to be a good mother and break the abusive cycle we both have good jobs they want for nothing we tried not to spoil they have chores know Their Manners are good kids in school so my daughter came home one day and asked us to go visit her grandparents house we said yeah because we thought she met my parents but no she met my wife my wife and immediately said no then I backed her and said they will have no part in their lives she said I was overreacting and that she deserves to meet all her grandparents and we were being selfit my wife was diagnosed with PTSD and still sees a therapist due to all the that she went through it really annoyed me and I sent her to her room I talked to my wife and said that I should tell her what happened so she understands why we are saying no that her parents aren't good people my wife was reluctant but agreed as long as she didn't have to be there so she wasn't triggered I went to my daughter's room the next day and I talked to her I said look at
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first story my stepmom punished me for her husband's cheating he had an affair with my mom while she was his student and then abandoned us for his wife now my half siblings contacted me for the first time in 14 years to build a relationship only to abandon me out of fear of their mom who threatened to disown them if they contacted me and wrote me a letter to stay away from her family the background when my mom was 20 she had an affair with my dad who had been her math teacher in high school their asual relationship only started after she was a legal adult and graduated but I do agree that it is creepy my dad was and still is married had kids and is around 20 years older than my mom 6 months into their relationship my mom got pregnant and decided to keep me even though my Dad tried to get her to have an abortion he then came clean to his wife in order to stay married his wife told him that he could never see me or my mom again they then kept me secret from the rest of my family my dad pays child support but that is the only contact I have ever had with him my mom told me the truth when I was 11 and she thought I was ready to know before anyone says anything about her character my mom readily admits that she made a huge mistake carrying on with my dad and that she was immature and naive she never makes me feel like a mistake though we don't have a lot of money at all but my mom is my best friend and makes so many sacrifices for me the situation now is three months ago I was contacted on Facebook by a guy who is a senior at a high school a half hour away from where I live he introduced himself as my older half brother and said he was contacting me because he just found out I existed and wanted to get to know his younger sister we talked nearly every day for a month he told me all about my half sisters who are his older sisters my aunts and uncles and my grandparents I look just like my sisters and my brother and I are really similar personality wise for the first time I felt like a part of a big happy family my mom is estranged from her parents and brother so it has only been the two of us my whole life when I was a kid I always wanted a big brother so this felt like a dream come true I also hoped against hope that someday I might get to finally meet my dad we were just starting to make plans to meet up in secret when he left his Facebook open on their computer and his mom found the messages for me she threw a fit and threatened to leave my dad as well as kick my half brother out of the house and not pay for his college my half brother told me all of this in a really apologetic final message telling me we couldn't speak anymore though he is really unhappy about it and wishes me the best when I asked him if my dad said anything to her defending me he said no how I feel now I feel worthless and like I am not worth being anyone's daughter I didn't ask to be born why does my dad's wife blame me I just want a proper family though this hurt before I found out the truth talking to my brother and being so close to being whole only to have that taken away feels like a cruel tease I also feel like I can't tell my mom any of this because it would hurt her that I place such importance on my dad and his family does anyone have any advice on how to cope with this tldr I am the result of my dad and my mom having an affair so he can stay married my dad is not allowed to have any contact with me my half brother found out about me and contacted me getting my hopes up but my dad's wife found out and has banned him from speaking with me as well I feel like my entire existence is dirty please help me deal with these feelings update I know it's been a short amount of time since I last posted but so much has happened already first of all the advice I got gave me the courage to tell my mom what had been happening she was a bit hurt that I did not think she was enough not true at all but I understand why it would come off that way but she was even more upset that I had been feeling so badly about myself I told her the morning after I posted before school and she let me take the day off and took me out to lunch so we could talk about everything and rehash my feelings she was glad I'd come into contact with my half brother and said he sounded like a nice boy she also said we couldn't talk anymore but she understood completely why and did not blame him at all the next day after we talked she told me that she thinks I could use talk therapy apparently she had seen one briefly when I was a baby and it helped her a lot we couldn't get an appointment soon but in 3 weeks I will see a therapist for the first time now for this next part I will use names for the most part since there are a lot of people so it could get confusing otherwise one comment made in the last post stuck out to me that I could make a fake account of some sort and talk to my brother Ryan that way I was kind of nervous about getting Ryan into trouble but I did want to say a proper goodbye during our last conversation I was in shock and upset so I didn't get the chance to tell him how much I appreciated him talking to me so I decided to find a way to at least do that and I almost immediately found a really obvious way Instagram I made a fake one and messaged his account telling him I don't want to get in trouble but that it means the world to me that he went out of his way to find me and that I love him I told him he didn't even have to reply but Ryan did respond to me he told me he loved me too and that he wants to talk again when he's in college he told me something else though that he told our older sister Haley about me a couple of weeks after he found me and that he thinks she'd respond if I reached out to her I have another older sister Sarah but she's a huge Daddy's girl so Ryan was afraid to tell her Ryan said that she was nervous and shy about contacting me so I should make the first move he gave me Haley school email and I sent her something telling her who I was this morning I found a very long kind and loving email from Haley in my inbox she is 20 and goes to college 10 hours away she told me how happy she was to hear from me Haley also shed light on my biod dad and his wife the biggest reason why she was so receptive to me was that she was already used to the idea of him cheating when she was very young she and and Sarah had a best friend for years then one day when Haley was around 10 my sisters suddenly weren't allowed to hang out with her anymore or talk to her at school when she was 18 Haley's mother told her that the reason was that my dad and the friend's mom had been having an affair and had been caught Ryan doesn't know this Haley also told me that she remembers a lot of times when she was in high school when our dad and her mom almost divorced and that they actually separated for 2 years when she was a kid from the tone of her email Haley does not seem to like our dad very much and I understand why she also told me she doesn't think it's a good idea to tell Sarah about me right now since she will just run to their mom with the info and make things horrible at home which will affect Ryan the most she did however give me the home address of my aunt Jalene my biological dad's younger sister apparently Jalene is estranged from my biological dad and his wife but still talks to my half siblings so she is an ideal person to contact thank you so much Reddit for helping to give me the courage to reach out and make all these family connections I feel a bit selfish doing it like I could be forcing my way into their lives but they do seem happy to talk to me I have one piece of sad news however Haley also told me that within the two months Ryan and I were out of touch my paternal grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's she had been having memory problems for a year before the diagnosis but the family is still very sad however I don't know if I should try to talk to my grandparents now they have a lot on their plate as does the rest of my extended family I don't want to be a bother again thank you Reddit tldr I'm going to get therapy and with the help of some of the advice in the last post managed to establish contact with my half sister I could also be put in contact with my paternal ant updates hi I wasn't originally going to update again but I am in an emotional hole and I don't see the therapist I told you about until Thursday I also have a few questions that I could use advice on I was advised last time to delete my account and posts and I will probably end up doing this after this one I just really need help April 4th was my 15th birthday and two days before that I got a birthday card in the mail with a Starbucks gift card from my dad's family it's not signed by him or anyone in particular just from the last names also included with the card was a handwritten letter from my stepmom since this sub doesn't allow links I've written it out here if anyone wants me to send them a picture of it just PM me dear my name I have no nice way to say this to you so I apologize if this comes off as harsh just know that I am writing as a wife and mother and I'm trying to appeal to any common decency you may or may not have my daughter told me she is in contact with you and she has done that only to hurt and punish me because of issues that are none of your business please don't let her do that I don't know if you were raised with any understanding of family in your household but in our family we put the good of others over our own selfishness honest honestly you are being very selfish in trying to get to my husband he has provided for you well these past years and honestly I'm hardpressed to know what else you could possibly want please my name we were happy and at peace before you decided your own wishes mattered more than our ability to sleep well at night I know you are young and young people are not the most empathetic but I hope you will listen to me now stay away from my family you are causing us nothing but pain her name I know it seems unreal the main reason why I'll send a picture to anyone who wants one and I'm still stunned that this was sent to me a who the hell does this B this has made me feel devastated and horrible I'm really angry about her passive aggressive digs towards me like I was raised like a wild animal because my mom made a mistake I've done what she wants though I don't think I'm ever going to contact any of them again I already knew my sister had told her about me because 3 days before I got this she emailed me saying she was sorry but she was fighting with her mom and the truth slipped out because she was upset and wanted to hurt her my brother genuinely hasn't been talking to me though so he is still safe I showed my mom the letter and she is pissed she told me that she would give me the choice but if I say yes she will find my dad and confront him over his wife's actions I don't know I guess my questions for you guys are how do I stop feeling like a stupid piece of Pawn scum should I get my mom to confront my dad my gut tells her she shouldn't be involved but at the same time my more selfish side wants her to yell at him should I be the bigger person and send them a thank you card for my birthday present thanks in advance guys tldr my stepmom sent me a weird and passively aggressive note telling me to stay away from her family well I'm doing what she says feeling really devastated and horrible though Second Story my entitled mom allowed my Golden Child brother to bully me all my life and she is now realizing how messed up she raised him after cops arrived to arrest him when he tried to end me still she blames me and expects me to forgive him and reconcile so I'll be using fake names for everyone in this story everything I type happened as I have scars as proof and am tired of my family acting like it didn't happen especially my brother and my mom I'm literally shaking as I type this I need to get this well you know off my chest here are the stars of the show my parents are in their late 50s to early 60s my sister is Lisa my brother is Ricky and I'm Jake my sister is the oldest and is nearing her 30s Ricky is 26 and has very intense anger issues that my parents have never bothered to try and solve I'm 23 I'm FTM and I'm the youngest a lot of stuff happened when we were kids and I've had some of these memories flashing in my head but I can't tell if it's just my fear of my brother creating these Horrors or if they're repressed memories I'm suddenly remembering it's hard to decipher when we have such a volatile relationship and he terrifies me to this day this is all kind kind of out of order as I made a list of things he'd done and realized how much he's ruined for me I hardly speak of him anymore unless it's to trash his character with my friends one of the earliest memories of abuse I have of my brother is when we were little I was maybe five or six and I was beating him at a stupid little game I don't remember what the game was but I remember him getting so angry that I was beating him that he stabbed me in the head with the pencil I screamed and our mom came in after that the memory gets blurry there there were so many times when he got angry with me that he would literally chase me around the house with a knife my parents well instead of really punishing him they just took the knives away from him but he always got more so what was even the point there was never any real punishment countless times I had to lock my door sit on the ground in front of it and press my feet against the desk to keep my door shut as he slammed against it and tried to get into my room so he could abuse me physically during one of these situations my brother punched a hole in my door when my dad came home and I came out of my room crying my dad's first concern was how he was going to hide it from my mom he didn't get in trouble again on multiple occasions he's put his hands on me to punch me or grab me the last time he grabbed me was a year ago I'd moved out but I didn't have a washer or dryer so I would do laundry at my parents house one day I was there and my brother had left his clothes in the dryer so I asked him a few times to come and get them he didn't so I joked I was going to put them on the floor as I started folding them and he came down the stairs to the basement to get in my face and yell at me I told him to get away from me and back off because it was a joke and he needed to chill out he backed off and went to his room again and I pushed his clothes on the floor anyway because I was pissed at him I go upstairs and Lisa asks me what that was all about so I explained the joke to her and not even a second after I finished talking Ricky came running up the stairs and towards me Lisa got between us and told him to back off he kept yelling if you want to be a man so much then fight me and other things like that I called the police on him when I went outside I was shaking so violently that I could hardly call the police they came and took our statements and my brother wrote no comment on his form and they said they couldn't do anything they told him to just stay in his room until I left he came out of his room literally 5 minutes after they left and glared at me when my mom got home from a business trip she found out I called the cops on Ricky and then texted me that she would have been incredibly mad if Ricky had been arrested I was so angry with her that I told her off and didn't talk to her for a month I made her reach out to me first when we were in high school he was a senior and me and my best friend Stella were sophomores he asked her to the dance after her boyfriend broke up with her the day before it was sweet and I thought he was just doing it to be nice to her in a sort of sister way then I heard that they kissed on the dance floor they started dating shortly after and she stopped hanging out with me almost all together she would come over to the house to hang out with my brother after I asked her to hang out with me and she would poke her head in and say hi I can't blame her for it a lot of my friends had crushes on my brother Ricky isn't an ugly guy but his personality makes him uglier than anyone I've ever met then after breaking up with her and getting back together with her for the fifth time he physically abused her like I warned her he would because I knew him she called the cops and my brother lied through his teeth about what he did and made himself the victim of our parents she couldn't contact me because of the lawsuit and I lost contact with her I still miss her every day and I miss hanging out with her I came out 8 years ago as FTM and my family struggled with it like I knew they would at first eventually they moved on and got used to it but my brother trapped me in my room with him a few times and would interrogate me about why I came out I wanted to be a boy and he would aggressively tell me that he thought I was being stupid and believing a bunch of nonsense when we were kids after school he would emotionally Andor physically abuse me until I would cry when it got time for our dad to come home he would trap me in rooms with him make me calm down and promise not to tell our parents and that he was sorry and I believed him because I wanted my brother to love me when I was younger I know now that he's not capable of loving people he's a pathological liar and he has lied about just about everything he would often make it seem like I left him no choice but to attack me or abuse me my mom believed him no matter how much I screamed or cried when we were kids we were playing around the table and he bumped it and his coffee cup spilled over and all over the floor our mom came down and he said that I did it we were supposed to go see a movie that day but my mom said I wasn't allowed to come and I cried about it my dad took me out to get ice cream and a new Webkins yeah remember those he talked to my mom that night about how she is too hard on me sometimes here are a few others that don't really have much behind them as they're pretty straightforward he literally brought my ex over 3 months after we broke up and literally had SX with her and he was loud as hell because he knew I was the only one at home he would take my money from my coin Bank when we were kids after I did chores he would come into my room in the middle of the night and play on the computer I had in my room I would also just come in because he felt like it and play on my computer until he broke my monitor by punching it and my parents never got me a new one so I just lost my computer it was like his favorite pastime to go into my room because every night I would take a shower and come back to my room and he would have taken my Xbox controller and replaced it with his shtt corded one that was half broken he then broke that controller by putting it through the wall and refusing to buy me a new one my mom never made him pay me back or get me a new one so my dad bought one for me the last time I saw him was around Christmas he came up to me when I was talking to our mom about how it felt to be moved out Ricky ol oliz to me like he always did and I didn't accept it I told him straight up how I didn't like him and how he always apologized and expected me to forgive him I told him I didn't forgive him our mom got Huffy with me because of that and I stopped talking to her the rest of the night until it was time to go his girlfriend asked to talk to me and we went outside and she tried to tell me he changed and was a different person I told her I know him and I know he'll never change I'll believe it when I see it I know I never will recently I reconnected with my sister as she's come back from rehab we have a rocky relationship but it's getting better he seems to think that he has a chance to be forgiven and tells our sister that when she sees me in person next she needs to mention him at least once to see how I'll react I found that out from a mutual friend of ours well that's everything I was shaking when I started this but I feel better now my mom can't see him for what he truly is but I really hope you all can I've been carrying all this tension around with me because of everything I was having dreams where he was trying to kill me and I was begging my parents to believe me they never did in their dreams maybe someday I'll tell them what I know as my truth and see what they say thanks for reading third story deadbeat boyfriend quit his job and spent op's money while telling his family he was the Sole Provider belittling op she finally lost it when he demanded a brand new car just because op has the money so op broke up with him and asked him to move out he physically assaulted her tried killing her dogs and got himself arrested now his family is harassing op my boyfriend 33 years old quit his job last year without telling me I only found out two days before the rent was do we split everything 50/50 when I asked him for his part of the rent when I asked he simply told me he quit because he was tired of working at that place since then I've been paying for everything including rent food gas bills and anything he needs I had to work two jobs while going to school for a while it was hard but I finally finished school a couple months ago and I found my dream job I make enough to live comfortably even take care of my boyfriend and still have money for saving however I still want him to get a job to support himself because as an adult I think he needs a job but I feel like he relies on me too much and he thinks that since my job pays well he doesn't have any reason to work he always says things like you make good money now so maybe you could buy me my dream car or you should open a business bu for me to run it bothers me a lot I don't mind supporting my partner financially if there's a legit reason that prevents him from working but that's not the case he spends most of his time playing games meeting up with friends or just at home watching movies I still have to do all the chores and take care of our dogs his family thinks that he's been working to take care of me so that I can finish school which is not true now they think I was able to finish school and get a good job all because of him I don't even want to explain it to them I just want him to get a job and have a future when I tried to talk to him he told me I'm not supportive and now that I have a good job I look down on him what should I do is it even worth it to try to talk some sense into him I don't want to start dating at this age but I feel like I can't keep doing this edit next day wow I didn't expect this many comments I can't reply to everyone but I did read all the comments and I really appreciate them many people have asked why him why do I stay for years what did I see in him so I just want to answer it here we started off pretty normal we split everything 50/50 and I had no problem with that but throughout the years he started showing his true self I was in school and school was the most important thing to me at that point so I invested all my time and energy into it I was in a PhD program so I had a stipend around 30k per year which was enough for myself but not for two people after he quit his job I was very stress out but I had to focus on school and Tred to do everything I could to survive I didn't have time to really think about my personal life and I also didn't want to go through any changes in life so I just let it be in addition he guilds me a lot so I feel bad for him but now that I have a stable job I have time to really think about my future I don't see myself being with him long term I don't think it would be as easy as hey let's break up because I know he wouldn't let it go that easy but I'll start planning to get out maybe ask some friends for support his name is not on the lease so I'll stay where I am and he'll have to move relevant comments just the red aler 3 you worked two jobs while in school to support someone who happily sits on their ARS not contributing not even cleaning or caring for the pets why why have you accepted this and the worst part is that he lets his family think that he's supporting you so he actually has enough sense to know that what he's doing is frowning you don't want to start dating at this age you mean 31 so you'd rather be 31 than take care of a stay-at-home boyfriend who contributes literally nothing how is that a better Outlook at 31 Opie I think it's because I was too busy figuring my life out and trying to do everything I could to survive all I did was work and go to school I didn't really have time to think about my personal life now that I have a stable job I have time to think about my life more and yes I need to end this and take care of myself TBH I'm not even sure how to date anymore but I guess I'll try and hopefully be able to find someone op on moving forward next day I will have a talk with him this afternoon to tell him it's time to end things and he needs to move out he will probably give me the my life is miserable talk again but I think reading all these comments makes me realize I should feel bad for myself and not for him I'm sure once he moves back to live with his family they will reach out to me to tell me how good he has been treating me and how he helped me through school they've done this before when I told them things things weren't working for us I will tell them everything this time AR puzzlehead 675 you were in a PhD program you are intellectually smart apply that to your emotional and financial intelligence if you were a classmate when this happened I can tell you the other graduate students would ask why you were still with him after a grace period of a couple of months leave and rebuild your life op I haven't told any of my family and friends about the situation because I'm kind of ashamed of it my friends would probably think I couldn't be this stupid but two of my very close friends did tell me that I deserved better just based on the way he treats me in front of them I will have a talk with him this afternoon and a couple of my friends will be waiting outside in case he gets physical or refuses to leave wish me luck update two months later it's been 2 months since I posted about my situation on this sub and I just want to give you an update on how things went after I made that post before I go into the details I just want to say I really appreciate everyone here after I resolved everything I occasionally went back to my original post and read the comments to remind myself that I'd done the right thing after posting on here I went home from work that day and asked my friends to come over but stay in the parking lot while I sorted things out with my now ex-boyfriend before I could even start the conversation he told me his friend got a new car recently and how I should get him a car since I can afford it I got really upset and told him he could have gotten himself a car if he was working I I told him how stressful it has been for me with him not working and fully relying on me he started the my life is already miserable and you're not being supportive talk I was sick of it so I said I wanted to end things here and he needs to move out ASAP as expected he got upset and threw a tantrum he was yelling and throwing stuff around and when he realized I was being dead serious he started threatening to hit and kill my dogs I jumped in between him and the dogs to stop him from harming them then he pushed me and grabbed me by my neck I was able to get him off of me put the dogs in a room and called my friends to tell them to come in and call the police he was trying to hit me but my friends got there in time I think he got scared when he saw my friends show up so he backed down still verbally telling them to get out of the way or he would hit them too the police came they took him away and told me he wouldn't be able to come into the apartment anymore he had to move but would need to be escorted by the police if he wanted to grab his stuff later it was a horrible EXP experience but it showed me that I've done the right thing I thought that was the end of everything but his auntie called me when she found out and tried to Gaslight me saying that he didn't do anything wrong and I was just upset so I called the police I told myself that I no longer had to deal with this bullsh te so I told her to leave me alone and hung up his family would continue to harass me but stopped when I threatened to report to the police I continue to pay the rent and bills like I've always done the only thing that's changed is that I'm now so much happier I'm the happiest I've ever been in years I just got a promotion last week I've been spending time enjoying life with the extra money I have since I no longer have to pay for his expenses as for my ex he's moved in with his aunt I got a protection order so we are not in contact at all relevant comments many people congratulate op and wish her well op responds thank you it feels great to wake up in the morning and not have to worry about what kind of crap he is going to give me today and OMG the extra savings that I have since I'm no longer financially responsible for a full-grown adult thank you I've realized that all the uncertainties that I had before really don't mean anything my life is only getting better and I've received all the support I need from friends family and people on Reddit too galaxion 86 how long were you in that relationship op I was in that relationship for 8 years Corf is 74 I hope you changed the locks and why didn't you tell his family about his refusal to work I hate that they think of him as the victim now and that you used him to finance your studies and then dropped him op I haven't mentioned this but his family is the type of people for whom it doesn't matter what he does he's always right for them I knew that even if I told them that he refused to work his family would still defend him and make excuses for his behavior it has happened with other things before but his family can take care of him all they want now I didn't put this in the post because I didn't want the post to get too long but when his auntie first called me she told me if I kicked him out he wouldn't have anywhere to stay because she couldn't let him stay with her I knew she was just saying that so that I would feel bad and wouldn't kick him out so I told her it's none of my business and he needs to figure it out himself guess what he moved right into his aunt's house after he was released sweet op will you be able to move given that he seems unhinged what are the chances of him coming back at a later date he has already escalated to violence and it seems like he has gotten his rotten morals from his family who enable him to do the same I read way too much about raw and boru hearing how bad things escalate I hope you are able to do the following filing a restraining order and documenting all instances of the abuse that has escalated consider moving and keep the information where you move to the bottom plus a change of place may do wonders for your mental health invest in a ring doorbell cam it's for your safety and the docks alert your rental apartment or property that he is not available unless you have a scheduled time to pick up his stuff find a safe space for you and your animals in case he escalates again anyone who has gone to his manic level of harming you in animals will repeat until they find another Obsession he is an abuser and he's at the stage where he lost control and is going berserk but he may also be bidding his time it is better to be overly cautious than not I hope you are fully free of him op I'm planning to move to a new place soon and it's nicer and closer to my work too since I can now afford it with the extra money I have I have no doubt he's capable of harming me and I'm honestly not sure if he would leave me alone I'm considering filing a restraining order against his family also because even though they've stopped coming to my place to try to Gaslight and guilt trip me they still try to call me sometimes with a different number since I blocked their numbers already I just ordered a ring camera and I'm also going to move to a new place soon he doesn't even know where I work because he doesn't care he'd never taken me to work or even asked what company I worked for he only asked about my salary when I told him I had a new job I was sad that he didn't care but now I'm glad that he doesn't know much about me besides where I live deleted user I hope you read this and seriously consider it we are attracted to what is normal to us not necessarily what is good for us you need to spend some time with a therapist unpacking what your past taught you to accept being used women especially are often taught to be people Pleasers even to the point of their own detriment I hope you spend some time rewiring yourself to only accept respectful loving treatment my heartbreaks that you went through this I sincerely wish you well op I'm spending a lot of time taking care of myself I have had a couple therapy sessions in the past couple weeks the whole incident was traumatizing to me I'm a lot happier but I still need lots of time to heal update it's been a year since I called the police on my ex-boyfriend after he hurt me and threatened to hurt my dogs I hope the same thing doesn't happen to anyone but if you're currently in a similar relationship I hope this post will help you realize good things will come after you stand up for yourself after my ex was taken by the police I dealt with some harassment from his family but they eventually left me alone I moved closer to my job and basically to a different city that's 30 minutes away from my old apartment I took some time to heal and went on vacations by myself it was great I finally look forward to coming home and spending time with my dogs one of them passed away from cancer a couple months ago about 6 months after the incident I met someone he's a great person and for the first time in a long time someone treats me with love and respect I'm very happy at the moment I've learned to set boundaries and expectations early on to avoid being in the same situation again now to my ex's case yesterday I got a call from the prosecutor's office to be honest I totally forgot about the case and I thought there was nothing else to follow up on but they called to inform me that they'd be pressing charges and asked if I would be okay to testify I said yes it'll be hard for me to go to court and talk about the incident if he's right there because even though I've completely moved on with my life I can still feel the fear when I hear about the case I'm still somewhat traumatized by the whole thing but I think he needs to be responsible for his actions especially after his aunt tried to defend his actions by blaming me it really stinks that I have to go through all of that to end a toxic and abusive relationship but I got out somewhat safely and I can't imagine what my life would be if I stayed it was a hard time but it's worth it things are definitely better and I'm surrounded by people who truly love and appreciate me simple and little things in life truly make me happy like how my boyfriend got me bubble tea and prepared dinner for me when I had a hard day at work last week I can't believe that just more than a year ago I thought a day without an argument was already a good day thank you for watching the video if you are interested in listening to these kinds of stories we've got more in store for you simply subscribe to our Channel hit the like button and share it with your friends
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I f17 think my stepdad m46 might have a thing for me yes I know this sounds like clickbait or a shitty porno but I need help and advice sorry if this isn't the place to post this but it's the first subreddit that came to mind and I didn't want to talk to anyone I know in real life about this for hopefully obvious reasons so my mom got remarried about four or five years ago now to my new stepdad Steve I never had an issue with this as he was a really cool and nice guy he never tried to replace my dad who isn't dead but just isn't in my life but he was always very supportive the other day I was looking for some headphones because mine were broken and knowing my mom always puts the ones you get with new phones in her nightstand I went looking in there I didn't find any in hers so I thought [ __ ] it and check Steve's nightstand too I didn't find any headphones but what I did find was a pair of what were definitely my panties and pictures of me now if it was just pictures of me I wouldn't think anything of it he's always treated me like his daughter so that wouldn't be too weird but this coupled with the panties as if that wouldn't have been enough on on its own really freaked me out so I put everything back how I found it and left their room since then I've just been hyper aware of how he behaves around me and feel panicked whenever he touches me or hugs me and I think back to any time he's done it in the past and just wonder if he was trying to feel me up or something I don't know whether I should talk to my mom about this he's never made sexual advances towards me in any way or anything like that so could I just be overthinking something that could have a reasonable explanation I'm just going into worst case scenario thinking and imagining him secretly having a thing for me and jerking off to my underwear or something gross like that update I'm sorry I took so long to update people on this especially since I didn't make any comments on my post before it was locked I'm pretty shaken up still so again this post may not be entirely coherent in all honesty after making the post and seeing the first couple of comments come in it kind of all became a bit too real for me and I started panicking so just took myself to bed seeing as I then had school in the morning I didn't get the chance to read through everything until after school and by then it was too late to comment on my last post please know that I've read every comment and I appreciate everybody who gave me advice and believed me I was pretty torn up about whether to tell my mom or not but it was a pretty constant thing people were telling me she's never not believed me about something before but with something this big I was worried plus all the comments saying I had made this up kind of shook my confidence about whether she'd believe me I ended up asking her to go for a walk with me which is something we do semi often anyway so it wasn't that weird and wouldn't have alerted Steve I almost didn't tell her in the the end but she could tell something was wrong and got me to tell her she was pretty quiet for a while but then she started crying she said she hoped there was a reasonable answer to this but until she spoke to him and we figured it all out I should stay at my aunts just in case so I went and stayed at my aunts last night we told Steve I was staying at a friends at school today my mom texted me saying I should come home after school so we could talk about it she didn't tell me much about what happened but Steve is gone now she kicked him out I think and it doesn't sound like he'll be coming back I don't know if they're going to get a a divorce it sounds like they weren't doing as great as I had thought and when she confronted him he just didn't say anything but obviously looked panicked she ended up forcing a confession out of him as she threatened to call the police and he admitted he was attracted to me they were getting better though apparently and my mom had even said to him the other day that she thought it was great how he was affectionate with me hugging me and treating me like his own which she now feels sick about I'm not sure if we're going to get the police involved or if they'd even do anything since I'm 17 anyways and he didn't actually do anything to me plus I'm not sure I'd want to deal with the hassle of it all I kind of just want to move on with my life and help my mom heal I don't think she blames me but I can't help but feel like I ruined her marriage so that's about it really thank you everyone for your concern I'll actually stick around to answer comments this time and thank you to everybody who told me about their own experiences encouraging me to speak up I mentioned it before but there were a few comments insisting that my post was fake and that apparently I had posted a different incest story earlier this was my first post on this account I didn't see that other post and I had nothing to do with it unfortunately just because something happens in porn doesn't mean it doesn't happen in real life please don't make such constant comments on posts like this in future even if they turn out to be fake you could stop somebody from speaking up as they think no one would believe them some people also wondered about how an account that wasn't even a day old would think to ask on this sub I am a frequent user on Reddit I made a throwaway account because I'm not going to post about my stepfather being a potential pedophile on an account that actually be connected to me if if you still don't believe me that's fine plenty of other people have given me helpful advice and as another commenter said if any other person can read those comments and find something helpful then that's a good thing update two relationship advice took this down without saving the body text as I was unaware I was only allowed one update post so I've reposted it here I was really hoping I wouldn't have to make another update but things have kind of gone to [ __ ] after my mom kicked Steve out everything was actually going okay to start with we hung out a lot and she took time off work partly to spend time with me and I think partly to deal with what happened we never really talked about it specifically as I could sense that she wasn't ready to talk about it more yet and honestly neither was I so I was fine with that as the week went on though I noticed she seemed to be getting worse she was talking less and wasn't eating as much and I even heard her crying one night I really didn't know what to do so I just didn't mention it to her then maybe a week after she kicked him out I came home from school and found Steve back in the house I freaked out about this and went to talk to my mom but she just stayed silent and avoided eye contact with me I kind of figured out on my own that she missed him a lot and decided to ask him to come back this was 5 days ago since then my mom's been noticeably happier and more of her usual self but she refuses to talk about what happened or punish Steve for it in any way now that he's been welcomed back it's as if he's Bolder since he knows he can get away with it he keeps lingering by the bathroom whenever I have a shower hugging me from behind and has started just walking into my room unannounced anytime he touches me he definitely lingers I'm really worried he might try and take things further and I've cried myself to sleep most nights I feel completely unsafe in my own home I tried staying at my aunts or her friends a few times but they were busy and since I haven't told them what's going on I couldn't make them have me over I think maybe I should tell my friends is then they might let me stay with them for a bit but from how my mom's reacted I'm [ __ ] terrified to tell anyone else as they might just brush it off I don't know what to do it's obvious I can't trust my mom now and I don't know who to turn to I'm going to start saving money so but hopefully when I turn 18 I can move out edit off the back of everyone's comments I've spoken to my aunt she now knows everything and although she's going away for work for the next week she's given me keys to her place and is letting me stay there for now we both agreed we wouldn't tell my mom or Steve where I was as I'm worried he might come over if he knew I was in a house by myself I will also look into getting locks for if I have to go back to my house and I've requested a meeting with the school counselor to talk about everything thank you everyone I'll keep you updated when slash if anything changes update 8 3 I figured it would be worth making a new post as a lot has happened in the past month that I know some of you would be interested in hearing about plus with certain things that have come to light I'm in need of even more advice as of my last post I moved in with my aunt at the time this was just a temporary thing but now I've pretty much completely moved in she took me to collect my stuff from my house one day while Steve was at work I eventually told my mom and by extension Steve where I was staying more for her Peace of Mind than anything else as I didn't want her thinking I was homeless or or something that kind of stopped her demanding to know where I was and to come home as my aunt made it clear how disgusting she found my mom's behavior and that she was ready to protect me since she clearly wasn't like I said previously though my aunt goes away for work a lot so most of the time I have the place to myself which is pretty sweet but unfortunately Steve is aware of this too he tried coming over to talk to me a few times when I was home alone but I locked the door and threatened to call the police if he didn't leave he hasn't bothered me since after taking into account people's advice I told my friend friends about what happened I had to at some point as they were eventually going to realize I was living with my aunt and I wanted them to be able to come over too sadly this is where things got even more [ __ ] up once my friends knew what had happened some of them came forward to me and it turns out a few of them had had run-ins with Steve for some of them he had just made creepy comments and remarks that they'd brushed off at the time another had actually gotten messages from him on Facebook telling her how good she'd looked the last time she'd come over complimenting her new pictures and making it clear that she turned him on even offering to show proof the worst was with my best friend Lucy she didn't go into too much detail about it but I could tell it was hard for her to talk about nearly a year ago probably the last time she had stayed over at my house she had run into him when getting some water at night he'd said something about how a girl her age shouldn't be wearing such revealing pajamas blocking her from leaving the kitchen and just kind of kept telling her how good she looked at that she must be wanting for people to notice she was pretty uncomfortable about and tried getting past him and he took the opportunity to grope her fortunately he didn't take it any further than that I feel completely disgusted both at Steve and also myself I can't help but think that if I'd notice something sooner that I could have spared my friends from this I think part of me was trying to rationalize his behavior which is why I didn't make a report at first I thought maybe it was fine since I'm almost 18 anyways but knowing that he's been behaving like this with my friends going as far back as when one of them was 15 is just disgusting I was being stupid before I realize now how horrible he really is I've spent a lot of time with Lucy since trying to make sure she's okay I'm not sure it really sunk in for her what happened until she told us about it we all agreed to make reports with the police after that which we have done now right now I'm kind of just waiting to see what happens and praying that he gets arrested sorry if that's kind of a rushed recap but the last part makes me quite uncomfortable to talk about I'm happy to answer any questions people have but mostly I'm looking for more advice now so I guess now I have some new questions mainly being how do I go forward with my Mom I'd love nothing more than to have her back in my life but I'm just not ready to act like nothing happened how can I support my friend through dealing with what happened to her and how should I prepare myself and my friends in the event Steve does get arrested final update hi so first things first I'm really sorry it's taken me so long to post anything I want to thank everyone who reached out to me in past six months offering support and wanting to know how I'm doing I'm okay kind of a lots happened and at first I didn't want to dwell on anything but just get on with my life I felt like I owe it to everyone to give a final update but the thought of writing everything out really intimidated me I kept worrying that I wouldn't write enough or that I'd miss things out but I've had enough time that I'm comfortable now this won't be super lengthy but I think I'll have hit all the major points also I don't know [ __ ] about law so prepare for some potential inaccuracies in my terminology I've rambled enough on to the [ __ ] you actually care about about 5 months ago my aunt went on one of her work trips in a brief conversation with my mom I was stupid and let it slip she wasn't around she must have mentioned this to Steve because at like 10: p.m. the same night he showed up to my aunt's house once I realized it was him on the other side of the door I wouldn't open it but he refused to leave he was speaking to me through the front door begging that we sit down have a drink and just talk about all this there was no way in hell I was about to let him into my house when I was by myself so after almost 2 hours of telling him to [ __ ] off I ended up phoning the police I told them my stepfather was at my house and refusing to leave insisting he' be led inside that I was concerned for my safety I also reminded them of the reports my friends and I had made previously they came and escorted him away but he was quite agitated and i' mentioned I was worried he'd hurt me so they searched him he had roipnol on him at this point it was pretty easy to assume he had planned to ruy me I also asked them to look at the messages he'd sent to my friends on his phone which is when they also found an album of pictures of me these were pictures I had taken from my boyfriend when I was 156 he had somehow stolen them off my phone he was arrested for possession of child porn at this point I went fully no contact with my mom other than he's sending me updates on what was happening he had his trial like a month ago and plead guilty to possession of CP he was charged with that and a few other things that I can't remember the terms for but the important thing is he's been sentenced to 8 years in prison my aunt's been amazing this whole time though I've turned 18 now so don't need a legal guardian but I'd like it if she became mine I've not spoken to my mom since she told me he'd been sent to jail I get regular texts from her and it's obio she wants to repair our relationship and knows she's in the wrong but I don't think I can ever trust her again I'm sorry this was kind of brief after such a long time I'll be around all day to answer any questions if you have any or I missed anything fingers crossed I never need to post on this sub again
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a it for telling my sister-in-law I won't dress modestly around her husband I 33f have been married to my husband 33m for 4 years one year ago I had my daughter when I was a teenager I had been sexually assaulted by a family friend multiple times this has left me with a lot of complex feeling about my body my abuser told my parents that the abuse was my fault because I dressed around him he was 40s and I was 14 for years I would only wear baggy clothes and not do my hair and makeup I've gotten some therapy and worked hard to overcome these feelings of self-blame but being pregnant and having a baby messed with my body image a bit I've been working out a lot and I'm really liking my body currently it feels very freeing my sill 29f knows all about my past abuse and my issues with blaming myself and my teenage clothes for my abuse she is married to my bill 30m and the four of us have always gotten along we are going on a trip with my husband's parents my bill and S and their two boys 8 and 6m my S texted me and asked me to not bring any bikinis because she had two young boys I thought this was weird but I told her that I wouldn't if that was important to her
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for not trying to make my stepdaughter's son that I raised like her hi I'm 54 I married my husband when he was 41 and I was 38 he had a 12-year-old daughter who I got along with well but we were never very close because she visited her mom often I'll call her Tina when Tina was 16 my husband passed away suddenly she could have gone and lived with her mom but her mom lives a few hours away and she would have had to switch schools in her junior year so she decided to just stay at home with me we did become closer then as we had to get through this together but she still didn't think of me as a mom which I totally understand Tina was planning to go to medical school but she got pregnant in her senior year she wasn't even dating the guy as far as I know she got drunk and it happened she pushed through and graduated on time though but then once her son was born she asked me if I would take care of him so she could go to medical school I didn't even think it a burden because when I was younger I couldn't have a child of my own and I was happy to have the chance to raise one so she moved States and went to college and first I was calling her weekly to tell her what was going on on with her child but she never called and slowly I stopped calling she never called on her own or seemed to show any interest when I told her she just listened politely but I got the sense that she was just moving on in life and not really thinking about her son I still called her every few months for the first few years but then that faded too now her son is nine she just finished the eight years of med school I think of her son as mine and he calls me grandma even though we're not biologically related about his real parents I told him that everyone has two sets of parents the ones that cre created the baby he was and the ones that helped create the adult he would be I said that for some people these were the same and for some people they weren't I didn't want to straight up tell him his mom didn't care but I also didn't want to lie he accepted this even though the lack of real parents obviously had an impact recently Tina reached out saying she wants to get to know her son she came to visit and stayed for a few days it was so incredibly awkward I told my son she would be coming and when she came she asked him if he knew who she was he said yes you gave birth to me but you're not my real mom then he basically ignored her the whole time she was really angry with me and accused me of turning him against her and I don't know if I should have done something differently
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